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where idiotic questions get silly answers
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why is every hobby moid on youtube an evangelical/tradcath? can’t even watch cute goldfish vids without finding a weird scrote peddling jesus.
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Who's the target group for Hallmark christmas movies?
Bonus: Is it target group for or target group of?
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Nonnas, help. Is there any way to recover your accidentally deleted hard drive from your USB?
I wanted to reinstall windows because my PC crashed and guide didn't mention that it would nuke everything from your hard drive.
I downloaded Recuva but so far it doesn't seem to give any good news… 6% and 22 files found, it needs 16hrs to try finding everything that was lost.
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Why do american feminists think that choosing stereotypical feminine hobbies (like knitting, crocheting) and jobs is somehow revolutionary?
The reality is that 99% of the population will look down upon you and will think of you as a stupid npc woman.
Feminine hobbies are inherently stupid (otherwise men would claim them) and janitorial.
Choosing a feminine profession is even worse, nobody will respect you and you will live in poverty for the rest of your life.(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)
The fuck anon? There's a reason why these hobbies are disrespected and it's not because they're useless or bullshit. It's because women are into them. If women were massively into programming it would be considered useless and "janitorial" too. And that's based on a real example kek
Yeah, anon needs to pull their head out of their ass. Programming is a good example, now entirely a toxic
bro club but originally it was mostly female. Men shoehorn their way into any profitable female professions and take over, the reality is a woman can excel at any role, particularly technical roles. "women's hobbies" and jobs are simply the ones men deem not profitable enough to bully us out of. Watch if there was some inane revival of knitting where all the dumbass NFT get rich quick scheme bros figured out a way to monetize it, suddenly it would be something only galaxy brains can do (because they are doing it)
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Is "becoming confident in a dinosaur culture" some, idk, known meme I'm not aware of? I've been rereading Hyperbole and Half comics recently, in one of which she recalls having a dinosaur costume that gave her confidence to do things she wouldn't normally do, then I ran into this item in Danganronpa game… it feels too specific to be a coincidence but then again I've never heard of such thing before, so I wonder, is it a coincidence after all then? Or is it actually some known phenomena I've just somehow never heard of
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I don’t know, but this one definitely predates all the other ones. (Brad Neely, Creased Comics, early to mid 00’s.) It was popular on MySpace and then I think a lot of “omg so quirky” types probably identified with it and made their own versions.
It’s been a long time since I was in philosophy classes and writing about Descartes, but you should read the rest of his Meditations on First Philosophy for a better idea of what he’s writing about.
Also fuck Rene Descartes.
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Good afternoon nonners, here's my stupid question: is it normal for the flow of your period to change?
For example, my last few periods were quite heavy with some clots (but not insane bleeding or lots of clots). However, I just received this months period a few days early and I had absolutely no cramping and a very light flow.
Is this normal? I'm guessing there just wasn't as much lining to shed this month, if that's even how it works?
Picrel to make any lurking trannies seethe.
Do any other anons have experience with being objectified abroad based on their origin, but not expecting it? I always knew "foreign" girls were fetishised based on their ethnicity, such as East-Asians, South-Americans, or even Mexicans for Americans. However, I never knew it even applied to me, which was of course naive. I spent a semester abroad in the USA and experienced so much blatant fetishisation, it was remarkable. Everything was related to me being European. I have a typical Nordic appearance of blonde hair and blue eyes, so I received a lot of comments to relating to how "exotic" I am..??? I laughed at them and said I am not Carribbean or anything, so how am I exotic… When guys complained that I wasn't into slapping and choking during sex, I said it's because most normal women want love, not pain. He said "no, it's just 'causs you aren't American." ……. Finally, because I was an international student, I made friends with other girls who came from abroad. The girls from East Asia told me how when I come to visit their country, I may be approached by men on the street and I should avoid them like the plague. Vice versa, I told them about how they should be wary of guys here and their treatment of how they are foreign. I know women get objectified based on anything, whether they are from abroad or not, but this theme was something I experienced a lot around. I'd love to hear about your experiences and thoughts
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Why don’t men kill themselves and each other more often?
This is just a scheme to drag it out until the Paypal window closes. Let PayPal deal with it. Show PayPal screenshots of how it hasn't shipped.>>1456761
Take Adderall like the rest of us with ADHD.
You're right. I told him off>>1456754
That's so true, I forget this sometimes…
she used to be part of a anti-SJW comedy group during the gamergate era, when her MLM videos started gaining traction and started attracting a mostly left leaning audience and so she scrubbed all instances of her "problematic
" past and that's about it, she also has a history of plagiarizing from smaller Anti-MLM creators and not giving credit
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Avatar 2 sucked ass if you're expecting plot or seriousness. It's great for special effects though. I would take the chance on Puss in Boots, at least it acknowledges that it's a comedy. Also, look at these hair styles they gave the characters.
Grit your teeth and push through the pain.
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les/bi nonnies, who do you think would be the best in bed between tove lo, dua lipa and charli xcx?
Ashen skin tone or unusually red skin tone? poorly kept hair? Bags under your eyes or bloodshot eyes? Resting bitch face?
before I finished reading your post I was going to guess it was something about not wearing makeup lol. But you don't have to wear makeup.
You might want to ask someone in real life who can see your face and answer you honestly. Maybe you really do look sick or maybe your coworkers are dicks and just want you to use makeup. We don't know.
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If you're deep enough in it these gifs seem fitting or funny, probably because you also know the context behind a lot of them. I still have pics like picrel saved where I'm not sure if it's really funny or just the after effects of being a kpopfag years ago.
I do worry if I'm somehow left off with a weird but harmless side effect that I probably would never stop thinking "I did this to myself" kek. I'm already used to being blind as shit without my glasses but shit like chronic dry eyes or starbursts or haze or whatever the fuck else harmless things that might happen feel like an unnecessary annoyance to bring upon myself.>>1457429
I've never considered the surgery to appease others, my main consideration was just to "reset" my eyesight since it's already pretty bad. >>1457485
Lasik and the flap cutting really freaks me out! I was looking more into PRK today because an athlete I follow said it was the only one she qualified for, and it uses a laser so no cutting. I didn't know about the destroying eye muscles thing though! I've sort of been skimming through how the procedure works but I don't get the real nitty gritty of it all. I'll look into it more!
My eyes were really bad, like I was legally blind without glasses. I got it at 25 year old and I've been very happy with it.
Downsides: I can no longer see at night, especially in high contrast situations. So if it's night and everyone has their headlights on, I'll go five below the speed limit in the right lane or else I just won't drive. The light from the headlights seems to take up the entirety of my vision and I can't see anything but. I have heard that I can wear glasses to correct this, but I didn't pay all that money for nothing so I won't. However, there's also a daily drop I can do for life (CanC or something) but I'm lazy.
