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No. 238081
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Just shower and bee urself fam
No. 238092
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>>238083Haha, same.
I have an extremely attractive friend with a hourglass figure, petite body, and a cute face. One time, we were asked if we were ever insulted and she looked genuinely suprised. She said that absolutely everyone was nice to her. Me on the other hand- countless insults from guys and even my own parents.
It's fucked. Society is look driven. If anyone says looks dont matter, they're a liar who is probably attractive themself.
You can still get somewhere, but you have to work harder to get people to notice you for what you are and see beyond what you look like. Meanwhile, people born with good looks can coast around and never worry.
Sorry for the rant.
No. 238118
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I've been told i was ugly so often that i've lost count already… (the most creative insult i got was "You're even too ugly to be a prostitute!")
>never kissed, dated or had sex
>only 3 friends, whom i rarely see
>looking a lot older than my age
>too lazy to study -> bad grades
All i do is stay up late, spend all my time on the internet and eat junk food, so i've gotten fat as well.
And i don't think it's going to get better any time soon, because i'm not doing anything to change. Only very old men sometimes hit on me, but guys my age have never shown any interest.
I'm not a NEET, i even have a small weekend job, but oftentimes i don't even brush my teeth, so i'm only turning more repulsive. (I also wear the same clothes for like a month)
My only goal would be at least no longer be such a loner in college, i've basically already given up on ever getting a date.
No. 238145
>>238138but the psychological damage from all the bullying when I was younger is there
really relatable..
No. 238158
>>238092>If anyone says looks dont matter, they're a liar who is probably attractive themself. Well you know how it is anon. Someone who just ate a big steak for lunch will have no understanding for the people who are starving in the sewers.
looks / genetics are your base variable and everything else (confidence, feeling comfortable in your own body, anxiety, etc) is a direct derivative of this base variable. If your looks are bad then it is like starting a formula 1 race from the last position.
>Meanwhile, people born with good looks can coast around and never worry. To me the worst thing is that they can get away with pretty much anything and even be forgiven for it.
>>238145>>238138yes this is what nobody ever thinks about.
Bullying is fun to bullies but they cannot see that they are destroying people for life and leaving them to be dysfunctional when they grow up. They are inflicting horrible damage which later often cannot ever be cured. I wish the world was not such a cruel and shit place.
>>238077now to join your circle:
>uglyyes
>fatskinnyfat
>boringyes+
>a virginyes (but I don't mind about this)
>unemployed or even a NEET?no
Do you have…
>no friendsyes (especially on new years eve when nobody sends you a text this is very evident)
>no hobbiesyes
>shitty grades?no (was always a dweeb)
No. 238159
>>238138I'm
>>238091 and same anon, I think people underestimate the lasting effects of bullying.
No. 238162
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>>238125>>238132>>238138>puberty has been kind to me>Luckily for me puberty was good to me>I grew up and puberty has been very kind to meSorry, but i can't help but feel bitter about this.
Puberty is like your last chance, but if it has passed already and you did't change…
I get that being called ugly as a kid is bad, but knowing i'll be consider ugly and told so for the rest of my entire life…
No. 238185
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>ugly
I don't know what average people think of me but I think I'm sort of ugly, but in a normal,boring way. I definitely don't fit in the current western beauty standard. Don't get me started on acne scars that ruined my face and body because it's the side effect of a treatment. And I have a horrible resting bitch face and a huge forehead and can't do anything about it by getting a new haircut.
>fat
No I'm underweight so I almost look like a skeleton, I have no tits and ass and I don't know what to do be closer to the average. Eating a lot doesn't work all that much and I suspect a specific health problem but doctors aren't sure yet. It makes it hard to find nice clothes and be more fashionable. Plus I look a bit younger than I am because of that and people treat me like a brat and not like a young adult. sometimes.
>boring
I feel like the normiest people my age find me boring, at least at first, but idk
>a virgin
I never had a bf and I'm a kissless virgin that men seem to avoid at all costs. I don't care all that much about being a virgin but I feel more and more like I'm repulsive because nobody wants me.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
I have a shitty retail job but I'm a student so it's only part-time. Couldn't find a mandatory internship because there's nothing I could get in my city and I can't move somewhere else because I'm poor. So it makes me feel like shit because mediocre students could find interesting internships really fast and they're immediately taken seriously by any potential recruiters.
>no friends
I'm friends with fellow weebs and fujos and I love them. I get along really well with some coworkers too but I don't see them very often these days.
>no hobbies
Weeb shit for the most part.
>shitty grades?
I could have had better grades if I were actually in good conditions to study. I'm living with my family and basically it's super noisy at home and I have no private life so I'm not free to study calmly as much as I would like.
So I was a huge loser before, until I went to college. I met new people who were less judgmental than middle school and high school, had more freedom and money and more confidence. I'd say I'm getting a bit better but I'm still seen as a weirdo by some people who don't really get to know because I'm still a bit awkward. I'd say something that made me a loser was the lack of money. It just prevents you to get some opportunities, you can't hang out with most people because of that, you can't buy nice clothes, shoes, skin care or makeup so you don't look a good as you could, etc. It's really frustrating. Anyway overall I don't feel like people disrespect me because I'm ugly or anything, but because I give a bad impression overall, idk why but many people think I'm a dumbass for the most stupid reasons.
No. 238187
>>238162Well anon, if it makes you feel better I was just 'less' ugly post puberty. I got a nose job, had some moles removed from my face, changed my hair and am getting fillers on my birthday. I look cute now. Not super stunning or anything, but I'm still pretty damn happy with it.
It took a lot of staring into the mirror to figure out what the biggest culprit was for the face I had, I had to learn how to do my makeup and spend a shitton of money on experimenting with clothes but honestly it was worth it.
I don't recommend going the full monty with PS but if you're really as ugly as you say you can try changing one thing at a time and working towards getting better. There's lots of ways to look good, you just need to find your niche and see what suits you instead of trying to shoehorn yourself into being like someone else.
No. 238197
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>>238185>I'm friends with fellow weebs and fujos and I love them. I get along really well with some coworkers too but I don't see them very often these days.I'm so jealous. I wasn't going to post in this thread because my chronic lack of friends is my only serious loser trait, but I'd kill for a nerdy girl gang. I assume you met them in college? It's too late for me to go do nihongo at uni so I think I'm out of luck.
No. 238199
>>238197Yeah we met in college because we all study or studied Japanese. But even among the ones studying Japanese we were some of biggest nerds (and losers for some of us) so we got along really fast. I hear people meeting weeb friends in cons and such events but I'm going to guess you have to be very extroverted for it to work because I'm still too awkward to meet new people during cons, unless they're my friends' friends already.
I don't think it's too late though, I passionately talk about some semi popular manga and video games I love with some of my coworkers when we're bored, it's kind of like bonding over you favorite mainstream tv shows with coworkers, we don't get heated debates over which pairings are the best or anything. I wish you good luck anon!
No. 238200
>>238197I reversed searched the image you posted and after reading the short description:
Princess Jellyfish centers on Amamizukan, an apartment building in Tokyo, where the only tenants are otaku women, and where no men are allowed.I'm going to watch the anime and probably read the manga too. Thanks anon.
No. 238203
>>238202> I havent read the entire manga yet but it's way longer than the anime.Perfect, just what I needed. Thanks, I will watch the anime first and then binge on the manga.
ありがとう！
No. 238208
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Who else pulled a reverse ugly duckling?
>used to be a really cute kid who got complimented and doted on all the time
>animorphed into an ugly potato that can't even look at the mirror without flinching
No. 238212
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>>238208did you gain weight, anon? or did you just genetics in general fucked you over?
No. 238214
>>238125>"you look better when you don't smile" That sounds awful. For me it’s been “you look weird without glasses” and “you always look so serious, it doesn’t hurt to smile”
Like shit, if I’m that bad looking without glasses I guess I’ll be stuck with them the rest of my life.
No. 238225
>>238221I see it sometimes, but it usually applies to lazy deadbeat mothers who actively avoid working - not mothers who are having a hard time finding a job.
The standards for 'loser' as a mother are very different to being a regular loser anyway, because your priorities are so different. The things that make someone cool can easily start seeming selfish as a parent, and similarly things that were uncool make you seem responsible now.
No. 238230
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>are you ugly
Average on a good day :(
Sorry if this seems humble-braggy, but one time a girl told me I could be a model and I got so exited, but then she followed it with "Oh, not because your pretty! Just because you never move your face" and I still haven't recovered.
I need to shave my head because my hair is too matted and fucked up to save it, but I have the side profile of an incel and I'll look like a fucking political cartoon without hair. I've also been stuck in almost-fat purgatory for pretty much my entire life, feels very not-great.
No. 238238
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I am
>ugly
>fat
>boring
>dumb
>mentally ill
>no friends
I was lucky enough to find someone decently attractive that thought I was attractive and had good personality so at least I'm not single. But I got 0 friends in real life so there is that. Not like I miss it too much because I can't bring myself to open up to other people anymore. It's just too much hassle after years of being backstabbed and treated like a emotional/financial labor machine.
No. 238245
>>238204There are some faces that can't even be 'rescued' by professional makeup, hair styling, etc…
>>238218>>238238But at least you won't die alone.
>>238209That's true; especially since kids generally don't even care that much in elemenary school, it's afterwards, when they are teenagers they just start to get really cruel…
No. 238287
>>238219depends where … in my country one average wage can not support both partners and a kid, so staying at home as a mom doesn't get you the SAHM status but it's frowned upon and people judge you for it
i'm a loser in many ways but i'm too bothered to talk about it. sorry for ot
No. 238329
>>238208I had this, I was a cute happy kid who got the apparent asian heritage of the familly ( not much of a trouble, just a few " chintoc, chingchingchoong " when I was in primary school), My mother's friend would say that I was so beautiful that I looked like a baroque madonne ( my only problem was that I had already pubes and hair every wear in the beginning of primary school) .
Than I grew and my skin became dry and with zit and big pores, my nose grew à la Pinocchio, my shoulder became huge and my tits are so small in comparaison . I have big face line around the nose to the mouth and eye bags, my chin also became large and I almost have a jowl. The worst is that from the front I'm not so bad but my profil id like a asian dude with a fake" Jewish nose" on, flat with just the godamn nose like a nasa spaceship ready to go. Also when I have a hat on kids think I'm a dude
No. 238387
>20
>NEET, dropped out of school when I was 14. Have my GED at least
>Can't drive
>Never had a job
>Never had friends beyond bf, no online friends for the past 4 or 5 years either
>Leave house 2 times a month max, sometimes not at all
>Insecure to the extreme but probably above average looks, I am good at makeup + styling myself
>Need to lose 10-20 pounds but I love sweets and junk food. I am ~135 and would be happy with 125, ideal would be 115
>Diagnosed with depression, anxiety, and a mixed personality disorder with traits from schizoid, paranoid, and borderline personality disorders.
