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No. 2523292

A thread for the daft, the dim, the silly and the merely confused.

Previous thread: >>>/ot/2502644


Please follow all global rules and remember to report and ignore bait: avoid infighting.

If you want to ask random questions and hear other anons’ personal answers, check out the Random Questions thread instead. This thread is more for asking silly questions and getting concrete answers

No. 2523313

I quit my job when my contract ended. I was expecting a little over 1000€ which makes sense with the hours i made. Instead i got over 3000€. Why? My boss sent me the paper of the paycheck where all the details of what each thing is are written, but i don't know how to read those, they're complicated.
Is it normal to receive so much money when you finish a job?

No. 2523315

>>2523313
Don’t question it, take it and run kek

No. 2523327

>>2523313
It depends on too many things so without seeing the document it's hard to explain but I assume it's because you're paid for the last days of work you've done, you've been paid all the PTOs you accumulated but haven't used yet, maybe you received a small bonus based on your work (typically in the companies I know you receive your bonus if your contract is still up until at least a specific date when everyone gets their bonus and if your contracts ends before that date you don't get anything at all) and some sort of compensations that depends on how long you've stayed in that company. All of this can make up a lot of money pretty fast.

No. 2523346

Is it a sign of my eyesight getting worse if a character size and font I used to be fine with now seems too small, even if it isn't blurry?

No. 2523370

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What is a cute mascot that is dark? All sorts of cute keychains or characters are pink and cute and fluffy. The only darker mascot that comes to my mind is Kuromi. Is there no kawaii but gothic mascot for us?

No. 2523415

I want to get 141.12 tattooed on my wrist but I'm worried people will think it's a Holocaust thing. Should I get it? I want to, but my main worry is that.

No. 2523418

>>2523415
What? The holocaust was almost a century ago, I don't think people are gonna think that you're a victim of the holocaust. Unless you live in stupidville or something.

No. 2523424

>>2523418
Oh that's not what I meant, I just meant a reference to the holocaust as a whole kek. I know some people see strings of numbers tattooed and immediately start assuming it's holocaust related

No. 2523435

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>>2523370
There’s Lloromannic picrel and Adorozatorumary

No. 2523440

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>>2523370
If you want something mainstream or easy to get your hands on, Badtzmaru, Chococat, Aggretsuko, Skelanimals maybe Invader Zim or TokiDoki stuff. There are other, more darker characters, that are a little harder to shop for like Lloromannic, Hangry & Angry. If none of those interest you, you could try looking for the usual cute-sy mascots that got special darker themed merch, like Yoshikitty, Punk HK merch, Jirai MM & Kuromi. I think that Loly gothic rabbit is cute but there's no merch to look for, sadly.

No. 2523442

Did LC get namedropped somewhere? I can't be the only one noticing all these obvious, unintegrated newfags these past few days. They're not even trying. No one is saying anything and they don’t get banned. I know there's always a newfag or two but it feels like an invasion recently.

No. 2523443

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>>2523370
Ruby gloom. Sadly her merch is super expensive, this keychain is like 600 usd.

No. 2523451

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Does anyone know where I can buy a Nommi online without higher cost overseas shipping or being close to $30?

All the ones I've seen are at least $20 or if they're under $20 they have minimum $8-10 shipping fees

No. 2523453

>>2523442
I noticed it too. I know some jirais have been posting about the thread in /w/ and that one crackwhore on /snow/ has been responding to her thread a lot so it had to be closed if I remember correctly.

No. 2523454

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>>2523370
>>2523435
Sanrio also has magical twin comets, the lesser known dark cousins of the twin stars

No. 2523461

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>>2523443
i forgot to add there are also kitix and vamplets and how could you nonnies forget gloomy bear?
>>2523440
these are so fucking cool i love them.

No. 2523464

Help nonnas I put aa batteries in something and instantly they’re smoking and getting hot and I can’t get them out and i’m not going near it again. I put it in a plastic bucket but I can’t find anything like metal to put it in? What do I do do, will they cool down eventually or worse?

No. 2523467

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>>2523461
This and the skelanimals mention are really taking me back to 2006-2009 kek

No. 2523470

>>2523464
Quick, nona, put the batteries in your mouth! Human saliva has a chemical that will neutralise the acid.

No. 2523477

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>>2523470
Nonnieeee, that kills people!

No. 2523497

>>2523442
I stopped saying anything about them because I'll get hit with an "infighting" ban or accused of being mean when I'm not (ironically, newfags are allowed to get away with that)

No. 2523738

What are the best reverse image search sites? Tineye and saucenao can't trace lesser known images

No. 2523754

is writing smut, having private lewd art, and even sex fantasies bad?

No. 2523758

>>2523754
How would that be bad? I have a vibrator call me a sinner lol

No. 2523765

>>2523754
no, those things are all fine.. are you an ex-catholic or something?

No. 2523773

>>2523754
I think it's only bad you're oversharing your sexual thoughts and fantasies in scenarios where it's not really appropriate and bothering other people with that out of nowhere. If you mostly keep to yourself and aren't bothering anyone though I think it's usually fine.

No. 2523782

>>2523765
Not catholic but grew up in a Christian household.

No. 2523820

is lc just a lot more boring for any of you? having browsed here for about 8 years, it seems like for the first time ever, all the threads i'm interested in have just slowed down considerably to a few replies a day. this used to be a bit of a guilty pleasure site because it was so active and i'd wind up getting sucked in so easily but a lot of this place is pretty dead now

No. 2523823

>>2523820
It’s been overmoderated into the ground

No. 2523825

>>2523820
This is what everyone says but I've been on lc too for about 7 years and it really just fluctuates. Sometimes it's dead sometimes it not. It also depends on your timezone tbh

No. 2523828

>>2523820
Mainly the cows have gotten boring to me, not really the other boards.

No. 2523842

>>2523823
100%. It's sad how far it's fallen. New jannies needed ASAP. New admin too.
>>2523825
This time it feels different. It's been getting worse and worse since 2024. It's slowly morphing into CC.

No. 2523857

>>2523820
Like other nona said it depends on the season and/or the thread. I've been here for 9 years and i still remember when /pt/ was the most active board on this site. I think cow culture in general has died off since the pandemic so half of the site feels slower, while off topic threads which used to not be very active (if you remember when this was /b/) are now the most active part of the side. You can't tell me /ot/ isn't active as heck nonnie.

No. 2523871

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What organ is there?

No. 2523877

>>2523871
intestines bladder ovaries

No. 2523905

>>2523871
You have lymph nodes there. If it is swollen and painful go to the doctor. You might have an infection.

No. 2523945

>>2523857
>You can't tell me /ot/ isn't active
/ot/ isn't active.
>cow culture in general has died off
Everyone here says this but KF still has a thousand active cow threads.

No. 2523947

>>2523945
KF cow threads are one milk post every 3 months and then a thousand blogposts in between each one.

No. 2523949

>>2523947
It’s even worse if the cow is a female. Then its blogposts AND how they would/wouldn’t fuck her

No. 2523953

>>2523947
Not really. Most cow threads here are like that though
>>2523949
Isn't this the same thing as anons here calling every cow a hambeast or a hag or sperging about nasolabial folds? Kek

No. 2523954

>>2523949
Don't forget the racebait~!

No. 2523955

>>2523276
Tbh you might be misunderstanding what a first date is meant for. First dates should be at max 30 minutes. They're really just for seeing if you actually like the person enough to pursue a relationship with them. The second date is infinitely more important than the first date.

No. 2523961

>>2523953
Having used both sites, mods tend to keep discussions more on topic here. Plus I don't have to scroll past fifty posts of NIGGERFAGGOT69 and GrabHerByThePussy with their weird hentai avatars and autistic sticker system.

No. 2523962

>>2523415
tattoos are cringe
don't get them

No. 2523963

>>2523754
bad in the sense that adding sugar to your coffee is bad
as in, not too bad but it would be better to not do it

No. 2523964

>>2523963
can you explain why those things she listed are 'bad'?

No. 2523968

>>2523964
Anything in excess is bad. So long as your sexuality doesn't take over your life, you're fine. The world doesn't need more coomers.

No. 2524005

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I never thought I’d be here but I’ve found myself in a position to be able to buy real estate. Do I buy myself a dumpy single family cottage or a newer condo? Condos in my budget are a lot easier to find than sfhs but I really like the idea of fixing up my home over time and having a flower and vegetable garden.
Despite all that my main motivation is being able to have a cat again.

No. 2524012

I'm so sick of my family. They don't respect me because I've been a goody two shoes my whole life and I was scared of breaking the rules. I want to do something in secret thats kind of bad but not too bad that it will follow me around forever. Does anyone have any recommendations?

No. 2524020

>>2524012
>My family doesn’t respect me because I used to be scared of breaking the rules
>I want to do something kind of bad but I’m scared of my family knowing I did it
Sooo you haven’t changed.

No. 2524023

>>2524012
why do you even want to do something bad?

No. 2524040

>>2524012
Just get a tattoo and call it a day.

No. 2524042

>>2524005
get the cottage, YOLO bitch

No. 2524044

>>2524020
Kek I'm a good girl at heart
>>2524023
I'm sick of always trying to be fair and kind to everyone and getting screwed over. I just want to feel free and livd on the edge for once.
>>2524040
Tattoos are kind of ugly. I don't mind piercings and plan on getting a few but body mods are too tame and boring.

No. 2524047

>>2524005
If you're buying a single family home, make sure you know when the roof was inspected or replaced. So much shit can go wrong if you have a bad roof. Also be sure to change the locks if you're living on your own, nona. A friend of mine recently bought a new house, and the previous owner had made a spare key to let himself in and… relieve himself.

No. 2524049

>>2524005
I would be cautious and learn how to find cursory signs of mold damage and major problems before getting too emotionally attached or gung ho about it, but absolutely buy an old cottage. You might just have to be patient for the right one to show up. Also, the roof and exterior house paint are both very important things to keep on top of, and they can often be worked into the initial price negotiations.

No. 2524051

>>2524005
How old of a cottage are we talking here? If it's less than 100 years old, it might still have its original electrical wiring.

No. 2524211

>>2523953
At least blogposting is bannable in our cow threads

No. 2524231

>>2524012
try hard drugs

No. 2524249

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Why do I get depressed after orgasming? Also why do I get depressed after and during exercising? I don’t get runner’s high I get runner’s suicidal ideation

No. 2524277

I occasionally get dreams where it's like the pet I thought had died turned out to be alive this whole time and I was neglecting them. Makes me feel really shitty. What could it mean? Why does it keep happening? I also have another repetitive dream (that happens far more frequently) where it's like I was supposed to be in highschool this entire time and never graduated, so I wind up panicking and rushing to get dressed in the morning so I can go. The entire time problems keep arising that delay my return, and only half the time I make it to school and when I do I either get completely lost, don't have my schedule, or I become extremely overwhelmed catching up on years and years of work assignments that I have to finish within a few short weeks. What's wrong with me? Someone psychoanalyze me please(belongs in the dream thread)

No. 2524281

>>2524277
dreams and nightmares really don't mean that much as far as i'm concerned, but a nightmare that bothers you a lot or feels relevant to irl somehow usually means you're stressed so your mind is thinking up random things that make you feel bad

No. 2524295

What do people mean when they say you have crazy eyes or look manic

No. 2524389

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what makes the woman on the right more attractive than the woman on the left?

No. 2524393

>>2524389
I honestly prefer left

No. 2524399

>>2524393
this site just likes to be contrarian in bad faith.

No. 2524401

>>2524389
Right is about 30lbs lighter than left for start. But right also has a more delicate + feminine skull structure. Left is still an attractive woman, but has kind of a peasant bulldog face with a big jaw. Right looks more gracile and femme with a lower BMI, it's not that complicated.(samefagging)

No. 2524403

>>2524389
The woman on the right has a more pleasant face

No. 2524406

>>2524403
what do you mean by pleasant though? like her expression or her features? im autistic and somewhat faceblind but i can still recognize right looks better than left. im just curious as to why exactly. i need to ask one of those lookism fags i guess for all the technical terms.

No. 2524412

>>2524389
>better ogee curve
>better chin projection
>better cheekbone projection
>more feminine lip shape
>eyebrows arent so dark and are more curved
>bigger and less hooded eyes
>slimmer, more button nose
>narrower but still defined jaw
>thinner and longer neck
>slimmer looking body
>boobs look perkier or she's wearing a pushup bra or some kind
>good posture(samefagging)

No. 2524413

>>2524412
>>better china projection
huh? what role does the ccp play in this?

No. 2524414

>>2524389
they're both queens, get out of here with this comparison shit. women can be beautiful in different ways.

No. 2524440

>>2524389
Do you have a non-potato quality pic of either of them? Then we would know what the answer is. If you mean theoretically, then probably the person who isn't carefully angling half their face away from the camera. This thread reads like an "femcel" haven

No. 2524468

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Am I a newfag if I started browsing lolcow a few months before the pandemic and have never regularly used the cow boards

No. 2524504

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>>2524468
Anyone less integrated than a nonnie is a newfag.

Anyone more integrated than a nonnie is an oldfag.

Anyone equally as integrated as a nonnie is a potential friend finder candidate.

No. 2524574

>>2524504
A most elucidating reply. Thank you

No. 2524596

>>2524412
What is "ogee curve"?

No. 2524650

how would it be harmful to spend 100% of my little free time on husbando-related activities? ive fallen back into my kpop obsession and spend as much time as i can entertaining a parasocial relationship with my favourite member ; saving pics, watching videos and lives, discussing them online and roleplaying our relationship in my head
- on one hand it's super pathetic and i dont see how it could not be harmful to be giving into a parasocial relationship this badly, besides it sort of distracts me from my studies (but much less than a real bf)
- on the other hand it makes me feel so nice and helps me cope with the stress of my job and studies like nothing else

No. 2524665

>>2524249
omg nona me too. I used to get really depressed after a work out. I think during the work out I felt excited and happy I guess but after it was such a dramatic crash that I stopped working out. At the moment it's not like that when I go run. It probably depends on many factors like hormones.

No. 2524674

Why is 9/11 such an autism magnet?

No. 2524701

Is 20 really ancient for a cat? Mine is fourteen and the thought of having like five more years with her hurts.

No. 2524707

>>2524674
Autists trying to show they have feelings and can care about a big important event and pay tribute to it in their own way like the rest of the population. They copy behaviors without 100% understanding the intention behind it.

No. 2524709

>>2524701
I work at a vet clinic and 20 is about the oldest I see cats get, but the oldest I’ve seen was 30. She had been coming to the clinic since she was a kitten too, so it wasn’t an exaggerated estimated age either

No. 2524725

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I know absolutely nothing about the English royal family. Why is Charles so hated?

No. 2524729

>>2524725
Charles pretty much singled out Diana to marry when she was like 16, married her and had her birth his moidlets but was incredibly unfaithful to her, and his crotchety bitch of a mother was demon to her as well. He's just a cunt who used Diana like a piece of toilet paper and then fucked off and got his dick sucked by demon witch Queen Consort Camila.

No. 2524744

>>2524725
It's pretty much mainstream conspiracy theory that Charles had Diana killed. When you read about the case it becomes pretty obvious that it was pre-planned. However I don't like it when defend Elizabeth. She was a horrible snob towards Diana too and didn't think she was good enough.

No. 2524764

Saw a guy post about how he's been spending 8-10 hours in VRChat lately and cringed. But is that worse or better than being on discord, reddit, etc for hours? Does it feel more cringy because he's spending hours socializing with an anime girl avatar? Is it just because spending hours on social media has become more normalized? I've never used VR or VRchat, but I'm guessing it might feel more social thanks to motion tracking vs discord voice chat?

No. 2524779

>>2524764
people can use social media apps normally, but VR chat is mostly a bunch of furry and loli avatars simulating sex poses and talking like edgy 14 year olds. its more brain rotting than having a normal chat with likeminded people on discord (if you're not retarded or degenerate)

No. 2524803

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>Anime about a loser girl who struggles with relationships and making her own life worth a shit because of her own social ineptitude
>just based on the premise, assume it's meant for loser girls as the audience
>scrotes both tranny or regular: "omg she's literallyme"
>???
so who is this anime for? Was it for moids the whole time? Did I make the mistake of thinking this was for girls just because it has a female protag? Can someone who is an expert explain this?

No. 2524805

>>2524803
>written by a male
that was yoru first clue

No. 2524806

>>2524803
Very simple guide to anime: If the target audience seems to be ten year olds or less, it's for kids of the same sex as the protagonist. If the target audience seems to be older than ten year olds, it's for people of the opposite sex of the protagonist.

No. 2524812

>>2524803
scrotes are obsessed with having le based stinky neet gf

No. 2524816

>>2524806
>If the target audience seems to be older than ten year olds, it's for people of the opposite sex of the protagonist.
Unless it's from the shonen jump, if it has a male protagonist and for 12 and above it's for men in theory but for women in practice.

No. 2524822

>>2524803
I thought it was for adult women until the genre shifted from comedy to romcom yuri so idk either, Watamote is a weird series

No. 2524826

>>2524803
When it comes to traumatised or "down on their luck"/pathetic characters it's common for people to write a protag of the opposite sex so the story doesn't hit so close to home. It's that "one step removed" factor so the story is juuust escapist enough for the reader to want to buy it and read more about this "literally me" character going through shit. That's why loser girl protags are for males but also cool superhero guys are also for males.

No. 2524841

>>2524833
From a cult that used to have ritual sex and encouraged its members to imagine sex with Jesus

No. 2524849

Should I get a slice of pizza or a tamale at the street festival…I haven't tried the pizza place yet but it's very highly rated

No. 2524852

>>2524841
Yeah I found it

No. 2524859

>>2524849
Tamale sounds nice

No. 2524866

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I'm not trying to be snarky by asking this, but is there a reason behind why a lot of mom's with munchausen by proxy seem to ALWAYS be fat? Like not chubby, but genuinely fat. I've been looking at stuff about munchausen and I noticed this. The only munchausen mom I can think of that isn't fat is Eminem's mother

No. 2524871

>>2524866
Correlation and not causation? Most famous munchies tend to be American and Americans tend to be fatter than average.

No. 2524875

>>2524866
They're already mentally ill, food could be another coping mechanism for them

No. 2524891

hey nonnies who have adhd and take adderall what did it do to your periods

I usually take 20mg generic IR teva. but teva was out of stock and the pharmacist never mentioned it despite me having "preferred teva" on file. I got mallinckrodt instead which I had bad experiences with when I took 10mg. this time I'm taking it at 20mg and it's working, but it also has made me emotionally numb and I restarted my period?
my period ended 2 weeks ago and it's regular, but after taking mallinckrodt for a day or two I got brown/some red blood. it doesn't naturally flow out like a normal period where I have to wear pads. but every time I pee there's a fair amount of blood that I have to clean off
wtf going on

No. 2524946

>>2524891
adhd meds constrict capillaries

No. 2524988

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>>2523370
Raven from Teen Titans?

No. 2525005

How do i stop being such a retarded autist? I don't want to kill myself because it would hurt my mother too much, but i hate going outside, talking to people, looking at people, etc.

No. 2525012

>>2525005
Embrace retardation. Don't make your mom sad.

No. 2525018

>>2525005
Why do you not like going outside? What do you specifically dislike about talking with people, or looking at them? Do you get anxious, is it the environment you're in, etc. These questions seem really simple but telling us more about your issues might get you better advice. Else you might get a lot of generic sounding advice that may or may not fit your situation. Forcing yourself into social situations is pretty much the only way to get better at socializing (or at least tolerating it).

No. 2525024

>>2525018
I don't like looking at ugly moids. Scrotes are already horrible people but on top of that they are repulsive. I've gotten into ubers and find clothes or towels on the back of the passanger seat or on the front seats with lotion. I've been in an ice cream shop and men eat their ice scream so loud i can hear the smacking every time they take a spoonful of ice cream. I'm already a retard and struggle to blend with normie women and talk about whatever they talk about but i hate scrotes so much my perspective on things is wildly different.

No. 2525036

Why don't schools teach teenagers what taxes are, how to do taxes, how to save money, basics of accountant, etc. ?

No. 2525044

>>2525036
They did when I was in middle school circa the mid 2000s. We had a whole year dedicated to life skills like cooking, cleaning, sewing, auto mechanics, and accounting.

No. 2525051

why do some anons unironically use the term sex worker

No. 2525053

>>2525051
Inertia. Most nonas use other sites, and it's easier to use the same vocabulary everywhere, especially if using LC slang will get you banned elsewhere.

No. 2525054

>>2525036
I learned about all that in school. I swear whenever someone says "why don't they teach THIS in schools?" they were taught it but they weren't paying attention.

No. 2525057

>>2525053
but words like camgirl, prostitute and stripper are not lc slang

No. 2525058

>>2525044
What country?

No. 2525059

>>2525057
Fair enough but they're also not usually acceptable off-site either because porn addicted scrotes and the aforementioned camwhores will whine at you about bigotry or something

No. 2525061

>>2525058
The United States, specifically Utah

No. 2525090

Does anyone else ever wonder if all the generations of animals that have been born in the zoo would even survive if let out into the wild?

No. 2525097

>>2525036
They did when I was in school, I remember we had a class dedicated to learning cooking, cleaning, sewing, etc and we also had financial algebra when I got to high school. But these classes were optional, they’re not required to graduate and I don’t remember what the term for it was but they were like available if you wanted to take them

No. 2525098

>>2525090
For the most part, no they wouldn’t

No. 2525108

>>2525036
It's not mandatory, like in my state it's still required for there to be sewing lessons so it must be taught by the life science/home ec instructor. IIRC some states are making financial math a requirement

No. 2525135

What are Muslim people talking about when they say they're on a Dean? Is Dean a biblical figure?

No. 2525136

>>2525135
Its “deen”, it just means faith.

No. 2525184

when would you go to the hospital for suicidal thoughts? what would you consider having a "plan"?

No. 2525260

>>2524414
why do people start moralfagging and virtue signalling in the stupid questions thread?

No. 2525299

>>2525184
probably when you start having vivid fantasies of doing it or thinking about it daily? but tbh if you tell any professional that youre thinking of suicide AT ALL they will try to hospitalize you unless you backtrack really quick (i always do this) i think its a legal requirement here in the usa

No. 2525351

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Is it really possible to make money photographing and filming your pets ? I could also make silly short comics about them. Is there any chance for me ? Should I buy a dumb looking animal right now ?

No. 2525353

Why don't americans dye their clothes in the washing machine? Is it bc you have top loading machines? Every time I see an american dye clothes, they're always struggling over a pot or some other container trying to get it even. Seems very inconvenient.

No. 2525357

>>2525353
I don't want to risk residual dye getting on my clothes when I clean them.

No. 2525359

>>2525351
Maybe you can make it a social media star. But on a more serious note yes, if you have an animal of a certain breed you an absolutely make it compete in competitions and earn money, the thing is that having a pure breed dog is expensive as they often have health issues and high maintenance costs.

No. 2525361

>>2524389
They look the same to me.

No. 2525362

>>2524401
Kek not nonna getting the samefagging red text. This is embarrassing kek.

No. 2525376

>>2525353
i thought most dyes work better with hot water

No. 2525378

>>2524806
That would mean haremshit is actually for women and shoujo is for men, that doesn’t work at all nona kek

No. 2525410

>>2524389
>>2524401
>>2524412
You reason like a mentally ill man who spergs about his bone structure because he finds it too painful to acknowledge the real reasons why women ignore him.
Stop performing these gay "social experiments" on imageboards and trying to "pill" people. Your body, mind and soul decay a bit more each day.

No. 2525417

Are there any body language cues that makes my virginity really obvious? I want to get better at masking my inexperience.

No. 2525436

>>2524389
Literally the only source I can find this photo at is some old portuguese forum for men in a thread about white girls where some guy is going "anyone know who they are?". There's a third girl cropped out of the photo too

No. 2525437

>>2525417
wtf why do you even care? if you look like an obvious unkempt autist people will assume you ain't getting laid even if you are so just put bare minimum into looks and look semi-confident

No. 2525441

>>2524389
>>2524401
>>2524412
>(samefagging)
Embarrassing

No. 2525448

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>>2525417
>asking this
>on lolcow.farm
Good luck at the strip club, nonnie.

No. 2525515

>>2525417
Why? Virginity is cool.

No. 2525553

Why do people give you multiple glances multiple times or outright stare at you like a rare specimen?

No. 2525554

>>2525417
Yes. Sway your shoulders and slouch more.

No. 2525565

>>2525553
You either look hot or like a retard

No. 2525652

>>2525357
I just wipe down the door and do a wash cycle, never had that issue
>>2525376
Uhh don't you have hot cycles on american washing machines?

No. 2525678

why is the moderation team so exclusive? they have 3 admins and like 2 jannies. is there a reason why there can’t be more?

No. 2525685

>>2525678
my tinfoil is that all/most/at least a considerable amount of admins and mods are scrotes or trannies and they're paranoid of there being a whistleblower and any potential fall out.

No. 2525707

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I accidentally bought 2 this shirt online instead of just one. They fit great, so I was wondering if I could change the color of one of them somehow. It's 100% plastic though, not a single thread of any natural fiber. Can I still bleach it?

No. 2525767

So why do you think Michael Jackson has such a cult-like following that believes he's genuinely alive? I feel like no other celebrity has this many genuine schizos in their fanbase.

No. 2525774

>>2525767
With these kinds of inconsequential and out there conspiracies, believers usually want to be one of the smart, special ones who know the truth. It makes them feel superior to the sheeple who just accept what's been told to them.

No. 2525788

>>2525774
Right but why Michael in particular? Why do a lot of his fans in particular revere him to the point of not believing in his death?

No. 2525793

>>2525788
They must be crazy since they also deny that he was a pedo and had plastic surgery.

No. 2525809

>>2525036
We had basic classes about that but no one paid attention. It was also an optional more in depth class for those that went the social studies route instead of language or stem.

No. 2525893

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Aren’t all trannies, including HSTS, AGP? I feel like even men like Blaire White get off to being a woman through how it makes them available to “straight” guys. There’s a lot of infighting in the Ethel Cain thread about whether or not he’s a HSTS or AGP, but I’ve never thought that they were mutually exclusive.

No. 2525900

>>2525893
I don't know why nonnies put so much importance on the distinction, either. They're two sides of the same coin. HSTS troons are nasty, envious fags who talk shit about women for "stealing" straight guys, and we all know that AGPs are rapeapes. At the end of the day they're both misogynistic males.

No. 2525901

>>2525893
The ones who were forced to transition and hate their neovags aren't agp, but considering how trannyism is marketed as a fetish nowadays via porn, there are a lot of agps.

No. 2525912

>>2525893
>through how it makes them available to “straight” guys
This is where the difference lies. Classic AGPs are attracted to themselves in lingerie/with breast implants/etc., whereas classic non-AGP HSTS are attracted to the idea of themselves being attractive to (straight) men. The latter is also what’s measured in those studies troons claim prove that women can have AGP too; feeling sexy because you’ve made yourself look attractive to the object of your attraction. But AGP isn’t that, it’s attraction to yourself, without seeing yourself through the eyes of someone else. Does that make sense?
You’re right that there can be overlap, though. IMO Dylan Mulvaney is probably an example of a gay troon with AGP. He doesn’t make much of an effort to be attractive to straight men (no implants, for one) and loves showing off his moid body and dick bulge in tiny miniskirts, plus the nasty little girl LARP…

No. 2525967

>>2525707
Since it’s black it will come out like shit. It also has this intricate pattern.

No. 2526040

>>2525515
Not really. As a virgin, I noticed scrotes assert their dominance over me in a way that they don’t necessarily do to other women so they’re picking up on something.

No. 2526082

I swear there used to be a thread on /ot/ or /meta/ with thread recommendations for nonnies looking for new cows to check out. Am I fucking delusional? I looked through the catalogue and couldn't find it. Am I going crazy? Am I going fucking nuts?

No. 2526088

>>2526082
Nonnie it's the "thread binge suggestions" thread on /meta/ on the second page.

No. 2526090

Do you think its bad luck to kill a honeybee

No. 2526091

>>2526088
Christ, I'm retarded. Literally just fled to the catalogue and searched every related word except for that. Thanks, nonna.

No. 2526093


No. 2526095

>>2526093
So what the fuck am I supposed to do if I kill a bee then? Just kill myself too? There’s no info online about what you’re supposed to do if you kill a bee in your house

No. 2526098

>>2526095
Hold a bee funeral.

No. 2526101

>>2526090
You will be now stuck in a cage full of Japanese Hornets and wasps. You deserve this for even Thinking to harm a bee

No. 2526135

>>2526095
Bee funeral like >>2526098 said is correct. Got any wildflowers growing near you? Place it in the flowers and be more careful next time.

No. 2526498

What's the difference between "fasting" and straight up just "starving"? Aren't they just synonymous?

No. 2526508

>>2526498
ESLchan what the fuck
there's 2 main differences :
- intention : starving is unintentional, you're dying of hunger : fasting is usually meant as intentionally depriving yourself of food hoping for a beneficial outcome
- duration. not eating for 24 hours counts as fasting but not necessarily as starving. starving usually means food deprivation has been going on for a bunch of days.
also fasting usually means eating no food whatsoever, whereas starving can mean not eating at all but also eating some food but below your needs

No. 2526512

>>2526095
You need to sacrifice your blood to the queen bee to make amends. They could also take your first born child and raise it as a bee.

No. 2526513

>>2526498
fasting originally referred to a religious practice of abstinence, and which doesn't exclusively refer to eating

No. 2526532

>>2526508
>Starving is unintentional
But anachans and other adjacents refer to it as "starving themselves", and it's very intentional for them

No. 2526540

>>2526498
Fasting is used for religious or medical purposes and is (generally) not harmful, whereas starving is not eating/depriving oneself of food (intentionally or not) to the point where it's harmful.

No. 2526556

>>2526532
you could say they are fasting to the point of starvation

No. 2526632

What does jealousy feel like? How often do you tend to get jealous? Do people feel guilty about having unfair feelings to the person they’re jealous of?

No. 2526636

>>2526632
jealous as in possessive or jealous as in envious of something someone has?
possessive jealousy isn't obvious to stop, I'll feel annoyed/disgusted at the person I like and the person they seem to like better than me, it's not a good feeling at all
envy is a feeling of injustice, "why do they get to have all of this and not me?"
it feels guilty and shameful but it's difficult to help it

No. 2526637

Friend is all omg let's watch (really popular show) this weekend weeks ago, then she says she's probably seeing her relative to watch a sport that weekend, then as soon as make coworker she usually finds gross and creepy proposes drinks this same day in the group chat alongside our other coworker who she's secretly dating, I say I'm not free, she responds and wants to go, so I ask her about it and she's all yeah I need a drink after this week, am I stupid for finding this somewhat flaky and pickme considering she sees the guy she's dating all the time and is only going to get free drinks from creepy coworker and some validation? Is this pickme behaviour? I always feel like I'm a second choice with her as soon as men are involved nonnas but maybe I'm being too harsh, she has had a rough week but this is the hundredth time she's been all omg let's do this plan and then flakes out and I know it's to hang out with her coworker beau, does she secretly hate me or something? Why would you pick a colleague you rant about to me and why do you keep changing your story, I feel like a pushover because I always feel like I'm expected to just say okay? I also found out from her said sport is not even on this weekend it turns out

No. 2526641

Do you think your looks reflect how you are inside?

