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>>>/ot/1520782 No. 1537978
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What's the last thing you cooked for dinner? (yeah I'm reposting it)
No. 1537983
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>>1537978A cachapa with a waffle-maker, but instead of ham and cheese I only had it with shredded white cheese. It tastes amazing!
No. 1537993
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>>1537978oven broiled salmon, snow peas and rice with an umeboshi. full weeaboo mode, very yummy and easy to make.
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Asked this on the old thread right before it closed so asking here again.
what can you do to avoid tgel? I'm invited to a party where a tif is coming too. Luckily I'm not close with her so there will be no expectations for me to interact with her so I can avoid her. I'm also planning on wearing long sleeves in case I bump into her so tgel won't come in direct contact with my skin. I know im being paranoid, her hygiene is fine so the risk of her being careless with tgel is small but still I don't want to risk getting tgel on me
No. 1538093
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What are your genuine thoughts on dating ugly men? Is it never worth it? I know a guy and I genuinely love talking with him, he's very well read, and I can see admiration for me in his eyes [/spoiler] I actually feel aroused because of the way he looks at me and treats me but maybe that's because I'm a retarded virgin.[spoiler] He's objectively ugly and his only physical pros is that he's tall, like 6'2 at least. He's also almost 10 years older than me. My female colleague frowns at me for even talking to him and tells me not to even think about it, she also tells me that I'm way out of his league and I deserve someone attractive. Tbh I have a pretty low self esteem and I would be too shy to talk to a guy who's actually attractive, and there isn't many good looking guys around here anyway. Idk what to do. I also know that people might mock me for dating him kek
No. 1538123
>>1538093if you have enough of a height fetish that the 6'2" gets you going maybe you could make it work kek. there's different kinds of objectively ugly, if you find a man sexually appealing and not just in a "hurr durr nice personality" way then that's all that matters.
>10 years olderokay that's a hard no.
No. 1538145
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Does this guy exist
Does he know his meme status
No. 1538181
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>>1538167>Idk what weight to getI'm using a 8kg weighted duvet from Cura of Sweden
Highly recommend this brand as all of their products are marked as a medical aid and I used their products while working in hospital. while weighing at about 55kg~
been like a year since I weighed myself last time and sometimes I wish that I had bought the 10kg duvet instead as I don't feel like it's heavy enough. It does it job pretty well and I have been sleeping better with. Picrel is a approximation guide on what you should get as the blanket should be about 10-15% of your body weight. Here is more information regarding it
https://curaofsweden.com/en/right-weight-for-your-weighted-duvet No. 1538231
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Should I let an online store know that I got my order? I ordered some clothes that was on clearance sale, the store itself is a luxury brand and not some struggling fashion brand. Anyway to get to the point I had ordered like more then a month ago and just two days ago asked about my order as I couldn't see if it had been shipped or not as I don't live in the country the store is based at and knew that international orders took some time to fulfil. Yesterday I received my order and got an email from the store that said that my order got apparently cancelled and that they regret not informing me of that and would fully reimbursed me for my order.
No. 1538242
>>1538238>Generally yes but some factors like age, still being in education or wanting to save money because rent and electricity has skyrocketed could maybe justify it. You need to provide more context to say for certain.Cost of living is their main issue, also being hours away from the city centre. I currently afford to live by myself but I'm in a cheaper suburb my partner loves city life. My partner's parents have a condo in the city which is convenient because they work in the entertainment industry and moving in with me would increase their commute from 45 mins to almost 2 hours. I have a job nearby my apartment and moving to their city would make a long commute for me as well. My partner has expressed that they rather I move to the city but I like my job and don't want to leave it.
>That said it's not a fantastic idea to move in together with a partner who has never lived on his/her own for a while.How is it bad?
No. 1538339
>>1538242Various reasons, first of all you want a partner who knows how to cook, clean, wash their clothes and do various other household chores. Living independently is a life skill and you don't learn that (enough) while living under your parents' roof. You don't want to mommy them how to do basic household chores or be the one to assign them tasks or worse, have them claim they don't know how to do basic household chores so you default to doing them. Second, and this is especially true in a hetero couple dynamic, women will often assume more or most of the household chores (despite working equal hours) and men often willingly go along with this especially when they haven't cooked their own meals and cleaned their own toilet and sink. Don't be surprised how many men will claim not to know how to wash their clothes because mommy has always done so for then. It's easy for men to shift from one mommy-situation to another (aka you). Third, them living on their own is a good test to see how they will function in a shared household, if they cook proper meals for themselves and keep their living space nice and tidy and have a similiar idea of how regularly and well you clean, how often you cook at home or take out etc. as you, you have a much better chance living in harmony and avoiding conflict when you share a space.
As far as your partner's arguments go, that seems reasonable to me for now but you need to discuss a long-term solution/compromise. And it's probably good to discuss that sooner than later.
No. 1538427
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What the fuck is going on with this man?
No. 1538475
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Why do so many gay men want children?
Its easy to understand why some lesbian couples who have maternal inclinations would want children of their own and they can easily have one without much effort but for gay men there's no social of paternal drive for them, and it requires exploiting a woman's body or going through the adoption system, so what's the appeal
No. 1538759
>>1538732It's hyperbole
nonnie. You don't HAVE to rush out and specially buy more revealing and feminine clothes than the ones you already own and are comfortable wearing. You're allowed just wear what you like. It sounds like teenagers or some
toxic family member anyway, they're going to make fun of her for wearing a "modest" swimsuit too.
No. 1538761
>>1538719>>1538729Thank you!
Getting the ones with leggings,
have a good day!
>>1538728Maybe it is futile to prove I can look feminine, but I got my paycheck and think it would be good to have just in case.
>>1538733I would, but I don’t like anything above knee. My fashion is band tee and sweatpants.
No. 1538872
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found out bf’s friend is a weirdo at the least. should I be assuming he’s also secretly weird? ik sometimes we don’t completely know the ppl we associate with or befriend, so I’m trying not to judge and jump to conclusions. especially men, they’re not exactly known to share intimate feelings with eachother a whole lot (though tbf my bf is emotionally intelligent) and he’s not a best friend.
No. 1538978
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>>1538950The blue one does it best
No. 1539254
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>>1539167Idk about raccoons we don't have them here but I think you should be able to keep out rabbits and squirrels with a netting and/or raised bed set up. I have squirrels in my garden too but I've never seen them eat from my veggies, birds are definitely the main perpertrator in that regard but kept our with netting. If not- fruit trees/bushes with thorns perhaps? That's just an idea though, idk for certain if thorned fruit brushes would keep animals out. Blackberry, raspberry, gooseberry, blackthorn (that's a type of cherry), hawtorn (for jams jellies), sea buckthorn (sour but extremely healthy) are some edible thorned fruit trees/bushes.
No. 1539397
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Anyone know any shoes that would go with this dress for the summer that aren’t heels?
No. 1539430
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>The only thing that could be more legendary is if we could recover her first ever thread
What happened to Shayna's first thread? I've been here for around the same time her threads have and I don't remember anything about her threads going missing.
No. 1539434
>>1539428>I end all relationships with men after they tellMe they love me
It’s going to be hard for you not to attract stalkers or people trying to get you into a relationship because men can sense when you don’t want something serious and they are going to chase
No. 1539473
>>1538475Desire to improve someone’s life for the better? Nearing retirement and choosing no longer to live for yourself? Many more reasons.
Most gay dudes who adopt are fairly rich and want the money to go to something good, so they spoil the hell out of their kids and get the best education and whatnot
No. 1539530
>>1539523Shhh!
That was the point…
No. 1539571
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Aside from design is there any difference between these two types of roller skates? I remember me and everyone at my school having roller skates similar to the ones on picture 1(and this is still what I see the kids in my town use) but in the last 7 years or something I'm seeing so many stores selling those on picture 2 these are also the types see on social media. I have also noticed that when using picture 1 people are wearing full protection gear(I also used to do that as a child) but people don't wear any protection when using picture 2. Are picture 2 roller blades less extreme? And can they go as fast as picture 1?
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>>1539397I think I found the shoes I’m going to wear with it
No. 1539648
>>1539631Kill yourself.
>>1539642Thanks!
No. 1539659
>>1539627Why do you not like them? Do you think that they don't deserve what they have, or that their personality is grating, but it's something you struggle with yourself, like they make friends easily but you don't? Do you ever find yourself thinking that if you had an aspect of their life you'd do a better job of it than they are, like if you had their home you'd take better care of it or if you had their job you'd be more competent? That's jealousy.
Do you dislike them because they cross your boundaries somehow, do things which you personally disagree with, or you just don't have anything in common and spending time with them annoys you? That's dislike. As the other anon said though there's a lot of overlap, you can be jealous of some aspects and hate others.
No. 1539688
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>>1539687The cycle of abuse, love bombing.
No. 1539692
>>1539688It's not really an incident though, more like he is super rude but then does something completely different to surprise me (i.e, giving me an A in his class or full marks on my evaluation). Is it possible for someone who is a narcissistic abuser to manifest these behaviors with students? I see him say callous things to students but idk if I'm the only one who occasionally gets 'rewarded'.
>>1539690Oh no nona, I just want to understand what behavior this is. I've actually completed DBT as a former bpdfag so I'm past this stuff but yeah it feels like something I would have fallen for in the past. The ups and downs specifically. Now I'm stable and have a secure attachment style so I noticed his
abusive pattern of behavior towards me very quick. Thanks for checking though, I agree with you. He's damaged.