>No productive hobbies. I like to do my makeup and dress nice and not leave the house, watch movies, look at JAV, and cook food. Nothing else.
No. 238391
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Are you…
>ugly
Average looking at best, ugly duckling usually.
>fat
I'm not in shape at all just that skinny fat, belly is too big, ass is too flat, thighs too large, like random character models mashed
>boring
eh I'd say so, mixture of shyness and resting bitch face don't help
>a virgin
I've held hands and kissed, thats about it
>unemployed or even a NEET?
nope employed and working a dead end job
Do you have…
>no friends
Very few, shitty self esteem and I tend to isolate myself
>no hobbies
Netflix and cry, just reading and borderline nerd shit
>shitty grades?
Super average never tried never cared
I know what I can do to help myself and get better I just don't try.
pretty sure its depression or something tbh
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>Ugly
I think I'm average. But not pretty when people take pictures of me. I've been called a walrus before…
>Fat
Attempting to get in shape. Got some flab here and there.
>A virgin
Yup. But I'm not gonna rush it. Never had a boyfriend or been kissed (unless you count the cheek or hand).
No. 238418
>fat
>unemployed
>no friends
I used to have two amazing friends but shit got weird when it became a love triangle and drama started to build up, which is really impressive because i didn't do a single thing and yet this girl managed to create a shitstorm so that's that, we don't see or talk anymore. Now that I don't have them I think I would try harder to bound with my classmates, which is a good way to see this whole thing.
>boring
I wasn't this boring, and for sure I have a lot to say but… I'm just exhausted. I don't try anymore to change anything, and my delusions to change the world, my fucked up country and it's politics. completely unmotivaded to connect with people and improve myself. I'm young yet I feel like grandma already.
I have this classmate and she is so cool to me, she is extroverted, stands up for everything, always says what she thinks, calls out everybody, speaks loud and clear, and even though I find it annoying from time to time, I admire her energy so much. Man if I had just 1/4 of her passion.
>hobbies
I do have them but what is the point if you don't have a strong, charming personality to back you up.
>average grades even though I try my best lmao
No. 238420
>>238417sorry for sage, but same anon.
The fact that I'm more on the masculine side and everyone assumes I'm lesbian is probably the biggest reason, but also I realize that I'm just overly not that interested in romantic relationships and the moment they fuck up I just quite the whole thing to avoid stress, so that means 0 experience.
No. 238493
>>238481Yeah I'm trying to change but I've been doing it slowly as soon as I started college. I said earlier that one of my problems was that I was poor but I also live with my controlling family so I have no private life. Now I have money and more freedom so:
>I gradually bought new clothes that were finally my size (I only had things that were too big and could only buy a new pair of shoes each year, also I wasn't allowed to get a bra or wax anything because according to my mother that would make me a slut)>I bought makeup and skin care products that weren't part of a specific treatment little by little, and I'm still trying to improve when it comes to makeup>I try to know a bit more about what's popular with normies so I can't keep up during a conversation>I avoid talking about my complete lack of love life because once you do people start questioning you on a lot of thingsThat's basically it but it changed a lot of things for me.
No. 238494
>>238481Nope, I just came with terms that I'm never going to be perfect so I just roll with what I have. I'm
>>238238 for reference so I'm not NEET/unemployed and I have a partner so I can't be that bad, but I'm not exceptional on anything and I'll be forever average. I'm just fine with an average boring life.
No. 238495
>>238481I don't, but i absolutely want to.
I even made a 'Changing your life' thread here on lolcow, but it seems that everybody here is miserable and nobody has a plan or solution on how to…
No. 238529
>>238417for the people in this thread that aren’t virgins, can you explain how you even met someone? would you consider them attractive at all?
almost 23 and still a handholdless virgin… at least i have a job but i still feel like an ugly weeb all day. i have no idea how you’re even supposed to meet someone if you don’t like clubbing.
at least i’ve been trying to improve my appearance by getting better at makeup and wearing nice clothes, but at heart, i feel like i still look the same as when i was an ugly 15 year with ugly glasses, ugly baggy clothes, and an awkward, super shy personality.
No. 238540
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>>238077>UglyYes; my facial features look extremely "sharp", my teeth are crooked and I have a chin like pic related
>FatNo, I'm underweight, I'm a fucking skeleton with a lanky body. No boobs + no ass, same posture as Shaggy
>boring/a virgin/a neetYes
>no friends/no hobbies/shitty gradesUsed to have friends but they all left for uni, I'm also a uni student but I'm too autistic to make new friends. I have shitty grades because I'm lazy.
>That feel when you look like a witch, and not in a good wayI wish I was pretty
No. 238542
>>238529>for the people in this thread that aren’t virgins, can you explain how you even met someone?Internet, both times
>would you consider them attractive at all?Kinda, the first guy had really attractive features but a weird mouth that sort of ruined it, objectively speaking. Of course I found him hot though. He had a pretty nice body too, but his penor was kinda small.
Second one had hairy micronipples and bitch hips, and a big nose with bushy eyebrows. He still had an interesting face though, and his smile was really pretty. Most of his looks were thanks to how he dressed and carried himself though, he didn't give a shit about anyone but himself and acted like it was a privilege to be with him. He got laid a lot in his teens despite being kind of a munter.
I wonder if the same applies to girls, I've seen a lot of girls with objectively average faces that have long hair and dress in stylish clothes and guys go absolutely bonkers over them, and some cute ones who get ignored a lot because they aren't dressing for their shape or have bad hair.
No. 238543
>>238542Where or how exactly on the internet?
And how does one start out with dressing better, wearing makeup,…?
No. 238556
>>238548I'm
>>238540 and I'm French too; we should start a French loosers club
No. 238557
>>238529>for the people in this thread that aren’t virgins, can you explain how you even met someone?>>238282, here
You have to be social, both online and IRL. There's no way you'll ever meet anyone if you're afraid to make a conversation with anyone. In my case I thought of dating like sending job applications. So I flirted with people and made an online dating profile and sent messages to people I thought are attractive. If they rejected me or didn't respond, so what? There are billions of people on the planet. I also met one of my ex's on a forum, we started emailing each other and it turned out we didn't live too far from each other so it worked out. But none of that would've ever happened if I didn't try to reach out to people.
>would you consider them attractive at all?I've consistently dated people that are either average or more attractive than myself. My current GF is at least 50lbs lighter than me and average looking too. If I were to rank her among the most facially attractive women I've ever dated she wouldn't be at the top, but she's kind and very intelligent so it more than makes up for that.
No. 238558
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>ugly
Yes, extremely. Been told so multiple times, even mistaken for a man.
>fat
Former ana-chan, now BMI 26. I feel so disgusted by my own body.
>boring
I don't have any interests besides the internet (and it's not like i could tell anybody that i browse lolcow…)
>a virgin
Yes, kissless. And i'm already 22…
>unemployed or even a NEET?
I'm a student and work part-time, but it gives me horrible anxiety.
>no friends
Two from high school, but they also moved on.
>no hobbies
None.
>shitty grades?
Never failed an exam, but always only study the bare minimum, so usually Bs and Cs. I simply can't be assed to put in any effort and do better.
I also have the hygenie of a drug addict, eat like a pig and don't sleep.
Has anybody managed to get out of loserdom? If so, how?
No. 238559
>>238077>uglyI'm a 3-4/10 without putting any effort. If I'm wearing contacts, some make up and fitting clothes I can maybe get to kinda cute if you're squinting. I'm used to being sort of ugly and pain but I'm afraid it's going to get much worse since I'm hitting 30 soon (too much time on boards really affected my self esteem about my looks as I age)
>fat60kg for 163cm so, average to kinda chubby but not fat. Lost 20 kgs in the last few years, tho.
>boringNot sure about that. I have some hobbies but I have to push myself not to slide into TV binge watching all the time.
>a virginNah. I had the sex already.
>unemployed or even a NEET?Used to. Dropped ou several time and I'm on my last ditch attempt at a degree at 28. It's pretty pathetic but I'm hoping I'll have at least my degree before I'm 30.
Do you have…
>no friendsYup. I got myself some school friends this year, but I'm sure they wouldn't be my friends out of school. I probably won't hear from them for a while now that we have our internships and then the summer holidays.
>no hobbiesI wish I could at least get back to reading like I used to since it used to bring so much joy but I just can't bring myself, it' s so much effort.
>shitty grades?Not really, I've been working hard this year since I'm on my last chance before being a neet or having to be a supermarket wageslave. The only exam I flunked this semester tho, I cried in front of the teacher and it was humiliating af. Fortunately, I was the last one to attend so nobody heard about it.
No. 238560
>>238559Oh, and count me in the French loser club. Glad to see I'm not alone.
Des bisous.
No. 238567
>>238543First one was through a mutual friend, she met him on Omegle. We were both KHHVs at that point. Second was through /soc/.
And idk anon, wish I did. Do tell me if you find out though :(
No. 238576
>>238338thank you, it's better to try to
laugh about it then to cry about it
>>238342sorry I'm kind of ott sometime
>>238527Yep ! Huge nose and chintoc really made it obvious
>>238556>>238560>>238568 Sign me up too !
No. 238685
>ugly
My face is nice, but it has some acne thats almost gone now with light scarring, Im currently trying to lose weight
>fat
120 lbs and 5 foot, not fat but not perfect body either
>boring
A bit, I can't hold conversations and are super awkward due to autism, not even cute awkward, cringey awkward
>a virgin
Yee
>unemployed or even a NEET?
One of the only things im prideful about is my career, despite being 18 I have two jobs, one 20$/hour dance teacher, the other working in nursing home, I go to school in august and have scholarships
Do you have…
>no friends
Yeah, I try staying in touch with friends from high school but they don't seem to be interested since I moved a few towns away
>no hobbies
I like reading and sewing and gardening, I dont have any "useful" hobbies though
>shitty grades?
I make good grades and took honors, I get kinda slacky when I go through depression episodes but my family is super pushy and I went to the type of school to call your parents if you dont turn in an assignment, and when that happened my entire family would bombard me with calls and messages to turn that shit in or work harder
No. 238813
Are you…
>ugly
No, but I used to think I was. I'm probably average.
