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No. 1929938

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No. 1929986

there was a female celebrity who once said “im going to die soon i know that” like the week before she died in an interview but i can’t remember who it was? does anyone

No. 1929990

>>1929986
Brittany Murphy?

No. 1929995

>>1929073
Looks like swampy garbage juice with frog eggs

No. 1929997

>>1929995
I thought it looked like fruit guacamole

No. 1930010

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anyone know where I can find scans of the posters that would be included with the bratz dolls? I have some that I have kept (hoarded) since a kid and I wanna scan them but I have a shitty $20 scanner and they're too big to scan with. I tried searching online but I'm terrible at it and all I get are ads.

No. 1930051

is getting a business administration bachelor's degree in europe worth it?

No. 1930217

I had tested positive on an early detection pregnancy test a few days ago. I have celiac disease so I decided to eat gluten cause I’ve heard it can cause miscarriages in celiacs. I also drank 3, 5.5% abv cans of cider yesterday morning. I started a mega crazy heavy period (I never have heavy periods I’ve used more pads in 6 hours than I have all year long) which I’m guessing is my lil miscarriage today. Do you guys think it was the binge drinking morning or the gluten that did it in? Or just both worked together? I also drank some lavender tea. Kinda proud of my body for ridding itself of this for free, wish I didn’t have the gluten effects though.

No. 1930247

i had a temp type job a couple months ago and when i left to go back to uni, the manager said to let her know when ill be back and she can just quickly rehire me bc they need staff.

i sent her a text a few days ago and 0 response - is it worth following up by email or should i just assume that the offers no longer on the table? i was kind ig relying on the work for money so not sure what to do

No. 1930249

>>1930247
Can you go and see her in person to ask about it? Or is that too far out of your way?

No. 1930251

>>1930217
If it were the drinking then the UK's population would be a fraction of the size that it is. It's not the lavender either. The pregnancy probably wasn't viable to begin with; early miscarriages are extremely common due to defects.

No. 1930256

>>1930249
it is a bit too far. i was hoping to secure employment before i got home from university so that i could start shifts immediately.
i may try calling though, which probably would be the next best thing. thank you nonna

No. 1930287

>>1930217
what the fuck

No. 1930290

I don't drink water but I do have this 500ml mug and I drink earl grey tea with milk from it, and I drink about 5 or 6 of those a day, does that count as my water intake?

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No. 1930306

>>1930290
I'm having some severe deja vu right now… but yeah, it counts.

No. 1930312

Nta but does it also count if its coffe with milk?

No. 1930334

wait so every redtext is a ban?

No. 1930338

>>1930312
No because coffee dehydrates you since it's a diuretic and makes you piss more often

No. 1930340

>>1930338
nooo its so over

No. 1930364

>>1930290
>>1930312
nasty. how do you live like this

No. 1930366

>>1930364
water has microplastics

No. 1930381

I asked this question in the relationship advice thread but maybe it's better to ask here.

I sent a scan of a romantic painting to a woman, saying the painting reminded me of her. She changed her avatar (on a social media thing) to that painting after she saw my message. Does this mean she's romantically interested in me? If not, what could it mean?

I sent her messages like twice in the space of two or three weeks and she never replied, but then "liked" a lot of my posts a day or two later. And she posted things clearly related to my posts on niche subjects. I don't know how to interpret this.

No. 1930415

>>1930366
And do you know what has water in it? Tea and milk

No. 1930418

>>1930381
She definitely likes you. She may be getting overwhelmed with her feelings towards you, so ghosts you. Does she know for sure you're gay? Could be that she's afraid of scaring you off and isn't sure if your interest in her is romantic or just really good friends.

No. 1930420

>>1930290
Tea leaves contain lead and cyanide. Fluoride even.

>>1930366
Please be a different anon baiting

No. 1930421

>>1930381
No. It just means she thought it was cute.

No. 1930422

>>1930418
Okay you should not give people advice because you're really reading between the lines. Please use your head. She ignores her messages, and liked a post. I have a feeling OPs kind of parasocial in nature. There is no secret meaning here, the woman doesn't even interact with her and dropped her a like to throw her a bone.

No. 1930423

>>1930366
kek tea is basically heated up water anon (with leaves)

No. 1930428

>>1930364
original tea anon, idk once I start drinking tea I'm too full to want water. And I like tea lol

No. 1930430

>>1930423
I think it was a troll, no way that anon was that stupid

No. 1930433

>>1930422
When we first interacted, she said she found her valentine, referring to me. I acted like a bit of a POS for a while after I saw that message because I wasn't ready for that kinda thing. She started being sorta passive-aggressive with me for a bit after that, and now she uses that image for some of her social media acocunts, likes my stuff and so on.

I'd agree that I would be reading too much into this, if not for the fact that she showed obvious interest in me at first.

No. 1930439

>>1930418
Maybe, but I never pressured her in any way. I only sent her a couple of casual messages over a few weeks. So I don't know.

No. 1930442

Why dose my cat go “mrrap mrrap” instead of “meow meow” or even “mraow mraow”

No. 1930446

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How often do you see a true and honest Stacy at the gym? I thought they’d be everywhere but most of them have just been chubby girls with a few thin but fit girls, like picrel. Only today after 8 months have I seen my first gigastacy. Can’t decide if I want to look like her or not but I do ballet anyway, so feelsbadman

No. 1930447

>>1930442
What colour is your cat? What language do you speak to it? Is it boy or girl cat? What is the tone of the "mrrap" sounds, is it happy tone or sad tone or irritated tone? Also, when does it "mrrap," is it before food, after food, before sleep, after sleep, etc.?

No. 1930450

>>1930442
My cat says mrrap when she’s affectionate and meow when she wants something

No. 1930454

>>1930446
I'm the chubby girl at the gym. I once saw this ripped gigastacy when I switched up my routine and went in the morning instead of my usual evenings, holy fuck she looked to be in her 40s(?) but she was shredded (not the steroid type, she still matched her body frame) and so focused on her routine. My dream.

No. 1930457

>>1930446
Maybe because I live in the city center but when I pass by a gym it's like at least 30% or more women who look like models and have a full face of makeup on while they work out, especially if it's early morning.

No. 1930458

>>1930446
There’s one woman who’s a gigastacy at my gym, her body is like an even more ripped version of that coom baiting leanbeefPatty lady on TikTok, and she’s even beautiful

No. 1930466

what does bippie mean? i've been seeing it used on here a lot lately and i thought it was just "person with bpd" until i saw it used in ways that that wouldn't make sense for

No. 1930471

>>1930466
Beepeedee I think

No. 1930495

>>1930447
Russian Blue mix, female, and I speak to her in English. The mrrap is usually when she wants attention, she makes the sound about as often as normal cats meow. Not really irritated or anything, just her way of getting my attention. I heard somewhere that it’s common in unfixed females but she’s been spayed since she was a baby

No. 1930537

>>1930495
Are you sure it's not common in all Russian blues? This Russian blue also has a strange mew

No. 1930538

After seeing posts about toxic mold hidden in homes poisoning people and causing unbearable side effects i'm becoming increasingly paranoid there's mold in my home i can't see. How do you detect for toxic mold especially in hidden places? The post i saw, the mold was hidden inside walls and furniture and floor. I don't want to have to take everything apart…

No. 1930542

Can I still lose weight if I'm in a calorie deficit but I still eat high sugar?

No. 1930549

>>1930542
Yep, if anything you might lose more on a high sugar low cal diet because the sugar will make you wanna move more thus you burn more calories

No. 1930553

>>1930537
Those are more of a mrow or mraow. My cat straight up goes mrrap mrrap. I can’t find any audio like it but it’s a mix between a trill and a meow. Is my cat autistic?

No. 1930562

why did I get banned from cc nonas I didn't do anything wrong

No. 1930569

>>1930495
>Russian blue mix, I speak to her in English
When she is being particularly loud with her vocalizations, get down to her level and look her in the eyes and say in a calm but clear voice: "Pohz-hal-uy-sta yah uhm-ol-yay-you vahs prek-rat-it."This is a transliteration of the common phrase "Пожалуйста, я умоляю вас прекратить." Make sure that she understands the words by speaking slowly and with clear intent. After you tell her this once or twice, she might realize the folly of her ways and recant.
>The mrrap is usually when she wants attention
She potentially suffers from narcissistic personality disorder, (NPD), and wants to use her "unique" vocalizations to be a NLOC (not like other cats). You must constantly remind her that although you love her dearly, she is not better than other cats nor is she more important than other cats or people around her. She is your friend, yes, but you must be stern with her and tell her to her face "You are a cat, cats go meow meow not mrrap mrrap." Say it with a concerned look in your face so she knows that you are not making fun of her or demeaning her, but letting her know the expectations and that she is acting like a silly kitty.
>It's common in unfixed females, but she's been spayed since she was a baby
This is common in cats that experience peter pan syndrome; they want to be kittens forever because deep down they think kittens get more love and attention than full grown cats. Use DuckDuckGo and search for kitten images, then hold your cat and show her the kitten images and say to her "I still love you even more than I love all of these kittens because you are my special little baby you will always have a bigger place in my heart, even though you are grown up you will always be my little baby." Make sure you say this in soothing voice while petting her to make sure she knows that your attachment to her is not predicated on her age. She may also be self-conscious about her age, if this is the case instead of kittens, search for images of senior cats and show them to her to normalize the ageing process for her.

No. 1930585

>>1930569
ntayrt but i love this

No. 1930588

>>1930569
this is so cute, cats are such darlings

No. 1930591

>>1930585
>>1930588
Thank you. My darling baby kitty-poo will be 16 in May and I have loved her very dearly all her life. I've helped her raise 9 beautiful kittens and seen them all off to good homes where they are treasured just as I treasure my darling cat. I like to think I have a good understanding of cat psychology and their inner workings.

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>>1930569
KEK this brightened my day. I never thought of speaking to her in her native tongue. I can’t doxx myself bc a few irl friends of mine use lolcow, but she gave me a look strikingly similar to this. Pure shock. I don’t think she’s ever questioned why she feels the need to mrrap.

No. 1930610

Anyone else feel extremely bad or guilty after good things happen to them? I have a really exciting opportunity offer today and all I can think about are the negatives aspects of it.

No. 1930631

I think I saw one or two pantry moths flying around in my kitchen today. I looked up how to get rid of them and I saw it’s a whole extensive process that requires me to throw out all of my dry food and then separate any new dried goods I have into separate containers. Do I have to go through that entire process even if I only see one or two moths? I ordered the traps online so I’m hoping that may help. I’d really hate to throw all of my stuff out for one or two bugs, but I’ll do it if it’s necessary (and also I frankly don’t have the time to throw out all of my shit, deep clean my pantry, and restock everything with new containers but I’ll do it if that’s what needs to be done..)

No. 1930634

>>1930605
>bc a few irl friends of mine use lolcow
That's so cool

No. 1930636

>>1930334
yes maam

No. 1930651

>>1930631
YES you need to. It sucks but it’s the only way to get rid of them. I threw out almost everything, put unopened stuff in the freezer for two weeks, and deep cleaned my entire kitchen. Never came back. I didn’t bother wjth the traps. Now I put all new dry goods in the freezer for two days after I buy them and put everything in air tight containers.
Don’t forget about teas, coffee, pet food, etc. If you saw two adults that means there are eggs and babies in your dry goods. You don’t want to eat that

No. 1930653

>>1930631
Should probably just check your flour etc. to see if there's grubs in there.

No. 1930654

Anybody know which Hall and Oats music video that banner is from?

No. 1930657

What does it mean when your dog becomes clingy when she's not traditionally so? She's 11 years old now and I wonder if it has to do with her age.

No. 1930659

>>1930654
You Make My Dreams

No. 1930766

>>1930657
She may feel unwell or know she is growing old. Even just having achey joints or a sore tooth can make her want to be around you to feel calm and safe more

No. 1930780

>>1930766
That makes sense. She doesn't appear to have any outward health problems and has always been healthy, despite being a large dog. Been regularly walked 1-3 times per day since she was a puppy and she's slowing down. I really am heartbroken at the thought of losing her and this being the beginning of the last few years we'll be together. Time comes for animals too soon.

No. 1930784

>>1930780
Has she had her teeth checked? Not saying that's what it is because it can be tons of things, but when dogs get sore teeth pulled they end up becoming a lot happier and more energized even when they're older

No. 1930788

>>1930784
I need to take her to the vet for a checkup soon, will mention everything when I'm there

No. 1930807

>>1930287
What do you mean what the fuck are you a tradthot who is against abortion?

No. 1930892

is it best to learn media/design skills on youtube or are there better sites where you can learn this stuff?

No. 1930894

>>1930287
I recall reading one of anon's posts before, pretty sure she said she didn't have the money to get a normal abortion done.

No. 1930982

>>1930457
>a full face of makeup on while they work out
For what reason???

No. 1930994

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Please no booly I got swayed by it
I bought some shein dresses, awful quality, looked like shit on me. I could return the items but I'm too lazy to do so. Thinking of simply donating but the money would be lost. Has anyone returned shit to shein before?

No. 1931055

Is the whole "solar eclipse is going to knock out all power for weeks and subsequently end the world" thing real or fear mongering being spread by religious extremists and doomsday believers?

No. 1931066

>>1931055
Hopefully it kills us all

No. 1931068

>>1930994
Don't buy that cheap chinese crap. Hope you learned your lesson!

No. 1931069

>>1931055
Is this your first solar eclipse are you a baby?

No. 1931076

>>1931055
Total solar eclipses aren't rare and they haven't ended the world yet. What kind of retarded media channels are you tapped in to that you're even hearing this trash? You need to subscribe to different things.

No. 1931080

>>1931055
>Solar Eclipse 2020 in India
>they start worshipping it and making dances

>Solar Eclipse in Ameriturd

>THE GOBIRNMENT IS GONNA TURN OFF OUR BURGERS. EVERYBODY GET THEIR GUNS NOW! THE WAR IS COMING!!!

No. 1931084

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I got a sweater like picrel, the label says 'hand wash in cold water only' but that seems really annoying for such a bulky sweater. Would machine washing it with cold water/gentle cycle be okay too?

No. 1931089

>>1931084
The reason they don’t want you to wash it is because these things are magnets for fabric pillies. Hand washing is the only way to prevent that.

No. 1931091

>>1931084
If you have a machine cycle that's 30 degrees C and under, sure. But expect maybe some of the fabric to pill if you wash it a lot.

No. 1931092

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what should i try from the local asian supermarket? i tend to stick to bland, generic, mostly sort of healthy bri'ish foods like sandwiches and potatoes and i don't like cooking. i tried and liked some of the sweets. there's just so much variety, idk what's good, they have like 100 types of dumplings alone.

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No. 1931095

>>1931089
>>1931091
Thanks nonna's, guess I'll just handwash it.

No. 1931103

Former people pleasers, how did you cure this shit?

No. 1931107

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>>1931092
Are you looking for actual foods (like frozen and pre-packaged) or ingredients that you can use? Laoganma chili oil is my only recommendation that I can give before you specify because it goes with practically everything savoury.

No. 1931111

>>1931084
Why did you get this. This is pot smoking fashion in my country for people who don't bathe

No. 1931113

>>1931107
ingredients are ok if they don't require cooking ability to be edible, like cheese and stuff, but mostly interested in pre made food recs!

No. 1931164

>>1931111
Nta this is shroomer/dirty raver hippy attire in mine kek, maybe the nonna is either a stoner or enjoys her shrooms

No. 1931169

I need some advice on writing an email. I'm a student and for a project, me and my partner need to find our own real life client to work with. I got a contact from a friend who's interning at this place I want to reach out to. Basically I'm not sure how the start the email? Do I start off by explaining who we are, what uni and major etc., do I start by telling this guy how I got his work email, do I explain what I want from him first? Something else? What makes sense? And do I throughly explain what our assignment is first or do I only give a broad outline and explain more if he agrees to working with us? Please help, I'm not the best at formal communication

No. 1931175

>>1931169
Hello sir/madame

I hope this email finds you well. My name is [y/n], I'm a student at [university]. I'm taking a class right now about [class name] and we've been asked to interview a [persons job title] for a short assignment.

Would you be open to holding a brief interview with me?

I anticipate your reply,
[y/n]
Anon you need to learn how to write proper emails for yourself kek this is a really important life skill.

No. 1931213

How rude would it be to email my prof and ask for help with structuring my study for the final exam in 2 months?

I failed the midterm, barely attended lectures and havent looked at any material since the first few weeks of the year. I’m worried she’ll think its a spit in the face because I havent engaged with the module at all. She’s super serious so she scares me a little too…

No. 1931218

>>1931213
It would be very rude. She's a professor not a baby sitter. Why are you taking classes that you don't attend and refuse to study? In the future, if you know that you're not going to engage with a class then it's best to drop it early on so it doesn't appear on your transcripts. You make your bed and you have to sleep in it.

No. 1931222

>>1930994
Honestly please don't donate them to the thrift store, at least around me the racks are plagued with tissue paper shein clothes that nobody buys

No. 1931224

>>1931213
Don't go to her, she'll be really insulted. It's much better to go to your student resource center and get help there. They have free tutoring, and normally you can pick up someone who has already taken the class and might have the notes.

No. 1931225

>>1931213
Honestly give it a shot, the worst she can say is no and you're going to the fail the class anyways. I actually disagree with what other anons said- in my experience professors can be ridiculously accommodating as long as you don't wait until the last minute to message them. Ultimately they want you to pass their class.

No. 1931232

>>1931213
Try it but don't be surprised she's not ok with it, I got away with basically blanking my diss supervisor for months because he's an absolute pushover. Very nice but seriously, I didn't deserve that accomodation.

No. 1931238

>>1931218
>Why are you taking classes that you don't attend and refuse to study?
Nta but life happens?

No. 1931239

>>1931213
>>1931225
>in my experience professors can be ridiculously accommodating as long as you don't wait until the last minute to message them.
This is my experience as well.

No. 1931256

>>1931084
My pedo ex who sexually abused his sister wore a sweater like this

No. 1931262

IS THIS STUPID WEBSITE BACK UP YET

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No. 1931269

>>1931262
Don't call it stupid that's fucked up

No. 1931332

>>1931218
I can tell no one in your life likes you, miserable bitch(infighting)

No. 1931349

What are some things I could hide in an Easter egg hunt for my boyfriend if he doesn’t like candy? No money either because that feels kind of weird.
I could always go the “coupons for (insert thing here)” route but if anyone has better ideas I’d love to hear them.

No. 1931365

>>1931349
Are you going to put it in an egg or is the thing the easter egg itself?

No. 1931367

>>1931365
Put the thing inside the Easter eggs. He makes everything so complicated by hating sweets

No. 1931424

>>1931367
Homemade energy balls that aren't sweet?

No. 1931431

>>1931367
Does he hate sweets or chocolate very different things, if he likes chocolate let me tell you about chocolate Easter eggs.

No. 1931434

idk if this belongs here, but does any nonnie have links to reliable male domestic abuse statistics? i feel like any time mras start reeing "buh MEN are abused too!" they're trying to make it out like women are abusing in the same way men abuse us. but the "1/7 men are abused by an intimate partner" number i've seen makes me feel like it's more male on male violence vs woman on male violence

No. 1931443

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DAE get hit with severe drowsiness while at work? Like really bad to the point where you can almost fall asleep while standing? It's such an issue for me that I can only work part time now, because when I worked full time I took 5 minute naps in the bathroom to cope. Caffeine doesn't help at all, it only makes me anxious and jittery.
I get 6-8 hours of sleep every night and wake up without an alarm clock at a consistent time every morning. This sudden drowsiness never happens to me on weekends or on my days off so I don't know what it is.

No. 1931445

>>1931055
I saw the solar eclipse in like 2015 and I'm still alive so

No. 1931453

>>1931443
>It's such an issue for me that I can only work part time now
Go to the doctor anon.

No. 1931462

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>>1931349
a thumbdrive containing a playlist of songs that you think your boyfriend would like, maybe spell out "I LOVE YOU BOYFNAME" with the first letter of each song (when you read it vertically). maybe record a little voice memo too of sentimentalities

No. 1931513

>>1930994
It's easy to return stuff to Shein online, just do it anon.

No. 1931641

does anyone know why alcohol is so egreiogusly bloating? I had like 5 drinks so far and after having a completely normal tummy all day suddenly its so distended i look like i'm like 6 months pregnant

No. 1931643

>>1931641
I think it has to do with the alcohol in the drinks

No. 1931648

>>1931643
i know and that definitely makes sense but if i drink 5 martinis i don't get bloated however if i drink 5 glasses of wine i look like i'm hiding something in my stomach. could it be because wine is sugarier?

No. 1931653

>>1931648
I'm not sure but I know wine is alcoholic and so is martinis so because of the alcohol it will perhaps make you bloat again I'm not 100% sure but I believe alcohol does cause bloating so both martinis and wine may bloat you

No. 1931654

Nonnies, what is your personal definition of confidence? I'm very curious. Sperg about if you want, I'd love to hear it.

No. 1931655

>>1931654
feeling comfortable and capable of being yourself or sharing yourself with others and the world without fearing for judgement in my mind is confidence

No. 1931671

Can you make omurice with normal rice or do you specifically need japanese rice?

No. 1931673

>>1931671
as long as it's sticky rice you're fine, you don't want the whole thing falling apart.

No. 1931675

>>1931654
Certainty in your actions and decisions.

No. 1931734

i was having a convo with a friend and she still hasn't answered but maybe one of u nonnas could. i asked her "if my situation doesnt bother me why should it bother u?". thats one thing i never understood w anyone ever. i want a genuine answer not a single person told me a plausible answer to this and I think I may know why some ppl do it but idk if it can apply to everyone so..

No. 1931737

>>1931734
I think it's a natural for humans to emotionally invest in an issue even if another person isn't fussed about it. If my friend was say, cheated on, and gave no shits I would be invested because they're my friend, I am emotionally invested in them and their wellbeing.

Now some situations are more serious than others granted but I think it's a natural human response, we are social creatures, how other people live is our concern as a species.

If they didn't wanna talk about it I would leave it though.

No. 1931738

>>1931734
They probably care about you, see a situation they'd hate to be in and project it onto you because they don't want you to feel bad or uncomfortable. It's from a good place even if it can be really annoying.

No. 1931739

>>1931734
We are a reflection of the friends we keep. So if you're my friend and you do something fucked up, that reflects on me too in a way. We are community based animals. It really just depends what the situation is in your context.

No. 1931775

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Why aren't murphy beds more popular? I'm looking at furniture right now and I always thought that the fold-out bed was a really genius idea for saving space. Are they unpopular for any real reason?

No. 1931784

>>1931775
Realistically what space are they saving you need to clear the same amount of area for a bed for it, do you bring out chairs during the day don't get it

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>>1931775
Well they're fatal in the sims and that's scared me off ever getting one

No. 1931805

>>1931790
Yeah but I thought sims was video games not real life? I don't think anybody died from the beds in real life unless not???

No. 1931811

>>1931805
There's been a few, where a guy was crushed by the bed folding up or two sisters who weren't crushed, but trapped in theirs for days, unable to get out and eventually dying. The spring on the murphy beds are so strong that most if not all sellers recommend you get pros to install them instead of doing it yourself and potentially getting killed.
I love the idea of a foldable space-saving bed but after reading a few articles, I don't want to gamble with something I'll be unconsciouss for a third of each day on. In my ideal future set up, I'll probably loft my bed and use the space under it as a reading nook or something, depending on the height I get from it.

No. 1931832

>>1931775
Might be because you have to install them. I know two people, one who had one pre-installed in her apartment and it saved a ton of space. My other friend went through weeks of hell having to pre-measure her room for the murphy bed, getting parts sent back and forth before installing it. It works fantastic since when she doesnt have guests over, she can put it away.
It only really works if you have the space for it, oddly enough. Installing it yourself can be a large task, but I do like them.

No. 1931945

Why does youtube have embarrassing adverts? They seem to think I'm at risk of dementia and always advertise that to me.

I was at a friends place playing board games and "GAY MEN ARE 12x MORE LIKELY TO GET HIV" came blaring from the TV, and he went all red. Why would youtube do this to people with targeted adverts?

No. 1931966

>>1931811
Anon take my advice and get a good loft made of wood with a decent latter. Measure how much you would like to sit up in the bed from your ceiling and how much room is acceptable to you sitting in a chair under the bed too. Hit my head so many times coming up from my desk.

No. 1931977

>>1931775
How does it save space though? You have to take out your bed every night, are you really going to re-arrange your room every morning and every night? Most people can't even be assed to make their bed every morning.

No. 1931983

>>1931945
to embarrass you of course

No. 1931997

>>1931966
Will do, anon, thanks for the advice!! The height/space division issue makes me keep revising ideas on what to do with it.
Maybe you can use cut-up pool noodles to cover the loft edges so it hurts less when you hit it? That sucks.
>>1931977
If you use the folded up space as an open area, you can cram the rest of the room with stuff, I think. A cramped room layout when your bed's unfolded isn't going to matter when you're sleeping, after all.

No. 1932088

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When is one supposed to wear knit sleeveless tops like picrel? I would imagine that they are way too warm for summer but sort of pointless in fall or spring since they are not warm enough?

No. 1932092

>>1932088
Depending on the fiber content they're not warm necessarily. Wool is actually cool in the summer. Cotton yarn is breathable so suitable for summer too.

No. 1932114

>>1932088
I think they would be good if you have to layer at an indoor/outdoor event, like a wedding or job in a building with AC.

No. 1932155

>>1932088
I would simply not bother, they look like a nightmare to wear.

No. 1932200

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trannyjannies didn’t bother gracing me with a reply so can someone explain how this post was supposed to be formatted? pretty please xoxo

No. 1932202

Is it still worth to get into a relationship even of I won't make it my priority?

No. 1932216

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why did i not really have a couple of dreams in the late years and suddenly i'm dreaming every day of the week?? wtf

No. 1932220

>>1932088
looks like a piece that is meant for layering and not to be worn on its own

No. 1932223

Can someone rec me non-greasy body sunscreens?

No. 1932224

>>1932200
Usually when you quote someone on imageboards you quote the post first like I'm doing to you right now and then write what you want under it. Example for your post specifically would go like this:

>>##

this is way funnier than this >>##

No. 1932225

>>1932224
I see… didn’t realize it was a rule

No. 1932228

>>1932225
It's not but I guess it's part of "integrating" tbh I see nothing wrong with your post

No. 1932230

>>1931775
Beds need to air out during the day. I’ve always thought Murphy beds are kinda ick for that reason.

No. 1932231

>>1932228
I looked in info and all it says for that section is how to quote posts. I also wasn’t really replying to anyone so I quoted them mid sentence because they were image-only posts… maybe they thought I was replying to someone?

No. 1932256

>>1932200
There is nothing wrong with the formatting. I've typed posts like this before when I want to compare between two posts like you did and I've been an imageboard user for more than a decade. Mods are fucking retarded.

No. 1932320

What reasons could there be for someone to live in another country with their non-native language for over 30 years, who works in an environment and has their immediate family (spouse and kids) that speaks the new language only, but still sounds like a first or second year ESLfag?

No. 1932322

>>1932320
Some people are bad at learning languages

No. 1932324

is pepsi better than coke?

No. 1932329

>>1932320
Most of their time is spent consuming content in their original language, they think learning another language would be against their culture, they spend most of their time conversing in their original language, they just can’t because of poor retention, they can’t because the flexibility of their tongue doesn’t allow for the necessary movement to make the sounds/their mouth has trouble forming necessary movements for the correct sounds

No. 1932333

>>1932324
Whichever is using cane sugar wins.

No. 1932334

>>1932329
It’s not even the accent, which she still also has. The big issues are using the wrong words constantly, having them in the wrong order, and often speaking partial sentences. She came here as a teen it’s been nearly 40 years.

No. 1932349

>>1932334
Wow! Maybe she doesn’t understand the sentence structure and is embarrassed to admit what a struggle it is? She’d probably benefit from some intensive 1 on 1 and people around her just gently correcting her but the only way she’ll improve is if she puts in the work. So lazy or busy mixed with embarrassed maybe? That’d be my guess.

