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No. 191915

Last thread: >>>/g/161431

Thread for:
>dommes
>femdom images and media
>femdom fantasies
>female subs interested in women
>advice and stories

Some things to get us started:
>What are your main kinks?
>What is your ideal sub like?
>What experiences have you had?
>What advice do you have for new dommes?
>Where to find subs? How to avoid unhealthy ones?

No. 191927

Damn how much hairgel is she using for her hair to stand like that

No. 191969

>>191927
its very cold and her hair has frozen is all

No. 191997

I feel weird and gross for enjoying the helplessness and desperation of men in my life and in cinema

No. 192002

>>191997
dont, they deserve it

No. 192004

>>192002
I know. I know, I know, I know. But I don't know if I am okay with being aroused by genuine tears but it's the direction I'm going in. I am so disdainful of dominant men but I'm really no different from the worst of them.

No. 192005

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>>159336
>>159377
At first I was like ooo edgy. But then I was so incredibly turned on i startle myself kek
I’m not into nuggets specifically but the psychological abuse is so good. The eyes of mindbreak and despair, or perhaps surrender and submission, at the end are too much, FUCK! Anyone know where to see the rest of the chapters? Author is barely active on sns. I might buy their book.

No. 192006

>>192004
>I'm really no different from the worst of them
Cringe

No. 192037

>>192006
>>192004
Kinda doubt that OP is 'just as bad'. Has that anon trapped an emotionally vulnerable, homeless scrote into a bdsm relationship and is forcing him to walk around with heavy weights clipped to his dick and nipples (among other things) for his sadistic pleasure? Cause that's what happened to a woman I very briefly knew, and even that is far from the most horrifying shit maledoms pull like murders.

No. 192050

>>191915
disgusts me the OP of the thread is the woman in cute underwear but the man? basic as fuck.

No. 192052


No. 192060

>>192050
Right
She looks like she's about to ride his dick and then swallow his cum

No. 192067

>>192060
I'm loving these reoccurring jokes lol

No. 192079

>>192050
Meh, everyone seems to want men in panties but that does nothing for me because women wear them. Boxer briefs are the best, they accentuate the thighs nicely.

No. 192082

>>190976
thanks anon, I'll check this out tonight. I've been browsing the literotic audio recently and found this gem. it's such a shame cause this is the only one of it's kind he made. it's pretty tame but I love his voice, he sounds so desperate and turned on

https://www.literotica.com/s/dominated-6

>>191688
nta but where do you find that kind of thing?

No. 192198

>>192082
>where do you find that kind of thing?
I'm nta either but you can find a lot on porn sites under the gay category. Search "jerk off" or "solo guy" on the het shit and you get obese hairy scrotes zoomed in on their beer guts and half-flaccid dicks but in the gay section it's primarily ripped, groomed, hot guys showing their whole bodies. For example go to Xvideos, switch the preference from straight to gay (upper right) and give it a go.

No. 192199

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oh boy

No. 192200

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this

No. 192204

>>192200
how tf do i get a bf like this

No. 192206

>>192200
Ok that’s hot
>>192198
Lowkey wish we had a dropbox or something so we don’t have to visit rape tape sites

No. 192212

>>192206
Same. I actually don't visit them anymore because I feel too guilty giving traffic to sites that host so much misogynistic garbage as well. I never really used Tumblr but it seemed better in that respect.

No. 192213

>>192206
like fuck he is pretty

No. 192276

>>192199
Why are you posting gay porn, are you a fujo, retarded och just both?

No. 192312

>>192200
fuck anon, is there more of this? the file name says it's from tumblr, what blog is it from?

No. 192320

>>192204
be a gay man

No. 192321

>>192320
Matriarchy now please. Pretty guys for all women. All straight male uggos can work in the mines.

No. 192337

>>192276
Nta but 99% of attractive men in compromising positions are found under the gay category. Actually search for femdom online and you’ll get a chick wearing uncomfortable, Chinese import lingerie while she half-heartedly whips a fat balding scrote in a gimp suit straining to contain its fleshy prisoner. I would much rather encounter occasional anorectal violence between hot men than deal with yet more misogynistic trash filed under “female empowerment.” If you don’t know that the vast majority of material marketed as femdom is still catered to men, then you haven’t had an interest for long.

No. 192345

What does the Venn diagram of FtM's, fujoshis and femdoms look like?

No. 192473

I'm not really one that watches porn, I like reading kink stories instead but say you had 'fuck it' money and you could finance some femdom content catered towards you.

>What would you want to see ?


I usually like slow burns in my stories so maybe in a silly way I'd like a better focus on characters and depth and have a slow attraction blossom and grow.

I think a lot of mistakes people make when looking at femdom is that it's mostly focused on men and their enjoyment along with that the femdom is more violent or extreme. I think the kind I like is more gentle femdom or a role reversal focus but not just the man and woman reversing roles but more dynamics being switched.

Like women being in charge doesn't mean women behaving like men but how women would be in their own right.

>tfw no executive woman and assistant/secretary man romance

>tfw no tough biker chick and gentle florist boy

No. 192481

Tbh you're probably a lesbian, Google the lesbian master pdf doc if you haven't already seen it.

[TW SEX WORK & SEXUAL ASSAULT]

I'm not saying it's impossible for men to be submissive but…

I was a sex worker for awhile, and although I only did wank off massages, many of my colleagues did 'full service' including BDSM work.

The truth about men interested in femdoms is they are not actually interested in submission. They are interested in violating boundaries.. Sure a few just want to be pegged and get off on feeling like "a very naughty boy", the vast majority choose to be a sub as a sort of pseudo sexual assault rush. They want to be in a situation in which they can violate the rules.

Being paid as a sub sex worker, isn't something many women choose to do.. The idea of giving a client that much power is scary and most women in the industry have been violated by men before becoming sex workers. I entered the industry after becoming disillusioned with regular work; working at cafes I was being paid 10X less, and getting sexually assulted by my bosses regardless.

My friends who have been paid as both femdoms-&-subs, say subbing can be sooo much easier. While most male doms are control freaks at best, and yes still rapists at worst; Soooo many more people are sexually assaulted by their "submissive" male clients…

What you're watching is fetish content, it's not real. Do not try and find a male submissive exclusively, 9/10 they will be lying to you just to fuck you or worse rape you. Get a regular boyfriend and manipulate him into letting him peg you is the best bet.

Good luck, n power 2 Ur pussy!(namefag)

No. 192484

>>192481
Uhh who is a lesbian, Jumbofrog@protonmail.com?

No. 192720

>>192005
Does anyone know where I can read this fully in English?

No. 192788

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>>192720
Ayrt, I searched around and had no luck. Couldn’t figure out how to contact the translator&editor either. Most likely they long dropped it, been years since it completed.
Anyway I bought the tankoubon kek. Pretty much hentai sites already posted all the sex scenes and aren’t interest in the rest. Most of it is a rather standard psychological horror, but it satisfies my demons personally.
If one feels really strongly about it tho, one can obtain the digital and pitch it to translation groups.

No. 192789

>>192050
her tits are also sideways but still perky and her hair is glued in place so obv a coomer made it

No. 192803

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>>192481
My subby bf

No. 192817

>>192803
I'm tryna fuck yo boyfriend nigga.

No. 192818

>>192817
Excuse me

No. 192824

>>192818
Excused.

No. 192825

>>192824(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 192826


No. 192827


No. 192828

Newfags please gtfo or read the goddamn rules

No. 192835

>>192817
Daddy material though

No. 192849

>>192803
Literally the self-posting scrote samefagging again. Fuck off and die.

No. 192893

Audio recs w non American accents?

No. 192919

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I saved this image just for you guys

No. 192955

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>>192337
maybe this explains why i like gay male porn more than anything else. femdom vids usually suck. i don't want the focus to be on some pretty lady in stilettos gently whipping a guy, i want to see a man reduced to a slobbering, emasculated mess moaning like a slut. plenty of gay porn has vids where a guy isn't even fucking another, he's just got him tied down and is torturing him and it's chef's kiss for me.

No. 192970

>>192919
is that a tranny lmao

No. 193037

>>192919
he's giving her a hard time smdh. moids!

No. 193081

I met a cute subby boy lately who would have been a dream come true, but he's very experienced and was a bit of a whore in the past so I can't feel much excitement for him even when he does and says the things I've always wanted a sub to do. I really like virgin and inexperienced boys and they make dominating more fun for me. Maybe I'm just picky. I'd be so into this guy if only if he was a virgin or at least fucked less in the past.

No. 193092

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>Begin lipstick kissing younger boy with friend at party
>Take his shirt off and cover him in kisses while holding him down
>He was shaking like a leaf when we were finished
It isn't a good story, but knowing that he'll remember that night for the rest of his life is really hot to me. Pic contextually related I guess

No. 193093

>>193092
Disgusting.

No. 193094

>>192955
Agreed. "Femdom" videos are extremely male gazey and focused on how sexy the lady is (plus you can tell she's not having a good time) while the guy is some fugly, red-faced pig. Most straight men are as silent as the grave too, boring as hell. I do have some good memories about yelling at a former partner to moan louder until he let go, but honestly it was more effort than it was worth.

>>192919
I like the vague redneck vibe of this, like the dude tried to pick her up at a dive bar then she punched him, chained him up and is taking him back to the trailer park to punish him further. Kek

No. 193095

>>193081
I feel the same, sluts are an immediate turn off. Maybe it sounds scrotey but the fact a guy would just give his dick to anyone is gross. Indicates he has zero self control or discernment. Not great qualities in a sub. I've had very few partners myself and all were in the context of a long-term relationship, so I'd expect that same of a man. Too bad it's near impossible to find.

No. 193097

>>193092
jfc next time spoiler ur image i don’t wanna see this shit on the home page

No. 193103

>>193092
sounds like you traumatized a teenager, creepy

>>193094
i refuse to be with a man who won't make noises during sex it's so unnerving and unsexy

No. 193120

https://twitter.com/minhthichbaodam/status/1404743595790274564
this is why i watch gay porn
warning it's gay porn

No. 193125

>>193120
Wow. Impressively high pain tolerance on that one.

No. 193127

>>193125
really just need a guy who's happy to be turned into a screaming spasming mess like that. no pussy shit. i'm gonna abuse him and make him cum in ways he never thought he could

No. 193202

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No. 193294

>>193202
Lmao what is this from anon?

No. 193306

>>193294
Deadpool(2016)

No. 193356

>>192005
Since there’s no translation of this one, does anyone have any good recs for similar media? Yandere girl kidnapping, torturing, and fucking (raping?) her beloved is my favorite trope but I’ve never seen it in a female gazey context (except this one that isn’t translated, sad).
Any recs are appreciated, even your most vanilla ones are fine as long as the female lead is holding power over the dude.

No. 193375

How do you find doms ?(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 193386

>>193120
Thanks for that twitter link anon, I came.

In my dream there should be a porn company run by women, the male subs are hot and have no masks so we can see their expressions and hear their sounds in glorious detail. And the women doing stuff to them are just normal ladies.

No. 193488

thoughts on this song nonnies? ignore the cover art, focus on the lyrics

No. 193494


No. 193496

>>193386
This reminded me of Silk Labo. It's a Japanese company run by women for women with straight content. At the least the guys are hot and the women are never in degrading situations, there's focus on her pleasure. All the scenarios are pretty "soft"/romantic and unfortunately nostly guided by the men, but it's at least better than the vast majority of shit out there. I wish there was more specifically femdom content though.

No. 193498

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>>193356
Another anon recommended a decent femdom manga a while ago. It didn't have many explicitly sexual scenes but this vampire woman systematically destroys a school boy's life and turns him into her familiar who has to hunt for her. It was very dark but interesting. I want to say something like "Vampire Claw" but that's not it.

Anyway overall manwha tend to be better for this type of content. Check out S Flower and Sadistic Beauty.
https://mangahasu.se/s-flower-p34716.html
https://mangahasu.se/sadistic-beauty-v8-p27915.html

No. 193501

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>>193498
Oops, can't forget Lady & Maid. Woman inherits a fortune along with 5 "maids" (male) and has her way with them. Since there are five, if one isn't your type another likely will be. She has an appreciation for tiddy which I like kek
https://manga68.com/manga/lady-maid/

No. 193507

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>>192955
Male ahegao is the best…
>>193494
I think she meant no translation for the entire book just the first chapter.

No. 193509

>>193498
Does anyone happen to know the name of this manga? Tried searching Vampire Claw but got nothing, and searching for manga with vampire girls just gets me shit like Rosario Vampire. Help, I want to read this so badly. And I really hope the boy is hot.

No. 193517

>>193509
I think she was referring to "Shigahime" an anon recommended here >>173529
I read a few chapters and it was p good horror content but I couldn't find it erotic since all the highschool characters are drawn to look about 12, that's weebs for ya

No. 193528

>>193501
>male tits
Oh shit, I might have to check this out.

No. 193544

>>193507
Ah sorry nonny, I didn't realize the Planetarium one was a full series.
>>193517
Yes, thank you for digging that up! Definitely not as overtly sexual or light-hearted as the others but if you enjoy seeing guys get beat up and commanded around by women it's fun. But yes, I had to mentally age the characters up. So much manga is about high schoolers which is creepy on several levels.

No. 193545

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>>193528
The character Alexander is particularly juicy

No. 193556

Why is it so hard to find shy/nervous/first time/submssive content about a guy online.

I swear searching for it you get maybe one or two videos and then thats it.

There's no way what I like is that niche ? Right ?!

I'm glad theres at least stories to read.

No. 193573

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>>193496
Silk Labo is nice but I'd like them to film stuff like this.

>>193556
Where are you looking? If you're expecting the crap scrote porn industry to provide, there won't be anything.

No. 193596

>>193573
Sauce? He’s adorable.

No. 193601

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>>193596
Isn't he? It's an inexperienced incubus and a human woman, this artist has drawn a bunch of stuff about their antics. Which is fucking and more fucking of course.
https://www.pixiv.net/en/users/13950255

No. 193611

>>193601
Nta but holy shit a male sub and a demon, my weird kinks have been satisfied. Thanks for sharing

No. 193612

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>>193601
This artist is great, I love her style.

No. 193616

>>193573
>>193601
Please tell me he had a sort of
>Muhahaha b-bow before m-me mortal
Before she flips the script and amazon presses him !?

Something about tsundere guys getting it.

No. 193617


No. 193670

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>>193494
I didn’t think I would like this as much as I did. It didn’t even seem sensual, it was sort of cute. I wish >>193507 was part of the manga scan though.

>>192893
Are foreign languages OK? Do-M Japanese drama CDs can be pretty good. Otherwise ASMR in varying languages on youtube are another source. Gamin Garam ASMR on youtube is one, but his voice acting isn’t as good as some of his scenarios in my opinion. S.O.S ~Secret Ocean Story~ isn’t really M (as in the male characters are masochists) at all, but the storyline in the second episode (the second CD in a series of 3) is femdom-adjacent. Here is the synopsis:
On a boat where there is nowhere to run…
You, the female captain of the boat, have designated エリック (Eric), the newcomer apprentice, to be your “plaything” for the night.
Ever since you came into contact with the obedient and cheerful Eric, you started taking a deeper interest in him. Hard-working, clever, efficient, and above all else, docile to the extent that you find him adorable, you end up continually choosing him to spend the night with you.
However, due to the difference in status between you and Eric, you both end up hiding your feelings for each other.
One day, an accident in which you fall overboard occurs—and frantic with worry, Eric saves you. As he clutches you to his body and cries, he begins to express his true feelings…?

I wasn’t a huge fan of the first part because from what I could understand (I don’t speak moon, this is what I got from reading a review & soundcloud comments) it’s the listener/woman in the first track apparently tying his dick up with string (so he can’t coom) which is fine, but in the second H track (which is the third one I believe) she gives him a bj and I hate those kek. But by the ninth track in the CD they actually have sex and he’s a puddle at the end. You can listen to audio previews here (the official site) http://ike-men.net/sos/sp/sos02.html And someone posted the first and third tracks on soundcloud here (the rest of them were removed)
https://soundcloud.com/lilili_01/s-1
https://soundcloud.com/lilili_01/a-1

The source of the SOS vol 2 review coincidentally is the woman who translated picrel; Nikaido Kinen Byouin, a series of CDs with doctors. Vol 2 is femdom-y with a shy virgin rehab doctor and the love interest is the patient. Translations here https://kissxxs.tumblr.com/post/125294699782/nkb-vol-2-summary-rehab-doctor-haba
You can listen here
https://soundcloud.com/mouse-senpai/sets/nikaido-kinen-byouin-vol-2
She turns him on when they kiss in track 2, then she ties him up to the hospital bed in track 3, and he stays tied up while they have sex in track 4. He’s definitely a blabbering retard the entire CD but to me it’s cute because the character is cute.

No. 193683

>>193488
I don't get it, tbh it doesn't sound femdom-centric. Despite the mention of "the kind of girl that makes the balls turn blue" she doesn't seem to be addressing a guy. More like she caught some girl cheating with her husband (I got the goods/I got the ring… Tittle-tattle caught/Two time-a-cheatin'/Bad bad girl/Gonna give you a beatin') and wants her to "take it like a man" so she can have a "catfight" with her. No thanks… I like my lyrics a bit more straightforward.