>fat
Nah
>boring
No, but again I thought I was. My amount of activity is pretty average.
>a virgin
No
>unemployed or even a NEET?
No, I have a part time job while I go to uni. I work in intramural sports, of all things.
Do you have…
>no friends
I'm not really happy with my friend groups, but I realized having my best friend is the most important thing to me
>no hobbies
Nah
>shitty grades?
Yes, my grades were shit. My GPA was less than 2.0 the beginning of last semester after failing multiple classes. I managed to turn things and get good grades last semester, and my grades this semester are looking to be just as good.
Here's what helped turn things around for me:
>New best friend
After getting a new best friend, I realized how toxic and unsupportive my old best friend was. I'm not really sure why my new best friend wanted to be good friends with me considering they have a lot of other friends. But this helped so much and helped stabilize my life a lot. I realize it was just mostly a lot of luck so I can't really tell you how to replicate this.
>Doing yoga
Yoga helped me get moving which improved my energy levels and motivation levels a lot. I'm still not doing a ton or improving that much but it really helps keep you balanced.
>New medication
I am diagnosed with ADHD, and my new medicine works wonders for me. I get shit done without being too nauseated. I take it whenever I need to focus, like when I have a test or paper due, so it ends up being about 2x/week for me. It probably would help a lot of people out even without diagnosed ADHD. It's done more wonders for me then my anti-depressants ever did.
I'm not perfect in the slightest and I think I have a long way to go. Habits take a long time to form, but as long as you can do things one step at a time, it's really for the best.
No. 238816
This thread explains why there's so many nutters here
>>238529Anon, you don't meet people you like through clubbing.
My first bf I met at summer camp.
My second bf's was my ex's best friend. He met up with me and then asked me out after we were talking.
My current bf I met at work. I went on a couple of dates, and then I asked him out.
You can also try okcupid. It's pretty easy to meet someone if you are a woman and take decent pics.
>>238543Guys don't really care how you dress as long as you aren't wearing dirty clothes. Wearing makeup is super helpful in transforming how people look but you shouldn't rely on it to find a partner if you're not committed to wearing it all the time. I was super self conscious about how I looked so I tried to wear makeup every day, but I couldn't keep it up.
No. 238847
>>238077>uglyi was considered beautiful when i was ana but rebound fat and premature ageing has been very unkind.
>fatyep, and tall. the incredible bulk.
>boringyes and i compensate in the worst way by exaggerating everything the minute somebody pays attention to me.
>a virginno, but i’ve been celibate for five years because i hate myself and am afraid of rejection. i fall for people who will never ever like me back (usually straight girls or gay men), at the moment it’s my manager who is gay & engaged. think i have intimacy issues but don’t know how to overcome them.
>unemployed part time min wage job. got a good degree + a masters but the job market is oversaturated.
>no friends i’m so weird and awkward and embarrassing and don’t know how to change. i just want people to like me. don’t know how to act.
>no hobbiesvideo games don’t count.
i used to be an award winning, exhibiting painter but it’s too expensive in my current situation and i’m too sad and tired nowadays to touch a paintbrush.
>shit gradesbuggered my chance at my masters and ended up with a merit. nobody wants me for further study or work now. sux.
No. 238878
>ugly
I am short, but with wide shoulders, strong arms and legs. I also have hyperpigmentation and acne scars. I have an androgynous face.
I am black with an uneven, yellowish brown complexion and very frizzy hair.
>fat
I'm overweight but being muscular helps. The only people who've called me fat to my face are children.
>boring
I've been told by people that I'm funny. I do not know if they're making fun of me or not.
>virgin
I am 25 and never kissed lip to lip. I see myself as like an asexual bisexual. I mostly have crushes on girls nowadays. I would hate for someone to touch me since I look ugly. I collect the social media of girls I find attractive and fantasize about waking up as them.
>unemployed
I have an ok job in my field. I'm too unambitious and anxious to get certifications and move to something better after a year or so.
>hobbies
Hobbies are vidya, horror, and true crime. I am terrified of driving so I can't participate in many "adult" activities on the fly unless I get an Uber or my mom or friend to get me.
>friends
My only true friend moved but I keep in contact. I have another old friend, but it's a one-sided friendship.
>shitty grades
I focused only on grades in college to get my dream job. I didn't get it. it was in a sector of my field that attracts "normal" attractive people. I finally got an interview, but i had to travel and wound up getting rejected. I cried, drank, and self harmed a lot in my last year of college and the summer following since I struggled to find a decent job. And all of the regular, non shy, and attractive people in my class got them easily.
No. 238889
>>238845lmao More people nowadays are having less sex.
https://www.tomorrowsleep.com/magazine/people-having-less-sexThinking it's okay to be a virgin as a young adult/adult doesn't make you an old lady or prude.
No. 238892
>>238889It's still not that normal to have no sexual experience into your 20s. Probably less than 1% of 25 year old women these days are virgins.
If you're a virgin into your 20s, chances are you are religious, asexual, or unattractive. If you are looking for sex and you can't find any, that kind of makes you a loser, yeah.
No. 238913
>>238902Why are you making this into a gender thing? A guy into his 20s who can't find a girlfriend is definitely a loser too, no matter how successful or educated he is. You don't think men also want validation? Also being lesbian/gay and also an adult virgin is becoming a weirder and weird thing too these days when it's becoming safer to be out.
My #1 priority in life is to get married and have kids. I think a lot of men and women think the same way I do.
No. 238920
>>238913> My #1 priority in life is to get married and have kids. I think a lot of men and women think the same way I do.But it sucks when us who don't are constantly told that we're losers and that we need to change our minds. I'm a virgin and I plan to stay that way yet all of my stupid coworkers and friends keep playing matchmakers with me. As soon as others learn that you're single and even if you tell them that you're not looking for a relationship, they don't get that you really mean it.
And just as this
>>238914 anon said, when a woman is single she is a loser, a cat lady, a bitter spinster. When a guy is single he is a macho bachelor guy who is smart for escaping marriage and just messing around.
>>238889Don't worry the anon you're replying to is probably a single mom type that will live in a trailer park and make ends meet with coupons and blowjobs.
Let her be a modern and promiscuous whore if that's the life she chooses.
No. 238947
>>238077
>Are you ugly, fat, boringI was but grew out of it. I mean I didn't become gorgeous because you can only do so much, but I lost weight and I'm now pretty much average/good looking in terms of looks.
But growing up ugly and unpopular kind of messed me up and I don't really know how to be relaxed and cool around other people. It's like I'm constantly looking over my own shoulder when I interact with strangers to make sure my loser personnality won't slip through.
Anyone else with the same problem ?
I also feel like I can't for the life of me find a real partner. I had boyfriends but it didn't work out, or I was way too clingy for them. I thought I hit the jackpot with my current one but he just revealed to me recently how fucked up in the head he is (probably why we hit off so well)
I'm in my mid twenties and recently someone joked about me getting married and I legit snorted because I can't even imagine someone wanting to spend their entire future with me. It's that bad.
>Also let me in the french loser club svp :/ No. 238979
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>>238977French girls being skinny and well dressed is a meme. Europeans are getting fatter and fatter every single year.
No. 238983
>>238979Also this. Thousands watch her just for the "french/paris style" she slabs underneath her videos, yet if you're honest, she actually looks less than fortunate, people just don't want to realize that.
Saged for samefag
No. 238988
>>238208this is me
today i found a picture of myself as 7 years old
>skinny>tan>face looks cute then i hit puberty
>skinnyfat >ugly man face >not tan because i live in a cold country sometimes if i wear baggy clothes people think i am transgender or a dude it feels bad man. Especially because all my friends are gorgeous rich skinny white girls
No. 238997
>>238988holy shit this post is so 100% me that I'm paranoid that I wrote it unconsciously. Except my friends aren't rich but skinny and gorgeous to boot. nice to meet you anon
>>238972not even french or american or even from an english speaking country but the french are hideous tbh both inside and outside.
No. 239002
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>>238979OT, but if that's true, then why are germans always portayed as the fattest in movies?
No. 239007
>>239004If she was from a true 3rd world country she probably wouldn't even have any internet… maybe she's from another part of europe?
But good job at proving again how you're absolutely not rude and xenophobic at all…
No. 239010
>>239009I don't care how ugly other french posters heres are, I know they're probably similar to the average amerifat.
I didn't think saying "sure thing" would
triggers you guys so badly but it's not very surprising considering how insecure you all sound.
No. 239014
>>238961Lmao
>>238969We're just very dramatic and depressed. Living in a cold-ish country surrounded by other french people will do that to you.
No. 239042
I don't think I'm a loser. I'm employed, have accomplishments, had great grades, have a bf, live on my own, travel, drive, and have some friends. People tell me I'm pretty and compliment my clothes.
But I'm fat.
I feel bad for it all the time and it makes me feel like a loser. It's the first thing people attack. When I was in the dating scene, if I broke up/rejected men they would retort "Well you're too fat anyway" or "You'd be so beautiful if you were thin." It's dogged me all my life.
I've had so many weight loss attempts. It seems to come and go in two year cycles. As in, I work really hard and lose ~80 pounds and usually come just shy of my target, and then the following years I gain it back and be miserable for the next 2 until I hate myself enough to want to lose again.
I've never had a healthy relationship with food or weight. The last time o reached out for help when I was suicidal about it, the social worker literally ditched my appointment for Bojangles (fried chicken). One part of society doesn't care about my weight, and the other part does and is mean about it.
It's confusing, hurtful, and I feel alone in it a lot.
No. 239064
>>239059The last time I lost weight I had a pretty easy routine. It was when I was in grad school when I lived across the road from my college's track. I'd run two miles in the morning, go to class (which included some fitness electives), went to the campus gym to lift, and run 2 more miles at night. Didn't have a bf so I didn't have to worry about meals.
The part time job I had was one where I was on my feet all day.
A lot of it is major lifestyle changes I didn't adapt to very well.
No. 239097
>>239094You're from a third world country, yet the thing that truly pisses you of is "ignorant first worlders" thinking you might be poorer than you actually are…?
This isn't tumblr and your comment had absolutely nothing to do with the original conversation/'fight'
Also, 4 billion people still don't have internet access, most of them living in third world countries…
No. 239136
>>239097>You're from a third world country, yet the thing that truly pisses you of is…Yup. What, you think that's too petty and I should be more worried about other things? lol
Your comment and your retarded fight wasn't on topic either, and tbh if there is one thing more tumblr than complaining about how ignorant you are, it's to take on a patronizing tone and speak on the behalf of an ~oppressed group who doesn't have internet uwu~ like you're doing.
