/ot/ - off-topic

My husband's ex. I tried being friends with her at first because there are kids involved and I wanted everything to be easier for them. She ends up being a manipulative cunt who only cares about you if you can fuel her ego somehow. She makes friends easily because she seems laid back and fun but burns her bridges really quickly if they don't do anything for her.

Story time.

>She made friends with a really sweet gay guy we'll call B.

>B had some bad self-esteem issues and slept around a lot.

>B ended up getting HIV from one of his flings but doesn't know it right away until he had to go to the ER due to a lung infection.

>At this point the docs say his chances are really low but he wants to try aggressive therapy to fight it.

>He seeks out comfort and support from his friends.

>The Cunt tells him to stop contacting her because she can't be bothered to emotionally support him. A man who was supposed to be her one of her closest friends.

>He ends up dying a few months later because his infection just wouldn't clear up.

>She doesn't bother to even show up to his funeral but posts all over FB how sad she is.

>Internet asspats all around.

I have a ton of stories but that one will always stick out as one of the worst that didn't directly happen to me, my husband, or the kids. She told me before that she was diagnosed with bipoloar disorder but I sincerely believe she may have narcissistic personality disorder.

My best friend became friends with a fuckboi a few years ago. They met through a mutual friend and he basically took the guy in after his girlfriend threw him out for cheating on her.

I don't know why my friend likes this dude. He's the epitome of a tumblr kid and 'memes' a lot. I hate his guts so much. I don't even see my best friend as often as I'd like because he's always there. I thought the living together thing would be a year or less but he never went away and I have no idea how to deal with it.

I always buy my best friends birthday and christmas gifts and they never get me anything back. I haven't gotten a birthday gift in like 3 years from anyone. I act like it doesn't bug me but lol I feel like crap because of it.

>>95313
Either stop getting then gifts or tell them how you feel. Gifts are gifts, not something you are meant to expect a return on.
I hate getting gifts because I sure as hell can't afford to give them back, and I tell people that.

My current date has got this annoying girl friend who hits on him so desperately, lol.
>He posts a funny pic on fb about people who never want to leave their bed
>She comments: "Need company?"
>He ignores her
>He posts a pic
>She always, always hits the heart button
>He posts a pic with a phrase about men who treat their girlfriends right "in bed"
>She comments: "I reeeeally agree"
>He ignores her
>She always insists to take pictures alone with him when they're with friends
I'm not the type that gets offended by a dumb hoe hitting on your bf, even when he just ignores her, but it's not about him anymore, she was disrespecting me and this I couldn't bear. So I insisted to meet her, now she's calmed down. I think she understood that I could seriously beat her ass up. Bye Felicia

>>95314
It's not that I 'expect' them in return. Its like… I go out of my way to do things for them, like even going so far as to lend them money when they need it, and they never do the same for me. They ask for gifts and shit.

Its irritating lol. See it would be different if it was like how you said. But they go "hey guys lets all get gifts for each other haha secret santa and shit" then they never do the same for anyone else. They "run out of money" every time. But its cool because they get their gifts. Not just me but the rest of our friends.

So funny this year I am just going to spend their gift money on a different friend and get them something really nice and "run out" of money on them.

>>95315
he posts stupid shit hth

>>95317
Sometimes, but it's normal stuff people post. Just the thing about men treating women right came off a bit cringy, but it was just an awkward way to send me a "message" I guess. Plus, that's a phrase you usually hear in fedora guys memes, but he's far from being a fedora so it doesn't concern me.

Can't say either of these bitches are much in my life anymore but I still see their selfish ass posts on fb and I both laugh and cringe.

Like most other people, I had poorfag friends in high school who initially were okay to me but over time manipulated me to do a bunch of crap for them without an ounce of gratitude.
I was the only one in our circle with a car, so they were constantly begging for free rides up until I was 19 and started to demand gas money, then they did it less.
At my high school graduation party they seriously asked me if I could leave my own party to give them rides home because they claimed to have no money for a taxi.
There were of course more subtle things.

We'll call these bitches J and T.

T
>roughly on good terms up until 20-21
>used to ask me to drive her hours out to another city (wanting it for free) to see these dumpy scumbag dudes she was internet dating
>to this day she has never held a job so always asking me to buy her things
>begged me to buy her pregnancy tests
Right before I moved away I gave away a bunch of my clothes to her and the others, which had gone mostly unused. She didn't show a lot of appreciation for it (almost like she was entitled to my shit for being a high school friend?) And anyway, years later she's too fat to fit into them and never messages me or asks how I'm doing. She did add me to her "fitness" group she made on fb where she posts her "healthy" food stamps recipes and humblebrags about her slow weight loss as if she does ANYTHING else with her life like working or worrying about bills. Her ass annoys me.

But the worst person by far is J the leech.
She's such a lolcow.
Like T, she constantly used me for rides but disguised the requests as something "fun" for us both like going to the mall or Starbucks so she'd get out of contributing gas money. When we'd go to these places she'd always try to get me to buy her something like "OMG ANON THIS IS ONLY $5 DOLLARS LIKE SO CHEAP, CAN YOU GET THIS FOR ME? I'LL PAY YOU BACK!" Yeah, she never paid me back.
I had a falling out with her a few years back when for my 21st birthday party she suggested I should rent a party bus for them…yeah, I should spend hundreds of dollars on my birthday so J can have her fun and potentially pick up a man. She never went to college, but she'd beg me to take her there to try to hook a guy, which never worked.

