/snow/ - flakes & mistakes

Good thread OP, it was time to separate em. Now we can enjoy our concentrated milk

>>1705825
Does this mean that Jake was re-listing old videos with high view numbers or? He suddenly had 350x his usual daily views on Saturday with no new video posted. I can't tell if he's intentionally inflating his monthly income or if he's re-listing old videos because he's strapped for cash and hoping people might still watch them. He wouldn't actually make the 6k off that as shown, but would have been 6k previously made off those videos before he unlisted them, correct?

Yas more threads to check!!maybe I need more irl friends kek(unsaged autism)

Kaya is streaming outlast again, no sign of Jake making a similar announcement this time around.

>>1705932
Technically Kaya announced that first outlast stream after Jake said this, if we're keeping score of who does retaliation streams
See original post here:
>>1701669(sage)

Which vtuber archetype does he fall under nonnies? Tbh, sounds like he isn't even entirely sure where he's going with it yet.

>>1706193
Man can't even be bothered doing the bare minimum to engage with this whole VTuber thing himself, he has to get his audience to hold his hand through the whole process, how obvious does it have to be that this is just another in a long list of attempts to insert himself into a trend that he isn't actually interested in himself, he's so disingenuous it's hard to figure out what he is actually passionate about

>>1705825
Ngl, it's kind of funny how much shit he was talking about Kaya's content just a couple weeks ago. Since then, he has released a, self admitted, half-assed cover that completely flopped on YT, and did one couple hour stream? Still love him trying to cope by saying he was "happy that youtube's algorithm has dropped him a little so he can go try new things" on stream too. It must really kill him inside to see her recent videos pulling better numbers than his.

>>1706591
He can't be bothered to do his own research, can't be bothered to put on the makeup that got him a lot of his "snaccs" to begin with, can't be bothered to do much it seems. I remember other anons saying Kaya was the one who used pick all the tiktoks for him to react to previously too?

>>1706833
Before the break up he had over 103k followers on Instagram. He hasn’t posted (besides his stories) since September. I know he wants to edgelord and be at 666 posts, but it’s just lazy. Content creator minus the content isn’t engaged enough

>>1706979
He hasn't even posted to Twitter in a few days now. No new YT video in three weeks, no real twitter updates, no OF post in forever, etc. I think at most he's made a couple IG story posts a day. Lady Allura seems to be making more Jake content than Jake is these days. kek

>>1707044
what are the chances that he HAD TO get a real job that he isn't talking about online?

A 2 hour video about why him and Kaya actually broke up. He said he’s going to a follow up with a q&a.
He starts off by asking he doesn’t care about lolcow and he’s now making a video so he can gives his followers ways to defend him online.
He’s talking about his finances and how Kaya didn’t give popularity. I’m only 7 mins in… and it’s giving bitter

Kaya has just made a story saying something has come out and that she is going to have to respond to it and that it's already obviously false. I am banned from Fakes insta for calling him a snake ages ago and don't know how to check, does anyone know what she is talking about?

https://instagram.com/stories/xtoxictears/2978842942161815854?utm_source=ig_story_item_share&igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY=

Sorry if I've done this wrong in any way, I read all the rules and guide but this is my first ever comment.

Ah sorry you beat me to it! Thanks ever so! I had checked 5 mins ago and composed my post and there was no such comment at the time. Imma go watch this shit show!

I’m 24 minutes in, he’s really going for it, confirms they hadn’t had sex for a year at one point. Main complaint seems to be lack of cleaning. Hour and a half to go, so I'm guessing he’s got more to say. Looks like he’s trying to squeeze out a tear.

>>1708772
I genuinely feel sorry for her.
She was trying so hard to keep calm
She feels she has to respond just to tell the truth and put things right.

Emily Boo said in a video at the beginning of the year "the truth will out."

>>1708775
He also keeps saying “ I have recipes and photos if you really need me to dig it up”
“Oh well I can’t get into my paypal, but I’ll try to pull it up for you guys”

And he’s going on about cleaning but her place is clean in her videos and everytime he posts in his place or hotels is a shit show”

>>1708771
Aka views are way down so I need to talk about Kaya

Fresh milk. Oh yes. Nom nom nom!

Tbh Kaya's been milking this situation for a long time. In almost every Q&A, she has talked about her last relationship with Fake. I guess this was her first relationship so she's going to be venting a lot about it, but it was getting old and at a certain point felt like she purposefully was bringing it up to get people to keep watching her for drama. Kinda glad Kaya's finally going to address this and not continue beating a dead horse.

>>1708788
Kek right on Thanksgiving! I'll try to watch but 2 hours is a long time for Fake to sperg, would any nonnie summarize?

First video from Kaya. She's watching and taking notes of everything he's said.

>>1708797

FFS. And there was me planning on an early night. Can these two not lose there shit at like 7pm?

>>1708790
I’m about 30 minutes in. It’s not giving what he’s hoping. It’s giving abusive ex that’s losing control. I’m glad she has the police involved

>>1708800
Don't blame Kaya for this, Jake ABSOLUTELY knew what he was doing dropping this video on thanksgiving and in the evening. She has the right to defend herself, especially since he's been planning this video to make himself look the best he can. He should just leave her the fuck alone already.

>>1708802
Picrel, I looked in the description and he actually timestamped everything. He must've been getting most of Kaya's stories/tweets from lolcow or a friend, and taking notes every single time she made a passing mention of him. Hair in the bed was specifically mentioned on her social media.

>>1708803

Who’s saying she can’t defend herself? She’s very welcome too. I think she should. He can’t be allowed to set the only narrative on this.

I’d just appreciate it a bit earlier in the day.

But just to spell it out, I was trying to be humorous.

Calm yourself nonnie.

“If I had to paint Kaya, it would be her laying there in bed surrounded by food and monster cans”
How is this productive? This video is to shame her for views. narc ass abuser

Literally having to watch this video on 2x speed, he's so fucking rambly and long winded.

>>1708771
This man that does onlyfans and screams shots said he’s become a mature man and needed a mature woman. Kek. I can not

He’s giving HUGE onision vibes in this.

He's literally blaming her for his body dysmorphia…Oh boo hoo. He's been a Gym Bro for years and it never, ever came off like he did it for HER. If anything, it came off more like he thought she was fat and he wasn't into her anymore. But no, she didn't wanna fuck all the time, so he's blaming her for body image issues…Kaya really doesn't strike me as the type of person who cares about that stuff.

He’s talking about all the money he spent on her and how he never got it back. Views and money are low. That’s what this all is about.
He said the only time Kaya was happy when she was spending HIS money. But even after all that, she never told him her looked nice. Kek. This guy is a pussy

Lol at these two twats. I love their break up and how they are still synonymous with each other. They will both never move on and it's funny af.

So the police are involved, he didn’t deny it. They can’t stop you, but this is harassment jake. Fucking moron. Kek

>>1708834
Jake isn't harassing Kaya. I doubt the psni are going to do anything about a YouTuber making a video about a breakup.

When talking about how Kaya was "unsupportive" of his anger issues:
>"I saw Kaya's fear to it as extremely excessive. I was like, what're you doing? I'm just a little annoyed."
>"She never dealt with it, I couldn't confide in her about it. It was just this nasty disgusting monster that came out of me that she had villainized and every single time I got angry, I felt disgusted in myself afterwards."
I think anyone would feel unsafe around someone shouting and throwing things. You should feel disgusted about that, Fake.
He's blaming the anger on "depression and anxiety".
He continues to describe his anger issues as:
>"An acute, and painful, and intense level of rage"
>"I can't help it. I'm not doing it because I'm an asshole, I'm doing it because I can't control it."
>"It's not something I'm doing because I want to do it. It's happening to me, and I'm just along for the ride. I'm not gonna be shamed. I had no control over it, it happened."
He then goes on to say that a psychiatrist believe it was caused by bipolar disorder, but was ashamed to take medication for it. He "dealed with it himself".
Kat, you better be careful with Jake around your kid, if he claims he can't control his anger. And if your son sees Jake's moid rage, it's possible possible going to think it's ok to do that and will take it out on YOU when he's a teenager.

>>1708837
She made a video about the police. He admitted on his Twitter that he’s been trying to contact her but she blocked him on everything (in his words)
I think it goes beyond the YouTube videos.

He was forced cause he’s losing money and followers

>>1708839
Hasn't she left her scooter at his place for like a year and he claims she has her stuff. Such a waste of police time if they have to chaperone these two losers exchanging stuff. What a pair of melodramatic twats

i feel bad for her, you can tell she's seriously upset and visibly shaking with the stress over the situation. I hope the police force him to take that video the fuck down and slap him with some kind of charge if he continues

>>1708806
I only dipped into the video and looked at the 'anger issue' timestamp he had and holy shit it was the weasliest thing ever.

It was 'Well I never -directly- did any of my anger shit at her, and well I was young and also in a bad situation, oh and I did -warn her- I have anger issues and she was ' like I'm sorry but it's your job to deal with your anger issues in an appropriate way, and even if you're not actually directly targeting someone it's still fucking terrifying to deal with take accountability for fucks sake

Anything for the views, eh Fake?

>>1708847
Personally I welcome the milk, I'm 20 minutes into his video and it's interesting to get his side.

>>1708847
i've always hated this pathetic little man, he's hit a new low now though kek

>>1708847
KEK another response video, to Kaya's? They're just going to keep going back and forth, aren't they?

>>1708771
I have not watched this but just skimming though here it has massive creepshow art "proving her innocence" by revealing 15+ years of dirt vibes

>>1708849
20 minutes into the video he's talking about her going to two GPS who denied her an adhd diagnosis she was seeking and then her dad paid for her to go private. She didn't engage with treatment or take medication. Talking about her laziness and how much he tried to help her behind the scenes.

I mean I've never been bought in by Kaya's bullshit hello lovelies shit or her crying about absolutely everything. She's a complete melt with no direction in life. A complete turn off. He's being too nice not saying that and then saying how she made him feel insecure. He's also showing texts between them. They were still in contact pretty frequently until recently.

>>1708837
This is his response to that. Picrel
>>1708855
In the "work and finances" section of the video, Jake did mention that Kaya was crying every morning and night before going to work at a job. He is really airing everything out.

>>1708855
You mad, Jake? She’s over you, you fuvking cry baby(hi cow)

>>1708859
I'm not Jake you weirdo.

So much of this smacks of the typical Narc mindset of "Well you have a house and food and this and that so you have no reason to be depressed" and taking no account into that depression isn't affected by the things you have, and the more reliant a narc makes you on them by BUYING you all that and then throwing it in your face, the worse you feel about yourself. Of course he spent all that money on her, look how good it makes him look now. "Oh I spent this amount on her and she still wasn't happy." Yeah, because she was with YOU. A miserable awful little man.

>>1708861
I bet you 1000 dollars that he deleted most of the “shitty comments” defining Kaya

>>1708861
Jake has a point that he threw money at Kaya and tried to get her to make content for YouTube. If she was miserable she had her family nearby, she had more support. The two of them stayed together way longer than they should have. It's now more than a year after the break up and they're still going on about it. Pick up the pace guys.

someone better download this shit show before he deletes it like he usually does with his bs

>>1708868
I downloaded it a while ago

“The cops came to my house and told me to stop contacting her…” what of his stuff does she even have? Did I miss that

So I’m an hour in, he said that’s “the turbulent relationship now let’s talk about the break up”
He literally just said he gave her money and she wouldn’t clean.
I’m going to go out on a limb and say he doesn’t clean, and don’t give people money if you don’t want?
Oh also she wouldn’t tell him he’s pretty.

>>1708874
Think it was more than didn't clean. I can relate a bit living with my highschool sweetheart and him never learning to pick up after himself even when it was causing you anxiety and stress. It is a lack of respect when someone won't work with you. Your living space is important. Let's not lie and forget that farmers have pointed out Kaya's ridiculous excuses over the years for doing fuck all.

She was seeking out diagnosis so she would have a cop out so no one could harass her over being lazy, but then she didn't want to treat anything or better herself. I'm no fan of Jake but I casually watched when he was doing his daily vlogs and only a blind person could see how frustrated he was with his girlfriend.

>>1708872
He claims a gaming laptop and a camera are missing. It's in "She stole my stuff and called the police on me".
I can't remember where it was in the video (I think it was in "I held her stuff"?), but there was a text screenshot of Kaya asking for some cameras, and Jake suggested to Kaya that she get a cheap camera to stream/make videos with. Wouldn't surprise me if Kaya took the opportunity to take a better camera out of the storage when she went to pick up her stuff.

He’s saying in the video that Kaya isn’t over the relationship. Also she’s making passive aggressive comments on Instagram and he hasn’t said ANYTHING. Even though he’s went on rants about Kaya on Twitter in the comments.
Also said that he wasn’t even talking to Kat when he broke up with Kaya.. but there’s photos of Kat and him together before the break up in that collage Kat made

>>1708879
One of my exes claims I never cleaned either. What really happened was I was tired for cleaning up his dirty ass. Like i told him I would do his laundry if he put his dirty laundry in the hamper. There was 1 sock in there for a year. His laundry was in the living room, hall, on the stairs, in the bathroom, the floor of the upstairs hall, the garage and his car. Considering Kaya's home always looks neat and Jakes a shittip, i'm going on a limb he's painting a very one sided picture.

>>1708883
Kaya was essentially unemployed, my ex was unemployed and I was the breadwinner. After you work all day and come home knowing your partner has been sat on their ass all day and expect you to pick up around them and do all this bullshit housework when they could have spared a bit of their day to prioritise time together and idk a bit of fucking romance. The romance was dead clearly.

We've got evidence of Kaya being a hoarder and messy on her own damn channels. I'm not surprised since the break up she's been aware of keeping her shit together. I doubt she wants to stay single and she's lived like a slob for years she's a lot of habits she's probably finally acknowledged she has to unlearn. The two of them should of broke up in their mid 20s.

If Jake was so sick of her, he should have left sooner. Why stick around? He had to have some other motives if the love wasn't there anymore.
Jake was a typical scrote that wanted to live easy despite being miserable in a relationship. Sounds like they both used each other.

>>1708889
He's said that he attempted to break up before and she's threaten suicide.

>>1708895
Even if that’s true, he ended up leaving eventually? AND even if that is true, he wouldn’t give a fuck if she did. Let’s be honest.

>>1708900
You could watch the video, it starts around the hour mark.

>>1708901
I literally am.

“You guys wanted an emotional video, well here it is” while he tries to squeeze out a tear kek. This video STINKS of damage control.

Kaya's ma has a 4 bedroom apartment lol.

>>1708886
He mentioned several times himself he couldn't keep a job due to his anger issues. He smashed a wall at on of his jobs and got fired. Amazing he magically forgets to mention that now.

>>1708902
looks like he's smiling under his hand

“You as a human, Kaya, are a wet blanket. And a lot of people think so” wow. This video is just a public shaming. Can’t wait to see how many followers he’s lost tomorrow after this narc spurge

The 'emotional' part really feels like he had notes laid out and it said "Add emotional gesture/rant here".

>>1708908
Thats a bold ass statement from a man with literally zero friends

>>1708908
she's a wet blanket yet look who actually now has a social life and who only has skat and her kid for company kek. you just know the reason they never seemed to have friends when together was because of fake

>>1708910
He goes on and on about how he had no friends for support during the break up and he was so alone fake tears but now everyone’s telling him their feelings about Kaya? K

Jake is claiming him and Kat didn’t start talking until 7 business days after his break up with Kaya. At least try to make it believable.

>>1708914
How about you lurk harder and get it that you're once again brining up a dead horse of an argument. They're both cows BUT jake is worse by far.

>>1708912
didn't ya hear, he "just doesn't like having friends"

>>1708913
I just got there.. he said him & Kat didn’t see eachother for 5 years, but seven days after the break up they were confessing they had crushes on eachother?

>>1708921
Just like he’s glad the algorithm dropped him. Kek

>>1708914
Fuck off fag. It's not WK'ing to call out Jakes narc bullshit. When Kaya makes new milk we'll milk it.

One of his first line after this is “ I made Kaya aware that I had anger issues”
The fuck is wrong with this guy.

>>1708872
God he's more insane than I thought, why??? would he escalate this with a video AFTER the police went to his house to tell him to leave her alone??!! Absolutely baffled at the level of narcissism on display here that he thinks he overpowers THE POLICE

Also this timing is very deliberate, posting on Thanksgiving when much of his viewership is american

Oh what a beautiful day to be a farmer nonnies!
Who had today on the “Jake loses his mind and creates a way too long video that he thinks makes him the good guy but just emphasises his own narc horseshit” on the pool?
Very creepshow waiting for New Years of him to choose American thanksgiving. He remembers who the nut case was in that instance right? Kek

>>1708930
He continues by saying “ I never hit her, but I vented my anger in an aggressive way. But I had no support system, no friends and Kaya said it was okay that I had anger issues. Anger is a valid emotion. Everyone is understanding when you have mental health issues like depression and the emotions are softer. But once you’re aggressive people are less understanding. It didn’t happen often. I’m being demonized for it”
She was terrified of you, that is abuse moron.

