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No. 248328
The good, the bad, the ugly. Share your experiences here, what are the best apps to use, your success stories, cringeist interactions, horror, etc.
Previously
>>>/g/82463 No. 248648
>>248641Glad I'm not the only one who feels that way. I don't know if it's because of the wall or if it's because men just decide to lose all sense of personality/style once they enter their mid 20s or if it's a gen Z thing. Zoomer men are probably awful in their own way, but they're more likely to dress nicely/interesting and be less boring on their profile.
I also connected my Spotify just to see what my top artists were, cringed horribly and disconnected my Spotify only to see that my top artists are still showing up on my profile. Fuck this is going to be so horrible and embarrassing.
No. 249016
>>248357I have to also agree with anon
>>248610 about Okcupid. So far the only guys that I've been on date with on dating apps have mainly been on Okcupid with one being from Tinder. I hardly get any matches on Bumble and I kept forgetting to create an account on Hinge.
I also recommend staying far away from Badoo, too many weird randos matches with me and send me messages before I can even see their profiles. I tried it out of curiousity and I regretted it.
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Am I being too picky if I consider these teams a red flag? Never had a good experience with a Raiders/Dodger combo fan
No. 249310
>>249285Had a similar experience a couple years back, short tech loving guy with pics of him next to a marvel statue. I had just moved to a tiny new town and knew nobody here. He mostly just looked non threatening so I gave him a chance. He went from being amazed that a woman actually messaged him to getting so lazy with responses after one day. I was leading the convo and he talked about himself without flipping the questions back on me. He wasn't interesting enough for it to make sense that he talked about himself so much. He made a couple comments that I think were attempts at seeming confident? They didn't land and I noped out. I've spotted him a few times since then irl. Always shopping with his mother. Never with anyone else. Small town boy who has never left home. Why did I even…
Any time I've gone near a guy that ticks those three cursed boxes (short, tech, marvel) they've been the kind to tell you you're their first date in years.. then they make you pay for your coffee separately to theirs and want date number 2 to be at your house. They certainly don't help themselves get out of their dating rut. I've been dealing with low confidence at the times when I attempted to date down… it's never gone well. Might as well aim higher if the 'grateful nerd' stereotype is a myth and most of them are as rude and cocky as anything now.
No. 249318
>>249287Are we shilling 4chan as a means of online dating now? I knew there were plenty of desperates on here dating 4chan moids but I didn't think we'd go full on retard mode recommending it.
Ladies don't go there for any contacts, it's full of misogynistic scrotes. Even if he appears to be a ""good"" one on the surface, he's still exposed to women-hate rhetoric on the daily basis. When that happens it's inevitable it's normalized to him in some capacity. As a woman you're only putting yourself in a bad position by contacting moids off /soc/. Don't be retarded and just go on normie dating apps.
No. 249626
I feel like I got so lucky with a cute guy I met on Okcupid a few months ago. He's only a few years younger than me and we have been on a few dates so far, I hope he ask me out.
>>249272To be honest I do match with a lot of weebs which goes nowhere. The previous date I did get from Okcupid was more like a normal nerd guy who has seen one anime. The guy I mentioned above is an anime fan but he's more of a shy awkward nerd. I rarely ever found poly stuff on my Okcupid.
No. 249763
>>249287I met my bf off this and tbf he is not a 4channer at all, just a bored normie who decided to use the site after hearing about it in media during pandemic when people were stuck online and couldn’t go out. Definitely use friend finder threads but you’ll still bump into coomers and mentally ill moids.
I’m very grateful to have him, he is the opposite of a 4ch moid, kind and considerate, respectful, beautiful (he looks like a crossbreed between Clint Eastwood and Timothy Chalamet), polite, dresses well (by my standards, he dresses vintage and posh which looks good to me), and he comes from old money too so he has all sorts of antiques and interesting historical knowledge, also reads poetry, enjoys literature and loves classical music. Very smart boy as well, knows in-depth knowledge about politics, geography, history, philosophy - can have all sorts of deep discussions with him. He’s always learning and feeding his big brain. I think that’s what I love most about him. And he’s incredibly hardworking and disciplined, hardly uses the internet because he’s always keeping busy. I’m a loser in comparison to him lol but my god I love him so much and this has turned into a rant I’m so sorry lol
Also I didn’t get scammed or anything. I live with him now and met his family. I still feel very much an outsider because I didn’t go to prestigious schools or met important political figures. Hoping that they don’t look down on me and think he’s settled, which they probably DO think lol - there had been some dramatics when we first started dating but they’ve accepted me now because I make him incredibly happy
No. 249777
>>249776Lmaooooo virgos are a trip. Idk man, at least the fatties are not catfishhing you.
