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note from previous thread: >As an added note, don't infight ITT. It's one thing to comment on an anon's post, but it's another to try and start infighting with an anon by replying with a snarky response (ex. "what did you expect to happen anon?") "that doesn't happen"
>just let anon vent, if you want to be a nitpicky bitch head over to /pt/ or /snow/. no1currs about your shitty input.
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I'm due to have my birth control implant taken out soon and I just read stories of some ladies that have had such a hard time cause the implant was hard to find, or fused into the muscle, or the scar tissue from the first removal got caught on it, and it left nasty scars. So now I'm screaming inside and questioning on if I can really count on this as my forever BC or just crawl back to pills until I can get my tubes tied.
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When you do make sure you use this
They’re disgusting. I cringe whenever they say anything about a child. The left in general loves to use children as a way to patronise their opposers, but the reason kids don’t care about trannies in the women’s toilets etc is because a) they’re too innocent to understand the implications
B) they are governed by their emotions, making them the perfect vessel for indoctrination and emotional manipulation
My father is so male that he can only speak if someone else is in the middle of a sentence. He is so male that his sense of hearing does not function unless the other person is speaking directly to him and about him. He is incapable of reacting to anything that isn't about himself. He is always right about every single little thing that he says, even though, 99% of the time he has no clue and comes off as an idiot who read the headline of the article only and acts like an expert on the story. He's a mean bully and grossly insensitive and tactless when it comes to women. Whenever one does something that suggests he isn't as factually correct and intelligent as he strives off to portray himself, he either insinuates that she is emotional, needlessly aggressive, or he sulks like a child. Which is what he is. A little boy, playing around with the big kids at his corporate job, going on bike trips, acting like he's a frat boy. Always has some stupid, unfunny joke or dumbass comment to make. His feeble attempts at being useful must be appreciated with praise, or else he will throw his toys out because he physically cannot try harder. He deserves the cunt he married and I hope they stay together forever and never bring themselves upon anyone else. When I was younger, I thought he was better than my mom, because he left me alone. Yes, really, being an absent father figure is at the top of his achievement list. I will be applaud you, dad, but I'm not coming to your house anymore. I hope that thing falls to pieces. Nothing but bad memories in there. You can all go to hell without me. I'll find you a good nursing home when you drive each other insane in old age and then I'll never fucking visit.
The amount of middle aged men that I am stuck interacting with in work daily that have this 'everything is a conspiracy built against men like me' mindset. Like please address your depression and stop making out like the whole world is fucked up and you're so woke for somehow having it all figured out.
Your head is fucked, sir. And you suck the life out of every person you talk to.
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holy shit this is giving me second hand embarassment
we should start a CC milk cringe thread
I've seen way too many examples of customers at the top of the queue pulling down their mask in order to cough and then putting it back on post cough and I just cannot understand the thought process. Why do they think we wear them in the first place? Why do they think you can't cough into it?
Mostly it's heavy smokers who are coming in to buy more cigs so I pray that's the cause of the coughing. I hate it.
Sorry about your situation anon
Right now it’s the only thing he talks about so it’s not even funny anymore. He only watch these eternal videos which of course show proof of what he wants to believe & see. Also as some of you said, he feels like a victim
ALL THE TIME. He mops and mourns and is always in this cranky mood because he thinks some worldwide change is happening and he can’t do anything about it? So of course he complains and complains and tries to convince me of what I have to believe and think and this pisses me off so. Freaking. Much. I couldn’t care less about what he wants to believe but I just can’t deal with him trying to force his ideas into my mind. Just because he repeats it time after time won’t change a single thing, quite the opposite tbh.
I remember getting into david icke type conspiracies as a mentally ill reclusive teen. I even dated a way worse conspiracy theorist than myself for a while. He was a little too far gone and never came out of it. I remember around 2008 reading about how we were all 5 years away from having microchips implanted in our hands, bank cards would be gone and we'd scan our own hands everywhere to access anything we needed. If you pissed off the government they'd disable your access to funds through 'switching off your chip' and then you'd be fucked.
None of it happened lol. You could reach and say that banks are upgrading systems all the time (my ex still insists shit is always around the corner) It's a miserable way to think and it has been eating him up for 15 years with no signs of it happening for real. Their timelines are always way off and some people just keep waiting for the day predictions come true. Just give it ten more years… oh wait another ten. Trust me guys it's totally coming. I caught up with him lately and fuck me it's like time stood still. The perceived victimhood is the worst part.
My sister has a stereotypical untrained yappy chihuahua. She doesn't understand the concept of training or rewarding certain behavior whatsoever so the dog is just allowed to whine and cry and bark all day as she always gives into petting and treats. Now she's complaining about how her neighbors "dont like dogs" because they've complained to her about the barking. It angers me to no end because half of her neighbors also have dogs, who are just well-trained enough to not bark their heads off all day. They don't hate dogs. >>711353
If it helps at all I was worried about the same thing but got mine taken out in less than 5 minutes, no pain or anything. If you can still feel it on the surface of your muscle you're good.
There literally is no such thing as a "good" or "bad" pussy – unless you really neglect its hygiene I can guarantee you theres a 99% chance that the scrotes judging your (lovely) pussy are salty incels.>>711687
Actually it can be useful to do before pregnancy to strengthen your pelvic floor – other than that, dont do kegels for being better at sex lmao
It's horrid. I am glad I'm not alone, but it's sad that it hasn't ended for you. Has anything helped you with your depression or is it truly just… trudging through the minutes until something takes you? Also, do you (/ anyone else) ever have those moments where you feel like you've hit a fight or flight moment and you just sit there certain that you're going to drop down dead and it feels like you're staring down the barrel of a gun or an angry bear about to maul you? I had that while taking a depression walk in the middle of the night, it may have been my first (and thankfully only) panic attack. >>711665
I appreciate you and your optimism, but can we really say that now? I remember in one of my last therapy sessions, my therapist started venting to me about her climate anxieties, and about how she felt hopeless in the face of it all. The world is in dire straights. Sometimes, I'm thankful for depression, because it's less scary to think about myself dying than the entire world slowly boiling and drowning.
I had an ex with a thing for fisting, stretching, gape (both vaginal and anal, both giving and receiving!) I don't think I'll ever be able to fulfill that fantasy for anyone but would love to see men like him represented in these articles lmao
Lets not take mens preferences too seriously
My father is the opposite (as in the only thing he knows is talk shit about other people and deflect), but> I thought he was better than my mom, because he left me alone.
Top kek. I relate
Thanks, anon. I’m really considering it. To add more details bc vent:
I thought he was meeting up with a married couple every once in a while (he has been meeting up with them plus another chick, other chicks husband was the one who tested positive)
He tried to say he trusted married couple when they invited her over after they’d quarantined (he willingly met up with someone who’d been exposed but not tested, and didn’t think to ask questions?)
He tried to say the husband wasn’t there like that makes it fucking better
…he’s always lacked critical thinking but this is the first time I’ve been put in the line of fire because of it. He’s straight up dumb and short sighted.
ayrt. how long have you guys been dating? u seem like a responsible woman with common sense, idk how u can date someone like him.. seriously, wtf @ him willingly
meeting up with someone who is exposed to the virus? in a lot of countries you have to stay away from ppl who have been exposed to the virus even tho they have tested negative(because they have to quarantine for 7-14 days).
It was a year at the end of October.
I’m asking myself the same question. There’s always been a disparity in maturity between the two of us, however, I never thought he’d be so careless with this- he does have a malicious bone in his body he’s just… dumb. Anon, I don’t know if he was trying to make himself look better by adding the details I just wrote above, or if he was coming clean, but it made me see red and consider blocking him. I think he’s shitting his pants rn because I’ve been stern in the past but never outright livid towards him.
