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Do you think Twisted wonderland will get released on English? I know that some brands tend to be into making Asia exclusive content, but we’re talking about Disney so… maybe they will release it someday?
i just hope I can actually get to play the game on English but I’m thirsty for content while at the same time I don’t want to spoil myself in case I can play it
Aren't there people in the otome fandom who like doing fan translations? Maybe you could commission someone.
Somehow, I don't think the western branch of Disney would want to mess around with this sort of thing, it doesn't fit their brand so well. Kingdom Hearts might probably be as anime as they get, but I might be wrong.
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how does one balance being hopelessly romantic with having impossibly specific + pinkpill tier standards? seriously fml
Sometimes I like to think of them as if they were real then I get turned off because they will never look as great as they look in 2D > 3DPG
so it’s better when I think about them in a 2D setting.
I honestly don’t think they will. Japan and Disney have different licensing laws together vs Disney and everywhere else. Other anon was right too about it not really fitting the western brand very well.
There’s really not much to the game aside from clicking through the stories (and a few events have already passed), so I’d honestly just go to the fan wiki and read through the translations honestly. They’ve been pretty good about quality control and kicking out people who submit incorrect or google translated scripts. In addition, Shel_bb on YouTube uploads their own English translations of the main story if you want a better experience (sound, video).
My Lord, I knew a girl like this who called herself lesbian and openly would lust after men. She did date a woman at one point, she was "trans masc" tho. Before even her announcement she was a lesbian, she called herself queer. Like, girl, just say bisexual. I bet she didn't wanna be one of those
bisexuals but she literally is. Continues to date men.
I used to be mutuals with a canadian girl who would never date a girl nor really show any affection towards any, besides "yass queen" comments on cosplay or black women with decent makeup photos. She would always date a guy and during the relationship she would ALWAYS complain about him, pirvating her twitter. In a week or two she would break up with him and will always tell that "she is a lesbian and now will date only girls", just to end up going through the exact same circle with e-dating men over and over again. I swear, her twitter is neverending opera episode.
The only time she showed a somewhat interest in woman was when she went to a cafe, and wrote on Discord "This waitress is so cute!! I hope she's trans."…
She also actually never befriends girls and doesn't like them much, but still calls herself a lesbian as a pass for saying "faggot" for which she was scolded in school by teachers a lot.
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Not a user, how does one earn "per" tiktok? I've seen a few of his videos and they're not blatantly sponsored or anything. Is tiktok paying him to post to promote the app, is that it?
same anon but a lot of smaller creators have also stated that the program's shit bc after joining, their views actually went down
and the money they received from it was negligible.
I know a girl like this. She went through several boyfriends when we were teenagers, but then "came out" as a "lesbian" in high school. She and her best friend from before were in a weird, quasi-romantic, highly unhealthy relationship for like a year. They were both pulling the same "lol we're lesbians now" crap. She even cheated on this girl with a guy! Neither of them have dated girls since they broke up, but continue to sperg on social media about being "omg so ghey." Then there was another girl I knew in highschool who as far as I could tell actually was a lesbian, but she got stuck in an unhealthy relationship with a poser/political lesbian. All four of the people I just described were theater kids, which tells you basically everything you need to know lol.
I think people do this because they think that sexuality is a personality trait or a substitute for personality. They also seem to have the impression that being bisexual or bi-curious isn't special enough– they've gotta be ~lesbians uwu~. I think it's a result of lingering stigma from all the scene girls lying about being bisexual ten years ago.
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Toy dogs get away with bad behavior because they're cute and people are less likely to discipline them. I think it's called small dog syndrome.
it's just the compulsory heterosexuality!!
(i know it is an actual issue but so many fake lesbians use it as an excuse why they just can't help but thirst after men)
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Not if its a very tiny dog like a pomeranian, but i think something cocker spaniel sized and up helps, dogs usually get REALLY agressive if someone attacks their owner and even the smaller ones can bite a huge chunk of someone's leg.
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he’s like this size. and blind but an attacker wouldn’t know that
I opted for skirts and dresses (not skin tight ones, though) since the waist is easily taken in without much sewing knowledge and I'd only have to replace tights.
But if you work a job where you have to lift a lot of things or run around, >>661632
is probably better
Personally, the real casualties of my journey were my tops. So many leftover awkwardly large blouses…RIP
Kuudere boys are based
Genkis are all whores, I said it
VIKINGS, hot men outnumber the hot women
And unironically, shows with fujo fanbase like Hannibal and Supernatural
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Fat Daddy Winchester was hot, though.
Wait that man was Negan
Anon, listen to yourself>used to be an incel>bonded over suicidal ideation>Trump sympathizer
Come on now. You know better
When i was like 9 I tried to suicide and took an entire bottle of pills i took from my mom's nightstand. turns out it was melatonin and that doesn't kill you.
and then i tried to hang myself at 13 with a shitty thin plastic belt and it broke and i just fucked up my windpipe, so that's cool i guess.
I mean true, I've been there myself, but you also have to say "enough is enough" at some point. You really do.
Especially when you can say those things out loud–it's one thing to try and ignore them, but to acknowledge it and still stay/do nothing about it is extremely lame.
Did you then come off them cold turkey or how did you manage? > citalopram
I feel like citalopram actually made me suicidal when I hadn't been before. I was forced to take it as a teen (started on it at 12) and I gave my parents the feedback that I felt worse on it and was having thoughts I'd never had before 'oh just keep taking your meds anon' Til I took way too many. Puked like crazy but I still wasn't right for days. My parents wouldn't get me help because of abuse happening in the household. They were afraid I'd say something if a social worker got involved
Don't know about adult use but it's known to often make teens worse and you're meant to take that feedback seriously
I actually still take it at 40mg to this day as well as other meds now too. I started as an adult (22), and it helped me with my suicidal ideation a lot, actually. I was just having a hard time regardless. When I do forget to take them or just stop taking them bc I'm stupid, the brain zaps are real, though.
I'm sorry that was your experience though. That's genuinely awful, and I hope that if you are on meds now, you have something that works for you or are otherwise just feeling better. If you need help, always seek it, anon.
I won't say what I took because it's not an idea I want to put in peoples heads.
I watched a relative struggle through cancer, it was a slow and painful decline and after they died I found myself having these intrusive memories almost. They had a stroke a few days before they passed away and they were in such a bad way that the memory of that haunted me. I wanted to stop reliving it.
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This is one of the things that exasperates me most about women. "He's horrible and doesn't give a shit about me but I love him so it's okay."
Stop minimizing real love you delusional fucks. I'm so bored of the general populace thinking the definition of love is "really really lyking some1 uwu." Nah bitch. Love involves passion, but equally important are kindness, respect and self awareness for BOTH parties. You do not actually "love" someone if you are allowing them to walk all over you and treat you like mud. You are enabling them to be a shit human being, meaning you are literally one of the negative influences in their life. This is often unintentional, and you can try to convince them to change, but past a certain point you're as bad as those people on My 600 Lb Life shoveling milkshakes and burgers and 50 gallons of cheese into their partner's mouth "because he was so sad and hungry and couldn't you tell he was starving waaaaaaaahh".
Show people that their actions have fucking consequences (you leaving) and it might be just the wake-up call they need to be better. If not, that's on them and you in a way you still showed real concern for them by actually having standards.
Living circumstances aren't good reasons to not be friends with someone.
She would be putting herself out there too much, and that shit takes a toll. Why are you bitter, anon? Are you having trouble finding people to befriend?
jesus, thank you>>661849
I'm not even bitter, I'm just scared I'm not good enough
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Anybody else with vpn end up seeing someone elses ban? This happens every now and again and some of them are really funny, pic not an example of that but it’s reminded me to start capping when it actually is. I’d love to see the opera bans people talk about too.
Honestly, I guess I'm really aware of how it can make other people feel, like you have to explain why you're NEET, and then they have this burden on them now just knowing you
If you try to hide it forever, eventually you'll wind up needing to puke and there's no bathroom or trashcan around, and everyone finds out, and then they pity you and feel bad and have to decide whether it's worth the emotional stress on themself to keep you around
I'm sorry, I think this is just a vent at this point.
I'd rather be as useful and cheerful as I can so when something does go wrong, at least maybe they'll remember I'm normally better than that
The last time I saw any of my friends, I was mopping my own puke up off the floor of an airbnb with a washcloth and trying not to cry and joking the whole thing off when I got caught, and they all just looked at me like this pathetic animal. I don't think any of them can look at me anymore
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Why not one of these decorative hand carved candles like pic related? Not sure if it has a scent, which I think makes candles a 50/50 gift if you don’t know what scents they like, but it looks hella cool. Also why not google up and see if you can find some fancy/artisan chocolate around you?