No. 2526646

>>2526641
to a certain extent they do
you can't choose the shape of your nose or your hair texture but
>your ethnicity is correlated to the culture you were raised in
>the efforts you make or don't make to look a certain way are telling on what kind of person you are

No. 2526648

>>2526646
I was asking more if people feel like their looks are accurate to themselves…

No. 2526650

>>2526637
it's simple, she's a fairweather pickme type of friend who finds men more novel and fun than you. reutrn the energy, if she flakes flake back, say plans came up for you.

No. 2526654

>>2526648
Well, people tell me that I have a "babyface" and look younger than my age, but that I socialize like I'm "ten years older". So no, I don't feel like my natural looks match my personality or even my voice.

No. 2526727

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No. 2526909

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Someone in another thread made me wonder: Do your parents constantly say moronic shit, or is it just mine?
Real example (too embarrassed to say the worst): thinking the seasons in Europe occur at the opposite time of year as in the US. Neither of my parents are elderly yet, and they both have bachelors degrees and professional certifications. I actually thought it was a normal Gen X-Boomer thing until another anon said something.

No. 2526942

>Muslim coworker is leaving, hosts party at workplace after hours with her family catering, pleasant time
>I'm helping tidy up the staff kitchen when her little brother asks for one of the snack size Doritos bags left from some other event
>Sure kid why not
>Don't think about it until the next morning then panic and look it up
>Nacho cheese Doritos not halal
I know I should have asked his parents before giving him junk food in the first place but is this kid going to hell because of me? I'm not Muslim so I don't know how big of a deal it is but I feel bad. My coworker is from Senegal and doesn't cover her head but I don't know exactly which denomination.

No. 2526949

>>2526942
doritos is sold in muslim countries nona youre fine kek

No. 2526950

>>2526942
Don't worry hell isn't real so he'll be fine but also LMAOOOO a boy going to hell because of a religion his fathers invented based ironyyy

No. 2526958

>>2526942
Ex-muslim here, what makes something halal is the way the animal was killed with blood let out before consumption. No animals are killed for the making of cheese or milk used in Doritos. Plus I'm pretty sure the cheese powder they use isn't even real cheese/milk. He'll be fine, you're fine, too.

No. 2526959

>>2526942
No one should care what is halal is not. let the kid have their doritos.

No. 2526964

>>2526942
You made me look up if nacho doritos are halal (I'm not Muslim). Now I'm wondering why they need pork byproducts

No. 2526965

>>2526942
The unofficial rule is that it's not a problem if it was an honest mistake. Plenty of kids eat candies and pastries that have animal products like marshmallows or some Haribo candies without knowing how they're made and only learn much later they had pork gelatine in it, they don't kill themselves over it.

No. 2526974

>>2526958
Fun fact, some types of cheese can only be made if you use the animal's internal organ to put the cream inside it for fermentation. I have no idea what the technical terms are for any of this and I don't remember which types of cheese are involved but I saw it for French and Italian cheese. That means it can't be halal or kosher depending on how the animal died.

No. 2526985

>>2526974
Interesting, good point. I remember hearing about the acid from animal guts used to produce cheese, forgot the words for it, too.

No. 2527020

>>2526949
>>2526958
>>2526964
Basically what >>2526974 said, it's because of the rennet used to curdle milk for cheese, which is extracted from ruminant stomachs (usually cows I think). I would guess they use plant or microbial coagulants when they sell in Muslim countries, assuming they actually do use animal rennet otherwise and it's not just all microbial (and that it's even real cheese at all) because my understanding was always that animal rennet is also more expensive.
>>2526950
>>2526959
Kek I'm not religious myself so I'm less worried about the kid actually going to hell and more worried about causing distress for my coworker, who is very sweet.
>>2526965
I kinda figured there surely must be some leeway especially for kids, so that's good to know. I appreciate everyone's replies kek I know it's stupid to worry about I just didn't want to end on a terrible note with a coworker I liked because I sent her kid brother down the path of sin or something.

No. 2527131

Every single time I go to any restaurant in the city with a large group of people:
>everyone lists their orders
>waiter listens and repeats each one but doesn't write down anything
>someone in the group asks "won't you write that down?"
>waiter assures us they won't forget anything
>of course they always forget multiple things

WHYYYYY WHY WHY
Has anyone been a waitress and can explain this behaviour? It's not like writing the order down costs money

No. 2527171

>>2526958
This is what’s in the Qur’an but the average Muslim just avoids pork and other predators (I forget the official terms for what other kinds of animals you can’t eat I just know that many of them are carnivores), “zabiha” is pretty strict and as an Arab I’ve met more desi Muslims who follow that than Arab ones.

No. 2527190

>>2527171
You mean kawaser right? In my Arab country, restaurants and meat factories are watched by the government to enforce the zabiha thing, so that's why I know about it. It's illegal to sell anything with blood in it. You won't find any rare stake around here for that reason. No sushi either unless it's cooked fish or chicken. Which sucks because I really wanna try all kinds of foods and try cured meats and stuff, and also want to try the Russian cow blood chocolate for my anemia. Maybe they'll make an exception for me if it's prescribed idk.

No. 2527204

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Why did 20th century actors and actresses look so healthy? And if it’s to do with the modern world then how do you try to mitigate that as much as possible? It seemed like people looked good without trying despite the fact that now we have better healthcare, more knowledge is mainstream with the internet, there’s very easy access to all kinds of supplements and the existence of photoshop. Seriously is it just me or did even their skin seem amazing? And I never see anyone today with hair as nice as some rando civilians in candid photos.
Celebrities now just do not compare.

Slightly unrelated but I find all of my celebrity crushes are either now elderly or dead. Even some Victorians. Honestly the people I like IRL tend to be the rare ones with classic beauty. But there has to be something in the water because the difference is so drastic

No. 2527206

>>2527204
They were considered elderly at 40 years old?

No. 2527209

>>2527204
Photo retouching existed before photoshop, these photos were retouched

No. 2527213

>>2527209
Picrel is just for a visual. My point is even with even more advanced retouching modern people still look less healthy… That isn’t just me right? I want to know if there’s something in particular that could contribute even if it’s just a tinfoil tbh.
>>2527206
In the 20th century…? On the contrary I feel like there was slightly less of an obsession with youth than today. Still there yeah, but it’s not like kids were panicking over turning 20

No. 2527215

>>2526942
you’re cute anon kek

No. 2527216

>>2527204
The black and white colouring + slightly lower camera quality was probably very flattering.

No. 2527225

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>>2527213
Hair, makeup and clothing style designed to flatter the face/body and natural beauty instead of working against it (ugly trends), amazing lighting techniques, film instead of digital everything looks better on film and cinemafags are 100% correct. 99% of the reason euphoria seems good is bc it was shot on real film, actresses always on diets consisting of mostly fruit, vegetables and lean meats/fresh dairy, aerobic exercise (not weights), no ozempic and retirement at age 30. Sorry anon but it's true, hollywood was brutal to actresses over 30 /floodpost

No. 2527231

>>2527225
>>2527206
i don’t think it’s an age thing at all because have you seen 22-year-old celebrities now kekk. also the same applied to men arguably tenfold

No. 2527238

>>2527190
Ah that makes more sense then, I live outside the MENA region and people here are more lax with it. I can’t believe no one sells any blood products even under the table, where my parents are from you can get animals (mainly sheep) and slaughter it yourself, so some family members get away with it in that regard. And I hope so too, I had some once at a friend’s party and it was pretty good.

No. 2527248

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>>2527225
You bring up good points and I agree with you on the film haloing Euphoria but honestly that reinforces it for me because no analog camera, vintage style quality, etc replicates what I mean. It also does not explain the silky soft thick hair they had. And it’s not just the health of their flesh(?) but their bones too. Just look at the “most beautiful” people of this generation.

No. 2527249

>>2527231
No bc it's mostly older actors with name recognition, people aren't interested in "fresh faces" but nostalgic ones. It would be one thing if actresses would just be okay playing older roles but since older moids take younger roles, they want to do the same thing. So in addition to living in the sunniest state in the usa most of the time, they usually drink a lot and take drugs too bc they become hedonistic. There's your perfect storm for ugly actors in movies

No. 2527264

>>2527225
am i retarded if i dont see any different between some of these, the first three look the same to me

No. 2527265

>>2527248
Idk I've said before everyone's grandmother has a portrait just like this on her piano and no publicity shots left the studio without retouching. We can actually see what celebrities look like now so I'm not assuming they actually looked this way

No. 2527266

>>2527248
no pesticides, no gmos, no modern medicine, no vaccines, no fast food, no weird chemical poisons and bpas in their systems, pretty straightforward.

No. 2527267

how do i stop browsing lc on my phone? i cant even have the discipline to use it mindfully. or maybe i can try a weekly timer. i just want to stop wasting so much time when im tired

No. 2527269

>>2527266
The crunchy-anon hypothesis

No. 2527274

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>>2527265
?? I’m saying that even with effects modern celebrities looked worse, including their bone structure?? Obviously I’m not comparing vintage retouched pictures to modern candids LOL.
Anyway, again things like hair looking different back then, like the fucking randoms in this photo
People just look worse now. I guess ugly moid psyop thread would agree

No. 2527279

>>2527274
People used to put so much time into styling their hair back then.

No. 2527295

>>2527267
You gotta replace it with something else. For me it’s crossword puzzles if I have a little time, or a movie if I have a lot of time. My logic is if I’m going to be sitting in a stupor in front of my computer for hours, I might as well either be engaging my brain or experiencing art. Interacting with women online is a treat but must be done in moderation.

No. 2527302

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>>2527279
>People used to put so much time into styling their hair back then.
yeah, mostly only using water and pins too, but it still looked gorgeous

No. 2527307

>>2527302
my mom had crazy ass fluffly hair in the 80s and 90s even though she has naturally flat hair. She spent like 30 mins each year styling it, crazy.

No. 2527469

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Can anyone who's tried this tell me if the garlic oil packet is supposed to be kinda opaque/foggy and have tiny black particles in it? Expiration date is next year.

No. 2527477

At what point does neglect become abuse?

No. 2527492

>>2527204
>the lighting they used was very flattering, as is black and white, lower quality film, etc.
>makeup is at least 50% of a beautiful woman's beauty
>anyone can look pretty with proper styling
>i am too lazy to verify this part but heroin chic is slowly coming into style as are bone thin women – in the past, it was acceptable for women to be a bit heartier. when it wasn't, they were thin, fashion is made for thin bodies and padding exists

No. 2527506

wait so if some women dont have pms symptoms how do they tell if their period is about to start

No. 2527511

>>2527506
It’s called a period because it comes periodically, they just remember the days

No. 2527513

>>2527511
what if its irregular…

No. 2527521

>>2527506
Kek I feel like I’m always online for the menstrual cycle questions. Personally I tell through dreams + boob soreness + large appetite. When those symptoms start to wane I know my luteal phase is nearly over.
But also you can just remember the days kek

No. 2527532

>>2527506
It just surprises me every time. Sometimes I get cramping before.

No. 2527650

Is GWAR worth going to or should I save my money? Debating on traveling to their show at caverns in TN to see what the fuss is abt

No. 2527664

>>2527264
Oval, heart and long all look the same to me

No. 2527699

Any retainer wearers? I use a lower one due to shit tooth crowding that was fixed, kindof, when I was little. I didn't have my retainer with me for about a month while traveling and it currently hurts to put in. It does fit, but my bottom 4-6 teeth are noticeably off.

If I keep wearing my retainer, will everything move back to conform
to it or am I kinda fucked? I had a jaw expander as a kid so the retainer fits where that intervention left off.

>>2524005
Cottage, 100%. My sister was in the same situation and despite sperging out over general house issues and learning to fix them (or having help) it's been an overall positive + good investment. Fixing adds value even though you spend upfront for stuff like plaster, paint, caulk, tools, etc. Only caution is if an area has high property tax that outweighs your income, it might not be worth it. You'll feel like a superhero a few months later when you can fix all kinds off stuff though.

No. 2527702

>>2527650
Kek I'd kill to see GWAR, do it. They're very entertaining with funny history even if the music itself isn't everyone's cup of tea.

No. 2527711

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To cat owner anons: how the FUCK do you deal with the fur on your clothes? I feel like no matter what I do, I can't get enough of it off. No sticky roller is strong enough and all pet hair remover while doing laundry do the job. I feel like a mess going outside sometimes because of how all the fur gets revealed when the right light hits me.

No. 2527724

>>2527711
>>2527711
>>2527711
Brush them everyday. Vacuum clean everyday. Wear home wear at home and only get dressed right before you leave your home. I have two short hair cats though. I don’t think it’s possible to control if you have long haired cats.

No. 2527725

>>2527711
slightly depends on cat breed but I noticed a huge difference in hair shed when I spent 10 minutes brushing my shorthair everyday. Also making sure to not let her in the closet or washing room helps.

No. 2527732

>>2527724
>>2527725
My cat is a semi-longhaired cuddly boy and I brush him a couple of times every week, but doing every day might be the way to go from now on (I already change to sweatpants the moment I get home and turn my pants inside out after taking them off, but even that is not always enough). His kitty timer for being brushed even with his favorite brush and treats is just so incredibly short and he's a wiggly motherfucker.

No. 2527737

Do big external hard drives corrupt more easily than small ones? I remember for a console I got years and years ago it's better to get two 32GB memory cards than a single 64GB one, is the same true for external hard drives?

No. 2527738

>>2527711
Get a dark one lol

No. 2527741

>>2527737
That was my understanding when I built my PC years ago, none of my 1 or 2tb drives have died in all that time so I guess it worked. But tech might have improved since then.

No. 2527755

>>2527738
Black fur is lowkey worse since you don't notice it until you're in direct sunlight, it'll build up and cause health issues.

No. 2527757

>>2527469
it's supposed to have the black flakes, i'm guessing it's some form of seasoning?

No. 2527758

>>2527266
>no vaccines
crunchy anons not knowing history as expected

No. 2527759

>>2527131
My sister was a waitress, some establishments discourage/disallow you from writing orders because they think it looks unprofessional
>>2527469
Yeah that's normal

No. 2527767

>>2527204
I get what you mean, and I think diet and pollution are a part of it. Plus the way people raise their kids, the foods they have, how young/old they were when they stopped eating soft foods or baby formula/breast milk, how they were allowed to play outside and move around and so on. All of this faded with time and people nowadays eat shit unhealthy super processed foods from the moment they're born, the air is of shit quality, they don't go out as much as kids because street dangerous or they wanna watch TV or nowadays they wanna be glued to their phones and so on. Microplastics in food, water and everything else don't help either.

No. 2527769

>>2527759
>some establishments discourage/disallow you from writing orders
Reminds me of this.

No. 2527771

>>2527769
>mind paaaaaalaaaaceeeee

No. 2527773

>>2527711
easy just wet your hands a bit and rub all over, its much more easier

No. 2527801

I live in a state where it’s illegal to secretly record a conversation. How do I provide proof to hr that my manager is a woman hating groyper?

No. 2527820

>>2526650
Thank you, if she notices the flakiness I hope she knows it's because I mirror energy. That and the lack of reciprocation in effort with messaging but as soon as she has anything miniscule to rant about I drop everything for her but I don't see her doing the same. I just feel like she only cares about me when her boyfriend is engaged, which is rarely because they're both very chronic texters.

No. 2527847

>>2527801
you can write down the thing he says/does and when it occurred. if you have dates and times spanning like a whole month its your best shot at being believed. also if you have any coworkers who feel the same getting statements from them will help.

No. 2527851

File: 1747579820950.jpg (464.41 KB, 2048x1365, Dinosaur.jpg)

Would anyone want a bird thread? I saw a monke thread but I wanna post birds. Not sure how high interest would be though.

No. 2528020

Why do I attract so many submissive males? Nowadays I’m a switch, but back when I was only a bottom for some reason I’d attract submissive males 90% of the time which continues onto this day. For context I’m 5’2, thin, pretty average looking, and a socially awkward weeaboo. There is nothing indicative of my personality or looks that would make people think I’d dom them. Idunno

No. 2528028

>>2527851
Check the catalogs because my feeble old fag brain somewhat remebers one somewhere. Otherwise go for it

No. 2528039

>>2527702
Yeah I’m not the biggest fan of that classic metal sound. I do like metalcore. But their shows look like a riot and they’re playing at a cool venue that’s close to me this time around. I feel like I’d be seeing orcs play in a cave kek

No. 2528051

There’s a girl on instagram that does not warrant a thread (yet?) but she is pretty overweight and claims to have been diagnosed with anorexia subtype. Is there a thread already where people who pretend to have anorexia get posted in? Or in which thread do you think said cow belongs in?

No. 2528057

>>2527851
Not a birdfag so I wouldn't be able to contribute much, but I'll drop by with cute pics/webms if it gets made

No. 2528060

>>2528051
This is half the cows in the Pro-Ana thread. Might be worth putting her in BPDemons if she doesn't post much about her fake ED.

No. 2528088

I’m a NEET with very little life experience (preface kek). What do people do once they finished college/uni at 21-22? Do they really go straight into the office job grind? For some reason I can’t imagine it

No. 2528098

>>2528088
Yep. That's what you do. If your parents live somewhere close to jobs and you like them/they like you, then you live with them for a little bit to a few years while working full time. Then, if you find a mate and the relationship is progressing smoothly, eventually you move in with them. Otherwise, when you want some more independence, normally you move out and start living with roommates. I do not advise living on your own at that age unless you are making absolute bank. We're talking, rent is less than 25% of income, you're putting away the max in your 401K, and you have a six month safety fund type of income.

No. 2528100

What kind of "disorder" do I have if I only find people's faces and body shapes attractive but when I actually think about sex with them (like their genitals or body fluids) it fills me with disgust to the point of not being able to have sex? I've been trying to figure out my sexuality my whole life and I still can't do it. I have no history of sexual trauma of any kind, I'm a virgin, I kissed both women and men and touched both female and male genitals but that's the farthest I could go. I was going through identifying as bisexual, lesbian and then asexual. But I can't be asexual if I'm able to feel arousal and get wet from thinking about someone. But then when I think about their private parts there's nothing, like they're a barbie/ken doll kek. I just fantasize about rubbing against another naked body and kissing and that's enough to get me off lmao. The thought about being penetrated with anything disgusts me. I'm autistic and I have ocd and dysphoria so idk maybe that plays a role. But there are people with my conditions who are still able to have sex somehow, be it gay or straight. And I can't. I get so horny when I look at certain people but the moment I think about their genitals all that arousal disappears

No. 2528116

>>2528098
Thanks for taking the time to explain. Yeah that makes sense. But it is kind of depressing. Is this really what life is? For some reason trying to pull myself out of NEETdom had me depicting a different life even though realistically I already knew this, I just couldn’t imagine it. It seems kind of like a disappointment

No. 2528120

>>2528100
Probably just your autism and OCD. Just because some people who have those conditions have sex and enjoy doesn't mean all people with them will - they're highly individualized disorders.

No. 2528122

>>2527851
>>>/m/497188
Made a bird thread if anyone wants to look at birds

No. 2528143

>>2528098
Do people that suddenly become famous (music artists, internet personalities etc) also do classic office job work before that or…?

No. 2528206

Do people just move past songs that are no longer in? I still listen to 2010s electronic music and trap remixes because I like them but it seems like people just… stop liking them? They move on and consider it kinda weird or quirky to keep on listening I guess?

No. 2528208

what is the white stuff that sometimes comes out of your vagina when you cum? if it’s intense and i kind of “push”? of gloops out. also why do we have like no names for like female sex things in general someone just make some up

No. 2528214

>>2528208
That's called cum

No. 2528223

>>2528208
Mine is always transparent when I come. I think the lubricant that vagina naturally produces in arousal is always transparent? If I had fingers inside, then there can also be some white stuff on the fingers but that's just regular discharge I guess

No. 2528224

>>2528208
it's all broadly referred to as "vaginal discharge". the white stuff was already there before you came, sticking to your vaginal walls. you just moved around so much and were lubricated so it came out. white discharge is healthy as long as there is no itching, burning, or bad odor.

No. 2528225

Why allow regular cars (e.g. non-sports cars) to reach top speeds of over 100mph when most roads have a max of like… 70 or something? Why not just limit it out of the factory?

No. 2528237

>>2528223
Ok that’s the thing. There are three sex fluids I personally deal with. 1 squirt, which usually can only happen from penetration especially pressure on the walls, but lately I feel like it’s building up from clitoral stimulation too. Completely clear and watery and the smell can vary from nothing to a scent I’ve never smelled before, one time it smelled like some kinda of musky off chocolate and was very strong. Comes from the urethra for sure and it feels like you need to pee when it happens but the pressure is way higher than when I pee and quite staccato, no matter how much I empty myself beforehand it fills up. I can also go multiple times in a row without running out of fluid, or start doing stuff on a full bladder, squirt, and then still do my normal pee right afterwards. Some control over it as you can “let go” or try to hold it in but it can just go out on it’s own. So can come out at any time, before or during orgasm (but orgasm can force it out)
2 lubrication (which is one I think we should have a name for) and I researched this and it comes from glands at the entrance of the vagina which makes sense, clear, sometimes slippery sometimes sticky and I produce a bit more when I’m close, very lubricating. Obviously no control over it and it happens without stimulation so long as I’m aroused.
The third one I’ve only been noticing recently, comes from INSIDE the vagina definitely not the entrance, is nearly opaquely white and very sticky, not very lubricating. Also while number 2 (lubrication) is absolutely tasteless, this number 3 smells like nothing but does not taste nice, granted I don’t have any oral sexual experience for comparison. Very… proteiny? Like raw egg or something. Wait no snot, I remember putting it in my mouth and thinking god this is just like snot. It only comes out at orgasm, not before.

>>2528224
>it's all broadly referred to as "vaginal discharge"
I’m aware that that can be used to refer to any vaginal fluid but I do wish there was a more specific name. It’d be like calling cum and piss “penile discharge”
>you just moved around so much and were lubricated so it came out
I’ve stuck my fingers in before and there was nothing white in there though, only clear. This was a completely new substance and I know because I always taste my fingers afterwards kek

No. 2528245

>>2528237
>2 lubrication (which is one I think we should have a name for)
We do, it's call cervical mucus and it indicates that you're ovulating

No. 2528247

>>2528245
? i mean like a non-clinical WORD, not a technological name, ie cum/sperm vs male ejaculate. Pretty much everything has a “name”.
Also… that’s not it. Cervical mucus is not the arousal fluid that you get all cycle if you’re horny. We’re talking about the sex fluids. The thing that gets you wet is secreted from the Bartholin’s glands or whatever right? Imo cervical mucus is what the word “discharge” usually refers to in my brain, I don’t think it needs more names especially not slang since it’s not very sex related

No. 2528254

Does anyone else get aches from fat redistribution? I posted about this before but for some reason fat has been shifting as I’m losing weight (not overweight, slim) and especially in the face it is really uncomfortable. I get the urge to stretch my face around and massage it. It’s like deep inside my blood vessels is itchy. It also feels like I’m wearing a new face and the posture of my lips and cheeks feel completely foreign and different. This feeling does go when the current process stops (like in a day or so, but once it kept on happening for like a week). Then it feels like my face is my own again. How do people who get plastic surgery do it kek

No. 2528256

>>2528247
Oh yeah I just saw 'clear and slippery' and thought that's what you were thinking of.

I feel like you can just refer to it as cum, lube or getting/being wet and that covers most situations you'd need to refer to it. I've seen fanfic call it slick but that sounds weird imo.

No. 2528258

>>2528208
It's cervical discharge, it's secreted by the cervix. It changes based on where you are in your hormonal cycle. The cervix constantly secretes it, but the vaginal and cervical movements during orgasm can push out a lot all at once.

No. 2528273

>>2528060
Ayrt
>BPDemons
Wait do people with bpd often lie about having anorexia?

No. 2528275

Why do anons on /g/ have such shit taste. I don’t even think normies have taste this shit and normies don’t share a site with UMP

No. 2528283

>>2528273
AYRT, not all but a noticeable number do. BPDs love attention and anorexics get a lot of that, so they LARP being the sickest waif. If the bippie does have an eating disorder it would be closer to Bulimia or BED (impulse control issues are common with BPDemons) but that doesn't get them pity points, so they'll never admit it. The reason we got a BPDemon thread to begin with was because those types of cows kept being discussed in the Pro-Ana threads, but weren't always talking about their "anorexia".

No. 2528290

>>2528283
The cows I have found today (two) have over 50k followers at least…Iirc the cows in the threads you mentioned have at most 1000 followers. but not sure if they belong in the bpdemons since they are a lot more mentally stable than i am lmfao. Do we have to call everyone who is mentally unstable bpd? That would mean almost everyone has bpd

No. 2528306

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I see this and think bad take but I can’t explain WHY it’s a bad take

No. 2528351

>>2528306
If the “pedo is an innate sexuality” argument held even a drop of water, then women would be pedophiles at the same rate as men. Is there even pedophilia in the animal kingdom? There’s gay lions but I can’t say I’ve ever heard of an adult lion exclusively attempting to mate with cubs. Such a bullshit argument

No. 2528365

why are men getting so ugly

No. 2528393

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>>2528365
Modern men: ww1 and ww2 absolutely annihilated millions of young hot guys and hormone disruptors nuked the descendants of the rest

Overall: the agricultural revolution and invention of currency caused the creation of modern civilization and thus women no longer all bred with the strongest and most physically and mentally agile hot men of their (and mother nature's) choosing, but schmucks who can join forces and invent things like debt and mortgages became the top males through financial coercion and failmale genes propagated, slowly eliminating "chads" aka healthy men over time (this is true- our skull interior sizes have actually shrunk over time and scientists try to cope by saying our brains are more efficient but we just became dumber and weaker and basically domesticated ourselves) all because failmales teamed up and wanted to enforce breeding for every male. This is why evolution in humans has not only halted but started to reverse. Realistically across all species the few best of men are supposed to breed but we have empathy and put up with bald ugly men now (who are by nature marked to be eunuchs)

No. 2528397

>>2528393
I simultaneously agree with this (on the basic facts level) and I'm happy that I no longer have to live in times where I would be forced to mate with a male (even if he was hot) and can have life free from scrotes and kids and own my own warm place and buy food without hunting and focus on pursuing my passions

No. 2528398

>>2528393
To add onto this, some men will argue that large scale civilization was a good thing and that a tribal existence consisted of war and rape, however when humans were all in tribes it was very rare for most of them to encounter other tribes to slaughter or rape. Usually they would trade. The earnest fight for survival kindled a warmth and passion for perseveance and cooperation between the sexes. The black/pink pill is that sadly the most egalitarian, respectful era for women was in tribal prehistoric settings, as the tribal women and men all knew eachother since birth and thus you couldn't be hurt without social or deadly repercussion on the male attacker. The era before the murder of all goddesses (monotheism) sealed the deal on the final act of the failmale gene propagation scheme, later on the pope couldn't even hold himself back from declaring Mary Magdalena a prostitute (she was the most beloved disciple of Jesus and even this was too much for failmales to handle.)

I could sperg on this topic for hours. Never forget what they built isn't real and the entirety of male desire is to breed regardless of gene quality as much as possible, like a cancer about to kill its host. (We are already dead in soul as a species).

No. 2528402

>>2528397
You wouldn't have had to if you declared yourself a tribal priestess, from celtic to native Americans there was allowance and expectation for celibate wise women, believed to foster spiritual power and mental clarity. It is the best archetype of the autistic female who is absurdly good at crafts usually or plant lore.

No. 2528410

The stupid tranny debate about toilets has me wondering, how do tifs manage the male toilets. Do they use urinals lol, do they wear short sleeves to show their weird dick scars these are my starting questions

No. 2528415

Do good parents let their children get famous?

No. 2528418

>>2528402
Holy shit… nta but this would be so me, botany is literally my hobby. Born to be a tribal priestess plant autist, forced to be a wageslave.

No. 2528424

>>2528410
I always thought they use the toilet like any other woman, but in their head, they imagine themselves pissing standing up at a urinal like a male. Unless they're desperate like my dumbass lesbian step-cousin, who used a funnel.

No. 2528425

>>2528424
Do all male toilets have a stall and if its occupied do they stand around by the sinks waiting like a woman lol

No. 2528429

>>2528425
From my experience of cleaning male restrooms during my closing shifts at fast food, yes there are toilets in there and they do have stalls. The TIFs probably try to "act" like a dude when they wait for the toilets though. Cross the arms, lean against the wall, stare at the corner of a ceiling or something maybe.

No. 2528431

>>2528410
I’ve been IRL friends with a large number of TIFs and not a single one ever used the men’s restroom out of fear, they’d just go into the women’s or look for single stall toilets. Totally opposite of how TIMs behave lol. Makes you think…

No. 2528442

Ideas for how i can go about finding an obituary if i dont have the persons name, exact date of or cause of death? I only have the city, approximate age at the time (within 1-3 yrs), and can narrow the date of death to a 6 month period? I've looked at an obituary aggregator for that city but it had very few obits listed and none of them matched.

No. 2528454

>>2528442
How would you know who you are looking for if you don't know the name? You might have missed it without realizing.

No. 2528473

>>2528442
You pick someone at random in that timeframe/area and declare success.

No. 2528475

>>2528454
I have his estimated age (like between say 25-27 at the time of death, it's a narrow time), and in a city of less than 50k it won't be too many people. I have the year of death, and I know it happened at least after a specific date, so I can rule out anything beforehand, and I'm thinking it'll most likely be within 3-4 months of that date. Also I'm thinking it likely wasn't an illness but some kind of an accident since the person was young. The obits I found so far were for old people, birth year was not anywhere close, so I can rule them out. My biggest issue is that a lot of obits get taken down over time, and this one is for 2012. Also if there were any personal details mentioned in the obit, something may sound similar to what I know.

No. 2528483

can nonnies recommend any threads similar to safa abbas?

No. 2528504

>>2528475
Obituaries might be censored by family, but newspapers may be more liberal in their publishing.

No. 2528538

>>2528504
Thanks, I found a database based on local newspapers set up by the city library, but nothing on there matches either. I'll have a look at newspaper archives online to see if there's anything that matches that didn't make it to the database, but I am a little weirded out, I thought I'd have something concrete by now.

No. 2528598

>>2528402
Ok that sounds nice. It's funny because I had more than one person in my life telling me I was some kind of a powerful pirestess in my past life kek, I don't believe that but I know that if given the choice I would always opt out of "traditional" female role. And I'm autistic af
I still like my dentists and chicken tendies and a few other civilizational luxuries

No. 2528643

>>2528425
Males need to shit too, of course they have stalls

No. 2528675

Why is this moid thinking I'm leaving him because I want him to pine for me or so I can crawl back later? Is he just projecting fantasies? If I leave it's because I want you dead and gone and out of my life fuckass

No. 2528734

I never spend money on anything, even if I want something I just don't because I'm scared I will hate it after things settle. Should I just try to spend my money on something? Would consooming just a little bit be actually good for me?
not sure which thread this belongs in but I felt stupid so I'm asking here sorry.

No. 2528744

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Does anyone have the same experience with dating apps? Picrel is my experience. It makes me feel like a 2/10 even though I’ve been told that I look like a number of actresses and could be a model… just want to make sure that I am not actually crazy or missing something here.

No. 2528748

Why is hunger breath so smelly?

