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No. 2630593

A thread for venting about difficult, weird, or stupid stuff going on in your life.

Previous vent thread: >>2618191

Follow all the /ot/ board rules & always reply to bait.

Please do not come to this thread to make fun of anons' vents, to demean them, or to try and be funny with some shit snark reply. It's annoying. If you do not have anything nice to say, don't say it at all.

No. 2630602

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>day off
>wake up
>open bluesky
>witness ugliest picture that offends my senses reposted on my timeline
>apparently it's my husbando
>this means war
>scroll account
>17 year old "genderfluid lesbian" who "headcanons" my husbando as "transfem" and "openly talks about nsfw so dni if that offends you !!"
>report it for being a minor who talks about nsfw and interacts with adults who talk about nsfw
>submit
>block immediately after
Inner peace restored.

No. 2630606

>>2630602
God bless

No. 2630622

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>>2630602
I HATE when I see deliberately ugly art of my favorite characters, especially husbandos. Ruins my whole day. Do the artists themselves actually still find them hot or are they just gaslighting themselves into thinking they look sexy to feel good about themselves?

No. 2630640

I wish I knew what would be the best career for me. Right now I’m getting an AA in psychology but I dislike the thought of going into therapy. I just don’t think I have enough emotional intelligence to navigate other people’s issues, and I think I wouldn’t be great at giving them good advice. A simple boring job that pays enough to sustain one person comfortably is what I want. If it was just paperwork all day I think that’d be fine. Or a job that actually helps people that I wouldn’t be bad at. Hopefully I don’t waste too much time on something that won’t work out for me.

No. 2630643

>>2630602
Bluesky is way too full of trannies and ultra “porn is good and prostitution is empowering” leftists for me to be there.

No. 2630659

>>2630622
It's just self-inserting in the most obnoxious way possible. They don't care about how the characters actually are at all

No. 2630662

begging people who cannot afford pets to quit getting pets. you constantly beg for food and toiletries, so WHY did you get a new puppy.

No. 2630668

>>2630662
Pets are so expensive, and I just watched a story about the amount of pets in shelters skyrocketing because people cannot afford food or vet visits for their pets. A pet being spayed/neutered also needs to be mandatory so we dont have "ooops, my coworker's dog had a litter of puppies. Want one?" bullshit. That was a true story, so now my friend has a husky she doesnt even know how to care for.

No. 2630696

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No. 2630704

>>2630696
Gently holds you

No. 2630708

One of my good friends and her boyfriend are just such a strange couple. She's a devoted bible belt Christian, he doesn't have a religious upbringing. He half heartedly goes to church for her sake. She's just this lovely, kind, caring, mature, proper, organized, bright person. He's so immature and just kind of rough in speech and behaviour and dumb honestly. He's always loud and talking shit and joking about things she clearly doesn't like. They almost have this mommy-son or teacher-kid kind of dynamic sometimes. Last night they hosted a small garden party and he was complaining about how 'nitpicky' she was about cleaning the furniture and outdoor kitchen and stuff to get everything ready for the party. One of the guys joked something along the lines of "that's gonna be your future mate ha-ha" and he was like "All I gotta do is say yes and amen". A joke on the surface maybe but there was such a mocking undertone to it, it pissed me off. I think there was a grain of truth in that joke and I don't think he appreciates her enough. Their personalities, intellects, values and lifestyles just don't match, I genuinely don't see what she sees in him. She's genuinely a devoted Christian and openly talks about wanting to raise her future kids in the church and shit so why pick someone who you've gotta beg to go to church with you? And mocks you behind your back for it? Just fundamentally doesn't make sense to me. I talked to her about it before and she claims he's 'open to converting to Christianity' but I'm pretty sure he's just saying what she wants to hear. I genuinely think a sweet and bright woman like her could've gotten better, both in terms of personality and just matching values/lifestyles. And don't get me wrong: I'm not religious either so this isn't me hating on the guy just because he isn't Christian like she is, they're just so blatantly mismatched. But they're living together now so I guess that isn't happening.

No. 2630709


No. 2630715

>>2630704
Thank you I'd love to be held irl
>>2630709
Because I'm an idiot who can't do anything right

No. 2630731

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I think the six people in my group project are retarded because we have 2 days left to finish this 3 page essay and I'm the only one doing any work. Literally nothing is in the document except for my work, but I appreciate them for thanking me for "moving stuff along" like yay. It's the easiest topic in the world for a class that a monkey could pass through, and still nothing.

It's also really annoying because I'm spending my own time being forced to be group leader and beg people to contribute to anything, even posting links to articles they could use. I'm sorry you went on vacation and are busy but I'm currently balancing this dumbass paper, trying to figure out if I should email the other group members who have said nothing, and also work on my 15 other assignments for my other classes. Why are people like this.

No. 2630741

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Thought something was going a way but it wasn't at all that way and I felt too much that way and I spent so much time thinking it was going to be and I'm a retard.
I'm going to buy some booze, privately detonate and come back stronger tomorrow.

No. 2630742

>>2630731
You should tell the professor.

No. 2630818

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Actually laughed out loud what the fuck
>See someone claiming she's self publishing a book and wants donations
>Turns out it's just a fic
>It's a pairing I like
>Check it out
>A male character that the fandom collectively headcanons as a tranny is in the fic
>Ctrl+f his name to see which pronoun she used for him
>She used his name as a pronoun.

No. 2630822

I hate how deep my tan gets in the summer. I don't even try, I wear sunscreen, and that shit still gets so dark. Yet by the time winter rolls around I look a fucking Tim Burton character again

No. 2630833

>>2630822
it's okay to be biracial nonny

No. 2630841

>>2630822
Deep tans are awesome though. I want to go outside, but my area has been bombarded by shitty lantern flies and I'm crying cuz I want to stomp every single one of them.

No. 2630845

>>2630833
>>2630841
I unironically blame my mothers German side for this

No. 2630850

>>2630818
Imagine going through all this trouble just to not ruffle tranny feathers. Is she publishing the fic as-is? Not even changing the characters' names to pretend it's original? Can you just do that?

No. 2630861

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Autists whose entire lives revolve around their special interest seem like they're having so much fun. All I do is lay paralyzed in bed stressing out about work and bills. I want to be a carefree autist who plays videogames all day and writes 100k word fanfics that nobody else will read. Spending hours on my days off daydreaming or drawing just for fun evokes a nagging sense of panic that I'm wasting valuable time on frivolous things, I can't enjoy anything anymore.

No. 2630867

>>2630818
May this absolute garbage never get published.

No. 2630870

>begs for job
>gets job
>doesn't do the job
>complains about job

No. 2630881

>>2630870
Based tbh

No. 2630886

>>2630818
That's funny actually. She didn't want to troon the guy out so she just uses his name in all references? She doesn't even try to rename anyone before she self publishes it?

No. 2630891

In the past few days I felt rawness and discomfort in my genital area. Today the rawness turned into pain so I finally looked with a mirror and I saw a lump which I think is a bartholin cyst. The pain is almost unbearable unless I lie down on my back and there's no pressure on it. I googled it and it says there's no treatment for it (except surgery) I don't know what to do.

No. 2630898

>>2630891
You may have to bite the bullet and get surgery

No. 2630904

When you understand that companies don't care about you and only about profit you should not be productive for fuck sake. Don't take it too seriously. Scam back. Be discreet.

Your first week at work, or month, you find out in what aspect of the job you can scam. A lot of jobs only requite 4 hours of your focus. The rest is about pretending to be here doing the job. Take breaks. Hide somewhere. Pretend you did something. Be discreet, be smart about it. Don't do the job to its full capacity.

No. 2630908

>>2630640
Maybe you started off studying psych thinking about becoming a therapist but remrmber there are other paths than counselling or clinical psychology. Like organisational, health, neuro, criminology hell even research kek
Good luck with your studies, nonny

No. 2630968

>>2630898
Okay I'll try to book an appointment with a gynecologist, it will take some time though. I guess at least 4-5 days? I don't know what I can do to decrease the pain in the meantime.

No. 2630986

I can't stop thinking about her. She's the first girl I have ever liked like this. I don't even know if she knows I'm into girls too. I want to see her again. I want to have her close.
Whenever I'm stoned or drunk, like I am right now, she's the only thing on my mind.
Fuck…

No. 2630989

>>2630968
Ibuprofen

No. 2630994

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>have extremely regular periods for decades
>never track them, just know the dates when I get my period
>they hurt a fuck ton though
>be 29
>go to gynecologist like usual
>"everything looks beautiful, nonna! You have nothing to worry about!" T.Gynecologist.
>be 30
>go to gynecologist like usual
>start tracking periods for funsies because of husbando game
>develop cysts in an ovary
>have another random shit I don't remember the name of in my uterus
>experience for the first time a whole month long period
Why.