Upsides: no dirty or scratched glasses, can swim or shower on a lark while seeing everything, I can wear swimming googles without paying out the nose for prescription ones, and they actually corrected my vision to better than average (20/15).
almost certain that PRK is even shittier than LASIK. My nigel had terrible eyesight and got the SMILE operation done which instead of a flap just makes a tiny hole that seals up without worrying of it bursting in the future
cost like 5 grand though but the recovery wad two days now he has above average vision
Thanks for the insight nona! What type of procedure did you have done?>>1457695
Is it? I've been reading good things about it over lasik besides longer recovery time. I was reading about smile too but some people did mention they were hesitant about it since it hasn't been around as long as doesn't have as much long term data compared to lasik and prk.
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How do asexual people rationalize claiming asexuality but still masturbating/having sex? “Asexuals can still have and enjoy sex!” Huh??? Can someone who used to be an sjw explain
they can still enjoy the physical sensations of sex/masurbation but for most of them they're not going to be actively seeking out sexual encounters, bc as the other anon said they dont experience sexual attraction towards people.
asexuality is a pretty broad term, bc some of them want nothing to do with sex whatsoever while others are regularly having sex often bc its something their partners enjoy
cooked if you're serving it same-day. if you're doing some make-ahead party prep then use raw.
next level bruschetta technique: rub raw garlic on the still-warm toasted bread slices.
ok so if a woman>has no genuine desire to actually have relationships or sex with men>can find heterosexual sex arousing but only in theory>does desire relationships and/or sex with women both in theory and in real life
does she count as bisexual or a lesbian? not counting a deliberate decision on hetero-abstinence in the name of self-preservation or feminism but genuine lack of desire to actually engage in heterosexual sex.
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Does electricity have a smell to you? I swear I can smell something when something is staticky. For example like a big old crt tv, or when I have a plushie rub against my blanket and it creates static, I can almost smell it if it’s strong enough. Does anyone else smell this?
I'm a burgerfag but I would assume it's the same in Europe… I'm pretty sure most, if not all, glasses shops will have an optometrist there who will do eye exams. Go in, say you'd like to get your prescription checked and get some glasses. They bring you in, the doc will do the eye exam, and then you'll go and pick out the frames. Some places take a few hours to get you your glasses, my local optometrist always takes like a few days or a week but he's also not a chain store so. Not sure about the exchange policy tbh, but if they don't already give you your prescription info, ask for it so you can shop online for some frames because it'll probably be massively cheaper than in store.>>1457689
This honestly wouldn't bother me that much, but I guess I would be upset if I sank a couple thousand into the procedure and it just ended up being kinda for naught after a few years. I am totally expecting this to happen if I go through with it though.
What did you study and what is your job?
I think some people are meant for certain things, and you haven't found it yet. It's great you studied something if you were interested in it and not for the money, because you can get burnt out. I actually accomplished much of what I wanted and pursuing other passions and careers, and I didn't even finish school. I traveled and lived abroad, learned languages, worked with children. I also make music and write casually, as well as sports, but I do those since young. And I did some massage therapy to make money on the side so now I am getting certified and will work at a spa. I'm also going for my private pilots license.
My point is there's a whole world out there, if you aren't comfortable in your surroundings, change them. I can advice you how to use your education or new paths to take if you have any idea, if not why not just search until something interests you and try it.
I studied marketing. I enjoyed my program and participated in related student orgs, but I guess I didn't know to much about the real world because I never had a job before graduating. My parents didn't allow me to work. After university, I've had several jobs in the field working at both corporations and small agencies too, but I've been fired from all of them. I've had conflicts with a couple of my managers over projects, but usually I was just let go with no clear reason.
Longest time I had a professional job was 1.5 years. My current job is remote data entry. I've been doing it for the past 3 years but it's pretty much a dead end job. I get bonuses every quarter for good performance, but have never had a raise. I feel like the only reason why I've had this job for so long is because I'm not in an office and directly interacting with people. My boss usually communicates with me via email. I rarely get a call from him.
Overall I feel stuck and my parents make me feel like a failure. I just wonder if my brain is broken or something and how to fix it.
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Thanks, I’m so bad at making choices. Clearly, since I went with every option lol
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Is nonnie unique to lolcow? I just saw a tumblr post where someone used it and now I wonder if they’re a farmer, unless the term is also used in other places.
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i heard Peterson was revealed to be a pedo, deets on this? i'm not surprised tbh but i'm curious how he got outed
I haven't heard this, maybe it's true, but I kind of doubt it. I'm not a fan of him BTW. I remember one of his old videos he was joking about playing with kids and people were making pedo jokes in the comments, but it was pretty obvious in the video it was innocent. not sure if that's where that came from though.
but you just randomly reminded me of when I tried to read maps of meaning, and he mentioned how his cousin was the most beautiful woman he'd ever seen. if my husband said that I'd leave. he also mentioned that in his h3h3 interview, though at the time I didn't realize he was talking about his cousin. why he felt the need to tell that to the world I'll never know
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maybe it's because he sympathized with milo? but if that's the case that makes a lot of right wingers pedos. https://dissociated.medium.com/the-time-jordan-peterson-supported-pedophiles-1cecced87e22
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What is it with American boomers losing their shit over any kind of religious (mostly christian) reference no matter how minor and harmless it is? "Hell" being considered a swear word has always sounded so silly to me.
Kek he really said that? I had no idea, that's messed up though.>>1458217
Guess I never thought of it that way but that makes sense. I mostly enjoyed that the guests were able to do their stories even if they are completely nuts, he doesn't add anything but doesn't interrupt either and I kind of enjoy that about it. It's like listening to 2 people talking on the train most of the time, I can't sit through 2 hours of it but 10 minute clip I usually find pretty cozy. I didn't know his fans really took him/his guests dead serious though, I know they're probably mostly teenage boys but who would actually say or think he's a good interviewer? Like you said he listens, nods and maybe makes a joke from time to time. I always saw it as a family dinner conversation but I guess many people don't.
Honestly nona I don't think any of us could tell you what's going on but I would consult a psychologist and explain that to them if you really want some insight. It sounds like it's distressing you so that would be a good reason to reach out to a professional, in the meantime would it be possible for you to avoid anything to do with your current husbando?>Everything I go through is processed and contextualised through the lens of my husbando.
That is honestly so relatable though
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Birth control questions..
Should I be on birth control?
I'm not currently active but if I am in a relationship again, unfortunately most men won't wear condoms and won't be careful. My period is inconsistent so it's hard to track fertility. I don't want to alter my hormones and affect my health in a bad way, I struggle to swallow pills and don't want the daily commitment, and I don't want to insert anything because it's painful and medicine is sadistic against women. So I think pills and iud are out. Does anyone know about the patch, ring, shot, or implant? I will also talk to a doctor about it when I decide, but I am a bit clueless now and want to think about it carefully. I have never been on birth control before.
There are plenty of anons here like that. I would say talk to a doctor, perhaps a female one if you're uncomfortable about it still.
