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No. 7562

New confession thread because the other one turned to shit.

No. 7572

I'd like to have an online presence again, but I'm way too comfortable with anonymity now for that to happen.

No. 7573

When I was little and my mother had a different boyfriend to the one she has now. I used to hear them fucking at night in the next room, I know it's sick to say but I kind of enjoyed hearing the moaning and panting. Looking back, it's sorta hot.

I've never actually had sex… I've had like friends touch me when we messed around jokingly, I used to let my cousins poke me in my private parts when I was a little girl (they were girls) when we were rolling around the floor laughing and playing games. But sometimes I dunno… I just want someone to fuck me real bad. Like, sometimes I even want to meet up with some guy on craigslist.

I almost did… a year ago, but I saw him in person and he was ugly. I never actually met him, I just kind of hid and peered then left him standing there waiting/trying to call me.

I like porn… I don't always watch it. The first time I did was when I was eleven… It was when we first got the internet, I found some dodgy link when I was researching something for school and it was two lesbians… I just thought the whole thing was… immense, I mean looking back now it's shit as anything and fake… But I felt my insides squirming when I first ever saw two girls lick each other out. I didn't even know people did this! I was kind of innocent I guess, I mean I first found out about sex when I was six because of my dad's girlfriend's daughter telling me… She said "Didn't you know parents had sex?" and I was so clueless, I said "N-No? What is it?" and she told me. I wasn't bothered, I was more curious and I never told anyone because she promised me not to tell.

I'm actually bisexual… I've made out with a girl, I wish it DID lead to something else and if it ever does happen again I'll gladly fucking take the opportunity.

But I'd really like to be fucked by a guy… Just real, real good.

Oh my god… I'm such a pervert.


I kind of like it actually ;)

No. 7574

Candy Chang sounds like a fake name. My sister's friend's last name is Chang.

No. 7578

>>7573

I'm kind of the opposite. I hate sex, but pretend to be into it so I can have a romantic relationship. I lie a lot about having "lady problems" and end up needing to get blackout drunk and on benzos to get into it.

No. 7580

>>7573
You sound a lot like me, except I haven't even kissed a girl.

No. 7582

>>7572
we know you'll be back, Kiki.

No. 7583

>>7580

It happened at a party three years ago, since then I've kissed nobody :(

I miss it aha

No. 7588

I'm 24 and haven't had sex or kissed anyone since I turned 18. Haven't had a bf since I was 16. I've been asked a couple of times since then, but I turn everyone down because I'm afraid they'll regret being with me.

No. 7606

>>7572
Sure thing Totemokawaii.

No. 7608

You guys were the one who turned the thread to shit by being biased against me. Your picture name gives away your identity. I know who you are, Chang. You are one of my sister's friends and if I see you, you're going to wish you hadn't crossed paths with me.

No. 7609

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No. 7611

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No. 7617

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>used to be Rank 44 out of whole sophomore class (i'd guess around 800 students)
>received certificate for "all A's, one B"
>currently failing three classes bc I haven't turned multiple assignments
>been hiding this from my mom (who'd be furious with me for getting anything below a 95, let alone a 42)
>last week of school for me to try and make up for those missing assignments

I don't know what happened but I can't motivate myself to try anymore; I even have all my assignments right in front of me as I type this but I haven't started on a single one

No. 7619

>>7608
You are 200% insane.

No. 7622

>>7617
I know that feel, anon. It's overwhelming and depressing as fuck.

No. 7623

>>7617
happened to me this semester, I actually mentioned it in one of the threads because of how lousy I was feeling. I've had nothing but A's and A-'s for the last 3 yrs up until the semester, where I earned 2 A's, an A- and 3 B+'s. The latter 3 pissed me off so much because for all 3 classes, I earned an 89%, 89.02% and an 89.25% with no curves. I was so close to getting an A- on all 3 but it just didn't work out.

It's been a week since then and I can say I feel soooo much better. It really isn't a big deal. Don't put off your assignments due to you expecting low grades (been there before, made them up an hour before they were due on numerous occasions and surprised myself with how well I did). You can do this anon. you have before, the difference this time is that you don't want to.

However, you will be hitting yourself over the head for letting yourself get carried away like that and not doing your work. Just start.

At least cover one section of your work. If its essays, get the outline done and the intro, it should spark enough of a flame in you to do the rest.

Sometimes it helps to write a shitty version of what you'd turn in and then revise that.

Motivation here is key, and if you're like me it's probably a race against the clock that will get you to move. Hopefully it won't be like that, so just try something to lessen your load.

No. 7626

I never understood people who aim to get As in everything. Just spend your time on the subjects you enjoy and you will naturally get As with little effort. For everything else do your best but don't stress about it or waste your time on a lost cause. When it comes to applying to university just don't mention that you got a D in Latin or whatever because they don't care anyway.

Every "straight A" person I've known has been some super stressed girl. Sure they all ended up at Oxbridge but so did the chilled out guys at the back of the class who could prioritise their workloads.

No. 7627

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I think I'm fixated on PT because she's what I'll be if I don't get my shit together. I'm 22, a college droppout, have barely worked, and have poor social skills due to being sheltered as a teen. I browse /pt/ and /r9k/ all day and don't get anything of value done.
During manic episodes, I try to build myself up as a sexy anime/alt whatever but I do it for the validation and attention. These episodes have ruined my rep, as it leaks onto FB and Twitter, where RL people can see my insanity.
Thankfully, my moods have stabled out, due to abstaining from doing so much drugs/alcohol, and the support of my bf.
Right now I live the NEET life, sleeping during the day, and spend almost all the time with my bf, who basically lives with me right now. I know it's unhealthy, but for now it's comfy. I'm trying to take care of myself more, help around the house, and learn more than basic cooking skills, but I know I have to go into the outside world for money eventually, as I don't have much savings and my bf doesn't have a job either.
I want to go back to school but I know I have to undo the effects of the depression first, and set up preventative measures.
I wish there was a job for females that didn't involve much social interaction, but I guess it can't be helped. I wish I wasn't math retarded, otherwise I could do coding or computer stuff from home – nobody wants art, but people always need to make websites.
I wish I was as feminine as my body suggests. I can get into the surface of makeup, cute clothes, and acting cute, but I always revert to my tru self in the end.
Tl;Dr –I relate too much to /pt/, can't into my expected societal role

No. 7628

>>7626

That is so true, like here in England I got around 5 C's which are passes, 2 B's and 1 A still go into college (2 years here and its free when you leave school think of it has the last two years of US high school) and I'm 21, just applied for university this September and got in even though I never even passed my GCSE mathematics and science. It really DOES depend on what you want to do, not sure what its like over in the US but I wouldn't worry about it too much unless they demand it.

No. 7631

>>7623
That's actually pretty good advice, thanks!

>>7626
I'm >>7617 and yeah, I'm one of those super-stressed girls.

I've wanted to be a children's cartoon animator since 3rd grade, yet I'm just stressing myself out struggling to maintain all A's in all Pre-AP classes. I've been considering dropping most of them but… I don't know, I also kind of want to keep my rank, and I think I'd be disappointing my mom because I've been in advanced classes since elementary school, and then that would have all been for nothing.

Ugh, sorry for the blog post

No. 7632

>>7626
It depends, I don't aim to get A's but they happened anyway because I did all of my work, so it wasn't something I stressed over up until now. I'm also someone who happens to be interested in every subject I've taken except for one: bio. The reason I was pissed this semester was because I was sooo close to getting those other A-'s and it broke my streak, lol.

Also, I'm graduating from college this fall. I don't want those B's to affect my overall GPA when I apply to grad school, especially because I need my gpa to make a bit for the areas I don't have enough experience in since that is also factored into the acceptance decision.

A friend of mine has been rejected from every grad school she applied to because she was too relaxed about her grades, the same way she was in hs, only earning a 2.7 gpa. So it also depends on what you're aiming for. The grad school I'm applying to and which some of my friends are already in has a minimum gpa you have to have every semester or else you get dismissed from the school: a 3.0
Even if you don't like all of your classes here you're gonna have to make sure you get a good grade in them.

No. 7633

>>7627
No offense, but one of the things that bothers me the most about depression is that people know they're not doing enough to try and cope with it or to deal with their other problems. You could get a job and go to school even while having depression. If you succeed at both it may actually help you feel better.

No. 7635

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>>7627
>and the support of my bf.
>my bf
>my bf
>my bf

No. 7637

>>7633
that's not how depression works. people are different and have varying disease severity. you have no idea what you're talking about

No. 7646

>>7635
yeh, I was like "wow! that sound a lot like m—oh."

No. 7648

Nobody knows that when I'm alone and have nothing to do, I'll go through like 3 boxes of nitrous in a period of 1-2 hours… When I run out and realize I just went through 72 chargers of nitrous I feel like shit and am disgusted with myself for days after, but I still keep buying the shit.

No. 7653

I have depression and I still function fine. I go to school, work, pay rent and my bills. Before I didn't do shit with my life though. I was just constantly hurting myself, drinking all the time and being a little shit. I realized at a point that there's really nothing else I can do (besides taking pills but I hate them. Made me feel terrible) so I just started doing other shit. I still get depressed, I just got out of a huge slump, I'm fine still though. Then again mine isn't as severe as some people.

No. 7654

>>7637
DO you know how many people have major depression, are suicidal, who have had depression since they're childhood, etc and still work, go to school because they find it necessary?

Obviously the vast majority of people with depression this severe are not able to function properly or to the best of their abilities but quite a number still force themselves to do so, especially when you consider people of other cultures who experience/perceive depression differently.

No. 7656

>>7648
Are you kidding me? Honestly I'm not one to judge the use of drugs, but literally melting your brain with that shit is not about "idgaf it feels good/is kewl" or whatever, this is either plain fucking stupidity or, if you know what that shit does to you it classifies as self harm/mental suicide. It can and will literally turn you in to a retard. Get your dumb little hands on some LSD(if you absolutely need to drug yourself) and find some good music. Get therapy. Things can and will get better for you, but not from a dribbleriddden wheelchair wearing a diaper. Get real.

No. 7660

>>7656
>>7648
Hi I've only ever been high once in my life before, and it was from edibles, so idk much about drugs at all. Wtf is/are nitrous?

No. 7662

>>7660
Laughing gas. They use it at the denist's office and for whipped cream cannisters. You can buy boxes of the ones they use for whipped cream and inhale it. Shit will really do some damage to your brain and blood vessels. You do not want anon.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nitrous_oxide

No. 7666

It's been 2 years since I tried to kill myself and was hospitalized.

You'd think I'd be in a better place now, and from the outside I guess it would seem that way, but I still just want to crawl in bed and never wake up.

No. 7667

>>7656

You obviously don't know shit about drugs, you autist. I hate LSD it's not soothing or relaxing in any way. Nitrous is a dissociative, like Ketamine (one of my favorites), it doesn't "melt your brain" lol it's not like inhaling duster or other inhalants that can kill you because you're inhaling carcinogens. It's bad to use anything too frequently, but hey look at Steve-O now. He's not a drooling diaper-wearing retard after years of Nitrous (300+ a day) and other drug use.

No. 7668

>>7660
Ever had "laughing gas" as a kid? That's Nitrous Oxide. People call them whippits usually.

No. 7669

>>7656
not everyone that uses drugs so desperately uses them to be cool. some people don't have options – they self medicate, or kill themselves.

No. 7677

>>7666

On your low days… just do something nice for yourself, even if it's a hot bath or your favourite food, just do that. Keep taking small steps for yourself, keep moving forward.

No. 7697

i feel like a fat pig
im not a hambeast, but when i see girls my size i feel disgusted, i want a pretty, slender body. it seems guys want petite woman
but im just chubby

No. 7699

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>>7573
>;)
i feel sexually violated by your whole post
>no matter how hard i scrub, i'll never be clean

No. 7708

>>7699

omg im so sorry

No. 7713

Not touching the drugs debate because fucking shitstorms.

I'm incredibly depressed, lolcow. I have been out of a job for a month and I feel like a disgusting parasite. I've applied to over a dozen different places (I have a resume, experience and I'm in college) but so far I have heard absolutely nothing back. It's been two weeks and I'm becoming incrediy desperate.

I feel worthless because I go through periods of staying awake for 72 hours and then falling asleep for 24. I feel empty, and cold, and completely without value. I hate being out of work more than anything else. I feel suffocated.

I'm going to be traveling internationally for school this summer as well so no one will even want to hire me after I tell them that in the interview. No one wants to hire me. I'll never get a job and I'll never support myself. I'm just an ugly, fat, stupid pathetic unemployed loser and I want to fucking kill myself so I can stop being a leech on those who support me.

I don't want to be a cam whore or an escort either because I have a lot of sever PTSD from being raped early in my life and tbh being a whore would only depreciate my mental state. I just want a fucking fat food job or something, just to support myself and sop being a drain on society. I'm a piece of shit.

Fuck my stupid fucking existence.

No. 7716

I'm scared, lolcow. I'm currently going to university in a different country, and I really want to stay because I met the most amazing guy and I want to be with him for as long as I can, but I'm on track to graduate next year and I feel like it's hopeless to be able to find a job that'll sponsor a work visa that'll let me stay here. I don't think my grades are anywhere good enough to apply to graduate school and my dad is really pressuring me to finish school within 4 years though I'm thinking of maybe just taking up another undergrad degree instead of applying to graduate but I don't know how my dad'll take it since he has a quick temper and I've been scared of him since I was a kid.

I really should be looking for a job or volunteer opportunity this summer but the future freaks me out so much that all I can do is go straight home from class and watch anime. I also feel like it's childish and selfish to want to stay because of a guy but I've been depressed for as long as I can remember except this year I've been with him. This time last year I tried to kill myself and I'm scared that if I have to leave here I'll go back to those feelings again. The only job I've ever had was at my mom's work through nepotism so I don't even believe I can get anything through my own merit.

No. 7733

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Pity party thread? Okay.

I've been on a vodka bender for about a year after spending eight months getting turned down for work in my field. Yeah, I could have applied for service industry jobs, minimum wage is generous enough, but I really don't see what that would accomplish.

Pretty much all my savings is gone. I have enough money for one more jug, maybe two if I go mow some lawns. When that's gone I'm going to walk into the desert and open one of my common carotid arteries. Hopefully the coyotes will find me before the humans do. If anyone has to profit from my death, I don't want it to be humans.

No. 7735

I normally hate all these "oh me so depressed bluh blooh" confessions but I've lost all will to live. My health suddenly crumbled and I'm already too worn out mentally and depressed to do anything about it and follow through medication and treatment. I'm extremely tired and I have an unfulfilling job that pays well enough but makes me even more miserable. I'm lonely and I don't have a boyfriend and I doubt I will ever find one that's not an abusive fuck that ends up cheating on me. I cry a lot which also exhausts me more. My cramped apartment is a mess because I can't bring myself to clean it up. I've gradually lost my appetite. I've thought about suicide a lot during the past half a year and it's a comforting thought because my life has always been shit and I've always had to do everything the hard way. The only reason I try to avoid the thought is because I love my parents so much and they would be devastated if I killed myself. I'm just waiting my health to collapse completely so I could die by natural causes so my family wouldn't be devastated.

But in real life I'm always positive and never speak about this stuff to anyone and make a joke out of every drawback my life comes across. It's partially because nobody takes me seriously since every time I try to talk to someone about my problems they freak out and bail on me because "it'll pass because I know you can do it, anon! you're always so strong and brave!".

I fucking hate this life. And this is the first time I've publicly written my thoughts down and nobody knows about this. I have a lot more issues too that make my life miserable but someone could doxx me so fuck that.

No. 7747

>>7735
You seem to have a really tough time anon. I can relate to some of what you wrote; I went through a deep depression myself and didn't tell anyone about it. Everytime I opened up about it, it felt like people were thinking of it as just me being bummed out since I always seemed to troop through it and have my shit together.

There isn't much I can offer as way of help. Tidying up your flat might be a start, do something small like throw out some trash. Maybe doing something concrete to change your environment for the better might help?

When my place was a total mess, I am talking Chris-chan tier here, after I cleaned out the whole place, I felt so, so much better. It was humiliating to let others see how bad it was, but there was also this dimension of relief that they now finally know how bad it was.

No. 7763

>>7735
Are you me?

I've pretty much given up on this life. I'm done with it. No one will ever really love me and I will die alone. i'm hoping for reincarnation so maybe the next life will be better. So I can have "normal" things. Like love. I can't even talk to anyone anymore. I'm afraid they'll see me as some kind of unstable freak. hen I hear strangers laugh sometimes I think they are laughing at me because obviously I don't deserve to be around people.

No one listens to me either. When I try to tell my family I have problems they don't get it. So I gave up trying to get help from them.

Since I have an illness I keep hoping it will get worse and kill me. Even if death is just oblivion I'll take it over this.

No. 7881

Will someone be my e-therapist

No. 7891

>>7747
>Everytime I opened up about it, it felt like people were thinking of it as just me being bummed out since I always seemed to troop through it and have my shit together.

I feel this so much. Every time I try to talk about my feelings, they just think it's a passing moment of sadness and ignore it while it's actually me trying to leak some of the thoughts that constantly run through my head. I can't afford a therapist at the moment but hopefully I could soon after saving up for it.

As for cleaning up, I do it every now and then and it cheers me up momentarily, but as I mentioned my apartment is so cramped that it's hard to keep it from becoming a mess again.

No. 7901

I have a boyfriend that I love deeply, who I can trust and most important ; He love me too and he treat me so well…

BUT

I'm falling in love with a girl that I see daily at my school, we are becoming so close it's quite scary.

She told me that she wanted to have sex with me and it drove me insane. she also told me yesterday that she liked me enough to think about getting in a relationship with me, oh god. Everytime I see her I think about all that and I am so confused.

when we inadvertently touch, my whole body shiver and I just want her to touch me more and more, this situation is driving me insane.
I regullary go sleep at her house and it's so weird because i know that she want to have sex with me and she know I'm excited too, but we do nothing. We where really close and now it's getting all weird and it's all falling appart, we don't even kiss each other to say hello like we did before. It's simply impossible to have a physical interaction now.

I feel like such a slut because i want to have sex with her but i also want to date her and i don't want to loose my boyfriend… She is starting to be mad at me and she told me that she was thinking about cutting me of her life, I wanted to cry.
I'm afraid that she will leave me and that a will miss her so hard that I won't be able to love my boyfriend no more and I will be all alone.

No. 7904

>>7735
Woah there, this could have been written by me down to every last detail.

>But in real life I'm always positive and never speak about this stuff to anyone and make a joke out of every drawback my life comes across. It's partially because nobody takes me seriously since every time I try to talk to someone about my problems they freak out and bail on me because "it'll pass because I know you can do it, anon! you're always so strong and brave!".


This is one of the most frustrating parts. If I'm feeling brave enough to talk about how I feel it just doesn't make a big enough impact on the person I'm confiding in and I feel like a lying attention whore. I could be a sobbing mess at home but when it comes to speaking face to face I just can't express how I really feel and I end up awkwardly smiling from nerves. So people don't take me seriously and think it's just a single bad day or like you said, they get annoyed with your sudden negativity and distance themselves from you. Either way I end up feeling worse. As much as I'd desperately like support from close friends I've realized that it's a negative thing for me. Endlessly discussing a problem that has absolutely no solution (and by god, I have legitimately made efforts in multiple ways) just puts a constant damper on things and gets me down more. If it's something that could be worked on, then ok talk therapy could be alright, but I'm doing all the right things and am on a good non-destructive path and it's just not enough. Venting here is about as far as I'll go with bothering someone with my problems anymore.

No. 7910

I have a lot of deviant fetishes but I'm really too shy to advertise them or anything.
I unintentionally met like one guy and I found out he's into nearly all the same things as I am, and we did stuff, but then he told me he felt guilty and like he was manipulating me because I'm quite a bit younger than him.
I'm really frustrated and annoyed by this.

No. 7912

>>7901

You need to think about this very carefully before deciding. If you truly, really like this girl then tell your boyfriend, I know it's not easy to just say this compared to doing this. But it saves the hurt, don't cheat please. Just tell him or break it up… What about taking a break? It's none of my business but I just wouldn't want things to cock up for you. Don't know you but just thought I'd give out a useless piece of advice.

No. 7919

Confession: i think I'm aromantic or something.

I'm just starting to hate the guys i run into. Whenever i talk to my boyfriend, the conversation somehow always comes back to sex, or is dick or something. And since i don't want to hear about that shit all the time, i talk to him less and less, (its long distance so it is a lot easier to just turn off my phone and ignore everything). I'm also getting tired of him anyway. I always do with guys. I don't know why.

I'm not the romantic type either, in fact I'm starting to think i have commitment issues. Whenever a guy talks about marriage or kids, I'm instantly turned off. I don't want kids, i keep telling you i don't like them. Don't go say "oh ur gonna change ur mind with me". I won't, now fuck off. Confessions of love actually make me slightly uncomfortable, so i end up nervously laughing, and unfortunately my boyfriend took that as blushing or something. I even told him i didn't feel the same way about him, but i guess he decided it didn't matter? Dunno. Like i said, I've kinda been ignoring him in favour of self reflection.

And this always happens. Guys say they love me or whatever, and its like… i don't feel anything for you. I usually get complements on my cool/cold personality, but i don't think they realize that it takes over who i am. I just don't feel emotions in the same way as others do, i guess. I mean, I'd like to, because it really does suck when someone is in love with you, and you have to tell them you aren't in love. I don't know what anyone sees in me. I'm not a caring person, I don't like to say i love you to anyone othet than family, because it feels like a lie.

