/ot/ - off-topic

My husband's ex. I tried being friends with her at first because there are kids involved and I wanted everything to be easier for them. She ends up being a manipulative cunt who only cares about you if you can fuel her ego somehow. She makes friends easily because she seems laid back and fun but burns her bridges really quickly if they don't do anything for her.

Story time.

>She made friends with a really sweet gay guy we'll call B.

>B had some bad self-esteem issues and slept around a lot.

>B ended up getting HIV from one of his flings but doesn't know it right away until he had to go to the ER due to a lung infection.

>At this point the docs say his chances are really low but he wants to try aggressive therapy to fight it.

>He seeks out comfort and support from his friends.

>The Cunt tells him to stop contacting her because she can't be bothered to emotionally support him. A man who was supposed to be her one of her closest friends.

>He ends up dying a few months later because his infection just wouldn't clear up.

>She doesn't bother to even show up to his funeral but posts all over FB how sad she is.

>Internet asspats all around.

I have a ton of stories but that one will always stick out as one of the worst that didn't directly happen to me, my husband, or the kids. She told me before that she was diagnosed with bipoloar disorder but I sincerely believe she may have narcissistic personality disorder.

My best friend became friends with a fuckboi a few years ago. They met through a mutual friend and he basically took the guy in after his girlfriend threw him out for cheating on her.

I don't know why my friend likes this dude. He's the epitome of a tumblr kid and 'memes' a lot. I hate his guts so much. I don't even see my best friend as often as I'd like because he's always there. I thought the living together thing would be a year or less but he never went away and I have no idea how to deal with it.

I always buy my best friends birthday and christmas gifts and they never get me anything back. I haven't gotten a birthday gift in like 3 years from anyone. I act like it doesn't bug me but lol I feel like crap because of it.

>>171517
Either stop getting then gifts or tell them how you feel. Gifts are gifts, not something you are meant to expect a return on.
I hate getting gifts because I sure as hell can't afford to give them back, and I tell people that.

My current date has got this annoying girl friend who hits on him so desperately, lol.
>He posts a funny pic on fb about people who never want to leave their bed
>She comments: "Need company?"
>He ignores her
>He posts a pic
>She always, always hits the heart button
>He posts a pic with a phrase about men who treat their girlfriends right "in bed"
>She comments: "I reeeeally agree"
>He ignores her
>She always insists to take pictures alone with him when they're with friends
I'm not the type that gets offended by a dumb hoe hitting on your bf, even when he just ignores her, but it's not about him anymore, she was disrespecting me and this I couldn't bear. So I insisted to meet her, now she's calmed down. I think she understood that I could seriously beat her ass up. Bye Felicia

>>171518
It's not that I 'expect' them in return. Its like… I go out of my way to do things for them, like even going so far as to lend them money when they need it, and they never do the same for me. They ask for gifts and shit.

Its irritating lol. See it would be different if it was like how you said. But they go "hey guys lets all get gifts for each other haha secret santa and shit" then they never do the same for anyone else. They "run out of money" every time. But its cool because they get their gifts. Not just me but the rest of our friends.

So funny this year I am just going to spend their gift money on a different friend and get them something really nice and "run out" of money on them.

>>171519
he posts stupid shit hth

>>171521
Sometimes, but it's normal stuff people post. Just the thing about men treating women right came off a bit cringy, but it was just an awkward way to send me a "message" I guess. Plus, that's a phrase you usually hear in fedora guys memes, but he's far from being a fedora so it doesn't concern me.

Can't say either of these bitches are much in my life anymore but I still see their selfish ass posts on fb and I both laugh and cringe.

Like most other people, I had poorfag friends in high school who initially were okay to me but over time manipulated me to do a bunch of crap for them without an ounce of gratitude.
I was the only one in our circle with a car, so they were constantly begging for free rides up until I was 19 and started to demand gas money, then they did it less.
At my high school graduation party they seriously asked me if I could leave my own party to give them rides home because they claimed to have no money for a taxi.
There were of course more subtle things.

