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No. 98824

There was talk of making a thread, but no one was taking action so here it is.

Thread for:
>dommes
>female subs interested in women
>femdom images and media
>femdom fantasies
>advice and stories

Some things to get us started:
>What experiences have you had?
>What are your main kinks?
>What advice do you have for newbie dommes?
>Where to find subs? How to avoid unhealthy ones?

No. 98826

>>98824
>How to avoid unhealthy ones?
Avoid the obvious 'kink dispenser" ones who despite claiming to be a sub wants the relationship to be 100% about what THEY like

No. 98827

Thanks for starting the thread. I love the op pic.

No. 98828

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Where's the op pic from?
Also, I'd like to add a question:
What's your ideal sub like?

No. 98829

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If anyone wants a cute, non-H short comic about femdom, read "Mud" by Yamashita Tomoko!

No. 98830

>>98828
I prefer the bratty types but i'm fine with 100% submission
The least ideal is corpses who just lie down do nothing and basically dom from the bottom pretending to sub

No. 98831

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>>98828
Cute, "soft" older man but not too much older than me. Lean body type. I'm into gentle femdom and I just want a cute man to play with and spoil with physical affection.

No. 98832

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So I realize I have to be true to myself after fantasizing about sub guys since forever and actually try finding one for a relationship.
How do I go about finding a sexually submissive guy IRL, anons?
Usually I use Tinder to get dates but I don't see any guys hinting at being into that.
I tend to like guys who have a more soft look and attitude but I've ended up with ones who really want a mom and they can fuck off.

No. 98837

>>98831
That's so cute, where is it from?

No. 98838

I don't mean to be negative but from my experience a lot of sub guys tend to have a lot of mental health issues.

So you're gonna be handling a lot of depressed guys/boys.

And good luck trying to find that shy virgin unicorn.

No. 98839

>>98838
It depends where you look
Should probably avoid online mostly

No. 98841

we kinda already have a femdom thread >>>/ot/298183 but i approve of one being in /g/ as well i feel like itll fit better here, idk if i should ask in the fanfic thread but it might be easier here, does anyone have any good fanfic recs with femdom in it or at the very least a more assertive/aggressive woman? no overpower shit where the guy flips the tables dominates you i fucking hate that shit.

>>98828
idk the specific piece but its definitely kaneoya sachiko's artwork

>>98838
>ywn have a qt virgin sub bf to dominate and tease
why live

No. 98842

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>>98828
It's by Kaneoya Sachiko!
Anyway, ideal sub:
>very thin (weighing less then me)
>under 6'
>dresses well; if it doesn't come naturally, he will let me dress him
>idc if he's ugly or conventionally attractive face wise tbh
>into both gfd and extreme sadomasochism just like I am
>lets me financially support him
>shares similar interests
>very monogamous

Same dynamic in and out of the bedroom basically, but not a gross "24/7 show it off to everyone BDSM relationship." Sex stuff is for us alone.

No. 98843

>>98841
Not so much fanfics but looking up doujins or hentais but having it be a taller girl tag, almost always has good femdom stuff.

>bullying a short qt

No. 98844

>>98837
It's from Pandora's Box (with Louise Brooks).

No. 98846

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>>98837
Pandora's Box! It's a silent melodrama, so, no happy ending. But I loved this scene. It's so intimate and the actor looks so vulnerable.

No. 98847

>>98842
>very thin (weighing less then me)
not to be rude but what are we talking ?
>lets me financially support him
really I'd think most guys wouldnt like this, they would prefer independence
>shares similar interests
This can be good but I've found different interests can help.

Agreed with the no showing off gross shit

No. 98848

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How do you feel about facesitting? It doesn't do much for me and I wonder if I'm approaching it wrong.

>>98828
>ideal sub
I'm into sweet guys that have cute reactions, but still are still prideful outside of the relationship, that contrast is very satisfying. Definitely not somebody who is desperate for the fetish, that ruins the fun.

No. 98849

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I love the idea of a buff guy who is actually totally submissive behind closed doors.
But guys with really thin bodies/waists are sexy, the long line it creates combined with low bodyfat is very male and very hot.

No. 98851

>>98847
I just realized I used the wrong then, kek. Whoops.
I prefer men 130lbs and under since they're easy to lift and very cute. If he doesn't want my full support, I want to at least make more than him at my job. For this reason I generally go after artsy guys hehe.
Which ties in to the similar interests; it doesn't have to be exact, but overlap is important to me. I like visual art (as a hobby) and especially comics, so a guy interested in literature would be great. We could trade things in the same sort of circle of interests. A guy into, say, mainly high level mathematics and rigid logic would be very different and we wouldn't be able to share our hobbies.

>>98849
Woo. Fukken saved.

No. 98855

>>98846
Oh my god he is so cute, I'm in love. Sucks that he's dead now.

>tfw no b&w silent film bf

No. 98858

I always had an unlucky habit of ending up with sub guys and being physically repulsed by submissive guys myself. Amazes me when I see women actively looking for them and struggling, just look for men who like anime and they probably have some weird crossdressing/sub kink. Speaking from experience a lot of guys are like this on the anime scene, negative side is that they are probably a manchild who wants a mommy they can have sex with but submissive men usually are.

No. 98860

>>98858
When you read some of the replies here you'll see how a lot dislike that type because they are demanding, the femdom doujinshi that get scanned and the femdom threads on 4chan are trash.

No. 98861

>>98860
I think its going to be hard to find a submissive man if you won't settle for that type or the really freaky types on fetlife but good luck

No. 98863

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god i love kaneoya's art. her character she draws is really ideal.

>>98828
my dream sub is very specific, but basically a manwhore who i can overpower lmao
appearance-wise:
>dark hair
>between 5'8 and 5'11
>pref green eyed
>built fat
>hairy
>dresses in sleazecore
personality:
>smug, extroverted
>constantly sexualizes himself, calls me mommy
>basically powerbottom, bi but female preference
>bratty trophy husband

No. 98865

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posted this gif in the kink thread, but its so damn hard to find femdom porn with cute subs. I'm so repulsed by old men and its so common to find them in femdom vids. old men ruin everyting lol.

No. 98866

>>98861
I'm in a relationship, but I got lucky because other guys I knew before turned out to be unpleasant to say the least. I can't think of much advice aside watching how agreeable he is and how he treats other people being a good hint usually. My type is usually guys who are into reading so that helps too- what kind of works does he enjoy? Is he more on the open minded side and willing to experiment?

Then again, I have to admit the things I'm into aren't hardcore so it was easier. I enjoy the mental aspect of control and defined roles more and don't like inflicting physical pain, also some bondage is nice.

No. 98868

posted in the kink thread but just to clarify, if there's anybody from that thread whos interested in me whoring out my bf etc it's still fine to email.

and if the anon who thought they got beat to the punch is still here, you didn't. i was just busy last night.

No. 98871

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>>98865
Have you looked into Japanese femdom porn? The guys tend to be a lot cuter. Not femdom only, but I like https://girls-dougaabc.com/ and the sites they link to because almost all of the men are ikemen types.

The downside to Japanese porn is the god awful sounds some of the women make. Like a seal riding a rollercoaster while being beaten with a dog's squeaky toy.

No. 98875

>>98871
Can't read that, what tags would one click on to find the good stuff?

No. 98876

>>98865
I need to find this damn video. He's so fucking cute good Lord.I really love the videos from femaleworship.com. I mean they're just pussy eating videos. You know like…basic but good. Some guys in them are good enough but some…are you kidding me? No thanks, I don't need to see this ugly balding idiot between her legs. Ugly old men really do ruin everything.

No. 98879


No. 98881

>>98865
Nothing makes my pussy drier than this gif, theres not a single drop of masculinity in this man, I guess theres a market for every type of man.

No. 98882

>>98881
Then why are you in a femdom thread? Unless you don't explicitly want 100% aggressive masculine guys and are fine with buff/masculine guys in femdom situations.

No. 98886

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>>98881
Post a hotter guy being dommed then instead of whining.

No. 98891

>What experiences have you had?
My current boyfriend (been together for over a year) is my sub. We started dating normally at a time when I thought I was more submissive. One time while having sex I started teasing his nipples and he loved it, and from then I started thinking about domming him more and more, following gfd tumblrs, making one…
I still remember the first time I told him I'd like to peg him, we were both super flustered and it was super cute. We were long distance at that time so he started practicing with fingers on his own and reporting back to me, he liked it a lot from the start. Then we also did a few things on skype, like him fingering himself or teasing his nipples as I ordered.
We've been experimenting and talking about more stuff as time goes, he likes when I lock him in a chastity cage so he can't cum, when I slap his face or ass, when I call him degrading names (his favourite is "fuckhole")… I love how whiny he gets when I deny him, sometimes it makes him cry and it's super cute. We'd like to roleplay non-consent too but we'll probably be super awkward because I'm bad at roleplay sex lol.

We've been living together for a little while now and I'm a bit disappointed that I often feel too lazy to fuck him or he feels too lazy to clean himself out so I don't fuck him that much. Real life gets in the way a lot. Outside of bed we have a pretty normal dynamic too, equal share of chores etc.
In any case I love him and I'm glad our relationship feels a bit special in that way.

>Where to find subs? How to avoid unhealthy ones?

I'd just say to be open, find someone you like and talk to them about your preferences when it feels right.
I know a guy who's a sub and finding someone who'll dom him is his only obsession, it's ridiculous. Avoid these, they're gross.

No. 98900

>>98882
He looks like a lesbian woman.

No. 98903

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>>98876
Have another gif of him anon! I have the link to the vid, if you want I'll post it. He also looks quite tall, reminds me of my bf. He's my sub and we just started talking about doing some harder stuff, pegging him is my dream. What would you guys suggest to get him started? Some toy recommendations?

No. 98911

>>98903
>>98865
Oh boy. Admittedly, I find all BDSM to be cringy as fuck but these are some quality gifs.

No. 98917

>>98911
>Admittedly, I find all BDSM to be cringy as fuck
Why?

No. 98919

>>98911
Since when is eating pussy BDSM?

No. 98920

Can any anons tell me has there ever been a thread like this for submissives ?

No. 98923

>>98920
Why would there be? You can find that literally anywhere, and it'd be depressing to see it on here since we have fewer handmaidens than most places.

No. 98924

>>98920
Why would there be? You can find that literally anywhere, and it'd be depressing to see it on here since we have fewer handmaidens than most places.

No. 98925

>>98920
do you mean for submissive women? no i dont think so, you ladies are in the majority anyway i dont see why you need your own thread, literally any female majority site you can talk how you love bring fucked and spanked and 99% will agree with you

No. 98927

>>98924
>depressing to see it on here since we have fewer handmaidens than most places.
What? why would that be depressing?

No. 98931

Any switches here with switch bfs? Our dynamic is pretty vanilla right now because we're LDR but he's shown a lot of interest in the more sub side, I can't wait to be able to try it out in real life. Only problem is I'm not sure how to initiate it. Any suggestions? In the past I've had an easy time with sub or switch boys because I just fall into the dominant role naturally, but with this man it's a little different because he's physically much bigger and acts like it. How do you get things started with a powerbottom?

No. 98932

>>98927
Anyone who doesn't think like them is automatically insert negative adjective here

No. 98937

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Anyone know which manga this is from? It looked so nice and "normal" for being hentai.

No. 98940

>>98886
This pic is so hot Anon

>New fetish unlocked

No. 98943

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>>98891
Living the dream anon, how lucky.
>>98940
Good taste, have some more Hercules and Omphale. He had to be her slave for a year and then they got married.

No. 98946

>>98937
thats definitely dibi's art, looking at thumbnails i think its called 'the day it began' im not into his work really but his style is so easy to recognize

No. 98947

>>98946
Hmm I read it and it was disappointing that the girlfriend never got to come herself.

No. 98969

>>98943
lmao the cherub face made me laugh too much

No. 98992

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>>98903
What a fucking gem. I saw the video of him getting fucked with a strap on and he looked so in pain, it was so good.

No. 99007

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>tfw no sub with plump soft lips to eat me out while looking up with his pretty eyes

why live

No. 99008

>>98849
Sub guys are pretty rare but I think I got lucky a few years ago and found a switch/sub army dude. It was actually really sexy to dominate a buff guy in bed when he could easily pick me up and act like "THE MAN" outside of it.

I'd choke him, tease him, gently slap him and made him cum at work. He was a total nutcase but I kind of miss that sexual relationship.

No. 99017

Do you all ever feel like it would be easier if you were submissive? I'm a femdom with a little bit of switch in me. I am new to all this and have no good resources that are not online as of right now. Because the vast majority of doms are men and the overwhelming majority of submissives are women, I feel lost. I like dominating, I call myself the affectionate degrader. It's just that, whenever I enter a dominate space it always feel like the male doms are silently telling me to get with the program. Getting told I'm such a cute little sub only for him to get a look like I've smacked him when I tell him I prefer to dom doesn't help. Is this a newbie thing? It really pushes me away from BDSM and honestly engaging with the 'community' feels like a waste of my time for the most part. Though I have to be honest, vanilla sex never again after my experiences.

No. 99051

>>99017
Western socities used to be super patriarchal and women couldn't even vote only about 100+ years ago, and the average man was fine with that. Shitmen are gonna flock to BDSM now that women are all free and uppity, those men want their own community away from relative equality.

>only for him to get a look like I've smacked him

Good.

Men being assholes is the reasons I think femdom can be a fun fetish, if such a man is the victim, get that revenge ladies.

No. 99062

>>98824
I really like gentle femdom but sort of in a way that mostly fits into gender roles? I like being feminine and him being masculine but in a sort of way that I have power over him because of his sexual desire. It's hard to explain. One of my fantasies is being a queen secretly having sex with my most loyal and brave knight.

No. 99064

>>99051
yikes

No. 99067

>>99017
>Because the vast majority of doms are men and the overwhelming majority of submissives are women
Honestly you're being over-dramatic,there's a big difference in the amount but not a big enough difference where you won't see a lot of malesubs/femdoms,they aren't that rare even with the numbers difference

No. 99068

>>99064
What was "yikes" about that?

No. 99073

I feel really happy with my fiancée, he has basically my ideal looks with big dark fawn eyes, black curly hair, not that much taller than I am and a slim body. He's a switch as I am, on dom side he goes from "dad" type to aggressive. He's usually very prideful, which makes it even hotter when I am the dominant one, his squeaks are so cute and he absolutely loves when I spoil him and tease him. He discovered his submissive side while experimenting with me and found himself more and more into mommy stuff. At first I was a bit frightened but as I went throught with what he liked, I enjoyed it more and more, I would like one day to make enought from my job to support him financially or, at least, spoil him a lot (as he does with me now that I am a student and he used to work before applaying to university).

>What experiences have you had?

Aside from him,I tried some stuff with my ex but I didn't loved him anymore by that time and it disgusted me.
>What are your main kinks?
I love degrading, bondage, roleplay, whatever seems like fun, I'm up for it.
>What advice do you have for newbie dommes?
Always respect your sub needs and yours too, don't manipulate and don't allow others to manipulate. Might seem weird, but guilt tripping can happen to anyone.
>Where to find subs? How to avoid unhealthy ones?
Just don't fixate yourself into finding a "sub", just go for whatever guy you like. Bad experiences are easier if you go looking for explicit subs. An open minded guy is easier and safer to find.

No. 99075

>>99073
>Just don't fixate yourself into finding a "sub", just go for whatever guy you like
I mean that's good advice if you're fine with a switch but the chances of finding a random guy who happens to be a hard sub without looking for sub is low

No. 99076

>>99017
Chill out, girl. You're not one in a billion.

No. 99102

>>98863
I'm currently fwb with someone exactly like this (except he's fit/skinny) and he's killing me.
He's a bit too unstable for me to actually date but god damn it he's my sexual kryptonite.
You wouldn't expect him to be such a sub unless you have an eye for it but I could spot him from 5 miles away. He's such a smug, bratty, degenerate, over the top slut, and I love how he'd get flustered around me in the beginning. I was a bit too mean to him at the very start and after the first time I fucked him he started crying because he thought I hated him. He's super mushy under the tough appearance and will cuddle me for hours while I stroke his hair and tell him he's a good boy (although he's really not, he's absolutely terrible and I love it).

As to how I spot the bratty subs out:
- they tend to be really sassy / playful. Actual male doms tend to take themselves more seriously I find.
- glimpses of insecurity. If they act really cocky but then they get nervous when you tease them a bit. They get very defensive and try to overcompensate when you hit a weak spot.
- how they act around animals. Your mileage may vary but both of mine that I spotted in the wild would get overly mushy around small animals and vulnerable creatures.

No. 99105

>>99103
Spoiler pls.
But damn he has a testicle bra, LOL

No. 99107

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>>98828
>Ideal
a pretty/attractive somewhat bratty (but also good at being a 100% obedient sub) man
I would love if he was into being being treated rough/degraded (Too many male subs who seem to only be into gfd)

No. 99108

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>>99102
>he thought I hated him
Damn anon what did you do?
>will cuddle me for hours while I stroke his hair and tell him he's a good boy
HNNNG
>how to spot 'em advice
Always welcome. Thumbs up

No. 99142

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>>99102
god, that sounds great. it seems in femdom communities there’s a lack of variety in submissive men, they all seem to be either:
1. buff masculine guy who acts like he doesn’t want it, and basically is a dead fish in bed
or
2. meek feminine guy who bends over to every will, and is also a dead fish in bed

it seems pretty fucked up that a fetish that surrounds women being dominant still makes them the object of desire, rather then sexualizing men……. i’m pretty sick and tired of it, they need to reciprocate more.

on a side note, another ideal sub man i would like is an energetic and playful perpetual childish man. not in the “i want a mommy gf” way, but in the carefree male equivalent of manic pixie dream girl. i kind of imagine a drop dead fred/beetlejuice situation where i’m a depressed or introverted woman that constantly deals with a insane lunatic of a man, but instead in this situation he freely lets me peg him.

No. 99149

>What experiences have you had?

A few casual FWB in the past that would occasionally let me tie them up/ etc. Currently been pursuing a D/s-based relationship with someone for about 6 months now where we've delved into a lot heavier things like breathplay, chastity, sounding, etc. Its intense and emotional and incredibly satisfying.

>What are your main kinks?


Breathplay, pegging/ass play, petplay, domestic service, chastity

>What advice do you have for newbie dommes?


COMMUNICATE COMMUNICATE COMMUNICATE. Be aware of body language. If meeting a potential play partner, don't go right into playing. Meet them outside the dynamic to get a feel for them, and if possible play for the first time at an event for safety's sake.

>Where to find subs? How to avoid unhealthy ones?


Mine and I were friends for a super long time before getting freaky. But I would advise NOT trying to find a partner on fetlife, most of the guys on there are creeps looking for an easy fuck.

No. 99150

>>98832
I think you need to get into Fetlife, anon. It's definitely going to be considered a fetish and most Tinder guys aren't looking for that.

No. 99152

I think I may have met an potential submissive. He called me 'mommy'(he only stopped because his friend told him to) and doesn't stop me from degrading him. He told me he doesn't enjoy when women want him to be in control and jokes about being a 'manlet'. But he doesn't know anything about BDSM and seems nervous around me. I told him I was a dominate leaning switch and he asked me how that works. Am I reading everything wrong? Or am I just so desperate that I am seeing shit that ain't there?