No. 193690

>>193683
Another one I like a lot is Verð Mín by Eivør. It's not outright femdom but it puts the female singer in the position of the pursuer being captivated by a shy/fragile/mysterious man instead of the other way around. You don't get many love songs from the perspective of a woman seeking out her "beautiful man" rather than positioning herself as some degenerate's arm candy. It's quite romantic (maybe referencing a selkie?) plus Eivør's voice is gorgeous. English lyrics: https://lyricstranslate.com/it/verð-mín-my-world.html

No. 193736

>>192005
>>193507
Glad you joined it Nonny.
>but the psychological abuse is so good. The eyes of mindbreak and despair, or perhaps surrender and submission
I have to agree with you, the nugget thing is usually a deal breaker for me but the psychology made it worth investigating again.
>>193573
>>193601
L-lewd

No. 193744

Wait so a lot of you want to capture a cute moid break down their spirit and bend them to your will, why ?

No. 193747

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>>193601
>>193573
This one is in my head rent free ever since anon posted it in last thread. Those hentai tattoos are so fuckin lewd.
>>193744
Why not, cute boys make cute grimaces.

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>>193747
Author is a real one, she doesn't draw shitty blowjobs that most femdom hentai do.

No. 193757

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>>193612
She has made a cute free otome game too. Completely wholesome but satisfying if you like making guys blush.
https://www.freem.ne.jp/win/game/25274

No. 193758

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>>193757
You can smack him twice kek

No. 193794

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>>192005
>>193736
This.
Mindbreak into psychological dependency is my fetish

No. 193815

Break it to me, is it possible to find someone into this or is it too late and porn sick people are the norm ?

No. 193832

>>193794
SOURCE NOWWWWW

No. 193834

>>193832
Youre probably not going to like it, Anon
Its futa, and moreso to the point its the finale in a series
https://nhentai.net/g/230210/

No. 193837

>>193815
You're better off finding a normie who is willing to try and get better at sex. They're pretty rare but they're out there. Just say that you want to maximize the quality of sex.
Just make sure he isn't the type who wants to be dominant 24/7. From what I know the self-proclaimed male subs are coomers and terrible in bed. And likely to troon out.

No. 193842

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>>193747
I just like the aesthetic lmao

No. 194005

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>new bf
>start having phone sex because we're both losers who still live with our parents
>both pretty inexperienced
>neither one of us have ever done phone sex before
>we hardly talked about what we liked prior to it
>realize i like to talk in a low voice
>he really likes it too
>calls me mommy during it
>call him a good boy
>whimpers when i make him edge
>comes like a girl when i do this

i had a feeling i would like stuff like this but i never had anyone to experiment with. i want to try more femdom stuff with him especially since he mentioned he would like to try the amazon press position. the only problem is that we can never really be alone. only so much you can do in a car and even then, doing a lot of stuff in a car sounds gross to me. guess i'll stick to the phone for now.

No. 194006

>>194005
>comes like a girl when i do this
That would be impossible for a man.

No. 194008

i was browsing the old femdom threads on here and i can't get over this clip that some anon (bless her) posted in the first one, thought i'd repost it on here as well. i need to watch this show asap

No. 194013

>>194006
meant that he sounds like a girl, my bad.

No. 194019

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>>194008
here's another clip with them. i really like the way he at her and his slightly hopeful look when she asks him about the ring (no idea what this plotline is about, i haven't watched this yet). not to mention the tiny "sorry" and "ow"

No. 194022

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as a bisexual domme iv noticed im attracted to both weak and strong looking men, but im only attracted to women who are as fucked in the head as me (aka ultra abusive and sadistic) and I never feel any desire to hurt other women, only men.


can anyone relate?

No. 194026

>>194005
Be honest, how underage are you

No. 194028

>>194026
would you believe me if i said 24 cause i am. my bf is younger than me. he's 21.

No. 194037

>>194008
>>194019
Oh damn that's hot. Dude is not my type physically at all but he does have the perfect sub responses which is a big turn on.

No. 194038

>>194005
Lol good for you anon. Can you not rent a hotel room or something for a weekend?

No. 194049

How do I ~channel my inner domme~ or whatever? I'm seeing a guy who is into dominant women and it's really new for me. My ex liked it when I was a little more aggressive, in charge, or we fought for power, but I ended up being sub most of the time whenever we did more kinky crap. I felt like with him as well with my other ex they just could not take me seriously when I dirty talked in domme mode or just tried to take charge at all, and I don't know if it was that I sounded stupid or he just couldn't take me seriously because he wasn't into it.
I think for starters just feeling hot and confident would help, but idk if any anons who have actually dommed a guy could give me advice.

No. 194071

>>194049
I don’t think you should be conforming yourself to a man’s sex fantasy. That’s contradicting to the concept of inner domme. That’s why it comes off corny because you’re just LARPing at best, there’s no real power exchange.
If you want to sub with extra steps, just watch scrote femdom porn and imitate that. It’s what he would have wanted anyway.

No. 194072

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>>194008
the way she grabs his neck. holy shit.

No. 194073

>>194038
i live in a really small town, so i'm scared someone we know would see us getting a room. i don't know, maybe i'm just being a baby. we've both thought of it though.

No. 194082

>>194073
Maybe you could make a trip to a different city over a weekend? It'd also give you something new to see. I would think your parents could understand wanting to have some time away, and even if you're living with them it's not up to them how you spend your time as an adult so long as you aren't negatively affecting them. But then, I would also hope you're not ashamed to be seen with your boyfriend in general. Even outside the context of getting a room together, most people realize that you have regular sex with a partner. Unless you're in a very traditional/religious area or something.

No. 194088

>>194049
>>194071 is right, you may have been trying to play into your ex's/men's general concept of a domme rather than doing what you wanted. If you want to try it, really take some time to think about what you would like during sex and how you like to be pleasured. That can center around receiving oral or having whatever area of your body focused on, it doesn't have to involve ball busting or choking someone out. Some dommes genuinely like that, others don't. You can also imagine what scenarios you think it would be fun to see your partner in. Let yourself think in a completely selfish way for a change. That runs against feminine socialization but the more you engage with it the more you'll likely enjoy it and get ideas of what you'd like to try. I'd actually recommend discussing hard limits with your current partner before doing anything as well. I know some people are all "do whatever u want, they are yur slave, ur in control!1" but that's just immature, creepy and a recipe for disaster. Is he okay with being slapped? Choked? Tied up? Spanked? Bit? Getting hickeys? To what extent? Knowing what to avoid makes it easier to freely experiment with things you want to try knowing the other person is on board.

No. 194094


No. 194097

>>194022
I'm bi and a top with women but it's men I want to do the truly aggressive things to.
I've always been like that. More romantic with the ladies and more aggro with the guys. Probably because men are more aggro and women have so much shit to deal with already so I wanna be nice.

No. 194115

Been thinking a bit of how hard it is to find material for us.
So, how about making a "database" of farmer-approved femdom content?
There could be categories like TV-series, webcomics, videos, artists, otome cds, etc.
It would be done using a google spreadsheet or similar.

No. 194134

>>193611

For this anon and for myself, what's the name of that manhwa where the woman hits 30 and becomes a wizard + a demon familiar helps her enter people's dreams? It wasn't exclusively femdom but had some nice scenes and I don't recall there being anything too horrible in it

No. 194135


No. 194137

>>194008
>>194019
finally got around to watching this. holy shit. whats the show called?

No. 194138

i came in thinking people would be talking about the last point and i'd finally find a site to look for dommes ;____;

No. 194142

File: 1624562700373.png (1.13 MB, 1075x807, virginwitch.png)

>>194135
nta but kek. The main character is a farmer isn't she. She reminds me of the girl in /ot/ who was so frustrated that she made her own paper dildo.

No. 194144

>>194137
On Becoming a God in Central Florida!

No. 194146

>>194144
Thank you! Will check it out

No. 194152

>>194008
a non-potato quality version: https://vimeo.com/496276227

No. 194176

>>194088
>>194071
Well…I tried doing what I wanted too, and he couldn't take me seriously half the time anyway! I'm sure I did actually cater to male fantasy sometimes, whether I realized it or not, but what sucked is it felt like when I did actually do what I wanted I still wasn't taken seriously, either way. I might've accidentally implied it's still a problem with the guy I'm seeing, but he's been really into everything I've said and done, I just still am having problems getting self-confident. It's easier the hornier I get tbh but like, I want this to be consistent.
I actually get embarrassed and have problems with confidence and that's a big part of my problem. If I'm confident I can just do what I want and it doesn't feel like I'm " I get off on teasing guys so I do want to please them to some extent, but I'm getting off on being in control and being able to get what I want too I guess. I'm just so not used to being around a guy actually into me being in charge that I'm not totally sure wtf to do. We've discussed limits and both of us have similar limits (we are both switches) since neither of us are really into pain, so it helps with knowing boundaries, but I've got some hangups (more emotional than strictly sexual) from my ex and he's inexperienced. I worry about just fucking it up or embarrassing myself and it's a real mood killer. I think we tried a bdsm test for fun before we were sleeping together and it gave us an idea of each other's limits, but we've also discussed some of our big no-nos.
I did some light domme stuff with him before but I think not being able to relax and just not care if I'm "embarrassing myself" or being ~too selfish~ with my fantasies or how I talk is a huge part of my problem. Which is fucking stupid, that's the point of being a domme and this guy is eager to please.
>Let yourself think in a completely selfish way for a change. That runs against feminine socialization but the more you engage with it the more you'll likely enjoy it and get ideas of what you'd like to try.
I feel it so hard. I am stuck acting like this all the time outside of the bedroom and I'm having a rough time unlearning it. I think it's a big part of my problem with "channeling my inner domme". I know I have it in me, it's just gotten pushed down for too long.
Anyway, thank you anons. I'm gonna keep thinking on this and see where it goes. I'm hoping with time I'll just keep getting more comfortable and that I need to keep communication open and clear.

No. 194178

>>194176
Your ex sounds like trash. He didn't respect you and there was no way you could act or magic words you could use to make him do so. I'm awkward as fuck sometimes, I can stumble over my words, or make silly mistakes, but my boyfriend has never undermined me or tried to make me feel less confident because of that. In fact, there have been times where I've felt like I've been a dope and he's encouraged me so much. I would never be with a guy "who didn't take me seriously" because it would be a disservice to myself. Please tell me your current bf doesn't treat you like this. Please.

You are earnestly putting yourself out there, and imo that's the MOST important part. As long as you do what you truly want and you aren't trampling over the sub's limits as well as making sure their needs are met, there is no wrong way to be a domme. But I know that it's hard when you're in the moment, you're self-conscious and it feels like every move you make is the wrong one. I think you should take some time to fantasize more about what your ideal interaction with your sub would look like. I think it's important to think about it more in depth in a setting where you aren't pressured to perform.

No. 194181

>>194178
I'm very happy to say my current bf isn't like this at all, whenever I'm feeling nervous or insecure he makes it clear that he's not being scared off of me and that I can take it at my own pace. He's very gentle and encouraging and I think that his personality is why I've been able to feel a want to explore this side of myself further. Whenever I feel really unsure/awkward during sexual stuff he tries to guide me or tells me to go for it and has never said I "ruined" sex or don't seem sexy because of my awkwardness. My ex had his good points but there are definitely reasons why he's an ex, and it's funny to think it's an anon on a lolcow board is the one to make me actually double take at this particular instance lol. He tried to not laugh and to go with it or whatever but I just really felt like he wasn't into it or couldn't take me seriously so I could not cut it! And there was a bunch of stuff he did that just made me confused and not very confident sexually. It definitely made me nervous about not knowing what I'm doing now, like it's hard enough coming off a long term relationship and sleeping with someone new, then there's that too.
Your words mean a lot, thank you. I definitely don't want to trample over my sub's limits because I've had it happen to me and it made me feel like total shit. I should definitely explore these fantasies more. sometimes inspiration comes more times than others, I think feeling strapped for ideas when it's time to perform might be less of a common thing if I just can spend more time thinking about what I want to try.

No. 194191

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>>194049
pretty much agree with this. >>194088 tbh, your domme aura should come naturally. don't try to force yourself, sis. you either have it or you don't. it's ok if you don't.

to me it's all about attitude, mannerisms, and how you say things (not what you say in particular), that can radiate domme energy. it's about YOU being in control. (after you've discussed limits with your partner of course.) it's about feeling like you want to take what you want and what's yours.

for example, there was one day where i was extra horny and at some point (we were in public) i leaned back on a table and gave my bf an intense eye contact stare. i slightly stuck out my chest and didn't say anything to him. he broke eye contact first and got flustered. he later told me that the way i was looking at him made him feel like he was my "prey". he liked feeling like someone wanted him in that way. i'm 5 feet tall and my bf is almost a foot taller than me. you don't have to have a certain look either. it's all about attitude. i wish you well.

No. 194239

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>>194008
>>194152
EXTREMELY BLESSED. Please tell me there is more of this in the show.

No. 194280

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>>194135
Read up to chapter 16, it has a masochist guy and the amazon position. Win.
>>194191
Completely agree with this.

No. 194282

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>>194239
well there's >>194019, a very brief scene where she gags his mouth with duct tape and a scene where she gets mad at him and tells him to shove his head into the toilet where it belongs and he replies "yes ma'am, anything you want" (spoilered because i dont know if this really counts or if other anons are as into it kek) thats all i have seen far but i still have 3 more episodes left

overall its pretty canonically femdompilled (he literally says "i know you like bossing me and i like being bossed) but it's not really the main focus so if you just want a strictly femdom show youre better off just watching these clips from it
also this is a good time to get mad about the second season being cancelled as someone who allegedly worked on it said that there would have been more femdom content

No. 194293

Boss

No. 194300

>>194282
i started watching the show because of this thread (hhnnng, this gif) and it's interesting enough that the femdom energy is like an amazing bonus.
this guy being casted for this subby character feels like such a female choice, no man could've made it this perfect.

No. 194302

>>194300
I agree! It's great casting, he's a very cute sub.

No. 194306

>>194300
ayrt, have to agree especially on the casting part!! those doe eyes are so cute… any anons made it to episode 4 and onwards yet? that's when the sex comes in, the finger sucking scene is from episode 4

No. 194324

>>194306
The following episode he dunked his head in the toilet at her request and they fuck but it's offscreen. Blue balled as fuck

No. 194325

>>194300
So sad the show was cancelled for a second season due to covid. They renewed it but eventually reversed the decision. Still a great watch though!

No. 194326

>>194306
Ywn have autistic obsessed mlm bf

No. 194329

>>194326
>mlm
>bf
???

No. 194332

>>194329
i think the mlm is referring to Multi Level Marketing here

No. 194335

>>194329
a bisexual boyfriend who likes m/m??? idk

No. 194346

>>194329
He works for an mlm in the show nigga

No. 194361

i am the only mdlbfag here

No. 194362

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>>194306
made it to ep 4 and i love the scene where he grabs her by the shoulders in a moment of joy and she immediately orders him to rub her shoulders (implied: if he's gonna touch her for no reason in the first place). he immediately looks turned on and gets closer to her hair. so brief but so telling.

>>194361
i hope so, sicko

No. 194386

>>194362
Why can’t I have this fml aaaa of course a dynamic so rare gets canceled

No. 194425

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tfw no loud subby bf whose mouth you need to cover with duct tape while you're having a quickie in the utility room of some government building
soz for the shit screenshot they kept moving kek i guess you just have to watch the scene yourselves nonnies

No. 194426

>>194115
Sounds like a great idea, what comes to mind for me is
Manga - tsumi to kai about shibari
Artist - Kaneoya Sachiko
I really wish there was more femdom content but if there is it's mostly made by scrotes

No. 194443

>>194425
which episode is that?

No. 194495

>>194443
episode 6!

No. 194555

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i was making out with this guy last week and he offered the idea of me tying his eyes so i feel more comfortable because i'm self conscious and less experienced than him, it felt very nice being in control he'd let me touch and do whatever without touching me, now i'm thinking if he's the type to swing the femdom way? should i bring it up? he doesnt look the type at all he's very machismo and he mentioned alpha/beta male bullshit before in conversation so i'm conflicted i dont want to scare him

No. 194558

>>194555
The vast majority of men genuinely don't care in what context they're getting physical interaction so long as they're getting it. Even the macho ones, they often have latent subby desires they're just too homophobic (because they see being submissive as feminine) to discuss.

But it seems like you two aren't having sex? What else are you looking to do with him exactly? I'm definitely not saying femdom has to involve PIV but typically you are doing intimate things far beyond kissing (him being naked around you, giving you oral, getting punished or sexually teased). All those things are a big jump from making out. I guess for the time being just ramp things up slowly? Say you really enjoyed blindfolding him and ask if he'd be open to more stuff like that. It would be good to have a clear idea of what you're looking to do if he asks what you mean though, especially since you're inexperienced.

No. 194561

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>>194134
>>194135
I just want to bless both of you. I got around to bingeing this and I was very happy with the content. It's one of the best adult comics I've read by far. Aside from this scene >>194280 there are actually several explicit femdom moments with various guys and even when she isn't leading things outright she's always in control and ready to make demands. Love it.