I once met with a man for a date and he was using a photo more than 5 years old. I didn't even recognize him on the date- told him
I was saving that seat. That was fucking awkward and 20 minutes later i circled back to the fact it was fucked he used the old photos.
He got angry and rude and I walked away.
He proceeded to yell at me across the parking lot and blew up my phone for 4 hours straight until I blocked him (way back, like 10? Years ago?)
No. 249781
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>>249763I met my bf through KF and we’re set to get married soon. Granted, I’ve always kinda had a crush on him and would get excited if he liked my posts etc. I was surprised when he dm’d me on discord. Wouldn’t recommend finding anyone on KF though kek.
No. 249788
>>249781Aww! That's so cute
nonny! Are you nervous for your wedding?
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>>249781What r ur usernames?
No. 249796
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>>249788No, not really. I always knew we’d get married the moment when I felt he was a safe person. We’ve been together 4 years this July.
>>249793Sorry girl I can’t give that info out. We’re not trying to get the most coveted KF achievement lol.
No. 249812
All of these last few posts make me sick.
>>249781How would one even form a crush on a forum user? This larp is too weak.
No. 249957
>>249812It's weird and hard to explain but I always felt a connection??
>>249834No it's real, all of our friends know about where we met except the parents. We're long distance too but have met multiple times. I'm moving there this spring though.
No. 250428
>>249763i also have a bf of higher status than me as well. my bf is a normie type of nerd (not a 4channer) and probably never used image boards. i got lucky because i met him irl through a college course. he wanted to date someone smarter than him but he knows a lot of guys who would purposefully try for the opposite. be careful to all my single nonnies out there, apparently guys seeking out dumber women is common bc it's an ego thing but imo it's really worrying if you think about how many women get stuck in
abusive situations and are reliant upon a male partner.
No. 250793
>>249318I met my ex through there by his friend who is a soc user. My ex was instead a reddit user which is arguably worse imo. However, I rather not go on soc again to find a relationship, especially a serious one.
>>249763>>250428I am happy with being single, but nonnies I am SUPER jelly! Like how is it possible?? Of course all the guys I would be into are taken, but I am happy you found guys who made you happy! Good wishes!
I rather be single as I feel that most guys cannot catch up to me in conversation, ambitions, goals, etc., and the few guys I like… I get rejected because I get super nervous or eager so it never works out. It does not help that I am picky, but I rather die alone than settle.
No. 250819
>>250793Keep that mentality
nonny, never settle for anything less than what matches your ideal or goes above your expectations! But it also helps to put yourself out there, even dating apps. They’re exhaustive and what not but there are diamonds in the rough, it’s just a matter of right time, right place so it feels like fate. That’s what happened to me and I’m so happy I never settled and waited for the right one! I don’t believe that “love finds you” - it can’t find you if you are holed up in your room and never reach out and give it that opportunity to find you, so yeah, definitely do whatever you’re comfortable with to help that person find you, whether that be dating apps, in-person events, or the internet
No. 251019
>>250819Ayart and I do put myself out there on a whole bunch of apps. And if I have no interest then I am not afraid of telling guys that as well. I also ask them if they are interested in going out again to gauge interest. I am not afraid to voice my wants because it makes me feel more in control and I worry less about if a guy likes me or not. I am not going to waste my own time and attention on a guy with no interest in me.
I am still hopeful in finding love with a kind, and caring man who takes care of himself and respects me with similar interests and values.
No. 254285
>>254208>Is having a fuck friend better than having a relationship?why? so the guy can still use you as an emotional dumpster without actually having to give anything back?
>>254216 is right, fwb are so stressfull for women, don't bother.
