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No. 252508

Last Thread: >>191915

Thread for:
>dommes
>femdom images and media
>femdom fantasies
>female subs interested in women
>advice and stories

Some things to get us started:
>What are your main kinks?
>What is your ideal sub like?
>What experiences have you had?
>What advice do you have for new dommes?
>Where to find subs? How to avoid unhealthy ones?

No. 252509

I love Sadistic Beauty and how Duna utterly broke Minho

No. 252541

Why spoiler the pic? It should have been out and proud

No. 252612

I like seeing men in pain, simple as. No sane moid would ever let me, but I've been fantasizing about cutting up a man's stomach with a knife, just deep enough to draw blood, and licking the wounds and watching him writhe in pain. No real point to this post, I just needed somewhere to talk about this where I won't get called a psycho.

No. 252616

>>252612
not into this but i've come across a fair share of men who have told me they'd be down for this (they brought it up, not me). it's not uncommon, but yeah, their sanity is questionable. it's not hard to find though.

No. 252618

>>252612
Also not my thing but I knew a medical student into this and she definitely found moids that would let her.

No. 252624

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>>252604
Like this?

No. 252627

Op is beautiful and shouldn't be spoilered. I like how it's a non weeb pic this time.

No. 252645

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Spoiler for spoiler reasons lol but i watched bridgerton and this scene has me rolling on the fucking ground. I want to shove my fingers down a man's throat so bad and maybe make him gag a little

No. 252648

>>252645
that's so hot! thanks nonna!

No. 252664

>>252645
Yum yum

No. 252690

>>252645
Wasn't going to watch this season but you've convinced me.

No. 252854

>>252645
Thanks nona, now I can't concentrate on work.

No. 253261

>>252508
has anyone here ever sat on a guys face. Can you tell me what the sensation is like. It seems appealing in my imagination but i feel like maybe in real life it may just feel really uncomfortable.

No. 253276

>>253261
Yes, I've done it and it wasn't that great. It just felt kinda gross. Wet and cold down there lmao. I mostly did it because he wanted to.

No. 253280

>>253276
Why did it feel cold?

No. 253287

>>253276
in my head he would be eating me out/i would be grinding on his tongue. I can see why it's not the ideal position though lol

No. 253303

>>253287
Well you see, the problem for me is that I can't cum from just oral, my clitoris is not very sensitive because of decades of masturbating on hard surfaces. I'm sure that if this wasn't the case, I would've enjoyed it more.

>>253280
His saliva. But maybe he had the AC on, I don't remember.

No. 253320

>>252645
lol my bf's immediate reaction to whenever i touch his lips is to suck on my fingers- is that a femdom thing?? is he trying to tell me he's into it???

No. 253321

>>253261
it's pretty nice - it's really warm and hot if you're in a room with a good temperature dunno what >>253276 is on about, prob was in a cold room?
only do it after you orgasm though, it's pretty tough to orgasm from that position and doesn't feel that nice, feels awkward tbh
prone on your back with his head between your legs is better imo

No. 253330

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>>253320
I would take it as a green light. It's gently dominant. It's hot to see your partner sucking on your body (makes you think of them kissing/sucking other areas), and it implies a level of control by having access to an intimate, squishy area. Plus they're in a compromising situation since it's an uncommon, socially taboo thing you wouldn't do with anyone else. Unless you're a dentist.

No. 253598

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>>252612
Makes me miss the gore blogs in old Tumblr. There were some amazing blogs collecting gifs of men suffering and bloody, all gone now. At least non-gory whump blogs remain. If only the term and the whole way the community talks wasn't so twee and cringe.

No. 253738

intentional bump btw. what should i do if the guy im seeing is very adamant on domming me? he says he’s willing to sub if i ask but he’ll often mention how i seem more subby (which is true on the surface) and am better suited for it.

No. 253759

>>253738
Gag. It's throwing up warning bells for me. I hate men who do the manipulative "oh you don't know what you want baby, I know what you want, I can see what a sub you are." Nah dude, that's just what you want to see because it makes you feel better about not being able to exert control in any other aspect of your life. Do not actually go along with it unless you're into it (and make sure you understand what he actually means by it), and I would take him up on his offer to dom him and see how he actually handles it.

No. 253760

>>253738
i think you should stand your ground and don't do anything you aren't comfortable with, you'll just feel worse for it afterwards.

also his insistence seems a bit strange and off putting in this context.

No. 253761

>>253738
I think it is a red flag.
Tell him that there will be no more such talk from him because that isn't what you're into. If he protests then you two aren't compatible.

No. 253762

>>253598
I love this kind of vintage pics btw do you know where I can find more?

No. 253763

>>253261
Personally, I freaking love it. It’s exactly as you >>253287 describe it. I can orgasm more easily in that position because I’m in control and basically grinding on his tongue exactly how I want.

No. 253822

>>253762
It's just random pic I found by googling. If you search for pulp + femdom you can find a lot of covers, some of them have pretty nice art.

No. 253849

>>253738
ghost him

No. 254234

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I'm not a femdom or anything but I came across this photo and thought of my girlies on lolcow

No. 254235

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>>254234
FWIW I'm a bit annoyed she's still made to look to appeal to males but the moid kinda genuinely looks uncomfortable here

No. 254251

>>253738
He's insecure and challenging you. Rise up to the challenge and put him in his place by ghosting and blocking.

No. 254768

>>254234
Thanks nona it's always enjoyable to see kneeling muscle hunks.

No. 255930

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this reminded me of you all

No. 255934

>>255930
yessssssssss! I read this doujin a bit earlier today and it was GREAT

No. 255951

>>255930
This manga sucks ass and is for moids

>>255934
get better standards

No. 255965

>>255930
I'm not usually the one to say this, but this manga seems weirdly misogynistic, also I can't stand her expressions
>>255951
This

No. 255968

>>255965
She calls him pathetic and just like a girl in the same breath. cringe

No. 255971

>>255968
>>255965
Obviously. Because in the mind of males, feminine = inferior, weak, pathetic.
It feels like the author wants to hatefuck an assertive woman and that's it. That's not femdom, she's just giving him a handjob and """forcing""" him to stick his dick in her.
"Oh noooo I'm going crazy, I can't cum anymore, you're so cruel you fucking bitch, you'll pay for this!" Wow, so submissive. "You're so boring, hurry up and fill me up your dirty semen inside of me with your perverted cock again, tee-hee!" Wow, so humiliating!
Men are retarded.

No. 256021

>>255930
How is male ejaculation "squirting like a girl"? Bizarre.
Also can you imagine maledom that involves a man comparing a woman to a lowly man to degrade her?

No. 256147

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No. 256159

>>256147
Oh I saw this in the husbando thread. NICE.

No. 256161

>>256147
Is this watersports

No. 256164

>>252508
For someone's whose not in university anymore, with next to zero social circle and who works from home what is the best way to find a guy with similar sexual inclinations?

No. 256186

>>256161
I think it's just a hose. Nobody pees that thick of a stream kek

No. 256187

>>256161
Does your pee look like that?

No. 256266

>>256164
I hate to recommend it but if you're not going to go out and meet people the old fashioned way then probably OLD. As has been stated many times before, you're better off seeing if you can introduce a normie guy to femdom than you are looking for someone already in the "bdsm community" because most men involved with it are sluts, predators and creeps.

No. 256342

>>256021
>"what huge man-hands you have"

No. 256756

>>256266
I would never approach anyone from "the community" you're absolutely right about that. I dislike OLD as well though if nothing else works I'll use it as a last resort.

For an ultra low social skills person what is the old fashioned way to go about it? Just hang around in bars or cafes?

No. 256769

>>256756
There are normies on dating apps. Alternative locations for normie guy are bookstores, table top game stores, computer part stores, all these things anyone can order online, so if a guy goes to physical stores it’s likely they are not social retards and mentally open to social interactions with a cute girl. It will be hard at first to approach anyone anywhere regardless if you haven’t had a lot of experience flirting with a guy irl.

No. 256771

>>256769
Cold approach or whatever is creepy imo. And if you approach a dude first, chances are he will think he can do better and treat you like shit. Try to meet guys in your friendgroup or who are friends of your friends. You could also try some hobby stuff or other social gatherings you can find men of your age.

No. 256776

>>256771
Approaching a guy isn’t the same as approaching a girl. Men only mind it if you’re ugly. They feel harassed by women they can’t objectified. Any man has a chance of treating you like a shit though, regardless of who approaches first. A woman accepting his invitation is already a huge ego boost. That’s why it’s important to not start any sexual relationship with male you just met before figuring him out.

No. 256784

>>256771
As an experienced cold approacher of seven times, since I like leading in the relationship and sort of dig a role-reversal dynamic, they don't get creeped out. Maintaining the "upper hand" or whatever was never an issue either as long as they liked me. Women online always said that would happen but it never felt like that in a relationship. The main issue is a higher chance of incompatibility since he's a stranger, but that goes for anyone you date I assume.

Meeting at hobby focused events or places like you said may negate some of this.

No. 257054

>>256784
Have you ever been rejected? How does it feel?

No. 257128

How can I say things to my moid? I hate using shit like bitch and shit. I always tell him I'm going to break him like a toy and leave him hanging to dry. I also tend to bite down really hard anywhere. I hate "kink" and I cannot go beyond words and hurting him with my tooth and nails.

No. 258683

>>257128
"pathetic", "so needy"

No. 258691

>>256784
Being with a man who didn't approach you first you will always live with the fact that he never actually wanted you enough to make a move and you likely wouldn't be together otherwise. Whether that's due to self consciousness, lack of interest, self absorption, none of it is good. Exception being if you see each other regularly and he was interested but you were just quicker. I'm not telling you specifically to change since this is something you enjoy, but I hope other anons consider it before approaching a man first. I used to be the same way and thought it was no big deal but I found being the one to care more in the beginning also tended to mean I cared more throughout the whole relationship. I want to be desired and worshipped, not seen as a sweet bargain deal some guy won through pure luck with zero effort. Obviously this mostly pertains to if you want a relationship with a domme/sub element, if it's purely sexual then go for it. It's good you never experienced what >>256771 brought up but personally I've had men act outright suspicious for initiating and while they eventually feel excited when they realize you're serious, since they didn't need to put any thought behind approaching you they often are horribly unprepared for a relationship. This isn't to say you can't show interest and leave the door open for a guy, but I'd much rather he walk through it himself rather than needing to be dragged.

No. 258694

>>258691
I agree with you so fucking much! The main problem is that men and women react to being approached differently. If a woman isn't interested, she'll reject the guy immediately (or give a fake number if she feels threatened). If a guy isn't interested, what will he do? Chances are he'll keep the woman around and string her along because she'll be an easy source of attention, sex, and various other "benefits." Most men are opportunistic and take what they can get. I really wish it wasn't this way, but it's not lucrative for women to hit on men unless she already knows his character somewhat well.
Also on a related mote, I've seen a lot of gentle dommes be the main initiator for everything in their relationships: asking the guy out, saying I love you first, taking care of him in every way, proposing to him, basically being the driving force behind everything without having anything reciprocated. You gals need to CHILL until you thoroughly know the guy's character and intent and know he won't take advantage. I don't care how much you love him, you need to properly vet and not fall into the trap of being his mommy bangmaid. This seems to happen so much with dommes into gfd, so I thought I'd mention it.

No. 258697

>>258694
>gentle dommes be the main initiator for everything in their relationships
Glad someone gets it, this was me to a T and I really regret it. Hopefully some anons take the warning to heart. At first I thought it was sweet that a guy "let" himself be so dependent on me, but no, they were just taking advantage. Most of them didn't see it that way but were still more than happy to lay back and let me organize their messed up little lives. I get that as a more dominant woman it feels counterintuitive to let a man approach, we'd love to be able to pick a guy out of a line up and have him be so happy that he turns into a great partner, but that's just not how it works. My issue is that the men approaching me were not the ones I was attracted to, but then it turned out the ones I thought I wanted became less enticing once I started scratching the surface. If they're not approaching, it's for a reason. I say let them twiddle their thumbs, there are plenty of more eager men in the world.

No. 259018

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Cillian Murphy, don't know where it's from but I like it.

No. 259019

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No. 259021

>>259018
If anyone figures out the source please share!

No. 259079

>>257128
What are you trying to do? Humiliate him? Degrade him?

No. 259092

>>259021
Peaky Blinders season 3 episode 5, this specific moment is about 44 minutes into the episode but the scene starts a few minutes before that

No. 259284

>>259092
Bless you nona, thank you. This is the sort of domme POV with a sexy man that would actually be nice to see in porn if it wasn't inherently so exploitive and gross

No. 259333

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I was watching a movie called 68 Kill. It’s pretty scrotecore wacky crime comedy but I gotta say, the abundance of skinny waif Matthew Gray Gubler getting choked slapped beat up and whimpering every few minutes was enjoyable.

No. 259381

>>259018
>>259019
>>259333
i've been staring at this for far too long, my insides are burning. this is what i want in this life! a cute subby moid that enjoys beeing choked and moans for more

No. 259388

>>259333
It's so cute when a guy is getting choked and bullied but still looks so pleased about it. The sweet, yearning "please give me more" look without having to say anything. Love it

No. 259496

>>259333
GOD and it’s mgg??? heaven on earth

No. 259629

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hi

No. 259633

>>259629
Top tier content

No. 259634

>>259018
>>259092
>>259333
Whoa thanks for the recs nonas.
>>259629
Kek this pic again, I want to know the story behind it.

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No. 259661

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No. 259665

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Where would you draw the line between content suited for the femdom thread and the "cuties with an ouchie" thread?

No. 259666

>>259665
Prob use this one for discussions, if you just want to post whump art use the other one

No. 259805

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>>259629
long time no see

No. 260057

I want to peg a beta type guy and abuse his prostate

No. 260137

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No. 260568

basically guys into "femdom" femdom (think PVC, cbt, the meme worthy stuff) are c tier men who are obnoxious and petulant outside of sex, and are generally worse to women than they are to men, without the success/value to match. high school tier mentality.
if "soft femdom" is more your thing you will eventually notice that a lot of that overlaps with 'mommy' stuff. maybe far more tolerable people but possibly more deranged.
not a comment on kinks/fetishes/lifestyles but an observation about the men who are into those things.

No. 260573

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New doujin from the same artist that did
>>200900
>>200892
>>200548
https://nhentai.net/g/401308/

No. 260615

>>260137
I love shibari, nice find

No. 260620

>>260568
Men being annoying parasites is common in general and more so if they are outspoken about sexual fetishes. It really doesn't matter which one they prefer. Men wanting to believe they're a big bad dom kang, guys shrieking mommy over any woman with a hint of muscle, hooking up with randoms at orgies, psychos jerking off in the middle of public parks, foot fags. If you're in a social community dedicated to any of those things, solely looking to hook up with women based on those things and otherwise advertising your fetish to the world (like in a dating app profile), you are deranged. It goes for both sexes although obviously men are worse. The reason it's better to bring up femdom scenarios with 'normie' men is precisely because they are normal. Even the women here who say they must always have femdom sex or are okay with casual encounters surrounding their fetish even with gross men freely admit they are not mentally well.
>men… generally worse to women than they are to men
that's literally all men. I'm not defending outspoken sub guys I'm just saying they're no better or worse than a person forming their entire identity around any kink. Liking the same things does not guarantee compatibility on a personal basis.

No. 260762

what percentage of the male population do you think is submissive? Do you think there is any correlation with things like height, profession, education level and so on?

No. 260775

>>260762
Few males are submissive in general, but I'd say the smaller ones tend to have more submissives than taller males. But again both of those groups have few submissives altogether

No. 260782

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>>260762
pfft very little and i venture to say even less than 25%. as far as the women, they're definitely conditioned into accepting this or wanting this but the percentage of men is low. and just because they're "submissive" in the bedroom doesn't mean they're actually submissive, those type of men are even more rare like 6% i'd have to imagine

No. 260784

>>260762
Most men are amenable to being sexually submissive because it's still sex. Even those deep into toxic masculinity often like it although they'd rarely admit as much. In my experience I'd even say the more stereotypically masculine a man is (military, blue collar, outdoorsman) the more he gets into it, maybe because he's expected to be the stoic, forever in control type everywhere else. That's just sexually though like >>260782 said. Men who are "submissive" in terms of prioritizing their partner, letting her have the final say in most decisions and otherwise putting her wants/needs first are rare. Correlation is mostly going to be with respect to upbringing and if he seems to respect women as a whole.

No. 260788

>>260782
I don't know where you're pulling your stats but 1 in 4 guys enjoying submission isn't that low, especially when you compare it to the embarassingly small amount of dommes. This seems like it's referring to the bdsm 'community' though which is full of deranged people coping badly

No. 260792

>>260788
that's why i already said it's likely less than 25%. 25% for a bloated number is still low. that number is going to be puffed to hell because it's likely sourced from fetlife or something

No. 260812

>>260792
25% is still way higher than I thought it would be. I'm also shocked at the 4% figure for dominant women I thought it would be a lot lower.
I would've guessed around 10% for men and maybe 2% for women at most.

No. 260844

>>260782
tbh there are a lot more women who lean dominant than you’d expect but they’re mainly exposed to mdoms who are all degenerate as fuck and taint what it means to be a dom, so they don’t ascribe the term to themselves.

No. 260879

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>>260844
>>260782
Mfw memed into the maledom thing because pickme coomer. Didn’t actually enjoy the act of submitting itself, was just obsessed with being “good at sex” and “adventurous”. Never even considered femdom because all of its portrayal is gross latex strap on porn for scrotes. Stopped being a pickme, started seriously getting in touch with myself. Everything clicked when I finally realized why I like certain fictional men, and how I felt all my encounters with men irl were so underwhelming. Crazy how I lived so disconnected from my true desires for so long. I imagine a good chunk of women just never even considered stepping out of the submissive role because they have no clue what femdom could be like outside of porn.

No. 260901

>>260782
The "BDSM community" is crap, no wonder there are so few dommes in the poll, any sane and self-respecting woman stays way from it. If there was a poll of the general population where normies where asked if they like to be the active partner/in charge during sex the percentage would be higher. Despite patriarchal mdom memeing.

No. 260928

>>260901
I think it'd still be quite high. I can't meet many women irl without them expressing their interest to me in mdom shit. There's a lot of memeing going on irl. But yes there are more normies who are sub/Dom to a normal degree and not involved in the BDSM community so it'd be better just to ask the general population about their most common or desired dynamic

No. 260956

>>260901
I don't think it'd be over 10% even with a question like that.

No. 260992

>>260784
Agree with this 100%.
>Men who are "submissive" in terms of prioritizing their partner, letting her have the final say in most decisions and otherwise putting her wants/needs first are rare.
This is extremely rare, even rarer if he's submissive ONLY within a romantic context and not a people pleaser to everyone.
>>260844
Aren't there quite a lot of women who want to be pampered and pleased by their partner? I kinda wish that was considered dominant too. But I guess since there's no meme fetishes it's not ~real femdom~ I wonder if so many women didn't feel obligated to be a mommy bangmaid to their partners, if they would seek out acts of service from their partners instead.

No. 260996

>>260992
>I kinda wish that was considered dominant too. But I guess since there's no meme fetishes it's not ~real femdom~
We must turn the knight and butler malesub archetypes into popular memes.

No. 261007

>>260996
My favorite archetypes! I feel like there's still a lot of love for the sweet and loyal but would fuck someone up for you type but it's become far less prevalent than the abusive psycho 'badboy' ever since 50 Shades and the general pornified culture has taken over. Wish healthier values were still being promoted, but when you have entire governments paying to create shows that encourage man in charge/"traditional values" (female submission in all spheres)/marriage you're really fighting an uphill battle.

No. 261010

>>260992
>Aren't there quite a lot of women who want to be pampered and pleased by their partner? I kinda wish that was considered dominant too.
I think this is massively popular among women even if they don't consider it dominant, but it fits the mold. A lot of women end up loving being in control but are hesitant to try due to all the conditioning we've gone through. Imo this is what most women are looking for when they talk about gentle femdom. They want to love, spoil and encourage a partner but then have that affection returned a hundredfold. They'd love to be a queen in their partner's eyes, romanced and cherished, and the beautiful thing about women is that we don't let that go unrewarded (unlike scrotes). Instead the idea has been co-opted by men into said mommy bangmaid where they think we should be waiting on them hand and foot but it's dominant because a woman tells them to eat pussy occasionally.

No. 261020

>>260996
>>261007
I love these archetypes. Servile, devoted, obedient, and masculine. These should be the main malesub archetypes, not lazy manchild and sissy cuckold shit.
>>261010
Yeah, I think a lot of women would want to be in control if it meant their partner listened to them and served them in a loving way. How many women complain about their nigel not listening to them? Way too many. Women know what makes them happy and the effort they want from their moid but are groomed/browbeaten into being low maintenance and not wanting or demanding anything.

No. 261029

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>>261020
>I love these archetypes. Servile, devoted, obedient, and masculine. These should be the main malesub archetypes, not lazy manchild and sissy cuckold shit.
Amen sister.

No. 261136

>>261029
Do anons have any recommendations for media with this dynamic? I don't even care if it's an ancient sappy romance novel, I would just love anything with a very devoted man who never attempts to control or get aggressive with his love interest.

