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No. 84384

There's not enough kink shaming on lolcow and I think it's time to change that. Come in and shame your favorite kink.

Don't violate global rule #2.

No. 84386

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DDLG is definitely among the worst offenders.

No. 84388

>>84386
WHAT.THE.FUCK.ANON. that is fucking disgusting, I hate this trend with a burning rage it almost makes me rage like an austist.perhaps that is too lateThis shit always creep up on my feed bleh.

No. 84390

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they also get really pissed off if you suggest that ddlg is in any way pedophilia.

>>84388
it's practically impossible to avoid the ddlg trend these days. It's just everywhere. At least furries and shit tend to keep their shit to their own insular communities. DDLG fucks have to broadcast their kink to the entire fucking world.

No. 84392

>>84390
Ironic that this post is on tumblr considering tumblr is home to the most annoying ddlg people to exist. It's the only place where I've seen photographers and artists have to caption their work with "don't add sexual comments" A photograph of a landscape attracts comments like "i wanna swallow daddy's cummies here!!!"

No. 84394

>>84392
and they get offended when original posters have to add these comments to their pictures.

I would have to dig some up, but I know I've seen littles get pissed off when someone sends them an ask asking them to remove a picture from their blog. How DARE anyone be uncomfortable with their pictures ending up next to a bunch of genitals and dirty diapers.

No. 84397

>>84392
tbh the "daddies" somehow piss me off more than the "girls". I guess it just strikes me as predatory? idk. I found out a male friend of mine was into girls with daddy issues and it made me lose all respect for him.

No. 84399

>>84397
Same. If they wanted a dom/sub relationship, why not just have that without the weird baby girl stuff? They pretend it's a dominance thing but you can be dominant without calling yourself daddy and getting off with someone pretending to be too young to look after themselves.

No. 84401

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I need to relearn what asexuality means because I didn't realise it meant their kinks were free from judgment

No. 84402

>>84399
I mean, it's not like the dom/sub crowd is that much better. I kind of just find male dominant-type kinksters gross and predatory in general.

No. 84403

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>>84402
sage for blogging but I remember a guy from uni once tried to get me involved in some dom sexting shit halfway through a normal conversation. Straight up told him I wasn't gonna sext him and he told me I'd do as my master told me. -chuckles aloud- it would have been scary if it wasn't so embarrassing. I just blocked him. I guess my master was only in charge of me and not the phone company.

No. 84404

>>84403
He sounds like a literal retard. Maybe it was some weird PUA thing?

No. 84405

>>84386
why would anybody be into smelling of piss and chafing their skin

No. 84406

>>84404
I think way too many people think they can get other people into their fetishes just by being assertive and overly confident. When people are like that, no matter what their fetish is, I'm disgusted. If you steamroll people into joining in whatever weird kink you have, it's pretty gross tbh.

No. 84408

>>84403
Can you stop posting -chuckles aloud- in EVERY post you make?

No. 84410

>>84408
It's a filter. If affects every poster that post l..m..a..o. Chill out.

No. 84423

>>84408

-chuckles aloud-

No. 84424

>>84410
Huh. My bad for being autistic. I just assumed all filters were disabled when you clicked.

No. 84425

>>84424
filter =/= shitposting simulator.

No. 84428

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I don't understand what exactly is supposed to be sexy about pacifiers.

No. 84429

>>84401
how is this even asexual? doesn't this go against the point of asexuality?

No. 84430

>>84428
I feel like a lot of camwhores bandwagon onto the fetish because they know it'll get them attention from thirsty robots.

It also confirms (some) robots' belief that all women have daddy issues and want a man to dominate/"keep" them which is another unfortunate side effect of this abomination.

No. 84431

>>84428
Mental illness can make anything seem sexy.

No. 84433

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"Daddy is taking me for a day in the city diapered :) more photos to come!"

for all the "ddlg isn't just diaper fetishists!" I sure am finding a whole lot of diaper pictures.

