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No. 2500117
Are you a fat loser? Do you want to argue because that's how you learned to get attention in your dysfunctional household growing up? Do you have no friends? Well then, this is the thread for you!
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>don't reply to bait This whole thread is bait so you can still reply to bait!>rest of /ot/ board rules applyThey should, but no, they don’t>farmhands are always watchingThey only watch for 4-6 hours a day because they're lazyDO NOT ENTER THIS THREAD IF YOU HAVE AN IQ ABOVE 90!Remember that everyone that uses this thread is: fat, ugly, mentally challenged or otherwise low IQ, attention-starved, juvenile, and generally a loser! Have fun!!! No. 2500384
>>2500339Exactly this. That's why they started the rumor that sex will make you loose, are trying to push the narrative that women who are traumatized by other men are "ruined baggage"(even though there's plenty of moids with hero complexes towards abused women but whatever). I also suspect that's why there's a huge push from abusers themselves trying to villianize abused women so they will just remain lonely and dependent on their abuser. Even when the woman moves on, marries a good man, has kids, is successful, etc and she speaks about her
abusive ex bf there's still comments about how she needs to "take accountability" as if abused women only deserve to be sitting in a closet obsessively texting their abuser forever
No. 2500535
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>>2500339Men just think with their dicks, it's that simple.
No. 2500541
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>>2500538Oh, this world feels so lonely. Leaves from the vine. Falling so slow.
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Boomer Karens are based af and I'm done pretending they're not
No. 2500692
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>>2500665I saw a video making fun of everyday karens and I got kind of jealous of how bold and unapologetic they are. I often let nail techs make my cuticles bleed and then they rub oil on them with a brush used on who knows how many people, I just bear it and tip them. Meanwhile Karen would for sure speak up and get a discount and have zero remorse.
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Coconut does not belong in desserts or confectionery.. make it stop
No. 2500867
>>2500835These are the type of unpopular opinions this thread should be used for.
Also I disagree lmao
No. 2500964
>>2500929By that logic, you should never go to the doctor if you have something wrong with your vagina because the gyno fields also have misogynistic roots. It's unfortunate and we shouldn't forget the history or
victims of it, but the best thing is for the fields to evolve and be used as forces of good for modern women.
No. 2501039
>>2501035My ass is the only thing i have ever been complimented on, so yes.
>>2501038maybe i just have a fat arse or pussy because i had to pick it ever 10 minutes to get it out of there. I stick to my shorts and normal underwear now.
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>>2501039>anon's hypothesis confirmed yet againTy
nonny, this is exactly what I needed
>>2501040They're the excess material of regular underwear that would normally be tossed imo
No. 2501046
>>2501039if your mom bought it on accident it was honestly probably just not the right size. some thongs are also constructed very fancifully and those are usually really impractical. the vast majority of my thongs are just plain cotton
>>2501043>They're the excess material of regular underwear that would normally be tossed imoso are tatertots and i fuckin love tatertots
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>>2501062I get what you're saying and have tried a million thongs over the years thinking I must be missing out on something amazing, since I had friends who refused to wear anything else but looking back they all had flat asses too, just wider hips. It's not a bad thing, they looked amazing in their thong but myself and this anon
>>2501039 need more coverage. Out of picrel I can pretty much only wear hipster, boy shorts and "seamless" is okay sometimes if not full blown thong/g-string
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>>2501078Forgot bikini, that one is prob best imo
No. 2501105
>>2501085nothing about a thong prevents you from having pubic hair. i get if you think it would look weird, but i seldom shave and still wear thongs
>>2501078youre really insistant its an ass size/flatness thing. pretty much every pic you see of a fitness influencer showing off her gains (ie, large glutes from squatting), if theres no vpl she's either wearing a thong or nothing at all. its like asserting the
only women who wear crop tops have flat stomachs just because the people you know who
dont have flat stomachs wont wear them.