No. 2528752

>>2528744
I match with both ugly and handsome men, I just swipe on the ones I physically like. If you get hit on by hot men in real life chances are you’ll also have the same in dating apps. Hinge is a different story, I think their algorithm is screwed up kek and also men who don’t have luck in real life are also on dating apps and they’ll swipe on everything to amp up their chances, don’t let it get to you. It you’ve been told you look like a model etc then I don’t see why you should worry.
But if you are talking about the quality of the scrotes, men on dating apps are all shitty, they don’t want anything but waste time.

No. 2528754

>>2528675
Projection. The most manipulative scrotes I know use break ups as leverage and to create a trauma bond. The “nicer” ones break up with women they like because of delusion and seeing women as experiences rather than people and eventually regret it. Moids don’t fully realize that women truly think and reflect on their actions.

No. 2528764

>>2528675
Projection. The most manipulative scrotes I know use break ups as leverage and to create a trauma bond. The “nicer” ones break up with women they like because of delusion and seeing women as experiences rather than people and eventually regret it. Moids don’t fully realize that women truly think and reflect on their actions.

No. 2528765

>>2528752
Which apps do you use anon? Bumble was also only showing me hideous men as well.

No. 2528814

>>2528643
Oh yeah lol. I still can't picture a tif being comfortable in a men's restroom.

No. 2528829

>>2528814
90% of TIFs don't hang out around real moids anyway.

No. 2528839

wtf is the deal with people who like redscare? never listened to the podcast but I like /r/rs_x and less often /r/redscare, but the main sub is just as weird and misogynistic as liberals, but in different ways.
https://www.reddit.com/r/redscarepod/comments/1kpox32/standing_behind_a_group_of_late_20searly_30s/
this post is so weird and schizo and judgemental towards women, I genuinely can't tell wtf these people's deal is

No. 2528841

>>2528744
I stopped using Hinge because I'm a lesbian and I was only getting likes from trannies and 600lb life contestants. I'm only ok looking, but no where even near that bad. It was making my self esteem tank.

No. 2528845

>>2528748
Ketones maybe?

No. 2528848

>>2528841
>>2528765
Hinge is horrible. Bumble has been the best for me at least, I found scrotes who at least took you out than straight ask what was your favorite position (Tinder). Met a summer fling too, who returned back where he lived once summer ended.
I think it also depends on the city you live in nonna. But like I said before , your attractiveness shouldn’t be measure by whom swipes on you.

No. 2528984

How good would webrings be for socialising?

No. 2529078

how do you know if you’re not pretty? like i know im not a 2/10 but i want to know definitely that im no more than 6/10 on a good day so i stop fantasizing about achieving 7-8/10 stacydom without plastic surgery

No. 2529083

>>2529078
I honestly want to hear other nonas’ answers as well, but in my circles I noticed that girls who are pretty like being in pictures and aren’t scared of the camera.
I figure out I can’t be more than average because I hate having my picture taken and have literally cried over how I turned out in photos. Selfies are fine but my boyfriend and boomers in my family always make me look criminally ugly when they take them. My pretty friends say they used to feel self conscious but now they look at pictures of themselves as teens and think they were so pretty, but I can’t even look at mine because I used to look so unfortunate and awkward.

No. 2529118

>>2529078
You are probably average-looking because most people are average-looking. If you were naturally a 7-8 you would know, which means it'd probably be a huge constant effort for you to try to achieve it as you are (see all the procedures/daily routines IG and Tiktok influencers shill). It's really not healthy to spend that much of your life focusing on and investing in your appearance.

No. 2529122

>>2529078
It doesn't really matter in the end. I am considered naturally very pretty, people tell me this on the daily even strangers but I am also very nice and friendly, I think being approachable and smiling helps a lot. I would consider myself one of the best looking people I've seen although I don't think I've ever met an ugly woman.

No. 2529127

>>2529078
what benefits do you believe being pretty will achieve for you? self-worth? people treating you better? better romantic chances? the number scale is a scrote invention. if you're not super hot you're probably average and will appeal more or less to different people.

No. 2529227

What happens if non-dissolvable stitches don't get removed?

No. 2529229

>>2529078
If you're ugly people will either out right tell you, compare you to something ugly like a tranny or monster, or some ugly looking animal, or act afraid of you

No. 2529253

>>2529078
If your jaw is smaller than it should be and your cheekbones aren't prominent.

No. 2529254

how do artists make money when they’re not releasing music or too unheard of to make much money off of it?

No. 2529255

>>2529253
I have both of these traits but am definitely considered pretty. I think those features are more appreciated in places like Korea though (especially a V-shaped jaw)

No. 2529269

>>2529255
I'm more or less referring to being recessed / downward grown / "witchskull"-lite.

No. 2529271

>>2529078
Idk I'm face blind but im assuming when other women tell you look pretty or attractive ive had countless women say this to me so I had to gauge off that how I look to others I think being more authentic to yourself naturally makes someone more attractive

No. 2529272

>>2529254
It's a side hustle or hobby for fun. They have irl jobs of course.

No. 2529301

Saw this in another thread but it didn't get much traction.
It's basically a meme that the most conservative anti-fag moid politicians are secretly closeted fags themselves and will probably get caught in a gay orgy a month later. He who shouts loudest or whatever quote. Are there any equivalents to this in women? Like can you have a lesbophobic woman who's secretly lesbian or bi herself?

No. 2529306

>>2529078
Personally
>get random people complimenting me on my features
>my friends or people that I know tell me that someone they know has told them they find me beautiful etc..
>I catch people staring at me
>my friends call me attractive and throw in a compliment often
>I come out well in pictures
>randos smile at you randomly
>if I smile at randos, especially children, they’ll smile back to me
That’s how I know I’m at least an 8/10, maybe even a 9/10. Some people will tell you that beautiful people are lonely or get treated badly and how pretty privilege is so bad, but it’s not that bad kek, it’s nice, if you get treated shittily it’s just misogyny, which every woman experiences.

No. 2529309

>>2529301
Honestly it’s just men who behave like that. If a scrote is severely fixated on something is because he wants to fuck it.

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No. 2529330

>>2529306
Beautiful people tend to get treated poorly if they're shy/anxious. That's when Beckies and scrotes take it personally because beautiful women are totally meant to be smiling giggling waifs that are supposed to uplift the spirit of fugly downtrodden people or whatever. People tend to be insecure around attractive people so couple that with an attractive woman who is scared to be herself around strangers and yes, being attractive can put a target on your back for rude remarks and snarky comments and unwarranted attitude.

No. 2529334

Hijacking off the other anon, but will getting plastic surgery if I'm 4 - 6 out of 10 mitigate the social exclusion I receive for being very visibly autistic?

No. 2529336

>>2529334
Absolutely not. Please do not do that

No. 2529340

>>2529272
So are you telling me Grimes is out there working an office job right now or something?
>>2529271
I think it’s easy to tell if you’re pretty, like 7+, but you might not be able to tell how pretty you are. I used to think I was just kinda cute and distinct, maybe niche? but have recently learnt that people talk about my looks when I’m not there (which was very scary and unexpected). Not sexy though, just pretty. If you have bad self-confidence then you might find it difficult to tell if you’re pretty as a 6-7 though, beyond that you have to know you look good and people treat you differently. There’s also difference in how people treat a hot 7-8, a cute 7-8, an elegant or beautiful 7-8 etc, so your perception can vary based on that. I guess you can tell by how guys treat you (and also girls too, differently). I’m already yapping though sorry

Still the way people look at you makes it obvious. Coming into adulthood (~20) people started looking at me even more intensely. It’s also obvious when someone has a crush.

>>2529306
I’ve seen people who were very pretty but don’t capture well in photos. You could still tell they’re pretty if you’d never met them obviously but they tend to feel self-conscious of that fact. On the other hand some very plain-featured people are photogenic and are nice to look at in pictures. Youtubers tend to be like this
I agree with the other anon who replied, there are downsides depending on what kind of looks you have, how you act, dress, etc especially based on how people judge you. But it’s way worse in school, I didn’t even know I was pretty back then - as an adult everyone magnifies every good trait about you x10 and treat you like you’re more special than others.

No. 2529344

>>2529340
>yapping
Twitterfag

No. 2529349

>>2529344
I’ve used this word forever please don’t… I don’t use Twitter only TikTok unfortunately

No. 2529351

>>2529334
probably not, you will not be harshly abused but you will still not be able to maintain relationships. autistic women are at high risk of sexual abuse so you might actually draw more harassment because men will know you are vulnerable still.

No. 2529352

>>2529349
ntayrt but this is worse

No. 2529366

>>2529352
Haha I’ve always thought Twitter was worse. I can’t go on there because it stresses me out…

No. 2529388

>>2529127
Nta but unfortunately society is based on lookism and attractive people are always assumed to be morally good, more competent and they get promoted at work more often than average or ugly people etc. It's biologically ingrained in people to perceive the pretty ones as better

No. 2529402

Is this some kind of tradition in burger schools? I'm very confused. Doesn't seem like a one-time thing based on the comments. Did I miss the joke? Please, what is this…

No. 2529404

>>2529388
the halo effect is real but people are way too fixated on it nowadays, and companies encourage it in women so we consoom

No. 2529411

Is edging when you masturbate not normal? People online talk about it as if its a weird fetish that only sexual deviants partake in, like I thought that's what everyone did when they masturbate kek. Stopping yourself before you orgasm and pushing yourself to hold off as long as possible until you give in makes the orgasm 100x more intense, do people really just finish the moment they feel like cumming and call it a day? What a sad life to live

No. 2529429

>>2529411
I’ve always done it because then otherwise I’d be done in 5 minutes and that would be boring. So yeah I don’t get why edging is being considered some sort of alternate fetish

No. 2529444

>>2529402
Many middle schools over here dangle the possibility of duct taping a teacher or administrator to the wall at the end of the year to incentivize the kids towards good grades, behavior, or meeting a fundraising goal. For some reason I've only seen it for middle schools, never elementary or high school.

No. 2529467

>>2529402
No. Where I am the tradition is a student vs staff basketball game and a class gets to pie their teacher at the end if their homeroom raises the most money for annual charity fundraising

No. 2529569

I'm craving meat. All I can think of is juicy steaks, greasy burgers, chicken wings, etcetera etcetera. Am I iron deficient or I just hungry?

No. 2529632

>>2529388
I have been in the receiving end of bullying from women who are fatter and/or uglier than me. I think average looking women have the best life.

No. 2529633

>>2529330
I mean I have been called snob and bitchy when I wasn’t even doing anything in particular kek, but it’s not that big of a deal in the end, at least for me.
On the other hand people have always gravitated towards me despite me being a retard that doesn’t know how to do the first move.

No. 2529636

>>2529306
>Some people will tell you that beautiful people are lonely or get treated badly and how pretty privilege is so bad, but it’s not that bad kek, it’s nice, if you get treated shittily it’s just misogyny, which every woman experiences.
THANK YOU. You said it so succinctly in a way no other nona has managed to until now.

No. 2529644

>>2529636
The inverse can be said about uggos.

No. 2529667

how bad is the evangelion dub compared to the sub?

No. 2529672

>>2529632
Nta but the key is to be kind of neotenous looking with a soft face that’s non-intimidating. I’m attractive but with a gaunt model type of face which polarizes people rather than drawing them in. People that I know have assumed I am a bitch because I “look arrogant” at first glance. Men say that they find me particularly intimidating which I think comes down to my bone structure and my stare.
A simple soft pretty face (think like Carey Mulligan or Katy Perry) is ideal in comparison for the best treatment from both men and women.

No. 2529684

>>2529672
Nta, I think you sound gorgeous from your description. I'm more imto the gaunt look myself than the neotenous baby face look.

No. 2529754

>>2529672
This is it yeah, I’m pretty and neotenous and not very sexually appealing and get treated much better than most people, from either gender. Honestly women love me, they’re so sweet and give me so many passes and people just seem to like anything I do. I’d say they give me better treatment than men? Who just act kind of awkward. But more intimidating women or stereotypical hot Stacies are not treated like this, at all. Sometimes they’re treated like “authority”, and while you can utilise that power it’s not like people treat you nicely, in fact all your flaws are magnified even when others have them too. Also men treat you like meat, not wifey material.
People don’t talk enough about the difference in treatment you get from looks beyond attractiveness.

No. 2529765

>>2529754
i dont think is true. my mom is an aged stacy (always has been, even though shes middle aged now she still looks very glamorous and often gets asked if she is on tv) wherever we go, she still gets random men of all ages simping for her and treating her like a fucking queen. its weird. pretty privilege is real. i cant imagine how well young stacies get treated if even my middle aged mom has moids eating out of her hand lel.

No. 2529767

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American nonnies, how expensive is it to ship stuff from the USA to other countries thanks to trumps tariffs? i met a burger scrote and he wants to buy me shit. So far hes been sending me money and buying me steam games but i want an anime figurine.

No. 2529768

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>>2529684
Thanks anon. I’m not a 10/10 by any means, but I look like a normie version of picrel to give an idea here.
>>2529754
Glad someone else agrees with my autistic take bc I didn’t know if I was just bitter as someone who envies people on the other side kek. I also think that people with softer or plainer pretty faces come out more consistently in pictures whereas I come out either beautiful or harsh depending on the angle and lighting—there is literally no in between at all.

No. 2529772

>>2529767
they're all delayed for the time being so don't worry about it for another month or so

No. 2529773

>>2529315
It's such a common farmer experience it makes me wonder what I'm doing wrong if other women (and children) give me the stink eye/look terrified and run away kek. I don't even have intimidating features, beyond gollum eyes maybe

No. 2529774

>>2529767
Could be wrong, but I’m pretty sure the tariffs only apply to things coming into America, not things leaving. BUT your country might have retaliatory tariffs, which you should check for (I can’t, since I don’t know where you are). Either way it probably won’t matter if he’s buying it online and shipping it to your house, since it’s probably coming from China/Japan anyway

No. 2529776

>>2529765
Perhaps it’s a difference in male treatment vs female treatment? I get most of my pretty privilege from women, funnily enough.
>>2529768
Ah, I actually used to suffer from this. I’m quite unplain, it actually made me look quite strange when I was a teen growing into my features. The camera was like some odd transforming device that turned me into some monster, it was quite embarrassing. Was really bad for my self esteem. Anyway I don’t get the girl-next-door privilege unfortunately, I’m more of an elfy neotenous and I have to watch my expressions to not give crazy eyes.

No. 2529785

>>2529767
I really like her shirt
>DANGER
>WOMAN

No. 2529859

>>2529851
Rep stupid question:
Is stankism (pheromone discrimination) a thing?

No. 2529886

>>2529767
do you send nudes or what

No. 2529934

Why are people fearful of clowns? I actually like the makeup.

No. 2529961

>>2529127
idk im vain and a nerd and being really pretty would make me feel better about being a nerd. i dont want to fit into a stereotype. at the end of the day i want to be able to wear cringe anime tshirts and get away with it because im pretty. ill sometimes get compliments from strangers but only when im wearing makeup, which is probably a tell that im an average becky ass bitch. about a month ago two preteen girls came up to me in the arcade being all giggly and were like “you’re really pretty” and then ran off. thats never happened to me before, stuff like that is so rare it makes my day when it happens. i imagine you lolcor stacies get this at least once a week

No. 2529973

>>2529961
On one hand I get that, on the other hand I promise you can wear anime tshirts without being pretty and still 'get away with it'. The fashion police wont come get you, people wont hurl abuse at you, they just don't care that much. Most of us are just living our own lives and not thinking about randoms on the street, you can do whatever you want. I used to be more insecure about how I looked in public but as I lessened the effort I put in over time (like not wearing makeup), nothing changed and I just got used to it.

No. 2530013

If you are lying in bed and your pet is lying behind you very close to where your ass is, do you fart or not?

No. 2530020

>>2530013
Yes. The boy must learn.

No. 2530024

>>2530013
Your dog wouldn’t care and would fart in your face

No. 2530039

>>2530013
Yes it's payback time.

No. 2530050

Is it possible to become a youtuber without having other social media?

No. 2530051

>>2524650
You’re being crazy go work out or something

No. 2530054

>>2524650
Based yumestacy. If you like [banned subjec] you should try LADS, the guys have similar aesthetics and they have study timers to help you study alongside them, its cute.

No. 2530093

>>2529934
Because of Pennywise or that one Sarah Jane Adventures episode

No. 2530100

>>2529934
I'm not scared of clowns either, but:
>Uncanny valley, they're smiling but they also AREN'T smiling
>Juxtaposition of cheerful innocent thing and scary monster
>Scary urban legends about circuses
>Kids picking up on other people's fears
>Pop culture (apparently clowns weren't a widespread fear until IT got published)
>>2530093
>That one Sarah Jane Adventures episode
In hindsight that show went so hard to say it was aimed at kids kek

No. 2530119

I dream at least once a week to get in lingerie/nude and take pics of myself, like it's an extreme act of narcissism. I do not have a high libido by myself but when I dream about this, my mind is all the day on feeling good in my body but also weirded out because I never did those things (not out of shame or something, I simply don't do that because that's not my thing), I'm not worried but I can't explain this, any nonna that idk, knows about dream stuff? My dreams are never about seducing other people, but finding myself hot as fuck despite thinking that I'm mid at most when I'm awake, not really ugly but not the prettiest and yet I find some kind of self esteem boost for myself as I'm my own muse kek. Maybe I should take those pics for myself.

No. 2530236

Amazon changed my package to "undeliverable" and didn't give me my money back (it's been a month). There is no option on the website to ask for a refund, you an only get it by sending the items back by including a shipping label which I obviously can't get for items they never gave me. What the fuck do I do??? They straight up stole my money

No. 2530238

>>2530236
I think you have to contact the seller directly

No. 2530263

>>2529934
John Wayne Gacy for me. As a kid, a friend's brother told me about this piece of shit serial killer and child rapist and I hated clowns since. Pennywise also amplified it.

No. 2530282

Should I introduce my bf to Zoolander?

No. 2530283

Would it be shallow to not match with a moid on hinge because he couldn't get my name right on his comment?

No. 2530291

>>2530283
That's a good reason to me. If you wanted to match with him that badly you wouldn't even be asking this kek so don't

No. 2530292

>>2530283
Definitely not. Knowing your name is the absolute bare minimum and he failed even that. Into the trash.

No. 2530303

>>2524650
go read a book or exercise or learn to knit or something. this is not healthy

No. 2530344

I'm moving out soon and don't have much experience with cooking for myself. How many pans and what kinds should I take with me? (My family has some extra stuff lying around but I'm gonna have to claim it before someone else does)

No. 2530373

>>2530344
- Nonstick skillet
- Metal baking sheet
- Pot
- Plastic spatula
- Metal tongs
- Big wooden or metal spoon
- Chef knife
- Cutting board (wood is more sanitary)
- Measuring cup/spoons

With these tools you can cook anything. I'd also recommend investing in a rice cooker when you can.

No. 2530388

>>2530344
Silicone spatula, metal baking sheet, metal spoon, two pots (one big and one small), one larger frying pan and one smaller frying pan, one strainer, one crockpot, and one knife set.
You can technically take more and other more specialized ones, but I find you can basically do everything with those and more just discourages you from doing dishes.
Avoid non-stick pots and pans, they cause slow growing cancers. Get cast iron (if you're good at completing tasks because it will need cleaned and dried after each use), or stainless steel if you're average.

No. 2530474

Why does even family treat you better when you’re attractive? How does that make sense?

No. 2530589

>>2530013
Thanks for the advice, I will continue farting on the cat and the dog guilt free. They don’t seem to mind but it seems disrespectful and demeaning. I wouldn’t do it to a person so why them? But of course, they do it to me.

No. 2530593

>>2530589
Girl they literally lick their assholes and smell caca on the road. I doubt they care.

No. 2530611

>>2530474
We’re all just stupid monkeys

No. 2530618

I’m sorry if this sounds dumb but is it rape if you forcefully get tied up as a “joke” and get things done to you even if you kinda ended up liking it? I don’t know how to feel or if I’m being dramatic because we do a lot of really retarded pranks and sort of unacceptable things as a joke (like hitting each other) I don’t know if it’s like. On me? Or if this is a stupid reaction and if was just sex?

No. 2530627

>>2530618
There's no good place to ask this question online because no one here is normal or sane. But yes, getting tied up and then having sexual stuff done to you is rape.
Are you uncomfortable that it happened, or that you liked it and you feel guilty?

No. 2530634

>>2530627
a bit of both i think

No. 2530641

Should I be concerned about missing my period for 2 months? I feel otherwise fine and healthy, and I’ve never had sex before.
Dont know if I should just accept this blessing or be concerned

No. 2530643

i have a cold chicken wrap i want to save for later but there's no space in the fridge. if i just leave it sitting out for a few hours and eat it later, will i get sick? since it's intentionally prepared cold i don't think it's supposed to be reheated

No. 2530649

>>2530643
Bacteria doubles in number about every 20 minutes when food is left at room temperature. You should be fine if it's really only a couple hours, but why can't you just make room in the fridge? It can't be that packed.

No. 2530653

>>2530634
Did you talk to him about it yet? This is a weird boundary for him to cross, most men don't rape their girlfriends. He showing any other red flags?
>>2530641
Do you live somewhere healthcare is affordable? If yes, go get blood work done. If no, any other symptoms at all? Like fatigue, heavy bleeding when you get your period normally, a history of thyroid issues? If you're actually healthy, stress can make you skip it. But if it goes on for another month, go see a doctor.
>>2530643
You should be fine. If it didn't come from a contaminated area, your immune system will fight it off. But if you have a weak immune system or a patsy stomach, don't eat it.

No. 2530655

>>2530641
it's normally a sign of something else, or if you're underweight. Have you experienced any other new changes?

No. 2530660

>>2530641
Stress or dropping weight fast/dieting could cause it.

No. 2530672

is there any way to purge the bacteria that causes cavities from my mouth? i'm seriously so fucking sick of this shit

>>2530618
did you make it clear you didn't want this to happen? if yes and they kept going despite your lack of consent then it is rape. was it a moid?

No. 2530697

>>2530672
i didn’t really make it clear, that’s the thing. i didn’t tell them to stop or anything, i just asked why or i think i said they shouldn’t be doing that at some point. and no, it wasn’t a moid, which is part of it. i think if it were and i were penetrated with a penis i would have started screaming and crying and it would have been pretty obvious, plus i’d never forgive him, i guess because of the additional layer of misogyny that comes from men brutalising or being entitled to women

No. 2530718

>>2530618
>>2530697
I would consider it sexual assault/rape. You said you do stupid pranks but probably didn't expect it to escalate to this. You didn't consent. It's also really common for women to be unable to properly say "no" or "stop" because of confusion, pressure, etc, that doesn't mean they consent. "Eventually enjoying" it and feeling guilty afterwards is also unfortunately not unheard of either. You were still violated even if you eventually "felt good". I'm sorry nona.

No. 2530728

Do ugly people find other ugly people attractive?

No. 2530729

>>2530618
>retarded pranks
>tying up someone despite them saying no
>sexually assaulting them
What kind of pranks are these…

No. 2530734

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Why would PETA kill so many animals? Is this a sensationalization/lie?

No. 2530737

>>2530734
Mishandling and a lack of professional training will result in animals dying. Peta is absolute shit at protecting animals

No. 2530740

What are the obvious tells that a writer's work has been influenced by fanfiction? I'm not talking about tropes per se but actual writing style.

No. 2530770

>>2530740
I don't read much so take this with a grain of salt, but imo boring bland choices of words, sentences that aren't really that descriptive, info dumping, dialog that sounds unnatural or like it's copying a TV show one liners with jokes, the classic avoiding writing x said or y said and going for "the glasses wearing one said/the white man said/the brunette said/the shorter one said etc.", or going for "they groaned/hissed/cried etc." when it literally makes no sense and doesn't really add to the dialog. Maybe bad grammar, or cliché sentences used over and over again throughout the book and so on.

No. 2530773

>>2530740
Using retarded metaphors for body parts constantly like "blue orbs", "his member" etc. Writing stuff "the brunette/blonde/bluette/pinkette/noirette said/did ___" or "the Norwegian/the young firefighter/the Portlandier/whichever other occupation/nationality said/did the blankety blank" in a context where the character's name is known and their occupation, location, or appearance isn't relevant to whatever's happening. So like "the emerald eyed Californian picked up his shoes and blahblah" when him being green eyed or Californian has nothing to do with him picking up his shoes kek

No. 2530776

>>2530740
Overly quippy, quirky, or "LOL awkward!" dialogue is a dead giveaway.

No. 2530778

>>2530740
If the male love interest is said to "growl" at any point.

No. 2530791

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What's the name of this hairstyle?

No. 2530794

>>2530770
>>2530773
>"blue orbs", "his member" etc. Writing stuff "the brunette/blonde/bluette/pinkette/noirette said/did ___" or "the Norwegian/the young firefighter/the Portlandier/whichever other occupation/nationality said/did the blankety blank"
>the classic avoiding writing x said or y said and going for "the glasses wearing one said/the white man said/the brunette said/the shorter one said etc.", or going for "they groaned/hissed/cried etc."
It's funny, I was recommended to do this by my teachers in middle and then high school for assignments and the worst the writing was the better the grade. It gave me horrible writing habits, made homework very stressful at the time and stopped me from writing fanfics back then. On top of that these teachers also made reading feel like a chore for years. If kids had the audacity of writing "said" more than once in a 4 pages long assignment these teachers would automatically remove points in our grades and write in red ink on the copies that we need to use as many different synonymous as possible even though the novels we studied weren't written like that at all, it made me wonder if the fanfiction writers who write like this had similar teachers.

No. 2530807

>>2530794
Goodness, yes. The obsession with synonyms in school was so annoying. No wonder kids have no interest in reading or writing, it's taught like a "one size fits all" math formula instead of a creative exercise. This is going to sound like such an obnoxious humblebrag, but I distinctly remember one of my English teachers telling me to "not be TOO creative" and "maybe read less books" because it was making me learn bad habits like…not using enough adverbs in each paragraph, kek. I don't think I was writing flowery prose either, and even if I was, the teacher should have told me straight instead of shrugging me off like "idk do better." So I understand where bad fanfic writing habits might come from.

No. 2530815

>>2530791
Femboy bottom

No. 2530851

>>2530791
Flapper girl curls (since the character is based off a flapper girl)

No. 2530853

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>>2530791
Second anon is right, it's a looser and more modern version of a 20's flapper girl cut. Picrel is the queen Clara Bow.

No. 2530860

>>2530853
The way women just do everything better

No. 2531010

>>2530791
curly bob

No. 2531027

>>2530728
No. But they either live alone or realize that since they're ugly, that marrying ugly is the best they can do.

No. 2531050

why do some people find the word "chick" offensive when referring to women?

No. 2531082

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My slippers stink. Do I just put them in the washer?

No. 2531083


No. 2531107

>>2531082
Here's another question, won't that make the washer dirty for the next thing that goes in there?

No. 2531111

>>2531107
Run your washer's cleaning cycle with a little soap

No. 2531114

>>2531107
no…? That's what washers are for, anon

No. 2531122

>>2530791
Brown wig

No. 2531133

>>2531107
Yes that's why I get a brand new washer every time I clean something dirty

No. 2531160

I was looking at the airbnbs for a road trip to the Pacific North West (probably gonna hit up forks in washington) and why tf are there literal tents for rent for 200$? Amerifags is this normal?

No. 2531174

What do people mean by “androgynous body type”? What counts?

No. 2531179

>>2531174
Malnourishment

No. 2531188

Do choker necklaces actually have sexual connotations? I’ve been wearing them since I was a teenager… I’ve always liked them because my neck is very slender so it looks good and always enhances my outfit. I like the thin leather ones, pendant chokers, or the wrap chokers most. I read some moids on reddit saying that chokers signal that a woman will “put out” or is good at sucking dick or likes being choked or bdsm etc etc. This really shocked me because I thought it was a fashion thing? Do most people think this?

No. 2531193

>>2531188
I also really like wearing chokers and from my experience, women will just see it as a pretty necklace (unless you're wearing a literal dog collar or something ofc) while scrotes either don't care or sexualise it. But scrotes are retarded and sexualise everything under the sun, so don't let their opinions get you done too much.

No. 2531194

>>2531188
I'm pretty sure only porn addict moids think this. Personally I just get twee millenial from them.

No. 2531200

>>2531188
Men are unable to just say a fashion piece is cute, so they get irritably horny and declare women who wear ___ to be whores. It happens most often to articles of clothing worn by cute girls who they could never have. At the extreme end, they masterbate themselves into a frenzy and declare themselves to BE female and wear that exact clothing, a monkey brained attempt to checkmate his own coomer rage.

No. 2531205

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>>2531188
It really depends. Especially between generations. I would say most chokers are fine, it gets a bit iffy if they are leather ones with lots of details like spikes, rings, chains, etc but I will still assume it was a fashion choice before a fetish. The only chokers I immediately feel a bit grossed out seeing is picrel with a dangling ring, only because I know those are the kind people like to use in BDSM related activities. Still, I'll assume it's a fashion choice but I wouldn't want to befriend you if I met someone wearing this. The chokers you are describing are non-sexual at least in nature, but as other anons said moids are a defunct species and their sexuality is dysfunctional. Pendant chokers are cute, I like those the most.

No. 2531207

>>2531200
One of the funny things to me is when men wear a choker as a bracelet because they associate it with coom but it doesn't fit their gorilla necks.

No. 2531262

How much should I care about my “digital footprint”

No. 2531266

>>2531188
Ive heard guys say this too but they were all coomer terminally online weirdos, i like them too and i just keep wearing them. unless its obviously bdsm-esque like this >>2531205 nobody is thinking youre a slut or whatever

No. 2531287

>>2531188
Fashion chokers? I don't view them as sexual but I can't speak for porn brains.

No. 2531300

File: 1747802915148.jpg (1.57 MB, 2560x1732, Olympia.jpg)

>>2531188
as a matter of historical fashion, you can link them to pretty much anything, from prostitutes to literal queens, so it all depends on the intent
but if you want to be specific, an actual choker needs to be fitted for your exact neck size, and what supposedly makes it so distinguished

No. 2531335

Is it likely that Venus is actually on meth, or is she just exaggerating? (checked to see what she's been up to for thr first time in a while, oof)

No. 2531382

File: 1747811803539.png (155.06 KB, 1158x400, egg.png)

Were Germans trolling with this name? Do they also see it as absurd?

No. 2531405

>>2531382
I would call this thing 'eier guillotine' or 'Eierköpfer'. 'Eierschalensollbruchstellenverursacher' is probably just marketing.

No. 2531410

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Does anyone else get shocked at how white America used to recently when you rewatch old movies?

I rewatched Jumanji recently and at the party scene and a few other moments throughout I just thought to myself "wow, things have changed so much". It's increasingly just standing out when I watch these films.

It's getting more and more common having this feeling, and I'm getting it from movies that aren't even that old.

No. 2531435

>>2531382
>eggshell breaking point causer
God I fucking love germans

No. 2531443

I want to become an abstract artist, and where is the best place to start? I know, youtube and the internet all exist, but I get so overwhelmed with the sheer AMOUNT of content out there that I just never have any idea where to start and I just become lazy and put the ideas away entirely. I have no real experience with art, I did take classes as a kid and I dabbled in some crafts in high school, but now I'm in my late 20s and I just want to start making abstract art. Art anons plz advise

No. 2531456

>>2531382
It doesn’t sound THAT absurd because it’s more the industrial sort of product name I guess. You just call it the egg breaker or some shit at home.