No. 194595

>>194558
yeah i feel like deep down he's a sub cause he was very easy going which was surprising to me since most guys are rough and aggressive which is very off putting, i dont really wanna do PIV tbh because clitoral stimulation is very enjoyable for me and fantasizing about pegging him turns me on more than him doing PIV stuff to me, pegging is a huge step so i'm 100% sure he would not be into that or at least expect something from me in return so what i really want is him giving me oral, sitting on his face pushing him around, slapping, tying him and teasing stuff like that but i guess those stuff are very tame and he'd roll with it but i was afraid he would be weirded out or get mad that i'm blueballing him or sth, regardless you're right i should make it clear from the start that i would want to do stuff similar to blindfolding and slowly work my way up from there

No. 194621

>>194555
Anon I'd be careful, the unironic mention of alpha/beta males sounds like he's into manosphere ideology, maybe red pill

No. 194644

>>194621
I was thinking about commenting on this but as a toy he may still be fine. I was with a guy like this for a while but he still let/enjoyed me domming him. Which was extra satisfying, in a way? But yeah, you're right to say something. Anon may be able to get some use out of him sexually but he shouldn't be considered real partner material. Men who use this sort of terminology are misogynistic and won't change, they're already too far gone. I wouldn't hook up with a guy like my ex again these days even for fun, but I was thirsty and had a weakness for hot idiots back then.

No. 194770

>>192200
What sex position results in this?

No. 194780

>>194770
the one where they are both gay, probably.

No. 195351

>>194621
>>194644
>>194555
>>194644
While this may be true, apparently the whole 'alpha/beta' shit has made a comeback in internet "humor" and is slowly supplanting the Virgin vs Chad schtick
So if he's on the younger side, it might just be him appropriating internet slang into his lexicon, which does seem par for the course considering he sounds like the nerdy-type. Considering he didn't protest to doing what most of those manosphere types would consider 'beta shit', it might just be that.

No. 195352

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Stupidly muscular guys being dommed will always have a special place in my heart ♥

No. 195353

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No. 195355

does this song qualify? i think it slaps.

No. 195545

>>194008
>>194019
may have to watch this show now..

>>194282
are there any other gifs from the show like this?

No. 195585

>>195545
a few, go to tumblr and search "cody bonar" and you'll find them

No. 196198

Bro I just want to dom some sickly looking incel and make him get destroyed by other dudes 5x his size

No. 196300

>>195355
Cute! I like it.

No. 196302

>>194770
pegging

No. 196336

>>194097
I'm similar as another bi domme. With women I'm gentle and nurturing while with men I'm harsher, more demanding and my style of femdom is rougher. I'm a bit traditional and expect men to be chivalrous, able to take things "like a man" and defend me while with other women I don't mind being the one to protect them. Sexist maybe but like you say it makes sense to be more protective of other women under patriarchy plus if you play mommy to scrotes there's a high chance he'll treat you like a free therapist and bangmaid.

No. 196340

Any other anons into ordering guys to strip naked and work out in front of you, carry you or lift heavy stuff? I think it's really hot.

No. 196432

Woman I'm talking to sent me this video and a gentle femdom meme. I feel way out of my depth. Does anyone have any tips for dm's or just in general? I've got no problem being sexually dominant, but I've never been with anyone with the actual kink.

No. 196485

>>196432
So she wants you to be dominant, but over text? The most you can really do is tell her to do things to herself over video or chat. Orgasm denial is a pretty easy one to play with or have her do something "risky" and tell you about it (go to the store with nothing but a long coat on). You can always just flirt in a more aggressive way, like compliment her hair and say you'd love to feel it wrapped around your fingers as you pull it. I don't know if you're at that point though, because you say you're talking but not in a relationship or having sex. If you're not being explicit yet there's no need to rush things, just store that info in the back of your mind until/if you actually have sex then take the more active role during.

No. 196534

>>192345
Probably a circle for fujos and forced bi lovers

No. 196593

He and I were watching bully 2001 and he kept covering his face at the sexy parts out of embarrassment

No. 196629

>>193794
based, I want to date a lonely lonely femmy guy, give him affection and dom him until he's hopelessly devoted and doesn't know what he'd do without me, then pull the rug from under him by dating another woman (who would hopefully also be into domming and lescucking moids) and mocking him saying that if I'm dating a guy who acts like a woman then I may as well just date the real thing.

But I'd offer to let him stay with me as me and my GF's servant and tease him with the hope that I'd one day like him again. Of course that wouldn't happen, I would treat him coldly and he would be forced to look on in pained betrayal and envy at my new relationship.

Lescucking is a pretty underrated fetish, way better than regular cycling which is just maledom in disguise

No. 196657

>>196336
>>194097
only natural to be like different things in both sexes even though you want to dom both, men and women are different and straight and lesbian relationships have different dynamics

>>196340
it's a turn-on for me and other dommes I know, ponyplay vids are one of the few scrote porn I can watch if the man has a fit body, it's hot to see a muscular guy reduced to a beast of burden forced to exert himself to exhaustion

No. 197161

>>196534
Unironically true, I know a domme who was really into watching men fuck her BF, she ended up trooning

No. 197177

>>196629
I promise you, if you do that to a guy irl, he would kill you.

No. 197252

>>196629
This honestly reads like an incels LARP of how they think evil femoids think.

No. 197300

>>197252
incel LARP would cuck him with Chad not another woman, they don't believe lesbians exist

No. 197308

>>197300
wouldn't they get off on it, men are always to watch two women have sex

No. 197361

>>197308
cause they think they can join in and have a threesome

No. 197451

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sorry in advance for the autism, but has anyone here had experience using cables etc as replacements for shibari ropes?
ive been talking to a guy lately & he’s such a cute sub, and we’re both into retro gaming so I was wondering how it’d be cute to use a mix of component/controller cables to make cute restraints on him.
only problem is idk if the lack of friction/texture on the cables would cause the restraints to not hold as well though?

No. 197475

>>196629
>Mfw I know someone who did something similar to this and the guy ended up becoming a sissyfication fetishist AGP because of it
Men having a femdom fetish in itself is a huge red flag, they're almost always doomed to troon out and devote themselves to cooming to fantasies of mommy gf dollying them up.

No. 197478

>>197451
I am so envious of you, i have had the fantasy of tying up a cute geek for a while. I guess it depends of the controller, ps2 controllers are long, thin and strong enough to tie up someone(you made me try it with my own kek). Do it and bring back the news, i would love to know how it went if you don't mind.

No. 197479

>>197478
i was thinking ps2 controllers too! they're p durable & we're both collectors so it wouldn't be /too/ bad if one breaks. that's so sweet though, thank you for testing!! i'm gonna bring up the idea to him after work later, i was also thinking maybe an OG xbox controller as those cables are thick as hell & probably won't break.

and also don't worry anon, i've wanted this idea for YEARS and i've only just found someone who's an obedient sub as well as a cute nerd, they're out there!!

No. 197649

>>197451

I'd recommend testing it on yourself first, maybe tie a loop tightly around your upper arm for 15 mins and see how bad the marks are afterwards. I have no idea what plastic cables would do to skin when tied tightly around it but it might be unpleasant enough you need to stop after 5 minutes, which would be no fun at all

No. 197760

>>197475
>Men having a femdom fetish in itself is a huge red flag
This is such a hard pill to swallow. I really love the idea of putting moids in cute lingerie and dolling them up, but I know that any man who is into that is either a future troon or serial killer.

No. 197768

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On the first thread there were a couple pictures of Hercules and Omphale. I did not see anybody sharing the actual myth, so there you go:


At some stage, when Hercules violated the laws of guest-friendship in the murder of Iphitos, his conduct reached a new low, and he was forced to seek the advice of the Oracle at Delphi. He ended up being sent into slavery to Omphale, the queen of Lydia, for a year or more.
It is in Omphale’s court that the once-mighty demi-god experiences his greatest humiliation. He is subjugated, stripped of the hide of the Nemean lion, his trademark club taken away, and the women of the court dress him in their clothes, and give him a distaff so that he can join them in spinning. The queen asserts her authority by donning the lionskin, and wielding the club. After some time, Omphale freed Heracles and took him as her husband.

No. 197784

>>197768
I didn't know Greek myths had outright femdom in them (maybe kinda Circe and some Amazons), especially regarding a character as prominent as Hercules. Nice, thanks for sharing.

No. 197803

>>197760
I blame pornsickness and coomers, feels like nothing can just be nice for the sake of nice or style, it's always kink or fetish focused/imspired.

No. 197905

>>196629

I think I might actually murder someone if they did that to me

No. 198033

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>>193498
Are you talking about Happiness by Shuzo Oshimi?

No. 198036

>>198033
That’s not femdom at all lmao

No. 198060

>>198033
this is incel shit

No. 198071

>>198036
>vampire woman systematically destroys a school boy's life
>It's somewhat dark
It fits the description lol, and if this was the manga that anon was talking about I was going to say the same thing as you
>>198060
Can you explain? I never sensed the incel vibes… but I definitely don't like this manga and his other works.

No. 198403

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Long hair for pulling y/n?

No. 198405

>>198071
NTA but dubbing that manga femdom is what makes it some incel shit. Because that is some screwy ass dots that only they would connect

No. 198409


No. 198420

>>198033
She was talking about >>193517

No. 198697

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>>198403
thought you meant y/n as in like your name/ nonny in a femcoomer way lol, also yes but im afraid pulling moid hair will cause them to bald faster :(

No. 198699

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when the only thing your femdom dominates is the fridge

No. 198704

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>>198697
Hair loss is 100% genetic, if you’re worried just take a look at his dad’s hair

No. 198712

>>198704
I thought baldness was from the mom’s side

No. 198730

>>198712
Its both, no one really has answers on weighting but genetic stuff is super complicated

No. 198734

>>198697
I was about to post that pic are we a horny hivemind? His face is so sexy.
Kek at the idea that men go bald because women pull their hair too much. Sorry no thats not the case.

No. 198744

>>198699
don't be rude anon

No. 198748

I talked to a sub for a while, thought he was great but then he ghosted me because I said it was weird how he insisted on being fucked with a dildo all the time
I don't know what it is but I feel like alot of self proclaimed male subs are gay or bisexual on the downlow and use female doms as rebound because they are in denial
How do I avoid gay/bicurious or men with tranny tendencies anons?

No. 198750

>>198748
Wasn't he interested in pleasuring you at all?
That should be a red flag with all men.

No. 198768

>>198748
Where did you meet?

No. 198770

>>198768
We met through Twitter
Yeah…. grimey

No. 198771

>>198748
You have to dig deep and ask why they like the things they do. Depending on the answer you can if they have gay or tranny tendencies. If they can't give you a straight answer or are too vague they are too dumb to be your sub. I had to be careful because pegging is one of my main fetishes, so many guys into it have misogynistic tendencies. Holy shit all the tranny bullets I've had to dodge.

No. 198775

>>198748
a lot of males are faggots in denial. when you find one that insists on being penetrated constantly I would say he's gay. I wouldn't try to find a man who labels himself as a sub because in most cases they are closeted at best and depraved sex pervert trannies at worst

No. 198785

Get yourself a man who genuinely loves pussy. Loves licking it, loves fucking it. Otherwise what is the point?

No. 198797

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For those who like japanese audio.
https://teyuuka.wordpress.com/2021/02/13/recommendations-teyuuka-femdom-doujin-cd-collection/
I haven't listened to it yet but I'm loving the concept of the one with the evil queen and pure paladin.

No. 198843

Seriously considering posting a Craigslist ad to fill the void my ex left. I wanna slap some cock and get my pussy ate!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Have any anons had any success w online meetups?

No. 198863

>>198843
Wouldn't dating apps be better than a dodgy Craigslist ad? Just put casual fun in your bio and you'll get inaudated by local men in your area lol

No. 198895

>>198403
Yes. My moid has long hair down to his ass and he said he grew it out specifically so he could get it pulled. He makes the cutest noises and his dick throbs when I pull it, like pressing a button to make him instantly horny.

No. 198910

>>198895
I'm jealous anon,is he a metalhead? Because I'm now imaging a big macho metalhead guy making squeaky sounds as gf walks by and tugs on his hair.

No. 198958

>>198843
You tryna get murdered
>>198403
Yeah that’s hot
>>198797
Itadakimasu

No. 198959

>>198748
Literally self proclaimed sub is a red flag in and of itself

No. 198967

>>197451
It is fairly common knowledge to never use ropes who won’t let the skin breath, as in synthetic materials. I wouldn’t risk, even though the idea is cute

No. 198983


No. 199007

>>198699
not based, you sound like a scrote

No. 199008

>>198699
It triggers me how many of these harnesses have the base of the dildo so high up on the pelvis. God forbid the woman gets some clitoral stimulation from pegging.

No. 199014

>>198797
based, thank you nonnie. the one with pic attached is so good

No. 199030

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ok, am i just into extreme fdom or am i actually a bonafide sadist?

all my fantasies revolve around snuff/cannibalism/torture of a man. idk what’s wrong with me since i’ve never experienced trauma at the hands of men other than bullying. i guess it’s since i’m ugly, i think no man will be into me so i have to be the aggressor. I also choose the weirdest men to fixate on (i’ve posted them on lolcow before) and not like anime boys/twinks. my biggest fantasy is just going absolutely feral on a guy and ripping out his jugular with my teeth.

inb4 scrote, i’m just a femcel with anger issues

No. 199044

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>>199030
>just a femcel with anger issues
I think you answered your own question. But it's fine anon, keep up your crazy fantasies as long as you don't go on some femcel shooting spree.

No. 199046

>>199030
>extreme fdom or am i actually a bonafide sadist?

why not both? a sadism kink directed at scrotes is based

No. 199047

>>199046
>a sadism kink directed at scrotes is based
This tbh, most women are too nice about scrotes.

No. 199062

Most nonnies ITT need some fucking mental help, you're not any better than incels with your violent sex and torture fantasies. Holy fuck.

No. 199065

>>199062
The difference is that most anons on this thread would never do anything particularly violent, at the very maximum consensual sex with someone.

No. 199066

>>199065
>most anons on this thread
>most
w-what are you planning anon

No. 199067

>>199062
I see nothing wrong with people voicing their fantasies as long as they don't hurt anybody mentally and physically irl.

No. 199068

>>199062
>actually believing this

anon, tell me how many women go out and kill and rape men due to their sexual fantasies.

No. 199069

>>199065
>>199067
>>199068
I never implied that I am worried that you will go out and kill and torture men. But you are still mentally ill weirdos and you should get help for your own sanity and piece of mind. This is not normal or healthy.

No. 199070

How do I beat a man to a bloody pulp in a socially acceptable way

No. 199071

>>199062
>>199069
hurting men>hurting women. simple. men deserve it, women don't. if anything being nice to males is unhealthy after all the shit they've done.

No. 199073

>>199069
How come you go into a femdom thread to say this shit but whenever anons in the sexual fantasies thread lament about wanting to be abused, anons are quiet.
We literally are quiet and never bother anyone, this is our own space to talk to likeminded people, leave us alone. I'm pretty sure maledom and femdom aren't comparable because majority of women are not strong enough to do any fucked up shit to men, like maledoms do to women.
And femdom is relatively tame if you actually bothered to read the 3 threads, tell us one thing that sounds fucked up.
Literally most anons only speak up about their desires of being top, which is categorized as vanilla when men are on top. How come its fucked up when women fantasize about that.

No. 199085

>>199062
youre retarded if you think women having dominant/violence based kinks in a patriarchal world and who don’t actually end up non-consensually hurting men, is the same as mass shooting male incels mad that they can’t get their dick wet.

No. 199096

>>199071
You still sound like incels who also think that women deserve to be killed and raped.

>>199073
I don't read that thread, but it is probably also a sign of mental illness, but those are fantasies about your own bodily autonomy, not fantasies about committing rape and murder of others. It's quite different. This >>199030 sounds pretty fucked up.

No. 199097

>>199096
Jesus christ just hide the thread. Why do you care so much for imaginary scrotes?

No. 199098

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>>199096
You might think it sounds similar all you like but the sad truth is that men and women aren't equal. Men have oppressed women for millenia, are more violent and physically stronger. The sexes feel anger towards each other for very different reasons and from very different circumstances.

No. 199104

>>199096
Those are the anons own fetishes that have nothing to do with femdom/maledom as a fetish itself
The D in Bdsm is separate from the S and it just is about wanting to dominate, be on top and have control.
Its not hard to understand and if you can't take it just hide the thread. Stop trying to control peoples minds when it is no harm to you.
Direct that to the anon that posted that shit, 99% of anons this thread isn't into cannibalism or snuff anyways, previous threads have no mention of it. That's why I told you if you read the previous threads at all because this isn't a discussion we have among ourselves
We don't have to defend our fetishes, we have a separate thread for a reason newfag

No. 199106

>>199062
>>199096
I see you’re new, still hasn’t deprogrammed from the whole women = men thing. I will never give a fuck about men’s suffering as much as one tenth of women’s. It’s not Reddit or twitter, caping for dicks won’t earn you good girl points here.

No. 199107

Leave aside the fact that women almost never rape/kill men for sexual reasons. If a moid is so soy he manages to get raped or murdered by a woman he wanted it and deserves it lmaooo

No. 199109

>>199098
I love this kind of shibari, does anyone know what it's called?

No. 199111

>>199096
her snuff kink is extremely based actually. women have all the reason to be angry at men, while men's hatred of women comes from a desire to continue oppressing them.

these fantasies practically never end in someone actually being hurt, unlike with scrotes. so why do you care? please stop being a bleeding heart for imaginary moids who would never do the same for you, it's embarrassing.

No. 199117

File: 1627078360304.jpg (Spoiler Image, 1 MB, 1405x1449, e8e6e0862e0fd656fb.jpg)

WON'T SOMEONE PLEASE THINK OF THE MEN??

No. 199119

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>>199109
Tortoise shell, I think.
>>199117
I do love to think of the men like this.

No. 199120

>>199111
I never said you'd actually hurt men. I just think you should probably talk to a therapist about your violent sexual fantasies because they are neither normal for men nor women.