No. 1539698
>>1539692Anon wtf are you dating your teacher/professor or are you talking about a professional relationship.
Sorry I'm confused.
No. 1539700
>>1539695Thanks anon, I appreciate it. I've heard of sociopathic professors so I'm wondering if these behaviors can apply to teacher/student relationships. But I will avoid this man like the plague as soon as I get the chance.
>>1539698No kek I would never date this man, he is just exhibiting weird
abusive behaviors towards me with being extremely rude and then rewarding me out of the blue with inflating my grades, compliments, etc. I felt like he was establishing some sort of trauma bond with me or something with all the ups and downs of our relationship as student and advisor.
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>>153966210th kingdom, has been reuploaded to Youtube
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i started watching this show because i love succession but didn't smile once in about 15 minutes, i'm a brit bong too. does it ever get better/funny?
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>>1539774there were several times in the show where I laughed uncontrollably and I dont normally laugh at TV shows or Bri'ish humor. but for the most part, I didnt laugh while watching it, it just made me feel happy because I relate to the main character. loved sitting down every evening to binge it while it was on netflix and it's one of my favorite shows of all time.
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Beyond stupid question, sorry, but is it possible for someone to handle tension/stress in a way that makes you feel tired all the time?
A long time ago I spent a night just laughing and talking with a friend (which is unheard of for me because I'm a social pariah and I go years without laughing), and I woke up feeling the best I have in, what, my entire life? Normally I feel so fatigued, painful, and tense/wired, but I felt so alive and refreshed that entire day. I work out, eat well…in fact I grew up obese and now I'm the skinniest I've ever been. Already tried getting blood tests. Nothing off. I am just a very stressed out rock of a person.
No. 1539915
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I've been trying to make pao de queijo but it always comes out… sandy. When I eat it there's tiny bits of what feels like actual sand. Is my tapioca flour too low quality or is that just normal? I'm not from a place that ever uses tapioca flour so I'm unfamilliar.
No. 1539927
>>1539915Do you boil the liquid ingredients before adding them in? It makes a huge difference. Obviously don't boil the egg if you use that. Let the mixture rest for a bit so it absorbs the liquid.
Also, are you using tapioca STARCH or tapioca FLOUR? You should use the starch. Trust me, there is a difference.
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Why does the peanut butter and jelly sandwich need cheese? It’s from the amerifag thread; I’m American but I’m not familiar with whatever this is
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>>1540267We have an anon in /ot/ who eats peanut butter and grilled cheese sandwiches and gets sick each time. It's become an injoke
>>1540273Here she is now, speak of the devil
No. 1540282
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Why do people get cankles when they're older?
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>>1540297>>1540297Nevermind Im stupid and it just means a notification. They still
could have a second profile but it doesnt mean that neccessarily.
No. 1540417
>>1540405ayrt i absolutely agree instagram sucks. though i will admit that for me it's probably the better one of the other regularly used social media platforms that the people and friends i know are on (facebook, twitter, tiktok, even reddit) which isn't saying much, they're all basically similarly low-tier
>>1540407i guess that could be true, i just feel like in real life you don't get as much of an out of focus view if you're putting it on and wearing it, ie looking in the mirror or if someone's modeling for something, having photos taken. while it's interesting to see a video demonstration i don't feel like it helps much if viewers can't see how it clearly looks on application, if it's super pigmented or more sheer, how the glitter itself actually looks on skin etc. also instagram's videos generally are decent quality i think depending on settings and the quality of the upload itself. the videos i've been getting are clear when they show the palette but the moment they start showing the application it's like whoever is recording doesn't bother to bring that into focus at any point, not even at the end.
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Ok, please don't mind me, I've been ridiculously reserved for the past years and I am a social retard. I am down to one (online only) friend and I'm wondering if it is normal for a friend to just go on and on about something for a long time without responding to anything you say. Like, for an hour and 1000s of words.
I don't know. Long ago I had friends that were super receptive to what I said and it was a lot more fun that way. Back and forth…jokes…quips, drama, whatever, and plenty of deeper conversations too with super involved responses.
And I'm really doubting myself. I thought I liked it when people are super enthusiastic about something and in the past I've been friends with a few - except when I said something they actually responded - but it's like with this one there's just no fun because it's like everything being said is something that could be said to anyone and that I'm just a sounding board for it…fuck. Maybe I'm a narcissist or something.
No. 1540432
>>1540420Positive relationships should have an equal amount of giving and taking wrt interaction.
If you go out with a friend to eat somewhere, you might say you can't wait for your food, to which your friend will ask what you ordered, then you'd ask what they ordered after telling them what you ordered, etc.
If a friend constantly unloads and doesn't acknowledge your responses that is an unequal relationship. You're not narcissistic for wanting your words to be acknowledged, that is how relationships work.
No. 1540446
>>1540445>t. hair schmientistKek thanks
nonnie, makes sense.
No. 1540513
>>1540510Maybe it's a southern thing (I wouldn't know, I'm not a burger) but it's been adopted by non-southern twittertards to be part of their speech alongside
trigger warnings and tone tags. It's irreversibly linked in my head with passive-aggressive 'y'all can't behave' reddit-twitter lingo.
No. 1540515
>>1540512That was supposed to say distinction between second person singular and plural
Sorry I haven't had much sleep
No. 1540533
>>1540529sometimes keyloggers are physical and therefore not detected in that manner, if whomever is finding you has had access to your electronics i would start there. you need to scan your router, remove unknown extensions on your browsers. if you save passwords to your phone or browser and have it synced with another account, if they have access to the main account they can view it. check your Google account for the active logins.
there is zero possible way someone can find your brand new account you've not shared unless they have virtual or physical access to your computer/phone/internet.
another option is you have a mole in your friend circle and someone you hold close is telling the offender(s) your new information
No. 1540534
>>1540518>>1540529Are you trying to make a new account in the same browser you log into for your regular account? If so, Google's tracking cookies are going to keep identifying you
If you're using a different browser in private mode, then the problem may be with your VPN. It may be leaking your real IP address which allows Google to link your accounts because they know it's you.
From my own experience: Google makes it VERY difficult to create anonymous accounts, especially through a VPN. I've tried before and it will ask you to verify with a phone number. You best option is using a public PC at a library or retail location to make a new account.
No. 1540546
>>1540518I've made multiple google accounts under both the same and different ip addresses..
as long as I'm signing up for gmail firsthand they never ask me for overly personal info or brute force me to add a phone number. for the name and dob I enter fake info.
I've got like 10 or more emails on google alone I've signed up for in the past decade and the site does not give a fuck
your computer or browser shouldn't be syncing your contacts automatically and notifying them, unless you somehow have it set that way. I didn't even realize google could do that
No. 1540559
>>1540546>your computer or browser shouldn't be syncing your contacts automatically and notifying them, unless you somehow have it set that way. I didn't even realize google could do thatGoogle is just as creepy as Facebook, if not more, when it comes to tracking and syncing data. I had a bunch of photos from high school saved on my old iPad from many years ago. One of my friends stores all her pictures on google photo, and it automatically tags people in the images for her. There's a photo on my old ipad of me wearing a clown mask for halloween, my friend had a clown face meme saved in her photos and it tagged me in them. What makes this creepy is that:
1) my old ipad bricked itself 10 years ago and since then I stopped using the icloud or google accounts I was logged into on it.
2) this friend is someone I met 5 years ago, not from high school. there are no images of her on the old ipad
I never used her phone, computer, or tablet with my current google account, yet it tags me in the images she uploads to her google photo album because she has me as a phone contact and it knows my face because of the selfies I have on my phoen. The fact that it mistakenly tagged me in her meme photo proved that it syncs data from accounts based on phone number, IP, etc even if they're dormant.
No. 1540563
>>1540559Is that on google photos or google drive? I don't have any contacts or anybody I know knowingly synced to my google accounts. I upload all my files to drive and ensure nothing gets shared without my permission. The two I do use for shopping and takeout orders are the two I've had for years that I know have probably location tracked me via maps. The rest of the accounts I typically only use for signing up for online accounts, spam, burner subscriptions, extended drive space without paying, drives for different purposes etc
It's never done this for me, but I limit myself to what services I use and have never shared most of my accounts with my contacts. For the record I haven't used Facebook for years either, but there's a pesky account on there I can't get rid of having lost the password.
No. 1540567
>>1540563She uses google photos and orders prints from it and stuff
Every now and then it will automatically generate themed albums for her. She's shown me several times where it sees me or someone that looks vaguely like in the image and asks "Is this [me]"? so it can tag me.
No. 1540570
>>1540568make a proton mail or tutanota account
it's free and mostly secure. NOBODY should be able to track you on that unless you foolishly upload your contacts to i.
No. 1540587
>>1540580social media addicted losers and other words like
valid,
triggered, bias as in my bias kpoopy term and more words that are out of place in my non English language.
No. 1540590
>>1540587I think
trigger/
triggers is a normal term in american english due to all the veterans with PTSD we have. it's been fairly well known and common vernacular since…the 90s? 80s? It has a new connotation now but I remember learning it in the 90s in relation to veterans alongside terms like shell shock and gunshy which are more old fashioned.
