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No. 1552052
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has someone downloaded this gif? it was posted in the thread made by that scrote looking for a girlfriend.
No. 1552075
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nonitas, im gonna be moving to the southern US sometime soon and im wondering how much would girly jfash stand out, i currently live in a wholeass different country and nobody blinks an eye.
Im just hoping i can kinda blend in with the general conservativeness of the area, but it also doesnt help that im closer to my 30s than early 20s and starting to feel a little self concious about the girly frills.
In general how fucked am i?
No. 1552099
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>>1552052i didn't see thread but i found a different one of the same male
No. 1552108
>>1552099Take me home, country roads
To the place I belong
West Virginia booty daddy
Take me home
No. 1552129
>>1552125Ayrt, I am Serbian.
And it's about thrust power.
No. 1552134
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Posting again bc i didn't get an answer
No. 1552179
>>1552173Most men in my time had a problem to last more than 3 seconds of penetration before they cum because how overwhelmingly good it was to them
I never thought I'd think about that as the good old times
The good old times where you had to scuttle to the sleazy part of the VHS store to get your porn and hope you weren't seen
No. 1552197
>>>/ot/1551991It isn't a perfect sentence at all, people are probably just taking the piss when they say that.
In the original copypasta, the writer wad trying to do one of those cinematic scenes where the elements go by super fast, juxtaposing them (think Psycho), but he failed miserably and it was just an awkward, janky scene. Hence the meme
No. 1552220
>>1552173Had an ex who was similar, but he did at least stay very hard the entire time he was fucking me. He also wouldn’t cum for BJs, he only could cum to his iron grip of a hand. He lived with me and my parents for a while (after we’d broken up actually, we remained friends and his grandma kicked him out) and he thanked them by… angrily jacking off all the time, like literally trying to take multi hour showers. Hate my dad but sometimes his assholery comes in handy, he ridiculed him for jacking it too much and straight up told him he needs to ease up on the fapping lest he break his dick even more. My dad would also bang on the bathroom door if he’d been in there for more than 20 minutes claiming to take a shit while obviously jacking it.
>my dad: KNOCK KNOCK KNOCK>”hey buddy! you actually shittin in there or just whackin’ it? If you’re shitting hurry it up, if you’re whackin it, you’re done now”>ex angrily leaves the bathroom in a huff as my dad mockingly says THANK YOUUUU SIR!He was 20-24 in my experiences with him. I don’t remember him ever cumming during sex. He told me it was cause I couldn’t last long enough. Then would get offended when I’d say I’ve never had anywhere near this problem with past bfs. Like motherfucker don’t you dare blame your broken cock on me not wanting to be aggressively thrusted into for over an hour. It’s not normal to never have a quickie and it’s even less normal for a guy to last an hour, that’s honestly way too fucking long for sex to last, especially aggressive thrusting.
No. 1552228
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>>1552191>touching a man's butt, ever>>1552199ewwww as well, but to me that's equally disgusting as obsessing over butts
No. 1552273
>>1552134If he genuinely likes you it could be pure nervousness or an issue with iron grip. I met my LDR bf and for the whole trip we struggled with him staying hard. It felt very bad. We were both frustrated and he assured me he was extremely into me and I believed him. He masturbated less (strictly only when we'd cam and he'd only cum once during it) and with less force after that. The next time we met a couple months later it went waaay better. I'd say it was basically back to normal expectations after that. I was his first and he's a bit older than most guys when they lose their virginity so I think it really was mostly just him being stuck in his head more than anything, he is a bit of an anxious guy.
That being said he could be gay, but I think that's a lot less likely in today's society where you don't really need to hide that kind of stuff. I'd try and remove that worry from your mind.
No. 1552351
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Do any other nonnas just never get compliments from people? The only time I used to get compliments on my looks is when I was very young around 14-16 and underweight. Since then, I never really get any, and the older I get the more non-existent it becomes. I try not to think about it too much but I overheard some other women talking about how they get people complimenting their appearance a lot and I wondered why it doesn't happen to me anymore. I don't think I am "ugly" either but I guess I could be kek…idk. I wonder how much of it has to do with seeming "unapproachable" vs just being…well, ugly I guess?
No. 1552399
>>1552391just wear form fitting clothing, false lashes, and curl your hair. that's really all it takes. but it sounds like you don't want to be bothered anyway.
i was feeling kind of unattractive lately until i went to a bar with my nigel for the first time in probably years. got hit on by 3 different men (all while my nigel was either getting me a drink or had yet to arrive). it made me realize that i was definitely still hot.
No. 1552406
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what is the best way to save fanfictions to have a bunch of word documents saved on your computer or to save them as an epub file and read them on a ebook app? I want to save some old fanfics from ff.net that the authors have forgotten about and that site doesn't have a downlaod feature like ao3 so I just want to know what the most convient way of doing it is
No. 1552410
>>1552399>Form fitting clothes, false lashes, curled hair.No thanks, even if I wanted bar scrote and even if it made me feel hot, that’s too far kek. I think I’ve worn form fitting clothes once? But I never curl my hair (even with AP coords I just put my straight hair in twin tails and clip in one of those fake hair sailor moon looking buns) and I’m too autistic for false lashes, feels like butterflies or bugs on my lashes and they’re all I can see and feel and think about AHHHHHH
I like compliments from women more for sure. I don’t care if men see me as fuckable kek. Idk if it was a compliment but last time I saw a hairdresser she asked me where I got my eyelash extensions done and I was like oh I’m just wearing crappy maybelline great lash on my regular natural lashes. She honestly didn’t seem like she believed me that I didn’t have extensions.
No. 1552421
>>1552410I already wear false lashes and curl my hair for lolita so it wasn't hard for me.
How are you wearing lolita and not getting compliments from women? It's like an old lady compliment magnet. What do your coords look like?
No. 1552442
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>>1552440>I wear Lolita to the gym?
Post an example of your outfits please.
No. 1552447
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>>1552442anon is probably the person from reddit that posts lolita gym selfies
No. 1552455
>>1552445>lust filled moids starring at me>walk 1.2 miles per hour on the treadmil>birthing position on the pilates machine.they're joking, you absolute autist.
>>1552447no way she actually worked out in that
No. 1552458
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>>1552455unseelie used to work out in lolita so i believe anything
No. 1552464
>>1552458she never actually went. i think she only asked about it.
i can't imagine anyone who regularly hit the gym would be that retarded. most places have dress codes anyway.
No. 1552573
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>>1552551I have a laptop stand which I use like this (mine is wooden from ikea), even down to the (necessary) pillow behind her back
I used to get cramped and hurt all the time and use that horse balm to soothe myself, but now it never happens anymore
Don't use chairs, chairs are the devil's work
No. 1552650
>>1552406You might be able to get the raw text of fanfictions if you use inspect element/view page source. It should be easier to copy stuff that way, and then eliminate any extra 'html tags' that come with.
I would do that, and then save those files in a google doc/word. If you need to eliminate tags like '<p>', for example, just search the document for those strings, and then replace all with a null character to delete them. I hope this makes sense, I'm bad at explaining, kek.
No. 1552652
>>1552351Yeah and I'm actually pretty and dress like a normie in Aritzia (not lolita or some other external indicator of autism). People rarely compliment me and I'm like an 8/10. I've heard that if you're pretty then sometimes people assume you're already getting compliments or they think that you don't need the self-esteem boost. I also have a serious face on most of the time and tend to give off a strong impression of hating strangers for no reason so I think some of it is also how threatening (maybe high vs low trust) you look.
My advice is to not rely on others compliments for self-esteem. Know your own level of attractiveness and own it; and just treat yourself like you're beautiful because if you walk around like you're ugly then your life will be shit. Be delusional. Also, even if you are pretty, there will always be at least one person who finds you ugly. The key is to treat yourself with self-love so you don't give a fuck about what those retarded people think anyways.
And also, ignore women flexing compliments they get from mythical 'others'. It really doesn't matter because we all have eyes anyways and whenever those conversations happen, everyone is thinking "Uh sure Jan" while the ugliest girl in the group is exclaiming how desirable she is among much better looking women. It reeks of low self-esteem. Not to mention you'll notice that you always get haggard people like Shayna and the troons saying everyone is always complimenting them whenever they take a step out of their apartment, meanwhile more attractive women hardly have those stories (maybe they just don't notice it as much I think?).
No. 1552657
>>1552648>>1552641I'm pretty sure this guy is like a virgin, should I try to get to know him first? I feel like asking for a dick pic without even knowing him very well might freak him out considering he's too scared to even be around me.
He's very tall which I hope gives me higher probability of it being large and girthy but I've heard it doesn't matter.
No. 1552726
>>1552655what I do when I want to find old tumblr fanart is that I find an old blog and then go trough the fandoms tag. If you go far enough you can find fanart from 2012.
What I do to find old tumblr blogs is a bit convoluted but I'm still gonna share it
>find person on livejournal or devianart who is into the same fandom as you>look to see if they have linked their tumblr in their profile>click on tumblr link>pray to god that they did not change their url or delete in all these years >ifyou succeed and find an old blog then you can go trough the people the blog has reblogged from to find more old blogs Another thing I do to find old blogs: if I know the name of a fanartist who was big on tumblr around 2012 then I
>google [artist name] [ship or fandom name] >google will show you results of blogs who has reblogged from that fanartsist>open up all those blogs in different tabs>go trough their fandom tag chances are if they have reblogged from an old fanartist they have been active in the fandom for a long time and therefore their blog will have old fanart
>then you just type in [blogname].tumblr.com/tagged/[fandomname]/page/200. Any high number will do. The goal here is to reach as far back as possible on a blog so you can see the old fanart
Another thing I do: If a fandom has a fanartist or fanfiction writer who has become legendary but is not active anymore, then I search for that artist name on tumblr. That way you can see people discuss these artists. The people who discuss them are usually people who has been active in the fandom for over a decade. So you open their blog and then do the same thing as above where you try to reach as far back as possible
No. 1552735
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Alright anons which is your favorite color? mine is light blue and periwinkle
No. 1552758
>>1552743aryt I also do that sometimes but forgot to mention it lol so im glad you did. But I do prefer going trough the blog because I like looking at the blog layout while I scavenge hunt for fanart(reminds me of the good old days) and I can instantly save fanart
Plus sometimes my internet is crappy and wont load archive>>1552735Bright yellow and light yellow will forever be my favorite colors! But I also likecoral and tangerine
No. 1552767
>>1552735The choice of blues is appallingly narrow, this was made by someone with daltonism
Where is Prussian blue? Where is steel/slate blue? All of my favourite colours are missing
No. 1552976
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Is it likely I'm pregnant or is it just stress based on the following? I started spotting light brown blood today, I had sex about 23 days ago. I take BC almost perfectly (didn't miss a day or take it late while I was last sexually active), he wore a condom and it didn't seem to break or leak, we were careful about precum too. I started taking my pill about 2-3 hours later than usual last week, my sleep has been funky due to staying up late, and I had a bad panic attack about 2 days ago, all of which might've caused my hormones to go wild. I've spotted on this BC before but it's been a while. But I don't know, it seems like implantation bleeding is common. I'll take a pregnancy test soon but do any nonnies have words of advice or wisdom in this situation?? I'm stupid and inexperienced.