>b-b-but men do it too! They are worse!

Ok. You're still fucking sick in the head either way. Incels and femcels can both be deranged, it is possible in this world full of fucking weirdos that two groups at the same time are fucking psychos and you would probably lead happier lifes if you sorted out whatever is broken in your brain that you get sexual gratification out of the thought of abusing others.

No. 199122

File: 1627079095206.jpg (Spoiler Image, 31 KB, 360x418, cavewoman.jpg)

Someone save this defenceless 2D man

No. 199123

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>>199120
die mad

No. 199124

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Men were literally made to take as much physical abuse as possible, hence their thicker skulls/jaws and higher bone density. That one anon is quite misandrist, for denying men their true purpose in life.

No. 199125

>>199120
Hide the thread you fucking retard no one is holding a gun to your head and forcing you to accept someone else's opinion, you're the only one shoving shit down peoples throats, we have a containment thread for our own degen shit and bother nobody what the fuck do you even want
Why are you caping for men so much you sound dumb, no one in this thread will go out on a killing spree like incels do, thats why you haven't heard of one case of a femcel going on a quest to finish off the male race, its a joke and it's not a problem enough to be compared to men who spout the same shit about women, because It will NEVER happen on the same level
Cope

No. 199126

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>>199124
It's true and you should say it.

No. 199127

the amount of scrote defenders in this thread, holy shit. i know women are taught to be empathetic but the amount of “b-but it’s unhealthy to want to torture men !!!” from anons from here is so pathetic. as if men would defend women from other men’s fucked up fantasies on other parts of the internet.

go defend saggy testicles somewhere else

No. 199133

>>199125
I see I hit a very sore spot by pointing out that flicking your bean to torture and rape might be a sign of mental illness. Maybe you should tell your feelings to a therapist, nonita instead of screeching at me like a harpy.

No. 199134

>>199133
Nobody in their right mind flicks their shjt to snuff or the thought of cannibalism, I replied to your retarded ass because you keep projecting onto the entire thread of anons because of one post.
One person made a post about that shit and you cant accept that the rest of us entertain the idea of it as a joke.
Its not serious and it will never be, there is no statistics of female sex based violence against men for a reason so simmer down and fucking hide the thread if you can't accept differing opinions, stop this moralfagging. Everyone is baiting you and you're losing your shit
Embarrassing

No. 199138

Damn i thought i was bad for being a mdlbfag but you guys are cannaballizing yall niggas???

No. 199143

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>>199030
Nothing more based than fucking a dude and then ritually sacrificing him (ofc I don't mean killing him obv).

No. 199144

>>199133
>flicking your bean to torture and rape might be a sign of mental illness
God I love being mentally ill

No. 199145

File: 1627095141847.png (Spoiler Image, 1.45 MB, 1125x869, missmakima1.png)

anyways back to regular posting

No. 199148

>>199134
>nobody in their right mind flicks their shjt to snuff or the thought of cannibalism
speak for yourself nonita

No. 199152

>>199138
>tfw I will never have a cute subby bf into getting told he’s my sweet snack as I bite his neck to hear him moan calling me mommy while he cums because I’m having him for dinner

No. 199154

File: 1627102445349.jpeg (Spoiler Image, 106.08 KB, 640x359, dildo gag 3_640_-1_-1.jpeg)

Apparently this thing exists? It's so bizzare I love it, thinking about putting it on him and making him use it on me. It would be too funny though so it wouldn't work irl I'd just keep bursting out laughing.

No. 199162

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>>199133
I'm not even a femdomfag but this thread is incredibly based. Men are literally made to pleasure women

No. 199166

>>199162
I feel like the opposite is true in humans, contrary to almost all other animal species (ie women are the pretty ones, men always orgasm from penetration etc). Nature fucked us over, so it's only fair to make things right for us women

No. 199170

>>199166
Scrotes fucked up natural order by turning their aggression on women and cattle breeding women for generations. You think we wouldn't have pretty men and just ok looking women if for thousands of years we offed the ugly ones and only had kids with the best looking men?

No. 199177

>>199166
you only think the opposite is true because scrotes want you to believe that. women have an entire organ essentially dedicated for pleasure. the fact that female orgasm isn't guaranteed the same way male orgasm is is, counterintuitively, the proof needed to show that female pleasure was crucial in our evolution. if the female orgasm and the clitoris were purely vestigial, like male nipples are, their structures would be relatively less complex than their male versions because it would be biologically costly to maintain an unneeded level of complexity. again, like what happened with male nipples. but on the contrary, the female orgasm leads to a complex brain activation patterns sufficiently differentiated from the male orgasm, and the clitoris itself is it's own elaborated upon structure with unique nerve endings, instead of just a vestigial penis head.

meaning that there were ecological pressures to ensure women receive pleasure from sex, even though female orgasm is not directly necessary for reproduction. on top of that, the fact that the female orgasm usually requires some amount of skill to achieve outside of just jackhammering shows that the ecological pressures (at the time) favored men who were willing to work to please women, maybe who were even deferential to women's pleasure first because they had to be.

sorry for the evolution sperging. but basically yes. men do exist for women's pleasure. don't let moids convince you it's the other way around, it's a male cope.

No. 199181

>>199166
samefag but i wanted to add there's no real connection between a male of the species being ornamental and the female of that species receiving pleasure during intercourse. males orgasming from penetration is kind of a given in almost all species and it's not really of note. what's of far bigger note is that women can orgasm, since that's not a given among mammals.

anyway like i said the complexity of the female clitoris means men were literally designed to pleasure women

No. 199189

>>199154
Oh yeah, I've seen those. I think they're mostly so the man can be close to the pussy but be ~omg denied~ and feel masochistic about it.

>>199162
Proud of you sis, this is the mindset women should have.

No. 199211

>>199162
That's not a man, that's a drawing.

No. 199234

>>199211
We could change the world so next time there are pictures of real men imitating the drawing.

No. 199244

>>199154
How does that even work? Is it a strap on?

No. 199249

>>199244
It's strapped on the man's head so he becomes a literal dickhead.

No. 199296

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>>199177
i enjoyed reading your post. learned something new today shawty! anyway heres some Kaneoya

No. 199337

Does anyone know where to find male omorashi content from a female perspective? Stories or art would be nice, I just like the idea of hearing other women's experiences with it.

No. 199343

>>199117
I get censoring the head of the dick and the top and the bottom but why towards the base too?

No. 199354

Anyone have any experience having a sub while having a really low sex drive? I like subby guys but they usually end up having a pretty high sex drive compared to me so I get worn out trying to keep up. It'd be cool if my moid was subby in normal life activities as well but only wanted sex like twice a month or something, that'd be ideal. Wait, I am suddenly seeing the value in chastity belts/cages.

No. 199356

>>199354
Is he constantly pestering you for sex? It's supposed to be on your terms, not his and he needs to learn his fucking place. You are his dom, not his fetish vending machine, so please don't overextend yourself to perform for him. There should be no pestering or begging unless you specifically tell him to. This is something he either has to accept or leave if he can't deal with it. You should sit him down and talk about both of your needs.

No. 199364

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>>199211
Why do woman want to look at drawing…when real men exist???

No. 199431

>>199364
i cant tell if youre either a moid or just dumb as hell or both.

No. 199445

>>199145
Oh bless you, I had no idea someone was making femdom smut of my precious cyborg husbando.

>>199354
I have a high sex drive but I think having a sub who was overactive would be great. Since he's horny constantly you can really tease the shit out of him, make him edge himself all the time, service you without any release, have him wear a chastity device or something so it's painful when he gets hard. Would be great watching him suffer so much and then become a blubbering mess when you finally allow him to orgasm

No. 199456

>>199445
>Since he's horny constantly you can really tease the shit out of him, make him edge himself all the time, service you without any release,

NTA but I think the issue is that this stuff isn't that fun if you're not horny, the situation you're describing sounds more like a sub with a sex drive well matched to yours. Mismatched sex drives in a relationship really are tragic no matter which way around it is.

No. 199458

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>>199431
kek I was making fun of the other anon.

No. 199516

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No. 199517

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No. 199518

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No. 199519

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No. 199521

>>199456
I see, I was going to say maybe you could have him serve you in other ways during those times. Gotta love willing slave labor. But it seems like anon is saying he's not submissive outside of the bedroom. I definitely prefer subby behavior at all times, having a guy you can demand cook for you, do chores or give you a massage (and feel grateful to do so) is great. In this instance I have to agree with >>199356. He has to respect your boundaries whether or not he'd prefer more. If that's not going to work for him then he needs to move on instead of trying to force you to be his domme on demand. Dealing with an entitled asshole is the exact opposite of having an enjoyable d/s relationship.

No. 199523


No. 199525

>>199523
The Dallas Connection (1994) I saw this gif set on tumblr.

No. 199526

>>199525
thank you beloved anon

No. 199530

>>199525
Rip for Tumblr banning it got all the best gifs there…

No. 199539

anons I need adviceeeeeeeee my bf wants me to "take control" (kek…) ive been trying my best but in your experience what exactly do they mean when they say that.. Im fine with taking control but not if its just an excuse for him to be lazy - how to i make that not the case?? im not trying to be fetishy and annoying i just want to have fun sex

No. 199550

>>199539
It means USE ME. So ask yourself, what can he do that will bring you pleasure? Role playing? Worshiping? Punishment game? Do you like seeing him embarrassed, pained, in compromising positions? Make him suck you until he is told to stop. Make him wear a sexy costume to rub your feet and back. If you engage in PIV, tell him exactly how to use that cock. You are taking what you want above all so have fun!

You’ll know if he’s trying to be lazy.

No. 199797

is there any hope for me as a domme as someone who is very short and weak and neither into pegging nor mommy stuff?

No. 199803

>>199797
yeah, get a midget sub

No. 199805

>>199803
does he really have to be smaller than me

No. 199808

>>199797
Yes, it's all about your attitude. Being mentally strong and confident and knowing what you want. You don't have to be the she-hulk.

No. 199812

>>199797
>>199805
There's no hope because you can't think for yourself.

No. 199910

>>199797
Md/lb is incredibly weird and off putting imo just like dd/lg, but to each their own, pegging’s just a sex act, it doesnt make or break a femdom relationship. Its not like you have to be physically stronger than someone to dom them, you and your sub are willingly entering the relationship together, he’s choosing to subordinate himself to you at leas sexually (if you arent insane, but rp can be fun). If you feel like you need an extra measure of control in the form of physical power then maybe its not the best relationship, but even then, learn how to tie someone up, bring a knife, you need to be very careful with it but some people find that hot

Also not all subs are looking for big milf or amazon, you can find plenty of porn with a short dom and a big sub, its a whole thing

No. 199917

Does anyone have any more dominant audios, or know where I can find more? A few anons have posted whole masterlists and they're my favorite, I really like listening to them

No. 199920

>>199917
Do you mean audios with submissive men? I posted the otome DLsite masterlist earlier. You can also try gone wild audio on Reddit, there is great stuff but also a lot of disgusting shit. Try searching for M4F msub plus keywords you're interested in.

No. 200074

Any other anon here not attracted to muscley men?
I'd prefer more cute femdom art where the men are slim.

No. 200075

>>199910
I could see why you would think that but I think on average a dominant woman can compartmentalize their lifestyle better than a dominant male. If you’re a burger the ddlg couple archetype is rampant and generally unashamed (Ive seen ddllgsfags wearing the gear in shopping malls and restaurants). I’ve never seen a clockable mdlb couple in public. Ofc Im a mdlbfag so perhaps I’m just rationalizing it kek.

No. 200076

>>200075
> I’ve never seen a clockable mdlb couple in public
Here are some real life horror cows for you
https://twitter.com/RitaPanahi/status/1420870984563785729

No. 200082

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>>200076
Why non…… Im renouncing my fetish

No. 200087

>>200076
Fucking lmaooo all mommy fags look like this. You never look like anime.

No. 200091

>>200082
>Im renouncing my fetish
Good.
Can you all believe this couple? This lady chimping out because others objected to having to witness a grown man only wearing a nappy sucking on his girlfriend's titties in public?

No. 200095

>>200076


Of course this degenerate shit happens on a NYC train.

No. 200388

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Relatable

No. 200390

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No. 200411

>>200390
What is she doing to him? Squeezing his dick?

No. 200537

I decided that my dry season will be over soon and I'm vetting candidates for a new fuckbuddy.
This shit is super frustrating.

perfect golden retriever sub it's your time to manifest into my doorstep.

I'm smart enough to avoid BDSM circles so I'm looking for an open-minded normie guy who I can train to be my boytoy.

Please let's not turn this into race-bait topic but do Arabic men make good subs? I'm suspicious that the possible patriarchal upbringing will cause problems.

do you have tips for the vetting process? is there magic words to use to find out who's decent sub material?

No. 200543

>>200390
kek I saw this hentai before. It was still quite male-centric but they draw sub-kun very cute and make such cute expressions so I allow it. https://nhentai.net/g/351615/ here if anyone is interested

No. 200548

File: 1627923313477.jpg (574.24 KB, 1280x1807, 1.jpg)

Speaking of hentai. There's a title called Book x Tea by Necomiya. https://nhentai.net/g/367486/
So far only the first teaser chapter is translated… I want to read author's other works. I could tell right away it's a fujo too. Any rich NEET domme wanna commission chap 2??

No. 200550

>>200537
Integrate please. Yes patriarchal upbringing will cause problems more likely than not. You have to assess on scrote to scrote basis. Just drop pinkpills in initial conversations and see how they react.

No. 200552

>>200537
arabchan, arab men are some of the most misogynistic scrotes you could encounter and are perma-babied by their mommies so they have zero self-sufficiency. most are not worth it even if they're your type imo.

No. 200571

>>200552
There was something that felt off and I’m going to trust that instict

No. 200573

>>199917
SoundCloud

No. 200584

>>200537

Arab men aren't good for anything. If they aren't Perma babies they're abusive. Or they're abusive Perma babies.

No. 200599

>>200584
> abusive Perma babies
I guffaw anon

No. 200608

>>200537
as many anons have stated earlier, your best bet is to find a normie and experiment with him to get him interested. men who proclaim they’re subs are usually either masquerading their laziness, lying in hopes of making you submit, or hiding a bizarre array of dark fetishes. try communicating to potential partners that you are dominant in nonsexual ways to gauge their reaction. don’t do anything you aren’t 100% comfortable doing. it’s hard to find any good men in general, but don’t settle for a shit experience from any man.

No. 200616

>>200388
what is the origin of this

No. 200618

>>200616
Men not shutting up.

No. 200620

>>200599

I wish I could laugh too, but have you ever seen a man threaten to beat his mother like his dad did…

Then turn around and have her call your mom begging for "closure" on his behalf?

Arabic men are confused as fuck.

No. 200634

File: 1628009835291.gif (1.36 MB, 498x373, teardrop.gif)

>get a sub off of r9k gfd thread, making it a very serious irl thing
> have a fetish for the idea of a completely devoted and worshipping sub who's addicted to you
> relationship gets rocky as the male subjects starts feeling doubtful
> find out that the male subject was secretely trying to contact other dommes on 4chan, confront him
> everything gets seemingly wonderfully fixed, still keep getting flashbacks of those secret posts and can't move on thinking I make a bad domme with a possibly unfulfilled insane fetish of my own, feel the malice stirring up in me

I want to feel stronger, not more vicious because of my fetish affecting my consciousness. are femdom and forgiveness compatible?

No. 200635

>>200634
I don't know dude but all men on 4chan cheat. They aren't how they present themselves as poor submissive guys who just want any woman they can get. They want every woman and usually every troon as well. He was using you which makes you the simp if you forgive him. Only way I'd take him back is if he pays you for your encounters.

No. 200641

>>200634
>are femdom and forgiveness compatible?
Involving femdom in interpersonal dynamics to such a degree seems bad to me. It's not completely just a fetish, sure, but it's mostly just a fetish. With that out the way, I don't see that you have any reason to forgive him? He did it once and he'll do it again.

>thinking I make a bad domme with a possibly unfulfilled insane fetish of my own

What do you mean by this?

No. 200646

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> I don't see that you have any reason to forgive him?

he pretty much assured me that he wants to spend his life with me and that he deeply cares for me and that his remorse for these tresspasses of trying to contact other women into gfd on fucking 4chan and thinking that I won't find out about it is immense and that he could never ever do it again, but I've always had trust issues, so I'm not mature enough to let go of any kind of hurt imposed by others.
so I guess there's no reason for me to stay spiteful, yet my dominant inclincations, even if sexual, affect my outlook on relationships and make forgiveness for even 'mild' unloyalty seem like something that would make ME the compliant sub and cause me having my desires unfulfilled and I'm quite disturbed by it

I guess femdom is a fetish that's rather hard to keep only 'in the bedroom' if you're truly into it and I just want to not let it take over me

No. 200651

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>>200634
>>200646
> have a fetish for the idea of a completely devoted and worshipping sub who's addicted to you
> but I've always had trust issues, so I'm not mature enough to let go of any kind of hurt imposed by others.

Not trying to attack anybody, but I made the observation that getting hurt by a past partner either physically or mentally and being into femdom has a uncanny conjunction.

>my outlook on relationships and make forgiveness for even 'mild' unloyalty seem like something that would make ME the compliant sub and cause me having my desires unfulfilled and I'm quite disturbed by it


I think because your exception of an Dom/sub relationship is that the sub could never hurt the dom and is depending on the dom and not the other way around.

