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No. 134915

Maybe it's just me, but I feel as though birth control is something that women don't talk enough about despite it being so complex and many people using it regularly. Let's post our comments/questions about birth control!

- contraception
- acne control
- PCOS management
- hormonal treatment
- ring vs. pill vs. non-hormonal
- side effects/benefits
- weight gain/loss
- etc.

No. 134916

I'll start off since I made the thread. I took Alesse for about three months because of acne and it messed up my digestion, I'm bloated all the time now. Anyone have similar experiences?

No. 134917

>>134916
I don't know about alesse, but I've been taking Spronix for about a year now and the first 4 months were hell. Constantly nauseous.

Since then my nausea has subsided, but I'm still left with emotions and libido that are in the toilet. (I'm suspecting that I may actually have some hormonal or depression that the pills are exacerbating, but I can't check on that until my insurance goes back into effect.) This is the price I pay for being a slut who loves doing it raw I guess.

On the plus side it cleared up the acne between my shoulder blades that I've been fighting with for 6+ years.

No. 134918

>>134917
Yeah, bc cleared up the acne on my back too (didn't really do anything on my face, though) and left me with no real sex drive either. It did help even out my mood and I was actually much happier on it though I hear a lot of women have the opposite like you did, I think I may have a hormone imbalance or something. The main thing I didn't like was the gut issues and the how it made my stomach all pudgy and flabby.

Do you think you'll keep on it even with the depression problems?

No. 134919

I've mainly been on hormonal birth controls since I was 17. I was on Lo-Ovro, Ortho Tri-Cyclen, and Seasonale. It may just be me, however, when I stuck to one type of pill for a long period of time it really fucked up my cycle and I ended up suffering from bad side effects. I was actually told by my GP to stop taking pills for a while because I was constantly bleeding for three months straight. When I did get back on I decided to try Nexplanon, which is a hormonal implant that goes in your arm. Fucking awesome so far. I didn't have a period for a year and a half. Then I started getting them again but they're fairly regular and easy to predict using a period app. I'll have to get it replaced next year but it's been great since I haven't had to remember to take birth control all the time and there have been no side effects.

No. 134920

>>134916

Oh my god I fucking hate Alesse. Every single one of my friends thats taken it hates it as well. I'm not sure if it's because its the first time something like that is introduced to our bodies (basically everyone i know starts with it) but it's shit. It made me so moody, I bled a lot, and I gained weight. I'm on Minavral now and I couldn't be happier.

No. 134921

Non hormonal IUD is life. My life is so much better since I've got my Mona Lisa.

Can't wait for men contraception, tho, the IUD give me really bad cramp when I'm menstruating.

No. 134922

>>134921
Tell us more about the IUD! I am considering getting one and I want a similar one (non hormonal). It it worth the risks?

>Can't wait for men contraception, tho, the IUD give me really bad cramp when I'm menstruating.

Lel, male contraception could totally be a thing if not for the fact that
a) Men have no interest in swalloing hormones and often think contraception is the woman's duty
b) Pharma industry has no interest in marketing something to them, it's easier to sell bullshit to women.
Also, ever heard of Risug? http://techcitement.com/culture/the-best-birth-control-in-the-world-is-for-men/#.UO4xgm93i3P
Can't wait until this shit is on the market.

Honestly I fucking hate the fact that women are expected to take all kinds of shitty hormones and shove stuff up their uteruses while men already often whine about having to wear condomes. The pill royally fucked my hormones, I still have acne all over my face and body, as well as scars. I tried several pills and hated them all. Never doing this shit again.

Tbh I wish my bf would just get a vasectomy. Easy, covered by insurance, reversible anytime he wants children, no hormones or shit involved. He could still go to a sperm bank to save some sperm before the procedure, to eliminate all risks.

No. 134923

I have the Mirena (hormonal IUD). It is a fucking miracle and has vastly improved my life. Before, the only other contraceptives I've used were the pill (Tricyclin-Lo), which really screwed up my moods (in a terrible mood all the time, cried all the time) and pretty much killed my sex drive.

With the IUD, period is totally GONE! I've only had one period the month after I got it implanted and it feels like heaven now. Sex drive is way up, too which is amazing. Boyfriend can't feel the strings when we have sex, I've heard some do, but mine says he doesn't.

I got it done in college last year and it was all covered by being a student and it all worked out perfectly, totally recommend checking it out if you're interested (cause seriously, best fucking thing I've ever done).

No. 134924

I have never taken any birth control and tbh I'm a bit nervous to. Plus I'm not even sexually active.

:/ I always feel sorted left out when I hear about this

No. 134925

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>>134922
I got a non hormonal IUD because hormonal contraception made me balloon up, gave me horrible headache and transformed me into a huge bitch, I was always angry and extremely tired.

My gynecologist was a crazy butcher bitch, she was supposed to putt my IUD during my period, but since I have very irregular period, it still haven't had them the day I was supposed to get it. My gynecologist decided to do it anyway, so she gave me a medication to dilate my uterus. This little pill made me shit like crazy, and put me in horrible pain, like menstrual cramp but far worse. She then put some sort of white plastic stick up my uterus, to test the deepness. And let me tell you, it hurted like a bitch, I wasn't dilated enough because I wasn't on my period and I've never had baby. At this point, I wanted to report the operation, and when I was about to get up, get dressed and leave, she stick the IUD up my uterus without saying a thing, I screamed, because of the pain AND of the surprise.

So yeah, it was a bad bad experience, please don't get involved with crazy gynecologist. On top of that, she acted like I was faking my pain ! Crazy cunt, now I only go to male gynecologist, they are a lot more delicate and I feel like they listen to me a lot more.

The first few days where nightmarish for me, I had really really bad cramps, constantly.
The pain left after maybe less then a week. Now I'm very confortable with my IUD and I don't regret getting it at all, quite the contrary. You need to know that you will probably have heavier periods and more cramps, simply because you have a foreign object in the middle of your uterus when it's contracting itself.

No. 134926

>>134925

Non hormonal IUDs make your periods heavier and last longer. Hormonal ones pretty much eliminate your period, just fyi if you didn't know/to anyone else that didn't know.

Sorry your experience was so shitty, glad you got a different one.

No. 134927

>>134926

Good that you got a new gyno, I mean!

No. 134928

>>134926
Yeah, you really can't get non hormonal IUD if you have very heavy period, it will ruin your life, I had very light period naturally and now I have normal to heavy period.

Also random brown blood from time to time.

No. 134929

>>134926
There is even non hormonal birth control??

I have a weird problem. My body cannot handle a lot of Estrogen. I already have problems when I'm on my period with my hormons….So when I was on birth control (tried several forms) I would vomit in the morning, get severe migraines, and even break out in hives sometimes. My doctor took me off of birth control and I don't think we ever talked about it again. She never told me that there was a hormone free option.

No. 134930

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i have gotten a birth control implant in my arm (idr the actual name) exactly a year ago
after hearing my friend rave about how it made her period really light i decided to try it
worst
decision
ever
its been a year now and i still have my period
every.single.day.
apparently the side effect of this little shit is that you might end up with a period for a whole fucking year
im getting rid of this little shit next month and i cant fucking wait to do things with my bf without the fucking blood ruining every moment
holy fuck i hate this piece of shit
i dont fucking know why i listened to my fucking GP and didnt take it out after 3months of non stop bleeding
FUCK THIS IMPLANT
/rant

No. 134931

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>>134929
It does exist.
Non hormonal IUD consist of a plastic core that is wrapped in a copper. Copper is a natural spermicide.

This device is the most effective non hormonal contraceptive device, the failure rate is less than 1 % (0,6 - 0,8 % )

No. 134932

>>134930
Omg this sounds like my worst nightmare…
I couldn't even imagine. There's no way this can possibly happen. I'm going to have to research this shit.

No. 134933

Has anyone here used BC to just get their period to not happen at all? I've talked to some doctors about going on BC just to not have periods because they make me feel pretty ill and interfere with my work but all of them have said "No you can't do that" with further explanations which i'm not gonna get into.

No. 134934

Personally, I haven't had a problem with my BC. I've been taking Alesse 28 for a year and the only side effects I've noticed are clearer skin and lighter periods. Feels good man.

No. 134935

I've tried three in total. All gave me obnoxious migraines that throbbed continuously no matter how many painkillers I took
and my period lasted two months (and I'm a heavy bleeder, so I went anaemic).
Never again.