No. 261158

>>261136
I would love to know too!

No. 261160

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>>261136
>>261158
It's quirky and the guy is not as polished as this archetype would normally imply since he's a kid, but I think The End of the F*ing World works. It's a show about two teens who run away from home, with the girl being sarcastic and bossy. She is a good person but can have too much attitude as a defense mechanism, which is sometimes funny and sometimes self sabotaging. She is escaping a stepdad who sexually harasses her while her pickme mom stands idly by. The boy is a self-professed "psychopath" but in reality he's just a very withdrawn, shy kid who was deeply traumatized when his mom got sick and committed suicide. Presents a bit autistic maybe, but not in the obnoxious way. Despite him intially fantasizing about killing the girl, in reality he looks to her for guidance and quietly goes along with her ideas most of the time. He does grow more of a backbone over time, but the only frustration he expresses is when Alyssa does objectively stupid things that could put her in danger, and he makes some big sacrifices to protect her. She is also the one to initiate sexual scenarios and James is either stunned, receptive or respectful in instances she changes her mind. They're very cute and it was refreshing to see a softer but proactive male love interest.

No. 261167

>>261160
>Despite him intially fantasizing about killing the girl
Oh yeah, that's a great way to start off a romance.

No. 261169

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>>261136
This one is called "I'm a Slave in an Alternate World but My Master Does Not Desire Me"

Their backstory is whack as shit to me but i love they grow into loving each other. Personal favorite part of them since I too am inexperienced. Spoilered for spoiler

No. 261174

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>>260996
>>261007
>>261029
Your average Yuke-shota doujin

No. 261175

>>261174
You average what

No. 261179

>>261136
I never stop thinking of this one from the last thread.
https://archiveofourown.org/works/21292469?view_adult=true

No. 261184

>>261179
This is so amazing. Only complaint I have is that he came while she got nothing.

No. 261190

>>261174
I'm sorry wtf is happening with the cat here?? Idc about anything else going on

No. 261213

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I'm normally v submissive but the things I would do to young Kyle Maclaughlin, goodness me

No. 261214

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hngbhhggjgjf

No. 261215

He will have to earn me spelling his name right lmao

No. 261216

>>261215
Will he also have to earn you posting quality pictures?

No. 261224

>>261213
I am begging you to go back

No. 261307

>>260573
CHINESE FAGS TRANSLATE THIS RIGHT NOW

No. 261324

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i want to top him so badly

No. 261329

>>261324
same nonna he’s the perfect sub

No. 261332

>>261329
omg nonnie i'd never seen the shock collar vid before… i want to put my fingers in his mouth

No. 261374

>>261329
>>261324
I can see that! He has the mild mannered bara older man vibes.

No. 261385

>>261329
He is definitely a masochist.
He got so excited every time Lady D attacks in RE8.

No. 261429

>>260956
>sees significant percentage of male subs
>i-its bloated!! there are far fewer of them!! trust me bro
>sees small percentage of dommes
>definitely legit. n-no, it's not like bdsm community repels dominant leaning women and female subs don't come by themselves but are dragged into this mess by their bfs.
>someone points out that the results may have been different if the general population's tendencies were examined instead
>n-no, the number of dommes would be just as low! w-why? trust me bro
You are simply biased, period.

No. 261561

>>261307
>>260573
If anyone knows anything about typesetting scans, drop your discord or a throwaway and I’ll translate this.

>>260996
I feel like butlers have been really popular among female weebs since like the mid 2000s. Moids by and large just don’t bother pandering to women, I guess. Even the “straight” ones would rather make stupid maid/trap/catboy memes. Sad!

No. 261565

>>261429
Kek thank you, this sounded suspiciously like a male in denial but I didn't want to derail with accusations. You addressed the questionable comments perfectly though.

No. 261566

>>261561
I feel like chivalrous male service like that is most common among normie men who don't consider it a kink, just probably some kind of old-fashioned gentleman behaviour. It's not common in our age of fuckboys but men who like that do exist.

Same with men who are pleasers and naturally submissive. It's not seen as kink so you don't hear about them. Most don't consume femdom porn because it's disgusting crap that doesn't appeal to them either. But they do exist and they are the type that dom women should go for. Basically just ignore all coomers and self-identified malesubs and find a sweet normie guy who doesn't want to dominate you. Man like that will most likely be at least open to being sub or even prefer it.

No. 261572

>>261167
I know, and believe me I was concerned about the same thing starting off, but it's really such a small and quickly discarded part of the story that was only added to make it more edgy and unexpected. I was surprised by how passive and sweet he actually ended up.

No. 261575

>>261566
This is the way. Healthy dominant women and submissive men don't feel the need to fetishize themselves or seek out freaks looking to exploit others. We call it femdom here on lc because we understand what that means from a truly female viewpoint, but 99% of people in bdsm communities only look at it from the male perspective because men are the ones controlling them.

No. 261698

>>261561
>>261566
>chivalrous male service
I've noticed a lot of submissive-identified guys use the submissive label as a way to escape any sort of accountability and responsibility they could possibly have as a man. If you look at the most widespread fetishes with sub men: crossdressing, chastity, humiliation, JOI, SPH, sissy, pegging, cuckolding… None of these involve looking good for or directly serving the woman in any way, but they do involve throwing away any masculine appeal that the woman might have found attractive. For example, no sane, confident women wants a pathetic failure of a man who wants "alpha males" to please her instead of him stepping up and pleasing her himself. Most of these fetishes are sub men coping for being so pathetic

That's why none of them want to roleplay as butlers or knights. They'd have to look presentable and orderly for their partner, they'd have actual responsibilities, they've have to serve her in a meaningful way, not half-assingly doing chores while wearing an ugly $5 maid outfit.

No. 261701

>>261561
>>261566
>>261698
>I feel like chivalrous male service
And here lies the problem, it's a service.
You either have to offer something in return or pay for it.
> If you look at the most widespread fetishes with sub men: crossdressing, chastity, humiliation, JOI, SPH, sissy, pegging, cuckolding… None of these involve looking good for or directly serving the woman in any way
Because it a cheap way to get themself off, that's why these are coomers fetishes to begin with. They're like fat people addicted to junk food, they would do anything (expect real work or time investment) to get their next bite.
>That's why none of them want to roleplay as butlers or knights.
You need discipline and restriction for both of these, and coomers have neither.

No. 261704

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>>261698
I mean the idea of a Knight taking a vow of chastity for me does seem cute in a way. I think for a lot of these things it's a mix of lazy submissives that I wouldn't really call submissives and very rare ones that are proactive and self improving.

Personally I'd love it if the idea of them being submissive was played around with, where's the flirty sub that want's to make me blush or grab him by the neck to kiss him, where's the sub that want's me to come home and not have to lift a finger and just relax and unwind after a stressful day of work.

Most so called ones fall into the trap thinking submissives are just passive , when they should be proactive and engaging, be like those male birds in nature shows build me a nice home, give me shiny things, wear nice stylish clothes and dance. kek

Like the idea of a sub being strong or brave or daring never struck their minds.

No. 261706

>>261704
Some birds out there are really superior to human men, kek

No. 261709

>>261704
Another enjoyer of femdom also seeing the connection with birds of paradise makes me feel so seen (and less insane).

>>261167
>>261572
Wanted to chime in and second this, James realizing his "fantasy" is just a retarded cope happens like 3 episodes into the series. Pretty dark and quirky show, but I agree with >>261160 saying he has an appealing level of servility and devotion to Alyssa if you're looking for knight/queen vibes.

No. 261761

>>261704
What a cutie! I wish there was a way to transform birds of paradise into human males. Beautiful, eager to serve, great dance moves.
>Most so called ones fall into the trap thinking submissives are just passive , when they should be proactive and engaging
Preach. I like "passive" as in respects and adheres to my decisions, not avoids contributing anything of value and hopes I'll mommy-manage the household and our sex lives.

No. 261782

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I've thought about it and I don't think I can do it, I don't think I can be dominant. I'm expected to because of the butch thing and sometimes the fantasy seems nice, but let's be real, I've changed. It's like I've actually become more in touch with my feelings and I've become more aware of lesbophobia, which has resulted in me preferring being bossed around, because then I know for sure there's consent and she's actually into me. Also I feel like I turn into a bumbling idiot nowadays, an intense sensation takes over, like tingling all over and my heart flutters like crazy, even from something as simple as smelling perfume of a woman I find very attractive. It's really extreme and my head just goes empty and it didn't use to be this bad. So I do have a problem with being sexually dominant. The internalized lesbophobia and butchphobia stops me and the turning into a head empty bumbling horny idiot. Is there a word for a female butch himbo which isn't bimbo, because I hate that word and would bring up the wrong connotations? That's me. I want to serve and worship a woman (and every inch of her body), have her order me around, be ordered to eat her out whenever she wants or making me beg to eat her out. Woo her, admire her. Make her feel like she is the most sublime creature on earth. I want to cook for her, protect her and make her feel safe, but really she's the one in charge. I'll play music for her, maybe piano or bass, idk. I want to paint her and draw pictures of her as a queen. I would give her piggyback rides and carry her bridal style whenever she wants me to. I want her to tell me what to wear partially because I'm kinda clueless tbh, I'll overdress and wear a suit to brunch if she wants me to or humiliate myself by wearing just a pink apron and nothing else while baking pancakes for her. I'll fuck her however she wants me to, strap, fingers, tongue, but maybe she sometimes wants to use the strap on me instead and for that one she really has to convince me, but I just can't say no to her. I honestly think I would even enjoy it if she would spit in my mouth, I don't know, put her fingers in my mouth. Maybe she'll force me to go to a hand spa to make sure my hands stay soft for her, despite all the lifting and doing chores for her and people will be like what is this masculine woman even doing here? I'll beat up any scrote who dares to harm her. I don't want to step on any woman, I can't do it. I feel like this is too degenerate for the female fantasies thread so I'm posting it here and sorry if this sounds scroteish and I'm making anyone uncomfortable. Picrel my favourite tv series queen.

No. 261808

>>261782
Nonny don't be ashamed, you sound like the perfect sub and there's nothing degrading about your description of this dynamic at all. As you can tell from recent conversation, what you've described is exactly what most of us want but is exceptionally hard to find (especially among men). Anons talk about guys because most of us are straight but lesbians are welcome to share femdom fantasies too, from either the domme or sub perspective. It's specifically in the op that the thread is also for
>female subs interested in women
I personally loved hearing your fantasy, it makes me so happy to hear about anyone who wants to spoil their partner and dedicate themselves to her so fully. I hope you will find your queen someday and get to enjoy everything you've described.

No. 261811

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>>261782
Your post also made me think of this cute knight x royalty art that I've always loved so I hope you enjoy it too. The artist is Rachel Eaton.

No. 261813

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>>261811
And this by Sara Kipin

No. 261815

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>>261811
This one is more warrior x warrior but Ami Thompson has a whole series where it implies the Red Knight is cursed and possessed by an evil being while the White Knight(? she is presented more like a warrior queen in the visual storytelling) fights her so she can be freed of the monster until they both join forces to take it down and have their happy ending. Check it out: https://www.artstation.com/amithompson_h

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>>261808
It's difficult not to feel ashamed though, the shame is very layered kek.
>but is exceptionally hard to find (especially among men)
Ironically enough what I described is considered in some circles to be manlike and heteropatriarchal, I never got that logic, but it went on the big pile of worries. Men acting like that is more something you see in movies or read about than irl. I'm aware the thread is open to lesbians, but I'm still worried about making anyone uncomfortable with my uh essay. Maybe someday I'll find her, it's just a bit discouraging that the butch thing is such a minefield in the current climate many are afraid we'll transition or are secret terfs, though the latter is a positive. The women who are still interested tend to share memes related to "step on me" stuff I don't have a problem with other women not liking what I like, it's completely fair, but I still feel disappointed due to the tiny dating pool and that's on me and I just can't fit into that role. Add other insecurities to that and I'm almost too paralyzed to actively look. I hope you can find whoever you're looking for too! Or enjoy the person you already have!
>>261811
>>261813
>>261815
Thank you for sharing! Warrior queens are great too I have a thing for Lagertha in Vikings. Not art, but I found a random out of context pic of Anne Hathaway and Audra McDonald while looking for stuff on Pinterest.

No. 261859

>>261160
Watch Wayne! They have similar dynamics, except the boy isn’t a murder freak. Wayne follows his girlfriend Del around like a protective stray dog who has found its person, and you get to see him get beat up often.

No. 261863

>>261698
>crossdressing, chastity, humiliation, JOI, SPH, sissy, pegging, cuckolding
most of these could be better described as subsets of humiliation fetishes. like with crossdressing, men fetishize it because they see femininity and things related to women/being a woman degrading because they are misogynists.
>Most of these fetishes are sub men coping for being so pathetic
correct.

No. 261880

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>>261811
The original. La belle dame sans merci

No. 261884

>>261859
I think I've seen screenshots of this before and thought it looked intriguing but I thought the injuries were just due to general male hijinks, I didn't know he's subby too. Very nice

No. 262063

>>261782
>Is there a word for a female butch himbo which isn't bimbo, because I hate that word and would bring up the wrong connotations?
If someone has an actual answer for this, please share. I've been reading Jane Fletcher's Caelano series and the protagonist of Rangers of Roadsend is exactly this and I lover her for it. I literally only write about these books to myself in my diary because I'm paranoid that the premise (fantasy book where men don't exist) would make me seem terf-y to the friends I normally sperg about media to. So it's not super important I find a word to describe it, but it would be nice if there was one

No. 262065

>>262063
>fantasy book where men don't exist
AYRT, sounds interesting, would you recommend it to actual terfs? If you want you could of course talk more often about it in a thread somewhere here!
>If someone has an actual answer for this, please share.
I've looked around a bit more and I've seen "bhimbo", which still means butch himbo and should be something I could've thought of myself. I'll let you know when I find something better.

No. 262118

>>261782
>Is there a word for a female butch himbo
Yeah, it’s “my girlfriend”. Hey what’s up.

No. 262119

>>261782
You sound wonderful.
Maybe "herbo" instead of "himbo"?

No. 262232

>>262118
Kek I'm not sure how to respond. Uh I hope you're having a nice weekend, I'm doing alright, hbu?
>>262119
Thank you! That could also make sense.

No. 262265

>>261701
>And here lies the problem, it's a service.
I feel like this is the real problem a lot of the nonna would-be dommes here have. A (mentally sound) guy who is going to go into a relationship expecting nothing and offering up everything does not exist and that makes perfect sense. All relationships are somewhat transactional at the end of the day.

Scrotes who get off on being ashtrays and wearing chastity cages or whatever are mentally deranged and horrible partners, as pretty much every domme has pointed out.

Unpopular opinion (fact), but if you want a knight bf, you have to make him feel happy too.

No. 262311

>>262265
>Unpopular opinion (fact), but if you want a knight bf, you have to make him feel happy too.
I don't think this is that unpopular. There are some supposed dommes here who go on about how they never lift a finger for a man and if you derive any pleasure from seeing or touching or doing things for a man then you're just a delusional groomed idiot but I'm pretty sure it's actually only like one psychotic anon. Most of the women here would very much like a happy normal relationship with give and take, just with some kinky stuff thrown in and a man who who gives more for a change.

No. 262382

>>262265
>>262311
This brings up the question: are there any other dommes here who specifically like femdom or D/s specifically because the relationship outside of the bedroom would be skewed in their favor? I never liked the idea of it just being in the bedroom, and us having a normal give-and-take relationship outside. I felt that would invalidate the whole part of him submitting to me, as I don't want it to be a "roleplay" kink thing, but something genuinely because he feels a strong love for me and wants to show that through submitting to me.

I notice that a lot of women are squicked out by having their partner serve them in non-sexual ways. But this is my relationship with my fiance. We have an active sex life, but 90% of the D/s component of our relationship consists of non-sexual service. He derives so much happiness from making me happy, and making my life easier, pleasant, and more convenient. Funnily enough, in the beginning I told him I was scared of being too selfish and demanding. He's encouraged me so much to open up and ask for whatever I've wanted, no matter how trivial or major, as long as it made me happier or reduced the mental load on me.

I've never reciprocated, outside of doing natural things you do for your partner like giving him my time, undivided attention, emotional support, etc… And rather, he loves it when I ask things of him, because he wants to be useful to me. He made me realize I couldn't be happy in a relationship without someone devoting themselves to me like he has. If it was just a sexual thing I would hate it so much.

No. 262386

>>261782
Oh nonna this is so sweet, but there's only a small chance you won't end up with a mentally ill gf who will leave you feeling used to the core.

No. 262389

>>262386
I don't mind being used, I don't really expect much if any reciprocation, I'm easy, I can orgasm from just going down on her or getting a couple neck kisses. I would be happy enough to be wanted and needed. Severe mental illness would be a problem and I would want to be sure she's actually into women.

No. 262464

>>262265
Just bc some anons are into certain plays during sexy time, doesn’t mean they would be selfish in actual relationship. Good lordship is knowing how to keep her subjects loyal and content.

No. 262469

>>262382
>>262382
I'm sure plenty would like it. Hell, I'd like it. Everyone likes getting stuff and not having to do anything for it. I'm just saying it's rare and genuinely unstable.

There's a reason boomer scrotes talk about how much their wife resents them when they get old - they expected her to be a bangmaid and did not reciprocate with anything to make her happy.

I hate to break it to you, but based on past experience, I don't think this relationship can last.

No. 262479

>>262469
There are some people who express their love through caring for, serving their partner, and putting them first. They gain satisfaction and fulfillment in doing so. In this case, they aren't looking at the relationship as quid pro quo, but they still need to be loved, wanted, acknowledged, and emotionally supported by their partner. In a way, does that not count as reciprocation?
>There's a reason boomer scrotes talk about how much their wife resents them when they get old - they expected her to be a bangmaid and did not reciprocate with anything to make her happy.
Those women didn't sign up to be bangmaids. They felt forced into it because of gender roles, societal expectations, etc. Not to mention those scrotes genuinely don't love, care about, or appreciate their wives, so of course there is going to be resentment.

No. 262549

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>>262479
>There are some people who express their love through caring for, serving their partner, and putting them first. They gain satisfaction and fulfillment in doing so.
NTA, but isn't acts of service also literally a love language? So it would make sense.
>In this case, they aren't looking at the relationship as quid pro quo, but they still need to be loved, wanted, acknowledged, and emotionally supported by their partner.
I'm not sure if this is already a part of love language theory, but I've noticed that what you enjoy to give is not always what you also enjoy to receive. Or maybe that is exactly the crux of what d/s relationships should be about and people in regular relationships want to receive what they give. Personally I like to provide acts of service, giving gifts, words of affirmation etc., but I generally don't like receiving them. I prefer receiving quality time and physical touch (not sexual) picrel. So I would feel reciprocated just by someone spending time with me, holding my hand or arm in public, they wouldn't have to do acts of service for me too, because I don't care about receiving those.

No. 262702

>>262382
>He derives so much happiness from making me happy, and making my life easier, pleasant, and more convenient.
That's what I want in a partner. Bluntly, a large part of the reasoning is because I've always been the one who gave too much in past relationships. That's common for many women since we tend to be more relationship-minded instead of just wanting to be with someone for convenience and occasional sex. I took charge during sex, but I also planned cute dates, got my partner random gifts, remembered everything he said, prioritized things he wanted to do. I was basically the "knight" or the gentledom/mommymaid that's been brought up. He reciprocated but it was few and far between, and we had very different outlooks on important topics besides. I just can't be the one to love and give more if I'm in a relationship again. It's exhausting and frustrating. I'm not saying I want to contribute nothing, I wouldn't wish that on anyone having gone through it myself, I just want the scales tipped somewhat in my favor. Anything less isn't worth my time. If that means I stay single then I'm fine with that. Men already gain so much more by being in relationships than we do, it's only fair they put in more effort. (I'm not directing any of this at "you" in particular anon, it sounds like you are in fact a supportive partner.)

No. 262707

The concept is cute n stuff, but I just can't help but seeing it as a
"incel coomer licking stacies feet for her being a high status symbol and anticipated fuckbody, doing everything she says for being able to have a possibility of entering her hole (more - if already entered) "
Idk, gross

No. 262749

>>262707
Ok? maybe try to remember that women are people who exist outside the male gaze

No. 262764

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I enjoy the more intellectual discussions we've been having here. Cute sub pics are great too, but it's nice to hear other women's perspectives. I'm curious, would anons say their personality reflects their preferences in relationshipa and sexual situations? Are you the typical "type" people imagine, cool and stoic, in your everyday life? Or do you come across differently than your preferences would imply? I'm a friendly and laid back person. Some people have assumed I was cold because I'm not super outgoing in general, but that changes once we start talking. I guess I don't fit the standard mold because of that, but it does differ in certain contexts. I'm outspoken and don't hesitate to stand up for people if someone is being a nuisance to friends. I am more forward with those I actually do like, but only once I have a good idea of the type of person they are. Pushy, aggressive or arrogant men receive zero attention.