No. 200653

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>>200634
>>200646
Holy fucking shit, PLEASE have a spine. If someone cheats on you, it's over forever. He doesn't love or care about you and he has shown you that through his actions. Why are even so many dommes pickmes for the trashiest men?

No. 200658

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>>200653
I perfectly understand what you mean,but it's not like he actually cheated on me, he tried to contact other women on an imageboard and kept telling me how awfully he regrets that and would do anything to turn back time. So I suppose it would be simply immature to stay sour about it.
Yet still, I feel like my dignity and trust were scarred and I'm not completely sure if he can truly submit to me after trespassing like that. Perhaps my dominant tendencies are toxic

No. 200660

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>>200658
Let me guess, you're afraid of being alone so you're willing to settle for just about anything? You could have had a cute and devoted sub bf who loves to make you happy, but you'd rather waste your time on some fag who was about to cheat on you as if you were a disposable tool. Are you sure you're a domme and not a masochist who loves to be mistreated and lead around by scrotes?

No. 200667

>>200658
>>200634
>simps 4chan scrote, a ducking robot at that
>spineless doormat
You’re not domme you’re a pick me with extra steps and deserve to suffer kek I have zero sympathy I am laughing at you.

No. 200671

>>200634
any good man who would be worth entering into any relationship nevermind one with these dynamics would not pull this kind of crap. and if you want a femdom dynamic, if he's supposed to be meaningfully submissive and you're the more assertive partner how the hell could he try to pull this shit? disgusting and slimy freak. leave his ass.

No. 200672

Ugh enough of pickme bullshit

>>200608
it was my mistake to ignore my first gut feeling.
I'll continue my vetting process with extra picky touch.
The whole domme thing is based on the fact that any man who I ever dare to glance at should be grateful.

I completely agree with other dommes itt that normies make better subs than coomers.

I've been talking to this man who is "golden retriever" type. Super normie. I love the idea that he can be "the man" in the public but in private he will beg me to let him eat my pussy.

also, there has been not one but two candidates who have chickened out.

No. 200680

>>200667
If you put it that way, anything that isn't dominating the guy by restraining him and pleasing yourself by using him and forcing him is just pickme stuff.

No. 200683

>>200680
Taking care of someone and being subservient to their every need isn't femdom, ffs. You can enjoy wiping your subs ass, giving him blowjobs, or whatever, just stop calling it (gentle) femdom or else we will make fun of you
That doesn't mean you have to treat your sub like crap, you can do nice things for them. But that's just part of being a loving partner, and has nothing to do with femdom!!

No. 200686

>>200683
Then what do you consider "proper femdom"?

No. 200691

>>200686
It involves being a little selfish, taking what you want and doing it for your pleasure and benefit. In general, the focus should be on the domme's enjoyment. There's no point in listing fetishes because not all dommes like the same things, so I'd say that intent is the most important thing.

No. 200708

>>200672
I'm talking to a dude and he's kind of a nerd but not the gross anime type. He's into rpg and cosmic horrors. Hes a cute twink and definitely my type. He's also okay with a lot of the things I want to try even tho he never was dommed. I really wanna meet up and start domming him as soon as possible.

No. 200734

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I got this 6'4 ex military friend I have a huge crush on and I remember he jokingly said "yes ma'am" to me when I told him to do something and now I can't stop thinking about bossing him around in the bedroom and him calling me ma'am

No. 200747

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>>200660
>>200667
I mean, in general I was just sharing my thoughts and slight confusion about how thriving and just popular femdom fetish is on imageboards and that it affected and impacted my actual life on a big scale.

And well, even a bigger source of confusion for me is constant doubts if I can truly own a guy as my sub if in the past he had doubts about finding me interesting and even tried talking to other women on imageboards interested in femdom even though he tries to be as good to me as possible.
And fuck no I don't want to be seen as a pickme or a simp, but can I really apply my femdom principles to interpersonal and love morals?

I suppose you can always fix and even decoarte a broken figurine, but the crack in it will stay and you have to deal with what you have.(avatarfagging)

No. 200748

>>200747
You already know he isn't worth shit, but you cling to him because you're a pick-me and want to make a huge drama out of it. Stop shitting up the thread.

No. 200757

>>200734
Met an old HS acquaintance through my friend group and hes the short shy weeby type. All I can think about when he talks is choking him and making him beg. Every anon who said normies make better subs than coomers were fucking right.

No. 200784

>>200747
it's not about femdom principles, it's about having an ounce of respect for yourself

No. 200790

>>200634
>get a sub off of r9k gfd thread, making it a very serious irl thing
The fact that you're trying to pursue a relationship from anyone from 4chan of all place is very telling.

No. 200823

>>200691
This discussion comes up occasionally and usually culminates in "that's not femdom, you're just a service top", whether it's applied to handjobs or pegging or whatever. My feeling is that it doesn't really matter and that "service topping" chat is more at home in this thread than elsewhere. Anyway, I like your post, even if from >>200683 it seems you maybe have a different view

No. 200853

>>200823
I admit it's a bit of a sore spot for me because I feel like a lot of women are socialized into mainly giving pleasure instead of receiving it. And this is especially true in femdom too, it's always about "how can I please him and be a good domme?" "what should I wear to give off domme vibes?" "how do I give the best edging 5 hour handjobs?" or some dumb bullshit. Meanwhile, where do you see dom men asking how to give the best clit rubs, how to eat pussy, or how to dress sexy for their sub? In theory, I think dommes should be able to enjoy anything and it can be femdom if they are leading, but the reality is a lot of them just want to serve men and pretend they're in control. I want to tell them it's ok to be selfish and do what you want, that's the whole fucking point.

No. 200875

disturbing

No. 200882

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No. 200885

>>200882
The natural state is that women should be submissive to men, if you don't like it just become lesbian(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 200886

>>200853
saying that brings up a point that always annoys me, wanting to look after or cater to your own needs is not selfish, especially if you've spent a life always focusing on others.

see it more like self care being able to allow yourself some enjoyment otherwise you just run the risk of being taken advantage of and making that same mistake.

it's not selfish wanting to come first, someone has to, why not let yourself for once.

No. 200888

>>200823
Btw there is always another argument about "man on top" being inherently maledom. Like apparently a domme can't be a power bottom?Seriously, I am just too lazy to move during sex, but it seems that a woman being receptive automatically counts as "passive" and "submissive" in normie's eyes. That's very annoying tbh

No. 200889

>>200886
That's true. I don't actually see it as selfish either, just communicated it poorly.
>>200888
Only retarded scrotes believe that because they don't want to put in any effort. God forbid they have to actively give their domme pleasure.

No. 200892

>>200548
Book x tea chap 2 has been translated in chinese. https://nhentai.net/g/362763/
English can't come sooner.

No. 200895

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>>200885
The natural state is that men should be submissive to women, if you don't like it just become a fag

No. 200900

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>>200892
Ooh sock garters. They're so sexy. Anyone know other material that got male garters like these in it?

No. 200916

>>200895
For real tho, what other worth do they have besides their helpful services and actions?

No. 200936

Have any of you had luck with r/femdompersonals or are there better alternatives?

No. 200942

>>200936
No. Every “femdom” soc hub is grimy and disgusting. Do not recommend. Just see normies.

No. 200989

>>200936
if anything it's worth it to help learn what you don't like, but any and all posts will be swamped by guys.

No. 201220

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I have a genuine question here, those that have submissive male partners do you ever get worried that they'll "troon out" ? i.e they start identifying as female, demand to be let in woman's spaces and ask you to identify as a lesbian
This wouldn't have been as issue like a decade ago but It seems like during the pandemic there's been this mass Trooning out of males, I know at lest 3 males who were into Kink(2 were subs and 1 was a dom) and all 3 started identifying as women during the pandemic, Its a fear that some anons in the MTF thread have discussed and if your current partner "came out" as a Troon, how would you react ?

No. 201222

>>201220
This is my number 1 reason why I haven't gotten a sub male. I enjoy bullying men and being aggressively dominant with them but I'm averted by the possibility of them trooning out on me. Pegging and men crossdressing for sexual purposes grosses me the fuck out even with regular sub guys but those being the gateway drug to troondom adds an extra layer of horror. Every story about transwidows always starts with the guy begging to be pegged and before you know it he's fully indulged in some sissy hypno lifestyle.

As for how I would react, I would dump their ass immediately with some bullshit woke excuse so they can't turn mutual friends against me for being a murderous terf or anything.
>Sorry honey, I know I've always been bi but I just realized I'm actually straight so I can't date women you know? Cis men and transmascs only!

No. 201225

>>201220
>>201222
That's why you have to ask any potential partner WHY they like those things. Men are shitty at lying, and if you dig even on a surface-level, they'll out themselves. It's when you try to be too accepting and you don't inquire further is when they drop a bomb on you later on. Trooning is a symptom of him trying to escape any sort of responsibility as a man. He's a failure as a man, so obviously, becoming a woman (who he views as inferior) is the solution to his problems. Lazy in bed and afraid to fail at pleasing women? Feeling unattractive and inferior, so might as well become a woman? Chastity + sissification + cuckolding + forced bi and almost every fetish that is disgusting to women has a basis in him being an absolute failed man, so might as well become a woman/assume the role of a woman. Yes, it is misogynistic as fuck and that's why it's important to analyze your nigel to make sure you aren't getting into deep shit.
Imo, some fetishes like crossdressing and pegging can be okay, but like I said earlier, it depends on the reason. If he says "I don't know" then he's either a retard who shouldn't be subbing to anyone, or lying to you because he knows his reasoning is fucked. Either way, fucking RUN.

No. 201227

>>201225
>>201222
I mean personally while I have enjoyed the Idea of physically dominating men and especially of men in bondage, the crossdressing kink is something I have always felt was misogynistic, Its pretty clear the wearing if women's clothes was supposed to the degrading aspect of it and its never sat right with men and outside that humiliation aspect those clothes never look on males, its just ill fitting at best and a ridiculous eye at worse

No. 201231

>>201227
Believe it or not, there are some men who just want to wear pretty things and look cute. There's always going to be a taboo aspect to a man wearing women's clothing because clothing is indeed gendered, but doesn't mean it's inherently misogynistic or humiliating.

No. 201233

>>200573
Thank you nonny! SoundCloud has so many! I find it difficult to find male submissive audios and searching through Reddit is a train wreck because they love to insert the "mommy" fetish into it.

No. 201234

>>201231
yes, but men who specifically are into crossdressing for kink reasons because they think it's humiliating (which is a large percentage of men who identify as crossdressers instead of just wearing the clothes they like without insisting upon a label) is definitely misogynistic.

No. 201236

>>201233
Could you link to some good stuff you found?

No. 201239

>>201234
That's definitely true, unfortunately.

No. 201241

>>201236
You could start with Namidame, there's some re-upload of the series on soundcloud.
I have a huge playlist but I don't want to expose myself lel

No. 201245

>>201234
This. Also it only works in anime, IRL men crossdressing in the bedroom look tragic as fuck. Not even hon levels of bad but just a guy in a dress, and I'm supposed to find it hot because it's ~a forbidden taboo~. No, that's just a misogynist moid thinking being submissive equals being female.

As for pegging, anal stuff is gross to begin with no matter which gender but it's such a huge red flag for incoming troonery that the very thought makes my vagina shrivel up.

Anyway, marginally related to this but what do you people consider "true" femdom and not just following a sub's script? I feel like everything is sexualized by men who claim to be submissive but in fact are just looking for a mommydom to serve their needs and scrotey fetishes like puppyplay or sissyfication and it's depressing.

No. 201275

>>201220
Me and my partner are both Verses though we did skew slightly more to a femdom relationship. I'm not gonna lie I have gotten worried these past couple months and have even stopped certain acts that we used to do regularly, for e.g I have stopped fingering him and I have no intention to ever try it again, mostly cause I was never into it fully in the first place and the whole fear of possible troondom
everytime I read a transwidow story and what these women go though, I think about leaving my partner and just becoming celibate for the rest of my life, I like my partner and he's a nice guy but I'm just worried of the "what if" and am also afraid that I wouldn't be able to leave him, Its like I don't want to leave him and there's no reason to leave him but If a situation ever arose would I even be able to ? that's what I'm scared of

No. 201279

>>201241
Oh I like Namidame, heard them before, but I don't know which other keywords to search for on sc. Suggestions please, if you're not comfortable sharing your epic playlist?

No. 201287

warning mommy stuff included

No. 201293

>>201279
Keywords like "Kouhai" "Situation drama" "Otome CD" "M Boyfriend" along with your kinks works
If you wanna dive deeper you can just go into the comments and click the profiles and check their likes, playlists and reports and scroll through that.
The account @ali_mcollection is a good place to start and also this link of you don't like heavily scripted stuff and prefer raw "vocals"
https://m.soundcloud.com/user-536492432/nishi-jpn-misstres-punish-m-boy-with-anal-play
Kek

No. 201313

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>>201220
So another Troon related issue I have been seeing with regards to Femdom, is the ever increasing number of Trans Dominatrixes or TS Dominatrixes both in professional pornography and the local scenes, This started around 2016-17 and its really only getting worse, I think in a couple years we could see that even Femdom would be taken over and associated with Troons

Also sidenote if you search for "Amazon femdom" or "Tall Dominatrx" there's a good chance that most of your search results will be troons, see height has always been a desired adage for male subs, the number of women who are 6'4+ is less then 0.8 of the Human race, you have more chance of winning the lottery then being a woman near this height but for males this is less of an issue

No. 201321

>>201313
Of course dumb male troons try take over everything, but if scrotes want to use other scrotes in porn and prostitution that is fine with me. Being a pro-domme catering to men has nothing to do with being an actual dominant woman.
>>201293
Cheers anon!

No. 201323

>>201287
>>201293
My bf can cry on command, maybe I should force him to make some OC for lolcow

No. 201325

>>201313
Gonna have to agree with >>201321
The men who use prostitutes aren't the type of men real domme women want anyway (by real domme I mean, not pick-mes). Although I have to say it's kind of annoying how closely porn and prostitution are linked with femdom online. That's why it's not recommended to look for men in femdom spaces, probably 1 out of 100,000 is actually submissive and not some kinkster with a "submission fetish." Honestly I ignore every femdom space that isn't women only. Who cares about the opinions of scrote porn addicts?

No. 201327

>>201323
ANON YES please.

No. 201329

>>201325
>>201321
My fear is that femdom will too associated with Troons(the same way stuff like danganronpa or coding) a lot of actual female programmers have told me that they feel embarrassed cause people assume that their MTF online when describe themselves as female coders

No. 201331

>>201313
If I remember correctly the number of women believed to be over 6'3 and above is only around 6 million, while the number of males who are over 6'3 is roughly 250 million

No. 201338

>>201329
I understand the fear, but in the end does it really matter? You just need to find 1 (one) male sub who isn't a complete fucking dumbass. Troonery is a huge filter imo, men are becoming more open about being attracted to troons and their misogynistic tendencies instead of hiding it, which makes it easier to yeet them early on. And it doesn't matter what people online think either since you are not sharing your sex life with them.

No. 201340

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>>201338
You don't understand I'm afraid of them, I'm truly afraid of Troons, looking at them I feel like im looking at a disgusting mocking parody of womenhood, every single one fills with intense disgust and pure terror, and its not just that I'm afraid of them I oppose what they represent, the ultimate combination of male depravity and capitalism without ideology, so this is just one more thing they shall take from us and corrupt

No. 201342

>>201340
Maybe you should take a break from the internet, then. They can't take anything away from you unless you let them live in your head. Yeah, they might get asspats from other women and it's scary that they are willing to throw themselves and other women under the bus, but in the end it doesn't affect you unless you let it.

No. 201347

>>201342
This isn't something we can ignore, in all my social circles, where they based around feminism, socialism, even just liking some nice Anime is infested with these monsters and it kills me

No. 201349

>>201347
Then find new social groups and don't settle for people you're not compatibile with, goddamn. I made TERF friends who are into anime, games, femdom, etc. Also have a sub boyfriend who is freaked out out by the femdom community in general and troons as well. You have to drop people who subscribe to that dumb bullshit and work hard to find like-minded people you can surround yourself by. They are out there. Crying about it in the femdom thread of all places isn't helping your cause, we all hate troons here, you are preaching to the choir.

No. 201351

>>201349
> have a sub boyfriend who is freaked out out by the femdom community in general
what, does he not like it or something
>You have to drop people who subscribe to that dumb bullshit and work hard to find like-minded people you can surround yourself by. They are out there. Crying about it in the femdom thread of all places isn't helping your cause, we all hate troons here, you are preaching to the choir.
its not that to easy abandon friends like this, I will be friendless loser If I drop everyone

No. 201363

Can you take the troon stuff to the mtf thread, I visit thread when I'm horny for anime pics plz

No. 201369

>>201349
I absolutely hate this "well get better friends" gotcha, it's surprisingly hard to just abandon your old friend group and make new ones because the transitioning takes time. Especially with such a fire hazard topic as troons, you really can't criticize them openly without being completely ostracized from everywhere else but wacko altright and conservative communities. The only way to do so is to gradually network between other cryptoterfs and hope for the best and that's a very slow and fragile process. It's great that you have a based radfem friend group but a lot of people (especially recently peaked ones) are stuck trying to distance themselves from the libfem circles they called home for so long.

No. 201370

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Anons with a cute sub here, WHERE and HOW did you find him?
I'm getting desperate.

No. 201377

>>191915
What's with all the anime pictures/illustrations of femdom?