No. 134936

I tried the pills (forgot which exactly) and they completely changed my personality for the worse even after I stopped taking them. I swear it's some illuminati mind control shit

No. 134937

>>134933

Well, not completely, but I was on a pill plan that resulted in me having 4 periods a year. That was better than nothing. My doctor recommended it after she diagnosed me with PMDD.

I don't think I have PMDD and I went back to monthly periods. I'm trying to convince myself to go in and ask for a different kind of BC because, after 5 years of taking pills, I can't remember to take them on time anymore. I also have zero sex drive and have developed tons of skin problems since starting. So done with this bullshit. I'd like to try non hormonal but I'm scared.

No. 134938

>>134937

I didn't explain well, but I mean I don't think I have PMDD anymore. Being on that plan for a year somehow eliminated my PMDD (if I ever actually had it), so I switched back to monthly.

No. 134939

I'm in my 20's, never been on birth control.
I can't swallow pills well, and not comfortable with IUD as a first time option.

Any opinions on the patch?

No. 134940

I'm 20 and been on Yaz for almost two years now. I love it. It cleared up my skin and I haven't gained any noticeable weight. My boobs are slightly bigger and that's it. I also like that I can control when I have my periods. Only fear I have is developing an embolism but even that isn't very likely.

No. 134941

>>134939
Patch isn't too bad. My friend had it for like 5 years. You just have to remember to change it thats all. It is a little restricting with wearing clothes (like if its on your arm and you wear a short sleeve people will see it), but if you don't care for that I say go for it.

No. 134942

>>134940
I can vouch for Yaz too. I started it three months ago and I haven't noticed any side effects other than being a little more emotional? But I'm hoping that goes away after awhile.

I do wonder, have you had a period since starting Yaz? I had spotting my first month but I'm on my fourth month and I haven't had any bleeding. To be fair, I'm a fairly light on the period side but even with the 7 day rest I'm not getting any blood just cramps.

No. 134943

How normal is belly button pain with cysts?

No. 134944

>>134942
The first couple of months on Yaz weren't that great but not horrible either. I didn't notice myself getting any more emotional, if anything my emotions are more stable on the pill. I've also had my period whenever I've wanted to have it. At most I've kept a three month break. Maybe you should wait it out or change to a different pill?

No. 134945

I've been on Depo for almost 5 years now. Turning 23 next month & I haven't had a period since I was ~19, shit is so cash.

Of all the common side effects all I got was a 3-month long headache (that, tbh could have just been the fault of my pussy boyfriend at the time) and low of spotting for about 5 months before my periods stopped completely.

I had two friends who tried Depo, one gained nearly 50 pounds and became extremely depressed and had to stop, the other didn't have any of the side effects but developed a fear of needles out of fucking nowhere after her first 2 doses and stopped. Depo is extremely YMMV.

>inb4 "Depo makes u fat"


No, it makes you feel more hungry. All you need to avoid ballooning up is some self control and maybe some appetite suppressants.

No. 134946

I'm on micronor at the moment I've been on it for nearly half a year I think, I really can't decide if it's any good. Has anyone else been on this pill?
I'm having a problem at the moment but I can't tell if it's because of the pill or something else, but I had my period for a week or so and it finished everything was clear and then the day after it starts again. This isn't the first time this has happened on this pill, if you forget to take it you have 3 hours until it's too late and then you have a period because of it then you also have your regular period and it's just hell. But this time I haven't forgotten to take it so I'm just confused/concerned, going to the doctors soon anyway but I wanted some suggestions for pills before I go.

My family has a history of breast cancer and there are pills I can't have because of this, I found out micronor is one of those and I'm really annoyed my doctor failed to mention that.

No. 134947

>>134945

I actually lost weight on depo. 8lbs.

No. 134948

>>134946
Does your family have the BRCA gene? I don't know about that one specifically, but in general, a family history of breast cancer should not be a contraindication for oral contraceptive pills. Any hormonal-based pill you take will slightly increase your risk of breast cancer (esp as you get older) so if you have a genetic history your overall risk is higher. Actually it's not just pills, I just looked it up and the Depo shot says the same thing about increasing breast cancer risk. The risk level goes back to normal after ten years with no hormonal contraceptives.

I guess if you're really worried about breast cancer risk, you may want to think about other forms of contraception? (Like a copper IUD). This is of course assuming you're taking the pill for pregnancy prevention and not for regulation of your periods.

No. 134949

>>134933
I do. Doctor didn't say anything.. And I don't see why not?

No. 134950

Depo is nice, I've tried it and the nuvaring and both are good but Depo gets more points for how simple it is. It made my eyelashes grow but also made my hair super oily so eh. It stopped my period after the second injection and my spotting stopped after the 3rd.
Though, I always have painful cramps about 3 weeks before my shot runs out, and I feel like it stops working after a year for me. I'm not sure if it's because I've got cysts or if my body just doesn't accept BC well.

No. 134951

>>134933
I haven't had my period for years. I just take a low-dose pill every day. My periods on the pill were still fucking agony, had to change a super-absorbent tampon together with overnight pad like every hour. Very rarely I get a little light bleeding for a day or two but nothing a panty liner can't handle. Doc didn't have any problem with it

No. 134952

>>134915
best birth control: don't have sex

No. 134953


No. 134954

>>134952
Didn't work. Some guy with wings told me I was pregnant despite my everlasting virginity.

No. 134955

>>134952
not everyone is on birth control to avoid pregnancy, it also can control acne and make periods regular for those have have irregular ones

No. 134956

Is it OK to ask about condoms here? I've never had sex (of any kind) and there's a chance I'll be having it soon and pregnancy is one of my major fears (also don't want STIs)
Anyone have experience with female condoms (the kind that go into the vagina)? How did you like it? What about regular condoms? How do I even choose one?

No. 134957

>>134956
Condoms don't feel great and that's pretty much the reason why people forego using them. Obviously if you aren't on bc and are having sex with a new partner, you should use a condom, but don't expect it to feel amazing for your first time. it's going to feel like a big glove is inside you.

Condoms are condoms, in my experience. I've never really felt that much of a difference between your run of the mill freebies from PP and the fancy ribbed for her pleasure ones. It's better to let the guy pick the one that fits him best, because you don't want to get one that's like a trash bag on him, or too tight that it will break, because then it'll be a waste and you won't be protected anyway. I've never tried a female condom so I have no experience there.

No. 134958

>>134957
Don't care that they don't feel great, rather not get a urinary tract infection or something

No. 134959

>>134958
UTIs come from not cleaning yourself properly down there after the fact (or at all, you can get a UTI without ever having sex). General rule of thumb is to pee after intercourse to flush out any bacteria that may have gotten pushed in.

But a condom will protect you from any other STI of course.

No. 134960

I recently got the implant fitted, all seems to be going well so far, anyone got any experience with them?

No. 134961

>>134960
I had the Nexplanon implant inserted earlier this year… I'd been on a hormonal birth control pill called Sprintec for years and years beforehand, and I've never had problems with either.

I've had it for months now and haven't gained any weight, I haven't felt any changes in my emotional state, I bled one time, about a month after the insertion, and it was lighter than my normal period, just lasted a little longer. I think that as long as you remember to keep tampons/pads with you all the time just in case, that it's probably the best birth control method out there.

I hope it works as well for you as it has for me!

No. 134962

>>134961
Thank you! There's such a varied opinion on it, but I didn't have much choice with it being one of the few contraceptives that can be taken with epilepsy medication! Good to hear about the weight gain not being a problem that was a bit of a worry!

No. 134963

>>134960
I replied in this thread before about my implant experience
ive had nexplanon for a year and a little now and i STILL have my period every day
it made me hate myself and i cry a couple of times a week because of it
my doctor gave me something to stop it and it didnt work
i want it out

No. 134964

>>134963
May I ask why you haven't had it removed?

No. 134965

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>>134964
bf is paranoid i will get pregnant so he asked me to go to the doctor so they can give me some pills again to stop the fucking bleeding
im giving it another 3 months and then im def getting it out

No. 134966

>>134965
you're the reason why shit like >>134922 is still a thing.

No. 134967

>>134965
Oh, I see.. Please don't sacrifice your health for him, though! If you're so miserable, just refrain from sex for a little bit and get your body back to its normal state. Seriously; this man is your partner, a little while without the kind of sex the two of you are used to shouldn't be an ordeal, especially not one that comes at the expense of your well-being. If he isn't understanding of that you have a larger problem. Three months is way too long to keep yourself suffering through that. Again, I'm so sorry you're going through this.. that was my nightmare situation when having the implant put in. Maybe there are some dietary/ lifestyle changes you could look into that may possibly lighten the bleeding for a bit until you can get it out?

