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No. 98824

There was talk of making a thread, but no one was taking action so here it is.

Thread for:
>female subs interested in women
>femdom images and media
>femdom fantasies
>advice and stories

Some things to get us started:
>What experiences have you had?
>What are your main kinks?
>What advice do you have for newbie dommes?
>Where to find subs? How to avoid unhealthy ones?

No. 98826

>How to avoid unhealthy ones?
Avoid the obvious 'kink dispenser" ones who despite claiming to be a sub wants the relationship to be 100% about what THEY like

No. 98827

Thanks for starting the thread. I love the op pic.

No. 98828

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Where's the op pic from?
Also, I'd like to add a question:
What's your ideal sub like?

No. 98829

File: 1540061987977.jpg (162.65 KB, 728x1064, 21.jpg)

If anyone wants a cute, non-H short comic about femdom, read "Mud" by Yamashita Tomoko!

No. 98830

I prefer the bratty types but i'm fine with 100% submission
The least ideal is corpses who just lie down do nothing and basically dom from the bottom pretending to sub

No. 98831

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Cute, "soft" older man but not too much older than me. Lean body type. I'm into gentle femdom and I just want a cute man to play with and spoil with physical affection.

No. 98832

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So I realize I have to be true to myself after fantasizing about sub guys since forever and actually try finding one for a relationship.
How do I go about finding a sexually submissive guy IRL, anons?
Usually I use Tinder to get dates but I don't see any guys hinting at being into that.
I tend to like guys who have a more soft look and attitude but I've ended up with ones who really want a mom and they can fuck off.

No. 98837

That's so cute, where is it from?

No. 98838

I don't mean to be negative but from my experience a lot of sub guys tend to have a lot of mental health issues.

So you're gonna be handling a lot of depressed guys/boys.

And good luck trying to find that shy virgin unicorn.

No. 98839

It depends where you look
Should probably avoid online mostly

No. 98841

we kinda already have a femdom thread >>>/ot/298183 but i approve of one being in /g/ as well i feel like itll fit better here, idk if i should ask in the fanfic thread but it might be easier here, does anyone have any good fanfic recs with femdom in it or at the very least a more assertive/aggressive woman? no overpower shit where the guy flips the tables dominates you i fucking hate that shit.

idk the specific piece but its definitely kaneoya sachiko's artwork

>ywn have a qt virgin sub bf to dominate and tease
why live

No. 98842

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It's by Kaneoya Sachiko!
Anyway, ideal sub:
>very thin (weighing less then me)
>under 6'
>dresses well; if it doesn't come naturally, he will let me dress him
>idc if he's ugly or conventionally attractive face wise tbh
>into both gfd and extreme sadomasochism just like I am
>lets me financially support him
>shares similar interests
>very monogamous

Same dynamic in and out of the bedroom basically, but not a gross "24/7 show it off to everyone BDSM relationship." Sex stuff is for us alone.

No. 98843

Not so much fanfics but looking up doujins or hentais but having it be a taller girl tag, almost always has good femdom stuff.

>bullying a short qt

No. 98844

It's from Pandora's Box (with Louise Brooks).

No. 98846

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Pandora's Box! It's a silent melodrama, so, no happy ending. But I loved this scene. It's so intimate and the actor looks so vulnerable.

No. 98847

>very thin (weighing less then me)
not to be rude but what are we talking ?
>lets me financially support him
really I'd think most guys wouldnt like this, they would prefer independence
>shares similar interests
This can be good but I've found different interests can help.

Agreed with the no showing off gross shit

No. 98848

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How do you feel about facesitting? It doesn't do much for me and I wonder if I'm approaching it wrong.

>ideal sub
I'm into sweet guys that have cute reactions, but still are still prideful outside of the relationship, that contrast is very satisfying. Definitely not somebody who is desperate for the fetish, that ruins the fun.

No. 98849

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I love the idea of a buff guy who is actually totally submissive behind closed doors.
But guys with really thin bodies/waists are sexy, the long line it creates combined with low bodyfat is very male and very hot.

No. 98851

I just realized I used the wrong then, kek. Whoops.
I prefer men 130lbs and under since they're easy to lift and very cute. If he doesn't want my full support, I want to at least make more than him at my job. For this reason I generally go after artsy guys hehe.
Which ties in to the similar interests; it doesn't have to be exact, but overlap is important to me. I like visual art (as a hobby) and especially comics, so a guy interested in literature would be great. We could trade things in the same sort of circle of interests. A guy into, say, mainly high level mathematics and rigid logic would be very different and we wouldn't be able to share our hobbies.

Woo. Fukken saved.

No. 98855

Oh my god he is so cute, I'm in love. Sucks that he's dead now.

>tfw no b&w silent film bf

No. 98858

I always had an unlucky habit of ending up with sub guys and being physically repulsed by submissive guys myself. Amazes me when I see women actively looking for them and struggling, just look for men who like anime and they probably have some weird crossdressing/sub kink. Speaking from experience a lot of guys are like this on the anime scene, negative side is that they are probably a manchild who wants a mommy they can have sex with but submissive men usually are.

No. 98860

When you read some of the replies here you'll see how a lot dislike that type because they are demanding, the femdom doujinshi that get scanned and the femdom threads on 4chan are trash.

No. 98861

I think its going to be hard to find a submissive man if you won't settle for that type or the really freaky types on fetlife but good luck

No. 98863

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god i love kaneoya's art. her character she draws is really ideal.

my dream sub is very specific, but basically a manwhore who i can overpower lmao
>dark hair
>between 5'8 and 5'11
>pref green eyed
>built fat
>dresses in sleazecore
>smug, extroverted
>constantly sexualizes himself, calls me mommy
>basically powerbottom, bi but female preference
>bratty trophy husband

No. 98865

File: 1540070676055.gif (Spoiler Image, 3.8 MB, 360x202, cutesubbf.gif)

posted this gif in the kink thread, but its so damn hard to find femdom porn with cute subs. I'm so repulsed by old men and its so common to find them in femdom vids. old men ruin everyting lol.

No. 98866

I'm in a relationship, but I got lucky because other guys I knew before turned out to be unpleasant to say the least. I can't think of much advice aside watching how agreeable he is and how he treats other people being a good hint usually. My type is usually guys who are into reading so that helps too- what kind of works does he enjoy? Is he more on the open minded side and willing to experiment?

Then again, I have to admit the things I'm into aren't hardcore so it was easier. I enjoy the mental aspect of control and defined roles more and don't like inflicting physical pain, also some bondage is nice.

No. 98868

posted in the kink thread but just to clarify, if there's anybody from that thread whos interested in me whoring out my bf etc it's still fine to email.

and if the anon who thought they got beat to the punch is still here, you didn't. i was just busy last night.

No. 98871

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Have you looked into Japanese femdom porn? The guys tend to be a lot cuter. Not femdom only, but I like https://girls-dougaabc.com/ and the sites they link to because almost all of the men are ikemen types.

The downside to Japanese porn is the god awful sounds some of the women make. Like a seal riding a rollercoaster while being beaten with a dog's squeaky toy.

No. 98875

Can't read that, what tags would one click on to find the good stuff?

No. 98876

I need to find this damn video. He's so fucking cute good Lord.I really love the videos from femaleworship.com. I mean they're just pussy eating videos. You know like…basic but good. Some guys in them are good enough but some…are you kidding me? No thanks, I don't need to see this ugly balding idiot between her legs. Ugly old men really do ruin everything.

No. 98879

No. 98881

Nothing makes my pussy drier than this gif, theres not a single drop of masculinity in this man, I guess theres a market for every type of man.

No. 98882

Then why are you in a femdom thread? Unless you don't explicitly want 100% aggressive masculine guys and are fine with buff/masculine guys in femdom situations.

No. 98886

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Post a hotter guy being dommed then instead of whining.

No. 98891

>What experiences have you had?
My current boyfriend (been together for over a year) is my sub. We started dating normally at a time when I thought I was more submissive. One time while having sex I started teasing his nipples and he loved it, and from then I started thinking about domming him more and more, following gfd tumblrs, making one…
I still remember the first time I told him I'd like to peg him, we were both super flustered and it was super cute. We were long distance at that time so he started practicing with fingers on his own and reporting back to me, he liked it a lot from the start. Then we also did a few things on skype, like him fingering himself or teasing his nipples as I ordered.
We've been experimenting and talking about more stuff as time goes, he likes when I lock him in a chastity cage so he can't cum, when I slap his face or ass, when I call him degrading names (his favourite is "fuckhole")… I love how whiny he gets when I deny him, sometimes it makes him cry and it's super cute. We'd like to roleplay non-consent too but we'll probably be super awkward because I'm bad at roleplay sex lol.

We've been living together for a little while now and I'm a bit disappointed that I often feel too lazy to fuck him or he feels too lazy to clean himself out so I don't fuck him that much. Real life gets in the way a lot. Outside of bed we have a pretty normal dynamic too, equal share of chores etc.
In any case I love him and I'm glad our relationship feels a bit special in that way.

>Where to find subs? How to avoid unhealthy ones?

I'd just say to be open, find someone you like and talk to them about your preferences when it feels right.
I know a guy who's a sub and finding someone who'll dom him is his only obsession, it's ridiculous. Avoid these, they're gross.

No. 98900

He looks like a lesbian woman.

No. 98903

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Have another gif of him anon! I have the link to the vid, if you want I'll post it. He also looks quite tall, reminds me of my bf. He's my sub and we just started talking about doing some harder stuff, pegging him is my dream. What would you guys suggest to get him started? Some toy recommendations?

No. 98911

Oh boy. Admittedly, I find all BDSM to be cringy as fuck but these are some quality gifs.

No. 98917

>Admittedly, I find all BDSM to be cringy as fuck

No. 98919

Since when is eating pussy BDSM?

No. 98920

Can any anons tell me has there ever been a thread like this for submissives ?

No. 98923

Why would there be? You can find that literally anywhere, and it'd be depressing to see it on here since we have fewer handmaidens than most places.

No. 98924

Why would there be? You can find that literally anywhere, and it'd be depressing to see it on here since we have fewer handmaidens than most places.

No. 98925

do you mean for submissive women? no i dont think so, you ladies are in the majority anyway i dont see why you need your own thread, literally any female majority site you can talk how you love bring fucked and spanked and 99% will agree with you

No. 98927

>depressing to see it on here since we have fewer handmaidens than most places.
What? why would that be depressing?

No. 98931

Any switches here with switch bfs? Our dynamic is pretty vanilla right now because we're LDR but he's shown a lot of interest in the more sub side, I can't wait to be able to try it out in real life. Only problem is I'm not sure how to initiate it. Any suggestions? In the past I've had an easy time with sub or switch boys because I just fall into the dominant role naturally, but with this man it's a little different because he's physically much bigger and acts like it. How do you get things started with a powerbottom?

No. 98932

Anyone who doesn't think like them is automatically insert negative adjective here

No. 98937

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Anyone know which manga this is from? It looked so nice and "normal" for being hentai.

No. 98940

This pic is so hot Anon

>New fetish unlocked

No. 98943

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Living the dream anon, how lucky.
Good taste, have some more Hercules and Omphale. He had to be her slave for a year and then they got married.

No. 98946

thats definitely dibi's art, looking at thumbnails i think its called 'the day it began' im not into his work really but his style is so easy to recognize

No. 98947

Hmm I read it and it was disappointing that the girlfriend never got to come herself.

No. 98969

lmao the cherub face made me laugh too much

No. 98992

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What a fucking gem. I saw the video of him getting fucked with a strap on and he looked so in pain, it was so good.