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my mom is too focused on her new boyfie she met online that always tries to pressure her into phone sex but it's ok because he makes ~art~ and his son just killed himself so he "needs to release things" like fucking sperm i guess and talking to me for over 20 minutes on how he's the most perfect man in the world even though they just met rather than helping me get through rape trauma kek. doesn't help she told my crazy aunt about it without my permission and she yelled at me for being upset cause she doesn't wanna go through this pain alone or something.
my therapist that i've known for years left recently without anybody telling me so now i have to tell a random stranger about my trauma if the company can even find me one again. love my life. pls come laugh at me i feel like i'm in a stupid fucking dark sitcom.
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Zoom university again tomorrow and I'm not ready. I needed a longer break.
i thought i was the only one that was like ???? when my therapist disappeared. she's seen me go through so much and i know she would have the right words to say about this situation because she doesn't sugar coat shit.
i'm just afraid i'm going get a new therapist and they're going to just tell me to communicate or something… like i've been trying. thank you, anon.
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Really wish I didn't still have such a completely fucked up relationship with my body & appearance that a minor comment can upset me. I'm too old for this shit.
Now I just keep thinking about how fucking fat I've gotten in the last few years, It's all my damn fault. Plus how ugly my body just is in general
They're women, anon. >>711948
The Fakeboi thread has a lot of FTMs lurking there just to shit on fakebois that aren't ~trans enough~. Their spergery knows no bounds.
>>711949>Really wish I didn't still have such a completely fucked up relationship with my body & appearance that a minor comment can upset me. I'm too old for this shit.
as a fellow bdd-chan i feel this way too hard and it fucking sucks, i've unironically considered roping over offhanded comments people have made about my appearance
as for the weight don't be too hard on yourself, take some steps towards getting fit but don't do it solely with appearance in mind, you know? make sure you're also doing it for your health
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For the first time in my entire life, I'm going on a date. In 8 hours. I'm a nervous fucking wreck. I took a long shower, shaved my legs for once, did my hair, did my nails, going to do my makeup and dress nice.. but I worry I'll be too ugly still or too awkward no matter how hard I try to look nice. This guy is way too cute for me to fuck this shit up, but I'm such an awkward retard who can barely put a sentence together that I feel like it's gonna be awful and I'll ruin everything. And I keep worrying like, what if it's really awkward? What if I don't know what to say or do? If it doesn't work out and we end up having no chemistry I don't mind, but actually being face to face with him to decide that is kind of terrifying. We already spoke on the phone and it wasn't weird or awkward at all, but meeting in person is scary as I'm terrible at talking. All I want is a casual boyfriend not a marriage partner so it's nothing serious but my fucking anxiety is going mad. I wanna cry, I can't even sleep like this.
My friend applied to grad school to get a Master’s degree boasting about how much money she’d make after she graduated and trying to encourage me to do the same so I wouldn’t be stuck at my dead end job. I told her that I couldn’t handle going back to school and would instead focus on my career. Fast forward three years and I’m long moved on from that horrible job, making 120k (so my student loans are gone in the next two years), on track for a promotion, and will be relocating to my dream city. She graduated during a pandemic, can’t even find internships, has so much student loan debt to pay off, and is moving back in with her family. I have told her to just lean on me and use me as a referral because I can get her something, but she really wants to stick to her field. I can tell she’s getting frustrated talking to me because she did things “right” and I didn’t, but it’s working out for me and not her. I keep telling her to be patient and that it’ll work out but obviously who wants to hear that? She wants a fix now and I get it because that’s where I was just a few years ago. This whole situation is putting a huge strain on our friendship and I honestly do not blame her for not wanting to talk to me as much anymore because I would feel the exact same way, I will shamelessly admit that. I just wish she wasn’t so stubborn and would take me help or at least apply outside of her dream jobs. My first job sure as fuck wasn’t my dream job, but you keep hopping companies and jobs and pulling yourself closer. I know she knows this and just isn’t wanting to admit it, but you’re like girl the clock is ticking and you don’t even have a job or the money saved to make minimum payments on those loans! Fuck the grad school meme. It takes great people with so much potential and robs them and throws them out into the real world with nothing.
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That is what an apex predator does. Do you think lions ever defeat flies? Or hyenas? No. The most powerful animals in the world are always riddled with parasites, and parasites always latch onto the powerful. The fact that so many inferior creatures want to build an ecosystem in you/around your environment just makes your power akin to that of a barnacle ridden whale
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I'm 100% gonna take more time to graduate than the original plan and I can do nothing to change this, I'm in pain I don't want to be yet another rotting graduate to-be.
Think I posted about this before but as a gay woman (and a fairly tomboyish one too) I've had a handful of interactions irl where if I'm the only woman in the group men will openly talk about that stuff in front of me thinking I'm cool with it.
"once she gets her first period she should be legal, age of consent laws are bullshit and should be replaced with that rule instead"
Anonymous now No. 712074
I will likely never get over the bullying I recived in highschool, even now that I'm outwardly normal and even successful to most outsiders, I have a decent Job and I'm married to a incredible man who takes care of all my needs, were even planning on having kids at some point
But I still find myself unable to get over the trauma I received as a kid, the racism and constant humiliation by everyone, white girls, black girls, white boys, black boys all seemed to be united in how they all liked making fun of me, I was a wierd, then undiagnosed slightly autistic black girl, the odds were never in my favor I guess, I even once attempted suicide by trying to overdose on pain killers, I ended up leaving school due to the bullying but by then the trauma was deep rotted
I find myself unable to connect with anyone really, sometimes even my husband(but its usually when he's dealing with his own trauma) but there are days when I'm alone and I feel no one really loves me, that my husband is only with me cause of pity, that my parents wishes I was never born and that I don't deserve to be loved, I don't wanna die but I wish I never exsisted cause of how pathetic I am
I'm also always embarrassed that anyone discovers the stuff I actually like, mostly cartoons, anime, comics and manga, other then this site I don't ever wanna admit that I'm a grown woman who watches exclusively Cartoons meant for children
Idk, anon. Kinda sounds like she is upset that you didn't "fail".
Also what do you do? I'm stuck in manufacturing and i want to work up to something around 100k
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I know this seems like a strange thing to vent about, but I've been reading stories from parents whose children have ROGD, and it made me realize how much I love my mom and how lucky I am that I never developed ROGD.
The kids in those stories were so much like me it's scary. Depression, anxiety, not fitting in, being nerdy, not being conventionally attractive, divorced parents, and way too much time on the internet. Why they ended up that way and I didn't, I'll never know. I came extremely close to getting sucked in, too. When I was fourteen, I cut off all my hair, wore loose clothes, and didn't correct strangers who thought I was a boy. Somehow I just grew out of it, though, and today I'm just an ordinary woman.
I think the big difference might have been my mom and my brother. They're both brilliant people who were there for me when no one else was. Maybe having them in my life prevented me from getting groomed online like so many other outcast girls. My family members aren't perfect people– mom's a martyr, dad's a manchild, and my brother is honestly an asshole sometimes. But Christ, I'm so glad to have them in my life, putting up with my shit and supporting me. If you're ever having a shitty day, just remember that your parents at least loved you enough to keep you from cutting your tits off.
Were they Hoteps ? I've encountered a couple of them, they are fucking insane
They believe periods are unnatural and caused by spiritual uncleanness and that monogymy and women's rights were all invented by the white man to destroy and enslave the black race and that black people should enter polygamist relationships
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Plus there's no buffer anymore. Ten to fifteen years ago, the first things kids used on the internet were platforms specifically designed for children, like Neopets or Club Penguin. Now, kids younger than ten are being dropped into adult social media sites like Twitter and TikTok with no guardrails in place. They're sitting ducks for groomers. I know the "pedophiles online" concern seemed hysterical ten years ago, but it's an actual problem now that child-safe networking is basically no longer a thing. Why are parents suddenly so nonchalant at the prospect of their kids being groomed by pedophiles? It didn't cease to be a problem simply because people stopped caring. Frankly I wouldn't let any child under 12 use the internet outside of school even today (especially today.)
