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No. 2079391
Becky Lilley aka catholica_pandam on Instagram is a 22-year old ''autistic'' tradcath influencer, mom-to-be, stoner, addict and student from Fredericton, Canada. She's married to Ian, an autistic man of Scottish descent. She has amassed a following on IG after her autistic catholic wedding pictures went viral, but has been increasinly scrutinized due to her erratic, attention-seeking behavior, oversharing, inconsistencies, self-infantilization and speculation that her ''autism'' is in reality a badly managed case of BPD. She loves posting about her dog, God, housewife duties, autism, how catholicism saved her from a troubled adolescence and how much she actually hates parasocial relationships and e-fame.
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IG:
https://www.instagram.com/catholica_pandam/Fan reddit:
https://www.reddit.com/r/catholicpandam/Snark reddit (featuring archived lives):
https://www.reddit.com/r/catholicpanda/Her mother's IG:
https://www.instagram.com/old_lady_trudge_/Ian's IG:
https://www.instagram.com/ianswoodworking/Recent milk
>Has taken several breaks from social media due to mental health emergencies, only to return very quickly afterwards. Kept posting through it via her husband and mom's accounts>Was admitted to a psychiatric facility after discussing suicide on IG, checked out to access her opiate medication for her endo period>Has behaved strangely duing her IG lives, prompting speculation about drug use>Now using a walker part-time, supposedly for her severe grade 4 endometriosis>Was hacked by some Turkish cryptobro, her account was recovered since>She's pregnant! Despite regularly complaining about having no money and ''stage 4'' endometriosis (for which she's not seeing a specialist)>Is already milking her tiny barely existent baby for content>Her fans and snarkers alike are worried about her ability to be a mother and a possible miscarriage, prompting more suspicions about the severity of her conditions No. 2079429
>>2079426Yeah she's unassuming until you start to see the cracks. She was holding herself together before the last couple months
>bpd theory seems like a tinfoilIt's a solid tinfoil imo because she has explained, unprompted, that her BPD diagnosis was her autism 'with a stressed nervous system' (something of that order) and this is such a classic BPD malingerer thing to say. They love to reframe their past diagnosis as another condition entirely, Jill does this aswell. Her telling on herself + her frequent breakdowns + her child LARP point towards BPD, though you can't be 100% sure yet
No. 2079986
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She seems to be setting the stage for another health crisis saga.
No. 2079992
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>>2079986Isn’t she like 4 weeks pregnant? She doesn’t seem mentally sufficient to have a baby tbh - unless this is all just for clicks. Don’t ask me how telling the entire world that you’re 4 weeks pregnant is what’s “best” for anyone.
No. 2080132
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I can't say I'm that surprised that she has a thread here, the pregnancy saga is definitely going to yeild some milk. She's only a week (ish) into announcing this pregnancy and nearly every video is about her baby. Picrel is her blessing her baby by rubbing holy water over her stomach.
I thought it was pretty insane that she announced her pregnancy as soon as she found out?! I've never been pregnant myself but I thought that the first trimester can be touch and go and a lot of things can go wrong. I know a few close family members have been through miscarriages and I can't imagine how hard that is. But yeah let's announce your pregnancy of 4 weeks to your 130k followers as soon as you find out. It feels like jinxing it kek
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>>2079986why is she pretending to have a baby bump at 4 weeks KEK. is she pushing out her stomach in the photos where she’s showing off her “bump”?
No. 2080259
>>2080232it's literally endo belly, can spot that shit a mile off
cannot believe she had a get out of pregnancy free card r.e her catholicism by taking birth control to treat endo….AND CHOSE PREGNANCY ANYWAY…girl get a stable HOME lol
No. 2080311
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For anyone curious, picrel is her husband.
As mentioned in the thread OP, he's an autistic scrote named Ian. He works a labour-type job, and is usually on shift for 12-13 hours. I'm not sure how old he is, but I'd reckon that they're similar in age. He is balding.
No. 2080314
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This is old milk, but it's an example of how she does stick to her poorfag LARP pretty hard.