No. 2630996

some of the people on this website lack basic reading comprehension

No. 2630998

>>2630994
Did you ever have an ovarian cyst burst? Worst fucking pain of my life. Did they say you need the cyst removed?

No. 2631010

>>2630996
Kek, it's an endemic, it happens not only here. I'm already accustomed and forgive them.

No. 2631023

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>>2630998
That sounds hellish. I need to go to the gynecologist next week, which is something else that has been bugging me
>Gynecologist only works on Tuesdays
>She gives me a treatment 4 months ago
>"you have to come back when you finish your treatment and you can't be on your period"
>k
>call her secretary when period and treatment ends so I can go right after finishing my three months of treatment
>"She only comes on tuesdays"
>fuck
>Wait another week
>don't have money
>fuck
>Wait another week
>period
>fuck
>wait another week
>repeat until this week
>finally be able to call her this Tuesday
>set appointment for next week
>on my period
You know what? I'm going, I can't just keep on waiting. A month and a half have passed since I finished that treatment she gave to me, and I'm worried because this is all new to me.

No. 2631024

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i've done this to myself by being straight and being in a relationship with a man but this is my last straw. My husband is temporarily out of work, and while he said he'd pick up more chores and errands around the house, he does it maybe 20% more than when he was working. Mostly cooking more, which is nice except he doesn't clean up the kitchen after. There has been a pile of laundry to fold for almost a week now. I remind him everyday and when I start folding some of it he gets pouty, but still doesn't do it!! I am torn between writing him a list of chores every morning so he has a physical reminder and continuing to not do that because he shouldn't be retarded. like, use your fucking eyes and see the clothing bin is getting full again, so maybe do the fucking laundry??

No. 2631026

>>2630996
Its not just lc, literacy is dropping among all zoomers. They fucking hate reading thanks to their tiktok brains

No. 2631027

>>2630870
Literally me right now. I'm on my second job interview and all I can think of this.

No. 2631028

>>2631024
If hes home all day then theres no excuse. Get serious and actually show anger about his laziness or let your useless pet moid get away with the bare minimum

No. 2631040

>>2630602
>using bluesky
kek, that's what you get for using tranny twitter

No. 2631046

>>2630996
I would say they don't irl but on this site they purposefully turn it off to infight for a laugh

No. 2631048

I bought a bottle of wine to cook bourguignon, but ended drinking all of it yesterday. I have guests today. I'm retarded now idk what to cook, idk whether to buy another bottle of wine again it's expensive.

No. 2631066

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>>2631048
Sometimes it's better to make something simple, like, idk, link related seems to have some nice recipes.
https://www.howsweeteats.com/2025/04/easy-recipes-for-dinner/

No. 2631068

>>2631024
There’s a vent thread for this on g/

No. 2631073

>>2631024
Kick him out of the house for the night if he doesn't do his chores. I'm serious. Either he can contribute to a functioning household and couple, or he can leave.

No. 2631077

>>2631068
And it's fine here too, she's venting afterall.

No. 2631080

>>2631077
Last time I checked you weren’t the owner here. She can go on /g like all the nigelfags. They always shit up the thread and everyone ends up talking about men men men.(minimodding)

No. 2631081

>>2631080
idk anon we're mostly talking about chores. you're the one hung up on moids

No. 2631082

>>2631080
You aren't either minimod

No. 2631091

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>"hurrdurr you're so FLIRTY nona!"
>"Why are you flirting with a taken man?!"
Ah, yes. Of course. This is definitely what's happening, you've caught me red handed. A lesser sleuth might have thought I was just being civil during the one, single, deeply unpleasant encounter I've ever had with him, but nothing gets past you! I must have a weakness for micro dicks. Fucking idiots.

No. 2631101

>>2631091
Your original vent was more understandable kek.

No. 2631106

>>2631081
>chores
She is venting about her useless scrote not doing chores though

No. 2631107

>>2630996
>post something
>anon accuses me of hating waffles
>clarify we were discussing pancakes
>anon continues talking about waffles
At that point I just tell myself I was talking to the anon who admitted to using the toilet to masturbate or ate seeds from her poop and I get on with my day. It works for me, maybe it’ll help you

No. 2631108

>>2631106
Yep, and the rest of us had no problem helping her with the subject of her vent.

No. 2631109

>>2631107
lmaoo what. where are these confessions, I must see them

No. 2631110

>>2631107
What does that have to do with it?

No. 2631113

>>2631107
>spoiler
Like… masturbating while on the toilet, or using some part of the toilet to masturbate? Nonny come pick me up, I'm scared.

No. 2631116

>>2631108
At least be truthful about it rather than convoluting it in a way that benefits you. She is venting about her Nigel and how he manages chores. It’s not waffles and pancakes, it’s just waffles in here.

No. 2631122

>>2631116
I'm sorry that the mere mention of moids existing is enough to get your dander up like this. I don't like them either, but my frustration at the male existence isn't going to make women stop having moid problems, so.

No. 2631124

>>2631116
All I’m saying is that there’s a beautiful thread for that and also other threads where you can talk about men in all types of flavors you like, from praising, bragging, venting , advice etc.. I don’t get why nigelfags don’t stay confined there in the same way the nonnas on /m do regarding their topics. The double standards are crazy.

No. 2631130

The pairs of sandals that I only like are the ones of the brand “Dr.martens”, but they are so fucking expensive and I don’t want to buy a pair for 120 when the sole gets eaten down in a matter of just two years (I have one pair and it just did that, I thought they could last a bit more).
There are those with a harder sole and they are so cute but they are 150 and above basically, I can’t justify spending that much. I think I’ll get them during winter if they are on sale kek

No. 2631135

i ate two slices of pizza and now i feel like i have the flu. holy shit my day is ruined by fucking pizza.

No. 2631136

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I already had one yesterday, but I regret not getting a bombolone even today while I was out with my friend, I didn’t want to feel like a fattie. Damn me…I wish I ate it…

No. 2631139

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>>2631136
>me watching myself telling my friend that I was okay on skipping while she had her Bombolone since I already had one the prior day

No. 2631142

I think I have OCD and now I just want to kill myself.

No. 2631145

>>2631142
Maybe a bombolone will cheer you up nonna…
What is your OCD about? Or is it like about suicide in particular?

No. 2631162

Can someone tell me what the fuck it means if a moid you’re talking to online keeps mentioned having been ghosted every time you don’t reply after like 2 or 3 hours. It’s so fucking annoying I work and even mention that but for some reason he keeps subtly implying it and I don’t even want to talk to him. Is this how male BPD looks like?

No. 2631164

>>2631162
It means he's neurotic and manipulative and you should ghost him immediately

No. 2631165

plz no autistic cat nonnies come after me please
I love my cats, I love cats. I have owned cats literally my entire life, never been without them. my last kitty passed from old age sadly, and after a few months I began petsitting because I missed having something to take care of, but wasnt ready to have another cat. i didnt want another tbh, she was my soul cat. well the owners ghosted me so I was left with 2 cats. I was really upset bc I wasn't ready but I still give them the life they deserve. they are insanely spoiled and doing do much better
I won't lie they get on my nerves so fucking badly. I know why they do this, im the cat autist, but its so overwhelming sometimes. they are the clingiest cats ever. I cant lay down for 1 second before they lay on me. they are constantly licking themselves and biting their nails, licking their toes in my face. I cant close the door for 3 mins to take a shit without them freaking out. right now I just wanted to be ALONE after being bothered every single day all semester because im the tutor and the therapy friend and all this other shit. I wanted to take a shower by myself so I close the door and one of the cats is HOWLING outside. its just so fucking ridiculous sometimes. sometimes they go in between the curtains, or sit on the counter and howl becsuse they cant see me. I just wish everyone would leave me alone for ONE day. im so fed up. I dont respond to a message for ~3 days suddenly I get more saying "hey everything okay? hey you still there? im just feeling like.." SHUT UP!! LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE!!!!!

No. 2631171

>>2631162
>Is this how male BPD looks like?
Probably

No. 2631172

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All this over a bpd whore cheating moid…pickmes are abhorrent but it hurts more when it's your own fucking sister

No. 2631177

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>>2631165
>meow meow I promise I’ll leave you be next time you are in the toilet meow. I’ll convince my brother too meow.

