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No. 2303329

Don't know whether to go sleep or binge-read another cow thread? Get milk or tea? Dedicate your remaining life time to Dr*ver or Dano, and don't want to keep any of those important decisions in Sanic-samas capable hands? Fret not–present your dilemma, let farmers burn some sage and have them take that burden off of your exhausted shoulders.
Keep US laws, and more importantly, TPO, in mind and don't ask whether to an hero or which fun method to use, we're not serious like that.

Previous: >>1904216

No. 2303365

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Should I go to bed or keep making autistic spreadsheets? It's 5am and I haven't slept yet.

No. 2303369

>>2303365
Depends, how autistic are these spreadsheets

No. 2303374

>>2303365
The spreadsheets need to be filled out anon, whos going to do it if not you…

No. 2303390

>>2303369
Literally autistic, I like compiling information about my special interests in spreadsheets.

>>2303374
You are right, I can't neglect my responsibility…

No. 2303414

>>2303390
anon after my own heart. there's a YouTube channel, theofficelab i think, and he uploads 3-4 hr long excel tutorials for putting together these feature rich, really well-made workbooks. I've learned more following along to them than from probably any other source. took my conditional formatting game to the next level

No. 2303421

Should I get better or go insane.

No. 2303424

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Have a final tomorrow and need to study. Do I stay up tonight and study or do I just get up early tomorrow instead?

No. 2303426

>>2303421
go batshit insane. be free. jk pls just be normal.

No. 2303429

>>2303424
Study a little tonight and a little before you go in. Don't put all of your eggs in one basket

No. 2303530

should I go out now if I haven't left the house in 2 weeks

No. 2303531

>>2303530
Go out, nona. You will feel a little better even if you just go for a walk around the block.

No. 2303568

Should I stay ADHD (not take meds) and go into humanities or should I take my ADHD medications and go into finance? I have a high possibility of getting a comorbid heart condition

No. 2303569

>>2303530
I also haven't left the house in 2 weeks exactly, wtf.
>>2303567
Nonna..love yourself and take your medicine at the very least.

No. 2303583

should I check my work email and answer work calls on my days off (the next two days) or should I NOT do that? maybe even turn off my cell phone

No. 2303588

>>2303568
Nona, are you me? I have ADHD and risky cholesterol genetics, kek. Go into finance, the field was built for people like us who need that gambling high while outpacing everyone else by being unconventional and strategic. That’s what I plan to do at least.

No. 2303596

>>2303583
Don't do that, you're not paid for it. Turn your phone off and enjoy your time off.

No. 2303597

>>2303583
Unless your job specifically requires you to be on-call, don't check and enjoy your days off

No. 2303609

It's almost 5am. Should I try to get a short nap in before the day starts or just drink red bull? It's my day off today but I have shit to do.

No. 2303650

>>2303609
Slewwb. Don't ve like me.

No. 2303887

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Should I marry Sophia or the Wizard in Stardew Valley (with SVE mod)?

No. 2303902

>>2303887
How can you choose a cute image of Sophia and expect us to not tell you to marry her? Fuck the wizard, he's used goods kek. If only you could marry his ex-wife.

No. 2305678

Do I make a cup of coffee or a cup of tea?

No. 2305694

Should I cut lolcor out of my life? I really need to focus on studying but I feel so lonely when I don't get to talk to my nonnies.

No. 2305700

>>2305694
Probably. This place is fun for killing time but it really shouldn’t be your main replacement for social interaction. Not to the point that you’d get lonely without it.

No. 2305703


No. 2305710

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>>2305694
Kek same here nonnie I started browsing this place for hours instead of studying. Let's take a break from lolcor together.

No. 2305723

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What christmas gift should I get for an 11 year old girl?
I have only seen her once so I'm not sure about her interests, I only know that her parents won't allow makeup and she doesn't have a phone or much access to screens, also she's already getting the classic bath/skincare pack. I was thinking a pretty bracelet and some scrunchies, maybe a keyring too? I want to make a nice gift since she's still at an age where Christmas is important but I have no clue what a girl that age might like. At that age the best gifts I had were my first mascara ever and some video games so I can't use that as inspiration.

