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Let your stupidity run wild by asking stupid questions in this thread.
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I’m this >>585099
anon and I promise I’m not a troon or scrote lmao but I see what you mean. I just saw pic related posts in /g/ and my scrote/tranny radar went off. Sorry if I posted in the wrong place btw.
I actually get this a lot. I'm surprised I haven't seen other women complain about it because it's super annoying and inappropriate. It's usually older guys who test the waters to see if you're interested, but unless you're in a similar field/work at a similar company, there's really no reason for random people to be messaging you asking about your day.
If you have a profile picture and you're a moderately attractive female, it's way too common. They're definitely not trying to start random convos with other men.
>>585218>he could be someone trying to have an informational interview with some casual openers
I think they try to make it seem that way initially. My last job required a lot of networking and I met this much older married man at an event who claimed to have a lot of connections in my industry. When I added him on LinkedIn, all I got were random "how's your day haha" type messages and no connections. He asked me out several times to "discuss people who would be potential connections," like what? lmao
Be wary of these guys. They try to make it seem like they're pros in whatever industry, but they're usually overselling whatever connections they have in hopes you'll keep talking to them.
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I'd say I'm meh-tier and the photo I'm using is an old photo I had to take for a visa so it's really not in my favor lol.>>585218>>585229
Attached our convo. It's just boring, casual small talk…
Did your gums bleed in the beginning? I started flossing a week ago and my teeth bleed a lot.>>585264
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Yes, every night. I don't have dental insurance so I don't have much of a choice in doing everything that I can to make sure my teeth are nice and healthy/clean. They will bleed in the beginning but should stop eventually. If they don't stop bleeding, make sure you aren't digging too deep into your gums. Flossing shouldn't be painful! You'll be causing more long term trouble with aggressive flossing. I use pick related and can change out the floss (and can move along the entire length of the floss instead of just using one spot- that's a no-no anyway).
I'm the total opposite. What's the point of telling me it will be okay if I don't work out how to actually fix something or approach it?
The problem still remains unsolved whether I "feel" better about it or not, and usually I feel no different if I recieve only emotional support.
For me personally, I like when someone takes the time to listen to my problems and helps me either gain perspective on it or tells me they have gone through something similar.
I think the problem with advice is that some people tell you things that they want to be true for themselves, not necessarily what is true for you. There's a fine line there with someone just preaching at you, and an individual actually taking the time to think about what is wrong and give you a realistic solution for your particular situation. I've gotten a lot of shitty advice over the years so I understand your frustration.
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Who is this guy and why do we see a lot of YouTube profile pics of him?
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What actor is this?
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when you go look on the list of the people you're following, if the person you're following is your mutual, next to their twitter name you'll see a small "FOLLOWS YOU" text. Pressing the blue "following" button would change it to unfollow, so that way you can just go down the list and clean it easily from there. Does that help?
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Why do I look so stupid in full makeup, even when done by a professional? Even eyeshadow and eyeliner looks dumb on me. I always just use eyebrow gel, mascara, light bronzer and blush, and lip tint otherwise I look like i'm attempting drag or something. I can't even wear foundation because I look like so dumb.
As a fellow older farmer, I have found out that as soon as you leave your younger days, less really is more.
For your every day foundation, I would recommend you to use a Korean BB Cream or Cushion as they are very moisturizing and really help aging skin (I think the IOPE Air Cushion Natural is great but stay away from the matte formula, it's not very forgiving if you don't have good skin to begin with). If you need to go out out and want to look great, you can get away with a really thin layer of the MAC Studio Fix, I've found out their formula doesn't seem to cling to fine lines and looks very even (if that makes any sense). If you need to set your foundation, a really fine powder such as the Laura Mercier one will do, sucks that it's expensive af. Another tip if you still feel like you're wearing a mask is to blot your face with a tissue.
For blush, try gently rubbing your cheek to see your natural flustered color and stick to a more muted version of it, it makes it look more soft and natural instead of "hey, can you see my blush?". I try to stay away from bronzer, I just find it incredibly hard to work with. For highlighter I prefer cream ones, it's easier to apply and imo most of their formulas are a bit less of "in your face" compared to the powder ones. For lips, rather than a particular color or brand, I would recommend you to just try the Asian way of applying it, which is basically spreading the lipstick with your finger or a brush, it makes it feel less heavy. If you have the same issue as >>585646
regarding eyeliner, try getting some very soft eyelashes extensions, if you don't use eyeliner they will last for a long while, and personally I believe they look fine without mascara so one less product you need to worry about. Of course you could always try using a very soft brown eye shadow to either line your eyes or just to deepen your eye socket.
I think most of the time its not that full makeup looks stupid but more like you girls are not used to wearing that much product and that's why you feel weird, that or whoever did your makeup doesn't know your face. Different faces suit different styles after all, some girls look great with heavy eyeliner while other are more suited to eye shadow.
People can remember how many times they get banned?
I get short bans all the time from shitposting, I'm happy to take a time out for the sake of a laugh and hopefully my pettiness amuses others in some way too. I make a lot of reports so maybe it balances out somehow kek
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love you too anon
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Whenever a cutie makes eye contact with me on the train I look away all flustered like a retard and try to avoid ever looking at her again.
Does anyone know any channels like vid-related (Hercules Candy) and Royalty Soaps, where it's basically just videos of people doing every-day things for their business and commentating? It doesn't matter what their doing, I just like these kind of videos.>>585926
How long have you been exercising? I don't exercise regularly and I get cramps and soreness during and after working out. I think It's just the body having to adjust.
the driver 100%>>585907
i hope you find a way to break your lease for your roommates sake. you're incredibly cruel and i hate how bpd is treated as a meme mental health issue purely because it impacts women more
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What to do when you love some media on the surface level (visuals, ost, experience) but hate the edgy tryhard story (not even edgy in a funny way) and the famous writer is a total hack leeching on the talent of others that barely ever get praised.
This, there's no site quite like tumblr 2012-2014 when things were fun and you could just post aesthetic forest pictures without having to make yourself political
I wish there was another place like that, or an even better place than tumblr. But knowing how shitty everything is there's no way it will stay untainted for long and it will be ridden by trannies, sjws and poltards>>586000
This is kinda niche weeb bullshit, but I liked his works because they were weird and had female characters with an attitude.
He usually gives other people the job of writing his stuff (several female writers in the past, now a team of 7 otaku) and 3 years ago he wrote advertising tweets how he cried while writing for a game- now he says he didn't write for it at all, that was a sell-out move.
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this is a long shot but: is there a thread related to crafting or beading? didnt see any recent active ones but i am stuck as a beginner who wants to try daisy chain beading… i get all the supplies and then i realize the other options out there or that i am missing some things like lobster clasps and i dont even understand how to use those and theres just too much i feel lost on its a lot
The first two posts were funny, should have stopped there, now you sound annoying and unhinged
Neetlolita chan is that you
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Is gelling down baby hairs really considered cultural appropriation to some people? I've heard it once before but it just confuses me because I feel like it's always been a thing for minority girls with curly or frizzy hair. I'm not going to lie it looks a little weird when I see a white girl do it (I wont call it cultural appropriation though it just looks off) but I'm pretty sure arabs and latinas have been doing it since forever.
yeah, i'm getting some hardcore neetlita-chan vibes. she always tends to pop up after a few weeks anyways.
babygirl get some mental help or break your lease, i'm sure you're making your roommate miserable.
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Nah, prolly not. It's been a thing since the 1920's - there were a bunch of white models back then sporting "kiss curls"/"spit curls" (since you styled them and laid them down with spit), picrel. And unless memory fails me, Josephine Baker did
originate the style, but she gelled huge segments of hair, not just the baby hairs. "Minority hair" or curly baby hair tends to frizz up and look a little weird, so people are mad that white people with straight hair are doing it not out of needing better stylization, but just because it looks kinda cool. Honestly if it is
considered cultural appropriation, idc because it looks unnatural on white people anyways imo.
Verdict: It all comes down to hair type and stylization, in the end, not ethnicity.