Currently, she pretends to act like she never gets money but can somehow afford shitty tattoos and geek merch quite frequently. Oh and she can of course pop out kids she can't take care of (totes okay, it's God's will right?) Best of all she got a sugar momma called K. She's a 300 pound hambeast but she babysits J's kids for free and gives her car rides everywhere. I feel sorry for K, because she's clearly quite lonely and doesn't realize that J keeps her around because she benefits from her. J even dubbed her "Auntie K" even though K literally has no bloodline or right to those children should shit fallout.

J's selfish side really shows when she post "wishlists" on fb about all the gifts she wants for her birthday, holidays, etc.
Her ultimate act of tacky was setting up a fucking Patreon for her own damn wedding, which was just a beach wedding at that. Fortunately nobody gave her money.

But to top all of that she is a desperate attention whore. Hypochondriac, etc.
A couple years ago she claimed she was mugged by a street hobo when she was out for a jog and this thief stole her wedding ring. The police investigated it and released an article that she had fabricated the story. There was huge fb drama when it was leaked, she shared the police's report and claimed that they were wrong and she was telling the truth.
IMO it was a huge ruse to upgrade her engagement ring hoping that sympathetic people would donate their money so her ass could get a new ring. Too bad that didn't happen.

I fear greatly for her children. She LOVES the attention she gets from reporting ills with her kids or posting hospital photos. For awhile I thought they were munchausen by proxy victims just because of the frequency with which they'd develop strange physical ailments or their illnesses were played up. Right now the focus is on herself though because of ~*~mysterious hospital tests~*~

I could go on and on about this bitch but I think you get the point. Pic related is her from two years ago. She has longer hair and more shitty tattoos now.

I fucking despise this vegan, lesbian, snowflake I know. Holy fuck, she's intolerable to be around. She's the type that believes she's better than EVERYONE she comes into contact with. She also tries to shove her vegan-ness down your throat. Even seeing a picture of this bitch with her nasty, bleach fried hair infuriates me. The only solace I get, is remembering the time that I once got to witness someone punch her in the face and then proceed to beat her ass.

>>95315
Oh my god, I'm in the same situation. My boyfriend is semi-famous for his field of work and I don't mind his fans or get jealous of them, but there's one girl who has an entire IG account dedicated to him and talks about how lucky she is to have him in her life constantly - like what? You don't even know him beyond his career…I'm not jealous but it's annoying and he thinks so too.

My boyfriend has been semi-successful with his music career, which is GREAT and I'm happy for him but fuck, if it doesn't attract desperate girls. One of his friends is constantly sharing his shit and is all "uwu super kawaii music by a super kawaii person!!! uwu"
Girl, back off. It's my job to annoy the shit out of people with my support. It sounds really petty but I just cannot stand any girl getting close to him in that way.

>>95322
I'm >>95322 and if I didn't give it away with that post, my boyfriend has a semi-successful music career too. I totally get what you mean, the genre/scene that he's in naturally attracts desperate girls (I know because I've been a part of that scene before I met him) and when your bf is better looking than most of the other musicians in that scene (not trying to brag cus tbh he's not even that attractive), desperate girls get way too into him and think they're entitled to his attention and music.

That's one of the weirdest parts of it to me - just their entitlement. Whenever I can, I go to his shows and hang out at the merch table/backstage and these girls come up after the show and get pissed that I'm there. I let them take pictures and stuff, I don't interrupt or forbid him from doing anything, but they act like I'm his overprotective mom who won't let him be around any girls. It's super annoying.

/endrant

>>95323
Oops, I meant that I was also >>95321.

>>95321
>>95322
At least you can say they're just fans and don't get to see him often…

>>95323
Honestly, I try not to be the "overprotective mom" but my insecurities are WAY too prominent for me to allow things like pictures and just general groupie girl behavior. It's really hard to balance my happiness for his success and my jealousy that they're getting his attention in SOME way.
We have a great relationship, I'm just a bitter cunt tbh.

>>95320
Does she have a public online presence? If she's particularly lulzy you could post her on /snow/

my ex friend, she was being abusive, always canceled at last minute, bratty, took shit too far, bragged and lied, bullied innocent people and made up shit, etc. I stopped being friends with her then she starts talking shit so I did to her exactly what she did to someone else to go up to them and say if youre gonna talk shit say it to my face. She shoved and hit me and bragged about it because being a stupid bitch is somehow strong.later on she blames me for all her problems and i told the office and apparently getting called to the office is the worse thing ever, anyway she texts my mom saying im telling everyone my dad molested me (I didn't) and starts making up more shit and turning people against me for no reason. She's a stupid fat feminazi annoying bitch and she also bullied a girl for being autistic and another one because she was raped by her dad. Should I give out her information?

>>95319
>pretends to act like she never gets money but can somehow afford shitty tattoos and geek merch quite frequently
I really hate these bitches. I'm not much better at spending my money right but when you're flaunting the things you are buying or tattoos for everyone to see or even begging online with wishlists it just makes it so much more tacky

Your J reminds me so much of someone I know who everyone tries to avoid because she's also whines to borrow money for drinks and tattoos and apanese snacks but never pays anyone back or even pays her rent. Unfortunately this girl isn't such a closed case because she's also from a horrible abusive family situation that steal anything they can from her whenever she does make any money so you want to be sympathetic to her. I hate being near her because listening to her tattoo plans or how she got so drunk last night makes me want to die but then if I try to avoid her I remember how little in life she really has and that I'm a judgemental bitch. You can't win with her she treads this perfect line between pitiful victim and horrible leech

>>95327
Unfortunately not or I would. You guys would have fun with her.