No. 2305741

I got a message out of the blue from my sister whom I have, shall we say, a very complicated relationship with. Basically we haven’t spoken for over a year because I’ve had her blocked on most everything. She reached out to let me know that she loves and misses me, and while that tugs on my heartstrings a bit, she also made no acknowledge of why we’re not in contact anymore or any indication that she’s sorry. That said, we both had a fairly abusive/neglectful upbringing and I understand so much of why she is the way she is. I understand maybe better than anyone else on the planet. But on the other other hand, she’s just been so fucking shitty and abusive to me and other family members over the years. She’s had a lot of mental and physical trauma that’s kept her in arrested development for so long, and so I get it, I really do. And I’ve heard through the grapevine that she’s made some improvements in her life in the last year and I’m glad to hear it. But I don’t want to run the risk of letting her in again just to get verbally blasted again the next time she has one of her mood swings. But maybe she’s learned not to do that? Maybe getting cut off finally taught her. I don’t miss her because there’s never been a time in my life we’ve been close. But I really do wish things could be different between us. I wish I had a sister.

Should I respond to her message or just keep letting it sit in my inbox?

No. 2305742

>>2305678
Oolong tea, just like me, and then we'll kampai.

No. 2305748

>>2305723
Suggestions?
>Secret diary with a lock
>Cute stationery
>Modelling clay
>Stickers
>Dvds
>Books
If you buy them with cash and she doesn't like whatever you bought, her parents can use the receipt to exchange them for something else.

No. 2305755

>>2305723
Get her a picky pad. It's all the rage with teen girls at the moment.
>>2305741
I think you should acknowledge the message, and depending on how you feel, even go so far as to express what positive emotions you feel towards her, but I don't think you should reestablish true contact yet. Let her apologize first before you're willing to do that. But by acknowledging her message, you let her know that you received it, and you're not outright hostile towards her, but that you're not ready for a relationship until she does more work.

No. 2305792

>>2305755
Thanks anon, that’s a good measured response.

No. 2305796

>>2305742
Oolong tea is my absolute favorite. Thank you for your suggestion nona!

No. 2305800

>>2305742
does your name start with j

No. 2305812

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>>2305796
Don't tell anyone but I drink it with honey.
>>2305800
No, but when I was in elementary school I wanted my name to be Janice.

No. 2306086

>>2306079
Maybe a funny math-related gift? Like a mug or something with a calculus joke on it. You could try searching Etsy for “Gift for math teacher” or something like that.

No. 2306374

Should I go work in the office and focus better? Or should I stay home and suffer from my period here, and not risk ruining my clothes in front of everyone while working in my room?

No. 2306378

>>2306374
Is just taking a day off not an option?

No. 2306380

>>2306378
No I have things to do and I plan on using my PTOs for appointments. I can work but, I'm not supposed to work from home on Fridays because we don't choose the days in my company, but my stomach hurts and I have to go to the bathroom all the time.

No. 2306385

>>2306380
I say pop some Midol, work from home, and do your best to focus there. It’s the best medium ground between working and just taking the day off altogether.

No. 2306392

>>2306385
I'll do just that then. I'll also take a nap during lunch break.

No. 2306467

>>2303588
ntayrt, but how late is too late for finance

No. 2306997

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What should I make for dinner? Pasta with vodka sauce or pan-fried tofu with stir fried vegetables, served over rice?

No. 2307008

>>2306997
Pasta with vodka sauce!

No. 2307010

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>>2307008
That’s the easier one to make, thank you nona

No. 2307012

do I waste all the money I have left from my last job to buy a bunch of doujinshi (of my husbando getting fucked) or do I waste it on a new expensive figure of him

No. 2307018

>>2307012
Save it for something important.

No. 2307028

>>2307012
Get the doujins but only if you know you won't regret it.

No. 2307108

>>2307012
Doujins can be read AND looked at, a figure can only be looked at

No. 2307405

>>2305723
they don't allow makeup, but what about something like lipgloss/nail polish/nail flyer maybe? Alternatively if you have some extra money there's a lot of craft kit type stuff, like jewlery making/candy making sets/slushy kit/etc.

No. 2307949

What christmas cookie should I try to bake? We don't celebrate christmas where I'm from and there are so many different types of cookies and I don't know which are the best/most unique. Suggestions?

No. 2307953

>>2307949
Gingerbread cookies are over-rated, try sugar cookies instead.