No. 1552981
>>1552976Tea right now is your best friend, get some peppermint, chamomile, lavender or rose tea. They will help you de-bloat and de-stress. Do light cardio to stimulate blood flow, 5-10 mins is fine. Vitamin C and D do wonder for stress, so kiwis, eggs and standing in the sun for a couple of minutes do wonders.
I've been there so many times anon, I know your pain and uncertainty so well. You just gotta reset your cycle and hormones to get balanced and regular again. Don't worry ♥
No. 1553043
>>1553034Americans have a particular perspective on race relations. Historically, they didn't have the same distinctions between race, ehtnicity, nationality, etc. as other countries.
I also think it's weird how they are so obsessed with their heritage to the point they know they're 1/16th Cherokee or Italo-German or whatever. They're all born and raised Americans and culturally have much more in common with each other than with people from the nations their ancestors came from. I don't know what caused those weird ideas of theirs tbh.
I'm also annoyed at how they fail to realize that Latin America includes Brazil which is not a Spanish-speaking country. They think we're all the same "race" that speaks Spanish and has one specific skin tone. Same with other regions like Asia and Africa I guess.
No. 1553054
>>1553043>I also think it's weird how they are so obsessed with their heritage to the point they know they're 1/16th CherokeeMy american friend got really mad at me for saying native americans are american because according to him they're not. My European view is that the native americans out of everyone are the most "real" americans because they're literally native to america. His american view is that only people after the USA became a country are americans and natives are native to whatever tribe they are. He normally isn't racist at all.
Canada is similar in views it seems, a girl from there I know called her boyfriend a true and proper italian, which to me meant he was born and lived in Italy, speaking the language and knowing the culture. At the very least his parents should be italian immigrants for him to be italian. But nope, to her "true and proper italian" meant that one of his grandmothers was from italy and that was it. None of the americans or canadians questioned it and just agreed, us europeans were eyeing each other like "lol the fuck???"
No. 1553131
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>>1553018no problem bb, good luck ♥
No. 1553207
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>>1553140if you are in the United States you can report it here
https://report.cybertip.org/ No. 1553267
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Can people (like the creator of the AI) see my chats of me trying to fuck the beta character ai of my husbando?
No. 1553268
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Can people (like the creator of the AI) see my chats of me trying to fuck the beta character ai of my husbando?
No. 1553285
>>1553088This one is for videos and gifs specifically but not images
https://twittervideodownloader.com/It won't bulk download though so you'll have to do each individual link. For bulk downloading pics maybe try the extension Downthemall?
No. 1553612
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Is it normal to think that bare moid asses are ugly but a moid ass that fits nicely in pants is hot? I always cringe whenever I see a picture or video of a scrote in missionary position from behind because their ass looks so pathetic to me when it’s naked.
No. 1553637
>>1553625>>1553631>>1553635are you guys lesbians/febfem?
i feel the same way myself by the way. sometimes i see a nice ass, but then i learn it's male and my attraction dies.
No. 1553692
>>1553683Well I think I have schizophrenia, just without the psychotic/positive symptoms ie hallucinations and delusions. Actually I wouldn’t even come close to think of having it previously because I thought those were the main characteristic symptoms of schizophrenia. But I looked up “disorganized thoughts” on google bc it’s something I experience, and that’s when I first found out it is a main symptom of schizophrenia. It was surprising and I started reading and literally almost everything checks out when it comes to negative symptoms, cognitive deficits, “formal thought disorders”, issues with speech, and my behavior. I’ve been reading about it, what people diagnosed with “simple schizophrenia “ (w/o hallucinations/delusions, which apparently is not a diagnosis anymore) experience and how difficult to treat it is bc it is “silent” and not seen as urgent and the current medications only work for the ones with psychotic symptoms and crying. It is more scary bc unlike the ones with psychotic symotims, they’re unable to get treated because they never have that first episode of psychosis which is what prompts them to get treatment and can go untreated. I’ve read about mental illnesses I think I might have like anxiety, depression, adhd, etc and none have really resonated with me to the point of feeling emotional and none of them have great treatments either so it’s not about that
No. 1553727
>>1553725I had this problem for a long time.
I solved it by intentionally looking at people and saying hello/good morning/etc. to them. It seems lots of people have this same problem because over half the time people seem to get flustered.
No. 1553751
>>1553701I did this once. Started dating immediately and he was all butthurt about it (why the fuck should I sit and sob over someone no longer in my life). Sex was with someone else who was also vanilla so it wasn't weird but he was worse in bed despite having a ton of experience kek. If anything it felt exciting and new so I ate that shit up and got turned on easily.
>>1553717Because hook up culture and people treat eachother like shit to the point that a lot of people nowadays don't realize the value of having a best friend or absolute partner and remaining faithful. I'm going to say the access to an abundance of porn also has a lot to do with this.
>>1553675Hells yeah. I feel this, especially when I see a man right out of the shower
No. 1553785
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Is it true that any man who smiles like this is secretly a faggot? I ask because one of my girl friends has a boyfriend that smile this exact same way.
No. 1553798
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>>1553823These saved me with breaking my docs in. When it's winter I wear two pairs of socks with these inbetween.
No. 1553856
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>>1553823taping your heel (and everywhere they are rubbing) with Leukoplast and a thin insole for the one shoe that feels bigger. I bought half a size bigger because my right foot is slightly bigger than my left foot and with insoles and taping my heels for around 2 weeks, I could wear them for hours without problems.
No. 1553986
>>1553898the schizo mental degradation pipeline is basically
paranoia > paranoid persecution delusions > retarded conspiracy theories to validate their persistent persecution delusions
No. 1554048
>>1554040aren't therapists allowed to report anything too "
problematic" to law enforcement, if they deem it necessary? i wouldn't take the chance.
especially if you're in the uk, i've seen threads on twitter about women getting arrested for bad-talking troons.
No. 1554120
File: 1681923633615.jpg (22.05 KB, 480x439, 1611010684193.jpg)
what would the grown up word for like a pencil box be?
the name for a vessel that you use to store art supplies
No. 1554207
>>1554106i just googled your question and it said hat coarser means milder taste and finer ground means it's stronger, which explains why i like my coffee ground fine. i had coarser coffee over the weekend and even commented on it being kinda mild, so i guess i know my coffee without actually knowing anything kek
>>1554120pencil case is the word i'd use, idk it doesn't sound juvenile to me
No. 1554330
File: 1681934915566.jpg (136.59 KB, 1000x1500, 97ff05acc48a2ffe23263b705c9c92…)
>>1554106>Finer = takes more time for water to move through it. Think of water moving through sand>Coarser = takes less time for water to move through it. Think of water moving through pebblesPicrel is a basic guideline and depends on what you are using the coffee for.
No. 1554756
>>1554753look into mystery shopping and the rules they go by. usually it's greeting within the first 30 seconds of them entering, mention the deals, ask personal questions instead of "selling" so to speak. visual merchandising is huge, also cleanliness. be on top of the basics like that and you'll be good.
we used to get graded out of 100, I was usually the only one in the shop who got over 70. good luck!
No. 1554794
File: 1681973888775.jpg (49.63 KB, 735x837, 1679111923368.jpg)
Is it normal to have an obsession with drinking protein and meal replacement drinks? Like, the meal replacement drinks that people who can't eat solid food drink, not diet ones. They're totally addictive and my body feels like it needs them so bad, maybe its a craving for the nutrients in them? Is this possible or do I have a deficiency?
No. 1554801
>>1554753From the one time I applied to a cosmetics store they do
not like you suggesting any actual changes to the store, it's more like tidying merchandise, making sure offers are stocked and well displayed etc is more in line with what they want I think.
No. 1554803
>>1554801Just to add, changes like signage, locations of stock etc are all done on head office/management level, normal store clerks have no power to make any changes. Your role is to keep the store stocked and tidy, greet and serve customers, till/man the self serve etc. If when you walk through you see some good things like friendly staff, tidy displays etc you could mention that as good points, they don't necessarily want critique particularly if it
is a well managed store.
Another thing to consider is these are your new colleagues, turn up wearing something similar to their work attire and talk to them in the interview as if they are already your colleagues/managers, (that is, don't be intimidated) that has worked for me in the past
No. 1554821
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>>1554801>>1554803i know theyre not asking for genuine critique and theyre just trying to test me. if i pointed out things that were already good i think they would just think i was illiterate. picrel what they sent me.
>>1554756>>1554769thank you!!
No. 1554846
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Nonas talk about Kirbyanon and I grow curious. Can anyone help me find threads where she posted her sexual fantasies about him?
No. 1554958
>>1554938In 2020 before the virus mutated and the vaccine even existed I think I caught it, got sick for months and now I'm doing ok. The reason why I said "I think" is because it was obviously covid but it was so early in the pandemic that doctors would tell me to just deal with it and call back if I'm actively dying, and there was a mask and soap/hand gel shortage so it was hard to protect ourselves.
But I didn't have any issues with not smelling or tasting food, if anything on of the reasons why I couldn't eat well was because everything tasted weird and way too strong, even super bland food like Japanesd rice. Long covid doesn't match what you're saying iirc, other anons can correct me but it's when you keep having other symptoms even after you "healed", like when patients end up in wheelchairs for life or are always tired no matter what they do for the next months or years after catching it. According to friends who caught it before yhe vaccine existed it can take weeks or months until you progressively get back your sense of smell and taste, try not to worry too much about it, but go see a doctor for your other symptoms. I had horrible headaches just like you and I didn't have any meds on me because seeing a doctor was impossible, same thing for diarrhea, the meds I took didn't have any effect on me and I became severaly underweight. I was also tired all the time but was too scared to sleep, I thought I could die in my sleep, I think I would have dealt with it way more easily if I saw a doctor at the time.
