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No. 1773054

Post sane takes and common sense. Ignore bait, adhere to the rules. Have fun.

No. 1773058

Avocado and guacamole are so good. I love making it so fucking much.

No. 1773076

People should work on their eating, drinking and sleeping habits before try building an elaborate skincare routine to improve their appearance.

No. 1773081

Suicide is bad.

No. 1773087

It’s hard to not cry when I hear babies or kids crying in public. it doesn’t make me want to approach their parents or intervene but it tugs at my heart strings ngl

No. 1773088

women should get free money

No. 1773090

Cats are cute

No. 1773093

Trauma and stress doesn't justify abusing others or treating people poorly unprovoked

No. 1773097

>>1773058
The more movies pushing hot men and average looking girl propaganda the better. Men should be pressured into caring about their looks.

No. 1773101

Public transport should be free.

No. 1773108

all humans are inherently deserving of shelter and a safe place to sleep

No. 1773114

chocolate is yummy

No. 1773135

Violence is bad

No. 1773155

Period products should be much cheaper/government financed.

The amount of plastic in our daily lives are absolutely horrifying.

No. 1773161

>>1773101
Hard agree.

No. 1773173

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>>1773090
wow nonny you beat me to it, based opinion

No. 1773207

Being healthy is good

No. 1773210

>>1773173
flame points are so pretty, I love cats with gradients

No. 1773317

Being anachan or a fatty is miserable, a healthy weight will make you feel and look better, extremes are bad

No. 1773324

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Having a boyfriend is a waste of time and energy if he's not adding anything tangible/meaningful to your life. Especially when you're in school or working on building your life, the vast, vast majority of men will only drain your energy and disrespect you.

No. 1773415

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Ponyo makes me cry she’s so precious

No. 1773425

A lot of people would be more happy if they had faith or at least something to believe in. Doesn't need to be Christianity, Islam, or any other mainstream religion, but living by the thought that you'll have somewhere nice to go and that you should walk the world being kind will make you feel so much happier and calmer

No. 1773480

>>1773425
This is not a popular opinion whatsoever

No. 1773537

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scooping the innards out of your bagel is retarded

No. 1773574

Drugs are bad

No. 1773604

stealing food is okay.

No. 1773658

Advertising in public places and to minors everywhere should be illegal.

No. 1773699

>>1773480
it should be

No. 1773714

puppies are soooo cute

No. 1773727

Children cannot consent to puberty blockers.

No. 1773811

>>1773101
Should provide free and fee. I'd pay just to avoid the riff raff.

No. 1773826

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Cillian Murphy is attractive

No. 1773841

>>1773826
he was but irishmen should not be allowed in the sunlight. now he's a leather bag

No. 1774035

>>1773480
nta but I feel like it is since most people are religious, if it wasn't, religion wouldn't be such a large part of humanity

No. 1774040

>>1773480
religion didn’t stop being a constant in peoples lives until about 110 years ago

No. 1774048

>>1773537
Why would anyone do this what the hell

No. 1774050

Water is wet

No. 1774062

the world needs more blue flowers

No. 1774070

Mentally ill moids are not dating material.

No. 1774086

>>1773425
Don't worry, patriarchy is the religion of the entire planet.

No. 1774087

So tired of academic places asking for shitty essay topics. No wonder literal idiots are in ivy leagues even if they're broke. College essay topics were so well thought out and deep and now it's like "what's your fav TikTok and why"

No. 1774105

We should not be scrolling /ot/ or /g/ and seeing multiple images of cillian Murphy (all of them 20 years old) being crossposted in half a dozen threads, at this point its avatarfagging. There is no reason to open /g/ and see images of that hasbeen in nearly every thread preview on the front page.

No. 1774114

>>1774105
Kek just scroll past or turn away from the screen. Let people talk about whatever they want.

No. 1774187

>>1774087
I rarely see anything that isn’t made up of a bunch of anecdotal crap - there is so much writing now that’s just “author troons out so they need to write a 30 page thesis about their so original and one of a kind gender journey”

No. 1774213

>>1774114
>avatarfagging is fine just look away
Okay cillianfag

No. 1774262

>>1774213
No one is avatarfagging though

No. 1774356

We must protect all endangered species and preserve natural ecosystems

No. 1774417

Mary sues are necessary, without them, we will never have power fantasies made for women, and if we don’t have our own power fantasies, then what’s the point?

No. 1774426

>>1774417
if only mary sues were actually cool power fantasies and not just lame pretty girls with the personality of wet cardboard

No. 1774445

kill all men

No. 1774476

>>1774426
I think even those types of “weak” mary sues are important, some women fantasize of becoming the next warlord destroyer of worlds and some women fantasize about living in a cozy cottage in the woods, one fantasy doesn’t make the other any less nice to think about on your free time.

No. 1774479

>>1774105
to be fair some of those posters are his haters rather than fans. he's popular enough that's it's probably multiple people on both sides posting instead of just one
>>1774417
i agree but i thought this was an unpopular opinion lol. don't most people still hate mary sues?

No. 1774500

>>1774476
fantasizing about getting an abusive bf is cringe as fuck

No. 1774582

>>1774105
I think he’s ugly af but a good number of anons think he’s hot and at least they’re not posting modern him

No. 1774584

Working fuckin sucks

No. 1774585

Paying rent and bills sucks

No. 1774587

Tall skinny slightly muscular guys with a lot of hair are so hot

No. 1774590

Cats are amazing and they deserve kisses.

No. 1774608

>>1774500
I mean, yeah, but whatever rocks their boats.

No. 1774632

being able to smile, listen and move on when someone talks about something you dislike or aren't interested in is key to having friendships. Nobody has 100% of their interests in common with their friends and being overly critical will make people dislike you.

No. 1774883

>>1773537
Jewish people are out here calling people anti-Semitic for supporting Palestine but won't address the real issue, scooped bagels.

No. 1774887

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>>1774048
I've seen people tear out the inside of bread to make more space when making sandwiches like picrel, so I guess that's the idea with scooped bagels. Although, it still doesn't really make much sense because sandwiches usually have a lot of toppings whereas bagels don't ever have more than like 3.

No. 1774892

>>1773425
Wrong thread. Choke on your stupid take. A huge part of the suffering that is happening in the world right now is because of religion.

No. 1774894

The earth is round

No. 1774895

Period products should be free everywhere and it makes me angry knowing that they aren’t

No. 1774896

The sky is blue

No. 1774904

Shayna is fat and ugly

No. 1774906

>>1774892
IIRC, around 60% of the world consider themselves to be religious, so their opinion isn't exactly unpopular. Disagreeable, definitely though.

No. 1774909

>>1774892
No no I think that nona specifically said it didn’t have to be a religion, it could just be a general golden-rule / karma / sailor moon (lol) type of belief that putting kindness and love and friendship into the world is the best thing

No. 1774910

>>1774906
The world would be better without religion. It just divides people and causes hate and loathing. Name one religion that isn’t misogynistic at its heart and in its beliefs and stories

No. 1774911

>>1774904
Shayna is pretty when she’s a healthy weight.

No. 1774914

>>1774909
If that’s the case, then it’s ok, but religion is ugly

No. 1774916

>>1774914
Agree, all the mainstream religions are ugly and grifty and extremely misogynistic.

No. 1774933

>>1774910
I watched a video exposing this Jehovah's Witness cartoon for children, and the narrator went into depth on how cult-like the JW community really functions. Apparently if you even do so much as question the religion, it can piss off the surrounding Witness' enough to shut you out of their lives, even if they're your family. I feel like your opinion isn't just an opinion, but blends into being a fact.

No. 1774954

>>1774445
Based.

No. 1774956

>>1774933
A friend I used to have came from a JW family, when they decided to leave the cult their entire family and surrounding community abandoned and onstracized them as is the custom. The religion is every bit as nutty as all those documentaries say.

No. 1774957

Women are smarter and more logical than men.

No. 1774963

>>1774933
I have a cousin that is JW and she ended up cutting everyone that wasn't JW out of her life shortly after converting.

No. 1775002

social media has created unimaginable amounts of brain damage and has generally been detrimental to society

No. 1775023

>>1773826
Yeah when he was young

No. 1775119

>>1774933
My sister-in-law grew up in it and she experienced the shunning but also the other thing that got me was how JWs aren’t allowed to go to college. I think you can only make money to give it to the church and obv your options for jobs are limited because you have no degree.

No. 1775204

>>1773425
I don't have anything to believe in other than that things will never get better, so that's one retarded opinion there.

No. 1775243

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>>1775204
Sorry for stupid meme but you reminded me of this

No. 1775244

Homeschooling is weird and makes weird children.