No. 254614
>>254322I'm in my mid 20s and I also have no time for that either. so many of my friends either are getting married or had partners for 5+ years
>>254216>>254285yeah definitely can't do that, it's too emotionally draining especially if someone ends up getting feelings or feel like they are supposed to be exclusive with the fwb
No. 254696
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What kind of pics do you like best on dating apps? I want to set up an account but I have no good pics of myself recently. I never really take selfies and I don't have any interesting pics of me doing anything except like graduation pictures from like 2019… I would like to show myself actually doing things in my photos instead of just selfies bc I feel like that would attract people who would be interested in what I was doing rather than just looks if that makes sense
I could unironically have fishing photos like scrotes since I do that kek
No. 256704
>>254614I tried the FWB because I too thought maybe I should try it as most men don’t seem to want anything serious and let me tell you, unless I’m just extremely unlucky, it’s a scam of giving men what they want with very little in return and they will treat you like shit for it and feel 0 guilt as their excuse is they didn’t lead you on. After the deed is done they will distance themselves and be less friendly, and because of conveyor belt of women on dating apps men are spoiled for choice you become a pump and dump and there is no reason to really do it again with you on to the next. It wouldn’t be so bad if they were just honest and used the term “one night stand”,
friends with benefits is so misleading as they usually cut the friendship off as soon as things get intimate.
I’m a little bitter because I feel regardless of what path you choose - looking for friendship, relationships, fwb, the end result is going to be the same dealing with cumbrain moids.
No. 257148
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I'm going to stealth some subliminal cows into my dating profile somehow. If i ever meet any of you nonnies in the wild use the word 'anonitas' and then we'll both know we're farmers
No. 257375
>>257257thank you for affirming my belief that nothing is wrong with me :)
i do admit that my profile probably makes me look a little intellectually intimidating to men just looking for girls dtf. which i guess i am fine missing out on them since i don’t even engage in casual sex. i’ll try hinge in my area and hope i have some better luck!
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>sign up to lex
>it's all picrel
I hate Hinge and Bumble though so where do I go from here?
No. 259231
>>254696All the typical advice is bullshit imo. All I want to see are solo shots with different angles and lighting. "Hobby" pics are stupid, and so are group pics. Mirror selfies are fine. I swipe left on any profile that looks too "slick".
>>256987I also swipe left at any hint of negativity. It's a turnoff whether or not it's applicable.
No. 260438
Well nonnies, I managed to meet a non weird man on one of the most degenerate dating apps out there. Feeld is the dating app for kinky people and I made an account in moderate desperation browsing for softer (more submissive) men who looked masculine. A diamond in the rough sure, but sometimes I browse out of curiosity. Last time I checked it out it was full of fedora-wearing or spiritual or generally degenerate men but the profiles were good for a laugh.
Though I ended up chatting to this relatively normie guy who was told about this app through a friend and we went on a pretty good date tonight. He's very offline, a little older. I spoke fairly openly about sex given the context of how we met and he seems just… normal? Which I really like, it exceeded my expectations of the particular type I was looking for.
Surely there's something wrong with him, but given I'm not looking for anything too serious at the moment he seems like a nice person to chill out with, fuck relentlessly, listen to music and chat over wine. It's early to say obviously, but it's overall nice to feel respected and treated well on a first date, on top of them being interesting and hearing you out, let alone from an app like Feeld.
No. 260454
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>>260438Also I've compiled just some random profiles from the app to show you all what a true range of men (I have it set to women too but they're all the same type of alt poly coloured hair overweight women you'd expect) but here, enjoy
No. 260840
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Disgusting. The first thing my profile says is no single fathers.
No. 261180
>>261071His profile also said he got kicked out of Knott’s Scary Farm.
Wish I had asked him why but I was so disgusted about the 4 baby mommas I blocked him immediately.
Bet he thought he was a cool tough guy and assaulted a performer.
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Maybe we need a dating apps cringe thread
No. 261581
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Seggsy time
No. 261590
>>261300This
is the dating app cringe thread.
>The good, the bad, the ugly.99% of scrotes on OLD are bottom of the barrel, so most things here are "ugly."
No. 263146
>>262527Maybe once every few months to a year, it depends on how much of an impression you're trying to make.
>>262534A guy who I met on Okcupid, as well as matched with me on tinder too, uses photos from back when he was a university student with all his friends, he's currently 27. In his dating app profile he looked like a tipsy mess and was clean shaven. I went on a date with him last year and he looks quite different than his profile. He has a beard, mustache and he gained a bit of weight but he looks kinda better than his profile.