>>1708938
The way he treats this as a normal line of thinking turns my stomach

>>1708938
This segment of the video is called “ look guys no holes. I don’t punch doors anymore” no seriously. He’s blaming Kaya because he punches doors and can’t control his aggression. He doesn’t do that anymore until Kats kid won’t listen or won’t clean up after himself

>>1708940
He said he punched the door twice in 5 years and he got a handle on his anger back in 2016 when he made his Make It a great day thing. That was him apparently overcoming his anger issues.

Jake admits they pooled income and finances together and after he pays the bills he divides the money and deposits it to Kaya's account. Also Jake: here is a list of money I sent Kaya … What I would like to see is Jake's expenses. Show us what you bought Jake like the clothes and the hover board and the motorbikes with custom paint jobs and the new gear like cameras for your bikes and vlogs you bought and never used and all the studios you needed.

>>1708949
What about the eight years before this? Where were YOUR contributions then Jake? When Kaya financed your unemployable ass?
This is too much kek

>>1708950
He's said he worked o2, British gas, some South African company, PayPal and stopped working in 2017. He got Kaya a job that she lasted at for a year and a half.

>>1708954
Which one of those was the one he punched the wall at kek getting hired wasn’t the issue. Some places will take anyone with a pulse. But managing to keep an actual job? Nope. Unemployable joke

>>1708957
They were campaigns at a big call centre in Belfast. They will hire anyone but he said he held jobs for years until the campaigns ran out, then went part time before finally quitting.

I love the drama but I truly don’t think I can sit through 2 hours of that man even on 2 x speed

He said Kat was in his bed before he went on tour. when kaya stayed there while he was on tour is when she found the hair. He went on tour Nov 5 2021. They broke up oct 21 for the second time. Need to look into when Kat and her husband broke up

>>1708965
Same. I’m pretty sure subjecting oneself to that would be classed as self harm. Thank you gracious nonas who provide tl;dw summaries

>>1708872
Kaya came to take her stuff from the bike shed. Jake helped load up her stuff and strap in her scooter. Some of his things were also there in boxes. After she left he noticed his gaming laptop and a Canon camera were missing. He messaged Kaya and realised she had blocked him. He then messaged her on different platforms to see if she had read the messages. The police then knocked his door later that night as Kaya had rang them about Jake harassing her. Jake said she had two of his belongings. The police said she understood they were hers now and to not talk about her online. Jake now has a solicitor involved.

>>1708969
Hi, I’m watching cause i hate myself. Kek
He’s saying when him and Kaya got together he was on welfare, and then had a job for seven months but got fired for anger issues.

Jake said a lot of pretty impressive stuff but my favorite by far was when he basically humble bragged about curing his own semi diagnosed bipolar disorder

I'm curious if he even realizes that none of this still makes him look like an innocent party. He's literally listing out multiple asshole things he's done but nooo it's totally okay because he CLAIMS he doesn't do them anymore. He's such a fucking narc and thinks he can do no wrong.

>>1708978
Jake just wanted to shit talk Kaya, that’s all this is. I doubt him doing this is going to improve his channel at all like he thinks it will.

>>1708975
Right? If Jake ever said “I was ashamed to take bipolar meds, so I dealt with it and cured myself” back then, the zoomer snacks he had would’ve blasted him for being ‘ableist’

He’s complaining that she makes money from her followers so she can drink ALOT on vacation.
He said “ imagine if I had a stream when I had a donation goal so I can go on vacation? Wasn’t he asking for money to go to Australia?
Didn’t he have break the jake?
He’s saying she should not her way instead of asking for money of streams. SIR. You don’t have a real job either kek

>>1708988
Ot, but bad example, Amber Heard is obviously the victim to heroin addict Johnny Depp who won in an American Court of opinion.

>>1708987
He has a memory problem. A selective one. He only remembers things that he thinks make him look good and make Kaya look bad. If it makes him look bad, it never happened kek

“Did kaya ever help you through your anger issues? No. It was shameful. My anger was always seen and reacted to as if I was this horrifying monster that was in the house. This terrible creature. I found Kayas fear of it extremely excessive.”

Jake said I found her FEAR OF ME EXTREMELY EXCESSIVE. Holy shit this guy is a fucking twat

She blocked him and then he does this? Sounds like he’s trying to punish her because he lost control.

Guys he was very very sad when he kicked Kaya out in late October to stay in a cold studio. He called her 2 hours later to come back. Then cheats with Kat. He looks like he took acting classes from Amber Heard. I'm expecting a bee.

>>1708992
Oh it gets better.
..I found her fear excessive. I would get annoyed. Like what are you doing? She would walk away and leave me alone and distance herself as far away from me as possible. She never dealt with it, I couldn’t confide in her about it. It was just a monster inside of me that got Villainized”

>>1708797
It's funny watching this after watching the full Jake one. Looking forward to how Kaya spins her side. She's also looking like shit.

>>1708999
Is look like shit too if my ex was cyber stalking me kek

>>1709003
She looking fat.

>>1708995
Kek at least he hasn’t objected to himself yet. Still lots of time for someone or some thing to step on a bee though

>>1708999
>>1709005
I was looking at her hair…she got that tattoo on the side of her head, yet it looks like she hasn’t shaved there in a long time, judging by how long the hair growth is. Not helping the lazy argument.

Kaya is very fragile, so after she blocked me on everything and called the police to ask me to leave her alone I am going to make a 2 hour rant video about her on my youtube painting her as some awful abusive woman. He did not want her on tour because he wanted to break up and she would have been in the crowd meeting people and getting covid and she would have given him covid. Kaya was upset and made it about her that she suddenly could not come on the tour because she would give him covid, this 2 weeks after he broke up/made up. Thus he kicked her out. AGAIN.

>>1709013
No offense anon but this is a stupid nitpick, if I was dealing with my ex for a year to the point the cops got involved a haircut would not be my first priority.

>>1709013
Your milk is her hair is too long on one side? Kek

>>1709018
it’s fine to comment kaya looks like crap kek. they both look shit.

>>1709020
there's a difference between saying she looks like shit and implying she's lazy because she hasn't shaved the sides of her hair yet lol

I wonder how Kat feels in all of this. Wouldn’t it get tiring seeing your boyfriend seethe over his ex?

I'm dying of laughter. Kaya found Kat's hair in her bed and Jake needs to clarify it's HIS bed with the bill. He acts like it's silly she was upset that he cheated and not a big deal. He denies he cheated on Kaya for almost a year. Jakey boy, your skats love collage had a picture of you two with her dark green hair while she had orange hair since july all through the next year.

>>1709025
I’d be pretty pissed if after the 1 year anniversary of our relationship, my boyfriend was spending this much time hyper focused in on his ex. But I guess as long as she has shots she’s content

>>1708803
not everyone is a burger that cares about thanksgiving

Jake is whining about Kaya's donation goal for London. "Can you imagine where I had a donation goal so you guys could pay me to go on vacation" You mean like that time you said you would only go to Australia first class or all the vacations you took this year and that tour last year no one has seen any footage of yet? Like that Jake? LMAO

>>1708938
That sounds so bad, people are supposed to be "understanding" when someone is being violent and aggressive? Just throw away all your natural instincts and be "understanding" to my rage issues I "can't control"

imagine putting that in a video and thinking it makes you look good. No people are not going to be understanding towards violence or aggression and that isn't uwu discimination, it's called survival instincts bucko

>>1708839
I still believe he suddenly showed up at her place or something. he is unhinged lately

Kaya being upset in the video talking about her break up is her "playing this hard" and if he had known he would have not made his break up video like he did. Jake you are pathetic. You admit she is fragile and accuse her of playing hard ball in a break up video of a 12 year long relationship because she's crying. She's allowed to have feelings.

I am waiting to see how long it takes for Kat to dump him. What woman wants to be with a man who makes a 2 hour long, unhinged video about his ex, whom he broke up with over a year ago?

She changes her hair a lot. And as others have said, her hair was this color in July 2021.

>>1709050
what a cunt

i think his initial break up video was the most telling, he really thought he was "free"- no longer being "held back" by lazy old wet blanket messy kaya who can't understand his rages, now he's free to travel, fuck who he wants and get all those hot thin tall goth chicks his heart desires. then this doesn't happen, he ends up with skat and playing stepdaddy to her kid, and his views drop. Oh noes, it must be because kaya actually showed genuine feelings in her break up video? why is EVERYTHING kaya's fault with this little man?? take some fuckin responsibility fake. she was hurt, you were happy. now she's happy, and you're bitter and lashing out. get a life

He’s complaining about kaya not posting regularly, but he hasn’t posted on YouTube in 3 weeks before this, OF since The start of October, Instagram since September. He’s projecting and blaming everyone but himself.
The same thing he’s saying Kayas doing. Jfc

The whole narrative that he was just giving her money all the time, even after their break up is weird. Not saying she isn’t lazy but it’s also giving he wanted control over her. He wanted to hold stuff over her head, and it’s showing in this video. Narcissists will do this so they can throw it back in your face

So he tells her the shit in his garage is sorted, their stuff is not mixed up. She comes over, it's not sorted and she leaves. He then sorts it and claims he carried most of the stuff downstairs and helped it load into her car. Then suddenly his camera and laptop are missing from his boxes? I thought you sorted it Jake. Jake has probably 10 camera's but suddenly this one and that laptop she always used for years is your stuff and you are going to a solicitor to get them back? lolwut?

He's really really really salty about her housewarming gifts.

>>1709065
Personally I think he bought her the camera and laptop as a gift but now wants them back. He paid for them so they're his

>>1709070
We’ll she get all her stuff free rom people on the internet. Patreon money, YouTube and streaming. Jake actually WORKS for his money… doing streams, patreon and YouTube. Kek

Shouts out to folks posting the video details, I do not have the mental capacity to sit through narc rage.

Poor Jakey, he worked so hard during lockdown for everyone else but himself. Even had a discord but that ended due to nasty rumours and it's all Kaya's fault. It didn't have anything to do with the fact there were very young girls there and you started posting your OF's dickpics all over the place now did it Jake?

Twitter isn’t on his side either. Didn’t go the way he planned, that’s for sure

This thumbnail is the best part. Kek. He’s reenacting kaya being freezing when he kicked her out over Christmas

So now he's pissed that after the breakup Kaya told him that she wanted to break up with him in 2016 but she didn't because he had no finances and would have been homeless. So ofcourse Jake takes this as that she did not love him and used him for his money after he started making a living of youtube. This dude's got serious issues.

"I'm not trying to demonize Kaya" but she's abusive and the most vengeful person I ever met and ruins my career on purpose and she does not deserve peoples patreons and amazon gifts.

"And all these crazy rumours. Just because I was drunk once on my birthday i'm an alcoholic." No jake you're an alcoholic because you hardly post anything on your instagram but when you do its 4 long island ice-teas in various locations.

It would not be Jake if he did not end on big promises he will not keep. There is going to be a munro single every single month next year. He also has loads of vtubing content which he will record in December and you can only see it later in January unless you're on patreon (fishing for some cash jake?). Also he had to make the video to adres the "parasites" ruining his career. It's not his fault you see, it's Kaya's and the parasites. I think Kaya should make a metal band called Kaya and the parasites and when she does better than Jake he can have another public meltdown.

>>1709098
>Kaya should make a band called Kaya and the Parasites
Please, Kaya starting a band which does better than Munro would be the icing on the cake

Also appreciate you anons liveblogging the video to save us a watch. He really just makes himself look worse and worse every day and blames everyone else.
A lot of parasocial weirdos in the comments as always with male youtubers, youtube viewers seem to have absolutely no radar for narc abusive males.

>>1709055
That's what got me to. He keeps saying he's moved on and she's angry and stuck on him and she has not taken responsibility for her mistakes. He's projecting so hard lol

>"I was as excited as her for her to get the medication because then that meant for me I had less work to do around the house. I was like, well you know if she's off her tits on adderall then that's amazing, she's gonna whiz around the house, keep it clean"

…wow… "If she's off her tits on adderall"…ADHD meds are supposed to calm you down and help you concentrate, not turn you into a sped up crackhead, you dumb fuck.

Narcs always end up telling on themselves. I don't think the video comes off how Jake thinks it does. LOL, what a fucking twat. He's revealed so much more about HIMSELF than he could ever know. He assumes everyone is as deluded and un self aware as he is, that's always the narcs downfall. Keep digging your grave Jake and you just might hit that rock bottom sooner rather than later.

>>1708886
>>1708865

You guys either have shitty memory or are brain dead. She supported him for years while her channel was thriving. The only reason he has any following now is because of her popularity. That’s not a white knight it’s just fucking facts.

> She has her strange group of friends that she drinks with

Why the fuck did he feel the need to drag her friend group? Like, the fuck did that need to be said? He's so clearly jealous that she has friends, support, etc.

Also, the text messages post-breakup where he's 'trying to help', come off exactly like the messages some friends of mine got from their Narc exes. It's another way to be all "See, I'm so nice I'm trying to help them even when I have no reason to. How can I be this monster when I'm being so nice??"

Basically two hours of Jake telling everyone how Kaya was responsible for all of his feelings while he had zero responsibility for anything he did at all, especially anything that might have effected Kaya's feelings, in fact Kaya had zero right according to Jake to feel any of the feelings she had.

The saddest part is that Jake has no clue that he's shown everyone that he's incapable of actually caring about anyone. The things he himself claims to have done himself and what he is currently doing to this day are not things that a person would do to someone they supposedly cared about for a decade. His nasty snaccs might think that shit is normal since they are all just as messed up as him with their mommy/daddy issues, but to everyone else Jake is just showing everyone what a nasty little codependent loser vulnerable narcissist he is and it's embarassing. it's obvious from his public behavior that behind the scenes he's a raging abusive prick and he's escalated to stalking Kaya. Leave her alone you fucking loser.

In case you didn't know Jake, coersive control is now a crime in the UK so you might want to listen to the police before you end up getting your pathetic ass arrested.

>>1709146
I'm guessing this, combined with mentioning she was denied adhd by two doctors is him claiming she is not truly adhd and is faking it. If you're not actually adhd then of course meds have the opposite effect. Plus this obsession with Kaya's supposed job as his cleaner is misogynistic as fuck.

What a hateful asshole he is.

I am a tiny bit confused by everyone in this thread. For years we all agreed how Kaya was a lazy, whiny, depressed hoarder… but now that Jake confirms it, we all go to her side?

Don't get me wrong, I am only half thru this video and Jake is a narcissistic fuck, but I believe him when he says Kaya didn't wanna do shit?? She had the studio, nothing came of it basically. Her attic, or whatever the fuck at home, also not finished. The house content, also never to be seen. EVEN NOW, she literally does nothing but a few make up videos and an unboxing video FROM MONTHS AGO.

I am LOVING this milk for Christmas and I just wish there was at least a little bit more shit talking about Kaya as well, because they're both such idiots.

like to dislike ratio is not looking good for Jake

Kaya's like to dislike just for comparison

>>1709170
We all know what she's like but what's fun about hating on a woman who's barely a bad person (lazy, whiny, depressed hoarding is tame behaviour for a cow) and is actively improving her life, over a narc moid who was clearly holding her back and is much worse? Anons tend to root for cows who are bettering themselves, it's a bit miserable not to.

I love how right at the start he's using Social Blade as proof he worked for his success. Convenient that every other YouTuber will say SB is wildly inaccurate but for Jake, it's "proof".

I used to think that Kaya and Jake were equally shitty and both brought some undesirable traits into their relationship but not after this video. After reading the excerpt of him talking about his anger and how he used to rage, holy shit guys, he’s a full blown abusive narc. Whatever faults Kaya has pales in comparison because at least she doesn’t hurt anyone but herself.
I hate that she has to clarify that he never directly hit her. It was still massive physical intimidation. That shit is traumatic.

>>1709170

I think it's a case that he's using these traits to paint himself as the victim and her as an abuser.
And, like you said, we already knew she was like that so really him making a "grand reveal" about it just tells us more about him than her. He's saying nothing about her that we don't already know.

All of these things would make someone annoying to live and be in a relationship with, but it doesn't necessarily make them a bad person. Plus it's just such blatant attack. He's not going to gain anything back from this. He knows that. He's lost his precious career that he built oh so well, so he might as well go all out and spill everything.

>>1709170
Ok but have you seen what Kaya did as soon as she offloaded Jake? Would you feel motivated with Mr "my rage fits are not catered to in the way I would like" or nah? I think everyone added 1+1 and realised a huge factor in Kaya's depression and inactivity was Jake. She is now active posting content, videos, streams, hanging with friends and going to new places every day.

Jake’s deleting all the “negative” comments

Oh wow been a while since I checked these threads but holy shiitt what a malignant asshole! Why would anyone want to nitpick about grown out hair or laziness, no one cares when there’s this guy kek now this obvious narc is publicly slandering his ex gf in a 2 hour long video, mocking her while trying to paint himself as a delicate little flower I can’t.