No. 1775248

>>1775244
To add: children with no siblings are spoiled and are going to become weird adults with no social skills.
(I don't agree with this, but I'm mocking the people who do believe it).

No. 1775260

>>1775244
public school kids aren't doing too hot these days either tho kek

No. 1775268

>>1775260
For sure. I’ve been noticing that too. I still think homeschooling is a step further towards weirdness
>>1775248
Not true (unless they’re homeschooled lol)

No. 1775272

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>>1775268
i was a homeschooled only child

No. 1775273

>>1775272
And here you are posting on lolcow. Point proven
Jk nonna you tha best

No. 1775284

>>1775272
Same nonna

No. 1775289

>>1775244
This but only when it’s men. I think women that were homeschooled or were an only child are pretty nice to hang out with and are usually the good kind of weird. They were almost always nice and had more manners than people that went to public school

No. 1775303

>>1775268
the homeschooled kids near me have a club and do ice skating, horseback riding, and sports together several times a week. They only spend till noon on book studies and then hang out to do physical activities. it seems pretty neat compared to my upbringing (I hated school despite good grades, got suckerpunched in 10th grade by a random girl, ate lunch in the bathroom, and had no friends so I romanticize it maybe)

No. 1775322

>>1775303
Same with UK homeschoolers. They're better adjusted if anything and they consistently outperform their school peers. It would be practically impossible for kids to have no outside contact anyway, there are very few remote areas.

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>>1775248
This cold ass take usually comes from people living in dystopian hyper-individualistic countries like North America and Scandinavia where every family is like an island and you have to arrange play dates and gatherings months in advance. Even then, kindergartens exist and if your parents aren't mental they'll let you play outside, which is how most normal people meet their friends, siblings or not.
area since we were a low-income neighborhood. I had all the cousins and friends I could possibly want, and then I came home to peace and quiet without siblings throwing tantrums because they felt jilted over something. If anything, not having siblings made me socialize more.

No. 1775352

>>1775350
It somehow got deleted but it was supposed to be
>There were mostly only kids living in my area since we were a low-income neighborhood

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>>1775350
Your lifestyle was pretty based in that regard then. People seriously overestimate how necessary siblings are to a family unit. As long as kids have access to socializing with other children, they're gonna be fine. Kids do not need siblings to accomplish understanding others and how to behave.

No. 1775362

>>1775273
I went to school and I am the oldest sister, still ended up here

No. 1775434

Home-cooking food should be the norm, not the exception, it's cheaper and healthier than ordering or going out to eat.

No. 1775439

>>1775350
>This cold ass take usually comes from people living in dystopian hyper-individualistic countries like North America and Scandinavia
homeschooling isn't even allowed in my scandinavian country lol and we all played with the other kids on the street like normal people.
Idk if popular or not but I think phones are the biggest reason kids are gonna grow up with no social skills. Kids these days don't play with toys, nor do they play outside with each other the way we did. They're literally just on their phones and tablets instead. Going past my old school does actually feel dystopian, every kid is just sitting around on a bench looking at their phone.

No. 1775443

>>1775359
Angelic image

No. 1775471

>>1775350
Nonna with all due respect scandi countries are known for outdoor kindergartens and generally letting kids play with each other outside with minimal supervision by adults and having the time of their life (within reason). We don’t operate on burgerfag busy middle class family tropes with months in advance scheduled starbucks playdates where you stare at your phone rather than engaging with your surroundings, its way more sociable and relaxed, the type of person you’re describing exists in all countries and they’re called upper class families. You’re talking out of your ass applying your points to that area. To prove mine scandi countries have a running gag called the “mom/dad mafia” to describe gaggles of parents trotting down the sidewalk/occupying cafes on their many group walks and hangouts with their prams. You’re talking out of your ass lol.

No. 1775544

>>1775248
Well, I have a sister and if anything that made me more socially retarded.
>>1775244
I tutor a homeschooled boy sometimes and he's surprisingly sociable and generally well behaved, if a bit too spoiled, he's going to grow up dumb as bricks tho.

No. 1775560

White people usually look better with a tan. Not an orange fake tan obviously, but a natural tan. This doesn't apply to white people with a pink undertone who get red if they stay outside, just white people with a neutral olive or warm undertone (depending on the area I think that's usually like half of the white population or even more). Even blonde people look better with a slight tan. The problem with that is that sun damages the skin and the more time you spend in the sun, the more your skin start developing a leather-like quality and you age faster. I still don't know how we should deal with that….

No. 1775561

>>1775560
I wanna suggest putting on sunscreen to protect your skin, but the anti-sunscreenfags will probably send a bomb to my house.

No. 1775564

>>1775561
Applying sunscreen religiously and trying your best to avoid sun also means your skin is less likely to properly tan. And if you do properly tan, then your skin has already been damaged. That's why it's annoying, like a double-edged sword.

No. 1775567

>>1775560
Fake tanner? There are loads of fake tanning lotions and sprays that don't require UV exposure

No. 1775779

>>1775560
The more time you spend in the sun with moisturizer, sunscreen, or some kind of gentle oil on your face the less likely you are to get all raisin'd out by it. Its all abt retaining moisture in your skin

No. 1775784

>>1775779
I dont think moisture is doing shit about those UV rays nonna. your skin is gonna cook moisturized or not, radiation doesnt care about it

No. 1775786

>>1775779
>Its all abt retaining moisture in your skin
Nta, but I never thought about it that way, do you have tips for this?

No. 1775794

>>1775784
Your skin isn’t going to cook underneath say, 80-100 degrees of outdoor heat. As long as you’re wearing moisturizer and have some kind of sunscreen on you’re not gonna be roasted kek
>>1775786
I layer on a gentle moisturizer before putting on a thick sunscreen (I use a baby sunscreen called babo because it’s fragrance free)! usually that locks it in and protects your skin from sun burns/damage

No. 1776076

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>>1775248
Tbh I'm a spoiled only child who became a weird adult, although I managed to teach myself some social skills. It took me awhile, though, and I think I'm still off-putting at times.

I wish I grew up with siblings instead of having my own room and material objects. I think high school would have been better and I would have been less sensitive and selfish.

Blogpost, but my parents are divorced and I'm estranged from most of my cousins because of inheritance drama, and I'm worried about how I'm going to take care of them when they get even older. They're both in their early 60's atm, but in 10 or so years, I could see their health declining, especially my mom, because she has MS (it's currently in remission because she's sort of an almond mom and eats super healthy and makes sure to walk + move around a lot).

They didn't want to have another child after me because my mom had a traumatic birthing experience with a dash of medical malpractice, but I'm still a little resentful that they're going to be leaving me all alone in the world after they pass.
Especially after making me a super weird only child, which has made it harder to make friends and/or get a boyfriend or girlfriend.

I know it could be worse, and I'm doing fine currently, but I'm worried about the future.

No. 1776080

Wow I’m sorry for drunk posting about homeschooling and somehow starting a whole thing about homeschoolers and only children. It just seemed like a sensible opinion to me because of my background but I realize I wasn’t specific enough and was a just projecting my opinion about myself being weird from homeschooling. The actual reason it’s bad is because the social isolation is bad for children and more importantly in the states homeschooling is what child abusers do to hide their abuse because it’s perfectly legal and isolates the children from prying eyes

No. 1776180

Blackout is Britney's best album.

No. 1776189

There are some people who should be sterilized

No. 1776192

>>1775439
So sad. My youngest siblings are always on their phones I didn’t get phone until I was 13 and now my 4 year old brother has a crusty boogery snot covered phone with games and YouTube on it.

No. 1776196

Unhappy marriages with children = shitty parents = kids with a wealth of mental issues.

Single parent = lack of parent = kid subconsciously picks up on parents resent kid for traits inherited from other parent = kids with a wealth of mental issues

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No. 1776345

>>1776196
No kids = no problem

No. 1776355

>>1776192
Wtf, 4 years old? I'm not gonna pretend I would be a good parent but this seems way too young to have a phone.

No. 1776391

>>1776192
I got my first phone at about age 7 and think that was too early. Gen X and millennial parents are hopeless with technology, Gen X grew up on analog tech with limited capabilities and no connection to the outside world. You'd think millennial parents would be a little better since they grew up with the internet and digital technology but nope most are tech illiterate consoomer retards who no nothing about the technology they buy and consume en masse.

No. 1776484

>>1775471
You’re talking out of your ass about what American playdates are like too though. Why do Europeans constantly make things up and assume things about what America is like

No. 1776487

>>1776484
This kek. Our playdates were the same as theirs, parents get together and the kids run around in backyard/park.

No. 1776557

The new banners are adorable and funny.

