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No. 331392

Last Thread: >>252508

Thread for:
>femdom images and media
>femdom fantasies
>female subs interested in women
>advice and stories

Some things to get us started:
>What are your main kinks?
>What is your ideal sub like?
>What experiences have you had?
>What advice do you have for new dommes?
>Where to find subs? How to avoid unhealthy ones?

Femdom ficrecs: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1AoUJpYaE2g6FMCWuyo4p96Q3OBJi5D7Czm23nzOO8uM/edit#gid=0

No. 331393

thanks for including the spreadsheet op, i haven’t had any mental resolve to browse ao3 lately but i’ll add more when i have time, promise.

No. 331395

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Thank you for starting a new thread op!

No. 331396

What movie is this pic from btw?

No. 331399

just came here to say i hate men and they deserve to be abused, that is all.

No. 331409

how to start with pegging? i admitted to my nigel i wanted to try pegging him and he confessed that the idea lingered in his head for a while. he’s anally a virgin btw. does he need to douche beforehand? what strap-ons are better for mutual stimulation (not just a classic dildo on a harness)?
i apologise if this isn’t the right thread to ask this but pegging is often femdom-adjacent and i am quite interested in domming (not just pegging but other ways of getting it on).

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saw these images and thought of this thread

No. 331419

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I wish femdom content online were more about making scrotes suffer and less about uwu soft m*mmy domme

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No. 331438

Yes, of course he needs to douche. Look up Ruby Ryder, she has info on how to clean ass, as well as dildo/harness recommendations.
As for mutual pleasure, if you get a harness that has the dildo sitting low enough on your clit, you can get clitoral stimulation/orgasms from that. There are also double-sided dildos but I would recommend using a harness with that to hold it in place or else it'll fall out (at least that's what I've heard).

No. 331453

it’s a photo of lux interior and poison ivy from the band “the cramps”. Ivy was the guitarist and lux the frontman, they were married for like 30 years before he died.

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Finally some quality audio from Dlsite

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>hot topic

No. 331533

Don't post ugly scrotes itt even ironically.

No. 331535

I usually lurk but I'm curious when some nona's say that they enjoy femdom because they want moids to suffer.

Do you want a romantic relationship with your sub moid or is it some faceless entity you imagine the inflict pain on ?

Is it more enjoyable if the moid cares for you and likes you and see's this as a way to show they love you, letting you hurt and inflict pain on them ?

What makes it enjoyable most ? do you want romance and love or do you want fear and nervousness or a mixture of both ?

No. 331540

>Some things to get us started:
>>Where to find subs? How to avoid unhealthy ones?
Has this question ever been solved?

No. 331552

There are 3 rules:
1. Safe
Preparation and sanitizing aren't a joke. Everyone should be on top of their hygiene. Safewords might be cheesy, but do it anyway.
2. Sane
BDSM can be more than just a fetish/kink. It can be psychologically beneficial for both parties as it allows for things to get expressed that normally can't be. This partially answers >>331535 questions because, as far as I'm concerned most femdom is in the realm of fantasy. Speaking for myself, I don't want someone to actually suffer, I don't want to hurt someone's feelings and leave them worse off than before. At the same time, I'm not interested in relationships with participants.
3. Consentual
I'm not going to do anything I don't want to do, nor do I want someone to go along with something they don't really want. The fastest way to piss me off is when someone just goes along with everything and builds up resentment, then they act like it's my fault.

Most of the femdom content is m*mmy shit like >>331419 says. Men are the biggest consumers of porn, so that's what sells, and that's what you see.

Ironically, the kind of men who you can work with are the kind who have a good grasp on interpersonal boundaries, they know their values, they know what they want…psychological health 101. It's hard to find but I think the most sustainable femdom stuff is "positive femdom".

A man who had an absent/neglectful/abusive mom may want to repeat the shit that traumatized him because PTSD runs grooves in your brain you tend to fall back on. A femdom session could potentially help expose and integrate the feelings he has around that, but once that's done, he may change (see why I don't allow relationships?). Or, exposing the emotional damage could leave you with a psycho on your hands, and…yeah.

No. 331557

These just feel wrong. the idea of lifting up a massive moid just to kiss him when he should be bending down to my height for a kiss (why would I need to perform a stunt to reach my boyslave's mouth) and exerting that much energy to like, take a picture for the internet.
>couldn't even link it
No, it has to be from the POV of a woman ree

No. 331566

You seem to be quite knowledgeable on the topic. Would you be willing to share some positive experiences you have had? And maybe some red flags that you have learnt to identify?

No. 331579

You seem to be quite knowledgeable on the topic. Would you be willing to share some positive experiences you have had? And maybe some red flags that you have learnt to identify?

No. 331607

>kink talk aside what other kinds of femdom is there ?

Maybe its a little underrated but I always liked acts of service, someone cooking for me or doing things I don't want to do or helping make my day easier, like a servant or butler.

I don't want them to expect a reward or attention, serving should fill that need but I like the idea of deciding it myself and it just being treated as another servant request

No. 331641

NTA but I sort of enjoyed those pics, that being said, I love the sight of a guy kneeling before me, and him literally being below me.

No. 331688

No. 331713

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spoilered because drawing of a decapitaited moid

No. 331718

Is there anywhere I can read real accounts of dominant women in D/s dynamics or in FLRs? Every account I read it's very clear that the woman is only in it because her boyfriend/husband told her to do so, she has no will of her own except for pleasing him. It's pathetic and I don't want to read about a man turning the women he supposedly loves into a his personal pro-domme. Worst part is when they try to pretend it's ~progressive uwu~ when they are essentially doing the same shit every other submissive women does.

No. 331738

Well, this thread probably isn't for me, but I'm going to tell you what I believe to be the truth. Grain of salt and all that.

BDSM isn't real. It can only exist in the realm of fantasy–which is fine. So post all the art, post the fantasies, post the copypasta, fanfics, etc..

But I think eventually you have to admit that true, sustainable femdom relationships are extremely rare, or are only possible with a heavy amount of detachment. The vast majority of people aren't able to sustain detachment.

Most dommes I've met are unrefined sadists. They might enjoy inflicting pain, or the idea of it. They might have anecdotes about receiving pleasure from male denial/male pain, but it's generally hit and run stuff. Not much different than "I'm such a BRAT hehe".

This shit is typically because the dude wants it and the woman is willing to act it out. There are many BDSM situations where it's the submissive one who calls all the shots, and I don't think that's ideal.

Since the world has become more open minded about BDSM in the last few years, I think ultimately what's gonna happen is you'll see more and more men open to the idea of pegging/prostate shit, orgasm denial, chastity, and the ol' femdom staples, but that's more about what men are into.

No. 331749

>or are only possible with a heavy amount of detachment
Why do you think detachment is necessary? I think the opposite, since it's a very intimate and vulnerable thing to have complete control over someone. And most men don't have the emotional intelligence and complexity to give up real control (only being led by their shallow fetishes/kinks + having dommy mommy doing everything for them). I think the only situation it COULD work is where there is strong love. Love in which the woman wants to take possession over him and is comfortable being her true unfiltered self, and love in which the man devotes himself to her completely without expecting to be rewarded.
Although I'm into D/s and have kinks, I don't really like using the BDSM label. It's all so shallow, performative, and fake, imo.

No. 331761

Shrug, your mileage may vary. I don't want to split hairs, get overly philosophical, or get into semantics, but here's how I see it:

Put bluntly, that's not love. If it's love, it happens on its own. Is it a very intimate and vulnerable thing to have complete control over someone? Sure. But nobody, male or female can give themselves over to anyone completely and still be in love. I don't want to get too far off subject, but I think the fetishization of vulnerability is problematic, so to speak.

Many people practically have a need to be vulnerable and for others to display vulnerability before they can get anywhere. I can't relate to it, but not everyone is the same, so fine. In your everyday cases of emotional trauma, a given person being vulnerable may have led to all kinds of inner turmoil. So for them to completely give themselves up might seem like quite a big deal, but I question if that's healthy for anyone involved. Granted, not everyone has PTSD, or even mild to moderate symptoms thereof, but becoming someone's full-time object of worship seems more like religious "love" rather than romantic love.

Religious love it seems to me is more of a fetishization of situations, concepts, duties, and rules. That's fine for what it is, but I don't agree that's the same as romantic love.

No. 331770

If a man isn't submitting to the will of the women he supposedly loves, he doesn't love her. He may stay in a relationship with her, he may have sex with her, he may plan his life with her, but he doesn't love her. Men always choose to defer to something in their lives, usually their male friends or something utterly meaningless like politics. But very few defer to their wives and girlfriends, and that's because they don't have genuine respect or awe for them. If you think that's healthy, then I have no more words for you.

No. 331777

Well, just to make sure I understand.

If you're asking whether I think it's healthy for men to defer to their male friends or politics, the answer is no. I think that's unhealthy. It's healthy to get input from a variety of sources, but it's not healthy to defer to someone else all the time.

That said, "healthy" is relative. If a guy wants to defer to a wife/gf, that's his decision. But I think people are at their best when they explore on their own and draw their own conclusions. And sex/intimacy is a powerful thing, so if you use that to reward worship and punish independence/autonomy, I think you've reduced a person to a point of non-personhood, and to me, that's morbid.

But if the person is giving their consent as an adult, hey, that's their business. I just think it's unhealthy, like smoking, overeating, or whatever else.

No. 331784

>I think ultimately what's gonna happen is you'll see more and more men open to the idea of pegging/prostate shit, orgasm denial, chastity, and the ol' femdom staples, but that's more about what men are into.

That's just depressing because if anything it's going to make actual femdom hard to find and discover. it's just going to be old style 80's femdom, new mainstream femdom and generic off shoots of femdom but very little will actually be femdom.

>love in which the man devotes himself to her completely without expecting to be rewarded.

isn't the reward for the man in this is that he's helping please someone he loves and cares for ?

I don't think it's asking much not be treated like a kink dispenser and wanting someone that's submissive but not a pushover or lazy.

like its just a normal healthy loving relationship I don't think its a great ask just that lots of moids aren't submissive just topping from the bottom.

No. 331790

Men ARE at their best when they defer to their female partners. Maybe you are mixing this up with female submission towards men, that's a situation where I agree it isn't healthy because women are indoctrinated into it.

>isn't the reward for the man in this is that he's helping please someone he loves and cares for ?
Yes. I meant that he wouldn't want or expect a sexual reward, gift, for anything to be reciprocated, etc.

No. 331796

Nah, men can give themselves over to women completely because it is a choice for a man. Also the vast majority of women are merciful and wouldn’t treat a man as horribly as he would treat a woman in the same position. A man submitting to a woman fulfills him and lifts him so he is on parallel with humanity and humaneness. A man submitting to men is harmful for him, and gay adjacent. A man on equal footing with a woman may respect her but does not give into the deep love a submissive man may receive in exchange for his devotion. A man who thinks it is emasculating to submit to a woman is ready emasculate. A man who fears a woman’s love is a loveless man.

No. 331798

then isn't the question to ask, where do you find these ideal men that want to be submissive to women but avoid the ones that aren't submissive or using women as a means to a end.

I don't think there's enough shy/outgoing introverted/extroverted booksmart/dummies non-porn addicted men to go around ?

No. 331801

You explained it way better than I could, thank you.
It's a matter of luck, but if you keep looking you'll find him eventually.
>I don't think there's enough shy/outgoing introverted/extroverted booksmart/dummies non-porn addicted men to go around ?
If you think this way then you've already given up.

No. 331803

Yeah that is the question asked in every thread. It is more rare because of the internet and online porn, period. It breeds a hatred of women even though it is the fault of males that there exist such degenerate, heart-breaking, unnatural and violent porn. It probably is impossible to find a boy who hasn’t watched porn but hopefully you can find one who is disturbed by most of it. I don’t know if a guy like this feasibly exists, I’m just spitballing. You’ll have anons say men like this never existed but I think there existed men who came pretty close. I think to create the kind of male who respects women he needs to have female role models; mind you, the responsibility is not on the women to be the role models (there are already so many) but for fathers to not show their sons that it is okay to disrespect women with authority. Respect your mother, teachers, sisters, other mothers, aunts, cousins, etc. I don’t know, my father just seems to defer to women a fair amount and he isn’t submissive he just recognizes women are superior on nearly all levels.
I guess you’d need to find a man who has a moral compass and one who understands that women are the curators and keepers of true morality.

No. 331809

Based on this thread and other information I've gone over, things often come down to sweeping generalizations about men and women, such as women being generally merciful and men being unmerciful. Any claim about a vast majority of a group is an oversimplification, particularly when it comes to complex traits like mercy. People can't be generalized based on their gender alone.

I don't think it's a good idea to suggest all individuals of a certain group possess superior moral sense because it's just not that simple. The idea ignores the influence of individual character, personal development, societal influences, and other factors that shape a person's morality.

I have to say it's a little creepy to assert a man isn't on parrallel with humanity and humanness (AKA not human?) unless he defers to women. Worth and humanity aren't based on gender.

That's why I'm saying I think femdom works in the realm of fantasy or role-playing, but in a serious, full-blown relationship way? Nope.

No. 331811

Go back to reddit

No. 331814

What are you doing in this thread and website if you’re going to cry that women find men to be vile. Mercy is not complicated at all, you either spare somebody from suffering or you don’t. Your use of the word gender and your not-all-men!ing out you as someone who does not belong, especially in this discussion. And yes, males are less than human: chromosomelets, retards, and rape apes. The only chance a moid has of being humane is to take on the moral qualities of the better sex. Cope.

No. 331817

Would you please inform me how ad hominems, stereotyping, dehumanization, simplification of concepts, a binary view of morality, and the suggestion I don't belong in the discussion because of my views (which by the way I alluded to a few posts ago) indicates you're effectively curating true morality or being a good role-model?

"Go back to reddit" is something I usually see in male-dominated spaces.

Didn't say mercy was complicated. I said someone's ability to show mercy isn't tied to gender. Realistically what's happening here is you're having trouble keeping up. Don't tell me you can, because you literally misread what I typed up and proceeded to spit out labels and stereotypes.

Are you a good role-model?

Done with this shit today.(integrate retard)

No. 331818

Are you the same anon that posted about how an American dude in Japan pump and dumped her after she spent 2k on the trip? You write in the same style.

No. 331820

Is it an oversimplification that men have been responsible for the vast majority of wars, murders, assaults, and acts of rape and sexual violence? Is it an oversimplification that the majority of men to this day support porn, and turn a blind eye to the fact that these women are trafficked and abused just so they can get off? Until men as a whole stop being shit, I'll keep generalizing them and maybe make exceptions for individual men who have proven to be decent human beings (rare).

No. 331823

wtf is this moid gaze shit

No. 331824

Is the pareto principle applicable to relationships and specifically to femdom relationships and BDSM?

No. 331827

You seem lost, anon. You're supposed to be anonymous so stop formatting your posts like that, it sticks out. Also this >>331814

No. 331854

NTA and I’m also not a domme although I get turned on by male submission/servitude from time to time, but I kinda see where you are coming from. I know femdom in general is shit because it’s catered to men and I get that there needs to be some gatekeeping, but there’s a retarded amount of people bickering about what constitutes as ackshyual femdom instead of idk posting content and sharing experiences. I don’t mean to be a party pooper but I feel like a big portion of posters itt and previous ones have zero real life experience with a femdom dynamic. Anons have experienced getting let down by scrotes though and some have developed a desire for control that is both obsessive and unrealistic. Imo D/s dynamic requires a level of self-obliteration from the sub that is unhealthy and at conflict with romantic love. The femdom threads themselves are fantasies, which is ok.

No. 331863

It seems like most of the gatekeeping happening is retards trying to pass off F/m relationship dynamics as something unhealthy and problematic because anything beyond edging and mommying a scrote makes them feel uncomfortable.

No. 331868

The only time I pegged a moid it was one of those vibrating dildos that the second anon mentioned, double-sided and vibrating. I was so wet that even with the harness it kept slipping out (granted the side that goes inside of me is much smaller than the side going in him) but he ended up finishing me off by sucking the strap and it rubbed against my clit until I came. It was supremely hot, shame he wanted to troon out so I had to dump him.

No. 331887

Yeah, I don't feel like going through the effort of seeking out a real moid to attempt a "femdom relationship" with him. But I do enjoy the idea of dominating a male sexually, which in reality will always be impossible if you try hard enough to find a reason. I'm sick of that so I just fantasize about things that might not even be possible to do with a real man instead.

No. 331902

sounds so hot, but my biggest fear is having a sub bf that troons out

No. 331909

I too had an extremely hot experience with a cute moid although not as extreme as what you did (pegging, use of sex toys), and he turned out to be a "closeted" troon

No. 331972

I think my sort of hangup is simply switching the roles and having men be abused by women doesn't really feel like femdom to me.

it just feels like maledom with the roles switched out but it still comes from a male adjacent gaze or origin.

So I think actual female based femdom should be something coming from a female gaze or origin instead, it may have overlaps or be similar in some ways but I'd rather it be its own thing than a copy or imitation of another.

same, it annoys me that Gender roles or whatever way its defined are more rigid now again, I missed the sort of androgynous of the 90's , even the idea of makeup like black eyeliner or nice lingerie.

but now its all claimed and ruined by troons and masked as empowering somehow. like the idea of masculine styled women or feminine styled men is forbidden.

No. 331979

You said that you don't even think bdsm is real earlier so you can stfu about what you think femdom should be like.

No. 331987

Why does female gaze automatically mean to you that everything has to be sanitized and overly kind and sweet and respectful? Maybe some women just want to be rough and cruel (towards a man who consents to it)?
I really think the only cases where femdom imitates maledom is if there is sissification/feminization towards the man or if there is degrading femininity in any way. Because then clearly it's just misogynistic shit.

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My female gaze love beaten up men

No. 331993

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Same sis, same.

No. 331994

fair enough, didn't mean to cause offense , sorry.
I don't think it needs to be sweet or respectful I think my issue is maybe its more influenced by what men wanted femdom to be, so it just makes me feel like its an imitation with roles switched.

I'm all for rough and cruel (if there's consent) but I'd rather wish it came about naturally than originally springing from men.

I think im just misunderstanding and having a poor grasp of language to find my answer.

Like I wish femdom could be for and by women and self serving towards womens interests first rather than having a need to placate or dial it down with a guise of gentle femdom or whatever.

This but with romance involved and slight fear

No. 331997

mem want femdom to be mommy slave doing everything for them/absurd latex fetish porn with fart gas masks, not women toturing men

No. 331999

Some men want that torture too, so ideally it should be men that women find attractive, dressed well, preforming well for women's entertainment yes ?

No. 332001

>Like I wish femdom could be for and by women and self serving towards womens interests first
Agree completely. As long as the woman is doing it of her own will and isn't doing it because she's been socialized to sexually pander to men or coddle/take care of them, then I think it counts

No. 332037

nta but I don't even know where to look for these men? I dont want to give up but I feel like all the moids I run into are shit

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No. 334231

You're so real nonny

No. 335298

My boyfriend is submissive and it drives me nuts, lol. I can tell him to get naked for me and he'll do it without question or hesitation. What I like to do is just kiss him over and over for really long periods of time while he's naked. His dick will be so hard, like he's obviously horny as fuck, but still he's not demanding sex. I just find it so fucking hot how he's always thinking about my sexual desires, not his own. It makes me so wet even thinking about it.

No. 335305

KEK at the passive aggressive notes whoever compiled the fics added

No. 335310

I love it when my man just stares at me nervous as hell for my next move lol his face red as fuck. I’ve asked him to initiate before and he just freezes. So i give him instructions. I didn’t let him kiss me until he ate me and he did such a good job ugh. Seeing him in a few weeks after being busy at work.

No. 335392

I am insanely jealous especially since my impossible crush would probably be just like this, life isn't fair, but anyway keep us updated

No. 335396

Any tips on how to train male nipple sensitivity?

No. 335408

How did you find your bfs nonas? I'm expecting the reply to be something like "a lucky encounter in the wild" but I'll still ask…

No. 335438

What does it mean if a man told you he liked being submissive during sex but outside of the bedroom he dominated and abused you?

No. 335439

It means he’s a man unfortunately

No. 335440

all about his needs. most submissive men consider the dommes as props nothing more.

No. 335494

Been working on a fic and I hope it will be good enough to make the doc in the OP. I'm too scared to to even say what fandom it will be for, but I just somehow hope that some nona organically comes across it and thinks it's good enough to suggest

No. 335495

you should suggest it yourself, and i will never even know it was you.. good luck with your fic anon, i know it will be amazing xox

No. 335501

thank you for the well wishes! Maybe I will, it will be the second ever fic I've written in my life, so I'm afraid it might be trash. The worst that could happen is that you just don't include it, so submitting it shouldn't be as awful as it seems in my head

No. 335555

Shill it anon I trust u

No. 335565

kek same, I've written a couple of femdom fics, or I guess they don't have any heavy BDSM but they're female POV and the woman is basically using the moid for her pleasure so I tagged femdom anyway. It would be great to make it on the list, esp when I've taken a lot of inspiration from these threads and lolcow in general.

No. 335866

It means that he is an abusive piece of shit and should be dumped.

No. 336007

Hehe my boyfriend just agreed to one of my biggest fantasies and I want to make him suffer. What do you think nonnies? Any suggestions?

I'm going to leash him up to my bed but he'll be staying on the floor for a few days, and ignore him while I'm home until he's desperate for attention (he's a little bit obsessive with me so it shouldn't take long), I'm going to leave a blindfold on him so he's real sensory deprived and cuff his hands behind his back so he can't touch himself even if he wants to. He can only use the toilet in the mornings before I work (I wake up 5 and leave at 7) and a food bowl just out of range so he can't eat until I get home (he agreed to this) and a water bowl that he'll have to share with my cats. I told him maybe I'll spend a night at my friends without telling him so he has no idea when I get home or if I'll get home. He'll have no access to a phone or any entertainment, and the blindfold will obscure his sense of time. My cats will be around so he won't be completely lonely but I'll make him think it. And then when I'm feeling nice, I will unleash him and he will be allowed a cuddle in an interval. I will also wash him when he gets too dirty, or maybe I'll make him wash himself.

I know this sounds a bit extreme even to most femdoms, but I thought it could be fun and he thinks so too. He is my little slave hehe.

No. 336025

i have so many questions about this Nona.. I thought I was into some depraved shit… does he get to eat human food or cat food? what if he shits or pisses himself? Do you care if he gets some cat sickness for sharing the water bowl? What if the cats eat all of his food? What if he passes out from malnourishment and dehydration? Is he allowed to watch tv? Does him getting sponge baths and having cat bowl water breath turn you on?

No. 336039

Nonnie responding back here.
He'll get to eat human food, just out of a cat bowl and I'm not too concerned about the water aspect- I'll have my main bowl for the kitties on the counter and he'll have his on the ground to drink out of. I actually mentioned the catbourne illness to him and he said he is not concerned because he's 'shared' water with my cats from his cup (when they drink out of it) and we're both not concerned about the malnutrition/passing out aspect, he'll be left for a day MAX and will be okay. I am also going to leave a waterbottle out in case he wants to drink it instead, just might be a bit of a struggle. He won't have any access to any electronics. No TV, no phone. I'm not going to leash him too intensely- the most ideal is he'll be able to unhook himself even with cuffs/being tied. Also for the pissing and shitting- he actually suggested that HE wants a cock belt so he can't even get a boner and can't piss at all. But I feel like that's too extreme and will probably get him to use it in the mornings and well, I'm still figuring out the bathroom stuff lol. I do get turned on by the idea of total control over him and the idea that he'll be desperate for me to come home. Hope that helps.

No. 336044

could you hook up a webcam and stream it to us?

No. 336050

This is borderline serial killer vibes though I dig it.

No. 336068

>my main bowl for the kitties on the counter
Cats on your counter?

No. 336081

I think the most extreme thing here is that he won't have any way to keep himself occupied. He is spending half the day only thinking about you and waiting for you to come back. Hot.
>the most ideal is he'll be able to unhook himself even with cuffs/being tied
Can you actually trust him with this? Do you have some way to ensure he can't cheat and let himself out without you knowing?

No. 336090

Hope this is a silly larp. Trust me I understand the fantasy of having a dude captured, but there's a reason it's a fantasy. If I'm reading this correctly he'll be tied up for a prolonged amount of time and incapable of moving freely. This can worst case lead to blood clots. I'm all for trying out fantasies, but you need to think through the safety aspects first. Also he should have a way to communicate to you in case of an emergency, like set up a nanny cam or something so you can check in on him. Could make the scenario hotter. You don't wanna accidentally kill someone for some sexual thrills, that's scrote tier levels of shortsightedness.

No. 336094

I'll definitely post some kind of proof when we do this, should be sometime this week or next. Webcam is a good idea, I have one too.
I won't lie, I am a little depraved. This will probably be one of the more extreme things we have done. I just love LOVE the idea of him waiting all day, not being able to move, just all mine. Hehe.
Unfortunately I had one of those water filter bowls (they're quite deep, about 8 inches) so I had to place it in the sink or else my cats knock it over. I have one too many cats so a regular dog bowl/small cat bowl doesn't cut it.
I trust him that he won't untie himself unless completely necessary, but I will be marking the rope with sharpie to see if he does untie himself while I'm gone. He knows not to do that though. Still thinking of punishments as he's kind of into anything and everything. And I MEAN that.
Oh thanks for the concern nonni but this is not a LARP and I will post proof as well. He won't be THAT restricted, his hands will be tied enough and the leash will allow for some movement (standing, slight walking, sitting and laying). I live in an apartment as well so if he really needs to leave, he will have access to the outside world fairly easily rather than being isolated.
The objective is to make him feel isolated and alone, a bit scared.

He also will have no FREE access to electronics but his phone will be placed somewhere upon agreeing in which I will mark around it to see if he uses or plays on it.

No. 336095

You are a weenie. Plenty of people lie down or sit for days at a time without barely moving. Look at all the pro gamers who are completely stationary for 15+ hours a day for years. He will be fine being lightly tied for a few hours. The most pathetic thing ever is women treating men like they're some sort of delicate flower that can't handle any sort of discomfort. Get over it.

