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No. 2537677

A thread for venting about difficult, weird, or stupid stuff going on in your life.

Previous vent thread:
>>>/ot/2525310


Follow all the /ot/ board rules & do not reply to bait.

Please, do not come to this thread to make fun of anons' vents, to demean them, or to try and be funny with some shit snark reply. It's annoying. If you do not have anything nice to say, don't say it at all.

No. 2537709

>>2537677
i dont understand why lighter skinned people like to perceive darker skinned people as beneath them, it's so hard not to notice the differences in behavior when a darker skinned person is around long term

No. 2537717

The monkey pic is so cute, thanks for making new thread.

I recently learned about "hourglass syndrome" and realized that's the name for why my body looks/is so fucked up. I'm practicing loosening those muscles today but my core and diaphragm are so atrophied I can't even take a full breath. I don't think my stomach is ever going to look normal again but I just want to know what a full deep breath feels like, it's lowkey horrifying that my brain is deprived of oxygen from my shallow breathing. I'm so discouraged and angry at myself that I let bullying make me suck my stomach in for 15 years.

No. 2537725

>>2537705
If no one actually cares that's awesome, but then why am I seeing giant rants about het partnered women like every fucking day? Also this is a vent thread, I'm going to be venting just like everyone else even if you disagree with me. I've said before I'm not opposed for being with a dude, that doesn't change that I still encounter women on radblr who annoy the shit out of me for being so daft. Seeing them not understand the reality of their situation does get on my nerves after so long of hearing about it. The only way to really get other female friends that don't do this seems to be pretending to not hate troons and not hate religion

Okay I don't want to drag this out into the new thread so this will be my last reply, I was venting anyways so even if someone else has a great point in response I'm too heated to really listen to it honestly

No. 2537727

>>2537725
*Oppressed not opposed kek

No. 2537729

>>2537727
Learn to delete posts

No. 2537730

>>2537725
It’s the same as the 4B movement, western women can’t really abandon men but still want to be included in movements that don’t fit them. That’s why you are this “heated” in the first place.
It’s called RADICAL for a reason, not because it’s quirky and cute.

No. 2537734

>>2537725
You literally sound like a child throwing a tantrum over not being included in a play game.
>Seeing them not understand the reality of their situation does get on my nerves after so long of hearing about it.
Kek people really get surprised when something radical is actually radical.

No. 2537750

I wasted my life.

No. 2537765

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i am now overeating to fill an emotional void kek. i worry that i am in fact an endless void, where no amount of activity, social or physical, accomplishments, hobbies, or otherwise will make me feel like i am not happy or otherwise missing out on life.
to be fair, i have had a total lack of these things and have only seen sunlight for a couple hours in the last week. i'm just scared that i'll never be satisfied or feel like i made the right choices in life. i have to be talking/laughing with someone nonstop or else the feelings come right back

No. 2537796

Nasty fat scrote sat on the seat I usually sit I hope something terrible happens to you at work. Looking like that is almost terrible enough for your transgressions

No. 2537800

I'm such a fucking spinster that I thought the baby talk no judgement thread was to baby talk to each other until just now

No. 2537806

I hate my stupid roommate
> He’s almost a 30 year old scrote yet he can’t respect cleaning turns. He always has shitty excuse when you call him out and tell him that his turn of the toilet was 5 days ago.
I already told my other roommate not to clean after him since he’s a grown man. We all go to university get us two are able to do shit, there is literally no excuse.
>He loses too much hair and never removes it from the toilet.
I hope he ends up bald already
>He never pays shit on time unless you stay breathing on his neck. He doesn’t even pay the owner rent on time so much so that the owner calls me to remind him since he also doesn’t reply to the owner
There’s the light bill and it’s expiring tomorrow and he hasn’t paid me yet. I’m not anticipating anything here, I don’t care anymore.
I hate him and I hate seeing him. He’s also ugly. Anyway I’m going to get mad again and my other roommate will be there with me. It’s crazy that a 22 year old has to lecture a grown ass man on not being a fucking slob.

No. 2537828

Some nonas really can't deal with or even truly comprehend weird lesbians and it's so stupid. Especially for a site that's an off-shoot of a 4chan board, but I guess there are plenty of people here who were never gulls, or gulls who never went on other boards? IDK. I wouldn't post the kinds of things those lesbians post, but it's only because I'm not autistic enough.

No. 2537852

>>2537828
What's a gull? I'm curious about what brought on your vent, were you reading a specific thread?

No. 2537858

>>2537828
gull? the bird?

No. 2537867

>>2537828
Seagulls were just a bunch of autists into dressing like anime dolls and anime characters, I don't know what you mean by all of them being lesbians.

No. 2537871

Tried VLCD on my own and I've lost a considerable amount but now I can't stop and I think I just gave myself an eating disorder lmao

No. 2537879

>>2537867
I think nona is talking about people who never browsed 4chan at all, not saying that all gulls are lesbians

No. 2537920

I wish the world treated each other with the love we treat children. Growing up was so difficult for me, with this realisation. The love in this world was fake and transient. I feel like I’ve been jealous of kids ever since I was a kid.

No. 2537925

>>2537858
cgl > c-gul > seagull > gull

No. 2537941

>>2537925
Seeing so many anons not know what a gull is in this context makes me feel downright elderly

No. 2537949

is it not shitty for your basically-girlfriend to go on dating apps when you weren’t talking for 2 days? and when you say you don’t want to feel replaceable she says “i’m replaceable, everyone is replaceable. and i don’t talk to that girl anymore so technically you replaced her”
???

No. 2537959

>>2537941
It's not because you're old, lolita is just an extremely niche interest. The overwhelming majority of image board frequenters didn't frequent CGL.

No. 2537961

honestly i feel like kind of a weirdo the way i have almost 0 attraction to men anymore. and i dont like women either so thats not an option. my life is genuinely so much better now that i center myself and not a guy i like over myself, but i feel like im doing something wrong when every one of my girl friends just wants to talk about and hang out with 3dpd guys all the time lately. i kinda think the problem is that ive realized how boring men are. i dont even think its me being a narcissist, i genuinely cant recall any guy ive met who felt like he was on my level. like im funny as hell, smart, very artistic and crafty, and men just cant match up to me at all, and its really fucking lame. reality is just so, so lame. i feel like this post makes no sense but ill post it anyways i guess

No. 2537964

>>2537961
No it makes perfect sense. Men are fucking boring, stupid, and soulless. I look into their eyes and I see no light.

No. 2537998

my dad is so fucking annoying. always saying shit to kids to purposely make them cry. bitch needs to stop because that shit isn't funny. "mommy is going home without you" "you stay and mommy go home" SHUT THE FUCK UP. EVERY. SINGLE. FUCKING. TIME.

No. 2538001

Everyone is so cringe, stupid and cut off from reality. I'm cognitively declining and have no friends, family or any kind of privilege in my life. I can't and don't want to work a wage cuck job. My illness is affecting the only things that could make me happy which is writing, creating and connecting with people.

I keep trying to improve my verbal IQ but I just cannot. I can read anything or comprehend any kind of information but I cannot speak.

I don't even know what to do. I want to off myself. I am going to kill myself. I just don't know what to do before suicide. I have nothing going on for me. Nobody to hang out with. I am not allowed to have pets.

I can't even sleep at night because I still live with my mentally ill dad. He doesn't sleep during the night and keeps making noise. I've given up on the idea that I might have privacy, autonomy or a normal life.

I'm 30 and in the same hell that I was in when I was 12 but everything weights me down. The knowledge, information, my insight.

Not only is everything absolutely atrocious. I've had my dignity taken away from me in millions of ways.

No. 2538014

Sometimes I feel like my mom is just my irresponsible older sister. I’m in my 20s and she is in her 30s because she was a teen mom. Despite being an adult she doesn’t seem to have mentally aged past 15 years old. I’m somehow already far ahead of her in life (career, relationship, housing, and pretty much anything else wise). I have to tell her things that parents should have to tell their children, not the other way around. I had to explain to her how things like credit cards work. Our relationship is fine nowadays but she still doesn’t feel like my parent at all. I feel bad saying this but she is pretty stupid and I wish I had a mature parent to guide me in life, or at least a financially stable one. Everyone I know in my personal life has parents that buy them phones, cars, helped with college etc but I never got any of that. My mom hasn’t even had a job in 11 years.

No. 2538021

>>2537961
men are honestly very boring. i dont like their energy, female energy always feel life giving, playful, colorful, light. male energy always feels heavy, dull, restricting and depressive.