No. 239196
>>239136We're just stupid americans, so thanks for
educating us, anon!
I totally forgot that spoiled brats with rich parents can also exist in otherwise poor countries
No. 239358
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Are you…
>ugly
I think so, i have some UwU rare recessive traits due to ancestral inbreeding but that's fucking it. My body has good bone structure but my face is kinda marfanoid
>fat
almost. I have an eating disorder that i'm too embarrassed to admit, so my weight fluctuates and i am really saggy in areas. it's aight in clothes but
the loose skin and cellulite in bizarre areas makes me rage. also carb belly
>boring
pretty much. used to be 'not like other girls' but now i'm too boring even for that
>a virgin
no. I was a massive attention seeking whore. but i might as well be lately, my eating retardedness already isn't kind enough to me to make my body fuckable, it's destroying my libido too
>unemployed or even a NEET?
unemployed and studying shit that is way beyond my inteligence. like, i'm honestly being realistic here. I panic about it a lot
Do you have…
>no friends
except the occasional autist that i'm nice to
>no hobbies
i do 'art'
>shitty grades?
fluctuates as much as my weight
No. 239465
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I'm so stupid.
Just now i quickly went to a friend (but we're not that close) since i accidentally left my watch in her car. She was sitting with 2 friends in the garden, smoking and she asked me if i wanted to join.
Of course retard me immediately said No, not even Thanks no, just No…
That could have been my chance to finally get in contact with others, but again i destroyed it…
The weather is so nice today. My little sister is playing outside with her friends, my parents are also out and i'm sitting alone at home and it doesn't seem as if it get's better anytime soon…
This summer i will turn 23 and i'm lonelier than ever
No. 239472
FYI some neckbeard linked this place on /r9k/ in case you're wondering about the uptick in toxic shitty posts
https://boards.4chan.org/r9k/thread/44403198t. a female friend who browses /r9k/ to dox creeps and expose them to their friends and family
No. 239569
>>239002because stereotypes from RTL
>>239558because reasons
No. 239712
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The absolute state of this thread
>>238988>people think i am transgender or a dude it feels bad man.Why don't you wear makeup anon? It seriously helps a lot
>>239035Top kek
No. 239826
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>>238077>uglyi look ok in the mirror, but i have really flat face and hooded eyes so i just look tired all the time
>fatno, my body is the only thing i think is ok
>boringyes, but im trying not to be
>a virginyes, i literally get so cockblocked i dreamt i was on a camping trip with a bunch of cute boys i couldn't get in the pants of.
>unemployed or even a NEET?yes
>no friendsone i barely talk to :(
>no hobbiesi used to draw and rock climb a lot, now i don't even have the patience to watch tv
>shitty grades?once has good grades, now they're shite
No. 239848
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Are you…
>ugly honestly not with makeup
>fat 2/3 momokun grade
>boring yes
>a virgin no I live with my boyfriend of almost two years
>unemployed or even a NEET?
Neet supported completely by bf
Do you have…
>no friends yes
>no hobbies I have a few hobbies and go to the gym 4 times a week
No. 239901
>>238979Everything about french culture is a meme, but
>Europeans are getting fatter and fatter every single yearOnly old people and "Europeans"are getting fatter.
Sage for ot pol posting.
No. 239935
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>>239932>9/10 with makeup>skinny>likes to crack jokes and go on spontaneous trips>not a virgin>not a NEET>a lot of hobbiesPosts in the loser thread…?
No. 239985
>>239970>>239971You're most welcome to try it too xoxo ♥
P.S. My favorite brand of bleach is "kys cunts" but you may find another one to your liking. Make sure to do it soon and stream it too ^_~
(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE) No. 240001
>>239992ffs, calm down. i haven't even posted ITT yet and i def qualify as a loser, i'm a tall 28 year old with small tits who's never been kissed and lives at my parent's house with a shitty part time job at a library and i literally have no life but lc.
i think you should stop a-logging because it's ridiculous.
No. 240009
>>240001If you're already 28 you should no longer fall for bait and write passive aggressive stuff like
>lmao atleast you're making it obvious why you're a loser.Very mature, especially seeing as you consider yourself to be a loser as well and hurtful to all the other 'loser' anons on here…
Just report her for a-logging.
No. 240010
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>>239926Living off your boyfriend because of chronic anxiety and depression after getting gang raped at 13 makes me a very terrified loser.
I’m lucky to be with someone caring and lovely but I’m not improving his life or my own by not just killing myself and letting him live happily with a better partner.
Despite of the DDLG propaganda relying on someone for everything isn’t cute
That and the getting fat part.
I’m working on everything but for now I’m a below average looking woman in my early twenties with no idea what to do with myself.
It’s fucked
No. 240020
>>240001> i think you should stop a-logging because it's ridiculous.I only mentioned bleach twice and that was as obviously ironic as her humblebragging. Fine, ban me. But you should also start banning anons that clearly act against the OP.
I'm taking a break from lolcow anyways.
>>240001> loser> shits on other losersThis makes you even a worse person. You're like that bullied kid that bullies others hoping to get into the cool crowd. Whatever.
No. 240048
>>239932OP here. I honestly wasn't expecting replies to this at all seeing as i probably appear as a basic bitch, which is understandable. I just wanted to contribute and join the discussion. im not trying to humblebrag, and if i appeared that way, I dont know how I could word my sentences differently.
>>239972thank you for replying in a calm way. is it really though? I was starting to think it was just me. maybe there was something I'm doing incorrectly. I do suck at being outgoing and ive been trying to force myself to be better at it. I always see people on facebook with their large group of friends from elementary school until now, even. I envy that.
I'm also near deaf (probably should've mentioned that earlier, i tend to have denial). It's a lot harder to bring that up front to new people since its not a disability you can outright see. I had bad anxiety due to that. (thinking oh no what if I have to say "What" a million times and people just getting annoyed). A lot of times people think im not listening to them and I have to explain myself. And then people just distance even further. this is with meeting new people. it has nothing to do with my current friends that lack to keep in touch. As for being a NEET, I was for awhile because getting a job required hearing. even retail jobs, you have to answer phone calls, answer questions, etc. Telling my employer didn't accommodate much and usually people just subtly laid me off.
>>239961you're over thinking it.
No. 240117
The worst part is having lived as both a beautiful girl and an ugly one at different points of your life and knowing how deeply being ugly affects your life. When I was a teenager, I was blissfully happy, cute af, got a lot of attention from both men and women, confident, passionate about various things like art/drama/singing/fashion/film/programming/charity work and I just had an overall great life.
When I became depressed and stressed due to school/college/work/bad home life, I comfort ate and started to yo-yo diet to lose it which made me gain more. I ended up gaining 50lbs in total that I can't seem to lose, only maintain. My once flawless skin became covered in acne and acne scars. I lost all interest in absolutely everything and don't have a hobby because I berate myself for not being an expert. I literally have nothing going for me and have no joys in life.
Here are all the shitty things that come with being a fat and ugly loser imo:
>being unable to make friends (others only care about people they're attracted to)
>not being able to go shopping for clothes without breaking down
>using "tricks" to hide my bulging stomach, tree trunk thighs, arm/neck fat (with scarves, baggy clothes, long cardigans, tying things around my waist, wearing my hair down all the time etc.)
>seeing myself in photos I didn't take and thinking "What the actual fuck is that hideous creature? Why did they take a picture when my lizard teeth were showing? Is that what my nasty, fat back looks like?"
>thinking everyone is looking at me when I eat in public or run for the bus and thinking about how gross I look
>feeling completely naked leaving the house without a full face of makeup
>having partners compliment me and it actually makes me feel worse because I don't believe them
>turning the light off during sex and not really getting into it because I can't stop thinking about how I look
>reject amazing opportunities like holidays, parties, events
>thinking about how everyone sees me all. the. time.
>having a voice in my head holding me back from everything in life
>being fat holding me back from everything in life
Depression, not even once.
No. 240134
This thread is kind of nice as a way to vent, at least I know I'm not alone.
Are you…
>ugly
Very, I've been called ugly since I was a kid. I have a square jaw, protruding chin, massive bulbous nose, non-existent lips and a huge forehead. I try not to care but it honestly pisses me off that I got fucked so hard in the genetic lottery since I know things would be different if I was prettier. Most of it is so bad that not even plastic surgery would be able to make a significant difference.
>fat
Nope, though I'm really unfit. I'm grateful that I'm not overweight but because being thin is my only positive trait I've gotten kind of obsessive about it.
>boring
Yeah, no hobbies or skills pretty much. I play video games sometimes but I'm really bad even though I've been playing for years.
>a virgin
Kissless and handholdless, plus lesbian so the dating pool is tiny and filled with girls 100x out of my league. It doesn't bother me that much though, I'm too autistic to handle being around people for that long.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
NEET and my parents have begun to resent me for it. I don't have any marketable skills for a job and I sperg out when I have to deal with people, and I'm too stupid for secondary education.
Do you have…
>no friends
Yeah, I haven't had friends since I was a little kid. Haven't talked to anyone outside of my family in like a year.
>no hobbies
All I do is stay in bed and play games.
>shitty grades?
Definitely, I can't focus on anything and I'm a natural dumbass so I struggled with school my whole life. I've sworn off doing anything academic ever again.
No. 240135
>>240117I feel you anon.
I was never super popular, but at least had a nice circle of friends and i was skinny (even though it was because i starved myself).
Now i've gained 60lbs and feel horrible. I can't stop eating either, since food became my only friend and happiness.
I can't go out, i don't have friends, i'm too paranoid to go to class and i'll probably never get a bf. When walking through campus i'm nearly running, since i feel so stared at. I already wear super wide shirts and still feel self conscious even at home im front of my mom.
Next week the new semester will start and my only thoughts are
>what should i wear to cover my fat (especially since it's getting warmer) and>how should i wear my hair to distract from my double chin and fat cheeksugh…
No. 240621
>>240408
>the only people in this thread should be literally deformed or severely disabled in some way. the rest of you just sound lazy. get your shit together and stop complaining about things you can change.What? Isn't the whole idea of a loser someone who could have their shit together but they piss it away out of laziness? You almost sound like you think being disabled makes one a loser kek. Loser doesn't necessarily mean victim of circumstance at all. Often quite the opposite. I don't see many of the farmers on this thread making tons of excuses or crying victim, they're just admitting that they feel like losers and why. You seem uncomfortable with that.
