/ot/ - off-topic

The fuck? I just did some basic shit. I was mad at my mom For something so I checked out a book with her libary card and never returned it. That books been late for years and shes never noticed

>>486646
You should feel bad about it…..now that kid is going to grow up with parents that didn't even really want it compared to adoptive parents that go so out of their way because they want a kid. I get wanting to get back at the guy but thats really fucked up…

yeah anyway I'm on the same page as >>486646, the only thing that comes to mind is when I was a little kid and I was pissed at my mom I'd take a bunch of spoons or forks and try to throw them out lmao.

yeah i did petty shit like the others have said.

congrats OP, you ruined 3 lives when only 1 of them did anything bad to you.

Well OP, that guy may have no future but neither does the child. It's a shit deal for the kid who didn't ask to be born tbh.

OP you’re a sociopath.

You ruined a girl’s life because you thought the guy (not her) she was dating was a dick. That’s not a cute revenge story. That’s actually pretty sickening.

>>486646
>>486649
>>486661
>>486666
>>486671
OP saved a child's life actually, adoption is fucked up.

>>486671
also wait what
>you ruined a girl's life
lol should we be giving away kids just for fun when our lives will be fucked? you're worse than OP

Anon, did you really make a thread just to brag about your sociopathic life achievement? The confession thread is that way.

>>486671
>>486661
I will not accept responsibility for ruining his girlfriend's life at all. If all it took to convince her not to put the baby up for adoption was a single conversation with someone she wasn't even close to, cleary she didn't really want to give it up in the first place.

Also, adoption isn't an easy fix for your fuck up for women the way it is for men. She's the one who had to carry the baby, bond with it while it was inside her, then go into agonizing life risking labor to deliver it. Handing it over to complete strangers would come with life changing emotional trauma. For her, there was no "winning" in this situation no matter which one she went with.

>>486678
I made this thread because the confession threads are mostly boring and I wanna hear people's revenge stories.

>>486643
Theres a confession thread where you can post your unhinged shitty actions. nuke this trash thread pls.

>>486673
Do explain anon. I'm especially curious because I come from a closed adoption, as does my brother, and our lives were and are pretty normal. I've never really researched into it much as I never had a reason to so I realize I could be biased.

>>486684
NTA but the confession thread is so overly judgey lately

All the holier-than-thou arguments about morals on the confession thread are now on here too tho, well that took no time

OP can you even explain how this guy has no future? It sounds like you've been meme'd into believing that young men are worse off. Deadbeat dads are very common, and it's awful hard to get child support from young dudes who refuse to sign birth certificates and don't make shit in wages to give to the birth mothers.
Here's what actually happened: A shit person got to propagate his genes at no expense to his body, while all burdens still fall onto the mother to do the majority of raising the kid. Meanwhile he gets a pat on the back for giving the kid a bottle every now and then, and uses the kid as a crutch for whenever he fails in life so people can give him passes and sympathize. That's if he chooses to stick around, and if he doesn't then it's the woman's fault for trying to trap him with a child in his youth.
And if he was shit to you, he'll be shit to her and that kid.

So who did you really punish here?
You can't say you "took revenge" on this guy by egging his gf on to have a child, and then say you're actually not responsible for her decision. Deep down you know you influenced this and have some guilt for the two people you didn't think about how you'd fuck over.

I sent my abuser a message on curiouscat saying how pathetic he is for making a bunch of teen friends at 26 because he can’t manipulate people who are around his age. Idk if this is considered revenge considering he sexually groomed me as a teen. But I’m mad that he’s probably doing the same thing to them like he did with me. Still, someone needs to tell him how fucking pathetic he is but his friends were quick to defend him like he’s Christ incarnate.

>>486692
NTA and I'm not anti-adoption, but there are a lot of adoption horror stories. A disturbingly common thing is for adoptive parents to decide they don't want the kid anymore and hand them over to whoever they can find to take them, including strangers they meet on internet groups dedicated to rehoming your adopted kids. Kids have ended up in the hands of pedophiles this way. Also, a lot of parents who adopt see thenselves as martyrs who the child should be forever grateful toward for taking them in. They don't truly see the kid as their child, but as a charity project. There's a lot of other issues adoption situations can have too.

