/ot/ - off-topic

As for me: after 5-6 years of depressive neetdom and babysitting my much younger siblings after graduating, I finally got a daca permit then got a retail job, went to community college for a few years, worked multiple jobs in retail, work study and office. I’m currently a university student trying to get my life together which was going fine until circumstances beyond some of my control as I think some of them might’ve given me an evil eye while stalking my fb page - I didn’t look for ‘em first as some of these people I haven’t seen for more than 10 years.

I admit, I have looked for them about 6-7 years ago out of curiosity and that was it.

One of my bullies died, I think he was like 23.

The group of the most popular mean girls are literally all nurses now kek

One of my bullies got pregnant at about 18-19 and had a kid super young, didn't get married or only had a short marriage with the kids dad and was a single parent after. Dont know much else though. Thought of cyberstalking her, seems too troublesome

Fat, dead, or addiction problems. It's pretty sad tbh.

How do you guys know these things? I don't know what anyone from school is doing or where they went, I don't even see them around town and I've only seen like one at the college I go to

>>823088
I grew up in a town with only 1500 people. News manages to get to me even though I haven't been back there in years.

a kid i used to know in middle school got shot to death on my local elementary school. He was such a nice and quiet boy when I first met him but in the end it was found out he was involved in gangs dealing drugs.

>>823069
>class of 2012
All the popular kids at my school either got into boring shit like real estate or marketing. Some are starting to get married but no kids yet.

One of them is kinda interesting, she was a horsegirl; a decent pianist and singer but was adamant about getting into theoretical physics and attempted to go to uni for it. She ended up becoming a professional dog trainer. She seems extremely happy being around dogs all the time though, good for her. Doesn't seem to have dated anyone, like ever? The most popular/handsome guy in school had a thing for her but was frienzoned by this girl that didn't brush her hair and dressed masc. Her best friend was just as unkempt and chill as her, I headcanon them as lesbians now. In general I wonder how many of the women I used to know are queer and repressed as hell, living in a shitty muslim country that will not let them live authentic lives. At least I'm outta there.

My bully of 4 shitty years of HS was a manlet who hated women. I have no idea how he is doing because I literally can't even remember his last name. He matters that little now. Feels good, hope teen me can rest easy.

>>823088
This, unless you still live next door to your highschool peers it seems really weird to know what's happening in their lives

damn did most people here go to shit tier public schools with literal trailer trash or what

This thread reminds me of these two kids I went to high school with who were kidnapped from a party by some gang members and taken to a remote road where they were shot in the head execution-style. They arrested like ten people over this case. One of the guys was supposed to get the death penalty but then the laws changed so now he's going to serve life in prison. It's genuinely fucking weird to be acquaintances with someone and then they get horrifically murdered. The other people I went to HS with who survived(im going to hell kek) are now either potheads or alcoholics smh

>>823107
My school was predominantly white at the time and I live in Texas. Most lived in the ‘burbs and gated communities while I and a few others lived (I still live) in the hood because the real estate sucks rn. However they still ended up becoming trailer trash sjw/pro-vaxx spergs.

I don't know and I don't care
I'm doing great tho
/thread

>>823088
my graduating class had 60 people in it and my high school sends out newsletters with updates on everyone lmao

wait are you telling me us farmers were the most normal and well adjusted people from our class? the fuck

>>823069
>The formerly emo/metalhead white guys and Mexicans became faggot soyboys and male feminists or Trump supporters/qtards living off their Uncle Sam money from the military.

eh Kinda, the few metalhead/emo dudes (who were mostly white and Hispanic) ended up joining the military or becoming very annoying online SJW's

>>823124
Not me, took a long time to get well adjusted. I was never cow territory, just bullied for being pathetic in a painful way lol
Last I saw someone from school who bullied me she tried to one up me and I was just shocked at how childish she still was

Most of my bullies went to college, don't have children yet and are somewhat successful..

Except the guys, they're trash and most of them didn't really pursue education after high school, they're stuck in deadend jobs or living off their parents. One is a really bad body builder and another has his instagram filled with pics of himself alone in his boat.

As for me, bullying messed me up so much that I dropped out of high school, trooned and desisted but not before almost 41%. Only now I'm trying to get my life back on track… unfortunately covid messed my plans. I'm the biggest failure of my school.

I guess my town is boring lol. Most of the girls went to community college and became teachers or nurses. The dudes with learned some type of trade or went into business. A lot of them decided to settle down young and are engaged/married to their high school or college sweetheart, so seems like they're getting ready to start their nuclear family. The ones who didn't go to college became hair stylists or tattoo artists. Some got knocked up early and spend their time complaining about baby daddy/mama drama on facebook.

Also a majority of them became shockingly fat. I'm not saying that to be asshole, it's genuinely shocking how much weight they've gained in the five years since we graduated. A lot of these girls were very physically fit but are now obese. I've def gained weight but the transformation isn't nearly as dramatic.

The only interesting updates I can think of is that 1) The scene girl of our school is still alt and does porn/only fans and 2) There was this girl who was a total disaster in school and didn't know what she wanted to do with her future. She is now trying to be an actress–specifically a disney channel star. She does local theatre and student short films and she constantly posts videos of her auditions to be in the next hit disney show/movie (I think her most recent attempt was to be in their Zombie film series?). Her goal is to go viral so that Disney will hire her. I occasionally look her up on social media just to see if she's succeeded at becoming the next Hannah Montana yet lol.

>>823124
I had some cowish behavior, I.e: telling everyone I was a witch and believing it, half of it was to stave off bullies and my asshole stepfather and chasing after guys for love and attention I never really got at home unless it was sardonic remarks. I calmed down during the second half of my junior year.

>>823137
I’m really sorry, anon.. don’t worry, you’ll get there eventually! <3

>>823137
ftm… right?

I went to a private middle school. I bullied for being weird and dressing poor, as my family scrounged to send me there.
Those girls who went to private from K-12, preppy cheerleaders since the 4th grade, are now all nurses. They went to private $40k per year universities, for something that is offered at our community college at $180 a class per semester. That private school was $10k a year, $1k to add cheerleading. It shows that private schooling doesn't mean education. One of the cheerleaders in the group was very nice (but snappy). I could sense she didn't fit in because she had a fake aura of positivity and the girls would often go silent when she told a joke. She was very beautiful, a total tomboy, and I had a crush on her so I suspect she might have been bi or gay. She is now out with her girlfriend, but she looks utterly miserable and has an entire Insta dedicated to getting wasted. I need to remind I went to a Christian school where all of these girls were Jesus freaks that policed others, and later went on to trash themselves. Another one of those girls is now married to a divorced man in his 40s, with kids, and is a tattoo artist. This girl looks like busty Courtney Cox and has the heart of Dolly Parton. This poor girl attracts the nastiest men. Another who used to gang up on me and got other girls to stay away from me, including my best friend at the time, has been arrested and imprisoned at least 5 times for robbery, car theft, assault, and possession of hard drugs EACH TIME. I saw her before her last lock-up and she was covered in heroin pock marks and shooting up in a Starbucks bathroom. I genuinely felt sorry for her. One girl got knocked up right after she graduated and is an "austism speaks mom." Her facebook is covered in GoFundMes. Her son just has Aspergers and has mild symptoms.

As for high school, 2 female friends transitioned male and are hardcore kool-aid drinkers, they used Tumblr religiously and were homestuck/otherkin/superwholock. An obnoxious group of 3 GNC lesbians are now "non-binary," poly, and own a tumblrina LGBT+ flag clothing store that's doing rather well. Most have mediocre lives working retail, with useless degrees in history, theatre, English lit, etc. Many are already married with kids, while still living with parents. Some studied their asses off in AP for years and wanted to be engineers. RIP.

Just by being a NEET who invested in crypto I'm better off than all of them. They're all $100k in debt. For fucks sake.

>>823148
I forgot to mention, they all gained at least 40lbs (most 100+) since I last saw them, and are greasy as hell. Covered in acne, downtrodden. I'm only 22, and these people are the same age +-1 yr.