No. 2631191

>>2631177
they would NOT say this shit especially the boy. he is an insane momma's boy, like every moid creature. after i feed him breakfast i have to lay down for a bit so he can clean himself and nap on me. he won't let me stay up late and will come and get me because he wants me to lay with him.

No. 2631194

>>2631191
I think it’s just you not putting boundaries and letting them walk all over you nonna…

No. 2631195

>>2631194
Nta but the idea of setting down boundaries with my cat is really funny kek

No. 2631331

what is up with delivery drivers having female profiles yet when they arrive they’re male. freaks

No. 2631332

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The local radio station i listen to (yes im a radiofag leave me alone) is run by zoomers who usually have great taste in music but they've recently become obsessed with a DJ's mixtape of mash-ups that imo are really badly done. Like in the 2000s there were some well matched-up mashups that obviously took work but this shit just sounds like the guy pressed play on traditional south american music and an old top 40 ballad at the same time and let it play. It's not even mixed properly, everything just sounds muddy and under water. My radio is my alarm and twice this week I've been awoken to this bullshit. Usually when I don't like music it just bores me; this is actually the first time I can remember actively hating songs. I hope this doesn't become a trend and the dickhead volunteers at the community radio station get over it soon. Also what if I hear it too many times and it brain damages me into liking it and then I show my friends and they stop talking to me? Actually I wouldn't mind that but I still hate these songs.

No. 2631337

>>2631331
That's insidious wtf. You able to report them?

No. 2631355

>>2631337
i want to but i’m paranoid they’ll know it’s me and know where i live and kill me kek
i still should, though

No. 2631358

>>2631355
samefag i’m extra annoyed i tipped well because i thought it was a female

No. 2631361

>>2631331
This shit happened to me too! Freaked me the fuck out when I looked into it and saw all over plebbit that it's an account sharing/buying thing, all of the drivers near me are moid immigrants so it's likely they didn't have proper documents and went this sketchy route instead. I don't use delivery apps anymore because it scared me too much.

No. 2631371

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Why did my ex (situationship I suppose) decide to take the gig to pick me up in his cab? I know for certain the cabbies in my town get to see the customer name. Maybe I should be more concerned he knows where I live now. The signals are just incomprehensible and he knows I’m so in love with someone else who loves me and is everything I originally sought.
I also blocked him everywhere months ago. It’s such a weird fucking turn since I was always the one with the unhinged obsession and he could never decide if he actually liked me. We never even fucked, he wouldn’t let me touch him but would flirt enough for the attention. Our last interaction involved reuniting after years apart to finally kiss and it was awful and just ended with him rejecting me anyway. But I put up clear boundaries for my own sake and suddenly he’s desperate to have me around and thinks it’s a good idea to disrespect them?? I was fine in his friend zone if he’d wanted that for real. I always respected him. EMAILING me last year to this is fucked.

It all pisses me off so badly now that I think about it. I didn’t get a chance since it was a ride to work. I thought my anxious-avoidant attachment was extreme but his is diabolical. He never even liked me.

No. 2631390

I wish my dad had killed me when I was a kid. Hes always threatened to do it and I'm still hoping he really does it some day.

No. 2631401

>>2631371
You should get this guy out of your brain… its a cab ride, its not like he showed up at your door with flowers. Maybe he just took the gig because he wanted the money and why not. It sounds a little like you're not over him… Best to treat it as an awkward interaction and move on

No. 2631408

I hate how dry the air in the area I live in is. Before I moved here my lips were almost never chapped and my skin wasn't dry. Literally the day I moved my lips started getting constantly chapped and my skin is always flaking. And I drink a ton of water so I know it's not from dehydration, the area is just basically the closest you can get to a desert in my country. I've been having to apply chapstick every single day, multiple times a day, for two years. It's incredibly annoying waking up with chapped and dry lips every morning

No. 2631418

>>2631401
I would feel this if he hadn't gone out of his way to contact me via any way possible when I blocked his number/other accounts last year. He emailed me begging me to unblock him after he ran into me and my boyfriend in public. He tried to contact me again just a few months ago, too. I made it clear I never wanted to see or speak to him again at that time.
Maybe this is nothing and a coincidence that just cursed us, who knows. He's never been a threat to anyone but himself so I guess it's whatever regardless.

No. 2631422

>>2631371
He comes back because he's a loser who wants to play with women's emotions for an ego boost. He probably has a rotation of women he emotionally manipulates for fun then wonders why he hates himself. He is also probably unable to emotionally connect with others in any meaningful way and probably never will.

No. 2631427

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My dad is very fucking fat and keeps stealing our food. We're poor so we gotta be careful about food and portions, but lately we have to hide food (mainly carbs, snacks and desserts) away from dad. First it was an entire bottle of peanut butter, then my fucking birthday cake, now my lactose free cheese. He keeps eating and eating and leaving us with less food, being this gluttonous in this economy is some bullshit, and yet he has the nerve to act offended and make a scene when called out. He's literally addicted to food and has ZERO impulse control around anything remotely edible, always asking for seconds, serving himself humongous portions, etc. Damn, fat people are mentally ill

No. 2631431

you make me want to disappear.

No. 2631435

>>2631427
Your dad clearly has some emotional issues he needs to tackle. Binge eating always has an emotional reason behind it.

No. 2631437

>>2631331
It’s usually their wives name and picture they will register with

No. 2631443

It’s so boring hearing Americans talking about how terrible European cities are even though you know damn well they’ve never left their state. Even the safest cities in America are still more dangerous than the roughest cities in Europe.

No. 2631444

>>2631165
Couldn't you take them to a shelter to be adopted? They weren't supposed to be your cats in the first place, you shouldn't have to burden yourself with unwanted pets that the owners dumped on you

No. 2631447

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I’ve tried doing my own makeup and I’ve had it done by professionals too. I’ve tried super natural looks, heavy nighttime glamour looks, and everything in between. No matter what it always looks bad and makes me look older. Some people just look better and younger without makeup and that’s that.

No. 2631450

>>2631435
He says he eats when he's feeling anxious, I used to feel bad for him but then he started to get violent over food now my patience is almost gone

No. 2631456

>drink water
>get heartburn
>Eat
>get heartburn
>starve
>get heartburn
>Breathe
>Get heartburn
Wtf am I supposed to do, this is hellish

No. 2631457

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This year has been catastrophic. I dropped out of college, my kitty died, i got rejected, my bruxism mask broke and i had to pay 200 usd for a new one, i got tinnitus due to the severity of my bruxism and i spent an entire month being spun around doctors to find what was causing my tinnitus and test if i had hearing loss(thank god i dont), i have a hand injury that hasnt healed in over 6 months and i havent been able to draw since then, i had to get an MRI scan which was scary as fuck because i am claustrophobic, i got scammed at a job, i handed over 100 CVs and i didnt get called once, some lardass on bicycle crashed on my transformer and the sudden spike in electricity caused my computer, my charger and the bulbs in my room to explode. I don't know what else could happen to me, i am awaiting for the inevitable piano hanging from a rope to fall on me and finally free me from this misery.

No. 2631467

>>2631456
do antacids not work?

No. 2631468

>>2631457
I'm actually speechless. My condolences for everything…

No. 2631471

I work a shitty wagie job while I’m going to school and I can’t work more than 4 days a week lest I go insane and become incredibly depressed, so it makes me scared that I’m not gonna be able to handle working 5 days a week once I graduate and ( hopefully) get my dream job.

No. 2631479

>>2631468
thanks nonny i try not to be supersticious but every time i think it's over things just get worse. The random lardass moid crashing on my transformer is the cherry on top i was genuinely dumbfounded when my mom showed me the clip of this retard, in the middle of the night, while the streets adn road were completly empty crashing onto the only thing in the middle of the street. I was crying and laughing at the same thing why do these things happen to me.

No. 2631504

i'm freaking out over being unemployable if i keep having to live at my parents' home i'm going to be fully dead inside. when it hits me how much i hate my life i can't make myself care anymore about making better decisions. i go from delusion to delusion to survive.

No. 2631518

>>2631504
are we living the same life. i feel you nonna

No. 2631519

>>2631456
I had the same problem, fasting for a few days helps.

No. 2631520

I am a very lonely person. I don’t talk to anyone, i have no close friendships, and I am not even close to my boyfriend. He lies to me all the time, he lies about who he is with, his porn addiction, etc,. I have no safety net in my life. I am just stuck in this shitty situation till it either improves or I climb my way out. I wish no girl had to experience what I experience because I feel less than human. I am like a zoo animal with zoochosis.