>>240584Even here you admit ugly but non-deformed girls exist, just that they can clean up ok. This just isn't enough for some people, but people are also capable of believing they're ugly but still liking themselves. It's OK. You don't need to convince all ugly people they can be pretty with a little covergirl.
No. 240623
>>240408You sound like an incel
>hurrdurr girls have it so easy, just spend hours doing your hair and makeup, eat less than a 1000 kcal, then you should be fineSome faces simply can't be saved and not eating if you're already feeling depressed to begin with..
People with disabilities or deformaties aren't losers, they just had very bad luck.
The rest of us here acknowledges that it's our own fault that our lives are shit - and this is what makes you a loser, not doing anything to get better, even if you could.
Obviously not in the way you said, looks are important but aren't everthing, most of us also have a shitty/boring personality and that's what makes us an outcast.
No. 240637
>>240623>You sound like an incelActually the posters here sound like incels.
Incels are the ones who are always saying they are hopeless and there's nothing you can do about your looks.
No. 241013
>>240408you're 100% a man
or at least someone who thinks she looks ok but is as ugly as the rest of everyone in this thread
No. 241084
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I refuse to believe people in this thread believe fixing looks is gonna fix everything. I have done the best I could to try to look decent and I have gotten compliments and I still can't interact well with people. The same people will say incels don't look that bad but have horrible personalities and that's why they are incapable of having good relationships and mental health. It has to be either incels/robots themselves thinking being a pretty female fixes everything or vapid stacies with easy life thinking it's just so easy like duh apply makeup and it solves everything.
No. 241181
>>241084this is so true.
Sometimes it is best to understand that you don't really enjoy beeing around other people and that you don't enjoy the things they like. Some people are just not likable and don't like others either.
No. 241187
>>241109i'm not an incel, just because i'm pointing out the truth. this thread is full of pathetic women who base being a "loser" around men and get pissed when others point it out. if any of you spent atleast half the time working on yourselves inside or out, as you do pitying yourselves you'd be better.
female incels are the fucking worst, and i find it ironic that only a week or so ago people were claiming you can't exist because "men will fuck anything" but here we are.
No. 241240
>>241226don't overthink it. get to know what feels good for you via masturbation/toys and then when you're fucking, switch positions if it's uncomfortable/meh and keep positions and go harder and experiment with different speeds if it feels good. he can do the same thing if some positions are especially pleasurable or especially uncomfortable for him. s that's all it really takes imo, idk if other farmers have any other ideas.
people who are shit in bed don't care what feels good or bad for their partner and just insist on doing whatever is easiest for them the whole time without reciprocating, from dudes who go in dry and bash your cervix to starfish to pillow princesses, they all have that in common.
No. 241803
>>238208Haha yup. I was a cute little blonde toddler. As an older child I was dirty blonde with a face full of freckles, tan skin and a healthy body weight. I started puberty when I was around 10 and my appearance has spiraled downward ever since.
Now I'm literally everything OP has described. Ugly, fat, a NEET etc. I'm in my early twenties and I've only held hands with a boy once (it was a platonic gesture) and a guy kissed my cheek once while greeting me (he was instructed to do it and I almost freaked out after it happened).
It's been about six years since my life went to shit but I'm kind of resigned to the fact now. I'll probably kill myself when both my parents die so I won't end up on the street. Oh well.
No. 241824
>>238077I pretty much fit every catergory..
Are you…
>uglyYes, it's been hinted at a few times that I look like a guy; Some can't tell whether or not I'm a female or male.
Even a guy told me I look like a dude. My friends tried to be nice about it but I got the hint.
>fatI've been told several times that I'm "skinny", Personally I don't see it. Wish I were skinnier.
Currently 5'2 and a half, 120lbs.
>boringYes, I have no hobbies outside of browsing the internet and I can't hold a conversations for more than 15 seconds in real life
because I really don't have anything to talk about. That and I'm pretty closed off and recluse.
(people figure out quickly that I'm boring)
>a virginYeah..never been in relationships, never been kissed or hugged. Heck I never had any guy friends or had a conversation with one
(with the exception of talking to a few online) Most men in real life will either insult or give me a disgusted look when they see me, one got angry when I accidentally made eye contact them.
>unemployed or even a NEET?Haven't left my house in 6 months, I'll let you figure that one out. haha. As you can probably tell I'm a deeply insecure.
So faulty and defective that I don't have the will to leave the house.
Do you have…
>no friendsI used to before they got bored of me and started hanging out with other people.
I ended up being a loner during senior year and freshman year of college.
>no hobbiesLike I mentioned before I don't have hobbies.
>shitty grades?Mediocre would be a better fit. I probably would've gotten better grades if I actually had
the motivation to study or do anything.
No. 247147
Today was one of the worst days i've had since a long time.
I'm currently doing an internship at a school and today was my turn to hold a class. In the evening i also have a class at uni and had to hold a presentation today as well.
I initially thought putting 2 things that'll make me anxious on the same day, so that it'll only ruin 1 instad of 2 days.
I've known about this since a week and have also already been nervous all these days. I only slept lke 4 hours and when i woke up today my shirt was drenched in sweat. I have IBS, so a huge part of my anxiousness also stems from "will i have to go to the toilet and if i need to will i be able to???"
Right before the lessons my nervousness actually went down so i thought i can do it but then the principal decided to give the other students and i a speech about the school and a workshop (which we later found out is held by him and costs 300 bucks). He ended up talking for over an hour, so i have to hold the class next week, meaning i have to be anxious for 7 days more…
I should have told him that i don't have time because i planed everything out already etc, but i thought he'll only talk for 5-10 minutes which would have been fine - and, i was also too shy to say something. I had to concentrate so much to not just break into tears because i was so frustrated, on the one hand because of the principal and on the other because of myself, why can't i just talk?! My inabilty to just open my fucking mouth causes me so much misery.
In the evening when i had to hold the other presentation i was shaking so much, it's so embarrassing. Other people tell me that they can't tell that i'm nervous, i guess because of my resting bitch face and because i never really stutter much, but my hands are barely able to hold my notes and my legs feels like it just gives out any time… And all that even though it was just a talk of 5 minutes, simply summerizing the 2 chapters we had to do for homework…
I really don't know what to do, there's barely any single day i'm not stressed or worried because of some irrelevant shit. I never really failed anyhing, so my fears are all baseless, but nevertheless i can't stop feeling like shit…
No. 247230
>>238077>uglyI think I look like a female moot, which sucks because moot is a qt boy but switching that to a chick doesn't do too well.
>fatOverweight yes
>boringI'm shy and not good in most situations but I don't think I'm boring with the right people
>a virginnope I am still not too fat or ugly to not have a boyfriend
>Unemployed/NEETI'm unemployed despite easily being able to get a job
>no friendsI willingly stopped talking to my two friends about 3 years ago
>no hobbiesI like to foster animals but due to circumstances I can't do that at the moment.
>shitty gradesYeah, even when I try. I'm just a brainlet
No. 247428
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Are you…
>ugly
probably. the only guys that've shown an interest in me are very very autistic types (sweaty fat anime geeklings, weird old men, literal retards, etc).
>fat
skinny fat. with clothes on i look relatively normal but when they're off? i have a gut. also my breasts are saggy.
>boring
definitely.
>a virgin
oh of course
>unemployed or even a NEET?
nah, i'm currently a student.
Do you have…
>no friends
yes and i've given up on making friends actually. too dull to get them.
>no hobbies
i used to like to draw, read actual books, write, go on late night wikipedia dives. now i just shitpost on various chans and fap. the occasional manga may grab my attention
gonna try and set some sort of schedule for myself this summer to rectify this but, i'm probably gonna squander my time lmao
>shitty grades?
no, actually. i've got straight a's right now,
(then again i'm at a community college.)
No. 247480
>>247477Long shot, but where were you from and which country did you migrate to?
Is it the lack of friends, companionship or a sense of belonging that is eating you out?
No. 247486
>>247480I'm in Germany right now. I can make "friends" and socialize and meet new people but it never lasts long or develops into a deep friendship because people soon realize how boring I am.
My therapist says that I value myself based on how other people value me (100% true) and that the hole in me will only be filled by me learning to love myself. But I don't know how. I don't know what it means to love oneself, I don't see anything lovable in me. I spent a really long time actively hating myself and most of my internal monologue is me calling myself a disgusting waste of space. I know this is bad but I don't know how to stop. I don't know what to replace that with or even how to replace it.
I'm my worst enemy but I can't get away from myself in order to heal. I really don't see another solution, for as long as I live I will hate myself.
No. 248488
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I am the ultimate ultra NEET
>23 no job
>didn't graduate high school
>no driver's license
>no friends
>entire family is redneck trailer trash
but I'm turning it around:
>applied at grocery store within walking distance
>focusing on getting driver's license
>studying for GED
>going to build up good credit score with responsible purchases
>going to enlist in US Military and get a college degree
No. 633439
File: 1600472501053.jpg (35.9 KB, 540x405, tumblr_ab7a0f7cca59d9586ce867b…)
>ugly
Yes, mouth breather face and ugly skin (acne, pih, keatosis pilaris, strawberry legs)
>fat
Since I hit puberty and only growing bc use food as comfort
>boring
Can't socialize for shit, probably autistic
>a virgin
Lost it in a fling in college to a desperate guy
>unemployed or even a NEET?
NEET for 3 years since dropping out of school. I'm not happy but compared to before it's much less stressful. I know I'll eventually have to go back to school, but right now I want to be on break from life. The only productive thing I'm doing is practicing for drivers license.
Do you have…
>no friends
Drifted apart for the one friend I had, too embarrassed about my situation to reconnect.
>no hobbies
Gardening, painting, reading.
>shitty grades?
I had high grades in highschool to almost failing grades in college. Concentrating in classes was impossible and I hated living around stranger people.
No. 633449
File: 1600474222903.png (174.71 KB, 800x826, Sunako_Nakahara_Chibi.png)
Are you…
>ugly
Not necessarily but I am fat which makes me ugly. I have a masc face too, bushy eyebrows and pimple infused chin with peaches fuzz upper lip and curly haired chin… but I feel with makeup I am beautiful.