No. 336103

Nta but if you're going to post anything, don't do it because you want to prove to a bunch of anonymous strangers that you tied someone up…

No. 336145

at least get him one of those giant hamster bottles

No. 336150

Don’t listen to >>336103 nonny I wanna see it (if he’s cute of course)

No. 336158

not you giving your man toxoplasmosis due to a fetish. true femdom queen.

No. 336208

There's a difference in what you describe and being physically restrained for 24 hours. Even sitting on your ass all day, you're still able to change position, move your limbs freely and so on. If something happens, could be a medical emergency, housefire etc., however small the chances are, it is OPs responsibility. If you want to be a dumbass go ahead, but the sane thing is to always think worst case scenario. I'm not discouraging kink play, just think safety/worst case scenario first.

No. 336209

You can still change your position if you're tied. And she said he can still free himself if he absolutely needs to. You guys are such fucking squares, so many women let men manhandle and choke them without any concern for their safety but can't stand a woman doing the tamest shit ever to a guy. Retard.

No. 336210

>so many women let men manhandle and choke them
What's that got to do with my post?

No. 336211

Nta but are you new here?

No. 336214

Nah I just found it hilarious how she sprinkled on a bit of retard just to underline her classic strawman argument

No. 336217

The point being is that on average, women face a lot more risk than men do during sex, and as soon as you flip that around even slightly, the moralfags will come after you because how dare you even put a poor defenseless man in an slightly uncomfortable situation uwu.

No. 336222

Ok but it’s besides the point of anything I wrote.
It’s more about not going to prison than morals.

No. 336223

These last few posts have been a good example of fantasy femdom meeting with practical femdom.

I totally get the appeal of the fantasy where's it's all ideal and perfect but good planning, prep being careful and safe is important too and I find that it helps make the build up nicer to think on too.

For your fantasy it's not so much tying up your boyfriend that seems nice to me it's the idea of being at work and knowing he's stuck there or if it was me I'd have some elaborate cam system and just seeing him move and jostle around, then its back to work and a coffee.

so safety, planning and prep be more practical and treat it as a learning step. you'll know what you want changed or improved on next time.

No. 336226

It's surprising you can't even read. He can get out and escape if he needs to. She mentioned that like 3 times already. And he's not even being tied up for a full day, just a few hours. Just admit you want to virtue signal and move on.

No. 336239

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This sounds based and cute I've always wanted a chained moid.
>what if he passes out from malnourishment and dehydration
As if this isn't the cutest scenario
You are boring af
Imagine getting filtered by this gentle ass shit. He even agreed to it. Why even be in this thread if you think tying up a moid for a day is some extreme shit. She even said he'll be able to stand and walk and pace if he needs to. He even wanted a cock cage for fucks sake, I think a grown man can handle being restrained.

No. 336241

In the particular posts I replied to she said
>I'm going to leave a blindfold on him so he's real sensory deprived and cuff his hands behind his back so he can't touch himself even if he wants to
>I'm not going to leash him too intensely- the most ideal is he'll be able to unhook himself even with cuffs/being tied
OK sounds very reassuring. She also went from saying he’ll be sleeping on the floor a couple of days to “24 hours at most”, which is a long time to be immobilized. Honestly I called larp because you have to be retarded to think it's a good idea. If he’s 100% for certain able to untie himself in case of an emergency then have fun, but think about anything that could potentially go wrong in this scenario and make sure you are prepared. I admit I was a bit condescending, I'm glad OP gets to play out her fantasy and I'm sure she was excited and hadn't thought all the details through before posting, but idk why you're offended someone is discussing safety in a thread about femdom, this is bondage 101 stuff. She did backtrack later on which is good, but if no one says anything unfortunately some people are gonna think this is totally fine. It's very obvious some of you live in lala land and are terrible at thinking about stuff realistically.

No. 336244

She said she was going to do things with him when she got back, so clearly he's not going to be "immobilized" for several days straight. He can move, he can drink water, he can release himself if things actually get "bad." She is not chaining and bolting him down so he can't move at all. You just want to nitpick her because you think you can do it better, but you couldn't. You sound like a loser who is too afraid of a moid experiencing any amount of discomfort so you handle him with kiddie gloves. He's a fucking grown man, not a child.

No. 336245

Safety in bondage is meant for women being abused, not when males are put in their place, silly

No. 336248

I thought it was going for a petplay aspect then got disappointed.

>not letting him wear clothes just a collar with a jingle bell (maybe cat ears and a tail)

>not letting him speak or use his hands
>not letting him sit on the furniture
>having him wait by the door while you leave and wait there again when you return
>making him pose and do tricks for scratches and praise

No. 336249

>She even said he'll be able to stand and walk and pace if he needs to
NTA but this is actually one of the most common ways people hurt themselves while restrained. People have a tendency to fall and you obviously can't brace yourself with your hands tied. It's why you shouldn't leave someone alone in that position, period.
>You sound like a loser who is too afraid of a moid experiencing any amount of discomfort so you handle him with kiddie gloves
This is your go-to response when you disagree with someone isn't it.
wow so girlboss epic pwnage much edge. Anyway sorry for posting some common sense itt, I'll leave you to your collective delusion.

No. 336250

Eh, cat ears and a tail are cringe but the rest is kind of cute… puppy boy

No. 336270

Imo it's just Incredibly cringe to post pictures of your boyfriend because you want some kind of approval or to prove something to strangers on an image board. Just posting about the experience is enough

No. 336271

I for one think she should definitely whore out the bf to nonas by posting proof - if he is cute.

No. 336293

Leashing up my moid nonnie here.

I appreciate all the concern and consideration. I do have some more safety plans in place.
As for the toxoplasmosis, he will have access to a fresh water bottle, and my tap as well.
He will be restrained enough to move and walk, fortunately I have laminated floors and he will not be wearing socks, I brought up the concern of falling and he said he is not too concerned and will just be sitting/sleeping most of the day.
He will also be tight but loosely restrained, so he will have access to take the rope off from behind his back/wrists but if he takes it off, I will be able to tell because he won't be able to tie himself back up. He will also have access to talking the leash off when needed. This way he will have access to the washroom but the goal is for him to wait until I say he can. I was thinking I might call him to check up for verbal communication too.
I will also have my webcam on him so I can check on him during the day.
I love this and I am hoping to make him be my pet, but I will treat him worse than my pets hehe. My pets get snuggles. He will have the option of choosing a collar and leash at the pet store and I will make him do tricks for me. Maybe I'll even get 'treats' for him too.
He is quite handsome, I think you would be surprised. I'm going to get him to hold up a piece of paper that says "Hi lolcow" hehe.
I wish to post a picture of us, but that would be an instaban.

No. 336452

How did it go, anon?

No. 336496

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No. 336524

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Whose POV is more exciting to read from? Not just from a horny perspective but the emotional response of the characters too. I obviously default to the woman's since her inner thoughts and justifications are relatable but am getting invested in exploring the spiral of the male character in this fic. I don't want the story to be read as weird male self-insert fantasies but it feels so indulgent to write about how viciously I'd like (character) to fuck him up. Pls advise nonnas.

No. 336526

Why not both? What's stopping you?

No. 336527

just looked at my fav saved fics and i think my golden rule would be pick whichever character has more things wrong with them. or just which of their internal turmoils is more compelling to you (yes i do need drama in my porn)

No. 336533

You mean a third person POV? It's doable but there's a level of investment when you get one exclusive perspective imo.

That's exactly what's screwing me over kek I want to put his pathetic misery to paper but also vicariously live through her.

No. 336534

I meant two episodes, two different POVs.

No. 336576

What do you mean by 'level of investment?' I think you could do a third person omnipotent POV, I don't see why not. There's not really a reason to ever write in first person in my opinion.

No. 336603

I love to humiliate and belittle men. There are so many nasty fat pigs who will let you say whatever you want to them, and they still call you “goddess”. Pathetic hehe

No. 336643

>nasty fat pigs
what woman wants to do femdom on a gross little doughball like that? the nasty fat sweaty ojisan being dommed by a beautiful woman is pure moidshit

No. 336672

For me it depends on the story and what works best. I love writing and reading the woman's POV because there is too little of that in good quality, but male POV is good too, especially if it really describes his thoughts and feelings ideally including fear and humiliation but also stupid whorish lust. 3rd, 2nd, 1st person, anything goes. I also like it when the female narrator or POV character is describing the man's expression and trying to guess his thoughts, more or less projecting her own thoughts upon him, maybe because it's relatable.

No. 336679

The guys perspective but written by a woman.

No. 336720

Pretty much everything you said about female POV is how i feel too. Maybe it's a skill issue but writing in male perspective when there's not a lot going on in his head is tough, I'll try writing again and see if there's some compelling emotions he can go through.

thanks for all the input anonies.

No. 336912

Is Fifty Shades of Gray any good?

No. 336916

No dude

No. 336930

For me, it's third person omniscient.

No. 336931

Same for me

No. 336997

ayrt, why are you even asking? I haven't read it but based on excerpts I've heard the writing is shit, and even if it was good I wouldn't read it 'cause it's maledom.

No. 337099

i know some anons on here discussed more 'depraved' kinks such as blood and gore, but i sort of realized i like any sort of deprivation for a guy. as in, aside from the usual ones involving a typical denial kink. i get annoyed when fat moids hit on me, and i feel like i deserve to be with someone fit because of how hard i tried to change my body. but this isnt about that. what i mean is i'd love to deprive him of some food, not all food, just enough so that at least he'd get fit enough to be what i like. i know this is a moidbrained degenerate kink men use to control women, but it's fine if i do it, idc.

No. 337102

You mean put him on a diet?

No. 337179

>I have this depraved kink of making my boyfriend fit

No. 337192

Anyone else go through a fujo phase before getting into femdom? I guess I've always been into the idea of a man being submissive and subjected to sexual objectification and abuse, and the easiest place to find it was BL. I never saw the appeal of femdom because most of the imagery I ran into was male gazey crap, and also I used to have this weird disconnect from my body, where I didn't want to imagine myself or anyone resembling me in a sexual situation. That issue gradually dissolved as I got older and learned to process things in a more mature way. Nowadays I still look at m/m content sometimes, but I also enjoy picturing a woman in the dominant role in a relationship, whereas that didn't seem possible to me before, or rather I had a hard time imagining it in a way that would appeal to me and not be coomerish moid pandering dominatrix shit.

No. 337198

You want your bf to be fit? That's quite normal and not kinky.
As you said, almost all content that objectfied
beautiful submissive men used to be fujo content or for gay men. Things are better these days. This otome game looks very promising, for example.

No. 337207

I know what you mean, but it can be pretty psychologically damaging for someone to judge your body like that. I remember I told my (submissive) ex I'd love it if he was more fit and he cried after, kek. Told me he was willing to do "anything" but can't even do something basic like that because it isn't sexual or easy. Men should just suck it the fuck up, especially when their girlfriend wants them to get fit, but they are such whiny little bitches about it.

No. 337307

No, he was just weak and pathetic. It's normal to want a moid to not be fat. It's so easy for moids to just not be fat. It isn't psychologically damaging for them, it's physically beneficial. You just hurt his ego because he wants to have his diabeties cake and eat it too.

No. 337308

Yaoi made me be into malesub when I was a teenager

No. 337596

Probably same

No. 338125

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god all i want is an switch/sub younger man who has actual substance and worth give himself over entirely into my care so I can love and brutalise him for the rest of his life. I would take such good care of him.

No. 338126

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No. 338136

That furry shit belongs in the monster thread.

No. 338143

You say that but we both know that after a week you'll grow bored of him and your parents will be stuck taking care of him.

No. 338259

no i promise, ill even buy him the premium energy drinks

No. 338276

Most relatable post

No. 338302

ok, but if this one dies you're not getting another

No. 340049

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"I'll go make coffee."

No. 340055

Don't post AI shit

No. 340060

Do post AI shit

No. 340061

Don't we have an AI shit thread?>

No. 340066

I love AI shit unironically. Post more.

No. 340070

what a cringe aesthetic.

No. 340266

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half the images in here suck tbh.

No. 340567

>28 days later
>no update
>no 'high lolcow' pic
Its over v_v(v_v)

No. 340570

i hope she remembered… nona, if you are out there, please tell us h it went!

No. 340600

What are your favorite dominant PIV positions? I like standard cowgirl, it's what I do all the time, but I'd like to mix it up and have some inspiration.

No. 340603

Amazon position

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No. 340643

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A recommendation for my fellow women of culture: Otome audio were you legit torture the guys. Actually stab them and one gets his tongue split in two. This is their punishment for being awful and it changes them and then you fuck.

No. 340644

I need this, but I’m broke.

No. 340652

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Get it when you can, it's worth it, these lads sure can scream. Pic from a comic that was included.

No. 340660

I came here thinking about asking what to do when your submissive constantly disappoints you, and then you post this. Thanks nonnie, I am healed.

No. 340701

>Monster Thread
now I'm curious nona

No. 340708

God nonas all I could ever ask for is a submissive mad scientist. I imagine he’d be brilliant but so awkward/needy when it comes to me. I also imagine he’d be down for a lot and is eager for me “experiment” on him. I feel like I’m going crazy just thinking about it

No. 340722

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@gzgnight has some delicious art

That’s fucking hot. Lab coats, glasses, experiments, med fet, purrrr

No. 340734

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Wow excellent art. Posting another by her.

No. 340777

I have a blonde and blue eyed extremely thin fucktoy fwb sub with a huge dick that loves eating pussy that can last 3+ rounds in a row (haven't pushed him further yet) that is into ballbusting and chastity. We're going to get him a new cage and a cock ring

No. 340792

Uhhh yeah u-ummm me t-too

No. 340839

Where do I get one

No. 340845

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This is weird but I love the way dicks look when they're pointing straight up like that, like laying on the stomach, it's the best
For any anons who have the men in pain fetish you should watch the scenes in Queen Charlotte with the extremely hot actor bound in a chair with a gag on being tortured with leeches and half naked and shit. It's a little too far for me cause I'm not so much on the sadist side and I just wanted to comfort him, but ngl turned me on a bit

No. 340855

Which episode nona?
Leeches were used as common medical treatment back then though, so what a cry baby.

No. 340856

Straddling him while he’s tied to a chair, he has no control of how fast or slow it goes, I decide when it’s over. Or basic missionary with arms restraints, he struggles to keep balance, is forced to use solely his hip, he desperately shakes his ass with his face buried in your neck/tits.

No. 340857

These are some great ideas.

No. 340927

Kek this is ridiculous, you barely feel leech bites. Getting your ears pierced hurts more and I know this from experience

No. 340987

You have been treated with leeches? Are you a time traveller? Tell us everything.

No. 340991

NTA but you can cross a whole creek or river without knowing that a leech was on you right now. It might slightly sting pulling it off but the idea itself is doing more of the horror than any actual physical harm.

No. 341032

I can confirm this. I was bitten by a leech as a kid when swimming in a lake and I didn't even notice before I saw it attached to my skin. It was gross but it didn't hurt at all.

No. 341738

I can't stop thinking about teasing my sub with a cage on his cock in the movie theater after that demented nonna wrote it about ben shapiro. We were going to go get some toys yesterday but the stores were all closed it was too late.

No. 342501

Him sitting on the edge of the bed, me facing away from him so I can put my feet on the floor and use him like a human dildo. I also like to grab his thighs when I'm doing this and force his legs open.

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No. 342708

Any nonas into more subtle femdom this fic I just read (yes I read Overwatch fanficiton I’m retarded) is soooooo good. Honestly it’s good even if you don’t know OW characters and their lore. It’s medfet hurt/comfort with older woman feeling guilty about having sex with a younger guy who returns from a mission badly injured and he just wants to be told what to do instead of thinking. It’s soooooo good. Both of these characters are my favorite so I feel particularly artistic about it. Sorry again for being retarded I just stumbled upon it and saw the medfet tag and it got me going. If you read it tell me what you think.

No. 342709

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No. 342907

i dont care for overwatch but since it is cassidy and im gonna savour it, thanks nonnie

No. 342964

you weren't kidding nona, literally have no idea who either of these characters are and I loved it. I just want to fuck a wounded muscular guy while he cries into my chest and I tell him what a good boy he is, fuck

No. 342966

>people with uteruses
I hope she used that ironically.

No. 342968

Any advice on how to make your moid less sensitive to pain? My bf would be the ideal sub (does whatever I say, loves eating pussy, strips and lets me use him whenever I demand it) if he wasn't so wimpy. I can scratch and choke him a little, but I want to slap him hard across the face while I'm riding him, and unfortunately when I do that he goes completely soft. I suppose conditioning him bit by bit is the only way, but I'm struggling to figure out how/when to do that.

No. 342970

I have a rather involved fantasy. I'm a princess who will become queen upon marriage, but I have no interest in my betrothed. There is a knight who I have transferred into my personal guard, to keep watch outside my room at night. He's reserved and quiet, and has taken a vow of chastity, as is common in the guard to show devotion and strength, mind over matter. Every day I get bolder teasing him, asking him to do things for me in my bedchambers since he's right outside anyway. I end up forcing myself on him, he's devastated that I broke his vow of chastity and begs me to stop, but can't help himself but give in to lust. He tries to rationalize what's happening by telling himself that he can keep his vow as long as he doesn't come. I laugh at him as I forcibly breed him and impregnate myself to spite my betrothed.

No. 342996

MOID hands wrote this post

No. 343000

That sucks. Maybe make a reward system for enduring pain. Like he earns some good boy points that go towards earning a special prize (a kissy).
You wish
Hot until the end where you "breed him" by impregnating yourself to spite some random other guy. If it's a fantasy why even involve another random guy in it that'll just get in your way? Or a child? Why not just be a princess with a hot, sexy, obedient and chaste knight? Lame.

No. 343003

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I'd like to be useful to an older women, like being a piece of human furniture for her to use her legs on my back while she reads, an ash tray to lightly tap the end of her cigarette on my waiting tongue maybe spit in my mouth and I'd be so giddy that I'm being helpful to her, she doesn't even need to compliment me or acknowledge my existence.

No. 343006

Maybe show more enthusiasm or excitement when you slap him? Like, show him with your body language/words how much you enjoy it and how much it turns you on. My sub used to hate CBT, he would immediately go soft. But after a month or so I accidentally conditioned him and he started to get hard and stay hard during it. I asked him why and he told me that he started to get turned on by it because he could tell how much I enjoyed it.

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No. 343269

I had a dream where a friend and I were going into a bedroom to facesit on two dudes. They weren't our boyfriends, just some random manwhores we wanted to have fun with. I couldn't see the guy's face, but I could tell he was young and attractive. His gray sweatshirt was lifted, allowing me to see his ripped abs and he was lying on the bed, just waiting obediently to eat me out. God, it was so hot. I wish it was the standard for men to be so submissive and eager to please women.

No. 343284

OP hasn't updated the list in over a month reee or did my suggestion just suck? imo it was good shit

No. 343310

oh sorry about that. i don’t think all of the suggestions sucked btw, but i decided that i should wait a bit and look at them again to get over my visceral reaction to the bits i really hated and rethink which ones to add because i know we all have different tastes in kinks and.. like styles of writing in general. some of the stuff i saw was just utterly puzzlingly not good, but i can’t judge my anons for jerking it to bad fics, we’ve all been there.

No. 343312

samefag i also havent looked at the suggestions in a bit, my bad (they’re just rare to get)

No. 343329

Ayrt I've never even noticed that even though I've read it a bunch lmao. To be honest I sort of half pay attention to the vasectomy shit beforehand because the porn part is too good kek I'm just gonna pretend the brainrot verbiage isn't there
So glad you liked it, I'm into the exact scenario that you described so if I ever find anything with similar themes I'll link it here again!

No. 343330

I understand (also the part about jerking it to bad fics kek), I just got really paranoid because my own femdom fics (which I didn't shill I swear) started getting crazy hits overnight, like 40 hits a day when they used to get that amount in a month and I've been puzzled about if someone recced them somewhere.

No. 343480

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In the same situation, I feel you nonna

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No. 343931

>I want to slap him across the face
Then do it? You're his Master lol

No. 343932

You sound like those tiktok girls "gentle parenting" their boyfriends into filing taxes. Mommy bangmaid behavior

No. 343936

What? How am I acting like a mommy bangmaid if I actively did something he hated and only I enjoyed (to begin with, at least)? Am I not allowed to enjoy things?

No. 343940

She twists his ballsack and shit, what are you talking about

No. 343947

Lol there is a "im the only true femdom" anon here. I remember writing that I did sph and made him eat me out while I did cock torture and breath denial and I got accused of only pandering to my moid and not doing real femdom.

No. 343984

idk why but finding out he's asthmatic made him more attractive to me lmao.

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No. 344279

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You know that feeling when you're into CBT, and he knows it, and sometimes you just gently squeeze his dick/balls to remind him about his vulnerability?
I just came up with a name for that.
"Hamster shaking".
Why such a bizarre name, you might ask.
Here's the answer:
>holding [it] in my hand and giving it a little shake to remind it I am the superior more powerful being
Anon managed to describe the experience with laser precision. It just fits. We have strange names for poses and kinks already, and hamster shaking is just as perfectly valid as "doggy style" and "docking". Hell, ever "missionary" sounds weird if you think about it.
I am all for hamster shaking. Are you?

No. 344280

the worst thing about your post is that it does fit

No. 344282

wtf why a hamster? that is fucked up anon

No. 344285

You need to log off… but also lmao

No. 344295

I sign off on this

No. 344296

>Are you?
I-I don't know..

No. 344297

I'd love to give your neck a little hamster shake

No. 344298

see it's catching on now!!

No. 344312

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Interrogation that goes wrong and he's squealing.

No. 344314


No. 344321

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I am all for hamster shaking!

No. 344325

Where is the domination here? I thought he was supposed to get raped by foreign objects?

No. 344330

is that edited? if face looks way too big for his head like some kind of meme

No. 344766

Maybe…idk he's weird, he gets extremely excited the less I seem to care about it. He tries really hard to elicit a good response from me when he's eating me out, but when I'm fucking him he can barely contain himself if I act indifferent. Worth a shot though, I'll try it out and see how it goes.

No. 345219

Hes just the right amount of easy to embarrass but not yet pathetic enough that it would spoil the fun of making him squirm
He has moments of attitude and I just want to tease him until he can't take it anymore and begs to cum
I love when I neg him and he acts like he doesn't care at first then brings it up a little later to see if I really meant it and I keep him guessing
Currently fantasizing about making him eat me out on his knees while I hold the leash attached to his collar then sitting on his face then riding him while he has one of those things tied around his balls that keeps the cock erect and slapping him when he's getting close and spitting in his mouth
Then letting him get on top and telling him he better be able to keep going until I'm satisfied and I yank his leash to pull him closer and if he's obedient enough he gets let off leash
And I also want to put his hands behind his back and blindfold him and make him nervous I want to see his legs shake
God what the fuck is happening to me I've never had this many dominant type of desires for a guy but something about him brings it out of me

No. 345278

Does he actually like pleasing you? I feel like guys who act the way you described care way more about feeling humiliated and used (bottoming), rather than pleasing and giving pleasure to the person they're with (submitting).

No. 345326


I never thought of the distinction between bottoming and submitting that way. He does like pleasing me because he loves me and wants me to feel good, but I don't think pleasing me is a turn on for him. I'm a rather standoffish and blunt person by nature and that drew him to me, so I think it's less about him feeling humiliated and more that he likes seeing that side of me when I'm fucking him - a bit cold and impassive.

I admit I'd really like for him to be turned on by pleasing me, but he's perfect for me in pretty much every other way. However, I think going by your distinction, sexually he's more of a bottom than a sub. But he's very submissive in non-sexual aspects, which I like - he seems to genuinely enjoy being bossed around by me and doing things for me like carrying my things, shopping, cooking, cleaning, bringing me snacks and drinks, etc. One time I asked for something and he teasingly asked me, "what's the magic word?" and I said "now" rather sternly and he loved it lol, got the biggest smile on his face.

Moids are very simple and easily sexually conditioned so I think I might be able to condition him to like it more not by showing enthusiasm, but by 69ing more or touching him while I sit on his face to reinforce the connection between eating me out and getting turned on.

No. 345331

based, I think it's the vulnerability aspect that makes it cute and hot. My bf has terrible eyesight and it's so attractive to me when he doesn't have his glasses on and he's squinting trying to read something holding it like 2 inches from his face lol.

No. 345613

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Won't link it because it's not in English, but a major newspaper in my country ran an article about "professional dommes" and ofc it's moidgaze bullshit about serving degenerate moids' needs. They were the customers so I guess it's to be expected, and of course it's all bullshit like mainstream BDSM in general but I'm still mad. How the fuck dare they call it femdom when it's literally women serving the scrotes all over again? (And dressed in the tackiest, ugliest pvc imaginable kek) They also just had to shove in troons and mention that "some transwomen uwu come to practice makeup and how to be a woman with our dommes teehee", fucking disgusting.

No. 345615

I hate that. Real femdom is being in my fucking jammies or in sweatpants or in whatever casual clothes I wanna be in while the moid is undressed or partially naked, or in a cute muscle shirt while I am whipping him or face-fucking him, damnit!

No. 345656

Where is this from and what is the context?

No. 345657

He forgot to wash his ass and so he suffered

No. 345664

My bf gives me orgasms on tap and I dont give him anything in return. In fact, he is all the more willing to please me without reciprocating the longer he goes without an orgasm. And when he is drunk he gets all squirmy and needy when I mock him for his pathetic useless cock.

No. 345730

They're just demonstrating what couple goals should be.

No. 345789

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I just read one, bit moidy but it was set in a generic kink world, women in charge. Had a story of a moid becoming a sort of care assistant/pet/tool for a punk/alt woman in a wheelchair.

spent most of the story shocking him via collar and then chastity, making him sleep in a cage, shocking him some more with a sounding rod then making him eat her out every so often too.

I was kinda hoping for some slight romance (he saves her when she falls trying to get into the bath) but she just get's angry and shocks him some more kek.

ends up stuck as some sort of half servant half latex pet that she shocks for fun and gets oral from, doesn't even get to speak during the story.