It depends. If you're a shirt artist and a nobody of course you can't make a buck no matter what the subject matter is. But if you have moderate art skills and a good reputation you can make a lot of money getting commissioned by them. You usually have to be willing to draw fetish porn too. I know a lot of people who make good money selling porn to them because so many artists outright refuse to draw furries and NSFW simply for the reason that their requests are degenerate and their autistic asses are usually a nightmare to work with. >>586217
A ridiculous amount of furries work in IT either as sysadmins or engineers so it's not unusual for them to bring in a 100k a year salary. That's how they can afford their fursuits too, those things can be worth a car. From what I've seen a designer full suit with details is like 2000-3000 dollars.
How am I unsocialized? I would bet that I have more friends than you>>586204
Fuck off, pickme>>586219
I am sane. I just think it would be funny if she committed suicide.
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I don't understand dating sites. How am I supposed to kiss/date a person that Ive only known for a few weeks and I know less about compared to my friends?
Yes! Yes! Completely forgot, seeing disturbing things, like gore, also makes it clench too.
God, I'm honestly so relieved right now, that it is something other women experience too, I thought maybe my subconcious was into it or something.
Tell me why wouldn't it be funny if a pickme committed suicide? People like >>586155
agree with me that it's a really funny idea.
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At what age is it weird for a woman to still be a virgin?
I think societally 25 is kind of a limit, i'm a 20 year old virgin-chan myself and most of my friends are regardless of gender. but i assume most people outside my friend group are non-virgins.
But for being a kissless virgin, i think 20 is the limit. most people think it's weird if you never had a bf/gf in high school or college.
I used to wonder this too, throughout my twenties I'd experiment with makeup from time to time and I'd always come out looking worse than barefaced. eyeliner looked terrible, darker eye shadow looked terrible, darker lips, again terrible. I think some people just look better with less, I don't know what it is specifically about our faces though.
like anon said here >>585660
a bb cream or cushion could be more for you. I always hated foundation too but now I use a bb cream type thing and it much prefer it
Unless you live in some american like school drama, I have a hard time seeing people caring about someone being a virgin.
I think there were even an article about the rise of virgins starting with millenials. The societal expectations related to virginity are very noticeable during high school but later? Nah.
My roommate is not cooler than me. There's nothing about her that is cool. She once even got excited about a scrote asking her out on the bus. lmao>>586612>People commiting suicide is never funny, maybe you are the bpd chan not your roomate.
Yes. They might be butch but still look and act like women.>>586753
Used to think I was bi for treating women better and being nice to them while doing the opposite with men but turns out I just like being around them a lot. I feel zero attraction but have warm feelings towards my friends
Short answer, no.
Long answer, there can be no true equivalent. Emasculation is implying that a man has failed to adhere to socially prescribed masculinity and gender roles. He is beta, he is dickless, a simp and a pussy, he has become less of a man and more like a woman because being woman-like is an inferior state.
There are a million ways society insults womanhood and devalue those who do not perform the right amount of femininity, we hear it daily. Reducing us to objects with “holes” or “incubator”. Men call us “defeminized” for being GNC, but that’s as far as defeminization goes.
Women don’t feel like our womanness is invalidated by such vitriol for we have internalized that being born a woman is just like this, shit stick in a rigged game. Experiencing misogyny only affirms our womanhood, it is integral to being female. We don’t have the same kind of insecurity men do about their maleness and his place within the male social hierarchy. Masculinity is so fragile because men are scared they will fall from position of privilege, casted down with the lowly females. They literally measure this with their dicks.
In conclusion, people who believe in “emasculation of man” can not in the same way belittle a woman by saying that she is acting like a man, a superior state. To them, if a woman fails at gender roles, being fuckable and nursing babies, “holes” or “incubator”, she simply ceases to be human at all.
Stress, weight gain, weight loss, sedentary lifestyle, pcos, thyroid issues, reproductive health issues.
Talking to a gynecologist would be a good idea
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Should I buy these shoes… they're $30 after discount and actually come in my size (I have stupidly small feet) but my only gripe is that they might be annoying to put on and take off quickly since I'd have to undo the whole ankle strap instead of it having like a zipper in the back or something to easily slip in and out of.
Hell yeah, thanks anon. I think I had shoes with a similar ankle clasp years ago and I can only remember being frustrated at putting them on/taking them off because I can just slip on/kick off most of my shoes in like 10 seconds or less haha. I have similar shoes right now and they look sooo cute with my long skirts but they're technically
children's shoes lol. I'm just a fucking sucker for these ankle straps, they really up the cute factor for flats.
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Who else puts stickers on their car?
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Wore it. I felt good about myself, plus I didn't feel anyone staring. Somehow it really boosted my confidence. Really happy about myself, I usually wear dark, unassuming clothes and I went full-on "Bird of Paradise"-costume today lmao. Thanks, anons.
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Soooo did /g/ really help anyone make friends successfully?
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Does anybody know who this girl is?
Many people who don't think about theoretical stuff that much will probably find you boring because that's not relatable to them specifically, so they don't necessarily see the appeal and could also get the impression that since you have no hobbies, you spend your time aimlessly mucking about on the internet. Still, with many other people you can get a good discussion going, obviously more so if they're also more into abstract conversations. Many people who are like you in this respect will even find you less boring than someone who mostly has concrete hobbies and isn't into theoretical interests.
In normal social situations, just answer any questions about your hobbies or activities etc with cool and interesting things you've been into and learned recently, should be fine.
I added someone I keep forgetting to start a conversation at this point it's too late, and another one never answerer my request lol>>587273
put me in
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I really liked Kiki's delivery service and Howl's moving castle for the warm tone and the charming, family-esque interactions between the characters. Are there any other TV shows/movies/comics/books/animations that are like that?
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I recommend Little Forest, it was such a chill film with lots of homely food and lovely countryside scenes. The full film is on YouTube with English subs if you’d like to watch it.
Everyday? 50 is an underestimation imo. I would probably say a couple hundred, I post every day too, now. I think the overall number of people that post here is somewhere in the 1-3 hundred thousands, although I have no idea at all about how many people frequent imageboards. 4chan has users in the millions, but that's for over ~15 years.
Admin really should provide us with info on user base stats although I know she probably wont.
I'd like to imagine it's in the hundreds.
I mostly lurk, but I check this site way too often out of pure boredom. Wish I could check my own post history so I can keep track of my autism. Sometimes I can't remember if I've posted in a thread or not.
I wonder if we have talked before…
I think it's gotta be more than a hundred everyday at least, because I can't imagine the same 50 anons being into all the cows whose threads move almost daily.>>587721same, I sometimes think about that too, how much I've posted and how much I've changed
If I stumble upon one of my ancient posts from about 2 years ago I don't realize it until I've read half the message. Honestly I wouldn't like to see my post history, it's full of embarassing confessions and spergouts, probably.
Sometimes I feel like most things I post here are done in a fugue state. And if that's true, even my fugue-state-self is pretty cringe.
Same, an anon responded positively to a year old post in one of the attractive women threads and I was halfway to replying in enthusiastic agreement until I realised the old post was mine kek
I don't think any of us really need to suffer the cringe of our own post histories. When I came here I was really judgmental of all the cows but now I just want to see them do better in life and chat cosy shit with other anons
It's nice to think that through possibly responding to the same anons over the years we're having long term anonymous friendships though kek
lmao that's a funny way of thinking of it. I always pronounce it like sage instead of sah-geh too.>>587794
I think it's just because they want to put in their (usually off topic, sometimes blogpost-y) two cents despite having nothing actually relevant to the topic at hand. It's really not necessary if you're already properly saging your posts but some people do it anyway. I think new people might do it because they think that's how you sage posts.
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thank you so much for your answer. take this frog as a gift.
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What portion of lolcow users use lainchan and vice versa?