No. 262785

>>262749
I am talking about those who have relationships with men
Men are percieving women with a male gaze
Hello, good morning

No. 262793

>>262764
i don’t think anyone would expect me to be a domme lol. i’m very much the quintessential older sister, so an introverted, perfectionist people pleaser w poor self-image. but i’m pretty sure the disparity between the image i present and my sexual being is a huge factor in why i dom: i do it as an escape from outsider expectations and reality and to embrace the aggression i can’t relay irl

No. 262794

>>262549
Excellent response, anon! Just because someone gives something doesn't mean they necessarily want to receive that thing back. I've also looked at D/s in terms of love languages rather than just kink. Acts of service are a must for me, to an extent that wouldn't really be a fair expectation in a regular relationship.
>>262702
>Men already gain so much more by being in relationships than we do,
This is a big thing. They are already so blessed by having a woman who loves them, supports them, and listens to them, but they will fuck it up by being retarded manbabies. You gave out of the goodness of your heart but they didn't deserve that. Good on you for realizing you deserve better.
>>262707
You sound pornsick, seek help.

No. 262815

>>262785
That doesn’t make any sense. Why would you, presumably a woman, view other women’s desires with a male lense then? Weird that your first instinct is to assume the incel-stacy dynamic wherein the man is solely the beneficiary of such relationship, in other words, the antithesis of femdom, especially under the female gaze. No one itt wants the pornified fantasies that men sell to other men.

No. 262902

Who gives a fuck about moids and their opinions just post cute/hot femdom pics ffs

No. 262914

>>260844
>>260879
same. When I was younger I thought I was more on the subby side because i was brainwashed but i came to realize over the years that in every single sexual encounter i had that i really enjoyed, i was doing at least something dominant. I started having sex at 18, only fully realized im into femdom around 23 and I'm now 26 and still sure in that.

>>262902
lucky you i guess…

No. 262955

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>>262793
>escape from outsider expectations and reality
I know what you mean, so much of society expects us to be docile, calm and patient all the time. Power really can be an aphrodisiac. It feels euphoric having someone obey your every whim and do everything in their power to please you. I think where men get it wrong is so many only see the power itself as enticing, and forget that a real person is on the other side

No. 262959

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Tending to wounds she didn't cause or preparing for round two?

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No. 262992

>>262966
what a bad bitch

No. 263001

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I'm assuming it's been discussed when GoT was relevant but God bless that series for the Jaime/Cirsei and Jorah/Dany Jon/Dany dynamic and like every other male from sandor, jojen, tommen, Rob, Sam, fucking theon, sort-of Stannis, drogo, tyrion, and tormund were all subby/servants and devoted or lost their lives for a woman, even if many of them started out insufferable and only gained humility and humanity down the line.

I watched Reign recently and the queen isstressing out about having to marry the king of spain for an alliance. Hes a grest guy and the big deal breaker conflict of this couple of episodes is that he wants her to choke and whip him in return for his eternal service and access to his empire's fortunes, and she's too disgusted to go through with it. I mean God damn come on wtf

Peter Murphy pic because idk he's hot

No. 263009

>>263001
>big deal breaker conflict of this couple of episodes is that he wants her to choke and whip him in return for his eternal service and access to his empire's fortunes
Seriously?? I always avoided this show because it looked like some stupid teen drama with no care for historical accuracy, but if it’s a stupid teen drama with no historical accuracy about a subby king then maybe I’ll reconsider kek. Too bad the woman isn’t properly intrigued by the scenario.

GoT was so horribly misogynistic I couldn’t get into any of the pairings and just stopped watching early on. Even the ones that could’ve been good like Jorah x Dany ended up weird and predatory, and Drogo just straight up rapes her so that invalidates the whole thing for me (yes I know it was a bit better in the books). Weirdly enough Sandor x Sansa had a pretty nice dynamic but it was still messed up for many reasons. It’s just frustrating that they all have to be in a very misogynistic setting and have the dynamics polluted by that.

No. 263048

>>263001
Hate everything GoT related. Every remotely dominant woman got the fetish treatment, Ygritte, Margaery, Cersei, Dany, Brienne of Tarth etc. The only part that felt remotely appealing was Jorah’s devotion to Dany.

No. 263129

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No. 263132

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Something fun

No. 263152

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I don't think the Webtoon Seducing The Warrior Princess Sigrid has been rec'd yet. It's about the buff viking daughter of a local chief and a pretty boy skald (bard/poet) who falls for her. He's very puppyish, and there's another more traditionally masculine viking guy who has a crush on her but still gets shy. It's primarily comedy but there is an underlying plot that's building. Only downside is it seems to have been on hiatus since January.

No. 263165

>>263048
>The only part that felt remotely appealing was Jorah’s devotion to Dany.
That was nasty, he was a million years old + ugly and it shouldn't have even been entertained as a possibility. At first I hoped he simply had paternal feelings for her but no, of course he has to be in love with her.

No. 263172

>>263009
oh no no no, the plot doesn't go any further than that, they kill the subby maso-king the episode after he's introduced and move on quickly. the whole dynamic is presented as sort of unthinkably repulsive and the queen blindfolds him and gets an older woman to hit him for her, since she can't even stand to entertain such degeneracy, and I think when he realizes her voice isn't coming from the direction of the person hitting him he flips out and falls over, hits his head or something, dies, covered up, and is never mentioned again. it was awful and felt bad to watch.

>>263048
fair enough - I really had to headcanon out some ages, admittedly, but there weren't any weird dominatrix types, just strong women that tended to pull the strings while strong men died for them

No. 263189

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I know this is supposed to be joking about the trope by showing how 'silly' it is for a man but a half-naked chef versed in healthy communication and emotional validation would be on my radar for sure

No. 263288

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Having a man sit on your lap is very underrated

No. 263289

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Léandre et Héro (sad myth, pretty statue)

No. 263335

>>263289
Oh yeah baby I love sexy statues.

No. 263385

>>263289
Yesss I love the fine art femdom nonnies. My people

No. 264766

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No. 264802

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No. 264828

haven't posted since the second thread, I fell off with the femdom stuff but lately I've been talking with this guy that I met during something professional and we ended up talking more and more and today he sent me a meme with this image >>263288 can't post it
because I'm worried that there might be a chance that he lurks here since lolcow got so big this year.
I know it's rare but femdom became a bit of a meme and I wanted to report my encounter here.

No. 264831

>>264828
Nice. Manifesting that he sits on you and you get to feel the booty

No. 264888

>>264828
What was the context of the meme being sent ?

No. 264891

>>264888
we were talking about things people wear in gyms and I joked about guys wearing small shorts to show off their butts and he started talking about how he has a nice butt that is under appreciated because not many women like butts, didn't tell him I was into femdom, he just went
>this reminds me of a pic a have
and sent that meme, I laughed it off and he joked about me being his domme, I didn't mention anything femdom related or interest in a relationship I wonder if he sniffed it off me or if I just walked into a sub in the wild.
I'm almost sure he is a sub because he joked about liking feet before.

No. 264969

>>264891
>I joked about guys wearing small shorts to show off their butts and he started talking about how he has a nice butt that is under appreciated because not many women like butts,
Nice. That's exactly the type of flirting I like from men, when they sexualize themselves for you instead of the other way around. He seems pretty sexually forward though, how long have you known each other?

No. 265003

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No. 265004

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No. 265006

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No. 265008

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No. 265009

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No. 265027

>>265009
Nice pics nona, but that's one giant pussy.

No. 265114

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i want a boyfriend to put on a leash

No. 265170

>>265114
Imagine cute tall fit bf wearing a hoodie to hide his collar. And the hoodie is just tight enough to ever slightly show the outline of ropes coiling around his skin.

No. 265171

File: 1653034510940.jpg (1.53 MB, 1464x1008, 77762401_p0.jpg)

Blackmailing fantasy? Filming a smug tsundere or serious megane in the most unbecoming positions? I own you now~~~

No. 265173

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No. 265189

>>265170
I'm picturing the lead from the collar going down his sleeve and out towards his hand, so anyone looking at you both just see's a cute couple holding hands.

It's like those facemask and ballgag pic memes, hidden bondage.

No. 265195

>>264969
OHHH the dream. This. THIS SO HARD. I need a dude acting cute around me, I'm tired of the one doing the giggling. I need a man who kicks his fit and giggles when i tell a shitty joke.

>>264891
he might be hitting on you? idk. either way sounds like a nice young man

No. 265215

Ladies I've met the sub of my dreams. I just have one small issue, I'm too embarrassed to ask my bf to call me Master. He asked what I wanted him to call me and I guess I got flustered because personally I would hate calling him master (we're both switches), it just feels cringy. I think it'd be hot if a guy did it, though. He's been calling me "ma'am" which is fine but I'm very meh about it. I think I just need to nut up and ask, I really doubt he wouldn't be into it…

He likes me telling him what to do, he wants me to use him for my pleasure, he always makes me come with oral/fingering at least once before we have sex. If he doesn't get to come or we don't get to have sex it's not a problem and he's completely fine with it, he's happy to just get me off. He loves giving me oral and really likes it when I can't take it anymore and grab his hair and start using his face like it's a toy until his tongue is sore. He also likes it when I sit on his face and told me one time to not hold back, I loved the idea but was worried about hurting him somehow, he assured me though and I went all out. He ended up coughing/choking a bit, I stopped and asked if he was okay. He enthusiastically said yes and told me to keep going. One time when I was on top I held his wrists down and went hard, it was really hot, it felt like I was fucking him (I'd love to do the Amazon position for this reason, but I'd need to work on my leg strength and he might not be flexible enough anyways). One time I put him in a blindfold and a collar/leash and made him lay down, and forbid him from touching me or moving at all. When he tried I firmly held his wrists at his side and he gasped and smiled. I spent a good long while teasing him, especially with neck kisses, he's so sensitive there. I touched and kissed everywhere but his dick until he was dripping and begging me to touch it. Even then I didn't insert it, just slowly licked it and rubbed it against me. He begged me to put it in and I acted like I was going to but stopped, the way he whined and said "please" did something to me, anons. When I finally did I pulled the leash to hold him there and went rough. His dick gets very sensitive after he comes, but I kept riding him even after he finished and he just took it (it's something he had asked me to do before). This one is a bit more degenerate but I've sent him nudes while he's talking to his friends and had fun watching him try and keep his composure, then instructed him to touch himself very slowly and show me a video of him doing it. Obviously he didn't come from that, and when we sexted later he was so hard. Sometimes when we're apart I tell him that he's not allowed to touch himself, sometimes I go for a few days. I'd like to go longer but I get too turned on and then we'll sext. He has to ask for my permission to come though. I know that he listens and abstains because he tells me when he doesn't, and then I have to think of a way to punish him. I call him a good boy/bad boy depending on the scenario.

Before him I thought I was purely a sub and that femdom was just a fantasy I'd never actually participate in. I've never had so much fun. Teasing guys is the best.

No. 265232

>>265195
>I need a dude acting cute around me
>I need a man who kicks his fit and giggles when i tell a shitty joke.
Oh, my boyfriend is exactly like this. When I first met him, he gave off an intellectual, mature vibe (almost composed to the point I thought I might not like him), but as we started to fall for each other he began showing an enthusiastic, playful, adorable, and cute side of his personality. He giggles every time I tell an absolutely retarded joke or flirt with him. And he is always beaming like he is blessed just being in my presence. I know this makes me sound like a narcissist, but he genuinely makes me feel like he worships me as a person (not just as a sex object) and hangs on to my every word with such attentiveness in ordinary situations. Of course this has nothing directly to do with submission or dominance, and it sounds like such a big leap from what we were talking about, but… It's such a good sign if a sub is this eager and cutesy in every day situations where you're not doing anything kinky.

And just let me tell you, I absolutely LOVE subs who are enthusiastic and desperate to please you once they get to know you. A lot of subs are very half-hearted in their submission and please you so they can get theirs. It's always so obvious. But when you have a sub who genuinely actually wants to devote themselves to you it is such a huuuuuge difference. I'm ranting, I just love love love cute and enthusiastic subs as opposed to pushy and self-serving ones.

No. 265245

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>>265171
Based, based, and based

No. 265246

>>265215
god i wish that were me. fuck

No. 265385

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>>265232
Oh nonny how i wish for this to happen to me one day

No. 265466

ladies I need some choking play femdom art… preferably suggestive rather than outright pornographic

No. 265468

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>>265215
Whew, sounds like you're living the dream nona.
Just a note on this
>he always makes me come with oral/fingering at least once before we have sex. If he doesn't get to come or we don't get to have sex it's not a problem and he's completely fine with it, he's happy to just get me off.
I think it's weird that women don't consider it sex when only they come. You bet a man would still consider it sex if only he came.

No. 265480

>>265468
I guess I'm thinking of it in the potentially outdated "no PIV = not sex" way. I wouldn't think of giving him oral as "real sex" either (even though I know it's "oral sex")

very nice picture btw, I'm sending it to him

No. 265555

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No. 265556

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No. 265560

>>265466
Yes please! I have no such art sadly.

No. 265575

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No. 265576

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No. 265584

>>265576
Why does his dick look swollen and broken?

No. 265589

>>264891
update: I dropped him because I found out he had a sex with a male and is bisexual with preference to males and is a massive slut.
the femdom community is filled with coomers that coom too much they got into being submissive, it's why I lost interest in it, shame on him for sparking it again.
>>264969
he is very sexually forward, I've known him for a while but we started talking often about two months only most of which we interacted through text because I never viewed it as something other than being previous colleague.

No. 265590

>>265589
>the femdom community is filled with coomers that coom too much they got into being submissive, it's why I lost interest in it
You are so right. I don't know if you're into this in particular, but I'm only attracted to men who express their submission specifically with a romantic intent towards the woman they are in a relationship with. Yeah, it can be sexual for them too (I express my dominance both romantically and sexually), but if the only intent is sexual I get so turned off. You just know they are whoring around or if they aren't, they would when given the chance to. To me submission and romantic devotion are interlinked. I hate manwhores.

No. 265593

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i recently matched with a man on tinder and he seems too good to be true. maybe some people will think this is cringe and maybe it is but i literally put picrel on my profile. i’ve had guys who claim to be submissive message me but one ghosted me when i proposed we go on a date and another one started our conversation off with “hi mommy”. soooo not quite what i’m looking for. then i get a message from one of my matches that says “do you really believe in female supremacy?” i didn’t respond right away because i kinda thought he was going to berate me for being a hairy man bashing blue haired feminazi or something. i don’t really have a physical type i tend to go for, but this guy is way more frat boy like than men i’ve dated or fucked in the past. he sort of looks like adam devine, but i can’t remember if i swiped right on him bc he’s kinda cute or because he said he makes edibles.

regardless, what this guy said next made me stop texting my other matches. i didn’t respond for an hour or something and he sends another text that says “because i do.” i immediately became super interested because he looks like a normal guy, says he has a good job on his profile (i’m aware he could be lying), and actually wants to submit to me. not like the last guy i dated for a month a while ago who ended up wanting a mommy domme who will make him cum. but with this guy the conversation quickly turned into sexting which probably isn’t a good start but i plan on finding a way to change the subject when i respond today to his text from last night. this guy is telling me about how much he wants to serve me in and outside of the bedroom, make my life easier by doing chores and errands and stuff for me, worship my body, give me head while i ignore his cock, he even wants me to put him in chastity.

i searched this thread and the previous one to see what other anons think about the kink and some were saying it’s a red flag, some were saying it only benefits the man (which i understand but still disagree with because it’s something i’m interested in), but some were into it like i am. he lives pretty close to me which is great. the last thing i texted him on tinder was something like “i think i’m going to have you take me on a date so we can get to know each other. give me your number so we can arrange something” and he gave it to me! was afraid he’d be like “oh shit no coom for me hahaha i’m out” but no, we’re still talking. so yeah, i’m going to have him call me tomorrow so i can hear his voice, do a partial vibe check, and get to know him beyond the submissive thing. i’m hoping to go on a date this week, i don’t really know what we’ll do yet (and ik that in FLRs it’s often the woman’s job to plan the dates, i’m also kind of insecure about being the dominant one due to the responsibility and confidence it requires but that’s another story) so i will have to ask him what he likes, see what we have in common, and do that.

but yeah, i’m really excited to meet this guy and i’ve already gotten my hopes up so don’t tell me not to lol because it’s a little too late for that. i guess i just want to see what other anons think about this guy, if anyones dated a man like this in the past and how that went if someone has.

No. 265595

>>265589
Rip. Truly can not give any man benefit of the doubt. In hindsight, that sort of sexual eagerness was a sign. Better luck next time nona.

No. 265598

>>265593
Sounds like he has potential, but bringing up kink before you do is a red flag… He doesn't even know you but wants to submit to you, doesn't bode well and makes him come off as the type of person who'd submit to any woman who was interested.
>and ik that in FLRs it’s often the woman’s job to plan the dates
This is NOT true. If you hate planning dates, you know what? You can delegate that to him. As the dominant, you make the final decision. He can do all the heavy-lifting, work, and preparation if that is what you desire. Do not confuse submission as passivity or dominance as strenuous work. In a real dynamic, it's up to the submissive to make your life easier. Think of it as giving him a trial task. Let him go off your profile, ask you questions, figure out what you like, and come up with a date custom-tailored to your desires.
>so i will have to ask him what he likes
Don't frame it in terms of what he likes. That is setting things off on the wrong foot. When you're ready, tell him you want to talk about kink, bring up the ideas you have in mind, what dynamic you'd like, and see how he reacts to them. Ask him if he specifically has any limits. Imo, you set up the sexual framework around your kinks and his limits, not his kinks. Otherwise he will just use you as kink dispenser #5085349. Yes, this may sound selfish, but real submissives benefit from pleasing you, doing what you want, and making you happy. Otherwise they wouldn't be submissive. Good luck.

No. 265601

>>265593
He’s definitely into the porno dommy mommy thing, just with proclivity to slave play, likely findom as well. I’m getting manwhore vibes, wouldn’t be surprised if he’s into sissy stuff. Buuut if you think you’ll get a kick out of him then I guess it’s up to you. Use him, make him pay tribute, withhold rewards as much as possible.

No. 265611

>>265598
idk i think the photo sort of implied i want something kinky. i looked back at our messages and i think i played a role in the conversation taking that turn so fast. i’ve been celibate for a while but i have some hyper sexual tendencies that have sabotaged potential relationships because i didn’t hold back (albeit, this was years ago and these were not men i would want a relationship with now). you’re right about the date thing, and thank you for that because that’s some advice i needed. i’m not sure where i heard that but it doesn’t make much sense to me because yeah i want to have most of the power in a relationship but there’s some things i would rather leave up to my partner to decide based on what i tell them. also i meant “ask him what he likes” as in, like, what he does in his free time to figure out where we could meet. i’ve never went on an actual date with someone i met online so i don’t totally know what to do or expect. in his profile he says he likes walking but i would rather die than walk around in this 90 degree weather and get all sweaty lol. idk maybe i’ll just go with something classic like brunch or coffee.

>>265601
omg dating a guy who seems great but i end up finding he’s into sissy shit is one of worst nightmares. and i know that the chastity kink could be because he wants to be feminized. some people will think this is extreme but if this guy is serious i plan on putting parental controls on his devices because again, if i found out this guy is into sissification i would probably return to celibacy. i truly do believe that in this day and age, where porn is SO accessible, you can’t really let a man run wild if you want a relationship with him. idk if i’m comfortable asking him for a tribute, but i will make him pay the bill when we go out for the first time. i was even thinking about having him take me shopping (i have a feeling that either he or his family is wealthy) but maybe that’s not ideal for a first date. if it doesn’t work out then at least i learned something about myself and/or men, and that’s been my perspective for a while.

No. 265619

For anons who have had both, do you treat male and female subs differently? As an example, are there certain rules you would have for a man that you wouldn't enforce with another woman?

No. 265735

>>265576
>>265575
i like it but his dick looks grotesque

No. 265780

>>265619
I've only had a male sub but in my fantasies I'm a lot softer with a girl sub. with guy I'll call him names and be a lot rougher, but I'd like to treat a girl very kindly, I'd still be the dom but I'd be making her tell me what she wants from me, bonus if she's embarrassed to say it and I can lovingly tease her for it.

No. 265781

>>265780
same anon as for rules, my male sub isn't allowed to get himself off unless he asks me if it's okay, I don't think I'd enforce a rule like that with a girl. I think I'd really like it if she randomly texted me while I'm at work or something to say she was touching herself

No. 265782

>>265576
>that mushroom dick
Ahahahaha
>>265575
>that scrote-pandering angle
Ugh why
Aside from that I really like the art. He's really hot.

No. 265785

>>265575
>>265576
These look like they're draw by someone who never saw a dick irl

No. 265805

>>265593
HE said he wants to serve you in and outside the bedroom. Scrotes who are into this stuff only for the sex don't spoil you money wise etc. Make him "prove" himself before you have sex with him. Make him pay your bills etc. My bf is now a sub and he does everything I ask him to. I'm kind of lucky because when I first met him he was the typical dominant male and kinda misogynistic. Usually guys who are outwardly "manly" are subs. I would avoid the incel/computer programmer types, they would have sex with anything and everyone and are probably into trancel shit. Make sure he is hot asf and respectful of you.

