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>>252508Thread for:
>dommes>femdom images and media>femdom fantasies>female subs interested in women>advice and storiesSome things to get us started:
>What are your main kinks?>What is your ideal sub like?>What experiences have you had?>What advice do you have for new dommes?>Where to find subs? How to avoid unhealthy ones?Femdom ficrecs:
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Thank you for starting a new thread op!
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saw these images and thought of this thread
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I wish femdom content online were more about making scrotes suffer and less about uwu soft m*mmy domme
No. 331438
>>331409Yes, of course he needs to douche. Look up Ruby Ryder, she has info on how to clean ass, as well as dildo/harness recommendations.
As for mutual pleasure, if you get a harness that has the dildo sitting low enough on your clit, you can get clitoral stimulation/orgasms from that. There are also double-sided dildos but I would recommend using a harness with that to hold it in place or else it'll fall out (at least that's what I've heard).
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>>331419Finally some quality audio from Dlsite
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>>331518
>hot topic
No. 331552
>>331540There are 3 rules:
1. Safe
Preparation and sanitizing aren't a joke. Everyone should be on top of their hygiene. Safewords might be cheesy, but do it anyway.
2. Sane
BDSM can be more than just a fetish/kink. It can be psychologically beneficial for both parties as it allows for things to get expressed that normally can't be. This partially answers
>>331535 questions because, as far as I'm concerned most femdom is in the realm of fantasy. Speaking for myself, I don't want someone to actually suffer, I don't want to hurt someone's feelings and leave them worse off than before. At the same time, I'm not interested in relationships with participants.
3. Consentual
I'm not going to do anything I don't want to do, nor do I want someone to go along with something they don't really want. The fastest way to piss me off is when someone just goes along with everything and builds up resentment, then they act like it's my fault.
>>331540Most of the femdom content is m*mmy shit like
>>331419 says. Men are the biggest consumers of porn, so that's what sells, and that's what you see.
Ironically, the kind of men who you can work with are the kind who have a good grasp on interpersonal boundaries, they know their values, they know what they want…psychological health 101. It's hard to find but I think the most sustainable femdom stuff is "positive femdom".
A man who had an absent/neglectful/
abusive mom may want to repeat the shit that traumatized him because PTSD runs grooves in your brain you tend to fall back on. A femdom session could potentially help expose and integrate the feelings he has around that, but once that's done, he may change (see why I don't allow relationships?). Or, exposing the emotional damage could leave you with a psycho on your hands, and…yeah.
No. 331557
>>331424>>331415These just feel wrong. the idea of lifting up a massive moid just to kiss him when he should be bending down to
my height for a kiss (why would I need to perform a stunt to reach my boyslave's mouth) and exerting that much energy to like, take a picture for the internet.
>>331507>couldn't even link itWhy
>>331515No, it has to be from the POV of a woman ree
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spoilered because drawing of a decapitaited moid
No. 331738
>>331718Well, this thread probably isn't for me, but I'm going to tell you what I believe to be the truth. Grain of salt and all that.
BDSM isn't real. It can only exist in the realm of fantasy–which is fine. So post all the art, post the fantasies, post the copypasta, fanfics, etc..
But I think eventually you have to admit that true, sustainable femdom relationships are extremely rare, or are only possible with a heavy amount of detachment. The vast majority of people aren't able to sustain detachment.
Most dommes I've met are unrefined sadists. They might enjoy inflicting pain, or the idea of it. They might have anecdotes about receiving pleasure from male denial/male pain, but it's generally hit and run stuff. Not much different than "I'm such a BRAT hehe".
This shit is typically because the dude wants it and the woman is willing to act it out. There are many BDSM situations where it's the submissive one who calls all the shots, and I don't think that's ideal.
Since the world has become more open minded about BDSM in the last few years, I think ultimately what's gonna happen is you'll see more and more men open to the idea of pegging/prostate shit, orgasm denial, chastity, and the ol' femdom staples, but that's more about what men are into.