No. 2308069

>>2307949
Nonnys were sharing their recipes in the cooking thread the other day. Why not one of those?
>>1949746

No. 2308297

So for christmas I'm already cooking a decent amount for my family (lasagna, pot roast, peach cobbler, banana pudding), should I also make 4-5 different types of cookies? I would distribute some of the cookies as gifts to my extended family and friends, but most would be consumed by my immediate family. Would it be too many desserts?

No. 2309798

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It is currently 8AM. I accidentally stayed up all night and need to run some errands today. Do I stay up or attempt to get some sleep before I have to go out?

No. 2309806

>>2309798
No, you fucked up so now you have to deal with the consequences. You have to go out and do your errands and suffer. This will be a learning experience for you in the future to stop staying up until 8AM. Let this be your wake-up call: You are NOT a vampire. You are a human being and we are meant to sleep during the nights and be active during the days. It's in the bible. Just think about how rejuvenating and relaxing it will be when you finally go to bed at a proper time tonight, that anticipation will help guide you to make better life choices and take better care of yourself. Namaste.

No. 2309847

>>2309798
Nonna, I’m going through the same exact thing. I’m unemployed currently so I just stay up and lose track of time. The ONLY way to stop this from fucking up your sleep schedule for the next month is to stay up. It’s the only way. Drink a lot of coffee and don’t lay in your bed. You’ll hit a wall where you feel like it’s impossible to stay awake, but I promise it will pass and you’ll almost feel energetic. Let’s report back to one another on whether we fell asleep or not.

No. 2309856

>>2308297
is baking them brings you joy without breaking the bank, go for it.

No. 2309861

>>2309798
You have to sleep otherwise you'll look ugly.

No. 2309880

>>2309798
Just don't drive anywhere if you haven't slept, it's actually extremely risky.

No. 2310069

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>>2309806
>>2309847
>>2309861
>>2309880
Thanks nonnys, I compromised and slept for about three hours. I’m not driving anywhere so the general public’s safety isn’t at risk due to my own dumb decisions.

No. 2310334

>>2310069
Yay! well done ♥

No. 2311634

Should I read Pachinko or Midnight's Children?

No. 2311906

>>2311634
Pachinko but only because I just started reading it too.

No. 2312025

should i watch a horror movie or comfort movie

No. 2312034

>>2312025
Yes, I just finished Savageland. I dunno how comforting that movie will be though. I liked it. Mockumentary style like Lake Mungo and The Bay.

No. 2312338

What language should I learn? I'm thinking between Japanese (because I am a weeb), Korean (useful), Russian and Czech (I am slavic so they would be easy I think)

No. 2312340

>>2312338
Learn whichever one is most useful and most relevant to your life. I studied Japanese for 4 years just to never have the opportunity to use it and have almost completely forgotten it now.

No. 2312373

>>2312338
Depends. Do you want to read manga, manhwa, or komiksové knihy?

No. 2312390

>>2312340
>>2312373
My reasoning for every language is:
- Japanese would help me communicate with japanese artists, I could translate my favorite songs and I'd like to see this country one day
- Korean would help me get a job, also I could lurk on Korean radfem sites
- Russian maybe would help me not die in a war???
- Czech is fun and I could visit Prague often

No. 2312403

>>2312390
learn polish, you will develop an additional brain

No. 2312414

>>2312403
I am already polish, the additional brain did not come

No. 2312565

>>2312390
Learn Korean if it helps you with your job. Knowing a language to visit a country is cool but only if you plan to go there frequently or stay for long periods.

No. 2312998

I don't know where else to post this but can someone tell me what YouTubers I should watch? My recommendations are basically filled with uninteresting and irrelevant stuff now. I need recs for any quality YouTuber that speaks English, has relatively long videos (30 mins to several hours) & is also preferably a woman

No. 2313002

>>2312998
Just Trish podcast

No. 2313009

>>2312998
We have a female youtuber thread on /m/ iirc
Recently I've gotten into Madison Clysdale videos, she does solo hiking stuff which is nice to watch but her videos are on the medium side (15mins). I also like clickfortaz, her videos are random weird stuff that no one would normally do but that's kinda the fun of it kek
repost for formatting

No. 2313010

>>2312998
Jordan Jensen, she's a comedian who does hours long podcasts with guests. Sometimes the topic is heavy things like trauma, abuse, struggling with mental illness, but in a real way.