No. 99007

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>tfw no sub with plump soft lips to eat me out while looking up with his pretty eyes

why live

No. 99008

Sub guys are pretty rare but I think I got lucky a few years ago and found a switch/sub army dude. It was actually really sexy to dominate a buff guy in bed when he could easily pick me up and act like "THE MAN" outside of it.

I'd choke him, tease him, gently slap him and made him cum at work. He was a total nutcase but I kind of miss that sexual relationship.

No. 99017

Do you all ever feel like it would be easier if you were submissive? I'm a femdom with a little bit of switch in me. I am new to all this and have no good resources that are not online as of right now. Because the vast majority of doms are men and the overwhelming majority of submissives are women, I feel lost. I like dominating, I call myself the affectionate degrader. It's just that, whenever I enter a dominate space it always feel like the male doms are silently telling me to get with the program. Getting told I'm such a cute little sub only for him to get a look like I've smacked him when I tell him I prefer to dom doesn't help. Is this a newbie thing? It really pushes me away from BDSM and honestly engaging with the 'community' feels like a waste of my time for the most part. Though I have to be honest, vanilla sex never again after my experiences.

No. 99051

Western socities used to be super patriarchal and women couldn't even vote only about 100+ years ago, and the average man was fine with that. Shitmen are gonna flock to BDSM now that women are all free and uppity, those men want their own community away from relative equality.

>only for him to get a look like I've smacked him


Men being assholes is the reasons I think femdom can be a fun fetish, if such a man is the victim, get that revenge ladies.

No. 99062

I really like gentle femdom but sort of in a way that mostly fits into gender roles? I like being feminine and him being masculine but in a sort of way that I have power over him because of his sexual desire. It's hard to explain. One of my fantasies is being a queen secretly having sex with my most loyal and brave knight.

No. 99064


No. 99067

>Because the vast majority of doms are men and the overwhelming majority of submissives are women
Honestly you're being over-dramatic,there's a big difference in the amount but not a big enough difference where you won't see a lot of malesubs/femdoms,they aren't that rare even with the numbers difference

No. 99068

What was "yikes" about that?

No. 99073

I feel really happy with my fiancée, he has basically my ideal looks with big dark fawn eyes, black curly hair, not that much taller than I am and a slim body. He's a switch as I am, on dom side he goes from "dad" type to aggressive. He's usually very prideful, which makes it even hotter when I am the dominant one, his squeaks are so cute and he absolutely loves when I spoil him and tease him. He discovered his submissive side while experimenting with me and found himself more and more into mommy stuff. At first I was a bit frightened but as I went throught with what he liked, I enjoyed it more and more, I would like one day to make enought from my job to support him financially or, at least, spoil him a lot (as he does with me now that I am a student and he used to work before applaying to university).

>What experiences have you had?

Aside from him,I tried some stuff with my ex but I didn't loved him anymore by that time and it disgusted me.
>What are your main kinks?
I love degrading, bondage, roleplay, whatever seems like fun, I'm up for it.
>What advice do you have for newbie dommes?
Always respect your sub needs and yours too, don't manipulate and don't allow others to manipulate. Might seem weird, but guilt tripping can happen to anyone.
>Where to find subs? How to avoid unhealthy ones?
Just don't fixate yourself into finding a "sub", just go for whatever guy you like. Bad experiences are easier if you go looking for explicit subs. An open minded guy is easier and safer to find.

No. 99075

>Just don't fixate yourself into finding a "sub", just go for whatever guy you like
I mean that's good advice if you're fine with a switch but the chances of finding a random guy who happens to be a hard sub without looking for sub is low

No. 99076

Chill out, girl. You're not one in a billion.

No. 99102

I'm currently fwb with someone exactly like this (except he's fit/skinny) and he's killing me.
He's a bit too unstable for me to actually date but god damn it he's my sexual kryptonite.
You wouldn't expect him to be such a sub unless you have an eye for it but I could spot him from 5 miles away. He's such a smug, bratty, degenerate, over the top slut, and I love how he'd get flustered around me in the beginning. I was a bit too mean to him at the very start and after the first time I fucked him he started crying because he thought I hated him. He's super mushy under the tough appearance and will cuddle me for hours while I stroke his hair and tell him he's a good boy (although he's really not, he's absolutely terrible and I love it).

As to how I spot the bratty subs out:
- they tend to be really sassy / playful. Actual male doms tend to take themselves more seriously I find.
- glimpses of insecurity. If they act really cocky but then they get nervous when you tease them a bit. They get very defensive and try to overcompensate when you hit a weak spot.
- how they act around animals. Your mileage may vary but both of mine that I spotted in the wild would get overly mushy around small animals and vulnerable creatures.

No. 99105

Spoiler pls.
But damn he has a testicle bra, LOL

No. 99107

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a pretty/attractive somewhat bratty (but also good at being a 100% obedient sub) man
I would love if he was into being being treated rough/degraded (Too many male subs who seem to only be into gfd)

No. 99108

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>he thought I hated him
Damn anon what did you do?
>will cuddle me for hours while I stroke his hair and tell him he's a good boy
>how to spot 'em advice
Always welcome. Thumbs up

No. 99142

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god, that sounds great. it seems in femdom communities there’s a lack of variety in submissive men, they all seem to be either:
1. buff masculine guy who acts like he doesn’t want it, and basically is a dead fish in bed
2. meek feminine guy who bends over to every will, and is also a dead fish in bed

it seems pretty fucked up that a fetish that surrounds women being dominant still makes them the object of desire, rather then sexualizing men……. i’m pretty sick and tired of it, they need to reciprocate more.

on a side note, another ideal sub man i would like is an energetic and playful perpetual childish man. not in the “i want a mommy gf” way, but in the carefree male equivalent of manic pixie dream girl. i kind of imagine a drop dead fred/beetlejuice situation where i’m a depressed or introverted woman that constantly deals with a insane lunatic of a man, but instead in this situation he freely lets me peg him.

No. 99149

>What experiences have you had?

A few casual FWB in the past that would occasionally let me tie them up/ etc. Currently been pursuing a D/s-based relationship with someone for about 6 months now where we've delved into a lot heavier things like breathplay, chastity, sounding, etc. Its intense and emotional and incredibly satisfying.

>What are your main kinks?

Breathplay, pegging/ass play, petplay, domestic service, chastity

>What advice do you have for newbie dommes?

COMMUNICATE COMMUNICATE COMMUNICATE. Be aware of body language. If meeting a potential play partner, don't go right into playing. Meet them outside the dynamic to get a feel for them, and if possible play for the first time at an event for safety's sake.

>Where to find subs? How to avoid unhealthy ones?

Mine and I were friends for a super long time before getting freaky. But I would advise NOT trying to find a partner on fetlife, most of the guys on there are creeps looking for an easy fuck.

No. 99150

I think you need to get into Fetlife, anon. It's definitely going to be considered a fetish and most Tinder guys aren't looking for that.

No. 99152

I think I may have met an potential submissive. He called me 'mommy'(he only stopped because his friend told him to) and doesn't stop me from degrading him. He told me he doesn't enjoy when women want him to be in control and jokes about being a 'manlet'. But he doesn't know anything about BDSM and seems nervous around me. I told him I was a dominate leaning switch and he asked me how that works. Am I reading everything wrong? Or am I just so desperate that I am seeing shit that ain't there?

No. 99168

sorry to say but it really could go either way anon. you could have just noticed a few jokes and statements out of many and put them into a pattern when they're not really a pattern, or he could be giving hints about what he really is into.

is this someone you're actually seeing or flirting with or are you just friends for now?

No. 99217

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I didn't do anything particularly bad, I just jokingly teased him a bit and rightfully got mad at him for doing stupid shit on occasion. Apparently I come off as somewhat cold / mean sometimes and he's silly (and more insecure than I thought, it breaks my heart, I'm working on his self esteem. Bless his praise kink).

I know, I dislike those tropes as well. First one's completely unappealing to me, second one's just boring as shit. I want someone to challenge me and give something back, not a wet doormat.
This is why I hate femdom porn, it's super male geared. I just want to see and hear hot sub men being objectified and enjoying it.

And that situation also sounds ideal. My heart. That's kind of what I have on my hands rn but mine's too bloody insane and keeps getting into trouble and draining my money. I wouldn't mind sugarbabying him if I had the resources but I really don't at the moment /blogpost

on a side note yesterday I found out that he perfectly fits into my sparkly booty shorts and this is now all that he's allowed to wear when he's with me.

No. 99218

I don't think there's anything wrong with the second 'trope' I like full submissive 'feminine' boys (Dead fishes are bad but not all full submissive are dead fishes) and it's possible for that type to be objectified and enjoying it,although I agree I hate the first 'trope',the only problem I have is that it's rarer and a shit ton men into femdom are ugly fat dudes and thirstlords

No. 99219

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That's fair enough, I used to fantasize about nice sweet obedient subs when I was a teen, my type just shifted a bit as I grew older.

Anyhow, here's my favourite sub pic.

No. 99220

Honestly i'm kind of the opposite,started liking a challenge but now like obedience (not opposed to all challenge but still)

No. 99227

My dream guy would be an ordinary nice normie who gets a raging boner when kneeling in front of your feet in the bedroom.

>I just want to see and hear hot sub men being objectified and enjoying it.

Yeees. Anyone got any material to share that is actually for women?

No. 99228

>Look at femdom porn videos
>The majority have either ugly guys or focus purely on the domme
What's even the point of getting a fat guy who looks like a sex offender,do they purposely choose ugly fucks

No. 99250

Would you happen to have any doujin recommendations?

No. 99328

File: 1540422083698.gif (Spoiler Image, 3.79 MB, 360x202, 2kvzfk.gif)


Y'all…I need a name. All I've found out is that he's Russian and all I've seen are shitty short videos. Farmers…help ;_;

No. 99344

I've been watching his vids for weeks now but not a name ANYWHERE. I need to know who this cute boy is, I'll let you know if I find something!

No. 99345

File: 1540441442431.jpg (90.77 KB, 599x900, 71234123412.jpg)

It's a shame cute ones like the guy you posted are so rare in videos,it's like they go out of their way to get creepy fat ugly guys

No. 99346

Holy shit anon, I just saw this in recent images, what a snacc.

The world needs more adorable femme-y boys like this.

No. 99349

File: 1540442511533.gif (Spoiler Image, 2 MB, 290x308, 712312321.gif)

>Tfw most Adorable femme-y boys are gay
It sucks

No. 99350

He is a sub but he insulted me pretty bad (some drama he made up for attention) which showed me how immature he is. It was just wishful thinking, really. Hard pass.

No. 99352

This is waking up something in me I didnt know I had.

Oh no.

No. 99357

Remember, dick out = spoiler


No. 99376

hhhhnng the high heels. I think I just fell in love.

No. 99420

Anon who is this beautiful person. I need more of him.

No. 99449

Am I the only one who wants a porn board for only female posters?

No. 99454

File: 1540604134262.jpg (Spoiler Image, 62.81 KB, 500x667, 0089.jpg)

I need me a beefy sub with sensitive nipples that I can tease. Fuck.

No. 99455


No. 99460

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HHNNNGGG, I love slightly beefy guys, he got the perfect bod.

What femdom-y mangas do you guys like? Everything I find is so male geared. I loved Sadistic Beauty and was so sad to see it discontinued

No. 99461

yes. go to crystal.cafe if you want that trash, we don't need it here.

No. 99462

File: 1540613914103.gif (893.28 KB, 400x225, 7123123413.gif)

No. 99470

can you guys spoil the obviously more porny pics? thank you

No. 99478

Where's this from?

