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>>252508Thread for:
>dommes>femdom images and media>femdom fantasies>female subs interested in women>advice and storiesSome things to get us started:
>What are your main kinks?>What is your ideal sub like?>What experiences have you had?>What advice do you have for new dommes?>Where to find subs? How to avoid unhealthy ones?Femdom ficrecs:
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Thank you for starting a new thread op!
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saw these images and thought of this thread
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I wish femdom content online were more about making scrotes suffer and less about uwu soft m*mmy domme
No. 331438
>>331409Yes, of course he needs to douche. Look up Ruby Ryder, she has info on how to clean ass, as well as dildo/harness recommendations.
As for mutual pleasure, if you get a harness that has the dildo sitting low enough on your clit, you can get clitoral stimulation/orgasms from that. There are also double-sided dildos but I would recommend using a harness with that to hold it in place or else it'll fall out (at least that's what I've heard).
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>>331419Finally some quality audio from Dlsite
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>>331518
>hot topic
No. 331552
>>331540There are 3 rules:
1. Safe
Preparation and sanitizing aren't a joke. Everyone should be on top of their hygiene. Safewords might be cheesy, but do it anyway.
2. Sane
BDSM can be more than just a fetish/kink. It can be psychologically beneficial for both parties as it allows for things to get expressed that normally can't be. This partially answers
>>331535 questions because, as far as I'm concerned most femdom is in the realm of fantasy. Speaking for myself, I don't want someone to actually suffer, I don't want to hurt someone's feelings and leave them worse off than before. At the same time, I'm not interested in relationships with participants.
3. Consentual
I'm not going to do anything I don't want to do, nor do I want someone to go along with something they don't really want. The fastest way to piss me off is when someone just goes along with everything and builds up resentment, then they act like it's my fault.
>>331540Most of the femdom content is m*mmy shit like
>>331419 says. Men are the biggest consumers of porn, so that's what sells, and that's what you see.
Ironically, the kind of men who you can work with are the kind who have a good grasp on interpersonal boundaries, they know their values, they know what they want…psychological health 101. It's hard to find but I think the most sustainable femdom stuff is "positive femdom".
A man who had an absent/neglectful/
abusive mom may want to repeat the shit that traumatized him because PTSD runs grooves in your brain you tend to fall back on. A femdom session could potentially help expose and integrate the feelings he has around that, but once that's done, he may change (see why I don't allow relationships?). Or, exposing the emotional damage could leave you with a psycho on your hands, and…yeah.
No. 331557
>>331424>>331415These just feel wrong. the idea of lifting up a massive moid just to kiss him when he should be bending down to
my height for a kiss (why would I need to perform a stunt to reach my boyslave's mouth) and exerting that much energy to like, take a picture for the internet.
>>331507>couldn't even link itWhy
>>331515No, it has to be from the POV of a woman ree
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spoilered because drawing of a decapitaited moid
No. 331738
>>331718Well, this thread probably isn't for me, but I'm going to tell you what I believe to be the truth. Grain of salt and all that.
BDSM isn't real. It can only exist in the realm of fantasy–which is fine. So post all the art, post the fantasies, post the copypasta, fanfics, etc..
But I think eventually you have to admit that true, sustainable femdom relationships are extremely rare, or are only possible with a heavy amount of detachment. The vast majority of people aren't able to sustain detachment.
Most dommes I've met are unrefined sadists. They might enjoy inflicting pain, or the idea of it. They might have anecdotes about receiving pleasure from male denial/male pain, but it's generally hit and run stuff. Not much different than "I'm such a BRAT hehe".
This shit is typically because the dude wants it and the woman is willing to act it out. There are many BDSM situations where it's the submissive one who calls all the shots, and I don't think that's ideal.
Since the world has become more open minded about BDSM in the last few years, I think ultimately what's gonna happen is you'll see more and more men open to the idea of pegging/prostate shit, orgasm denial, chastity, and the ol' femdom staples, but that's more about what men are into.
No. 331749
>>331738>or are only possible with a heavy amount of detachmentWhy do you think detachment is necessary? I think the opposite, since it's a very intimate and vulnerable thing to have complete control over someone. And most men don't have the emotional intelligence and complexity to give up real control (only being led by their shallow fetishes/kinks + having dommy mommy doing everything for them). I think the only situation it COULD work is where there is strong love. Love in which the woman wants to take possession over him and is comfortable being her true unfiltered self, and love in which the man devotes himself to her completely without expecting to be rewarded.
Although I'm into D/s and have kinks, I don't really like using the BDSM label. It's all so shallow, performative, and fake, imo.
No. 331761
>>331749Shrug, your mileage may vary. I don't want to split hairs, get overly philosophical, or get into semantics, but here's how I see it:
Put bluntly, that's not love. If it's love, it happens on its own. Is it a very intimate and vulnerable thing to have complete control over someone? Sure. But nobody, male or female can give themselves over to anyone completely and still be in love. I don't want to get too far off subject, but I think the fetishization of vulnerability is
problematic, so to speak.
Many people practically have a need to be vulnerable and for others to display vulnerability before they can get anywhere. I can't relate to it, but not everyone is the same, so fine. In your everyday cases of emotional trauma, a given person being vulnerable may have led to all kinds of inner turmoil. So for them to completely give themselves up might seem like quite a big deal, but I question if that's healthy for anyone involved. Granted, not everyone has PTSD, or even mild to moderate symptoms thereof, but becoming someone's full-time object of worship seems more like religious "love" rather than romantic love.
Religious love it seems to me is more of a fetishization of situations, concepts, duties, and rules. That's fine for what it is, but I don't agree that's the same as romantic love.
No. 331777
>>331770Well, just to make sure I understand.
If you're asking whether I think it's healthy for men to defer to their male friends or politics, the answer is no. I think that's unhealthy. It's healthy to get input from a variety of sources, but it's not healthy to defer to someone else all the time.
That said, "healthy" is relative. If a guy wants to defer to a wife/gf, that's his decision. But I think people are at their best when they explore on their own and draw their own conclusions. And sex/intimacy is a powerful thing, so if you use that to reward worship and punish independence/autonomy, I think you've reduced a person to a point of non-personhood, and to me, that's morbid.
But if the person is giving their consent as an adult, hey, that's their business. I just think it's unhealthy, like smoking, overeating, or whatever else.
No. 331784
>>331738>I think ultimately what's gonna happen is you'll see more and more men open to the idea of pegging/prostate shit, orgasm denial, chastity, and the ol' femdom staples, but that's more about what men are into.That's just depressing because if anything it's going to make actual femdom hard to find and discover. it's just going to be old style 80's femdom, new mainstream femdom and generic off shoots of femdom but very little will actually be femdom.
>love in which the man devotes himself to her completely without expecting to be rewarded.isn't the reward for the man in this is that he's helping please someone he loves and cares for ?
I don't think it's asking much not be treated like a kink dispenser and wanting someone that's submissive but not a pushover or lazy.
like its just a normal healthy loving relationship I don't think its a great ask just that lots of moids aren't submissive just topping from the bottom.
No. 331790
>>331777Men ARE at their best when they defer to their female partners. Maybe you are mixing this up with female submission towards men, that's a situation where I agree it isn't healthy because women are indoctrinated into it.
>>331784>isn't the reward for the man in this is that he's helping please someone he loves and cares for ?Yes. I meant that he wouldn't want or expect a sexual reward, gift, for anything to be reciprocated, etc.
No. 331798
>>331796then isn't the question to ask, where do you find these ideal men that want to be submissive to women but avoid the ones that aren't submissive or using women as a means to a end.
I don't think there's enough shy/outgoing introverted/extroverted booksmart/dummies non-porn addicted men to go around ?
No. 331801
>>331796You explained it way better than I could, thank you.
>>331798It's a matter of luck, but if you keep looking you'll find him eventually.
>I don't think there's enough shy/outgoing introverted/extroverted booksmart/dummies non-porn addicted men to go around ?If you think this way then you've already given up.
No. 331803
>>331798Yeah that is the question asked in every thread. It is more rare because of the internet and online porn, period. It breeds a hatred of women even though it is the fault of males that there exist such degenerate, heart-breaking, unnatural and violent porn. It probably is impossible to find a boy who hasn’t watched porn but hopefully you can find one who is disturbed by most of it. I don’t know if a guy like this feasibly exists, I’m just spitballing. You’ll have anons say men like this never existed but I think there existed men who came pretty close. I think to create the kind of male who respects women he needs to have female role models; mind you, the responsibility is not on the women to be the role models (there are already so many) but for fathers to not show their sons that it is okay to disrespect women with authority. Respect your mother, teachers, sisters, other mothers, aunts, cousins, etc. I don’t know, my father just seems to defer to women a fair amount and he isn’t submissive he just recognizes women are superior on nearly all levels.
I guess you’d need to find a man who has a moral compass and one who understands that women are the curators and keepers of true morality.
No. 331817
>>331814>>331811Would you please inform me how ad hominems, stereotyping, dehumanization, simplification of concepts, a binary view of morality, and the suggestion I don't belong in the discussion because of my views (which by the way I alluded to a few posts ago) indicates you're effectively curating true morality or being a good role-model?
"Go back to reddit" is something I usually see in male-dominated spaces.
>>331814Didn't say mercy was complicated. I said someone's ability to show mercy isn't tied to gender. Realistically what's happening here is you're having trouble keeping up. Don't tell me you can, because you literally misread what I typed up and proceeded to spit out labels and stereotypes.
Are you a good role-model?
Done with this shit today.
(integrate retard) No. 331863
>>331854It seems like most of the gatekeeping happening is retards trying to pass off F/m relationship dynamics as something unhealthy and
problematic because anything beyond edging and mommying a scrote makes them feel uncomfortable.
No. 331972
>>331863I think my sort of hangup is simply switching the roles and having men be abused by women doesn't really feel like femdom to me.
it just feels like maledom with the roles switched out but it still comes from a male adjacent gaze or origin.
So I think actual female based femdom should be something coming from a female gaze or origin instead, it may have overlaps or be similar in some ways but I'd rather it be its own thing than a copy or imitation of another.
>>331902>>331909same, it annoys me that Gender roles or whatever way its defined are more rigid now again, I missed the sort of androgynous of the 90's , even the idea of makeup like black eyeliner or nice lingerie.
but now its all claimed and ruined by troons and masked as empowering somehow. like the idea of masculine styled women or feminine styled men is forbidden.
No. 331987
>>331972Why does female gaze automatically mean to you that everything has to be sanitized and overly kind and sweet and respectful? Maybe some women just want to be rough and cruel (towards a man who consents to it)?
I really think the only cases where femdom imitates maledom is if there is sissification/feminization towards the man or if there is degrading femininity in any way. Because then clearly it's just misogynistic shit.
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My female gaze love beaten up men
No. 331994
>>331979fair enough, didn't mean to cause offense , sorry.
>>331987I don't think it needs to be sweet or respectful I think my issue is maybe its more influenced by what men wanted femdom to be, so it just makes me feel like its an imitation with roles switched.
I'm all for rough and cruel (if there's consent) but I'd rather wish it came about naturally than originally springing from men.
I think im just misunderstanding and having a poor grasp of language to find my answer.
Like I wish femdom could be for and by women and self serving towards womens interests first rather than having a need to placate or dial it down with a guise of gentle femdom or whatever.
>>331991>>331993This but with romance involved and slight fear
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>>331991BEATING UP TALL SERIOUS DARK HAIR MEGANE QT BF FULL FORCE NO HOLDING BACK CUZ HE’S BUILT TO ENDURE ABUSE
No. 335866
>>335438It means that he is an
abusive piece of shit and should be dumped.
No. 336039
>>336025Nonnie responding back here.
He'll get to eat human food, just out of a cat bowl and I'm not too concerned about the water aspect- I'll have my main bowl for the kitties on the counter and he'll have his on the ground to drink out of. I actually mentioned the catbourne illness to him and he said he is not concerned because he's 'shared' water with my cats from his cup (when they drink out of it) and we're both not concerned about the malnutrition/passing out aspect, he'll be left for a day MAX and will be okay. I am also going to leave a waterbottle out in case he wants to drink it instead, just might be a bit of a struggle. He won't have any access to any electronics. No TV, no phone. I'm not going to leash him too intensely- the most ideal is he'll be able to unhook himself even with cuffs/being tied. Also for the pissing and shitting- he actually suggested that HE wants a cock belt so he can't even get a boner and can't piss at all. But I feel like that's too extreme and will probably get him to use it in the mornings and well, I'm still figuring out the bathroom stuff lol. I do get turned on by the idea of total control over him and the idea that he'll be desperate for me to come home. Hope that helps.
No. 336081
>>336007>>336039I think the most extreme thing here is that he won't have any way to keep himself occupied. He is spending half the day only thinking about you and waiting for you to come back. Hot.
>the most ideal is he'll be able to unhook himself even with cuffs/being tiedCan you actually trust him with this? Do you have some way to ensure he can't cheat and let himself out without you knowing?
No. 336094
>>336044I'll definitely post some kind of proof when we do this, should be sometime this week or next. Webcam is a good idea, I have one too.
>>336050I won't lie, I am a little depraved. This will probably be one of the more extreme things we have done. I just love LOVE the idea of him waiting all day, not being able to move, just all mine. Hehe.
>>336068Unfortunately I had one of those water filter bowls (they're quite deep, about 8 inches) so I had to place it in the sink or else my cats knock it over. I have one too many cats so a regular dog bowl/small cat bowl doesn't cut it.
>>336081I trust him that he won't untie himself unless completely necessary, but I will be marking the rope with sharpie to see if he does untie himself while I'm gone. He knows not to do that though. Still thinking of punishments as he's kind of into anything and everything. And I MEAN that.
>>336090Oh thanks for the concern nonni but this is not a LARP and I will post proof as well. He won't be THAT restricted, his hands will be tied enough and the leash will allow for some movement (standing, slight walking, sitting and laying). I live in an apartment as well so if he really needs to leave, he will have access to the outside world fairly easily rather than being isolated.
The objective is to make him feel isolated and alone, a bit scared.
He also will have no FREE access to electronics but his phone will be placed somewhere upon agreeing in which I will mark around it to see if he uses or plays on it.
No. 336150
Don’t listen to
>>336103 nonny I wanna see it (if he’s cute of course)
No. 336210
>>336209>so many women let men manhandle and choke them What's that got to do with my post?
>RetardWow
No. 336222
>>336217Ok but it’s besides the point of anything I wrote.
>moralfags It’s more about not going to prison than morals.
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>>336007This sounds based and cute I've always wanted a chained moid.
>>336025>what if he passes out from malnourishment and dehydrationAs if this isn't the cutest scenario
>>336090You are boring af
>>336103Boring
Imagine getting filtered by this gentle ass shit. He even agreed to it. Why even be in this thread if you think tying up a moid for a day is some extreme shit. She even said he'll be able to stand and walk and pace if he needs to. He even wanted a cock cage for fucks sake, I think a grown man can handle being restrained.
No. 336241
>>336226In the particular posts I replied to she said
>I'm going to leave a blindfold on him so he's real sensory deprived and cuff his hands behind his back so he can't touch himself even if he wants toThen
>I'm not going to leash him too intensely- the most ideal is he'll be able to unhook himself even with cuffs/being tiedOK sounds very reassuring. She also went from saying he’ll be sleeping on the floor a couple of days to “24 hours at most”, which is a long time to be immobilized. Honestly I called larp because you have to be retarded to think it's a good idea. If he’s 100% for certain able to untie himself in case of an emergency then have fun, but think about anything that could potentially go wrong in this scenario and make sure you are prepared. I admit I was a bit condescending, I'm glad OP gets to play out her fantasy and I'm sure she was excited and hadn't thought all the details through before posting, but idk why you're offended someone is discussing safety in a thread about femdom, this is bondage 101 stuff. She did backtrack later on which is good, but if no one says anything unfortunately some people are gonna think this is totally fine. It's very obvious some of you live in lala land and are terrible at thinking about stuff realistically.
No. 336249
>>336239>She even said he'll be able to stand and walk and pace if he needs toNTA but this is actually one of the most common ways people hurt themselves while restrained. People have a tendency to fall and you obviously can't brace yourself with your hands tied. It's why you shouldn't leave someone alone in that position, period.
>>336244>You sound like a loser who is too afraid of a moid experiencing any amount of discomfort so you handle him with kiddie glovesThis is your go-to response when you disagree with someone isn't it.
>>336245wow so girlboss epic pwnage much edge. Anyway sorry for posting some common sense itt, I'll leave you to your collective delusion.
No. 336250
>>336248Eh, cat ears and a tail are cringe but the rest is kind of cute… puppy boy
>>336249Begone
No. 336293
>>336094>>336241Leashing up my moid
nonnie here.
I appreciate all the concern and consideration. I do have some more safety plans in place.
As for the toxoplasmosis, he will have access to a fresh water bottle, and my tap as well.
He will be restrained enough to move and walk, fortunately I have laminated floors and he will not be wearing socks, I brought up the concern of falling and he said he is not too concerned and will just be sitting/sleeping most of the day.
He will also be tight but loosely restrained, so he will have access to take the rope off from behind his back/wrists but if he takes it off, I will be able to tell because he won't be able to tie himself back up. He will also have access to talking the leash off when needed. This way he will have access to the washroom but the goal is for him to wait until I say he can. I was thinking I might call him to check up for verbal communication too.
I will also have my webcam on him so I can check on him during the day.