No. 84434

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>>84430
strawberry-kisu is definitely one of those camwhores.

No. 84437

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This is so embarrassing. thekowaiprincess is a goldmine of crap.

No. 84438

>>84437
>321 notes
jesus christ

No. 84439

>>84433
What kind of lunatics find diapers sexy?

No. 84440

I side eye pretty much everyone in the lolcow kink thread. Priest fetishists and spergs who think all women are whores, it's like we went full circle and became cows ourselves.

No. 84443

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I kinkshame this, whatever kink this is supposed to be

No. 84447


No. 84448

>>84443
The bee populations are declining because they kill themselves when they see this shit

No. 84449

>>84443
It looks like performance art that lesbian feminazis would cream themselves over

No. 84451

>>84433
she's got DDLG camel toe going on.

No. 84457

>>84428
Hmm I always thought they were just one of those "look at me I may or may not do drugz xDD" things cause apparently pacifiers help with jaw tension or w/e on amphetamines or something. Like pics with bongs, the bong isn't meant to be sexy just make the girl look more "hardcore"

No. 84459

>>84433
I wish they would stop pretending to not be ageplayers by any other name. I'm not into ddlg but I definitely like the whole bratty sub/caring dom thing those blogs share, but when I try to search ddlg tags for that shit it's 90% disgusting diapers and toddler ageplay shit.

I wish 'soft/consensual/friendly bdsm' was a real thing with tags. I'm not after pathetic 50 Shades drivel but when you search bdsm tags on tumblr you get a lot of girls choking on cock in the bad way with text like 'FUCKING RAPED SLUT YOU ARE WORTHLESS TAKE IT WHORE' and no thanks.

No. 84460

>>84459
I lost the link by now, but one of my favorite porn vids (kek) was a romantic bondage scene where one guy handcuffed the other to the headboard, blindfolded him, and used different toys to stimulate him in between kisses. I never quite found another one like it. :(

No. 84461

>>84439
im gonna out myself as a total fucking weirdo


i am one of these lunatics. i'm normal (in college, live with my boyfriend), and we are both thin/fit, conventionally attractive, successful people in our early 20s. we were cool in high school (not the weird kids) etc.

i think what turns me on about it is my control being taken away / the humiliation aspect. It has something to do with vulnerability and fear. the stuff that turns me on the most (for instance) is porn where a man forces his girlfriend / punishes her by putting her in a diaper and torturing her until she uses it, then mocks her in a baby voice

it's definitely the embarrassment aspect

No. 84462

>>84401
i'm >>84461

I relate to this post a lot. I have never / am not aroused by looking at men or women, and get very very little out of mutual sex. i only enjoy masturbating, alone, to my kink.

No. 84463

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I hate people that involve the public/random people etc. in their kinks. Pic related.

No. 84464

>>84463
that is fucking bizarre and so so so cringe

No. 84465

>>84462
>>84461
Hey anon, if it makes you feel any better, I don't think you're mentally ill or a lunatic or whatever. I don't think most people with weird kinks are ill - they may have some crossed wires in their brain that most other people don't, but they are actually pretty normal/average otherwise.

No. 84472

>>84461
Im >>84459 and wanted to add that while it's not my thing I don't think there's anything wrong with you guys as long as you only do/discuss it in private spaces where everything is consensual and doesn't involve underagers
I'm glad you have each other, you do your thing

But shame on these >>84463 assholes, save it for a kink club
and shame on people who write their shitty sex RPs on reblogged tumblr posts

No. 84546

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And then there's the feedee / weight gain kink crew

No. 84587

I fucking hate the word kink. Just call it fetish like civilized people

No. 84589

>>84587
I think fetish implies that it's the only thing that gets you off, while kink implies that you can still get off in other ways?

No. 84601

>>84589
that's not true. the only difference is fetishes are things people are more obsessed about.

No. 84603

>>84462
that doesn't make you asexual tho.