No. 1555124
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Is epilating my pubes a terrible idea
No. 1555129
>>1555124I epilate mine but on the first round I literally sat on the shower while sobbing because it hurt a LOT.
Now it's easy peasy and I epilate once every 2 weeks or so and it stays smooth down there. The hairs grow as they would if you waxed frequently.
No. 1555157
>>1555124I sometimes epilate the genital area but never the mound, that gives me red spots and ingrown hairs. Hurts like a bitch, especially at the start like
>>1555129 said.
No. 1555583
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What is the male version of this hairstyle?
No. 1555779
File: 1682049970057.jpeg (47.6 KB, 1124x1217, 60E6E279-4522-4FFB-A39A-2723D2…)
Do lesbians use the fairy emoji? My gaydar is going off for this one particular girl but I can’t tell if she’s actually gay or just an artsy straight girl.
>IG bio is ‘your favorite 4 letter word’ followed by picrel
>Old FB pfp with another girl that looks very coupley
>Interacts mostly with women. Majority of followers and friends are female.
>Kinda femme kinda butch. Seems kinda earthy.
No. 1555787
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>>1555583Something like this probably. Unless you mean "super basic hairstyle" then its the shaved sides, fade with two inch bangs and middle top head
No. 1556034
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Nonnas is it weird for a moid to wear clothing an ex bought him in these circumstances?
>Less than 1 year relationship
>Only shirt that was given to him
>Didn’t wear it while actively dating
>Wearing it now months after breakup
>Shirt graphic is something heavily associated with ex. There’s no real separating the subject matter
No. 1556106
>>1556084pick it up jesus. why do you want to turn your own backyard where you beautiful flowers grow and pretty birds sing into a cesspit
minefield
No. 1556108
>>1556079I understand the appeal of cute, socially anxious guy and the fact he has a crush on you is kind of a dream. But I guess it might be one of those things that's more appealing in fantasy than reality. Even if you guys hit it off, I think it'd be really annoying if you were the one constantly initiating conversations. You can make the first move, but I think it's worth paying attention to whether he's making you do all the work. It's possible that after you make the first move, he'll gain more confidence and initiate more (although in my experience that's never happened). I totally understand social anxiety, but it's not your responsibility to initiate everything for him especially if he's not giving you a lot to work off of.
Tldr; if he's cute enough that you don't think constantly initiating conversation will be annoying, then go for it.
No. 1556109
>>1556004Their society will regret it later. It’s bad enough when a bunch of male soldiers come back with PTSD after a war. Now they want to do that to women too. An entire generation will be crippled not just the men. Stupid. Exposure to warfare chemicals will cause birth defects when female soldiers return home and get pregnant so it will also hurt the next generation instead of just killing men early.
Anyway, draft should be illegal for both genders. I’d rather go to jail.
No. 1556137
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To those nonnas who believe in it, has manifestation ever worked for you?
No. 1556188
>>1556181Oh sorry anon, I got confused by your question and now I realize you're asking about the placement of the percent sign
>>1556182We put percent signs after the number…retard.
No. 1556214
>>1556137I don’t manifest explicitly but I think it has basis in the power of positive thinking and one’s mindset affecting their opportunities. I don’t necessarily believe that like your mind can create a person like people claim but I think that you can draw opportunities and people to you through a positive/optimistic mindset overall. Just look at how far scammers and fraudsters can get simply with their delusions.
>>1556108>>1556118Kek Ty for the advice, I think I just wanted to sleep with him because it fulfills my fetish. I know his personality is already a massive red flag for a relationship, right? I don’t think it would ever be possible for me to be in a relationship with someone like that as I’m securely attached and have done my own personal work to become that way.
No. 1556229
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Why are actual pornography (including abusive content) and quasi-pornographic music videos allowed all over the net, but art films made by women that happen to include nudity banned?
No. 1556285
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>>1556273
>pornhub
>they claim to have a zero tolerance policy on depictions of children
Come on.
No. 1556401
>>1556309>>1556285I know kek. Scrotes/handmaidens in the Twitter replies defending their precious CP distribution website whenever anyone points it out.
>>1556330Thank you for the link! I thought I wouldn't be able to watch it after all. Sucks that the creator can't even distribute the source file herself via Gdrive due to certain policies.
No. 1556403
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I have diagnosed anorexia and BPD and tonight I completely flipped out at my mum who's going through a really hard time herself right now because my grandma is terminally ill. She helped me make a meal and I screamed and self harmed because I thought my problems don't matter as much to her. Should I punish myself by not eating anything or force myself even though I'm feeling really guilty for my behaviour? The food is already ready.
No. 1556406
>>1556403anon…
i would apologise to your mum first of all for screaming at her. dont force yourself to eat it if you don't want to, but i would just say you're not hungry in that case. try eating a bit of it at least
No. 1556424
>>1556413If you mean Louise, I don't think that one was as explicit as Vulvine, but considering I don't work for Youtube I can't speak on their inconsistent policies. Either way though, the film is pornographic and generally that's not allowed on IG, YT or Vimeo
Unless it's educational in youtube's case. It's really beautiful and well done but it's still a film with a strong focus around sex featuring explicit nudity. I'm not sure what they thought was gonna happen.
No. 1556425
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Do the employers actually send out emails inviting people to apply via indeed? I got an email supposedly from my old job inviting me to apply…same job that fired me for being “incompetent” despite not training me properly when I specifically asked for it or accusing me of falling asleep when I told them I was on antidepressants which made me drowsy but sure, come apply!
At least it’s nice to know my old position is still vacant after shitcanning me, for now.
No. 1556431
>>1556425I have a feeling this is a newer function on Indeed that automatically sends these out to anyone who matches the keywords. They probably don't know it was sent out, and probably can't filter out specific people.
Mostly saying this because I get a ton of these for roles that don't match what I do at all, just because I have certain keywords in my resume.
No. 1556435
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Do men actually take those gas station pills?
No. 1556495
>>1555942Tteokboki if you’re hungry and you don’t have to look classy for anyone who knows it’s basic comfort food lol
Sundubu Jjigae for something healthier but satisfying and fun
Kimchi Mandu if you want an appetizer and like dumplings
No. 1556539
>>1556537what if i drank grape flavor packets and water earlier
im just trying to make sure i dont need to go to hospital sorry
No. 1556621
>>1556584I’d say yes it’s still cheating, but the cheated on person isn’t exactly an innocent
victim. Threatening to kill yourself in order to bully someone into staying with you is emotional abuse.
No. 1556970
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Should I make this without ground beef? Would it taste good???
No. 1557010
>>1556692I don't know where you're checking but if it's in your home or a rented/shared place and you don't want anyone to know you're onto them, you can pretend you're doing a thorough clean. Pick everything up, wipe everything down, look VERY carefully for any signs that an item is a hidden camera. If you find any, or you're suspicious, put it in a pile and pretend they need further cleaning. You can take them apart later, or give them a fresh coat of very thick paint.
Also look for bugs/cameras in hard to find places. Look in every single nook and cranny, especially places you think nobody would be able to stick a camera, let alone want to. Check all the wires and know what they're connected to. Disconnect any smart devices from the internet. If you find something, don't assume that's the only camera/bug you need to find. Check every single room you can, check the walls, everything. Be as paranoid as possible. Check again with a good flashlight in the dark, check objects, walls, curtains, furniture, everything.
No. 1557086
>>1557075tteokbokki all the way, yum
i wish i had some rn. best texture ever
No. 1557089
>>1557086I'll eat it in your honour
nonnie! I wish I had ramen noodles, but I forgot to ask my mother to buy them kek
No. 1557237
>>1557098One version of that is very
toxic to people and pets and the other version is bad if inhaled so I wouldn’t use it around pets. I’m no expert but I read about it once when I thought I had bed bugs… I thought it’s best for areas you and your pets don’t come into contact with.
No. 1557615
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what is she googling
No. 1557637
>>1557615pretty sure it's
>Гаряча лiнiя мiстаukranian for city hotline
i'm not ukranian but i use cyrillic, and figured it out by typing out stuff until i got similar results in search
No. 1557649
>>1557646I have a SIL who gossips and is catty towards me and my bf. Shes so fucking awful as a human being. She bullied an elderly lady the other day and lied to make her self look better, but there was actual proof of what was done.
She is so terrible, I am telling you, she is overdue for justice. Shes not smart and she takes any opportunity to create family drama
No. 1557708
>>1557679Not into it anymore, but back then…
>The music is catchy>You could barely find as many nice ballads, especially by male artists, as you can find in kpop by the droves>I didn't feel weird looking up to female artists because they were cute and pretty instead of sexy and glamorous>Before that, I've never seen being pretty instead of gruffy, hairy and stinky being the standard for guys, outside of 2D, so that got me fangirling hard>kinda related: fujo bait>Apart from very few exceptions, it was wayyy more accessible than jpop (was still more of a jpopfag)>Learning the choreos was fun, I can still do some of them up to this day>It were the likes of Miss As Breathe, SHINees Ring Ding Dong, Wonder Girls' Tell Me and TVXQs Tri-Angle that got me into it in the first place, even if, at the beginning, it was kind of like a so-bad-it's-good thing, so I might just have a questionable tastes in music and MVs. No. 1557916
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>>1557905Gender-non-conforming. Do you wear loose pants? Loose shirts? Lots of sneakers that aren’t particularly fashionable? Cargo pants? Hoodies? Men’s clothes? Comfortable but not particularly fashionable hairstyles? Kind of like pic related?
If yes, then you’re “dressing like a lesbian” because everyone is assuming that because you don’t want to “show off” your body to moids, you therefore don’t want to fuck them.
No. 1557967
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is it okay to wear a dark dress with a white accent to a wedding? it’s sort of like this but more formal.
No. 1558052
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Should I get cigs and coffee now or tough it out until after work is done? Decide my fate.
No. 1558081
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I just learned about the concept of "russell's sign" for bulimics today, and realized my hand looks just like that due to a childhood habit of pinching my knuckles that i never kicked (picrel). I'm mortified and scared that people have been looking at my hand and assuming I'm a bulimic. I get questions about it sometimes so I know people notice. I've tried to stop in the past but I've given up, it's too ingrained, i've been doing it since toddlerhood. I think the only thing that could stop be is losing my hands kek. So my question is what do I do? I was thinking maybe if I start doing it on every knuckle on both hands then it wouldn't match up with russell's sign anymore, but is that a retarded idea?