>>336248I love this and I am hoping to make him be my pet, but I will treat him worse than my pets hehe. My pets get snuggles. He will have the option of choosing a collar and leash at the pet store and I will make him do tricks for me. Maybe I'll even get 'treats' for him too.
>>336271He is quite handsome, I think you would be surprised. I'm going to get him to hold up a piece of paper that says "Hi lolcow" hehe.
I wish to post a picture of us, but that would be an instaban.
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Whose POV is more exciting to read from? Not just from a horny perspective but the emotional response of the characters too. I obviously default to the woman's since her inner thoughts and justifications are relatable but am getting invested in exploring the spiral of the male character in this fic. I don't want the story to be read as weird male self-insert fantasies but it feels so indulgent to write about how viciously I'd like (character) to fuck him up. Pls advise nonnas.
No. 336533
>>336526You mean a third person POV? It's doable but there's a level of investment when you get one exclusive perspective imo.
>>336527That's exactly what's screwing me over kek I want to put his pathetic misery to paper but also vicariously live through her.
No. 336672
>>336524For me it depends on the story and what works best. I love writing and reading the woman's POV because there is too little of that in good quality, but male POV is good too, especially if it really describes his thoughts and feelings
ideally including fear and humiliation but also stupid whorish lust. 3rd, 2nd, 1st person, anything goes. I also like it when the female narrator or POV character is describing the man's expression and trying to guess his thoughts, more or less projecting her own thoughts upon him, maybe because it's relatable.
No. 336720
>>336672Pretty much everything you said about female POV is how i feel too. Maybe it's a skill issue but writing in male perspective when there's not a lot going on in his head is tough, I'll try writing again and see if there's some compelling emotions he can go through.
thanks for all the input anonies.
No. 337198
>>337099You want your bf to be fit? That's quite normal and not kinky.
>>337192As you said, almost all content that objectfied
beautiful submissive men used to be fujo content or for gay men. Things are better these days. This otome game looks very promising, for example.
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god all i want is an switch/sub younger man who has actual substance and worth give himself over entirely into my care so I can love and brutalise him for the rest of his life. I would take such good care of him.
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"I'll go make coffee."
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half the images in here suck tbh.
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Girl/Girl?
No. 340643
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A recommendation for my fellow women of culture: Otome audio were you legit torture the guys. Actually stab them and one gets his tongue split in two. This is their punishment for being awful and it changes them and then you fuck.
https://www.dlsite.com/girls/work/=/product_id/RJ01073856.html No. 340652
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>>340644Get it when you can, it's worth it, these lads sure can scream. Pic from a comic that was included.
No. 340660
>>340643I came here thinking about asking what to do when your submissive constantly disappoints you, and then you post this. Thanks
nonnie, I am healed.
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@gzgnight has some delicious art
>>340708That’s fucking hot. Lab coats, glasses, experiments, med fet, purrrr
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>>340722Wow excellent art. Posting another by her.
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>>340049This is weird but I love the way dicks look when they're pointing straight up like that, like laying on the stomach, it's the best
For any anons who have the men in pain fetish you should watch the scenes in Queen Charlotte with the extremely hot actor bound in a chair with a gag on being tortured with leeches and half naked and shit. It's a little too far for me cause I'm not so much on the sadist side and I just wanted to comfort him, but ngl turned me on a bit
No. 340855
>>340845Which episode nona?
Leeches were used as common medical treatment back then though, so what a cry baby.
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No. 343000
>>342968That sucks. Maybe make a reward system for enduring pain. Like he earns some good boy points that go towards earning a special prize (a kissy).
>>342996You wish
>>342970Hot until the end where you "breed him" by impregnating yourself to spite some random other guy. If it's a fantasy why even involve another random guy in it that'll just get in your way? Or a child? Why not just be a princess with a hot, sexy, obedient and chaste knight? Lame.
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I'd like to be useful to an older women, like being a piece of human furniture for her to use her legs on my back while she reads, an ash tray to lightly tap the end of her cigarette on my waiting tongue maybe spit in my mouth and I'd be so giddy that I'm being helpful to her, she doesn't even need to compliment me or acknowledge my existence.
No. 343329
>>342966Ayrt I've never even noticed that even though I've read it a bunch lmao. To be honest I sort of half pay attention to the vasectomy shit beforehand because the porn part is too good kek I'm just gonna pretend the brainrot verbiage isn't there
>>342964So glad you liked it, I'm into the exact scenario that you described so if I ever find anything with similar themes I'll link it here again!
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>>342968In the same situation, I feel you nonna
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No. 344279
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You know that feeling when you're into CBT, and he knows it, and sometimes you just gently squeeze his dick/balls to remind him about his vulnerability?
I just came up with a name for that.
"Hamster shaking".
Why such a bizarre name, you might ask.
Here's the answer:
>>>/ot/1662004>holding [it] in my hand and giving it a little shake to remind it I am the superior more powerful beingAnon managed to describe the experience with laser precision. It just fits. We have strange names for poses and kinks already, and hamster shaking is just as perfectly
valid as "doggy style" and "docking". Hell, ever "missionary" sounds weird if you think about it.
I am all for hamster shaking. Are you?
No. 344312
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Interrogation that goes wrong and he's squealing.
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>>344279I am all for hamster shaking!
No. 345326
>>345278I never thought of the distinction between bottoming and submitting that way. He does like pleasing me because he loves me and wants me to feel good, but I don't think pleasing me is a turn on for him. I'm a rather standoffish and blunt person by nature and that drew him to me, so I think it's less about him feeling humiliated and more that he likes seeing that side of me when I'm fucking him - a bit cold and impassive.
I admit I'd really like for him to be turned on by pleasing me, but he's perfect for me in pretty much every other way. However, I think going by your distinction, sexually he's more of a bottom than a sub. But he's very submissive in non-sexual aspects, which I like - he seems to genuinely enjoy being bossed around by me and doing things for me like carrying my things, shopping, cooking, cleaning, bringing me snacks and drinks, etc. One time I asked for something and he teasingly asked me, "what's the magic word?" and I said "now" rather sternly and he loved it lol, got the biggest smile on his face.
Moids are very simple and easily sexually conditioned so I think I might be able to condition him to like it more not by showing enthusiasm, but by 69ing more or touching him while I sit on his face to reinforce the connection between eating me out and getting turned on.
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Won't link it because it's not in English, but a major newspaper in my country ran an article about "professional dommes" and ofc it's moidgaze bullshit about serving degenerate moids' needs. They were the customers so I guess it's to be expected, and of course it's all bullshit like mainstream BDSM in general but I'm still mad. How the fuck dare they call it femdom when it's literally women serving the scrotes all over again? (And dressed in the tackiest, ugliest pvc imaginable kek) They also just had to shove in troons and mention that "some transwomen uwu come to practice makeup and how to be a woman with our dommes teehee", fucking disgusting.
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I just read one, bit moidy but it was set in a generic kink world, women in charge. Had a story of a moid becoming a sort of care assistant/pet/tool for a punk/alt woman in a wheelchair.
spent most of the story shocking him via collar and then chastity, making him sleep in a cage, shocking him some more with a sounding rod then making him eat her out every so often too.
I was kinda hoping for some slight romance (he saves her when she falls trying to get into the bath) but she just get's angry and shocks him some more kek.
ends up stuck as some sort of half servant half latex pet that she shocks for fun and gets oral from, doesn't even get to speak during the story.
>It was moidy but it became interesting that she was in a wheelchair and had that power imbalance but control.
It's a shame that most of the author and artists work is just woman on woman (aka moid gazed focused)
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No. 346348
>>346243malding
>>346247its epic.
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Anybody got any good femdom Denji x Makima fics? I. Just got back into Chainsaw Man and seeing this eager to please, cute, virgin guy try so desperately to please his older female boss to the point of death is honestly so hot and such a sexy role reversal. I want her to force him on his knees and drag him by his tie and force him to eat her pussy all while he begs and thanks her for it.
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Are there any good femdom heavy moves that aren't completely scrote-centric? I've good things about this one, but only from scrotes.
No. 347541
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I don't know if I'm sexually attracted to crying or just sexually attracted to the idea of a moid crying. Never got horny witnessing tears, just disgusted and uncomfortable. Still don't know what kind of tears are the sexiest. I want to make a moid cry due to physical strain/torture but also due to desperation/need. Perhaps one day I will have a moid to experiment this on. Do different types of crying produce differently flavored tears? Hmmmmm
Anyone have experience with males crying? How does it feel in your loins?
No. 347557
>>347541Can relate. I realized I was into tears as a teenager, specifically tears of pain, humiliation, fear, and desperation (as in when he realizes there's nothing he can do to stop it). I like the visual effect but the psychological side is the most important, so I guess tears represent a breaking point of the psyche in a way, the giving up of pride and dignity. I do get turned on by seeing such tears in a drawing or reading about them, but it's not just sexual for me, there's something else too, like a sense of security and satisfaction.
This happens only in fiction, though. If I see a moid cry irl I feel bad or disturbed, so idk how to explore this in real life. In that sense I'm not a true sadist, since I get immediately turned off if I read about e.g. torture knowing it's real. Maybe if I got together with a moid who's into extreme long distance running and would be willing to train until he's at the verge of tears, would I be turned on by seeing that despite the psychological context being different? I don't know.
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Wanted to share this gif with you nonnies
No. 348335
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writing more based femdom fics 'cause there aren't enough based femdom fics and there can't be too many
No. 348349
>>348251Thanks, I wanna amazon him.
>>348335As you should!
No. 348470
>>348336I'm too shy to share my account but it's going to be pretty much rivals hatefucking where the moid (who is canonically a contemptuous asshole) gets put in his place. I'll include:
>cunnilingus>hair pulling>maybe slapping idk>humiliation>light bondage>orgasm denialMaybe I'll make the female mc pull him by his tie as well, thanks for the idea nonas. It's all happening in an office with a great focus to the canonical dynamic between the two characters, I'm a sucker for that sort of thing, but not so much into overt BDSM. I'm also going to include cringy humorous world building just 'cause.
No. 349296
I think femdom is the most beautiful, natural, cohesive relationship dynamic for straight couples. Men are literally biologically designed to be beaten up. Men dominating women is terrifying and revolting because it is perverse, and a complete inversion of the natural state of things. Men are also biologically geared to direct their lives toward something - that might be a stronger man, God, a military leader, a boss - but men are clearly very hierarchically minded. Thus, it makes the most sense for a man to be submitting to a woman in a relationship. He needs something to direct his life towards, and in the ideal scenario, that something is the woman he loves.
I currently have a sexually submissive man, but I am training him to be more submissive in all aspects of our relationship because I think that is the ideal. He already naturally submits to me most of the time when I do this, and I think lots of men are able to be molded like this. I simply started speaking up for myself and worrying less about whether or not my choices are in his best interest - basically, started thinking like a man. Being selfish. I call the shots for what we do, where we go to eat, that sort of thing. He is, of course, free to spend time with his friends and whatnot, but I am conditioning him more and more to dedicate himself to my joy when we are together. When he was little he was very interested in medieval times and knights - I have leaned into this and positively reinforced him acting chivalrously and knightly towards me. Malesub should follow an archetype like a knight, in my opinion. Masculine and strong, yet willingly servile and devoted.
I hate that femdom is seen as this weird niche kink that's very male-oriented. I truly believe it is the most harmonious type of relationship, and it is the ascended form of straight female sexuality. When women become truly sexually liberated, I think they will naturally gravitate towards this dynamic as it is the most satisfying and fulfilling. Curious if anyone else has similar thoughts on the "philosophy" of femdom as it were.
No. 349300
>>349296This is just the truth. Men are only capable of being truly happy and fulfilled once they throw aside their ego and fully devote their lives to the woman they love. Look what happens when they don't. They become insecure. They lash out. They waste their lives away. They become fat, unkempt, and slovenly. They troon out. They fall into all sorts of addictions and vices, trying to fill a gaping void that could never be filled through such base and shallow means. Unfortunately, most men never get over their insecurities and there are still way too many women who coddle them and mommy them. A woman can also never reach her full potential if she's taking care of and being submissive to a moid.
>I truly believe it is the most harmonious type of relationship, and it is the ascended form of straight female sexuality.Preach.
No. 349324
I went to a known kink bar with a friend out of curiosity. Women and creepy old ""dom"" men were approaching me. I like women, but I don't want to sexually torture them in the same way I do men. I would not use a woman or degrade her even if she wanted it. The men my age were either flaming fags or there with their gf looking for a unicorn. I'm about to resort to looking online but I know advertising for a male sub is just going to attract the lowest scum of men
>>349296Agree 100% with you. Men are created to submit to women. The sooner they accept this, the more liberated both sexes will be
No. 349360
>>349357This is gonna sound retarded as fuck but my mommy kink is kind of
abusive, so idk if a nice older woman is gonna do that with me. I wanna be demeaned, beat, strangled and abused by an
abusive roleplay mom, but the aftercare is affectionate and cuddly mom, yk?
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No. 349741
>>349740>gross naked maleAre you not attracted to men in general or something, or is it the art style?
>but there's something off about these such as the women wearing heelsProbably because the women are dressed up and meant to be "sexy", while the guy is drawn as unappealing as possible. I wish less focus was put on the woman in femdom art, like just put her in pajamas or something plain and make the guy super hot. It always feels like it's trying to hard to appeal to men with the heels and woman looking as sexy as possible.
No. 349753
>>349741>when the guy is drawn as unappealing as possibleThat answers your first question
>put her in pajamasI know, right? Or just comfy clothes in general. Why is the second woman wearing heels and a pencil skirt in what looks to be her own home (I say, as the room is empty except a chair and a moid)
No. 349837
>>349753Agreed, this art is way too scrotey. The pencil skirt and heels with what looks like an H&M crossover tank top from 2014 lol. I can tell a moid drew it because that's how trannies dress.
>>349741The art style is fug, and the male has a soft penis and looks like he's doing the Justin Bieber duckface lol. Also what in the post-1D Zayn is that facial hair. Imo the man should be focusing on serving and pleasing the woman – in this scenario, she would be in comfy clothes and he could be rubbing her feet (she's probably been in those heels all day) or making himself useful by being a footstool. He would ideally be incredibly hard and incredibly flustered and embarrassed about it.
No. 349941
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>steps on his cock in a female gaze way
No. 350332
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I'm back on my bullshit
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No. 351545
>>351521I mean technically yeah its just being an asshole but the idea is right.
>>351528Your extrapolating so much from a 10 second clip
nonnie jeez, its literally just a guy getting an egg smacked on his face
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I don't know where to put this, but I think it should go in this thread.
Last night I bought a sexy pair of pumps because I have been dressing nicer. My boyfriend has a thing for shoes/feet, I do too especially because he worships me and the ground I walk on. We got home from a "classy" date and were starting to get hot and heavy. All of a sudden we start talking about fantasies (we've been dating for 6 months and he's been anxious about my reaction to things) and he says he is constantly thinking about me completely dominating him. I previously expressed that I would like to be more dominating in bed but he seemed apprehensive at first. I forced him to the floor and kept my dress, stockings, and heels on from our date. I had total power over him while he was naked, pathetic, whimpering and begging for me to touch him. I have never felt anything quite like this, nonnies. He kept calling me "mistress" and "goddess" and talked about how he was at my mercy under my heel. We both orgasmed twice, and I made him beg for me to allow him to orgasm. I just wanted to share since I can't talk about this to anyone else… my brain chemistry changed. Jesus.
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I'm so fucking angry. There is literally no fucking media aimed at us. If you want something you have to create it yourself. The mobile game What in hell is bad had promo images of men in bondage and a minigame where you slap and choke them, but guess what, upon release it was revealed that it's maledom as well. Every fucking thing in the universe has to be maledom with uwu non-assertive little women. It's completely enraging.
No. 352423
>>352422All of those!
Also elegant stoic boy who is secretly a freak in bed.
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No. 353067
>>352851Those other moids should mind their fucking business. They are also likely single.
>>353043Im gonna say this is not feasible, especially since moids who are into polyamory tend to be fat neckbeards and troons. Does your boyslave moan/grunt while you're beating on him? I think what you have going on is hot already, but that's just me. If you want him to enthusiastically beg, he'd be faking it. To have a moid genuinely enthusiastically beg he'd probably already be some sort of sexual deviant and from what I hear, moids who genuinely like getting beaten tend to be old fatties. The only way you could achieve what you want is if you time traveled to the past and became a queen/governess/some high class society lady with a bunch of concubines. Maybe build your moid up to begging. First have him gently beg and go "p-please m-more", perhaps.
No. 353125
>>353067Actually especially moid walking with their gfs/wives make stank faces.
I also lovingly slap his face in public, just a little love tap
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>>352359Me too nona. What I'd also like is for a genderbent scrote game to extend to using the same artstyles as galge, just with guys instead. One of my biggest turnoffs for otome games is that the artstyles aren't cute and anime-like enough for my liking.
>>352322>>352331>>352381>>352404>>352422If anyone else is serious about this, I'm willing to offer programming (with ren'py) and some writing/character design (but not artwork) duties.
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>>352322If you guys do historical, whoever does the art NEEDS to do their fucking research. Lazy character design/costume research is something only scrotes do, and it really pulls me out of the game.