>>1709170
I think a part of it is some anons have been in relationships with narcs or seen firsthand how it can suck the life and motivation out of someone so it’s understandable why she would be lazy and depressed while she was with him especially taking into account how she’s been seemingly functioning a lot better without him. Not perfectly, but there’s notable improvement. It’s been brought up as a possibility for a few years and we’re seeing confirmation of that.

Love that he tries to paint her as the one obsessed with him and unable to move on when she's the one that blocked him and had to call the cops to try to get him to leave her alone after weeks of nonstop harassment. It's crazy to me anyone can watch this and not see the red flags he's quite brazenly waving.

>>1709153
>She has her strange group of friends that she drinks with
Funny. Sounds an awful like "belfast trash" anon who WKs for him here all the time.

For anyone querying whether Kat cheated on her husband or not - she definitely did. She has a history of cheating and cheated on her previous fiance with her current husband, so it's not shocking that she went on to cheat on her husband with Jake. We used to all think she just did shit like this because she's really dumb (like REALLY dumb) but as time goes on I think it's safe to say she must just be a cunt.

>>1709021
Jake said he's aware of lolcow but I don't think he's been posting I've been accused of being Jake a few times and I think it's most likely Kaya or her mates getting defensive. I never realised Jake did work a good number of years and was always thinking they were both two work shy losers. Even tho I hate Jake's content I did notice he clearly was more productive out of the two. No wonder Kaya and her fans think anyone who criticises her for being lazy and unproductive are Jake lol, she's so delusional. Pick up after yourself fatty and get a job lol

>>1709028
The blue hair was found while Kaya stayed there while he was on tour after they had broken up. Jake said it upset her but not enough for her to fuck off out of his house which she trashed for when he came home.

>>1708998
>It was just a monster inside of me that got Villainized
KEK When he’s using such terms you could as well say that he sees himself as the misunderstood MC of the jake universe and is basically trying to woobify himself now this is so pathetic

>>1709211
Why are you responding to a random anon adamantly saying you are totally not jake when they didn't even accuse you of being him? lmao

Not that I think you are actually him, but I honestly wouldn't find it a stretch that he's made posts here. He clearly lacks self control, has anger issues and has now confirmed himself that he reads here. Dude is absolutely pathetic.

>>1709213
Guys, Kaya mourned the death of a Swan she misgendered for like a year and is over dramatic about how chavs and all speak to her or her scooter saga etc. If I lived with Kaya and she was getting fatter and lazier while trashing my living space you bet I'd be angry and raising my voice. Kaya and Jake have both admitted he hasn't hit her. Now I know getting shouted at is bad etc, but he never struck her over the years. Didn't Kaya grow up going to weird schools and her ma is a workshy layabout too. I 100% can picture Kaya crying at the drop of a hat over anything. And I've heard many people refer to her as a wet blanket or boring. Sophie boyfriend Mitchell would tell me how fucking dull Kaya is all the time and every conversation felt faked and shallow. He also thought Jake had a crush on him but that's just off topic.

>>1709216
Because its been something I wanted to point out since last night. After watching the videos and seeing Kaya's 3 minute response my tinfoil hat started tingling and I thought, huh, isn't it odd everytime I post a criticism about Kaya being workshy or lazy I get called Jake. Well after Jake's breakup video her doing nothing was his major reason for dumping her.

>>1709217
>If I lived with Kaya and she was getting fatter and lazier while trashing my living space you bet I'd be angry and raising my voice.
He also apparently threw things and punched walls.

>>1709219
He punched the wall twice in 5 years and ended his angry outbursts in 2016 according to him. Kaya also cried and said everytime he asks her to clean he says it angry, so he made a point to always ask nicely so she couldn't do a gotcha moment.

Rather break objects he's paid for than smashing her face. Or they both could have broke up with each other but they were too codependent.

So the only issues Was kaya was just lazy and dirty and didn't have sex for a bit? Is that it. She wasn't abusive she wasn't violent? He honestly sounds like a sour bitter ex. Yeah OK he got him self a following by himself good for him but he also destroyed it from laziness and showing his true colours and not only that he originally wouldn't had a big following if he didn't have kaya that most of the people's point om here.

This long ass video was pointless and trying to point score and get his following back but this will back fire I can see loads of alt YouTube like Emily boo and roly doing videos on it soon explaining what they saw and what type person he is.



The video should been I was in a loveless relationship I cheated cause I relised I can do better sorry for cheating end of.

>>1709225
No he said it was obvious she had no respect for him never thanked him for cleaning up. Never acknowledged what he would do for her. Basically she took him for granted when she went on her many hiatus and he kept the income going. He even said she does the same thing to her fans. You don't hear from her or get content from her until she's ran out of money or needs something.

>>1709222
>He punched the wall twice in 5 years and ended his angry outbursts in 2016 according to him.
You really believe this scrote didn't continue with his angry outbursts because he said he stopped? That's funny.

>>1709229
In Kaya's short thrown-up video, she said she was taking notes of everything he mentioned. I wonder how she's going to explain these things. They both were terrible in the relationship, but Fake was worse for cheating and throwing/breaking stuff.

>>1709152
It's all been documented in the threads. Even a point was made that Kaya's mum has a 4 bedroom apartment room enough for Kaya and if she was sick, Jake said he only knew of benign cells getting removed probably at the gyno, but if she was sick as Kaya was making out would it have not made for sense for her to move back home once they broke up to look after her mum. She also wanted to go on tour while she was worrying about her mum, and he said that's why he was also concerned Kaya would get covid and bring it back. I'm sure there's a lot of bullshit and embellishment but is Kaya ma also a hoarder and her 3 spare bedrooms are full of shit? He even mentioned the Halloween decorations they drove out to derry to spend hundreds on and they sat in Kaya's studio never being used. That's mental. She also had a key to her mums which is 10 mins away from the studio and she could access a shower. He said her food apps were connected to his account and she was spending upwards of £50 a day on takeout to his studio. That's just irresponsible spending. Then she begs for money to go to London and can't even be assed to vlog it for content.

shiiiit here we go

>>1709247
Do you have to get this video through a link I can't see it on her channel?

>>1709248
Try refreshing, I had issues too. It's a three hour long video tho.

>>1709247
Damn, I figured it would've been a day or two before we saw a response from her. And it's a 3 hour long video too. She must've been working all day on this, Jake's vid really bothered her.

>>1709250
It's funny cause she opens this video that Jake finally got angry. That doesn't sound like someone with anger issues, would he not have been angry. And she's saying it's been a year and she wants to get over it but if the police were only called thst means that was the day she finally went to get her stuff she literally could have done this months ago.

>I want this to stop now. I would be perfectly content with us both going our seperate ways and pretending the other doesn't exist. But he seems determined to drag this out and I can't handle it anymore.
This is what Kaya put in her description. No offense, but she was dragging this out as well. Jake making a video trashing her was a bit much, but she hasn't exactly been "pretending the other doesn't exist" either, by continually mentioning the past relationship on her socials and also doing (anon-speculated) retaliation gaming streams.

Can someone please archive this videos and save them just incase they get deleted

She posted a YouTube e story her crying saying it's never going stop I feel awful for her as someone with a narc abusive ex just like jake it never will stop for years I feel so bad for her I hope sje destroys him they both end up leaving YouTube I'm calling it now

>>1709252
Exactly. She's sobbing about how unfair everything is and how she struggled with basic tasks, but these are things she's been crying about for years and it doesn't seem like she tries that hard. She's dragged the break up out. She clearly was venting about Jake wanting her to come get her shut out of his garage while she was in London. What was the need in keeping your shit at your exes for more than a year?

Oh gosh his video is just clearly salty he has ruined his own career and life he wants to drag kaya down. Mate its not her fault your a pos

>>1709252
not to wk but to me the difference is that she never mentioned him by name? Like of course, it would've been the smartest not to mention anything but then again she probably got a shit ton of attention for it

Jake is obsessed with money and fame. When things end with Kat I guarantee that he will shit on her for “spending all his money.”

>>1709262
This. And it wasn’t terribly often and then when it was it was just very general. Fake made it a point to say her name every time he decided to drag her through the mud.

>>1709264
This is why you get men to gift you things they outright bought. No messy finance agreements. Take the gifts and run.

>>1709265
>>1709262
Let's be real, who else would Kaya have been referring to? Her fanbase have only known her with Jake.

>>1709265
This could possibly be because if she doesn't name him, he can't try and get her for slander. If so, smart

>>1709262
Yeah, Kaya never mentioned him by name, but everyone knew who she was talking about. She kept poking the bear.
>She probably got a shit ton of attention for it.
That's why she's been dragging it out too, because the break-up drama is one of the few things keeping people watching her. It's what most of her followers ask about.
>>1709266
Idk about that, Jake is now saying Kaya "stole things" and is showing receipts that he bought them as some sort of proof. They could've been gifts too but because he bought it himself, they're "his now".

>>1709269
True, but I'm sure the police can look at his call logs or when he started "harassing" her, aka asking for two specifically named items back. Does genuinely sound like something was lifted in error but then suspect Kaya immediately blocks him after it's taken. Allegedly lol

Still watching the video, don’t mean to live react, but Jake apparently would flirt with her female friends and touch them inappropriately. Kaya states that she felt like she couldn’t have female friends and found out about some interactions after they finally broke up.

>>1709272
from what I gathered stomaching as much of Jake's video as I could, he had boxed up her things but there were things in there he didn't mean to give her. My guess is she wanted to block him once she'd left as she'd finally gotten the last of her things and to wash her hands of him.
>>1709273
Anyone with eyes could have seen that if they'd watched the videos they did with Kelly Eden, he's so gross

>>1709273
I just got there too, that's awful. I believe it, he was doing immature shit like making a vagina at a kid's birthday party. His public twitter tweets too. He probably made sexual jokes all the time.
>>1709275
True that.

>>1709273
I don't get it she says he would do this all the time and ruining outtings but then she's also crying that when he started earning more money no good would come from this and it's like you're already describing an isolating relationship, just leave sweetie stop making it about the money.

>>1709278
Codependency is a bitch anon.

>>1709279
I know I've been in very similar situation. I was 16 when I met the guy I lived with. He worked the first two years then stopped working. It's just the genders flipped and my friends would rag on my boyfriend and saying how useless he was. I felt gaslit all the time, but I never cheated. I was 23 when I figured out my happiness mattered more than familiarity. My ex felt blindsided but we weren't even intimate anymore, and he was DMing his much younger brothers female friends on fb while I was at work all day. I was just his cash cow mommy.

I don't really have much sympathy for Kaya. People have to go through worse my ex was physically abusive not just shouting at me. She had far more means and leverage than someone like me. She still hasn't fixed any of her issues she takes responsibility for. At some point you do need to grow up.

>>1709280
Anon, just because people have it worse doesn’t make what he’s done not abusive. Yelling, throwing things, and punching walls and doors is abusive behavior. You don’t have to sympathize with Kaya to realize Fake is just another abusive scrote.

>"He may not have ever hit me, but I felt like he always made sure that I knew he could, and that more than that, that he wanted to."
This is why she was scared Jake, that's not "excessive". This is exactly what he was doing and him thinking it's something she should've been understanding of is messed up.

Also, screenshot from her video at the 42:37 mark. I guess someone could say this was "typed up and is fake", but I believe he was still punching doors right until they moved out.

>>1709283
I do realise its abusive to feel like you have to walk on eggshells, but she's really clinging to this executive dysfunction label. Any medical professional will recommend treatment and a positive mindset which involves pushing through difficult tasks. Like for her to say cleaning was too difficult and she'd get stuck not knowing what to do, when by the sounds of it it's take away food containers and all the packaging from the shit they get. How difficult does putting things in a bin bag get?

on Kaya's video, it got removed obviously.

proof, lol.

executive dysfunction is a thing. it's literally seeing the mess and not being able to logically process it and do something about it.

>>1709290
She should tell a doctor that. Maybe they'll send a health worker round to watch her clean.

>>1709292

Not sure how things work where she live, but unless you hire someone privately, i don't think that's a service the health system offers.
Of course there's things like body doubling, where you call a friend but it seems that it would've been a big issue with Stumpy being always angry.
That said, i'm sure she could've pushed herself a bit more.

Sorry if i don't reply in a correct way, i'm a noob.

>>1709025
I sincerely think she encourages him
it must be their pastime talking shit about kaya

I'm thinking that perhaps Jake just didn't like the way that Kaya cleaned or sorted things. Some narcs get angry if you don't "do things the right way" and can be protective of their hoards (Both of them were hoarders). The few times she may have picked up or cleaned, he likely criticized her or said it wasn't enough, making her not want to do anything at all.
>>1709296
Yeah seems like they have nothing else to talk about. All they do is get drunk together and he objectifies her. No substance in that relationship.

>>1709295

That isn't what she said, she said that because she can't afford to see a private specialist, she's going through the NHS ADHD service to try and get help, but because her diagnosis was done privately, she has to get an NHS diagnosis before she can get help through them.

>>1709217
>Guys, Kaya mourned the death of a Swan she misgendered for like a year
lmao what even is the point of this post and why did you reply to me with it

>>1709299
You are right anon, apologies, she's talking very fast and emotionally in this

1:01:13
>I wasn't particularly attracted to him unfortunately and it wasn't an issue of his fucking height, which I had to listen to him yell about like once a week, going on about no respect for him because he was short, that it was a constant thing he would be really angry about
KEK

>>1709305
What is with Fake's obsession with "respect", does he not realize respect is earned?

>>1709307
You know how insecure manlets can be, they think everyone "disrespects" them when majority of the time it's because they're acting like entitled assholes. They never own it and think it's something they're discriminated for.

Sorry I know Kaya can be such a whiny baby which can be super annoying, but nobody can seriously come here and claim Jake is the victim in this, its so obvious he was insanely abusive towards her. The fact he even has supporters is beyond me

>>1709310
I don't think either are a victim tbh I think they're both stupid twats. I've my own bias against a work shy ex so I can understand the frustrations, but I would never cheat on someone or go out of my way to betray them. It should have ended years ago but the milk is fun. I would have been disappointed if these two attention seekers would have kept quiet about their break up. And for this I thank them.

I'm fucking dying lads, I'm a third of the way through the video and she's finally confirmed it… Jake has Small Man Syndrome and thinks no one respects him because he's short hahaha

my last ex bf is the same. and i'm not even much taller than him, i'm 162cm and he's like 160 but man did it drive him mad. i was forbidden to use heels or any kind of shoe that made me taller.
Imagine lil boy stumpy near Kaya, it must feel so bad for his weak ego.

Kaya saying Jake would smash plates on the floor and throw things towards Sebastian, to the point she had to run to her neighbors holding the cat, makes me sick. Not quite sure how anons can say they're the same, he's an abusive moid and it's only a matter of time until he takes it out on Kat and her kid.

Stumpy might've quit posting on OF because we dragged him for having weird ftm-looking penis kek. Sensitive about his dick size and height.
>>1709316
And now he's with Kat, who is also taller than him.
>>1709318
I can't imagine how angry he is about this and what he's doing to "control his rage" now.

I can't clip right now I apologize nonas, but at 48:39 in Kaya's video she confirms Jake cheated on her earlier into their relationship with one of his co-workers. Has this been confirmed before? I remember she posted a tik tok or an Instagram story hinting towards it but I think this is the first time she's outright said it.

He opened Pandora's box, now every single bit of shit will spill out from both ends. So far, it's not looking that great for him.

>muh anger issues
>"i just can't control it"
no, dipshit. it's not because you can't control yourself. your entire problem is caused by not being able to control others, and you just can't deal with that. so you lash out on others in an attempt to gain that control you desperately crave. you're doing the exact opposite.
>>1709305
kek, this fucking baby manlet.

>>1709307
He's one of those guys who expects and demands respect while giving people no reason to give it to him. In fact, his demands for respect are the very reason why he doesn't get it.

around 2 hours in her video Kaya talks about manlet bringing kat in all her favorite places. totally not with the purpose of hurting her.. no sir.

>>1709284
This is why the "who cares if he just punched walls, it's not like he actually hit her" shit annoys me, people don't understand that when a violent moid punches walls or breaks things, they're specifically trying to send a message of "it's the wall now but next time it could be your face". They get to express their desire to physically hurt you without having to deal with the potential repercussions from actually doing it.

1:52:22
Kaya says that there wasn't only hair on the bed, but semen stains. That's disgusting. Grosser if it was on purpose, which it probably was.
I doubt she "trashed" the house on purpose like Fake is implying, but who would blame her for not cleaning up? He didn't even have the decency to change the damn sheets, so nasty.

>>1709153
> She has her strange group of friends that she drinks with

He tells on himself so badly. Way to confirm that you post here, Jake.

Sorry nonnies, but this is so hilarious.
Billions of women around the world go to work, and then are expected to clean and cook for the family, and aren't allowed to say something to husband or kids, and no one give a crap.
But if a moid expects a clearly mentally unwell woman to clean instead of just cleaning by himself, (like a bunch of women do), he is suddenly a poor little flower and she is a raging bitch.
Grow up Jake, and do what you have to do, if others don't do this.