No. 2313033

>>2313002
>>2313009
>>2313010
Thank you. Even though I didn't specify podcasts I appreciate your recs, I'm checking out their channels now

No. 2313162

>>2313033
Ntayrt but I also really recommend Just Trish. If you're trying to improve your English skills, Trisha is a great option because she speaks so incredibly fast. It's like, if you can understand Trisha speaking then you can understand anybody speaking. I know for myself, audio exercises were the most annoying part of language learning. I could always understand it if they spoke slowly, but nobody really speaks slowly IRL.

No. 2313325

>>2313306
Chartreuse

No. 2313349

>>2313306
hear me out. mid-tone peachy pink/coral. it makes a bedroom lively and cheerful. get different bedspread and curtains to whatever u think will look good

No. 2313412

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do i go get chocolate and eat it or do my little home workout instead? i want to do the workout but no motivation help

No. 2313431

>>2313412
do your workout, shower and then get your chocolate, you'll enjoy it way more

No. 2313434

>>2313412
Eating chocolate will give you energy and boost your mind enough to motivate you

No. 2313439

>>2313412
Do the workout and then eat the chocolate to replenish glycogen reserves

No. 2313489

>>2313439
>>2313434
>>2313431
thanks nonas! chocolate is en route and im gonna do 100 sit-ups (jk more like 50)

No. 2313492

>>2313412
workout first, chocolate after

No. 2316367

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Should i get drunk and play dress up

No. 2316369

>>2312998
I like watching annikasleaf, cozy lifestyle vlogs are my weakness

No. 2316391

>>2316367
Why not? Yolo

No. 2316405

Should I throw away my morals and start dropshipping too? 9/10 times I reverse-search something on etsy, I find an aliexpress/alibaba/temu/taobao link for 5-15 times higher the price. Yet these sellers have hundreds of reviews selling their slave labour garbage. The whole website seems completely useless now. I'm so sick of doing nightshifts all week and still not finding an apartment for myself, having to live in this shithole all day, eating garbage and being either anxious or angry 24/7.

No. 2316418

>>2316367
Yes. Enjoy yourself

No. 2316461

>>2316405
Honestly, at this point it's legal and fine by etsy's own rules.

No. 2316477

>>2316405
it's a ton of work now anon, because everyone does it.

No. 2316738

>>2316461
i can’t believe that etsy allows this shit now. you used to be able to report shops like that. i remember the first few times i bought from shops and realized they didn’t have anything to do with the items despite writing descriptions as if they were the creators. so disappointing.

No. 2316746

>>2316405
Honestly, if it’s something you’re very opposed to ethically, I wouldn’t. You probably wouldn’t get much return on investment, at least not at first, because it’s still a lot of up front work. Plus it’s oversaturated in general on the internet. You would likely end up even more frustrated than you already are. Sorry nonnie but there aren’t a lot of “easy money” routes left anymore.

No. 2316771

Same Anon who probably has or doesnt have ADHD (i probably have it but the doctors dont take it seriously enough to medicate me or something) should I try to rawdog law or accounting?

No. 2316784

>>2316771
I believe accounting would be better because you have a wider net of opportunities afterwards.

No. 2316856

Shit third world passport but with a schengen visa, I need to disappear and live somewhere alone which would be cheap and livable on a lower wage. Don't mind where as long as it's not south asia/middle east/muslim countries. Where should I go?

No. 2316887

>>2316771
Not sure if you’re a burger, but if you are do not get a law degree unless you are able to get into a very good law school and or lots of scholarships. Do you find law interesting at all? If not don’t do it.

No. 2317455

Should I go to the city to pick a Christmas gift for my brother despite the shitty weather or should I wait tomorrow to go during my lunch break?

No. 2317484

>>2316771
accounting sounds worse, but as someone who tried that with law i ended up having to find a psychologist to prescribe meds later anyway because it gets too hard. better get diagnosed sooner than later, i regret putting it off. but law is cool

No. 2317489

>>2316856
living in Czech Republic is cheap so maybe that. spain used to be the go-to but i heard it's not that affordable anymore

No. 2320865

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Should I get a blue tongued skink? Majority vote wins.