No. 1932366

Is it worth being an exchange student in tokyo for 1 semester? My uni is offering it but I'm unsure

No. 1932371

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What are some signs that you will be fired?

No. 1932374

How do the anti-salt Ana chans survive? Do they secretly consume salt or what? Literally know an Ana-chan who thinks you can can get all your salt from fruits and vegetables. As someone with a medical condition that basically only requires me to eat kind of a high amount of salt to manage it, it just boggles my mind how they aren’t fainting left and right kek. When I struggled with ED I was a kimchi and pickle disposal.

No. 1932382

How exactly does weight gain work? Obviously eat too much > gain weight but when does the weight gain happen? The day after over-eating? The week after?

No. 1932395

>>1932374
They are fainting. If you have ED you tend to hide the negatives.

>>1932382
Barring other factors like a hormone condition and stuff like that, weight constantly fluctuates but if you eat in a caloric excess you will slowly gain depending on the excess but it's not as dramatic as immediately.
This also depends on how you've fed your body in the past, you'll gain weight more dramatically if your body is used to say 1500 cals and you start to eat 2500 for an extended period.

No. 1932400

>>1932374
Not an ana-chan but they have to be getting salt in their diet somewhere and just don't realize it otherwise they'd be passing out all the time from lack of electrolytes. The quest bars they all obsess over have 12% of your daily recommended sodium in them, or maybe they drink sugar free sports drinks too. I would say they're probably just lying though, not like ana-chans aren't well known for being cows kek

No. 1932404

>>1932324
diet pepsi is my goat

No. 1932405

>>1932324
Pepsi black/max gives me life.

No. 1932411

>>1932324
I like both

No. 1932449

>>1932324
Diet Coke is the only acceptable soda, along with Fresca.

No. 1932462

>>1932449
You’re so right nonna

No. 1932512

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What's the worst way or place for you to meet your future spouse? Personally, I'd hate it when I meet my husband at work. I keep work and private life separate lol

No. 1932532

How many cats can I have before I get into crazy cat lady territory? I'm thinking 3, anything upwards seems critical.

No. 1932533

>>1932512
A strip club. Imageboard. Trap house.

No. 1932539

>>1932512
Fully typed out a response because I thought this said "best place" to meet not "worst place" kek. I think the worst place to meet anybody would be on dating websites, I'd be so embarrassed about that personally

No. 1932548

>>1932512
Work and school is fine. Clubs, online, etc is a no go

No. 1932551

>>1932532
Three is the limit, and even it's kinda pushing it if you're a single person household or have a small apartment.

No. 1932552

>>1932532
Crazy cat lady is what happens when you neglect your cats. So long as they get along and you can feed, entertain and afford to take them to the vet, as-well as maintain litter hygiene and grooming needs for that many, you should be fine.

No. 1932558

>>1932512
I know several married couples who met on 4chan. that's gotta be the worst

No. 1932566

>>1932552
I don't know, people with more than three cats think they don't smell, but they really do. Plus their houses are always gross and there's fur all over their clothes. Something about people who collect cats and people who aren't clean freaks is a circle on a venn diagram. People with two or less cats usually aren't like this.

No. 1932575

>>1932566
Ayrt, oh I agree! I personally think 1 person per pet is the appropriate number but I can understand wanting multiple pets so long as you can maintain them. I think the litter logistics of more then 3 cats alone is enough to make it unrealistic and definitely crazy cat lady territory.

No. 1932586

>>1932512
My parents met at a strip club so probably that

No. 1932620

>>1932586
what? how? anon, please elaborate, I'm dying to know

No. 1932734

How do I market a self published Amazon book if i want ti remain anonymous? People say you have to use your social media to market it yourself but I don't have or want one but I want people to read it.
But would amazon ban it for hate speech if trannies figure out its critical of their cult? I'm not sure how to go about this.

No. 1932737

>>1932512
>I keep work and private life separate lol
Same, I don't even befriend my coworkers, if one of us leaves the company then it's over. I mostly work with women anyway so there's almost no way I'd fall for anyone in that context.

No. 1932778

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Anynonna seriously considered going vegan but ultimately decided against it? What were your reasons?

No. 1932782

>>1932778
I hate cooking meat but I like meat too much to stop consooming it entirely

And I like cheese and have yet to find any cheese substitution that actually mimics the taste

No. 1932784

>>1932782
Why did you wanna go vegan in the first place?

No. 1932792

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Hey Japan nonas, I'm traveling there for a week next year, and I'll be in Kyoto and Tokyo. Instead of buying a bunch of mass produced crap as souvenirs, I was kind of hoping to buy something handmade to support a local artisan. Do any of you have recommendations for shops to visit with things like that? Pic mostly unrelated.

No. 1932797

>>1932778
I hate meat but I love dairy, so veganism wasn’t for me

No. 1932832

>>1932778
I'm vegetarian and I've tried going vegan several times but I've always failed, mostly because of how bad vegan chocolate and vegan cheese is.

No. 1932848

>>1932778
i was vegetarian for a few years but i'm too much of a picky eater to be able to do it properly. and i love cheese too much, substitutes just dont compare.

No. 1932856

>>1932778
I knew somebody who went vegetarian for years because he didn't like his mom's meat dishes.
He stopped when she stopped slamming too much spices on food.

No. 1932884

>>1932778
Because vegetarian already and I don't think getting milked or honey stolen and whatnot is anywhere near the same level as getting slaughtered.

No. 1932917

>>1932884
I get the honey thing, but is the whole repeated rape and the fact that the baby male cows are still slaughtered not actually worse than just killing??

No. 1932945

If two biracial people with the same racial mix (Ex. Both half White half Asian) have a child, is the child also biracial? Not racebait but there’s a weird racial conversation about a particular actress and how she identifies.

No. 1932961

>>1932917
Going to have to admit I didn't know about that. It has to be a factory farming only thing?

No. 1932969

>>1932961
As far as I know any dairy producing farm has to do artificial insemination because otherwise the production of milk would be so low it wouldn’t be practical or profitable.

No. 1932988

>>1932917
I just feel like calling it rape dilutes what rape actually is, like when vegetarians act like animal rights is a feminist issue like yeah just call cows women and get on with it, we know what you mean.

No. 1932994

Would you rather take care of a very old dementia patient or a severely autistic child?

No. 1932999

>>1932988
It is rape though. They shove their arms down the cows ass, force open her cervix, and pump in semen. Female cows being used based on their biology has parallels to human females exploitation. Humans are more important, ofc but that doesn’t mean that the way female animals are treated isn’t insanely fucked up

No. 1933000

>>1932994
i would rather off myself

No. 1933049

>>1932994
Dementia patient, preferably one that I don't have a personal relationship with.

No. 1933050

>>1932586
I'm so glad I'm not you.

No. 1933053

>>1932994
Not to be awkward but It really depends on the individual. Some severe autistic kids are quite sweet but some dementia patients are violent and sexually abusive.

No. 1933148

I posted this to another thread, but I really need advice on this. i have noticed something strange with my stomach, i know nobody to ask about this so i post here. Top of my stomach to the left, just at the end of the ribs, has a weird stiffness/hardness compared to other regions of my stomach. I'm kinda fat and my stomach is usually soft due to it. This part feels like it's protruding. It's not new or temporary, I've noticed it a few months ago and thought it'll go away. Sorry english is not my first language, I can't express my problem well.

No. 1933179

>>1933148
A hernia most likely. It's part of your intestine that's protruding through a gap in your muscles.

No. 1933307

Reposting from vent thread
Help me, am I the asshole? Kek sorry for the weird reddit-like shit but I really need advice and I really need to vent. This will be kinda rambly sorry. My boyfriend has a cousin who for starters is a pisces male and he scares me. I'm scared of all social interactions but in particular he's intimidating to me. He insisted on wanting to get to know me (he sent such a long shitty message) so we made a group chat on discord. But it's like he never replies to me, only to my boyfriend. He replies to me very sparingly. So I got kinda upset and got in and out the group sometimes kek. But I really have issues with socialization and I don't know. Now he's kinda butthurt about that, we were supposed to play a game together so we could all bond but after I apologized for getting in and out the group he just was "no I won't play it" in private with my boyfriend. Am I insane? Probably. Sorry my explanation is so shitty I really don't know what's going on, I'm confused. Picture unrelated

No. 1933342

>>1933307
>judges someone by their star signs
>hope in and out of a group chat
I'm not saying you're the whole problem because I don't know if you have legit reasons to fear this guy beyond "he's a pisces!" but your immature behaviour is at least part of it.

No. 1933346

Any nonnas here have that weird strained sound to their voices??? Mine might be due to weight but man everytime I hear myself I sound like… idk. Breathy.. and like I'm trying too hard too hard to speak. To our own ears we sound nicer, naturally… but in any recordings I'm straight up like oh strange. I don't sound like a trannoid but definitely not too feminine

No. 1933348

>>1933346
I sound like a 13 yo boy who inhaled helium in recordings lol

No. 1933351

>>1933346
Yes and I barely have any weight so I don't even have a reason for mine kek. It also sounds low and nasaly like a stereotypical nerd sometimes.

No. 1933352

how do you think billy eichner is gonna die?

No. 1933354

>>1933346
>>1933348
Nona are you me, I have the same issue. My voice is not only strained but deep for a girl, so constantly online I get asked if I'm a woman or a little boy. I don't think it's that bad though since some people have told me they liked my voice or thought it was cool, so maybe someone likes your voice too and just hasn't said it

No. 1933377

>>1932792
Check out Instagram reels

No. 1933400

Is it worth being a vtuber if I'm attractive irl? I honestly think I'd be more successful using a webcam. The genre of game I play has very few female streamers, and the majority of them already are vtubers.

No. 1933416

>>1933400
In this day and age I would not recommend doing streaming shit with your face attached. Unless you’re very comfortable with moids either worshipping you or trying to make your life a living hell with deepfake shit 24/7

No. 1933419

>>1933400
If you’re hot and somewhat engaging it’s probably more standout to show your face. Need to have zero tolerance for moidshit chatters since day 1 cuz they will try to test boundaries with you. Plus all the associated risks >>1933416 mentioned. Vtubing is safer but harder and slower startup.

No. 1933424

>>1933307
>My boyfriend has a cousin who for starters is a pisces male
Stopped reading there, yea you're the asshole

No. 1933442

>>1933400
I love art and I like looking at vtuber designs so I feel like I should be the target audience but even I can't stand them. I'd just rather watch a real person. I don't mind if it's a real person with a cartoon avatar who rarely shows their face, but as soon as it enters actual vtuber territory with the acting and playing a character I'm out
>>1933424
seconding this

No. 1933483

>>1933307
i think it's just a mix of overthinking from your end and lack of communication from him… or atleast he isn't direct enough, atleast direct enough for you.. personally i wouldn't call either of you an asshole because your story is kind of confusing, it's hard to tell. but i do second what >>1933342 said, you come off as a wee bit immature and the mention of him being a pisces is irrelevant. hope you two do manage to talk and bond though, best of luck

No. 1933507

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Real talk: how much money can I actually make from an OnlyFans that solely posts feet pics?
I have 30k in student debt for an unfinished degree that can never be finished becasue the specialty school shut down. When I tried taking the credits to other places it went something like
>even though you were like 4 classes from graduating with a bachelors we can only give you like 2 credits in an art degree and you'll have to retake the non-art classes
And it's been like almost 11 years, I'm not getting a job in the industry, and Google said I can ask for student loan forgiveness if I hadn't attended the school in 1 year before the shutdown.

No. 1933508

>>1933507
>I cannot* ask student loan forgiveness

No. 1933520

>>1933507
It’s super over saturated rn anon. Girls aren’t really making much going full porn route on there. From what I can tell you need an established audience. That said not showing face at all would be smart and it could be supplementary income so I guess the question is… how sexy are your feet?

No. 1933525

>>1933520
Thank you for answering me truthfully, I don't even know how sexy my feet are it not my fetish and I always wear socks anyway

No. 1933535

>>1933507
>Because the specialty school shut down.
Honestly, you should talk to a lawyer. Not even joking. That's what lawyers are for.

Go and pay for a consultation with one or perhaps even two who have some measure of professional expertise in the area and then see what they say. The thing with debt of this type in situations like yours is that it's probably going to be less expensive to challenge it in court than to pay it back lmao.

No. 1933544

nonas, is it unprofessional to wear headphones (over the ear, a little bulky but not like a gaming headset or anything) during a virtual interview? i'd like to wear them compared to my earbuds because i wanna use noise-cancelling during it but i don't want to come across as juvenile.

No. 1933548

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>>1933544
actually i might as well post a pic they're basically picrel but in black

No. 1933598

>>1932586
so a gay couple, right?

No. 1933720

>>1930010
Doll Scans on Flickr has a lot uploaded
https://www.flickr.com/photos/197199841@N08/
I think it's mostly ads/magazines but it looks like there's a good amount of the posters you're looking for

No. 1934232

>>1933548
Those ones come across as noise cancelling specifically for autists, so if you have that and this meeting is to prove it, go ahead.

No. 1934263

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How do I prevent this?

No. 1934268

Do cows (literal ones) feel violated when they get milked?

No. 1934272

>>1934263
Are you 50 years old?

No. 1934274

>>1934268
No they like it, it's like imaging if you have a really itchy spot on your back and someone scratches it. Cows are our friends and they feel happy knowing we enjoy their milk and make products like cheese and butter with it. When you milk a cow, it's actually good karmic action for your soul and the apparent soul of the cow. Remember Lamentations 4:7.

No. 1934275

>>1934268
Apparently cows understand when they need milked and will return for it of their own volition. Just read that some dairy farms have milking stations the cows can just come up and use as they want

No. 1934278

>>1934263
Wear clothes

No. 1934279

>>1934263
if you always sit up straight, stand straight when you walk, and exercise into old age you shouldn't have to worry

No. 1934283

>>1934268
They enjoy it. It's actually proven to be beneficial for both us and the cows. Fresh cows milk is really delicious too

No. 1934284

>>1934263
The third image is how gen z teenagers look now

No. 1934325

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Does anyone have recs of very well written VNs? I am currently reading Higurashi. I don't mind if they are NSFW/Porn as long as they have good stories.

No. 1934328

My shoes have fake fur inside, I've had them for less than a year now but they smell so nasty. I've always worn socks in them but they're still disgusting, is there a way to clean them from the inside or just make the smell disappear? It's fake suede with fake fur lining, I don't think they'd survive the washing machine.

No. 1934329

>>1934263
Back and core exercises, and spinal mobility exercises. Doing weights will help build and maintain your bone density.

No. 1934337

>>1934328
Baking soda

No. 1934345

>>1934328
Maybe antibacterial Febreeze?

No. 1934369

>>1934325
428: Shibuya Scramble don't miss it it's underrated. It's on a lot of platforms (but I played it on ps3 and should make no difference).

0 porn content

No. 1934372

>>1934345
Febreeze is cancer

No. 1934378

>>1934372
No it isn't it's actually smell really good so?

No. 1934386

>>1934372
Everything is cancer, get over it and don’t be a doomer.

No. 1934387

>>1934386
Febreeze causes asthma.

No. 1934389

Why are there so many reality TV shows about people with dwarfism (ex. Little Women LA, Little People Big World, The Little Johnstons, Big Little Johnstons etc)? And they are all spread out over about 20 years from each other so it wasn't just a TV trend like Amish TV shows.

No. 1934391

>>1934389
kek i meant Big Little Brawlers

No. 1934392

>>1934387
So do genetics? Idk I’ve had asthma since infancy and don’t necessarily like the smell of febreeze but never saw any correlation between it and my asthma symptoms. Heavy scents can bother asthmatics but they don’t cause asthma. Stop being a doomer.

No. 1934393

>>1934389
Well they're quite entertaining a lot of them are born performers

No. 1934396

Has anyone worked at McDonald’s? I’m desperate for a job and have no work experience. Will they even consider me?

No. 1934399

>>1934396
I have friends who have had it as their first job. One of my friends hated it because she couldn't handle dealing with customers and my other friend thought it was extremely easy retard-proof money. So it might just come down to the store you work at and if it will be a nightmare. Because it is fast-food I wouldn't try to rely on getting consistent hours.

No. 1934400

>>1934389
cause its funny how they all have identical sloth from the goonies faces

No. 1934404

>>1934399
Thanks. I really hope they don’t just ignore my application like everywhere else has.

No. 1934407

>>1934396
From experience with a different fast food place, as a woman you'll be likelier to be put up front which is horrible compared to the back where it's nice and comfy and you don't have to talk to anybody.

No. 1934411

>>1934407
Damn. I’m ugly and don’t want to be seen but I really don’t have a choice.

No. 1934414

>>1934411
See if there are any kind of warehouse jobs like amazon near you if you don't want to be seen and need an intro job.

No. 1934435

>>1934414
There is an Amazon warehouse here but it’s across the city and apparently quite competitive to get a job there because it pays better than most places. Unfortunately I’m not physically healthy enough to work such a physical job anyway. I did apply for a hotel housekeeping job though because it seems less demanding.

No. 1934483

Is it creepy to make almost 'character profile' type sheets for all my friends on my website that lists their birthdays, how we met, likes and dislikes, personality etc? I'm pretty forgetful and it would be nice to have a memoir of all my friends like that.

No. 1934485

>>1934483
Nah just do it

No. 1934510

nurse or medical anons, I'm freaking out, I went to get a blood test and she stuck the needle in my arm but I had no blood so she took it out and straight away put it back in like 2cm to the right. I've read that it is so dangerous to reuse needles so I'm literally freaking out, is this normal?
She wasn't able to get enough blood so she tried the other arm but this time she changed the needle, so why didn't she do it on the first arm? help

No. 1934512

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How to get over a crush on an ugly moid? I have to see him every day.

No. 1934516

>>1934414
Nta but avoid Amazon like the plague, you end up just ruining your resume since they fire so quickly. During COVID they were offering huge "sign on bonuses" just to fire workers before they would qualify to receive their bonus

No. 1934518

>>1934510
Not in the medical field but I have regular blood tests. Idk what standard procedure is but when I’ve been restuck for either blood draws or IVs they generally reuse the same needle. She likely used a new one for the other arm because it clogged (I think that’s a thing?) or she switched gauges. You’re fine.

No. 1934565

Where's the cheapest place I can buy a HUGE tin of moisturizer. Like a gallon . So I can moisturize my entire body every day?? I'm sick of my Costco moisturizer lasting only a week. I need more.

No. 1934569

>>1934565
Walmart probably? Kinda sounds like you need a better moisturizer or try applying it to damp skin. You won’t need as much and it’ll help lock in moisture. A lot of cheaper ones have alcohol to help it dry faster but it’ll also dry you out so avoid those. I personally love cerave (they usually have it at Costco) and a little goes a long way but I’m not a full body moisturizing kinda person.

No. 1934597

If my weight loss plateaued for 6 months, despite me increasing excersise and reducing calories, does that mean I've reached my set point weight?

No. 1934602

>>1934597
No. Set point theory is bogus. Our bodies do try to maintain equilibrium but there’s no ‘set point’. I used to be obese and when I’d plateau increasing my calories for a few days or even a week somehow helped.

No. 1934627

Does anyone have any (adult) half siblings here? Is it weird for a half-sibling to only talk to the parent you share, never the rest of your family? And for your parent to also never make any real efforts to introduce your families to each other?

No. 1934633

>>1934325
Agree with what the other anon wrote. 428: Shibuya Scramble is a great mystery VN and legitimately funny. I'll also throw in Raging Loop if you want something similar to Higurashi in atmosphere that also doesn't have 18+ content (the ending is genuinely stupid, though, but it's a fun ride). Hashihime of the Old Book Town is a solid mystery VN with one of the best-written protagonists I've encountered in the medium. There's a release on Switch without 18+ content, but the Steam version does contain it.

No. 1934687

>>1934627
I have a step sister and she's never made any effort to get to know the rest of my biological family. I don't think it's weird, they're not related to her, only my dad is and she talks to him.
That said, we do have an age difference of 10+ years so we barely talk to each other either. Maybe if we were closer the situation would be different.

No. 1935027

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Is it normal for your partner to grope you without permission? My ex used to do this a lot and I just laughed it off because I didn't know how to tell him to stop even though I was uncomfortable

No. 1935031

>>1935027
My boyfriend likes to grab my butt when we're chilling together and it's fine with me. If it made you uncomfortable you need to say something. It doesn't matter if it's "normal", listen to your fucking body and feelings and stand up and say you don't like it and cut that shit out.

No. 1935032

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No. 1935053

>>1934512
If you have a photo of him, place a photo of him next to one of you and compare how you guys look. If he’s strikingly ugly compared to you, then it should feel embarrassing and kill your attraction. If that doesn’t work then compare yourselves to random couples and celebrities to see who you’re actually matched with lookswise. Also Imagine how he’d age over time, do you want to see him get progressively uglier every year? You could be cherishing your time with someone who looks better, and for longer.

No. 1935058

>>1935027
My ex bf used to do this even though it made me uncomfortable. Like it wasn’t even that he was trying to get me in the mood, it felt like he just wanted to humiliate me and objectify my body parts. Dumping him was the best decision ever

No. 1935070

>>1935032
This image should be banned for the purpose of how many times I've seen it on posts not even close to bait

No. 1935071

Is it possible with enough perseverance, persistence and staying true to yourself, to convince men that you are human too?

No. 1935073


No. 1935075

>>1935071
Let's say yes. Is it even worth it? Let's assume with a shit ton of work you would achieve such and then you get to enjoy the proxy nlog begin. They will still objectify and mistreat other women and even tell you openly about it. What's the point?

No. 1935085

>>1934627
i have an older half-sister although she was adopted. i think my mom occasionally talks to her but definitely not very often. i dont think its weird because she has her own family and didnt even know us until she was already an adult. i have her on facebook but we haven't spoken since the first time we met years ago when i was a kid.

No. 1935099

>>1934633
How have you gotten to the ending of raging loop and said no 18+ content? Sure there's no nudity but a porn rotted brain wrote some of that ending stuff

No. 1935101

>>1935071
No one can ever really understand each other, whether you try to befriend a man or a woman.
Whether or not other people see you as human, secretly hate you, or see you as an npc, you just got to keep living and that means trying to communicate despite it all.

No. 1935177

>>1935101
Men especially don't see you as human.

No. 1935217

How do I fix lolcow being mirrored if it happens again? I heard people complaining about it some time ago but didn't bother to read the solution lol

No. 1935278

>>1935217
kek doesn't that mean you're banned?

No. 1935283

>>1935217
Clear your cache, that's what admins said to do iirc.

No. 1935391

Anyone here who was previously anemic? Did you notice a difference in your memory retention and cognitive functions overall when you were no longer anemic?

No. 1935400

>>1935391
Yes, when I was anemic and had B12 defficiency I had brain fog, fatigue, would sleep 10 hours everyday yet I felt like I had no energy, I didn't retain info no matter how many times I read a text, reading comprehension was at its lowest, I also had permanent blank page syndrome (awful to do exams), would constantly forget casual things despite always having had a good memory, I was unmotivated and unable to focus, I hardly ever used my inner monologue, etc… I've improved and recovered completely with a better diet, excercise and some suplements.

No. 1935413

>>1935400
I see, thanks for sharing. That gives me some ensurance.

No. 1935445

>>1935413
Ah! Forgot to say that you need to work on your mental health too. Even if a bloodtest confirms that you're not anemic anymore and your vitamins are alright you should work to overcome the habits and tics your prior mental state made you used to.

No. 1935467

>>1935099
AYRT but I suppose I could have said, "there's no explicit content." This feels like a nit-picky comment, though, as most people who have been exposed to the medium would understand what is intended when someone says there is no 18+ content in reference to a VN. Ultimately, even if you dislike the writing of the ending (as I do, too), there's still a stark difference between that and more explicit games which comprise the medium. Raging Loop is sold on consoles without censorship, which I can't say for other horror titles like Saya no Uta or Subahibi. I agree the themes discussed in the ending were gross and unnecessary, and it did slightly sour the overall very positive experience I had, but I don't agree with putting it in the same category as proper 18+ VNs, as it would be extremely misleading to do so. I hope this answers your question.

No. 1935516

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Is there a plastic surgery to fix nipperonis? It must be a fairly simple and cheap procedure. What is it even called? Is it a good starting point to get men hooked on surgeries? I think it could be the first step to introcing the idea for a boyfriend

No. 1935529

>>1935467
Yeah sure I get you, thanks for the response, I agree that it was nowhere near as explicit as 18+ VN's, probably didn't help how jaaring the more "horny" elements were compared to a rest of a very good VN.

No. 1935569

Do you still use conventional forums (personal account, profile pic, private messages…)? Reddit doesn't count

No. 1935587

>>1935516
They sometimes reshape the nipples during breast lifts/implants and mastectomies. But they never really look natural to me, like they always kinda look like they're cut out. At least from what I've seen.

No. 1935591

>>1935516
i like big nipples on men, they look uncanny with small ones or none at all

No. 1935635

>>1935591
Nta but honestly I don't really like it on my make partners because it looks like they're about to lactate. Besides, I have enough areola for the both of us.

No. 1935637

>>1935569
No but I sometimes wish I did. I found an okay community the last time I did (in the 2010s)

No. 1935644

>>1935516
I'd like to get it done on myself because mine are huge and I absolutely hate them. But I've seen the pictures of tifs after their titchops and the nipples look horrifying so I'll just have to live with them

No. 1935767

why am i hungrier after eating a burger than before? shouldn't it be the other way around?

No. 1935770

>>1935767
did you eat it super fast? if not then maybe you could just still be hungry, our bodies burn a lot of calories in a day just existing

No. 1935772

>>1935767
Maybe your stomach expanded to make room too fast?

No. 1935776

My bladder always needs to pee when I enter the shower even if I peed just moments before. Is this normal? I feel like the warm music soothes my muscles somehow and lets the pee pass faster than normal maybe?

No. 1935777

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>>1935516
as a nipperoni baddie this is how i feel right now

No. 1935784

>>1935767
Eating delicious food tends to make me immediately crave more delicious food, just because it reminded me how enjoyable eating is. It's not physical hunger though.

No. 1935785

How do you guys say lolcow in your head? L-O-L cow or lulcow?

No. 1935786

>>1935785
i say lahlcow

No. 1935789

>>1935784
i keep getting the physical hunger symptoms though instead of cravings. like when i don't feel like eating at all suddenly my stomach growls and feels empty.

No. 1935791

>>1935789
eat some more food nonnie the burger probably just wasn't enough to meet your caloric needs

No. 1935794

I accidentally punched myself in the eye trying to take an aluminum seal off my cat's food and I'm almost certain I'll have a blackeye tomorrow. Wtf should I do to try to cover this up? I have work tomorrow and I don't want people to think I'm being beaten lol

No. 1935801


No. 1935802

Is it stupid and weird to slip a guy a note with my name and contact on it?

No. 1935805

Do Jesus Christ husbandofags exist? Like women that unironically imagine them being together.

No. 1935807

>>1935794
Concealer.

No. 1935813


No. 1935816

>>1935805
i've never encountered one but they have to

No. 1935842

>>1935802
I don't think it's weird. Go for it.

No. 1935876

Is it still grape if he lost his erection in the midst of it?(grape)

No. 1935889

>>1935876
>grape
go back

No. 1935896

>>1935876
How small is he if he can lose his dick inside of a fruit

No. 1935900

>>1935805
I honestly think there must have been some nuns back in the day who just became nuns because they had the hots for jesus

No. 1935901

>>1935794
Just explain what happened. I used to do martial arts and would come to work covered in big bruises and it's not that big of a deal

No. 1935907

>>1935644
Areola reduction surgery (often done in combo with other surgery, such as a breast lift) isn't the same as a troon mastectomy though. I had it done and I kid you not when I say the surgeons discussed tifs getting surgery while operating on me. They said they preferred doing this method to the one they did on "gender dysphoric patients" because that other method looked so much worse lol

No. 1935912

>>1935896
Rape. If he goes soft/limp is it actually rape?