>>95329
You don't have to be around her of you don't like her. You don't owe someone your friendship just because they have less than you.

Someone I went to school with is dating someone that's a lot older than them, it's a guy in their late thirties (the friend is in their mid twenties). He's never been able to hold a decent job and when I asked about any skills/work they used to do he gave me this overzealous description that boiled down to housesitting and mowing the lawn for some guy whose house he used to live in. Anytime someone gives this guy a job suggestion he shoots it down.
>I can't work in a place like that
>I want a job for something I like doing
>All the employees would definitely hate me
>I don't want to work too far away from here

So instead he prefers living off foodstamps and attempting get rich quick schemes or hoarding shit to attempt to fix or resell, which if I'm right he never does anyway. While he does act nice he also talks like a massive know-it-all in any conversation, no matter what it's about. And my friend was stuck working full-time to cover everything else like their living expenses but would also waste their money on shit like collecting videogames. The friend also doesn't drive or have a license, so they're dependent on the boyfriend to get anywhere.

I don't talk to either of them that often anymore but it just aggravates me that my friend would stick with a guy that seems like such a dead weight to be with. At their age there's so many other people they could try talking to or dating but they've been together for a few years now. They just started living together after flip-flopping around their parent's basements and the bf got another minimum wage job so I'm just waiting to see where it goes.

My ex best friend turned into absolutely everything I hate. She went full tumblr, lavender hair, horribly fake looking circle lenses, huge Japanese fake eyelashes, pastel hooked wear, and pansexuality overnight. She called me a racist for saying a group of girls was ghetto, even though they were alooking different races. She'd hit on me even though she knows I'm not personally into women, and she'd get offended when I would brush her off. She believed in reptilians, and thought she was a dolphin alien from another planet-no joke. She believed I was a vampire/cat alien too. We stopped being friends after she canceled a plan on me last minute and left me stranded somewhere for two hours. I always felt bad for her since her parents were drunks who never paid her any mind, but I just couldn't take it anymore.

My childhood friend's girlfriend really pisses me off.

>Been friends with this guy, I'll call him N, since we were like 10
>always been close to him, sort of like siblings
>absolutely NOT interested in him romantically
>apparently N used to have a crush on me back in middle school, but I was clueless about it
>N gets a gf in senior year of high school
>she's super clingy
>suddenly I'm a problem
>everything I do is flirting according to her
>give him advice on taking selfies? Flirting
>talk about video games with him? Flirting
>ask him for advice on issues in my own relationship? Flirting
>She doesn't even try to talk to me face to face
>Gets N to lecture me every time she gets offended by my existence
>N gets pissy when I calmly say I think she's a little too sensitive
>stop hanging out with N in person because I don't want to deal with gf starting drama
>only talk to him online

I think I'm the only female friend N still has, and our friendship is definitely strained. I don't really know what to do except keep my distance, but it kind of feels like I'm slowly losing a longtime friend.

>>95334
How long have they been together? If his friendship is really important to you, hold out for as long as you can. Her crazy behavior will just get crazier and push him away. Hopefully, he'll be smart enough to leave her ass and you can continue your friendship without any obstacles in the way.

I’m in this group of friends but I secretly despises one of the girls. We’re all working on this thing which means we have to discuss and brainstorm together but she never says a word unless we ask for her opinion. Despite all of us being friends for years and we are all comfortable stating our opinions, she rarely speaks up if she doesn’t agree with something. When she does, she only tells this other girl about it and then she has to be the messenger and tell the rest of us “___ doesn’t like this thing”, and she only does that days after we had the discussion.
She recently came out to us as fictionkin and has a kin blog listing all her mental illnesses. I don’t know whether to laugh or feel bad for her because she’s 20 but acting like 14 year old tumblrina. As soon as we’re done working together I’m cutting all ties with her.

>>95333
>>95336
I just find it so fucking crazy how some of you have been unfortunate enough to encounter these "kin" idiots in real life.
I feel for you anons, I really do.

>>95337
It's surreal, honestly. I never could've imagined that someone I have known for 5 years would suddenly think they're an anime character. I have to admit she's quite amusing to watch though and she's probably going to end up as my personal lolcow/trainwreck. Seeing someone you despise being all delusional and shit really makes you feel better about yourself. Like, thank god I'm not her.

My two best friends who have been dating since we were all 14 (now all 19 and in college) broke up. I used to be closer to the girl but she and I grew apart over the past year (no falling out, just no common interests anymore) and the guy and I grew closer (though strictly platonic). The girl just seems fucking heartless, leaving their 5 and a half year relationship and telling the guy "Oh I just need to be alone to figure out who I am!!" and then getting with a new guy who she'd been texting in secret two weeks later. He's scared as shit of being alone, nearly had breakdowns on multiple occasions, and she doesn't seem to give a shit about his feelings. I honestly spent so much time in high school hating how she treated him – she would abuse him verbally ("You're useless" "You're worthless" and then saying "Oh you know I don't mean it" as though it doesn't still hurt), abused him physically (never really hurt him, but would push him around or hit him to make him pay attention, that sort of thing), disregarded his feelings (blew him off when he reminded her their three year anniversary was coming up). All our friends hated her (even I, her best friend, kind of hated her) and we all knew she'd fuck him over. I'm honestly more angry at myself for being spineless and never calling her out for her bullshit in high school.