>>823148
How do you use your neet money wisely for crypto? Keep hearing this scenario a lot lately and I want to use my biden bucks for something before I'm back in classes

>>823079
why is this always the case

for me, the girl who threw scissors at me is now working with vulnerable teens as a youth counselor.

>>823147
Yep

>Bullies either dropped off the face of the earth or have had children. A lot of them aren't married and have just settled with their HS sweethearts and live with their parents.
>Cool alternative girls I knew are now yoga vegans, sjw/woke libfems, or have fallen into some pyramid scheme.
>Weebs and loser kids are either NEETS, wannabe streamers,kpopfags, all of the above, or haven't posted since graduation.
>Only knew maybe 2 or 3 that committed suicide.


I did have a couple a friends that also kinda went off the deep end
>Ex best friend became a religious christfag a couple years ago and now openly hates gay people kek. She would constantly share very graphic anti-gay propaganda and boomer-tier conspiracy theories about microchips.
>Another friend I had who was obese had lost a bunch of weight, but then tried to trap her previous bf with a baby. It didn't work and her bf left her crazy ass. Now she claims to be very spiritual and shares nothing but chakra shit and mask autsim like pic related on FB.
>Last friend I had to block because she would constantly make posts shilling her youtube channel and send me random stock images of women with her face shopped onto them. Like, she would try to convince me and other friends that the pic really was of her, despite the body type being completely different from hers. It was very strange and it turns out lots of people know about her weird antics.

All I have to say is I am very glad I deleted my fb profile and never have to interact with these people again.

Notables from my class:
One super weird goth kid who ended up moving away early into high school, then everyone learned over social media that he ended up drowning 2 years later, wasn't a suicide.
One of the popular smart girls in my class ended up marrying some guy in his mid-30s with 2 kids from another marriage halfway across the country while she was still in college. Nobody has any idea how this happened.
One of my old elementary school friends I fell out of touch with is an out lesbian and a defense attorney, I'm happy for her since the last guy I knew she dated in HS is an alt-right shithead now kek
A guy from my class got elected as county commissioner then was found to be stealing money shortly afterwards.

The redneck guys generally all got associates degrees in random fields and the redneck girls all became nurses or MLM shills. My friends and I are all doing okay in fields we generally wanted to be in, except one who is a perpetual student/leech.

>>823151
If you're only investing $1,400, it's better to diversify in many smaller (semi-established) coins than to go all in BTC which will limit your profit. Hang out on /biz/ as they frequently sift though all the mainstream sludge for you and will let you know which coins are being used for projects. I sold at $17 for my LINK and haven't looked at crypto since. LINK has stagnated and other coins now take the lead. It's really a thing you figure out as you slowly dabble $100 in, see how things move, and then go from there. BTC is heavily manipulated, and ETH always follows it. Right now Elon is toying with it, which is a sign it has use for his personal empire (pic related). Crypto is a way to move massive amounts of money without a middle man, so it's a tool for major corporations/industries to exploit and maniplate prices for project funding, like silver (ask /PMG/ for infographics). BTC will be a good longrun investment, but only if you're willing to wait as much as a few years.

I was in choir during my last two years with this chick who later became a sm influencer in the Pokémon/gamer scene, remixing and sometimes composing videogame music.

hi Courtney!


https://youtube.com/c/GlitchxCity

>>823162
you need to teach a class anon

i was bullied hs in school until junior year when my mom got a good job and i was able to afford nice clothes and make up. after that they were so nice to me and it made me sick how fucking fake they all are, literally the only thing that changed about me was my clothes. same story as a lot of anon, they are either nurses or stay at home mothers.

i was an awkward scene girl in middle school. my hair was normally dyed either pink, blue, or purple. i remember the girl who bullied me for years told me “you look like you just came out of a rainbow… and not the good kind!”, which i assume was meant to be a homophobic remark, despite me being straight lol. a bunch of girls on our bus laughed at me when she said that. anyways, i decided to look up her instagram out of curiosity. looks like my bully is showing off her bolt on tits for likes on insta these days. her lips look weirdly pursed in all her photos, so i assume she also got lip injections. guess what they say about bullies being insecure is true in my case.

Had a high-school reunion some years ago. They've all become Mr and Mrs Jones, your average parents and workers.
We went to school during turbulent war times, I think they're all happy to just live a peaceful normal life.

The biggest bully in our school is currently a slag who only fucks fug addicts and lives in a shitty home posting hoe pics on facebook

My middle school bully immediately went to juvie when I was in high school. She's probably in jail or something terrible still, since she was your typical trashy bitch.

Highschool was mostly tame. The only guy mean to me died a few months after graduating in a motorcycle accident. I thought I was a witch

i knew a girl in high school who was was really quiet, i would see her drawing anime stuff often and she seemed nice. she was a muslim but i found out she was also a white supremacist and very vocal to her friends about it? her family were converts. anyway now she's married and has two children even though she's like 19. i heard her husband wanted her to get a job but she believes it's her role to stay at home and be a housewife instead. it all sounds really weird, i wonder what's up with her

My middle school and high school bullies are now either literally whos or annoying MLM moms and dads who document every detail of their life on Facebook to the point where everyone else gossips about them doing cringe shit like they did to us when we were younger, but the difference is now they're adults. Basically, you probably will only know of these people if you went to high school with them, unless if one of their parents worked for the school district or is a realtor, and that's where the legacy ends.

>>823320

That's so weird, my highschool bully was also killed in a motorbike accident soon after graduating. She was a girl though. It's been almost ten years and I still can't gather a shred of sympathy.

Guess we need to form a coven lol.

Besides that, most of my high school class thought they were hot shit, ended up being fat SAHMs and nail techs. Tale as old as time.

>>823365
Kek I'd love to form a coven and Weird Sisters the hell out of our enemies

I'm not too in touch with anyone in highschool (my friends and people I care about have migrated offline mostly) so I'm super excited to see what happened to everyone else. My 10-year reunion is this year and I can't wait! Did the musical chick make it in Hollywood? Did the class clown pull himself together? Stay tuned

(Also wow this public IP was temp banned recently. Neat to know a farmer might be on this board near me)

>>823231
Which country, anon? That's kinda fascinating.

While I was in school it almost got shot up and he was inside the building with an actual weapon. The guy was a former student who was angry that some girl didn’t reciprocate his feelings. He’s now in prison, good story <3

>>823079
>>823152
Seriously what is this, I'm not even American yet all the psycho girls from my and my friends' schools went all into nursing. There has to be some sort of a study regarding the connection.

I went to a prestigious private Catholic middle school as a poor muslim girl, and then went to one of the most prestigious high schools in my country thanks to my grades or something, and I legit cannot remember most people from middle school. I had some weird physical health issues and one of the symptoms was memory loss, and on top of that I wasn't very good at remembering faces back then so I have no way to look up who's doing what now. As for high school, I wasn't treated like shit but more like some weird outsider because most students were from very rich families, most people made sure to make me understand that being poor was super fucking weird in all our conversations.

The few ones I know about now graduated with masters degrees in university and either managed to get good jobs thanks to their parents or parents' friends or because their parents payed for them to study abroad thanks to exchange programs and they stayed there because there are more and better job opportunities. The ones I remember the most are three people who also went to uni with me, among them
>one girl is working as a manager in the UK and is living with her Japanese bf who's probably an engineer, all I know is that he's trying to get a phd
>one girl who's extremely obnoxious and wouldn't stop bragging about her parents' money, only managed to get an entry level job in tourism before covid after just getting a bachelor degree because of some weird circumstances, no idea what she's doing now, she may or may not be trying to get another degree
>one guy who had the reputation of being a perfect genius is struggling to get a job now, his linkedin account shows he's been looking for a marketing job since last year. Which makes me feel better about myself because I've been in a similar situation before, but it also really surprised me
I've also seen a bunch of very judgmental girls who are posting SJW shit on instagram, ironically enough, but that also applies to the people I met in uni. I'm also wondering what that foreign diplomat's daughter is up to now but I don't want to dox myself so I'll stop there. Ironically enough she was less vain than the other classmates despite having her own driver lol.