No. 1935915

>>1935805
I had a month were I was something like that. It was mostly sexual but I think he would make the best husband because he is the perfect man. does not watch porn does not ogle other women, nice to animals and children, not misogynistic, charitable and compassionate etc etc

No. 1935923

>>1935889
i think this might be a moid trying to justify his raping of someone.

No. 1935930

How do I know if I am a good singer?

No. 1935953

>>1935912
Yea it is. Lots of rapists have trouble maintaining an erection throughout the attack because they’re often extremely sexually dysfunctional with porn addictions. That’s why they often get charged with multiple counts of rape. They lose their erection, make some effort to regain it and then continue the rape. I read a whole book about it called Evil Desire written by an ex cop. It is definitely still rape.

No. 1935955

>>1935923
Or it’s a woman who is unsure if she can call her rape a rape. Either way it is still rape. If he fails entirely to get an erection then it’s an attempted rape or a serious sexual assault. Either way, rapist.

No. 1935957

>>1935058
Yeah all my exes did random little things just to humiliate me. Groping being the main offence. One ex would call me while out drunk with his friends and start talking dirty in front of all of them to make them laugh at my expense. Start asking if he could fuck me in the ass. A little cheeky butt slap can feel flirty rather than degrading but after a while they’ll go out of their way to make it as degrading as humanely possible. Vast majority of men really fucking hate women, yet they are totally fixated and obsessed by them.

No. 1935959


No. 1935971

>>1935930
Record yourself and listen to your own voice. Listen again after a few days. Share your recordings with someone who has studied singing and ask for opinions.

No. 1935982

>>1935915
Stop making me crush on Jesus, nona

No. 1936002

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Do all tablet computers have this kinda Google search thingy? I've seen Android tablets and Apple tablets and so far each I've interacted with had one. Can you deactivate it?

No. 1936040

>>1936002
it's a widget, you can remove it.

No. 1936080

>>1935805
Of course they do, many hardcore religious women are basically jesus husbandofags. Read a bit about famous female saints, they took their husbandofagging to the next level. OG yoomers.

No. 1936152

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>>1936080
Jesus was so fuckable
>ripped
>handsome
>a carpenter (practical and good with his hands)
>great head of hair
>great public speaker
>charismatic
>generous
>respected his mother
The Romans put him on a cross because they were jealous. He’s hot and charming and he knows how to treat a lady.

No. 1936200

what even constitutes as bait now? is it just anything that upsets anyone?

No. 1936225

>>1936200
Stop triggering me, shitlord!

No. 1936241

>>1936225
This is probably the ban evading scrote that has been larping as a tradwife in the confessions thread.

No. 1936261

>>1936200
Bait? My mother was killed in a fishing accident you fuck

No. 1936381

why do they encourage mothers to chew on ice during labor? that doesn’t sound like it would ease the pain

No. 1936386

>>1936381
cause cronch

No. 1936402

>>1936381
They encourage them to do all sorts of shit. Everyone thinks they’re an expert. I’ve never heard chew ice but I’ve heard lots of other dumb stuff from having sex, to eating spicy food, to smoking weed.

No. 1936425

>>1936381
I haven't heard of it being encouraged. If a pregnant woman craves ice then she may have pica.

No. 1936460

>>1936425
Or be iron deficient.

No. 1936462

Was there a thread on this board or maybe /m/ where anons were talking about what irl celebrities they've met? If so, anyone know the link?
Idc if most of it is creative writing I just need it for reasons

No. 1936470

>>1936462
I remember that thread, it was on this board but I forgot the title

No. 1936474

>>1935805
I am, pretty much. And I'm not a christian (or conventionally religious). To be fair, I only really crush after his hellenic depictions, because those are the ones I've seen the most throughout my life obviously. But a big part is his personality too - if the things that were written about him were even mostly true, he's a genuinely nice guy, esp for the time. Another reason is that I have a femdom kink and there a bunch of depictions of him being bloody and hurt etc. Plus he's in a loincloth for a considerable amount of time, kind of compounds on that. I dont feel great about it but he did say he died for my sins, including weird religious femdom thing so i could potentially go to heaven.
Anyways I dont really imagine us having sex together because honestly it isn't his personality kek. Maybe us hugging in Christian heaven. I just kinda freak it to the lashings, for example. I'm a little surprised more non-Xtian women don't have crushes on Jesus, he's literally perfect.

No. 1936494

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Does anyone have any recommendations for alternatives to this? I love it but it's not easy to get where I live.

No. 1936500

Are mochi ice creams a thing in Japan?

No. 1936504

I wonder why there aren't almost any farmers don't want to shoutout lolcow or ever associate directly with the site. I mean, I get why but IP2 moids aren't afraid to shoutout IP2 in public.

No. 1936507

>>1936504
Probably because we don’t want to bring newfags who won’t integrate to lolcow. What is IP2?

No. 1936510

>>1936500
Yes, I think Lotte yukimi daifuku came first ?

>>1936504
we need to keep the barbarians out

No. 1936521

>>1936500
They have squid and wasabi icecream. ofc they have mochi

No. 1936524

>>1936504
Rules 1 and 2 faggot

No. 1936545

>>1936504
It's like how people don't like illegal immigrants coming into their countries. We don't want cringe newfags coming here.
If it is written in your fate to become a farmer, you shall find lolcow. No need to advertise it

No. 1936582

>>1936504
Because we already get raided with gore and cp by moids as is and loads of newfags coming in just changes board culture. LC is at it's best being niche and little known.

No. 1936594

>>1936545
>>1936582
You have a point but I still think it would be funny to get someone to shoutout lolcow. Danny Brown, Tan Mom, Felony Charles and Andy Dick have shouted out IP2. But yeah, board culture and IP2 culture are different. Interacting with the cows is not bannable there but in here it is. They even encourage people to egg streamers sometimes.

No. 1936596

>>1936594
bouncing bouncing vodka andy diiiiick!

No. 1936597

What is it about Sydney Sweeney that makes anons hate her so viciously? What has she actually done to warrant the hate, and why is all the critism about her tits or face and not her actions?

No. 1936601

>>1936597
Because she’s a Stacey and that makes some anons seethe

No. 1936602

>>1936504
It’s embarrassing. People should go back to having shame. Like how men used to hide their porno mags in the woods.

No. 1936603

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>>1936494
This shit is so good

No. 1936604

>>1936597
She’s the newest target of ire in the celebricows thread. They got bored of shitting on Florence Pugh. Before that it was Anya Taylor Joy. It’s been Cillian Murphy for a while but he deserves it.

No. 1936605

why cant we just have a good time

No. 1936606

>>1936602
Some IP2 soliders are brave. One of them pressed Slightly Homeless (a pedophile) in public today. I respect that.

No. 1936607

>>1936604
Eww god you just reminded me of Flo. Why.

No. 1936610

>>1936607
I like her acting but her fashion is atrocious.

No. 1936612

>>1936603
I've heard of this stuff before but never tried. What's the best way to have it? For dipping like ketchup, or do you cook it into things like with black bean sauce?

No. 1936614

>>1936612
The best way? Put it on literally everything. You can use it like regular hot sauce. I put it on anything from dishes to sandwiches. I could eat it straight from the jar, it's like crack to me.

No. 1936622

>>1936603
Thank you, I've seen this locally so I will give it a try.

>>1936612
I love having it on roast duck and roast pork. Just open the jar and spoon it over cooked meat. It's incredibly addictive.

No. 1936636

>>1936614
>>1936622
Damn, you both have convinced me. I'll go out and buy it first thing tomorrow!

No. 1936676

>>1936605
because there's always a monkey wrench

No. 1936677

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Why do I always get a sore throat if I stay up late???

I don't feel sick otherwise and it's only if I stay up "too" late. (like 1-2h past my regular bed time) It feels just like when you're about to get a cold and your throat hurts. If I sleep a normal amount it's gone in the morning and I feel fine all day until just before bed again. If I don't sleep enough it kinda lingers tho.

When I try to look it up all the results just tell me about feeling sick when waking up, becasue you've been lying down for so long or something but that clearly isn't the issue as this only happen before I go to bed, and lying down to sleep seems to be the cure. I'm scared I really am mildly sick with something that could get worse since I wasn't always like this.

No. 1936680

>>1936677
It could be because you're sleeping with your mouth open.

No. 1936681

>>1936680
How does that make sense? I only get a sore throat before sleeping but am fine after sleeping…

No. 1936682

>>1936681
My mistake, I misread your post.

No. 1936697

So nigel means nicest guy who ever lived or something like that right? So why is it that when nonas talk about nigels, they're always their boyfriends? Can't it be a dad or brother?

No. 1936707

>>1936697
stupid answer, but I always think of it as referring to nigel thornberry…

No. 1936710

>>1936697
I thought that Nigel was some british guy who was someones bf and then other british women for some reason too started calling their bf nigel and then it somehow spread to lc.

No. 1936714

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Why is anime so allergic to having cute, normal non-fetishy lesbian relationships and always force the obvious female love interest with the main male character? So fucking annoying

No. 1936721

>>1936714
G Witch doesn't count? I saw it and I didn't think any point was fetishy.

No. 1936725

>>1936677
it could be stress

No. 1936726

>>1936697
Nigel is a pretty old term, i think i saw it mentioned in a Sheila Jeffreys essay from the 70s. It's got to be of UK origin obviously.
I really do think it's because Nigel was a common male name in the UK back in the day, so many women had them as bfs, so eventually someone got sick of that and thought of the acronym "NIcest Guy who Ever Lived".

No. 1936727

>>1936726
samefag, *sick of the women bragging about their boyfriends.

No. 1936728

>>1936726
thats clever kek

No. 1936729

>>1936726
>NIcest Guy who Ever Lived".
Kekkk so true

No. 1936731


No. 1936738

Does stealing personality traits from real people work? Like those guys from 4chan who pretend to be the guy from Drive, only with real people.

No. 1936741

>>1936738
I suppose you could take bits and pieces from them, but to copy and paste the entire personality is pathetic and you wouldn't be able to keep it up long term

No. 1936742

>>1936697
>>1936707
>>1936710
How quickly we forget the origins of things. Nigel only meant boyfriend, it's not a term for a guy who is nice. We use Nigel as a term because a feminist once posted (I think on tumblr) an observation that women will talk about the patriarchy and how evil it is and how we should castrate rapists, but when you point out that their boyfriend is upholding the patriarchy, they would rebuff it by claiming their man is different. And in the post, she used the term "Not my nigel." So women started using that phrase to mock woman who defended their bad boyfriends like that. And later women started using it as shorthand for boyfriend.

No. 1936743

>>1936738
What such mimicry is supposed to accomplish?

No. 1936744

>>1936741
Yeah, I wasn't going to go the autism route kek

>>1936743
improving my personality

No. 1936751

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is there a fun mobile phone game to learn and practice math? i want to stop being tarded

No. 1936754

>>1936751
What is that stickman looking at

No. 1936761

My parents, my dad especially has never given me money. I’m an adult and I don’t really expect them to and I would never ask, but sometimes it bums me out how they have never chipped in when I got accepted into an art school and I needed 1k, I was 19 and working $11 p/h while paying $500 a month to live with them. I had to push back driving lessons for years because I couldn’t afford to pay + other costs of living. My parents are by no means rich but they were willing to give my sister $8k when she was past rent and getting threatened with eviction, but they couldn’t pay for my driving lessons or art school?
Idk this isn’t supposed to be a vent or anything, but do your parents ever give you money? do you expect them to?
Also I know now at 28 art school probably would have gotten me nowhere, but I would have been proud to mention that I at least attended. I have no other accomplishments.

No. 1936770

>>1936754
a salad chopper i think

No. 1936777

>>1936761
My parents are too bad with money to give me money.
They do give me 100-300 dollars if I ask, I feel too guilty to ask for more than that, but I got to tell them like, a day in advance.
I do do work they'd normally be forced to pay 20 dollars an hour for though so I'm just being emotional.

No. 1936778

>>1936751
brilliant?

No. 1936783

>>1936761
My dad gives me lots despite me being an unapologetic neet with a temper.

No. 1936798

>>1936761
Sounds like your sister was in a bind and they didn't want her back home.

No. 1936801

What makes moids dress so sloppy now compared to pre-1970s? I feel like I saw this on here a few days ago but I really don't get how stained sweatpants became acceptable.

No. 1936803

>>1936801
Why are women in literal pantyhose pulled up over their tits and pajama sets outside. Men and women both dgaf

No. 1936805

>>1936761
If your parents are well off and you are a decent kid (ie not a deadbeat leeching off them), they 100% should give you money imo. wtf is the point of having kids if not to give them a good life? They bring you into this world, they owe it to you. I don't want to have kids partially because I hate working and I'd feel obligated to keep working and give my kids as much as possible because that's my responsibility.

My parents are perfectly happy to spend money on me, my dad's attitude is that the money means nothing to him and everything to me (because he's a lot richer than I am) so why wouldn't he shout me lunch or give me a lot of birthday money or whatever.

No. 1936827

>>1936801
I'd guess because of bullshit about male loneliness and male beauty standards and other nonsense they cobbled together from poorly understand feminist concepts which they use to play victim and as an excuse to make more effort. Before this toxic masculinity shit took off in the 21st century, men made more effort with their appearance. If you ask your mother about her celebrity crushes from when she young (before men appropriated feminism to whine about how hard men have it under patriarchy) she'll probably reply with like Duran Duran or Jimi Hendrix or one of the many other male celebrities that made a great effort with their appearances instead of just throwing on the most boring suit imaginable for occasions and low effort clothing the rest of the time. And for normal men it's even worse because they're not even trying to be bare minimum presentable, so why would they care if their sweatpants get a hole?

No. 1936849

>>1936801
because muh gay

No. 1936853

>>1936751
iphone calculator

No. 1936860

>>1936761
>anons having rich parents

What the fuck is this phenomenon of anons saying they have rich parents and are NEETs??

No. 1936872

>>1936860
Its like three people and they never leave and want to obershare all the time

No. 1936928

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>>1936801
Steady decline of formal clothing practices throughout the 20th century, then 1960s postmodernism have fundamentally changed the way we dress, by the 1970s it was already set in. 2000s fast fashion, which made the quality of clothes worse and worse with years. During 2010s specifically people started to place more value on "comfort" above anything else, you'll be sticking out and made fun of for "caring too much" now kek
This decline is both sexes problem btw, as this anon point out >>1936803 KEK. Men always cared a lot less, of course, they'd be shamed more back then for looking unbecoming though. Sometimes i also feel as if now the gap between women taking care of themselves and men not doing so is even bigger than historically, but i can't tell if it's the case for sure.

No. 1936966

What is the dumbest thing you consistently see nonnas getting butthurt over?

No. 1936970

>>1936966
This is just begging for an infight anon

No. 1937002

>>1936801
moids think looking like slobs makes them look cool and uncaring like their doomer wojacks.

No. 1937004

>>1936860
autism

No. 1937070

>>1936677
I know what you're talking about. The back of my mouth gets a little drooly as well, and if I stay up too late the discomfort and drool will then make it impossible to fall asleep.

No. 1937082

>>1936928
It does really feel like there's some vendetta against formal clothing for males unless they can swing it as something 'alpha'.
Going to a wedding? Not alpha, may have to force him into being formal.
Memeing in a primarily racist/sexist/homophobic way? Might wear a suit to do a cute lil nazi photoshoot with the boys.
Obviously not for every male just the extremes but there is a clear gap, even in certain asian countries where women clearly put more effort into everyday clothes, the males don't.

No. 1937266

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Does your guys mouth also feel sore after eating prawn chips? I've been eating prawns and tapioka flour no problem all my life, so I don't think I'm allergic to the ingredients, but if I eat more than like five or six pieces I always feel like having glass shards stuck in my mouth, no matter the brand doesn't mean it's stopping me though.

No. 1937277

how do you stop yourself from crying or tearing up out of frustration/anger in front of other people?

No. 1937288

>>1937277
Try pinching the skin between your thumb and index finger with your nails

No. 1937290

>>1937266
A glass shard feeling is an allergic reaction, could be from a chemical reaction that takes place in the process of making them into crackers perhaps.

No. 1937320

>>1937266
yeah i think it's just the texture, with how dry they are.

No. 1937323

>>1937277
It depends on what you need. I usually look at my phone and distract myself. Sometimes I'll excuse myself and splash myself with cold water. Sometimes i just need a glass of water or a snack because I'm hangry. If it's people I'll never see again though, like in the subway or in public, I might just let it out, esp if it's crazy PMS and my mental state gets super volatile.
I try box breathing sometimes, or listen to positive music and breathe to the beat – that also helps if you get paranoid while high.
Lastly, stopping yourself from crying takes a lot of practice! Eventually you'll build up an inventory of things to tell yourself/things to do before you cry.

No. 1937361

>>1937288
>>1937323
thank you nonas!

No. 1937413

Have you nonas been sick lately/are you sick right now?

No. 1937416

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>>1937413
yeah i've been sick. sick of living

No. 1937450

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>>1937413
been having bad headeaches this week

No. 1937638

So I'm supposed to go on a two day trip for a class tomorrow but I don't want to go anymore. Should I just say I'm not going and give no reason or should I lie and say I'm not feeling well? Does that sound plausible? I want to attend classes on wednesday, it's a very small class and I'm friendly with the teachers so I want to sound plausible/believeable.

No. 1937707

What formula (or algebraic sign?) do I use again if I wanna keep multiplying the same number with its own result? Like, if I wanted to calculate 2x2=4x2=8x2=16x2=32x2=64 and so on.
t. mathematically challenged

No. 1937709

Is it possible to find a bf after hs/university out in the wild and not on dating apps? Feels like it's pure luck: you are either lucky enough to be put into a class for hs/choose your major classes for uni the same as your potential bf, or you're not. And some just aren't. Aside from that, having your first relationship experience when you're already at work/with a coworker, already in your mid-late 20s, doesn't feel very ideal. It may be even a situation where that may be are already a turn off for potential suitors. Is it a must to go through some hundreds of failed Tinder dates to find the one?

No. 1937711

Are women actually as porn sick as they act online? Almost every female artist I follow will draw sexy female characters (even if they're straight) and act like it's super hot and I can't tell if it's just a performance or they're actually all that porn sick and pandering to straight men. If you asked they'd definitely deny pandering to men (and half of them would call men evil oppressors)

No. 1937713

>>1937711
Sometimes. Women are definitely capable of being pornsick. Maybe not as much as men though, usually.

No. 1937715

>>1937709
People find new bfs/gfs outside/after uni all the time.. The gym or team sports, various hobbies, at work, within their own social circles or while meeting people when going out. You can totally find a bf "out in the wild" as long as you have some sort of social life.

No. 1937717

>>1937713
womens pornsickness revolves more around being extremely judgemental of other womens bodies, men's pornsickness causes them to sexualize every situation they're in but also makes majority of women unattractive due to the fact they change "types" every week

No. 1937722

Anyone else doesn't like to talk about their interests/hobbies? It is said that it's easier to be friends with people you share interests with but I can't talk about them with my friends. I prefer small talk.

No. 1937754

>>1937722
i always feel like no one gives a shit about my hobbies and they are pointless anyway, which they probably are

No. 1937756

>>1937722
I drifted away from a lot of friends I didn't share hobbies with, especially once I stopped going out every weekend. We just didn't have much to talk about beyond "How's your job, how's your boyfriend doing?"

No. 1937815

>>1937722
I like my life to be in distinct categories
Family - Friends - Hobbies - Career
All separate so I hardly ever talk about my hobbies unless I'd like to provide a loaf of bread as a present. I much prefer to hear about other people's hobbies IF I like them.

No. 1937822

I just came across the gangstalking subreddit and I’m completely baffled by it. Is it really all just schizo posting or is it just a bunch of people trolling?

No. 1937823

>>1937722
Just tired of extreme judgement when having hobbies. Almost anything marks you as either slutty or a pickme. What even ARE acceptable hobbies for women?

No. 1937826

>>1937822
Gang stalking is real. I had a friend years ago who escaped from being trafficked and had to move cities, change names, etc because they kept finding her at wherever she worked. I actually had to let her stay we me for a few months because of it

No. 1937829

>>1937826
I’m not questioning if gangstalking is real at all I’m just confused about the posts on the subreddit. I’ve seems posts where people are talking about being remotely mind raped up to 12 times a day and all the comments are taking it as if it’s a reasonable thing that happens.

No. 1937830

>>1937722
I have the opposite problem, if you ask me about things i like i will talk your ear off about it and tbh it's really the only thing i enjoy talking about. It's problematic irl because idk how to have a conversation outside my interests because i have literally nothing going on in my life outside it, so i have nothing to say.

No. 1937833

>>1937826
Why were they stalking her?

No. 1937841

>>1937833
They kidnapped her and she escaped so they kept seeing her as "their property" and claimed she needed to pay several thousand or so to get out of all that
>>1937829
I'm not sure about that, I've definitely see people deny gang stalking though when trying to push down sex traffic victims

No. 1937855

Nonnies with good posture: how do you do it? I struggle with pointing my shoulders up and slouch and even though I manually put them back they always go into my sloppy default

No. 1937895

>>1937829
Gang stalking is real just as stalking is real, but unfortunately schizos keep them protected because no one believes real victims of abuse.

No. 1937910

>>1936801
nodoby's is expected to look professional anymore cause of all this dumbass "no disrimination" shit

No. 1937914

>>1937855
Get one of those rubber back braces and start doing calisthenics and working out your back muscles. A lot of poor posture has to do with weak back muscles, once you start building mass in the back and improving your strength you'll notice your posture improve.

No. 1937915

>>1937910
how is that related to dressing well?

No. 1937923

>>1937915
because no one feels the need to look professinal for their job, their work, basic life, etc

No. 1937932

>>1937923
i mean i don't understand how "no discrimination" caused that. like discrimination laws against..?

No. 1938061

Are there any youtubers who teach charisma and social skills but from a female perspective? Most of the people in this genre seem to be men and the women I see so far are on some feminine energy/tradthot bullshit.

No. 1938068

>>1937910
I don't think that's it. It's a combo of poor quality of clothes + stigma about dressing nice being seen as pretentious+ body nitpicking so people want to wear baggier clothes to hide insecurities, especially women. It also doesn't help there's always a camera being shoved in your face and people are more willing to rip apart a "nice" outfit for not matching or color season or some stupid shit where as if you wear a trash bag everyone knows you're dressing like shit on purpose so there's no point in trying to remind you of stupid fashion rules

No. 1938077

Forgive my esl-ness, but what the fuck does queer even mean? Is it just another word for "not straight"? I don't know why but I fucking hate that word. I just say I'm lesbian. Others say they're gay or bi. What the fuck does queer mean? My friend called herself queer the other day. I don't understand. It's such an ugly word

No. 1938084

>>1938077
It really is ugly and I feel like the only people who ever call themselves queer anymore are spicy straight women and the men trying to have sex with them. It used to just mean strange.

No. 1938085

>>1938077
It means strange or odd.

No. 1938086

>>1938077
No, most people saying that are straight. It's straight but in a "quirky" way i.e, being into bdsm, the male of the relationship wearing girly socks or whatever, shit like that.

No. 1938091

>>1938084
>>1938085
>>1938086
Thanks nonas, it makes sense now. I always see the most insufferable people use that word. It needs to be wiped from existence

No. 1938098

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>>1938086
Samefag here's an example

No. 1938101

>>1938098
I cringed reading this

No. 1938107


No. 1938150

Is Eugenia Cooney a Jack Skellington yume or does she like him like My Melody or something…

No. 1938190

Will instacart shoppers know if I give them a poor review? Like if I write in the review that I didn't like that my fruit came all smashed would the shopper know it was me?

No. 1938205

What does it mean when a moid breaks up with you but then doesn’t date anyone else for a long time after? Especially considering he can get women and isn’t a greasy Discord user.

No. 1938207

>>1937932
discrimination because you arent dressed how they want??? duh

No. 1938235

how do i wash a midi skirt made out of tulle and satin? can i put it in the washing machine or is it a better idea to wash it by hand?

No. 1938242

>>1938235
I'd hand wash since tulle is fragile. Sounds like a cute skirt.

No. 1938312

>>1937855
Core and back workouts. You don't need to spend hours a day at the gym, you can do this at home with no equipment for like 10 minutes every other day and it will vastly improve your life. Look up Youtube vids for back and core workouts, posture workouts etc and see which ones work best for you. And do stretches afterwards.
>>1938098
It warms my heart to know that as soon as being queer goes out of fashion these retards will stop clogging up gay and lesbian spaces with their tranny husbands.

No. 1938375

>>1938312
What kind of stretches do you recommend for back pain and posture? I have pain from sitting all day
Also thank you nonnies for the tips, I’ll be sure to report back once I’m doing it for a while

No. 1938415

>>1936460
a lot of pregnant women might need iron supplements

No. 1938457

Is wearing cross earrings cringe after a certain age?

No. 1938508

Nice nonnies only: When reviewing places, is it too mean to give a small restaurant that deserves four stars four stars? I think a place that is okay deserves three stars because it's perfectly average, but reviews have become so inflated that any place that gets below four stars is a place to avoid, so I feel guilty giving an okay place only three stars. So I want give this place four stars, because they definitely don't deserve five, but I feel bad that I might chase people away from a restaurant that is perfectly adequate and a nice place to go.

No. 1938513

>>1938457
If you're goth, they always go with your style. If you're religious and they're a sign of your faith, they're a little cringe between 19-29, but after 30 they become fine again, especially if you're wearing pastels. And they're always appropriate for Easter or other major Christian holidays.

No. 1938516

>>1938508
Generally people give 5 stars if there wasn't anything wrong in particular.. Personally I think it's kind of an asshole move to give 4 stars if the service and quality you got is what you could reasonably expect from said establishment and their prices.

No. 1938517

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>>1938375
I do these ones during my lunch and it really helps.

No. 1938529

>>1938517
nayrt but this is cracking me up. It looks like she's getting down.

No. 1938536

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Let's say you were born with a disorder that causes you to be unable to bend a finger on your non-dominant hand. Would you have the corrective surgery? Or leave it since you don't use that hand that much?

No. 1938541

>>1938536
I definitely wouldn't get surgery. The hands are so finicky and so delicate that even with the best surgeons, any time you open them up you risk damaging them in unexpected ways. However, I can almost guarantee you that a good physical therapist can give you exercises that will give you movement. Mine restrengthened a damaged tendon and gave me full mobility when several doctors and surgeons told me I would never have movement again without surgery.

No. 1938544

>>1938536
Yes
Reminds me I need to pester a surgeon to reply back and fix my fingers after a mild botching kek. You'd be surprised how useful it is to be able to move your pinky finger

No. 1938549

>>1938536
Hard to say without experiencing it myself but I lean towards getting it corrected.

No. 1938586

my good friend got two matching tattoos with a girl she has been dating for one month (her gf of 7 or so years dumped her in february). how do i tell her that she should like, stop and not get more tattoos? she suspects that she has bpd and is on the waiting list to see a therapist who'll hopefully prevent her from doing stuff like this. but i do want to tell her something so that she doesn't get any more tattoos, like one is on her collarbone so it's really visible. and i'm a bit worried for her.

No. 1938664

>>1938536
As a happily two-handed individual, I say do serious physio as other anon said for a while before opting for surgery. Having two hands is lifechanging in terms of full freedom, safety, getting out of situations, so for that reason I'd want the surgery on the other hand if you genuinely have gotten used to onehand life then maybe that's "your normal" and doesn't need to be fixed if it isn't causing disorder in your life

No. 1938707

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Hear me out nonnies,
the wrestling thread is dead yet there is so much milk to enjoy.
We have old attention starved men abusing social media, roided up pigs with glass ego fighting on twitter, schizos, corporate crime, coke head manchild funding a company with his daddy's money, paranoid malding.
Who want a new thread? With a good OP right in time for wrestlemania

No. 1938729

>>1938707
Are there even enough wrestlers left to make a thread about? I thought half of them got laid off or died within the past 3 years kek.