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>>2501105>youre really insistant its an ass size/flatness thing.Yes after years of anecdotal and now personal experience, it definitely seems like women with "cheekier" asses prefer having them covered. Mine get colder than the rest of my body and it feels weird psychologically to be wearing underwear and have a cold ass.
>pretty much every pic you see of a fitness influencerI don't look at pics of fitspo influencers but is it possible they are posing in the thong and then not wearing it all day? Either way it makes more sense to wear ugly athleisure spandex for pics like that doesn't it? A lot of women who find thongs uncomfortable consider it "lingerie" for that reason tho. Also I think you're still taking this as an insult when the reason I purchased so many stupid thongs in the first place, is bc I thought the women with the flatter asses/wider hips looked good in them. It creates the illusion of having ass cheeks, like assless chaps/picrel
No. 2501130
>>2501078>>2501118>it feels weird psychologically to be wearing underwear and have a cold assi mean… im wearing pants over my underwear so thats never been a problem
>is it possible they are posing in the thong and then not wearing it all daythey're wearing them to work out in, so that means theyre comfortable enough for intense physical activity, so the person wearing them is comfortable. its just not an objective fact that thongs are uncomfortable because you
personally find them uncomfortable
>>2501122if you have a full bush it can still be visible in any style of underwear except for maybe boy shorts. thongs have the same amount of "coverage" in the front as every other style
>>2501078 illustrates this
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>>2501130You ignored the cold ass cheek part anon. That is what feels weird. The workout you're describing does sound uncomfortable and but makes sense if you're an influencer paid to show off your body and genitals. I've worked out in a thong before and was adjusting it constantly, bc instead of a garment that variation between the liner/panty and ass part, it is just a string that slides up and down. There's also the labial aspect you keep ignoring, to make this really simple: imagine lil kim wearing a g-string in this picrel kek Two types of wedgie, sounds like a fun day
No. 2501158
>>2501118As a woman with a full bottom I hate thongs and Brazilian panties, they are so uncomfortable, it’s like your booty hole is gnawing at them , I hate the feeling, along with lacy or nylon material. Normal cotton slips are much more comfortable at least for me.
I have a friend who finds thongs comfortable though and she isn’t flat, I don’t know why.
No. 2501163
>>2501158It just feels like I have something stuck between my ass. I always remember that I’m wearing thongs, but I never remember that I’m wearing my slips kek.
So much so that when I wear a long dress I just prefer not wearing anything.
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>>2500537I’m sorry but I just don’t believe this for normal men. I think a good portion of men are non-exclusive pedophiles but 14-year-olds literally look like this
No. 2502015
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If it means women are allowed to voice discomfort being around certain races of men, then the current rise of mild racism is positive. About a year ago when it became okay to be anti-Indian a lot of women were brave enough to share they had bad experiences with Indian moids and it has become acceptable to not want to be around them because it's unsafe. This is a gigantic improvement over the past where you had to avoid the elephant in the room during the Rochdale grooming gang case. I want this to spread to Russian men, middle Eastern men, Eastern European men, Korean Men, African men, South African men, Japanese men, blue collar British men, Northern Irish men, and possibly the Germans (I haven't figured that last one out yet).
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You shouldn't actually blow your nose, you should instead suck it back in and then spit it out. Easier, less messy, doesn't require of tissues, doesn't leave your nose chapped and burning red.
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At this point I’m convinced that anyone who makes being a “narcissistic abuse survivor” their whole personality has a personality disorder themselves. Like if everyone you encounter is a narcissist there’s a common thread there and the common thread is you. If a woman tells me her ex was a narcissist I’m more inclined to believe her, but if a man tells me his ex was a “crazy borderline bitch” I automatically assume he purposely seeks out obviously traumatized women to abuse and use for sex because he knows that no one will believe them.
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>>2502015How could you forget Latino men. They’re the worst of all
No. 2502174
>>2502168And if you date him, everything you do and say will be disregarded as you being an ebil bpd narc. You leave him? He's gonna be posting to r/bpdlovedones about how the seggs was soooo gud but you were sooo toksique.