I sometimes use it, but much less than lolcow because it's so slow. I like the discussion on there and usually just lurk the active threads in /mega/>>587854>>587862
Just gonna spoonfeed a bit. From what I understand the names are randomly assigned from characters from sci-fi media or real-life hacker type figures. Posters don't pick them, it's the default like "Anonymous"
I like lurking once in awhile, sometimes learn of new things
I hope none of those dudes are here
You're kind of meant to, but you have me questioning whether that's not the case in other countries to mine? You're already there so people know you like that band but by wearing the shirt of another band people now know that you might have two different bands in common so you can talk about that. If you see lots of the same band tees at a gig you know that you'll probably like that band too, so you can look them up.
In my experience it's lame to wear the band's own shirt at their own gig unless it's either a very old tee, to show you're a longtime fan, or it's a tour tee from that exact tour or release to show you just bought it. Otherwise you just look like you don't know any other music.
I don't know about shelters, but I gave extra cat food to the local cat lady that feeds neighbourhood cats. She was thrilled that "there are still nice people that care" and "would you believe that a young man once threw a rock at me for feeding the cats". Well I never.
Anyway, gave food, got half an hour of praise, assorted life complaints (pension, health, stone-throwing jerks), and general cat-related small-talk.
Would recommend this option because you get to befriend a neighbour that way, which is always nice.
Actually, yeah, I consider myself pretty, like everyone else, with the right angles and lightning I “look cute” or at least that’s what I’m told. When I look at myself in the mirror I just notice some stuff like my weak chin and droopy nose, but they fit my face? Somehow?
Either I got some nice self-esteem or I’m actually not hideous.
Yes, totally same. I'm lucky to look ok I guess but sometimes it's annoying to think when I look in the mirror how close I am to be conventionally pretty yet these few things that are off are just messing it up. Like, I'm the only person in the family to have a weak chin, why must genetics treat me like this?
Also I totally relate to the awkward look & awkward behavior combo, if only I could be, like, cool and extroverted and amazing at conversations maybe people wouldnt mind an awkward look? But it's like my personality is just amplifying the look. Truly a first world problem but a problem nonetheless.
I kind of agree, discussion seems more neutral and just like everyone is having a good time instead of sjw virtue signaling
Thing is, kiwifarms is a very male place, if that makes sense.
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Why did PULL have a thread for bestdressed? I didn't really use PULL before it got nuked and I'm curious to know why PULL hated bestdressed since Ashley is very inoffensive and doesn't seem to be a lolcow
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I have a question for a Finn. Can someone tell me more about Mandi Lampi (daughter of Jussi and Tuula Lampi)?
I stumbled on her by accident and read her wikipedia article. I don't know why she piqued my interest, but I want to know more. Her whole existence seemed pretty sad and her death was so sudden.
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Am I the only one so addicted to lolcow that I downloaded a text to speech app to listen to while I go about my day?
Lolcow is the only website I use except for youtube for entertainment so i can relate.
yall bitches are cool.
It says the numbers - a little annoying but it does break up the posts
Depending on how large the thread is the recording can go on for hours but I obvi do other things like listen to music or yt, I just rlly like the fact I don’t have to be looking at my phone to read the site anymore
If you're a young adult, no, lots of people live with their parents if they go to a college in their city.
I'd say it starts being "unusual" if you're over 25. Like it's weird when you want to invite friends over. If you also contribute very little (like don't do chores/only do one, sometimes) I'd say yeah it's weird. But if you're a functional member of the family who contributes to the house, I wouldn't call that weird. Unusual is a better word.
No, I wouldn't say so. I'm southern european and it has to be more common here than in other parts of europe, but I know some thirty something people still living with their parents (and grandparents sometimes, especially if the house is big). They all work and have normal lives. I think people tend to move once they get married and they know the space won't be enough if they have kids.
Also, I thought this was an american thing?
Yas girl, same! It's like we're dating the same man.
We met at work. I worked in a job that had me observe people for eight hours a day so seeing him genuinely be friends with women and respecting them raised green flags for me, even though I wasn't initially attracted to him. He's so grossed out by the porn industry that it's endearing.
I never sought him out, I just got lucky. Of course, my first ever relationship before him was with a really pornsick guy, so falling into the arms of someone else afterward who was so undefiled restores my faith in humanity. He taught me what intimacy was really supposed to feel like. >>588339> he's never asked to touch my asshole
Same. I’ve been with the same guy for 5 years and he’s never been interested in anal. One time I was curious to see how it felt so I asked him to gently stick a finger in my asshole, but I didn’t like the way it felt, and he hasn’t brought up anal since.
How much do anons judge their coworkers if you see them rewearing clothes often? Not like shit that's faded and has stained baked into them, but professional clothing. I'm super self conscious about rewearing my clothes, but I just don't have a very large wardrobe. I have limited space and have already donated so much clothing that I dont wear, and now its down to some casual tees and pants, and my more fashionable clothing for going out to meet friends, to my nice professional clothing. I also don't stink after sweating (thanks genetic lottery) so I like getting more than one wear out of my clothing before throwing it into the wash weekly (unless it has a stain) because I feel like with every wash it's like eating into the life cycle of my clothing lol.
My new job requires professional clothing, and on top of limited space, that sort of clothing can be so expensive!! I only buy fancy professional clothes when it's on sale, but even on sale some shit isn't that cheap. I don't really want to make space to expand my wardrobe either since I feel like I have a nice, small repertoire of clothing already. It's unnecessary and I don't want a big wardrobe to make it look like I can keep up with trends and be super fashionable. If you were my coworkers would you guys judge me for wearing the same shirt or skirt twice within the span of a week, or constantly seeing the same shirt once a day every week/other week?
I have a male friend who isn't pornsick, and basically he's just a massive normalfag who was raised super religious.
He didn't even know about basic sex weirdo shit like inflation or transformation…imagine that existence. I almost feel bad for corrupting his mind with the knowledge, despite him having way more actual sexual experience kek.
I think he's also pretty promiscuous which may contribute (he gets the real thing so often he doesn't need porn), though he wouldn't admit it to me.
You might some automatic photo-correction active in your phone camera (smoothing being a very common one, sometimes impossible to turn off even); or your mirror is in a badly lit place and you take photos in a place with better light.
Also people don't have good ass skin generally but these two factors listed above + photoshop OR the general rule of the fact we perceive others more favorably as we see them in motion and theres no time / too much light nuance for our eyes to analyze their skin texture/porosity fully in a way we would do with ourselves in the mirror or anyone on a candid photo.
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What pattern is this called? Also, the blue in the photo is actually green irl
I really do think it's a luck thing. Just keep saying you don't tolerate porn in the relationship and I'm sure you'll find someone.
My boyfriend is very traumatized by porn because of grooming he experienced as a child and a subsequent addiction to it. Both of us were, so we bonded over it. You may have to find a guy with a history but that has issues of it's own. Good luck anon
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wait what does this mean?
why is twitter banning discussion of random conspiracy, some kind of incident?
it's been a long time since i heard the name Qanon
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even if no one else cares I'll make it for you anon
I didn’t know this ~aesthetic existed till now, and after doing a bit of research I still don’t quite don’t understand it lol… why are the tumblrinas claiming it’s racist?
Also, I hate how lazy people are about naming aesthetics, ie picking an adjective that describes an aspect of it and then just slapping -core at the end. You’d think these girls who spend hours curating their image would have a more whimsical and diverse vocabulary, but I guess not.
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This is goblincore
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Please post the thread link if you make it!
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Goblincore is called racist because goblins were basically a fantasy stand-in for jews in medieval europe (short, hook nosed, evil and greedy with a penchant for gold and jewelry), folk tales about goblins were basically thinly veiled beware those jews lol
cottagecore is called racist because sometimes with overlaps with weird tradfem nazi chicks on tumblr
tbh they are genuine criticisms, specially about the nazi tradfems that end up getting kinda popular because people only reblog their pretty braided blonde hair without looking at their blogs and them talking about serving their white husbands and how western media is evil.
Yes she's cis, or maybe I'm blind>>588928
She's not buying her friend's OF. She was talking about buying Belle Delphine's OF ffs.>>588946
She's not butch
How about no. Claiming things are racists because racists like them and is just giving away free things and symbols to racists to enjoy.