>fat
Yes, 300 lbs
>boring
Absolutely. I never do anything fun. I never leave my house unless it's to see a movie or to eat
>a virgin
Nope. Got a boyfriend.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
No
Do you have…
>no friends
Yes because I was a BPDfag for a while now I realize I'm probably just a retarded autist. Either way, I used to have one friend a year and then they'd eventually realize I'm fucking awkward and leave. Now I only have 1: my boyfriend who i assume deals with me because I "fit his needs"
>no hobbies
Every time I start one I fail within a week or two.
>shitty grades?
Never. I was such a loser that I basically only did homework and the pressure from my parents forced me to do good.
Obsessed with gore, needing to be alone, autistic with music, never hanging out with people even if they invite me to hang out, once I get a new friend they slowly realize I don't do anything
No. 633452
File: 1600474497255.png (95.23 KB, 275x272, 1593636638454.png)
>ugly
I've never been called ugly but I only get called pretty in selfies (obviously so staged though) or from older women and women of color
>fat
Yeah I'm like 5'6 and 180 lbs / 80kg which sucks, I wanna lose weight again :/
>boring
I'm interesting but I'm boring to talk to bc I'm so reserved. I'm scared to make jokes to people because most of my jokes aren't normie-friendly
>a virgin
Nope
>unemployed or even a NEET?
2 part time jobs
Do you have…
>no friends
Kek like one. I pretty much only have my boyfriend and one friend back home who I message quite often.
>no hobbies
I only game and do yoga, other hobbies are hard for me to stick to (anime, painting, working out)
No. 633459
File: 1600475402403.gif (773.67 KB, 540x304, 1597059924726.gif)
>going to be 26 in a month
>dropped out of college twice and still has no degree
>no driver's license
>stuck in retail
>getting kicked off of mom's health insurance in a couple months
I'm working on the driver's license since that's the key to getting better jobs/possibly trying community college but I feel so pathetic.
No. 633564
File: 1600484079060.jpeg (71.21 KB, 640x640, 2939033201.jpeg)
Are you…
>ugly
Yes, and no. I was never the prettiest person in the room but not the worst one either. I just didn't know how to style my hair/makeup. I would say my body is nice. A guy in highschool told me one time "When are you going to get pretty?" but he was an uggo too so idc. I feel better about myself now that I'm not going for that every girl Stacy look.
>fat
Again, yes and no. I'm not huge but I'm chubbier than I used to be. Skinnyfat would prob describe me best. Maybe considered fat by ana skellies.
>boring
Probably. I basically go to work, sit in bed all day browsing the web if I'm not working, play games and sleep. I have no partying stamina and hate crowds and noise so I never go to clubs or bars.
>a virgin
Yes, and never dated anyone seriously. The people that have 'dated' me were very one-sided crushes and I didn't know how to turn them down. I'm in no hurry to go out and lose it just to say I did.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
Nope, I have a job that at least gets me out of the house. I still live with parents tho and saving to move out of this town or country.
>no friends
Yes, this one bothers me more than anything else here. I had a small group of friends in high school but after I graduated I gradually drifted apart from them and haven't had much luck making new friends as an adult. I really felt it this year when I turned 22 and no one except family members texted me happy birthday.
>tfw it's 2020 and you say this is the year I'm going to go out more and be more social
>no hobbies
I make art but I'm too afraid to post it anywhere.
>shitty grades?
My grades were average at best. I don't care about grades at all I just needed to pass my classes.
I need a care-package plan for how to get out of being a loser. For the people who met people outside of work/bars, where did you met them? Are there any apps like dating apps for making friends that you've had any luck with?
No. 633595
File: 1600486545242.jpg (196.89 KB, 1156x1110, 3563.jpg)
>deformed face, skinny fat
>no life skills, socially retarded, no accomplishments
>can't drive
>never been employed
>few friendships/relationships, none of them have lasted
>stuck in community college
>severe mental issues, degrading brain, paranoia induced agoraphobia
>poor physical health
life is passing me by but i'm too much of a coward to off myself, i just want to scream
No. 633622
File: 1600491936619.jpg (173.2 KB, 500x500, 1581472541671.jpg)
>my face has been compared to men and to horses
>just turned 27 this week
>only my mom wished me happy birthday
>no friends
>have never been in a relationship >am only not a virgin because I accepted an offer of a FWB relationship hoping it would become a real one (spoilers: it didn't and he ended the FWB arrangement after two weeks because I was bad in bed)
>only hobby is drawing and I'm usually too lazy to do it
Finally found the perfect thread for me
No. 633683
File: 1600502238353.png (794.43 KB, 1280x720, wow she is literally me.png)
Are you…
>ugly
I'm below average
>fat
medium but with fat tits, broad shoulders and no ass. I'm the letter P
>boring
I've been told those who get bored easily are boring, so I by that case, yes.
>a virgin
i have a child.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
no
Do you have…
>no friends
yes. I still don't know why my only friend stopped talking to me fter i told her I was pregnant, even before she had grown distant
>no hobbies
no
>shitty grades?
yes, but working on it
.
I literally dated anyone who asked in high school, and it gave me a bad reputation. I Also live in a small town so everyone just talked about how slutty i was before I even lost my Virginity. I was depressed and admittedly a whore. I had no friends so scrotes wanting to fuck me was the only interaction I got freshman-sophomore year. but then i met my friend, it was nice having her around. People still talked shit but i cared less now that i had her. then she got a boyfriend and dumped me for him. I didn't graduate, I worked retail and moved out of the house at 17, I met my current bf who is the father of my child, we dated for 3 years before i squeezed a kid out. WE still live in this small town. He gets teased for dating me cause I was such a hoe. We're moving out of this shit town before my kid starts school and uh I am rying to finish high school late, I'm close to graduating. I'd like to think of myself as a reformed loser. But people still talk shit and post passive aggressive stuff about people who had kids after school, etc. I i wish I could make friends when we move to a new city.
No. 633891
File: 1600526842429.gif (168.11 KB, 350x312, 1599542511001.gif)
Are you…
>ugly
I think so but I think that's primarily because I'm overweight.
>fat
Yes. I am also built like a door.
>boring
I don't know, depends on the person who's asking.
>a virgin
Yes but I have a boyfriend as of a month ago wink wonk.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
No
Do you have…
>no friends
Yes, I really wanted to make friends this year but covid-19 ruined it. I'm hoping to lose at least 50 lbs before I go back in the spring so I can make a good first impression.
>no hobbies
I have plenty of hobbies, it's getting out of bed to do them is where I run into trouble.
>shitty grades?
Mediocre at best. I'm striving for straight As, as of this semester.
I'm in limbo right now honestly. I like the slow pace of my life, in that way I am a content loser. I just want to coast and build myself to be a person that I enjoy.
I am fortunately in a spot where neither my family or job were hard hit by covid and so I want to take advantage of the time that I have to really improve both physically and mentally.
No. 633994
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Are you…
>ugly
genuinely no fucking idea, pretty sure i have some form of eating disorder or body dysmorphia so i cant give an unbiased answer. i’m a skinny/athletic feminine white girl so i probably am conventionally attractive but i don’t wear any makeup besides mascara and am far from having instagram/kardashian face.
>fat
lol nope, was underweight for years
>boring
probably, i find it near impossible to get invested in things
>a virgin
never even kissed
>unemployed or even a NEET?
i was a neet for years. was going to get a job and go to college but then corona took that away.
Do you have…
>no friends
i have a few but they hardly know me cause i’m scared of opening up
>no hobbies
i have hobbies but it’s not like i’m good at them kek
>shitty grades?
i’m out of school but got pretty decent grades in HS despite being depressed and sleep deprived
No. 634015
>>238077Are you…
>uglywith no makeup, i believe i am also im very unphotogenic so 11/10 would say yes
>fatyeah, been gaining weight really fast
>boringm not sure, i tend to over hyperfocus and fixated on things for a sec and then find it very difficult to get invested/committed in things back. i guess u could say im like a hollow shell
>a virginphysical affection makes me uncomfortable
>unemployed or even a NEET?neet
Do you have…
>no friendslost a best friend recently….AND lost a pet best friend too… I do have friends but they're all far away too busy with their own lives
>no hobbiesi have mental illness, kinda hard to keep hobbies when u feel like kys every 2 second no?
>shitty grades?was a pretty good student….teachers pet even
No. 634103
File: 1600543835473.jpg (93.38 KB, 313x258, 1574457472056.jpg)
Finally found a thread I can relate to.
Are you…
>ugly
I think I'm ok, although I look ugly in most photos. If I could change, I wouldn't. I feel like being not that attractive builds character.
>fat
Yes, ever since I started taking meds.
>boring
Yes.
>a virgin
Yeah, but I don't care that much about it.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
Pathetic 26 year old NEET who can't even drive.
Do you have…
>no friends
Yes.
>no hobbies
I have hobbies (writing, drawing, reading, music, animu), but I can't stay interested in them. I'm also tired all of the time.
>shitty grades?
Did ok in high school. Never went to college, because high school sucked so bad. Didn't have many friends, and even ate lunch in the bathroom because nobody wanted me to sit with them.
I feel like I'm getting dumber, so even if I went to college I would probably get shit grades.
No. 634174
>ugly
kind of, but i could be aight with clear skin and some makeup
>fat
nah. im skinny enough to be smaller than average, but not small enough to be some thinspo bitch
>boring
probably. i used to be a lot more interesting, but i upsell myself by pretending im into niche shit, even though i stopped being into niche shit ages ago
>a virgin
no.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
i'm in school and not fucked with employment until im physically fit enough to stand up for 8+ hours. maybe get my degree and full licence first
>no friends
I have like 2 good friends, one of which is becoming more and more distant, the other has autism, the rest are school friends who don't really count but we interact occasionally, and my partner who I GUESS is my friend
>no hobbies
i go to the gym, is that a hobby? is writing a hobby? probably not. I have no interesting hobbies, im fucking lazy
>shitty grades?
i don't care much for grades. C's get degrees and I still manage regular b's and sometimes a's in my good subjects. but I really don't think people should care as much as they do
No. 635568
File: 1600720383279.jpeg (83.22 KB, 750x614, 9EAD005B-ECE8-4052-AD8F-ADB17E…)
Are you
>ugly
Yes I could be a lot prettier
>fat
I am skinnyfat I need to tone up before I get cottage cheese thighs
>boring
yeah all I do is stay inside because I have nothing to do and I’m depressed
> a virgin
No
> unemployed
Yes I need to get a job eventually but my crippling anxiety prevents me from even thinking about it
>no friends
Only one. I used to have 2 I guess bc I considered my BF a friend but he broke up with me
> no hobbies
Does crying and napping count?