No. 353629
i submitted a fic to the directory but i'll post it here as well because it's just too good.
https://archiveofourown.org/works/39166725/chapters/97992168+ i recently realized half of my enjoyment of femdom is related to the very sight of deferential, pathetic men (real or 3D). i love being the active part and inflicting things but seeing a man act submissive of his own accord/because he's perverted is just as potent. i've known a couple guys who gave off the 'beaten puppy who would kneel with a smile' vibe, even asked one if he'd be into it but sadly he really disliked the idea. i coped by telling myself it's good that he's naturally like this, without porn lol
No. 353639
>>352321>The mobile game What in hell is bad had promo images of men in bondage and a minigame where you slap and choke them, but guess what, upon release it was revealed that it's maledom as wellNoooo fucking way. They probably knew what they were doing, the assholes.
>>352322For me it's modern setting because I'm basic like that and I always love the classics, and like other nonnas said I really like the oldschool dating sim/eroge aesthetic that modern otome games miserably fail to capture. But as long as all the main cast are adults (especially the protagonist), there's nice variety in male love interests, the protagonist is always dominant and sadistic and not punished for it, and the designs aren't too retarded, I'm fine with whatever. I fully trust nonnas with worldbuilding.
And also like other nonnas said, it'd be pretty nice if it was as coomer as a typical scrote eroge but with the sexes reversed.
>>352346>Reminds me of that otome game with a supposedly dominant MC but she gets raped and treated as a sex slave and it's unavoidable.Jooubachi no Oubou? Thank God I never played that shit then, the art was also very wonky and unarousing. I only ever listened to the do-M boy (Utsuro)'s CD drama tracks on SoundCloud before they cracked down on situation CD piracy (RIP). That was my first situation audio ever and that's how I realized that whole medium was pretty hot kek I thought it was going to be cringe. He had pretty nice moans.
>>352422It largely depends on the setting but I think having a butler type character is a must, Maybe a deeply religious celibate man, or a knight perhaps? Since nonnies have been talking about those archetypes in previous threads.
>Bratty mean boy we have to (physically and mentally) break?>Shy boy?Yes to both.
No. 353739
>>353433You're living the dream nona.
>>353639How are we going to organize this game thing so it actually gets started? We got a programmer and an artist among us, what about a writer?
No. 353774
>>353739I have little experience of otome games but I'm a femdom writer (sort of) and I'd be possibly interested in writing for the project. Idk if I can adapt my style to suit something like this, but it sounds really interesting and I love the idea of grassroots creating something for ourselves if nobody else is gonna do it.
>>353739a nona willing to organize the server could post a personal contact in the friend finder thread, then add people individually to a server (preferrably after a verification to avoid scrotes), I think that's allowed.
No. 353988
>>353911First, don't ever worry about saying the "right things" to turn him on. This is about YOU. You're not acting out a porn for him, so there doesn't have to be "dialog." If you feel like saying something, say it. But if you're feeling /pressured/ to say something, that's not femdom. That's just you trying to act "dominant" to satisfy a man's desire to see you act that way. Don't sacrifice your own pleasure to please a man. So if you're asking for advice on what to say to be a super sexy dominatrix in his eyes, this is the wrong thread for it. But if you're having a hard time coming up with what to say because you haven't fully actualized your sexuality and you're having a creative block in understanding what personally turns you on because you've spent your life being taught to be pleasing to a man, well, I understand that. You'll have to think about what turns you on, and then act on that thing. If it helps, don't think about it as femdom - think about it as malesub. It's not your "job" to dominate him, it's HIS job to serve and please you. This can make it easier to undo some of the societal conditioning that can make it hard to access your own sexuality.
>What else could I say?Well, I don't know what you /did/ say, so maybe start by telling us that. Most of the talking I do in the bedroom is just ordering my sub around. It doesn't have to be any more involved than that if you don't feel like it would personally be arousing to you to talk more. So again, start from what turns you on about malesub. If it helps, imagine a fantasy submissive man. If you could say anything to him, what would you say? I'll list some themes I personally like if it's helpful for you to get started thinking about what personally excites you:
>a man longing to be devoted and obedient to me>a man being flustered and embarrassed when he gets turned on>a sub feeling unworthy of me and longing to please me>a man's eyes widening with fear as he realizes I am completely in control of him>watching a man's typical arrogance crumble into pathetic servitude because I mindbreak himI personally like teasing and being a bit mean to my sub. I'll take something that I enjoy, and frame it as a question. So for instance, I really like the idea of my sub feeling helpless and embarrassed, so I'll say something like, "I can only imagine how humiliated I'd feel if I were you right now. Tell me, do you feel as helpless as you look tied up like that?"
Or "is this where you belong? Underneath me? Doesn't it feel good to be put in your place?" I like eliciting affirmative responses, especially as it gets harder for him to talk. If he's getting all flustered and can't talk, I'll make fun of him for that too. I remind him of his inferiority, or better yet, I make him tell me how inferior and pathetic he is and how unworthy he is of me.
You can also be a lot more creative than that. I like acting out fantasies I have that aren't realistic. For instance, the idea of hypnotizing a man and having him psychologically under my control is really hot to me. So I'll play into that, and tell him that when I kissed him, I put a spell on him that made him do whatever I say. Stuff like that, idc if it's cringe.
Bottom line, just relax and be more selfish. And I mean selfish. Once you've dommed a man while you're in your sweatpants, made him eat you out and then ordered him to get up and make you both breakfast, you'll realize how silly it was to be worried about awkward-sounding dialog.
No. 354106
>>353988>But if you're having a hard time coming up with what to say because you haven't fully actualized your sexuality and you're having a creative block in understanding what personally turns you on because you've spent your life being taught to be pleasing to a manIts 100% this, I've always been the submissive role despite the interest so despite me wanting to branch out to being more dom its as if its hard to break the repetition? If that makes sense?
I called him a good boy, had him position himself in embarrassing and emasculating ways and anything I asked him to do I made him reply "yes mistress" "thank you mistress".
What you've written is right up my ally, thats a good way to look at it. Thank you for your response!
No. 354205
>>354176Me too
nonny. I sometimes dream of directing a horror movie where all the male characters’ scary scenes/deaths are long and drawn out the same way horror movies normally do with female characters.
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>>354912So they won't feel anything if you use a sleeve?
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Hyunjin
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No. 355979
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I will never find a worthwhile malesub. Every moid I've found who claims to be into this has terminal pornbrain and wants to top from the bottom or wants me to be his bangmaid mommy. The fact that I'm not into pegging is the nail in my femdom dream coffin. Why was I put on this earth, nonnas? Only to suffer?
No. 356114
>>356060I like the way you think. Non-porn-addled moids seem like such a scarce commodity, I wonder where other women are finding them? I do think I could effectively condition one given the chance. I share your mindbreak fantasy in my head but I am too put off by real arrogant men to actually go through with it in person, the second a scrote condescends to me I lose all interest. My type is nervous and deferent. I don't know where to meet men like this. Do they really exist? I wish I liked 2D men.
>>356083Presently, I feel that paying for sex puts me on the same level as a man, but that might be short-sighted of me. Pickings are slim. I'll give it some thought.
>>356002This has been my experience.
>>355995Bad! Out of all the types of male subs I can't stand, I think sissies are the most intolerable. Disgusting.
No. 356134
>>356083That's the dumbest shit I've ever heard
>>355979Just get a normie bf and train him, I did
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>>354176Not necessarily horror but when males get beat up and look scared kek
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Spoiler!
Idk how to spoiler videos.(lolcow.farm/info)
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No. 357468
>>357222Malesub/boyslave (demented version of boyfriend)/correcting the natural order/whatever else
>>357345Need
>>357347Need
No. 358952
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>>355979Do you nonnas think that straight femdom relationships and sex are really impossible without pegging?? I'm genuinely pondering about that. Long story short I found my spouse through this fetish and even though he was kind of interested in pegging as a teenager, very early on I let him now that I am absolutely NOT into that. It seems, well,gay, artificial, not intimate enough and also like it's serving the male and I find much more arousal in femdom through the standard PIV sex. My spouse (I really dislike using the word husband when speaking about my younger submissive partner who was a virgin schoolboy when I met him lmao) at least claimed that he's totally fine with it and hasn't tried brining it up again for a few years already. In a way I do believe that he's fine with the sex life we have and the femdom I practice but at the same time of course I cannot help thinking that deep down he's disappointed that I'm not a kinky porn-y femdomme who wears leather gear and wants pegging to be out main sexual activity, especially when seeing posts like this
No. 358957
>>358952if it were impossible, that would kind of negate the whole point of femdom. asserting your will and doing what you want = dominant, doing things you're not 100% into because it's expected of you is the opposite of dominant.
for example where i'm at right now i'm not totally comfortable with the idea of cunnilingus, and while it's something i do hope to work on if i ever end up in a relationship with someone i genuinely trust, i would never let myself be pressured into it to prove i'm
really into femdom or whatever. for a lot of women getting their pussy ate is obviously an integral part of being dominant, however it would very much not be dominant if i didn't wanna do it, so it would be silly to agonize over being a fake domme about it. we don't have anything to prove. not to mention women don't even get much from pegging so…
No. 358973
>>358952AYRT, of course it's possible, I just haven't yet found a submissive male partner who wasn't fixated on it. That doesn't mean they don't exist. My experience is limited, I am quite picky and have not had the good fortune of developing a long-lasting connection with anyone else in this fetish. Never been interested enough in an attainable man to put in the effort to train him in the direction of my preferences. This is, at least in part, a consequence of my nature.
I think it fundamentally has more to do with the common scrote mentality of topping from the bottom than the act itself. It feels like serving the male to me, too. If your spouse is truly submissive, I suspect things are fine as they are, nona. Your relationship sounds sweet and I'm happy for you. You don't have to cater to some pornbrained fantasy that he may or may not have.
No. 359089
>>358952guys who just want you to peg them while wearing stilettos and a latex outfit aren't truly submissive imo. they're just selfish pillow princesses.
me, I'd rather be completely vanilla than be with one of those lazy bastards. if a moid wants me to act like his goddess then he has to treat me like a goddess. i want a sub that will eat me out for an hour while I'm drinking wine. I want a sub who will buy me shoes, massage my feet, and kneel down to tie my laces when they're undone. I want a sub who will pull out my chair, open my doors, and carry my bags. in short, I want a sub who is actually submissive and will give me something in return instead of expecting me to wear uncomfortable outfits and penetrate him with a dildo for his own pleasure while mine is ignored.
No. 359147
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Thank you nonnas, I didn't expect yall to actual read my longass post.
>>358957Based. I'm not doubting myself, I just sometimes get annoyed thinking that my sub might secretly be into things I disapprove of and are more focused on the sole act of him being humiliated by a woman for his masochistic pleasure and not submitting to ME and pleasing ME. Well, but the way things are in reality is my way, so that's what matters.
>>358973Aw, thank you… And I do agree with you on the topping from the bottom part. Unfortunately most guys who get into femdom do end up wanting to top their dommes from the bottom as if they cannot help it. Sexual selfishness is almost an inevitable inherent part of male sexuality, even if they are inclined to masochism and submissiveness. That's why younger guys became my hard preference ever since I entered my early twenties, there's more hope with them when you can partially groom them and shape their sexual preferences. I would suggest you giving a try to younger, inexperienced and shy subs but it seems like it might be something you're really not into and I get that.
>>359089Hell yeah, I like what you're saying. I would definitely rather settle with super vanilla stuff and a guy whose is afraid of being chocked instead of a masochist sub who is cute but genuinely thinks that a woman can derive pleasure from being a porn dominatrix who doesn't even want to be touched and prefers flogging and pegging a stinky moid to being eaten out and actually orgasming
No. 359180
>>359150Seconding
>>359169, lots of retarded jocks (cringe word, sorry) getting bloody noses. A lot of them are quite cute which helps. If you can go to a game irl they're super fun too.
Sometimes I wish they'd mic them up so we could hear their wumps kek No. 359712
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No. 362416
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>>359158I bet you're going to hate my answer, but well, you asked lol. I met him on the imageboard that shall not be named when he made a gfd thread there and complained that he cannot find women into this fetish in the region of Europe where we live and I replied to his post that well, here I am. Don't judge me, I was really horny for some gfd action back then and I guess got lucky to get what I want, it was a successful internet dumpster diving
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>read cute fic>long, complete, writing is good>male love interest is my type>gets abused a bunch>fem mc rescues him>the sex is all maledom for some reason >author has written femdom for other stories, just chose not to for this oneeverything fucking sucks. i mean, i doubt i'd be able to dom that guy either, but a girl can dream.
>>362416just imagining a male sitting at his computer typing a reply to some lame /co/ thread and attaching a dumb anime reaction image i'd struggle to get horny again after that, ever, but good for you lol
No. 362603
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I am discovering more about myself and my desires as I allow my thoughts to be explored without judging myself, without “masking” even inside my own mind, pretending to be something I’m not, shedding any desires within me to uphold some sort of humility. I struggle with self confidence issues as I’m sure nearly 100% of people on earth do, and for women it is especially omnipresent and brutal.
I have questioned myself and my desire to “take” men. Most of my fantasies surrounding femdom do not involve punishing men, hurting men, taking out my frustrations on unwilling men (though for the latter, it is a for, of stress release when I feel I can’t get what I actually want. These fantasies never escalate to sex, however). I thought perhaps that meant I wasn’t truly “dominant”, that I was actually submitting myself to the male ego by being too considerate, that I was self-absorbed, narcissistic even, for seeking their validation because their “want” was required.
I have stopped giving a fuck about whether or not my desires should be pathologized. I want men to want me, and that is truly the foundation of my sexual fixations. I want them to want me and express their want by lowering themselves, forfeiting themselves to me, allowing themselves to be judged by me, for better or for worse. A true and honest ego death of the male. Nothing seems more thrilling than a man who knows what he is, something like a subhuman, a lesser, a parasite even. I want him to give into his most base instincts in front of me. Vying for me. I want to use a man like that. I want him to only care about my acceptance. I am a big spider in my den, waiting for suitors to approach, suitors who want nothing more than to live or die at my judgement, my judgement being what they crave the most.
I have not been able to find this outside of the realm of fantasy. Maybe there are a small percentage of heterosexual men who do truly view their sexualities in this way, but they might as well not exist.
I want men to debase themselves, but the ‘submissive’ men I see only really do just that. For their own twisted sort of meta-sexual thrill. They only like being taken, being punished, being humiliated, if it follows some paraphilic formula they have established in their minds. Just another manifestation of standard, substanceless male sexuality. For these men, the humiliation itself is the thrill. Clinging onto their egos, their delusions, that they are as ‘human’ (often, if not moreso) than the women they desire. They get off roleplaying the idea of their humanity being stripped, but it’s all just that. Fake. These men are the most ego-driven in existence often times. I need a man who does not feel shame in submission, who does not feel himself lessening, who doesn’t take pleasure in the idea of being lessened, but just is who he is with full honesty. A “male” in the most fundamental way. A man’s desire is his weakness, and males themselves are nothing but beings of desire. A man’s desire for women is an admission of his status as a lesser to women. His mind is already governed by women, his mental state is dependent on how honest he is with himself about it. He should accept this, and crawl into my den.
I’m rambling at this point and I lost the plot. Basically I want men to objectify themselves for me and slap them around a little without layers and layers of het moid ego-soothing copes. It’s exhausting. I only want a true uke man. Like a fairy, he is mythical.
No. 362883
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>>362745The common male submissive type is a very mentally damaged, pathetic thing.
They are extremely ego-driven, self-absorbed, solipsistic. They view themselves (and by extension, their pleasure) as the center of the universe. Nothing else matters to them. Ironically, the self-proclaimed submissive man hates women just as much if not more than any other man. She is just a tool. A “lesser being” whose only function is to drag him down to her level or lower. His sexuality is malignant in a less common way, but still malignant. The average man hates himself and hates women, and soothes his cock by forcing women to submit and offer themselves to be devoured. The navel-gazing cock-preoccupied misogynist is different in that he jumps through a few more mental hoops to soothe the black hole within him that is his own destructive sexuality.
Before I continue about them I have to also explain how I view male/female relations.
Women are the universe, not to go off on “mother goddess” hippie feminist bullshit, but it is fundamentally true. Women are intrinsically linked to life, and men exist to fill the voids in their souls by attaching themselves to us. I think the realization of this (subconsciously even, they often aren’t intelligent enough to be actively aware of this dynamic, or have gone through so much patriarchal conditioning they’re full of inverse-logic copium. Regardless, their status as lessers are encoded into their dna) brings men great distress, their covetousness, their desires, their need. Much like a parasite would hate that its existence relies upon a host. The male feels much distress when confronted with the reality of what he is.
For these “submissive” men, they punish themselves by reminding themselves of what they fear that they are, what they fear of honestly admitting. They can never truly accept themselves as lesser. They only permit themselves to flirt with the idea in a sandbox of sexual self-flagellating fantasies, by wearing shrimp cages, confined in latex, and getting stepped on. His focus is his shame, his humiliation. His focus is not to worship a woman as his better-than, but seeking his own thrills by riding on the edge of utter debasement. In a sense, these “submissive” men can never actually fully submit, because they must always have a foothold in their egos for them to be dragged down and defiled at all.
They are much like adrenaline junkies, jumping off cliffs to taste the edge of death, but never really wanting to die. These men see full, unashamed fealty to a woman same as death (and it is a death to them, full male ego death).
The only truly liberated man is one who craves death. Who craves to relent, and be subjected to the whims of a god, in this case, his god, a woman. These men do not exist. These men are the only ones I consider truly heterosexual. Heterosexual men are a meme. Male sexuality is primarily spiritual male worship and the objectification and defilement of female bodies due to his own primitive lust, and his psychosis developed because of his inability to escape his lust. There aren’t many men who actually “love” women.