No. 84612

>>84397
Being into girls with daddy issues isn't the same as being a ddlg fetishist though. Some guys just scope out that kind of girl because it makes them feel "mature" to be the obviously leading figure in the relationship.

No. 84613

>>84440
Iktf. It's worse on /pt/ where you have people actively cheerleading for venusangelic, kanadajin and even kabukiqueen. There was some bitch in the kabukiqueen thread talking about how she was awful because she could never make it as a "real top class Japanese escorts". When the fuck did we become overrun with Asian fetish weebs who want to become lolcows themselves?

No. 84614

>>84612
Can we say that that kind of guy has a kink? Either way it skeeves me out on so many levels. Any kind of situation where a guy is into women with those kinds of issues just disgusts me.

No. 84632

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No. 84633

>>84463
I have seen this like a dozen times and its still so fucking weird to me that there are grown adults acting this way. Filthy freaks.

No. 84668

Is there a kink for kink shaming? Like "Oh yeah! Shame my uvula fetish!"

It's got to exist.

No. 84669

>>84668
just verbal humiliation probably. i mean, no matter what your kink is, all it's gonna come down to is "you're a pervert cause you <like whatever> and it's disgusting shame on you you're so gross" or "oh yeah i'm a dirty naughty pervert who <likes whatever> i'm so sick and gross" it doesn't matter what you use as the specific example

No. 84673

My kink is being shamed for my kinks. This thread is perfect.

No. 84678

Was in an abusive relationship with someone who lied about his age, he turned out to be 40 and admitted to having an asian race fetish and young girl fetishes. he's also a cokehead who grew up in an extremely fucked up household.

now he's dating this ridiculously stupid, talentless, and ugly girl who posts thinly veiled little girl shit. i didn't care about this fetish until that bullshit human forced his garbage into my life, now i judge it so hard.

also grown ass women selling out their gender to act like little girls publicly is fucking tacky and weak as hell. i have no respect for that and i legit do not care.

No. 84684

ddlg/ageplay is disgusting
one of my exes turned out to be a babyfur and we were friends until i found out about it

No. 84686

>>84601
What? Fetish literally means the thing you need to get off with, kink doesn't.
Go learn

No. 84692

>>84684
an honorable decision

No. 84699

>>84673
Hey there Jeroen

No. 84705

>>84699
PLEASE DON'T MAKE ME REMEMBER THAT

No. 84710

>>84632
let me die

No. 84714

>>84472
>shame on people who write their shitty sex RPs on reblogged tumblr posts
I saw some drama about this a while ago. A girl posted a pic of her outfit, it wasn't anything revealing or fetishy, just normal cute clothes. Dd/lg people started reblogging it and adding captions like "omg i want to wear this while daddy covers me with his sticky cummies uwu". The girl in the pic was also underage. Understandably, people got really pissed off at the dd/lg faggots and there was a huge slapfight about whether "kinkshaming" is worse than writing graphic sexual comments on teenagers' posts without their consent.

No. 84718

>>84386
People like this should be sterilized. Disgusting.

No. 84720

>>84463
Why do people need to do this at a school? wow. That is beyond fucked. You wanna have fucked up fetishes? that's fine, but keep it in the bedroom and as long as it is consensual.

No. 84721

Jeroen we love you post more!

No. 84722

>>84632
Kill these people. Please.

No. 84723

>>84686
I thought Fetish meant to make a non-sexual object, sexual? Like a glasses or foot fetish?

No. 84742

There's so much wrong with femdom I won't even go there. I have a qt sub bf and I don't really like porn so I don't have to interact eith that fucking toxic community.

No. 84743

>>84742
explain

No. 84753

>>84686
no it's the degree of obsession. look it up.

No. 84755

>>84743
not that anon but a lot of femdoms are dumb, entitled 'feminists' that don't understand the dom/sub dynamic and are just in it to ball bust evil menz, or they're fat bitches who think that having beta cucks lick their feet makes them attractive.