Kaya's video is boring. She's still childishly upset that he didn't want to keep a roof over her head anymore and referring to a TV show like sex and the city about how split up couples can help each other. Once you get dumped the other party doesn't owe you anything. No obligation. Kaya is a whinge I've a headache after watching all of that.

>>1709340
I wouldn't be surprised. Did close friends of Kaya not say that Kat was threatening her and saying nasty shit about her appearance?

>>1709345
eh, no one is obligated to do anything, but i think he definitely could have shown her at least some basic human decency. not saying that kaya is some sort of a "perfect victim" or anything, but it doesn't erase the fact that he's still a narcissistic idiot.

>>1709350
He got her driving lessons and gave her a car and let her stay in a studio he paid for. That's a lot considering he wanted to move on with a new woman.

What did Kaya do for Jake apart from initially give him clout cause she was more known. She even admits that they split MAG earnings but he did all the production, filming and editing. What did Kaya bring to the table apart from her aesthetics which went to shit for years since we all were commenting on it

>>1709349
I can't remember at what point of the video it was because Kaya goes on and on, but she does mention that Kat's husband told her that Kat called her a "lazy fat bitch", I can't remember the exact words Kaya said. Then Kaya heard from friends that Kat wanted to slap her.

>>1709352
LOL

>>1709351
So in your mind that justifies his violent behavior, cheating, rage, touching and flirting with her friends, all that? That's scrote logic

>>1709351

she dealt with his narc abusive ass?
she split her own money from YT.
HE fucking cheated on her and threw her out in the cold.
are you serious

>>1709355
>>1709354
No it doesn't his violence and cheating and continued flirting and infidelity would have called for a break up in my mind.

At the end of the relationship when she was reluctant to go he let her stay in the studio. It's not his problem to house her. They were in contact until a month ago and he was keeping her stuff for him. That's a year on from the break up. He could have just kicked her out, stopped paying for the car, not let her stay in the studio, and box her stuff out and put it outside for her to collect. In all honesty what else more did she want apart from living with him and saying shit like he should have fucked Kat in a hotel when they were broken up. It literally was his house. Most people when they break up don't have their exes house sit she said it was so she would catsit Sebastian so even tho Jake hates cats, Kaya left him in Jake and Kat's care but she's mad a year later kat helped Jake separate her stuff out of boxes.

>>1709357

bruh please never reproduce.

I like to know I kat watched kaya video and thought fuck he doing that to me now

there was a moid in here earlier (can't find his comment now) that was wking jake and saying this thread was a domestic violence support group or something. guess the vid is dragging in a lot of those guys here.
>>1709362
she's stupid to not see that he's going to do the same to her eventually. these videos should have been red flags for her but she's such an idiot pickme she's likely standing by jake.

The Barcelona thing is genuinely insane, and probably the most obvious and glaring sign that Jake was extremely manipulative and controlling. How did he think that was gonna make him look good? He literally said she didn't want to go, but he started the whole process regardless, and he framed it as her being ungrateful and not doing anything to help him with the move when she never wanted to move in the first place. Scary.

>>1709352
Holy shit, kek. I need to know more about this.

“I don’t care if he wants to think I had no I put to his YouTube. Sure. Jake has drive. That’s one thing I will say about him. He works hard. He’s driven by success, money and fame. To a detriment. He’ll stomp on everyone to get it”

She’s saying he did work hard on his YouTube, and if it makes him feel better to say she had nothing to do with his success, fine.
Which I agree. Let the little man think he did it all on his own.

him posting this video is not a cashgrab exploit of private matters with in an attempt to justify his bad behavior while doing some damage control by some narc youtuber, its actually a desperate attempt to be understood by a sensitive and misunderstood soul~ stop villainizing him!!

Kaya sounds annoying to live and be in a relationship with. Jake sounds fucking terrifying.

She is admitting that Jake did most of the cleaning. But she said his idea of cleaning was throwing things into boxes and pushing them off to the side. And her idea of cleaning was organizing and putting things away. So when she saw everything in boxes it would be overwhelming.
This sounds more realistic to me he even showed videos of everything in boxes. Something tells me Jake wasn’t mopping or vacuuming. Like she said probably just throwing both their stuff under the couch lol

>>1709357
Most people who lived together for over 10 fucking years live together a bit more while broken up until one of the parties that needs to move actually can move. Like normal adjusted adults.

Kicking out your partner just like that is fucking abuse and mental. It was not "his" house. THEY moved into it together and were renting it. It is easy to get a new house when you are in a couple, landlords don't like renting to single people especially in a bad economy. His name was just on the lease which he cleverly engineered.

I can do a watch and screenshot things of Kaya's video like I did for Jake's if people are interested in an hour or so. But im late to the party. Let me know if nonnies want that.

Small dick energy confirmed. She says sex with him wasn’t good, very little if any foreplay and he only made her come 3 or 4 times in nearly 12 years. Says she faked it a lot. He’s very vanilla apparently while she likes it a bit rougher and he had no interest in exploring that with her. Calls bullshit on his ‘hadn’t had sex for a year’ line, says the longest was 6 months during lock down and they were sexually active in the run up to the break up.

Do not get me wrong, I love the milk but I think saying the sex was crap and he hardly ever made her come is going to unleash a torrent of narc rage. I don’t think last nights will be his last video on the subject. He can definitely go lower.

Just skipping through Kaya's video, from the 1 hour to around 1:10 mark she talks about their sex life. Jake wouldn't ever go down on her because "he's not into it" and it would usually just be no foreplay, 20 minutes of "pounding" with "friction burns because she was so dry".

I don't like her, but thoughts and prayers for Kat having to shag that

>>1709387

lol it doesn't really surprise me that he couldn't make her come. look at his face. does he look like someone remotely interested in the other person's pleasure? He prob was too focused looking at himself in the mirror.

>>1709387
I lost my shit at that because I KNOW she isn't lying there. I was the same, faked it for 6 years. And she didn't say "yeah you sucked in bed I never came haha!" but she said it was her fault for faking it instead of talking about how to fix it. Because, of course, Jake is an insecure little cunt who would go crazy on her if she dared criticize his performance. Was literally in the same situation, I felt her embarrassment when she said it.

anons called it many threads back, he's very flirtacious with her female friends and even touchy feely with them. gross. then has the nerve to get angry when another man SMILES at her?? this sounds EXACTLY like one of my exes, very touchy with his female friends but when one guy (his friend no less) put an arm us both he totally blew up and accused me of cheating. they're projecting their insecurities on you hard, if that happened now i'd run for the hills

>>1709395
The fact that she couldn’t bring women around and he would put on a macho show when men were around. Kaya then says “there’s a reason he has no friends” kek. He might have come with graphs, but she came with facts.

>>1709351
Still, he could have given her some time. Maybe a few months until she can get her own house? Jake just wanted to fuck Kat in their bed without feeling bad about it so he rushed her out, that's all.

>>1709391

We’ve all seen him eye fucking the camera in his onlyfans shots. It’s all about him. He’s always given selfish in bed vibes.

>>1709396
He shot himself in the foot by saying multiple times how he has no friends. Like you can't deny that it MUST be a you problem if somehow you keep having no friends, while Kaya had plenty.

I bet Kat is over the moon over the fact that he's created even more drama with his ex KEK.

>>1709400

She sounds just as nasty as him so she's probably enjoying it

“Your boyfriends rich now, you can take a break” I remember hearing them talk about her taking a break and him being okay with that. He just wanted control. The fact that she has her own friends and money now is killing him

LOL jake trigged by his dick size ahaha he knows it's small and photoshoped that's funny.

>>1709025
Sounds like kat is nasty bitch too threating kaya ontop being a cheating slag

Omg I just started watching. For the entire relationship they pooled the money they both made and divided it equally until he made money. Jake buying 23 000£ and 10 000£ motorcycles and then bitching about giving Kaya stuff…

I feel so bad for her when she talks about him being inappropriate with all her female friends and her male friends could not stand him. "He has no friends and it's not my fault" ofcourse it's not Kaya he's a prick. "It's been nice to be able to have friends without something bad and dramatic happening" I felt that.

>>1709273
I wonder if that's why peachymilk and kaya friendship broke off? Same with Kelly Eden,melanie Murphy. There was a London edge vlog like 3 years ago a few the girls he hanged out with like reeree and other goths he was like oddly creepy to them. It makes so much sense now why she lost all her friends I feel so bad for her. Its awful and so draining thinking oh god he going cheat who he touched now who he flirted with been in a similar relationship and it really fucks you up mentally and it drains your life out you. I hope she can heal from this

Someone tell kaya mother she needs to do a video and bash him. I'm sure she could do a 7 hour video on every single shit thing he has done

>>1709376
She would been annoying to live with but she's harmless but him on the other hand is a ticking time bomb.

she would go hide in the bathroom because it's the one door she could lock and feel safe. he would often punch that door specifically

This. Is. Abuse. 100%.

She said he’s lying about not having angry outbursts since 2013( which I believe)
He went around showing doors in his new place but she said one of the last times he was screaming at her smashing plates.

I honestly cannot tell whether Jake thinks this video is going to make him look better, or if he just posted it as a retaliation for Kaya finally cutting him off after getting all of her belongings back and doesn't care about how it makes him look.
Because it makes him look like such a prick. I have never seen anyone describe so clearly their own abusive behaviour while trying to make themself appear to be the victim

Kaya says her name was also on the lease, no? So it wasn't HIS house, it was THEIR house. Yeah he kicked her out and she obliged out of fear and anger because of the situation. But since they were both on the lease, he wasn't "housing" her. They were living together equally.

>>1709434
>>1709439
Sage your shit. Type "sage" in the email space.

So Jake just decided on his own they were moving to Barcelona and did not even tell Kaya before he announced it to the world. She had to take a loan to put money in his account to prove to the Spanish government he had enough to move. And he blames her for having to spend money to move to Barcelona which she did not even want. This motherfucker…

I thought it was interesting that she mentioned to Kat's ex-husband that she wouldn't want Jake around his child because a lot of anons have been saying the same.

>>1709450
That's a thing. Jake said that Kaya "doxxed" him. Kaya thinks he said that because she gave the address to Kat's husband while Kaya was staying there.
Surely Kat's husband should know where his child is going to be living? Especially when it's with someone like Jake. He'd have to know the address eventually.

Right now, Kaya's video has basically 1/5th of the views his video has, yet her video has almost as many likes as his does. I don't think too many people are gonna buy into his shit.

a comment from jake's video in response to someone saying that he didn't need to air all of this out online. pretty disturbing imo.

>>1709456
but what are these terrible things that Kaya had done to him? Like if it was taken as truth, that she's lazy and messy? He could've left at any point

>>1709460
I'd love to know. They're replying that or something similar to every comment that isn't immediately supportive of Fake, but nothing he said in his video about her behvaiour sounds abusive. just annoying.

This part kaya goes on to say jake would scream and yell that people didn’t respect him cause he’s too short. Kek. Thats one of the many reasons she didn’t want to sleep. Not cause he’s short, but because he was narc rage about being smoll on a weekly basis

>>1709460
Thats the thing I dont understand in this, so Kaya was lazy, messy and mentally ill, that was Jakes reasoning for her being awful to him.. like okay I can understand that being tiresome in the long run but nobody forced him to stay and somebody being super lazy and unmotivated is not abuse lol.
Meanwhile Kaya is like Jake would threathen her, throw things in rage, punch holes in the walls and doors, make her feel super unsafe, flirt with all her female friends to the point where she felt like she couldnt take him anywhere, nobody around them liked him, doing financially manipulate her, constantly talk down to and about her
I dont get why so many people seem to be on Jakes side in this, just because Kaya is annoying and you dont like her doesnt justify this

>>1709500
Because it’s actually jake

>>1709500
Everyone is always going to be on the man's side in these situations. Most women are some level of pickme and men 9/10 will defend men. This always happens.

He bitched about her going to the Galgorm spa that it's expensive. Kaya said he likes to be the big man and order the big suites she went with a friend and shared the cheapest room.

So I looked up the site and the cheapest room is 275 a night. So with 2 people thats 137,5£ a person. Honestly that does not seem that bad for a spa getaway for a night.

I can't believe there's some nonas defending this moid. "Oh, they're both bad". She's not as bad as a classic abusive, liar, narc man who is acting exactly like most moids act post breakup. And they say this place is terf central… Pfff
I guess it's because younger people come here exclusively to read about these people and are not part of the community so we get some salty pickmes here

>>1709500
>>1709516

I'm the anon who said I'm confused by people not trashing Kaya more and I did have a change of heart after reading your guys' arguments and watching her video. What you said is completely true. Kaya is just mentally ill, while Jake is a an abusive manlet.

Jake's silence right now across social media platforms is telling. I wonder how many doors he's punched in front of Kat's kid since Kaya's video came out.

I really, genuinely hope he gives up and let her heal and live.
That woman needs safety and peace to focus on her wellbeing, it's pretty clear already that he was at least 60% of the problems in her life. She's not perfect, of course, but she just left a very abusive relationship. i hope to see her thrive and become a better person.

>>1709520
Like, he's trying to paint himself as also mentally ill "i have anger issues that's why I broke everything to the point it scared my girlfriend. And she was exaggerating". While kaya is like "mental illness made me not know how to be productive and helpful around the house at all". These two are not the same thing… I'm happy you realized it!

>>1709531
Thank you.

I also just saw a comment on her video how Jake didn't wanna accept her mental illness (not cleaning) but was soo "sad" how she didn't wanna accept his (punching and throwing shit).

>>1709526

I predict he is absolutely seething right now and Kat is about too or is actively getting a lesson in just how under control his temper actually is. A man with an ego the size of his will not let Kayas response stand, she’s laid bare the bones of their relationship and said he was crap in bed. He’s going to go nuclear.

>>1709543
His channel is going to tank even more and he's going to blame it all on Kaya who only responded to his bullshit. What a loser.

>>1709460
Because actual DV research shows that moids consider “abuse” to be shit like the woman failing to meet her traditional role, doesn’t cook or clean enough, etc. They literally don’t know the meaning of the word because women are obviously not terrorizing them en masse the way they do to us.

Picrel from this article: https://www.thecitizen.org.au/articles/what-about-men-lies-statistics-and-peddling-myths-about-violence-against-women

"Just fuck off." love it kek.

but in all seriousness Kaya actually seems really mature? she's handled it well, sought legal advice, answered everything and it all makes sense but at the same time been open about her flaws and her contribution to issues in their relationship. Jake's video was literally 2 hours of excuses for his shitty narc rage abusive behaviour, trying to paint himself as a saint for "helping" her

I hope she continues with this clearer head, to mend from his abuse, to continue on with the legal stuff if he continues harassing her

>>1709526 - being as the police are involved I hope he knows he could jeopardise Kat's custody of her own kid if he reacts badly to this. Sincerely hope Kat's ex is keeping records of all this stuff because it's honestly worrying that someone like Jake who brags about his anger issues and takes no responsibility for them outside of informing people has unsupervised access to a very young kid.

>>1709566
reminds me so much of my ex it's unbelievable. I do wonder if Kat's ex is trying to gain sole custody now because I definitely wouldn't want my kid around them

Did anyone else catch that he said he was ‘co parenting a child’ with Kat at the end of his 2 hour opus? I’m sure Kats husband is just ecstatic that Fake is trying to shoehorn himself in as a parental figure when he’s only been on the scene for a year.

Sounds like jake trying catch kaya out holding her shit on purpose letting her keep some his stuff and pffering her a free holiday. Good thing kaya smart and caught on to it

>>1709565

I sincerely hope that if push came to shove, Kat would put her child above this small dick angry moid. But sadly some women would rather throw away their children just for a scrap of attention from a bloke, and she already makes such poor life choices I wouldn't be surprised if it all came back to bite her in the end.

>>1709569 the whole situation reads like the precursor to some incredibly depressing news story about how the kid gets shaken to death or punched.

Maybe kaya finally come out how her rib got broken after all these years

>>1709574
I mean Kaya did say how she was just waiting for him to fully snap one day so

>>1709553
Hopefully he has no one to blame but himself. He reminds me someome who would kick a brick wall then blame the person standing next to him saying its your fault that hurt me

I hope she can heal now its all out in the open.
>>1709430 I second this she would end him

The comments on his video are going well. These all have 20+ upvotes before they are deleted.

>>1709310
>>1709318
>>1709500
People siding with Jake likely have behaved similarly and find that as a way to excuse it or are snaccs so far up his ass they'd simp for him no matter what he does. I agree completely that Kaya isn't always the most likable, but it's obvious Jake is a misogynistic, abusive, nasty scrote. Kaya is just whiney and lazy. These two things are not on the same level.

>>1709341
Hilarious he named this place and dropped hints he posts here. Hateboner anon being so unhinged and blindly seething at everything she does makes so much more sense now.