No. 134968

General help with PCOS: Ketosis diet which is usually just a fancy way of saying low glycemic index food. Next to no sugar even as fruit, no breads, just meat and veggies pretty much. Testing for insulin resistance, thyroid conditions and a whole bunch of ultrasounds/pap smears. Taking the bull by the horns has stopped my creeping weight gain and a bunch of other shitty side effects.

No. 134969

>>134915
i heard that theres birth control tjhat can help with skin and make your butt and boobs bigger? what is it called?

No. 134970

>>134969
There isn't any magical pill that will enhance all the assets you'd like enhanced, I don't mean for that to come off aggressively but it's important to get out of the way.

However, a lot of different birth control pills can help a lot with breakouts because of the way they regulate your hormones. But note that this all depends on your body, it could make you break out ten times worse. There is just no way to tell you how you're going to react to a certain type of birth control.

As far as making your breasts and butt larger, I'd imagine that mostly comes from the fact that a lot of birth control options typically cause weight gain. Maybe some hormonal birth control can cause breast swelling if some other farmers can weigh in on that? I've been on two types of BC and my breasts (B cups) haven't fluctuated much in 8+ years of use.

If you're looking to get on BC to try to regulate skin conditions I'd recommend talking to your OBGYN and maybe a dermatologist.

No. 134971

I have been on every fuckening bc pill out there (well, like, four or five.) The first one, Low Ogestrel, was amazing– cleared up my skin, gave me huge tits without any other weight gain, regulated and shortened my period etc. They discontinued the version I took and switched me to another generic version of the same pill which somehow came with horrifying side effects even though it was supposedly the same thing. I've switched pills more than twice since and every new pill has come with a different issue. Chronic menstruation, horrifying cystic acne, etc… I just can't do the IUDs or arm implant things. Call me an old fashioned pussy but it's to sci fi and it skeeves the fuck out of me.

No. 134972

I heard birth control can make hair grow if you grind it up and put it in your shampoo. any proof to this or is it all just bullshit?

No. 134973

I just took plan B. What should I expect in terms of side effects? I've read the instructions of course, but I'm curious about past individual experiences. Dunno how important this information is but I'm underweight and not very sexually active.

No. 134974

>>134973
The side effect should be on the box. The one time I had to take it I felt really sick, and I'm slightly overweight, but its different for everybody.

>Plan B One-Step Overview - Patient Information: Side Effects. SIDE EFFECTS: Nausea/vomiting, abdominal pain, tiredness, dizziness, changes in vaginal bleeding, breast tenderness, diarrhea, or headache may occur. If any of these effects persist or worsen, tell your doctor or pharmacist promptly

No. 134975

>>134972
If that were true, I'm not sure what the disadvantages of taking it orally vs grinding it up and applying topically would be. There are plenty of products on the market for hair growth though that don't require you going to the OB and getting a prescription etc, frankly. I think a lot of people just expect their hair to grow like 2 inches a month which would be a highly unusual expectation. Just keep your hair healthy and trimmed, take biotin or something, use nice products on your hair and don't apply too much damage to it and it should grow a bit.

No. 134976

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>going to lose virginity to LDR bf
>start Trinessa
>constant thin discharge but i ignore it
>fly over to see him, both of us are super hyped after a year of talking daily
>it's so painful
>like hitting a brick wall
>he couldn't get past the tip and i broke down crying into his chest

5 months later and I keep cycling through BV and yeast infections. I can't use a tampon if I wanted to because the tissue is so damaged from all the discharge. Farmers if you notice something wrong with your BC change it RIGHT away please don't wait so long like I did

No. 134977

>>134933
You can absolutely do that, I'm going in for an IUS next week but I've been on the pill for about 4 years and you can just take them continuously to avoid periods. The only reason the "week off" is advised is because some women prefer to have periods (believe it or not).

No. 134978

>>134976

Anon that doesn't sound like it was caused by BC at all. What you're describing is classic signs of vaginismus.

No. 134979

Been on the contraceptive implant (the one that goes in your arm?) for about 5-6 months, first few months were absolutely fine, I'm prone to heavy periods and they lightened up, wasn't getting them every month. This past month and a half have been absolutely hell though, I've been bleeding brown (I'm guessing it's old) blood for about two months in quite heavy quantities and dealing with cramps, I said to my doctor and he suggested it could be an ectopic pregnancy, that I should go home and take a test, call him back as soon as I know the results as I would need a scan either way. This was about 3 weeks ago and I still haven't received a referral for a scan. No idea if this is down to the implant or if I've got some blood stuck up somewhere in my hooha.

It sucks because so many people recommend it and I was absolutely fine the first few months, I just can't tell if this problem is implant related or not.

No. 134980

Is it normal when switching birth control to have a light period that last longer than usual a week before the sugar pills? It was my period week before I switched then on the reminders I spotted like, twice.

No. 134981

>>134976
I was on that and got the same shit. My vag walls are tender and weird and its painful as hell. I was tested for stds because the examination made me scream and my discharge was/is dark.

No. 134982

>>134980
Why don't you try a dermal implant?

No. 134983

>>134980

tbh from my experiences with different variations of the contraceptive pill your period going fucking nuts when starting/switching/coming off is completely normal. I wouldn't worry about it, I've had the weirdest shit happen to my cycle over the years, I wouldn't be surprised if next time I tampered with them I ended up rebirthing David Bowie.

No. 134984

I take micronor every day to not get a period. I would live through 10 days of hell every month. It has no estrogen in it. And I'm sick of fucking idiot women telling me they couldn't do it because they'd feel bad about being "backed up" or not being "cleaned out". Ladies. Learn how your bodies work. No egg, nothing happens. Even women with children say this to me. It's perfectly fine. You don't NEED to menstruate. I have no problems with taking control of my own body but apparently some are offended by it.

No. 134985

Anyone here use female condoms? How's you like it? They're more expensive than male condoms and harder to find (usually have to buy them online) but I'm paranoid and it seems they protect more since it stops nearly all skin to skin contact and are less likely to tear

No. 134986

Any recommendations for birth control to reduce heavy periods and improve mood? I bleed heavily for the first 2 days of my period and get pretty depressed during that time which makes it pretty hard to function normally.

No. 134987

>>134986
The mini pill. I'm the anon that posted about taking it to not get a period. It's fabulous.

No. 134988

>>134984
Actually because there is hormonal stuff related to your period, it makes sense for people to feel like they 'need' it. Medication will only stop the actual egg part, not the rest of the process including stuff like if you are hormonal near your period or if your boobs hurt, etc. No amount of medication will override your body's natural process even if we can control one tiny part of it.

The other thing is what you are on is more strict because it has no estrogen. More likely to fuck up then.

No. 134989

I have an IUS. Best choice EVER! I had an Implanon before that, so I took it out as I got my IUS. Holy shit I almost passed out from the pain. I got dizzy and felt like I was going to puke. Totally worth it though!

No. 134990

>>134988
It has stopped those things, though. No boobs hurt, no PMS (I used to get paranoid and angry) and no bleeding. I'll just end up with a partial hysterectomy.

No. 134991

>>134986
I know this is a little old… But I also bleed like hell during the first two days and I have an IUD. Have you tried taking high dose iron during that time? It helps me a lot to not feel extremely knocked out.

No. 134992

Copper IUD anons, is it worth getting if I'm not sexually active? (may be in the near future but that's not my primary reason for considering birth control) It's not hormonal so it won't make my breasts grow or anything, right?
My periods are really bad. I often throw up from the pain and the bleeding is bad enough I need to empty my menstrual cup every hour on the first two days. I'm a little squeamish about the idea of something being pushed through my cervix but if it'll make my periods more tolerable I can deal with it.

No. 134993

has anyone taken the morning after pill? what was your experience with it?

No. 134994

Are there any BC options without weight gain or appetite increase?
I'd like to start something for awful pms and contraception but anything that influences weight or appetite is completely out of the question.

No. 134995

>>134993
Felt really nauseated for a few hours, that was it.

No. 134996

>>134994
I had one of those plasters on my arm without any side effects, but it was almost 10 years

No. 134997

Has anyone here had an abortion? What's it like afterwards? I'm not pregnant but I just want to know what to expect if I do have to do it

No. 134998

>>134993
They made me trip balls, i was hallucinating and halfway sleeping at the same time, i was sure that a jet plane was in the room, my boyfriend at the time was a little scared

No. 134999

>>134993
I felt no side-effects, other than the shame of having to go buy one in the first place. No nausea, nothing.