No. 2631544

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>goes to emergency room once for cellulitis and gets antibiotics
>gets an infection in my arm and then has to go back and get admitted in the hospital for IV antibiotics and taking a whole bunch of stupid shit
>hives still forming still getting bitten and having to stay in a shitty hotel room causing this shit
I’m literally embarrassed at this point I’m probably going to have to go to urgent care or back to the emergency room holy shit thank fuck I’m going to another place

No. 2631545

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Nonnas I’m never responding to a “journalist” again. Bitch took everything I said out of context and her article was dogshit.

No. 2631546

>>2631544
Oh shit nonna this is so scary. What’s biting you?

No. 2631555

>>2631520
I used to be where you were, anon. Sending you all the good vibes.

No. 2631558

Where do haters spawn from? I’m not perfect but the level of obsessive vitriol some people enjoy engaging in is strange. I never got the “how do you have beef with me when I’m in my room like this” meme until I discovered there are people who literally love discussing you JUST to hate on you with each other.

No. 2631559

>>2631546
Literally no idea, not even the doctors knew kek. We bought bed bug spray, even changed the sheets too and I still have zero clue. It must be a new discovered allergy that’s honestly a bit more annoying to deal with than scary.

No. 2631560

>>2631520
how do people get boyfriends and not friends.??.

No. 2631568

>>2631560
That's not a boyfriend, that's a scrote who is taking advantage of a woman with self esteem so low she thinks she's too worthless to even break up with him.

No. 2631572

I hate that sometimes I can’t go to the mall like a normal person. I get overwhelmed by all the people and different scents and I get this itchy feeling and I want to leave. I prefer outdoor shopping centers.

No. 2631603

>>2631558
Reassuring myself that the best you can do against a hater is thrive

No. 2631606

>>2631572
I kinda feel the same only I just prefer not leaving the house most the year cause outdoor shopping centers are like feels like 115 rn and over 90 most of the year

No. 2631608

>>2631558
They are born with the hater’s curse. Source, I have the curse.

No. 2631621

any other millennials here miss their 20s? i was a mess mentally and financially and had really shallow relationship/friendships but sometimes i think about how fucking careless and wild i was for everything in my life and i miss that

No. 2631645

>>2631621
I wish I had a chance to re-do my 20s tbh. I spent alot of it being a NEET because I was unmotivated and depressed. I’m a lot better now and I’d like to have another shot at school and working and enjoying life instead of rotting in my room.

No. 2631647

>>2631621
20s no, teenage years yes

No. 2631665

>>2631621
20-23 I was a anxious mess. The rest was pretty cool. Auntie Xious is taking back over my life again so maybe I should've confronted her back then instead of just getting wasted and high. I still had a good time. I don't regret it.

No. 2631675

>>2631645
if it's any consolidation i don't think anyone past their 20s feels like they had a fulfilling and awesome experience, it's such a turbulent time. i do miss just not giving a shit and living fast and having like no responsibilities mostly
>>2631665
yep i spent so much time getting fucked up. alcohol, weed, cough syrup, even coke and crushed adderall a couple times. i figured i was going to die before 30 and i was ok with it. god, in my 30s i am way more content and stable. i am medicated. i have better friends. i do miss the careless days sometimes though

No. 2631678

>>2631457
That sounds like evil eye to me. You should do witchcraft even if u dont believe it, there’s a curse on you

No. 2631682

>>2631675
>cough syrup
A nonnie who was robo tripping kek?
Yeah there was a point where I was like "everything is going to go to shit when I'm 30, I should just do everything now. There's no enjoyable future there". That was the low. I'm more together now but like looking back I was bleak. I was doing a lot of stuff and I'm happy I did that because I wouldn't otherwise but I was very reckless kek.
>even coke
Thank God you didn't get into it. It's everywhere now and it's the worst drug. You just vomit words for hours while feeling like your the best person on the planet.

No. 2631690

>>2631678
I thought about visiting a santeria but i dont have the money. How can i learn witchcraft? i wish i had witch friends.

No. 2631691

A part of me is this dreamy Barbie naive girl who’s like oh yeah, would love romance one day and marriage, living together in an appartment. Another is like, I’ve seen so many women suddenly being engaged and some lose their aura, they’re not cool anymore they transform. They submit, they dig a hole and put all their special interests and light in it then closes the hole and it’s like seeing a zombie version. I don’t want to be that. Idk how Id be since Ive never truly dated a moid. I know though that I have strong boundaries and I get pissed off easily if I feel someone tries to force me to do something or be someone else. But it still scares me. And there’s just something about men that truly pisses me off and disgusts me. Occasionally though as I said the Barbie Disney girl comes out and daydreams about romance with them but I know reality is much different. I keep thinking I could just date and live on my own my whole life though. It’s just depressing

No. 2631693

>>2631690
Do a very simple egg ritual. Go on TikTok some show you how. Do it often.
I was born with a culture of witchcraft and what we do is use lead that we melt and pour between your feet in water with plants. But this is complicated to do alone. Real witchcraft uses weird shit. Not to be racist but anyone white doing witchcraft ull see them use honey and rose petals. They know nothing about it because it’s from ancient traditions and ancient traditions were not white kek. So take advice from a mexican, or indian american but especially anyone from africa. Find simple recipes on plebbit or tiktok. Do it regularly. Get yourself a protective stone as well. There’s something that was cast onto you it’s so obvious, you need a lot of help right now.

No. 2631696

>>2631693
Thanks nonny i will try.

No. 2631697

>>2631693
>>2631696
If you're white find a Vlach witch

No. 2631698

>>2631697
I am hispanic, from argentina. I am going to try asking some friends about. Early in the year, before i started experiencing a stroke of bad luck, i helped dox a rapist. So i wonder if he put a curse on me? he's definetly the kind to do so.

No. 2631702

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Went to r34 to check out the latest art for my fagbando and had to use a VPN because I'm from the UK and all I can say is I'm glad that shithole got Ofcom'd because it was all cuntboy shit. Death to all trannies.

No. 2631708

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>>2631702
I decided to take this as a sign that I should learn to draw my own.

No. 2631712

I'm usually one to wake up around 6-7 on my own, but because I've had a lot of activities during most of july I've been so exhausted I wake up late and it messes up my day even if I don't have any plans. I just feel tired in my entire body all the time and just want to bedrot

No. 2631717


No. 2631746

Supposed to go to the beach and of course thats when I get period cramps. Now it calmed down but I feel weak and as if my ears are muffled if u know the feeling. Ugh. Explaining I cant go again to my friend will create drama

No. 2631748

Generational depression is so annoying I can't believe my grandma is still whining about her doing a shitty life. Bleak future.

No. 2631758

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i've been taking a break from fandom spaces and it feels great. the community is full of so much stupid shit and stupid people these days. i could honestly feel my brain decaying in my skull just engaging and being around all of it, albeit virtually. i've been away from my friends in the space as well as i've logged out of my accounts + deleted apps, but i hope they aren't offended by it or anything. i'm just having a really good time loving my husbando and minding my business. it's insane how much i've gotten done now that i've stopped wasting my day with scrolling and falling for ragebait. i want to keep having good days!

No. 2631762

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I was going to code but got distracted watching youtube. Why am i like this.

No. 2631770

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Brb drinking my feelings away

No. 2631771

>>2631545
can you share the link lol

No. 2631776

>>2631456
drink flaxseed

No. 2631778

I know I shouldn't be but I am incredibly embarrassed about my current living situation. The thought of possibly having to disclose it to someone makes me shudder. There's definitely worse situations out there and I'm not ungrateful for at least having a roof over my head but it just doesn't match where I thought my life would be at this point in time.

No. 2631780

>>2631682
>A nonnie who was robo tripping kek
sigh yes, it actually freaks me out how kids these days are still drinking it but they mix it with fruit punch and alcohol or whatever, ugh
did you also? lol

No. 2631784

I'm in my late 20s now and I've never felt more dumb, naive, socially inept, and behind in life. I hope it gets better.