No. 1558082
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>>1558070You too
nonnie, enjoy your coffee!
No. 1558083
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how do i tell my boyfriend that i love you, ur great, but i need you to go home now? so i can have my little alone time u gotta GO
No. 1558088
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>>1558081i wouldnt worry about it too much anon, most people probably dont assume youre bulimic unless youre underweight or they personally know someone with an ed, im extremely allergic to bugs and during mosquito season it looks like i have meth sores, but no one has ever assumed im tweaker because im goody two shoes who scrunches up her nose at shoplifting, they ask anyway tho, people just seem to ask about weird scars without giving it too much thought.
No. 1558111
>>1557988kek this isn’t the dress it’s just something from google
i think i’m going to have my boyfriend message the groom to ask because the answers are too divided
No. 1558125
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I feel retarded for bother to ask but is there any actual way to get Google Chrome's native pop-up block feature to block ads on a specific site on mobile? Becuase these instructions just lie that you can manage specific websites permissions or I'm just to illiterate to find that tab under the pop-up or Adblock options in Chrome settings
No. 1558184
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ok nonnies I need some feedback if this is retarded. so, ok, so, recently after years of extreme fatigue and knowing I do stop breathing at night/snore, I tried getting a sleep study done and it took a year to get it. I ended up not being able to fall asleep the whole night. it was so miserable. so, I'm thinking that maybe I can just try a cpap machine again and see if it actually helps me…and that I can just return it if it doesn't do anything. bad idea or no?
No. 1558354
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What does it mean if a guy's upper arms are suddenly way more hairy than the last time I saw them? For reference, the last time I saw his upper arms was in like December. Now they are covered in hair. Is he okay?
No. 1558364
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>>1558359Oh my god, he does have some receding hair despite being so young, but his head hair is thick and I think he just needs to stop having his hair in a ponytail all the time. Also he's like 18, so I don't really think he's taking a hair loss pill unless maybe his parents encouraged him like how teens and young adults take unhealthy acne pills.
No. 1558372
>>1558364Those pills are not unhealthy, they're a vitamin cocktail, perfectly safe for anyone any age to consume, the only side-effects are extra hairiness on the body and constipation.
I'm not saying it's that definitely. That's the only real-life example of someone becoming hairier that I personally saw. There could be many other causes I don't know about.
No. 1558555
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Anyone made coffee using whole beans? How is it? Any different from pour over?
No. 1558811
>>1558639I have a neutral skin tone, actually, since people tend to tell me that I look green when I don’t go out often.
>>1558609Maybe it really evens my skin tone, this tan made the weird tan lines of the face mask almost disappear for once.
I wish there was a way to get tanned without getting skin cancer or applying annoying creams.
No. 1558937
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>>1558910yeah just ask them about atm fees and they will definitely explain everything.
here is an article that kinda goes over it
https://www.bankrate.com/banking/how-much-are-atm-fees/basically most banks do not charge a fee if you use an ATM from that bank, or by a bank in their network. but if you pull out money from a non-network bank, they may charge a fee for it, plus the non-network bank ATM you used might also charge a fee. so for example, to pull out $40 in a non-network ATM, you might be charged upwards of $5.
but then there are some that don't charge you to withdraw money from a non-network bank, and if the other bank or ATM charges you a fee, they reimburse you the fee, costing you $0 to pull money out of any ATM. this is super convenient if you travel internationally in particular.
typically with credit unions you have a wider variety of ATMs you can use in-network, so to speak, as they are not a traditional bank and are often hyperlocal. so it is in their best interests to make it easier for you to withdraw cash from your account, wherever you are, if needed
No. 1559064
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do effervescent tablets even work? are they just as good as vitamin pills? i always feel like i'm drinking glorified soda that doesn't do anything and tasted like crap whenever i drink them
No. 1559091
>>1559072Bandcamp?
Or make an account on rutracker.org and see if they have it and just torrent it, if you can't find it elsewhere. It's good for obscure music.
No. 1559396
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Where the fuck do you buy houseplants?
No. 1559468
>>1559445>I've been extremely scared of spiders for as long as I can rememberDon't scroll up in this thread then, KEK.
But on a serious note, maybe try looking up kinds of spiders that live in the area where you will be camping, and read about them or watch videos on them to desensitize yourself to them.
No. 1559873
File: 1682492216811.jpg (1.01 MB, 1688x2560, 1650137967140.jpg)
what was the name of the guy who accidentally conditioned himself to only be aroused by a fantasy of his cockroach wife Ogtha? pic unrelated
No. 1559889
>>1559878>Is there a way to look up someone's marriage license? yes, you probably have to pay if they're living, it depends on where they got married. try familysearch.org as a general search unless you know the county/local they were married in, in which case you can search online for the records court/office/etc and see how to get a copy.
alternatively, most library websites have links to many databases and access to records files, and more (free) access if you log in from a library computer/account. can try searching there too.
>Also unrelated to first question, if a record is sealed can I ask when it was sealed?might depend on the jurisdiction and what type of record it is
No. 1559907
>>1559889Thank you
nonnie. Supposedly for "police protection".
No. 1559970
>>1559955That's just male nature
nonnie. Moids think just because you're nice you're trying to flirt with them. They start to delude themselves at the slightest amount of positive attention from a woman. Then they get disappointed and upset when they realize you're also nice to others. My cousin used to be nice to an extreme degree and it happened to her too when a scrote she had no interest in got mad at her because he interpreted her female socialization as flirting.
No. 1559984
>>1559979i think it depends, is he expecting to cook together/expect you to cook or does he just really like cooking and is good at it?
if he does like cooking i feel like he would still be okay with going to restaurants sometimes. if he strictly always wants to eat at home he may be cheap
No. 1560025
>>1559979Or his act of service
is cooking, and he wants to impress you. None the less, going to mom you real quick, just make sure some local friends know where you are and dont be afraid to bail if its getting weird.
I hope you enjoy your date nonna!
No. 1560047
>>1558630nta but skin cancer isn't an ideology. i think the point was that you should not internalize that you need a different skintone to be pretty
>>1559979if it's the first date don't accept obviously; if it's the third or so, anons have been optimistic and it's possible that he's trying to impress you, but it could also be in hope that it leads to sex
No. 1560064
>>1559857First dates are just meeting a stranger to see if they are psycho, they are really low pressure. Second date is making sure you have all the basic dealbreakers covered in conversation. Usually you start to feel a spark by date 2 or 3 if there’s going to be one.
I chose based off of job, age, how they answered their profile questions, and hobbies. I completely ignored how they looked. I found a unicorn scrote on bumble and his pics looked retarded af but he turned out to be really hot in person.
No. 1560341
>>1560285no but i wont lie splitting rent sounds amazing. we would need a 2 bedroom though because im not affectionate enough to like sleeping in 1 bed.
>>1560299yeah if she's asking (forcing) me to live in her apartments by her rules rather than a 50/50 we chose the apartment we are breaking up very quickly.
No. 1560463
>>1558133Old as fuck reply but drop the act. Don't acknowledge him. If he starts his moid shit walk out calmly, lock him in the room if you have to. Casually mention that there are special care homes for aggressive individuals and that they're not known for their great care- but since he can't control himself, well…
I'm sorry you're going through this, moids are a mess. I'm sure he has the saddest tragic backstory in history, but he's a grown ass man and he either needs to act like it or accept the consequences. Honestly my instinct would be to beat the absolute shit out of him, but that's not really the best advice kek. If he gets violent again call the police, especially if he's left marks or made you bleed. Some subhumans shit themselves in terror at the thought of the law turning on them, so it might be enough to keep him under control until you can safely fuck off and never acknowledge his existence again.
No. 1560656
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I just tried KFC and I don't get the hype over their secret seasoning blend. I wouldn't be able to identify all 11 spices but it tastes pretty generic to me. It's nothing special but there's so much speculation and recreations of the recipe online.
What for?
No. 1560669
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How dangerous is butter? What is a normal amount of butter? I’ve recently been getting into baking and at first had been shifting all the recipes I tried to using olive oil as the fat. I’d been doing this because my mom likes to shit on butter and say how bad it is, and is really sensitive on the subject. When I proposed a certain recipe (a birthday pie so I thought I could have some leverage on the butter situation) she really freaked out about the butter. It would have been like 1 1/4 cups of butters worth between the filling and crust, and I ended up having to use 1/2 cup total.
However, recently I made some lemonies (lemon brownies) and asked my brother if he wanted me to use oil or butter since I was making these more in mind for him. My mom said if it asked for butter then it asked for butter. So I used the recipe amount, 1/2 cup.
Here’s the real meat of the question, sorry nonnas. I like to eat my raw batter as I go along so I had a taste of the flour, sugar, and softened butter mixture and it was an enlightening experience. Orgasmic. Now I want to eat butter all the time.
So my true question is, how much butter can a person consume? I tend to binge a lot and have been making (edible) raw cookie doughs as well as cookie in a mugs in the late hours when everyone is asleep and they taste so much better with butter. But I cant help but feel bad when I do this. I really have no idea what a normal amount of butter is, just small amounts feel dangerous. I just need some human assurance about the risks of butter and not from some health article. I genuinely want to eat just flour/sugar/butter. I know I can’t, but I need to satiate the beast somehow.
No. 1560757
>>1560756even though he wants to hang out all weekend and almost literally became my neighbor? fellas i-
should i care
at this point it would be easier to just cheat ourselves
No. 1560863
>>1560852binge eat.
but usually people occupy themselves with their hobbies. take up a craft?
No. 1560901
>>1560852I used to be neet and online all day, now I have pretty limited free time and once I get to sit down with my laptop idk what to even do online. Was only thinking about it lately.. wtf did I do before?
I guess I used to go down rabbit holes where I looked into mysteries that have no clear answer. I'd deep dive them, could spend countless hours reading up on something and still be no closer to knowing the truth. Ate up alot of time without me getting bored. I'd exhaust one topic and then switch and go look for every vid/article/podcast/message board convo about the next one.