No. 331749
>>331738>or are only possible with a heavy amount of detachmentWhy do you think detachment is necessary? I think the opposite, since it's a very intimate and vulnerable thing to have complete control over someone. And most men don't have the emotional intelligence and complexity to give up real control (only being led by their shallow fetishes/kinks + having dommy mommy doing everything for them). I think the only situation it COULD work is where there is strong love. Love in which the woman wants to take possession over him and is comfortable being her true unfiltered self, and love in which the man devotes himself to her completely without expecting to be rewarded.
Although I'm into D/s and have kinks, I don't really like using the BDSM label. It's all so shallow, performative, and fake, imo.
No. 331761
>>331749Shrug, your mileage may vary. I don't want to split hairs, get overly philosophical, or get into semantics, but here's how I see it:
Put bluntly, that's not love. If it's love, it happens on its own. Is it a very intimate and vulnerable thing to have complete control over someone? Sure. But nobody, male or female can give themselves over to anyone completely and still be in love. I don't want to get too far off subject, but I think the fetishization of vulnerability is
problematic, so to speak.
Many people practically have a need to be vulnerable and for others to display vulnerability before they can get anywhere. I can't relate to it, but not everyone is the same, so fine. In your everyday cases of emotional trauma, a given person being vulnerable may have led to all kinds of inner turmoil. So for them to completely give themselves up might seem like quite a big deal, but I question if that's healthy for anyone involved. Granted, not everyone has PTSD, or even mild to moderate symptoms thereof, but becoming someone's full-time object of worship seems more like religious "love" rather than romantic love.
Religious love it seems to me is more of a fetishization of situations, concepts, duties, and rules. That's fine for what it is, but I don't agree that's the same as romantic love.
No. 331777
>>331770Well, just to make sure I understand.
If you're asking whether I think it's healthy for men to defer to their male friends or politics, the answer is no. I think that's unhealthy. It's healthy to get input from a variety of sources, but it's not healthy to defer to someone else all the time.
That said, "healthy" is relative. If a guy wants to defer to a wife/gf, that's his decision. But I think people are at their best when they explore on their own and draw their own conclusions. And sex/intimacy is a powerful thing, so if you use that to reward worship and punish independence/autonomy, I think you've reduced a person to a point of non-personhood, and to me, that's morbid.
But if the person is giving their consent as an adult, hey, that's their business. I just think it's unhealthy, like smoking, overeating, or whatever else.
No. 331784
>>331738>I think ultimately what's gonna happen is you'll see more and more men open to the idea of pegging/prostate shit, orgasm denial, chastity, and the ol' femdom staples, but that's more about what men are into.That's just depressing because if anything it's going to make actual femdom hard to find and discover. it's just going to be old style 80's femdom, new mainstream femdom and generic off shoots of femdom but very little will actually be femdom.
>love in which the man devotes himself to her completely without expecting to be rewarded.isn't the reward for the man in this is that he's helping please someone he loves and cares for ?
I don't think it's asking much not be treated like a kink dispenser and wanting someone that's submissive but not a pushover or lazy.
like its just a normal healthy loving relationship I don't think its a great ask just that lots of moids aren't submissive just topping from the bottom.
No. 331790
>>331777Men ARE at their best when they defer to their female partners. Maybe you are mixing this up with female submission towards men, that's a situation where I agree it isn't healthy because women are indoctrinated into it.
>>331784>isn't the reward for the man in this is that he's helping please someone he loves and cares for ?Yes. I meant that he wouldn't want or expect a sexual reward, gift, for anything to be reciprocated, etc.
No. 331798
>>331796then isn't the question to ask, where do you find these ideal men that want to be submissive to women but avoid the ones that aren't submissive or using women as a means to a end.
I don't think there's enough shy/outgoing introverted/extroverted booksmart/dummies non-porn addicted men to go around ?
No. 331801
>>331796You explained it way better than I could, thank you.
>>331798It's a matter of luck, but if you keep looking you'll find him eventually.
>I don't think there's enough shy/outgoing introverted/extroverted booksmart/dummies non-porn addicted men to go around ?If you think this way then you've already given up.