Suddenly, norse mythology is racist, Jeanne d'arc is racist.
Fuck this shit.
Nah, fuck that. Literally no one into goblincore is thinking of Jewish people and mocking them, they just like the idea of being grotesque faeries. >>589064
>>588953>look up why cottagecore is racist>supposedly I should be offended by it because I'm Indigenous and it's "romanticizing colonialism">people posting about this issue are often white or very white-passing
I see where they're coming from, but there sure are bigger Indigenous issues than some white lesbians dreaming of owning farms. And labeling it as problematic
won't send anyone back to Europe kek.
And ffs, I
want to live off the land with a female partner, so of course the aesthetic appeals to me. Is this what counts as internalized racism now? Huh? Wanting to wear floral dresses? >>589051>Nazi tradfems
Even crazier. Imagine abandoning neutral hobbies just because some Nazis also like it.
Well, obviously, if you're looking disturbed or you're asking for something ridiculous, it's a possibility.
Just being in therapy is not much these days, a lot of people are.
I've been living basically my whole life in fron of a screen since childhood. It's not a unique problem, especially on a more-or-less-obscure imageboard, but I've been increasingly less okay with this as the years go by, to the point where now I look through social media and other sites on constant anxiety mode. I don't interact with the outside world at all, and it scares me. I might just fucking not grow up and die like this. I used to go to events, hikes, museums, etc., but always on my own. My hobbies have been trashed lately too. I'm tired as fuck, always. I'm pretty sure i've got Maladaptive Daydreaming, if any of you even consider it a real affliction.
If any anons got out of the hole of being a terminally online hermit, at least partially, I'd like to know how you did it. My heart is racing just thinking that I need to change now or else I'm never going to. I'm kind of fucking scared, guys.
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wtf is going on with that PULL migration? I don't wanna read the whole thread but the "sister forum" link going to kiwifarms is a joke right? or kiwi is really our sister forum and this is the first time i'm hearing it?
I think that’s on >>>g>>589188
This, looks way too stocky
There's a baking/cooking thread here: >>>/g/59005
But I kinda want to make a thread for healthy recipes and another one for aesthetic food (vid related) or also like, another food thread? idk am I stupid?
Anon, we’re currently in a quarantine/legit down/weird fucking timeline, not being able to go out is normal and not just you. Even if you weren’t doing those things before, it’s not like you should feel bad about not being able to do them now.
Try going for walks, maybe find a trail by you that you like and find a little spot you can sit down at and either read, doodle, just be away from a screen, etc. It’s a small start and keeps you and others safe rn! Good luck!
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Is the body fat measurement function on a crosstrainer accurate? Also wtf does this chart and the above information mean? The chart says that that 10-13% is the essential fat but the text above it claims that anything under 17% body fat is bad?
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How do people bake cookies like this without them browning??
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sorry for the delay making the thread, i hope it meets your standards
They're only called pickmes because there's a stereotype that because some men prefer the "natural" look (even though we all know that most guys don't even know what that means), SOME women don't wear make-up to suck up to them. It's a stupid idea and it puts more unnecessary pressure for women to conform.
Not wearing make-up being "unprofessional" is just another part of the fucked beauty standard for women, and IMO it's similar to when some people think wearing curly hair (~ type 3 or 4) down is "unprofessional". Neither of those two things are an indication of your respectability but because there's a certain look based on historical expectation for women in the workplace, they're automatically viewed by some people as untidy or whatever.
There's nothing wrong with not wearing make-up. I genuinely think that people look just as nice with or without it, anyway.
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Are there subtle differences between how an above average woman gets treated versus an extremely attractive one.
I've watched Vinesauce since 2012 and ever since the Art Corner started getting archived to youtube Vinny's audience has had a constant flow of clout-thirsty artists wanting their 5 minutes of fame and all the dumb bullshit that came with that. I also find it weird that Vinny responds in a somewhat misogynistic way almost anytime a conventionally attractive female appears on the screen, and if that's helped attract a weird combination of straight misogynistic men, misogynistic gays, and self-hating afabs into the community.
Vinny used to want to be somewhat insightful during the games he plays and was completely against turning into a "loud noises funnyman" and fans used to respect that but now that's exactly what his audience begs from him all of the time.
Joel has the worst fans of any Vinesauce member and that's been a fact for years. Even Dorb's snobby audience isn't nearly as braindead and rude as Joel's. Joel also has the JJBA autism audience.
There's a lot of overlap in Joel's and Vinny's audiences.
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Is it true that, in America, it's (increasingly) common for people to do onlyfans?
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Has anyone tried or made lean?
hmmm it's good you went to the ER and got a brain scan. as far as i know, brain scans (CT and MRI scans) rarely show evidence of concussions. they are meant to show bleeding, swelling and major damage, things that aren't present in (most) mild to moderate concussions.
a few questions: did you lose consciousness during/after the fall? at the ER, did you get a concussion test? were you asked any questions about symptoms or asked to state information like your birthday or who the president was? if not, i would maybe make an appointment with your primary care physician and see if you can get a second opinion or diagnosis of a mild concussion. they likely will not be able to help much, but they can write you sick leave for a week or two so you can recover at home. even if you hit your back, it's possible the inertia of the fall and neck whiplash could have resulted in a minor concussion. get a diagnosis and time off work for your brain to heal! concussions suck and stress from work or symptoms will slow improvement. feel better anon!
oh gosh, that sounds dreadful. get well soon anon! can you call in sick and rest some longer? it would be a shame if you had to work like that. sorry that happened
it's normal to feel fatigue after banging your head as it's a shock to the body and mind. and what other anon's said. sending you some healing vibes
I am a person who does that.
For me I think it's a childhood habit from playing by myself and being my own company a lot. My mother also does it for this reason.
Why is it freaky to you?
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How many dates should someone go on before doing things like holding hands and/or kissing? I've never been on a date and for some reason the question plagues my mind. I'm 23 and feel like I should know this shit and yet I don't.
It depends on the chemistry and how long y'all were talking online.
For me, I talk to guys for a long time before ever having a move made so when we first meet it's a kiss and playful hand holding.
But if you are doing casual dating or just met someone, first date should be "get to know" type thing. You never know if the guy is a total fuckwad creep that just faked his way into being a good boy on the first date. So I suggest maybe even the third.
He will show his true colors pretty much after the first date though. They always do.
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Is it true that, in America, people can get high-quality items through thrift shops for affordable prices?
t. jealous Briton who can't find anything decent in secondhand shops
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Dumb question - i wanted to post Kavos (youtuber) on /g/ for male attractions. idk if he would go into "attractive males" or "unconventional males" thread though. Do you think he'd be considered cute by most girls?
(i swear im not kavos why does this make me sound like a scrote)
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Anyone here went from a b cup to like a d cup from gaining weight? I'm 120 at 5'5. I dont wanna be built like lena Dunham and be fat with no
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What are some western brands that make similar stuff to Liz Lisa, ank rouge, amavel, axes femme etc?
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Was there a case where poor/low-income men were made to perform degrading acts on camera and the video was legally considered hate speech? I swear I remember seeing a radfem say this happened to justify why pornography should be also considered hate speech
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Can admins/mods see every single thing i've ever posted?
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Has anyone ever gotten or was tempted to get in their school’s water fountain?
My classes were near the fountain and I would be tempted to go in during the hot Texas weather, usually I would just rest and stick my arm in the water (pic related).
Korea raped the fuck out of Vietnam in the 60's-70's and throws people in jail for talking about it because they want to uphold the image of them being the ones civilizing the barbaric Vietnamese. They're in no place to complain. Like every country in Asia has a problematic
history or current day, Japan isn't even the worst of the lot. I'm pretty sure this is a bait but just putting it out there because I've seen (koreaboo) anons parroting this dumb shit in here.
Don't get your hopes up kek. I used to flirt with this one guy back in college; not into kpop but he had lots of favorite male anime characters he'd gush about with the female weebs. I brushed it off because he was an art student. Then he commented that I'd look cute in a suit out of nowhere (I didn't dress very masculine at all). I guess
you could hold out hope that he's bi, but in my experience bi dudes have better taste in men (aka not kpop boys).