No. 1776584

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>>1775471
Kek nona your argument reminded me of swedengate where people complained that they never got fed as kids whenever visiting their swedish friends

Also unrelated but related popular opinion: I think guests should always be offered food and drink regardless if they accept it or not

No. 1776689

>>1776584
I agree with your opinion. To not offer food to your guests shows that you are so destitute that you can't spare a single bite, or else that you are so selfish that you do not care to make a good impression on them.

No. 1776693

>>1776689
People in the red and pink areas themselves as guests do not expect or even want to be offered food. It has nothing to do with pinching pennies or not wanting to make a good impression.

No. 1776713

>>1776584
Why is there a red blob between Spain and France? Where did you get this? kek

>>1776693
Guests are fed in England and Wales anyway. It's bs.

No. 1776715

>>1776713
It's a dumb map anyway. I'm from a "red" country and of course you will get food as a guest if it's dinner time or you're staying for long, while being offered food at a random time when you're just on a quick visit to someone's house would be considered weird, but of course terminally online dumbasses want to make it into some kind of a "hurr durr Northern Europeans HATE other people!1!!!!" meme.

No. 1776719

>>1776584
>>1776713
I'm in a red area but it's definitely true here. Guests value not overstaying their welcome or bothering their host. People don't show up on your doorstep during eating times unnanounced because that's considered rude. You get fed if you agreed to stay for lunch/dinner time beforehand. It's not rude just because an outsider with completely different norms and values thinks it is.

No. 1776722

>>1776715
I remember when this discussion happened online and Scandinavian people were talking about how awkward it was to go to their friends houses growing up, and said that they would be sent out of the room when they sat down for dinner and that the parents would give their kid a snack or treat of some kind but not the guest. Foreigners also said that when visiting people in Scandinavian countries they wouldn’t offer food at all, even if they were spending the day together or something. It seems so weird to me

No. 1776771

>>1776584
Offering food to guests gives you someething to do when there is awkward silence, cause you can all just munch and think about what to say while with your mouth full or you can make small talk about the food. Also, extremely weird to not give children a snack if they come over to play with your child.

No. 1776783

>>1776584
I moved to one of the red countries and many of my local friends absolutely do not want food when they come for a visit, kek. Even if they stay overnight they decline food and just bring a snack for themselves, even if I would be happy to make us dinner or even just order something, then the next morning they decline breakfast and say they can just drive to a gas station and get something on the way home. The only time I've eaten dinner with them is when we go out to eat, but having them come over for dinner seems to make them uncomfortable. Luckily it's not all of my friends, but it definitely causes awkward situations when we all mix, kek.

No. 1776815

>>1776584
I’m Scandi and in my experience it’s true, at least when it comes to dinner (offering coffee is very normal). It kinda depends on whether you are from an urban place or the countryside, and it’s also a generational thing. Old people and people living in rural areas are more likely to feed you (grandparents be like that no matter where you go, offering food is vital to them). It can be a problem if you don't wanna eat lol. I know someone who would deliver mail to people living in the outskirts of town and the old people there would offer coffee and cake at every house she went to. So I think it’s mostly a newer development with people from my own parents’ generation (born in the 1960s and later). Growing up I didn’t always get dinner at my friend’s house, but I think it’s because it was assumed my own parents had dinner plans and my friend’s parents didn’t wanna interfere with that. If I slept over at someone’s house I got breakfast the next day of course. My friends from other countries are a whole different world in terms of hospitality and I think that's really awesome, but idk why people get so up in arms about cultural differences.

No. 1776968

>>1776722
ayrt and that sounds kinda weird to me, and also rude to send someone to a different room. I remember being either offered food or sent home if our parents had agreed we better eat at home. I had one friend who would always refuse dinner when offered because their family had a different eating schedule or something, but even then he would sit at the table with me when I ate.

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Being a fatass is not feminist

No. 1778081

Personality actually matters, more than you think. It doesn't matter if you're very beautiful if you glare at evey guy who tries to befriend you and act arrogant with your friends and gossip behind their back. Not all men are willing to chase a woman just cause she's pretty and a rotten personality is actually a turn off for many. I've seen many real cases of girls who were kinda average, but had very sweet and kind personalities and basically charmed everyone around them and girls who were genuinely beautiful, but also mean and cold, who weren't popular and guys avoided them even if they used to crush on them in the past.

No. 1778105

>>1775471
>ummm ackshually we are known for
why are you acting like you invented kindergartens and playing outside kek, do you think all other countries only let kids play indoors like little mole people or something?

No. 1778272

>>1778105
Me whenever I see the concept of fika

No. 1778275

>>1778105
>>1778272
I can taste the salt and I'm not even a Scandifag kek stay mad

No. 1778276

>>1778272
Samefag, now that I think about it, if eating food with your guests isn't normal, it's no wonder they make a big deal out of coffee break while everybody else is like "uh?"

No. 1778278

>>1778276
>eating food with your guests isn't normal
God not that meme again, did you really fall for it?

No. 1778279

>>1778081
I'm sorry but this is a giant cope.

No. 1778391

>>1778081
I second this as someone who's considered attractive but can't socialize for shit. I've seen people wonder how ugly or even deformed girls get into relationships but they can't - it's usually cause she's interesting and radiant regardless of her looks. I'm not gonna pretend like looks don't matter at all, but if you are actually approachable, kind and interesting you can still find a partner.

No. 1778394

>>1778279
Nta, but you are wrong and its really telling. You're either awfully entitled or a psychopath, those are super unflattering traits.

No. 1778406

>>1778279
you sound like a bitch also you're probably not as pretty as you think you are.

No. 1778415

>>1778394
Seems like an overreaction. She’s got a point — I’ve definitely seen guys chase or stay with a girl for years even though she’s toxic, just because she’s hot.

No. 1778426

>>1778415
NTAYRT but I guess two things can be right at the same time. A lot of people look for personality, a lot of people don't give a damn about it.

No. 1778436

>>1778391
Ntayrt I am seconding your comment as well. I am fairly socially inept and awkward, never could make lasting friendships or many friendships. Not mean or anything, just an autist and don't seem to know how to connect. I come off as cold and boring and just dont know how to move my body naturally or behave in a natural way kek. But I get considered generally attractive, and it's done fuck all for real relationships. If I was socially intelligent I dont think that would be the case, but my calm/dull and awkward personality coupled with being generally sorta attractive feels like a double whammy of terrible socialization experiences due to people being put off by you/trying to befriend you because they want to fuck you and you not realizing it/being expected to be socially conpetent based on looks and continually disappointing people/etc. Its gotten a lot better as I get older honestly but I really just had a hard time through most of my life.

No. 1778445

>>1778415
You're right, its likely i'm overreacting.
That aside, i wouldn't feel smug over having in my palm some simp with low selfesteem and abusive mother issues.

No. 1778457

>>1778445
I would if he was good looking.

No. 1778471

>>1778406
>>1778394
The fact that you get so defensive proves even more that it's a cope. Moids will talk all day how much they akschually prefer the homely girl, they like you much more without makeup uwu and other bs, but at the end of the day they still pick whatever their peepee likes more. You can be the biggest fucking bitch on earth and it only makes them want you more if you're attractive. Stop being so gullable and stop buying into their lies.

No. 1778501

>>1778081
>basically charmed everyone around them
stop lumping both sexes into "everyone". of course women like other nice friendly women. And an "average" looking woman is still usually pretty and engages in beauty practices.

No. 1778875

>>1778081
I agree with this. I’m a tomboy, kinda homely looking, don’t wear make-up etc. but still have a bf I am wildly attracted to, probably hotter than me tbh. He’s reliable, independent and responsible with money, and he leaves a good impression on other people which I think is a great sign. I think we just share a lot of the same values and he appreciates that I’m “low maintenance” and practical. My ex bf was more into women who put more effort in their appearance, but he was also very meticulous about his own looks so I think it’s fair that he would want someone who matched him in that regard (sadly he was always poor because he spent so much money on clothes etc. go figure). At the end of the day I think it’s a compatibility thing. Some guys also go for the less attractive girls simply because they are too intimidated by the 10/10 ones, but I think it goes both ways, we tend to chose someone we think we might have a shot with.

No. 1778897

>>1778081
>>1778875
I find that it's quite the opposite, men are more interested in a woman the colder she is and lose interest if she returns the feelings back or becomes attainable.

No. 1778905

>>1778897
I think some people are like that for sure. The mechanism is probably similar to other dopamine addictions where the thrill comes from not being able to predict when you'll get the next positive reinforcement. I don't think all men are like that, but on the other hand being overly clingy from the get-go can also be a turn-off. Best time to date is when you're not really looking.