>>1709395
>>1709396
>>1709422
Tbh anons here called almost everything. Jake is a walking wall punching scrote stereotype. Him hooking up with Kat before she could even ditch her last marriage is really only more evidence of this. He's been creeping on her friends for years and is now seething that she was able to make new ones. He's going to start isolating Kat as much as possible in the next few years. God forbid if Kat ever puts on a few pounds too.

On kaya video at 2:55;16 she mentions jake has a alcohol issues yikes. Everything speculated over the years has cone out as pure truth

I like how jake blames her for mess but every photo he posted u see hords of bottles/filthy carpets/clothes piles and dirty walls

>>1709631
I was thinking that to. His room where he tapes the vids, it's never been this clean lmao

I'm actually genuinely concerned for her safety if this video tanks his subs and views even more. He might do what she always feared and snap, attacking her and/or kat and her kid in a fit of rage over losing everything

i sure as fuck hope he doesn't know where she lives or finds out somehow

>>1709456
Won't somebody think of the poor moid with anger issues! He was aboosed! God, these dick riders are so pathetic. He never even claimed he was outright abused, yet admitted to punching holes in the door like a fucking psycho and controlling his girlfriend to the point of trying to move to another country without her consent. These people want women to be as abusive as moids are so badly that they need to make situations up.

>>1709554
Damn.

Kaya very briefly mentioned in her video that Jake doesn't know where she lives, thank goodness for that.

>>1709606
>>1709608
>>1709610
His comment section is very not in favor of him. It's almost funny how he's so up his own ass that he fails to see that he's dealing most of the damage to his "career" himself.

>>1709635
It sounds like he wanted her to clean up his mess too. Not just hers.

most people are shitting on Jake but the few fans he has defending him seem pretty braindead.

>>1709653
It was his awful "we broke up… anyway, stay tuned for new music and new videos and new merch!" video that shot himself in the foor in the first place. Followed swiftly by the Barcelona "pussy :P" drama. And now this two hour shitfest, which is going down like a lead balloon. It's hilarious that the majority of the damage to Jake's career is self inflicted.
He could have put up a brief, sombre "we broke up, please respect my privacy" informational video and left it at that, rather than capitalise on the clicks and the drama to try and self promote. He could have simply not splashed the fact that he was immediately shacking up with another girl in Barcelona all over his Instagram stories. He could have handled all of this differently and likely would have come out of it much cleaner, regardless of his treatment of Kaya.
What an absolute tool.

>>1709658
"cunt deluxe" sounds like a troon

Jake really is out there trying to paint himself as a victim because he just couldn't be bothered entertaining the idea of supporting his clearly mentally ill partner of over a decade. There were so many options both of them could have taken before it got to this point but the way Jake handled Kaya at her most fragile state really, really shows how entitled he thought he was to her, body and soul as a person. The fact that she wasn't "showing him respect" when she's essentially so ill she can barely function is insane to me, how can she show you Respect when she clearly didn't have any for herself? You sat and watched her fester in a home of filth you both contributed to and instead of helping or intervening or looking for outside help he did nothing, he just sat and let it rot and continued to let it rot until he eventually saw an out and took it. She clearly needed help, he clearly resented ever having to help her. There's so much talk of " she never cleaned, so I had to do it" and never any talk at all about them cleaning together it was a shared household, shared mess. I've been with my partner for 13 years, a couple longer than Jake and Kaya: if my partner starts cleaning in my presence I get up and help clean, if my partner starts cooking I get up and start helping to prep, it's a shared existence, what Kaya and Jake seemed to do was just sort of exist in each other's presence without ever communicating their needs to each other. They just let resentment build until Jake stopped seeing her as a partner, a lover, a person, she became just a shape in bed on "his" laptop that swallows money.

>>1709653
The current like to dislike ratio on top of his video having twice as many views. He's definitely sinking his own ship.

>>1709660
It is totally his own fault. The break up video, the weird i dont pay for pussy in Barcelona instagram, the immediately hooking up with a married woman, the creepy only fans stuff, his sperging on the discord, the rants about Kaya, him going everywhere with the new hussy to all of Kaya's favourite hang outs, boring repetitive content if he posts, now this shitshow … How he thinks it's Kaya's fault his channel is tanking just shows how far his head is up his own arse.

>>1709673
Roly gives me the creeps but I agree with this, Jake is absolutely doing the extinction burst

>>1709631
apparently this manlet didn't even bother to clean up his cum stained bedsheets, and just left them there for kaya to clean up. that's totally what an stable adult (who's definitely not messy himself) does after a break up.

>>1709678
Also going around your new house taking videos of the doors to try and prove you didn't punch holes in them when there's written evidence from your previous landlord about just that in the house you moved from is very normal stable adult behavior that definitely definitely makes you look like an all around chill and regular guy.

Mild tinfoil here but I’m watching Kaya’s video and at one point she mentions that she’d heard about Kat calling her a “fat, useless bitch” as well as wanting to slap her… Correct me if I’m wrong but in past altcow threads, didn’t Hateboner anon use those lines (more specifically the fat & useless) more than once? I mean, we clearly know both Jake and Kat lurk here but that was a little TOO on the nose imo.

Did he mention what was so bad kaya did that bunch people in Belfast know? But I love how kaya exposed his shit and said people hate him lol

>>1709686
I would not be surprised if salty chan is Kat. She seems trashy and dumb enough.

>>1709673
Hoping more youtubers post their opinions on him good on roly posting this I knew he would

>>1709687
He said something about people in Belfast not liking her and thinking she's a wet towel, but nothing to back that up

Rotten Hollow just came out in support of Kaya on his insta. Jake wanted to skinwalk this guy. He's going to be seething when he sees this lmao

Did you catch that part she said one night she was close to killing herself and he was not much bothered by it?? She then went to the hospital and he didn’t message or call her to ask where she was. That’s just insane! She was also on medication against nausea which she had from all the stress of dealing with his shit.

I used to dislike kaya cause I thought she was lazy but good for her admitting her faults (unlike some) it makes sense now all the excuses she used to post to not do a video was all cause he probably shat on her or broke her stuff. I completely understand why she struggles cleaning with mental health and adhd and someone shouting how shit you are must of destroyed her soul. Poor girl. But admitting your faults is brave and good step forward


Notice how jake always freaks out after she posts video of the stuff subscribers have sent her and he sat there with nothing he seething so hard it’s sad. Him and kat are perfect for each other two toxic assholes

Hate me for it anons but it made me sub to her patreon.

>>1709699
Let’s hope Jude supports kaya after this that top him over the edge

I love that Jake in a hilarious turn of events in the midst of single handedly tanking his own career also blessed his critics with the knowledge of one of his biggest insecurities which apparently is his neck, I guess that's why he's now camouflaged it with a bad tattoo? Either way thanks for helping us laser sight in for best efficiency, your neck is short and gurthy

Like/dislike/viewing ratio ‍♀️(emoji)

>>1709706
lmao fabulous!

>>1709697
Meanwhile he has an entire reddit thread dedicated to how disliked he is by the people of Belfast lmao

>>1709706

that makeup is perfect, lmao

>>1709190
His views of sexuality and family are absolutely fucked if he thinks his significant other needs to ""respect"" him like he was her father. There is no correlation at all, his obsession with trying to get Kaya to clean his mess (since her own house is tidy where his is still a mess) is absolutely absurd

>>1709699
Curious to see who else might pop up in support of Kaya publicly. So far we got Rotton Hollow and Roly >>1709673

>>1709703
Nah, Jude is a pickme through and through. She's going to keep him on the backburner for a potential "daddy" if anything sours in either of their relationships in the future. Which is likely given both Jake and Kat's tendency to cheat and Jude consistently being dropped by her gross "daddies".

>>1709704
Tbh hilarious because all he had to do is leave her alone and we wouldn't have confirmation that he's A. terrible at sex. B. insecure about his stumpy neck and C. is an insecure little manlet about his height. kek

>>1709723
yeh, plus her suggestion of wanting to split it 50/50 seems fair- she starts on the cleaning, he can then do the rest when she no longer can. It's sad to me that that had to even be suggested to him (and he flat out refused) when it seems like a normal dynamic in any relationship where you live together??

>>1709704
>>1709725
at what point does she mention his neck?? watched through her whole video and don't recall her saying this kek

>>1709202
>I think a part of it is some anons have been in relationships with narcs or seen firsthand how it can suck the life and motivation out of someone
Yep exactly this, a lot of us have been in situations or witnessed situations of affected motivation and psychology. It's very common, this is also why "just leave your abuser" is so difficult - at that point you feel complely deflated and incapable; it takes confidence and hope to make progress.
Abusive people make sure to infantilise you and make you feel like you can't do anything so you don't leave.
Kaya struggling to achieve anything while mr anger issues was around makes perfect sense.

>>1709730
Jake mentions his neck in his video, about 25-26 min in

>>1709730
During Jakes video when he gets to the topic of their sex life he says that after "a year" ( or in Kaya's recollection six months) of not initiating sex he started getting little insecurities about his body and then lists his neck first in a list of things he was insecure about.

>>1709734
>>1709736
thanks anons. i didn't watch his video because i absolutely cannot stand hearing this guys voice

that's hilarious though that he's insecure about his fucking neck

>>1709658
guess this is confirmation his last remaining snaccs are truly braindead. kek

It's bordering on parody levels of audacity that he complained about Kaya surrounding herself with half drunk/ empty monster cans when there are two either half drunk or empty monster cans on the desk in the background of the entire video

Kaya talks about Jake not wanting her on YouTube. He’s tried to get her off YouTube since he started one himself. And now he’s trying to say she stole a camera that he gave to her? This whole thing where he’s saying she stole from him is him trying to prevent her from making videos. He’s wants her to fail and to be stuck working a minimum wage job. That’s what he told her she needs to do. What an actual monster. I can’t wait to see him fail because of his own actions.

Also, it sounds like Kat is just as bad as Jake.

>>1709746
Looks more like he’s getting himself cancelled and pushed off YouTube. I definitely hope so.

>>1709746
i noticed that too, she was saying his camera and laptop are better so why does he want those ones? but if he wants her off youtube then it's clear he wants to prevent her from making videos/good quality videos and editing them easily. lmao what a snake, leeches off her, gets "famous" through her, then sees her as competition. he's SO SO bitter he will only ever be "toxic tears' boyfriend/ex." boo fucking hoo fake

>>1709390
>Just skipping through Kaya's video, from the 1 hour to around 1:10 mark she talks about their sex life. Jake wouldn't ever go down on her because "he's not into it" and it would usually just be no foreplay, 20 minutes of "pounding" with "friction burns because she was so dry".
>I don't like her, but thoughts and prayers for Kat having to shag that

Jake's video is backfiring terribly already, couldn't happen to a nicer guy

>>1709747
>>1709752
Even his IG is getting overrun.

>>1709752
The funniest thing about it all is that Jake's failed attempt at rewriting history and clearing his name ended with his ex having to admit with obvious shame and embarrassment that she faked orgasms for 11 years with you because you were so bad in bed. There's no way he's recovering from this with any kind of grace

He’s a narc and they always have to have the last word. I’ve lived through this before. Can’t wait to see how he responds because he will. He should really just delete the video and start doing damage control. This is a BAD look for him. What a tit.

in kaya's video she mentions posting about her mum's cancer scare after she got kicked out and was living in that studio and jake got angry and sent her a bunch of messages telling her to stop?? her mum had a CANCER SCARE you fucking fool, worried it will make you look bad?? scum of the earth

>>1709697
The only people would be him and kat thinking she's a wet towel

>>1709761
Its so funny cause he thinks he a sex god so glad it has back fired couldn't happened to a nicer guy.
I really hope this soils his failing YouTube career. Fucking idiot could of re built it if he kept his mouth shut and moved on

Starting to see a lot of comments from people who have met them saying Jake was very rude in person too, especially if you were a fan of kaya. kek

I love kaya closing statement on jake got to so relieving to say it out loud for everyone to hear

>>1709802
I kek’d at her dig at him using the hashtag toxictearsboyfriend

I want kaya to come out with her experience getting cockblocked and having to ignore the flirting with Kelly Eden and jake when they went to LA
She must felt so low

Wonder what jakes next move will be legal and more fake lies I bet he have some ridiculous new statement about how bad kaya was at sex after she embrassed him lol

>>1709815
he would definitely sink that low anon. bets on "i didnt want go down on her or do foreplay because her fat rolls repulsed me" or something equally humiliating??

Imagine seething about your ex after a whole year and your only reason Breaking up was beacuse she was messy. Only reason he has done this is because she is happy and thriving and he sat at home with a alcoholic and q toddler who isn't even his

Hope Dean uses all this abuse alcohol and only fans to court to get his kid back

>>1709817
he say she smells or something patheti

>>1709822
It's hilarious too because Jake was really playing it up in those unhinged comment sperg outs saying "she did the worst thing a person could do". Meanwhile he was destroying her shit, creeping on or chasing all her friends away, and actively cheating on her. Make it make sense. lmao

Not even shocked kat a bitch too she looks it

>>1709826
Best part is if kaya ever needs to take it to court its all over lolcow every single shit thing he has done all the storking the lies the drama its all on these past threads he would have no leg to stand on at all oh and few redit posts too

I don’t know if this has been shared here, but I found this video that has a clip from MAG where Jake is condoning hitting children. It reminds me of when he tried to blame Kaya for not liking children. In the clip Kaya disagrees with him, which proves that his dislike of children was of his own accord. Also, how could any mother want their child to be around someone like this?

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>>1709832
Put the link in the field up there that says “YouTube “

>>1709789
They're the only people in Belfast he knows and cares about

Thanks nonnie

>>1709285
Not that anon, but my partner has the same problem with cleaning ao. I don't understand it,just like you said:just put stuff in a bin bag, but I see my partner really struggles with it and really tries their best to clean. But they have some blind spot for it or something. They don't 'see' it or they experience some sort of error with executive functions it seems. I don't understand it, but I do see the struggles and the effort. So I do believe Kaya really struggles with their executive function

>>1709851

coming from someone with executive dysfunction, we see the mess, and it's overwhelming. at least for me and it seems many others, it's like.. not knowing where to start. it's a simple thing, yet it's not.

Here’s the bit I don’t get, he’s making a big deal about how much money he’s got coming in, buying motorcycles and what have you left right and centre, if his maths is to be trusted he sent her £61k and his main gripe is mess. Why didn’t he get a cleaner and just remove the problem? They’re both messy, neither are inclined to clean as they go and will leave it till it’s a huge job and if he is to be believed it was the main source of contention for him so just pay someone to come in and clean for a few hours a week. Loads of people do it.

Oh, no, sorry, I forgot for a second there that he wouldn’t be able to blame Kaya for all the worlds ills if he did that and anyway, she should be cleaning all his mess up. Because reasons.

one of the many things in kaya's video that really saddened me was her saying she was hardly ever in the mood for sex but felt like she had to go along with it anyway. That and him calling her "fat" very early into their relationship (which was when she was much thinner and actively trying to lose more, because of him i wonder??) No wonder she has such poor self esteem…

>be Kaya
>Ex comes out with two hour video trying to cancel you
>all he can talk about is how messy you are

I'd call that a win, he's such a narc he doesn't realise how much most people are having a hard time dealing with mental health, self care, cleaning etc, it's been a difficult few years for Literally The World like what planet does he live on where he thought Gonna talk about how messy Kaya was, that will destroy her reputation like amazing information dude, Kaya probably has a few more Patreon subs than she did yesterday

>>1709877
Yeah, I felt that when she said “I thought something was medically wrong with me”, and saying any affection would always lead up to sex (which she didn’t want). I was with a narc ex and it was the same thing. Sex was expected and I was scared to get too close (cuddle, be affectionate, etc) because then it meant sex or else he would be frustrated. And yeah the dryness is because you have literally no attraction anymore for the person, not because you have “low libido” or some condition.

>>1709881
The idiot also tried to imply she was a gold digger and only cares about money

>>1709891
Jake’s very misogynistic and definitely has been around redpill and MRA shit. Him immediately going to “gold digger” was a big one. That and saying “Well if this happened to a man, no one would sympathize!” They’re all the damn same. That anon was right, he considered Kaya’s “abuse” as her not standing in the line of fire during his rages and not cleaning up after his messes.

>>1709900
Babes i luv ya, but i aint reading that

>>1709900

Fren, i don't have the attention span to read that. sorry

>>1709900
>>1709907
Sis please read the rules before you get banned, you're making good points but you have to integrate

>>1709907

put the word sage in the email field. no need to fill up anything else.

>>1709907
No emojis and sage your posts, nonnie! You are very welcome here, but you have to follow the rules or you'll risk getting banned.

He's already lost 1k subs from his already dying channel since uploading that gaslighting mess of a video. LMAO

>>1709891
>tries to paint Kaya asa gold digger
The pure irony of who he has chosen as his new partner. Kat wouldn't have jumped ship on her shop owner husband if it were the Jake from pre YT "fame". I wonder if he's the only one who doesn't realize it. Will he expect her to return all the money, gifts, and drinks when one of them inevitably cheat on the other too?