No. 201386

>>201377
Most irl porn depictions of femdom are kinda shit, theres a lot more good anime style art

No. 201392

>>201377
Because 99% of porn is made for moids, hot female-gazey porn with attractive male subs is very rare. Hence the 2D men…

No. 201396

>>201392
I don't get the appeal, but I guess from that perspective it makes sense.

No. 201397

>>201396
I mean supply and demand, the number of male subs greatly outnumbers the number of female doms so their "tastes" will be catered to first

No. 201400

anyways i bought my partner a chastity cage i'm excited about it

No. 201407

>>201397
>>201377
All of the porn industry is for moids, that is why.
Which is why audio erotica is so popular itt too. It has actual men doing sexy shit for women.
>>201370
What is that stuff in his mouth?

No. 201408

>>201329
wait what the fuck, danganronpa got trooned??

No. 201410

>>201408
Didn’t even get half way through the first game huh

No. 201414

>>201410
Is this in reference to the guy that pretends to be a girl ? I was pretty sure he did that as protection rather than to troon out.

This is one thing that really irks me about western views that they treat it as trans or nothing, like Naoto in persona presents more male in order to be taken seriously as a detective in a male dominate society, then when she finds confidence in herself no longer needs to hide.

They did the reverse with Kanji liking more feminine hobbies must mean he's gay, not that he's in conflict with his idea of what a man should like and should not. once resolved he's confident in his self image as a man.

>I really detest western projection on japan cultural traits, not every masculine girl is trans or feminine guy is trans.


rant over sorry.

No. 201418

Would it be femdom if you have access to a guy's body when you want it but he can't do anything to you unless you decide to do so?

No. 201422

>>201418
>>he can't do anything to you unless you decide to do so
It's called consent.

In other news, I'm still in the process of finding a new sub. It's super frustrating to vet dozens of coomers and I truly hope that this does not make me lose hope for men for good.

I have a potential candidate that I might meet with tomorrow. I don't want to get my hopes up yet but he seems to be my type.

I like sporty guys who are "chad" type (even though I would never date one). I enjoy the idea that he's the "alpha" in the male hierarchy but submits to me behind closed doors. It gives something extra for the power dynamic.

Also: has anyone experienced hostile attitudes towards femdom in BDSM spaces? I'm not in the scene because of that

No. 201426

>>201418
Yeah, but imo just giving a guy all the pleasure while you get none is kinda boring and seems to be what a lot of dommes do. I want to make the guy give me lots of pleasure whether through rubbing or licking too. I'm not going to laboriously edge a guy for hours and get no physical pleasure in return, that's stupid and would just be me metaphorically cucking myself. Although I think it's really cute to make the guy ask politely to touch you every time. Maybe even make him beg to pleasure you, while you can just feel him up and treat him like your toy whenever you'd like.
>>201422
> It's super frustrating to vet dozens of coomers and I truly hope that this does not make me lose hope for men for good.
Yes, but it's totally worth it if it's something you truly want (which it seems to be). It took years but I found my ideal sub. Falling into the trap that all men are shit is a loser mentality and pure laziness. It's annoying and tiring, but at least coomers can be cut out fairly quickly. You seem to be good at vetting so I have no doubt you can find what you're looking for.

No. 201427

>>201422
>has anyone experienced hostile attitudes towards femdom in BDSM spaces

You get a lot of 'YoU jUsT nEeD tO bE dOmInAtEd' from old male doms.

No. 201429

>>201427
I wouldn't bother going to spaces shared with male doms as we are completely at odds. Most are just into patriarchal values and wifebeating with fancy words.

No. 201445

>>201414
It doesn’t matter if those characters are essentially just being gender non conforming. Trannies will “claim” them anyway because these comp sci dropout incels genuinely believe they are a 4ft tall anime girl god programmer on the inside.

No. 201446

>>201422
No well adjusted person would be “in the scene”.
t. knower

No. 201447

>>201446
Which is why there is such a lack of female dominants "in the scene".
You got: Wifebeater moids looking for young women to groom, self-harming young women, and coomer men whining about the lack of femdoms. It's not a fun environment.

No. 201451

>>201447
Or the rare brave shy person that finally shows up to the local 'scene' see's all this and decides it's not for them.

No. 201452

>>201447
>>201446
I used to be in 'a scene' and I agree with you both. I was young and in a dom role and even in my local scene where 95 percent of all women there were sub…. people were forever trying to somehow tempt me to cross over and suddenly tap into some subby side that I totally had and just didn't know about yet.. I stood my ground but ffs it was creepy how much people wanted to convince you to do something you were very clearly not into.

I never told anyone there but I have CSA in my past (tbh I think maany women in that scene did too) and so for me being in control was what I needed to enjoy sex and get aroused. I witnessed sub women who were perhaps taking part in some sort of cruel reliving of their abuse. One fully admitted that to me and cried on my shoulder. There were so many vulnerable women to pick from and they still tried it on with dom women too. I thank god that I never was persuaded to 'oh just try this out once' because I have alot of anger over things I witnessed but I got out unharmed personally. That was rare. There was a high turnover rate in that scene. People left all the time…well women left and the old creeps stayed put for years.

No. 201455

>>201452
I recognize what you write anon and I have a lesbian domme friend who experienced the same thing.
The BDSM scene is a male predator's buffet. I don't actually want to abuse anyone and seeing all those girls id as "subs" when they have experienced CSA and other trauma is heartbreaking.

No. 201458

>>201446
>>201447
>>201451
>>201452
This is the truth. And when you look at the female dominants who are in online BDSM spaces, they are all ultra pick-mes who support male troons and sex work. Any decent, well-informed person would never be in those spaces for long.

No. 201461


No. 201463

>>201370
Turn a normal shy guy into a sub by bringing out all his repressed sexual desire that have happened to be femdom.

No. 201464

>>201452
>>201447
Exactly what all these anon said. Was in a bdsm discord server and had shit like "if you dress cute you can't be a dom, you're a switch". The "doms" would insult and degrade you, the subs would leech and be emotionally draining. Not a healthy space to explore fetish or femdom things since its riddled with shitty coom brain men and broken women who just use bdsm as a guise to be terrible people.
That's why you never look for a male sub in these communities or you'll end up like. >>200634

No. 201473

>>201463
Yes ! + It’s nice that I get to ease him into it rather than the “one for me, one for you” favor mentality of experienced men. Bitch no, two for me, that’s the point!

No. 201475

>>200543
>>200548
y'all got any more hentai or manga recs, domme anons? I usually read BL but these were great.

No. 201477

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Can't believe I'm back to my dom shit with sad internet men.
Somehow get turned on by bullying these losers.

No. 201508

>>201463
>Turn a normal shy guy into a sub

Where to find though ? , can't just flip over a rock and one falls out.

No. 201524

>>201400
Let us know how it goes. Do you plan on cucking him as well?

No. 201527

>>201400
isn't that just something moids are into?

No. 201528

>>201524
Why would she, if she is tired enough of her partner's dick to put him in a fucking cage then she is tired of them in general.

No. 201529

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Horny farmers, the Virgin Witch has blessed us with a chapter of Wigrun in bondage.
>>201475
I recommend this manhwa anon. It often has the woman take the lead.

No. 201530

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kinda think he'd be fun to slap around what you think nonnies

No. 201531

>>201530
He doesn't deserve any attention from women. 0/5 would not dom even by hitting him with a ten foot pole.

No. 201532

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>>201529
Look at him hnng

No. 201535

>>201529
Are there any more (good)manhwa/manga like Virgin Witch where the women take the lead? I can't find any.
>>201530
Jersh looks like a baby who was rapidly aged to adulthood by a witch's curse

No. 201537

>>201535
KEK now I can't unsee that

No. 201538

>>201535
this is so fucking funny omg

No. 201539

>>201527
Does it really have to be? Could be more like an open relationship just for her. I would actually love to lescuck a really cute boy with another dom girl and just bully him together. Or be able to mess around with a more masculine guy but still come back to my cute sub boyfriend for cuddles and watch him blush and get shy when I tell him about it.

No. 201553

>>201527
Not that anon, but I'm into chastity only if they guy hasn't fantasized about it before or brings it up first. It's hot to restrict that part of a man, he can't even get fully hard unless I want him to and allow him to. It's kind of like bondage but on his dick. It also works out for me since I'm not into PIV, so it's not like I'm denying myself or anything.
Scrote view of chastity is "I love being unable to please my girlfriend and disappoint her constantly by not having sex with her" or "I'm addicted to porn so I need to be locked up and my girlfriend has to be my babysitter" which is why I will never accept a guy bringing it up to me first. It has to be my idea and my fantasy else it is pointless.

No. 201555

>>201473
>“one for me, one for you” favor mentality
What's that?

No. 201572

>>201220
My boyfriend is into crossdressing so I was a bit worried about trooning out being a possibility when we started dating. So I've made my opinion on troons abundantly clear from very early on, I've often ranted to him about creepy AGP "she/hers", talked about how they confuse their fetish with gender and how getting off to wearing skirts doesn't make you a woman. He even said that he agrees with me, and we've laughed and cringed at stuff like the Gamestop tranny together. So I'm hoping that all that will make him think twice if he ever starts to consider it, also I don't have to worry about some TERF backlash since he already knows full well what I think about the whole thing and it shouldn't come as a surprise that I don't want to date a tranny.

I'm currently not worried since it seems like he understands and agrees that wanting to wear feminine clothing is not the same as actually being (or wanting to be) a woman. And the crossdressing thing is pretty much under my control too, we only do it whenever I feel like indulging him a bit.

No. 201575

>>201572
Being accepting of male bisexuality seems to be the cure to the troon epidemic. It's just boys who want to try cock.

No. 201579

>>201575
No, troonery is just the symptom of male porn brainrot. It has nothing to do with "being accepting of male bisexuality".

No. 201583

>>201579
The porn brainrot is part of it. A biggest part in my experience is men that want to act in what they consider stereotypical womanly ways but know will never be accepted due to gender roles and expectations. There is a reason trooning out is more accepted than homosexuality in Muslim countries. Making men acting feminine acceptable would do away with at least 50% of troons I believe.

No. 201584

>>201583
The topic here was sub men who one day come out as trannies because they memed themselves into becoming The Ultimate Sub, not gender roles and their influence. If it was only about "men acting feminine" they wouldn't be so eager to take up some scripted stereotyped female role like a sexy gamer girl or a forcefully feminized sissy. The AGP type trooning out is either becoming one with the girlfriend of their dreams to have full control over them or having a submission/humiliation fetish that manifests as wanting to be made into a woman for the ridiculing aspect of it since they associate being female as being subservient and inferior. Plenty of troons are straight men who turn pseudobisexual only to further their fetish as a hole to be dominated, not because they legitimately find other men attractive. If anything in my experience it's usually the legitimately bi men who are least likely to succumb to trannyism.

No. 201585

>>201584
I don't think that was the theme, that was one interpretation by some anons. The theme was transition of sub men in general.

No. 201586

Nice to see fellow farmers wanting to bully men. Also, there was a similar specific fantasy in the past thread and I have to bring it up again just because it similar to mine kek

>Man who is extremely in love with me. Hopelessly devoted even

>Become the source of his happiness
>Tragically die one day or maybe disappear
>He becomes socially withdrawn, depressed, etc
>He wants me back in his life and doesn't bother looking at other people
>Wants me only
>Waits for the day he dies so he can finally reunite with me

No. 201593

>>201586
that was my ultimate fantasy and I wanted to pull it off when I was a teen. Sadly, I'm still here

No. 201598

>>201586
>>201593
Yall have seen romeo and juliet one too many times, honestly Im too greedy/self interested to find tragedy romantic

No. 201599

>>201598
good for you, since even I am aware that's not healthy and wouldn't even work out like I wanted

No. 201600

>>201586
I prefer the version where he confesses his love to me, I reject him in such a way that he still holds me in high regard yet his self esteem is obliterated, and he ropes, leaving me his measly life savings and a suicide note that I throw in the trash without reading.

No. 201601

>>201586
Didn't one nona also post a version where she just faked her death, and returns one day?

No. 201604

>>201600
damn at least ruin a rich guy's life

No. 201605

>>201604
Nah, not pathetic enough for me. It's not really about me getting a man's money, more about him exhausting everything he has for me and it still not being remotely impressive.

No. 201628

>>197177
scrotty here
I would not(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 201645

>>201555
NTA, but I think it's in the name. They fulfill one of your fantasies, so you have to return theirs in return, even if it doesn't bring pleasure to you. But the catch is that since men are really easy to satisfy, they'll go into basically anything and get pleasure, but then they'll still chalk it up as it was something they did "for you", and so in the name of equality you have to do some top service into something you're not interested in.

No. 201648

>>201645
I see, that makes sense, thanks.

No. 201653

>>201645
Not to mention nobody should go into D/s with a quid-pro-quo mindset anyway. You can't even call it submitting if the moid does what you ask in the beginning, just to turn around and expect you to do whatever inane laborious bullshit later. That's just transactional…

No. 201660

>>201645
hang on if men are easy to please wouldn't that mean you have the advantage in a "one for you one for me" situation, it just sounds like you're terrible at arguing your case. of course that kind of situation is flawed anyway but mainly because if each person's only getting off half the time that's a shit relationship, in any relationship you have to be coming at it with the aim of both people getting off, especially in bdsm or you're in danger of it just being abuse

No. 201662

>>201660
Well, yeah, it's a shit situation for women usually, that's why it's a shitty "mentality". What it is is a typical male manipulation tactic that plagues a lot of straight relationships, not just femdom ones. Men are incredibly manipulative and it's even funnier because they'll make "logical arguments", but they're usually just arguing for shit that's most convenient/requires less effort from their part masked as the most reasonable course of action. But this is getting kinda off-topic.
The bottomline is that run away from "one for me, one for you" men, because you'll always be cheated.

No. 201668

>>201660
The whole point of a D/s relationship is that it's inherently unequal. If your partner isn't fine with that he is not actually subbing for you, he is bottoming. Most dommes are already overly giving and too self-conscious about asking for what they want, so you throwing in bullshit about "abuse" only makes it more difficult for them, while actual abusive men in the scene will take advantage of them instead. Imagine considering not letting a guy cum as much as you abuse, kek. Keep quiet if you don't know what you're talking about.

No. 201669

>>201662
>>201668
yeah it goes both ways, you might notice that I never specified roles because anyone can be the perpetrator and anyone can be the victim, I'll agree that men need to hear the message more but it doesnt mean that its not true for every relationship, and yeah the whole point is that you need your partner to be enjoying it just as much as you need to enjoy it yourself, you cant purely follow your own wishes or the wishes of your partner, the fact that people get upset over this shit is a terrible sign

No. 201670

>>201669
>yeah the whole point is that you need your partner to be enjoying it just as much as you need to enjoy it yourself
Exactly, which is why it's common sense to make sure you're compatible and on the same page first. You don't force someone to fit what you want, but you find someone who actually enjoys submitting instead of a coomer who wants to exchange his """submission""" for you getting him off.
>the fact that people get upset over this shit is a terrible sign
Because it's annoying that another woman is this ignorant and feels the need to scream "why won't you think of the poor men?!" here out of all places.

No. 201671

>>201530
Spoiler that shit

No. 201682

>>201670
the people who 'actually enjoy submitting' are also getting off to it. that's the point of bdsm

No. 201685

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What kind of guy do you usually go for IRL?

I don't mean as exclusively looking for a sub but also not someone who wouldn't ever be one.

No. 201690

>>201682
They can be turned on by it and definitely should enjoy it, but getting the sub off isn't the MAIN point. If they can't submit without the promise of getting off/having you go down their checklist of fetishes, they are not submissive, just a coomer. It's important to make that distinction, else you end up with trash as described in >>201662

No. 201705

>>201528
>>201524

Nah, this is a long-term relationship. It's just fun to tease and make someone uncomfortable while they're in a cock cage.

Down the line I wouldn't be against having another woman in the room to bully him tho.

No. 201707

>>201685
Until this point, unintentionally: the shitty kind
Potentially in the future: respectful, empathetic, attentive, loyal, affectionate, eager to please

No. 201718

>>201705
>long-term relationship
>I wouldn't be against having another woman in the room to bully him tho.
I don't understand this cuck mentality.

No. 201723

>>201718

It's called having fun for one night? lmao?

No. 201724

>>201723
Why do you need to bring other people in your sex life to have fun? And then sharing your boyfriend with another woman too, you have to be the ultimate pick-me to do this.

No. 201725

>>201724
I'm bisexual but not romantically attracted to women. Sorry that I fit into some weird category that upsets you and that you can't understand.

I'm not trying to be a pick-me, it was my idea that I brought up and I think I'd be more keen for it than he is? Not understanding the weird aggression here.

No. 201726

>>201725
I’ll raise my hand as also a horny bisexual pick me who missing eating a lady out. You can communicate something like this out, it just has to be extra awkward at times and with a lot of lead up. I’ll take my slutty radfem trash self out now.

No. 201728

>>201726

Yeah I could imagine that it'd be pretty awkward occasionally. My main concern would be is if someone is uncomfortable or gets uncomfortable I would want them to be able to say "aight this isn't for me i'm out" and everyone would be okay with it

No. 201729

>>201728
What’s worked for me is the traffic light system. And fully discussing it with your partner way before anyone else. If they aren’t into it it’s not happening. I don’t like ‘scenes’, but it is fun when traveling to go to a cool bar and try to pick up someone cute together. It works like 10% of the time but regardless it’s fun to flirt together with a new bar friend. But before doing anything irl talk about it, especially in not horny situations. And accept you’re lame as hell and someone probably finds it cringe.

