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i had this dude that i went to college with (and hardly spoke to) keep trying to hangout or visit my ac island and after like not seeing him in 5 years he sends me a book on facebook like “i love you like love love but i respect your relationship and wont try anything” like dude….. idk you…. we havent seen each other in 5 years wtf was he planning to meet up and confess to me all these years? i’m disturbed.
I was never a popular artist or anything, I wouldn't say I'm talented at all, but I once made a comic that circulated a bit on tumblr, especially on aesthetic blogs. It wasn't an edgy comic but I guess it had some dark charm to it.
A woman in her mid 20s reblogged it, and I had an habit of checking out who rebblogs my stuff because that way I would find more stuff to follow. When I read her description and about me of her page, it says something about hitting her own unwanted child. She had a baby son, roughly between 7 to 14 months old. And she said how she had to hit him because she was mentally ill and needed an outlet for her frustrations and anyone who dared question her was an ableist, or something like that. Basically, making excuses on hitting her own baby because she is a victim and her family hates her and she has the right to do so or something like that.
I was really disturbed. I reported the blog to tumblr and never went back. I hope someone took her child from there. But that really shows that sometimes, as an artist, you have no control over your audience, or who will look at your things, or what purpose will they use it for. Just some food for thought.
(and again, I didn't draw anything edgy or remotely close to vent art, it was just very experimental).
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I used to have to have a tumblr when I was 13-14 and was mutuals with this dude who mostly reblogged meme posts and whatnot.We would just joke around and sent each other posts,nothing sexual or suggestive.One day he sent me a video of a guy raping an iguana for whatever reason.i blocked him and never interacted with him again,I was obviously in shock and tried to do things around the house to forget about it.I also don’t know if he was trying to groom me because I never put my age in my bio,but I did reblog “fandom” related posts and I think he might’ve guessed I was a kid from that.i remember it vividly but still keep wondering what if was some kinda nightmare.
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At the time I was really into Dead by Daylight, and I let myself queue with some randoms because I wanted to play the game. I joined their Discord group call and I just kind of quietly sat and carried them (they were pretty shit at survivor, so..).
Being the only woman in the call, they immediately got too comfortable with hearing a woman's disembodied voice and started to joke around a bit, and posting stuff attempting to gross me out, like snot and people spitting at their camera.
Their demented nasally voiced friend decides to spam the group chat with gifs of beastiality in an attempt to be gross back, and all of his friends were instantly disturbed as the group chat was flooded with pictures and gifs of their weirdo friend's porn stash. I hit the Disconnect button, left the party, unadded all of them from Steam, and didn't forget to block the kid who spammed it.
I don't play multiplayer games anymore. And I definitely won't try to be nice to randoms ever again if I do.
Damn im really sorry anon, my experience with a groomer was similiar, he used to call my cuts 'cute' and also sent videos of him peeing and stuff. Although this, combined with csa, made me extremely hypersexual all throughout my teens. I am better at controlling it now.
I hope the best for you anon
Thanks anon, the fucker is in jail now (who would've thought hoarding disturbing porn would ever get him in trouble!) so i feel a little bit vindicted, it sucks how this kind of shit can warp our ability to form healthy relationships for so long.
The worst part is that this fucker wasn't even a fat gross neckbeard, he was a somewhat attractive 24 yo, my love starved dumb selve fell for the bait so hard, you always think creeps look like creeps but the most dangerous ones don't.
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When I was 13, I would have sexual conversations with an 18 year old guy. I doubt he was trying to groom me, and I came in contact again when I was 15 and confronted him and he apologised though
He only apologised because you realized what he had done and confronted him once you were older and just a bit wiser.
Normal 18 year olds don't talk about sex with tweens without ulterior motives.
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I remember always managing to talk with pedophiles, the first one being a guy in habbo, a 21 years old grown ass man, sexting a 9 years old kid.
It was shitty, I think this is why past me was so obsessed with keeping my innocence and being “pure”, but it kind of got fucked when I started joining random chats with an old friend of mine.
She was a year younger than me, but she was waaaaay too social, so she knew about lots of things. It was because of her that I used Omegle and weird radio chats in which some raunchy reggaeton music was constantly playing.