If everyone you encounter is an asshole, you're the asshole. Same with all these sensitive wittle empaths hunted down by le evil narc society. You just know they yell at their own 6yos for being narcs just for refusing to eat their vegetables.
No. 2502188
>>2502015German men are fucking degen. They have forums where they "review" prostitutes ranging from Europe to literal thirdie countries where prostitution is
technically illegal.
No. 2502723
>>2502168My unpopular opinion is that narcissists, psychopaths and all other sorts of Cluster B personalities are both really obvious and really easy to deal with, and average people deal with these types easily. Most people recognize them for what they are within a day or two.
Most people with those disorders are not unique or charming in the slightest, and their forte just seems to be brute forcing through people until they find one lonely person without self esteem to exploit. It requires zero intelligence, charisma or people skills. It's why the most BPD trainwrecks just seem to have passive meek agreeable men around them and every conniving male delinquent seems to be grouped with an older, lonely agreeable friend he leeches off. There are a few exceptions, like when one is in a position of power over you as an employer. But they literally just seem to burn through people until they have an abuse-harem of the same sorts of people I described above.
I can understand teenagers falling for some delinquent manipulative dropkick, but if you're falling for that shit after the age of 20 then I'm sorry, you're just retarded. The conversation should be reframed away from "abuse survivor" that makes one out to be a passive
victim, towards addressing whatever psychological weakness allowed yourself to be abused in the first place.
I blame pop culture for pushing the Patrick Bateman psychopath image instead of the more accurate one, where he's some divorced crackhead working night shift at a factory. They're not some hyper-charismatic dark force that target and abuse normal people, they're bottom-feeders that prey on the already vulnerable.
No. 2502760
>>2502723except there's awkward or mundane predators or psychos everywhere and millions of well-adjusted normies that have either defended them or been complicit in their behavior. and some "vulnerable" or anxious people have picked up that someone is off only to be shamed by more normal and successful people than them. many normies like to keep up the status quo and their comfort zone. most people can learn how to manipulate successfully…and almost everyone can lie, too. in fact a lot of history, leadership, and communities would look way different if most normies ousted anyone on that spectrum you talk about. most that get away with it aren't even particularly charismatic nor intelligent.
it's also really ironic how you say "pop culture" when it's actually a basic pop psych point to hyperfixate on stuff like being able to tell immediately that someone is a psycho or narc, it's maybe not as bad as body language experts because some things are true - some of these people do give signs, ignoring that most people aren't informed about them - but still pretentious.
No. 2502772
>>2502168"Narcissist" is the new boogeyman term the same way TikTok zoomers will scream "racism! troonphobia!" at the randomest shit like a streamer eating cookie dough on stream. It's scary how easy these "empath" types will turn all morally justified to treat you like utter shit after deciding you're an evil mean narc for breathing in their direction. I remember asking one of these "hyper empaths" what she meant when she sent the most confusing email and then she just refused to elaborate, out of nowhere claiming I was a cerebral narcissist and so she was just "giving me a taste of my own medicine". She was also a raging bippie too so that checked out.
>>2502723Personality disorders stem from repeated abuse during childhood that more than often involves very stunted social skills as a result. That's why they navigate social communication and interpersonal relationships so badly or immaturely as adults. To an average person who had decent understanding of those things growing up, they'll look at the very least a little kooky and insane. I agree, anyone who claims to have been
victim of a narc's clever psychopathic cartoon manipulation is probably a little socially stunted themselves. Not their fault and all but they should at least get help to navigate that shit too
No. 2502781
>>2502168It should be a badge of honor to get called a narcissist by one of these annoying self-proclaimed empaths. Or a crazy borderline bitch by a moid. It just shows their projection.