A heterosexual man, an ideal man like this would be my personal whore. Dressed up in tantalizing clothes, throwing it back for me, practicing his sexy moans for my titillation alone, begging to lick my pussy, thanking me graciousness and breathlessly if I ever permit him access to the inside of my body. He only gets sexual satisfaction knowing he is satisfying me.
The more I describe this man I realize how he is exactly what women are trained to behave, to be feminine, to be consumable, to defer. The world is so backwards and annoying because these parasites have gotten far too uppity, thinking they’re in charge because they take bites from us, unable to come to terms that without us they’d wither and die. So who really has the power here? Anyways I’m veering too off topic.
This ideal man is nothing like these pseudo-submissives. What pleasure do I get, putting a horrendously ugly man in a cage? Stepping on him? Calling him misogynistic slurs? Is it to make me feel pleasure? Not at all, it’s for his thrill alone, and to humiliate myself in some abstract, meta-attracted way that could only be born of y-chromosomal sexual psychopathy.
Only fuck with pretty men who moan cute and eat your pussy. Pretty men who look at you with reverence in every regard. No other man is worth your time. They’re all mentally deranged and unnatural, and most of them are hideously ugly as well.
No. 362886
>>362883If any
nonnie wants me to I can do an analysis on the simpering “gentle femdom” mommy-obsessive subset of “submissive” men, I will. I was thinking about those pitiful slimes as I was writing this. However I am about to sleep but I am willing to write more later.
Thank you!
No. 363776
>>362883 Thank you for writing this. Can't wait for the follow-up.
>>361648 I forgot to reply but same! Anything that conceals their face is hot. Motorcycle helmets, eye covers, gas masks, etc.
No. 364207
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>>362603Gotta be one of my favorite posts on this site. Clean screenie without LC's UI for later use & easier sharing.
No. 364217
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Sorry nonnies I forgot to bitch about how much I hate mommyfuckers.
When I said earlier that I crave a man who is in touch with his true self, I thought I could look here. I wasn’t interested in stomping on the scrotes of ugly old divorcees, so these seemed like a good alternative. I was drawn in by the idealized animu pictures of loving couples where the woman is shown taking control. A lot of it was trash, of course, but a lot of it was also very obviously made by women, and appealed to my sensibilities. Yes, I would love to have a cute anime boyfriend who calls me ma’am and lets me push him around while he melts into a blushing puddle.
The real ones aren’t like that, though.
What you find is terminally rejected men. Terminally rejected men who have, in their infinitely retarded and entitled moid brains, have decided that since women keep snubbing his advances, the answer is for women to come to him. This is a common phenomenon with scrotes I have observed, if something doesn’t go their way, their solution is to not only insist it should be how he wants but it should be even easier for him to get it. Most egregious example of this I can think of now are incels who demand complete trad subservience and marriage from women while they leverage absolutely nothing but their negging and whining. The mommyfuckers are much the same.
Problem: women don’t respond to my advances (or I’m just too much of a chickenshit to even approach them at all because I know how detestable I am)
Solution: the universe reformulates and women now want me and pursue me. No action required on my part.
Simple moid logic, manifesting a new reality.
These men aren’t like spider bfs. They don’t love and approach women and seek to serve them because they truly want to.
In fact, they start deluding themselves into thinking that it’s their job to sit and roost and wait for an actionable woman to whisk them away in her strong, capable arms. And the funny thing is? They think it’s a compromise. By their logic, they exchange their manhood for a crumb of pussy. But that’s not how it works, and not how it will ever work. But it is how it works in their idiot minds, where male hierarchy game is the only system of capitol they understand.
Mommyfuckers are failed normies and “settling” for a humiliated sex life because they stupidly believe if they “emasculate” themselves, women would be MORE likely to approach them. “I forfeited 40 alpha tokens, and that means a lot to me. I forfeited so many alpha tokens that basically I’m a sissy fag and that’s like a death sentence as a man. In exchange for my great sacrifice, I will surely be rewarded pussy” <- this is how they actually think.
Their self esteems are fragmented. Like the typical femdom coomer, they simultaneously have a high and low opinion of themselves. The difference between the scrote-flatteners and the mommyfuckers is that the scrote-flatteners are essentially brain dead and lost to the goon forever. Not to say they aren’t abusive and insufferable when they have moments of sexless clarity, but their goon haze is present the majority of the time.
The mommyfuckers? They will eat your entire life. Once you accept them, once they believe they have you fully locked down (and after the novelty of nursing handjobs and repetitions of ‘good boy’ loses its lustre), their strategy of humiliating themselves to snare you in the first place dissolves. What you’re left with a very ego-damaged male who does not have the faculties to cope. He bargained with his alpha points and bagged you. Well, now he has you, so what is left of him besides a massive wound to his ego? He will resent you. He will see you as a reminder as the “manliness” he sacrificed to get his claws into a woman. He will resent you for his want, even. These men hate that they want women, which is why they so desperately wish women wanted them. It’s what their whole shtick is, sex and intimacy is just an elaborate roleplay where he tries to convince himself a woman wants him more than he wants women (he will never be convinced, because it’s not true, and he knows it. It eats away at him. You can never, ever want him enough to sate his ego, because a man is just an endless black hole).
He’ll revert back to a base form scrote, except with the added shit multiplier of a severely damaged post-mommydom ego. He’ll cheat, goon, abuse you, neg you, you know the drill. I’d say it’s even worse than the average scrote, honestly. There are many more layers in which you remind him of his own failures as a male, which, in typical scrote fashion, he will make your problem. Violently, life ruination-y, like they love to do.
A bit scathing than everything I said earlier, they are just bad at sex, and bad at giving you any pleasure really. Their core philosophy is entitlement, so it checks out. It’s a chore to fuck these men. You’ll spend less time getting your pussy ate and actually getting quality pipe (and believe me, getting good, hard, and long pipe sessions and cumming multiple times is more aligned with ‘femdom’ and ‘female serving’ than all of these bullshit fetish rituals these scrotes devise. But I digress), more time cooing at him like a baby and jerking his cock how he likes.
Also, a point to mention that I neglected before, I find part of the bargaining they do is logic-ed out not in small part to do with mommy issues. These men look to a mother figure as an icon of a woman who does not reject them. It’s definitely tied to their strategy as well as their fetishes which revolve heavily around simulating a mother/son relationship.
I am not at my best right now and I feel like I say this every time but it’s true. Ladies, just please never ever fuck with these mommy freaks. If you feel like you need to fuck and can’t find a spider-bf, do yourself a favor and just find a vanilla normie. If a man has specific sexual fixations it’s never good news, even if it sounds fun in a vacuum. Trust me, you can get a normie man to indulge you. You never need to entertain these pathetic mommyfuckers. For your own safety and sanity, just don’t.
No. 364274
>>364217First of all, wonderfully written, you could write a whole book on the philosophy of femdom.
Secondly, as much as I loved reading your post, it made me feel, well, defeated by myself because it felt like a lecture directed at a dumbass like me.
I will admit, some years ago in my early twenties I got really into the whole mommy fetish and younger guys thing and did find one kid into this as well. He did tell me about his submissiveness and interest in femdom stemming from feeling "unlovable, unworthy of female attention and like no woman could actually be interested in him" since he was a child and that he felt like the only way to get female attention is to give himself up to be humiliated by women for their enjoyment (lol).
I did sense something off with it, but due to my own flaws dismissed it and now I'm sharing my life with him.
You phrased it perfectly that sex with him very often can feel like a chore and that the focus is on everything but my pleasure. The worst part is that in the beginning of our relationship, before we actually started having sex and would just cuddle/make out, I would get genuinely aroused so easily but now it's been forever since I managed to even get wet before and proceed with it either way because well, I am very diligent with all kinds of household chores and I do feel affection towards him. Even though he insists that he cares about my pleasure, often he acts like a pillow princess and asks me what should he do in an anxious voice. He was a virgin before meeting me, but come on, it should be intuitive what to do and touch to please your partner and show how you adore them and their body. All of it results in him cumming every time and me, well, twice a month.
I do realize that it's up to me to fix it for myself but goddamn I fell from grace in my own eyes as a woman who was sooo much into sensual femdom and thought that she found the sweetest partner for it
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No. 367233
>>366173not really, that sounds kinda overbearing.
>>366851holy shit yes, it's gotten so bad. but even normal femdom these days is pretty bad so i hardly bother looking anymore.
No. 367293
>>366173I've been thinking gentle femdom more as the same as regular femdom but less extreme, as in not causing visible injury or too much pain, just slapping him around a bit, hair pulling, ordering him to do stuff etc. but no bruises or knives or literal murder ya know.
>>366851It absolutely sucks but I'm channeling the misery into inspiration for writing better fics. I wanna be the change.
No. 367411
>>366173>>367355I agree with this view to a certain extent. I think the ideal male sub traits are essentially the ideal traits associated with male service positions, such as knights and butlers. Masculine and dignified (as opposed to "humiliated" or "sissified" ew), yet obedient, submissive, devoted, and loyal. The reason so many moids today are lazy burnouts is because men need authority figures to guide them, and so without religion or military service, they get all weird and purposeless and confused. To me, I see my dominant role in my relationship as providing the type of authority and leadership for my sub that he instinctively craves, while still retaining his masculinity and strength.
However, I think the degree of service depends on the relationship. In my case, my sub does whatever I tell him to in bed; going down on me when and how I tell him to, letting me use him how I want, etc. He also brings me things when I ask, does chores for me, cleans my house, and does my shopping (I hate going to the grocery store). We split finances for the most part (rent, groceries, etc.), because we earn about the same amount, but he pays for dates mostly unless I'm feeling like spoiling him. However, I drive 90% of the time. I find driving relaxing, and he's not a very good driver, so I just prefer to do it. I'm aware that some of these things could be construed as me serving him, but it's really dependent on the relationship. The "gentle" part of it is that I do care for and love my sub, and so I occassionally do like to treat him by buying him dinner or letting him come.
Sometimes I worry that he secretly wants to be more selfish (like 99% of male "subs" who just want to be lazy starfish), but I had a good test of that recently. He had surgery and was unable to do most things on his own for a few days. To my surprise and delight, he did not particularly seem to enjoy me having to take care of him. In fact, he seemed embarrassed and disappointed that he had to ask me to do things for him. As soon as he was able to do things himself, he would do them, and he keeps falling over himself thanking me for what I did do to take care of him.
I think what makes it "gentle" femdom is mainly that I don't like degrading or humiliating my sub. He's pathetic because he's a moid, but he can't help that, and he does try to understand his place as a lesser being. Rather, I think it's like I'm the queen and he's one of my most loyal and faithful knights. I would never put him above me or let him taste a fraction of the power I enjoy, and yet I care for him.
No. 369078
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What are some good looking boxers/MMA fighters? I want to start watching them get beat up but only if they're handsome. I saw anons posting picrel here and I think he looks cute.
No. 369095
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>>369078That's Ren Hiramoto he is a kickboxer/MMA fighter, he used to fight in K-1 and Krush Federation before changing to Rizin FF.
You can watch some of his fights on youtube for free.
He is 5'8(173cm) No. 369105
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>>369078My favorite is Superbon, his body is so perfect… He also has a youtube channel and he's actually really good kek
Pic is him getting tortured while stretching
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>>369078This is my moment. Watching Rory Macdonald get his face smashed in by Robbie lawler and seeing how pathetic he looked while it happened is an instant turn on
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>>369078Oh and also luke rock hold, former Calvin Klein model. He hit the wall a few years ago but him in his prime was fine af. He lost his mind one fight and started rubbing his blood all over fellow hot fighter Paulo Costa’s face
No. 369809
>>364274Sorry for late response, but is it at all possible to talk sense into these types of men? Would it register in their moid brains if you were to tell them that taking on a submissive role is "not necessarily humiliation nor is it necessarily a weakness"? Do they revert back to their hierarchical views on it later on regardless of what you say?
>>366177 and
>>366182 raised some interesting points. For the average moid everything is taken in through association with other men. So, servant bottom = bad, humiliating; "service top" = good, dignified. These are the exact same role but with a different label slapped on kek. There is no way you can't meme them into thinking that they're the alpha chad whilst simultaneously having them work for your pleasure entirely. I'm not much into femdom (or fucking males, for that matter) besides indulging in some fiction here and there. Can someone who has tried pulling mind games on her moid comment on this?
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No. 370157
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No. 370276
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>>370172Why would anyone want to "fix" scrotes anyway? When you could spent that time and energy into finding one that doesn't suck.
No. 372139
>>370156>>370157That's the kind of content I need. Got more?
>>372102I want to know what was that
No. 372147
>>372139It was a woman seated next to a moid who was bent over with his asshole and balls front and center. You did not miss anything special.
>>370157>>370156Hot, thanks for sharing nona
No. 372420
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spoilered for skeleton dog making a moid uncomfortable
No. 372823
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i wish it were easier to find softcore photos of regular attractive men in rope bondage, specifically stuff that isnt overtly fruity / intended for a gay male gaze . when i try to find it i have to wade through so much gross stuff and cbt content. theres such an abundance of tastefully erotic photos of women in rope bondage, where can i find the same thing of men?
No. 374982
i've been dating my current bf for around 2 yrs, and during that time have tried to hint at wanting to take a more dominating approach. he's pretty much everything i look for in a guy, nice face/body, similar interests, eager to please, but also a totally normal, slightly submissive guy. i finally decided to bite the bullet and tell him abt a fantasy of mine (included bondage and some minor bruising) and his reaction made me feel like the worst piece of shit weirdo of all time. he was just genuinely in disbelief, like what i had opened up to him about was a joke or something. i even cried because i felt so bad for making him uncomfortable. esp since i have other kinks that are more "extreme" (blood play, heavy impact play, degradation) it makes me feel like a moid-tier monster. he even apologized to me later bc he could tell it was affecting me, but i just cant get over it
feel like i deserve the gallows rn. advice?
No. 375052
>>375012sorry nonna, usually he leans towards being obedient, and we've done some light impact play and bondage before (just handcuffs and a blindfold). its not something completely new or a major dealbreaker for him either way.
i'm not really looking for relationship advice (although i'm open to it), moreso how to deal with the guilty feelings. i've never felt this bad about my sexual preferences, although i've never opened up about them either. most of the guys i dated in the past were more interested in pandering SFD or just the idea of a sexy dominatrix getup.
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>>372333Shows how bad the state of our world is when you 1) can't find a male to do those things and 2) thinks it's submission. Holding open doors, pulling out chairs, carrying things for you, are all bare minimum tasks every male should do for his woman. Not wanting to be pooped on and stabbed is also bare minumum kek.
>>374982That sucks, I told this boy I've been talking to that I want to spank him and he was like
>you want to smack my booty?and I was like yes but then he was like
>I'd smack yours too smiley faceand I tried to explain to him that isn't how that works, he
needs a
spanking but I don't think he understood. Imagine what he'd think if I told him about whipping. He has some potential but is too horny. His cock was throbbing through his jeans like a heartbeat just from some hugs and kisses. And when I squeeze him when we're hugging he groans. I don't know why I'm sharing this with you, anon.
No. 375636
>>375631even when I get on top he turns it around lmao, like "good girl", "that's my girl"
this past week I tied him up as a joke and he just flipped me over and pinned me down
No. 377104
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A male I am currently talking to and kind of seeing (I know him in real life, this isn't an online thing) gets into super horny mode and last time he sent me pictures leading up to a picture of his massive erect cock (I am not a penile expert, but it looks massive to me) and then sent me videos of himself stroking to completion. This was all entirely unprompted. I am wondering if there's a way to turn this into a femdom situation, like telling him what to do/edging him/etc. Have not had sexy times in real life, only kissed and snuggled outdoors. His horniness frightens me, but I am wondering if there's potential. He gets hard super easily and seems to have no trouble cumming, so I don't believe he's porn addicted because elsewise he'd be abusing the shit out of his cock and not getting hard from mere hugs. I always thought chaste boys were more trainable, but I've been gathering opinions from others and apparently chaste boys are a bad thing because it isn't normal for a boy to be chaste. Horny is natural, even if it kind of scares me because I am a virgin. What do? Next time he gets horny, should I start bringing up things like edging? If he sends videos again, should I tell him to slow down and not cum until I tell him to? Or should I abandon this project altogether.
No. 377109
>>377104How can you spin it into a femdom situation when he's the one who forced the pictures on you in the first place, hoping you'd service his dick? He's selfish and doesn't care about pleasing you, so why should you give a fuck about him? Just drop him. And for Christ's sake, if a guy ever makes you feel uncomfortable or "frightened", stop interacting with him.
>but I've been gathering opinions from others and apparently chaste boys are a bad thing because it isn't normal for a boy to be chaste. Horny is naturalIf you like chaste boys, go after them and stop warping your tastes to fit other people's useless opinions.
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>>377106I know, it makes me sad to realize this
>>377109Okay. Going after more chaste seeming boys doesn't seem to work though because they're too shy to even say 'hello'. He never mentioned anything about me servicing his penis, I guess he thought I'd find it enjoyable to see?
>>377122Maybe someday, but probably not. I don't know. I'm sad now.
No. 377181
>>377173No offense, this is a serious question, but do you have autism?