When we used Omegle, we got a guy jerking off to us. I was weirded out and told her that this was wrong and that the guy was a creep, we were around 12/13 years old, she told me that it was okay and kept chatting with him. I had to run away from there and went to my room, it just felt gross.
Then we started using the musical chats, that’s where I met human bubble bass, as a kid, I always assumed that the guy I was talking to was probably my perfect knight in shining armor, I never assumed a guy could be as fucking ugly as that guy.
I texted him a lot, he sent me a bunch of sexual texts and asked me if I wanted to fuck him and such. Of course, since I was a fucking stupid teenager, and I wanted to be cool, I always told him that yeah, I would love to.
One day he asked to meet me, and because I’m not stupid, I told him to meet me at a mall close to my home. He was just like bubble bass, ugly, with the face of a thumb and a neck beard.
That made me stop using chats like those, he never talked to me in real life because I knew that talking to strangers was a bad idea, again, I was somehow kind of straight laced when it came to stuff like those.
Sweet OP you were very naive not to expect this to immediately spiral into a thread for victims
of online groomers. I wanted to read wacky /x/ stories too but unfortunately pedophiles and creeps ruin everything.
In case anyone needs to see that they aren't alone and read some supportive responses, the online child grooming thread is here >>303056
It's not as much disturbing as word but when me and my friends were 13-16 we RPd together online, there was a random user that would come to our threads to join in but within each of their posts would rp as two separate characters, usually interacting with each other in very NSFW ways. We were normally polite but even when we ignored them they would keep posting incessantly with their characters doing each other in public, or trying to flirt with us. This went on for years and eventually we stopped using the site but last year I logged in out of curiosity to find that they were still doing the same thing in the forums. I messaged them to ask about their life but they wouldn't tell me even their age or gender or nationality. I'm always going to wonder who this person was that was sexting themselves in front of us for 3 years.
>be me, 15 years old, innocent lil girl, don't know about grooming because I'm an ESL so my first encounters with these people are new and exciting
>23 year old man starts talking to me, giving me attention, tells me I'm so mature for my age, not like the other girls, etc.
>we start talking more and more, at some point he starts sending me pics of his asshole with dildos in it, dick pics too
>does this through fake blogs pretending not to be him, but soon starts sending them through his real blog
>i think this is normal
>he ghosts me
>months later i find out he did this to all of my other underage friends. we dox him together, find out he's 27
>during those months I befriend another guy who seems kind, understanding and very cool. develop a crush on him but never act on it because of our age difference (he's 19) and because he has a gf. he becomes my biggest support and it makes me gather enough courage to expose the first guy, driving him off all online platforms (or so I hope)
>second guy gives me a lot of compliments, talks about his fetishes to me and what he likes to do sexually with his gf
>I think this is normal (I still think that. I don't know. We were friends, right? I'm still confused)
>I disappear, but I start talking to him again while I'm 17 and he's 22
>he's single now, flirts with me, talks about sexual things. I talk to him about religion when he does that because for some reason sexual things make me afraid and uncomfortable
>he tells me the only reason he didn't send me dick pics was because he was scared I would dox him like I did to the other guy
>we lose contact luckily
This ended up becoming a story of how I was groomed once (maybe twice?). I still have trouble with intimacy. I'm a virgin and I don't know if I will ever feel completely comfortable being with someone sexually, or seeing a penis. It makes me feel gross.
I also have worst stories but I can't share them because I fear the person involved lurks here
this isn't nearly as serious as other things in this thread (and is actually kind of funny) but it was a stupid online interaction that dominated my life as a teenager. It's long but I just gotta put it out there.
When I was ~13 I fell down a rabbit hole and wound up becoming a supermegafan of this washed up Jrock star. Around this time, I also started a tumblr, and went looking for other fans of this guy. The community was tiny and composed of mainly 24+ y/o's who were still clinging on from the star's glory days. There was only one girl on there who wasn't that old, she was like 17 when I met her, but 4 years difference is still a lot when you're 13.