They always make you sound cooler than you actually are with all the cartoon tropes they put out. Like damn, I'm a scary evil narcissistic demon who manipulates everyone I touch and sits on top? If I was my life would probably be so much better and I wouldn't be a wagie or something, who knows.
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Chiikawa is just modern copied artwork of the tamagotchi charas
No. 2503099
>>2502417>What should they do instead anon?Get literally any hobby! I was thinking of specific people i know in my example who do in fact have cars and their own apartment/houses (we're not American) so they're not doing nothing because they can't afford going out. They grew up this way and live it the same as adults.
>this seems weirdly specific though?Like I just said, yes my example was based om real people I know lol it wasn't that deep, I just think these people would have nearly exactly the same life with a disabled child I'm obviously not saying they should actually get one
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>>2503248Don't these exist in Africa? There's also an Indian group like that called Gulabi Gang.
Here are some articles about the Nigerian group
https://dailytrust.com/vigilantes-empower-members-against-rape/?utm_source=chatgpt.com No. 2503284
>>2503272Sanitize your links kek
>>2503266Self-diagnosed I presume?
No. 2503377
>>2503266The disorders come packaged with an inherent lack of self awareness. It's why when they get strung out on drugs and are in a terrible life position, they still think of themselves as kings.
Plus it's a disorder that comes packaged with low intelligence, all the research into it has shown a not-to-insignificant link between ASPD and low intelligence. The same link exists with obesity too. There's certain populations in society with 4x the rate of sociopathy, and wouldn't you know it, they're less intelligent, poorer and more fat than everyone else.
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>>2503382Probably all this shit as a child kek
No. 2503396
>>2503368I… don’t know why we’re arguing about my diagnosis. I can’t do anything about what I got told I have. I wasn’t diagnosed with anything
while growing up but I talked about my childhood in therapy. I don’t know if that’s a mistake or not?
>>2503382I haven’t done anything absolutely terrible as an adult. It’s more retrospective?
No. 2503416
>>2503396You implied you got diagnosed properly with ASPD and NPD. From what you're saying now you don't have it then. If some bogus psych said "hurr durr you sound like you have two incurable pds" because you told them you had a shitty childhood then they're just straight up wrong if you don't qualify for the criteria or didn't qualify as a child. And if you did qualify and did do violent and
abusive things as a child then well that obviously sucks to be you
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Sociopath anon with diagnosed ASPD, serious question, what is your cluster B kind's version of "love"? When you "love" people, does it just feel like admiring a very useful swiss army knife from your perspective? What kind of people do you like? Do you care about personalities, or is it all "how useful is this person to me"? Do you ever commit acts of altruism? I'm trying to grasp an idea of how you view the world.
No. 2503448
>>2503436I agree with you. I've also seen a lack of willingness to engage in opposing opinions and belief systems in my generation (younger millennial) and the generations after me. Especially online. It's like you're expected to maintain an ideological purity and never listen to people who you disagree with or might have
problematic beliefs. And the way I see it is that I shouldn't be afraid of encountering a different opinion? Either the other argument is complete dumbshit and I come through with my beliefs strengthened, or there really is something to the other side and I need to do more research. I'm just sad that it feels like many people my age and younger don't trust our discernment and therefore don't test it.
No. 2503449
>>2503406Kek it’s not like I’m going around IRL telling people I have ASPD and NPD obviously. I’m talking about it because it’s an anonymous imageboard. My point in commenting was to say that people can’t always tell when someone has a cluster B disorder. You can see it IRL too. Even BPD can be covert, as much as anons might say otherwise about bippies.
>>2503421I said I haven’t done anything terrible as an adult, but I still seem to meet the criteria just. There’s a broad range in there. I’m not a rapist and I don’t rob shops or whatever because I’m not an idiot.