No. 1938746

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>>1938729
The ones in their 30s can be pretty milky, punk always deliver with his cheap pandering.

No. 1938775

>>1938707
i would absolutely be in that thread

No. 1938783

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How I do kill my crush on a random man? I was sad and he was tall and strong and had sexy eye creases when he smiled. I cannot afford to be so distracted right now..

No. 1938791

Does anyone else have a bad habit of getting really deep into too many niche internet communities? making friends, getting into their stuff and moving on after a year or two? Or am i just mentally ill?

No. 1938799

>>1938707
Finally, a place I can gossip about shit happening in the wrestling industry

No. 1938800

>>1938791
I wish I had the drive/desire to do something so intense tbh.

No. 1938802

>>1938791
Yes but in my case, everyone starts slowly disappearing or becoming less active so I have to move on in order to have someone to talk to. I've made lots of lasting connections but most of them are shallow.

No. 1938806

>>1938800
It isn't all that, it causes problems and makes the internet feel smaller than it is because i run into people i know everywhere now

>>1938802
Sorry about your lost friends. Hopefully you find a community that sticks one day

No. 1938807

>>1938791
I wish i could get into them in the first place, i always get ignored when i try to enter such communities.

No. 1938810

>>1938783
Every person who ever lived has taken a shit so intense they suck it back up inside because its threatening to rip their arse, maybe they exhaust themself in the fight and have to turn around to use the back of the toilet as a head rest, now imagine him doing this

No. 1938811

>>1938799
>>1938775
good, I may need help on it, the OP could name the main companies, maybe a bit of the historical and recent drama. A list of actively cowish wrestlers would be good too. Any other ideas ?

No. 1938814

>>1938810
Wow anon you made me laugh pretty hard are you doing anything later?? Good advice thanks a lot

No. 1938878

Hypothetically, if someone were to nibble a dead animal's paw (not bite into it), how would it taste? Like if the animal had been dead for 2 days or so, and it was a furry mammal. How would the fur taste?

No. 1938898

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>>1938878
>Hypothetically

No. 1938907

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Why does this style of sweater have the slits on the side and the front flap is shorter than the back flap? Are you supposed to tuck them into high-waisted pants or something? I'm a millenial who can't into shirt tucking but I feel like I'm doing it wrong anyway when I try

No. 1938916

>>1938898
It's just a hypothetical

No. 1938917

>>1938907
because it's ugly, some clothes are just ugly and don't work on anyone. Cozy and good for winter but ugly.

No. 1938918

>>1938907
I assume because it’s a modern take on the tunic

No. 1938919

>>1938907
the ugliest shirt cut ever, makes you look like a jockey

No. 1938927

>>1938807
the secret is to be addicted to change and have a fear of rejection so powerful you become friends and leave before they can leave you. your mentally ill charisma will guide you

No. 1938948

is dr pepper just root beer

No. 1938956

>>1938907
This the shit they try to call quiet luxury

No. 1939005

>>1938948
How dare you dismiss the other 22 flavors

No. 1939089

>>1938948
Root beer is disgusting and tastes like medicine. Dr. Pepper is the nectar of the gods. It's made up of cola, cherry, licorice, amaretto, vanilla, blackberry, apricot, blackberry, caramel, pepper, anise, sarsaparilla, ginger, molasses, lemon, plum, orange, nutmeg, cardamon, all spice, coriander juniper, birch and prickly ash. It's…Spicy, but not like a spiced drink or something.

No. 1939091

Does anyone know of any good cows to binge that are similar to like, Shayna and Momokun? Or just good to binge in general. I'm reading Luna Slater right now but I just kind of feel bad for her, it's not super entertaining. But I'm only on the first couple of threads so maybe it'll get better.

No. 1939095

>>1939091
Raven. She hasn't had her thread updated in years but it's really good shit.

No. 1939096

>>1939091
Soren is the only one I can think of that universally unites all of us

No. 1939133

>>1939089
And funny how it literally just tastes like sugar water corn syrup even with all of that in it.
>>1939091
I don't think Luna Slater ever gets truly entertaining. She's a groomed druggie doing her emotionally stunted groomed druggie shit as one does.
Check out Katherine McMahon for a slightly more autistic arguably more cringefail "sex worker" than Shayna. There's some great milk and all around laughs imo her threads are great. They have all but completely stopped being updated though, and anons are more often focused on her repulsive ogre of a boyfriend than her goofy beaky ass.

No. 1939168

>>1939133
Good to know, I won't waste time with her then and moo-ve on sorry to these other cows. That's kind of how I felt about her thread, like Oh she's scamming for money! She's disgusting! Yeah..she's a heroin addict lol.

No. 1939169

>>1939089
wait theres amaretto in root beer? ok now i need some

No. 1939222

I want to work with male models, what jobs would be suited for that? yes I'm trying to find a way to approach hot guys kek

No. 1939270

Is there an AI which I can give a map and ask for the % coverage of a certain color?

No. 1939272


No. 1939273

>>1939222
Probably jobs where you'd need previous experience and qualifications.
Photographer, fashion designer (for men ofc), fashion magazine editor, working on advertising, a lot of fashion things basically.

No. 1939278

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>>1939272
oh no it's a open street data map like picrel but edited in adobe illustrator. Really I just need an AI I can feed the image and tell me the coverage % of a specific color so I can calculate the surface area. Surely there's an AI that can do that for me right.

No. 1939281


No. 1939291

>>1939281
Yes, thanks! ♥

No. 1939419

>>1938907
i feel personally attacked because i love them, but it may actually have to do with body type. i have very large chest and im quite tall so the slit keeps it from wandering up my ass because of the tension.

No. 1939424

nonnies is it normal to realize parts about yourself only in your mid 20s?
I realized something deeply traumatic about myself that i didnt think was trauma all my life cause i repressed it. Now a lot of things make sense and I can address them but I wonder if thats a common experience

No. 1939425

fujofags and husbandofags, how normal are you IRL? i look through some of the threads on this site and have trouble comprehending the fact people like this exist among us. how clockable are you?

No. 1939428

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>>1939425
not a fujo myself but i go to school with one and shes just a cute awkward girl with a thick accent and the most weird thing about her is exactly that. shes awkward and shy to speak but shes a lovely person and has incredible strengths (we are in a male dominated school)

No. 1939430

>>1939424
Not only it's normal, it's going to keep happening as you grow and develop further. Life is a journey of self-discovery

No. 1939432

>>1939425
I look like a hobo irl, when I'm not working or out with friends. I only carry husbando merch on the inside of my bag. I don't support trannies and I'm anti woke/ (a Terf myself.) I have dark hair with some tattoos, so most might mistake me for punk rock lover rather than a fujo.

No. 1939433

>>1939425
Husbandofag, and most people would never guess that I'm into anime or anything like that, my autism masking has grown too powerful over the years kek. I don't talk about weeb stuff to anyone unless they're also one and don't wear anything that would give me away. Very normie passing and am often complimented on my outfits/appearance

No. 1939436

>>1939430
is it always going to be this scary and uncomfortable?
I recently saw a short video of Angelina Jolie whom I know nothing but positive things about (if shes an awful person just dont tell me , she said beautiful things that resonated with me) about withstanding walking through the fire and feeling it all..
does it get easier to process it?

No. 1939439

Nonnies who have improved their physical standards for male partners how do you go for hot guys without the feeling that they’re shallow/superficial or automatically fuckboys? I want to change my dating pool for the better but I can’t shake the feeling like I’m not good enough for a hot guy or that they’re drowning in women. I know I’m attractive enough to get a hot guy but I still feel so uneasy.

No. 1939440

>>1939425
I am pretty normal, I go to the gym and do pilates, i work from home so i dont have much social life outside of that though but i dont like people a lot so whatevs.
> i look through some of the threads on this site and have trouble comprehending the fact people like this exist among us.
how so? how normie are you?

No. 1939450

>>1939425
also a husbandofag, the thing is, i don't go out of my way to socialize with people because i just don't enjoy human company 99% of the time. when i have to do it i come off pretty normie though, if a bit uncomfortable(?) i don't have tons of merch and somehow look more normal than a lot of my peers, it's a very artsy area.

No. 1939451

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>>1939439
Being hot and working out does not always mean that people are superficial and have no substance to them.
If you are getting more and more attractive remember to balance it out with adding more substance to yourself as well, so that you may not end up as what you are trying to avoid. All the hot couples I know are both incredible people that arent full of themselves, I think that gives it away a lot of the times.
Observe how they speak about themselves and others, ask the right questions. No trap setting, just weeding out the ones putting up a misleading image.
"Who are you the closest with?" - if they answer only with people that they actively gain something superficial from thats telling for example

No. 1939452

>>1939436
I don't think it's always this hard, no. It may take a long time to process some things compared to others, but as you go through it, you get better at it. If anything because you know you've done it once already. Also, that was a nice clip. She has such a beautiful voice.

No. 1939453

>>1939425
i'm a fujo – write fanfiction, own doujinshi, have ita bags and merch, and my best friends are fellow fujos. irl, i make six figures, am married, own a home, and am super into beauty treatments like lashes, botox, filler, facials, etc. i think most fujos my age (30s) that have been into it since their preteens are pretty similar to me, honestly. you can look and act normal without revealing your power level. i don't talk about it with anyone unless they throw me a crumb indicating they like the same stuff, and even then, never at work.

No. 1939455

>>1939452
Thank you, nonnie. You sound absolutely sweet and amazing. You gave me courage.
Also I agree shes incredible in that clip. I love her voice so much and how you could hear either her throat being sore or her choking up a bit when she says that often you have no choice.
This video is also amazing, you can really tell that she did have a strong mother who loved her and built her up to who she is today.
I envy that

No. 1939459

>>1939440
Not very normie, my closest friends are former (casual?) fujos and we’ve all been active in fandoms, it’s just the level on here is unlike what I’ve seen before kek. Maybe it’s just because it’s anonymous

No. 1939463

>>1939453
>Fujo with Botox and filler
Thats terrifying wtf. 30 is so young too

No. 1939464

>>1939439
I just found it easy to not go for someone I didn't find attractive, that's a foreign concept to me. No amount of "give him a chance" is going to make me find a person attractive if I just don't feel it. It's not shallow imo, it's just cruel to date a person you're not into out of some kind of pity or because you think you're not good enough for others. Tho if a guy is drowning in women I do automatically find him gross and get disinterested no matter how hot he is so that helps lol

No. 1939465

>>1939425
Most fujos/yumes/husbandofags mask. You're assuming male nerds and female nerds are the same. The male ones are the ones who don't shower, look like disheveled coomers, and can't hide their power level irl.

No. 1939468

>>1939464
Absolutely agree! You will often find men that keep a lot of girls to talk to, thats a red flag.
good men that are fit are often snatched up fast or just dont interact with random women all the time, unless they just reached a phase where they feel like they can be in a relationship, thats how i met my very fit husband.

No. 1939471

>>1939425
when im at work i dress conservatively and act like a normo. outside of work i might wear something nerdy like a star wars graphic tee but nothing that shows im a fujo. i keep that shit strictly online

No. 1939472

What’s the excuse for Christians never having read the whole bible. Like they never do kek. I remember one time a conversation I had with a dude who carried his bible around 24/7 and trying to save people and saying he wanted to do the godly thing in conflict. I was like I really respect Christian’s like you, you must know his word back and front and he’s like “oh no I haven’t even read most of it”. I was just like “oh”. Really wish I asked him why because he was also the type who devours 500 page books every week. The Bible is not that long bro

No. 1939473

>>1939463
i'm 33? are you retarded? lol go outside, it's completely normal to get a little bit of both at this age if you like. also normal to get none at all. it's nbd

No. 1939477

>>1939425
I'm not a husbandofag here since I make my own characters and draw them, but I've had bizarre, nonhuman husbandos in the past. And my drawing my own characters the way I do is basically husbandofagging.
I used to be very clockable when I was younger but average people see me as "cool" on a surface level now (have had them say this). A bit odd but in an artistic way. I socialize, workout, have a career, etc.

No. 1939479

how are these husbandofags more well-adjusted than me

No. 1939482

>>1939472
Reading the entire bible instead of listening to what your local preacher tells you to think is the quickest way to become an atheist. Most Christians only ever read specific verses of the bible and don't read further to get context. Most Christians I've talked to don't even know that there's a book in the old testament that is one giant sex scene.

No. 1939487

>>1939482
not to mention there are many different kinds of bibles and some are so difficult to read that you just trust your preacher with explaining it to you

No. 1939489

>>1939482
I’m sorry, what? Which book is that?

No. 1939492

>>1939489
Song of Solomon. Have fun nonnie!

No. 1939496

>>1939473
Yeah sure I'm retarded, whatever. But 33 is very young. Many people in their 30s don't look any different from they did in their 20s so that's really bizarre to me. You do you I guess.

No. 1939498

>>1939492
Get the fujofags on this sorry I just assumed it would be gay because it’s the bible

No. 1939500

>>1939498
nonna no you're thinking of the new testament with jesus and his twelve merry men

No. 1939508

>>1939464
That’s nice for you but I was directing the question at people who have improved their standards. I’m aware of everything you said but I am used to dating down because it makes me feel safer. Also because I am insecure about things about myself. YET one of the ugly scrotes I dated who actually approached me for my looks eventually wanted to change my appearance because I didn’t look like his favorite woman on tiktok. So yeah I know ugly guys aren’t less shallow and I know that I deserve a better looking moid to feel sexually attracted to my partner. But I’ve never gone for a hot guy, it’s uncharted territory for me and it’s hard to shake the feeling that they’re fuckboys. I appreciate the feedback from everyone though, I’m going to try journaling about it because despite being attractive, I suspect I feel inadequate due to other circumstances in my life that make me seem less than ideal (trash family, had BPD and now I have tons of self harm scars) and that’s what actually prevents me from thinking I could have a desirable partner. To be clear I’ve dealt with the stuff from my past for the most part, have been in therapy my entire life, cured my BPD, but my trauma was “too much” even for the ugly dudes to stick around. Add in a guy who is actually attractive with more options and I feel like they would not stay to try and make it work. Moids generally want an easy going woman with no baggage and my life has made it so I am definitely not that.

No. 1939511

>>1939508
thats incredible that you could identify the things that make you think you are worth less than you offer, keep at it and you will realize eventually that its something that is more pronounced the more you manifest it.
i have tons of baggage but im very easy going and i have had no issues with moids helping or listening to me because to them it was worth it. just be clear about it from the start and dont make it all of the interactions, make memories and do fun stuff together to balance it out.

No. 1939512

>>1939496
it’s becoming more common these days, it’s pretty upsetting that people have been coerced into placing this much value on looks. I bet anon doesn’t even know she probably looks botched/unusual to a regular person

No. 1939514

Would you rather date a redditor or a 4chan scrote?

No. 1939517

>>1939512
I have a feeling that you say that but you have a very set image of what filler looks like, because all the filler that is noticable looks pretty bad.
If you have had a very stressful life sometimes you have wrinkles between your eyes and a tiny bit of filler makes them disappear and can improve confidence a ton.
Just dont judge too harshly, I am sure anon is fine.

No. 1939520

>>1939514
What subreddits does he use?
What boards does he use?
How often?
Both are bad options

No. 1939521

>>1939514
redditor who only uses the gaming subreddit or something

No. 1939525

>>1939514
I'd rather die than date a 4chan scrote so I'll have to go with the Redditor then.

No. 1939526

>>1939473
>it's completely normal
It really isn't normal to get botox or fillers full-stop, use a little less social media.

No. 1939527

>>1939514
i would date an /m/ or /toy/ scrote, anything past that is insanity and i would rather kms

No. 1939528

>>1939479
not being attracted to 3DPD is genuinely liberating

No. 1939534

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>>1939514
reddit is too curated for me, but if he is using it only to browse hobby posts and not comments im fine with it

No. 1939539

>>1939514
4chan moid.

No. 1939544

>>1939514
reddit scrote has a higher chance of being a sissy shit head in the edge of trooning out, the 4chan scrote might also be a sissy shit head in the edge of trooning out but at least i know he might not do it while im dating his ass.

No. 1939546

>>1939514
Normie tier redditor

No. 1939547

>>1939514
Death is preferable to dating a 4chan scrote, and plenty of normies occasionally browse reddit

No. 1939548

>>1939514
i would force them to fight to the death for entertainment

No. 1939549

>>1939544
4chan scrotes can take banter, at least the casual users. the way you interact in the internet reflects onto your personality irl sometimes and i think its jarring to see people that i know use reddit a lot ask for sources obnoxiously or throw out feel-good-opinions all the time (that arent really theirs) while the chan users tend to be far more liberal and open to new insights.

No. 1939551

>>1939548
Most enlightened nonna here

No. 1939552

>>1939514
Redditor because there is a bigger possibility that he is some degree of normie and that he can stop using it in time. 4chan moids sound more insufferable and unwashed and i doubt they can leave that site ever, i'd always ask myself what made him get into it and what has he seen or read there.

No. 1939554

what is the point of moids spamming cp

No. 1939568

>>1939554
whats the point of moids spamming trump/biden shit on ylyl threads?

No. 1939575

>>1939554
What's the point of moids

No. 1939582

>>1939511
Ty for your response, I need to be more light hearted ig but I’ve been told by everyone my entire life I look intimidating off the bat (and I think it’s because have sharp features, not a cute face).
> you will realize eventually that its something that is more pronounced the more you manifest it.
Can you tell me what you mean by this? Sorry for my stupidity but I don’t understand what you’re saying here. Thanks again.

No. 1939584

>>1939554
I think it’s because they want to get LC shut down. Trannies did that with a bunch of subreddits (spamming CP, gore, threats) that they didn’t like and the subreddits indeed got removed because of their hijacking. Reddit is retarded though. However I believe LC at one point became better equipped to deal with CP spammers so their info can be reported to authorities.

No. 1939756

Hi this is really dumb but my brain is just going brr right now so I need some help.

I was hired for a job before Christmas but the manager was a bit of a fuckhead and just ignored my texts around when I'm meant to start, didn't reach out at all or answer my question on how to log into the roster app.

Like 2 months past and another manager messaged me being like "hey you're in our system when can you work" and at that time I had crippling pregnancy nausea so I told her that, and that if they needed me for their twice yearly stock recording (company hires people to do it over 4 days) then I'm happy to but I can't commit to an actual job and don't want to be an unreliable worker.
She said she'll keep me on the books for stock taking.

Yesterday got an email from original fuckhead manager saying they're removing me from the system because I haven't worked, which is fair enough.

Just for a text message (6:30am) asking me what my availability is.

Do I reply to that text saying I received an email from him yesterday saying I'm not needed or do I just ignore?
Or should I say I spoke to another manager however long ago and she was keeping me on the books for stocktaking but if he wants to delete me that's fine too?

No. 1939761

>>1939756
Well what do you want?

No. 1939769

>>1939761
4 days of money would be good but not needed, I don't know if having to deal with that guy is worth it though.
I don't know why he'd send an email only to text today the opposite?

No. 1939929

is it normal to second guess your sexuality, after being so sure for a decade, over one person? i feel
kinda lost, i'd be embarrassed and hate myself forever if its just misplaced emotions from isolation or lack of friends

No. 1939944

ESL people: which accent was easier to understand when you were learning English, British or American?

No. 1939963

How long does it take for you to learn whether you are romantically interested in someone? Like say if you're meeting with someone on dates or talking to someone who is interested in you and maybe you currently feel ambivalent toward that person. How much time would you give it before deciding that you aren't interested in that person after all?

No. 1939965

>>1939929
Being alive is growing every day and a constant quest for self-discovery. You can discover new parts of yourself at any point in your life, there's no time limit or anything like that. Don't be embarrassed about being lost, just keep exploring and find the best thing for you.

No. 1940154

>>1939944
british for me but that's probably bc my mother taught me and she learned british english too

No. 1940188

File: 1711511675832.jpeg (318.46 KB, 2048x1370, thinking of paul's cock.jpeg)

Would Lennon have been gender critical?

No. 1940190

>>1940188
i think he would've eventually trooned out had he lived longer, yeah. he would've pulled a bruce jenner

No. 1940192

>>1940188
The file name…

No. 1940193

>>1940190
I can see him being into (Asian) femboys but that's pretty different from trooning.

No. 1940200

>>1940188
How could he be when he abused women? I don't think he was that opposed to gender roles.

No. 1940207

>>1940188
he was a wife beater for fuck's sake

No. 1940356

does coffee or caffeine in general make anyone else feel fucked up?
I'm not sure if I'm in denial or imagining things, but…it's a very horrible head/sinus, fatigued prolonged feeling that's sort of hard to explain and I'm starting to suspect it happens on days I have more than usual caffeine (100mg+). I've been regularly having coffee for years now because I just love the taste, it doesn't at all wake me up though. I plan to get decaf to test it out. tbh if it really is fucking me up that badly I'd be shocked.

No. 1940388

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Where is this kitten art from?

No. 1940396


No. 1940399

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>>1940388
other anon was right about AI, this seems to be the origin of it

No. 1940400

>>1940399
Ok, thank you.

No. 1940401

>>1940400
im a litle sad to see it was ai, wish i knew what artist they ripped off to make it because it's cute

No. 1940404

>>1940401
Yeah the art style looks weirdly familiar to me too but I can't quite put my finger on it.

No. 1940418

>>1940404
For me it looks like stuff on 80s greeting cards

No. 1940419

>>1940401
Lisa Frank

No. 1940420

>>1940419
i googled the name and all i get is rainbow vomit?

No. 1940424

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Is there a name for the fetish of "dressing sexy" or "slutty" in public? Ever since I saw a cow mentioning it I've been wondering

No. 1940428

>>1940424
Does this not count under exhibitionism?

No. 1940431

>>1940428
Not sure because the clothes are a big part of it not necessarily flashing or being naked

No. 1940467

Why do poor people get pets? It seems like the easiest way to unnecessarily lose cash. If I were poor I'd instantly give away whatever animals I have, I'm sorry but no one will ever convince me that animals are "just like people" that's creepy and weird…so why do these people have pets if they're broke. I get homeless people having like, a dog to protect them and/or aid them in some other way. But if youre poor and not living on the street, isn't it kind of dumb? Is there a perspective I'm not seeing?

No. 1940474

>>1940467
>Is there a perspective I'm not seeing?
Yes and it involves feeling emotion

No. 1940480

>>1940467
Yeah, animals aren't like people they are way better than people. I get a pet first and then I consider getting a human companion kek.
One example why poor people get pets would be a person who is very depressed and has nothing to live for gets a pet and now they have someone to live for, care for, work on being a better better person for, looking forward to coming home from work to. They have someone who will always love them and wont leave them and all it takes is skipping a few dinners so your pet has food. I think that's worth it for your mental health.

No. 1940485

>>1940467
Most people who had pets before falling on hard times would rather make sacrifices than be separated. Some people do give their pets away if they can't care for them anymore, but I think they're a minority. Being poor can also be extremely isolating, and pets make good company and ask very little of you. Some people are poor because they have no self control and will get pets they can't care for and live in abject squalor because of it (polissa from kf's deathfats forum…) also sometimes people or life itself dump animals on you and because we're stupid affectionate monkeys we keep them around.

No. 1940496

>>1940467
And it's somehow always huge dogs who need tons of meat. It's so bleak, many people also unironically feed their furbabies before their actual kids.

No. 1940498

What is the "ick"? I've actually seen it brought up by incels and other miserymoids that there's no reason to strive to be attractive because you could be the perfect man for someone and she can still randomly get "the ick" and destroy his life. Is the ick just new slang for being turned off or something?

No. 1940502

>>1940467
Some poor people end up with pets because there's no one else that would look after the animal. Is it really wrong if someone on a low income takes in a stray cat? As long as that person can afford to feed the cat and is prepared to take care of it, then I would view that as being better for the cat than to be euthanized or left in the streets. The main problem with this is that a poor person would not be able to afford vets bills.

No. 1940503

>>1940498
>Is the ick just new slang for being turned off or something?
Yea pretty much kek. Funny how men are seething and malding over women using the term "ick" meanwhile they constantly broadcast everything they hate about women on every platform available to them. Also no lives are being ruined because a woman said some silly thing her nigel does is an ick what the hell are they on

No. 1940504

>>1940498
It's unconscious visceral repulsion, basically.
What they are talking about, to translate into normal woman speak - is that any attractive moid is still repulsive if they have a repulsive personality or red flags. And they KNOW that even if they looksmaxx or whatever, on the inside they're still dusgusting wretches, but they justify it by "muh attractive guys can still give women the ICK, so why should I even try"

No. 1940506

>>1940498
we used to call it "sudden repulsion syndrome" but it just means your benefit of the doubt for this moid has peaked and you can no longer delude yourself into hopefulness

No. 1940507

>>1940498
Yeah, it's exactly what it sounds like. Gut feeling you don't like the guy. Not being attracted anymore, realizing you don't like his personality, etc.

No. 1940520

>>1940467
Small dogs at least are surprisingly low maintenance actually. We bath ours with neutral shampoo, feed him chicken, meat or oats, and he's usually quite healthy so we don't spend on vets very often

No. 1940530

How do I force myself to study I cant afford to fail this year

No. 1940541

File: 1711544650728.png (3.07 MB, 1309x806, whichcolour.png)

Which colour?

No. 1940544

>>1940541
cut them into thirds and sew them together as one

No. 1940549

>>1940541
Blue generally
Yellow depending on skin tone and hair colour
Green never

No. 1940589

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No. 1940598

>>1940541
I personally like the yellow

No. 1940600

>>1940541
blue
yellow if you have a tan or darker skin
the green is a no-no

No. 1940623

>>1940541
blue just feels right

No. 1940642

>>1940541
If you're darker skinned, yellow looks best. Lighter skinned, pick between blue and green. The blue looks best, green with the pattern seems like it's dull.

No. 1940673

>>1940642
i agree if green was just plain green it would look 10x better.

No. 1940685

Any nonnas know if it's possible to make a no-bake cheesecake in a regular pan instead of springform pan? I don't really want to buy one for just this one recipe kek

No. 1940706

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>>1940685
I think you could youd likely want to use parchment paper and make the tops longer than the pan to be able to lift it out. if you're using a round form you'd probably want to adjust it to be 2 strips that form an X at the bottom. Picrel is the best example I could find since idk what this technique is called.

No. 1940856

Do any of you follow any cows in /snow/, /pt/, or /w/ that have been called totally milkless or are thought to be dead threads? If so, why?

No. 1940858

Do we have a thread for gender swapped personalities and characters or did I dream that? What is it called?
I was listening to shitty bands today and realised they'd be a lot better with female vocalists instead of shrieking ugly male voices

No. 1940863

>>1940856
I've been following Lori in /w/ for like seven or eight years now and her thread is absolutely necrotic. I still check it once in a while for old times sake though. I really liked reading about the vintage milk back when that first thread was made

No. 1940865

>>1940856
I "follow" Kiki and Kota every few months. There's nothing new or interesting, there hasn't been anything in years. I just come here to see if anything important happened to them. Why? Because I'm nostalgic. I wouldn't mind if farmhands decided to lock their threads, I'd look them up on IG instead

No. 1940867

>>1940863
Can I ask what drew you in to Lori? And she's a cow with worthwhile threads to read? I want to see if there are any funny/entertaining cows I've totally overlooked.

No. 1940883

>>1940867
Pure nostalgia for early 2000s convention/cosplay culture and drama. I thought her zero two skinwalking saga was great but she's quite repetitive and her threads are PULL-tier. She really was insane back in the day though.

No. 1940886

Are creatives narcissistic?

No. 1940900


No. 1940902

>>1940886
Yep. Or worse.

No. 1940905

>>1940900
I think that's the one I was thinking of, thanks nonna. No real life gender bending but this will do

No. 1940916

>>1940902
Do you mind explaining why? Just curious.