No. 1778951

>>1778897
This is true for some, but I know many guys who simply don't wanna bother a girl who is giving them the cold shoulder. Maybe because they usually tend to be more straight forward and don't wanna play games but I've heard complaints about certain hot girls being too "stuck up", "arrogant" or "narcissistic". Obviously men in general have waaay too many expectations about the way a woman should behave.

No. 1779319

We need to publicly execute men

No. 1779327

>>1779319
nah we've done that

No. 1779341

>>1779327
let’s do it some more

No. 1779345

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>>1779341
I already got my Christmas list prepped. Ready when you are.

No. 1779373

>>1779341
Ok ok fine let’s do it some more

No. 1779394

>>1779345
Am I stupid or… where does this picture come from? Did they get her to reenact her crimes and then took pictures?

No. 1779398

>>1779394
That is Charlize Theron in the film Monster.

No. 1779416

>>1779398
Wow, I didn’t realize how much she looked like the real deal. Great casting

No. 1779524

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There needs to be a global pornography ban.

No. 1779527

>>1779524
It makes me ill that there’s no age verification process for uploading porn videos and that millions of the uploaded hours of personal content could very well be of underaged children

No. 1779533


No. 1779548

>>1779524
why this the fortnite font

No. 1779746

Pugs and other flat nosed dogs are ugly and it takes a special kind of person to choose them over any other dog breed. The charm (for people who like them) IS that they're "so ugly they're cute".

No. 1812460

Everyone in the whole world should have enough food to eat everyday

No. 1813666

i like when fruits are crispy if not firm, juicy and best enjoyed cold. yummy freshness

No. 1813670

>>1813666
Especially cherries

No. 1813672

Every women is pretty until otherwise proven idc

No. 1813684

>>1813670
kek but for real though i just had such an amazing apple yesterday that infight reminded me of the experience i just had to post about it here as it's a popular opinion. haven't had cherries because i don't trust them (can be sour meanwhile apples never are. raspberries are the superior berry. or strawberries. grapes are comme ci comme ca depends on firmness)

No. 1813711

>>1813684
I'm a sick fuck and like the sour cherries.
I ate moldy raspberries a few days ago without realising (it was in middle where the stem gets pulled out)
I've never had an apple that's made me think I liked it

No. 1813748

>>1813711
>>1813684
you two made me remember the most epic apple i ever had. I was in kindergarten and we had a small apple forest growing there. One time we could harvest the apples and that apple i got was pink inside and tasted like pure love. I never had such an apple since then, even if it was pink inside too, it just wasn't not THAT good. God i wish everybody could taste it.

No. 1813766

>>1813684
apples can be sour

No. 1814603

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>>1813670
>>1813711
Guess what I'm eating right now nonnies

No. 1830678

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saged because i'm just annoyed and dumping this here after reading the grimes/elon thread.
this mentality is just retarded, most people who went through trauma become extremely mentally and even physically fragile, it's well known that people who endure childhood trauma have poor outcomes in life. i've found that, almost infuriatingly, coddled people have this delusional confidence and strong support system that massively works in their favor.

No. 1830682

>>1814603
no way !

No. 2057246

Having a husband doesn’t mean you’re not a single mom. Many times all fathers are is a burden. I’ve seen so many cases where the lights are on but he’s just not there. They’re so callous about their wife’s children and it always shows they’re not the one who created them. The best dads aren’t better than neglectful mothers. My own dad is pretty great and used to cook me dinner daily and I love him but he’s just not a mother, y’know? If I had the money for it I’d love to be a “single mom” one day. With a donor of course, not a baby daddy. I’d get a nanny to change diapers and do the dishes and she’d be all mine. No need to tolerate a scrote who wants to snatch her from my hands. I truly believe most families would be better off without adult men involved in them. It’s just not natural to create kinship ties like that.

No. 2057279

even an innocuous thread such as popular opinions gets derailed and raided by retards and admins think we're clutching pearls when nonnas say we want VPNs banned and scrotefoiling decriminalized.

No. 2071348

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Broad City was dog shit

No. 2071375

>>2071348
I think that you’re the only one that cares about this show.

No. 2071708

>>2071348
Am I wrong for enjoying it thus far (admittedly I'm a dumb bitch)

No. 2071713

>>2071708
nta but its still on the air?

No. 2071719

>>2071713
No I'm watching it on hulu

No. 2072319

>>2071708
it's really really good and I love it and they're geniuses

No. 2084125

Getting your nails and hair done every 2–3 weeks is a waste of time and money. It's better to learn to do it at home. I know some people say, "It makes you look presentable!" Or "it's just fun!". Yeah, and all of that is keeping you in debt.

No. 2084145

Most people, including those in various minority groups, are just completely average people minding their own business without any insane political or religious beliefs and it's a shame that people get lumped into for the sins of their respective communities. For every 1 retard there's 50 other completely normal people who nobody ever notices or talks about. Humans are so addicted to seeing the worst and negative traits of each other. I'm not saying humans are good basically but more like people are average basically.

No. 2084154

Allowing small bad things will snowball to allowing bigger worse things if left unchecked

No. 2084158

>>2084125
This isn’t a popular opinion, getting your nails and hair done is extremely popular.

No. 2084162

>>2084158
But I feel most people can agree that getting it done every 2-3 weeks is a waste of money.

No. 2180269

Rick and morty is truly the worst television show ever allowed to air

No. 2184167

Euthanise all pit bulls.(wrong thread)

No. 2184168

>>2084125
True that. I get my hair done once a year and I'm perfectly happy with that. Not putting any chemicals on my nails either.

No. 2184483

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The second half of Full Metal Jacket is indeed more boring than the first half, even though It had some interesting moments (the sniper scenes, the interview scene, the last scene).

No. 2184486

>>2184483
i think the second part is hotter i like seeing cute boys suffer

No. 2184512

The girl with the dragon tattoo (and the real life story behind it) is fucking revolting and I don’t understand how this was so popular when I was younger

No. 2184538

>>2184512
Agree so hard nona. I read that shit in 6th grade and then again in college and had to give up halfway through. Lisbeth is such a retarded Mary sue goth lesbian (with mediocre male exception) anachan wankbait NLOG and the parts with the guy are so fucking boring it might as well just instruct you to eat cardboard instead. The end with Lisbeth going on a retarded blackpill NLOG rant about how the rape victim was ACKCHYUALLY THE VILLAIN BECAUSE IF SHE TOLD ON HIM HE WOULD HAVE NEVER RAPED ANYONE ELSE despite the fact that Lisbeth herself didn't even tell the authorities about her very own anal rape, nooooo she just enacted her DARK TRIAD STACY REVENGE and he never raped again, the end!
So fucking stupid and retarded and I'm glad the author died.

No. 2191812

Non het sex is not sex(bait)

No. 2191848

>>2184486
>cute boys
where?

No. 2191858

>>2191812
Like another anon said, lesbian sex is just glorified third base. Not sure why that one rapey dyke ignited a huge fight in that unpopular opinions thread anyway. Like, what's a psycho lesbian actually gonna do if she wants to rape another woman? Finger her to death? Kek.(infight baiting)

No. 2191859

>>2191858
I don't understand your point?
Access to rape = sex
No access to rape = not sex
??? Why are you basing sex on the possibility of rape kek

No. 2191861

>>2191859
Reading comprehension, practice it. I'm looking at that infight about that dumb dyke saying she wants to torture other women, and anons freaking out about rapey lesbians. My point extends off of the fact that lesbian sex is just third base: that how can a lesbian truly be a threat to another woman anyway if the maximum sexual ability she can use is just touching below the waist and not truly fucking you? Go eat a cinnamon roll.

No. 2191885

>>2191861
that was either a falseflag or a baiter kek. are you so dumb that you believe everything you see here idgi

No. 2191907

>>1778897
Old post but I would say this applies even outside of relationships. People tend to value you more in general if you're someone who seems harder to get (but not TOO hard), if you're too nice and available they start taking you for granted and get bored of you. It's why a lot of people play childish games with texting for example and don't reply right away to make themselves seem "cooler" and less available, because they're scared they'll come off as a loser and "too easy".

No. 2192240

Ice cream sandwiches are tasty

No. 2192264

American Pie is such a beautiful song it makes me cry every single time I hear it no matter how old I get

No. 2192399

A popular take on here, but not in the outside world: most modern makeup and beauty trends make women look ridiculous. Clown makeup and fillers literally do not look good on anyone.

No. 2192402

>>2192399
I find it attractive when women wear lighter makeup, the clown makeup clearly seems to be manufactured by faggots

No. 2192404

>>2192399
i especially don't understand the extremely thick black false lashes. there has to be some kind of lash dysmorphia involved..

No. 2192419

>>2192404
yes they are especially bad. it just looks soooo chavvy and tacky and it makes your eyes look tiny. I can't believe how much women pay to look this bad too.