But I like anime though>>591031
Didn’t know the Koreans did that to the Vietnamese, that’s pretty fucked up. China on the other hand, are the.biggest assholes past and present.
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Would it be retarded to create a thread about travelling? OBVIOUSLY noone's travelling right now for a while, I just thought it would be interesting for exchanging our impressions about countries we've been to, countries we plan on visiting once the apocalypse is over, things that surprised us, etc.
>>591071>OBVIOUSLY noone's travelling right now for a while
You'd be surprised.
But great idea for a thread, go ahead!
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Fountain anon, here’s another close up
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What tf is this shape called?
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Why is asian fashion so much better than western fashion, also why are asians from big cities usually better dressed than westerners from equal counterparts?
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the only asian fashion i care about is that of grannies and aunties. this is peak performance
Is anyone really dressed like this on a daily basis though? Even on these fanpages showing fashion from, for example, Tokyo, all the people dressed in colors would be people from creative /fashion related industry or so. Dressed like this you'd stand out there just as much as you'd stand out anywhere else in the world. And >>591205
is pretty basic, you could easily get - or see in editorials- stuff like this in europe.
>>591208>generally (not always) less shapely bodies than westerners mean they can pull off different cuts and baggy tops that would look unflattering on curvier girls.
Thats a great point I hadn’t consider before on why asian fashion suits me better, im not asian myself (Mixed white and native) but my body type seems to be alot closer to asian girls, trying clothes at the mall always felt like raiding an older woman’s “sexy night out” closet, even if the clothes are meant for my age range.>>591211
tbh japan is the more toned down one but in korea and china colorful more “alternative” outfits are very common amongst the youth like >>591212
said, I’ve actually heard that the easiest way to spot korean tourists in japan is by their clothes and make up lol.>>591209
Grandma Kei is peak fashion.
Just a guess, but whiter scleras might up the contrast in your eyes, making the colour of the iris pop more and possibly making the eyes seem bigger. Also I think if you're already editing your teeth it looks weird for your teeth to be whiter than your eyes.
Some people have naturally more yellowish/muddy scleras, mostly black people and the elderly I think, and that looks pretty bad imo.
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Is Kaitlin Olsen hot?
I really love sunny and I love Kaitlin on it but i thought the point of her being cast is she kinda looks like an alcoholic? Like, she looks older for her age and hard around the edges. I could easily see her in any dive bar in the US. But hearing the cast/moids on reddit talk about how hot she is has me confused. She just seems skinny and blonde to me, but then I think that's all it takes with men?
They told the original Sweet D that she was too attractive to play the character. I mean the real reason was because she broke up with Rob and ironically dates and marries Kaitlin.
Kaitlin plays both end. Awkward bird to make fun of and tall blonde so she gets both of best worlds. She's not ugly so, yeah that's all it takes it be "hot" by a lot of men.
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What's a good Shopping Service for mercari and fril for poorfags?
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Thats definetely not alternative, its a scan from POPTEEN from 2012, its geared towards everyday japanese teen girls not a subculture niche like Gothic Lolita Bible.
You could compare it to something like Teen Vogue or Covergirl.
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do you guys think if you can't stop thinking about someone that isn't in your life anymore, see things related to them, have dreams about them, etc. it means anything? Like that they're also thinking of me, or I should reach out? or is my brain just torturing me?
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What is the best type of hair clip to use when sectioning your hair to blowdry it? I’m trying to figure out how to blowdry my own hair and it’s harder than I thouught.>>591482
I think a true asexual would only have sex if it were to please their partner. Asexuals can get horny but usually it’s only when they’re alone, and the idea of actually having sex with another person irl would be unappealing.
t. anon who may be asexual
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Do they have fingerprints?
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Who made this? I love the style.
The can feel horny and they masturbate, but they won’t have sex with a person irl because that will make them dryer than a desert/shrink to oblivion faster than anything.
They -could- have sex but it wouldn’t be exactly a good experience for them because that’s not what they want.
I see so many asexuals talking about how they don't want or enjoy sex but they do it for their husbands/bfs sake and it just screams unhealthy to me to accept that and basically normalise having unwanted sex for your partners benefit.
I don't use the label asexual but I don't enjoy sex and it would be detrimental to my wellbeing to just have it anyway
Nayrt but I agree that it's incredibly harmful behavior, and whenever anyone talks about being an asexual but giving it to their partner I just automatically assume that person isn't really asexual because to me it just sounds like they're in a relationship with someone they aren't sexually attracted with but they're forcing themselves to do it anyway and have just convinced themselves it's fine.
I'm sure asexual people exist, but this isn't the way to do it.
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idk who made that image but kficc makes similar looking art which you might like
I personally feel horny once in a blue moon, very briefly and not very strongly.
I can't have sex because I feel no arousal so nothing can even go in. I've wanted to try when given the opportunity, because why not, but literally nothing happens.
Fiverr or Odesk (which might have a different name now)
I got my first transcription job at age 16 on Odesk and made some cheap cash but it def was for pennies, I made like 60 a week. But I imagine you could find way more jobs and better paying jobs no doubt.
What skills do you have? Writing? Drawing? Clerical?
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Lesbians/bi girls, is it actually hard to find another woman to date or do I just suck? I just want a cute gf man
No avdice, I just want to sympathize. My only gf I've met organically by accident and it was great, but it's so hard to meet someone organically, and through apps it's just a hot mess. Even though I have preference for women I always end up with men because it's just so hard to find a compatible woman when you're pretty much limited to apps. Like >>591805
said, there it's either someone 3some hunting or desperate women for whom attraction to women is their only personality trait.
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Why is my stomach screaming for food every 3-4 hours it fucking hurts
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Ntayrt but Pinterest
I once said that If I sold clothes that I would think about charging extra for plus sizes and my cousin went OFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF.
She's not fat but she's fake nice.
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What are some foods with high calories that won't give me beetus?
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Are there any guides to making digital collages like pic rel? I really like these sorta collages but idk how to start
What exactly is confusing to you? When it comes to collages themselves it's all about an idea so I think this is what you have to produce yourself, by just looking at a lot of things.
From a technical side, it's just a digital cutout, so look up how to cut out stuff from pictures in a program you like, if it's photoshop, I advice looking into layer masks and layer blending.
I mean what's your question? If your a complete beginner to making collages I would recommend vid related. I also got into collages recently and this video helped me. If you want to use photoshop you can get a pirated version off birdysources on tumblr.
There's also a video by Cbc Arts that shows an artist making collages with magazines that is more similar to the collages you've shown.
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holy shit I snorted
Nope. Smell never goes away. I have dozens of piercings that have been out for 10+ years, the holes are unusable and I'm still cleaning that shit constantly to avoid the smells
They tell you you'll regret your edgy teen phase, but they never explain why
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>How does one go Ana when you’re being fully monitored by your family?
>Is not eating and working out useful at all?
>Would the yoyo effect be dramatic?
>is it better to just eat salad and fruits?
I do that and I think it's a natural part of human sexuality, I do not think it's exclusive to women. I think a lot of men don't do it anymore because they've been watching internet porn since they were 8 so they never even had a chance to develop a sexual imagination or discover what's so great about physical intimacy. So basically, they've had a fake sexuality implanted in their heads instead of developing it naturally. They've been brainwashed.
It's kinda sad tbh. I dated this guy whose mom gave him porn at that age and his sexuality was completely crippled and it was not a fun time. It ended up being the death of our relationship because I can't deal with someone who learned everything they know about sex from porn. It's a pretty good sign they let media dictate who they're supposed to be in other ways, too. It's a sign of weak mindedness imo.
Porn seems to cripple men more than women and I think it has something to do with this societal idea that you need porn to jack off when if you didn't develop a porn obsession, porn is honestly really stiff, boring, unrealistic, and one dimensional. But that is just my opinion.>>592187
Not all of us are innocent, pure virgin Maries. If you've gotten close enough to screw a man you've gotten close enough to figure out his masturbation habits.