No. 1940917

>>1940905
the closest real life one i think were edits in the face app thread
>>>/m/123572

No. 1940927

>>1940192
Kek thank you for pointing it out. I should start readidng this shit, I miss so much I bet.

No. 1940933

>>1940909
>>1940916
NTA but I'll try. I don't think you can make a sweeping generalization on ALL creatives. I have some artist friends who are cool and normal. But I also know a lot of musicians- they tend to be extremely self-absorbed and think their generic shitty music is god's gift. You can tell they socialize solely so they can beg people to go to their shows kek.
One time I got invited to a musician moids' party. there was no food and he made us watch a powerpoint of photos of him and then pass around a mic and say what we liked about his band, followed by an hour of him freestyling. it wasn't even his birthday or anything. and that sums up my experience with musician moids pretty well kek. I think they all have narcissistic tendencies tbh

No. 1940936

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If I want to change schools from one country to the other, from Uni A in country A to Uni B in country B - while I'm on a student visa. Should I apply to the uni B first and if admitted, drop out of Uni A?
I'm also not sure if I'll have to leave the country in the middle or if I could just apply for my visa while I'm there.

No. 1940939

>>1940933
So creative's come in all flavours. I noticed that too about moid musicians. I'm sorry that happened to you. Thank you for the explanation.

No. 1940968

>>1940936
I wouldn't drop out of Uni A until you know your accepted into Uni B.

No. 1940983

>>1940916
AYRT and it's been my experience having dated musicians, artists, and writers (of both genders) that they had some gradation of narcissism. Being with them and being their muse feels amazing, but they always prioritize themselves and their art at the end of the day. That can make the relationship feel insignificant, cheap, and as if you're being used. I also went to school and was friends with many creatives. Even the nicest of them are very self-involved, which isn't necessarily narcissism but still makes being around them challenging from time to time. Many of these people were bipolar or BPD. That's not inherently a bad thing, just that combined with narcissism, it often meant that they believed their genius stemmed from their "struggle" and wouldn't treat their issues. It can be hellish being close to those kinds of people. I'd also add that most creatives I knew came from privileged and wealthy backgrounds. Pretty much the only people who can live that life these days are from well-off families, and that of course impacts their personalities, too. But as >>1940933 said, I probably shouldn't make sweeping generalizations about all artists kek. I've been burned by them so many times that my kneejerk reaction is a wholehearted "yes."

No. 1940990

>>1940983
I guess that's why many of them end up alone. Sorry you been burned by them.

No. 1941001

>>1940990
Thanks, nonnie. At least it taught me to be cautious about getting close. For some stupid reason, I kept being attracted to them, so only experience can really instill that lesson.

No. 1941020

>>1941001
Never stop learning, and you're welcome

No. 1941021

Does anyone else get that tingly spicy feeling/taste when eating eggplant? I know some people think it's and allergy but I've found information on many people tasting it and being fine after eating eggplants. Some say it's a substance in eggplants that may cause it (like kiwis and pineapples that can make your mouth burn/bleed). I eat them myself and I always feel that slightly spicy taste every time, but it doesn't look like they're causing issues otherwise and the spicy taste goes away quickly.

No. 1941039

>>1941021
you may still be allergic, not every allergy is life-threatening. Is it maybe the seeds? The few times I've forgotten to remove seeds the eggplant tastes very off. Wouldn't describe it as spicy though

No. 1941041

What does “soying out” mean? Like in the context of “I hate how everyone is soying out over the new Dune movie”

No. 1941043

>>1941021
Totally normal, not allergic (tested all foods recently too) and feel it, and know plenty of people that do too.

No. 1941054

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>>1941041
Basically, being embarrassingly excited for a consumer product and non stop talking about it.

No. 1941063

>>1936622
Update. I bought a big jar of >>1936603 and it's delicious. It's not the same as the chiu chow chili oil and it's not as spicy but the umami hit is so good. I tried it on roast pork and I'm going to be having it on roast duck.

No. 1941166

Why are french ex-colonies doing worse than british or spanish ones?

No. 1941171

>>1941063
honestly this mf is a life saver. it's amazing on wok noodles or even as dipping sauce for dumplings

No. 1941190

>>1941166
This is a broad question because France had colonial possessions all over the world and they're all in varied states of progress and development today. A lot of the post-colonial countries in Africa that Imperial France controlled are still required to store a lot of their national wealth in French banking systems, and don't have access to a lot of it. Another reason is that the colonial French possessions in Africa had a chaotic transition to democracy in the mid 20th century that gave rise to fumbling bureaucracies and corrupt governments that limited the potential for economic growth and national development at large. A lot of the countries in Africa exist on sort of "imaginary" borders that don't rest along preexisting tribal delineations or territories, so it can end up becoming a fuel for violent inter-tribal conflict later.

No. 1941193

Is it really that dangerous to have a power strip? I know people say they're a fire hazard, but shit how else are you supposed to plug multiple things up at once.

No. 1941197

>>1941054
why do they always make this face

No. 1941199

>>1941193
It depends on what country your in.
In the UK it's safe because everything is grounded, the power strip is fused as are all the plugs and a maximum of 2990w can be drawn from a single socket.
If you're in the US it's less safe because it's usually not grounded, plugs aren't fused and only 1800w can be drawn from a single socket.

No. 1941209

>>1941054
Thank you nona. Is soy pretty much just shorthand for something being embarrassing and or cringe? Ex. Fujos are so soy(baiting)

No. 1941220

>>1941209
No, soy as an insult is only applicable to males because they think eating soy is bad for their testosterone. It specifically refers to scrawny/nerdy/dorky men.

No. 1941221

>>1941193
idk I've had my entire PC/gaming/network set up on 2 power strips for ages and haven't burned down yet. Definitely don't "daisy chain" power strips together though

No. 1941235

>>1941190
Thank you for the succinct reply!

No. 1941246

>>1938878
It would taste bad. As the meat rots (I'm assuming this animal would be outside and not like in a freezer), the smell of putrescence and liquefying animal coats the fur. You would also get a mouthful of fur as the fur starts to rapidly fall out once the animal is dead, but that depends on animal and cause of death.

No. 1941358

Is it possible for bedbugs to only be in one part of a person's house

No. 1941359

Should I be concerned about this veery mild pain/stiffness in my left knee persisting a few months after I started going gym? I’m a fat girl so I dont know if its my body just shocked at my weight running or something worse

No. 1941362

>>1941358
They quickly spread and proliferate in every room of the house. If you've noticed one or two bedbugs, you already have an infestation. It's best to call an exterminator after checking all of your mattresses, sofas, any fabric furniture really. You could get away with saving clothes if you put them in a hot air dry cycle for a few hours.

No. 1941377

>>1941359
Better go to a doctor, nona. It might be cartilage damage or something. Don't get scared though, it's just a guess and when my knee was worse than yours I just took collagen, used ointments that dr prescribed, and made a compress for a week or so, it got better and stopped bothering me completely after a couple of months even though I did nothing at that point. Also try resting your left leg somewhere higher while you're sitting, like on another chair if it's possible. It's only from my experience, you can have something else, so yeah, as I said, better visit a doctor!

No. 1941419

Anons please recommend me a tumblrina type cow in the same vein as shmegeh/soren/ginger bronson/aly antorcha, etc. Just popular tumblrina's with cowish tendencies.

No. 1941429

>>1941419
Wouldn't call her popular but thar Margaret gore dunlap or whatever lady was getting dragged for a minute

No. 1941447

>>1941429
Such a strong start to a thread that totally fizzled out. I think rich nepo baby arthoe cringefail losers are my favorite lolcows.

No. 1941452

>>1941447
Yeah I dont think its common to be like that as an adult. I can't think of anyone because I stopped following these types in any way when I hit my late teens. There are very few people keeping that aesthetic alive and it's mostly skinwalking Ethel Cain types who have transformed their entire personality into 2013 Tumblr

No. 1941458

Have you ever had a meme you made and only ever posted on lc posted by someone else on another platform like Twitter? I've had it happen twice. Caught out.

No. 1941463

>>1941458
No but I’m curious what memes got posted

No. 1941468

>>1941463
Not worth sharing they were both mundane but kind of niche (and non ~cow~ related) but one was shared by an annoying homosexual man if that says anything about the unnecessary cunty shit thrown around here at times

No. 1941474

>>1941458
yep. one time i saw a really specific meme posted in the replies of some redpilled guy's tweet by a troon, and then an hour or two later i saw it here.

No. 1941477

>>1941474
I remember this! You deleted it a little after, right?

No. 1941649

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Do Mary Janes look juvenile?

No. 1941655

>>1941649
I think a 1-2 inch heel in good leather that's comfortable looks better. Put it with a skirt, dress, or dress flared pants.

No. 1941689

Should you follow your heart and move away to go live with someone you love

No. 1941705

>>1941689
Probably not, it really depends on the details.

No. 1941706

>>1941689
I did that and never regretted. also a lot of "friends" somehow got mad at me instead of supporting my decision so it was also good to weed out people who were around just to leech or were just not supportive. I had a friend get really mad I wouldn't be around to help her with her cosplays anymore kek. if you're worried about friends and family, the good ones will stay no matter where you live and you can always make new friends too.

No. 1941707

>>1941689
Why not? Most people don't live in one single place their entire lives. Besides, you can always move back if it falls through in the end.

No. 1941716

Why is cc so pro-Ana that they even mention it in their rules?

No. 1941829

People who don’t like 3DPD, what is their sexuality? Like the weebs who only like anime men? Does it like… count?

No. 1941848

>>1941829
It counts unless the person rots their brain with porn, which can make people believe they have another sexuality. It's what happens often to moids and some women, they watch too much porn and then moids believe they're gay or bi and women believe they're lesbian or bi.
And no, fictosexuality isn't real, you can only be straight, gay/lesbian or bi.
Plus it's kind of interesting how your sexuality just is, my best example is myself kek. I'm painfully straight, I can play games with different flavors of anime boys and girls, but I will always gravitate towards the boys because I find them attractive.

No. 1941866

Is mint + chocolate combo a burger thing or do other countries love it too?

No. 1941869

How do women not get stretch marks on their stomach after having a baby BESIDES genetics like what they doin

No. 1941870

>>1941829
Can be a lot of things but it’s either a type of asexuality (natural disinterest in sexual encounters and others’ bodies) or a form of sexual dysfunction or pathology. Autists have a lot of it (think of all the deviantart weirdos drawing wonderbread and sonic inflation art), but as the other nona said it can simply be porn addiction. It’s typical of porn users that they grow disinterested by actual standard human intimacy and normal bodies, and anime porn is no exception to this as it creates a mindset in users that arousal spawns from cartoons, just like dudes on pornhub start associating arousal with fetishes on there and often begin to find normal adult women unappealing while fixating on teenagers or whatever.

No. 1941877

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>>1941866
I see it regularly here in Spain! There’s even mint chocolate nougat, although I was never brave enough to try it.

No. 1941887

I need help with cutting contact with someone. I am really bad at saying no so, I've been talking to this girl for some time but I just don't… like her, that sounds so mean, but I don't think I see myself with her and I don't want to, I realize I just like being alone, I don't like talking and dating and romance. She has a lot going on that I can't shoulder plus I don't feel anything towards her, but I've been really horrible because I haven't told her this and I don't know how to…
Since I've been playing along with her flirtiness and forwardness, it's gonna be so abrupt and she's got other stuff going on and I feel like I might make her upset because I seemed to reciprocate and now I'm suddenly like "Actually, fuck you." You know? she's also a gendie and calls herself male terms and it put me off from even a friendship How do I go about this? I'm really, really socially inept.

No. 1941894

>>1941866
It's not common but it does exist.

No. 1941923

>>1941866
Big in SoKor, so I've seen.

No. 1941929

>>1941829
heterosexual. yes it counts if they're aroused over those characters, very few weebs like this are "asexual" since they still talk about wanting to fuck them. in my case it's not porn related at all because i've been like this waaay before using the internet, like since i was 5. it just used to be disney and other western cartoon husbandos instead

No. 1941933

>>1941887
Gotta rip it off like a bandaid. Something like
>Look, I think you’re a sweet person, but I’m not looking for anything to continue between us. I wish you all the best.
Or something similar and more specific to your situation. It’s going to hurt her no matter what, so just be honest and upfront before it goes anything further. Remember that this is a totally normal thing to do. You can’t control how she’ll feel or react, but ultimately that’s on her, not you. Good luck, nonnie.

No. 1941939

I want to make a post about becoming an auntie because I’m so excited but I have my brothers ex and childhood friend added as a friend. What do i do?

No. 1941945

>>1941933
Thanks. You're right that it'll hurt her, because for her, things are looking good, I'm such a liar… I must do it now before it's like too far gone, I've like.. had sex with people when I didn't want to because I couldn't say no to not hurt their feelings. It's like.. you will hurt feelings and that's okay, just like your feelings are hurt and you get over it, they will too. Thanks. Sorry, I went off a bit there, but I really needed your assurance, thanks, anon. Hope you have a nice weekend.

No. 1941969

>>1941939
Are you all not adults? Post it and if she's an adult she should have a neutral or supportive reaction.

No. 1941970

>>1941939
maybe unadd them

No. 1941988

>>1941939
Post it? She's going to hear about it one way or another.

No. 1942044

Is it dumb to dislike being seen as a regular in a restaurant, cafe or bar? I hate it so much that I actively avoided a restaurant that just opened a few months ago on my way between work and home because one of the waitresses told me about how that's funny and flattering that I came here several times in two weeks. My friends said it's a bit excessive but I ate pork there a few times and I'm supposed to hide it and allegedly I'm very easy to recognize.

No. 1942059

>>1941939
is she not allowed to know or are you worried it'll upset her? either way you should post it if you want to. if youre talking about facebook, you can block people from viewing certain posts.

No. 1942061

Does anyone have experience with 'second puberty' acne? How long did it last for you? I'm starting to get irregular periods and a pizzaface, I feel so ugly.

No. 1942067

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>>1941866
You can find it in europe too, I think that people are just very divided on it. Either love it or hate it.

No. 1942092

has anyone noticed that a lot of couples are made up of a fat woman and a skinny man? why is that? what makes them so attracted to each other ive always wondered

No. 1942099

>>1941848
on the porn thing, is that really true? by that logic, gay people could “meme themselves” into being straight by watching porn, but no one ever says that. if you want to fuck someone of a certain gender, it means you’re attracted to that gender, isn’t it as simple as that? seems like heteronormativity.

No. 1942101

>>1942044
I have the exact opposite reaction. I love being a regular at places. It feels like being a part of the community. But it’s not weird to dislike it, no. Just rotate out the places you frequent or order take out.

No. 1942112

>>1942067
oh yeah these are nasty, it's like eating your chocolate with a mouthful of toothpaste

No. 1942172

do any of you think that each country has their own lolcow style website like japanese lolcow or croation lolcow

No. 1942177

>>1942092
fat fetishes, chubby chasing

No. 1942186

>>1942172
there was an all female japanese ib discussed here a couple of years ago but i forgot the name, it wasn't cow focused tho

No. 1942192

>>1942172
like a gossip site or like a girl site where men aren't allowed to announce themselves?

No. 1942198

>>1942172
Not really anything close to what Lolcow is, but my country does have a forum for women called (roughly translated) the women's guide. However men are allowed to post and do so all the time, including gross fetish wank bait posts. Lolcow is awesome and I wish there was more like it out there, but at least we have this.

No. 1942203

>>1942172
as a croatian there is no gossipy imageboard type of lolcow but there is an oldschool forum type of lolcow called "henhouse" but it's full of boomers unfortunately.

No. 1942278

>>1942092
heterosexuality

No. 1942284

>>1942172
Imagine one for Vatican City.

No. 1942286

>>1942192
yes, maybe both?

No. 1942293

Do any of you nonas make or reply to a post and erase certain parts of your post bc you’re afraid or worried of starting an infight or derailment?

No. 1942296

>>1942293
yes all the time, i try as hard as i can to be as congenial as possible and that often includes withdrawing certain accusations or words that i think may cause them to become offended

No. 1942299

>>1942293
I have a habit of typing something, re-reading it, spending an absurd amount of time typing out my idea, then not even posting it and/or posting it and deleting it.
This happens to me a lot in Shay's thread, plus i have a weird guilt in talking about her sometimes. It creeps up on me.

No. 1942305

>>1942293
I think this is just part of being congenial, like when I type something out I'll usually wait a moment to re-read it for any mistakes anyway and if there's a weird tone I'll re-write parts, unless I'm really angry then I'll just type the whole thing and send it as I seethe.

No. 1942321

>>1942293
yes, all of the time. i'll re-read things, edit things, and straight up remove things to avoid conflict. i try to be clear and concise and use non-accusatory language. phrases like "seemingly" or "gives the impression of", ect.
it makes me all the more angry when i get replies by people who act like i was accusatory when i went out of my way to use specific language to avoid those types of responses. but then i just assume they're younger than me and grew up reading tweets instead of books, kek, which feels cruel but i legit have to remember that a lot of people do not understand nuance and i try not to take it personally

No. 1942325

I'm trying to lose weight right now (doctor said I should for some health reasons). I'm about 10kg overweight for my height. But my problem is that most of my fat is on my belly and thighs. My hands are disgustingly bony with barely any meat on them KEK. Same with my forearms and wrists. If I lose so much weight, what the fuck will happen to them? Am I just gonna look like I have the hands and arms of a corpse? Why am I built like this…

No. 1942330

as someone who has rarely experienced genuine attraction, how do you tell the difference between being genuinely attracted to someone, or just emotionally hitching yourself to them because they're nice to you & treat you like an actual person?

No. 1942331

>>1942330
Do they make you horn knee(learn2integrate)

No. 1942333

>>1942325
Some people seem to store their weight on different areas of their body; for some it's their hips, others their abdomen, others thighs, etc., but when you start to lose weight you'll notice these areas become smaller. If you're self-conscious about your corpse arms, try doing some weight training that targets your wrist muscles and your arm muscles. A lot of people that have thin arms just have underdeveloped musculature in that region.

No. 1942339

>>1942333
That actually makes a lot of sense. Thanks nona. I'll look into the weight training for my arms. Still worried about my hands though but it seems like nothing can be done about them.

No. 1942561

are there any functioning nitter mirrors?

No. 1942562

>>1942561
I don't use nitter personally so I'm not sure how to check if it works but I see this one being posted all the time so maybe it's good
https://nitter.poast.org/

No. 1942563

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>>1942562
thank you nonny it works

No. 1942610

Are there any websites that are better than character ai for creating your own chatbot? I want to be able to include a lot of examples of how my character would talk.

No. 1942621

Just saw a doctor who was HOT. And he flirted with me. I found him on Facebook. Should I add him or would that be too weird?

No. 1942631

Something I don’t understand about myself is that ever since I was a young teen, whenever I see one of those lowkey (aka NOT the rainbow haired tryhards), trying-to-pass-but-not-on-T-yet tifs, or any woman (back in the day, girl) with a similar vibe, I become fascinated and have the strong urge to stare at them and have to try really hard not to do so— if I followed my instinct, I would wind up acting like when a random baby is staring at you for 10 minutes in line at the store and you’re like why is it doing that kek. I usually wind up sneaking really quick looks when I feel like they won’t notice. These types are so rare to see, when I do see one my adrenaline starts going crazy. I saw a Chinese girl at a protest recently with a very short men’s hair cut in an oversized plaid jacket who was really quiet and kept to herself. I moved a few rows behind her so I could peek at her. Luckily no one caught me, everyone was too focused on looking for the president’s motorcade.

I guess the normal suggestion would be to say hello and talk to her but I don’t understand myself or what my fascination is about so I would definitely come across as weird. Plus she looked like a loner type that wouldn’t want to be talked to.

Anyway, how people choose to dress and style themselves is none of my business, but I wish there were more women like that around because seeing them adds a bit of excitement to my dull life, but then again, maybe I would get used to it and it would stop being special.
Are other people like this? What is my deal and why am I reacting like such a freak to something so mundane?

No. 1942649

>>1942621
Fuck no. If he flirts with you he flirts with hundreds of female patients a month which is highly inappropriate. He's definitely a sicko creep who preys on his female patients

No. 1942681

How can Holocaust denial be a thing when there's countless proofs it happened? Do negationists genuinely believe the camps were built like Hollywood sets and millions of people tattooed and starved themselves to feed some kind of conspiracy?

No. 1942693

>>1942631
are you perhaps sexually attracted to masculine women?

No. 1942700

>>1942693
I don’t think it’s sexual, they just make me excited and I want to look at them. I know that makes no sense.
I suppose I explained it badly. It’s when I see someone and think “is that a teenage boy/young man?” and then it’s actually a woman, that’s what makes me excited. Then I fight my internal “baby in a shopping cart” instinct to stare at them like they’re the most interesting thing in the world. I just hope and pray I’m being subtle and unnoticed because this is seriously embarrassing behavior I can’t shake.

No. 1942702

>>1942649
Yeah that’s fair nonna, thanks for the advice, I will heed it. Took my stims today and feeling vaguely manic glad I checked myself before I rekt myself.

No. 1942713

>>1942681
People are retarded and will believe anything. People believe the earth is flat so proof doesn't matter. Holocaust denial is popular in particular because A: it gives you an excuse to be antisemitic and B: it's basically the ultimate edgelord belief in the western world. We all know the holocaust happened and was bad so holocaust denial is like heroin for contrarians and conspiracy tards.

No. 1942714

>>1942681
they don't necessarily really believe it didn't happen, they just want to convince others that it didn't in order to suit a political agenda. or if they're gullible and into conspiracies, they 'believe' but they'll also believe anything if they get to be part of a special group who knows 'the truth'. read the tinfoil thread on here sometime and you'll notice that to them, everything is a lie, faked, or a false flag operation. also some of them are schizos.

No. 1942741

>>1942621
Is he your doctor?

No. 1942743

Why do men say we're evil?

No. 1942749

>>1942061
I think it's called hormonal aging. I tried over the counter stuff but going to a dermatologist really helped. You're not ugly, nonna.

No. 1942750

>>1942741
Not my regular doctor or one I will ever see again, just a doctor checking stuff for an insurance claim thing. The PA did most of the work and the doctor came in after the PA finished up and mostly just chatted flirtatiously, then walked me to the front desk when he was done talking. I might just be used to unfriendly doctors idk kek.

No. 1942754

>>1942061
My acne was at its absolute fucking worst from 22-25 and then slowly but surely began to get better around age 26. I had very painful cystic acne and would wake up with multiple new cysts everyday that hurt even when they weren’t being touched. I’m lucky to have extremely minimal scarring, really recommend a retinoid like tretinoin and possibly trying different brands of ortho tri cyclen (they don’t make the name brand anymore but some off brands are way better than others at acne control despite containing the same active ingredients).

No. 1942757

>>1942743
because they think anyone who doesnt give them what they want is evil

No. 1942760

>>1942757
That's so childish. Thank you for answering my question.

No. 1942763

Another question (sorry) Why do moids online post loli and anime girls and think it's cute? Is it autism?

No. 1942765

>>1942621
No, he would be crossing a professional boundary friending you on FB. I'm sure you can find another medical hottie.

No. 1942779

>>1942757
I was about to reply the same thing

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No. 1942789

>>1942763
Combination autism and the fact that moids are more openly degenerate online and irl. They need to be bullied into suicide

No. 1942797

>>1942789
I agree. Thanks for answering.

No. 1942815

Are yuri and yaoi games really "lgbtqa+"? I thought they were strictly fetish games.

No. 1942816

Is it normal to poop twice a day? I've pooped twice a day for almost a week now.

No. 1942824

>>1942816
Very normal and healthy as long as the poops aren’t too hard or too liquid

No. 1942828

>>1942815
They are but you got to add variety to the tag somehow.

No. 1942851

Would you rather teach college students or kindergarteners? Personally, I would prefer kindergarteners because little kids are more fun and it's more rewarding.

No. 1942854

>>1942851
Kinder-gardeners. College students are entitled assholes and you can no longer fail them. If they don't complete the work and you give them an F, they go above your head and the dean reverses your decision.

No. 1942858

>>1942851
Kids. I can teach them interesting facts about bananas and they'll think I'm a big boss.

No. 1942861

>>1942851
College students. Little kids are nasty.

No. 1942864

>>1942854
>>1942858
Please don’t become teachers.
>>1942861
Okay true but also please don’t be a teacher it’s not that personal

No. 1942866

>>1942864
I wasn't planning to lol

No. 1942868

>>1942861
I disagree. They're very cute! When I teached little kids they would hug me when I came into the class.

No. 1942872

>>1942864
Man, I never get to be a big boss.

No. 1942884

>>1942864
Found the entitled student. Your degree is not an achievement and you have accomplished nothing by being handed a piece of paper in return for giving a college a giant check. You did nothing to obtain it and they would have given it to you even if you never showed up to class.

No. 1942901

>>1942884
found the brainwashed 'anti-woke' retard

No. 1942904

If there's a guy I know who I want to hook up with, should I just ask him? Will he lose respect for me ?

No. 1942909

>>1942884
Nta. Nothing she said implied any of that, you schizo. She just said "don't become teachers."

No. 1942910

>>1942904
Probably not worth it. Just use a vibrator.

No. 1942915

>>1942868
yeah but their hands are always dirty and sticky

No. 1942928

>>1942904
just say you want to borrow him for a bit

No. 1942943

If a notebook and pen cost €110 together, and the notebook costs €100 more than the pen, how much does the pen cost?
My annoying ass dad keeps coming out of nowhere and asking me weird questions like these to make me feel stupid.

No. 1942944

>>1942943
5 right? 5 pen + 105 notebook = 110

No. 1942945

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Is it normal to suddendly feel attraction/ sexual chemistry with people while in a loving long term relationship?

No. 1942949

>>1942944
Yeah, you're probably right. I think I'm just severely retarded or something

No. 1942952

>>1942904
Flirt with him a little. If he's interested he will ask you. If he's really dense or autistic and doesn't pick up on the hints, do it while his friends are present so they'll explain to him what's going on.

No. 1942954

>>1942949
Honestly it took me a few tries to figure it out lmao it's easy math but just the way the question is phrased sends your brain the wrong way.

No. 1942958

>>1942945
Yeah it’s normal, just don’t act on it or tell your partner about it

No. 1942961

What sauce is the red kinda spicy shit they put on NYC street cart falafel? I need it. Those falafel wraps were amazing.

No. 1942962

>>1942958
Ty nona. I would never act on it. I feel relieved.

No. 1942963

>>1942945
All thoughts and feelings are just thoughts and feelings until you bring them to life by acting on them. Your mind is your own private realm.

No. 1942974

>>1942961
Ingredients:
>2 whole red bell peppers (preferably female)
> 5 red Serrano peppers or 7 whole Fresno chili peppers (they look like the little red jalapeno peppers)
> If you want to add a smokey flavour, use 2 dried Chipotle peppers.
>4 cloves roasted garlic
>4 cloves raw garlic
>2 tsp (tsp = teaspoons) cumin seeds
>2 tsp coriander seeds
>2 tbsp (tbsp = tablespoons) freshly squeezed lemon juice
>1 1/2 tbsp tomato paste
>1 tbsp virgin olive oil (plus more for storage)
>1 & 1/4 tsp salt

Process:
1. Roast the red, and chili peppers under the broiler of my oven (a few minuets each side until the skin has blackened, then place them in a bowl covered in plastic wrap to steam for a few minutes, before peeling and cutting up. Peeling the skin eliminates their bitter notes, and steaming will bring out the sweetness of the peppers.

2. While bell peppers are roasting, pour the spice seeds into a pan and heat over medium, stirring constantly, for a few minutes until they are toasted and fragrant. Be careful not to burn them, it happens fast.

3. As soon as the seeds are toasted, remove them from the skillet and pour into a spice grinder. Grind the spices to a powder. Reserve.

4. Place the roasted peppers in a food processor along with the 4 roasted and 4 raw garlic cloves, ground spices, tomato paste, lemon juice, olive oil, salt and chopped soaked chipotles.