> bad grades
probably failing on online courses in college. I failed many classes before might even get booted from taking more classes
No. 635803
File: 1600743874429.jpg (102.26 KB, 726x480, 1593397133919.jpg)
Are you…
>ugly
I think so. People online usually say I'm plain.
>fat
Never been fat in my life thankfully. I'm lucky to have a fast metabolism.
>boring
Horribly boring personality but only because it's either act boring or risk being considered a freak weirdo. Boring is preferable imo. People don't seem to like the real me.
>a virgin
Yes
>unemployed or even a NEET?
In school. But basically a neet since it's online only.
Do you have…
>no friends
Yes. I failed making friends.
>no hobbies
I have hobbies but they are solitary ones.
>shitty grades?
Bs usually.
No. 636055
File: 1600783076468.jpg (367.25 KB, 2992x2328, sad32.jpg)
Oh boy! A thread for losers! Don't mind if I join in.
Are you…
>ugly
Definitely super ugoo when I was a kid. No one ever gives me any nice compliments about my looks, even by my own parents or relatives. It's sad because my other siblings constantly gets called cute or pretty. I inherited all the ugly DNA. In highschool I was called "pizza face" by guys because of my severe acne. Now I look slightly less ugly because I tried to at least dress well and follow a skincare regime. But I still hate my ugly super asymmetrical and acne scarred moon face, with unsightly jowls, huge fivehead, thin hair, round flat nose and chubby cheeks. I look like Droopy the Dog cartoon.
>fat
Been slowly gaining more weight as I got older. I was told I have high cholesterol level by my doctor last month and if I don't control my eating habits, I may go on medication.
>boring
I guess? To normal people I am super boring because I don't reveal my true self to anyone. I have a morbid and gloomy sense of humour which a majority of people don't like.
>a virgin
Yes. I don't mind. Not planning of ever getting married tbh. I've been bullied and used by a majority of people my whole life. It's best to just live and die alone.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
I do work. But I'm slowly getting demotivated and burnt out by it.
Do you have…
>no friends
I do have one or two friends but we're not that close at all. We only hang out once every 4 months or so.
>no hobbies
I do have a few hobbies. Mostly weeby and artsy-fartsy ones. Honestly, I forced myself to have a few hobbies because I think I'll go mad without em' because I seldom go out during the weekends. I just go out for work, food or running errands.
>shitty grades?
I was brought up by tiger asian parents. I was forced to study hard to get good grades or else I'll bring shame to the family. So yea, my grades were pretty decent. However, I always end up being used by other students during group projects which I hated so much. It's funny though, I worked so hard to get good grades but I still end up in a sucky job, still being used by sucky people. I'm the forever ugly nerd. Someone please save me from myself. Haha.
No. 636080
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>ugly
No
>fat
No
>boring
Perhaps
>a virgin
No
>unemployed or even a NEET?
No
Do you have…
>no friends
Yes
>no hobbies
No
>shitty grades?
I am not a student
Eat my ass
No. 636093
File: 1600785997164.jpg (48.54 KB, 517x497, pinkpeen.jpg)
Are you…
>ugly
I would say overall average, I have a habit of giving myself ugly short haircuts though so that takes a few points off each time I do it
>fat
No, not rake thin but no weight struggles either
>boring
Definitely, I play pokemon go every day and that gets me out of the house more than anything else does
>a virgin
No. Very high body count from back when I was young and much wilder
>unemployed or even a NEET?
Work from home, ex neet
Do you have…
>no friends
Absolutely none
>no hobbies
Pokemon go lol, and watching youtube?
>shitty grades?
Didn't finish school
No. 2128704
File: 1723232343951.jpg (46.06 KB, 563x540, 9f0cef7c50cb775a1a8b20cf865dc7…)
>Are you…>uglywas ugly growing up but not anymore. i'd say i'm average and pretty on a good day
>fatlost a lot of weight from stress, bordering anachan territory so no
>boringno
>a virginlike it's a bad thing. yes but not for long
>unemployed or even a NEET?okay now you got me. i have a job interview next week though
>Do you have…>no friendsonline friends i visit once in a while are more than enough
>no hobbiesi did lose interest in my hobbies but lately it's been coming back (thanks meds)
>shitty grades?neet → no grades to worry about, ez
>>636080gigastacy
No. 2131245
>>238077Are you…
>uglyYes.
>fatYes.
>boringYes.
>a virginYes.
>unemployed or even a NEET?No I have a job.
Do you have…
>no friends>no hobbies>shitty grades?Yes to all three.
No. 2131481
Are you…
>ugly
No, I'm drop-dead gorgeous and easily the most beautiful person in any room that I enter. Strangers have approached me on the street to inquire if I'm a model.
>fat
No, I'm pretty physically fit and healthy. I go to the gym 4 times a week and I go to a Pilates class once a week. I haven't changed clothing sizes since I was maybe 19.
>boring
I don't think so, and I don't think my friends would call me boring either. I have lots of hobbies, some creative and some physical, and I keep up to date with the news and all that so I have lots to talk about.
>a virgin
No, I'm not. I've had sex with a lot of people.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
I'm unemployed right now but I have passive income streams and I'm working towards the next steps in my education.
Even with all that going for me I still think I'm a loser. I kind of hate winners in a way. I've always just preferred to hang around with losers and weirdos and the mentally unwell. There's a lot more to love in a loser, it's like watching an underdog story play out in real time. Losers always have the unique perspectives about things because they live outside the box, they aren't trapped in it like the winners. Besides that, winners are so boring, once you know one you know them all. I think we live in a retarded world, and so to win in this world you have to be a certain degree of retarded yourself. All the interesting, fun, intelligent people are losers, and half the time they can't recognize that about themselves, which endears me more to them.
No. 2132268
File: 1723463601411.jpg (141.59 KB, 1467x2044, GettyImages-185740155-2f8304da…)
Being a virgin doesn't make a woman a loser.
No. 2132518
>ugly
No, I look okay
>fat
No but I don't have a flat stomach and abs because of a condition I have. My body looks fine otherwise.
>boring
I'm a lot of things, boring ain't one of them. Some people may consider me boring if I have no interest in talking to them, that's ok though. I don't think being boring is inherently bad, you're nobody's personal clown.
>a virgin
No, though I wish I was honestly. Took kissing a lot of frogs to find a decent guy and now I have trust issues so I wish I had massive amounts of fuck you money to live in a castle by myself like Enya and never be bothered by the male sex again.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
Nope, full time job that pays pretty well and allows me to slack off a little. I'm no doctor or dentist, though.
>no friends
I have a decent amount of friends, same as most people.
>no hobbies
Plenty of hobbies too, but not enough energy to do all of them now because of work.
>shitty grades?
Nope, graduated with honors for both bachelor's and master's.
I make up for all of the above in being turbo stupid. I have the kind of autistic thinking where I need explicit instructions to complete a simple task because otherwise I'll just sit and do nothing because I don't want to make the wrong choice. I need to consult everyone before I make a simple decision and will actually sit there worried sick about something that doesn't really matter in the grand scheme of things. I am a Japanese corporation of a person. Men love abusing this and have done so many times, sadly.
No. 2133183
File: 1723506761117.jpg (104.85 KB, 1024x1012, 1295.jpg)
Are you…
>ugly
Average but I'm undesirable, and while my face is decent I have no idea how to style myself. I'm not particularly interested in making myself more palatable though.
>fat
Skinny fat, I really need to start exercising
>boring
Yes, and off-putting to boot
>a virgin
Yes but not a total KHV either
>unemployed or even a NEET?
I have a job
Do you have…
>no friends
I have a few but not as much as I would like
>no hobbies
Yep
>shitty grades?
Been out of school for a while
No. 2133482
File: 1723520306784.jpeg (123.4 KB, 1080x1080, IMG_7049.jpeg)
Are you…
>ugly
mediocre looking with godawful body dysmorphia that makes me think I'm hideous beyond repair
>fat
at least I'm not fat, if i were I'd kms
>boring
absolutely
>a virgin
No
>unemployed or even a NEET?
Employed as wagie
Do you have…
>no friends
Does my bf count? Pretty much all my irl friends stopped contacting me other than him and I'm bad at reaching back out
>no hobbies
I'm trying to find them but pretty much yeah, everything bores me too quickly except for my extremely maladaptive addictive hobbies, which I need to stop!
>shitty grades?
I got a 3.7/4.0 gpa at the end of college and didn't even know I did, so no
No. 2133508
File: 1723521711551.jpeg (78.77 KB, 828x796, IMG_6005.jpeg)
>ugly
semi ugly. i get told i’m pretty but only old men hit on me
>fat
skinny fat
>boring
get told that a lof
>a virgin
khhv
>unemployed or even a NEET?
couldn't get a summer job. going back in fall
>no friends
all my friends forgot about me. noone wished me happy birthday
>no hobbies
my hobbies are my only saving grace
>shitty grades?
was getting As then got depressed and anxious and i'm now on probation
don't know how to change my life unfortunately. feels like shit is gonna get way worse down the road for me
No. 2133540
File: 1723524803056.jpeg (40.72 KB, 612x408, IMG_0280.jpeg)
>Are you….
>ugly
More mid than anything. I’ve gotten equal comments on how ugly and beautiful I am. I feel like I could be a 6 if I had some plastic surgery, braces, and jaw surgery. But I haven’t been too lucky with money.
>fat
I feel like as I get closer to 30, it’s harder and harder for me to lose weight, but I’m not “big enough” for Ozempic. Guess I have to do it the old-fashioned way.
>boring
Absolutely. I never have anything cool or even appropriate to say for small talk. Anything beyond the weather is a struggle for me. I don’t keep up with modern entertainment, so I don’t even know what most people are talking about. I wish I was a more rebellious teenager who got into trouble or a more adventurous adult. I’ve always been afraid of what my family would say to me or about me if I did fun things. I mean, I grew up in a strict Muslim household.
>a virgin
Of course. In fact, I’ve gotten to the age where it’s considered gross and unusual for a woman to be a virgin. So I have fake stories just in case. I just say I’m not lucky in love.
>unemployed or even a NEET?
Currently underemployed as a babysitter and house sitter, but I’m planning on going back to school. I have my classes set; I just need to move out, and then I can try again at becoming a proper adult. I’ve spent the last 3 years being a NEET, and I only got worse off in everything.