I'm not super well versed in the different brands, but I ended up getting a Benchmade and have been happy with it! Easy to open one handed and the lock has been reliable. I also like that they have a lifetime warranty and will resharpen just for the cost of postage (https://www.benchmade.com/lifesharp-service
). I do go backpacking sometimes and it's been useful for cutting rope, wood and food in those instances for sure.
It's really weird how she can go from one extreme to another tbh, though imo she looks way worse all done up for photoshoots but cute in candids with no makeup and messy hair etc.
I love to look at her ngl she's interesting and I love her body.
always listen to the advice on /biz/
you cannot go wrong >>662056>>662056
I have very little work experience, and for mental health reasons and a few other things, I'm struggling HARD at my current job, the problem is, it pays really, really well. It's been a year and I'm realizing it's really just… not the job for me. I like my coworkers, aside from a few shitty people, and I like aspects of the job, but it's a lot of things that are just outright not suited for me, at least right now; I'm trying to get the right medication to help me but in the end, I know those won't help the entire situation. ( I have severe ADHD. )
What's the smartest decision? Keep trudging through this in hopes that I'll eventually get somewhat better, just because of the pay, or try to find somewhere better suited for my skills, that'll likely pay less? I feel so fucking stupid.
I’d say maybe figure out your life values first. Are you a live to work, or a work to live kind of person? Ideal dream jobs aren’t possible for the majority of people, so I think it’s important to find a job that, while it most likely will not be perfect, you’re okay with the shit you have to deal with, since you know where you want to draw the line. What parts of your job do you think aren’t suited for you right now? Do you think that’s something you may be able to avoid in a future job?
I worked a retail job for two years out of college where I kept thinking “it’ll get better, it’ll get better.” It never did. I was a damn good employee, was paid a good wage, got really good benefits, and my coworkers were chill as hell. Unfortunately, the demanding hours and and upper management (not even the customers were the worst part) took a huge toll on me. I tried to stick it out for good pay, but I have friends who made it up the ladder who still fucking hate it there so I don’t regret leaving at all. Honestly wanted to kill myself almost everyday during my last few months. I’ve moved onto lower paying office jobs with shit benefits, but I get the benefit of actually having a life outside of work so the trade was worth it. The pay might be less but the work is easy as hell (and I have lots of downtime).
Don’t feel dumb anon, I think a lot of people rightfully struggle with what to do. Maybe leaving your job in the middle of rona fucking up the job market isn’t the best idea regardless of what’s going on, but maybe in the future it might not hurt to look at other job listings to see what’s out there. What is your current work anyway?
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it’s real and it happened to me at whole foods. shits wild - i had the craziest thoughts in that moment like “what if we became really close and ran away together” etc - and then you know what it’s kind of happening for real now
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It happened to me once when I was in high school chatting with my friends older brother while hanging out at her place. In my whole life I never hit it off with a man easily, up to this day I can't hold a conversation with a man but with this guy… We were chatting endlessly and I really felt something. I was in a relationship at the time so I didn't pursue anything and he was kind of a popular stoner loser type which intimidated me but it was an interesting experience.
He literally looked like a classical painting and had platinum blonde hair, except he was shorter than me kek
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Is it common to experience hot flashes before and during one's period? When I'm on my period, I wake up randomly at night to find that I sweat through my pjs. I also have it during the day, I just randomly feel hot and want to take my clothes off. And this is coming from someone who's literally always cold
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I've had my own hair color for a few years after bleaching and dyeing it for at least a decade. I have bleach. I have bangs. Kinda wanna put bleach on a part of my bangs. Should I?
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Is there a synonym for circle skirts?
Work to live, I think. I don't have much drive for anything, and being able to like, pay rent and stuff is the biggest thing (300 a month,) along with not having to totally panic about say like, buying myself cheap food and hurting my bank account. I don't think that the things I struggle with the most will be a thing at the jobs I'm looking at. I'm looking to go into retail, specifically clothing stores at the mall. I currently work at Starbucks and what messes me up the most is the fast paced sequencing, making a ton of drinks in a specific order and then having them all be done on time, I love the customer interaction part, though ( of course retail will probably kill that drive in me, but still.) I'm also only 22 so like, I know I also have a long life ahead of me to actually focus on a job then that'll keep me really going in life.
Chamomile, valerian root, rose, lemon balm and good ol green tea.
Avoid teas with caffeine.
I know a guy from work who's 30+ who recently realized he had ADHD, got diagnosed, got a prescription for Ritalin I think and he described it as "taking the pill from Limitless" as he could now actually complete any simple or large task without having to procrastinate every few minutes like he always had and can just do it without a break no problem. It's definitely something that you can 1) not realize you have and figure you're just normal lazy 2) benefit immensely from medical help.
I imagine your dad probably has some anxiety about his diagnosis and his cope is telling himself it's not that big a deal so doesn't need to take his meds or listen to his daughter talk about it, so maybe try just pressuring just your mother for it.
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where the fuck is this character from? i swear ive seen this dude before. googles not helping at all
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"Google's not helping" I found it in 2 seconds using Google lens. Try that next time.
Gekkou no Carnevale
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Why was this person banned? I thought this would had been an interesting thread
(No I didn't make that thread, for once lol)
Nah, pinkpilled women go from a range of people annoyed and aware of misogyny, to manhaters, and everything in between
Pinkpilled means you know how this world is full of woman hate, violence towards women, misogyny and that basically society has failed us, and discussing how it has failed us.
The name I understand it as a variation of redpilled, which means someone who is convinced the world is run by the jews or something, and someone who is pinkpilled is convinced the world is run by the patriarchy.
Side note but saying "redpilled" doesn't really mean anything either, it's just a popular slang nowadays, for example "redpill me about pokemon" or "redpill me about how to get fit" etcetera, but it does have some right wing connotations. Idk, that's what I know, it's based on the movie Matrix when Neo has to chose between staying ignorant (taking a blue pill) or getting to know the truth (taking a red pill)
ime, they have a culture of encouraging blunt honesty in some areas of social life as well as the art of debate for it's own sake, which gives them the reputation of being argumentative and cold. Maybe you could say that a sense of superiority or pride is integral to French national identity because they have this history of refinement
and liberality. Ofc this isn't the case for all french people, I'd really like to hear what other anons think. >>662571
yes, OP has admitted that she was behind most of those threads here >>662539
. At this point I think the frequency and volume of these trauma threads within the last few weeks signals something suspicious, particularly because OP has acknowledged the backlash on multiple occasions.
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what type of neckline is this? U-neck? deep scoop?
When I was a teen I went through a tard phase and tried a similar thing called automatic writing. That night I had the only episode of sleep paralysis that I've ever had. Saw a big demonic thing in front of me. Thought I was dead.
I do believe it was all in my head but my god did it feel real at the time. I left my room afterwards, clung to my mom and refused to re-enter my bedroom for the rest of the day.
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There is this new trend on tik tok called reality shifting where you write a script for yourself in a different reality. A lot of people choose Harry Potter or MHA and as you fall asleep you sort of meditate on it and supposedly enter an alternate reality where you live out this second life. I guess my question is how the fuck do people in their early 20s/ late teens believe this shit? It feels like theyre just describing lucid dreaming but they claim it's completely different. I'm just dumbfounded I guess. went down this whole rabbithole where people wholeheartedly believe you can spend 3 years at Hogwarts in one night.
alright, that does it, I have aged out of society
nothign makes sense and I don't fucking want it to anymore
millennials are all 50 now
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What are some movies that feature weird girl protagonists like excision or may? doesn’t have to be horror btw.
Something I forgot to add, and I'm sure that I will totally come across them in retail, but I know for a fact my managers, or at least a few of them, gossip about me enough for my coworker to tell me straight about it because he agreed I might want to find another job. Basically making fun of me for needing to ask questions because my ADHD is so bad. It's fucking embarrassing, man. I don't want to be like this. I'm looking at retail jobs at the mall, so like, the stores will be smaller too; I don't think I'd do well in a super large store with a shitton of different tasks all around the store. I really don't know what to do. My ADHD is so severe the doctor straight up told me that it was rare to see in adults.>>662404
Yes. I'm currently messing around with meds and definitely not in a good spot, but I'm WAY better than I was before.