No. 1540602
>>1540590AYRT I will admit that I myself use the word
trigger although with an inflection based on my language when working in the medical field and years ago it was very uncommon that people that didn't work in the field used the word
triggered/
trigger or in the way I do at my job. Now I have see teenagers and adults use that word as one has seen from social media and such. I'm not going to get into but you can take an example of Jill the cow from /w/ and her cohort of social media losers that got a meltdown from a medical seminar and subsequent tirade I know more then a doctor who has been in his field for years.
No. 1540654
>>1540510as another burger i feel the same way as
>>1540513.
and personally find it cringe when non-southerners use it in general, but especially so in that context No. 1540701
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what does this mean? is it pedoshit? i don't know japanese but if these ideograms mean the same as they do in chinese i assume it's about 15yo students
It's some guy's online game handle
No. 1540705
>>1540694excercise
triggers my withdrawl appetite pretty well, try eating some light things like yogurt, eggs, maybe smoothies. i usually bake a batch of cookies to eat every day for breakfast if I'm withdrawing on THC because its an easy calorie bomb to force myself to eat. mite work for you
No. 1540867
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how do people make online friends nowadays?
i know discord communities are a thing but they are always chock-full of the most obnoxious zoomers. i dont use any social media so i cant just meet friends through like, tumblr or twitter… i dont play MMOs/multiplayer games, im not in any "fandoms", i dont have some weirdly specific autistic hobby i could join an online community for. maybe im just making things harder for myself by being like this. i just want a female friend who's around my age to talk to (i am tired of talking to scrotes)
i dont think im a bad conversationalist but every time ive met someone and added them on discord we have the most awkward, contrived conversation ever and then we ghost each other forever. i am not a dry texter and i try my best to engage with the other person but this always seems to happen… i guess its just hard for me to find people i "click" with
No. 1540875
>>1540712isn't the whole shtick that you
do get to keep the books even after you stop the subscriptions? never tried so idk
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>>1540883that is not an option for me right now but i have considered signing up for dance classes in the future to socialize more
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In order to have my post with a picture included show up like the first pic, do I click "post" or "images" from the upper menu?
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The jannies at crystal.cafe keep deleting most of the replies i make even if i'm not breaking the rules, i think they have something against me. Anyone going through the same or am i just the mods punching bag?
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Why would a younger woman with an older husband look down on older women?
There's this 19-year-old coworker at my work place whose husband is around 10 years older than her. I've had her tell me, in a pretty mocking tone, that she feels so bad for her husband's male friends because their wives are 30. When I asked her why, she just shrugged and replied it's because they're old.
How does that make any sense? Does she not realize one day, she'll be 30 too?
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>>1541054Maybe she feels bad that they won't enjoy as many years of widowhood as her.
No. 1541067
>>1541054I think maybe she’s been listening to what her husband thinks and she’s repeating his opinions.
>>1541062Aw that’s a sweet thought I want to believe this lol
No. 1541089
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So the mirror above my bathroom sink was in a really weird position wedged up under the vanity light in a way that didn’t make sense and it always bothered me, so I lowered it about 8 inches. New holes in the wall, drywall anchors and everything. Huge pain in the ass to hang it up. I just got out of the shower and realized the mirror is now low enough that my pussy is completely in frame and now I want to raise it back up. IS… this psychotic? Would you do the same? Mirror is positioned across the room from shower like picrel so it’s unavoidable. I may be able to add some chair feet pads to the back to change the angle?
No. 1541101
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>>1541089shouldnt the mirror be fogged up? how can you even see it. you could also get a picture frame and do picrel to censor it. it looks cooler with an ornate gold frame like an old painting.
No. 1541104
>>1541089Yeah you’re being crazy.
>>1541101That looks like dogshit what the hell.
No. 1541119
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What is it about Tom from Succession that makes him so weirdly hot?
No. 1541177
>>1541175Being femenine and flirty will only get you so far. At the end of the day, men don't see us like equal human beings. Putting a lot of effort on being
femenine, because it's an unnatural state although we are conditioned to adapt to it since we're born, would actually mean that you are the one being manipulated by them, by the patriarchy. If you want long lasting power over them, you better be cold and aloof, men want what they can't get, being flirty it's quite the opposite. Also each men has its particular weakness that you must find, etc… Be safe, anon, manipulating men almost always backfires because they hate losing against us and it's in their nature to be the manipulator instead. Also, can I ask what are your goals?
No. 1541209
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i forgot to get more of my expensive shampoo and so i had to use my boyfriends typical man '10 in 1 shampoo conditioner body wash etc etc' shampoo and can someone tell me why tf my hair is so much softer and smoother right now. are we just all being punked into spending more money on a false sense of beauty
No. 1541210
>>1541054She sees her age as her only worth and projects that onto other people because her husband is a pedo and she's (not so) secretly afraid that he won't be interested in her when she turns 30. Many such cases.
Bit sad but since she's a bitch about it I'd make it a point to call her 'adult woman', and 'aging' as many times as I can because that will really
trigger her, maybe even sprinkle in a bit of 'oh I thought you were in your late 20s like me, so sorry!'. Not that I think it's a bad thing obviously, but she sure does.
No. 1541412
>>1541395Fish oil is a powerful blood thinner. The reason you’re not supposed to smoke on the pill is bc the pill increases your chances of getting a serious blood clot and dying from deep vein thrombosis or a stroke. Smoking also increases your chance of getting a blood clot independently of the pill so doing both at once is obviously advised against.
Fish oil is such a powerful blood thinner you also shouldn’t take it before surgeries because it lowers your blood clotting abilities. So yes taking fish oil should balance it out if she’s already stopped taking the pill it’s out of your system within a few weeks. But obviously I recommend asking a dr and doing your own research.
No. 1541590
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>>1540976Sorry if this is a little bit off-topic but someone is genuinely abusing their power there. Wouldn't surprise me if a guy accidentally got hired as a janitor, the
terf thread also got randomly deleted once.
No. 1541593
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>>1541590I got this ban message, I wish we had an explanation as to why posts are getting deleted. It's ridiculous, this shouldn't be happening. It's full-on censorship at this point
No. 1541596
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All of these posts were deleted
>>1541594It's fine anon I'm using a vpn
No. 1541697
>>1541683That's just a jerk who hasn't been punched back yet
YET
No. 1541751
>>1541747I ordered from there twice (well, three times but I canceled the third). I received all of my stuff and I was happy with most of it, I'll probably end up buying from there again. It's basically your standard Aliexpress or Shein type of site. But it's more like Aliexpress I think, since they both seem to be Chinese.
>Is it just spyware?How would it be a virus?
No. 1541997
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Why is it that a lot of seemingly random things are associated with women with BPD? Like the blush-y e-girl makeup, pink monster energy drink cans etc
Pic unrelated
No. 1542010
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What’s the difference between the hwang eyebrow shape and the westmore eyebrow shape? I want to try the hwang shape
No. 1542285
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So, i know this question is probably very dumb… But idk where else to ask. Does guys looking at you constantly means they are checking you out?
And if people stare at me a lot, when I'm normally dressed and relatively normal looking, does this mean I'm kinda attractive? Sorry, i know it's dumb
No. 1542582
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pic related is that cringey misogynist bitch
but I wanted to ask- what do you do when you have hair like this? Do you need to wash and blow it out to fluff it up every day?
No. 1542583
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>>1542582Ok she's an extreme case, she's 26 and almost bald
No. 1542702
>>1542699The happy-go-lucky one
I find it difficult to keep up a conversation with someone distant/emotionless because they don't give you a lot of material, they seem happier in their own bubble and that's
valid but I don't know how we're hang out
A lot of introverts relax around friends though
No. 1542728
>>1542681The plus size is literally an entire separate section on the Shein app.
How did you fuck that up? Fatties aren't to blame there…
No. 1542751
>>1542728I don't understand why wannabe anachans complain about fat people getting cute clothes so often online. Most wannabe anachans I know who claim to be size 0 are literally average weight and I can't fathom how someone who's average can't manage to find ANY clothes that fit them.
I was skinny and I'm thin now but I never ever had any issues finding stuff that fit me while I saw my overweight friends struggle in the past, it makes me happy to see brands finally having cute and fashionable plus size sections and appealing to women with bigger bodies.
No. 1542831
Is it in any way normal to feel vaguely sick, tired and "not right" but not terribly ill either for your entire life? I go to the doctor for a check up every year and I'm perfectly healthy, my diet is perfect, I do mild exercise every day, I sleep 8+ hours, I don't use alcohol or any drugs. Is this literally just from anxiety? I do have severely bad anxiety but my life itself is chill. I'm taking care of my 90 year old, very sick grandmother at the moment and it's really shocked me to realize that we have similar energy levels. Have to go for a nap in the middle of the day, have to go for a lie down if we go grocery shopping, etc. I can do one "big" task a day (like grocery shopping or batch cooking) but besides that I only have the energy to work on my computer for 3-4 hours, do a 30 minute walk, and make sure I eat OK. I have to lie down in the dark multiple times a day for 30+ minutes each time, and really force myself to get up and continue the day. There's women my age running around after their kids, working full time, traveling, socializing etc. I honestly think I could die after 1 week of that type of schedule. I've been like this for my whole life although I managed to power through my schooling, I was horrifically depressed and on all types of psychiatric medication at that time and would regularly have huge breakdowns from stress requiring hospitalization. As far as I can tell I'm not depressed at all now and haven't been for 10+ years.