No. 99168

>>99152
sorry to say but it really could go either way anon. you could have just noticed a few jokes and statements out of many and put them into a pattern when they're not really a pattern, or he could be giving hints about what he really is into.

is this someone you're actually seeing or flirting with or are you just friends for now?

No. 99217

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>>99108
I didn't do anything particularly bad, I just jokingly teased him a bit and rightfully got mad at him for doing stupid shit on occasion. Apparently I come off as somewhat cold / mean sometimes and he's silly (and more insecure than I thought, it breaks my heart, I'm working on his self esteem. Bless his praise kink).

>>99142
I know, I dislike those tropes as well. First one's completely unappealing to me, second one's just boring as shit. I want someone to challenge me and give something back, not a wet doormat.
This is why I hate femdom porn, it's super male geared. I just want to see and hear hot sub men being objectified and enjoying it.

And that situation also sounds ideal. My heart. That's kind of what I have on my hands rn but mine's too bloody insane and keeps getting into trouble and draining my money. I wouldn't mind sugarbabying him if I had the resources but I really don't at the moment /blogpost

on a side note yesterday I found out that he perfectly fits into my sparkly booty shorts and this is now all that he's allowed to wear when he's with me.

No. 99218

>>99217
I don't think there's anything wrong with the second 'trope' I like full submissive 'feminine' boys (Dead fishes are bad but not all full submissive are dead fishes) and it's possible for that type to be objectified and enjoying it,although I agree I hate the first 'trope',the only problem I have is that it's rarer and a shit ton men into femdom are ugly fat dudes and thirstlords

No. 99219

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>>99218
That's fair enough, I used to fantasize about nice sweet obedient subs when I was a teen, my type just shifted a bit as I grew older.

Anyhow, here's my favourite sub pic.

No. 99220

>>99219
Honestly i'm kind of the opposite,started liking a challenge but now like obedience (not opposed to all challenge but still)

No. 99227

My dream guy would be an ordinary nice normie who gets a raging boner when kneeling in front of your feet in the bedroom.

>>99217
>I just want to see and hear hot sub men being objectified and enjoying it.

Yeees. Anyone got any material to share that is actually for women?

No. 99228

>Look at femdom porn videos
>The majority have either ugly guys or focus purely on the domme
What's even the point of getting a fat guy who looks like a sex offender,do they purposely choose ugly fucks

No. 99250

>>98937
>>98946
>>98947
Would you happen to have any doujin recommendations?

No. 99328

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>>98865
>>98903
>>98992

Y'all…I need a name. All I've found out is that he's Russian and all I've seen are shitty short videos. Farmers…help ;_;

No. 99344

>>99328 ANON RESEARCH PARTY NOW
I've been watching his vids for weeks now but not a name ANYWHERE. I need to know who this cute boy is, I'll let you know if I find something!

No. 99345

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>>99328
It's a shame cute ones like the guy you posted are so rare in videos,it's like they go out of their way to get creepy fat ugly guys

No. 99346

>>99345
Holy shit anon, I just saw this in recent images, what a snacc.

The world needs more adorable femme-y boys like this.

No. 99349

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>>99346
>Tfw most Adorable femme-y boys are gay
It sucks

No. 99350

>>99168
He is a sub but he insulted me pretty bad (some drama he made up for attention) which showed me how immature he is. It was just wishful thinking, really. Hard pass.

No. 99352

>>99345
This is waking up something in me I didnt know I had.

Oh no.

No. 99357

>>99345
Remember, dick out = spoiler

>>99349
Niiiice

No. 99376

>>99345
hhhhnng the high heels. I think I just fell in love.

No. 99420

>>99345
Anon who is this beautiful person. I need more of him.

No. 99449

Am I the only one who wants a porn board for only female posters?

No. 99454

File: 1540604134262.jpg (Spoiler Image, 62.81 KB, 500x667, 0089.jpg)

I need me a beefy sub with sensitive nipples that I can tease. Fuck.

No. 99455

>>99454
Source?

No. 99460

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>>99454
HHNNNGGG, I love slightly beefy guys, he got the perfect bod.

What femdom-y mangas do you guys like? Everything I find is so male geared. I loved Sadistic Beauty and was so sad to see it discontinued

No. 99461

>>99449
yes. go to crystal.cafe if you want that trash, we don't need it here.

No. 99462

File: 1540613914103.gif (893.28 KB, 400x225, 7123123413.gif)


No. 99470

>>99462
can you guys spoil the obviously more porny pics? thank you

No. 99478

>>99462
Where's this from?

No. 99479

>>99470
Yeah and ITT people have already told posters to remember spoilering before.

No. 99522

>>99460
I hate how it ended just as she rescued the hottest guy, Minho. The scenes with him were the best.

No. 99532

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>>99522
I KNOW. I was pissed, it looked like a really good scene was about to start :(

No. 99534

>>99522
Fuck, I know the feel. The hottest kind of sub is the ones who are angry assholes, in denial, and need to be tamed. And that bod too…he was perfect.

No. 99541

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No. 99542

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No. 99567

The pics in the CC thread are so disappointing. I want more like the style of OP's pic (perhaps a little less bloody.)

No. 99588

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"1932 still of Katharine Hepburn on stage as Antiope, grabbing Colin Keith-Johnston’s Theseus by the hair.”

No. 99589

File: 1540752689150.jpg (184.9 KB, 1037x1042, 612412412.jpg)

>Tfw no submissive house husband

No. 99590

>>99588
Now that's a hunky man.

No. 99732

File: 1540889469874.jpg (Spoiler Image, 194.38 KB, 1080x720, 1537050885042.jpg)

>What experiences have you had?
A few online flings and then one 2 year current relationship with an adorably bratty sub (not him pictured, but he actually looks exactly the same. Petite yet fit from sports and running)
>What are your main kinks?
Cum control, Bondage, pegging, spanking since he loves it. He's also heavily into pet play so I guess that too although I'm pretty indifferent to it.
>What advice do you have for newbie dommes?
Weed out the lazies fast. If he says he wants a "mommy", he probably means he wants to lay there like a dead fish while you both pleasure him and then take care of him financially for nothing. Make sure you're getting with someone who has a plan in life, not just a plan for what he wants you to do to him in bed.
>Where to find subs? How to avoid unhealthy ones?
I met mine through a hobby board on 4chan. I got very very lucky. I would say if you go the 4chan route-because 4chan is swimming in sub boys. If you go the 4chan route, avoid the ones from /soc/(will be a major slut), /r9k/(will be emotionally irreparable and probably threaten to kill himself all the time), /lgbt/ and /h/.
The ones on /d/ seemed alright. /trash/ has a huge stash of fembois but most are gay.

>>99017
I used to, yes.
Tried to conform and be sub because that's what I thought I was supposed to be and anytime I even looked at ex's asses they would flip out and tell me it's weird and a huge turn off.
Obviously, those relationships didnt work and I spent a lot of time wondering what was "wrong" with me and why I couldnt just be normal. I would very much later come to realize that I was just naturally very dominant and that submissive men were a thing and an option. A much better and even ideal option.
I no longer feel any type of guilt or wish I was submissive anymore. There is no greater pleasure than being a domme.

No. 99754

File: 1540925827962.gif (1.8 MB, 500x229, B837376F-1FB6-4DD8-BB36-9AB24E…)

I’m so happy for this thread to exist!

Being domme is big part of how I see myself. There are times when I don’t actively practice my dominant side in bed. At the moment I’m in long-term relationship where my partner and I are equals. We have good sex but sometimes I find myself fantasizing about full BDSM dynamic relationship.

I have had relationship with strong D/S dynamic but it was messy. We both were young and seeking ourselves. It didn’t work out as a relationship but there’s that weird tension between us. She has a sugarmama/domme at the time and I’m genuinely happy for her.

It was been easier to swept my inner domme under the rug when she’s not around but well, there’s another gal to mess my mind.

She’s a sort of collague of mine. We have projects together and we are great team. In personal life we are friends but there is definetly potential for more. At the parties we have made out because ”it would totally be lulz if we kiss teehee xD”.
Last time I spanked her and she gave her ass very nicely but I had to stop because our third friend felt uncomfortable. All gal pals spank each other, right?
She’s technically switch but she could make a great sub. She got that amazing immersion where she enters the sub space.

I havu been holding back because my SO but now he is flashing green light. He said that he don’t mind if I have sex with her. We have very trustful relationship with open communication and he is not jealous type.

I’m going to a club with this new girl this weekend and situations like that have lead to things before… we’ll see.

Sorry for spelling errors. Not a native speaker.

No. 99794

>>99754
>would totally be lulz if we kiss teehee xD”.
Last time I spanked her and she gave her ass very nicely but I had to stop because our third friend felt uncomfortable. All gal pals spank each other, right?

Wtf am I reading…

No. 99907

>>99732
I think I'm one of the lazies and emotionally irreparable ones, do you think it's possible to change

No. 99919

File: 1541107275141.jpg (171.15 KB, 850x552, 1536090723346.jpg)

>>99907
Male or Female?
Either way I'll keep it honest with you. It's extremely annoying and a huge time waste. If you stay like that, it doesn't matter who you get. Eventually they'll get tired of that and leave.

Is it possible to change?
Yes, absolutely. If you're lazy then stop being lazy. Go to school, go to work, have a job, have a career. Have somewhere you're going in life. A lot of subs think it's ok and even cute if they're a NEET. It's not. Not if you actually want a future with them. A quick fuck sure, be whatever you want. But a serious relationship has no room for a deadweight. Make sure to exercise and eat right too.

Emotionally irreparable I don't know how you fix that other than stop fucking whining. A lot of subs also have a "everything is about me" problem, where they cry about little things and never once ask if their dom is ok. Not everything is about you, brat. Don't dwell in stupid shit. If you're clinically depressed or whatever, see a therapist. A relationship won't change or save you, so don't put all that weight on your dom either. They'll crack under the pressure and run.
I don't really know what else to say. If you know you have problems, get help, THEN enter a relationship. Otherwise you'll just lose what you got to your poor habits. That's just my personal experience with subs anyway.

No. 99943

what does it mean when a sub is a "dead fish"?

No. 99945

>>99943
They will just lay there under you like a dead fish, passive. They expect you to do all the work and all the pleasing during sex while they just lay there and receive.

No. 99946

>>99945
Isn't that the whole point of tying someone up though?
The term is a bit vague because it's not always a bad thing

No. 99947

>>99946

The point of tying someone up is being able to use them for your own enjoyment. Be it sexual or mental. I might do things to my sub when he's restrained where he's the only one being stimulated, but I get a power high/ the mental satisfaction of pushing his boundaries.

No. 100022

>>99946
A sub isn't tied up every single night and Submissive doesn't mean "just lay there and do nothing like a pillow princess". It means you submit to whoever your partner is.
So for example, my boyfriend submits to me by letting me do whatever I want. and however I take him, he reciprocates back. If I have him on his back, he'll kiss at my shoulders and neck. If he's turned around, he'll push himself against me. If I do oral, so does he. If I even stick my foot out, he'll crawl over to kiss my toes. If I uncross my legs-so on and so forth. In the case of being tied up, a submissive cant do much no. That's why it usually isnt an every night thing. No one likes a selfish partner. Pleasure should always be mutual.

No. 100039

I follow this pixiv artist that draws super hardcore femdom and I love it but it's all shota and kind of gross from most people's viewpoint so I never get the chance to share it… I assume most people itt won't like it either.
I really love the pics and the stories as well (they can be read easily with a japanese dictionary add-on)

https://www.pixiv.net/member.php?id=10968668
https://www.pixiv.net/member.php?id=29823356

No. 100041

>>100039
Shota, also known as pedophilia…fuck off with that.

No. 100252

>>99919
Regardless of sexual dynamic, this is solid relationship advice. Nobody wants to be with someone like this.

No. 100344

Here's Hugh Dancy getting mildly bullied on stage in Venus in Fur.

No. 100567

>>100252
Absolutely.
>>100344
A comedy huh? Nice ending scene though.

No. 100611

File: 1542027494227.jpg (73.88 KB, 450x606, eeee.jpg)

>you'll never live in the world Kaneoya Sachiko portrays
why

No. 101993

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No. 101994

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No. 102005

>>98832
careful. a lot of male subs are subby because they're emotionally wounded. get to know them emotionally before proceeding, maybe even take note of how they respond to an emotional crisis. but don't cause one yourself. an emotionally wounded guy projects his need to be attended to on to a domme. that CAN be a safe way to express himself.

usually the bad ones are thirsty as fuck, so they're easy to spot. guys aren't known for being subtle after all.

No. 102012

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I'm a loser virgin so I've had no femdom experience at all obviously. I like it in porn/in theory however, and dominating a guy appeals to me way more than being submissive myself.

>>100611
Right? It's sad.

>>101993
>>101994
Cute.

No. 102022

>>102012
>you'll never take home a cute 2D boy and keep him tied up and locked in your closet forever, being able to do whatever you want with him
Smfh

No. 102034

>>102012
Hnnng.
On the topic of anime glasses guys getting dommed, I have been trying to find the drama cd Namidame 6 online. Anyone know if it's uploaded somewhere? Or I'll just buy and hide thist too I guess. https://www.amazon.co.jp/dp/B07G6P7PHB/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_awdo_c_x_E9gbCbQQYPN96

No. 102039

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Damn never knew this thread would actually turn me on. I guess I always hated on the BDSM scene, because of how misogynistic and racist the men dommes can be.

No. 102044

>>102039
good doms are good people.

No. 102066

File: 1543818172615.jpg (70.01 KB, 722x277, dom.JPG)

This hentai manga always sticks with me for some reason, maybe cause maybe I'm too nervous to talk to cute boys

https://hentai2read.com/m_no_honkai/

No. 102078

>>102066
It's like the ultimate farmer Mary Sue manga except it's drawn by a virgin guy who think you give oral by licking the inside of the vagina.

No. 102089

>>102066
I wonder if there are cute sub guys that like introverted sadistic girls. It seems like most of them, even the introverted ones, want a career-oriented super extroverted aggressive type of person and I'm just not that. I don't like parties, clubs, drinking, drugs, or casual sex.

No. 102091

>>102066
This one's actually really gross. I wish there were more femdom manga like that korean one that anon posted in the other femdom thread in ot.

>>102078
>the ultimate farmer Mary Sue manga
Not really. Most of us aren't fujoshits.

No. 102095

>>102091
Most here are nerds who would love to have a cute popular guy suddenly offering to be their sub though.

And yes Sadistic beauty is great. I hope it gets revived and continues.

No. 102098

>>102095
Meh, I didn't like that he was an asshole in the beginning (telling her shes disgusting and has no friends), making fun of her in harsh ways reminded me of a sadistic dom but it wasn't even sexual in context, just making him mean and repulsive. If anyone said those things to me, I'd walk out, not give him what he wants. Like another anon said, it's made by some virgin guy, but it's a really shitty excuse for the main characters to have sex even for a one-shot. The art is also off putting.

No. 102118

I don't mind tumblr changing their rules to ban pornographic content, as the site was run over by porn bots. But I will miss the gfd blogs. I hope those bloggers find other sites to be on.

No. 102132

Getting back into the Addams Family and I can definitely see Gomez being into femmedom.

No. 102134

>>102118
Tumblr's banning porn? That goes the rest of its fanbase, though.

No. 102141

>>102089
i guarantee you there is someone for everyone. i don't know if i'd call myself a degenerate yet, but i'm convinced everyone is someone's ideal partner.

No. 102143

>>102141
lol freudian slip

that should read: i don't know if i'd call myself a degenerate yet, but i've been around, and i'm convinced everyone is someone's ideal partner.

No. 102189

>>102132
They have such a sweet relationship too, I hope to be in a relationship where we are even half as enamored with each other.

No. 102224

>>102141
>>102143
Thanks anon! My post came off as kind of negative (just got out of a breakup a week ago with my ex not liking the fact I was dominant), but I know it's definitely possible even if the chances seem slim. I'm going to keep working on myself. I'm going to make it and find the cute sub bf I've been dreaming about!

No. 102236

>>102189
I can just imagine a scenerio he comes out to greet the scared postman, he sees him bleeding from his neck and asked if he had an accident with a shaver. He nods, but then the camera pans to Morticia wiping a blood spot from the corner of mouth with her pinky.

Love them. <<<3333

https://youtu.be/-Z6STPcw3Ac

No. 102237

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>>98824

>What experiences have you had?


My boyfriend and I are currently long distance due to work so we've had fun over cam/phone when it came to me being the dominant one. I never dommed IRL due to being pretty shy and so used to being the sub in past relationships. We ended up sitting down together and discussed what we liked, eventually finding out we're both switches! But overall, I've only experienced being a dom through voice/cam and he's done the same, but playing the role as a sub.

>What are your main kinks?


I love buff/stocky/ bearded men. I'm only 5'3" and don't really having the intimidating/powerful(?) dom look at all. Which turns my boyfriend on since he has a pretty manly or intimidating presence in general. He was also in the army for a few years and was a cop, so he had some sort of authority - which turns me on even more. The thought of a manly/strong/serious/etc man getting dommed by a small girl is def the #1 reason why I love domming him.

List of things I enjoy doing to him: choking, slapping, degrading, ropeplay, anal play, pegging, collars, spanking, face sitting, and edging him.

Hearing a grown man whimper and beg is also a big plus.

But after sex, we always make sure to baby eachother and keep most of that dom/sub thing in the bedroom. Though, there's a bit of role reverse when we're together. (ex: I'll be the big spoon, I'll let him lay his head in my lap while I pet his head, I baby/spoil him most of the time, etc.)

(sorry if any of my grammar or English is wrong, it's not my native language)

No. 102247

>>102237
Oh my god that image is great, does anyone know where to find more stuff like this?

>I love buff/stocky/ bearded men.

SAME
Bara men are my favorite

No. 102284

>>102237
>manly/strong/serious/etc man getting dommed by a small girl

a+ taste anon. From lurking r/gentlefemdom etc. it seems like a lot of guys want to feel physically smaller but I LOVE the thought of controlling a larger, authoritative man and watching him crumble.

No. 102299

>>102012
>>100611
I find a very large percentage of anime style artwork to make bland, sticker-faced unattractive men and this is a definite exception. The artist is very talented and her work very evocative.

In another thread someone posted a pic of a bodypillow with her character on it and NGL I kind of wanted one.

No. 102300

>>102284
Yes. Gimme someone sturdy who can take a kicking.

No. 102322

>>102299
Ah yes the merch thread. Too bad you can only get them at exhibitions in japan. Kaneoya Sachikos men are very sexy

No. 102334

>>102322
>Kaneoya Sachikos men are very sexy
they look like neet hobos but whatever floats your boat, I guess

No. 102337

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>>102322
Just found her twitter, and an artbook with her work will be released soon - in english!
https://twitter.com/sac_macaroni
But it seems her main interest is in furry femdom - kek

No. 102338

>>102334
>waah stop liking what I don't like!
Nta but they're cute as fuck, neet or not. Looks more realistic too instead of the clean shaven bishounen 12 year old boy look.

>>102337
I don't even know how much of a thing furries are in Japan and her art's a little weird to begin with so I can't tell if she's legit one or if it's just her being quirky. I always wondered wtf was up with that.