>It was moidy but it became interesting that she was in a wheelchair and had that power imbalance but control.

It's a shame that most of the author and artists work is just woman on woman (aka moid gazed focused)

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No. 346136

You're so real for this nonas

No. 346155

Ugh imagine slapping that raw meat wound.

No. 346203

nonna i feel like we might be mutuals

No. 346235

do you happen to remember what tumblr you got this from? is there more?

No. 346239

That first shower gonna sting so bad

No. 346242

recently started pegging my boyfriend. so awesome. he calls me mommy and i call him my little kitten boy. anyways, do you guys have recommendations on girthy chodes for pegging? and have any of you made a guy cum from it?

No. 346243

No. 346247

wish i was you so bad

No. 346348

its epic.

No. 346530

Lol how much does he pay you for servicing him?

No. 346558

kek, you know she does it for free. I bet she scrubs his shit off the dildo afterwards too while her little kitten boy posts on /tttt/. Such femdom

No. 346734

Any good twitter audio accounts?

No. 347374

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Anybody got any good femdom Denji x Makima fics? I. Just got back into Chainsaw Man and seeing this eager to please, cute, virgin guy try so desperately to please his older female boss to the point of death is honestly so hot and such a sexy role reversal. I want her to force him on his knees and drag him by his tie and force him to eat her pussy all while he begs and thanks her for it.

No. 347377

i've genuinely never seen a well written weeby fic in my life, so good luck nonna, hope you'll find something

No. 347388

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Are there any good femdom heavy moves that aren't completely scrote-centric? I've good things about this one, but only from scrotes.

No. 347435

I remember an anon recommending a movie directed by a woman in which a pretty guy gets kidnapped and tortured by a group of masked women, but I was never able to find it. Anyone know which movie this was and where it could be found?

No. 347439

sounds like the book of revelation

No. 347449

That's the one!

No. 347541

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I don't know if I'm sexually attracted to crying or just sexually attracted to the idea of a moid crying. Never got horny witnessing tears, just disgusted and uncomfortable. Still don't know what kind of tears are the sexiest. I want to make a moid cry due to physical strain/torture but also due to desperation/need. Perhaps one day I will have a moid to experiment this on. Do different types of crying produce differently flavored tears? Hmmmmm
Anyone have experience with males crying? How does it feel in your loins?

No. 347550

based anon, i love seeing an expression that looks like ecstasy (parted lips, eyes squeezed shut) but is actually pain with big fat tears streaming down his cheeks.

No. 347557

Can relate. I realized I was into tears as a teenager, specifically tears of pain, humiliation, fear, and desperation (as in when he realizes there's nothing he can do to stop it). I like the visual effect but the psychological side is the most important, so I guess tears represent a breaking point of the psyche in a way, the giving up of pride and dignity. I do get turned on by seeing such tears in a drawing or reading about them, but it's not just sexual for me, there's something else too, like a sense of security and satisfaction.

This happens only in fiction, though. If I see a moid cry irl I feel bad or disturbed, so idk how to explore this in real life. In that sense I'm not a true sadist, since I get immediately turned off if I read about e.g. torture knowing it's real. Maybe if I got together with a moid who's into extreme long distance running and would be willing to train until he's at the verge of tears, would I be turned on by seeing that despite the psychological context being different? I don't know.

No. 347870

how can i be more domme when my clit is super sensitive so getting eaten out sometimes can be uncomfy?

No. 348251

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Wanted to share this gif with you nonnies

No. 348335

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writing more based femdom fics 'cause there aren't enough based femdom fics and there can't be too many

No. 348336

Please….. please share a crumb of femdom fic……………………

No. 348349

Thanks, I wanna amazon him.
As you should!

No. 348353

Smack his head whenever he goes too fast for you.

No. 348470

I'm too shy to share my account but it's going to be pretty much rivals hatefucking where the moid (who is canonically a contemptuous asshole) gets put in his place. I'll include:
>hair pulling
>maybe slapping idk
>light bondage
>orgasm denial
Maybe I'll make the female mc pull him by his tie as well, thanks for the idea nonas. It's all happening in an office with a great focus to the canonical dynamic between the two characters, I'm a sucker for that sort of thing, but not so much into overt BDSM. I'm also going to include cringy humorous world building just 'cause.

No. 348613

>necktie leash
Than k you…..

No. 349296

I think femdom is the most beautiful, natural, cohesive relationship dynamic for straight couples. Men are literally biologically designed to be beaten up. Men dominating women is terrifying and revolting because it is perverse, and a complete inversion of the natural state of things. Men are also biologically geared to direct their lives toward something - that might be a stronger man, God, a military leader, a boss - but men are clearly very hierarchically minded. Thus, it makes the most sense for a man to be submitting to a woman in a relationship. He needs something to direct his life towards, and in the ideal scenario, that something is the woman he loves.

I currently have a sexually submissive man, but I am training him to be more submissive in all aspects of our relationship because I think that is the ideal. He already naturally submits to me most of the time when I do this, and I think lots of men are able to be molded like this. I simply started speaking up for myself and worrying less about whether or not my choices are in his best interest - basically, started thinking like a man. Being selfish. I call the shots for what we do, where we go to eat, that sort of thing. He is, of course, free to spend time with his friends and whatnot, but I am conditioning him more and more to dedicate himself to my joy when we are together. When he was little he was very interested in medieval times and knights - I have leaned into this and positively reinforced him acting chivalrously and knightly towards me. Malesub should follow an archetype like a knight, in my opinion. Masculine and strong, yet willingly servile and devoted.

I hate that femdom is seen as this weird niche kink that's very male-oriented. I truly believe it is the most harmonious type of relationship, and it is the ascended form of straight female sexuality. When women become truly sexually liberated, I think they will naturally gravitate towards this dynamic as it is the most satisfying and fulfilling. Curious if anyone else has similar thoughts on the "philosophy" of femdom as it were.

No. 349300

This is just the truth. Men are only capable of being truly happy and fulfilled once they throw aside their ego and fully devote their lives to the woman they love. Look what happens when they don't. They become insecure. They lash out. They waste their lives away. They become fat, unkempt, and slovenly. They troon out. They fall into all sorts of addictions and vices, trying to fill a gaping void that could never be filled through such base and shallow means. Unfortunately, most men never get over their insecurities and there are still way too many women who coddle them and mommy them. A woman can also never reach her full potential if she's taking care of and being submissive to a moid.

>I truly believe it is the most harmonious type of relationship, and it is the ascended form of straight female sexuality.


No. 349309

No. 349324

I went to a known kink bar with a friend out of curiosity. Women and creepy old ""dom"" men were approaching me. I like women, but I don't want to sexually torture them in the same way I do men. I would not use a woman or degrade her even if she wanted it. The men my age were either flaming fags or there with their gf looking for a unicorn. I'm about to resort to looking online but I know advertising for a male sub is just going to attract the lowest scum of men

Agree 100% with you. Men are created to submit to women. The sooner they accept this, the more liberated both sexes will be

No. 349334

You have to make the normie into a sub, not go specifically looking for subs. Males who say they are subs are saying it in a male way, aka they want a milky mommy dom who sucks their dick while she calls him a good boy. So not a real sub!

No. 349354

Where do you even find femdoms that aren’t moid attracted, trannies, or onlyfans thots? I’m a lesbian sub with a mommy kink, all the “dommy mommy” girls I see on dating apps or online are one of those first three

No. 349357

Do you want a mommy dommy or a dom? I feel like if you want a mommy, you can find an older lesbian woman. If you haven't already, try asking the lesbian thread or maybe the female fantasies thread.

No. 349360


This is gonna sound retarded as fuck but my mommy kink is kind of abusive, so idk if a nice older woman is gonna do that with me. I wanna be demeaned, beat, strangled and abused by an abusive roleplay mom, but the aftercare is affectionate and cuddly mom, yk?

No. 349362

I don't know, did you ask the lesbians in the lesbian thread? They might know if it's possible and could share some advice or anecdotes or something.

No. 349419

Look for some jail birds. Alternatively seek therapy.

No. 349441

Seconding the latter

No. 349725

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No. 349726

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No. 349728

Spoiler this ffs.

No. 349740

The first one I like because I want to whip a moid, but there's something off about these such as the women wearing heels and the second image doesn't appeal to me, what's the point of a gross naked male being there? Can't he be dressed in a cute outfit and vacuuming or serving her snacks or something? That'd be based. With hickeys drawn on his neck so you know what goes on behind the scenes.

No. 349741

>gross naked male
Are you not attracted to men in general or something, or is it the art style?
>but there's something off about these such as the women wearing heels
Probably because the women are dressed up and meant to be "sexy", while the guy is drawn as unappealing as possible. I wish less focus was put on the woman in femdom art, like just put her in pajamas or something plain and make the guy super hot. It always feels like it's trying to hard to appeal to men with the heels and woman looking as sexy as possible.

No. 349753

>when the guy is drawn as unappealing as possible
That answers your first question
>put her in pajamas
I know, right? Or just comfy clothes in general. Why is the second woman wearing heels and a pencil skirt in what looks to be her own home (I say, as the room is empty except a chair and a moid)

No. 349775

This one reminds me of wikihow images.

No. 349837

Agreed, this art is way too scrotey. The pencil skirt and heels with what looks like an H&M crossover tank top from 2014 lol. I can tell a moid drew it because that's how trannies dress.

The art style is fug, and the male has a soft penis and looks like he's doing the Justin Bieber duckface lol. Also what in the post-1D Zayn is that facial hair. Imo the man should be focusing on serving and pleasing the woman – in this scenario, she would be in comfy clothes and he could be rubbing her feet (she's probably been in those heels all day) or making himself useful by being a footstool. He would ideally be incredibly hard and incredibly flustered and embarrassed about it.

No. 349889

Any other nonas like to "embarrass" men? This is a habit I have had for as long as I can remember, and I wish to keep it going for as long as I am in this mortal coil. When I was a young girl, I used to "pants" boys (i.e. pull their pants down in front of everybody), which would cause their faces to turn beet red. I loved it! Now, as a grown ass woman, I find myself unable to indulge in such pleasures–decency and modesty preclude such things, alas. Still, I find myself engaging in whatever mild humiliations I can manage, such as teasing men who are my coworkers, and such things.

No. 349897

Yes. I also like to not move out of the way when a male my age is walking towards me. It's his fucking job to move for me, not the other way around. Almost bumped shoulders but they learn eventually.

No. 349914

agreed! i like to be a tease too ngl. like being careful about what skin i show or don't and mixing it up.

No. 349923

Thats not femdom

No. 349932

ive started talking to this moid who's really into findom and part of me feels like it's way below me but another part of me……………

No. 349941

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>steps on his cock in a female gaze way

No. 349942

Kek make fun of them when eating in front of you especially if it’s phallic or taco shaped. Mouf wide open like he’s at the dentist.

No. 349943

YES lmao I love making fun of moids for eating hot dogs and popsicles and shit, making them uncomfortable to even eat a banana. They deserve a little taste of what it’s like.

No. 350052

Idk if this even counts as femdom but I want a qt non-degen normie husband who will occasionally let me tie him up and make him kneel blindfolded in his underwear in our kitchen and just sit there while I cook dinner and give him little kisses and spoonfuls from the pan whenever I feel like it. He doesn’t get it entirely but he trusts me and loves me enough to indulge me. Is it so much to ask

No. 350056

Aww… I want this for you too now.

No. 350077

That's oddly specific but I'm not gonna judge

No. 350141

is it too much to ask that i handcuff a guy to a bed and edge him and choke him a little.

No. 350332

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I'm back on my bullshit

No. 350333

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No. 350467

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No. 350471

No. 350507

From afar i thought he was sucking on it

No. 350552

I watched this one recently, yeah it’s male gazey but I can’t lie I enjoyed the psychological torment the games and the ending was great

No. 351441

Saw this and thought of you girlies

No. 351521

This isn't femdom

No. 351528

being a cooking slave for a boyfriend that is useless!! you are right anon thats so femdom

No. 351530

He is wearing a fucking Playboy shirt, he needs severe punishment for that. Not a dumb egg crack.

No. 351536

Sorry nonnas I'm new to this world, I just thought it was fun to randomly humiliate guys like that

No. 351545

I mean technically yeah its just being an asshole but the idea is right.

Your extrapolating so much from a 10 second clip nonnie jeez, its literally just a guy getting an egg smacked on his face

No. 351632

not strictly femdom related but this goes out to my fellow nonnies who like seeing a cute lithe man all battered and bloodied, also sweating and panting with exertion. Fwiw he's said in an interview that he forsees himself as being dominated by his wife lol.

No. 351637

need to get a guy crying and sobbing and paying for the grievances that every man has ever committed against me. but i also like when they get their ego shattered and think they are putting up a fight and thinking they are not into it but then he's begging for release. just food for thought.

No. 351880

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I don't know where to put this, but I think it should go in this thread.
Last night I bought a sexy pair of pumps because I have been dressing nicer. My boyfriend has a thing for shoes/feet, I do too especially because he worships me and the ground I walk on. We got home from a "classy" date and were starting to get hot and heavy. All of a sudden we start talking about fantasies (we've been dating for 6 months and he's been anxious about my reaction to things) and he says he is constantly thinking about me completely dominating him. I previously expressed that I would like to be more dominating in bed but he seemed apprehensive at first. I forced him to the floor and kept my dress, stockings, and heels on from our date. I had total power over him while he was naked, pathetic, whimpering and begging for me to touch him. I have never felt anything quite like this, nonnies. He kept calling me "mistress" and "goddess" and talked about how he was at my mercy under my heel. We both orgasmed twice, and I made him beg for me to allow him to orgasm. I just wanted to share since I can't talk about this to anyone else… my brain chemistry changed. Jesus.

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No. 351938

Any other nonas here drawn to the idea of owning a moid? This is something I want, to the point where if a moid I'm dating shows too much of an independent spirit, I break it off with him. Either you're full slave or I'm kicking your ass to the curb, scrote.

No. 351972

>Any other nonas here drawn to the idea of owning a moid?
I am. How much control do you want? Is there a limit for you?

No. 352321

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I'm so fucking angry. There is literally no fucking media aimed at us. If you want something you have to create it yourself. The mobile game What in hell is bad had promo images of men in bondage and a minigame where you slap and choke them, but guess what, upon release it was revealed that it's maledom as well. Every fucking thing in the universe has to be maledom with uwu non-assertive little women. It's completely enraging.

No. 352322

If there was a femdom otome game or something like that, what setting do you all feel would be the best? Like a normal modern setting? Historical? University? Futuristic? What

No. 352323

Any, as long it's actually femdom and the men are hot.

No. 352331

I think a super based concept for a femdom otome would feature a whole society where femdom dynamics are the norm and its portrayed in a positive way with a narrative that doesn't have anyone dissatisfied or questioning it. Maybe something like a setting with magic that either highly favors women, or straight up only women can use it, creating female societal advantage. I would also enjoy something like a setup where you play as some sort of wealthy noble lady with the male cast all being your adoring servants. Or if you're familiar with the nekopara catboy otome they released I feel like a setup like that could definitely be adapted to lean into a femdom angle, or actually, you could probably successfully genderbend a lot of other scrote dating sims to make them something based

No. 352346

Weren't some of the characters listed as sadistic/dominant in their profiles? I don't trust any piece of media that has dominant male characters. Unfortunately even if there are scenes where the MC herself is being dominant, it's just seen as a "side thing" while being submissive is the main course. It's so infuriating. Reminds me of that otome game with a supposedly dominant MC but she gets raped and treated as a sex slave and it's unavoidable.

No. 352359

>genderbent scrote games
I've been looking for something like this for so long. I play both otoge and galge and enjoy them but my ideal game would basically be a genderbent scrote game. I love otome but maledom and innocent heroines are not my favorite things in the world

No. 352381

Can some nona just make this type of game happen? The otome I play can only go so far.

No. 352404

I have no gaming creator skills, but if there are, we could make a farmer development team?

No. 352422

We would definitely need a team/artists/developers/writers- for now we could just spitball ideas and I was thinking of making sketches (on paper, sorry) of potential characters. What kind of tropes we thinking? Puppyboy? Bratty mean boy we have to (physically and mentally) break? Shy boy? All of them handsome of course. Rapeable options for all paths?

No. 352423

All of those!
Also elegant stoic boy who is secretly a freak in bed.

No. 352424

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No. 352441

Now this is an artist I'd love to have on a femdom game team.

No. 352813

God bless the fujo to femdom pipeline, these are the girls who get it

No. 352851

I always make my boyfriend tie my shoelaces when they get untied in public. Its subtle but I think its very hot. I also love seeing how other moids give the stank eye when they walk past watching him kneel to tie my shoes.

No. 353043

Has anyone here dabbled in polyamory / open relationships? I love my boyfriend very much, but his pain tolerance is almost comically low, and as much as he tries to please me by doing what I want in bed, I can see that he's not really enjoying the 'harder' stuff I'm into (cbt, blood play, impact play). Some women are into the discomfort, but personally I want enthusiastic begging and not just grinning and baring it. My ideal relationship dynamic is having my boyfriend fulfill all of my emotional needs, and then having a rotating casts of submissive moids I get to fuck and degrade and turn into mincemeat for my amusement and sexual kicks. Is this feasible?

No. 353067

Those other moids should mind their fucking business. They are also likely single.
Im gonna say this is not feasible, especially since moids who are into polyamory tend to be fat neckbeards and troons. Does your boyslave moan/grunt while you're beating on him? I think what you have going on is hot already, but that's just me. If you want him to enthusiastically beg, he'd be faking it. To have a moid genuinely enthusiastically beg he'd probably already be some sort of sexual deviant and from what I hear, moids who genuinely like getting beaten tend to be old fatties. The only way you could achieve what you want is if you time traveled to the past and became a queen/governess/some high class society lady with a bunch of concubines. Maybe build your moid up to begging. First have him gently beg and go "p-please m-more", perhaps.

No. 353071

You sound like a weird scrote, no woman writes like this

No. 353075

This is the femdom thread.

No. 353081

>Has anyone here dabbled in polyamory / open relationships? I love my girlfriend very much, but her pain tolerance is almost comically low, and as much as she tries to please me by doing what I want in bed, I can see that she's not really enjoying the 'harder' stuff I'm into

No. 353093

This is the femdom thread.

No. 353103

>The only way you could achieve what you want is if you time traveled to the past and became a queen/governess/some high class society lady with a bunch of concubines.
Kek, I absolutely would if I could, anon. I think building him up and asking him to beg is the right choice - he is genuinely very eager to please. I don't consider myself much of a sadist and I want him to have a good time while also coincidentally being covered in blood and bruises. Does that make sense? Idk.

No. 353104

Yeah it makes sense, moid bodies are made for suffering. Think of all the stories about male suffering and how manly and masculine it is. Hercules especially suffered, tell him that.

No. 353106

Don't reply to males please

No. 353125

Actually especially moid walking with their gfs/wives make stank faces.

I also lovingly slap his face in public, just a little love tap

No. 353341

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Me too nona. What I'd also like is for a genderbent scrote game to extend to using the same artstyles as galge, just with guys instead. One of my biggest turnoffs for otome games is that the artstyles aren't cute and anime-like enough for my liking.

If anyone else is serious about this, I'm willing to offer programming (with ren'py) and some writing/character design (but not artwork) duties.

No. 353433

Let's go nonnies, i bagged a hugless kissless virgin so i get to mold him to my liking. He lets me bite him hard, tie him up, pour hot wax over his body and he moans like a whore while I do it. He doesn't want to be blindfolded and leashed like a dog just yet, but I'm hoping I will manage to change his mind at some point.

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No. 353435

Does he wear glasses??

No. 353438

You will. Get him to like having his dick slapped. I had an ex who I conditioned to love it, it’s so satisfying to just smack a guy’s boner while he whimpers and begs and wants you to do it more even tho it hurts

No. 353467

I used to slap my ex's balls and he would hate it so much he would go completely limp. After a couple months of doing it, he started to get hard when I did it. All men are whores; expose them to something enough and they'll eventually start to love it.

No. 353492

>expose them to something enough and they'll eventually start to love it
This. Male sexuality is extremely malleable because they are made to be trainable sex objects.

No. 353500

Exactly. Men's sexuality is not meant to be molded by porn but by women. If you're not influencing your scrote to love the things you get off to, or if you're trying to pander to him instead, you're wasting his potential.

No. 353527

Are there any decent femdom books or stories written by nonnas

No. 353560

>If anyone else is serious about this, I'm willing to offer programming
That's awesome. I really hope that more people are serious.

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If you guys do historical, whoever does the art NEEDS to do their fucking research. Lazy character design/costume research is something only scrotes do, and it really pulls me out of the game.

No. 353629

i submitted a fic to the directory but i'll post it here as well because it's just too good. https://archiveofourown.org/works/39166725/chapters/97992168

+ i recently realized half of my enjoyment of femdom is related to the very sight of deferential, pathetic men (real or 3D). i love being the active part and inflicting things but seeing a man act submissive of his own accord/because he's perverted is just as potent. i've known a couple guys who gave off the 'beaten puppy who would kneel with a smile' vibe, even asked one if he'd be into it but sadly he really disliked the idea. i coped by telling myself it's good that he's naturally like this, without porn lol

No. 353639

>The mobile game What in hell is bad had promo images of men in bondage and a minigame where you slap and choke them, but guess what, upon release it was revealed that it's maledom as well
Noooo fucking way. They probably knew what they were doing, the assholes.
For me it's modern setting because I'm basic like that and I always love the classics, and like other nonnas said I really like the oldschool dating sim/eroge aesthetic that modern otome games miserably fail to capture. But as long as all the main cast are adults (especially the protagonist), there's nice variety in male love interests, the protagonist is always dominant and sadistic and not punished for it, and the designs aren't too retarded, I'm fine with whatever. I fully trust nonnas with worldbuilding.
And also like other nonnas said, it'd be pretty nice if it was as coomer as a typical scrote eroge but with the sexes reversed.
>Reminds me of that otome game with a supposedly dominant MC but she gets raped and treated as a sex slave and it's unavoidable.
Jooubachi no Oubou? Thank God I never played that shit then, the art was also very wonky and unarousing. I only ever listened to the do-M boy (Utsuro)'s CD drama tracks on SoundCloud before they cracked down on situation CD piracy (RIP). That was my first situation audio ever and that's how I realized that whole medium was pretty hot kek I thought it was going to be cringe. He had pretty nice moans.
It largely depends on the setting but I think having a butler type character is a must, Maybe a deeply religious celibate man, or a knight perhaps? Since nonnies have been talking about those archetypes in previous threads.
>Bratty mean boy we have to (physically and mentally) break?
>Shy boy?
Yes to both.

No. 353652

Fuck, I really want this to happen.

No. 353733

oh no it's my fandom Thanks for the rec nona! The writing seems decent and the premise is interesting so I'll probably read it. And yes, the sort of natural or innate submission is the best, like when he doesn't even know why but he just feels the urge to kneel before me. Too bad that doesn't exist nowadays with moids being so pornbrained.

No. 353739

You're living the dream nona.
How are we going to organize this game thing so it actually gets started? We got a programmer and an artist among us, what about a writer?

No. 353759

>How are we going to organize this game thing so it actually gets started?
I was thinking I'd make a discord server/other kind of chat group and link it here, but I'm guessing that's frowned upon here (I'm a newfag, please advise).

No. 353764

added, thank you! i was gonna comb through all the riddler femdom fics at some point but there are quite a few so it's appreciated.

No. 353774

I have little experience of otome games but I'm a femdom writer (sort of) and I'd be possibly interested in writing for the project. Idk if I can adapt my style to suit something like this, but it sounds really interesting and I love the idea of grassroots creating something for ourselves if nobody else is gonna do it.
a nona willing to organize the server could post a personal contact in the friend finder thread, then add people individually to a server (preferrably after a verification to avoid scrotes), I think that's allowed.

No. 353880

You guys could make an IRC chat or something. Not everything has to be trhough discord

No. 353901

Yeah, I'd be fine with doing that but I know not everyone knows how to use IRC. And also there's no way to keep out scrotes with voice verification and such.

No. 353911

I tried domming my husband for the first time, I've never taken that role before besides just tying his hands up.
I'm struggling with dialog. What else could I say? Is it something that will improve the more I do it?
It was super fun

No. 353988

First, don't ever worry about saying the "right things" to turn him on. This is about YOU. You're not acting out a porn for him, so there doesn't have to be "dialog." If you feel like saying something, say it. But if you're feeling /pressured/ to say something, that's not femdom. That's just you trying to act "dominant" to satisfy a man's desire to see you act that way. Don't sacrifice your own pleasure to please a man. So if you're asking for advice on what to say to be a super sexy dominatrix in his eyes, this is the wrong thread for it. But if you're having a hard time coming up with what to say because you haven't fully actualized your sexuality and you're having a creative block in understanding what personally turns you on because you've spent your life being taught to be pleasing to a man, well, I understand that. You'll have to think about what turns you on, and then act on that thing. If it helps, don't think about it as femdom - think about it as malesub. It's not your "job" to dominate him, it's HIS job to serve and please you. This can make it easier to undo some of the societal conditioning that can make it hard to access your own sexuality.
>What else could I say?
Well, I don't know what you /did/ say, so maybe start by telling us that. Most of the talking I do in the bedroom is just ordering my sub around. It doesn't have to be any more involved than that if you don't feel like it would personally be arousing to you to talk more. So again, start from what turns you on about malesub. If it helps, imagine a fantasy submissive man. If you could say anything to him, what would you say? I'll list some themes I personally like if it's helpful for you to get started thinking about what personally excites you:
>a man longing to be devoted and obedient to me
>a man being flustered and embarrassed when he gets turned on
>a sub feeling unworthy of me and longing to please me
>a man's eyes widening with fear as he realizes I am completely in control of him
>watching a man's typical arrogance crumble into pathetic servitude because I mindbreak him
I personally like teasing and being a bit mean to my sub. I'll take something that I enjoy, and frame it as a question. So for instance, I really like the idea of my sub feeling helpless and embarrassed, so I'll say something like, "I can only imagine how humiliated I'd feel if I were you right now. Tell me, do you feel as helpless as you look tied up like that?"
Or "is this where you belong? Underneath me? Doesn't it feel good to be put in your place?" I like eliciting affirmative responses, especially as it gets harder for him to talk. If he's getting all flustered and can't talk, I'll make fun of him for that too. I remind him of his inferiority, or better yet, I make him tell me how inferior and pathetic he is and how unworthy he is of me.
You can also be a lot more creative than that. I like acting out fantasies I have that aren't realistic. For instance, the idea of hypnotizing a man and having him psychologically under my control is really hot to me. So I'll play into that, and tell him that when I kissed him, I put a spell on him that made him do whatever I say. Stuff like that, idc if it's cringe.