No. 265808

Some of my fav things to do to my bf:
-ride him while I choke him
-lick his nipples and kiss him while I stroke him (if he's been good)
-orgasm denial, choking and laugh at him (if he's been bad)
-make him suck my toes and feet
-sit on his face
-tell him degrading or nice things in a soft voice
- massage his butt and smack his ass
- Post sex, he lays on my chest under my arm

No. 265810

>>265619
While most the women I’ve been with had preferred to be more passive, I’ve only ever formally dommed one bisexual girl. I feel more generous and giving with women. I’m not turned on by physical sadism as much, but a lot more emotionally invested in the role playing and power dynamic. We did some classic kinky stuff but honestly it wasn’t as fulfilling as I had hoped. The girl wanted me to act more like a stereotypical tumblr maledom so we weren’t compatible in that aspect.

No. 265932

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>>265808
This is the good stuff, simple but so satisfying.

No. 266012

>>265593
oh wow nonnies i think this guy might be the one. i mean, i still don’t know yet for sure but we finally talked on the phone and it was pretty great. seems like this dude genuinely really wants to make my life easier. he agreed to take me shopping for our first date, that’ll happen in about a week. i’m calling him again today lol. i’m so happy right now ahhh.

No. 266028

File: 1653412317554.gif (Spoiler Image, 1.34 MB, 320x212, 01A90A3E-8596-492D-8DA4-29CABC…)

never finished you season 3 but goddamn i think about this scene all the time. had trouble finding the video to make these but someone recorded it and posted it on youtube so that’s why the quality isn’t great. sorry if this has been posted before 1/2

No. 266029

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2/2

No. 266030

>>266012
I’m excited for you anon. Hope he is every you look for! I trust you will keep your wits about you ofc and update us.

No. 266044

>>266030
thank you, anon!! i’ll definitely be posting some updates. however, we spoke on the phone recently and when i asked if he’s into sissy shit he said “not really.” so he’s kinda into it, unfortunately. i told him it’s a hard limit though. kinda upset about that but everything else about him is perfect i stg. is it possible for him to like…get over that kink? idk if it’s a major fetish of his but the idea of him thinking about being feminized by me makes me nauseous. i will be explaining my problems with sissification to him, i aim to train him to unlearn his misogynistic beliefs (he’s not that bad anyway). even if it’s probably futile, i’m still gonna give it my best shot. oh and he agreed to stop watching porn. still coming up with some rules to enforce. actually, if any anons have some good rules i could give him to follow please share them, i’d appreciate it a lot.

No. 266051

>>266044
along with no porn I also enforce a rule that my sub can't get himself off without my permission, and he has to show me a video when he does

No. 266054

>>266044
>still coming up with some rules to enforce. actually, if any anons have some good rules i could give him to follow please share them
I don't get this. You either want to give him rules or you don't. You can't "outsource" your dominance to other people. We don't know what your preferences are.

No. 266058

>>266051
oh yeah i’m definitely using that one. i think i may have said this already but he doesn’t really have much interest in PIV, neither do i though.

>>266054
okay what the hell? why are you so angry? i just posted in this thread yesterday for the first time and i’m enjoying talking to people on here, just trying to make some conversation. jesus…no hard feelings though.

No. 266059

>>266058
How did you get "angry" from that? I'm just saying you coming up with rules has meaning because they're supposed to serve you. If you can't think of anything that pleases you or makes your life easier, what's the point of having rules?

No. 266069

>>266059
i’m just kidding. i already said, i was just wondering which rules other dommes enforce. i’m not super experienced with dominating men irl but i’ve already given him some rules and i have no trouble creating with more. i’ve been correcting him every time he forgets to say “thank you” or “sorry” or whatever when he should, he has to ask me to touch himself if he wants to, etc. just wanted to chat on here a bit. sorry if i hurt your feelings, babe.

No. 266086

femdom is serious bizness

No. 266107

File: 1653433006977.jpeg (Spoiler Image, 104.93 KB, 839x1024, e8ab58f08e69f399da32cba485488f…)

I feel like a degenerate asking for this but does anyone know any good erotica or just media about men going through Stockholm syndrome, becoming submissive and obsessed with their female captor?

No. 266124

>>265593
where do you find men like this?

No. 266132

>>266107
OT but I wish Aeritea focused more on trying to improve her anatomy (like the hands) instead of improving her coloring first.
Though I'm glad there's at least one female artist in the west who draws nice anime-style femdom that caters to women (and she draws lots of self-insert art! It's a blessing). Most of the women who draw femdom either pander to men in some way or have an ugly art style.

No. 266135

>>266124
tinder haha. don’t be afraid to be upfront and specific about what kind of man you’re seeking. if you think he’s cute, just swipe right. idk if there’s many out there like this guy, like, it just keeps getting better and better. i think god has a crush on me or something lol. i love talking to him. so yeah most men are worthless, selfish misogynists but there are definitely some genuinely submissive men out there. don’t settle until you find the guy that you want and deserve.

No. 266244

>>266107
Try the Archie Sheridan novels by Chelsea Cain. It's kinda gender swapped Silence of the Lambs where the male detective is abducted by the female serial killer he's hunting and gets stockholm for her. The six books are murder-mystery crime-horror stuff with their twisted psychosexual relationship as the overarching story. He's not willingly submissive to her, but she can always mindfuck him into doing whatever she wants and he's shamefully obsessed with her in every way. She has other devoted male victims/accomplices she treats as disposable toys. All very femdomish.

No. 266277

Sounds fun. Nta but will you spoil me on something? Do they ever fuck?

No. 266383

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>>266277
In the second book they have a sex scene while stuck in a cabin during a forest fire and in the sixth book there's flashbacks revealing they were having an affair together before he learns she's the killer. I think knowing that going in might enhance the story since it elaborates on how mindfucked Archie is.

It's a shame the series has little presence online. It's extra sad since in-universe there's fanfiction shipping the two since they're public figures, kinda like the author wishes they had a bigger irl fanbase lmao. Author is kinda TERFy, she included a TRAs real tweets calling her transphobic (for writing about periods) as in-universe evil state propaganda posters in her comic Man-Eaters lol.

She also implied Mockingbird dommes her bf and Hawkeye at the same time when she wrote for Marvel, quite based.

No. 267048

>boyfriend calls me his queen
>want to call him my knight but begrudgingly call him my king to be safe and fair
>immediately after saying it feel uncomfortable
>even boyfriend doesn't like it and says that I'm the "queen and boss"
>now is my chance
>suggest knight
>he loves it and thinks it's cool to be my knight
I'm glad I can have my own knight.

No. 267049


No. 267145

>>262063
I've seen people use 'herbo' for that.

No. 267230

>>266383
Nice, I was hoping this was the case. Even better that she psychologically twists him around her finger over the years. The author sounds great. I've been disappointed lately with some artists I thought had nice femdomy content actually being pickmes or at the least sympathetic to trans shit, so I'm glad she's terfy in the real world too.

No. 267520

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>>265593
sooo i hate one less man now! we talked on the phone for like 10-12 hours before meeting yesterday for the first time. this man opened every door and spent hundreds on me, waited outside the dressing room, carried my bags, and so much more. we got dinner before heading back to his place. i almost can’t believe that i’ve found a man that isn’t looking to use me. wow.

once we arrived at his place he massaged my entire body for over an hour. last night was the first time another person made me cum. three times. he was really hard, i teased him a bit but he didn’t get close to ejaculation. he only asked for me to touch him once, i told him he’s stupid for even asking me that and he didn’t ask again after that. because he isn’t in it for his own pleasure, i was suspicious at first but i trust him now. one reason i didn’t like the sex i had in the past is because i was insecure about my appearance (even though i know i’m beautiful) and what i would look like when i came. but that wasn’t on my mind much last night. he just telling me how perfect i am, thanking me for everything, and looking at me like i am a literal goddess. his moans are fucking adorable btw, so is his laugh. then we just cuddled until we fell asleep, he kept kissing me all over my body and talking about what happened, trying to process it all lol. he made me breakfast this morning, ate me out again, and rubbed my back. he’s not amazing at massaging or eating pussy, but he really wants to learn and improve for me. i think we’re hanging out later, i most likely won’t post anymore updates but i can’t stop smiling rn and felt like sharing this.

yeah, he is really amazing. i feel so comfortable and appreciated when we’re together, even though we’ve only met once in person so far haha. also, i got the impression he’s into sissy shit during our first call because when i asked if he’s into that he said “not really.” turns out he meant that he’s willing to do it if i want to feminize him, but it’s not a kink of his. which is just…such a relief to know he’s not a total degenerate. we are so compatible it’s insane. i plan to make him rub my feet while i read the scum manifesto aloud, i quoted some parts of the book for him and he was really intrigued. he knows that he’s inferior because he’s a man, but he doesn’t know quite why. he doesn’t understand some of the big words i use (had to teach him what patriarchy and manicure mean!) and the last book he read fully was a picture book, so i will be reading him plenty of feminist theory. that’s all though. i’m so glad i met this dude. thank you to everyone who replied to my posts itt.

No. 267522

>>266107
why is the woman dressed sexy and the man looks like a schlub? standards are so low.

No. 267525

>>267520
I mean, this started off pretty great but
>i plan to make him rub my feet while i read the scum manifesto aloud, i quoted some parts of the book for him and he was really intrigued. he knows that he’s inferior because he’s a man, but he doesn’t know quite why. he doesn’t understand some of the big words i use (had to teach him what patriarchy and manicure mean!) and the last book he read fully was a picture book, so i will be reading him plenty of feminist theory.
Just makes me think this is bait.
>>267522
I noticed this too, but didn't want to be negative, kek. Even in femdom, too many women base their sexuality around objectifying themselves. She could have just drawn the women as neutral as possible but nope, have to put all the sexual focus on her instead of the man. Typical and boring.

No. 267533

>>267520
Lit anon, good for you!

No. 267534

>>267520
I am sorry but this sounds like a fantasy of yours kek

No. 267563

>>267533
thank you, anon!!

>>267525
wait explain how it sounds like bait please.

>>267534
kek, well it was until yesterday. i just totally lucked out with this dude. never thought i’d find the man i’ve been wanting for so long in my city, and i was right because this guy moved here only a month ago. i can’t prove any of that happened so uhh just trust me i guess. he’s really great though and i hope everyone itt finds their dream guy.

No. 267578

File: 1654119887233.jpg (Spoiler Image, 1.04 MB, 1500x2123, 68852980_p2.jpg)

>>267522
>>267525
I agree that the woman is too sexualized. lol why the nipples poking out?? even if the pic is literally centered on him, that just distracts the viewer, especially since her breasts are so close to his face, and I don't see why she has to be wearing stockings.
Aeritea's art is very hit and miss. I'm still thankful that she draws so much though.

No. 267604

>>267525
>rub my feet while i read the scum manifesto aloud
NTA but you know what, that's hot

No. 267621

>>267520
>the last book he read fully was a picture book

kekk, provided this is real is he dumb anon? or does he just not read?

No. 267622

>>267621
You'd be surprised (or rather shouldn't be) that that's most men lol they aren't shy about admitting it either

No. 267631

>>267621
ayrt, yeah he is a little stupid. but to the extent that it’s endearing and not annoying. he has a college degree and a good job, but was in a fraternity during his time at university. like >>267622 said, most men are just pretty stupid lol.

No. 267638

>>267631
>was in a fraternity
Oh my god you got a himbo, didn't you

No. 267644


No. 267736

>>267520
cringe

No. 267879

>>267638
oh most definitely. i used to go for the skater/indie type men but himbos are where it’s at.

>>267736
you know what? if i’m getting my pussy ate on a regular basis i can live with being cringe.

No. 267992

>>267879
>finding a boy that treats you like a queen and isn't into tranny shit
Congratulations nonny, that sounds amazing!!! I wish that were me, you have a lot of luck.

No. 268162

>>265215
Samefag, things have progressed nicely. First off, I got brave and told him to call me Master so now he does. We had a video call the other week after I had forbade him from touching himself for a few days. I made him just watch me for a bit, going "Did I say you can touch yourself yet?" when he tried. When I finally let him I was in control of how fast he went and I would make him stop randomly, I love the noises he made

He's so cute, he said that originally he was afraid of telling me that he wanted to be submissive because I always said I liked him being manly (though I was mainly referring to his looks) when for me that's sort of the point. He's bigger and stronger than me, he could pick me up and toss me around, yet he lets me tie him up and tease him and pretty much just use his face to come. And he likes it. I told him that if he was okay with it, next time we see each other I'm going to tie him up underneath his clothes before we go on a date. He was really into the idea. Now I have to research ropes and how to do shibari, I'm a bit nervous about getting it right but it should hopefully be a lot of fun.

I'm really glad I had the guts to mention domming, I've never enjoyed sex so much. We do still switch it up sometimes but I think I really prefer being the dom, which works out since I think he likes being a sub more anyways.

No. 268272

>>267522
because he's a fictional character and this is fanart you ding dong. that's literally just what he looks like. it's yoosung kim from mystic messenger kek

No. 268286

>>268272
lmao a fictional character from a game for women no less

No. 268293

>>268286
made for women BY women, kek. anons on this thread fucking love to complain

No. 268311

>>268293
Which makes it even worse that she drew the woman sexy while the guy looks like a pleb.

No. 268373

>>268311
I'm sorry I'll tell the funny man in my phone to dress up for me next time

No. 268389

>>268373
Well if you have to look at someone, fictional or not, they should at least be hot. I bet you're one of those idiots who thinks ~women aren't visual~

No. 268396

>>268373
excellent. tell him you'll delete the app and this his existence is he does not comply.

No. 268401

>>268389
I don't find the character hot to begin with, why so pressed

>>268396
gonna make him start paying rent too

No. 269356

File: 1654814857585.jpeg (Spoiler Image, 365.99 KB, 739x601, 3B9327D9-3ACF-43D9-BDB5-5A2C1D…)

I feel like this is the appropriate thread, sorry if it’s not lol. Is anyone here into eye-play? My dream would be able to penetrate the “eye holes” of a cute male with my thumbs but I know this would literally make him go blind and it’s so hard to find someone willing to engage in it. How do you explain you want to tape someone’s eyes open and use picrel on them? It’s a nice way to make prolonged eye contact so I guess it’s kinda romantic?
I’m repulsed by pegging (avid believer of thou shalt not make a man cum) but I would like to use his holes anyway and combining that with the extreme trust he needs to have in me to be a willing participant + the sweaty twitchy vulnerability really does it for me. When I was little I used to play pretend games with my pillow where I gauged it’s “eyes” out when I was uncontrollably raging and over the years it evolved into.. this. Is my best chance at acting this out waiting for a home invasion scenario so I can chimp out legally? Kek.

No. 269359

>>266029 stop posting post-wall wursties that look like 35 year old jewish lawyers having a midlife crisis.

No. 270111


No. 271143

File: 1655699663368.png (852.02 KB, 1215x1215, 95481258_p0.png)

I have no idea if there are even people who buy and scan yume doujinshi. It makes me so mad, I'm poor so I can't buy them myself, I don't even know if you can do that outside Japan. Every time I find a sample for a good yume doujinshi with femdom on Pixiv I just get sad.

No. 271144

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No. 271145

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No. 271154

>>271145
Wow, epic find. I want to read it too!

No. 271159

Does anyone have advice on how to deal with an overly sensitive sub? No idea what is wrong with him (I know it sounds like I'm gonna describe a dog) but every smallest punishment such as me going no contact makes him feel slighted and act up in retaliation
I don't know if he's trying to be a brat or is just plain BPD. His "acting up" isn't cute or annoying its just uncouth

No. 271160

>>271159
wtf is femdom really a fantasy for him or what?

No. 271179

>>271159
He sounds like the typical male "sub" who doesn't actually want to serve his domme. He just wants to follow along when it's convenient for him and gets him hard. That being said, what exactly are you punishing him for? Imo, I don't do the whole punishment thing. He either makes it clear he wants to serve you (so, no bratty behavior from him, no lashing out, no passive aggression) or dump him. If he has a problem you can both talk about it like adults. None of this childish tantrum behavior from him. You are not his mommy who has to put him back into line.
Whenever I was with a sub that I felt I had to "punish" he turned out to be pathetic, wishy-washy, and wouldn't actually man up and serve me like we agreed on. There should absolutely be NO punishments, unless it's a play scenario you act out for fun. Having to administer punishments mean that he is seriously fucking up in some way. You being disappointed in him should be enough of a punishment and he should shape up automatically after that.

No. 271186

>>271159
Dump him. He’s a worthless sub. You’re here to punish him, not be his mommy.

No. 271189

What the fuck happened to subs nowadays? Does one need to be a faggot to find an obedient slave? The only men willing to get fed shit and paddled into bloody pulps are fags, too.
It's just a shitshow with bottom of the barrel fat scrotes demanding to get breastfed by their "dommes" who are more than willing to comply. It's also impossible to find unwilling subs because let's be honest, which one of us has that kind of power over any man? I don't want a reddit man-baby, I want a SLAVE. It's all so fucking bleak- women who cuck themselves into thinking "true dominance" is when Nigel uses them like a fleshlight and males that throw hissy fits when they have to swallow a little pee & sprint to the nearest police station when you lay a finger on them. Do I have to join the navy for a chance to become the next Abu Ghraib waterboarder? Fuck this, I'm staying a celibate virgin. You gals have fun though.

No. 271200

>>271189
Kek, virginchan talking big.

No. 271214

>>271189
Thanks for the laugh nonnie. Honestly, I blame gfd and that fact that most communities nowadays try too hard to be inclusive. Now if you give your scrote mommy milkies and suck his dick for 5 hours while he lies there like a pillow princess you're a domme. Imagine a male dom ever doing that (well, without the lactation) and identifying as dominant, everyone would just laugh in his face. It's like people have spun femdom into another way to serve men, just in a different flavor.
A lot of male subs are so embarrassing too, because they won't endure any sort of pain or discomfort. You're a man, you evolved to take a beating, yet there are masochistic women 50 kgs lighter than you taking intense whippings and lashings. Pathetic. Gatekeeping needs to be a thing again.

No. 271215

File: 1655749730632.jpg (Spoiler Image, 350.47 KB, 636x1608, Postwar-Pulp-Femdom-Explotatio…)

>>271214
I couldn't agree more.
A man who can't endure pain and discomfort? Undesirable and pathetic.

No. 271241

>>271214
Femdom has always been for men and to serve men, though.
>>271215
This pic is an example.

No. 271308

>>271241
You're thinking of how moids have had the monopoly of portrayals and expressions of sexuality because of patriarchy.
Female dominance itself doesn't have to be about male fetishes.

No. 271326

>>271241
It’s the Stacy thing to do to reclaim female domination for women the way it’s meant to be.
>>271189
Tell them what you said here.

No. 271330

>>271241
Porn depictions of it, yes. But those are mostly for pathetic men who will die alone jerking it in their basement. Women decide how it plays out in their relationships. Well, in theory. Still, a lot of women are huge pickmes and want to play the part to satisfy their moid. They don't count though.

No. 271480

>>271189
>>271214
All the good male subs are in a relationship

No. 271647

>>271186
Saying to dump him is easy but its hard to abandon a dude with anger issues

No. 271750

>>271623
put degenerate shit like this behind a spoiler please thanks

No. 271797

>>271795
Delete this shit.

No. 271799

File: 1656005245574.jpg (60.88 KB, 925x1024, ygaisubgt7e5.jpg)

>>271795
>spanking him in a diaper
Nobody does this. He wouldn't even feel it. It'd just squish the poop around. Delete this.

No. 271801

>>271795
This belongs in the bad art thread, not here. Fuck off.

No. 271802

>>271623
>>271795
Moid be gone!

No. 273822

so tired of men thinking i’m a sub when we talk because i’m timid and look the part. it makes me want to gag them

No. 274017

>>268162
>>265215
Same anon. He wants me to tie him up and be as rough as I want with him. He said I could choke him while I use his dick like a toy which has been a big fantasy of mine, one I thought I wouldn't ever get to do because I didn't think I'd find a man that's okay being treated THAT roughly. I told him that next time we see each other I'm going to tie him in shibari style and that he's going to put nice clothes over it and take me out to a fancy dinner. I'm so excited. Now I need to learn how to do shibari lol. Anyone have any resources or tips? Most of the info online is for tying up women.

No. 274021


No. 274026

File: 1657227204891.jpg (142.22 KB, 1080x761, rosa.jpg)

I hope all of you nonnas are familiar with this Rosa Luxemburg quote.

No. 274064

>>274026
Love her writing and I feel it, but I think I've reached a point of growth in my concept of an ideal femdom relationship where I can no longer do bratty or straight up rebellious subs. It was fun for a time to put them in their place (for one or two days before they revert) but so many men like this are just entitled and enjoy seeing women exerting tons of effort to wrangle their bad behavior. Give me a sweet and obedient man from the start, I want my knight now not a feral asshole

No. 274134

>>274064
Yeah, I think it's only acceptable when the domme orders him to resist her. It has to be an act that's contained within a scene, and not him actually challenging her. When a sub comes bratty right out of the box without prompting, he deserves to be thrown away and ignored forever.
I don't want a wrangle a tard for the entirety of the relationship. I just want to beat him down every once in a while when I feel like it.

