/g/ - girl talk

I just need him to fuck me fr. He'd be so good.

>>395196
I understand. I have so many projects and tests to worry about, and everyday before sleep -which is 30 minutes after finishing something I'm working on- I say "today is the day, I'm gonna watch an episode focused on him and take screenshots of his pretty face.", then once I'm done brushing my teeth, I lay in bed and fall fast asleep and not doing it. It's so frustrating.

My birthday is near and I'll never have Dazai wishing me a happy birthday while hoping we can die together next year.

Why live.

I used a decent nsfw-friendly AI bot site for the first time and just spent… A concerning number of hours on there building up a scenario and then going absolutely buck nutty. Why was that literally the most turned on I've ever been in my life…(I have in fact had actual sex before that I thought was good). I feel like a rabid animal with a raw vagina Lord forgive me.

>>395217
Happy birthday nonna <3 <3 <3

>>394690
aww I love high twin tails especially with the right outfit. I stopped wearing them when I got older but I may have to bring them back- they can look really cool with flowier fabrics, almost magical rather than just juvenile.
>>394719
This style is so pretty! Reminds me of a siren lady or something.

>>394674
>My biggest fear atm is that, how is the shower? Does it feel heavy when it's all wet?
Yes, super heavy, I had to hold my neck down intentionally, also took like 2 days to dry completely.

>>394830
I haven't had a natural colour in a decade and we're probably the same age. Bet you''d look great in it, fun colours really add a nice spice to brown hair. Hair with roots like that is very comfortable to keep. If I was to do a colour like this I'd mix a drop of Directions 'Plum' into a conditioner and slap that on once a week after shampoo, cheap and easy. With bleached hair just remember to use leave-in conditioners too.

I am having a really hard time with hair products. Idk when they changed but most of them are now giving me a weird reaction when in contact with hot water or sweat when they didn't used to. I get red itchy skin with little bumps, they disappear after I wash it all away but it's really annoying because this happens even in contact with sweat! And a live in a very hot country, I can't just stop sweating kek, it's making me so mad I am fucking paying money for that poison and idk what to do or where to ask. I looked up on the internet and couldn't find anything that helps me and I feel like I'm going crazy. What component could be causing it? Will I have to completely ditch conditioners and combing creams? I don't think I can survive that.

>>393651
I wanted to wear my hair like that for the longest time but I've been bullied for having a big hair and it looking "unkept" despite me actually spending time and money caring for it (and all these hair products suck so much and smell weird), it did shit to my confidence when it comes to my hair. I'm trying to resist the urge to cut it short again because it is so frustrating taking care of it, I really want to grow it long, but God I am so tired of the time consuming perfect little curls, especially when my hair is a freaking mess with different types of curls mixed with straight hair… I might just go "fuck it" and wear it like that, this is what freedom looks like, I can legit "wake up like that".

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>>394690
Hairdressers just don't know how to cut short hair, I've yet to meet one who can do it properly. I had to learn how to cut mine at home so I don't end up with the Karen special. I used to get unintentional bowl cuts as a kid because they especially failed at cutting thick hair with lots of volume.

What one anon said about some people suiting a certain length is also real. I love long princess hair but I've had short hair since my mid teens because long hair looks terrible on me. It grows into an unkempt mane of Indian hair that's painful to brush through and impossible to style because it's so heavy, so it just ends up being messy Hagrid hair with no volume on top and too much volume below the chin. It makes me look dowdy and matronly whereas short hair on me is cute, playful and flattering.

>>394645
>they are just projecting themselves into being pleasured instead of getting turned on by female bodies and vaginas
Isn’t it usually both for SSA women

I'm only attracted to people who have such a high level of natural androgyny that I basically never meet anyone irl that fits my type because it's so rare in the human population. I want a normal sexuality where I can see a hot normie woman or man on the street and go awooga. My brain doesn't go awooga for anybody except extremely rare outliers. I'm going to jump out of a window. Why is this my lot in life, i'm never gonna find anyone to date. I cope by saving pictures of my unattainable crushes on my phone and staring at them pining for what I'll never have.

>>395209
we get people like this all the time. i think anons need to just accept this is just their version of having “high standards” except their beauty standard is androgyny.
That being said, how androgynous does everyone mean when they talk about “extreme androgyny”? Pretty much any woman who is thin enough, doesn’t wear makeup and doesn’t have long hair is considered androgynous. And the most attractive men are usually feminine and thus at least a little androgynous.

Feeling like a basic bitch (basic bi?) right now because I like my moids a little hairy and not built like slenderman

>>395209
Post examples

Legit can't tell if the moids I'm talking to aren't engaging with me much (not asking questions/actively trying to get to know me more, only replying to a select few lines from my long messages, etc) because they're disinterested or because they're socially autistic. I highly suspect it's the former, so I'd like to distance myself, but the off-chance it's the latter makes me torn between sticking it through or not.