No. 99479

Yeah and ITT people have already told posters to remember spoilering before.

No. 99522

I hate how it ended just as she rescued the hottest guy, Minho. The scenes with him were the best.

No. 99532

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I KNOW. I was pissed, it looked like a really good scene was about to start :(

No. 99534

Fuck, I know the feel. The hottest kind of sub is the ones who are angry assholes, in denial, and need to be tamed. And that bod too…he was perfect.

No. 99541

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No. 99542

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No. 99567

The pics in the CC thread are so disappointing. I want more like the style of OP's pic (perhaps a little less bloody.)

No. 99588

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"1932 still of Katharine Hepburn on stage as Antiope, grabbing Colin Keith-Johnston’s Theseus by the hair.”

No. 99589

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>Tfw no submissive house husband

No. 99590

Now that's a hunky man.

No. 99732

File: 1540889469874.jpg (Spoiler Image, 194.38 KB, 1080x720, 1537050885042.jpg)

>What experiences have you had?
A few online flings and then one 2 year current relationship with an adorably bratty sub (not him pictured, but he actually looks exactly the same. Petite yet fit from sports and running)
>What are your main kinks?
Cum control, Bondage, pegging, spanking since he loves it. He's also heavily into pet play so I guess that too although I'm pretty indifferent to it.
>What advice do you have for newbie dommes?
Weed out the lazies fast. If he says he wants a "mommy", he probably means he wants to lay there like a dead fish while you both pleasure him and then take care of him financially for nothing. Make sure you're getting with someone who has a plan in life, not just a plan for what he wants you to do to him in bed.
>Where to find subs? How to avoid unhealthy ones?
I met mine through a hobby board on 4chan. I got very very lucky. I would say if you go the 4chan route-because 4chan is swimming in sub boys. If you go the 4chan route, avoid the ones from /soc/(will be a major slut), /r9k/(will be emotionally irreparable and probably threaten to kill himself all the time), /lgbt/ and /h/.
The ones on /d/ seemed alright. /trash/ has a huge stash of fembois but most are gay.

I used to, yes.
Tried to conform and be sub because that's what I thought I was supposed to be and anytime I even looked at ex's asses they would flip out and tell me it's weird and a huge turn off.
Obviously, those relationships didnt work and I spent a lot of time wondering what was "wrong" with me and why I couldnt just be normal. I would very much later come to realize that I was just naturally very dominant and that submissive men were a thing and an option. A much better and even ideal option.
I no longer feel any type of guilt or wish I was submissive anymore. There is no greater pleasure than being a domme.

No. 99754

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I’m so happy for this thread to exist!

Being domme is big part of how I see myself. There are times when I don’t actively practice my dominant side in bed. At the moment I’m in long-term relationship where my partner and I are equals. We have good sex but sometimes I find myself fantasizing about full BDSM dynamic relationship.

I have had relationship with strong D/S dynamic but it was messy. We both were young and seeking ourselves. It didn’t work out as a relationship but there’s that weird tension between us. She has a sugarmama/domme at the time and I’m genuinely happy for her.

It was been easier to swept my inner domme under the rug when she’s not around but well, there’s another gal to mess my mind.

She’s a sort of collague of mine. We have projects together and we are great team. In personal life we are friends but there is definetly potential for more. At the parties we have made out because ”it would totally be lulz if we kiss teehee xD”.
Last time I spanked her and she gave her ass very nicely but I had to stop because our third friend felt uncomfortable. All gal pals spank each other, right?
She’s technically switch but she could make a great sub. She got that amazing immersion where she enters the sub space.

I havu been holding back because my SO but now he is flashing green light. He said that he don’t mind if I have sex with her. We have very trustful relationship with open communication and he is not jealous type.

I’m going to a club with this new girl this weekend and situations like that have lead to things before… we’ll see.

Sorry for spelling errors. Not a native speaker.

No. 99794

>would totally be lulz if we kiss teehee xD”.
Last time I spanked her and she gave her ass very nicely but I had to stop because our third friend felt uncomfortable. All gal pals spank each other, right?

Wtf am I reading…

No. 99907

I think I'm one of the lazies and emotionally irreparable ones, do you think it's possible to change

No. 99919

File: 1541107275141.jpg (171.15 KB, 850x552, 1536090723346.jpg)

Male or Female?
Either way I'll keep it honest with you. It's extremely annoying and a huge time waste. If you stay like that, it doesn't matter who you get. Eventually they'll get tired of that and leave.

Is it possible to change?
Yes, absolutely. If you're lazy then stop being lazy. Go to school, go to work, have a job, have a career. Have somewhere you're going in life. A lot of subs think it's ok and even cute if they're a NEET. It's not. Not if you actually want a future with them. A quick fuck sure, be whatever you want. But a serious relationship has no room for a deadweight. Make sure to exercise and eat right too.

Emotionally irreparable I don't know how you fix that other than stop fucking whining. A lot of subs also have a "everything is about me" problem, where they cry about little things and never once ask if their dom is ok. Not everything is about you, brat. Don't dwell in stupid shit. If you're clinically depressed or whatever, see a therapist. A relationship won't change or save you, so don't put all that weight on your dom either. They'll crack under the pressure and run.
I don't really know what else to say. If you know you have problems, get help, THEN enter a relationship. Otherwise you'll just lose what you got to your poor habits. That's just my personal experience with subs anyway.

No. 99943

what does it mean when a sub is a "dead fish"?

No. 99945

They will just lay there under you like a dead fish, passive. They expect you to do all the work and all the pleasing during sex while they just lay there and receive.

No. 99946

Isn't that the whole point of tying someone up though?
The term is a bit vague because it's not always a bad thing

No. 99947


The point of tying someone up is being able to use them for your own enjoyment. Be it sexual or mental. I might do things to my sub when he's restrained where he's the only one being stimulated, but I get a power high/ the mental satisfaction of pushing his boundaries.

No. 100022

A sub isn't tied up every single night and Submissive doesn't mean "just lay there and do nothing like a pillow princess". It means you submit to whoever your partner is.
So for example, my boyfriend submits to me by letting me do whatever I want. and however I take him, he reciprocates back. If I have him on his back, he'll kiss at my shoulders and neck. If he's turned around, he'll push himself against me. If I do oral, so does he. If I even stick my foot out, he'll crawl over to kiss my toes. If I uncross my legs-so on and so forth. In the case of being tied up, a submissive cant do much no. That's why it usually isnt an every night thing. No one likes a selfish partner. Pleasure should always be mutual.

No. 100039

I follow this pixiv artist that draws super hardcore femdom and I love it but it's all shota and kind of gross from most people's viewpoint so I never get the chance to share it… I assume most people itt won't like it either.
I really love the pics and the stories as well (they can be read easily with a japanese dictionary add-on)


No. 100041

Shota, also known as pedophilia…fuck off with that.

No. 100252

Regardless of sexual dynamic, this is solid relationship advice. Nobody wants to be with someone like this.

No. 100344

Here's Hugh Dancy getting mildly bullied on stage in Venus in Fur.

No. 100567

A comedy huh? Nice ending scene though.

No. 100611

File: 1542027494227.jpg (73.88 KB, 450x606, eeee.jpg)

>you'll never live in the world Kaneoya Sachiko portrays

No. 101993

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No. 101994

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No. 102005

careful. a lot of male subs are subby because they're emotionally wounded. get to know them emotionally before proceeding, maybe even take note of how they respond to an emotional crisis. but don't cause one yourself. an emotionally wounded guy projects his need to be attended to on to a domme. that CAN be a safe way to express himself.

usually the bad ones are thirsty as fuck, so they're easy to spot. guys aren't known for being subtle after all.

No. 102012

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I'm a loser virgin so I've had no femdom experience at all obviously. I like it in porn/in theory however, and dominating a guy appeals to me way more than being submissive myself.

Right? It's sad.


No. 102022

>you'll never take home a cute 2D boy and keep him tied up and locked in your closet forever, being able to do whatever you want with him

No. 102034

On the topic of anime glasses guys getting dommed, I have been trying to find the drama cd Namidame 6 online. Anyone know if it's uploaded somewhere? Or I'll just buy and hide thist too I guess. https://www.amazon.co.jp/dp/B07G6P7PHB/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_awdo_c_x_E9gbCbQQYPN96

No. 102039

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Damn never knew this thread would actually turn me on. I guess I always hated on the BDSM scene, because of how misogynistic and racist the men dommes can be.

No. 102044

good doms are good people.

No. 102066

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This hentai manga always sticks with me for some reason, maybe cause maybe I'm too nervous to talk to cute boys


No. 102078

It's like the ultimate farmer Mary Sue manga except it's drawn by a virgin guy who think you give oral by licking the inside of the vagina.

No. 102089

I wonder if there are cute sub guys that like introverted sadistic girls. It seems like most of them, even the introverted ones, want a career-oriented super extroverted aggressive type of person and I'm just not that. I don't like parties, clubs, drinking, drugs, or casual sex.

No. 102091

This one's actually really gross. I wish there were more femdom manga like that korean one that anon posted in the other femdom thread in ot.

>the ultimate farmer Mary Sue manga
Not really. Most of us aren't fujoshits.

No. 102095

Most here are nerds who would love to have a cute popular guy suddenly offering to be their sub though.

And yes Sadistic beauty is great. I hope it gets revived and continues.

No. 102098

Meh, I didn't like that he was an asshole in the beginning (telling her shes disgusting and has no friends), making fun of her in harsh ways reminded me of a sadistic dom but it wasn't even sexual in context, just making him mean and repulsive. If anyone said those things to me, I'd walk out, not give him what he wants. Like another anon said, it's made by some virgin guy, but it's a really shitty excuse for the main characters to have sex even for a one-shot. The art is also off putting.

No. 102118

I don't mind tumblr changing their rules to ban pornographic content, as the site was run over by porn bots. But I will miss the gfd blogs. I hope those bloggers find other sites to be on.

No. 102132

Getting back into the Addams Family and I can definitely see Gomez being into femmedom.

No. 102134

Tumblr's banning porn? That goes the rest of its fanbase, though.

No. 102141

i guarantee you there is someone for everyone. i don't know if i'd call myself a degenerate yet, but i'm convinced everyone is someone's ideal partner.

No. 102143

lol freudian slip

that should read: i don't know if i'd call myself a degenerate yet, but i've been around, and i'm convinced everyone is someone's ideal partner.

No. 102189

They have such a sweet relationship too, I hope to be in a relationship where we are even half as enamored with each other.

No. 102224

Thanks anon! My post came off as kind of negative (just got out of a breakup a week ago with my ex not liking the fact I was dominant), but I know it's definitely possible even if the chances seem slim. I'm going to keep working on myself. I'm going to make it and find the cute sub bf I've been dreaming about!

No. 102236

I can just imagine a scenerio he comes out to greet the scared postman, he sees him bleeding from his neck and asked if he had an accident with a shaver. He nods, but then the camera pans to Morticia wiping a blood spot from the corner of mouth with her pinky.

Love them. <<<3333


No. 102237

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>What experiences have you had?

My boyfriend and I are currently long distance due to work so we've had fun over cam/phone when it came to me being the dominant one. I never dommed IRL due to being pretty shy and so used to being the sub in past relationships. We ended up sitting down together and discussed what we liked, eventually finding out we're both switches! But overall, I've only experienced being a dom through voice/cam and he's done the same, but playing the role as a sub.

>What are your main kinks?