No. 2538031

I can't move my body or get out of bed. I also got bullied by people that are lolcows.

No. 2538041

>>2537959
nayrt but it's still part of the site history/origin story. and i think probably the other nona meant that she's just sad to see how /cgl/ culture has completely disappeared/become irrelevant after 10 years.

i'm an oldfag too for what it's worth. /cgl/ was always funny as fuck to me because everyone in our comm denied browsing it yet every single one of them immediately were aware when drama was going on or one of the locals had been posted there. they'd only fess up about it in private. imageboard culture overall has just gotten affiliated with rancid incel types by the general public nowadays, though…

No. 2538052

I would sometimes hear about mass shooter/school shooter fangirls or the TC community, but I've never seen one in the wild before. In my mind, it couldn't be more than a few hundred or so people but I finally came across an account in the wild while scrolling on Tumblr. It led me down a rabbit hole of other accounts,s and I am honestly so disgusted and horrified. It does seem to be people under the age of like 16 overwhelmingly. I genuinely don't understand their mentality. a lot of them are going gaga over that blonde girl from the last year that shot up a school. It seems to be split between people feeling sympathy for her and people just thinking she is a le epic waifu angel. Also, the fact that some of them unironically woobify Adam Lanza is just wild to me. Idky these freaks upset me more than some of the ed-twt and sh-twt accounts.

No. 2538112

>>2538031
sucks to suck lol

No. 2538123

>>2537961
So many males just feel so fake to me, like skinwalkers. Like they're aping females to seem like they have a personality, but deep down all they care about is reproducing and posturing. It's broken my heart that I thought my ex cared about me, but eventually it was obvious that he was just trying to please me to be able to fuck.

No. 2538139

>>2538123
men are basically either evil malevolent demons or soulless dead inside robots masquerading as normal human beings, that's why they feel so uncanny when you interact with them, they dont actually have souls.

No. 2538160

>>2537961
this is not weird. i am not attracted to anyone anymore besides some actors and musicians. at some point i stopped trying to date because it’s boring and exhausting and takes up time i could spend doing better things. i would always rather hang out with my friends than a date from an app. about moids specifically, they have nothing to offer most of the time. men lack interesting hobbies or ideas, for the most part. they are not fun to hang out with or discuss things with. everything is filtered through their lens of maleness. there have been studies done too that a way higher percentage of women direct conversations along with males because males won’t fucking talk about anything that doesn’t interest them. men overwhelmingly have no social skills or empathy. and nowadays, 99.9% of them are porn addicts so you won’t even get a faithful relationship or good sex from them. what’s the fucking point? god help you if you want children because he’s probably going to walk out on you or cheat. there is no point in interacting with men in 2025.

No. 2538181

I vetted so goddamn hard for years and years and still ended up with a scrote who does not give a shit about anything I have to say. Hella depressing, I deserve to be bullied for thinking I was different or special.

No. 2538193

How do I sit in my emotions and feel them like everyone says I'm supposed to??? How am I supposed to just "sit" in mental anguish and torture. Loss of hope for my future. I am so, so fucking sad and heartbroken, and my brain is scrambling to get away from it like an animal from a fire. I know it's not healthy but holy shit this hurts so much. I'm trying to just accept that I will be in horrific pain for a while but damn that's kind of hard to accept?? I kind of don't want to accept it? Why am I so fucking weak.

No. 2538203

>>2538181
This is my worst fear and what's been keeping me from leaving my current moid for years although I'm going to try and break up in a few days. A good amount on r/loveafterporn say they were able to find a good guy after leaving their addicts but I just don't believe they exist. I'm so cynical I think their moids are just smart and better at hiding it. I really truly don't think I'll ever have the partnership I so desperately want.

No. 2538212

>>2538181
just wish you all stopped acting like it's do-or-die to end up with a man because chances are he's gonna dump you anyway in a few years. it's like investing most of your eggs into another person's whims and then becoming more neurotic as you learn more and more of them break or rot away under his care. sexual relationships are chaos in nature in nearly every species, in humans it actually is no different with rare exception.

No. 2538218

I think that I am losing my mind

No. 2538229

>>2538181
Never blame yourself for moid wrongdoings instead just make him suffer the same ways he's hurting you. You gotta sprinkle itching power on his pillow and all his underwear or something, make his life fucking miserable.

No. 2538230

Yeah, I don't care if it makes me look like some cringe alphoid or zoomer, I can't stand the boomers in my neighbourhood. Jesus Christ, is it the lead poisoning in their brains making them pick fights everywhere they go with anyone younger? It's tantrums left and right while they bitch and moan about how everyone is so mean and disrespectful and act like toddlers. The only toddlers you should be criticising are the ones in your mirror. Legit saw an old boomer moid today wait for the parents to leave their 2yo in a pram at a restaurant (mom went to the toilet, dad went to get some napkins) so he could screech in the kid's face about how loud and "disrespectful" it was being (it was crying a bit earlier) as if a kid that age understands wtf that means. At least pick a fight with the parents you fucking coward.

No. 2538237

I don't have one single friend and it profoundly hurts me. Also, after all the shit that I was put through. My mental state. I don't even wanna try

No. 2538238

You aren’t supposed to interact with breeding stock, IDK, that’s the whole post

Even so much as noticing their house of cards built on pedophilia, lust and blatant materialist BDSM lowers your energy and weakens you. It’s like how planes travel at different elevations to stay out of each others way. Even if it’s socially restrictive to avoid 99% of people, they sacrificed their free will to build the structures we survive on, even if they are fucked up and seemingly incapable of change, you have to respect that. They are here to help you evolve by learning how to ignore them

No. 2538241

I want to give up benzos and lose 10 kilograms. I'm not sure for what reason. Benzos are the only thing offering me some kind of relief from my pain. Also, losing 10 kilograms won't make my life better. People won't treat me better. I am already thin. It just never feels enough.

No. 2538244

>>2538041
>everyone in our comm denied browsing it
>they'd only fess up about it in private
I was one of these and for good reason. There were unhinged girls SUPER upset when they'd get posted and I shudder to think of the revenge they'd seek on outed seagulls who they assumed had posted them. What's funny about that is, they were either seagulls themselves who acted like innocent babus when they went to cry about it on socials, or were cowtipped by their so-called friends. One girl in my comm was so mad about being posted in the ita thread she actually went around next convention interrogating everyone about it including me.

No. 2538245

My leg/pubic/armpit hair objectively grow faster than the hair on my head and I'm tired of being gaslit about how much I hate this reality for myself.
Yeah, most women I know are capable of growing inches of hair in a couple of months but I am not one of them. Let me be angry about it.

No. 2538252

i’m sick of seeing photos related to that luigi guy on the home page all the fucking time

No. 2538269

Those monkeys are so cute, i love them.

No. 2538271

>>2538245
I hate to gaslight you, but what are you doing to your hair? Often times simple things like keeping your hair in a pony tail even if it's not very tight and friction of your hair rubbing on the back of seats can cause breakage and make you feel like your hair is not growing. I also feel like from experience that oiling my hair a lot and not allowing it to be dry as hay made it grow very fast, as well as putting it away in scarfs when i am not going out. I used to feel similarly because i'd shave my legs and i'd have stubble by the end of the day.

No. 2538289

>>2538271
Shit genetics, my mom's and grandma's hair never grew fast nor long. I don't put my hair into updos at all and have silk everything.
Everyone says the appearance of body hair growing faster is an optical illusion but it's simply not true for everyone. I experimented this by comparing a 4 week old plucked pube hair to the virgin hair growth on my head after a fresh dye job (inb4 dying it is the reason; nah, it was like this before too) and the pube hair was way longer.

No. 2538301

I’m coming back from living abroad and my mom moved from the southwest to the Midwest and I’m dreading living there for a bit. I know it’s spoiled but I just really dislike the city she chose. I grew up in a shitty state but it’s still my home and I miss it. Hopefully I can move back to Europe next year.

No. 2538305

>>2537677
>If you do not have anything nice to say, don't say it at all.
It's crazy how things have changed around here over the years kek, I'm not mad about it though. It's just different

No. 2538307

>>2537800
KEK

No. 2538321

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I genuinely want to die. I looked at photos where I was an anachan and I'm now 5'4 and fucking 147 pounds. I'm literally my old worst nightmare. I used to have such a nice waist and it's somehow completely gone with the weight gain. I look like the fucking Pillsbury Doughboy and I'm not even joking. I don't want to go full anachan because I was a fucking judgmental, evil creature when I was (I currently still hate most anachans), but I'm definitely going to be taking some drastic measures to get close to where I was. Godspeed, nonnas.