It annoys me, because i know I'm not as great as people make me seem. I get it, I'm a girl who isn't ugly and likes the same things as you. I won't throw a bitch fit or argue about things like most girls do, because I'd rather just chill. That's no reason to want to marry someone at all. Trust me, you'll be hurt in the end. My lack of affection will bother you to no end if we're together long enough. You'll constantly think I'm cheating on you, you'll feel down.

I don't even know why i bother dating people. Well, actually… i know how it happens. I'm usually too awkward to tell a guy i don't want to date him, because i don't want to hurt feelings, even though i know pity dating them won't help either.

I just… i dunno. I keep hearing about how one day someone will come in and make me fall in love with them, and how i better hope they don't treat me theway I've treated others. But i doubt it.

This has been really bothering me actually. It suuucks.

No. 7935

Confession: I'm embarrassed by how uneducated my boyfriend is. I can't get through a single conversation with him without having to explain the definition of at least one word. Sometimes they really aren't very complex words…But I know that anyone much smarter than him would recognize that I'm letting anorexia kill me and I don't want to die alone.

No. 7951

>>7919
i so feel you. i used to be this way. i really hate dudes, man. like, not ra ra feminist shill shit, but i just can't stand the conversation always coming full circle to busting a nut at some point. don't settle with anyone you're not feeling it for. guys suck. it's so hard to be a real person, it really is, and it's honestly jarring to be reminded of your sexuality/your sexual value/whatever, constantly, when you're just trying to become a whole person. don't waste your time with them unless you meet someone truly exceptional, anon. they hinder growth.

anyway, i found an awesome guy that has a low as fuck sex drive (they're really more difficult to come by than you'd think…) and we get along great. i was really uncomfortable with the romantic gestures because on my part, they were always insincere, but now it's very natural because he is a genuinely fantastic person and i hardly remember he has a dick, which is just excellent. i too was cynical about the marriage thing, and i still question how long he'll even be attracted to me for (idk people seem to have expiration dates when it comes to attraction), but i'm not so sure anymore. it might work if you're not getting hitched to the average joe, but then again, not really much of a point to it unless he wants it/financial reasons.

No. 7952

>>7935
That's really selfish of you anon. I don't care how stupid your boyfriend is, just being with him because you don't want to die alone is selfish. If you want to slowly kill yourself, do it alone. No one deserves having to watch someone they care about kill themselves. It sounds like you deserve to die alone. You are both stupid. One isn't book smart and the other is stupid enough to kill themselves in such a way. You are no better than Ashe.

Honestly, what is it with some people with anorexia not giving a shit about anyone but themselves?

No. 7956

>>7713
It's crazy that reading this reminded me of the same things I was telling myself 3-4 years ago. I genuinely hope you get a job, or at least even volunteering so that it can take your mind off of your misery for a bit, anon.

No. 7957

>>7733
Please don't. If you don't do it you can eventually find a reason to live.

No. 7960

>>7952
Well no shit it's selfish as fuck. That's why I'm posting it on an anonymous confessions board.

No. 7961

>>7952

It's a disorder anon.

No. 7962

>>7951

I'm glad someone gets how i feel, because honestly i was beginning to wonder if i was the problem. I mean, I'm glad you think I'm hot and you want into my "sweet vag" (yes he actually says that to me and it honestly makes me uncomfortable) but… i just want to talk to you as a person. I'm glad you're comfortable around me, but it doesn't mean you have to be crass and lewd.

Honestly i just thought he had a cute face and his friend insisted on hooking us up, even though i tols the dude not too. And its always that way… why are guys always so lewd. It's weird and honestly borders on being offensive. And they don't even take you seriously/get mad when you tell then it makes you feel awkward.

And the then they pull the i love you thing, which pushes me even further away.

I just don't know… i still feel like I'm being bitchy or something. It helps to know I'm not alone.

No. 7978

I wish I could put my zodiac sign in my descriptions, you know like people put shit like "Ally | 17 | Scorpio". but my sign is cancer, and I think that will be taken the wrong way or people will laugh at it or something

No. 7979

>>7978
lol same. you can always put the symbol, even though it looks like a 69.

No. 7983

>>7904
>Endlessly discussing a problem that has absolutely no solution (and by god, I have legitimately made efforts in multiple ways) just puts a constant damper on things and gets me down more.

Exactly. I used to talk about my problems to a close friend before but realized that I'm only annoying them and making myself seem unlikable, needlessly negative and distant, I stopped it. After that when my friend told me that they're so glad that I feel better now and a lot less stressed out, it was like a dagger to my heart. Only I can't get up in the mornings and constantly oversleep, sometimes break down in tears at work and I'm feeling more miserable than ever, but yeah, you could say that I'm feeling better now. It's getting really tiring to avoid talking about my problems so it's come to the point that I don't talk to people at all and avoid them altogether.

No. 8009

>>7912
I could never cheat on him, even if I really want to have sex with her, I love him so much and I don't want to hurt him. But if I leave him he will be hurt, I know it…
Today I saw her and she didn't talk to me for the whole day, it was so embarrassing and infuriating to me…
I'm starting to think that I will leave him, do the things I want to do with her and finally stay alone, I'm starting to realise that I see him as a friend that I have to protect and who I enjoy cuddling and do soft sex with. And I don't really want to be in couple anymore.

So many question!

This is so first world problem next to the really bad situation all of you are going through…

No. 8010

>>7910
tell me your fetishes anon

No. 8025

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I'm starting to dislike my mom despite her being the only family I have and the only person I actually know and talk to.(not including anonymous boards)
I cannot find a job where I live, I have no schooling past high school and no special skills. I have never had a job before because I was an idiot and became a neet after high school. I'm 24. I regret it. No one will hire me.
I don't blame my mom for starting to hate me because I know how much of a disappointment I have become. Yet I'm still hurt by it. I'm tired of hearing her constantly going on about how I'm a bitch, or blaming me for everything when I'm not even at fault (her dropping milk and it's my fault because I opened it, falling on some ice and it's my fault because I wasn't walking in front of her, her burning her food because had I done it for her despite puking my guts out sick it would have been fine)
She'll get right in my face and scream down at me about how I'm lucky I haven't been kicked out to the streets. She's also slapped me around a few times and I feel so stupid that I'm an adult who is scared of her own mother sometimes. We used to get along.
I don't want to have to resort to stripping on camera to earn some money just so I can move out. I really don't want to go in to that line of work.

I just want to make some money and leave and start over on my own.

No. 8027

>>8025
I spent two years of my highschool years and like you I too now have a mother that hates me for that reason. Funnily enough I've still completed my GCSE's and got an A in English, heck I even got into college, but nothing has fixed our relationship. She still holds those two years where I didn't go outside against me, even forcing me to get diagnosed but being annoyed when it was just anxiety. I'm only 19 so things could get a lot better, I just want to finish with college and do something about my life. Good luck with yours anon. With people over here it's fairly easy to get into college and it's not too pricey, even if it is you can get a loan that gets paid off when you're making enough money. As shitty as the education system is over here it's sad to see people still have it worse.

No. 8028

>>8027
I meant to put "I spend two years of my highschool years like that". Looks like that A in English isn't getting me as far as I hoped it would. Sorry for the illiterate trash people

No. 8030

I don't have any friends or family and haven't hung out with anyone since elementary school. My social skills are poor and I can't even make friends online because I feel like everyone already has their group of friends while I'm just here on my own.

I honestly can't see myself ever having friends or anyone to rely on through hard times at any point in my life even though I'm still so young. I genuinely believe I'm going to be alone forever and it really scares me.
I feel unwanted and drained.

Sorry for whining about my babby problem. Maybe some of you can relate, though.

No. 8034

>>8030

I think you'll find somebody, at least one person to get close to. You're young, you've got the future to look forward to. This is just the beginning, chin up.

No. 8080

>>8030
Do you play games? I can add you on Steam if you want

No. 8093

>>8025
Are you me?

Hang in there anon. Just get away from your toxic mum.

No. 8102

I feel like I can only get off to really depraved shit. I have tried to have normal relationships but I have never had a boyfriend who could get me off. I lost interest in having sex with them and then they lost interest in trying to have sex with me.

I know I was molested as a child and I had a lot of emotional abuse. After I finally had sex on my own terms at age like 18, I feel like I just started slipping further and further down the rabbit hole and I've gotten to the point where I'd rather just not have sex despite the fact that I do feel the desire to, and I'm getting to a point where I stop myself from masturbating.

I'm an adult. I don't know what to do. I don't feel like I can talk to anyone about this, even a therapist. Haven't uttered a word about it other than here.

No. 8117

>>8102
I have very similar issues anon. I ended up looking up a sexual health therapist. It helped me. It fucking saved my ability to have sex.

she made me feel less guilty about my fantasies, how to develop them into healthy things I can share with partners. I have now had a boyfriend for 3 years when I never thought I could date again. He is tender and kind and sweet, and a monster in bed who loves doing weird and depraved shit with me.

there is hope. I have so much for you <3

No. 8118

I suffer from severe manic depression. I have so many great opportunities but I can't handle them because I hate myself. I am a pathological liar. I was molested as a child and I still wake up from nightmares about it.

The only way I can cope is substance abuse. I would write a fucking novel but I can't because I'm high, and that's the only way I can think about what a fucking shithole my life is.

No. 8121

>>8118
have you gotten help with with medication and/or therapy? therapy groups? I don't know about the rest but I have huge sympathy for anyone with severe depression, and I tried countless things that actually helped to get me moving. The biggest thing you have to tell yourself is that all feelings are just a battle going on within yourself, and not actually a reflection of the real world or who you are, or how others see you. Depression can especially distort your perspective on yourself and everybody/everything else.

No. 8122

>>8118
I would recomend you to try to get help with a therapist.
My mother has suffered depression during my whole childhood (well she is still suffering from it and she will live with that for all her life…), she has even ben to a nursing home for a few month when I was 5-6 yrs old, be she never handled her depression very well. Didn't taker her medication, or not like she should have been.
A few year ago she started taking her problem really seriously and she take medication and have a group therapy once a week. It changed her in an incredible way, and I know that the person that she is now is the "real" her. Not that scary angry sad and who was constantly suffering person that I knew for all these years.
Please take care, people around will forgive and most importantly ; you will be able to have brand new relationship, letting go that suffering and those bad habit that you have now :)

No. 8124

>>8025
whoa anon. i know all these feels. i tried so hard to form a normal relationship with my mom but there was a breaking point where i realised this wasn't going to work. she didn't consider herself toxic

now, hey, working fucking retail is what got me away from home. i don't even care i don't make that much money because you can't put a price tag on peace of mind and a place where nobody's going to fucking yell at you for no reason

i know finding a job is hard but give it your best and keep trying. it's even harder when there's a psycho bitch preying on your hurt but tough it out! i believe in you!

>no one will hire me

well i hope nobody kicks me for this but i'm pretty sure fast food places etc. will. unless you think that's beyond you. a job is a job

No. 8164

i wish i had never gotten involved in egl/jfashion and then as a result, /cgl/, stamrose, lolcow, etc. my body image is shit. it seems like you're not good enough until you're under 100 lbs. i get tired of seeing people call dakota fat and imply that you're fat if you're not super-mega-loli skinny.

half the time it's nasty gossip about so-and-so having an eating disorder and shaming them for it, and the other half the time talking about how they're fatties because they gained 5 pounds or are wearing an unflattering dress. no one wins and it's rubbed off on me.

wish i could leave but i love the drama.

No. 8170

>>8102
>>8117
What kind of depraved things are you into if neither of you mind sharing? I feel that what I think about can be considered as such and it scares me sometimes. I feel very guilty after I get off to it and try and convince myself not to anymore

No. 8175

>>8164
Anon are you me?
I have the exact same thing, but most of the girls shitting on other girls size are insecure as fuck themselves and sometimes even fatties or simply trolling

No. 8176

>>8164
>>8175

The name calling, body shaming, etc is just the female version of calling everyone a nigger faggot.

Considering that literally everyone is called a fatty with a pig nose I find it hard to take any of it seriously. Most cows aren't as pretty as they think but not many are legit ugly either.

No. 8184

>>8170
i'm therapist anon.

some rape stuff. some incest stuff. some dom stuff. some sado/pain stuff.

Therapist informed me that it's all pretty "normal."

I'm an only child and I have a fantasy about an older brother figure taking my virginity. Therapist taught me that I'm not thinking about a real older brother, but an older and protective, strong male figure. So boyfrand and I roleplay him taking my virginity. He acts very dominant and strong and sure of himself and it gets me off.

Just an example.

No. 8190

>>8184
Ah, I do too! I have two brothers, but in my head when I fantasize it's some figure I've imagined as my brother. Most of my exes were the same way you describe your bf as and it really got me off. I didn't like having sex with one of the guys because he was so unsure about everything, not in the "do you like this?" sense but more of him not knowing what to do next so I would take the lead.

No. 8213

>>8184
>>8170
I only date younger men, or younger-looking men. I like them to act as my little brother and I like to dominate them. I don't want to fuck my actual brother, I just went through a similar thing of being manipulated/molested by someone I trusted and looked up to so I get off on turning the tables. It still feels weird because I do have 3 younger brothers.

The guy I am talking to right now is into dom/sub stuff and I THINK he would be OK with the incestuous overlay (we are both into anime lel) but idk it's one of those things I feel like will either be met with "YEAH let's do it" or "you're disgusting." We already have the right dynamic, so I'm afraid of messing things up.

I guess I know this kind of thing is fairly common (or the imouto-type wouldn't be so common) but hrm I don't know.

I'm also into shotacon…it's not because I'm into kids, it's because I'm into the idea of a young-looking/innocent childlike figure and taking care of them/taking advantage of them. So basically same as above. But that's one that I hate liking. The rational side of me knows that it's not because I like children and frankly understands why I'm attracted to it, then the part of me that knows everyone views lolicon and shotacon fans as pedos feels like I'm a sick fuck.

No. 8218

I just grew to hate almost everyone in my cosmetology class. One snapped at me today for no reason for "being too negative" and another one was talking shit to my friend. I guess if they were actually doing their best to get A's, get faster at hair and keep their financial aide grants, they'd be stressed as fuck too. But nope, they're barely passing by and they're lazy as fuck with bad grades.

They don't get that when you're suffering from depression and are stressed as hell, you're not going to be all sunshine and roses.

No. 8231

>>8218
you do sound super salty tho. what do you care about someone else's grades? you do you. that's all you gotta do.
are you one of those people that always complain at work? do you know how fucking annoying they get?

No. 8250

I don't understand why I need to unpack everything I brought back from college when I'm going back in August. It saves time. I know where everything is and I don't have to worry about accidentally forgetting something when it comes to packing again. Yes, it makes my room a mess, but I'm fine with that because I know it'll be gone soon. Besides, no one even goes in there aside from me and my door is always shut so no one even has to see it. It's also hard to organize anyways when you're fitting a dorm's worth of stuff in an already decorated bedroom. There just isn't room so why bother?

No. 8252

>>8231
These are the same bitches complain about, "Oh I need to raise my grades because of my loans!" and "I need to pass this test or I fail this semester!" and they're the same ones who are too busy playing high school and tried to bully an alternative girl into dropping out who didn't do anything to them aside from be weird due to her strange obsession with cats. Being near any of them in the salon is hell so I usually keep to myself but the one time I get angry about getting a horrible client, they act like I'm the worst person in the world. Fuck them.

No. 8254

I'm in love with the man who took my virginity, but I'm in a committed relationship.
The man who took my virginity is a very bad person.
My partner is a wonderful person and I care for him very much but I don't feel like true love will ever return.

No. 8322

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Honestly, I'm really getting tired of the way my bf treats me when he talks shit about my appearance. It's gotten to the point where that I get anxious when he looks at me, because he always says SOMETHING that pisses me off. Like, "Your make up looks cakey, why can't you wear your make up properly?" Or sometimes he does these backhanded compliments like, "You look really ugly with your hair down, but when you tie it up, it's pretty" He also talks about other girls CONSTANTLY while we are out, calling them sexy and telling me what about them makes them sexy/attractive etc.

The worst he goes on about is my weight. He treats me like I'm fucking morbidly obese (For the record, I'm 5'7 and 130lbs. Not really skinny but not a fucking hambeast) and that I can't 'handle' exercise. The other day he went on and on about how he wants to exercise together and blahblahblah, and I told him that really liked the idea. But then he started on again, "Hey, I don't think you'll be able to run far though…" While I am the one who actually jogged as a hobby in the past. He's never jogged more than 5 minutes in his lifetime. He's also the type of guy that will say, "Hey, let's eat pizza together. Oh wait, pizza has a lot of calories, maybe you shouldn't eat it. I guess I'll just eat it myself then"

He always tells me that I should really exercise more. As if I wouldn't if I had the extra time. I work 10 hour days so I can afford my rent and eat, and when I'm not working, I'm studying for some stupid test or writing some stupid paper so I can graduate early. I fucking miss exercising everyday and doing more than just 60 squats in the morning before work.

He's really making me self conscious about my weight again, and I haven't been this way in a while. I used to constantly not eat and restrict myself because of the fear of gaining weight. I've had it under control for about 6 months now, but every time he grabs my thigh fat and makes a comment about how squishy they are compared to his, my desire to just not eat anything comes back.

BF is Korean, and all of my Koreaboo friends are like "IT'S JUST THE CULTURE , DON'T WORRY TOO MUCH ANON" but I've dated plenty of Korean guys and they've never commented on my weight or appearance in a negative way, and I was significantly fatter at the time too.

No. 8323

>>8322
Your weight is perfectly fine. Please don't let it get you down. He sounds like an ass. I'm sorry, anon, but you should really get away from him. All of this negativity coming from him is doing you harm.

No. 8325

>>8322
Nope, nope, nope, time to cut him off. You don't have to change yourself, nor should he, just so that you guys can be in a happy relationship. If he wants a skinnier girl who does everything exactly as he wants and who he can demean, let him go find a girl who'll be happy with that while you date someone who loves those qualities about you, especially considering the fact that theres nothing wrong with you.

No. 8329

>>8322
Talk to him about how it's a problem, why it's a problem, your past issues with weight, and if he doesn't at least TRY to understand, break up with him because it won't get better.

No. 8333

>>8322
dump him now. this guy is redflags all over the place. its better to be single than deal with that shit on top of all the work and studying you have to do. honestly, you'll be happier.

No. 8335

>>8322
What a fucking piece of shit he must be really insecure to say such bullshit. Korean or not this is fucking awful and a disgusting behaviour to have. Dump his ass ASAP. Your weight is perfectly fine anon you are nowhere near fat anywhere in the world (am half korean myself and no we do not expect everyone to supah aegyo stick thin idorus nor all think you have to be like this to be pretty/cute/…) and you can eat that motherfucking pizza next time take a big bite and look at him in the eyes like "oh? what are you gonna do?"
Seriously dump him this is a huge redflag as said previously. You arent even ugly i am sure, he's just being an asshole for no reason (other than putting his insecurities on you maybe). Stay safe anon and don't let him bring you down

No. 8336

>>8322
Also squishy thighs are really cute and not just "ew gross there is fat there". Everyone has fat there or somewhere else it's normal to have a bit of squish please do not starve yourself. my legs are very skinny almost just like chicken legs…i get told about how skinny they are but i would love softer legs/body i would trade in a heartbeat not chub but softer. guess we are never happy with what we got eh

No. 8344

>>8322
It's not the Korean culture. Tell your stupid Koreaboo friends not to generalize and spread around faulty info. Assholes are assholes no matter what culture.

No. 8345

>>8176
>>8175
While I get what you guys mean with the trolling, there genuinely are some times were I can see that everyone agrees that the person in the photo is fat or chubby. It's hard to explain but there are two distinct types of posts – the ones that are just trying to get a rise or are made because they hate the person (most of the ones in the kota thread) and the ones that are like "looks like she's gained weight/she looks fat."

No. 8346

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I feel really envious of many of my friends from high school. I don't have any ill intentions towards them, and I love them, but I can't help but be jealous of their successes (most of us have graduated college this past month).

One of them is a super sweetie pie guy moving to Maryland to work in a college as a TA. Another just bought a brand new car, and moved to Vermont to work as an engineer. One girl works in a genetics lab by day, and is an exotic dancer at night. My best friend is a freelance videographer who travels to different states and also will be working for Apple.

I know they've worked hard for these things, and I have my own "successes" under my belt, but…they're out doing all these great and stable things while I'll be in my home state, drinking cheap vodka and trying to find work in my "desired field," and in the meantime…….working as a camel handler. Some people have said "that's so cool!!" but inside I just feel like a complete joke.

No. 8349

I'm forgetting how to speak English because I spend all my time alone.

I don't know how to talk to people anymore.

Whenever anyone talks to me "you're retarded and ugly" plays in my brain nonstop.

No. 8372

The only people that ever get attracted to me are people who want to manipulate me or control me.

I'd rather have someone treat me like a complete doormat and cheat on me instead of get so ingrained into my life that they start cutting themselves based on the fact I'm interacting with people who aren't them and they don't like me having friends.

I tried asking out the last guy I got a crush on, he gave me a vague 'maybe' answer that I should have chalked up to a no, despite him constantly flirting with me, because a mutual acquaintance asked him out two weeks later and they started dating right away.
I just needed to get this off my chest.

No. 8406

Obsessively reading about ED lolcows and fat lolcows have made me develop disordered thought patterns towards food and exercise. I notice that I get anxious whenever I eat something that's high in calories, and when I don't exercise.
I don't even consider myself fat, I guess it's more about being afraid of becoming fat so I try to pre-emptively lose weight instead? I'm 160cm 53kg and I really shouldn't even lose weight because I donate blood regularly and there's a weight minimum of 50kgs.
My self-confidence is at an all time low, and it's affecting my relationship negatively because I don't enjoy intimacy anymore and my bf thinks that it's because I find him unattractive. Which isn't entirely false, though it stems from his lack of self-confidence and in turn, his lack of taking care of his appearances. He feels like shit so he looks like shit so I don't find him attractive so he feels like shit, it's a loop of negative feedback. I feel like shit, so I spend even more time looking good, but still feeling like shit, so I push everyone away from me.
Eh, sorry for the incoherent word vomit, I'm not feeling super great rn and I just needed to vent. Future ana-chan over and out.