I love buff/stocky/ bearded men. I'm only 5'3" and don't really having the intimidating/powerful(?) dom look at all. Which turns my boyfriend on since he has a pretty manly or intimidating presence in general. He was also in the army for a few years and was a cop, so he had some sort of authority - which turns me on even more. The thought of a manly/strong/serious/etc man getting dommed by a small girl is def the #1 reason why I love domming him.

List of things I enjoy doing to him: choking, slapping, degrading, ropeplay, anal play, pegging, collars, spanking, face sitting, and edging him.

Hearing a grown man whimper and beg is also a big plus.

But after sex, we always make sure to baby eachother and keep most of that dom/sub thing in the bedroom. Though, there's a bit of role reverse when we're together. (ex: I'll be the big spoon, I'll let him lay his head in my lap while I pet his head, I baby/spoil him most of the time, etc.)

(sorry if any of my grammar or English is wrong, it's not my native language)

No. 102247

Oh my god that image is great, does anyone know where to find more stuff like this?

>I love buff/stocky/ bearded men.

Bara men are my favorite

No. 102284

>manly/strong/serious/etc man getting dommed by a small girl

a+ taste anon. From lurking r/gentlefemdom etc. it seems like a lot of guys want to feel physically smaller but I LOVE the thought of controlling a larger, authoritative man and watching him crumble.

No. 102299

I find a very large percentage of anime style artwork to make bland, sticker-faced unattractive men and this is a definite exception. The artist is very talented and her work very evocative.

In another thread someone posted a pic of a bodypillow with her character on it and NGL I kind of wanted one.

No. 102300

Yes. Gimme someone sturdy who can take a kicking.

No. 102322

Ah yes the merch thread. Too bad you can only get them at exhibitions in japan. Kaneoya Sachikos men are very sexy

No. 102334

>Kaneoya Sachikos men are very sexy
they look like neet hobos but whatever floats your boat, I guess

No. 102337

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Just found her twitter, and an artbook with her work will be released soon - in english!
But it seems her main interest is in furry femdom - kek

No. 102338

>waah stop liking what I don't like!
Nta but they're cute as fuck, neet or not. Looks more realistic too instead of the clean shaven bishounen 12 year old boy look.

I don't even know how much of a thing furries are in Japan and her art's a little weird to begin with so I can't tell if she's legit one or if it's just her being quirky. I always wondered wtf was up with that.

No. 102344

I kind of get it like a stand-in for a carnivorous, animalistic woman…but she's also drawn stuff where a undead skeleton dog wants to bone a scientist man so I guess she is also just being weird.

No. 102350

The book is already out, or at least the digital copy is because someone leaked it.

No. 102351

Got a link?

No. 102366

I like the tired hobo look NGL

still hot

No. 102369

You've never seen a hobo in your life. Go outside and stop fapping to shotas.

No. 102435

Maybe she does it because it’s shocking? Or maybe just for fun lmao, I think this makes sense too >>102344
kind of like some artists like to portray grown men as Pigs

No. 102451

File: 1544166328333.jpg (677.81 KB, 1537x797, bodypillow.jpg)

From her DA she has described the female characters as 'milf beasts' so they probably are meant to be representative of sexually aggressive women.

Oh and she is selling body pillows again, but you have to order them from Vanilla Gallery. I'm torn between A) when are these gonna be available again? and B) do I want to be a person that has a daki? I'm still wavering but since people here have expressed interest in purchasing one I thought I'd share that they're available again.

No. 102453

>not liking unkempt, creepy guys means you are a pedo

No. 102455

I get not liking the look but can they really qualify as creepy? Creepy implies some level of potential threat but she's always drawing men getting tied up or posed femininely or framed in a way that lends credence to the concept of 'female gaze'. Perhaps people might feel differently if the men were ever portrayed smiling, or without the tired eyes or faint mustache. If you say the concept is creepy or the situations displayed look creepy though than I would agree. Ignore the eroticism and a lot of her work looks like something out of a psychedelic horror film.

No. 102456

nta but creepy usually means unsettling not threatening. i don't associate creepy behavior with being threatening at all tbh.

No. 102457

alright fair enough

No. 102462

That's very expensive for such a small daki. Size really makes a gigantic difference in comfortability when you're holding it and yes, have fun trying to hide your daki when you have company over which is actually more of a pain in the ass than it sounds after you're forced to do it so often.

I mean you think boys faces with what…dark circles at most, peach fuzz and glasses in business attire look like "hobos" so you're definitely not sound. How do you react to people in real life I wonder.

No. 102469

>men are only unkempt creeps or children
you truly are a mongoloid. shouldnt you be in your containment thread

No. 102473

I love how jimmies are rustled ITT just cause someone dare not find animu slobs >>98863 sexually attractive.

No. 102476

I love how even more jimmies are rustled ITT just cause someone dare find animu slobs >>98863 sexually attractive.

No. 102481

File: 1544216345161.jpg (384.81 KB, 678x922, dante.jpg)

This recent whining is making my pussy dry up. Post some pics you like instead.

No. 102482

Bless you anon
I’m actually planning on getting her artbook, so excited for it to be released!

>Tied up Dante
I didn’t know I wanted this until now

No. 102483

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Sachiko has drawn her character in jeans and tees, suits and military wear. Liking her work really comes down to finding the art style and more importantly, her face design, attractive. She really only has one subject so if you don't find him attractive you're not gonna enjoy her work no matter how slick or slobbish he is presented. There would be more to debate if she had a fuller roster of characters but she clearly has a personal idea.

OK not Devil May Cry exactly but anyone here a fan of Bayonetta? Total femdomme, had some fun scenes with Luka (who she bullied). Would LOVE to see her interact with Dante though it will never happen because of the rights holders.

No. 102485

> had some fun scenes with Luka (who she bullied)

I have never played this, what happens?

No. 102488

Bayonetta's a practically immortal, overpowered witch and Luka's a dumb normal human. You're not gonna see her tie him up or give him a paddling but all of their interactions have a clear hierarchy and Bayonetta's always the dominant person, she's got no bones about teasing him or being condescending. She has a great voice actress that really sells the character.

Its not a perfect game in how in represents the character. She's designed by a woman for a male director that has described her as a dream girl. I understand why people find the character and the game offensive but I still really like her.

No. 102500

>Looks more realistic too instead of the clean shaven bishounen 12 year old boy look.
Bishounens do not look like 12 year olds and there's nothing wrong with liking pretty boys

No. 102501

Literally no1curr. Stop sperging already

No. 102502

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ngl, the whole character concept of Bayo was the reason why I got into this franchise and felt in love with. There are just way too many aspects about her that I enjoy as well like she does ugh

Can't wait for Bayo 3



No. 102544

Definitely excited for the third game, hope we see more of Jeanne than we got to see in the second too. Bayonetta's a rare enough character type in games, that she has friendships with other women who are also badass Dommes is another level of rare.

She's been as flirty with Luka as she has been bossy to him, would you like to see them paired up at the end?

No. 102556

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No. 102559

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This is a shot from a dance production of Salome: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VtYFOylfZFY

No. 102564

Saged for ot: not into femdom, but this weirdly turns me on (if I imagine their roles to be reversed). It's such a pity that there isn't any porn there a guy is so "loving" towards his female partner. Just seeing the both of them smile, have fun and really enjoy it, is making it a 100 times hotter.

No. 102583

It's from a korean movie called Affair. I'm not into porn anymore, but the lack of affection and respect the performers seemed to have for each other is what started to put me off it.

No. 102588

I once saw a great gif set from a Korean movie which was black and white and the guy was about to give head to a lady who wore a skirt, ring any bells?

No. 102656

it's weird, but i like kaneoya's art so much because the male character has some actual edge to him (without being a disgusting slob like most male subs)/masculine to a degree. i'm sick of only seeing boys that look like shota twinks in femdom.

No. 102693

>i'm sick of only seeing boys that look like shota twinks in femdom.
I half agree,I wish there were more non-shota twinks

No. 102723

Bf always ask me if he can cum during PIV or when he's receiving Bj, I really enjoy it, it's super sexy, sometimes I deny him just to see his cute frustrated face. It makes me feel like he might be a bit of a sub but idk how to go deeper into the subject, the relationship is brand new and I don't want to scare him off.

No. 102726

The book is available for preorder on bookdepository with free worldwide shipping

No. 102729

BRB preordering this for some february furry femdom fap time.

No. 102747

he could be anon, the best choice of action is to ask him straight up if he is a sub or likes to take orders. at least that's the way i approached it with my bf since he would always let me take charge in the bedroom and i just have terrible social skills. or he could just be a gentleman either way KEEP HIM, there's not a lot around.

No. 102842

I'm gonna try that mojoupgrade quiz to see if the guy I'm currently seeing and I share some interests we're too shy to talk about. I think he might have some subbish tendencies but we're both too awkward to have productive discussions about sex.

No. 103078

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No. 103104

>hobo lover
I'm fucking dead, anon.

No. 103757

File: 1545409787717.jpg (Spoiler Image, 54.51 KB, 1080x844, tumblr_p8a81awubb1rjjd2jo1_128…)

Where do you all hang out/get your femdom picture content now that the tumblr purge happened?

No. 103921

I always thought I was more subby but in retrospect I think it was because I wasn't confident in myself enough.
I'm discovering a more femdom side in me each day but I'm really scared on acting on it because I'm already the cliché of the aggro girl IRL. I'm chubby (though still healthy BMI), I don't wax my bikini zone, I'm a loud feminist, I love arguing and made several people cry in class. So if I were an actual domme in bed, I feel like it would be too much ?

How to overcome this, because femdom is so hot.

No. 103926

Why do you care about being cliche?
Cliche does not mean bad

No. 103927

eh idk…
I guess it really just comes down to a lack of self confidence.
Like, I guess if you're an elegant qt3.14, it doesnt make sense to make fun of you being a domme but it's so easy to say "look at her, she's the embodiement of the hairy feminist dyke to the point that even the men she fucks, she humiliates them".

No. 103934

>I love arguing and made several people cry in class
OT but can you share more? I'd love to hear a story-time about this.

No. 103960

I don't think there's a particular storytime about this, it happenned several times. I'm in art college and one time my whole class was having a discussion about this group project we had to do, just talking and this girl I dislike was offering dumb ideas so I just looked her in the eyes while I detailed why her ideas were shit and her cheeks got all red and eyes watery.
Or two weeks ago in philosophy class, I was challenging the prof who's such a sucker for Hannah Arendt and I gave her sources on why Hannah Arendt sucked politically and we argued and the prof got quite heated. So after that, I was just whispering with a friend about the situation and the prof yelled at me "You're distracting me again! But of course, you're doing that on purpose, you enjoy distrupting my course" and I told her something along the lines of "If whispering deconcentrates you to that point, you shouldnt be a philosophy teacher in the first place" and she threw me out of class screaming and almost crying. It was kinda surreal because I was being a bitch but not like an über bitch and I actually had sources and good arguments to back up my claims.

No. 103968

Wow youre not femdom at all. Just an obnoxious bitch.

No. 103969

never claimed i was femdom though

No. 103980

Christ on a bike, anon. Seek help and gtfo the femdom thread, you sound like a nightmare.

No. 103990

Honestly wish I had your confidence to hurt people's feelings anon. Although I can be blunt and to the point when it comes to getting certain things that I want, I don't have the drive to argue with people and especially not in a group setting.
How did you reach this point? How do you articulate your ideas without accidentally sounding nervous (in front of a group)? How do you avoid coming across as autistic? Any times that I've actually snapped at people I just come off as unhinged rather than superior, advice on how to avoid that would be appreciated.