He states in his video that the camera and gaming laptop Kaya has ‘stolen’ WEREN’T gifts and then goes on to try and prove his point by providing receipts for each of them..

Does this cunt really not know how gifts work??

I meant freeze, flee, fawn, or fight. Not flea or fun. *

TL;DR

His video proves he lied about saying she saw because at the beginning the video he bragged about all of the things he gave her and one of those things happen to be the very gaming laptop he said she stole.

He preemptively mentioned how his anger issues were going to be demonized but he was purposefully ambiguous

Narcissist often move on very quickly to one of the other person it’s usually an ego thing I’m not saying it can’t happen or ever be healthy but narcissist will do this and have an obsession still

She’s been trying to better her life he’s bringing this on himself He’s a liar

He lied about the cheating timeline

I’m extremely happy that she finally validated what we all saw that he constantly flirted with other women and I’m sad to hear that he has cheated on her before

Someone correct me if I’m wrong I think she said in her video that overall she gave more money overtime even though she never had as much at one time or gave as much at one time

And an old story of hers I think I saw something that sounded like she was being threatened to stay silent by lawyers or threatened an end with legal action or something

It’s weird that he blames her for every single rumor like it’s her fault for every single possible rumor like she can’t control the Internet she tried she asked people to stop talking about it but people were upset for her so(lolcow.farm/info)

There's a point in Jake's video where he throws up a text chain between him and Kaya to do one of his "gotcha!" Moments and if you pause it to actually read it: he's asking what she's saying about their funds. She explains someone asked her about the financial situation and she explained they used to share the finances and when he messages her back at the end of his reply he threatens her with an NDA if she talks about it again how did he think any of this was a good look? This is so much more detrimental to his career than any amount of incredibly subtle digs Kayak could ever make, this man is the world's most pathetic idiot, a complete bozo

>>1709811
I also really want to hear about this I kind of feel like she was suffering in silence :(

>>1709918
I don’t wanna watch his video - can someone screenshot the screenshots he shares in his vid?

>>1709914
Stumpy said he would post another video if Kaya posted a response, but what the hell is he even going to say?
>K-Kaya's lying! She totally had orgasms!
>So what if I flirted with her friends? Kaya flirted too, a guy SMILED at her!
It's just going to be a bunch of lies and he-said she-said.
>>1709926
I'm not sure if Kaya wants to bring that up, since it would drag Kelly into this situation and could make her annoyed and cause more internet drama. Kelly's already a cow with her own thread and she defended Dahvie Vanity.

>>1709387
You’re too correct there(emoji)

>>1709247
I refuse to give Jake the view so someone else can do the breakdown on his video if wanted, but here's Kaya's 3 hour vid broken down as best I can. Sorry for the longpost, feel free to ignore, but this is for those who want every drop of milk without watching a 3 hour vid.

- "He's finally gotten angry that he's not doing as well at the minute, and I've been out living my life and having a good time, and he's pissed about that and wants to drag me down."
- Doesn't deny that he got lucky with a viral video or put work into his channel but highlights that she was successful first and her fanbase lent itself to his channel/s before going viral.
- Got together with him at sixteen, feels as though she missed all of her formative teen year experiences and her full twenties.
- States that he didn't have to stay with her if he wanted to break up, but the way it happened was horrible.
- Debunking plenty of claims Jake made regarding setting up her attic space in the old house, not using her studio anymore pre breakup, and other petty shit he said about her living situation post-breakup, such as a couch, about some heaters, small amounts of money, moving her scooter, etc.
- States numerous times that a lack of communication was a huge issue, and healthy communication would have solved a lot.
- Jake's "evidence" of Kaya gaslighting him makes no sense, and none of his "proof" stands up. She never trashed him by name like he did with her.
- "If I wanted vengeance, why wouldn't I have told everyone this (the video contents) from the start?"
- Her name had been on the lease for that house along with Jake's when he broke up with her.
- Around 2016 she had wanted to break up with him due to his anger, toxicity and behaviour with other girls. Stayed with him as she knew he wouldn't have anywhere else to go. That period of being "desperate to leave him" passed, and she "learned to just deal with his abuse again".
- Says that Jake told her she wasn't able to go on tour due to her mum's health, or saying she was "too delicate and fragile" for tour, which was not true. The way that the timeline matched up, she could have gone with him, and he told her she wasn't going. She was upset as she had friends/fans who were expecting to meet her at the shows, plus she had concerns about him cheating on her while on tour. Jake got mad at her for telling him this, and accused her of not trusting him, but he was actively involved with Kat at this point. She doesn't know if they were fucking but their relationship had progressed into "something". After this argument, Jake stormed out and didn't come home for hours. When Kaya called him to ask where he was, he says he was in North Belfast. She can't prove it but looking back she realises that's where Kat lived. The next day, he broke up with her. "Make of that what you will".
- Jake had messaged her while in America that she was not allowed to use the house, then told everyone that he'd given her permission to do so. Would message her all the time to tell her to take messages and comments down all year prior to the breakup.
- Kaya denies doxxing Jake, stating that she gave Dean the address of the house while she was staying there. Denies trying to incite violence against him, with plenty of messages back and forth discussing "that paranoia" with him. "If I wanted to do something horrible, I would have done it" - regarding being a "scorned woman" left alone with all of Jake's belongings in their home while he was on tour.
- "he's an angry person, I wouldn't want him around a child" - states this was an opinion given to Kat's husband when discussing Jake. Apologised for it, but it wasn't a lie.
- Denies raising money to "go party in London" as it had already been paid for (in the summer) and the donation goal was just a fun thing that they did, dating back from MAG days, and was in fact for the most recent London trip. Didn't hit donation goal, wants to put a vlog up for what she did manage to record, but says that she was dealing with Jake's harassment in London which ruined most of the trip.
- Jake also harassed her during her trip to Galgorm.
- Kaya couldn't tell you a single thing Jake has done this year but highlights how clear it is that Jake has been keeping tabs on her and what she's been up to. She had him muted everywhere post the breakup "while we were pretending things were civil". "He apparently has plenty of time to be checking up on me".
- Post breakup he moved her remaining stuff into the garage with his motorbikes, which he had the only key to, and Kaya could only access when Jake was there. She didn't want to be around him, so this delayed the collection of her stuff and prevented her from getting to it while she was living in the studio. Admits to there being some of his stuff in "her" boxes, but he was the one who had boxed it all up to put into storage, not her. He'd told her that he'd sorted through it all, that it was separated, and that Kat had helped go through her stuff. If there is anything left of his in those boxes, its his fault as he'd said it was sorted.
- Discusses the camera and laptop situation, states that they were gifts. Also says that he had gone into the box that the camera was in to steal something else from her but left the camera, meaning it clearly hadn't meant enough to him at the time to retrieve. Highlights that it's been a year, and that he started harassing her about these items after she'd collected her scooter, which was her last "tie" to him. The timeframe of that harassment and his video come after he'd finally lost the last piece of control over her.
- Contacted the police initially to clarify that Jake didn't have a leg to stand on regarding getting her camera or laptop. She says they asked some further questions about him which they noted down. Then says that the police have been involved for much longer than Jake realises, has had visits from them and done risk assessments discussing his ongoing harassment. She has also started talking to a Solicitor rather than deal directly with Jake and blocked him everywhere following the collection of her scooter. Says it would cost Jake way more money than the items were worth if he pursued them in court.
- She says she didn't leave because she was weak, sentimental and clings on to things longer than she should. That she was afraid of "something like this" happening. And also a sunk cost fallacy of "it's been so long, leaving now would be wasted time". She didn't know how to get out without it all going to shit, and she didn't feel strong enough, didn't have someone to "hop" to afterwards like he did with Kat.
- Apologises for the length of the video, says Jake is the nastiest person she knows, and that even all of this isn't everything.

Mental health:
- Jake would "scream" at her to clean. Discusses ADHD diagnoses and how ADHD and executive disorder gets in the way. States that yes she was messy but clear that they would both make a lot of mess, "would live in squalor", and he would eventually blow up, scream at her and "clean" by shoving things out of sight.
- "He took symptoms of my mental health issues - depression, anxiety and ADHD - as a massive mark of disrespect." He would research "solutions" along the lines of "How can I -make- my partner do XYZ". Said that she was "broken and needed to be fixed" once. Felt like he didn't believe that her ADHD diagnosis was real. He was angry that medication didn't work. Thought that medication would change and Jake would "stop hating me". Tried three different medications. She is now trying to get more help with ADHD via the NHS but this is taking time.
- Begged him many times to go to therapy. He went once, didn't like it, refused to go again.
- Had been feeling the pressure for making content for her own channel to "keep them afloat" for such a long time, and when his channel finally took off had a thought that "no good can come of this". From the second he started making money, it was a weapon against her. "Your boyfriend is rich, you can take a break" she was told, so she took a break.
- Moving in 2021 was incredibly stressful, both with regards to the move and Jake's aggression surrounding it. Was on multiple anxiety medications. Breaks down when explaining that she would see friends around this time as she was "so desperate for an escape from the situation and from him" and the friends made her feel safe. Acknowledges that avoiding her problems this way wasn't good.
- Stress and anxiety ruined her appetite. Several weeks before the breakup states she had basically stopped eating.
- The last house move was going to be a re-start of her Youtube work, had a full plan that she'd explained to him about restarting her ADHD medication, trying to make it work, restarting Youtube, etc.
- Tried to be there for him when he would get very depressed or in a very dark place, to the point she worried about him hurting/killing himself, and would invent reasons to come check on him when showering etc.
- "not being able to clean doesn't justify everything he has put me through"
- Extremely unhappy with Jake telling the internet that she had been suicidal. Denies that she threatened to kill herself "if he broke up with me". Said that at the end of the relationship she was in a bad space mentally and felt suicidal - he then broke up with her and threw her out. Said it was just as well she reached out to a friend to talk to, "if that hadn't happened I don't know what would have happened". She messaged Jake the next day to ask to come home, after he hadn't bothered to reach out to check on her all night, and he said no.
- She discusses a time living at another prior house where she was holding a razor while in the bathroom, staring at it, "I wanted so fucking badly to be dead". She didn't do anything but went to wake up Jake to tell him how afraid she was, about how badly she wanted to die. This was something she struggled with a few times during the relationship, but if he was angry with her about anything at the time then she says he didn't care. She is upset about having to talk about this, but feels that she needs to discuss it since Jake already brought it up to the internet and tried to weaponize it against her.
- Says that Jake has had problems with alcohol for years, but doesn't want to get into it further.

Money/success:
- "He will stomp all over everyone to get that success" with regards to Jake being success and money driven person.
- Throughout the relationship up until the last 2-3 years, all of their money was equally split and was "our money". This included MAG which she admits he put most of the work into but succeeded thanks to her own fanbase, and situations such as her own channel having a successful merch run.
- When he started earning a lot more money towards the end, he would push her into buying things or having things bought for her. "What do you want your rich boyfriend to buy for you?" "She spent all of my money… you wanted me to? He's just trying to use that against me now." Later says "if I had known he would use this against me, I never would have taken him up on the offer."
- £23,000 motorbike, £10,000 motorbike.
- Finances were equal until he was the one earning considerably more, at which point it became "His money" not "our money".
- "We were together for almost twelve years, he had money for maybe two of them." - regarding "she was only with me for my money" claim. Make it make sense.
- Worried about his trashing of her reputation with his video tanking her income, worried about "losing everything all over again, exactly like last year when he fucked me over last time."
- "his idea of supporting me was throwing a lot of money at things and trying to push me into things I didn't want to do." Later in the video Kaya discusses Jake's sharing of multiple "supportive" messages post breakup, most of which revolve around him offering to pay for things which she never took him up on "because I knew what he was doing, that he would use those screenshots against me later. Which he has."
- A lot of pressure around MAG being successful as Jake was so desperate to be rich and famous, especially when the third member left. Kaya would put more and more energy into MAG and drifted away from her own content as a result. Setup alone for MAG sessions was stressful due to Jake's anger issues.
- Jake wanted her to stop doing Youtube. Told her years ago when she was the bigger channel that she didn't deserve the subs or fame she had. He would should and scream about "always being a +1" or "only being ToxicTears' boyfriend" while tagging his pictures "ToxicTearsboyfriend" and then denied in his video that she contributed to his channel growth.
- Debunks Jake's claims of "I paid for everything for the move to Barcelona". Kaya paid for the services that never came through as the move never happened. She had to take out a Paypal loan, to put into his bank account, to prove that they had enough money in the bank to the Spanish Government to be allowed to go live there.
- Felt that she couldn't bring up any issues with him as he would say "I give you all this money, I buy all this stuff, I pay all our bills". Admits she never earned as much as he did, but she split everything with him for much longer than the timeframe where he earned more than she did. He claims there was no financial abuse but she says he used money to control her and the relationship constantly.
- Jake got jealous of complements given to Connor regarding his input with the band, to the point he discussed dropping him from the band with Kaya. Pure jealousy, Jake has to be the center of attention.
- Denies having a shopping addiction. She was pushed into a certain lifestyle by "rich boyfriend" and states at one point that she would fill the void left by not being in a loving relationship with purchases. "Nobody loves me but at least I have a nice dress".
- Jake apparently got the timelines for Kaya's jobs wrong but she says it doesn't really matter. Not sympathetic at all about Kaya struggling with the jobs and not enjoying them. Says that he "let" her leave her dayjobs, and this was only when her Youtube was doing well.

Friends/Cheating:
- Reconnected with friends that she "lost when she was with Jake because no-one could fucking stand him". They couldn't stand being around him, or he would flirt with them and be sexually inappropriate which would make them uncomfortable - this went on through their entire relationship to the point she couldn't have female friends. Male friends were threatening to him and he'd put on a "macho show".
- Found out about things she didn't even know about after the breakup from female friends she thought would be "safe from him". He would touch people inappropriately, she would catch him at times being inappropriate with people.
- Has gone places she otherwise wouldn't have felt she could have, such as Slimelight club night in London, because of him "flirting with everyone and making her miserable" because that is what he did whenever he went out, especially if drunk. Way too "touchy feely" with girls when drunk.
- "There is a reason he has no friends, and it's not my fault."
- He would say horrible things about Kaya while with others, to the point they didn't want to spend time with them.
- "We came as a package deal, it was so co-dependant, so yeah there were people I lost touch with… and now they're back because Jake's gone."
- Admits that she would defend him if anyone spoke badly of him, but this led to friends not digging deeper into his poor treatment of her as they presumed that they had something deeper going on and there can't have been any issue if she would defend any negative comments towards him.
- Reconnected with friends over lockdown away from Jake, which is where the co-dependency started to end. Went out without him more, which she felt a lot of tension and resentment from him for, and says she felt like it was because he was losing some control over her. Broke down to him about "not wanting to lose my friends".
- Had caught him cheating on her with "a girl from work" in the early years of the relationship. Regularly caught him flirting with girls online and had begged him to stop.
- Kaya does not believe that Jake was not speaking to Kat prior to their breakup, She had spotted a "gross" comment on a thirst trap picture from Kat appearing on his ipad. Admits to having looked through his phone messages in the past - every single time finding what she expected to find in terms of messages to/from other girls - but says she did not open the message from Kat. Admits not the right thing to do, was actively working on trying to stop doing it. Every time in the past she would find messages to/from other girls and confronted him about it, he would turn it around on her for going through his phone and make her the bad guy and get away with it. The message from Kat was inappropriate and sexual, and clearly in response to something he had said but she didn't open it to see what that was. She confronted him about it, "she is married and has a child.." and he denied anything was going on.
- Figures that there were probably other times Jake cheated on her during their relationship but she was only aware of the one time prior. "Other times I suspect he did something but he denies it".
- Had to go back to the house to look after Sebastian while Jake was on tour, after they had broken up. This was when she found all of Kat's hair all over the sofa, and in the bed, along with cumstains on the sheets. Jake says he got together with Kat post-tour, yet this doesn't explain all of her hair around the house while he was -on- tour.
- Ten minutes after confronting Jake via text over the hair in the bed, asking whose it was, Kaya got a message from Kat's husband asking "are you and Jake still together", which is how she put two and two together there. Kaya talked with Dean quite a bit so that they could both piece together what was going on. Apparently Kat had been talking shit about Kaya previously, calling her a "fat useless bitch" and saying she was going to slap her.
- Apparently Jake had agreed to keep being with Kat secret for a year.

