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Some things to get us started:>What are your main kinks?>What is your ideal sub like?>What experiences have you had?>What advice do you have for new dommes?>Where to find subs? How to avoid unhealthy ones?
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I mean I call my partner my pet sometimes. It's cute.
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idk if anyone else is like this but I'm honestly more of an emotional sadist than a physical one. Dudes suffering emotionally turns me on more than anything else. A dumb example: a while ago I watched the dark comedy series "Flowers" and after the main guy tried to hang himself in the opening scene I was thirsting for him for the rest of the series and only wanted to jump him more the more emotionally tortured he got. bc of this i simp hardest for the most angsty male characters in shows, movies, books, etc. I wanna tie them up and have my way with them. of course I recognize that this emotional sadism thing can only ever be fantasy lol
picrel is that latest character who's done it for me
why are you trying to force yourself to like something you clearly don't?
you can also be more dominant in bed without resorting to bdsm
Not saying that male subs, like men in general, aren't often whiny and egoistical. But Reddit is especially bad. Most of them aren't actual subs.>>153407
gentle femdom on reddit isn't even bdsm though, just animu mommy fetish
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I think there are a lot of different ways to indulge in sensuality, and just because one form doesn't connect with you doesn't mean you can't make it your own. I can only explain what it represents in my life and perhaps some aspects might feel meaningful to you. This will be a bit longer because it's special to me.
I have always been a romantic person. Ever since I can remember I would fantasize about having that one special someone who would dedicate themselves to me and we'd be free to be ourselves around one another without fear of judgment. Instead, we'd celebrate one another. I wanted there to be no boundaries between us, just the sort of soul bond everyone talks about but finds so elusive.
A lot of media considered romantic didn't connect with me. It was about men "winning" women who then made sacrifices to become mothers and dedicate their lives to someone else other than themselves. I looked at porn and it gave me a release on occasion, but it always felt cheap and repulsive. I wanted a bond with someone in private; something that would only exist between us passionately and secretly because it would be too special to give to others.
Eventually, still at a fairly young age, I found the artist Luis Royo. It's his work here. He creates fantasy art, but instead of the traditional "Conan sits on throne with 3 female slaves" kind of thing, he features women exploring their sensuality from a position of power. There was an interview I saw with him and someone asked what gender most of his fans were, and he said women. I was so happy to hear he intended his art to convey the exact feelings it gave me: a dreamlike quality. Something secret and beautiful. Trust, passion, a union of souls, a touch of danger disarmed by love. It was everything I'd ever craved but never saw represented.
He works a lot with the beauty and beast motif, with a stunning woman dominating a rugged "monster." Their nudity is careless, uninhibited, confident. They slay these creatures not with a weapon but by virtue of their souls. Often they're being pleasured and sometimes they're beneath the beasts, but only because it's what they desire. They want to give pleasure to their pet, their partner, who has been tamed by their love yet not been forced to change their nature. Their mistress sees their unique beauty without a care for the world's judgment or imposition.
Having that aspect of dominance and submission in a relationship makes me feel complete. It makes me feel seen in totality. I want to be adored, I want my lover to surrender himself to me completely and trust that I might push him to his limits so that I get to see and experience all of him, but not so far that he breaks. I want to ride to the edge and back. I want to be the most important thing in his life. Not just during intimacy, always. But in those moments, it feels especially clear. It feels pure and true rather than dirty or shameful. It feels like I'm free.
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Thank you for sharing anon, his art is beautiful and you made me think about it in a different way than I would have had I found it on my own.>>153442
I liked her post but this made me kek
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Adoration, Stephan Abel Sinding (1846 – 1922)
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Thanks anons. I was honestly feeling kind of dumb after the snarky response. I know it’s lolcow and I shouldn’t take it personally but I was in my feelings and wrote it hoping it might actually explain the “why” for >>153451
versus just giving a laundry list of stuff I do in bed. I’m glad you appreciated it!
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Nothing stopping you from living your best life and appreciating both! As evidenced by the lack of links we’ve been able to find I think, unfortunately, femdom has been co-opted by a lot of scrotes just looking for a lady in leather to “punish” them exactly how they want it versus actually doing what makes her happy.
Media-wise what you’re looking for likely isn’t going to be specifically classified as erotic or femdom because that’s a death knell when it comes to popular exposure (with rare cases like FSoG). I can personally recommend Deathless by Catherynne Valente if you’re open to fantasy/alt history. It’s very poetic and the explicit material is minimal, but it does deal with power in relationships and touches on aspects of BDSM (while it’s not the focus). If you’re just looking for smut it won’t satisfy, but I did find the shifting power dynamic between a naive girl looking to please an emotionally needy man turning into a powerful woman who shackles him up to reclaim her individuality quite satisfying.
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Ntayrt but god I adore this show and it was so dramatic and psychotically sensual. It's absolutely abusive
but Will/Hannibal's relationship is so enticing in the sense of exploring a (very) dark side together. >>154011
It wouldn't be something I'd enjoy but I genuinely believe that in any scenario, if both parties are willingly and happily choosing to participate then you should do whatever you want. Has your boyfriend expressed any concerns or hesitation about this setup? You say it's "against his will" but is it truly something he hates (not okay) or something he feels is degrading but in a fun way? I would also feel worried sending him off to some rando's place in a compromised position. Do you know the addresses he's going to and a time to expect him back? Does he have some way to check in with you if necessary?
Nah, I understand sexual attraction is different from romantic attraction. It's an open thing.>>154055
Fair enough, was just curious on other opinions. and lowkey trying to whore him out I guess
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i want to peg a cute guy so badly, but every guy i’ve ever encountered who was into pegging, both online and irl, has been a fucking creep. are there any sane, cute boys who want to get pegged?
My long term boyfriend wants me to peg him, he threw the idea out there while drunk once a long time ago and then retracted it, but in recent years, when he’s drunk he’ll bring up the subject, I’m aware it’s definitely something he wants to do. He’s a big dude, especially in comparison to me, and the idea of going anywhere near his butt, to me, is nauseating. No judgement, it’s just not my thing, I enjoy being somewhat submissive sexually, the idea of the roles being reversed is foreign to me. In the interest of being open minded, I’m not completely opposed to it, but I’m wondering if any of you were fully aware of being interested in dominating or whether you acquired the kink due to an experience you were maybe slightly reluctant to participate in at first, but ended up really getting in to it? I don’t know how I will react, or if I’ll be able to keep a straight face, or be able to get off in the same way after going through with it. He also wants me to stand on him, so, there’s that.
Nta but I've done the whole pegging/ass play thing for a partner who wanted it (without any power play involved tho) and tbh years later I'm still kind of haunted my the memories of playing with an asshole when deep down I didn't want to be in some guys asshole..
At the time I was just being 'open minded' or whatever but I really shouldn't have put my own feelings to the side like that. I regret it.
It really doesn't sound like you're into it. I wouldn't force myself to do it if you… don't wanna do it, you know. It's mostly the mental aspect that's arousing anyway, if you don't find it mentally arousing there's not much in this particular activity that would be physically pleasurable for you.
I personally knew I was way into man ass many years before I got to play with one. I don't think it's impossible to aquire it as a kink, but I don't think the chances of you going for it and ending up loving it if you don't already find it hot to some degree are super high either.
The easy rule of sex: Never do shit you don't wanna do. You say you feel nausea just thinking about it so there is your answer.
I also think asses are gross, and as I wrote on the previous thread, why the fuck should we women have to pretend to have a dick? So no pegging 4 me.
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I know gentle femdom is popular these days, but are there any legitimate sadists lurking in this thread? I need some tips on humiliating my partner during foreplay. I'm looking for weeb-tier insults about them being a pervert, not being able to control themselves, being helpless, etc (pic related). Bonus points if they're embarrassing enough to leave a snarky masochist speechless
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>The female bites the scrotum of the male lion when the male is tired of copulation. A lioness can mate up to 20 to 40 times a day!
One of the top things I want in my next partner is for him to have no interest in either playing with my ass or having me play with his.
I'm that sick of guys pushing and pushing,. whining and hinting and pouting. I have a perfectly good pussy that I want fucked. A clit that can make me come back to back to back. I have a high sex drive. But I've had such lackluster sex with a string of anal-obsessed bfs. I just want a guy that loves…pussy. What is porn doing to men??
We haven't talked about it with them yet so I could be totally off base, but my family likely won't care. We're a smaller group. My father passed away when I was young, and my mom/her side of the family is very easy going and progressive. My boyfriend's mom was adopted, so I think she'll appreciate the concept of a "created family" if anything. His dad is the most traditional out of everyone and while I can imagine him grumbling a bit/asking what's wrong with his name, ultimately he just wants my boyfriend to be happy so I think he'll get over it.
We both liked this idea more than a hyphenated surname because those can get so unwieldy, plus this will be something of our own making vs another title we're stuck with just because of tradition. I feel fortunate that both of our families are quite accepting and no one is super religious/paternalistic/controlling, because while we'd still want to do our own thing, I know dealing with all that judgment during an otherwise happy event can be extremely disheartening.
Thanks! We're not drawing directly from our existing names, like Jordan + Abadi = Jobadi. But we do like the idea of merging heritage in some manner. So we're looking at the meanings of our names and trying to come up with a new concept that can then be represented in a mixture of languages.
For example, if his last name meant forest and mine meant brave, we might consider an oak, which is supposed to symbolize strength (found in a forest and expressing bravery). Then we can combine words that represent an oak, like white + tree or thunder + tree in our "ancestral" languages.
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fell in love with these characters from twitter, really into the sub loser incel nerd thing ig
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I'm personally not a fan of the small subby twink tbh
the art is so ugly but i really like the idea of taking a nerdy virgin college kid and doing femdom shit with him.
sad thing is i only want smegma-free and non-sexist ones. but even the good ones have such bad hygiene. worst part of studying stem was to realize my "shy nerdy bf" fantasy was just a fantasy, most of them smell like shit and are fat.
Late to this but this is exactly why I have a hard time getting into femdom even though I find the concept appealing. All of the sub males I've ever met in my life have been either gross forced sissyfication/bimbofication fetishists or slackers looking for a mommy gf to pamper them. A lot of men believe that the definition of femdom is all about an assertive woman servicing them (including pegging) while the man does nothing but lies on his back starfish style and that somehow makes him "a sub". >>155669>Like some men are fine with going out in puppy costumes and getting publically shamed, but taking the woman's name and not having your kids named after his family line is where the line is drawn lol
Honestly this. I'd love a power dynamic where I'm the dominating partner in the house but I guess the "subs" have their fragile masculinity broken by anything that leaves the bedroom.
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this sounds hot as fuck, I don't know why no one responded.>>156604
Do you read erotica as well? If you're naturally creative, it can be even better!
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>slowly getting a guy I hooked up with once to open up more about his sexuality
>he jacks it to guys in submissive positions and women in dominate positions including collars, whipping, etc
>i tease him a lot anyway, he says yes ma’am and yes queen when I tell him to do something
>suggest I be his dom
>he says yes and sends heart eyes
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Above all else, look for pieces written by female authors. It's almost funny how you can immediately tell a moid wrote a story when it has shit like this:
"Her supple breasts bulged out of her chest like beautiful, ripe grapefruits, almost oozing with sweet womanly nectar from her nubile, pink areolas."
Anyway, you know the site has gone down the drain when shit like pic related is in one of the more popular stories. This isn't even a sex scene! I don't really care about the poor syntax and all of that in these stories, either. As you mentioned, there are more important aspects of erotica that can make or break a story.
You should really only look at the top stories, so the ones nominated for their monthly awards. Searching by new is a mistake. I struggle myself finding anything I like, but I find that there can be decent stories in the lesbian section in particular. (Scrotes writing in that category infuriates me, but it's even easier to tell if one of them wrote something, so whatever.)