I've been on the pill for issues with my cycle and not for the titular reason, and while my experience won't be the same as everyone else, I have never had an issue with "nasty pimples".
It's up to you. Personally I would take the pill if I was in an active sexual relationship with a man because I don't like pregnancy scares.
I didn't mind taking the pill, you get in the habit and it doesn't feel like any more of a commitment than brushing your teeth. I liked the person control it gave me; I could stock up and start/stop whenever I wanted. I have an IUD now and while I like it a lot for specific personal reasons having to do with PCOS, the fact that I have to go to a doctor to remove it does bother me in the back of my mind and it always has. I don't have weight or acne problems (any more so than my sisters who aren't on bc) but that's just me. I did find that certain pills seemed to affect the size of my breasts and hips but it fluctuated; I read this has something to do with the way estrogen affects fat cells (fyi my breasts and hips are smaller on hormonal bc, which is kind of a bummer).
I'm afraid of the shot, I hear too much negative feedback about it from women in my life. If I was in an abusive
marriage and needed a secret birth control method I would get it but other than that, no.
I think if anyone tells you bc has no side effects or risk they are lying, and if anyone tells you it's definitely going to give you cancer and "ruin" your hormones they are also lying. Talk to your doctor and if they're dismissive of your concerns talk to a different doctor.
No you shouldn't. Unless you have health issues that birth control alleviates, then you have no reason to be on it. Most men won't wear condoms because most men are careless degenerates - however from experience I can confirm that there are a very small percentage of males out there that eagerly wear condoms without you even having to suggest or say anything about it. That's because they are not retarded and also don't want children.
Stay off BC unless you really need it health-wise. There are an insane amount of side effects that come with using it, and I'm not talking acne or weight gain or feeling a little moody. It can, and has, fucked women up for years.
Samefag, at the end of the day there are of course going to be women that have had no issues with being on it but imo hormones are nothing to be fucked with unless it's medically necessary. Don't feel like at some point you need
to be on it because men throw tantrums about condoms - if he's not eagerly wanting to use protection for himself, he is not a man you should be having sex with. More men should be sterilised anyway.
Sell your items on mercari eBay or any other platform.
Ask for help from friends or family members.
Put it on your credit card. (Terrible but I'm exploring options)
Return items at the store that you don't need.
perform eight $20 foot rubs
taskrabbit or uber type things probably (I have never)
facebook marketplace or craigslist if you have something to sell that is desirable
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see vidjust kidding. I'm not canadian sorry, maybe someone else can answer you
lmao I have a ton of change that I use at vending machines and sometimes I leave small coins there for someone to find xD
I meant more online so I have something in my wallet. I do live streams sometimes and make money but it's unpredictable you know, since it's just a fun thing and sometimes people donate. I will still be streaming, it's like performance art.
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He may or may not be Fidel Castro's illegitimate son. Just kidding, I actually thought he was popular in Canada until a few months ago so I'd like to know too.
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Are professional skin treatments and facials a meme? Do they just feel nice, and that's it? I spent like 10 years getting memed into the whole 8-step skincare routine thing, so now I'm questioning everything.
I discovered 4chan in 2008 and have used it pretty regularly until 2016. Overall, I had a lot of good and funny times on it and it's rare to say that a website made me cry laugh but 4chan did. Honestly it had its moments. I don't think it was as coomerish as it is today.
For example dark souls threads on /v/ used to be hilarious, if you dare to step into an elden ring thread on /v/ today literally everything you'd see would be coomer art, nothing else.
If you go to a professional, they will tell you what to do. I used to think it was just the things you do when your skin felt greasy and gross, but a friend of my mom did a course and such, she's passionate about skin care, so now that she knows what to do, she is able to tell others what works and what doesn't work for their skin.
Sure, it's not the same as visiting an actual dermatologist, but it works.
do you need it? get it
do you just want it? don't get it
You don't need to do 8 step shit everyday. But you should do weekly masks, and monthly treatments if you want. I wash my face with warm water every morning and night, hot if I take a bath and steam in the shower. I use facewash sparingly bc it can irritate skin, get a gentle one. I use a clay mask twice a week. I use a cariety of creams but only one at a time. Sometimes I use serums or essense but it makes little difference. I used to live in Korea which has a big industry, tried a lot of products, I can only recommend a few based on what worked for my sensitive skin. I also do not wear makeup regularly.
Skinfood has the most gentle facewash
Innisfree has great masks, I use clay mask
Both brands have nice creams like green tea, honey etc but I don't use daily
Snail cream is really great for eyes
Try to get ACE vitamins for your skin
Aloe, honey, clay also great
Chemical peels are alright
Never get botox or fillers, it destroys your skin
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samefag i think i figured it out..i had to change the time zone first, THEN the hours
Well it's both easy and difficult, especially if you are just starting. You have to get used to being on camera, everything is live so watch what you say and do. Sites have rules and braindead moderation so ppl get banned randomly, only the top people tend to get away with it. A lot if bans are bots automated and you usually don't hear back right away. Appeals don't work either. Be careful.
Best stream sites are Twitch and Tiktok. Twitch you just need small stats to get monetized but you can always put donations or outside links to earn money. Monetized means people can pay you through twitch itself but they take a cut, donations are yours (aha taxes) Streamers are live 4+ hrs. You need an audience and you have to stand out or have streamer friends to get noticed. Big streamers pay people to promote them, they have paid services to increases viewers, more viewers is more ad money, and the site only
promotes top streams so everyone with money does this, many have 0 viewers and earn nothing. You need to talk to chat, if not be visually very appealing.
Tiktok is way easier to get viewers, people like weird things, stream is pushed by likes but you can pay to promote. But viewer count doesn't earn money, only subs and gifts, and it is way harder to earn money on lives alone. I think lives are to promote videos for creator fund, so post videos and lives bring followers. Lives are shorter.
I earned way more on twitch, I had way more viewers on tiktok.
I ran out of space.
I mostly sit and chat with people on twitch, showing my legs, a lot of people came for that casual chat. I gamed with people, walked around, danced many things but the viewers did not come as much as just being legs, outside, chatting. Most money was one or two guys subbing and donating, then bits and ads a smaller number. My viewers told me I am often on in the background, or they just came home from work or school, they are lonely, it really is parasocial over there.
Tiktok I am as weird as I can be and I get thousands of viewers, but very little money in gifts. I actually do well by not talking to anyone. Everyone has a character they play, it's more creative.
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Where the FUCK did I get pinworms?? I rarely interact with children. I wash my hands compulsively. What the FUCK. How long have I had them?? I want to cry
That's why you either enjoy what you are doing or you are braindead enough to stream all the time, but for a chance at making a lot of money if you market yourself well.
I would advice youtube as a passive income, at least you can edit, do a variety of content; and spend a lot less time on it.
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Sisters is it true that lolcow now has a word limit per post????? if so, wow how shitty
Shatmin really ruined the site and made it even shittier in the process
I hate this bitch so much it's unreal
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I have a friend and she can't access the website but I can, are the problems still going on?