Anger issues/Abuse:
- At London Edge convention afterparty, attractive guy comes over and is pleasant to the group but not flirty, Jake throws a tantrum back at the hotel and refuses to attend the convention the next day and threatened to break up with her. This, despite him having flirted with Kaya's friends at the convention himself earlier that day - she had begged him to stop, he denied doing it, continued anyway. He then turned up at the convention later acting like nothing had happened.
- When moving house in the middle of 2021, she felt unable to help as he would scream at her until she broke down. When trying to clear one of the bedrooms he was yelling, screaming and hitting things. "And that always really scared me."
- "Something that he would do, he was aware that it scared me, if he was angry at me and we were in the car together he would drive in a really aggressive, stressful way that really really scared me. He knew this as I would sit crying and shaking in my seat as he drove in this really scary way and yelled at me."
- "He may not have ever hit me but it felt like he always made sure that I knew he could, and more than that, that he wanted to." Would yell at her while punching doors. "Feels like he wants to hit me but takes it out on something else." He tried to say that the door-hitting didn't happen - it didn't happen in the most recent house. Has an email from previous landlord furious about damage to the house - "Damage to walls and door of the room used for music room". Most of the holes were the bathroom door - the bathroom was the only door that locked, so she would go in there and that is the door that got punched more.
- "Is he lying about this (violent rage) rarely happening or does he not remember?" A month prior to moving out of previous house, smashed plates around the kitchen and screamed, after being reminded of food he'd left on kitchen table. When they found out they were being evicted from yet another house prior to that, she grabbed the cat, ran out of the house to a neighbour she was friendly with as he started throwing and smashing things in rage. (There are so many stories like these peppered through the video..)
- Would lie awake after a fight at night thinking "if he finally snaps one day, i would probably die. he could kill me with one punch."
- She basically lived for the moments he would be nice and affectionate to her. During lockdown he had grown generally aggressive and unpleasant, and one time she pretended to be asleep when he came to bed after streaming so as to not deal with him. He brushed her hair and kissed her forehead, and that meant so much to her that she continued to pretend to be asleep so that he would do the same thing, "because it was the only time he was nice to me. when he thought i wasn't awake to experience it".
- Says he would make massive decisions to "save their relationship" such as moving to Barcelona and announcing it without discussing at all with Kaya. While talking to a mutual friend while drunk, when it was mentioned that Kaya didn't seem very keen on the idea, Jake said "nah she'll be fine once she's there". When friend said "you can't force someone to do something they don't want to do", Jake replied "ah, but you can manipulate them" - Kaya heard this story from that friend post-breakup.
- He got angry with her after breaking up with her and throwing her out of their home, when she didn't clean the whole place up on her way out the door. Also that he was angry that she didn't say thankyou after collecting her stuff from him after he had been trash talking her in comment-rants online.
- Discusses comments other people have pointed out, from the "boyfriend tag" video where it was mentioned she had to gather up her things to avoid them getting broken. Compilations people had made of his aggressive behaviour. Discusses times her mum had to come pick her up after "he'd done something awful" but "didn't ask too many questions because she knew I wouldn't want to say anything bad about him".
- Says that Jake turned up randomly at the studio post-breakup, after Kaya had discussed her mum's cancer scare, saying if she said anything else he would throw her out of the studio. "he had so much fucking control over me, I didn't get to process any of this properly. I didn't get to be angry…. I for the most part had to stay really silent."
- Says that she "wasn't allowed to be angry" during their relationship. She had to bottle it up, only he was allowed to be angry.
- Jake complained that Kaya never comforted him, but she says it's very hard to comfort someone when their only emotion is anger and using you as an emotional punching bag. Says the only time she's ever seen him "hurt" as opposed to angry, was when "things went down with John and MAG" which pushed her into defensive mode as response to his hurt.
- Jake says that it is okay to punch doors in anger and that he isn't doing anything wrong, and that he had warned Kaya prior to their relationship about his anger issues - Kaya highlights that she was sixteen at the time.
- States that Jake would be careful to yell at her over the phone or in person, presumably so that there was no paper trail of his anger post-breakup. Says that he told her in person that he was "proud that he cheated on me with Kat, proud that it got him out of a toxic relationship".
- Discusses yet another past incident when talking about dealing with the police, where she followed him into his studio after an argument to try and talk it out and he slammed the door on her so hard that it connected with her feet. He then shouted at her for crying about being hurt.

Sex life/body issues:
- Denies that they never had sex for a year. Says the longest they went was during lockdown when things were really bad and tense between them, and that was six months.
- Says that she would compliment him regularly, comment on his hair, outfits, weightloss etc. So him saying otherwise isn't true.
- Around the time of the last house move, they -were- having sex, "even at times when I wasnt in the mood I would still go with it anyway because I didn't want him to feel bad". When she would decline sex due to not feeling in the mood - adding that the only time he was really affectionate was when she felt he was chasing sex - he would go from cuddly to rolling away from her in bed ending all affection.
- Was made to feel that it was her fault that she wasn't interested in sex with Jake, to the point she went to the Doctor about it, worried that "dryness" was medical - it was not, she just wasn't into it. Her sexdrive has "increased incredibly" since the breakup.
- States early in their relationship Jake would call her fat. Later he would be more subtle about it, giving her shit for not going to the gym. Mentioned Jake knocking her hand away from food at a party saying "dont. calories" and then said "things like that were common with Jake."
- Towards end of relationship, she told him she didn't feel good about her body. He replied "You know I don't mind that." Insecurity about her body and how he viewed her body and commented on it, made it hard for her to initiate sex or get intimate.
- Wasn't his appearance that put her off of sex, it was his anger issues, him only being affectionate when he wanted sex making her feel used, the thirst traps he would post online, his desperation for other female validation, underage girls thirsting over him.
- He would yell about his height very regularly, how "no-one respected him because he was short". He has a weird obsession with penis size in other people, getting extremely angry when finding out about other men being well hung. Does mention though that he doesn't have any issues himself, but weird that he gets so bent out of shape about other men having big dicks.
- Sex wasn't very good, for her. Very little foreplay, and if there was any then it wasn't very good. Didn't go down on her but complained that she didn't go down on him often enough. Sex very vanilla - Kaya doesn't consider herself vanilla. "About 20 minutes of "pounding" in about 1-3 positions". Very dry, painful. Faked orgasms - surprised he didn't know - only came a handful of times but was concerned about hurting his feelings.
- He was strange regarding sex and discussing sex. He would get weird and storm out during sex scenes on TV in movies, etc. She didn't bring it up or discuss with him "due to his existing insecurities".
- Jake responded to being asked to be a little rougher in bed, with "and end up as a part of #MeToo? No thanks". Incredibly weird thing to say.

It’s about time all this came out, ole fakey can’t back out of this one now

Says lolcow 5 times… claims he doesn’t read lolcow. Okay, bud. Sure thing.

>>1709943
omg thank you for the effortpost anon!

>>1709943
Well damn. That was a lot to read, but thank you for the summary.

>>1709952
This shit had me dying tbh, just like that one anon who always assures us Jake and Kat most definitely don't post here, but Kaya and Kaya's friends most definitely do! Lil dude really told on himself. lmao

>>1709943
Thank you so much for the detailed recap anon, this is honestly heartbreaking to hear what she went through and how she felt. The bit about him only being kind to her when she was asleep, ye gods

>>1709956
My narc-relationship-trauma and desire to see this mans career go up in flames is your gain.
>>1709962
Honestly the whole thing was painful to watch in places. She literally breaks down talking about it, it's so fucking sad.
I hope Jake rage-drives himself into the sea.

my predictions for his response (and he definitely will respond, his ego will not allow him not to):
>"these are very serious allegations!"
>if he had ever made anyone feel uncomfortable or sexually harassed, they should have gone to the police
>very smug about kaya's emotional distress, bragging about being so calm and "evidence"-based in comparison
>he couldn't provide intimacy because kaya is a starfish and her pussy smells
>kaya is fat and he isn't attracted to her
>how dare she make fun of his insecurities
>he isn't a manlet and has a big penis
>no one else has ever complained about his skills in bed and he totally has had the sex with sexy women who like sex
>also kaya is fat and he isn't attracted to her

>>1709971
Should we be worried about how quiet it is on his side?

There really isn't anything he can say in response is there??!!

Your predictions will probably be spot on

>>1709982
He's probably busy smashing the place up in a narc rage, no doubt he will have plenty to say in return but you can guarantee he is SEETHING at the stuff about sex, his height, his insecurities etc.

I'm truly not looking forward to his response because I'm sure he's going to be horrible about Kaya and try to hit at her insecurities too.

>>1709985
>I'm sure he's going to be horrible about Kaya and try to hit at her insecurities too
No doubt he's going to complain about how fat she is and that she never hit the gym and that's sooo unfair to him, despite the weight gain being caused by medication and depression

i just hope she's safe.
seeing her insta looks like she's got good friends around her.

Kinda pumped to start a #canceljakemunro movement in anticipation of his inevitable vile narc spewing. Snickers legged little bitch

>>1709995
Can we actually?!
#canceljakemunro

the irony lol

when you go look at her profile there's like 3 posts and 2 are about him

Anyone catch the fact that when they met, he was 19/20 and she was 16???

>>1710001
more of his recent replies

>>1710004
He's in full spiral mode now kek!

"i want to be better"

right after insulting someone's appearance.

>>1710004
He's one to talk, his anus head tattoo was so distracting during his video. He's doing V-tubing because he's ugly as hell.

>>1709989
You don’t understand, Nonna, Kaya’s inability to be anorexic was abusive and entirely disrespectful towards him, the poor lad.

>>1710009
Fucking kek, I couldn’t concentrate on his narc meltdown vid because I was too busy staring at that festering head wound. Any money his Vtubing model won’t have his syphillistic-looking tattoos.

His fans really show what kind of person he is. You attract what's similar to you and the lot of his fans are pathetic

>>1710015
The parasocial relationships these people have with him are just sad.

>>1710015
Fuck me, every last one of his “snaccs” (either literally children or middle aged momma bear types) need a thorough psychological intervention. I can’t imagine wanting to rewatch a two hour video of negativity upon negativity… and THANKING the creator for creating such content. Bring back shame.

>>1709943
You’re a saint, nonnie angel. Thank you so much for doing that, a huge effort! I’m kind of speechless. None of it was terribly shocking (I did raise my eyebrows quite a bit at some parts though), i just feel sad for her that while she is trying to move on, he’s still so obsessed with her that he has to keep being a full perpetrator. Antagonist. His insecurities are GLEAMING.

Obviously he’s going to respond, I just have hopes that she laughs it off and never mentions him again. She said her piece, finally. Let him drown himself now. Any reply he makes is just going to be a laugh anyways. Grow girl, rid yourself of that little rat. No more crying over this bloated dickwad.

>>1710015
Shit attracts flies.

>>1710015
His snaccs are so pathetic. They are either 30+ desperate to stay young low self esteem pick me's, troons, dumb teenage girls who think he's smart and a bunch of misogynist scrotes. It's like he got the fan trail mix but all the good nutters are gone all that's left are dried up raisins and those ones that taste like stale cardboard.

My favourite part of Kayas video is explaining Jake having a fucking meltdown because William Defoe has a bigger dick than him.

Looking through the current replies to his vid, there's a narrative going on that Jake's vid is justified because Kaya was the first to respond and made a vid first? (I'm thinking her breakup vid was up longer than his side, and the dumb dumbs didn't catch that when he took his down). Also she was passive aggressive - Jake's online raging comments going into detail about financials and the situation, as recorded here, pales in comparison to anything she offhand mentioned in any Q & A.
On IG, I found it funny to see Jake repost a photo he took with a fan…from Dec 2021.

Looks like Jake deleted his Instagram.

>>1710086

Nah, I found it.

Would love to see what’s going on with Kat. She sounds like a piece of shit too

Ain’t nobody want this lol!>1710095

>>1710095
She totally does. I thought she was just really stupid but the more I hear about her to more I feel she's a total piece of shit.

Halfway through Kaya's video, it's interesting because it actually seems like he's the most insecure, selfish, angry man and he couldn't express affection towards her properly due to his mental state. He has anger fits over the kost absurd things, as mentioned by recap anon. Over turkey leftovers, over a man smiling at Kaya.
I actually get the impression he is probably crying into his monster energy right now after watching the video, after desperately provoking her for a year, here is the response you wanted Jake and it's probably painful af.
She gains confidence as she works through the content in the video, I think it's important for her to get it out and it's very clear the problem was him. It actually seems like he did care about her but he's seriously mentally ill, untreated of course, and that led to the most absurd behavior, like how he is torpedoing his life right now.

>>1710117
Fully agreed except swap the monster energy with long island ice tea since he and skat like to double fist them

What Kaya said about him being sweet and affectionate towards her by giving her kisses and petting her hair when he thought she was asleep is so odd. I’ve had an ex who’s done something similar, and I just.. can’t figure out why they do that. Complete monster in every other sense but sweet when they think you aren’t awake

>>1710125
I almost think it’s a dominant thing. Like a dog, like unfortunately when he’s wake he’s like, “look at how trashy I am” and at home he probably settles into “ more normal stage”? Idk I’m making shit up>>1710125

I think part of why I believe her so much more (aside from Jake being a cunt) is that he obviously planned his video. He worked out what he was going to say and how he was going to make himself appear angelic.

She, however, was blindsided by his video, watched it and instantly filmed her side which makes it more believable because she wouldn’t have had time to concoct stories or think about how she could twist things to be the truth.

My favourite part of her video was “for someone was aggressive and angry in life, he was very much the opposite in bed” I could not stop laughing at that. He must be seething.

>>1710004
>"with a face like that I'd recommend using an anime pfp"
Says the dude who literally spent hundreds to thousands on VR equipment so he could do just that: hide his face behind an anime character but be able to continue streaming without putting effort into his appearance.

>>1710125

It has to do with resentment and of course power. narcs resent the people they care about because they view that as a weakness, they view it as that person having "power" over them. yeah it's as stupid as it sounds. They really are the most insecure fucks on earth. They don't really have the capacity to care though, when they show affection to a sleeping person they are projecting who they want that person to be onto them at that time (and all they want is a doormat pretty much to serve them silently). It's another reason why they hate you when you are awake, then they can't use you as a blank canvas

>>1710153
god, there were so many unintentionally funny bits to that video. Jake losing his shit over Willem Dafoe having a large dick and Kaya just being completely dumbfounded by the over-reaction had me dead. I know she was only trying to be honest, but she absolutely dragged the pathetic little loser.

Did anyone else catch the bit about Jake having "not very nice things" to say about Kat initially before eventually hooking up with her?

>>1710195
The fact he didn't speak to her all day after she was laughing about William Dafoe supposedly having a big dick, imagine being so insecure.
Being affectionate while she was asleep is insecurity too, exactly as this anon >>1710180 said, caring about your SO is "weakness"
I'm this anon >>1710117 and after watching the whole thing, my opinion is the same. He's mentally unwell but refuses to address it so projects it on everyone else.

Some stuff recap anon didn't mention:
Interesting how Kaya confirmed a lot of stuff posited in this thread: she did think him taking Kat to all her favourite places was intentional, she specified Barcelona was very much "their" thing and some other place he took Kat was somewhere she had expressed she wanted to go.
He was harassing her on her most recent London trip, she has been ignoring him other than noting his online rants about her and discussing them irl (sounds like she's been reading the thread, or a friend sent her the screenshots, since those were deleted fast)
She mentions he is hated in Belfast and references the reddit thread where they're talking about how much they hate him.
She and Dean met up a few times post-breakup (she refers to him only as "Kat's ex" or similar, not by name iirc) to compare notes and figure out what was going on, but this wasn't until a few months after Kat was revealed to be Jake's new girlfriend.
The "hair in the bed" was actually hair on bed, sofa, and cum on the sheets (ew) as previously mentioned. Kaya was very offended and viewed it as intentional since she was supposed to visit to look after the cat (Sebastian)
Kaya was offended Kat went through her boxes of stuff (why would she even need to?) while Jake was sorting them.
The camera/laptop obsession: she does use that camera for filming and has done since 2020. Jake has expressed multiple times that she doesn't "deserve" her fame and her Youtube channel, so there is some idea that trying to take her camera is some attempt to attack her channel.
Kaya views his video as an attack on her channel and income, hence rushing out a response.
He very much forced the whole "moving to barcelona" idea including some idea he made up about her starting an art shop in Barcelona, despite Kaya only viewing it as a hobby. It seems almost like Jake has a really fixed idea of what he wants to happen and if anything defers from that, he flips.
Jake has been harassing her via every platform, text, calls, everything since the breakup.
Kaya has a solicitor who she asked for advice, and has also been in touch with the police since October since she wanted to know if he had any grounds with the camera/laptop shit (they said he doesn't) and they did a risk assessment with her based on his previous violence.
While she states many times he never hit her, she states towards the end of the video that there were incidents where things he would throw or break would hit her and hurt her, he also slammed a door hard on her foot the one time she tried to go after him when he was angry versus avoiding him.
As recap anon mentioned, she was afraid he would punch her and describes him as "very strong" and thought one punch could kill her, so the violence around her still frightened her very much.

Lol Kat trying to pretend she wasn't kicked out

>>1710213
If it was amicable, then why was she thrown out of the tattoo parlour they had together. Must have been super nasty for her to leave a business she had with her husband.

>>1710003
16 is the age of consent in the UK so it was legal but whether that kind of age gap is ethical is another thing. I had a 19 nearly 20 y/o bf when I was 16, that relationship lasted 7 years and guess what, he was abusive as fuck too!!