Just be warned the process sucks right now, no idea how it was before covid though tbh, basically it was>Discuss with a doctor>They mail a packet that's like, 10 pages long, along with a mini packet for someone who sees you regularly to fill out ranking symptoms from low to high.>Mail packet back>Wait a while>Schedule virtual appointment with doctor>Wait more>Get diagnosed>Complete scheduling and waiting period for a virtual appointment with someone who can prescribe you meds>Be prepared for a long period of fuckery due to the difficulties of prescribing ADHD meds virtually
Your friend is a twit.
You did the right thing, he isn't "busy." He just doesn't want to talk to you and only contacts you when it's convenient for him and on his terms, which isn't what a guy intending to have a good relationship with you would do.
Make sure you block him and never talk to him again because he doesn't care about you.
Also take the advice from your friend with a grain of salt cause she sounds like a pickme. You can drop dick for any fucking reason you damn well like. If he isn't treating you how you want to be treated, that's a great fucking reason! Damn your friend is a retard.
Yeah if that's not what you're looking for and you want someone to engage with you regularly rather than only when he's getting some, fuck him (or rather don't). He obviously doesn't prioritize you nor care about you much as a person, which is a pretty shitty way to treat someone, even as a fuck buddy.
>My friend said it's not my place to drop him becuz of this becuz hes not my official bf.
Kek she sounds like a retarded pickme. If anything that's only more reason to drop him. If he can't even provide the things you want before he's your boyfriend then he sure as fuck isn't going to start after you're ~official~. You can drop someone for any reason any time you want.
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Damn we on the same wavelength anon
Kek, game recognized.
I've taken bad dating advice from my friends as early as a few months ago. It made me realize that my friends don't always look out for my best interests cause they're conditioned to give men the benefit of the doubt. Even their own men aren't that great to them. It takes experience to call bullshit.
what do you mean by pinkpill teir standards? or do you mean FDS standards? It seems like the usually standards pinkpillers have for men is
-not be obsessed with anal
-when having sex, he tries to give you some pleasure
-limits his porn-intake, but preferably doesn't watch porn at all
-respects your interest
and so on and so forth
It's probably not the answer you wanted to hear anon, but I was a hopeless romantic all my life until I got fucked over in two long-term relationships. Now I'm not really a romantic but I'm in a good relationship. My partner is handsome, listens to and appreciates my opinions, cooks for us, brings me gifts without asking, we have similar interests and goals. But he's also more conservative than I would like, has a bad temper, kind of clueless at how to provide emotional support, indecisive and not good with money. He makes me happy more often than he annoys me though, and sometimes there are really romantic and amazing moments, but those are tempered by the day-to-day grind/survival.
And like, that's still really positive all things considered. I think it was just growing up imagining every day was supposed to be magical with these big grand gestures, and realizing it's not like that, takes some adjustment. The portrayal of romance in the media isn't realistic, at least not 24/7. Keep looking until you find a guy who is nice, respectful and has a similar outlook. Don't settle for some schlub who's "good enough," but also realize not everything has to be a fairy tale.
I know the videos at least exist; links and screen caps are all over the articles here. I guess I was just feeling confused due to not seeing anyone normal (believers and non-believers alike) mention it in a complete sentence or speak about it like they’ve seen the videos. There’s also this air to it like everyone’s referring to the topic in cryptic sarcasm riddles. I couldn’t tell if this was coming from people worried about the election, or a result of censorship (or if it was some deep fake joke I was missing).
Thanks for responding!
I think it's partially because if you don't care about American issues, you're going to get shredded on social media. For example, if you didn't post anything regarding the black shootings earlier this year, even if you live in a country where such police violence doesn't happen, you were basically the devil himself and cancelled. There's a group of Americans online who're very vocal about demanding attention for American issues and American issues only without any regard for the circumstances of foreigners and the countries they live in. It creates this echo chamber where foreigners are forced to agree and stand up for these American issues because they're scared they'll get cancelled or torn apart on social media otherwise.
That's my perspective at least.
Globalization is definitely an aspect. I also hate when literal Americans focus on anecdotal events that were bashed on by almost everybody, no matter what stance, and then assume "Yep, this is exactly how everybody who doesn't agree with me
thinks is right to do." Media really is the enemy, so many people spread clickbait and pass it off as fact.
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Why is Ryan Gosling a thing for online right wing men?
Depends on the drug, and who takes it. Two to three weeks is the most common span - but "working" can vary a lot like >>663074
said. It's not a magic pill, but it may give you equilibrium, make you sleep better, let you feel things again, make you have an appetite once more, or help you regulate your emotions, etc. Good luck, I hope you feel better soon, anon!
Late but lmao I recommended we watch Vikings and it turns out boyfriend loves that show and was excited to watch it with me.
The joke is on me. But you know, it's actually not too bad.
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Does anyone know the full 'lyrics' for the ranting in the background in the song 'Thurston Hearts the Who' by Bikini Kill?
Here's what I've got so far
:so we're gonna play a new song for you and we don't know how it goes ,but it might work
Do you remember how it goes, Cathy?
Okay. Bikini Kill. You really had to be there.I got the opportunity to meet them this DC-based punk foursome before the show
I was shocked about how contradictory their words and actions were. Their supposed message for Bikini Kill's music and literature is girl love and feminism. Yet what comes across on stage is man-hate
2 songs that I had gotten from their airplane before their arrival from Hawaii. These 2 songs have cathy hooksand a hard punk edge ??? dancing out of control. Intersting, exclusively men ??? is the band's favourite noise. Punk rock has go some of those elements, but it's not usually so EXTREME ??? Bikini Kill are activists, not musicians. What exactly is Bikini Kill trying to say? the band explorers the ??? of women's consciousness ,exploring sensitive issues such as rape, incest, women's insubordination and eating disorders ???
miniskirt ??? across your bedroom ??? across your back, grabbing your crotch and reinacting Jake ??? over the microphone
Wiggle your hips, hands ??? and say 'leave me alone'. It was so sad to see a woman so desperately confused. She said 'I am ???. I might make you rape me, I might make you rape me' ??? first she spoke feminist ideas??? by acting out the ??? I found it tragic
I can't make out the resthttps://youtu.be/cKVH6_zIyXI
Fetishization is bad because it removes someone's personhood. Like if a man has an Asian fetish, is he is attracted to Asian girls it's not because he likes them as people, but because he is attracted to them for being Asian. To him, they aren't people with their own agency, they're just objects for his sexual desire.
Fetishes for objects/outfits are usually harmless, because they are already objects. But when it's directed towards a group of people, it's harmful because it entails someone ignoring their personhood to focus on the other person as a sex object.
That makes sense… I guess I just feel kinda bad because neither of them seem to try anything new in any walk of life…
Ah well. They're creatures of comfort like everyone else. Heh.
found a teenager, you guys!>>663536
what's wrong with sticking to the same style aesthetic? it's only natural to be able to find what fits you best in mid 20s, you're not unstable baby still exploring who you are. I wouldn't worry about it.
It honestly depends on each family’s circumstances.
In my home particularly we had to put one of my grandma’s in an elderly home because she broke her hip and my uncle is an unstable drunkard. Keeping her at her home was basically killing her, my family was also always busy and she didn’t want to leave the zone in which she lived.
We had to go through two elderly homes, luckily we found a decent one in which she was okay until she died.
Sometimes it’s just better to keep them in a decent care home instead at their own houses. Mostly because of the need for a team of nurses that can actually move them around without hurting them, they’re too fragile after all.
Also, paying for the nurses sometimes doesn’t work, another grandma of mine had everything in her house, but the nurse never went to work and my other family was also constantly worried about hurting her further more.
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Why tf are people online like this? Grown adults can't think for themselves? Opinions from strangers will endanger you? Why do they want to police the internet so hard?
That sounds bad ngl, if he's not an alcoholic it must be wreaking havoc with his health.
It doesn't actually take much alcohol to be considered dangerous, I remember being shocked when I found out how my govt defines binge drinking (can't remember how many drinks exactly, like 4 in one day maybe?) but in order to get drunk I'd drink twice that and I definitely don't have a drinking problem.
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>>663785>tfw when you realize you have a bunch of attractive friends, but also a bunch of unattractive friends
What does this mean?
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Could somebody explain cool-toned skin/makeup vs warm-toned skin/makeup vs olive-toned skin?