It's not that I'm endorsing it for real, but if we do
need a character limit, we'd rather need it the other way round.
yes. tons of people can't access the site and there has so far been no explanation from the admin as to why there are still problems accessing the site.
it was supposed to be a DNS propagation issue that would resolve itself, but we're waaay past the number of days it would take for DNS issues to resolve themselves. (according to what I've been reading anyway)
most of the people who were in the bunker threads and couldn't access the website normally are accessing it via https://farmcow.lol/
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Does anyone know where this dress is from? It's beautiful, I love it!
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anyone here does Youtube? any idea how to get started.
#1 make vidoe
#2 upload 2 yutub
This is straight up not true and he knows it, just listen to people who where actually sexually abused as children and not a scientific study done by science pedos. Both girls and boys grow up markedly disturbed even if they end up functioning at a high level, aka having a good job, family or talents, they still exhibit mental health issues. Many are addicted to drugs and alcohol or have psychological illness and many in lifelong therapy. Many are so disturbed it affects their ability to parent. Many do not ever recover and have difficulties their whole life.Anyone who says this is guaranteed to be a nonce, and the fact that the right wing are so obsessed with calling the left pedos and groomers (which they are sometimes) is pure psychological projection. If JP could have a 12 year old bride, he would. If Milo could have a 12 year old boyfriend, he would. They aren’t attracted to women, women are too mature for their tastes, not small enough, don’t make them feel powerful enough, don’t have the extreme youth ham that they fetishise.
>>1459036>Anyone who says this is guaranteed to be a nonce, and the fact that the right wing are so obsessed with calling the left pedos and groomers (which they are sometimes) is pure psychological projection.
You know I've always found this very funny because right wingers are always talking about how Le modern world is degenerate and we need to go back to "tradition" when it was more socially acceptable for moids to rape and beat their wives, and for an old scrote to rape a 13 year old girl or boy, only difference is that teen girls back then were forced to marry instead of being "sluts" and having sex before marriage. Somehow marriage makes it all acceptable I guess.>>1458314
what do you mean? neoteny isn't a concept, it's just a thing. it's a biological term to mean retaining more features for developing slower. for example dogs are more neotenous than wolves, humans are more neotenous than apes. I agree men trying to say that women having childlike faces is what makes us attractive is straight up pedo shit, though. there's no reason why a woman having childlike features in one way or another would signal fertility, if anything it's the opposite, and I'm not sure why this is such a popular concept. actually creatures that are less neotenous become sexually mature a lot faster.
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Does anyone else get sick when the weather rapidly changes? Like it gets suddenly warm or cold? Where I live it was cold as fuck and it got really hot all of the sudden and I feel so fatigued and have a headache. Idk if this is normal
looks: y2k, alternative punk/goth, hippie
personality: bubbly or total push over, could be normie, overly sexual or like "um…ok" when over sexual jokes are brought up but probably wont protest them
interests: netflix dramas, reality tv, competition tv, or vidya game, probably has her bf as the lock screen/background if it isnt a husbando or kawaii hot topic sort of character (sanrio, san x, pusheen, pastel stuff)
Neoteny is a biology concept but the way moids apply it is so disgusting to me. It's not just women who are neotenious it's men too, men are just retarded and want to prove everyone their degeneracy is valid
or whatever. I fucking hate moids
that's so sad
I'm bi and I'm gc/a stupid tomboy and I would never put anyone but cool art as my phone background
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Do you recommend Google Calendar to organize habits and daily/monthly reminders (birthdays, cleaning time, check x thing) or there's better apps?
I never understood how google calendar works because it doesn't look like a normal calendar to me, plus why would you give that info to google…
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Please could someone share their opinions on the different kind of kimchi? And which one is the "best" in their opinion? I know it's purely down to personal taste, but recommendations would be really greatly appreciated. I was also wondering, how do you know you've bought good kimchi? Are there any good brands that make it? I buy some from my local korean market but it always seems more watery than pastey like I see in some cookery videos.
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this image was posted by an anon in the necro'd fakeboi thread. what website is this?
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My favorite is definitely cucumber, but I like them all. Aside from cucumber, my favorites are usually leafy ones (nira chives, scallion, sesame leaf, mustard leaf).
I know my kimchi is not very good when it's watery, too sour, too acidic or a combination of multiple of these.
I'll have to see if I can visit a market like this and buy it from a vendor. That sounds delicious.>>1459452
cucumber sounds great. I recently tried the radish one and thought it was really yummy.
Do you think I could drain the jar I have now that is quite watery, and add some of the gochujang paste I bought?
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So I have two husbandos for my first husbandos, one is pure last (Super mutants) the other is a genuine interest picrel, who do you think should be my husbando for 2023?
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I got this at a korean grocery store last month and it was really good. I like kimchee with fish too but I live with a vegetarian who was getting jealous of my fishy kimchee (in a nice way) so I got this to share and I might like it better.
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Listen to your clit, only she can guide you.
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So I got these heels but both of the heels are a little worn with that screw kinda sticking out and I’m wondering if anyone has any idea of something I could to to fix it?? I really want to bring them back to life but I can’t think of anything to mend it
If you take your heels to a shoe store (like and honest to god shoe store not payless or something) they can easily replace the part of your heel that's missing and they do it all the time, it's not even expensive. When my friend told me she did this with all her worn-down heels it was a fucking revelation.
It was $8USD last time I got it done which was five years ago, so even with inflation it can't cost more than $20 now probably? lol
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Ohhhh no he doesn't, there are some episodes where he gets downright handsy with suspects.
yeah, older zoomer who's lived in both eras: now you're not allowed to like yaoi unless you identify as a trans man because it's "fetishistic and problematic
" also no one calls it yaoi anymore, they just call everything gay
He said that it forces him to really look at himself and reflect on his life and that he feels better after doing it. He has a pretty serious issue with anxiety so he's essentially using it to self-medicate.
I guess I just wish he'd tackle his anxiety issues in a different way. He's recently started therapy though. Idk I have this knee-jerk reaction to drugs because I would never ever use any so it feels scary to hear that he does it (somewhat) frequently.
Focus on something else as a ground technique. I name every school teacher I had. In order. Over and over again. Like a chant to give me something to focus on.
Use one earbud in one ear. The difference in sound helps tell your brain to recheck your audio cues again and can help you stay grounded.
Breathe. 5-2-7 in for five. Hold for two. Out for seven seconds. It over oxygens your brain and helps reset your brain chemistry
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depends on where you live. usually your local post office will have a display to choose from. they might have a website too.
last time I went I got cowboy stamps
hi yes thank you this is good>>1460163
I don't draw, just looking to journal. i feel like moleskines are overrated and wanted to give something else a try.