She's a friend's friend from high school. In high school she's kind of a 'loser' since she's this drama queen that seems always get involved in many school scandals, likes to start shits in my circle of friends, and apparently she has beefs with lots of girls in my year too, involving boys. Thank goodness she's never in my class and I mostly stayed away from her, so I don't hate her that much at that time. After high school, she studied abroad, me and my friends went to local uni(s). After she got back, she became more stuck up and annoying than ever. She seems to look down on me and my friends, since she studied abroad and I think she thought of herself as a hot shit or something. Every conversation that I had with her when we (me and my friends) meet up, she constantly tried to insert her achievements, and when we discussed about anything, she often cuts off when another person is talking and seems to think her opinion is the most unbeatable truth, since she studied abroad (yeah, she always insert this too). When we ordered food, she often compares our local food to the food she got when she studied abroad and how much better the food was there. Can't stand her, but some of my friends seems to like her, she's always there when we're having a meet up, and I don't know why to be honest. She's not even pretty, but she is taller than us though.

A girl in my friends' group seemed nice at first, but now I almost find her extremely annoying. She acts all mature but actually she's a bully. She bullies many people in the college and sometimes acts nasty even with us (the type of person that makes fun of you when you're surrounded by people, especially her friends). Thing is, she's turning some of my best friends in bullies too.

Help! My little sister is posting Lewd pictures of herself on instigram. What do I do?

I have a "friend" (we barely talk anymore and I really don't like her much anyways) who I've known online for at least 8 years. She tries soooo hard to be famous and gather an online following and she's done it by combining the personalities of two people posted over on /snow/. Everything she does/says/buys is so calculated to give her the image of having a perfect life and ~aesthetic and it's just so sad because I know she just sits in her room all day lurking. She only puts on nice clothes/makeup if she's doing a Selfie Photoshoot or if she's going to a big event. She only buys items if they match her aesthetic or if she can get a cute Instagram picture out of them. Same with food. She's also one of those girls who "Only eats junk food!!1! Pizza and Taco Bell!" when it's obvious she has some sort of eating disorder. She also has a boyfriend that she doesn't give a shit about and rarely sees (maybe like twice a month when they live in the same town) but mentions how perfect and loving he is and how great they are together. It's just so sad as someone who knows her and her real life to see the image she is trying to convey to other people because it's just… all so fake.

>>95343
Honestly, this sounds like a typical girl online, who is insecure about herself, so she tries to make others look at her in a favorable light.

>>95333
>She believed in reptilians, and thought she was a dolphin alien from another planet-no joke. She believed I was a vampire/cat alien too.
I cannot believe it took you getting stranded somewhere to stop associating with this person.

>>95343
You… Do realise that's perfectly normal? What if she actually does have an aesthetic and just doesn't want her home to look like a dingy pawn shop? My mum only buys items and decor that fit her aesthetic, does that mean she wants to be efamous too?

Granted I don't know this chick but it sounds like you're projecting really hard tbh.

>>95346
The thing is, she's copying the exact aesthetics of two other lolcows. She looks like their literal lovechild. She buys the same clothing/makeup/accessories/home decor/food/etc. that they have. I can understand wanting everything to look nice but she wants to be exactly like them.

I can't stand a coworker of mines. The weird thing is that she doesn't seem to dislike me, it's just her grating and shitty personality. So, we were working at a coffee stand together for a few days, she was supervisor, to boot.

>was told to work the till, she did the coffee
>it made more sense for her to do the till, because I left an hour earlier which meant we had to shut prematurely
>would ask me to check the milk/sugar bit, restock the cake bit and her cups/lids, while getting the soft drinks
>would literally not do anything but the coffee
>huge queue backed up, all orders were for pastries/soft drinks and so I had to do the till, give change, prepare cake and go to fridge for drinks, and she just stood there with her back to me, on her phone
>I literally asked "hey bitch can you get the drink while I do this?" several times and was ignored
>was asked to clean up tables etc when she was doing fuck all, and I was very busy
>a batch of cake was smashed up, so we couldn't sell it. She bagged the lot up and didn't offer any
The WORST thing though is talking through me
In the process of taking an order, guy is talking to me, asking things and I'm replying
"Oh yeah, the cake has almo-"
"HEY ANON WHAT FLAVOUR SYRUP FOR THE LATTE?"
This is DURING me taking that order, the one that hasn't been processed or paid for, while I'm mid fucking sentence to someone else.
Her voice is so grating too, and she's stupid. I don't mean in a mean way, I mean she's of low intelligence.

I feel it was just poor upbringing for her. But I hate her and she's a fucking bitch, man.

A girl in me and my bf's friend group has always been "that bitch"

I hate using this word, but she is literally a whore. She constantly fucking brags about having sex with her ugly boyfriend, even when half the time none of us even respond because we're in our 20s and literally all of us have sex on the regular. She acts like being sexually active makes her cool and unique, and goes into way too much detail about her sex life despite nobody wanting to hear about it. She's also always doing this weird thing with her body. It's like she's posing for a sexy photo, sticking her tits and ass out, but she does it no matter what she's wearing and what's going on. It's just embarrassing tbh. She still acts like a teenager and I don't know why they still hang out with her because she's also the only source of drama in their group.

She also tries way too hard to get attention. If we're out somewhere that's playing music she'll try to sing along to every. single. song. even when it's clear she's never heard the song before. She butts in on every conversation even when she has absolutely nothing to say. Honestly being around her just makes me cringe, and I know a couple of other people in the group feel the same way, I don't know why she keeps getting invited to shit.

The worst part is, she's started dragging her bf along to things. It's really hard to sit around the two of them when a few days before we all had to hear her brag about their hardcore anal sex escapades. I wish she would just fuck off already.

>>95384
Have you ever considered giving her head a cold wash inside the toiled?