Scored a date with a guy on Facebook Dating. I've been talking to him for the past 3 days and he's pretty much checking off all these preferences I'd like in a partner. We're likely going to meet for the first time within the next 3 days, so I'm excited to meet him in person. I'm going to sleep with a huge grin and butterflies in my stomach already so I can guess that's a positive thing.

I met with a guy from Hinge and was scared that he was going to be disappointed since I used a filter on my selfie that puts blush and glitter on your face. But turns out that I was the cute one. He didn't look like his pictures AT ALL. His pictures were at least 3 years old. Face time him before you meet up or you'll be disappointed.

>>394340
Date went way better than expected. We're meeting again today. We got as far as making out within 3 hours of our date. It's a very comfortable time. Things are new, I feel like I can be taken care of this time around.

More of a long-ass vent than anything, is not having an active Instagram plastered with pictures of yourself and everything you do actually some sort of unspoken red flag? Am I the retard or just unlucky? I'm bi but mention that I am not interested in men. I'm using Hinge and Tinder. I have a few unobstructed, decent or cute pictures of myself on my profiles and lightly mention my hobbies (nerdshit but I don't get into specifics, as well as relatively normal stuff) and like two vague, 'quirky' one liners, but I've been ghosted twice by women in the past few days despite a somewhat promising start shortly after they ask me if I have Instagram and I preface it with something like
>yeah I do! but I don't really post on it fyi
The first time I didn't even get to the exchanging usernames part and the second time I just thought, "fuck it" and sent a link. It's pretty bare in terms of posts and has 100+ followers, but it has my name on it, obviously not some shady throwaway, and I've had it for years. I just use it to post random digital drawings on occasion, follow artists/musicians/college shit, look at goofy animal pictures, and keep up with old friends. I don't put pictures of my face or document everywhere I go on it because I don't feel the need to. Is this some kind of litmus test to measure how socially retarded you are? I just don't care too much about that kind of thing personally and I feel like the universe is punishing me for it.
I'm a dumbass zoomie and try to come off as fairly normal in writing and presenting myself, even though I'm spergy in person. (ie. not oversharing or self-deprecating, don't mention terminally online shit, and I'm genuinely interested in other women's lives, etc.) Further context, I think I range from decent/average to above average/pretty in terms of appearance (depending on personal taste and how much effort I put in), and I'm not a /beg/ tier chicken scratch pencil artist either. It's just fun sketches of shit I like. (Not overly animu moeslop, mostly normal TV shows because I know better than to reveal my cringe level. It's also a public account just because I like it when people find my fanart through tags.)
I'm just bummed because they both seemed fairly interesting and down-to-earth with no pronouns in bio and were my type. I feel like a mega tard. It's so over… maybe it's for the best rn, but it just hammers in the idea that I'm unlikeable or too off-putting.
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>>395010
Nonna its alright just calm down. You don't need to be doing all of that and pressuring yourself either. Honestly at least I just focus on hanging out with and making sure the baby is fine. That's already more than enough work! Yes sometimes the dishes stay overnight in the sink and get washed during the next naptime, yes sometimes there's toys all around and at the end of the day you're too exhausted to do anything about that and there's absolutely no reason to feel less accomplished. The baby for sure won't mind. Honestly imo the mega organized clean girl aesthetic açai bowl green smoothie era of life is when you're not currently facing the biggest challenge life can give you, which is raising a little human. Nonna its okay just relax dont make yourself crazy.

The thing about appointments, I use telegram as a chat messenger and there you can make a channel for yourself + your husband and schedule messages. So I write every appointment in there and then schedule a message the day before/the morning of the day to repeat the appointment text again so I get a notification.

>>395037
I am sure maaaany women have had children due to extreme horniness throughout history. Biological imperative.
I wanted children in my life - specifically, I wanted children that were older than 4 and not a baby or toddler. So I didn't think it through fully and having a baby is hard but not the hardest thing I've done.
I will say that pregnancy was the least sexy experience of my life and, because we planned our baby, copulative sex was no where near as much "fun" as the spontaneous sex I've had. Maybe if our baby had been unplanned I'd think differently about this entirely.