No. 2538324

uuuugh I've just been told my car is basically not worth repairing anymore this sucks

No. 2538338

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Why did I decide to fall in love with a moid that I know my life will be significantly harder than with a more conventional choice

No. 2538348

Stupid ass boyfriend who is also socially inept negged me when meeting his friend. Couldn't introduce me to anybody, which made me even more nervous, and when i tripped over my words, he said, "are you having a stroke?"
Of course i got drunk after that. Thanks for being an excellent companion around other people and engaging in conversation. I will never go out with you again.

No. 2538355

>>2538348
Dump him immediately

No. 2538358

>>2538338
Describe him to us

No. 2538361

>>2538305
Kek I will say all the bad things I want to say anyway

No. 2538362

i feel like my family don't love me. they don't even like me. i had to move in back to my mother's place and now my SISTER wants to move in too. i lost my fucking job and the place i'd rented was raided by rats and her only problem is that she choose a fucking league of legends player for her boyfriend. i feel like my mother would preffer if she came back and not me. i feel like i don't have a place in this world. even my old room was turned into a storage space so now i sit surrounded by boxes and my sister's stuff. if my sister moves in i'm fucking killing myself. there's clearly not enough space for both of us. if someone feels like i'm dramatic you just do not know the whole story, sorry.

No. 2538363

Hate how I can sleep at wildly different times if it's super late into the night and still feel really well rested and get a full 8 hours or even more, but if I change my schedule to wake up early I get really shallow sleep, 6 hours at best and wake up several times halfway if I sleep at slightly different times. Even when I go to bed at the exact same times for weeks this still happens too as long as it's an early schedule. It's like unless I sleep late I'm not getting any good sleep and I end up just feeling exhausted all the time. It feels like my body absolutely hates waking up early for some reason which sucks when my job requires me to do so rn and most of society functions on an early schedule.

No. 2538367

>He admits to falling for someone else
>Try to set a boundary that he needs to take some time apart from me to think about things
>He starts crying about how he can only be with me and he fucked everything up and is an awful person and he should just die
>I give in
I’m playing nice but it just doesn’t feel the same.

No. 2538370

>>2538367
You’re the anon with the military husband from last thread right? This is manipulative vile behavior, he is not sorry and has probably done more than he admitted.

No. 2538372

>>2538367
Nonna he most likely cheated on you and is trying to guilt you. Fuck the scrote, let him kill himself. He won’t even do that anyway, it’s just a way to make you feel responsible for his actions.

No. 2538410

I CAN'T STOP PICKING AT MY SKIN

No. 2538437

I have been doing so bad anons, I cry like 10 times a day, I barely feel like a person anymore. I feel like a nothing person. I'm really struggling. I want to make a post in the advice thread so someone could give me some direction but I feel like I'd just be a nuisance. I just feel so bad, I'm so utterly miserable. I have no one to talk to and a lifetime of loneliness is just hitting me really hard right now and for the first time in my life, I've been feeling suicidal to the extent I have a plan and everything. The only other time I felt suicidal was when I was 11. It's jus tgetting really hard.

No. 2538438

>>2538410
I know your suffering nona wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy

No. 2538440

>>2538237
I'm in the same boat, I'm sorry anon.

No. 2538445

>>2538437
I hope you feel better soon nona. If you want to ask for advice you shouldn’t feel bad about it.

No. 2538450

>>2538410
Get one of those skin picking things instead, you can get skin picking rocks and slabs of silicone with nasty gunk inside.

No. 2538456

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I feel pathetic. I'm still hung up on my ex and I have been hung up on him nearly a decade. We've talked on and off but I always fuck it up. Last time we talked, it ended up with me getting blocked on pretty much everything. Minor stupid detail, but I guess relevant, I have a feeling he's checking my socials despite having me blocked. The thing is, I've tried to date other people(prior to being blocked and after), I've dated some fantastic men but it all ends up the same, I start thinking about him. Should I just prepare for the life of a spinster because nothing else is working. I tried every coping mechanism possible throughout the years. I truly doubt he will come back and I'm tired of feeling like I'm waiting for him. The only thing that brings me comfort is my fictional husbando. I feel like I've been cursed, it's so bad I joke that this is just the angelfire-esque love spell backfiring that I did for him when I was middle school.

No. 2538486

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Asshole ex bf is sperging at me for deleting a photo I had of him on an easy to climb rock because " he bruised his knee climbing that rock and doesn't have any other photos of himself in general and he wants it for him and his mom"

Now I am scared of him doxig me because of this

Also saw him naked and didn't see no bruise after that so…

No. 2538492

>>2538437
Same, down to the letter, it really sucks. I'm glad you at least posted it here and I am thinking about you, may the clouds clear in the near future

No. 2538496

I'm so fucking useless. I process information at an embarrassingly slow speed but I still managed to get good grades in uni because I had so much time (especially because I did 2 extra years that I'm ashamed about). Now I need to get things done within work hours and it's actually impossible. I can't bill 4 hours for what should be at most a 1 hour task just because I'm stupid as fuck but I also can't make up for those 3 hours. I feel like I'll get fired any day now. I like this job when I get straightforward number-based tasks but I can't do any of the writing or talking which is actually the majority of it. I'm just so upset at myself. I'm stuck on a particular thing that never fails to make me feel like a complete dumbass to the point where I have to take a break and cry about it. I just can't understand where everyone else is getting their info from. It must be there but my brain refuses to do anything with it. And I'll have to go to a group dinner and do a presentation next month too. I want to kill myself before I embarrass myself in front of everyone there. I wish I had just gone to grad school but I needed to start making money. I feel like throwing up whenever I think about money. Everything seems so hopeless. I just want to go home and stay there

No. 2538503

I absolutely despise how my family interacts with one another and it has really soured my relationship with them because they talk like retarded five year olds, and they're all at least 10 years older than me. Here's how it plays out:
>bring up something in my life I want to talk about
>ooh how is that
>talk about it for a while
>that reminds me of insert retarded bullshit they want to talk about and it goes on for literal minutes on end
>starts veering off into their life and what happened at work
>Oh wow, that's lame but (tries to bring conversation back around to the first point because I still want to talk about it)
>conversation dies because they do not find it interesting or care
This is how they talk every single time. You NEVER have a conversation with them about what you bring up, they will ALWAYS bring it back around to them and their life. These are my parents and siblings. I'm telling you holidays are filled with people talking to themselves (because no one is able to hold a conversation not about themselves but people still try to act like this is possible so they're just talking at the the air) and then if my parents feel generous they will bring the conversation back to them or they will make some kind of distraction to get people to stop talking. It makes me want to blow my brains out. It feels like I'm stuck in a house of literal speds. My friends and boyfriend always comment on the difference in my personality when I'm with my parents and it's like yeah I am quiet, why would I start talking when I know nobody gives a fuck and is just waiting to steer the conversation back to them.

No. 2538561

>>>/ot/2537691
Judging by everything in these threads, I think more women would be happier if they started valuing women’s opinions over whatever boyfriend they love. So I don’t get this. And I’ve seen it time again myself, because no woman I know cares about our friendship after she gets a Nigel, even after complaining about him, and even before they break up and she comes back to me for camaraderie. Suddenly agrees with my advice that I’ve been saying this entire time. It’s so foolish. You can be partnered to someone and still realise that valuing female opinions is a representation of your own self-worth. Women act like being in love means they have to surrender everything to their moid. Men do not think like this.

No. 2538566

>bf is handy
>comes over at my mom's place to help repair various things
>he helps cement together some of my items that have broken
>mom sees him doing this and asks him what he is doing
>bf innocently explains
>she tells him not to make a mess because she's wigged out that the process involves glue
>of course bf made no actual mess
I had to remind bf that my mother gives not a singular fuck what he is doing and she only cares to investigate to the extent of how the activity may fuck up 'her' house.
You see, my mom doesn't talk to other people like they are human beings. It's always either a request or demand, an investigation, or she wants to know the drama and problems in other's lives for her own entertainment. Everything revolves around her convenience or not.
It's why she's alone and why no one likes her.