No. 135000

>>134997
if you do it with the pill, you will cramp and bleed a lot afterwards. You can't use tampons until your doctor says it's OK. You get a follow-up ultrasound about 3-4 weeks afterwards to make sure everything worked.

I bled for about two weeks afterwards. But it was still better than the alternative.

The pain was not incredibly intense for me but I have very painful periods to begin with.

No. 135001

>>134992
Copper IUD will not help with painful periods, I'm afraid. The copper one may make them heavier or more painful. Mirena (hormonal IUD) can help with heavy/painful periods, supposedly.

No. 135002

>>135001

I have an IUD called Gynefix since half year now. While my period is heavier in case of bleeding, my cramps completely disappeared. My period comes like a surprise haha.
But I had some problems after insertion which are not the norm (got a pelvic inflammation. ) After that was cured everything is normal and I mostly don't even notice it's there.

No. 135003

I just started Depo. Couldn't do the pill because my medication that I already take would weaken the effects. Not a fan of needles myself, but I dunno how effective the patches are, the nuvaring didn't appeal to me, and I was iffy on the implant (the one that goes in your upper arm).

No. 135004

I'm back on birth control (alysena) for the first time in about 3 years, and I've been on it for 2 months now. I had some acne on my face that has started to clear up, but I've started getting acne on my back and shoulders. I've never had acne in either places before!
Has anyone else experienced this? Does it eventually go away? I'm so pissed.

No. 135005

So IUDs have that string that sticks out of your cervix right? What if the string gets pushed into the uterus? How can the IUD be removed later?

No. 135006

File: 1455481711570.jpg (62.49 KB, 480x480, 14774544[1].jpg)

I don't use birth control any more due to it fucking up my cycles really bad, but anyone here use spermicides like pic related for sex?

No. 135007

>>135006
I tried the sponge once, o n c e. It came in a two or three pack and after strictly using condoms forever with this guy we wanted to try something new. So complicated and not convenient to put in because you have to wet this donut shaped makeup sponge (complete with elastic strap on the back) until its foamy. After a drippy and careful insertion you're ready to go. Apparently one of the benefits is you can put it in before~ you go out, literally no idea why you'd want this inside you that long though. I really hated the fact that you had to let it hang out inside of you after sex for a set amount of time. You have this totally weird thing inside you, covered in spermicide which is probably awful to keep inside of you covered in both your juices. All I could think about was how I was going to probably get an infection.

No infection but everything definitely felt weird up there for a couple of days. Boyfriend kept begging me to use the other two but I swore I'd never deal with that again. I did give one to a friend in a crunch.

No. 135008

>>135005
I use an IUD-type contraceptive, the string sticks out lower or farther depending on where I am in my cycle (so it moves with the cervix). I think if it disappeared in the uterus and didn't come back out, the doctor would still manage to grab it at the removal (open the cervix and pry it out so to speak). Some women have the string cut completely because it bothers them

No. 135009

I've tried the pill and the patch, both fucked with my emotions while I was taking them so now I'm scared to take anything hormonal.

>>135007
that sounds awful, thanks for sharing

>tfw stuck forever with condoms.

No. 135010

Bumping with this:
Getting married in a few months.
Period will fall exactly on the date.

I'm on the pill. Can I piggyback one month with minor consequences?

No. 135011

>>135009
There is a newer type of diaphragm you can look into, its called 'Caya'. Older types of diaphragm and cervical cap are still effective and used to be the birth control standard.
Whatever you use you can use with newer types of spermicide like Contragel that don't use nonoxynol-9 (which is irritating). Withdrawal gets a bad rap but paired with a diaphragm/spermicide you should be fine. You can also modify sex, finishing via oral/anal is an option.

There is Saheli (Ormeloxifene), a non-hormonal BC pill that is commonly prescribed in India but I don't know much about acquiring it outside of there.

Lastly there is Paraguard, AKA copper IUD.

No. 135012

>>135010
What are you asking? I take the pill every day to prevent my period. If I forget one day, I might bleed a little. What do you normally do around the period week dates?

No. 135013

>>135010
Yes.
Just start another pack immediately after. It won't cause trouble as long as you go back to the regular cycle afterwards. Well, aside from changing your period date onward.

There are some women who take hormones non-stop without ever taking that 7 day break, but it's not generally advised. Maintaining the 3 week-1 week ratio makes it easier to get off the pill hassle-free and has the benefit of regulating your natural cycle long-term.

No. 135014

>>135010
You should be fine. I've done this twice (I had periods fall on my birthday and my anniversary and I just wasn't going to have that), and as long as you go back and let yourself have your period as soon as you can you'll be fine.

No. 135015

>>135014
>>135013
>>135010
What is the "consequences" you guys are talking about?

I took continuous birth control for 5 years and recently stopped and my period is back. It is extremely short and light and is on schedule with no spotting which is awesome.

Am I infertile now?

No. 135016

>>135015
Eh, most likely you're fine.

Regular periods help your vagina remain healthy and bigger doses of hormones can cause problems with endometrium - but modern pills aren't really strong enough to do that.

It's more about inconvenience, like spotting, irregular cycle and lengthened time of recovery from side effects. 5 years isn't that long really.

No. 135017

I'm currently on BC pills that give me a period once every three months. I've been on them for about a year and for the past two packs of BC I'll just start spotting every single day about halfway (a month and a half) into the pills and it will continue until I take the placebo ones that make me have my period. I told my gyno and she didn't really have anything to say about it, she just congratulated me for continuing to take them even when I noticed a problem (yeah, I don't get it either).

Does anyone know what's happening with this or how I can fix it? I either have to wear liners all day every day for over a month or I'll ruin my underwear and it's really starting to bother me.

No. 135018

My birth control kills my libido and I am usually only sexual for like a week on the reminder pills

No. 135019

>>135017
It isnt a problem, its a side effect of your bc. Spotting is a common one for the type you are on, because your body doesnt like that you are forcing yourself to have less periods. This also can happen if you take normal bc and skip your period to the next pack. There is no fix besides having your period more often like your body wants.

Also the same advice for >>135010, you can skip your period but you may get spotting.

>>135015
Depending on the type of bc you are on it is normal, as it seems like the ones you get put into you for x years take a few months to get back to normal. Also it depends on he you had your period without meds, if it has been a long time your natural cycle may have changed without you knowing. Having light periods are not a sign of infertility.

No. 135020

Anyone got experience with the copper coil? I've heard some horror stories about insertion, any side effects? I'm getting the contraceptive implant out after three months, nightmare!

No. 135021

>>135017

Which BC you on?
I'm on Cerazette and had the same problem. Spoke to a gyno about it, she said the spotting is a common problem that is typically fixed by taking a double dose of your BC. After a while the spotting should stop and you can resume taking just 1 a day as usual. It's not harmful and for me it actually worked.

No. 135022

My mom is super against any type birth control except for things like barrier methods/spermicide. Not for religious reasons or anything, she keeps telling me that if I go on birth control that I'll get cancer and die or have a stroke. But my periods are so awful. I'm at college now far away from her and I'm thinking about going to the local Planned Parenthood and getting a quote on various methods and just do it if I can afford it without telling her. I just don't know what method to choose. I'm 18, not sexually active, and probably won't be for a long time. Thinking about the implant but after reading that horror story abput the nonstop period further up the thread I'm scared. And I'm terrified of weight gain…

No. 135023

>>135022
I'd try the pill first. It's the least intensive and easiest to reverse if you end up not liking it. I've been on it for years and never had problems with my weight.

No. 135024

>>135022
A lot of people only gain MAYBE 5lbs from the BC they are on. I think really it just gives you false hunger (like you'd get cravings on your period) from the hormones so people mindlessly eat to fulfill those cravings. As long as you have a healthy lifestyle you'll be okay. PP can help you go over the options and side effects of all the hormone combos out there and help you get one that fits your needs.

No. 135025

>>135024
Chiming in to say that some BC can make you retain more water and thus gain a pound or two of water weight but it won't be noticeable to anyone but you

No. 135026

>>135023
To be honest, I would never recommend the pill as the least harmful. Anon should do more research on BC overall, ask her gynecologist. There are so much more than the pill.

No. 135027

>>135026
Never said it's the least harmful, just that it's the easiest to go off of if you start having problems or dislike it.