I always thought that tone directed people to what hue people should wear 'warm' tones (reds, yellows, oranges) and those with a cool tone should wear cool-toned hues (blues, purples), but stuff like pic rel says that tone dictates saturation? Also, what even is olive skin? Is it an undertone? Do olive people have cool vs warm tones like non-olive people?
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In all seriousness, can any anons suggest something to fit this query?
I'm still in mine and I have been in it through the entirety of quarantine, but it hasn't become seriously deranged. I think as long as you acknowledge they're unattainable, it's fine. If you want to deter it, you can try and find out if they've said or done anything repugnant or problematic
, although I don't know if that would help your case personally. I found some nasty rumors about mine and they only intensified my attraction to him lmao
Hey I kinda feel for you anon, I've watched a fuckton of interviews and saved a ton of pictures and seen all his films at least once, if not more than once over, and I am sad that I can't have him either.
Then I think about the fact that he's a famous man who's been famous for nearly half his life and probably a terrible person, that makes me rethink my depression over the unattainability. And yet I'm still a little sad. The things that arise from being lonely, horny, and coping during quarantine
have you tried checking out playlists relating to the genres and artists you like on their page? I find Spotify to be a rabbit hole of sorts.
go to a random playlist related to an artist or genre, browse it, find song and artist. look at artists profile and check out the related artists, look at the related artists on the related artist's profile, it's a rabbit hole
Idk, I only have three or four since I always wash the one I used at the day.
I think it depends on the person.
i have like 2 weeks worth, maybe a little more? specific period panties (heavyish flow), everyday/work appropriate panties, sexy panties
better to have more than less imo
No way for me to go, celebrating a birthday with nice family members but unfortunately the toxic
one lives with them.
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Tuck me in, Nanny!
If you use twitter often there are posts about sex workers claiming to buy houses, cars and live in luxury from this money. Say something about it and a ton of them will come out to say how it's so better paid than a normal job, so it's easy to be memed into it when the actual people selling keep repeating the lie that all of them make a fortune.
It feels like a mlm sometimes lol
Sex work literally is a type of MLM, except instead of insurance it's your sex appeal and newness being sold. Think about how often you hear about "SW supporting SWs!" and "my friend got me into SW".
Men are willing to pay for sex, which is a well known fact, and ig the meme is that the combination of sex appeal, simpbucks and internet exposure (going viral) really does make lots of girls think they just need to hit it big once and retire into their new house. The problem is, as soon as a man thinks a woman is benefitting from him in a way that doesn't give him power over her, they clam up and get angry and go support some other SW who doesn't yet know what a dead end SW is because of this mentality. The girls who make a fuckton of money do it by degrading themselves or pabdering to simps, not just
by posing for cute, sexy and empowering pics that fit their IG aesthetic
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I can't believe TA even asked this shit ass question. It's like she didn't even think about it for more than 2.5 seconds. Stay in school, anons.
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>>664442>a natural process
All-natural free-range non-GMO mutagenic radiation. You moron.
Who gives a fuck? Literally you cannot help but tan if you are outside on a sunny day. It's a natural process. There's no such thing as "accidentally skin bleached oops uwu".
Your argument here sounds like you're pro-skin whitening because you can't get skin cancer. You sound retarded
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>>664456>Natural sun exposure isn't going to kill anyone
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Found the vampire! Begone, creature of the night!
You know, I don't like when we argue like this but it warms my heart to see some activity>>664466
NTA, but you're making a bad argument. Plenty of people get artificial tans, but they're not frowned on.
Conversely, people who take glutathione (a substance that naturally occurs within the body) for paler skin are still frowned upon for lightening their skin.>>664439
Cultural reasons. It's kind of a catch-22, because people will still treat those who naturally have darker skin worse, but then continue to stigmatize/shame them if they try to get away from that bad treatment by lightening their skin.
The expectation is for dark-skinned people to either accept being treated badly, or fight for the right to be seen as valid
, but not everybody has the energy or time for that kind of struggle, so skin whitening continues under the table. It's a complicated situation all around.
why are anons so triggered
Not sure if you're still here anon, but I do think food service is a different beast compared to clothing retail. The retail job I left was actually at a clothing store. I won't name it, but it's a prominent worldwide brand that isn't too expensive. There's a lot of cultural things deeply rooted in the workplace even though I worked at a store in the US (and one of the largest stores to boot) that made it particularly insufferable, so I don't think my experience reflects the majority of clothing stores. I don't think it's too hard, especially compared to food service. Customer service, learning how to fold clothing the way they want, meeting presentation standards. It can be fast paced, but I think the pressure of memorizing drink orders plus the recipes of those drinks would be a lot for me too, as someone who doesn't have ADHD. I think it's best you leave for a new job when you're able to.
I can understand you're managers frustrations about asking questions to an extent, but everyone's been in a position where they have a lot of questions. Even when I was a seasoned worker at my old job I would still have questions because I need things to be 100% clarified. Would I rather have someone who gets on my nerves because they ask questions over and over again but get things done right in the end, or someone who just stays quiet and then I have to fix their fuckup? Anyway, I hope you're able to get help for your ADHD and move onto a more manageable job for yourself.
>>664393>mfw seeing "sex workers" i.e. onlyfans thots beg people to buy their pussy pics to afford this month's rent and mood meds
What a glamorous profession. >>664402
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What the heck is biting me and my boyfriend's hand? It's much visible on his hand, so that's why I took a photo of his hand. I'm hoping it isn't BB. I checked out the internet, and not sure. It's not too itchy, and barely barely raised.
So do I. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Youth_of_JAZAS
This is the organisation. If you're not in Serbia, try checking local youth groups associated with the Faculty of Medicine.
Hi I am this anon, (the skin whitening one) I didn’t mean to offend or trigger
anyone. It wasn’t race baiting. I phrased it wrong, I didn’t mean skin BLEACHING, I meant whitening/lightening like non-harmful creams and moisturisers. I am naturally pale and I am currently going through a process of having my freckles removed/lightening due to being unhappy with them for years and then linking to my mental health/self esteem issues (but that’s another story). At the clinic I am going to, they offer skin whitening treatments. I was just thinking that I know online people would be triggered
by this, it is something common in South Korea and I know western people have problems with it.
Again, I am NOT race baiting. I just phrased it wrong, I didn’t mean skin bleaching.
Did you check what thread you are in? It is dumbass questions. Why are you here if you are triggered
I know I'm late but you should get him tested for gluten intolerance.
A lot of constipated children are like that because gluten is literally opening micro holes on their intestine lining.
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Do I have a type anons? If so, what is it? I don't think I do, but I'm curious.
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What is up with gen z and their sex culture?
So yall out here fucking men and not even kissing them?yall just go straight into fucking with no foreplay?the guy kind of just mounts you like a dog then leaves? Kissing is too intimate but you dont mind a strangers cock in your mouth?Maybe I sounds like a boomer but I was on tiktok and apparently it's normal not to kiss hook ups.
Thank you a lot, anon! I did the exact thing you said and thankfully, things went well. Even the toxic
-memb themselves ended up play-pretend being polite towards me in the end kek.
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I want to know too. Do I have a type?
I like you nonny
Just like the anon before me I tried twitter back in 2009 and I didn't like it. Nowadays I only click on memes others send me, I don't like or retweet anything on it.
I think if I used twitter I'd just spend all my time arguing and being pissed so I don't bother. I generally dislike social media though, don't even have instagram
Nah, you're not alone. I'm all for being nice but I hate when people act saccharine, especially when it's towards people they don't even know. Like when they say "I love you and you're so valid
and important" this could be the same anon they called a retarded cunt in another thread lmao.
Love bombing implies an abusive
dynamic. How is sharing a lot of affection toward a random and anonymous person on the internet abusive
? Hell, a lot of the stuff in the dumbass shit thread makes me feel like "oh these anons are so silly, I love them." You don't always need to read a soap opera to feel that overwhelming sense of love.
I totally agree with you about feeling weird and confused the first 3 years of my 20s. But it’s the end of that, and I think it could be okay. I’d imagine he’s almost done with college, last year or so, and about ready to be independent. That’d put you guys on an even playing field.
If it helps, I’m 26 and would have no problem dating a 23yo at all, though it’d probably be the youngest I’d go for my own comfortability as well.
Wtf, there's obviously nothing wrong with that. Nobody would even blink at 26 yr old man with a 23 yr old woman, why are you clutching pearls when it's the reverse?