No. 102344

>>102338
I kind of get it like a stand-in for a carnivorous, animalistic woman…but she's also drawn stuff where a undead skeleton dog wants to bone a scientist man so I guess she is also just being weird.

No. 102350

>>102337
The book is already out, or at least the digital copy is because someone leaked it.

No. 102351

>>102350
Got a link?

No. 102366

>>102334
I like the tired hobo look NGL

>>102337
still hot

No. 102369

>>102334
You've never seen a hobo in your life. Go outside and stop fapping to shotas.

No. 102435

>>102337
Maybe she does it because it’s shocking? Or maybe just for fun lmao, I think this makes sense too >>102344
kind of like some artists like to portray grown men as Pigs

No. 102451

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>>102435
From her DA she has described the female characters as 'milf beasts' so they probably are meant to be representative of sexually aggressive women.

Oh and she is selling body pillows again, but you have to order them from Vanilla Gallery. I'm torn between A) when are these gonna be available again? and B) do I want to be a person that has a daki? I'm still wavering but since people here have expressed interest in purchasing one I thought I'd share that they're available again.

No. 102453

>>102369
>not liking unkempt, creepy guys means you are a pedo
wild

No. 102455

>>102453
I get not liking the look but can they really qualify as creepy? Creepy implies some level of potential threat but she's always drawing men getting tied up or posed femininely or framed in a way that lends credence to the concept of 'female gaze'. Perhaps people might feel differently if the men were ever portrayed smiling, or without the tired eyes or faint mustache. If you say the concept is creepy or the situations displayed look creepy though than I would agree. Ignore the eroticism and a lot of her work looks like something out of a psychedelic horror film.

No. 102456

>>102455
nta but creepy usually means unsettling not threatening. i don't associate creepy behavior with being threatening at all tbh.

No. 102457

>>102456
alright fair enough

No. 102462

>>102451
That's very expensive for such a small daki. Size really makes a gigantic difference in comfortability when you're holding it and yes, have fun trying to hide your daki when you have company over which is actually more of a pain in the ass than it sounds after you're forced to do it so often.

>>102453
I mean you think boys faces with what…dark circles at most, peach fuzz and glasses in business attire look like "hobos" so you're definitely not sound. How do you react to people in real life I wonder.

No. 102469

>>102453
>men are only unkempt creeps or children
you truly are a mongoloid. shouldnt you be in your containment thread

No. 102473

I love how jimmies are rustled ITT just cause someone dare not find animu slobs >>98863 sexually attractive.

No. 102476

>>102473
I love how even more jimmies are rustled ITT just cause someone dare find animu slobs >>98863 sexually attractive.

No. 102481

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This recent whining is making my pussy dry up. Post some pics you like instead.

No. 102482

>>102451
Bless you anon
I’m actually planning on getting her artbook, so excited for it to be released!

>>102481
>Tied up Dante
I didn’t know I wanted this until now

No. 102483

File: 1544217691236.png (1.63 MB, 1280x1277, Bayonetta_-_SSB4.png)

>>102473
>>102476
Sachiko has drawn her character in jeans and tees, suits and military wear. Liking her work really comes down to finding the art style and more importantly, her face design, attractive. She really only has one subject so if you don't find him attractive you're not gonna enjoy her work no matter how slick or slobbish he is presented. There would be more to debate if she had a fuller roster of characters but she clearly has a personal idea.

>>102481
OK not Devil May Cry exactly but anyone here a fan of Bayonetta? Total femdomme, had some fun scenes with Luka (who she bullied). Would LOVE to see her interact with Dante though it will never happen because of the rights holders.

No. 102485

>>102483
> had some fun scenes with Luka (who she bullied)

I have never played this, what happens?

No. 102488

>>102485
Bayonetta's a practically immortal, overpowered witch and Luka's a dumb normal human. You're not gonna see her tie him up or give him a paddling but all of their interactions have a clear hierarchy and Bayonetta's always the dominant person, she's got no bones about teasing him or being condescending. She has a great voice actress that really sells the character.

Its not a perfect game in how in represents the character. She's designed by a woman for a male director that has described her as a dream girl. I understand why people find the character and the game offensive but I still really like her.

No. 102500

>>102338
>Looks more realistic too instead of the clean shaven bishounen 12 year old boy look.
Bishounens do not look like 12 year olds and there's nothing wrong with liking pretty boys

No. 102501

>>102500
Literally no1curr. Stop sperging already

No. 102502

File: 1544270376303.jpg (250.88 KB, 1000x700, Bayonettacoop.jpg)

>>102483
>>102488

ngl, the whole character concept of Bayo was the reason why I got into this franchise and felt in love with. There are just way too many aspects about her that I enjoy as well like she does ugh

Can't wait for Bayo 3

>>102481

Good.

No. 102544

>>102502
Definitely excited for the third game, hope we see more of Jeanne than we got to see in the second too. Bayonetta's a rare enough character type in games, that she has friendships with other women who are also badass Dommes is another level of rare.

She's been as flirty with Luka as she has been bossy to him, would you like to see them paired up at the end?

No. 102556

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No. 102559

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This is a shot from a dance production of Salome: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VtYFOylfZFY

No. 102564

>>102556
Saged for ot: not into femdom, but this weirdly turns me on (if I imagine their roles to be reversed). It's such a pity that there isn't any porn there a guy is so "loving" towards his female partner. Just seeing the both of them smile, have fun and really enjoy it, is making it a 100 times hotter.

No. 102583

>>102564
It's from a korean movie called Affair. I'm not into porn anymore, but the lack of affection and respect the performers seemed to have for each other is what started to put me off it.

No. 102588

>>102583
I once saw a great gif set from a Korean movie which was black and white and the guy was about to give head to a lady who wore a skirt, ring any bells?

No. 102656

>>102453
it's weird, but i like kaneoya's art so much because the male character has some actual edge to him (without being a disgusting slob like most male subs)/masculine to a degree. i'm sick of only seeing boys that look like shota twinks in femdom.

No. 102693

>>102656
>i'm sick of only seeing boys that look like shota twinks in femdom.
I half agree,I wish there were more non-shota twinks

No. 102723

Bf always ask me if he can cum during PIV or when he's receiving Bj, I really enjoy it, it's super sexy, sometimes I deny him just to see his cute frustrated face. It makes me feel like he might be a bit of a sub but idk how to go deeper into the subject, the relationship is brand new and I don't want to scare him off.

No. 102726

>>102337
The book is available for preorder on bookdepository with free worldwide shipping

No. 102729

>>102726
BRB preordering this for some february furry femdom fap time.

No. 102747

>>102723
he could be anon, the best choice of action is to ask him straight up if he is a sub or likes to take orders. at least that's the way i approached it with my bf since he would always let me take charge in the bedroom and i just have terrible social skills. or he could just be a gentleman either way KEEP HIM, there's not a lot around.

No. 102842

>>102723
>>102747
I'm gonna try that mojoupgrade quiz to see if the guy I'm currently seeing and I share some interests we're too shy to talk about. I think he might have some subbish tendencies but we're both too awkward to have productive discussions about sex.

No. 103078

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No. 103104

>>102729
>hobo lover
I'm fucking dead, anon.

No. 103757

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Where do you all hang out/get your femdom picture content now that the tumblr purge happened?

No. 103921

I always thought I was more subby but in retrospect I think it was because I wasn't confident in myself enough.
I'm discovering a more femdom side in me each day but I'm really scared on acting on it because I'm already the cliché of the aggro girl IRL. I'm chubby (though still healthy BMI), I don't wax my bikini zone, I'm a loud feminist, I love arguing and made several people cry in class. So if I were an actual domme in bed, I feel like it would be too much ?

How to overcome this, because femdom is so hot.

No. 103926

>>103921
Why do you care about being cliche?
Cliche does not mean bad

No. 103927

>>103926
eh idk…
I guess it really just comes down to a lack of self confidence.
Like, I guess if you're an elegant qt3.14, it doesnt make sense to make fun of you being a domme but it's so easy to say "look at her, she's the embodiement of the hairy feminist dyke to the point that even the men she fucks, she humiliates them".

No. 103934

>>103921
>I love arguing and made several people cry in class
OT but can you share more? I'd love to hear a story-time about this.

No. 103960

>>103934
I don't think there's a particular storytime about this, it happenned several times. I'm in art college and one time my whole class was having a discussion about this group project we had to do, just talking and this girl I dislike was offering dumb ideas so I just looked her in the eyes while I detailed why her ideas were shit and her cheeks got all red and eyes watery.
Or two weeks ago in philosophy class, I was challenging the prof who's such a sucker for Hannah Arendt and I gave her sources on why Hannah Arendt sucked politically and we argued and the prof got quite heated. So after that, I was just whispering with a friend about the situation and the prof yelled at me "You're distracting me again! But of course, you're doing that on purpose, you enjoy distrupting my course" and I told her something along the lines of "If whispering deconcentrates you to that point, you shouldnt be a philosophy teacher in the first place" and she threw me out of class screaming and almost crying. It was kinda surreal because I was being a bitch but not like an über bitch and I actually had sources and good arguments to back up my claims.

No. 103968

>>103960
Wow youre not femdom at all. Just an obnoxious bitch.

No. 103969

>>103968
never claimed i was femdom though

No. 103980

>>103960
Christ on a bike, anon. Seek help and gtfo the femdom thread, you sound like a nightmare.

No. 103990

>>103960
Honestly wish I had your confidence to hurt people's feelings anon. Although I can be blunt and to the point when it comes to getting certain things that I want, I don't have the drive to argue with people and especially not in a group setting.
How did you reach this point? How do you articulate your ideas without accidentally sounding nervous (in front of a group)? How do you avoid coming across as autistic? Any times that I've actually snapped at people I just come off as unhinged rather than superior, advice on how to avoid that would be appreciated.

No. 104021

>>103990
hm i don't know. I can deffenitely be destabilized. If someone hits the right "button", I can also crumble but it doesn't happen /that/ often. I'm also rather weak and actually really nice to my friends but other people find me mean/intimidating.
You should really know your subject, though. That's the bottom line. Subject both as in "who you're talking to" and "what you're talking about". I wont seek confrontation about something where I don't have shit to back me up.
I'm also never really nervous in groups, I kinda get an adrenaline rush. If I know I'm getting into a "longer" (as in more than a few sentances) confrontation, I like to have a water bottle with me. It sounds stupid but I always have a bottle of water in "stressfull" situations : it basically gives you something to fidget with while looking rather natural, you're just hydrating yourself and touching your bottle.

No. 104099

>>103960
lmao and then the entire room clapped

No. 104100

>>103960
You sound like a huge asshole, I wish I was more like you lol

No. 104112

>>103968
There is nothing confident to hurt anyone’s feelings. Rude people are just losers with low self-esteem who need to put others down to feel good about themselves.

No. 104113

File: 1545940137852.gif (1.98 MB, 268x397, wink.gif)

>>104112
Agree. And let's back to the actual topic.

No. 104118

>>103969
But you did. You sound like an insufferable cunt.

No. 104193

>>104113
anon where is this guy/gif from hes cute as fuck

No. 104196

>>104193
Right click and search for image. Not hard.

No. 104202

>>104193
It's from some webdrama called Intouchable. I just liked the gif out of context.

No. 104279

>>103968
NTA but this kind of behavior is actually exactly what drove me towards femdom.

As >>104112 observed correctly, I’m an incredibly insecure piece of shit and in school I used to gain confidence by putting those down that I knew had weaknesses where I had strengths - certain subjects, topics etc. I got a huge kick out of being an arrogant bitch and letting another person and everyone around them know I knew better. Especially one teacher loved the way he could talk to me because he was the same kind of asshole and thought about 80% of the students didn’t deserve or care to be there anyways.

Femdom helped me to get this kind of behavior out of my day to day life and use it on those that actually want to be put down like that. I still get to be a condescending bitch, but not to those who don’t consent to being a target.

I mean, I’m still a bitch 24/7, but nowadays in a much more passive/defensive way. I don’t randomly pick and shoot at people anymore and only start firing if I’m being ‘challenged’.

No. 104306

>this whole thread
well that explains a lot tbh

to put it simply:
>most neckbeards on chans have subbish tendencies
>most legbeards on imageboards have dommish tendencies
>neither of us go outside
at last i truly see

No. 104308

>>104193
jun from svt

No. 104323

>>104196
if you followed your own advice youd see nothing shows up, you think i didnt try that shit already? fuck off

>>104202
>>104308
thanks anons <3

No. 104326

>>104323
>being this mad because anon told you to right click because you're too lazy
You sound like a child.

No. 104336

>>104326
what the actual fuck are you talking about? if you had any reading comprehension youd know i said i did that already, i wouldnt ask what the image was if i had already found it through google but go off i guess. dumb anons trying to make themselves look smart

No. 104344

File: 1546149927453.webm (Spoiler Image, 3.77 MB, 272x480, wew.webm)

GOTTA PAY THE TROLL TOLL
TO GET INTO THIS BOIS HOLE
GOTTA PAY THE TROLL TOLL TO GET IN

No. 104347

>>104344
Aw thanks, I loved this anon. I like when people have a little chat in porn, it's so cute.
>Holy crap on a cracker
I laffed

No. 104348

>>104336

lmao it's probably one of the anons upthread that think acting like a prick makes them seem super cool and domme and not just kinda pathetic, ignore them.

Also if I can just throw this out there even though we've kinda moved past it, it's pretty creepy if you're trying to dominate someone in your everyday life who isn't your sexual partner, and most genuinely confident people don't get a rush from making someone's day shittier for no real reason at all.

Some of you fuckers are the genderbent version of Greg from the June thread/Shaygnar's bf

No. 104349

File: 1546152991206.webm (Spoiler Image, 3.83 MB, 374x208, wew2.webm)

>>104347
yea its goofy and the guys just some nerdy metal dood but i like how she actually gets off. hawt tbh

No. 104351

>>104279

whew, you must have been shit at philosophy.

and to get back on topic >>103757, tumblr had its perks but the "community" was weird. The amateur work has never done it for me because it usually looked so staged, so now I'm retreating to doujin sites, will post recs of good ones if anyone is interested.

No. 104353

>>104349
Where can I find more of this guy?

No. 104354

>>104351
Please do let us know if you find good doujins

No. 104373

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>>104353
i forget where i got the webms (and i didnt make em myself), but when i play them in mpv, the header reads "kinkdevice - kylies feeldoe". it might be the website. and i bet if you searched around you could find more. i know ive seen other stuff with him getting fucked before

anyways
moar dudes getting their shit pushed in

No. 104375

>>104349
>she actually gets off.
How? Can a strap-on stimulate the clit at the same time or is it double-ended? Never been into this because it looks like it's all about pleasing the guy.

No. 104379

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>>104375
>Can a strap-on stimulate the clit
i mean they have ones like that, tho they take some gerrymandering to get it on the right spot and keep it there. theres also ones that have a pouch on the inside for a bullet vibe on your clit.
this one (judging from the header) is one of those double ended ones (look up feeldoe). think theres a vibe in it as well. expensive, but they look neat.

>Never been into this because it looks like it's all about pleasing the guy.

same tbh. even tho im on the opposite side of the fence, the whole point of femdom for me is totally flipping the script and making it all about HER pleasure, and giving HER that power that normally defaults to the guy. like, all that matters is if she gets off, and if i cant manage by the time shes worn out, thats on me.
but yea, at first i thought the same, that it was just selfish so i never tried to pursue it, but with practice and the right equipment it can definitely be a good time for all parties involved.

No. 104380

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>>104375
>>104379
btw rly sry if that makes you uncomfortable, and ill leave if yall want. i just landed ITT cuz i wanna learn a little bit about how to please you all better next time i happen across one of you "unicorns" irl lol.
also, most femdom pr0ns suck (im more into gfd (which is basically nonexistant on pornsites) than sado-stuffs etc) and most guys are into shit i dont like, so i figured id hop the fence and see whats up

ill take the ban if i have to tbh

No. 104393

>>104380
Hell I what even is happening ? I've never thought I was into femdom, I've always been a been a total sub. I came here because I was bored, kept reading because it made me discover Kaneoya sachiko discover I was into it), I've just read the integrality of Sadistic Beauty (>>99460), and know this >>104380 webm ?

Well, thank you lolcow.

No. 104403

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>>104393
>Hell I what even is happening ?
tryin to derail the "is that one anon a bitch" discussion (she is) w pegging clips

>I've never thought I was into femdom, I've always been a been a total sub

feel like most people hear femdom and think of nazi leather mistresses stepping on balls in 40inch high heels and shitting in some fat rich dudes mouth, then just dont look into it really. in practice, seems most folks are into the softer stuff (of which theres almost NO porn of) and just never realize it.

potential dommes default to standard "gril = sub" config and potential subs to "boy = dom". most will sense somethings not clicking exactly right, but dont know any better and roll w it anyways. eventually you see it and you get that "A-HA" moment

>thank you lolcow.

gud bord

No. 104428

>>104379
>they have ones like that, tho they take some gerrymandering to get it on the right spot

Nothing hits the spot like some good crackin' and packin'

No. 104430

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>>104428
>crackin' and packin'
u wot m8?

No. 104433

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pegging is disgusting and degenerate. i understand why men would be into it, but women?!?! it seems so humiliating for the woman tbh fam

No. 104437

>>104430
The word you were looking for is "jury-rigging" (usually mispronounced jerry-rig)

No. 104438

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>>104433
sry u feel that way doc

cant see, since at its core its mostly about role reversal, how either of the positions (D or s) could possibly be more or less humiliating than their vanilla counterparts. barring of course if humiliation is a PART of the whole shindig for the couple (not really my thing tbh). but even then, the humiliation is more than likely at the expense of the man getting his asshole reamed out by the dilly attached to his gfs pelvis. but thats on HIM for being a self conscious lil bitch tbh

if no other factors are on top of it, like crossdressing, chastity, verbal humiliation, what have you, its literally just casual sex for the explicit purpose of NOT procreating, but flipped around. ime its a fun and refreshing way to break up the monotony. the "vulnerability" for the guy that comes from getting penetrated takes a bit of getting used to, but for me, thats a HUGE part of it. its intoxicating to leave yourself wide open like that with someone you love. and this isnt something i would EVER do with someone i didnt trust, love, and care about deeply.

for the dommes (provided theyre into it at all), that first taste of the "power" they have over their boytoy when inside of them is often all it takes to fall deep down the rabbit hole.

obv its not for everybody, but no kink is

the only other way i could see it as "humiliating" for the domme is if shes got "no game" and doesnt know how to fuck from that side of the fence. to which i say: no shit. no guy is born with the knowledge on how to fuck right. hes gotta learn how to do it by trying and failing. first times for anything are always weird. but this inexperience is on both parties generally (which again, is a large part of the fun for me). personally, i cant think of a better way to learn how to better please your partner than to literally swap places with your partner. helped me at least

all that said tho, no ones gonna have fun without the right equipment, and it can take a little trial and error to get things set up right. but practice makes perfect. alls i need now is a new study buddy

>>104437
youre right
but hey, it can be hard to think straight when im stuck fantasizing about getting mon derrière pounded. too flustered to reach for the thesaurus. close enuff

No. 104440

>>104438
you're pretending to fuck a dude with a piece of plastic

No. 104444

>>104440
oh ur no fun
toys can make stuff less boring. i hate routine in a sex life tbh

at the very least its not nearly as disgusting or degenerate as ur makin it out to be. and its still technically heterosexual segs, so even by biblical standards its only sodomy. so its up there with anal, which is something even many catholics indulge in.

checkmate atheists

No. 104445

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>>104444
why are you typing/talking like that?