No. 201731

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>>199030
im not a femcel(i have sex and am not ugly), but i do have anger issues. And people have accused me of sounding like a femcel, probably because im a control freak and other stuff. but in reality im just an asshole / mean person. yea im a sadist, yea i fantasize about that kind of fucked up stuff, but its all just fantasy. Id never kill anyone irl. but i am still very sadistic irl.

for me the main reason I like the fantasy of doing things that is really wrong to guys, is because it seems so unfair and unjustified. I like guys so much that I want to see them when they are happy just as much when they are sad. Their smiles are just as precious as their tears, tears are really fucking cute. But im not like an abuser I dont abuse guys just so i can lick up their tears lol, but when a cute guy is mine, and he happens to end up crying about something, i do really enjoy those tears. Its almost like I can taste his suffering? its hard to describe. but I dont keep him in that state of suffering I try my best to cheer him up again. I guess thats why people might confuse me for an abuser. But im not. i just like cute guys REALLY REALLY a lot. They are so precious that I just want to hurt them its hard to describe. but most guys are not cute so i have less empathy for them. if you're a guy please be cute so i dont hurt you too much, but also dont be too cute or i might hurt you

unrelated but
I like browsing FDS.

No. 201733

>>201731

u r mentally ill

No. 201735

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>>201477
Another night, another man getting bullying by me.
Never thought I could be so turned on by an IRL man.

No. 201736

>>201733
excuse me, why do you say such a thing? I think im quite tame compared to some sadists who do really fucked up stuff.


>>201734


you seem to be replying to the wrong person, where does my post talk about bisexuality?

if you had read my post you'd realize i treat guys not too bad.

No. 201737

>>201725
>I'm bisexual but not romantically attracted to women.
So basically you're looking for a unicorn. If you are a domme you should know how shitty men are about using women for kink and nothing more, and here you are saying you'd do the same thing. Jesus.

No. 201738

>>201733
anon don't be rude. she seems fine to me.

but im also a sadist lmao.

No. 201747

Do you guys expect any kind of emotional comfort/gratification from your partners? The sub I'm interested needs constant comfort and advice in his personal life… Yes he's really sexy and good at pleasing me sexually but it's hard to imagine behind in a relationship so one-sided. What do you guys think?

No. 201752

>>201747
If you're only interacting on a sexual/fetish basis then you shouldn't be providing him with free therapy in the first place. If you're attempting to have a relationship beyond bdsm, then yes, it's only natural that both parties would be supportive of one another, give advice, and be a shoulder to lean on. He sounds weak and needy. Which, ya know, can be cute in the context of you beating his ass, but emotionally draining in normal life.

No. 201765

>>201752
Exactly this, a lot of men try to use women as a free therapist or extra mommy. Don't fall for it.
If you're in a serious relationship he should be able to give you emotional support as well. It shouldn't be one-sided.

No. 201772

>>201737
It's just sex retard. Which would obviously be understood by every party involved.

It would be done ideally who would want the same situation as me. You're being a bit daft.

No. 201846

>>201400
idk we just talked about this, it seems like it could easily lead to trannydom

No. 201847

>>201670
>>201669
>>201668
>>201662
Your making this sound like its way more deep then it actually it is, Its a dumb kink, nothing more and nothing less
This is why you discuss this stuff with your partner, you list all the various kinks your into and you partner lists theirs's, they remove any act that they don't personally like and you remove anything you don't like and you comprise, this is how stable BDSM relationships are formed
getting lost into this evopsych crap is just cringy

No. 201868

>>201738

NTA but her writing style is like if Gollum had a Gaia Online account

No. 201871

>>201847
No. My scrote will not have a say in anything, a zealot does not bargain with his god. It’s not a ”bdsm relationship”, I am a religion.

No. 201873

>>201871
I like seeing men in bondage with ropes, my partner likes spanking me, we both comprise and both get something in return
I'd rather deal with my current partner then any of these so called "sub males" who increasingly get more and more degenerate, needy and abusive

No. 201891

>>201873
Nta but if you compromise by taking a spanking you don't actually want in exchange for an act he doesn't really want then that's kind of fucked. If you don't truly enjoy something sexually then don't do it. Bargaining like this is bound to lead to issues down the line.

No. 201892

>>201847
>>201873
That's fine if you just want to satisfy your kinks. Your partner will go through the motions for you every once in a while, sure, but doesn't work if you want an actual dynamic. So for me it isn't just a "dumb kink" but relationship style. And no, that doesn't mean doing BDSM shit 24/7 or subjecting anyone else to our degeneracy, but my ideal relationship was always having someone who defers to me even outside the bedroom.
>I like seeing men in bondage with ropes, my partner likes spanking me
Kek, we're the cringy ones and you're the one who picked a man who gets off on hurting you, maybe you should've gotten lost in the "evopsych crap" too.

No. 201893

>>201873
imagine being with a man whos turned on by hitting you. “Dom” males are abusers. Get some self esteem.

No. 201920

I think maybe the confusion is the idea that it's give or take, I scratch your back you scratch mine.

when the general idea should be that if the sub likes pleasing you and serving you then it's not really a favour for a favour, just one side leads the other helps support and both sides win.

No. 201921

>>201873
>he gets to beat me
>he allows me to put loose decorative aesthetic shibari sometimes on him
Ew go back to whatever ddlg pick me ass discord you spawn from. My god I guess being a sub is so mainstream now that bitches must resort to LARPing as “domme” to impress imaginary men.

No. 201922

Besides the obvious danger of trooning out, are there any males who aren't a complete waste of time? It seems like a lot of male "subs" start becoming more and more demanding, completely indulging in their fetish and begging the dom to give them more and more of what they want. Then it ends up with the dom essentially becoming an assertive servant.
>mommy I need my cummies dress me up in maid gear and fuck me with a strap I need it right now!!!!! here's also a list of all the things I want you to do to me, ps I'm a total sub tee hee

No. 201927

>>201922
>are there any males who aren't a complete waste of time?
Yes, but you have to be patient since you will be filtering through a lot of trash. If you keep looking and don't lower your standards, you will someone you're compatible with.

No. 201976

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Just weirdly met up with my first love again, aka the guy I dated when I was 16. He has long hair now and couldn't stop complimenting me like a cute puppy dog, he also has massive sub energy and is single. Wish me luck, girls.

No. 201990

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>>201735
This one guy actually seems like a good one. Wish me luck. Third time's a charm.

No. 202001

This thread isn't as fun and quiet as it used to be.

No. 202010

The femdom tag on omegle is disabled
So sad

No. 202012

The IT nerd at my job isn't even attractive but ever since he carried some heavy boxes for me at work and did some other stuff for me when I asked, I now want to bully him and shove him in the hall when I walk past him

He doesn't even have sub energy but something about complient geeks awakens a stereotypical instinct in me to bully them

No. 202109

I am officially dropping the domme scene.
Every man is a walking red flag.

From now on, only domming for ladies. Applications are open.

No. 202118

>>201976
Good luck anon, idk why but i'm so interested in what will happen. update us (hope it goes well).

No. 202134

>>201377
Real men ugly. Anime boy cute. Simple as.

No. 202135

>>201287
No offence to him, but I think he sounds quite ugly.

Do any other anons have more audio recommendations like that, but ones that are done by boys with nicer voices and moans?

No. 202192

>>191915
i started my dom experience with men and god there is something so unappealing and inherently degenerate seeing them all subby. or, maybe i'm just a lesbian and that was my last straw.

No. 202220

>>202192
so true. it's only fun if they're doing you a favor. they shouldn't like it too much. really turns me off

No. 202252

>>202135
too masculine

No. 202255

>>201927

I found the best thing to do was to look for normal nerdy guys as opposed to guys that like anime. The guys who like anime feel like they're going to troon out in any second, normie adjacent guys who don't label themselves as subs can be molded into whatever you want them to be. That's what I did with my boyfriend, anyway.

No. 202653

>>201922
Alot of subs are rapey lowkey and just want to be lazy while u actually please them lol not me tho I make them put in work and make me feel good if they don't like it I tell them to leave cus I'm not about to have some retarded moid try and rape me out of resentment cus they never really wanted to be submissive just lazy hoping their mommy Dom would do all the work and make THEM feel good shits retarded I've kinda given up on domming men it's too much risks

They could abuse u, troons out, become stalkers

Fuck dat

No. 202654

>>201726
I could never have a MFF threesome unless it's us domming him

Taking turns pegging, tying him up, whipping him, choking him, making him worship our pussies

Every bitch in here calling themselves a domme but let's her sub hit her I got some news for you !.. ur not a domme lmfao why thee FUCK would u let ur sub hit u. He's supposed to be your bitch! He's supposed to live to please you! That soft domming shit is a con men are selling u. How is it domming if u suck his dick for hours or let him choke u idgi

>>201731
Lol I love seeing men cry it makes me feel all warm inside

No. 202783

Where would you all go if lc is shut down? There aren't much spaces for us online. I love how no bullshit these threads are, no moid coddling and no gender special crap.

No. 202841

>>202783
Yeah I'd be interested to hear where everyone else is going, I'll probably go on the hellsite that is reddit more or find another imageboard that isn't completely trash

No. 202852

>>202783
There are a few scattered femdom threads on cc in their nsfw board I think but the board is gross
Full or rape fetishes and all around weird shit lol
There used to be a gfd thread there too i think I haven't visited cc in a long time

No. 202854

>>202852

If any Anons know of a site that is like this that would be awesome. I hate interacting with scrotes on the internet and I'm going to miss this. I think we used to have a discord for this thread but my memory might be wrong.

No. 202866

>>202854
Cc is crystal.cafe
Its a female site

No. 202939

>>199062
>ITT nonnies believing this troll/obvious scrote

No. 202940

>>200620
saging because OT but I dated an arab guy for 3 years and he was pretty abusive.
His uncle fucked him for 8 years though so I should've seen the red flags going in but they're pretty damaged. Such a shame they can be so sexy though, most of my femdom fantasies involve them

No. 202966

>>202940
Where's the sage anon? Show me the sage

No. 202973

>>202940
The coincidence of this being possible is super low but I know a dude who was in a very similar situation and is Arab…did his name start with A and end in R

No. 202997

I want to put my boyfriend in a chastity cage but I don't want to scare him away.

No. 203022

>>202997
Has he done anything to make you think he'd want that? If he's already a sub to you, just tell him you think his little/useless dick should be locked up in a chastity cage? If he blushes or gets hard I'm sure he won't mind too much.

No. 203024

>>202997

I'm not into this fetish but I'd think you could probably get one and have him wear it while eating you out, then take it off afterwards and do whatever else you normally do. Shouldn't be too intense or weird and you can see how it progresses from there, if you both enjoy the dynamic, etc.

No. 203025

>>203024

Assuming you already have that sort of relationship obviously* don't suddenly present your totally vanilla boyfriend with a cock cage

No. 203034

>>203022
We've never talked about it but he definitely knows his place in our relationship. He works from home while I don't, I'm not happy with him being alone and unsupervised for 10+ hours a day. He does most of the chores and cooking etc, but I want to step it up a gear. I just don't want him to get cold feet, but at the same time I'm not going to allow him to jerk off whenever my back is turned.

No. 203137

>>203034
Oh no girl, chastity should be a fun thing to do because it turns you on. If you don't want him to jerk off constantly tell him and he should do it. If you can't trust him to do that, and you can tell he's been jerking it while you're away then… you have a way bigger problem than scaring him away.
>He works from home while I don't…He does most of the chores and cooking
That has nothing to do with being submissive though. He is just doing the necessary chores for you to both fucking live.

No. 203169

>>203137
I don't want him getting hard or having fun unless it is with or for me. No exceptions. He is 100% submissive, I work hard, earn more and pay far more towards the rent and upkeep of the house. We are establishing a FLR, he is happy with this, it's new to both of us. He does jerk off, not constantly but it happens. Most men do. I really want to push the control, ultimately I want to fuck other guys and have him at home but that's a long way down the road.

No. 203175

>>203169
Cuckolding has to be one of the shittiest fetishes and shouldn't be considered femdom. Does he even know that you don't want a monogamous relationship with him? That will scare him away faster than the chastity, jesus.

No. 203223

>>203175
When we first started dating we didn't see each other exclusively or at least I didn't see him exclusively. He knew and was okay with that. During lockdown over the past 18 months with everything being closed it has just been the 2 of us, he moved in and we are where we are.

I don't want to rush this, I'm fairly confident he will be fine with me having other partners. I really want to have him in chastity prior to this. Honestly this boy is marriage material if all goes along to plan. I just need to figure out how to make being in chastity appealing to him.

No. 203307

does anyone know some good femdom content twitter accounts? illustrated preferably, but irl is fine too if it's not weird. all i can find on twitter are gross male coomers and stuff still clearly meant for male enjoyment

No. 203335

>>203223
Sounds like you want to end up like u/Camachomustang on reddit
(go read her posts)

No. 203382

>>203307
I don't know specific names but pixiv artists on Twitter have nice femdom art
Let me see if I can find some

No. 203389

>>203223
>marriage material
>but im still going to sleep with other people
Anon….

No. 203391

File: 1630129661946.gif (4.04 MB, 130x130, 1D75BBC3-16BB-4048-97C0-6780D2…)

i don’t know what’s wrong with me but i want to peg a certain (now dead) guy while he’s wearing a skimpy tennis uniform. lord help me

No. 203577

File: 1630323267610.jpg (109.24 KB, 828x1237, 228912539_10159315715399491_52…)

Is it a red flag if a guy says he is into pegging before you bring it up? And lets you play with his ass and tie him up? I'm happy that he is open to it because I was testing the waters anyway and would bring it up eventually but after reading about all these seemingly normal guys trooning out I'm scared. He doesnt dress in feminine clothes or anything.

No. 203581

>>203577
There’s the slight chance of him not wanting to troon out if he isn’t terminally online, because the issue is when they spend too much time on the internet watching porn and talking to other degenerates about their sissy trap porn collection full of barely legal people and such.
Also Reddit and 4chan, if he browses any of those sites, he’s definitely trooning out because those sites are cesspools full of disgusting people that only want to see others suffer and that bought the “become the gf” meme.
And let’s not forget about discord, if he uses public groups on discord, like, not those created with close irl friends and such, he’s probably getting fed with tranny memes and such, because discord trannies love grooming people into trooning out.
So yeah, if he’s into any of those things, he might troon out, if he’s a normal guy with normal interests outside bdsm, he might not troon out.

No. 203600

File: 1630343040262.jpg (14.27 KB, 240x320, Sadistic_Beauty.jpg)

Hey nonnies, me and my sub/bf are currently long distance due to covid related shit and im honestly running out of ideas for sexting and camming and whatnot, does anyone have suggestions for this kind of stuff?
I've already done orgams denial for a few days, making him physically punish himself, teasing etc.

No. 203604

>>203581
I think it's a bit presumptuous to say men who browse Reddit, 4chan, and use Discord will troon out, lol. It definitely depends on where he's hanging out on those sites and the company he keeps.

No. 203609

>>203581
im positive he doesnt browse 4chan or uses discord, maybe reddit(engineering major and reddit goes hand in hand) but i dont think he's terminally online, he seems well adjusted and has normal interests, at least thats what i observed based on the memes he sent, if he is i'll be extremely surprised because he hides it very well.

>>203604
i get where she's coming from i also think if a guy is deep into internet culture he's more likely to troon out, not that normies dont troon out but its very rare and even then they troon out at later decades of their life like 40-50. But yeah which boards/servers/subreddits he's into matters a lot.

No. 203610

>>203577
Personally I would ask him how he initially developed the interest and what some of his other experiences were like so you can "get an idea of what he likes." Frame it as a tehe fun sexy conversation when in reality you're probing for troonery. If he says an ex wanted to try it and he liked it, even if he ended up experimenting a bit before, that's probably fine. If it's because he watched a shitton of troon porn or did a stint selling his ass for funsies, well there you go.

No. 203611

>>203600
Why not make him come up with some of his own punishments? It's annoying when you're having to do all of the creative legwork as a domme. Unless things are fun and interesting to you then it defeats the purpose. Tell him you're getting bored and want him to develop some ideas for a change. Although to be fair, there's only so much you can do when you're long distance and it sounds like you've hit on most of it. Have you done any public stuff like making him go outside and jerk off/expose himself? (Obviously only have him do this in places where he's basically guaranteed not to be caught to avoid traumatizing any women. More about the excitement of a change in scenery.)

No. 203613

>>203611
Posts like that just make me think that they are trying to entertain their moid. Online D/s is a joke anyway. It's basically all work for the domme while getting no pleasure or service or fun.

No. 203622

>>203613
Agreed, my idea of a good time with a sub online is him putting together an entire song and dance consisting of him tormenting himself. He should feel lucky a woman is even bothering to watch, much less plan out the entire evening for him.

No. 203629

>>203611
>>203613
>>203622
I would normally agree he's not pulling his weight on coming up with stuff but the poor sod got the rona lol so im throwing him a bone this month he's gonna be away.

No. 203662

>>203577

You could find out his opinions on the (trans)trend if you're able to bring it up without sounding like a lunatic terf, probably as an engineer who uses discord/Reddit he is at least partially aware of disagreements around this topic

No. 203678

>>203662
>without sounding like a lunatic terf
And why wouldn't you want to sound like a based terve?

No. 203715

>>203678
If you pretend to be a cool girl who is fine with troons, he'll open up to you and then you can dump him. You don't want him to hide it and then find out 3 years down the line he was scared to come out to you because you gave off terf vibes.