The problem with age gaps is pretty much exclusively with older men. Women aren't predatory and don't typically seek out men they can control, men aren't constantly gaslighted into thinking they should be with older women or die alone, men aren't always told they age like milk and women like wine. It's about the consistent pattern of social pressure, not that every age gap is inherently abusive
in practice. Disparate maturity and life stages can occur at any age. But it comes down to the fact that if a younger man is with an older woman, he's going against the grain. You can safely assume he hasn't been deceived into thinking it's his only option to get marriage or commitment before 'hitting the wall' at 30.
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What do anons here think of the idea of refusing to do anything sexual that solely gives a guy pleasure (hjs, bjS etc) with a guy until he does something that gives you pleasure (like finger banging, eating you out)? I've been listening to some PIV-critical women talk about how it's odd that most teenage girl's first sexual experience is giving a hj whilst most boy's first sexual experience is receiving a hj, and how this may be indicative of male sexuality being the main focus of sex
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either a scrote or an underage female sperg started wk'ing him hard in celebricows a few threads back
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should i bet money on one of the murican presidential candidates winning
t. non american (retard) (wants to buy burando)
i don't know yet. i'm eyeing some cute dresses and accessories on wunderwelt but that's about it.
i have the money to buy them but eh, i guess i'm feeling frisky and willing to gamble some cash for the possibility of gaining more. key word possibility
I think it's a shit idea personally, but you'll probably do it anyway.>>664762
Most farmers have admitted to being either completely friendless or keeping only shitty people around them. You can put two and two together from there.
1. How easily identifiable is it as YouTuber merch?
2. How likely is this YouTuber going to be exposed for sexting underage fans in the near future?
>>664796>knowing some of you freaks have said you want to fuck dogs, you aren’t sisters of mine.
I was going to disagree with this because I've never seen that, but I don't even know at this point.
But, anon, just what does that say about you, the person who comes to chat casually with anonymous dogfuckers?
1. It's the YouTuber's pet bird and the design is recognisable
2. The YouTuber is a woman so she's more likely to be 'exposed' for being problematic
rather than a predator
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Have any of you anons ever had or made black bean brownies? How did you like it? Any particular recipes you like? I kinda want to make some, not as some *~*~guilty but health~*~* alternative, but my not-that-into-chocolate brain thinks it might be ok since it isn’t 100% chocolate lol. A chocolate craving but without the want for chocolate I guess…? idk my brain is stupid
Yes! Very strange dynamic. But as other anons have explained, some don’t have a strong sense of self and don’t receive enough love or encouragement irl so that’s why they seek it here. It’s sad but I’m not going to make fun of them for it. >>664829
Yes, two different people are a nordfag. As anon said here >>664836
they aren’t, and I’m not either. We just don’t need some weird you are so valid queen! big huggies and kissies!
from the same catty hoes that are arguing with us over retarded shit and a-logging everyone that disagrees with them at the same time.
I don't know where the fuck to start on buying fake eyelashes. I've used them before, but it's been a long time. Are there particular brands/styles/materials thst I should be looking for?>>664842
This shit is low effort compared to having to keep up with people irl. I know it sounds shitty, but friendships are exhausting and this place fills my tank enough to where I don't have to care about long winded social interactions anymore outside of it.
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I made the initial post on the topic—wasn’t even referring to the kinship of anons and I don’t see an issue with this really. I just specifically meant that sometimes people go way too overboard with it and it looks like some tumblr uwu shit and it kind of gives a sliver of insight into how some
anons alienate everyone irl.
You must not have been here long then, because it definitely happens and it's not uncommon either.
Also, how would they be projecting?
Thank you guys so much! You really saved my ass.>>664926
I hope you made the most out of it and had a lot of fun. What kind of treats did make? I always associate this time of year with candied apples and popcorn balls.>>664929
You and your friend absolutely both count. Glad you guys spent it together. That always makes things more fun. I'm jealous you found the time to dress up. I was pretty bummed yesterday by not being able to go out/dress up. >>664930
Noted! I think the prompt was just to collect data from anyone about their habits. I don't see why logging 0 hours would hurt. I empathize though. My neighbors decorated like they do every year, so at least I was able to live vicariously through them.>>664934
You really went for it, huh? It's always nice to see someone get fully immersed in it. You're braver than me though. I hate scary movies.>>664935
Thank you! ♥
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The picture has nothing in the properties and the pdf is from an employment agency (pretty popular in town for students) that you print off and fill in. The memory stick was a certain one that was given out to the class a couple of weeks ago (everyone got one). I dont really speak to a lot of people so it would be hard just asking casual questions but i have asked if anyone had luck finding work due to covid and is 'pdf' agency any good?. I dont thirst after dick but the whole secretly tracking down dickpic guy is 100x more interesting than this class is.
Talk to the doctor and the pharmacists, they probably will know what's up
On that note, anon sorry for asking you this when you yourself are asking a question, but I'm about to be medicated for my ADHD today and I'm quite scared. How does aderall feel? How many times do you take it a day? Do you take it every day? What happens if you don't?
I'm broke as fuck so I'm scared of not being able to buy them every paycheck, and I wanna know. I'm sorry
Eh, I'll bring it up to my doctor. I'm just scared of looking like a drug seeker. I don't know what the rationalization in that is, but there it is.
Well, you have a few different options. There's stimulant-based, like Adderall and ritalin, and there's non-stimulant meds as well. There's no real way to gauge how you'll feel, it's a little different for everyone. Be prepared to have to pick up physical versions of your RX every 3 months or so, use goodrx.com to see discounted prices depending on dose/amt and location, discuss with your provider the cost of prescriptions (if you're in the US, you'll probably be stuck with generics, and they vary from manufacturer to manufacturer) and steer clear of namebrands. Don't expect miracles. It helps focus, but sometimes it helps you focus on stupid shit you're not supposed to be doing (ie: me posting on lolcow). Make sure you drink PLENTY of water. Make sure you take a multivitamin, and you might have to take magnesium separately. I take extended release, because I can't remember to take my second dose. You don't have to take it every single day, and it's better if you take a couple of days off a week to keep chances down from developing a tolerance/addiction.
It's not that he's a man, everyone speaks over each other constantly regardless. It's that when people hear you have a disability, they will stop asking you to conform to usual standards and adapt to you instead.
You just have to give people a good reason why they should adapt to you instead of vice versa.
28, 0 hours>>665122
I'm asking myself this literally every goddamn day
I had a positive Anti DS-DNA test, got an appointment with a maybe late 40s female rheumatologist that dismissed fucking everything that I said and wanted new tests on everything despite me having them 2 months prior. It was still in borderline levels and she could give a fuck less because I'm not past 50.
When do women hit that magical point of being heard? Is this why there's so many women transitioning?
those warnings are usually just a bluff. i've received a shitload of them. the most they'll do is lower your down speed, i think. i've never suffered repercussions.
also, the company holding copyright won't come after you unless you're pirating at a school/college/university or something. iirc that's the only time someone's been sued over pirating in the US.
i use weboas.is to locate websites. the first little button/option is for torrents, the second is for streaming. personally i use noxx, & anime9 for streaming; 1337x & nyaa for torrenting.
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How does discord work? Thinking about joining because my city is probably going to be under lockdown for the rest of the winter, and I feel almost desperate to interact with women who share my niche interests in film, music, and art history. Most of my friends are too busy with their work and personal lives to socialise rn so I feel a bit isolated
-squints- trying to decide if if this FBI-chan baiting me into giving up my obscure websites
Did you use VPN when torrenting? I got a couple warnings when I forget to use VPN or leaked but no issues otherwise.
The answer to all of your questions is therapy.
Also distance yourself from toxic
family where possible.
Can you find somewhere else to live to start? You say you’re making money but that your dad yells at you, so I assume you’re at his house? Getting away from his abusive
ass would at least allow you to start finding some mental equilibrium. Therapy is helpful, look for some classes or social meet-ups that look interesting to you (as Covid allows), try to explore various hobbies and see if anything feels fun. Give yourself the time to explore that you never really had growing up.
Maybe I talked to the picky eaters Americans. Also, lamb is better as a stew with potatoes, carrots and artichockes.
And rabbit is one of the healthiest meat available, even more than chicken, it has a soft taste and it goes better with rice. My mouth is watering right now just thinking about it.>>665361
Yeah, lamb in my country is expensive too. However, in some muslim's neighbourhoods you can find tasty and kinda cheap lamb.
My advice is that you must stop thinking about your present and focus on your future. I know that it's hard, trust me, I'm in your same background. What do you like the most? Where do you see 10 years in the future? Write down this on a notebook and work towards it, also, if you can, go to therapy.