>>95342
Smack her and tell you parents so they can control her internet usage?
And show her Jessy Slaughter's story.

>>95624
Why don't you just ask her to stop talking about sex? And then inevitably to stop talking about why she thinks talking about sex is good
I used to have a similar problem with a girl I actually liked having around for except for her 5edgy1me sex tirades until one day I just told her to stop, and she has.

>>95683
None of us want to deal with the drama that will crop up from it. We've already had to ask her to back down with certain things. She was flirting with one of the dudes like every single time she saw him, despite him being in a relationship and she was just beginning to date a guy as well. He asked her to stop and she flipped a shit. She STILL bitches about it and texts the guy about it all the time, and this happened months ago at this point.

Honestly most of us are too polite to say anything anyway. I'm one of the only people who will even confront anyone at all and I just don't want to deal with the aftermath, I have too much actually important stuff going on right now to want to deal with her constant bitching.

>>95333
My ex best friend is eerily similar to what you described. She went full tumblr as well. She's always had extremely low self esteem but now she pretends to have an "aesthetic" so she'll seem more interesting. It's gone from "daddy issues" (ugh) to kawaii ugu~ shit and it's just annoying.

I was friends with her since age 9 and recently I'm just fed up with her bullshit. She takes on the identity of her boyfriends and has no real personality of her own. When her ex broke up with her, she claimed rape and said she cut herself and tried to kill herself. She cries wolf like this all the time and I was always there to support her. But I noticed that whenever I needed support or just someone to talk to, she was never there. She never asked me about my life, hell, never even asked me questions. Everything had to be about her and she was a selfish bitch. When it was just the two of us, she would be on her phone the entire time talking to her bf of 2 months, not saying a word to me.
Plus, she would threaten suicide all the time and make me feel guilty.

I broke up our friendship a few months ago after a therapy session and she never talked to me again. Now I go on her fb/twitter occasionally and see that she has no real friends, just people who smoke/does drugs at her apartment. No job, no school, dropped out due to supposed "mental illness". Can't wait to see where her life is in 5 years. She'll be either dead or in a mental ward, and she's already been in the latter. The funny thing is I know it's all for attention. And being that I have depression myself, and I don't exploit it for attention, I really don't feel sorry for her.

It boils my blood seeing this girl who acts like your stereotypical robot/pol user. A fucking neet who plays videogames all the fucking day long, deluded as S H I T about her looks and her life, on "legal" drugs, an useless piece of shit with literal NO TALENTS OR SKILLS who sits all day long living of her parents without giving a single fuck (except when her mother tells her to fuck off, then you have the drama served!) I had hopes on her because she seems interesting when you are far from here but when you approach her she is just your average chan poster with the difference you have to stand her outside anonymity: it's as fucking cringeworthy as it sounds. She unironically faps the kind of generic pr0n and hentai that is made for males who doesn't clearly know how the female body works. In top of all of that, she's always memeizing the average pol user speech about degenerates and whiteys and unconditionally supports trump unironically in the basis of what pol memes told her, when she clearly has no idea about fucking politics, nor she even lives in north america, using as excuse what's happening on europe. She isn't european either. In top of all of that, she's also a "philosopher". If I lived near to her I think I would had already punch her in the face.

I'm starting to wonder if this bitch is actually a man and she's been lying like hysterical since the 4 years we've been knowing her. I totally feel like I'm treating some idiotic male when I deal her. Dear lord.

I haven't met anybody I've grown to hate yet, but this person is pretty close:

>Met her in college, seemed nice, needed a roommate over the summer
>Liked anime, did conventions, cosplayed, etc. I don't care, I like anime.
>Really, really talkative.

We became roommates. Suddenly, everything got turned up to the max.

>Constantly talking to me about losing weight after I told her I had my own body issues and would be trying my best not to disturb her.
>Lifting up her shirt in the mirror to talk about her boobs to me almost every night I came home from work.
>Offers me vodka… for $10

But here's the worst part, and it cannot be green texted.
She talked so much, and so often, and without any regard for what you were doing or your potential input in the conversation. These conversations would be topics ranging from cosplaying to crocheting to bragging about lifting weights to bragging about her art and cosplays.
I tried at first to look very pained after the first 10 to 20 minutes of straight talking at my face. She didn't pick up any of my lame subtle hints, because I was too much of a puss to tell her outright to shut up in a kinder fashion. I just avoid her.

I escaped! But my boyfriend works with her now and it's just as bad. Talking at him while he's working, writing huge, complicated to-do lists without doing anything on it, and ranting about memes.

I wish this was more juicy but it isn't.

I fucking hate how all the guys around me who talk to/socialise with me on a regular basis are unconfident, lanklet meme-spewing fucks who never have any confidence to actually ask me out/hang with me and just agree with everything I say and let me borrow their money. I could cuck them out if I wanted to, just for shits and giggles, but I don't. But I am considering it

>>96088
I want to marry this woman

I don't really hate her, but I find this irritating: there's a girl in my course who CONSTANTLY posts memes about social anxiety and depression on facebook, like pic related. It's the only thing she ever posts. Meanwhile, she comes off as completely normal IRL. She's very outgoing, has a wide circle of friends, successful in school, etc. Yet, every day, she posts about how mentally ill she is. I know people can be suffering inside and hide it, but seriously… every time I see one of her posts I want to scream REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

>>96095
Anon, don't do that. It's not their fault they are cucks.