No. 8432

>>8346
I know that feel! My struggles with mental illness forced me to drop out of college as a sophomore, and now it's been 3 or 4 years and I'm nowhere near being ready to return. So now I'm 22 living alone in this shit apartment on disability. I had always performed extremely well in school, but I finally cracked. So now even the "dumb kids" from high school have, technically, accomplished more than me.

No. 8433

>>8406
Anon we have the exact same height and weight!!
I used to fucking hate my body and this is gradually going away since this year somehow? Am 25 now. I thought i was fat and that i should watch what i ate and move my ass (hate sports so i walk a lot and stay active) or else i would be at and even gaining one kg made me sick with fear. We arent stick thin but we arent chubsters or even less Quirky size. Its totally ok to eat something high in calories sometimes and watch how you eat and how you move your bum but do not obsess over it your weight is nowhere near fat and if you continue reasonably watching what you eat and how you move you will never become fat ever. And even if gain like 5kg by being really lazy (happened to me when depressed i woulf lay i my bed all day and eat fries a lot for several months) You can totally get back on the traxk by moving more,doing little exercices at home like pilates or squats/plank/… every fay and eating less and healthy. I had a ED and still kinda have it but i try to be positive and tell myself that i am ok,that i do not need to be supee thin or super curvy either to be cute,cute comes in a sorts of sizes and shapes ye know. Also its negative to stay too much on boards like lolcow and cgl where "fatty" and "ugly","chubby",…is thrown around for no reason sometimes. It's like the female equivalent of males calling each other a nigger and a faggot. So dont really pay too much attention. And fat lolcows are fat for being REALLY lazy bums and eating loads of junk mostly (Charms)
Ana lolcows are ana bc they are sick,its an illness it isn't normal to be the way they are in their head so dont care about anas standards. Really.
Sorry for the wall of text and hope you will be safe

No. 8440

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>>8346

What do you drink? I've got Skol right now. Sometimes Taaka is on sale for like $5/liter. I love this stuff.

No. 8461

>>8349
Iktf. I regularly go months without talking to anyone irl besides my mom but it's too fuckin' stressful anyway.

No. 8462

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>>8440
I can get a 1.5L of pretty nice tasting stuff for about $12.

tbh I'd be pretty down with a tinychat or something where we all just drink cheap shit and hang out. different from the other meetup. it'd probably divulge into a lot of depressing topics, though.

No. 8463

>>8349
>>8461
same here. I spend a lot of time alone as well, and by the time I hang out with someone I can't seem to string a sentence together for at least a few hours. it's some kind of weird conditioning thing that happens when you're emotionally and/or physically isolated.

No. 8470

>>8025
Ever thought about checking out the unemployment office?

No. 8472

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Wow this place is a fucking madhouse. Y'all know that there places where you can get help on the cheap right?

No. 8475

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I will be frank though. not to big on having to sell my blood plasma to make ends meet, getting sick of my low wage job, and all I want to do is live comfortably. thank god I'm too old and not in the right demographic to get into this reationship bullshit

No. 8501

pretty sure my boyfriend hates me because i'm a lifelong depressed/anxious neet high school drop out shitbag with no ambition, that's fucking hideous, on top of it. i don't even know if he's my boyfriend anymore. he insults me, then ignores me for days, so i have no idea. it's really killing me because i really don't have anyone else. my entire family is physically and emotionally abusive and i have no friends. right now i have a really fucking awful gastric ulcer that i'm pretty sure is the result of not eating in combination with binging on stimulants or alcohol when we got into fights and he ignored me for days on end while i was having emotional breakdowns, and the overall stress that my family causes (calling the police on me for no reason, threatening to call the police on a near daily basis, threatening to sue me, etc). i'm really scared it's going to perforate and i'll have to have major surgery. he doesn't care and keeps antagonizing me, and then ditching me for days on end with no acknowledgement at all, no matter how much i plead, or beg or apologize. i can't even drive myself to the doctor because my license was revoked (medical). really think he's done with me, and all i wanted to do was live for him, and take care of him. i have nothing in this life that i give a shit about, except for maintaining a close bond with my best friend/partner. i fucked that up, now he hates me and wants nothing to do with me.

>>8322
drop him. he's disgusting. never speak to this person again. what an embarrassment of a human being. don't waste any more of your time on this nightmare-inducing, syphilitic turdball. this is absolutely unacceptable. you will find better. move on now, before you regret having wasted anymore time on him.

No. 8505

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I used to be obese, then lost a lot of weight and now I'm normal weight.
It's not enough though, I've always liked the way thin people look so now I want to go a lot further. I want to go as far that people tell me I've become too thin.
I'm not anorexic or anything, I still eat enough, get all my nutricients and I've never purged. Taking it really slow (because I have bad self-control)
Posting Cara because she's my inspiration.
Oh and I also feel bad for having her as my inspiration since she's a lot younger than me…I feel so old (30)

No. 8513

>>8505
I love Cara; I want her to sit on my face.

Anyway, I don't think she looks too thin at all. She looks to be around 17-18 BMI. And don't worry about people implying you're anorexic, usually people (especially girls) just get jealous when they see others thinner than them especially because the average girl (in the U.S. at least) is fat.

If you're looking into more inspiration, Alexa Chung is skinnier and 31 years young :)

No. 8591

I feel brainwashed.
Recently, I feel like I fucked up. I live with a schizophrenic/bipolar brother who constantly abuses my mum, I'm young (19) and it's been bothering me ever since he almost killed me by setting a house fire while I was asleep. Growing up, he'd always been the cool brother, we'd play games, laugh, watch videos. Now, I fucked up, I just did. He once strangled my mum because she was coughing. (Coughing triggers him). He keeps saying that he's not sick, and that my mum put him on the meds. He keep saying my other siblings were mean to him, so he get to be mean with him. Those words just entered my head. I'm not sure what to believe. Recently I snapped and got into an altercation which got him removed out of the house permanently. I feel like everything is my fault, like that if I weren't born, he'd be normal. My mum insist it's fine, but I just can't deal with it. It's driving me to the edge. I've thought of suicide many times because I live with this guilt. I try getting help, but I feel paranoid, like he can hear anything I say, or when I cough, he can hear it from wherever it is.

I'm so close to dying, it's unbelievable. I picked a field I truly dislike, because he wanted to do that field. I was gonna go into CS, but he said he'd do it.
Why am I letting this person ruin me?

No. 8592

>>8513
Anon, 17-18 BMI is underweight. That's pretty much the definition of "too thin".

No. 8593

>>8591
Did your brother threaten suicide so he could take your keyboard for piano practice?

No. 8594

>>8593
Pardon me?

No. 8596

>>8594
Ha.
I think anon was trying to quote the other thread where this other anon claimed her sister was ~so abusive~ and she ended up being the abusive one. The time the anon is quoting is that, her sister never used her piano, so she went ahead and got piano lessons before asking for her parents to buy her own shit and went to her sister to ask for the piano. When the sister said, "no wtf this is mine." She threatened suicide and the sister got punished or beaten or something like that.
Anyways, not implying you're the abusive one, just clearing stuff up.

No. 8601

>>8591

I don't want to make this about me so I'm not going to mention too many details about my situation. I understand where you're coming from, my mom is schizophrenic. She has caused so many things to go wrong and anything I have ever said was ignored like I was invisible to my dad. I hate to hear about you feeling so bad.. all I can say is you need to focus on yourself and do what you want to do. Don't feel guilty for something you can't control. I moved out at 19 my life has been so much better since. I cut all ties with my family they don't care and I don't either I finally have peace.

No. 8602

>>8592
actually no. 17-18 is on the lowest end of a healthy bmi for someone of an average frame. for someone who is petite or small framed it is even 'healthier'. go ask your doctor. Being underweight a few pounds or overweight a few pounds is perfectly healthy and not wrong.

No. 9064

>read issues of Pure by Peter Sotos because "how bad could it be lol"
>it's all boring shit. lots of Naziwank, /pol/-tier opinions, murder-rape fetishism, Sotos idolizing the Moors murders, etc
>"lmao whatever, i've read and seen worse stuff"
>get to this part detailing how very young children were raped and/or prostituted in a nursery school and brainwashed into being too scared to tell anyone
>usual "wow he was a child molester hero xDD", shit obviously meant to offend
>there's this huge fucking fanfiction of it smack dab in the middle
>try to read through it to prove to myself I'm tough
>progressively get more disturbed and disgusted
>become very anxious and upset after the facr, almost as if the horrible things being described + the intimidation tactics happened to me or something
>now feel like shit whenever I hear, read or see anything related to rape, child abuse, etc
>read that someone was molested in a 4chan thread
>felt sick and hid said thread immediately
>mfw
>the edge was too strong
Guys, don't make the same mistake I did. You'll just end up with some shitty second-hand trauma. It always seems like you're desensitized or you won't give a fuck, but please just avoid things that are based on deeply upsetting topics whenever you can. Sooner or later it will fuck you up when you least expect it. I thought I was cool because I could Google "necrotic anus" without flinching and liked bullshit Tumblr <3soft guro<3 and the look of injuries. I was fucking wrong. Jesus Christ.

No. 9535

Sometimes I feel like I'm gross for watching porn… I'm 21, female and I know girls my age DO but sometimes I feel a little ashamed of myself, I don't rub myself or anything.. TBH sometimes I actually find porn hilarious, it's so bad I can't help but laugh… Sometimes I just… idk watch it and… dunno..

No. 9570

>>8513
Yeah that's probably true since I now have the weight I had when I was 17. Back then my mom said I was too chubby, now she says I'm not allowed to lose any more weight…
I blame the fat accepting society of these days.

Thanks for naming Alexa Chung, I have new inspiration now and won't have to feel too old!

No. 9571

>>9535
I have that too, I feel guilty when I watch porn and/or masturbate but we really shouldn't. It's a natural thing to do and you know almost everyone does it.
People do find me prudish at times but I prefer to call it having class.

No. 9596

>>9064
While I don't know about Peter's actual intent reading his works changed how I view things like Nancy Grace. From his perspective that's pornography. I think more people should have their eyes opened to the problems that this kind of media represents, something softer would be the Brass Eye pedophilia episode.

You can find far worse things in 4chan threads. The important thing is to maintain that sort of ambivalence to it so you can argue against the bad people. If you get emotionally compromised in any way by it you're a target. If you simply call someone out for being disgusting (and hopefully a few others will come out and join you) you're doing your part to push those views back where they belong, into the fringe. Pro rape threads on /r9k/ are the best example I can give of this, it's harder to do battle in the misogyny threads but when the nastiness is that blatant even the people there don't tolerate it.

No. 9676

I hide all my porn from my bf, I love hentai games and shit like that but i only get a small window when i can play them.

No. 9690

Two years ago I was at a really fucked up point in my life where all I would do is blow my student loan on drugs and alcohol and parties. I went to a bush party and got way too k tarded to the point where a guy practically had to carry me to his place. I was fed shots of rum and more k until I blacked out and woke up with him inside of me. I remember crying but being practically unable to move because you know… horse tranquilizer does that to you. The details of the night are really fuzzy but I can specifically remember him even saying ''you sure do say no alot'' and he kept going.

When he was done he took me back outside, put me on the streetcar and left me to go up and down Queen street for almost two hours alone, high and super confused.



I opened up to my friends about this about a week ago and was told it wasn't rape because I put myself in that situation by getting so high in the first place. Part of me wants to press charges, but a bigger part of me is unsure because I remember so little of the night and I don't want to risk ruining someones life over something I don't remember so well. What if I had given consent before I blacked out and he was just acting on that? I couldn't live with myself if I ruined his life over that.

sorry for the novel, just really had to get it off my chest

No. 9691

>>9690
Sounds like rape.

No. 9696

>>9690
1000% rape, and your friends are pieces of shit. drop them all immediately, because they can't be trusted.

No. 9697

>>9690
You should press charges. Those aren't real friendships– not one's worth preserving.

No. 9717

>>9690
>but I can specifically remember him even saying ''you sure do say no alot'' and he kept going.

The moment one person says no, they're not consenting anymore and the other person should stop….even if you consented before.
I'm sorry but your friends sound really shitty.

No. 9770

I'm transgendered (ftm) and I have always been, I've known it since very early childhood. I've never identified as a woman. But because the transition process is long and tiring and the results aren't too convincing and I'd have to hide it all my life, I'm not going to go through it. I've never told my parents either and I'm terrified of coming out to them, even though I know they would accept it and love me despite everything. I'm just manipulating myself to get over it and sometimes I succeed in accepting my biological gender for some time, but it always creeps back into my life. I've been suicidal because of it but I hide it deep inside myself, put on my feminine clothes, makeup and hair and get out of the door for another day of hating my body. I'm wishing that it's just a phase and I will get over it someday, even though I know I've been like this for all my life and I'm nearing my 30's.

Sometimes I put on my binder and wig and male clothes when I'm at home and feel a lot better about myself. Moments like that are like breathing in fresh air. Even relationships are hard for me because of this.

No. 9828

>>9690
I'm not doubting your story, but in the days immediately after the event, did you feel like you'd been raped (but just did not want to disclose it)? Since this happened 2 years ago, it's not unheard of to remember things that didn't happen. So what do you remember about what you remembered shortly after the event, rather than what you remember about the event itself?

If those memories all line up, then yes you were very likely raped and should press charges.

No. 9843

I've been with my boyfriend for a year and four months. We've been living together for a year. I'm really into anime and lifting, and while he was interested in those things before, he was really just a studious good guy and avid runner. Now he always watches anime and goes to the gym with me, which is awesome. We both like similar activities like taking walks, going to the city, etc. We've also had horrific failures in our past relationships as well as "dark" pasts.

We never fight. We have good sex almost every day. We contribute to the household equally and completely trust one another with money. He never complains. Ever. He's truly a good guy and husband material, but he's honestly so fucking boring.

I'm tired of "leading" activities. I always try to talk about ideas like artistic ones or just philosophical ones, for a lack of a better word. Not any deep stuff, but just general opinions on life. I'm not very intelligent, but he is obviously at least very book smart judging by all his academic acheivements. I dont understand why he literally doesn't answer me. If he does, be blatantly changes the subject. He only likes to talk about mundane things. Sometimes he just generally lacks an opinion on stuff because he says he either doesnt care to give it thought or the idea has never crossed his mind.

He has told me before that his exes have cited his boringness as a reason to break up. I thought I could keep things interesting, but he won't engage with me sometimes. He's so passive that it is a one sided conversation or activity.

Last night, I was feeling pretty down. I dont know if I have depression, but he has told me that my daily thoughts are abnormal. He is the one that says i am likely depressed and suffer from small anxiety attacks as well as derealization. But those are just his thoughts from the one time he actually spoke to me about it. He understands that i dont want professional help. I'm opposed to medication because of my past and what ive seen it do to friends.

Anyway, that was a tangent issue. when I want to talk about my feelings, he just ignores it. The few times I have broken down in tears, he just starts crying too and doesn't say anything. It's weird because otherwise, he's an articulate person.

I am just dissatisfied on an emotional and… intellectual? level. Don't get me wrong – I am not trying to say i need scholarly mental stimulation. I would just like to discuss things like moral and spiritual views on a layman's level.

He never wrongs me, but I also feel like he lacks personality and ambition to the point that i am basically with an android. Ive brought it up two or three times, and he has either cried or remained silent. I wonder if I should just end it. It's a nice, stable relationship, but I am happy when I am alone, too. After all, I would have more freedom to move around and travel while I'm still young and unattached.

No. 9976

>>9843
this sounds like something you can straight up tell him. Like seriously confrontational "I'm very dissatisfied with your lack of emotional and intellectual connection with me. It's bothering me a lot, and I need answers. I don't want you to cry or be silent, that's putting a fog between us, and we need to have good communication."

No. 9984

>>9843
Sounds like he really isn't interested in this stuff, so why forcing him to fake it? You obviously lack something that just isn't there on his side. Maybe get the problem straighter across like >>9976 said.

No. 10037

There's this guy from /r9k/ I was friends with since like 2013. He always made like flirtatious comments toward me despite knowing I was/am underage (i talked to him since i was 14, he is 22 now) and I brushed it under the rug until something that I did recently made me realize that that shit is neither excusable nor okay.
I did my best to calmly explain to him that it wasn't fine for him to be saying those sorts of things to me, it made me uncomfortable besides and that I still wanted to be friends with him but I didn't want to hear stupid comments about him wanting a harem of me or whatever, but he just went on about how he still feels like a retarded 12 year old despite being in his 20s and how he's "not really an adult" and I'm "not a full-on teen" (I'm still in HS???).
I got annoyed by this, plainly repeated what I said before (ie stop making sexual comments at me) and he flat-out said "I don't think that's likely to happen". At that point, I got really buttmad and said I was going to bed. In response, he complained that I made him feel "bad enough to bang his head against a wall" and told me to go fuck myself.
I don't even fucking know anymore. I don't want to dump him as a friend, especially since he's struggling with all sorts of things (he is depressed, suicidal, his family is both mentally and physically abusive to him, and he has autism which makes things even more difficult) and his gf broke up with him recently, but I'm really fucking irritated and the things he sometimes says genuinely creep me out.

No. 10040

>>10037
Drop hiiiim. Tell him to get help. Something. Because whether he realizes it or not, he has you around his finger, in non flirtatious way oc. More like 'i can never leave' sort of thing

No. 10041

I had an abortion last summer, and before I had it done, I had horrible morning sickness and a really heightened sense of smell. For the past two days there has been instances where for like 5 or 10 seconds where that smell just hits me and takes me back to that time, and it's been making my heart race and feel 'triggered' so to speak. Like hearing abortion stories or thinking back to taking the pills to induce it doesn't freak me out, but when I start recollecting about being pregnant and sick all of the time, it really scares me.

No. 10051

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Dear lolcow,

I havent posted for a while. I've abandoned most of my online accounts. I don't text friends, I avoid speaking.

I have realized I am a truly awful person. Each day, I hate myself moe and more. I can only feel the anger I have toward myself. I am stupid, inconsiderate, awkward, unfathomably ugly, fat, weird, uncharismatic, an awful friend and an even worse girlfriend. I can see nothing in myself but an inescapable, despicable monster.

i keep myself awake all night and all day, anxiously thinking of all the people i have hurt. All the people no longer in my life, all the people who will realize how truly awful I am and leave me. i fear i will eventually be completely alone. which is how it should be; I am nothing but poison.

i have an uncomfortably big secret that could ruin my life if it were let out. i'm so scared, i have nightmares about it.

i can feel no joy. everything is tainted with futility and the hate for myself which drives every action i take.

i realy want nthing more than to die. i feel only emptiness, only a sad awareness of the futility of life and the unceasing fragility of all i hold near. my life feels as though it is constantly falling apart. i can feel nothing but sharp pain, anxiety, paranoia, anger, desperate sadness, futility and self-loathing. i am completely empty inside. i am incapable of anything good. i have ruined every relationship i have ever started. i am deathly afraid of losing anyone else. i want only to disintegrate.


rant over. sorry everyone. i will go back to being mostly silent. i just want every word i've ever said to disappear. i wish i had never existed. i'm sorry.

No. 10052

>>10051
>i hate myself moe

brb kms

No. 10053

>>10051
>stupid
>inconsiderate
>awkward
>unfathomably ugly
>fat
>weird
>uncharismatic
>awful friend
>worse girlfriend

All those things are fixable bb. Educate yourself, read books, get a harmless hobby like music/art/dance/web-design. Or join a common interest forum like for talking about reptiles, or anthropology, or alien conspiracy, or whatever you are even slightly interested in. keep yourself blissfully occupied with that. Get makeup and watch a shit ton of tutorials specifically to enhance your face shape, eye color etc, I guarantee if you become a pro it will level up your looks by at least 60%. Awkward/weird/uncharismatic doesn't matter. Look at the ginger bitch from Frozen, she was made to embody that shit. Buy a small animal like a turtle or hamster, or something whose life depends on you feeding and interacting with it. GET THERAPY. learn a new language. it takes a lot of time and forces you to stop thinking about distracting shit and focus on it. Watch documentaries of people living in North Korea, then you'll see your life ain't so bad.

No. 10057

>>10053
i know my life isn't bad. i just feel bad. thanks for the suggestions.

No. 10058

>>10053
just because it could be worse doesn't make it better. shut up.

No. 10061

>>10058
that was the last sentence of that paragraph lol

No. 10063

>>10053
Also i am doing almost every single thing that you said, except for the YouTube videos (thanks for the suggestion.) I'm still depressed, though. Thank you anyway.

No. 10071

I might have a schizoid personality disorder (I'm in the process of being diagnosed).
I'm one of those that still wishes to have friends but I'm either too awkward around other people or even when I got to know someone I can't show emotions properly. That drives people away…

The only person who is really close to me is my boyfriend. Our relationship is very stable and harmonic.

No. 10081

I know I'm going to get laughed at for this, but I feel like I literally learn more about things like sex ed, how to become independent, prejudice(if you know how to ignore the crazies), some facets of history, and what constitutes abuse/how to deal with and eventually get away from abusive people from Tumblr than I do from school or any of the adults around me. SJWs aside, it's actually a very good place to learn new facts in an easy-to-understand, relaxed platform.
What I'm wondering is: Why is everything so inadequate that the same place I go to look at clothes, memes and food teaches me more about the world around me than actual school?