I've tried the (mini)pill, the patch, the nuvaring and with them all it came down to the exact same issue.. I went from having pretty mild and manageable mental health issues to having a whole new world of issues while on them. Being actively suicidal and in crisis. My sex drive would disappear and the relationship would be falling apart from my mental state anyway. Then the doc would say to just keep taking it for longer to see if it eventually passes. To take an antidepressant on top?
Then I ran into an issue where a family history of breast cancer and high blood pressure worried docs more than any of those psych issues ever did. Aswell as risk factors increasing with age. The only options I haven't tried yet are off limits to me anyway for health reasons. I've exhausted my options and I'm kind of relieved that the option is gone tbh. I know not everyone has that much difficulty with bc but I wish I'd never put myself through so many rounds of trial and error.
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Me. Milk used to make me shart, now that I quit drinking it, I am normal and living my best life!
Yeah. Damage to my intestine caused it to be too hard to digest.>>1460625
Good for you anon. That gif is so cute ♥
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I am trying to learn how to cook more varied recipes, what are some recipes i could make that are easy and tasty?
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How linear is the vn ver of higu?
how long is the distance between your jaw and armpit kek. my hair also grows fast, and that would take like 6 months for me so hopefully nona is the same!>>1460814
maybe layers or cutting your bangs shorter will make it looks longer. right now you're still expecting it to look like something else, but once you settle into your new hair you'll feel better.
Ditto on what the other nonas said about insemination etc. Also dairy cows are killed when they stop producing, which takes 2.5-6 years. Cows don't produce milk their whole life. They aren't turned out onto a pasture to chew cud in peace, they're processed for their meat and hide as soon as they stop making milk or if they don't make enough milk.
Normal cow life expectancy is 15-25 years.
the thing is i don't believe its misophonia. i say this because i have experienced misophonia before, and it feels like an intense annoyance at stuff like chewing. this other thing to me feels like motion sickness, it's a deep internal dread and nausea. when i look at the tide approaching and receding, i feel very deeply that something is wrong and I have to let myself get distracted by something else so that it won't bother me anymore.
i don't know if it gets worse with stress, but it does get worse if im already overstimualted. but i don't believe it's misophonia, which is annoying bc thats the only thing google gives me results for lol
nothing majorly traumatic, that im aware of anyway. i have in the past wondered if its OCD, but the thing is i don't really experience much else that's indicative of OCD. you're right though that i would one day like to get to the root of it to hopefully bring me some peace - for now the best thing i can do is find other distractions whenever possible, and that usually helps.
thank you nonna, it helps knowing theres other people similar to me out there
>>1461071>The person sending checks is busy as fuck too and barely replies to me except to say every suggestion I have won't work. They are holding the money, the checks will probably expire soon. >It's all inheritance money.
Pretty sure you have to talk to this person more. They aren't sending it to you in a currency you can use. Tell them a USD paper check is useless to you. They can cancel the check and wire the money to your bank account, a US check isn't currency everywhere.
If all else fails get a lawyer and make them talk to the lawyer handling the estate of whoever died (RIP).
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How many nonny is childfree?
No because I did not have a registered residence for 5 years, I haven't had a bank account since then. Funny I used to have a few, and now they're all closed, don't have the bank info or cards, and my name has changed since then. I used cash or online wallets. When I had a chance to be in the US I tried every bank and was rejected, and ended up with Chime because I thought I understood it would work abroad, but only the card works, and I cannot add money to it. I also thought I would get my residence with id and bank here sooner. So now I am in purgatory in a way>>1461134
I am also not sure why she sent checks but I just said sure whatever, the money should be on hold anyway. She tried to transfer the money domestically and Chime rejected it. That really blindsided me. I keep blaming myself as if I didn't prepare but how can I prepare for everything to go wrong all the time.
Lots of options here:
You can be walked down the aisle by your mom and dad. You can walk it by yourself. I know people who have done both options. Or you can make your finance walk down the aisle, with one or both parents. Then you go. Or you can both walk down it together.
How do you make a ridiculously pampered bath? I’ve got one of my favorite bath bombs and usually put music on, but what else should I do to bathmaxx?>>1461291
You should lock your bank cards (if that’s possible with your bank) and contact the bank so they can document the theft and do whatever else needs to be done.
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What does this mean? its not on my picture by the way I’m just nosy
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nonnies, is it possible for someone to suffer chronic dehydration in spite of drinking enough water? starting to get extremely suspicious because I felt so much better than usual after taking electrolytes. like, I finally felt kind of human for the first time in months.
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maybe you just needed the salt, nonti.
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For those who have actually been there, what are fujos/husbandofags like in bed? Their posts on here make me think they’d be lunatics but I wonder if that’s really true
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I worked in a hotel and when guests smoked in the room we used deodorizer sprays (odoban is one that can be purchased by anyone, some were industrial use only) and a giant ozone machine like picrel to clear the smell.
One time a smoking guest sealed all the cracks around the doors and ran the shower on hot full blast until the entire room was thick with steam. When it cleared the smell was completely gone, we didn’t even charge them the smoking fee because there was no proof lol. Apparently that works well.
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I mean this unironically but is everyone who is like heavily invested in sonic or like super into it autistic?
Every single thing I've seen of the sonic fandom is completely fucking unhinged for a children's videogame where the goal is to hold right but like, for longer than mario would because he's FAST
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where can i watch movies online 4 free without viruses pls
The three pillars of autism, planes, trains, sonic games
Transistor radios, fnaf, furryism and frog plushes should prob get a shoutout too.
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creative re-use stores sometimes take them or you can make an art project yourself
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Are there any exmuslims there? It rather, I know there are a few of us, but I'd like to know how you're living through this, how conservative the countries you're from and your familiers are, etc. Are there interesting websites where I can read about exmuslims venting and talking about their personal experiences?
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me and my baby in singapore
I don't know much about Singapore, but between the UK and the US, definitely the UK. My fiancé could get a job in the US and make a shitload of money but we both refuse to live there, more me than him. American society is so brainwashed, consumerist, degraded, perverted. Religion is too prevalent, from politicians wanting to ban abortions because of it to doctors making circumcision a norm.
I know UK isn't great either, but at least there it would be easier to immigrate to a decent country in europe later on if it gets too shitty.
Physically I wouldn't fit in in Singapore so I'm scared my kid could get bullied/discriminated.
I'd spend time in the US or Singapore making shitloads of money, settle down in the UK to have the kid, and encourage my kid to repeat the same cycle.
t. currently halfway through this process
Pharmaceutical companies are big business and medicine isn't real, I used to work for families that were in pharma companies and they said it's not real it's mostly placebo and marketing, they need people to be sick. And my family does work in government, there are photos and articles with my ggf and the bush family together, they were friends, he knew reagan family too. They have passed but I still have an uncle working in law, who worked as nepo government lawyer and now is a criminal defense lawyer. Yet whenever I say this people think I'm making it up and I get censored, I am not I just choose to maintain my privacy. My family is large so wouldn't know me, I myself am not a part of this and not even in the states anymore, but I am also ostracized. My father threatened me for saying the US was as wrong as Japan during the war for bombing them. My own grandmother tried to put me in an asylum for being sad one day, imagine if they hear me saying this. They already hate me anyway.