Obviously this all depends on the family, though. Many adoptive parents are great. Sadly, many are also horrible. Just like with any kind of parents.

>>486697
More like very few* adoption parents are great. It sickens me how people say how the woman's life is ruined. Fuck that woman and fuck her bf or whatever it is. It's the kid who is the victim.

I had a messy roommate who had a party at the apartment I was living in. I couldn’t sleep well due to all the noise and his friends broke some of my plates and dishes that night. I trashed his room as revenge for putting me and the two other people in the apartment through that bullshit. I did this by getting all the rotten food in the fridge and smearing it on his desk, throwing large dead beetles and spiders on his bed, and flipping his trash can over. I kind of regret doing this but I was sleep-deprived and had a stressful school schedule so what he did really just finally pushed me over the edge.

>>486695
That's not how it works in our state. If the woman says it's your baby, you have to take a DNA test and prove you're not the father to get out of paying child support. Child support is incredibly high here, too.

Also, he's 21, working as a cashier, and failed out of his freshman year of community college. So yeah, now that he's taking care of a baby, I can safely say his future is gone. But at least he gets a crotch spawn he can pretend it was "all worth it" for.

In college I was assigned to a final group project comprised of older students who had shit grades because I was a 'successful' student (thanks, prof).
They gave themselves the easiest component of the project while giving me the hardest. They fucked around all the time (hence their grades were shit). They got on my bad side after awhile bc they acted super demanding while I was working a shit retail job 40 hours a week, on top of having to commute to campus, and having other final projects for different classes. They'd constantly demand 'meetings' about this project since they were scared shitless of failing, but every meeting was always a 'Starbucks and look busy' meet up. They wanted to micromanage due to the fact that their pass or fail was riding on this, but at the same time these meetings were fucking pointless as they'd never get work done or discuss anything meaningful. It would always just be their social hour.
Shit students for a reason, right?
These same girls are the reason why I was bullied into making a facebook account, because they wanted the ability to message me whenever about this project.

One day they got pissed at me because I was too tired to attend a 7am 'meeting' of theirs on a weekend at the library (I'd have to wake up at 5am to get ready, commute, and then go to work later that day whereas they lived on campus and didn't work so it was nbd to them). I still woke up to send them an email with a word doc but this wasn't adequate since they were there and projected that I was as lazy as they were bc they didn't give a shit about my situation. To punish me, they pretended like they didn't receive the attachment I sent that morning and demanded that I show up. Else they were gonna tattle on me to the professor that I was being uncooperative. It was 3 against 1 so I complied. When I showed up, the girl magically found the attachment and acted shocked that I was pissed off at her for dragging me out there for nothing. She didn't apologize and probably thought that was super funny.

Anyway, after all the stress the project turned out okay. It was really obvious that I put in a lot of effort whereas they did not, and they made fools out of themselves at the presentation. I walked away with my A and the shitters skulked by with their C+ and B- final grade.

This one bitch gave me all these books she took from the library to "help" me (re: dump books on me that she used and was too lazy to take back) during the project. She fucked off after that and expected me to return her own books lol. This would entail me to commute to campus, and lug 20 pounds of books across campus to return them. Towards the end of the class I kept asking her if she wanted them back cause they were in my car, but she passive-aggressive ignored me thinking I'd just take care of them for her. They sat in my car backseat and I eventually forgot about them.

A month or two over summer break I received several angry IMs from the girls irate that I hadn't returned those books. Poor widdle bitch received a bill for a whopping $20 and like hell if she was gonna pay that all because I didn't take care of her responsibilities!
They demanded I take the books back, and demanded I drop off the money in the bitch's mailbox in the music hall.

I went out of my way to return the books for her.
As for the money: I had about $20 in pennies from years of saving in a piggy bank I had in my room. I counted out $20 in pennies, put em in a ziplock baggy, and dropped that copper fuck into the bitch's mailbox.