No. 263955
>>249813Misogynists are everywhere men are. Do you really think tindr and bars are misogynist-free lol?
>>249819NTA but this is correct
nonnie! Unfiltered talking let's you really know who someone is.
I get frustrated with empty profiles and the performance acts people do in person.
It's better to get as much information as soon as possible.
Especially because you can talk for someone for months or years without them ever opening up too.
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How retarded and delusional should i get before i go and try bumble premium just for travel mode to find my overseas crush. Also kinda wanna try ldr lol
No. 265812
>>265809Kek. I'm the one of those who replied and I thought you were joking. Ok so, don't use filters buut do a light makeup look and always take pictures using flattering lightening. Maybe do your hair and get a cute outfit, take some pictures outside with a friend or something.
Most people won't notice your skin issues so don't worry about that, just present yourself the way youll look on the date.
No. 265821
>>265809and this is weird, but How can I get on a dating site that will make it hard for just anyone to go on my profile?
I have a fear of my family finding out i'm on a dating site. I don't want to post pictures but at the same time, I know I won't get any attention unless I do. Whats the best sites to limit in a way WHO can view my profile/pictures?
No. 265875
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I thought Lex was a dating app
No. 266789
>>266779That sounds a bit silly to me anon. Of course if he’s on a
dating app he is going to be matching with and messaging other women, that’s the whole point. It would be a red flag if he sent your friend some gross low effort pickup line or bombarded her with messages, but writing a paragraph (that is presumably related to her interests) doesn’t sound desperate to me.
No. 266878
>>266874Censoring haram words that way like, may Allah forgive me for saying this,
twtter, predates twtterfags doing it
No. 266977
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I tried tinder for the first time that app is so messy. Why are they so upfront about their bdsm kinks
No. 266983
>>266979Totally fine with vegans as long as they don't try to convert me (I'd like to go vegetarian but no further).
Not sure what woke entails so I'm a little suspicious of that one. If you mean they're politically left-leaning but not a psycho about it, that's not a deal-breaker.
Would heavily consider dating an FTM or bi male if I really thought we could be happy together.
The rest are unappealing.
No. 266993
>>266979>PolyamorousHard no
>Conservative/republican/right wingDepends on how hard they lean into politics, I have some family that lean republican that are alright, but I'm not listening to Fox news or political podcast all day
>Woke (not extreme)Again it depends on how much they lean into it, I'm not listening to how every little thing is '
problematic'
>VeganPossibly if they weren't crazy or tried to convert me, I also own animals that eat other animals so idk if that could work
>Bi moidNo moids
>FTM>MTFI don't want to deal with gender bullshit…
>"nonbinary" womanI could possibly see this one working, if they were chill about it and not overly sensitive about gendie issues. I've know some nb people who are cool with being called whatever, they just see themselves as neutral I guess
No. 267017
>>266979>PolyamorousIf they're not too annoying, sure
>Conservative/republican/right wingNope, I matched with one before, she immediately started being misogynistic about the other women on the app. I can handle weird pronouns, I can handle some trans stuff, but I can't handle old school misogyny and calling other women harlots and making violent sexual jokes about women. Another one wanted to become a cop and I can't stand for that. That's also just a hotbed of misogyny and making fun of rape
victims.
>VeganI'm vegan, so would actually be a plus in my eyes.
>FTMYeah that's fine
>MTFI don't like dick
>Bi moidI don't like dick
>"nonbinary" womanYeah fine
No. 267291
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Not the worst bio but imagine wanting to date a guy who has a lot of female friends he got to know on tinder. And somehow the way he says he likes loyal curvy cute women and under that he talks about dogs is dehumanising to me.
Every single Slovakian guy I've met or interacted with has been full of neuroticism and red flags, what the hell happens during their upbringing, is it that traumatic? Kek
No. 267294
>>266979>PolyamorousHard no. I don't wanna get syphilis no thank you. And the drama.
>Conservative/republican/right wingNo. They're insufferable and I wanna work and not be a housemaid who has many children.
>Woke (not extreme)Yes if not extreme. I could peak them anyway.
>VeganYes. No problem.
>FTMMaybe.
>MTFHarn no. Fetishists.