You can also look on Archive of Our Own. That tends to be a good site particularly for fanfiction erotica, which is often better than most of the shit on LE. Good luck, and if you find something nice, make sure to let us know ;) Have fun!
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So did y'all get a chance to watch On Becoming a God in Central Florida? There are a bunch of satisfying softcore femdom scenes featuring Kirsten Dunst. And the dude who is played by Theodore Pellerine is kinda douchy but he's also insanely hot. Would highly reccommend.
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I've always loved cute guys in tuxedos and maybe cat ears. What's your ideal sub costume? Posting animu because my dumbass can't find a photo
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Pic related, with boots, a collar with a dog tag and glasses.
“Deepthroat him until he cums”.
I don’t know why this shit is on a femdom thread either, make him
gasp for air trying to make YOU cum sis.
idk why more guys arent into getting tied up
isnt that the point?
Maybe he wants you to do things to him instead of instructing him, if he’s a new sub he’s probably just not gotten into the grove just yet or
he’s maybe vanilla that likes you to top him and you mistook that as him being a full on submissive.
Next time, try blindfolding him and do what you want to him don’t even ask him what he wants.
Hm, I think I already do a lot of things to and for him, though. Tons of body worship, teasing, build up, that sort of thing because I love it. He'll say "what can I do for you, tell me what you want," etc. Maybe I should just tell him, "I don't want to do anything. You do all the work," and see what that does, kek. And it's not like he doesn't make me cum multiple times before he does. I do every time, he's very attentive to me, but I just don't know what he wants me to say!
Thank you though, anon, that's helpful ♥
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Kek once I revealed a guy Im into femdom and he got on his back eyes closed and started to order me what to do.
New things to do could be tying him up, edging, filming him while you’re on top of him, order him around like a pet, roleplaying, spanking, vanilla humiliation, restrained handjobs and make him cum from ruined orgasms lol, sit on his face while he’s tied up, make him not touch you during sex and have his way with him.
Don’t know if you tried any of this.
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Reminds me of this
>>159226>watch or read stuff youre into>think about what you could get him to do>think about how you could make it even more depraved/demeaning to him>tell him to do it>NOW (ie be foreful)
it really is that easy
if he responds, great
if not then you have your answer
Oh wow, a lot of those are really good ideas and doable for us for the most part, thank you! I'm not sure what vanilla humiliation looks like–I'm not good at or have much desire to be mean to him idt?>>159236
I have and do for the most part, I think. I'm more switchy than domme but have tried to be dominating when he asks. But again, I just run out of ideas lol. He's quite good at making me feel good, so idk what to ask him for and getting creative is hard. I'll check out some light femdomme literature or fics, though, that's not a bad idea. I've already been reading this thread.
>>159238>just run out of ideas
start making a list? idk sometimes those fleeting thoughts are the best ones. write it so you wont forget it
>He's quite good at making me feel good, so idk what to ask him for
then try mildly torturing him while he does things for you
when he successfully gets you off you can either reward him, or just fuck with him and tease/deny him
just try to think of small ways you can continually assert that you are the one in control, and hes just along for the ride.
even with simpler vanilla stuff, try and come up with ways to where its apparent to him that even THEN, hes STILL not the one in control
these kinds of small things, done repeatedly over time, will have a cumulative effect, putting him in his space. so that even when hes "in control" in a vanilla setting, he will know deep down thats its simply because youre allowing it and it benefits you at that moment.
verbal shit works well in this regard
and remember, verbal remarks dont necessarily have to stay in the bedroom either
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Can you guys recommend a femdom manhwa/manhuaI know there’s sadistic beauty but it went left super fast. Nowadays I just spend my leisure time browsing S&M Yaoi webtoons and imagine the dom as a female but I still don’t get excited or gain new ideas since it’s guy on guy lol.
Also the reason I didn’t say manga is because I usually avoid “femdom” mangas because they make the dom female out to be this weird MILF/Gfd prototype, and it’s made for males, and written by them. So I naturally enjoy Manhwa/Hua because there are more female authors who know what the female readers want.
youll want to steer clear of the reddit/clingy/tfw no mommygf/shut-in crowd, and look for someone whos already confident and comfortable with himself. a lot of the ones that troon out are incredibly insecure and have never confided such things to anyone before, so when you give them an inch, they want the next 10miles, and they expect you to just roll with it like its no big deal
idk try musicians. for the most part, all musicians ive ever dealt with are depraved and can be talked or coerced into a number of things.
why is this?
Do you just want them for their better fingerwork?
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Simple girl, buff boys in long maido dresses. Tuxes with bunny ears are hella kino too though. Ooo and tradional clothings like hanfu and yukata.>>159232
Barf, larpers are something else-
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also wind players
tongue = good>>159300
are you trying to dominate all aspects of some poor bastards life or what?
show up to his shows 15mins after they end and put a bunch of food and drinks on his tab
get creative lol
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Does anyone like it when boys fight? When they just beat the shit out of each other? I get so hot when it comes up in movies of some qt getting bloody and bruised. Imagine having 2 subs and they rough each other up for your enjoyment.
you ever watch "they live"?
every time i do i always forget theres like a 20min fight scene slapped in the middle of it
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When I was a little younger I used to get weirded out by myself when I got turned on by bruised up pretty boys, but now… I get it, I get myself
I would love to have two subs fight for my attention kek
I think that has more to do with lung capacity.
Still doesn't explain why musicians would be more likely to be subs than other men.
What's the reasoning for this?
I mostly want to know because I"m starting to suspect that it's true.
bards have always been seen as depraved lunatics
for literally all of recorded history
there must be something to it
and woodwinds specifically require a great deal of tongue dexterity
find a boy that plays flute. subbishness nearly guaranteed
They are only one letter apart so people probably mix them up. Findom can be part of femdom though even if you hate that.
I wish incels would become scared of femdom, I hate how men online think gentle femdom is ss mommy milkers bullshit like >>159232
and femdom is the same thing but with one-sided pegging and whips>>159436
Hormones? Testosterone is highest around the 14th day of your cycle. It might also be about making a man enjoy something they act grossed out by
Some of the best sex I've had was messy period sex with a guy who really wasn't bothered by it.
I've also had men weirdly grossed out by the tinest amount of breakthrough bleeding… which only makes me appreciate the non-squeamish ones more.
I dont agree I feel like it’s just something chicks who love money can brand themselves under, it’s really a weird concept to me and will attract degenerates such as incels and porn sick middle aged men to actual femdom because people can’t see a line between them.
It’s just that porn cuckold shit advertised within their community is disgusting to me, they think women into femdom are just emotionally disturbed beings with no sexual needs who want to hurt men for no reason kek. I don’t want a bunch of idiots with a different view on femdom to associate themselves with us who can’t even understand a basic relationship between a domme and sub and the attitude behind femdom.
>>159470> basic relationship between a domme and sub and the attitude behind femdom
this would be a fantastic topic to discuss and share here, imo.
anons, what is your mindset when domming? what would you consider a healthy domme-sub relationship?
personally, im not into humilliation or overly protective mommy-like dynamics. for me the worship aspect is the most enticing part, and also a bit of teasing never hurt nobody! kek
It's ovulation for me, I turn into a wild cave woman who wants to club hot men and drag them to my cave.>>159470>they think women into femdom are just emotionally disturbed beings with no sexual needs who want to hurt men for no reason
A lot of porn for scrotes is like this, they think it's femdom when a woman doesn't wanna fuck them.>>159472>for me the worship aspect is the most enticing part
Same, and being physically in charge.
It’s a Manhwa and Korean dating sim, i don’t think it’s out with a translation yet. I only read the Manhwa so far.
I really liked the more feminine skinny subs lol.https://manga68.com/manga/lady-maid/
There you go,
Femdom basically to me is my sub partner being eager to please me at any time and following my order. I rarely do S&M play though, I kind of grew out of it.
Nowadays I guess I’m sort of role reversal when it comes to sex with men, I don’t want to call myself GFD after seeing that
sub Reddit lmao
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Agreed. Especially the fact that so much of findom revolves around fetishizing cheating on your wife and being a shit father who’d rather pay whores than providing for his family, bitch wtf. Get that shit out of my forest.
That Twitter reshares good content but then>Refers to guys genitals as princess parts>Calls herself mommy
Have a safe word, because some people enjoy getting to that point while still knowing they have the final say in how long it continues. And that’s a turn on for me, so as long as he’s cool with continuing then I will (although I’ve only ever gotten begging, haven’t pushed until crying). If you and your partner are new to bdsm you might want to pause and ask if he really means it if he says stop, if he wants you to take off any restraints or immediately quit what you’re doing. Definitely check in multiple times.
I rarely do anything intense enough to warrant aftercare and we both like cuddling anyway, but it depends on the person. If you’ve been especially rough you can ask if he’d like to be hugged, have his hair stroked, maybe a light massage, bathing together or verbal reassurance that he did well.
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i can get into the idea of femdom, but there is an underlying notion surrounding the topic that is so unappealing to me that is captured by this gif.
puts it, it just seems like so many of the men who are into femdom, especially gentle femdom, are simply extremely lazy and needy lovers. they want to get off, and they want the woman to take care of that for them completely. it just feels way too focused on male pleasure. even many of the posts written here by women focus on the male's pleasure/orgasm rather than their own.
i've experienced having a lazy lover and it is literally the worst. i would absolutely rather not have sex ever again than have sex with a lazy lover who expects me to put in all the mental and physical work that's a part of a satisfying sexual experience. the idea of flipping gender roles and being sexually aggressive and dominant as a woman is super hot, but, personally, the only type of male sub i'd consider entertaining is a service sub. i'm not your mommy. i'm not patting your head or calling you a good boy (barf). i'm not going to cum from sucking your dick or jerking you off so YOU can eat me out or fuck me how i want if i let you, and you better feel glad you were even allowed to do that.
The post you quoted wasnt GFD. Point of the video was the post orgasmic torture and bondage/breath play
I guess the gif doesn’t capture the whole video. I don’t know why handjobs are so bad damn lol
On this note> even many of the posts written here by women focus on the male's pleasure/orgasm rather than their own.
Most of the things that gets inflicted to the sub in femdom relationships he enjoys and gets pleasure from anyways if he’s a true subservient man and a masochist. Even if you stomp his balls kek.
What’s your point? The other half of the S&M relationship doesn’t get any pleasure? It doesn’t work like that in a healthy relationship.
Also the reason why I posted that video is because I am a straight woman, I don’t want to watch videos focusing on a woman getting ate out, I get pleasure and a rise from seeing men humiliated and taken control over in sexual situations and seeing the woman’s POV.
Domme’s aren’t heartless creatures you know that use subs as sex slaves in captivity, In any relationship both people should gain pleasure, even the one taking the subservient role. Even though I take more than I give. The point of femdom is the domme doing whatever SHE wants, just because she wants to let him go on top one day doesn’t mean it’s not femdom anymore.
It shouldn’t just be a female version of traditional (male)dom, that would be catastrophic.
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I notice everything on this subreddit is just the dom kneeling for her sub. Weird, they might just as well post a dom kneeling to give her “sub” a blowjob. This is all so obvious to me.
I have seen more annoying things but I shouldn’t spam
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If the males don’t want it guess we’ll have to stop ladies. “We need porn where the domme does anything so her sub feels comforted”, pretty sure that happens in male dom porn. Let us have one thing where we don’t have to cater to men. Kek saw picrel in a femdom subreddit, hurling at the audacity of these depraved idiots.
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All my homies hate this. Wow totesss “femdom” if a woman CHOOSES to rim a man’s ass and suck his cock and tickle his balls instead of being grabbed by the hair and forced into it like standard male dom porn. Scrotes actually list loli hentai under the femdom tag because it features a loli sitting on their dick instead of rape.
Perfect metaphor for the mental gymnastic the average woman go through to pretend pickme shit is empowering though.>>159604
You’re missing the point by a lot.