An IUD cannot be easily taken out, the depo shots last for months at a time, and the implant is also not supposed to be messed with once inserted. With BC pills it's just a matter of being taken off them at a safe rate which is a lot easier than fixing any of the rest of those.

They aren't for everyone they're just the easiest thing to try first.

No. 135028

>>135027
I think the pill and nuvaring are easier to get on and off of, especially since the nuvaring is meant to be taken out after 21 days. You can just not insert another one.

No. 135029

I had the implant for a year and I bled for pretty much every day of it. When I went to go get it taken out, the doctor said that the implant is popular but also a lot of people end up getting it removed because of excessive bleeding.

I now get the depo injection and it has changed my life. No bleeding! Luvs it

No. 135030

I just found out I qualify for free long-term BC (the implant, IUD etc.) Should I do it? Which one is best? What are some negative side effects of each?

No. 135031

My period just started like an hour ago and the pain is bad enough that I wanna kms
Time to seriously look into birth control

No. 135032

>>135031
You really should, anon. I used to get cramps so bad that I nearly passed out in school, the pill changed my life and I barely get cramps anymore.

No. 135033

I got my IUD a year ago, and I've been having little sex since then. But I have a consistent partner now who's told me he can feel the string, and it turns out my doctor cut it too short. I'm going to get it replaced or something today, I'm not looking forward to it. It really hurt putting it in.

No. 135034

>>135032
Is the pill the safest (that will help my period)? I'm sexually active now but that's not my main reason for considering birth control

No. 135035

Had the copper coil today, the procedure is nothing like what you read about online, a couple of groans and it was done, just wanted to let people know!

No. 135036

>>135033
I have the Skyla IUD. I just recently got it replaced after three years.
The pain almost made me pass out. They are pressing on your cervix, and pinching it, and they hit your bowels too. The most invasive, uncomfortable horrible pain I could think of that not's getting fucked with a rusty iron or s/t

but hey no kids and no/light periods, so worth it

No. 135037

Got the pill recently. I have roughly a week until my period. Can I force start it tonight or should I wait until next period? I'm not sexually active so that's no problem. Also, what's the best time you find to take it?

No. 135038

I have had an implant for a year now and I'm pretty happy about it.
Downside is that my period is pretty random, but it's always very light (but it's that disguting brown old blood). I pretty much free flow it when I'm at home and am happy to not endure the irritation caused by tampons.
The fact that there is no way to forget it and make an oopsie is also very liberating.

No. 135039

I just wanna recommend Gynefix to everyone that has it available near them. It's non hormonal, a great option even for those who haven't given birth and less side effects than the regular copper IUD, plus it lasts five years.

No. 135040

>>135039
I definitely agree. Best decision I ever made when I was looking into hormone free birth control after quitting that shitty pill

No. 135041

>>135040
Idk where you live but gynecologists in my country (Germany) are so irresponsible about the BC info they provide… many blindly push the pill, it's disgusting.
Two women close to me who have suffered from migraines with auras almost all their lives were given the BC pill for years despite the pill not being suitable for people with migraines especially with auras, due to the blood clot risk! As a young adult you constantly have to justify to many gynecologists why you went hormone free. I'm so glad I made this choice though and will definitely get another one in 3.5 years.

No. 135042

is there a specific time to take the pill? like if i get birth control, can i start taking it the same day? do i have to follow my cycle or some shit?

No. 135043

>>135042
Different pills have different rules, you just follow the instructions given in the packaging by the doctor. All pills are best taken at the same time each day but some of them have a "safe" period of up to 3 hours or even 12. Each pill has a rule for when you start it, but most you take after the first day of your period and for a whole day until you are protected.
Don't take your bc advice from Chinese picture boards when your doctor or the packaging has already told you what to do first.

>>135037
Again, just wait and take it as the instructions or your doctor advised. If you're not sexually active then I really don't know why you were trying to force start it.
If you have you be up at a certain time every day then take it in the morning, if you are a neet then the same time is every night with an alarm but it's different for everyone and can take some practice.

No. 135044

I'm assuming if it's good for those who haven't had a baby, that it would also work fine for women who have? My kid is 9 months now and I need something… He's still breastfeeding so non-hormonal would be best.

No. 135045

>>135044
I'm assuming you're talking about Gynefix. It works for women who have given birth as well!

No. 135046

>>135044
I'm assuming you're talking about Gynefix. It works for women who have given birth as well!

No. 135047

>>135044
I'm assuming you're talking about Gynefix. It works for women who have given birth as well!

No. 135048

>>135041
I was taking the pill for 7 years and I'm also from Germany but got mine from the dermatologist due to my skin problems who weren't really problems but you know… As a teenager with pimples it's no fun.
I got more and more side effects until I couldn't stand myself anymore. I quit and everything got well. My gun where I got the gynefix asked me shortly why I don't use the pill and never brought up that topic again. I know that many push you to take it or try other brands if you are not doing well on the other one. They have contracts with the pharmacies and it's a real pain in the ass. I feel sorry for young girls tbh

No. 135049

>>135048
Gyn not gun….

No. 135050

>>135048
>>135041
I live in Canada and was given 2 months worth of birth control to try and control my acne by a walk-in clinic doctor (wasn't working, had no insurance to buy prescriptions). I thought it was odd that someone who knew nothing about my medical history would just dole out some BC like that, but took them anyway because I was desperate. Luckily nothing serious happened, but it did mess up my digestion pretty badly and it's only now getting back to normal after more than a year. Even after just this, I would be very hesitant to try any hormonal treatments again knowing how lasting the effects can be.

No. 135051

>>135050
Not to mention, the effects on my acne were negligible.

No. 135052

I had to take Plan B yesterday. My periods are already very painful and heavy so I'm scared about them getting further messed up and hormonal birth control isn't an option for me because of bone mass issues (and the copper one would just make my periods unbearable).
I might have to take it again next week. Is my cycle going to be totally fucked?

No. 135053

I wish I could go on birth control because my periods are unbearable and I usually vomit, but due to other health issues I can't because it would be too dangerous for me.

No. 135054

Does birth control make you gain weight as much as people say it does? I've been thinking of getting some to help with excrutiatingly painful periods but I don't want to gain loads of weight.

No. 135055

>>135054
I've been through a few different pills, and no significat weight gain. I'm 118, and maybe fluctuate 5lbs through out the day. No worries.

No. 135056

I've been taking the progesterone only pill for two months now but I can't send to take it the same time all the time and so I'm just bleeding all over the place and I don't know if it's relating but I keep crying hysterically for little reason.
I miss the normal pill, I never had any problems with it.

>>135054
It doesn' make you gain weight as such, but just increases you appetite (which is why people often gain weight) and tends to increase your boobs. Everyone responds differently and there are so many variations of the pill, you need to just try it for yourself.

No. 135057

I'm so sick of periods and birth controll. I used to have severely painful periods, i'd throw up, cold sweats, felt pain like i was going to birth birth. I got put on birth control, which stopped the severity, but i ended up having heavy periods that lasted on average a week and a half to 2 weeks. At one point i bled for 18 days straight. I switched over to a lower hormone pill this month, missed a day, and my period started. I've been bleeding 15 days now. Kill me.
What's the longest period you've ever had?

No. 135058

>>135057

Have you talked to your doctor about taking bc continuously to just stop having your period? I'm doing that right.

I used to hear things like women need their period to regulate their hormones or whatever but lately I've been seeing a lot of things saying like you don't need to have it if you don't want kids. And that having a period every month is a modern woman thing, our ancestors or whatever used to only get a period every 3 months.

No. 135059

>>135058
That's true. If you're on hormonal birth control, you're never having an actual period anyway (otherwise you could get pregnant). The sugar pills just let you have breakthrough bleeding, the same kind you can get randomly while not actively menstruating.

I think a lot of people believe periods = healthy, because amenorrhea can be indicative of a shit ton of medical issues. But periods don't protect you from anything in and of themselves. That's pretty much the reason hormonal birth control is relatively safe (at least as far as medications go).

No. 135060

I'm 6 month post pill
My face is so oily and i have to wash my hair every second day.
Horrible

No. 135061

>>135057
Whoa man. I feel so sorry for you! I didn't realise periods could actually be that bad.

I guess I really lucked out. I got mine really really late at 16 and now I get semi heavy bleeding and a little bloating for one day, then light for another and then it's over. I'm not sure if that means I've got low fertility or what?