ROGD is basically just one subset of a much larger issue with online grooming. Seems like most of the women you meet online have been subject to at least one type of grooming in the past, be it DDLG sickos, "sugar daddies," pedophiles, or the gender cult. This is particularly common among people for whom the internet is their only social outlet (which is a problem in and of itself.)
I hope not but I’m no saint, I think I could empathize if that was the case.
I am a technical writer. I write the manuals you throw away or don’t read. There’s a lot of legal liability stuff involved, so if you’re someone who gets it right the first time and catches other people’s mistakes, consider this field. I just have a BA in English so you don’t need a specific degree, just some writing samples. My number one piece of advice is fuck small businesses. Corporate will take care of you and they’re both soulless in the end, but you get your soul back after 5PM so it’s okay.
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My life is so fucking shit at the moment, so restricted and dull and hopeless, home all day not allowed to do this or that or go anywhere no jobs I can get can’t find place to live, only talk to my parents and counsellors and doctors,I’m living life like a sex offender out on parole I want to rope so fucking bad out of sheer boredoms
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My mother is never satisfied with my eating habits and it's driving me up the wall.
I go downstairs for a snack or to finish leftovers before they spoil? "oh you're down here to eat again…"
I don't finish a meal/I don't put a lot on my plate/she has to throw away said leftovers? "What's the point of me cooking food for you if you're not going to eat it"
I'd kind of get it if I was overweight, but I'm not.
Fuck them hoes. Have you noticed how today’s Twitter sec workers simply HATE other women? They constantly shit on women via the internet, “cancel” them and think they’re better than women whom they perceive to be less attractive. I just think it’s funny how they always copium by saying any criticism from other women is “jealousy” because they will “steal your man” (more like distract him for the evening, cost him a few quid and help install a sense of shame) but their entire livelihood is based on their looks and their market value, and they compete with other SW, wives and girlfriends for their bread and butter. They have got to be the most jealous and insecure women in the world. In the end, sugar daddies will kill and bury their 19 year old mistresses in favour of their middle aged, morally upright and competent wives finding out, because they don’t respect them.
I feel for women making onlyfans in order to survive during the pandemic, but the idiots who think it’s something to celebrate and a “livelihood” are an embarrassment to women, and are letting us all down.
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>want to inform /cgl/-user that their dream dress (but in a different colourway) is on rakuten
>can't because IP is banned but I didn't go against the rules
This, but with posting images on /vg/
The joys of living near a university campus
I have never
seen a sex worker who wasn't a mentally ill wreck. They always have a myriad of disorders and resort to sex work because they don't have self control or self respect and are addicted to external validation and short dopamine shots. Nobody can ever convince me that people who do sex work can be stable, healthy people doing it out of their free will. Degrading yourself for a few bucks just isn't something a sound mind does for a living. They should seek help and stop with the "at least I'm not pouring lattes" copium.
I can somehow understand desperate women selling nudes with a fake name and their face cropped out to make ends meet in a bad situation but the people who create a whole ass persona around proudly whoring are despicable. They're the entitled cunts who screech about Pornhub being against sex workers because they were pressured to create better moderation to combat child/rape porn.
a few years back my friend told everybody at my school about me trying to end my own life resulting in me having to leave so seeing her drop out of school for her failed onlyfans and leaked nudes kinda makes me laugh.
especially since she's trying to encourage others to do the same on her accounts because she's on a sinking boat, kek.
Nta but I didn’t know, whenever I go to a dermatologist which is basically every few years
and tell them that I’ve been getting new moles way too quickly they just gaze at them and then basically tell me>don’t worry, you’re just exaggerating.
It’s only too late when you’re dead. Get them checked out.
I don’t know if this will help so won’t post a pic, but in the meantime you could do an ABCDE mole assessment yourself if that would make you feel better? It’s a way of helping to determine if the mole is cancerous, idk though that might make you feel worse.
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I only recently had to get a suspect mole surgically removed. It had most signs of a fishy mole (irregular shape, more than one color, grew with time), and sure enough, after they did a tissue analysis they found that it had a higher risk of becoming a melanoma. So check if you have those symptoms and definitely go to a doctor if you do. Better do a super easy surgery now than end up with cancer
Nta but I see posts on here about annual gyno, annual general check up, 6 monthly dentist check ups.. that shit varies so much to how some countries handle health care. Part of me wants that normalised where I am but docs here would actually get pissed with you if you showed up without a very valid
and pressing issue.
I don't, but part of the issue is I've moved several times and keep having to switch clinics, so I've never had a regular dermatologist. I also have bottom of the barrel insurance so I can't even choose my own specialists. You guys are right though, I'm going to schedule an appointment today with my GP for a referral at least (which will take weeks to go through because this is America and who cares if the poor die lmao)>>712364
I've had this problem too. Derms will only remove a mole if they
think it's suspicious, which is weird because I have a ton of atypical moles with many colors they they claim are fine? Like, can't you just take it off so that it doesn't become cancerous down the line and I can stop worrying about it? Pretty much the only thing that helps me a little bit with this is that I don't have a family history of melanoma.>>712369>but in the meantime you could do an ABCDE mole assessment
Yeah, I've done that. Problem is I have a ton of moles that are technically atypical even though they aren't cancerous. I keep a close eye on those but they don't seem to have changed from what I can tell. It's more the fact that they have a higher likelihood of becoming cancerous that bothers me, and sometimes I can get so anxious that I'll convince myself there's something wrong, or it's changed when it hasn't. It really does seem to be better for me not to fixate on them and just let professionals deal with it, but I don't trust professionals either because of all the horror stories I've read about multiple doctors missing cancer in patients who either ended up dying, or were in late stages by the time they were actually listened to and diagnosed.
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Medicare is so fucking complicated. I love having to be on hold for an hour just to have one question answered because they’re abysmally understaffed. I’m so close to just cancelling my health insurance because this is too fucking much.
I'm the anon you're responding to and tbh I get them because my mom had melanoma. I go to the gyno too but no normal doctor. We have national healthcare but I don't know how it works yet because I'm a womanchild and my parents do everything
, real world things are so complicated.
Just walk away for the time being and come back to it later.
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FUCK, it's happening. I should've known a disgusting Japanese male pedophile would make this a thing in 2021. Is there another country more full of pedos than Japan? Why are the men there so degenerate and terrible? Is it their miniscule, tiny, barely functioning micropeens? I'll never forgive Rumiko for being complicit in this.
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Yashahime is a spinoff that Rumiko didn't write but designed characters for.
I waited for an hour on hold and the phone hung up lol!! I guess the only question you’d be able to answer would be:
What is Covered California and MyBenefitsCalWin in relation to Medi-Cal? I just don’t get what and why they are.
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AAAAAAAAAH I HATE MY LIFE AND I HATE MYSELF FUCK EVERYTHING!!!!!
I hate being chronically ill. I'm a really cheerful person but it hits you like a ton of bricks.
I've had people I couldn't date because I just can't get out of the house to see them. I have to now take all my long term partner goals to who will be willing to be with someone who lives with family members who help take care of her. It shit because I don't want to make a girl my caretaker…
On top of that my medication is like $250 a month because i live in burgerland and haha fuck disabled people.
I also have been having trouble losing weight because exercising isn't easy anymore… I used to be able too but with disease progression its a no now.>>711374
Do it anon!