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Have you seen the tv show Wayne (2019)?
The male lead is quite cute and spends most of the season getting beat the fuc up. Especially if you like the delinquent trope, who acts submissive and protective of his girl, like a dog!
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Tears are not a safe word.
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Aah Mr tired hobo, we meet again.
It's crazy how times have gone backwards to the point that if a little girl isn't being abused, scrote coomers things it's femdom.
We could do with some more actually sadist content, as a counter to the scrote bullshit.
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Amen sister. The less they like it the better. Makes for the best pet when broken in.
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It's tough to find sadistic content that isn't the same gross stuff that's been shown/mentioned here before (old ugly subs, boring scenes, domme catering to the sub in some way). Or else it tends to be m/m or devoid of a domme in general, which is fine, but would be nice to see more legitimate femdom.
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I know right, it’s just pretty nice.
I have noticed on GFD Reddit, aside from the obvious Weeb incels, the male subs there don’t seem to share the same idea as the post quoted here>>159614
It always has to be the “dommes”, that insist normal BDSM is somehow bad and unequal. For what reason I don’t know lmao
Like, if you’re into femdom you want that unequal power balance. That’s the whole premise. Doesn’t mean the submissive gets his balls crushed everyday and we only satisfy ourselves kek.
Holy, it’s pick me behaviour at the finest.>>159672
I’m the anon who posted the account earlier, let’s just leave it at that one video, rest of the account content is shit
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Artist is st05254
Also that is just as sketch that leaves out some of the body.
I am?>inb4 b&>>159910>>159909
I didn't ask for address, nor for anyone to dox themselves, but rather where on the net am I supposed to search?(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)
All my fantasies revolve around sadism towards confident/popular men but i can barely talk to men irl without spilling spaghetti. Wish i was more confident person.>>153165
This is hot but rather than deepthroat i would love to see a guy get off using my foot and hump it like a pathetic dog.
Sorry if I don’t find kneeling in front of a man while pleasing him to be femdom.
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NAYRT but I feel like wanting to give pleasure vs. wanting to receive pleasure is another axis for sexuality in addition to dom/sub, and you can pretty much be dommy with either or both.>>159250
Yeah the other manhwa that I know of besides Sadistic Beauty and S Flower is No Holes Barred. For me, it had some pretty hot scenes earlier on but I kinda lost interest once they added the other girl to the group.
I’m not talking about giving pleasure to your sub, I’m saying giving pleasure by using yourself as a tool and being in a submissive position isn’t femdom.
Enjoy it if you want but it isn’t femdom.
Men hurting women and children =yawn who cares
Women hurting men =taboo
"cruel" or sadistic content is all around not accepted in the mainstream. There is imagery present in popculture but that is not the same as common endorsement
>so often femdom is only allowed
You sound like an alien from outer space or a totalitarian psycho, either one of those
no, everything is not problematic
and in need of societal approval. Don't construct this inequality narrative because you need institutionalized safe space for your kink smack dab in leave-it-to-beaver suburbia
and you >>160157
are full of shit as well
Why did you leave out women hurting children as well? Kek. Like this anon said >>160174
it isn't socially acceptable for men to hurt people, I think you're thinking of men being more dominate. Sadism is generally frowned upon, no matter who you are.
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Miss me with these maledom with extra step bs>>160174
Back to reddit, male
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>not living in a cultured city that holds Kinbaku Boys art exhibitions
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I'm not a femdom, I'm pretty much the opposite. But I find it really hot when men are tied up and and forced to cum, they look so cute.
>>160174>full of shit as well
You don't have to look that far back in history to see a time where men literally owned their wife and children, and was legally allowed to beat and rape his wife.
And now take a look at the current porn and prostitution industries, DDLG etc. >>160177
He is cute, source?
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Is this GFD or still normal vanilla sexts? Testing the GFD waters with somebody but getting there slowly
The posts in this thread makes me fucking depressed
You’re living the life we all want
I see a potential sub
Just train him more
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Honestly I couldn't get myself to read more than the first chapters because of how unlikeable i found the main girl. Also don't choke someone irl like this unless you're ready to get charges for homicide
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They're so cute when they moan and try to hold back
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It’s fucking hard finding hot submissive guys willing to pose sexually or in porn alright
Most decent ones I find are faceless guys with nice bodies on Twitter
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Gakuran cosplay is sexxxy
Who said anything about forcing? Anon didn’t say to go out and kidnap a guy and make him into a sub.
Anon only said be assertive and search for a sub instead of wishing for one.>>160540>>160559
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Do any farmers have femdom fantasies they don't want to live out, because they feel reality could never live up to them? I really like the idea of forcing my boyfriend to crossdress in lingerie or stereotypically "girly" outfits to bully and humiliate him a little, but I doubt they'd actually look good on him. I'm pretty sure he'd be fine with it since he jokes about it, but I imagine he'd just look like an ugly tranny and it turns me off entirely. (This is not to say I'm not attracted to him, I like the way he looks normally.) I don't want to spend the money on fetish outfits, thinking about how potentially awkward this could turn out, so it just lives on as an unfulfilled idea.
Maybe go for softer things like tinted lipgloss, a delicate necklace?
Avoid using words like "dressing as a girl" and instead say you want to see his pretty/beautiful side
Imo I like when stylish people incorporate gender bending into their aesthetic, but dressing a man up in skirts and overly feminine things that don't suit him during sex just makes me think about sissies
For me seeing men in lingerie is just arousing ? I never thought of it as forced feminization or had it in mind when humiliating a sub.>>160689
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I really like stockings. Bring them back in men's fashion!
I wrote that post and I agree with you, that's why I also wrote >>160670
first. I like people to look attractive in clothes that flatter them regardless of if those are "feminine" or "masculine" clothing, I don't like sissies in tacky parody women costumes.
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Hot damn ladies I know we’ve been looking for some live ones and I found a cute Asian boy who dresses up in catboy maid outfits. @vidken on Tiktok have at ‘em (he’s 24 by the way so a real actual adult too and not a groomed social media “celeb”)
I mean he is wearing a frilly maid costume.
He might just be one of those misogynists with a fetish for female servitude.
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he needs to dress sluttier.
also one of my big fantasies is getting my guy to dress up in female lingerie, but not "pretty" himself up at all. stay looking masculine and hairy and all that but be wearing slut gear.
well, it's complicated. while i'm turned off by "women are less" mentalities, i think if you're coming to a man and flipping his idea of manliness upsidedown, and making him conform to something society says is "weaker" it's innately humiliating for him. the goal is not "haha you're weak like a woman", it's "you're not enough of a man". does that make sense?
also "female clothing" tends to be tighter and more revealing and a lot of guys aren't used to that and it's hot
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by @luoman19921 on twitter
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This artist has a NSFW account as well (@artluoman), but unfortunately it's protected. Do you know what kind of NSFW they have?
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I looked through the old thread and am a bit disappointed that people totally ignored the anon posting 女の子が抱いちゃダメですか (loosely: Is it wrong if a girl fucks a guy?)
It's gentle femdom and so the furthest they've gone is masturbation, buuuut it's written and drawn by a woman, so the focus is on the guy and his cute expressions without the girl having huge tits or something and there's actually a story kek
You can read the first and the latest chapters here: https://urasunday.com/title/1316
No idea how good it is if you can't read it, but I know I just spent money on it because… hormones.
iirc anons liked it? At least I did lol. It was just short, it only had 6 chapters out back then for the first volume, with only the first 4 translated in english. Currently translations are up to chapter 10 in viet. https://mangadex.org/title/51268/is-it-wrong-to-get-done-by-a-girl
You can buy the chapters on amazon for 110 yen (about 1 dollar USD) each, and there’s a total of 12 with the latter half forming volume 2 to be released on December 17th. https://www.amazon.co.jp/ねじがなめた/e/B07C7PPY9P/ref=dp_byline_cont_book_1
Spoilers It’s taking a bit for them to officially get together how I’d like, but the pacing feels appropriate. She does a lot of service for him but his reactions are fun to watch. Since he saw the toys in the bag I guess that means the next volume will have a lot more in store!
Thanks for bringing this story up anon, I enjoy it a fair amount. It doesn’t feel disgusting or voyeur-esque and perverted.
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Thanks for the share. I read up to chapter 4 (last chapter translated in English). So far, it's cute as romantic story but there's fairly little explicit or sexy content yet. I relate a lot to the MC in terms of how she feels about average dating customs, so it's cool to see that expressed in a manga. Looking forward to seeing the rest of the chapters!
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Scr*tes when they stumble upon this thread
My husband actually took my surname when we got married. Everyone thinks it's progressive and cool but in reality, his surname was fucking ugly and strongly associated with a politician in my home country whereas my name is rare and sound good with his name.
But I do think it's sexy to call him by his new surname in a sort of a caveman sort of a way and he has no idea. He probably wouldn't find it appealing even though he is submissive by nature and it might be sexy to play around the theme in bedroom.
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Is there any femdom art with the Hypmic guys out there? I'm craving it badly.
He has a very soft face & body. Almost no muscle & skinnyfat. Just not very manly for a 43 year old dude. >>162319Oof
I feel ya.
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>What are your main kinks?
Cat boys in maid outfits, leashes and those dog mouth cages, but i also like giving pet names and pats/scritches.
>What is your ideal sub like?
Submissive obviously lmao, but also when they are shy or acting cute which actually turns me on alot.
>What experiences have you had?
I don't know what experiences we are talking about, but i had an abusive relationship with a switch, but he mostly acted submissive but he was a pos. Thankfuly left him.
>What advice do you have for new dommes?
Don't force your sub into anything, we all have things we feel uncomfortable with, if your sub doesn't like choking then don't choke them even if you're into it, everyone has their different kinks. Also having a safe word is very very important too. Also theres limits. Another thing, do your research and learn the terms
Ok, I'm sober now. The story isn't that interesting, but I can remember it like it was yesterday. It needs more than a little context because the guy was technically underage and I'm probably going to get banned, so here goes. I'm not used to greentexting, and especially not with a hangover, so bear with me.
>Be 16>Live way out in the sticks in this shitty little town. >This was before the internet really hit big. There was literally nothing to do but go out, camp in the woods and get drunk.>The local school was basically a mix elementary and high school because there are about fifty kids in the whole town put together.>One day we get a new student. His name is Tyler, he was fourteen, and he had just moved in.>Nothing spectacular about him except for the fact that he was just completely gorgeous. >It's hard to describe, but his whole figure and face and everything was just beautiful. >He was a dainty kid, just an inch or two shorter than I was - big blue puppy eyes and shoulder length straight blond hair and he had the smoothest skin that I had ever seen on a boy.>But he walked past me one day and he had his shirt tooked in, meaning the most noticeable thing about his rapidly receding figure was this tight, round ass, snugly fitted into his trousers.>Can you remember the first time - literally the first time - that you ever thought a guys ass looked kind of squeezable? I can, and it was because of Tyler.>Anyhoo. >Being the shy thing he was, he used to sit alone at lunch. So one day for no reason at all, me and my two best friends (Jessica and Rachel) sat down on his table to fuck with him a little. >Asking him if he would kiss us, asking him to give us his lunch while making eyes, that kind of stuff.>This started to become a thing. >Every lunch for about two weeks we would creep up behind him, wrap our arms around him and say, "Hi there, little guy!" >The first time we did it he was all shocked and confused and walked off.>But after a while he got used to it. >He stopped bothering to respond to us, even when everyone started calling him little guy in class, he didn't say anything. >So it becomes old quick and we stop. >But one day we were so bored we went back to it, and needled him a little further.>After we found him, I sat right next to him and yanked him onto my lap.>His hair smelt like strawberries, just so that you know.>Bingo. He stiffened up and started to squirm a little. The boys at the next table started wolf whistling and he actually shivered. >Rachel asked him if he's scared of girls now that he's met us. >That's when he turned and looked me dead in the eyes and said quietly, "I'm not scared of you." >And then me and him just sit there in this stupid stare off, our faces an inch away from each others, both refusing to look away. >It seems so dumb to say this now but that was the first time I actually felt my heart skip a beat. >He slid off my lap, stood up, reached over, picked up my burger and placed it on his tray. Then he actually fucking smirked at me and walked out of the cafeteria with my fucking burger. >My fucking burger. >And I don't have enough money to buy another one. >And the guys next table are applauding the little shit as he walks out. >Ok, little guy. You win this time. >You win this time.