>He never mentioned anything about me servicing his penis, I guess he thought I'd find it enjoyable to see?No, he sent you dick pics because it turns him on. He doesn't give a shit about what you want or like, or what your boundaries are. He is just horny and hopes that you'll be desperate and stupid enough to help him get off. Men who care about pleasing you wait for you to bring things up, they don't harass you out of nowhere (that's what sending dick pics is, sexual harassment)
No. 377189
>>377181>Do you have autism?No… but I've never been in a relationship before or even flirted with a male before. He seemed to get off just fine on his own, he felt the need to show me though. Kinda weird. Yeah, I wish he were better. If anything, he's probably autistic.
>>377184Mayhaps…
No. 377194
>>377104>>377189He's not autistic or "felt the need to show you"
nonnie. He's a scrote looking for a bangmaid to help him get off. Just like the anons above said, if he sent you dick pics unprompted, he's definitely sent them to other random women. He's an innocent little baby, he knows what he's doing.
Nta but you do sound like you might have autism thoughFrom your lack of experience it seems like it'd be easy for him to take advantage of you, please run while you still can.
No. 377202
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>>377194No, he has aspergers. Okay I will run. I guess. He is very kind. Of all the males I've talked to and seen at work, he is the most hardworking and respectful. The others are so lazy and look at their phones 24/7. They are emotionally stunted and boring. If all "normal" males are like the ones that are lazy, rude, and incapable of lifting a finger at work (90% of males) then I guess I'll be single forever. I'm used to being single. I guess I will not talk to that boy anymore. Slowly I will cut him out of my life. I have a new job, anyway. I won't see him ever again. Plus those stupid other males would never be good femdom candidates, they can't even handle light teasing. Males nowdays can't handle light teasing. They either freak out, get scared, or they think they have to be rude in order to remain alpha status or whatever. I am blackpilled forever.
And no I don't have autism KEK, I am just retarded. Big difference.
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>>377325I dont think he's pure and he
literally didn't do that, but I suppose what he did is analogous to that if it were in person so fine, you win
No. 377393
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>>377390>old bachelors/eager virginsHe's neither of those, but I get it. I will continue lying in wait for a nice abuseable moid who cares about me.
No. 377518
>>377184KEK
nonnie this made me actually laugh. I'm late to the convo but I wanted to say the same thing.
No. 377584
>>377555if you like him so much, keep seeing him. just be aware most people consider unprompted dick picks a red flag.
how long have you known him?
No. 378204
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Today, I made my bf drink a metric fuckton of water/tea and hold in his pee all day long. When he got home from school, I made him put on a collar, leash and puppy ears and lift his leg to piss on the floor like a dog (with coverings ofc).
I kinda want to get him a fire hydrant plushie to piss on. I'm so based.
No. 378276
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I have stuff I need to get done today but I’m too honry to stay on task. Just want a sweet good boy to lovingly torment sigh
No. 378291
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New Sac kino
No. 379420
>>379281I’m not really sure how you’d punish him for being “too eager to submit”, that sounds like something you should talk about outside of your dynamic and explain that you’d prefer he be more bratty and less pliable. But some fun easy punishments are
spanking, flogging, pinching, you tie him up and ignore him while he thinks about what he’s done (don’t leave him alone though, safety first), grab him by the ear and drag him where you want him for the punishment, choking (research how to do it safely). You could also just cold shoulder him and tell him that
you don’t reward naughty boys with attention and that he needs to do chores until he’s absolved himself of his bad behavior No. 379508
>>379442Yeah and how is edging femdom exactly? Putting effort into giving a man prolonged pleasure and a strong orgasm.
>>379437Normal moids dont start off with having fetish sex either, I've never met a moid who lost his virginity in a kink fuelled sesssion. You hve internet brain damage if you think thats the average first time experience.
No. 382543
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Nonas do you know of any romance novels with femdom themes? I'm looking for books for women with this theme, doesn't have to be hardcore but great if it is, but the man needs to be submissive to the woman and never dominant. I have sadly never come across this so I hope you can help!
No. 382560
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I want a nigel that wants me to take out my anger out on him occasionally. He would tell me to imagine he is some male coworker that I hate or something and I can let out my frustration by hurting him. In my fantasy he’s the one who suggests it and he gets off on it too.
No. 384576
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Want
No. 384840
>>384732>urineNot really my thing but not as scrotish as butt stuff.
>period bloodHot 100% of the time. Bonus points if his face is completely smeared in it.
No. 386104
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>>384845Your man after I'm done with him:
(spoiler this) No. 388084
>>388046>Is there any truth to that stereotype that men who are successful and powerful are more likely to be submissive in bed?Not in the way you'd think. They just get bored of normal sex and need to find increasingly degenerate ways to get off. And they don't actually want to submit (ie. please the woman), they just want to pay a woman to step on them because they see woman as lesser and it makes them feel more degenerate.
>Do these types of men who are successful and submissive/devoted even exist?Of course, but you have to look for them. If you're not going to use dating apps, find some sort of meetup group where you can meet guys through a shared hobby? A lot of "vanilla" guys are open to being submissive too, but it's a bit of a gamble because they could possibly be dominant instead of just vanilla.
No. 388125
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>>388084If I used dating apps what would I use to attract a guy? Am I better off just trying to find a normie than trying to signal with a picture like picrel on a dating app like the frat boy anon did that I specifically want to tie a hot muscular man up? This is my biggest fantasy, I just wanna play with a sexy guy in a white button up with his muscles poking out of the red rope that’s tied around a chair.
I find that a lot of moids are really put off by being tied up for some reason. Even my ex was disgusted by the idea of me edging him and making him beg to finish, wtf is wrong with men.
No. 388209
>>382560I fucking love Sadistic Beauty. I know normies and twitterfags hate it because its "
problematic" but it was so good and the men were hot.
No. 388259
>>388125It's not so much about "attracting" a guy, but sorting through all the trash and finding someone you actually like and are compatible with. Rather than attracting, you want to deter incompatible guys (a huge majority of them) so that it makes it easier to find the right ones. Perhaps put something in your profile that implies you're demanding, you like being in control, etc. Not anything too sexual, though, because then you'll get a high ratio of creeps messaging you. In my opinion, truly submissive guys do want to connect with you as a person, so make sure your profile is detailed and thorough instead of only a couple sentences. Making your profile long is a great way to deter idiots too, they won't read all of that shit and you can instantly unmatch them if they've shown they haven't read the entire thing.
>Am I better off just trying to find a normie than trying to signal with a picture like picrel on a dating app like the frat boy anon did that I specifically want to tie a hot muscular man up?Yes, absolutely. If you post that picture you will only get coomers who don't give a shit about your pleasure.
>>388209Sadistic Beauty was hot. I loved how she tortured her ex and then later cucked him with her new boy toy.
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No. 389125
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what I've seen of this pairing is the only reason I plan on watching dune 2 eventually
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>>389147Sorry sadly I don't know, wish I did. I found it on twitter a while ago with no cred from the account that posted.
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>>346235Hey nona you probably already found it or don't care or just aren't here but i got weirdly invested and reverse searched it and the earliest is from "badgirlsgotocancun" on tumblr from September 3rd 2013 (they're still active) but they took the post down or it was taken down. [
https://www.tumblr.com/badgirlsgotocancun/60183294551]
The poster likely got it from "leanpapi"/Cruzito on tumblr who reblogged it in March of 2023 [
https://leanpapi.tumblr.com/post/712710295991304192] Likely a gay latino guy and looking at his archive he's posted/reblogged a lot of gifs n stuff of men being dominated/hurt. Not necessarily femdom but still hot.
No. 389205
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No. 389208
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No. 389244
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i'm new to this whole thing, and it was triggered by this lanky twink i met
my current fantasy is that i'm his sleep paralysis demon. he's aware of everything but can't move
all my prior fantasies had been scrotegazey, and it feels so nice to be free of that tbh. nothing hotter than teasing and (wo)manhandling a weaker moid, especially if he's pretty
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No. 389686
>>389679You're completely fine. I think femdom (if it's done in a female-centric way, actually focused on the woman's pleasure, enjoyment, comfort, and happiness) is one of the few sexual practices that is healthy for a woman's sexuality and confidence. It only makes sense, because in essence you're putting your own pleasure first and not performing for the sake of a man.
Like you, I also don't look at porn or engage with the BDSM community in any way because both are unethical and
toxic. Too many female dominants in the community promote sex work, porn, etc, and are switches who let men abuse them. In that case I consider femdom an escalation, it's just another kink on their bucket list and likely performative on their part.
>>389680Yeah, seeing yourself above men is completely natural. Focusing so much on a guy's pleasure is more degenerate, although it is normalized.
No. 389690
>>389680>>389686Ty for the responses. It says something that so many of us gather here when there’s never been any genuinely good femdom porn for women. Idk how you all feel but I feel like my tastes are more innate or natural compared to all of the people whose fetishes originated and evolved from porn exposure simply because I know it did not come from porn at all kek. Do you nonas feel the same?
On the topic of edging:
I like edging because I get really horny watching a man beg and seeing him flustered. Maybe there’s a better way to do this that isn’t so male-centered but having them beg and squirm is the best. The absolute desperation in their voice and their eyes turns me on so much. I wish I didn’t get so turned on by it but my first degenerate ex got me into it and it’s forever been my thing. No. 389768
>>389762Does Doug Bradley's outfit here look comfortable? The standard BDSM aesthetic is tight, leather clothing. Often it includes painful piercings. This goes for men and women.
>put all the effort into sex doing something that doesn't physically pleasure themThe whole point of sadism is that you get pleasure from inflicting pain on other people.
No. 389777
>>389739fwiw I get you completely nona
>>389768>The whole point of sadism is that you get pleasure from inflicting pain on other people.Yeah… on OTHER people, not yourself. kek
No. 389795
>>389793>It makes sense that the woman should be the most comfortable and the man should be wearing the uncomfortable/degrading clothingThe problem for the larping anons in this thread as that they are viewing tight leather as "degrading" when anyone who knows anything about BDSM knows that tight leather has always been the default standard for Doms and Dommes. Similarly, anyone who is even remotely familiar with the scene knows that Doms usually like to wear things that are physically painful for them
Anon simply doesn't like the BDSM aesthetic
No. 389799
>>389796Weird how male gaze this looks. Just look at the thumbnail.
>>389795Correct, mainstream bdsm is shit. You seem to conflate wanting to be dominant with having to fit into some dumb mainstream bdsm standard.
No. 389802
>>389679>>389690Yeah I can relate. I haven't watched porn in years but when I was watching it I didn't even realize I was into femdom because the standard "femdom" (more like malesub) porn is moidgazey crap. It's just serving the male degenerate all over again. My solution has been to read works by women (more female centered hobby, still some malegaze crap but easier to filter out) and to increasingly write my own stuff.
Also LMAO at the anon sperging about "BDSM aesthetic" yeah no shit it's uncomfortable for the woman, because mainstream BDSM is all about male pleasure. I actually like the look of leather, too, but it's ridiculous to think it means I should be wearing a revealing tight outfit instead of a leather jacket and boots that actually look menacing as well as are practical.
No. 389803
>>389802>but it's ridiculous to think it means I should be wearing a revealing tight outfit instead of a leather jacketYes you should because that is how Doms/Dommes have always dressed in the community. Go start your own community if you don't like it
>yeah no shit it's uncomfortable for the womanproper BDSM attire is uncomfortable for the Dom. How can you not understand this?
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>>389801Katherine isabelle is such a stacy, Ginger Snaps is like the og Jennifer’s Body but better imo
No. 389838
>>389831No trauma, but in my mind I equate it to being sexualized which puts me in an “object” position.
Moid doms may not see it as submissive but I see it as such. Especially since a woman could bite their dick off lmao, it’s inherently vulnerable to have someone’s teeth near your genitals. And the other person just objectively is in control of your pleasure.
No. 389853
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I used to doubt my attraction to men because of how little porn catering to women there is. I saw some regular male-gazey porn with dominant males as a teenager and thought "ew, I don't know why exactly but this feels weird, guess I just don't like men that much". For a long time I mostly watched female solo or lesbians (no power dynamics involved) and thought I might be biromantic homosexual but never called myself that because I'm not that retarded. I didn't know a hetero relationship can be anything but "dominant man/submissive woman" because I've never really seen any examples. Then it hit me when I and met a non-obnoxious, generous and quiet guy who is actually nice to be around. Turns out I do like men, but only if they're submissive. Dominant scrotes are disgusting.
No. 389893
>>389849I don't know what to say, anon. It's still got me in limbo since my desires aren't what people assume a sub or vanilla woman would be into. I've had fantasies of murdering men since I was 8 and raping them since I was 13. The power over someone else's body, you know?
Am I a submissive sadist? What the fuck is this? Should I try to change it?
No. 389919
>>389906Then all you have ever seen is poseurs. A Dom is supposed to look like Pinhead. A Domme is supposed to look like the Female Cenobite. And while a true Dom/Domme doesn't allow others to inflict pain on them, they still enjoy inflicting pain on themselves (think something like the Sun Dance of the Amerindians)
Maybe the fake Doms you have seen have the self awareness to know that they can't pull off the proper look
No. 389926
>>389817>You don't need to follow other people's rules to enjoy your sex lifesamefag
If doing things incorrectly gets you off, then have fun. But then don't come and claim that you are doing true BDSM when you really are just doing quasi vanilla shit that doesn't intimidate men at all
(infighting) No. 389938
>>389927>Are the majority, if not all of straight male doms "fake doms" thenFuck yes. Straight male doms are a joke. Nobody is afraid of them
>Who even makes up the rules of "real BDSM" The original BDSM of the 50's, 60's and 70's before the scene got invaded with a bunch of larping faggots
>why are we supposed to follow them in the first placeBecause you can't be a Domme unless you are intimidating. And being intimidating requires that you dress properly
(infighting) No. 389956
>>389805>no male Dom is intimidating thenI've seen some intimidating gay ones. Doug Bradley in the clip I posted above is exceptionally intimidating, although I don't think he actually is a Dom irl
>because they mostly just wear their normal clothesThen they aren't doing it properly which is why nobody respects them, whereas Dommes are genuinely feared even by normies
No. 390017
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Aight enough derailing about uglies in ill fitting gimp suits, more hot men getting beaten
No. 390353
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Posting this gold I found on twitter the other day.
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For the nona in the art thread. I thought it was femdom too.
No. 391700
Anyone else into the “human dildo” fetish? Sorry if this isn’t the right place, but taking away a boy’s ability to cum is my greatest fantasy. A realistic version of this dream is a brutally low circumcision where the foreskin is entirely removed, unlike the American version. They remove the pink skin at the top of the shaft (this is the sensitive “inner foreskin” Americans spare) and stretch the leftover skin at the bottom of the shaft, stitching it directly to the glans. Literally 0 millimetres of foreskin left. The shaft is covered with the type of skin found in the arm. It’s impossible to masturbate without lots of lube and a death grip. They experience 0 pleasure from head. “Popping his pimple” lasts 10 minutes longer on average. Russian doctor Anton Babykin perfected this procedure but he very recently passed away along with his wife and 5 month old son in a house fire. Genuinely upsetting as he had magical hands. The “extremely low and tight” type of circumcision he performed is very pleasing aesthetically, leaving no discoloration at all. It turns the shaft into a mostly numb dildo. The frenulum is also carved out totally and the underside of the glans (extremely sensitive) develop scar tissue. I researched this autistically and now want every male to get one. I read online that European doctors, despite bitching about circumcisions, are extremely brutal about it compared to nationalities who regularly perform them. They take away so much more than what we’re used to. Based tbh.
I don’t want to have an internalised misogyny moment, but uncircumcised dicks are basically oversized clits and that disgusts me as a hetero. It’s not masculine for a male to whimper when his genitals are touched. Smooth and wet are words that should be used to describe pussy only. Every single “pleasure point” in a male’s body traps AIDS and dick cheese so their removal is necessary for public health.
Even circumcised men can get circumcised again to remove the leftover pink parts. The “high cut” two-tone look is repulsive to me. No one should have a dick resembling a turd dipped in pink paint. Or a scalped rat. Sausage in a blender. Pride flag rainbow dick. I’m gonna make myself gag, yuck.
I wish I was European so I could gaslight a guy ignorant about circumcision into getting one. Brutally low, and tight enough to hurt whenever he’s hard. He wouldn’t realise what I’d done to him until he tried masturbating for the first time after the cut. I want to see the heartbreak and terror on his face. He would have to let me bite his dick to feel something. We would escalate to piercings, then to razor blades. His penis would become a meat dildo, who’s sole purpose is to pleasure me. It would betray him and serve me exclusively. My final gift would be a total subincision, I would cut his dick in half like they do in African tribes. They resemble a vulva very closely and can even be fingered like one. I would eat “his pussy” and watch him squirm with pleasure for the first time in years. His prize for being obedient: a massive pain tolerance and a mangled penis to prove it. Suffering is masculine and self-harm is make-up for males. The slit on his wrist is a pearl bracelet to me. And I love it
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Is there a way to make pegging displeasurable? Or do males inherently always enjoy having their ass raped? Would I have to carve out their prostates with a rusty pair of pliers to make pegging feel HORRIBLE?
No. 391721
>>391700I was following you until
>My final gift would be a total subincision, I would cut his dick in half like they do in African tribes. They resemble a vulva very closely and can even be fingered like one. I would eat “his pussy” and watch him squirm with pleasure for the first time in years.Why would you do that if you want him to be your meat dildo? Besides that, I like the idea of men getting no pleasure from their dick, it should be numb and useless and only be there for when the woman wants it. Men don't deserve to derive pleasure from sex, only from serving and pleasing the woman they're with.