No. 2538570

>>2538561
No moid has ever said "Well my girlfriend is a slob, forgets things that are important to me, makes me feel like shit about myself, and stops me from hanging out with my friends. I'm not happy but I just can't leave her because I wuv her so much, it's really complicated"

No. 2538587

I WISH MY BREAST WEREN'T SO HUGE, OR AT LEAST THEY WERE PERFECTLY ROUND ON MY BODY.
OH YOU WANT A BRA FOR RUNNING? SORRY THAT'LL BE 150$ OH YOU WANT TO WEAR A HALTER TOP? SORRY BOOBS AREN'T PERKY ENOUGH. I'M NOT FAT, JUST SHITTY GENETICS. GOD, LET ME WEAR CUTE WORKOUT/RUNNING CLOTHES

No. 2538599

>>2538587
Love the shouting. Also I related and that’s not a humble brag either because they natural sagged downwards, lost weight literally just because I was sick of them but even when I got underweight they were still huge. It made me feel bad because some women kill for that but hey. They’re gone now though kek

No. 2538602

>>2538503
It's interesting how your post also makes you sound like you don't give a fuck about what they're saying and just want to continue talking about yourself/your thing. It's gotta suck but it's kind of nice that they at least pretend to care

No. 2538605

>>2538570
The male equivalent of this is "yeah my girlfriend is tooootally insane but she controls me with sex" kek

No. 2538616

>>2538587
god i feel you. all my bras are hideous frumpy shit most grandmas wouldn't be seen dead in

No. 2538639

Someone just sent me a link to a local event about gardening, local ecology and sustainable agriculture and it looks very interesting. There’s workshops about bokashi, no-dig, cooking with foraged ingredients, small-scale beekeeping etc. like you would expect but then there’s
>fighting oppression and fascism
oh god it’s going to be troons isn’t it
>Green Gender Transgression
for fucks sake
>Main stage: protest songs for Palestine
ok but why here
>workshop Centring Indigenous Voices
indigenous to where?? sir this is Western Europe

They’re like a virus that infects anything nice and well-meaning. What do troons and Palestine have to do with making nettle pesto? None of these people have touched grass in their lives WHY ARE THEY HERE

No. 2538645

>>2538639
Lol I just set something like this up in my local area, but I'm a burger. It's a community garden that'll also host classes for children and adults. We had to shoehorn in that bullshit to get more grant funding to make the project more successful. There may be some true believers in that nonsense, but most likely it's jaded grant seekers who know it'll make the project look better to the money handlers.

No. 2538671

>>2538570
Um they absolutely do say that? People here are so sheltered i swear

No. 2538672

>>2538639
Omni-cause mixed with virtue signaling. It's infected everything it can touch.

No. 2538673

>>2538645
Makes me wonder who is paying for this stuff and why

No. 2538679

>>2537750
I wasted my whole fucking life and I'll never get it back. What's the point in living anymore

No. 2538688

>>2538639
Murican politics are a fucking virus infecting every country. I live in a third world country with a high rate of femicide, but guess what activists are focusing on now? Yeah, it's troons. Fuck real women I guess, the only ones that matter are the ones who were born male.
>>2538673
Great question, I also wonder who's making bank out of this. The only answer I see is medical and pharmaceutical businesses. Troons are patients for the rest of their life, they're reluctant to criticize or analyse what's being done to them, and they convert others to a life of pain and misery at an alarming rate.

No. 2538710

How does anyone manage to get over the fact that the person you love loves somebody else?

No. 2538712

wheres my vent

No. 2538727

>>2538639
Americanisation is such a fucking disease, the world wide web was a mistake

No. 2538730

>>2538727
I felt this when a white person told me I’m descended from slaves. We live in Britain

No. 2538731

>>2538710
time, focusing your passions/emotions elsewhere. like hobbies. it is not easy. very sorry.

No. 2538735

Like 90% sure my neutered male cat is trying to mate with me, so I went to youtube to see what a male cat mating ritual might look like. I read stuff online and everything seemed to match up but I wanted a video to try to be certain, especially because his demeanor is so strange it's hard to tell if he's angry with me or thinks I'm a mate or something. But of course, every video is literally just jerk off material made by and for scrotes of cats mating. It's all "big male cat FORCES tiny 2 month old kitten" and "3 male cats mate with female by force" and "dog mates with teeny tiny kitten" I should have anticipated that but holy shit I thought there would at least be one video of a vet channel or something explaining through cartoon cats. Jesus fucking christ men ruin everything, they're such disgusting little beasts that taint anything they touch. I wish the majority would die out in a mass death, fuck.

No. 2538754

>>2538735
Jesus fucking christ. Males are literally subhuman, they're a detriment to society, I second your desire that 90% would just fucking die. Societies with more males than women are violent, belligerent and backwards.

No. 2538755

>>2538710
I'm going through this right now and I'd also like to know. I'm desperately trying to meet someone new to try and move on, but it's not really working.

No. 2538783

It's not a big deal but I'm a little sad. I have an online artist friend in the same fandom as me and we've been friends since last year. We watch a lot of movies online together and stuff and she calls me her best friend. Yet… she forgot my birthday and drew something for another fandom friend who she told me stopped talking to her because she was struggling with depression and excessive negativity while I try to be there for her as much as possible to comfort her and give her advice. It's not like I became friends with her for free art but it does sting a bit considering I've drawn for her plenty of times. Oh well.

No. 2538802

Was reminded of this wonderful powerful song. Decided to look up the lyrics on genius, certain the comments would be about how poignant it is, how it calls out male violence. The only comments, though, are about how the song uses "harmful stereotypes" of arab males. Women's rights are going backwards in this age of wokism and virtue signaling. They'd rather we be raped and murdered than offend a poor widdle minority male.

No. 2538811

>>2538783
Befriending artists online is always weird ime. I feel like once you get to know them they care more about the person than the artwork and will straight up forget things you've made for them. But some of them don't even care about the person, they just like having someone around. If you don't pull back often enough they'll take you for granted. Maybe there are normal and well-adjusted fandom artists out there but I've never met one. My only advice is to never make more drawings than the other person is willing return unless you're really into the subject and would've done it without their influence, otherwise you'll start to get resentful eventually.

No. 2538813

>>2538802
she said nothing untrue, muslim moids lock up women to serve as broodmares while they rape goats and boys
t. ex-muslim woman

No. 2538817

>>2538811
It's not that I'm upset she didn't draw for me, moreso that she didn't tell me happy birthday at all even though she asked what date it was last year when I drew her something for hers. Luckily the fandom is my number one obsession so it's all stuff I was happy to draw and don't regret it. I reached out to her because she seemed really sad and lonely and she says I help her a lot, I don't want to hold a grudge because I know it's easy to accidentally take loved ones for granted when you're young and depressed like she is, I've been there too. I don't even like my birthday much so I'm not sure why I'm sad over it.

No. 2538828

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My new job makes me feel so stupid and worthless. A manager gave me a task and told me to ask her if I had any questions about the process. I sent her the first basic part and asked if I should be able to do the next without client input and she hasn't responded in two days. I feel like she's gotta be trying to find a replacement for me because she didn't expect me to be this useless. It took me a full week because I had other stuff going on and needed some extra days just to get familiar with the topic but I'm sure it could've been done in like two hours by a smarter person. And that person would've had additional input or questions as well. But I just don't understand what I'm missing. Somehow everyone else is seemingly able to conjure up info out of thin air. I really don't get it. It's difficult to sit there and not think about how I don't belong

No. 2538831

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I'm sick atm and I hate how good my roommate's food smells, but anything that isn't yoghurt or meal bars taste like puke to me right now. So I'm sitting here smelling spaghetti bolognese from the kitchen like a starved dog knowing I can't have any at the moment.

No. 2538836

>>2538817
It's natural to be upset in that situation. Birthdays are hyped up to be your one special day and if someone doesn't remember it feels like they don't care about you as a person but at the end of the day it's a difficult thing to remember because it doesn't matter during the entire rest of the year. Maybe she just forgot the date if it's been that long? I'm sure she would've done something if you had reminded her in some way. You could still try to mention it off-handedly (like "oh I went to see that movie on my birthday" or whatever) and see how she reacts.

No. 2538849

>>2538492
I hope the same for you. This too shall pass.