>As we got more aggressive, he got braver.>We would say nothing to him as we walked past him in the corridor. >But one day I got a bright idea. When he walked past I turned around and pinched him right on his cute little ass. >The first time I did it he jumped a mile.>The second time, he pretended to walk it off - only to smack me right on mine and run off. >He was a fast fucker and we couldn't catch him.>A week later all three of us have tasted the bite of his mighty pimp hand.>And now it becomes a point of obsession. >I feel like absolute shit for admitting it, but the last months of our high school lives, all we would talk about was the best way to fuck with Tyler. >It was also the first time we openly admitted to each other that yes, in fact, Tyler had an amazing ass and squeezing it had been bretty gud.>In fact, it was the first time that we admitted that yes, Tyler would look quite good in a maids outfit on the receiving end of a good spanking.>Maybe Tyler would look quite good with those big blue eyes filled with tears as we embaressed him in front of the whole school. >You guys may feel weird among admitting to anyone that you have this fetish. Imagine not even knowing what it was called but being able to discuss it with your best friends after school and obsessing over it like a pack of autists.>Maybe we were just that sad, or bored, or horny, whatever. But thinking about those times we fantasised with other imagining Tylers ass wiggling its way down the corridor in a maid skirt is one of the best memories of my youth. >Collectively we make it our God-given mission to give the little guy a spanking he'll never forget before we leave school. >But we can't.>He's too fucking fast.
1/2, will post the rest later if you haven't fallen asleep reading that.
It's the aryan bishonen with strawberry scented hair for me
I hope those aren't anyone's real names and also that this didn't happen, it's a story about prolonged group sexual harassment against one younger student
Jungkook was your sweet baby boy, so soft and willing. His smile alone made you want to destroy him, break him down beneath your hands. He looked so good as a whining, whimpering puddle for you, and you loved the way he begged for your touch. There was something about him, the way he came home and curled into your side, kissing at your jaw that made you want him, and before long you had him. Tied to his own headboard, spread wide and desperate for you.
He’d already cum once, a teasing hand job and some well placed kisses, and he arched off the bed for you, but you weren’t done. You continued to stroke him, a thin glass dildo pumping in and out of him, all at your mercy, all to make him beg. A quick flick of your wrist and his cock throbbed in your palm, his whines getting higher in pitch, half caught in his throat, half drown out by the next louder moan.
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But why Jungkook, who is that guy even?
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my subby bf loves to take artsy nudes lol
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this scene though
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how tf do i get a bf like this
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male asses are gross except when they are not
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do straight females actually like this?
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people were simping for this guy on the other thread. I don't get it
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if you don't find this hot you aren't into femdom.
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that's why my ideal femdom situation is me forcing a little rubber gimp to be my slut. i can turn him into something inhuman because 3d is disappointing. bondage bitches are cute.
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why do i find this body so hot. look at how small his waist is
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the male form can be really really nice
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comment if you want the source
Hypnosis. You can do all sorts of things with it if a person is susceptible: make them feel under the hypnosis full-body bondage, heightened arousal, and/or submissiveness.
Things that take more work and would be outside the hypnosis sessions would be something like making your partner come on cue (like snapping fingers or something). You could teach your sub to have multiple orgasms this way.
It sounds very fascinating to me but it does take more work. My husband has said he'd be into it so I think we'll explore this, I've been reading a couple of books on the subject and it looks like it'll take some effort and time but making that kind of connection sounds really hot to me.
Are you the ratmy in the btshit thread on Choachan
The usage of nona is alarming
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Can't help but think you embellished this story a bit anonReminded me of my own high school days when my friends and I would ara ara middle school boys kek
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farmers help me find the source it's urgent
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tfw u aren't hot ceo girl with model sub
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Here you go, anon. http://missosology.info/forum/viewtopic.php?f=15&t=91761
It's from a magazine from the Philippines called 'Preview'. People in your picrel are Georgina Wilson and Borgy Manotoc.
If only you allowed it — he would be busy thrusting himself against it all day. He just loves the feeling of glass against his shaft, it’s weird how much excitement he gets out of it. Though your idea for a hot evening is something fairly different, and tell him he can do it as a reward if things go well according to Noona’s expectations. That means: Baby Tae can’t mess up. Given it’s a double tip dildo, everything is rather easy to handle. One side snakes into his ass making Taehyung’s face go all funny because the glass is ribbed. The other side, for a little diversion, makes itself at home between his lips now and then when you think he’s enjoying what his prostate feels a bit too much. Well, he can’t cum either way, his cock ring is too tight for that. Yet he really puts some efforts into swallowing the dildo properly so you will put it in his ass again as fast as possible to go on ruining it. That calls for a few strong rubs on Taehyung’s dick to frustrate him a bit more. His moans alone are enough to satisfy your need to hear him submit so easily, but having him collapse fatigued and sweaty in the sheets after so much stimulation is the best gratification. After cleaning it a bit, he gets his two-sided dildo back to hump against until he sleeps, but has to promise baby will give Noona his extra attention after she wakes up with his tongue in return.
Just like >>164850
I'm also exactly 5ft, maybe just under (kms but besides the point) and my bf is taller and not tiny/fem/waifish at all. He's quite strong and throws me around all the time, in fact, but when he's being submissive in bed, he acts like he can't break free from me holding his hands over his head. It's way more hot and interesting than domming feminine men imo, I'm not attracted to that type at all.
Yeah maybe some women prefer men weaker than them because they wanna be Dom in all aspects and not only have him “allow” you domming him.
Not sure how you connected the dots for being weak and relating that to femboys and feminine men
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I despise femboys who get off on wearing womens lingerie. It really makes me wanna barf. However, if a man only wore feminine lingerie, because i wanted him to, i would love watching him be embarrassed about it. Where do i find a cute and shy submissive man?
Nta but I have seen in a few image boards use "nona" or "anona" when they reffer to female anons.
It's a little unnecesary to use it here tho.
Sage for ot
For using imageboard terms lol?
Seems like u need to
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You could agree over text to blindfold, gag and tie him up and then put wordless music on so you can take your time to then decide what you want to do
The sad truth is you just need to build up your confidence, awkwardness is all in your head, sex is stupid anyway so you should worry about it less
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This is from the mv for No. 1 by F.Cuz if anyone wants to see more bloody k-pop boys in chains. It's not particularly sexual in context but obv they knew what they were doing.
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God… That's a hot sub, makes me wanna eat it…
Yeah wtf? We post art of sub guys here all the time but real men are off limits? >>160177
was popular, this is a thread for femdoms who obviously appreciate male subs. None of the photos posted are even nude or porn. What's the issue?
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This is hilarious, hot gif but I thought the dude's butt was his shoulders at first and as my gaze dropped lower it was all "oh god why is his ass so flat and wide and moving in odd ways!?" Thought I was looking at some Silent Hill beast>>166105
Lmao fair assessment, I wish it was messy!
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how do i peg a cute guy
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Fuck that’s hot. Watch her hand holding the leash. Her firm grip of his cock. Her strict instructions. Focus, boy. I can totally see myself in this. Lying there with a plan, in full control, while he’s so horny he doesn’t even know what he’s doing anymore.
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GIVE ME HOUSEHUSBAND NOW>>166772
Cringe af lmao Sounds like selfpost
You don't want to scare them away, the vanilla boys, so you test them a little first. You take it slow, see if he complains. The prettiest ones always seems to be the dullest. Such a waste of face.
Maybe we meet in a club somewhere. Looks bouncing back and forth over the dance floor, me trying to decide if he's good looking enough. We do this a couple of times, so we obviously like each other. If eyes could fuck, that's what we're doing. Eye fucking. Seconds later he comes up to me, and we get all hey how are you what's your name my name is. We kiss.
And then my fingers in his hair. I give him that look, that makes or breaks everything. I grab his hair to fixate his face in front of mine, study his expression. If he gets all soft now, relaxes his jaw, opens his mouth a little bit, I will know. If he melts, gets all glowy-eyed from the light pain and my decisive gaze, game is on, I can bring him home. Cha-ching.
Even if he hasn't done it before, gotten ripped apart I mean, he will like it. He might think he doesn't like it, but when his cock is hard enough, and when I refuse to let him put it inside of me, he'll accept whatever sex I give. Even if it's just me, pulling his hair, biting his neck. After that, I'll let him inside. When I've gotten what I wanted, what I really want, to make him give me what I want, it doesn't matter to me what we do anymore. He can have it, because I've already collected what I went out for.
So, I’ve started writing some kind of erotic book. What do you think? Would you buy it? Haha. I literally have no idea if this is the shit, or just shit, but it’s me.
>>166922>it doesn't matter to me what we do anymore. He can have it
Said no dominant woman ever>>166873
The ideal. I need to start reading that manga again.
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i wanna tie marty mcfly to a chair and slap him until he cries. femdom usually doesn't do anything for me, but the idea of this gets my heart racing
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Anyone think that their femdom fetish is a result of actually hating men? Not a scrote but a woman who became pink pilled and radfem like 2 years ago? I don't watch porn so I can't attribute it to that. The most 'femdom' I've done with a guy is making him beg for me to do something. However, lately I think I get more turned on by thinking of a guy tied up, hard, and yet completely helpless and desperate. Tying up a hot muscular guy seems really hot but I don't think it would act out well IRL. I don't want a scrote who is into bdsm already bc men like that are always abusive
and weird as fuck but I also wanna tie up a man like picrel and make him beg?>>166728
Who is this?
>>167486>Anyone think that their femdom fetish is a result of actually hating men?
Absolutely. After becoming "pinkpilled" I began to always see Mdom/Fsub dynamics as either inherently misogynistic, overdone, disgusting or just really boring - it's uninteresting to not have any control over a guy. After being genuinely mad at men for, well, almost everything, I legit began taking sexual pleasure in their degradation - it felt kinda good to see them getting a taste of their own medicine, even if it was just one guy who's not particularly sexist. But that might be also influenced by my innate sexual preferences, I might've just "unlocked" femdom after being on the internet for long enough lol.>Tying up a hot muscular guy seems really hotShit yeah
it is. This has been my fantasy for a while now, wish I had a bf to do this to, lol. Also, there are scrotes that do enjoy this stuff and who aren't abusive
, male subs are way more common than most people think. Hell, they're men, so you can meme them into getting their dicks up for literally anything.
>>167486>Anyone think that their femdom fetish is a result of actually hating men?
Not for me. Men are collectively shit but I fully believe that a select few can be okay and I wouldn't get anything out of being sexual with someone I genuinely hate because shit men don't deserve my attention. I don't dominate my boyfriend because I hate him I do it because it's hot and turns me on kek
Imo if things you are scared of or hate are effecting you so much that you can't enjoy sex without your traumas affecting you then you should probably get help in case you develop an extreme paraphilia
You’re the only one shitting up the thread with your whiny self, I’m shitting on femsubs in a thread full of dommes, so what pissy pants
Female subs had a field day in the BDSM thread shitting on femdom and female doms
But of course we can never talk about stuff like that here, we even had a red text for nonette asking for cute subs the other day
OP states that>female subs interested in women
are also included. Just because you don't like domming women doesn't mean other women don't. And yes, those subs are retarded too for shitting on dommes. The truly cringe BDSM practitioners are scrotes, whether doms or subs. Talking about those actively involved in the "community", not normie mostly vanilla dudes with mild dom or sub tendencies.