No. 2192447

>>2191858
I wasn't just talking about lesbian sex you dicksucker

No. 2192491

>>2192465
You have to be gullible as hell to fall for this

No. 2192496

I do not believe in misandry towards cats!

No. 2194205

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Return to dumbass shit, lock unpopular opinions

No. 2194744

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Aileen Wuornos was based and there will never be another woman like her

No. 2194781

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Korean men should all choke on their saliva. Misogynistic, abusive uggos who expect to have women fall at their knees. The average Korean man is ugly and has a small dick too kek, cha eunwoo is one in a million.

No. 2194782

>>2194744
Wish she killed more men before they caught her.

No. 2194819

>>2194781
I’m convinced there is no such thing as a good Korean scrote atp. They all seem disgusting and piggish to me. Same applies for other similar countries, but Korea really frightens me.

No. 2194870

>>2194781
How do you, not only get overweight as a male, but also get overweight as a Korean male?

No. 2194890

Family Guy is funny

No. 2196923

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calicos are the best cats

No. 2196927

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>>2196923
they're nice and all but everyone knows black cats = best cats

No. 2226762

Vegetables taste like shit

No. 2226763

>>2196923
>multicolored
>primarily female
Based. I want one so bad

No. 2226774


No. 2226778

>>2196927
Black cats know they're black cats. But all cats are best cats

No. 2292622

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Back moids are fucking pigs.

No. 2292652

>>2292622
what is back moids?

No. 2292660

>>2292652
It's when everyone stops taking your bait in unpopular opinions so you have to try and bait in other threads but because you're so focused on being annoying you don't realize your typos.

No. 2292771

>>2292669
not debating the opinion itself but i don't think this is popular anon

No. 2295553

>>2292622
I think the man who defended everyone on that train is cute

No. 2295562


No. 2295585

I really love scrambled eggs.

No. 2342291

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Pewdiepie is the only man on youtube who is a good person and deserves the happiness he currently has. Most of the other youtube e-moids are disgusting pigs who don't deserve anything, pewdiepie is a great dad and great husbando for Marzia.

No. 2342302

>>2342291
I agree, hopefully he'll be a good rolemodel for dad behaviour when he has to post his kid online. It would be better if he didn't but at least some positives come out of that.

No. 2342305

>>2342291
i feel like anyone who believes this hasn't seen his older videos

No. 2342307

>>2342305
NTA even if he had questionable content in the past (which is NOTHING compared to the vile shit other famous youtubers have done and are doing still) should not affect how his current content is viewed. Which is him taking responsibility for being a role model to millions of young people, understanding his influence and position and actually showing them how to be a good parent and person.

No. 2342364

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>>2342291
not true the only good male streamer on youtube is coryxkenshin he just plays games he doesnt even curse. I would become religious for him kek.

No. 2342366

>>2342291
Yeah and he helped normalize Ben Shapiro as just a funny quirky guy

No. 2342369

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>>2342291
He dated a 16 year old called Progley when he was 21.

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No. 2342373

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>>2342364
My vote for most wholesome goes to Caseoh my beloved

No. 2342401

>>2342369
umm this is normal in European countries? The age of consent in Sweden is 15 years old and it's pretty common in my eurofag country for people in university to date high schoolers and no one cares. Some countries have even lower age of consent. Wait til you find out about Hungary.

No. 2342408

>>2342373
anyone with a black kitty has my heart i will give his streams a try!

No. 2342411

>>2342401
And? It's still gross for a man in his 20s to have dated someone who was still in high school.
>Some countries have even lower age of consent
It's still pedophilia. In the Philippines the age of consent is 12 but that doesn't make it any less creepy and fucked up. Weirdo.

No. 2342413

>>2342401
it's legal, but not normalized or accepted no. being legal doesn't make something okay.

No. 2342419

>>2342408
Anon he's so funny, I recommend his indie horror video games series!

No. 2342440

>>2342413
>>2342411
it is culturally accepted and normalized in my country, especially 10+ years ago it was very common, idk how it works rn but I read recently it's still normal and accepted to date high schoolers while being in university. Not every country lives by amerifag laws. Their age difference isn't that big either, I knew couples with a 10 year age gap and no one batted an eye including their parents. I doubt that he was taking advantage of this girl but we have no way of knowing that so it's really reaching.

No. 2342449

>>2342440
I agree on the uni students dating highschoolers, common and normal where i'm from too. It's not that much of a difference, both high schoolers and uni students are equally dumb. + People have bigger problems than constanly police young people's relationships.

No. 2342450

>>2342440
it's not just about the age difference, it's also that their life experience is entirely different. nobody would be defending this if it was any other youtuber. plus "everyone does it" is not an excuse, years ago in some countries it was culturally accepted for men to beat their wives.

No. 2342458

>>2342450
You have to understand that 10+ years ago this wasn't a thing in Europe. No one was shunning this and no one was building some ideology around it, saying the life experiences are too different (sometimes this was even seen as a good thing, ie. the older person would help the younger one) and prying into people's lives and projecting onto them like they are now. People were just dating, there was no hard edge of 18 years old under which it was wrong to date someone. In my country it only became a thing in the last 4 years where people constantly ask everyone about their age as one of the first things when meeting a new person because they are scared of getting involved with someone who is too young. But it just simply wasn't a concept 10+ years ago.

No. 2342463

>>2342458
But the point is that it still isn't right. Everyone accepting it =/= no longer fucked up. Lots of awful things were seen as good.

No. 2342478

>>2342463
Did you ever leave the us? Most people here don't move out to live on a campus when they graduate high school to live in a bubble full of same aged people, people mingle here in a wide spectrum of ages. Life is completely different here and if you haven't grown up here then you can't really project your ideas like that.
>Everyone accepting it =/= no longer fucked up
If there's no one telling you to not do something and it's treated like something completely normal, how the hell do you come to the conclusion it's wrong and you shouldn't do it? Do you not understand how culture works? Yeah maybe it's not the best by US cultural norms and standards. Here, it's normal. There are really much bigger issues than a couple with that age difference peacefully dating. I'm very much against anyone taking advantage of anyone else but you can't introduce a concept that was not widely spread at the time it was happening about something that is not obviously harmful to another person or group of people (like physical abuse, SA, slavery etc), and project it more than 10 years into the past when it was considered a commonplace and normal behavior (and still is in my country at least) and use it to prove someone is evil or worth less. This is really reaching and would only make sense if she herself came out with allegations that he was abusing her during the relationship

No. 2342492

Damn this thread…Nobody here would be jumping through all these 'not all men' hoops if it was someone like, idk gamegrumps or some shit dating 16 year olds

No. 2342591

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>>2342478
>If there's no one telling you to not do something and it's treated like something completely normal, how the hell do you come to the conclusion it's wrong and you shouldn't do it?
Sheesh I'd fear to see your opinions on middle eastern countries kek. Unrelated country but pic related used to be legal

No. 2417993

This one
>>>/sty/1981

No. 2417996

>>2342401
no nonna, dating teenagers as an university aged person is not normal in europe. also he was known for being a nazi years ago, I don't know why sudddently people love him.

No. 2423463

>>2342291
>watches pedophilic anime after having a kid
>unironically racist
>fetishizes Japan and moves there because it's "aethethetic" (wtf), literally can't stop saying that in his videos when he looks at a mountain or even building
>alt right retard
Hmm…yeah great guy

No. 2423466

>>2342401
This is such a lie kek and everyone in Sweden hates you. Creep.

No. 2423467

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>anons UNIRONICALLY pulling the sweaty scrotoid "muh age of consent" card to defend a fucking YOUTUBER
You are all the female version of picrel.(learn2reply)

No. 2423468

>>2342401
As another Eurofag not all of us come from blackwater shitholes where the population is brainwashed by Catholic pedo priests, sorry.

No. 2423472

>>2423467
I keep having the little voice in the back of my head that the anons defending it are actually scrotes, but I have to remain open and acknowledge that there are women with some dogshit perspectives and opinions about how the world should work. So I'm not gonna scrotefoil. Nope.

No. 2447662

The Weeknd is really carrying the torch of Michael Jackson.

Besides being a total pedo of course

No. 2447676

Trans”women” are delusional mentally ill men
>Define delusional/mentally ill
Strictly believing in something that doesnt match up with reality at all
>What is a woman
Someone born with uterus / XX chromosome.
Therefor, men (scrote, XY chromosome) who think they possess any of these traits “Inside” are delusional and mentally ill. I dont know why its so hard to understand.

No. 2447682

>>2196923
Objectively true. Mine is a sweetheart.

No. 2447731

Men who are too much into anime, videogames or movies are horrible and should be avoided at all costs.