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Why do I miss people who treated me like shit? Why can't I just be happy they're not in my life anymore and move on?
Awful I didn’t know that was canon wtf
Also, I’m sorry about your past anon, but I hope you’re doing well now, regardless of how much you feel you have or haven’t grown from it.
Ngl anon this is high key funny because hes being a pissbaby over something thats his fault.
Does he hate the way he looks or something?
We live together and I can't reasonably afford rent while in school without him, so it looks like I'm stuck until at least the summer. It's so fucking weird tho. >>712486
idk he's so sensitive, he literally stormed out of the living room to go block me. The tweet had nothing to do with his looks tho, it was just some tweet about a mutual friend
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I thought my sister’s brand new baby, first grandbaby to my mother, would keep her from bugging me about children, but the kid is literally a week old today and she asked when she can expect one from me. I never should have told her about my boyfriend.
I specifically chose a major that I would need more than a bachelor's for and I brag about it all the time.
5 years later, I've taught English in Thailand and I'm on my 3rd post college job paying me 62k a year from home. And they're literally begging me to stay another year.
Last summer I was asked to apply to Facebook and reached the 3rd interview stage. I've gotten a pretty good ROI on my major.
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This armie hammer stuff reminded me of the dude i was having a stupid online relationshit when i was 17 he was fucking 27, they are always 27. I wish I still had the skype logs, he wanted me to murder him and he wanted to eat himself? He was one of those coomers who faked depression the second you started putting two and two together and wanted nudes which I thankfully never gave, besides some cleavage stuff you could post anywhere. He was a mutual friend and started out pretty normal but kinda cringe but the fact that I am now almost the age he was back then…bro, what the fuck? What the absolute fuck was wrong with his ugly ass, thank god I hurt his ego badly enough that he blocked me everywhere but wow, that should have damaged me more than it did now that think about it. Now I just find it funny and absurd, thank fucking heavens I never sent or told him incriminating stuff.
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Lmao as an "older single woman" I've received over 1k likes on the dating app I'm on in under 5 days with men stumbling over themselves to connect with me but please continue telling this gal she's silly for thinking dick is abundant and low value. Also why would you think a grown ass woman would want to waste her time on a man who prefers a naive child he can manipulate over someone his own age who knows her worth in the first place? If they weed themselves out all the better. Don't infect others with your pickmeism.
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My hair needs to grow. Like a s a p.
That Thailand experience sounds amazing. I do wish there was more traveling in my job, but we're completely WFH right now and might be forever. I'm not a manager, but I am senior level. I can manage myself and no one else ha. I have a lot of general tips, so I'll list them out in no particular order and hope this doesn't get too wordy.
If you want a dramatic raise, the best way to do it is to get a new role. This usually happens to be at a new company. 1-3 years is a good tenure before moving onto your next role. Once you're in a company you'd consider a dream company*, you can relax there for longer. Just don't be one of those people who works 25 years at a company, gets laid off, and can never get back on their feet again.
For getting that bigger salary, learn to negotiate. My trick is just getting friendly with the recruiter. For this role, I had a good hour long chat about nothing work related at all before we got back to the conversation of salary. He then gave me the max number. A lot of times, companies will hide this number hoping you'll ask for something under it. I would normally suggest researching in Blind/Glassdoor, but the team I work on in my company was too new for me to find that info. If you have that info, be ballsy. I'd say if you're a 75% fit and they've got you on the phone, they're at least decently interested. Ask for something on the higher end. Fuck it, ask for the highest number and see what happens. Women devalue themselves thinking they're not a good enough fit for the high end, but realize that men constantly ask for what they want AND they get it. You're just as good as them.
Your company probably offers free training. Use it. Add it to your resume. Keep your resume updated so you're not trying to remember what you've been doing when you're actually trying to apply to jobs. You would be shocked what sort of stuff ends up being a huge addition to your salary. Hot things you can learn tonight are Agile project management, HTML, and UX essentials.
Soft skills are everything. Being a good performer isn't enough when everyone at the company is a good performer. Be a breath of fresh air, speak with a smile in your voice, make yourself open to helping others, be your manager's favorite, get to actually know the people on your team (in a professional sense- don't get too chummy). Being the office favorite will get you a promotion even if the other person is slightly better.
*Good company varies from person to person. My idea of a good company might not be yours. I work in big tech. This is my jam. I love being in a huge company, organized chaos, constant projects. The crunch gives me LIFE. For someone with two under two, this is probably a nightmare company. That person might prefer a company with great parental benefits, a more relaxed work environment, maybe a company with a more even female/male ratio so they're not the only mom on their team, etc. There are lots of high paying jobs in different types of companies, and many large companies do have a relaxed work culture. You don't have to stick to a certain type.
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Kind of want to go back to dating sites kind of don't want to bother with the shit.
I have mostly nothing to offer: no good job, no car, no own place, no education and can't make connections with people for shit.
I'm lonely right now since I've been alone in the office for the last 6 months or so and I don't have any old friends or anyone to reach out to. Thanks to fucking covid the gyms are closed and other group activities so eh. We even got snow now so that's like an extra fuck you on top of everything.
Great info, thanks. It's good to know I do a lot of this stuff already. Also good to know that I can be a senior writer with senior pay without having to manage people. Great spot to be in.
On traveling, don't bother waiting for a job that lets you do it. It will still feel like work, because it is. Just fuck off and do it on your own terms. But I did that before my career. I'm sure it's harder to do after.
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>Friend raves about food all day
>Turns out she buys meat from the supermarket like a fucking poorfag
>Has never spent more than $100 for a single dish at a restaurant.
I fucking hate faux-foodies so goddamn much
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I lied and told work I was having a family emergency in order to request today off.
My 20 year old cousin and her dog are coming to stay in my two bedroom apartment from today until next Tuesday because her family has covid and she can't return home until they're clear. I rent with my dad and my bf stays here almost every day.
I never have space or alone time for myself as it is. So I took today off because I know I'm going to feel absolutely smothered from this point out. I head out to work at 7am and then don't get home until almost 6pm, and now the 4 hours I usually occupy with downtime before I go to bed will be for entertaining. Oh and as usual my dad didn't lift a finger to help me clean over the weekend so I will spend most of today taking down xmas decorations and arranging the living room where she'll be sleeping. She's also a junk food vegetarian so there's a bunch of instant shit my dad bought and stowed up for her in the freezer space, where I now cannot store my meal prep for work. And I'll feel weird cooking meat for myself because it will inherently exclude her so I will feel rude.
I don't even know what time she's supposed to be coming today. It's a mystery. I feel exhausted already.
A Hungarian writing this is peak irony but asking if someone is ok with gay people isn't religious discrimination. Why would she accept someone who might shit on her? Like >>712822
says they can go fuck themselves.
Actually I didn't even ask how old she was. 30? 40? 50? Completely different reception based on age. Obviously if you can keep yourself in shape you will fair better in the dating market, but age always catches up eventually.
Be positive, but don't be delusional.
Luck is always a factor, but she's above junior level. Read her post.
This is the kind of pay that is possible for creating documentation in certain niches and sub-niches, especially tech. And especially in the biggest cities.
I started in software tech and right now I'm a technical editor for a medical diagnostics company, although they still call me a writer
Now read her other post where she says she's senior level now. I was being contacted for mid-senior positions barely 3 years into my first TW
Drown your sadness and frustration with money. That's what I do.
However you feel at this job, being poor is worse imo lol
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I've genuinely been productive and busy at work all day and still not managed to complete any of my main tasks. People need to stop asking me retarded questions/giving me things to do because I already have things to do fml.