No. 331803
>>331798Yeah that is the question asked in every thread. It is more rare because of the internet and online porn, period. It breeds a hatred of women even though it is the fault of males that there exist such degenerate, heart-breaking, unnatural and violent porn. It probably is impossible to find a boy who hasn’t watched porn but hopefully you can find one who is disturbed by most of it. I don’t know if a guy like this feasibly exists, I’m just spitballing. You’ll have anons say men like this never existed but I think there existed men who came pretty close. I think to create the kind of male who respects women he needs to have female role models; mind you, the responsibility is not on the women to be the role models (there are already so many) but for fathers to not show their sons that it is okay to disrespect women with authority. Respect your mother, teachers, sisters, other mothers, aunts, cousins, etc. I don’t know, my father just seems to defer to women a fair amount and he isn’t submissive he just recognizes women are superior on nearly all levels.
I guess you’d need to find a man who has a moral compass and one who understands that women are the curators and keepers of true morality.
No. 331817
>>331814>>331811Would you please inform me how ad hominems, stereotyping, dehumanization, simplification of concepts, a binary view of morality, and the suggestion I don't belong in the discussion because of my views (which by the way I alluded to a few posts ago) indicates you're effectively curating true morality or being a good role-model?
"Go back to reddit" is something I usually see in male-dominated spaces.
>>331814Didn't say mercy was complicated. I said someone's ability to show mercy isn't tied to gender. Realistically what's happening here is you're having trouble keeping up. Don't tell me you can, because you literally misread what I typed up and proceeded to spit out labels and stereotypes.
Are you a good role-model?
Done with this shit today.
(integrate retard) No. 331863
>>331854It seems like most of the gatekeeping happening is retards trying to pass off F/m relationship dynamics as something unhealthy and
problematic because anything beyond edging and mommying a scrote makes them feel uncomfortable.
No. 331972
>>331863I think my sort of hangup is simply switching the roles and having men be abused by women doesn't really feel like femdom to me.
it just feels like maledom with the roles switched out but it still comes from a male adjacent gaze or origin.
So I think actual female based femdom should be something coming from a female gaze or origin instead, it may have overlaps or be similar in some ways but I'd rather it be its own thing than a copy or imitation of another.
>>331902>>331909same, it annoys me that Gender roles or whatever way its defined are more rigid now again, I missed the sort of androgynous of the 90's , even the idea of makeup like black eyeliner or nice lingerie.
but now its all claimed and ruined by troons and masked as empowering somehow. like the idea of masculine styled women or feminine styled men is forbidden.
No. 331987
>>331972Why does female gaze automatically mean to you that everything has to be sanitized and overly kind and sweet and respectful? Maybe some women just want to be rough and cruel (towards a man who consents to it)?
I really think the only cases where femdom imitates maledom is if there is sissification/feminization towards the man or if there is degrading femininity in any way. Because then clearly it's just misogynistic shit.
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My female gaze love beaten up men
No. 331994
>>331979fair enough, didn't mean to cause offense , sorry.
>>331987I don't think it needs to be sweet or respectful I think my issue is maybe its more influenced by what men wanted femdom to be, so it just makes me feel like its an imitation with roles switched.
I'm all for rough and cruel (if there's consent) but I'd rather wish it came about naturally than originally springing from men.
I think im just misunderstanding and having a poor grasp of language to find my answer.
Like I wish femdom could be for and by women and self serving towards womens interests first rather than having a need to placate or dial it down with a guise of gentle femdom or whatever.
>>331991>>331993This but with romance involved and slight fear
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>>331991BEATING UP TALL SERIOUS DARK HAIR MEGANE QT BF FULL FORCE NO HOLDING BACK CUZ HE’S BUILT TO ENDURE ABUSE
No. 335866
>>335438It means that he is an
abusive piece of shit and should be dumped.
No. 336039
>>336025Nonnie responding back here.