And about your dad, start confroting him, you are an adult now and he must treat you like one, not like garbage.
Im moving away with my brother in a year, I just have to endure it for now.
I get therapy is important, but I highly doubt it can work on people like me. The last time I went she was just following a script and expecting me to answer in a certain way or shed get frustrated and confused. My life experience isnt common where I live and it feels like therapy is just for down on their luck normies. I dont think you can undo a lifetime of brainwashing and being beaten down, with therapy. Im counting on mushrooms once I move out.
>>665384>I get therapy is important, but I highly doubt it can work on people like me.
Anon, I sympathize with your situation, but this mentality is ridiculous and is only going to inhibit you in the long run. Shitty therapists exist. It's a shame, but true. One bad experience with one therapist doesn't mean others can't help you, and is not a good excuse to give up hope that anyone will ever understand you.
In the future, trying seeking a therapist that has a background in treating those with a history of abuse and trauma. If you use the website Psychology Today and use the find a therapist feature, you can put in your zip code and check off a series of boxes on the left to help narrow down someone who can meet your individual needs. Give it a try, I implore you. You are definitely not beyond help.
I believe what you're describing is dadrock. You might as well go for the gold and get into mom pop like XTC and David Bowie, too. >>665420
If you feel bad about it, just listen to Death Grips. That's what all the zoomers like, and, as xgau put it, Death Grips is just El-p for people who wish icp wasn't so stupid.
Ah, yes, the ol' impulse buy, masturbate, and then wallow in shame/remorse trifecta. I know it well.
I bought a glass toy a while ago. I wrapped it in some old clothes, and hit it up with a hammer until it shattered into tiny pieces. If it's plastic, try cutting it up with a box cutter or scissors into tiny chunks.
You're average. You probably look average. You'd never know you were fat until there'd be a mentally ill girl on the internet saying you are.
Unless your doc starts telling you otherwise learn not to care what people on the internet think.
Someone eats more than you do and moves less. Do you want a medal for eating normal and not having to work all that extra to expend the calories to maintain a weight?
If it's "the easiest thing in the world to do" then discipline doesn't actually matter, and needless to say someone can be disciplined in other principles beyond not eating. Or else women in the anachan threads would be turbo accomplished people from all their 'discipline.'
there are a multitud of reasons why someone might not be in shape both physical (like some deceases or some medication for them) and psycological (depression being the bigger one imo). it's not always lack of self discipline. and also not everyone is obsessed with what they look like and confidence shouldn't come from physical appearance either, it's ephimerous and that mentality will fuck you up in the long run.
and before all the anachans seethe and scream at me, im not talking about being obese to the point of actually endangering your health. which now that i think about it, it's something anachans and deadfats have in common kek
Such a strawman. We know, people can have disabilities or be on medications that make them fat. Duh. But that is every
indulgent western fattys excuse. They don’t have chronic fatigue that makes them 350 pounds, they’re self indulgent and lazy. Christ.
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You could make a friend finder post on the friend finder thread on /g/! you sound fun so I would def talk to you>>>/g/44295
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Does anyone here have any experience using Citalopram (celexa) vs Fluoxetine (prozac)?
Both @ separate times. Celexa doesnt do much. Helps focus a little. and prozac ruined my appetite. (and gave me serotonin syndrome at one point, fucking terrifying experience. dont drink caffeine on antidepressants)
prozac is your best bet if you're new to antidepressants because it won't make you gain 20 pounds kek. oh and if you get on it DO NOT DRINK ANY ALCOHOL at all. this is one of the first warnings. dont do it.
Prozac seems to wear out, I felt that too tbh it made me manic, and I had to get off of it
even when it was working ig it made me more socially like… there. like i was speaking to people a lot more. but this feeling went away in like 6 months. celexa was prescribed to help me with my adhd actually so it may help you!
Dude prozac has given me manic episodes before as well and I don't even have bipolar or anything!
How was your experince with celexa? thanks anon
Celexa didn't help me as much as say, adderall would. But it was calmer. You didn't have to worry about a crazy-ass migraine crash at the end of the day.
I think of it like this. Adderall gives you a "zombie"-like work ethic. You get a lot done in a zombie-like state. You basically just pump shit out like a computer.
Celexa gave me more motivation. As in I felt more motivated in my classes, rather than feeling like a work zombie. It was also a bonus not to have the shitty adhd medication crash. My adhd is pretty severe, so I eventually had to go back on ritalin/vyvanse but if my adhd was on the higher-functioning end back then, I'd say it would've kept me in check. So I can confirm that it possibly works BUT it depends on your personal case. I was surprised when they prescribed me it saying it would help with my adhd, I had no idea it was an option. I'd advise you to try it if you're ADHD with comorbid depression. if it doesnt work, there are many other options out there.
I kind of feel the same but only when I’m traveling with my brother. He’s an asshole about me knowing how to speak three languages because he’s got a shitty accent that he can’t correct.
I can speak normally when I’m on my own or during class, but since he always made fun of me whenever we traveled as kids and even whenever we travel with our parents, I get nervous and stutter and such.
It sucks so fucking much. But you have to learn how to control that on your own by practicing as much as possible.
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Thank you anon, this is life saving advice. Have this cute heart as thanks
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anons if a dude gets kind of quiet when he's talking to me does that mean he likes me? I thought my crush might like me back because he gets a little awkward and sometimes quiet and almost flustered I think?? when he talks to me but I could be overinterpreting regular social awkwardness. He has a fairly loud and distinct voice which is why the quietness stands out. Plus I recently found out a coworker has a crush on me and I have the most sterile, bland-friendly convos with this person, I never would have guessed this dude was into me, and I'm now doubting my ability to pick up cues that someone likes me or not. I also make him laugh a lot but I don't think the things I do or say are that funny.
samefag, but>I also make him laugh a lot
this is referring to my crush, not the coworker who likes me
During the lockdown, people I know who didn't have balconies whined about being confined 10x more than those who had it.
The less you go out, the more important it is. Old and immobile people need balconies the most.
Yeah pretty much what >>665835
said. Even though it feels like the right thing to do it's probably not a smart move.
Citalopram sapped my energy to the point where I couldn’t even sit upright in a chair for longer than five minutes and I spent hours every day literally laying on the floor barely able to move. It also killed my appetite and didn’t actually do anything for my depression or anxiety. I haven’t tried the other one.
Stupid question of my own: is there such a thing as anti-anxiety medication that doesn’t do this and allows you to still be motivated and energetic? When I complained about the lack of energy to my psychiatrist his response was basically “well duh, that’s how anti-anxiety medication works” and I had to beg him to let me quit. He wants to start me on sertraline next but to be honest, if I have to choose between anxiety and being too tired to stand I’d rather have the anxiety. At least I can still do basic household chores when I’m crying.
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Joseimuke and Otome anons, What is the hype of this game?
I hate any kind of gore, but animal is the worst to me. I cannot standba thought of someone harming an innocent creature, especially dependent on humans and full of trust.
It's like… what is worse to you, a gore of an adult or of a child? Because even if animals are not human, they are in the child category for me.
Humans=Not wholly innocent and therefore probably did something or made choices to wind up as they are
It's just a lazy person's way of not having to reflect or perform empathy. People like animals because animals don't have a voice or freedom. People can project emotions onto animals and basically do whatever they want to them. You can't get away with that on a thinking, independent human. I bet that fact is really annoying when one doesn't think humans have much worth to begin with.
People really only stan like that for beloved domesticated pet animals or beautiful endangered species though. They have to have a certain degree of cognitive dissonance to allow farm animals to be mistreated and slaughtered for meat, and to not care as much about the ugly animals or pest animals.
Your first half almost scared me for a second, I thought that was your personal reasoning kek. But that makes sense. Still super ugly but it at least gives me a glimpse into why they operate that way. Thankful for people who aren’t like ~I don’t care about people and only like animals~. >>665894
It's really scary. I've thought about this ever since I was a kid and first noticed how people would cry puddles over dead puppies but would barely shed tears over people.
What really sealed it for me is how bad people throughout history loved animals and treated them well, all while shafting other humans.
Some of the most abusive
men I've ever dated were cat fanatics for example. I dated this abusive
dude who once battered me during a holiday, same dude who loved a cat I adopted for him to bits. In retrospect he didn't treat the cat very well, as even the cat was subjected to his tantrums and fits of rage. Yet because he provided food, shelter, and was good to the cat other times, the cat still showed affection towards him. The cat didn't have a voice or facial expression to inform that guy that he was a fucking dick, and abusers love something who doesn't remind them of their toxicity and instead gives affection no matter what. I actually felt triangulated against the cat on a number of occasions just because of how blatantly better he treated it compared to me.