>>823088
Facebook and many people went to school in really small towns so news travels fast. My mom always knows what my former classmates are up to.

>>823079
a lot of the most annoying girls at my school are now going into teaching, it really makes me cringe and feel bad for their future students/prisoners…

Girl I was friends with teaches English over the internet as do some others. The most popular girl who was always very sweet got married to some Christian uggo and they started a band together.
Nerdy SJWs I fell out with all work in call centres. Guy I had a crush on is still going to anime conventions and drawing ugly comics, still dresses like Voltaire in 2021.
Both bitchy fat girls in my school moved to Norway for some reason. Ugly horsefaced girl who bullied me works in my country's Ministry of Finance as some financial adviser despite having a degree in English, which means she got it through connections. She looks tragically old now. The rest are normies working average desk jobs.

>>>823124
No, I was an out and proud weeaboo, the Foam Adventure kind. I'm a normie now, though.

I recently found out that the girl who used to call me a freak for being tall and accuse me of being lesbian is now some sort of extra woke SJW type with a soyboy fiance. She stopped my sister in the street of our home town and tried to start a conversation with her.

I don't keep up with everyone but the I know what happened to the Alt group of kids I used to hangout with
>The White Edgy Metalhead dude that I used to have a crush on joined the Marines and later on converted to Islam and I think is married to some Somali and living in the Middle east
>Other Metalhead dude turned out to be a normie but is annoying on twitter
>The hispanic and white emogirls ended up either tardthots or SJWs libfems
>the black guy in our group ended up the neocon Trump Supporter surprisingly enough

oh, this one girl who would sometimes make fun of me especially for being "emo" (i went to a catholic HS w/ uniforms and all i did was bleach my hair, wore fishnets or cute stockings/ wore big glasses cos i cant fucking see, did makeup everyday and i guess it made me emo) now has a septum piercing. i dont wanna be that person and i wasnt even that cute back then but i think, as an adult now, some girls were mean out of jealousy that i took the time to look nice every day instead of throwing my hair up in a messy bun and not bothering to learn makeup. funny now with how huge SM is and how its more normal to be all about doing makeup and hair.

>>823472
>foreign diplomat's daughter
My dad went to a posh boarding school and one of his classmates was this kid who's dad was a foreign diplomat. His dad was kidnapped once and I think it fucked the kid up, 'cause this guy now is a HUGE hippie living in this coastal town in California. I'm talking "technicolor dream coat"-type hippie.

I wish I could say all the assholes and mean girls are now fat unemployed thrice-divorced drug addicts but from a quick search it looks like most of them have successful careers and relationships. Most of the guys are in medicine, law or finance whereas most of the girls are also in medicine (nurses again!), therapists/psychologists or in marketing/social media management. The creepy incel who dated and abused my friend and then stalked her for years afterwards is a successful astrophysicist with a bunch of decently high-impact papers to his name. The class heartthrob who wanted to be a famous professional DJ now works at a secondhand car dealership and is heavily balding at 30. The goth weeb guy who dyed his hair blue, wore heavy eyeliner, called me [name]-chan and stole a few of my manga volumes after I lent them to him went to art school like all the other goth/alt kids yet somehow ended up as a “management consultant” at some huge financial firm. The girl who’d brag about sleeping with other girls’ boyfriends at parties and swore she’d never ever have children now has an active mommy blog.

>>823427
If anon is in her early 30s or late 20s probably one of former Yugoslav countries or Ukraine

I can't find fuck all on the people I went to school with no matter how many searches I do. Don't know what I'm doing wrong.

My childhood best friend lost a bunch of weight, has a bf she's been seeing for a few years now and has a couple of dogs. Works with animals too. I'm happy for her because I always expected her weight to just keep ballooning up. She had learning problems in school too but her and her bf look like they're doing ok together. She suddenly lost her father but her remaining family are pretty tight knit. A simple life but I'm jealous in some ways.

The first girl I ever slept with at 17 went on to meet an older man online. She moved to the US to be with him, had sex the first night, got engaged the first week, tattooed the first month and found out she was already preggo within the first month. Had some non legal wedding ceremony and months after the baby was born he sent her home here again. She's been a single mother ever since. It was a kink thing and he abused her obvsly. He changed the course of her life when she was only just out of school. He has done it to countless others. Just runs through women promising them the world and abandoning them.

>>823501
That's fucked up, I'm guessing the dad is ok now though? How young was the kid when that happened? I'm sure that would traumatize anyone. I never heard anything that extreme from anyone I know, the girl I'm talking about was just treated like some kind of weirdo without being straight up bullied for being the exact same kind of person as them, except she seemed more like a caricature of them since she had her own driver and was wearing even more expensive brands than them. They seriously lacked self-awareness. She came from the same country my mother is from so the only time we talked it was way more interesting than talking to these upper class kids since we already had something in common. She got kicked out of the school for using her phone all the time in class and arguing with a teacher once about that, but I crossed her path during our final exam so I'm sure she managed to find another high school in the middle of the school year pretty easily.

The funny shit here is that I was in a public high school. I'm reading other posts here and seeing anons shitting on public schools, are they really that bad in America? I'm guessing it's American anons saying this but correct me if I'm wrong.

Has anyone gone to their high school reunions yet? I haven’t but I was sort of invited to go, except they didn’t give the exact date which have already passed from what I’ve seen on Facebook.

Shame, I had a planned outfit like pic related and pinup-style makeup ready to go. It was probably for the best I didn’t went.

I am kinda scared of how little I know of anyone I went to school with. I have spoken to only 2 people after graduating and it makes me feel like a freak in a way but I kinda don't care? I know one girl who slept with the teachers and had her nudes leaked ended up never graduating because she failed a class or something and never retook it, we often cheated on exams in elaborate ways but I did mostly out of boredom and to help her but I guess it didn't help. She became a violent security guard from what I've heard. I have no idea why I'm posting this, it's not interesting.

I went to a small rural public high school that was regarded as one of the best in my state. Most of us had gone to elementary school and up with each other. Since the grades were so small, I was in the popular group because I was fun and dressed well, despite being weird and way too into anime before it was cool. There was a lot of inter-group drama as we were a bunch of smaller cliques forced by circumstance to make a bigger group.
One of my friends was a rich as shit hick whose family owned a lot of land in our area and a successful business. She ended up going to a famous party college and blowing a ton of her parent’s money on clothes, surgery and expensive vacations with her new wannabe influencer college friends. She’s starting a cushy marketing job for a large firm in the Southwest on connections from school, and is in a serious relationship with a fratty chain store heir. Another girl I was close with became insanely fit and married an athlete who just made it to the pros, but she barely interacts with anyone from her “old life”. One of my friends who wasn’t popular works on a small organic farm for a living and has gotten really into zero waste. My other girlfriends all went out of state for college and have normie jobs in big cities.
As for the girls who constantly started drama and were rude to me in my old friend group, one is now obese (was just overweight in school), dropped out of college and posts pictures of her getting fucked by black guys (she’s white and totally has a fetish) on her VSCO (who uses that anymore???) The other is also really fat and has a junior level HR job in an unfashionable area of an East Coast state. The third is still in school for a chemistry post grad, lives with her parents and posts thirst traps from her parents beach house on the gram.
The unpopular weird girl who I hated because she bullied me in sports is now a cop. The unpopular weird guy who I hated emigrated here from a Nordic country and had some weird hate boner for me since my family emigrated from a different Nordic country and constantly tried to make me look stupid in class has since moved back as he had no friends here due to being rude and hated America (ehhh can’t really blame him there)
Most of the guys from my school are either in extremely successful tech careers or working at restaurants. One of my gay friends went to a prestigious art school and now has a reasonably successful career in the fine arts world making pieces inspired by his family’s culture and is a fixture in the art community in his city. There have been a fair amount of ODs and suicides from my graduating class, but only men.
Not sure why I wrote so much as I’m not sure of my experience is even interesting but thought this was a fun thread lol

A thing I noticed is that when I run into classmates I haven’t seen in years they always have heard stories about me that aren’t true. One woman thought I was a single mom with kids and another heard I had moved to another state a few years prior.