The next day I received a wall of text spergout from her about daring to give her the legal tender and how annoyed she was cause it's not like the library would accept that and how she'd have to go to a coinstar and abloobloo. I think they blocked me or some shit after crying about it.

Best fucking thing I ever did.

>>486714
So they're on welfare and he's not doing much of shit. Sounds like he's perfectly content being a low effort fuck while some woman raises his spawn. Again I wonder where the punishment is.

>>486714
>Also, he's 21, working as a cashier, and failed out of his freshman year of community college. So yeah, now that he's taking care of a baby, I can safely say his future is gone.
Once the kid is older it’ll be a lot easier for them to go back to school or get into a trade. Maybe he’ll get promoted at the job and go into management.

>>486718
Can someone explain how giving up her child is somehow less of a "punishment" for this girl than keeping it? And while you're at it, could you explain how someone telling her she should keep it magically meant she could no longer give it up if she really wanted to?

>>486723
You think keeping a child destroyed a guy's future, hence it's revenge.
How does that logic also not bode the same for a young woman who's gotta raise it moreso than the guy will have to?

If it wrecked his future then it wrecked hers. Bar none.

Well this thread is a barrel of laughs..

lmao what did he even do to you OP?

everyone in this situation (except the literal baby) is a retard

>>486729
Because women are the ones physically incubating the baby for nine months then delivering it. How would that not make an adoption far far harder on the woman than the man? You act as though if she gave up the baby, her life would be totally chipper and fine. The reality os that giving a baby up for a woman comes with extreme emotional baggage. There's a reason why so many women don't even consider adoption as an option when faced with an unplanned pregnancy, and only consider keeping it or abortion. She was fucked whether she gave the baby up or not.

And again, if she really truly wanted to give it up, the option was still there. Hell, it's still there now. A conversation with an acquaintence does not change that.

The level of sociopathy on this wesbite lately is deeply disturbing.

>>486735
This isn't an answer as to how it doesn't destroy her future. Both options easily hurt women's futures because having a baby at 19 years old is horrible.
Except one choice burdens women for a lifetime.

None of this makes you not shitty for gloating about vengeance on this dude as if it's not affecting a woman and a kid who had nothing to do with how he treated you. If you were a stand up person you'd have warned her about him instead of manipulating your ultimate revenge fantasies. Either you had something to do with it or you didn't.
This would be like suggesting suicide to someone mentally ill and then backpedaling after they do it, cause choices, when we all know people seek validation in their decisions from other people.

>>486732
He fucked me while I was ridiculously drunk after a group get together, when he hadn't had a single drink. Then kept the shirt I bled on (I was on my period) as a trophy and graphically bragged to all his friends about it. Like, he told them explicit details about my body and "how good I felt" in a group chat that was screencapped and sent to me by one guy who felt bad for me. He still wears that shirt sometimes and told people the stain is from sauce.

To clarify- it wasn't rape or anything because we had made out a few times the week before, so he was under the impression it was what I wanted. Still, though, it was an asshole move.

>>486738
I don't disagree that I'm shitty for doing it and yes, it totally hurts her future too. However, as you said, her future was gravely hurt either way.
>Except one choice burdens women for a lifetime.
Adoption is also a lifelong burden for women.

I also totally reject the comparison of coaxing a mentally ill person into killing themselves, the two things are nothing a like.

>If you were a stand up person you'd have warned her about him
She's well aware of how shitty he is. She knows everything that happened between us.

>>486763
so you got fucked over by a retarded jerk, because you associate with retarded jerks. just remove them from your life OP, they both sound idiotic and no one is going to praise you for this just because you feel violated. you seem to be hung up on this still when you should be moving on. the satisfaction you feel is unlikely to last for any significant amount of time

>>486808
I don't want praise, I just wanted more revenge stories.

Why bother to waste your energy being petty and planning revenge?

I might be a stupid hippie but karma has been a true bitch for every person who has hurt me.
There is no need to get my own hands dirty because those people will ruin their own lives.