Bottom line, just relax and be more selfish. And I mean selfish. Once you've dommed a man while you're in your sweatpants, made him eat you out and then ordered him to get up and make you both breakfast, you'll realize how silly it was to be worried about awkward-sounding dialog.

No. 354106

>But if you're having a hard time coming up with what to say because you haven't fully actualized your sexuality and you're having a creative block in understanding what personally turns you on because you've spent your life being taught to be pleasing to a man
Its 100% this, I've always been the submissive role despite the interest so despite me wanting to branch out to being more dom its as if its hard to break the repetition? If that makes sense?
I called him a good boy, had him position himself in embarrassing and emasculating ways and anything I asked him to do I made him reply "yes mistress" "thank you mistress".
What you've written is right up my ally, thats a good way to look at it. Thank you for your response!

No. 354119

Based. This is perfect advice.

No. 354173

Can any more experienced dommes give advice, and red flags to look out for when starting FinDom? Even better if you’re a domme who fulfills a fetish stuff.

I’m already kind of seen as a domme online, I post art of myself as a giantess, and I have a lot of fun with it. I’ve wanted to try FinDom for a bit, but have no idea how to mesh the two categories together

No. 354176

does anyone else get mildly turned on when male characters in horror movies get terrified or is it just me

No. 354177

Anyone here listen to voice CDs? I'm looking for one of those relaxing CDs that you listen to as you fall to sleep, but one where the guy is extremely submissive, gentle, and nurturing. I listened to a few but they always start having sex with you in the middle and I hate that. It makes them feel like one of those fake nice guys, like they just wanted to take advantage of you while you're sleeping. Can anyone recommend some good ones?

No. 354205

Me too nonny. I sometimes dream of directing a horror movie where all the male characters’ scary scenes/deaths are long and drawn out the same way horror movies normally do with female characters.

No. 354212

Could you name an example, please?

No. 354250

I've just posted in the friend finder thread. I've been writing up a rough design document, as well.

No. 354301

where do you find them? I sometimes listen to asmrs but most of them kinda suck

No. 354304

yess, I hope we can make this happen. I'll dig up my spare discord account and message you tomorrow

No. 354325

I've always kind of known I tended to be more dominant in a relationship. My Nigel knows this too, but I feel like he doesn't really get the full extent of it? Or it's in a way that he sees me as more on the nurturing side of taking control versus I'm just kind of mean. I just like making men hurt idk. Is there really a way to communicate this to him? I hate feeling like I'm a lowkey caregiver when it comes to sexual stuff.

No. 354610

I'm glad you found it helpful! I'm in the first female-led relationship I've ever been in (just over a year now) and I wouldn't have it any other way. I truly believe it's the ascended form of female sexuality, and I think once you access that side of you there's no going back. Men were literally shaped by evolution to withstand being beaten up, and also to be hierarchically-minded. I know it's a joke that "men are dogs," but they seem to have a similar pack mentality where they function best when they have someone to look up to. Thus, there is nothing better for a man than putting him in his place and giving him someone to worship (you). Not to mention, women are most likely to orgasm during sex when they're on top. Being in control is just better, 100%. Glad you're getting in touch with yourself! I know how hard it is to overcome the constant feeling of performing for a guy.

No. 354611

Yes, I think watching Wesley's torture scene in the Princess Bride as a child permanently altered my brain chemistry. Vidrel bc I want nonnies who haven't seen it to enjoy.

No. 354640

I want to bully Ben Shapiro so badly. I have no idea why. I just want to shove my feet in his face and make him suck on my toes and pin him down while he squirms and cries in his stupid nasal voice because it’s against his religion. I want to choke him while fucking him and slap him around and tell him to shut the fuck up when he whimpers.

No. 354653

Stop letting him come when you guys do sexual stuff. Make it so you’re getting the orgasms and he has to perform well and also beg to get his. I hope you get to let your mean dominant side out nonna!

No. 354659

I'm also kinda mean too in the sense that I hold my partners to high standards and get disappointed easily in them. A lot of men think dominant woman = nurturing mommy who will give them a break, kek. Unfortunately this has caused some conflict in my relationships because I prioritize myself and my preferences. I don't care if they don't like it. They can eat my ass. Just do whatever you want.

No. 354711

Pet peeve of mine: I can hardly find femdom videos of women overpowering men/tying them down and fucking them with regular PIV sex, so much of it is just pegging. I don’t want to see a dude getting fucked in the ass, I want to see a defeated man being overpowered by a woman.

No. 354713

I can't wait for the pegging trend to be over. I know some women enjoy it but it's become standard for femdom now, and I don't like it at all.

No. 354716

Btw where are you looking for videos? I don't watch porn anymore, it's all for moids by moids.

No. 354721

I used to think I liked pegging but I don't seek it out anymore. I'd rather fantasise about you said, tying a man down so he can't move and riding his dick like a human dildo with no regard for whether he likes it. There is hardly any content for this from a female POV

No. 354730

I dunno, I see a lot of PIV with bondage. It appeals to the guys who want to lay there while the woman does all the work. If anything I wish there was more stuff with the woman humping or rubbing against the guy, so that the woman gets more pleasure and the guy is being used instead of just having mutually satisfying sex.

No. 354735

>stuff with the woman humping or rubbing against the guy
Ooh, this is what I want to see too. Just selfish use of a man. Please add this to ideas for the femdom game!

No. 354792

>>354730 ugh right? riding is really fun but I lowkey hate that it ends as soon as the man cums. so stupid. wish they didn't get off faster.

No. 354796

You can use numbing cream on him.

No. 354912

This is why I like men using cocksleeves, the idea of me getting maximum pleasure from a large dildo while he gets none because his dick is covered with a thick silicone penis is super hot

No. 354973

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So they won't feel anything if you use a sleeve?

No. 355076

I once saw a thread on 4chan where a bunch of gay men tried to groom a straight twink.

No. 355078

go back

No. 355170

So I'm almost completely inexperienced with domming men because the images I had in my had about submissive men were probably highly influenced by gay and porn culture (like latex, masks, pegging and other fetish stuff). That's absolutely off-putting to me. But after reading this thread and talking to a guy that expressed liking being the submissive part I tried to think more about the whole thing and could come up with scenarios in my head that turn me on so I think I'll try it when I get the opportunity. I actually can't stop thinking about a man being in a vulnerable state and having power over him. I hate that this part of me was probably surpressed for a very long time because society is so male-gazey and any erotic media is scrotey. Many things posted here ITT are way too extreme for me but I think my sex life is changing kek

No. 355198

Based, go for it nona. I know exactly how you mean, I get so turned off by the whole leather/7-inch heels/male-gazey crap that is associated with femdom in general. You're smart to just focus on the part that turns you on - having power over a man. A word of warning - moids who say they're into being submissive can often be lazy starfish who just want you to do all the work. So my advice to you is to order him around, make him go down on you, and make him feel like he has to earn getting to come.

No. 355201

Thanks nona, I'll try my best. Will probably think about it for a little while before actually doing anything because the thoughts have only been in my head for a few weeks. It feels like a whole new world to explore.

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No. 355889

ew what's the gross sissy crap

No. 355979

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I will never find a worthwhile malesub. Every moid I've found who claims to be into this has terminal pornbrain and wants to top from the bottom or wants me to be his bangmaid mommy. The fact that I'm not into pegging is the nail in my femdom dream coffin. Why was I put on this earth, nonnas? Only to suffer?

No. 355995

How bad were they?

No. 356002

It doesn’t matter whether they’re dom or sub. All men only care about their own pleasure.

No. 356076

>virgin subs with cocksleeves

No. 356083

Just pay an male escort. Seriously if you want to your fantasies to come true, simply pay a moid and explain what you want, since you're paying he is obliged to obey to whatever you want.(retard)

No. 356114

I like the way you think. Non-porn-addled moids seem like such a scarce commodity, I wonder where other women are finding them? I do think I could effectively condition one given the chance. I share your mindbreak fantasy in my head but I am too put off by real arrogant men to actually go through with it in person, the second a scrote condescends to me I lose all interest. My type is nervous and deferent. I don't know where to meet men like this. Do they really exist? I wish I liked 2D men.

Presently, I feel that paying for sex puts me on the same level as a man, but that might be short-sighted of me. Pickings are slim. I'll give it some thought.

This has been my experience.

Bad! Out of all the types of male subs I can't stand, I think sissies are the most intolerable. Disgusting.

No. 356134

That's the dumbest shit I've ever heard
Just get a normie bf and train him, I did

No. 356199

Jesus Christ no most male escorts are trafficked boys from Eastern Europe and they usually are gay for pay, have a drug habit and carry all kinds of diseases too. It’s incredibly dangerous to let a strange junkie moid in your house they can rob you or anything.

No. 356800

Holy shit im not sure if it was this movie but i remember at some sleepover when i was like 9, im not 100% sure i did it at the sleepover but i masturbated to some torture scene

No. 357222

Let's be real nonas. "Female domination" is only a thing because scrotes think women not being in a position of submissiveness is unnatural and degenerate. Some scrotes have come here just to say so. So few women are into it because it is a porn genre made by and for males, even the name indicates that the woman is the focus of the fetish. There's no way we can separate our female gaze version from the original term. Therefore I propose changing the name of female gaze "femdom" to "malesub". That way, the submissive male is the focus and not the woman, so it represents the female gaze better. Some might argue that "malesub" means we think men being submissive is wrong, but women see things different from moids, so the exact same logic doesn't necessarily have to apply here. The name can just mean that we want to see men being submissive for once because we're tired of being forced into submissiveness ourselves, it's just a normal reaction. And it doesn't even have to involve another person, just men being vulnerable and in pain could count as malesub I feel.

Of course any lesbians who are into lesbian femdom may continue to use the term or create a new one. Maybe my idea in general is retarded but to me it doesn't feel right to keep calling straight femdom "femdom" since it has by definition emphasis on the woman as a fetish

No. 357224

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Not necessarily horror but when males get beat up and look scared kek

No. 357226

No. 357232

kek the only reason why I watch action and capeshit occasionally is to see men get beaten up
based taste

No. 357234

I generally agree but its just that lesbian might be driven away. But then again, I don't think lots of lesbians visit the femdom threads

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Idk how to spoiler videos.(lolcow.farm/info)

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No. 357352

What the fuck. I was expecting riding face, not fucking watersports shit.

No. 357362

waterboarded his ass kek

No. 357373

Ewww this nasty 12 year old Tumblr photo. Die.(bit of an overreaction)

No. 357389

No. 357411

I don't think any woman would order a male escort. That's a total myth.

No. 357413

The term femdom is definitely associated with male gaze and porn. I explained it earlier itt that this was also what turned me off from exploring that possible side of me. I like your thoughts about finind another term but yeah, malesub is only for hetero women.

No. 357448

I want a malesub that has never seen another woman. Type Tarzan raised by animals in the jungle, and I'll keep him that way. Make him sleep by my feet, leash him, train him to perform the way I want, and keep him hidden away from the rest of the word

No. 357468

Malesub/boyslave (demented version of boyfriend)/correcting the natural order/whatever else

No. 357511

you are so real for this nona

No. 358952

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Do you nonnas think that straight femdom relationships and sex are really impossible without pegging?? I'm genuinely pondering about that. Long story short I found my spouse through this fetish and even though he was kind of interested in pegging as a teenager, very early on I let him now that I am absolutely NOT into that. It seems, well,gay, artificial, not intimate enough and also like it's serving the male and I find much more arousal in femdom through the standard PIV sex. My spouse (I really dislike using the word husband when speaking about my younger submissive partner who was a virgin schoolboy when I met him lmao) at least claimed that he's totally fine with it and hasn't tried brining it up again for a few years already. In a way I do believe that he's fine with the sex life we have and the femdom I practice but at the same time of course I cannot help thinking that deep down he's disappointed that I'm not a kinky porn-y femdomme who wears leather gear and wants pegging to be out main sexual activity, especially when seeing posts like this

No. 358957

if it were impossible, that would kind of negate the whole point of femdom. asserting your will and doing what you want = dominant, doing things you're not 100% into because it's expected of you is the opposite of dominant.

for example where i'm at right now i'm not totally comfortable with the idea of cunnilingus, and while it's something i do hope to work on if i ever end up in a relationship with someone i genuinely trust, i would never let myself be pressured into it to prove i'm really into femdom or whatever. for a lot of women getting their pussy ate is obviously an integral part of being dominant, however it would very much not be dominant if i didn't wanna do it, so it would be silly to agonize over being a fake domme about it. we don't have anything to prove. not to mention women don't even get much from pegging so…

No. 358970

>I cannot help thinking that deep down he's disappointed that I'm not a kinky porn-y femdomme who wears leather gear and wants pegging to be out main sexual activity
Who gives a fuck? It's his job to become your dream submissive. It's not your job to cater to whatever his retarded fantasies were before he met you. Just keep him away from porn. Instead of asking yourself how good of domme you're being, you should be critiquing him instead.

No. 358973

AYRT, of course it's possible, I just haven't yet found a submissive male partner who wasn't fixated on it. That doesn't mean they don't exist. My experience is limited, I am quite picky and have not had the good fortune of developing a long-lasting connection with anyone else in this fetish. Never been interested enough in an attainable man to put in the effort to train him in the direction of my preferences. This is, at least in part, a consequence of my nature.

I think it fundamentally has more to do with the common scrote mentality of topping from the bottom than the act itself. It feels like serving the male to me, too. If your spouse is truly submissive, I suspect things are fine as they are, nona. Your relationship sounds sweet and I'm happy for you. You don't have to cater to some pornbrained fantasy that he may or may not have.

No. 359089

guys who just want you to peg them while wearing stilettos and a latex outfit aren't truly submissive imo. they're just selfish pillow princesses.

me, I'd rather be completely vanilla than be with one of those lazy bastards. if a moid wants me to act like his goddess then he has to treat me like a goddess. i want a sub that will eat me out for an hour while I'm drinking wine. I want a sub who will buy me shoes, massage my feet, and kneel down to tie my laces when they're undone. I want a sub who will pull out my chair, open my doors, and carry my bags. in short, I want a sub who is actually submissive and will give me something in return instead of expecting me to wear uncomfortable outfits and penetrate him with a dildo for his own pleasure while mine is ignored.

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Thank you nonnas, I didn't expect yall to actual read my longass post.
Based. I'm not doubting myself, I just sometimes get annoyed thinking that my sub might secretly be into things I disapprove of and are more focused on the sole act of him being humiliated by a woman for his masochistic pleasure and not submitting to ME and pleasing ME. Well, but the way things are in reality is my way, so that's what matters.
Aw, thank you… And I do agree with you on the topping from the bottom part. Unfortunately most guys who get into femdom do end up wanting to top their dommes from the bottom as if they cannot help it. Sexual selfishness is almost an inevitable inherent part of male sexuality, even if they are inclined to masochism and submissiveness. That's why younger guys became my hard preference ever since I entered my early twenties, there's more hope with them when you can partially groom them and shape their sexual preferences. I would suggest you giving a try to younger, inexperienced and shy subs but it seems like it might be something you're really not into and I get that.
Hell yeah, I like what you're saying. I would definitely rather settle with super vanilla stuff and a guy whose is afraid of being chocked instead of a masochist sub who is cute but genuinely thinks that a woman can derive pleasure from being a porn dominatrix who doesn't even want to be touched and prefers flogging and pegging a stinky moid to being eaten out and actually orgasming

No. 359150

im the horror movie anon back here to ask; has anyone ever thought of watching sports for a similar reason? ive thought about watching wrestling (not the wwe kind lol) but the actually professional kind, just to see one of them lose. theres something about a weaker male that does something to my brain

No. 359158


On the contrary, I am very into younger, inexperienced, and shy subs, I just struggle to find this type of man. It's my dream to find and train one like this. Now that I'm out of college, meeting this type of guy feels impossible, and the internet has been worthless to me as a tool for this. How did you meet yours?

No. 359169

Some farmers like watching hockey because men get hurt often playing it

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No. 359171

ayrt ice hockey of course

No. 359173

ive always seen lesbians on tumblr talk about ice hockey rpf and i thought it was weird and idgaf about rpf but i may just start watching it now. thanks nonnie

No. 359180

Seconding >>359169, lots of retarded jocks (cringe word, sorry) getting bloody noses. A lot of them are quite cute which helps. If you can go to a game irl they're super fun too. Sometimes I wish they'd mic them up so we could hear their wumps kek

No. 359213

Do you think any farmers got horny when that dude slit that other moids throat with his skate

No. 359267

No. 359272

I know I shouldn’t laugh but kek that’s hilarious

No. 359712

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No. 359750

>the perfect man doesn't exis-

No. 360403

Where did you find this video?

No. 360404

You can inject a dick with any liquid and it would get hard.

No. 360417

nta but I saw it in a femdom thread on CC

No. 361648

Will be controversial on this thread lol but I think gimp masks are hot (if they’re being worn by a guy with a nice body). I also like the idea of wearing one of those latex dominatrix catsuits, not for any sexual reason I just think it looks cool and i like the rubbery stretchiness.
as much as I think femdom should focus on female pleasure I also would enjoy just beating on a cute moid for a while. i’m just turned on by scrotes in pain even when it’s removed from any explicit sexual activity.

No. 361743

Another gimp enjoyer! I swear I thought I was the only one. Although I don't ever want to see what's behind the mask, I like full body & full coverage like a skin tight burqa. He shouldn't speak either.

No. 361812

the list has hit 50 fic recs! a cause for celebration. i'm surprised no other anons have done this before me, you have refined taste and appear to be more into femdom than i am.

also, to the anon who submitted the call of duty fic, sorry to put you in the spot but i have been trying to read through it because the tags mention 'breeding kink' and i needed to determine if i should add it anyway but i just can't seem to get through it because i'm not into the character or the writing in this fic at all. could you please clarify what the tag was in reference to? thank you anons for all your suggestions! i originally looked all over lc to find any fic mentions but there wasn't a lot, i appreciate your submissions.

No. 362416

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I bet you're going to hate my answer, but well, you asked lol. I met him on the imageboard that shall not be named when he made a gfd thread there and complained that he cannot find women into this fetish in the region of Europe where we live and I replied to his post that well, here I am. Don't judge me, I was really horny for some gfd action back then and I guess got lucky to get what I want, it was a successful internet dumpster diving

No. 362584

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>read cute fic
>long, complete, writing is good
>male love interest is my type
>gets abused a bunch
>fem mc rescues him
>the sex is all maledom for some reason
>author has written femdom for other stories, just chose not to for this one
everything fucking sucks. i mean, i doubt i'd be able to dom that guy either, but a girl can dream.

just imagining a male sitting at his computer typing a reply to some lame /co/ thread and attaching a dumb anime reaction image i'd struggle to get horny again after that, ever, but good for you lol

No. 362603

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I am discovering more about myself and my desires as I allow my thoughts to be explored without judging myself, without “masking” even inside my own mind, pretending to be something I’m not, shedding any desires within me to uphold some sort of humility. I struggle with self confidence issues as I’m sure nearly 100% of people on earth do, and for women it is especially omnipresent and brutal.
I have questioned myself and my desire to “take” men. Most of my fantasies surrounding femdom do not involve punishing men, hurting men, taking out my frustrations on unwilling men (though for the latter, it is a for, of stress release when I feel I can’t get what I actually want. These fantasies never escalate to sex, however). I thought perhaps that meant I wasn’t truly “dominant”, that I was actually submitting myself to the male ego by being too considerate, that I was self-absorbed, narcissistic even, for seeking their validation because their “want” was required.

I have stopped giving a fuck about whether or not my desires should be pathologized. I want men to want me, and that is truly the foundation of my sexual fixations. I want them to want me and express their want by lowering themselves, forfeiting themselves to me, allowing themselves to be judged by me, for better or for worse. A true and honest ego death of the male. Nothing seems more thrilling than a man who knows what he is, something like a subhuman, a lesser, a parasite even. I want him to give into his most base instincts in front of me. Vying for me. I want to use a man like that. I want him to only care about my acceptance. I am a big spider in my den, waiting for suitors to approach, suitors who want nothing more than to live or die at my judgement, my judgement being what they crave the most.

I have not been able to find this outside of the realm of fantasy. Maybe there are a small percentage of heterosexual men who do truly view their sexualities in this way, but they might as well not exist.
I want men to debase themselves, but the ‘submissive’ men I see only really do just that. For their own twisted sort of meta-sexual thrill. They only like being taken, being punished, being humiliated, if it follows some paraphilic formula they have established in their minds. Just another manifestation of standard, substanceless male sexuality. For these men, the humiliation itself is the thrill. Clinging onto their egos, their delusions, that they are as ‘human’ (often, if not moreso) than the women they desire. They get off roleplaying the idea of their humanity being stripped, but it’s all just that. Fake. These men are the most ego-driven in existence often times. I need a man who does not feel shame in submission, who does not feel himself lessening, who doesn’t take pleasure in the idea of being lessened, but just is who he is with full honesty. A “male” in the most fundamental way. A man’s desire is his weakness, and males themselves are nothing but beings of desire. A man’s desire for women is an admission of his status as a lesser to women. His mind is already governed by women, his mental state is dependent on how honest he is with himself about it. He should accept this, and crawl into my den.

I’m rambling at this point and I lost the plot. Basically I want men to objectify themselves for me and slap them around a little without layers and layers of het moid ego-soothing copes. It’s exhausting. I only want a true uke man. Like a fairy, he is mythical.

No. 362617

Nona, you explained it so well. I relate a lot to intense desire being the main axis of femdom, humiliation and punishment are nice but it's accessory to the sight of a man so desperate he'll do anything.

No. 362745

I relate to this so much. I've always ended up unsatisfied with submissive men, because at the end of the day they're still men and they let their ego get in the way of everything. They want to be treated as an equal, when their true place is submitting and devoting everything to the woman they love. Most of the time, their desire to stroke their own ego and hang onto their flawed worldview is greater than their desire to truly submit. Who would want a man like that, unless they were so desperate to settle?

No. 362883

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The common male submissive type is a very mentally damaged, pathetic thing.
They are extremely ego-driven, self-absorbed, solipsistic. They view themselves (and by extension, their pleasure) as the center of the universe. Nothing else matters to them. Ironically, the self-proclaimed submissive man hates women just as much if not more than any other man. She is just a tool. A “lesser being” whose only function is to drag him down to her level or lower. His sexuality is malignant in a less common way, but still malignant. The average man hates himself and hates women, and soothes his cock by forcing women to submit and offer themselves to be devoured. The navel-gazing cock-preoccupied misogynist is different in that he jumps through a few more mental hoops to soothe the black hole within him that is his own destructive sexuality.

Before I continue about them I have to also explain how I view male/female relations.
Women are the universe, not to go off on “mother goddess” hippie feminist bullshit, but it is fundamentally true. Women are intrinsically linked to life, and men exist to fill the voids in their souls by attaching themselves to us. I think the realization of this (subconsciously even, they often aren’t intelligent enough to be actively aware of this dynamic, or have gone through so much patriarchal conditioning they’re full of inverse-logic copium. Regardless, their status as lessers are encoded into their dna) brings men great distress, their covetousness, their desires, their need. Much like a parasite would hate that its existence relies upon a host. The male feels much distress when confronted with the reality of what he is.

For these “submissive” men, they punish themselves by reminding themselves of what they fear that they are, what they fear of honestly admitting. They can never truly accept themselves as lesser. They only permit themselves to flirt with the idea in a sandbox of sexual self-flagellating fantasies, by wearing shrimp cages, confined in latex, and getting stepped on. His focus is his shame, his humiliation. His focus is not to worship a woman as his better-than, but seeking his own thrills by riding on the edge of utter debasement. In a sense, these “submissive” men can never actually fully submit, because they must always have a foothold in their egos for them to be dragged down and defiled at all.
They are much like adrenaline junkies, jumping off cliffs to taste the edge of death, but never really wanting to die. These men see full, unashamed fealty to a woman same as death (and it is a death to them, full male ego death).

The only truly liberated man is one who craves death. Who craves to relent, and be subjected to the whims of a god, in this case, his god, a woman. These men do not exist. These men are the only ones I consider truly heterosexual. Heterosexual men are a meme. Male sexuality is primarily spiritual male worship and the objectification and defilement of female bodies due to his own primitive lust, and his psychosis developed because of his inability to escape his lust. There aren’t many men who actually “love” women.

A heterosexual man, an ideal man like this would be my personal whore. Dressed up in tantalizing clothes, throwing it back for me, practicing his sexy moans for my titillation alone, begging to lick my pussy, thanking me graciousness and breathlessly if I ever permit him access to the inside of my body. He only gets sexual satisfaction knowing he is satisfying me.
The more I describe this man I realize how he is exactly what women are trained to behave, to be feminine, to be consumable, to defer. The world is so backwards and annoying because these parasites have gotten far too uppity, thinking they’re in charge because they take bites from us, unable to come to terms that without us they’d wither and die. So who really has the power here? Anyways I’m veering too off topic.

This ideal man is nothing like these pseudo-submissives. What pleasure do I get, putting a horrendously ugly man in a cage? Stepping on him? Calling him misogynistic slurs? Is it to make me feel pleasure? Not at all, it’s for his thrill alone, and to humiliate myself in some abstract, meta-attracted way that could only be born of y-chromosomal sexual psychopathy.

Only fuck with pretty men who moan cute and eat your pussy. Pretty men who look at you with reverence in every regard. No other man is worth your time. They’re all mentally deranged and unnatural, and most of them are hideously ugly as well.