No. 135062

I just picked up my prescription today. I'm so nervous and I keep clenching I guess so I can't insert it. Do y'all think I could use coconut oil or something as lube? I'm such a little bitch about these kinda things, it took days for me to put in contacts for the first time.

No. 135063

>>135057
this might be a long shot and not everyone believes in this but try reducing your intake of soy.
i'm not just talking about soy milk or tofu but soy/soy protein is a hidden ingredient in many many foods
when i stopped eating soy i stopped having as many bad period symptoms

No. 135064

>>135062
Prescription for what? Also don't put coconut oil in your vagina

No. 135065

>>135062
>>135064

Agreed. Don't put coconut oil in your vagina. It's safer to use a water based lubricant.

No. 135066

>>135065
I've been hearing everywhere lately that coconut oil makes a good lubricant for sex. Why is it bad?

No. 135067


No. 135068

>>135052
Well my period is here. Three weeks too early. Is this supposed to happen?

No. 135069

>>135068
happened to me too, started like 2 weeks too early the next day i had taken it

No. 135070

Are there any anons here who have had a good experience with the implant? It seemed like the most convenient thing and I was gonna set up my insertion appointment tomorrow but after reading this thread, I'm having doubts
The brand I'm getting is jadelle, if there's anyone who's had that specific implant

No. 135071

>>135070
Have you taken BC pills before? If so, you'll be fine. The worst thing that can happen is you bleed nonstop for 6 to 9 months, but that's rare.

I was reacting terribly to BC pills before I got mine. My OBGYN put me on the implant saying the estrogen was the problem and I'd be fine on progesterone…but didn't test it with progesterone pills before doing a semi-permanent implant. Was horrible. Nonstop bleeding, so tender I couldn't sit down.

So if you've never used any hormonal methods, try a pill first, make sure you can handle it.

No. 135072

Would BC help my period or make it worse? To explain: I have really, really irregular periods. I thought it would sort itself out once I had my kid, but it's didn't. Mostly I just don't have a period. It's really random when I do. I could go 3 months without one, then have it back to back on schedule for 2 months, then go without for another 2 months. It's just weird. I'm never able to really predict when I'll have a period. I'm having them more often now compared to when I was younger (got it at 13, had maybe 1 or 2 a year until I was 16-17.)
The only birth control I've ever been on before was the Depo shot and I fucking hated it.

No. 135073

>>135072
Oh, wait, no, I had the Nuva Ring for a bit too and I liked it (even though it wasn't really sex friendly.) But I'm not sure if my new insurance covers it.

No. 135074

>>135072
By BC do you mean the pill? The pill stops you from ovulating, so you don't get real periods. The only bleeding you get is withdrawal bleeding from the sudden drop of hormones during the placebo week, which you can often even choose to skip if you want to. If you do the placebo week though your "periods" should be more regular, lighter and less painful.

No. 135075

>>135074
I meant any kind of birth control, besides what I've already tried. I would do the pill, but I would almost certainly forget to take it every day. I've never been on any kind of every day medicine before and I'm just very forgetful in general. Although, it sounds like I would like the effects of it. I need something, anything soon, because my SO and I don't want any more children yet. And I know that just using condoms doesn't cover it.

No. 135076

I don't fuck with taking hormonal bc orally. Pills suck so bad, I don't know how anyone stands having those hormones pump through their system. I have a local hormonal Mirena IUD that still has the same effects but no symptoms. And my period disappeared completely and it is the best thing I've done in my adult life.

Seriously, no pregnancy for years, no remembering to take it, no buying it, no period. It is so ideal and I recommend it to everyone. It's not perfect but no bc is.

No. 135077

>>135076
I'm on the pill because it cleared up all my acne. I was recovering from anorexia and my body went crazy, my back, shoulders and chest were absolutely covered with hundreds of pimples. It was physically painful and self-esteem shattering, and the pill was the only thing that helped. I don't really like the idea of pumping artificial hormones through my body and I've considered getting a copper IUD but I'm absolutely terrified of the breakout horror stories I've read from girls who got off the pill. Don't know if I can handle that after having clear skin for almost two years… I'm also quite young and have never been pregnant, most doctors seem quite hesitant to consider IUDs for people like me.

No. 135078

>>135068
Update: I just got my THIRD period this month and I am getting a little concerned. This one is painless thankfully though

No. 135079

Is it normal for the dude to feel your nuvaring during sex? I thought it was but my partner said it seems really low. I don't feel the ring inside me. If it's too low will it not work?

No. 135080

>>135079
Yeah, my boyfriend did. And once, when he pulled out, it was stuck around his dick.

No. 135081

>>135079
My bf sometimes felt it, it's normal. You're not suppose to shove it up your uterus, if it's in your vagina and comfortable for you, it's good. The hormonal release is going to work wherever it is as long as it's inside.
If it's really a problem, you can get it out while you have sex, it can be out up to 3 hours a day. I wouldn't recommend it, tho, you could forget to put it back afterwards.

No. 135082

Has anyone here ever taken the pill ginet? I haven't been on any birth control pill yet and I'm deathly scared of weight gain

No. 135083

>>134926
Is this always the case, or only sometimes?

No. 135084

>>134926
>>135083

I have non hormonal IUD and my periods used to be strong in the beginning. Now one year after its usually 5 days and normal bleeding. No cramps at all just a little pinch here and there or nothing.

No. 135085

File: 1470236121938.jpg (172.39 KB, 500x500, 922688977.jpg)

Anyone here ever tried Persona? Is it legit or a scam?

No. 135086

Came to warn people against the pill. My doctor essentially told me it was some miracle cure that would help clear my skin, help me lose weight, cure my depression, help me concentrate, help my period pain…

Instead I've still got all my problems (I still get excruciating period pain, vomit, have to take painkillers until I feel faint) except to add to them I now have no sex drive which is taking a serious toll on my relationship, I'm constantly moody and I've gained half a stone. I'm only still on it because pregnancy terrifies me and I've no alternative.

Whatever they tell you about the pill, it's not some cure-all wonder medication. It actually has serious effects on your body. Your college has struck up a deal with the local pharmacy to advertise expensive contraception and they'll do anything to get that sale.

No. 135087

>>135086
I dropped the pill because it was making me feel sick and bloated

No. 135088

>>135086
It sucks what has happened to you, but whilst you have been hurt by someone misleading you, you are spreading misinformation yourself
Different people are affected differently by hormonal birth control, and there are different kinds of 'the pill' and also different brands of the same type.
In the same way that it isn't a miracle cure for everyone, it's also not an awful poison to everyone, it really depends on the person AND the pill. Which is why you will find people in this thread mention different brands or types.
Also, whilst some Doctors are keen to 'sell' the pill for whatever reason, not all Doctors are motivated in the same way.

I don't know if it will help, but you should demand to try a couple of different pills and if none of them work you can try a non-hormal option such as a ring or IUD.

No. 135089

>>135088 >>36184

there are loads of different pills to take some will work some wont I tried 5 different types before i stayed with the one I got now and yes it did help me with my severe acne and horrible cramps (2 of the pills i tried made it worse so i tried another one). I also bleed less I'm one of those people that can have a period for up to a month because my hormones was so imbalanced not anymore though. Its a trial and error process with birthcontrol pills

No. 135090

>>135085
High tech version of the rhythm method. ovulation tests have been around for a while. If you're okay with a 6% chance of pregnancy with perfect use, I guess it works. Mostly seems to be for cases where actual contraception is not an option (ie for religious reasons). It's probably useful for people ttc.

No. 135091

>>135085
>>135090
Addendum:
>They will also point out that there was only one study into Persona and that, while it initially assessed 710 women, it only came up with full results for 358 of those; that the women were selected so that only 15% of the youngest, and most fertile, women were included; and that, since there was no control trial, it was inadequate.
[https://archive.is/ppsOn#selection-1029.0-1029.333]

No. 135092

I have been having horrible cramps after orgasms for weeks. It's worse than period cramps, almost unbearable, lasts for about 10-15 mins then stops. I've been reading about women with the same exact symptoms but noone seems to know where it comes from.

No. 135093

>>135092
I'm not trying to be rude but could it be an std? Either way you should get it checked out at the doctors. It also sounds like one of the symptoms of endometriosis my sister just got diagnosed with that and cramps after sex was one of her issues

No. 135094

>>135093
I don't think so, I haven't had sex in a year.
I hope it's not endometriosis but I guess it could be, it very localized in the uterus and only seems triggered by orgasms. No pain whatsoever the rest of the time, tho.
Guess I'll wait a week and see if it still happens, if so, I'll give a call to the doc.