>>96106
I don't know, being 5ft11 with all the taller/confident guys being taken is hard as fuck to deal with while seeing all your peers making out/spending time with their SO on campus. I just can't stand how weak the guys I hang out with are, they take such little interest in actually getting to know me as a person and just talk to me for the sensation of being friends with a chick.
Really I only hang out with them to get high and they don't say no when I ask

>>96108
>>96108

Seems like you are an unpleasent person to be around maybe that's why.

>>96108
>>96112
Ignore the robots/trolls.

>>96115
who, me or >>96112?

This is childish but I hate my ex boyfriend's new girlfriend. She's cute, goes to a good college, is younger than me, and has a stable job and is stylish.
What makes me hate her the most is how my ex gave her the possessions I had left in his house but was never able to pick up(we were in a LDR). So far she has been showing off a very expensive pair of MY earrings and has been using my shellac nail set. I swear, if I see that bitch wearing my heels that I left there, I'll… probably do nothing and complain on other threads.

>>96131
Ask for them back. If you never gave them to him, they're still yours and he has no right to pass them on. Leaving something in somebody's house =/= giving it to them. If he refuses to let you have them back, say you'll consider it to be theft and treat it as such. It may seem petty but it's YOUR stuff so there's no reason to let it slide.

>>96131

That's tasteless af like, why would she except something that belonged to her new relationship's ex?? Like, first of all who wants leftovers, second of all it kinda makes you look really bad if people see you wearing it and go "oh those are so and so's earrings.."

>>96145
Right? That's so fucking weird. I'd be weirded out if my boyfriend handed me his ex's stuff. I'd definitely never wear her stuff.

I'd also be kind of hacked off if my ex handed my jewellery to a new girlfriend instead of just posting it to me or some shit.

I hate the girl my boyfriend briefly had a crush on before he met me. They were friends for a long time but she cucked the shit out of him and when he met me she got jealous and possessive but I tried to be nice and friendly because I like a kill them with kindness style approach and I didn't want to come off as insecure and jealous but holy shit this girl is genuinely insane. She seems really nice and a very appropriate person when you first meet her, but under the surface she's a stalker, she's a cheater, she has broken up marriages, she shares drinks with people but doesn't tell them she has herpes, and everything that comes out of her mouth is dripping with that specific spoiled basic bitch attitude. She doesn't believe in the theory of evolution (which I mean I think she has a right to believe what she wants, I just think announcing to everyone at a party that you think evolution is bullshit and you think abortion should be illegal is poor behavior) and she acts like she's better than everyone for absolutely no reason. She's disrespectful to everyone and had no real friends besides my bf so she'd show up at his house when people were around and would annoy everyone. Thank god my bf figured out what a nasty cunt she is and cut her out of his life.

>>96131
What kind of tacky bitch is she? What kind of lazy fuck is he? Ask for your shit back ASAP, bug his ass to post it to you if you have to.

If she has to resort to wearing things that her boyfriend couldn't return to his ex, she's probably way less well adjusted than she seems on the surface. Shit's not cute.

>tfw you're scared you're that bitch everyone hates

Thanks for giving me some "what not to do" pointers guys, this thread is helpful

>>96174
If you're scared of being that bitch, you're probably not that bitch, anon.

There's a friend of mine (that I'll call Amy) who's doing a study abroad in Japan for a month, but she's only taking language classes. I've been here for several months (also on an exchange program, but one where it's language + other academic classes) and while it's a really nice place and has it's good points, the charm has worn off and it's just another place to call home.

Amy is SUPER excited and I get it, like wow you're FINALLY living your dream of being in Japan. It's super fun, it's great, etc. Amy also graduated college recently, so she's job hunting. She decided to apply to companies in Japan too, and I'm like, good for you! Expand your horizons! Work outside of the US! But I can't stand her complaining about how so many companies in Tokyo won't get back to her. Like… everyone is job hunting right now. All of my friends here are job hunting, competition is probably crazy fucking high, ON TOP of it being fucking Tokyo- the place that everyone (foreigners and Japanese youngsters alike) want to flock to. Do you really think that you simply being a foreigner (who's not even at N5 level) is going to land you an interview/job? She did get one interview outside of Tokyo, but it was for a company who does work in what she didn't even major in. She told me she failed the practical exam (because she didn't study what they do for her major, obviously) and because she couldn't translate things (both in eng -> jap, and jap -> eng).

She also fucking LOVES Love Live, and wants to do the whole "anime pilgrimmage" shit. I don't mind that she wants to do it (because I did it too for a different anime I liked), but she's so obsessed with Love Live and how much she squeals and shit makes her so fucking unbearable to be around. We went to one of the character's homes (which is a traditional sweets shop irl) and it was closed, and she was putting on a disappointed voice because I told her I couldn't come back with her because I had a full day of classes the next day. She wanted me to go with her so I could order/translate but honestly my Japanese isn't the best and it's just! ordering food! I don't mind playing tour guide and translating really simple stuff for friends who visit but if you're here to study and learn the language shouldn't you practice yourself for basic shit like this?

We were supposed to go around to all of the locations but the closer the date gets the more reluctant I am to do it because I hate the sound of her squealing and I can't relate at all (my "anime pilgrimmage" was mostly me being like "haha holy shit this is so cool" but not fucking crying like jfc get a grip on yourself) but THANKFULLY another friend wants to hang out on the same day and I immediately took that friend up on it.

I sound like a heartless bitch but I do love and care for Amy a lot, but it's really infuriating to be around her too much/when she starts going off about love live. My school is a short walk from Akiba and I go out there every once in a while for fun but now I don't want to go anywhere near there with her because she will not shut the fuck up about love live.