No. 104021

hm i don't know. I can deffenitely be destabilized. If someone hits the right "button", I can also crumble but it doesn't happen /that/ often. I'm also rather weak and actually really nice to my friends but other people find me mean/intimidating.
You should really know your subject, though. That's the bottom line. Subject both as in "who you're talking to" and "what you're talking about". I wont seek confrontation about something where I don't have shit to back me up.
I'm also never really nervous in groups, I kinda get an adrenaline rush. If I know I'm getting into a "longer" (as in more than a few sentances) confrontation, I like to have a water bottle with me. It sounds stupid but I always have a bottle of water in "stressfull" situations : it basically gives you something to fidget with while looking rather natural, you're just hydrating yourself and touching your bottle.

No. 104099

lmao and then the entire room clapped

No. 104100

You sound like a huge asshole, I wish I was more like you lol

No. 104112

There is nothing confident to hurt anyone’s feelings. Rude people are just losers with low self-esteem who need to put others down to feel good about themselves.

No. 104113

File: 1545940137852.gif (1.98 MB, 268x397, wink.gif)

Agree. And let's back to the actual topic.

No. 104118

But you did. You sound like an insufferable cunt.

No. 104193

anon where is this guy/gif from hes cute as fuck

No. 104196

Right click and search for image. Not hard.

No. 104202

It's from some webdrama called Intouchable. I just liked the gif out of context.

No. 104279

NTA but this kind of behavior is actually exactly what drove me towards femdom.

As >>104112 observed correctly, I’m an incredibly insecure piece of shit and in school I used to gain confidence by putting those down that I knew had weaknesses where I had strengths - certain subjects, topics etc. I got a huge kick out of being an arrogant bitch and letting another person and everyone around them know I knew better. Especially one teacher loved the way he could talk to me because he was the same kind of asshole and thought about 80% of the students didn’t deserve or care to be there anyways.

Femdom helped me to get this kind of behavior out of my day to day life and use it on those that actually want to be put down like that. I still get to be a condescending bitch, but not to those who don’t consent to being a target.

I mean, I’m still a bitch 24/7, but nowadays in a much more passive/defensive way. I don’t randomly pick and shoot at people anymore and only start firing if I’m being ‘challenged’.

No. 104306

>this whole thread
well that explains a lot tbh

to put it simply:
>most neckbeards on chans have subbish tendencies
>most legbeards on imageboards have dommish tendencies
>neither of us go outside
at last i truly see

No. 104308

jun from svt

No. 104323

if you followed your own advice youd see nothing shows up, you think i didnt try that shit already? fuck off

thanks anons <3

No. 104326

>being this mad because anon told you to right click because you're too lazy
You sound like a child.

No. 104336

what the actual fuck are you talking about? if you had any reading comprehension youd know i said i did that already, i wouldnt ask what the image was if i had already found it through google but go off i guess. dumb anons trying to make themselves look smart

No. 104344

File: 1546149927453.webm (Spoiler Image, 3.77 MB, 272x480, wew.webm)


No. 104347

Aw thanks, I loved this anon. I like when people have a little chat in porn, it's so cute.
>Holy crap on a cracker
I laffed

No. 104348


lmao it's probably one of the anons upthread that think acting like a prick makes them seem super cool and domme and not just kinda pathetic, ignore them.

Also if I can just throw this out there even though we've kinda moved past it, it's pretty creepy if you're trying to dominate someone in your everyday life who isn't your sexual partner, and most genuinely confident people don't get a rush from making someone's day shittier for no real reason at all.

Some of you fuckers are the genderbent version of Greg from the June thread/Shaygnar's bf

No. 104349

File: 1546152991206.webm (Spoiler Image, 3.83 MB, 374x208, wew2.webm)

yea its goofy and the guys just some nerdy metal dood but i like how she actually gets off. hawt tbh

No. 104351


whew, you must have been shit at philosophy.

and to get back on topic >>103757, tumblr had its perks but the "community" was weird. The amateur work has never done it for me because it usually looked so staged, so now I'm retreating to doujin sites, will post recs of good ones if anyone is interested.

No. 104353

Where can I find more of this guy?

No. 104354

Please do let us know if you find good doujins

No. 104373

File: 1546187783983.webm (Spoiler Image, 2.87 MB, 852x480, 1532437218076.webm)

i forget where i got the webms (and i didnt make em myself), but when i play them in mpv, the header reads "kinkdevice - kylies feeldoe". it might be the website. and i bet if you searched around you could find more. i know ive seen other stuff with him getting fucked before

moar dudes getting their shit pushed in

No. 104375

>she actually gets off.
How? Can a strap-on stimulate the clit at the same time or is it double-ended? Never been into this because it looks like it's all about pleasing the guy.

No. 104379

File: 1546190622952.webm (Spoiler Image, 2.92 MB, 1146x720, 1532362053958.webm)

>Can a strap-on stimulate the clit
i mean they have ones like that, tho they take some gerrymandering to get it on the right spot and keep it there. theres also ones that have a pouch on the inside for a bullet vibe on your clit.
this one (judging from the header) is one of those double ended ones (look up feeldoe). think theres a vibe in it as well. expensive, but they look neat.

>Never been into this because it looks like it's all about pleasing the guy.

same tbh. even tho im on the opposite side of the fence, the whole point of femdom for me is totally flipping the script and making it all about HER pleasure, and giving HER that power that normally defaults to the guy. like, all that matters is if she gets off, and if i cant manage by the time shes worn out, thats on me.
but yea, at first i thought the same, that it was just selfish so i never tried to pursue it, but with practice and the right equipment it can definitely be a good time for all parties involved.

No. 104380

File: 1546190752161.webm (Spoiler Image, 3.87 MB, 560x540, 1532485344524.webm)

btw rly sry if that makes you uncomfortable, and ill leave if yall want. i just landed ITT cuz i wanna learn a little bit about how to please you all better next time i happen across one of you "unicorns" irl lol.
also, most femdom pr0ns suck (im more into gfd (which is basically nonexistant on pornsites) than sado-stuffs etc) and most guys are into shit i dont like, so i figured id hop the fence and see whats up

ill take the ban if i have to tbh

No. 104393

Hell I what even is happening ? I've never thought I was into femdom, I've always been a been a total sub. I came here because I was bored, kept reading because it made me discover Kaneoya sachiko discover I was into it), I've just read the integrality of Sadistic Beauty (>>99460), and know this >>104380 webm ?

Well, thank you lolcow.

No. 104403

File: 1546206086205.webm (Spoiler Image, 3.84 MB, 900x506, 1532487668549.webm)

>Hell I what even is happening ?
tryin to derail the "is that one anon a bitch" discussion (she is) w pegging clips

>I've never thought I was into femdom, I've always been a been a total sub

feel like most people hear femdom and think of nazi leather mistresses stepping on balls in 40inch high heels and shitting in some fat rich dudes mouth, then just dont look into it really. in practice, seems most folks are into the softer stuff (of which theres almost NO porn of) and just never realize it.

potential dommes default to standard "gril = sub" config and potential subs to "boy = dom". most will sense somethings not clicking exactly right, but dont know any better and roll w it anyways. eventually you see it and you get that "A-HA" moment

>thank you lolcow.

gud bord

No. 104428

>they have ones like that, tho they take some gerrymandering to get it on the right spot

Nothing hits the spot like some good crackin' and packin'

No. 104430

File: 1546219083645.webm (Spoiler Image, 2.59 MB, 960x540, 1540779275050.webm)

>crackin' and packin'
u wot m8?

No. 104433

File: 1546220000079.png (322.24 KB, 540x594, tumblr_inline_p6yaicw81j1spt7r…)

pegging is disgusting and degenerate. i understand why men would be into it, but women?!?! it seems so humiliating for the woman tbh fam

No. 104437

The word you were looking for is "jury-rigging" (usually mispronounced jerry-rig)

No. 104438

File: 1546226669002.webm (Spoiler Image, 486.94 KB, 601x338, 1532294203662.webm)

sry u feel that way doc

cant see, since at its core its mostly about role reversal, how either of the positions (D or s) could possibly be more or less humiliating than their vanilla counterparts. barring of course if humiliation is a PART of the whole shindig for the couple (not really my thing tbh). but even then, the humiliation is more than likely at the expense of the man getting his asshole reamed out by the dilly attached to his gfs pelvis. but thats on HIM for being a self conscious lil bitch tbh

if no other factors are on top of it, like crossdressing, chastity, verbal humiliation, what have you, its literally just casual sex for the explicit purpose of NOT procreating, but flipped around. ime its a fun and refreshing way to break up the monotony. the "vulnerability" for the guy that comes from getting penetrated takes a bit of getting used to, but for me, thats a HUGE part of it. its intoxicating to leave yourself wide open like that with someone you love. and this isnt something i would EVER do with someone i didnt trust, love, and care about deeply.

for the dommes (provided theyre into it at all), that first taste of the "power" they have over their boytoy when inside of them is often all it takes to fall deep down the rabbit hole.

obv its not for everybody, but no kink is

the only other way i could see it as "humiliating" for the domme is if shes got "no game" and doesnt know how to fuck from that side of the fence. to which i say: no shit. no guy is born with the knowledge on how to fuck right. hes gotta learn how to do it by trying and failing. first times for anything are always weird. but this inexperience is on both parties generally (which again, is a large part of the fun for me). personally, i cant think of a better way to learn how to better please your partner than to literally swap places with your partner. helped me at least

all that said tho, no ones gonna have fun without the right equipment, and it can take a little trial and error to get things set up right. but practice makes perfect. alls i need now is a new study buddy

youre right
but hey, it can be hard to think straight when im stuck fantasizing about getting mon derrière pounded. too flustered to reach for the thesaurus. close enuff

No. 104440

you're pretending to fuck a dude with a piece of plastic

No. 104444

oh ur no fun
toys can make stuff less boring. i hate routine in a sex life tbh

at the very least its not nearly as disgusting or degenerate as ur makin it out to be. and its still technically heterosexual segs, so even by biblical standards its only sodomy. so its up there with anal, which is something even many catholics indulge in.

checkmate atheists

No. 104445

File: 1546232562932.jpg (33.41 KB, 477x500, 1530619436584.jpg)

why are you typing/talking like that?

No. 104473

File: 1546256880693.png (73.63 KB, 539x154, tumblr_inline_pftkrgflhN1rzyju…)

Enough pegging wankery and scrot posting. Anons, tell me what your actual favorite femdom thing is. This position is my favorite for sure.

No. 104480

I know a few boys who are fairly submissive but generally they wouldn't put it on their tinder profiles or anything because it's seen as weird for them to be into that. It's kinda wierd to see people into this fetish but I guess different strokes for different folks. It's really easy to find them if you know how to look tho

No. 104510

Now this is autism

No. 104515

Pegging doesn't count? I love to make my bf suck on my strap on, bonus points if it's positioned in a way I can make him lick my clit as well. Then when he thinks he's safe I'll just ram the dildo in his mouth and listen to his muffled moans.
Years of reading so much yaoi made me a sucker for cute boys giving a good blowjob.

No. 104533

File: 1546367940491.jpeg (42.85 KB, 400x595, 14C87B27-0F67-408C-AD42-66B8D0…)

I’m new to femdom as a whole, while I’ve had moments of being more dominant in bed I didn’t properly think about it until I started dating my current bf. I pegged him for the first time last week and it was fucking great. He’s way taller than me, 6”2 and has a muscular/slim body with a nice peachy butt. He’s bi and was very dominant when we first got together and insisted he was a power bottom when he was with guys, so seeing him turn squirm and whine and turn into a complete sub was surprising but extremely hot. We’re both switches and I’m really excited to see how our sex life progresses

No. 104534

Is this fucking mads mikkelson where did you find this

No. 104538

its a shoop mate

No. 104574

Do you guys think this kind of dynamic loses power when you address it?