Anyway, she was known for being the "funny one" in the fandom and the older users all would reblog her posts. I immediately looked up to her, and because she wasn't too old, she felt more approachable. We became fast friends and it was fun for the first year or so.
She would occasionally make a TMI or cringy post (about weird things like being depressed because kids used to make fun of her for being "too skinny", or arguing about how irish americans were just as oppressed as blacks in the past so racism against whites exists, her sexual habits with her autistic foster kid trans man BF, etc) but I was 13 and thought everything a 17 y/o did was automatically cool.
As time went on she began to post about family issues, especially about her dad, who was a really bad & self destructive alcoholic, and it was honestly stuff I was not equipped to handle/ try to comfort her about at the time. But she didn't really have anyone else, and so started my job of keeping her from entering depressive spirals by sending long, gushy support messages back and forth through tumblr's fan-mail feature. Even sent her a stuffed animal through the mail at one point. However, she just kept getting worse. It got to the point where if I didn't send her a message every time she made a depressing post, she would continue to make them one after another in increasing severity talking about how no one cares and she's alone and she wants to kill herself.
She also had a extremely weird obsession with shipping the Jrock star with a really old, crusty rock/metal vocalist from an older, very explicit German band. (No, these people did not even know each other) She would write GRAPHIC fan fiction about them fucking, and draw fan art of them as a couple… and then expect us all to reblog this stuff and compliment her on it. Due to this and the stuff mentioned in the previous paragraph, I took to going AWOL and pretending I was not online for days at a time so I wouldn't have to be guilted into reblogging her revolting art and coddling her through her depressive episodes.
One day, she posted something extremely concerning that suggested she was about to kill herself, and then made no follow-up posts for the rest of the night (extremely uncharacteristic for her). Me and her other online friends attempted to contact her and got no response. I wound up calling the cops to check on her because I knew her address from sending her the package. Turns out she was alive and well. Business as usual resumed, only now she was apparently going to move out of her parents house with her autistic trans orphan BF. She opened (traditional art) commissions to fund it, I pity-bought one and paid her extra to help her out, but in the end the move didn't pan out because neither her or BF were functional human beings despite being nearly 20 at this point, but whatever. I was in too deep.
At this point I was around 15 and had developed severe depression myself. I, following her lead, also began excessively depression-posting like a fucktard. One day, seemingly out of the blue, I checked my tumblr in the middle of a school day and saw she had messaged me saying she had just CALLED THE COPS ON ME after she read one of my posts which she interpreted as me being in imminent danger from myself. She has MY address bc she mailed me the commission i ordered from her. I'm freaking the fuck out in a school bathroom stall trying to figure out how I'm going to explain this to my parents when I get home, assuming they will have arrived at the house already (mom was working from home). This is the only instance in which I am eternally grateful that the police are slackers, because they never actually showed up.
Things fall apart from here. She had always been sensitive, but now she was seemingly finding ways to take personal offense at the smallest opinions I'd express on my blog. Like real stupid shit about like pansexuality or some shit, and then she would make a million posts about how everyone hates herrrrr wahhh, to which I would have to immediately respond to her assuring her i did not hate her (even when, at this point, I was starting to resent her heavily). She was still posting gross X rated fanfic and art about the jrocker and the German dude and whining about people not liking it. And then the 2016 election rolled up and she unveiled truly the dumbest opinions ever, like voting green party to fuck the system or whatever.
I realized her personality had not evolved at all in the 3 years I'd known her, while I, in turn, had grown up past my 13 y/o self who initially got along with her. I realized she, and her humor, and her tactics, did not grow with me, and that she was a full adult now who acted like a preteen emotionally. And this all culminated in me finally losing my will to put up with her BS and telling her exactly what my problems were with her, resulting in more sulking, resulting in me rage quitting the "friendship" after 3 whole years of being constantly focused on her and her emotions for hours out of each day.
Fuck, dude. To this day i think about this. It's insane to see just how consuming an online relationship, in which neither part has ever talked irl, can become, especially when one or both of the parties are unstable due to age or just mental illness. I still feel bad, but in the end she was just an intolerable person to interact with. I really wish things could have ended on a different note. She deleted all her social media, so i have no clue what she's up to today. I do hope she is still alive, truly. And I hope she's been able to grow up and mature and become functional.
