/ot/ - off-topic

>>305491
I'm pretty apathetic and refuse to put any effort into friendship tbh, been that way for about 7 yrs or so. I've lost so many friends over the years, not because of any drama or fighting, literally just because we lose contact (I don't use SNS). But I figure it's equal, neither of us are really trying that hard with each other, so I don't feel bad for my lack of effort. I see a couple of close friends every few months I guess, whenever I do I'm like 'man I should hang out with them more often', but I rarely feel like the rest of the time. I don't really trust or expect people to like me that much either, so I feel like I shouldn't push too hard to see each other often.

I don't date either, eventually I'm gonna be all alone. I'm 100% fine and happy now because I have my family but I do wonder how I'll deal in the future.

I've got two friends and enjoy their company. We've never been in any fights on anything. I prefer friendships over romantic relationships, most people I know tend to choose one over the other. But imo relationships tend to be more dramatic and are more likely to end. I like friendship because you can choose how intimate you want to be with them, there's less of an obligation. On the other end, I wouldn't want to be entirely alone because I do get lonely sometimes despite being introverted.

Moved to >>>/g/97555.