No. 362886

If any nonnie wants me to I can do an analysis on the simpering “gentle femdom” mommy-obsessive subset of “submissive” men, I will. I was thinking about those pitiful slimes as I was writing this. However I am about to sleep but I am willing to write more later.
Thank you!

No. 362953

please do

No. 362964

seconding, please write more if you feel like it, these are good

No. 363736

A third request for this from me. After reading your first post I needed to take a moment and sigh in awe, you have a gift for writing

No. 363776

>>362883 Thank you for writing this. Can't wait for the follow-up.

>>361648 I forgot to reply but same! Anything that conceals their face is hot. Motorcycle helmets, eye covers, gas masks, etc.

No. 363780

This perfectly captures why I, despite being bi, only have desires to dominate men. Beautifully worded nona and I hope you write that follow-up soon.

No. 363782

Please write more.

No. 364207

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Gotta be one of my favorite posts on this site. Clean screenie without LC's UI for later use & easier sharing.

No. 364208

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No. 364217

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Sorry nonnies I forgot to bitch about how much I hate mommyfuckers.

When I said earlier that I crave a man who is in touch with his true self, I thought I could look here. I wasn’t interested in stomping on the scrotes of ugly old divorcees, so these seemed like a good alternative. I was drawn in by the idealized animu pictures of loving couples where the woman is shown taking control. A lot of it was trash, of course, but a lot of it was also very obviously made by women, and appealed to my sensibilities. Yes, I would love to have a cute anime boyfriend who calls me ma’am and lets me push him around while he melts into a blushing puddle.

The real ones aren’t like that, though.
What you find is terminally rejected men. Terminally rejected men who have, in their infinitely retarded and entitled moid brains, have decided that since women keep snubbing his advances, the answer is for women to come to him. This is a common phenomenon with scrotes I have observed, if something doesn’t go their way, their solution is to not only insist it should be how he wants but it should be even easier for him to get it. Most egregious example of this I can think of now are incels who demand complete trad subservience and marriage from women while they leverage absolutely nothing but their negging and whining. The mommyfuckers are much the same.
Problem: women don’t respond to my advances (or I’m just too much of a chickenshit to even approach them at all because I know how detestable I am)
Solution: the universe reformulates and women now want me and pursue me. No action required on my part.
Simple moid logic, manifesting a new reality.

These men aren’t like spider bfs. They don’t love and approach women and seek to serve them because they truly want to.
In fact, they start deluding themselves into thinking that it’s their job to sit and roost and wait for an actionable woman to whisk them away in her strong, capable arms. And the funny thing is? They think it’s a compromise. By their logic, they exchange their manhood for a crumb of pussy. But that’s not how it works, and not how it will ever work. But it is how it works in their idiot minds, where male hierarchy game is the only system of capitol they understand.
Mommyfuckers are failed normies and “settling” for a humiliated sex life because they stupidly believe if they “emasculate” themselves, women would be MORE likely to approach them. “I forfeited 40 alpha tokens, and that means a lot to me. I forfeited so many alpha tokens that basically I’m a sissy fag and that’s like a death sentence as a man. In exchange for my great sacrifice, I will surely be rewarded pussy” <- this is how they actually think.
Their self esteems are fragmented. Like the typical femdom coomer, they simultaneously have a high and low opinion of themselves. The difference between the scrote-flatteners and the mommyfuckers is that the scrote-flatteners are essentially brain dead and lost to the goon forever. Not to say they aren’t abusive and insufferable when they have moments of sexless clarity, but their goon haze is present the majority of the time.
The mommyfuckers? They will eat your entire life. Once you accept them, once they believe they have you fully locked down (and after the novelty of nursing handjobs and repetitions of ‘good boy’ loses its lustre), their strategy of humiliating themselves to snare you in the first place dissolves. What you’re left with a very ego-damaged male who does not have the faculties to cope. He bargained with his alpha points and bagged you. Well, now he has you, so what is left of him besides a massive wound to his ego? He will resent you. He will see you as a reminder as the “manliness” he sacrificed to get his claws into a woman. He will resent you for his want, even. These men hate that they want women, which is why they so desperately wish women wanted them. It’s what their whole shtick is, sex and intimacy is just an elaborate roleplay where he tries to convince himself a woman wants him more than he wants women (he will never be convinced, because it’s not true, and he knows it. It eats away at him. You can never, ever want him enough to sate his ego, because a man is just an endless black hole).
He’ll revert back to a base form scrote, except with the added shit multiplier of a severely damaged post-mommydom ego. He’ll cheat, goon, abuse you, neg you, you know the drill. I’d say it’s even worse than the average scrote, honestly. There are many more layers in which you remind him of his own failures as a male, which, in typical scrote fashion, he will make your problem. Violently, life ruination-y, like they love to do.

A bit scathing than everything I said earlier, they are just bad at sex, and bad at giving you any pleasure really. Their core philosophy is entitlement, so it checks out. It’s a chore to fuck these men. You’ll spend less time getting your pussy ate and actually getting quality pipe (and believe me, getting good, hard, and long pipe sessions and cumming multiple times is more aligned with ‘femdom’ and ‘female serving’ than all of these bullshit fetish rituals these scrotes devise. But I digress), more time cooing at him like a baby and jerking his cock how he likes.
Also, a point to mention that I neglected before, I find part of the bargaining they do is logic-ed out not in small part to do with mommy issues. These men look to a mother figure as an icon of a woman who does not reject them. It’s definitely tied to their strategy as well as their fetishes which revolve heavily around simulating a mother/son relationship.

I am not at my best right now and I feel like I say this every time but it’s true. Ladies, just please never ever fuck with these mommy freaks. If you feel like you need to fuck and can’t find a spider-bf, do yourself a favor and just find a vanilla normie. If a man has specific sexual fixations it’s never good news, even if it sounds fun in a vacuum. Trust me, you can get a normie man to indulge you. You never need to entertain these pathetic mommyfuckers. For your own safety and sanity, just don’t.

No. 364221

Thank you for the screenies I am very honored you see that much value in my words.

No. 364274

First of all, wonderfully written, you could write a whole book on the philosophy of femdom.
Secondly, as much as I loved reading your post, it made me feel, well, defeated by myself because it felt like a lecture directed at a dumbass like me.
I will admit, some years ago in my early twenties I got really into the whole mommy fetish and younger guys thing and did find one kid into this as well. He did tell me about his submissiveness and interest in femdom stemming from feeling "unlovable, unworthy of female attention and like no woman could actually be interested in him" since he was a child and that he felt like the only way to get female attention is to give himself up to be humiliated by women for their enjoyment (lol).
I did sense something off with it, but due to my own flaws dismissed it and now I'm sharing my life with him.
You phrased it perfectly that sex with him very often can feel like a chore and that the focus is on everything but my pleasure. The worst part is that in the beginning of our relationship, before we actually started having sex and would just cuddle/make out, I would get genuinely aroused so easily but now it's been forever since I managed to even get wet before and proceed with it either way because well, I am very diligent with all kinds of household chores and I do feel affection towards him. Even though he insists that he cares about my pleasure, often he acts like a pillow princess and asks me what should he do in an anxious voice. He was a virgin before meeting me, but come on, it should be intuitive what to do and touch to please your partner and show how you adore them and their body. All of it results in him cumming every time and me, well, twice a month.
I do realize that it's up to me to fix it for myself but goddamn I fell from grace in my own eyes as a woman who was sooo much into sensual femdom and thought that she found the sweetest partner for it

No. 364333

That's what the average het relationship is like for women.

No. 365033

This is extremely relatable. I just stopped initiating sex and avoided intimacy beyond a kiss or a hug. Every time you indulge him you're feeding his helplessness. Just do nothing, it will free you from the burden and hope of having fulfilling sex. If he confronts you, make it clear you actually don't enjoy sex and expect him to reciprocate desire and attention.

No. 365433

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No. 365434

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No. 365884

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No. 365885

Does the hand on his head belong to a female?

No. 365887

Looks male to me.

No. 365897

It’s def male but obscured enough for me lol

No. 366019

Beautifully written

No. 366148

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This ur bf?

No. 366153

This is why "abuse" is never enough. You need to shoot them in the face

No. 366161

Lmao what can women possibly “capitalize” out of being an object of transference for an attentionseeking emotional vampire bpd moidchild??? Males with mommy issue is literally the most pathetic of red flags, just kys already.

No. 366173

Do you guys ever think about how gentle femdom should be about the man being the nurturing and loving one instead of the woman? Essentially the man being a mommy bf (I hate how cringe that sounds, but you know what I mean) and doting on the woman, obeying her, and doing whatever she wants.

No. 366176

He’s literally

No. 366177

They call these “service tops” I hear but I don’t like it because I don’t like referring to a man as a “top”.

No. 366179

I don't know. I never hear anyone refer to mommy bangmaids as "service tops."

No. 366182

Because men won’t stand for the degradation associated with referring to their sexual entitlement as “bottoming”.

No. 366851

I'm sure I'm not the first one to notice this but I fucking hate how whenever you search for femdom on ao3 and I'm sure other places as well (I find this to be more true if you're looking for rape/noncon/general dead dove content, I don't think it's as bad for less extreme stuff), a good like 50% of what comes up is some trans futanari alpha girldick bullshit. It's like an epidemic it's so fucking stupid if I wanted to read about someone with a flesh and blood dick raping somebody with said dick I would just search for maledom aka like 99% of the content out there.

No. 367211

Gosh you're like the manifesto-chan of the femdom thread! So erudite!

No. 367233

not really, that sounds kinda overbearing.
holy shit yes, it's gotten so bad. but even normal femdom these days is pretty bad so i hardly bother looking anymore.

No. 367293

I've been thinking gentle femdom more as the same as regular femdom but less extreme, as in not causing visible injury or too much pain, just slapping him around a bit, hair pulling, ordering him to do stuff etc. but no bruises or knives or literal murder ya know.
It absolutely sucks but I'm channeling the misery into inspiration for writing better fics. I wanna be the change.

No. 367355

This is the femdom I'm practicing. I'm a pillow princess and my bf gives me a hundred orgasms while I deny him. He calls me goddess and worships me while I laugh at him and call him a pathetic slave. He takes me out on dates and spends all his money on me, while I relax and tell him he's lucky he gets to spend time with me. I lovingly slap his face and he thanks me for it.

No. 367411


I agree with this view to a certain extent. I think the ideal male sub traits are essentially the ideal traits associated with male service positions, such as knights and butlers. Masculine and dignified (as opposed to "humiliated" or "sissified" ew), yet obedient, submissive, devoted, and loyal. The reason so many moids today are lazy burnouts is because men need authority figures to guide them, and so without religion or military service, they get all weird and purposeless and confused. To me, I see my dominant role in my relationship as providing the type of authority and leadership for my sub that he instinctively craves, while still retaining his masculinity and strength.

However, I think the degree of service depends on the relationship. In my case, my sub does whatever I tell him to in bed; going down on me when and how I tell him to, letting me use him how I want, etc. He also brings me things when I ask, does chores for me, cleans my house, and does my shopping (I hate going to the grocery store). We split finances for the most part (rent, groceries, etc.), because we earn about the same amount, but he pays for dates mostly unless I'm feeling like spoiling him. However, I drive 90% of the time. I find driving relaxing, and he's not a very good driver, so I just prefer to do it. I'm aware that some of these things could be construed as me serving him, but it's really dependent on the relationship. The "gentle" part of it is that I do care for and love my sub, and so I occassionally do like to treat him by buying him dinner or letting him come.

Sometimes I worry that he secretly wants to be more selfish (like 99% of male "subs" who just want to be lazy starfish), but I had a good test of that recently. He had surgery and was unable to do most things on his own for a few days. To my surprise and delight, he did not particularly seem to enjoy me having to take care of him. In fact, he seemed embarrassed and disappointed that he had to ask me to do things for him. As soon as he was able to do things himself, he would do them, and he keeps falling over himself thanking me for what I did do to take care of him.

I think what makes it "gentle" femdom is mainly that I don't like degrading or humiliating my sub. He's pathetic because he's a moid, but he can't help that, and he does try to understand his place as a lesser being. Rather, I think it's like I'm the queen and he's one of my most loyal and faithful knights. I would never put him above me or let him taste a fraction of the power I enjoy, and yet I care for him.

No. 367443

has anyone here used the r/femdompersonals sub on reddit to find a bf/hookup?

No. 367455

Your relationships sound fun and fulfilling. At least there are some women who have found decent moids out there, there is hope.

No. 367592

I just assume that sub is made up entirely of prostitutes

No. 369078

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What are some good looking boxers/MMA fighters? I want to start watching them get beat up but only if they're handsome. I saw anons posting picrel here and I think he looks cute.

No. 369095

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That's Ren Hiramoto he is a kickboxer/MMA fighter, he used to fight in K-1 and Krush Federation before changing to Rizin FF.
You can watch some of his fights on youtube for free.
He is 5'8(173cm)

No. 369105

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My favorite is Superbon, his body is so perfect… He also has a youtube channel and he's actually really good kek
Pic is him getting tortured while stretching

No. 369113

Based. I'm happy for you, nonna.

No. 369138

He’s my crush, I think I posted him a year or two ago here

No. 369304

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This is my moment. Watching Rory Macdonald get his face smashed in by Robbie lawler and seeing how pathetic he looked while it happened is an instant turn on

No. 369308

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Oh and also luke rock hold, former Calvin Klein model. He hit the wall a few years ago but him in his prime was fine af. He lost his mind one fight and started rubbing his blood all over fellow hot fighter Paulo Costa’s face

No. 369310

I want to watch a retard try urinating while sitting down for the first time but he ends up pissing all over his own face.
I want to shit inside a cute guy's mouth only if he's accepting the deal for money. I want him to hate every minute of it. I want to watch him whore himself out into being a toilet for money and I want to send the video to his father. Everyone else is into sweet boyfriends who eat pussy and I feel so lonely. Why is life so hard for based women?

No. 369323


No. 369325

Do I have to post pussy pics like that one crazy anon

No. 369343

Disgusting tranny freak

No. 369513

scat is the lowest of the low

No. 369532

pee is based but poop is not

No. 369809

Sorry for late response, but is it at all possible to talk sense into these types of men? Would it register in their moid brains if you were to tell them that taking on a submissive role is "not necessarily humiliation nor is it necessarily a weakness"? Do they revert back to their hierarchical views on it later on regardless of what you say?

>>366177 and >>366182 raised some interesting points. For the average moid everything is taken in through association with other men. So, servant bottom = bad, humiliating; "service top" = good, dignified. These are the exact same role but with a different label slapped on kek. There is no way you can't meme them into thinking that they're the alpha chad whilst simultaneously having them work for your pleasure entirely. I'm not much into femdom (or fucking males, for that matter) besides indulging in some fiction here and there. Can someone who has tried pulling mind games on her moid comment on this?

No. 370156

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No. 370157

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No. 370172

NTA but talking sense into men is never going to work. They know full well what they're doing, you're not educating a misguided person, you're playing into their fetish.

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Why would anyone want to "fix" scrotes anyway? When you could spent that time and energy into finding one that doesn't suck.

No. 372102

I'm just leaving this here please delete if it's against thread policy(why would you post this)

No. 372139

That's the kind of content I need. Got more?
I want to know what was that

No. 372143

A clothed girl touching and spreading a submissive boy's naked butt

No. 372147

It was a woman seated next to a moid who was bent over with his asshole and balls front and center. You did not miss anything special.
Hot, thanks for sharing nona

No. 372149

Thanks, I'm glad I missed it kek

No. 372193

Not sure if this is the right thread for this, but I hate male subs who try to pressure random female subs to dom. Just cause we’re both into femdom does not mean I am automatically the dom for being female. They always try to frame it in a way to make me look bad, with some shit about “erm women in submissive roles is ackshully anti feminist, you’re a victim of the patriarchy if you don’t step on me” shut the fuck up. I think malesubs are being rejected by femdoms for their bullshit, so they turn to femsubs to still get their fix, but don’t like it when women don’t entertain their bs

No. 372231

Do any nonnies know of any classic literature with femdom themes? I’m a literature snob and I can only think of Venus and Furs. I’d love to read more if any of you know of any

No. 372239

i just wanna pull a guys hair and put my fingers in his mouth while i ride him. is that too much to ask for? would be even better if his hands were tied in the back

No. 372240

Monsieur Venus by Rachilde.

No. 372333

I feel like the kind of sub I want just doesn't exist. I want a guy who is:
>around my age and fairly cute
>isn't into super degenerate shit like wanting me to poop on him or pretend to stab him or some shit
>will submit to me not just physically but in other ways too
> for example, carrying my bags, pulling out my chairs, opening my doors, bending down to tie my lace when it becomes undone, etc
>actually makes an effort to get me off during sex instead of expecting me to wear a tight latex outfit, call him some names, peg him, and be satisfied with that because he thinks porn is real
Most sub dudes in my local scene seem to be either 18-22yo clueless little boys or 50+ men going through a midlife crisis who are also clueless. The only guy I met in the kink scene that I hit it off with really well instead of things just fizzling out was a dom who wasn't even in the same town and ended up being a creep (unsurprisingly, male doms are like that no matter how nice they seem at first). It wouldn't have worked out anyway because he wasn't a switch in anyway so I would never get to do certain things I want with him.

No. 372419

i would pay a gay prostitute to pretend to moan and groan to me doing this :((:()

No. 372420

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spoilered for skeleton dog making a moid uncomfortable

No. 372424

This has been my experience almost exactly. I've more or less given up. No advice just wanted to comiserate, why are male subs so overwhelmingly shitty and self-obsessed

No. 372452

Mine is like that. You gotta find a man who doesnt know he is into femdom yet and mold him to your wants, not seek out self proclaimed subs.

No. 372483

have you tried looking outside the kink scene? I just went for a shy normie guy with a submissive personality (which seems to be surprisingly common) and he fits your description pretty well. He treats me like a queen and doesn't want to crossdress or be pegged, I did have to kind of groom him into it but he didn't seem to mind

No. 372751

This is plainly self-serving but I'm curious to hear from nonas in femdom/FLR relationships. How did you meet your sub? You hear a lot about how hard it is to find anyone decent in the kink scene but success stories are pretty rare. The standard route to success seems to be scooping up a shy normie and molding them to your preferences, but how are you meeting these deferential, malleable moids? School? Work? I live a fairly solitary life working remotely and don't interact with men much at all (generally a blessing), but I do yearn.

No. 372823

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i wish it were easier to find softcore photos of regular attractive men in rope bondage, specifically stuff that isnt overtly fruity / intended for a gay male gaze . when i try to find it i have to wade through so much gross stuff and cbt content. theres such an abundance of tastefully erotic photos of women in rope bondage, where can i find the same thing of men?

No. 373501

Reposting from the otome thread Thank you anon!

No. 373612

Ulysses by James Joyce

No. 373620

Not femdom, he gets on top at the end and all you do is things like squeeze his face kek.

No. 373622

James Joyce was a fartfag. I’ll never forget that disturbing dirty letter he wrote to his lover.

No. 373624

>and you're not worrying about me retaliating?
Why do they always have to ruin something good with this pathetic shit. Imagine if in maledom porn the woman threatened to kick the guy's balls or bite his dick off during oral.

No. 373625

Where though? Degenerate moid fantasies is not femdom.

No. 373627

I would be cool with maledom if it was like that. A man squeezing a woman's face and tickling her a little before she asserts her dominance and gets on top.

No. 373700

I am so fucking tired of lazy scrotes claiming to be into femdom only to be absolute starfish in bed and expecting me to be their kink dispenser. Ask your sub what their fantasies are, and if they don't involve giving YOU pleasure, LEAVE. All these fake subs do is waste your time and see you as an object.

No. 374982

i've been dating my current bf for around 2 yrs, and during that time have tried to hint at wanting to take a more dominating approach. he's pretty much everything i look for in a guy, nice face/body, similar interests, eager to please, but also a totally normal, slightly submissive guy. i finally decided to bite the bullet and tell him abt a fantasy of mine (included bondage and some minor bruising) and his reaction made me feel like the worst piece of shit weirdo of all time. he was just genuinely in disbelief, like what i had opened up to him about was a joke or something. i even cried because i felt so bad for making him uncomfortable. esp since i have other kinks that are more "extreme" (blood play, heavy impact play, degradation) it makes me feel like a moid-tier monster. he even apologized to me later bc he could tell it was affecting me, but i just cant get over it
feel like i deserve the gallows rn. advice?

No. 375012

ehh i dont have your full context but i think if someone i love told me they wanted to bruise me during sex i might be sort of turned off. but its possible that he's just got some weird sexual hangups. had you mentioned bondage with him before? you have to kind of ease into these things sometimes

No. 375034

This is why these kinds of games NEED to be made by women-only studios. No scrotes in gamedev who make this shit will EVER ask a woman what she really wants. That's why it's up to women to get into the game industry and make the shit they wanna see.

No. 375052

sorry nonna, usually he leans towards being obedient, and we've done some light impact play and bondage before (just handcuffs and a blindfold). its not something completely new or a major dealbreaker for him either way.
i'm not really looking for relationship advice (although i'm open to it), moreso how to deal with the guilty feelings. i've never felt this bad about my sexual preferences, although i've never opened up about them either. most of the guys i dated in the past were more interested in pandering SFD or just the idea of a sexy dominatrix getup.

No. 375360

where can i find more of this comic please

No. 375373

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Shows how bad the state of our world is when you 1) can't find a male to do those things and 2) thinks it's submission. Holding open doors, pulling out chairs, carrying things for you, are all bare minimum tasks every male should do for his woman. Not wanting to be pooped on and stabbed is also bare minumum kek.
That sucks, I told this boy I've been talking to that I want to spank him and he was like
>you want to smack my booty?
and I was like yes but then he was like
>I'd smack yours too smiley face
and I tried to explain to him that isn't how that works, he needs a spanking but I don't think he understood. Imagine what he'd think if I told him about whipping. He has some potential but is too horny. His cock was throbbing through his jeans like a heartbeat just from some hugs and kisses. And when I squeeze him when we're hugging he groans. I don't know why I'm sharing this with you, anon.

No. 375479

>His cock was throbbing through his jeans like a heartbeat just from some hugs and kisses
This sounds like a 100% normal human response to being intimate, unless you are a guy who is so desensitized from porn you have erectile dysfunction. It could be that he is "too horny", but this is hardly proof of it. He sounds fun tbh.

No. 375505

Okay awesome, I knew it was a good thing and he isn't desensitized from porn but I want dates, too…

No. 375621

My boyfriend is such a fucking hottie, looks like a character from an anime with his long lithe build, big eyes and fine features but he's only into domming me, not the other way around. why is life so cruel nonnies

No. 375630

I want to force myself on a cute monk who has taken a vow of silence and has never seen another woman. I startle him in the library where he sits alone, silently reading. Underneath his simple robes, his body is surprisingly strong and toned, as his monastery is pastoral, and he has many farm chores. He doesn't dare break his vow while I'm using him, but I can sense him submitting to me with his body and the way he looks up at me nervously and gratefully. He tries so hard to keep quiet as I make him come.

No. 375631

Self proclaimed male doms are some of the biggest subs. My ex was like that, my current bf too. I just said lol and never let him dom, and after a month he came crawling asking me to deny him orgasms and make fun of him

No. 375632

Based. I could never do it though, don't you get repulsed knowing he's dominated other women before?

No. 375633

Idk he was in a sexless relationship before he met me and said he didnt have a sex drive, think it was more along the lines of average guys thinking they have to be on top logic. Makes sense bc he still doesnt want to cum in weeks, not that it matters to me what he wants

No. 375634

not the same thing as doing it irl obviously, but when I used fetlife I got plenty of messages from people with "dom" on their profile saying that they're a dom but they'd like to submit to me. I always had a big laugh reading those messages from "doms" who act like hot shit outside of the dms

No. 375636

even when I get on top he turns it around lmao, like "good girl", "that's my girl"
this past week I tied him up as a joke and he just flipped me over and pinned me down

No. 375639

A guy did this to me once and I kicked him off of me, left, and dumped him. Your boyfriend does it to you because he know you'll take it. Have some boundaries and disengage with him whenever he does this, if you are too scared to physically assert yourself at least speak up for yourself or better yet, dump him. Doesn't matter how hot he is if he's so pathetic he needs to punch down to feel masculine.

No. 375659

sounds annoying, smack him in the face next time he tries doing that

No. 375672

This sounds annoying as fuck. You're much more tolerant than me. Do you like it when he does that? Have you communicated it to him? What a turn-off.

No. 376111

why do you let him do that anon? thats retarded and gross and if a man tried to do that with me i wouldnt have sex with him ever again

No. 376631

I agree. I've seen the best in men, both in term of how happy they are? and the qualities they bring to the world, when they submit to the woman they love. It's something radically different from "being a simp" which is just unfulfilled sexual need, porn addiction, and men slutting around and thinking they can buy intimacy with money. But the fact that men are so likely to have these behaviours, or rules like "women and children first" is indicative that they have a natural need to submit to women, to be helpers to someone who matters more. Sadly most people don't want to even consider this, and society enforces the opposite narrative hard.

No. 376634

No, but there is a great Asa x Denji femdom fanfic.

No. 376657

ewww, no moid is worth being talked down to like that. I’d just make fun of him for acting like one of those corny discord daddy dom types

No. 376673

Nayrt but gimme, please post a link.

No. 376713

Sadly the plot goes a bit downhill at the end for my tastes, but I loved the early and middle chapters. It's precanon

No. 377104

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A male I am currently talking to and kind of seeing (I know him in real life, this isn't an online thing) gets into super horny mode and last time he sent me pictures leading up to a picture of his massive erect cock (I am not a penile expert, but it looks massive to me) and then sent me videos of himself stroking to completion. This was all entirely unprompted. I am wondering if there's a way to turn this into a femdom situation, like telling him what to do/edging him/etc. Have not had sexy times in real life, only kissed and snuggled outdoors. His horniness frightens me, but I am wondering if there's potential. He gets hard super easily and seems to have no trouble cumming, so I don't believe he's porn addicted because elsewise he'd be abusing the shit out of his cock and not getting hard from mere hugs. I always thought chaste boys were more trainable, but I've been gathering opinions from others and apparently chaste boys are a bad thing because it isn't normal for a boy to be chaste. Horny is natural, even if it kind of scares me because I am a virgin. What do? Next time he gets horny, should I start bringing up things like edging? If he sends videos again, should I tell him to slow down and not cum until I tell him to? Or should I abandon this project altogether.