>>823626
I didn't get invited to my five-year lol

>>823494
>>823131
Does every single buff metalhead dude in high school end up joining the Military, its way too common from what I've seen

>>823626
My 10 year reunion would be in 2022. I would go if I'm available. Idk I feel like I wouldn't be invited for some reason

Does anyone else have absolutely no clue how former high school friends and classmates are doing? I broke off all contact after HS because I fucking hated it there and I could probably not even look them up on social media if I wanted because I don't remember most of their last names. If there's ever gonna be a reunion I'm not gonna get invited because I don't have any social media to contact me on and have changed phonenumbers, which is exactly how I want it.

>>823593
My school had one of those, who dated one of my friends when he was 21 and she was 16. I had a crush on him for like a week when I was 14 and he 19 until I realised how weird it was for a university student to hang out at his old school and only have friends 5+ younger than him. We later met a few of his old classmates through after school activities and it was clear they all thought he was a creepy loser. Last I heard he was in a mental institution, possibly after a suicide attempt.

>>823427
>>823506
Yup, it's ex-yu (Serbia).
Got to correct you on the timeline, I'm 40 and it was a 20 yr reunion. The wars were during the nineties, they ended as we ended high school.

One of the prettiest and smartest girls at my school dropped out of uni, moved back home, and married a guy who was in my year who used to repeat memes from /b/ all day. I was close with her sister and she'd always complain about living her shadow because people would really just come up to say how awesome her sister is to her, but now she's the one who her parents are more proud of kek. Sometimes it still shocks me when I see her insta updates like girl you could've done anything with your life and this is what you ended up with?

>>823754
The one at my school wanted to be an EMT, not sure if he did but he got arrested a couple years ago for drunk driving.

A girl from my class whom I may or may not have talked to back in the day was kidnapped and murdered by her ex-boyfriend two years ago, leaving 3 children behind.

The scrote had the decency to turn himself in after it happened.

The girl in my class who made her voice much higher around guys and infantilized herself for them is now extremely obese and working as a mortician.

A boy I had gone to high school with was charged with first degree murder recently. A body was found, a week or so later there’s surveillance images of the suspects and I was so certain it was him in the pictures, but I couldn’t be certain and didn’t want to make a false tip.

Of course it ended up being him. He seemed like a wannabe gangster type online but was very quiet in person.

It's been a little over a decade since I graduated. I came from a city, but it was actually a pretty depressed area and it operated more like a small town with that ~everyone knows everyone~ annoying busybody vibe. I didn't bond well with anyone in my graduating class, my high school was poor and underperforming so I spent my senior year doing only 3 periods in the morning at the high school and then commuting to college to take my advanced courses there which was awesome.
Some bitch and my ex ruined shit for me by my junior year. She got knocked up by my ex and proceeded to bully and hurt me in any way she could and there wasn't any low she wouldn't stoop to. Her antics caused me to lose out on friendships and really hurt my reputation, so being able to go off to college early my senior year was a godsend.
Ofc my ex left her dumbass with the baby. She later apologized to me and admitted a lot of it was due to jealousy, but tbh she ruined a giant chapter of my life so I like to keep her presence on my social media for shits and giggles cause she's a pro at sabotaging herself. I'm glad my past-self never went through with suicidal thoughts after their harassment because it was worth it to see this. Her biggest comeuppance was that I didn't have to do shit back to her for herself to keep on being a loser. She was a big drug addict for a time. She kept losing custody of her kids and they were mostly raised by her mom. Multiple white trash baby daddies. Kids named after retarded flavor of the month fandoms from every era (Twilight, Game of Thrones, etc.) and of course she holds no steady employment and can barely form a coherent sentence. Only know all this cause she's retarded enough to blast it on socials for attention which she barely gets.

But she's not the only one, tons of kids in my class were losers who never left that area. Some kids left and live elsewhere now like myself, cause anyone with an ounce of brain and wanting to live someplace nice fucking got out of there. The biggest retards have never lived anyplace else but that shithole so they can be the shit kings & shit queens of the rubbish dump. They've got super ignorant views and act sheltered af despite fronting that they're mature and hard. If they're not on welfare, then they're in a trade or a nurse because that's all there is as far as employment goes above retail. I'm not hugely successful and I'm pretty average, it's just easy to be better than most drug users, lazy single moms, and idiots. Had I attended nice schools in cities with competitive kids and wealthier backgrounds I might've been a bit insecure. Kids who came from wealth were shipped off to expensive private schools in the next city over, but my parents couldn't afford that so I got called things like "spoiled" because my parents had a working class income and I got some new clothes for my birthday every year.
Honestly it's pretty bleak for them.

One of the WORST things for me to think about is what happened to all the guys I either had a crush on or had been with in some capacity:
>"whiteboy"
He was raised by a black family after his own either died or abandoned him. He was sweet and everyone called him that name. Had a fling with him shortly after graduation and he was a great lay but he wasn't serious about me and I could do better so I ghosted. Years later, I added him on facebook and he'd always make these attention-whoring memes about nobody wanting to talk or hang out with him or whatever. By then I had moved away so it wasn't worth striking up anything. He posted some Rick and Morty memes about being "gone" one day. True to his word, he stepped in front of a train and killed himself. Obviously he had way more mental baggage than anyone realized. He didn't deserve it, it's weird knowing he's dead.
>Jason
Real funny and cute dude who used to make me laugh in pre-calc class cause he sat by me and cracked jokes. We also shared a Spanish class one year too and he was hilarious then as well. I never really hit on him because I couldn't tell if he liked me or not. I knew his friends definitely didn't like me so it didn't seem worthy to pursue. He gave me a broken housekey of his randomly one day and I kept that on my first car keychain for way too long after high school was over.
I added him on fb last year before the pandemic just to see what he was up to. Had a lot of emotional vulnerabilities because one of his besties accidentally killed his gf by ODing on drugs so he killed himself too. In addition, he's balding, has a gross beard, and was stricken with an illness that reduced his vision. He couldn't prove it to the state to get disability so he's a charity case now and tries way too hard to be slick to the women. But I'm sure it's hard for him because any woman would be signing up to be his caretaker now. He's still a funny guy but he's an absolute shell compared to who he was.
>DJ
This one is the worst for me because it brings up a lot of 'what-ifs.' Literally my first high school crush, we met in health class and he was a smoking hot alt kid. I got to kiss him once and we hung out a few times, but after that he started to date a chick who despised me and she pretty much poisoned the well. He liked me low key but that's high school politics for you. He dropped out and I never saw him much after that.
Years later when I was finishing my grad degree and was still around town, he replied to me on a mutual's social media and he really wanted to see me. I was feeling more secure at the time because I lost a lot of weight and was feeling hot about myself so the fact that an old high school crush reached out to me was ego boost x1000. But what I got was really sad. He was still cute in the face but gaunt, like he overworked himself at his factory job and didn't have much money to afford good food. He had been married and had two kids but he was going through a divorce so he just had a veil of sadness about him. We smoked weed and had sex for an entire summer but it was just too depressing for me to continue. It was pointless anyway because I didn't want to involve myself with his kids from another woman (oh and his ex hated me in high school too so fuck that), and he was bipolar. He had too much going on that I wasn't equipped to handle. I didn't see our relationship going anyplace so I ghosted. He got remarried a few years later and had another child. He looks happy now and healthy, even though it looks like he's still pretty poor. I just wonder if he had been a guy who'd gotten his shit together, didn't have so many kids, and could have offered me more if we'd had been together. But clearly it's for the best we hadn't.

I'm married now and live in a great city. Plus I have a great quality of life. Having lived in that area and having known people like this doesn't feel real sometimes.