5. Process the ingredients, scraping the sides of the food processor periodically, until the mixture is thick and smooth. Add a little more olive oil for a more liquid texture, if desired. The mixture will be very spicy, if you want it to be even spicier you can add in more of the reserved Fresno pepper seeds. Make sure you use gloves when you touch these spicy ingredients.

When ready to store, place in a sealed container and top with a rather thin layer of extra virgin olive oil. The oil on top will help preserve the sauce. Store in the refrigerator for up to 2 weeks.

No. 1942979

what the hell do people with extreme plastic surgery tell their kids? like
>oh sorry your nose is so big i had pieces of mine cut off so that i didn't have to look the way you do

No. 1942981

>>1942943
Kek nonna wtf. I’d be telling my dad to fuck right off.

No. 1942983

>>1942979
I mean, why would you have to tell them anything or apologize? I can't think of a situation where someone's going to confront their parents about having a big nose or whatever. But if they're your kids, they will probably just naturally find out over time if you mention getting work done.

No. 1942985

>>1942979
In what world is a nosejob extreme plastic surgery kek

No. 1942989

>>1942985
a nosejob does dramatically change your face, i have a big hooked nose and i know i'd look like a completely different woman if i had a slim slopey button nose, also i didn't mean to insinuate that rhinoplasties are the sole form of extreme plastic surgery, theres obviously more procedures than i can name but the nose job came to my head first

No. 1942990

>>1942988
Yeah but I wouldn't call it an extreme plastic surgery. It's one of the most common surgeries. I save the extreme label for like the Korean bone shaving jaw ones or the rib cage removals for slimmer waists.

No. 1942991

>>1942983
you don't have to tell them anything because eventually they will find out on their own, and they'll ask questions, and they'll wonder why you reproduced children who have the 'imperfect' appearance you were so dedicated to avoiding that you had your face ripped open and chopped up

No. 1942992

>>1942991
I'd probably just give them enough money to get nosejobs of their own when they turn 18 so we could match and they wouldn't have to be ugly anymore. If they refused then I guess they don't get to be in the family photos or my will.

No. 1942993

>>1942990
I understand what you mean, but just because it's common doesnt mean it isn't extreme. Bone shaving, rib cage removal, and nose jobs are really all on the same level in my mind. Especially because bone shaving does occur during a surgical nose job kek. As for filler nose jobs, that is still extreme. Going to the extreme of opening up your body and having someone change it, no matter how small the body part is, is extreme. You really shouldn't reproduce if you don't want to see a nose that looks like yours.

No. 1942994

>>1942992
Ok this leads me into the question does anyone here have a nose job? I doubt it but now i need to know KEKK

No. 1942995

>>1942993
>If you get a nosejob you shouldn't ever have children
Only on LC.
>>1942994
Yeah me. It wasn't that serious kek. These types of conversations are why I keep it to myself though.

No. 1943000

>>1942995
genuine question if someone hates their genetic appearance so much to the extent where they'd have it surgically removed, why would they have a child who's going to be born with features similar to what the plastic surgery receiver was born with? Also, I never said nose job specifically, I already shared with you that thats simply the first thing I thought of. But really, if anyone has any kind of plastic surgery then they're obviously suffering from extreme mental illness, which should bar them from being a parent. Hating yourself so much to the point where you feel the need to get unnecessary surgery doesn't sound like an individual who'd be a very loving parent.

No. 1943002

>>1943000
Kek just because you don't like the look of something on yourself doesn't mean you don't like the look of it on others. It's not that difficult of a concept to grasp. You sound kinda crazy from the last 2 sentences.

No. 1943005

>>1943000
nta but this is a dumb argument

No. 1943007

>>1942851
Ok so American college level doesn't really equate maturity wise to where they should be at that age if we compare it to other countries so isn't it basically teaching the same thing with 'kindergartners'. Like, college students in America have babysitters in their accommodation and meal plans because they can't cook, they probably smell the same.

No. 1943011

>>1942991
Ayrt, I really don't think it's that serious or that anyone will give that much of a fuck kek. I don't even have plastic surgery or anything, but I don't think we need to act like your kid will feel betrayed if they found out you had PS.

No. 1943016

>>1943011
No nona, every day I personally interogate both my parents to deduce where my facial features originate from. It usually devolves into petty screaming matches where I demand to know why my eyes are 2mm farther apart than my mothers, or why my nose droop is more than 3 degrees off from my father. Why do my lips seem to curse slightly upwards by .5cm when my mothers droop by more than .7cm? I've scanned all available family albums, conducted vast research into my ancestral history, just to find out the answers: why do I look somewhat similarly to my parents, but not the exact same? As crazy as it is, it's like I have only half the looks of my mother and half the looks of my father… but I don't look exactly like either of them alone… The question keeps me up at night and I haven't found my answer yet… One day, I will!

No. 1943018

i originally said this in meta but i dont want to get banned for derailing: why are compliments seen as insults now? do you think when someone says "aw i love your sweater" they're actually calling you ugly and saying they hate it?

No. 1943022

>>1943005
>>1943002
how is this a dumb argument? also, the excuse "aw i hated how it looks on me but it looks beautiful on you" going to make your daughter feel better?

No. 1943024

>>1943022
I already said I'd buy her a nosejob too, duh?

No. 1943025

>>1943011
i do think plastic surgery is that serious. it's crazy how in the last 50 years plastic surgical procedures is considered to be "not that serious"

No. 1943027

>>1943024
nonnie i know you're joking, but think about mothers like Yolana Hadid, and other plastic surgery moms. If you google, there are a lot of parents who have their children get nose jobs, especially moms. I feel like it's not right to make your child feel like she needs to distance herself from her genetic beauty.

No. 1943028

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No. 1943029

>>1943025
Of course plastic surgery is a serious thing, but that's not what I was responding to. I am saying I don't think anyone will take it that serious if their parents had surgery.

No. 1943031


No. 1943032

>>1943028
oh my god. saying "mothers are disabled vegetables" is more of bait than "plastic surgery is extreme and your kids will notice".

No. 1943033

>>1943029
you'd be surprised. did your mom have plastic surgery to avoid looking like you?

No. 1943035

>>1943028
We seriously need to ban this picture I'm being so honest right now every anon who uses this uses it with the mildest shit.

No. 1943036

>>1943002
Nta but I share a trait with my mother that's considered ugly and while she never got plastic surgery she's always complained about it to my face and calls herself hideous. And she's never once called me ugly, she's always been kind to me and says she just hates how she looks, but that never stopped me from being insecure since I was a young kid because it's so easy to internalize that stuff. So it's not that hard for me to imagine that someone might get insecure about their looks knowing their parent got an expensive invasive procedure to change a physical trait that they also have, I don't know why people are acting like that's a crazy concept

No. 1943038

>>1943000
I swear there was a case in Asia where someone got sued because the had extreme plastic surgery before the child was born, and the poor kid looked nothing like one of the parents. I always thought about ugly people getting surgery, hating themselves so much, but dont bring a kid into the situation. it's sad for them

>>1943029
NTA I'm glad neither of my parents got plastic surgery. Like I'd feel betrayed if i found out my mom or dad got a nose job. My mom hated her mouth/big lips growing up because of how her own mother treated her, but I ended up getting the exact same face as her, like a copy paste. She grew out of the low confidence once I was born and that helped my own self confidence a lot growing up. Now imagine if she got some weird ass surgery before i was born. I really love my mother

>>1943035
I feel like it's the same one or two anons posting this shit at the slightest differing opinion.

No. 1943044

>>1943038
first anon, you're so right. it's horrible to go to the extreme of surgically altering your face, then reproducing children, just so they can learn that you hate their features to the point where you'd have a doctor chop their face up.

No. 1943049

What's the neurosis that causes people with huge hooked noses to be so focused on noses and obsessed with plastic surgery to the point of complaining about everyone who decided to change their nose? Is it obsession with the self or jealousy towards the other?

No. 1943053

>>1943049
idk if you read the original post but the conversation at hand is about their children finding out that they have a hooked nose as opposed to their parents who have perfect button noses. i'm very grateful to have my nose, i cant imagine my daughter walking into my room and being like "momma why don't i look like you?"

No. 1943056

>>1943027
Yolanda Hadid? Like the mother of two really famous rich supermodels? The mother of the world famous model that became millionaires? Gee her life must suck because of her nosejob. You completely changed my viewpoint. I bet Gigi Hadid has a horrible, heart-wrenching life full of suffering and pain, and probably a lot of depression as well as unimaginable sorrow.You anons can't be serious right now

No. 1943059

>>1943053
>Momma why don't I look like you?
>Everyone looks different sweetie we are all unique.
It's not that hard kek. You don't even know if your kid is gonna inherit your nose to begin with? Your kid might end up look like a doppleganger of the father.

No. 1943063

>>1943059
are you forgetting that children eventually learn in school that their genetics come from their parents, not random people? also, i'm obviously bringing this up because there are women with plastic surgery who choose to marry and reproduce with noses who fit into their standards, that being small noses,

No. 1943064

>>1942974
>2 whole red bell peppers (preferably female)
>female peppers
is that a typo

No. 1943065

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>>1943064
No it's for real. The female ones are usually juicier and sweeter so it gives you a better flavour when you're processing it IMO. Male peppers are usually better for being cooked in stuff.

No. 1943070

>>1943063
Nta but it sounds like you have a big issue with small noses. In your imaginary plastic surgery fantasy, the dad has a small nose, so the kid might end up with it? If not oh well? Why does it matter kek sometimes genetics skip a generation like you can inherit your grandparents' features as well

No. 1943071

>>1943065
seemed strange so i looked it up, its a myth "The claim that the gender of bell peppers can be determined by the number of bumps or lobes is FALSE, based on our research. The number of lobes, as well as the amount of seeds, is typically based on the size of the bell pepper. And the sweetness is also not affected by gender, but rather by the ripeness of the bell pepper."

No. 1943072

>>1943070
i don't have an issue with small noses at all, my issue is with plastic surgery. it seems like you aren't really able to comprehend the conversation. also, what makes you think every husband in the world has a tiny effeminate nose? what happens when the daughter ends up with a hooked nose that her mother thinks is "ugly"?

No. 1943075

>>1942952
I would, unfortunately I don't see him in person very often, but we text a lot. I don't know if flirting over text works or if I'll come off as obsessed. But I can't just ask if he wants to hook up the next time he visits, I think that's too straightforward (yes I'm an autist)

No. 1943076

Is 7.30 PM considered an absurd bedtime? That was my bedtime growing up until I was 18, and I've never heard of anyone else having such an early bedtime.

The weird thing is, I don't think it was a bad thing. 16 year old me sucked up 10-11 hours of sleep easily and I always had more energy at school than other people.

No. 1943078

>>1943072
>What happens when the daughter ends up with a hooked nose that her mother thinks is 'ugly'
Nothing? I think you're thinking too much about it
>>1943075
Try to invite him over for something lowkey like trying a new wine or watching a movie, then during it just be really flirty and smiley and be direct after a while. Don't just say "I want to have sex." but say something like you think he's handsome or funny and be a bit touchy, like brush his hand and make eye-contact. He might get the message, if not just ask him if he wants to kiss, usually that will lead to more.

No. 1943079

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>>1943065
Cool, yet another L for the male gender. I'll be eating only female peppers from now on to reinforce my commitment to female supremacy.

Women are in fact sweeter. Now, if only I could cook IRL moids….

No. 1943082

>>1943078
>nothing? i think you're thinking too much about it
please don't have a daughter

No. 1943084

>>1943076
I had a classmate that used to sleep at 7 to later wake up at 3 am and scare his fam.

No. 1943086

>>1943082
Oh I will be having a daughter, and I'm going to be forcing her to get every plastic surgery I think she needs. I will name her Rhinoplastia, and she will be my ticket to the stage. Hopefully I can live vicariously through her while stealing all the money she makes as a public figure. It's all part of my grand scheme to skinwalk Yolana Hadid, my one true idol.

No. 1943088

what can i do to bring my blood levels back up quickly? i had to have 3 blood tests this past week and now i feel like death

No. 1943092

>>1943088
I would suggest eating a lot of nutrient rich food, especially stuff rich in B vitamins. Try to get a lot of good sleep, and rest easy. I don't think there's a way to build up your blood levels besides waiting for your body to replenish naturally or getting a blood transfusion done. All the best nona.

No. 1943094

>>1943076
Well since schools tend to start earlier than scientists recommend and women and girls naturally need more sleep than males, I understand how it could've worked for you.

In contrast I'd get around 7-8 hours sleep and could not stay awake at school.

No. 1943095

Best way to treat allergies without medication? I look so bloated and gross but whenever the allergy meds wear off I feel a million times worse. Honey doesn’t really work for me either.

No. 1943099

>>1943095
Allergies to what? And what sort of allergy symptoms are you talking about?

No. 1943100

>>1943086
yknow what i hope she has a nice little bella hadid nose, then you guys can get cute glamour shots done

No. 1943102

>>1943095
Don't consume/come in contact with the allergen, if it's something truly unavoidable (not because you like it but you 100% cannot avoid it) then accept you would've died if born in your grandparents generation and keep takin those meds.

No. 1943103

>>1943088
sugar! put lots of honey in your tea, eat a whole pan of brownies by yourself, sugar helps rebuild your blood. same with red meats and red wines but i understand if youre not into either of those

No. 1943106

>>1943100
Thank you nona. In gratitude for your support, I pledge to one daysend you a cheque from Rhinoplastia's residuals earned from her appearance in the latest commercial for Nosejobs R' Us.

No. 1943121

>>1943106
Eating fruit maybe?

No. 1943128

>>1943121
Maybe that could be part of the commerial, idk I'm not a director I haven't given it much thought. We'll cross that bridge when we come to it.

No. 1943142

>>1943018
Too many people have been passive aggressive and now people are on edge

No. 1943151

>>1943018
Zoomers are afraid of genuineness and like to shield their weak egos with several layers of irony and sardonicism. End result is that genuine comments are met with suspicion and aggression because the recipient is trying to find the "hidden" meaning that doesn't exist. To them "I like your sweater!" becomes a game of "What did she mean by that? What is she trying to say about my sweater? What's wrong with my sweater? Is she dissing my fashion sense?" etc..

No. 1943167

>>1942974
Damn anon, thank you! This sounds delicious, I’ll definitely try it. Google says halal cart red sauce is harissa based but this recipe sounds really dope. I live in the Southwest so luckily I’m very familiar with roasting and peeling peppers lol.
>>1942994
Not rhinoplasty but I had a medically necessary septoplasty and turbinate reduction in 2016 due to uncontrollable nosebleeds. Turns out I had a blood vessel directly over a bone spur and cauterizing it (nearly a dozen times in under 6 months!!!) didn’t work. It healed wonderfully but my front teeth hurt so bad for years afterward and the slight change in my facial looks really screwed with my BDD. I feel like my philtrum looks longer now and I can’t tell what the midline of my face is. Breathing was also pretty painful for the first few years and I was constantly using nasal saline because it felt really odd.

I’d never ever recommend nasal surgery unless absolutely necessary.

No. 1943171

>>1943167
Kek the recipe I gave you is actually my recipe for harissa, I was originally just gonna tell you the name of it but then I decided to be sweet and give you the whole recipe instead

No. 1943176

>>1943171
Oh shit, obviously I don’t know what’s in harissa! Thank you so much!

No. 1943340

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Why does Facebook suggests my coworkers as people I might know if I did not indicate my workplace anywhere on my profile and my LinkedIn is also out-of-date?? So creeped out

No. 1943342

>>1943340
Fucking hell! They just happened to me too this last week! I use a different email address for my LinkedIn and my other accounts and I still got “friend you might know” with my coworkers they I have no intention of them reading my smutty fan fics

No. 1943344

>>1943342
>>1943340
it reads your location data. if you are repeatedly near someone else with a Facebook they will start to recommend you because of the proximity. I've gotten suggestions for regular customers at my work even.

No. 1943348

>>1943340
Facebook tracks you everywhere including off-site (there's probably facebook trackers running on LC too) so they collect the data one way or another

No. 1943360

>>1943340
If you have their phone numbers in your phone they could be collecting that data as well. Also map location data etc.

No. 1943379

Kek I just saw the nonas talking about plastic surgery which reminded me of something I've always wondered. How the hell do they heal so good and leave no scars?! Usually when I pop a pimppe or even slightly scratch myself, it leaves a mark forever. Since I have darker skin it's worse. So how the hell do people get plastic surgery where their skin gets cut off and sewed back on and heal perfectly with no scars or anything? Or do they just cover it with makeup or something?

No. 1943381

When finishing C25K, are you supposed to be able to run the entire 5k with no problem by the end of it or do you just work up to the pace and distance and still end up getting winded?

No. 1943390

>>1943381
For me, I had to repeat a lot of the weeks to build up stamina. I think the strict timeline probably works better for people with some level of fitness. If you find yourself still getting winded on a particular week, I would recommend just repeating the previous week until you feel ready to move on.

No. 1943402

>>1943379
omg same if i get the most superficial scar boom mark. it’s annoying as hell and takes years to disappear. right now i have a recent scar on my hand and it looks gross as the tone of that and my skin is so stark

No. 1943405

>>1943053
>>1943063
Late but I don't look like my parents and I don't care, I really don't get why it's such a big deal to some people.

No. 1943467

Why do pornsick scrotes have such high standards for real life women when most porn stars are ugly?

No. 1943477

>>1943467
because their standards don’t stem from porn, it stems from their ridiculously facetuned ig model obsession too
the porn just makes them grossly overly sexual

No. 1943479

>>1943467
Genuinely think they're so autistic and face blind then can just focus on bits of women and in their head it formulates into a completely unrealistic depiction of a women and they're so emotionally retarded they can't handle their fantasy being shattered so they act like dicks.

No. 1943483

>>1943467
Because they don't care about beauty when they're masturbating, everyone looks hot. The women in these horrible videos can look disgusting, but they'll fap because they see butt, bob and vagene. That's why so many scrotes say "wtf did I fap to", or similar things, once they're done orgasming to a video of a diseased crackhead

No. 1943567

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Every time I go to the supermarket this woman who works there seems to watch me. WHY? I've wondered if she is looking at my brother who usually goes with me, but I don't think so. He had to interact with her once and she didn't seem into him, so now we both think maybe she is interested in me, or maybe she thinks I look weird and that's why she watches me? I don't know, I doubt I look suspicious or strange enough to get her attention every damn time we're there, but either way we're not going to that supermarket anymore because I hate feeling she's following me with her eyes. I'm a tist who wears Sailor Moon t-shirts sometimes when shopping there so maybe that's why she's watching me thinking I'm cringe

No. 1943568

Why is it called "young adult" literature when it's supposed to be aimed at teenagers with teenage characters?

No. 1943571

Why do so many men have an armpit fetish? I dont get whats fascinating about the smell of sweat… unless they think our sweat smells like flowers or some stupid shit?

No. 1943575

>>1943568
17-19 year olds are considered young adult by most people.

No. 1943583

>>1943571
Sweat has pheromones in it

No. 1943622

>>1943568
Teens are desperate to feel mature so calling "teenage literature" by "YA" has more chances of success. They won't want to read something they deem too immature for their "adult" brains

No. 1943647

>>1943571
Men are mentally weak, they’ll get a fetish for anything if they see it enough even in an ironic or mocking context. Smell fetish is one thing but armpit specifically has close ties with loli shit, those moids probably yank it to a lot of loli hentai featuring that fetish.

No. 1943651

>>1934268
I imagine they do feel violated when they get forcefully impregnated in order to produce milk.

No. 1943654

>>1934263
Work on building muscle and staying active, get enough calcium in your diet. Time comes for us all but just do what you can to take care of your body. Preventative action is key because you don’t get your health back as you age it’s all kinda downhill you’re just trying to slow it down.

No. 1943689

>>1943651
I doubt they have the capacity to understand violation. Being impregnated (btw forceful impregnation is just nature, some animals basically only breed forcefully), being milked, normal for cows. Having their calves taken away so soon in order to get them fertile quicker? Definitely bad for their moontal state.

No. 1943782

>>1943651
Kek the level of copium in those replies. Cows are pumped with hormones and bred to produce more milk, raped by humans shoving their arms in their ass and shoveling in semen, their baby is taken away at birth and then they get hooked to machines regularly to pump the milk. They’re only in pain in the first place because we made them be. They wouldn’t need people to milk them if we didn’t set this shit up. Oh yeah and then they get so malnourished from the constant birth breastfeed cycle that by 5 years old they can’t reproduce anymore and get slaughtered.

No. 1943842

>>1943379
Basically the scars they leave are usually very thin and tiny from their precise medical tools, and also placed in spots where it's not usually seen. For example, usually facelift scars are only visible by the ears which are usually hidden by hair, nosejob scars are usually at the base of the nostril so you don't see them unless you're looking up someone's nose, etc. In more severe cases like reconstructive surgery and there's a bigger scar, you can even get cosmetic tattooing done that matches your skin tone so it hides it better.

No. 1943848

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Can someone explain what is up with the red cows and the Third Temple?Not trying to racebait, I am just asking a question.

No. 1943850

>>1943848
It's basically a trope like "we need a red cow to sacrifice for the end times to start" kind of like the "last trumpet" trope in Christianity

No. 1943855

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>>1943850
what the fuck

No. 1943857

why is everything redtexted as sperging now? how dare we discuss things on a website that functions off of discussion right

No. 1943915

Eyebrow was itchy so I scratched it. And then I saw flakes of dandruff(?) fall onto my phone screen. Like a fucking snowstorm. What's up with that? I feel like a fucking freak.

No. 1943943

Guys, is the phrase "smelling one's own farts/inhaling copium" a terminally online thing? I used the first version today with a good older friend of mine (like a +15 year gap) and she was like "I have no idea what you mean, this isn't an idiom in English." I really though it was a common idiom!! Am I insane or does she just live under a rock!?!

No. 1943945

>>1943943
I think "smelling your own farts" is a saying, but it's like a juvenile one and not a proper "idiom." The reason I say this is because there was a South Park episode from like a decade+ ago that included a lot of jokes about rich people "smelling their own farts." So I would say it's a phrase, but not a common or polite one.

No. 1943953

>>1943915
sounds like seborrheic dermatitis, same/similar thing to dandruff

No. 1943954

>>1943943
Copium is a totally different meaning than huffing your own farts kek. Maybe you just sounded like an autist. Copium is an online thing, though.

No. 1943971

>>1943953
Aw man, isn't that the crap condition with no cure? This sucks ass

No. 1943973

>>1943943
The first is a real idiom (and it basically means arrogance, believing your own hype) the second is 100% online and would be incomprehensible to normies (and it means convincing yourself of something you want to be true, but isn't).

I honestly wouldn't use either irl they aren't classy phrases even if they're useful kek.

No. 1943977

Why do moids spam the chats with cp?

No. 1943978

>>1943915
Maybe you just have dry skin beneath the eyebrows? A lot of people forget to moisturize there because of the eyebrow hair. Try to apply a thick layer of moisturizer on top and rub it in for a night or two.

No. 1944014

>>1943943
Huffing your own farts is something I would expect anyone under 45 to understand and honestly anyone over could get it from context but the copium thing is completely online cringe and I would never say in real life.

No. 1944034

>>1943971
Cleavers plant, used on dog

No. 1944091

Moids don't sleep with women they actually find ugly, right?

No. 1944100

>>1944091
they def do, 100%. some moids sleep with animals so who knows how far down the bar actually is for some of them.

No. 1944108

>>1944091
They do. Sometimes men who aren't even straight will do it too.

No. 1944136

>>1944091
They live to coom and die and beneath it all they know it. Of course they do.

No. 1944377

Is it commonly known that ‘Eskimo’ is a slur? I said Eskimo kiss infront of some terminally online friends and they berated me as if I just dropped the N word with a hard R I wanted to kill myself kek. I know Gypsy is a slur but when tf did Eskimo get categorized as one I feel retarded

No. 1944390

>>1944377
The correct term is Inuit I think

No. 1944396

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Yall, how the FUCK do I remove this AI generated porn spam off my Facebook feed, yall? Every time I click on "do not show", more appear. I don't follow any pages even remotely similar, just my HOA, the town events page, my college alumni group, and buy and sell/free stuff groups yet it keeps appearing, even sandwiched in between Marketplace posts

No. 1944399

>>194437
Eskimo is an outdated term for Inuit people (plural) or Inuk (singular). I think there was a consensus that eskimo was offensive in the early 2000s, that's the time-frame when I noticed a widespread shift in the terminology in journals and papers. I don't blame you for not knowing, not many people think of the Inuit because they're so far removed from everyone else. I think the term "nose kiss" is now used in place of "eskimo kiss" to avoid offense. Your terminally online friends sound really annoying though, they could have just politely corrected you instead of acting all weird.

No. 1944407

>>1944396
Have you tried blocking the pages?

No. 1944408

>>1944407
Yes, but more keep coming back like a plague

No. 1944418

Do any nonnas here have areas of their body that are considerably darker than the rest? Did you ever get it looked at, and what was the cause?
I'm a brown woman with very dark and ashy armpits and a dark neck and I've had these since I was a child. My family figured it was a hygiene thing so my grandma would scrub at my neck to no end and there were no end results. If I scrape at the neck dark skin comes off, but I wash there so damn much. Hasn't gotten darker, but the armpits do tend to smell of B.O alot faster… I hate it

No. 1944420

>>1944418
Dead skin* damnit.

No. 1944424

>>1944418
yes. it’s most likely hyperpigmentation because it’s common in brown people. my armpits are darker as well as my upper lip. i there’s treatments for it but i don’t care enough to. i just use concealer to cover the spots that bother me.

No. 1944433

>>1944418
yea pits, knees, neck, inner thighs, butt, elbows, and back of the arm for some reason (like there's literally a divided split between the lighter and darker side). never figured out the cause and scrubbing hard doesn't work. I tried one of those scrubbing cloth things that are made out of rougher material (forgot the name but it feels like sandpaper) multiple times and it made no difference. if i scrub harder it just makes my skin slightly red for a few minutes but the darker parts are still there.

No. 1944448

>>1944418
>>1944433
look up ''acanthosis nigricans'', that could be a cause

No. 1944453

>>1944418
>>1944433
Like anon said, you may have hormonal issues, my acanthosis nigricans cleared up completely after taking medicines to deal with my insulin resistance.

No. 1944458

>>1944448
>>1944453
i'm the second anon and idk if it's that because most info about that condition says it's associated with obesity and diabetes, neither which I have. the example photos of this also look a lot more severe than mine.

No. 1944491

Is there a tutorial for grooming thick eyebrows on Youtube or other places? My eyebrows look like Cara Delevigne's and I want to make them less aggressive looking.

No. 1944499

Would the average woman be strong enough to row a boat with two other people in it?

No. 1944500

Is kpop still a thing? I feel like I don't see much about it at all anymore but I also graduated highschool six years ago

No. 1944501

How unrealistic is it to think I could walk 2 blocks from the place I'm staying at to a sketchy area downtown and try to find someone who sells heroin or fentanyl? Would I get murdered or raped? Would people think I'm a narc? Would I be able to spot a dealer and how would I approach them?

No. 1944505

>>1944500
It is unfortunately, I'm just happy it is banned over here. It's stronger than ever

No. 1944510

I'm trying to list some things on ebay for the first time.. but I keep getting errors, either it thinks I didn't enter the shipping costs when I did, or it turns 10,50/10.50 into 1050 and when I try to change it, it says it changed it but doesn't. Is ebay always this crappy?

No. 1944511

>>1944500
there are grown adult women spending their gap year following niggas like jemin or whatever his name is across the globe, weird isn't it

No. 1944529

>>1944511
>Jemin
Kekkkk

No. 1944541

Someone please explain this to.me because I think I'm too autistic to understand.

Why are people upset when someone they get into a relationship with, is still friends with someone they had sex with? If the partner states they aren't fucking each other anymore, why not trust your partner or leave if it's a problem? I understand how it could get messy, but only if there are no boundaries and trust, the answers seem obvious so why do people get upset and act like it's some huge taboo?