I was teasing a guy recently and figured if we had sex it wouldn't be amazing so instead I just worked him up until he pleaded with me, and then I went home. Recently we were talking and without thinking about it I joked about always needing to control and how I need to be the one doing the fucking, but I didn't say it in a sexy way instead an honest confession of an issue way. Does exposing or addressing the powerplay devalue your power? Kind of like when someone directly calls themselves intelligent?

No. 104575

I wouldn't say so; upfront conversations need to be had to establish boundaries, interests, and safewords.
Are you just supposed to guess lol? Although admittedly I have poor social cue reading skills so perhaps that's why I feel this way.

No. 104591

I too, wish to GFD a big strong manly man. Really it's a shame that bara femdom is so rare.

No. 104662

File: 1546476852180.jpg (Spoiler Image, 98.37 KB, 1000x1010, tumblr_pbpv6h79iq1s6xlsho1_128…)

This might be relevant to your interests?

No. 104672

File: 1546483975133.jpg (58.48 KB, 474x815, th.jpg)

Anyone else a bit of a princess femdom?

Im needy, bossy, and want someone to obey me and treat me like im somewhat abovem him.
Also serve me tea or something.

No. 104674

I got a bf who's into being the dominant, but he's told me he's alright with being submissive for me. I wanna try doing more dommy stuff with him, but I always get too shy and embarrassed, and let him take the reigns.
Does anyone have any advice on softer femdom stuff to try and get acclimated to it? Or should I just give up and resign to being a sub forever?

No. 104689

small steps. I'm super shy and I still feel too stupid to say and do certain shit. Start with not being subby, start taking initiative. Calling him names, dirty talk is a good exercise. When you get comfortable, you'll see if it flows for you and you can try "more dommy" stuff. It's also important to ask your bf for support, it's nice of him he wants to try stuff but he has to act sub for you too, not just "be ok with it"

No. 104707


I wish I could read this. Highly relevant to the thread.

No. 104720

Same here. I recommend fantasy nerds or waifufags.

Women get so much shit for acting 'like spoilt princesses' but we're literally raised like this. We call girls princesses and show them Disney princesses and our adult romance love interests talk about treating us like a princess. Heck yeah I've got a princess complex, I'm happy to hear jokes about it but only if the guy is going to bend the knee afterwards.

Are you super polite in normal daily stuff? Sometimes it's helpful to just get comfortable to saying no in normal situations (like acquaintances asking for things or not forcing yourself to smile etc) and maybe being a bit greedy like asking him to get you things.

No. 104801

File: 1546596865630.jpg (20.78 KB, 362x362, BzbFfITCYAEzBfb.jpg)

I took one of those sex compatibility quizzes with my guy and he didn't flag any femdom stuff as an interest

No. 104804

Dump him (unless you're a switch).
Sexual incompatibility sounds like hell. Why even date?

No. 105125

Same, honestly; I can't find it anywhere either…
Maybe no one has uploaded it yet?
Would you post a link if you find it?
I've been following the series since Ichinomiya

No. 105223

I forgot about this. I will share it here if I find it/buy it.
Ichinomiya is total marriage material (after that one week of getting stockholm'd). Guy number 3 is also great.

No. 105282

A lot more guys are into femdom stuff than are willing to admit it. You're probably better off taking charge and watching how he reacts than simply asking him.

No. 105858

I miss sex with my ex. Once you've given a ridiculously pretty boy wearing a pink tennis skirt a prostate orgasm, there's no going back.

No. 106640

Does anyone have any light femdom erotica/fanfic centered around female pleasure ?

All I find is leather dominatrix stuff clearly intended for male readers…

No. 106648

File: 1548613911294.png (328.03 KB, 697x985, rido_ridograph.png)

I don't know if what I'm looking for is actually femdom/gfd although I assumed it was since it's not the expected het dynamic either.
My ideal partner would be very passive and would just lie back and let me do what I want, but I'm also generally uninterested in my own pleasure. It's taken me a few years into adulthood to even be comfortable with the idea of receiving oral, even through facesitting. I'd rather just pleasure my partner through a variety of means (often not involving my body much at all, or even getting undressed) while he just lies there and takes it. On occasion I like the idea of getting more involved with it, but for a majority of the time I'd prefer what I described. Most of my pleasure would be from maybe a double sided strap on or something.

I guess what I'm looking for is a "pillow prince" (somewhat sorry to appropriate lesbian slang) but I'm not sure if that actually makes me a domme. I like to be in control, and I'm into bondage and humiliation, but I just don't want the focus to be on me getting off which seems to be a big part of being dominant. Also not sure if men like this exist, since the ones who are fine with not having to pleasure their female partners are usually doms/still objectify their partner's body for pleasure. While obviously I want him to be attracted to me, I'd prefer it more to be about my power/aesthetic appeal/the way I carry myself if that makes sense. Usually. Sometimes it varies like I said.

Sorry I kept rambling here, this is more of a vent.

No. 106659

hello, fellow service top

No. 106662

LEL yeah, I guess that's what I am. That term escaped me for some reason.
It's inconsequential, but I just don't know if I should still be identifying with femdom and be seeking out subs. Have you had any luck finding men who are into it?

No. 106674

Hope you find your pillow prince some day anon though I'll say you're the first woman I've heard express this preference.

No. 106687

yea, younger virgin guys

No. 106870

>entirely focussed on male pleasure
>not the expected het dynamic

r u sure

No. 106975

Diff anon but thank u for this term. I've been trying to explain it as cfnm/joi but I'm wearing jeans and a t-shirt and motivated by care and curiosity about someone else's experience of their own body (as opposed to getting off). Mentally it feels kind of close to a doctor/patient thing but without the paraphelia for medical equipment. I feel like I'm one step away from asexual or something.

No. 106976

File: 1548875594135.png (219.88 KB, 639x592, 066 (2).PNG)

i always try to suppress my kinky thoughts but lets be real, i just want a cute smirky normie guy friend who will let me bully and tease him. like a power dynamic fwb but no sex. it would be so hard finding what i'm looking for though.

funny thing is in hs i really liked being mean and smug towards douchey normies who sat next to me in classes and wanted to talk to me. i got such a rush making them shocked i wasn't being nice to them bc they were cute guys all girls were nice to, or making them embarrassed for not knowing something. i honestly think a lot of them liked it too bc i developed small friendships with them sometimes. i also went to catholic schools too and it made me develop a huge thing for uniforms. i just didn't know at the time it was bc i got off on it.

when will i find a normie guy who will be willing to be my bratty sub friend. it's just so hot thinking about making a douchey kinda guy that is doing well in life and gets laid a lot get on his knees for you and seeing how flushed he gets like hnng. it would be so fun to tease him and pin him down and frustrate him. i wanna tell him what to do and call him a slut for wanting to fuck me. i just want a cute boy i can push around a little, tie up, insult and be smug to, without any sex or romance, it would be such a fun relationship. too bad they're probably rare or mentally unstable af.

No. 106983

source on the pic ?

No. 106984

i honestly dont know, sorry. it's one of the few pics left from the msub folder i mostly deleted that i had for years lol. most of it was stuff i found from tumblr back when i used it

No. 106988

Nice, they're my type anyway haha.
Yes, in most porn the woman is mostly clothed, not objectified at all, and is in complete control. You got it. /s
I addressed that in the expected dynamic the man objectifies the woman for his pleasure. What I want is to objectify the man for our mutual pleasure.
On the occasion I want to physically exist (once or twice a month maybe?) it's pretty typical femdom expectations. Like oral and facesitting would be great in those moments.
>care and curiosity
Yeah, that's basically it. My sex drive has always been motivated by visual interest in other people and love. But also wanting control.
I'm also just fascinated by a man's body when I like him; I've mentioned it in the fetish thread but it's as if I've fetishized every part of the male body.

I want to blame all the yaoi I consumed in formative pubescent years, but I'm not sure. Probably also because I'm socially disconnected from people and see them as…idk, more human than me. Not in an edgy way, but I do feel like an alien who is impressed by simple human existence quite often. Not just in a sexual context but in others as well.

This isn't the thread for that though kek. Also inb4 someone calls me an uwuwuwu snowflake. Pls no bully I just like watching people eat and listening in to their conversations and watching the silly things they do when they think no one's looking.

No. 106998

The important control element for me is being able to openly remaining in control of myself, not "controlling" another person. I've pretended to be "turned on" for partners but I'd rather be in a situation where I don't have to pretend because it feels creepy to misrepresent myself to someone who is making themselves pretty vulnerable. But tuning in and collaborating to get them into that headspace is satisfying to me. It's like a very intimate version of helping someone achieve something that's important to them even if you don't understand what it is or why they want it, because you want for them what they want for themselves.

No. 107017

I'm quite similar. One of my favorite abstract scenarios is tending to a short boy who has straddled my lap and is crazy horny/sensitive. Clothes on, full control, I think I'm a bit of a touch-me-not. Same goes for only wanting to exist about two times a month. I just strongly prefer the idea of attending to a subject of attention over being the subject of attention.

No. 107018

I'm gonna give it a shot I'm just discouraged is all, I've tried broaching the subject lightly but he doesn't get it so it seems I will have to be more explicit but that might end up being a turn off for him.

don't worry, this is an imageboard full of weirdo chicks you aren't alone.

Anyway I'm curious, how many of you have a dominant personality outside of the bedroom?

No. 107019

File: 1548897078689.jpg (83.1 KB, 500x631, 1544242386060.jpg)

can i uhhhh

No. 107020

I'm not really 'obviously' dominant. I've gotten feedback that I come across as a mature old soul, though. Maybe I can channel that into mommy energy in the years to come. My worry is that I won't attract the right people if I don't put out the right vibes, but overextending myself would be exhausting.

No. 107021

I had a sub friend who kept attracting subby dudes that wanted her to dom them, she just had that vibe.

No. 107022

i wouldn't say i'm dominant, just independent.

No. 107023

File: 1548899500473.jpg (183.65 KB, 600x1024, d096834986e3ebcb305bd3985cd214…)

i'm a huge control freak, like the stereotypical anal retentive type of person. everyone who knows me at all knows i'm a neat freak, i am very intolerant, particular about things, etc. i'm very quiet though, in most situations. i'm independent and don't let people (coincedentally it's usually men my age who do this to me) talk down to me, or try to make me feel less than. i'm a switch though, some people i'm interested in just have the kind of personality where i would definitely not be the one in charge.

kind of makes sense with the ways i like being dommed (gentle but stern) and domming (bullying, teasing, not gentle but fun). they put me in a good mood and get me out of my comfort zone just enough where i'm not too anxious.

No. 107025

I see, I desire it both over myself and my partner big time. As in I'd preferably be able to go full in with dominating and controlling what happens to his body (sometimes through bondage and sadism) rather than just being gentle and bring him to climax.
Although I also see the appeal in that too and would like to do that sometimes. You make it sound wholesome, too.
>tending to a short boy who has straddled my lap and is crazy horny/sensitive
Patrician taste, anon. Short men are top tier.
Although I do prefer being unsexualized physically, being noticeably larger than my partner would be hot. That's the type of thing I'd never be uncomfortable with him being aroused by, most likely because it suggests what I can do to him.
Imagining a guy asking me to choke him or punch him in the gut? Or just to lift him up and toss him around? Amazing.
>dominant personality
Not yielding and meek, but not aggressive or anything. I can be blunt and stubborn but am usually just quiet and by myself. Kind of goofy with friends though.