No idea what people are doing in my grade since I never had a social media presence but I’m still close with my high school friends. All are doing fine except one guy who is getting married to some girl he fucked in college. I was told by my other friends close to him that she’s insane and very crude. Openly talks about their sex life and wanting to fuck all her professors. Suicide threads by the dozen. They both have shit jobs.

Anyways the tastiest milk was two of my close female friends were in a long term committed relationship and never told me. Like throughout highschool and college… they recently broke up. One of them even cheated on the other with one of my other friends. They broke up after one decided to date men. The other is just straight up gay. I just.. I just don’t understand how that all went past me. I think I just ignored it. Signs were there looking back.

I was pretty normal in high school, my siblings were extremely popular and everyone knew me because of them.

My school bully who was also my friend but backstabbed me later on, is now a nurse at a nursing home for old people. She apparently has kids now, im not sure how shes doing but i could care less.

Anyway, why do bullies always choose nursing and caring for people anyway? it baffles me quite a lot lol.

>>824734
power over others

not me thinking this was going to be a discussion thread on oprah's where are they now series because i was ready for some problematic oprah content. I shall leave

>>824734
>Anyway, why do bullies always choose nursing and caring for people anyway?

Could be a power thing like what another anon mentioned.
IMO it's because they have a guilty conscience for their misdeeds and want to do something that will make them be perceived as good people so they can eventually convince themselves of it. Nursing is one of those "selfless" professions that is commonly lauded, but everyone knows tons of stupid and mean nurses. On top of that, it's guaranteed pay and hours for people who otherwise don't have other options but can't progress towards anything else in the medical field.

I don't even remember the name of half the people I knew in middle school, but the rich kids clique (who were kinda bullying me) all went the boring way of business school and landed a normie cushy job. One of the girls I was vaguely friends with was riddled with insecurities back then because of her big nose and her overbearing mom, now she's got a (pretty good) nose job and she's trying way too hard to be an influencer on Instagram, always posting ridiculously idealized pics of Paris with Live Laugh Love tier captions. She's got her hands in giveaways and drop shipping and I would not be surprised if she was involved in MLM schemes as some higher ranking member.
I can't even remember anybody from highschool (different people in a totally different part of the country), but given how trashy a lot of girls in my class were I don't think they've turned out great. I only remember the name of my "rival" (we could not stand each other but had some kind of begrudging respect, it was basically Stacy vs Nerd lol) and she's become a lawyer, I find her kinda appealing now.

Most of my friends are married with kids, trouble makers are arrested, people I had beef with are doing terribly and that weird annoying girl is now a stripper

I grew up in a hick town though, I could imagine it's very different for inner city schools

>>824835
>I grew up in a hick town though, I could imagine it's very different for inner city schools
I'm >>823148, no it's not. In some regards it's worse due to gang culture. There are a lot of race and drug related crimes. Two separate cases of teens driving drunk and dying behind the wheel in my high school; two shootings in the area.

Some of the people ended up doing cool things, one person opened a successful high end restaurant, the class clown won an Emmy few years ago, a few are doing interesting PhD research.
The promiscuous party girl clique all became born-again christians after HS and started saving themselves for marriage kek
The weirdos and weeaboos and outcasts have mostly become NEETs. The most boring classmates grew up to be very normal, average adults.

>>824835
I went to high school in a hick town and one of my friends ended up being a murderer. It happens

>>823626
My sister's reunion was last year and her bf who didn't graduate got invited over her.

Mine is supposed to be next year but I doubt people would invite me. Considering I told them to eat shit when they asked me to help prepare for graduation.

I was from a very small town… so:

>Girl who bullied me relentlessly for 2 years ended up with a dead-end job in the City Hall, mostly collecting water from dengue. She tried to kill herself over some guy she dated. That's all I know and I try to not know more.

> BFF ended up being a mom at 17, with the school "bad boy" that is in jail now. I was really sad for her, but it seems she has it together now, studying to be a nurse or something like that. And her son is a very cute baby.

> The boys I was friends with ended up with jobs within the city, like sales and accountants. They all seem to be dating and living normal lives.

> The weird girls who did not like me ended up in the church and being nurses LMAO

I ended up being a fairly known artist, making a good chunk of money. Although bullying and previous trauma fucked me, I think I'm a good place compared with some people from my city. Moved to another state and I rarely get contact with them, mostly with BFF wishing her happy birthday lol.

Another rural/hicktown anon here

I felt bad for one of the popular girls because her mom and stepfather passed away, and it happened in a short period of time. Even though we didn’t talk in highschool she invited me to their services because we were childhood friends and our parents got along. Their house looked so sad and empty after she moved out to live with her husband.

Also this weird quiet guy in the grade above me went full schizo and was responsible for starting a bunch of fires that burned down some houses. He was caught when he was trying to start a fire in the building next to where I used to work.

>>824776
There are also some jobs in the health field that have really low credentials, and they can be easy to get into if they’re in-demand or high turnover.

>class of 2008
>Hick town
>One of my besties finally came out of the closet, married her hs sweetheart and now they have a baby together. Still lives in hick town.
>Other bestie who got preggers in hs got married and lives near the city I'm at currently. Her daughter is in middle school now and I play switch games with her from time to time.
>Weird girl who was mildly insane and catfished one of my friends married an abusive meth head scrote, has three kids by two dads, named her kids after anime characters. Still mentally stuck in high school. Lives in a different hick town. I feel bad for her but idk what I would even say to her, we were never close.
>Another friend who felt stuck in the shadow of her older sister moved out of our dogshit home town and found success of her own in a major city.
>A girl who was a jerk to me and wanted to be a model lives near my city. She keeps sending me friend requests on social media every other week so I guess she's really bored and spends a lot of time on sm. I just get the alerts in my email.
I don't know about anyone else and don't even remember their names. I got help for my mental illness and have almost everything I've ever wanted besides my dream house, a ring, and ten million dollars.

Some ex-classmates post stuff on FB that is close to radfem theory lol as a radfem I kinda want to make a feminist group with them

This thread gave me the impulse to check on the ex-best friend who backstabbed me in middle school and tried to turn everyone agaisnt me. She works for a major tobacco company now. Guess she's still a soulless bitch

gay kid at my school now is a whore tranny since here where I live it's difficult as fuck to get a normal job while being a tranny but it's alright, he used to scam sugar daddies online so no big deal for him anyway, I just find it fascinating when people like him try to say that their trans status "is not a fetish" while acting like sexdolls with inflated lips, butt fillers and insatiable cock thirst. He's gonna regret it in a few years with all the stds and money wasted in skimpy clothes, make up, fillers and overall garbage, since you can't be twink-bodied forever.
A girl I used to know suffered horrible abuse while in school because she was naive and easy-manipulated and now she's being treated like she's handicapped (she's not, she just needs therapy) because muh trauma, her parents and relatives didn't offer her support but rather paid and are still paying her whole expenses like rent, food and everything she wants, while she can't do nothing, she can't even cook. While she's not retarded, nobody loved her to the point of teaching her basic tasks and I'm amazed of how blind her family is. She's touching her 30s and spends all of her time online and her main interests are kpop dudes, yaoi and weird fantasy/violent underground books forum.
Another girl I know went from alt kid to chainsmoker-fake tan prostitute. She posts pictures in her bedroom with only a mattress covered in spray paint graffiti. Yikes.
Other people just went from scene kids to tradmoms and dads and some still spam me with their pyramidal schemes lol

I'm in high school rn, but nonetheless there is milk to share

>best friend thriving, has many friends and parties a lot. Decided to cure her autism and tries to speak with current slang and pretend she didn't ever have autism associated hobbies. Still a great person, maybe she moved on.

>Ex girlfriend has no social media, cannot stalk. Accidentally encountered her mom at the book store, proceeded to shit myself and cry, but her mom seems nice and hopefully doesn't know we got down to business together and believes we were gal pals

>Another friend is confident he will join the army and thrive. Has strong principles but a little extreme, have a feeling he's a little not ok.