You're semi-aware that the more of a type of material you expose yourself to the more it'll effect you mentally. E.G. the more time you spend reading about creepy shit the more time you'll spend thinking about it and be more likely to be anxious of being a victim
of crime or frightened you'll see something scary in the dark or whatever bad outcome. Most people don't pay any attention to their mental hygiene and then wonder why they're so insecure about their appearance while spending all day reading about lookism on reddit or whatever negative topic.
I've been watching my first (columbian) telenovela on netflix and it's so dumb, but I can't help feeling it reflects real life for women in some ways. I've lived around northern europe so not such a patriarchal/religious environment. And I KNOW it's not realistic, but how accurate is the treatment of women in it? Like the women fuck someone they love and it's like "whoooore", but the dudes can scheme and 2 time women and spend the night with someone and it's fine? A married man whose wife won't fuck him is shameful for HER when he tells her he has to fuck other people to get his "needs" met?
I can kind of imagine it in ye olden days, wifely duties and women being questioned/not allowed to leave the house unless it's to go to market or some shit. Can some south american anons enlighten me if it's anywhere near accurate with all the romance removed or is it all for the sake of drama?>>585261
I found out I had several cavities between my teeth after some years of not seeing the dentist because they looked fine so now I do, yeah. Going to the dentist frightened the life out of me that I can never undo the damage I've already done to my teeth. Only make sure I mitigate the damage from here on out. Here's hoping they can find a way to easily replace enamel in my lifetime.
It happens a lot, I’m from South America leyleypons’ latina fetish intensifies
And men are often raised to believe they can do whatever the want because they have jobs.
People don’t seem to understand that women have jobs as well and that they have feelings and needs.
So? You get to see men sleeping around with literal girls in their 14’s usually hood rats
getting lauded because:
>oh well, he works, i guess he must be tired
>well, his wife had two/three/four kids, shame on her because she let herself go
But the man looks like an ugly version of Dany Devito and does literally nothing at home because:
>muh i spend the day outside fucking with random women but outside
And they seem to forget that the woman who they’re sometimes
married to is also working, taking care of the spawns and doing all of the chores if they’re not lucky enough to have a maid who tends to be a side piece of the husband
Of course, as of now, the generation of women around their 50’s or 60’s are tired of this bullshit, and they’ve been doing their best to teach women that they don’t even need to get married anymore in order to be happy or at least that’s in my home and the homes of the people i know of
You will always find people criticizing the women sleeping with men for money, but that’s because they never got the opportunity to do so to be honest I wish I didn’t have any sort of remorse when it comes to that stuff, I kind of want a sugar daddy, latin ones are quite overkill
So yeah, telenovelas are basically the reflection of how Latin American society >Inb4 we live in a society
Nothing active unfortunately, people are worried about posting their art here and being recognized I suppose, there is this one >>546916
, I guess you can revive it? Sure someone will reply.
Is it safe to rip off moles?
I have a small mole on my areola (It's always been there so no worries), but I nearly scratched it off a couple months ago. It's hanging by a thread, but I left it there because I was hoping it would heal back on. Idk if it safe to just take off moles though.>>592416
The art thread we have now is a General Art thread, so you can post it there or just post it in the Dumbass Shit thread
i think it might be because it's culturally accepted that males "mark their terrority" or "are entitled to/own their family".
idk can't think of anything else. probably really similar to why we get out father's last name. women are the "second gender" despite being the more involved parent so their legacy doesn't need to be continued unlike precious men's legacy.
I'm named after my grandmother, does that count?
But I agree, I fucking hate that kids are names after their fathers. I don't want children, but if I did I would insist on them carrying my surname.
could be you were just really lightheaded? sounds like what happens to me if I haven't been eating enough and i get up too fast. i've had to grab on to things because it legitimately does feel like i'm going to pass out because i'm so dizzy and weak
could also be something anxiety related if lack of nutrition isn't a possible culprit.
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Because men are trash and need to own everything, including people. I've never seen women named after their mothers or grandmothers. Or it's at least a middle name, but men love to name their sons Daniel Jr, Jose Jr or Deshawn jr. It is really prevalent with them and their sons. I had an old coworker who told me he wanted to hurry up and have a son to carry on his 'legacy' when his daughter was already 10 years old and he claims to love her, but.. hm. Men are trash and need to claim territory, even though they barely do anything during parenthood. It feels sad to take away a child's identity because you want to have a mini version of yourself, name included.
Best case scenario: low blood sugar, or a drop in blood pressure
Worst case scenario: some sort of neurological disorder
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What are some good manga/films/shows (anything really) similar to A cruel God reigns, Kate to kid no Uta and The heart of Thomas?
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I would recommend you look into Manga from the Year 24 Group, Keiko Takemiya (author of some of the titles you mentioned) was a part of it. I'm partial to Moto Hagio's work, myself.
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J no Subete and Bara Iro no Ho no Koro by Asumiko Nakamura both have the similar themes as Kaze to Ki no It's and A Cruel God Reigns. Asumiko's art kinda reminds me of old school artists from year 24. There's also K no Souretsu, it's ambiguously BL and incesty and the art style is very 80s shoujo.
Some people go by their middle names instead>>593043
Since you’ve already read Keiko Takemiya and Hagio Moto’s manga there’s only a few other manga from that generation that are translated, unless you want Japanese recommendations
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Is it possible to replay oneshot on the steam version? I stopped playing it a year ago near the end since I didn't like the game, but I'm willing to play until the end and replay it to re-experince it to see if I still hate it
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hey there anon! i must admit that in my personal experience, ocd has been super hard to work on (especially when i was off meds) alone; however, as you asked for there are some tools that could help in the meantime which will help. i am not sure what your ocd focuses on, but cbt techniques are usually very helpful! this article: https://www.psychologytools.com/articles/delivering-more-effective-exposure-therapy-in-cbt/
about exposure should help you at least confront your fears (its tough, but helpful). also, this chart (another cbt technique) focuses on finding evidence to refute your fears: https://www.psychologytools.com/resource/cbt-thought-record/
i was taught these skills in therapy, but i must admit i found it tough to focus until i took meds just due to how severe things became, but based on how you are doing it should definitely help! the last thing i could suggest is this book: https://www.guilford.com/books/Getting-Over-OCD/Jonathan-Abramowitz/9781462529704/reviews
. i was recently told about it by my psychiatrist and i have bought it but not used it yet but he says its very helpful and has helped others! good luck anon!
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What do I do about my brain angrily screeching for more carbs due to pms? I'm kind of trying to diet.
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Not sure if stupid but I feel stupid about it for several reasons so: I have a male "friend" I always found incredibly annoying and disrespectful and I always wanted to have nothing to do with this guy because he ruins all the fun in everything ever. He acts like he knows everything ever while actually saying stupid, actually offensive shit. Maybe he thinks he's sassy and witty but he sounds like some asshole from 4chan with none of the potential redeeming qualities. Tries to explains shit that personally affect others on a daily basis just because he vaguely read about it on wikipedia. This type of shit. My question is, how do I avoid this guy?
For more context, it's important: the reason why I was hanging out from time to time with him or at his place was because he wouldn't stop insisting and when I ignored him on the phone or social media, an actual friend of mine also asked if I wanted to hang out with them. Because of that and other things I thought I was the only one who couldn't stand the guy and at some point with several other friends we found out that one one of us actually liked him and we all found him, at the very best, a bit "special" but because of that one friend we couldn't avoid him. At some point he moved not too far away from my place because of the cheap rent prices in the area and once he knew about it he started contacting me more and more often because I couldn't use the "there are problems with public transport" excuse anymore. He wanted to invite all of us at a sleepover for the last new year's eve and since almost none of us wanted to go because we're all women and he wanted to invite male friends we didn't know at all but we didn't want to upset our actual close friend who likes him, we made shit up to not go and it ruined all our plans. Now, that one friend is living abroad since like January so that one less reason to see this guy, and I'm thinking about ignoring him on social media and the phone again. Do you have any other ideas? I don't want him to start being an even bigger annoying piece of shit if I tell him to stfu and stop insulting everyone and thinking he's a genius and everyone should be his bff. I feel dumb because if I knew, I would have avoided that guy from the day we met in university.
tldr; how do I completely avoid this guy who thinks we're bff just because I wanted to not upset a mutual friend at the time?