No. 84757

>>84714
People are so defensive of this shit. How hard would it be to just admit they fucked up? If their kink didn't look bad before, it does now!

People need to realise that kinks immediately become creepy when you drag non-consenting strangers into them. Even if your kink is vanilla sex at 9pm, it becomes weird when you force other people into it.

No. 84759

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>>84743
All of the problems basically stem from the fact that the ratio of dominant women to submissive men is like 1:10 or bigger.
On sites like fetlife you get creeped on constantly, much more than regular sites.
Dudes don't really care about your needs, they just want you to be a fetish dispenser.
The porn, like most porn, is completely aimed at men, it's 99% pegging, lame uninspired whipping, bootlicking and cuckolding (ew)
Dudes feel the need to put their fetish into everything,every single action is fetishised.
Then there are the regular kink "community" things like demanding you call some 37-year accountant maitresse josephine at a munch eveb though you're not their sub, there's dumb bitchy elitism and hierarchy and of course the protecting actual abusers/rapists.
The women aren't angels either: there are also some actual misandrists who legit think men are pigs and made to serve them. And there are tonnes of scammers and prostitutes.

I know this sounded ranty, but I though I could use the "community" to get to know people and learn about my sexuality, all I got was uncomfortability and headaches. My bf didn't evdn bother with it and just gave up on it. We got together in a total vanilla setting and after a few months of dating we were honest and non-judgemental about our desires. I just feel embarrassed that my relationship and those of others are associated with that bunch of disfunctional tards.

No. 84762

>>84755
actually the feminists are all subs, which is hilarious on so many levels

No. 84767

>>84759
>that bunch of disfunctional tards

I wonder if there's a scientific reason why so many literal autistics are into kinky sex? Ive noticed that the "queer" crowd is full of them as well, probably because they cannot understand gender roles and therefore latch onto the genderqueer movement.

No. 84787

>>84767
Autistic here, pretty sure that's just confirmation bias. I know a lot of autistic people and most of us aren't even into sex at all, I just think it sticks out more than a normal person being into kink because we're already a different type of people.

No. 84800

>>84759
this post is pretty on point imo.

there's a disarming similarity between loud&proud fetishists and weebs, in a weird way. they're both so awkward and cringy to be around, absolutely no self-awareness.

No. 84827

>>84762
it's actually isn't and makes perfect sense. sex is theater and a healthy way to deal with power structures. if you have been traumatized by fucked up men, it's an extremely common thing to repeat that cycle. as long as it's consensual, i don't see the problem.

another way to look at it is that it's extremely nice to surrender your power to someone you're deeply attracted to when you're under so much pressure dealing with actual oppression.

doesn't have to be your thing, but really it's clear you didn't actually consider what you wrote before questioning something pretty base-level obvious.

No. 84853

I once stumbled upon some female dehumanization fetish tumblr blog… shit was so disturbing I legitimately felt sick for days. worst part was the person running the blog was a woman. I have no idea what their url is but I remember them going into detail about how their ultimate goal is to be stuffed into a body suit with only a hole for the mouth, vagina, and ass and be beaten shit/pissed on, and used as a "fuck thing" for the rest of their life, never being free again and living blind and immobile until the "superior male" has fucked her to death.

women who hate their own gender are so depressing:/

No. 84863

>>84853
As much as tumblrtards like to pretend that every fetish is harmless, I genuinely think that fetishes for extreme violence/degradation are unhealthy. Extreme BDSM is basically a form of self harm. These people should be in therapy instead of posting their gross sex pics on tumblr/fetlife for validation

No. 84864

Anything related to DD/LG, "Rapeplay", heavy BDSM in general, raceplay, and "incest play" are all disgusting.

And on that note, why can't I find any other (mostly) vanilla lesbians? I swear, they all want to be dominated and/or call me "Mommy". I'm fine with being the dominate one but fuck no, I won't pretend to be your mother.