No. 203791

fav pegging posistion

No. 203892

>>203622
what kind of dancing does he do?

No. 203985

>>203604
nta but a week ago I dumped my bf of 4 years because I found out he was looking at exclusively tranny porn the whole time we were together.

he was obsessed with 4chan, joined public discord servers and tons of private Facebook groups where he would 'like' and compliment disgusting pictures of ugly men in women's underwear etc.

check your man's internet history whenever you have the chance, nonnies. I respected his privacy and thought I was so great, but I wasted 4 years of my life with a freak so please, if you have a bf, do a check every now and then.

No. 204126

>>203892
Interpretive krumping with knives

No. 204150

File: 1630757301288.jpg (Spoiler Image, 73.8 KB, 1024x430, tumblr_nbtis6yzgI1rldtu7o1_128…)

I have this picture framed in my home, and I just caugt myself staring at it the other day and getting cravings from just kissing a guys neck, and back and squeezing his ass and stroking his nipples aaaaaaaaah

No. 204151

File: 1630757721739.jpg (Spoiler Image, 25.27 KB, 389x519, tumblr_oi2v55oQYq1ujsmuvo1_500…)

how do i wreck a boy like this

No. 204154

>>204150

You have a naked twink framed in your home. Get help.

No. 204156

>>204151
Simba does not deseve this

No. 204157

>>204154
KEK my thoughts exactly, didn't say anything in case it was just me being too prudish for the femdom thread

No. 204158

>>204150
Don't get help, post a photo of your framed pic instead kek

No. 204161

>>204151
That's honestly too much dick

No. 204179

File: 1630770819129.png (1.32 MB, 1586x1057, Untitled.png)

I haven't seen this posted but author who drew the sexy Incubus-kun >>193748 >>193747 made a dating sim that has been localized here.
https://moonchimel.itch.io/i-love-you
It's short and sweet and simplistic if you want to pass some time.

No. 204198

>>204179
You didn't see the exact same screencap just below those posts?
>>193757
>>193758

No. 204201

>>204198
This is tripping me out bc I scrolled a couple times lol wtf

No. 204227

>>204161
It's just more surface area to step on.

No. 204281

>>203335
I agree with some of her posts and not others. I'm happier working and keeping him at home, if we have kids he would definitely be at home raising them. I have zero issue with people knowing I'm the matriarch, obviously what happens in the bedroom is our business and no-one elses.

I've spoken to him about a cage and he's open to it, he doesn't want it 24/7 but I'm going to (hopefully) incrementally make it long term. I'm not sure if I want to deny him sex all together, it depends on how things go finding another partner etc. That's another conversation.

No. 204463

File: 1630941400794.png (Spoiler Image, 899.52 KB, 994x418, 1.png)


No. 204491

>>204463
Whenever I see nasty ass men with women in stupid ugly fetish outfits I'm 99% sure it's a scrote posting.

No. 204493

File: 1630958312854.jpg (348.66 KB, 941x1050, 91799656_p2_master1200.jpg)

>>204491
Yep, same here.

No. 204499

Talking with my bf last night about kinks and the like. I decided to bring up femdom or "me being more agressive" and he said "that's cool, wanted to try something like that". I worried that I oppened some pandora box for him suggesting pegging or other tranny shit, but he seems to be on the "lighter side" of things. He then sugested laying in the ground and that I should try to "dominate him", then I got on top of him and put my hands on his throat. Wierd thing is how relaxed he looked like, he tends to be on the more dominant side usually, and since strenght difference between us is clear, it was fun to hold big guy under me by the neck

No. 204501

>>204493
Thank you for that palate cleanser. On a somewhat related note, what do anons think about wearing stereotypical domme outfits? I typically don't because of the hassle, but every now and then I do like dressing up like a mistress fetish (leather, latex, lingerie with edgy accessories). For me it contributes to getting into the right mindset if I'm doing a longer scene and it can be fun to play the cheesy leather goddess role now and then. It also gives the sub a few extra things to fuck up, like if he takes too long removing your boots or untying your corset you punish him. Even better if he's restrained during the process to make it extra difficult.

No. 204502

>>204499
Most average guys are way more open to/interested in being dommed than they let on. You just have to take the first steps. Sounds like it's going well for you, and I agree that the feeling of controlling someone can be euphoric. Especially when they're bigger. Glad you're having fun so far!

No. 204520

File: 1630966958502.png (40.31 KB, 739x465, 1.png)

>>204281
https://i.imgur.com/433y78j.gifv
Just here to post related content

No. 204539

found out this guy i was into is both submissive and masochistic. i can’t fuck him because of just how intertwined our lives are. however i’ve been falling to sleep thinking of marking him and restraining him and leaving for a week. i know i shouldn’t but i feel so tempted to ask him more on the subject.

No. 204547

>>204520
My boy is quiet, shy and reserved. He hasn't had many partners and is a few years younger than me. Long periods of denial with zero edging etc is what I want, I don't want him touching himself at all. Once the cage goes on and we have him comfortable enough to sleep with it on that's it as far as I'm concerned, he no longer has a cock. He goes down on me regularly with zero reciprocation so I feel this is a natural progression. He will just have to come to terms with it himself. We will take it slowly so he barely notices it happening.

No. 204557

File: 1631015600887.png (Spoiler Image, 578.28 KB, 846x402, 2.png)

>>204547
But he will still have a need for release every once in a while.

No. 204567

>>204501
>wearing stereotypical domme outfits
I don't like the idea of turning a scene into a performance or a special thing that requires me to dress up in objectifying, uncomfortable clothes. I'd much rather dress up my sub, honestly.
>>204557
I think people severely overestimate how often men need to cum. They really need it only 2 weeks or so. My boyfriend is high test (saw his blood test results on accident once) but only masturbates once a week and can go for much longer. He also doesn't have a ridiculously high sex drive either. I'm convinced the men who harp on about needing release constantly are pornsick.

No. 204572

File: 1631027245386.jpg (97.88 KB, 960x957, 73193902_1001004330242578_4298…)

>>203985
that sounds like a genuine fucking nightmare scenario
I'm so sorry he turned out to be like that

No. 204577

>>204491
There's something very specifically m*le in that post. Like you said (nasty ass men, women in stupid outfits) the setting looks something like this:
>minimal effort crusty dude
>woman has an outfit that looks either poorly put together or like it's coordinated with a shallow checklist of what basic shit it needs to include to be "hawt"
>usually fixates on one inanimate fetish item (like clothes or accessories or objects) or action
>full body shot of the woman while the man is mostly hidden or at a bad nobody-gives-a-shit type angle

Whereas these 2D pics have:
>full view of how the men react, especially their faces and eyes
>good angles, men's bodies are as visible as possible
>emphasis on the man's attractiveness and how he's styled or decorated (possibly with bondage paraphernalia)
>not that many full body shots of women, and their outfits are more natural, might border on stylish, or they're just naked
>the complete energy and dynamic of the situation is much more important than a single item or action

The surefire ways to define what male 'taste' looks like in practice is absolutely within the means of verbal description. Especially when it comes to sexual stuff.

No. 204579

>>204577
samefag I'm running out of brains and energy right now but I meant to contrast the 2D in this thread against the quintessential scrote 'femdom' content

If it's 2D and has the sexually relevant stuff, it's most likely a woman posting it. There's not much 3D domme stuff out there that's genuinely enjoyable for a woman.

No. 204598

File: 1631042279614.png (Spoiler Image, 1.78 MB, 1242x840, 2.png)

>>204579
Here's some 2D and 3D

No. 204602

>>204598
Right but those top images are gross - look at his weird ass feet and pouchy belly.

No. 204603

>>204602
Wasn't that the point? They were comparing ugly ass 3D porn for scrotes vs more aesthetically pleasing 2D porn drawn for women. Also, not only is the top left pic disgusting, the creepy blowup doll is freaking me out too.

No. 204606

>>204602
>>204603
It's definitely the same scrote, try to ignore the flabby pasty shit and maybe it will leave

No. 204607

>>204606
Why are you being unkind?

No. 204608

>>204567
>I'd much rather dress up my sub, honestly.
I do that as well! I really enjoy roleplaying at times and have worn a variety of outfits in addition to dressing the men I've been with. So maybe it is performative in a sense, but it didn't take away my enjoyment. That being said it's not a constant or a requirement for me to have fun, just something different when I feel like changing things up. I understand not wanting to play into stereotypes or wearing something uncomfortable, though.

No. 204609

>>204607
I don't understand why >>204577 would need to illustrate her point with gross images when she already explained the differences perfectly and provided better material. Seems like a man just seizing on another opportunity. That being said
>woman wearing rubber gloves to touch saggy scrote's junk
Seems about right kek

No. 204611

File: 1631046625737.png (Spoiler Image, 511.86 KB, 750x372, 3.png)

>>204609
Reality is often disappointing.
There are many couples who are relatively unfit or just plain fat.
Still kind of interested in the discussion about emphasis on the man's attractiveness and energy/dynamic of the situation.

No. 204619

File: 1631051139560.webm (5.07 MB, only instrumental.webm)

>>204611
Thing is though, 3D wouldn't even have to be a 1:1 replica of the 2D material, as in the people in it don't have to even be 'flawless'. They just have to perform well and be hot.

If only 3D spheres had decently cute, pretty guys losing their shit like
>>193601
>>192955
>>193573
shown in these, it'd be instantly better. Reality is disappointing because people don't even dare to try. Literally just find a cute dude, make him whimper and record the faces he makes. So far it's only fulfilled in gay porn (as discussed way earlier in this thread) and somewhat more in subby bf ASMRs.

A close up of a bothered penis partially covered by belly pudge is nothing. Nothing.
Now, a guy desperately crying with his mouoth on a proper WAP is something. Show that bitch boy writhing in 4K.

No. 204632

File: 1631056272333.jpeg (88.68 KB, 1198x1081, embrace.jpeg)

>>204619
I'm very frustrated because I like submissive boys but often it only comes in the form of gay shit and I HATE gay shit. I also like male solo masturbation but they always put a gay spin on it. I ended up into shota (which I just envision as short betas because there's no demand for short grown man beta hentai.) Even then though, if it's straight shota the boy often takes on a bratty dominant stance with the woman. I just wanted to see a cute little loser whimpering and getting pre cum and fingering around inside a girl, naive and curious. Free me.

No. 204634

>>204632
nonnie, this picture is so hot and i think the same as you

No. 204635

File: 1631057358375.png (Spoiler Image, 631.99 KB, 810x376, 4.png)

>>204632
"Cute little losers"… "perform well and be hot"

No. 204636

File: 1631057382845.jpg (Spoiler Image, 73.8 KB, 460x958, 895665656.jpg)


No. 204637

File: 1631057410092.jpg (Spoiler Image, 196.51 KB, 1013x1200, 565614862146.jpg)


No. 204643

>>204635
Are you implying I want them to perform well or that it's more important to you? I genuinely can't tell.

No. 204650

>>204637
hot..love it

No. 204653

File: 1631077914385.jpg (94.66 KB, 1243x560, Screenshot_20210908-010223_You…)


No. 204660

>>204653
Wtf is this

No. 204667

>>204660
Femdom but under UV lights

No. 204668

>>204653
Nothing about this weird shitty screencap is sexy or titillating, anon.

No. 204673

>>204635
This is what all maledom should be like. A slim young naked man licking his partner while she just lies there and looks smug.

No. 204676

>>204632
Inexperienced, sensitive thin manlets are so underrated and underrepresented. They exist and are of dear use.

No. 204678

File: 1631097640966.jpg (197.88 KB, 702x991, 5014a274edbe8ede932600981c7633…)

>>204632
I have something for you anon.
https://hitomi.la/group/merci-all.html
This doujin artist is obsessed with the cutie Kashuu from Touken ranbu and draw him with a big-ass female saniwa (master).

No. 204684

File: 1631105173958.png (Spoiler Image, 347.54 KB, 486x460, 3.png)

>>204619
>a guy desperately crying with his mouth on a proper WAP
I think I've found something.

No. 204689

>>204684
Are you a man?

No. 204698


No. 204699

File: 1631113490859.jpg (Spoiler Image, 131.49 KB, 1242x1418, 1.jpg)


No. 204703

>>204635
Is that porn with an actually cute guy? I am baffled

No. 204708

>>204703
Actually yes. HGF experience Gabriel.

No. 204813

File: 1631189545237.png (Spoiler Image, 181.06 KB, 448x398, 2.png)


No. 204877

>>204813
i love this…. <3

No. 204881

>>204877
Boys moaning while getting overpowered?
(listen to the audio track if you don't like the 3D video)

No. 204882

>>204881
Let me know if it's ok or not

No. 204883

File: 1631224578150.png (11.88 KB, 1273x135, 1.png)


No. 204884

>>204881
>>204882
tranny porn? on femdom thread? what terrible times we live in

No. 204888

>>204884
I wish jannies removed every single one of the posts this specific m*le keeps making

No. 204893

File: 1631227947351.png (Spoiler Image, 791.9 KB, 1024x2048, 1.png)

>>204888
Sorry, seems like "cute little losers whimpering" is more the speed of the thread.

No. 204895

File: 1631228444893.jpg (Spoiler Image, 33.17 KB, 719x919, 1.jpg)

>>199354(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 204903

>>204882
fuck off tranny

No. 204904

>>204881
>>204882
Kill yourself, you will never be a woman

No. 204959

>>204632
> I like submissive boys but often it only comes in the form of gay shit and I HATE gay shit.
Me too, at least with real men. I found a sub where actually hot men submitted gifs/pictures catered to more to the female gaze, but the most active poster is obviously posting for the gay men (they're the most active commenters, quelle surprise). He constantly tries to put in glimpses of his asshole, but who the fuck likes assholes apart from gay men, it makes me fucking shiver.

No. 204972

File: 1631267467136.gif (Spoiler Image, 947.6 KB, 458x347, 0.gif)


No. 204977

File: 1631274456513.jpg (Spoiler Image, 295.05 KB, 939x1389, 1.jpg)

>>204972(ban evading)

No. 205367

managed to find a somewhat normal man with an interest in light bdsm, he's asked me to boss him around a bit in bed but i'm incredibly inexperienced and though this has always been one of my main kinks i find myself freezing up and my brain going blank whenever i attempt anything. any advice on how to stop being retarded about this and have more confidence?

No. 205368

>>205367
Act like a moid, think with your clit and don't be too soft in fear of hurting him. You can't hurt him the way he could hurt you.

No. 205384

>>205367
I think a nice way to ease into domming is to start out with a blindfold. You won't be focused on how you look or "performing" for a man, it's okay if you fumble around a bit since he's not going to see it anyway. Make him give you oral or some other thing you like without any visual aid then lightly punish him when he doesn't get it perfect.

No. 205399

>>205367
Slap his dick bitch!

No. 205405

>>205367
>>205367
Apply sufficient pressure to his balls that he screams.

No. 205410

>>205367
Just think of what you want to do and then do it? You're probably thinking too hard about performing for him, just be natural instead of thinking you have to please him.

No. 205411

>>205368 and >>205410 with an emphasis on >>205384 as tips for actually implementing the first two.

No. 205416

File: 1631547814613.jpg (Spoiler Image, 259.16 KB, 1152x2048, 2.jpg)

>>205367
Later(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 205420

>>205416
Is the male autist back?

No. 205452

File: 1631566889902.jpg (28.29 KB, 500x329, killfuck1_026ace59-0d95-4d15-a…)

>>194008
>>194019
HOOOOOOOOOOOOO THANK YOU GODDESSES

>>194022
100% yes. i want to do the absolute worst things to men, but not to women. ever. i never want to abuse women. i want to abuse men WITH other women. women are equal to me, though, and i have no desire to inflict the same shit on them at all

No. 205502

>>205452
Based, I wish I had a gf like you nona.

No. 205554

>>205551
If I have a sex dream about someone else and I know my partner is the type to be bothered by that.. then I just don't tell them. Tell him you'd rather not know.

No. 205575

>>204598
Wow, do you know who the artist of the first drawing is?

No. 205598

File: 1631647606570.png (Spoiler Image, 199.51 KB, 306x436, Screenshot (167).png)


No. 205599

File: 1631647973281.jpg (Spoiler Image, 1.95 MB, 1900x2705, 5fb39c86f5091df67905ae27dc9ac5…)

If only I had a bishie bf with tiny nipples to tease the shit out of.

No. 205660

>>205598
Thank you!

No. 205677

>>205599
Are male nipples sensitive?

No. 205678

>>205677
The only function of male nipples is to be an erogenous zone.

No. 205679

>>205677
That depends on the guy. If he isn't particularly sensitive, you can bite and be rough with them which is fun. If he is, you can gently tease him. Win win either way.

No. 205822

Does anyone here have any experience with subs from Europe? I met one a few weeks ago and I can't help but compare him to the ones I met here (America) and it's night and day, he's polite, attentive, eager to please, has a funny accent.
I suppose all men from Europe aren't like that, but for the anons that are from America, what are your experiences?

No. 205828

>>205822
Europe consists of a ton of different cultures and countries anon. Like was he from Greece or Iceland?

No. 205829

>>205828
Oh no, he's from France, I thought french people were assholes but he's been nothing but a delight to talk to since I met him.

No. 205867

File: 1631828426610.png (Spoiler Image, 281.18 KB, 634x366, 2.png)


No. 205922

>>205867
>any advice
>just responds with a dumb screencap
fuck off



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