She's frequently begged her followers to buy her fast food in the past, and some of them have obliged her requests. For those not familiar, Smokes is a Canadian chain of fast food restaurants that specialize in selling poutines. The cost of 2 poutines from there is around 30 dollars. She says that she hasn't had it in a year, but she did in fact have it only 2 months before this incident occurred.
No. 2080322
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It's not mentioned in the OP, but to confirm: Becky and Ian did go semi-viral on Twitter in early 2024 after uploading photographs of their "autism friendly traditional Catholic wedding." If Becky looks familiar to you, it's most likely because you saw these photos somewhere on Twitter or Tumblr.
No. 2080357
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>>2080355>i need his ageian is 25. this article from last year confirms becky and ian’s ages, its paywalled so i capped relevant parts:
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2024/09/04/tiktok-traditional-trad-catholic-trend/the veil living business was short lived and i believe she never completed most of the orders, saying it was too stressful for her to try to make money like an adult, due to her autism and endo, and her husband was coming home from 12 hour shifts and doing all the housework while she lay in bed for weeks.
No. 2080358
>>2080322followed her too and she’s cringe to me now. I haven’t kept up with anything she’s been doing more recently at all but it always rubbed me the wrong way that this autistic(?) woman is hardcore larping as a christian and got married so young, and is simultaneously grifting off of it. i had no idea she was a stoner lol, i always got the impression that she was some cutesy mega autist who literally couldn’t do anything, that’s how she portrayed it.
i’ll go look myself for more milk after posting this.
>>2080311i need his age, i’ve been wondering for so long now. i think that they’re fairly close to eachothers iirc but he is aging very poorly.
in this
>>2080322picrel he’s really reminding me of an actor but i can’t place it for the life of me kek
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samefagging got this from the snark sub, ian is a retard. canadian moid celebrating an abortion ban that doesn’t even affect his country
No. 2080361
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becky is also anti vaxx. there’s a lot on the subreddits. i wish the milk was better summarized and catalogued, bc it’s there for sure
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>>2080355>>2080356>>2080358Most people close to her agree that she's faking autism.
As for the stoner bit, most of her posts from that time period were wiped when she last checked out of rehab, but from them we learned that she consumes cannabis everyday with specifically high-concentrations of THC (70-90%). Her preferred method of consumption is to smoke shatter (i.e., dabbing or hot-knifing). She also does drink alcohol, but I'm not sure how often or how much she drinks.
>i’ll go look myself for more milk after posting this.I'm trying to type out a timeline of events, since (no offense to the OP) the OP recap is kind of shit. She definitely has way more milk out there, but it's hard to gleam it now because of all the un-archived posts that were wiped from her account. She seems to be in the habit of periodically deactivating her social media, purging a lot of posts and content, then reactivating. It should be recommended that any anons that want to milk this cow should be prepared to archive things as they come, in case they get deleted later on.
>>2080357To add, I believe that he's from Ottawa, ON, too. I saw this a few times on the snark reddit page, but I'm not sure where this information was revealed.
>>2080359>>2080361I've been trying to go through the snark reddit to compile a more accurate summary of the milk, but it's genuinely quite difficult because redditards are so bad at this sort of thing. There definitely is milk to her, it's just buried beneath a bunch of random off-topic bullshit that we have to shovel through.
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stuff on her drug use
No. 2080373
>>2080369I never said he was 25 in my post, you're thinking of this anon's post
>>2080357 which was published a year ago. In that article, it says he's 24, so this year he should be 25 unless Catholics age differently.
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Oldish milk but found her being super normal on her mom’s instagram - accompanied by a video of her saying her “hacker” edited an email she sent to ask people for money? Honestly sounds like junkie behavior to me. Also the way she looks like and lisps like grimes.
No. 2080514
>>2080171Kek
>>2080322Okay ngl the photo itself is kind of cool if the moid wasn't in it, and if she wasn't larping autism. Also her moid looks old and schizophrenic.
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becky posted on threads her crouching on the floor, peeling potatoes into a filled trash can with old food/takeout bags in it, so gross lmao.
>>2080474>the way she lisps and looks like grimes kek nonna i couldn’t put my finger on who she reminded me of but, you’re so right. they share the autism larp too. what’s in the water in canada?