No. 84900

An oldie but a well of kinkshaming: furries. More spesifically, that one weird subgroup that's into 'feral' porn.

It's so weird, but some furries have a fetish for their cartoony characters getting it on with feral animals. So like furry beastiality?

And one fetish I can't wrap my mind around is the 'flattening' thing. Like how in cartoons characters get flattened to a thin pancake? There's apparently a very active fetish community for that.

For actual life action 'doable' fetish stuff is penis and vulva pumping. It can hugely damage your genitals and looks like a somehow had a very, very aggressive allergic reaction to sitting on a scorpion.

No. 84904

>>84900
feral porn is awful.
i do noooot understand furries who draw porn that's completely lacking in erotic quality, a picture that contains people having sex, but no focus made at all on the sex.

though this is not exclusive to furries. i see it with many people, often "artists" who start drawing anime titties so they can draw porn of orihime or some shit like that. you'll be able to tell, i'm sure. for most, the obscenely detailed genitals will stand out. if they are a furry, you look for the inverted triangle smooth plate stabbed with a butter knife. a sure sign of an artist who learns through copying what other people draw.

No. 84934

I am super into bdsm, but tying your breasts up so tight they turn purple is so fucking disgusting. Also first doing anal and then a blowjob, without washing the dick first, why the fuck would anyone want to do that? It's like sucking a shitticle

No. 84936

>>84934
>I am super into bdsm
You're not any better tbh, stop trollshielding

No. 84938

>>84936
Yeah, but my tits will be better since they wont be in necrosis after a session.

No. 84957

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>>84938
Thanks to you I just googled breast necrosis and I don't regret it

No. 84958

>>84957

Huh, well would you look at that.
Honestly I have no medical training, but gods I'd have loved to have been the one to perform that mastectomy.

They would have had to have had to cut out a considerable amount of flesh to ensure the dead tissues were completely separated, gonna be one hell of a scar.

Do you think the inverted nipple is a result of the necrosis causing tissue collapse? How did it even get that bad in the first place? I mean, that's a pretty extensive amount of necrotised flesh.

No. 84959

>>84957
>>84958

Okay, I just Googled it. This woman was a former Miss Mississippi that was later diagnosed with type-2 diabetes. She did not adjust her diet, and…. This happened.

No. 84960

>>84958
I was wondering about that anus-looking nipple too. I think it is from the necrosis because I've never seen inverted nipples look this bad. You know how when you were a kid and your boobs didn't develop yet, it just looked like you had a little horizontal line instead of a nipple? I think that's what they're supposed to look like even if they're inverted. But this shit is like a gaping nipple hole.

Anyway I just looked that up too and it seems mostly some random blog sites posting the story so I wonder if it's made up. It doesn't even give the lady's name.

also you sound fucked up and I like it

No. 84980

>>84960
Nah, if you have inverted nipples + giant saggy cow udders and they get hard, they can definitely look like this.

No. 85018

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No. 85023

>>84904
Artist who do porn but draw the genitals completely detail-less and nondescript creep me out. It's fine in a quick sketch or when a scene focuses on a complicated position, but I've seen fucking polished closeups of what basically looks like a hot dog spilling mayonnaise on a bread roll. Who the hell gets off to that? If you're so bothered by how genitals actually look why do you even bother with porn ffs

No. 85029

I'm definitely disturbed by people with amputee fetish. I understand what lies behind it - the helpless girl in need of attention and care 24/7, but then there's focus on the fact that they are physically unable to resist. I remember seeing a giant gallery with years worth of pictures, all dedicated to a story about a "care home" where "rebellious" girls would get sent and punished for minuscule things with amputation until they're completely broken and turned into fucktoy torsos. How can a person who's so heavily into maiming and breaking women build actual relationships?

I'm also similarly creeped out by the bimbofication fetish, and yes, it's exactly what it sounds like.