No. 2447768

>>2447731
Facts. Their entire life is just consumption

No. 2447770

>>2447662
this is a popular opinion? i thought this guy was only moderately popular

No. 2447958

>>2447770
Oh nona, Starboy and Beauty Behind the Madness are considered to be some of the bestselling albums of the 10’s; behind Adele’s 21 of course

No. 2447961

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I love it when babies hold my finger. So cute!

No. 2447962

>>2447961
I love when babies stare at me in public, their little eyeballs moving is so heartwarming

No. 2447966

>>2447961
It's cute when I make a baby laugh, it makes me really happy.

No. 2451690

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I don't really care for Love and Deepspace, I tried playing it and it just wasn't for me, it might be ugly man psy-op in effect idk. But it makes me so happy to see nonnas finally have a game that really panders to them, I love browsing the LADS thread because nonnas affection for the characters is so cute.
The fact that LADS makes men seethe is also a bonus.

No. 2451695

there's only 2 genders.

No. 2451704

>>2451695
I agree but I'll go even further and say that gender doesn't even exist. There are only 2 sexes female and male.

No. 2451710

It is always nice to see loving pet owners getting along with the pets that clearly love them.

No. 2456983

America has the worst chocolate

No. 2516320

Proposing to a man is some of the most cringeworthy shit I’ve ever witnessed in my life…I think there’s a reason why the scrote is expected to be the one who purchases an expensive ring for you, then drops to his knees and begs you to spend the rest of his life with him.

No. 2516324

People should all be at a normal weight.

No. 2516331

>>2516320
Proposing to a man is a powermove. It makes it clear who wears the pants in the relationship (you).
I'm not sure why you want to support traditional gender roles.

No. 2516342

>>2516331
It’s not really that much of a power move because the act of proposing to someone is begging them to let you love them, you’re giving them the ability to either shrug and say yes or laugh in your face. I think proposing to a scrote is just laughable.

No. 2516345

>>2516331
>powermove
Kek

No. 2516348

>>2447662
He’s one my favorite artist unfortunately. Music wise he’s really phenomenal and he’s a great performer compared to other scrotes , he puts on shows, his eras are all interesting.

No. 2516368

>>2516342
>>2516345
>old traditional gender roles were actually better for women
Pickme central is thataways

No. 2516373

>>2516368
nta, and I don't believe in traditional gender roles, but it's hilarious you think being super "progressive" will work out in your favor. I'll never go 50/50 on a date, I will never propose to a scrote, and I also won't cook and clean for a scrote. By acting like a libfeb you will only ever get bottom of the barrel scrotes that like the convenience of you doing everything a woman AND a man is expected to do, without them doing much in return. Most moids don't deserve for you to throw them a crumb of bread and they have to prove they are actually serious, committed, and reliable.

No. 2516378

>>2516368
Anon that’s not even really “old traditional gender roles” kek. That’s just choosing not to humiliate yourself. Again, if you wanna get on your knees and beg your scrote to let you take care of him forever, you are more than welcome to do so.

No. 2516380

>>2516373
>>2516378
In for a penny, in for a pound. You support the smallest gender role, you support gender roles in whole.

No. 2516382

>>2516331
Scrotes are required to beg on their knees and purchase an expensive ring to marry you and this is oftentimes the only time he will be submissive to women in his life. It's no powermove when a woman does this.

No. 2516384

>>2516368
>you guys are pickme’s for…not getting on your knees and begging a smelly moid to get married to you
neither of your anons but that sounds like the opposite of pickmeism? proposing to a guy is literally asking if he’ll pick you KEK

No. 2516387

>>2516380
Ok nonny well if me and millions of other women having self respect in your mind aligns with supporting traditional gender roles then thats how you feel

No. 2516389

>>2516380
>You CANNOT have nuanced beliefs about a subject, you MUST agree with EVERYTHING or NOTHING
Yawn. Reddit is that way.

No. 2516390

>>2516382
>>2516384
>women are weak scrawny princesses who need a strong chivalric knight
yawn
Why don't you be the knight for your darling prince?
>>2516387
>having a moid do everything is self respect
Do you need him to wipe your ass for you too?(bait)

No. 2516392

>>2516390
Third anon, how is not proposing to a scrote “having him do everything”? Did you propose to your nigel and that’s why you’re taking this so personally?

No. 2516399

>>2516392
I'm sick of hypocrites on lc who support gender roles.
>>2516389
>I'm a strong independent woman
>with some exceptions of course

No. 2516400

>>2516390
>you guys are pick me’s!!
>it’s not pickmeism to not beg a guy to marry us
>oh so you think all women are weak scrawny incapable princesses who need to be saved?
you’re actually incoherent

No. 2516402

>>2516400
Gender roles are wrong. I don't know what more to say.

No. 2516404

>>2516399
I’m trying to have a conversation with you anon, I’d appreciate if you could answer my question. In what way is simply not dropping to my knees and presenting my nigel with a beautiful ring, then asking him if he’ll marry me “having him do everything” kek? We’ve already gone over a couple times how it’s not even an opinion based on gender roles or tradition or stuff like that

No. 2516405

>>2516399
If that's what you took from the greentext, it just goes to show that you're too dense to have these conversations kek
>>2516402
Case in point. Just because gender roles are bad doesn't mean you have to scramble to boost a moid's already-inflated ego.

No. 2516406

>>2516402
But they exist and you pretending like you are "owning the patriarchy" by proposing to a scrote is laughable. You can only do that by being opportunistic and smart, how many have been acting towards women for many millennia, not thinking that if you propose to your scrote, he will see you as equal.

No. 2516407

>>2516402
but that’s not what being a pick me is…a pick me is when you’re a woman who does things or behaves in certain ways to try to garner men’s attention or gain their acceptance, a pretty pristine example of literally asking a man to pick you would be asking him to marry you, so are you just throwing around terms you don’t completely understand or what

No. 2516410

>>2516404
The point is to be open to the possibility of proposing to your nigel. Otherwise, you're just supporting traditional roles.
>>2516405
So you admit gender roles are bad. Why don't you understand that I'm against them?
>>2516406
>they exist
You don't have to obey them. That's the thing.
>>2516407
Gender roles support the patriarchy. Supporting gender roles = supporting moids = pickmeism.

No. 2516415

>>2516410
But you could say that about a very large variety of things we do every single day as women though, anon? Not just the act of a marriage proposal. If we apply this logic to everything, then having long hair is supporting traditional gender roles, me wearing a skirt is supporting traditional gender roles, me cleaning my house is supporting traditional gender roles. Am I and other women not supposed to do any of these things simply because you think that it’s us “supporting moids” kek?

No. 2516418

>>2516410
>you’re supporting the patriarchy when you don’t spend money on setting up a whole proposal and then ask your moid to pick you
ok anon kek sounds good to me

No. 2516420

>>2516415
The difference is the possibility. You have long hair, but you could have short hair, you wear skirts, but you could wear pants. But you're a pickme if you would never ever ask a man for marriage.
>>2516418
Why does a marriage proposal need to take so much money? That you think so reveals your own materialism.

No. 2516424

>>2516410
This is kinda confusing though. If you’re against supporting moids and the patriarchy then naturally you’d be against proposing to one

No. 2516430

>>2516420
You’re not answering the question very well though, how’s it pick meism to not ask a man to pick me? Kek

No. 2516434

>>2516420
and now she’s changing the topic because she’s realizing how dumb she sounds kek

No. 2516436

>>2516430
>>2516424
>>2516434
Libfems gonna libfem.

No. 2516438

>>2516430
The proposer is the one doing the picking, hello? If you propose, you are picking him. If you're a pickme, you want him to pick you and propose to you.
>>2516424
How is it supporting moids when I'm the dominant one in the relationship?

No. 2516439

>>2516420
>But you're a pickme if you would never ever ask a man for marriage.
Lesbianons; you guys are premium pickme’s according to this user

No. 2516443

>>2516439
Obviously I'm talking about heterosexuals only.
>>2516434
Hit too close to home, huh?

No. 2516446

>>2516400
I will save you time, she is mad her scrote won't propose so her proposing to him is actually based and femanist and YOU are the pickme if your scrote proposes to you

No. 2516449

>>2516439
I’m bi and I’d rather die than propose to a man but I’d love to propose to a woman.

No. 2516454

>>2516438
I know we have a lot of young users here and there’s been an influx of newfags recently thanks, roblox anons…# but I don’t think you’re comprehending a marriage proposal completely. When someone is being proposed to, you’re asking and giving them the option to pick you. You’re quite literally getting down on your knees and asking “will you please pick me so that we can spend our lives together?” You don’t have the power in that scenario, because you do not decide whether your nigel will say yes or no to you. The way you’re describing a marriage proposal kind of reveals to me that you haven’t experienced anything like this before in your personal life, because it reads like kind of a fantasy about how you think proposing to a scrote would go lol..