But my point is that I always feel like targeted in a way. I see others post nonsense conspiracy theories, or the same truths, and their videos aren't removed. I said such simple things and got violations and bans from social media, but they always tried to frame it as something else.
okay, thats good to hear. thanks for the reassurance nonny
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So I recently went to my uncle's house and I talked to my cousin about some of my exes, we know each other well and I trust him but then he began saying things like "you are definitely more on the attractive side", "you are just really fun to talk to" and "I bet a lot of girls wish they had a body like yours" and I'm feeling a bit confused.
What do you think, was my cousin flirting with me or was he trying to cheer me up?
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platinum white/silver bob that's a little short with a blowout to make it rounded. had that in my mid-twenties and everyone thought I was an old lady from the back.
So are the other days spotting? >>1462388
No I love it, that's why I asked
show her a video of him being a raging asshole. record him in secret if you have to.
probably an insane idea you shouldn't do but I think that would work on me.
My thought too, have you had Covid recently >>1462462
Anyone know good dry shampoos for kitties? I have a long hair manx who doesn’t like to bathe herself. She loves to be brushed at least! My older who cat used to bathe her died recently. I figured it would help her be less grungy.
If there is a pet care thread on this board and I missed it let me know.
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I use picrel, it's actually a foam but you rub it in and brush it out. It smells nice and it doesn't bother my cat at all.
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Have any nonnas here rejected any men recently? If yes, how were things and what led to you breaking things off? How did the guy take it?
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My ex and I left things in a really weird grey area the last time we legitimately talked. We haven’t talked in two months until he texted me Happy New Year. No birthday or Christmas text but he picked NYE. What does it mean?
Not too recently but men never take it well.
I just say honestly I have no interest, all I can sense from men is this desperation for sex and validation from women, with nothing to offer but hoping getting you good will make you want them, it doesn't make me feel anything, it has no benefit to me. I actively avoid men as much as possible. As of now I only talk to my landlords family and the local shop employees.
Last I talked to my ex we just tried to have nice conversation and it was south fast, so many feelings there, so we just don't talk anymore.
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Are fetishes really permanent? Am I really stuck with the strange and fucked up fetishes I memed myself into developing during my porn addiction? (Been using porn for 9 years and stopped almost 2 years ago, but my fetishes are still here
Can i ever become normal again?
No you can fix them, but its not as simple as quitting cold turkey, you have to retrain your brain patters essentially, believe me, I was into really fucked up and violent porn cause I had my own issues and even when I tried quitting porn, It never worked long term
by replacing my urges with more Vanilla Porn, I fixed myself
I'd go from periods of not watching porn at all(3 days) then use my pre-downloaded vanilla porn once a day for 5 days total, then I'd stop watching for 9 days and repeated the same schedule with 5 days, even when I'd fail, I would still always use the vanilla porn
eventually 9 went to 12, then to 15, to 20, then to 30, then 40 and finally after 45 I was finally healed
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What does ‘ cookie monster pajama pants girl’ mean?
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I just associate it with this meme
I can try? Like whispering asmr>>1463183
"this video is dedicated to you my biggest fan: anonymous"
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Hmm, I think so! These were the first ones I ever saw back in 2015
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Why do spiders keep appearing every time I think of them? Is there a nest inside my house? Am I subconscionously manifesting them? Help
I agree with >>1463476
Just an FYI and this may or may not be something you want to do but as a grown child of abusive
parents I wish someone had told me when I was 4 that it's not okay for dad to hit you and he is bad and wrong for doing that and it's not because he loves you and it's not because you did anything wrong. When you're 4 you just believe everything your parents say and it took me years to unlearn some things I was told. She may or may not remember you telling her but it couldn't hurt.
How her mother reacts could change everything. That's the first step. Tell the mother.
honestly I laughed
Idk my face shape maybe oval or diamond>>1463543
hm right if I drive a moped and it's also for flying license so might be a good idea
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Help me nonnas! This is what i have so far (will reorder them once i got more)
If she likes newer charli xcx: used to know me, constant repeat, hot girl, what you think about me>>1463578
Kiss n tell is another really good Kesha song
Rescue by Lucinda Williams
Virgin by Flower Face
Miss Me More by Kelsea Ballerini
I Saw the Light by Wynonna Judd
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What's the name of this type of fabric? It's polyester, but the specifics
I looked up chiffon, but couldn't find it like that, as in… Full of folds? In japanese they just call it like that (しわ)
I also looked for "pleated", but nothing. I guess I just need the right terminology, but it's been frustrating
I would love to make a sourbread but I don't have the right cooking pans for it, I am in a rental in a small kitchen. I was going for flat bread to cook on the stovetop but now I worry it will stick.
So it's actually been resting for 25 mins and it is a bit less sticky. I will just see how this goes, if it becomes more doughy. Will post results if edible.
Yeah checked it again and it was the same so I started cooking. I tested a small amount bc my brain keeps thinking it will stick. Nope it cooked fine and tasted it, we have got bread!! My first batch looks wonky but I will show you the next one. It's really more like roti, I just didn't have any oil and didn't want a whole bottle for one more week. Also I've made bread with a machine before but I wanted the real deal.
I'm a baker now ;)(;))
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what platform was this poll posted on? anyone any clue? twitter?
Not an expert but in that case using the comma reads easier and looks more natural - it is clear it’s not a typo, and also reflects the emphasis you would use saying it out loud. I normally wouldn’t use it with “had had” though which is the probably the most common case of repeating a word.
>He had had a fright. >He had, had a fright.
The second example I would only use if I was really emphasising one of the hads.
That's even less bad, it's been barely any time at all so wtf are you panicking about? I'd understand some anxiety if you ghosted him like, months ago, but in this situation not only is your excuse completely understandable it's only been a few days and he probably doesn't give a shit unless he's a clingy psycho.
It sounds like you need to worry more about your clearly evident social anxiety than what this dude thinks of you forgetting to reply for a short period of time.
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Who is "Daddy's Little Porkchop" and why do half of these banners make me feel like I'm on a porn site?
anyone know or think they may know?
if you weren't fighting or anything and you're adults with lives and she didn't send you a lot of serious messages you never answered it should be fine. unless you're leaving something out. might need more details to advise you further.
I would reach out, but I wouldn't expect a response (you did ghost after all).
he wants you.
also lmao why are you laughing at him? you were just shitting bricks over messaging him.
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Is Cher okay? What’s going on with her? Is something wrong with her or is she just being a boomer on social media? Her tweets read like an unhinged breakdown
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Can someone help me find the artist who makes drawings like this? They're mostly of some ugly fucker posing with a cute anime boy.