No. 135095

>>135094
When/if you go too the doctor make sure they check for endo they never really did for my sister until she specifically asked for it and most of the people at the hospital had never heard of it before. But i hope its nothing too serious anon and good luck

No. 135096

>>135094
Hey! I get painful cramps after orgasm sometimes too. Sometimes it makes me wanna throw up and I'll be sat on the toilet sweating trying to have a bowel movement because the pain is so intense.

I recently discovered that I get it when I've tried to go 2-3 months without a period (cheating with the pill). It's like my body's way of saying "look, you need a period, stop delaying it." Remember to take your pill as instructed and maybe the orgasm hell will stop?? Obviously going to the doctor is the best thing to do, but this ALWAYS works for me.

No. 135097

>>135096
I like to save my period blood and make paint with it

one time I tasted it and it wasnt too bad, now every time i flow i like to put a finger down there and get some(cool story, edgelord)

No. 135098

>>135096
You never get a period on the pill, only break through bleeding. If you got an actual period, BC wouldn't work.

Whatever the reason for your cramps is, it's not that.

No. 135099

I am p sure I am not pregnant but my period is late. I just did day one of vitamin c and am cramping. Still afraid semen managed to get in me when I went to the bathroom after fooling around.

No. 135100

>>135096
Yep, it the same, with the bowel movement thing but I'm not on the pill.
I happily report a painless orgasm yesterday. Maybe it's gone, or maybe it only happens at certain times on my cycles? I hope it's not because of the Nexplanon, I've been on it for a year and I love it…

No. 135101

>>135096
Another anon chiming in to say I have this exact issue, too. Down to sitting on the toilet afterwards. It's miserable.

>>135100
Based on both these posts, I think it's hormonal. I skip my sugar pills and thus periods for legit 6 months at a time* which seems to be what I have in common with >>135096. I don't know if you have a regular period, but it could be something to do with the estrogen we're all taking.

*I have especially painful periods so I can never convince myself to face the music haha.

No. 135102

>>135100
>>135101

Anon from >>135096 here, it sounds like a hormone imbalance could be the cause of cramping?

Okay I just googled it and the cause is unknown, but apparently cramps after orgasm have been known to develop 'alongside irregular periods'. So maybe we should all face the music once a month like we should. I dunno what's worse though, period cramps that seems to last for days, or sharp sudden cramps after orgasm that leaves you sat on a toilet sweating every time you dare to masturbate. Gotta love being a woman.

I've read somewhere that exercising and drinking more water "loosens up the muscles and prevents cramp" but I do that anyway and it still happens.

No. 135103

>>135102
Well, I'm having periods on the implant (but, well, i'm taking in hormonal doses day in and day out), so I guess it's not the period skiping thing. Maybe it has to do with hormonal build up or something.
It really sucks. The pain is so bad.

No. 135104

What does it mean if a pregnancy test is negative but hours later has half a positive line

No. 135105

>>135104
Nothing. Take one with the first pee when you wake up in the morning. If that's positive, call your doc.

No. 135106

Has anyone taken birth control to control emotional period feelings?

These past couple of months I've started to cry and hate myself a couple of days prior to my period coming(I'm a pretty optimistic person so this is coming out of nowhere). I can usually control these times since it's just my body doing whatever, but last month I seriously considered killing myself because of it.

No. 135107

>>135106
Mine definitely help but it can take some time to find the one that works for you. The previous type I took were fine for a few years(started it at 16 as I also had really bad pains) but roughly when I stopped growing(19) they made me worse than I was without it. I was switched to a low estrogen one and that helped. I still get a little emotional but it's a more controllable emotional. I don't get into terrible arguments or lots of crying or anything.

No. 135108

>>135103
There's no such thing as hormonal build up.

Listen, A lot of things your doctors tell you guys are doctor shorthand. They tell you bullshit because they know you don't have enough of a background in medicine or science to actually understand what's actually happening or what your medicines do, or because they don't know themselves but admiting that would break their patients trust. It's unfortunate, because it results in people believing things like the above, but it also prevents people panicking because they didn't fully understand what their doctor told them, or because their doctor said "I don't know, sorry."


A lot of stuff in this thread is just bullshit that gets circulated because of this.

No. 135109

>have unprotected sex with bf
>he pulls out in time
>try to get plan-b anyway
>store is fresh out and now I gotta wait until tomorrow

fuuck

No. 135110

>>135109
Do you track your cycles? When was your last period, do you know if you ovulated or not? Because if you have, Plan B won't help you. It'll actually delay your next period and make you panic more.

No. 135111

>>135110

last period ended July 17th

No. 135112

>>135111
There is a very high chance you've already ovulated and Plan B wouldn't be of much help to you.

No. 135113

>>135112

so that means I'm fucked?

No. 135114

>>135113
On the contrary. If your last period ended on the 17th, you should be getting it soon. You're less fertile after you've ovulated. There is a chance you could be pregnant, but that happens every time you have sex with or without protection. Get the Plan B if you want the peace of mind, but it will just make you sick and not do anything to stop you from getting pregnant.

No. 135115

>>135114

god, that's great to hear.. I'll probably still look for it, and actually invest in bc. Thanks so much.

No. 135116

>>135107
Thanks so much for your reply, I'm glad to hear things are better for you now.

Did you experience any weight gain while taking it as well?

No. 135117

>>135105
Thank you. That's what I did so I should be good just I looked at the test later that day and it changed

No. 135118

>>135116
I didn't notice any weight gain but my boobs did get more full/heavier feeling. I'm not sure if they just became more sensitive or actually weigh more since I've never weighed them lol.

No. 135119

>>135039
I've been reading about it. I'm a US citizen, and sadly Gynefix is not here yet. Any chance I can go to canada and get it there?

No. 135120

>>135070
>>135071
I'm the anon who asked about hormonal birth control- I decided to go on a pill that contained the same hormones as the implant. I've noticed I've been slightly moodier and I've also gained about five or six pounds, which I'm trying to drop currently. However, I discovered on my first placebo week that I had actually been pregnant already when I started the pill, because I miscarried. So, Once I finish my box of pills, I'm getting that implant, because fuck that noise. I'm terrified of forgetting to take it now.

No. 135121

>>135120
Glad for you. The implant have been one of my best decision. The spotting at the start was a little annoying, but damn, that peace of mind is the best.
Plus, it's way less invasive than a IUD.

No. 135122

>>135121
I warn any girl going for an IUD. I had one and it slipped out after a few months and was causing me pain. Just terrible. I went back to pills. It's lame to have to take them every day but better than having my uterus torn up ick.

No. 135123

Has anyone tried either the arm implant or the ring? If so, how did that work for you?

No. 135124

>>135123
I have the arm implant
2 year and i bleed everyday
My cousin had it done and it broke idk how but it fucked her up
Please…dont get it
But maybe its just my familys luck idk

No. 135125

>>135123
>>135124
You have bad luck. I have the implant and I love it. I had spotting for 6 month, but now I just have normal periods.
I have no idea how your cousin's implant broke seriously. Did she slam the interior of her arm against something? It's really weird.
Anyway, it's like any other form of birth control. It's gonna be great for some people and terrible for others. Only way to know is to try.

No. 135126

>>135123
I've been using Nuvaring for 6 or 7 years now and I love it. I started on the pill, but I switched to the ring because I hated taking a pill every day. For the first few months it made me have these hormone-induced breakouts on my chin, but I switched my skincare products to help control the breakouts, and it's been smooth sailing since. In all the time I've used the ring, it's only popped out during sex twice. Of course, you can take it out for up to 2 hours I believe, so you don't have to have it in during sex. It's not noticeable for me or my boyfriend, though, so I leave it in.

No. 135127

>>135123
Coming on 3 years for my implant so it will be changed soon. I didn't get my period for about two years, not even spotting. It's supposed to be the same hormones they use for depo so if you do well on it you should be Ok.

No. 135128

>>135123
I've had the Nexplanon implant since October and in that time I've had one period and no spotting. I've MAYBE gained 5lbs but that may have just been from my weight fluctuating naturally, anyway. The insertion wasn't very painful at all and in my opinion it's much safer than the nuvaring.

My OBGYN had made mention to me that the women she'd seen have issues with it were all very petite and thin. I'm about 140lbs at 5'10 and haven't had any issues, but if you're particularly small maybe ask your doctor and see what she thinks.

