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r/polyamory and polyamorous culture #3 Anonymous 01/11/25 (Sat) 12:45:49 PM No. 2076406

>Do NOT post Sinnabunny/itssinnabunny/ Dana Hare here, she has her own thread: >>>/snow/2073891

From wikipedia:
>Polyamory is the practice of, or desire for, romantic relationships with more than one partner at the same time, with the informed consent of all partners involved. People who identify as polyamorous may believe in open relationships with a conscious management of jealousy and reject the view that sexual and relational exclusivity are prerequisite for deep, committed, long-term, loving relationships.
It's basically cheating plus self-righteousness.
So how does that work out?
At best, the relationship is never as strong as it used to be. Not everyone is so lucky.
https://archive.ph/DkN3s
>Man Who Featured in 5 Person Polyamorous Relationship Charged With Child Abuse
>Infant suffered broken leg, arm and skull fractures during vicious attack
Mostly, they make a lot of noise online and irl.
Why is it lolcow-worthy?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DTsdKycVZZ4
They see it as part LGB-related sexuality, part MLM recruitment scheme. They are extremely proud of their poor decisions and want attention for it.
Bonus lols: any selfie posted on r/polyamory
Points of Interest:
Heavily popular in the trans community with many crossovers.
Ridiculous buzzwords, Polycule relationship diagrams that look like STI tracing
Extremely convoluted drama
Common themes to look out for:
>getting pass on cheating already in-progress or "has one lined up"
>takes stable, long-standing relationship that could have been for life and nukes it, then wants it back the way things were before after some kind of poly mishap
>one party wants to relive youth only to find dating pool has dried up, then wants back into secure relationship
>long-suffering partner reluctantly agree, then meets someone, closes relationship sans original cheater
>Children being brought into dumpster-fire relationships. Drama regarding paternity.
>acting like their promiscuity is on par with lesbianism, demanding praise and special consideration for it in work and in personal relationships
>the advice is a big a dumpster fire as the original post
>they hate being called swingers for some reason
>everyone has STIs
Sources of drama:
https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory
https://www.reddit.com/r/nonmonogamy
https://www.reddit.com/r/solopolyamory
https://www.reddit.com/r/polyfamilies
https://www.reddit.com/r/EthicalNonMonogamy
There are also plenty of sources besides the above subreddits and plenty off-reddit. It's everywhere.

Previous thread: >>>/snow/2026090

Anonymous 01/11/25 (Sat) 06:15:27 PM No. 2076479

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Meanwhile in the poly community, saying “I’m clean” is discriminatory to STI riddled sexpests, kek.

Anonymous 01/11/25 (Sat) 06:18:17 PM No. 2076481

>>2076479
Kek, people who say "friendly/gentle reminder" are always one disagreement away from a full cluster B meltdown.

Anonymous 01/11/25 (Sat) 07:12:03 PM No. 2076494

>>2076479
>”xey might not disclose having the clap, but at least xey’re not rude!”

Anonymous 01/11/25 (Sat) 10:23:55 PM No. 2076543

>>2076479
This glows more than an ‘05 rave yet everyone in that thread is in agreement? Redditors are honestly hardly people.

Anonymous 01/12/25 (Sun) 02:43:26 AM No. 2076613

>>2076149
Is it not Gene Catlow? The Kit n Kayboodle guy? Where, when he died, they went to his house and found a fuckton of computers where he’d been RPing as different friends of himself including his own LDR fiancée.

Anonymous 01/12/25 (Sun) 04:06:05 AM No. 2076630

>>2076479
That username feels a little trollish but it definitely reminds me of the dating app "scene" a few years ago where people would put on their OKCupid profile that it wasn't acceptable to not be open to having an HIV+ partner.

Anonymous 01/12/25 (Sun) 11:25:55 AM No. 2076720

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>how do i make my little kid keep inappropriate secrets and lie to their grandparents?
and polyfaggots insist their families are totally normal and their kids are brought up just fine

Anonymous 01/12/25 (Sun) 03:31:16 PM No. 2076781

>>2076720
It's okay for children to know he brings randos to the house for sex or hell be leaving time with the family for these randos but God forbid adults in the child's life know what happens in the house. Very important people know yet also more important than others don't kek. Living with pride.

Anonymous 01/12/25 (Sun) 03:41:26 PM No. 2076786

>>2076720
Teaching your child to lie and not speak about their homelives is sinister. This isn't like this kid is the child of lesbians in a deeply homophobic town. This feels like an active way to silence his daughter who, if she was abused by his partners, wouldn't be able to speak out because "it's meant to be a secret between you and me, just like how your dad having partmers is!"