No. 104473

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Enough pegging wankery and scrot posting. Anons, tell me what your actual favorite femdom thing is. This position is my favorite for sure.

No. 104480

I know a few boys who are fairly submissive but generally they wouldn't put it on their tinder profiles or anything because it's seen as weird for them to be into that. It's kinda wierd to see people into this fetish but I guess different strokes for different folks. It's really easy to find them if you know how to look tho

No. 104510

>>104306
Now this is autism

No. 104515

>>104473
Pegging doesn't count? I love to make my bf suck on my strap on, bonus points if it's positioned in a way I can make him lick my clit as well. Then when he thinks he's safe I'll just ram the dildo in his mouth and listen to his muffled moans.
Years of reading so much yaoi made me a sucker for cute boys giving a good blowjob.

No. 104533

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I’m new to femdom as a whole, while I’ve had moments of being more dominant in bed I didn’t properly think about it until I started dating my current bf. I pegged him for the first time last week and it was fucking great. He’s way taller than me, 6”2 and has a muscular/slim body with a nice peachy butt. He’s bi and was very dominant when we first got together and insisted he was a power bottom when he was with guys, so seeing him turn squirm and whine and turn into a complete sub was surprising but extremely hot. We’re both switches and I’m really excited to see how our sex life progresses

No. 104534

>>104533
Is this fucking mads mikkelson where did you find this

No. 104538

>>104534
its a shoop mate

No. 104574

Do you guys think this kind of dynamic loses power when you address it?

I was teasing a guy recently and figured if we had sex it wouldn't be amazing so instead I just worked him up until he pleaded with me, and then I went home. Recently we were talking and without thinking about it I joked about always needing to control and how I need to be the one doing the fucking, but I didn't say it in a sexy way instead an honest confession of an issue way. Does exposing or addressing the powerplay devalue your power? Kind of like when someone directly calls themselves intelligent?

No. 104575

>>104574
I wouldn't say so; upfront conversations need to be had to establish boundaries, interests, and safewords.
Are you just supposed to guess lol? Although admittedly I have poor social cue reading skills so perhaps that's why I feel this way.

No. 104591

>>98940
I too, wish to GFD a big strong manly man. Really it's a shame that bara femdom is so rare.

No. 104662

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>>104591
This might be relevant to your interests?

No. 104672

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>>98824
Anyone else a bit of a princess femdom?

Im needy, bossy, and want someone to obey me and treat me like im somewhat abovem him.
Also serve me tea or something.

No. 104674

I got a bf who's into being the dominant, but he's told me he's alright with being submissive for me. I wanna try doing more dommy stuff with him, but I always get too shy and embarrassed, and let him take the reigns.
Does anyone have any advice on softer femdom stuff to try and get acclimated to it? Or should I just give up and resign to being a sub forever?

No. 104689

>>104674
small steps. I'm super shy and I still feel too stupid to say and do certain shit. Start with not being subby, start taking initiative. Calling him names, dirty talk is a good exercise. When you get comfortable, you'll see if it flows for you and you can try "more dommy" stuff. It's also important to ask your bf for support, it's nice of him he wants to try stuff but he has to act sub for you too, not just "be ok with it"

No. 104707

https://www.lezhin.com/ko/comic/sflower

I wish I could read this. Highly relevant to the thread.

No. 104720

>>104672
Same here. I recommend fantasy nerds or waifufags.

Women get so much shit for acting 'like spoilt princesses' but we're literally raised like this. We call girls princesses and show them Disney princesses and our adult romance love interests talk about treating us like a princess. Heck yeah I've got a princess complex, I'm happy to hear jokes about it but only if the guy is going to bend the knee afterwards.

>>104674
Are you super polite in normal daily stuff? Sometimes it's helpful to just get comfortable to saying no in normal situations (like acquaintances asking for things or not forcing yourself to smile etc) and maybe being a bit greedy like asking him to get you things.

No. 104801

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I took one of those sex compatibility quizzes with my guy and he didn't flag any femdom stuff as an interest

No. 104804

>>104801
Dump him (unless you're a switch).
Sexual incompatibility sounds like hell. Why even date?

No. 105125

>>102034
Same, honestly; I can't find it anywhere either…
Maybe no one has uploaded it yet?
Would you post a link if you find it?
I've been following the series since Ichinomiya

No. 105223

>>105125
I forgot about this. I will share it here if I find it/buy it.
Ichinomiya is total marriage material (after that one week of getting stockholm'd). Guy number 3 is also great.

No. 105282

>>104801
A lot more guys are into femdom stuff than are willing to admit it. You're probably better off taking charge and watching how he reacts than simply asking him.

No. 105858

I miss sex with my ex. Once you've given a ridiculously pretty boy wearing a pink tennis skirt a prostate orgasm, there's no going back.

No. 106640

Does anyone have any light femdom erotica/fanfic centered around female pleasure ?

All I find is leather dominatrix stuff clearly intended for male readers…

No. 106648

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I don't know if what I'm looking for is actually femdom/gfd although I assumed it was since it's not the expected het dynamic either.
My ideal partner would be very passive and would just lie back and let me do what I want, but I'm also generally uninterested in my own pleasure. It's taken me a few years into adulthood to even be comfortable with the idea of receiving oral, even through facesitting. I'd rather just pleasure my partner through a variety of means (often not involving my body much at all, or even getting undressed) while he just lies there and takes it. On occasion I like the idea of getting more involved with it, but for a majority of the time I'd prefer what I described. Most of my pleasure would be from maybe a double sided strap on or something.

I guess what I'm looking for is a "pillow prince" (somewhat sorry to appropriate lesbian slang) but I'm not sure if that actually makes me a domme. I like to be in control, and I'm into bondage and humiliation, but I just don't want the focus to be on me getting off which seems to be a big part of being dominant. Also not sure if men like this exist, since the ones who are fine with not having to pleasure their female partners are usually doms/still objectify their partner's body for pleasure. While obviously I want him to be attracted to me, I'd prefer it more to be about my power/aesthetic appeal/the way I carry myself if that makes sense. Usually. Sometimes it varies like I said.

Sorry I kept rambling here, this is more of a vent.

No. 106659

>>106648
hello, fellow service top

No. 106662

>>106659
LEL yeah, I guess that's what I am. That term escaped me for some reason.
It's inconsequential, but I just don't know if I should still be identifying with femdom and be seeking out subs. Have you had any luck finding men who are into it?

No. 106674

>>106648
Hope you find your pillow prince some day anon though I'll say you're the first woman I've heard express this preference.

No. 106687

>>106662
yea, younger virgin guys

No. 106870

>>106648
>entirely focussed on male pleasure
>not the expected het dynamic

r u sure

No. 106975

>>106659
Diff anon but thank u for this term. I've been trying to explain it as cfnm/joi but I'm wearing jeans and a t-shirt and motivated by care and curiosity about someone else's experience of their own body (as opposed to getting off). Mentally it feels kind of close to a doctor/patient thing but without the paraphelia for medical equipment. I feel like I'm one step away from asexual or something.

No. 106976

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i always try to suppress my kinky thoughts but lets be real, i just want a cute smirky normie guy friend who will let me bully and tease him. like a power dynamic fwb but no sex. it would be so hard finding what i'm looking for though.

funny thing is in hs i really liked being mean and smug towards douchey normies who sat next to me in classes and wanted to talk to me. i got such a rush making them shocked i wasn't being nice to them bc they were cute guys all girls were nice to, or making them embarrassed for not knowing something. i honestly think a lot of them liked it too bc i developed small friendships with them sometimes. i also went to catholic schools too and it made me develop a huge thing for uniforms. i just didn't know at the time it was bc i got off on it.

when will i find a normie guy who will be willing to be my bratty sub friend. it's just so hot thinking about making a douchey kinda guy that is doing well in life and gets laid a lot get on his knees for you and seeing how flushed he gets like hnng. it would be so fun to tease him and pin him down and frustrate him. i wanna tell him what to do and call him a slut for wanting to fuck me. i just want a cute boy i can push around a little, tie up, insult and be smug to, without any sex or romance, it would be such a fun relationship. too bad they're probably rare or mentally unstable af.

No. 106983

>>106976
source on the pic ?

No. 106984

i honestly dont know, sorry. it's one of the few pics left from the msub folder i mostly deleted that i had for years lol. most of it was stuff i found from tumblr back when i used it

No. 106988

>>106687
Nice, they're my type anyway haha.
>>106870
Yes, in most porn the woman is mostly clothed, not objectified at all, and is in complete control. You got it. /s
I addressed that in the expected dynamic the man objectifies the woman for his pleasure. What I want is to objectify the man for our mutual pleasure.
On the occasion I want to physically exist (once or twice a month maybe?) it's pretty typical femdom expectations. Like oral and facesitting would be great in those moments.
>>106975
>care and curiosity
Yeah, that's basically it. My sex drive has always been motivated by visual interest in other people and love. But also wanting control.
I'm also just fascinated by a man's body when I like him; I've mentioned it in the fetish thread but it's as if I've fetishized every part of the male body.

I want to blame all the yaoi I consumed in formative pubescent years, but I'm not sure. Probably also because I'm socially disconnected from people and see them as…idk, more human than me. Not in an edgy way, but I do feel like an alien who is impressed by simple human existence quite often. Not just in a sexual context but in others as well.

This isn't the thread for that though kek. Also inb4 someone calls me an uwuwuwu snowflake. Pls no bully I just like watching people eat and listening in to their conversations and watching the silly things they do when they think no one's looking.

No. 106998

>>106988
The important control element for me is being able to openly remaining in control of myself, not "controlling" another person. I've pretended to be "turned on" for partners but I'd rather be in a situation where I don't have to pretend because it feels creepy to misrepresent myself to someone who is making themselves pretty vulnerable. But tuning in and collaborating to get them into that headspace is satisfying to me. It's like a very intimate version of helping someone achieve something that's important to them even if you don't understand what it is or why they want it, because you want for them what they want for themselves.

No. 107017

>>106988
I'm quite similar. One of my favorite abstract scenarios is tending to a short boy who has straddled my lap and is crazy horny/sensitive. Clothes on, full control, I think I'm a bit of a touch-me-not. Same goes for only wanting to exist about two times a month. I just strongly prefer the idea of attending to a subject of attention over being the subject of attention.

No. 107018

>>105282
I'm gonna give it a shot I'm just discouraged is all, I've tried broaching the subject lightly but he doesn't get it so it seems I will have to be more explicit but that might end up being a turn off for him.

>>106988
don't worry, this is an imageboard full of weirdo chicks you aren't alone.

Anyway I'm curious, how many of you have a dominant personality outside of the bedroom?

No. 107019

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can i uhhhh

No. 107020

>>107018
I'm not really 'obviously' dominant. I've gotten feedback that I come across as a mature old soul, though. Maybe I can channel that into mommy energy in the years to come. My worry is that I won't attract the right people if I don't put out the right vibes, but overextending myself would be exhausting.

No. 107021

>>107020
I had a sub friend who kept attracting subby dudes that wanted her to dom them, she just had that vibe.

No. 107022

>>107018
i wouldn't say i'm dominant, just independent.

No. 107023

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>>107018
i'm a huge control freak, like the stereotypical anal retentive type of person. everyone who knows me at all knows i'm a neat freak, i am very intolerant, particular about things, etc. i'm very quiet though, in most situations. i'm independent and don't let people (coincedentally it's usually men my age who do this to me) talk down to me, or try to make me feel less than. i'm a switch though, some people i'm interested in just have the kind of personality where i would definitely not be the one in charge.

kind of makes sense with the ways i like being dommed (gentle but stern) and domming (bullying, teasing, not gentle but fun). they put me in a good mood and get me out of my comfort zone just enough where i'm not too anxious.

No. 107025

>>106998
I see, I desire it both over myself and my partner big time. As in I'd preferably be able to go full in with dominating and controlling what happens to his body (sometimes through bondage and sadism) rather than just being gentle and bring him to climax.
Although I also see the appeal in that too and would like to do that sometimes. You make it sound wholesome, too.
>>107017
>tending to a short boy who has straddled my lap and is crazy horny/sensitive
Patrician taste, anon. Short men are top tier.
Although I do prefer being unsexualized physically, being noticeably larger than my partner would be hot. That's the type of thing I'd never be uncomfortable with him being aroused by, most likely because it suggests what I can do to him.
Imagining a guy asking me to choke him or punch him in the gut? Or just to lift him up and toss him around? Amazing.
>>107018
>dominant personality
Not yielding and meek, but not aggressive or anything. I can be blunt and stubborn but am usually just quiet and by myself. Kind of goofy with friends though.

No. 107029

I once sat down to a podcast where a bunch of dudes talked about their experience with hentai. Unexpectedly, they had a diverse experience when it came to who they identified with (if they identified with anyone at all) in the images, and it got me thinking. It hadn't even occurred to me until that moment that people could look at an image of a sub (or 'bottom') of any sort and identify AS them instead of identifying as the person who is acting on them/giving them attention. It was oddly validating for me to realize that I've been like this the whole time.

No. 107041

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>>107019
I want to rub a tied-up guy's dick through his jeans with my feet is that too much to ask?

No. 107052

I'm a subby switch and want to do more GFD, but I feel goofy doing some of it (mostly dirty talk anf holding him down since I'm smaller) and am not very strong and don't have a ton of stamina. Any tips for a newbie?

No. 107107

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>>107018
>How many of you have a dominant personality outside of the bedroom?
Outside of a sexual context I'm not really dominant at all. I'm pretty shy/quiet/awkward for the most part. But I DO notice that sometimes my sexual energy will manifest in other parts of my life, if that makes sense. For example, when I happen to have a crush on a guy or feel attracted to him, suddenly I get over my social awkwardness and feel very confident. And I love to tease or be mean to guys that I like (btw, most of the time they like it too). I also noticed that at work if I'm feeling horny or sexually frustrated that helps me be more aggressive or assertive. I hope that doesn't sound creepy, it's not like I'm trying to dom my coworkers or anything, it's more like I remember how powerful and confident I feel in femdom situations and I'm able to channel those feelings in real life.

>>107052
I'm also a small woman and I'm physically very weak. Sometimes me and my bf do something like pic related, except without the bondage, and he puts both his arms around me like a hug while I jerk him off. I love it because it's not physically demanding at all, it feels intimate and romantic, but at the same time he looks really vulnerable clinging onto me while being all shy and blushy and moaning and stuff. Perhaps you could try a combo of that with some dirty talk? Good luck anon!

No. 107126

>>107018
I wouldn't call myself dominating, even though I must admit most people call me such. Or at least, they say about me that I have a big aura and people naturally follow me, even if I don't try much (or at all, I must say).
But not "actively" dominating, I'd say, I like minding my own business too much and I'm too lazy to maintain the high profile.

No. 107151

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I lost my will to care about anything at the age of 15 so I’m quite laid back. You’ll figure out finding sub bfs is quite easy if with this mindset, act nice and cordial when you speak to them but don’t give them to much conversation. Show early on you have the power in this relationship lest they walk all over you thinking you can be used as an emotional or sexual outlet.
Try and bust out the good grammar and always correct them if they make a mistake. Don’t insult his appearance but never comment one way or another on it, ignore it. This will slowly inch away at the guys perception of you and himself.
Of course, it’s not a surefire strategy but it works for me. You don’t even have to send him a single picture of yourself, or at the very least one. He will cling onto it and you and the prospect of talking to someone he deems higher than himself, thats the Male way of thinking. Especially feminine, submissive men.
And if you eventually grow bored, in the words of the Bogdanoff twins, dump them. No strings attached, if you play your cards write you can repeat this over and over and over. Its funny how similar they are, both in looks an personality. Unkempt long hair, dark circles, underweight or getting there. The overweight ones are never worth your time and are always the most degenerate. With this you should easily find a cute submissive bf, if you so choose. But remember to never give into the idea of giving him an actual relationship, that’s when it will all go down hill. And don’t feel guilty about it, it’s alright because these men aren’t real people anyway.

No. 107156

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>>107151
i figure this is a good way to find one, as i've heard using fetlife or tinder attracts guys who are batshit or would just pretend to be into it in the hopes they'd get laid. i've attracted guys who seemed like they were kindo into being insulted or degraded depending on their reactions. it's not really an appearance thing for me, they tend to be somewhat dorky and are "go with the flow" kinda guys with a good sense of humor, and their ego isn't too big. imo it's all in their temperament, which you can only judge by testing the waters. i also like to be playful/humorous about it, some guys are really into girls who aren't afraid of coming off as impolite/ are "fiesty" to put it in a cringe way. some guys' precious male egos get damaged and they get super defensive, but some seem to really like it, and it gets them interested in me, and they seem to want more.

i just never did anything about them bc like you say, they tend to be guys that i thought were shit relationship material. that would work in my favor atm however, because i would prefer a friendship with a fun d/s dynamic, at most i'm looking for sexual tension with a guy who gets off on bullying, intimidation, and denial. i need a guy who's kind of jerky, smug/bratty who pushes my buttons bc it's so satisfying putting those types in their place and making them blush and get frustrated.

No. 107159

>>107151
>these men aren’t real people anyway
Anon these are my subs you're talking about, don't bully
I guess you're a real dom and I'm just a gfd, the outcome of what we look for in guys is the same e.g. underweight tired nerds with long hair, but it sounds like you enjoy torturing them more out of hate than enjoyment
You go get yours though lol, knowing there are het ladychads restores some balance in the world

No. 107160

>>107151
That's nice but I'm a loving and emotionally supportive domme so this would hurt me, too. Like caring for a small dog instead of…idk, training a big dog while keeping him distant. I just want to make the big decisions, be his rock, and smack him around the bedroom. I'm not into manipulation at all. Not even solely because of my morals, I'm just bad at it.

kms I'll be alone forever.

No. 107170

ntayrt, but i think we're thinking of two different kinds of relationships. i'm looking for a sub that's more fwb, no romance. i can totally see why you aren't into what she's talking about because you want something more intimate and personal beyond the dynamic. i just want a friend who wants a cute girl to berate him for fun because he gets off on it. i'm more of a goofy dom, i don't take it super seriously or actually want to hurt someone. i just want a male friendship with sexual tension, no inclination of sex or catching feelings. i would be very upfront about that too. it's just for fun really, it would be very mutual, that's why i'm specifically looking for a msub lol. he would have to be into being teased and frustrated for fun.

i'm not into genuinely hurting a guy's feelings, i know a guy's limits and wouldn't insult something that would make him cry or anything. that's why i think guys with a great sense of humor and confidence make much better subs than the kinds who seem to have low self esteem and are needy. those kinds might be better suited to romantic relationships with affection and validation.

No. 107175

>>107151
Maybe it's just me and the men I've dated but being indifferent or a little mean to them always seems to get better results. Be nice and they stop treating you as well and start being more demanding.

No. 107177

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>>107151
>feminine
>Unkempt long hair, dark circles, underweight
disgusting

No. 107178

>>107177
not to mention the low self-esteem part. like girl i'm trying to dom a mentally stable, well-off normal guy, not some loser who hates himself lmfao

No. 107241

>>107175
Always this.