No. 2320866

>>2320865
Lizards and reptiles are cool so yes

No. 2320878


No. 2320892

>>2320865
Yes, you and that gecko nona can be friends.

No. 2320919

>>2320865
Yes but you must name it after me

No. 2320927


No. 2322264

Nonnas should I buy a digicam or should I buy the Sony ULT WEAR headphones?

No. 2323352

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the next anime i'll be watching :
>monster
>full metal panic
>gundam (like every single entries)
>michiko to hatchin
>robotics;notes

No. 2323354

>>2323352
are you asking us to pick one for you or what

No. 2323357

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>>2323352
Horrid taste

No. 2323361

>>2323354
yes
>>2323357
the point is that i didn't watch any yet retard, please enlighten me Ronarudo kun

No. 2323367

>>2323352
gundam but only if you start with the 70s anime with the sexy 70s bishies

No. 2323370

>>2323367
kamille anon is that you ?

No. 2323373

>>2323370
Sorry, i am more into amuro and his sexy 70s curls

No. 2323395

>>2323352
Monster but you could just read the manga (if you like manga)

No. 2323396

>>2320866
>>2320892
>>2320919
>>2320927
No we must FREE THE LIZARDS. Do not cage the lizards.

No. 2323418

>>2323352
Join me on my gundam watch nonna I’m working through UC now and just hit ZZ! Its really enjoyable

No. 2323424

>>2323418
nayrt but which one should i start with

No. 2323438

>>2323424
If you’re good with 70s anime then the original mobile suit gundam 0079 is where you start

No. 2325083

should I take out the garbage now (its noon) or at night? I need to do multiple trips

No. 2325084

>>2325083
Don't take it out. What will the rats eat if all the trash is gone? Think of the rodents and stop being a heartless bully.

No. 2325118

>>2325083
At night but make sure you let us know you got back alright nonnie

No. 2325187

Should I quit my job in 2025? Pros: money (it’s only 21 per hour). Cons: toxic coworkers and poor management. I’m also fairly unhappy there. I’m only really there because I don’t feel like looking for another job at the moment. I’ve only been at this company 6 months so I’m not sure if I should wait another 6 months so it doesn’t look bad if I put it on my resume.

No. 2325188

>>2325187
Start looking for jobs now. If you find one that pays more and you get hired, quit your current job. Never quit a job without having another one lined up first. Terrible management and coworkers is more than enough reason to quit.

No. 2325627

Should I go to the concert alone?

No. 2325650

red or green nail polish?

No. 2325651

Should I repost that video where anon is drinking a glass of urine while eating dinner

No. 2325672

>>2325651
>anon
Pretty sure that was just a webm of a random porn video + no please don't.

No. 2325733

>>2325650
Green polish.

No. 2325750


No. 2326034

>>2325733
>>2325750
I hate you ninnies.

No. 2326050

>>2326034
tiebreaker: red

No. 2326056

>>2326050
NU UH
GREEN

No. 2326059

>>2326034
Solve it by getting one hand green and the other red

No. 2326061


No. 2326087

>>2326034
mix both and wear brown

No. 2326921

>>2326050
>>2326056
>>2326059
>>2326061
>>2326087
Red it is. Toes are gonna be green though.

No. 2327356

Do I wash my hair today or tomorrow? There's something so appealing about starting the new year with clean hair, so that's why I'm leaning towards tomorrow, but it could use a wash right now.

No. 2327361

>>2327356
>Should I wash my hair??
>Should I put foreign chemicals onto my scalp and massage them so that they leak through the dermal barrier and can impact my skull?
>Should I inject my brain with dangerous toxins so that Big Pharma can control my mind?
Seriously? It's so shocking seeing the absolute sheeple on here these days. You realize that these "shampoos" are just another form of chemical warfare, right? You think washing your hair is natural? News flash, there is no shampoo in nature. When Big Pharma was trying to figure out new ways to poison people after people switched from fluoridated tap water to bottled spring water, they decided to start injecting stem cells harvested from discarded mammalian fetuses to create a super weapon that is responsible for over 80% of all automobile accidents. You need seriously psychological help if you think "shampoo" is good for you. Shampoo can cause: diabetes, high blood pressure, swelling of the liver and adenoid glands, brain lesions, hydrocephalus, early-onset dementia, and more. You should not be washing your hair at all, and if you do, you should be saying it like it is - committing acts of chemical terrorism on your follicles. Look it up, you can find a lot of information about this on the deep web.