No. 1560916
>>1560852learn a language
make a neocities
learn to code or any other computer related skill
write something
watch youtube/movies/series/streamers
organize your space?
nap
No. 1560941
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What do you think when you see a septum piercing? I feel like it would go well with my other piercings but I can't help but think of 2015 tumblr libfems and aidens when I see them. I'd get one like picrel though, wouldn't keep the standard barbell.
No. 1561011
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What do intimidating women do to get men to approach them? I’m not like an Instagram model or anything but I’m relatively attractive and come off really serious. I went to grad school and not once did a guy I was interested in approach me except for shady moids trying to weasel their way in with me. The most was an undergrad who came up to me after class and asked me on a date. I want that to happen again but how do I make it happen? How do I stop coming off like I’m untouchable? I know it should be like a blessing to avoid men who probably aren’t worth my effort but I feel so fucking lonely and horny and the apps don’t have anyone worth my time for a relationship. I don’t want to do subpar casual sex with a man whore either.
No. 1561024
>>1561015I have trouble with this too and what helps is very quietly reading the words outloud or just mouthing them. I also found that if I give the reading voice in my head a British accent or make it sound like a professor giving a presentation (heavy emphasis on key words ##like for example: the cat went to the store. I would read it in my head as "the
cat went to the
store.) then I can pay attention to what I'm reading better and I can absorb information better as well.
No. 1561026
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>>1561015Immediately thought of active reading strategies
No. 1561114
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i don't read manga very often so sorry if this is a retarded q, but why does the katakana here have dakuten? is it simply a stylistic choice to indicate something like a whooshing movement?
No. 1561186
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Idk where the cyberstalking thread is but I'm trying to track down the social media accounts of a personal cow. Not to do anything dangerous I just want to see if I can uncover anything embarrassing and laugh at them. Yes I'm a weirdo but IDC I'm bored.
How can I find the email address of a person? I have their full name and phone number. I also have a list of aliases they used to go by and a few social media handles. Also, how to find more social media accounts of a person that uses different handles for dofferent sites and has gone by different names?
No. 1561361
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Why are moids so obsessed with race and childless women?
No. 1561380
>>1561361because the more of that there is, means the less likely they can have what they think they want. which is an unpaid laborer
being an unpleasant person, oh no cannot change that, but everyone else is to blame for my ills
No. 1561388
>>1561355More common than you think, it's just that people who lost their virginities at 14 like to shame everyone else for not living as they have.
>>1561361The liberation of women away from men is the worst nightmare of moids. They know that child bearing is the one thing that motivates most women to want to get married and live the tradthot. If more women don't want to shit out children, why do they need him? Also the fake concern for the representation of white women is hilarious on his part.
No. 1561528
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how tf doesnt the aesthetics wiki have a page on goth cowboys?? its not even that niche a style
No. 1561530
File: 1682664701176.jpg (4.98 KB, 231x218, download (4).jpg)
>>1561504Fuuck. And I'm usually so strict about what I post.
No. 1561765
>>1561733I assume people don't go around proclaiming "yes I have very average intelligence." It's probably more noticeable if someone has high intelligence or low intelligence and the people who are average don't stand out.
t. average intelligence haver
No. 1561912
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is Mitski femcel music ?
No. 1562119
>>1562081aren't you just looking for a rebound anyway? if you just want to change your mind, you can try to reach out and you'll see if there's potential for more. but yeah if he's
very religious it could become a problem fast
No. 1562230
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Is there a somewhat common breed of current American liberals that are obsessed with showing “support” to Ukraine with a Ukraine flag bumper sticker or a Ukraine flag emoji in their bios on social media? I’d get it if they were Ukrainian but these people are not. It’s not like these people can really think they’re helping end the war with a dumb ass sticker or flag on their own personal belongings. We hear about that war constantly so it’s not like they’re bringing any awareness to it. Is it just virtue signaling? At this point I immediately assume the person is very stupid/narcissistic whenever I see a Ukrainian flag emoji in their bio (granted they are not actually Ukrainian).
No. 1562231
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>>1562230definitely virtue signally bullshit. I imagine you are spot on with the stupid/narcissitic point. I think it's the increasing polarization and dumb cunts moralizing- i.e. Russia bad therefore Ukraine good. Anti-vax bad, vaccine good. etc etc. I imagine it is mostly milennials and gen x.
No. 1562239
>>1562230Stickers for retarded liberals who either thought BLM stickers are "too extreme" or who don't give a damn about domestic issues but want to virtue signal.
I live in a deep blue state and ukraine symbols, flags, and lawn signs are everywhere. They can give you an earful about how much they hate Putin but have nothing to say when it comes to rampant price gouging, millions of americans losing health care and SNAP benefits, and the kids getting trafficked out of border detention camps.
No. 1562245
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If i jump head firsf from high enough - would that guarantee that I'm going to finish myself? I don't want to continue living, but i wanna be sure I wouldn't just cripple myself
No. 1562257
>>1562245The risk of being crippled or slowly agonizing until you die is too great imho. In addition to mental terror, I think most
victims of falling suicides whose bodies and skulls remain mostly intact upon the impact experience excruciating pain that they are incapable of outwardly expressing once their bodies are mangled. It must take what feels like an eternity in the locked-in syndrome of the pain to die until the bleeding, trauma, or shock finally ends their suffering.
I feel so bad for people who die that way.
No. 1562265
>>1562264Doesn't 4chan tell you what post you were banned for? If so, you may be able to still see it.
Does he use 4chan himself? If he doesn't, it might just be that someone else in the same IP range got that IP banned and now your boyfriend got assigned it.
No. 1562267
>>1562264If he was banned for rule 3 and there is no post quoted it means a janny got
triggered and he did nothing wrong
No. 1562353
>>1562300We have probably interacted on there,
nonnie.
No. 1562468
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How many lolcow-chans do you know of?
I know of paki-chan tho I don't know her backstory
komaeda-chan which I dearly miss
and the novel kirby-anon
No. 1562500
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>>1562472>paki-chan is regina georgeI watched mean girls years back and remember nothing from it except the general plot, what's the comparison supposed to mean?
No. 1562518
>>1562511Nta but every character would speak in long-winded, spergy rants. Cady would be incredibly paranoid and schizo. Janis would call everyone cock-sucking cock-worshipers. Regina would be racist as hell, especially toward black people and "(c)Rap culture". They would all bait Karen into over-explaining in uncomfortable detail how sex works between Dedede and Kirby. Gretchen and Karen would get into slapfights all the time.
There would be no happy ending, unless you count them all ganging up on the celebrity cows fag and someone's nigel for being men in a women's space.
No. 1562562
File: 1682786135925.png (211.25 KB, 1000x565, 2222.png)
I want to make this into a TERF meme but what should I caption it?
No. 1562607
>>1562604The question is literally what I asked: is it gross. I don't own large dogs and I never will, I don't know how large dog owners operate. It seemed gross as fuck to me.
>>1562603God damn why is my boyfriend so repulsive. I need to break up with him kek.
No. 1562661
>>1562656Then breakup with him or tell him that it’s the dogs or you. Why would you want your house to be disgusting then? Maybe think about who you get in a relationship with before living together, ask if he has pets and if he lets them in the room and such, then you will know that maybe that’s not what you want.
>>1562655Just get a stuffed toy or human friends in that case.
I just think it’s retarded to get mad at an animal for being an animal but still having it at home, of course an animal will want to get on a comfortable surface and lay there, and it will want to play and explore the house.
So again, if you find an animal disgusting, you can leave it outside, give it away to some other person or put the animal down.
No. 1562710
>>1562644Uhhhh are you sure you meant to reply to
>>1562633 ??? That’s me. I love my pets and I don’t find them disgusting, I just find sleeping in the same spot as a dog yucky, because they walk around outside and I like to sleep naked in my bed and have sex in there. Also their hair is very coarse and can be itchy when it gets on my skin, I have hayfever and a mild dog allergy, I take meds daily and clean my house. I just like to keep my dog out of my sleeping/sex room. She has so many comfy dog beds that are literally comfier than the couch lmao, I got myself a dog bed so I can sit on the floor sometimes cause it’s so damn comfy, and when my friend visits with her young kid she’s always wanting to nap on the dog beds. I sometimes enjoy sitting on my couch naked which is why I would have liked for her to not be a couch dog, but I stopped lounging naked on the couch and let her up here now. It would be yucky for me to lounge naked on my couch with the dog hair and germs that get here but I just wear light pj pants and a light sweater on the couch now. Easy concession to make cause I love her, also don’t have sex on the couch anymore unless it just got washed kek.
>>1562661>it’s cruel to find your pet too gross to let in on the bed>so just keep it outsideHuh?!?!?
No. 1562911
>>1562899This isn't for you specifically btw but Idk why this is such a hard concept for women to grasp or even do. I think separating the genders is retarded since 99% of the world is straight but not becoming bffs is literally the absolute least you can do to protect yourself. If I told a moid hé could never befriend women again he would not give a fuck. I don't understand why women think it's a big loss to them to not have a male friend. It's not like you can't be kind or courteous or sleep with or whatever but just don't let them have access to you by building trust and letting them in your "space".
TLDR no and yes
No. 1562924
>>1562911Thank you anon, for answering me.
I am socially retarded (somewhat), i don't have much free time, i mostly socialise online and even though i crave having women friends, a lot of the time women aren't nice to me. It's not like they are all awful, but sometimes they hate me without reasoning. I actually met a few understanding and nice women, but it's hard. I don't like saying generalizing statements about women, but I'm writing this from my own personal expenses. And some moids message me regularly, act nice, say they are my friends, that i can count on them, bc I'm stupid i let them in my life and in the end, it was always about the coom. There are unicorn men, who can sympathize with women, but it's very rare IMHO
No. 1562973
>>1562941Yeah when i say friends, i mean having closer relationship, bur without crossing the boundaries. Everything else i count as an accuantance. Not to sound humble-braggy, I'm not even that attractive, i believe I'm relatively cute, but i can't comprehend why moids can't form friendships without the idea of fucking the supposed friend, in my experience, every guy i have been closer with, showed his motives later - he wanted to fuck me. That's why i asked, is having moid friends a lost cause, we are all different people, we can relate on a lot of topics/experiences, but i thought maybe the problem was me, hence asking
No. 1562986
>>1562973Your posts make me so sad, for the longest time I thought there was something wrong with me too because men would pretend to be my good friends then slowly try to make the friendship sexual. You are not the problem!!!! Even had a scrote literally mansplain to my face after a rape attempt that I was inviting sexual harrassment because I was just soooo nice to him, they are fucked up in the head and do not possess the same emotional capacity or boundaries that women do.