>>395010
Is your husband or partner helping you with childcare? I get everything done by eating simple meals, and asking my husband to help with laundry and cleaning (he does) i only have one kid, but I don't keep a checklist. I do agree with this list's idea of not having a phone around at specific times - but I have a phone addiction and need that sort of rule.
As for appointments, I have a google calendar widget on my phone and I add the appointment to my calendar as soon as the appointment is made (at the doctor's office or whilst still on the phone). You can add attendees to the event too, if someone else needs to remember. I like the other nonna's idea about the telegram channel

Why are standards for mothers so extreme nowadays? And it's never for the better either, first you have the extremely crunchy people foaming at the mouth quite literally claiming feeding a child anything other than breast milk until they're 2 will kill them or false medical advices that somehow get tossed around as real without anyone questioning it, the worst one IMO is that the huge hate boner for single moms have caused women to be extremely co-dependent on their husbands to the point where a lot of moms are afraid of even going in public without their husband due to the fact even being seen without a man is enough for a lot of people to assume you're single and hate you because of it, you're expected to mindlessly listen to every single piece of deranged judgement you read online unless it's not right! Then it's why are you trusting stuff online over yourself but these same people will be ready to execute you for NOT listening to others. You can't have a social life, if you go out a single time without your children you're a bad mom but also how dare you make your personality about being a mom and women suck for losing themselves to motherhood. Even just asking for a break or help from others is enough to have people treat you like you're neglectful or too stupid to take care of kids you chose to have even though this has never ever been the case at any point in history. You need to work but also not really, stay in shape but don't neglect your children to take a break and workout, always have energy, always be perfect, etc.

It's not hard to see why infanticide rates have gone up rapidly. Of course when you make new and scared mothers feel like they will never be enough during one of the most dangerous mental times for them you're gonna get exactly that

Did you guys circumcise your son or not? Im having a son and wondering this myself. My husband also has a botched circumcision + I'm scared it will make him fussier as a baby

>>395168
>I can cum from anal
I hope you're a scrote because that means you've never came at all before.

>>395169
Nta but this is pretty common for women with vaginal trauma. I don't think she means anal-anal but probably just a small toy. I knew a lot of women who thought they liked anal because of fingers or toys then when they get down to the real thing they end up injuring themselves or end up with a disgusting poop mess

>>395171
She said cum. ORGASM.

Why is it so hard for me to cum? Did I permanently ruin my ability to orgasm by being pornsick for a majority of my life until a few years ago??

>>395169
Are u stupid?
>>395171
Yes i like toys, i have been sexually assaulted in the past and wonder if that combined with the stigma about being nonvirgin is why I can't enjoy piv.

Well, trying to lose weight again! I can't believe how easy it is to regain…I'm so cold.
>>394749
I tried it for body odor, noticed no difference.
>>394749

>Change gym
>Boyfriend recommend going to same gym as him
>Sure, plus there's a few around job + campus compared to my previous gym
>It's full of people who unironically set up cameras and microphones
>It's smaller with less machine
>Bit expensive too.
Sigh, I'm so upset about it, but at least I have gym closer to my school and work.

>>394801
NTA, but can you recommend some stretches?

>>394802
Not to mention Hampton is a sweet adorable muscly long-haired cutie, genuinely such a rare breed

How can you make your waist thinner? I've only started exercising one month ago to fix my body and rn my measurements are 87-66-90cms 66 being my waist. I want a thinner waist but idk if its possible because i have a wide ribcage, i used to have a thinner waist when i was underweight

>>394183
>pre menstural: heavy cramping and diarreha, i swear the whole area becomes swollen but that might be in my head
>day 1-5: heavy bleeding and clotting, rotating pads like every 1-2 hours
>day 6-7: no clots and flow is alright
>day 8-9: something that resembles spotting
yeah i should go to the doctor
jealous of you guys with 5~ day periods

>>394183
TMI but I'm on my period rn, fell asleep at 6am and im in fucking PAIN, can't take my usual ibuprofen meds atm because I have some stomach issues, if I could it would make things easier
> day 1: crippled, cramps, diarrhea (I try not to eat too much because the fucking cramps will intensify) , HEMORRHOIDS (seriously I can't be the only one, because of the constant feeling of needing to poop everything is so inflamed) ,spend at least 3-4h on the toilet (not actually doing anything those 4 hours but because of fucking prostaglandins and the havoc they wreck, hell I had a 1h++ toilet break before I could finish this post), spend all day and night contemplating my existence as a woman, if my period comes in the first part of the day I know I'm fucked because cramps will start in the late evening
> day 2: pain goes away around 70%, very rarely will i still have cramps
> day 3: freedom
>during ovulation: I am a horny wild beast and I hate being single kek, I also look my best
>PMS, around 1 week before period: sometimes bloated, constipated (HATE IT) slightly emotional and VERY VERY HUNGRY

>>395090
i am also degenerate and it’s normal, look at the straight nonas here. female socialisation just teaches us that we have to be perfectly pure.

>>395090
I saw another nonna brought up The Female Eunuch by Germaine Greer. Good read to help accept your sexuality

>>395090
>>395139
What do you mean when you say you're degenerate? Just, very horny/fantasizing?

>>395122
Different anon but also want to learn to overcome religious trauma so I can get a gf.

>>395188
second anon, essentially. nothing moids can’t get away with.