No. 85034

>>85029
you know, a lot of fantasy things don't actually seep out into the real world. i'm obsessed with extreme body modification and extreme masochistic brainwashing, on females. but i definitely don't want to do that to dudes or have it done to myself. there's a realm of fantasy that it doesn't leave.

i think that only people who are really mentally messed up don't have a grasp on fantasy vs reality.

No. 85036

Raceplay is the worst, every person that has it, that I know, has been deeply insecure and had some inferiority complex for white people. Usually they were black women or Asian men. I'm not a SJW but I honestly just feel bad for them.

No. 85037

>>84863
>As much as tumblrtards like to pretend that every fetish is harmless


I think this is the most harmful thing the entire 'sex-positive' community promotes. There's no self-reflection, just encouragement. Nobody even wants to find out why they like something because that's evil patriarchal sex-negative kinkshaming.

As a result you get people who mutilate themselves, degrade themselves, "race-play", and involve random unwilling strangers (possibly children) in their fetish.

No. 85038

Personally, I don't get mummification kink/fetish. Just…why? Is it the adrenaline of 'we nearly died while doing it!'? Or is it the feeling of not being responded in sex while not having sex with an actual corpse? Either way, I still think mummification is fucked up.

No. 85041

>>85038
It's just a more extreme version of bondage kink, just the feeling of being restrained and powerless. It's basic af and harmless compared to all the other stuff that's been mentioned.

No. 85043

>>85037
"Sex-positive" makes me want to gouge my eyes out. I'm not a prude in the least bit, but the kind of people who use the phrase are obnoxious "my body my choice!!!" SJWs.

"Body positive" is annoying as hell too. Just because someone wants to lose weight doesn't mean they hate themselves.

No. 85044

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>>85029
everybody's got at least 1 edgelord kink they think about but never try or want to try.
Like I'm into knifeplay, bloodplay, and public humiliation but I'd never do anything like that to my girlfriend because I care about her too much to endanger her or harm her for the sake of my fetish.

My point is that no matter how fucked up fetishes can be most people have limits and know when to call it quits.
But i'm sure you know that already so I'll stop mansplaining :^) to you

No. 85046

>>85034
>>85044

Sure, I enjoy some fairly fucked up kinks too, but all I do is read a short story or look up a hentai comic. I don't devote hours upon hours of my time, for YEARS, thinking up actual characters and storylines about slowly mutilating them just so I can come. It just seems like the more grim the fetish is, the more obsession it causes and often it crosses into the "too much" territory where it's like it runs the person's life.

Then again, I'm probably biased since I had to deal with a sperg who insisted on publicly displaying his gore fetish and trying to drag women around him into it, so IDK

No. 85047

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>>85046
Got any stories on the sperg??

And it depends on the fetishes, some are so obscure and messed up that you have to go to great lengths to scratch the itch otherwise things can get hairy and you might get tempted if you have next to zero self control.

I dunno though, I'm not a fetishologist or anything.

No. 85048

>>85046
Try hanging out with multiple spergs who wear fucking slave collars and pet each other in public and don't understand why other people are uncomfortable with it.

I need new friends.

No. 85049

>>85048
Why are you hanging out with furries in the first place anon?

No. 85052

>>85049
>>85049
They're not furries, but they are poly/kink autists. Or if they're not clinically autistic, they're socially retarded enough that they might as well be. They're in my broader social group, so due to mutual contacts who are thankfully far more normal, I end up around them.

No. 85057

>>85048
>Try hanging out with multiple spergs who wear fucking slave collars and pet each other in public and don't understand why other people are uncomfortable with it.


Did you meet them on fetlife? I swear to God these people are the reason I stopped going to munches.

No. 85059

>>85057
Man, I thought I had it bad when I went to a munch and met a bunch of awkward fatties and nerds. At least nobody was wearing collars.

No. 85062

>>84827
>sex is theater and a healthy way to deal with power structures

that's maybe the most retarded thing I've ever heard in my entire life. congrats.