Sorry to say but men and women absolutely cannot be more than acquaintances, even then you have to be careful that you're somehow not sending the "wrong signals" that their schizo brain interprets as flirting. Normie women can be hard to befriend sure but wouldn't you rather have safe relationships with women even if they're not super deep, instead of risking your sanity trying to have meaningful relationships with moids?
No. 1563099
>>1563003Can't do girl things and also be a girl. People talk down on traditionally feminine handicrafts and hobbies till a man does them.
Not a girl anymore = " "Solved" "
No. 1563214
File: 1682842236275.jpeg (199.8 KB, 2048x1918, majima 0.jpeg)
Be honest, do you think he looks like an Asian Hontra? Someone said this to me but I'm a faceblind autist so idk
No. 1563263
>>1563214How dare they I don't see the resemblance at all but maybe it's because I almost never look at Hontra's face (thank god)
>>1563259Lurk moar
No. 1563285
>>1562349The 'lite' version should load faster
lite.lolcow.farm
Why does everyone complain about slow loading, loads fine for me
No. 1563404
>>1563383>>1563384Good to know. I'll try to avoid fast food restaurants, unless there's some good stuff at a Mcdonalds that's only in the Netherlands.
>>1563401My layover won't be super long, but I'll still have some free time. Speaking of which, my layover for the trip back home will be at Paris Charles de Gaulle, I'd also like to know if the restaurants are good there because I'll stay there for like 4 hours.
No. 1563406
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How do I become motivated and believe in myself wholeheartedly despite everyone telling me to go back to work?
No. 1563453
File: 1682874136709.jpeg (26.86 KB, 823x472, mckroket.jpeg)
>>1563404The McKroket is Dutch-only I think. I used to eat these a lot growing up!
No. 1563611
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>>1563581Fine but just know I won’t be happy
No. 1564342
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This is stressing me out why are her hands so orange
No. 1564345
>>1564342lmao
nonny i thought the same thing just a couple of nights ago i was watching one of her videos. the video is very obviously color graded so it might be one of those things where everything else is perfect but the way it's adjusted the hands come out too saturated, that's what i told myself anyway, so i would stop being distracted by them kek well that or she has some condition
No. 1564355
>>1564353No that’s a myth. you change prescriptions over time due to age and genetics it has nothing to do with the glasses/contacts themselves
You will actually experience
more strain if you don’t get prescriptions needed for your eyesight
No. 1564386
>>1564329>>1564361repetitions, like in exercise.
So yeah, practice, maybe copying examples form books or doing timed figure drawing.
No. 1564450
>>1564448It is a big deal. Weed always makes your reflexes slower. It's not enough just to know you're slower, when a split second on the road is the difference between life and death.
>>1564409This is very sane. Please keep on being sane.
No. 1564506
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I have a metaphysical/""schizo"" question. Do you guys believe in a "collective conscious", in the sense of there being an subconscious hivemind within a given society? If so, is it possible that some people's thoughts cloud all of ours? How would that even be remedied?
If you're surrounded by misogynists, for example, how do you effectively block out their influence? Even if you think the metaphysical aspect is mumbo jumbo, their opinions will inevitably leak out in all they do and say in some fashion, and as human beings, we learn to blend in. I know acknowledging it is the first step, but if it's like, everyone, how do you not become exhausted picking apart everything and trying to resist?
No. 1564549
>>1564506I think there is a hivemind but some people are more easily influenced than others and that's because of evolution. Their ancestors were agreeable because it helped them to survive so they listen to ideologies, goverments, manipulated studies and stuff like that because it's in their DNA memory. Other people's ancestors lived differently and are less likely to get influenced and think about everything on their own. It's like one are more insect like and the other monkey or mammal like. Humanity is basically monkeys functioning in a insect-like system and the levels of monkey and an insect in each of us is on a spectrum. So there are insects who will always obey whichever ideology they go into and monkeys who will always question everything. And some people are like 50:50 30:70 ect. and they can discover the monkey in themselves and nurture it. So that's my theory that could be a possibility.
I think if somebody is easily influenced they should think about how the ideology affects their own moral compas and get to know as many different opinions on the thing as possible as well as get to know personalities people who belive said thing or not belive in it. The basic thing is one should have a moral compas and that's something i think you get only when you truly know who you are. That's why troons behave so weirdly, they don't know who they are therefore they don't have a moral compas in themselves and the empty space is filled by an ideology that guides them into being a fireant army.
>>1564543I'm not sure is short hair will help you. In my experience different men like different hair that's true, but if it's a creep they care less about the hair and more about harrassing a chosen female no matter how she looks at the moment. But try it, hair will grow back if it wont work.
No. 1564583
>>1564499Depends on your budget, you can make a wholeass actual ramen. Beef ramen is the best but it takes a longer time to cook, it's worth it though especially if you use the right spices and top it with a little lime juice and bacon bits.
You can make a noodle kungpao of any kind.
You can make your own Tomyum soup with a lot of chilli.
Basically anything asian will be healthy because of the ingredience.
I never tried to use it as pasta but it'll porbably work fine as a spaghetti with some red sauce but it would be a shame to not use it as asian food.
No. 1564629
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>>1563563Yes!
>>1563457I ended up eating a McKroket today, it was pretty nice. But maybe you're better off getting a proper Kroket from one of these vending machines if you can spot them kek
No. 1565734
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What are you supposed to do when another girl flirts with your Nigel in front of you?
>he should just not reciprocate
Yeah sure, but does remaining passive not make you seem weak? What if she’s very persistent?
No. 1565821
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What would be easier for the farmhands?
1. Have us bump multiple different threads with cute pics when a raid happens? or
2. Have a "bump thread" where we spam cute pics?
I just wanna make their job easier and maybe they get a little overwhelmed when there is scrotery happening in different threads while at the same time we are bumping said threads by accident whilst trying to protect other nonnies eyes?
No. 1565873
>>1565727I always wondered this as well, where I live (croatia) a lot of old women still believe this. I think it's because generally water makes wounds look like they bleed more and it prevents blood from clotting, but this obviously doesn't apply to periods. Maybe people in the past thought it did?
What I find extra ridiculous is the "don't wash your hair" while on your period, for that I have literally no explanation and a lot of my classmates in middle school told me they abide by that rule because their grandmas scared them to death with old wives tales.
No. 1565959
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How the fuck do you reply to people who say things like "that's my opinion and I didn't ask for yours" when you dare to disagree with them?
Why did they even sign up to a platform for discussing tv shows and movies but get pissy when other users have different opinions and are trying to get a discussion going on?
No. 1566136
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Exercise nonnies, I need your help. I discovered the treadmill in my apartment's gym and I love it. I can walk for miles and not be accosted or molested by a single homeless person. But I'm a couch potato, and I did three miles yesterday. Can I go and run until I feel tired again today, or will I be unable to walk at work tomorrow?
No. 1566142
>>1566136not an exercise
nonny but I like that bee turtle
No. 1566355
>>1566277I honestly wonder if there is something wrong with me because I read all the time that you don't need a tampon or anything to swim in a pool- but I have a HORRIBLE memory of being 13 years old and getting my period during a friend's pool party. It was new so I didn't really understand how to time it or the warning signs and I just remember the blood pooling around me legit like a squid inking itself. It was soooo humiliating and it was like time slowed down as I realized what was happening and everyone freaked out and got out of the pool, I got bullied so bad for it..ugh I get lightheaded even just remembering how horrible it was.
Am I some medical anomaly?? I always read that doesn't happen but it definitely did. I've also bled in baths as well so idk.
No. 1566373
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Anons I really need some advice and I'm posting this on /ot/ instead of /m/ because this is the busier board.
I've been playing the same sims 4 save for over a year now and I'm on the 12th or so generation. I can only play it high now because it's gotten quite boring but I don't want to give up on my 12th gen game! What can I do to spice up the game? What plots/storylines could I play out? Something wacky and weird. Help!
No. 1566378
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>>1566347Very rarely, maybe every few years. And I always keep the same color scheme of the image, whether its art or photography or my own photos.
No. 1566484
>>1566475Try to be nicer, having never experienced war, her body breaks in the only way it knows how.
>>1566473Your punishment is to think about what you did, how it was inappropriate, and what you can do to prevent it from happening again in the future. You must reflect and grow in order to move forward.
No. 1566503
File: 1683075476578.jpeg (9.65 KB, 235x215, bby.jpeg)
What happened to Lil' Romeo?
No. 1566512
File: 1683076453430.png (1.34 MB, 1080x1080, 1539126474580.png)
>>1566507>comparing me to a daddy domWhy would you be so cruel to me, I don't even know you.
No. 1566533
>>1566503He's still around. He was at a Versus battle in 2021. He just goes by Romeo Miller now.
https://www.instagram.com/romeomiller/?hl=en>>1566505Kek
No. 1566572
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Is anyone else face blind about their own face? Was trying to do some glasses shopping and couldnt figure out what I look like. My face shape is also already weird, I think I have a square face I just have really chubby cheeks (or buccal fat lol) I have also fluctuated with weight for a while, having gained a lot of weight in the past couple years and in the last year I lost a ton of weight but my cheeks are still chubby and I think it’s just a genetic thing. Anyways what I’m wondering if anyone just has a hard time figuring out what they look like. I feel like my general perception of how my face looks, aside from weight or genetics, always changes.
No. 1566580
>>1566567well I had a patch of this when I started accutane, but below my knee. I bought Aquaphor and a pair of cheap legwarmers. Every night, I smeared Aquaphor thickly on the dry part and pulled the legwarmer up to cover it. Slept with it like that.
It took a a few days but it finally went away. That said, you might have another skin condition there. I can never remember the difference between psoriasis and eczema, but something like that. Is the skin peeling or blistered or red or itchy? You never mentioned itching, just prickly feeling.
No. 1566614
>>1566598this is a fair assessment, thanks.
>>1566603i should have clarified this, none of us know each other irl. i thought about it and correct, it's not worth it and doesn't reap anything meaningful except for seeing shit crash. she already got punished by a decent portion who cut her off, as some people were
victims of CSA by family and thought that the way she'd happily overshared her experience was insensitive.
No. 1566729
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bump due to scroting
No. 1566744
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Does this stain your bathtub?