No. 107314

>>107151
Are you into Dylan Klebold? Move on

No. 107352

How do I become femdom? Usually I'm pretty shy and submissive (even masochistic at times) thanks to growing up in asia as a woman but sometimes when I look at pictures like in the OP, I kind of wish I could do that to a man and seeing a man who's been beaten up especially by a woman is a bit of a turn on for me. Fantasizing about kicking a man around and making him obey me sounds hot. Maybe I'm a switch?

No. 107357

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>>107352
i wouldn't worry too much about labelling it. i could consider myself a switch too because when i'm interested in someone, their personality/chemistry with me determines who "wears the pants" for lack of a better term. i wouldn't let words like 'submissive' and 'dominant' decide what kind of a person i am- so many people into bdsm get way too attached to the labels they give themselves.

if you're interested in femdom, i'd try to meet a guy any normal way a vanilla person would; i hear fetlife and tinder are crawling with tryhards or guys who just want sex and are willing to pretend to be into whatever just to get laid, so my advice is to try to avoid them.

i look for normal, regular guys, not ones that strike me as "submissive" always, because that usually means they have low self esteem. those ones will get clingy and probably aren't good partners, whether for fun or for a long-term relationship.

find a guy who's doing well in life, relatively mentally stable, and open minded especially. just be honest about what you want to try and what kind of relationship you're looking for, no mind games. taking charge in that way is already a good trait any dominant person would have. being dominant already in casual ways is a good way to gauge how open he would be to it. in my experience, being able to take charge by being honest, making decisions quickly, and not being afraid to say no is a breath of fresh air to some guys. many have been really into me for being able to be assertive, in a fun and humorous way. for me personally, i like domming a guy to just be a fun experience to tease, intimidate, and sexually frustrate a guy in a fun/smug way. i get off on denying men i know want me. but i know it's not the same for everyone.

not to ramble, but ignore any bdsm communities, online and irl. they're full of cringey edgelords who will try to tell you how to dom and shit like that. just make sure you and your partner are open, willing to listen to each other, and everything is consensual and not seriously going to injure anyone too much.

No. 107431

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naisu

No. 107432

>>107357
As you said I think its super helpful to be upfront from the start or at least start setting the appropriate boundaries and expectations. Its harder to change a preexisting relationship dynamic.

No. 107433

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im just gonna leave this here

No. 107450

>>107431
ok but why. looks like yaoi

No. 107485

>>107357
This is some really shitty advice lol

No. 107486

>>107357
Also
>so many people into bdsm get way too attached to the labels they give themselves.
This isn't hard to understand at all dumb ass
Not everyone is a switch, some people can only be sexually dominant/submissive
Personally I could never date a dom guy

No. 107487

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>>107018
I do. Never mean to, but it always ends up like that.
>>107357
I feel like men in general all across the board have strong issues with low self esteem. and to make matters worse, instead of just quietly hating themselves, they go and make a big fuss of it causing scenes over their inability to cope. This is how so many Dom women end up mostly getting mommy-zoned, where the guy goes from being dom/sub to just being a depressed baby crying on the floor for more and more attention without ever caring much about your problems anymore.

This is why I strongly discourage ever talking to those that are mentally unwell. If he mentions having depression or issues with self-hatred, don't waste your time. You'll go from his Dom to his therapist/mother and he'll throw tantrums to the point where the relationship is stressful and annoying and the sex barely even comes to mind anymore. If I could offer any advice to Dom women, it would be that. Just say NO to sad boys.

No. 107497

>>107433
These are children in school uniforms… Why would you post this? Does this turn you on?

No. 107582

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>>107485
maybe I'm not that experienced but how is it bad advice?

>>107497
petition to change all images in this thread to Kaneoya Sachiko who is beloved by all save for two anons.

This time featuring sparkledog

No. 107584

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>>104801
>>105282
>>107018
from my own experiences most guys are open to try stuff that would be classified as light femdom/gentle femdom
temporarily being handcuffed,being restrained,being hit(specifically punched in the face),being blindfolded however always seem to draw the line at humiliation and anything anal related

No. 107602

>>107582
My god I love Kaneoya Sachiko

No. 107651

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>>107584
that's perfect because that's pretty much what i'm into. no crossdressing or butt stuff pls boys, nothing extreme or too dangerous. i desperately need a fun qt who wants to get bullied and gets turned on being slapped and denied by someone smaller than him.

No. 107654

>>107651
slapping is also something most guys don't seem to be into
their more comfortable being punched in the face or stomach then being slapped(its weird)

No. 107666

>>107654
wait but why? This makes no sense to me.

Couldn't ever punch a dude I'd feel sad about it.

No. 107667

>>107666
anon must be memeing bc personally any guy ive had a thing with was more open to slapping than punching lol. slapping is not as rough as punching.

No. 107669

>>107667
>>107666
I'm not memeing im just telling about my experiences
fro men getting punched is more masculine then being slapped(however I am talking about Vanilla guys not sub-guys)

No. 107677

>>107667
Yeah I don't really get what >>107654 and >>107584 are talking about.
I've slapped pretty much all my bfs and they didn't mind at all, but they would never have agreed to actually getting punched in the face.

No. 107696

>>107677
This has been my experience but I think my experiences varies from others here because majority of my relationships have been with masc tard males who were vast majority of the time not subs
However as I have said were open to try stuff like this >>107584
Someliked it but most didn't and even the ones that did like it weren't willing to go further beyond that
The punching thing was apparently manly for them and really im not one to judge

No. 107722

>>107696
lol so you're posting in the femdom thread your experiences… with men who aren't even subs.

why are you here then

No. 107727

>>107722
Just because they weren't subs doesn't mean they weren't willing to try being sub with her, at that time. I think it should count.

Anyone else ordered the Kaneoya Sachiko book? Placed an order last night.

No. 107732

>>107722
I was just giving >>104801 advice on how to deal with boyfriends who aren't subs

No. 107771

>>107727
I ordered it earlier and was miffed that the release date was changed to middle of march. I want my hobos hooking up with furries now please.

No. 107772

>>107771
The digital version was leaked a few months ago. I bought the Vanilla Gallery book and pirated the English one for the translation.

No. 107777

>>107772
Where did you find the download?

No. 107779


No. 107789

>>107779
bless you anon, have a great week

No. 107793

>>107779
samefag but her foreword is also really interesting and neat to read

No. 107795

>>107779
Thank you!

>>107793
I wish she commented on, and explained more of her art, some of it is pretty crazy.
Btw can I just say the part with the dog sniffing the doctor is hilarious.

No. 107816

>>107793
Agreed on the foreword. It explains her thought process as a whole and the subtle visual cues that incite attraction and curiosity in women towards men (of course we notice your ankles you silly geese). Can't say I know anyone else that does it better.

Outside of the themes expressed I get the impression that she's not interested in any more specific narrative outside of the short comics. Which is kind of a shame. It would be interesting to see her paired up with a writer to develop a comic or short project, or as the visual lead/art director for something.

No. 107818

>>107779
You da bae

No. 107821

>>107779
BLESS YOU ANON YOURE THE BEST
I was so angry about them moving the release until next month again but
this makes me even more hype to get the physical book!

No. 107836

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>>10716
yeah, after reading it, i was like FINALLY someone put it into words!! it made me understand my attraction to men better.

i should try to find more things she's written, it just really clicked with me.

No. 107845

>>107795
The dog's expression is great. I'd relieve Absolute Territory Oniisan of his burden but I'm not a giant furry milfbeast so he'd be uninterested kek

No. 107866

>>107795
I want to know why she includes the beasts in her art. I hate that furries are a thing because her stuff reminds me of that sometimes.

No. 107886

DAE get really disappointed while searching for some new msub art and it's flooded with shit for men so it focuses on some stereotypical domme with huge tits? its even worse when the art style is decent.

No. 107887

>>107886
It's often a disappointment when you try to find pics.
Like looking for 女攻め on Pixiv and getting terribly crappy pictures of boxing matches. Men have no taste.

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No. 107892

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No. 107894

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>>107892
I get that people are excited about that artbook, but let's post more of other artists.

No. 107896

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No. 108142

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my first boyfriend who i did femdom with was into the really degen violent humiliation BDSM type femdom. i've always been interested in femdom but being involved in that relationship almost killed that side of my sexuality for me. i was def a "kink dispenser" he'd always harp on about how femdom is great because its about ~the woman's pleasure~ but it was clear that he was a selfish lover and he was only into the male focused latex SPH stuff and force fem which made my puss dry as a bone.

my current boyfriend is into GFD on the same level i am and i hope to work up to gentle pegging one day but after the shit i went thru with my ex i'm not gonna be pressed if it takes years. sex really is supposed to be a two way street away. For my current relationship "GFD" is basically vanilla for us but with role's reversed. it's very nice to be able to tap back into that side of me safely and slowly and it's doing wonders for my self confidence.

outside of the bedroom im kind "dominate" i'm a little bit bossy and touchy feel-y and i tease a lot. he's not into like collars and blindfolds which im kinda down with but it can get really cheesy sometimes tbh so get it. he can go down on me for hours at a time. it's perfect.

as for the """perfect sub/man""" i also dont like how 90% of men in femdom are twinky femboys. im really, really not into femboys/twinks/traps and have PTSD from force fem. (more like forced force fem lol). i like men that are bit chubby and masculine. the thing that draws me to femdom is seeing masculine men drop the machismo crap and let themselves be vulnerable and focus on what the woman wants and needs more than himself. i dont want to hurt my partner but i do like seeing them pant and squirm around. good stuff.

also, i'm late to the pegging talk but i dont think pegging is humiliating for women if theyre into it. i like it a lot but it's really all mental for me. loops back in with my vulnerable masculine man fetish heh. pegging comes after you've cum. the man should always cum after the woman as far as i'm concerned.

No. 108150

>>108142
also, as a word of advice if any of you guys are looking for a """sub""" or whatever, please be careful and avoid men who explicitly have a "femdom fetish". they dont respect female sexuality as much as they act like they do. And be careful of femdom men who are into force fem who have latent AGP eventually you will end up sexually incompatible.

depressed GFD men with self confidence issues can he helped outside of the bedroom. men with a fetish for suffering at the hands of an authoritative woman have issues and a complex. fetishizing sexual trauma should be dealt with in therapy, not catered to in the bedroom. this is why ive really distanced myself from ~kink~. sorry for potential ot but you all deserve your respectful submissive man. not a misogynist pervert with baggage.

No. 108152

>>107894
source ?

No. 108155

>>108142
that woman looks strong, damn

>>108150
Force feminization just seems inherently disrespectful towards women to me and it seems like nowadays they all end up declaring they are trans and imploding the relationship.

No. 108157

>>108155
it killed my last relationship but it was already dead on arrival.

and yeah force fem fetishizes how "humiliating" it is for a man do and wear "woman things." a woman forcing her man to wear some frilly maid outfit and do the dishes is ~kinky and humiliating~ because that's a woman's place! men dont do that!

AGPs, troons, and lifestyle femdom men only want to be "the woman" in the context of sex and kink. they dont want to any of the domestic stuff unless it's ~kinky~ and they get their face sat on a "reward" they "earned". it really transparent and worth avoiding. they dont deserve dominate women imo.

No. 108163

>>108142
GFD really appeals to me. I don’t need to hurt someone to be happy, I just want a loving relationship where I can take the lead and get cherished for it. Plus points if he’s older and more accomplished than me in his outside life. I just want a manly man (aka no kpop twinkie) who has a really soft/subservient side only I get to see.
Sage for daydreaming.

No. 108293

>>108142
>im really, really not into femboys/twinks/
Femboys and twinks are top tier though
>>108150
>e if any of you guys are looking for a """sub""" or whatever, please be careful and avoid men who explicitly have a "femdom fetish".
This is the dumbest thing i've ever heard
Also fuck you for being another one of the annoying fucks who think gfd is the only good femdom
Most gfd is just vanilla but with the woman being slightly aggressive
Just because a man wants to "suffer at the hands of an authoritative woman "does not mean he has issues, you sound like an idiot
Rough degrading femdom is the only valid kind in my personal opinion

No. 108294

>>108157
Grouping lifestyle femdom men in with it is dumb as hell
you sound like you had one bad experience so you've gone bitter
It's really annoying how you talk like you're some wise sage when you really aren't
Stop pretending like "femdom (but only gfd femdom) in the bedroom only or else it's bad" is true to everyone
Gfd is for people who only pretend to like femdom
Go away you fake domme, the fact you claim that rough femdom is a sign of mental issues proves you're a fraud

No. 108307

>>108293
ntayrt; i dislike how most girls into femdom here too just like gfd and i get the feeling they think they're better than us for that.

but i do personally avoid guys who make being "uwu so subby" part of their personality or make a big deal about it because they're usually mental. it's hard to find good subs because well, being annoying or mentally unstable tends (obvs not always) to come with the whole "gets turned on by being hurt" territory.

No. 108330

>>108294
>>108293
the thread was about sharing personal experiences. which i did. i'm not trying to act like a wise sage at all and i'm sorry that i came across like that.

when i was talking about avoid men who explicitly have a femdom fetish and have a complex i'm talking about the kind of men >>108307 is talking about.

you guys can have your own tastes. it's just not my bag. i'm not trying to ~kink shame~ you guys. stop getting so mad. it's ok for you guys to like what you want. and it's ok for me to get disillusioned because of a bad experience. you dont have to be a latex clad dominatrix to enjoy this fetish and feel fulfilled.

No. 108331

>>108294
sage for doubleposting but is there really anything wrong with wanting to warn newbies who prefer GFD that there are men out there who will take advantage of them? that'll all i was trying to. a woman into that isnt going to be compatible with a man into the more degrading stuff and it's going to cause problems. when i see women in this tread posting like, "how do i find a masculine GFD guy" I'm going to tell them to avoid fetishists. it's common sense, dont take it as a personal attack against what YOU want and do in YOUR personal life.

No. 108332

How many of you are into size difference, too? I want a partner who is smaller than me in both height and width (lol), but am afraid finding a short man without a masculinity complex would be hard.

Anyone dated smaller men who were into fd? Or wants to as well?

No. 108334

What are yall's thoughts/experiences with FLR?

No. 108336

>>108334
What does it mean?

No. 108339

DAE get upset trying to find femdom media only to see that it's rife with a more male perspective? i'm not into GFD but i'm not into the whole "angry dominatrix in leather whips naked guy" stuff at all. my preferences are more in between the two but most femdom stuff is about showing some big angry big titty anime girl in latex. and i'm not into butt stuff/forced feminization either which dominates (kek) most of that scene, understandably so. that's probably why so many of us here like kaneoya so much, it's definitely why i do. i want to see a guy being submissive because that's what turns me on, not the domme dammit.

No. 108340

>>108336
nta, female led relationship i suppose? sounds like the stuff most gfd anons talk about. i don't think that is like, femdom in its quintessential form, but i wouldn't call it invalid like that other anon did.

No. 108343

>>108331
You never mentioned people who preferred gfd
You made a blanket statement to everyone looking for a sub
Also stop moving the goalposts, you said it was a sign of mental issues and they needed a therapist

No. 108360

>>108293
>Femboys and twinks are top tier though
hell no. maybe to low sex drive women.

No. 108363

>>108360
Well, I respect your opinion
I just find feminine men and men in """girls""" clothes/makeup hot

No. 108369

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>>108360
>low sex drive women
What's the correlation there lmao?
Not really into femboys at all, although I do like gawky, hairy, awkward twinks of sorts. And I consider my sex drive to be high.

No. 108383

All I want in the world is a submissive bf who isn’t obnoxious to me and does almost whatever I say without question. I would want him to wait on me had and foot and jump at the chance to serve me. He would have to be able to dress well, groom himself, no drugs or other addictions. Is good with other people but is only willing to extend actual feelings towards me. A dreamboat, the full package. Someone to hold close and protect and keep safe from this cruel world. Heaven.

Sometimes I believe it is unachieveable to find a bf that perfect, especially considering how obnoxious sub men are. At least they are fun to toy with and hurt, but I want to finally care about a partner. Males are trash incarnate.

No. 108408

>>108152
Saucenao.com

No. 108409

>>108383
this is about sex, not chicken noodle soup for the teenage soul

No. 108561

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Hey farmers! I want to try to femdom IRL and would love to get your advices/resources!!

I've never dommed IRL before even though I've always wanted to do that, but I always ended up being too shy (prob also because I had to always be a sub in relationship, not counting my ex whom i ended up domming thru ERP ((Long-distance)). Gave up on him because he started making everything about himself and never cared.) My bf doesn't mind being a dom, but he's not into pegging and I can understand that. I would like to mostly focus on talk/mental/degeneration(?) part, because thats the thing w/ which i struggle atm due to shyness n 0 exp irl. I'm also not that much into feet stuff.

And I'm a brat whenever I'm subbing. I love to tease, bully him all the time so he could prove how much of a dom he is. My fav part of subbing.

No. 108707

>>107894
>>108152
looks like Ozymandias from fate go.

No. 108736

>>108561
Switches are shit

No. 108745


No. 108783

>>108745
Switches should only be with switches
Switch girls aren't real doms and switch guys aren't real subs so they're shit in my eyes

No. 108788

ugh, stop shitting up the thread with your dumb belief that "if it isn't exactly what I like, then it's not reaaaaal" bullshit. that's so immature lmfao. imagine people not having the same exact preferences as you like god what a crime

No. 108792

why are you girls leading your bfs into troondom?

like i'm into flrs and mostly gfd but you guys are seriously asking for trouble and asking to get ditched for a hairy-assed ladyboy in due time. keep it in your fantasies or for the dudes you don't really want, bc given the current political climate, there's absolutely no chance they won't troon out on you

No. 108799

>>108792
So…what femdom ~inevitably~ leads to transition? Pegging? You said gfd and flr are somehow fine, but with your slippery slope theory here, wouldn't that still be opening the door to it?

No. 108807

>>108799
The ones literally feminizing them, anon…

No. 108813

>>108807
Okay, I can get that, but you seemed to be addressing the entire thread at a point where feminization hasn't come up in 5 days or so.
Just confused me lol. Sorry I got defensive.

No. 108818

does anyone else worry about guys building up resentment for being in FLRs or just for being the more dominant one? society really rams it into peoples heads that it's unacceptable, and i just worry that eventually my partner will come to feel victimized, especially seeing as how 'bossy' women are so heavily shit on. my SO wasn't into this kind of thing explicitly himself and we just naturally fell into an FLR because it 'fit' our personality types and the more control i have over him, the more he works for me to pamper me, and feels owned by me, the happier he is and it's perfect in that respect, but i so worry that he'll feel abused by me because this was not an arrangement either of us specifically sought out and it seems like every guy pushes the dominant meme and i can't realistically insulate him from it all of the time

>>108813
mainly addressed the thread as a whole because it was a recurring theme, the whole feminization thing. np, i get what you're saying!

No. 108876

>>108807
>>108792
Crossdressing does not automatically mean or lead to trans

No. 108878

>>108792
>If it's not gfd it's bad
Go away

No. 108882

>>108876
Most autogynephile trannies start out with a crossdressing fetish that intensifies over time. If you're looking for something beyond a fling with a guy into this, I'd say it's quite risky.

No. 108884

>>108882
yes.