No. 274368

I've been making my sub get himself close but he isn't allowed to finish. "Pleasing my master is enough for me" he's perfect

No. 274408

nonas help. i met this guy online whos into the same niche interests as me and we got along pretty well. the only issue is i found out hes 19 and im 23 - my dating history is not extensive whatsoever nor do i have much experience. ive usually been more submissive and always the younger one. id be stupid to pursue this right?
i told him the age makes me feel weird (and old) but im also impulsive. I thought id ask what you guys think just in case. it was a bit cute though he kept trying to be coy and saying me being older is “not an issue at all btw” out of the blue. i only picked up on it way after kek

No. 274410

>>274408
If the genders were reversed would the man hesitate for even a second? No, so why are you? It's not like your age gap is significant and you shouldn't reinforce a misogynistic stigma for no reason.

Not sure why this is in the femdom thread though? Why would you being a few years older automatically make you dominant?

No. 274413

>>274410
you’re right, i just felt worried that i might be in the wrong and letting my feelings take over? i had a bad experience as a minor with a man and anyway you get the gist. you make a good point though.

and i should’ve been clearer, i just really got major vibes from him that he swings that way (ofc IF i were to pursue it’d need to be a conversation to set some ground understanding). sorry for derailing the thread

No. 274453

>>274408
my god nona its just 4 years. just date him, you can still be submissive.

No. 274472

Some advice. If anyone here is still looking for a submissive man, I think one of the best qualities you can look for is him being flexible and adaptable to your preferences. A lot of subs have a very specific idea of what D/s looks like, what kinks are involved, etc. They have to be willing to learn that submission involves letting go of these preconceptions and getting into the mindset of serving the particular person they're with. So if they come at with you obsessively with certain scenarios, kinks, fantasies, etc, instead of trying to adapt to your preferences are, it's a good sign they're looking for a kink dispenser and not a domme. Remember, it isn't your job to fulfill his fantasies, the whole point of submission is that he does what YOU want. This should be established from the onset, because it will help you avoid a lot of duds who just want to use you for kink.

No. 274532

>>274408
Brain damaged by patriarchy. 4 years is nothing. You need to fix your sick desire to only date older moids.

No. 274554

File: 1657481673174.jpeg (164.39 KB, 1280x2042, 7373226624856410aa55.jpeg)

>>274532
Heh yeah, this.

No. 274588

File: 1657510104648.jpg (98.02 KB, 756x765, tumblr_8664cd8b02186ab13c166f5…)

At the start of the pandemic, I started talking with one of my classmates that I wasn’t close with (and actually kind of disliked) on a regular basis. For months, we’d spend hours messaging back and forth, video and voice calling with mutual friends, playing online games together, etc. He told me a lot about his background, definitely way more than I told him about mine. One night, we got to talking about past sexual experiences. We’re both into this, and I think I have more experience than he does. He was fascinated by the fact that I stepped on a gay friend’s balls in return for my first kiss back in high school, bought a dog collar for one of my exes and actively go after virginal guys. I called him a silly bitch sometime later in the conversation and he went quiet and wide-eyed. I can tell he knows we’ve both fantasized about each other since then. He’s the first thing that pops into my head in the morning when I sleep in on weekends and it leaves me sopping wet.

I keep thinking about how he refuses to make eye contact with me sometimes and stares at me at other times, how he’s attempted to edge closer to me and place his head on my shoulder while we watch movies together with friends, how he prefers muscular women with short hair (like me), how he refuses my offers to have him sit in my lap when there’s no other seats available despite being incredibly tiny and light, way smaller than even our female friends. If I wanted to make the biggest mistake of my love life to date, I would’ve already backed him into a corner and grinded my knee into his disgusting cock and balls and demanded he describe each and every thought he’s had about me fucking him in excruciating detail until he’s a whimpering, ashamed and apologetic mess. Maybe I’d beat or spank him, then gag him with my underwear and hover with one leg up on a counter or chair above his face, just out of reach, as I let him beat off to me. I’d grab him by his hair and shake him if he came anywhere near my feet. Not sure what I’d do from there, but it would be cathartic.

No. 274594


No. 274614

Do you girl love your subs (if you're dating of course), or you just love having a sub? Like, do you care who they are or just them being submissive is enough? If you broke up how fast would you go find a new sub? What's your tolerance level if everything isn't to your liking?

No. 274742

>>274614
I just got into femdom (I used to be a sub) so I only had this with one bf but no, I don't love him. I just love what he does for me. I care about who he is in the sense that I can't date a retard but I can't stand him talking about himself so I don't actually care. I have no tolerance for things not being to my liking so I've already started looking for a new sub even though we aren't broken up yet.

No. 274755

>>274588
Do it and for the love of god update us
>stepped on a gay friend’s balls in return for my first kiss
Nice

No. 274943

>>274614
I was in a committed relationship before he became my sub so yes I love him. I'm just thankful our interests happened to line up like that. We had both been nervous to tell the other that we were into it but it worked out perfectly

No. 275040

>>274614
Of course. In fact, I could only love submissive men. Dominant men/switches don't deserve love, attention, sex, or anything.

No. 276430

I need to straddle a blindfolded supine man and hold a dripping ice cube over his bare torso before putting it in my mouth and kissing it into his mouth this is not a joke anymore.

No. 276444

I want to hear him moan and groan for me, I want to hear those whimpers of frustration as he ultimately obeys me not to move, I wanna see his dick throb and twitch, see his chest and stomach take in gasps of air, I want to trail his chest, tweak his nipples and steal kisses from him, I want him tied and immobile beneath me so I can play and ignore as I wish.

I want to make him tear up, beg and plead, I want to do all this and have him thank me for it.

>stuck in horny goblin mode since waking up, ooga booga hand it over, that thing, your sub soul.

No. 276464


No. 276465

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>>276444
>stuck in horny goblin mode since waking up, ooga booga
Kek, relatable

No. 276472

I made a mildly cringey post in one of these threads about Kyle Maclachlan & now every time I see a pic of him I get a wave of shame remembering the savage responses. Hope you're happy, PS you all sound fat

No. 276530

>>276472
Sorry to hear that nona

No. 276532

File: 1658265550537.jpeg (77.83 KB, 750x746, bbws.jpeg)

>>276472
>you all sound fat
Overweight is OP. But anyway Kyle is a cutie and I hope you'll get over your shame soon

No. 276757

>>276532
Nta but you could've spoilered this as a courtesy to all the nonnies who don't have a fat fetish.

No. 276835

>>276757
>fetish
ntayrt but have you considered that fat women can exist without it being a fetish

No. 277164

>>276835
if you call them BBWs, it's a fetish

No. 277728

>>277164
are you genuinely going to come here and announce that you accept a porn term made up by moids as a fact? if you're that sensitive at the mere sight of bodies, lose some weight nona

No. 277729

>>276757
I see no problem with it being unspoilered. The text on the image is obviously a joke, the photo isn't edited to look like porn or anything, and as far as fat women go, the one in that photo isn't gross either, only an anachan would find a problem with it. Touch grass, sperg.

No. 277737

Anyway I want to see men CRY and hear men MOANING and SOBBING and WHIMPERING!

No. 277741

>>277737
I would like to reverse mating press a moid so hard it shatters his pelvis.

No. 277764

>>277737
dont forget BEGGING

No. 277768

>>277737
I want to physically bully a cute moid until he cries

No. 277771

>>277741
What is reverse mating press?

No. 277785

>>274408
19 and 23 are not that different in maturity, worry about an age gap if you're 8+ years older.

No. 277795

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>>277771
moid lays on his back and is at your mercy
you hold his legs and go at it
also known as amazon press

No. 277806

>>277795
I tried this position but couldn't make it work even though we're both very flexible gym goers. We were so looking forward to it too, what a disappointment.
There's a reason people don't practice it regularly, sex shouldn't be that hard. The angle is just not good.

No. 277810

>>277795
These types of positions seem really memey and tryhard, like they wouldn't feel good for the woman at all. What's wrong with cowgirl?

No. 277924

>>276472
again, Go Back

No. 277970

>>277810
Anon who tried it, trust me it wouldn't feel good for the man either, the angle of penetration is dick-breaking.

No. 278199

File: 1658925956372.jpg (30.24 KB, 275x275, 1651845648784.jpg)

>>277970
>the angle of penetration is dick-breaking.
That's the charm of this position tbh.

No. 278239

>>277970
Now you just made it sound appealing instead!

No. 278624

>>277795
I've tried this and it definitely is just a meme. Uncomfortable

No. 278625

>>259661
I just realized that this picture doesn't make sense:
his hands seem to be pushing against glass (pressumably the mirror) but you can't sse them on it. Also, his nipples are in a wierd place

No. 278844

>>278625
It's a one-way mirror

No. 278851

>>278844
Lotta those walking around lately.

No. 278856

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What got you into femdom? Pic related for me, although all these years later I still don't understand her character at all

No. 278880

>>278856
who is the character?

No. 278888

>>278856
I think I already leaned dominant naturally, but yaoi made me realize that I prefer it when men are passive and obedient and are the ones who blush/squirm/moan during sex. I don't know how I discovered femdom but most of it wasn't enough to satisfy me for obvious reasons, and it wasn't until much, much later that I knew about femdom for women, which does appeal to me but is much more difficult to find.

No. 278980

>>278880
Shizuka Hio

No. 279023

>>277810
>>277970
>>278624
This is wild to hear, as soon as I saw this pic my eyes lit up. I've done this with two partners, one with an average dick and one with a big one. The bigger one I think we stayed in this position for what felt like 40 mins till my thighs were too sore to keep going. It felt very dominant and like I was essentially fucking him. A lot of sex positions seem to only work if you're the right body shapes for each other and their dick is the right size. This guy was skinny and tall and I'm quite petite.

No. 279075

>>279023
I've heard your partner needs a long dick for this position to work well.
Did it feel good though for you both?

No. 279121

>>274588
Yees, do it

No. 279779

can any nonnies recommend good femdom literotica? everything i've read seems aimed at men and male fantasies. i just want hot stories!!!

No. 280578

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>>279779
Seconding this request.

No. 280581

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No. 280582

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No. 280599

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No. 280670

>>277795
this position is impossible without a pretty long dick. but even if the dick was long enough it's still very uncomfortable :/

No. 280756

File: 1660037656031.jpg (Spoiler Image, 312.6 KB, 945x1280, ea.jpg)

Need more ads objectifying men.

No. 280757

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No. 280767

>>280756
Objects are useful. These hairy chinlets have no worth or purpose.

No. 280783

>>280756
need more HOT nerds being objectified for the female gaze

No. 280797

Why are Twitter femdom accounts so useless
I usually don't watch porn but in the occasion I do, I chose Twitter and there's just an overwhelming amount of accounts who post blowjob videos or some dude straight up choking a woman and jackhammering her its mindboggling
Absolute degen videos and there's nothing femdom about them aside from the occasional "Mommy" inserts in the caption to an unrelated video
I wish Twitter could go back to 2017 when shit wasn't this annoying

No. 280828

>>280797
Why would a femdom account post videos with male violence against women? Are they moid porn accounts?

No. 281148

File: 1660250031740.jpg (1.78 MB, 1260x1260, 90770735_p0.jpg)

Scrotes be like "ya I like femdom. By femdom I mean, I just want a girl to ride me (do all the work) and ask me to eat pussy (idk how). Why do girls actually want to hurt us? I don't actually like pain or worship."

PSA to all you lurking faggots, you are not submissive, you are just lazy and selfish fat fucks and no truly dominant woman will ever love you.

No. 281908

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>>281148
i don't like the idea of subs that want things done to them in the first place, they're basically just attention whoring and want everything to be about them while putting in no effort. the sub mentality should be providing a service, being at someone's disposal and being of use to them. top/bottom dom/sub give/take are not all interchangeable, as a sub you should be giving from either position, and you top or bottom as the dom pleases.


i scoped out the fetish scene near me and i guess unsurprisingly, the dungeon had a bunch of old dudes spanking girls despite the night's theme being female dominance, and the few femdom couples were all blowing their tied up subs or riding them while they laid there, pale and flabby, doing nothing. i liked to think a submissive man could still be quietly dignified in their service like a butler, and be patient, disciplined, and so on. but instead they're all shameless and pathetic.. which would almost make a good punching bag, but they're so useless they don't want anything to do with that either.

No. 281924

In any anon's experience, are people receptive to femdom if you don't meet the ideals of what a dominant woman should look like?
I realize this sounds stupid, but please humor me. For reference I'm only interested in women but I guess this could be universal.

But I am not masc. And there is a clear image of what a feminine dominant woman should look like which I don't embody. Even the women that other women thirst after for appearing dominant have this sort of look. Very tall, often well-endowed, classy/mature style, etc. Aside from having a bellowing voice, a decent height, and being straightforward because I'm socially inept, I present myself in a more "cute" way. Florals and shit suit my face best and I like them, but I know it's in juxtaposition with my romantic and sexual interests.

TL;DR How to reconcile that I will likely never be desirable in the way I wish to be desired without changing myself?

No. 281926

>>281924
In my experience of dominating women they don't care about that sort of thing. As long as you're confident then none of that matters.

No. 282015

>>281924
If you wanted to get pegged by a masc dom it's not that far a leap from just finding any moid for the job. A femme domme might be the sapphic femdom dream, though. The clear image you mention is from porn aimed at men. I think your only issue will be presentation; people interested in your preferred romantic/sexual dynamic might pass you by at a glance, so you'll need to be upfront and open about your preferences to attract the people you want, and to avoid wasting your time with the ones that you don't.

No. 282021

This thread is just women wishing something any decent partner should do, which is giving her pleasure. It's sad how a man eating you out is considered a femdom thing.

No. 282052

>>282021
nah this thread is about men doing all the work and physicaly hurting them (based)

No. 282073

Imagine a werewolf mad that you're trying to tame him like he's a dog

No. 282096

>>282015
kek what having sex with a woman wearing a dildo is not even close to having sex with a man.

No. 282120

File: 1660633396260.gif (1.23 MB, 400x298, 76BB91EC-958A-4C7D-B497-A16E24…)


No. 282136

>>281926
Okay, thanks anon.
>>282015
I mean, I can't agree that being topped by a woman is basically being topped by a man. Butches aren't men or else lesbians who like them wouldn't be lesbians and would date men instead. (They aren't diet men either, they're very clearly women)
That said I absolutely want to top the butches as well heh.

Anyway, you are right that just being open about interests will hopefully net me the right people.

No. 282184

>>282073
>>282120
I think this is my favorite flavor of femdom. Time to manifest a competent author who'll write this 300-page reverse bodice ripper for me

No. 282186

>>282021
Did you miss the part about hurting men physically and making them uncomfortable? Get the fuck out of here tourist other wise lurk more before making inane comments.

No. 282409

what does it mean when hes into bossy women and knows what the scum manifesto is

No. 282474

>>282409

For the former it probably means what you think it does, for the latter it doesn't mean anything at all, it's a very well known text.

No. 282479

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I wish i was a tall girl boss. But no im 5 feet tall and a crybaby.

No. 282483

>>282409
He’s a retard that will call the cops on you when you try to Dom him. Kill it with fire

No. 282485

>>282483
Did that happen to you or something?

No. 282499

I've always found the regular BDSM/kink community extremely cringe, but I just realized I'm naturally really aggressive with guys and might be into soft femdom irl. The things you learn on lolcow kek.

also i'm a degen but i used to read a lot of fanfiction where the guy would get raped and found it hot oh no

No. 282502

>>282499
Any F/M fics that you recommend?

No. 282506

>>282409
he probably fetishizes feminists as violent misandrists and doesn't take women's anger and reasons to hate men seriously.

No. 282533

I think knowing how sub men are like IRL has ruined femdom even as a fantasy for me. I'm starting to go back to just being a fujo and enjoying the idea of men being dominated by men, which feels at least realistic. I kinda wish I had never even entertained the idea of being able to dominate a man myself, it just left me feeling depressed tbh.

No. 282541

File: 1660864403541.png (Spoiler Image, 435.2 KB, 992x540, 2.png)

Amazon position

No. 282552

>>282541
Ew, aren’t those socks supposed to be white?

No. 282571

File: 1660876697096.jpg (329.75 KB, 1338x933, nico.jpg)

Have no idea where to post this. But her femdom energy is divine.

No. 282583

File: 1660893293141.png (3.73 MB, 828x1792, 584F2542-7E6D-4DF8-B116-7DAC44…)

I think what really kicked me off was this photo set from vintage tumblr. I obsess over it to this day. It really is flavored with all my tastes.
I’m going to answer seeing as I haven’t seen many
My main kinks:
Temp, breath, humiliation, rope, pet, abrasion, hair pulling, over stim and edging.
Ideal: looks and acts tough but is secretly a withering violet. Like a bare knuckle boxer who I can put through the grinder. Or a self righteousness librarian type who just needs a firm hand. (I’m a lesbian) turning bull dykes into sweet stupid girls in private is really cute to me.
I’ll be at this ten years soon.
I seem to trip into them more than anything. There’s a shit ton of unhealthy ones with little to no experience. Try to not be someone’s first and be clear about commitment. You don’t want to pour too much into a one off. Your time is precious and there’s always someone slobbering at the thought of proving themselves.

No. 282616

>>282583
That really looks like a TIF

No. 282618

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>>282533
Don't let scrotes ruin your fantasies, they are your own.
If you were to apply that logic on yaoi as well then you can't like anime bishies because they don't look and act like irl moids.
You can dream of whatever you want!

No. 282621

>>282616
It was tumblr so probably now.

No. 282636

>>282618
Finally someone said it, I'm sick of people saying that we can't like femdom because it's ~~unrealistic~~ or because "uhhh he gets off in a way/scrotes will get off to anything so femdom isn't real, read yaoi instead"

No. 282640

>>282636
I don't get why female fantasies and desires have to be "realistic". Look at porn for moids. There is barely anything that resembles reality.

No. 282646

>>282502
I could maybe dig them up if I tried but the fandom is too niche and cringe for me to post them, sorry nonnie.

No. 282652

>>282646
>too niche and cringe
I'm really curious what this fandom is now.

No. 282685

>>282616
Yup, and she calls herself a "faggot" too so she's a straight woman. Sorry lesbian nonny.

No. 282734

>>282583
That sounds really hot anon. I want all this stuff but my gf won't be rough with me, it's sweet but I want her to be a little mean to me. Makes me wish there was more lesbian stuff in this thread. Inb4 'post some', idk where to find anything lol.

No. 283182

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A long time ago when I saw the romangerri clip from season one on some part of /g/ I started to watch Succession. Romangerri haunts me to this day. I know their dynamic is super weird and dysfunctional but I want them to bang each other in season 4 so badly kek. If any other nonas are into verbally abusing arrogant scrotes, you would love Gerri

No. 283235

>>283182
me too anon im obsessed with them

No. 283242

I'm going to be dominating a cute boy later this week, which I haven't done in a while so I pretty much forgot everything I know. How can I be mean to him without doing cringey porn shit? He won't let me bite his dick which is the main thing I wanted to do, but I still want to give him some pain. I want to bite him in other places, is that cringe? Like his chest, ribs, thighs, etc.

No. 283245

>>283242
Does it matter if it's cringe?
Just do what you want, he should be grateful to for any sort of attention.

No. 283959

>>283242
Bite his nipple when he least expects it

No. 284759

I think I'm not allowed to post webms but God his moans are exquisite
https://mobile.twitter.com/Lances_8/status/1536336791543980034

No. 285556

How do you express your dominance in an LDR or mostly online relationship? It'll be a few months before my boyfriend can move in with me, but how can I gain satisfaction from our sex life until then? I never liked the idea of camming so that's out. I'm really turned on by service submission, as well as being serviced sexually, but that's super hard to do online. Phone sex (when I'm the one doing it) feels pandering and boring, like I'm the one coming up with a scenario while he gets to lie back and enjoy it. Meh. Any ideas?

No. 288816

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No. 288835

>>285556
Do you like limits and goals? You could give him little challenges or things that tickle your fancy anon. Not sure what you’re into. Have him jump for you and set stuff up for when you can be in person.

No. 288857

Where does one go about finding lesbian dommes? I'm a female sub. Is there a community or something? I went a kink event in my city for femme dommes and it was almost all straight women which was disappointing.

No. 288859

>>288857
I'd think you'd have better luck in specifically lesbian-oriented communities, but be careful of trannies.

No. 288953

I'm looking to buy some handcuffs and a collar for my bf. Would I be better off buying it straight from an adult store in person, or off Etsy or some similar site? I'm more concerned about quality, I looked around on some online adult stores and they all look really cheap and tacky

No. 288959

>>288953
If you mean porn stores, just don't. Handcuffs are usually garbage and can cause brusing, cuts and cut off circulation. A lot of companies have shit QC and the keys might not even fit right. Invest in quality items.

No. 288991

>>288953
Seconding >>288959, metal handcuffs are just a bad idea. Many Etsy retailers who make collars will usually make bondage cuffs out of the same materials. D-ring cuffs are more versatile than sex shop handcuffs anyway.

No. 289028

>>288959
>>288991
I figured, thank you nonnies!

No. 289031

File: 1663675260776.jpg (Spoiler Image, 37.51 KB, 214x299, sample_24f43cce028f0ffea520ac2…)

Has anyone tried reverse pegging? Is there a difference between a man fucking you with his dick and with a strap on?