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Omg this just unlocked an old memory, I remember the “it is a mystery” smiley from my old somethingawful days, and there was another one I remember from the byob board where the ghosts’ eyes were flipped so it looked wall-eyed and it said “it is a mistwee” and it made me cry laughing, I couldn’t ever find it after that
Thanks anon! I'm aware that appetite increases when you start working out I'm one of those people who work out madly for 3 weeks and then drop it
but I've never felt this hungry. I'll try adding more protein. I have broccoli, chicken and eggs as my protein sources and thought it would be enough, but I was wrong kek.
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Do you gain weight if you constantly get diarrhea from eating stuff you’re “allergic” to? I’m lactose and gluten intolerant and get diarrhea a lot I wonder if that’s kind of like ass bulimia?
Oh god anon, I have a few lmao
Clubbed to Death by Rob Dougan. Dream is Collapsing by Hans Zimmer. The Son of Flynn by Daft Punk. Lacrimosa Dominae. Ebla by E.S. Posthumus. Navras by Juno Reactor. Icarus by Michael McCain.
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Am I depressed? These last few days I've been feeling very angry and upset. I've been crying over miniscule stuff and also literally everything annoys me. I'm always tired, got a headache, my body aches. I'm not on my period so I don't think it's a hormonal thing. Asking because I can't access therapy.>>1464849
I have a food intolerance too. Diarrhea can make you lose water weight, but you'll immediately gain it after eating.
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Get color block sneakers that have beige and white. I don't really like most black sneakers because they can look really ugly.
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how do you deal with gynaecologist appointments/pap smears when you have sexual trauma? like, how are you even meant to approach it when the thought of having a stranger inspect your vagina with a speculum just triggers all of the shit that happened to you?
my brain instantly associates penetration with pain after many uncomfortable and pressured sexual experiences by scrotes. the only thing I can handle is tampons and my own fingers, even using a dilator is emotional sometimes. I turned 25 a few days ago and I'm already getting texts from the NHS telling me to book a pap smear but it's with a nurse and i have no clue how to even handle this situation.
i know that i have to get this smear test done, but at the same time i'd rather not leave the doctors feeling violated and traumatised all over again.
Hey nonna! Ok, so first dont be afraid to be like “hey, before we start, I am nervous and I dont know what to expect.” And then you should let them know penetration triggers
you. Seriously. Just be forward. It gives the doc/nurse an opportunity to work slower or differently. They will navigate it with you.
Also, can you ask a loved one or friend to be in there with you? They dont have to see whats happening, but they could distract you with conversation.
If there is a planned parenthood or similar, go there. I find the care is kinder but that may be a singular experience.
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Are red bedrooms ugly, or would it be kinda slay in a tacky way? I want a sexy Don Lothario bedroom. Maybe leopard print sheets and some incense. Tired of the all-white plant mom stuff.
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Sexy provided you get this essential furniture to complete the look
>>1465058>Why the fuck do women on this site like to shit on other women so much
nona..how do you think this site was created kek. it's right in the name.>>1465114
nah at least we don't have a million >tfw no bf
posts and posts about dating 40+ year old men
Are there even any other sites that do polls? reddit, but it doesn't look like reddit.
might it be a phone app?
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No but I thought penises were retractable into the body kind of like when dogs randomly have it poking out and that guys had sex by lining up their penis hole thing with a vagina and retracting and pushing out their penises with some kind of muscle which is..really bonkers now that I consider it
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Have any of you found out your terrible skin was being caused by something unexpected? I basically have 50 or so cysts, pimples, and unhealed scars on my face right now and my skin has only gotten worse in the past months. I tried tretinoin, not doing anything, etc…nothing worked. Already spent so much time and research trying to fix my skin.
And I'm getting up in the years so I don't understand why my acne is worse than ever. I always have had bad skin, just…not this bad.
Also I quit dairy and sugar already.
this is hilarious nona >>1465482
I agree, we should have some thread about weird misconceptions we had when we were kids
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So before or after, which is it anon????
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Does dancing at a club get interpreted as flirting? How do I go clubbing without being seen this way? Can you dance with strangers without them assuming you want them?
>finally in le 18+ age group
>therefore i can do ALL things
>have never been clubbing
>dress in my finest handsomest black shirt and jeans
>now at the club with my friend
>turn on light up skechers
>drink some vodka (mummy's yass juice)
>ready to go
>start dancing with people, jumping in strobe lights
>my friend gets offered ketamine, she denies (we're british so this is normal)
>my friend (experienced clubber) starts snogging a random guy (do people do this at clubs?)
>his friend is there
>seems chill and we vibed
>i think we both start shuffle dancing, apparently i was doing an 'irish jig', and we're dancing together
>he asks to do kissing
>i say im gay (true) but you're a real g
>leave because i feel like i ruined the vibe by not wanting to kiss (bc he's male)
>i don't really know where to go since my friend is sucking face for the whole evening
>mainly just jump up and down with random people for four hours and it's still really fun
Can someone tell me what you're supposed to do at clubs, or what you personally do at clubs? I accidentally picked up a really cute girl with bpd but because of said bpd behaviour we are not in contact anymore. Are you supposed to go in groups? I wish I knew girls I could club with, I just want to dance like a retard.
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Do you think our Moz is more likely to be gender critical or a troon supporter?
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Anons when you see posts like these, how many “x hours ago” before you scroll? I am cautious if it’s <4 hours ago.
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Where is this from ?
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what about Indians, most North Indian are actually the descendants of many Aryan settles over 3000 years ago, some are pure most are mixed but they aren't technically the first people as Dravidians inhabited the region first
Could it be the same people reposting? I've been accused of stealing stories when in fact, I posted both times. Could be the case nonnie
What's your tax rate that the amount you are charging will be considerably taken by taxes? If your taxes are high enough that will make a big difference, then you probably have a higher chance of being audited.
If you're just starting to think of renting a room out now, you won't have to decide about your tax situation until next year in 2024 when you have to file.
I highly doubt someone would report you. If you're renting it illegally, they rented it illegally. This happens all the time and unless you somehow screw this person over or they're a shitbag, they'll probably appreciate the cheap deal you got them. For all apartments, much more so if you are sharing a living space, you should be more concerned with where you will advertise and how you will background check this person.
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Do you always get low iron levels after a heavy period? I just had mine and it was quite heavy and I feel tired and a bit short of breath like even the usual chores feel more physically demanding.
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Can someone explain this to me, is this a genuine thing or a shitpost ?
my brother is 5'11 and 180 and he's fit, not skinny in anyway
maybe its an american thing
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That's what I used to think, too, but if you weigh over 200 pounds you're overweight even if you're 6ft+. You'd have to be 6'4" (or 6'1" if you go by the new BMI) to not to be on the cusp between a healthy and overweight BMI. I was surprised when I found how comparatively little even giant humans are supposed to weigh lmao.
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The one I used say its overweight. And I'll believe it.