Anonymous 01/12/25 (Sun) 03:52:44 PM No. 2076790

>>2076720
>My relationships hinge on my young child never making any mistakes and lying to the other adults in her life, how do I make sure she knows this?
So unbelievably selfish.

Anonymous 01/12/25 (Sun) 04:12:46 PM No. 2076804

>>2076479
I agree. Stop saying that, because you don't actually know, so you're lying or misleading the other party. Always assume your hookup sex partner is infected and act accordingly (by not having sex with them).

Anonymous 01/13/25 (Mon) 08:20:58 PM No. 2077480

>>2076479
Syphilis rash hands made this infographic in canva

Anonymous 01/14/25 (Tue) 10:53:02 PM No. 2077870

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Nonnas I’m laughing my ass off kek. A poly retard stitched this video of this tiktoker who was asking why poly people always have “that” look and then she stitched herself and she was the walking stereotype kekk.

Anonymous 01/14/25 (Tue) 10:54:01 PM No. 2077871

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>>2077870
The comments are sending me

Anonymous 01/15/25 (Wed) 05:21:11 AM No. 2078026

>>2076720
>using the term "come out"

Yuck. People choose to be poly or not, it's not even remotely close to being gay or bi.

Anonymous 01/20/25 (Mon) 06:54:45 PM No. 2079889

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Anonymous 01/20/25 (Mon) 07:33:55 PM No. 2079896

>>2079889
>I need help to see this rationally and for what it is
>How can I put this experience in a healthy light
>It's been a lot of fun
How can you hate yourself this much. These people are insane and need the looney bin, nothing about this is normal.

I just hope they don't have kids, if you want to be a miserable sex pest then go on, it's fun to laugh at your self inflicted despair but when those creeps post about having children I feel sick. People should have a license to have kids, because to put your whole family dynamic at risk due to your sex obsession is another level of deranged.

Anonymous 01/20/25 (Mon) 07:43:35 PM No. 2079900

>>2079889
I don't like how these people always try to convince themselves this is a totally normal situation and its not crazy making whatsoever. the cope to come crawling to reddit is pathetic

Anonymous 01/20/25 (Mon) 09:43:41 PM No. 2079930

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cant stitch the replies to this bc im on mobile but every single one is gently chiding the op for ~not realizing special things dont become less special if more people experience them~ and welcoming her (op doesn't reveal the genders involved, but her post history leads me to believe shes a woman dating a man) to the ~grieving process of mononormativity~. If you have to override your base instincts for months to "accept" polyamory and "unlearn" mononormativity, what's the point? the way these people describe it, its not even worth it kek.

Anonymous 01/20/25 (Mon) 10:51:30 PM No. 2079960

>>2079889
This isn't milky, just depressing. It's extremely clear whose idea it was and who's the one crying herself to sleep at night, and when that someone is the woman, it's not funny. In fact, I'd go as far as to say that she's being sexually abused. Coercing women into fulfilling your disgusting cheating/cuck fantasies until they break them and they feel like they "have" to accept or they'll lose their husbands is still rape.

Anonymous 01/20/25 (Mon) 10:51:57 PM No. 2079962

>>2079930
really reminds me of how cults operate

Anonymous 01/21/25 (Tue) 06:39:13 PM No. 2080292

>>2079889
>I dont feel special anymore to him.
She never was. Hope she dumps him.

Anonymous 01/21/25 (Tue) 07:41:08 PM No. 2080312

>>2079889
>And I am sure he feels bad about how it all played out
oh yeah im sure he was just absolutely devastated as he moaned like a beached whale while busting a fat load into another woman right in front of you. This is his Roman empire for sure kek

Anonymous 01/24/25 (Fri) 06:11:17 AM No. 2081385

>>2079930
They act like it's some kind of fixed internal orientation like being gay or bi when in reality it's a lifestyle choice that people can opt out of and seem to mostly get into because they either want to cheat or virtue signal or both

Anonymous 01/24/25 (Fri) 04:20:02 PM No. 2081512

>>2076786
>Teaching your child to lie and not speak about their homelives is sinister.
the problem is that people dont give a shit in the first place and the child just ends up being outcasted since people don't want to be in the proximity of broken people, or if the art they just see it as an opportunity for exploit(sage your shit)

Anonymous 01/31/25 (Fri) 10:43:16 PM No. 2084184

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“You’re envious I fucked other ugly people like me” kek

Anonymous 01/31/25 (Fri) 10:49:52 PM No. 2084191

>>2084184
>are you surprised that I’m an obese sex-obsessed loser who thinks whoring yourself = being loved?
No, not at all really.