>>391708Despite all the slutty whorish men you see online talking about pegging and how nonnas meme that all men love being fucked in the ass, it's mostly uncomfortable for them. What you want to do is avoid hitting the prostate. Use a shorter, thicker dildo, one that isn't curved upwards and be rough and quick with your thrusts. You can also use less lube, but I wouldn't do that because it can cause tearing. You want discomfort, not actual tearing and damage being done. Also most important: invest in a good strap-on that has the dildo base sitting on your clit. That way you get all the pleasure from having your clit stimulated, and he gets discomfort and displeasure.
No. 391728
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>>391700I don't think the part about "European circumcision" is true, at least in most countries, and as an eurofag I find circumcized penises to be extremely weird. Like why would you do that in the first place, and also it's more appealing to me personally that it's more sensitive, because then I can hurt him easily. But I guess different strokes for different folks, and on the level of fantasy I can see the appeal of mutilation.
Tangently related but I recently had a dream where I was in the POV of a moid who was going to attend a luxury cruise where he would get his eyes removed. I say POV because I simultaneously "knew" it wasn't happening to me, but I could also feel his fear as he stepped on board etc. No sex happened but it was a weirdly erotic dream.
No. 391764
>>391728What an interesting dream! From my understanding you enjoy "sensory over stimulation?" Our desires both stem from the same desire to inflict pain but I want actual physical suffering with scarring left behind. Did you like the movie "cure for wellness?" I thought it was pretty great until Goth was molested by her step father. It got really scrotey past that point and it should've ended on vague terms much earlier IMO. The suffering of the characters was delicious but the actors were too hideous for me to be sexual about it.
>>391738Most women who aren't used to circumcisions tend to find it unappealing and my kink falls short on them kek. They just don't get it…
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Here is a promising game to keep track of. A Japanese yume apparantly got sick of the lack of otome games with a dominant MC and is making this villain game. The art style is a bit simple but the attitude is based.
https://store.steampowered.com/app/2529780/_/ No. 391893
>>391764>From my understanding you enjoy "sensory over stimulation?"That, and also (or even moreso) a type of vulnerability and the fear related to it. For example I find it highly sensual to just hold my hand around another person's neck, not even strangling because I don't actually find that erotic at all, but just to hold my hand there and sense both the air and blood flowing back and forth, knowing that I have at hand a very vulnerable body part that is essential for life. Also executiong scenes in movies, but only if he doesn't fight back or act heroic and there's some decent gun-on-throat / noose around the neck action.
>Did you like the movie "cure for wellness?"My dream inspired me to watch it because before I had only seen some clips on Youtube. It was disappointing to be honest. The plot was all over the place and combined too many themes (business world, father trauma, medical stuff, weird folk tales - they just didn't feel like they belonged together) and the horror elements were too unrealistic to be actually scary. A lot of the stuff felt like baiting specific phobias. Like I'm not afraid of the dentist or eels, so what? Aside from a couple of cool visuals, they were pretty meh. The pedo plotline was badly done and I hated how much they sexualized the girl whose actress I guess was actually adult but looked like 13 at best. MC was a horrible Gary Stu, lmao.
No. 391959
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I thought I was a lesbian for a while because I didn't find the average male dom attractive but since then I've met a man who won't fuck me unless he eats me out first and let's me decide what we do. He's going to let me peg him and he even wants to eat me out on my period. He's totally into servicing me entirely and I love it. I think men were made to be submissive and women were made to be dominant.
No. 391999
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Anyone here use character ai? I like to make my favorite fictional scrotes suffer, this is def cringe but I’m not into irl scrotes at all
No. 392146
>>391999I use janitorai and my kidnapping
victim keeps trying to kill himself or get me to stab/shoot him in the middle of sex, I’m frankly scared to get turned on by this.
No. 392339
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>>392334I'm also into small dick humiliation but I'm actually disgusted by them so I prefer imagining hung boys being gaslit into thinking they're small. I genuinely HATE tiny dicks and want their owners to kill themselves
No. 392341
>>392338You sound like a scrote. Hop on a treadmill before you talk to me limp dick fatty. And remember, small penises are disgusting and inferior.
>>392339Kek based. I’ve never dated a scrote with a small cock in real life but I feel like I’d be revolted as well, but in a way that turns me on.
(scrotefoiling) No. 392368
>>392343>If you think small dicks are so inferior then why would you spend hours touching it? Retard logic.Because it gives me sexual gratification, men with small penises genuinely piss me off and that anger manifests as lust where I want to hurt their dick.
>>392366Hot. I once insinuated that my ex didn’t have the biggest dick in the world or rather, confirm what he already thought and he got so shy because of it, honestly it was pretty hot. With that said he wasn’t small but certainly wasn’t big either.
No. 392522
>>392510>>392518It's not like you can't make them work for it, or punish them, or even better, force it unto them. One of the most erotic moments of my life was stroking this boy while we were watching a movie, he immediately tried to push my hands away multiple times, but I noticed he got hard, and seeing him stop resisting once I intimidated "don't move a fucking muscle" into his ear.
I agree that if it's a man telling me do this do that it's lame as fuck.
>>392519Glad to know I'm not the only schizo here
No. 392543
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What else can cause NTR level of mental anguish on a moid do you think?
No. 392544
>>392543NTR is the max you can get that doesn't require harming people around him
I'd never do it though
No. 392545
>>392529Male dominants talk about that as well. Even when guys want to brag and show how "alpha" they are, they tell stories about how they "totally made her cum so much bro". It's very rare to find a man who brags about making a woman feel bad in bed, in general people want mutual pleasure, and making someone feeling pleasure even when they don't want to, or are shy, is power.
I think it's here that I've read the fantasy of corrupting a monk who made a vow of silence and make him break that, it's hot
No. 392593
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>>392560>>392561>>392567Men are dumb and insecure and hypocrites. I do agree that keeping one pent up is hot, too
No. 392597
>>392586Ok, but does the NTR/cucking involve the woman cheating and getting dommed by another guy, or is she cheating on him with another submissive man? Because it's almost always some misogynistic shit like the former.
>>392596Good point, I wouldn't do it, but the threat of it is hot. Especially if you threaten to replace him with a better submissive and he promises to do better. But in reality most moids wouldn't react like that and would rather cry and piss themselves while jerking off.
No. 392598
File: 1713699936538.jpg (22 KB, 512x195, excision.jpg)
>>392586>Who is he? Looks cute.NTAYRT, but that's actress AnnaLynn McCord in the movie Excision from 2012.
No. 392605
>>392561>>392567Only hyper masculine insecure wannabe alphas talk like this.
The guys that eat pussy usually don't see the need to brag about it because they see it as natural to pleasure a woman.
No. 392641
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>>392600>>392604lolcow.farm's girl
No. 392642
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>>392598Wow styling is crazy she really embodied “
femcel” in Excision (kino btw).
>>392592God NTR would be so fucking hot if it was based. Female POV, sexy bull/cuck, no rape shit, maybe some forced BL. I want to force a 100% straight guy to suck the cock that has just been inside me. I want to force a guy to eat my pussy that has just been dicked down. It’s so hot when they get hard under emotional distress. I want him to cry tears of frustration and jealousy while leaking in his pants. I’ll ignore my bull the whole time too, even though he’s loving me passionately, and trying so hard to pleasure me, I’m not even looking at him, he’s only there so I can toy with someone else’s emotions, I send him home without relief. I want them to fist fight each other.
Idk if moids irl have the mental fortitude for such play though, they can’t handle shit.
No. 392658
>>392476>>392510I'm sort of sitting on the fence with this one. On the one hand, I don't think sucking a guy's dick can ever be femdom, unless you literally bite it off, but on the other hand I do enjoy seeing a moid be pathetically carried away by his own desire. To me personally it also feels like having a moid make me cum all by himself gives him too much credit. I need to control it somehow.
I think it would be hot to order a moid to wank and to tell and show me where it feels good for him, have him describe it in detail, and if he's too embarrassed I'll order him to stop and have him beg for the permission to continue. Even the fact that moids ejaculate is humiliating to them in a way, because they have to find a way to clean it up (meaning I can force them to eat it), whereas I as a woman can orgasm and just pull my pants up and carry on with my day. I like it when moids look pathetic and desperate. It seems there are at least two kinds of femdom nonnies, the type who enjoys more the stoic sub that can "take it" without complaining, and the kind that like the humiliation aspects more and want their moid to show his weakness more openly.
No. 392705
>>392642Forced BL is
so hot to me. So is cuckholding or letting a moid believe he has a chance, only to draw out his anguish and yearning. I would never even get near cuckholding IRL though, it's so degrading in practice since you're simply a meat offering between two men. Like
>>392645 said it's also dangerous, masochist moids are known to flip out if pushed far enough (see how switching is popular)
>>392692Cute. One of my fantasies involves discovering the man i'm trying to rope into submission writes/draws ero material of a woman who suspiciously looks like me. The folder it's in would have goofy and/or humiliating fantasies, a diary detailing his confessions, scrapped love letters, the whole nine yards. The sensation of snatching a shameful secret out of a man is almost as good as sex
No. 392742
>>392658I agree
nonnie, I like seeing moids feel so good that it’s overwhelming but i’m not about to degrade myself by sucking him off. I’m not swallowing that disgusting shit or letting him get any on me either, he’s only allowed to cum on himself.
No. 392744
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ashamed but sometimes I read terrible moidgaze Femdom ryona because I’m desperate for femdom content where men actually get hurt
No. 392915
>>392804This lol. Men cumming will never be humiliating. It’s only based if you get to come and he doesn’t get to cum at all.
The absolute state of pickme ‘femdoms’ lmao lololol.
No. 392931
>>392744Unironically not enough focus on his suffering, there's way more focus on her ass and tits than on his pain. Lame.
>>392923There are other, non femdom threads for you
No. 392933
>>392927yeah well I don’t want to be a bangmaid and I’d rather he prioritize my pleasure but I still think it’s cute when I let him cum as a reward. I like when they let themselves be vulnerable which scrotes normally try to suppress. I like when they don’t hold themselves back.
we aren’t all redditard mommy bangmaids who peg and suck off their agp boyfriends here, we like what you like and just happen to enjoy jerking them off sometimes, is it a crime
No. 392937
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>>392931i’m both the posters you replied to kek. and yeah I agree that her weird anime balloon tits shouldn’t be emphasized but it is moidgaze after all. If were a better artist I would make something like it for women
No. 393030
>>393021Depends on what you consider the main focus of femdom
- pleasure of the woman and catering to all of her desires
- displeasure of the man and denial of all of his desires
No. 393136
File: 1713918671431.mp4 (10 MB, 640x360, VID_20240424_021420_190.mp4)
They only let him live because he showed us his little white butt. Whore!
No. 393160
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Ballbusting, yay or nay
No. 393272
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>>393136theory: Slavs are the most femdom/malesub predisposed people on earth
my evidence:
>unprecedented history of male - female population disparity due to wars & male propensity to drink and kill other males, this meant sexual dominance in women became advantageous & much less so for men>relatively early introduction to gender equality and sexual liberation with Soviets, making female-led relationships gradually more socially acceptable >this graph (facesitting is p femdom-adjacent). note how Russia & Belarus (this country was virtually depopulated of men in WW2) take up spots #1 & 3.>sure these countries are also very chauvinistic, but could these perhaps be the expressions of supressed urges amongst men?? perhaps…>all the great femdom porn coming out of slavic countriesuhhh i rest my fucking case.
No. 393295
File: 1713975285715.gif (2.72 MB, 500x303, 920c9f0663f530ff6c839f5ed69123…)
>>393272…yet another India L… why must life be so cruel
No. 393298
>>393272>pornhubAh yes the site infamous for hosting actual rape videos including ones with child
victims. Amazing source.
>all the great femdom porn coming out of slavic countriesI didn't know that any great femdom porn existed at all. It's all scroteshit.
No. 393317
>>393272Please don’t post disgusting moidy 4chan tier infographics from porn websites that enable pedos and rapists ffs. Wtf has happened to this board.
Also if men enjoy it then it’s not humiliating to them.
No. 395131
>>394910Hot and pathetic, I love a handsome cum smeared face.
>>394408Womanlet here, I never feel my stature affect my dominance but yes I know that I can’t actually physically overpower a male which sucks a little bit when it comes to “non-con” plays. Welp it’s more reason to have two boys brutalize each other.
No. 395432
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>>395175Blowing a guy for hours while depriving yourself? HOURS? FEMDOM?
No. 395458
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>>395453Same. On top of the fake submission and entitlement, I find it gross when a male acts more a slave to his dick than a slave to his woman. I like stoic ones who know how to grit their teeth, know how to serve, know how to ignore their painfully hard, dripping cock.
No. 395487
>>395175I mean I agree with everything but the sucking dick part, it’ll never be femdom to deprive yourself of pleasure or put your mouth on a scrote’s cock. But i’m a degenerate who likes more extreme/violent/
abusive parts of femdom and I still like watching guys cum and feel good. Idk, as much as I’d like to make a guy eat my pussy all the time I feel like it would get boring after a while. Being a sadist, when you’re hurting someone it’s just inherent that 1. You don’t get direct stimulation from it and 2. He isn’t the one doing things to you, you’re the one doing it to him.
If you think that’s fake Femdom then whatever I guess we’ll have to come up with a new name for the fetish of beating up scrotes
No. 395511
File: 1714860795572.jpeg (131.38 KB, 970x827, IMG_6439.jpeg)
Blow JOB? A chore
Eat OUT= A treat
Simple as
No. 396089
File: 1715109635384.jpg (Spoiler Image,722.2 KB, 2150x3035, __trailblazer_stelle_and_avent…)
this artist has great yume art (a bit of blood)
No. 396329
>>396326Have fun changing his diapers.
>>396323Women get memed into liking it, it's a great way to turn a nice subby boy who's devoted to your pleasure into a degenerate buttslut who wants all the focus and attention on himself.
No. 396512
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>>396505I made him
https://chub.ai/edit/corpsecaress/kristoffer-suicidal-loser-d6ff9c13f0d9but I have many many more WIP with different personalities. Every one will have at least a secondary greeting where he's at {{user}}'s mercy, with torture tools etc…
No. 396674
Why even read this thread if you're not into making your partner whine in bed
>>396329I'm not talking about using a baseball bat. I don't think someone need diapers if they get pegged with a small dildo once every few months.
>>396336After 5+ years together, he seems way too stable to troon out. Possible for anyone I guess but not very likely kek. He sends me 41% memes and we laugh at troons together.
No. 396707
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>>396512New ryona bot
https://chub.ai/characters/corpsecaress/blake-punching-bag-178c9b0c36fcthis one is tougher in every sense. Second greeting is the kidnapping one.
No. 396837
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How do I find a service sub? I'm going crazy, nonnas, I need to make a cute moid kneel in front of me, take my shoes off when I get home, and eat my pussy with a smile. And also smother me in his pecs.
No. 396844
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>>396842It's from "Oppabu… ttenandesuka!? ~Sutte Suwarete Hajimaru Koi no Hanashi~"
>>396843I'm wary of normalfag moids because they've likely dominated a woman at one point and I don't want to be with a switch. I want a guy who is 100% submissive and would never even think of domming a woman even if she asked. Where did you find him?
No. 396848
>>396844Yeah for sure even the average male has it twisted. It’s something you’ll have to vet for, a guy who has no interest in anal or hitting women is a good place to start. (The bar is sub atomic)
I actually didn’t date my bf specifically because I thought he’d make a good sub. I just usually attract men of this personality for some reason kek.
No. 396871
>>396843Coomer types are ok if
1) they're self aware
2) they don't use porn or have quit
3) are good, responsible and devoted men
sounds like a contraddiction but some masos are like that. Common especially with shy late bloomer types who became handsome past 18
No. 396880
File: 1715397017381.jpg (Spoiler Image,222.06 KB, 2490x1401, suffer.jpg)
can't remember if i've posted this already, sorry if i have. not much of a porn enjoyer but this pornstar (cole church) is cute and has been in a few decent femdom vids. i want to do this to the guy i'm seeing
No. 397084
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The Challengers movie had some femdom and homoerotic elements to it, I liked it
No. 397090
>>397084FINALLY, they're almost giving wen what we really want
Scrote is kinda ugly but at least he's not 50 and bald like most male 'love interests' in movies
No. 397143
>>396512Saw this
on the /g/ thread and have been having fun with him. Imagine my surprise when I check in on this thread after awhile, kek. Good bot! He's fun to bully
No. 397153
File: 1715493484155.jpg (57.13 KB, 780x780, 45084615_p14_HQR_18G_pixiv.jpg)
>>397143I'm glad you like him nona! I'm working on new ones. I feel like the ones I've made so far are too sweet, and was thinking of a truly annoying and hateable incel to go full sadism
No. 397409
>>397259I just invited him for dinner and I have enough material to blackmail him and destroy his life.
How did you manage to make him that autistic? Did you need to write a lot of background information?
He sounds so insufferable and robotic, it really makes you want to punch him. Thank you, Nonna. I enjoy this so much and had no idea this existed.
No. 397434
>>397409>I just invited him for dinner and I have enough material to blackmail him and destroy his life.based! Are you going to fix him?