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why tampons and pads cost money will always confuse me .. like oh im sorry i bleed every month let me pay you for the right to not stain your shit. fuck off
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I rewatched that one 'cat jumps from burning house' video that everyone got recommended a few weeks ago. it was part of a playlist about cats jumping from building, so immediately after the video ended, another video played- but the next video was about a cat falling to it's death
I have 2 cats that I love, and seeing that cat die and imagining something similar happening to my cats, like being killed in a housefire or falling to it's death, (as overly-sensitive it may seem) made me cry
unrelated to your post but I read it in h jon benjamin's voice and it amused me
hope your day gets a bit better
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Someone in Florida either wrote or carved Trump into the back of a manatee, and it makes me seriously sick. How barbaric, sick and crazy do you have to be to involve fucking sea animals in your politics. I just hope it was done with algae or marker and not carved into his skin.
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I think I am going mental because I’m spooked about big tech censorship acting above government and everyone I know is like “not here, that’s hamburger problem”, “ha orange man make vampire freaks account” and because all of my friends are lefties I’m feeling an even bigger disconnect because they can only see it from a good riddance Trump perspective. I feel its a very important issue on a global scale, not about left or right politics, but for the future of where these big tech giant monopolies are going to take us. They are able to push any narrative they want by banning accounts and nuking websites, and now with a pandemic the public are becoming more and more reliant on the internet. There is nothing stopping these tech giants in the future creating echo chambers and brainwashing people to vote certain ways in the future to benefit themselves. I feel like a flat earther rn and I want 7 crates of tinfoil.
>>713041>There is nothing stopping these tech giants in the future creating echo chambers and brainwashing people to vote certain ways in the future to benefit themselves
That's already happened and is happening. Remember Cambridge Analytica?
This woman wrote a really insightful book called The Age Of Surveillance Capitalism that's not tinfoily at all, this is a short documentary she did too. I was having the same instincts as you and read the book. Deleted all my social media too
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I'm tired of having impostor syndrome. No matter what I do or how well I do stuff I always credit it to luck or coincidence or w/e. I recently took an exam and did better than most people, and yet I keep thinking that maybe they just lowered the difficulty of the test, or I was just lucky that it happened to ask questions about things I had actually studied beforehand. I don't know. I can't get it through my head that I'm not as mediocre as I think I am.
No anon, I totally agree anon. I support neither trump or biden. Not a leftie or a right winger. But it’s scary to know that those elites such as klaus Schwab and George soros and Elon musk and gates are working behind the scenes to censor people.
All of what is happening at the moment is to get people to take that vaccine. I truly believe it is.
Stop all free speech to silence people over the vaccine and make sure people get it. Full control of what they want people to see.
I believe the new world order is actually happening.
I wonder also how those twitter sex worker weebs will get on now? Especially the troons lol
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my dad has untreated schizophrenia so i am sympathetic but i hate it when he gets drunk or bold and starts bragging about all the women he's fucked, gotten pregnant, then left (if he's even telling the truth about that nonsense – i kind of doubt it, and i really hope he is lol).
i also wish he would stop smoking. i bought him a book that a lot of smokers have said helped them out (easyway to stop [sic]) but he won't even fucking read it. he always treats being retarded and rotting his lungs with cigs like it's a noble thing but it's stupid. i literally hate seeing him coughing all his shit up but still going for a smoke. wish i could go back in time and murder whoever invented the cig.
>>713062>>713038 also what is cc im retarded
leftwing faggot here but I do see the censorship levels going high. Not that it's not deserved sometimes but I've seen where dems HARDPUSH something like Hilary when Bernie was more popular and then later admit it on NPR like haha soz . I get banning fucking nonsense shit like Troompy "let us take over the government" stuff but you shouldn't be celebrating banning freezepeach because it will come back to haunt you.
Also capitalist control isn't that hard to figure out
>>713041>There is nothing stopping these tech giants in the future creating echo chambers and brainwashing people to vote certain ways in the future to benefit themselves.
It's been happening for years, anon. It wasn't until the 2016 elections that many social media sites such as Twitter didn't require high authentication such as connecting your personal phone number to your account to keep tabs on you and to allow only accepted opinions to be posted.
I'm not even a MAGAfaggot and I think Trump's ban was justified as he was agitating his incel army to riot but it isn't even about him, what could stop some other ideology taking over? Just as well they could start pushing shit like anti-abortion and easily manipulate the masses to make it the mainstream opinion. It's already seen with people opposing the medicalization of children, 4thwavenow getting banned for dumb excuses for raising awareness of ROGD for example.
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>>713041>There is nothing stopping these tech giants in the future creating echo chambers and brainwashing people to vote certain ways in the future to benefit themselves.
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Fuck your friend and fuck nazis, sympathizers, larpers, whatever. They’re all fags hitler would have killed anyways. Sorry, anon.
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A while ago, my mom found out that there was going to be a re-run of a soap opera that she watched many years ago. Of course she decided to watch it again and I hate it.
I remember how much I hated that series, almost all the characters are annoying but what always bothered me, even when I was younger and it aired the first time, is that the villian is unbearable. They always present her as some kind of evil mastermind that is able to get away with even the most cruel of things, but she is not, she is a moron and the only reason she has lived for so long it's because her mom and her simps keep saving her ass, she is so terrible at being a villian that when she was in a plan alone, the plan failed so badly that not even the child fell for it. Even the actress' face is incredibly punchable and I can't stand this series as a whole.
The airing of the series is right at the moment of our eating hour, and I have been hiding my discomfort and anger everytime my mom turns on the TV. I can't take it anymore, I'm just pretending to just be concentrated with eating but I seriously cannot stand it. She even turns the volume pretty high, and I'm the one closer to the TV, so I have to hear all the soap opera screaming right on my ear all the time.
I can't wait for the series to be over.
On a side note, I also hated the daugthers of the main woman, but at least I know that the younger one gets on an accident at some point, therefore she dissapears for a little bit. I'll have to keep standing the other one tho
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Back with fun updates: She's coughing up a storm and taking Nyquil but claims she had a sinus infection a week ago. Assured us the rapid test she took was negative.
I mean, great, but I don't want to get her sinus infection either! Bitch I gotta work.
Apparently her dad got released from the ER but he's still gotta quarantine. Which means she can't go home until next Friday.
Found out my dad volunteered to have her stay in our tiny apartment, not that she asked to. Because apparently his sister who lives 30 minutes away from us with a house and two guest bedrooms didn't feel she had to step up for this occasion at all.
And yeah this whole thing is as awkward as I predicted. I feel like I can't even go out to the kitchen to get a glass to drink because she's sleeping in the living room and I'm supposed to be in bed too. >>712838>>712854
Thank you anons. I just hope I don't get sick.
Same anon. I don't worry about "the wall" because my mother is still being swarmed by men despite being disabled and constantly in debt, she is also headstrong so it's not like they are even looking for a weak woman to do their chores. It makes me uncomfortable to watch younger waiters hit on her but I've got to respect her game kek
Unfortunately she still settles for mediocre men because she has been brainwashed into believing all the good men are gone and she's scared of dying alone. I hope when I'm older I can stay true to myself and embrace a solitary death instead of letting a substandard man into my home kek
Men are really sensitive to being laughed at. Just laugh in a light-hearted way and say something like "you sure love to play devil's advocate" then ask him to argue the opposite about stupid things like water being wet
Every time he does it in the future just laugh like it's an inside joke between you two and say "there you go again!"
If he gets mad respond that you're shocked it's not a joke, but then the next time go right back to "ok but you really must be pulling my leg this time"
Clowns deserve to be laughed at.
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i woke up feeling suicidal, which i haven't felt in a long time, but not in a depressed or sad way. more like an i want to rip my hair out and smash my head through a window way, is the best way i can describe it
I've discovered this shit just recently, he did a damn good job hiding it all these years and I thought he was being honest when he said he had a lower sex drive than mine.