>>1566729What a cutie
No. 1566779
>>1566776Awesome
nonnie I deleted my comment ty lol
No. 1566789
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>>1566757i think because it's edgy and self-pitying to the point of goofiness, just like the MC himself, the #1 profile pic choice for faux-depressed 12 year olds. same reason that gigachad song is a meme
No. 1566882
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what age is to late to have very intense fangirl-y celebrity crushes? i used to be very romantically repressed and it finally exploded in my face at age 18-19 when i got my first celeb crush, it kind of hit me like a meteor and i’m still going through that obsessive stage of movie marathons and saving pictures whenever i really like a new actor. pretty sure most girls went through that phase at like 13, with one direction and stuff. do i have arrested development?
No. 1567047
>>1566882I thought after having one of those insane celeb crushes on some trashy moid singer at 15, I was done with that. But then at 25, out of nowhere I happened across a really unique looking and cool actress, and now I'm back on the same bullshit I thought I left behind a decade ago. I don't even really want this to be happening again because it honestly does not positively affect my life, but I've never seen anyone ever who is so "my type" before and my animal brain cannot stop obsessing even if it does nothing but
sexually and emotionally frustrate me and distract me from real life.
I feel like as humans we were never supposed to be able to see and know so much about people through screens that we can never actually meet or interact with, it fucks with our brains, like a cat trying to catch a laser pointer.
No. 1567094
>>1566863You say “I can’t, I’m sorry I have plans”.
If they ask “what plans?” then you can just not respond because that’s none of their business.
No. 1567213
File: 1683154276918.jpg (17.41 KB, 308x222, would.jpg)
Can someone edit this so that it says "cute"?
No. 1567214
File: 1683154658773.jpeg (126.84 KB, 1242x894, ABCF0E6D-DF5B-4119-B177-5AEF13…)
>>1567213Sage because it’s shit but I had fun.
No. 1567226
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Do adults actually get pinatas for their bdays
No. 1567268
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>>1567214It's lovely nonna thank you
No. 1567482
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>ate 3 small croissants at noon and drink 1 coffee
>stomach ache starts 20 minutes later
>have a crazy diarrhea 5 times in the span of 4 hours, and then later like 6 small diarrheas until midnight
does it look like gluten intolerance or something more serious like a celiac disease
No. 1567490
>>1567463Not alone there, Once I started showing interest in video games my mother threw them all out saying only young boys play video games and then out grow it as men. Coming from another autistic
nonnie. My mom was insane with stuff being unessacarily gendered. Like women needing to wear makeup and have long hair otherwise they're being lazy and won't find a man and will grow old and alone with no kids type of thinking. It took me a long time to like video games again but I do now and I don't care what my mom thinks about it I work pay my bills and live by myself now.
No. 1567493
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what do you guys think about wearing a black silk lace tank top underneath pic rel? Would that look cute or eh?
No. 1567533
Can other people notice if you’re aroused? Bear with me nonnas. Since I was young I always thought it was only obvious for guys since they have such a physical reaction, and always thought women could stealth cus we don’t get stiffys. I usually let arousal take over and don’t think much of it because nothing on the outside changes. My face doesn’t change, and I don’t have any other physical markers. I just mentally and bodily feel it. One time, a longish time ago, I was spooning with a friend and was comfortable and relaxed enough to feel it, and I could tell that after a while she wanted to get the hell away from me. Recently, I was spooning with another friend of mine and the same thing happened. I promise I’m not a creep, it wasn’t sexual to me, it was more that I felt comfortable and it felt nice, like melting. It also doesn’t help my paranoia that people can read my thoughts (like more spicy thoughts per se) through touch. I’m sorry nonnas, this probably sounds gross. I keep to myself, never get physically close with people otherwise and my friends are ok with being touchy so I don’t think it’s that. I just think they do it more for the meme than actual connection, which would play a part. It’s just a different language, so if we’re not speaking the same language it would be odd. I’m much more “touch starved” than them so maybe I go overboard? But I never act on anything, it’s just internal. We’ve been friends for years but that also means things change and they’ve lived a lot more and grown up but I’ve still not done a lot and never had a boyfriend and there’s a gap between the two instances and it’s also different people, but I noticed the same reaction regardless. I think the one thing others can notice is a rise in body temperature and maybe they got hot and wanted to get away. This is getting long, but I just don’t want you guys to think I’m a pest that hounds my friends. Unless I am and I’m just retarded. There’s a lot of things I do that I think others don’t notice, but then I find out that they do notice and it makes me feel mega retarded. I’m also overthinking this lately because I recently had a friend ask me to cuddle and I’m dying for the comfort but I’m worried that the same thing will happen again. And in this case it would be worse since he is a moid (yea I know but I promise it’s platonic) and it would be massively awkward. I’m honestly gonna cut it with physical touch with my other friends because it basically never happens and then when it happens (when I big spooned my friend recently) it was nice but I can tell she wasn’t as into it as me (she has a boyfriend though so honestly I’m just being really dumb I know) (I hate that lame ass bum though but that’s not the point)
No. 1567560
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What's the name of this pattern?
No. 1567657
>>1567647Yeah typically a gyno will do a pelvic exam which includes looking inside your vagina, feeling the position of your cervix and uterus, etc. it's sort of a baseline establishing care procedure for them since that's the area they're observing/treating. you should probably call ahead and discuss it if you're worried, or at least make it clear you will want to discuss it with the dr once you get there.
I'm not a doctor but I think if you were anemic from your period you would fucking know it lol, you'd have to be bleeding like crazy during your period it's kind of hard to miss. Your doctor really thinks this even though you don't think so? Maybe you should go to the gyno just to prove them wrong. It's kind of a copout idea. What if you do have
menorrhagia or something, are they gonna prescribe you birthcontrol to stop your period? Your doctor should be working on treating your anemia not sending you elsewhere to get it diagnosed again but for a different reason and/or blame it on your pussy. God doctors are so lazy, we pay them too much.
No. 1567666
>>1567647samefag: always remember you don't have to give them permission to look in your vagina if you don't want to. it's definitely medically necessary sometimes so they might not be able to do much for you if you refuse but you can still say no if you don't want them to.
most of the time they can't actually tell you anything from fingering you and looking (unless something is really fucked up). unless you're on your period they aren't gonna be able to see shit, they're just going to go off what you tell them about your cycles. they have to use an ultrasound just to know if you have something common like PCOS. there have been so many times where I went to the gyno to be fingered for 10 seconds and basically told "all good" I'm sorry to the doctors out there but it's borderline quackery lmao.
No. 1567807
>>1567791nta, but honestly as I grow older I find that the female expectation that you have to care about a career is just as
toxic as the expectaion of starting a family. Both can be fulfilling, and most women do eventually desire a balance of both. So what if a person prefers a career, or if a person prefers finding a comfy family life? Some people just doesn't dream of working all the time and value their daily human interractions more, so what.
Academia is also full of self-important people
men who think they are above others simply because they studied more, and they all actively look down on "low achievers" who are the ones making the whole society go around because they have the practical skills needed that academics can't handle because they only know how to think in theories. Yet academia are the ones pushing the fucking troon agenda, they're clearly not "smarter" just because they studied a bit more.
No. 1567815
>>1567805Nobody calls her significant other
Bebé, unless you speak like in a cringey reggaeton song
No. 1567835
>>1567807>So what if a person prefers a career, or if a person prefers finding a comfy family life? Some people just doesn't dream of working all the time and value their daily human interractions more, so what. Except being a SAHM won't give you agency, autonomy, resources. Career will. And this article is mainly about women who prefer "traditional" values contributing to holding women back. Which it does, in a broader scale.
Also, SAHM don't have more "human interractions". Actually women who stay at home are more alienated from community and out of social life than working women.
No. 1567839
>>1567831>basically sugaringOh fuck off the
average woman spends thousands per year on her looks while men don’t even wash their asses weekly
No. 1567853
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>>1567843>>1567847I definitely don’t spend that much either and was surprised but it makes sense if you think about it. Most women except the really poor ones I know go to get their hair cut at a salon or ulta, a ton of women color and gloss their hair, most women wear makeup, most women have at least a minimal skincare routine, most women shave/wax, laser treatments facials and ps are on the rise, etc and that doesn’t count clothes and accessories yet
No men aren’t forcing them to do all that but the point is that even just wearing cute clothes, styling your hair, or having a skincare routine you are paying more than men do.
No. 1567868
>>1567773Because as a woman, you should be vetting men for generosity as to not end up with a selfish asshole. It's not about the money because women can pay for themselves. But if he can't even pay for fucking dates as a gesture of good will, how stingy will he be with everything else in his life (not just money, but also effort, time, affection, etc)? The average man is selfish and self-centered as fuck.
inb4, why doesn't the woman need to pay? Because the average woman is way more generous, emotionally intelligent, giving, and kind in comparison than any average man. Sorry, women are just worth more. 90% of men are trash who should never touch a woman ever and be given the opportunity to ruin her life.
No. 1567901
>>1567877I think the convo was just about dates so you don’t know if he is a unicorn yet or not
>>1567882Oh well I agree there. Except I don’t think there’s anything wrong with basic hygiene or styling which most men don’t even do that much.
No. 1567957
>>1567766For me it's also nail polish, especially on your toenails. Like why? I used to wear nailpolish but got tired of it chipping the first day and trying to make it last is just so much work. I also stopped wearing makeup and shaving most days, only do it when I feel like it but I actually plan on stopping completely. I also don't wear heels or revealing/uncomfortable clothing just to be sexy for stupid moids.
>>1567930I think so. The pressure to be productive and to always reach higher is part of our capitalist society so it's completely justified to just do what you feel like as long as you don't harm anyone. I also love being at home and doing my own thing, I do have hobbies and sometimes I'm productive but I don't like the pressure around it. You're not failing if you enjoy small things or mindfulness.
No. 1567974
>>1567961I'm
>>1567957 and anxiety is a huge factor for me having slowed down my life and reducing social contacts and work pressure. I used to be so stressed out when I was still in uni, it made me physically ill. That's not a life I want so I care less about achieving the most I can but rather enjoy not being anxious every day.