I know this was annoying and long, but if any other anons have had experiences like this, I would love to hear from them. This is where i'd put a sadface emoticon if it was allowed.
Come on dude, let's not shame literal children who were groomed by predators. This is waaaay more common than you think, and it is never the kid's fault for sending nudes, it's the pedophile's fault for convincing them to. Read up on grooming, plenty of pedophiles are master manipulators and can convince children that they're good friends, that the kid is mature enough for a relationship, they make the kid feel special, and so on.
Isn't that a nice thought though, "If all kids were as well-adjusted and intelligent as me child abuse would cease to exist."
>>586972>I mean cheating is wrong so yeah not excusing that
Uhh, cheating is absolutely okay if the dude is a literal pedo who started dating a fucking 12 year old when he was an adult. And he was obviously an abusive
psycho considering his reaction, getting cheated on is the bare minimum of what he deserves.
People are fucking gross when it comes to roleplaying.
It never ends, just a few years ago I joined a random roleplaying chat on kik, I just wanted to do plot heavy stuff and I explicitly said so when I joined and whenever someone sent me private messages.
There was this fucker, an absolute weirdo bastard with a cute anime boy pfp.
At first I felt pity for the poor autistic teen, then it got fucking weird.
Because I wanted to try new stuff, I thought “fuck it, let’s do this and see how it goes”. But I was wrong. The guy kept asking for some fucking weird mind control bullshit fetish shit show, it was with those bland ass characters from the anime seven deadly sins, it was shit.
The autistic teen constantly asked random shit about the anime and I really didn’t give a fuck about it. I told him that I didn’t want to roleplay with him anymore and he kept trying to guilt trip me.
It didn’t work, I stopped replying him and the fucking weirdo kept messaging me every. Fucking. Second. Asking me why I wasn’t answering him and such.
He created multiple accounts to pester me and I just blocked him.
anon, you did nothing wrong. you can't really cheat on a freak pedophile.
it doesn't matter what anyone told you. he never loved you, he wanted to own you. those online friends were fucked in the head and did not have your best interest in mind.
you are innocent in this.
I had a weird anime boy pester and guilt trip me too, why do they do it? Do they really believe no just means tsundere?
I was trying discord out and joined a normal seeming group for horror manga but somehow a 19 year old catboy trap targeted me as his new mommy gf and started to try to send me his programmer sock selfies. I repeatedly told him that I wasn't interested in any NSFW contact, but because he was so young and probably groomed I felt bad about how that was maybe the only way he knew how to get any attention online so I told him we could chat about manga if he wanted. He accepted that, he stopped using gross bwaby twalk or trying to guilt me. Then one day without warning he sent me something that looked like a nude photo so I just instantly blocked him.
I expected that kind of pestering from thirsty old men that want you to send pics but not from some supposed sub twink. It made me feel so unclean.
It’s so fucking weird, in all honesty, I stopped using discord and kik because of that, I feel like there’s waaaay too many groomed teenagers out there that are desperate for affection.
At first I just wanted to help them stop being so thirsty, I would just tell them that doing stuff like getting in relationships with people they just met and being so open to strangers about everything and anything was a terrible idea.
But i think they’re just so desperate for attention that they just don’t care anymore. It’s extremely shitty, and I’m no therapist to be attending people on my free time, dealing with kids is tiresome.
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Uhm, this is serial killer territory. Please do something about this, I am very concerned for you without even knowing you because I've been there.
Anon, while children are extra vulnerable, a person of any age can be abused and it wasn't your fault at all. Please don't blame yourself, that person was a monster and if they hadn't hurt you they would have just found someone else to hurt.
I hope that if some time has passed you have found some good coping skills and learned how to deal with the trauma in a way that works for you. Good luck pal.
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To every anon in here that has suffered/is suffering, just know you’re not alone. Those rotted dog asses will get what’s coming for ‘em.