No. 2531458

>>2530054
it doesn't work on my phone sadly

No. 2531459

>>2530051
i do work out once a week, watching sexy toned husbandos dancing motivates me to cultivate my own body

No. 2531469

>>2531443
What are you even trying to ask? Buy supplies and start. If you want to paint you'll have to get thick paper or canvas (pre-stretched will be fine for a beginner) and whatever paints you want/can afford plus brushes you want to use. Acrylic paints are opaque and you can get them for pretty low prices. You probably don't want the hassle of oil paints as a beginner. Watercolors can be cheap too but they aren't very opaque, you can't paint over mistakes as easily. Gouache (like those himi paints tiktokers like) is a nice middle ground but it depends on what you want to do. If you want to do digital art you can literally start on your phone using your fingers/laptop using your mouse or you can get a graphic tablet (screenless is more affordable). There are many free programs and tons of free brushes/textures you could use.

No. 2531477

>>2531469
I have all the supplies, I know some of the apps. I just struggle to know how to develop a technique, or what the best way is to learn how to draw effectively. Again, there is a plethora of information out there, i'm just seeking advice on where to start to learn all this so I can actually put my supplies to good use.

No. 2531508

>>2531477
But it's abstract art? You can just start painting? I don't get the hangup. It's not like you absolutely need to study fundies for abstraction. You can look up the processes of artists you like, maybe that'll make it easier to start? If you don't know how to use your digital programs you can just search for youtube guides and pick the shortest one

No. 2531516

File: 1747829471978.jpg (45.73 KB, 360x407, default.jpg)

>>2531477
There are multiple books on the internet archive if you want to learn more about technique. Just look up "abstract art guide" or something and pick one with a cover that speaks to you.

No. 2531529

File: 1747832608841.png (451.97 KB, 369x512, 1000055193.png)

Is it fucked up if I'm attracted to dudes who look like my dad? He walked out on us when I was 5 and I haven't seen him in 14 years. For context I was basically taught by my mom and grandma that I should get with a guy who looked exactly like him so that I could have blonde blue-eyed children.

No. 2531532

>>2531529
Are you sure you want that? I love my nieces and think they're beautiful but they both look like kurt cobain

No. 2531535

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>>2530649
>>2530653
so i did find space in the fridge eventually but now i have a follow up question: should i still reheat it anyway even if it's meant to be eaten cold, or not? it's one of these things for context, they serve it cold by default and i had no issues eating the first half. i guess they cook the chicken already then freeze it? or does it work like cold deli meat?

if any other nonas had one before as leftovers how did you prepare the rest? sorry i'm extra paranoid but these things taste so good when cold kek

No. 2531537

>>2531535
what do you think is gonna happen when you reheat it kek? it's just chicken. eat it how you like, nonna. you are made up of hundreds of thousands of women who came before you and also ate suspicious food, and survived

No. 2531543

>>2531535
You can eat it cold or warm. Room temp for hours is the only potentially dangerous temperature. Emphasis on potentially because people eat out of trash cans every day and they’re fine, and all the ingredients in that wrap are packed with way more preservatives than regular food. I don’t believe in most expiration dates and eat everything based on smell and have had no incidents.

No. 2531720

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I contacted a nonnie to play ff14 raid tiers a few months ago and then had to stop because I became extremely depressed and stopped talking to people for like 6 months. She was really nice though so I kind of want to reconnect but I don't know how.

No. 2531722

File: 1747848932191.gif (2.17 MB, 400x225, IMG_6732.gif)

Guys if I ate a whole box of Hostess cupcakes (there's a coupon for them right now) and then threw it all up immediately after, would it keep all the sugar and carbs and shit from going into my system? No I don't have an eating disorder I'm just on my period and desperately want Hostess cupcakes like a wild animal but also don't want the acne and brain fog that comes with a fuck ton of sugar.

No. 2531726

>>2531720
Just message her. “Hi nonny, I’m sorry I went MIA for six months unexpectedly, I was dealing with some shit and was unable to play like we use to. I had a lot of fun playing with you though and now that I’m in a better spot I would love to play together again. Are you free at all this week/tonight/X time period?”

No. 2531734

>>2531722
>I don’t have an eating disorder
>can’t control herself and has to eat an entire box instead of one or two cupcakes

No. 2531757

>>2531726
thank you nons, ill use this

No. 2531758

>>2531722
Throwing up the food only gets rid of half the calories. Next time just don't buy them at all. You have an eating disorder. My method is just to not keep anything binge-worthy in the house at all.

No. 2531930

nearest corner market (bodega?) worker was really rude to me yesterday. Should I just never go there again or? it's so convenient.

No. 2531970

Why are dreams usually so much more creative and interesting than whatever you could conjure up while conscious?

No. 2531989

File: 1747864095037.jpeg (138.47 KB, 964x362, IMG_8946.jpeg)

What happens if you do this?

No. 2531998

Where the fuck can i find an FL Studio torrent?

No. 2532005

>>2531998
That’s not a stupid question. We need a useful questions thread.

No. 2532011

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I have a question, what exactly is sensuality? I've realized that I've always thought of sensuality as being closely tied to sexuality, but it seems like that might not necessarily be the case. Every time I look for videos or content to get a better sense of what sensuality is or what it looks like, all I find are women behaving in ways that feel really cringey or overly performative. So, what does sensuality mean to you? What does it look like? I refuse to accept that people enjoy to act in such a cringey way to the point where they want to learn it.

No. 2532014

(Sorry for no comma’s and for hard to read sentences I typed this in a hury)
I made a horrible mistake. I had this weird episode where I was telling a woman at the gym to fuck off basically. Well I told her to not give unsolicited advice unless I specifically asked for it. And a lot of other things. However, I feel so guilty. Yeah she was arrogant throughout the conversation which is why I was arrogant back but I feel so petty to stoop at her level. And maybe she is just autistic and didn’t realize how her tone sounded so condescending. However I feel guilty. Or maybe I’m just learning to develop a personality and I’m learning to stand up for myself.
Jeez what do you think? Be honest, screw the mods, just be honest

No. 2532016

>>2532011
Ngl nonna but sensuality to me means masturbating or buying lingerie. Or eating chocolate. Or going to a spa. Or maybe look at Marilyn Monroe, she was a walking sensuality and I don’t mean it in a sexual way.

No. 2532019

File: 1747866118180.jpeg (161.25 KB, 850x1087, IMG_8881.jpeg)

This drawing's very androgynous, but I can still tell it's male. So what exactly is it that makes this a guy and not a girl? Is it just the haircut? Or something with his eyes? I don't know.

No. 2532020

>>2532019
It looks like an 8 year old girl
The entire thing

No. 2532023

>>2532019
Looks female to me.

No. 2532027

>>2532011
feeling your body, yourself within your body, enjoying how things make you feel. something that smells good, tastes good, sounds good, excites you.

No. 2532032

>>2532019
This looks like a pedobait character

No. 2532033

>>2532027
>Relating to or involving gratification of the senses, especially sexual gratification: synonym: sensuous.
I like the technical definition vs what you just said bc it's open to interpretation and I don't have to imagine a sleepy troon slowly caressing silky fabric to lana del rey

No. 2532034

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>>2532019
Omg Tori Himemiya spotted.

Genuinely though it may be because you are already familiar with the media he's from or familiar with how the artist herself draws male and female characters.

No. 2532035

>>2532019
>androgynous
calling anime androgynous is like calling a stickman androgynous, they're both simplistic representations of the human form. it might be associations with the haircut or clothing to masculinity or other male characters. could also be the (still small) nose, a lot of female anime characters don't have noses whereas male counterparts do.

No. 2532038

>>2532033
You don't have to imagine trannies at all? Where did that even come from? The fuck.

No. 2532039

>>2531188
it depends on the style but mostly they're just seen as sexier than a loose necklace because they highlight your neck (sensual area). some are reminiscent of collars which brings up fetish connotations

>>2531382
not trolling but also not a commonly used term, mostly used for fun. we use more practical terms for these, but they're not in many households because usually we just use the edge of a spoon to crack the shell. it's more like a joke gift or something fancy places use for show.

>>2532033
you have issues if that made you think of trannies

No. 2532042

>>2532038
>Where did that even come from? The fuck.
Well for me it started in vidrel and carried on via every troon I ever met. They (males) have a weird preoccupation with the word "sensual" and "sensuality" in a way I've never seen or experienced with actual women who aren't rediscovering their inner goddess after 50

No. 2532044

>>2532042
samefag troons really don't want anyone seeing that original video

No. 2532052

>>2532014
Can anyone tell me if i were being socially retarded

No. 2532055

>>2532052
We don't even know what happened.

No. 2532068

>>2532055
I told a woman at the gym, snappily, that she shouldn’t give me unsolicited advice.


And now I really really really really regret it because I feel like an asshole, she was probably just trying to socialize or help in her own way

No. 2532077

>>2532068
Nta but I don't think it was retarded at all you just enforced your personal boundaries which is good

No. 2532085

>>2532082
Nta you seem to have issues.

No. 2532089

>>2532087
Okay.

No. 2532091

>>2532011
You should read the last chapter of Ulysses by James Joyce, and then you'll understand

No. 2532096

>>2532091
Any excerpt I read from Ulysses so far seemed like some kinda shitpost

No. 2532098

>>2532097
No.

No. 2532249

How do you fall in love with someone? I went on two dates this week, two last week. They were all nice and interesting guys. Nice looking, funny, had interesting life experiences. I liked all of them and they liked me back, want to go out with me again, but I didn't feel attracted to them to them at all. It's been like this my whole life. I'm a 25 yeah old virgin. How do I fall in love? Or at least like a man enough to want to have sex with him? I know I'm heterosexual so it's not that.

No. 2532253

>>2532249
Chemistry + time = love. I've only had sex with people I had an immediate spark with. There's many people I've met throughout my life who were objectively attractive and I got along with them… but my body just didn't react. It's normal. I was really desperate to lose my virginity at your age and rushed into awful situations, so just take your time tbh.

No. 2532280

>>2532096
You have to read Dubliners and Portrait first

No. 2532284

>>2532249
I've only ever fallen in love once, so it's totally possible for you to have never fallen in love even once. Actual lovable moids are one in ten thousand, so if you've gone 25 years without love, it's reasonable. You can't make yourself fall in love. If you think you can, what happens is you sort of play-act a character of being in love, which might last some years, but then it all falls apart.

No. 2532303

>>2532249
Falling in love is not going to happen over two dates, unless it's the BPDemon type of toxic infatuation that should be avoided at all costs. True love takes time to form. Liking a man enough to have sex with him doesn't necessarily mean you have to be in love with them though, but attraction definitely needs a spark to form. If you're not feeling the chemistry, don't have sex with them. However in my experience there are some cases where the spark can develop slower too, so if you like the moid and find them attractive maybe give them one more chance to win you over? Don't force it though if you're not feeling it.
In a nutshell: give it time.

No. 2532333

So I'm pretty much done with real life dating as it's a horror show out there and I'm determined to remain a husbandofag who never touches a dick irl ever.
However 2D isn't enough for me so I still enjoy having parasocial relationships with a couple of famous men and 1-2 moid streamers. One of them will be doing a meet and greet at a nearby con soon and I really want to see him irl. I'm not really sure why, as I don't want him to even see me nor do I want anything from him. I guess I just want to see what he looks like and how the aura is irl.
Is it a bad idea to meet your husbandos irl? Should they remain as fantasy figures in your head only?

No. 2532359

>>2532333
>want to see what he looks like
He's going to be ugly as fuck and you know it. Didn't you learn anything from Dream's face reveal? Don't do it.

No. 2532365

>>2532333
I can't put the reason why into words but I kind of feel like you're doomed either way.

No. 2532367

>>2532333
Date the troons no one want them

No. 2532380

Whenever I wash dishes the skin on my face gets weird. My pores open up and when I wash ma face after I finnsh the dishes because I want to relax myself, it worsens my acne. Every fucking time and it's only when I wash dishes. WTf? does that happen to anyone else?? So I sit here with a weird feeling on my face resisting to wash it.

No. 2532382

>>2532380
Do you wash the dishes with hot water?

No. 2532385


No. 2532393

>>2532385
That might be the culprit

No. 2532394

>>2532380
clean your hands thoroughly after. you might be rubbing some bacteria from the dishes on your face. alternatively, use rubber gloves while doing dishes. no such thing as "pores opening", that's a myth.

No. 2532417

How is 'retard' a slur and people go insane when you say it but everyone casually says shit like 'bitch' and 'cunt' and no one cares. The words are so misogynistic and even have a vile, disgusting sound to them. Those have been the last words some women heard said to them as they were killed by some moid. Meanwhile 'retard' is like 'stupid' or 'dumb' or 'insane' or 'lame'. 'Retard' is unironically one of my favourite words…

No. 2532448

why are electric toothbrushes better? I feel like vibrating your mouth constantly is unhealthy?

No. 2532460

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How does ATLA go over in Asia? Is it well-liked or does the free cultural cross-mixing and amalgamation come off as an abomination?

No. 2532462

>>2532448
I’m a notorious ignorer of floss and an electric toothbrush saves me. Gone are the days of lectures from the dentist, he says my teeth and gums are great every time now.

No. 2532465

>>2532068
Screwing up is how you learn! Hang on to the lesson but not the guilt.

No. 2532553

>>2532460
AFAIK in East Asian it's not received well
vidrel may explain it.

No. 2532558

File: 1747921080902.jpeg (592.1 KB, 1179x1215, IMG_9047.jpeg)

>>2532460
Looks like it was never even known

No. 2532655

Will swimming help me straighten my hunchback?

No. 2532665

>>2532655
Depends on why your back is hunched, if it's due to poor posture then yes. Swimming is great for strengthening your core which in turn helps you stand up straight. Swimming is awesome in general, you should do it.

No. 2532673

>>2532665
I have scoliosis but i am sure playing videogames and shitposting on lolcow doesnt help with my posture

No. 2532681

Does the fact that men are generally low effort have anything to do with me or is it just them? I’m on dating apps and it seems like the guys would be eager to schedule followup dates & see me but they weren’t that thoughtful or trying that hard to impress me except for bragging about their jobs or whatever. By thoughtful I mean like being courteous and remembering things about me. Basically showing that they’re making an effort and not just peacocking for their ego. I can’t help but feel like they would do these things for the Instagram model of their dreams and that I may just be plain in comparison (aka they might not like me very much).
This experience has me realizing now that my ex who put in tons of effort and was super thoughtful with random acts of service and little gifts throughout our relationship may have been a rarity. So much so that it’s kinda making me want to reconnect with him and just call it a day.

No. 2532695

>>2532681
It's just them. Men will ignore cheat and lie to literal supermodels.

No. 2532751

Are asians lighter than us westerners? If an asian girl with my height and weight stood next to me, would our bodies look different?

No. 2532831

what does “I’m literally just a girl” even mean

No. 2532833

>>2531998
I found an awesome one on reddit but I couldn’t redirect you to it kek sorry. Other nonnie is right we need a useful questions thread

No. 2532839

File: 1747934391369.jpeg (11.88 KB, 225x225, IMG_2590.jpeg)

Would it be very rude if I told my friend to chew with her mouth closed and not to smack her lips while she has food in her mouth? I have been silently enduring for years , but every time she does that it just feels me with rage and visceral disgust, especially when she is eating a banana or smacking pasta with sauce, I am afraid I’ll just yell at her one of these days.

No. 2532842

>>2532831
It’s the same as the “I am bimbo” bullshit. Women infantilizing themselves for distasteful jokes.
>I have not filed taxes but I am just a girl
>I am unemployed but I am just a girl
>I am failing all my classes because I’m not going but I am just a girl
It’s the same as “doing it for the plot”. Retarded slogans for retarded women.!

No. 2532864

>>2532839
I would appreciate it if I were the friend. So long as you’re not mean / lighthearted about it because it might make me a little insecure

No. 2532876

>>2532751
Uhh, maybe? We start to look more similar at lower weights because skeleton, but different ethnicities have different torso/leg ratios and fat distributions. At average or higher weights a white woman is probably going to carry her body fat differently than a Japanese woman or a Samoan woman or a Ghanian woman. East Asian women also seem inherently tiny due to height and very extreme body image culture.

No. 2532945

>>2532864
But I mean there is no way to say this without seeming rude…
>hey X I think you should tone down the chewing
Rude
>could you please not smack your lips
Rude
>I am sensitive to mouth noises so could you tone it down please , it’s really not your fault
Okish..but still rude

No. 2532954

>>2532945
Just be nice-ish? I’d just be like hey I’m not trying to be mean but sometimes this bothers me a little, I’m genuinely sorry to bring it up and I recognise that it might be my problem. Rudeness is in the intention, you are not trying to offend just trying to make the time you’re with each other more pleasant especially since she’s a long-time friend.

No. 2533063

What does it mean if other women treat me really nicely despite not knowing me (sometimes women working in places will say "hi gorgeous" or smile at me a certain way or often compliment my outfit/makeup) while men seem like they wish I weren't speaking to them and act as if I'm nonexistent

No. 2533080

>>2533063
i want to guess the men are intimidated by you and are sour graping because you’re out of their league.

No. 2533127

>>2533063
A lot of men act cold and aloof when they’re genuine attracted to someone. They think enthusiasm for beautiful women is gay. Most retarded species on earth.

No. 2533212

>>2531989
i think nona just wants to delete someone else's post

No. 2533218

>>2533063
I get this kind of thing too, it's weird.

No. 2533227

File: 1747952038642.jpg (3.48 MB, 3840x2160, 20250523_011319.jpg)

Any Spanish speakers here? Where can I find the 2 shows in picrel with either English subs or a dub?

No. 2533247

>>2533063
You might have a look that appeals to women but doesnt appeal to men. Quite a few women in HS had girlcrushes on me, but I was invisible to the moids, apparently my features or personality are just more appealing to women than men.

No. 2533258

Ive never watched Mr.Beast so maybe I'm missing something, but hows him having people compete for money any different than what game shows have been doing since television was invented? Like if he's evil for it or whatever why do people not have a problem with game shows also then?

No. 2533260

>>2533258
My main issue with Mr. Beast is his fucking insufferable editing. I have no idea how anyone above the age of 13 can watch his content.

No. 2533261

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>>2533227
i thought the second one was lost media?

No. 2533280

>>2533261
Oh shit. The Arabic dub episodes exist on YouTube but knowing the channel/studio that did the dub, they probably changed so many plotlines and dialogs. I wanted to see and hear the original and enjoy the original Spanish songs as they are. Chiquititas is on YouTube fully in Spanish but no subs or dub available. Idk Spanish unfortunately and don't want to watch the Arabic dub either because again, they probably changed too much of it and it won't be the real story.

No. 2533287

>>2533063
I am always called “Bella”. Feels good , not going to lie.

No. 2533325

How to get over imposter syndrome from severe ugly-duckling-ing? I went from an ugly chubby kid to “stunning” (I don’t know how else to put it) it’s like people expect me to have a confidence I just do not. I still feel shame from back then. I also still feel “ugly”
I know this sounds so unrelatable but I’ve been given push to try and make it in the entertainment industry which doesn’t sound like a terrible option but I’d 100% get OCD over the possibility of people digging up photos from when I was younger.
Feel like this will just plague me for my whole life. I don’t get how other people get over it

No. 2533327

White nonas, what does your hair care routine look like in the night/morning? Do you brush it every day? How often do you wash it? Do you do deep conditions or scalp treatments? Do you blow dry it after or let it air dry? Do you sleep with any sort of hair protection at night? Does it get stuck in car doors when it’s really long????

No. 2533333

>>2533325
It took me years to realize I’m hot. Building up your confidence is a really slow process. I recommend focusing on taking care of your body, whether that’s exercise, eating, getting massages, your nails done, whatever. You have to get in touch with the flesh in order to heal the dissociation you’ve used to cope with people’s cruelty. Other than that it’s just time and a dogged insistence on self-love.

No. 2533334

>>2533327
Kek I also was very curious about this before I started living with my current girlfriend. I just kind of assumed that unless they had curly hair they just woke up at brushed it, oh and washed it everyday because they’re always mentioning greasiness.

No. 2533343

>>2533327
I have a lot of thin hair. I'm very white. I also just found out I have slightly hard water i thought I had soft so I'm going to get a new conditioner to match my aveeno one. I wash my hair about every 3 days. I use leave in conditioner any time I want to style or brush my hair. I use heat protectant when styling my hair. When I'm home and for bed I have my hair in a protective style. Usually some type of braids. I use dry shampoo in between washes too.

No. 2533345

>>2533343
Oh I've also been spraying hairspray on to my palms and running it through my hair after I style it to give it uv and pollution protection. I am a big advocate for hair care reels.

No. 2533351

>>2533327
i really hate the feeling of having a dirty scalp so i usually do an anti fungal shampoo first, then some scalp scaling treatment with a soft bristle brush, shampoo again, and then finally do a rinse with a herbal tonic like rosemary. i only condition the ends of my hair because i hate buildup. i use a very deep conditioning treatment on the ends because i hate having dry ends. i wash my hair every 3 days or so. i hate feeling like my hair is dirty.

No. 2533528

>>2533327
I have thick, low porosity fine hair with no color treatments. I wash and condition it separately from my body in cold water and then put it up and switch the water to warm for the rest of my shower. I’ll alternate between a clarifying and volumizing shampoo. Afterwards I comb it with a wide tooth comb and spray in a leave in conditioner and let it air dry. I brush it once a day with a wooden brush to prevent static build up. I don’t braid it or anything when I sleep since it’s so fine that it just falls out. I wash it every other day. Sometimes I use a scalp massager with the clarifying shampoo if I actually styled it and there’s product still in it. Yes it gets stuck in car doors but that only happened when I had waist length or longer. It isn’t really a problem for most women I think kek

No. 2533613

File: 1747988226146.jpeg (38.18 KB, 589x255, yeaaah motherfucker.jpeg)

I signed up for swimming lessons at a sports club and they have a free gym for all the members. Thing is, i have never gone to a gym before. What should i do? what do you usually do at a gym?

No. 2533663

>>2533327
I have tailbone long fine hair and I do get stuck but mostly in that little metal thingy on my cross body bag. I was every 2-3 days with shampoo plus conditioner, that’s all I put. I brush it like 3+ times a day when having it open to have it look neat. Because it’s so straight I just need like 3-5 brush strokes with a tangle teezer. In the night I have two loose braids or one. I sometimes wear a silk cap but they’re annoying. Imo it’s pretty low maintenance.

No. 2533670

>>2533327
I have thick, medium-coarse hair that’s about shoulder length because I can’t handle anything longer without going nuts. I’d be bald if I didn’t have a conehead.
>Wash hair once every few days
>Shampoo, conditioner, shampoo in that order, head massage in shower
>Once a week I apply a hair mask and let it sit for 15 minutes before washing
>Detangle and dry with hair dryer
>Hair gloss and trim once a month at home
I used to air dry because I’m lazy but it looked limp and got greasy faster.

No. 2533672

>>2533613
Lift weights, or do cardio I guess but you're already swimming for that. Look up weight programs and watch instruction videos to learn out how to do it. If you're new it's probably best to start with dumbbell or machine exercises rather than barbell (since the barbell itself is quite heavy).

No. 2533720

what is considered as "millenial humor"?

No. 2533730

>>2533720
quirk chungus type of humor, quippy one liners (i.e, every joss whedon show, marvel films), self aware commentary, tons of references, basically anything you'd see on reddit

No. 2533736

File: 1748001460236.webm (11.03 MB, 576x1024, 1000018977.webm)

>>2533720
Vidrel is what I immediately think of, an extreme example but captures it quite well. Other examples would be Jenna Marbles, Liza Koshy, Thomas Sanders if you remember any of those.

No. 2533758

>>2533327
I have moderately curly, thick waist length hair. I wash it every few days based on how dirty is gets from environment/how greasy it makes its self. I only comb the roots a little to smooth them, and the length only gets brushed while wet in the shower with a huge amount of conditioner. If it's brushed dry, it breaks into thousands of split ends and also it immediately looks awful as you tear apart the curls. Everything gets shampooed, but the scalp can't be conditioned, as it makes the roots greasy and limp and it has zero volume.
I let it air dry, though I frequently flip my head and massage the scalp and fluff the roots throughout the process. I should sleep with hair protection because I would get less split ends, but I've never bought a wrap or a cap and so I rely on my silk pillow cases instead.
It gets stuck everywhere. In doors, around my wrists while slouch typing, wraps around my throat while I sleep if I'm tossing and turning, and I'll sit on it and get stuck on wooden chairs.
And making love? My god, it's such a pain in the ass. Every move has to be choreographed and still I'm always in danger of one of us rolling wrong and my scalp getting yanked and me getting trapped so that I have to yell and stop everything to free myself. I once dated a man who had hair down to his pecs, and us accidentally rolling wrong and trapping ourselves was a real danger.

No. 2533760

>>2533736
kek this is cringe as hell but honestly harmless idk why people get so butthurt about this kind of stuff

No. 2533762

>>2533613
You'll try out and use all the equipment mainly, but sometimes they'll have free classes like yoga and stuff. Most will also have saunas which have a lot of health benefits and also great for your skin, especially if you have acne.

No. 2533767

>>2533758
If it's causing all of that you should just wear it up or in a braid at that point

No. 2533786

>>2533767
I wear it down because I'm vain, and I don't cut it because it just looks so good. Little girls run up and ask for photos with "the princess", strangers ask what I do to make it so thick, and I get so many compliments on it. Still, you're right that if I braided it, it would make my life easier.

No. 2533792

>>2533790
millennials invented meme culture and invented most of the more funny memes that stood the test of time. i cant remember the last time a zoomie meme made me laugh.

No. 2533797

>>2533790
lolcow is a granny website which is why its so boring
see this boring uppity granny for example >>2533792(bait)

No. 2533834

File: 1748007236789.jpg (60.88 KB, 925x1024, ygaisubgt7e5.jpg)

Where did the myth of women having longer torsos and shorter legs proportionally than males come from

No. 2533840

File: 1748008068348.webm (1.9 MB, 360x640, 1743791229316916.webm)

>>2533834
Men are taller than women on the average.
Limbs scale with height, torso not.
Shorter people have shorter legs than taller people.
Because homo sapiens walks up right, the legs evolved to be the longest limbs.

No. 2533841

>>2533840
But do women really have longer torsos than males? Whenever I stand next to a moid, even if he's taller, my hips go above his. They seem to have longer torsos to me.

No. 2533844

>>2533841
NTA, but in my experience I generally find men have longer torsos, when compared with their own proportions. I've seen some women with proportionally long torsos, but I don't think it's the most common ime

No. 2533875

>>2533736
Idk how to explain it, but this seems unhygienic and I wouldn't eat a cake like that made by someone like that.

No. 2533878

>>2533841
Why are you calling it a "myth" or even asking about this? Some do and some don't. Use your eyes, not hard

No. 2533886

>>2533736
That’s just regular cringe, coming from a millennial. The only ones saying pupper doggo adulting whatever and making faces like that are Reddit moids and women who grew up on Tumblr. Regular millennials are maybe more preachy but otherwise they act like all other normies in every other generation save for boomers who have lead poisoning.

No. 2533887

>>2533840
>shorter people have longer legs than taller people
Some do…Some don't? Is this tranvestigation day on lc, why are anons pretending bodies are all the same?

No. 2533916

>>2533878
Geez it was just a question. I've heard people say it like it's a fact that women's torsos are longer than our legs and males' legs are longer than their torsos. This is the stupid questions thread after all.

No. 2533919

>>2533916
I genuinely wondered if it was from transvestigation bc it's sort of like asking "why do people say women have big noses, mine is small". So it just seemed like a neg to the longer torso anons. Like you should have noticed in life that some women have longer torsos than you do

No. 2533927

>>2533919
But do they really have longer torsos than males on average is what I am asking

No. 2533944

Should I go to a house party tonight? I think I need to socialize more. Also if I'm on antibiotics I shouldn't do coke or drink alcohol right? Lol

No. 2533945

>>2533944
Can't you just. Not. Do coke or drink alcohol?

No. 2533952

>>2533927
No, men’s torsos are generally longer

No. 2533962

>>2533927
You might go to work or school one day and see only moids with long torsos/short legs and women with longer legs/short torsos. Another day maybe moids with shorter torsos and longer legs, it all depends. I had two friends growing up, one had shorter legs/shorter height and the other had long legs/taller height. Their torsos were about the same and often shorter than moids. Proportionally, there are all kinds of combinations. Bodies are weird

No. 2533963

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Is Elsie a virgin in your headcanon?

No. 2533966

>>2533945
I mean I won't if I can't but if I could I would yk? I'll just be smoking weed all night ig

No. 2533968

>>2533963
Whether or not someone is a virgin is not something I ever consider in any headcanon. One of the blessings of not being cursed with a moid or current-era lc user's brain

No. 2533976

>>2533968
So you don't care if your nigel's a slut?

No. 2533983

>>2533976
Here we go

No. 2534004

Were any of you former pick mes, NLOGs, feMRAs–or any kind of male-pandering "cool girl" archetype? Why were you one and how and why did you "switch sides" (becoming a manhating farmer)?

No. 2534008

so omegaverse is just misogyny with extra steps right? if i understand it correctly? someone described it to me as “lowest ranking, can get pregnant” for omegas and “dominant, aggressive, impregnates” for alphas. ????? so it is right?… lol

No. 2534009

>>2533983
Is that a yes?

No. 2534013

>>2534004
The culture was. It's pointless to ask independent anons to admit they used to act that way when it was just "how it was". You can just read old threads or social media anywhere and see the way women who spoke against moids, in any way, would be dog-piled by literally everyone. This was before women moved in with multiple bfs/husbands and broke up with them all for the same reason (cheating/porn). Lc was no different, farmers are always shocked by the plausible deniability moids used to have and how many women bought into it

No. 2534020

Where do I find clothes that actually fit properly as someone tall and skinny - especially trousers? How the fuck do models do it?

No. 2534021

>>2533797
Anything centered around lolcows ends up attracting millenials who take everything seriously and are bitter at everyone

No. 2534030

>>2534020
I think you have the option of buying in a larger size, which to clothing companies means "taller and fatter simultaneously". You could then get the pants tailored and they'll probably look sort of weird. So either creating the pants from scratch yourself or paying a lot of money for model pants, in a high end boutique or something. These are my suggestions

No. 2534031

>>2533834
Height-matched women have longer men than men, on average. The idea this is a myth is merely based around the fact women tend to be shorter, and shorter people are just less limb, but this effect is actually stronger in males. There are plenty of exceptions, and sitting down the height-matched women might seem taller due to larger butt size. But it’s clear to see that most tall women are very leggy while leggy men are uncommon, and this effect is emphasised by men’s width and their torsos being bulkier in general. That simple really. Also, interestingly (purely anecdotal observation) women seem to have longer femurs while men seem to have longer tibias.

No. 2534037

>>2534031
>women seem to have longer femurs while men seem to have longer tibias
High heels seems to balance that doesn't it? Interesting observation anon

No. 2534038

>>2534020
i usually wear skirts or dresses but when it comes to pants i buy larger sizes and alter the waistline to fit. Takes like 10 minutes

No. 2534039

>>2534038
What about the seam, especially outer? Doesn't it crease weird? Asking for anon

No. 2534042

>>2534039
Cut equal width on both sides and sew together.

No. 2534067

are peace signs outdated… i still do them

No. 2534071

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No. 2534083

>>2533963
Kek are you headcanoning sex with her nonny?