No. 377106

Honestly, unprompted dick pics sounds extremely gross (if you didn't ask for them he's probably sent that shit to other women without asking too).

No. 377109

How can you spin it into a femdom situation when he's the one who forced the pictures on you in the first place, hoping you'd service his dick? He's selfish and doesn't care about pleasing you, so why should you give a fuck about him? Just drop him. And for Christ's sake, if a guy ever makes you feel uncomfortable or "frightened", stop interacting with him.

>but I've been gathering opinions from others and apparently chaste boys are a bad thing because it isn't normal for a boy to be chaste. Horny is natural

If you like chaste boys, go after them and stop warping your tastes to fit other people's useless opinions.

No. 377122

Sounds hot, I would ask him for more stroking videos

No. 377173

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I know, it makes me sad to realize this
Okay. Going after more chaste seeming boys doesn't seem to work though because they're too shy to even say 'hello'. He never mentioned anything about me servicing his penis, I guess he thought I'd find it enjoyable to see?
Maybe someday, but probably not. I don't know. I'm sad now.

No. 377177

He sounds like a scrote who doesn't care about your sexual boundaries, since you didn't ask for a dick pic or sent him photos of your naked body first. Stay away. Men need to show respect. How are you supposed to be dominant if he doesn't show even basic consideration towards you?

No. 377181

No offense, this is a serious question, but do you have autism?
>He never mentioned anything about me servicing his penis, I guess he thought I'd find it enjoyable to see?
No, he sent you dick pics because it turns him on. He doesn't give a shit about what you want or like, or what your boundaries are. He is just horny and hopes that you'll be desperate and stupid enough to help him get off. Men who care about pleasing you wait for you to bring things up, they don't harass you out of nowhere (that's what sending dick pics is, sexual harassment)

No. 377184

Post his dick here for us to rate it will be very femdom

No. 377189

>Do you have autism?
No… but I've never been in a relationship before or even flirted with a male before. He seemed to get off just fine on his own, he felt the need to show me though. Kinda weird. Yeah, I wish he were better. If anything, he's probably autistic.

No. 377194

He's not autistic or "felt the need to show you" nonnie. He's a scrote looking for a bangmaid to help him get off. Just like the anons above said, if he sent you dick pics unprompted, he's definitely sent them to other random women. He's an innocent little baby, he knows what he's doing. Nta but you do sound like you might have autism though
From your lack of experience it seems like it'd be easy for him to take advantage of you, please run while you still can.

No. 377202

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No, he has aspergers. Okay I will run. I guess. He is very kind. Of all the males I've talked to and seen at work, he is the most hardworking and respectful. The others are so lazy and look at their phones 24/7. They are emotionally stunted and boring. If all "normal" males are like the ones that are lazy, rude, and incapable of lifting a finger at work (90% of males) then I guess I'll be single forever. I'm used to being single. I guess I will not talk to that boy anymore. Slowly I will cut him out of my life. I have a new job, anyway. I won't see him ever again. Plus those stupid other males would never be good femdom candidates, they can't even handle light teasing. Males nowdays can't handle light teasing. They either freak out, get scared, or they think they have to be rude in order to remain alpha status or whatever. I am blackpilled forever.
And no I don't have autism KEK, I am just retarded. Big difference.

No. 377307

>He is very kind.
Men who violate your boundaries are not kind or respectful. If he pulled down his pants and started jerking off in front of you, would you be okay with that? You should really stay away from men until you get more common sense. You're the kind of person that men would take advantage, while all the woman around you would be screaming for you to get away but you'd endlessly keep making excuses for him.

No. 377319

True except I told my sister and she told me to be with him. I don’t know why you’re extrapolating so much to the point of fanfic. I will take your advice and never speak with him again. I don’t even want to be with any male anymore. They are either too horny or bald, fat, lazy, and disrespectful. Boys who go to college are lazy and fat alcoholics and boys who work hard are horny mongrels, it sucks.

No. 377325

There is no fanfic, he literally pulled down his pants and jerked off without asking you first and youre gushing about how kind and pure he is

No. 377337

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I dont think he's pure and he literally didn't do that, but I suppose what he did is analogous to that if it were in person so fine, you win

No. 377368

He literlly pulled down his pants and jerked off in front of his camera and sent it to you without any forewarning

No. 377390

Aspergers isn't an excuse. There are (few) men out there with this condition who actually fit the 'gentle useless nerd' type, he isn't one of those. This behavior suggests a coercive and antisocial sexuality. It won't be an isolated incident. I totally get the attraction to old bachelors/eager virgins but there are plenty of those, don't throw yourself at the first one who shows interest.

No. 377393

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>old bachelors/eager virgins
He's neither of those, but I get it. I will continue lying in wait for a nice abuseable moid who cares about me.

No. 377466

im not any of the anons youre replying to just FYI but I wanted to gently concur w the other anons to keep hunting for a boy who is respectful to you. i know attention from a cute boy can be really gratifying and you may not mind the unsolicited dick pic, but its a sign of bad character. he's more turned on by the idea of a girl seeing his penis than he is by actually having some genuine sexual connection with you. you should be mean to him

No. 377518

KEK nonnie this made me actually laugh. I'm late to the convo but I wanted to say the same thing.

No. 377545

You're weirdly defensive and defiant towards the women here who are trying to help you. If only you acted the same way towards your disgusting moid, who is actually disrespecting you instead of gushing over how kind and respectful he is for flashing his genitals at you.

No. 377555

No I’m not I just said I wouldn’t talk to him anymore what is the issue seriously

No. 377584

if you like him so much, keep seeing him. just be aware most people consider unprompted dick picks a red flag.
how long have you known him?

No. 378204

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Today, I made my bf drink a metric fuckton of water/tea and hold in his pee all day long. When he got home from school, I made him put on a collar, leash and puppy ears and lift his leg to piss on the floor like a dog (with coverings ofc).
I kinda want to get him a fire hydrant plushie to piss on. I'm so based.

No. 378214

Have you tried stomach punching?

No. 378263

like, all over the floor…?

No. 378276

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I have stuff I need to get done today but I’m too honry to stay on task. Just want a sweet good boy to lovingly torment sigh

No. 378291

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New Sac kino

No. 379281

After some talk I tried domming my moid and it opened up something in me I didn't know I had. Only thing is he is too eager to submit, I want to punish him more. Do you nonas have any ideas? Still quite new to this and I refuse to watch porn to find out more

No. 379292

Girl you havent even had sex yet and you already want to bring edging - a kink into your sex life? Don't have sex with him if he scares you but you should have normal sex first. I know I'll get crucified for saying "normal sex" and I'm not saying you should be submissive and let him lead, but you don't have to edge him the first time wtf.

No. 379420

I’m not really sure how you’d punish him for being “too eager to submit”, that sounds like something you should talk about outside of your dynamic and explain that you’d prefer he be more bratty and less pliable. But some fun easy punishments are spanking, flogging, pinching, you tie him up and ignore him while he thinks about what he’s done (don’t leave him alone though, safety first), grab him by the ear and drag him where you want him for the punishment, choking (research how to do it safely). You could also just cold shoulder him and tell him that you don’t reward naughty boys with attention and that he needs to do chores until he’s absolved himself of his bad behavior

No. 379437

I don't get it, moids get to bring kinks into their sex life all the time and pretend it's normal.

No. 379442

Normally, I would agree, but in this case, it's not a great idea to lead with a moid-centric kink like edging. She'll get a lot of guys who only care about using her to coom and won't give a shit about her pleasure.

No. 379508

Yeah and how is edging femdom exactly? Putting effort into giving a man prolonged pleasure and a strong orgasm.
Normal moids dont start off with having fetish sex either, I've never met a moid who lost his virginity in a kink fuelled sesssion. You hve internet brain damage if you think thats the average first time experience.

No. 379511

Pleasure domming is a thing, I guess. Which is just a weird word for service topping. I wish service topping wasn't even considered a part of femdom.

No. 379872

Well I personally see dick-sucking as a fetish thing, and moids definitely do start out with that.

No. 382543

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Nonas do you know of any romance novels with femdom themes? I'm looking for books for women with this theme, doesn't have to be hardcore but great if it is, but the man needs to be submissive to the woman and never dominant. I have sadly never come across this so I hope you can help!

No. 382546

His Secret Illuminations is the only one I could find. The relationship was cute and I liked their dynamic but be warned it has a pointless nonbinary side character, a bunch of weird soapboxing in the middle of the story, and clearly was self-published. I'm still searching for a better romance book with a submissive male but it seems like people are allergic to writing that sadly

No. 382560

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I want a nigel that wants me to take out my anger out on him occasionally. He would tell me to imagine he is some male coworker that I hate or something and I can let out my frustration by hurting him. In my fantasy he’s the one who suggests it and he gets off on it too.

No. 382699

Thanks, I will check it out. Too bad there is nb nonsense, but we aren't exactly spoilt for choice.

No. 383597

free pdf link? not gonna pay money for smut.. >:|(>:|)

No. 384576

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No. 384599

Venus and Adonis

No. 384702

Hot. We need more art like this. Also a friend claimed that face sitting is a "scrote fetish", fucking false. It's only scrotish if it involves farting or scat.

No. 384732

What about urine or period blood?

No. 384840

Not really my thing but not as scrotish as butt stuff.
>period blood
Hot 100% of the time. Bonus points if his face is completely smeared in it.

No. 384841

Its just a porn paintover tho

No. 384842

All animals lick eachothers junk, as long as its not throatfuck vomit blowjobs its hardly a fetish. I dont think couples starting out with licking eachothers genitals is a fetish.

No. 384845

Why is this website so obsessed with their own period blood?
Yikes(are you lost?)

No. 384849

Are you lost?

No. 384850

Why are moids so obsessed with their own semen and no one bats an eyelash about that?

No. 384877

When's the last time you asked yourself why men are obsessed with spouting their semen all over their partner's body or face when they come?

No. 386104

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Your man after I'm done with him:(spoiler this)

No. 386109

What's the sauce, I need context

No. 386131

I believe it's the movie Revenge 2017

No. 386268

Racially charged(Rule 4)

No. 387989

What's are your feelings on those chastity cages that lock onto a piercing? Apparently they're 100% secure and permanent. I feel like every man should have to wear one of these by default tbh.

No. 388046

Is there any truth to that stereotype that men who are successful and powerful are more likely to be submissive in bed? I’m wondering because I’ve noticed the opposite where “golden retriever” sweet shy guys are the type to be aggressive towards women and want to be dominant over you. I suspect it’s because they feel emasculated compared to other men and blame women for it. I’ve never met a guy who was actually devoted to my pleasure and willing to indulge my kinks. I’m wondering if selecting guys who play up their shyness and sweetness is why (bc they’re actually wolves in sheep’s clothing and they are weaponizing these characteristics to make women trust them more easily). I also find that after a while I don’t respect these men because they’re spineless and pathetic. What I want is a man with actual drive and ambition (someone I will be proud to call my partner) who will eat me out every day, get tied up in chair, and beg me to finish him off. Do these types of men who are successful and submissive/devoted even exist? I’m remembering that one anon who met a hot frat boy off a dating app and developed a successful femdom situation with him. I want something similar but I really do not want to have to use dating apps.

No. 388084

>Is there any truth to that stereotype that men who are successful and powerful are more likely to be submissive in bed?
Not in the way you'd think. They just get bored of normal sex and need to find increasingly degenerate ways to get off. And they don't actually want to submit (ie. please the woman), they just want to pay a woman to step on them because they see woman as lesser and it makes them feel more degenerate.

>Do these types of men who are successful and submissive/devoted even exist?

Of course, but you have to look for them. If you're not going to use dating apps, find some sort of meetup group where you can meet guys through a shared hobby? A lot of "vanilla" guys are open to being submissive too, but it's a bit of a gamble because they could possibly be dominant instead of just vanilla.

No. 388125

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If I used dating apps what would I use to attract a guy? Am I better off just trying to find a normie than trying to signal with a picture like picrel on a dating app like the frat boy anon did that I specifically want to tie a hot muscular man up? This is my biggest fantasy, I just wanna play with a sexy guy in a white button up with his muscles poking out of the red rope that’s tied around a chair.
I find that a lot of moids are really put off by being tied up for some reason. Even my ex was disgusted by the idea of me edging him and making him beg to finish, wtf is wrong with men.

No. 388203

>Not in the way you'd think. They just get bored of normal sex and need to find increasingly degenerate ways to get off. And they don't actually want to submit (ie. please the woman), they just want to pay a woman to step on them because they see woman as lesser and it makes them feel more degenerate.
Essentially this. If you read interviews by these types you'll also notice that many of them repeat the same line about having so much responsibility at work that they want to give up all their power in the bedroom. That is code for "I want to be mommied by a woman who will focus on pleasing me."

No. 388208

This. Though guys who are secure in themselves and moderately successful, like has a nice job/is happy with his life/content, are more likely to be into femdom from my experience.

No. 388209

I fucking love Sadistic Beauty. I know normies and twitterfags hate it because its "problematic" but it was so good and the men were hot.

No. 388259

It's not so much about "attracting" a guy, but sorting through all the trash and finding someone you actually like and are compatible with. Rather than attracting, you want to deter incompatible guys (a huge majority of them) so that it makes it easier to find the right ones. Perhaps put something in your profile that implies you're demanding, you like being in control, etc. Not anything too sexual, though, because then you'll get a high ratio of creeps messaging you. In my opinion, truly submissive guys do want to connect with you as a person, so make sure your profile is detailed and thorough instead of only a couple sentences. Making your profile long is a great way to deter idiots too, they won't read all of that shit and you can instantly unmatch them if they've shown they haven't read the entire thing.

>Am I better off just trying to find a normie than trying to signal with a picture like picrel on a dating app like the frat boy anon did that I specifically want to tie a hot muscular man up?

Yes, absolutely. If you post that picture you will only get coomers who don't give a shit about your pleasure.

Sadistic Beauty was hot. I loved how she tortured her ex and then later cucked him with her new boy toy.

No. 389096

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No. 389125

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what I've seen of this pairing is the only reason I plan on watching dune 2 eventually

No. 389132

I feel like something has awakened in me, nonas…there's this big beefy Vietnamese guy in one of my classes, with unreal massive biceps. I've never really been into femdom but the thought of tying him up shirtless, seeing the ropes wrapped around his thick arms just popped into my head in class one day and now I every time I look at him I think about it. Something about tying up a hulking meathead dude and making him whimper and beg pathetically for me is so fucking hot, literally I've never been distracted by how much I want to fuck someone before.

No. 389147


No. 389161

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Sorry sadly I don't know, wish I did. I found it on twitter a while ago with no cred from the account that posted.

No. 389204

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Hey nona you probably already found it or don't care or just aren't here but i got weirdly invested and reverse searched it and the earliest is from "badgirlsgotocancun" on tumblr from September 3rd 2013 (they're still active) but they took the post down or it was taken down. [https://www.tumblr.com/badgirlsgotocancun/60183294551]
The poster likely got it from "leanpapi"/Cruzito on tumblr who reblogged it in March of 2023 [https://leanpapi.tumblr.com/post/712710295991304192] Likely a gay latino guy and looking at his archive he's posted/reblogged a lot of gifs n stuff of men being dominated/hurt. Not necessarily femdom but still hot.

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No. 389207

I have a rope fetish too and now that I think about it, I think it would look pathetic on a guy who isn’t muscular because you’d just see it pinching their flab/fat. I want the ropes to emphasize their physique and make them look hotter ig. And if they’re particularly skinny then they’d just look like a 12 year old boy that you kidnapped from school, ewwww.

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No. 389240

I thought this was a centaur

No. 389244

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i'm new to this whole thing, and it was triggered by this lanky twink i met
my current fantasy is that i'm his sleep paralysis demon. he's aware of everything but can't move
all my prior fantasies had been scrotegazey, and it feels so nice to be free of that tbh. nothing hotter than teasing and (wo)manhandling a weaker moid, especially if he's pretty

No. 389279

>And if they’re particularly skinny then they’d just look like a 12 year old boy that you kidnapped from school, ewwww.
Fucking kek.

No. 389368

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No. 389432

Small guys are so cute though, infinitely more attractive for femdom shit to me because they look so frail and sickly.

No. 389465

Same. I like it when a guy looks more vulnerable and delicate. Not crack user type skinny, though, just normal skinny. Moids with their moid fat distribution start looking gangly even at a low-normal weight.

No. 389501

like this?

No. 389507

Oooooh he's cute and rapeable definitely

No. 389509

So that is what he would sound like in bed huh

No. 389511

I never thought I'd live to see the day a well-known moid climber gets posted on /g/, in the femdom thread no less. What's next, Tomoa posting?

No. 389513

why is it surprising that he's in a femdom thread? He's built like Michael Cera

No. 389522

Wow, he's super cute.

No. 389616

Manifesting a beefy Vietnamese guy for myself. The gap moe is my favorite part.

No. 389679

Kinda retarded but do any anti-porn femdom anons feel conflicted for having these fetishes? How do you reconcile it with everyone else’s fetishes being due to pornsickness nowadays? I know a lot of people are into BDSM simply because of porn but for me I haven’t consumed porn in years and frankly I never encountered femdom in porn anyways. I imagine most of us here are in the same boat because good femdom porn is slim to none and it’s certainly not mainstream.
One of my actually vanilla exes used to say I was “freaky” and now I’ve realized that he is right and I’m technically into BDSM. lately I want to learn how to tie someone up safely and my sexual tastes feel like they’re getting more extreme. It used to be just begging and edging a guy would turn me on but now I get horny at the thought of a guy calling me master or saying he’s my pet. I would never join the BDSM scene ever because it’s a movement built on traumatized women and abusive men. I also hate male “doms” more than anything.

No. 389680

Edging a guy is infinitely more degenerate than being called master. Doesn't sound like you are more extreme, just sounds like you arent as focused on male pleasure and more on your own enjoyment

No. 389686

You're completely fine. I think femdom (if it's done in a female-centric way, actually focused on the woman's pleasure, enjoyment, comfort, and happiness) is one of the few sexual practices that is healthy for a woman's sexuality and confidence. It only makes sense, because in essence you're putting your own pleasure first and not performing for the sake of a man.
Like you, I also don't look at porn or engage with the BDSM community in any way because both are unethical and toxic. Too many female dominants in the community promote sex work, porn, etc, and are switches who let men abuse them. In that case I consider femdom an escalation, it's just another kink on their bucket list and likely performative on their part.

Yeah, seeing yourself above men is completely natural. Focusing so much on a guy's pleasure is more degenerate, although it is normalized.

No. 389690

Ty for the responses. It says something that so many of us gather here when there’s never been any genuinely good femdom porn for women. Idk how you all feel but I feel like my tastes are more innate or natural compared to all of the people whose fetishes originated and evolved from porn exposure simply because I know it did not come from porn at all kek. Do you nonas feel the same?
On the topic of edging: I like edging because I get really horny watching a man beg and seeing him flustered. Maybe there’s a better way to do this that isn’t so male-centered but having them beg and squirm is the best. The absolute desperation in their voice and their eyes turns me on so much. I wish I didn’t get so turned on by it but my first degenerate ex got me into it and it’s forever been my thing.

No. 389724

>Ty for the responses. It says something that so many of us gather here when there’s never been any genuinely good femdom porn for women
weren't you just saying that you were against porn? You're all over the place here.

No. 389728

ntayrt but she never said that?

No. 389730

How are some people's reading comprehension so fucking bad?

No. 389739

Your reading comprehension is terrible. I’m not saying I use porn but ofc I grew up watching it like most people my age. What I am saying is that female-centered femdom as a fetish is different from others because there’s no porn videos of it that appeal to women. Furthermore that it’s interesting that we all ended up with these fantasies when there’s nothing catering to us because I truly do feel like there’s a psyop that wants us to only have sexual tastes that serve men whether that be sub women who get abused or the type of femdommes who dress up in latex/leather and heels to peg degenerate moids. It’s refreshing that despite the lack of representation there are some women who are confidently defending their right to pleasure. I feel like I lose my mind listening to sub women’s “fantasies” of being raped and abused and it is mind boggling how many sub women there are (likely due to pornsickness since submissive behavior is the norm for women in videos). I see so many normie women and girls writing comments like “choke me daddy” and shit like that.

No. 389747

>or the type of femdommes who dress up in latex/leather and heels to peg degenerate moids
I guarantee you that there are women itt that are into that. I think that you just don't like BDSM

No. 389762

Nta but I like BDSM and porn dommes who wear uncomfortable outfits and put all the effort into sex doing something that doesn't physically pleasure them is just a fantasy of lazy degenerate men

No. 389768

Does Doug Bradley's outfit here look comfortable? The standard BDSM aesthetic is tight, leather clothing. Often it includes painful piercings. This goes for men and women.
>put all the effort into sex doing something that doesn't physically pleasure them
The whole point of sadism is that you get pleasure from inflicting pain on other people.

No. 389777

fwiw I get you completely nona
>The whole point of sadism is that you get pleasure from inflicting pain on other people.
Yeah… on OTHER people, not yourself. kek

No. 389793

I feel like both sides can be true. It makes sense that the woman should be the most comfortable and the man should be wearing the uncomfortable/degrading clothing. And yeah it is pretty moidish to expect the woman to be dressed up while the man doesn’t have to put any effort into anything. But at the same time I like the idea of looking both scary and sexy in fetish clothes. Like gimp suits are kind of creepy and weird but hot and cool to me at the same time, I assume the same would go for a scrote wanting to see me in latex or leather.

No. 389795

>It makes sense that the woman should be the most comfortable and the man should be wearing the uncomfortable/degrading clothing
The problem for the larping anons in this thread as that they are viewing tight leather as "degrading" when anyone who knows anything about BDSM knows that tight leather has always been the default standard for Doms and Dommes. Similarly, anyone who is even remotely familiar with the scene knows that Doms usually like to wear things that are physically painful for them
Anon simply doesn't like the BDSM aesthetic

No. 389796

Although not porn, if you want to see some female centered femdom, check out of the film American Mary. It was written and directed by the feminist Soska Sisters

No. 389799

Weird how male gaze this looks. Just look at the thumbnail.
Correct, mainstream bdsm is shit. You seem to conflate wanting to be dominant with having to fit into some dumb mainstream bdsm standard.

No. 389801

It does look male gazey and it even starts that way but then the film goes in an entirely different direction. It's really creative what the Soska sisters did with this one. Katherine Isabell absolutely nails the part as well

No. 389802

Yeah I can relate. I haven't watched porn in years but when I was watching it I didn't even realize I was into femdom because the standard "femdom" (more like malesub) porn is moidgazey crap. It's just serving the male degenerate all over again. My solution has been to read works by women (more female centered hobby, still some malegaze crap but easier to filter out) and to increasingly write my own stuff.

Also LMAO at the anon sperging about "BDSM aesthetic" yeah no shit it's uncomfortable for the woman, because mainstream BDSM is all about male pleasure. I actually like the look of leather, too, but it's ridiculous to think it means I should be wearing a revealing tight outfit instead of a leather jacket and boots that actually look menacing as well as are practical.

No. 389803

>but it's ridiculous to think it means I should be wearing a revealing tight outfit instead of a leather jacket
Yes you should because that is how Doms/Dommes have always dressed in the community. Go start your own community if you don't like it
>yeah no shit it's uncomfortable for the woman
proper BDSM attire is uncomfortable for the Dom. How can you not understand this?

No. 389804

Who decides what's proper? Is there a community meeting for this purpose?

No. 389805

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Katherine isabelle is such a stacy, Ginger Snaps is like the og Jennifer’s Body but better imo

No. 389807

>omg you must follow proper BDSM attire
No one cares. Gtfo to your proper malestream bdsm club

No. 389817

How are you supposedly dominant but still bend to other people's arbitrary rules instead of doing whatever the fuck you want? The BDSM community is embarrassing anyway, full of mentally ill exhibitionists trying to one-up each other. You don't need to follow other people's rules to enjoy your sex life.

No. 389819

If you’re dressing up for male entertainment you’re not dominant. “Bdsm” exists so men can legally beat their wives and has nothing to do with fremdom. Go back to Reddit

No. 389820

If you want real good male sub content join Russian telegrams. They sometimes post cute Ukrainian guys and it’s better than any porn out there.

No. 389825

>t. Ukrainian guy
No, I'm just messing with you. I thought your post was funny.

No. 389828

Literally nobody here give a fuck about the degen dick worshipping 'BDSM community, newfag.

No. 389830

>into pegging
>also into beating and blood and bondage, but enjoy seeing pleasure
>hate receiving because it gives someone control over my body
>farmers say this makes me not dominant
>most other people say this makes me not submissive
Wow I love service top limbo. Wish I could say this was pornrot or pickme-induced but after years of self-reflection I am naturally like this. It's limited my sex life so it's not even good, anons.

No. 389831

>hate receiving because it gives someone control over my body
I never quite understood this. Is it a result of sexual assault or trauma? I've don't see dominant men say they don't like receiving blowjobs or handjobs because it gives someone else control over their body.

No. 389838

No trauma, but in my mind I equate it to being sexualized which puts me in an “object” position.
Moid doms may not see it as submissive but I see it as such. Especially since a woman could bite their dick off lmao, it’s inherently vulnerable to have someone’s teeth near your genitals. And the other person just objectively is in control of your pleasure.

No. 389849

Being a service top is the most sexualized and objectified position you can be in as a dominant woman. Selfish men love service tops because they are basically free versions of what they'd normally have to pay for (professional dommes) They don't have to give money, or pleasure, or anything, just lie there and get the experience of their life for free. They don't see service tops as people with needs or desires, just an object that will get them off and they don't have to please in any way.