No. 1542854
>>1542831I know you said you were in perfect health but have you checked for any vitamin deficiencies? Do you smoke or vape nicotine? Do you drink caffeine? I heard tiredness could be a sign of glutin intolerance, maybe try cutting glutin out for a week and see how you feel.
Aside from that, it does sound like anxiety and intolerance for stress and low social battery. What you said about having a busy schedule and doing one thing after the other seeming way too much for you is very relatable to me as a person that's always been anxious. Anxiety can be comorbid with depression but not always. A lot of times anxiety is what leads to depression. To me, you sound like a naturally anxious person that has learned to cope and adapt. Some people just can't handle so much social interaction.
No. 1542889
>>1542831Are you sure you're not anemic or have something wrong with your hormones?
You're taking care of an elderly which can be draining and tiring on its own and mild depression can also cause the symptoms you're experiencing. I hope you feel better soon, maybe you can try going to a therapist or a psychiatrist? If there's nothing wrong with your blood levels it can very much be depression
No. 1542964
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does anyone else get insanely depressed around their birthday? i don't why but for the past 5 years its happened without fail. i'm not depressed about getting older at all and even though i do stuff with friends and family on or around my birthday i still feel this intense desire to be by myself and have a general feeling of melancholy
No. 1543009
>>1542964a little, but it's probably because i'm asocial and awkward so i get stressed about everyone congratulating me. especially my relatives from another state, they only care superficially about me and don't really know me other than my name and what i look like yet my dad always has to tell me about all their retarded, empty happy birthday messages in the family group chat (which i left precisely because they're so annoying and fake polite)
like you said i just want a free day to be with myself instead of having to deal with everyone else getting excited over nothing
No. 1543032
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There's a tif online wanting to befriend me and she's alright and we share similar interests, and I can overlook the gendie aspect but there's something that I don't know what to think about. She likes an anime called Ichigo marshmallow and what I've heard about it is that it's a pedo bait anime. She says that at first she was also weirded out by it but that it was charming and the good outweight the bad, she also said she saw her childhood in the girls. Otherwise I think she only likes stuff like, PriPara which is normal for women to like.
Anyone who has watched this anime can you tell me your opinion on this whole situation? What should I do. She told me that it was ok if I didn't like it and she would not push me to watch it, which is good.
My second question… is having a friend into Ichigo marshmallow a good idea as long as she does not push it on me, or is it potentially dangerous and damaging? I don't think she's vocal about it anyway, she's just that kind of animecore person I guess. In the end I wonder if women can like different aspects to media than moids do.
No. 1543108
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>>1543105so does beer dehydrate or not. make up your mind.
No. 1543114
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have any of you nonas ever seen a ufo? I want to see one so badly it hurts. im always looking at the sky and im always star gazing. i have many years before i die but i feel like it just isnt meant to be for me…
No. 1543133
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>>1543032This was one of my favorite series as a pre-teen/teen and I didn't realize that it could have been potentially been drawn by a pedophile until I became an adult. The girls aren't sexualized and it's fairly wholesome/innocent but there are a couple of scenes where their panties flash when they are playing (it's written off as a joke) or they are bathing together. This wasn't uncomfortable to me because it reminded me of my childhood with my friends and family too, just kids being kids. Looking back it's weird an adult man would be writing a cute slice of life story like this and unfortunately the mangaka was featured in a magazine that was popular for lolicons. Overall, I wouldn't worry too much about it if you two are compatible as friends even if it does raise an eyebrow. There are worse things to be into.
No. 1543150
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>>1543114Imma be real with chu
nonnie… The reason we don't see 'em anymore is cause they've gotten
real good at concealing them. The ufo sightings of the 50s and 60s are what we call drones today, now they're so advanced they can go be undetected they don't need to do fly overs for surveillance anymore
that's my tinfoil theory but i also believe it No. 1543155
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>>1543114Yes. It looked like 3 triangles? Or three dots in the shape of a triangle - I forget. Something like picrel. I was sitting with my friend on her roof, talking about UFOs. She said she didn't believe in them. I was pointing to what I thought was one but it was probably just a satellite. Then a large triangular thing goes shooting across the sky, really low and too fast for any earthly aircraft. She ran inside saying "nope fuck this" and I was like SEEEE
No. 1543163
>>1543145??? I don’t know nona DNI if you’re a
terf? Engage if you’re not a
terf.
No. 1543190
>>1543150Yeah they're usually experimental military crafts I think
>>1543114Yeah, others indpendant from me saw it too. It was four lines connected into a square, they looked mirrored and were lit up like city office buildings in the dark. Do and did not understand the aerodynamics but there were likely other parts you could not see, it was very dark so im assuming the lit up shapes were just pronounced. It was hovering really close to the ground, like maybe 20 feet above a chain restaurant. I wouldnt have noticed it if it weren't almost still. Military land all over the place, no aliens just army.
No. 1543197
>>1543188Twin flames will never exist where sexual intimacy is exchanged. You could argue they could exist in a relationship that is rooted in real, platonic love because it endures regardless of romantic exchange. I think its bullshit either way, but I understand why people want it so badly, it ducks not having an innate purpose and an empty feeling of sustaining connection that doesn't fizzle, but it's
toxic and used to manipulate the object of your affections at the time at best.
No. 1543202
>>1543197Something I noticed was that narcissists tend to believe stuff like this. One of my friends keeps crying about her on again off again boyfriend. And whenever he does something fucked up and comes back he states some BS like "We were in our separation phase. But our souls grew so we can be together now"
I thought it was complete insanity that someone can believe the BS this dude was spouting.
I only met one couple who believed in soul mates and twin flames who were cute. But I just think to many crazies use it as an excuse to be
abusive that I dismiss it.
No. 1543228
>>1543188Most of the twin flame talk I see online is stuff like people who were dumped a couple years ago waiting by the phone for their ex to magically get the message that they're meant to be together. They're with a new partner.. no biggie.. they've gone no contact.. no biggie.. they're engaged to someone else.. just be patient, they'll be back. Its written in the stars!
It'd be funny if it weren't so depressing to imagine how many years people waste away waiting for the 'seperation phase' to end. I had an ex who in the middle of our breakup convo said that maybe we'd meet again and get back together a few years in the future. We weren't even young att. I just remember thinking it was fucked up to say that when closure is important. Stories where people reunite and work well the second time around are the rare exception to the rule. Most of the time a guy who wants to drop you and pick you back up later isn't exactly doing it with great intentions. That should be common knowledge and all this magical thinking is only harming the people who play into it.
No. 1543231
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>>1543150>>1543190im blinded by john keels idea that shit just slips through into our world on occasion. maybe one day ill be blessed with my own flatwoods beauty or a chipper sandown clown
No. 1543352
>>1542728Read. The plus size section has
more options, the petite barely has any, and is not only for weeby stuff, is hard to find even pants or skirts that go that small yet there are a lot of items that casually got bigger sizes. I'm also not a weeb nor an anachan wtf
No. 1543356
>>1542681>>1543352There's way more overweight or heavier people than there's people at a healthy weight let alone people who're on the lower end of a healthy weight or even underweight. Purely from a sales perspective from a company that gives 0 shits about it's image it makes sense there's few(er) options for slim people.
Anyway shein quality is beyond garbage so in that regard you're not missing out on much.
No. 1543362
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>>1543355Oh God Japanese men have a boner for armpits EVERYTHING makes sense now.
No. 1543400
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Is there a categorisation for "feeling strong dislike/hate towards something?
For example; dislike/fear of homosexuals would be categorised as a phobia, therefore named homophobia. But what if I hate trannies? transphobia is not a strong enough word, it should be transmisia if anything, but such word doesn't exist yet.
No. 1543614
>>1543585It was a while since I read the series so might remember wrong but
>does mikasa ever has a romantic relationship with eren or do they date telepathically the whole series?They never have a relationship. Eren actually starts being mean to Mikasa but they somehow love each other the whole time, that is why they kiss in the end.
>And why does the blond guy thanks eren for comitting genocide? The genocide made the original titan girl to stop titans from existing. I didnt really get why, the end was really retarded.
>What happened to that short guy that beat the shit out of the eren?He was injured in the last war caused by Eren but lived in the end.
No. 1543703
>>1543685kirbyfag is superior solely for not causing fights, and not ruining /2X/
>>1543701kek i forgot about that
No. 1543717
>>1543683I feel like Kirdede-chan is better actually. Kirdede anon actually seems like a kind anon despite her very peculiar interest. I can't think of any time that she's fought with anyone except for that one time with Komaeda-chan, but I'm choosing to look past that because it was in the husbando thread and we all can get a little autistic about husbandos. She ruined how I see Kirby though.
Paki-chan is just rude, bigoted, and destroys any thread she's in (although that is also partially the fault of anons who insist on pointing her out in every thread).
No. 1543722
>>1543695To be fair paki has been calm lately, it's just that a few autistic anons bringing her name up to start infights whenever they're bored.
>>1543696That anon is mad. This again proved to me that all racists are mentally ill to some extent.
No. 1543764
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>>1543722I just don't like people making shit up about me or mocking me. but I'm overall spending less time of lc cause of shit I'm pre-occluded with in Ramazan, thankfully I just have to cook for my mother(who doesn't eat much), me and my brother, so it's not to much of a hassle to make food and even cleaning has never been an issue, cause barely any people and no makes a mess.