No. 1944542

>>1944541
boundaries are only as effective as how the people involved feel and feelings are mercurial

No. 1944546

>>1944541
I don’t get it either

No. 1944557

>>1944541
It's exactly like you say anon, some people can't trust their partners for various reasons. I don't think being friends with your ex is inherently a bad thing but a lot of people, especially men, tend to have emotional baggage and run back to their ex once they become available again.

No. 1944558

>>1944511
He looks like a gorilla. I don't see how anyone is attracted to that creature

No. 1944560

>>1944541
They are insecure and don’t trust their partner. The attitude is so common that lots of people just consider it normal even though it’s jealous and dysfunctional.

No. 1944569

>>1944541
There's a reason why they didn't work out in the end, so why are they still keeping contact?

No. 1944575

>>1944569
Just because a relationship fails doesn't mean you can't stay friends? Breakups don't always happen because one person was a pos

No. 1944627

what does alogging mean?

No. 1944631

>>1944627
Wishing physical harm on someone. It's named after a certain person who was obsessed with chris-chan and used to sperg about how bad he was and wish him death etc. to the point that user became a cow himself. On here, it's usually someone saying a cow should kill themselves. A-logging is discouraged and banable, it makes you look like a clown to get so worked up.

No. 1944640

>>1944631
Makes you look like a clown to get worked up while there’s pages and pages of obsessing and autistic nitpicking over some random retard. That doesn’t make any sense, it’s just another excuse for mods to ban people.

No. 1944650

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Nonnaz, How bad would it be to start producing ragebait videos to get some of that sweet sweet cash?

No. 1944662

>>1944640
just curious, are you asking because you are a newfag that got banned for a-logging? lol

No. 1944678

>>1944650
Seems like a lot of effort just to make the Internet more pissy, but get your money.

No. 1944697

where do you pirate audio books?

No. 1944700

>>1944697
Audiobookbay
Annasarchives
Not pirating but library apps like hoopla and Libby are good too.

No. 1944706

>>1944678
I saw his and felt inspired. The amount of seething people in the comments everytime it get reposted not getting it is ragebait is astounding.

No. 1944709

Should I go to urgent care today? I've had gastritis for a month and I'm on long term antibiotics. It suddenly got worse today.

No. 1944712

How come everyone I know says they have autism? I'm not joking. My childhood friends, old classmates, ex gfs, fucking everyone has autism now? Either they're all lying or I just have a tendency to befriend austists.

No. 1944769

>>1944700
thanks!

No. 1945053

How do i check if my hymen is broken? I was trying to break it before I have sex so I dont experience pain my first time

No. 1945059

Is it really a redflag or a bad thing to have no female friends? Or no friends at all? Idk I'm disabled and I only really spend time with my husband, my parents in law, and my own parents.

No. 1945061

>>1944712
Its become popular to identify as autistic and use it as their excuse for being annoying

No. 1945071

>>1945059
Obviously it's not a red flag if your isolation can be reasonably explained by your handicap.

No. 1945077

>>1945059
Maybe not a redflag but it’s worrisome because it makes you a target for men that would want to take advantage of you. I would try a disability centre or women’s support group. There’s the friend finder in /g/ but I would be cautious.

>>1945053
Check for blood, pain, tearing. Also please stop trying to break that, you at risk for infection down there.

No. 1945083

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Do long sleeve surfer bikinis make you look like a poser when you're not a surfer? I like the sporty look and coverage.

No. 1945087

>>1945059
it's not a red flag but it can be explained by internalized misogyny. especially those of us who kinda grew up around imageboards, it was very easy to buy the women sucks thing like 10 years ago. I realized the error in my ways after I got burned several times by moid friends I put a lot of energy onto and the people who were there for me were the female friends I put minimal effort in keeping around. I hope they forgive me for that and bless their hearts for being around. now I try my best to cultivate my female friendships and be there for them because men will always be there for each other. male friendships became secondary.

No. 1945115

>>1944709
Yes. You might be having a reaction to the antibiotics. Antibiotics are notorious for causing stomach issues but imo it’s weird that it suddenly became worse. If you don’t go, try to get some pedialyte or other electrolyte drink in you and call the doctor who prescribed the antibiotics or even the pharmacist in the morning for advice.

I hope you start feeling better soon!

No. 1945119

>>1945077
Wait is breaking your hymen possibly risky for infections??? Isn't it riskier if it gets broken during sex then

No. 1945127

What do you call it when you ask someone a question and they just answer it but they don’t ask the same question to you? I feel like I only noticed this after quite a while that this person just likes to talk about themselves and their life and doesn’t really care for asking about me or how I’m doing except like once a month. We talk multiple times a week and it’s usually about them.
Should I try to address it with them or just slowly, gradually phase them out as a friend?

No. 1945128

>>1945119
Anon doesn’t know what the fuck she’s talking about and fearmongering for no reason lol. Most women break their hymens doing non-sexual activities like exercising/sports, if it did cause infections it would be a known thing since again it’s common for women to break their hymens without intercourse doing so. There are rare exceptions where a woman’s hymen hasn’t been broken or is a bitter thicker but they would have to visit the gynecologist for that, obviously.

No. 1945132

>>1945127
They're self absorbed as fuck and using you as a journal and validation machine. It's a sticky situation. If you feel like the relationship isn't worth it maybe speak to them less and ask less questions. Or you could talk about yourself more.

No. 1945134

>>1945119
NTA but are you underage or do you just have no understanding of your own anatomy for some weird reason? A hymen “breaking” isn’t common unless it’s abnormally thick; they generally gradually stretch out. If you can comfortable use tampons or insert two fingers sex likely won’t be painful if you’re aroused.

I really don’t think you’re ready to be having sex yet and need to familiarize yourself with your own body first. If you are really determined to have sex, please only do it with someone you know and trust and ask him to stop if you’re in pain or just not into it. USE A CONDOM and be safe, anon.

No. 1945145

Nonas, what's the best way you orgasm? I masturbate pretty often (just use my fingers because toys embarrass me, and I am not using a vibrator in this house with paper-thin walls) but in all my years of living, I have never orgasmed. I have to give up midway because my arm starts hurting kek I'm such a weak retard. I want to experience it just once.

No. 1945147

>>1945145
just fingers on clit or mostly around it, no penetration either.

No. 1945148

>>1945119
Depends on what you’re doing to break it and if you disinfected your fingers or whatever you use to break it. Why not just use a lot of foreplay to relax your muscles and break it during your first time

>>1945128
I was only trying to help.

No. 1945154

>>1945147
Yeah, I do that. Don't like penetration. Tried sticking a finger in and it just hurt alot so never trying that again. But even if I'm rubbing my clit and it feels really good and I feel like I'm close to orgasming, I just randomly give up because I get tired/it starts hurting. It's really frustrating.

No. 1945169

>>1945145
I can only get off using toys, rubbing against a pillow or with a shower head… I get the most satisfying orgasms with a shower head but it takes forever so I don't do it very often. I've tried using just my fingers but I barely feel anything when I do. I'm kind of jealous of women who can orgasm that way kek

No. 1945195

>>1945169
I should try the shower head thing. It does feel really good.

No. 1945196

>>1945132
You’re right. I’ve seen it before too where they claim their friends are “yelling” at or “demanding” of them because they were asked something to the extent of, “hey can you please try to be here for me more” or told, “you aren’t really here for me that often”. All in lowercase, in more of a pleading or defeated tone, over text. Of course when I said that, my friend ignored me because they wanted me to say “oh yeah that bitch is totally screaming at you, how unreasonable”. I notice that this same person usually only shows over the top empathy to the same friends they talk shit about. Maybe because they like to encourage them to share their problems so they can laugh about them later. Yet whenever I’ve shared my problems they couldn’t care less and just change the subject or stop responding.

No. 1945212

>>1945134
Nta but now I'm confused too because >>1945128 says it's common and I've seen other women online say the same thing (am not underaged either, just sheltered and uneducated kek)

No. 1945232

Could I run my coffee make with dish soap and water to clean it out? I would use vinegar but I have none

No. 1945239

>>1945232
some hot water would probably be enough, the soap residue could stick inside of it

No. 1945280

Why do trannies have so many days? Trans day of visibility, Trans day of rememberace, trans day of acceptance, international transgender day, trans day of vengeance, transgender history month….

Who gave them all those days?

No. 1945290

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are there people who genuinely believe the things that redpill podcasters (pearl, andrew tate, whatever, fresh&fit, etc) say, or does everyone know it's all a grift

No. 1945292

>>1945280
Themselves, and if you say anything they just screech and call you a mean terf

No. 1945293

>>1945290
I seriously suspect that my sister and her husband are into Tate. She in particular loves Steven Crowder too.

No. 1945303

>>1945290
Yes there are.

No. 1945304

>>1945290
pretty sure some people really think it's true and deep

No. 1945310

How the fuck is big mouth still en aire?

No. 1945311

>>1945290
At the end of the day they're all just grifters. Grifters take advantage of the dumb people in society (maybe 30-40% of society borders on clinical retardation) and they've been making money off of them since ancient times. Unfortunately, as long as there are mental defectives around the grifters will always have a reason to grift.

No. 1945319

>>1945311
>30-40% of society borders on clinical retardation
how sure are you of this statement?

No. 1945323

>>1945319
Am I sure that Jesus died and rose 3 days later? No. I have faith, and faith is the most important attribute. I have faith in my statement that 30-40% of the population borders on clinical retardation. Especially scrotes. If 50% of the population is scrotes, then the 30-40% I mention leaves a generous 10% for non-retarded scrotes, which even then is very generous.
>>1945310
I think it's low production costs coupled with how many people watch it/how much $$ it brings in for Netflix. I personally don't watch it because I'm not slow but I was surprised by how many of my old coworkers watched it religiously and actually found it funny.

No. 1945326

any idea why can't I ever access crystal.cafe? It says I'm blocked. I don't use any vpns or anything and if it matters I'm from europe.

No. 1945348

I lost my period a year ago due to being underweight, however I got back to a normal weight about 5 months ago and it's still gone. Is it supposed to take this long to come back?

No. 1945361

>>1945348
yeah it took me ~7/8 months to get my first one back and it's been very irregular and spotty ever since

No. 1945368

Why are people who are between the ages of 30 and 50 considered "old", but if someone in that age range passes away, they are said to have died young?

No. 1945372

>>1945368
>Why are people between age 30-50 considered old?
Nobody actually considers them old besides chronically online Zoomers or Millennials obsessed with being 18 forever.
>If someone dies between age 30-50, they are said to die young?
Most people die of old age around 70 or 80, so if you die before then you die "younger" than you were "supposed" to die.

No. 1945373

>>1945368
the obsession with trying to make women insecure

No. 1945458

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Why does AI always give people the exact same face? If it was trained on a multitude of images, shouldn't it at least give different facial features and expressions?

Picrel, someone posted this creepy ass image on a sub for AI girls. It got over 600 upvotes even though everyone looks exactly the same. Look up other images of AI and you'll see that all the generated women, girls, and children look like this too.

No. 1945476

>>1945458
If AI takes a composite of images uploaded by people and people all use the same retarded filters then ai is going to do the same probably.

No. 1945502

Is it true that men you are dating or ‘seeing’ start liking you more when you’re indifferent to them? I cant pull off that cool girl vibe because I start acting really smiley and shy when I like someone…

No. 1945513

There was a lolcow that went silent soon after being found by lolcow but i can't find her thread. She was Canadian, she shopped her pics to an extreme extent, she would lie and say she was a lot of different ethnicities and races, i think her name had tsundere in it. Anyone remember her?

No. 1945514

>>1945502
No, it's a psyop from emotionally damaged people to justify their aversion to affection and vulnerability. There is a balance to how much interest you should show initially but a lot of people who say what you're saying are unconsciously self loathing. You shouldn't be talking marriage three weeks into dating but if a moid is put off by the fact you openly like him then he's not good relationship material in the first place.

No. 1945523

>>1945513
Tsundebolt?

No. 1945527

>>1945523
Yay, yes, thank you so much

No. 1945596

Does seed cycling actually work? I'm skeptical because it seems like it has good benefits for such a small amount, but I've seen a lot of people saying that it helped in massive ways (i.e, less hormonal, less or no cramps)

No. 1945658

Is it egotistical to name my daughter after myself? Kek, my mom named me and I really love my name and it would be really cool having a kid with the same name in my mind.

No. 1945666

>>1945658
moids name their children and grandchildren and great-grandchildren after themselves, so women should be allowed to do it too !

No. 1945668

>>1945502
no i wouldnt really say men like being treated with ambivalence thats often something that causes them to kill women

No. 1945669

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Why am I still a size 14, despite being a BMI 20?

No. 1945674

>>1945669
Are you a taller person?

No. 1945676

>>1945674
No, I'm average (5'3")

No. 1945677

>>1945676
wide hips, most likely

No. 1945704

>>1932945
yes they would still be mixed

No. 1945705

>>1932945
Yes, they're still half Asian and half white
(50% asian + 50% white) + (50% asian + 50% white) = 25% asian + 25% white + 25% asian + 25% white.

No. 1945724

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What am I supposed to do when I wake up with anxiety? Help please

No. 1945737

>>1945724
You think about cats or something cute and then you accept the anxiety instead of fighting it and agree to get up and live your live feeling anxious despite it

No. 1945739

>>1932945
who’s the actress?

No. 1945753

>>1932945
yes, zoë kravitz is an example of two mixed people having a mixed child.

No. 1945773

>>1932945
No. She's quatroracial.

No. 1945827

would it be wrong for me to try and ask my coworker out if i'm the boss's daughter?

No. 1945913

Does anyone else feel like almost every actor on Star Trek is doing a great job? I've finished binging Star Trek DS9, TNG, and Voyager and for it being just a TV show, most of the actors really hit their mark. I know that some of the actors have better ranges than others, and some of the episode's plots can't be fixed, but I'm blown away by how well they portray these scenes. My boyfriend disagrees, says that he doesn't feel that way, but compared to the last five movies I've seen in theaters, it feels like the Star trek actors are so much better.

No. 1946045

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Is picrel true? I'm a bit annoyed by the use of "need" since it's not like sleep or food.

No. 1946051

>>1946045
obviously not, it's all propaganda from little extraverted creeps.

No. 1946060

>>1945827
Well unless you're 100% sure they'll say yes I wouldn't do it. They might feel coerced into agreeing to it because they fear you could get them fired for saying no

No. 1946064

>>1946045
This sounds like love language or the biological clock, something an unqualified man came up with specifically so males can be weird about it.

No. 1946112

>>1945502
No, that advice only applies if you're a BPD mess who begs for attention 24/7 and constantly grovels at your moid's unwashed feet for validation. If your moid thrives on this sort of neediness he's ready for the noose, so go find yourself a better one. If both of you are functional, non-retarded humans, just be normal, nobody likes being ignored.
>>1946045
It might be true for little kids, but not for adults. Your picrel makes it sound like they're talking about child development, where kids do need lots of contact with their parents to develop properly.

No. 1946315

What's a normal libido supposed to be like? When is it too low and when is it too high?

No. 1946375

Does anyone have that picture of i think evangelion where shinji is surrounded by a lot of clones or monsters or something? it might be from another anime, i cant remember

No. 1946377

>>1946315
I too would like this answer. I used to want sex about twice a week, but for the past six months I only want sex maybe once a month. I keep telling myself its stress, but my job has remained exactly the same. But honestly, it feels like it's too low at the moment.

No. 1946380

>>1945724
You establish rituals that focus on calm. So every morning, you would make an effort to have a cup of chamomile tea, and while sipping it, focus on your breathing and relaxing individual muscle groups. If focusing on yourself is too big of a step at first, then start with watching a relaxing video like birds at a bird feeder. That way, when you wake up stressed, as soon as you start walking towards the kitchen, your body starts getting rid of the stress chemicals because it knows that you wouldn't be performing the ritual if there was actual danger.
Or, in a quick pinch, you start running/jogging. You go until you can't go anymore and then your body is tricked into thinking that you outran the danger and calms down.

No. 1946385

>>1946315
I truly believe there is no standard and "too low" or "too high" only matter when you don't match your partner's libido. I only want sex a few times a month, there's some people who want it every day, as long as I don't date one of those people it's fine. Although in my experience most moids tend to be on the higher end. there's low libido moids but they're rare

No. 1946392

Ok really dumb question but has anyone here ever had their period while pregnant? I got my period a few weeks ago but I’m having symptoms that are really making me anxious and I don’t feel comfortable taking a test without my husband next to me.

No. 1946468

When does regular partying become substance abuse?

No. 1946474

>>1946315
>>1946468
I'd say the answer to both is whether or not it starts to negatively affect your life, health, or the lives of those around you.

No. 1946477

>>1946468
>When you're always thinking about the next time you'll 'party.'
>When you spend more money than you'd like to on 'partying,' or it's interfering with your other financial responsibilities.
>When you only have friends that 'party.'
>When you forgo important life events, e.g., hobbies, job advancements, travel, to continue to 'party.'
>When 'partying' has an adverse reaction to your health.
It's a slippery slope. I've known some people that like to get shit-faced for the whole weekend then go to work for the whole week, other people that go on benders once a month, some that smoke a little bit of pot every night, etc., and at the end of the day whatever they're doing works for some and doesn't work for others. I think those 5 points I mention are useful in deciding if what you're doing stops being just "parting" and becomes substance abuse. It's cute to use drugs and stuff when you're a young adult, but I've known people in their late 20s that still spend 1/2 their pay cheque on drugs (and then get angry and wonder why they can't move out of their parents house kek)

No. 1946479

>>1946392
Don't be a child and go take that test if you think you need it.

No. 1946487

>>1946477
IMO getting shitfaced every weekend is substance abuse. Whether you feel like it’s totally not that bad or not.

No. 1946512

>>1946045
Sometimes i wonder if the moids who write this pop psychology bullshit understand all the implications of the shit they write or if they're too dopamine-fried, touch-starved autistic monsters to care about it. If you need "8 hugs a day to funtion" you have to pipe off the immediate satisfaction, because it rotted your brain.

No. 1946514

Is it normal for a hotel manager to want to interview you in one of the bedrooms?

No. 1946516

>>1946514
No nona… they should have an office or back room for staff for that. Especially for cameras and whatnot, that sounds sketch be careful nonita

No. 1946548

What are ways to soundproof the floor to not bother my neighbors downstairs when I jump around a lot? Other than rugs, I mean.

No. 1946552

>>1946548
My first thought is to just stop jumping around so much kek. Usually soundproofing would work best if the area you want no noise is shielded by sound, like, you'd need to soundproof their ceiling instead of your floors.

No. 1946558

Is anyone else having problems accessing youtube? Every time I try to visit the site it crashes my browser.

No. 1946559

How do people feel about the ampersand (&)? I like using it a lot but not many other people do. Sometimes I feel so alone in my ampersand-love train. Sometimes I feel like other people would use it more if there wasn't so much vitriolic hatred aimed at the ampersand. Once when I was doing my undergrad the professor said to avoid using the ampersand. I was so angry that day. What is your opinion on the ampersand? Is it right to use in formal communication?

No. 1946568

>>1946516
Yeah I agree and didn’t go through with the interview but I still wonder if overreacted. It was a small hotel im not sure it had an office or conference room didnt really notice. And the lobby was by the front desk and i mightve been replacing the person that was there at the time, so maybe it was to maintain some privacy?

No. 1946570

>>1946568
Personally I don't think it was too weird, but if you felt it was off you should still trust your gut reaction. A friend of mine got a job cleaning hotels and she also did an interview in one of the rooms, it seemed like they had one room there that was specifically for storage or doing that sort of thing.

No. 1946593

I want to take myself out for lunch or a glass of wine all by myself, because I'm mid 20s and never have. Any other anxious nonnies done this? I am highly anxious but I really wanna get over it kek

No. 1946596

>>1946593
It's one of the best treats you can give yourself, worth it every time. And totally normal to do, if that helps with your anxiety. Sitting at the bar might, too. I like to bring a book or journal and just vibe with a couple of glasses of wine and snacks. Have fun!

No. 1946599

>>1946593
When I first moved out of my parent's place at 17 I was always so nervous to go to restaurants and stuff alone because I was under the impression that it'd be 'weird' for me to go out alone, but by the time I was 19 I got over it because I was craving AYCE sushi so badly and had nobody to go with so I said fuck it and went alone. Once I was there I realized how silly my anxiety was (as we often do) for the next few years I enjoyed two days a week of going out by myself and eating at lots of fun restaurants. It's a great experience to try new restaurants and you don't need other people to enjoy it. I usually bring my diary or a book to read while I eat, and nothing negative has happened so far. A few times I've even chatted with other people eating alone and they invited me to their table. Overall it's a fun experience. I think more people need to be comfortable doing things on their own!

No. 1946601

>>1945913
The ones in the 60's version were too hammy/campy and dramatic in a bad way imo. Also lots of pointless staring.

No. 1946641

How long does it take for you to feel like something you purchased is yours? I buy anything and can't look at it for two weeks because it's as if someone left their junk in my home. A similar feeling to hating a hair change at first.

No. 1946645

>>1946641
for me it's the moment i buy it kek

No. 1946661

What are some easy or unknown ways one might get cancer? I want to take preventive measures.

No. 1946691

>>1946641
When it's new, immediately, when it's second-hand once it sat on my bed.

No. 1946699

>>1946661
I hope you're not planning on getting it nonna

No. 1946700

>>1946641
As soon as it's in my cart kek. It's mine once I think about it.

No. 1946702

>>1946661
So many things give you cancer but general things to do, bear in mind a big part of some cancers is genetic.

Food (avoid)
High in 'bad' fats
Highly processed (crips and so on)
From chernobyl
Red meat
Food with cigarettes in (be careful of france)

Don't smoke, don't drink, stay away from fire.

Regular checkups are one of the best ways to prevent a developing cancer but only rich people do that.

No. 1946722

Is it really true that if you try to fight back an assaulter or rapist, that would make them escalate and kill you? It's so weird to me that a lot of women (who haven't been in this situation before) say that they would just lie there and wait until its over. If someone is violently raping or attacking you, doesn't it make sense to assume they're going to kill you anyway and try to fight them off and get away?

No. 1946727

>>1946661
there's no surefire way to avoid it.
main causes are age, smoking, sun exposure, smoke expsoure, alcoholism, bad diets and carcinogenics in your environent. but there's no miracle diets or special trick that will allow you to eliminate the risk.
if avoid smoking, excessive drinking and tanning and too puch red meat you'll definitely have mitigated some of the risk but even people with healthy lifestyles can get it.
it's a horrible disease but many cancers are treatable if caught early, so it's important to do regular checkups.

No. 1946734

>>1946702
overeating and eating too fast can also cause stomach cancer

No. 1946735

>>1946702
>Food (avoid)
>from chernobyl
This is making me lol

No. 1946736

>>1946661
Don't eat any variant of button mushrooms, they're very dangerous

No. 1946738

>>1946736
trying to keep all the button mushrooms to yourself methinks

No. 1946749

>>1946702
>>1946727
>>1946734
>>1946735
>>1946736
Thanks.
>>1946699
No. If I wanted to die I would choose a quicker and more painless method.

No. 1946769

>>1946722
a testerical male might get even more pissed and escalate if you piss him off or alert him, fawning is a legit response to abusers that can work. but your real goal should be to run whenever you can.

No. 1946789

>>1946769
It's weird because it's so context dependent, like how if someone ever tried to take you to a second location you fight like hell because you're so much more likely to die if you don't get out of there.

No. 1946831

This might be a long shot but I'm trying to remember a youtuber.

She is british, her name might be something like Jenn or Lauren. She is overweight, has had a gastric bypass and tried to lose weight like 10 times throughout the decade, had some mild success but is now (last I remember) very overweight.
She does long vlogs, has a girlfriend, but lives alone in a tiny apartment with a kitchen in a closet.
She doesn't have too many subscribers so she doesn't come up when I try to search for her.

No. 1946850

Is Japanese soy sauce really that different to Chinese soy sauce? Can it work as a substitute?
I still want to eat Chinese cuisine but without using products that come from China. Ever since I found out about the gutter oil debacle, I'm just done. I'm trying to be as healthy as possible and I don't want to give myself cancer. I do enjoy the cuisine itself, but I am never eating anything that was made there again.

No. 1946857

>>1946850
>>1946850
japanese soy sauce is a little less salty but yeah it's a fine substitute. Unless the recipe calls for dark or mushroom soy sauce, which don't really have a Japanese equivalent afaik

No. 1947163

>>1946769
>fawning is a legit response to abusers that can work
Yeah, if you're in a DV situation or something. But if someone is violent enough to assault/rape it's very likely they going to kill you after. They're likely psychotic or on drugs too. So many women fawn and don't try to fight back but get beaten (or worse) and killed anyway. I think a lot of people forget fighting back is not about incapacitating the moid, even a moment of surprise can offer you a chance to escape. And it's very hard to restrain someone who is thrashing about. I feel like women are taught they have absolutely no chance to escape (false) so their first instinct is to give up and that leads to them being killed anyway.

No. 1947231

have any nonas ever met someone who looked completely different irl because they not only sent you edited pictures of themselves but also told you untrue things about their appearance? for example they brag all the time that they have huge eyes and then you do a double take when you see them irl because their eyes are tiny af. i think this person is insecure however i also am insecure about my own appearance and it’s made me do the opposite where im self deprecating and not bragging about features that i don’t have. what exactly is going on here?

No. 1947237

>>1946831
You might have better luck posting this in the Help Me Find thread. Good luck

No. 1947243

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Any nonas who learned to drive later in life? I'm 29 and I still can't drive but have been thinking about learning it.
Cars and driving literally terrifies me though.
People who try to be supportive of me learning to drive will say things like "it's ok, nobody is judging you if you make mistakes!" only to then turn around and cuss out a storm over seeing a practice driver go a bit too slow, calling them truly vile things. It stresses me out knowing that pretty much every other driver is going to be that hateful towards me while I learn.
I'm scared of borrowing a car to practice driving and breaking and/or damaging it from making a mistake. I literally cannot afford it. Or to accidentally hurt or kill someone if I fuck up really big. I already have such a poor sense of spacial awareness of my own body, how am I supposed to not hit things with a massive car when I can't even walk past a table without bumping my leg into it? I can't imagine driving anywhere that isn't basically a straight road forwards. Just thinking about driving is making me tear up from stress, I feel like I'm too cursed with anxiety to ever learn it. I wish I had learned it when I was younger just because people will excuse a teen for being a bad driver and having anxiety but they have less compassion for adults.

No. 1947270

>>1947163
Ntayrt but at least in my country “just laying there” will make the courts believe that you consented. Plus most rapes in the middle of nowhere end up in murder regardless because the victim is likely to have seen the attackers face etc. Being a coquette won’t save you from shit.

No. 1947276

>>1947243
>Cars and driving literally terrifies me though.
Same I rather use Uber alternatives or buses even though they aren't completely secure than drive myself and commit a grave mistake. It's terrifying.

No. 1947281

>>1947243
I'm also learning how to drive later in life. I moved from a big city to a suburbs area. Buses barely exists here, and uber can get really expensive. I have to learn this year. The key really is practice. Taking back roads and local roads until you feel comfortable on the highway. You can do it.