>>96189
Sounds like you need to dump that cringe fest…

>>96199
I should but she's not the worst… I've known her for several years and back when we were in high school some friends and I couldn't take her calling us up at like 2 in the morning on a weekday and crying… At first I was sympathetic but it got a bit out of hand so we all ended up blocking her from calling us… It was really mean but she's one of those friends that you can only deal with in small dosages. Outside of Love Live, when we're hanging out together in the states it's pretty chill and pretty fun.

I have another friend who loves Love Live (actually it's like a whole group of them, but she's sort of the "ringleader" who I'll call Alice) who's even worse. Amy might be pretty cringey, but she's an honestly nice, hardworking person. Alice is… just the type of person who always plays victim. She might not be as annoying with her love of Love Live, but in the years I've known and lived with her, her image just keeps getting worse and worse.

When I first met Alice, she was super nice and really cool. My friends and I admired her (along with several other upperclassmen) and befriended all of them. Later on, I did an exchange for a semester in another part of Japan, and when I came back, all I heard were terrible stories of all the things she was sort of doing. She was a terrible roommate to our other friend (and they were basically besties which is why they wanted to room together), constantly having her boyfriend in their room and the living room even though they set up rules of not having guests past a certain time on weekdays. She's the type to expect the rules to be broken for her, and for everyone to bend over backwards for her because she's ~*~depressed~*~ (newsflash you stupid fuck, almost everyone in our friend group is going through some shit but everyone seeks out help/finds healthy coping methods so we can all be productive members of society) and she plays up that ~*~boohoo i'm so sad but i'm also cute weh weh im a cute sad princess u w u~*~ shit to no end. She knows how important her medication is but won't ever take it on time or refill it on time so she's constantly going on/off of them while complaining about it.

I get it, depression is hard and dealing with it is hard, but I can't sympathize with people who skip class because theyre ~*~too sad to get out of bed~*~ like 20 times in a single fucking semester. She got kicked out but somehow got back in and blamed all of her shitty grades on ~*~muh depression~*~. If you know your depression is hindering you, why don't you take your medication on time? Why don't you go to the school counselor like some of us do? Or better yet, why don't you just stay out of school since you never want to go to class in the first place? It's like she forgets why we're all there in the first place.

Whenever we would confront her about being a shitty roommate or something (we would hold suite meetings to discuss any and everything about our living situation), she would always immediately cry and play victim so none of us could say shit without being the bad guy. But at this point, you only have like 3 friends who are willing to bend over backwards for you. Everyone else pretty much hates you. She also got a dog recently and posted shit like "wow it's so cool that dogs have human like traits and my dog's trait is always being anxious! wow he's always anxious like me!" and im like rRRRRREEEEEEEEE NO YOUR DOG SHOULD NEVER ALWAYS BE ANXIOUS YOU STUPID FUCKING BITCH. I heard she also got too fat to fit any of her old cosplays so she tried dieting… but her idea of dieting was just starving herself lol. Apparently she just skipped dinner but later that night ate a shit ton of garbage… like good job you stupid fucking whale.

All of this is stupid petty shit and I'm sorry for ranting but it feels good to get it off my chest. She's moving off campus with a bunch of other batshit weebs I don't like and I'll be living with my best friends so hopefully I'll see her stupid ass less.

>>96097
NO YOU DO NOT. NOT THEM, BUT WHAT THE FUCK IS WITH IDIOTS WANTING TO MARRY WOMAN CHILDREN?!

>>96259
Anon, that's a dude or a robot probably. Idiots and children in adults bodies who haven't actually matured tend to come together.


What it amuses me the most of >>96097 is that if they were really to date someone like >>96088's story they probably would break up within a week. These faggots who date girls on the basis of "omg she's my soul mate she's disgusting like I am!! uvu" tend conventionally forget (or directly their testosterone ridden brains cannot grasp) the fact that they are going to date a person, not a 2d waifu, and she's going to be as unpleasant as a person can get, after all. Plus they discover how fucking insufferable is to stand another of their kind. I'm too used to seeing manchildren trying to pretend they can funtion like normal couples and every goddamn time it everything ends into a GIGANTIC teenage drama shitfest. It's always the same shit.

>>96262
I don't know about any testosterone causing the issue. If anything, they desire such a low grade person because of a lack of it IMO.

>>96262
>>96263
Also, the last part of your post does remind me of some stupid drama I've seen tons of and been involved in on my campus. It really is disturbing how common weeb manchildren and womanchildren are lately.

>>96262

Yep, kept running after weeb and nerdy girls for years but never again. BPD and personality disorders are just not worth it as well as doing everything by myself.

>>96262
The betas usually pick just almost ANYONE who shows the slightest interest in them because they believe all women are the pixies who act just like their vidya/comic/anime waifus. So they end up getting the most bipolar bitches who pussywhip them into being their servants having to endure all their negative quirks and freakouts. In the end their ALL WOMEN ARE HORRIBLE mindset gets even stronger due to these shitty abusive relationships. Most likely they refuse to say anything back to their girlfriends and gather up a huge ball of resentment inside of themselves and then just blow up and cut all contact with the girl out of nowhere. Cue the teenage drama you mentioned. I've known numerous manchild betas who took the first girl who was ready to rush into a relationship and it didn't take long for the girl to start chiming in the suicide threats.

Bonus points if the manchild still complains about women going only for the assholes without realizing the irony.

>>96279
lolcow is a catalog of just how fucked up weeb girls are.

>>96259
A part of why men love any woman with even slightly right-wing views is because it just gets annoying interacting with girls who are generic liberals I guess, since those are 90% of white girls aged 18-30 these days.