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i was a huge not-like-other-girls pickme in my high school years because i hated myself and used to post in msn threads on /b/ (before /soc/ was a thing, actually part of the reason /soc/ became a thing lol) to meet people which unsurprisingly was disastrous. from the ages of 13-16 i had countless men in their mid-20's to mid-30's flirting with me, sending me dick pics, trying to sext me, etc fully knowing my age. one of which was my "friend" who ended up telling me he "thinks he has a crush on me >.<" when i was 13 and he was 21… gross.
the most disturbing one though was this dude name eric who fully groomed the fuck out of me and we ended up internet """dating""" for a while when he was 30 and i was freshly 15. i have no clue what the fuck i was thinking, he was morbidly obese and i wasn't even attracted to him but he lovebombed the shit out of me and constantly showered me in compliments and i was stupid and lonely so i was easy to convince. he would frequently reference my age and say shit like "i know its bad and you can't tell anyone or i'll get in trouble… but you're just so special and beautiful i can't help i'm in love with you" etc its always the same old song and dance with these pedos. he'd sext me every day, sometimes more than once, but i was so naive and scared by it that it would just be him sending messages about what he wanted to do to me/what he was doing to himself and asking if i'd like that and i swear to god i would just reply "oohh mhm.. what else? c;" i literally never said anything more than that because i had no idea what to even say. i always felt uncomfortable and gross about it but still lowkey liked the attention i guess. he eventually started sending me dick pics and videos of him jacking off (disgusting btw, he had a tiny dick) and then started pressuring me to send him nudes and videos of me. he also started to talk about arranging visits so we could meet irl. thank fucking god i never did and i ended up blocking him everywhere when i got an irl 21 yr old boyfriend when i was almost 16. not great either but at least i got away from the 30 year old fat ass with a micropeen.
the saddest part of all this is that this thread is full of stories like mine and its completely normalized and we sit here and still blame ourselves despite the fact that we were literally children who didn't know better. men are disgusting.
I used to play TF2 when I was around 14 years old and chatted with teammates. One time a random guy asked me to join his skype call, which I did, the fucking moron I am. He and his friends were in there with him. But as soon as I started speaking he went quiet on the call and private messaged me "your voice is so hot, I wish I could rape your throat". I immediately blocked him and left the call, but stupidly continued playing the match while I sobbed. This was years after I'd started being raped by my mom's boyfriend so I'm not sure why I was surprised but I guess I'm glad it freaked me out because I learned to conceal my gender after that. I never ended up being groomed or anything after that. >>586646>I remember always managing to talk with pedophiles, the first one being a guy in habbo, a 21 years old grown ass man, sexting a 9 years old kid.
I've been playing habbo again sometimes during quarantine and met a 20 year old girl who is dating a man approaching his thirties - he began grooming her on habbo when she was around 12. I feel like there's nothing I can do about it because she's an adult now. It's horrifying to watch.
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Ohh boy here we go.
I have been 13yo when I have joined touhou fanbase website, I did love the idea of cosplay, so I cosplayed one of characters for con and that's probably the thing I was known for at first. There was one +20yo (I believe) guy, who kept using handcuffs on me and while holding my hands, he pushed me back to sit on his knee. Once I turned 14 I kept hearing "I'm finally legal". Not to mention he has been trying to convince me to have sex with him (while I was still 14/15). I have been avoiding touhou community since then.
oh my god anon, i feel for you. similar things have happened to me where a guy who barely knows me suddenly is like "i have feelings for u". it creeps me out a lot, because they have put a lot of time creating a person that doesn't exist (as they don't know me) and then put her on a pedestal.>>586646
the internet truly used to be a lawless place when it came to chatrooms. my friend got this guy to blow himself on webcam when we were about 12/13. i still vividly remember it, ughhh.
a guy on habbo taught me what the word "orgasm" means while we had cyber-sex. it's creepy, as i'm sure he was an adult (i must have been 11 at the time), but it's also funny in a very cringeworthy way. he was like orgasms
and i was like "what does that mean?" then he explained it. god.
when i was a kid i spent all my time online unsupervised and probably did more fucked up stuff that i have forgotten about. i almost met up w a guy from habbo who supposedly was a year older than me
when i was 12/13. i was incredibly insecure and know it would be v easy to take advantage of me.