No. 2538851

>>2538456
did you do something psycho to him or he just doesnt like you

No. 2538859

>>2538602
Ayrt, the interest completely dies when you live with them for 20 years of your life and have never once seen them actually participate in a conversation like a normal person (asking questions and giving a genuine back and forth), you say your piece as concise and you can because then they get bored as fuck and switch the topic immediately, and if there are multiple family members in the same room it's a OH REMEMBER WHEN until it reaches a story they have told a trillion times before. You get fucking tired of having to meet them on their level when they're too retarded or narcissistic to meet you on your level. Not to mention them getting angry if you don't do the "hmms" and "uh huh" at the right parts.

No. 2538889

I hate those overly shooped Asian cosplayer reels where they're showboating how feminine, delicate, petit, and kawiwi uguu they are, and the retarded moids that fall for it and insist that Asians are peak femininity. I hope they get catfished so hard.

No. 2538898

Moid depression is so pathetic. It's all boohoo woe is me on repeat. Istg when women get depression we generally manage to handle it better just by having the ability of self introspection

No. 2538904

>mom who usually does the heavy duty in terms of house chores is out of town
>me and my brother are alone
>yesterday i cooked for 2 hours, washed half the dishes, had to clear the table after he ate because he left the food out
>didnt do the dishes
>he doesnt do them
>today i cook again
>still no dishes done
im fucking sick of this, am i going to have to nag him like hes a child or what??? you see the dishes are in the sinl why wont you do them you dumb fuck

No. 2538905

>>2538904
he even left the food out again im just so annoyed
does he expect shit to just be cleared magically or what

No. 2538906

>>2538859
Ntayrt but if I didn’t know better I would assume we were siblings kek. I understand how frustrating it is nonny, especially if the stories your family members tell don’t include you in any way. I’m happy for you and whatever happened in your life at the very least.

No. 2538916

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I've been trying to get help about my self-hatred for several years. The way it's absolutely impossible for me to take in any sort of compliments or positive assertions about my skills or personality. I just can't. I'm so full of hatred and can't enjoy any sort of win for myself because I feel like I didn't deserve them or faked it. It's like impostor syndrome on steroids. All of this with how much I absolutely hate my body and have periods where looking at myself in the mirror causes me genuine distress.
But no one has ever taken me seriously on these parts. They tried to diagnose me with BPD and have me do DBT, which well…turns out I don't have BPD (but they did consider body dysmorphia and ptsd, but nothing came of it despite several requests from me), but DBT did help with some other issues I had but not these specific ones.
Today I stumbled upon the term rejection sensitive dysphoria, and while it wasn't a 1:1 it felt like it hit close to home. I don't know if I should bring it up with a professional though, because it sounds like such a made-up tumblr term even though it appears to be a very real thing.

No. 2538921

I wish my roommate took less interest in me. Everything I do, she has to ask me about it. I think it would bother me less if her questions were open ended. But she has to inject her assumptions and it's starting to feel a bit creepy.

> Are you doing X because Y?
Instead of, why are you doing X? (and I'm doing it because Q).
> Did you go out to Z? (event I never talked about)
Instead of, where did you go?
> Oh it's because you think ABC?
Instead of letting me finish my story and thoughts.

She only asks open ended questions if they're rhetorical lol. I got a new plant and now shes all
> what is this? what is this?

it's a new plant dummy

No. 2538925

>>2538906
Ayrt, thank you nonnie. There's a very particular type of frustration and helplessness that occurs when you have to be around a family that has a combined total of zero social skills. It actually makes me seethe sometimes listening to my boyfriend's or my friend's parents talk to them because they seem like real people with real thoughts and feelings and a brain that works and not like narcissistic robot AIs with canned responses kek. Thank you again nonnie and I hope your family can manage to be less stressful to be around, but that is definitely a pipe dream. Hope you don't have to deal with them so much at least.

No. 2538927

>>2538921
Oh gawd I feel like I do this… It's because I want the person to feel like I listen to/remember stuff they say kek. But I have social retardation so I overthink every social interaction in my head and everything I say is me mimicking what I -think- a friend should say in any given situation.

No. 2538931

>>2538925
I don't think it's zero social skills. just a family that wasn't intentional about relating to each other. idk my family is similar, but my parents and siblings are completely capable of being normal social people to other people, just not within the family

No. 2538933

>>2538921
>> Are you doing X because Y?
>Instead of, why are you doing X? (and I'm doing it because Q).
damn I kind of do this.. I just feel like it fuels more the conversation and seems less like an interrogatory if you offer an answer to the person

No. 2538934

>>2538931
family is people you never chose to be around. I'm not close with people who have a similar personality to my brother, so I'm not upset me and my brother aren't close. if we were strangers, we wouldn't hang out anyway

No. 2538938

>>2538933
I’m the same way. Maybe this is crazy but I like saying “how come you’re doing or feeling X” instead of “why are you doing or feeling X”. It lets the other person tell more of a story

No. 2538941

>>2538931
Ayrt, in my case my family literally cannot maintain relationships outside of the family and are arguably worse in social situations that don't involve family.

No. 2538946

>>2538933
>>2538927
it feels presumptuous, like stop trying to read my mind or predict my movements like a creep. but I think it feels like that because she's consistently wrong. I'm always having to be like "No, actually…". Sometimes her assumptions are so off base/based on fanfic that it trips me up.

In a way you're taking away my agency to tell my story by trying to jump ahead to the conclusion. And then if you're wrong it's like…why should I bother to explain if you're gonna make up your own explanations

No. 2538947

>>2538916
Better question you should be asking yourself is where the self-hatred comes from. I’m very skeptical you just developed it in a vacuum. Ask yourself when you first remember feeling that way and what your social environment was like at the time and you might pick your way closer to an answer.

No. 2538949

>>2538905
I mean the food did “magically” get cooked on night 2 even though he had no accountability about cleaning up on night 1, so it’s not like you aren’t enabling him. Be less of a doormat.

No. 2538953

I love vtubers but I'm never posting in the vtuber thread on /m/. it's just full of nonnas dramafagging on the same level as /vt/ schizos while pretending they're above other dramafags. I can count the number of posts by nonnas talking about livers they actually like on one hand among the hundreds of posts rehashing the same tired tribalfaggy drama from ages ago

No. 2538957

Why am I the one feeling bad when I didn't even do anything? lol

No. 2538963

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>>2538953
As someone who knows nothing about VTubers, their arguments over who is more "male pandering" just look like this kek

No. 2538966

>>2538947
Practically all my life. Sure, I can point at my mom who is an ex-model turned workaholic that had the same high expectations of me and my siblings both effort- and look-wise. Or that "frenemy" I had that I considered a close friend but would bully and put me down every chance she got and lie about what people actually thought of me. Or my abusive ex.
All of these are very valid reasons, but again - I felt like this all my life and all of these are so many years ago I feel like there is a limit to how long I can blame it on these people and acting like a victim. At one point I have to take accountability for myself for a better relationship with myself, but I don't seem to have tools to do it on my own no matter how much I try.

No. 2538968

>>2538949
i mean since i was eating i just cooked for him with but yeah im not doing shit anymore and cooking for myself only until the dishes are done

No. 2538972

>>2538968
problem is the idea of the fucking dishes rotting away is so disgusting to me, i have a bad fear of roaches and i know its the kind of stuff that attracts them
but if i do the dishes then its over im his mommyslave for the rest of the week

No. 2538973

this is now a war of whos more disgusting and lazy

No. 2539001

>>2538966
NTA but it sounds like, apart from your dislike of your appearance, your fundamental struggle is less one of self-hatred and more based in experiences of your trust being fucked with and a resulting understandable reticence to see any compliments as sincere. It can be hard to see compliments as anything other than two-faced insults when you've been deceived or held to impossible standards by people close to you.
If you have things you are good at and know you're good at, try to focus on those and share those with other people_normal people, not obsessively perfectionist insiders who will pick even good work apart. Also, try to not pathologize perfectly normal learned behaviors and reactions, that can just as easily be used as a cudgel to beat yourself with.
The very fact that you acknowledge that the self criticism is unrealistic and unfounded says to me that you'll be alright in the end.

No. 2539053

I can tell my 16 year old dog doesnt have much time left. He's still eating and drinking but he's gotten so thin and just stays wherever you put him w/o moving most of the day. Im praying the vet on Friday will be able to tell us something that makes the decision a little easier. even now im bawling in the bathroom at work remembering how i found him sleeping in my clothes when i woke up this morning. even while im thinking about all of this he still loves me so much, i feel like a monster.