No. 85071

>>85062
Different anon but it's a well known thing that people sometimes use sex and rituals in sex to work through issues or experiment with identity etc
It's not our fault you've been living under a rock this whole time, you obviously have access to the internet and all

No. 85073

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>>85071
>Different anon but it's a well known thing that people sometimes use sex and rituals in sex to work through issues or experiment with identity etc
It's not our fault you've been living under a rock this whole time, you obviously have access to the internet and all
I really, really hope I'm being rused

No. 85074

>>84957
I want to pull that hair.

No. 85079

>>85023
i see it too, it can go both ways really

the grotesque sagging flaps in moon over june are of absurd detail, resembling the wood ear mushroom. others are more along the lines of pompei graffiti wangs or common stinkhorns.

No. 85082

>>85071
enjoy your pedo diaper fetish I guess

No. 85089

>>85071
Definitely, SEX RITUALS are a great way to find out what your special snowflake tumblr identity is. This is known.

No. 85543

>>85089
Even something as vanilla as angry sex or makeup sex counts as using sex to work through issues ya dumb shit

No. 85544

>>85543
>angry sex

????

No. 85563

>>85543
yeah that's actually maladaptive and not going to help anyone to "work through issues" at all.
people do all kinds of dumb shit, it doesn't help your mental health.

this is retarded romantic comedy tier shit. real life don't work like that.

No. 85582

>>85543
Makeup sex isn't actually used to make up though, it's the sex that comes after you've already made up. The issues have already been worked through.

>>85563
Agreed. Just fucking instead of actually sorting shit out sounds ridiculous. Angry sex solves nothing. The shit you're mad about doesn't go away, unless you're mad about lack of sex or something.

No. 85621

I despise dd/lg. Like, even furries make me cringe less compared to how much I gag everytime I read something like "choke me daddy" "babygirl" "cummies" and shit. I wish this trend kink (because it is a trend) would just disappear asap. Everything is less cringy than dd/lg.

No. 85639

Does anyone else find it really pleasurable to getting a guy off? Like making a masculine man writhe in pleasure and grunt when you get him off and making him completely subjected to your will? I think this falls under dom.

Also, not really a kink but I vastly prefer average to smallish dicks to large dicks. They repulse me and just saying, genitalia usually looks disgusting especially if it's not groomed.

No. 85646

>>85621
>cummies
for a really long time I thought this was just a joke because I couldn't imagine a sexual scenario where saying it out loud to another person wouldn't make me laugh

No. 85647

>>85639
>Does anyone else find it really pleasurable to getting a guy off?
lol that's not a fetish, that's the most normal thing possible

No. 85648

>>85646
I'm guessing it's a part of the infantilization/baby talk thing, ew.

No. 85650

>>85647
Don't care, I like getting it off my chest since I've never talked about it to another female in real life.

I never realized girls can have just as deranged fetishes as guys, I thought all the over-the-top stuff was a guy thing considering they're more sexually driven. Maybe I'm just naive and uninformed horribly, like I said never talked about it in real life with anyone. I know domination fetishes are a bit prevalent amongst both genders though.

No. 85676

>>85621
yeah. fucking a cartoon character or becoming an animal isn't something you can do, it's ridiculous but basically harmless.

the roll play pedo shit, on the other hand, is just gross as hell. you know these guys would fuck someone actually underage if they could get away with it.

No. 85685

I don't intend to start a huge debate or anything but can I just say that shotacons/lolicons who claim their intense preoccupation with tender child ballsacks, as a way of "coping" with how they were once molested are sketchy 99.9% of the time, at least to me. since being a lolicon/shotacon and a victim are not mutually exclusive.

sure that may be a method but I don't give a shit if you're OPENLY blogging about how you want some fictional guy to rape his daughter because it's So Sexy ^w^
what purpose does fucking posting that serve? i'm sure it will help your cause when it's alongside posts about your love of kidnapping/torture/fear

No. 85704

>>85685
if that were a legit means of coping with abuse at all, it'd be incorporated into all kinds of talk therapy. it just straight up doesn't help, all moral implications aside.

it's a natural reaction (in some cases) but absolutely does not deal with abuse constructively.
it's like cutting yourself and calling it "radical self-care," total BS.