No. 10082

I don't have any friends and it makes me very depressed. The last best friend i've had insulted me and refused to apologize for hurting me. the pills i take to treat my mental illnesses (including sleeping disorders) make me sick.
I get heavily abused by my parents since im a kid so i went into a foster home but i felt extremely sick and way more stressed than usual. both were toxic.

No. 10084

>>7653
I'm glad you acknowledge that some people have more severe depression.

No. 10085

>>10081
It teaches you more because you're reading only information in which you have a legitimate interest.

No. 10087

>>10085
But I don't even seek most of it out. I can just scroll past a picture of a cat and suddenly come across a wealth of information on things I hadn't known about before.

No. 10088

I regret having my son. There's nothing wrong with him, he's perfectly healthy but I'm not mother material. I never wanted kids. My husband knew this when we got married but his biological clock started ticking when he turned 30 and all he talked about was having kids. Then my dad turned 60 and all HE talked about was grandkids. I caved under pressure.

After my son was born it was okay, my husband and I both worked so I dropped the kid off at daycare and didn't have to deal with him until I was done with work. Weekends husband and I tag teamed childcare. Then my job contract expired in February and I chose not to renew based on my husband's decision to find another job in a different state. He's an engineer, we figured it wouldn't be too hard for him to find a job.

He assured me it would only take a month or two and then we'd move and I wouldn't have to take care of the kid 24/7 anymore. He was wrong. It's been 4 months and I'm losing my fucking mind. Depression has settled in and it sucks. I'm going to see a doctor this week but I don't know how much help it will be.

No. 10104

>>10088
I know this probably sounds hard, but please don't be a selfish parent, don't forget to give your kid some love, or at least just pretend to.
Don't ruin this childs life.

No. 10105

>>10088
That kid deserves better, JFC.

No. 10106

>>10104
>>10105
I treat him like any parent would treat their kid. Last thing I want to do is make him feel like a burden. I've been told by therapists that sometimes it takes a while to develop a bond with your kid, we'll see.

No. 10112

>>10088

This is exactly why i don't want to be married. I know i don't want kids, and I'd rather not be pressured into having any by a husband who doesn't respect that.

No. 10113

>>10112
Yeah, don't do it. I love my husband a lot and he's a great father but if I could go back in time I'd get my tubes tied to get people off my back.

No. 10117

I have a sister in law from hell. I think something bad should happen to her for what she has done to my brother. I don't want it to, because my bro is in love with her and they have a 2 daughters (3 and 1 yr old) together, but she's one of those people who doesn't learn after losing something. I have never met anyone more callous or dishonest in my life. The only people who she is somewhat nice to are her brother, her mom and eldest daughter who she had from a previous relationship.

No. 10163

>>10088
You are a complete piece of shit for a mother. You're a pathetic weakling. Make your own decisions instead of manufacturing a kid who will probably have mental health issues because you don't love him.

No. 10168

>>10088
"biological clock" doesn't exist in males. It literally means the timespan a woman has left before her eggs are no longer good enough. Men are still fertile way into their 70's. "30 year old man having his biological clock" is the stupidest thing I've ever heard. Like a 14 year boy saying he's gonna get his period any day now.

I'm seriously mad at weak you were with this extremely serious decision. There are millions of woman who straight up tell their partner and their family "I'm never having kids, period. Don't ever talk to me about this, it's not happening". Your husband could have shipped up or shipped out with that decision.

No. 10729

I hate how my upper body looks. I have wide shoulders and wide back. I know it's bone structure and can't change anything about it. I know I'm supposed to be at peace since I am not overweight or anything but I just can't get over my insecurity.

No. 10730

I wish i had a flat stomach. Im 5' 115lbs btw. Im not fat but im not skinny, however people say i am skinny but i dont believe them. I have kinda big thighs and butt and it makes me super sad.

No. 10731

>>10730
*5feet 115lbs

No. 10732

Why do people even get married if they don't want children? Maybe if there were still tax incentives I could see why.

No. 10737

>>10051
Anon ;____; I wish I could give you some love

No. 10752

>>10730
A flat stomach just isn't in the cards for some people. My bmi is in the 15's currently and there's still a little pooch of fat. Much smaller than it used to be, but still hanging in there >.>

No. 10781

I hated Ruby Rose's character in s3 of OitNB. She served no purpose and I felt like her inclusion was pandering to the tumblrite audience since she's genderfluid and a lesbian. Her character was one dimensional and we're also supposed to believe she was there the whole time but in the background? lol. Boo or Nicki would have been all over that at some point, esp. during their s2 bet.

No. 10786

>>10781
Mte, but part of me doesn't want to say it openly, because I can see Tumblrinas jumping down my throat for it.

For a little bit I thought she might have been the hitman sent after Alex but nope, she was just there to get her tits out. PROGRESSIVE.

No. 10789

>>10786
I've been browsing the reddit and a handful are thinking the same as us. It's mainly Tumblr that's praising her. I mean, yeah, she's mildly appealing, but she's nothing to look twice at (unless you're trying to see all her tattoos. Then yeah, that would take a couple looks)

No. 10791

Do some crunches and go running . I thought the same about myself but that's cuz I never bothered to work out

No. 10821

I really like this guy for over a year, and I finally got the courage to tell him. We don't talk about it for a few weeks (lol I told him during finals week bc I was in a half drunken spur and decided "FUCK IT WE HAVENT'T TALKED IN 3 WEEKS I HAVE LITERALLY NOTHING TO LOSE") and when we do talk about it, he says, "Obviously I like you, but…"

"But…" being that we live around an hour by train+bus away from each other (it's not as bad as it sounds lol), that we go to universities that are about 4-6 hours away from each other, and that I will be going abroad for a year to study, and the year I come back he'll be going to pharmacy school (and his first choice is in cali).

When I broke up with my ex-girlfriend during my junior year of high school, it left me an emotional mess and as close to depression as I could possibly go without actually having depression. I felt like a vase, I felt emptied, tortured, unhappy, and constantly wanted to off myself every waking moment of my life. It took me two years of finding my own method of properly coping and loving myself for once in my life to finally fix myself. Ever since then I've been so terrified of ever liking anyone ever again, or even getting into a relationship because my last breakup basically ruined my life and what very little emotional stability I even had to begin with.

And now that I'm okay (or, what I think is okay), and someone likes me back… but we can't be together because of our distance and situations… it's like god's laughing at me and saying "fuck you, this is what you wanted and this is what you'll get."

I feel like I should just fucking live with it because I never wanted to have another relationship after my last one and I'm okay with it, but what if this one could work out? What if I could be happy in this one and it would all be okay??? It's a shitty annoying thought and I constantly think about us dating but it's shitty because I know it'll never happen because he doesn't want something so long distance. Even the distance between our homes seems like too much (even though it's really not. Just one long train and bus ride away).

sorry for my SHITTY RELATIONSHIP whining. i just wanted to get this out there. :( it's also shitty bc i'm constantly scared of another, prettier girl with a better personality than me swooping in and wooing him. even if we won't date, situations like that are always kinda hard to deal with, aren't they? fuck he's like 100/10 in my book and i'm so angry. i dont want anyone to sit on his dick but me.

No. 11223

I get off on being degraded.
I've only ever been on a BDSM relationship online, never in real life. On the side from my boyfriend, he knows.
It's a really fucked up situation. As a little girl I'd fantasize about being a good girl for my husband. I started getting erotic fantasies before my 9th birthday, although the Internet is partly to blame for that.
I started doing sexual acts at 12 in real life.
I was always educationally intelligent, never got along with people my age, skipped a grade.
I'm still a fuck-up.

No. 11232

>>10821
I live about 1.5 hours away from my bf by public transit and we manage just fine. But…if I was in your situation I would be really cautious about entering a relationship with this guy. Unless you're really prepared to spend however long together before you go abroad, then risk not seeing each other for a really long time, and I'm assuming having it become an LDR…it might be more than you can bear, especially after your last bad relationship. I think it really depends on how much you know yourself, and your capacity to deal with the worst possible outcome. This is a really shitty situation anon, I'm so sorry about it.

No. 11233

This may seem really weird to confess about, but I'm an emetophile. Started since I was a wee child, sexual shit started from watching weird things on the internet so I'm still pretty young(late teens). I'm quite a daydreamer so it's hard to get my mind off of that stuff. But whenever I try to watch porn/regular ol' YT videos or something, but no matter what I do I feel like someone or something is always watching(Like God when my parents were still insisting Christianity on me). Got worse after the NSA shit happened, even if I know they wouldn't watch a harmless girl like me. Anyway, I just feel really bad after watching, and I just lay in my bed and evaluate my life. :( Feels great but worse if it's a celebrity that I like…. Since I'm a K-pop fag, those recent reports of Kai or Chenyeol getting sick and stuff made me feel all bubbly inside but I felt bad cause I still want them and the rest to stay safe.
I guess I wish there were more of us out there so it wouldn't feel so weird. Plus all the emetophilic porn on tumblr are either outdated, not free (poorfag), or ugly and cartooning.

Sorry if this grosses you fellow cows out, but I wanted this off my chest, no other place has a confession board anonymous. ♥

No. 11234

>>11233
*Cartoonic
Sorry if the rest is unintelligible, it's 5:40 in the morning this has been eating me out:(

No. 11235

>>10085
I hope you're also fact checking since there's a huge potential to be fed wrong or inaccurate information on tumblr.

Anyway, it depends a lot on where you are in the world (probably America), then the state as well. School isn't necessarily there to teach you things like independence (most systems regulate that to your parents/guardians, however flawed that may be), prejudice maybe but that depends on what kinds of classes are offered at your school, dealing with/recognizing abuse is also highly dependent on what kind of classes/programs your school offers.

Schools are supposed to follow a state/country approved curriculum. There are A LOT of things in the world to learn about, but schools only have so much time or resources to pursue all of those avenues. They really just pick and choose what they think is the most important (you may feel otherwise about that). The mistake that many people make is that they think school is necessary to teach you anything. They can only do so much. If you're really interested in pursuing new subjects you have to learn how to do it yourself. And that's mostly what schools are teaching, besides the basics in any subject, they teach you how to study, provide resources for further study, and all of that.

No. 11240

i want to be loved again

i miss my ex so much even though we were off and on and couldn't trust each other.
it makes me suspicious of guys, and i've been fucking around to get over him and to just feel alive again i guess.
but there's no one here in this shitty little town.

i got in contact with an old bff from middle school, and he's the only one i've become romantically interested in in a long time. we've flirted and tried a ldr but he broke it off because he didn't feel like it was real. like we weren't really together. he wants proximity. we pretty much agreed on waiting for each other but i'm impatient, and feelings change. he could be over us by the time we're able to see each other on our own time.

and i never really loved anyone but my ex. and with my old friend, i have this feeling that i could actually love him. it's weird, but i can see myself having a future with him. i want it so badly. i just haven't been intimate with someone and it makes me feel empty at times. it's to the point where i'm hanging around my mother and hugging her more often than usual, and cuddling with my best friend.

shit makes me sad.

No. 11244

I don't even know where my life is right now. I feel like such a failure. I moved across the country with my boyfriend after we dated for 7 months. I fucking regret that. Don't ever fucking do that. I feel so trapped right now. I didn't work much this much, so I have no other choice but to ask my mother for money. She's not short on it and has a decent job, so I'm pretty sure she'll help me out this month. I just feel like a shitty daughter having to leech off of my mom. I really want to move back home

No. 11248

>>11240

You need to move on and focus on the future, you will be loved again.

No. 11249

>>11244

If you feel this way anon, please tell your mother, have a good long chat with her and sort something out. You can't go on this way, you NEED to do what is right for you.

No. 11255

>>10081
bitch do you even know what the purpose of education and school is? good luck getting ahead in life from information you've learned from tumblr. i bet you consider yourself some sort of special snowflake who is just too good for actual schooling.

No. 11268

>>11255
>Faggot gets angry because they had nothing outside of school to teach them about life (which obviously failed)
>Gets angry when other people show frustration toward the school system and have alternative sources of learning
Top kek

No. 11294

>>11268
yes tumblr what a great source of education. if you're a shutin.

No. 11295

>>11244
you sound like a failure who deserves everything she got. why don't you get a job instead of being a lazy slob?

No. 11309

>>11294
All I'm saying is it says a lot when Tumblr will literally show you how to write resumes or pay taxes when school won't.

No. 11318

>>11309
school isn't about giving you step by step instructions for living life and it never was. if you want to learn how to write a resume, there are tons of resources way better than tumblr. but i think you're probably the kind of anti intellectual person who thinks learning math is "stupid"

No. 11490

My ex boyfriend is still trying to talk to my sisters friends (who are also mine). We're 21 and they're 17. Still creepy since all he does is try to sleep with younger girls.
I mentioned before that he raped me and abused me and we went to court for it. I ended up losing because of lack of physical evidence. He's still telling people I lied about everything. That I find fucking retarded. People were there when things happened, he openly admitted to doing many terrible things to me. Every now and then it bothers me. Things may have ended 3 years ago but it still makes me feel small. He told me he would commit suicide one day. I hope he does soon. I could care less about such a horrible person.

No. 11491

>>11318
>If you're not satisfied with school, you must be an anti-intellectual who hates math!
Yeah nah fuck off, elitist. People like you are literally the problem.
Btw, learning anything more than rudimentary math can definitely be a waste of time if you have dyscalculia or are certain you won't be using more than the amount necessary for daily life in the future.

No. 11495

I feel really ugly and fat and I seek validation from others because it feels impossible to accept myself. My weight fluctuates a lot and even when I'm technically "thin" or "average sized" I still feel huge so I don't even know if working on my body will help.
I literally always see something wrong with myself and my mind blows it up 200x so I feel like everyone is watching and can see that I'm disgusting. It's been fucking me up since I was 12 and I can't even make friends or be social because I'm convinced everyone must hate me because I'm so hideous and weird on the inside and outside. I'm not really sure what to do, there are no actual therapists or psychologists in my country (what we DO have are these fucked up prayer camps where they literally chain people to trees for days and nights on end to "drive out the demons", and mental hospitals might as well be jails because everyone who gets sent to one here is literally treated as if they were subhuman and there's like one doctor for 10,000 patients) and I've long since realized people validating me and telling me there's nothing wrong with me doesn't work because I'm convinced they're lying to make me feel better.
I don't know how to fix myself or be confident or brave. I don't know how other people do it, either. It's one thing to sit at home and say "I am just as good as anyone else. I am great. I am OK. I deserve to be respected, I am a valid human being. I matter,", but when the time comes that you actually have to go out, meet other people and think about yourself and where you stand with them, how others think of you, how you think of yourself, how even you don't like yourself….no.
It also doesn't help that whenever I try opening up to people about these things they tell me I'm just young and I'll grow into my skin eventually. It doesn't feel like things will get better at all, and the thought of staying this way forever terrifies me.

No. 11496

I'm legit crying, my friend is like this and it's exhausting

No. 11518

>>11491
Hahaha, oh how I wish I had paid more attention in math in high school. I wish I had utilized high school as the resource it truly is.

No. 11519

>>11248
Thank you :)
I've moved on already (thank god)
I should've clarified: I miss the intimacy, not my ex exactly.

No. 11521

I'm 30 years old and I'm still a cutter (started at 17)
I know it's bad but I have no intentions to quit because it's the only thing to calm me down when I get uncontrollable-crying-sad.
Last time it didn't seem to work though, I cut more and deeper than usual because I couldn't calm down and it still didn't work…I'm kind of scared for next time…
I know this sounds like I'm some emo-kid but I'm usually really happy and not afraid to show it, I just get these bad moments. The only other thing to calm me down is weed but I can't smoke that everywhere and it doesn't always work.

No. 11531

>>11518
Then study it now, you fucking potato. No one is stopping you, math doesn't stop existing when you leave HS.

No. 11533

>>11496
I have the same problems. Please try to be understanding to your friend, people who are like this don't choose to be this way

No. 11575

I'm getting pretty concerned about my drinking. I'm only 20 and I've been drinking way too often the past year. Sad part is most of the time it's not even socially I just drink when I'm bored at home. I'm pretty healthy otherwise, I exercise and eat well. Lately I've been getting dull pains in different parts of my abdomen every once in a while and getting lightheaded and losing vision momentarily when I stand up too quickly and as someone who has never really had any health problems in their life, every time something doesn't feel right I automatically get paranoid that it's because of my drinking. It probably doesn't help that I'm prescribed a stimulant drug for adhd and im usually drinking before that wears off. Half of me knows I need to cut that shit out, but I'm just naturally impulsive and more focused on immediate rewards rather than consequences. When my parents told my therapist they were concerned about it, her solution was 1. lock up any alcohol in the house (which never happened) and 2. if you feel like you want to drink, have a snack or something instead (yay, replace one unhealthy bored habit with another! no thx)… instead of helping me figure out why I really drink and confront that. Idk I'm sick of her she always completely misses the point of what I'm saying, I never really get what I need from sessions with her but I don't know how to communicate what it is I need.

Worst thing is I'm actually more concerned about how it will age my appearance than my health

No. 11602

>>11575
wow thats messed up that she doesnt try to help you get to the root of the problem…
maybe find someone new if you can? or try a little soul searching. i know thats easier said than done but at least you are realizing all of this while its still pretty early. please get help while you can.

No. 11679

>>11521
go get help.

No. 11681

i have a really cute, nice boyfriend and we've been together for almost 2 years. i've had to convince him that i dont have feelings for ex(whos practically my best friend) still, and i really thought i didnt for like a year, but the feelings are coming back really strong. i dream of being with him. doing anything sensual with my current boyfriend feels…wrong? but im still attached to him. we still laugh and connect. nothings changed or left. i don't know whats wrong with me, and i feel like some weird cheating slut but i haven't done anything? i dont know what my feelings are and it's driving me crazy.

No. 11687

>>11602
funny thing is, you're not the first stranger to tell me this today lol. me and a classmate stayed late after class while they were setting up for the next class's lab and I was telling her how EVERY single time I go see her she always asks if I'm interested in having a relationship right now and EVERY time I'm like 'uhh… no. no not really. not right now anyway. i have more important things I need to worry about' and one of the girls setting up the lab said "sorry to eavesdrop, but I think you need to get a new therapist"

i get so god damn irritated when she asks too because almost every time I bring up that I have trouble making and keeping friendships and she barely addresses that and then literally sometimes pulls the relationship thing out of nowhere like "hello?? are you even listening to me?"

not to mention she's the one who diagnosed me with adhd inattentive type (which I don't doubt at all looking at all the evidence, but im always so paranoid my diagnoses isn't legitimate) but has done very little to help me with finding efficient coping mechanisms for that. she doesn't even ask how the meds are working.

she's a nice lady i just think she kinda sucks at hee job. i still like the fact that I can just talk about shit and not really feel too judged but still I know I could get that exact same feeling and much more with someone better. i feel like I'm wasting my money.

No. 11709

>>11687
:(
Holy shit man, you need a new therapist. Right fucking now.

I had a terrible therapist who made me feel like shit constantly for like, a year. Changed to a lady just down the hall and it changed my views on therapy for the rest of my life. I promise you should find someone who helps you. Especially if you are paying them.

No. 11714

>>11681
Do you still love your boyfriend the same? Because I do think it's possible to be in love with two people at the same time. You don't need to feel bad about it, it's a shitty situation but you can't help your feelings. But if you love your boyfriend, you need to take some time apart from your ex. I know it's harsh but it's the only thing that'll work.

No. 11724

>>11679
Previous times someone found out didn't go so well…when my dad accidentally found out (years ago), he wanted to kick me out of the house. luckily my mom stopped him.
I don't want people to make fun of me for this or worse, get institutionlized or that it might be put on my medical file.
I don't really cut that bad and it rarely bleeds a lot, usually just a tiny bit.

No. 11731

Man. After reading this thread I'm starting to think the wizards are right after all.

No. 11735

>>11731
yeah women aren't perfect cuties like in your animes
instead they are basically same fuckups as men but with different body parts

No. 11803

>>11687
it really sucks how I don't really take notice of these things right away…

can't believe I forgot to mention her go-to solution anytime I tell her about situations where my anxiety seems to be the worst.

"do you remember that breathing exercise I showed you? why don't you try that?"

No. 11974

Everyone gets to go somewhere for summer and I'm stuck here in this shithole of a country like I have been my entire life.

No. 11976

>>7562
I rarely act like myself around everyone because im scared they'll judge me.
I'm very soft, feminine and i speak slowly however when i acted that aka myself, the girls were saying i'm fake and that to be strong you need to cuss, act trashy, etc.
it makes me sad

No. 11977

I drink cleaning products every week

No. 12045


No. 12047

>>11977
This is some My Strange Addiction-tier shit.

No. 12050

>>9770
It's worth pursuing a transition. It's your right, and your quality of life will go up so much afterward

No. 12051

I'm a 21 year old virgin. I'm honestly not even sure why

No. 12080

>>12051
dude that's not rare or weird at all. there's no reason to be ashamed about not fucking around in hs or middle school. one of my friends lost their virginity at 13 and i just couldn't imagine doing that.