No. 2631789

>>2631780
I did it once and I didn't care for it. Just all bad wonkiness all over. It felt like wrong ket if that makes sense?
>mix it with fruit punch
I think that's called lean

No. 2631798

>>2631789
>It felt like wrong ket if that makes sense
yes, there was something i learned later called "robowalking" which seems to not exist on google anymore lol but it was a way to describe the feeling of walking around, i don't know how to describe it but it was almost like if you were in some kind of mech suit made out of the guy from QWOP, just really focusing on trying to move properly but it felt sort of stretched out and making a big effort to move your limbs. like i wasn't so high i was dissociating and unable to move, i was walking around my apartment, and it felt like there were ants at the corners of my brain. everything was so noisy in a weird way. i did it a few more times for some reason
>lean
yeah that's right, killing off all these young musicians and kids. sad to see it's still going on

No. 2631801

>>2631675
>cough syrup
Did anyone actually enjoy this? When I did it once I just became fucking itchy and was convinced a french queen was hiding in my closet before I recorded myself saying I was gonna rope and remembered almost none of it.
-100/10

No. 2631803

>>2631801
Marie Antoinette is a weirdly common delusion. I think she is haunting the collective subconscious

No. 2631805

>>2631798
Sorry to nerd out but humans don't really have 5 senses, it's like 20+. One of them is proprioception. It's your ability to tell where your body is in relation to itself. It's why if you can put your hand behind your head you know where it is it's also why phantom limb is a thing. Ket and dxm mess with that, that's why you get meat robot feelings.
>ants at the corners of my brain
Yeah this is why I didn't do it again. It was weird af. Ket is a bit smoother but I wouldn't recommend either if you plan on doing anything outside of your flat.

No. 2631811

i hate my stupid fucking brother. he's high functioning autistic and has always been babied by our mother despite only getting diagnosed like two years ago. throughout our childhood he constantly got into trouble with other kids or refused to do homework and i was always the one who had to look out for him. every summer vacation was spent trying to stop him from getting lost or humiliating himself in front of other kids. now he is 17 and our mom still has to keep an eye on him so he doesn't just start not doing homework because he doesn't feel like it. he hasn't even seriously considered what to do for college. my mom has begged me to help him, but I'm fucking tired of him refusing to grow up. he is legitimately the main source of worry in my mom's life. we're doing ok money-wise, my other brother and i get good grades and have normal social lives, but this fucker refuses to improve himself in any meaningful way. she doesn't know what to do anymore to motivate him, she constantly makes little comments about how he should go out more, but they always fall on deaf ears. i've given up on him being social, but the fact he can't even take studying seriously pisses me off. he isn't retarded or anything, he just doesn't want to study. even just him simply passing all of his classes would do so much to ease my mother's worries. he is too selfish to do that. i wish he was never born. our lives would be so much easier and happier

No. 2631816

>>2631805
Samefag. K-holing sucks too. When I did it I was lucid but I was just walking around infinite dark streets and I was being followed by somethings everywhere. I'd run and they'd be right back behind me. I tried to fly and it wouldn't work and I could feel their breath on my neck.

No. 2631818

>>2631805
>It's your ability to tell where your body is in relation to itself. It's why if you can put your hand behind your head you know where it is it's also why phantom limb is a thing.
Here's another fun one: If you enter a space with total darkness (i.e. a deep cave, a room with no penetrable light) and hold your hand out in front of your face, your brain tricks you into thinking you can see your hand and its movements even though there is no possible way for you to be seeing your hand. Spend enough time in complete darkness, and you will begin to hallucinate and go insane.

No. 2631819

>>2631805
>Ket is a bit smoother but I wouldn't recommend either if you plan on doing anything outside of your flat.
Definitely not, I had to babysit two of my friends while they were k-holing in public once and it was an absolute nightmare kek

No. 2631821

>>2631621
>any other millennials here miss their 20s?
Eh, my 30s have been much more wild and fun because now I actually make money. My 20s were spent mostly bored, anxious, isolated, and letting scrotes and my parents rot my dwindling self-esteem. If I could go back knowing what I know now, sure!

No. 2631824

>>2631818
My pop had a stroke and it didn't effect him that much but he lost his sense of heat on the left of his body. If it's warm out he'll only sweat on the right side. Pain, heat and touch are the same nerve clusters and you can just lose one of them one day.

No. 2631825

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>>2631758
I'm happy for you nonna! Detoxing from the trap of doomscrolling and ragebait made me feel like my brain was scrubbed clean

No. 2631842

>>2631621
Fuck no, because my early 20s were me being a poorfags missing out on opportunities because of my lack of money and freedom, and poor health, as well as being in a shitty university because again, I didn't have enough money to choose. My late 20s were me trying to not be a poorfag anymore after graduating and my all my plans in life being ruined by the pandemic as well as even more health issues. Not that my 30s are better but at least my life is less unstable and I'm not worried about money anymore. The only people my age who feel nostalgic when thinking about their life in their 20s didn't deal with any of the bullshit I dealt with, same with the ones who feel nostalgia when they think about their childhood or their days in high school.

No. 2631844

I want to start going to the gym and there is one that i can reach very quickly with transportation, but i am too scared to go because i can't stop thinking of: what if a man approaches me, and i reject him, and now i am scared to go there every time? I can't control what they do and because similar things have happened to me in the past, this cripples me to go because i can't stop worrying about it. I don't want to tell a staff member if a man is bothering me because then they'll tell him to stop and then he'll stab me once i leave the gym. Yes this is really how i think. I've been excercising outside for the past few months, but it gets COMPLETELY FUCKING RUINED when men try to talk to me while i'm doing it.
Nonas u know im not bragging that xy mutants are approaching me, u know they will approach any and all things, living or not.
I hate the experience so much, that going to a gym was what i thought of after the first irl encounter, because i thought i would be safe in a closed space…but that's where all the xy apes are… what do i do?

No. 2631860

>>2631844
Just workout at home, you dont need the gym to lose weight or to get stronger

No. 2631867

>>2631844
Nona I think you're right to be cautious but a fear of getting stabbed is irrational unless you live in a particularly unsafe and violent city.

You could always go to a women-only gym (depending on what their stance is on trannies) or go to the gym with another woman. There's apps and websites for matching with an excersise/gym buddy if you don't already know someone who would wanna go with you. I used to go to the gym with a girl I met on a girls forum.

No. 2631880

I'm hairdresser nonna, if you followed my drama in the last thread well there's some news. The fucking hairdresser CALLED ME, like 10 min ago. He's like, I don't understand why u left those negative comments and that it has made him sad kek. He made me sound unhinged and insaned because in my negative reviews I said it was so obvious the real hairdressers left on vacation and they replaced it with the staff and that I got scammed real hard. He's like, I'm a hairdresser kek and this is my salon and the other people you saw were interns so might be why you thought they were just "staff". I said well I'm sorry then, I'm sorry for assuming and I'm sorry for getting all in my feelings but you fucked up my hair. He's like HOW? I tell him you literally cut huge random fucking chunks and he tries to explain this is the picture I showed him it was deep layers and not something subtle. I'm like okay, then, sure, then I should've maybe showed something more subtle but you still cut random huge chunks near my chin area and it's not even the same length kek. He's like why don't you come and i'll fix it. I'm like Im not in the area anymore, then he tells me this salon is his baby and he wants me to be happy so I can come whenever I want this year or next year and he'll do something for free. I'm like okay you're nice, I appreciate that and I'll delete the google review I don't wanna ruin your business or anything but I got really upset, and I'm sorry for assuming things out of my ass. He's like nah, I should apologize since you hated your hair but that he doesn't understand why. So I replied you know sometimes you'll do something and someone will just hate it and this is me right now. I hate it so much and it's just my personal taste at this point and there's nothing to fix and nothing to do anymore because if you try to fix this shit you'll cut more and you already cut too much kek. Anyways #Hairdressergate is now over

No. 2631888

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I did not ask for your input, you never fucking listen, all you know how to do is chimp out over things that don't concern you in the slightest.
You're genuinely one of the stupidest people I've had the misfortune of crossing paths with.
Hope it's worth it to kick up a whole shitstorm over me going to a doctor that I'm paying for on my own. Sorry I don't want to end up with chronic health issues like you. Stupid fuck.

No. 2631911

>>2631844
step one. wear giant oversized headphones so they dont talk to you. step two. stop caring about moids. youre so fixated on this made up scenario of what if someone asks you out because you're secretly worried no one asks you out.

No. 2631913

>>2631844
>18 year old lolcow posters be like

No. 2631924

>>2631880
Thanks for the update nona kek. All this when you just wanted some layers…

No. 2631929

I did this bridging programme last year that was supposed to be the path to a Master's programme at the same school but the Uni fucked up my application horribly so it looks like I won't be going back this year. Everyone in the chat is talking about returning now and I'm stuck at home. My Uni told me they would fix my application and then just ghosted me. I didn't have the best experience there anyways but it hurts my ego seeing the people that get to go back when I don't.