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Nonnies, what job would work in the short-term for a complete loser with a social disability, difficulty physically talking because of a jaw deformity, and health issues? I had some troubles in my family and while I do have a side gig (selling stuff online), it turns out I might not really have the time to flesh it out, I need to get more money ASAP.
And yes I hate myself for not getting a full-time job years ago now. Sigh.
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Digitalizing (scanning) books, documents and other sorts of things people like to look at in online libraries. No talking, just scanning and most of the time you sit. Did it for like 4 months. If you're in a second world or third world country, it's possible there's a job where you have to touch up and process the images.
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Should I suggest to my mom (53 years old) that she set up an online dating profile?
she separated a year ago after a nearly 20 year long marriage. Since then, she's been dating coworkers which I think sucks because they're bad looking appearance-wise and also just bad for her work environment (case in point when she broke up with one, she declined a promotion and change of shift/department which would've improved so much for her only because he would work there too). She's also been in an off-and-on relationship with my step-dad since they separated. I snapped a while ago and told her he was just using her and she took my advice and has put more distance. I guess I feel bad about that and should've stayed out of it but it just really angered me she would just let him continue to take advantage of her. She has recently started dating another coworker. I think she's doing it for validation, my step-dad eroded her self-esteem. Would it be a bad idea? I have no clue what online dating for people in their 50's is like but i think it'd be nice for her to have more men to choose from etc, and go on nice dates and so on. idk
I don't think you should but it seems like your mom has much bigger problems than dating she needs to address. I see this a lot with women; I don't wanna judge cuz I have my own issues, though it's like women with bad self-esteem issues often flipflop from one man to another and this is a self-eating process because it's more likely than not being with men will erode her self-esteem. Most women don't find a man that actually enriches her soul and life, even if the momentary hits of validation are addictive.
Also online dating is a hellpit at the moment and I wouldn't wish it upon her or any woman.
How old are you?
Thing is I think it's too late for her to learn to be fine by herself after a lifetime of emulating what she was taught. I know sounds awful and maybe I'm wrong but I want her to at least go out on dates with more handsome men, and hopefully creates a connection along the way with one of them.
I have regularly seen other women change, even in their twilight years…even if they were dating since they were 12 to 40, many end up finding that after months of deprioritizing men and chasing other interests they feel massive amounts of relief because what ailed them was feeling like they had to be a commodity perpetually in the rat race–which ironically puts them in an even worse place to be dating. It might not seem so, but as people, we adapt to our circumstances and we aren't as rigid as we seem.
Also I'm in my mid 20s and I've just seen hordes of women severely regret forcing men to be in their lives when they are falling apart.
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Should I document my journey of learning how to sew? Upload on youtube And shit? Like, how many sewers start a channel knowing very little? Idk just might be dumb enough to do it
ill make a cow dress one day, promise
BMI doesn't take into consideration muscle mass vs body fat percentage so it's not really a valid
tool to go off of kek
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Does anyone that sell on ebay struggle with getting engagement on there? I just started. On my other website I regularly get tons of likes, views, etc, even when I was first starting off. Most of my items have sold, but on ebay there's been 0 clicks for my many items. I know I shouldn't really care cuz I'm open to having the listings up for months though I find the lack of anything awkward.
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How do I make the photo mode work on the honmaru in the pirated Touken Ranbu Warriors I downloaded for my PC? I can't seem to find the controls that lets me use the photo mode, I keep poking Hasebe and making him freak out but I just want to take a picture of Mikazuki's feet.
It would be a better scam to say they you never got them. Even if the delivery guy takes a picture of them on your porch, Amazon is usually really forgiving about porch pirates.>>1467939
Noise cancelling headphones are going to be your best bet.
You stop your incision a couple millimeters above where the foreskin meets the shaft. The skin will heal enough that there won't be a noticable ridge.
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I can answer your second question, nonny
! But only partially. There's a couple of different methods to circumcision, but I'm only familiar with the plastibell method. It's essentially this:>Apply topical anesthetic >Use forceps to gently stretch foreskin away from head of the penis then skin is snipped>Foreskin is stretched over sterile plastic cup>Ring on plastic is secured with a string to stop blood flow>Plastic cup stays on for a few days until foreskin falls off naturally
Very oversimplified, but that's more or less it lol.
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Should I eat the other half of this bagel I bought for lunch or save it for tomorrow? It has tuna salad and a bunch of veg in it.
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Here you go nonnie
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oh my god!!! nonny
you are too generous!! we can share! i love you!!!
ok good, thank you>>1468026
i did not
Actually I'm mostly selling books and games.
For example, one of the books is extremely rare (200$~) and the other listings have several watchers even though they're a higher price, but my post has gotten 0 views in a week. I have a few rare games up that follow a similar trend…extremely high traffic for other postings, mine is invisible. I have all the descriptions up, etc.
I'll look more into SEO phrasing because seems like it'd help, though, I didn't know descriptions were that good for the algorithm. >>1467607
Isn't that a special service for serious businesses? I'm not quite there. I'll add more shipping options, though.
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What are some good places to hide stuff in your own house? See picrel and similar stuff. I know about using pockets on my clothes in my closet, but can't really think of much else.
How do I gain more confidence with wearing whatever I want? I bought some pink and white shoes recently but I feel like I look like an e-girl (don't want to) even though I really like them. I've been wearing the same outfits/colors for years so going out of my comfort zone feels kind of weird. Maybe I need to wear them to friends' houses first or just fucking get over myself kek.>>1468164
Depends on how big it is but if it fits into a DVD/CD case it's cool (unless you play them all the time kek). If you have childhood dolls left you can hide it in their heads. Also if you have multiple bags, put one you don't wear in your closet and bury it under some clothes.
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I tuck paper money into a clean sanitary pad, seal it back up and keep it with the rest of my period products. You could also buy a stash can like pic rel. There are a range of different products and brands which generally look convincing.
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In the discord Shaymin said more farmhands have been recruited, but if they have there's nothing to show for it. There's more retarded infights and baiting and newfags than ever especially in /w/, the grimes thread, unpopular opinions, and the anime thread. I don't think I've seen any redtexts in a good week and Shaymin's changed her discord name to shatmin and disappeared off the internet again. Nothing new has come from the discord in a while. After the failed update genuinely thought for a minute that Shaymin learned from her mistake of not communicating with her userbase but it's gone right back to the usual raids and cp and farmhands and admin forgetting the site exists.
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Anyone here heard of infinity hoops? How do they work? I don't get how they're supposed to help someone lose weight.
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she changed her name again several days ago. she now identifies as turtel#5526
it's just a hula hoop with training wheels
if you do it enough it'll burn calories like any aerobic exercise
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>>1468357>the ball creates resistance when you circle your hips. so your core muscles are pushed more.
…did you buy one?
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How did Wifi#9652 become the new lolcow point of contact on discord for farmhand applicants?
I don't use discord much and I'm sure they're active in other servers but all I can see if they made one post in the bunker discord and then a week later they were in charge