I've checked his life, his relationships with other people and everything seems legit.
It is just… this.
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Ayrt and I lost my shit while reading this lol, this is such a good tactic. I usually try to laugh it off when I'm in an awkward situation, but with this I can use my coping mechanism to my advantage and slowly roast my puny, unsuspecting little moron of an opponent to a crisp. Thanks for the tip anon.
>>713368>tell my manager (who’s heavily pregnant) and she doesn’t give a flying fuck
care considering pregnancy can heighten the risk of developing more severe symptoms of covid. i'm sorry anon, hopefully you won't get sick again and your clown of a coworker will either quit or get fired.
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>>713379>b-b-but what about my rights>women have it sooo easy now
I wanna punch these kind of guys so hard. No jackass, we still dont have the same rights as men, not even in 1st world countries.
I just ask them two questions. Can you walk around at night without fear of being raped? And are you allowed to walk around alone in a country such as Saoudi-Arabia? Yes? Then shut up!
Scrotes have made us think standing up for our rights is being a "feminazi", it's just more oppression.
If it was men would lose because they are consistently the bigger pieces of shit, most destructive violent and entitled. Even in evil myrderous duos like Fred and Rose etc it’s the man comitting the bulk of the sadism while the woman revels in it. “Both genders have their issues” pisses me off because men are disproportionately more of a threat to women than vice versus.
We shouldn’t have to downplay our own threats and trauma just to make men feel better.
The fact that they think putting limits on their behaviour is a threat to their autonomy speaks volumes
>>713379> “woman in America who doesn't have the same fear of losing autonomy via institutionalization (jail) as men do.”
I’m not American, had no idea women couldn’t be jailed there! /s.
If only there was a simple way to avoid jail like… I don’t know, not committing crime? Wild idea, I know.
Women and girls get jailed for defending their autonomy against scrotes that want to use them as sex slaves, they get jailed for killing their rapist fathers, they get jailed for reporting gang rapes. As a woman in any country it’s a constant battle to keep your autonomy and integrity sage from rape/assault, abusive
men and sexist employers. Besides, carrying a WANTED pregnancy is not what destroys your autonomy but carrying the worthless genes of undesirable scrotes does.
What? How is that even a reply to what I said?
Being mad at me isnt gonna get you a gf, sweaty.
Do you eat fibre rich foods? I'd recommend eating lots of nuts, peanuts, wallnuts, cashew nuts, almonds. It works wonders for digestion and softer stools.
And of course, drink lots of liquid, water and tea specifically.
It’s cool anon, my mom and I got in a huge fight once because she insisted that me calling myself an incest survivor was disrespectful because I wasn’t assaulted by my parents. I had to then remind her that I have siblings. Not too long after, my dad, who did not understand why I was having panic attacks and nightmares, asked me during dinner if I was raped or just molested. Trying to figure out why they didnt know how to be sensitive was gonna send me to the nut hut so I had to stop wondering.
I hope you’re able to find a new therapist that works for you.
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I feel sick because I haven't slept enough and I can't sleep because I feel sick… what to do
I was once warned to integrate (not banned) for using "hecking valid
" in my post, although I thought it was clearly ironic within the context that expression was used. The irony is that if I used something like /s at the end of my post it would be as reddit as it can get. Mods are humans too so I don't take it to heart and you can always use proxies so no biggie.
The more I think about my history with my mom, the more I truly believe she should never have been allowed to have a kid. I remember calling the ambulance once at ~18, because I was suffering from severe chest pain – pain so bad I couldn't even walk around the house without a lot of limping, and this pain was 24 fucking 7 – and how she treated me like I was retarded for wanting to see someone.
Literally yelled me out of the house, yelled at me from the porch (insisting that she wasn't going to pay for it! That's cool, bitch, but please), made me feel like I was insane garbage, and insisted that I was always so dramatic…as if that wasn't my first time ever calling an ambulance, and as if I'd ever faked injuries before. I haven't. She eventually did take me to a doctor (after a few weeks of me being in constant pain kek, I guess we can use waiting for health insurance as an excuse) and even then treated me like I was shit, treated me like I was faking, and almost tried to toss me out of the house again until the doctor called and reveled that yeah, something was wrong with my heart. If I tried to bring this up now, she'd pretend that she never did it. Or that I'm "misremembering things". I'm older now, so it's easier to catch her when she does this shit: she does it a lot. I'm always the one forgetting shit. Never her.
Like I am sympathetic with her, since now that I'm older and not a stupid teenager I don't try to yell back when she randomly combusts on me for no fucking reason at all (she's a lot like a child, and I think it's due to her past, her family situation was utterly horrible and I get that, I get how trauma in one's youth impacts the rest of your life), and I get that a lot of our stressors are just due to the world being fucked in general, but…God. how I wish I had enough $$$ to go to a different state, pay her off for raising me, and just never speak to her again.
But this feels like a pipe dream until I finish university.
Actually speaking of trauma, the last big talk we had where I thought she understood she isn't some Patron Saint of Motherhood for doing the absolute basic shit you should do after bringing a life into this world and actually was pretty shitty (which ended in her, at a later date, blowing up at me – the usual kek) she tried to tell me one day that I NEED to "grow past my hurt". Okay…lousy retard, why don't you grow past yours? Why is it that whenever I try to speak to something I had issues with in my past you bring up your own shitty childhood and make me feel like trash for not having it as bad as you did? Grow past your own, tbh
I once got banned for using a smiley ironically but I think it was just an auto-ban or they looked over it.
The other times were for shitposting and I defenitely deserved them.
amyloid plaques? That's the only thing that came up for me when I googled "cholesterol in the brain."
Either way, I'm so sorry anon. That sounds really stressful for both of you to have to deal with.
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I feel fucking awful about even thinking this but this one friend of a friend, a mutual on many social platforms, someone who used to see at shows…she's so ugly? She just moved in with her gf and keeps posting cute matchy-matchy couple stuff and the way her face looks like a bloated waxy corpse without makeup is just jarring as shit. I am very happy she now has a nice, stable relationship so she doesn't get into her old retard shenanigans but how the fuck can someone visually disgust me to this extent? I never usually think people as ugly, everyone is unique and all that but the sheer way she looks completely different and like a crackhead with sores and shit is so disturbing to me. Maybe I am just bitter about old bad blood but damn she looks rank, but at least she knows how to do her makeup I guess.
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My boyfriend is not coming back by the end of January and while I do understand his reasons, I am so bummed out
So he probably won't be here for his birthday, which I was already expecting, but then we won't be here for mine either I guess
Just because I've finished buying him some birthday gifts today that I was planning on giving him around the start of February
It's super stupid but I miss him so much
Meh it just feels fetishising as hell tbh and the swirl relationships are going nuts over it
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That feel when you finally start feeling better and not depressed anymore
but you start to have hallucinations all of a sudden; without any warning.
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My social autism is going to cripple me. I can't post online, I obsessively worry about how I talk and how people will make fun of how I talk. I don't have any social media and rarely post on the forums and boards I go on, I just lurk. When I do post I get anxious. There's something about not knowing the tone of people online, not seeing their body language or other cues makes it hard for me to know how to interpret what they mean. Also, people have online personas that don't match up irl which makes me wary of connecting with people online.
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I don't really mean this, but sometimes I wish plastic surgery didn't exist. It's not that I judge people who get it. It's just torture knowing it's an option for me, with my big nose. More than that, it'd be preferred by society. My nose is not that big, but women get nosejobs for less, and it hurts a lot knowing that if a celebrity had my nose they'd have it changed. I rarely see people with my nose because they all get nosejobs. I don't completely blame them but it reminds me that people find it ugly, probably.