No. 389853

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I used to doubt my attraction to men because of how little porn catering to women there is. I saw some regular male-gazey porn with dominant males as a teenager and thought "ew, I don't know why exactly but this feels weird, guess I just don't like men that much". For a long time I mostly watched female solo or lesbians (no power dynamics involved) and thought I might be biromantic homosexual but never called myself that because I'm not that retarded. I didn't know a hetero relationship can be anything but "dominant man/submissive woman" because I've never really seen any examples. Then it hit me when I and met a non-obnoxious, generous and quiet guy who is actually nice to be around. Turns out I do like men, but only if they're submissive. Dominant scrotes are disgusting.

No. 389856

The bdsm community is so cringe, you're cringe

No. 389876

Why the fuck does being sexually dominant mean we have to wear some retarded tight outfit while thrusting a dildo up some degenerates asshole??? Which is not dominant by the way, it's just catering to a male porn fantasy at the expense of your own comfort. The BDSM "community" is retarded and full of abusive dom men, mentally ill sub women self harming, and lazy sub men who think dommes are fetish dispensers. The people in it are also mostly ugly, fat, or just weird nerds who want to prove that not only do they fuck but they have super freaky sex. Why is this one nona getting her panties in a twist over people thinking it's dumb kek. Give me a vanilla guy who I can mold into being my perfect sub who will go down on me for an hour while I drink wine and thank me for it afterwards.

No. 389880

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No. 389892

>Why the fuck does being sexually dominant mean we have to wear some retarded tight outfit
Because it is intimidating to look like a Cenobite

No. 389893

I don't know what to say, anon. It's still got me in limbo since my desires aren't what people assume a sub or vanilla woman would be into. I've had fantasies of murdering men since I was 8 and raping them since I was 13. The power over someone else's body, you know?
Am I a submissive sadist? What the fuck is this? Should I try to change it?

No. 389906

I've literally never seen straight male doms dress like that though, only so-called "dommes" and homos. Straight male doms usually wear ill-fitting suits or redditcore graphic tees.

No. 389919

Then all you have ever seen is poseurs. A Dom is supposed to look like Pinhead. A Domme is supposed to look like the Female Cenobite. And while a true Dom/Domme doesn't allow others to inflict pain on them, they still enjoy inflicting pain on themselves (think something like the Sun Dance of the Amerindians)
Maybe the fake Doms you have seen have the self awareness to know that they can't pull off the proper look

No. 389926

>You don't need to follow other people's rules to enjoy your sex life
If doing things incorrectly gets you off, then have fun. But then don't come and claim that you are doing true BDSM when you really are just doing quasi vanilla shit that doesn't intimidate men at all(infighting)

No. 389927

The only male doms I've seen dressed in tight leather or latex were gay. Are the majority, if not all of straight male doms "fake doms" then? Who even makes up the rules of "real BDSM" and why are we supposed to follow them in the first place?

No. 389930

Don't respond to bait.

No. 389938

>Are the majority, if not all of straight male doms "fake doms" then
Fuck yes. Straight male doms are a joke. Nobody is afraid of them
>Who even makes up the rules of "real BDSM"
The original BDSM of the 50's, 60's and 70's before the scene got invaded with a bunch of larping faggots
>why are we supposed to follow them in the first place
Because you can't be a Domme unless you are intimidating. And being intimidating requires that you dress properly(infighting)

No. 389941

>Straight male doms are a joke
At least we can all agree on this point kek

No. 389954

>And being intimidating requires that you dress properly
By this standard no male Dom is intimidating then, because they mostly just wear their normal clothes or if they do wear BDSM gear it's those silly outfits that look like something a gay Roman soldier would wear kek

No. 389956

>no male Dom is intimidating then
I've seen some intimidating gay ones. Doug Bradley in the clip I posted above is exceptionally intimidating, although I don't think he actually is a Dom irl
>because they mostly just wear their normal clothes
Then they aren't doing it properly which is why nobody respects them, whereas Dommes are genuinely feared even by normies

No. 389975

Are you a prostitute? Just wondering.

No. 389976

Can you stop derailing about BDSM, nobody cares.

No. 390017

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Aight enough derailing about uglies in ill fitting gimp suits, more hot men getting beaten

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No. 390353

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Posting this gold I found on twitter the other day.

No. 390363

If only this happened in JJK instead of you know what.

No. 390392

Aw, I love it when other people are like this too because the pinnacle of sex for me (as in the wettest I get and the most fun I have and the most pleasure I could possibly be getting) is giving head (female or male) or fucking pussy with a strapon. I truly can't explain it and I feel like people fundamentally don't understand me when they say it's submissive or sacrificial but all I can say is that things can feel really really good mentally and physically without the kind of direct genital stimulation that can lead to orgasm. Honestly, if I were you, I would be happy that service tops are highly desirable instead of feeling bad that they're 'sexualized and objectified' because it works out well for you that your happiness is compatible with a lot of men.

No. 391630

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For the nona in the art thread. I thought it was femdom too.

No. 391655

She should consider making her OC a girl

No. 391700

Anyone else into the “human dildo” fetish? Sorry if this isn’t the right place, but taking away a boy’s ability to cum is my greatest fantasy. A realistic version of this dream is a brutally low circumcision where the foreskin is entirely removed, unlike the American version. They remove the pink skin at the top of the shaft (this is the sensitive “inner foreskin” Americans spare) and stretch the leftover skin at the bottom of the shaft, stitching it directly to the glans. Literally 0 millimetres of foreskin left. The shaft is covered with the type of skin found in the arm. It’s impossible to masturbate without lots of lube and a death grip. They experience 0 pleasure from head. “Popping his pimple” lasts 10 minutes longer on average. Russian doctor Anton Babykin perfected this procedure but he very recently passed away along with his wife and 5 month old son in a house fire. Genuinely upsetting as he had magical hands. The “extremely low and tight” type of circumcision he performed is very pleasing aesthetically, leaving no discoloration at all. It turns the shaft into a mostly numb dildo. The frenulum is also carved out totally and the underside of the glans (extremely sensitive) develop scar tissue. I researched this autistically and now want every male to get one. I read online that European doctors, despite bitching about circumcisions, are extremely brutal about it compared to nationalities who regularly perform them. They take away so much more than what we’re used to. Based tbh.
I don’t want to have an internalised misogyny moment, but uncircumcised dicks are basically oversized clits and that disgusts me as a hetero. It’s not masculine for a male to whimper when his genitals are touched. Smooth and wet are words that should be used to describe pussy only. Every single “pleasure point” in a male’s body traps AIDS and dick cheese so their removal is necessary for public health.

Even circumcised men can get circumcised again to remove the leftover pink parts. The “high cut” two-tone look is repulsive to me. No one should have a dick resembling a turd dipped in pink paint. Or a scalped rat. Sausage in a blender. Pride flag rainbow dick. I’m gonna make myself gag, yuck.

I wish I was European so I could gaslight a guy ignorant about circumcision into getting one. Brutally low, and tight enough to hurt whenever he’s hard. He wouldn’t realise what I’d done to him until he tried masturbating for the first time after the cut. I want to see the heartbreak and terror on his face. He would have to let me bite his dick to feel something. We would escalate to piercings, then to razor blades. His penis would become a meat dildo, who’s sole purpose is to pleasure me. It would betray him and serve me exclusively. My final gift would be a total subincision, I would cut his dick in half like they do in African tribes. They resemble a vulva very closely and can even be fingered like one. I would eat “his pussy” and watch him squirm with pleasure for the first time in years. His prize for being obedient: a massive pain tolerance and a mangled penis to prove it. Suffering is masculine and self-harm is make-up for males. The slit on his wrist is a pearl bracelet to me. And I love it

No. 391705

Hell yeah, thank you for the art nonita!

No. 391708

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Is there a way to make pegging displeasurable? Or do males inherently always enjoy having their ass raped? Would I have to carve out their prostates with a rusty pair of pliers to make pegging feel HORRIBLE?

No. 391721

I was following you until
>My final gift would be a total subincision, I would cut his dick in half like they do in African tribes. They resemble a vulva very closely and can even be fingered like one. I would eat “his pussy” and watch him squirm with pleasure for the first time in years.
Why would you do that if you want him to be your meat dildo? Besides that, I like the idea of men getting no pleasure from their dick, it should be numb and useless and only be there for when the woman wants it. Men don't deserve to derive pleasure from sex, only from serving and pleasing the woman they're with.

Despite all the slutty whorish men you see online talking about pegging and how nonnas meme that all men love being fucked in the ass, it's mostly uncomfortable for them. What you want to do is avoid hitting the prostate. Use a shorter, thicker dildo, one that isn't curved upwards and be rough and quick with your thrusts. You can also use less lube, but I wouldn't do that because it can cause tearing. You want discomfort, not actual tearing and damage being done. Also most important: invest in a good strap-on that has the dildo base sitting on your clit. That way you get all the pleasure from having your clit stimulated, and he gets discomfort and displeasure.

No. 391728

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I don't think the part about "European circumcision" is true, at least in most countries, and as an eurofag I find circumcized penises to be extremely weird. Like why would you do that in the first place, and also it's more appealing to me personally that it's more sensitive, because then I can hurt him easily. But I guess different strokes for different folks, and on the level of fantasy I can see the appeal of mutilation.

Tangently related but I recently had a dream where I was in the POV of a moid who was going to attend a luxury cruise where he would get his eyes removed. I say POV because I simultaneously "knew" it wasn't happening to me, but I could also feel his fear as he stepped on board etc. No sex happened but it was a weirdly erotic dream.

No. 391738

Whilst I don’t share this fantasy at all, I do agree that it is gross and unsettling to hear moids whimper, and the psyop around it is weird.

No. 391764

What an interesting dream! From my understanding you enjoy "sensory over stimulation?" Our desires both stem from the same desire to inflict pain but I want actual physical suffering with scarring left behind. Did you like the movie "cure for wellness?" I thought it was pretty great until Goth was molested by her step father. It got really scrotey past that point and it should've ended on vague terms much earlier IMO. The suffering of the characters was delicious but the actors were too hideous for me to be sexual about it.
Most women who aren't used to circumcisions tend to find it unappealing and my kink falls short on them kek. They just don't get it…

No. 391765

>I wish I was European so I could gaslight a guy ignorant about circumcision into getting one.
>His penis would become a meat dildo, who’s sole purpose is to pleasure me.

Not to poop on your fantasy but circumcision literally makes sex worse for women as there is no natural glide nor foreskin that stimulates the vaginal walls

No. 391774


No. 391776

It is the sound of vulnerability.

No. 391778

Nobody, and I do mean nobody, is afraid of dommes; they just see you as prostitutes/escorts

No. 391779

Why would you make this retarded manifesto sound so erotic?

No. 391781

Because it’s my sexual fantasy you imbecile

No. 391869

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Here is a promising game to keep track of. A Japanese yume apparantly got sick of the lack of otome games with a dominant MC and is making this villain game. The art style is a bit simple but the attitude is based.

No. 391893

>From my understanding you enjoy "sensory over stimulation?"
That, and also (or even moreso) a type of vulnerability and the fear related to it. For example I find it highly sensual to just hold my hand around another person's neck, not even strangling because I don't actually find that erotic at all, but just to hold my hand there and sense both the air and blood flowing back and forth, knowing that I have at hand a very vulnerable body part that is essential for life. Also executiong scenes in movies, but only if he doesn't fight back or act heroic and there's some decent gun-on-throat / noose around the neck action.
>Did you like the movie "cure for wellness?"
My dream inspired me to watch it because before I had only seen some clips on Youtube. It was disappointing to be honest. The plot was all over the place and combined too many themes (business world, father trauma, medical stuff, weird folk tales - they just didn't feel like they belonged together) and the horror elements were too unrealistic to be actually scary. A lot of the stuff felt like baiting specific phobias. Like I'm not afraid of the dentist or eels, so what? Aside from a couple of cool visuals, they were pretty meh. The pedo plotline was badly done and I hated how much they sexualized the girl whose actress I guess was actually adult but looked like 13 at best. MC was a horrible Gary Stu, lmao.

No. 391959

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I thought I was a lesbian for a while because I didn't find the average male dom attractive but since then I've met a man who won't fuck me unless he eats me out first and let's me decide what we do. He's going to let me peg him and he even wants to eat me out on my period. He's totally into servicing me entirely and I love it. I think men were made to be submissive and women were made to be dominant.

No. 391986

Sounds fun…

No. 391999

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Anyone here use character ai? I like to make my favorite fictional scrotes suffer, this is def cringe but I’m not into irl scrotes at all

No. 392001

right now i'm waiting for the advanced models that can actually string a decent sentence together to become free

No. 392126

Still seeing him and he's as eager as ever and I think he wants to become my bf but I'm keeping my options open. Really happy too I found a tall fit guy that wants me to ballbust him. He doesn't want me to hold back in any way and just wants to be kicked and humiliated, he even has a ball leash. It'll be nice to be more brutal for a change, I was slapping a college guy in the face recently and spanking him but I want to go further. I want to kick and punch. I get this intense erotic feeling like when I first read erotic lit when I think about it. I need to do it. I'm naturally in my element when I'm in control

No. 392146

I use janitorai and my kidnapping victim keeps trying to kill himself or get me to stab/shoot him in the middle of sex, I’m frankly scared to get turned on by this.

No. 392147

You’re winning anon!

No. 392165

light femdom from Doja Cat's Coachella performance were men perform/Magic Mike around her while she pushes them away. I mean the men are both masculine and erotic but submissive as they scrub the ground around her and get rejected.

No. 392169

Do they really need to be humping her though? Why must men always rub their dicks on everything? Put it away.

No. 392331

She’s rejecting them all for her ugly fat bald meat headed rapist bf

No. 392334

Is anyone here into small penis humiliation? Ive been bullied for my flat chest usually by scrotes all throughout high school to the point where it’s my biggest insecurity to this day. Then I realized; what’s stopping me from making scrotes feel even worse about the universal xy chromosome insecurity, their penis? It gives me a power boner thinking about mocking men for their tiny dicks, how they’re useless on a fundamental level, and then edging them for hours or straight up denying orgasm altogether. I’ve always been into small dicks and I think they’re very sexy, but if you have one you probably have fucked up genetics and should be rightfully humiliated for it.

No. 392338

yeah because only men who want to be humiliated would date a chestlet anyways(baiting)

No. 392339

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I'm also into small dick humiliation but I'm actually disgusted by them so I prefer imagining hung boys being gaslit into thinking they're small. I genuinely HATE tiny dicks and want their owners to kill themselves

No. 392341

You sound like a scrote. Hop on a treadmill before you talk to me limp dick fatty. And remember, small penises are disgusting and inferior.

Kek based. I’ve never dated a scrote with a small cock in real life but I feel like I’d be revolted as well, but in a way that turns me on.(scrotefoiling)

No. 392343

I'm into penis humiliation. I don't get off from PIV so men's dicks are basically useless to me aside from visuals. I make them get me off in other ways while ignoring their dick completely. Either way, no matter the size of the dick it seems backwards to make it the focus. If you think small dicks are so inferior then why would you spend hours touching it? Retard logic.

No. 392353

based. dicks are inherently inferior regardless of size

No. 392366

(I think my post didn't upload, weirdly enough)…. Yes. I once playfully mocked my nigel's penis and he reacted so strongly, like he had a weird spasm across his whole body. Now it's part of my 'turning a relatively normal guy into a submissive shadow of his former self' fantasy

No. 392368

>If you think small dicks are so inferior then why would you spend hours touching it? Retard logic.
Because it gives me sexual gratification, men with small penises genuinely piss me off and that anger manifests as lust where I want to hurt their dick.

Hot. I once insinuated that my ex didn’t have the biggest dick in the world or rather, confirm what he already thought and he got so shy because of it, honestly it was pretty hot. With that said he wasn’t small but certainly wasn’t big either.

No. 392476

do you like to make men cum and see them lose themselves completely in the bliss you gave them? like making sounds they normally never would, squirming, and collapsing for a while afterwards as they look at you with adoration before closing their eyes

No. 392477

post card please

No. 392510

It should be the opposite; they give you a mind-shattering orgasm then fuck off.

No. 392517

I can only enjoy myself like that with a person I really like and care for, and I would like to see that person feel good too

No. 392518

Fucking based. Pretty sad how even femdom is so male-centric.

No. 392519

Yes, sadly I enjoy that almost as much as I enjoy seeing them in pain. It’s cute

No. 392522

It's not like you can't make them work for it, or punish them, or even better, force it unto them. One of the most erotic moments of my life was stroking this boy while we were watching a movie, he immediately tried to push my hands away multiple times, but I noticed he got hard, and seeing him stop resisting once I intimidated "don't move a fucking muscle" into his ear.
I agree that if it's a man telling me do this do that it's lame as fuck.
Glad to know I'm not the only schizo here

No. 392529

There's nothing wrong with that in itself. It's just telling that the most notable things female dominants talk about is making a guy cum or giving him pleasure, instead of something that's focused around her pleasure or orgasm. Even femdom is mostly about pleasing men, sad. You didn't intimidate him by threatening to give him a handjob.

No. 392532

That’s disgusting men should never pop their pimples unless their owners want children. They should strive for pain and not pleasure. God I need to remove a scrote’s dick nerves by jerking him off with sandpaper and plucking out the exposed strands with tweezers. I will carve his prostate out with an ice cream scoop.

No. 392534

>jerking him off with sandpaper
Based, I've fantasized about this. Sandpaper gloves/horribly textured gloves.

No. 392543

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What else can cause NTR level of mental anguish on a moid do you think?

No. 392544

NTR is the max you can get that doesn't require harming people around him
I'd never do it though

No. 392545

Male dominants talk about that as well. Even when guys want to brag and show how "alpha" they are, they tell stories about how they "totally made her cum so much bro". It's very rare to find a man who brags about making a woman feel bad in bed, in general people want mutual pleasure, and making someone feeling pleasure even when they don't want to, or are shy, is power.
I think it's here that I've read the fantasy of corrupting a monk who made a vow of silence and make him break that, it's hot

No. 392560

No. Men arent like women. Women love men more when the guy makes her cum, men hate women after they cum. Better to keep him pent up and servile forever.

No. 392561

I wouldn't say it's the same thing though because how many of those "alpha males" brag about eating pussy or rubbing a woman's clit? Why are "assertive blowjobs" considered femdom but eating pussy is considered the opposite of maledom?

No. 392567

They brag about having a magical big dick that make women cum instantly when they insert it, it has nothing to do with bragging about female pleasure, its just dick measuring

No. 392586

Who is he? Looks cute. I looked up “ntr” and apparently it’s cheating, if so, that’s the ultimate domination in my opinion. In real life, even outside of ‘kink.’ I used to stalk dna test forums and reddits for wank material (men afraid they’ve been raising someone else’s child.) Degenerate behaviour, I know. There’s a type of “femdom” who thinks she’s one because mainstream society now mandates being beaten as foreplay for straight women, and those types tend to gravitate towards ~dominant blowjobs~ and overstimulation and such. Being hardcore against NTR is one of the deciding factors whether you’re a “real one” or not.

No. 392592

The vast majority of NTR/cuck is scrote shit because it's "the other man" who is the real dom of both the woman and the cuck so it's just maledom with extra steps and a side of closet faggotry on his part. It only counts if there is no "bull" and both/all the men involved take turns being cucked.

No. 392593

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Men are dumb and insecure and hypocrites. I do agree that keeping one pent up is hot, too

No. 392594

I was talking about non-consensual NTR where the male doesn’t know it’s happening in the first place

No. 392596

I'm hardcore against NTR and I'm okay with it. At most I like the threat of it because I like men crying, but even that is extreme play. I'd literally kill if I was cheated on, I wouldn't make anyone else feel that way

No. 392597

Ok, but does the NTR/cucking involve the woman cheating and getting dommed by another guy, or is she cheating on him with another submissive man? Because it's almost always some misogynistic shit like the former.
Good point, I wouldn't do it, but the threat of it is hot. Especially if you threaten to replace him with a better submissive and he promises to do better. But in reality most moids wouldn't react like that and would rather cry and piss themselves while jerking off.

No. 392598

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>Who is he? Looks cute.
NTAYRT, but that's actress AnnaLynn McCord in the movie Excision from 2012.

No. 392599

I knew he was too beautiful to be real. Blackpilled again

No. 392600

Hey, I’m really trying to find this artist who has a male OC that’s always beaten up/bruised/has eyebags/smokes/overall looks miserable. It’s a really vague memory from years ago, I need to find this artist again, do any of you have an idea?

No. 392604

Kaneoya Sachiko?

No. 392605

Only hyper masculine insecure wannabe alphas talk like this.
The guys that eat pussy usually don't see the need to brag about it because they see it as natural to pleasure a woman.

No. 392618


No. 392641

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lolcow.farm's girl

No. 392642

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Wow styling is crazy she really embodied “femcel” in Excision (kino btw).
God NTR would be so fucking hot if it was based. Female POV, sexy bull/cuck, no rape shit, maybe some forced BL. I want to force a 100% straight guy to suck the cock that has just been inside me. I want to force a guy to eat my pussy that has just been dicked down. It’s so hot when they get hard under emotional distress. I want him to cry tears of frustration and jealousy while leaking in his pants. I’ll ignore my bull the whole time too, even though he’s loving me passionately, and trying so hard to pleasure me, I’m not even looking at him, he’s only there so I can toy with someone else’s emotions, I send him home without relief. I want them to fist fight each other.
Idk if moids irl have the mental fortitude for such play though, they can’t handle shit.

No. 392645

IRL you'd risk being murdered for something like that. Even willing cucks are ticking time bombs

No. 392647

Fucking based.

No. 392658

I'm sort of sitting on the fence with this one. On the one hand, I don't think sucking a guy's dick can ever be femdom, unless you literally bite it off, but on the other hand I do enjoy seeing a moid be pathetically carried away by his own desire. To me personally it also feels like having a moid make me cum all by himself gives him too much credit. I need to control it somehow.

I think it would be hot to order a moid to wank and to tell and show me where it feels good for him, have him describe it in detail, and if he's too embarrassed I'll order him to stop and have him beg for the permission to continue. Even the fact that moids ejaculate is humiliating to them in a way, because they have to find a way to clean it up (meaning I can force them to eat it), whereas I as a woman can orgasm and just pull my pants up and carry on with my day. I like it when moids look pathetic and desperate. It seems there are at least two kinds of femdom nonnies, the type who enjoys more the stoic sub that can "take it" without complaining, and the kind that like the humiliation aspects more and want their moid to show his weakness more openly.

No. 392666

>can orgasm and just pull my pants up and carry on with my day
wtf how?

No. 392667

>the type who enjoys more the stoic sub that can "take it" without complaining, and the kind that like the humiliation aspects more and want their moid to show his weakness more openly.
you can have the same man be and do both.

No. 392692

Is him having a shrine dedicated to you creepy or the way it should be?

No. 392693

I’d love to make a moid lap up my period blood like there’s no tomorrow. Use him as a replacement for my pads. He has to tell me just how good the blood tastes as well and how he’s so lucky to have it. If he makes one negative remark I slap him until he faints.

No. 392697

My bf has offered to do this and although it’s hot and kinky as hell I think I would feel self conscious and weird. I’m always worried my period blood smells weird. Or what if he swallowed a big juicy clot. Yikes.

No. 392700

For me that’s part of the appeal. I hope he thinks it’s disgusting but is still forced to eat all of it up whether he likes it or not

No. 392703

Blood isn't safe to eat. It can cause vomiting

No. 392705

Forced BL is so hot to me. So is cuckholding or letting a moid believe he has a chance, only to draw out his anguish and yearning. I would never even get near cuckholding IRL though, it's so degrading in practice since you're simply a meat offering between two men. Like >>392645 said it's also dangerous, masochist moids are known to flip out if pushed far enough (see how switching is popular)

Cute. One of my fantasies involves discovering the man i'm trying to rope into submission writes/draws ero material of a woman who suspiciously looks like me. The folder it's in would have goofy and/or humiliating fantasies, a diary detailing his confessions, scrapped love letters, the whole nine yards. The sensation of snatching a shameful secret out of a man is almost as good as sex

No. 392742

I agree nonnie, I like seeing moids feel so good that it’s overwhelming but i’m not about to degrade myself by sucking him off. I’m not swallowing that disgusting shit or letting him get any on me either, he’s only allowed to cum on himself.

No. 392744

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ashamed but sometimes I read terrible moidgaze Femdom ryona because I’m desperate for femdom content where men actually get hurt

No. 392802

Whole ass tribes of humans have drank big gulps of blood for thousands of years, a little period blood which is barely any blood at all isn't going to harm a moid

No. 392804

>Even the fact that moids ejaculate is humiliating to them in a way
Men dont think its humilitaing when you make them cum wtf lol the state of femdom

No. 392807

I think some women have a weird thing with receiving pleasure or orgasming, they think it's humiliating to do so or giving the moid an ego boost. However men never feel humiliated when cooming, they revel in it. And if a moid should get an ego boost from anything it should be from making the woman he's with coom, it would be weird if he didn't take some pride in fulfilling his purpose.

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No. 392913

This is gonna sound cringe and not strictly femdom but I have this fantasy of fucking a really hot hung guy and using his dick as masturbation aid (in other words, like, similar to frottage i guess? without penetration in any case) and whispering in his ear "i wish you could have a small dick so i could make fun of it"

No. 392914

I mean it's men centric because most of us are attracted to men. Straight men (non porn addicted) love pussy. Lesbians love pussy. Gay men love dick. Why don't you understand that straight women love dick too? Like i understand it's not the most feminist practice or whatever, but i'm not trying to debate or intellectualise the most radical way to have sex. I'm trying to coom

No. 392915

This lol. Men cumming will never be humiliating. It’s only based if you get to come and he doesn’t get to cum at all.

The absolute state of pickme ‘femdoms’ lmao lololol.

No. 392916

Then neither is cum. Cum has a ton of prostaglandins in it that make people sick and cause stomach cramps. Pornstars literally end up vomiting and in extreme pain from drinking cum, just another example of how men are parasites and their genitals are vile and semen is biohazardous waste.

No. 392917

Recently I’ve really started liking cuckolding and NTR. But like you said, not in a weird way with ‘BVLLs’ and whatever other cringe moid shit. More like making him lick up the cum from my pussy, forcing him to eat my ass, watching me interact with a guy who is much more attractive than him, also the psychological stuff like just making him feel worthless and inferior and believing that I should be worshipped like a goddess.