No. 2327362

>>2327356
Wash it now since it’s already dirty

No. 2327366

>>2327361
Okay.
>>2327362
Thanks, nona. That makes sense.

No. 2327368

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>>2327366
Of course nonny. Think of it as being able to ring in the new year without the grease of 2024.

No. 2327894

Should I buy Rimworld or Crusader Kings 3?

No. 2327908

>>2327361
I love this post so much

>>2327894
Crusader Kings

No. 2328238

>>232736
Honestly, I went through a phase 20-22, of not washing my hair as much as I should of because I was scared to close my eyes, while standing, while being wet. I always had to have someone help me wash my hair or be in the room while I bent over a sink.

No. 2328427

Should I cut my bangs again or let them grow long? I'm really unsure about what to do with my hair

No. 2328440

>>2328427
How long have you had the bangs?

No. 2328450

>>2328440
Since I was 16, im 22 now

No. 2328525

>>2328427
Cut them nonnie

No. 2328629

>>2328450
Grow them out

No. 2328883

>>2328427
grow them nonnie!

No. 2328975

i am hungry and no food in my house except ramen. but i am very tired and in bed. should i make and eat the ramen or go to sleep?

No. 2328977

>>2328975
Just go to bed. You can be hungry tomorrow.

No. 2329644

Should I make a cup of coffee or oolong tea?

No. 2329650


No. 2329651

>>2329644
which one you had the least lately, I myself am on such a tea overload rn

No. 2329653

>>2329650
>>2329651
Thanks nonas, oolong it is.

No. 2332462

Should I go to the library or stay at home? I need to get some work done.

Pros of staying at home:
>My cat lives here
>I can be my authentic self
>I can sit in my bed
Cons of staying at home:
>My cat lives here
>I can get easily distracted
>I will smoke a lot of cigarettes

Pros of going to library:
>I usually get more work done there
>I can experience society
>The ambience of the library brightens my day
Cons of going to library:
>I will have to style my hair
>Maybe there will be a fire or I will be injured
>I'll have to go outside to smoke cigarettes

I don't know what to do. I'm so confused. My life is ruled by psychotic tension. I'm a water sign. Someone help me make my choice.

No. 2332468

>>2332462
Go to the library

No. 2332469

>>2332468
Okay I will thank you, but if there's a fire then I'm blaming you. I always need someone to blame. I can't take responsibility for myself. It's why I can never cut my own bangs. I'm sending 5DD waves of prosperity your way through the astral plane.

No. 2332473

>>2332462
go the library and get work done!
>I will have to style my hair
do you? can't you put it up quickly, who cares?
>Maybe there will be a fire or I will be injured
this is unlikely, you could bring some bandaids and try to sit near an exit though.
>I'll have to go outside to smoke cigarettes
annoying true, but if going to the library helps you get more done it seems like a fair tradeoff.

No. 2332475

>>2332469
That’s okay I am willing to take that responsibility. Pet your cat when you get back home for me nona

No. 2334342

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Doing my nails, pick a shape. Medium square or long stiletto?

No. 2334344

>>2334342
My brain says square but my heart says stiletto

No. 2334345

>>2334342
long stiletto for sure

No. 2334361

>>2334342
stiletto

No. 2334364

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>>2334345
>>2334344
>>2334361
Now pick a design. Blue chrome or insects?

No. 2334369

>>2334364
insects

No. 2334370

should i run tomorrow early morning around 6 or wake up later and run at around 10-11

No. 2334374

>>2334364
Insects! I love the dragonfly and ant ones.

No. 2334382

>>2334364
Bugs is a obvious winner

No. 2334418


No. 2334517

>>2334370
run later, not sure what climate youre living in but isnt it colder now that its the winter months? hopefully its a bit warmer in the noon

No. 2340391

Should I buy a spy camera? I unfortunately have to live with my mom and her husband for the time-being and I suspect that her husband (repressed-aggressive, constantly lying, manchild who gets defended by my mother whenever someone criticizes him) is harming my cats when I'm away.

No. 2340399

>>2340391
Yes, you need evidence in case he is.