We'll call these bitches J and T.

T
>roughly on good terms up until 20-21
>used to ask me to drive her hours out to another city (wanting it for free) to see these dumpy scumbag dudes she was internet dating
>to this day she has never held a job so always asking me to buy her things
>begged me to buy her pregnancy tests
Right before I moved away I gave away a bunch of my clothes to her and the others, which had gone mostly unused. She didn't show a lot of appreciation for it (almost like she was entitled to my shit for being a high school friend?) And anyway, years later she's too fat to fit into them and never messages me or asks how I'm doing. She did add me to her "fitness" group she made on fb where she posts her "healthy" food stamps recipes and humblebrags about her slow weight loss as if she does ANYTHING else with her life like working or worrying about bills. Her ass annoys me.

But the worst person by far is J the leech.
She's such a lolcow.
Like T, she constantly used me for rides but disguised the requests as something "fun" for us both like going to the mall or Starbucks so she'd get out of contributing gas money. When we'd go to these places she'd always try to get me to buy her something like "OMG ANON THIS IS ONLY $5 DOLLARS LIKE SO CHEAP, CAN YOU GET THIS FOR ME? I'LL PAY YOU BACK!" Yeah, she never paid me back.
I had a falling out with her a few years back when for my 21st birthday party she suggested I should rent a party bus for them…yeah, I should spend hundreds of dollars on my birthday so J can have her fun and potentially pick up a man. She never went to college, but she'd beg me to take her there to try to hook a guy, which never worked.

Currently, she pretends to act like she never gets money but can somehow afford shitty tattoos and geek merch quite frequently. Oh and she can of course pop out kids she can't take care of (totes okay, it's God's will right?) Best of all she got a sugar momma called K. She's a 300 pound hambeast but she babysits J's kids for free and gives her car rides everywhere. I feel sorry for K, because she's clearly quite lonely and doesn't realize that J keeps her around because she benefits from her. J even dubbed her "Auntie K" even though K literally has no bloodline or right to those children should shit fallout.

J's selfish side really shows when she post "wishlists" on fb about all the gifts she wants for her birthday, holidays, etc.
Her ultimate act of tacky was setting up a fucking Patreon for her own damn wedding, which was just a beach wedding at that. Fortunately nobody gave her money.

But to top all of that she is a desperate attention whore. Hypochondriac, etc.
A couple years ago she claimed she was mugged by a street hobo when she was out for a jog and this thief stole her wedding ring. The police investigated it and released an article that she had fabricated the story. There was huge fb drama when it was leaked, she shared the police's report and claimed that they were wrong and she was telling the truth.
IMO it was a huge ruse to upgrade her engagement ring hoping that sympathetic people would donate their money so her ass could get a new ring. Too bad that didn't happen.

I fear greatly for her children. She LOVES the attention she gets from reporting ills with her kids or posting hospital photos. For awhile I thought they were munchausen by proxy victims just because of the frequency with which they'd develop strange physical ailments or their illnesses were played up. Right now the focus is on herself though because of ~*~mysterious hospital tests~*~

I could go on and on about this bitch but I think you get the point. Pic related is her from two years ago. She has longer hair and more shitty tattoos now.

I fucking despise this vegan, lesbian, snowflake I know. Holy fuck, she's intolerable to be around. She's the type that believes she's better than EVERYONE she comes into contact with. She also tries to shove her vegan-ness down your throat. Even seeing a picture of this bitch with her nasty, bleach fried hair infuriates me. The only solace I get, is remembering the time that I once got to witness someone punch her in the face and then proceed to beat her ass.

>>171519
Oh my god, I'm in the same situation. My boyfriend is semi-famous for his field of work and I don't mind his fans or get jealous of them, but there's one girl who has an entire IG account dedicated to him and talks about how lucky she is to have him in her life constantly - like what? You don't even know him beyond his career…I'm not jealous but it's annoying and he thinks so too.