No. 289149

>>289031
You need more lube and the guy has to be careful while thrusting because toys tend to be firmer and draggier than the average peen. But otherwise it's nice since he can't go soft and lasts however long you want him to. I personally like it.

No. 289250

>>289031
I know this isn't really femdom related and I know anal sex is frowned upon here, but… What's it like taking both at the same time?

No. 289882

File: 1663966544308.gif (Spoiler Image, 3.51 MB, 535x222, thedeep.gif)

This scene was so hot. Worthless bastard deserves to be degraded and hurt.

No. 289904

>>289882
Help, what is she doing at the end? The gif is too fast

No. 289910

>>289904
She's fingering his gills kek

No. 289955

>>289882
the gills make me want to vomit

No. 290026

>>288953
Learn to use ropes

No. 290043

>>289904
that character is basically aquaman so he has gills that hes really embarrassed about and it hurts when theyre touched

No. 290049

I feel like I would have gotten more into femdom if it wasn't almost always about a super dolled up super model or something domming a man. I find it impossible to relate to.

No. 290050

>>290026
nayrt but I don't always want to fuss for several minutes tying rope cuffs on somebody. Rope also has a learning curve compared to leather cuffs and collars and can more easily cause injury if someone's not sure of what they're doing.

No. 290051

>>290049
Are you talking about moid porn?

No. 290058

>>290049
Same. Most of my area's parties were like that, even the ones run by women! They had a really narrow view of femdom and what was acceptable too. I once left a femdom party because they wouldn't let me play how I wanted. Like I'm sorry I get that this is a wax play party but I don't wanna pour wax on some scrote's scrote, I wanna encase my hand in paraffin and pet cute heads. Sorry not sorry if that isn't "domme" enough.

No. 290086

>>290058
I swear I did this with my fingers and candles after putting them out I could never resist, kek.

Does anyone else think it would be easier to have someone inexperienced to femdom taught how you want rather than have someone experienced unlearn bad habits ?

Maybe I have a sort of corruption/teaching kink ?

No. 290219

>>290049
So you say you can't relate to it because it panders to moids? But maledom shit is the same way.

No. 290226

>>290058
I mean more power to you, but what you did doesn't sound exactly in the spirit of femdom

No. 290420

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>>290226
>the spirit of femdom
kek anon

No. 290424

>>290420
Nta, It's not that you're not allowed to pet cute heads, but it's like going to a pizzeria and asking for a burger

No. 290426

>>290058
I'm surprised that there were any young cute guys there at all.

No. 290463

>>290058
I wouldn't watch to mess with some random dude's genitalia, but I wouldn't want to mommy some random degenerate and make him feel like he matters either. Play parties are really weird.

No. 290469

>>290463
Normally no one cares how others play at parties as long as everyone is safe and respects safewords or follows group rules, that party and group were just weird. Before and since I've never seen a group's leadership tell someone they can't play a certain way just because other doms are playing differently.

No. 290485

>>290219
Uhh, is the only thing other than femdom maledom?

No. 290501

>>290485
No, but it's such a stupid complaint because almost everything involves "super dolled up super models" unless it's BL or something. It just makes no sense to target femdom specifically for that. Sounds like an excuse.

No. 291378

I think my boyfriend might suggest me to wear a dildo. Last night, we were messing around and I said something along the lines of me not having a dick. He says "Sure you do." He reaches over to my crotch and starts pretending to jerk off a penis for like 5 seconds. Tbh I thought it was kinda hot. When he was fake stroking, his hand kept hitting my clit. I pretended to twitch a bit and he said I just need to breathe a little hard and fast.
I tend to think I'm not dominant at all, but majority of our time having sex consists of me being on top and him begging me to make him cum. He's like twice as big as me so the amazon position is out of the question, but I do most of the thrusting and we ensure I cum first before he does.
I'm not sure if he'd want me to peg him. I'd like to have him suck my strap on regardless.

No. 291443

>>290501
NTA but unfortunately femdom is a moid fetish by default (unless you specifically try to make it for women instead, like we do in this thread) so it makes sense that the idea that most people have of it is "porn about sexy dominatrixes".
So if you're not super interested in femdom/malesub you're not going to bother learning about the kind that is female-oriented.

No. 291493

File: 1664540449941.jpg (Spoiler Image, 82.36 KB, 682x1024, 1664463571953.jpg)

This figure belongs here.

No. 291494

Absolutely sucks that I'll never be attacked by a lesbian vampire who turns me into her dapper butch vampire pet, slave, thrall or whatever.

No. 291500

>>291499
scrote

No. 291561

>>291443
Maledom is also a "moid fetish by default." I was trying to get her to think about why she relates to whatever the mainstream is (usually maledom) when it's just as catered to male gaze as femdom is.

No. 291587

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>>291443
So everything women are into and build for themselves in their sexuality is supposed to be owned by men? Socially or in the bedroom and also whenever they wank? Why should their view of a Fetish for us supposed to mean anything. Our sexuality as women are ours there's no thing as femdom being a male fetish "by default", you guys just can't accept anything as default that isn't male, just like how alot of you are incapable of dominating a man or woman without a strap on, you believe the penis is the ultimate tool to dominate anyone with just like those unga bunga caveman who are into maledom.
Femdom is always female centric it's about being a woman and dominating a man, if you think femdom is = a Man being dominated you're looking at sex through the lense of a man and that's you being sick and needing a reprogramming
stop brainwashing the children to giving up to patriarchy

No. 291588

>>291494
I know, where do we find them

No. 291590

>>291587
absolutely based

No. 291592

>>291587
Hello, based department?

No. 291595

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>>291493
sorry sage and spoiler for cartoon character sperg but anyone remember namidame 4 guy
your picrel is how I imagined him listening to this at 15 lol

No. 291635

For my lonely ladies, I just found a Twitter account with nice eye candy called @Kaoru_Adult, girl doesn't show herself aside from hands
Have a nice Saturday

No. 291676

File: 1664602522891.png (3.39 MB, 1080x2788, nowthatswhaticallart.png)

Would these belong here and qualify as femdom? Gentle femdom? Because this kind of shit is right up my alley. I just love tender moments portrayed where the man is clearly in the more vulnerable position

No. 291702

>>291676
I mean one of those is the threadpic. Love these kinds of portrayals nonna, great taste!

No. 291724

>>291676
Me too. But some of these just looks like normal comforting hugs between a couple and the woman being motherly. Others like the OP though? Definitely femdom vibes.

No. 291731

File: 1664624605922.jpg (121.92 KB, 1024x896, 834920645793271.jpg)

If we are posting actually artsy art now, then let me present you these statues by Daniele Accossato.
I think they're pretty, and make the men look vulnerable.

No. 291732

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No. 291733

File: 1664624686205.jpg (439.93 KB, 2048x1366, 134924366254676.jpg)

>>291732
And this one is my favorite.

No. 291734

>>291733
He looks like he needs a pat on the head

No. 291771

>>290226
>doesn't sound exactly in the spirit of femdom
i hate how fucking autistic these threads are so much

No. 291823

>>291771
Sames, I'm not sure how to word it exactly but it feels like for some the idea of giving a moid any pleasure even if it's my choice means it's not femdom and makes them reee along with the idea that for some here femdom just means inflicting hurt and pain and oddly they come off as obnoxious, a bit like those 'Moid Dom's' at parties that think they know better or what true domination is.

>>291733
Wing bondage, oh my.

No. 291835

>>291733
on the topic of angels, are you a corrupter or a purifier? Would you rather corrupt an angel (as a demon or as yourself) or punish a demonboy (to redemption) (as an angel or as yourself)?

No. 291845

>>291823
>>291771
we don't give a fuck just don't shit up the thread about how you breastfeed and give your moid headpats
>they think femdom is just about inflicting pain, it's obnoxious
oh my, it's a retard

No. 291850

>>291845
You just sound like a shitty moid Dom.

>Only my femdom is true femdom nothing else!

No. 291891

>>291851
what did I post that was supposedly so gross lol do you even know who I am, why are you triggered about anons who dont want to discuss soft femdom, you have multiple places to post about how you eat your moids ass, just not here
I'm not the only one who agrees with that sentiment and I'm NTA who's post was discussed anyways
>>291850
who said that? atleast sage your shit retard, idc for minimodding I just like making fun of you lot
you can be into femdom and do stuff like I mentioned, just don't shit up the thread with lowtier posts nobody wants to read

No. 291900

Gatekeeping should be a thing, so we don't get idiots who think giving their moid a bath, cooking him dinner, and giving him a slow blowjob after is femdom. For some reason so many people think gentle femdom involves the domme serving the sub instead of the other way around.

No. 291908

>>291894
yo you have to be absolutely retarded

No. 291910

>>291894
if it's your first post here don't act as if you've been here through out the 4 threads and accuse anons here of being the same person because they don't agree with you

No. 291960

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>>291835
I'd rather punish a sexy demon as a human, angels are pretty boring to me.

No. 291965

>>291771
I'm the anon who made that post. Tell me, what was autistic about it? About pointing out how another anon who would prefer to put wax on their own hands and pat people's heads doesn't sound like a femdom thing? I never said it was wrong, just pointing out how out of left field it sounds when she said that she left a wax play party because of that paraffin thing

No. 291980

>>291965
It wasn't autistic. Just ignore the retards who think anything a woman chooses to do is femdom and if you don't agree you're an autistic gatekeeper.

No. 292001

I need you guys to settle an argument for me: does face-sitting count as cuddling?

No. 292026


No. 292128

>>292026
Well, then I'm off to cuddle my boyfriend

No. 292156

>>292128
Godspeed nonna, have fun!

No. 292362

I'm curious, what was your femdom awakening? Mine was a MGS fanfic where Sniper Wolf "interrogates" Snake.

No. 292365

>>292362
Chasing and wrestling boys as a child. Good times.

No. 292430

>>292365
Almost same. There was a pretty girl in elementary school who'd get harassed by some of the boys and I'd wrestle them (the deterrent was them getting fed up with me more than me actually being good at making them submit at the time lol). I'm bi and I feel like that experience was more formative than I originally took it to be since I looove physically dominating men, but only like gently dominating women.

No. 292443

>>292362
Always felt excited to see characters get beat up in shounen

No. 292447

>>292365
>>292430
This sounds very pedo-ish

No. 292463

>>292362
Can I say this thread? kek I've always been very aggressive and dominant with scrotes but I didn't realize it was a sex thing, especially when most overt BDSM is fucking cringe.
>>292447
How the fuck is it pedo if they were all little kids?

No. 292465

>>292447
How was I a pedo for liking boys my own age you utter retard?

No. 292468

>>292447
She's not saying she did this as a grown woman, that she was chasing and wrestling down young boys lmao.

God some of you really can't read or infer from text at all.

No. 292491

>>292447
So all sexual awakenings are pedo-ish?

No. 292825

>>292491
>>292468
>>292465
>>292463
Nta but yes it is gross to reminisce as an adult about "good times" "dominating" little boys as a child.

No. 293004

>>292825
You’re a fucking retard. Same thing with reminiscing about love and crushes in youth then? Tell me you’re severely autistic and can not comprehend the difference.

No. 293008

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CP bump

No. 293012

>>292825
So all the times you reminisced about your first kiss or first date if you did those as kids are "gross"?

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>>292825
You're an idiot. I described having a good time back then. As an adult I want other adults obviously. Sadly it isn't socially acceptable to chase and wrestle men though, and there is an annoying physical difference.

No. 293014

Big kek at everyone getting triggered by being told it's creepy for adults to gather & reminisce publicly about little boys, even more so to call it domination

No. 293015

>>293014
Let me guess, this is actually the cp spamming "you whores" moid.

No. 293025

>>293015
Whatever you need to tell yourself to feel better nonna

No. 293038

When men think about sexual awakening, men continue to sexually objectify the little girls in their memories as an adult man. Moids externalize everything and view sexual feelings as something being done unto him by a female peer (or whomever), and his boy self was ever only a passive participant. And so the young girl is immortalized as the child who seduced him in a man’s mind. Tldr pedo scrote projecting ITT.

No. 293053

>>293014
>>293025
Am I also a pedo if I reminiscence getting sort of a sexual awakening and feeling attraction towards a character in a book I was reading when I was 11? Because in that memory I am ofc a child, so by your logic I'd be sexualizing my child self.
>>293013
This pic is hot af.

No. 293060

>>293015
It probably is. Quite a fitting coincidence that the post appeared simultaneously when the board started getting stunk up. Just ignore the moid.

No. 293063

>>293038
Probably what's going on here. That Y chromosome really is a disability for some men, huh.

No. 293090

>>293038
Yeah it’s super creepy how men continue to fantasize about the girls in their middle or high school even as adult men. I knew this guy who’d had a oneitis for a girl in his school since he was like 13 (apparently she liked him but he was too autistic to act on it, he was 12-13 too) he was 26 when I talked to him about it and I realized that he still lusted after this 13 year old girl in his memory. So creepy.

No. 293091

>>293090
She was like 12-13**

No. 293092

This might be a bit more specific but does anone have the drawing of the girl who pull her collard sub up to her and hugs him saying something like "Does doggy want to tell his master that he loves her?"?

No. 293134

>>291676
>tender moments
go back to reddit lol
this thread is for beating men up and making them eat their own shit, how in the fuck is…a woman hugging a moid femdom?????

No. 293140

>>293134
not everyone is into super hardcore stuff anon, dont be an ass

No. 293157

>>293134
>making them eat their own shit
huh

No. 293166

he want me to be cruel and humiliate him, any ideas?

No. 293187

>>293166
In public or?

No. 293188

>>293166
Who is he, what is your relationship like, what is the context?

No. 293196

>>293187
In the bedroom

>>293188
He is my bf. He thought he was only into maledom, but then he started talking about how he wanted me to deny him and it has progressed into wanting me to be cruel to him, humiliate him, lock him up and focus on my pleasure only. So just if anyone has some tips on how i can be cruel and mean but in a hot way, id be thankful.

I've always been a switch but i havent exactly had a male pet for a while, so i dont reslly know where to start. He also isn't into pain at all like my last sub was.

No. 293199

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>>293196
Things like having him eat you out and then having him fuck your knee pit like pic rel, give him a tooth paste handjob or riding him and micking him eat the cum out of your pussy?

No. 293200

>>293199
How is the knee fuck humiliating? He still gets off. Sorry for autism

No. 293201

>>293200
yeah, you're right, I thought it was humiliating since he doesn't get to touch your pussy, like having his hands tied behind him and struggling to thrust, but yeah. You can gag him with your panties or socks, or just make him beg

No. 293208

>>293201
>I thought it was humiliating since he doesn't get to touch your pussy
I think we should distance humiliation from the women missing out on being touched and physically pleasured. It's not dominant to neglect your pleasure. Imagine if dominant men said it was humiliating to not be given handjobs or blowjobs or something.

No. 293210

I'm trying to understand femdom but this thread makes it confusing.

So femdom is stereotypical moid focused and isn't really focused on the woman's pleasure, more them used as a tool for moid enjoyment.

So true femdom would be focused on the woman's pleasure or enjoyment first and the moid can either be or not be enjoying it depending on the woman's choice.

How do you avoid passive or lazy submissives then or how do you even have someone that will enjoy making you happy ?

No. 293214

>>293210
>How do you avoid passive or lazy submissives then or how do you even have someone that will enjoy making you happy ?
You want to look for someone who's into service submission. Someone who makes everything about you, rather than them. A huge green flag from my long-term partner is that when we were first getting to know each other, he was constantly trying to understand what I liked, how I liked it, and wouldn't talk about his preferences unless I asked specifically. He never assumed I liked the same things he did, and if I happened to, he wanted to know specifically what I enjoyed about them so he could cater to me.

While looking for a submissive, you should question them what their idea of submission is. A lot of men think submission is taking the female role (their flawed idea of what that entails). And to them that means just lying there, having things done to them and for them, while they get showered in sex and affection. Also, having you make all the big life decisions while they don't have to think or put in any effort. Avoid any men who use submission uwu "as an escape" from being a leader outside the bedroom.

Question their intent. Does their desire to submit come from wanting to serve you specifically, or are they entirely selfishly motivated? You'll be able to figure this out pretty quickly from how they act around you.

No. 293222

>>293140
>not everyone is into super hardcore stuff anon
cool. and like i said, they can go back to gentle femdom reddit.

No. 293227

>>293201
>>293199
He wants me to not touch his dick and to only focus on pleasuring me.

No. 293251

>>292825
Dumbest thing I ever read I hope this is bait

>>293038
Literally what does that have to do with gender? You could say the exact same thing about women.

No. 293258

>>293222
Nta but who fucking cares, the OP doesn't state this thread is only for hardcore degens

No. 293303

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any other nonnies into venus in fur?

i would willingly be waterboarded for the chance to dom hugh dancy.

No. 293322

Trying to dom I like the idea of but as a smaller woman I just find it soo frustrating. My last boyfriend was 6'7 and built and he liked to sub but?? There was no way I could realistically overpower him so don't even see the point.
Sometimes I wonder if he just liked to see me struggle/it made him feel even stronger in a weird way.

No. 293350

>>293322
Overpower him regularly or just in bed?
Regularly: he should have already recognised your superiority over him as a woman and just let you do what you want.

In the bedroom: another anon had a similar problem and she was told to make him do pushups till failiure before sex.

No. 293351

>>293322
If he is willing to be tied in bondage then it would put you in control since he couldn't even move.

No. 293362

>>293322
Domming someone isn't about physically overpowering and forcing them. Physical force is a play aspect. If you really want to go that route, he shouldn't be fighting back against you anyway. Like, if you push him down on the bed and pin him down he should fall back naturally instead of putting up resistance. If he is constantly making things difficult for you instead of obeying, he's not really submissive and not worth your time.

And really, dominance and submission is mental. You can have power and control over someone without physically beating them down. This is how most of society functions after all. And although I've liked "overpowering" my subs (and some of them were at least a foot taller than me), ordering and bossing them around works just as well.

No. 293363

>>293362
Yeah, what this nona said.

No. 293368

>>293166
>>293227
>he want me to be
>He wants me to not touch his dick and to only focus on pleasuring me.
look at your phrasing. what do you want? what do you think would be sexy to do to him or watch him do?

No. 293378

Is chastity a male fetish?

No. 293383

>>293378
Yeah because most of the time they’re into it for emasculation sissy reasons

No. 293384

>>293368
I think everything is sexy and hot, im just looking for some ideas.

No. 293385

The "dominants" who ask people online what they should do to their submissives is pretty pathetic. How can you know so little about what you like that you need random people to chime in and tell you what to do? Not very dominant. Even men do this too. If you have this little initiative why even bother trying to force yourself into the dominant role?

>>293378
Most of the time it's a fetish men push on women. Personally, before I read how men felt about it, I enjoyed the idea of it because it seemed overly controlling and harsh to lock a guy's dick up. But too many disgusting sissies think of it as feminizing (I want to barf at the guys who call their locked up dick a "clitty") so now I only want to do it if the guy was never into chastity in the first place. Basically, I like the idea of "forcing it" on someone who doesn't want it.

No. 293389

>>293258
the OP states this thread is for femdom. being gentle is not femdom. a man tenderly embracing a woman sure as hell is not femdom, sorry that someone fooled you into thinking that a man just being nice and gentle is some special submission thing and not just being an affectionate partner.
accepting anything and anyone is how you get posts like >>293227 where the woman confesses she's just doing what the man wants but thinks it's femdom.

No. 293394

>>293389
Okay stop putting words in my mouth i want to dominate him im just looking for ideas on what to do that he would also maybe enjoy, or like enjoy not enjoying?

Seriosly is having a guy wanting to lick my pussy while i deny him pleasure so inappropriate for this thread? Gee i'll go in the embarrassing fetishes thread instead.

We had a nice evening with me slapping his cock and he eating me out and then going to bed, sorry if thats not femdommy enough

No. 293405

>>293394
NTA but you sound like such a spaz. Maledoms shove their cocks all the way down women's throats until they vomit and so called "femdommes" in this thread think they are doing femdom by… denying themselves oral. Kek. As if any man genuinely enjoys eating pussy that much that saying no would be a punishment.

No. 293417

So uh, male lingerie… yay or nay?

No. 293420

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>>293417
Haven't seen much nice ones. I want there to be sexy underwear for men that is masculine not borrowed from women. I do like stockings and sock/shirt garters.

No. 293423

>>293420
Now this is hot.

No. 293429

>>293405
Where did i say im denying myself oral? I literally said i slapped his dick and made him lick my cunt?

Are you even reading my post or do you just have a hateboner and are convinced you're the only true femdomme and everyone else is a subservient bitch?