No. 2340509

>>2340391
Get multiple nanny cams, they're disguised as normal everyday items like pens, photo frames, alarm clocks etc. You can leave them out in inconspicuous places and nobody will notice.

No. 2342163

Just found out that the pos I went on a date with has a younger brother who still has all of his hair and isn't a vegan. Should I accidentally run into him?

No. 2342169

>>2342163
No if he was a piece of shit. Younger brother has the potential to become bald in the future.

No. 2342174

Should I study German (I'm behind on homework) or work on my job (I'm behind) or do some knitting (it is weekend)?

No. 2343279

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I have to provide two songs I like as part of a class exercise. It’s going on a class playlist. I don’t listen to music outside of vocaloid and I am not putting that on there. What two songs should go on my class playlist nonnys?

No. 2343281

>>2343279
pick something so mundanely normie like savage love or the middle. please dont make the mistake of being unapologetically cringe because it will haunt you for the rest of your life no matter how much you make amends with it
t. someone who shamelessly played jpop in front of the entire class during middle school

No. 2343288

>>2343279
Put some electronic music that you could like but that isn't weeb shit.

No. 2343293

>>2343279
Easy. Paparazzi by Lady Gaga and Rock N' Roll McDonalds by Wesley Willis

No. 2343301

>>2343279
pop stars like taylor swift, britney, etc. or choose some sick jazz

No. 2343310

>>2343279
>anime schoolgirl
>>2343293
>lady gaga and a 80s retard
>>2343301
>gay tweaker music
Is CC still down?

No. 2343311

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>>2343281
>please dont make the mistake of being unapologetically cringe because it will haunt you for the rest of your life
I cape as normie irl especially at school and work. I’m in STEM and don’t want any moids to talk to me about weebshit or other adjacent interests so I keep it very well hidden.
>>2343301
Before I posted I was thinking of Debussy and some jazz but then I wondered if that was too weird. Usually I just tell people I don’t listen to music and I avoid this problem altogether. I feel like picrel
>>2343288
>>2343293
Thanks for all the suggestions so far!!

No. 2343314

>>2343310
how do you not recognize miku
>>2343311
yeah I also say I don't listen to music because of my taste. but to some people not listening to music is sociopath npc behavior so idk, I've gotten some weird reactions. I think classical music or jazz would be safe, or just whatever's the most popular

No. 2343316

>>2343311
Jazz and classical will make you seem cool, tbh. If you said that in a class I was in I’d think you were smart, and maybe unapproachable. Probably exactly what you want, right?

No. 2343321

>>2343279
i like this song and skeeter davis end of the world

No. 2343718

>>2343279
Something off Björk's debut, do it for me nonnie.

No. 2344241

Should I treat myself and pay 4 dollars to be able to view some reality show commentary videos on patreon? I watch him on youtube way too often.

No. 2344802

>>2343718
>Bjork
You reminded me that I use to love this recording of her back in high school. I ended up mentioning it and a classical piece on the mandolin that I enjoy. Thank you!

No. 2344803


No. 2345474

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Gonna order Chinese, should I get general tso's chicken, orange chicken or sesame chicken? And should I get egg drop soup or cream cheese rangoons for my side?

No. 2345475

>>2345474
General tso and soup

No. 2345483

>>2343310
>gay tweaker music
KEK i have nostalgia for early 2000s pop and listen to it a lot, i thought britney and taylor are normie enough.

No. 2345496

>>2345475
I'm sorry anon, I ordered sesame chicken and rangoons. Idk why I even asked. Forgive me.

No. 2345499

>>2345496
If you get a fortune cookie, that fortune is now mine!

No. 2347939

My manager isn't there at all for a few weeks and I'm supposed to be working at home tomorrow. I have less work to do than usual and nobody checks what I do as long as I do it, should I finish a few things in the morning and go on a few errands in the afternoon? Or should I be more careful and do these errands the day after once my shift is over?

No. 2347963

>>2347939
I think option one is better because you have more of a deadline and something to look forward to after the work.

No. 2347966

>>2347939
Do them in the afternoon

No. 2348022

>>2347963
>>2347966
I'll work hard in the morning then. If anyone is trying to contact me before I'm back home I'll pretend I either extended my lunch break or moved it to another time and the only coworker who could catch me lives nearby but she's not even supposed to work from home so we can cover each other, I'm not too worried.