No. 12150

>>12051
I didn't lose my virginity until I was 24. I just wasn't really interested in sex

No. 12192

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I'm bitter as fuck and jealous of most of my friends and I hate it. I have diagnosed depression, social anxiety, anorexia and a few physical diseases, which have all been going for many years, and they drain the life out of me, and I rarely get the energy to do much at all. Every time I see my friends who don't have any mental or physical illnesses and have the energy and time to do shit, I feel so fucking mad and bitter. I know it's not fair towards them, but I really can't stand seeing them living their dreams and getting everything they want when I physically cannot do the same. Or maybe I'm just using it all as an excuse, I dunno. I'm just too bitter for my own good, and it's destroying my friendships. I mean, I'm not a bitch enough to say anything TO them, I just don't talk to some of them… almost at all nowadays, because I'm just… too jealous, I guess. I don't know. Shit fucking sucks and I feel like a terrible person and a friend, but every time I talk to them or see them, I just end up feeling more awful than I did before. I just wish I was lucky like them and didn't have all this shit on me, I guess. All my physical diseases were ones I was born with, and I feel like it's so unfair. But I also know I'm being unfair towards my friends, so… Ugh. I don't know what to do. I just want to get my shit together and be a decent person again.

No. 12195

>>12192 We're on the same boat here..

I'm 22, used to be popular with the girls and boys alike, smart enough to skip a few grades and graduated when I was 19 with a bachelor degree. I don't know when it all started, but I get really depressed nowadays. After I graduated from uni, I didn't even come out of my room for a whole year. Talked only to my mom and dad during that time.. and they're barely even home. Now I meet my friends once every few months or so. I get really bitter seeing them living out their life and achieving their dreams, when I'm kinda stuck here.. i just can't seem to get my shit together.. it's been over 2 years and i don't even have a job, i'm too scared to come out of my room, talking to people terrifies me.. honestly i can't even talk normally anymore.. i sleep most of the time.. and everything in this life lose all its color to me. I used to get excited over small things like my favorite ice cream flavor or shopping for new dresses for an upcoming party, now i just don't care about anything.

No. 12202

(bad therapist anon) I feel annoying for posting more about my situation but I just need a place to kind of vent and document this while it's fresh in my brain:
I went for a 1hr session on Friday, and it felt like I was just blabbering about my recent happenings without much response/input.I feel like during my stories I put up many flags for things that could be attended to… but she didn't really stop me at any point to talk about things.

Ugh I feel like that's so vague…
like, for example, in telling about how my summer class was going, I said how I really have started to notice how unsure of myself I am, always. Whether it's an acedemic situation or otherwise… and thinking about it now, i think my excessive self doubt has a lot to do with the anxieties and problems I run into socially. People always say "just do it" but i fuckin can't if I'm not sure what I'm doing is correct or normal, and I understand that's not exactly normal, but I have no idea where it comes from or how to fix it. she ain't helpin' much with that.

also, idk where the fuck it came from but she started telling me about her eye vision surgery and spent a good chunk of time on that…. and it was just kinda like :)??? okay.

and then we had a few mins left and she asks if there's anything else I want to talk about and it's like at that point I just kind of have a brain fart…. but i feel like from what I tell her she should have NO problem finding an issue that needs discussing.

I DON'T K NOWAWWWW….. I have a session scheduled for next month. My main issue is how do I tell my parents this woman sucks and they've been wasting their money??? I cant.y entire existence is a financial burden on them… and then theres going to have to be a call to the current therapist to cancel that appointment…… and explaining not having any business with her any longer.

why does it have to he such a complicated process just for me to feel normal and functional

No. 12204

>>12195
Yeah, I know how you feel. I wouldn't say I was ever popular or SUPER smart, but I had a lot of friends and had mostly A's or B's until late high school. Now I'm barely passing classes and missing a lot of lectures because depression is such a bitch that I don't even feel like doing the things I like most of the time. I just wish there was a way to restore my mental health. Really sucks when everyone has high expectations of you because you used to do so well in school and used to be so social. It's so hard to explain things like depression to people, especially when it comes to old relatives who tell you to just "try yoga and have a more positive outlook on life!!11!!1 :)" like it's something easy. I know they have good intentions but.. just stop man. I already feel guilty enough and making it sound like I'm just being lazy makes it worse.

No. 12205

>>12192
>>12195
i hear you guys.
i have mental illness too
im not trying to play the "who has it worse" sympathy game but… at least you guys have friends. i have no friends lol. i don't even care though. its one of those 'that would be nice' things but then i have my cats

No. 12207

>>12202
I didn't see your previous post, but I really identified with this one and couldn't help but stop scrolling to put in my two cents.
I've been in the same boat as you before. I ended up telling my parents that I was 'cured' just to get them to stop 'wasting' their money (as I thought of it then), but I wouldn't recommend this to anyone else as it ended up backfiring horribly on me in the long run.
Part of the reason I thought it was a 'waste' was because I had such low self-esteem at the time that I didn't consider myself worth the investment. It sounds like you might be in similar condition.
Approach it as straight-forwardly as possible.
Tell them that you're not getting any assistance from these sessions. Explain that you need someone who can suggest coping methods for you, and this woman has given you absolutely no helpful feedback. Use the eye surgery as an example of how she seems far more interested in discussing her own problems than yours. Ask if you can be recommended to another therapist OR search for someone in the area with good reviews and ask your parents if you can try their services.

Anon, you are not wasting your parent's money.
Your parents love you. They just want you to find happiness and stability.
If I was in their shoes, I'd want to get my child help no matter the cost. But if they aren't sitting in these sessions, it's impossible for them to intuitively detect the incompetence of your therapist. You have to tell them about it first.
You owe it to yourself. And honestly, if you aren't getting anything out of these sessions, THAT is the waste of your parent's money. But you're not responsible for that waste, your therapist is. And if she doesn't lose business over it, she'll probably continue the same useless practices for as long as she can get away with it.

No. 12208

i married a guy after 6 months of dating.
i'm getting tired of how surprised everyone around is, when they hear about it.
im happy and thats all that matters, but people seem to be stuck on a number?

and my mom keeps asking about one of my ex bfs for some reason. he and i had a really really bad long drawn out break up and im like mom - jesus stfu we are over and im MARRIED to someone NEW.
"well will we ever see him again??"
"NO MOM"
i think she is going senile

No. 12211

>>11318
your tits. please calm them.
you sound like someone how had to learn everything the hard way and never had anyone to guide them, and is now bitter.
i think that anon was just trying to say that nowadays college is practically mandatory and even the most basic jobs require a degree.
yet the college environment is nothing like the real world. once you leave its security bubble, good luck doing your taxes or handling your health insurance or other "adult" things.
in effect, all college did was give you a shiny paper to prance around with - it didnt prepare you to live independently and take care of yourself

No. 12212

>>12208
I know it sounds 'old-fashioned' to you, but you really shouldn't do it.

I know very well how you feel, even about the bad breakup, but you really should take some more time until you know how it's like living with him for +- 1 year and you're absolutely sure the 'flame of passion' has passed and what you feel is actual love.

I almost married my now-husband after 6 months together, but we wanted to be sure we would not end up regretting it. I'm glad for it (even if it took 3 years for us to get married), because we had plenty of time to bail out of the relationship if it stagnated too much.

If you already married him on court, best wishes to you and hope you stay happy with him. Don't be bothered with your mom (she sounds like she liked your ex way too much), give it a time and she will forget about him.

No. 12215

>>12208
It'll either work or it won't. There are people who have dated longer and still gotten a divorce so who cares?

Also sounds like your mom prefers your ex to your new guy. Have you sat her down and explained things to her? Or at least told her that mentioning him bothers you? Maybe if she knows how much it upsets you when she mentions him she'll stop

No. 12228

>>12211
i didn't learn much by myself. i looked online a little or i asked my parents.

most 20 somethings still don't have a degree and they have jobs. you sound pretty bitter yourself.

No. 12229

>>12205
That sucks, anon, I wish I could be your friend and hang out with you IRL. I'm sure you can find some friends someday though. If it helps though, most of my IRL friends nowadays are online friends who I found out lived in the same country as I, or met at conventions. I don't really talk to the ones I made in school anymore (because of the reasons I stated in my first post) and am drifting further away from them as we speak. I mean, I don't want to, but that's just how things go sometimes, haha… But cats are great. I have three dogs, and it's kinda silly, but they keep me company and make me feel so much better about myself. Pets are really wonderful. I hope you feel better soon, anon.

No. 12237

Tbh I have never been diagnosed with anything, even though I have been showing signs of depression and social anxiety.. nowadays talking to my "friends" caused me panic attacks (from what I learnt after I googled the symptoms) i always endes up crying and depressed afterwards. Talking to acquitances is even worse, I can't even breathe and my hands are shaking.. i have been asking my family to see a therapist
, but they refused saying that its all in my mind, that all those things isn't real and that i just need to grow up. As a result i made a cocoon and locked myself in. Now they refer to me as a shut-in, failure, waste of the earth, etc..

No. 12247

This might be fucked up but I'm really proud of myself for not eating anything today and not getting that hungry at all. Feels superhuman.

No. 12248

>>12207
thank you so so much I really needed to hear this.

tfw lolcow anons do your therapists job better than her. how ironic.

hopefully this past Friday will be my last session with her. cruddy thing is, I have no way to guarantee the next person won't be even worse. :p

No. 12250

>>12247
Don't worry, you'll feel like shit soon.

No. 12269

>>12250
Yo, I'm back and you were right. I was dizzy and weak the moment I got up, to the point where I couldn't even stand for over 2 minutes. Good thing I didn't plan to hold out another 24 hours before eating.
3/10 would not attempt again more than once a week

No. 12296

>>12248
If you're worried about whether the next therapist you see is going to be any better, remember that you can always ask to have a trial session first, just to see how it goes.
IMO the most important part of choosing your therapist is that it's someone you feel comfortable enough to be honest with, which is why sometimes it's easier to get your thoughts out anonymously on forums like these. It might take a couple of trial sessions with different people before you find someone that you really connect with, but don't get discouraged. Try not to worry about how it'll go until you've actually got the next one picked out, though–at this point, there's not much you can do until you actually meet the person.

[blog post starts here]
I had the exact same concerns when I was in your situation, but I ended up blaming myself for the problem. I have awful social anxiety, so I never felt comfortable enough with my therapist to candidly discuss my emotional state. Instead of trying to find someone who specialized in anxiety, though, I jumped to the conclusion that I was just 'one of those people that therapy couldn't fix', & concluded it had to be some kind of mental or chemical imbalance on my part.
When my parents tried sending me to a psychiatrist, though, it just made things worse. The medication they gave me turned me into a zombie. I stopped feeling 'depressed', but then again I stopped feeling pretty much everything–I couldn't be happy or excited, either, and I lost all motivation to do anything aside from the bare minimum of attending school and finishing my homework. Even after I told my parents I was 'cured' (mostly because I wanted them to stop wasting money on medication that I hated) it took a good year or so before I really got back to an acceptable mental state. And overall, not much changed.
Now that I'm older, I look back on that time and feel like I missed an opportunity. If I had pursued help more actively rather than just internalizing everything out of guilt, I think I would've gotten my shit sorted out a lot earlier on, and probably would be in a different place in my life right now. Therapy does work, I just wasn't getting it from the right source. But at the time, I convinced myself that I was saving everyone else the trouble of looking after me, and it was up to myself to 'shoulder the burden' and basically sweep all of my issues under the rug so I wouldn't worry the people who loved me. But the only way others can help is if they know what's going on–and imagining it from a mom's perspective, I'd rather be worried about my kid, but doing something about it, than be completely in the dark and thinking everything is fine when it's not.
Don't be me, anon.
[/blog sorry for the novel]

No. 12298

>>12269
If you are trying to lose weight and get better body, not eating is the shittiest way to go.
You won't turn into Ashley after not eating for a day or two, but you won't have any energy, you'll be nervous, think about food, anxious, body will look flabby, skin transparent and sickly etc. And there is a big chance of overeating after.
Your best bet is to try your best to eat healthy and exercise regualry. Takes time and dedication, but trust me, it's worthy it.

No. 12299

>>12298
It's a good way to kill muscle too, making it even harder to lose fat.

No. 12305

>>12298
eating less is more important to losing weight than exercising. here's an article from the new york times

http://www.nytimes.com/2015/06/16/upshot/to-lose-weight-eating-less-is-far-more-important-than-exercising-more.html?_r=0

No. 12312

>>12305
eating less =/= eating nothing at all, pro ana faggot

No. 12314

Wow, /b/. I really hate myself. I don't belong anywhere. I don't have friends. I am deeply dislikable.

I'm trying to not post on lolcow anymore. Everything I say is stupid. I'm sorry for all the embarrassing shit I've said.

See ya later, space cowboys.

No. 12320

>>12247
>>12305
Yer' a fucking idiot. I don't know too much about women, but as a male, I cut down to a 1500 calorie a day diet or so, because you MUST keep your metabolism going plus you'll get ill and overeat after a starve. Food headaches are the worst. Just have a 250-500 calorie deficient and work out. Don't do any extremes or you're going to gain ALL of your weight back. I've lost 30 pounds, and kept them off, because I didn't starve myself like an idiot.

No. 12323

i like smelling my farts (but hate other people's farts)

No. 12327

>>12320
Worked for me tho. I didn't gain any weight back. And what's with all these men thinking they have to say "as a male" on here. Lmao no one gives a fuck ya pussy.

No. 12328

>>12327
Because men and women's bodies are very fucking different. I can't give much health advice, as a male, to a female. If you're on /fit/, it's usually better to have a person of your own sex describe fitness and health with you. All I can say is don't be a retard and whatnot.

No. 12334

>>12328
Nah I don't mean just when talking about fitness and shit but whatever…..

No. 12335

Pls don't turn this into a /fit/ orc woman thread

No. 12340

>>12327
>>12328

In cases where the topic is inherently about one sex or the other it makes sense, but in this case it doesn't. As a human, I don't think you need to specify your sex if you're making a general statement about physiology.

No. 12342

At 68 kilos and 165 cm, I'm extremely embarrassed about how I look. I've tried many diets, but I usually feel hungry afterwards and end up eating more. I've fallen for stupid shit like lolcows and their photographs…thinking I wish I looked that way. Yet sometimes I don't know where to start or how to control my appetite.

No. 12343

>>12327
>>12340

Men and women lose weight differently. And women tend to have a harder time losing weight so if a man gives her his workout plan, it may not help.

No. 12345

(since we're on the topic of weight/ weight loss)
I tend to only eat 1000-1300 calories daily because I'm not very active and this is an effective amount for me to keep from gaining weight. However, people get concerned about my weight as I am small framed naturally and tend to stick to weighing 100-105 lbs at 5'4". I've maintained this weight since high school (and am 22 now) and no one's commented on it until recently when my body redistributed weight over time and gave me more of an hourglass figure and the baby weight around my face went away. But I'm really happy w/my body and wish people would understand that. I'm not actively losing weight, but am more concerned about maintaining what I'm at without exercise bc I know what my body needs.
I did drop down to 95 lbs once when I got on anti-depressants last summer (but I've found that I can handle myself without them; I just need to not be home as much as possible, as my mom's personality is toxic and that's what causes most of my problems) and that was kind of iffy since I think my bmi was somewhere around 16-17 iirc… and some of my college professors got concerned about me. (fyi, whoever said that you teachers won't care once you get to college/university is wrong. Seriously. I've had more care about me here than any did in high school. true facts.)

No. 12363

I was molested as a kid, but it feels weird to say something like that. It's never really affected me or caused me trauma like everything I've ever read from someone else who was molested. It's never… bothered me? I remember being led into the bathroom by my babysitter's son, I remember him taking in the only other girl in the apartment into the bathroom, and I remember him trying to get me to suck his dick. I remember, vividly, weird bits and pieces of it. Of course, I never really thought about it and it's just a memory that I replay like other ones. I asked my mum why we stopped using that babysitter, and she said it was because she dislocated my shoulder. It seems like she never knew.

I don't know why I'm confessing this, because it's something that never really… majorly affected me. I just started wondering, "is this maybe this is what fucked up my current emotional state?" I don't know. It's weird. I was fine until high school, then shit hit the fan after my first breakup and I've more or less been thinking so much about why I feel so fucked in the head. Like, I contemplated death so much around that time that it became a thing to think "yeah, but it doesn't really matter about my future since I'll just off myself" casually. I've tried my hardest to change it into "even though I don't know what I'm gonna do in life, I'm studying something that I love! I'll figure it out!" but some days I just feel so… I guess how you feel when you're bored and there's nothing to really do sort of "low" that I start thinking like that again.

I don't know. It feels weird. Contemplating suicide has just been so normalized in my thought process even though I don't want it to be, that when even the tiniest of shits hits the fan (like my parents arguing about dumb shit) I just freak out and immediately think terrible things and blame it on myself and start thinking about how I need to die.

I've become borderline obsessed with being happy and keeping myself happy so I don't think this way, and for the past year or so, it's been great! But it takes so little to break it down, that I don't really know what to do.

No. 12368

>>7697
Guys want chubby women anon don't worry
but it depends on what you define "chubby"
having lil fat on your stomach is cute. from what i've seen, most guys like curvy (hourglass figure) and thick (small waist and big butt) or little chubby. be proud of your body anon. You can also wear corsets to have that hourglass figure

No. 12371

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>>12047
>>12045
Because I want to fucking die. I drink chemical products since I'm 10 (I can't cut myself because blood/vains make me nauseous).
alright, it's a very long story:
I come from a very abusive family; my mother:
>insults me (ie: "I wish you were never born" or "I should put you in foster care"
>she blames me for my mental illnesses (I cope with tons and she acts like its my fucking fault)
>never happy that I live with her (she always threatens me to put me in an orphanage or say she can't stand me)
>is a huge hypocrite
>doesnt care if she hurts me
>ALWAYS make fun of me EVERYDAY when she talks to her sister
>thinks i ruined her life
>blames everything on me
there's more but it'd be too long.
my big sister:
>never was there for me
>never wanted to play with me
>always rejected me
>doesnt care about me at all
>lies to me (she says she'll play with me but then she hangs out with her friends)
my father:
>strangled me when I was 13 because i didnt agree with him or some shit (my mother didnt do anything she just watched him)
>always insult me
>always hit me (especially with the belt) and tell me im worthless for no fucking reason
>always tell to my little sister (well i hope you wont end up like ____ (me))
>always scream
>always threaten he'll strangle me or punch me
>doesnt care about my feelings
I was also verbally abused by two of my ex and it hurts so much. I deal with a shit ton of tissues. I CANNOT accept that some people care about me. I'm very lonely. I have a superior intelligence and i fucking hate it. i wish i was stupid and happy. I push people away (even some of my boyfriends to other girls) because 1. I don't deserve to have them and i love them so much, they need someone better than me 2. i'm scared they'll hurt me like everyone do. I'm very shy, I know how to make friends but nobody is interested in me. I cry every night because I'm that sweet caring girl that helps everyone but that everyone forgets after awhile. I focus so much on making people happy. Everytime i think someone is my best friend or close friend, they only see me as some random friend. Nobody cares about me and it kills me. I have huge trust issues. People only use me. I'm never the first choice to anyone. I'm not special to anyone. I'm scared to talk to people because i'm used of my ex best friends telling me they dont care and i'm worthless so i think i bother everyone. I just have so much to say but nobody is here to listen. I just pass my days reading and playing video-games even if its summer (im a loser anyway). I hate myself so much. I've always fantasized about slicing my throat. I will also never have a boyfriend again. Honestly, what guy would want a girl that has family issues, daddy issues, copes with a lot of mental illnesses? no one. I'm trying to accept the fact that I'll stay lonely forever. no close friend, no boyfriend. I'm also planning to be adopted by someone I know just to escape my crazy family. I also miss my ex boyfriend. even if he cheated me, lied about loving me, called me worthless and told me to go kill myself a lot of times, he was still very intelligent and we had everything in common.

No. 12377

Not to turn away from the current issues from other users, but I feel like I'm going through a crisis. I don't know what to do or who to turn to.

I watched my mom die years ago, and I keep seeing her rotting corpse when I try to sleep. Like, I feel like I'm actually seeing it melt into gory slush in front of my eyes.

How can I make the ultra-vivid images in my mind go away? I just want to forget what I saw. I haven't slept well in days. I actually blacked out in absolute terror last night because it all felt so real again. I felt possessed and consumed by it. It's getting nightmarish to live. I jump at everything. I'm so paranoid.

No. 12378

>>12368
Actually guys want interesting nice funny, smart (etc) women and they want them to be just "enough" attractive.

No. 12382

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Im sure I will die before the age of 30 because I've been drinking and taking drugs since the age of 13, it started as a way to distract myself from crippling anxiety and depression but now its just a habit.

A man I know gave me a goal in life and I really love him for that but we are far from close to each other and we even have similar interests but im too beta to approach him which is killing me.

Im really drunk and crying so its very possible this is nonsense
Im so sick of life lolcow, but at least i have this as entertainment

No. 12398

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No. 12416

I am finally losing weight and plan to be thin again. I am really afraid women will not be attracted to me because in the south everyone likes chubby and fat girls. Everyone complimented my body when I was overweight but I hated it and prefer when I was slightly underweight. Bmi of 17

No. 12417

>>12416
By bmi of 17 I mean that's what it was when I was underweight. Now i am ashamed of mine

No. 12656

>>12378
Guys are attracted to big tits and big butts anon. cut that personality shit. it's just a thing ugly people say lmao

No. 12660

>>12656
Not necessarily. I'm one of those people who bases my partners more on personality than looks. Granted I still have to be physically attracted to them. If they look good but their personality is shit that's an immediate turn off for me.

Different strokes for different folks I guess.

No. 12663

>>12656
I like small girls….why don't you just say that you're attracted to chubbier girls instead of everyone which isn't true….

No. 12664

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>>12656
A lot of guys are head over heels for Sophie (tumblr camgirl) and she is a very petite lady… Being hot is so much more than being chubby or having a hourglass body.
Of course guys like curvy women, but if you want to attract people I think it's smarter to try to be an average looking, good person than focusing only on your appearance and being dumb as fuck or mean or ininteresting.