He'll get to eat human food, just out of a cat bowl and I'm not too concerned about the water aspect- I'll have my main bowl for the kitties on the counter and he'll have his on the ground to drink out of. I actually mentioned the catbourne illness to him and he said he is not concerned because he's 'shared' water with my cats from his cup (when they drink out of it) and we're both not concerned about the malnutrition/passing out aspect, he'll be left for a day MAX and will be okay. I am also going to leave a waterbottle out in case he wants to drink it instead, just might be a bit of a struggle. He won't have any access to any electronics. No TV, no phone. I'm not going to leash him too intensely- the most ideal is he'll be able to unhook himself even with cuffs/being tied. Also for the pissing and shitting- he actually suggested that HE wants a cock belt so he can't even get a boner and can't piss at all. But I feel like that's too extreme and will probably get him to use it in the mornings and well, I'm still figuring out the bathroom stuff lol. I do get turned on by the idea of total control over him and the idea that he'll be desperate for me to come home. Hope that helps.
No. 336081
>>336007>>336039I think the most extreme thing here is that he won't have any way to keep himself occupied. He is spending half the day only thinking about you and waiting for you to come back. Hot.
>the most ideal is he'll be able to unhook himself even with cuffs/being tiedCan you actually trust him with this? Do you have some way to ensure he can't cheat and let himself out without you knowing?
No. 336094
>>336044I'll definitely post some kind of proof when we do this, should be sometime this week or next. Webcam is a good idea, I have one too.
>>336050I won't lie, I am a little depraved. This will probably be one of the more extreme things we have done. I just love LOVE the idea of him waiting all day, not being able to move, just all mine. Hehe.
>>336068Unfortunately I had one of those water filter bowls (they're quite deep, about 8 inches) so I had to place it in the sink or else my cats knock it over. I have one too many cats so a regular dog bowl/small cat bowl doesn't cut it.
>>336081I trust him that he won't untie himself unless completely necessary, but I will be marking the rope with sharpie to see if he does untie himself while I'm gone. He knows not to do that though. Still thinking of punishments as he's kind of into anything and everything. And I MEAN that.
>>336090Oh thanks for the concern nonni but this is not a LARP and I will post proof as well. He won't be THAT restricted, his hands will be tied enough and the leash will allow for some movement (standing, slight walking, sitting and laying). I live in an apartment as well so if he really needs to leave, he will have access to the outside world fairly easily rather than being isolated.
The objective is to make him feel isolated and alone, a bit scared.
He also will have no FREE access to electronics but his phone will be placed somewhere upon agreeing in which I will mark around it to see if he uses or plays on it.
No. 336150
Don’t listen to
>>336103 nonny I wanna see it (if he’s cute of course)
No. 336210
>>336209>so many women let men manhandle and choke them What's that got to do with my post?
>RetardWow
No. 336222
>>336217Ok but it’s besides the point of anything I wrote.
>moralfags It’s more about not going to prison than morals.
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>>336007This sounds based and cute I've always wanted a chained moid.
>>336025>what if he passes out from malnourishment and dehydrationAs if this isn't the cutest scenario
>>336090You are boring af
>>336103Boring
Imagine getting filtered by this gentle ass shit. He even agreed to it. Why even be in this thread if you think tying up a moid for a day is some extreme shit. She even said he'll be able to stand and walk and pace if he needs to. He even wanted a cock cage for fucks sake, I think a grown man can handle being restrained.
No. 336241
>>336226In the particular posts I replied to she said
>I'm going to leave a blindfold on him so he's real sensory deprived and cuff his hands behind his back so he can't touch himself even if he wants toThen
>I'm not going to leash him too intensely- the most ideal is he'll be able to unhook himself even with cuffs/being tiedOK sounds very reassuring. She also went from saying he’ll be sleeping on the floor a couple of days to “24 hours at most”, which is a long time to be immobilized. Honestly I called larp because you have to be retarded to think it's a good idea. If he’s 100% for certain able to untie himself in case of an emergency then have fun, but think about anything that could potentially go wrong in this scenario and make sure you are prepared. I admit I was a bit condescending, I'm glad OP gets to play out her fantasy and I'm sure she was excited and hadn't thought all the details through before posting, but idk why you're offended someone is discussing safety in a thread about femdom, this is bondage 101 stuff. She did backtrack later on which is good, but if no one says anything unfortunately some people are gonna think this is totally fine. It's very obvious some of you live in lala land and are terrible at thinking about stuff realistically.