I don't have the guts to get revenge on my ex but I do quietly long for the day that karma gets him. He was so abusive that he'd send me into panic attacks and then stand over me screaming while I hyperventilated. He demeaned me in front of his 12 year old while I couldn't breath all because he insisted I was faking and that anxiety can't cause that..

He messaged me lately saying that HE had a panic attack for the first time in his life, it was like he wanted sympathy

>>486823
and so far only 3 anons have shared any stories, and all of them are actual petty shit that normal people would find humorous as revenge.
>>486696
>>486710
>>486715

you want some kind of validation and i don't think you're going to get it.

>>486841
I don't want validation, I just want more stories and less moralfagging.

>>486736
A site dedicated to shitting on strangers on the internet doesn't attract a particularly moral crop of humans? What a shocker.

>>486845
hey op go and get some help better yet try and help the poor girl you maniputel becase she was wint a fucking retard like you hope you get a terrible life

>>486857
Learn to type before calling someone else a "fucking retard", you raging autist.

Some anons threatened to doxx my friends and shit despite them not being involved. I consider my friends family so I doxxed that cunts mom and emailed her workplace about her unethical shit she did anonymously.

>>486868
Typed in present tense, you gotta be 18 and above to post here. Who the fuck cares about friends lol.

Not OP, but I am genuinely confused by how many of you see this idiot as a victim. She got herself knocked up, didn't abort for whatever reason, and let the influence of one person convince her to decide against adoption. Unless this bitch has down syndrome, her choices were entirely her own and no one else is to blame besides the baby daddy. It's called responsibility for your actions. It's really not that hard of a concept to understand.

>>486873
Who the fuck cares about morals we should insult and dox everyone here who posted a revenge confession, they thought that this is kiwifarms and it's just comical for us to laugh at the posters here all over and it reeks of some chinese b-rated maffia avenge movie cringe here >>48686 too

>>486869
just stoned my dude
>>486873
Yeah I don't feel that OP did anything that bad, foster care sucks and even if the baby wasn't adopted the guy could leave, etc.

>>486875
>incorrect quoted post number gets referenced to a movie
i am based for once

>>486715
No offense but that's hardly revenge at all and you are a spineless doormat.

Thread sucks, OP is not bad though, but I don't like to avenge and in fact in general I show mercy to people except for this one time when this girl (not a friend) who was 17 sent nudes to a shitton of people and then I made a catfish account and managed to get all of their full body pics with face so I could leak them. I did it because I pitied her and because I knew her shit could never get sorted out at the police and also because she has a mental problem and cognitive problem.
>>486881
>reading that long ass post

>>486736
Why don't you go to 4Chan/incel forums where they share child porn and talk about how all women need to be enslaved? It's really not that bad here, darling.

>>486881
lmao right like why did anon pay the fine for her…

>>486875
You have to be 18 to post here.

>>486888
t. doxed someone's mom to avenge their buttbuddies
holy shit that was probably the most cringe shit i read this week alone

>>486886
Lol what?

My ex boyfriend cheated on me with one of my best friends. After we broke up, I fucked his brother a few months later. I heard through the grapevine that they still hardly talk to this day.

>>486893
A girl I knew did this, but the siblings she fucked just make fun of her, find her gross and tell other guys about her so more men approach her. Just saying.

>>486895
If you fuck someone then go on about how gross they are, it says just as much about you as it does them.

>>486891
I'm not sure what part of that you didn't understand?

>>486890
is it not more autistic to try going after someone's real life friends over e-drama?
just don't be upset when it backfires and karma arrives

>>486893
My first boyfriend sexually assaulted me then I dumped him at a party and ended up dating his hot older brother. We would fuck next to his room all the time lol and his parents loved me. I ghosted the family after a while tho

>>486643
Damn bitch you're ice cold. Nice.

The worst I've done is dip my ex-roomie's toothbrush in my own urine. She deserved it.

>>486873
exactly. OP didn't even do anything so bragging about it is that much cringier. people ITT are moralfags but OP is still a retarded edgelord

>>486828
So much this. Bumped into my shitty ex years after we broke up and he was fat and balding at 25, and had the prestigious title of being manager at a Gamestop, kek.