>>108878
i literally never said anything like "if it's not gfd it's bad". you're a dumbass. all i said was that forcing or suggesting men get into sissy shit nowadays is almost certainly a one way pipeline to turning him into a creepy tranny. there was no moral judgement at all about sissy shit or anything more extreme than gfd

No. 108888

>>108792
a lot of women on lolcow are dykes or dykes in denial

No. 108895

>>108882
>Most autogynephile trannies start out with a crossdressing fetish that intensifies over time
all squares are rectangles but not all rectangles are squares
I agree that trannies have muddied the waters of crossdressing but non tranny crossdressers exist
>>108884
>i literally never said anything like "if it's not gfd it's bad
You heavily implied it

No. 108899

>>108895
>>108895
>I agree that trannies have muddied the waters of crossdressing but non tranny crossdressers exist
lol where? they really don't anymore. eventually they all become trans. literally they all fall down the trans rabbithole. every single male i've known that was into or ok with crossdressing and being fem eventually "realized" that their enjoying and insisting that it was just crossdressing was just actually a facet of repressed transgenderism. do what you want but don't be surprised when your fiance starts taking 'titty skittles' and ends up wanting to be fucked by an awesome trans gal instead

No. 108905

>>108899
I think I see what's going on
You're applying you're own negative personal experiences to everyone else
That's sad, I've seen the opposite (which is to say, crossdressers who never go trans)
You're paranoid to think that every crossdresser is a tranny waiting to happen

No. 108909

I'm rarely attracted to men, and my entire attraction to men is in the frame of femdom. I never look at a guy and want him to rail me, but there are a lot of guys I'd like to fuck up and dominate.

I have a fwb right now, we're pretty sexually compatible. Neither of us want to have PIV sex or do pegging, I mostly do stuff like handcuff/blindfold him and torture him a little with edging. We tried ice play the other week and we loved it, lol. He's super low maintenance which is great, and we've been friends for years without any red flags. I feel like I've gotten quite lucky.

>>106976
I relate to a lot of stuff here especially with the whole being mean to guys in school. Guys who were the "school heartthrobs" would always act so shocked when I didn't treat them like kings lmfao

No. 108914

>>108888
Eww, anon.
Lesbians want real women not gross troon men in dresses.

No. 108915

Oh my god, I've found my thread.

>What experiences have you had?

I've had several subs over the years. I don't really use fetlife or kink groups to find subs. I don't really like self-proclaimed subs, usually. They already have their idea of what a femdom is and typically treat me like someone who's made to fulfill their fantasies. I just find men who happen to have sub tendencies or enjoy making others happy and see if they like the idea of a dom/sub relationship down the line. That way, I get someone who cares about the dynamic and the relationship rather than someone who wants a stand in for their fantasies.

>What are your main kinks?

Chastity, CBT, foot worship, shibari, petplay, humiliation/praise, omorashi
Crossdressing used to be one, but most crossdressers end up being AGPs for some reason so until I can find a man who's comfortable and confident in himself, I'll pass.

>What advice do you have for newbie dommes?

Shit, I don't really know. I've only been doing this for two years, so I'm pretty new myself. I guess to unlearn the bullshit you've been raised into–being overly considerate (self sacrificing). Don't be afraid to voice your feelings and really tell others what you want (and you need to follow through with those things. Really mean them).

>Where to find subs? How to avoid unhealthy ones?

I don't look for subs, so I can't answer this, specifically because the majority of male subs are unhealthy for women and just want a pampered fantasy where they don't have to initiate or do any of the work but get showered with attention and orgasms. No thanks.

No. 108916

>>108915
Oh, I forgot a kink I'm into. Brutification. Too bad it basically doesn't exist.

No. 108920

>>108915
>Crossdressing used to be one
This, I used to enjoy putting cute lingerie on boys and making them embarrassed until the whole trans movement. It's not like I'm scared of them transing out but it just doesn't turn me on anymore
Shame boners are the absolute best though, I could never date a degenerate because they have no shame

No. 108926

>>108915
Why are you in a femdom thread if you clearly hate submissive men

No. 108937

I don’t really care for very spesific fetishes. It’s about the feeling of control.

No. 108948

>>108916
What is that?

No. 108956

>>108920
>Shame boners are the absolute best though
God, this. I wish I could relive the first time I helped a guy figure out how much he loved spanking. The initial confused boners and denial were the best.

>>108926
I love submissive men. I hate self proclaimed male subs. I already explained this in detail, but you're probably a baiting handmaiden, so it doesn't matter.

>>108948
It straight up doesn't seem to exist in any circles. I can look up "bimbofication" and it's so easy to find. But I can't find anything about making a man obedient, muscular, stupid and using him for his muscles. I can only find stuff like that only sketchy furry websites and it doesn't have the devotional/servile attitude that makes it good.

No. 108957

>>108956
I've seen "himbo" floating around twitter recently, anon. There may be hope for a spike in content soon. I'll pray for you.

No. 108958

>>108792
>>108799
>>108807
It fucking sucks that so many dudes into crossdressing are trooning out. I really fantasize about having a cute guy dressed up in lingerie or a skirt and teasing him but then I come crashing back to reality every time I remember most dudes into crossdressing are ugly troons, and even if I were to find a guy into it there's a high chance he'd troon out too lol. I want boys in skirts, not chicks with dicks dammit.

>>108956
Is that basically just turning a dude into a mindless sex machine a la bimbofication?

No. 108962

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>>108957
When I looked up himbo on twitter, all I found were a bunch of feminine soyboys. But the urban dictionary explanation sounds a lot like what I like, so I'm confused.

I prefer calling it brutification, though. I hate those weird "making it manly" words like "guybrator" or "guyliner" shit like that.

>>108958
For me, personally, what I like about brutification is having a man focus all his energies on what he's good for: moving things around, looking hot, and getting fucked. A lot of brutification turns into a male power fantasy, but I like the idea of them becoming competitively pleasing and seeing their size and strength as a boon for their usefulness. I attribute it to having a football playing sub in college. I also like brutes because I can be really rough with them and I know they can take it.

Imagine pegging this absolute cutie and teasing him about how you're the only one who gets to see him absolutely wrecked.

No. 108984

>>108956
>I love submissive men. I hate self proclaimed male subs
This makes zero sense
The easiest way to find someone who is submissive is if they call themself a sub, what's wrong with clarity?
It sounds like to me that you're a fake dom
>>108958
Y'all sound so paranoid(infighting)

No. 108985

>>108962
Good taste anon, when it comes to subs I'd also like a beefier one who looks like he could handle it.
Just once in my life, I'd like to experience a fit guy proudly be my chair.

No. 108991

>>108984
>This makes zero sense
>The easiest way to find someone who is submissive is if they call themself a sub, what's wrong with clarity?
no, it makes perfect sense. there's a difference between someone who is naturally passive and submissive wrt their entire personality, and as a result, their sexuality, and a degenerate who trawls the internet and fetlife for dommes/identifies heavily with the idea of being a 'sub' and watches femdom porn and shit. the gold standard, imo, is a guy that isn't a 'sub', but just is a submissive type of person, and consequently, is submissive sexually. there's actually a huuuuge difference. one is more of a pervert, and the other is not. while it may be A LOT easier to find a 'sub', people that identify with roles like 'sub' and 'dom/dommes', like, publicly, and in searching for a partner, tend to be creepy degenerates (especially when male). it's much nicer to find someone that just happens to be a certain way but doesn't actively heavily identify with these sexual roles. the only issue with that is that it's like searching for a needle in a haystack.

No. 108999

>>108991
>and a degenerate who trawls the internet and fetlife for dommes/identifies heavily with the idea of being a 'sub' and watches femdom porn and shit.
I fail to find the issue, what's wrong with wanting to find someone you're sexually compatible with
>but just is a submissive type of person, and consequently, is submissive sexually
Ok question, what if you end up being wrong and they're not sexually submissive
>people that identify with roles like 'sub' and 'dom/dommes', like, publicly, and in searching for a partner, tend to be creepy degenerates
Yeah fuck people for wanting a label so they can find someone who is compatible
You sound ridiculous

No. 109027

>>108999
You seem provoked by that anon, are you one of those fetish site-loving male subs she is ignoring in favor of brutificated hot jocks?

No. 109028

>>109027
1)No
2)"In favor of" but they're still male subs so it's not in favor of it's just pointlessly rewording so you can pretend you're right
3)Even if I were a male I would be happy that I was being ignored by an obvious fake domme like her

No. 109036

>>109035
>people who make these roles a large part of their personality in searching for partners tend to be fucking horrible
Sexual compatibility is important
Also I call you a fake domme because I am 100% sure you don't actually do any femdom and you just think "he's slightly meek in bed so it's femdom"
Also who the hell is "we" you're the only person screeching about it
> there's a difference between someone that is submissive, and "a sub", imho.
No there isn't seeing as "sub" is an abbreviation of "submissive"
>desperate degenerate.
What exactly makes them "annoying fetishists" and "desperate degenerates"?
Is it because they're into actual femdom and not whatever fake femdom "The woman is slightly more aggressive than the man" shit you like?

No. 109037

>>109028
kek, are you just going to keep screeching about "fake dommes!!!" just because we don't prefer loud pervs and instead prefer men that are low-key/don't advertise and identify heavily with being a sub? that doesn't make anyone a fake anything, though, admittedly, i don't identify with being a 'domme' bc that shit is cringy and lame and BDSM communities are for faggots. people who make these roles a large part of their personality in searching for partners tend to be fucking horrible, and doubly so for males. there's a difference between someone that is submissive, and "a sub", imho. the former is much cuter, imho. i personally only like men that are waifish and fragile, emotionally and physically, and they tend to be submissive, so it hasn't been a problem for me to find men that aren't annoying fetishists and just so happen to be submissive without being a desperate degenerate.

>>108999
>Ok question, what if you end up being wrong and they're not sexually submissive
then you move on? like you're acting like it's terribly time consuming to sus someone out on dating sites or wherever. the type of guys i like are very much the archetype of what a 'submissive' or feminine 'soyboy' would be, so it's not difficult to find ones that actually end up being submissive. i suppose it might be more difficult if you were into very masc men and were into the juxtaposition of a submissive sexuality and personality with a 'hunky' body type and masculine hobbies or some shit.

>>109036
>Also who the hell is "we" you're the only person screeching about it
no, i'm another anon than the original anon you initially were shitting your pants about.
>No there isn't seeing as "sub" is an abbreviation of "submissive"
you're just really dim, anon, honestly. obviously it's an abbreviation, but people who say "I'M A SUB LOOKING FOR A DOMME" are different than the ones that say, during conversation, that they tend to prefer being submissive in bed. there's nuance that apparently you're too autistic to be able to pick up on. i guess because you're too invested in being personally insulted and are apparently socially retarded, but w/e.
>What exactly makes them "annoying fetishists" and "desperate degenerates"?
i already explained this to you. 'sub' men that specifically seek out dommes and make it a large part of their personality tend to be shitty people, that, most of the fucking time, are huge assholes that just want their balls stepped on, but are douchebags 99% of the time. not sweet, shy boys that want to be dominated in bed by you, and that feel indebted to you and feel the need to naturally worship you all of the time – not just when it suits their dick. end of story.

No. 109038

>>109037
> but people who say "I'M A SUB LOOKING FOR A DOMME" are different than the ones that say, during conversation, that they tend to prefer being submissive in bed.
Yeah, the former is more helpful because, again, sexual compatibility is important
>'sub' men that specifically seek out dommes
Nothing wrong with trying to find someone who is compatible sexually
>make it a large part of their personality
but wait a minute you said
>the type of guys i like are very much the archetype of what a 'submissive' or feminine 'soyboy' would be

No. 109039

>>109038
>Yeah, the former is more helpful because, again, sexual compatibility is important
it literally takes 10 minutes of conversation (and you can initiate it yourself!!!) to determine whether or not they'll be sexually compatible with you.
>Nothing wrong with trying to find someone who is compatible sexually
why are you so fucking assblasted that me and like, literally one other anon don't prefer self-proclaimed sub men? you must be male or just super male-identified because this is pathetic.
>but wait a minute you said
yes, as in, a male that is physically feminine (without trying), is innocent, soft-spoken and gentle, doesn't have masculine hobbies, etc. they often do end up being submissive without being an annoying fetlife faggot clamoring to be dominated by literally anyone and whose thoughts constantly revolve around sexual shit. no one is saying you have to change your dating methodology, some people just don't prefer self proclaimed 'subs'.

No. 109040

>>109039
>it literally takes 10 minutes of conversation (and you can initiate it yourself!!!) to determine whether or not they'll be sexually compatible with you.
So how is them telling you they're submissive different than calling themselves submissive?
>why are you so fucking assblasted that me and like, literally one other anon don't prefer self-proclaimed sub men
There's a difference between not preferring it and talking non stop shit about how awful they are and saying that the only valid choice is whatever the hell you're talking about
>you must be male
Is it really that hard to believe that someone into femdom would like submissive men?
>clamoring to be dominated by literally anyone
So you're mad that submissive men are submissive?

No. 109041

>>109039
Def sounds like male whining itt right now, and not the sexy kind.

No. 109042

>>109041
>you disagree with my bitter whining so you must be male

No. 109043

>>109040
>>109040
>So how is them telling you they're submissive different than calling themselves submissive?
one is divulged during direct and vulnerable conversation, and the other is making their entire profile/dating search about it. 10 minutes of talking isn't the end of the world. i am skeeved out by all people that loudly proclaim how dom/domme or sub they are. as i said, it's cringy and pathetic, and i doubt your time is in such short supply that you can't speak to someone for five fucking minutes to find out whether or not they're sexually compatible with you.
>There's a difference between not preferring it and talking non stop shit about how awful they are and saying that the only valid choice is whatever the hell you're talking about
literally two anons mentioning their specific preference is "shitting non-stop on them!!". if you're not male, for a self proclaimed 'domme' you seem to cape pretty hard for men. that's pathetic and not very domme of you, anon.
>Is it really that hard to believe that someone into femdom would like submissive men?
no, but it is hard to believe a woman would be this insulted by other anons having a certain specific taste. if you're female, why the fuck do you care, anyways? it means more 'subs' for you that we don't want them.
>So you're mad that submissive men are submissive?
yes. i don't want to be dominant with any male? i don't want someone so fixated on their fetish that they're desperate to be dominated by literally anyone. again, it's desperate and skeezy.

No. 109058

>>109043
>and the other is making their entire profile/dating search about it
Making their profile about it is a good way to let people know beforehand what they're getting into it
It's really not that hard to understand
>. i am skeeved out by all people that loudly proclaim how dom/domme or sub they are.
Again, it's an easy way to search for certain types of people
>literally two anons mentioning their specific preference is "shitting non-stop on them!!"
When every single one of your replies is over dramatic as hell, then yes
> not very domme of you, anon.
How is not shitting on sub men not domme? do you just expect everyone to be a bitter person like you?
> certain specific taste.
Difference between "This is my taste" and "Men who call themselves subs are degenerate"

No. 109068

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>go out of my way to ignore the obvious shitposter replying to my post with something as baity as "fake dom", clearly looking for (You)s
>farmer replies anyway and shit up the thread even more

Come on…

>>108985
I've used a fit guy as a stool, but never a chair! God, I'm such a fool! How has that never crossed my mind?

No. 109069

>>109068
How am I the shitposter?
I'm not the one saying "the only good sub men are the ones that I approve of personally"(stop)

No. 109119

>>109068
>Stool

Please tell me more about this so that I may live vicariously through it until I get my own man-chair.

No. 109270

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>>109119
I had one sub who was annoying and cocky, so I had him kneel on his hands and knees on the (hardwood) floor and remain as a silent stool until I allowed him to move again. I basically kicked up my legs while I watched Netflix and didn't acknowledge him for a while.
Periodically, I'd swat his ass with a dragontail or stroke it along his back until he ended up frustrated, but keep him there. After about an hour, he was a lot more docile and less unruly.

It depends on how your sub is and what kind of domme you are, though. A lot of my subs are cocky, but prideful. They'll typically try to act bratty, but in a "I'll prove I can live up to your expectations" way. They probably have daddy issues to an extent, but that's probably what makes them so eager to show off/impress.

No. 109290

Am I the only one here who just doesn't get pegging
I mean if my sub wants to be pegged I might give it to him but the whole ordeal just doesn't seem to give me any pleasure
inb4 the pleasure comes from exchanging power,we are already in a power exchange scenario
I just like using my sub for my pleasure first and foremost

No. 109298

>>109290
You can get double ended ones and ones that stimulate your clit.
Personally I think I'm only into it from yaoi consumption as a young teen lol. And if he's up for it (unlikely but I may get blessed with a hardcore masochist) I'm really into male anal prolapse and bleeding. The idea of making an already embarrassing body part lose function on someone is hot.

No. 109315

>>109298
>anal prolapse and bleeding

Excuse me what the hell. Do you want to make him ill and incontinent?

No. 109319

>>109290
You're not the only one. I enjoy pegging, but only with a vibrator. I usually don't consume femdom content besides oral and servicing stuff for this reason. Most femdom stuff is just a woman pleasuring a man at the end of the day, regardless of how she's dressed or what tools she uses. And that's pointless femdom to me. I don't like the idea of "it's pleasurable because of the power exchange". Do you see male doms only pleasuring their female partners and never having orgasms, just enjoying the power exchange? No. But men expect us to.

No. 109324

>>109270
Wow you watched netflix for an hour? I like the type of man who wants to prove himself but I also a very horny dom. I get excited just thinking of sitting on a sub and would likely rub off on him after like 30 sec pfft.
>>109319
I agree with this a lot.

No. 109328

>>109315
That's the idea, yeah.
Obviously I'm perfectly fine with a partner who doesn't want to do it; I'd never pressure anyone into something so permanent and uncomfortable. Even no pegging is fine as long as he's on the passive side.

No. 109338

>>109319
I feel this. I'd probably be a lot more dom if I actually enjoyed oral that much. I only really like receiving pleasure under very specific circumstances. When guys go 'use me for your pleasure!!' i say lol ok..get on top.

No. 109341

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>>109338
>>109319
>>109290
I guess this is my Ideal scenario
just raping a dude on my own with no tools while he cries and squirms

No. 109349

im a bi girl, and while I don't think i'd make a very good dom for a dude (literally every dude whose into it my circles is a gross, unattractive manchild)

Though I 100% want to be dommed by a tall andro/butch woman, but in like… a caring way? Like they call me their slut, lots of dirty talk, pinning me, tying me up, manhandling me and basically just being rough while I'm being snarky and trying to goad them/being a brat until they make out w/ me to shut me up while making me take care of them.

I think I'd probably also enjoy domming a smaller girl if given the chance, (I'm p short and muscular for a girl, so someone thinner/lithe) but again, I don't think I'm as intense as a lot of girls would want in their domme.

No. 109373

>>109298
Get help anon

No. 109386

>>109373
Lol why?

No. 109404

Everytime I hear someone hate on pegging it's always someone who doesn't understand it at all

No. 109415

>>109404
Kek. There is nothing to ~understand~, some find it sexy and others find it unappealing. (Please don't write a purple prose reply about the deep philosophy of pegging)

No. 109416

Newfag here, Im happy I found this thread as most femdom conversation on the internet is 97% thirsty guys. I have done some femdom stuff with my bf, but he has very low libido. Im the one begging for sex which kinda ruins the dynamic. Im also worried he just claims to like because he is insecure or something.