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Where an I learn more about pedowood/showbiz? I barely know anything about it (aside from the creepy shit that happened to Natalie Portman when she was a kid, like the 18 countdown and her first 'fan-mail' and some of the stuff that happened to Brooke Shields) , are there any documentaries about it?
I've heard that the "Open Secret" documentary is very good, and some celebrities are mentioned as victims
. Elijah Wood (from The Hobbit) has also talked about it. Not trying to be rude! But if you search about it you'll encounter more info, I'm sure
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Can humans double jump?
>>593394>Sis you're a grown ass adult with middle school problems
Now that you say it like that you did put something into words better than I could while typing my first post: he acts like a guy in middle school who thinks he's super mature and who monopolizes conversations all the time.
>Never let him find out where you live for sure
He has no way of knowing my address, unless he asks some of my friends who already secretly hate him anyway. And nobody in my friend group is crazy enough to give other people's address to anyone without permission anyway. I deleted a bunch of social media too before for other, more general reasons, so he can't really check what I post online either by the way.
>>593570>Has anyone here who isn't woke maintained their relationshipres with woke friends
What the hell does being woke even mean at this point? I genuinely don't know how to answer this question lmao.
Like, I'm pretty liberal and agree that police brutality against blacks and institutional racism is a problem. I'm not constantly sperging about it on social media or attending protests, but I do try to stay informed. Is that "woke" enough to consider yourself woke?
I do have friends who do this, and who seem to get really nit-picky about avoiding anything that could be considered even SLIGHTLY problematic
, and I think it's really weird. I don't understand how they have fun, or if they even do have much fun with a mindset like that. I'm not sure if intimidated is the right word. They'd probably accuse me of being racist if they knew I lurked image boards though kek
Yeah, Orange Citrus. She was a PULL 1.0 admin that wouldn't shut up about her tits
Like she was ~boollied~ for having yuuuuge tits (they were medium sized) and wouldn't allow people on PULL to discuss Nigri because she was very triggered
they were shit talking a booby girl
She also loved LARPing Mathilda (hence the banner), even on cam. And would say she wasn't pedo baiting.
She also wouldn't shut up about her being like 1/6th native American, when she was, guess it - white.
I miss her antics.
Now, I have no idea who is the girl in yellow stealing shit, if any Anon could clarify it for me, I've been wondering for years
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Why the hell does she look so weird?
Is 23 a kid now?>>593745
But she looks like a copy of herself.
I’m in the same boat as you Anon. It’s gotten to a point where a lot of people, especially big brands/celebs/channels/etc, feel the need to constantly virtue signal without actually doing anything of substance to help the cause. They say “racism bad!” just for a PR move. If they weren’t doing it just because it’s trendy, they’d use some of their rich people money to actually make a difference
(sorry for the rant)
her eyebrows are a tiny bit too close together for my taste
and i think she looks better with her hair not tucked behind her ears
other than that i think she looks really pretty
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Does Mermaid gender help minors with gender dysphoria by helping alleviating gender dysphoria through therapy, or do they push kids into transitioning and put them on hormone pills?
What do you mean? Post a photo of it>>593962
pt is just for the cows that produce the most milk. Snow and w are just for your run of the mill cows that aren't as entertaining as the ones in pt. Although imo some cows shouldn't be in pt.
Age doesn't really have much to do with whether or not a cow goes in pt. Lillee and Laur were basically instantly moved there when they were introduced here.
if her kid has multiple diagnosis's, lack of medical receipts, unsupported claims, etc. most munchies by proxy keep adding illnesses to their kids medical sheet once they see their clout dwindling.
but keep in mind sometimes parents of sick kids are annoying because lets be real having a kid with cancer is absolute hell for all parties involved. she might not have much time left with her kid and she might be dealing with it in her own way.
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How do germaphobes cope with going to the dentist?the idea of these dental tools that have been in other people's mouthes and then going to your mouth is disgusting to the least,does it trigger them?
Without at least a fan or 2 it will be impossible to cool down your apartment significantly. If there's a breeze outside open your windows, even better if your apartment is laid out in such a way that you can facilitate a cross breeze, but this is way easier to do with a couple fans. If you have access to a freezer, having a bowl of ice near you might help you feel cooler (again this works better if you have a fan blowing the over the ice), and you can also freeze water bottles to put in bed so you aren't too hot to sleep or use ice packs. A cold shower will cool you off also. Try to block direct sunlight. But these are just things to make you more comfortable, your apartment is still gonna be hot and shitty. You should just invest in some box fans.
Source: live in Australia and rented a place with no aircon for awhile
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what does 'kin' mean? Is it just the tumblr variant of 'stan'?
im kek i thought it just meant a character they believe has the same qualities as them, or aspires to be more like that character. not that they believed they really were some written or drawn paper character. >>594485
i actually liked my last cafe job but i hated the boss plus most of my coworkers. i was doing 3/4 if not more of the work and our dress code was inane for our climate. since i did the bulk of the work i also had way more responsibility that i could get reprimanded for later. on the other hand if i didn't get the tasks completed they either wouldn't get done or done way later when the other coworker realized. too many good coworkers quit so all the bad ones who needed more reprimanding stayed.
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How common/rare was it for girls aged 14-17 to go to girls boarding schools between 1895-1911?
Also, where could I find resources and information regarding the day-to-day life of a teenage girl during that time period would be like, what clothes they would wear, how they would interact with children their own age, and so on
But that doesn't make it any less despicable from my point of view, regardless who does it.
My brother does none of those things and he was never pressured into having to.
You can be a man and not be interested in any of that, and no one will care. I hate that some people, especially women, encourage that kind of behavior as if it's ok.
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Is the lolcow discord server any good? feeling pretty lonely right now
There’s plenty of gossip in /ot/
See: every thread >>594541
I think your mom is just a cunt anon, I don’t think most women would give you shit for not wasting time online shopping or gossiping. Chiding you for not performing femininity is definitely a thing though.
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What are some “commoner” everyday dishes from your country?
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Pinnacle of poorfag cuisine :/
chocolate sprinkles ("hagelslag") on a slice of bread for breakfast or lunch>>594641>>594656
these look pretty tasty
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Something like this I couldn't find a better picture lol. It's just green chili and pork pieces. Either that or the usual, tacos, tortas, rice, refried beans, etc
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choco rats poopies 10/10 would>>594655
nta but i think it's bitter melon soup, popular asian dish
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I've read before that no, eating eggs is not okay because supposedly they need to eat their own eggs to take back in the protein, so taking the eggs would be bad for their health. But I've had pet chickens while growing up and eggs we didn't take would be left rotting sooo, idk how true that is. (And yes, chickens produce eggs on their own, even when there's no rooster around)
Chickens are super chill pets and fresh eggs are the best, when I get my own house with a garden I'm 100% getting pet chickens
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Are u Viet anons? lmao
Thank you anon! I guess i never really considered how much nutrients making eggs must suck out of them, but maybe chickens can take supplements to replace them.
The chickens in that photo are beautiful. And they can make eggs by themselves? Magic. I would love to have one.
Yes hello v(´ω`)v
I fuckin love that purp anon
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anyone else stay up till 5 am reading shoujo manga and spend the entire next day feeling like they're gonna die at any second
Every single time, I am told that we don´t have to wake up early in the morning but suddendly work to do appears out of nowhere.
Not shoujo manga though, but w anything you could ever think of.
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Please drop some romance titles. i've been out of the loop with those genres for awhile! fuck me up anons
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girl im here for you!
i listed some above in my other comment >>594765
but if you want more i can recommend:
Taishou Otome Otogibanashi
Katayoku no Labyrinth
Kusuriya no Hitorigoto
Akatsuki no Yona
Umarekawatte mo mata, Watashi to Kekkon shite kuremasu ka?