No. 2631933

>>2631518
thank you, hope i gets better for us

No. 2631948

My period is giving me unhealthy cravings after I worked so hard to lose a few kilos recently. I'm so fucking annoyed but I also want it so bad

No. 2631987

im such a little shit. threw a bitch tantrum because the clothes my mom bought looked ugly on me and she got upset which is more than justified. i dont think i ever saw her this upset before. she compared me to her sister that she went no contact with and right now instead of facing her im sobbing anf writing all this on lolcor upstairs. how do i face her and tell her that i am really sorry? i did say sorry but she told me to stop the melodrama. i hate myself truly

No. 2631988

>>2631987
How old are you?

No. 2631992

>>2631988
twenty eight. im temporarily living with my mom as im searching for a place near for rent. it had been a little hard for me lately because of bullshit with the economy but it doesnt justify me lashing out at my mother who truly wants the best for me. i really want to show her that i am sorry but i dont know how to express that

No. 2631995

>Hate the city but want to stay close because of university
>Boyfriend hates the city.
I'm not sure what I can do. I have no problems with this relationship, and I'm lucky enough that he pays for everything, like even my gas and medication among other things despite me working pt. I want to find a compromise but I also want him to have SOME control of where we will live. I just don't want to drive early so I can beat traffic so I can get to class on time.
I've talked about being in the city until I graduate but that feels like I have the most control.

No. 2631996

>>2631992
I'm going to make leaps based on context clues but I think your mom is emotionally abusive and this has emotionally stunted you into adulthood, and you should stop living with her as soon as possible and distance yourself in general

No. 2631999

>>2631995
What about him, where does he work?

No. 2632003

>be me, have a driver’s license
>going to meet up with the friend who doesn’t have it, so I offer to pick her up
>decide I’m going to park in a place 8 minutes far away from the place we’re going
>sorry anon but I’ll take a taxi instead
>quote: don’t make me walk that much
Seriously?

No. 2632005

>>2631995
How old is he to be covering all your bills wtf

No. 2632022

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>mom is being stubborn about the fucking smoke detector
>is convinced it is "hard wired" to the house and she either has to cut the wire or risk electrocution
>will not believe me that it's a hard twist off and a simple battery replace
>let her know nigel can fix it when he gets out of work
>she insists to call the fire department anyway
>while she is talking to operator she says "Yeah my daughter here has no clue"
What the fuck bitch was that necessary? Quit trying to make me look a fool to other people just so you can feel less retarded.

No. 2632024

>>2632022
Fire chief is gonna pull up with AAs and leave. Fucking hell.

No. 2632026

>>2632022
how long has she been alive and she's never changed a smoke detector or been in the presence of one being changed

No. 2632032

>>2631995
assuming your boyfriend is good and worth comprising with, i mean it depends on what is more important to the health of the relationship, living somewhere he prefers or you being able to attend class easily. is not living in the city make it that hard to attend class? what are the specific differences in commute? if so if traffic is that bad you should live there if you only have a couple years left of class, it does suck for him. how much time does part time work and class eat up for you? if you end up having to work + study and you would then have 10+ hour days because of commuting, then that doesn't sound worth it. but if there's not as much time spent on work and studying regularly, then eating up the cost with commuting doesn't seem so bad. also how many days do you go to class?

No. 2632033

>>2632026
She's just old and getting iconic geriatric mush brain. She has definitely changed smoke detectors before. She's afraid of everything if it's remotely unfamiliar.
Anyway, the fireman came and indeed, all he had to do was twist off and unplug.

No. 2632034

>>2632022
I would just have gone up and twisted it off for her, why did you play along?

No. 2632036

>>2632034
Because she gets angry and yells, even gets aggressive if she doesn't have things go her way and what she thinks is the right thing to do.
Forcing help aggitates the situation and it's not worth enduring the tantrum and narc abuse.

No. 2632039

>>2632036
Still, don't play along and make it worse. If she throws a tantrum, let her tantrum like the toddler she is. Not your problem.

No. 2632041

>>2632039
>Not your problem.
Yeah except the part where she's screaming and pulling at me and then making a full-day stink about it. No thank you.

No. 2632045

>>2632041
Yeah nonnas who say that clearly don't have to deal with three toddlers stacked into an adult parent costume lmao, elder narcs are the worst and it is easier to play along. You have to do the same thing with people with dementia and play into their delusions sometimes or else everyone is more stressed for it.

No. 2632051

>>2632045
At least she admitted I was right and will now allow nigel to change the batteries later.

No. 2632052

>>2631999
>>2632005
We're late 20's, and I haven't finished university, and we've been together for 5 years so him giving me the opportunity and time to finish is something great. His job is also in the city but his boss allows him to come in whenever he wants (and he can also work from home) so he can leave and not be in traffic. He makes over 120k a year, and with this current project that will be finishing, he will gain a increase pay + percentage of the project forever.
My bills aren't too much, I still pay for Gas when he can't, and my phone bill. Prior to my decision of going back to school, I was working FT so it was never a power dynamic Although I like when a nigel takes care of the home.
>>2632032
Yes, it's really really good relationship. We both hate the city, but I can "compromise" the hate since I grew up, while he didn't. We lived on a farm near the city and outside of peak hours to get to campus was about 20-30 mins but once I had an exam in person for 9:00 and I had to leave at 7:00 and even then I barely made it. My part time job isn't much but it's the same days I have classes on campus so in some way it's time saving? What's great about my job is that I am allowed to have my laptop + study while there's no one. I've done tests while at work lol.

No. 2632091

>>2631948
Eat grapefruit and watermelon. It kills my appetite

No. 2632097

>>2632052
>We both hate the city, but I can "compromise" the hate since I grew up, while he didn't.
>My part time job isn't much but it's the same days I have classes on campus so in some way it's time saving? What's great about my job is that I am allowed to have my laptop + study while there's no one. I've done tests while at work lol.
sounds like you could accept commuting and not move then, try getting into audiobooks or maybe play class recordings or something to make use of the time if it's like 2 days a week you have an hour plus commute. And maybe he can go in person too so you could eat out there, then come back home later when traffic isn't as bad? But if you're going into the city daily then I would say move.

No. 2632136

I'm horny, but achy at the same time so I don't even feel like touching myself at all.

No. 2632145

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This is stupid af, but I'm on my second day of my period and it's making me exhausted and unable to focus on any wig work I have to do. It's a simple wig, but I've been working on it for an hour now with little to no progress. I am also not one of those people that do crazy detailed crimped wigs. Just hairspray, hot iron and a teasing brush. It's so simple, but I cant focus at all. The convention is next week, but I hate doing everything last minute because it feels worse. I dunno if i should take a nap or something.

No. 2632254

>>2631771
Kek nonna let’s just say RW bootlickers wanna dox me and send me to the stockades because I had the audacity to be relieved that the manhattan shooting ended in the death of a real estate executive rather than idk, some school children, and that was taken out of context. Framed as a celebration of her death. As if I have the emotional energy to be sad and mournful for every victim of violence in this shithole. I’m tapped, most people are tapped, the general reaction of “oh no! Anyway” when it’s not some innocent kids or some people at the grocery store getting shot down… I guess not feeling mournful over it is the same as being an evil devil that dances on graves.

No. 2632266

i deserve better. i’m much cooler than them anyway. i’m hotter and most importantly more interesting and their entire existence is made more rich because i’m here. in all honesty they’re below me. if anything they owe me. i’m sick of people that drag me down. i was already feeling annoyed that they’re fat and i deserve better friends than that but because i love them and valued our friendship i didn’t care. but if they can’t be correct on a fundamental thing i deserve BETTER, i have no reason to belittle myself for them. i don’t care if i have to take their friends to find someone worth being a companion. no matter what i’m on the right side anyway and if they’re not with me then they’re left in the dust. i will always have friends no matter where i go. but they’ll be pathetic and yearning for an interesting life and meaningful friendship again.

No. 2632291

>>2632052
>outside of peak hours to get to campus was about 20-30 mins
Eehh to be honest I think that's a reasonable commute? I know many people including myself who commute 30 minutes or longer 5 days a week to the office. When I was a student I used to drive about an hour one way 3-5 times a week and it wasn't really taxing or anything. If you need to leave earlier to avoid traffic you can use that as study time. If I was in your position I'd probably take the commute since your boyfriend already does a lot for you and the commute isn't bad at all (assuming you can go back to that farm)? I'm not saying I think it's completely beyond reason to stay in the city for the duration of your education there but from the context you've provided it sounds like your boyfriend gives you a lot and "I don't want to drive early" sounds a tad ungrateful knowing he hates the city.