I don't want to get ps, for several reasons… I don't think it's necessary for me, I would feel guilty that I did it and probably hate myself more knowing I had a different nose before, I would feel freaked out in the mirror by this different person, I would feel fake every time someone found me attractive, feel fake in general. Most of all on principle, I don't believe in it morally for myself. And there's a stubborn part that wants to like my nose, that wants to prove the world wrong, that wants to show others like me that we don't have to be ashamed. Honestly I'm starting to like my nose both from the front and the side. The profile view is harder but I think it goes well with my eyes and creates a unique look. So, I'm determined not to change it, even if my mother had a nosejob herself. It still hurts a lot seeing all these women who found their similar noses bad enough to get work done… It feels like I can't be beautiful without doing that and ik it's superficial but I hate it. It's like a temptation that's always there but I never want to do it
Jennifer grey picrel is my cope because she looked gorgeous before and had a similar one. of course she got a nosejob though
me too but I wish a kind anon would soothe us about this
sadly I am scared it's inevitable
you can hide threads, just press on that small [-] button on the thread's top left corner
also same, thread pic is disgusting
You don't need to hide the entire thread, you can hide just that one specific pic that's irritating you.
Up above the pic, just before the filename, it says "File (hide)". Click the "hide".
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I work in a call center and yesterday I had a call that started off relatively normal and ended with the woman threatening to kill herself. I was calling about her husband who she told me was in the hospital. She just kept saying "how can i go back to my normal life? I have no life! I will never see my husband alive again!" I felt so awful for her and I wish I could've comforted her more, I was just lost for words and froze. I think my manager arranged a wellness check for her and told me there wasnt much I could've done differently. I just feel kinda stupid not being able to help more, but I also dont want to beat myself up for such a tough situation.
That's a thought that crossed my mind. But these 3 things speak against it:
- I don't have sensory perception difficulties
- No therapist ever suggested or mentioned it
- People with aspergers usually have isolated huge talents -> I don't
Thanks for replying
Patriarchy was created by men to fit their NATURE and it caters to them.>>714282
>>714273>perpetuating macho stereotype
By other men. >their emotional needs are ignored
By other men, and they wind up hating their moms and girlfriends and lose respect for anyone willing to coddle them. Women do ask them to put aside selfishness and assume responsibilities like what we endure, which is a separate issue but often one conflated with brushing off male feefees for not letting them get what they want all the time.
I care about women problems in the society far more than men and I don't want to go into this whole discussion of men being opressed now, just wanted to respond with something that may be a more nuanced insight into why they are like this and not be like "REE kill all men". >>714291
like you say, men opress other men. nothing i can do about it and I'm more pissed about women being treated as lesser but i'm not a scrote for acknowledging the former.
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I really am sorry for you. I understand how you feel. You obviously know you aren’t obligated to stay with her but I would suggest starting to distance yourself. Tell her you think it’s best you go back to yours and quarantine alone to stave off the COVID, and to give her space to be with her mother alone. You seem stressed and overwhelmed and you need a break before you make a decision.
Okay okay, that's all A LOT but>i dont want to be the asshole that leaves their partner bc their mom has cancer
That's not why you would leave her though? You said you were about to leave her even before this and I know it's hard, but you have every right to end it, even though people might think of it as a dick move. It's never easy and absolutely a big scary situation for you all, but I hope you can figure it out and gtfo.
op anon here, wasn't me but i agree w them>>714326
should have phrased it as "when their mom has cancer", not "because". wouldn't even consider leaving if i wasn't already planning on breaking up. tysm anon
there is truly not much in my heart for her over time. im scared my gf will kill herself, i've been through this w her before. it's extremely taxing,
i couldn't focus on myself and my schoolwork, and feel like i can't now
she's going to visit a friend in a diff state at the end of the month so a lot can happen, i could do it then. i'm sure i'll figure it out
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Big noses (especially aquiline ones) are so so gorgeous, you almost certainly have admirers who are too scared to say anything in case it hurts you feelings. Good for you for taking your stance on PS! The world is always the better for more cool noses
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Agreed, I'm really bored of the mass marketed baby doll noses. (No offense to small-nosed anons, it's just the lack of variety.) I think women with big noses look strong, unique and just as beautiful. Pardon the vidya sperg but I've always loved that Nintendo made the Gerudo women have big noses and they're the badass powerful warrior women culture.
As an anon with a big ass nose, that's really nice and comforting to read.
NGL, I love Gerudos! Never thought about their noses, but they truly are unique - like all races in Zelda. Amazing.
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I want to be a fucking hermit so badly. It’s all I ever think about.
LMAO, right? It's not acceptable for women to cry past like kindergarten. I can personally attest to this as I used to cry easily as a child and used to get made fun of for crying as early as 6 years old. Nobody ever comforted me as a girl–they made fun of me and belittled me as the crybaby to the point that I now have a huge complex about crying. As an adult when I go through upsetting/traumatic situations, I can't cry, let alone process my own emotions because I'm so ashamed to potentially cry. The only way I can cry is if I watch movies where I have an excuse to cry over some hypothetical scenario (and people still make fun of me for crying then).
Yet I'm supposed to believe that I and other women who have had this experience had it better than men/boys? What about the boys who made fun of me, a young girl, for crying? Looking back the majority of kids who teased me for crying were male. If those same boys (now men) were to complain of how hard it is to show emotion I'd laugh in their faces.
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> met an amazing lesbian woman in her 30s who is stereotypically "masculine" because she's been to army, loved tech stuff and physically fit with many nice interests
> now i find out that she is actually a nonbinary, preferimg masculinity and is waiting for COVID to be over to turn herself into a man
Why is it so hard to find strong, inspiring women that don't care about gender roles in any bit and just live their life? It makes me feel depressed. She is an amazing person, don't get me wrong, but now after she told that I started realising a bunch of things that I never paid attention to. And you would think a person in their 30s would not let themselves become…this. i don't know.
and I'm still fucking salty over it. I want to express myself and have a style I like and even when I post here I get dopiled by everyone. Fuck this, why does everyone want to control my life.
I'll commiserate with you anon.
I used to be someone who'd wear makeup all the time. I'd get tons of compliments about it yet at the same time I would get these backhanded comments about never being seen without it which sounded vaguely salty. It was almost like people were mad at me for wearing something that objectively made me look better–by that I mean evened out my complexion and enlarged my eyes–when they knew without I wouldn't have looked nearly as good. Almost like they felt I didn't have a right to looksmax myself cause they thought I was less attractive underneath it all so why should I get to feel nice about myself? As if I didn't earn it somehow, or like it was some unspoken competition.
I don't wear makeup much anymore because of masks and my wallet is thanking me for it, but don't let people's reactions get you down. You do you.
Sounds like you’re proud of that lol most people do that to some degree to “potential threats”, otherwise no one has the energy to seize up everyone they come across.
People aren’t scared of you kek, you probably just give off the vibe that you’re aloof and distrustful. So if people act distant it’s because of that.
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My dog is so old and while he's still energetic and spry I can't stop thinking about how he'll be gone soon. I don't think I can get another dog, I can't handle the pain of losing it.
Break up with him. It will not get better anon, please trust me unless you want to be that girlfriend who constantly feels terrible about herself and does more to help her bf's porn addiction than even he does. He's not going to change and it's going to waste your time as a wonderful partner who deserves better. A porn account on Twitter indicates straight up addiction. Do not excuse this and don't think it's going to change unless you plan on 'helping' him. By 'helping', I mean you frantically posting repeatedly to those loveafterporn subreddits and seeking out resources for him while his habits/addiction get worse.>>714496
I thought about it and I think I just don't like interacting with men whenever I have a choice not to. Even when I can blend in and when I find a group of guys that's not as sexist as others, their perspectives are still so limited which makes their conversations so shallow and full of shitty hot takes. They're boring as fuck if not downright depressing as a woman to talk to. My female-only servers on the other hand are super interesting and deep in conversation in a variety of topics.