>>1543756Thanks but I get where the anger can come from, they assume everyone they disagree with is actually me(even though that's statistically imposable)
No. 1543767
>>1543231I’d never heard of the Sandown Clown before. Just looked it up and read about it and I’m so intrigued.
I once saw something that I’m sure was some paranormal or Interdimensional creature. I was with my friend and he saw it too. We were so shocked. It was an all black cat with all black eyes. Literally entirely black eyeballs, no white sclera anywhere, but the cat didn’t seem blind. It was bright daylight outside like 1 or 2 pm. The cat appeared out of nowhere across the street from us as we were walking in a neighborhood adjacent to mine. Cat ran up to us and was meowing and wanting to be pet, we crouched down and petted the kitty and couldn’t stop remarking how strange kittys eyes were. Kitty even jumped in my lap and purred and nuzzled me. We cuddled with the kitty for probably 3 min before it looked like it heard someone call it and then ran off and disappeared into some bushes. We went to look for it but didn’t see any cat at all. Someone came out of their home and we asked about the strange black eyed cat and they just shrugged and said they hadn’t seen any black cats around. I’ll never forget that weird ass shit, of course the cryptid Interdimensional being I saw would be a cat.
No. 1543796
>>1543758Make sure she contacts her bank to look into security options, they should be understanding. Is she using the same device (like her computer)? Sorry to say it might no longer be safe. Try clearing cookies/saved info (like credit cards) on any browser she uses. Do make sure to save any important passwords/usernames for other sites, and switch the email to the alt so they can't get into her accounts on any other sites.
This is the nuclear option, but in the end, she might have to delete her whole Google account and just use her alt from from another device from now on. Maybe see if there's a way to back up her Google Drive, photos etc.
No. 1543920
>>1543837It’s better to drop those shitty kinds of friends. If you were in highschool I would say you would obviously feel lonely and awkward if that friend is either your only friend or part of a group. But as adults it doesn’t matter, just drop that shit person and find better people to talk with.
Like I had to drop a shit “friend” in highschool and I felt amazing afterwards, then I had to drop another “friend” during my Uni years and I honestly don’t miss her. Some people just need to learn that they can’t just expect everyone to cater to their feelings and demands 24/7.
No. 1543965
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>>1543925Pretend my husbando is going to visit soon
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>>1543965I pretend my husbando cleans up with me.
No. 1544013
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Ladies are your boobs sore? Mine hurt 24/7 and I'm always very uncomfortable and aware of them. I think it gets even worse for a week or two before my period but it is always really noticeable. I started being highly aware of it within the last year or 2, I think because I got a cat and he always wants to sit on my chest and that hurts like crazy. I don't remember ever having a problem with it before that but my memory is terrible. Maybe I just started to notice when I got the cat and now I'm over-focusing on it but it's so uncomfortable, I legitimately want to get them cut off.
No. 1544019
>>1543925as a fellow procrastinator, I put roadblocks in the way of my usual procrastination strategies, like a website blocker, and then I give myself something else really important like oh shit I really need to do my taxes and bada-bing bada-boom; my place has never been cleaner.
Now I need to change my name and address but the next tenant could eat off the floor under the stove if they wanted to, it's sparkling.
No. 1544047
Would it be a dumb idea to get my mother into my fandom-esque hobbies? Or at least be more transparent about them when talking about her? I am deeply obsessed with a fandom, it's like the second thing that occupies my mind next to stuff like my life responsibilities and my one other interest which is beauty and cosmetics. Now, I ask because my mother is like, my best (and possibly only, and non-internet bound) friend. We talk about everything and anything with her and I feel most comfortable and honest with her. Hell, tomorrow we're going out for lunch and then shopping. Now, she does know I'm into this fandom but not to an extreme-ish extent and I tend to not talk about it like the games, fan-media, or ships I think about and stuff but I kind of want to be able to talk about that side to myself with her, and while it would be nice, she doesn't have to be super into it herself I just want to be able to talk about it within our discussions we have. Like, sometimes I'm thinking deeply about a certain dynamic between two characters and then she'll say "Nona, is everything alright?" and I'll say "Oh, just thinking is all" and then she'll press on so I have to make something up because I can't exactly say to her that I'm thinking about the intricacies of my favorite ships because of some fanart I saw recently. I don't like doing that because lying is bad, so I was wondering if the aforementioned question would be a bad idea to enact on or if I should just suppress it.
No. 1544174
>>1544158if you can separate characters from the actors actual personality then by all means go for it!
otherwise the inability to make the distinction will hurt like hell if he turns out to be bad news bears. this is hard to do with actors who inject their own personality into their roles!
No. 1544199
>>1544188Up until this point:
>Hes trying to get her to move into his place with his own set of rules like she'd have to get rid of her cat and dog. I would just say he's very much in love and thinks of her a lot. But if he really was he would allow her to do anything she wants and definitely not expect her to get rid of her pets; since it's obvious that as an owner she has to have a great attachment to. Massive red flag about the guy. I'd say he's trying to overwhelm her and make his presence so constant and permanent in her life she will have hard time to say no to his demands if it means losing such a big part of how her life is right now.
No. 1544287
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Nonas, what is a good way to give your body some love? (Aside from getting off, I knew you were gonna say that.) I mean, I realize I've been hard on my body and it's been through a lot like illness and surgery. What would be some good self-care things to do? Getting a massage maybe?
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Ok, this is really stupid but I need answers. Does anyone else who watched Attack on Titan or read the manga ever remember Levi calling someone (perhaps the MPs?) "Mucky mucks"? I have a memory of him doing that but now I can't find any traces of it online and I can't tell if I just made up this insult or what. I kind of hope I imagined it, 'mucky mucks' is lame and weird.
No. 1544554
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Hot or not (straight nonnies only)
No. 1544568
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>>1544567His face looks especially dumb in that pic but I think it’s kinda cute
No. 1544600
>>1544586>>1544587What's there to understand? Anon asked whether
>>1544554 is hot, I said he isn't. Idgi why I should post pics when I know it's okay to like what I like without having to consult others kek
No. 1544607
>>1544554>>1544568oh shit it's the Irish dude from downtown abbey, I remember he looked way hotter.
>>1544573>>1544583This is what gives troons the confidence they can pass as female.
No. 1544625
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How does this make you feel
No. 1544634
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>>1544625to anons who don't was to see the image, but want to know what it is. It's a art piece with a shadman-esque art style. It feature's a woman pressing her nose into an asshole. Here's a palette cleanser
No. 1544675
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Have any nonnas ever broke up with someone because you felt like they were too good for you even though you loved them?
No. 1544687
>>1544675Yes. He was outgoing, funny, sweet, caring, smart and from a wonderful family. He had a good job and a bright future. Everyone loved him. I am a haunted ass bitch with lots of mental trauma, from a poor family, and dubious future prospects. He had everything I knew I will never have.
It sucked big time but it couldn't have worked out. It is very exhausting to be with someone so positive and peppy all the time when all you feel is a void in your chest. He eventually started blaming me for anything bad that happened for the both of us and it became my fault that I was how I was and not whatever he imagined me to be. I'm much happier now by myself. I may not be happy happy sunshine that everyone loves like him, but it's a more quiet, content kind of happiness knowing that what little I have is enough for me and I am allowed to be just how I am.
No. 1544990
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>>1544987I see, I'll head to my local convenience store for a calendar then. Thank you
nonny. ♥
No. 1545029
>>1545013yeah, not that your shouldnt have your guard up with new moids, (imo you should for the first year of dating with the way the
abusive men ive known operate but i digress) but my boyfriend still does this 4 years in. some guys just say what theyre thinking in the moment and arent manipulative pieces of shit who neg women all the time, i understand how that might be offputting to women who are used to shitty or subpar men though. it does annoy me sometimes, but i also know hes just saying it because he has adhd so he just says whatever pops into his head and wants me to know he thinks im beautiful even if he says it all the time.
No. 1545128
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Are the empty replies I see in threads bots? I remember watching a video about a guy who made a bot that posted on /pol/, and it had an issue with making replies like this. The bot imitated 4chan anons, and because people just replied with images and the bot could not, it just replicated it by leaving an empty reply quoting a post number.
No. 1545136
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>>1545128It would honestly explain some of the weird infights lately kek.
Here's a pic I saved a while back to prove I'm not that bot No. 1545138
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>>1545128I'm going to be replying with images in every post from now on
No. 1545159
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>>1545128Confirmed, we must attache cute pics to destroy the moid bot
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No. 1545193
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Spanish-speaking nonnies is this translation accurate or clunky?
No. 1545215
>>1545203This is always hard for me to answer, since I have an older brother, I can imagine myself still being basically my brother’s maid, very ugly too, without a job and even less social skills because of my autism, but I would somehow have a girlfriend because for no logical reason I attract women.
At least I would’ve been able to get fit easily.
But tbh, since moid logic makes no sense, and my brain has saved my ass a lot from doing retarded shit, I can see myself being addicted to weed and falling for the wannabe brown nazi incel to troon pipeline, my current logic and humbling experiences as a woman has helped me a lot with understanding many things that as a moid, even an “unprivileged” moid in the food chain of the moid sphere, I wouldn’t have understood at all or I wouldn’t have even thought of analyzing at all properly.