No. 336249
>>336239>She even said he'll be able to stand and walk and pace if he needs toNTA but this is actually one of the most common ways people hurt themselves while restrained. People have a tendency to fall and you obviously can't brace yourself with your hands tied. It's why you shouldn't leave someone alone in that position, period.
>>336244>You sound like a loser who is too afraid of a moid experiencing any amount of discomfort so you handle him with kiddie glovesThis is your go-to response when you disagree with someone isn't it.
>>336245wow so girlboss epic pwnage much edge. Anyway sorry for posting some common sense itt, I'll leave you to your collective delusion.
No. 336250
>>336248Eh, cat ears and a tail are cringe but the rest is kind of cute… puppy boy
>>336249Begone
No. 336293
>>336094>>336241Leashing up my moid
nonnie here.
I appreciate all the concern and consideration. I do have some more safety plans in place.
As for the toxoplasmosis, he will have access to a fresh water bottle, and my tap as well.
He will be restrained enough to move and walk, fortunately I have laminated floors and he will not be wearing socks, I brought up the concern of falling and he said he is not too concerned and will just be sitting/sleeping most of the day.
He will also be tight but loosely restrained, so he will have access to take the rope off from behind his back/wrists but if he takes it off, I will be able to tell because he won't be able to tie himself back up. He will also have access to talking the leash off when needed. This way he will have access to the washroom but the goal is for him to wait until I say he can. I was thinking I might call him to check up for verbal communication too.
I will also have my webcam on him so I can check on him during the day.
>>336248I love this and I am hoping to make him be my pet, but I will treat him worse than my pets hehe. My pets get snuggles. He will have the option of choosing a collar and leash at the pet store and I will make him do tricks for me. Maybe I'll even get 'treats' for him too.
>>336271He is quite handsome, I think you would be surprised. I'm going to get him to hold up a piece of paper that says "Hi lolcow" hehe.
I wish to post a picture of us, but that would be an instaban.
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Whose POV is more exciting to read from? Not just from a horny perspective but the emotional response of the characters too. I obviously default to the woman's since her inner thoughts and justifications are relatable but am getting invested in exploring the spiral of the male character in this fic. I don't want the story to be read as weird male self-insert fantasies but it feels so indulgent to write about how viciously I'd like (character) to fuck him up. Pls advise nonnas.
No. 336533
>>336526You mean a third person POV? It's doable but there's a level of investment when you get one exclusive perspective imo.
>>336527That's exactly what's screwing me over kek I want to put his pathetic misery to paper but also vicariously live through her.
No. 336672
>>336524For me it depends on the story and what works best. I love writing and reading the woman's POV because there is too little of that in good quality, but male POV is good too, especially if it really describes his thoughts and feelings
ideally including fear and humiliation but also stupid whorish lust. 3rd, 2nd, 1st person, anything goes. I also like it when the female narrator or POV character is describing the man's expression and trying to guess his thoughts, more or less projecting her own thoughts upon him, maybe because it's relatable.
No. 336720
>>336672Pretty much everything you said about female POV is how i feel too. Maybe it's a skill issue but writing in male perspective when there's not a lot going on in his head is tough, I'll try writing again and see if there's some compelling emotions he can go through.
thanks for all the input anonies.
No. 337198
>>337099You want your bf to be fit? That's quite normal and not kinky.
>>337192As you said, almost all content that objectfied
beautiful submissive men used to be fujo content or for gay men. Things are better these days. This otome game looks very promising, for example.
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god all i want is an switch/sub younger man who has actual substance and worth give himself over entirely into my care so I can love and brutalise him for the rest of his life. I would take such good care of him.
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"I'll go make coffee."
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half the images in here suck tbh.
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Girl/Girl?
No. 340643
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A recommendation for my fellow women of culture: Otome audio were you legit torture the guys. Actually stab them and one gets his tongue split in two. This is their punishment for being awful and it changes them and then you fuck.
https://www.dlsite.com/girls/work/=/product_id/RJ01073856.html No. 340652
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>>340644Get it when you can, it's worth it, these lads sure can scream. Pic from a comic that was included.