No. 107029

I once sat down to a podcast where a bunch of dudes talked about their experience with hentai. Unexpectedly, they had a diverse experience when it came to who they identified with (if they identified with anyone at all) in the images, and it got me thinking. It hadn't even occurred to me until that moment that people could look at an image of a sub (or 'bottom') of any sort and identify AS them instead of identifying as the person who is acting on them/giving them attention. It was oddly validating for me to realize that I've been like this the whole time.

No. 107041

File: 1548913904650.jpg (726.77 KB, 1001x1001, 1536018666455.jpg)

I want to rub a tied-up guy's dick through his jeans with my feet is that too much to ask?

No. 107052

I'm a subby switch and want to do more GFD, but I feel goofy doing some of it (mostly dirty talk anf holding him down since I'm smaller) and am not very strong and don't have a ton of stamina. Any tips for a newbie?

No. 107107

File: 1548962183971.jpg (Spoiler Image, 81.86 KB, 800x600, e16ce42d46d2bc11c2ca73ceca9c0a…)

>How many of you have a dominant personality outside of the bedroom?
Outside of a sexual context I'm not really dominant at all. I'm pretty shy/quiet/awkward for the most part. But I DO notice that sometimes my sexual energy will manifest in other parts of my life, if that makes sense. For example, when I happen to have a crush on a guy or feel attracted to him, suddenly I get over my social awkwardness and feel very confident. And I love to tease or be mean to guys that I like (btw, most of the time they like it too). I also noticed that at work if I'm feeling horny or sexually frustrated that helps me be more aggressive or assertive. I hope that doesn't sound creepy, it's not like I'm trying to dom my coworkers or anything, it's more like I remember how powerful and confident I feel in femdom situations and I'm able to channel those feelings in real life.

I'm also a small woman and I'm physically very weak. Sometimes me and my bf do something like pic related, except without the bondage, and he puts both his arms around me like a hug while I jerk him off. I love it because it's not physically demanding at all, it feels intimate and romantic, but at the same time he looks really vulnerable clinging onto me while being all shy and blushy and moaning and stuff. Perhaps you could try a combo of that with some dirty talk? Good luck anon!

No. 107126

I wouldn't call myself dominating, even though I must admit most people call me such. Or at least, they say about me that I have a big aura and people naturally follow me, even if I don't try much (or at all, I must say).
But not "actively" dominating, I'd say, I like minding my own business too much and I'm too lazy to maintain the high profile.

No. 107151

File: 1549018260485.jpeg (32.29 KB, 400x331, D07285AE-B228-4D3C-9A01-A92B11…)

I lost my will to care about anything at the age of 15 so I’m quite laid back. You’ll figure out finding sub bfs is quite easy if with this mindset, act nice and cordial when you speak to them but don’t give them to much conversation. Show early on you have the power in this relationship lest they walk all over you thinking you can be used as an emotional or sexual outlet.
Try and bust out the good grammar and always correct them if they make a mistake. Don’t insult his appearance but never comment one way or another on it, ignore it. This will slowly inch away at the guys perception of you and himself.
Of course, it’s not a surefire strategy but it works for me. You don’t even have to send him a single picture of yourself, or at the very least one. He will cling onto it and you and the prospect of talking to someone he deems higher than himself, thats the Male way of thinking. Especially feminine, submissive men.
And if you eventually grow bored, in the words of the Bogdanoff twins, dump them. No strings attached, if you play your cards write you can repeat this over and over and over. Its funny how similar they are, both in looks an personality. Unkempt long hair, dark circles, underweight or getting there. The overweight ones are never worth your time and are always the most degenerate. With this you should easily find a cute submissive bf, if you so choose. But remember to never give into the idea of giving him an actual relationship, that’s when it will all go down hill. And don’t feel guilty about it, it’s alright because these men aren’t real people anyway.

No. 107156

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i figure this is a good way to find one, as i've heard using fetlife or tinder attracts guys who are batshit or would just pretend to be into it in the hopes they'd get laid. i've attracted guys who seemed like they were kindo into being insulted or degraded depending on their reactions. it's not really an appearance thing for me, they tend to be somewhat dorky and are "go with the flow" kinda guys with a good sense of humor, and their ego isn't too big. imo it's all in their temperament, which you can only judge by testing the waters. i also like to be playful/humorous about it, some guys are really into girls who aren't afraid of coming off as impolite/ are "fiesty" to put it in a cringe way. some guys' precious male egos get damaged and they get super defensive, but some seem to really like it, and it gets them interested in me, and they seem to want more.

i just never did anything about them bc like you say, they tend to be guys that i thought were shit relationship material. that would work in my favor atm however, because i would prefer a friendship with a fun d/s dynamic, at most i'm looking for sexual tension with a guy who gets off on bullying, intimidation, and denial. i need a guy who's kind of jerky, smug/bratty who pushes my buttons bc it's so satisfying putting those types in their place and making them blush and get frustrated.

No. 107159

>these men aren’t real people anyway
Anon these are my subs you're talking about, don't bully
I guess you're a real dom and I'm just a gfd, the outcome of what we look for in guys is the same e.g. underweight tired nerds with long hair, but it sounds like you enjoy torturing them more out of hate than enjoyment
You go get yours though lol, knowing there are het ladychads restores some balance in the world

No. 107160

That's nice but I'm a loving and emotionally supportive domme so this would hurt me, too. Like caring for a small dog instead of…idk, training a big dog while keeping him distant. I just want to make the big decisions, be his rock, and smack him around the bedroom. I'm not into manipulation at all. Not even solely because of my morals, I'm just bad at it.

kms I'll be alone forever.

No. 107170

ntayrt, but i think we're thinking of two different kinds of relationships. i'm looking for a sub that's more fwb, no romance. i can totally see why you aren't into what she's talking about because you want something more intimate and personal beyond the dynamic. i just want a friend who wants a cute girl to berate him for fun because he gets off on it. i'm more of a goofy dom, i don't take it super seriously or actually want to hurt someone. i just want a male friendship with sexual tension, no inclination of sex or catching feelings. i would be very upfront about that too. it's just for fun really, it would be very mutual, that's why i'm specifically looking for a msub lol. he would have to be into being teased and frustrated for fun.

i'm not into genuinely hurting a guy's feelings, i know a guy's limits and wouldn't insult something that would make him cry or anything. that's why i think guys with a great sense of humor and confidence make much better subs than the kinds who seem to have low self esteem and are needy. those kinds might be better suited to romantic relationships with affection and validation.

No. 107175

Maybe it's just me and the men I've dated but being indifferent or a little mean to them always seems to get better results. Be nice and they stop treating you as well and start being more demanding.

No. 107177

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>Unkempt long hair, dark circles, underweight

No. 107178

not to mention the low self-esteem part. like girl i'm trying to dom a mentally stable, well-off normal guy, not some loser who hates himself lmfao

No. 107241

Always this.

No. 107314

Are you into Dylan Klebold? Move on

No. 107352

How do I become femdom? Usually I'm pretty shy and submissive (even masochistic at times) thanks to growing up in asia as a woman but sometimes when I look at pictures like in the OP, I kind of wish I could do that to a man and seeing a man who's been beaten up especially by a woman is a bit of a turn on for me. Fantasizing about kicking a man around and making him obey me sounds hot. Maybe I'm a switch?

No. 107357

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i wouldn't worry too much about labelling it. i could consider myself a switch too because when i'm interested in someone, their personality/chemistry with me determines who "wears the pants" for lack of a better term. i wouldn't let words like 'submissive' and 'dominant' decide what kind of a person i am- so many people into bdsm get way too attached to the labels they give themselves.

if you're interested in femdom, i'd try to meet a guy any normal way a vanilla person would; i hear fetlife and tinder are crawling with tryhards or guys who just want sex and are willing to pretend to be into whatever just to get laid, so my advice is to try to avoid them.

i look for normal, regular guys, not ones that strike me as "submissive" always, because that usually means they have low self esteem. those ones will get clingy and probably aren't good partners, whether for fun or for a long-term relationship.

find a guy who's doing well in life, relatively mentally stable, and open minded especially. just be honest about what you want to try and what kind of relationship you're looking for, no mind games. taking charge in that way is already a good trait any dominant person would have. being dominant already in casual ways is a good way to gauge how open he would be to it. in my experience, being able to take charge by being honest, making decisions quickly, and not being afraid to say no is a breath of fresh air to some guys. many have been really into me for being able to be assertive, in a fun and humorous way. for me personally, i like domming a guy to just be a fun experience to tease, intimidate, and sexually frustrate a guy in a fun/smug way. i get off on denying men i know want me. but i know it's not the same for everyone.

not to ramble, but ignore any bdsm communities, online and irl. they're full of cringey edgelords who will try to tell you how to dom and shit like that. just make sure you and your partner are open, willing to listen to each other, and everything is consensual and not seriously going to injure anyone too much.

No. 107431

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No. 107432

As you said I think its super helpful to be upfront from the start or at least start setting the appropriate boundaries and expectations. Its harder to change a preexisting relationship dynamic.

No. 107433

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im just gonna leave this here

No. 107450

ok but why. looks like yaoi

No. 107485

This is some really shitty advice lol

No. 107486

>so many people into bdsm get way too attached to the labels they give themselves.
This isn't hard to understand at all dumb ass
Not everyone is a switch, some people can only be sexually dominant/submissive
Personally I could never date a dom guy

No. 107487

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I do. Never mean to, but it always ends up like that.
I feel like men in general all across the board have strong issues with low self esteem. and to make matters worse, instead of just quietly hating themselves, they go and make a big fuss of it causing scenes over their inability to cope. This is how so many Dom women end up mostly getting mommy-zoned, where the guy goes from being dom/sub to just being a depressed baby crying on the floor for more and more attention without ever caring much about your problems anymore.

This is why I strongly discourage ever talking to those that are mentally unwell. If he mentions having depression or issues with self-hatred, don't waste your time. You'll go from his Dom to his therapist/mother and he'll throw tantrums to the point where the relationship is stressful and annoying and the sex barely even comes to mind anymore. If I could offer any advice to Dom women, it would be that. Just say NO to sad boys.

No. 107497

These are children in school uniforms… Why would you post this? Does this turn you on?

No. 107582

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maybe I'm not that experienced but how is it bad advice?

petition to change all images in this thread to Kaneoya Sachiko who is beloved by all save for two anons.

This time featuring sparkledog

No. 107584

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from my own experiences most guys are open to try stuff that would be classified as light femdom/gentle femdom
temporarily being handcuffed,being restrained,being hit(specifically punched in the face),being blindfolded however always seem to draw the line at humiliation and anything anal related

No. 107602

My god I love Kaneoya Sachiko

No. 107651

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that's perfect because that's pretty much what i'm into. no crossdressing or butt stuff pls boys, nothing extreme or too dangerous. i desperately need a fun qt who wants to get bullied and gets turned on being slapped and denied by someone smaller than him.

No. 107654

slapping is also something most guys don't seem to be into
their more comfortable being punched in the face or stomach then being slapped(its weird)

No. 107666

wait but why? This makes no sense to me.

Couldn't ever punch a dude I'd feel sad about it.

No. 107667

anon must be memeing bc personally any guy ive had a thing with was more open to slapping than punching lol. slapping is not as rough as punching.