Tl;dr: I would’ve ended up trooning out because I would’ve been a simple minded loser.
No. 1545704
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>>1545695assuming you like apple pie and baseball, really the only option there is:
https://reportfraud.ftc.gov/#/ No. 1545820
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>>1545806In what way would those qualities say you’re a hussy? That’s a You problem, sorry.
No. 1545821
>>1545106This appears up-to-date.
https://github.com/JustAnotherArchivist/snscrapeYou'll have to learn how to run a python CLIs if you don't already know, though, but it's not too hard, and it's a very valuable skill to have.
>>1545203I'd probably be a kissless angry virgin and a sexual degenerate. I'd probably still hate trannies though. Maybe I'd be a CatboyKami type.
>>1545655It's more common to have friends, but it's not weird to not. I didn't make any friends until I went to this stupid leadership camp my Junior year, and the people I met there are the only college friends I keep up with.
No. 1545867
>>1545832Woman he’s trying to tell you you’re sexy
to him, just take the damn compliment and stop overthinking shit.
No. 1545893
>>1545203probably successful, maybe an actor writer artist or comedian type, I would've been encouraged and not derided by my parents, and said coddling would've made me successful instead of the mess I am now
wishful thinking but all my traits are more valued in a man and if I were a man my narc mother probably wouldn't have hated me so much
No. 1546026
>>1545203This goes in the random question thread, but, I would've either been a weirdo creep because of early imageboard and porn exposure, or snapped out of it and grown to be a decent guy at this age because my father is actually not that bad and respects women almost as much as a man can.
I'm not sure how my mother's and father's personalities would've affected me. I wonder if I would've turned out to be a misogynist because of my mother's nagging and relating much more to my dad (if I weren't a GNC male, that is), of if my father's decency as a person and disappointment in whatever I did wrong (such as hating my mom or hating women in general, or being a degenerate, which I've been since I was little but would've probably been detected by my parents early instead of me having to tell them in adulthood) would've pushed me towards decency as a man as well. In any case, I think I would've had an excellent male role model in my dad and that would've prevented me from becoming a horrible male, while my mom would've shaped me into a decent person in general. Best case scenario, I would still be a pervert most likely, but not as bad as most other men at this age. I've seen some rare moids on imageboards that have shown disapproval of misogyny, kink shit, trannies and porn/prostitution, and I like to think I would've been one of them given my parents' strong influence on my worldview. My parents' relatively healthy lifestyle would've resulted in me not getting fat and ugly kek, I'd be decent-looking without much effort thanks to my parents' lineages not having baldness or obesity.
I think being a boy and doing what I like (assuming I'd have the same interests as a male that I have now) would've allowed me to pursue those interests freely in my childhood and adolescence, without being discriminated against for being a GNC girl, as well as make lots of male friends that didn't talk to me just because they wanted to fuck me, and maybe I'd be more successful in befriending girls because they wouldn't see me as a weird unapproachable girl but as just another boy (probably, a good boy, at least in childhood). Since my mother is wise and a good person and my father isn't toxically masculine, I would've probably treated girls better than other boys, even at my worst. I could've befriended both normie and nerdy boys and girls early on. Or, alternatively, I would've been a really shy boy and normie girls would've seen me like a freak and wouldn't want to approach me, but I'd still be able to relate and talk to most boys and weird girls. All of this would've resulted in a happier childhood and less depression due to societal pressure to fit into a retarded gender mold. On the other hand, if I had been a GNC boy, I would probably face similar problems to the ones I do as a GNC woman, but I'm not sure how different my views would be. Either way, I like to think I would've had above-average IQ and EQ instead of being born dumb but overconfident and/or cruel and insensitive. I had a boyfriend that was quite sensitive and smart and disliked the hypersexualization of women by males, probably because his parents are such good people and raised him well, so I know I could've been like that if I were male.
I just remembered that my parents wanted to prevent me from becoming a video game addict like my cousin. I'm still unsure how that would've affected me as a boy, they probably would've been more strict with my computer usage. Or the opposite, subconsciously been more lenient because they feel like that's more appropriate for boys. My father would've probably tried to teach me carpentry and electronics more, also subconsciously. Also, unsure how my love life would've been, but hopefully I'd have an easy time finding a girlfriend that is compatible with me by looking in the right places like I have actually done in the past. Maybe become a volcel like I did, not out of hate towards women (hopefully) but because I don't want to break anyone's heart or deal with breakups, or spread STDs or make anyone pregnant, or perhaps I'd just pursue women less aggressively than other men and let them have a lot of agency in the relationship. (At this point I'm just describing my ideal male clone boyfriend kek) but I'm gonna have to be honest, even if I thought porn was misogynistic, I would still have a porn addiction problem, most likely.
Interesting and fun question, I just wasted an hour thinking about this.
>>1545193Yeah, it sounds natural.
No. 1546060
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>>1546058No, I do not think he did. But for a post to show up on your history, you have "clicked" on it and opened the whole post with the comments. At least that is what I found out trying to experiment and see how it would happen. Pircel is the post in question.
No. 1546066
>>1546060NTA but I'd say watch him for a while and see if another, bigger red flag occurs, then dump him as soon as it happens.
I wouldn't discard the possibility that Reddit sometimes suggests troon-related posts that are completely unrelated to the one you're currently reading, especially if the troon posts in question get a lot of views/updoots/whatever, since you know the site is super pro-troon and I think has a lot of trannies in its mod staff. I don't use the app but sometimes I visit Reddit on mobile browser and unrelated/marginally related posts from unrelated subreddits do show up after the comments and it's really annoying.
No. 1546073
>>1546062We've been together for almost 3 years, so it makes it very difficult to justify breaking up over a random reddit post.
>>1546065You are right, I thought about that too. The problem is he really does not care about most politics, and while he accepts my views on trannies, he has always seemed very uninterested and passive about it. So i'd be surprised if he was somehow in an online environment that had anything to do with it. I guess the reason I sound paranoid is because he is into being submissive, which I do not mind. But I can easily see it leading to getting "curious" about other things.
>>1546066Yeah, I guess that is the explanation I will have to stick with, unless something bigger comes out.
>>1546072Maybe. But as I said, he always came off very uninterested whenever I have mentioned trannies. Also I do not see a reason to lie that it was an accident. Thank you guys, I guess there is not any concrete conclusions to be drawn here. I am just confused about how the app works. Hopefully it is just me being paranoid.
No. 1546074
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>>1545821Thanks but I'm technologically illiterate and don't get how any of this works.
No. 1546148
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>>1546029Most are accurate-ish. People who gain weight "without knowing how" are in 99% of cases in denial about how much they eat. People will be like "I only had an apple today" but then the apple was massive and it was actually 2 of them, and they forgot about the sodas they drank because that's not "food" and they didn't "eat" it, oh and they had just a few chips as a snack before lunch, which was a healthy low calorie salad… with a ton of calorie dense dressing on top that they didn't count. And so on.
No. 1546468
>>1545211Thanks
nonnie. I googled it and this could be it because I had very high prolactin levels for a long time and apparently that can cause it.
No. 1546739
>>1546731i am esl, zoomer.
>>1546734yeah i noticed. and
>>1546735the mansluts in my age bracket sure are
No. 1547172
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does anyone know what this type of fries is called ? i'm trying to make them and i can't find anything remotely similar looking when i look up steakhouse fries
No. 1547178
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>>1547172the closet thing i could find online are wavy fries from mcdonald's france. these look like a mixture between a waffle and a wavy cut. you would probably have to make them yourself as i have never seen anything like that before in a store.
No. 1547249
>>1547199I’d say it’s more of spotting who isn’t a man for the most part. Men are brash, aggressive, smartass, cocky god complex, unapologetic retards in their typing. Which women can be — but women never have the undercurrent of pornsickness, fetishization, and truly hateful misogyny dripping off nearly everything they write. Aside from that, you can spot a lot of doormattier women by their overly apologetic, nicey, bubbly complimentary, overaccomodative typing.
No. 1547358
>>1547330Nta, but
nonnie, I love how devilish you are.
No. 1547362
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Fellow weebs, what's this hairstyle called often seen in mangas set in Taishou and earlier eras? It doesn't look exactly like your average half-up hairdo, and googling haikara hair styles doesn't give me the correct one, either.
No. 1547382
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Does anynonny see a woman and think she’s insanely gorgeous and feel jealous and seethe because you will never be that pretty… only to not see them for a month and then see them again and think they look quite uggo and thank god that you don’t have to look at that in the mirror every day? This happens to me a lot. Picrel is one example I went from wanting to kms to thinking she looks like a female Neanderthal
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>>1547382I go back to being indifferent usually
my dysmorphia will always win in the end
there are a lot of women who would be considered ugly if they didn't have certain standout or eurocentric features or weren't shilled by the media, so attractiveness is an entirely manufactured concept. completely subjective to the human eye
women are always going to be better looking than men even at their most disheveled though
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>>1547382I think she’s alright looking. Kinda pretty. But i wouldn’t mind looking like her in quite ugly. I used to want to look like Alyson Hannigan for some reason, but I’m not that cute and I never will be. I am tall and huge with sharp features
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>>1547484Example of random nonnies’ posts mid-poof
No. 1547513
>>1547502Oh big brain
nonny, my beloved! I fat fingered it that’s what I get for being a phonefag.