Anonymous 02/01/25 (Sat) 12:13:04 AM No. 2084222

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Pretty sure they've been posted either here or on MTF before, but Dana's friend's marriage to this hulking Habsburg jaw troon is the stuff of nightmares. I was too late to screenshot it, but Dana reposted one of their stories groping eachother in lingerie with the troons moobs fully visible through the sheer material and it was so disturbing. The polycule seems to consist of one other unfortunate woman afaik.

Anonymous 02/01/25 (Sat) 01:06:35 AM No. 2084242

>>2084222
what's he wearing?

Anonymous 02/01/25 (Sat) 01:11:21 AM No. 2084244

>>2084184
>I've had more more sex in my 26 years that you will in your whole life
Lol, she really thought this was an own

Anonymous 02/01/25 (Sat) 01:11:33 AM No. 2084245

>>2084184
Say it with me: dick is abundant and of low value

Anonymous 02/01/25 (Sat) 01:24:03 AM No. 2084247

>>2084245
the dick she's getting is with the lowest group of men on the planet, foul-smelling subhumans with chronic porn addictions

Anonymous 02/01/25 (Sat) 01:35:13 AM No. 2084250

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Added to OP's pic. Please understand the filename is more about them asking for infinite gibs for unnecessary shit than people who are actually suffering through poverty.

Anonymous 02/01/25 (Sat) 06:13:05 PM No. 2084455

>>2084184
>Does that fundamentally alter all you've been taught about desire?
No ma'am! It's quite a relief, actually, to see 3-5 ugly people in love. Reminds me that life could be so much worse.

Anonymous 02/03/25 (Mon) 06:35:54 AM No. 2085013

>>2084184
Most people are quality not quantity regarding sex, is this not fairly obvious to them? Most women would say they'd sooner fuck a handful of attractive/interesting moids than the first random 50 or so who flooded their inbox

Anonymous 02/03/25 (Mon) 02:54:23 PM No. 2085107

>>2084250
Well done kek

Anonymous 02/06/25 (Thu) 07:20:07 AM No. 2085997

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Anonymous 02/06/25 (Thu) 07:30:37 AM No. 2086000

>>2085997
Why? So the legal system can be overburdened with degenerate drama and dividing bobbleheads between dangerhair fatties and their child-raping simps? Or so that the race-to-the-bottom can begin economically, when we have to compete with their 5 person top 10% OF gooner income contributing to a 2bdrm herpescule? Or the nightmare tax code ramifications of suddenly having infinite retards in a "marriage"?

Anonymous 02/06/25 (Thu) 08:55:11 AM No. 2086010

>>2085997
Move to Saudi Arabia then

Anonymous 02/06/25 (Thu) 11:40:34 PM No. 2086236

>>2085997
if that happened it would be 95% weird Mormon offshoot sects and 5% Dungeons and Dragons frumps and dumps

Anonymous 02/08/25 (Sat) 03:59:53 PM No. 2086730

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>>2084222
Found it, the way he's literally hulking over her

Anonymous 02/11/25 (Tue) 09:48:12 PM No. 2087838

>>2084222
Ugly hasberg jaw man and ugly crow nose woman. Poly people are always ugly. Pretty poly people that are very rare to find always settle into monogamous relationships too after they are done with their degen ring. Lmfao so basically being poly is about being promiscuous temporarily, or ugly and undesireable and having to compromise the relationships exclusivity to keep it together. Bleak.

Anonymous 02/14/25 (Fri) 04:36:43 PM No. 2088864

Thread tax. Spot the Dana.
>>2085997
Retards that say shit like this need to open a damn history book. They think they’re so revolutionary for actually proposing the most regressive and harmful martial practice in history (besides child marriage of course, but let’s be real—polygamy and child brides usually go hand-in-hand). The US literally outlawed polygamy to protect women and children after Mormons tried to create a Mormon theocracy in Utah so that their cult leader could have sexual access to as many young girls as he wanted from among his followers.
>t. descendent of Mormon polygamists

Anonymous 02/14/25 (Fri) 10:29:21 PM No. 2088960

>>2088864
>The US literally outlawed polygamy to protect women and children after Mormons tried to create a Mormon theocracy in Utah so that their cult leader could have sexual access to as many young girls as he wanted from among his followers.
It's wild that this isn't really talked about but it's 100% historically accurate. And yet some people still hesitate to call Mormonism a cult

Anonymous 02/15/25 (Sat) 11:36:35 AM No. 2089178

>>2088864
Historically polygamy protected women who didn’t have other options, Mormon polygamy is not the same as polygamy from thousands of years ago. Thousands of years ago if a woman was unmarried, she likely became poor or a prostitute.

Not agreeing with polygamy at all. Marriage is between two people only, but there is more to the history than what Mormons did.