No. 12665

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>>12656
>real men like tittie an' ass
That's something a salty fat girl would say. Most guys I've met like smaller girls.

No. 12666

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No. 12667

>>12664
She's your run of the mill girl-next-door white girl, and knows how to act sexy while still looking generally innocent. It's not hard to see why guys go crazy over her.

No. 12668

>>12665
Really? I was thinking it came from a bitter chick with no tits and no ass.

I don't see how it matters either way. Anyone with a brain who is looking for a long-term relationship will be placing compatibility/values above things like that. And if a flat chick is looking for one-night-stands, there are plenty of guys who will stick it in pretty much anything.

No. 12675

>>12668
Low self-esteem alert. Listen, if you like bigger girls fine. Go for it. But fucking realize that's not what everyone likes. The fact that you are here trying so hard to push the this opinion is sad as hell. I'm sure plenty of pixteris need someone go find one.

No. 12677

>>12668
….are you retarded? Stop speaking for everyone. You sound like a butthurt insecure fatty trying to get validation for being "a real wimminz wit curves!!!!!" Fuck off and see a therapist for that self hate projection shit.

No. 12678

>>12675

By "things like that" I meant, "the lack or presence of tits/ass."

Sorry if that triggered you.

No. 12737

>>12675
>>12677
"Bigger girls" So having big tits and big butts (aka a WOMANLY and FEMININE) body is makes people "Fat"? You guys are fucked up.
Stop being so fucking offended. NO one finds flat chests and flat asses attractive. Guys don't. They're naturally attracted to big tits and big butts. you guys have such low self-esteem.
People here bash fat girls and flat chicks like you. get over it lmao

No. 12738

>>12665
Guys are naturally attracted to big butts and big boobs. it's science for fucks sake.
These traits are feminine.

No. 12739

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I love how anons here are fine for bashing fat girls but they get offended when someone says the truth aka flat ass and flat chests are gross af.
Like you anons have fucking low self-esteem. nobody finds both attractive, unless the guys are lolicons. no one here is a salty fat girl. do you guys watch videos about how to feel better about your flat chest?

No. 12740

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>>12663
It's science. HAving big boobs and big butts doesnt make a girl chubby.
Science has proven guys like big tits and big butts. Sorry you like lolis but your opinion is unpopular. And I doubt you are a guy so lol

No. 12741

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In today society fatness is associated with stupidity and laziness. It's proven that smart guy like intelectualized womens body, AKA petite skinny lady.

It's cool if you want to be a fatty and be fucked by every stupied wigger and gangsta out there. Leave us all the smart nice sensual guys and go get gangbanged by some stupid ugly motherfucker.

No. 12745

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>>12740
Marilyn was a skinny bitch who exercised a lot, she heavily disliked fatty like you :)
She had a pervect hourglass body, curves but she wasn"t fat.

No. 12758

>>12745
she's still fat, what are you talking about, look at her thighs and arms

No. 12769

>>12745
I'm not a fatty and Marilyn was curvy. An hourglass figure is curvy. Nobody implied she was fat either, idiot. I was saying hourglass bodies don't make someone chubby. Get that sand out of your vagina.
>>12758
You're fucked up if you think she's fat. Her body is perfectly healthy and CURVY (not like fat girls hijacked the word) Just because she doesnt have stick legs doesnt mean she's fat, ana-chan.

No. 12770

>>12741
Where are those sources?
It's proven guys like hourglass figures.
pls give me the sources that smart guys like twigs

No. 12771

>>12745
skinny/=/ curvy
marilyn was curvy, not skinny. :)

No. 12773

>>12769
>>12771
Actually she was both, no stfu and stop eating so much.

No. 12774

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http://www.geneticliteracyproject.org/2015/03/30/why-men-like-womens-curves-how-big-a-role-has-evolution-played/
For all of you salty anons.
Curvy /=/ Fat
whatever makes you anons feel better about your small or flat boobs i guess

No. 12775

>>12773
I'm not a fatty. You can't be both, dumbass.
Hourglass figures are curvy.
Skinny bodies don't have big boobs and big butts. Skinny girls usually have flat to small boobs and butts. Stop thinking she's skinny because you're skinny, for fucks sake.
She was curvy. that's what curvy means.

No. 12776

>people here not realizing skinny /=/ fit

No. 12777

>>12775
Well i'm french so maybe i'm wrong but to me curvy is the way your body is made so like in a 8/guitar shape and skinny is having not lot of fat on this shape. In this sense it's totaly possible

No. 12779

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>>12777
Forget the stupid text on the picture but skinny usually means what is up.
Curvy usually refer to hourglass figures since they're heavy in the top and bottom. they also dont have skinny legs so thats why i think both terms are too different.
not that theres anything wrong with being skinny tho

No. 12780

Can we just stop arguing?
Skinny is beautiful. Chubby is beautiful. Hourglass figures are beautiful.
Stop bashing boob and butt sizes. all of you are salty as fuck

No. 12782

>>12656
Salty bring salty

No. 12783

I once cheated on my ex boyfriend and I never told him.
it feels good tbh

No. 12784

>>12782
People are shallow, anon. Looks matter.

No. 12785

>>12783
why not?

No. 12909

I constantly feel lonely. I'm not always alone 24/7 but I have a feeling I don't connect with people well enough, or at all. I don't sit on my phone all the time so when I commute or go anywhere it's always so quiet. My boyfriend knows I'm not a social person (although I can be) but I think he abuses it. I think most of my friends abuse that. "She wants to be alone so we won't invite her out". I don't like being alone all the time.

No. 12916

I actually really want to be internet famous. Like Felice Fawn level famous before she went into hiding. Hell, I'd do Kiki level of popularity too. I want to be validated and I want people to like me and praise me. But I also want to be able to make money off of it too through ads, donations from twitch, etc. It just seems so easy and it pisses me off that people squander that good life and are actually shitty people and don't do any good with it.

No. 12945

>>12909
>I constantly feel lonely
>I have a boyfriend and friends
Stop whining and go ask them to invite you then. You're not lonely. shit like this pisses me off. there are people that are truly lonely unlike you

No. 12966

>>12909
>I'm lonely
>I have a feeling I don't connect with people well enough, or at all.
>mfw I know that feel
>b-but I have friends and a boyfriend!
>mfw no friends, no boyfriend, only talk to my mom sometimes

You're not lonely.

No. 13041

>>12966
>>12945


I actually understand how she feels. It's weird, you know you have friends but you feel like you don't. It's like you can't trust them or connect to them at all, like you don't fit in.

I've been "truly" alone (no friends, no boyfriend, not even my mom really liked me) and I've been >>12909 type of alone.

I'd have to say >> 12909 type of alone actually feels worse. You always feel like you're bothering someone when you try to reach out. You can feel all your friends slipping away, and you end up wondering what the hell is wrong with you. Tbh i think that could be a sign of depression.

No. 13167

Thank you for understanding. I do have depression actually. I do often invite myswlf out as well but all my friends smoke weed and I no longer do. Its awkward. Thats just one reason though. It's quiet almost all the time thats whats kind of driving me nuts.

No. 13237

I already have social anxiety pretty bad & smoking weed used to calm me down, plus it was a way to bribe people to hang out with me haha.
but a month or two ago, I started developing hypersensitivity whenever I smoked. I get really paranoid and aware of the way my teeth feel in my mouth–I'd imagine that my molars were wiggly, or my gums were twinging, at one point I literally hallucinated that a tooth fell out while I was trying to chew sushi. I went to go see a dentist, and they couldn't find anything wrong with my teeth, so these symptoms have to be psychosomatic…but the long and short of it is that now I can't even hang out with my friends, they're all smokers and even the smell of weed nowadays makes my teeth/gums cripplingly painful. It's gotten to the point that I switched over to a liquid diet, started using a mouth guard, I floss and brush like someone with OCD, but some days I still wake up with my jaw aching so much that I can't even talk. I've seriously considered killing myself because I can't do even basic human activities like eating with enjoyment anymore. The other option is getting all my teeth pulled and buying dentures instead, but that idea is horrifying in a whole different way.
the sad part is that my teeth look totally normal, my friends think I'm doing it for attention and whenever I have a panic attack they just try to tell me to 'calm down' & 'take deep breaths' which is completely unhelpful…idk guys. I feel totally isolated even if I technically have 'friends', but nobody wants to hang out with me anymore since I'm not constantly smoking them out like I used to, I'm just anxious and depressed all the time. I'm not in a 'serious' relationship right now, but even when I'm approached with the opportunity, I can't imagine being intimate with anyone the way things are now…
men are such basic & self-serving assholes anyways, they all just want pussy and a pretty face sucking their dick.

No. 13257

I was depressed for 6 years (2008 - 2014), and lost all of my friends last year. I had pushed them away sufficiently enough that they don't talk to me anymore. I would be the most boring person to talk to because I never went out, so I didn't want to meet in person and just exacerbate their worsening impression of me.

It sucks, because I finally feel okay again but have no one to celebrate this with. I'm about to graduate from college and got a job lined up, but none of them know that. They probably think I'm still at home starring at the wall all the time or something.

At the same time, I don't feel too bad because they haven't changed that much. I was looking through my old fb posts and messages, and noticed the complete 180 I seem to have taken personality wise. Alright thats a bit extreme, I'm still similar, but I did some growing up that is not related to maturity if that makes sense.

My new personality seemed to have clashed with theirs a bit as I was coming out of my depression, but I want to see if thats still true now, because for all I know, they may have only shown me the same side of themselves they always did because of the fact that we've known each other for years.

I miss having friends, I get really lonely sometimes. I've become a bit of a loner because of how used to it I am, but still wish I had people to talk to even if I didn't hang out with them all the time.

A lot of times I feel as though they gave up on me and didn't stick around to see if I'd return to being the friend they wanted to be around all the time. I feel as though had the situation been reversed, I wouldn't have given up on them… but idk.

No. 13291

>>13257
Man… I'm probably like 4 years younger than you but I feel the same way, 100%. I don't have any friends at all. I'm still kind of depressed though, haha.

Congratulations on graduating!

No. 13526

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/cow/ am I a bad person?

My confession is I really love male attention. Not like posting photos of myself online, or nudes, or camming, or anything like that. I jsut really like flirting / being flirted with by guys online… I have a boyfriend though. I am not romantically interested in the guys that flirt with me/I flirt with. I don't love them. I just really like the feeling of guys wanting to talk to me.

I feel like such a shitty person.

No. 13529

>>13291
thanks so much anon, haha it's kinda sad but you're the only person who has congratulated me and it made me feel happy

I genuinely hope that in time you'll be better. It sucks because we're both in a position where it's kinda hard not to be depressed, but I hope that it'll change for you.

No. 13530

>>13237
Wow that sounds pretty terrible. I've had similar things happen to me when high but the delusions go away when I'm sober. Like you've stopped smoking weed entirely and you still have paranoia and are obsessed with your teeth? If you haven't stopped smoking then definitely stop. And if your friends won't hang around with you because you don't smoke, you should consider whether those people are actually your friends or just people you hang out with when you're high.

No. 13532

I feel really fucking suicidal all the time. I've tried meds. I've been on different meds for going on 15 years. None of them really work. I don't think this is going to ever go away.

I keep trying to fake it and be optimistic but I just wish I could die most of the time.

No. 13534

>>13526
I don't think you are. Sounds strange but a few of my exes would love having me be complimented in front of them, and it made me feel good too. I think we both liked that fact that it made us feel good about who we were/who we were dating.

I think the same goes for you. Even though you have a bf, it feels nice getting the extra attention, kinda like your guy isn't the only one who'd be interested in you.

While I wouldn't flirt with these guys beyond the point where we wouldn't have to question if we were flirting anymore, I don't think you should feel terrible. Unless you're feeling terrible because of the extent you're taking your flirting to.

No. 13536

>>13532
Faking it makes it worse, I tried that and it just prolonged my depression.

Once I was open about it and everyone basically dropped off the face of the earth because they couldn't stand to be around me, I had nothing to focus on but myself and my misery. Eventually I started doing little things to make myself happy, not for anyone else but me. It took a while because nothing really made me feel anything at first.

In the end it took about 2 yrs but I can say I am in such a much better place. I don't think I'm depressed anymore (though i do have my moments where I'd rather not do anything than be in my room, in the dark for days without seeing or talking to anyone. Though thats only happened twice within the 2 yrs and not the 24/7, 365 it was before.

Idk what'll work for you anon, I wish it wasn't like this for you.

No. 13538

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I hate my mother. I've been trying for years to like the only biological parent left in my life (my biological dad ditched me in a park with my stuff over a decade ago and I've been no contact since), but I can't. Even the thought of saying "I love you" to her torments me because I'm not telling the truth so it feels forced and awkward. It's felt that way for years.

I'm not a redditor but someone recently linked me to the sub raisedbynarcissists and I'm starting to see lots of correlations of other peoples' narcissist parents with my mom's behavior. To name a few:
>in every confrontation and argument we have she is always the victim and I am always wrong no matter the circumstances
>the only feelings that matter are hers
>when I ask for respect or tell her she's disrespecting me she avoids my frustration and tries to make it into a "joke"
>she gives "gifts" and does favors for me only with the intention to indebt me to her as control tokens, or to call me an ungrateful shit later if we have a fight

I wish I had the room to give the proper backstory, but TL;DR my mom pitched a tantrum at me while we went out to dinner (in public) when I called her out on talking down to me about her "tight money budget" (my stepdad owes the IRS $11k for avoiding wage taxes and they're renting a house and two storage units because they haven't found a house she "likes" yet since they sold their last one), acting like their financial bullshit is my fault. The whole argument started because my stepdad wants to drive to their ex-location with a u-haul to collect their shit from one storage unit 3 hours away because of bill costs. He needs me and my bf to go with him with my car because my mom claims "driving anxiety" and can't follow him for the trip. My stepdad, trying to be nice since the storage unit is at a beach location, had tried to book a hotel so me and bf could enjoy the beach, but the expense is too great. I don't actually care, but my bitch mother felt it was her duty to condescendingly remind "the table" (re: me) that "it wasn't a vacation" and bawww no money :(, like I was asking for a fucking vacation. So I told her exactly that; that I wasn't asking for a damn vacation and to stop shifting sands about money. Then she claimed she was talking "generally" and how fucking DARE I ATTACK her and SHE IS GETTING SO ANGRY RAWR and HER MEAL IS NOW RUINED :((( She actually puffed herself up and raised her voice in a damn restaurant.

Now she's huffing around the house scowling, slamming doors, and holding a grudge against me like a fucking 14 year old. Same shit like always whenever I tell her off and she knows her shit stinks but is too proud to admit it. Just ugh.

No. 13557

>I'd have to say >>12909 type of alone actually feels worse.

no it doesn't. not even close to actual loneliness. good lord. it's not up for debate either.
>>12945 and >>12966 hit the nail on the head.

No. 13558

>>13557
meant to reply to >>13041

No. 13561

>>13534

I guess I just feel so shitty because it's like… why can't my boyfriend's attention be enough? What's wrong with me that I need more attention? I don't go too far with flirting, it's just the desire to have it makes me feel bad.

But I guess I feel better knowing that someone read what I said and didn't immediately recoil and could understand where i was coming from. So thank you!

No. 13567

>>13561
Some people like or need attention more than others. Maybe you get a special feeling when people flirt with you since flirting itself is basically a giant compliment. Perhaps you enjoy the idea that other people besides your boyfriend find you interesting/attractive enough to flirt with you. Your case sounds harmless and 100% normal since you aren't cheating or doing anything wrong. Don't worry about it too much!

No. 13576

I think I have dyscalculia. It would explain a lot. I can barely do simple math, I can't read an analog clock, I constantly mix up left and right and I have issues with maps due to that as well.

I have a huge problem with things that are on someone else's right or left. So I have to visualize myself standing behind that person or object and waiting a few seconds until it clicks.

I feel really stupid. Because I'm otherwise intelligent. But numbers, directions and time are huge roadblocks. No one ever diagnosed me with anything. I was just verbally abused by teachers and had books thrown on the floor because I didn't understand the lessons.

I grew up thinking math was horrible. When I see people using math with ease I don't understand how they can manage to figure it out. I have to keep telling people to give me only straight numbers in the proper order. when I ask for the time. If you say 20 of 9 or quarter past 10 I have to process what the hell you meant for several seconds. Because my mind can't get it down fast enough. There's no instant recognition.

One of the main reasons I stopped carrying cash is because I was constantly breaking big bills because I couldn't count change. If I had five one dollar bills I had to count them out several times to make sure I counted to five. Because sometimes I didn't. I had to memorize specific combinations of coins that made up x amount of money. And even then I could not count them out properly on the first try.

I even practiced. But I get so confused. And i didn't want to hold up lines or look stupid spending two minutes trying to could out two dollars in change. eight quarters could be five quarters for all I know. I might actually count out more or less than is there.

It's really upsetting that I am this dumb with math. I feel defective and useless. All the things I liked, like science and technology were out of reach because my brain wouldn't math no matter how many hours I had of studying and tutors.

With other subjects there is no issue. Everything else is a piece of cake and I have excellent reading comprehension and long term memory. But you can't be smart if you can't add simple numbers. So I feel flawed.

No. 13577

>>13576
>I have a huge problem with things that are on someone else's right or left. So I have to visualize myself standing behind that person or object and waiting a few seconds until it clicks.

I have this too, but I also have to take a second to remember which is my left and my right. I keep being made fun of for it all the time but I can't help it, I just have trouble figuring it out. It's especially embarrassing when I don't have the time to think about it, like when I'm driving and someone tells me to turn right, I turn to the left. Or when someone tells me to grab the left whatever and I'm going for the one on the right.

No. 13578

been into this girl i met online for a bit, but i realize i have nothing in common with her other than she reminds me of myself before i got really sick and emotionally dysfunctional. doesnt help that she's about six years younger than me and im more than likely too emotionally volatile to be anything more than friends with her

realizing we have little to talk about because we don't have similar interests, but she seems intent on being friends despite that. havent talked to her in about a week. i dont really want her to contact me and i want her to focus on her friends and her interests rather than think about me

its making me anxious because i just lost two friends this week and i feel like my personality is fraying to reveal the abusive and petty person i am

No. 13598

>>13576
Anon I have very similar problems. Distrublingly similar. I was so bad at multiplications in third grade and it was pretty traumatizing.

What would happen in third grade is we had to do 100 problems in like one minute, and you'd fail if you missed more than 5. The people who passed didn't have to do them anymore. so fewer and fewer people were taking the test every day we did it. The goal being of course, for everyone in the class to pass. Well…Fast forward a month. I was the ONLY one left taking the test. I couldn't pass it. I kept failing and failing and failing… Part of the punishment for not passing was detention from recess. So yeah, for over a month I didn't get to go outside and play, and once a day the whole class got to watch me, the idiot, try and pass the test.

One day I turned it in and watched her grade it and I was at 5, so if I missed one more I'd fail. Again. I saw another one I had missed and was just heartbroken and thankfully the teacher "missed" it, and I got to "pass."

Fucking traumatized me from math ever since. In high school, in geometry, I had a real panic attack in class because I couldn't understand what anything meant.


Fuck math.

No. 13602

>>13576
>>13598
>bad mathfags
Ayyy.

I have similar problems.
It's embarrassing to admit that even after working as a cashier for so many years I still can't do the mental math to make change and have to rely on a calculator or register "just to be sure."
I remember being segregated into this unhelpful alternative math class with two others during what was supposed to be our computer class because we sucked so hard at math we needed extra tutoring. Except instead of helping us with our actual homework, they would just create pointless extra problems that often had nothing to do with our then current lessons. I recall getting so frustrated at problems I would break down and cry.

Somehow I managed to pass AP calc my senior year in high school, which in turn saved me from taking even harder math classes in college, but I remember obsessively memorizing shit that came to others easily. Sometimes I was so desperate I wrote mathematical acronyms on my hand just to give me "clues" during quizzes. The biggest problem was laying low enough for my teach not to target me. She hated my guts and knew that I wasn't smart when it came to math. She looked for opportunities to make examples of us dumb-dumbs. If she called on a non-favorite student to solve a problem, and they didn't get it right, she'd assume they weren't paying attention and not that her teaching wasn't clear. She'd chew out students in front of the entire class. One time she reemed me so hard that she shifted the issue from the math question to what I was wearing.
And so help the students who defended themselves because then they were "copping an attitude" and were sent to the office. Bad times.

No. 13603

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>>13576
>Gif as an apology for possibly illegible rant
(Sorry if this is terrible writing, I'm on mobile)
At least you're not alone anon.
Difference is that I am still in school and I probably have a smalll chance of improving.
Since elementary I've been terribad at multiplication, division (that shit is my killer), fractions, percentages, and I still can't tell you what a ratio is. I have to do that left and right thing too. Back in j.high people used to tell me to read bigger numbers to them just so they could laugh and call me stupid.
I dread counting money because I already have a slower movement than most, so I stumble trying to count coins, sometimes making a fool of myself because I get jittery. Makes me feel dumb as fuck.
I have a "tutor", but all he does is sit back and give me problems. He'll never tell me what to do, just sit there on his phone. When I reveal that Idk what in God's name I'm doing, he'll explain everything in this complex and fast manner while doing the problem as if he was solving it for himself, and get mad when I don't understand shit. Or go on rants about how the American metric system is stupid
>Idefk
>Is too much of a baby to say something, probably will have him again if he doesn't get the government job he wants
>He's family so I don't want to make him feel bad
>But mommy's money a-wasting

I also have to ask questions more than once in classes, and all I get are groans from the teacher and students.
>I'm sorry I thought we supposed to ask questions when we don't understand so I don't freaking fail
>Teacher keeps going with lesson even though she asked who didnt understand
>Because it's me, and I always ask 'stupid questions' she doesn't stop
>Gets frustrated
>throws down books
>cries (Can't help it, I'm a huge cry baby)
Counselor said she's giving me all honor classes next year to 'challenge me'; trouble with my school is that honor students are people who looks down on anyone they deem as weird or dumb(I.e: me), and will make fun of you, instead of help. Hell even the teachers.
Can't solve a problem in your head, and have to use your finger? You're a dumbass.
Yet these same kids are the ones running to me for help because I'm one of the best in English, Biology, Chemistry(not so much because measurements and converting), and History.
>Counselor wants me to take dual credit courses
>Must get a 48 and up across the board in the psats for that to happen
>Tfw math was a 32 or something and was the only thing holding me back
>guessed for most of the problems anyway
>really wants to take dual credit
>last chance to take psats is next year
On top of that, I want to become a zoologist or a veterinarian.That's math all over again. Not giving up though, I'm trying to do IXL to help me out, but my problem with that is concentration.
I can't really tell my parents I may have a problem either, I'm their golden child apparently since I'm the only one with hope to finish school.