No. 2632293

Really frustrating to realize after living alone for two weeks (because my family was away) I ate healthy naturally without trying and even started losing weight. And as soon as they got back it stopped. They're literally keeping me fat wtf

No. 2632295

>>2632052
>outside of peak hours to get to campus was about 20-30 mins but once I had an exam in person for 9:00 and I had to leave at 7:00 and even then I barely made it
What country are you located in anon..? I’m a burger and I commute two and a half hours one way to get to campus. I’m from the country originally so I’m use to driving 30 minutes minimum to get anywhere, but I noticed city people acted like they were allergic to driving more than 20 minutes one way. It always surprises me when people act like it’s a great inconvenience unless they’re from a country where an hour car ride is a huge undertaking.

No. 2632303

>>2631844
I am also scared of men, but nonna that shouldn’t make you become a recluse and by the way the most dangerous scrotes are the ones who are close to you, aka men that you already know. So if it makes you feel better it isn’t as likely that a random scrote will stab you.
And I also go to the gym and I never had a problem, apart from the occasional ogle, there were also other women, it’s not like I was the only one.

No. 2632307

>>2632052
>I want him to have CONTROL
But the choice that would make him more comfortable is the one you don’t like kek. So it just sounds like you want to have the ultimate decision.
What kind of job does he do that makes him earn that much at that age and to also cover expenses for a mooching bum?

No. 2632326

>>2631803
her psychic pain spreads out to the entire female subconscious

No. 2632331

I just realized the reason I'm an extremely supportive friend and have pretty much resigned myself to be the side character even in my own life is because my mom was always craving praise and validation at every turn (not exactly from men, but from everyone around her in general) so I got used to give her a lot of praise already as a kid while receiving a very limited amount back. Now I'm a very insecure person that also craves validation and praise but don't know how to react or do with it when I finally get some because I feel like I don't deserve it.
At least I can pretend to be a good person and be the support my friends need.

No. 2632334

You know I'm just as insecure as you and have a lot of the same problems so why do you treat me like I'm a threat? I have my shit together but that doesn't mean I'm not working hard to keep it together, so thanks for knocking me down a peg. Just because you think I'm superior to you doesn't mean I think you're beneath me, but because my life outside of you is superficially better than your life outside of me you feel like you're punching up when you treat me like shit. I'm always helping you and hanging out with you and listening to you and doing everything you want to do, and that's still not enough for you to stop treating me like an enemy.

No. 2632340

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same anon as before about being on academic suspension, i just really want to tell them however i feel like they’ll just explode on me. my parents worked hard for me to attend college as a first gen and even then it’s not right for me tbh i really wanted to go to community but my mom insisted otherwise they already put so much money into tuition

No. 2632345

>>2632340
Why is it necessary to tell them? I didn't tell my parents when I failed exams and stuff.

No. 2632346

>>2632334
Next time just let out a fart near them nonna

No. 2632348

>>2632345
ayrt they’re literally paying out of pocket it’s best for me to tell them (can’t get financial aid either no matter how many times I’ve applied)

No. 2632354

>>2632348
You could write it down in a letter and give it to them while you're gone for the day so they can sit with it for a while and calm down by time you get home

No. 2632363


No. 2632380

everything I do, say, or think, feels cringe
but at least, imageboards make me realize that I'm not alone in dealing with this predicament

No. 2632410


No. 2632423

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Men are so retarded, I have to vent. Most of the time I'm in my lane focused despite having to share the planet with scrotes.
>partner started work at a new job earlier this year in a specific niche in the art field.
>she's young, ambitious, and extremely talented/experienced in concept art and design
>her bosses loved her and complimented her work ethic from the get go. They treat her and the entire office well.
>fast forward, a coworker of hers we'll call "Benny" was suddenly fired with no notice other than "made a coworker or several uncomfortable" he was a job title above the one my partner currently holds
I personally met Benny several times in group outings and he's the typical middle-aged white lefty scrote that interrupts constantly, talks loudly/obnoxiously over others, believes everything he says to be gospel, thinks JKR is the devil but wont acknowledge any of the atrocities by men, approaches every conversation like a an argument to be won, also completely lacks the ability to read social cues and when you're trying to leave or end a convo he'll continue rambling on. And of course he doesn't seem to know why he could possibly be fired because men lack any self awareness when I know damn well he talks the way he did in groups around his bosses and they just finally got sick of his shit.
>last night the work group had a send off for him with a dinner that we attended
>as my gf and I are leaving for the night he follows us out to speak to her. Claiming that he can offer a position to her for a job he hasn't even been hired for yet. For some dumb ass reason he can't put two and two together that their company wanted her more for his position and had her take over his title because he was obnoxious as hell to deal with and my gf was way more work orientated. I just couldn't believe the nerve to try and think he could get her to work for a competing company that couldn't even guarantee a pay match or more. Where do men get the audacity and courage. The only people I feel bad for is his family because they have nothing to do with their shitty father losing his job but man his mindset and behavior is exactly what got him x'd. And this last ditch effort to get back at the company is so fucking childish. Grow the fuck up and do some self reflection. Anyways thanks for the easy pay raise.

No. 2632445

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My job is unbearable to me to the point where I’ve had to anonymously report them for not following policy and I want to quit so fucking bad but they pay for all of my college. Like. I’m THIS close to just saying fuck it and take on student loans again, I only have $11k from my associate’s it’s not THAT bad compared to most people my age. NONNAS WHAT SHOULD I DO FUUUCKKKK

No. 2632460

>>2632445
Provide more context, what's unbearable about it

No. 2632462

>>2632445
You’re retarded tbh, paying for your college? SMH you lucky bitch

No. 2632467

I guess any man who is into me is a "redditsexual." Why couldn't I just be normal?

No. 2632477

>>2632445
If your contract only lasts until you graduate and your job is unbearable in a normal way you should stay. I mean in a normal way as in, you're not dealing with harmful or illegal situations like regular or sexual harassement or you're pressured into doing things that could land you in a hospital.

No. 2632485

>>2632460
Lack of staffing, leadership actively treats me like shit and actively bullies me, place doesn't follow standards required, favoritism towards a moid who breaks things all the time
>>2632462
I don't work there but places like Walmart and Kohl's has this exact same benefit girl go get it, it's also a mid online college but it's accredited I guess
>>2632477
The bachelor's is sadly 4 years and I've only been here half a year and I despise it here

No. 2632516

>>2632467
Maybes because you are the kind that redditsexuals like kwk

No. 2632534

when I was about 12, my father asked me whether I had grown pubic hair yet, in public, in front of my extended family
had forgotten about this embarrassing memory until recently, not even sure what I replied, if anything
but still, wtf

No. 2632552

These cows aint loyal

No. 2632559

I’m scared I’m too self centered. Ive noticed I forget to congratulate someone or I turn a convo about me sometimes. I’m scared I’m a narcissist kek like who knows. Would be horrible. I just try to be aware now

No. 2632568

>>2632559
People like you are so annoying

No. 2632584

>>2632559
Don't overthink it, overthinking is the root of your issue

No. 2632597

I want a boyfriend fuck please gib copium

No. 2632600

>>2632597
Rent one

No. 2632612

limerence is so retarded i should just talk to him but i’m about to travel for 2 months kek fuck

No. 2632623

>>2632612
>limerence
is that the sequel of liminal and liminary?

No. 2632647

I miss my ex only because he was cute and made me feel hot. I would kick him in the ribs if I could.

No. 2632649

>>2632584
That problem is actually underthinking though… she's not thinking about other people enough.

No. 2632655

I haven't saw my mum in 3 weeks because I'm an adult, she expects me to visit biweekly and stay over because it's such a long drive and it's all very draining tbh. Anyway it's nearly half 1 in the morning and I've just got a big mad rant from her via text stating very clearly it's been over 3 weeks (who cares) since I've last been down and my older brother has taken cocaine and somehow I am also getting blamed (I do not take cocaine) and she has informed my father who she has been divorced from for like 2 decades and literally just fuck off. I'm watching youtube and did a shit load of chores today why am I being accused of this lol

No. 2632744

People who hate viscerally for years are absolute fans. It’s like, do you have a crush on me? Literally an obsession. Hope her and none of her retarded friends use this site. Ugly & fat

No. 2632746

i feel like a bad friend. i have a lot of issues with my body, mainly my legs. i carry most of my weight there so they're quite big and covered in cellulite. today i went roller-skating with some friends, and one of them is quite fit. she was wearing shorts and i couldn't stop staring at her legs the whole time, i was so envious. i obviously didn't say anything, but i still shouldn't project my issues onto her. i'm a piece of shit

No. 2632750

my brother's wife is leaving him, and taking the kids.