>>96294

Sad that I can't just get along with "normal" ones.

>>96305
Boo fucking hoo, either accept it or actually try to improve yourself.

>>96310

Chill your tits lass, no need to get this mad.

>>96146
She probably has no idea that the earrings belong to someone else. Someone scummy enough to recycle someone's possessions as gifts is scummy enough to claim that he bought them himself.

I hate my brothers girlfriend more every day. They met at the methadone clinic (lol) and moved her in after two weeks. She only leaves the house once a day to go to the clinic, and only stands up to use the bathroom. Needless to say, she's gained over 100lbs in a year and is easily pushing 280+. She throws tantrums that rival a toddler's that often result in physical damage to household items. These tantrums can begin by looking at her the wrong way. Unemployed and completely unemployable, but will talk endless amounts of garbage on her Facebook about how lazy and shitty everyone else in the world is.

Also wanted to mention she lost custody of her daughter over two years ago, cries about it endlessly, but doesn't attempt to see her or even talk to the kid.

Over the weekend, she instigated a screaming match with the cab driver from the methadone clinic on the ride home. The cab driver kicked her out on the side of the road and called the cops on her. Of course, none of it was her fault.

Her problems stem from a laundry list of self diagnosed disorders that are easily curable if she even has them. Who complains about having gout, but only eats sugary cereal and doesn't drink water. She also was supposedly raped by everyone and everythingut won't go to therapy/is banned from practices for pill-shopping.

Real class act.

Slowly starting to hate my only friend who's well adjusted and more of a normie
I try explaining to her my qualms with certain other "friends" in my life, and all she can say is "uhhh I don't get it?" and gives me unhelpful advice. Now I can undersand that it's hard for her to sympathise with me because she hasn't had the same experiences as me, but she's done this before with more serious/personal stuff I've talked about with her, and in those times it still feels like she doesn't quite feel with me or wants to give sympathy, and just gives it for kindness' sake. She's very blunt about things, and in most situations is unhelpful. She's my only okay friend and yet I never see her, only every 2 weeks.
It might be just me since I'm always wanting validation and empathy from my friends since I never had that from my parents/childhood, but she is seriously the most unhelpful bitch I've ever met

>>96652
You need to grow up, anon.

I can't stand my future sister-in-law. Thankfully neither can my fiance.

She's been in and out of rehab centers during her teenage years. Always finds some loser online to date, moves in with him, and then cries to the family for support when the relationship sours. Despite all that the family has done (including spending both children's college funds for her rehab), she openly hates them and blames her upbringing on her lack of success in life.
Now her and my fiance both suffered abuse during their childhoods, but she literally uses hers as an excuse for everything.

She's held down jobs, and has even done well. But then quits after a few months because she doesn't like working hard. She'll say she wants to go to school, but her real goal is just to trap some poor guy into supporting her for eternity.

And now she has a kid from one of her failed relationships. We love our niece and really want to be there for her. And it's scary to think of what kind of life she'll have.
Right now my FSIL lives with her mother and step-father. And for a while I tried to visit often just to be there for the child. But I finally hit my breaking point with her.
>Be at FMIL's house
>FSIL video chatting with some loser in Switzerland who's promising her the world.
>Gets on the subject of the parents and how horrible they are.
>Starts talking shit about my fiance
>"my brother is such a pussy, he doesn't do anything bla bla"
>Tells her that starting arguments with his parents over stupid shit isn't worth the energy expended. >They are very set in their ways and that's not going to change. And there's no shame in avoiding unnecessary conflict.
>"Anon he's my brother, you don't know him like I do"

Bitch, he's been a huge part of my life for the last 9 years. He literally met me at my worst, and helped me become the person I am today. If anything, you don't know him because you can't see past anything but your selfishness.

I hate conflict, but part of me is hoping she'll try to start shit at our wedding. Just so that I can lay her out for the piece of shit that she is, and be 100% justified for it. Sorry if this was long, but god it felt good.

>>96652
>I'm always wanting validation and empathy from my friends
just know that she probably thinks you're annoying as fuck.

I had this dream about this girl I hate/stalk obsessively where I doxed her and went to her house and found out that her family ran a restraunt car wash fusion where you would order fancy food and sit in your car and eat it while your car was washed.

I hate this one bitch who ruined most of my friendships.

>ignores me for almost a month after I try asking her what I did wrong
>Forces herself into my group of friends while continuing to be passive aggressive and treat me like shit
>tell her that I don't feel comfortable around her and that what she's doing isn't right
>ends up not responding to my message at all and posts a screenshot of it on her Facebook page instead
>People end up taking her side because she's older
>I get multiple messages on Facebook telling me that I'm evil and manipulative

The worst part about this is that she still hangs around a lot of my friends, so it's hard to avoid her.

>>97615
What a cunt. I say there really isn't much else you can do for now. Eventually it will catch up with her and people will I guess "take your side". An ex boyfriend would constantly make shit up about me and try to ruin my life. They all took his side. It took awhile (2 years) for people to go "oh shit he's actually crazy" but it's nice when you get there. Ignore them the best you can.

>>97188
Congratulations, you're creepy and your life is going nowhere.

>>97188
I've got one of those on my own lol. Never thought of doxxing though…what are you, 11?
Why do you hate her?

Ex best friend. We used to be fujoshits together, but she never grew up or matured past 16. Now she's a 27 year old specialgendered snowflake living with her parents and acting like a princess. The lulziest thing she ever did was try to scam welfare, and it didn't work. Sucks to be a useless, selfish cunt, doesn't it?