>Some girl who was really bitchy got a bf who speaks mostly turkish (how do they even communicate) and they are a scamming power couple, scamming friends and acquaintances online

>like a third of my middle school friends went back to poland, apparently thriving but miss them a little, one is sports successful and competes with older people

>the alt girl dropped out (i think) very loud communist online, has been in music videos, excellent fashion and still has a big personality

>old friend looks genuinely happy now, recovered from eating disorder, likes music and stuff

>childhood friend is semi famous on tik tok bc she's very pretty and makes jokes

>my bully: used to announce (loudly) "lesbi ONN" whenever i walked past, lived near me and would ride past me on his scooter and yell "gaeee" in front of my friends, physically bullied my younger sibling, probably pissy because i liked his older sister a little
>he jumped out of windows at school multiple times, got suspended for racism, had friends of all races, would constantly scream and yell, and then decided to stop fooling around and study. Apparently Christian now, so I'm happy for him.

>me
>cringe and will never change
>cooking food instead of dealing with problems(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

>>823763
I only had two friends (honestly they were more like acquaintances) in high school and I didn't keep in touch with either of them. I also don't have any social media so I have absolutely no idea what hapened to any of the people that I went to school with and I don't really care that much tbh.

>>825069
>Other people just went from scene kids to tradmoms
What is it with this? I thought it was just my school.

I ran into the mean girl from my high school a few weeks ago, and the first thing she did was apologize to me and then paid for my lunch, which was cool. It's been almost 15 years and she still remembered that. I always figured she had stuff going on and that's why she was so mean. Looking back she clearly had an ED, marks from who knows who hitting her, and hated yelling, loud noises, touching- so fucking obvious. I'm retroactively mad at our teachers for not doing something. She looked happier and healthier, so I hope things are better.

I recently discovered that my ex-childhood best friend who used to talk shit about me because I wasn't interested in hanging around her "girl gang" and get drunk at the age of 14, dropped out of school at 16, stole a car at that age and is now a mother of 3 at the age of 23, married to a man who insisted on naming all their children because of his religion and who works a barely minimum wage job while her over 200 pound ass sits at home with no education whatsoever.

I remember how she always used to say "I really want to become a doctor one day and live a comfortable life" with her room temperature IQ.

I came from an average public school so it's been a fun ride seeing everyone who attempted to bully me shoot themself in the foot. For the most part a lot of my peers are stuck in retail with a few becoming accountants or medical techs. Only a few of us made it to professional careers, kinda funny having girls who made fun of you turn around and kiss ass for a LOR into graduate school. Even funnier when i found out they all work at the hospital my uncle owns. I hate to say this but im doing better than most of my graduating class and I could not be happier. Surprised at how many had kids and got obese considering how turbo Christian they are. Just proves when you put bad energy into the earth it will come back for your ass eventually kek

>>825407
>im doing better than most of my graduating class and I could not be happier
could have something to do with the fact that your uncle owns a hospital and you come from a family with connections, it's hardly an achievement lol

>>825411
Ayrt I fuckin wish they helped me out might have saved a few years of being depressed and borderline homeless in undergrad lol. My achievements are made entirely on my own don't get it twisted.

>>823358
Samefag, forgot to mention the fact an English teacher left his wife and daughter for one of my classmates, the sociologist teacher married another girl in my graduating class, and there's another teacher having an affair with another classmate. These teachers are still in the school system, we graduated 10 years ago. I didn't expect this town to be fucking banjo city.

>>825411
Yeah I don't really believe that anon either lol.

Also way too many people itt are clutching to the fact that adults!get fat with age. Weren't some of you bullied for being fattie uggos in school and yet you didn't learn a lesson. Just goes to show people turn into massive hypocrites when the shoe is on the other foot. My bullies are underweight to average drug users as adults, they're not better for it just cause they're not fat. That's nuts.

>>825078
No underaged faggots allowed.

Not high school, but in there's one girl who kind of bullied me in middle school. I looked up her name since it's very unique and she's part of a pharmacy program at a good school now. All I can think is that the image of me in her mind is probably the worst version of myself, so so I can only hope she's a much better person now than the image of her in my own head.

Most notable people from my high school went to college/university out of town/state, graduated, and moved back home to live with their parents again bc they struggle to find work in their fields. I stayed local for university, graduated, and found a fantastic job opportunity fairly quickly & moved out of state to the city I originally wanted to go to university in. I guess having to move back home and not finding much success in job opportunities had them feeling some type of way. Many of them I was on decent, if not good, terms with & they now have weird complexes, removing me from social media, etc. despite not really being in contact with them. I think they’re reverting back to that high school mentality since they’re stuck back home & might be kind of envious of me. It’s kind of weird, but not worth dwelling on. Not my monkeys, not my circus.

I didn’t want to include my partial middle school experience at my state’s boarding school for the blind because don’t like to publicly acknowledge it due to traumatic personal experiences but here’s some tea:

>brief history
The school was founded in 1858 when slavery was still legal in my state, only white students went there until the desegregation process began, probably in the 1960’s-70’s.

A lot of paranormal activity goes there, rumor has it the school was built on native burial grounds.

Many people I knew since 6th grade stayed until they were 22 either by choice or were forced to in their ARD/IEP meetings because they were “not ready” for normie society.

Students were very sheltered and weren’t allowed by themselves outside the school premises unless they had residential instructors with them or were neural typical teenagers who knew how to get around. They have “cooking” nights every week, I had one every Wednesday and most of the RI’s did all the work. I had a homemaking class but didn’t really learn much from it.

We got to go to more than 3 field trips per year, last trip we went camping.

The entire student body was divided into “teams” with different departments:
>teams 2 and 5 were the neural typical kids and teens
>team 6 were the seniors and people who were too old to be there; many were mentally disabled
>team 4 were the deaf-blind, idr if that included the elementary-aged as there were none when I was there.
>teams 1 and 3 were the mentally disabled and on the spectrum: even if they were high-functioning.


I was there since October 2002 to May 2004 and supposed to stay until my sophomore year of high school as this was agreed in my last ARD meeting. However, my mother feared that I would be “dumbed down” by the system so she had secret phone call meetings with my caseworker, had all documents transferred back to my hometown then had me registered back to my former normie middle school before the school year started. I hated her for it because I wanted to stay there with my friends and away from all the problems at home, my parents also forced me to cut off contact with said friends. Months went by and my hatred has subsided by the time I became a freshman.

Looking back, she was right and I’m glad she did it before it was too late and I would’ve become just like my former friends.

>somewhat milk:
Frienemies whom later backstabbed me near the end of my stay got knocked up and are living with their parents or living in the capital where my school was are sitting on their asses collecting tugboat money and working at the local lighthouse for the blind while complaining about having no gud jerb because said school didn’t prepare them for the real world nor is it accredited enough for college. Glad I left.

Acquaintances: same as above probably

Goff-tomboy “not like the other girls frienemy/bully who often accused me of being a lesbian and had friends gang up on me in multiple occasions is now a redneck Trump-supporting tradmom who got preggo really young recently got a new scrote who’s probably there for the tugboat. She left school as she planned during freshman year and attended community college, no jobs whatsoever.

Friend/frienemy whom was new at the time stayed until 2008 because her high school sweetheart was forced to, they were 17 in 2003 when they met. They are currently raising a family with the earnings they make working at the lighthouse and tugboat $$$ as “little California” is so expensive.

Other friends and acquaintances: they now work for the state’s local blind division offices in their respective towns as caseworkers, they left the school before it was too late and graduated in normie schools.