I don’t identify with ASPD because I think the whole concept is retarded. Hence the “apparently”. It as an idea is pretty much some psychologists going yeah this is the thing that people who break the law have and yeah I guess they lack empathy too. It’s dumb. There isn’t any proper psychological theory put into it. There are people who meet the criteria just for committing crimes when there are a lot of different circumstances someone could end up doing this. There are people who would just scrape by not getting a diagnosis even without an ounce of empathy. Or because they only like hurting animals but like that’s it’d only be one check. So what’s the point? What even is ASPD defining? Nothing. It’s basically a nothing diagnosis. I don’t really think it exists. I only identify with the NPD diagnosis really.
>>2503427I don’t know if asking me is going to give you an accurate idea of how everyone with this diagnosis thinks. I’m sure there are people who are like you are thinking and people who aren’t.
No. 2503461
>>2503448I wonder if, at a young age, there'd be a "mental fitness" class specifically on willpower the same way there's physical fitness classes in schools, if it would have any effect.
I guess it'd be stuff like cognitive behavior therapy techniques?
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>>2503449But what if I want to know your perspective on people and relationships from YOUR perspective, at least? I don't remember the diagnosis rate of ASPD in women being very high, so I'm just curious of this opportunity to ask anyone with the disorder about their mind. For starters, are you feeling okay? Do you care about people beyond their ability to be useful for your life?
No. 2503517
>>2503462I think I’m kind of an outlier but sure!
>are you feeling okayI feel pretty good.
>Do you care about people beyond their ability to be useful for your life?Something that took a lot of self-reflection to come to terms with was that I’ve always just decided I was what I wanted to be. So if someone asked me this question a couple years ago I would be appalled and say obviously. Which is why I don’t agree with “people with x disorder have no remorse” because in my case, well yes I don’t think I need to change but I like the idea of being a good person. Coming to terms with my habit of pathologically lying to myself and others to change my motives and feelings to be more nice made me feel crestfallen.
The truth is I don’t. It’s just that sometimes their use in my life is in their best interests. I want them to be the character for me I want them to be. Often this involves their happiness to a degree because I like seeing people happy and doing well most of the time, but they need to fulfil that. If they’re not that then I have to change them or they’re just unnecessary. Their interests are secondary unless I take a liking to that part of their character. But I think most people are like this, just on a smaller scale, eg “I want my best friend to like the same things I do” or “I don’t like this about my bf/gf”. It doesn’t feel like “not caring for them” either, and I don’t perceive it as callousness but occasionally my actions will display my philosophy. If I liked someone but not the people they hung around for example, I would probably try to plan a way to remove them from this person so I could have them as just my friend. If I don’t like someone in my social circle, I’ll make something happen so that no one else likes them either. I don’t think this is actually that terrible - most people display behaviours like this either less frequently or without coming to terms with it. I know this for certain especially because if I become close to someone they’ll exclude any behaviours considered indicative by my psychologist or even find it funny or plan it with me. But I suppose the salient point to a psychologist is that I do this frequently and time and effort + it displaying with other behaviours. I think this whole thing is more aligned with NPD? But I think I’m just more self-aware than the average person. “Personality disorders” are the actions and acknowledgement. Even the criteria represents this. Even by psychologists’ standards, you can’t just “think” like a disorder, you have to “do” on top of that, or be capable of being honest about actions you are aware are unsavoury. Let alone end up there to get a diagnosis in the first place. So I’d say thought patterns like this really aren’t too uncommon
Before you asked if I love, commit acts of altruism, or care about personalities, which is funny because I think I do this… insanely more than the average person.
No. 2503785
>>2503637I would say there is some correlation given the media landscape is heavily influenced by American and Japanese/Korean culture.
High quality media often presents its characters in a more presentable light. These characters are often the ethnicity of the nation involved in its creation. I would suggest it's more about cultural exportation than pure wealth. Smoke and mirrors, basically.
No. 2503799
>>2503789Kind of a leap of logic, but I think the most exposure moids get to Indian women are from the news about some natural disaster or some sort of abuse situation.
More likely to see a real woman or God forbid an older one. Compare that to anime where they are literal children and graph above explains the rest.