No. 107669

I'm not memeing im just telling about my experiences
fro men getting punched is more masculine then being slapped(however I am talking about Vanilla guys not sub-guys)

No. 107677

Yeah I don't really get what >>107654 and >>107584 are talking about.
I've slapped pretty much all my bfs and they didn't mind at all, but they would never have agreed to actually getting punched in the face.

No. 107696

This has been my experience but I think my experiences varies from others here because majority of my relationships have been with masc tard males who were vast majority of the time not subs
However as I have said were open to try stuff like this >>107584
Someliked it but most didn't and even the ones that did like it weren't willing to go further beyond that
The punching thing was apparently manly for them and really im not one to judge

No. 107722

lol so you're posting in the femdom thread your experiences… with men who aren't even subs.

why are you here then

No. 107727

Just because they weren't subs doesn't mean they weren't willing to try being sub with her, at that time. I think it should count.

Anyone else ordered the Kaneoya Sachiko book? Placed an order last night.

No. 107732

I was just giving >>104801 advice on how to deal with boyfriends who aren't subs

No. 107771

I ordered it earlier and was miffed that the release date was changed to middle of march. I want my hobos hooking up with furries now please.

No. 107772

The digital version was leaked a few months ago. I bought the Vanilla Gallery book and pirated the English one for the translation.

No. 107777

Where did you find the download?

No. 107779

No. 107789

bless you anon, have a great week

No. 107793

samefag but her foreword is also really interesting and neat to read

No. 107795

Thank you!

I wish she commented on, and explained more of her art, some of it is pretty crazy.
Btw can I just say the part with the dog sniffing the doctor is hilarious.

No. 107816

Agreed on the foreword. It explains her thought process as a whole and the subtle visual cues that incite attraction and curiosity in women towards men (of course we notice your ankles you silly geese). Can't say I know anyone else that does it better.

Outside of the themes expressed I get the impression that she's not interested in any more specific narrative outside of the short comics. Which is kind of a shame. It would be interesting to see her paired up with a writer to develop a comic or short project, or as the visual lead/art director for something.

No. 107818

You da bae

No. 107821

I was so angry about them moving the release until next month again but
this makes me even more hype to get the physical book!

No. 107836

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yeah, after reading it, i was like FINALLY someone put it into words!! it made me understand my attraction to men better.

i should try to find more things she's written, it just really clicked with me.

No. 107845

The dog's expression is great. I'd relieve Absolute Territory Oniisan of his burden but I'm not a giant furry milfbeast so he'd be uninterested kek

No. 107866

I want to know why she includes the beasts in her art. I hate that furries are a thing because her stuff reminds me of that sometimes.

No. 107886

DAE get really disappointed while searching for some new msub art and it's flooded with shit for men so it focuses on some stereotypical domme with huge tits? its even worse when the art style is decent.

No. 107887

It's often a disappointment when you try to find pics.
Like looking for 女攻め on Pixiv and getting terribly crappy pictures of boxing matches. Men have no taste.

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No. 107892

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No. 107894

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I get that people are excited about that artbook, but let's post more of other artists.

No. 107896

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No. 108142

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my first boyfriend who i did femdom with was into the really degen violent humiliation BDSM type femdom. i've always been interested in femdom but being involved in that relationship almost killed that side of my sexuality for me. i was def a "kink dispenser" he'd always harp on about how femdom is great because its about ~the woman's pleasure~ but it was clear that he was a selfish lover and he was only into the male focused latex SPH stuff and force fem which made my puss dry as a bone.

my current boyfriend is into GFD on the same level i am and i hope to work up to gentle pegging one day but after the shit i went thru with my ex i'm not gonna be pressed if it takes years. sex really is supposed to be a two way street away. For my current relationship "GFD" is basically vanilla for us but with role's reversed. it's very nice to be able to tap back into that side of me safely and slowly and it's doing wonders for my self confidence.

outside of the bedroom im kind "dominate" i'm a little bit bossy and touchy feel-y and i tease a lot. he's not into like collars and blindfolds which im kinda down with but it can get really cheesy sometimes tbh so get it. he can go down on me for hours at a time. it's perfect.

as for the """perfect sub/man""" i also dont like how 90% of men in femdom are twinky femboys. im really, really not into femboys/twinks/traps and have PTSD from force fem. (more like forced force fem lol). i like men that are bit chubby and masculine. the thing that draws me to femdom is seeing masculine men drop the machismo crap and let themselves be vulnerable and focus on what the woman wants and needs more than himself. i dont want to hurt my partner but i do like seeing them pant and squirm around. good stuff.

also, i'm late to the pegging talk but i dont think pegging is humiliating for women if theyre into it. i like it a lot but it's really all mental for me. loops back in with my vulnerable masculine man fetish heh. pegging comes after you've cum. the man should always cum after the woman as far as i'm concerned.

No. 108150

also, as a word of advice if any of you guys are looking for a """sub""" or whatever, please be careful and avoid men who explicitly have a "femdom fetish". they dont respect female sexuality as much as they act like they do. And be careful of femdom men who are into force fem who have latent AGP eventually you will end up sexually incompatible.

depressed GFD men with self confidence issues can he helped outside of the bedroom. men with a fetish for suffering at the hands of an authoritative woman have issues and a complex. fetishizing sexual trauma should be dealt with in therapy, not catered to in the bedroom. this is why ive really distanced myself from ~kink~. sorry for potential ot but you all deserve your respectful submissive man. not a misogynist pervert with baggage.

No. 108152

source ?

No. 108155

that woman looks strong, damn

Force feminization just seems inherently disrespectful towards women to me and it seems like nowadays they all end up declaring they are trans and imploding the relationship.

No. 108157

it killed my last relationship but it was already dead on arrival.

and yeah force fem fetishizes how "humiliating" it is for a man do and wear "woman things." a woman forcing her man to wear some frilly maid outfit and do the dishes is ~kinky and humiliating~ because that's a woman's place! men dont do that!

AGPs, troons, and lifestyle femdom men only want to be "the woman" in the context of sex and kink. they dont want to any of the domestic stuff unless it's ~kinky~ and they get their face sat on a "reward" they "earned". it really transparent and worth avoiding. they dont deserve dominate women imo.

No. 108163

GFD really appeals to me. I don’t need to hurt someone to be happy, I just want a loving relationship where I can take the lead and get cherished for it. Plus points if he’s older and more accomplished than me in his outside life. I just want a manly man (aka no kpop twinkie) who has a really soft/subservient side only I get to see.
Sage for daydreaming.

No. 108293

>im really, really not into femboys/twinks/
Femboys and twinks are top tier though
>e if any of you guys are looking for a """sub""" or whatever, please be careful and avoid men who explicitly have a "femdom fetish".
This is the dumbest thing i've ever heard
Also fuck you for being another one of the annoying fucks who think gfd is the only good femdom
Most gfd is just vanilla but with the woman being slightly aggressive
Just because a man wants to "suffer at the hands of an authoritative woman "does not mean he has issues, you sound like an idiot
Rough degrading femdom is the only valid kind in my personal opinion

No. 108294

Grouping lifestyle femdom men in with it is dumb as hell
you sound like you had one bad experience so you've gone bitter
It's really annoying how you talk like you're some wise sage when you really aren't
Stop pretending like "femdom (but only gfd femdom) in the bedroom only or else it's bad" is true to everyone
Gfd is for people who only pretend to like femdom
Go away you fake domme, the fact you claim that rough femdom is a sign of mental issues proves you're a fraud

No. 108307

ntayrt; i dislike how most girls into femdom here too just like gfd and i get the feeling they think they're better than us for that.

but i do personally avoid guys who make being "uwu so subby" part of their personality or make a big deal about it because they're usually mental. it's hard to find good subs because well, being annoying or mentally unstable tends (obvs not always) to come with the whole "gets turned on by being hurt" territory.

No. 108330

the thread was about sharing personal experiences. which i did. i'm not trying to act like a wise sage at all and i'm sorry that i came across like that.

when i was talking about avoid men who explicitly have a femdom fetish and have a complex i'm talking about the kind of men >>108307 is talking about.

you guys can have your own tastes. it's just not my bag. i'm not trying to ~kink shame~ you guys. stop getting so mad. it's ok for you guys to like what you want. and it's ok for me to get disillusioned because of a bad experience. you dont have to be a latex clad dominatrix to enjoy this fetish and feel fulfilled.

No. 108331

sage for doubleposting but is there really anything wrong with wanting to warn newbies who prefer GFD that there are men out there who will take advantage of them? that'll all i was trying to. a woman into that isnt going to be compatible with a man into the more degrading stuff and it's going to cause problems. when i see women in this tread posting like, "how do i find a masculine GFD guy" I'm going to tell them to avoid fetishists. it's common sense, dont take it as a personal attack against what YOU want and do in YOUR personal life.

No. 108332

How many of you are into size difference, too? I want a partner who is smaller than me in both height and width (lol), but am afraid finding a short man without a masculinity complex would be hard.

Anyone dated smaller men who were into fd? Or wants to as well?

No. 108334

What are yall's thoughts/experiences with FLR?

No. 108336

What does it mean?

No. 108339

DAE get upset trying to find femdom media only to see that it's rife with a more male perspective? i'm not into GFD but i'm not into the whole "angry dominatrix in leather whips naked guy" stuff at all. my preferences are more in between the two but most femdom stuff is about showing some big angry big titty anime girl in latex. and i'm not into butt stuff/forced feminization either which dominates (kek) most of that scene, understandably so. that's probably why so many of us here like kaneoya so much, it's definitely why i do. i want to see a guy being submissive because that's what turns me on, not the domme dammit.

No. 108340

nta, female led relationship i suppose? sounds like the stuff most gfd anons talk about. i don't think that is like, femdom in its quintessential form, but i wouldn't call it invalid like that other anon did.

No. 108343

You never mentioned people who preferred gfd
You made a blanket statement to everyone looking for a sub
Also stop moving the goalposts, you said it was a sign of mental issues and they needed a therapist

No. 108360

>Femboys and twinks are top tier though
hell no. maybe to low sex drive women.

No. 108363

Well, I respect your opinion
I just find feminine men and men in """girls""" clothes/makeup hot

No. 108369

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>low sex drive women
What's the correlation there lmao?
Not really into femboys at all, although I do like gawky, hairy, awkward twinks of sorts. And I consider my sex drive to be high.

No. 108383

All I want in the world is a submissive bf who isn’t obnoxious to me and does almost whatever I say without question. I would want him to wait on me had and foot and jump at the chance to serve me. He would have to be able to dress well, groom himself, no drugs or other addictions. Is good with other people but is only willing to extend actual feelings towards me. A dreamboat, the full package. Someone to hold close and protect and keep safe from this cruel world. Heaven.

Sometimes I believe it is unachieveable to find a bf that perfect, especially considering how obnoxious sub men are. At least they are fun to toy with and hurt, but I want to finally care about a partner. Males are trash incarnate.

No. 108408


No. 108409

this is about sex, not chicken noodle soup for the teenage soul

No. 108561

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Hey farmers! I want to try to femdom IRL and would love to get your advices/resources!!

I've never dommed IRL before even though I've always wanted to do that, but I always ended up being too shy (prob also because I had to always be a sub in relationship, not counting my ex whom i ended up domming thru ERP ((Long-distance)). Gave up on him because he started making everything about himself and never cared.) My bf doesn't mind being a dom, but he's not into pegging and I can understand that. I would like to mostly focus on talk/mental/degeneration(?) part, because thats the thing w/ which i struggle atm due to shyness n 0 exp irl. I'm also not that much into feet stuff.

And I'm a brat whenever I'm subbing. I love to tease, bully him all the time so he could prove how much of a dom he is. My fav part of subbing.

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