>>823763
Yeah. Sometimes people will see me at my job and it’s a little embarrassing because I need some time to remember who they were in school. The ten year reunion would have been last year but I never heard if there was one or not because I don’t have Facebook or Insta. Also, the only social media site I use is Tumblr and my only acquaintance that follows me is a middle school friend and I have no idea what she does for a living or where she lives.

my highschool rival is currently a missing person lol

I don't know. I have no idea where they are or what they're up to. High school was hell for me so when I left I made a few Facebook and Instagram and rejected all friend requests from high school people and now they're out of my life. I know this defeats the purpose of the thread but it just kinda shocked me to realise the people who made my life hell everyday are wiped out of my life- you really do get through things. Damn.

i'm literally the former gifted child who ended up as the drug addicted high school drop out who stayed in her hometown lol

on one hand i'd be embarressed to meet old classmates, whether they were former friends or bullies, and have to listen to them talk about their educations, jobs, houses, marriage, children, travels around the world etc. i'd probably have to make up lies about my own life. i went into my old fb account recently to see what people are doing, and as far as i could see, they are all living normal lives and have gotten much further than me

on the other hand, even though i wouldn't want anyone to know the truth about me and give them fuel to judge me, i don't really judge myself too hard. i no longer do hard drugs, i'm taking my medication every day, i recently got a job at a fast food chain, and while it doesn't seem like a lot, i like my humble, little life. i like the person i have become

ik this thread was not made for me to talk about me, but people from my past are all living normal lives as far as i know, and if they weren't, i wouldn't really be in the place to judge them

The popular people in my class ended up doing pretty well for themselves. Most of them were popular because they were nice, so I am actually happy for them. One of them is working in an European embassy. A few years ago when I went backpacking in Europe, she sent me a message to meet up for coffee if I went to her city. Most of them have nice jobs, are married and/or have kids.

My closest friends ended up being horrible, bitter and jealous lol. One of them was a narcissist who forbade me to develop my own interests because they all "belonged" to her. She has a business set-up with her ex-bf. The other one was a BPDfag who tried to sabotage my wedding. She is working in retail because she can't find another job to pay her student debts.

my former classmate/bully is now a Hitlerchan holocaust denier, googled her name and found a Quora account where she admits to molesting her (younger) brother ? i read that 2 yrs ago and felt fucking terrible

My BPD frenemy who bullied me relentlessly ended up an obese single mom with an imprisoned baby daddy. Not to be dramatic, but that friendship genuinely traumatized me. Bitch was truly evil and I really fear for her child.

She was always a hyper slutty fatty who prided herself on her gross cowtits. She would body shame me all the time for having "no tits" even though I'm 32DD or DDD, depending on the time of month. She tried to fuck every guy I was interested in or dating (and failed because no one in their right mind would pick her hamplanet ass over me unless they were a feeder). She was extremely creepy and obsessive when it came to guys to the point of being openly happy when a friend of mine who dated her ex died. She tried baby trapping guys on multiple ocassions too.

Everyone seemingly became succesful, travelling a ton and having an exciting social life. And then there's me who's basically been stagnating since high school. Feels kinda bad.

>>825808
Sounds like you got a good mindset about it anon! Comparing yourself to others doesn't do much good and as long as you're happy with your life and yourself, even if it's nothing spectacular, that's great.

I was friends with this guy in high school, he was known as a really weird kid and was kind of socially isolated due to always being pessimistic to a cartoonish degree. He was a lot of fun to be around though.
Well, apparently he received a huge inheritance just after graduating, bought a fancy house and got some of the most popular girls from our class to live there with him. I have no idea whether he pays them to live there or if there's drugs involved or something, the latter seems likely but still. It's so strange to imagine what that life must be like now. I haven't spoken him after hs but I heard this from a bunch of former classmates.

This thread depresses me. My mum was married to a rich man while I was in school, so I went to a fancy private one and all my classmates are basically too rich and well put together to fail. The misfits always got expelled or their parents would listen to their requests to go to alternative schools. The only faildaughter left is me.

Somewhat related, but I almost went to a local vocational high school, but my parents were against it because that's where they went to school, they didn't go to college, etc. and they wanted me to have a more standard public school experience.

I think about it a lot because I would have graduated with Shayna.

>>826911
That's so weird anon I want to know more. That sounds kind of milky lol

>>826911
Once he's dry, everyone will leave and he'll regret burning his money for people who ignored him all his life in high school.

Biggest cunt I know went to medschool abroad out of high school. I'm stick here pursuing a useless degree in the hopes that I may find useful employment. Sucks.

My ex-best friend was an emotionally abusive BPD-chan and now she's a single mom with a dead end job and just became an OF hoe

A kid who used to tease/bully me on the bus started a youtube with his university friends and they have about 600,000 subs now.

Not so long ago I check on my former teacher. I knew that she was retired at this point because she was super old when I graduated. So googled her because I do find some stuff on her how her remaining time at my school was but instead I found her "artist" twitter bc the super filtered profile pic looked like her. Turns out that ever since she stopped her work as a teacher, she jumped in some sort of freelance erotica writer that spends some time in north africa for sex tourism stuff. She also makes vlogs and posts on her public artist facebook (which is connected to her privet one lol) on how it was to have sex with a young dude from morocco and stuff like that. She also has super skimpy pics of herself on her twitter and idk I was just in shock when I saw this. Never in my life I do thought I would see THIS type of stuff.

I mean she always was kind of a "free spirit" because you know, living through the 60s, experiencing with drugs and such things as a young chick like she told me back then but damn I did not want to know about getting fucked by some random dudes, honestly.


And on the side, my former bbf is still with the huge asshole boyfriend that was maybe one of the rudest people I've met in my damn life. It's been almost two years know since we stopped talking to each other (bc of him) but I guess this drunk driving fuck must be the love of her life.

I recently checked on Google some classmates I knew in middle and high school and I'm astounded by the number of people who never left their hometown. I know that young people leaving is often not a good thing for the place, but choosing to stay in that same shitty southern town I was in middle school is astounding. I've moved during my entire life, and I don't have a hometown, maybe that's why I don't get it.
Also whenever I don't find any information on somebody, I just assume they got married (for women) or trooned out (for guys).

My best friend and I in the 7th grade were bullied by this generic fake blonde preppy girl with parents who were way too lenient with her. I moved away before high school. But a few years after graduation I met back up with my friend because we had both moved back to the city and while we were doing the whole "where are the now song and dance she told me that our bully had died a few weeks before graduation.

She was dating a guy who was 25/26 when she was still in high school and he was driving her around drunk on some country backroads. My friend's grandparents ran the funeral home in the town so they had a lot of the gritty details. What the police think happened was that she rolled the window down and stuck her torso out of the truck while her bf was speeding and he fishtailed his truck and she flew out the window. She was DOA.

I didn't really get any sort of glee out of it and I still feel terrible for her parents even tho they were retarded for letting her date a man that age while she was still in high school but her obituary had some real choice quotes.

I really don't keep tabs on former classmates 'cause I've got better shit to do. I do know a friend of mine in college, who was tall, beautiful, and much more feminine than me, decided she's now intersex. 95% of the kids at my college didn't really get how the real world works. Eventually I got tired of their dumb FB posts of like "Omg these people with a different opinion than me are LITERALLY HITLER IN DISGUISE."

>>823079
Same here. If I ever end up hospitalized and get one of them as my nurse I'll probably just drag myself out of there or ask my family to pull the plug.

Speaking of bullies. One of them got pregnant by poking holes in condoms(she has confirmed this herself and proudly told this to anyone who would listen) and in retaliation her druggie baby daddy chased her around trying to hit her with his car. They're both total hillbilly idiots and sociopaths so I feel bad for the baby.

>>841081
how can someone decide they're intersex? that's like saying you decided to have downs syndrome, it's a medical condition not an identity

>>841081
Are you saying she's larping as an intersex person without being tested or what?

I know some people do that. They 'feel intersex' and never get tested but lie to people about it being totally confirmed. Pretty hard to prove it though. Some people do discover it late or cover it up for years.

>>840956
anon I don't mean to sound like a bitch but info in picrel is still more revealing than you think, I'd think twice about leaving this posted. If I were you, I'd repost with all identifying info blocked out but the relevant quotes. Unfortunately, there are more bitter trouble-making autists lurking here than you might think. If someone could be bothered enough to search, it really wouldn't be all that difficult to find out who Kristina is nor your friend's family and contact them. Imo, no matter how slim the chances of that actually happening, sharing this story is not worth any fallout.