>>167557 > The truly cringe BDSM practitioners are scrotes
This. >>167554 > I’m shitting on femsubs in a thread full of dommes
… >Thread for:>dommes>femdom images and media>femdom fantasies>female subs interested in women
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Axel C, some lesser known male model. He only has a few spicy pics, so make due with what you can find for now, girlies. >>167526
Thanks anon, this sounds similar to me. It didn't totally originate from PP/radfem stuff >>167530
, I actually hated being degraded in bed and liked doing light stuff like begging and withholding/edging. I definitely was not into being dominated at all despite being a HBIC with that myth that people who have a ton of control over their lives like to surrender during sex. I just hate the idea of men controlling me by default which is probably why I leaned more into femdom vs sub shit.
Kind of curious what factors might influence our likeliness to get into femdom. Like I said, I didn't get into this bc of porn but because of my general disgust with any likeness of reenacting sexism during sex. I think a lot of female subs are led into it by cultural misogyny and the sex industry for instance. >>167532
Well for one, start with easy stuff like begging for you to continue whatever you're doing. Then you might gradually move from there, but if you don't then that's fine, I personally am not into pegging.
But most importantly, in regards to your old/current fetishes, don't be disappointed if they remain despite you trying to forget or move on from them. Imo fetishes take a longer time to 'undo' than we'd think. You're better off turning to femdom material and shutting out any female sub stuff but just be aware that your fantasies are still gonna continue bc of how long you were solely attracted to being dominated by a guy. I still accidentally and unwantedly get visuals of degrading porn videos that I watched in middle school when I masturbate and have sex but I'm in my 20s and haven't watched porn in years. It sucks but imo we can't be free of this shit entirely.
Look at pics of guys you fancy and imagine what you would like to do to them or make them do?>>167548
I'm bi but I want to be much nicer to women, and much rougher with guys. I feel like men can take it and women get so much crap already.
I have always been like that. Wrestle the boys, kiss the girls.
That is why I said
“Ami I the only one”
I already know I’m in the minority that’s why I asked if anyone else felt the same, connect the dots.
You’re jumping head first without even understanding why I said anything I said
I just find female submissiveness inherently gross, why am I not allowed to say that in a thread about female domination
Also for you and>>167563
I never excluded female subs from this thread, this is a thread about female dominants, not about female submissives, so I don’t actually have to include them in shit.
Also can stand how you misquoted me by removing the fact that my full sentence was>I hate and look down on STRAIGHT femsubs
I.E women with dominant men.
Not once did I mention generally a relationship between a femsub and femdom except when speaking for myself
So don’t act like I’m shoving this narrative that you made for me by misquoting me.
Don’t reply because I know you have nothing to say to me than blame me for whatever I feel.
I think for me it's just linked to having an anxiety disorder. I need to feel in control of situations.
I have friends who report that they've fucked guys and the guy just randomly decides to try out a tight hand around their neck or some other spontaneous act that they can't know she wanted.. I've always been clear that anything like that will make me go apeshit.
Even in very vanilla relationships I've never had a guy push my head down mid bj or anything like that. If all sex was like that (seems to be alarmingly normalized now to dom women without them asking for it) then I couldn't do it. Give me a more passive partner and a whole discussion on what we both want beforehand.
There is nothing disordered about not wanting a man to suddenly do unpleasant and violent things to you in bed. That's just normal and not even femdom.
>>167585 >Anxiety disorder?
I'm ESL so I don't know what the confusion is over but I was trying to describe that my diagnosed anxiety disorder and me being Domme do relate to each other to an extent. Feeling in control when you spend so much of your life feeling out of control is cathartic. I know some subs find that handing over control is equally cathartic. My partner is like that.
>There is nothing disordered about not wanting a man to suddenly do unpleasant and violent things to you in bed
You don't have to tell me that. I wasn't calling anybody disordered for hating spontaneous sex acts. I don't know what got lost in translation.
I already clarified that I'm esl and what I was trying to say got lost in translation. I would've deleted the post if I had caught the confusing wording in time.
Is that Victoria and David Beckham??
Honestly if this was their real dynamic I'd be thriving. IT's also very early 2000s though.
He cheated on her with their kids live in nanny, she was humiliated when that went public and it was a huge news story for months afterwards. The nanny sold all sorts of intimate details to the press and dragged out the humiliation in drips and drabs. There's always been rumours about other affairs that got hushed up.
I don't know if they do that stuff in private but she's the one that took some serious humilation off him and I'll never understand why she stayed. The shit he put her through.
I have severe anxiety which could explain it. My only partner (now ex) once started choking me (strangling*) after I had previously discussed to him multiple times how weird/gross I found it to be. He said that he just wanted to try it and see if I liked it, and never did it again. Should have been a red flag but I was naive. Surprisingly our sex life was normal after that until we broke up.
How did you all meet guys who are into this? I find muscular guys to be the hottest but I see where >>167590
is coming from as well, though I'm personally not attracted to feminine guys. I also don't want a guy who's into anal or pegging.>>167929
Tie him up well.> he said some careless things that weren't intended to hurt my feelings appearance-wise
What did he say?
I've always been more dominant in my relationships (except for one which was utterly abusive
) and I actively seek out more submissive men as my partners. I've never had the opportunity with a guy who clearly is responsive to being submissive and is secure in that role. However, it is true I have that fear of physical strength which is a holdover from the abusive
relationship I was in. In terms of him finding me attractive, he always mentions how his friends/brother-in-law/etc. think I'm hot, but he has a hard time directly stating that to me, which is what I want rather than him telling me I'm hot in other ways. I recently told him this so we'll see how it goes.
I enjoy being dominant in the relationship and during sex, I'm just scared to because of my extensive history with being raped/harmed during sex and because I give in at times to my low self esteem.
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NS if we’re allowed to post stuff like this but this was a recent thing that happened to a Domme that’s in femdom circles on Twitter.https://twitter.com/mommameela/status/1351372357848473601>You knew I was uncomfortable with being submissive and still forced me to submit by choking me and facefucking me
All that energy and she still>LmaoZzzzzZZZ
at the fact that she got raped what the fuck
OK, first things first: 99% of the porn out there is for straight dudes' consumption and delight. It's why it's so emotionally dead, narratively uninteresting, hollow, and focused on super shallow visuals alone. No wonder that the mainstream shit that's not meant for you does not turn your crank.
It does nothing for most of dominant women, either. I've never met a dominant woman who is actually 100% into what Kink.com and worse think femdom is… that shit is for guys whose fetish is "Dominatrix Sex Dispenser", not Female Dominant/sub male/female. It's slim pickings out there, but some of the amateur stuff can be good.
My advice? Start exploring this side of yourself by reading. Get into blogs like Miss Pearl's, read some good erotica that's focused on female dominants. Those are less about men, men, men, and their magical weenies that are set as the focus and center of everything in supposedly female-lead BDSM.
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no bondage though
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not femdom per se but cute
This sounds something you two have not negotiated, or that you haven't enthusiastically agreed to. Consent is given/not given every time you do something. Sounds like you're not very enthusiastic if he "makes you" do things.
He's not a "dom", he's just pushy. There's a difference. Doms have power because it's something subs give to them willingly and happily, and that's not the case here by what you say. Grow a spine and tell him what you do want to do and what you don't want to do, and stick by it. If he "makes" you do shit you have not agreed to do, walk the fuck out.
Yeah you're right, I've always thought this. I mean we have discussed it, he knows I am a bit of a onion knight. I do like playing sub, I just can't fully get him to be MY sub. He does listen to me during sex, but yeah, he can be pushy.
I just don't want to be too much of a dick, I don't put sex as a huge priority in my book.
I've always had sub bfs, first time being with a dom, its cute but im also lowkey bored.
Cheers for advice, i'll try to open up to him more.
You've said you're bored in this relationship, and that you don't place a big priority on sex.
Just tell him what you want, anon. Be really fucking blunt. Put away this wishy-washy nonsense. It sounds like you're drifting through this relationship like a half-filled inflatable sex doll tumbling through an empty parking lot. What the fuck does this have to do with FEMDOM, eh? Or any kind of female sexual agency? Fucking nothing.
Locate your spine, and tell your useless boyfriend what you want out of sex. Why are you even fucking him if he can not make you take an interest in sex? Dom, my ass.
>>168408>boyfriend rapes my mouth and I go along with it because I like him I guess, how should I convince him stop raping me?
What the hell, am I reading this wrong or something?? I hate that women accept this and I hate knowing that it's rarely even questioned. This is not normal or healthy sexuality this is a man using a woman as a living sex toy >I just don't want to be too much of a dick
The irony of a woman using a term referring to a part of male anatomy in order to explain how advocating for herself would be rude. >>168404
Decent palate cleanser but goddamn
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(from the announced Resident Evil 8)
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>ywn have a yakuza malewife
why even live
Eating pussy is not gentle femdom?
Im sorry m'lady.
This is so weird to me. Getting oral is the best thing ever.
If someone finds good female gaze femdom art and fiction, please share here.
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This is why I’ve resorted to gay bdsm porn these days. Or searching “gay” videos of sexy guys jerking off. At least I can imagine they’re doing it for my entertainment. For the most part the men are really attractive (I don’t know why they’re all fugly saggy ogres even if they’re young in het videos) and they properly focus on men’s bodies. Oh and you can hear men’s moans rather than the constant distracting shrieking of a porn actress faking it. Only downside is the visual of a dude fucking another dude’s ass just isn’t the same as seeing him pleasure a woman, but ah well. The concessions you make.
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You seems to have your mind stuck somewhere. There are plenty of sub guys eating pussy.
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As a fan of the actually cool Hector in Curse of Darkness, my mind says no. But my pussy says yes.
Maybe he’s not that good at it kek. But joking aside I’ve always thought this was dumb too. All of my retarded exes had this fetish for receiving or giving oral while the other person does something else/talks on the phone (which I did not indulge them in). I want to be able to relax and pay attention to the feeling and be noisy without worrying about the pizza delivery dude/tte figuring out what’s going on. Typical that scrotes would be more aroused by aspects of embarrassment, voyeurism and potential fucking predation (in the sense of making an innocent bystander part of your kinks) than actual physical pleasure alone.
The only time I could maybe be on board with this is having a sub give you oral while you’re reading, working on the computer or doing some other solo activity and making it a game where if he manages to get you to lose focus/drop what you’re doing he gets praise otherwise you punish him more.
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Where women have total dominance and it doesn't drift into scrote BDSM? No
Artist is duskyhallows.
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Shinji is gay!!!!
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Does anyone else feel uncomfortable being objectified sexually? I know it's not directly related to femdom, but I think it's a big reason why I enjoy it. It makes me sick how the average man thinks of women: how they think of buying their girlfriend's lingerie (and going as far to think of it as a present), how they mainly value their girlfriend in terms of how much she dolls herself up while he dresses like a dumb teenager, they think about doing things to her and using her like a living blowup doll instead of thinking in terms of her pleasure, and so on.
I don't want any of that, I want the guy to pander to me and objectify himself for me. Unfortunately for most sub guys this means trying to present himself as a woman because it's just SO humiliating to be one, or still pretending like he's serving her sexually while all the activities still revolve around his dick. Yuck.
Yes, it's disgusting. We've been forced to view sex through the eyes of men, and they innately see the act as one of dominance and submission due to the fact it involves a man and a woman and our genitals are devalued (obviously, in het sex). As Atwood said, we are trained to be "a woman with a man inside watching a woman. You are your own voyeur." I'm not turned on by myself, wearing makeup and lingerie is not titillating to me, I'm nor aroused by my own moans or degredation. But men want
me to enjoy those things because it serves them. I like watching, touching and interacting with men, yet we're supposed to just passively "accept" sex without ever once thinking of our own desires. I hate that we're conditioned like this.