No. 1947287

>>1947243
Anon, I had a big fear of driving/cars to the point I genuinely thought I would never get my license. I don't really have good advice for overcoming it because unfortunately for me I was bullied into learning by a shitty ex, so it was kind of forced exposure therapy for me. Which I guess worked, I was still a nervous wreck when I started but it eased up over time. Even now I try to only drive in situations I'm more comfortable in (no high traffic areas/times, no bad weather conditions, no night driving, if I'm driving other people it can't be more than one and they have to be quiet) if possible. However, the only thing that ever comforted me before that was a therapist telling me that it's fine if I never learn to drive, plenty people don't and they manage. There are busses, and if not there's Uber, there's carpooling, bikes, etc. Hearing that other adults get by just fine with only a little difficulty/inconvenience made me feel less shameful about it. Wishing you the best anon. Do you have any calm friends you trust to be good drivers that you can just chill in the car with while they drive, or who can chill in the car while you practice? Not being driven around or accompanied by a stress-inducing maniac did help me be more comfortable with cars. As for the judgment of others, something I read a long time ago stated that people get so mad when driving because it's basically anonymous. They usually can't see you, and you usually can't see them so no one will judge them for getting so pissy either so they don't have to hold back. They see a car, not a person, while on the road. They're not thinking "Anon Doe is such an idiot" they're thinking "fuck that Honda Accord just cut me off" idk if that's comforting at all though. I'll admit my feelings do get a teensy bit hurt if other drivers ever honk at me lol

No. 1947304

>>1947243
Driving can make you very anxious, but it can also be very fun. Driving lessons are pretty affordable, but if you feel too nervous to start with that, use exposure therapy on yourself. Borrow/rent a golf cart, or even go to the go kart track. This gives you experience operating a motor vehicle that you're in control of, but with very low stakes.
Plus, new drivers don't start on the highway, you start on back country roads where there are barely any other drivers and people go slower. This allows you to get comfortable to how a car responds while at low speeds with no people before making things gradually harder by doing things like cruising around a sleepy suburb. Another tip is to practice late at night. The later it is, the fewer people are driving so you have less interactions.

No. 1947337

>>1947243
I'm 26 and don't know how to drive either—I had my beginner's when I was younger but having a bad driving instructor and parents that never wanted to take me out to practice turned into me still taking the bus or walking everywhere in my mid 20's. One of my goals this year is to learn to drive properly so I can be more independent but I feel like I'm too retarded and anxious to be driving even though 16 year olds do it kek. Also, there are people who've been driving for years or decades and are still awful so I think we just need to be kinder to ourselves because at least we'd have the excuse that we're still learning.

No. 1947423

What is a simple way to work out second order cross-partial derivative?

No. 1947437

>>1947243
I was scared of driving on my own despite getting a license as a teen and it really is a mental issue, regarding fear or lack of faith in your own judgment imo. The only way to build your faith in yourself and your skills is to start driving more like doing small trips and then building up to doing what scares you the most. For really dangerous things you need to learn (like on the highway) do practice more with a friend as much as you feel until you're comfortable.
>People who try to be supportive of me learning to drive will say things like "it's ok, nobody is judging you if you make mistakes!" only to then turn around and cuss out a storm over seeing a practice driver go a bit too slow, calling them truly vile things.
I grew up around people with road rage too and honestly, you have to learn it's not a big deal to piss other people off if you're learning. If you start to drive in less busy areas, you won't be pissing off many people. And then you can get used to driving faster so you won't piss most people off. Driving is a skill you can improve in, unless you truly have a kind of disability in which it is not safe for you to drive.

No. 1947442

>>1947243
I got my license at 18 but I never really got to use it as I haven't driven a car since 2015 and I was always accompanied, never on my own. I'm honestly baffled I managed to get it on first try with zero mistake since I'm like you, pretty terrible spatial awareness and I get easily distracted, and I didnt even like driving. I'm lucky to live in a big city with decent public transportation, but if I ever move away in a small place I'd have to do some kind of training course just gnto get back to driving. Even going on vacations in more secluded places is impossible to me since I'd have to rent a car and I'm nor confident at all about it.

No. 1947625

>>1947287
>Do you have any calm friends you trust to be good drivers that you can just chill in the car with while they drive, or who can chill in the car while you practice?
No, I wish I had! The only friend I'd trust to be calm also can't drive (she has seizures from time to time so she's legally not allowed to to drive but unlike me has a valid excuse)
>>1947304
>Driving can make you very anxious, but it can also be very fun.
I've had a few driving lessons (years ago at this point, with friends/family) and I hated every second of it, I didn't find fun at all.
>Another tip is to practice late at night.
I like this tip, only problem is I'm obviously not allowed to practice alone and I can't imagine anyone in my life would be willing to stay up just let me practice driving.
>>1947437
>Driving is a skill you can improve in, unless you truly have a kind of disability in which it is not safe for you to drive.
I kinda feel like my anxiety may literally be a disability from how much it hinders me. But I don't know how to get over it when real people's lives or years of debt is at stake at every mistake. It's not like I'm making the "threats" up!
I think I'm also scared over the fact that I know everyone around me will see me as an incompetent mess for not being able to drive right. My dad gave me a driving lesson once and all I remember is "never do X thing, you'll break the car" and I can't even remember the context, just that he told me that and how anxious it made me.

No. 1947688

>>1947625
sorry I don't have any real advice for you because I am also an anxious driver. I drive over an hour every single day and every time I'm extremely nervous, it's not fun at all but I have to do it. Just know that even if you are a "bad" driver everyone around you is probably even worse. If you're aware of your surroundings and use your blinkers you're already doing more to prevent accidents than 90% of drivers. And you can't control other people's emotions, sometimes you can be doing everything right and still get some moid road raging or tailgating you because they are just like that. Just ignore them and focus on getting yourself to your destination safely. My anxiety has lessened the more I drive because the mechanics of driving are honestly pretty simple, the scary part is the other drivers around you kek. Generally as long as you give the crazy drivers plenty of space you're fairly unlikely to get in an accident

No. 1947875

Has anyone noticed an abnormally large amount of posts about "booping" on Tumblr lately?

No. 1947878

How do I know if my bicycle is the problem or me? Probably depends on the country but can I just go to a bicycle shop and ask them if my bike is properly fitted for my height?

No. 1947889

>>1947875
Of course. It was this year's April Fools joke. You could hit a button and a cat's paw would boop another person's blog.

No. 1947897

>>1947889
Ooh ok, that makes sense. I really only go on Tumblr to consume stuff about my husbandos and waifus so I couldn't understand why every other post was about booping.

No. 1947990

Seeing zommers lack reading comprehension etc I want to ask a simple question to anons. What men are currently hot in Hollywood? I don't mean hot as in busy and shilled. I mean hot as in you use him as a marker for men you fancy

No. 1948034


No. 1948068

Do different kinds of sounds travel the same? If I spoke at the exact same volume as my TV, would my voice and the TV sounds travel the same?

No. 1948071

>>1948068
There's a calculation for the speed of sound like there is for the speed of light. It's the environment that determines the speed rather than the noise. So like sound travelling through the air is more dispersed because sound is a vibration but sound in water can travel further with less distortion and why we have wires to transmit sound through solids because atoms are packed closer in solids so the vibrations don't get as distorted

No. 1948208

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Should I get more than one type of tampon per menstrual cycle? The first 4 days of bleeding I literally bleed through the tampon but by day 5 I have not much left, yet I still use the same "super abundant" type, and it's kind of dry. Also should I feel bad about liking applicators? I feel like they contribute to micro plastics way too much but it's easier and less messy to insert

No. 1948275

>>1948208
If you feel like you're wasting it or it's uncomfortable sure.
I use two different types of pads on my cycle. The expensive foam super absorbent ones the first day or two, then some cheap store brand ones the other couple days.

No. 1948291

How do I edit a PDF without having to buy adobe? I just need to change two words on my resume and it's driving me crazy.

No. 1948302

>>1948291
Can't you put it into an online .pdf to .doc translator, then edit the .doc file and save it back again as a .pdf?

No. 1948305

>>1948291
open it with google docs

No. 1948312

do any of you ever wonder when lolcow will stop being a thing

No. 1948314

>>1948312
It will never stop being a thing the day it stops "being" is the day after the last trumpet afaik and even then I know Mary is up in heaven on heavencow dot farm keking about angel cows I know it

No. 1948330

>>1948312
i could imagine the website staying up forever, as long as it's funded. but lolcow's specific board culture, which imo is what makes it lolcow, will constantly change

No. 1948331

>>1948312
>>1948314
Lolcow was going to die due to lack of funds not too long ago

No. 1948338

>>1948331
Admin just wasn't footing the bill anymore. When she made the announcement anons immediately started donating and iirc there was a $1,000 donation. Finding an admin was more of a problem than funds tbh.

No. 1948341

>>1948331
I know that. But here we are. Still on our beloved lolcor.

No. 1948376

Would anyone be interested in an Advertising Hate thread if I made one? Like, talking about shitty ads you see in the wild, or annoying trends in advertising overall.

No. 1948383

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>>1948376
Does it include Internet ads?

No. 1948386

>>1948383
Of course!

No. 1948387

>>1948312
no, because women will always need a space on the internet and this is one of the few.

No. 1948388

>>1948376
yes please

No. 1948405

>>1948387
what do you think will become of us lolcow users when the internet is no longer

No. 1948415

Why does Finland and the UK have such a high dementia rate?

No. 1948452

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how do asian people eat this disgusting shit

No. 1948455

>>1948415
they're some of the most autistic countries thatas why

No. 1948459

>>1948455
I decided to do some research and found out that recent studies have suggested that there may be a genetic link between autism and dementia. Some of the genes that are associated with autism are also associated with an increased risk of developing dementia later in life. A study of Medicaid and other public health records show middle-aged adults with autism are 2.6 times more likely to be diagnosed with Alzheimer's and other dementias than those without ASD.

No. 1948460

>>1948459
damn that was a total shot in the dark LOl, thank you for the facts nonna

No. 1948463

>>1948452
Is this from Egg Drop or something? A lot of food in SK that goes viral is only viral because it's novel, so they do weird food shit all the time. Like the peanut butter dried squid and the lavendar chips. Not really generalizable.

No. 1948508

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nonnies nonnies, who's this hunk and what's this show??????

No. 1948509

>>1948508
samefag, google image search doesn't work

No. 1948510

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No. 1948519

Saw someone bragging about having a long buttcrack in /g/, what the hell is a long buttcrack ??

No. 1948528

>>1948519
As opposed to a short one like Hank hill ass

No. 1948530

>>1948405
I will kill myself

No. 1948531

>>1948383
>>1948376
>>1948386
Please do nonna, it's been 6 hours and we are almost finished with this thread but you have my support (I hope you see this)

No. 1948534

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>>1948508
>>1948509
samefag nonnies, the lady stayed on the metro long enough for the other character to mention his name, its Kalix from the Rain in Espana

No. 1948596

When I was younger, my mom gave me the silent treatment when I did something to upset her (most of the time accidentally), she would go several days not talking to me except for greetings (because manners is the most important thing I guess) until I said sorry. She started doing it when I was really young, like 10 years old, and afaik she never really did it to my siblings. Was it somewhat abusive or was it a normal reaction to being hurt?

No. 1948610

>>1948596
Silent treatment shit is at best an immature way of handling conflict and at worst, yeah, i'd say it's abusive. Particularly if it's done in parent/(non-adult) child relationships.

No. 1948614

What are some good resources for learning composition? Either for photography or painting

No. 1948617

>>1948534
You could always just go up and ask someone directly what they're watching, too. Just saying kek

No. 1948620

>>1948596
>Was it somewhat abusive or was it a normal reaction to being hurt?
It can be both because she's only human but also she's the parent and she shouldn't be getting her feelings hurt by you, her child. If you ever said anything actually hurtful her reaction should be to talk it out with you because kids need to learn why you shouldn't say hurtful things. I guess it depends on what you said and how old you were. Some people aren't mature enough to be good parents when the time comes, and some kids are unintentionally incredibly vicious with their words (I'm guessing that's not you but I don't know you).
A couple times I said some hurtful things to my mom and I could see they cut deep and afterwards she didn't talk to me (or anyone, outside the necessary niceties for a while). I was only a tween but I understood I went too far. She was prone to depression so silent treatment was not special it was her norm, it might not be the same for you. I felt pretty bad, we had a pretty bad life and I was being a nasty little hormonal shit while she was the only one holding it all together. I didn't consider her abusive for that at all, just human. or maybe it just didn't bother me so much because her depression made her neglectful which was a bigger problem. It's all highly situational, probably no one else can tell you if that was abusive or damaging to you except you.

No. 1948622

How can I use AI to make deepfake porn? I tried to use PornGen but it does not work on male photographs.

No. 1948646

>>1948622
Anon…

No. 1948660

Do men even have hobbies anymore? every moid i talk to only plays crappy videogames.

No. 1948674

>>1948660
On the other hand, there are the gymrats that make it their entire personality kek

No. 1948676

Why is it so hard to find other lonely loser autists? You'd think there'd be plenty but I only met a handful irl.

No. 1948691

>>1948676
I'm here nonna. Call me

No. 1948724

are foot fetishist real human people?

No. 1948726

>>1948724
yes? it's not that extreme.

No. 1948747

Why do I cringe so hard when my family members make dumb ~*~sAtAn goooood~*~ type jokes? I'm not religious, never have been, but that shit just makes me feel so embarrassed idk

No. 1948752

>>1948747
Just wanted to add they aren't always jokes. Like my mom called something satanic in a negative way, and my sister responded with "do not bring satan into this." In a protective kinda way kek

No. 1948757

>>1948674
going to the gym isnt a hobby either, it has to be something creative

No. 1948772

>>1948747
no it is so cringe. and when people make jokes like “well hell will be fun” and think they’re funny and edgelords like shut up

No. 1948800

I told my mom I wanted to look for another job that’s more nearby and she got mad at me. Why? I’m a tard with these kinds of things but I didn’t say I was going to quit my job or become neet, I have no idea why she’s angry.

No. 1948804

>>1948660
It really doesn't seem like it, every moid on dating apps has video games and/or going to the gym as his hobby. They're like NPC's kek, besides watching porn and tiktok that's all they do. The odd one might be a bit of a car autist though

No. 1948808

>>1948800
Some oldies I've found do get mad at the idea of changing jobs, my grandmother got annoyed at my brothers girlfriend changing jobs. (even though it was a classic new manager ruins everything situation)
Is she any type of traditionalist or conservative? It's a talking point among them that the new generation (z and milen) change jobs too much.
You could ask her?

No. 1948821

>>1948808
Thanks nonna, she’s not super traditional but she’s had the same job her entire life. I don’t really know what she’s upset about but I don’t have to do what she says job wise anyway.

No. 1948826

Hi nonnies, is student teaching normally very exhausting? I have a friend who student teaches and she is constantly tired. Will being an actual teacher become less exhausting for her? Or is this not the job for her? I worry about her a lot and in every picture she sends me she looks tired to the bone and it genuinely hurts to see.

No. 1948864

>>1948826
Student teachers are often given the stuff teachers don't realllly wanna do but yes teaching is an exhausting job, it's thankless in a lot of countries with little payoff and is extra hard at the moment with unregulated internet access at all time kids in school. It's really not a career for the faint of heart.

No. 1948867

>>1948826
I'm a teacher, but thankfully I found a job in a private school. Longer holidays but a long ass day. Much nicer than being abused and a lighter schedule.

No. 1948920

>>1948691
Will do.

No. 1949085

Can someone recommend me a music player that's offline for android? The one I have currently was great until it got updated with ads. I constantly have to force stop it to get it to work correctly.

No. 1949107

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What’s the evolutionary benefit to oily skin and why is it more common for Mediterranean people to have it? Furthermore, why are we both greasy AND hairy?

No. 1949108

>>1949085
Samsung music? Idk if it's available for other phones but it's the default app I've been using for like a decade

No. 1949113

>>1949107
The Mediterranean gets hot and dry, no? My best bet on the oily skin is that the advantage is less dry, cracked skin in a climate that can get very dry and hot in the summer time.

No. 1949120

>>1949085
AIMP is open source (iirc), no ads, super customizable.

No. 1949121

>>1949107
Grease is a natural barrier against water loss. If your face is dry your body might overproduce oils to match up.
Some ethnicities probably evolved to protect against dry or harsh weather. Or maybe even sea salt in the air but that's pure speculation on my part

No. 1949124

>>1949107
Keeping you moist of course, when you're in a warm or humid environment the heat can be harmful so your body secretes sweat to cool you off, and hair is made to protect your body. Eyebrows and lashes protect the eyes, head hair shields your skull, pubes protect your pussy, and so on

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No. 1949133

>>1949132
Depressing.

No. 1949505

Does anyone else really enjoy the smell of bleach? I don’t even use it that often, but whenever I smell it, it’s so comforting

No. 1949511

>>1949505
Yeah, but the fumes hurt to inhale too much of. I also love the smells of gasoline and chlorine

No. 1949538

>>1949505
I’m allergic to it or something because it makes me unable to breathe properly, but I do occasionally use it in small amounts to clean cat spit up and my cat is obsessed with it and starts rolling in it and even sometimes licking it, which I always make her stop

No. 1949551

Is there any data on where the majority of lolcow users are from

No. 1949560

>>1949551
check hell week thread on /meta/

No. 1949717

Is it just me or is lolcow really slow? Maybe like 3 or 5 days ago threads would be bumped every few minutes, now it's every 2 hour unless there's an infight

No. 1949801

Did you take a PPP loan?

No. 1949826

>>1949717
lolcow goes through phases like this

No. 1949828

>>1949717
Meh, it's the start of the month and midweek. It's usually a bit slower around these periods. It's weird but I notice traffic tends to seem up at the end of months

No. 1949882

Has anyone here ever thought of franchising a restaurant just so you can eat there more often?
To be fair it is a healthy place (tbh I should just get a food processor)

No. 1949917

Am I blind or does Spotify not show or play all of your songs in your playlist? I have over 600+ songs on my daily playlist but I swear it only plays the same 10 songs on rotate with an occasional new song if I have smart shuffle on
>>in b4 anon use a different streaming or upload ur own music to phone.
Pls I don’t have the time anymore and I’m on someone’s family plan for free teehee

No. 1949949

I got my eyebrows tattooed and she gave me vitamin e gel, like vaseline I guess. But I read online two sides, one says to not use vaseline at all and another says you must use vaseline daily after you get them done. So which is it?

No. 1949984

>>1946559
i use it often i think most people dont use it because the word ''and'' already exists so they think its unneccesary or they just dont know about it. ive met people who dont know what it means or how to write it, i think most people dont care

No. 1949989

>>1947878
yeah just go ask

No. 1949990

>>1948452
its not that bad

No. 1949992

>>1948757
its a hobby honestly but i dont think that doing something the whole day like exercising or playing video games is good, there should be more variety

No. 1950002

>>1946559
Love the ampersand, use it all the time in my diary, it's like txt tlk for real life. However in formal settings I only see it used within titles of media or brands as a connective "The Something & The Something" "A&B", "Name & Name" within that context it feels grammatically incorrect to use it in essays. Lol suddenly I'm remembering the first time I learnt Yotsubato's english title is Yotsuba&, that was the first time I fully processed "to" was Japanese for "and".

No. 1950011

TLDR: So is it common to experience a physcial sensation in the eyes when envious/jealous? I don't know if it's just me or what.
I've heard the physical sensations of anger, fear, joy, love, and sadness described in detail.
Oddly enough, I don't hear much about the description of how envy or jealousy physically impacts a person…?
I have my own personal experience. Envy and jealousy often manifest as anxiety for me, so I get a sinking feeling in my stomach. It's like getting punched in the gut. When detached from my anxiety, envy feels like an odd tension behind my eyes. I know that people describe "eyes green with envy" and the evil eye is supposed to depict people who are envious. So am I normal?

No. 1950084

What was the name of that kpop imageboard?

No. 1950106

If I'm feeling depressed and I talk to a friend about it, but what she says doesn't help and ends up making me feel worse (not feeling listened to and that she keeps bringing it back to herself)is this something I should tell her or keep to myself? I know communication is important, but I do think she was trying to help so I don't know if it would be uselessly mean for me to say that what she said didn't help and made me feel worse. But on the flip side, I just don't want to bring these things up with her anymore because of how much worse that conversation made me feel.

No. 1950110

>>1950084
Chaochan? Choachan?

No. 1950120

>>1950084
Heolkek.cafe?

No. 1950126

Do you guys think that Doja Cat isn't a try hard but is actually just very hungry? She really started to go downhill when she got celebrity skinny instead of just regular skinny.

No. 1950137

>>1950126
She's that thin because she's been doing drugs

No. 1950167

Nonas, is complimenting a skill?

No. 1950170

>>1950137
coffee cigarettes and cocaine, it's the busy mans lunch

No. 1950172

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I want to go blonde/light pink but my hair is jet black and I'm cool toned (bright winter colorimetry). Can a person with dark features such as myself pull off lighter colors? I know my og hair color looks best but I want to get an interesting hair dye and bright colors like fuchsia and royal blue draw too much attention

No. 1950205

My ticket expires for my job tomorrow and a few days ago I had to hand in my notice because my boss won't accomadate my new schedule now I'm wondering if I should ask if she'll pay to renew it (she won't most likely) and if not I'll just leave? They won't be super screwed. She would rather hire a new person anyway. Or should I just pay the $50 and renew it despite never wanting to be in that industry again and stick out my two weeks to make it easy for her?

No. 1950212

>>1950172
You just need to find the right shade of pink. The most annoying part will be bleaching your roots. And pale pink fades fast.

No. 1950247

>>1950172
You could also get a wig like this, it's easier and healthy to maintain, see what looks the best on you

No. 1950248

>>1950167
I guess? It has to come from a good place

No. 1950309

Does anyone else feel like the size of their lips fluctuates? I feel like mine are plump sometimes and get thinner other times. When I’m better hydrated they get fuller but recently I haven’t been able to keep them full. Is there a way to fix this?

No. 1950312

>>1950309
Yes, they also fluctuate during the cycle. More plump around ovulation and less plump right before the period.

No. 1950349

>>1950309
Yes, they look fuller in the morning and look thinner in the evening

No. 1950350

How come I lost weight according to the scale but look and feel heavier? Especially on my arms and around my waist

No. 1950362

>>1950350
It could be some sort of possession of the scale, maybe a poltergeist or some sort of otherworldly weight spirit. Perhaps the spirit is playing tricks on your mind or interfering with the electric signals of the scale. If you have any holy water, try splashing a bit on the scale while reciting the Litany of the Blessed Virgin. That should drive out any potential spiritual activity. If that doesn't work, I'd suggest moving out and finding a new place to live - make sure you ask the realtor about any previous hauntings at the apartments you're shown.

No. 1950368

>>1950362
Anoooon you troll KEK

No. 1950510

I went on a few dates with a scrote and he slowly ghosted me.
Then in October he started stalking my TikTok, I know because him viewing my profile showed up and he started liking things based on my likes
Then I privated my TikTok and he made his private in return
Haven’t heard or seen anything from him since
My dumbass texts him “I miss you” last month on instagram and no response
I don’t know what to do, I look at his following on TikTok everyday and I feel stupid for being so obsessed
Can anyone tell me why someone would do all of that instead of actually contact you? And then when I reach out just ignore it?

No. 1950514

>>1950510
It's been half a year anon. Block him on everything and put it out of your mind, then change your @s on TikTok so he can't find you again.

No. 1950531

>>1950514
Thanks anon, I need to hear that.
I just feel like such a weirdo stalking him when he won’t even reply and then I guess that shame spirals into a cycle of stalking then feeling bad.

No. 1950562

>>1950510
Oof I feel this in my soul nona, been there. The rough truth is that he likes the attention and likes the confidence boost because he knows that you liked him. But he doesn’t want to date you and is most likely “keeping his options open” because there’s someone else he’s into. Don’t check his socials anymore, it’s way too addicting and it won’t add anything positive to your life, and the more “out of sight, out of mind” he is the better.

No. 1950785

Does anyone else remember this one videogame in which you were some kind of goddess and you had to give to different people "virtues" as in like the Greeks? You gave them stuff like harmony, science and arts if I remember correctly. And the game wasn't complete when I got to play it in a random website that was called some random shit like "gamesonline". I can't stop thinking about that game.

No. 1950794

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Who are these girls?

No. 1950816

Does anybody have good luck rituals or tips?
My luck has been so shit at this point I'm considering getting an exorcism. I need something for a little peace of mind, at least.

No. 1950819

>>1950816
Her videos are good

No. 1950822

>>1950794
I don't know who they are, but I gained the most weight I've ever gained (nearly 12-lbs) while smoking weed excessively. My munchies never went away, so when i smoked, I would eat entire bags or chips or pizzas by myself. Luckily I took a huge T break and would only smoke every few months, but now I feel like weed really fucked with me. The only person who can smoke every day but dont eat a ton probably have an ED. There's no way to stay slim on weed for long. I'm not saying it's impossible, but weed weight and munchies catch up to you.

No. 1950825

>>1950819
samefag, a road opener abre camino or even a blockbuster spell might also help you remove obstacles.

No. 1950829

When I first met my boyfriend he was very openly bisexual. After dating me for a while (there’s no denying his attraction or love for me) he says he thinks it was just a phase. Is this true? Apparently he could never actually fall for a guy, just was using them for the attention and sex. Tbh I’ve been thinking of breaking up with him because of this part of his past. For context during his dating men period he was working in a job where he was surrounded by lgbtq+ people who pushed him to identify as bi.

No. 1950833

>>1950829
This is something I have already witnessed. Men who identify as bisexual yet claim to only be interested in males sexually or as validation but not as potential love prospects. Even if he utilized them, there was still sexual attraction during his sex with other men; therefore, it still qualifies as bisexuality.

No. 1950835

>>1950833
Why do you think they would even bother if their attraction for women was greater though? My bf said it was because he couldn’t get sex with girls so it was more like low hanging fruit.

No. 1950836

>>1950833
And do you think that I’m valid to want to break up with him over this?

No. 1950838

>>1950829
He still had sex with men anyway anon. Tons of straight and gay men have strictly sexual relationships and nobody claims they're any less straight or gay, idk why it would be different for bi men.

No. 1950840

>>1950822
Ayrt and same, anon. Weed really, really fucked with me. I gained 20 pounds, though I would bake bread or cookies or something.. Getting stoned and baking munchies was really fun while it lasted kek

No. 1950846

>>1950835
Nta but it's the same reason why they stick their dicks in food and corpses, they want to chase the coom

No. 1950847

>>1950835
Men don't have high standards when it comes to sex. It's like when straight men have sex with women they don't really feel attraction to but want to coom.
>>1950836
If it bothers you and you feel you won't be able to get past it then sure.

No. 1950849

>>1950847
Do you think it’s likely he’d cheat on me with a man?

No. 1950853

>>1950835
Doesnt say much about his character he literally just told you every hole's a goal

No. 1950858

>>1950849
I would be weary of males like your boyfriend who have had numerous one-night hookups. Does he have a history of cheating?

No. 1950859

>>1950858
I’m his first real relationship

No. 1950865

>>1950859
I'm not sure about this nona, but this guy doesn't seem very trustworthy. Old habits die hard.

No. 1950866

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No. 1950871

>>1950865
Thanks nonnie. I’ll take this into account. He’s the best guy I’ve been with in other ways but I think this is just too big of a dealbreaker for me.

No. 1950872

>>1950822
Does everyone get munchies though? I’ve never gotten them, although I have eaten before while high but never felt what others would describe munchies like. Oddly enough I binge eat normally. Is it something that eventually happens?

No. 1950893

>>1950871
Anon I don't know your bf but I dated a guy that had history of having gay experiences as he called them and I'm sorry if its bigoted but it gave me a massive ick to think of him being intimate with a man. He also slept around with women and after a while it's really embarrassing being the girlfriend of a known man whore. Other women see him as constant ego supply and flirted with him and I was meme'd into thinking oh he just has a flirty personality. When I used a tablet I bought him to check movie times I discovered the grindr app and his profile. I smashed the tablet then and there fuck him for using something I got him to be a whore.

No. 1950923

>>1950893
I feel for you nona. Thanks for sharing your experience, it really helps me put my own situation into perspective and know I’m not alone in feeling this way.

No. 1951178

>>1950822
I am a heavy smoker, I refuse to gain weight but it's really hard and I'm pretty sure I've given myself an ED in doing so. I have no appetite when I'm not high so when I try to take a T break I just starve kek

No. 1952276

Is it safe to assume that people who are messy and don’t clean didn’t have chores growing up?



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