No. 2516455

>>2516449
>I'm bi
that says it all
>>2516446
>her proposing to him is actually based and femanist and YOU are the pickme if your scrote proposes to you
This but unironically

No. 2516458

>>2516443
well you actually did change the subject from engagement to finances, so…that kinda reads as you trying to move away from the original topic, to people who aren’t fucking autistic kek

No. 2516460

>>2516454
You pick who to propose to. A yes or no reply isn't picking.

No. 2516464

>>2516458
you were the one who brought up the expenses of proposals, not me

No. 2516465

>>2516438
>how is begging my nigel to marry me supporting moids? huh??
oh dear…

No. 2516468

>>2516460
Actually, yeah. It is. Choosing whether or not you want to marry someone is picking.

No. 2516470

>>2516465
>begging
If he loves me, it's not begging

No. 2516472

>>2516464
i brought it up in passing when mentioning how, at least normal men in my country, usually buy a ring and schedule a date and make a whole evening of when they’re going to propose to their lady…you attempted to change the entire topic to “materialism” kek

No. 2516473

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>>2516470
Oh my god.

No. 2516477

>>2516470
Wow. I’ll say a prayer for you tonight.

No. 2516484

>>2516468
Then choosing whom to propose to is the greater picking.
>propose to me for marriage, don't propose to any one else please!
>>2516472
None of that is essential to proposals. So you're the one changing the subject by bringing it up.
>>2516473
>>2516477
>no arguments
I accept your defeat.
>>2516478
>gender roles mean women are actually dominant!
>we should stick with gender roles!

No. 2516489

>>2516484
>Then choosing whom to propose to is the greater picking.
How is that so? Because the one doing the proposing is the one asking “will you pick me” so how are they the one doing the “greater picking” when they’re not in control at all at that point?
>I accept your defeat
Anon I’m not trying to be rude or sound infighty when I say this but, “it’s not begging if he loves me” is the most pick me response you could’ve come up with.

No. 2516491

>>2516484
Kek, your impotent rage about this topic is funny. It's very telling how, of all things, proposals are the gender role you choose to sperg about, and it's the "materialism" of the whole thing which bothers you the most even though a high quality ring would last longer and be less wasteful but I digress. I'm sorry he didn't tie the knot with you but this isn't a good coping mechanism.

No. 2516495

>>2516484
i said in my country that’s what the norm is. if in your opinion that’s not essential to a proposal that you would attempt to do, then ok! but that doesn’t really alter the norm for everyone else. rings cost money, going to dinner costs money, buying some champagne costs money, these are all common practices with a proposal setup.

No. 2516499

>>2516489
It's like picking apples from the tree. The proposer is the farmer who engages the act of picking. The one being proposed to is the apple getting picked. The apple chooses to yield to the farmer. But the apple does not "pick" the farmer, because if the farmer does nothing, the apple cannot do anything either. The whole picking is in the hands of the farmer. Likewise, the proposer is the picker.
>>2516491
Materialism is wrong. Also, you don't even need a ring to propose.
>>2516495
It's the norm for women to be pickmes, yup.

No. 2516501

>>2516484
Please tell me you are not also planning to work while he is a "house husband" oh my god…

No. 2516502

>>2516501
Inb4 retardanon replies to you with "being a housewife/taking a man's money is wrong" kek

No. 2516506

>>2516501
Why not? What's wrong with having a beautiful househusband, who takes care of all the cooking and cleaning for me, while I pursue a meaningful career?

No. 2516507

>>2516502
>being a tradwife is based actually
I hope you don't really think that.

No. 2516508

>>2516499
But going apple picking isn’t the same as having a longterm relationship between two people and then deciding that you want to spend the rest of your life with your mate, and asking if they’d be generous enough to do that with you. That’s legitimately asking them to pick you, anon. Because 50% of marriage proposals result in the one being proposed to saying “No” or a breakup occurring, and that’s because the proposed chose not to pick the proposer.

No. 2516509

>>2516506
HOLY SHIT

No. 2516511

>>2516507
NTAYRT but you can still take a mans money without being locked down to tradthottery, especially if you guys can afford a maid

No. 2516513

>>2516507
Ayrt, of course not, but our resident moron seems to think in black and white terms.

No. 2516515

>>2516508
You should consider that there would be no "yes" or "no" if the proposer doesn't propose to begin with. So if you're not willing to propose, you have to sit on your ass waiting the whole time. Does this sound like "picking" to you?

No. 2516518

>>2516499
how is it pickmeism for the guy begging to be picked by his girlfriend spending his money on her? wtf lmfao

No. 2516522

>>2516515
Waiting for what though? Not everyone’s life revolves around marriage or finding a husband the way yours seems to, some of us just want to enjoy ourselves kek.

No. 2516523

>>2516506
Is…is he reading this over your shoulder, anon? Are you being forced to type this at gunpoint? Kek twice if you need help.

No. 2516540

>>2516513
So why are you saying it's bad to hate tradwifery
>>2516511
>you can be entirely dependent on your husband for money without being submissive
>>2516518
>the guy begging to be picked by his girlfriend
The one being proposed doesn't do the picking. The proposer picks who to propose to.
>>2516522
The topic at hand is proposal.

No. 2516551

>>2516540
You should also buy him flowers and shower him with gifts this will truly stick it to the patriarchy

No. 2516556

>>2516540
I know anon, I wrote the original post kek. And my opinion was:
>Proposing to a man is some of the most cringeworthy shit I’ve ever witnessed in my life…I think there’s a reason why the scrote is expected to be the one who purchases an expensive ring for you, then drops to his knees and begs you to spend the rest of his life with him.
That’s not me or any of the anons who agreed with me saying that you should do everything in your power to try to get your nigel to propose to you kek, I also don’t believe anyone needs to get married at all. But many people believe if you’re in a heterosexual relationship, the moid should be the one who does the begging. If your version of smashing the patriarchy is financing your husbands livelihood and letting him live in your house then yknow what nonna, I hope you two are very happy together.

No. 2516559

>>2516540
The post wasn't saying it was bad to hate tradwifery. It was anticipating that you would miss the point kek

No. 2516563

>>2516551
Does your moid actually ever buy you flowers?
>>2516559
So you missed the point with your false anticipation
>>2516556
>the moid is begging when you support traditional gender roles

No. 2516564

>>2516563
>you support traditional gender roles
Well really it’s the moid who is, considering he’s the one doing the proposal.

No. 2516565

>>2516564
You support him through inaction and denying the possibility of reversing the roles.

No. 2516575

>>2516565
Ok so even though you’re supporting him by giving him all your money and allowing him to squat in your house, we’re tottallly supporting the moids way more by not trying to find some scrote to beg to marry us

No. 2516578

>>2516575
>you’re supporting him by giving him all your money and allowing him to squat in your house
What the hell are you talking about? I'm talking about proposals.

No. 2516581

>>2516368
Wake up, the progressive bullshit you are believing in still doesn’t favor women when women are the ones doing most domestic labour and still working, marriage still disadvantages women even when they are the ones proposing, getting on your knees and spending money for a ring it’s not breaking up anything. Same as hook up culture, 50/50, it just benefits men.

No. 2516583

>>2516578
Anon, you literally wrote a post that said:
>Why not? What's wrong with having a beautiful househusband, who takes care of all the cooking and cleaning for me, while I pursue a meaningful career?

No. 2516586

>>2516583
Yeah, but that's a different point that has nothing to do with proposing.
>>2516581
>gender roles oppress women
>defying gender roles also oppresses women
c'mon

No. 2516589

>>2516586
I’m asking you a question, though. So I’ll ask you again, you believe anons who don’t look for a scrote and then beg him to marry them are supporting moids more than women who support their “househusbands” whole lives? You think “our inaction” supports the patriarchy more than you actively working just to support your moid?

No. 2516596

Popular Opinions =/= Infighting and Bait Central

No. 2516600

>>2516589
She’s a retard nonna. Women having respect for themselves is now pickmeism and patriarchy can just be dismantled by getting on our knees for men kek.
Breaking gender roles for a woman means to solely focus on herself, prioritize her career , her jobs , her dreams and not getting into situations that put her at a disadvantage, the most genders breaking thing you can do is not get married in the first place.

No. 2516604

>>2516600
>patriarchy can just be dismantled by getting on our knees for men kek.
Libtards have acid in their brains I swear. That nonna probably thinks that prostitution is empowering too.

No. 2516605

>>2516596
It’s clearly just one anon who wants to be contrarian. I come here to agree, not to see anons who strive to slave just to give their scrote more cash…

No. 2516606

>>2516589
I believe anons who unconditionally follow traditional gender roles are supporting the patriarchy, yes. And being in control of the relationship and marriage is not supporting the patriachy.