No. 13605

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>tfw you're critically depressed to the point of considering suicide because of untreated anxiety, financial stress, and a lifestyle that can best be described as 'urban hermit'.
>tfw your best friend: "oh haha I know exactly what you mean! I'm depressed because I'm fat and now boys don't pay attention to me! dieting is hard :)))'
>tfw she spends $200 on an elliptical she never uses instead of trying to pay back any of the $2,550 she owes you in rent.
>tfw you're slowly becoming aware that her friendship has basically consisted of her taking advantage of you & your income for the past year or so.
>tfw you still won't stand up for yourself because you're terrified of losing any of the few 'friends' you're still in contact with.

No. 13614

>>13605
Whoa I was in the same situation as you in terms of not wanting to stand up to the only two "friends" I had because of how scared I was of being lonely.

Eventually they stopped contacting me because I wouldn't really reply to their messages anymore. Fortunately I didn't live with them, so it was easy to not have to see or speak with them. I definitely felt like saying good riddance, but I have no one to hang with now and haven't for 8 months.

Sometimes its best to get rid of people like that if you can't stand up to them because they just make you feel worse. I do recommend you asking her to start paying you back because of how much the financial stress is weighing heavy on you. If she doesn't accept that then it won't be a loss on your part.

No. 13626

>>13603
Have you considered that you might have a learning disability like dyscalculia?

No. 13627

>>13626
Unfortunately yes, but that's where

>I can't really tell my parents I may have a problem either, I'm their golden child apparently since I'm the only one with hope to finish school


Comes in. I tried easing into telling my parents,(neither of my parents are ok with self dx) and my mom tells me I'm the nurse who hears about the diseases she sees, and suddenly she has everything. She also believes if you think you have it, you probably don't.
>I only eased it in twice
>Even though she knows I've always been terrible at math
>And the only improvement is remembering simple things middle schoolers learn in algebra or geometry

No. 13654

>>13627
Maybe try to talk to the school counselor about it? They'll know more about how to deal with LDs and could talk to your parents for you so it doesn't just seem like you're making shit up. Or tell them, you just want to talk to a doctor to make sure, if anything you'll either find out you have it and can get help with it or nothing changes. Maybe frame it that it wouldn't hinder your ability to finish school, maybe even help if you do have an LD because then you can get specialized help with math.

Also, you should be honest with your mom about your tutor being shit.

No. 13678

>>13603
I have no useful advice but I can relate with the awful math shit. I've been horrible at it and struggled for as long as I could remember, and then in middle school started to get "held back" in math classes, so I would be in lower level ones than my grade was. This continued into high school with me taking pre algebras over and over. My parents put me in sylvan learning center - absolutely useless. Had a tutor in junior year, failed algebra AND chemistry. Senior year I had to take geometry or I wouldn't graduate, and I did horribly in that too - I'm pretty sure the teacher passed me out of pity.

I am just completely incapable of math and I don't know why. It's not for lack of trying, but it's like my brain just doesn't function in a way where it makes sense or is logical. Even if I do manage to understand concepts, they are gone in an hour. I'd do them at my tutor's house, we'd finally get somewhere, but by the time I got home to work on practice problems it was gone again. I'm great at every other subject as long as it doesn't involve numbers.

Hell, I'm in the degree program that I am simply because it had no math requirements except quantitative reasoning, because the other major I was in I couldn't pass college algebra and I'm sick of taking the same fucking remedial math courses over and over that don't even count as credits and wasting money. At this point I'll take any degree and be on my way.

I hate feeling like such a retard.

No. 13962

I promised my significant other that I wouldn't make myself puke again but I did it for the very first time in a long time and I'm scared I might relapse.

No. 13972

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>>13603
>>13602
>>13598
>>13576
>>13577
>>13678
>Other people who have dyscalculia/are horrendous at math
I-I'm not alone. Even at my laziest and most disorganized, I have mid-tier grades on every subject. Math? Ridiculously low.
It took me a while to figure out not being able to math doesn't make me retarded. Math is literally a shorthand for basic logic made up of symbols. Just because you're not good at understanding that shorthand doesn't mean you can't into logic whatsoever, it just means your brain is different. I wish more people understood that.
People tell me "Practice makes perfect", but no matter how much I practice I forget everything within an hour. IMO it's better to just not deal with it at all and try to focus on practical shit like counting coins and calculating change to avoid getting ripped off, but I don't even know if that's possible at this point.

No. 14578

bump

No. 15904

i'm the same age as PT and have the same weeby-geeky interests as her, except that i look fairly younger and am an independent adult. when i feel like crap i look at her thread and compare myself to her and almost always come out feeling better because compared to her i look like a fucking gorgeous teen who's a billionaire rockstar.

yeah real original, stfu newfag, etc etc.

No. 15918

I've been a cutter for as long as I can remember. I started at a very young age and there's only been one year since where I didn't self mutilate. I hide the marks with make up and clothing. The only person I've confided this to is my long term internet friend, but I've decided to stop admitting it to him because the last time I did, he offered to pay for me to go to therapy. I feel too guilty to accept his help, especially because I have no health insurance.

No. 15919

>>15918
hey man, long term cutter here as well. how do you deal with people staring at your scars? how do you deal with your family knowing?

you're not alone and i hope you can find a way to stop eventually. hurting yourself is not worth it, in the end. i know these sound like empty fucking words, but i just want you to know that you're not alone and there's a way to stop.

No. 15926

When I'm not working, I sit at home in my room all day. I have no friends or family and at this point don't want any. This lack of purpose in life has led me to live in a fantasy world 24/7. I've gotten so addicted to daydreaming that I often forget what happened to my day. Not much more to say but it's kind of nice.

No. 17060

>>15919

thanks for the kind words, it's comforting to know others have experienced similar circumstances.

the older i get, the less i care about people staring at my scars. my parents know about it, but they honestly don't give a fuck. when my dad noticed, he just laughed at me. when i told my mom i was suicidal, she told me to keep it to myself. i don't live with or talk to them anymore.

No. 18930

man, my feels today are:
sick of my roommate.
we moved in about seven months ago. For the first six, I was paying the entirety of the rent (totaling 5,100 dollars) while she took care of utilities (roughly about 1,200 in all)
I agreed to this because we’d been friends for a while, and I believed her when she insisted that her work-study program didn’t pay well enough, she needed too much time for schoolwork to get another job, and her ex-roommate was literally about to toss her out on her ear with nowhere else to go.
looking back on it, that should have been the first warning sign. pretty much all of her old roommates have either left her or kicked her out.
this is probably at least partially because she’s an incredible slob. she will cook huge meals for her boyfriend and/or have him buy her takeout and never clean up after the mess. we had an incredibly gross fruit fly infestation recently because she literally just throws shit in the sink (completely ignoring the dishwasher) without ever rinsing off her spaghetti sauce/ketchup/whatever. she left a tub of garlic butter open on the counter for three days once. to my knowledge, she has never cleaned the bathroom once in the seven months that we’ve lived in this apartment together. she also tends to hoard dishes.
when confronted about this behavior, she will either apologize for it or say that her guest was supposed to clean up after her and didn’t. then she does nothing. the one time that I asked her to rinse her dishes off, she pitched a huge hissy fit and told me I was being aggressive. her idea of ‘contributing’ to my financial struggles is leaving leftovers in the fridge that i am allowed to finish off.
in addition, she tends to buy massive quantities of food that she never finishes. recently, I cleaned out the fridge for her. there was shit in there that had literally gone green from being ignored for so long.
the fridge, by the way, is currently stuffed with frozen junk food. I cannot find a place to put my own groceries, which consist of:
some chicken salad
eggs
almond milk
boxed wine
mustard
and frozen burritos.
literally everything else (frozen pizzas, pizza rolls, chicken nuggets, corn dogs, condiments, takeout containers, frozen ravioli, liquor, margarita mix, etc) is hers. what I named is not even half of it. & she was eating like this the entire time that she was claiming that she could not afford to contribute to the rent.
the funny thing is that despite continuing to eat like shit, she has an extremely poor body image and will regularly complain to me about how she’s ‘depressed’ because she’s obese and men aren't attracted to her. her idea of depression is, ‘I was really sad for an entire day, and then I felt better’.
her telling me about her ‘depression’ is generally in response to me trying to explain the experience of having severe anxiety, like to the point that an anxiety attack will send me into mute, quaking paralysis for well over an hour.
she’s also a huge SJW despite the fact that she does nothing to actually contribute to the civil rights/feminist movements besides vent to her boyfriends and share articles on Facebook.
the worst part is that despite all of this, I know that confronting her would only lead to her throwing a tantrum and nothing would change except I would lose one of the few friends in the world that I have. also living together would get really awkward. because of my anxiety, i tend to live in pretty much isolation, sometimes not leaving my home for well over a week, and she’s the only person I see sometimes for several days. the only reason I will even vent about it here is because i’m pretty sure that nothing I say on this forum has any way of getting back to her.

No. 18948

>>18930
5100 for two people?? where do you live and why is your rent so damn expensive

No. 18952

I got banned from 4chan for posting gay cuck porn on /ck/.

No. 18953

>>18948
5,100 divided by 6 months = 850 per month. It's not that pricy compared to New York or something.

No. 18954

>>7626
Depends on where you go, you can't speak for everyone.
I'm going to the biggest business college in my country and everything depends on your success. If you're mediocre, you'll be one of those people crying about the economy and how you can't get a job. That's a guarantee.

You really have to do your best, be on everyone's good side, participate in as many extracurriculars as you can, etc. It's not the end of the world if you don't get straight As because no-one really does, but you need to be on top of everything.

The reason for that is that we get 'talent scouts' at the end of our studies and they look at your performance to determine whether you'd make a good employee or not. And let me tell you, the jobs they offer are real jammy like. Definitely don't wanna miss out.

No. 18960

This is dumb but I have a crush on one of my internet buddies. I don't know what they look like and they don't know what I look like, and we don't even talk that frequently but I just like them for some reason. I like their personality and interests. I get excited whenever they're online and thinking about them somehow keeps me from being depressed. It makes me want to better myself so I can become someone they could love. I am so stupid.

No. 18968

I'm not surprised at all to see that farmers are a bunch of depressed, self-hating fatties.

I get posting about lolcows to an extent but some of yiz get real petty and obsessed, it's actually scary.

Like the people looking at whether that anorexic girl took a bite out of something or not, or branding Venus as anorexic because she's veiny, or analysing every single photo Berry/Dakota/Kiki posts for flaws and signs of being chubby/ugly/photoshop.

Don't you get tired of nitpicking and judging everyone? I get reading about drama and whatnot but jesus there's such a thing as taking it too far.

No. 18970

>>18968
i like drama too but the nitpicking is so annoying sometime like jesus.

>venus loses a little weight OMG ANACHAN


>veins OMG ANA!!!!!11!


etc etc

esp when people here call cute/normal/average people hideous beasts or something

like ok, i'm a little ugly but at least i dont nit pick or say cute girls are ugly out of spite or jealousy. I dont get it. so many jelly chans here

No. 18971

>>18970
Yeah, I've noticed that too.
>someone posts photo of a relatively cute white girl
>ppssssshhhh she's nothing special xD average lol xDD Why don't they hire someone prettier?

So like they should personally ask you every single time they decide to sign a girl with a modelling agency, because you're apparently some authority that has a say in what's pretty and what isn't?

Or the double whammy of comparing identical twin sisters and saying one of them looks 'soo cute' whilst the other one is 'lol ugly'.

No. 18981

>>18960
This might be weird and irrelavent but uh are you a girl or boy? Are they a girl or boy?

No. 19213

This could probably turn into a thread itself butim tired of fuckin ham beasts trying to make fat the "average body type". Altering video game ccharacters and cartoons and claiming thats what they would look like if they were average sized. Theres also that ugly "normal" barbie doll. I would never buy that for myswlf or anyone else its hideous.

No. 19218

>>18981
I was vague on purpose because I'm paranoid like that. Hope you understand.

No. 19224

I feel like such an unreliable and terrible person.

My friends asked me if I could do something for them (the things would take a week or a month), and I wasn't able to finish it.

They asked me last year/beginning of this year, but I believe depression (I wasn't able to get dxed because y parents don't believe in me having something wrong with me one of those possibly discalculic anons above) hit, and I just stayed in bed all day after I came to school, during the weekends, and now through the summer. I accepted to do the requests when I was happy, had will, and motivation, and now it's just gone. Now finally, after avoiding going on the chat after feeling so bad, I went on the chat. And one of them, asked if I was finished/to see the progress., and I stalled and lied that I was working on it, and showed her this shitty thrown together thing.

As for the other thing, I got started, but I hate it so I want to demolish it, and start over.

I don't want to do it anymore, but I know I have to keep pushing myself even if it means carelessly messing around with my mouse while staring at my computer for an hour. But I don't know how to tell them that I don't want work on the things after telling them for months that I was doing it.
Plus my brother just leaves his son with us all day, and I;m the only one (idk why, bt that's just how it is) he can do his phonics sounds with for whatever reasons. Some days when I'm really down, I lock myself in my room because I know if I go to the computer, it'll be useless because I won't be able to get anything done.
I feel like a failure farmers.

No. 19225

>>19224
In addition, I'm doing it for free. I would've felt worse if they paid for it.

No. 19228

oh my God.
A man I work with had cancer. He went through chemo. He seriously just posted a status with the lines including, and I quote, "I had chemo, but I don't give it credit for my healing. I know in my spirit I was completely healed by the healing power of prayer and faith in Jesus. "

People like this seriously piss me off. If you think Jesus healed you, then fine. But he didn't. If anything, it might be a placebo effect from positive thinking, but I am willing to bet money that it was the fucking chemo that saved him.
Don't take away what doctors do to help save your goddamn life and give it to Jesus (who may or may not be real. I'm sure, judging by my tone, you can tell which side I'm on)

No. 19238

I have a crush on this guy, a couple of months ago he seriously led me on and then started dating someone else and my infatuation won't fucking wear off. I hate it and I hate myself for it and I can't talk myself out of that fucking crush.

No. 19274

>>19238
I've been through this. It took me almost a year to get over the guy, but it did happen

No. 19275

my bf is my ex's bff. i always feel so weird/jealous when my bf talks about my ex's girl problems. apparently my ex wants nothing more than a gf in his life but he dumped me. i feel like i shouldn't care by now.

No. 19299

I like semen, and the thought of getting pregnant. I like the risk of getting pregnant by semen, but I do not like children nor like pregnancies itself.

My boyfriend doesn't know this.

No. 19333


No. 19346

>>7635
>normies

No. 19348

I got a job, I'm working towards my dream career and I moved out on my own.

Now I have very little money, about $10 a week for food. I' hungry all day every day and my performance at work is slipping, I dropped 20lbs in three months.
I'm finally getting thin, after years of being a a wannarexic back in 2006 or so but it's horrible. I'm always cold, hungry and snappy.

Also I haven't had sex in forever or a boyfriend in a year and a half. I don't really have time or money for a boyfriend but when I go to bed at night I feel so lonely.

This morning I got so low I started thinking about crashing my car off a bridge on my way into work.

Does it get easier? Being an adult that is?
I'm only 24 and I'm over this already, I just don't have the energy, time or money to do or be anything I want.

No. 19349

>>19348
it gets harder.

No. 19350

>>7978
Find out your moon, sun (star) and rising and then there'll be context.
You can do a starchart on this site, here's one I made earlier for Pixyteri http://crystal.alabe.com/cgi-bin/chart/astrobot.exe?

for the time of day all that matters is AM or PM btw

No. 19351

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>>19349
shall I just commit Senpaku anon kun?

No. 19353

>>10051
I wonder how many of us e-famous cows are posting in this thread. It's strange to think that the same people who want us to suffer can hear our stories anonymously and be so kind and supportive.

I'm not sure that being posted on Lolcow and learning self loathing was a bad thing. I wonder if normalfags think about how strange it is that when some of us can just sit read through waves of personalised insults about ourselves specifically.

TL;DR what I'm trying to say is, how strange that we have a hugbox here.

No. 19361

I think I may be asexual (never been interested in sex or found many guys attractive even on a non-sexual level), but I'm beginning to suspect that it has a lot to do with me being terrified of men. I'm 24, never dated and the only guys who have ever been interested in me quickly outed themselves as creepy stalker types. There's a lot of good guys out there, but there's also so many creeps who will probably drop you once you turn 40 to chase a 17 year old. So many guys think with their dick. I just want to be left alone.

No. 19374

I hate the new mini wheats commercial and I feel autistic for hating it so much. Whenever it plays on tv, it just seriously bugs the crap out of me. The music sucks and sounds like a local hipster band was hired off the streets for 20 dollars. The instrumentals sound so awkward and disgusting; especially towards the end. It's almost as if they didn't know what direction they were going in terms of how they wanted the jingle to sound. The jingle isn't even catchy or anything either. It's just plain annoying. And the people in it are so stupid. I know this is how marketing works and commercials are usually ridiculous and over the top, but really? No one in real life would ever be dancing and grinning with glee by themselves as they put the spoon up to their mouths. And who the hell throws a box of cereal around? I was hoping it would drop and spill all over those bastards. Same goes for the businessman with his stupid kitty bowl. And who was the random guy that took a bite and put his arms in the air like he just scored a touch down? You're eating cereal at your boring office job, you need to calm down. I can already imagine his coworkers groaning as they put up with his bullshit that early in the morning on a daily basis. No fun allowed. And that stupid phrase they made up at the very end of the commercial is just do unclever it bugs me. "Feed your inner kidult". What the hell? They just meshed two words together and thought it would be oh so cunning to put in there. So eager to put it in their dumb commercial as if they found a new catchphrase. Way to hop on the bandwagon of most annoying marketting strategies, mini wheats. I would fire the turbo retard who came up with that on the spot. I can only expect #kidult to become a real thing next. What is this pile of shit?

No. 19377

I hate shitposters on tumblr.Why you do 50 post in an hour…why :'(

No. 19389

My boyfriend goes overseas a lot and comes from a wealthy, tight knit family. He just left on a month long vacation traveling around Europe with his cousin, completely paid for by his dad & even got 10k in spending money.
Meanwhile, I'm stuck in this shitty boring ass town working my tits off like always, and I am jealous as fuck. I'm normally not an envious person, but this + other frustrations is making it hard for me to keep a lid on my emotions lately.

I've been putting on a happy face and pretending to be excited for him and I'll pretend to be interested in his stories and pictures when he returns, but tbh it makes me feel dead inside. I don't even really care that he's gone, I just want to have fun, carefree traveling adventures soooo badly it hurts.

Coming from a small poorfag family, it kinda sucks seeing him not have to work for anything ever, always knowing that he'll have a safety net, getting tons of money, vacations overseas, and nice stuff for no reason. He's never even had to have a job before (we're both 24) and I've had a million crappy retail jobs, and at the same time have been busting my ass trying to become an established feelance artist so I can avoid a soul sucking 9-to-5.

I'm glad he's so blessed and he's a great guy, but I will forever be (secretly) salty. I know it's extremely petty and I would never, ever hold it against him, but I can't help my pangs of jealousy.


I just really hope I get to travel someday. ;__;

No. 19396

>>19389
If it's any consolation, rich yanks are entitled pieces of shit and everyone in Europe hates them. Not that Americans are all that popular otherwise, but these are especially annoying.

And don't worry, you'll travel. You can explore your country before you get to go elsewhere, there's plenty of lovely sights. We mostly get middle-aged Americans and they can be lovely people. Younger ones, if not rich, usually harass the staff because they want to feel important, but luckily we don't get too many of them. So if it makes you feel better, you're in the majority.

Just please do something other than art, it's a really shite line of work.

No. 19398

>>19389
10k spending money? For one month?

Marry him and reap the benefits.

No. 19404

I hate yaoi and fujoshits but my gf is one and I'm trying my best to get her out of it. I don't really know what's so hot and sexy about seeing two anime men having gay anime sex but it's so childish to me

No. 19405

>>19389
what kind of family does your bf come from? when i went abroad for a month i got like $300. maybe my parents are really stingy for the amount of money they make. lol

No. 19408

>>19404
do her a favor and just fucking break up with her because it's stupid to be that bothered by something as insignificant as liking yaoi. you seem insecure.

No. 19409

>>19404
You should just leave her alone IMO, as long she keeps that to herself and not shoving it to people's faces
Plus why do ppl like ecchi/hentai/porn if you like any of these just leave her be.

No. 19416

>>19404
You sound immature as fuck. The only reason why this would bother you is if you're insecure about something. It's the same reason why people like yuri or hentai. Or any type of porn for that matter. Please break up with her so she can find someone who's worthy and doesn't get uppity over this stupid shit.