No. 2534097

How common are pregnancy scares? I feel like every other month at least one of my friends is like "Great news everyone, got my period!" and I'm not sure if this is the average non-KHV straight experience or if my friends are particularly careless.

No. 2534100

Girls aged 5 to 7 are too young to be gifted makeup, right? I visited my sister recently and her daughter aka my niece asked me if I could take her to the store to buy makeup for her. My sister told me she's obsessed with lip balms, eye shadows and glitter, which is fine, but I suggested taking her to a toy store instead which she had no interest in. My sister also complained that one of the parents of a girl in my niece's class asked other parents not to buy their kid makeup for her upcoming birthday. I told her I saw nothing wrong with parents not allowing their daughter to wear makeup at such a young age, even for fun, and was told by my sister that this is just what girls do instead of playing with toys nowadays and that the poor girl would be left behind because her parents are overly sensitive and weird.

No. 2534103

>>2532839
Don't know if you're close enough for that, but the time one of my friends did that, I just put my hand over her mouth while she was eating and stared directly into her eyes and she got it.

No. 2534109

When it comes to stories where a big group of enemies is against one guy like Scott Pilgrim, or even Mario with the koopalings, how come they don't all attack at once? Like what are potential excuses? Sometimes "they're scattered to find the hero faster" works but sometimes not

No. 2534115

>>2533327
Brush every time I walk past abrush, wash and condition every day, air dry because I'm too lazy, no protection, never have had it happen, but longest I've had was like waist-length, so maybe it just hasn't been long enough.

No. 2534117

>>2534100
I honestly see nothing wrong with it personally, I loved makeup at that age and it didn't really negatively influence me in any way imo. For kids it kinda goes together with pretending to be a princess/fairy or it's just something fun and colourful to smear on. I think there are far more negatively stereotyped gender things that kids engage in, even at that age.

No. 2534118

>>2534100
Sounds like a recipe to have awful skin when you get older. Also encouraging girls to wear makeup from ages 5 onwards instead of playing with toys is sad. Does she have no other hobbies besides wearing makeup?

No. 2534119

>>2533325
>>2533063
is this humblebragging central or what

No. 2534120

how common is it for your appearance to drastically change from your preteen and teen years to adulthood? i don’t have any long-term acquaintances so idk but the one person i did meet did not recognise me in the slightest lol

No. 2534122

>>2534100
It's difficult because on one hand I absolutely agree, on the other hand we're living in different times compared to our own childhoods and these kids watch beauty influencers on tiktok and shit, so she's probably made to feel concious about (or at least hyper aware of) her appearance even if she doesn't get to actively participate in it by being denied makeup. If you buy her anything maybe you can stick to relatively innocent stuff like lipgloss/balm and nailpolish.

Regardless it's really sad little girls are exposed to all these stupid beauty and skin care influencers. They must be so hyper aware of their looks at such a young age, completely unneccesary.

No. 2534133

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>>2534100
depends on if it's children's makeup like pic related or grown makeup (they sell these at toy stores too if she ever changes her mind)

No. 2534135

>>2534100
I wasn’t allowed, but my friends had that tinkerbell play nail polish that washes off with water and bonbons play makeup which I think is fine.
I get that it’s different times and all, but 5 to 7 years old??? No way would I allow a child that young to wear anything but chapstick. If their parents start them off young they will have nothing to be excited about when they’re older, and it’s sad that they don’t want to play with toys. If this is the case they must already have internet access or phones and that’s double sad.

No. 2534142

>>2533325
First you need to get over yourself. Hope that helps.

No. 2534146

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>>2534135
>bonbons play makeup
Holy shit you just unlocked memories I forgot I had. I also used to love playing with the little tiny free sample lipsticks brands used to give out at Macy's and such.

No. 2534155

>>2534100
I'd say 11 is the earliest to be giving kids (of either sex) actual makeup that doesn't come from the toy aisle. Nothing expensive though, just drug store stuff. No little girl's first palette should be Mac or Urban Decay. Start small.

Edit, let me be more specific. For ages ten and under, they make "play makeup," which other anons have described. It won't irritate the eyes, stain clothes, or cause illness when swallowed. For middle school age kids, supermarket stuff like Elf or Maybelline is fine. Then, if the kid is genuinely interested in learning proper makeup application, they can be introduced to your usual Sephora brands in like 8th or 9th grade. Additionally, emphasize that makeup should be used for creativity, not to "cover" or "correct" things they dislike about themselves. When I was in middle school, some girls would show up with rainbow eye shadow and no foundation; to me, that indicates a healthier relationship with makeup as a plaything and tool for self-expression, rather than something girls feel "ugly" without.

No. 2534159

>>2534119
>>2534142
I’m sorry but I don’t understand this response. I was very insecure at the age I was ugly and it’s had a lasting effect on me. The way I was treated at school was traumatising. If you can’t understand that simply because I acknowledged that CURRENTLY my looks are above-average then, well fuck you. It’s an anonymous fucking forum, it’s not narcissistic to have eyes and I personally find it more annoying when someone tries to downplay their looks “oh I’m not that attractive I’m average haha” would you rather me be like that? Because it doesn’t explain the fucking issue does it? It’s not weird for someone to go from a very cute/pretty to ugly adult but god forbid someone testify the opposite I guess??? Obviously it’s had a lasting effect on me!!! The way peers treat you during childhood can affect you for LIFE. Even my family treated me worse than prettier people my age and only started giving me the time of day once I started looking attractive, do you know how much that affects you and your sense of self? Everyone just expects you to be normal about the very clear change in treatment? Oh but she acknowledged the fact she’s attractive now, god get over yourself you humblebragger. BRAGGING FOR WHAT? What do you think I’m expecting, dozens of replies telling me oooh I wish I was as pretty as you WHAT WOULD I FUCKING ACHIEVE? GOD I can’t stand responses like this, so in your heads you can’t understand how someone’s problems aren’t orchestrated to specifically get to you, it’s all about you isn’t it! Yeah I came to stupid questions on LOLCOW to stroke my ego OBVIOUSLY NOT YOU RETARD. I’ll take the ban for not integrating I don’t care. I literally went NEET for all of high school and didn’t receive a proper education because of it. I didn’t get bullied for this.

No. 2534164

>>2534159
they're just mad they're ugly. that's all, its not that deep

No. 2534181

>>2534159
Anon don't take it so personally. Women get annoyed bc ugly women on reddit humblebragged all the time (post history pics) and most of us were forced to use that platform for years bc there were no better alternatives. Of course ugly ducklings exist, I hate to say it but I have a friend who would probably be considered that. But also many women have no idea what to do with their looks until they're older so most of us consider ourselves "ugly ducklings" anyways. It's just not a huge problem for most people, no one really wants to peak in high school. So it comes off like you're looking for a reason to tell people how good looking you are (like a cope). I believe you but that is why it's generally annoying to anons

No. 2534214

>>2527521
Those are literally pms symptoms though

No. 2534224

>>2529859
Pheromones aren't a thing in humans but yeah smelly people get discriminated against for sure

No. 2534225

>>2534214
I don’t get the negative emotional effect people normally mean when they say PMS. If anything I tend to be slightly happier

No. 2534356

>>2534097
Since all birth control can fail, even if you're using multiple forms, whenever your period is even a day late, you start to worry.

No. 2534396

Why is it that I can have individual female friends as well as be in mixed gender friend groups but whenever I try and befriend a group of all women they are nice to my face but never include me?

No. 2534398

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Are people genuinely comfortable in these elaborate outfits or do they just prioritize looks over comfort? This looks like the most annoying shit to wear to me. Platform shoes, big jewelry and piercings, long nails, bangs that tickle your face, 3 layers of lacy tops that are guaranteed to get caught on everything, headband that's guaranteed to slip off, handbag with big trinkets, full face of makeup

No. 2534400

>>2534398
They prioritise looks over comfort. There's a few satirical tiktoks that talk about the relief after taking it all off, the jingling/clanking noise you make when walking, having to refix stuff like hair and makeup when you're already overstimulated, etc. I do like outfits like this but I wouldn't wear them regularly, just for some place special.

No. 2534401

Just watched moana 2 for the first time, i'm ESL so moana and her sister calling each other not by names but "little sis/big sis" sounds super confusing and like they don't like each other to me.
I can tell it's supposed to be the opposite like they're close it just doesn't read that way to me. Is that a real normal thing you do? I've honestly only seen it in japanese media before

No. 2534404

>>2534401
>i'm ESL so moana and her sister calling each other not by names but "little sis/big sis"
>Is that a real normal thing you do?
No, not at all. I’m American and I thought those bits sounded weird as hell when I watched Moana. I call my sister “bro” sometimes, just because I say “bro” a lot (sorry if cringe), but I never, ever call her “sis” or “lil sis” except for maybe occasionally over text as a joke. But it just sounds unnatural to say it out loud.

No. 2534405

>>2534401
No, it's not normal. You really only call your sibling as big/little sibling if you're introducing them. I'm guessing it was written like that because it's a children's film.

No. 2534438

>>2534398
I use to dress similarly and honestly never really thought of it as being uncomfortable. Granted my nails weren’t as long and I didn’t have hair accessories like that, but for the most part it was the same. I was just use to it and had fun with what I wore. The only reason I stopped is because I now live in the middle of nowhere and rarely leave my house now outside of getting groceries or errands.

No. 2534562

>>2534398
What job does she have where it makes sense to dress this way anyway? A clothing store in a fashion district?

No. 2534567

>>2534164
No one knows how either she or the anons who replied to her look though? Having "imposter syndrome" about your appearance (which isn't how imposter syndrome works, it's technically about achievements, but she was probably just using the phrase to be concise) is a bit of a first world problem. I think it's important to project confidence regardless of how you look, and that would be my advice to her: roll back your shoulders, pick up your head, and walk with purpose.

>>2534159
Ngl initially I was pissed off at the "get over yourself" anon too, but given how melodramatic your response was I'm kind of starting to agree with her.

No. 2534589

last night when I tried to open /snow/ by clicking on top of the page(on my phone) it kept trying to download some file. Today I tried to replicate it but I can't, what was all that about? Didn't happen with any of the other boards btw.

No. 2534690

How do I eat the Laughing Cow things without some of it getting stuck on the foil

No. 2534719

>>2534398
When I became interested in fashion in my teens, I was so focused on my looks and hyper aware of how I looked that there wasn't room for feeling uncomfortable. Nowadays all I wear is jeans and hoodies and I can't imagine dressing in the shit I did back then.

No. 2534862

What is it exactly that causes people to have different vocal qualities, and why is it common for voices to change even after puberty ends? Freaked out hearing a recording from a couple years ago because I sound COMPLETELY different. Vocal quality, pitch, everything. Although it got much higher now not lower, don’t know how unusual that is

No. 2534863

>>2534862
The vocal tract size, shape, length and maturity as in if it's soft or hard all affect sound. People's biology can vary from one person to another, and just like each of us has unique DNA or fingerprints, each of us has a unique set of variations for these factors I mentioned. The vocal cords themselves have different lengths and get shorter or longer depending on the pitch you're using, there's also some cartilage in there that keeps maturing until it hardens at 30 for males, and 25 for women, causing the voice to set basically and reach its full potential. But once a human reaches elderly age, that effect is reversed, and elderly women end up with deep voices, while elderly males end up with high faggy nasal voices. That's as far as I know and ofcourse I could be wrong.

No. 2534865

>>2534567
Turns out emotions are melodramatic! Childhood trauma will do that to you. I’m not asking you to understand, but at the very least you could be not an asshole about something that’s clearly left a mark on me for over half of my life…

No. 2534866

>>2534863
Why does it harden later for males? Does testosterone slow down hardening? I just assumed male voices change into their 30s because testosterone can effect the voice at any age (hence TIFs)

No. 2534868

>>2534866
Good question, I also wonder why but never actually looked into it. Could indeed have something to do with hormones? I heard that humans continue to go through a slowed down adult version of puberty in their early to mid 20s so maybe that's related?

No. 2534980

Do anime girls look like just children to anyone else but me? It feels like a huge elephant in the room but people don’t seem to address it beyond lolis, since clearly even normie weebs are attracted to anime women. Only anime males look either teenaged or adult (but ambiguously gendered) in the face

No. 2534983

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>>2534980
You aren't alone in that. It's not that common to make an adult woman look like one, I'm not sure why, it's easy but I wouldn't put it past nippon to be gross and make them look childish on purpose (see Hachi from Nana as an example). Picrel is all child characters and even with stark differences in their appearances, they look like children. I guess art style has a big part in it, the mom in Madoka Magica looks just like her teenage daughter.

No. 2535009

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does everyone on here actually hate people with BPD. surely there are people with BPD that use this website in fact i’d estimate a high population… so how does that make sense(ai outside of containment)

No. 2535010

How did 2X go from a place for radfem/gc/pinkpill posts to the opposite, a safe space for retards to go on constant misogynistic rants?

No. 2535014

>>2535010
Because the mods refused to nip it in the bud because “WoMeN cAn HaVe BaD oPiNiOnS” or whatever the fuck.

No. 2535016

>>2535014
>WoMeN cAn HaVe BaD oPiNiOnS
Except they are not allowed to have them there, you can get banned there for simply stating you find PIV gross. You will find more women there actively defending het sex than for example sex-negative opinions kek. It will soon change into another handmaiden/trad/pickme board like the rest of lc.

No. 2535020

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>>2535016
>>2535014
I have no idea why shit like this is allowed there.

No. 2535026

>>2535020
What the fuck is wrong with this person

No. 2535027

>>2535020
This was posted in a dysphoria thread. So women are not allowed to vent about their dysphoria in a literal dysphoria thread? Also, even though I wouldn't say I hate women I can perfectly understand hating them as a collective, for example for giving (usually shitty) men access to them and allowing all this shit to continue, birthing sons and accepting male porn brain rot etc. That's what most women do and they will always do it. And they are not even forced to do it by socioeconomic factors like before feminism, so imo there's no excuse now, but I know it will always continue because they want "love" from rapeapes. Anyway, I don't see anything bad in rants like those on a hidden board meant for the stuff that cannot be post here. Let women vent, because that's probably the only place where they can do it.

No. 2535028

>>2535027
>It's just venting
Do I really have to point out that it's unintegrated and full of alogging.

No. 2535030

>>2535009
Have you dealt with one before? I don't hate BPDemons entirely but they are beyond frustrating to deal with. They self-victimise constantly and yet love to be instigators. I have pity because it's still shitty to live with a mental illness regardless of it's type but bippies are known to avoid accountability for themselves and use people for their own gain. Also a general rule for lolcow is that anyone overly shitting on someone/something definetly deals with that same shit, like the pro-ana scumbags threads being mostly used by farmers who are former/current anorexics or bulimics. So a lot of those farmers who hate BPDs with every ounce of their being are projecting at least a little bit.

No. 2535037

>>2535020
>foid
>women arent worth of thinking
>wanna punch and choke feminists
>wanna spit and shit on feminists
>dumb slow headed whores
Sure that's all justified just because it's in the poor dysphoria thread. It reads like a post from the Post like a moid thread. This post should've been banned for the unintegrated typing style regardless.

No. 2535038

>>2535016
All of your arguments against finding it “euughh icky gross” are fucking retarded, internalized misogyny nonsense.

No. 2535040

>>2535027
>it’s all women’s fault!!!! Let us just violently hate women and call them whores on a female imageboard in peace!!!
No, fuck off, you’re a misogynist, why the fuck should women want to invite that shit here?

No. 2535042

>>2535038
You are allowed to love dick all you want, just let women be disgusted by it on a hidden board.

No. 2535044

>>2535040
Black Obsidian was so right about the lack of women's accountability, I miss her…

No. 2535046

>>2535009
Alot of nonnies over the years first came for the cows, realised how many cows have bpd. Hated tf out of them for their awful bpd traits. Then later realised they too have the bpds. That's the beauty of lc

No. 2535047

>>2535042
It’s not about being disgusted by dick. You’re actively hating on women and repeating incel rhetoric, blaming women for misogyny and the harmful things that happen to them, generalizing women like they’re a monolith, pretty much setting the stage for a bunch of immigrant males to join in and repeat what you’re saying word-for-word, because as long as it’s just bashing on women, they would love to join in. It’d be perfect for them. You want to turn a space for women into hating on women and Misogyny Lite. God fuck off.

No. 2535049

>>2535044
How dare women not want to be called evil whores for having boyfriends or families? Those stupid foids!!

No. 2535052

>>2535020
Update: The poster did get banned. Thank you farmhands.
>>2535047
This.

No. 2535053

>>2535049
>having boyfriends or families with scrotes who jerk off to porn and do 50/50 and when they hit 40 they look at women much younger than you
Nothing to criticize here. But wait, we can totally fix them with le socialization!

No. 2535058

>>2535053
Do you need the link for the blackpill thread?

No. 2535065

>>2535053
Keep grouping all women together like they’re just a hivemind, keep blaming them for men being pieces of shit, keep blaming them for the female socialization they go through that makes it difficult for them to develop boundaries. You should be focused on educating and uplifting women instead of calling them evil whores and just feeding the ego of lurking incels just because some of them ending up in abusive relationships where they’re treated disrespectfully.

No. 2535068

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>>2534690
The cow is laughing at your futile efforts

No. 2535069

>>2535065
Wait, weren't all the rad and lib feminists focused on educating women, at least most of them…? Did that change the general picture of the world we live in? No. So there's nothing to talk about. Women will just take the resources from other women and give them to men and their hetero-patriarchal families. I have nothing else to add here, because there's no room for discussion.

No. 2535073

>>2535069
Did the feminist movement have an impact on teh general picture of the world? Gee, I fucking wonder. Definitely zero impact or progress.

No. 2535075

>>2535073
Yeah, now females are public property, not a private one.(blackpill out of containment)

No. 2535079

>>2535075
Now women have choice, wow. Zero progress or impact though. Basically indistinguishable from living in a third-world shithole! Stupid foids are the same everywhere anyway, betraying other women by being in relationships. So much worse than men……..

No. 2535083

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>>2535075
>females

No. 2535090

>>2535079
go cover your head and live in a thirdie muslim country, if there’s no difference. feminists did not fight for your rights for this, you may as well swap yourself out with someone who’d be more grateful.

my thing with people like this is how quickly do they expect change to happen? we’re at an appropriate place when it comes to progress when you consider the timeline of it. women only started getting the right to vote a little over 100 years ago. that is so recent. of course society is still at this stage. your couple decades of living is only a fraction of the shifts in adjusting to changes in the patriarchy, and we’ve come a long way. do you think it was through men’s efforts? do you think they would have done anything from their comfy position without push? it was women. i go online, or outside and i’m happy to see that women can even express themselves and what they actually think… if you believe nothing has changed through blood sweat and tears then you don’t know how bad it was.

No. 2535094

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The place I'm moving to doesn't have a kitchen so I have to cook on an electric hot plate. The last time I cooked on one of those was when I was a student and I couldn't really figure out how to cook on it then. Did I have a shitty one or are hot plates just generally hard to cook on? I wonder if I should get an airfryer. Man I just want a room with a proper kitchen and stove fml.

No. 2535098

>>2535090
You know that most women shat on feminists back then right? They didn't side with them. It was ENOUGH women to make a change, but it wasn't the majority of women. Just like now women cry how there's no real men anymore and one job isn't enough to support a household so they can't be staying at home wives and moms while their husbands are working anymore. I can bet most women would prefer that lifestyle and their frustration comes from the fact now they are expected to do both (taking care of the house and kids and go to work too). Of course those women are not aware that working class women always had physicall work outside of home too, but there was this period for women who lived in the city where being a SAHM while the men worked was possible for them and they for some reason romanticize that period. And every woman will go "not my Nigel, my man is the unicorn, he's not like other men", when sooner or later it turns out he was indeed like most men. Then the woman will cry about it to other women. And then repeat the cycle, because her romantic feelings are more important than anything else kek

No. 2535099

>>2535094
You could get an Instant Pot, you can use it with the lid off to sauté veggies/meats or lid on to make slow cooker meals. I believe some of the fancy ones also come with air frying abilities

No. 2535101

>>2535090
Ayrt. I know sarcasm can be hard to read over text, but I was mocking the other person.

No. 2535103

>>2535099
Oh interesting, I've never heard of this thing before but it looks good! I'm gonna look into it some more, thanks for the tip!

No. 2535150

File: 1748121691452.jpg (Spoiler Image,2.76 MB, 1987x2673, 1748121495360.jpg)

Has anyone here kept a chia pet? How long do they usually live because I want mine to live forever, but apparently, that may not be possible. Spoilered pic is my chia pet.

No. 2535151

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Do white guys "dap up" or is that just a black dude thing?

No. 2535153

When will my stupid and completely undeserved ban expire?

No. 2535155

>>2535151
Many do, especially if women are around. White men often try to emulate aspects of black culture because they secretly see black men as the epitome of masculinity. Not trying to racebait, it’s just how moids are.
>t. white woman

No. 2535161

>>2535150
I can’t help but wanted to say I love your picrel. Many blessings and good health upon you and your chia pet nona

No. 2535173

I'm not a lesbian but I saw a really objectively attractive woman today in a skimpy outfit, would it have been rude to whistle at her as I was passing by on my bicycle? She was just really pretty and I wanted to let her know. Personally I wouldn't mind if a woman did it, but then again I'm also an autist.

No. 2535186

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I'm a (sort of) gender non-conforming straight (unfortunately) woman - am I cooked? Seems like men almost always prefer classic 'femininity', at least the way it's performed nowadays. Not that I'm overly concerned with the opinion of coombrained moids, but my dating life has been somewhat unsuccessful, and as much as I've tried to decenter men from my life it does get lonely sometimes. It doesn't really help that my style is kinda alt, I have a lot of tattoos, mostly wear baggy/mens clothes, have short hair, don't shave my legs or pits (I'm quite hairy), and have traditionally 'masculine' interests. I've had men call me scary before lol. Physically though I have fairly feminine facial and body features (short). Anyways, I don't really know where I was going with this, and maybe it's more of a vent, but do I really need to change how I present myself to find an attractive moid who likes me back? Rhetorical, but also idk what to do.

No. 2535187

>>2535009
it probably hits a little too close to home for nonnies who don't like what they see in the mirror

No. 2535195

>>2535173
I wouldn’t really want to be whistled at personally but you can slow down and tell her she looks nice or something like that

No. 2535199

>>2535173
Don't do that, anon.

No. 2535202

>>2535010
i just checked, and am i crazy or are almost all the posts on there lately bj-chan?

No. 2535206

>>2535187
An anon wrote about being skinwalked by a bpd and it ruining her art literally yesterday but okay, everyone who notices or complains about bpd, has bpd. There have also been plenty of anons who admit they have it and how that is received depends on how much they're pining/whining for nigel of the day

No. 2535209

>>2535202
Seems like it, or maybe a few trolls? I don’t know, but either way I don’t go on there anymore because of it

No. 2535212

>>2535173
I will give you some guidelines nonna
>Never wolf whistle at someone. This is scrote behavior
>You can compliment a woman if your paths cross like being in the line at the grocery store, both of you washing up at the same time in the restroom, or a similar scenario
>Try to only compliment things that they have control over, like her outfit, haircut, makeup
>A blanket “You look really beautiful” can be perceived as weird compared to “I love your outfit!”
These are my guidelines for retards I hope it is helpful

No. 2535219

>>2535186
Men like all sorts of women, I wouldn’t worry about moids that say you’re “scary”, they sound weak and pathetic. Trash taking itself out. You may need to express interest in them before they come on to you though.

No. 2535350

I keep seeing people replying "my shayla" to random characters when I search for fanart. I barely ever use twitter so I've only seen this on lolcow in the luigifag/hybristo thread. what does "my shayla" mean? where did that even come from? is it just another variation of the babygirl/meow meow shit

No. 2535353

>>2535350
> I've only seen this on lolcow in the luigifag/hybristo thread
Who is surprised lmao. Its a tiktok tourist phrase.

No. 2535355

>>2535350
Some moid actor crying on Tiktok about a custody battle over his daughter, hence Shayla
Idk why people use it to refer to cute things or their favorites, the context is so weird, like are you fighting for visitation rights over Gojo or something?

No. 2535399

>>2535186
No you're not cooked. It's even a (homophobic but that's irrelevant now) meme online that gnc teachers tend to be straight and married and how funny it is. I get constantly mistaken for a lesbian and I'm married so I guess I fall into that stereotype kek

No. 2535417

Is there a good evolutionary reason why everyone isn't bisexual? Why does exclusive orientation exist?

No. 2535420

>>2535417
I'm assuming mental anguish, being bisexual feels like a mental illness.

No. 2535468

Is it common to like someone but not want to be in a relationship with them? Pretty much all of my crushes are like this, but it doesn’t seem like an experience I hear anyone talk about? I’m always afraid of someone finding out I have feelings for them for this reason. I can’t explain myself especially since it’s often for little reason

No. 2535472

>>2535468
I'm not sure how common it is but I'm the exact same way

No. 2535482

>>2535417
I think most humans and animals are technically bisexual but only if we were cavemen with no customs, different or no societal expression of gender beyond physical sex, and no conditioning. I agree with that one anon that said that if there’s a default sexuality it’s probably “mostly straight”, not 100%

No. 2535493

>>2535482
Samefagging what I mean is I think most people have the capacity to be bisexual (even some self-proclaimed homosexuals) but whether they can express this bisexuality is extremely dependant on other factors. The concept of an ingrained concrete “sexuality” beyond who you choose to have sex with is fairly recent historically too but idk if that’s relevant

No. 2535541

>>2535417
Same sex attraction, especially same sex romantic attraction, just isn't that common. It makes sense to me that some people might display bisexuality that might otherwise be suppressed for psychological reasons e.g. MFF threesome for Nigel

>>2535420
It really does not kek

No. 2535557

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You are deployed for WWIII and need to pick between the Army, Navy and Air force. Which one do you pick?

No. 2535561


No. 2535562

>>2535557
Air Force. My friend joined and it sounds pretty nice compared to the others. She has been stationed all over the world but hasn't had to be in any war zones or anything and has moved up the ranks nicely.

No. 2535563

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>>2535562
Damn sounds nice. I wanted to join the airforce as a kid but had too many health issues and ultimately decided my health was priority and choose a lame field instead. At least my country's army sucks so i am not missing much.

I know it was a shit job but i really wish i could have been in the ballsack turrets in wwII, if you survived it sounded fun.

No. 2535566

I have an honest question about weight and health. I have been underweight my entire adult life but no doctors I have seen are concerned about it. Then I read comments online about how people at my weight need medical help and should gain weight. Why is it that my actual doctors have never brought it up as a concern to me or informed me of any risks for being underweight? If it was just one I wouldn’t think much about it but all of them have been like this and don’t seem concerned. Why is there such a disconnect between what people say online and what my actual doctors recommend? I’m a burger for reference if that is at all helpful. And yes I am trying to gain weight, but no doctor has ever recommended that I should? I’m just perplexed

No. 2535575

>>2535566
If you're naturally thin and aren't malnourished, starving or suffering health issues already, it's probably just not a big or urgent concern. Plus doctors have access to information that can more reliably inform them about your health. Like, if your blood work is good and you get periods they can probably assume you're doing fine.

No. 2535578

What are normies? Like who is this demographic? Do they use instagram, twitter? What music do they listen to? What celebrities do they like?

No. 2535579

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Where can i watch this and The Century of Warfare? why is it so hard to pirate documentaries

No. 2535580

>>2535566
Ime doctors just aren't as knowledgeable as you think they are, especially family doctors. The hoops I've had to jump through to get help for my medical issues..

No. 2535615

Whats the name of the thong japanese moids use? the white one

No. 2535623

>>2535615
Fundoshi?

No. 2535664

Why does my stepfather hope to achieve by shaming me for being single?
I have autism so I don’t feel any social pressure get a Nigel.

No. 2535813

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Does anyone know if the GBA SP has a brighter screen than the regular GBA that doesn't close? I bought a regular GBA second-hand years ago to live out muh retro gaming fantasy, but being a dumb teen I didn't know the screen would require blasting a fucking LED spotlight right into it to see anything. GBA SPs cost an arm and a leg nowadays, would buying one to replace my GBA be worth it? (I don't wanna play on an emulator)
>>2535664
Because he thinks women's worth is based off marriage material and thinks you'll fail at life if you don't get a man, let him marry you into financial emprisonment and eventually make you shit out kids.

No. 2535817

>>2535664
He's projecting his fear of being alone and unloved onto you. You know moids are incapable of coping with solitude without resorting to rape and school shootings.

No. 2535828

>>2535813
I can’t say if all of them did but mine had a backlight. I think that and it being rechargeable was the big draw for the SP. I miss mine a lot, it was awesome.

No. 2535850

>>2535813
Yes, the SP has a backlit screen and you can play it in the darkest rooms.

No. 2535859

>>2535813
I love these, they look so cool
I think DS lite also has a backlite and can play gameboy advance games too, but it has to be the lite version

No. 2535882

>>2535813
So if you want a backlit GBA, you have a few options: GBA SP, Microsoft, original DS, DS Lite, or a GameCube with a GB player. Probably your most affordable bet is an OG DS judging by the prices on eBay. There's also modified original GBAS with backlights and modified DS lites that had a broken top screen and were then converted to GBA machines. There's lots of options for you anon, you just have to pick one. Happy playing! I remember my pink GBA all too well and had all kinds of attachments for it back in the day.

No. 2535956

>>2535828
>>2535850
>>2535859
>>2535882
Thank you! So in conclusion, the SP is worth the investment but the DS is even more if I can get one. I had no idea DSes could even play those, I thought that GBA cartridge slot was only to transfer G3 pokemon to G4 games
>happy playing
Thank you!!

No. 2535987

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>>2535956
DS systems can fully play GBA games except for the DSi! Also I don't know why my phone autocorrected Mirco. It's also the only type of GameBoy I've never owned, I have owned every other device mentioned as well as various GBC systems. GameBoys were kind of my love growing up and my introduction to gaming so I love them a lot and collect what I can. Let me know if you'd like any game recommendations! Just tell me what genres you like. Another thing to mention, the original GBA and SP can play GB/GBC games but not the Micro or any DS systems. You can also get an R4 for your DS and play games that way!

No. 2535997

>>2535987
Nta but I'd love some reccomendations for the GB/GBC (and GBA, though I have some experience with that console already)! I really like turn-based strategy games, rhythm games, and any game that has interesting characters and/or a cool plot.

No. 2536152

>>2531410
kinda. I know it's partially because most immigrants move to the cities and those places become diverse first and then marketing gurus make ads more diverse in response and then it feels different. For one example, the black population has remained stable for decades but there was a massive increasing in ads with black people post-2020

No. 2536183


No. 2536206

>>2531410
? it’s a movie not real life

No. 2536213

How to argue with the “women are less rational” belief from men?

No. 2536218

>>2536213
ignore it bc it's just projection anyway.

No. 2536222

>>2536218
Yes but I want to have something to say when they bring it up and start laughing

No. 2536223

>>2536213
Why are you wasting your breath arguing with males in the first place? If a moid doesn’t already see you as a human being then being a shrill nagging feminazi (read: calmly explaining your viewpoint) isn’t going to change his mind.

No. 2536224

>>2536213
Seconding >>2536218 but if you really want to hit them where it hurts you can link studies on men's suicide rates, domestic violence, testimonials from offending pedophiles.