No. 85705

>>85704
not to mention pedophiles without that background will start to flock to them thinking they're in good company

No. 85709

>>85685
Do you know what mutually exclusive means?

No. 85723

>>85639
Liking making your partner orgasm is literally the most basic thing ever, that's not a fetish.

No. 85731

I can understand and even tolerate I guess a LOT of fetishes, but an earlier post on here just reminded me of one I find completely wtf: circumcision.


I've read some of the people in pro-circumcision groups (there was one with "mountain" in the name) are actually some kinda pedos with this fetish and they record childrens' medical circumcisions to later sell or fap to… I'd find links for you where I've read about it but I don't want NSA to think I'm into this.

No. 85805

>>85036
ia. I've knew a white/mexican mixed man that had this insane fetish for asian women. But he was a small man with narcissistic personality disorder, so I think he just loved projecting weird stereotypes onto his parters.

It's just as gross when the women he's with play into it submissively. Fuck off for real.

No. 85810

I just don't understand why being a shitty person is tolerated as long as "BUT IT TURNS ME ON :)" is an excuse.
No.
Fuck you it's not. Consent is nice but you literally like to hurt people, or get hurt. Or racism or sexism. Why is it suddenly okay just because it gets you hard or wet?
Consent is the answer, sure. People can do whatever they want as long as they consent to it I agree. But maybe you should examine WHY that sort of shit turns you on.
Not to mention, as much as the BDSM community likes to show off about how "safe" and "consensual" they are, they are still tons of very fucked up people who don't care either.

No. 85812

>>85810
That reminds of that time kink.com and sex-positive feminists' golden boy: James Deen, turned out to be a rapist.

No. 85818

incest is so gross…i literally can't go through the osomatsu tag without seeing it especially. i know that i can just tumblr savior but the fact that people make content about it makes me sick? then people excuse it and say that it's a coping mechanism because they're incest survivors how does that make any sense

No. 85819

>>85810
>racism
>sexism
>a shitty person
Fucking tumblr

No. 85822

>>85810
Cause (consensual) sexual pleasure > your feelings

No. 85831

>>85812
The only reasons they had for crowning him golden boy were stupid anyway. "He makes eye contact while they have sex!" "He smiled in this gif!" The standards were so low.

No. 85834

>>85812
Sex-positive "feminists" are so retarded. They don't understand that "kinkshaming" and "slutshaming" are largely ways to protect women from predatory men. Probably because they never leave their houses and interact with men irl, much less have sex.

No. 85835

>>85834
Ugh. So much this.

No. 85836

>>85818
Osomatsu is aimed at fujos. What did you honestly expect? The show is already full of blatant incest-bait, why are you so surprised when a majority of the fans end up making content about it?

No. 85840

>>85834
>>85835
if you point that shit out they just cry victim blaming!!!

i've said it before but whatever caused them to think that sexual assault and rape are somehow different in terms of safety and precaution than murder or abuse or the like is really really really messed up.

No. 85863

>>85836
Im not really surprised, but it's when they justify it and make up random bull where they talk about how it helps them cope because they're a survivor of incest or some shit. WOULDNT you WANNA keep that nastiness down low or to yourself?

No. 85867

File: 1460407108703.png (147.1 KB, 600x513, snoozy saxon.png)

>meet girl on lolcow
>have a nice time playing vidya together
>share videos and pictures of each other and stuff
>one day says that she has something to tell me
>she touched herself to pictures of me while imagining us having sex holding hands in the missionary position

fucking slut

No. 85870

>>84957
WHAT A FUCKING NIGHTMARE HOLY FUUUUUUCK



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