My boyfriend has been semi-successful with his music career, which is GREAT and I'm happy for him but fuck, if it doesn't attract desperate girls. One of his friends is constantly sharing his shit and is all "uwu super kawaii music by a super kawaii person!!! uwu"
Girl, back off. It's my job to annoy the shit out of people with my support. It sounds really petty but I just cannot stand any girl getting close to him in that way.

>>171526
I'm >>171526 and if I didn't give it away with that post, my boyfriend has a semi-successful music career too. I totally get what you mean, the genre/scene that he's in naturally attracts desperate girls (I know because I've been a part of that scene before I met him) and when your bf is better looking than most of the other musicians in that scene (not trying to brag cus tbh he's not even that attractive), desperate girls get way too into him and think they're entitled to his attention and music.

That's one of the weirdest parts of it to me - just their entitlement. Whenever I can, I go to his shows and hang out at the merch table/backstage and these girls come up after the show and get pissed that I'm there. I let them take pictures and stuff, I don't interrupt or forbid him from doing anything, but they act like I'm his overprotective mom who won't let him be around any girls. It's super annoying.

/endrant

>>171527
Oops, I meant that I was also >>171525.

>>171525
>>171526
At least you can say they're just fans and don't get to see him often…

>>171527
Honestly, I try not to be the "overprotective mom" but my insecurities are WAY too prominent for me to allow things like pictures and just general groupie girl behavior. It's really hard to balance my happiness for his success and my jealousy that they're getting his attention in SOME way.
We have a great relationship, I'm just a bitter cunt tbh.

>>171524
Does she have a public online presence? If she's particularly lulzy you could post her on /snow/

my ex friend, she was being abusive, always canceled at last minute, bratty, took shit too far, bragged and lied, bullied innocent people and made up shit, etc. I stopped being friends with her then she starts talking shit so I did to her exactly what she did to someone else to go up to them and say if youre gonna talk shit say it to my face. She shoved and hit me and bragged about it because being a stupid bitch is somehow strong.later on she blames me for all her problems and i told the office and apparently getting called to the office is the worse thing ever, anyway she texts my mom saying im telling everyone my dad molested me (I didn't) and starts making up more shit and turning people against me for no reason. She's a stupid fat feminazi annoying bitch and she also bullied a girl for being autistic and another one because she was raped by her dad. Should I give out her information?

>>171523
>pretends to act like she never gets money but can somehow afford shitty tattoos and geek merch quite frequently
I really hate these bitches. I'm not much better at spending my money right but when you're flaunting the things you are buying or tattoos for everyone to see or even begging online with wishlists it just makes it so much more tacky

Your J reminds me so much of someone I know who everyone tries to avoid because she's also whines to borrow money for drinks and tattoos and apanese snacks but never pays anyone back or even pays her rent. Unfortunately this girl isn't such a closed case because she's also from a horrible abusive family situation that steal anything they can from her whenever she does make any money so you want to be sympathetic to her. I hate being near her because listening to her tattoo plans or how she got so drunk last night makes me want to die but then if I try to avoid her I remember how little in life she really has and that I'm a judgemental bitch. You can't win with her she treads this perfect line between pitiful victim and horrible leech

>>171531
Unfortunately not or I would. You guys would have fun with her.

>>171533
You don't have to be around her of you don't like her. You don't owe someone your friendship just because they have less than you.