Looks like Jake gave up on trying to remove the criticisms from his most recent insta of him and Kat. I wonder in his next video if he's going to start banging the " She's using her toxic fanbase to harrass me!!!" Drum

>>1710213
Fuck, I think I like Kaya now. the being-a-fake-goth grudge I had against her now seems so little and petty compared to how dignified and based she is acting now, spilling all the beans without any fear or extensive planning and screenwriting like Jake did because she just has to tell it to the camera. If that's acting, she deserved a fucking oscar, any sane person who compares the two videos will see that.
And all because Jake thought it would be a good idea to make that video full of lies to try to "destroy" her… If he only had left her alone as she stated time and time again that she wanted no contact with him, as far as having a solicitor and the police involved…
He brought it upon himself KEK AETERNUS

where did Kat post that?

>>1710217
He just went ahead and deleted all of these.

I honestly think this shows a lot on the depths of truth in kayaks video. I've watched both and to see her fellow friends even comment who have spent time with Jake speaks volumes.

>>1709673
There's a whole reddit thread about this now too: https://www.reddit.com/r/internetdrama/comments/z49sog/a_whole_year_later_jake_munro_posts_a_two_hour/

>>1710213
His instergram still there I think this person was blocked
I saw on the other thread that jake has bipolar dud he admitted this? Im not giving him my view

>>1710228
He said he was "semi-diagnosed" (i.e., a psychiatrist said he may have it because of his rages) but didn't pursue it any further because he was ashamed of taking medication for it and has since got over it himself

>>1710229
LOL. The same thing he was shitting on her for. He really is a master of projection.

>>1710200 I'm sure most people who have been in abusive relationships can relate to so many of these anecdotes but especially for me the financial control, control over moving somewhere to isolate you further and driving dangerously/threatening to crash the car when you disagree with them - all this stuff is so textbook. Coercive control is reportable to the police now Kaya, if he does anything collate as much of this stuff as you can and take it to the police. His own video basically admits he was aggressive and coercive. https://www.cps.gov.uk/legal-guidance/controlling-or-coercive-behaviour-intimate-or-family-relationship

>>1710232 I know anon isn't Kaya btw but in case she reads lolcow, don't feel any remorse about completely napalming Jake's life because otherwise he will try to do it to yours.

>>1709395
Many yrs ago, narc bf was still friends w his exes and had “beautiful” female friends, seemingly mentioned it to make me think hot girls threw themselves at him or surrounded themselves with him…. a 6’ 250 lb computer nerd. We met online and I was expecting to meet a more mature type, not that chubby, musician as we met on a music forum, but dude didn’t have a job.

anyway it was ok for him to go to coffee dates with his ex who was his “best friend” even though she said whack shit about me (I shouldn’t tell my bf if he can do drugs or not, I don’t love him for who he is.” That’s a lovely stoners sentiment, but at the time shrooms and cannabis were illegal and I wasn’t old enough to drink yet. I thought it’d be better if he did things other than drugs in his free time. Anyway, one day I invited him to my friends birthday where I’ve never even kissed this dude, he was my platonic friend since high school and I knew I wouldn’t see him again bc jealous bf. My bf said “wow I didn’t know you still hugging your guy friends closely. thats pretty intimate. And you just stared in each other’s eyes…” yes we had been good friends and never shared any inappropriate affection.

He also complained that I gave him a cooler bday present (I knew this friend longer, he loved pirates, sponge bob, it was kind of a gag gift with a long candy necklace involved, with Mardi Gras beads, but my bf was jealous, seeing green. seemed annoying the my friend who was trying to get my h to take me on the most romantic date chose someplace “very expensive.” and so not only was a terrible flirt, I preferred my platonic friend from high school over him as seen by thoughtful gift, and I was a princess expecting to be taken somewhere expensive, receiving my friends “blessing.” :/(:/)

>>1710241
This is not your blog

Angela bendict and Emily boo have shown their support on her video now.

Stumpy ain't got a leg to stand

>>1710270
post caps or sage your shit

>>1710272
>>1710270
(Not the Anon, but I capped it anyway.)

>>1710272
On that note, Kaya seems to have some popular people speaking up for her. Like other anons said it speaks volumes. The majority of comments on fakes video are negative now. Little mans hands couldnt delete them all fast enough

He bought all this expensive stuff, but couldn’t get a housekeeper. He had all these receipts, but none stating he ever helped with HER mental health.

really after learning everything from kaya's video (which we all suspected but perhaps didn't know the full extent of..) it puts everything into perspective. her "laziness" or even the weight gain, hell she was dealing with his narc ass belittling her constantly no wonder she turned to food for comfort. gained weight, got yelled at more, ate more… vicious cycle. i wouldn't be surprised if he was the one claiming it was the meds as well

The fact that he starts his video saying “I have to apologize for two things. One my hair, I didn’t have time to do it. And two I’m sorry I didn’t make a video sooner to give my followers ammunition to fight in my corner”
Holy shit.

>>1710307
It’s great seeing her coming out with all the bits truth now it must feel good to finally grief properly and let it out. I think it all coming out will help her heal better

Little man his brother reacted at Kaya het video

>>1710351
What a fucking sadsack, so this is Jake's brother? On his channel there's a vlog attempt video in Tokyo which is definitely skinwalking Jake back when he was a bit more Casey Neistat styled. Embarrassed for him

Oh he's starting to respond to comments,let's see how long it takes him to melt down completely

Jake thumbnail picture looks like he been abused and harassed for a year when really it I'm better then her money money money

I'm betting the video be gone by next week

>>1710348
Jakes brother leaves by saying “ I know he hates me, but I can’t find it in me to hate him”
Jake can’t seem to keep everyone in his life. He hates everyone. Hopefully Kat is reading this.

Ha ha its all back fired on him
Tried to drag her down but ruined himself even more but im sure he still blaming kaya

>>1710357
major kek at Jake's brother seeing this as a chance to win Jake's sympathy by wking him.

>>1710330
Yeah me me me but her video started with q general sorry about her mental heath and being messy

>>1710230
Yup he thick as shit

>>1710270
Where the Emily boo comment i can't find it

“Didn’t you watch the fucking video?”
“I’m not going to get a mature response from you”
If this is how he speaks to people he doesn’t know imagine living with him.

Having a receipt doesn’t prove that those things weren’t a gift and he’s not getting that threw his thick skull. Especially after admitting in his video him and cat were the ones to go through the boxes and split everything up. He’s just telling on himself in public

Even VAMPIREFREAKS came out to support kaya. I didn’t even know they still existed.

Sorry I’m lost. Who’s this?

>>1710373
These comments are all gone now, I checked a few minutes ago that insta post had 200-something comments, now it's down to 190 something

Edit: just checked, 200 now. Will he be able to keep up?

>>1710377
the egg hatching photo is cute tbh

“…A child you didn’t flirt with..” woof. I have a feeling more people are going to come out with stories of their own very soon

You know, if I thought it meant he’d leave her alone I’d support her having some sort of donation goal (just to imagine the vein throbbing on his stupid thick head at the thought of people rallying round her, which is really bothering him, he just doesn’t get that it’s his personality that’s causing the issues) to replace the equipment he claims she’s ‘stolen’ if it was vital to running her channel and let him have it back. But he’d just find something else to harass her about, he doesn’t give a shit about the equipment, it’s just the last vestige of control he has left.

It's so fun how easy Jake makes it to discredit the things Jake says in his own video, remember how much of a song and dance he makes about MAG and how he did all the work boo hoo poor jakey ? They did hire an editor, Vox. There were three other people involved in the making of MAG and he can't bring himself to credit a single one of them, Vix and the work she did for him, all the time she spent? Meaningless. Utterly meaningless to him and even moreso now that he's deleted it all, again, without input from the three other people involved in it's creation. Sincerely from the bottom of my heart fuck this man, I wish him every misfortune.

>>1710216
Lol luck for me, I dated a guy when I was maybe 17, j think he was like,37,( I was a slut) and well, the relationship wasn’t too bad ( it lasted for a year)it’s always about who youre dating(braindead blogpost )

The “toxictearsboyfriend” hashtag she was talking about in her video. Very telling and obvious what he was doing here. He was a nobody

He’s lost 2k subscribers since Friday. Fake, Fake, Fake, this really hasn’t gone down the way you hoped has it?

>>1710226
Found this in the reddit thread. kek

>>1710400
I love how majestically this whole thing blew up in his own face. He really thought he was doing something.

>>1710373
If he wanted to get rid of her soo badly and she was oh such a bad person, why not just say "fuck those 1200, it was an expensive lesson not to let her touch my stuff without being there" and the end? He just NEEDS a connection to her, it's all just an excuse.

>>1710406
why does that look like a mugshot picture? forewarning perhaps kek

>>1710393
That's disturbing

Looks like #munrogirlfriend never picked up lol

All this time, Fake could’ve been putting his focus and energy towards Kat, his new girlfriend. Try to forget about Kaya. But no, Fake isn’t normal.
You would think Kat would see this obsession of his and be put off by it, but she’s a genuine idiot. His violence should at least make her worry for the safety of her child.

If jake had a brain cell he would just restricted the comments on his instergram pictures rather then deleting them all

>>1710419
Textbook narc, nothing anyone else does is "cool enough" and they need to drag you to your face about it
>>1710426
There's no way she doesn't see it but she's in too deep now. She literally destroyed her marriage and home to be with a pathetic narc obsessed with his ex who isn't even good in bed lol explains why their only fans looks as hot as day old oatmeal.
Jake is an abuser, men like that don't act magically nicer in a new relationship, so he's already been abusing her. Probably every compliment she gets is with a dig at Kaya included. He's straight up obsessed.

>>1710426
He isn't doing that because his relationship with Kat is already dying. Why not just jump start the next chapter of harassing Kaya? He's shown he has no patience when it comes to the end of relationships

>>1710426
She probably loving the negative talking about kaya cause it makes her look like an better sane gf but she probably become a obsessive stalker too. Wouldn't put it past her to leave negative comments about kaya on these website over the last year there beeb very sus on the nose comments

>>1710428
He wants the attention from the small selection of snaccs who are still crawling up his arsehole

>>1710354
Honestly even if Kaya did steal the camera and laptop, good for her. In all seriousness, this idiot doesn’t get that he doesn’t have to harass her to “get his things back.” If you find out you’ve been blocked on everything maybe take it as a fucking hint to consider it as a loss. Whining over 1.2k when you’re claiming you’re successful is retarded as fuck. Kaya may have taken his money but he took her money and fucked with her mental and physical health.

Honestly would love to be a fly on the wall in Jakes House atm it either be smashed up or calling kaya everything under the sun glued to his phone deleting comments and planning his panic response

>>1710430
He would got away with his abuse if he just shut up. I think kaya not responding to his digs or talking to him made him rage more

Would any of you happen to remember any specific moments between Jake and Kelly Eden in those old vlogs they did that stood out to you as Jake being flirty with her?

>>1710435
Yeah, not to blogpost but I'm sure lots of anons can relate to being in less than healthy relationships and often part of ending that means taking a financial hit in one way or another - whether they owe you money and don't pay it back, or you have to cover rent that you used to share, or they end up with items that you originally bought and owned. Healthy people just cut their losses, learn a lesson from the experience and move on. Jake is a textbook narcissist and as many have said, this is just another way to control and abuse Kaya when she's doing a good job of moving on with her life.

>>1710428
Funny enough, Kat has done this. One of the only smart things she’s done.

>>1710435
Best thing she could do is post the equipment to him he have no excuse that she has anything his now and all his points would be invalid and she could turn around say your keeping my bike from me so he pretty much stolen just like she apparently has he is with holding her bike that theft

>>1710443
That means she active on her let's be real

Hi kat

>>1710443
She hasn't on her gross OF insta profile though, its linked in her bio.

>>1710419
amateur musician moids are so predictable kek. he can't cope with the fact that someone (let alone a woman) can have musical talent and play an actual instrument. playing saxophone takes discipline, practise and skill, none of which he has. (btw nonna, your icon is showing)

>>1710432
I 100% believe both she and Jake post here. Every time someone tries to detail the thread into "but what about how horrible Kaya is??" I've been suspicious. A lazy ADHD YouTuber is just not the same as a raging narc abuser, especially now that we know he's literally been sucking the joy of life out of her for over a decade

>>1710449
I dated a horrible narc moid just like him. Shit on everyone and everything but when he took the stage people would literally leave he was that bad. Of course he thought of himself as a tortured genius

>>1710450
Agreed - I think what's especially telling is that even before the breakup, anons were more critical of Jake because he was clearly a piece of work. Now we've seen how he was directly impacting Kaya's mental wellbeing and generally making her life shitty, no wonder she wasn't creating content much and just doing boring unboxings (looking back at old threads, those seemed to be the bigger criticisms along with her being silly - but harmless - about the swan thing). He's never been popular here

>>1710445
I checked her Insta this morning before any mention of limiting comments came to be on here and it was still very much limited back then so I very much doubt we inspired her to be cautious. I think she just knows deep down she’s public enemy number one and is running shit scared from any backlash her “daddy” might toss her way.

>>1710440
this part comes to mind, from 2:09 to 2:33

>>1710419
sax is one of the most post-punk instruments ever, he's such a fool, he never has ANY idea about what he's talking about smugly
>>1710440
I follow kelly's threads too, so I'll try to get the receipts that I remember exist in her own threads. For example: once Jake and Kaya were in the US hanging with Kelly and Dee in a toy store. Jake was following Kelly all around like a puppet on a string. At one point they enter an isle, he or she, i dont remember, picks up a toy that moves on it's own, Jake automatically starts making gross innuendos at Kelly. The girls all go eeeeeew. I'll get others soon.

>>1710444
Yes! And now that we KNOW Kaya is reading us here: do this Kaya. Mail him or have the equipment delivered to him by someone. He will then have NOTHING to connect him to you, if he still tries, I bet he can get arrested.

>>1710450
I usually don't like the out of the blue "hi cows" but it is clear that very specific anons were him and Kat. Kat was that really dumb one that couldn't spell to save a life and wrote like a chav stereotype that was insisting that Kaya was hated among Belfast's underground- which was proven to be false, as even real life accquaintances are coming out in support of her- and that she only hung out with cokeheads. They even tried to double down and say she and her friends were doing crack. That must be why she only writes SHOTS! and DADDY! because she's nearly illiterate.

samefag to add
>>1710461
You found it while I was typing! I guess it stuck in everyone's memory. It matches perfectly with the info Kaya gave us about him. It's on video, how will he spin this? kek

>>1710461
>>1710463
I'm making a compilation so anything you can find helps! I tried combing through the archives of this thread but no one has linked any videos as far as I can see sadly

>>1710430
Yeah, Kat probably is really feeling that sunk-cost. I know abusers don’t change, but all of this mess (his waning popularity, further “damages to reputation”, etc.) could have been avoided if Fake moved on. It’s just baffling. He caused his own downfall.
Fake has spent a lot on Kat and her kid too, right? She better be ready for solicitors if she ever breaks up with him.

>>1710464
haha yes unfortunately it stuck in my mind for being so gross and disrespectful toward kaya!

>>1710461
He lurks this thread, so someone should save this before it gets deleted.

>>1710465
i may have to torture myself and watch through the other vlogs from LA to spot anymore

>>1710467
and Kelly, no matter what you think of her. If my friend's boyfriend said that to me, I'd be feeling so disrespected, so outraged
>>1710468
yes! archiving nonnas, archive everything!

>>1710386
I'm honestly considering to buy her plushie when it comes out because its just a cat which is always cute and it will make Jake seethe even more lmao

>>1710469
I'll be wading through them myself, I've been trying to think of other moments like the Kelly vlogs too. I feel there's been a few vlogs he's posted that had people talking about if he hates Kaya or if he's cheating over the years as well

>>1710463

Are we thinking of the same one? The one that sticks out to me the most was the anon who described Kat's set in detail no viewer could know. Was about 2 threads ago.

Either way about it, there have been a few I am 80% sure were Kat or Fake, from their actions I'm pretty sure they've posted here. I mean hell, if I can't help but check multiple times a day despite never commenting till yesterday, surely that pair of narcs wouldn't be able to help read people talking about them.

I really wonder how K had that fallout with Fake. For a while, the two were pretty close, taking trips and all together. Did K know the whole time about the Kaya situation or was K fed lies about it from Fake? I’m guessing Fake gradually started acting more like an asshole towards K and her friends.

The discussion about her and Jake is on Kelly's first thread if anyone wants to see
>>1710473
I think Kelly privated all of her videos.
>>1710480
wtf are you on about? is K suposed to be Kat?

>>1710481
No you retard, clearly you haven’t been here long. K was a TIF musician that Fake was “best bros” with for a short time. He visited her in America and paid for lots of her trips so she could come over and be with him on tour. K was the only friend Fake had left for a while.

>>1710481
K

>>1710484
samefag, she even did a podcast interview with him >>1413836