I mean, good for her, my brother is a lazy piece of shit, but I'm going to be so sad. A major part of the divorce is that my brother is not a good father and would dump the kids on other people, mainly me, instead of doing his part. I'm sure he made her do everything at home too. I don't blame her.

But I was so happy to take care of them. If my brother was more involved he wouldn't have let me spend so much time with them, because he doesn't like my personality. But I've been blessed to know such beautiful niece and nephew.

His soon to be ex wife has made it clear she doesn't want anything to with him (and his family. I tried my best, but our mom and other relatives are on his side of course).

I wish I could talk to her, but she also didn't care much for my personality (must be why she liked my brother at all)

No. 2632751

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>get new underwear
>the first time I wear the underwear I unexpectedly start my period
>new underwear is permanently stained
This has happened three times now am I fucking cursed

No. 2632786

Got my period 4 days early while traveling and nowhere near my bag or a place to buy pads/tampons, while wearing tiny underwear. And I was in a train toilet trying to make a pad out of toilet paper someone opened the door because I fucking forgot to lock it, and like a retard I just said omg omg and just covered my toilet paper pad undies with my hands when I had a skirt right there I could've covered myself with instead. Thank god it was just an old lady and not a man but it was so embarrassing I could cry, I just panicked.

This shit is why I stayed on the pill for over a decade, so I would never be inconvenienced by a period at any time. And I think since going off it my (already mild) pms symptoms have become non existent, I didn't feel it coming at all. FML

No. 2632800

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so fucking irritable and jealous i hate everybody

No. 2632834

>>2632485
That seems to be a problem plaguing every single company, making it an insufferable experience not just for you but for customers as well kek. For some odd reason, the fucktards who run these places just went on a quiet hiring freeze that the media does not ant to discuss whatsoever to give the illusion that the government and these entities have everything under control, which they do, but only for their benefit, so they figured let’s just not fucking hire anymore people to mitigate post-COVID life, where people don’t stay inside their homes anymore and actually need human customers. It sucks nonny, I’ve been there with the understaffing and workplace issues, I would tell you to find another job but honestly yeah you should, don’t quit the one you have right now just find another one while you still work. You can even try and get a work-study or find jobs on campus too, federal AID (you’re probably already doing that), vochab, try anything honestly if you have to lie that’s unfortunately how you actually get help. Do what you gotta do tbh

No. 2632843

I don't know what happened within the past few days but all of a sudden I'm constantly being wracked by these immense waves of baseless anxiety that leave my heart racing and head in pain.
I started having terrible stomach pain a couple days prior to this that still hasn't gon away so I think the anxiety's induced by whatever's going on there through some sort of biological mechanism…
I'm going to see a doctor next week and I pray they'll figure out what's wrong. I can't live like this, I haven't been in such poor mental condition in over a decade and it's for no fucking reason. When the bouts of anxiety hit, I feel borderline suicidal even though I know there's no motivator for it.
I just want to be well…

No. 2632865

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>>2632786
So sorry nonna. Always remember that something similar happens to everyone at some point, so the grandma was probably just painfully reminded of the most recent time she herself forgot to lock a toilet door. Annoying but not a big deal whether you're on your period or not.

No. 2632881

I hope one day I can go no-internet for good. What a pipedream! I will try, though.

No. 2632887

>>2632843
Definitely sounds like something physiological is going on, anxiety and stomach problems are often connected. Hope the doctor can help you, and with any luck maybe the whole issue will blow over in a few days on its own since it appeared so suddenly. Please hang in there, you'll be ok.

No. 2632888

>>2632887
Thank you nonnie, I appreciate the kind words. I hope your day/night goes well.

No. 2632902

i hope my landlord dies excruciatingly and painfully and in a prolonged way. fuckass wants to evict my family even though we have been here for almost 10 years just because he wants his mom to move in. i hope ghosts are real because when i die im going to haunt him so bad he develops schizophrenia. hes trying to find any little thing to get us to leave and even tried to sue us for "hoarding garbage" when the garbage was literally just patio furniture in the patio. we've contacted the local housing authority so many times and each time they are on our side because this bitch loves to harrass us so much. i fucking hate dumbass landlords who buy properties that already have tenants and are shocked that they cant automatically make people homeless because tenant rights exist. i wish all landlords will spontaneously explode and their guts will paint the walls. no words describe how much i hate them and how badly i want them to suffer 1000x more than any homeless person has ever suffered.

No. 2632905

>>2632902
Are you in a place where you can get sued for rental tampering? If not, make sure you leave a present if you possibly get evicted. Bug eggs are very easy to buy.

No. 2632928

a family just came to my house, which was build not even a year ago, and asked to check it out bc they're planning to buy it and the land next door to build some sort of billiards club/pub. fuck these ppl. i'd moved around my entire childhood and always dreamed of my own house. the thing is the neighborhood here is kinda shitty and we bought this land bc it was cheap and we really needed a place to live. the house and land are under my name. i'm just sad bc i finally have a house but i might have to move and all the traumas from moving around for years really scarred me. it's like u finally have something you've wanted for so long but then it might get taken away from you. and if they build the pub next door it's gonna be a noisy mess. i really hope that family won't do it and they'll chose somewhere else.

No. 2632930

i hate this filthy world

No. 2632934

>>2632902
That's awful, anon. Sorry you and your family are dealing with this. Why would he even need to bother you to get his mom in? He should live with her instead. I hope you state has proper tenant rights. He cant just evict you for no reason.

No. 2632990

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I have my suspicions that the creepy narc moid that was obsessed with me this past year is still keeping tabs on me despite being blocked but some things don't fully add up.

No. 2632992

>>2632928
If you own it how can they buy it…? Who are they buying it from?

No. 2633008

At the hospital right now nonnies. I think I’m going to kill myself. I’m tired of being sick so often.

No. 2633017

>>2632751
do you not know not to wear nice stuff when around the time they should be coming? or is your cycle completely irregular

No. 2633026

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missing a close friend, we would talk a lot and she's wonderful and outgoing and just a fun person to be around. last year she picked up streaming and is just a natural with her personality, i'm happy and really proud of her but selfishly i miss those days a lot and hearing from her because she's so busy these days. it's bittersweet more than anything.

No. 2633071

I hate how kids in my country don't respect teachers, including when I was a kid. I just wanted to do the lessons to get over with it but some dickhead always had to play monkey and yell stupid shit to the teacher all day so none of us got peace to learn. I also remember us having one sub-teacher who we only had now and then get so frustrated she smashed something by accident in front of us, and I thought "ma'am WE have to sit next to these boys in every class, every single day, how do you think we feel?". I think it should be easier to just ban kids from school if they misbehave, send them to some retard school where they belong because 1 single disruptive kid really ruins the whole class. Not the teachers fault the parents raised a retard.

No. 2633077

>>2633017
nta but the same happens to me. I've never had a regular period in my entire life. It can be anything from a few days to 2 months between my periods. A male doctor once told me this is "my normal".

No. 2633090

Why do male voice actors want to show their faces so bad no one's a fan of YOU they just like the characters you voice ffs at least try to look presentable if you're gonna plaster your face everywhere and stop ruining our immersion

No. 2633096

>>2633090
They're always absolutely hideous too. Are there any that are decently looking? Like trust me bro nobody wanted to see your face. There's a reason you're only successful as a VA kek

No. 2633105

I don't understand women that willingly reads several chapters of an 18+ josei clearly tagged reverse harem yet spends way too much time complaining about what a slut the main character is and that she is going to develop STDs or become pregnant (one literally commented "C'MON LET'S BE REALISTIC", no bitch I'm not going to be realistic in my self insert fantasy). I get hate reading something, but I feel like if you are going to read something like this you have to search for it yourself and go into it willingly so don't act so surprised 20 chapters in.

No. 2633107

ive been trying to recreate the appetite suppressant from taking stims (vyvanse) and its not working anymore. have to ask for a higher script i guess

No. 2633121

I feel severely and irreparably mentally ill, I don't see a future for myself to be honest.

No. 2633122

When I hang out with people I feel like I can't really enjoy it because I'm too focused on finding subjects to talk about and coming across as a normie instead of the retard without social skills I truthfully am or at least was for most of my life



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