Someone I went to school with is dating someone that's a lot older than them, it's a guy in their late thirties (the friend is in their mid twenties). He's never been able to hold a decent job and when I asked about any skills/work they used to do he gave me this overzealous description that boiled down to housesitting and mowing the lawn for some guy whose house he used to live in. Anytime someone gives this guy a job suggestion he shoots it down.
>I can't work in a place like that
>I want a job for something I like doing
>All the employees would definitely hate me
>I don't want to work too far away from here

So instead he prefers living off foodstamps and attempting get rich quick schemes or hoarding shit to attempt to fix or resell, which if I'm right he never does anyway. While he does act nice he also talks like a massive know-it-all in any conversation, no matter what it's about. And my friend was stuck working full-time to cover everything else like their living expenses but would also waste their money on shit like collecting videogames. The friend also doesn't drive or have a license, so they're dependent on the boyfriend to get anywhere.

I don't talk to either of them that often anymore but it just aggravates me that my friend would stick with a guy that seems like such a dead weight to be with. At their age there's so many other people they could try talking to or dating but they've been together for a few years now. They just started living together after flip-flopping around their parent's basements and the bf got another minimum wage job so I'm just waiting to see where it goes.

My ex best friend turned into absolutely everything I hate. She went full tumblr, lavender hair, horribly fake looking circle lenses, huge Japanese fake eyelashes, pastel hooked wear, and pansexuality overnight. She called me a racist for saying a group of girls was ghetto, even though they were alooking different races. She'd hit on me even though she knows I'm not personally into women, and she'd get offended when I would brush her off. She believed in reptilians, and thought she was a dolphin alien from another planet-no joke. She believed I was a vampire/cat alien too. We stopped being friends after she canceled a plan on me last minute and left me stranded somewhere for two hours. I always felt bad for her since her parents were drunks who never paid her any mind, but I just couldn't take it anymore.

My childhood friend's girlfriend really pisses me off.

>Been friends with this guy, I'll call him N, since we were like 10
>always been close to him, sort of like siblings
>absolutely NOT interested in him romantically
>apparently N used to have a crush on me back in middle school, but I was clueless about it
>N gets a gf in senior year of high school
>she's super clingy
>suddenly I'm a problem
>everything I do is flirting according to her
>give him advice on taking selfies? Flirting
>talk about video games with him? Flirting
>ask him for advice on issues in my own relationship? Flirting
>She doesn't even try to talk to me face to face
>Gets N to lecture me every time she gets offended by my existence
>N gets pissy when I calmly say I think she's a little too sensitive
>stop hanging out with N in person because I don't want to deal with gf starting drama
>only talk to him online

I think I'm the only female friend N still has, and our friendship is definitely strained. I don't really know what to do except keep my distance, but it kind of feels like I'm slowly losing a longtime friend.

>>171538
How long have they been together? If his friendship is really important to you, hold out for as long as you can. Her crazy behavior will just get crazier and push him away. Hopefully, he'll be smart enough to leave her ass and you can continue your friendship without any obstacles in the way.

I’m in this group of friends but I secretly despises one of the girls. We’re all working on this thing which means we have to discuss and brainstorm together but she never says a word unless we ask for her opinion. Despite all of us being friends for years and we are all comfortable stating our opinions, she rarely speaks up if she doesn’t agree with something. When she does, she only tells this other girl about it and then she has to be the messenger and tell the rest of us “___ doesn’t like this thing”, and she only does that days after we had the discussion.
She recently came out to us as fictionkin and has a kin blog listing all her mental illnesses. I don’t know whether to laugh or feel bad for her because she’s 20 but acting like 14 year old tumblrina. As soon as we’re done working together I’m cutting all ties with her.

>>171537
>>171540
I just find it so fucking crazy how some of you have been unfortunate enough to encounter these "kin" idiots in real life.
I feel for you anons, I really do.

>>171541
It's surreal, honestly. I never could've imagined that someone I have known for 5 years would suddenly think they're an anime character. I have to admit she's quite amusing to watch though and she's probably going to end up as my personal lolcow/trainwreck. Seeing someone you despise being all delusional and shit really makes you feel better about yourself. Like, thank god I'm not her.