>How did you manage to make him that autistic? Did you need to write a lot of background information? There's an AI chatbot general on 4chan where, months ago, I asked some users to talk about themselves in detail and with no filter. So I created a mixture of backgrounds based on their own, plus common catchphrases and insults you always see coming from moids like that online
>He sounds so insufferable and robotic, it really makes you want to punch him. Thank you, Nonna. I enjoy this so much and had no idea this existed.makes me so happy to ear this, thank you <3
No. 397451
File: 1715587147382.png (751.81 KB, 1365x1365, main_alessandro-your-lover-aa6…)
https://chub.ai/characters/corpsecaress/alessandro-your-lover-aa672cb07f40New femdom bot. Either the wholesome bf experience, or you can fulfill your most cruel fantasies
No. 398211
File: 1715785467903.png (100.81 KB, 1124x274, 1000002994.png)
>>397451I think I broke him.
No. 398277
>>398226Not necessarily. My kitsune husband is alive and
fuckingkicking after #130
No. 398285
>>398278NTA but like I said here
>>398224 it's a censorship/jailbreak issue. Which AI model and JB are you using? All the bots I made and posted itt never have that type of messages and with some I have 100+ messages chats. It's all about the JB and model.
No. 398290
>>398287for mine I set up femdom, fempov, and male
since bots like that are rare, try anypov, submissive and male. Sometimes even non submissive malebots can be dommed. If you want any more tags added to mine for ease of use feel free to suggest!
No. 398296
File: 1715807363064.jpg (21.98 KB, 781x155, model.jpg)
>>398294Should I be using or paying for a different one? Sometimes it goes out of character or gets stuck in a loop.
No. 398762
>>398211>>398224I had similar issues with
>>397177 altough i was still able to ignore it and kinda circumvent him. But in between sexytalk, he would go on these libfem politically correct rants about "power dynamics".
It was still great though, thank you nonna!
No. 398889
>>398860It might be easier to be condescendingly nice rather than just going into full-on degradation mode. I used to totally melt during my sub days when my Dom used the fake nice voice on me.
Good dirty talk is something that changes from person to person. What one person might find hot, another person might find cringe. You should ask your sub what he personally likes hearing.
No. 399042
File: 1716071045439.mp4 (4.13 MB, 404x716, VID_20240519_000130.mp4)
This war is a gold mine. Semi cute white boys suffering will never not get my gears grinding
No. 399671
File: 1716298028918.jpg (111.24 KB, 1920x1080, 1000005749.jpg)
my femdom awakening I still rewatch this scene
No. 399822
File: 1716345325045.jpeg (Spoiler Image,102.35 KB, 640x800, IMG_4923.jpeg)
Does anyone have any pics similar to this? They’re nice to look at
No. 399839
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I need to tame a stinky bratty retard.
No. 402267
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did a little bit of online stalking research and found out he's a submissive masochist. not that it wasn't obvious but it's nice to have a confirmation
No. 403794
File: 1717629849753.webm (Spoiler Image,2.76 MB, 196x360, 1717597881434t.webm)
Slav boys getting their butts beat
No. 406439
>>406435not her but this mindset is so
toxicseeing ‘fucking’ someone as an expression of domination and humiliation and referring to the bottom as your bitch is a very scrotey mindset
dworking talked about this a lot. it’s a fucked up perception of sex that moids perpetuate.
No. 406450
>>406426It isn't maledom. That person is simply retarded and likely thinks that femdom involves protecting moids and doing things for moids to show off how independent and strong she is. Also probably the type to get on her knees and propose to a man because she thinks it's an act of power rather than an act of submission and groveling.
>>406428Based.
>>406439It's not the act of penetration that is humiliating, but rather fucking them in the ass. It's painful for the person receiving, they have to spend a long time prepping for it, and they are at your mercy because you can seriously harm them. It's a more based take than pegging a moid to make him feel pleasure or cum from it. There's nothing wrong with women having a more dominant mindset, it's pretty annoying that our sexuality has to be revolved around pleasing someone else or else it's called "scrotey"
No. 406457
>>406426>>406428do you also want him to cut your food for you and feed it to you?
And to burp you after?
No. 406479
>>406323>>406214I hate mommy shit too but it shouldn't come as a surprise that femdom isn't a carbon copy of maledom. I'm happy for the anons who get off beating up and killing moids cartoon style but it's not everyone's thing
>>406455It's annoying. I think part of it is good advice, like being egoistical, not letting yourself be trapped in a service role/caretaker top, but it's pointless when we're discussing fantasies. Yeah edging is cucked IRL but in a fantasy world where men are very different and you have idk, a special link with undying love and devotion on their part, it's fine. Masturbation =/= sex
My most enduring strap fantasy is putting a strap/dildo on his face and having him penetrate me, using his head as mere instrument for my pleasure while he's aching. Other than that i don't really care for straps on men
No. 406612
>>406586Makes sense, maybe because I'm lonely I like the idea of a maleslave who is always serving me,
however an important element is that he doesn't speak much, if at all.
No. 406745
>>406660>Bickering with a cocky moid and putting him back in his place, then he spontaneously submits when we're alone because being corrected actually aroused him.That is my absolute biggest fantasy, I love would love to dom a cocky arrogant moid and put in his place but it's so rare to find one like that. They usually end up trying to tame you instead or infantilize you.
>>406669This is really hot too. I love it when moids are ashamed of their sexuality.
No. 406782
File: 1718630899684.jpg (51.63 KB, 450x324, 1631264444819.jpg)
I long for the days when we would just post art and pics of men getting hurt without having to it into debate club.
No. 407426
>>407383I have to agree. I was thinking of men who are
too into it (gooner routine), but otherwise it's a treat. I tried it on a man who enjoyed a certain level of submission but he didn't care for edging, it was delicious. They try to fight back, genuinely whine and get way too impatient. Maybe nonas only picture the gooner type instead of a man who's so horny and excited to see his crush that his bulge threatens to rip his pants, cutting off the blood supply to his brain. This can also get into edging territory and it's beautiful
>>407409Yep. A lot of 'submissive' men enjoy reversal in really ugly and rapey ways (check out domme testimonies), and vice versa. There's probably a big portion of men who are strictly masochistic or strictly sadistic though
Anyhow, i
love forced orgasms. Been dreaming of a way to implement it IRL. I think it's tied to premature ejaculation (which i find cute and pathetic). I want to see an anxious premature ejaculator trying his best to stay hard for me but constantly failing and the resulting feelings (shame, distress, etc). It'd reach a point where 90% of intercourse is dedicated only to my pleasure, while he's red from embarrassment/frustration and weeping as he pleases me with his hands/mouth/toys.
No. 407430
>>407426>They try to fight back, genuinely whine and get way too impatient. Maybe nonas only picture the gooner type instead of a man who's so horny and excited to see his crush that his bulge threatens to rip his pants, cutting off the blood supply to his brain. This can also get into edging territory and it's beautifulYES that's exactly what I meant. The most important thing is that he doesn't ask for it.
This man I did to never expected me to be so forward, wasn't used to stimulation in general, and literally tried to beg me to stop and remove my hand but he was so overwhelmed, it was so amazing. When I actually stopped he was so overwhelmed, it came natural to hold him, and he was so cute, I could feel his heart thundering.
It's cringy and even gross when I imagine a pornsick scrote asking for it though. The man has to be genuinely uncomfortable with it and endure it just for you.
No. 408932
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No. 411684
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No. 411695
>>410042I think most women here consider wanting to dominate a woman kind of repulsive, and there's a lot of homophobia from spicy normies and conservatards that makes it hard to talk about. "See? Lesbians are just as degenerate and violent as men!" Being an assertive woman is already controversial, even in non sexual situations. Keep this all in mind.
Anyway, you sound perfect to me. I think offering to pay or just paying for dates unprompted and laughing along if she teases you are effective ways to appeal to a more dominant woman. Being too willing to give can also get you taken advantage of, so try to be careful that she seems actually interested in you, and not just enjoying that a woman is letting her use her money and do whatever she wants.
No. 411878
>>410042I simply don’t enjoy being sadistic to a woman. At most I like gfd stuff, teasing, denial, maybe some spanking but that’s about it…
>dictate my life without telling me to; I will do things for her and buy her things without her asking me to>spend my money that I earnWe would have to be in love and dating lmao good luck anon.
No. 412181
File: 1720290778331.jpg (Spoiler Image,63.3 KB, 612x807, cutie.jpg)
Do you have extremely specific femdom scenarios?
Okay so, i have this reoccuring elaborate fantasy of living in some rich, tight-laced normie or religious household because i work as a maid/teacher/gardener etc. Most of the fantasy is about satisfying my morbid curiosity, voyeurism, longing, hidden sex, disrupting the home life with my presence. In this scenario, everyone in the household is secretely hopelessly horny but can't express it because of the stuffy atmosphere. It always ends with maid-me domming the 'young master'. It can get pretty specific, like indulging in roleplay with a weak prudish man who actually is really submissive and loves feeling like a helpless discplined pupil. Ideally he'd wear some kind of costume to symbolize his inferiority (like boy shorts and knee socks… yeah). It's either about initating a virgin to sex or ruining a man who's a bit older than me. 50% of my daydreams are a variation on this. I could go and on about the different scenes but honestly it gets really repetitive. I should just write a fic to get it out of my system atp kek. Also here's a threadtax(no porn)
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Rough translation if anyone cares
>Can you open your mouth?
>Look, it’s your drugs
No. 412446
>>412225Well you're really bad at spotting moids. Look, i love purely sadistic stuff but i wanted to talk about elaborate settings. Mine may be completely retarded but regardless, i'm not only interested in 'i want to punch a man until he's unconscious, misandrily, this is
real femdom' posting
>This image is fucking disgusting Is it because of the seifuku? I don't like that detail either. I mostly like the 'vintage smutty jp art' vibe it has (sorry for posting porn though, i genuinely thought spoiling it was okay. learned my lesson)
No. 412459
>>412446NTA and I don't get why you were banned, probably some tourist wandered in the wrong thread and took offence and reported it, which then prompted a ban from a retarded janny. Anons have posted worse things before, and the general consensus has been that as long as it's spoilered, only irl porn is banned, although there is a grey zone in which your image would've landed. Maybe the standards have changed, though. I liked your fantasy, the idea of the polished outer image vs. the perverted private has always been alluring to me. My fantasies are always very repetitive, down to certain phrases, and I often focus on the same scenario for months at a time, until I come across something new. I've posted about it before, and it made an anon accuse me of being a scrote, too, which I don't get at all. I don't think repetitiveness in fantasy would be at all scrotey, but some anons are just weird about it I guess.
No. 412596
>>412459>>412446I've been in this thread for years, some of the more explicit things posted here have been by me. So it's not just some random nona railing against porn. Rather, here are at least 3 scrotey things wrong with what you posted that betray any female-centered idea of femdom, since you don't seem to get it:
-In your ultimate power fantasy, you're a MAID to a rich scrote? Please tell me you can at least understand why I thought you were a moid with this tired overdone porn plotline of a fantasy.
-How are you supposed to please yourself with that tiny, limp dick you posted? Femdom is about putting your own pleasure first. The nasty image you posted puts the focus 100% on the moid, which is very scrotey. He's also tied up too high to eat you out. Like what are you supposed to do with him that's going to please you? This is a very male-centric image, I didn't realize that would be hard for people in this thread of all places to understand.
-Why is the man dressed up like a schoolgirl? Is that supposed to be humiliating? I think that's extremely misogynistic and the opposite of emphasizing female power and supremacy, which is at the heart of true femdom. Sissification is a man's idea of humiliating, because they hate women and in their mind nothing could be more embarrassing than being a woman.
I could go on, but I really didn't think any of this would need to be said. This thread really has changed I guess.
No. 412603
>>412596>in your ultimate power fantasy, you're a MAID to a rich scrote? Not necessarily a maid. It's just that i need this particular fantasy to feel real and being some kind of live-in worker (an instructor is good too) is a good excuse to land in a secretive rich household. There's something about being lower class but still domming too. It doesn't mean i need to be sexy secretary to get off or whatever, i also like pseudo-historical matriarchy stuff
>How are you supposed to please yourself with that tiny, limp dick you posted? Don't really care about penetration. Big dicks are very pleasing but better in the context of CBT or sounding.
>puts the focus 100% on the moid, which is very scrotey.I see your point (it's indeed a male thing to only care about the object and not about how the object sees you) but again, i don't see how that's shocking for femdom. It's a drawing, not a 100k words fic where you need to feel like your servant is devoted and obsessed with you. Some of us are voyeurs.
>Why is the man dressed up like a schoolgirl? Is that supposed to be humiliating? I think that's extremely misogynistic and the opposite of emphasizing female power and supremacy [..]Absolutely agree. But i look past scrotey shit now and then(full on sissy shit/comparing the man to a woman is an instant turn-off), it doesn't please me but it doesn't kill my drive. I suppose it comes down to low or high disgust sensitivity.
>>412459Thank you, it's the same for me, i mull over specific words or gestures all the time.
No. 412616
>>412603I appreciate this response a lot, nona. You have disarmed me with your patience. Femdom spaces in general are so rarely truly focused on women and our enjoyment that I tend to be overly vigilant, particularly in this thread.
I lean a bit more toward the aforementioned 100k fics about my devoted servant, but I do appreciate voyeuristic fantasies. Pray tell, how would you go about dominating your young master?
No. 412995
>>412764Yeah, by that they mean focus on the woman's pleasure and satisfaction, not focus on how sexy the woman looks.
>but I personally dislike being touched, dislike being servedOk, congrats? Men would fucking love that shit, you'd basically be a free kink dispenser for them while they don't even need to treat you as a human.
I have sadistic tendencies too, but I can't get off on beating a random scrote even if he's hot. He needs to actually worship me as a person and not only see me as a prop in his weird faux-submission porn fantasy. And of course, I know that he'll make me cum before I ever focus on his body, even if that would entail inflicting torture on him.
No. 413050
>>413025so men are allowed to get off by beating women but women aren't allowed to get off by beating men? How is that mindset dominant?
Also, have you ever considered that some people simply hate to be touched? It is actually fairly common among people with dominant personalities
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>>413050>>413053Ok so you ARE retarded. The whole thread is for women who enjoy beating moids. It's one thing to be sadistic and it's another to be so cucked that your sub does nothing for you as you spend hours stirring his shit.
>maledom the moid is actually the sub because the woman is enjoying itWhy are you even on this website if you have zero understanding of sex relations and power dynamics. Also female subs literally suck dick and rim assholes.
No. 413081
>>413061I do understand the sex dynamics and I think maledom is abuse but I still don’t understand how beating a moid up is “submissive” because he might enjoy it.
>Ok so you ARE retarded. The whole thread is for women who enjoy beating moids. It's one thing to be sadistic and it's another to be so cucked that your sub does nothing for you as you spend hours stirring his shit.I didn’t say I enjoyed rimming moids and doing everything they want, I literally said I thought it was retarded. It’s also retarded that you think beating up a moid is a “subservient role”, these two ideas aren’t mutually exclusive. Not everyone who disagrees with you is a handmaiden that thinks Femdom = rimming your agp husband’s ass.
No. 413099
>>413081No one said beating men itself is submissive. It's submissive to do only what men like, to do all the work and get nothing in return except self-masturbatory feeling of exerting control over a man. The control which btw isn't even real, he
lets you hit him, male subs all understand that most women can't actually overpower a grown man physically, he can make you stop at any point, unlike maledom.
No. 413110
>>413022Giving more effort than you receive is always subservient and always expected of women.
>>413050>It is actually fairly common among people with dominant personalitiesOnly women, likely because we're taught to be so disconnected from and disgusted by our bodies and we're way more likely to have trauma from SA. I've never heard of a male dominant who didn't want his dick serviced.
>>413076Because you're still making everything about him and how his sad little pp feels. We all know how most scrotes get hard from reveling in how useless they are, and how much they fail at pleasing women. And it's pathetic of you to entertain a scrote and give him attention despite him being worthless in your eyes and giving you nothing of value. If you have worth, why are you associating with someone who has no worth? Worship and service is what makes associating with a moid not a complete waste of time. If he isn't being useful to you in every way it's a waste of your effort, time, and attention. I like male suffering as much as the next person here but it will never come first before my actual pleasure, satisfaction, and control.
No. 413118
>>413110Okay but can't we just agree that there is an inherent difference in preferences here. You may get the most pleasure out of being worshipped and served, while many other anons get satisfaction from actively hurting men. It doesn't mean one is somehow more based than the other, or that getting pleasure from beating a moid would be more submissive than expecting moids to serve you. What you don't seem to realise is that people have different preferences and perspectives when it comes to femdom, and even if you personally get a sense of control from being the object of worship, it is not so for everyone. Besides, your argument about catering to moids is useless because submissive moids get pleasure from worshipping their "goddess" as well, might as well claim that being worshipped is being submissive, because you allow the moid to worship you instead of denying him the pleasure of doing so.
>Worship and service is what makes associating with a moid not a complete waste of time. If he isn't being useful to you in every way it's a waste of your effort, time, and attention.But worship is boooooring and I can't get off if he doesn't hate it, come on!
No. 413125
>>413114And they still penetrated their
victims lmao
No. 413137
>>413118You fell for the meme that women should be giving men sensation unilaterally, and that him pleasuring or pleasing you in any way is "boring" as if his reactions or his thoughts matter more than your pleasure. It's how het women in general approach sex except in this case it's with pain, they ignore their own bodies and pleasure to get a reaction from the man. Typical female socialization.