>>840956
>>841467
It's literally the first result when you search "kristina texas obituary 2012".

>>840956
>Kristina was a "white-knight" to those who were bullied.

Did she turn over a new leaf while in high school out of guilt for what she did in middle school?
Either way that's pretty tragic, dumbass creep scrote killed her.

>>823079
It's a 50/50 between mean girls who want to look like good people versus idiots who didn't have another option except retail but need to make a decent living.

The amount of people I know who went for nursing have filthy home habits and generally lack common sense. It makes me worried that they're in charge of someone else's care. I've felt sorry for their kids at times. At least bullies can be competent.

>>841512
I didn't bother to search, no idea it was going to be that easy. Jesus.

>>841559
>>841512
I don't really care. Everyone from that town I care about moved away at some point in time. I also have zero social media presence. Thanks for the heads up though. Next time I post something with rl details o will keep this in mind. Kristina is a really common name.

>>841543
I actually have no idea I didn't was time thinking about her after I moved until my friend told me she died. She didn't really seem to have anything good to say about her still other than that she was sad for her family.

>>841158
If she was, she hid it really well. I don't think she was, though. It's as >>841139 said. I also saw she's seeing a therapist. Wonder if the two are correlated.

>>840956
Shit like this makes me hate cars even more than before, I didn't think that was even possible. And I really hope the parents are blaming themselves for letting her date an much older man when she was a teenager, because this is the kind of guy who has 99.9999% chances of being a creep.

>>841543
No one gets a bad obituary.

All of my friends from high school either moved away to go to a university or became alcoholics/drug dealers/ strippers. I live in a really 3rd world part of the US, so it makes sense. The smarter girls I know that stayed ended up becoming stay at home moms. Im about to have kids myself, but I plan on moving somewhere with a higher standard of living. I’m worried about the future of this town based on how the majority of my old peers are doing.

My high school was bottom of the league tables and in a pretty deprived small town. I graduated about 10 years ago. I NC'd them all years ago but here is what I can make out from a selection of public posts:

The few lower middle class people there were went to uni in the same country and then into boring professional careers. A handful got into to top tiers unis. A couple are pilots for budget airlines now or moved to the capital which I guess are kind of interesting. One or two of the less smart ones have gotten married and had kids but most are unmarried. Only one seems to have gone to grad school. All have moved away to cities. Nearly all did STEM as humanities was basically non-existent at my school.

Working class people mostly didn't go to uni and of course no top tier places. None of them are doing anything remotely interesting and most are unmarried but have 2-3 kids. All of them are stuck in the same boring town.

There are a few nurses/police from both groups and of course they're the worst people for these types of jobs. Most people look like time has been rough on them and one guy is even completely grey somehow. Nearly all have piled on some extra pounds. The popular kids all peaked in high school.

I was a weirdo that got bullied so I didn't follow either of these paths thankfully. I'm probably the most successful though and definitely living the most exciting life. I spent my whole childhood champing at the bit until I could get out while most people seem to have been ok with it and visit often. I haven't been back in years.

I'm a tiny bit tempted to make a public insta or something just to brag but overall I'm so glad I'm completely away from all of it. I don't need some balding guy who picked on me trying to slide into my DMs asking if I'm still living in boringsville and want to meet up at in a grotty pub.

I was the only poor "bussed in from another district" kid lying about my address to stay in the swanky school district I was in. Constantly put on blast for my outdated hand-me-down clothes and my free lunch provided by the school. Literally filled my honesty box and formspring with hate. Now I'm watching all of those rich kids turn into sad, fat middle managers and single HR ladies with 100 dogs and no kids posting about "adulting" and double masking outside post-vaxx lol.

I married my high school sweetheart and we're the happiest, most financially secure people I know.

I saw my elementary school bully graduate high school on the schools Insta and have never been so mad. This cunt was not only the most dumbest, meanest, ugliest, fattest person I have ever seen but the richest in the school. No one said shit because she was super rich (I'm talking oil princess-rich, I used to live in the Middle East) and was part of the popular kids group. Our school building was so old I remember the floor always shaking when her whale ass was in the hallway.
I’m so confused as to why she graduated in the end cuz as far as I saw (not very far) she didn’t have any goals in life.

At the end of the day I always stay winning because her parents are divorced, don’t love her and are basically non existent in her life and I know her fucking empty coconut head is in enteral misery because of that.

She also looked like an elephant seal.

I find solace knowing a former bitch friend of mine from high school just got divorced 6 months after getting married because her husband found out she was cheating on him with some low life grocery store cart pusher kek

>class of 2015
>suburb outside of LA

Recently charged my iTouch that I used from 2012-2015 and found that a school club instagram account an acquaintance ran was logged in. Hadn't checked on anyone since graduation so I decided to look through it because I was bored…

If posts weren't dated one would think the feed stopped updating Fall 2017. Picrel is from this month kek All are stuck somewhere between 2013-2017 either clutching onto their junior high Hollister shorts, still trying to be insta baddies, or just regular plain janes/joes.

Definitely did not expect much before diving in but expected something instead of the bland and boring that I got out of the 320 people the account was following. Most, including my bullies, have little to no college education and still live in the area or at home doing fuck all with their lives. No babies outside of the few that had them in school. Only three very religious got married. Two became deathfats but most only gained about 20 pounds.

A lot still think going to Vegas once a year and standing in omnia is something to brag about at 24-28 as well as having "future real estate agent" in their bios. Quite a few are turning into their "live laugh love" pill popping mothers. In terms of aesthetic, only one girl stood out because she had a less basic, more colorful burning man/hippie/raver style. I didn't really know her so I'll say good for her. She seems to be the happiest. The biggest douche in school is attempting to be a comedian by doing 2016-tier King Bach reels along with uploading 2009-tier sketches to youtube. The saddest are probably the wannabe musicians who are pushing 30 yet still think their pop punk band is going to make it big.

Growing up I encountered a lot of bullying for being myself like a lot of us here and was, by my own accord, pretty much a loner. Despite that I managed to have a decent amount of acquaintances in classes/passing which I know now was because I'm not vaseline-on-bread boring. At least I was able to use that to get farther in life and in more interesting spaces than them.

>>852467
please don't disparage the seals

all of you are trying to make yourself feel better about your lives by comparing yourself to losers. stop it girlies, you’re doing a disservice to yourselves

In high school I was friends with a pair of twins. They had very different personalities and never wanted to be the same. Near the end of high school one of them was acting strange and she confided in me that she had started dealing. I was really concerned, but she downplayed the whole thing. We graduated soon after that and I fell out of contact with both of them.

Not too long ago, I met up with some high school friends and we ended up talking about where people are now. I mentioned the twins wondering what they were up to, and one of my friends said they had heard that the dealer twin had killed herself. I didn’t initially believe it because the twins had another sibling who killed themself, so I thought it was a mixup. I tried to look her up to confirm or refute it, but she was never really into social media and I couldn’t find an obituary. The other twin uses sm a lot so I creeped on her page for info. Turns out their different personalities got even more different after high school and the twins have been estranged for years at this point and she has no idea where her sister is or if she’s okay. The whole situation is bizarre and I don’t really know how to feel about it

>>894302
Sometimes it's really hard reading this stuff because it just confirms to me that everyone views twins as freakshows. My twin and I are super different as well despite being "identical", I got into drugs, but graduated college and am super successful (got promoted to main manager within a month of my first serious job), very distrustful, whereas my twin never got into drugs, is super innocent and sweet, has a kid, never completed college, trust everyone etc. However we are still close though our lives just make us not relate a whole lot. People don't even realize we are twins when we hang out in public anymore, they think we're lesbian because she looks like a soft butch and I'm super femme, alt/glam. But it never developed on purpose that way. I always call her my younger sister because I can't stand dealing with all the questions that ensue from me being a twin. Saged for stupid.