No. 2348024

Kill myself or stay alive for a few years gang?

No. 2348108

>>2348024
Stay alive another 5 years minimum

No. 2348521

Should I further myself into debt (15k currently) and buy $500 worth of Lolita clothing that I’ll probably won’t wear because I’m actually fat and ugly and have no confidence of wearing but they’re so beautiful and I gotta have them?

No. 2348522

>>2348521
Don't do it. If you must only get one item of clothing.

No. 2348527

>>2348024
Stay alive and keep yourself enriched via experiences. Go for walks, try new foods, try new hobbies, enjoy books and shows and movies. Love you, nona.
>>2348521
Don't do it and look at all the other things you bought so far instead. If they don't bring you joy, that's only double the proof that your impulse purchases by themselves aren't worth it.

No. 2348546

>>2348521
Don't do it at all.

No. 2348607

>>2348521
Don't do it. I did it. Four years later I donated the dress just to get rid of it finally (a fake one, but exact same situation)

No. 2348790

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I'm a socially anxious and avoidant retard and a girl I used to go to elementary school with reached out to me to ask me how I am and how my life was going etc but I procrastinated on responding to her for literal MONTHS even though she used to be one of my best friends. Should I still write to her or should I just let it go?

No. 2348794

>>2348790
reach out. it's fine and normal to take a while to reply after not talking for a long time with someone from childhood. you could literally reach out to her two years later and it would be fine honestly.

No. 2348841

>>2348790
You should reach out. If you want to, you can say something like "sorry it took me a while to respond, but it's really nice you sent me a message."

No. 2349289

>>2348521
No. If you simply must have them, go for a walk until you lose enough weight to fit into them, and then buy them second hand. Even better, get therapy instead.

No. 2352148

Should I shower and clean the house? I have been so depressed lately (no reason)

No. 2352149

>>2348521
If you're not going to wear it then no. Back when I was a struggling grad student I didn't mind using some of my student loan towards a lolita dress because I wore it and it did bring some tangible happiness to my otherwise bleak student existence and I have nice photos to reminisce on and be proud of.

No. 2352152

>>2352148
Yeah I did that today and now I feel like drawing. This will happen to you too.

No. 2354477

Should I call out of work today? My last day is tomorrow (I may or may not be working that day) and I honestly just don't want to work today so I can do my hair instead. Be quick, my shift starts in 10 minutes

No. 2354479

>>2354477
If you're going to ask them for a reference for a new job in future then go and be a good employee

No. 2354484

>>2354479
Eh, I won't and honestly they don't pay enough for me to care. I called out.

No. 2354507

>>2354484
Nice. Enjoy your day nonna.

No. 2356022

Should i learn python or javascript? I have a bit of HTML/CSS experience (that I need to brush up on too) that javascript could enhance but I heard python is a good beginner language.

No. 2356223

>>2356022
Yes my bf said do HTML and add Javascript onto that.

What project will you be working on to practice? I’m in the same predicament and I honestly have too many side projects going on. After I finish that I’ll see if I can brush up my HTML and CSS again to then add JS.

No. 2356583

>>2356022
JavaScript will add nicely to HTML/CSS. How comfortable are you in the latter? Do you get discouraged easily? JS would round out your skillset better but if you’re truly a beginner and or not very confident then I would recommend Python instead.

No. 2357259

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Do I take a shower before or after I do my readings for class?

No. 2357261

>>2357259
Before, you will be able to focus better if clean.

No. 2357372

Should I really go and burn the rest of my mental health on a minimum wage shitty job? I'm retarded and my parents don't mind helping me, but I want to at least cover my own meds expenses. I feel like working 12h away from home will only make me worse and I'm scared of it. The catch is, I have a relatively big following on social media being an artist and I think I can make it work doing comissions. I didn't do it before because i saw art only as a hobbie but I think I'm being a supreme retard not using of that privilege. Bonus that I'd receive in dollars instead of my shitty country's currency

No. 2357527

>>2357372
You should focus on recovery/whatever your current responsibilities are before adding more onto your plate. If it's a choice between minwage hell and online art commissions, do the latter. At least you won't get abused and fired if you sleep in or take a week off work. Read art salt threads and ask anons in there for advice if you're worried about how to manage commissions.



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