This makes hella sense. An abusive
guy I knew was obsessed with his dog and would say he’d kill anyone who disrespected her but he also beat the shit out of his wife often. I’ll never understand.
Will he not just allow you to fix it? My bf let me pluck away his, although he stopped short of me wanting to shape the rest of his eyebrows which is a damn shame.
One ex of mine had super short eyebrows that started at the middle of his eyes, it made him look stupid. Come to find out they were so short because he'd take a shaving razor and swipe off his unibrow, which also took off a large beginning section of each brow.
Men are retarded.
Thanks anon, kek>>665913
Honestly I thought as much! Might go neutral just to be safe, but I do feel better knowing that, thank you ♥
I do have seasonings, that's what I meant by common kitchen items (although I dropped items)
I have egg whites, very little amount of parma cheese and bacon.>>665929
No tortilla, unfortunately. I think I might have some veggies left. If not ramen, perhaps some chicken rice thing.
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I already know that this is a dumb question but is it wrong that I’m not jealous of “influencers” who are selling softcore porn? Or even girls who aren’t influencers that are posting bikini pics? I’m like a complete shut-in with no social media and people find it weird considering I’m a good looking 22 year old girl. But I just find instagram and influencer pics like picrel so porny and disgusting—it also makes me depressed how unattainable features are over time ruining other women’s self esteem. And I want to improve myself to be more likable to others except for the fact that people (esp men) always associate like the ultimate hot girl with having a huge social media presence full of simps to prove that she’s hot. So am I less of an attractive girl because I don’t have any accounts at all with my name? I know this is dumb, pls don’t kill me.
wow, sorry to hear that. that's shocking. if you don't mind my asking, did he have an emotional crisis or something? what was the aftermath like?>>666142
a fulfilling romantic relationship relies on both. the people i know that are in happy and stable long term relationships often mention the importance of keeping the passion alive by sharing new experiences with each other, working on projects together, etc.
It's been 8 years now, bumped into him twice by accident, no explanation. I got divorce papers via mail. It's the most bizarre thing. I swear he was doting/caring all that jazz and just switched like that.
Couldn't even give me the closure of one sentence explaining his feelings. I had to call up banks, utilities and have his name taken off accounts because he was just gone and running away from all responsibility.
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Maybe I'm thinking of incels who think all hot girls must be Stacy who has tons of beta males simping for her with her barely covered body all over her instagram account. A lot of men say those types of women are hot but unapproachable whereas I have the issue that I'm attractive but constantly bothered by disgusting men. I seem relatable/disarming since I have obvious primarily inattentive ADHD which by male logic boils down to "cute". Idk I just want the aura that these women have so men will realize that they have no chance and leave me alone.>>666119
Agree, meanwhile men are looking like picrel.>>666127
I find it more gross that she's doing that porn pose with her fingers under her ass cheeks in order to sexualize herself in normal clothes.
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Any anon remember which thread an anon got excited about breast forms in? This weeb I know just posted pics in one and I can’t stop laughing for some reason
Bunch of yall qaedas and vanilla isis members are definitely going to riot if their god emperor doesn't win. Especially after Trump starts spouting shit like "corruption!" and "skewed results!"
Honestly I think it's more likely that riots happen if Biden wins than other way around.
Watch 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way. If you marry some scrote then a lot of countries will still give you naturalized citizenship after your divorce. I recommend Korean men since the ones who seek out foreign women are notorious cheaters and if you’re able to prove it’s them doing the cheating then you get to stay in the country! Or just become an English teacher like >>666392
said. Or if you’re middle eastern passing then maybe fly to the middle east and immigrate to Europe where you can claim to be underaged with no paper documentation and receive a full education as long as no one figures you out.
JESUS YES. I swear 90% of the men I know are like this. It started happening kind of recently, too. They NEVER gave a shit about women's rights (or LGB rights) and they shit on feminism constantly, but for some reason they seem to be all about ~m-muh twanswomen rights uwu TRANS WOMEN ARE WOMEN! MURDER ALL TERFS <3~. It's always specifically in support of penis havers, I never see them say anything about transmen (surprise, surprise).
Tbh, I think they try to show how ~progressive~ they are to impress whatever girl they are trying to fuck atm, or they probably see that now saying you want to behead terfs is a cool new way of socially acceptable misogyny, so they jump on the trend without understanding anything about feminism/actual transrights etc.
I've been thinking about this a lot lately, tbh lmao. I think they just want to be praised for being "progressive" while also getting a free pass to shit on women.
I hope I didn't get too spergy, kek.
I think it's because there's 2 different systems of mail voting in America. One is a older one that the Republican party likes, the other is a newer one that the Democratic party likes.
I think the old one requires more identification, like you have to specifially request it in mail and identify yourself, the new Democratic one just drops in your mailbox like a newspaper and that's it. Trump and their minister of justice are saying that the new system is fraud because it's not secure enough and the letters they use don't hide which party you're voting for.
In places like Belarus they don't have 2 parties that have almost equal power, they just have one party in power and there's only one way of voting.
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Either I'm retarded or there's no such option. Where is it supposed to be?
Hm, check general? It's been a while since i used Skype, idk if something changed.
Otherwise I found this:https://answers.microsoft.com/en-us/skype/forum/all/clear-skype-history/90b5d291-a810-46cb-b0fc-61a6a664a29d
tl;dr: Right-click on a conversation in your chat list, then select Delete conversation
betting anon reporting in.
didn't actually bet, i'm glad my senses kicked in. i went on /biz/ and pol and it seems some people betted amounts ranging from 700 to 5k USD from what i've seen.
i still kind of have a retail therapy itch i feel like scratching, but i think i can handle it for now. sending energy from south murica
Most straight guys I know don’t really care about trans issues beyond wanting to be seen as nice and progressive. They don’t care to see things from a female perspective so they don’t see why women would object to men in their bathrooms unless those women are bigots, and disavowing bigots makes them look good. They don’t really think about it beyond that point.
Then there are the straight guys who live on reddit, where they are inundated with misogyny and trans ideology on a daily basis on practically every sub. I’ve known a lot of men who were openly and unapologetically misogynistic, homophobic, racist, ableist, antisemitic etc. who were also extremely supportive of transwomen and violently anti-TERF. They never even went on lgbt or feminism subs either, it’s simply everywhere on reddit and over time warps their worldview.
Also this >>666536
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How does it work US anons, one has to get 270 to win? So considering we wait for final results from 6 states : 2 where Biden barely leads and 4 where Trump leads it can be pretty safely said Trump has won? Such a confusing voting system
Guess it depends where you live. In my supposedly 1st world country we have pretty lax piracy laws but there is always one dumbass on twitter screeching "don't pirate, buy" about stuff made by huge companies. Sure mate, gonna give Hollywood some more money, guess they don't have enough.
I agree indie stuff and books by small authors shouldn't be pirated but many times we don't even have a choice. I ain't paying 60+€ for a paperback just because the printing company decided there won't be more editions.
I'm not from the US but from what I can gather from watching coverage, all the states count the postal votes at different times. Some count them before in-person votes, some after. As the postal votes tend to skew towards Biden, some states that are currently going Trump's way but have yet to count postal votes (like Pennsylvania, Nevada I'm not sure?) may come out with Biden on top. But either could win.
Burger anons pls correct.
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How do I make friends in pokemon go if I have no friends IRL?
Yeah it would be racebait because you know some motherfuckers are gonna be all like "weeeh blackface isn't a real thing! these lefties are too sensitive" and someone is gonna get the feefees hurt.
In fact maybe you should've asked this on meta because now you just may have started a blackface discussion. Why shouldn't google have helped? There's a wikipedia page for every topic in the world and one in almost any language.
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This post is still in effect, regardless.
Nah not exactly. Changing your skin tone to dress up as another race is shitty regardless of intention or awareness. >>666633
Honestly I would avoid the topic entirely. You're going to get shit from all ends since it's such a controversial issue and it really isn't worth covering unless you're ready to deal with people angry at your characters portrayal. Save yourself the headache and future shit flinging trust me
>>666634>Nah not exactly. Changing your skin tone to dress up as another race is shitty regardless of intention or awareness.