No. 135129

>>135128
This anon is right. Outliers (very thin/obese) tend to have issues with predose hormones.

No. 135130

>>135124
>>135125
>>135126
>>135127
>>135128
>>135129
Thank you for your help anons! I think I will try Depo first to see how I respond to the hormones, then take it from there.

No. 135131

I've been on oral birth control for like 9 years now (from 16 years old til now), and am considering going off of it… what can I expect?

any anons that have taken BC long term then came off it?

No. 135132

>>135131
Yep, I started BCP at 16 and took them straight for about 12 years. In the end my doctor recommended I get off of them because I was having constant heavy bleeding that wouldn't stop for about 3 months. It just sort of reset my body I guess? After I stopped taking them it took a little while for me to figure out my cycle but it eventually got easy to track. Apparently my natural cycle is longer than the usual 28 days, but I had no other effects really. My skin didn't suddenly become gross and I didn't gain/lose a significant amount of weight. It was just normal.

No. 135133

see Tao of Sexology by Dr. Stephen Chang for tips on this and many other aspects of sexual health!(no.)

No. 135134

Has anyone used the patch? I've been looking into the different kinds of birth control and this one seems like the most ideal but I can't find much info about it apart from the page on the NHS website

No. 135135

So I'm a fatty (working on losing weight) are their restrictions weight wise with bc shots or implants?

No. 135136

>>135134
I have. It felt like most hormonal bcp to me. The edges got really dirty and it was really hard to clean after I took the patch off the spot. I stopped it and started taking the pills because my bf thought it was really gross. And it reminded him of smokers.

No. 135137

>>135135
implants and IUD are the best choices if you're fat. However, you should talk about it with a gyno. Pill and patch are a big no-no. Not sure for the depo.

No. 135138

I can only use condoms, it's unfortunate.
IUD comes out of me because of my tilted uterus, I can try it again after giving birth for the first time if I ever do. Any hormonal BC gives me risk of strokes and/or blood clots. I'm pretty fucked.

No. 135139

>>135134
I definitely agree with >>135138
However I've personally had a decent time with the patch because the appearance doesn't bother me, and I only have to remember it once a week. Had a friend that tried the patch because I had it, and it was horrible for her because she had very delicate/thin skin. Left her with welts when she took it off, so keep in mind how sensitive your skin is.

No. 135140

Sooo I have the implant in my arm.
I've had it since last November, I don't have to change it until 2018.
I haven't had any negative side effects on it.

Before this I was on the pill.

I was super depressed(like suicidal sobbing everyday), I gained 70 pounds, and had almost a pizza face.

No. 135141

I've been back on NuvaRing for about 3 months now. I've also been stacking them as I did when I used it before, but I've been bleeding for the past 5 days and passed a decidual cast like 2 days ago. Put a new ring in yesterday, but the bleeding and cramps haven't stopped yet. Also, I've been having leg pain. Not really leg cramps, just pain. Should I take my ring out and get something else? I'm scared it's really fucking with me.

No. 135142

>>135141

Pain in the legs can be a sign of blod clots, get it checked out.

No. 135143

Did any of you ever get pregnant when BC failed?

No. 135144

>>135143
A friend of mine in HS did, twice. Abortions both times, but she's fine now and has an IUD and everything is going well. No long term issues.

No. 135145

>>135143
Not exaclty because it failed, but I miscarried shortly after my first cycle of BC because I had been about four weeks pregnant at the time of starting, though obviously I didn't know. It was five days prior to my seventeenth birthday too.

Also, for any anons who are considering the implant, I'm getting mine in a few days hopefully. I'll provide updates if anyone cares for them

No. 135146

>>135144
>>135145
It doesn't fuck you up mentally to lose child? I heard some scary stories.

No. 135147

>>135146 if it's an unwanted pregnancy, why would it

No. 135148

>>135146
>>135147
situational i suppose. i miscarried early on and it really wasn't much of a thing. i felt like people around me were trying to get me to feel worse about it. but i wasn't expecting to be pregnant so ill admit, i was relieved. i had a young one already and wanted to stay on my anti depressants so being pregnant again would have been a nightmare..

No. 173907

>>135039
Is there any difference other than shape/size?

No. 174148

>>134930
Same thing happened to me, I still did put up with it because I paid so much for that shit. About a year of nonstop bleeding/spotting later, all of it stopped and now I have been period free for almost 2 years now.
It's nice because I used to have bad cramps but now I'm worried all the time that if the implant has failed and I'm really pregnant but I haven't noticed it yet.

Still overall, I like it. I don't have stress to remember take pills and stuff.

No. 174152

>>135146
Most of those feelings are hormone related. Most women miscarry before they even find out they're officially pregnant, and miscarriages tend to happen early on for the ones who do know. I think there's social pressure to think of a miscarriage at the same level as losing a newborn, but most women can parse the differences and realize they're completely different. I have a fb friend who hams up her first trimester miscarriage that happened three years ago, and posts about it like it just happened yesterday. Whereas I have another friend who legitimately lost her newborn in a NICU unit who posted very similarly, but for more obvious reasons imo. Watching a new baby that you carried to term die in an intensive care unit seems way more traumatizing. I know I'd feel worse about that than having a miscarriage.

No. 174172

Had anyone had their birth control make them grow more hair? I started this birth control earlier this year and it's been making me grow more hair on my body and it's really bumming me out.

No. 174181

Any had their tubes tied and had issues with cysts? I'm not sure if it's related to that, or the Mirena I had previous.

>popped cysts are no joke

No. 174204

>>174181
I've had ovarian cysts pop 3 times now and I'd rather die than go through it again. My issues with cysts went away after weight loss though so I'm not too sure about BC options for treating them.
How old are you? Doctors may be unwilling to tie your tubes if you're fairly young even if you are absolutely set on being child free. It could be more practical to get a Mirena or a pill.

No. 174296

>>174148
Are there other forms of BC that can do that?

No. 174451

>>174204
I had my tubes tied about a year ago (bilateral salpingectomy), I'm 29. Hard core cf since 11.

So far I've had three cysts since the operation, but they removed the Mirena when I got it done. So I can't really determine wtf is going on. I was also showing signs of premenopause, but my blood work checked out.

No. 176899

>>135136
>my bf thought it was really gross
It's kind of weird he mentioned this, considering that most men seem to recognize birth control is a burden and that it falls pretty much entirely on the woman.

No. 180271

I had the Mirena IUD for 6 months and it made me a complete bitch and my periods lasted for like 10 days. I've been off birth control for almost two years now and it's been great. It's nice to have that ~fertile~ period where I look and feel great for about a week, something you can't experience on birth control. My bf accidentally came in me a couple times but I just popped some plan b which I can get for free at the pregnancy/birthcontrol centre.

No. 180272

>>180271
Lol this is me. Birth control made me moody and feel really hungry all the time. Plus I hated missing a few days and having to start all over.

I've been off the pill for like 3 years now and when I told my bf I was on the pill I actually meant I have like 3 plan b pill packs (I get a deal on them buying a lot at a time, its worth it) in my drawer at any given moment. It's really worked out for me nicely. BC fucks with your hormones, so does a lot of things though so meh

No. 180274

I need to get a new nexplanon implant asap, mine expired in December. Usually you have to wait 1-2 months for an appointment. All this talk about Trump repealing ACA and making it so Birth Control isn't covered is making me a bit worried since I'm not sure how quickly that can be put into place.

No. 180284

I have been on birth control (ethinylestradiol/levonorgestrel pill) for almost a decade now. I started out with a normal dose but I ended up with a terribly itchy cooch and bacne because of it. Now I take 0,02/0,1mg instead of 0,03/0,15mg. It does the exact same job but without the nasty side-effects.

My periods are irregular, painful and can take up to two weeks. Sometimes I'd have 3 periods in a row with only a few days in-between them. The doc told me to take the pill non-stop without breaks because of that.
It's completely safe to skip the breaks (altogether or once every few months). If there's people who also have periods that interfere too much with daily life, it might be a good idea to have fewer to no breaks. I personally go on a break whenever I start spotting, which happens about once every 6 months.

No. 180285

>>180274
I had to wait 1-2 months for an appointment because they wanted me to get my pap done beforehand. Once it was done they scheduled my replacement for the next week. If you've had your pap somewhat recently they may make the replacement appointment in less time. Either way, you should give them a call immediately. If you don't get it in time before birth control loses coverage ask to switch to a more affordable birth control.

No. 180290

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