>Bi moidI used to date one, I guess it would depend on how gay he'd act or how out he'd been. If he would only have faint attraction and wasn't likely to cheat, okay. If he dated men before, no because he'd probably cheat. Gays are easy.
>"nonbinary" womanProbably. Again I think I could peak her.
No. 267479
>>266979I wrote this days ago but don’t seem to have posted it, weird.
>Woke (not extreme)Realistically only this one, it’s also a dealbreaker. For the rest of them (00:55—00:58 vidrel).
No. 268994
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I've been playing "spot the personality disorder".
I find that in my experience "sarcasm" really means "disrespect".
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>>268994Found another one.
No. 269340
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I checked the HER app and all my new likes are from AGP's. I literally have the terf signal "vagitarian". Fuck off please.
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What does this mean
No. 269910
>>269902>police protecting vulnerable groupsThey could do fuckall for me when I was abused by my father. They also take a gender neutral approach and go "both sides" in DV disputes. They also accuse gay couples of provocation for walking hand-in-hand when they get bashed. They also have chat groups where they swap CP and bestiality porn. Any of their colleagues who complain about it, end up getting fired. There was a documentary recently about how everyone makes dark rape jokes about
victims and the female cops are pressured to go along with it and happily do so. They're the ultimate NLOGs. Women are discouraged from reporting rapes,
victim blamed, if a woman defends herself she's the one who is going to get arrested not the man, some women get raped and murdered by cops. It's a very tribalistic environment not unlike the military and I've noticed that female cops tend to cover up for their male counterparts and I don't want to fucking deal with that shit. I wouldn't want a cop in my life constantly watching me, it's about as retarded as dating a glowie and with my job I could actually be in opposition to the police at times, so that would cause conflict in the relationship for sure due to aforementioned tribalistic shit. No not because I want to represent violent men, but because I don't agree with evicting old ladies, bullying rape
victims and generally supporting the patriarchal state apparatus. They enforce the shitty laws I critique and hate. I don't feel safe around them at all.
No. 270360
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Polyfags are always so hostile. And ugly.
No. 270686
>>264960Just found out today that my friend who's from the UK is in an ldr with someone from the US. He's planning on flying over to see her in a few months, have no clue how long they known each other. All I can do is wish him luck.
The last friend I knew who had a ldr relationship never even got to see the person after 5 years of dating. And he was pretty broke, just like my other friend.
No. 270705
>>266979>PolyamorousFuck no
>Conservative/republican/right wingPerhaps
>Woke (not extreme)Perhaps
>VeganNo
>FTMNo
>MTFPerhaps>Bi moidPerhaps
>"nonbinary" womanNo, I'm not calling anyone a "they"
I would feel retarded talking to people about "them"
>>26992240% of them
No. 270708
>>266979>Polyamorousno
>Conservative/republican/right wingno
>Woke (not extreme)if he's gc and not annoying maybe otherwise no
>Veganugh preferably not but if i reaaaally liked him sure
>FTMno, i'm straight
>MTFew no
>Bi moiddepends how bi. like if he's effeminate or has ever taken it up the ass no
>"nonbinary" womanno, i'm straight
No. 270713
>>266979>Polyamoroushard no
>Conservative/republican/right winghard no
>Woke (not extreme)depends on what you mean by "extreme" and also what cause they're particularly woke about
>Veganif not too preachy I could go for one
>FTMonly if not on T, still has breasts (excluding mastectomies for actual medical reasons) and not too deep into gender shit
>MTFhard no
>Bi moidin theory ok, if not actually sexy, in real life usually tranny chasers and/or anal freaks and/or otherwise gigacoomers so I'd lean towards no, but only a soft no
>"nonbinary" womansame as FTM, they're basically the same except nonbonereees are less likely to actually go through the mutilation, also obviously much less likely to be the "male brained tru transsexual type" and can probably more easily be peaked with solid arguments that debunk TRA logic
No. 270714
>>266979>polyamorousfuck no and this easily the worst option. if i'm not the one special person to someone and vice-versa, what's the point. they're also literally never not obnoxious no matter how much they might insist otherwise.
>conservative/right wingthe furthest i'd go in that direction is someone with some edgy/anti-woke views. full on conservative, no.