That's what I was saying, retard. TAIRT said "If you change your skin tone to appear darker tonedwith makeup that's blackface". That's not a factual statement though. There are plenty of people that change their skin tone to appear darker with makeup (really pale people, people with rosasea, etc) and but their intent is not to appear as another race or character, they are just applying makeup to contour or give themselves a tanner look. Being tan isn't blackface.
But I don't want to derail, just wanted to explain.
It's like comfort food but an excuse for autists to never watch a new show or read a new book, also do not dare to ship!!!!!their comfort character, that's abusive
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Goddamm. Thanks for the insight, anons. Btw its not that I dislike the particular part of the us im in, I hate it here in general and think its entire system is fucked. Maybe ill look into moving to a Germany like >>666762
suggested. I won't be able to do it anytime soon but I cant imagine spending my life here, shit sucks.
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How does it feels to kiss someone with very thin lips? I've also always wondered if kisses between people with very different lip sizes (larger or smaller idc) aren't kind of uncomfortable
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I want to get a basic job to stop being a neet and earn monies, but living in the US right now it doesn't seem safe. I know I'm lucky to have this freedom to hold off… But should I? Or try to get remote work instead (not sure what though)? I truly am a worthless dumbass
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Why are cops shitty peope?
My stepmom is a cop and she’s straight up psycho, im pretty sure she has some undiagnosed cluster B shit.
foods are caffeinated drinks
Sour/acidic food (even stuff like tomatoes/tomato sauce)
You could try some tums or some other form of antacid in the meantime.
not normal to hate them by default, but it is normal to be careful of them or choose female gynecologists.
I kind of get it though, like what draws them to that field exactly lol.
twitter users in general are insane, unhealthy, and controlling. burgers get vicious over politics so those traits kick in full gear. and, think the world revolves around murica
t. burger who hates twitter
of them?? Hating male gynecologists I can understand but isn't a male pediatriction more likely to have normal reasons? There is a wider range of potential reasons he's in that field. Maybe I say this because I've had male doctors with no issue though.
You should be careful with any of these men, but I won't instantly assume he's a pedo. That said, if you only pick women doctors, that's understandable and smart just to be safe. Honestly you are all onto something that many have ill intentions. It's something every parent + patient should be on watch for anyway sorry to 'not all men' you lol
Fucking this. I remember going to the pediatrician after getting breast buds for some basic shit.
That gross fuck fondling my raisinettes was enough to put me off eternally from male physicians. I understand that he's a doctor, but fuck it.
Same anon,same, plus aren't there like stats that say female doctors save more lives or something like that? >>667053>>667055
thanks, I just wish some careers were female-only. I just really don't like men
i’m 24, so i think that window has closed… gonna try a different BC like >>666939
said, especially since i’m wanting to gain weight. ig i’m just afraid of gaining too much and having to buy a whole new wardrobe lmao. thanks y’all
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Why do people always say "this website has made me worse" and "I hate this website"?
Is it really serious enough that this site makes you hate yourself?
Fuck you too anon>>667141
I just had a mental breakdown and can’t go to work like this
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What color is this to you?
This is likely going to sound autistic, but I have a thing for pens and the way they feel when I write with them. I could compare it to textures between extremely high quality chocolate and nasty ass Hershey's with its grittyness and shit taste.
Those Inkjoy pens in 0.7 are usually my favorite, but are there any quality brands that anyone here has tried with cute designs?>>667088
Figleaves has all the brands I like, but I buy all mine from Amazon.
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why not something like this anon?
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Googled the store you mentioned and I feel like this style isn't that hard to come by especially when you go thrifting for old furniture, you just gotta get lucky and search in the right places. It kinda reminds me of those shabby chic furniture shows I used to watch on TV
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samefagging but this is what I found when I googled "shabby chic" maybe try on pinterest or searching more on google yourself so you can find something you like>>667441
Unironically looking at animal crossing home decoration videos is really good to figure out what you actually like, so this is also good advice
It's still a great answer.
I went down a rabbit hole looking at each of the pens you brought up. The muji look fantastic and have a color variety option, and I wonder how they'll write in 0.7mm. The Monami 153 I may hold off on trying because of the expense, and because I'm unsure of the feel.I too am a crazy pen bitch
When I go through crappy breakups I tend to have to throw out things that have too many memories attached to them, in my mind it's hard to understand things like people keeping gifts and still using them afterwards.
Probably is dumb but you're not alone in being dumb like that
chia seed pudding with any flavours you'd like (has to sit in the fridge for a couple of hours anyways), you can meal prep whole wheat pancakes with fruit (buckwheat is good with strawberries or jam, some people grind oats in a mini blender or coffee grinder to make oat flour and add banana and blueberries etc), steel cut oats take longer to cook and meal prep but you can buy the quick cooking kind, stick them in tupperware in the fridge (or leave them in the slow cooker overnight with fruit and spices or whatever). they're high protein and more filling than regular oats imo
if you ever want something heartier or a bit greasy/salty you can whip together a quiche or frittata on a saturday or sunday and stick it in the fridge in cut up portions to reheat as desired throughout the week
for protein i find that turkey bacon holds up better on the reheat because it's either chewy or super crispy. not even bad cold, honestly. smoked salmon is great on bagels with cream cheese but maybe too much effort if you're very tired and half-dead in the morning. you can make breakfast sandwiches or wraps, nestle them between paper towel or those beeswax wraps in a big tupperware and microwave.
if you want something sweet you can do muffins or a french toast bake, i think muffins are smart because you can have half of one with a balanced ready prepared breakfast that has protein and some vegetables in it. good to get some berries for antioxidants and meat or eggs with healthy fats, whole grains to keep you full for longer. leafy greens or whatever kind of veggies. things to help your brain get through a day of studying
(you can also make iced tea or cold brew/iced coffee/lattes on the weekend in jars and leave them in the fridge. i love a couple of teaspoons of matcha with oat milk and a splash of real maple syrup. helps me feel alert since i sleep like absolute shit and never wake up rested. i feel like iced chai with a splash of milk or cream of your choice would be great this time of year too)
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i'm looking to get an iPad and noticed this. i'm young and dumb, is this kind of stuff stupid? i can afford to buy one full price, but i was interested in how these monthly payments work and if they're worth it
Paying in full could cause the same issue and in fact make it worse. If she can afford to buy it outright but that would wipe out all her savings, then she'll be without any sort of float if an emergency comes up. If she finances it instead then she can comfortably pay the $60 or whatever a month while still having several hundred in savings in case she needs a portion of that cash for something more pressing.
I do typically agree with the advice that you shouldn't purchase something unless you can pay for it in full right away, but it's more reassuring to know you have that option versus actually taking it. Companies normally won't have any issue with customers paying things off ahead of time, so she could immediately put 50% down as a cushion, then continue with the smaller monthly payments so she'll have savings.
I was being serious. Like, you know how people say "I'm gonna be sick" and they feel awful from eating so much. I hate that feeling but it's always late onset so I never feel like I'm eating too much at the time. Most times I also get a disgusting feeling from greasy foods or foods with too much acidity. So I puke it up. I don't feel that's bulimia which is like "If I throw this up then the calories don't count!". At least for the first part of my question. The second part, I could see being more bulimia "Ugh I ate all of these snacks, now time to purge to get rid of calories" but sometimes I genuinely feel bad for snacking when I could've had dinner with friends/family so I just get rid of it and eat a real meal. >>667670
I've been doing it for years, yeah my teeth are bad as far as cavities and stuff but I brush twice a day so I hope that helped.
not only does this damage your teeth as other anons have said, but if you ever manage to get help or work through it and stop purging, your body will have lasting (potentially permanent) effects.
particularly your gastrointestinal system, things like GERD, bleeding peptic ulcers (projectile vomiting half digested coffee grits textured blood - not fun! trust me on this), chronic nausea and vomiting when you have no desire to do so, a host of other things.
not trying to be shocking or scold you, regardless of your reasons for engaging in it i just hope you can take care of the underlying issues. i don't think the average person would purge just from feeling sick due to overeating. i've only ever heard of this in the context of average people as a once in a blue moon/one off behaviour in cases of severe stomach bugs where it's having a hard time coming out on its own, or being dangerously and disgustingly drunk (potential alcohol poisoning, usually purged by someone else for fear of their safety)
i could be wrong and i'm not saying you do, but you might have some strange hangups about your body, a need for control/autonomy, self punishment, lingering trauma, many countless other things. worth thinking about what could be driving you to these behaviours
please take care