(maleposting, ban/remove if you want, I just think women should be aware of this gross shit)
/pol/ stuff paradoxically comes with an intense fetishization of interracial, of course every casual observer of /pol/ shenanigans has noticed this. When I was an edgy teenage /pol/ contrarian myself and porn-sick, I was little different (yes, male sexuality is indeed a meme).
A few years ago I went down that rabbithole on tumblr and discord of far right interracial lovers, and there's some creepy stuff. Beyond the porn sharing, there's people obsessively cataloging and sharing the social media of girls involved in interracial relationships, sharing their pictures off their social media and getting off to them. They're sharing photos of mothers with their mixed race children, fetishizing and getting off to that, literal family photos. And the worst I perceived was them planning campaigns to promote interracial relationships to underage/teenage girls on twitter and social media, getting off on the idea that they're 'corrupting' women.
I seen this two years ago, but I'm pretty certain they're all still at it. They all seen nothing wrong with grooming underage girls into their sick fetish.
Even if you're just uploading a family photo of you with your child, there's a chance that someone, somewhere, is getting off to the pictures and sharing your real name and profile along with it.(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)
One time I was browsing for porn on the internet and I came across a website that was set up like 4chan, but had boards labeled by state, and within the state boards there were threads divided by town, and I found my town and areas around it, and there were a bunch of nudes of girls that I knew including my underage cousin.
So I flipped out and contacted the local police, they said they couldn’t do shit, then I did something I really regret - I contacted the people I recognized and told them. Literally nobody except my cousin responded to me and she denied it was her. I still regret it today because either I dug up a lot of embarrassment and shame for girls that might have been better off mentally not knowing their nudes were floating around, made myself look like a fucking huge creep (they’re probably wondering how I found it) and they probably don’t know who posted it in the first place.
I hate myself a lot for that. I was in the mindset that if that happened to me, yeah I’d want to know, but I don’t know what it’s like for other people, and maybe I just contributed to a lot of negative shit instead of doing something I thought was good or helpful.
You shouldn't feel bad, you were pretty much stuck between a rock and a hard place and your intentions were good. Who could say what's worse, knowing that your nudes are out there or being oblivious (and therefore having no chance to try take it down, or risking a nasty surprise in future)? Both options are shit, I don't even know if I'd want to know or not because either way it's horrifying.
It's not surprising that your messages didn't get a warm response but I doubt it has anything to do with you, I'm sure those girls were really embarrassed and didn't want to address it.
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I just remembered the time The Amazing Atheist got caught shoving a banana up his ass.
There was one for my home town too, maybe it was the same site except I'm from the UK. I remember it had posts on it asking if there were any photos of specific girls, or comments from people that knew the girls saying they were dirty so there had to be photos of them etc. A male friend showed it to me when we were both 16 and I never looked it up again because of how disturbed I was and never sent a nude in my life time because of it.
I never mentioned the board to any girls I knew or made the connection to AnonIB until this thread. I'm glad it's gone.
I'm really bored at work.
I had the same problem. I was sexually harassed by a supposed sub trap : he wanted me to send him nudes, and wanted to send some back but I refused many times (he was underage at the time, and also ugly as fuck).
He even wanted to pay for a hotel room to have sex with me. I was sexually abused as a kid so I have trouble saying "no" to people who want that kind of stuff from me (he knew that), so I just ghosted him.
Diff anon here but one of the pushiest experiences I had online was with an uwu subby femme boy with fucking cat ears and all.
I felt pretty isolated, 18 and living alone in a new city, was rebounding after an unexpected break up. Sunk to a new low by even interacting with such an odd guy but he lived close and I missed my geeky sub ex and I thought there was some similarities between them (I was wrong) I hated the crossdressing part. He'd take pics wearing stripey stockings with his cock hanging out and ask if I liked it. I tried to hint at being more interested in friends at that point.
Early in our interaction he asked where I lived and I had felt comfortable telling him that I lived in a certain area because it was an area with several large apartment complexes so that didn't exactly narrow my location down too much. But then the sexual pics kept coming, the 'femme but look at my big cock' thing grossed me out. When I turned down the oppurtunity to meet up with him he messaged that he was heading towards my place. He kept doing this. He'd message that he's heading to my buildings area to hang out and if I wanted to come down he's there… So glad that I never told him the exact building as he spent several evenings stood outside basically daring me to come down.