>wokethis is very vague and could mean a lot of things. pronouns in the bio sex posi trans friendly Male Feminist? fuck no. a guy who just maybe sort of cringily talks about punching billionaires and whatnot? sure.
>vegansure, easily the best option here
>FTMno. nobody transitioning looks attractive/don't care for gender bullshit.
>MTFno. nobody transitioning looks attractive/don't care for gender bullshit.
>bi moidprobably not. recently talked to one on tinder and could only see him as a gay man. they also tend to be extra annoying about muh erasure and evul straight women who don't want to fuck them + want open relationships to ~explore~
>"nonbinary" womanno, i'm straight + tend to get annoyed by these types even platonically
No. 270744
>>266979I'm bi and
>Polyamorousabsolutely not
>Conservative/republican/right wingfox news conservative no but generally it depends
>Woke (not extreme)also depends
>Vegansure, if they were okay with me having eggs/dairy around them
>FTMno
>MTFno
>Bi moidI have dated a bi moid, but it wasn't something we really discussed a lot, I wouldn't date a man who constantly told me about his gay fantasies though
>"nonbinary" womanno
No. 270754
>>270753Also
>woke Depends how “woke”
No. 270952
>>266979Straight…
>PolyamorousEx wanted to be and I am not accepting that shit.
>Conservative/republican/right wingI cannot handle dealing with the amount of misogyny they will spout and even think of. Absolutely no.
>Woke (not extreme)If they are not extreme that is fine, as long as they respect my views.
>VeganI am massive carnivore so it will not work out…
>FTMNo, I want a man who is born male.
>MTFNever. I am sorry for my bi and lesbian nonnies who have to put up with this shit.
>Bi moidEx wanted to be a selfish bi and have it both ways with men and women, I am not putting up with this anymore in men.
>"nonbinary" womenNo because I like men. As for nonbinary men, I feel as if they more insufferable (and less attractive) than enby women.
>>270938Nonny, I dated a bi moid. Literally asked me if he can have sex with men to fulfill his desire and make him feel sexually complete and that because I was saving myself sexually for the right time. It was never enough to be with me, I knew it, and foolishly accepted it at the time. I will respect their sexuality, but I am not taking that risk again as I am afraid the next bi man I date wants to be a selfish bi and will make me feel inferior for being a woman who cannot fully fulfill their desire for a man.
All the options are difficult, but I think it is good to put to perspective what you and others find more difficult or dealable.
No. 271047
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I keep Lex on my phone for posts like this
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>>271047Another from someone else
No. 271062
>>266979Straight
>PolyamorousFuck no, petri dish
>Conservative/republican/right wingNo to conservative and right wing, can't talk on the republican thing since I'm not American and managed to avoid learning the meaning of that word ever since the first elections I witnessed back in 2012 and I refuse to break that streak.
>Woke (not extreme)Depends on what kind of woke.
>VeganSure. I'm unintentionally eating mostly vegan anyways, I wouldn't mind a last push or anything like that to actually pull through with it.
>FTMNot applicable, but no out of principle.
>MTFEw
>Bi moidI guess as long as he doesn't want me to stick anything up his ass
>"nonbinary" womanNot applicable
No. 271067
>>270938My bf is bi but tbh bi men are all just degenerate coomers, bf included. It's best to avoid them.
He is also "polyamorous" of course.
No. 271150
I've been dabbling back in dating apps again and I hate it. I don't even want a relationship, I'm moreso looking for a friends with benefits situation. But every scrote just seems to fuck off once they've gotten what they want from me. It feels like I can't have any sexual agency, men will always hold power here. I chat to each one on the first date and clearly describe I'm just after an ongoing casual thing, someone who wants to have fun but isn't looking for anything serious. Also that I don't like one night stands. I know it's stupid of me to expect that they'd see me after sleeping with me, but I also don't understand what goes through a moids head when an attractive, sexually veracious woman is essentially presenting them with the opportunity of consistent, no strings attached sex. Why would you turn that down? Why would you stop texting a woman who has told you she thinks you're hot and wants to sleep with you on occasion?