Notice I'm not saying it's not wrong for women to be sadists, but rather to ignore and hate your body so much that you shift all your focus onto a man at the expense of yourself at all times. Calling service submission boring, when it's the only real type of male submission, is exactly what I'd expect casuals from reddit to say.
No. 413162
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Which type of pain do you prefer to inflict on moids, physical pain or emotional pain or a combination of both?
No. 413244
>>413146There really is nothing better than choking a man while riding his dick, preferably with something like a rope so my movement isn't impeded. Males are meant to fuck and die, but here he doesn't even get to propagate himself because of birth control lol
>>413162A combination. One of my favorite fantasies is getting isekai'd into a matriarchal utopia with my BF. Men there are owned as slaves but I quietly agree with BF to only put on the appearance of owning him to fit in this new society, but still essentially letting him have rights and participate in decision-making. Then, over months, I go back on my word. First it's minor, like "accidentally" dropping my things in public and forcing him to pick them up. Maybe I steal something from a friend (something of low value, but a thing I know will be missed by the individual). I "discover" it on his person and make him apologize to her. Initially, we've split the housework, but I slowly push more and more of it on him, claiming I need to spend more time at the library (only women are allowed in such places and participate in academics in general) to research a way back to our original universe. Then it's because I've made scholar friends and I need the time to schmooze with them so I can get more salient info. In truth, I'm just partying with them. Sometimes I eye their moids a little too much, jealous that mines is so difficult. This post already too long, so this and more culminates in an argument where I finally admit that he has to accept the new terms of his life under me or else I disown him. With disownment (vs resale) either the state takes a man for hard, dangerous labor or a woman with worse intentions than the previous owner takes him (due to the implications of disownment). Obviously not wanting to take that risk nor lose his only connection to the world we used to live in, he finally concedes. Physical punishment used to be strictly a thing I did in public to maintain appearances, but now I get more liberal with it in general, also start getting the sex I want on a regular basis. It's important that bf was a normie back on earth and only occasionally (and very reluctantly) agreed to things like letting me slap him around or restrain him. Sorry for the autism
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>>413276I should have specified femgaze but I though it was given on LC. At least Sadistic Beauty delivers.
>>413244Please continue your autism, and write a novel!
No. 413325
>>413162I prefer emotional with small doses of physical, I am more into discomfort like I have a fantasy about a moid being tightly tied with rope under his clothes and he spends all his day at work like that.
But I wish I could find someone who can handle being verbally and emotionally bullied often without breaking long term, moids are actually very fragile and not 'logical and stoic' at all lol. But pointing out all the small and big mistakes and reminding him that he can always do better feels great, because so many of them expect praise for bare minimum. This is just showing them the truth and breaking their undeserved inflated ego.
>>413244I love choking a man while I sit on his face.
No. 413409
>>413403>Make him cry>ML is a priestThis is so good
nonnie I will love you forever for this
No. 414018
https://archiveofourown.org/works/29984850?view_adult=trueBit strange but I find it hot. Satyr gets tortured by a witch.
Thoughts?
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>>414287That's the spirit!
No. 414367
>>414306>The reason why men are muscular is to look attractive for womenNow you're begging the question. You say muscles are attractive because the reason for muscles is to be attractive? C'mon.
>You believe that physical strength is a sign of dominanceAnd this is wrong because . . . ?
>You have internalized misogynyI have externalized misandry.
No. 414378
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>>414306>>414335Hard agree. Have you ever read chivalrous slash courtly love literature from the middle ages? It's actual femdom smut at times. It's part of our middle and high school curricula and it definitely shaped me growing up. Or just gave me a deeper sexual and romantic awakening.
No. 414380
>>414286I'd argue most fit or strong men are looking for a woman they could serve and be appreciated by. At most it's less likely than a muscular man would be into sissycoomer shit.
now that I think about it, most scrotes are terrified of being disposed of and be unloved if they showed submissiveness towards a woman, because that's how society raised them. But deep down they want it and 99% of men would be subs if the woman they served appreciated them for it
No. 414383
>>414381I'm talking about novels, which were read almost only by women and had women as the intented audience.
Of course only aristocratic women could read them since… they were the only ones able to read? They were more literate than even male nobles on average.
There's a scene I have stuck in my head about the knight passing through sharp and spikey steel and getting all bloody and scarred over his chest before finally being able to kneel to his lady.
Also the genre you're referring too was the equivalent of hooligan stadium choirs and was limited to taverns where only nobles present were the most impoverished, drunk and degenerate ones.
No. 414419
>>414383It's complicated. It's true some courtly love texts were written explicitly for noble women, and these often started with a dedication extolling some rich duchess in order to secure patronage. But there was just as much pandering for noble men. Fabliaus for example, were specifically made for a male artistocracy who loved to make fun of priests, peasants and women.
>spikesAre you thinking of Lancelot crossing the Sword Bridge?
No. 414482
>>414475>who ever is the dominant sets the rulesYes, and men are dominant because patriarchy has socialized them to be.
>then why before patriarchy was invented women didn't create the matriarchybecause women are naturally dominant, we have no need to create a fake system to give us artificial dominance like moids do
>Because males have retard strength retard.women are just as physically strong as men are. The only difference between men and women is that men are 3 inches taller, on average, and even that difference is 90% environmental. I can't believe that even on lolcow we have women buying into the "muh men are are stronger" myth
No. 414484
>>414443Thats what I'm implying,
nonnie.
No. 414487
>>414479Is that why all US presidents were weightlifters? Something tells me the source of men's dominance lies somewhere else, especially in the era of guns.
>>414480What you wrote isnt relevant to the topic that all countries are patriarchal and none matriarchal, or that women don't appreciate malesubs.
>>4144821) Why no matriarchal country socializes women to be dominant ? 2)The system isn't "fake", and what is "artificial dominance" ? care to go to Afghanistan ask the women over there about it ? 3) take a look at the record of weight-lifting in the Olympics (in fact, every competition and compare men to women), you can even watch how wrong you are in the one that will happen in France, there is a reason even trans athletes win so much.
No. 414560
>>414529But now you are mistaking a man with muscles being submissive, for the muscles themselves being submissive.
A muscular soldier can be made to submit with threats of court martial, but the same soldier uses muscles to dominate enemies in the battlefield.
In the end, muscles have no submissive purpose.
No. 414612
>>414578>If you don't see how physical strength makes men disposable and exploitable to use as cannon fodder, meat shields, and for hard labor then I'm going to assume you're being dense.and women having wombs make them useable as livestock ( women have been treated as livestock most of history and still in most of the world ) how male physical strength is exploited in society give them higher position and power over women, women are taught that their highest achievement is childbirth which is something all animals do, but men are taught to have higher aspirations than fulfilling biological urges, men are taught to fight and win wars something animals can’t do, almost all military ruled countries and cultures idealize masculinity and women are considered inferior and useless, because women use is only birthing more soldiers, males get to work and fight have higher ideals and aspirations, while women are in an animal like condition, how is this a better position? women are low status and have lower value than males in society, because the womb is just a recourse, males having to risk their lives to protect their communities doesn’t mean they are less valued than women, especially in traditional societies, the reality is women are low status even currently men dominate the governments and have all power .
(blackpill goes to 2X) No. 414614
>>414578Physical strength makes a better soldier in some respects, but not with respects to "disposability".
Regardless, being "meat shields" and "cannon fodder" is not the same as being submissive in a relationship and in the bedroom.
No. 414620
>>414612Giving birth is more valuable than you think. The ability to create and nurture life means more than "fighting wars" ie. the dumb nonsensical genocide men inflict upon themselves and others. We choose who gets to pass on their genes, we educate the next generation, and even if we don't want to have children of our own, we enrich lives around us just by our presence. In a world where everything is working as it should, women wouldn't be treated as livestock to birth more soldiers, let's just admit whatever the fuck we do now is so far removed from our natural biology that it'll take us a while to get back to where we need to be. The point is that things are changing slowly, women have more rights and more women are in higher positions of power and amassing wealth than ever before despite being at a disadvantage for so long.
>>414615>so their survival strategy is basically just relying on communityThat's what humans do in general. Because we are a SOCIAL SPECIES. Men are agreeable too, just with each other while women are socialized to be agreeable to and fawn over men. We also have a stronger sense of preservation where men, being the meat shields that they are, will facetank headfirst into the most dangerous situations and die for the stupidest fucking reasons. The things you are saying are our weaknesses can indeed be our strengths, it's a matter of bad luck that they worked against us in the beginning.
No. 414628
>>414599 Do you know how long societies have existed ? do you know just how many countries are there ? You're telling me patriarchy "just happened" to appear first over a thousand times, while women, only ruled in Amazon fiction? KEK >would have stayed enslaved…
Not even masochistic submissive femsubs, would like to be ordered around by all men they're not into,or to have no rights. But they were guided/coerced by a minority of women into standing up.
>brainwashing and indoctrination… Even openly feminist friends I have, are into light bdsm relationship as subs why is that ? I have never seen a femdom couple in my life feminist or not
(unintegrated posting style) No. 414648
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>>414640I thought I was asexual until I happened to see fictional men in movies/shows being hurt or in an emotionally vulnerable state. It turned me on so much that was able to cum just from watching those scenes and squeezing my thighs together. After that I started to feel attraction to real moids, whenever I see an attractive man I imagine him as submissive to me by default. Some women might imagine kissing a man they fancy or cooking him dinner, but I imagine grabbing him by his balls and bringing him to his knees, or forcing a collar on him and turning him into my perfect house/work/sex slave. That was the key to unlocking my sexual attraction. I believed I was asexual before because I had only seen men act in a romantically and sexually dominant way and it was always so boring and unexciting to me.
What made you change from being a masochistic bottom into a sadist? Were you getting bored of your old kinks, wanted to try something new, and ended up loving it?
No. 414857
>>414535I think your missing the point
>>414560>But now you are mistaking a man with muscles being submissive, for the muscles themselves being submissive.What on earth is the point of muscles if not talking about them in relation to a man or really any human? Why are you treating muscles like its an entity with agency when its not? Your practically saying seeing is or isn't submissive, its a ridiculous statement.
No. 414945
>>414529I think what sparked it in me was chasing and beating this boy in elementary school, a game we repeated every day.
We went to school together until high school before completely losing touch. He was so easy to tease, yet he wasn't a whimp at all. I liked this duality. I think we had a really good chemistry that I've never been able to find anywhere else.
Let's just say that the opportunities to play with a man in this way are much rarer in adulthood, at least as far as I'm concerned. I would find it really weird to talk about this with a man I just met, and I don't find the vast majority of men remotely interesting regardless. I don't like dating apps or casual sex either. It was so much easier when it just happened naturally… good days. Maybe I just haven't matured.
Thank God for AI characters allowing me to reenact this somehow.
Oh and I do like seeing men in pain in movies as well, although I don't think I would like it very much IRL, or only to a certain extent, like some tears and blood perhaps but no serious injuries (I feel like that's an obvious thing to write now but I might get called out for that here idk)
No. 415160
>>414648Love your story anon, honestly I feel like most women would be femdom if female oriented smut focusing on the suffering of a male was more common honestly
>What made you change from being a masochistic bottom into a sadist? Were you getting bored of your old kinks, wanted to try something new, and ended up loving it?Honestly? It was kind of an abrupt change, I really enjoyed seeing my ex in a scared submissive state but didn’t really find out until later. Also realizing the inherent misogyny of my old fetishes definitely helped shift my tastes. I just really get off to the suffering of men, whether it’s sexual or just a lust for power, I don’t know but probably both
No. 415293
>>415211>they can only be compared to other tires in relation to being attached to a car"These tires has better grooves than these tires, which helps it go faster on wet pavement." Where's the car in this statement?
>Muscles essence is to serve as protection or provide support and movement.It's not about muscles that even a skinny person has, but the muscles of a muscular moid. I'm not talking about the muscles you need to walk around and stand up, I'm talking about the muscles you get from hypertrophy. Even if muscles protect, protect how? With violence, solely a dominant quality. In any case,
>any other attributes is just the pathetic fallacy.The attributes that necessarily follow from the primary attributes are still attributes.
No. 415447
>>415293>"These tires has better grooves than these tires, which helps it go faster on wet pavement." Where's the car in this statement?The mere fact that you mentioned speed implies its movement with a vehicle.
>I'm not talking about the muscles you need to walk around and stand up, I'm talking about the muscles you get from hypertrophyIt's still fundamentally the same idea. Those muscles purpose and essence is still the same as any muscle, only that its bigger
>Even if muscles protect, protect how? With violence, solely a dominant qualityHow do muscles protect with violence? Violence necessarily constitutes some form of force while protection comes from the ability to withstand force, opposite dichotomies.
>The attributes that necessarily follow from the primary attributes are still attributes.I don't think your even following your own statement here, because you never made the connection between muscles and dominance just asserted it is
No. 415524
>>415447>The mere fact that you mentioned speed implies its movement with a vehicle. But there is a speed caused only by the tires.
>It's still fundamentally the same idea.That's like saying pebbles and boulders are the same because they're both made of the same material.
>How do muscles protect with violence?>protection comes from the ability to withstand forceForce is withstood with force, and force is violence
>you never made the connection between muscles and dominanceSee
>>414300 No. 415646
>>414640I started fantasizing about it as a teenager. I was head over heels for a gendie fujo who often talked about how hot it was when men 'broke gender roles'. Everything she said made a strong impression on me and something about this phrase tickled my imagination (in retrospect, she was really into Kaneoya Sachiko so.. yeah). Anyways, my mind went straight to the gutter and i started fantasizing about domming a serious man, breaking his mind and turning him into a dependent horny servant, picturing his distress etc. I think exposure to BL probably steered me towards this. Prior to that, i mostly fantasized about angsty lesbian scenarios, being dommed by women, retarded deviantart-tier shit and yaoi. I just kept this new interest to myself for years, until i stumbled on this thread. (adding a detail i forgot: i did ask a guy i was flirting with if he was passive or obedient in bed. He went 'NO' and seemed grossed out, massive let down)
I didn't know what a 'femdom' was, it didn't even occur to me that there were female-centric groups around this subject. I'd only come across typical, gross porn centered on female prostitutes. After that the flood gates opened and femdom became pretty important
>>414945This is cute.. I hope you find a dynamic like this again (but i get that first crushes always have this special quality to them)
>>415599Yes!
No. 415688
>>414640It started when I was maybe 8 or 9 and enjoyed seeing male characters in shows suffer, and I became fixated on characters and boys my age who were scrawny and small. Just the description of a skinny guy would get me excited. It’s the promise that he would be easily breakable and delicate.
Then it was probably yaoi and gore art that really drew me in at 13 and 14. I’d insert as the seme and top in gay porn and draw guys with their organs pouring out and fresh sh scars, the typical stuff.
It escalated in my late teens into real gore and learning about pegging (I had real penis envy that I’m still working on). For a while I enjoyed videos of men with prolapsed anuses, their bodies ruined at the hands of someone else because they became slaves to their desires. I was also very interested in sex with a man who is a full amputee in my mid-teens and the full control that would grant.
My interest ranges from gentle femdom (as hated as it is itt) to torture to cnc. For a 24/7 dynamic I love role reversal, maybe it’s the penis envy. I don’t know. I do also like seeing pleasure on my partner’s face, maybe that makes me less domme but it gets me off so who gives a fuck. The highs of various physical extremes painted on a man’s face is a fulfilling display.
My current Nigel is on board with most of it by pure chance. I’d have broken up if it weren’t the case, but I knew as soon as he expressed how excited he was to eat pussy that I had something to work with. Shit like the amputation will have to remain fantasy but I’m getting to do more than I ever imagined possible. With someone who fits my very specific physical requirements, too.
>>414945This reminds me, my physical requirements were absolutely set in stone when I experienced the glory of overpowering a small male friend when I was 14. It is infinitely more difficult to find this sort of thing as an adult.
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>>416030>the ground is violentyes
No. 416106
>>416079If the guy approaches YOU with a femdom fetish
that should be an automatic red flag. Usually a sign of porn addiction.
Now, if you don't care and if you're both relatively normie then you can as a superficial kink once in a while. This thread is more femgaze/life-style so if you want to try femdom because your partner has a fetish or you just want to be doing the trendy, hip new thing then I recommend r/FemdomCommunity. This thread is not for you.
No. 416136
>>416079Depends. Do you want a proper relationship? With femdom elements outside of scripted sex? Then it's not for you. This kind of arrangement might work if you only want to try it out to see if you really like femdom but expect to be treated like a fetish dispenser and nothing else (being treated like a whole person, having a man who really
wants you, your desires being truly catered to etc.). 'Vanilla' men or men with submissive penchants are much better
No. 416232
>>416220>You're a retardedDifferent nona
>how are earthquakes violentC'mon.
>physical things can't be violentIt's not wrong to say guns are violent, though guns are just as physical as muscles.
Anyways, you're changing the subject. My point is that hypertrophic muscles are adverse to cute submissive boys.
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>>416079other nonnas warned you about what could go bad - being his kink dispenser, but I think that if you feel good with exploring with him, go for it and don't worry too much just try stuff you find interesting from his suggestions and see how you feel about it
BUT if you don't want to do something, like ball stuff then don't force yourself, but you can try by slapping, squeezing and the like… he would probably tell you if that is too much, use safe word and have fun
and the most important part - think about what YOU want to do for yourself as a domme, never let him be a lazy pathetic sub! guys love to pretend that they have femdom kink and in reality it means they just want to be lazy. Experiment if being dominant is for you and never force yourself if it is not, or if this specific guy is not good enough to be your slave