>>109290
I would do pegging as a reward for my sub, I have heard it can feel really good. But I hate the thought being penetrated == submissive some have about it.

There has been talk about ideal subs, some seem to be into femboys and some into manlier men. Are you more feminine or masculine yourself?

No. 109424

>>109416
Ideal sub would be well built stoic male
One of my biggest turn-ons is taking care of a well built manly male and sexually making him feel really good. The idea of tying a guy's arms above his head and just worshiping his body (in a way that makes him blushy and embarrassed) is a huge fantasy in my head. It goes beyond sexual though- I love comforting this though guy and holding him in my arms and stroking his hair gently, whispering to them, and essentially babying them.

No. 109425

>>109416
Are you asking the entire thread if they prefer femboys or masc chads, or just that anon?
Personally I like something in the middle, but leaning more towards twink-y I guess. A hairy angular man who is also skinny and/or very short who smells nice and dresses well. Distinct male energy but also fragile and cute.
And
>are you more feminine or masculine yourself?
Very feminine in dress but also physically strong and have a deep voice. I guess that mirrors the type of men I'm into actually haha.
I wonder if girls into big boys are petite and very feminine themselves..?

No. 109452

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>>109416
I'm pretty feminine, but I'm into a lot of "unfeminine" things (drugs, gunpla, outdoorsy things, b&e, urban exploration), so I end up in spaces with a lot of males, which makes me sort of a hard ass so they don't get any stupid ideas. I think that's why I attract submissive types.

My ideal is a strong, huge guy who I can break down with just a touch or word (I'm the brute-loving farmer). I've had subs like that before but they don't last long because my desires are usually more intense than their own (most of them just want role reversal and mommy domming, and I'm into cbt and humiliation).

Feminine guys are alright, but a lot of them give me the idea that they're only ~submissive~ because of their body type/situation. If they weren't insecure manlets, a lot of them wouldn't be drawn to submission. I don't want subs like that-gives me incel vibes, I guess.

But. I wouldn't mind a femboy sub to keep in chastity and have him "fight for dominance" with my strong bara sub who then loses himself in testosterone-fulled carnal passion.

No. 109504

>>104473
Teasing him to the point where he will cum in his pants when I touch him. Anything that makes him humiliated. :)(:))

No. 110637

>>109416
>Are you more feminine or masculine yourself?

Appearance-wise I'm pretty feminine I guess. I'm petite with a babyface and a high-ish voice. I think my personality is more stereotypically masculine though, since I like a lot of hobbies that are seen as "male" and I'm pretty stoic, not very emotional or empathetic (which I don't think is feminine or masculine personally, but a lot of people do).

No. 110702

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No. 110703

>>110702
https://youtu.be/ajcN7UoYG-U

His new gf hates him and he looks sexy with a beard

No. 110781

>>98828
I think my ideal sub would be
> shorter than, or as tall as me (5”6). An inch or two over is okay too.
> slim, with no or very little muscle. Not too skinny though. Skinny fat is fine.
> a nice stomach. I like feminine waists with masculine stomachs.
> short hair, maybe a bit longer at the top. Slightly curly would be cute. Medium length is ok too if it’s styled and taken care of properly, but no super long hair.
> overall feminine. I like a masculine jaw though and a sharper nose, but overall if in makeup it should be hard to tell they’re a boy.
> shy.
> “inexperienced”. Not as in, a virgin, but as in maybe they aren’t entirely sure what they’re doing or they’re a bit shy about sex. I want a boy who would get flustered over a handjob, not be cranky and demand more or look bored. Someone who’s easily aroused and always happy to be getting sexual attention.
> a boy who will never initiate sex, but will just wait for me to do so. Also, won’t beg or complain for sex or anything, unless asked to.
> is subby outside of the bedroom. Just subtle things.
> has to be ok with pegging, or ass play. Has to call me mommy (not ageplay tho).
> is ok with crossdressing. Maybe a boy who crossdresses to a degree everyday is a plus.

My current bf/sub is most of these, though he’s about a foot taller than me, and he isn’t very shy. (He’s actually kind of a manwhore tbh). He’s cute though, and he’s pretty when he crossdresses. He isn’t into all my kinks though which is frustrating. I lean on the tougher side of things and while he’s started to allow me to hit him during sex, he still won’t let me engage in cbt or knifeplay with him. We tried cnc once and I really enjoyed it, but he hasn’t wanted to do it again since. He mostly just only wants to do assplay, sadly.

I had a sub about a year before I met him (2 years with current bf now), who was short, shyer and easier to bully, and more willing to be in pain, but overall as a person he was pretty unbearable. He was very unreliable, ghosted constantly if he wasn’t contiously hanging out with me & had a gross habit of breaking anything he touched of mine. He also wasn’t very cute, tbh.

No. 110858

>>98828

>between 5’8-6’0

>skinny
>maybe blonde? but that’s not really important to me
>cute face
>well dressed
>effeminate and a bit girly personality wise
>not overly submissive but will let me wear the pants in the relationship and peg him
>likes to eat pussy

No. 110870

>>99919
Wait isn't that just saying for them to become the typical male stereotype of having a career, being confident, taking leadership roles, being outgoing, have friends etc? If they did that then it would defeat the purpose of a submissive male wouldn't it? I don't know if you can have the best of both worlds.

No. 110874

>>110870

Am I looking for a unicorn?
>cute and small
>sub in bed
>little spoon
>confident
>has his own opinions and hobbies
>has friends or trying to find them
>has a job/is studying/trying to get one
>doesnt want me to replace his mom

No. 110876

>>110874
I don't know, I am not the judge for this kind of stuff. I just don't think you can have just one type of guy without the problems that come with it. I am sure they are out there but you might have to go through a lot of guys to find it. Who knows. What I do know is that no one is perfect but they do have the capacity to change and better themselves. Which I guess is what the poster I originally replied to meant by that.

No. 110877

>all of you wanting tiny bfs
There are only so many to go around! Please leave one for me! Only 1/100 are 5'3" or less in my country.

No. 110891

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>>110874
They’re out there

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>>110870
>being self sufficient and not expecting your domme to baby you is a "male stereotype"
>having a mentally well adjusted sub "would defeat the purpose of a submissive male"

Submissive isn't synonymous with pathetic or emotionally immature, anon. I don't know what kind of domme you seem to be, but I don't take on subs who are too pathetic to hold down a job, or don't have healthy relationships with friends, whose full range of emotional fulfillment comes from me alone, etc. You can be a normal, functioning human being and enjoy a female led relationship. Anyone who expects emotional insecurity and co-dependency from a male submissive or sees it as a requirement needs to re-evaluate how they themselves interact with the world. It's a relationship dynamic, that's all. Your sub is still a human being and still needs to be able to function in every day society, just like everyone else.

>>110877
>tfw when newest prospective sub is a mere 5'5", the same height as me (and noticeably shorter in heels) and the shortest male I've ever met.
>he's not insecure about it
I'm sorry, anon, but I'm snagging this one while I still can.

No. 110921

What does everyone's 'domme closet' look like? I look up sex toys and the like and shit is expensive. What tools of the trade do you own, and how important would you say they are?

No. 110927

>>110920
>5'5"
>shortest boy you've ever met
Damn anon, where do you live? Somewhere in Northern Europe? I've at least been able to talk to a good handful of boys 5'4" and under.
Congrats though! Hope it works out.

No. 110944

>>110927
Not that anon but in Finland under 5'5" is super rare for males. But I am 5'9" which is a bit taller than the average female so I still find guys shorter than me kinda easily.

No. 110946

>>98824
i've recently come to the realization that my bf is rather subby and i quite like being the dominant partner. for the longest time, i thought i was into being the more subby partner and would request that he be rougher with me, but i think i was just pornsick and felt that i /had/ to be that way. i like that he is physically much stronger than me, but i can be the dominant partner. i really enjoy the role reversal, and i feel much happier and mentally-healthier this way.

appearance-wise, i guess i could say he has the face of a twink and the body of a bear, although he's not particularly hairy. we're about the same height (average-tall for men, tall for women – although he's maybe 1/2 an inch shorter than me). i like being very similar heights, and i wouldn't want him to be much taller or shorter than me. he has a relatively submissive personality outside the bedroom, but he is stubborn, so i guess that makes him a "brat". he has a really cute ass LOL.
>tfw sometimes we play wrestle and i'll get on top and dry-hump his ass and it makes me horny as hell
he's not into any assplay at all, receiving or giving, which is fine, but i'd be open to it if he was.

we've recently gotten really into adult breastfeeding–sorta? i don't lactate and i don't really care to take or do anything to induce lactation, so it's really just tit sucking. either way, i'll put his head in my lap and have him suckle and massage my boobs for a long while. i have really sensitive nipples and the dynamic just turns me on like crazy. i wouldn't say i'm into mommydomming overall, but the the power dynamic is something i can get into. another subby thing that's pretty hot and that he's into is indifferent sex. he really likes it when i don't acknowledge him/having sex or pretend to act disinterested by watching TV or playing a video game.

i find the Ms/FD dynamic (even though it's not particularly extreme in my relationship and we're relatively vanilla otherwise) works best when the relationship is going well. i suppose that can be said of all sex, though. i just don't really want to be the dominant partner in the bedroom, when i get burnt out on being the dominant partner outside the bedroom as well.

No. 111041

>>110921
I don't really have a domme closet. Just a bunch of dildos and rope. I've always been jealous of dommes that have entire duffle bags full of cool shit, though.

No. 111228

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Anyone else get a major subby vibe from Joe Jonas? Idk I just get the feeling that Sophie totally doms him. Tbh I hope so cause I think he's gorgeous

No. 111242

>>111228
>she's also taller than him
wtf I love Joe Jonas now

No. 111269

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I've been interested in femdom since I had my sexual awakening in teens. Back in the day boys would tease us girls and once a guy wouldn't just quit it so when he got too close to me I kicked him in the nuts. Next day he told me somewhat proudly that I left a bruise which made me a bit guilty but also intrigued.

Fast forward six years, I got my first boyfriend at the tender age of eighteen. I was pretty knowledgeable on kink but had no real (sexual) experience. I told my boyfriend about my interests when we got together and he was also a switch with a keen interest in female domination. Our communication was beautiful and he did't have big flaws. I guess I got just lucky.

We've been together for six and a half years and as life tends to do, it has gotten in the way of our sex life. I suffer from bipolar disorder and most of the time I'm depressed and that means no sex, and no way in hell kinky sex, I just can't handle that in this phase of my life (though I think I've got the right medication now so we're getting there!). We've agreed that he uses the services of a professional (long distance) domme until I'm back on my feet and that has worked great for us. He's more considerate and kind because he's doesn't feel like he's pestering me all the time and he's not so frustrated sexually. Because of our arrangement I've been getting more into femdom again, last week I actually tied him up and played around with a electric wand type a thing that can give small to medium electric shocks.

I'm kind of confused by what is my preference now, as my boyfriend has gone from pretty boy to a more masculine type, going to the gym all the time and growing out a beard. Before I was into the more boy-ish, pretty men but there's a definite appeal to taking someone like him down a notch while being girly and weak myself, idk like my mind is stronger than his or something.

I'm really into old fetish art, like John Willie, Eric Stanton and Gene Bilbrew. Anyone else?

No. 111281

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met a guy through a mmorpg. been dating for about 5 months now. sadly he lives in ny and i live in fl so the only sexual things we have done so far is dirty talk via text. but god damn, i cant wait for him to visit.
hes a a qte short hispanic boy with some decent muscle. at first id tease him and he would get shy. as the days went by, things would get more sexual. he gets super worked up when i start to call him a good boy and my puppy dog. he pretends to be stubborn but caves in and begs for my attention/detailed descriptions of what i'm going to do to him when he comes by this summer.
its so cute. its so cute to see a short tough boy be this obedient. hes like a puppy, always wanting attention yet pretends hes not into it.
i'm waiting for the right time to be sexual while on the phone. he was stammering and at a lost for words just from calling him a good boy over the phone.

No. 111329

>>111228
Makes me think of that video of Sophie Turner kicking Steve-O in the nuts "as a joke" at some convention. Probably /ourgirl/.

No. 111338

>>111329
While we're talking about Sophie; I'm a massive sansan fag, but I see it as a femdom situation like >>98886

Sorry for being autistic, I'll see myself out.

No. 111379

Anyone else like audio porn? It's hard for me to find male sub audio that I like but when I do it reallyyy does something for me. Even the ones I like still make me cringe a little with their silly scenarios but few things turn me on more than hearing a guy whimpering and begging me to fuck him.

>>111228
W-where are those images from?

I wouldn't want to date anyone shorter than me because I'm pretty short myself but I find myself really attracted to men on the shorter side. 5'6-5'8 is the sweet spot for me

No. 111380

>>111281
you're not dating.

No. 111386

>>111281
>qte short hispanic boy
Uh that sounds gross and sorry to burst your bubble, but hispanic guys are NOT faithful. This is coming from a latina. Wouldn't be surprised if he's fucking around on the side and there's no way you could know about it because you're 2 thousand miles apart.

No. 111389

>>109270
that's so hot

No. 111390

>>102091
What korean one?

No. 111393

>>111386
i dont think a guy who plays dnd and anime mmorpgs all the time is fucking other girls lol

No. 111396

>>111390
probably sadistic beauty.

No. 111397

https://www.reddit.com/r/FemdomCommunity/comments/b1qkew/why_no_domme_is_ever_going_to_be_willing_to_sissy/

the responses to this made me rage. I don't think anything the OP said was unreasonable.

No. 111404

>>111379
Top two are from the DNCE Body Moves video. Bottom left is from the new Jonas Brothers video for Sucker. Their height difference isn't actually that dramatic when she's not wearing heels.

No. 111405

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>>111404
Forgot pic. He's allegedly 5'7" and she's 5'9"

No. 111406

>>111397

I think the OP did get BTFO and that sissy stuff isn't inherently problematic or disrespectful toward feminine identity any more than i think someone dressing up as a cop during sex is disrespectful toward police identity.

No. 111407

>>111393
>being this naive

you aren't dating. online shit isn't real. get a real person.

No. 111409

>>111393
Are you retarded? Neither of those are particularly niche hobbies. Plenty of dnd and anime nerds bang.

No. 111412

>>111228
>>111242
seeing as how at 20 he asked gigi hadid out when she was 13-14, i don't get the feeling he's a sub at all, and i think he's majorly creepy. his relationship with sophie turner seems just as fake as his brother's with priyanka

No. 111415

tfw just want to be dommed by some woman but lesbians are terrible at tinder and bi women want me to fuck their ugly bfs too

why this

No. 111416

>>111413
go away

No. 111419

>>111397 Of course Reddit gets mad when women don't like their misogynist fetishes - of any kind.

>>111406
It isn't disrespectful to "feminine identity", it's disrespectful towards women.

No. 111421

>>111417
you're cringey as hell, no farmer would fuck you anyway

No. 111422

>>111379
I do but I only listen to otome and doujin cds. Never heard anything good in english.

>>111415
I am bi and trying to date women on tinder and then when it turns out that your match actually has a boyfriend already it is the worst. Why do they do this? Fuckers.

No. 111423

>>111386
Why are you hating on anon and the guy just because he's hispanic? Such stupid generalizations. You don't know the guy.

No. 111436

>>111419
its fantasy, it isn't hurting anybody.

If men are bringing fetishes outside of the bedroom then its a problem but if its between two consenting adults who gives a shit?

OP's also very confused, lots of non-pro dommes are into sissy/gender play as a specific fetish as to them its just another form of power they have over there subs, with the power exchange being in the women's favour.

I just hate this 'I speak for everyone' crap the OP seems to be pushing.

No. 111437

>>111436

also to further my own point. im bi and have been a non-pro domme to a lesbian who wanted to play with genderplay in the sense that they wanted to wear a binder/dress male/cut there hair short ect. purely in the bedroom only.

Genderplay doesn't just go one way and it doesnt need to be inherently disrespectful to either gender.

No. 111439

>>111437
Lol she’s self hating and trooning out eventually. Women dressing up like men as humiliation kink is essentially non-existent. You have a harder time finding porn for that more than stumbling upon cp ffs. On the other hand, the demand for degradation for being a woman or acting like a woman is endless.

No. 111442

>>111436
>If men are bringing fetishes outside of the bedroom then its a problem

They will always do this, anon. Always. Do not think that if they find being like a woman humiliating in the bedroom then they will somehow not think like this outside of it.
As a dominant woman, and a self-respecting one in general, no way would I want to enable a man's misogynist views.
Don't pretend that "genderplay" is some neutral thing.
Gender is a hierarchy with the female gender role at the at the bottom while men get to be in charge. There is no big popular "humiliate me and compare me to a lowly man" fetish going on among women.
>>111439
Yeah this.

No. 111445

>>111436
>it’s fantasy it isn’t hurting anybody
>as long as it isn’t displayed
Imagine getting meme’d so hard by men you’d gladly defend “non-offending” closet pedos, necrophiliacs, and rapists. Got it.
Think about the fucking implications of your kink for once. Paraphilias are a huge and deeply imbedded part of one’s sexuality. They don’t only exist in bedrooms and disappear from your brain when you go outside.
WHY and HOW did you start thinking putting a man in a dress constitutes “sexy power exchange”? Because you’re forcing him to do something he doesn’t want to? Then that’s a sub, you can make them wear a trash bag and get the same result. A sissy specifically gets off to being treated like a female whore. Maybe you’re just a tranny-chaser anon. They’re indistinguishable after all.

No. 111447

>>111445
Thats a nice strawman you have there, equating wearing a dress to fucking kids/corpses/raping someone but its not really the same is it?

Why would anyone dress up as anything during sex? Imagination, anon.

I just think there are more facets to this than the few people that replied to me are willing to admit, while im not trying to say the people in

>>111445

>>111439

>>111442

these posts dont exist (I see it too, and it does) its not to say there aren't socially conscious men/women out there with genderplay kinks that also DONT act like that.

No. 111450

>>111447
How dare you. I only FANTASIZE about fucking kids, corpses and raping. Those are muh KINKS. Same as yours. Just a kink!! My kinks don’t hurt nobuhdy just like you said cuz they’re just harmless fantasies uwu and I don’t display them. I’m allowed to find those things hot in my own private bedroom! Nothing problematic about it at all. Just a kink!!!
That’s how fucking retarded your argument sound.

No. 111453

>>111450
the big think you need to do here is realize how stupid it is to equate these things with genderplay.

Fucking kids, corpses and raping people all cause harm to others.

I mean let's not get into stuff like consensual non-consent (which is a massive kink) ageplay ect.

Im not into any of it but yeah honestly, if it's two consenting adults who really gives a shit, so long as they aren't actually going out and fucking corpses/kids it affects no one. How would you even plan on stopping this, realistically?

Also, if you hate kink so much, why are you in a kink thread talking about kinks with likeminded people, lol.

kink shamers need to leave, thank you.

No. 111455

>>111450

do you think watching a horror film/playing a violent game/listening to violent music encourages someone to go out and emulate those behaviours, or do you understand that for most non-mentally ill people they are able to separate fantasy and reality?

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>>111453
You probably should leave if you are so sensitive that you can't handle "kinkshaming".

No. 111457

>>111412
Oh I didn't know that. Shit. I should've figured. Hollywood men always get away with going after teens.