>Do you have…
>no friends
I don’t think I have had friends since high school. I have online mutuals and a few attempts at making friends with the kids I had projects with, but nothing lasting. No one to really talk to and meet up with. I’m lucky if I see my old high school friend once a year. I fear I might be too old and weird to try again. I have very little in common with people my age, and it’s my fault for being a “late bloomer,” aka loser NEET.
>no hobbies
I try, but I always devolve into doom-scrolling. I’ve tried working out, rollerblading, painting, making my own music, programming, biking, but I’m never consistent. Especially with hobbies that don’t make money or keep me in contact with people.
>shitty grades?
Yeah. I feel like all my life problems stem from the fact that I flunked out of IB and got locked out of real social mobility. If I had good grades, I would have passed on with the kids in my grades, got accepted into a good university (top 100), left home early, and learned to be a proper adult, made friends my age, learned the ropes of socialization, networked, and got a job pre-pandemic, traveled the world on my own dime, had normal relationships outside of my family’s watchful eye, etc. Instead, I stayed at home, refused to ask for help out of fear of looking retarded, failed, and now have a permanent stain on my transcript and GPA. I have to rethink grad school and any chance at higher education. The crazy thing is, I was a great student until I got to high school. I was the proper straight-A kid that people used to point to and tell others to emulate. I just know my 10-year-old self hates me. I hate myself.
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Idk if this counts, but I'm a virgin at 25, by choice. I've been on many dates, just never liked a guy enough to fuck him. I have really specific taste and I'm not going to lower my standards just to hit an arbitrary "milestone." Dick is abundant and of low value, after all.
No. 2135008
>uglyin my heart and because i was physically attacked by older men in my youth, i know i am pretty. but when i look in the mirror i see a monster.
>fati gained 50 lbs 2 years ago because i was hospitalized and put on an antipsychotic. i was in psychosis for several days, and almost got myself killed. so now i am fat but at least i am not putting my life in danger because i'm crazy.
>boringi feel like it's hard to keep a conversation going with anyone. i know people say thats normal because of covid and how it affected everyones social life, but i just feel like as i get older i get stupider and more boring. i dont have anything to talk about. i just want to be alone in my room.
>a virgini have been having sex since i was 14 but did not know how to orgasm until i was 27 so idk no but i still feel new to sex
>unemployed or even a NEET?i am technically self employed but let's be honest i make pennies to my husbando's thousands. i am a glorified housewife and/or tradwife.
Do you have…
>no friendsi've hung out with people for a day, and i feel happy and it seems to go well. but then i don't hear from them again for months. they're still nice to me, they just don't seem very interested in getting closer. and i'm >30 y/o so i guess that's normal. everyone already has established friend systems. i guess i sort of missed out on whatever development stage that was.
>no hobbiesi do actually have 2. 1 of them i do for work so i don't actually do it in my free time. i enjoy it, but it's painful sometimes since i rely on it for money and clout etc. i have another hobby (knitting) that i am not good at but enjoy doing. but because i'm not very good at it, i don't do it often, so i don't get to enjoy it all that much
>shitty grades?i'm an adult…are children using this website now?
>>2134918google sleep hygiene and print it out and tape it next to ur bed
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Are you…
>ugly
I'd call myself an average, I have a certain style and way I present myself that would only appeal a certain niche.
>fat
No
>boring
Yeah, I struggle with appealing to people and being charismatic in general. I will say I am a blessing to those who love to talk and make stupid jokes because I will laugh at nearly anything that has the incentive of being funny (unless you're an ugly scrote) since I grew up not talking to anyone and being home schooled
>a virgin
Yes, losing it hasn't and probably will never cross my mind
>unemployed or even a NEET?
I'm pursuing really well in my major and have good jobs on the line for me
Do you have…
>no friends
Yup none, since I grew up with none I got better at over perceiving so I can easily categorize those around me which makes me want to fight shy of befriending most. And to those who I want to I have no good abilities or social skills to. Not even online do I have friends because I get scared of the capabilities the webs have
>no hobbies
I have very fun self occupying hobbies which are one of my few joys of life
>shitty grades?
No, school and hobbies are my life
No. 2138169
I'm literally the full package. Fat, ugly, a virgin, boring, no friends and shit grades. The only thing i'm doing right is not being a neet. I've been in higher education for almost a decade now and i'm completely sick of it. I will never get a bachelor's degree and i've accepted just getting a potentially useless associates degree. I grew up being pretty slim, but i let myself go because i felt like taking care of my body was pointless because of how ugly i am and i regret it because i hate the way i look even more. I know being skinny won't make me happy because i was already miserable when i was skinny. But i feel like getting surgery to fix my ugliness afterwards would be the only way losing weight would be worth it. But i am scared of being botched and having people in my life harass me about my decision. It's also very much at odds with my radfem leaning beliefs, but i can't help but yearn for the life i could have had if i was prettier. So many experiences like with dating are completely off limits. I feel too ashamed to make friends since i am so ugly, nobody wants an ugly friend tailing them. I'll ruin every picture and ruin their days with my self loathing. I have nothing going on, so the only thing i can do is listen to people talk, i have nothing of value to contribute to any conversation. I have extremely poor social skills and literally have autism too, so it's just another reason to keep myself shielded away for society even more so they don't have to deal with me. I can only be happy if i live a life of complete solitude and i am content with what i see in the mirror. That's the only way i can feel some kind of success in my life and i hate that. I am jealous of people who are uglier than me, but have full lives because they weren't cursed with autism and constantly being surrounded by people who hate them. No matter what i do, my destiny is to be unsatisfied, bored and alone.
No. 2138227
>>2138210Wow, your situation is more complicated than I would've thought. Makes sense credits wouldn't transfer as you were outside the country even between colleges in state they can act faggy about it.
>only two more classes to goObjectively worth it and you have better chance of success with it vs not with it. I am glad I didn't drop out myself tho I'm still a failure. Thanks for sating my curiosity and good luck
No. 2139834
>>2132268Of course not
Sex is pointless if its not part of an actual relationship, you're just being used by a moid to get off
The biggest psyop women have been subjected to is being convinced that enabling moid sexual license is liberating
>>2132574I would love nothing more than to find a man with a body count of zero who is not autistic, not an ideological incel, not a porn watcher and not otherwise mentally ill about women
These men don't exist and I'd rather be alone than deal with the garbage moids on offer
My budgie gives me enough love to live on
No. 2172123
Is anyone else really intimidated by smart people? And not even smart people, just even people smart enough to have finished their fucking high school education? I doubt it because most people are not that retarded but I've been neet from 14 to 20 and it's actually scary to know that any given stupid fucker I meet is objectively my superior.
I'm well aware I'm easily young enough to turn my life around so I'm not going to act like a weepy doomer about it but in terms of percentages I'm 1/4 my lifetime behind my peers, catching up is so daunting.
>>2172117yeaaaah baby! no redeeming traits!
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Is there some kind of loneliness epidemic, especially among people in Asia? I see alot of these videos in my recommended (I made a shitty compilation myself since I couldn't see them all together in my recommended at the moment). I live by myself and have no friends, only ever work, but I can't see myself making videos like this. There's nothing really "aesthetic" or "cozy" about a lifestyle like this in reality. It's just a very slowly self-consuming void, really.
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>>2172865black imageboard users are like black goths and black emos. They do exist, they're just not common at all. That's it. That's all I wanted to say.
No. 2172956
>>2172874True, am black emo. It’s a unique experience
>>2172865Honestly call me crazy but I find being born a lesbian and/or very un-normie harder than being black.
No. 2172975
>>2172949>I feel like being bullied for my weight and overall internalizing that I was ugly and not like the normal pretty women really fucked my self esteem up beyond repair even if I'm skinny nowSorry I can’t offer words for the rest of this but I haven’t found anyone else I relate to this badly in this respect. I have imposter syndrome. The difference is I am considered beautiful (not sure if conventionally due to my body, I am uber-thin now) but I’ve internalise the ugly fat girl so so much I can’t get over it. I also feel like if people looked at pictures of me from when I was 13 they’d see me different. It feels wrong to get “pretty privilege” after all this, I was always the ugly one! The one in the friend group people that would get ranked least. Now people act like I’m some sort of wonder for being pretty. I feel like a fraud. Especially when I come across people who are pretty and when you look at pictures of them from middle school they were still pretty. We get along now but you would have bullied me, no, ignored me back then which is even worse. To be shafted for other people in my friend group because it’s cooler to hang out with fellow pretty people. You wouldn’t date me back then. It’s so hard to get over.
Another thing is how this affected my attitude towards weight now, everyone who I interacted with back then have obviously ballooned out and idk I find it crazy to comprehend that I preemptively lost weight to a certain standard (to be thin for a 13-year-old, not thin for an adult, so much smaller) and at such a young age that the way I look at larger people is fucked too. Or even normal weight people. I NEET’d out too so leaving the house after a couple years in my teen years and realising everyone my age is
so much larger than me now felt disconcerting. The gap is huge. I realise I have a really schizo perspective about this. And also that I cannot imagine how people can just stay fat. Is it because I was the only one back then whereas now most adults are at least a little chubby, so you don’t feel the pressure. Again I’m also scared people will see me different because I look like someone that’s just been small my whole life. Urgh idk this kind of turned into a vent sorry
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Seeing uni/college student groups with their fancy shmancy uniforms on their laptops doing their school projects behind the counter of my shitty wagie job makes me want to kermit.
No. 2173621
>>2173473thought it was only me. i feel like crying whenever anyone mentions college or university too, especially if it’s something sweet or romanticising.
>>2173474why though? are you even a lesbian? where I live, I haven’t yet experienced any solid racism, the most i got was from children in primary/early secondary school and they don’t even really know how to be racist properly honestly, it was basically unfunny jokes. here class matters more so ig since i’m middle-class presenting and seem like a fairly intelligent person people have always treated me with respect especially compared to my peers, regardless of race. my race isn’t really brought up. but being lesbian? my family frequently talk violently about lesbians and would estrange me if i came out. i get treated completely different if i come out to someone, being with a girlfriend in public can be dangerous, i have been ostracised by groups of people/potential friends after they found out. that shit fucking hurts. and i feel isolated from my straight peers. not my white peers, or whatever, i’ve always felt ostracised
because i was gay. the black girls fit in. and i have never been called a nigger or etc, the only slurs i’ve been called is a dyke and a faggot. seriously, how could i say being black is worse? it simply is not for me, objectively. is it that people think being a lesbian is easy or what? why do people always act like being black is the worst thing you could be ever? for a lot of people it is, but… for a lot of people it’s just not. i feel like people just say it for the sake of it.