No. 2536237

>>2536213
say what it is, it's projection. And since this is clearly a bad faith argument meant to rile you up specifically (because why else would a man say this in front of you), throw in an ad hominem and say that the male who is saying this is projecting his own thoughts on himself. If he says anything else, just express pity that he/men have such low self esteem and tell him to go to therapy. Then repeat until he gets tired and changes the topic. You don't argue in good faith with people who argue in bad faith, you gotta pull out the bad faith arguing strategy book.

No. 2536241

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are the dipshits who buy these noise machines immune to them?
It's such a shrill awful noise I can't imagine ever acclimating to it.
These little mutts should be illegal.(dog hate outside containment)

No. 2536278

I thought I heard my very own death rattle
Is it possible I was just snoring while half-awake?
Thoughts?

No. 2536292

Does anyone know how to deal with a (straight) friend who treats you like a boyfriend after a breakup?

I thought it would just be a short lived phase of her needing more emotional support but now it's like I'm stuck on boyfriend duty full time. She hasn't acknowledged it herself but she's super clingy, gets upset if I don't text back immediately, expects me to do all the "hard" or confrontational stuff in public, and what really cemented it is when we hang out in town she keeps dragging me to places or tables saying "let's grab OUR usual spot", "that's OUR table" when I've literally never been there with her before. Am I crazy or is she not treating my as a replacement for her ex boyfriend?

No. 2536299

>>2535987
Ah okay Micro, I thought that with Microsoft you meant emulating. I love the Micro's design, and yes please I'd love some recommendations! GBA games I have are Pokemon LeafGreen (ordered Emerald the other day), Crash Bandicoot: N-Tranced, PowerPuff Girls: Him And Seek and A Link To The Past (that last one's just a GB game tho). Idk any deep cuts so I'm curious

No. 2536323

why is the advice thread in /g/? i think it’d work better here and /g/ anons are completely different

No. 2536392

>>2531410
This has more to do with casting changing than real life

No. 2536394

How are so many trends originally or popularised by Chinese people making it big in the west, given the firewall prevents a lot of interactions? I've noticed a significant number of viral trends within the past few years all have Chinese origins, it's cool but doesn't make sense to me.

No. 2536400

>>2536278
Just you snoring, Tard. Happens sometimes.

No. 2536405

>>2536292
Are you a lesbian or somehow masculine to her? I've had that happen quite a few times with straight friends and me being a lesbian that's "masculine" to normies, the only thing that made it stop was me just not doing the shit that they wanted me to do. I even started talking about going on dates even when I wasn't, just to remind her of her place and how I am not in a relationship with her. When I was in my early 20s, I also found out that upping my girl talk took her straight ass out of the weird bubble she had created, but I think this only works if she truly is somehow moidifying you in her head. Now in my 30s I would just tell a friend like that to fucking quit that shit.

No. 2536406

I'm a writer and a perma virgin, does piv actually feel good? what's it feel like in general?

No. 2536408

>>2536406
Just use your fingers and find out. Its lame btw

No. 2536410

>>2536408
I'm nta and also a clueless virgin but wouldn't fingers feel pretty different than a moid shoving his whole bodyweight against you?

No. 2536414

>>2536405
Nta but how does this happen? Why do they act like we’re in a relationship when they’re straight and it’s nothing like that? This is a completely nonsensical psychology when it would make more sense to keep your distance so nothing is ambiguous, especially since heterosexual women are always so paranoid.

No. 2536417

>>2536406
90% of the time it’s not that special and erotica makes it sound way more fun and impactful than it is. Most guys don’t know or care what they’re doing. With someone who does know and care it can be pretty addictive. Too bad moids suck so those 10% guys that are good at it can still be pieces of shit in every other way.

No. 2536430

I'm curious, are lesbians here scared of false rape accusations from a BPD ex? This YouTuber got her career and life destroyed cuz her first ex decided to band with her other exes and falsely accuse her of rape and abuse. The judge basically dismissed the case because the retarded BPDemons just went on to admit in court that they were lying about it.

No. 2536431

>>2536414
Honestly I don't think there is an iron clad logic behind it but I was just discussing this with a friend and I think many straight women have these homoromantic feelings towards their women friends. Maybe it's because men disappoint them and some of them get used to treating their friends as everything besides a sex partner, if they all do that within their friend group, it's not weird to them. This doesn't really apply to this situation where they are in a basically one-sided thing with us, but I feel like they're just filling a void. I find it sad and weird, if I didn't just pop a sleeping pill i could write a fucking page of my theories on this stuff.

No. 2536452

>>2536431
Interesting. I think there are plenty of women who are normal about friendships but I could definitely see some women having this tendency. You’re right, it is a little sad because it seems like filling a void. A lot of friends “break up” with me when they get a moid (and then sometimes try and come back afterwards) and I’ve seen this when both parties are straight too. “Best friend” culture can be quite homoromantic, like a temporary replacement for them.

No. 2536552

Why do women always talk about wanting to be “desired” kek. What does that even mean

No. 2536561

>>2536430
Haven’t yet watched this video, but what’s your obsession with BPDs and false rape allegations? Has this happened to you before or is this a thing in the lesbian world? Rape happens in lesbian relationships as well, you do realize that? Is there any proof that she didn’t rape them? Maybe it’s best to believe the victim instead of the rapist

No. 2536565

>>2536406
It actually kinda hurts and is not comfortable at all, but if you kinda like the person it feels good because you get to hug him and then you kind of get to embrace the stuffed feeling. It doesn’t feel natural to me in the least.

No. 2536607

>>2536561
BPD people are like destructive children, extremely vengeful when they 'feel' wronged, no impulse control and have a severe fear of abandonment, often going to extreme lengths to exact revenge on people they feel have wronged them.

When you dump a bippie for being insane and evil, it triggers their abandonment issues and they will often try to exact revenge on you through dirty means like false allegations, extortion, leaking your nudes etc.
You're lucky if you've never had to deal with these people.

No. 2536612

>>2536607
So when a woman with BPD cries rape we shouldn’t believe her because she is all that what you claim
So women with BPD aren’t human…jfc If I had BPD I’d literally get so depressed over reading all the hate on here.

No. 2536619

>>2536612
Ditto. I brought it up the other day it’s weird that there are so many BPD spergs when a lot of anons seem to have it…? If they don’t have it they at least display the same behaviours of their sworn enemies

No. 2536626

>>2536607
BPD rage is the same as NPD rage, I've experienced it too. But the idea that ALL her exes are bpd or down to plot against her? I don't think bpd is the problem here.

No. 2536630

>>2536626
I watched the video but her exes literally admitted to it though? There seemed to be one main one that just wanted revenge against her and this one conceded the minute she reached out because she just wanted to talk to her or something

No. 2536644

>>2536630
tbh I am not watching that because I don't care enough. But there are 7 women in that thumbnail - one youtuber, one accused, so five exs? five women got together to lie for the hell of it? and then just admitted it on the stand? there's missing missing reasons somewhere.

No. 2536670

>>2536644
Just watch the video if it’s so confusing, they admitted they conspired. The accused wasn’t all good but they were kind of victims of each other especially with being druggies mixed in. The rape accusation was false. Content creators are often just weird and often conspire together, I don’t know if anyone remembers Slazo but his entire circle did this and they were friends. Very sinister. At least these ones were exes with bad blood that didn’t even know each other beforehand

No. 2536703

>>2536670
so they were all content creators and did this so they could monetise the situation? there's the explanation then, it's not just one of them has BPD and did it to be evil because BPD women are evil

No. 2536727

File: 1748228016719.png (3.19 MB, 2465x2091, 2025-05-25 20_52_21-The Intern…)

>>2536561
It's the first time I post about this so idk why you call it an obsession. And I'm not just making up the BPD part for clout, one of the girls wrote a whole paragraph saying that she wronged the accused girl because of her BPD, and she got used by the other girls because of her BPD. Pic related.

No. 2536759

who do you guys think the black people of white people are? i think its irish people and i think most other people feel the same way

No. 2536761

>>2536759
in america its poor people

No. 2536762

>>2536759
>>2536761
immediately identifies this question as american because it's the most american question ever

No. 2536771

>>2536762
yeah im not sure this matters as much in most other countires bc you guys didnt steal people from their continent and force them to be slaves

No. 2536835

Any heterosexual nonnas have experience dating in their late 30s? Is it possible? Do men even look at us, considering their obsession with youth and virginity?

No. 2536838

>>2536759
I genuinely don't know what this means

No. 2536839

>>2536759
What the fuck does that mean? Did you happen to mean black sheep or something? I can't decipher what you meant at all

No. 2536843

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>>2536835
I know this is the stupid questions thread nonna but if this is a real question, the fact that you think moids have standards anyway is sad enough, let alone internalising their "hitting the wall" rhetoric so hard that you think late 30s is too old.
Maybe I should lie and tell you no, they don't want you, so you just hang out with your friends and be happy.

No. 2536851

>>2536838
>>2536839
like who are the blackest white people? which group of white people behave the most similarly to black people?

No. 2536860

>>2536851
Oh, I hear you now. I don't think behavior has much link to race, it's more to do with culture. I can only think of lower class white people being somewhat the same but even that isn't innately a black thing, and there's still significant differences. And like an anon further up said, this sounds like an American question kek. If I were to say a lower class white American person and a middle class Ghanaian person act the same, that would sound crazy because it is. African black people and American black people don't act the same so it can't be a race thing.

No. 2536892

>>2536759
Google "John Lennon N word" and you'll get your answer.

No. 2536897

>>2535563
Man first moids draw boobs like ballsacks, and now I find out they made metal scrotums to hang out in? Moids really do yearn for the sack damn

No. 2536900

>>2536759
Based on the pecking order I've seen going on in white people when it's a culture debate:
>Italians
>Spanish
>Slavs
The Polish are probably gonna solo this debate, based on how many people seem to hate those motherfuckers.

No. 2536944

>>2536897
>moids draw boobs like ballsacks
I wish ballsacks looked that good. But scrotums are ugly as hell.

No. 2537066

File: 1748252146365.png (115.95 KB, 768x352, carnosaur.png)

I'm reading a terrible dinosaur novel from the 80's. Is this really what happens to scrotes when they feel afraid?

No. 2537067

>>2537066
KEKKKKK

No. 2537072

File: 1748252580295.gif (4.68 MB, 480x480, 1000036464.gif)

>>2537066
That is so fucking funny. Just imagine all the seething scrotes we've argued with on this site whose ballsacks were curling up and giving them rage wedgies

No. 2537077

Can you get sick from showering with cold water? i am trying to become stronger

No. 2537088

>>2537072
I know it's so funny. The author is a sexist moid too so for him to include this makes me think it's true. Never heard about it before though, have other nonas?

No. 2537091

>>2537077
Just eat more green leafs nonna(or make smoothies out of them), the "cold shower boosts immunity" advice only has a minimal effect.

No. 2537092

>>2537066
Google confirms it's true kek

No. 2537099

>>2537091
Cold showers are almost exclusively shilled by alpha male wannabe moids who think meaningless, pointless discomfort makes them tough and stoic. Women deserve all the comfort and pleasure of a hot shower and will still be tough when it actually matters in their life, no need for performative macho suffering.

No. 2537104

>>2537099
Well said.

No. 2537110

>>2537091
>>2537099
I meant i want to become stronger to not feel the cold anymore. Mostly because i started swimming lessons and i want to go all year.

No. 2537112

>>2537099
But cold showers feel much better

No. 2537124

>>2537110
Fair enough but don't they have heated pools?

No. 2537125

>>2537112
Depends on your climate, if you live somewhere cold there is no reason to torture yourself with more cold unless you're planning on getting into a sauna afterwards.

No. 2537143

File: 1748260742457.jpg (120.4 KB, 800x540, 1634310590626.jpg)

Kek I need to know the lore of why nonnies love this photo so much and where they found it? And why it is so funny? I cackle everytime I see it

No. 2537144

Is there a proper term for people who are disillusioned by fiction? ie. People (mostly younger generations) who grew up on the internet and fandom culture and media etc. and expect real life to function like fiction and when it doesn't they get disappointed. I feel like a lot of people in my age group suffer from this, especially in terms of relationships, friendships etc.

No. 2537146

>>2536452
Ok I have risen and if I may continue my theories. Sometimes people accuse these women of being gay or bi when they do that homoromantic stuff with their willing or unwilling friends, I don't think they are. I honestly think many start that kind of stuff in their teens within their friend group, it starts with what you said: get a bf, ignore friends, come back once they're single. These types of girls usually know what they're doing, but usually the whole group of friends won't do it unless they're just kind of place holder friends who put boys first yano. So they end up growing up, now they've settled with some scrote, they truly have no shared interests and because they've gotten use to the fact that you just need to have a man just to have a man, and this one doesn't downright suck, she keeps that man. Girlfriends she can talk, go do basically date shit with, they usually go to them the second the scrote annoys them, when you really look at it, the only thing this man does that these gfs can't is have sex with her, contribute money wise to the household. This woman would crumble more if the friendship ended vs a divorce because that man is just a man, the gfs give her emotional and borderline romantic attention, and when it's not done in some sort of mutual understanding where they either consciously or subconsciously know what they're doing, it's weird as hellllllllllllll. These women are dating each other whilst really not dating each other, pouring one out for them amen

No. 2537148

>>2537143
Iirc it was posted in the fetishes you're ashamed of thread or another adjacent thread 2 or 3 years ago and sort of became a meme after that

No. 2537149

>>2537144
Sounds like something adjacent to Paris Syndrome.

No. 2537153

>>2536430
Not a lesbian but Anna admitted to hitting at least 2 of her exes, she also encouraged their drug use to the point where one of her girlfriends was seriously underweight and going into a state of psychosis and Anna still didn't discourage their mutual drug use. There's also a video of one of her exes locking herself in the bathroom because Anna was in a rage and destroying their shared apartment.

No. 2537178

>>2536619
It doesn’t make any sense..why do they hate themselves? It sickens me because they’re even mistreating victims of rape. This is what they think of women who are open with their diagnosis? I’ve noticed that people who don’t have BPD but do have the C-PTSD diagnosis always kind of feel awkward about the borderline hate. I always felt the same as borderliners…traumatized and depressed. Why would I hate them? But I guess they’re right that they lack empathy, maybe that’s why they’re so ruthless about other borderliners/themselves. It’s disgusting to most people who do have empathy. At the same time they seem to be able to pity cows/victims of abuse who clearly portray cluster B symptoms yet can be foul enough to accuse victims (who are open with their diagnosis) of rape as liars.
What’s wrong with them?

No. 2537185

>>2537143
It's kinda hot

No. 2537202

I'm going to confront a bpd I know today and finally end our 'relationship'. Before I do, I want to delete some messages containing private information so it can't be used against me to terrorise me in the future. So, does Instagram notify people if you unsend messages in the chat? The messages are from a few year ago, not recent.

No. 2537206

>>2537202
No it won’t, and you already know this, but you’re just baiting.
Btw it makes you a more suspicious person if you’ll delete your stuff. Narcissists tend to do it because they have to hide their abuse. Better keep it up if you have nothing to hide, Anna.(infight bait)

No. 2537216

>>2537206
>Anna
Nta but this is such a weird reach kek, as if this site isn't rampant with overdramatic teenagers and bpd headcases.

No. 2537217

>>2537202
>>2537206
What is this school yard drama kek

No. 2537231

>>2537206
I don't know who Anna is and I'm not baiting. I haven't used Instagram in months and they're always updating shit, I'm just trying to be careful.

No. 2537239

>>2537231
Then use google.
>>2537216
Ok

No. 2537241

>>2537239
This is the stupid questions thread, who cares. Why even reply if you're going to be like this.

No. 2537246

>>2537241
I’ve answered the question. Because you or that anon can’t spare the details or stop sperging about bpd

No. 2537306

>>2536405
>Are you a lesbian or somehow masculine to her?
I'm straight, but I know I'm masculine to her. She's a girly girl and I'm not, meaning in comparison I'm somehow the boyish one even though I think I'm honestly pretty feminine but just not that into makeup or girly things. She often makes references to me being the boy in our duo, like she's Minnie and I'm Mickey and such.
>the only thing that made it stop was me just not doing the shit that they wanted me to do.
I guess you're right, but it's hard because it's not like I have a solid reason for not doing it other than feeling like she's treating me like a boyfriend. Most things I would still do as a friend, just not all the time and at the drop of a hat! I'm not the strong manly man she sees me as, I'm a meek people pleaser who hates confrontations. And I'd have to reject her too after just getting dumped, it feels so mean.
>>2536414
>>2536431
>Nta but how does this happen?
>I think many straight women have these homoromantic feelings towards their women friends. I feel like they're just filling a void.
I can just judge from my friend but I don't think "homoromantic" is it exactly (unless she's a lesbian/bi in denial), but I agree that it's likely trying to fill some kind of void. Like they want to express their romantic desires they lost with the breakup, but instead of accepting they can't have that anymore they force it upon a new "safe" target so they don't have to deal with their own feelings. I think it's basically the other side of the coin where people have a rebound phase and immediately start dating a new partner so they can pretend they're fine. This is like forcing someone to date you without the commitment I think. I'm not sure if she knows she's doing it or not either. Perhaps she thought "screw men, I have my girl friends to go on dates with" but like I said in my first post she's making references to things and places I've never been to as if that's "our place" while obviously having her ex in mind so it feels like maybe it's accidental/subconscious?

No. 2537343

>>2535186
I pretty much fit the same description. While my dating life hasn't been held back much.. only thing is ime there's a type of guy you have to learn to spot early and not waste time on. Guys who hate all things femininity (who're really just woman haters) They'll claim to love a natural look or a tomboy or whatever way they put it and if you're not feeling great about yourself atm you might be more vulnerable to missing the bs. But eventually with them.. every compliment soon contains a dig at feminine women at the end of it, them thanking god you're not like them other women. Or banging on about how stupid everything girly is. They hate women full stop and anything fem just triggers the hell out of them more than you do. They don't like who you are.. they care more about what you don't represent.

Attracting them is the downside.

No. 2537348

>>2537306
yeah homoromantic wouldn't be the best word but I agree with you! Just them acting out like you're an actual item

No. 2537409

What kind of skincare am I supposed to be doing to keep it healthy? All I do is wash my face, moisturize and wear sunscreen. Is there something more I should be doing?

No. 2537414

>>2537409
Nope, anything more than the basics you're already doing is cope for people who'd rather try to purchase good skin than excersise and stay away from alcohol and sugar. If you had actual issues that needed to be addressed you'd know it.

No. 2537423

>>2537409
Drink your water, take your vitamins and do what >>2537414 already said.

No. 2537457

>>2537409
Wear a sunhat

No. 2537510

>>2537409
Nada, genetics are 80% of your skin. You already doing a lot already.

No. 2537539

>>2537409
I'd suggest weakly exfoliation using some form of retinol but that's optional and more so if you have fine lines and adult acne like me.

No. 2537628

If muslims aren't allowed to even have water during Ramadan, are they allowed to brush their teeth? What if they're showering and get water in their mouth?

No. 2537635

>>2537409
Get proper sleep

No. 2537637

>>2537231
>I don't know who Anna
Anna Reksia

No. 2537652

>>2537628
I was raised Muslim and generally yes people would try to brush their teeth in the morning before sunrise (when fasting begins). The shower bit… I think people just tried their best to not open their mouths, if they got water in there on accident a lot of people would tell you to just accept it as a blessing from God (and some strict ppl would tell you to spit it out). Idk how much you know about Islam but we have to wash our face + arms + feet before praying and this would include gargling water in your mouth which poses a much higher “risk” generally than showering, so it’s less of a concern.

No. 2537663

>>2537652
Thank you for answering anon, this is super interesting to me. So when gargling people just try extra hard to not swallow any water?

No. 2537668

where can I find a pirate stream of the 2025 AMAs? I can't remember the name of the pirate sites for stuff like this but I was watching another award show one one of them a while ago so I know it's out there

No. 2537680

Is it a bad idea to take two science classes at the same time during summer?

No. 2537694

>>2537663
Yup basically, since you can only fast when you can pray (so menstruating women can’t fast bc they can’t pray), people just try their best to shorten this step. Though gargling is a bit of an aggressive term for what it is in retrospect, you kinda just cup water into your mouth and spit it out, though some people swish it around you basically just rinse the inside of your mouth.

No. 2537701

Has anyone here had their teeth whitened? My yellow teeth is one of my biggest insecurities and it's hard to trust influncers on it when they only post positives about everything ever

No. 2537738

is it safe to tell chatgpt about my breakup? it feels too personal i dont want this data to be linked to me

No. 2537742

>>2537738
If you can't find a real person to talk to, just journal about it on paper nona. Journaling is much more cathartic than typing because you're physically removing negative energy from your body via writing. When you talk to chatbots your mental energy isn't going anywhere except inwards.

No. 2537744

>>2537738
I’d recommend just using the either the vent thread or writing about it in your diary nonny

No. 2537752

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Are there any animals that stay baby/toddler sized as long as humans do? I do understand that most animal fetuses stay in gestation longer than humans do which is why they come out more developed and capable than us, but it seems like they all grow to their adult size in just a few months.

No. 2537755

>>2537752
I mean elephants live with their mothers up to 16 years. Same as with chimpanzees or orcas. Even humans would be good to go at 16 if we weren’t living in our society kek.

No. 2537758

Can someone give me a rundown on the Mangione orbiters lore? I know there's almost 60 threads of insanity to summarize but I would be eternally grateful for your unpaid labor

No. 2537759

>>2537758
Retards , that’s how I will summarize it

No. 2537761

>>2537755
But they don't stay small that long, do they?

No. 2537764

WWYD if you had a scar with a word carved into your wrist from self harm? The color difference is not that bad but the scar tissue is slightly raised and doesn’t blend in no matter what I try.
Would you try to camouflage it? Wear long sleeves constantly? Or would you alternatively not care at all? What if you had a corporate job? Trying to get some grounded outside perspective here bc I did this to myself when I was a teen and now live in shame constantly, like 24/7. I don’t know how to live bc it genuinely feels like I ruined my own life with this.

No. 2537768

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>>2537752
Greenland sharks mature at an extremely slow rate and don't become sexually mature until they're 150 years old.

No. 2537769

>>2537764
What did you write?

No. 2537770

>>2537768
Why is the ocean so scary and why are deep sea creatures that terrifying.

No. 2537777

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>>2537768
>>2537770
genuinely i remember watching a video of a sleeper shark and feeling jealous. i want to live that slow, boring life of zero thoughts.

No. 2537779

>>2537769
A cringey Latin word, I don’t feel comfortable sharing the actual word bc it will identify who I am

No. 2537784

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>>2537764
forearm tattoo? it's not good to try to hide it with long sleeves all the time

No. 2537932

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>women don't have what it takes to be good cartoonists
>I know that from experience
>no, we don't let women do any creative work at Disney
>how do I know they're bad at it then? Uh…
>look they just are, okay???
Am I the only one who finds his excuse incoherent as fuck?

No. 2537934

>>2537764
Based off of what you described I would wear long sleeves in corporate settings but otherwise wouldn’t really care about it. If I saw someone with something carved in their arm I wouldn’t really think much of it and assume they’re past whatever caused them to do it in the first place. I think it’s only as big of a deal as you make it nonna.

No. 2537935

>>2537932
nona out here posting from the year 1937

No. 2537947

>>2537935
Think we should spoil her?

No. 2537951

>>2537932
Jane Titor?!

No. 2537955

>>2537932
he was probably a pedophile

No. 2537956

>>2537955
Almost certainly an anti-Semite

No. 2538018

>>2537934
Ty anon. Mine is at the edge of my wrist, is it possible to tattoo that well? I’m not really into tattoos but I am considering getting one just to cover it
>>2537934
Thanks anon I appreciate your advice. I will continue to wear long sleeves at work probably for the rest of my life. Maybe when I WFH on video calls where people can’t really see my arms I’ll wear short sleeves to mix it up and seem normal? I get paranoid that people will figure out that I wear long sleeves 24/7 bc I live in a really hot state

No. 2538027

>>2538018
It's expensive but you could consider laser scar removal. Might not take it away completely if it's super raised but will definitely fade it.

No. 2538059

Is fashion nova as bad as shein?

No. 2538064

>>2538059
That's shein before shein became popular in the west.

No. 2538089

What goes on in the mind of someone who is an unironic nazi? What about nazism is interesting or captivating? Doesn't the whole holocaust thing clue them in that maybe they're the bad guys? Even holocaust deniers aren't exempt from this because they usually say that it didn't happen/wasn't that bad but it should have been.

No. 2538099

>>2538089
do you mean including in the past or present day mostly? imo there are no "real" nazis any more because it's not the 1900s and nazi germany no longer exists. neo-nazis and new flavors of nazi stans are mostly weirdo racists, violent, and like the aesthetics of the nazis while ignoring their many cringe aspects.

No. 2538113

>>2538089
Enlarged amygdala. The fear part of their brain is overactive, so they're paranoid that everyone white moids have fucked over throughout history will want revenge.

No. 2538128

>>2538089
a lot of whites feel under attack. nazis had nice fashion. ww2 is interesting and probably the most important thing that happened to europe in moder history overall. i dont see whats so confusing about it.

No. 2538130

>>2538089
I don’t think it’s nazism as a personality thats captivating, its their hatred for jews that takes over their whole personality

No. 2538135

>>2538130
there were many other victims of the nazis besides jews. not everything is about you.

No. 2538136

>>2538089
they genuinely believe that the white race is going to go obsolete and then they won’t have racial power and privilege anymore. they hate the thought of being equal in some way

No. 2538143

>>2538135
>not everything is about you
? I’m not even jewish, that’s literally just what I was educated in school. That the nazis went after the yids. My fucking bad I guess kek?

No. 2538155

>>2538136
the number of white people in the world is unironically falling.
but whats ridiculous is the moids who screech about this all the time always have asian or latina wives and gfs and either no kids, or mixed race kids.
>le white race is dying!!!
>'ok, so why dont you make some white children then?'
>n-no, someone else has to do that, not me, i-im still based though and my mixed kids should be accepted into the 4th reich white ethnostate
this is why i cant take neo nazis seriously. theyre always complete retards and hypocrites kek. i dont think men can genuinely be racist anyway since they'll fuck anyone half decent looking.

No. 2538158

Can I nair my asshole hair?

No. 2538161

>>2538158
I don’t think you wanna do that nonny

No. 2538163

>>2538158
Yes, you can nair pubes. Just be careful to not get it inside or on any membranous skin

No. 2538172

>>2538155
that's like insinuating all the men that have raped ingenuous populations during war or conquests can't be racist towards them, or that if a man fucks someone he can't be at all hateful towards them. dunno what cuckoo fantasy land you live in, but I don't want to know what it is because it's creeping me out.

No. 2538173

>>2538172
that anon doesn’t know about all the white guys in america who kept black slaves and raped them while continuing to use them for slave labor

No. 2538180

>>2538158
Yes but you have to specifically get the kind designed for the genital area (Nair sensitive skin bikini cream) and you have to be EXTREMELY careful. Stay as far away from the anus and vulva as you reasonably can while still getting to the hair.

No. 2538183

>>2538158
Just use an epilator for that.

No. 2538189

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>>2537768
These things can live hundreds of years old, it's insane. There are Greenland sharks swimming around today who were alive when William Shakespeare wrote Hamlet.

No. 2538190

>>2538158
Does Nair actually work? Sounds too good to be true.

No. 2538211

>>2538163
Reporting back that it didn't get all of the hairs and the entire area feels like I used a honeypot pad. Not worth.

No. 2538215

>>2538189
They knew about 9/11 and never fucking told us.

No. 2538228

>>2538190
Nair works fine. It's just expensive and smells weird. I used it for years.

No. 2538273

>>2538254
>you women

No. 2538274

>>2538254
nta, i don't use nair there because i am scared of irritation, but the feeling of having arse hair is horrible, i just feel cleaner when it's reduced.

No. 2538281

can i die

No. 2538292

>>2538281
No, you have to continue living.

No. 2538298

I don't consider myself racist, but I've never dated or slept with a black man. is this a sign of racism?(baiting)

No. 2538311

>>2538298
You're allowed to find some races more physically attractive than others anon. Or even lack interest for their cultural background for that matter.

No. 2538317

>>2538298
No and if somebody tells you it is they are a manipulative creep.

No. 2538327

>>2538298
Of course not? You can treat someone with respect without fucking them or finding them attractive. When you think about it, specifically seeking out a person to fuck because of their race is even more racist.

No. 2538330

>>2538254
I epilate my ass and other bikini area because I don't like the feeling of hair down there (I just trim the mound area). None of my partners have told me to do it but sex does play a part too, hair can pull uncomfortably and ofc I have been conditioned to think hair = unattractive like every other woman. Though if I did have a gf I would expect her to at least trim her bush, I don't want hairs in my teeth when going down on her.

No. 2538341

>>2538281
You mean 'may' you die, and no, you may not.

No. 2538364

>>2538330
>I don't want hairs in my teeth when going down on her.
Tf you doing down there if you're getting hair in your teeth? Biting her? I don't understand that argument beacause aren't you supposed to spread the outer labia with your fingers anyway? I've gone down on hairy women plenty of times and I've never had any issue with it. As long as the bush is clean there's nothing unattractive about it.

No. 2538416

>>2538330
>hair can pull uncomfortably
i'm sorry nonnie but all i'm picturing is rapunzel length ass hair kek. how long does it grow for that to happen, mine are just pube length

No. 2538427

What is the appeal of those drawings where an anime boy is making a crazy face and sticking his tongue out? Is it supposed to be cute or sexy? They always kind of creep me out especially when it's super exaggerated.

No. 2538550

>>2538416
Nayrt they don't think it be like it is but it do

No. 2538584

How to stop being nauseous while fasting?

No. 2538588

>>2538584
It's only a bandaid solution but humming can give you temporary relief from nausea because it "distracts" the gag reflex.

No. 2538590

>>2538298
I only find it racist when men go around degrading whoever isn’t their preference. I personally don’t have racial preferences nor understand them but i believe it’s just something you mostly keep to yourself.

No. 2538658

>>2538584
Putting something warm on your stomach can be helpful, or drinking a cup of warm tea or a bottle of cold water can make the nausea go away for a little

No. 2538666

>>2538298
If it makes you feel any better, I am black and even I don't date or sleep with black moids kek

No. 2538667

>>2538584
Be careful with fasting (unless you're severely overweight or obese), the cortisol spikes from not eating can fuck with your hormones. Especially with women who have menstrual irregularities, not eating regular meals can fuck with your estrogen/progesterone balance. At least eat breakfast.

No. 2538669

>>2538584
eat something

No. 2538680

Was it ever proven that Lorena Sanchez was burritomin/oldmin? I read her thread but am confused.

No. 2538683

>>2538680
I'm pretty sure it was just tinfoiling which kinda became a meme.

No. 2538716

>>2538667
How does it fuck with estrogen/progesterone balance if I may ask? Part of the reason why I fast is because it’s helped with painful periods which used to be very severe.
>>2538658
Gonna try this thank you

No. 2538750

Is anyone else here very good at insulting people and making targeted attacks? I’ve been told at best that I’m a savage and at worst that my words are like poison. Any recommendations for how to manage this? I was bullied in school but I feel like I kinda come across as a bully myself. I suspect it’s something I learned to survive in my toxic ass family but I really need to tone it down.