I think he and Sophie are a real couple though. He seem to have a thing for younger, tall blondes. Nick and Priyanka are definitely fake though.

No. 111460

>>111422
i've had girls literally not tell me they have a bf until we meetup and have a nice little date and she mentions "oh, btw my bf is home atm and would love to meet you"

they're so fucking sneaky sometimes it's disgusting, i don't care what you do w/ ur personal time but at least be upfront about your goblinoid 2/10 bf lol

No. 111461

>>111457
>>111412
How are Nick and Priyanka fake?

No. 111501

im sad my fellow domme farmers
there is a qt twinky guy in one of my classes and he has been making eyes at me
but i’m too introverted to Assert My Dominance™️ towards a guy that sits on the other side of the classroom.
asdfghjjkl idk he is just so scrawny and it’s adorable but i am usually not the kind of girl who ever approaches a guy.

No. 111504

>>111501
Sit next to him.
You've got to try if you want to win. If he rejects you, take the L and move on.

No. 111506

>>111504
idk if i have the guts… sorry for sperging about this but i’m horny and want a cute boy to beg me and i’m fucking suffering

two days a week there’s an open spot next to me and i wish he’d sit next to me. but one day a week, which happens to be wednesday/today, it’s in a different room with tables and if i sat near him i’d literally be right across from him.

the other issue is… i would be afraid of his reaction if i told him what i am looking for, lol. i wouldn’t want to scare him with my preferences. i am not into anything too weird, but if a guy was not into bdsm at all it would definitely freak him out. though i am very alternative looking and i have always gotten the vibe from men interested in me that they were curious about trying some things with kinky girls…

as you can tell i’m incredibly indecisive about this lol. all i can do atm is try to make a connection at least but god i hate human interaction. i was considering trying to find possible subs online as i’m not trying to get into a serious relationship but i really want to meet a guy open to it irl… it’s so hard. i’m not even crushing on this guy, i’m just very horny lately and want to have a good time with a cute male who is into subbing. sage for rambling like a little schoolgirl lol.

No. 111514

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>>111506
Anon stop acting like a virginal japanese school girl and kabedon him in the hallway instead

No. 111525

>>98824
sadly im not strong enough

No. 111777

I just want a harem of qt submissive boys on leashes that I can drag around. is that too much to ask for?

No. 111804

oes any one here wrestle/play fight before and during sex

its something me and my bf do competing to see who will be the dom and who gets to be on top
now obviously he's holding back and I do use full force to try to beat him but even then I lose everytime
some times he gives himself handicaps like he will wear a blindfold or ties one hand behind his back but he still always wins
now obviously this is meant to be fun and I don't wanna hurt him seriously like hit his balls or punch him but I do wanna hold him down so that he can't move and use my legs to thrust into him as much as I please while in missionary. All the while hissing obscene comments in his ear like "be a good boy" and "you're going to get fucked by me, and you're going to like it."

so my question how do I win these fights ?

No. 111807

>>111804
Start taking Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes?

Btw has anyone here managed to do the Amazon? I love the idea of it. Apparantly, there is a penis-breaking risk though kek
https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a24557384/amazon-sex-position/

No. 111808

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>>111804
This to me highlights one of the key differences between maledom and femdom
If the man wants to be dominant and make his female partner submissive there is really not much physically his female partner can do to stop him
conversely femdom can only work if the male wants to be submissive and the female partner wants to be dominant
A woman can never truly force a man to be submissive against his will unless the male has some sort of big physical handicap/disability
their was a post on lolcow on some thread I read a couple weeks ago about some anon who put a finger up her bf's ass when giving him oral thinking he might actually like it and he just kneed her in the face and started yelling at her and she became terrified

No. 111809

>>111808
Yeah, but why that picture?

No. 111810

>>111804
I was serous posting and this was one of my serous reaction images

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No. 111822

>>111808
Pretty sure that post in this thread actually lol

No. 111823

>>111807
Yes, I can do this, maybe not exactly but it's a position where I am thrusting, not riding, and more like male-on-female missionary in reverse. My bf likes when I "take control" and we do something similar to >>111804 where we wrestle and sometimes he lets me best him. I'm like 60 lbs less than him so he's got a big advantage but we try our best to keep it realistic haha.

I never used to be into femdom and tbh when he first asked me to "take control" I was uncomfortable. Now I like to watch his face contort and hear him moan. Not sure what changed.

No. 111846

>>111808
You're so dumb

No. 111848

stop infighting and post movie recommendations because I have none ;_;

No. 111851

>>98824
Don‘t care about this thread I want to know the artist of this pic nao!

No. 111858

>>111846
what did I say that was wrong ?

No. 111889

>>111846
what makes you say that?

No. 111899

>>111804
Wrestle him when he's physically worn out. Does he go to the gym? Play fight with him as soon as he gets home. Or get him to do push-ups and sit-ups until he can't do another one and then wrestle since he's ok with making it fairer. It's basically nerfing your strength to try to fight with tired muscles.
>>111808
There's lots of ways to coerce someone stronger than you but no one should be doing that for sex with anyone.

No. 111915

>>111899
>Does he go to the gym ?
Not really
>get him to do push-ups and sit-ups until he can't do another one and then wrestle since he's ok with making it fairer
Thats honestly a great idea I can't believe I never thought of that
I'll try it and give you all an update of what happens as soon as I can

No. 111953

>>111851
The artist of OP picture is Kaneoya Sachiko, patron saint of this thread

No. 112061

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Anyone else itt into mpreg?
I know it's often only present in media with two men, but I think it's as role reversal as it gets in a het relationship.

How would you go about bringing it up to a partner? Anyone have experience with it? I'm single at the moment, but if I get an understanding boyfriend I'd like to try pretending with one of those fake pregnant bellies. Idk if it's even much of a sex thing (except for the conception part), the idea of impregnating a guy just feels wholesome, romantic, and cute. Kind of sad that I'll only ever be able to role play it and not actually make a baby with a guy like that.

The whole thing is also kind of weird since I'm deathly afraid of falling pregnant myself.

No. 112062

do you guys have any advice for gentle femdom with guys, and trying to help a guy be more comfortable with it? My boyfriend really enjoys face sitting and on only a few occasions he’s let me tie him up and blindfold him (he REALLY liked it until he started feeling insecure and like I was judging him and he had me stop), but it’s really hard to get him comfortable with doing it because he thinks it’s “gay” or makes him feel unmasculine. We’ve tried it a couple other times but usually he just ends up laughing or saying it’s not doing anything for him, which then just makes me feel insecure or like he’s laughing at me and judging me. I know he doesn’t mean it in a bad way, he’s just always felt like he has to be super macho and masculine but IMO I think he would really enjoy gentle femdom, he just can’t get past the mental block that it’s gay or makes him a cuck or whatever. I don’t want to pressure him to do anything he doesn’t really want to do, which I’m worried if I try and discuss it and say how hot I find it then he’ll feel like I’m pushing it too much. Have any of y’all had experience with helping partners realize that it isn’t gay or weak or beta? pls help you guys seem so educated and experienced :(

No. 112063

>>112062
the vast majority of men just aren't into femdom and you can't do anything to change their minds
just accept him for who he is and try to love him

No. 112070

>>112062
>it’s gay or makes him a cuck

Has he actually said this? If so, amazingly retarded logic for a man having straight sex with his girlfriend.

No. 112073

>>112070
yeah he has, I know absolutely dumb that sounds. he has pretty toxic friends and played a ton of video games as a kid so he’s been raised in the mindset that anything not hyper masculine is gay. don’t get me wrong, he LOVES pleasing me and is not a selfish lover or anything and usually is the one to request face sitting, why is why I think he just has mental blocks around gentle femdom tbh. I know it probably sounds like I’m projecting my fetish onto him, but I really do think he likes it but just can’t admit it because of what he was taught. sorry if any of this was tmi

No. 112092

>>112073
Nothing tmi about it. I think you two just need to have a good conversation where you express the thoughts you have written here.

No. 112093

>>112062
You already answered that question yourself
>I think he would really enjoy gentle femdom
>he just ends up laughing or saying it’s not doing anything for him
You think he would/could/should like it - but he doesn't. The reason why doesn't matter, if he doesn't want to, you shouldn't force him, period.

No. 112106

>>112093
(Im the op) as much as I don’t want to agree with you, maybe you’re right. I’m worried that I might let my fetish be making me think he would like it, even if he doesn’t. I’ll have a serious talk with him about it and why I enjoy it, and if he says he doesn’t like it, I’ll take that as a resounding no and probably not bring it up any more. The last thing I want is to force anything on him. Thank you for the reality check, as hard as it is

No. 112129

I've always been into femdom but I swear to god male subs are some of the most pathetic creatures. Even in femdom spaces, it's still about male pleasure and what you can do for them. The subs are horribly selfish and then there are still the maledoms who prey on you when they have 0 interest in subbing themselves. The only GOOD encounters I've had as a domme have been with female subs.

No. 112157

>>112129
Having a hard time believing that, since that'd entail the opposite of being a submissive.
I,would never put the emphasis of the relationship on sex(low libido),but on ways to please and make her life more interesting/fulfilling. "male subs are some of the most pathetic creatures." that is what I've noticed the vast majority of women think/say, the pressure put on me by previous partners, made sure I'd not forget. After a while I ,resentingly, stopped caring about relationships, they're unfulfilling and there is nothing I could do to change it.(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 112200

Another failed attempt to get a new play partner. We had the amazong chemistry but I don’t want to risk ruining our friendship. I know we’d make a great dom/sub. I’m glad I had the courage to make a first move with her, though she declined it. She’s having hard time emotionally in her personal life so there is no room for super intense domme like me.
My crush in her is gone so there is more room for friendship and general no-romantic companionship.

Also, I had coffee with my ex gf I’m still friends with. Her new domme is ignoring her and that’s kind of sad. I know my ex can be super needy as a sub. The new domme is very career-oriented so maybe she is just busy.
I’m still kind of… disappointed? on her. She was MINE so you should treat her right.

No. 112466

I'm looking for some advice. I'm not a domme and not active in any bdsm circles. I'm interested in shibari/kinbaku/whatever it's called and have been practicing on myself and on mannequins for some time now. It's not a sexual thing for me but I do experience the process as very sensual and satisfying.

I found this nice looking rope bondage place that's open once a week for socializing, finding partners, rope training and play time. I was hoping to go and find someone to practice with but I honestly have no idea how that kind of thing works? Like I have no idea what to expect?
Should I go a few times and get to know people? Or does things progress a lot faster?
Is there any red flags I should look out for in a partner?

No. 112468

>>112466
Samefag, I should specify I want to tie other people up, not be tied up myself, unless we're both just using each other for practice.

No. 112534

>>112466
not advice but I'm in a similar boat, lets hope for the best

No. 112536

>>112466
Honestly, what to expect and whatanot it's up to your zone, I can only speak for how much I partecipated in such places around my zone, so take it with a grain of salt.
the majority of (self proclaimed and not) kinbakushi were arrogant men who looked at themselves as gods and the bunnies were vain and wanted everyone to lust after them. I had really an hard time between bunnies who looked down on you because they were "beautiful submissive models" and not you, and men that, as most if not all self proclaimed doms, were the shittest people around.
It is a highly maledom environment, though, I think I saw only one dommie tying up while there.
There were some exception in all of this, of course, but it looked like mostly of those exceptions just went there for the location and some chitchat while the whole group were too focused on kissing each other asses. They had each other partners and the passion they had really came through. Watching them tie each other was beautiful, they were entirely in their own world.
In addition to this, most decent people I met who were into BDSM left the community because of all the toxicity there were.

As for red flags, it is pretty much the same you would look on "regular people", plus you may find more emotionally damaged people, blahblahblah.

I hope you girls the best, because if you find the emotional connection with the ropes, it can be one of the most intense and beautiful experience.

No. 112576

>>111808
That's why femdom is better and more healthy than maledom

No. 112577

>>112063
>Vast majority
9/10 when someone on the internet says "vast majority" they're pulling it out of their ass
in the comment she literally says "he really liked it" he's just insecure because he thinks it's 'gay'

No. 112579

>>112577
their not into it when you specifically call it femdom
as I said here >>107584 most guys are open to try stuff that would be classified as light femdom
being restrained,being blindfolded,being slapped however from my own experiences never go beyond that

No. 112598

>>112536
I know personal experience depends on area and such but thank you so much anon, this was so helpful!

No. 112613

>>112579
I've noticed the same thing.

Most men hear femdom and think "Mean woman in PVC kicking me in the balls."

But they're into being tied up, blindfolded, women initiating and taking control, light orgasm denial, light teasing and humiliation, and loads of other femdom stuff.

No. 112630

>>112613
I don't know about Humiliation
I have never met a normie guy who was into Humiliation

No. 112844

>>104403
God I hate those fake anime moans.

No. 112893

i’m 5”2 and my boyfriend is 6”5 and the fact that he’s so much taller than me makes domming him that much sexier to me. he’s got a sweet friendly way about him but he doesn’t come across as subby but god seeing a dude so much taller than me get on his knees for me makes me weak

No. 112894

>>112893
Very hot, anon. I always enjoy a good size difference. Nothing is more enjoyable than making a big man submit to a tiny girl and then teasing him about it.

No. 112895

>>112893
You are living the dream, anon. (I am the poster upthread who want a jock chair.)
What sorta stuff are you two usually into?

No. 112908

>>112895
thanks! he’s my best friend but it’s also so good to have someone i’m sexually compatible with. neither of us are really into pegging but we normally indulge in bondage, ordering him around, light humiliation, slapping, choking etc… I’m a pretty dominant woman (he jokes that i have an animus complex lol) while he’s a pretty stoic character and a man of few words. I don’t think it would turn me on as much if he was a typical subby brat lmao

No. 112915

>>112893
>>112908
That's so cute, anon.
I'm one of the anons into tiny men, but your dynamic sounds adorable. Wholesome, even.

No. 112963

do these numbers surprise you?
supposedly this is some info on fetlife users, the % of women that class themselves as domme,sub, etc.
https://imgur.com/a/tLcWL granted this is slightly stale data (2014) but i don't see why it would differ much now

No. 112967

>>112963
No. Firstly, fetlife isn't a good sample size of the kink community. Most women actively avoided internet communities where the gender disparity is that high. I've had awful experiences and have decided to never use it again. Secondly, maledom is very traditional. Women, throughout history, have typically been forced to be submissive to men. Of course this will be reflected in most kink sample sizes. Porn culture also aims heavily towards a male audience(thus the service and submissiveness by females) and the male gaze so I would argue that most women are not even exposed to any sort of femdom kinks unless they actively seek it out. I for one, have a hard time finding any media from a straight, dominant female POV.

No. 112968

What kind of subs do you all like or dislike?

I personally can't stand brats or subs who act out on purpose to get punished. I like quiet and obedient subs who just want to worship me.

No. 112969

>>112968
I agree. I heavily dislike brats. Subs should serve me obediently and worship me or else what's even the point.

No. 112970

>>112968
i like subs who are mostly obedient but i like when my man acts out a little. i have a spanking fetish so having a guy who occasionally acts out a little works out for me. i’m not turned on by guys who you can TELL are subby but i’m not really into macho men either. cocky, insecure dudes are my biggest turn off but they seem to like being dommed a lot. give me an eloquent, confident man who i can turn in a drooling mess please.

No. 112976

>>112970
>give me an eloquent, confident man who i can turn in a drooling mess please.
Post like this really creep out me
I wanna be with a sub that wants to a sub but the thought of converting a man or woman into a sub has always felt kinda abusive to me

No. 112979

>>112976
nta but I assumed they mean someone who is confident outside of the bedroom and submissive inside it, not that they were forcing anyone to submit or converting anyone? I don't know why you'd interpret it otherwise.

No. 112980

>>112968
Ideal is either a passive pillow prince or a masochist who blatantly enjoys pain. Not really into worship because I don't like the focus to be on myself, and not into brattiness either.
I just want to control a guy's pleasure I guess.

>>112976
Where did you get non-con from that? I just read it as someone who is different in the bedroom than how they act irl.

No. 112981

>>112980
Hardcore masochists really turn me on. My style of femdom isn't even particularly rough, I usually prefer light verbal humiliation, orgasm control, more things along those lines, but the idea of a guy who truly gets off on being hurt badly is so hot, even if I wouldn't do most of it for him.

No. 112982

>>112976
i’m the anon who posted that but i don’t i have no idea how you came to that conclusion from my post lol

No. 112984

>>112982
Your post reminded me of some posts from the fetishes you're ashamed of thread
About wanting to turn alpha dudes into subs

No. 112989

>>112981
Same. It is very erotic. I'd like to find some good media content like that.

No. 112997

>>112106
not sure if anyone really cares for an update, but I'm this anon. I talked to my boyfriend about it finally, and he actually really does want to try it. I made it very clear that I don't want him to try it if he only wants to since I do, but he is actually interested. I'm really happy, thank you ladies for the advice, and I'm glad I was able to bring it up to him in a healthy way. thank you all!

No. 113003

>>112997
Good to hear anon, have fun!

No. 113038

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am I missing anything?

I get it's a lot of text to read, just wanted to hear your thoughts.

No. 113051

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>>112997
that's really cool anon good job

No. 113168

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>>98828

A dom/daddy dom whomst I beat into total and complete submission.

No. 113170

>>113168
I used to dom a guy who was otherwise a "dom". He had two subs (who knew about me). It was kind of hot knowing that I was at the top of that particular four person hierarchy.

No. 113172

>>113168

Also, findom. Sex matters little to males, it's their willingness to give up resources that indicates true and total submission. Change my mind.

No. 113174

>>113172
nta but wouldn't that have made the housewife-male breadwinner setup of the 50's femdom? It objectively wasn't.

Being the resource provider is very neutral. I could be the dominant breadwinner if I financially support a man but in return he's just a submissive sex slave. idk I guess findom never appealed to me, but I grant you that it can be dominant. Just not as dominant as it gets.

What would be the most dominant thing? Probably taking someone's life, that's too extreme for me though. I'm not into snuff or necro. Find it revolting and immoral tbh, but that's the furthest I can imagine.

No. 113175

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>>113174
Of course not. A housewife/bangmaid has to give up her hopes and dreams in exchange for a small allowance.

I'm thinking more in terms of women who don't give men jack shit while robbing them blind and degrading them. Goals.

No. 113498

>>113175
moralfag here but this is something I really can't support
femdom,bdms,maledom should only be safe fastness but It should never come out in the real world

No. 113505

>>113498
this thread has manhate crop up from time to time, just report and ignore shit like that. honestly i doubt these manhate anons are actually femdoms, especially wanting to "rob them blind". being a """findom""" is some pathetic bs.

No. 113506

>>113505
Yeah this is not a general "be mean and scam men" thread, that's a different mindset than wanting to dominate men for sexual pleasure.
I don't care about money, I wanna get off.

No. 113568

Ok anons, do you have any femdom themed or otherwise hot movies that you recommend? I mean ordinary ones with a plot, not porn.

(I want to watch this one, but can't find it online)

No. 113596

Had an anonymous male message me privately because he wanted me to findom him. Couldn’t believe it, gave him a payment method . He sends 100 the 200 same day today. Wtf I feel so lucky , never to experienced this before.

No. 113605

>>113596
what website was this on? i need this to happen to me



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