No. 340660
>>340643I came here thinking about asking what to do when your submissive constantly disappoints you, and then you post this. Thanks
nonnie, I am healed.
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@gzgnight has some delicious art
>>340708That’s fucking hot. Lab coats, glasses, experiments, med fet, purrrr
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>>340722Wow excellent art. Posting another by her.
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>>340049This is weird but I love the way dicks look when they're pointing straight up like that, like laying on the stomach, it's the best
For any anons who have the men in pain fetish you should watch the scenes in Queen Charlotte with the extremely hot actor bound in a chair with a gag on being tortured with leeches and half naked and shit. It's a little too far for me cause I'm not so much on the sadist side and I just wanted to comfort him, but ngl turned me on a bit
No. 340855
>>340845Which episode nona?
Leeches were used as common medical treatment back then though, so what a cry baby.
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No. 343000
>>342968That sucks. Maybe make a reward system for enduring pain. Like he earns some good boy points that go towards earning a special prize (a kissy).
>>342996You wish
>>342970Hot until the end where you "breed him" by impregnating yourself to spite some random other guy. If it's a fantasy why even involve another random guy in it that'll just get in your way? Or a child? Why not just be a princess with a hot, sexy, obedient and chaste knight? Lame.
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I'd like to be useful to an older women, like being a piece of human furniture for her to use her legs on my back while she reads, an ash tray to lightly tap the end of her cigarette on my waiting tongue maybe spit in my mouth and I'd be so giddy that I'm being helpful to her, she doesn't even need to compliment me or acknowledge my existence.
No. 343329
>>342966Ayrt I've never even noticed that even though I've read it a bunch lmao. To be honest I sort of half pay attention to the vasectomy shit beforehand because the porn part is too good kek I'm just gonna pretend the brainrot verbiage isn't there
>>342964So glad you liked it, I'm into the exact scenario that you described so if I ever find anything with similar themes I'll link it here again!
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>>342968In the same situation, I feel you nonna
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No. 344279
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You know that feeling when you're into CBT, and he knows it, and sometimes you just gently squeeze his dick/balls to remind him about his vulnerability?
I just came up with a name for that.
"Hamster shaking".
Why such a bizarre name, you might ask.
Here's the answer:
>>>/ot/1662004>holding [it] in my hand and giving it a little shake to remind it I am the superior more powerful beingAnon managed to describe the experience with laser precision. It just fits. We have strange names for poses and kinks already, and hamster shaking is just as perfectly
valid as "doggy style" and "docking". Hell, ever "missionary" sounds weird if you think about it.
I am all for hamster shaking. Are you?
No. 344312
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Interrogation that goes wrong and he's squealing.
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>>344279I am all for hamster shaking!
No. 345326
>>345278I never thought of the distinction between bottoming and submitting that way. He does like pleasing me because he loves me and wants me to feel good, but I don't think pleasing me is a turn on for him. I'm a rather standoffish and blunt person by nature and that drew him to me, so I think it's less about him feeling humiliated and more that he likes seeing that side of me when I'm fucking him - a bit cold and impassive.
I admit I'd really like for him to be turned on by pleasing me, but he's perfect for me in pretty much every other way. However, I think going by your distinction, sexually he's more of a bottom than a sub. But he's very submissive in non-sexual aspects, which I like - he seems to genuinely enjoy being bossed around by me and doing things for me like carrying my things, shopping, cooking, cleaning, bringing me snacks and drinks, etc. One time I asked for something and he teasingly asked me, "what's the magic word?" and I said "now" rather sternly and he loved it lol, got the biggest smile on his face.
Moids are very simple and easily sexually conditioned so I think I might be able to condition him to like it more not by showing enthusiasm, but by 69ing more or touching him while I sit on his face to reinforce the connection between eating me out and getting turned on.