Things like this make me paranoiac as fuck. I've been talking to a guy I met on a forum for many years, since I was underage, but I never revealed my location or appeareance to him. He follows my accounts on various platforms, he's always been friendly and only a couple of times he told me he was interested in me romantically and suggested to meet up. I always said no because I just can't shake the feeling he could be dangerous.
Another person I met on a forum was an allegedly "13 year of girl with no friends" who wanted to meet up (she was quite eager too) after only a couple of exchanged messages. I ghosted the fucker and she never really posted anything anymore. I don't think that was a 13 year old girl.
You know the classmate committed a crime when distributing CP images? If it’s fresh case then I’d call the police and the school and get him kicked out.
I hope you practice all the safety preparations you can. Like making your social media accounts private. And get a restraining order if it’s possible.
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This is embarrasing, never posted about this anywhere but here it goes: I was 17 when I met this dude on social media through friends, we shared interests and he was this rawr xd so randum micro musician (aka a failed one and a fucking hikky). Started out mutuals, usually replied to his stuff only when he was talking with my friends but soon enough he was in my dms daily being cute and shit. He came off as this sweet and cool hot guy but he was 28, twenty-fucking-eight. We eventually started skyping, it was 60% of him being sexual as hell even though I stated millions of times I was a virgin and did not really know shit, surprise camming me himself wanking off no matter if I said it wasn't convenient for me. 40% was him being the most depressed ass bitch on the planet. I felt such pressure from his problems, I had my own real life problems no one my age should have been dealing with on top of school work too. Man, his WEIRD ASS FETISHES, the shit he genuinely wanted me to do once we met was too much for me as well. I had to take a break from everything that wasn't school for a while and once I came back, this guy acted like a I never told him I was going to be off for a bit, he acted like a true schizo humiliating me on socials. It kinda fucked me up for a good while. He is fucking ugly now and later on I realised he was in a local-ish cow's circles so that was a thing.
This is basically what happened to Amanda Todd. He's most likely a complete pussy just getting off on the idea of terrifying you and trying to ruin your life, but please try to stay safe, anon.
Reach out to the authorities if you can, there's a very high chance you're not even the only person he's collected CP of and is doing this shit to.
I just wanted to provide an update. While I don't want this thread to turn into being about me or my situation, I wanted to update because I see a lot of girls in this thread have gone through similar things.
The detective who took my report was very nice. They are going to begin an investigation on my ex. My advice to girls who have been through something similar: save screenshots and evidence of as many instances as they happen. Write up a timeline to reference the date of certain events and how they made you feel. Also remember that stalking, harassment, blackmail, and revenge porn is a CRIME. I didn't go to the police for a long time because I thought I would be blamed for the bad choices I've made. But there's been progress when it comes to situations like mine. It won't hurt to start a report and get a paper trail going, especially if the offender doesn't stop bothering you
Good luck to you all. Men have been getting away with this for too long.
I'm glad I'm not the only one who sent stupid nudes to online crushes/ online bf when I was 18/19. It all started when I got more invested to online gaming communities. I honestly feel bad for anyone who ended up doing something sexual before 18 because of these creepy older men.
That reminds me, I remember being in a Kik group for the gaming server I was part of and one of the guys was saying about how he wouldn't fuck a 13 year old because they're too young but he would fuck any boys over 14.
that good that things came back to bite at least one of those guys. I totally relate though, I had an online ex who would send my social media onto 4chan kik sex threads and him and his friends edited my face onto a black slave hanging. They would spam send me that stuff.
I am honestly scared that my photos would come up somewhere one day.
I have another update. Holy shit guys. The police are going to subpeona the site my ex was using for his information. I never thought I would get this far. I'm PRAYING that he got sloppy. He's kind of a stupid guy and he did this for so many years with zero consequences.
I just can't believe this is real, that people are actually helping me. I never thought anyone would care.
This is why I'm sharing my experience. I want you guys to know that it's possible to get help.