>>486924
I miss when people could share stories with each other on here without it being seen as "bragging" or "validation posting".

>>486881
I was 19 at the time, it still makes me kek at some rando getting $20 in pennies.

>>486920
go see a psychiatrist

I've done a lot of horrible things for revenge that I now regret. I was extremely unstable and generally a bad person when I was 13-17ish, and it ruined all my friendships and my best friend in the whole world who I also loved so much. Revenge is not worth the temporary satisfaction it gives you anons, trust me. Don't be like OP.

>>486925
Seeing people you hate stuck working at GameStop is so satisfying because they're notorious for treating their employees like shit, even by soulless corporation standards.

>>486643
Clearly a scrote made the thread

>>487046
The more scrote thing to do would have been talking her out of having an abortion, then sperging about how unfair it is that men have to support kids they don't want.

>>486925
My husband suddenly walked out on me years ago and literally never spoke a word to me again or told me why, he just moved back home with his mum and dad and left me to pay rent on our apartment with 10 months left on the lease. Well he's currently 34 and still living with his mum and dad while I own my own house.

Maybe a karma thread would be good? would mean none of the arguments about morality

>>487158
i'm down for a karma thread. a place to post about those shitty people you knew in your past who years later turned out awful

>>487158
>>487164
We had a karma thread a while back that got derailed to death with moralfagging way worse than this one has so far.

>>487166
How can people moralfag when you walk away without pettiness, then by sheer luck they get karma later on?

The moralfagging on here is on another level

>>487169
To be totally fair, there were a couple posts that were pretty extreme (like taking pleasure in people's lives being completely destroyed because they were unpleasant in high school) but the moralfagging was directed mostly at things like "this hot skinny girl who was revoltingly insensitive about my anorexia and vagueposted about how I'm gonna become obese ended up getting fat shortly after".

>>486643
>>486714
Go back to R/childfree

>>487199
>implying having a kid when you don't have adequate resources to care for one isn't a bad thing
Found the teen mom in denial about how badly she fucked up

>people post about ruining people's lives and soaking toothbrushes in urine
>wah moralfags!
>people post petty revenge that didn't ruin anyone's life
>wah not vengeful enough!

You're babies. Just trash this thread.

op: be in awe of muh edgy sociopathy tho!11

>>487200
I>>487200
I said that because of the embarrassing way you talk about it, and because of the term “crotch fruit” which is a borderline sexualised way of talking about kids and is fucking gross. Also the way you talk about young single mums is borderline incel

>>487207
>“crotch fruit” which is a borderline sexualised way of talking about kids and is fucking gross.

..anon that phrase certainly does not sexualize kids. It does minimize and lessen their existence though which I don’t agree with.

>Also the way you talk about young single mums is borderline incel

That’s the problem with the extremists that have taken over childfree. It’s just complete sexist/misogynistic garbage now.

(not the other anon but putting my 2c in.)

>>486674
You’re an idiot.
Adoption isn’t always perfect but by getting put on by adoption, at least the baby will have a better chance of having a better life instead of being raised by two parents who aren’t financially adequate and who probably resent them for being born. How am I worse than OP when OP basically admits that she doesn’t care about the baby but hey! At least the father of baby got what he deserved!

kek at you all arguing like faggots over OP's revenge confession as if it's going to change what already happened. you guys are mad fucking annoying. get off the internet for a couple of days because clearly you're taking it to heart too much

Countdown to this thread being locked for being a massive infighting spergefest

>>487207
It was "crotch spawn" not fruit and you're crazy if you think it ~sexualizes children~ JFC. Also, literally where am I shitting on single moms?

>>486673
Statistically children raised in foster homes grow up healthier, happier, and more financially stable than those from abusive and/or single parent homes.

>>487220
>I-i'm not OP, I swear! Annoying faggots!
You will live with this your entire life, congrats.

>>487352
Let’s just agree OP is a shameless socio-faggot and lock the thread

>>487352
Good thing I'm not OP so I won't have to live with it you corny moralfag