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Won't link it because it's not in English, but a major newspaper in my country ran an article about "professional dommes" and ofc it's moidgaze bullshit about serving degenerate moids' needs. They were the customers so I guess it's to be expected, and of course it's all bullshit like mainstream BDSM in general but I'm still mad. How the fuck dare they call it femdom when it's literally women serving the scrotes all over again? (And dressed in the tackiest, ugliest pvc imaginable kek) They also just had to shove in troons and mention that "some transwomen uwu come to practice makeup and how to be a woman with our dommes teehee", fucking disgusting.
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I just read one, bit moidy but it was set in a generic kink world, women in charge. Had a story of a moid becoming a sort of care assistant/pet/tool for a punk/alt woman in a wheelchair.
spent most of the story shocking him via collar and then chastity, making him sleep in a cage, shocking him some more with a sounding rod then making him eat her out every so often too.
I was kinda hoping for some slight romance (he saves her when she falls trying to get into the bath) but she just get's angry and shocks him some more kek.
ends up stuck as some sort of half servant half latex pet that she shocks for fun and gets oral from, doesn't even get to speak during the story.
>It was moidy but it became interesting that she was in a wheelchair and had that power imbalance but control.
It's a shame that most of the author and artists work is just woman on woman (aka moid gazed focused)
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No. 346348
>>346243malding
>>346247its epic.
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Anybody got any good femdom Denji x Makima fics? I. Just got back into Chainsaw Man and seeing this eager to please, cute, virgin guy try so desperately to please his older female boss to the point of death is honestly so hot and such a sexy role reversal. I want her to force him on his knees and drag him by his tie and force him to eat her pussy all while he begs and thanks her for it.
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Are there any good femdom heavy moves that aren't completely scrote-centric? I've good things about this one, but only from scrotes.
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I don't know if I'm sexually attracted to crying or just sexually attracted to the idea of a moid crying. Never got horny witnessing tears, just disgusted and uncomfortable. Still don't know what kind of tears are the sexiest. I want to make a moid cry due to physical strain/torture but also due to desperation/need. Perhaps one day I will have a moid to experiment this on. Do different types of crying produce differently flavored tears? Hmmmmm
Anyone have experience with males crying? How does it feel in your loins?
No. 347557
>>347541Can relate. I realized I was into tears as a teenager, specifically tears of pain, humiliation, fear, and desperation (as in when he realizes there's nothing he can do to stop it). I like the visual effect but the psychological side is the most important, so I guess tears represent a breaking point of the psyche in a way, the giving up of pride and dignity. I do get turned on by seeing such tears in a drawing or reading about them, but it's not just sexual for me, there's something else too, like a sense of security and satisfaction.
This happens only in fiction, though. If I see a moid cry irl I feel bad or disturbed, so idk how to explore this in real life. In that sense I'm not a true sadist, since I get immediately turned off if I read about e.g. torture knowing it's real. Maybe if I got together with a moid who's into extreme long distance running and would be willing to train until he's at the verge of tears, would I be turned on by seeing that despite the psychological context being different? I don't know.
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Wanted to share this gif with you nonnies
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writing more based femdom fics 'cause there aren't enough based femdom fics and there can't be too many
No. 348349
>>348251Thanks, I wanna amazon him.
>>348335As you should!
No. 348470
>>348336I'm too shy to share my account but it's going to be pretty much rivals hatefucking where the moid (who is canonically a contemptuous asshole) gets put in his place. I'll include:
>cunnilingus>hair pulling>maybe slapping idk>humiliation>light bondage>orgasm denialMaybe I'll make the female mc pull him by his tie as well, thanks for the idea nonas. It's all happening in an office with a great focus to the canonical dynamic between the two characters, I'm a sucker for that sort of thing, but not so much into overt BDSM. I'm also going to include cringy humorous world building just 'cause.
No. 349296
I think femdom is the most beautiful, natural, cohesive relationship dynamic for straight couples. Men are literally biologically designed to be beaten up. Men dominating women is terrifying and revolting because it is perverse, and a complete inversion of the natural state of things. Men are also biologically geared to direct their lives toward something - that might be a stronger man, God, a military leader, a boss - but men are clearly very hierarchically minded. Thus, it makes the most sense for a man to be submitting to a woman in a relationship. He needs something to direct his life towards, and in the ideal scenario, that something is the woman he loves.