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This board is mostly finns
was invited to a discord server by this dude since we were both hobbyists posting our work on a website. the server was for his group of friends who sees the website's forum becoming shit because of mod tyranny.
anyways, i became active on the server. he and i talk a lot, sometimes going to topics that were a bit sexual with an intent of humoring the others with it, casually.
he, then, sent me a pm and said that the flirting might made the others the uncomfortable and wanted to continue with just the two of us. now, here's the thing i wasn't flirting. never, and i told him that. we got a bit silent afterwards but it was better than continuing what we started. i decreased the sexual talks and talk about different topics with his friends, like my academic-related work that i was insecure about.
dude, then, sent me another pm and did a tarot card reading me on me while i was offline for a few hours because i was asleep. and told me that i should stop or put my academics works/projects on hold because he wasn't optimistic. now, usually afaik, tarot card readers would also explained the cards they have drawn concerning one's future and all but he didn't. so i was a bit suspicious.
he also tried to propose to others to send some private information he could use whenever one of us went MIA from the server. his friends ends up disagreeing, wanting to stay anonymous and not bring irl friends and family from being contacted by him mostly. he's also proud that he sucks at cooking and calls it as his 'austictic bachelor' aesthetic.
now i think about it, this guy is kinda milky. idk if he's cow potential though since he's only active on the server. anyways, i'm glad i left. discord entirely as well.
god deviantart is such a gold mine for these types of things.
when i was like 12 or something i posted a rant on deviantart about how creepy and pedophillic bronies were. and then one of those obese, crusty, unwashed, smegma-ridden, fedora-wearing, dorito-crunching, mountain dew-snorting, plushie-humping, paper-fapping, fat roll-having, self stench-sniffing, flame blazer-wearing neckbeards somehow found my email, which was not posted anywhere, and sent me hate mail. and that was when i realized doxing is a thing.
to this day i have some serious reservations about the whole posting your full name on the internet thing. even when it comes to running an online business, i have absolutely no idea how people do that and go through their days not full of paranoia over it. it seems really unwise to me. sure today you like what you're putting out, but what if tomorrow your past self makes you cringe? too bad, because now your real name is attached to it and anyone can see you were once a humongous cringelord.
ok and when i was like 14 i went through this phase of drawing super buff anime dudes because i was autistically obsessed with DBZ and fist of the north star, and daydreamed about writing a comic like that someday. and some freaky motherfucker came into my notes asking me to draw gay porn for him or her, for free. they had to have known i was a 14 year old girl. there's no excuse for this kind of behavior. diss-goss-tang.
and for some reason i remember this follower i had who posted inflation porn of princess peach. i would go, and just stare at their page, pondering, what is the deal with this person and why are they following me.
probably why i'm so messed up tbh. this is probably the genesis of how i got into lolcows.
ok and you know that gore page on encyclopedia dramatica? i don't remember what it's called but if you remember it you know exactly what i'm talking about. it starts out with that pic of the adorable melon megaman hat cat. and then you scroll down and begin to see pictures of penises being squeezed by floss and pictures of people shitting and all sorts of fucked up gore and shit. now imagine looking at that when you're 11. yeah.
i met a dude on omegle who i stupidly accepted his friend request on my fb account, we were both in middle school. he was becoming close to an incel back then (incel wasn't popular at the time or idk, this was in the early 2010s). anyways, he hates everything mainstream, women because they only use him for academic gain and nothing else, to guys who are popular and thinks they're all cumbrains, hate his alcoholic brother, his parents. thinks he's god's greatest creation because he got a lot of medals and certificates from school. only watches gore anime. his profile picture is still the same (i saw it viewing one of my stories, that one sad ball surrounding smiley face balls).
the more i talk to him every night, video chat he preferred, the more i became annoyed with him. but i want male validation so it was conflicting to balance my tolerance towards his behavior while using him as a symbol that i am actually, in a way, likable and approachable to men.
i cut things off less than a month, idk how did it but i was so relieved when i did it. felt like a heavy weight was coming off my shoulders.
he prob hates me because i'm not that edgy, insecure, hateful bitch-weeb in middle school anymore.