Futari Ashitamo Sorenarini
Toshokan Sensou - Love & War
As You Wish, Prince
I Love You, Miki!
The Villain's Savior
Takasugi's Tiny Delinquent Hero
Is It Wrong to Get Done by a Girl?
Emperor and the Female Knight
The Senior and Junior Broke up Three Months Ago
A Bouquet for an Ugly Girl
Mikansei Demo Koi ga Ii
Give Me a Flower, and I'll Give You All of Me
Miageru to Kimi wa
I'm a Villainous Daughter, so I'm going to keep the Last Boss
a fucking legend! i'm about to live this post >>594708
1984 by George Orwell
Woman at the Edge of Time by Marge Piercy
Unfuck Your Habitat by Rachel Hoffman
It was originally made for sharing music, but I mostly use it for books. People have been sharing all sorts of stuff, and I can usually find books there that I wasn't able to anywhere else.
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What are these strips of rubber attached on the bottom of my laptop called?
expecting normal communication is not expecting too much anon>>595227
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Is this supposed to be a private site like DuckDuckGo or Tor?
I watch this Asian dude on YouTube and he always opens up this browser before going to normie sites
Isn’t Google altogether pointless if you want privacy though?
Edit: fixing grammatical errors
it porbably sounds like bait because i couldnt word it properly. what i mean is that a lot of people around me act like everything our country produces (music, tv shows, even literature) is "cringe" while being up western media's ass. they overvalue the dumbest shows (like glee and friends) and it seems like it's because it's american.
also about the accent thing, sure, you'll copy american accent since you learn from americans. but if you're not native, you know that some people overdo it. idk how to explain it since it's about hearing.
also they seem to care more about amerian politics compared to our own. like they sperg about BLM even though black people make up like 0.01% of the population here and we never had race issues with them. but they never bring up the race issue we have.
I understand you.
sounds like something from here too.
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I live in Germany and if we'd go by the same standard as for weebs then close everybody here is an americaboo.
Two girls from my class wanted to move there so badly that they married an American right after finishing high school and I even know a woman who got herself knocked up by a american soldier (who then left), bitches are still acting like it's 1945 and America the paradise on earth. The amount of english words young people use is insane and like you said, all kind of local media is considered old fashioned and lame and most young artists here just straight up copy everything american, choose english names etc. But not just teens, most people under 70. There are so many boomers who buy gigantic cars, wear cowboy hats and boots, America simply really is still the "dream" for many.
I feel like because it has been decades since American media, American products, food etc has been marketed as modern and better, everybody is simply brainwashed. Ironically though most shit on Americans when it comes to politics but when faced with actual Americans so many turn giddy, wanting to talk with them, trying their best to speak english, absolutely retarded. Pic related, even American theme parks exist (with native americans and confederate flags as decoration…)
And about that BLM thing, the discussion about dreads, renaming things, cultural appropriation and so on is everywhere (while the average normie can't even fathom why stuff is suddenly bad or no longer allowed) and even local news are starting to use terms like POC - not the german translation, just literally "people of color" - how do you expect to teach old people to stop saying the n-word by jumping right to wanting them to use some english words instead?
Same here, I find it extremely ironic that rich people and local celebrities post about BLM bullshit when my country has a massive problem with colourism that nobody is addressing to nearly the same extent. A local brand of skin whitening cream (Fair & Lovely) even changed their name to not be so "offensive" anymore just because of BLM when this has been an issue for decades. Not even going to mention rampant sexism, femicide, rape and other less hip kinds of discrimination.
We also have a massive inferiority complex against the West but instead of trying to promote our own culture and good values (protecting the community by wearing masks instead of being retarded gun-toting anti-maskers, for one) people will try to ape Americans which just ends up looking incredibly cringe if you're even a little familiar with the local culture.
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I sorta want to watch/read deadly class but should start with the live action series or the comic? Also, where can I view the deadly class comic online for free ?
I would start with the comics. I tried getting into the series but it ended up playing out like a CW show where the girl is crushed on by every male ever and there's literal "who do u liek??" drama from the second episode on. Main guy is also an cringy edgelord who gets his ass handed to him constantly. If you want a dark teen show, I'd watch The Chilling Adventures of Sabrina instead.
I'm sure Deadly Class is good since it was popular before the show, but I don't think it translates well on tv at all.>it was cancelled in June anyway kek
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being vulnerable with others is really hard but its the foundation of strong friendships and a lot of meaning in life. i would start with just practicing sharing little things about you and your life experiences with other people - either online or irl.
ask people about themselves, relate to things they share as a way to practice sharing about yourself. (note: not as much if someone is distressed and just wanting to vent /focus on themselves in the convo).
Besides practice, you need to learn to accept the things about you that you are afraid for people to know about (i.e., reducing shame). Doesn't mean that you necessarily need to tell someone your deep, dark secrets, but you yourself need to accept these aspects of yourself.
I read "milk and honey" by Rupi Kaur and it was kinda shit. Not into poetry at all but it was so tumblr-esque and basic. Anyone got good recs on poems about heartbreak/femininity?>>595629
It teaches you exactly how to kiss everyone's ass so they like you.
Act interested in them, smile, use their name, relate everything in their interests and ask questions about them. Don't argue or criticise, look at it from their viewpoint, let them take credit for your ideas.
Having it all laid out did make me a lot of friends when applied, it worked surprisigly well. But with basically treating them like they're gods gift you're left open to exploitation. The idea of tailoring your personality to serve others so they validate you also doesn't sit right.
>>595649>use their name
Don’t do this too much though, especially if you speak a language where it is not a common thing to adress the other person by first name in 1-on-1 conversations, because it can sound really forced.
Also. I have been on a few dates with guys who worked in sales and I could clearly tell they were using those sorts of techniques to win me over and it was pretty cringe at times. That shit will probably work on very self important or somewhat slow insecure people though.
That fake tan Glow>>595664
I will punch a person out of sheer shock if they use my name more than once a day unless we're buddies, that's somehow very intimate haha
Lithuanian anons - how decent are litho guys, in general?>>595667
Damn, usually I didn't mind Ben's approach to talking to locals in Russia since he had a good command on the language, but he's really testing his fluency here and clearly irritating the locals, as well as being condescending (which I haven't seen in his Eastern Europe videos). I had a feeling he was a cunt in some way or another, so this doesn't surprise me much.
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I got this top at the thrift store and I hate the buttons, I couldn't find any buttons I like so I decided to paint on them, but I can't decide: should I paint cherries or cat, dog and bunny faces and a pawprint?
Please vote. Also I know it looks cheap you don't have to tell me.
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How do I do about seasonal color analysis if I'm neutral toned, and not particularly warm or cool toned. I think I'm close to deep autumn ( I have very dark brown hair and eyes and light brown/olive skin since I'm an Arab), should I just dress using both palettes?
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Who is this and where is this frooooom anons?
American here, I think Canadian accents are kinda like a VERY subtle Midwestern American accents.
To be honest tho, it's not a big difference between Canadian and American accents. The main difference is in their vocabulary imo. I wouldn't know if someone is Canadian unless they told me.
Appreciate the advice, anon! I’m usually pretty good about asking others about themselves and then sharing something about myself that fits after them. I tend to freeze up when I get asked things directly or if I don’t… know how to explain why I feel a way I do or , for instance, why something is uncomfortable other than “It makes me uncomfortable” haha
Do you have any advice for getting over physical intimacy issues? Both this and the above are reasons why most relationship didn’t work out. We mutually agreed it wasn’t going to work long term if I’m only tolerating touching and cuddling and the like because I’m not… sure if I’ll ever enjoy-enjoy it… and the guy I was with felt guilty that I was essentially just doing it to make him happy,. I tried my damnedest to grow and get used to it because we mesh really well personality-wise. But it was just… so hard.
A journal, never an app.
It' really beneficial but I have to keep mine simple, otherwise it just gets too complex. I also use a lined notebook as opposed to those dotted ones, it's