No. 2539057

>>2539053
You're not a monster. Any choice you make will be grounded in love and concern for his wellbeing. I know this is easier said than done, but please be kind to yourself no matter what happens, and talk to yourself like you'd talk to a close friend in the same situation. Seeing a pet get old is never easy, but take solace in the fact that 16 years is a very long and impressive life, and he spent it being loved and taken care of.

No. 2539125

>>2539053
What kind of dog? 16 is a long time. It's definitely a grace to put them down when they're suffering. Just think of all the human beings that probably wish they could be put down… I know if I ever had dementia I would want someone to just end it while I was still lucid. Avoiding days of suffering and being put to rest is a blessing and a mercy. Sending them home from their journey on Earth peacefully and with their favorite person by their side.

No. 2539141

I feel like my mom will never be truly happy for me unless I do a total 180, get married to a moid and pop out a bunch of kids, it's very obvious that she's not interested in who I truly am as a person and she has a lot of contempt for the things I like because it's "childish". She's the type of woman who lost her entire identity in motherhood and has zero hobby or intellectual curiosity, she can't conceptualize following another path.

No. 2539144

>>2537852
>>2537121 was the specific post that made me write that post, but there have been others in the past.

>>2537867
It's not that I think everyone on /cgl/ was a lesbian, just that women who used to use 4chan should be somewhat used to weird shit (or became fucked up from said weird shit themselves).

No. 2539145

All I want to do is curl up in bed and cry and I can’t even do that for like 4 days. Tonight I have a family birthday dinner that I have to go to, my friend just reminded me that I told her last weekend that I’d go kayaking with her tomorrow, my other friend invited me over to have a movie night on Thursday, and then my other friend wants me to go over on Friday for dinner and painting. I know if I cancel any of those plans I’ll be upsetting people because I already said I’d do it. I didn’t even realize how everything was back to back to back. I’m so fucking emotional right now because I’m getting my period in a couple days but I was crying on my way home from work because I just wish I didn’t exist. I work bankers hours so for the next 4 days I’ll basically only get time to myself when I’m sleeping. I do love my friends but honestly I wish I was a friendless neet, I don’t have the energy to be a good friend. It makes me feel like a shitty person to feel this way about having plans with friends and it also makes me feel like shit that I can’t sit at home and cry to myself when I’m overwhelmed.

No. 2539181

I wasn't molested as a child but I was frequently targeted by pedophiles who attempted to earn my trust because it was so obvious I was neglected by my parents. Kinda sucks to realise as an adult.

No. 2539204

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I wish this looming sense of hopelessness would go away or finish me off already. I don't think I'm strong enough to be here but I don't wanna make my family sad either. I feel trapped right now.

No. 2539207

>>2539204
mood

No. 2539211

I've had a crush on a very close friend for 3 years now and there were many signs she might feel the same way. I was too afraid to confess due to negative previous relationships but everyone who knew us both thought she might have a thing for me. Well, it turns out that isn't true. I'm scared I'm going to die alone. I have no idea where to go to meet women and I'm pushing 30, feels like most of my peers are settling down with long term partners and buying houses and having kids and I'm just stunted. I really thought she might feel the same way. I'm such an idiot. I'd give anything for a gf who is also my best friend I can game with and go on walks with and who really loves me, not in a lukewarm way, but in a way where she can't imagine a world without me. I am so lonely.

No. 2539216

8 years ago i got diagnosed with cancer and 5 years ago i finished quemotherapy. I don't care if i sound like i'm stuck in the past, i wish that shit never happened to me, it has completely ruined me and made me severly mentally ill. I'd rather just dealed with anorexia and whatever other retarded shit teenagers have to deal with instead of being isolated in my formative years and develop OCD which has completely ruined my life. I am disgusted to eat, shower, brush my teeth, go outside and sit around people. I'm still mentally 14, i don't relate to people my age and i'll always be behind my peers. Why did this have to happen to me out of all people? Even back then i knew i was a weird retard and had to do something about it but then i had to be hit with the worst possible fate. I'm already 23, if i don't become normal by 25 i'm killing myself.

No. 2539219

>>2539211
Me and you are in the same boat nonna.

No. 2539222

>>2539211
It’ll happen nona, don’t try to rush it. People fall in and out of love in all stages of life, you’re not behind people in their 30s settling down, who knows if those people will even stay together. Just keep working on yourself and be open to meeting new people and you’ll find the person you’ve been looking for when it’s time.

No. 2539225

any nonas please respond! i am just in need of a response general, am sorry. i posted in career thread abt how scrote had hand in me losing my job. I was an average accounting employee. Seems companies are willing to minimize everywhere as long as someone will take the extra work.
only thing, i studied and worked so hard for this career only for it to be taken away. my hard work uncredited, my lack of hours financially crippling.
How do yall nonas do it? Being so financially independent and fabulous. I just feel half rate, and at worst suicidal . Can hardly make rent yet it's hard to find that kinda career.

No. 2539226

>>2539211
you probably need therapy before you can settle down, because being afraid to confess a CRUSH for 3 years is crazy. like, you could have spent those years looking for someone who actually likes you back

No. 2539227

>>2539225
If it was a regular accounting job, then there's a million others like it out there. Was it the company you worked for? The people? What made that job so special? You can get back on your feet again, nona.

No. 2539231

>>2539225
calm down your career isn't over because you lost one job. accounting is everywhere, and AI sucks at it, so just eat a banana and take a deep breath and send out resumes

No. 2539235

>>2539227
it was a dollar more than my previous company, and admit it wasnt too great though i wasnt bored. There were some girls i was bonding with but it was more the commitment i cared about, getting that consistent experience.
>>2539231
part of my job was making sure ai didnt fuck up so ive some added anxiety from that. I know im perfectly capable of these jobs. But im worried im being outpaced simply because of the fact im a little retarded. Yes i can do more than ai, but can i do the same role + QC for lesser pay?

No. 2539264

Today we had a floater at work from another store. Never met her before. She was such a horrible tar pit of a person, I'm still reeling from it. She stole one of my clients, insulted my handiwork on another, and constantly condescended to me. Tried to neg me or one-up me on literally everything I said. She even talked shit about me to my work bestie when I went to the bathroom, because I wasn't cowering at any of her mean girl nonsense. She was the walking embodiment of a pickme… obsessed with validation, talking nonstop about her multiple baby daddies, bragging how every guy she meets is like totally obsessed with her, and insulting everyone's looks the moment their back was turned. She even faked a slight Irish accent every time she talked about how Irish she is. It was… insane.

I honestly feel bad for her, it must be a very pathetic life if you're in your 40s and still bragging about how you were a cheerleader in high school. A part of me wants to report her for stealing my client (they requested me specifically, she changed the name and took the appt instead), but I'm trying to avoid starting shit at this job. Wtf.

No. 2539271

>>2539219
That sucks. I hope things improve for us and this is just a bump on the road.
>>2539222
Thanks, nona. That is true. I feel like I just keep striking out, but you never know if you don't try. My mistake is always letting things like this get too in my head and make me more afraid of trying.
>>2539226
I guess that's true, but being in therapy before didn't really help me overcome my romance anxiety. Maybe now that I'm older it would go better.

No. 2539272

Sometimes i think about how the same bedroom i took my first steps in and played with my toys in is the same one I made all my suicide attemps in. The same walls "saw" me go from an innocent child to a depressed wreck. I'm no longer suicidal but this thought breaks me. I want to be kinder to myself.

No. 2539275

>>2539272
I think about this every time I lay on the family rug. Brighter days ahead for us, my friend.

No. 2539300

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i think my sister is homophobic but i really thought she wasnt, i remembered her being more accepting for some reason.
Nowadays she constantly says most gay men are pedophiles or victims. Hearing her say this reminded me of something i completely forgot but years ago when i told her there was some lesbian girl in my class when i was in high school, she told me to be careful because lesbians are like men and one could rape me or something like that also the girl ended up being straight kek idk it feels weird to see how everyone around me is homophobic

No. 2539301

There's this woman in my class who i find completely insufferable. She talks so fucking loudly and i overheard her getting irritated over the one troon in my class who wants to join her clique conversation, when she and her cohort talk so fucking loudly, why the fuck do i know she is going to court whilst being all the way and the other side of the room. Don't get me wrong, i find the troon annoying too, but not as annoying as her surprisingly enough, only because the troon knows not to talk to me. She is just too reactive and over emotional, it's so fucking annoying. She talks so much shit about everyone in the room, i don't understand why she doesn't just shut the fuck up. She needs to have a strong opinion and emotion about everything, it's so fucking exhausting to be around, i wish she would take a xanax or something. This is a 30 year old woman with 3 kids and she acts like she peaked in high school and you can definitely tell she used to be a bully and thought she was hot shit because she was getting fucked at 16 and drinking alcohol and being a bad ass kid. I just want her to shut the fuck up forever, i can't wait to never see her dumb as fried hair again.