No. 293460

>>293350
>pushups till failure before sex

ntayrt, but my biggest issue with wrestling my bf in a femdom context is that I can never meaningfully overpower him. He's pretty built and I like to grope his muscles, so asking him to stop lifting isn't an option. While he does yield enough to let me win those playfights, the fact that he has to yield at all makes the whole affair less hot for me. I've tried to do what >>293362 recommends and take more pleasure from the mental aspect and I do take pleasure from him being submissive towards me! but, for me, the fantasy is physically besting a man so good that he can't help but follow my every whim after the fact. Like the physical domination caused a mild mindbreak, I guess? It's hard to describe.
All this to say, thank you so much for the idea anon. It's so simple that I'm embarrassed I never thought of it myself

No. 293504

>>293460
You can have someone at your mercy without wrestling them down tbh. One of my exes was way taller than me, and he told me he felt genuinely weak and powerless when I slapped his face or balls, when I spanked him, or hurt him in other ways. Something in particular
I liked doing was grabbing him by his balls and leading him around. Just the threat of violence can intimidate someone into submission and you don't need to hold them down to do that.

No. 293523

>>293504
I understand that. Outside of physical stuff, I like (pretend) blackmail scenarios, where the submission comes from their livelihood/reputation being in your hands. I also get all of the other ways you can have someone at their mercy, but sometimes I just wanna wrassle a man and make him eat me out in victory. Variety is the spice of life and all that lol

No. 293525

>>293523
>>293460
I didn't say to make him stop lifting, but to have him do push ups intil he's to exhausted to do more before wrestilng, or wrestling him after he comes back from the gym

No. 293526

>>293460
You could just take Brazilian Jiu Jitsu classes? Judo? Actual wrestling? If you know proper technique and he doesn't, he might outmuscle it some of the time, but there's only so much he can do if he's not trained in technique.

No. 293533

>>293525
I understood you the first time, which was why I thanked you for the idea at the end of the first message. Sorry if it came across as sarcastic or something, I was trying to be earnest
>>293526
He used to do wrestling in high school and now does BJJ on the regular. BJJ is expensive as hell in our area, so I just learn from him occasionally (plus taking BJJ classes just for sex reasons would make me feel so awkward). It's better than nothing, but I doubt I'll get to a point where I could actually out-technique him

No. 293538

>>293533
ah, sorry

No. 293540

>>293460
Have you tried bondage? If it's mainly overpowering him you're into, restrain his hands behind his back or tie his ankles together before wrestling, or if having physical power over him in general is also appealing, tie him to the bed. Bondage on big guys is hot since it can be the first time they've felt physically vulnerable as adults never mind made that way by you.

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>>293429
I'm late to this sperg holy shit this post is helarius

No. 293663

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No. 293828

Any tips on how to train male nipple sensitivity?

No. 293914

Polish power

No. 293957

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No. 293960

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No. 293961

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It's locktober!

No. 294010

Are there any games or VNs that have good femdom content? And if possible with an MC who doesn't switch. A lot of people recommend Jooubachi but she becomes submissive in certain routes and that ruins it for me.

No. 294011

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>>294010
I don't know Japanese so I can't be sure, but some of these games sound pretty good from the description. It seems that the more femdom focused ones are small indie titles. Like Psycho Caries, for example.
https://vndb.org/v?q=&ch=&f=0280UJ80X0t

No. 294014

>>293960
Lmao true tho

No. 294063

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>>293303
nona where I can watch this I desperately need to see hugh dancy getting dommed

No. 294065

>>277795
I've managed to fuck my bf in this position just once, but I don't know why can't we manage to do it again no matter how much we try finding the right angle without breaking his dick. Maybe i'ts because we were at an hotel the time it worked and it was a different bed? I seriously don't know how managed to, but I need it because I swear it felt so fucking good

No. 294069

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>>294063
Here is a link to a media masterlist on tumblr that has archived most of Hugh Dancy's work including Venus In Fur broadway show. https://wiith-my-hands.tumblr.com/mmm
>Mads connoisseur.
>Hugh fancier.
Quite happy that I found an alternative source as the original tumblr post that had the video is gone.

No. 294123

What do you guys think about being edged by a submissive? Personally, I never liked the idea of "edging" a guy and making his dick and pleasure the focus. Not to mention the amount of "work" that takes just to make someone else feel good. But I love the reverse, ordering a guy to edge me, demanding him to stop when I get close or not make me cum just yet. Until later he makes me all worked up and bothered, until I push him down and grind myself against his face until I cum. Having a submissive tease you and seduce you is soooo hot. It's so much more exciting than being expected to tempt or seduce a guy.

No. 294132

>>294123
And then you get to punish them for being cocky

No. 294136

>>294123
>>294132
Sounds good to me, I am greenlighting this idea

No. 294140

I was into femdom until I realized moids get off on it. Kind of defeats the purpose.

No. 294142

>>294140
Kek how did you manage to not realize this?

No. 294146

>>294140
Well, all sex is nonnie. I'm sorry I had to break it to you.

No. 294160

>>294132
>>294136
Based.
>>294140
Depends. My partner doesn't get off on pain (he even goes completely soft from it), but I inflict pain on him anyway because I enjoy hurting him. If you have a good submissive, he will do things you like even if they don't turn him on.

No. 294245

>>294160
you are a virgin who has never had sex, don't lie

No. 294250

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>>294123
ngl this is hot.

No. 294251

>>294245
Never did PIV, so you are technically right.

No. 294837


No. 294845

>>294837
Yeah, Hades femdom porn be like that

No. 294848

>>294250
this may be the hottest nsfw artwork ive ever seen

No. 294865


No. 295014

I consider myself a switch, but I've never taken a dominant role during sex before. I wanna try soft domming my new bf, but at the same time I'm afraid of corrupting his pure heart kek. We haven't known each other for that long, but so far sex has been pretty vanilla. He gets a bit rough with me sometimes (at my request), but I don't get the feeling he's that kinky. We usually have sex once or twice when we meet up, while I'm pretty much horny all the time and would love to go at it a lot more. I wanna start denying him orgasms, selfishly because I wanna have more/longer sex. Basically making him get me off several times/do tasks for me etc. before he's allowed to cum. But I'm a little afraid of going overboard because I think he's so cute and I would love to fuck him all day. I feel a bit degenerate and like I'm objectifying him. I hope it's just something I need to try a couple of times to get out of my system and that my libido will settle down once we've been together longer.

No. 295415

nonas does anyone else know of @/moonxx911 on twitter. the noises he makes make me feral tbh

No. 295418

>>295415
>@/moonxx911
We're not on Twitter kek you don't have to censor the handle

No. 295475

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Do you wear anything that show of your believes on male's position in society or relationships??

No. 295502

>>295014
He's a man, not a puppy. And besides, he's already fine with "roughing you up" and objectifying you, so he should be fine with the non-extreme things you're suggesting. Talk to him about it.

No. 295693

>>295475
No that’s cringe

No. 295772

>>295475
Nah I don’t advertise myself, especially in the way that invites random moids to perceive, engage, or fantasize me as their kink dispenser. That shirt would look better on your pet.

No. 295773

>>295415
E-thots just give me ick

No. 295999

So where do you anons find such good femdom art? I tried just using Google but it's only male gaze stuff.

No. 296002

>>295999
Obviously don't use google lmao.
When I still searched for art, I used Pixiv and boorus. Sometimes I stumbled upon good stuff on Twitter but Twitter is a cesspool of scrote-pandering porn, pickme porn artists, wokies and genderspecials with shit art, and fujo art (nothing wrong with this one, it's just that it's the more common type of good art for women and obviously not what I'm looking for), and finding a specific type of artist is practically impossible unless you follow the right people, and I don't have the patience to search through hundreds of different artists.

No. 296104

what are good tinder bios to attract submissive men? one that doesn’t advertise me as a femdom, rather as a domineering woman. also one that doesn’t attract the weird bdsm latex cuck faggots, but a normal non porn watching submissive

No. 296110

>>296104
I think anything about dominance is going to bring out porn addicted scrotes. Maybe mention something about being bossy? In my experience the best way to use dating apps is to be extremely picky, then send those boys a super like. Usually they don't meet my standards after talking a bit, but sometimes you'll find someone good.

No. 296113

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>>296104
Another anon said she got a good catch by putting pic rel in her photos

No. 296115

>>296104
Say you like calling the shots, you like being in charge, etc. Mention that you're looking for a guy who likes a bossy woman or a guy who loves taking care of the woman he loves (ie. service submission). Imo, if you move away from the pornified language, and make the D/s sound like part of your love language/how you interact romantically, you get a lot more legit subs.

No. 296116

>>296115
It sucks. If you say your a bossy woman, you run the risk of stumbling onto doormats who expect you to do all the work but if you lean more into the "looking for someone to take care of the woman" angle you then run into controlling creeps and m'lady's. Its really the balance thats tough to parse for and can only be done by chatting.

No. 296119

>>296116
Yeah, it's a shitshoot no matter what terminology you use. At least leaving out any kinky talk helps slightly, but you can really only narrow it down by talking to them.
However, I will have to mention it's a huge green flag if a submissive mentions he wants to take care of you. It shows his idea of submission revolves more around what the domme wants rather than his desires. Too many subs think submission = being passive, and that means they get to be taken care of while the domme serves them. Wrong. Avoid like the plague.

No. 296121

>>296116
On dating apps I find it is best to control where the conversation is going, but make sure that he is the one asking and planning any dates. That way I know they are focused on my enjoyment rather than being passive.

No. 296576

>>295014
>>295502
Update. Sorry if this doesn't belong here. I ordered some handcuffs and bed-restraints. Had him use the cuffs on me and we both had a great time, so I asked him whether he would like to be restrained next. He said yes and told me he was both excited and nervous for it.

I’m not really into inflicting physical pain, but I get off on him feeling embarrassed and there’s definitely some excitement in feeling like I’m corrupting someone. He’s a pretty stoic guy, but gets easily flustered whenever I text something sexual etc. which I find endearing. Seems like edge-play is frowned upon itt, but idgaf, I love his face when I can see he’s overcome with desire and his eyes turn hazy. He’s used to being able to fuck me whenever that happens, so it’ll be a nice change to restrain him and edge him until he’s bucking his hips like a slut. I’ve taken some notes from you nonas and will make sure to have him serve me first, so he doesn’t get the wrong idea about our dynamic. Would love to do more extreme orgasm control eventually. I’ve been thinking of ways to humiliate him all week and getting all worked up about it, but will try my best not to go overboard since it’s his first time. Hopefully it could develope into something more though.

No. 296600

>>296576
just throwing it out there as a fun tease but if he's not cut and natural as God intended kek, then the tip of his dick (the side not facing him) you can rub it with finger tips gently and it's very very intense.

It's a whole bundle of nerves there called the Frenulum.

No. 297050

Is licking sweat bad for you?

No. 297061

>>297050
you're discusting

No. 297062

>>297050
discuting *

No. 297063

>>297050
disgusting ** smh

No. 297064

>>297061
>>297062
>>297063
>>297050
Sorry, what I meant to say was "Is him licking my sweat bad for him?".

No. 297066

>>297050
>>297064
I don't think there is a risk unless the person being licked has extremely bad hygiene or an infection that is transmissible through skin contact, like MRSA, herpes and so on. In that case you would probably become infected before you got to the point of licking their actual sweat. As far as I understand, sweat itself does not contain viral infections. Can't see any other reason for why it would be bad.

No. 297067

>>297066
I was worried because my mother was always telling me how sweat expells toxins and I didn't think ingesting someone else's toxins was a good idea

No. 297068

>>297050
>>297066
People put genitals in their mouth and eat ass and they're fine. He's a man, not a delicate little baby. If he dies from licking your sweat you're doing the world a favor.

No. 297069

>>297067
That didn't occur to me. According to google, it's a myth that sweat expels toxins. I would guess even if it were true, the amount would be so minuscule it wouldn't impose a risk, seeing as sweat is 99% water. Think about the amount of heavy metals/microplastics etc. we're exposed to each day just by eating food. I'm more worried about that. Also it's probably more risky licking each others genitals or buttholes, but people still do that kek.

No. 297076

>>297069
But what if it's a lot of sweat from cardio?

No. 297079

In an on-and-off relationship with a very very submissive guy. He's physically gorgeous and sinks into the role so naturally. We're not going to see each other for a while so last night I thought I'd push the boat out – started by making him strip and play online chess lol, palmed his dick and teased all over his body for about 20 minutes until he was begging me to let him forfeit. I told him that I'd hurt him if he lost or stopped playing. He lost, so I tied his hands behind his back and pressed his face into the bed while I beat the living shit out of him with a padel. I've never seen him in more of a state, crying and groaning and such, physically trying to get away from me and being unable to. His ass and thighs were eventually bright red; I like to slowly scrape my nails over the marks to feel how hot the skin is afterwards (and to make sure it's as sore as possible). I turned him over and slapped him hard in the face and made him eat me out. I let him cum eventually but ruined it by jerking him off post-orgasm until he was pleading with me to stop touching him. He says 'please' (as in 'please stop') very desperately when I overstimulate him, I think it's the sensation he hates the most.

Had (regular) sex twice more before I went home. It was the most satisfying encounter I've had in a while, he's like a dream. He's confessed in the past that he'd get down on his knees in public for me if I asked him to. He's so intensely desperate to please me that it startled me to begin with but I'm getting more comfortable with the idea of having absolute control over another person.

No. 297104

>>297079
>started by making him strip and play online chess lol, palmed his dick and teased all over his body for about 20 minutes until he was begging me to let him forfeit. I told him that I'd hurt him if he lost or stopped playing. He lost, so I tied his hands behind his back and pressed his face into the bed while I beat the living shit out of him with a padel
That's so fucking good, damn

No. 297125

>>297079
How did you find him?

No. 297132

>>297125
At Uni earlier this year - we'd been friends for a bit before we pursued anything sexual. I have lots of stories about different things I've tried with him, would sometimes look at this thread for inspiration hahah.

>>297104
Try it! I'm a big fan of giving him hopeless tasks that inevitably result in some torture.

No. 297134

>>297079
Was he playing chess against you or online randoms? If against you, what's your ELO?

No. 297137

>>297064
>>297068
>licks sweat
>Hm, guess that wasn't so ba-ACK

No. 297141

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>>297079
LUCKY I've always wanted to beat a guy's ass with a paddle or whip it's not fair!!!

No. 297208

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>>297134
Random online match, he’s not bad at it usually. It would be hot if he played a game of something against me and lost, though.

>>297141
I hope you get to try! Belts are pretty versatile and sting like hell if you need to improvise a whip. He mentioned the other day about wanting to be flogged — I don’t know how he feels about blood being drawn but it sounds like a possibility.

No. 297266

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I really need to bully a cute male right now gnnnngh it's been too long since I've fucked. I love this thread so much

No. 297305

>>297266
I never watched the anime but I think reading Aku no Hana when I was younger imprinted something onto me kek

No. 297537

anyone know of a good quality not too expensive cock cage? i want to deny my sub, he isn't allowed to cum without my permission and i want to make sure. i also want to wear the key around my neck as a symbol of my ownership of him, showing it off

No. 297625

>>297208
holy shit nona i never knew i wanted to throw a cute moid in a pit of mud before

No. 297973

>>297305
nta but same

No. 297974

>>295415
he makes good noises but my mood sours when he says mommy, sounds so retarded
I thought he was on youtube why is he on Twitter now

No. 298302

Does anyone have experience using soc to find subs? I know its got to be 99% porn addicted losers but has anyone had success through there? Very rarely I see an intriguing post but I never message them because I don't want to get my hopes up.

No. 298320

>>298302
i met my ex on there and he was genuinely a diamond in the rough moid- smart, good looking, socially capable, no psycho political views, not a neet- just a really lovely guy. this was during covid so i think more normal leaning less coomery guys were posting. all my other experiences on soc have ranged from mediocre to negative pretty much. soc is good in that there is really no other place to seek out that specific of a thing and everyone is versed in internet culture and a little bit retarded and autistic which to me was a much easier way to meet guys rather than irl or dating apps where i just couldn’t get on with people. also there is a huge selection of moids but most of them are shit tier quality in terms of looks and personality etc. you have to remember that soc mostly attracts literal bottom of the barrel coomers so keep that in mind, but you already know that. i guess there is no harm in adding guys who’s ads interest you but i’d be very discerning and ask the questions that are important to you basically off the bat. also don’t add guys who don’t live in your country/a manageable distance away, ldr is awful and not really a relationship at all. good luck anon ♥

No. 298353

>>298302
>>298320
Out of every place on the internet to meet subpar men… mention of soc is automatically a psyop you can’t argue with me.

No. 298471

>>298302
I met my husband there. Won't go on about it but he's a genuine sub and a very good one. I also got spammed with low effort and/or ugly moids (some of whom already had girlfriends and wanted me as a side piece), repulsive trannies, and condescending maledoms in the process.

No. 298489

the state.

No. 298498

>>298471
retard.

No. 298514

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I was rewatching Star Wars: the Clone Wars recently and I have to say, the nightsisters were pretty based desu

No. 298548

>>297537
I guess you should just browse your local sex store to make sure the cage is good quality, idfk, but this is my advice as someone who has never seen a cock cage in person. Though, I'd personally be wary about buying anything online.

No. 298696

Not sure where else to post this. I tried edging my bf for the first time, and after finally cumming he became acutely nauseous lol. I feel like I might have overdone it. He's normally a one and done type of guy when it comes to orgasming, and our sessions are maybe 20-30 minutes at most. If I'm lucky we can go at it twice the same day. I wonder if it's possible for him to get accustomed to longer edging, or is my bf defect?

No. 299548

>>274017
late reply but how'd things go nonna?

No. 300044

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No. 300047

>>300044
Would've been based if she waterboarded him

No. 300057

>>300044
>mouth not wide open

No. 300080

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I wanna do the popsicle scene from Jawbreaker but in real life

No. 300091

>>300044
Should have forced his mouth open

No. 300092

>>300080
I do too, but first I want to make him earn it by doing pushups while I push his back down with my foot

No. 300157

>>300080
>>300092
Don't we all?

No. 300182

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i wish men liked actual dominant masculine women instead of "tomboys" (tan short-haired submissive women)

No. 300237

>>300182
Yeah, when men say they like a dominant woman they mean either "bratty tomboy type who secretly wants to be dominated and called pretty" or "male gazey dominatrix with nine inch heels and sexy latex bra" and i'm so fucking sick of it. thanks for the pic

No. 300259

>>300182
What is that in his mouth, a cigar?

No. 300541

Hi nonnies; I've glanced the thread and I haven't found answers for what I'm looking for… I did find a lot of good thonk provoking thoughts from other anons, so thank you. First things first is the situation. I got a finsub (online) a few months back; he's a little degenerate cuck but he's MY little degenerate cuck. I've found myself interested in domming nasty incel vermin to be very enjoyable! So this finsub is fine. I'm not the most experienced in finsubbing though; he says I'm a natural when I try. What could I say to him to make his time more fun? I've always been a soft domme when I do; so I'm really bad at being mean. I'm good at being stern because I've always had a good hold of boundaries. My ex wanted me to be a mommy though, so I've always been soft, and I like playing the mommy role it's cute. He was a lazy piece of shit though. The other situation with this is I have a friend I'm madly in love with who is also a sub; so I tell my finsub about our adventures and how pathetic he is compared to my irl friend; etc etc. I'd also like more help with making the irl friend have more fun with my antics too. He enjoys the soft mommy stuff too, but he doesn't like it when I do "mom" things LOL, which yeah I act like a mom friend way too often. I just really enjoy caring for people and making them happy~ he let me tie him up and step all over him and call him pathetic in a cute voice and it was sooo fun I wanna do more stuff like that but I'm not sure what. Thanks for any help you guys can give…

No. 300547

>>300541
you need to kill yourself

No. 300622


No. 300628

>>300547
Which part specifically makes you think so? Genuinely curious

No. 300629

>>300628
Nta but all of it.

No. 300639

>>300541
Just beat the everloving shit out of him or put him in a prostate milking machine idfk

No. 300640

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>>300629
Read this first and thought that maybe this couldn't the case, given how big the paragraph in >300541 is, but, after reading it, no. All of it. Astounding how that works

No. 300704

>>294250
Who is the artist of this Hades fanart??

No. 300717

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>>300704
Maren Marmulla

No. 300802

Does anyone have experience/tips and tricks for practicing shibari on a much taller partner? I'm quite inexperienced (only done harnesses on myself before) but recently tried an arm binder on my sub, it didn't look neat but it was functional so I was ultimately happy, though it could have gone smoother

No. 300818

>>282541
would his asshole be rubbing on your buttcheeks if he puts his legs up like that?
kinda gross. especially since we all know men don't wipe properly or even wash their buttholes with water and soap

No. 300819

>>262764
I like this pic anon. who's the artist?

No. 300829

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No. 300830

>>300829
Name tag with "Property of (my name)" written on it is missing

No. 300831

>>300717
Thank you nona!

No. 301162

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>>300818
Order him to wash and take a shower beforehand and then tie him up, he can't be allowed to do anything but stay still

No. 301166

>>301162
This is legitimately disgusting looking

No. 301167

>>301162
>pale, assne, black butthole
ew what the fuck, this is as moidish as you can get why did you have to rape my retins, i wanted to see some cute 2D guys getting femdomed not some ugly basement dweller who smells of unwashed underwear

No. 301262

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>>261214
>>261213
I AGREE. He has the perfect teary-eyed look of a sub bf.

No. 301489

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No. 301865

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Does anyone know more series with scenes like this? Source: Wednesday, start of episode 8

No. 301919

>>301489
Which "christian manga" is this?
>>301865
Damn I gotta continue watching this show now huh.