I've been ghosted twice now, after two seemingly ok dates. I slept with them both because I'm fucking horny and just want to have fun with someone, but then feel gross days after when they just completely go silent on me. I realise this is partially my fault, but it's not even that I'm all invested in them? It's the fact that I want consistency without emotional commitment because a relationship doesn't interest me right now. I just want sex, and my vibrator just doesn't compare to the touch of a human. One night stands are terrible given you don't know each other's bodies yet, wouldn't these stupid scrotes want to sleep with a woman more than once? Boggles my mind that even just finding a regular lay is so hard in this day and age.
Years ago this never happened to me, I could meet someone and engage in a casual, ongoing relationship so easily. Things would peter out eventually, but we'd at least see each other every so often, connect sexually, have a bit of fun and stopped hanging out for other reasons. I swear the dating scope has completely shifted in a mere 10 years, and scrotes are only getting worse.
No. 271172
>>271161NTA but I know of more people who did "friends with benefits" thing than "one night stand" types so it's not THAT retarded to expect; maybe not on dating apps though, idk.
Also it's bound to get messy eventually at some point
No. 271368
>>266979>PolyamorousNO
>Conservative/republican/right wingNO
>Woke (not extreme)Depends, I've fixed handmaidens before.
>VeganYes, most lesbians in my city are vegan or vegetarian anyway.
>FTMSoft no. Some just wanna do pronouns and don't dabble in the rest, but they're rare.
>MTFI'm a lesbian so no, never.
>Bi moidSee above.
>"nonbinary" womanMaybe, if it looks like I can fix her. She'd have to be really beautiful or interesting for me to bother though.
>>269768>"Oh I'm training to be in the police/army/navy"Hard no. Fuck cops and soldiers.
No. 271372
>>266979Straight woman, so this applies to moids
>PolyamorousNo
>Conservative/republican/right wingMaybe, as long as not extreme or hateful of people
>Woke (not extreme)Perhaps
>VeganAbsolutely not, somehow all my exes have been vegan/vegetarian and they all tried to convert me. I just want to eat my meals in peace without someone giving me a dirty look, trying to make me feel guilty, or asking me to watch Dominion with them. They always struggle to find food and try to make me eat their shitty tofu chicken when we go out instead of the real thing. Then they dump me when I don't convert even though they say they're fine with it. Yes I'm mad. In males veganism is pathetic too.
>FTMNo
>MTFNo
>Bi moidNo
>"nonbinary" womanNo
No. 271390
>>271150>Why would you stop texting a woman who has told you she thinks you're hot and wants to sleep with you on occasion?I'm convinced men are mentally crippled and the thrill of fucking a new chick overshadows any logical thinking they might entertain. Which they won't anyway, they're men and having a high bodycount is a huge flex for them. I'm sorry you had bad experiences.
>>271161Nice retarded opinion you have there. Seriously though, what's retarded about not wanting a serious long term relationship but still craving intimacy and sex? One would prefer a trusted partner for that sort of deal, not some rando, right?
No. 271428
>>266979>PolyamorousDrama, STD risk since there's almost always at least one bi manwhore in these equations, hard no
>Conservative/republican/right wing and Woke (not extreme)Depends on how open they are to discussing and actually explaining how they arrive at their beliefs and if their beliefs allow them to have a baseline of respect towards me and how I conduct my life. I never fully recovered from my euphoric fedora tipper days and enjoy casually debating people too much. I can fix him/her yada yada
>VeganSure if it's for non-ideological reasons. I think the vast majority of animals produced for food are unethically treated, but I think there exist ethical ways to care for animals that ultimately end up as food and I feel like a lot of vegans don't agree with that (otherwise they would eat animal products in which the animals were ethically treated). If the person is dedicated enough to commit to a vegan diet, then I think they believe strongly enough about animal welfare that they might resent my views over time. Also, eating out instantly becomes a pain in the ass with vegans.
>FTM>MTFI've peaked too hard and can't imagine myself entertaining their mental illness unless they were non-op (not just pre-op) and a personal 10/10. Only for a one night stand or a short-term fwb thing though. I'm too autistic to keep the charade up for long.
>Bi moidDespite being bi myself, I don't fucking trust bi moids to be monogamous when they say they will be. I'm sure there's good ones around, but I've been burned too many times to entertain the possibility anymore.
>"nonbinary" womanIf she was otherwise really great, then I would maybe try my hand at fixing her.