No. 2539308

my husband decided to leave me and my two year old bc i tried becoming friends with a gay dude i met at my job. and bc i didn’t tell him within two days that i was working and catching up on sleep, i was hiding it from him. this is ridiculous

No. 2539313

>>2539308
Your husband sounds like a retard who is throwing a temper tantrum nonny

No. 2539315

>>2539308
I wonder how long he's been keeping that to himself. Have there been any signs? Like being distant or antagonistic?

No. 2539316

>>2539216
you have suffered so much by a monstrous illness you had no hand in. you dont deserve to make yourself hurt more, or feel ashamed of your place in life. you need love now more than ever, kindness to yourself. i know its easier said than done, society and this materialistic world makes us feel terrible for not meeting milestones or becoming some retarded, fictional embodiment of success. but all of it is fake. i hope you can find tools to manage the ocd one day, i know it all too well. im sorry you have suffered so much.

No. 2539321

>>2539315
he’s always been kinda possessive like i started working and he hates that i work with so many men, plus he’s always judged all of my friends and if i ever tried to hang out with them he’d ask why he wasn’t invited. he hasn’t been super distant but we’ve fought a bit more recently bc i changed my availability for work like he asked me to (i work night shifts)

No. 2539324

broke things off with bpd npd gemini and i miss her so much already why does her warmth feel so good that i want to excuse all of her abuse and manipulation games
i lost myself while giving all of my time and energy to her but i’m still obsessed with her even though she doesn’t care about me, she only cares about what i do for her. i love her and i love the soul i know is underneath all of her dysfunctional behaviors
npd is so twisted sigh i must not unblock her

No. 2539362

>>2539300
She is wrong about lesbians. But right about faggots.

No. 2539363

in an alternate universe i wouldve been a good vtuber with my voice and personality but sadly i kinda (really) hate vtubers and think theyre incredibly fake, parasocial, and pathetic. but damn it seems like good money just to pretend to be a retarded anime girl

No. 2539364

I fucking hate my retarded boomer dad so much. He genuinely thinks like a child- if you don't 100% agree with his opinions you're against him and want to conspire against him or some schizo shit. He started sperging out at this lawyer he was consulting today because she made the mistake of telling him he really needed to fix up some of his documents because his arguments were extremely incoherent. I felt so bad for her because she was so patient and professional and simply stating objective fact. And no wonder nobody wants to work with him legal or business wise, simply put

No. 2539365

I dropped out of college for the petty reason that I couldn't find anyone willing to study with me in the library, going there for hours everyday just to stumble into menu friend groups from my yeargroup, that apparently just happened to form organically while I struggled to even talk to anyone there broke my heart, the last straw was when I realized the only option I had left was to pay an upperclassman to tutor me, and that where was definitely something wrong with me
and as it predictably turned out, nearly everyone dropped out (65%) besides whoever managed to get into these study groups, that is the decently motivated students, which I never managed to become a part of

No. 2539373

>>2539365
I know study groups are really helpful but they aren't everything. And if more than half dropped out the workload must've been crazy, you'd need more than motivation. What are you planning to do now?

No. 2539378

>>2539373
it's not, it was actually rather easy for me, I meant it was petty because all I needed was the motivation, but being unable to socialize even to the slightest extent made me give up, also many aggravating factors like going through a breakup, and isolating myself from everyone including my own family in the process
maybe I'll try again next year, but I'm not hopeful unless I find a good reason to be driven to do it all alone this time
I just wish it was as easy as some apparently make it to be

No. 2539379

I've been reading webcomics for many years, even before sites like smackjeeves and webtoon were a thing. Comment section has always been full of retards, but I haven't really been as annoyed by them as I am by the current ones…
They are bending over backwards trying to 4D chess the writing, and they'll still try to force it even when their theories are proven very wrong. They try to find metafors and symbolism in regular conversations between characters, or conflate comic logic with real life logic - case in point: a character is desperate to find help regarding something and is shown trying to contact anyone that could possibly help, with the panels being him visiting a character that is canonically living in a different state. Now people in the are trying to figure out how he got there so fast, sometimes it's valid to question these things but in this case it's pretty clear it's more about the impact of her response that would have carried as well it had been through a phone call.
And let's not even start with how common it is to have at least a couple of trannies in the comment section trying to push for certain characters to be "eggs". Before it would be fujoshis trying to force their ships, but they were always clearly very young and the cringe comments from them were kinda fun. Now instead it's about which character they're trying to bully the artist into trooning out.

No. 2539380

Why do people still deny that blonde women with light colored eyes live life on easy mode lol when you're a brunette you must impress with your body, but a blonde can have an average build and still be considered a gigastacy. Blonde hair and light features are a halo and multiple women admitted people treated them better and that they got more attention as a blonde and that when they dyed their hair brown suddenly became invisible… Blonde women also don't get cheated on as much, and especially not with brunettes, and they get to date richer, higher value men, athletes etc. Even blonde kids get more love wtf. I remember as a kid with darker features, the blonde girls got more attention, more affection, all the kids wanted to play with them, adults coddled them.
>inb4 someone here mentions famous gigastacy brunettes popular with men
The point is the standards are different. When you have brown hair you must actually be a gigastacy of model tier. Othewise you get lost in the crowd. You're "basic", especially in a country where most people have brown hair. But when you have blonde hair, especially natural blonde hair (not an obvious brunette-to-bleached job) the hair alone elevates you.

No. 2539382

lolcow is mostly moids

No. 2539395

>>2539378
Did you not have a reason for going there in the first place?

No. 2539399

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There's no bottom to how evil a moid can be. I'm sickened that this hideous pos studied her videos, probably pretended to be the kind of man for her. No wedding ceremony, no real marriage according to his words just to cheat on her while she's 4 months pregnant with his child. Probably an ego thing for him that someone like him can get a woman like her. Fucking hell. At least, she's chose out immediately.

No. 2539400

>>2539399
who is this?

No. 2539402

Socializing is so fucking impossible for me and I get so scared whenever I have to do it. There's a ""networking"" event next week that I'll have to go to and I'm so afraid I'll just freeze up. I don't like these settings where nothing is happening and you're expected to spend the entire time talking to a stranger. I'll probably have to hide in the bathroom

No. 2539404

>>2539400
Landon Nickerson, thewizardliz's (ex)husband

No. 2539405

>>2539380
I would not say they live life on easy mode but it is true that being blonde and light eyed inherently makes you more attractive. The standards for darker featured women looks wise for face and body are much higher and a blonde blue eyed woman has to be downright fugly to ever be considered unattractive. I think they also draw more attention and therefore invite more harassment which is obviously a down side, but then people care more when they go missing? Idk. Scrotes are retarded and destructive either way and have 0 concept of beauty, they’re animalistic and their opinions shouldn’t be trusted especially not regarding women.

No. 2539412

>>2539405
>The standards for darker featured women looks wise for face and body are much higher and a blonde blue eyed woman has to be downright fugly to ever be considered unattractive.
Yep, for darker features you must be like genuinely pretty and charming, or be part of some niche like alt/goth, or have a hot body like the latinas, for black women is the same, have insane curves, for asian women have literally perfect proportions and perfect face meanwhile blonde women are usually considered attractive just by having lighter features. Russian women being universally considered super hot solely because of that, even though a lot of them are in fact quite average, just like everyone else.

No. 2539416

I'M SO SICK OF BEING SICK! This cold have been doing the symptom tango for days now: some days I have a sore throat and cough, other days I have a runny nose and sore throat, etc. it's never three at the same time so I meme myself into thinking I'm about to get better just to wake up with a frog voice so bad it would make a tif jealous. I'm lucky I like yogurt because it's practically the only thing I can eat at the moment.

No. 2539418

>>2539399
>>2539404
damn this is the kind of man a goddess perfect-looking barbie like liz can aspire to? the personification of a soyjak? and he still managed to cheat? its so over for women

No. 2539422

>>2539395
mostly just trying to get back to the real life after 10 years of being a NEET

No. 2539425

>>2539399
I saw this and immediately thought he looked like a paler nerdy version of Andrew Tate. It's the eyes. Tell me I'm crazy.
Either way, psychopathic phenotype

No. 2539428

>>2539425
no I see it too, he's so fucking ugly

No. 2539429

A baby canary bird I was taking care of died today and I feel bad about it. I was already having a depressive period and now it's worse. It was already half dead when I found it but after warming him up and feeding him he seemed better. Then today I was feeding him again and he suddenly died. It sucks. Fuck this.