No. 301927

>>301262
He seems like such a smug piece of shit whose ego has been gassed up by so many women because of twink peaks I want to tie him in my basement and abuse him

No. 301932

>>301262
>>261214
What is this from? Interesting outfits.

No. 301936

Why is it that femdom enjoyers seem to be over-represented on this site? To the point that it seems to be part of lc culture, I've even seen nonnas bring it up in unrelated threads. I feel like it has something to do with pickme-ism being strongly discouraged and called out, which keeps out femsubs (who are more common in other places on the web) and allows people to express more dominance toward moids without fear of blowback.

No. 301937

>>301936
I agree but also I have a theory that there are more straight GNC women among imageboard users than in the general population, and one of the common traits is being sexually dominant. Pornsickness might be another factor, as well as having been a weeb in our teenage years and consumed fujo content which made us develop a fetish for seeing men being beaten, tortured or otherwise dominated sexually.

No. 301942

>>301932
NTA but Kyle MacLachlan from 1984 Dune

No. 301966

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>>301936
I'm really happy it has become part of LC culture. It's crazy how male dominance is the norm just about everywhere else, even in genres and places meant for women. It's alienating me but LC finally feels like a place the be with like-minded women.
>>301940
>Also I'm pretty sure there are some (tons maybe) women here who just genuinely want to hurt men
And they're based, I support them.

No. 301973

>>301940
> women here who just genuinely want to hurt men, no sexuality attached (or at least not overtly).
Yeah, that's me. I asked in another thread whether I'm still lesbian or bi since I can only see myself hurting men. I've got a big kink for sissifying them, pegging, and doing much more involving bodily harm, like cutting and hitting and such but it's not as if men turn me on sexually, it's the scenario and the fact that I'm doing degrading shit to a man while I'm still only sexually attracted to women.

No. 301974

>>301973
>sissifying
I don't get how women are into this misogynistic garbage? It's almost like blackface, but towards women instead.

No. 301975

>>301974
Maybe I don't take it personally since I don't wear any bimbo clothes. I don't associate the sissification with being a woman because it's more like their coomer perception of what being a woman is so I wouldn't mind treating them accordingly. As long as I get to humiliate them and hurt them, I honestly don't give a shit even if it was antifeministic somehow.
> It's almost like blackface, but towards women instead.
fucking cringe

No. 301977

>>301975
It doesn't matter whether you wear "bimbo clothes" or not; it's still fucked up.
>fucking cringe
Says the retard who sissifies men pretending it's some sort of sadistic mindgame when in reality you're just encouraging moids to make fun of woman and femininity. Hopefully you stay the fuck away from real women.

No. 301978

>>301977
Oh, okay I get it. This thread is "femdom" for men and not for women. Enjoy being another "dom" for a scrote to fulfill all his fantasies, you dumb bitch.

No. 301979

>>301978
I bet you fuck mtf trannies because you can't find a woman who would stand being around you. Sad.

No. 301980

>>301936
Insecure people usually want to be doms/dommes as a compensating mechanism, also heard autistic women have more androgens and testosterone and autists are overrepresented here so

No. 301981

>>301919
>Which "christian manga" is this?
Not a manga but I had to censor their penises.
Artist is Laovaan

No. 301984

>>301980
>male hormones
WTF
This seems like an anti-femdom cope.

No. 301985

>>301974
Same. Hate sissy crap and bolt from men who describe their fetish with that term. I used to know some F/m couples who practiced it and almost all of the moids have trooned out in the last few years. Crossdressing can be fun for me if a guy is neutral about it and treats it like regular clothing, but as soon as he acts coomery it's over.

No. 301991

>>301980
>women are naturally submissive so not being submissive means you’re full of male hormones
>only insecure women want to take charge sexually, confident women want to be degraded and used for males pleasure
Post tranny claws

No. 301992

>>301974
Sissy is a scrote fetish. Only L bitches pander to that.

No. 301993

>>301978
sissification is as "femdom" for men as you can get lmao

No. 301994

>>301940
If you’re “surprised” that CBT “hasn’t caught on” here, you’re a tourist and newfag.

No. 301995

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Femdom is LC culture because so many nonas are based.

No. 301997

>>301980
Ah yes, the truly self-assured women are only able to get off on being treated like shit by disgusting scrotes.

No. 301998

>>301980
The first part is true for men, but not women.

No. 302011

>>301978
nona are you retarded

No. 302016

>>301936
Because BDSM is just the socially acceptable way to show hatred towards your own sex or the opposite sex. This is why women tend to be masochists while men are sadists, it's an extension of their relationship dynamic outside of bed.

No. 302018

>>301980
>>302016
Excuse me, but what are you guys doing in this thread again?

No. 302021

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>>301991
Cope and strawman all you want but autistic women literally have higher testosterone and are moid brained(derailing)

No. 302022

>>302021
OMG everyone post your hands

No. 302042

>>301978
>dumb bitch
gtfo troon

No. 302048

>>302021
What does that have to do with le women = submission stupid fuck

No. 302051

>>302026
It’s not based. Humiliation is like their whole kink. Even if you’re forcing a scrote who is NOT into crossdressing against his will, he will eventually develop the association: schoolgirl skirt + thigh highs > female > slut > humiliation kink > sissy > troon. Only anime men can dress up in cute maid outfits and not get brain damage from it.

No. 302052

>>302021
>deviation from neurotypical socialized female behavior is moid brained
You fucking wish tranny. Rope.

No. 302067

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>>302021
>mfw my index and ring are of equal length and I have ADHD and bipolar disorder
wtf I can't believe this image is lying??????

No. 302069

>>302056
You need to be at least eighteen to post here.

No. 302070

>>302026
It's never based. You should never use anything related to femininity, female gender roles, or female clothing to humiliate someone. Also, I don't know why would you want to humiliate men and turn them into failed women. Why not humiliate men in masculine ways, like making them take a lot of pain because they should be able to handle it, making them slave away and give up money to you, etc.

No. 302077

>>301980
>>302021
This person posted this exact same take and image on CC months ago. He got bigged up by a couple of coping/seething trannies on CC, so he thought it'd work here, kek.

No. 302084

>>301936
I fucking love it that LC has so many based femdom enjoyers. It made me realize I'm into femdom too. You're doing God's work anons.

No. 302090

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>>302084
Hell yeah, welcome sis!
>>302085
Moids get out

No. 302109

>>302103
it's obvious there are underage posters and moids in this thread

No. 302110

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>>301978
Sissification is literally a male fetish. Also
>I get off to hurting men but I'm totally a lesbian guyz
>I don't wear bimbo clothes
>you dumb bitch
Both you and >>302085 are so clockable it almost reads as satire kek

No. 302146

>>302070
>>302051
Cognitive dissonance is a thing, psychology naturally plays a part in sex. Even if you're correct and assume everyone walks away from sex psychologically changed, women are still not a monolith and can like forced fem and humiliation. Even though they're similar, sissification and bimbo fetish have more going on compared to forced fem and come entirely from moids for moids.

>Why not humiliate men in masculine ways

What if the appeal is that he's a smaller or a feminine guy but is mostly secure in it and gets shit from other scrotes for it? Binding him and forcing him to mentally endure that previous bullying while I laugh at him in one of my cute dresses and treat him like my dollie, how is that making him a failed woman more than just my plaything? Because doll equals girl and girl equals bad? Presentation and behavior would change the psychological take-away, it's not exactly black and white.

No. 302983

>>301937
That's quite a long way to say "a high percentage of users here are autistic"

No. 303184

Girls I just want a cute obedient man to be my puppy, is this truly too much to ask?

No. 303262

>>298696
Nausea… If he doesn't have a medical condition like vertigo, smoker's lung, or obesity; then he probably went too long without drinking water. Sexual arousal can distract from hunger, thirst, pain, etc. Always give your subs water and orange slices at half-time.

No. 303263

>>297537
Don't splurge on anything expensive. You buy a cheap plastic one with lots of different ring size options. Measuring his dick and balls isn't good enough to know what works best for long-term wear. When you know the sizes you want, then you get a better metal one (if you haven't gotten bored of the fetish).

No. 303304

>>303184
No, in fact, you are being quite modest

No. 303393

I just started dating the most perfectly submissive man. I never even knew I was into femdom before and because of that I thought I wasn't very sexual in general, but this guy just brings something out of me I've never felt and I feel so much hornier than I ever have been in my life holy shit.

When we started dating he told me he liked that I was strong, and that he found powerful women attractive. Honestly at first I thought this was a red flag, because my understanding of "submissive" guys from seeing self-id'd "submissive" guys on reddit was that they are selfish lazy manchildren. But nonnas omg he's so perfect.

He calls me his queen, his empress, his goddess. I call him my knight, it's a bit cheesy but super cute. And he has this adorable way of blushing and turning his head away when I compliment him in a way he really likes, it's so fucking cute. He's definitely the "strong silent type," no one would ever guess what he's like in bed, which turns me on so much. He's definitely the servile type of sub, so devoted and obedient and sweet. Always opening doors and carrying my things, offering to get me things like drinks, snacks, etc. When he's over at my house he'll do my dishes for me without my asking. He gets this super cute, incredibly happy look on his face when I call him a good boy.

We play wrestle probably like 75% of the time as foreplay and I love pinning him down even though he's almost twice my size. I can't overpower him physically but he gets so turned on from wrestling me he stops being able to fight back, it's super cute and hot. Despite being strong he's a little bit out of shape so I make him work out and make fun of him while he does it, it's so cute to see him struggling with the weights all red in the face as I tease him for being so weak. Also it's such a power trip to objectify a man like that and make him work to look good for me the way I used to work so hard to look good for the shitty moids I dated in the past.

He'll pleasure me whenever I ask, and lots of times when I don't. He didn't have a ton of experience before me, and he is very teachable and interested in getting better at pleasing me. I love that he's so big and strong because I can hit and scratch and choke him and he can take it. Nonnas nothing feels so good in the world as stepping on a man's back and telling him he's a worthless inferior male as he diligently eats you out and you can see him getting ridiculously turned on from it.

So basically it's the best of both worlds as far as D/s type dynamics go, he's my sweet chivalrous devoted knight but I can also bully him and rough him up and we both love it.

Word to the wise, find a normie-ish shy guy and slowly introduce him to it. I have a strong personality in general so I figured that since he was attracted to me in part for that, he would be ideal sub material and so far it's the best relationship of my life.

No. 303394

>>303393
This sounds perfect; I'm so happy for you! He sounds charming and most importantly of all, he treats you how you deserve to be treated.

No. 303396

>>303393
This is adorable. It's usually a red flag for me when a guy says he's a sub, because yeah, selfish and needy and annoying is the usual way that turns out. This goes for girls too, not in the same way (passively "I'm pretty sub" is just normal obviously) but being very vocal about it tells me she's probably an attention whore who's internalized too many porn-y fantasies.

I fucking adore the strong "knight" type though, someone who's not annoying at all and just genuinely devoted to you and your happiness/pleasure. So rare, at least in an explicitly fetishized context (it's like half the cheap romance novel dynamics), but the sweetest thing. And the physical contrast makes it extra-hot, pretty much every femdom fantasy of mine involves someone much stronger than me submitting.

Tl;dr at least so far sounds like a keeper.

No. 303427

>>303393
How do you step on his back while he simultaneously eats you out? Anyway I hope this is real. If you're making this all up then kys!!!

No. 303436

>>303427
I assume there's some rhetorical flourish. lol If it's all supposed to be literal then, yeah, obviously fake. Still cute as hell if you ignore the anatomical weirdness.

No. 303450

>>303427
>>303436

He's on his hands and knees while I sit on the edge of the bed. I can easily put my foot flat down on his back while he has his head between my legs like this.

No. 303881

>>303393
Nonnie he sounds perfect, is his dick big, small or average? I just ask cause there tends to be the perception that sub males have small ones

No. 304022

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Found a christian man who I dominate. Thing is, is that I hate head (I'm too sensitive and it's my first relationship). I bought sex toys to do to him, such as using onaholes and whatnot and degrading him. I want to dominate him in other ways, like him giving me head, though I don't like receiving it as my vibrator feels better. I'm also sort of lazy, so I get annoyed when he takes 30+ minutes to cum and whatnot. I used a vibrating cage on him and tingling lube though I don't like that it makes him cum before me. He does everything for me, such as cleaning and whatnot (though, to be fair, I pay for almost 100% of our expenses as I have more income than him). I love him dearly, though I don't like that most femdom is still for his pleasure. Is there a way I can make it for me? I want to start dressing him up, and I've choked him before, though he enjoys it. I do, however like to continue even after he cums and he's super sensitive. We are both waiting until marriage until having PiV. I also would get mad at him being happy to give me head, since he gave 3 girls before me head and enjoyed it for a reason. He rejected me before, which is why I am a bit insecure about it. (Though, he completely loves me now, as he again, does a lot for me). Is there any more ways where I could get pleasure when I am too sensitive? Sorry for the long blogpost.

No. 304032

>>304022
It sounds like you've placed the focus on him and his pleasure. Rather than doing things to him, you should place the focus back on yourself. Personally, I really like my sub to give me body worship and rub my clit. Find things that you really like, that even make you feel a little bit "selfish" and make him do them.

It also seems like he hasn't adapting to your preferences when he's giving head. I'm going to guess (since I had similar problems with being "too sensitive" when receiving head) you probably may want it more slow and gentle, with more suction (kissing and sucking) rather than rough tongue motion. You may also feel overly sensitive because you don't feel safe around him. It sounds like he makes you anxious and that can mess with your sensitivity during sex, especially with something very intimate like oral. Maybe you can talk to him more about your insecurity. I know it may feel lame especially as the dominant party to open up about that, but if he loves you he will give you some reassurance.

No. 304055

>>303450
>hands
>AND knees
Nice.

No. 304086

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>>304032
Thank you nonnie. He has been worshiping me more after showing him your advice. I made him beg and get on his knees while I put my foot on his head. It was enjoyable. I will try it in the morning. There are times where I wake him up to surprises like that, so I will try that.

No. 304121

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I'm very sexually frustrated and it's making me go insane. I'm talking to a "submissive bottom" thembie (yeah, I know, difficult times) even though I'm more of a service top and struggle being dominant. Everyone just assumes I'm dominant because of how I look. Can I learn to be more dominant somehow? Or can someone tell me how bad of an idea all this is?

No. 304127

>>304121
Just say you’re not dominant if you’re not dominant lol

No. 304129

>>304127
I'm pretty sure I'll never have sex again then.

No. 304133

>>304129
Uh, why?

No. 304134

>>304133
mascs aren't very popular and the only time anyone shows interest is in a "please step on me" way. It's like the imagined dominance is the only thing people find attractive. So take that away and there's nothing left.

No. 304138

>>304134
Is this helpful?

No. 304139

>>304138
I'm openly butch4both. Haven't come across anyone else like that. Unless you count full blown TiFs who try to be stealth irl so it gets awkward.

No. 304148

>>304134
Anon the people who still think butch automatically fills the “dominant role” are uninformed, possibly spicy straights. I’ve seen a healthy amount of push back against that sort of “heteronormative” thinking lately so don’t worry. Just be candid with whomever you’re with. Disregard the step-on-me internet bisexuals, they are just objectifying you like moids do.

No. 304154

>>304148
Even my peaked bi friend who dated a butch before admitted that she was surprised when I complained about dealing with this and she had never heard of a submissive butch before.
>Disregard the step-on-me internet bisexuals, they are just objectifying you like moids do.
I know this is bad, but I'm kinda starved of attention so I'm taking the crumbs, even though I don't want to step on anyone. I don't view being objectified by women the same way as when scrotes do it, because I'm actually attracted to women and do want to be sexually desired by them too. I know this is libfemmy and scrotebrained, but if there was a lesbian stripclub and anyone was actually interested in butches, I would join as a stripper. I have no idea how that would work and it's completely retarded, but I don't think I mind that kind of attention when it's actually from women. I don't mind being "used" for sex either, if anyone actually still wanted that, like yeah I'm into servicing. The main thing is that I don't want the experience to be used as a story to titillate a scrote later, which does seem to happen often and is gross. Though if the few women who do show interest want someone dominant, I have no clue how to do that. I'm a head-empty simp who doesn't want to disappoint.

No. 304799

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No. 304803

>>304799
Spoiler that.

No. 307272

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This might sound cringy but my ultimate femdom fantasy is basically making a scrote suffer and humiliate him with another woman who's my partner (in crime and otherwise), but not in the porny moid threeway fantasy way. I feel like I need to find another unhinged bi woman and we'd be the perfect menace together. Probably not gonna happen but a woman can always dream

No. 307315

Is there some kind of overlap with sub men and foot fetishes? More often than not they have some kind of fetish for feet be it to show appreciation or to feel downgraded, with an emphasis on socks. I feel stupid but I guess I never put two and two together and didn’t expect it to be so common.

No. 307423

>>307315
Paraphilias cluster in moids. "Sub" moids have eroticized "male submissiveness" that it's difficult for most of them them not to fall down other rabbit holes like feet, sissy, waste, or whatever else that tickles their ero-humiliation fancy. Actual sub men who set aside their own interests are rare and any moid who leads with his fetish is bad news.

No. 307429

Thoughts on hogcuffing the guy (or your girl partner)?

No. 307469

>>307272
I have had this fantasy too nona, you're not alone.

No. 307475

>>304134
I am a femme married to a butch woman and we are both switches, but I identify more with being a domme. Even when I receive I still feel dominant. I ask, she gives.

There are lots of lesbians who love butch women.

No. 307485

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No. 307490

>>307429
hot. idk what else you wanna hear nonnie, are you asking for suggestions about what to do after hogcuffing someone?

No. 307623

soo dumb but what kind of memes can i send to this guy to get him to open up to showing me that side of his? i feel like if i ask outright he’ll clam up

No. 307757

So there's this really cute guy, he's a bisexual whore who has a lot of experience with dominant men. I feel so insecure that I won't be able to perform to his expectations because I'm a tiny femlet and won't be able to go as rough on him as men do. The previous scrotes I've fucked only larped as subs to get in my pants, therefore I have minimal experience with assplay and pegging. How do I get over my fears? I'm finally getting the real deal and I don't want to fuck it up.

No. 307768

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Cute

No. 307774

>>307768
hideous (the redhead guy)

No. 307846

>>307768
its shame he is drawn so fuck ugly as the style is cute and im a sucker for feet

No. 307863

>>307846
Ah, a fellow nona of culture I see! I agree.

No. 307879

>>307846
>>307774
thats a woman

No. 307884

>>307768
Nice, do you happen to know the artist's name?

No. 307885

>>307879
even worse

No. 309704

>>307768
Lowkey have a fantasy of being with a tough guy, maybe a little obnoxious but who would listen to me and adores me not in a puppy-like way, but genuinely respects me and would let me ‘lead him’.

No. 309706

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No. 309707

>>309706
When his defenses are that strong, you know he secretly wants it.

No. 309712

>>307485
Cute but he should be naked with welts all over his chest imo

No. 309793

>>309706
>pegging a guy at all
That's a no from me, dog. Making him feel good and pleasuring his prostate? Fuck outta here.

No. 309813

Hey nonas. Where do you even start with finding guys who like that?

I relate so much to this thread, but I myself never found a single guy like that.

How did it start for you? Where would you go? Any place, internet or IRL, where I could find a guy like that.

No. 310069

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>>309793
It's femdom time
For your pleasure only

No. 310075

>>310069
Ten minutes later all that's loaded is what looks like an afro with toes coming out of it and I can tell you right now that isn't sexy

No. 310086

>>310075
seconding this anon, wtf is this selfpost pov shit

No. 310125

>>309813
Shy vanilla guys irl, not terminally online, not addicted to porn (good luck tho if you’re young).

No. 310241

>>310075
Took me a few minutes of twisting and turning my head, but I think it's a woman eating out another woman.

No. 310253

nonnie please give me femdom flavored book recs (not erotica). i'm lonely cause i can't date until next year and i'm one bad ao3 fic away from jumping off a cliff.

i went through a bunch of role reversal rec lists, they mentioned 'the queen's thief' and it was so bland and boring to read.. but if you know something with a similarish dynamic, that would be great. if you want to share erotica recs for other nonnies thats cool too ofc.

No. 310281

>>310125
Maybe it’s bc I’m young, but I’ve met only two shy guys in my life, who I think weren't porn addicts(massive regret to never asking them out bc they were always so cute).

The rest of the guys in my life: addicted to porn, and believe women were made to be bottoms “unless it’s hot”. And they wonder why I barely date

No. 310409

what is the correlation with asian dudes and being submissive i swear most of the submissive guys i've come across are east asian

though that's not counting the weirdo sissy dudes who are comprised of 100% white guys

No. 310590

>>310409
Personally I think it has to do with se asian family dynamics. Boys are taught to be extremely respectful of their parents and asian moms have very high expectations and have no problem telling their kids off/punishing them. As a result the boys grow up with a female authority figure/role model who is very strict and authoritative yet loving, and I think it transfers to the types of relationships they have with women as adults.

No. 310606

>>310409
Huh? That hasn’t been my experience at all. Most of them seem to have trad ideals where the man is supposed to be the head of the family. But then I don’t really talk to westernized Asian men.



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