>>714514>I'm more upset at myself for being upset.
Y tho. Why is his obsession with looking at naked strangers more important than your desire to be cherished and sexually desired in the relationship? Stop buying into the misgynistic Kool-Aid that says sex work is empowering and porn is a teehee fun and natural tool for arousal. Modern porn began with a woman's rape being filmed and sold to theaters by the mob and it's only gotten more degenerate these days. No one except addicted coomers obsessively make entire accounts for jack off material or spent all day trading nude images of virtual prostitutes with their "friends." This is an example of bottom of the barrel, sleazy, immature, mind-numbing retardation. He's not even a boy, he's a useless zombie. What is he adding to your life that you think is so irreplaceable that it's impossible to find in another man minus the erectile dysfunction and complete lack of concern for you? The only thing he's giving you is anxiety and self confidence issues.
>I don't want to be a jealous cunt
Do you fucking hear yourself? The self hatred and internalized misogyny is off the charts. Love yourself anon, no one deserves to be treated like this. If you're seriously a BPD-chan I know it's going to be even harder to feel like you're worthy of real, respectful love but look into therapy or self help books or something
. Focus on helping yourself rather than trying to convince yourself that a hideous toad has the capacity to turn into a prince if you find the magic words.
I'm late to reply and everyone's gonna yell at me, but no joke: research death and suicide. Accept your mortality. If you've never attempted suicide before, take a couple weeks to figure out how you'd do it if you absplutely had to. (Obviously, you do not have to.) If it immediately terrifies you— hell, if this post alone terrifies you— then don't research any further. Focus instead on your fear of death and instinctual desire to live.
If by some sad miracle it doesn't scare you, give it a try. There is nothing more motivating than a near death experience, especially the horror of being too cowardly to die even though you were agonising over being alive just seconds prior. Understand how difficult it is to die. Understand you have little else to do but live. Understand that the only way to continue in this hellhole is to carve out your dreams by force.
In those moments that you fear death, what are you afraid to lose? I know you don't want to be motivated by fear, and you don't have to be. There is a gorgeous life out there for you where you are at peace with yourself and your circumstances. Though existentialism may seem all pervasive, you can work through it to get in touch with your reasons to live. What do you yearn to do before you die? What is missing from your life that makes it so unbearable? What does your personal heaven look like, and are any of its aspects achievable here on Earth? There are no wrong answers.
Your lack of motivation stems from your disinterest in current pursuits. Hone in on what you actually want from your life. Although confronting death is a scary way to begin the process, it puts things into perspective in a way that nothing else can. Please know that you deserve to live. You deserve to live and to do so happily, with energy and excitement every morning when you open your eyes to realise you're still alive. You're allowed to have dreams, anon, and to transform your life in an effort to attain them. You deserve good.
Some disclaimers: Nobody who wants to live should attempt suicide, even if it's just a tiny kernel of hope or doubt. This goes especially for those who don't know what they're doing, are acting on impulse, etc.. I don't see anything wrong with researching the topic. Knowledge is not inherently harmful. I'm not advocating for needless death. Suicide is not glamourous. It sucks. I'd just like to offer some admittedly extreme advice to those who feel listless and stuck.
We're all adults here, so please be sensible when you ban me.
My doctor referred me to get a MRI scan because of the pain in my head and left ear. If it turns out I have some sort of brain tumor I think i'm offing myself because there's no point in fighting for this life. I feel like I already failed. I know it sounds deterministic but I think I inherited extreme mental weakness from my parents, who also failed at life. My father couldn't cope with his job and he became an alcoholic, lost his job and his house, he's been drinking for like 20 years and I don't even know if he's still alive. My mother was very unstable, probably BPD, also couldn't cope with stress at her job so she always had to take it out on me and treat me as her punching bag, she was in huge debt because she was constantly taking loans she wasn't able to repay, borrowed money from literally everyone (and she preferred to spend that money on some dumb shit like jewelery instead of taking me to a dentist, for example). After her death I almost lost our small apartment. Even thoguh I declined the inheritance and I don't have to pay her debts, I still have some strange people knocking on my door or leaving notes to my mother, and I'm scared. I don't have any friends except for my mom's old friend, I don't have any other family except for my aunt who doesn't really care about me and I know from my mom's friend she wants to sell my apartment and basically get rid of me. I feel completely cornered. I also have health problems and I can't find a job now. I'm autistic but that's not the problem; there are autists who do well in life. My main problem is my weakness, breaking under a smallest pressure, getting anxiety attacks over trivial things, getting paranoid about my health detoriating and about losing my savings. I feel like I'm designed to fail, just like my parents. People with shitty genes really shoudln't have children
Couldn't you have given her the rest of your advice without suggesting she make a suicide attempt? Even if an attempt isn't successful it can leave you with a damaged body for the rest of your life, even just overdosing on painkillers can bring a lifetime of health complications
This is the opposite of helping someone>>714101
You sound like you might be depressed, in the literal clinical sense, do you have access to healthcare? If you have understanding parents it would be good to ask them to help you with getting support. Did you used to care about the things you no longer care about? If you never did then perhaps you need a complete change of scene, some new activity that involves being busy outdoors. Volunteering your free time to a charitable organisation can also help with the problem of not knowing or caring what to do with your time.
Nobody can magically give you motivation to live but it's important to understand that you won't feel this way forever, and to find something that makes you feel anything.
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I'm horny and lonely but I don't like masturbation, it feels like I'm going to go insane if I don't get a good dicking soon but I won't sleep with just anyone, especially during a pandemic, and my dating life is a goddamn desert because I am (rightfully) picky.
I can relate, my parents families are riddled with cancer and heart diseases and they're all mentally ill. I've been existing okay, lucked out and living comfy NEET life, for now. But I've been getting pains, if I find out I'm fucked up medically I'll sign off for sure.
I hope you turn out okay anon.
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same anon. same.
IDK but sometimes I like to express what I'd like through drawing it out, despite how shitty it may turn out. I find that directing these energies into something helps with somewhat stating it.
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>>714685>but 50% of my 'inner theare' is getting dicked down by anime men anyways.
Same, anon, same. Then I come back to reality and get disappointed.
I don't really apply too much thought into the physics of it, but I guess it all kinda melts together? Like a little bit of thinking of some self-insert OC that fits in the character's universe, but with it sort of melting into the reality as I become one with them as I remember how actual sex feels like, then to go back to my OC fantasies.
So I guess I kinda think of a story around it as it builds up the relationship to them/us banging or romancing each other. So I'm technically just writing a fanfic/doujinshi in my head.
Pretty much what >>714695
said. I wasn't ever much into writing fanfictions or making up extenstive universes, but I make up an OC and a scenario on why we'd fuck, and then pretty much imagine getting fucked. It's really just a case of maladaptive daydreaming.
Ah, I get it now. Thanks.>>714697
I mean, I daydream and fantasize like that too, only about 3d people in a 3d world. I was just confused how you visualize sex when you have one dimension more than your anime himbo.>>714693
I'd recommend you visit Switzerland in the spring if you can, you will never forget the beautiful waterfalls in the mountains, so breathtaking!
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Jannies have now resorted to filing fraudulent bans. I didn’t make that post and that isn’t my IP. Just got banned for someone else’s 2 year old post.
probabaly the one anon who saw her company putting up job offer and her boss likes to work with sociable people.
keeping my fingers crossed either way