No. 2539439

>>2539422
And that wasn't enough to motivate you? But I kind of get it kek, if you had the possibility to neet out that long you're probably able to continue now and I envy you for it. I had the same issues as you but just forced myself to study alone anyway. Once I moved to a new place it felt impossible to undo the decision even if it made me feel like killing myself

No. 2539446

>>2539425
It's the rat man reccesed chin phenotype, too many women fall for this type for some reason

No. 2539485

I helped my mom write her whole thesis , but had to stop because I had to give my exam and she hired someone else to finish the last pages, and she threw at me that I left her “stranded”.
I went to print out her thesis, i did a PowerPoint presentation for her, I ordered her a bouquet and the crown and had to pick them for her ceremony myself; I’m also the one taking pictures.
I sent her plenty of times the pictures of the flowers and crown and asked if they were okay and she replied yes.
Today, two hours before her thesis, she is saying that the stuff I bought is ugly and that I should have bought a nice crown and she didn’t care about the bouquet.
I will never do stuff for her in my life, I’m so fucking tired.

No. 2539496

>>2539429
You did well nonnie, you stopped the little birdie from a more painful passing. It would have died feeling so much worse if you hadn't helped. I hope you feel better soon and get out of that depression funk, you have a good heart.

No. 2539497

>>2539485
your mom is really lucky to have you and doesn't deserve you

No. 2539498

>studying super hard
>still suck somehow

No. 2539506

>>2539380
I'm not blonde but I still feel like I'm living life on easy mode, it helps that I'm not engaging with moids in any way.

No. 2539512

File: 1748434142343.jpg (1.66 MB, 3200x2806, christ in desert.jpg)

My friend starts to gush about everything that's good in her life when I'm feeling down. She's done this a few times and I've started to suspect she does this on purpose. I've tried to gaslight myself it's just a coincidence and/or she's just that inconsiderate and eager to talk all about herself when not even asked. But my internal alarm bells are blaring and sensing something's not right with her

No. 2539514

Please for the love of god let one of those thousand other jobs I’ve applied for pull through this one is making everything even worse than it is somehow

No. 2539517

>>2539512
Tell her about this. A lot of people have no emotional intelligence and she might have no idea she is doing it. But if she still does it afterwards, then yes it is on purpose

No. 2539526

>>2539145
you're allowed to cancel plans, it's not that big of a deal to most people, good friends will be understanding. Just say you're not feeling well or need to reschedule. If you keep doing things out of obligation and not wanting to upset others, you only end up upsetting yourself and burning yourself out. You're allowed to meet your needs first. If you need a break, take one.

No. 2539532

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Society and men hating on women getting pixie/ buzz cuts are overreacting. Every time a previously long haired woman decides to post her new look on the internet men go ballistic in her comments like she just killed somebody and it's so retarded, they act like cutting your hair as a woman is some kind of crime or tragedy. Women don't look as bad as men do when going bald simply because we look better in general, even if not everyone can pull off short hair. I find it sad because it can be practical, low maintenance and comfy but I understand why most women are intimidated by the look and don't even try it if society reacts so harshly, specially at more conservative/ sexist countries, as a thirdie, the amount of women I've meet who decided to pass on short hair only because of potential social backlash/ mistreatment is wild. I just wish people weren't so obsessed with our personal choices, it's unfair, men can get their ugly low taper fades and nobody criticizes them yet we're supposed to perform feminity 24/7. The more shit they talk, the more their hairlines recede(ai outside of containment)

No. 2539539

>>2539514
Fingers crossed, nonna. This job market is a shitshow but I hope you get what you’re looking for.

No. 2539541

>>2539532
I've never got this psyop, pixie cuts make women look really cute to me, especially when they smile because it's not so hidden anymore. When I was a kid I wanted this haircut and my mom sat in the waiting area crying when my hair was cut this short. So fucking weird.

No. 2539557

>>2539532
men who think it's not feminine are also retarded because this used to be considered a feminine style back in the 50s (especially ironic since trad types keep thinking that only waist length was accepted)

No. 2539559

>>2539379
This is why they just shouldn’t have comment sections on webcomics.

No. 2539566

Nonas, gimme some bullshit excuses to not have sex.
Ready set go.

No. 2539575

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>>2539517
I've told her about this some time ago, and she apologized back then. It sucks to think she's possibly doing it on purpose because I've spent so much time and effort helping her and being her therapist/mommy friend. And it also sucks if her emotional intelligence isn't that high and she doesn't realize she's doing that because it's tiring me out.

No. 2539586

>>2539439
it's the contrast between my life and that of nonchalant freshmen that still make it by the virtue of fitting in that was the final nail on my shut in coffin

No. 2539595

File: 1748440518307.png (108.97 KB, 628x464, welding.png)

>>2539566

No. 2539599

>>2539412
>>2539405
>>2539380
Where do you people live that blonde women get halo’d this hard? Not to be bad but also ime darker haired women have been more likely to be pretty so I’ve seen way more of them with pretty privilege. I don’t know one blonde woman in my life with pretty privilege. I’m Asian though and this seems like a white people thing to fixate on in all honesty, maybe I just don’t understand it

No. 2539602

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I am convinced i am retarded. I asked some timeslots for some classes and the guy sent me a message saying something similar to ''7 to 9, 11, 13 to 15'' and for the life of me i couldnt understand what he meant. I also struggle a lot when people tell me to grab something and dont directly point to where it is, or give me vague instructions like ''do this excercise for some time, repeat the excercise a few times'' no bitch i am retarded tell me for how long and how many times.

No. 2539633

>>2539566
>moids are gross
>its always better fantasizing about it than having it
>stds
>pregnancy
>urinary tract infections
>jerking off takes way less time

No. 2539638

>>2539566
Um, because you just don’t want to? You don’t need an excuse, ever. Who is making you feel like you need to make excuses?

No. 2539639

File: 1748442609611.gif (426.67 KB, 380x277, giphy (3).gif)

>Bored
>Try to work on project
>Stop because can't focus
>Bored
Why

No. 2539642

>>2539566
>you have to walk your dog/cat/ferret/piranha
>you gave up sex for Lent and are getting an early start for next year
>anyone who wants to have sex with you needs to complete the included 30 page personality profile before they're allowed to remove their clothes in your presence
>you're taking a year of sobriety from mind-altering substances. this includes sex fluids
>you can't risk getting your chakras out of alignment
>mercury is in virgo, so it's a terrible time to have sex
>you have to patch a tire
>you have to patch your neighbor's tire
>your suitor-to-be hasn't demonstrated enough culinary prowess to adequately woo you. this process requires at least six months of routine amateur cooking shows held in your honor
>you have hobbies to work on
>your suitor-to-be has hobbies they should be working on
>you'd love to (not really), but you really need to get this quarterly report done before your boss bites your head off

No. 2539645

>>2539566
Your suitor hasn't submitted the right paperwork. They need to go to the second floor and get a PINK (very important) slip from the HR desk which must be filled out in block print. You will process this and get back to them in 5 working days.

No. 2539657

File: 1748443760563.gif (1.85 MB, 320x198, 1000075168.gif)

>>2539566
His mars isn't conjunct or trine with your venus

No. 2539697

Had a dream last night that it was the first day of college, which isn't uncommon but it was the most vivid dream I've probably had, I had 3 assignments due and it was in real time, first two assignments I had to read two different articles and highlight discussion points, third I had to read the pied piper. Real time I sat through the first class, tried to stumble through the discussion and flipped and picked a random point from the article to bring up, second class I forget what happened but it was some lecture I didn't have to interact with, then third class I was looking for room 318 and asked someone and he said "318… you'll never find that. No one has ever found that classroom" and I was like dang, looked at my sheet again and it was 118, went downstairs and was trying to frantically read the pied piper before class began and then I realized "why the hell am I trying to do an assignment I havent bene in college for years" and then realized it was a dream, left the class and walked around the school until I woke up.
I'm almost 30 I keep getting these school dreams, scary my grandmother was in her 80s and said she was still getting them. At least now in the dream I realized It didn't make sense and was able to be lucid for it


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