No. 2538788

>>2538750
You just have to stop insulting people and choose your battles. I’m the same way, if I get into an argument with someone there is a 100% chance they will be psychologically scarred for life. It drives me crazy sometimes to walk away from arguments especially when I’m right but I just don’t like the kind of person I become when I get mad. Save your poison for the people who truly deserve it.

No. 2538835

Is it weird that the therapist my girlfriend told me to check out follows my girlfriend's personal instagram account and she follows the therapist's personal account too? And is it weird of me to not want to start sessions with her because of this? My gf told me about her and to like give this therapist a try because she wants me to go to therapy and I was on-board with this person and scheduled an appointment and everything but now it feels off.

No. 2538837

>>2538835
it seems sus to me, what's the therapy for?

No. 2538844

>>2538835
Personally, I'd avoid this therapist. It's not wise to share a therapist with someone close to you. I also think that it's a breach of the clinician-client relationship to follow each other on social media.

In general, when deciding on a therapist, consider the following:
>What is their educational background? What is the highest level of education that they have completed?
>What is their professional experience? How long have they been working in psychotherapy? How long have they been working in an independent capacity?
>To which school of psychology do they belong? Do they follow the Humanist school, the Behaviouralist school, etc..
>What are their qualifications? Are they a counselor, a psychotherapist, a psychologist, a psychiatrist? Are they legally registered as one of those with the respective boards in your jurisdiction?

Doing your research is important for anything, but it's especially important when you're choosing a healthcare professional. A lot of people don't even know the difference between a counselor and a psychologist, or between Humanism and Behaviouralism, so they end up choosing a therapist that isn't right for them.

No. 2538846

>>2538716
It can cause you to have estrogen dominance (high estrogen, low progesterone). A sign of this is very heavy periods with what seems to be excessive lining. But if you're overweight/have high body fat, fasting could help if you're losing body fat, because excessive fat also increases estrogen and throws off your hormones as well.

No. 2538848

>>2538750
Therapy.
Learning to have compassion for others.
Learning to have compassion for yourself.
General emotional maturation.

Use A + effort and time to get B-D. I know a girl like you and am actively making an effort to atrophy our friendship because the way she talks about other people makes me hate spending time with her. Unfortunately it seems that everyone else has done the same thing, which seems to make her even worse. I’m not sure she understands why people don’t like her and so instead of being able to introspect and improve, she just externalizes the problem and lashes out at everyone else. So good on you for recognizing there’s a problem, that’s the first step.

No. 2538871

What are some random historical events from anywhere in the world that are worth learning about?

No. 2538882

>>2538871
frecnh revolution

No. 2538891

>>2538882
*Franch

No. 2538895

>>2538871
Do you have preferences for historical reading? Broad overviews of grand events versus granular discussions of minutiae? War and moids bayonetting one another or biographies of important figures and obscure factoids?
A few broad recommendations:
The Paraguayan War, also known as the War of the Triple Alliance is one of the most bloody and significant wars in early modern history that nobody has ever heard of.
The creation of modern Hebrew, it might be the only example of an intentionally created language actually being adopted and made into a living language. (Not making any weird schizo point here, I just consider it an interesting story)
The Czech Legion and their road trip through Russia during the civil war is an interesting story.
Operation Cowboy, the Americans and the Wermacht come together to fight the SS and rescue some horses.
John Robert Dunn, gross scrote, fairly important figure in South African history and the platonic ideal of the passport bro.
Not really a historic event but I love the Coffman Engine Starter, most people below a certain age have never heard of it but it's a wonderfully weird little thing.

No. 2538908

>>2538835
yes that's weird to do therapy with someone with a personal relationship to someone you're dating

No. 2538920

What's the difference between a rectangle-, a hourglass- and a pear-shaped body? Like, how much (or rather, little) waist do you need to have to be a hourglass instead of a rectangle, and how much hip do you need to have to be a pear instead?

No. 2538923

>>2537066
Still thinking about this, kek.

No. 2538926

>>2538920
the classic hourglass measurements is "36-28-36" inches for bust/waist/hip. so I guess about 8 inches difference for bust/hip and waist.

rectangles will have similar numbers for bust/hip and < 8in difference in the waist, so like a 36-34-36.

pear shape means your hips are much bigger than bust. so something like a 34-28-38

No. 2538936

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Could nonnies please help me decide on what pancakes I should get for my birthday breakfast?

- Option A:
Knafeh pancakes with cheese, blueberry compote, and maple syrup. Have had them before and they’re very delicious
- Option B:
Honey butter pancakes from a viral brunch spot. Have also had them before and they’re also delicious (but I get them without the berry compote)
- Option C:
Oatmeal griddle cakes. Haven’t had them before but keep seeing them online. Only option where I can pick a flavor (OG, pink lady apple, banana nut, blueberry, or chocolate chip).

I have plans to celebrate my birthday with friends over the weekend but on the actual day of my birthday (a thursday), I have no other plans except maybe dinner with my parents, so I want to take myself on a solo date in the city. I’m hoping since I’ll be a solo diner that it’ll be easier/less wait time to get a seat at any of the above options, but I just can’t decide which!

No. 2538950

>>2538936
try something new! go for the oatmeal ones.

No. 2538952

How come every time my boyfriend does the dishes or washes his hands in the kitchen the kitchen towel feels hard and crusty afterwards? Like it dries into a hard crust, I have to replace the towel every day if he uses it. When I do dishes and wash my hands and dry them on the kitchen towel it stays soft until a few days have passed. Are his hands gross? Are they more wet when he's drying them? What's happening? I feel like he's some disgusting demon.

No. 2538955

>>2538952
sounds like he's ODing on the soap. it only takes about a quarter sized dollop for a family dinner set

No. 2538958

>>2538955
This leads me to believe he's also not washing his hands properly by not fully rinsing them. I'm grossed out.

No. 2538970

>>2538952
Is it possible he’s just getting them too wet?

No. 2538977

>>2538936
the oatmeal ones sound yummy

No. 2538983

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>>2538895
Nonnie I love you so fucking much, those are perfect I haven't heard of any of these! I'm going to have a field day looking into all of this. As for your questions, I like both broad and specific topics. Maybe I lean a little to more towards the broader because there's just more material to look at but I really don't discriminate. I definetly favour the wars/happenings over the lone figures, if someone is interesting enough I could probably look into it but I've yet to come across someone worth all the effort. My personal interests are within the 18th-20th century and I usually like a bit of dark or depressing stuff. Also have been wanting to dip my toes into biology so any historical topics that will overlap would be really fun! Thanks again nonnie.

No. 2539004

>>2538958
just watch him next time he does dishes. I imagine he fills up the entire sink with bubbles bc that's how he saw it on cartoons

probably uses the entire towel to scrub and doesn't rinse it out entirely cause he used way too much soap

No. 2539009

What's up with BJ chan? I read some things about how she victim blamed little girls and dates an old scrote, is that true?

No. 2539032

>>2539009
I don't think anyone actually knows. She just arrives, sperges about how straight sex is degrading, describes porn she's seen and how it's degrading, and then gets banned shortly afterwards

No. 2539054

>>2539009
She's a Polish NEET that got bottle-fed by her narc mother until she was 11 years old. Her life is just posting on Reddit and LC about how inferior and submissive women are after spending hours looking at porn.

No. 2539068

>>2538330
You just need to part the lips, you are acting as if you have a bush in your inner lips covering your clit kek.

No. 2539254

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Why can't I change my laptop's energy settings?

No. 2539443

Even though I eat healthy and my vitamin levels are normal according to tests and doctors, why am I still tired often? And when I try going outside I feel faint and lose my balance after 10 minutes. Why do I have all these issues associated with couch potatoes when I'm actually trying to be healthy. It's like everything is in reverse

No. 2539451

>>2539443
Some portion of couch potatoes became that way from real chronic illnesses, rather than the other way round. Autoimmune illnesses - often triggered by stress, abuse, or pregnancy - are particularly common in women but poorly managed/treated thanks to both scepticism generated by dealing with munchies all the time and medical sexism.
Don't give up on trying to be healthy though, you'll go very quickly downhill if you don't keep looking after yourself.

No. 2539551

Every phobia is said to have a hidden meaning that tells you something about yourself. Is that true? And if so, what does fear of syringes say about you?

No. 2539556

>>2539443
balance issues sounds like a serious medical condition

No. 2539562

How to stop seeing heterosexual sex as inherently degrading/submissive?

No. 2539568

>>2539551
I was told that phobias have to do with how you died in a past life. Maybe in your past life you were a junkie and OD'd

No. 2539572

>>2539562
Chain a pretty guy in your basement so you have all the control

No. 2539606

>>2523370
Is kuromi not enough?

No. 2539608

>>2539551
This is retarded. You're scared of syringes because it's an unnatural object that stabs into you and forces a substance you have no understanding of directly into your body/takes resources that your body produces and leaves you feeling woozy afterwards. It's completely normal to be afraid of syringes because logically we were never meant to know of, invent or use them in the first place. There's no hidden meanings when fear is very easy to understand.

No. 2539609

>>2539562
Center your pleasure and orgasms, not his. Personally, I like receiving oral and body worship. If you like PIV make him get a vasectomy, and use numbing cream + condom so he can't feel much from it.

No. 2539630

>>2523370
Is kuromi not enough?

No. 2539653

>>2539609
>If you like PIV make him get a vasectomy
This should be required indoctrination for every girl growing up. Your body is a temple and fertile penises do not belong in there until you 100% want to have children right now.

No. 2539659

>>2539630
bitch that's 14 days ago and Kuromi is generally too purple if it makes sense

No. 2539662

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>>2523370
Pon and Zi.

No. 2539663

>>2539653
Yup, the power dynamic can never be in your favor if just one night of sex is enough to completely upend your entire life or in the worst case scenario, kill you. Too much risk and burden and not enough reward. I don't even care if vasectomies are not 100% reversible after a few years, it should be a risk scrotes have to take to be able to have PIV sex.

No. 2539670

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>>2523370
I'm not sure if they count as mascots (you're probably thinking of animals but just in case) Lenore the Cute Little Dead Girl and Emily the Strange have the cute/gothic overlap. You should look into the various characters that got popular with emos back in the day too.

No. 2539673

>>2538658
Is bmi 30 severely overweight I know it’s technically obese but I’m not skinny fat.

No. 2539694

>>2539673
retard(infighting)

No. 2539760

>>2539568
KEK
>>2539608
>this is retarded
Read OP! But seriously though, your explanation makes sense. I just wish I didn't jump out of my skin whenever I see one

No. 2539774

Anyone other nonnas have a hormonal IUD? This past year I KNOW I have reduced my caloric intake and increased my activity level by quite a bit but I still stay the same weight. It seems the only way I’ve ever been able to lose weight on this thing is through starving myself. I got this inserted and basically gained 20 lbs that won’t budge. I also feel like I always have a slightly bloated appearance. I don’t want to get it removed because I used to have debilitating cramps and this is the only way I can function. Is there anything I can do to look better?

No. 2539815

if i took Lexapro once in a while, would it have any effects? i feel mostly okay most of the time, so i don’t feel like taking SSRI’s indefinitely.
so if i took Lexapro on a really bad day, would it do anything for me? would it make me energized or sleepy?

No. 2539820

>>2539815
Stuff like Lexapro works by building up in the body over time, I feel like taking it every once in awhile would only keep you experiencing the adjustment side effects over and over again. I took Wellbutrin as-needed though and that worked for me and everyone is different so ymmv.

No. 2539821

>>2539774
you’re cooked, sorry. you’re just gonna keep gaining weight until you get rid of the IUD.

No. 2539907

Should I put toilet water in a moid's drink next time one of them pisses me off? I hate this job and being able to do it and get away with it is the only silver lining I can think of

No. 2539911

>>2539568
How the hell I died by a cockroach then? Kek

No. 2539942

>>2539774
I have had a hormonal IUD for 5 years now but successfully lost 30 kg (66 lbs). I started doing more excercise and counting my calories. I still have some excess weight but that's because I started being lazy with the calorie counting. However, most of my weight gain did happen during periods when I got an IUD installed (had one earlier, then a 3 year break before the new one), but who knows if that was due to other factors. My appetite was huge and I overate a lot.

No. 2539971

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Do any biological women have cyberpunk as their favorite genre? It seems like trannies love that genre, but I need to ask of there are any actual women who live cyberpunk. Not just like it, but have it as a favorite theme

No. 2539981

>>2539971
This shit looks heinous.

No. 2539983

>>2539981
I don't know what they were thinking when they designed it, but I hate the cyberpunk aesthetic so I'm a bad judge. That's why I'm asking my question kek

No. 2539988

>>2539983
I hate the cyberpunk aesthetic too. Most of the time its poorly done and uses tacky bright neon colors i despise. The cyberpunk 2077 anime looks so tacky compared to older cyberpunk anime like ghost in the shell and akira. Cant stand how ugly and tacky the genre has become.

No. 2539993

>>2539988
GiTS is the only cyberpunk thing I've ever liked visually. It's very tasteful and makes sense. I don't want to get too mean and scare away the nonnies who like it but it's been a pretty consistent way to clock moids online in my experience.

No. 2540027

>>2539971
i dont like it and honestly it is pretty male now that i think of it, very technology and sexuality based which are nerd moids two braincells

No. 2540075

Why are gay people so much more enthusiastic about giving oral than straight people? Most straight women don't really like blowjobs and women who say they do are huge pickmes. Some moids claim to like going down on women but quite a large amount seem ambivalent or even grossed out by it, and I suspect it's performative when they go on too much about how much they love eating pussy. In reality they usually don't want to spend that much time down there and just want their own pleasure.
But faggots are obsessed with sucking dicks, and lesbians will wax poetic about the joys of eating pussy. Compared to straight people it's much rarer to find gays who aren't excited to give head. Is it just more appealing to give head to genitals that match the ones you have (assuming SSA)?

No. 2540078

>>2540027
Why is it so sexually focused? That does seem to be a big theme within the genre when I've seen it. I know the easy answer is that a man made it but what would they say is the reason for it being so sexual? I'm assuming some 2deep4u bullshit about how technology is destroying traditional values

No. 2540087

>>2539971
I like cyberpunk cause I like robots, ai's, virtual reality all that kind of stuff. Wouldn't really consider that design cyberpunk though, it's just weird neon.

No. 2540095

>>2539971
It's a very tranny-coded aesthetic, I think they like the transhumanistic elements and see it as aspirational rather than a horrific warning.

No. 2540096

>>2539971
Like so many other things, it was something relatively obscure that I enjoyed as a teenager, that troons have ruined the memory of. Just like this anon says >>2540095

No. 2540105

>>2539971
I used to love it but the way the world is going, it's left a sour taste in my mouth. Not too fond of it anymore. It's cool as fiction but I would never want it to become real.

No. 2540108

>>2540078
>future = freedom (to slut it up in a moid-pandering way)
>transhumanism = using technology (to make yourself more coomable)
>urbanization = perma-nightlife (and club attire)
that's what I've seen so far. bear in mind I don't like cyberpunk so this is an outside perspective

No. 2540161

>>2539971
I actually like it cuz a lot of the modern world is pretty cyberpunk. High tech combined with the degradation of society. Depends if it's well done or not though.

Take Alien for example from the sci-fi genre, the original vision was a horror film that made men feel the anxiety and horror of rape. Compare that to the Alien TTRPG which is basically "U R AN EPIC SOLDIER CAN U WIN AGAINST THE ALIEN???" Like kys. It's like selling Funko Pops of Squid Game, way to miss the point.

Cyberpunk 2077 executed the genre well, for example there are no happy endings. The only "happy" ending is bittersweet. Everyone is disposable, no one has any boundaries respected, there's a side quest where a fully cybered up monk begs you to rescue his brother and you find out the cybered up monk had been kidnapped by a gang and implanted with mods against his will. Compare that to someone turning the cyberpunk genre into "evrything is sexual ecks dee and I can get body mods and hsve sex whenevrr I want!" it's like way to miss the point retard lol. There's actually even a side quest where a guy's dick implant is malfunctioning and you have to drive him to a doctor but there are roadworks and little kids crossing the road so you have to find detours while he's screaming in pain at you to hurry up. Devs had a sense of humor kek.

I also liked that the game didn't give any options for "sexy" clothes for your female V. I saw guys complaining about "it's cyberpunk but I can't dress my character in anything sexual?! Wtf?!" Like loooool keep strugglin' with that media literacy. Even the dev of CP77 said something like "it's not meant to be something to strive for, it's meant to be a warning" meanwhile the dev of Nier allowed an achievement for upskirting 2B and tweeted some shit like "I wish I could just compile all fanart of 2B in one place" like there are men who "get it", and then there are men who just don't want to write anything more than glorified coomslop.

No. 2540188

>>2539971
I like cyberpunk but it kinda depends on the author or artists execution. I also like the subculture around it that encourages making and reusing tech. Anyway this plush sucks ass, it needs more wires and robot parts this is whack

No. 2540197

>>2539971
I only know males who love cyberpunk. Women I know at most like it, but not the the extent males do. Men love their machines! I bet there's like a handful of autistic girls who love it though.

No. 2540238

>>2539971
I like it as a genre but I think most people completely miss the point of it. Like >>2540095 and >>2540161 said, people tend to see it as just this “wow cool robots and sexy grrls” thing, like it’s something to aspire to, rather than a horrifying reflection of where society could go if we don’t change course.

No. 2540252

>>2540197
This is why cyberpunk and cybergoth were still subcultures in the 00s. Since mostly introverted moids were interested in it, they kept it to themselves or the internet. Now that they are "reliving their girlhoods", we see it everywhere again bc it makes them horny

No. 2540262

>>2539971
I used to like it, but 99% of it is just scrotey faux intellectualism and coombait. The same Action hero stories but for nerds. Also yeah the excessive tranny pandering.

at this point it's OK purely as an aesthetic, but tbh it's so overplayed to me now

No. 2540280

>>2540262
>faux intellectualism
Which is exactly why it's perfect for teenagers (maybe college students) but instead moids over 30 are the biggest fans of cyberpunk as a genre

No. 2540335

Anyone facing issues with the new Samsung update where the Samsung browser fails to open some sites randomly and you need to refresh 1000 times for it to open them? At first I was scared LC was down, then thought maybe I'm banned but I haven't posted anything ban worthy and I can post without any ban message when the site finally works and I post. I also tried to open some articles linked here and they didn't work either, but work on any other browser or device. Wtf is going on? Fuck this new update man.

No. 2540353

How do people find out what suits them? How do you realise your most flattering aesthetic?

No. 2540354

>>2539971
This whole conversation is surprising to me. Almost every (zoomer) girl I know likes the cyberpunk aesthetic or aspects of it

No. 2540365

>>2540354
I haven't personally observed this but good, hopefully anon's cyberpunk zoomers can reclaim it from the troons

No. 2540377

>>2540280
its one of those genres where you have to dig through a lot of shit, and it just became not worth it to me. especially with the rise of tranny pandering. also IRL is as much of a cyberpunk dystopia (or on the way) now anyway, I want some escapism kek

No. 2540379

>>2540353
find out what looks bad (trial and error)

sometimes I go to the mall and try on clothes I wouldn't ever really wear just to see how it is/reaffirm myself lol

No. 2540409

>>2540377
The real world almost dystopia is boring, but at least in a crappy cyberpunk universe you can play or read about a cool protag that can do things. So it's still escapism for me.

No. 2540452

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Can brackets cause pain on the part of your jaw that connects to your ear? like the L part? i've had my brackets for a couple months now and its the first time i'm feeling pain there. Id ask my orthodontist but i already had my visit and have to wait until next month
Also how do i make it stop hurting?

No. 2540498

Does anyone else find it hard to control their temper

No. 2540543

When pokemon card people open like 100 packs to get a specific card, what do they do with the excess (unvaluable?) cards they don't want or already have? Do they just throw them out?

No. 2540548

>>2540498
Not anymore

No. 2540592

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I'm not stupid by any means; I'm good at debating, I'm multilingual, I can solve all kinds of puzzles really fast, I strategize well and I love analyzing complex literary works. I'm not all that smart but my point is that my intelligence is definitely not below average.
So tell me why I'm an absolute fucking retard when it comes to games. Not video games (I'm generally good at those), I mean sports, card games and board games. In PE I rarely understood wtf was going on (especially with teachers making us do alternate versions of specific sports as practice before making us do the real thing) even after the rules were explained, I'd be anxiously wondering where tf to run while everyone else knew. I need to be told the rules of "go fish" or whatever every time I play, and sometimes I need explanations twice. Don't even try to teach me poker, I'm not gonna understand shit. As a child, I had a hard time understanding how to play certain things during recess.
Why are most intellectual challenges doable for me while things like that make my brain shit itself?

No. 2540612

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>>2540452
When you say brackets do you mean braces? If so yeah you could be experiencing some pain there inadvertently due to your teeth realigning and causing pressure to be on different spots, which may impact how you hold your jaw or how it aligns. I would look up TMJ exercises like picrel just in case you’re holding a lot of tension in your jaw for some reason. It shouldn’t hurt your braces but may provide some relief. Make sure to bring it up to your orthodontist next time you see them though

No. 2540614

What is something useless (and free) that I can do on the internet? I'm bored

No. 2540628

>>2540614
Play 2048 until three in the morning.

No. 2540634

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>>2540592
Nonny we’re the same person. I have a blanket rule that I don’t play card games of any form because I can’t fucking understand them, even Uno is a struggle for me. I’m not a complete retard but card games and complex games in general just don’t click for me. Doing a puzzle? Deductive reasoning? Yeah I can do all of that no problem. But games like you are describing are and always have been a struggle.
I’m not trying to diagnose you but I have only seen people in ADHD communities ever talk about this struggle as well. I have no idea why this is common in those communities or what role it may or may not play in this, but I empathize with you heavily.

No. 2540654

>>2540592
You're not interested in those things, so you zone out and don't focus or pay attention to the rules. It's not that you're dumb; it's a lack of attention. I've had this happen to me with certain things and it is enough to make you feel like a retard. When you feel stupid and incompetent (even though you're not), it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy every time you try to do these things. Try changing your thoughts and being more patient with yourself.

No. 2540678

>>2540592
I have the opposite problem, I’m fucking retarded but great at games.

No. 2540704

>>2540612
yeah sorry im ESL, thanks for the advice anon! ill try and see if the pain goes away

No. 2540764

>>2540592
did you play a lot of games like that when you were younger?

maybe you haven't exercise your neural synapses that control physical gaming much.

No. 2540775

how do you find discord servers to join? can I search them or do I need to find a link somewhere?

No. 2540777

Didn't know where to ask this but how have nonnas survived living with shitty moids that dont clean up after themselves??

My brother moved in recently and its driving me crazy I want to cry its pathetic.
My mom cleans after him too so it doesnt help. And my parents do tell him but he just scoffs and acts offended while my dad wipes the kitchen counter, he never hit us but goddamn doesnt he see he needs a good beating?
The best thing I can do right now imo is to go nuclear, but I want some advice before I do that.

No. 2540824

>>2540775
seconding because i’m currently only in friend discords and fandom discords i joined at like 16

No. 2540831

>>2539971
no I hate it. Poor My Melody.

No. 2540837

>>2540252
not to be a nerd but cybergoth isnt really related to cyberpunk at all. cybergoth is basically just goth except they listen to aggrotech and wear some neon colors

No. 2540851

Why do combat and weapons appear so much cooler when wielded by women? I can’t draw for shit but I want to learn just so I can make the all-female military manga of my dreams. Even women in combat gear just looks better to me for some reason

No. 2540857

>>2540851
Women make most things cooler and your manga sounds badass. Learn to draw and follow your dreams nonna!

No. 2540877

why is iq still considered an accurate measurement of intelligence? isn’t it just a shapes quiz? pattern recognition? even what kind of education you receive and how your language/alphabet is structured also plays a part in how you use that part of your brain. seems flimsy. a written exam where you need to apply your intelligence would be way more accurate… even academic exams would be more accurate because at least they have breadth in what you need to apply and that’d coming from someone who believes standardised education and assessment isn’t even a good representation of actual ability
>inb4 lowiq
allegedly it’s 134 but i still think the whole thing is dumb (or at least how popular it got)

No. 2540882

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Is having a fish face inherently a bad thing? Should I be insulted? Someone said it’s because I have full lips and round eyes but I always thought it was an insult

No. 2540886

When is the tranny bullshit going to end nonnas?

No. 2540888

>>2540886
I estimate GC rhetoric will become more popular on tiktok next year and trannies will start the slow process of being shamed by 2030. Refer back to me when it happens nonas

No. 2540899

>>2540888
I hope so, the pushback have seen us good, but I am still afraid that these retard have one of support. But I think online spaces aren’t really a full expression of what the average person thinks.

No. 2540905

If people expect the best of me due to my appearance (I look sweet and get doted on a lot) despite being quite the opposite would it be good to play it up and give people what they want even if it’s being disingenuous? I’m actually a know-it-all dudebro. But people seem to react really well to me acting pure and naive. Even though I’m not usually really like that and only come across that way when I’m being polite or feeling happy and silly. I can tell that people like me best that way though.
If I’m introduced to someone less casually it’s hard to open up properly and not stick to that character. I find myself even acting like I’m much more … chaste? than I actually am because it feels like what people expect from me. I don’t mind it because pretending doesn’t bother me and I used to pretend about other things anyway, I actually enjoy dishonesty because it makes me safer like keeping others more distant from my soul. So it’s not about comfort but just what’s the best social decision I suppose.
Also for some reason even though this is a stupid question it feels thread-inappropriate so if there would have been a better thread please tell me for next time ♥

No. 2540908

>>2540882
this thing is actually so terrifying

No. 2540919

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>>2540908
Ok well thanks for not answering my question anon

No. 2540935

>>2540882
No, you probably look ethereal

No. 2540949

>>2540905
It depends way too much on the contexts in which you interact with others, whether it's school, work, outside of any sorts of obligations, etc.

No. 2540972

Nonnies one of my boobs is suddenly a lot smaller than the other one… should I be concerned…? I've always had small breasts but now my right one is bordering on nearly almost flat and from the side it's visibly a lot flatter than my left one… I know uneven breasts are normal and the right is typically smaller to begin with, but not so much that the difference was this visually apparent! I'm also not pregnant kek or even sexually active at all.

No. 2540975

>>2540972
Could the other one be swollen? I would monitor it and book an exam just in case but I wouldn't be concerned rn

No. 2540989

>>2540882
Billie Eilisj

No. 2541004

>>2539659
And? If I were goth i’d be glad with kuromi.

No. 2541011

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Do men who will love you for who you are exist or are they all stacysexual?

No. 2541012

>>2541011
Men are incapable of love.

No. 2541033

When gifting someone a designer perfume, is it "bad" to only get a 1oz bottle? I'd prefer not to spend too much money but I also don't want to look like a total cheapskate since the recipient is someone important to me. 3oz seems like overkill and I know she likes to switch between different perfumes and body sprays so a smaller bottle of one perfume would still last her a good while, but should I pay a little extra for the 1.6oz? I'm probably overthinking this but I don't usually buy stuff this fancy.

No. 2541035

this is going to be a supremely retarded question, but it just crossed my mind. does the drawing program paint tool sai have anything to do with the naruto character sai, who paints? what's the connection there?

No. 2541071

>>2541035
It means color/paint in Japanese

No. 2541072

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>>2541035
Paint tool SAI was developed in 1996, long before Naruto. It stands for Systemax Advanced Illustrator, with an additional wordplay 水彩 suisai, or watercolor.

No. 2541092

>>2541011
A scrote that “loves” you will still want to fuck you. Women have to stop expecting to find the same love they give from men, a man will never love you like you desire, they aren’t capable of it, yes even when it’s supposedly good. And the sooner you stop chasing the fairy tail romance, the sooner you’ll cut the retards out and be secure in yourself and when or if you choose to be with one of these demons, you’ll be ready to dip at the first sign of bullshit.

No. 2541093

>>2540882
Big lips and doe eyes are literally the beauty standard for women.

No. 2541105

>>2540882
those features can look kinda bulbous at times, if you know how to style yourself they can look quite good, they're the ideal beauty standard after all

No. 2541124

are teenagers really so stupid that they don't know the difference between your and you're? because even when i was a teenager, in the dinosaur ages 15+ years ago, peers back then would also do the incorrect your/you're. it feels intentional at this point but i could be underestimating the general populations stupidity

No. 2541138

>>2541124
yes, which is why i've been artificially pushing the bifunctional "yer" as an alternative. like you fell off yer bike, or yer doing great. once it gets adopted on a mass scale, we'll be just one step closer to the pirate world utopia that we all dreamed of…

No. 2541169

Do aluminum compounds in antiperspirant deodorants cause cancer?

No. 2541250

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Should I apply to work at a casino for the extra money while I wait for teaching jobs to open for the next school year?

No. 2541253


No. 2541255

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>>2541124
Tiktok brainrot is real, there will always be some loud stupid ones but also normal quiet people

No. 2541258

>>2541255
Let's be real, the actual reason is because they can't pretend the main character is Literally Them if the pronoun isn't "I" kek

No. 2541261

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Nonnas, this ikea wardrobe will arrive this saturday. Do you think I could assemble it on my own or should I find somebody to help me? It's almost 2m big and about 1,20m long. Thoughts?

No. 2541272

>>2541261
These are usually easier with two people. If you can get help, do it

No. 2541274

>>2541261
If you have strong legs, I always build my ikea stuff solo by laying on my back and propping up the boards with my feet.

No. 2541279

Alot of of shops popping up in my area either selling imported american candy at crazy prices or vapes and candy. I've heard it talked about as happening in other countries. How one will pop up and next thing you've whole streets full of them that rarely make a sale and all somehow stay open even in high rent areas

What's the behind the scenes way they're making money? I know people say it's a cover for something else but what exactly?

No. 2541284

>>2541274
Nayrt can you draw it? I don't understand

No. 2541301

>>2541261
I've built double beds from ikea solo as much as they dont recommend that but I'd prob get help with something like this. Metal bed frames are sturdy even if you're fucking around and having to get creative to manage it solo but I feel like this could get scratched/damaged in the process

No. 2541304

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>>2541284
I lay down and use my legs to prop up the heaviest pieces, and attach the side pieces until it's stable enough to stand up on its own, and then I attach everything else. I build it so that I only have to flip it over once when it's complete. Leverage is your friend when building heavy objects by yourself.

No. 2541306

>>2541279
My friends and me are convinced it's for money laundering.

No. 2541332

What does "bikini line" mean? Does it mean the area outside the bikini like thighs or is just a nice way to mean "by the genitals"?

No. 2541342

>>2541332
Bikini line is all the hair that isn’t covered by a swimsuit bottom.

No. 2541351

>>2541304
Respectfully, wtf? Has a piece ever fallen on your face?

No. 2541373

>>2541351
No or I wouldn’t be suggesting this method. It’s like doing a really easy leg press at the gym.

No. 2541423

>>2541304
Wait how do you screw things in? Don't you have to do that from the back?

No. 2541436

>>2540452
They definitely can. I had braces for a while and had that issue whenever there was an adjustment. Doc said was normal but I should let him know if it lasted too long or was causing too much pain. I don't remember how long bc that was yeeeeeeears ago, but I think up to a week sounds normal to me.

No. 2541471

Is there a thread to ask for spoonfeeding? Every once in a while I'll see a new post in a thread about something that sounds hilarious but I'm not so interested as to read the whole thread/s

No. 2541476

>>2540452
Having braces gave me TMD and fucked up my life.