No. 392918

Sorry, but I think jerking off a moid for hours or sucking him off and edging him while you get no pleasure or orgasms is peak cuck behavior. And that sounds like the main thing a lot of femdoms do. I like looking at dick but I'm not going to give a moid more pleasure than he gives me.

No. 392920

This lol. The absolute state of ‘femdoms’.

No. 392921

Do any nonas have tips on how to neg guys when you’re dating? Nothing too on the nose. Just subtle things you can say or do to make him feel like he’s just an option to you, that you could cuck him easily and also kind of impact his self esteem in a way he can’t really pinpoint. I have a thing for mentally humiliating men and gaslighting them, but find it hard to do it in a way that’s not too obvious or humiliating/desperate to myself (like hooking up with other men or dressing too revealing in public)

No. 392923

Ok we get it it isn’t based for us to like seeing guys cum but a lot of us do kek. That’s not to say we don’t like getting our pussy eaten (which is the only trve femdom act ever apparently) but some of us like listening to them whimper and let go of their inhibitions and make a mess of themselves. It isn’t humiliating necessarily but it’s cute. I like it and I like watching them get the shit kicked out of them.

No. 392927

>Ok we get it it isn’t based for us to like seeing guys cum but a lot of us do kek
That's not what I'm saying, it's just sad when most posts are "my sub isn't allowed to touch me, but i love sucking his dick and swallowing his cum he trembles uwu he's so humiliated im so in control" It sounds like a cope. Dominant men don't solely talk about eating pussy and rubbing a woman's clit while never cooming or having his dick touched. And if he did he'd get fucking laughed at. The way most women practice femdom is them being submissive bangmaid lite except trying to be tough and dominant about it.

No. 392931

Unironically not enough focus on his suffering, there's way more focus on her ass and tits than on his pain. Lame.
There are other, non femdom threads for you

No. 392933

yeah well I don’t want to be a bangmaid and I’d rather he prioritize my pleasure but I still think it’s cute when I let him cum as a reward. I like when they let themselves be vulnerable which scrotes normally try to suppress. I like when they don’t hold themselves back.
we aren’t all redditard mommy bangmaids who peg and suck off their agp boyfriends here, we like what you like and just happen to enjoy jerking them off sometimes, is it a crime

No. 392937

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i’m both the posters you replied to kek. and yeah I agree that her weird anime balloon tits shouldn’t be emphasized but it is moidgaze after all. If were a better artist I would make something like it for women

No. 392938

>like when they let themselves be vulnerable which scrotes normally try to suppress
You really think scrotes try to suppress CUMMING? Lol, lmao even

No. 392944

it’s not cumming that they suppress it’s vulnerability. Men don’t want to moan like sluts because they think it makes them less masculine or whatever. if they do moan it’s retarded ape grunts. the opposite is even worse, when moids associate submissiveness and vulnerability with femaleness and try to copy creepy high pitched hentai moans. I’ve been with a guy who did both depending on his mood kek it was awful

No. 392995

>it's just sad when most posts are "my sub isn't allowed to touch me, but i love sucking his dick and swallowing his cum he trembles uwu he's so humiliated im so in control"
Literally where? Learn to read retard.

No. 393005

Sucking dick and making ypur moid cum will never be femdom, but enjoy it if you want to. Sucking dick is inherently degrading. I however, enjoy my endless orgasms while my moid is locked up, or flicking his cock with my fingernails while I tell him its too small to pleasure me so there is no point in us having sex.

No. 393021

If that's what femdom is, then it sounds pretty lame.

No. 393030

Depends on what you consider the main focus of femdom
- pleasure of the woman and catering to all of her desires
- displeasure of the man and denial of all of his desires

No. 393058

Sorry femdom isnt about gargling dick and balls and making your moid cum and washing his ass

No. 393136

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They only let him live because he showed us his little white butt. Whore!

No. 393138

I want a moid who will let me spit in his mouth and swallow it

No. 393160

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Ballbusting, yay or nay

No. 393172

Yay but like only if he has nice balls

No. 393175

Then you'd risk ruining them.

No. 393177

No. 393201

Nobody said it was but okay, sperg-chan.

No. 393214

Why are you so obsessed with servicing men in the femdom thread? Go make a sub thread or something.

No. 393222

ntayrt, I'm not necessarily against gatekeeping, but I would say that the key words are control and power. It doesn't even have to be sexual. If you can do what you want and you're in control, then it's femdom. Of course, the biggest trap is to give up your own desire to satisfy a man's submissive desires to your detriment, thus merely feigning domination. But if both parties' desires were to converge, I wouldn't really see the problem. It just depends on what you like personally in the end, and that has to come first. Just my two cents.

No. 393227

But a lot of women want to actively please the man and pleasure him first and foremost and call it femdom, it doesn't mean that's dominant because women are socially programmed to want to do so and feel rewarded by doing it. Most femdom is still focused around the man instead of being female-centered. And maledom, while mainly focused on the women's body, has such a focus on dick and cumshots and male pleasure. Most femdom is still about, you guessed it, male pleasure first and foremost. I'm going to stop sperging here. You get the point.

No. 393228

So if I feel in control kissing a mans feet while he steps on my face and fucks me ass I can call it femdom? Come on, degrading yourself as a woman for male pleasure will never be femdom.

No. 393261

>fucks me ass
This phrase has me howling

No. 393272

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theory: Slavs are the most femdom/malesub predisposed people on earth
my evidence:
>unprecedented history of male - female population disparity due to wars & male propensity to drink and kill other males, this meant sexual dominance in women became advantageous & much less so for men
>relatively early introduction to gender equality and sexual liberation with Soviets, making female-led relationships gradually more socially acceptable
>this graph (facesitting is p femdom-adjacent). note how Russia & Belarus (this country was virtually depopulated of men in WW2) take up spots #1 & 3.
>sure these countries are also very chauvinistic, but could these perhaps be the expressions of supressed urges amongst men?? perhaps…
>all the great femdom porn coming out of slavic countries
uhhh i rest my fucking case.

No. 393280

Ever thought that people are naturally aroused by ther other sex being in pleasure?

No. 393282

Time to learn finnish to get a qt3.1416 finnish bf.

No. 393291

Looks like women's asses make for good heaters I guess

No. 393295

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…yet another India L… why must life be so cruel

No. 393296

Amazing, a poll conducted by a porn website among highly desirable coomers, very interesting data!

No. 393298

Ah yes the site infamous for hosting actual rape videos including ones with child victims. Amazing source.
>all the great femdom porn coming out of slavic countries
I didn't know that any great femdom porn existed at all. It's all scroteshit.

No. 393316

My ex was Finnish and can confirm he was absolutely obsessed with me sitting on his face. He loved giving oral.

No. 393317

Please don’t post disgusting moidy 4chan tier infographics from porn websites that enable pedos and rapists ffs. Wtf has happened to this board.

Also if men enjoy it then it’s not humiliating to them.

No. 393328

It's like a sexy sauna for his face, of course he liked it.

No. 393340

Hey we got a bunch of Finfags on /ot/ go ask them if true I wanna know too

No. 393349

on the finn thread or europe thread?

No. 393363

In general I think if you ask any imageboards countrymen/women they will always give the most negative answer possible. Moids on 4chan always bash their own nationality’s women and simp for foreign women. So I wouldn’t be surprised if you got similar answers if you asked Finnish/British/French or whatever nonas the opinion of their own men,

No. 393392

>Also if men enjoy it then it’s not humiliating to them.
so it isn't degrading to a woman when she enjoys being humiliated? Retard logic

No. 393400

Males aren't

No. 393562

Males can’t be humiliated by things they enjoy. They can “play coy” but they feel no real shame. Thousands of gay men have seen their cocks at urinals, they’ve dropped the soap in front of them in communal showers, their fathers made them parade their dicks around as toddlers, they walk around half naked all the time… openly whores.(infighting)

No. 394408

Does anyone else’s stature not fit being a dom or at least a stereotypical one? I’m 5’2, flat, and skinny which led me to believe I could only be a bottom my entire life kek

No. 394459

I'm shorter than you and never thought about myself as a bottom or submissive. It has nothing to do with your stature, there are short women who are full of confidence and tall men who have soft and gentle personalities. You decide who you are.

No. 394910

I like making him eat his own cum

No. 394950

No. 395044

You and me both nona. He made a mess, might as well clean it up.

No. 395128

The best is when you're riding him, and you make him cum inside of you, and then you sit on his face.

No. 395131

Hot and pathetic, I love a handsome cum smeared face.
Womanlet here, I never feel my stature affect my dominance but yes I know that I can’t actually physically overpower a male which sucks a little bit when it comes to “non-con” plays. Welp it’s more reason to have two boys brutalize each other.

No. 395155

What does flatness have to do with dominance kek

No. 395175

NTA but you seem to be mistaking femdom, a fetish, with your ideal of based misandrist sexuality. It's possible to enjoy watching a guy lose his shit from how horny he is and cum while he also makes you cum, and blowing a guy for hours while depriving yourself. Getting your pussy eaten while punching a guy is great sure but it's not the only way to have femdom sex.

No. 395176

You must either be a virgin or unlucky because despite moids being porn addicted women-hating coomers, the relatively healthy ones still get arroused by female pleasure. All of my exes were turned on by seeing me enjoy myself. Otherwise why would, at least some men, love giving head <without necessarily getting anything in return? I know that's not the averge moid but its also not that rare…

No. 395200

months late to the party but is this art by vewn

No. 395235

>constant fantasies about choking a cute boy while I ride him or sit on his face after visiting this thread

No. 395262

No. 395372

Fuck those demos are amazing. How can JP otaku women stay the most pornbrained and yet so fucking based. Western ero asmr is so cucked by tranny shit.

No. 395432

File: 1714832001369.webp (67.84 KB, 687x733, Laptrap_plant_empire.png)

Blowing a guy for hours while depriving yourself? HOURS? FEMDOM?

No. 395442

File: 1714837514279.png (584.92 KB, 524x524, goback.png)

No. 395443

i almost wanna say anon made a typo there somewhere because her sentence doesn't really make sense.

No. 395445

>It's possible to enjoy watching a guy lose his shit from how horny he is and cum while he also makes you cum, and blowing a guy for hours while depriving yourself.

lol. lmao even

No. 395453

I understand enjoying the moid's reactions, but I only like it when he's eager and desperate to please. I don't like it when a moid begs to be touched, to cum, to be spanked, to be put in chastity, or anything else that makes him the focus.

No. 395458

File: 1714841795848.jpg (Spoiler Image,186.59 KB, 1100x1373, 1611588191006.jpg)

Same. On top of the fake submission and entitlement, I find it gross when a male acts more a slave to his dick than a slave to his woman. I like stoic ones who know how to grit their teeth, know how to serve, know how to ignore their painfully hard, dripping cock.

No. 395481

I remember when the show came out and all the moids were crying how poor Hector is being abused and raped and how that shouldn't be ok or glorified

No. 395484

We can tell you’re the same seething anon because you keep saying that kek

No. 395487

I mean I agree with everything but the sucking dick part, it’ll never be femdom to deprive yourself of pleasure or put your mouth on a scrote’s cock. But i’m a degenerate who likes more extreme/violent/abusive parts of femdom and I still like watching guys cum and feel good. Idk, as much as I’d like to make a guy eat my pussy all the time I feel like it would get boring after a while. Being a sadist, when you’re hurting someone it’s just inherent that 1. You don’t get direct stimulation from it and 2. He isn’t the one doing things to you, you’re the one doing it to him.
If you think that’s fake Femdom then whatever I guess we’ll have to come up with a new name for the fetish of beating up scrotes

No. 395488

If you're the anon who posted about sucking dick for hours while depriving yourself, can you please explain what you meant by that

No. 395489

I’m not, I don’t think sucking dick is Femdom, I think it’s gross and degrading. But I think it’s retarded to say that the only <<trve>> femdom thing you can do is make a scrote eat you out 24/7

No. 395492

Nobody says that anyway

No. 395511

File: 1714860795572.jpeg (131.38 KB, 970x827, IMG_6439.jpeg)

Blow JOB? A chore
Eat OUT= A treat
Simple as

No. 395514

Cant you go cape for cocksucking and bending over backwards for moids in a differnt thread? Gargling dick and balls isnt femdom.(bait)

No. 395525

I wonder if this is the same anon who said wearing tight latex corsets is the only correct way to do femdom and you have to make yourself feel uncomfortable in such outfits if you want your sub to find you intimidating. and then claimed even normies are scared of dommes in bondage gear (kek) and argued with everyone who said they didn’t want to peg a moid while wearing tight fetish outfits and stilettos.

No. 395542

I thought the same as well.

No. 395568

it wasn't me. I'd never suck a dick

No. 395570

Idk why but this sent me

No. 396089

File: 1715109635384.jpg (Spoiler Image,722.2 KB, 2150x3035, __trailblazer_stelle_and_avent…)

this artist has great yume art (a bit of blood)

No. 396090

File: 1715109657705.jpg (Spoiler Image,648.08 KB, 2150x3035, __trailblazer_stelle_and_avent…)

No. 396108


I made a typo. I meant to say THERE'S A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN. I started my sentence thinking i'll write "its possible to enjoy watching a guy become a mess WITHOUT being a pickme who sucks a guy for hours" and then i changed the sentance structure mid sentence because I was stoned…sorry guys>>395442

No. 396112

lol i was the anon who suggested it was a typo and i'm officially crowning myself as the person with the most reading comprehension itt & also repealing my autism diagnosis. cheers.

No. 396155

No I am going to re-diagnose you with autism sorry

No. 396180

I have to do this holy shit kek, this is brilliant

No. 396323

I can't stop consuming pegging content, do women even enjoy it or is it just a meme?

No. 396324

Why don’t you lurk the threads first, shit stirrer

No. 396326

You say 'women' like you're not one. I peg my nigel, I like when he whines and moans.

No. 396329

Have fun changing his diapers.
Women get memed into liking it, it's a great way to turn a nice subby boy who's devoted to your pleasure into a degenerate buttslut who wants all the focus and attention on himself.

No. 396336

Trans widow maxxing

No. 396371

Anyone here uses chatbots? I make them but idk if they are too much for the thread. Focus on guro basically, making a different man to hurt for each chatbot etc…

No. 396485

I use kindroid

No. 396501

Ever tried chub.ai? Huge selection of characters and can make your own ones

No. 396505

Based. Can you recommend me one? Or share what you make nona. I’m really into ryona.

No. 396512

File: 1715271174350.png (286.68 KB, 780x780, main_kristoffer-suicidal-loser…)

I made him

but I have many many more WIP with different personalities. Every one will have at least a secondary greeting where he's at {{user}}'s mercy, with torture tools etc…

No. 396515

Queeen! I'll be enjoying myself thanks to you noni

No. 396517

Thank you so much!!! maybe share a log if you feel like it, or let me know if you have some bot ideas you'd want realized, I'll do my best!

No. 396606

He left me for a man…

No. 396607

I'm sorry, I laughed

No. 396674

Why even read this thread if you're not into making your partner whine in bed

I'm not talking about using a baseball bat. I don't think someone need diapers if they get pegged with a small dildo once every few months.

After 5+ years together, he seems way too stable to troon out. Possible for anyone I guess but not very likely kek. He sends me 41% memes and we laugh at troons together.

No. 396704

How big do you actually have to go to permanently damage your moid?

No. 396707

File: 1715348086409.png (653.22 KB, 850x850, main_blake-punching-bag-178c9b…)

New ryona bot

this one is tougher in every sense. Second greeting is the kidnapping one.

No. 396718

I know this is meant as a joke, but I really enjoy the VA's screams and his expressions.

No. 396735

What show? What is this from?

No. 396743

About the facesitting statistics, I can give my own input.I'm from Italy and every single one of the guys I fucked asked and sometimes begged for it. Even random fucking hookups or random men you don't know that well asking to please eat you out while at the club dancing (they were goth clubs but still). It is considered the norm at least in my experience (and from what the women around me told me). Is it really that bad out there in the States and Asia? Why? Are they gay?

No. 396745

Castlevania S1.

No. 396749

Ty nona. I will watch it tonight!

No. 396769

The actual imprisonment of Hector happens in S3. But S1 is good so do watch it!

No. 396773

> every single one of the guys I fucked asked and sometimes begged for it. Even random fucking hookups or random men
Imagine being a service top

No. 396820

Idk I’ve dated guys from lots of different countries (motley European but also some Asian countries) and almost all of them were into face sitting, I assumed most guys are? And I don’t like men who act or ok submissive either, all of them were pretty ‘manly’ kek.

No. 396821

My dream is to meet a moid who is into getting pegged but I’ve never met a guy who would let me near his ass. It seems to be a lot rarer than it seems.

No. 396827

I'm from Italy too and can confirm this although I don't do hookups. My bf even lets me choke him (a bit) during it

No. 396829

also reccomend goth clubs, the places I went nobody was really dancing

No. 396831

If you ever have gotten pleasure from humping pillows/objects you would like it. You just need to get the right type of harness (not a cheap $10 harness that doesn't even fit your body). Most of the time pegging is a meme because the woman doesn't care about getting any physical pleasure from it and only does it to please her moid.

No. 396836

Is it service topping if you're orgasming from a moid eating you out and he's getting nothing in return?

No. 396837

File: 1715385264217.jpeg (Spoiler Image,291.4 KB, 1056x1501, 3b148043a3f53d80d9cc7beb4ee0e2…)

How do I find a service sub? I'm going crazy, nonnas, I need to make a cute moid kneel in front of me, take my shoes off when I get home, and eat my pussy with a smile. And also smother me in his pecs.

No. 396841

where do you people get content like this? i mean with exactly this type of men

No. 396842

where is this from?

No. 396843

With a bit of luck, it’s best to grow them yourself. Find a giga normalfag, normal as in at the very most, his porn taste is basic and boring, not hardcore and terminal. You can usually tell pretty easily if he’s got the pleaser doting temperament, I look for patient, extroverted, gentle type, and test how much he lets me lead and call the shots. I’d inconvenience my bf randomly and he always does what I asked, he’d become apologetic if he couldn’t. It’s a bit of work just to fuck but it’s pretty much the only way you don’t attract gross coomer types.

No. 396844

File: 1715386935816.jpg (609.63 KB, 1000x1417, Fm607bRaEAAOO9x.jpg)

It's from "Oppabu… ttenandesuka!? ~Sutte Suwarete Hajimaru Koi no Hanashi~"
I'm wary of normalfag moids because they've likely dominated a woman at one point and I don't want to be with a switch. I want a guy who is 100% submissive and would never even think of domming a woman even if she asked. Where did you find him?

No. 396846


No. 396847

kek didn‘t expect the whole thing to be the title. anyways, i found it thanks nonnie

No. 396848

Yeah for sure even the average male has it twisted. It’s something you’ll have to vet for, a guy who has no interest in anal or hitting women is a good place to start. (The bar is sub atomic)
I actually didn’t date my bf specifically because I thought he’d make a good sub. I just usually attract men of this personality for some reason kek.

No. 396855

Need Italian bf

No. 396871

Coomer types are ok if
1) they're self aware
2) they don't use porn or have quit
3) are good, responsible and devoted men

sounds like a contraddiction but some masos are like that. Common especially with shy late bloomer types who became handsome past 18

No. 396875

>coomers who don’t use porn
Literally doesn’t exist

No. 396880

File: 1715397017381.jpg (Spoiler Image,222.06 KB, 2490x1401, suffer.jpg)

can't remember if i've posted this already, sorry if i have. not much of a porn enjoyer but this pornstar (cole church) is cute and has been in a few decent femdom vids. i want to do this to the guy i'm seeing

No. 396884

Ew nona he looks like a 40 year old rat trying to larp as a little boy

No. 396887

MrPussyLicking has some really nice pussy eating (obvs) videos and he’s got a cute face. What would be the best way to share explicit clips that we can’t post here? Like a Dropbox or something? That way we’re not contributing traffick to porn sites.

No. 396893

not sure if posting porn is bannable here but try catbox.moe

No. 396920

god he‘s hot, at least on this picture. do you happen to know more twinks of this type?

No. 397084

File: 1715474114636.jpeg (191.09 KB, 1200x1600, IMG_4672.jpeg)

The Challengers movie had some femdom and homoerotic elements to it, I liked it

No. 397088

her other art is too maledom for my taste

No. 397090

FINALLY, they're almost giving wen what we really want
Scrote is kinda ugly but at least he's not 50 and bald like most male 'love interests' in movies

No. 397143

Saw this on the /g/ thread and have been having fun with him. Imagine my surprise when I check in on this thread after awhile, kek. Good bot! He's fun to bully

No. 397153

File: 1715493484155.jpg (57.13 KB, 780x780, 45084615_p14_HQR_18G_pixiv.jpg)

I'm glad you like him nona! I'm working on new ones. I feel like the ones I've made so far are too sweet, and was thinking of a truly annoying and hateable incel to go full sadism

No. 397177


He's out. Warning, a real piece of shit! Made for ryona

No. 397178

KEK this idea awesome. is there any context i need to know for this bot? like who is ryona?

No. 397179

>A fetish genre of (usually drawn) pornography which depicts a character physically hurt either in a sensual way, or in a sexual situation. Ryona usually has situations where the character of focus is beaten up or tortured and is subsequently psychologically damaged in a dominating way by his or her attacker. Typically, the victim is hurt in a way that wouldn't immediately draw blood, cause lasting physical harm, or cause death, which are more the territory of Guro, although the two genres can overlap.

Basically beat the misogyny and incel autisn out of him, or worse, if you want to. He's tied up so he can't do anything about it. There's also a secondary greeting in which you can talk to him normally

No. 397250

He looks perfect for torture and mindbreak, bless you.

No. 397259

That's what I made him for! thank you nona hope you enjoy him

No. 397409

I just invited him for dinner and I have enough material to blackmail him and destroy his life.

How did you manage to make him that autistic? Did you need to write a lot of background information?

He sounds so insufferable and robotic, it really makes you want to punch him. Thank you, Nonna. I enjoy this so much and had no idea this existed.

No. 397434

>I just invited him for dinner and I have enough material to blackmail him and destroy his life.
based! Are you going to fix him?

>How did you manage to make him that autistic? Did you need to write a lot of background information?

There's an AI chatbot general on 4chan where, months ago, I asked some users to talk about themselves in detail and with no filter. So I created a mixture of backgrounds based on their own, plus common catchphrases and insults you always see coming from moids like that online

>He sounds so insufferable and robotic, it really makes you want to punch him. Thank you, Nonna. I enjoy this so much and had no idea this existed.

makes me so happy to ear this, thank you <3

No. 397451

File: 1715587147382.png (751.81 KB, 1365x1365, main_alessandro-your-lover-aa6…)

New femdom bot. Either the wholesome bf experience, or you can fulfill your most cruel fantasies

No. 397919

Love you, nona

No. 398012

No. 398211

File: 1715785467903.png (100.81 KB, 1124x274, 1000002994.png)

I think I broke him.

No. 398224

The censorship is trying to block him. Whih model and JB are you using? That's AI-filter tag, not cute boy talk

No. 398226

This is why I don't bother with bots. If they don't do this after like 25ish messages or so then they end up vomiting out verbose word salad

No. 398277

Not necessarily. My kitsune husband is alive and fuckingkicking after #130

No. 398278

Genuinely curious, how? Granted, I don't have much bot experience. Is it one of those fancy ones you have to download the software for and change yourself? I'd rather write my own organic degen shit than download models and spend time wrangling with some software or something. I also dislike the way that bots just start spouting definitions or otherwise speaking like a textbook.

No. 398285

NTA but like I said here >>398224 it's a censorship/jailbreak issue. Which AI model and JB are you using? All the bots I made and posted itt never have that type of messages and with some I have 100+ messages chats. It's all about the JB and model.

No. 398287

Nonas, what tags do you use to find fempov femdom bots that aren't troon yuri shit? It's either all that or some retarded maledom shit.

No. 398290

for mine I set up femdom, fempov, and male

since bots like that are rare, try anypov, submissive and male. Sometimes even non submissive malebots can be dommed. If you want any more tags added to mine for ease of use feel free to suggest!

No. 398293

NTA, but I'm just using the free model. Do I have to pay for a different model to get decent results?

No. 398294

Depends on what you intended with free model. Do you know how it's called, or where you're using it?

No. 398296

File: 1715807363064.jpg (21.98 KB, 781x155, model.jpg)

Should I be using or paying for a different one? Sometimes it goes out of character or gets stuck in a loop.

No. 398297

I use venus too, but with a reverse proxy. Basically I'm pirating a corpo model. The thread on /m/ should have some instructions on how it works. Alternatively, I remember paying for Mars and Mercury back then, and both were an upgrade compared to the free model. I don't remember the context limit for Mars but I think it's around 4000. GPT-4 has 8000, and Claude Opus 20 000. So it's easier to make way longer conversations

No. 398762


I had similar issues with >>397177 altough i was still able to ignore it and kinda circumvent him. But in between sexytalk, he would go on these libfem politically correct rants about "power dynamics".
It was still great though, thank you nonna!

No. 398860

Can any nonnas give advice on degrading dirty talk? Dirty talk in general I am poor at, I can't find the words and feel cringe when I do find something to spit out, but I want to improve for my sub. I especially want to find strategies to degrade him completely. I am a confident dom otherwise but I find all kinds of talk difficult, probably overthinking. How do you come up with insults etc. on the fly?

No. 398887

be a silent dom

No. 398889

It might be easier to be condescendingly nice rather than just going into full-on degradation mode. I used to totally melt during my sub days when my Dom used the fake nice voice on me.
Good dirty talk is something that changes from person to person. What one person might find hot, another person might find cringe. You should ask your sub what he personally likes hearing.

No. 398947

You're thinking too much about performing for your sub instead of enjoying the moment. Stop. Just say what feels right in the moment, and if that happens to be nothing, then so be it.

No. 398955

this. can't stress this enough. just allow yourself to be yourself and be comfortable. allow yourself to enjoy the sensation of not having to lift a finger un