No. 1568010
>>1567868This is spot on nonna. If the guy loves you, he should have no problem paying things for you. Same that if you love the guy you usually want to buy him things, it’s natural in any kind of relationship where you want to give the other something. Regardless of cost. But there’s a difference between that and having to contractually split costs for simple shit like meals or something. I usually see the whole “oh so egalitarian and 50/50” angle as such a ruse because it’s never ever 50/50. The moid will always abuse this and make you front bills and you enter a false security thinking you are so equal and independent. I see this first hand with my friend’s boyfriend and it’s really upsetting because he knows her issues with money and yet he’s put all this worry on her in terms of money and paying for shit. The man should take care of things, not because we are “helpless” but because it’s just being considerate. It should be to take stress away from you. I understand that some nonnas feel like when the guy pays you feel indebted to him, and I can see that for a first date with a stranger, but in any other case, why should you care?
> But if he can't even pay for fucking dates as a gesture of good will, how stingy will he be with everything else in his life (not just money, but also effort, time, affection, etc)?Everyone take notes because this is just true every time.
No. 1568044
>>1567766I personally like painting my nails but I never go to the professional, just do them myself while watching a tv show. I'm just used to having colorful nails because I've painted them since I was 11. It never felt obligatory, just nice to see a nice color or sparkles.
What I refuse to do is shaving mostly. I don't shave my legs unless I go to the beach (that's super rare though), I do shave my pits to keep the hair length moderate tho, and now that I'm not in a relationship I don't shave pubes at all (used to do it only partially to make it more convenient for oral sex). I have some excessive hair as well and I don't pluck it where it's covered by clothes. I'm also too lazy to do something for my hair other than just washing and brushing even though I always think about cutting it and styling a particular way but I'm just so not used to that. And I never wear heels or anything uncomfortable.
>>1567789I believe "a girl" in English has broader meaning that also includes "a young woman". In my native language, there are two different words for little girls/early teens and teens/young women, and some women actually get offended when they're called
women (which would allegedly imply they seem older). There was even a couple of times when other women referred to me as a "woman" just to be passive aggressive, even though it's clear I'm in my 20s and it would be more appropriate to say girl/young woman. I personally don't care though, it was just clear what was the intention and it's kind of weird/funny when you think about it.
No. 1568119
>>1567760I used to think it wasn't fair to expect men to always pay or pay fully for anything but now I know to avoid those who want to split checks on principle. I don't mind paying for something myself and giving random gifts and nice birthday/christmas gifts at all but I want to see the same kind of generosity in a man. And it's just non-existent in those that are too anal about "fairness" and equality, god forbid they pay more or pay out of "turn" or something. I feel like anyone who has this expectation from the beginning and brings it up when he's supposed to show his best side and be kind of irrational from the infatuation either yes, don't like you all that much or is just a really huge miser that'll be like that with anything: time, attention, help, empathy, and so on. It's not a reason to turn into a leech and become obsessed with money question yourself, I've known such women and they couldn't really build a healthy (or any) relationship, plus it's quite an ugly look. But, at the same time, you can't pretend that gender roles don't exist and don't influence the way we act. Most hetero men and women still are quite "masculine" and "feminine" to a certain degree in their looks and behavior, because it's just a part of social norms. Men courting women is the most basic norm that makes total sense even from the biological point of view–the opposite would seem unnatural, like some kind of a weird game where a woman is a loser by default in anyone's eyes. Men that are too pressed about this norm are, mildly put, quite suspicious. They hate that there're certain expectations put on them as men and it seems like they don't want to put more effort in certain areas so to say, but does it mean they're ready to put more effort elsewhere or that their expectations are much lower in overall? Typically, they want a "feminine" woman that would also make their life extra comfortable by constantly proving how progressive and egalitarian she is, and, best-case scenario, they would reciprocate by doing just a bit of chores and trying not to display "
toxic masculinity", and, in my opinion, it leads to mommy-son kind of relationships basically.
No. 1568130
Is it a redflag when a guy gets excited over fastfood (like he was happy he will be living near two fastfood places) and often, when he sees me buying some groceries, like a salmon for example, he says shit like
>you could get the X item cheaper at the X store
?? Dude we are not even in a relationship, we don't share a budget. Also I remember him saying some shit about not liking "expensive" bottled water brands, whatever that is, and how only the cheap ones taste good to him. Like I don't like poor quality food, sure sometimes I eat unhealthy shit like pizza or chips kek, but I also want some good quality meat and veggies and fruit, even if I have to pay a little more. I don't really get it about this guy, because he earns much more money than me now and has a better job than me. He also graduated from tech college. He recently said he will be selling his car and only using bike from now on. Don't get me wrong, I also like to save my money. But this just sounds weird. He has a crush on me but I'm really scared he would be stingy as fuck in a relationship and I couldn't buy anything nice for myself without him hoovering above me and telling me I could get this cheaper somewhere else or not buying it at all. I wonder if he would pay for dates kek.
No. 1568137
>>1568129It would be cute if they thought in meows. A friend of mine told me that animals just don’t think, it’s all about instincts.
I like to think animals think though I looked up the question and Natgeo says they do think and have feelings.
But imagine if it was like vid related.
No. 1568180
>>1568130A red flag for what? If you’re not in a relationship what’s the red flag for? Like I guess he’s overly critical of things that don’t concern him (your personal financial choices) but who cares? Are you considering a relationship with him? Are you considering ending your friendship (?) with him?
Yeah he sounds annoying and all up in your shit like he should’t be but what are you asking
No. 1568181
>>1568180Samefag:
Wow wait I just realized I married someone like this and totally would have asked this question in 4chan or something 12 years ago lmao
Is it a red flag? Yeah. He will always be like this. People don’t change their opinion on money that much if everything stays basically the same for them financially. We’re fine financially so it doesn’t bother me. but if you are bothered just be aware: it won’t ever stop.
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Is it cheating if I still check social media sites on my computer?
I deleted all apps on my phone at the beginning of the year and haven't downloaded them back but I scroll tiktok and instagram on my pc
No. 1568349
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would writing stories make me better at socializing?
No. 1568350
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Most retarded question ITT:
So who do hot guys actually date? I’m not just talking about any attractive boy but real head-turners, real make-your-stomach-drop’ers, the kind of guys you’d see on social media (but actually real and IRL). The male equivalent of beautiful women that make moids say “oh well she probably only dates really rich old guys” (cope). Male arm-candy, really.
I see them IRL sometimes (moreso) in big cities, but I don’t know what they do or who they date. I don’t know any girls who date guys like that. I never see them in social groups. I never saw them at uni. They never have women with them.
Where are they and who do they date? Rich old ladies?
No. 1568359
>>1568180A redflag for being a stingy fucker who would never buy anything nice, only the cheapest version of everything. Also he wore pants with holes in them to work
My grandfather was like this and he didn't even pay for food for his kids, only for some bills, the rest he was saving for god knows what. My grandma had to work at a factory and feed the kids. My mom and aunt never been on holiday as kids, never had anything nice etc.
No. 1568375
>>1568350Rich women over 50 and plastic bimbos.
Will eventually marry an insecure woman slightly older than him who makes a lot of money, then later in middle age impregnate some barely legal half retarded girl.
No. 1568384
>>1568283I'm also norwegian, do you live in Oslo? Oslo boys are stingy as fuck despite having rich parents. I usually date men outside of the city and they all pay for the date, the only person who expected me to pay was from Oslo. My male friends will also buy drinks for ther friends of both sexes, even for their gfs friends.
I guess the dating culture in and outside the city is vastly different in Norway.
No. 1568385
>>1568384I don’t live in Oslo, but live in another “big” city by Norwegian scale haha. I grew up a country bumpkin tho so can kinda imagine what you mean. Jeg har en teori om at menn som bor på bygda kan påkoste seg å være mer rundhåndet fordi de har færre kvinner å velge i, så de må "konkurrere" hardere. Det er kjent at flere kvinner enn menn flytter fra bygda for å studere, så menn som bor i storbyer har flere valgmuligheter.
My friends and myself can be charitable as well, but I don’t really see it the same as taking someone you barely met on a date and shelling out for them. Anyway I agree with anons saying being generous is a good trait in a moid, my point was more along the line that the expectation for guys to pay 100% by default is kinda foreign here. Remember my friend loling at an American woman he'd been on a date with who automatically assumed he would pay for her.
No. 1568395
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Is it wrong if I don't want to go to unrelated 'family' members' college graduation party (I only met these people once) because I learned the cute boy who will be there has a girlfriend? I wanted to go specifically to talk to him, not that a collegiate would like me anyway. I changed my mind about going and kind of feel bad.
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>>1568407Yeah true I do have a future I guess, just not with any of the particular boys, or previously girls, who caught my fancy and it hurts each time, I just want to know; is it wrong if I don't want to go to the thing??
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>>1568410>is it wrong if I don't want to go to the thing??I mean, since your goal seems to be getting in a relationship and meeting new people to get in a relationship with. It’s silly, maybe he brings some friends that are single, maybe his gf brings some friends along as well. Maybe you will have fun at the party and bond with your family members.
I say you should go because doing something is better than being locked in your house.
No. 1568443
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>>1568434Lies lies from tiny eyes.
>>1568419Nobody's bringing friends I'm assuming, plus he's the exact phenotype I like. He also has a precious smile and seems kind, like his father whom I've smoked weed with a bunch of times. I won't bond with my family members, because no one there is my family except my dad. I don't like being around a lot of people, especially when they are my age, because they mostly find me weird. Kekking at your pic tho
>>1568439I think this is normal, and life is suffering. Picrel the phenotype I'm after.
No. 1568455
>>1568448to be fair she didn't say what her type was. maybe she's sexually attracted to neckbeards, we don't know. I might be doing her a favor.
I can do it on purpose too.
No. 1568496
>>1568488Definitely a stupid question, this shit is taught in schools.
It is the case for any country using concentrated animal feeding operations and many small-time "farmers" do it too
for the usa for example:
https://www.fda.gov/animal-veterinary/product-safety-information/steroid-hormone-implants-used-growth-food-producing-animals No. 1568539
>>1568444NTA but you can post original fiction to AO3 I think. Though I imagine not a lot of people would read it because they mostly want fan fiction.
Alternatively, Tumblr.
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>>1568350Anon, I always wonder that too! Especially when I once again see a beautiful girl with a less than mediocre moid, like where are the actually handsome men? When not even these beautiful girls can get them, then who am I supposed to date? kek
I tend to believe that they never genuinely date anybody since their egos must be massive, when even ugly guys get so much praise from girls.
Pls don't judge me but recently I watch a couple of thirsttrap tiktokers/youtubers and the guy in the clip said he slept with 200-300 women, some already in their 40s