>>271422I feel bad for agreeing with this since I understand wanting the type of situation the original anon wants, but what was she expecting? Especially if she's as hot as she says she is, then not only did those moids get to empty their balls but their egos probably got inflated enough to continue trying their luck with other women
No. 271468
>>266979
>PolyamorousNo theyre always an ugly looking couple. Don't want to get into whatever issue they got going
>Conservative/republican/right wingNo.
>Woke (not extreme)Maybe. But I'll be constantly annoyed by them. I don't see a longterm future with these
>VeganSure. Just as long as they don't try to change my lifestyle. I love eating chicken and beef
>FTMMaybe. I want the normal ones not the aidens.
>MTFNo
>Bi moid50/50.
>"nonbinary" womanYes. I've been that nonbinary woman so I can safely say that these women will grow out of that phase and just be that lesbian/bisexual woman who's GNC
No. 271585
>>271422>>271521I get what you're trying to say but you're missing the point. Op isn't crying and having her heart broken by these men, she's perplexed that they don't have basic human decency to part ways properly instead of going silent. Read the post, she said it herself she didn't have problems getting exactly what she wanted in the past and no one was emotionally hurt in the end. It bothers me you're trying to paint her as some young bimbo who 'had it coming'.
>I swear the dating scope has completely shifted in a mere 10 years, and scrotes are only getting worse.Her own conclusion and I fucking agree.
No. 271694
>>271172>>271390>>271585Original OP and thank you for understanding my perspective. I agree that I don't think it's much to expect an arrangement that's casual while still being fun/respectful.
>>271422>>271161kek, I figured I'd get this sort of response. It might be hard to understand for you, but some women do want regular intimacy but may not be interested in dating. What else am I supposed to do? Fall to celibacy? And I don't want to go through a string of one night stands with average moids who play the numbers game. Hookup culture is a disease and I don't want to be a part of it. I'm not here to fuck men for validation, I want to get off for me. It's a frustrating situation to be in, but one I'm stuck with nonetheless.
>>271428>Especially if she's as hot as she says she isLol. I only mentioned that because I know I'm not ugly. I'm slim, I look after myself, I dress well, decent facial structure, etc. You're right though, it's infuriating knowing I've inflated a man's ego because IIIII wanted to get off, that's probably the part that pisses me off the most. I feel like that's inevitable in this sort of quest, like I can't escape the thought of men just using me for a quick pump and dump when I'M the one looking for sexual satisfaction. For the first time in my life I feel comfortable in my sexuality, my body and my overall self and I want to be able to explore that casually with someone I trust but doesn't expect things to eventuate anywhere. Moids, however, are all retarded and the other anon is right in that for many of them it's just a numbers game, quantity over quality, etc.
No. 271720
>>266979>PolyamorousNo, life sucks enough without jealousy
>Conservative/republican/right wingPotentially, but our conservaties are a bit different from american style republicans.
>Woke (not extreme)I would
>VeganNo, life sucks enough without having to hear about the ethics of my burger
>FTMNo, I'm straight
>MTFNo, life sucks enough without needing to pretend a bloke can be a woman. Also they look ugly.
>Bi moidPotentially, but the few bi dudes I've talked to considered their sexual attraction a free card for cheating, as long as it was with a man (while dating women)
>"nonbinary" woman (or man)No, life sucks enough without living with someone self-hating
No. 271850
>>271826I have a couple prospects for that but they don't seem all that viable. Mostly because I don't feel any chemistry with either of them and one has gotten fat lol.
>I even met a friend of a friend on a dating app and he wrote a paragraph to me on why a fwb is better than a relationshipsThis is so funny and it would turn me off apps for good.
No. 272400
>>272374>Full-contact sports athletes should be avoided too.In my limited experience martial artists are some of the sanest moids I've met. But MMA bros/boxers are always
abusive and scrotey. Maybe all that head trauma loosens their brains.
No. 272488
>>272475Anon fuck that, don't tell yourself he's out of your league. He's planned a date with you so clearly he's interested somewhat. I want you to tell yourself right now that you know your worth and you will not let yourself sabotage everything you've worked hard for to undermine and commit indirect self-harm like this.
Good luck with your date, let us know how it goes.
No. 272495
>>272456>Are relationships with attractive, smart accomplished men any better or? Abso-fucking-lutley
Watch some Chloe_ vids on YouTube