Sadly, sometimes the only way you can have sex with a guy in a way that allows you to enjoy your own desires is if you meet them on their own playing field where it's always one person or another in control (and you want to be the one in control if you want any pleasure). I do actually enjoy femdom, the kink aspects, but it's sad to me that "normal" sex often defaults to controlling/forcing a woman to do stuff she's uncomfortable with rather than a balanced exchange of pleasure. Honestly if regular sex tended to be "fairer" I'd feel less of a need for femdom, but as it stands I won't put my sense of personhood at risk.
This reminded me I used to be the most pathetic pickme, always saying how I liked generic porn thing x and y to please the men but secretly being into femdom. So it is not always about hating men. >>168808
It seems to be mostly made by virgin men. I remember one manga where a woman sit on a mans face and he licked her pussy hole instead of clitoris. She came from this of course.
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Why does this thread always drift into scrote hatred/venting?
Seems like a lot of Anons want a malesub because they got screwed over or forced into stuff they didn't wanted to by their prior partners.
Pro-tipp: A malesub won't fix your fucked up relationship with males.
Asukafag is a male confirmed
I personally like the scrote venting because it's one more thing to scare off moids who lurk and post within this thread. Vent as much as you want ladies and make it graphic. <3
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>>169258>No, but a man who genuinely enjoys being submissive and giving pleasure to his partner is a lot more enticing than a typical scrote, especially for those coming from traumatic backgrounds.
And there is nothing wrong with this.> The point is that BDSM is an inherently fucked up masculine concept (and I say this even as someone who enjoys it) and you find shades of it even in most casual encounters with the prevalence of strangulation, spanking, anal obsessions, etc.
So you admit you got screw over by dom scrotes, even enjoy it but complain about it?>>169259
I'm not >>169184>>169260>>169262
Maybe you should have told the scrote what he is doing wrong, instead of play and pretend. If he doesn't see that he has to improve or right out deny it, he wasn't worthy to begin with.
>>169317>It's not because women are more considerate, it's because they can't physically overpower the man without his consent.
Most women are more considerate though, constantly tip-toeing around people and taking into account their feelings. Just look at all the women who don't have orgasms for years because they are too afraid of obliterating their partner's ego into atoms. All the women who won't say no to basic shit because they want to put others first. Hell, even all the dominant women who are used as kink dispensers because even in their own fucking fetish they can't put themselves first. Men definitely don't do this because their egos are so incredibly inflated.
Dominance in BDSM is mostly a mental thing rather than physical. Dom men don't even use their physical strength most of the time and even if they did and she didn't want it, she could knee him in the balls until he vomits or poke his eyes out. Women just play docile most of the time and let men play out their dominant fantasies. And sub men do the same thing with women.
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I'm whoring out my Reiner Braun and lovely farmers are invited. We will be donning fancy masks and sipping champagne as we decide on how he may best entertain us.
Sauce on the artist? I love the style.
Also, I'm not into femdom personally for own sex but I'm digging all these pics and stories. It's not my kink but I get it and like it? Is that a thing?
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girrrlll it's ur kink.
and no, I have never been with a man who considered himself dom lmao. As I said, I enjoy being dominant because men like to default to trying to order you around even during normal sex, which I will not tolerate. But I see you missed the point while hyperfixating on a few words you intentionally misinterpreted so you could build a strawman. Typical scrote.
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Maid outfit and cat ears for $100
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at first i thought it was Joaks but when she started getting defensive i was like oh shit you for REAL forreal.
sage for horrendously off-topic but this artist haunts my psyche and i needed to tell someone. i will accept my ban with grace
But this is not somehow not surprising behaviour from someone who draws gross eva art.
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Now I'm laughing on a zoom work call dammit anon >>169460
Why does he have glasses on? Why is their bed just a pink floating blob so many questions
What motivates you?
I mean men suck and shouldn't be doms, so it's understandable.
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>>169596>how many subs who actively seek dommes are actually just pornsick freaks?
Literally all of them sis. Don't fuck self-identified sub men. That's the motto of this thread.>>169605
I imagine you sub to some men and top others? You wouldn't switch with the same man would you? Just don't fuck with "dom" faggots and realize that all men are beneath you. You shouldn't force something that doesn't feel natural anyway.
idk i do switch with the same man and it does feel natural to me and that's why i can't help but be ashamed as someone who leans radfem
. i stay away from both self-identified doms AND subs, just normie guys who are open-minded enough to do mild kink
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Is it bad that I think porn that degrades women should be abolished but I'm okay with and like seeing men objectified? …but I should include that I don't watch porn because there's literally nothing to watch for the female gaze and nothing that would even be ethical for the women involved the way that the current porn industry stands.
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Nice, this is super sexy. The buff metalhead bf we all deserve >>169959
I think so. For men to be objectified within one particular niche while they still hold the vast amount of power in society and interpersonal relationships at large is a totally different dynamic than doing the same to women who are objectified everywhere
even in reality. And again this is why I watch gay porn, especially solo stuff. The guys are hot and the focus is on them. Although I try to avoid even that because it's on the same sites that produce straight stuff and I don't want to give them the traffic/ad money.
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Thanks anons I tried hard to contribute to this thread after doing so many text posts haha>>169978
Pls recommend some sites for solo male stuff, I find guys jerking off to be hot
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I usually go to xvideos.com and if you click the cog in the upper right corner and set your category to gay you'll get way better options. When you search "jerk off" in straight mode you get women assisting pigs but do it in gay mode and you get cute solo guys like >>169865
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Same! He's got that dark eroticism that doesn't get porny.
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Anyone know the studio Skiinmode? Should maybe go in the conventional male thread but personally their stuff puts me in a very domme mood since it's so female gazey (I'm sure intended to be gay but too bad). I have a preference for ripped Asian guys so I find their models crazy sexy.
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All Skiinmode! Also, fundoshi anon if you're still here this is for you
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One of my favorite low key femdom series is Spartacus. Bunch of buff half-naked (sometimes fully naked) men running around being commanded to fight each other and kept as slaves by a domina. It's macho and misogynistic sometimes but it's good trashy fun and Lucy Lawless is their owner. As always, a total queen. Highly recommend for those who enjoy mindless warrior men killing and fucking things as in the stylings of 300
you do realise women are not a monolith, don't you, dude?>>170465
no one cares. this is not a thread for your need for validation and compliments.
I swear this exact same conversation has happened before with the same ending of 'thanks for complimenting me' even though the scrote was never complimented either time. >>170385
Fan of this
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anyone else here watch succession and really enjoy gerri and roman’s dynamic ?
i really hope they have proper sex in season 3
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>female subs interested in women
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tips on how to take yourself more seriously in a dom roll? i've been a sub my entire life but my bf has some kinks that i think would make him a great sub, and i think it could make our sex life leagues better. i just can't seem to get over myself enough to go for it. please help anons
The question you should be asking yourself is, why do you actually want to Domme? Especially if you've always subbed… I've never subbed myself and have zero interest of doing so, ever, I'm not wired that way.
If you're a sub, you need to figure out WHY you think you want to top someone. It's a lot more responsibility and work than subs think, and since your boyfriend is not actually submissive and hasn't raised the topic of wanting you to top him… ask yourself what's going on with you yourself at the moment.
It's natural to be curious, and some people are switches, but switches generally do know that they swing both ways in terms of power play. Right now it sounds like you're trying to make both your BF and yourself something neither of you actually is, or is showing much interest in.
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i want a manpet to just live in my house and be my pet but i dont know how to live on my own or even talk to people :(((((
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getting a pet moid
Not at all. Service is what separates actual male subs from scrotes looking for wank material and kink-dispensers instead of a domme. It's a cornerstone of a good D/s relationship that's getting brushed aside by the popularity of BDSM porn, and especially the male-and-dick centric variety of BDSM porn.
Service/slave/human furniture/butler kinks all centre on something else besides or in addition to male pleasure and their pee-pees whims. They're great kinks to explore if you're into femdom, and I wish they got more attention.
Cool, mines amorsalvaje#0944>>170941
I get the appeal but it doesnt turn me on personally. but i understand. even when males fantasize about being submissive to women, the focus is always on THEM. impact play? its all about his pain. Crossdressing? his humiliation. chastity? his poor horny weiner.
but i also understand THAT scrote mentality. im a switch and whenever im submissive, idgaf about "serving" my dom i just wanna get facefucked.
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Okay Imma say it
"""SWITCH""" THOTS OUT
Also known as "starfish subs", i.e. selfish, lazy lovers who happen to enjoy bottoming.
Actual subs do love to serve and please their Doms, and D/s most certainly is not all about doing stuff for and to the sub - that's frankly laughable, unless the arrangement is explicitly about a service top servicing the sub. Doms are not kink dispensers and pleasure providers for subs, no matter what scrotes would like to believe.
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Where can you find non-scrotey lesbian femdom?
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Submission literally entails submitting to someone else and putting their desires first. It's alarming how many people think being submissive means laying back and receiving all the pleasure and focus. Sorry, but if that's the bulk of your dynamic, that's just an unpaid job servicing a scrote where the woman gets no physical pleasure out of it. There's a reason why most guys can't find a "real" domme and have to resort to paying sex workers. It's also pretty embarrassing seeing some women claim to be dominant, but in the end they're just bending over backwards a bottom of the barrel scrote, just in a different flavor. Makes me want to shake them and tell them to take and do what they want and what pleases them (within well-defined boundaries, of course).
What is your obsession with butlers? "Service" means something else entirely in the BDSM context than just being a butler lol>>171164
You're right on the money here. A lot of so-called sub scrotes aren't interested in actually submitting to a woman - they just have a dominatrix fetish. They want that dolled-up dominatrix in a latex catsuit, and they want her to do everything they
desire, with no agency or sexual interests of her own. She might as well be replaced by a particularly tacky lamp, for all the humanity she's granted.
(scroll down to"Show your Wife proper respect") https://menservewomenrule.tumblr.com
This is the most "extreme" found, it reads like fantasy, and is directed at men, but it does checks out any "sub box" you may possibly have.
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This thread needs more crybaby cuties but it’s surprisingly hard to find good scrunched up real crying faces. The stoic one tear coming down just doesn’t do it.
I can’t decide what’s sexier, the idea of making them cry or the idea of comforting them after or doing both. Is it bad that I find that clip so much hotter because it’s a genuinely humiliating situation he doesn’t want to be in? Feels slightly rapey / scrotey but I abhor the idea of doing anything a male wants me to do, but cuddling him after when he’s all upset is my sicko emotionally abusive
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I just want to humiliate a cute guy until he bursts into tears and then lick them all up.
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Name is Elise Graves apparently
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Have some more (it's Akechi from Sengoku Basara)
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hey i found the weirdest guy ever hes soooo submissive even to stuff he doesn't like but he's nice to talk to, his discord is [redacted](USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)
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You're in a poly relationship - we don't know the dynamics of your thing with your BF. This is something you should discuss with your primary partner, not internet strangers who do not know you or your situation.
If you're poly, you presumably have some boundaries in place you've mutually agreed on. Discuss the issue based on that, with your BF.
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That might be a love language thing for you, additionally - but it absolutely is a kink thing too, and in my opinion a very important one. It's all too easy for female doms to be relegated to a kink dispenser role, as women generally need to make a conscious effort learn to put themselves first, be selfish, and be the one whose comfort/pleasure/whims are prioritised… especially in het relationships.
Service is very important in getting both parties into the right headspace for the the dynamic, for a lot of people. D/s isn't just about fucking for many of us, and service seems to be satisfying for subby types, in direct proportion to how useful and pleasing it is to doms. I recommend the book "Real Service" by Raven Kaldera & Joshua Tenpenny - it's a great look into the topic and why it is so key for so many kinky people, and it's pretty affordable as an e-book.
Service has always put me in the right mindspace as a dom because it always makes me feel like I'm actually getting what I want and the submissive gives a damn about me. Seems counterintuitive but when I'm loved and cared for it makes me want to have control over someone that much more.