No. 1547550
>>1547510I sorta do that first thing you said, I don’t see uggos as unlovable though I just feel glad that I don’t look like them personally because I already struggle with image issues. but I also appreciate cute futures on girls without getting mad. I definitely have some kind of dysmporphia or internet induced mental illness where I compulsively compare myself to every woman I ever see and it affects mood, like a weird version of porn sickness with men.
The thing is, I only use the internet for looking up stuff related to my job or shitposting on /ot/. I barely even use YouTube and I’m not on TikTok or insta and I haven’t even watched TV in years. Idk how to fix this.
>>1547437Why cuz I asked about my internalized misogyny on an anony board? It’s not like I ever treat anyone bad or say anything to them.
No. 1547589
>>1547550>Why cuz I asked about my internalized misogyny on an anony board? It’s not like I ever treat anyone bad or say anything to them.I got pounded last week for saying similar to you, I'm sure a lot of the people who responded are in another thread nitpicking a cow's nesolabial folds or something
at least famous and thought to be perceived as attractive women have money and love of some sort… whereas we have loneliness poorfagging body dysmorphia
I never like to go too far out of my way to be malicious or cruel to other women like you said, unless I think they've done something wrong in their personal life that makes them retarded (ie will call Jenny McCarthy is a retarded botched antivaxer)
No. 1547620
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Is this true about Tibetan culture?
No. 1547682
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>>1547612The whole thing is that anons get hyper specific policing about you nitpicking or saying you're jealous of certain celebrities or models or don't find them attractive but then the same people will turn around and insult cows for dumber shit. some anon saying she's jealous/angry that a celebrity lives life on easier mode isn't somehow worse than an anon constantly nitpicking a cow imo
anons think cows are somehow more on their level to insult… yet it's more internally misogynistic to go after the untouchable celebs
No. 1547708
>>1547445Late sorry but Vancouver is quite safe for women walking alone unless you're in some parts of downtown, East Van especially. Avoid East Van, it's the designated pervert junkie moid zone. I can't even count the number of times I've been stared at and followed there even with friends. The seawall is safe, there's normally lots of people there and it has a good atmosphere.
Unsolicited travel advice incoming: I highly recommend going to Granville Island if you haven't gone yet, it's so quaint and has so many cute stores. If you don't mind a longish drive Horseshoe Bay is nice too and you can take the ferry to Bowen from theret. vancouver anon
No. 1547766
>>1547682>[non-celebrity] cows are somehow more on their level to insultNot "somehow", financially. It's an actual, realistic, quantitative measure.
Class is real. The "level" is real.
No. 1547808
>>1547794nah i believe it. lots going on internally affects your sweat, urine, and feces smell. typically it can be noticed by eating certain foods but other things going on can make them smell like something else. it is highly likely that her sweat has a specific scent to her, and her feces smells like her sweat, causing that correlation.
there was a thing i saw going around, presumably from people who had c0v1d, that several months after having it, their armpit bo, urine, and feces changed smell, the consensus is a something like a coffee/garlic/lily smell. and typically lasted several months to a year.
i never tested for it but i noticed that change in difference too. and i know it wasn't in my head because i found some clothing that fell behind a basket from before the change, i smelled the pits to see if they were clean and they smelled like how my bo smelled before, not scent that was present at the time. so there was definitely an internal change that was changing the scent of my bodily excretions. it was bizarre. for the longest time i thought it was because i was eating little else but ramen for a while (garlicy), but then the scent persisted after so i looked it up.
No. 1547830
>>1547821i'm already dating the latter. we both had a crazy time in college and were promiscuous when single. but we're very strictly monogamous in relationships and he's the sweetest man i've ever dated.
anal sex and gay men literally repulse me.
No. 1547833
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>>1547829AIDs or Gonorrhea, your pick
No. 1547837
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>>1547833Sharing is caring
No. 1547841
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(PICTURE SPOILERED DUE TO "FAIL TO RESIZE" ERROR) Hey nonnies I want some advice. I'm planning on sewing a corset top in the style of picrel. I'm making the side panels and back a plaid pattern from a thrifted button up.
My question: what should I use for the front panels? The corset is going to be "punky" and Vivienne Westwood inspired (I am wearing this to a college fashion show) I was planning on placing black bows on the straps and the middle of the neckline. I planned on using plain black fabric for the front but now I'm thinking it might be too plain? I want it to be eye-catching and a little "busy" looking but I'm out of ideas and was wondering if any of you would like to give your input!
No. 1547850
>>1547830Eww
nonny’s dating a whore!
No. 1547852
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Is it overprotectiveness or possessiveness if your s/o wants you to be by his side during gatherings like picrel? Like, you’re allowed to have convos with people around y’all but can’t wander alone and must follow him around type shit. Asking for a friend
No. 1547853
>>1547844there are a lot of sewing ig accounts that are helpful, you can look at /cgl/ though it is dead in this day and age.
figure out what type of outfits you wish to sew and what materials you wish to use. practice is what will get you far, but watching sewing accounts and reading tutorials will be very helpful.
No. 1547861
>>1547841Black on the front i would love! Maybe put some velvet ribbon along the seams.
Red may work, too. It would match thr plaid. Or brick red, but I just love my brick pallette colors.
No. 1547864
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>>1547855beep-bop
[whirrrrr]
beeeep
No. 1547868
>>1547852Extremely situational. It could be bad, it could be normal. Clinging to you SO at every second even around people you know is needy at best, especially if you’re like “
you can’t leave my sight”. Flipside: Ditching your SO when they don’t know anyone at a gathering is bad and shitty (unless you’re both extreme extroverts or something, can’t relate with that lol). Many factors need more details
No. 1547902
>>1547863>>1547868He’s not like this on a regular day basis like if he has to work and stuff, just like whenever they go to social gatherings outside of their area or when his richie family are hosting them and important people come. Dude can be seen looking at her as if making sure she’s still there when he’s having his own conversations with others, sometimes he takes her with him whenever he needs to smoke a cig or a joint; sometimes when her attention is somewhere else, he turns her to face him by gently grabbing her chin with his index finger whenever he wants something. I’ve been wanting to ask her a few times without wanting to hurt her feelings because even after they’ve been together for 15 years, she’s still in love with him. She’s graduated a year prior to me and started seeing him around that time because their ‘well-to-do’ families decided to hook ‘em up for status purposes. I haven’t seen her since then and we recently started chatting and have also been invited to their richie flings where I noticed the weird happenings. He seems nice and friendly, he also doesn’t act like the stereotypical
abusive douche towards her - au contraire, he’s very sweet to her and acts like your typical caring husband and she never gives him a sus or “I know you’re faking it” look either. Although it’s obvious he wears the pants in the relationship and gives off a domineering vibe. I dunno, I’m worried for my friend and hope she really is happy being with him.
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is it normal to hear your neighbours water running(as the water running trough the pipes) if you live in an apartment? I know that waterpipes are close to the wall but I don't think I have ever heard water running whenever I have visited friends or family who lives in apartments but ever since I got my own place I can constantly hear whenever someone next door turns the water on
No. 1548191
Am I stupid for keeping my roommate/home?
He put hands on me and raped me. It's all recorded. But if he does it again, he's going to jail period. But I paid for everything, kept up the bills, my babies (three pets) are comfortable, buy all the groceries, furniture etc. Literally everything. The leasing office won't let me leave because he refuses to sign the paperwork. I'm traumatised yet still thinking, "Why the fuck do I have to leave?" If this happens again, it's a done deal. But I shouldn't have to leave a home that I built. He can take his few belongings or go to jail at this point. I will defend myself and everything I stand for next time, there's plenty of evidence. Is that wrong because he won't move out? I could get another roommate anytime and I'm still reporting to the police this week. The pain he put me through definitely made me depressed but now I'm just angry at myself and also my family because they were going to force me back home, not realising it will super fuck up my credit and that HE SHOULDN'T GET FREE HOUSING. I would still have to pay rent for at least two months and he would keep taking advantage of my belongings, putting holes in doors. This fool doesn't even have a TV but sits in the living room all day after getting fired. He just drinks all day, blames it on me, does nothing productive. But I still need to take care of us, me and my children. After I talk to the constable, he can get thrown out. I don't know if it's a pride issue, but I can't let him destroy me more than he already has.
No. 1548205
>>1548186It could be what it's combined with rather than the garlic itself. And then you have to take into account what else you eat within that day before it can digest and get out of your system. I'd suggest a food diary so you can keep track if/when those situations occur and basically do 'food math' and see if there's something else potentially causing a reaction.
TMI on my part, but the older I get, eggs really make me smell funny if it's in a strong dish/cooked with too many other items. It's weird but your body is always changing and adapting so who knows? Maybe even get tested for allergies. I used to have messed up poops or feel sick, then found out it was soy intolerance. Do more research, see a doctor if needed! Best of luck.
No. 1548293
>>1548191If I were you, I'd make sure to get pepper spray, a knife or a gun and keep it on me at practically all times. I don't blame you for not wanting to leave your home, and wanting to stand your ground. Fuck that guy. Stay safe
nonnie.
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How come day drinking is ok when you call it brunch?
No. 1548373
>>1548361day drinking is always ok
nonnie especially when you do it outside
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Would it be weird to connect with someone on LinkedIn I used to work with a long time ago (a year)? Like would they be weirded out if I reach out to them after not being in contact at all?
No. 1548488
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>>1548484Did you mean Ranma? If yes, no.