No. 2541485

Do some people’s faces just not suit makeup? There are some people that seem to go to a 5 to an 8 with makeup on but it never looks good on me so I’ve never really worn it. I seem to look the same or even better? without makeup. I’ve seen maybe one other person like this (usually wears makeup and imo looks average pretty but I thought she was stunning the one time she wasn’t wearing it). Why is this?

No. 2541492

>>2541255
This is just not true. It’s not that anyone’s ‘incapable’ of reading it, but I also personally have found that nowadays I prefer first person even though third was the norm in the books I read when I was younger. So what? Is it because people prefer tradition? Is third person more esteemed?

No. 2541494

>>2541485
Makeup only makes you look better if you have bad skin or are overly pale, imo. Clear supple skin and shiny virgin hair are indicators of health/fertility and are always going to be more beautiful than anything artificial.

No. 2541512

>>2540777
Dealt with one who managed to utterly trash the room and bathroom he was in, didn't let me clean, etc. It depends on how he reacts to being cleaned up after. If he knows he's abusing someone's help, says nothing, acts like it isn't a big deal, yeah go nuclear on him for not cleaning. There's a good chance you'll be saying the quiet part outloud and he might even feel bad. Take pictures if he denies it. If you change your habits around him (clean up after him, say nothing, etc), it only makes his existence better. Someone there has to have standards and he should know this if multiple people are already telling him the same thing. If you need to, point out that it's stressing everyone, not just you.

If he's really insecure about being messy or does any emotional manipulation shit to get people NOT to see his messes, no joke, clean up after him when he's gone one day, take pictures, and tell him it's unacceptable. They fucking know what they're doing either way. The moid I had as a roommate moved out on his own saying I violated his privacy. Meanwhile he left wet clothes all over carpet, open jars of food, and managed to grow mildew in the bathroom after like 2 weeks. Ultimately, if it's unbearable, everyone else in the house should make a plan for him to leave again eventually.

No. 2541527

>>2541485
Zoomie nonnie, please don't use this rating system bullshit on yourself or other women. Makeup is generally used to enhance good features, if regular makeup doesn't do that for you, it's useless. Also always judge by how makeup looks irl on other people and base your expectations around that, social media is pretty much bizarro world with all its filters.

No. 2541534

>>2523292
I'm trying to pinkpill someone and I wanted to ask the lolcow council of ladies: yall, is sex addiction fucking real? Part of me thinks it technically can be since you can be addicted to anything and it gives you dopamine and whatnot. But mostly I feel like it's a meme and an excuse for moids to cheat and blame it on muh seggs addiction. I don't really believe in it but I do believe in porn addictions being real. I'm not sure why I buy one but not the other

No. 2541544

>>2541485
Application and picking the right colors are a huge part of makeup that a lot of people can’t do. Using a super dewey foundation when you already have oily skin is one example. The same color can make one person look dead but be stunning on another. Some people’s features also just don’t suit heavy makeup. I wear makeup, started learning just as 2016 drag era was becoming the norm, but I never participated in those trends because they looked terrible on my features. I don’t wear black eyeliner anymore because it’s just too harsh on me even though that’s what most people wear.

No. 2541634

>>2541494
Bad skin makes makeup look awful. Makeup needs exfoliated, smooth skin.
>>2541485
If you're interested in makeup (you don't need to be), try to find someone on youtube that has similar features (e.g. hooded eyes, prominent chin, big cheekbones, whatever) and look at what they do. Experienced makeup artists also do tutorials explaining what to do if you have specific features.
Other than that, it's all about product textures, good application and choosing the right colors.
Also it's your choice how much makeup to wear. I only ever wear eye makeup, no foundation or anything else on my face. I do htink mascara is universally flattering.

No. 2541707

>>2541485
I genuinely think makeup always make you look worse. If you look good in makeup, you look dven better without it. If you're ugly, you're ugly even with makeup.

No. 2541771

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I've been told that carrying a knife as a woman is a bad idea because if I use it to defend myself against a moid, he can overpower me and use the knife against me, especially since I'm scrawny. Is that even true?

No. 2541783

>>2541707
idk, I never wear makeup but the few times I've worn it people went out of their way to tell me I look pretty and I don't get that kind of attention normally

No. 2541795

>>2541771
I would say, I agree it's probably not the best choice. A knife is a close range weapon to begin with, so even if you knew how to use it, you'd be at a disadvantage of being overpowered being in that much proximity. Something longer range I think would be safer because your best bet is creating distance and running like hell. Maybe things could be different if you have self defense training or know how to use a knife?

No. 2541903

Where the fuck do people record their music when they’re not fully committed to the whole thing and just want to practise? I don’t want a whole studio but my walls are thin

No. 2541963

>>2541783
It's just an echochamber

No. 2541964

>>2541903
Garages

No. 2542019

>>2541903
people make/buy soundproofers for walls. I think you can use egg cartons

No. 2542090

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why are japanese so perverted/pedophiles? they have always been like this

No. 2542182

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What does this mean in MS Teams? usually it's fully green

No. 2542190

Is sewing a hard skill to learn? My mom has a sewing machine that she never uses and all of the clothes in the stores are so boring. I discovered this creator on youtube "susoriginals" that basically thrifts old blankets and hoodies and then upcycles them. Is this a hard skill to learn? I would like to try it. If I use already existing stuff and sew it back together? Where should I start?

No. 2542198

>>2542190
Sewing's pretty easy. It's tailoring that's hard.

No. 2542203

>>2542190
I would say it depends on the person, some people are crafty and other are not. I would start with making really simple stuff like pillow cases or tote bags. There are plenty of tutorials online you can follow. If you want to make clothes from scratch, definitely buy premade patterns and ask your local fabric shop about appropriate fabrics cause there's stuff like weight and elasticity that matters a lot and can be overwhelming for a beginner.
Tailoring premade clothes can actually be more difficult than making clothes from scratch just like the other anon said. Adding darts and shortening pants/skirts is easy but stuff like taking in jeans is pretty tricky. That said, learning how to sew is really rewarding and fun so you should absolutely go for it!

No. 2542205

>>2542190
Sewing is hard for me because you have to be incredibly accurate and know how the fabric behaves. Also the actual sewing doesn't take much time but the prep work like measuring, ironing, pinning everything down etc. Personally it's all too complicated for me.

No. 2542210

>>2542190
The basics are easy, making clothes that don't look home made is a learning curve for sure.

No. 2542224

>>2542205
I’m a sewfag and it is one of the few skills that I would say requires some aptitude. Stuff like drawing, painting, even knitting or other fiber arts people can build up their skill level to achieving polished end pieces. But outside of basic alterations and circle skirt tutorials sewing just requires a more technical mindset and nimble hands to actually achieve that handmade, not homemade look.
>>2542190
I’m not trying to dissuade you nona from trying it out, it’s really fun and incredibly rewarding. But not everyone has the aptitude towards patterning, draping, and reverse engineering what’s in their head. Getting started can also be a bit of an investment. Just keep your expectations fairly low and don’t expect to be able to make super specific pieces on your own from scratch within a month or two. Also there is so much bad info online about sewing that shows poor technique being passed off as normal and fine. Make sure you’re learning from someone who actually knows what they’re talking about. And finally, don’t expect the process to be quick. So much of sewing isn’t even sewing on a machine but other stuff like ironing, cutting, prepping fabric, and hand sewing.

No. 2542229

Why do women who say they never want kids get offended when you agree with them that you also think they shouldn't have kids? Is it a sign she's just saying that as some kind of reverse psychology game and she actually wants to hear "nooo you'd be such a good mother! Please have kids!"?

No. 2542231

>>2542229
Cause some people use it as an insult, as in you’re too stupid/unfit/genetically inferior to have kids, so they take it personally. It doesn’t come off like “you shouldn’t have kids if you don’t want to” but more like “yeah people like you should reproduce”.

No. 2542237

>>2542090
When I went to Germany they had porn movies sold in regular stores mixed with regular movies including kids movies. The porn covers weren't even censored they were full on as nudes and porny as you'd expect and yup I saw real kids around. Every culture has degenerate males, don't know why we're still shocked by it being displayed.

No. 2542244

>>2542231
The way I've seen it go down is like
>I'm too selfish to be a mother, I love my lavish lazy lifestyle and I hate kids anyway so annoying
>yeah, being selfish and lazy wouldn't be good for a mother so I agree that you shouldn't have kids then
>um I COULD have kids if I wanted them though
>yeah, good thing you don't want them since they don't fit the lifestyle you have and want
>but like I'd be such a cool mom, but I'm just gonna be the cool aunt instead it's not like I hate kids I just don't want them myself
>wait you literally just said you hate kids

No. 2542252

>>2542244
I think in general people don’t like being insulted, even if they just said the same thing about themselves just then. Just say ‘yeah you shouldn’t have kids if you hate them’ next time.

No. 2542257

>>2542252
Yeah, like it's one thing to call yourself selfish and lazy, but if another person calls you selfish and lazy it's gonna feel like a legitimate insult. I don't think it's specifically because the topic revolves around children, it's just that you don't usually expect people to agree with your self deprecating comments, and it would make you defensive.

No. 2542271

>>2542257
>it's just that you don't usually expect people to agree with your self deprecating comments, and it would make you defensive.
Unrelated to the discussion but I think we should all start agreeing with people who keep insulting themselves for pity points. You wanna talk about how bad you are then sure you suck, you're the worst and you should just stop trying, I agree. It's legit the only thing that snaps them out of it and makes the stop acting like an annoying piece of shit, enabling them isn't helpful.

No. 2542314

>>2542237
The one time I went to Berlin on a school trip I've seen the highest concentration of sex shops in my entire life and the stores weren't even subtle. Maybe Hetalia was righr about German men.

No. 2542324

>>2542271
The thing that bothers me about self deprecation is that it forces the listener into an uncomfortable position- they are then obligated to either reassure you (which could be a lie on their part) or agree with you (and risk offending you). I never talk badly about myself when it comes to legitimate insecurities, because I don't want to force someone to awkwardly lie to me.

That said, in this case I didn't imagine the self pitying kind of self deprecation, more the joking, hyperbolic type. Like, if a woman says she's too lazy for kids I'm gonna assume she means she enjoys a chill day being a couch potato, not that she's a total slacker who cant take responsibility for her life. In that case the normal response is just like "haha fair enough kids are pretty tiring", not agreeing or disagreeing with her judgement of herself.

No. 2542325

>>2542271
I just don't react to them and change the subject, it drives them insane but they can't say anything without making it obvious they're fishing for compliments kek

No. 2542351

>>2542237
>Comparing a famously degenerate group of moids to another famously degenerate group of moids
I'm not saying that not all men are perverts because they are, but japanese and German men are both incredibly weird about sexual stuff.

No. 2542381

Why are so many tifs and thembies obese? I have genuinely never seen one of a healthy weight.

No. 2542395

>>2542381
Self hatred and body issues that they falsely attribute to body dysmorphia when it's just that they're being shat on for not being fuckable as women. Same goes for men but add in some sexual assault allegations in there.

No. 2542479

>>2542182
The person has been using their computer very recently. How long it takes to go from green to yellow can be set at the organization level.

No. 2542485

>>2542381
I used to be a deathfat, they feel like they are fail women and they often get treated like a sexless blob so they find it easier to just opt out

No. 2542563

>>2542381
Taking T also makes them fat tbh

No. 2542591

>>2542381
I’ve only ever mer anorexic TIFs actually. I agree thembies are always fat though

No. 2542665

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I'm not depressive or miserable but for some reason when my mind wanders I very often end up thinking about suicide in great detail: internally debating the pros and cons of differing methods, concern over who would find the body and what state of decay it would be in, to leave a letter or not to leave a letter, researching odds of success, all the usual cliche.
Is this something that I should be concerned about or am I just a cringey edge-tard?
I personally favor the latter, since I feel no real desire to die but I also occasionally upset people around me with my seeming indifference to my own mortality.

No. 2542672

>>2542381
Ways to cope with sexual harassment & abuse

No. 2542696

>>2542381
They already have bad diets and low to zero exercise to begin with. T makes them want to eat more, and it just goes like that. Also, a lot of them think T makes them gain muscles by default, when it just makes them hairy and bald.

No. 2542789

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What would the equivalent of balls of steel for women be? "Pussy of steel"?

No. 2542791

>>2542789
Brass ovaries?

No. 2542799

>>2542789
golden eggs (as in the ovaries eggs)

No. 2542805

Every time I go out a kid compliments my hair. I don't have it any crazy colors, it's my natural color. It's short but nothing wild. What does this mean?

No. 2542806

>>2542805
It means you are pretty and kids like your hair.

No. 2542813

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>>2542806
Aww, nonnie
It got my worried that maybe I look silly or immature, but I'm probably overthinking

No. 2542835

why don't i get wet when i'm aroused? i drink enough water, so i don't think i have any issues in that department

No. 2542838

>>2542799
>>2542791
Doesn't sound as badass, maybe ovaries of steel?

No. 2542898

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>>2542789
>What would the equivalent of balls of steel for women be?
These are all trash but I tried.
Snatch like a sarlacc
Womb of adamant
Box of iron

No. 2542907

>>2542898
Box of iron is pretty good lol

No. 2542908

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No. 2542914

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>>2542898
>Box of iron

No. 2542975

>>2542898
>Womb of adamant
Thank you, absolute masterpiece

No. 2543097

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This week I ran into a male acquaintance in my city. I didn't notice him at first cause I was autistically in my own world but he called me over and we started chatting. He was with his partner and kids and actually introduced me to them, the kids were fine but the gf didn't seem keen, she wasn’t conversational, didn’t smile at me or ask me about myself like he did, idk why might this be? I felt weirdly attached to both of them though. I have BPD and usually imagine fucking anyone who’s kind to me. Not sure how to proceed but I’m hoping I can have some fun out of it. I’m probably seeing this guy again soon at a market/vaguely political event, likely without his partner there. Do I have a chance in hell of something interesting and sexual happening or does he just pity me? I want to kiss him. 

>extra context: i might visibly be an anachan because my bmi is a high 12 or low 13. the man and partner are about 8-10 years older than me (in their late 30s). he likes books and architecture. not conventionally attractive

No. 2543106

>>2543097
This post reminds me why I hate BPDdemons.
>do I have a chance??
Fucking a scrote isn’t hard even when you are a uggi, especially when said scrote is ten years older than you and married. He’s already halfway cheating anyway.
Married scrotes are so loose they open their legs for everything. At least have the decency to tell his wife.

No. 2543109

>>2543097
I understand your emotions because I also imagine fucking anyone who is nice to me but you have to remember there is a difference between thinking you want something and actually wanting something. Don’t ever sleep with a married person “for the plot”, trust me…

No. 2543110

>>2543097
>Your moid stops you while you're out with the family to chat with a bpd anachan a decade younger than you that clearly wants to fuck him
Gee I wonder why she was unhappy nona, who could guess

No. 2543115

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I’m about 5’7” - 5’8” or 170cm - 173cm, but I routinely get mistaken for being below 5’5” / 165cm. Multiple people have told me that I seem shorter than I actually am, including friends. This happens irl with both strangers and friends, so it isn’t just unfamiliar people only interacting with me online.
Why would so many people mistake me for being shorter?

No. 2543119

>>2543110
I'm kind of curious of the alternate universe where if the wife was kind to her too would OP be asking us right now "nonnas should I solicit them for a threesome? I know it's normally the other way around but has a single person ever asked a couple before?"

No. 2543150

>>2543097
Why do you feel the need to fuck a taken man? I’m with the gf, you probably looked desperate anon.

No. 2543161

Whyy is it so easy to guess sexuality?? Obviously there are outliers but I always always know a girl is bi before she tells me. Crazy

No. 2543163

>>2543161
Are there patterns you notice or is it pure intuition?

No. 2543167

>>2543115
Perhaps your head is just large in comparison to your body. Generally the shorter you are the larger your head appears in comparison and vice versa.

No. 2543176

>>2543097
Stop making us look bad? What the fuck is wrong with you you psycho. And he was with his kids??? You have no excuse for your behaviour. Also why was the BMI thing relevant unless you literally look coked up. You’re the first person online I’ve come across with the same BMI as me though kek
>>2543115
Head/body ratio, limb ratio, weight, skeletal size/shape. Funnily enough I had the same ratios when I was shorter but read as taller than I was whereas now I read as shorter despite looking long. Having a small bones while tall makes gives the impression of tinyness especially in close distances.

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>>2543097
>>2543176
>unprompted clinically underweight BMI mentions

No. 2543184

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>>2543181
They are having a bone fight off

No. 2543187

>>2543181
I thought hers was unprompted to be fair kek

No. 2543188

>>2543181
>>2543184
God those replies are the epitome of female intrasexual competition, just constantly gloating about how skinny and young they are and what men they are stealing from other women etc… Pathetic and disgusting.

No. 2543193

>>2543097
Getting therapy has to be easier than doing all this wtf i am glad i am not a bippie

No. 2543196

>>2543188
I wish female intrasexual competition was more interesting. BMI is boring, striving to look young and tiny is boring. I want to have a pissing contest about how strong we are and how far we can throw our nigels.

No. 2543200

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>>2543196
Nona… we can only dream…

No. 2543202

>>2543097
>her wife didn’t give me attention
>do I have a chance of fucking this scrote?
>My BMI is 13.
Only death fetishists are attracted to anorexics, they are on par with feeders.
Your breath probably stinks of hunger because your body has resorted to consuming your muscles to stay alive, you have fuzzy body hair all over you, your libido is dead and bumping any pelvis against you would be like slapping a flat brick wall. Your brain is begging for a bit of glucose , you have other problems on hand than fucking random men.

No. 2543203

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>>2543202
This was probably nonna trying to give “doe” eyes to the male retard.

No. 2543206

>>2543097
>the man and partner are about 8-10 years older than me (in their late 30s)
>nonna is in her late 20s or early 30s
Bleak. You are too old to still be acting like this and you know it.

No. 2543217

>>2543176
>Having a small bones while tall makes gives the impression of tinyness especially in close distances
That’s interesting, I’ve only heard of bones like that making you appear taller. I haven’t met many people with similar proportions to me so it would be hard to gauge that but it makes the most sense. Thank you

No. 2543277

>>2543188
? I just said we have the same BMI. Where did you get me gloating about being young? Fucking schizo, I never even said it was a good thing. What’s good about being BMI 12? It’s not exactly the beauty standard.

No. 2543436

This probably only makes sense to nonnies from non-English speaking countries so I apologize.

In the past few years everyone, younger and older, has started addressing me using the polite You in stores and markets. One man even called me ma’am, even though it’s something you only say to older women here, as in 40+. I look in the mirror and I don’t look any different nor do I dress particularly classy or mature. Online I’ve seen lots of people from my country complaining that they don’t like being called that and imply that it’s uncommon for them to be addressed that way because they aren’t old, but I’m not so old either yet people do it to me all the time. I’m 26, my family and boyfriend and friends all say I look young/my age, I don’t see an old hag in the mirror so why the fuck am I getting ma’amed by people much older than myself??? I’m Eastern European for reference.

>TLDR: it is not ma’am

No. 2543442

>>2543436
The TL;DR made it seem like you're a troon kek. I sometimes had that happen to me back in college where the middle aged security lady though I was a professor because I have a bob cut and wear sunglasses.

No. 2543450

>>2543436
I either get called m'am or little girl, no inbetween. I dont know why.

No. 2543485

is the smell of bacon [cooked] pleasant to you or unpleasant? i had a weirdly intense debate with a coworker about this not sure if hes autistic tho. he said when his parents cook bacon the smell is so repulsive to him that he has to leave the house kek

No. 2543487

>>2543485
Pleasant, even though I hate the actual taste and texture of bacon.

No. 2543491

how do I stop being retarded?

No. 2543493

>>2543436
It could just be a customer service thing. When I worked retail, I was told to address all customers with polite 'you' and if I used the impolite 'you' I could've gotten in trouble for it. Honestly though, if you're 26, you should be addressed politely. When people use impolite 'you' for me or when they don't call me 'ma'am' or 'miss surname,' I take minor offense to it. In the same way that it'd be rude of me to call strangers by impolite 'you' or by their first names. I'm an adult and I want to be treated like an adult, not like an overgrown child.

No. 2543494

>>2543491
Either browse LC more or quit cold turkey.

No. 2543538

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What does "fagdyke" even mean? If a dyke is a lesbian, which is a gay woman, then why put "fag" infront of it? Isn't that redundant? That's like saying "gay homosexual". "Dyke" already lists the addressed woman as gay, so why even call her a faggot?

No. 2543547

>>2543538
Fagdyke and dykefag are terms made up by the CNC gendie side of tumblr who like to larp being homosexual and being raped by the opposite sex. E.g. a mtf tranny who calls himself a lesbian who has sex with a ftm tranny who calls herself a gay man; or a tif lite who identifies as a non-binary she/they lesbian who has sex with a tim lite who identifies as a gay man except neither of them are even same sex attracted because all they talk about is them being raped or raping someone of the opposite sex. Basically very mentally ill heterosexual people with a conversion fetish acted out because it's an extra adrenaline kick. These people are so sexually broken they can only get off to their larpsonas being sexually violated.

No. 2543579

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So, is it true that the First Lady of France is a tranny?

No. 2543582

>>2543579
No, she just has a long midface and too much plastic surgery. She’s a lot older than him. She was his high school teacher when they met/got together I think.

No. 2543583

>>2543547
Ew wtf.

No. 2543584

>>2543115
I think it's mostly due to proportionally short legs, sometimes arms. The effect can also be exaggerated if you're fatter as it "shortens" your appearance. When short people look tall it's usually because their legs are proportionally long.

No. 2543588

>>2543485
I like eating meat, but the smell of most meats being cooked is repulsive to me. I've always had it and I think it's from like a primal instinct to avoid rotten flesh or something. I'm fine once it's done cooking.

No. 2543592

>>2543436
It's not you it's them.

I know a few (all male) retards who insist on using the ANCIENT polite form of "you" that literally isn't in use anymore. It sounds retarded as all fuck, but they're all hyper woke moids and for some reason think that's like a polite pronoun thing now when in reality it instead sounds rude and retarded. For English-speakers it's like someone coming up to you saying "thou/thou'st" and you have to uncomfortably wonder why they're larping some kind of shakespeare play in public and what you did to deserve to be the target of their prank. Even worse is that it's also hierarchical so it's simultaneously like they're calling you "-senpai/-sama".

No. 2543593

>>2543485
I haaaate the smell when it's first starting to cook and render, and then it smells good while it's frying/fresh, and then the smell turns rancid again as the fat left in the pan cools off. I love bacon but I rarely eat it just because the way it stinks up my kitchen is annoying, I prefer to eat it at a restaurant.

No. 2543602

Why do posts on cow boards get redtexted more often than off topic boards? Not a complaint just curious.

No. 2543604

>>2543602
The cow boards have stricter rules to prevent spam and people bumping threads with non-milk bullshit. Cultivates a cleaner archive and promotes deeper discussion than people wasting 1 of 1200 posts on "top kek".

No. 2543606

>>2543602
Cow threads are meant to be re-readable archives. /ot/ was meant to be exactly that, the off-topic board for farmers to chat while waiting for new milk.

No. 2543607

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Can any super oldfags explain to me what the deal with W.T. Snacks was?

No. 2543608

>>2543607
IIRC there was a rumor that they would discontinued the BBQ flavour

No. 2543609

>>2543161
Do they seem annoying/mentally ill?

No. 2543611

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has anyone else experienced the feeling when youre doing a poo on the toilet and as youre pushing you can tell it's a big one and you tsk anime smirk to yourself but once youre all done and you take a look it's a pathetic whimpy little turd looking back at you and it's like wtf could have sworn you'd be much larger

No. 2543612

Wtf is a polite “you”?

No. 2543663

How do I use the sonic totem kek I forgot

No. 2543684

>>2543663
Ask your question and the last digit of your post number decides on the answer in the thread pic

No. 2543685

>>2543663
>post question
>look at last digit in post number
>find digit on image to get corresponding answer
>if your post number ends in doubles or triples of a number, the answer is “yes, at a great price”
pretending you asked sanic this question, the number you would look up is 3 which corresponds to the answer “maybe”. If it ended in 33 or 333, the answer would be “yes, at a great price”

No. 2543690

>>2543663
'forgot' sure newfag

No. 2543741

>>2543612
Different languages have different pronouns depending on the level of politeness and familiarity with the person you're talking to. In my language singular "you" is casual, while plural "you" is polite. I work in customer service and I will use the plural for older people but the singular for everyone else.

No. 2543806

Why is it that when I was NEETing out the internet felt like it was brimming with content to immerse myself into but now that I've started wageslaving the internet seems dryer than the Sahara?

No. 2543807

>>2543806
You had more time to dig for the good stuff

No. 2543813

>>2543741
English speakers have it easy, I went to a doctor this week and she used the familiar "you" because she thought I was a teenager going to see her without my parents when I'm a grown woman. She was embarrassed when she realized her mistake and I told her it's not a problem it happens and all that when it wouldn't even have been an issue if we were using another language.

No. 2543921

>>2542351
And they were both partnered up in WW2. Hmm…

No. 2544074

Can you have a crush on someone and not know it?

No. 2544076

>>2544069
those kind are fun

No. 2544096

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>>2544074
Nonna has a crush on herself.

No. 2544205

Why is it that every guy I've met who's been super into history was also very religious?

No. 2544218

My bf has a small pp and it’s good because finally I can enjoy sex without pain because he doesn’t reach my cervix. But yesterday he managed to do it. He hit my cervix and it hurt. How tf? Did I shrink? Is my pussy cursed?

No. 2544242

>>2544218
Are you sure its hitting your cervix and not a specific point that just hurts you

No. 2544248

>>2544218
I'm pretty sure the cervix changes position throughout your cycle, it's probably lower right now

No. 2544317

Should I fake my age on my CV? I wasted my life as a NEET from ages 20-27 and so I have a crater-hole blank period from when I graduated school to my very recent degree. Zero work experience. So i was thinking of changing my school graduation date to a little later

No. 2544328

>>2544317
Don't lie about your age, they're gonna see the truth on the official paperwork if you get the job. Just lie and claim you worked at some place that went out of business or hope they won't call to check your employment.

No. 2544410

does anyone here have any experience volunteering for or working with old people? what’s it like?

No. 2544436

>>2544317
I've never heard of anyone putting their age on a CV

No. 2544480

>>2541261
I'm reporting back from this and yes, you can built it by yourself. Took me a while (roughly about 4 1/2 hours) but it was ok. The thing that I was scared of the most (flipping over) was actually the easiest part imo. Was thinking about nonna >>2541304 whenever I had to lift something heavy lol

No. 2544494

>>2544436
Putting your birthday on your CV is normal

No. 2544545

>>2544494
No it isn't lol. That is age discrimination.

No. 2544581

>>2544436
Everyone does it in my country, it's standard practice here. And even if you don't it's obvious from what year you graduated

No. 2544584

>>2544480
Diagram nona here, happy that you successfully built it!

>>2544410
I haven’t worked at a nursing home but I deal with a lot of old people at my job. What I notice is that these people are very very lonely and often treated without dignity. I always talk to them the same as I would talk to a young person, just louder and slower with my words fully enunciated. I love asking them about their childhoods. If you make them feel seen and cared for, and especially if you can give a good shoulder massage, they will adore you. In a nursing home environment you’d probably be dealing with bathing and accidents and outbursts, not unlike a preschool. A lot of nursing homes are predatory as well, and they have a desperate need for people who are kind and honest with the elderly.

No. 2544589

>>2544410
I was told by an adult male family friend once "I can't wait until I get old so I can hit on nurses at the nursing home and it will be so funny". When I was like "wtf weirdo" he said "oh everyone thinks it's cute and charming, because they're old so it's not creepy" like it's the most normal and agreed upon thing ever when that is actually gross and creepy af. Decided then to never work with old people.

No. 2544593

>>2544205
I assume religion = reading old ass books and believing in them, so they end up wanting to read more about those olden times when jesus lived or whatever

No. 2544600

>>2544581
Nta what country are you from? In my country we don't put the date we graduated to prevent being picked for our age

No. 2544669

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>>2544589
I was at a nice restaurant with my family and there was a piano player playing live. Near the end of the meal a family member asked for me to tip him for them, when I approached and put a bill in the tip jar the piano player proceeded to tell me how beautiful I was and how it wasn’t creepy for him to say that to me now since he’s so much older. Where does this attitude come from

No. 2544824

Is insistence of not being a narc a sign that one is a narc?

No. 2544845

>>2544824
No, it can mean a multitude of things, that the person is neurotic about their behaviour, that the person has been accused of being that in the past (maybe by an abuser), that the person feels insecure about themselves, or maybe they really want to obscure that they are narcissistic, or gaslight you. Big chances the person is not narcissistic though, narcissistic people exist but they are not everyone who says a specific phrase.

No. 2544930

Is jasmine tea supposed to taste like wood or should I give it another chance?

No. 2544933

Why do religious people hate atheists so much?

No. 2544945

>>2544669
kek, tell me you took that tip out of the jar and walked away

No. 2544951

>>2544933
>Why do religious people hate atheists so much?
I don't, though some atheists can be quite frustrating and to he fair so can a lot of religious people.
The atheists who really hate religious people tend to have come from controlling religious families and communities, they associate religion with hypocrisy and abuse.
Most of my fellow religious who hate atheists tend to have had a lot of very poor experiences with midwit fedora atheists who blame everything bad that's ever happened on religion.
I'm sure that quite a bit of the hatred is just the standard hostility that any group feels towards outsiders as well, such is life.

No. 2545029

How often do you change your pajamas? I'll usually pick a tshirt and shorts to sleep in for a week and then I change to another pair for the next week and so on. Is that gross or normal?

No. 2545032

>>2545029
I change every time I shower (every 2 days).

No. 2545033

>>2545029
I sleep naked to avoid thinking about such trivial matters.

No. 2545036

>>2545029
Like you, my pajamas are on a weekly rotation. I don't know or care what's considered normal.

No. 2545054

>>2545029
I usually keep it to 2-3 days at most but I've never really considered if it was necessary to clean it that often and now I'm questioning how much I've been wasting.

No. 2545081

>>2545029
Probably once a week in winter and 2-3 times in summer because I wake up sweating all the time. tbh I live alone and don't sleep with anyone so I couldn't care less if my pjs aren't that fresh

No. 2545138

>>2545033
Same. I guess technically my sheets are my pjs then and I change them once a week.

No. 2545169

>>2545029
I change them every 3 days and I shower everyday

No. 2545222

How to fix dead eyes? I don’t have eye bags or anything they’ve just always looked kind of dead

No. 2545254

How many active users are there daily?

No. 2545262

>>2544410
I did in the past but it was more to help my mother. I used to push the gran and gramps around and chat with them but also help feed them. We also did stuff like visit the ones that are stuck in bed and turn them (my mom would change the diaper) but we would wash them and prepare them for bed also. We also did stuff to activate them so read newspaper, look together at farming related items to activate them to remember stuff and start talking or sometimes there would be animals come in for therapy. It was very fun and rewarding because I love old people but it can be very very sad also.

No. 2545263

>>2545254
like 70

No. 2545264

>>2544410
It was really casual and just showing up for a coffee and chat about life to help with their loneliness. They were really sweet but it was also sad too.

No. 2545267

>>2545254
just me an you nona ♥

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