Domming in the bedroom surprisingly doesn't give me the same feeling of control, unless there's painplay involved and the sub isn't a (physical) masochist but they're enduring it for me. It's too fucking easy for me to turn into a service top and prioritize my partner's fetishes because they put up with all my weird shit.
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Are submissive boys allowed to post here or is this a 'no boyz allowed' zone?(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)
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yawn. no. nothing submissive about a guy literally just standing there lol.
also? way to make femdom malecentric.
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is this okay? sorry i just really like fit men
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Completely agree, but they should go in a hot men thread instead.>>172619
As long as there is some sub theme like blindfold it's fine. Please post more fit men.
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find source please
Actual porn is banned.>>173227
kek that is not a "female friendly pronz image". Anon your taste suck ass
>>173241>porn industry is awful and only care about scrotes
I spent like 10mins last night trying to find a good video to watch, searched things like shy boy, nervous guy, virgin, first time and was just met with heaps of moid shit instead.
even trying amateur didnt help, makes me reeeee
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>>173241>It's time for the anons with hot sub boyfriends to get good cameras and whore them out for us.
This unironically.>>173280>force to make an OnlyFans
Omg you genius.
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my bf(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)
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You didn't think this through
In a patriarchy the mentality is that women are products and the moids are the consumers. The porn industry is based on this, so you will never find anything for you on these moid porn sites.
If we want something, we have to create it ourselves.
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Exactly, timestamp and handposting required, dumb scrote
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Report them when you see them.
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If you are: femdom, degenerate, like horror and have a high tolerance for gore and grotesquerie I highly recommend Shiga Hime. It’s not heavily smutty, but the main women in the manga are essentially dominant, violent, monstrous vamps that turn humans (in this case, boys and men) into their “familiars” to hunt for them. There are definite aspects of sexual control, humiliation and manipulation, plus seeing these powerful women toy with scrotes’ lives and scenes like picrel are great even if it’s not explicit. It’s also just good in general with an interesting plot, so check it out if you want a horror/femdom crossover kick.
Not yet, as my boyfriend and I are long-distance. >>173595>not act as someone's mommy.
It doesn't have to be like that at all. In my ideal relationship, my partner would act as an autonomous servant rather than someone I need to micromanage constantly. He's equal to me, but serves me and is vulnerable to me because it's his way of showing love towards me. Not because he incompetent and needs me to whip him into doing things. I hate indecisive and passive men.
Samefagging to add the Imgur folder someone on the fetish thread made (thanks) https://anony.link/https://imgur.com/a/U9nOQ66>Oh god mommy I'll be your good little whore
>>173624>He's equal to me, but serves me and is vulnerable to me
I mean, this just sounds like a normal healthy relationship. A good partner does things for you because it makes you happy, which makes them happy. >an autonomous servant
But this doesn't sound as pleasant. As soon as it becomes "I'm doing this for my partner because they expect it of me" then it loses the magic. Can you find a partner who is naturally very giving and keen on doing things your way? Yes, and I support that. But there will be days when they're not feeling up to it and times when they deserve support. Maybe you just want a househusband which is fine, but the whole female/male-led and servant terminology is innately unequal.
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Don't be afraid, he's friendly.
I really don't understand how this is mainstream now. I'm surprised there are women out there whose vaginas don't turn into the Sahara desert after being called mommy.>>173655
Do you think it's unequal because I wouldn't give my partner the emotional support when he needed it? I would never let him suffer alone. And also, what if he naturally got the most joy from putting me first and pampering me, and that's how our relationship functioned inside and outside the bedroom? I guess maybe the terminology makes it sound unequal, but calling him my servant is just a fetishy thing for me. We'd both enjoy it, I'd never coerce or cajole him into anything.
I agree with you nonny
. It sounds like we’re on the same page and you’re describing a solid relationship where your partner genuinely likes catering to your desires frequently/more than the other way around despite still being treated as a whole person. I think that’s fine and it was an issue of terminology as you said. I’ve heard many scrotes use similar terms where they just want a fetish mommy to treat them poorly in the ways they want to be treated poorly rather than actually catering to her wants/needs.
I know what you mean, for example when I hear female-led relationship from a scrote I think "a 24/7 365 day arrangement where my mommy slav- I mean my domme wife spends hours of her free time edging me, putting me in chastity, finding men to cuck me with, and disciplining me so she can get me to do the dishes a couple times a week." I would love to hear about those from actual women who brought up the idea, but it's always the pornsick man who forces his poor victim
to do even more emotional/sexual labor for him.
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the sort of scenario I was imagining. I couldn't think of something I'd want to spend my time on less. I feel the dommes in those scenarios are operating under the delusion that they actually have some measure of power when in reality it's just another bastardized male fantasy.
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I don't fucking care. Everyone's the same height when I sit on their face. I like buff and bear-type guys personally, not uwu little boys.
This is very male-centric and seems kind of sus - reminds me of whiny reddit dudes who insist that all women discriminate against them based on their height and that it is soooo unfaaaaiiiir.
Let me rephrase. Would you enjoy living in a world where women were taller or same height as most men of the same ethnicity? I was thinking about animal species were the females are bigger and I kind of envy them.
I would enjoy being taller than men, and looking down on them kek. But I like the feeling of dominating someone bigger than me in bed.>>174023>Everyone's the same height when I sit on their face.
why the hell did a stupid little hand massage video make me feel all tingly and want to cover my face.
stupid cloud moaning like that too why are you so sensitive
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Please do, that sounds incredibly hot.
I had a series of non-relationship subs and then I had a long term relationship with a sub. I ran into issues with both set ups.
The downside to the relationship was that the subbing extended too much into the whole relationship. He thought highly of me, after a few years you see each other in all sorts of states, sick etc and he still worshipped me like I was the sexiest woman alive. Seemed ideal. One day he just up and left suddenly. ALl his stuff was moved out. Turns out there were issues he never opened up about and given our dynamic he never could open up or critisise me even post break up. So it created a communication issue that I never detected in time to save us. I'm still a lil stumped at what I could've done differently. Was honestly heartbroken by the sudden departure of this totally doting 24/7 partner. It came as a shock.
Then with non-relationship subs it always came down to them ultimately being selfish unreliable scrotes like any other no strings guy would be. They had a thing they wanted and it felt transactional to a degree that was offputting. I could have someone on call to just come over, please me and then fuck off again but finding someone that flexible is surprisingly hard. Sometimes it's so hard that you wonder if they actually have a gf they're dipping out on to come see you. Without having the relationship or connection part it's hard to truly know why their schedule is full one week. They go MIA and you're not in a position to know what is honestly happening. They call you Goddess and beg to see you..then waste your time by being flakey on plans. Then go back to the begging routine again.
The ones that bought me sex toys, clothes, wine were more useful than any other ones. I ended up understanding why alot of women pro-Domme. If they're not also paying you for your time then they're often just not worth the hassle of entertaining or trying to scehdule meet ups. They're still scrotes with the same frustrating traits as any others. I rambled but that's just my experience.
>>175296>I'd rather just have a man who only ever sees me as a goddess and not as my normal day to day self, kinda ruins the illusion imo.
Yuck, what is the point of trying to be some scrote's ideal fantasy goddess? The whole idea of femdom is that it's supposed to be for the woman. Also, I don't think genuine D/s works without deep love or romantic connection, unless you're just looking to do scenes every once in a while. In that case like >>175299
says it'll just end up being transactional and you'll end up feeling like an unpaid sex worker he cheats on his gf/wife with. That'll break the illusion more than him seeing your day to day self, lmao.
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There is a lot of talk here about finding a sub, but how does one go about finding a dominat woman? I have always desires to be in relationship with BDSM dynamics, but dominant women are extremely rare as they are, and adding additional requirement of same sex attraction make them basically non-existent. I am slowly loosing hope of ever having a mistress, and it is making me depressed to the point where I end up crying myself to sleep when I think about it.
Dominant women aren't rare, you just suck at finding them or being at all appealing to them. I'm so fucking tired of this "ratio" whining. It's bullshit, and just poor-pity-me attention whoring.
Most subs are incredibly bad at interpersonal communication and writing personal ads. Cry less and invest in yourself, and develop into someone who is actually interesting. This may sound harsh, but if you can't even write an interesting personal ad/introduction, no one's going to waste their time on you. That's all on you. Work on yourself, and develop into someone who can actually be interesting and pleasant to be around. Become someone who's actually worthwhile as a potential partner.
There are plenty of female dominants on the scene - hell, we're the majority of D type attendees at munches, typically. And if you're that soddenly sad about it, hire a professional if you cannot find a play partner otherwise. Take a little responsibility for your own happiness.
Did you not read the post, or…?
Look into self-help books and invest time in self-development. Work on becoming competent, independent, and capable. Develop an actual personality and get to understand yourself as a submissive and as a person. Figure out what you want out of life and get after it.
All of the things listed would make you a better sub and a better potential partner. Be proactive, and stop asking to be spoonfed everything.
When I vet for potential subs, I pass over anyone who's a whiny wet blanket, and who doesn't have a clear sense of self or personality. I'm looking for character, and a competent adult I don't have to play mommy-therapist to; nothing turns me off more. I'm sure there's a nurturing, nice mommydom out there who would absolutely love to mould someone, but it ain't me, babe. I want an adult who doesn't need to be mollycoddled into self-discovery.
If you still think you need "sub specific skills (sic)", your best bet is answering your own question: what kind of sub are you/do you want to be, and what kind of skills would that involve? I don't know, and I can't answer that for you. Good luck in working on yourself, anon.
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Thanks I guess. All I have left to figure out is what I like as a sub and how can I get it.>stop asking to be spoonfed everything.
I did just once cause you sounded like you had some secret knowledge kek. I am a worthwile partner, but I'm not 100% sure about being a good sub. I need to soulsearch a lot and read more on BDSM kek. Love this kind of shit.
To literally no one's surprise. Also that person seems severely underage.>>175793> "making" a domme and asking for things you like rather than them taking what they want
Ah the #1 sub sex move lol
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Can I ask something?
Isn't femdom supposed to be about using the submissive for your own pleasure at his/her own expense?
So I don't exactly get how "deepthroat him until he nuts", "fisting her pussy", or "I wanna get facefucked" gives you physical pleasure
Yes and no.
It might be hard to understand but some submissives are masochists and genuinely enjoy the physical pain.
In my experience, most female dommes get their pleasure from the mind games. For the same reason F/F D/S relationships are very hard to maintain long term. The pain itself is a tool to measure submissive’s devotion. Male doms are entirely different species and I don’t want to compare myself to them.
In example, my former sub once said that one casual interaction at school had strong d/s energy. It was while ago so I don’t really remember what I did - sabotaged her homework as a joke, maybe?
And that’s the beauty of femdom headspace. It’s all about the feeling of power/submission, not the act. The submissive gives permission to hurt her and that’s more important than the actual pain.
I personally don’t really care about hc torturing stuff. Talking with friends who are deep in the BDSM scene makes me feel like I’m super vanilla.
When I was young and reckless my favourite thing was to burn a submissive’s skin with a cigarette. I try to be more careful with my acts nowadays.
The problem with D/S energy in F/F relationships that it’s all about feelings and it makes things more complicated than wearing collar in a bedroom.
The power dynamics are unbalanced and you have to still respect the sub’s boundaries BUT testing boundaries can be an experiment too. The sub I mentioned earlier was very sensitive person with strong feelings, and so am I. The power shifting is emotionally draining and if there’s more than sex it becomes very hard to maintain in long term.
For some reason I have experienced that d/s dynamics work better with men. They don't usually put too much thought to the feelings of submission. Submission for men is about the physical act like sticking needles into the penis.