No. 2516609

>>2516600
Breaking gender roles means not waiting on your ass for a moid.
>>2516604
Didn't know there were conservitards on lc.

No. 2516610

You should get over yourself and be an adult if you are picky eater or excuse yourself from eating out if there aren’t your specific accommodations.

No. 2516611

>>2516606
How is not asking a man to marry you supporting traditional gender roles though? OP does not say “I’d only ever get married if a man asked me!!!” kek. It’s myself and others cringing at thoughtless women who get on their knees to beg some vile scrote to let her pay his rent.

No. 2516612

>>2516609
Yeah anything that disagrees with you is conservative and fascist, glad to know. Shut up now.

No. 2516613

>>2516606
Do you know that you are in control even when you have to say yes or no kek?

No. 2516614

>>2516611
Hello? Either the man proposes, or the woman does. If you say the woman should never propose, that's saying the man should always be the proposer, and is supporting traditional gender roles.
>>2516612
so you admit it

No. 2516616

>>2516600
>>2516604
Y’all are right, I need to gain some self control and learn to stop responding kek.

No. 2516619

>>2516613
>waiting on your ass for a moid to propose
>that one yes or no means you're in control
You wouldn't even have the option of yes or no if the moid doesn't propose to you in the first place.

No. 2516621

>>2516616
>loses argument
>runs away
kek

No. 2516622

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>>2516613
I feel like you are one of those women who have been with men who have given them scraps , where you had to beg for attention and act , while they even had lingering eyes or even lingering dicks. That’s why you are so mad.
Propose to your scrote nonna, we hardly care kek, you’ll just look stupid.

No. 2516624

>>2516614
If it’s supporting traditional gender roles to cringe when one sees a woman proposing to her moid, then maybe you should redirect that thought to unpopular opinions.

No. 2516626

>>2516616
Make sure to use sensitive wipes when wiping your Nigel’s ass nonna. Take care!

No. 2516628

>>2516624
>it’s supporting traditional gender roles to cringe when one sees a woman breaking traditional gender roles
Yes.

No. 2516629

>>2516619
If a man doesn’t want to marry me I’m simply going to leave, hello? Kek.

No. 2516631

>>2516373
Based af. Not to mention no male is ever worth it anyways.

No. 2516632

>>2516606
Marriage is fine imo, but changing your last name to match your moid's is vile.

No. 2516633

>>2516621
We know you’re just trying to infight bait but you can see the majority of anons feel the same way about this, I feel like being a woman who drops on your knees to beg if you can finance your scrotes entire life is really being the biggest loser. I hope you wake up nonnie.

No. 2516634

>>2516626
You replied to the wrong poster, dummy
>>2516629
Yeah, except how would you know if he wanted to marry you unless there was a proposal?
>>2516631
Okay, you can die alone then
>>2516632
That's why he has to change his last name to mine.

No. 2516635

>>2516438
>>2516614
>>2516629
>Hello?
>hello?
>hello?
Bitch are you knocking on a door

No. 2516636

>>2516626
I’m more than happy to continue this conversation because now I need to ask, how is it “wiping someone’s ass” (nonexistent ass, mind you) to…not want to propose to a moid, and also not want to pay his rent? Really I think the clearest example of wiping a mans ass would be working all day long to support his life

No. 2516637

>>2516633
>majority of anons
Anons on lc are hybristrophilic luigifags for an ugly moid. I wouldn't respect their opinion for the world.

No. 2516638

>>2516634
>die alone
Nobody dies in pairs??? Tf? Are you like physically sewn together with your Nigel so when your heart stops his also stops at the same time and both of you die together? What sorcery is this?

No. 2516641

>>2516634
>Yeah, except how would you know if he wanted to marry you unless there was a proposal?
There’s something called a deadline retard.
>you can die alone
Better than begging for someone who didn’t have the balls to propose in the first place. Being alone isn’t the end of the world and if you think that it’s an insult it’s quite telling on what your priorities are. I have more going on than being with a man.

No. 2516642

>>2516634
>Muh dying alone
Kek, why do they always default to this? Women live longer on average anyway.

No. 2516643

>>2516637
Aren’t there upwards of like 8,000 users and only around 1,000 of them use /g/? I don’t have the stats near me

No. 2516644

>>2516636
Sorry nonna I meant to reply to the retard kek. You are good.

No. 2516647

>>2516628
Because in the real world and not in "muh femanist libfem transgressive" bubble, pretty much everyone can tell the only reason a woman proposes to a man is because he won't do it. It's like how a man wearing a skirt is "ideologically powerful and challenges conceived gender roles in a transgressive and provocative way" but irl anyone with half a brain knows it's not that deep, he's just a pervert

No. 2516648

>>2516641
>deadline
Well, what's the deadline, then? Two years? If you tell your moids, "if you won't marry me after two years we're through", then that is essentially proposing to him. Giving a moid a deadline is essentially a proposal.

No. 2516649

>>2516643
Plus a lot of the posters in that thread are unintegrated Redditfags, so they're not exactly a good representation of the general userbase.

No. 2516650

>>2516642
I bet she’s also into open relationships kek

No. 2516651

>>2516628
Ok so, once again, you should probably take that over to unpopular opinions. Cause it’ll probably get redtexted here for not being a popular opinion.

No. 2516655

>>2516644
KEK I’m sorry anon that response makes me look like such a sperg now

No. 2516658

>>2516605
Yes that's obvious, but what I don't understand is why you're trying to reason with them. There is no "winning" in an online argument.

No. 2516659

>>2516647
Greatly put nonna

No. 2516660

>>2516644
>replies to the wrong post
Who's the real retard?
>>2516647
Why can't it be both?
>>2516650
No, those things are cringe?
>>2516651
>simple logic isn't popular
Story of the world

No. 2516661

>>2516658
In fact let us change topics

No. 2516662

Anyway…My popular opinion is that picky eaters are annoying. Now you guys go!

No. 2516663

Potatoes are the best vegetables

No. 2516665

>>2516662
If it’s something like ARFID or having an intestinal problem I can understand. But healthy people who are picky are just so childish and most of the time they always want to be accommodated too.

No. 2516671

>>2516647
>pretty much everyone can tell the only reason a woman proposes to a man is because he won't do it
The fact that you're incapable of believing on love is disappointing.

No. 2516677

Sunshine is beautiful and I love to hear birds sing outside my window.

No. 2516678

>>2516658
It’s not more trying to reason with them, I just in the beginning enjoy responding to what they claim as being their opinion with a reasonable question and seeing how they decide to respond. It’s gone from
>Proposing to moids is smashing the patriarchy
>Whats wrong with having a househusband and paying his rent while he sits around jerking off?
>You guys are just materialists

No. 2516679

Having even a semi-consistent routine is crucial to mental health and can be attained by literally anyone with the slow adoption of micro-habits.

No. 2516681

I hate it so much when my wisdom teeth ache. I wish you could just take them out by yourself

No. 2516683

At the end of the day, people pick each other.

No. 2516687

>>2516678
>It’s not more trying to reason with them
That's because you're wrong.(infighting/baiting)

No. 2516688

Lolcow anons love assuming and hate going outside

No. 2516696

I sometimes enjoy popular music

No. 2516697


No. 2516700

>>2516665
I'm with you, anon. Aside from allergies and shit, grown-ass adults with toddler tastes in food are annoying. Like, I know you tried a tomato on something once when you were 7 and you didn't like it because mommy or the lunch lady prepared it shittily, but that doesn't mean you get "no tomato" on everything for all eternity. Fuckin' choose life.

No. 2516709

>>2516687
In your opinion you think that all of us who feel this way are wrong. That’s why it was recommended that you take your househusband fantasy to unpopular opinions, because that’s what that thread is exactly made for.

No. 2516723

>>2516665
>>2516700
I don't understand how adult picky eaters don't die of malnutrition. Like, how do you live without a leafy green or two and only eat chicken nuggets and drink soda?

No. 2516726

>>2516723
My ex-boyfriend’s sister was the pickiest eater. She only ate chicken and no other meat. Her wedding was catered by a bbq restaurant and they had to make sure the restaurant could provide chicken tenders too so she would have something to eat. This woman was 26.

No. 2516751

>>2516723
Yeah, I've known a few picky eaters and I've wondered the same thing. I understand not liking the taste of something if you've tried it prepared a few different ways. But deciding you hate vegetables as an adolescent and never trying any dish that contains vegetables forever after? You're gonna get the scurvy. Or at the very least a greasy complexion and shitty digestion. I knew a woman who was like this. She was always sick.



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