My two best friends who have been dating since we were all 14 (now all 19 and in college) broke up. I used to be closer to the girl but she and I grew apart over the past year (no falling out, just no common interests anymore) and the guy and I grew closer (though strictly platonic). The girl just seems fucking heartless, leaving their 5 and a half year relationship and telling the guy "Oh I just need to be alone to figure out who I am!!" and then getting with a new guy who she'd been texting in secret two weeks later. He's scared as shit of being alone, nearly had breakdowns on multiple occasions, and she doesn't seem to give a shit about his feelings. I honestly spent so much time in high school hating how she treated him – she would abuse him verbally ("You're useless" "You're worthless" and then saying "Oh you know I don't mean it" as though it doesn't still hurt), abused him physically (never really hurt him, but would push him around or hit him to make him pay attention, that sort of thing), disregarded his feelings (blew him off when he reminded her their three year anniversary was coming up). All our friends hated her (even I, her best friend, kind of hated her) and we all knew she'd fuck him over. I'm honestly more angry at myself for being spineless and never calling her out for her bullshit in high school.

She's a friend's friend from high school. In high school she's kind of a 'loser' since she's this drama queen that seems always get involved in many school scandals, likes to start shits in my circle of friends, and apparently she has beefs with lots of girls in my year too, involving boys. Thank goodness she's never in my class and I mostly stayed away from her, so I don't hate her that much at that time. After high school, she studied abroad, me and my friends went to local uni(s). After she got back, she became more stuck up and annoying than ever. She seems to look down on me and my friends, since she studied abroad and I think she thought of herself as a hot shit or something. Every conversation that I had with her when we (me and my friends) meet up, she constantly tried to insert her achievements, and when we discussed about anything, she often cuts off when another person is talking and seems to think her opinion is the most unbeatable truth, since she studied abroad (yeah, she always insert this too). When we ordered food, she often compares our local food to the food she got when she studied abroad and how much better the food was there. Can't stand her, but some of my friends seems to like her, she's always there when we're having a meet up, and I don't know why to be honest. She's not even pretty, but she is taller than us though.

A girl in my friends' group seemed nice at first, but now I almost find her extremely annoying. She acts all mature but actually she's a bully. She bullies many people in the college and sometimes acts nasty even with us (the type of person that makes fun of you when you're surrounded by people, especially her friends). Thing is, she's turning some of my best friends in bullies too.

Help! My little sister is posting Lewd pictures of herself on instigram. What do I do?

I have a "friend" (we barely talk anymore and I really don't like her much anyways) who I've known online for at least 8 years. She tries soooo hard to be famous and gather an online following and she's done it by combining the personalities of two people posted over on /snow/. Everything she does/says/buys is so calculated to give her the image of having a perfect life and ~aesthetic and it's just so sad because I know she just sits in her room all day lurking. She only puts on nice clothes/makeup if she's doing a Selfie Photoshoot or if she's going to a big event. She only buys items if they match her aesthetic or if she can get a cute Instagram picture out of them. Same with food. She's also one of those girls who "Only eats junk food!!1! Pizza and Taco Bell!" when it's obvious she has some sort of eating disorder. She also has a boyfriend that she doesn't give a shit about and rarely sees (maybe like twice a month when they live in the same town) but mentions how perfect and loving he is and how great they are together. It's just so sad as someone who knows her and her real life to see the image she is trying to convey to other people because it's just… all so fake.

>>171547
Honestly, this sounds like a typical girl online, who is insecure about herself, so she tries to make others look at her in a favorable light.

>>171537
>She believed in reptilians, and thought she was a dolphin alien from another planet-no joke. She believed I was a vampire/cat alien too.
I cannot believe it took you getting stranded somewhere to stop associating with this person.

>>171547
You… Do realise that's perfectly normal? What if she actually does have an aesthetic and just doesn't want her home to look like a dingy pawn shop? My mum only buys items and decor that fit her aesthetic, does that mean she wants to be efamous too?

Granted I don't know this chick but it sounds like you're projecting really hard tbh.

Moved to >>>/b/95310.