Most males who say they are submissive are not the right kind of submissive for me. They want to satisfy themselves. They do not think about the pleasure they can give me but the sex experience I’m giving for them. There is submissive men in the wild but they are usually not active in the scene.
Dominas in the scene are usually sex workers who fulfil client’s fantasy, it’s not FOR the dommes.
The most D/S energy I have witnessed is between married couples, where the man is kind of “pussy”.
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So it's about dominant pleasure vs. submissive pleasure
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Farmers I'm in need of help as a girl heavily into gfd and with some experience in it but with a delusional (?) personality.
Quite a while ago I found a sub guy in so to say a bad place for it. Honestly if I could tell the story in full detail farmers would have the greatest laugh of their life kek. Everything wasn't too bad for some time and he'd make a great sub in all the ways but at a few points he became absolutely uninterested in me (to the point of being interested in how other dommes would be) probably because of me being vulnerable and paranoid as hell because of my personality flaws and fucked up experiences that encouraged it. Maybe it was also triggered
because of him not finding me perfect because of my appearance and pereferences when it comes to domming. but after some challenges he says he changed and that it won't repeat and now he's interested in me only.
Even though I realize that something still feels off, I can't make myself be petty or angry or say something harsh for him treating me that way and maybe he is being honest this time and it's my fault for still feeling hurt.
The question is: am I loser of a domme? Is my attitude towards love for a sub is too self-harmful? And if a sub breaks my heart and gets interested in other dommes even for a short period of time and ends up feeling sorry for it does it mean he won't want to truly be my sub? Can you even be a domme if you're extremely empathetic and caring and can't be mentally assertive to the point of radiating dominance?
I wish you best luck on your quest of finding a sub but I think like >>176149
he would troon out.
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I don't have good advice, but I'm somewhat similar in that I'm not exactly "radiating dominance"? I'm really sensitive, I apologize a lot, and I'm constantly considering the feelings of others instead of just doing what I want. I've always seen it as myself having a bad personality for femdom, but you know what, fuck it. Just be how you are unapologetically. Femdom is for you, it's not your job to keep the interest of (let's be real here) pornsick retards or flakes who don't actually care about submitting to you personally.
If a guy told me he was interested in other woman, he would be out of my life in a second. You don't have to entertain that. You should be the one demanding more of him, not the other way around. Imo, dominance and submission especially shouldn't be taken lightly. If he can just go around and serve another domme you don't mean shit to him. He's just looking for someone to act out his fantasies with. Please find someone who actually loves you and wants to serve you.
My rule of thumb is: always expect enthusiasm. If he is leaving you guessing, he ain't it, sis.
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Thank you so much anon!
I doubt I could ever be passionate about domming some other sub than him so I can't just give up my interest in him and love for him, I couldn't handle knowing that I made him feel pain I felt or even sadness. I guess I have to just go with it.
I'd say dominance isn't just being assertive and unforgiving, it's also striving for what you truly want. Though I do feel the need to be proven love and dedication to me more as just the thought of him being interested in other girls and them domming him makes me sick to my stomach and I don't even know if it's just immature or just me feeling like it's a sign I won't be treated seriously enough and loved strongly enough. I'll have hope though.
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>>176300>Though I do feel the need to be proven love and dedication to me>feeling like it's a sign I won't be treated seriously enough and loved strongly enough
I definitely can relate to this. I feel very fragile in this type of relationship, because D/s is a matter of love and devotion to me. Unfortunately, it's not that way with a lot of submissives (both men and women), as >>176187
mentioned. Most likely the problem with your sub is that he probably doesn't see it as a relationship style/way of expressing love, but as a fun kinky thing to do. That's why he can imagine being with other women. Not to burst your bubble or be too harsh but he simply isn't taking it as seriously as you are. He's just along for the ride.
How do you change this? Well, you can't. Either someone loves you and wants to submit to you or they don't, you can't make them do so. Anything else is just them tolerating the relationship so they can get what they want out of it, ie. getting their rocks off or getting female attention and validation.
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Thank you but I kinda doubt it as he isn't very sexual and is very shy and careful when it comes to it and also keeps saying time to time how much he loves me and only needs me. The thing that gets in the way is that he told me these things even before the periods of becoming uniterested in me because of me being busy or nervous and not having some special hobbies or just not engaging in the same leisure activities he likes even though I tried to get involved in his interests and I sincerely enojyed it (I think he wanted to be involved in the stuff I do and not the other way around as seems like he sees it as dom / sub thing but I'm an unstable and busy introvert so it's not too easy for me even though I do try and am dominant and assertive when it comes to sexual and romantic stuff).
And that's why it's hard for me to feel secure as I used to believe that a true sub who is 100% dedicated to his domme could never make her feel not good enough or even think about talking to another domme or feel not entertained enough by a woman he loves, especially when it comes to gentle femdom. But in the end I'd say nothing is just black and white and simple in dom/sub relationships that are not only sexual.
Uhhhh nsis but a brat is just a sub that acts up to get punished by a riled up dom and gets off on that.
Not sure why it’s so hard to distinguish.
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cool pls go to a different thread thanks.
I’m the op for the quoted post and I’ll find it for u, I know the original source is actually some gay guy with really feminine hands kek
The moans were exquisite I came back for this goldie but it’s gone ugh
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Why do you make yourself subservient to give him pleasure? Instead of eating his ass and swapping his cum just fuck him with a strap and make him clean himself up.
You just sound like a pathetic service top.
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I feel like there is a huge disconnect between what femdom is to the general public and to anons here like myself, I shake it off as scrote perception of what femdom is like but the few femdom experiences I had the subs expected me to perform the latter, while other scrotes who are unaware of what I am into assume I'm a brat because I'm mean and controlling.
But I think it has more to it, the standard for femdom seem to be pegging, I'm not into pegging, a lot of anons swear it's male-centred femdom… fine, doing most of the work -in general- is the dom's job but only here I see people claim that it's the sub's job even though maledoms still do most of the work, part of the dom's job also involves aftercare and being a caretaker figure to the sub and almost infantilize them. those are the things I can think of right now that I'm not really into and would rather be on the receiving end for some of them.
I enjoy giving my partner (or males that I like) a hard time and I'd love to see them in handcuffs or bondage and I enjoy ordering them around and testing their limits emotionally, but I also don't really enjoy the company of most subs because they're whiny and expect too much which is reasonable IMHO
whiny men are such a turn-off for me, I just want to be as mean as possible while still being treated nicely, I don't think I ever enjoyed a femdom experience with a real sub I always end up feeling disgusted
I enjoyed my time more being demeaning and demanding to men who are more into being the dom
, afterwards I want to be the one cuddled not the one doing the cuddling, that being said I don't want to be chocked or hit and called ugly names, I don't enjoy being humiliated at all and I find it gross and I never want to be put in a situation where I am physically restricted or have my limits pushed.
The things I mentioned above make me confused about my sexuality, a good thing we're living in Rona's age and my chance of having a sexual encounter is slim. maybe I'm just a difficult woman who happens to be controlling and just a pain to be around.
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It's going to be a fun weekend
>>177249>maybe I'm just a difficult woman who happens to be controlling and just a pain to be around.
Holy shit Anon, sometimes I feel the same way. I feel like I'll never really be able to fully express this side of myself because the few moments where I do my partner can never handle it. I always have to sugarcoat everything and be super nice and sweet (because of my stupid conscience). I just want to be as mean and controlling as I fantasize about…
Also I can tell my boyfriend responds better when I'm being nurturing more than when I'm being demanding and sadistic. I mean, that makes sense, that's a healthy reaction. But for some reason it also makes me really, really depressed. I love him but I wish he liked both sides of me equally…
B-but he is enjoying it!!!!111!11!!
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Lol I kek because when they answer the question as to what sadistic and mEaN things they like to do to a sub it’s always like>deepthroat him until he cries and finally so I swallow
Like wow what a wild fantasy …
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I feel pretty ashamed but I can’t help fantasizing about forcefully impregnating a guy. I seriously have no other troonish tendencies, but there’s something unbelievably and ultimately dominant about the idea of forcing a dude to carry around physical proof you fucked him for the whole world to see.
Maybe I’m just a reverse autogynephile (whatever that’s called). As a small soft faced female I’ll never be able to physically and symbolically dominate and humiliate a guy like another guy can. I’ve definitely been a dude in some of my fap fantasies.
Lmao what mpreg does to a mf >As a small soft faced female I’ll never be able to physically and symbolically dominate and humiliate a guy like another guy can. I’ve definitely been a dude in some of my fap fantasies.
Can’t relate tbh. Hope you feel better soon.
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Pls no booly. It’s just a fantasy, it’s about as real as my other fantasies of pegging thicc Captain America while squeezing his tits, or forcefully sucking on my celeb crush’s toes.
the way my face dropped when this post went from cap america titties to toes
… no offence but i think the kinks you're ashamed of thread would be more suited for you anon
I’m confused as to why people think I’m male and not like a fakeboi in denial or something. I admit my fetishes are on the scroty side though. >>177323
Sorry, I meant more like “soft features”, ESL. physically not intimidating?
Exquisite GIF nonny
, what's the source?
That's part of it, yes. I like the idea of making him endure pain for me.>>177308
Lmao, I know what you mean and no, it's not like that. What I fantasize about is making him completely and totally obedient to me, essentially my slave. I can be as selfish as I want with him, ranging from making him my punching bag when I'm stressed out and need a stress release, to pushing him down to his knees and making him eat me out whenever/how often I wanted until his jaw is aching. Obviously it's just not sexual either, I want to boss him around and have him defer to me outside of the bedroom too (no, I don't mean anything involving other people).
I realize it's not crazy and super kinky either, but what I want is beyond the level of control most scrotes can handle. They want a woman to deep-throat edge them for 3 hours straight and pretend she's the dominant one, instead of actually deferring control to her in meaningful ways she would want.
careful, you will trigger
that one anon
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I think a lot of us dominant women end up staying away from the bdsm scene because it's all about male fantasies. >>177321>Can’t relate tbh. Hope you feel better soon.
I love you farmers sometimes.
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Grab yourself a small and comfy one
I think this is closer to the truth>>179042
are you hot?
I think there's a lot of truth to this.
One of my exes said he was a switch, he wanted me to dom him. The whole experience always sucked, it was always about his pleasure, and he got whiny and annoying so quickly if I didn't do things the way he wanted it (the whining also a huge turn off for me, begging is hot, whining is not). It was never about our dynamic, only about what he had seen in porn.
It's kind of turned me off the whole irl experience.
Though I have had nice conversations with some guys about it since then, I don't really feel a need to try it again, as I am just too scared of being dissapointed.
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>>179036>powerful woman>sexual reject
What’s next, you think femcels are real? KEK
Don’t think we don’t know that you’re trying to get insulted by hot girls anon-kun.>>179107
I always found it best to not engage with dudes who label themselves sub/switch and actively beg to be dommed. They’re selfish fucks 90% times.
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Has anyone here read Sunstone? I like the idea of a comic with a lesbian BDSM dynamic. But it was written by a man. Is it too male-gazey?
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Holy fuuuck the slap at the end.
>>177314>I’ll never be able to physically and symbolically dominate and humiliate a guy like another guy can.
You might be relieved to know that even guys can't impregnate other guys, you're not missing out on that.>>177249
I don't think you're not a dom, I think you're sane and have reasonable measured expectations but are brushing up against the unfortunate reality that 80% of male subs and 99% of self-identified male subs are trash. Find more>scrotes who are unaware of what I am into assume I'm a brat because I'm mean and controlling
and communicate with them more, is probably your best bet. You might be surprised at how receptive/sexually malleable they are (but not always).
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Show was stupid YA crap but I am grateful it gave the world bloody, tied up, shirtless Ricky.
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I'm reading Sensual M and the yearing for a cute sub like Samuel is killing me…
Where am I gonna have my best chance to find someone? Any online spaces to join would be helpful, since my chances of running into someone IRL are slim to none right now
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