No. 1548496
>>1548489No, those are pretty public, easily observed, voluntary lifestyle choices. Porn is inherently private and potentially embarrassing but also simultaneously seen as obligatory and normal for men.
Also I couldn't care less if a guy drinks or eats meat or whatever, so I wouldn't bother being suspicious.
No. 1548539
>>1548489Tbh I think it's obvious in a man's behavior whether or not he's porn-brained or not, I don't think it's a matter of asking them. I think it's common for guys to at least have a history of looking up nsfw stuff, but it's clear which of them actually respect women and which don't.
Same applies to super SJW-y guys who claim to be communists but then you see them, like, yell at their server or something. It's all about actions, not words.
No. 1548694
>>1548596Seconding this. Any answers?
(Surely it depends on the country/state/personal strengths)
No. 1548745
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Men at my work won’t shut up about mastrubating and how they do it. Do guys really jerk off a lot or is it just gross-out humor?
No. 1548777
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>>1548770Picrel or some childrens books for them to be read at bedtime bonus if its popup. Kids that young are easy even something like a ribbon on a stick is hours of fun
No. 1548804
>>1547191A bit late, but my friend introduced me to lc so what you should do is warn her beforehand about slurs, and send her a single thread or maybe two that would interest her. My friend told me some drama about e-celebs I already knew of and then eventually sent me their threads. She said people are a bit unhinged and use slurs as a joke because it's anonymous but that "most people are nice so you can just ignore the spicy ones" lol
She then sent screencaps of the mtf troon thread until I fully peaked and I am forever grateful to her for it
No. 1548808
>>1548797That’s rough
nonny. I can kinda relate. One of my friends has an insanely hot, charismatic, successful man. He’s also unbelievably kind and fun. Like just good vibes for sure, despite his wealth making him somewhat out of touch (not in like a shitty rich person way, shitty out of touch rich people piss me off). He makes me blush because he’s really large/solid and fit, I can’t help but imagine cuddling up with him and being the little spoon sometimes. He’s got big dick energy in a fun way, I imagine he’s probably well hung.
Meanwhile I love my bf, he’s got a nicer face than my friends bf by a lot, but he’s quite thin/noodly and even though he’s not a manlet he’s also not tall. He’s well hung and has BDE as well but in more of a fuck you way than a woohoo way, he’s introverted and he owns a home but is otherwise paycheck to paycheck with no savings/investments. I can’t help but compare sometimes, I feel like my shit might be worse than yours because I’m being doubly disloyal by even having thoughts. I feel so guilty for even thinking such things at any point and I’m guilty that reading your post made me think of my friend’s bf. I’d never ever do anything, if moves were ever made on me I’d be like fuck no, and I can at least easily quiet such thoughts. Usually such thoughts lead me to imagining my bf suddenly becoming really successful and getting a huge confidence boost and starting to work out and be a bit more bubbly/effusive personality wise.
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>>1548808>but in more of a fuck you way than a woohoo wayWhat the fuck is this post
No. 1548939
Is there a way to use a bilingual keyboard on samsung? I feel like a caveman switching between 3 different languages. Before these advanced AIs I owned a chinese phone and it would literally detect which language I am typing in and switch to that, wtf.
>>1548912I like thinking of babysteps or the things I got done today. If I have a to-do list of 10 things and I do 3, that's good. I can do the next 7 tomorrow, and so on. I can't keep up with a tight schedule either and I need time to process things on my own time. I get as comfortable as possible to answer emails. Coffee, favorite song, video playing in the background. I get my brain to shut up and then go. Laundry? Put on my tunes. Dishwashing? Essay video. Cleaning? Netflix series. Suddenly I get things done. Suddenly they're things I want to do because I'll get to do something I like as well. Hell, cleaning up after my dog? I put a mask on, a nose plug and yellow gloves that go up to my elbows. Put some airpods on and I get it done. I make it comfortable for myself because it's something I don't want to do.
Accept that you're different and now think of how you can make things better for yourself. You can't snap into email mode at will like other people, so you do it your way. I've even spoken to very functional "successful" adults that say they need 15 minutes of mental preparation and perfect conditions to even open up gmail, kek.
No. 1548961
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Is he hot or was I just drunk
No. 1549104
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why do people want to throw me in the loony bin and try to diagnose me before i've even said anything? do i really look that crazy? i know i'm ugly but i'm not the only ugly in the whole world…there were also a few times in the past people acted scared of me in a damn store, what gives. and this one girl called me a "freak" out of nowhere. i felt like she could've been from school but i couldn't see for certain, she seemed familiar somehow. i wonder if someone spread rumors about me. though that doesn't explain the strange doctors..trying to send me to emergency rooms for being nervous? some other one wanting to diagnose me with depression and wrote a number for a psychiatrist when i went to seek help for uterus pain? i don't get it. what would an unwell woman look like to you nonnas? one who's just sitting or standing around, not even doing anything. maybe they're right but how do they know just from looking at me?
No. 1549193
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What would this flavor combination taste like. Actually what does lavender taste like.
Should I buy it, nonnies?
No. 1549202
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I stopped coming here regularly for about a year, what did I miss?
No. 1549205
>>1549202idk the years blend togther
>driverfags>paul dano fags emerge>/m/assacre a few months back>the new /shay/ board>/2x/ getting unhidden>romaniananon>pakichan isnt considered based anymoreoutside of that, it's been the same old sperging about eye colours, weight, etc
No. 1549214
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>>1549202Hey, I made that pic!
No. 1549280
>>1549193Holy shit yes. Thank you for showing me these exist. I love lavender lemonade.
If you want to try them, you can make them fresh. 1 cup lemon juice,½ cup honey or ¹/³ cup sugar, 1 tsp dried edible lavender, 2 cups cold water. Allow to boil, then turn off, steep for thirty minutes, strain, freeze.
No. 1549397
>>1549386I don't think they do it to self-insert, because usually in those kinds of fanart the genderbent character is focused on a lot more than the other guy.
My theories are that either they're lesbians or bisexual (maybe they self-insert as the seme), or that they like to imagine their OTP in many different kinds of scenarios, so they start drawing the uke as female just for fun once they start to run out of ideas that involve the couple being gay. I've seen some fujo artists who are so obsessed with their OTP and draw them so much that, in addition to genderbends, they start making weird furry porn of them. One of those was a Jotakak shipper on Pixiv who drew them as bunnies.
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There are korean gyarus or there's an equivalent to gyaru for Korean culture?
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What color should I paint my nails nonnies?
No. 1549539
>>1549536Omg I was thinking of doing the bright red! The green one is so pretty but idk something about it is so.. bland? (red is "Big Apple Red" from OPI and green is "Made in Jade" by Sally Hansen)
>>1549537>dark color shifting OPI"Peace and Love and OPI"? It's legit one of my very favorites in my collection. It looks great over a black base! I'm also a major sucker for color shifting. I always want my fingies to look like opals
Thanks nonyas!
No. 1549549
>>1549544I'm loving your purple with shimmer topper idea! Might have to do that on my toes…
>>1549546Marshmallow is really pretty, you're totally right. Have you tried Mademoiselle by Essie? It's so beautiful and really brightens up the nail beds without being obvious.
Does anyone else go nuts trying to decide the colors for every manicure or is it just me? And then ofc the color on my toes and the color on my fingers must match eachother unless they're literally the same polish on both
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>>1549555Honestly I’ve been looking for a rich pigmented bluey colour but haven’t found the right shade yet. I just found essie butler please and it looks promising online but I haven’t bought it yet. Most of the blues I see are too pale or too grey. I need a colour that will make my hands look less red. Actually
nonnie pick me colors from your personal collection
No. 1549747
>>1549647The thing is I'm not sure how to prove it I've never seen it. What I remember is him taking out his phone and me saying "no" over and over. The next day everybody at work talked about. Years later Im randomly posting away on a subreddit and this random account keeps asking me how many dicks I've sucked and then I kept getting harassed by a bunch of accounts. I think this person found me again but I'm scared to face them in court especially when after I told my manager about it she shrugged me off and said I had no proof. All I did was send a police tip if he bothers me again I'll have to get a restraining order. Abusers love to have the power to retraumatize their
victims he probably saw that I was happy and well-liked and it made him angry. I think he posted revenge porn on redscareforcishetmen.
No. 1549814
>>1549395The easiest solution would be to claim they're deep fakes. My friend who's an elementary school teacher who got her nudes leaked did that, and she kept her job.
Otherwise, you'll want to consult with a lawyer to see if what he's doing is illegal. It varies wildly from state to state, but a lawyer can let you know what actions you can do.
No. 1549832
>>1549824Why are you 30 year old virgins so fucking retarded? Like seriously what the fuck is your problem? Why the fuck would you let a dude nut in you when you’re not in a long term relationship wanting a child or in a long term relationship taking birth control???? What low quality dudes are you banging that are so ready to not only fuck you raw but also nut inside you, who I am assuming didn’t lie and tell them were on birth control? Literally re evaluate your whole life.
Go get plan b immediately and if it doesn’t work abort that mistake in a hurry.
No. 1549846
>>1549824I'm here to tell you that even if he says he'll pull out on time, don't believe him, read about precum and use protection because it's not that easy to be raising a child when you are still a child.
Source - bf was going to pull out on time, no worries, my daughter is 5 now. Don't be dumb like me