I currently have a sexually submissive man, but I am training him to be more submissive in all aspects of our relationship because I think that is the ideal. He already naturally submits to me most of the time when I do this, and I think lots of men are able to be molded like this. I simply started speaking up for myself and worrying less about whether or not my choices are in his best interest - basically, started thinking like a man. Being selfish. I call the shots for what we do, where we go to eat, that sort of thing. He is, of course, free to spend time with his friends and whatnot, but I am conditioning him more and more to dedicate himself to my joy when we are together. When he was little he was very interested in medieval times and knights - I have leaned into this and positively reinforced him acting chivalrously and knightly towards me. Malesub should follow an archetype like a knight, in my opinion. Masculine and strong, yet willingly servile and devoted.
I hate that femdom is seen as this weird niche kink that's very male-oriented. I truly believe it is the most harmonious type of relationship, and it is the ascended form of straight female sexuality. When women become truly sexually liberated, I think they will naturally gravitate towards this dynamic as it is the most satisfying and fulfilling. Curious if anyone else has similar thoughts on the "philosophy" of femdom as it were.
No. 349300
>>349296This is just the truth. Men are only capable of being truly happy and fulfilled once they throw aside their ego and fully devote their lives to the woman they love. Look what happens when they don't. They become insecure. They lash out. They waste their lives away. They become fat, unkempt, and slovenly. They troon out. They fall into all sorts of addictions and vices, trying to fill a gaping void that could never be filled through such base and shallow means. Unfortunately, most men never get over their insecurities and there are still way too many women who coddle them and mommy them. A woman can also never reach her full potential if she's taking care of and being submissive to a moid.
>I truly believe it is the most harmonious type of relationship, and it is the ascended form of straight female sexuality.Preach.
No. 349324
I went to a known kink bar with a friend out of curiosity. Women and creepy old ""dom"" men were approaching me. I like women, but I don't want to sexually torture them in the same way I do men. I would not use a woman or degrade her even if she wanted it. The men my age were either flaming fags or there with their gf looking for a unicorn. I'm about to resort to looking online but I know advertising for a male sub is just going to attract the lowest scum of men
>>349296Agree 100% with you. Men are created to submit to women. The sooner they accept this, the more liberated both sexes will be
No. 349360
>>349357This is gonna sound retarded as fuck but my mommy kink is kind of
abusive, so idk if a nice older woman is gonna do that with me. I wanna be demeaned, beat, strangled and abused by an
abusive roleplay mom, but the aftercare is affectionate and cuddly mom, yk?
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No. 349741
>>349740>gross naked maleAre you not attracted to men in general or something, or is it the art style?
>but there's something off about these such as the women wearing heelsProbably because the women are dressed up and meant to be "sexy", while the guy is drawn as unappealing as possible. I wish less focus was put on the woman in femdom art, like just put her in pajamas or something plain and make the guy super hot. It always feels like it's trying to hard to appeal to men with the heels and woman looking as sexy as possible.
No. 349753
>>349741>when the guy is drawn as unappealing as possibleThat answers your first question
>put her in pajamasI know, right? Or just comfy clothes in general. Why is the second woman wearing heels and a pencil skirt in what looks to be her own home (I say, as the room is empty except a chair and a moid)
No. 349837
>>349753Agreed, this art is way too scrotey. The pencil skirt and heels with what looks like an H&M crossover tank top from 2014 lol. I can tell a moid drew it because that's how trannies dress.
>>349741The art style is fug, and the male has a soft penis and looks like he's doing the Justin Bieber duckface lol. Also what in the post-1D Zayn is that facial hair. Imo the man should be focusing on serving and pleasing the woman – in this scenario, she would be in comfy clothes and he could be rubbing her feet (she's probably been in those heels all day) or making himself useful by being a footstool. He would ideally be incredibly hard and incredibly flustered and embarrassed about it.
No. 349941
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>steps on his cock in a female gaze way
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I'm back on my bullshit
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