No. 19418

>>7562
Thank you, that made me feel a bit better. There's definitely many beautiful places where I'm from, that I could explore. I probably should try to be less impatient with myself too, but that's easier said than done.
And yeah, art is a seriously shitty career choice. I spend a lot of time simultaneously regretting it and hoping I don't regret it later in life. But at the same time drawing is probably the only thing that makes me truly happy, plus I get very consistent commission work so I must be doing something right.
Though whenever people ask me what I do for work now, I say "nothing" and imply that I'm unemployed, because I know people will probably just think that art isn't a real job or that I'm a lazy hipster lol.

>>19398
Yeah, he's a lucky bitch. We've been dating for over 5 years so we will probably end up getting married eventually. But I really like the feeling of accomplishment/no one can fuck with me that comes from relying on myself so tbh I feel kinda butthurt knowing that I'll probably end up being a housewife.
I'm also pretty down to earth and fancy rich people shit gives me anxiety lol.

>>19405
I'd say that they appear to be upper middle-class, not living in a lavish mansion or anything like that, but his father has an incredibly successful car dealership, tons of assets (mostly land/property), my bf and his brother each have a few million in inheritance + giant plot of land overseas. They get every single thing they could ever want, and then some. His dad's side of the family is HUGE and also ridiculously successful. One of his uncles just sold his import/export company for a few billion.

A few weeks ago, the bf and I were talking about getting allowances as a kid. I had to beg and plead my mom FOREVER to give me money for an allowance, and for a year or so I got 10$ a week or every two weeks, I can't remember. But I do remember being really excited to just get 10$ and carefully picking out what I was going to buy with my allowance. I was having my nostalgia moment when my bf goes: "lol Anon, my dad gave us 600$ a week throughout middle/high school."
We were in different social circles in middle school, but I remember all the other kids talking about how he's rich as fuck, and I recall one day where everyone freaking out because he brought 700$ to school.

It definitely doesn't bother me to the point of affecting our relationship, we're very close. But I'd be lying if I said it didn't make me feel like a basic bitch sometimes.

No. 19419

Whoops >>7562 should be >>19396

No. 19429

>>19418
>But I really like the feeling of accomplishment/no one can fuck with me that comes from relying on myself so tbh I feel kinda butthurt knowing that I'll probably end up being a housewife.
Yeah, I don't get people who say 'oh marry a rich guy and do nothing for the rest of your life'. First of all, if you get divorced (unless you live in America) you'll be on your own and have nothing again. The only way to circumvent that is to have kids but then you're gonna be a single mother which is hell on earth.
Second, everyone will always assume you married him for money and that feels awful. Third, you're always gonna be in his shadow and earn less, which might demote you to 'housewife' as soon as something happens because 'I earn enough for the both of us lol'.
And a lot of men also use their wealth as a way to avoid chores or anything they don't want to do. They always say stuff like 'well I'M the breadwinner here, you have no right to boss me around!"

Then there's also the fact that you always feel second best and worthless even if you are cooking and cleaning and being a good little woman.

source: Celtic Tiger made my parents divorce and my mum ended up with next to nothing.

If you earn the money yourself you don't have to depend on anyone for anything. Not saying you shouldn't marry the guy, on the contrary, but you shouldn't marry someone just because they're rich so I 1oo% agree

No. 19430

(inc TMI) I might be pregnant and that would be really bad. I have PCOS and my periods were always super irregular until I got on medication last year. Since then, my period has been uncharacteristically regular, always every 5 weeks.

Now I'm 3 weeks late. I took an EPT last week and it was negative. I took another one today and thought I saw the faintest of lines, but couldn't tell if I was seeing shit, so I came back to it a few minutes later and couldn't find a line and neither could my boyfriend. Overall I've felt like absolute shit for these last three weeks, like PMS to the nth power - bloated, sore boobs, nauseous, etc. I've also gained several pounds even though nothing in my diet or exercise regime has changed.

I'm going to call my doctor in the morning. I don't really know what to think. If I'm pregnant, I'll have to drain my bank account to abort mission. But if it's my PCOS getting out of control again, that sucks too, because it took so long and so much adjustment of medication to feel like a normal person, and that sucked a lot.

No. 19432

>>19429
This has always baffled me too.

It's the perfect setup for divorce and an unhealthy relationship, like you said. I feel bad for those people that think that money or a rich spouse is the way to happiness.
I haven't even married the dude yet and I've had people accusing me of only dating him for his money since the beginning of our relationship. It definitely feels really horrible to have people thinking that you're a shallow gold digger, especially since it probably wouldn't happen as much if my family wasn't on the lower end of the income bracket.
His mom's a bit of a looney and she went around telling people that I'm only into her son because he has money, a shiny car, and buys me cigarettes. Ugh. I don't give two shits about any of that stuff lady, I buy my own cigarettes and just wanna hang out with your son ffs.

He's very generous, but I've brought up to my female family members how it makes me uncomfortable when he buys me things, and their response is usually along the lines of:
"Yeah? Good! He should be giving you more shit! You deserve it!"
Like… what kind of toxic bs attitude is that? People don't "deserve" gifts, that totally defeats the purpose of a gift and is a gross abuse of another person's generosity.

I've never had him pull the "I bought this for you/I'm the bread winner now do what I want" and hopefully he never will because I will nope the fuck out of that situation so fast.


But I'm very sorry your mom had to go through that, especially being on her own with children to think about and nothing to her name. That'd be incredibly stressful and is literally one of my worst nightmares. I hope she & your family are doing a lot better nowadays.
I was raised by a single mom too, but I'm American and the law was set up in her favor, which enabled her to stealthily gouge extra money from my dad (on top of child support). They were never even married either…
Soooo yeah, money is never a good reason to do anything. It always seems to end badly in some way or another, or turn people into absolute monsters.

If I do end up a housewife (bleh), at least I'll have my artwork to keep me sane and bring in some extra income that is completely mine.

No. 19434

>>19430
best of luck to you. pregnancy scares are fucking terrible and I hope things work out in your favor

No. 19445

>>19404
you should break up with her
who cares about what she gets off on?

No. 19446

>>19238
He's been flirting with me again and seemingly paying more attention to me than his significant other and now he's even sending me gifts
I don't want to get my hopes up though

No. 19447

>>19446
Are you retarded? He's clearly bad news. If he cheats on her he'll cheat on you.

No. 19477

>>19434
Thanks. I went to the dr today and had another negative test so they're doing a blood test to be sure. I'm so anxiety ridden from waiting I feel like I'm going to throw up.

No. 19480

>>19430
Shoulda used a condom or something slut

No. 19517

I want to be internet famous for my cosplay, art, and overall content I make.

But I see my problem as I like having privacy and I'm literally too nice. I don't want to step on anyone to raise myself up and I know I am overly humble about my own creations to the point that I don't self-promote at all. I am beginning to think "hiring" someone to do publicity is the way to go since I feel somewhat shameful if I talk about myself or my accomplishments in any way.

No. 19520

(Sorry if I have typos, my tablet is terribad for typing as I learned recently.)

I like to read /r/tardtales in my free time. Mostly those stories on how the yards get rent in the end.

It's just because I have a strong dislike for with mental challenges that make them obnoxious and loud and it then they do dumb shit that makes somesomeget in trouble or hurt. Then they get no repercussions with the excuse of "They don't know better!!" "Be more tolerant!"
(This is sorts a personal thing)
On time this kid who I think was an autist, began to throw his books around the classroom because he didn't finish his work. You know what the teachers did? Lecture the students about bullying after the rest of the class chewed his ass up, and coddled him. He used to give in mediocre work most of the time (except in math. Damn bitch was good), and get A's. And had the fucking whale dork to tell me "If you were smart like me, you can solve this ptoblem." and then when I flipped the fuck out on him(I have a very short temper), he cried, I got in trouble AND was hated by half of the class weren't friends with me prior. Even when that same half of the class thought/thinks I have something wrong with me, so this made it worse (suspected I'm an aspie with a few violent/self infliction when provoked. But if I think I have it, then good chance I don't)
You know what he did when the teacher asked when was the matter, he said, "I don't know what's wrong with her."
Only the Lord and Satan combined helped my from jumping over the desk and giving him one hard punch.

And parents and wranglers of those types of special needs asassholes piss me off even more. You could be bleeding on thwle floor dying by a cut those fuckers caused, but your the one in trouble since you provoked them. Well damn bitch, I didn't know saying vulpix was my favorite Pokemon provocation.

And then when it's time for the punishment? They get off scott free(with the exception of those who were so in the wrong and you couldn't even defend them), but you get ISS or OSS.
Listen, don't get me wrong, some of those spEd kids are meet are pretty sweet, it's just those assholes and very liberal A'f parents that get me grinding.
As for morals? Fuck it. My mom always said, "If anyone hits you l, hit them back harder. See if they'll hit you again. Don't you ever come back home losing a fight because I'll beat you up when you get home and in the school."

Truth is, that's how I thing equality should work.You hit me, I hit you. You spit on me, I spit on you. An eye for a fucking eye.

Sorry for the powerleveling but this shit gets me mad.

No. 19547

>>19520
>My mom always said, "If anyone hits you l, hit them back harder. See if they'll hit you again. Don't you ever come back home losing a fight because I'll beat you up when you get home and in the school."
This is bad. Parents who say irresponsible shit like this under the guise of teaching their kids bravery and courage only contribute to existing anger issues and/or victim complexes. Especially if the punishment for not fighting the other person is literally THEIR OWN FUCKING PARENT joining in and bullying them, too.
>Truth is, that's how I thing equality should work.You hit me, I hit you. You spit on me, I spit on you. An eye for a fucking eye.
The whole world will be blind.

No. 19552

I've had unprotected sex with my boyfriend for 7 years and I've never gotten pregnant. He pulls out every time, but with every year that passes, dread creeps in harder and harder. I'm afraid I'm barren but I can't bear to go to a doctor and check.

No. 19555

>>19552
hahaha

No. 19558

>>19555
What's so funny about that?

No. 19565

>>19552
Or he shoots blanks. You should find out sooner than later.

No. 19566

>>19558
Your shriveled uterus

No. 19571

>>19566

Hahaha

No. 19580

>>19547
I see your point, but who also used to say "When you do hit back, see if they'll do it again", and it worked out. The kids never bothered me really except for petty banters from far away.
Then again, I really didn't start much.

And would the whole world be blind? Probably, but then again, you shouldn't have stabbed out my eye (unless for surgical/medical purposes) if we're taking this literally.

And I don't think I have a victim complex, probably a really short temper and anger issues I'll give you that. I try to keep it level headed and see things through an unbiased view. Not trying to say I'm level headed and unbiased all the time.

No. 19588

>>19547
> The whole world will be blind.
There are two kinds of people who think people shouldn't be punished for unprovoked battery: the perpetrators and the incredibly naïve.

No. 19596

>>19566
Yeah, that's most likely the case. I have endometriosis after all. :/

No. 19597

>comes to confession thread
>all posts about suicidal thoughts and depression
>nearly beat a sex offender to death in self defense

No. 19605

>>19547
Yeah nah. The ONLY time they'll stop is when you hit back. Take it from someone who had been heavily bullied in primary school - telling the teacher doesn't do SHIT.

No. 19608

>>19588
I can't stand that expression. People who commit atrocious crimes need a taste of their own medicine. Watch how fast the crime rate would drop if this was the norm.

No. 19629

>>19597
Well aren't you a special snowflake

No. 19630

>>19374
it's just a commercial i think you're analyzing it too much. this is great tho lmfao

No. 19648

>>19629
Chill

No. 19651

>>19629
Oh nah not at all I was just expecting there to be more fucked up and deęp confessions so I wouldn't feel awkward about my own. Then I remembered this board is mostly girls so there wouldn't be all the fucked up confessions you'd see on say…4chan lol

No. 19653

Sometimes I have an urge to hit people. Sometimes babies. Sometimes random people. It gets so bad it makes me twitch. Or hit other objects to curb the urge.
Thing is I want kids, I want the mother experience, just that weird urge holding me back because I never want to abuse a kid. If I do, I'll probably cry right after.
I know I need help, I'm sorry.

No. 19656

The reason I'm not looking very hard for a job and am sponging off my family is that I wasted my time in college and I just want to die.

No. 19657

One day, I'll go to Japan and become a seiyuu.
I don't care if i'm 100% white, I know I can do it. My japanese is okay.
However, seiyuu school stresses me out because they only pick like 2 students out of 111. However before that, I want to go to a japanese language school in japan but i dont know if its worth it. i mean couldnt i just learn japanese by myself?

No. 19658

>>19657
Sounds like wild dream but if that russian girl Jenya can be a seiyuu then so can you. Do your best anon-chan. Going to a language school couldn't hurt btw.

No. 19660

>>19658
Thank you anon-san. I'll begin to save up to go to a language school.

No. 19671

I refuse to buy things from any famous luxury brand because I don't like other people having the same things as me. Even if I like a mass-produced perfume, I'll say I like it but I'll never ever buy it.

I secretly judge people who hop onto trends so readily and like things just because everyone else does.

I live in Europe so it's super easy to find brands that nobody's ever heard of or made popular, but I live in fear of the day one of my favourite brands gets big. Especially if American basic bitches hop onto it, then it'll be dead to be sure.

No. 19673

>>19671
So you only buy from obscure brands that no one gaf about? Work those local economy budget looks hunny!

No. 19681

I'm so tired of the choker, grunge look. I see girls with it everywhere. They look stupid. Normally at some point people will realize what style suits them best, I hope its soon.

No. 19682

>>19673
>budget
Cute.

No. 19695

>>19681
Thing is people dont care what style suits them best. They want to dress in fashion they like even if it doesnt suit them.
ex: girls with very mature face into sweet lolita

No. 19696

I'm pretty sure I saw Jaden Smith at The Dubai Mall a few days ago. He was dressed like something Instagram or /fa/ or "fashion Tumblr" puked up.
Didn't realize who he was and just thought "Wow I never thought I'd see that layering with huge fucking sneakers bullshit IRL, does that guy live on the internet lmao", then I found out he and Willow are performing at the mall on the 13th. Weird shit.
I just wanted to tell somebody without it looking like I was bragging or something.

No. 19701

>>19681
only ugly weaboo girls wear them luckily

>inb4 why am I still here?

idk

No. 19705

>>19696
Oh Jesus, don't bother with that lmao.

Boy is cray, along with his sister I presume.
I mean, he went to prom in a dress/skirt, and in a bat man tux, so him wearing weird shit isn't out of the norm.

No. 19707

I had a dream where I basically became a mindless pet for an obsessive, strong-willed man. I hate how much I enjoyed it and the thought afterwards. I loved the exclusive attention I was getting, not having to care about anything or think about anything at all. In real life I've never had much attention paid to myself and I've always had to stand up for myself alone. I've been really lonely for many years so I guess the dream just mirrored my deepest desires. Just had to get this off my chest because it's been bothering me a lot.

No. 19744

I read Kiwifarms and lolcow religiously, but nowadays I'm getting sick of Kiwi.farm's overall attitude.
For example, anyone who likes anything untraditional in Japan is a weeb. Or like how they think the lolita community hates ElleJay because she's a Muslim. Or how they think they came up with the term asspats. Kek
Yes assists, the term my momma's momma has been using for years.

This one girl in the lolita thread said that a lolita must be among them just because she used asspat in a behind-the-bow secret.

Idk, I just find most of them stuck up. Commenting on different communities without an inch of knowledge.
Most people in the lolita community aren't salty or no reason, some of the people in the community bring it upon themselves by acting like spoilt entitled give-me-nice-comments-no-criticism-even-if-I-look-terribad brats.

Everyone who has a slight interest in Japan is a weeaboo.
Nope, a weeaboo is totally not someone like Pixyteri who honestly throws away their real race and claims they are Japanese and tries to do stereotypically racist shit to 'prove' they are Japanese, nope it's definitely someone who just likes the music or the fashion.
The other day I saw them posting about foreign idols, yeah I understand that the job is rough and the pay is somewhat terrible, but I'd that's what these girls want to do, leave them be and whatever happens, happens. Some of the kiwi users were just insulting these girls left to right without even knowing what a god damned idol was.
And honestly, does Null have a problem with lolcow? I heard him comment on stuff saying
"The shoplifting dox was the only thing lolcow did right."
Or
"Lolcow raid in 3…2..1" like wtf we would raid them? I'm pretty sure people here don't give enough of a shit to make an account of kiwi to raid them.
Or locows we exposed long ago? They would still be talking about them like it's new news, and would be reacting to events like it's happening currently.
As for the Pixyteri drop box thing, they only found it recently, and while it's funny seeing their late and extreme reactions, don't y'all know PT already?
Sorry if this came out long abd rant-y. I'm on mobile, and it's fairly easier to type on my phone for me so I end up typing more than I should.

No. 19753

>>19681
The 80's hastened the destruction of fashion and the 90's drove the nail in the coffin. Now even models in magazines dress like they just rolled out of bed and put on whatever ca 1997 K-mart tier shit they had lying on the floor.

This 80's/90's nostalgia is unwarranted and got out of hand years ago. Face it: Those decades weren't nearly as great as you remember them being.

No. 19812

Some lady came into ork today with her partner. Her left eye was black and her bottom lip was busted open. I hate abuse..

No. 19834

I fucking hate that every community on the internet is almost exclusively populated by Americans. Even if I do find some kind of forum or hub where I can talk to my fellow compatriots, most of the posts are 'Hey guys American here! I'll be visiting x in y days, where can I find z????' so any actual discussion is impossible.

Fucking google it you retard.

No. 19841

I have a younger relative who's turning into a emo/scene damaged girl. I fear I will see her popping up on /pt/ one day.

No. 19850

>>19834
Fucking this. Also the way everyone assumes you're from the US and gives you suggestions from that perspective or thinks every country in the world shares the same culture and history as the US. The worst part is when they shit on you for not speaking perfect English. Fuck you, it's not my native language you US-centric cunt.

No. 19852

>>19834
I'm from Europe but it sounds you're jelly of the world leader. Hehehe.

No. 19857

>>19850
The US is the most powerful country. Stop being jelly because your shitty third world country is in poverty.

No. 19875

>>19857
I want America to die but you're right.

No. 19880

>>19875
you want America to die? i'm sure you do. now put your head down and get back to work

No. 20173

>>19880
Lol
America will kill herself slowly, bitch.

No. 20242

>>19648
How did you read that as not chill? Insecure much?

>>19651
You could have fit this all into one post. 4chan wouldn't have fucked up confessions, it's filled with 14 year old edgelords. You're still not special, fag.

No. 20243

>>20173
true. the jews are using the race war card strategically for the benefit of making money through "news". fucking kikes.

No. 20280

I fucked and married a japanese dude to get a marriage visa and achieve my weeaboo dreams.

No. 20281

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>>20280
himezawa,is that really u?

No. 20754

I'm shipping Sindy and my horrible ex now. They are my new favourite OTP. I know it's probs shitty to ship real people, particularly him cos he was a grade a douche, but the seed is planted in my head now. They're both edgelords and they both live in the same country, and it would be funny as hell if they got together. A match made in heaven, like, sort of. They could bump into each other at next Dee-Con and magic could happen. lol.

No. 20755

>>20754
whats his name lol. ill tell him your thinking f him and ask if he has any ugly nudes of you to share online

No. 20758

>>20755
Gurl, you are in no place to be calling other people, or their nudes, ugly.
It's illegal to share other ppl's nudes online without their consent anyway, is it not? so uh, yeah.

No. 20759

>>20758
pretty much this. it's even funnier how she doesn't think she is ugly (honestly this makes her sound mentally ill, most ugly people know they are not conventionally attractive/are ugly)

and yeah revenge porn is illegal so lmao she's ugly and retarded

No. 21068

It makes me sad that I'm not good enough for the internet and it makes me sadder that i care

No. 21090

>>21068
But anon, what does "not good enough for the internet" even mean?

No. 21128

>>21090
She is sad she is ugly and can't camwhore/get a lot of instagram followers

No. 21129

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i'm only 16 and i feel so gross for having a specific taste in men, which is that they need to be older, like 30+ hot dad steve carell pic related, i know quite a lot of teen girls who have the same feelings but i hate myself for it, guys my age don't do it for me and they never really have.

No. 21132

>>21129

Please don't act on this until you turn 18.

I mean, i don't really blame you though. Why deal with a immature guy in the awkward part of puberty when you could fuck his hot dad?

No. 21134

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>>21132

oh yeah totally, i'm gonna wait until i'm mature enough so no one will freak out about it, but i'm also not gonna be with a guy whos already married with kids or any of that shit, its skeevy af. right now i'll just sit back and observe

No. 21215

>>21068
I know the feel, anon. It's hard to want to be on the internet when some people are unforgiving af.
It's like there's some level of perfection that's expected to have any sort of online presence these days. Like, you can't just do youtube for fun for your friends and family. You've gotta be a professional youtuber or else random mean girls are going to come down on you for existing in their space, even if they wouldn't have even known about you had they not sought you out.
You see it here, on cgl, and other forums too. Yeah, a lot of people posted are legitimate lolcows, but others it'll just be a couple of vendettachans posting in a thread and everyone else scratching their head and thinking "how is this lolcow?" But it makes you afraid to post anything of your own, in case you should be the next target, even if all you're doing is taking a selfie or making a video of a cool skateboard trick to show your "hip" uncle who lives halfway across the country.
Do it for you, anon. If other people online are going to be weird about it, that's their problem, not yours.

No. 21232

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Any hikikomori/person who never goes out here ?

No. 21241

>>21129
>>21134
>Bowie and Steve Carell

Your taste is exactly like mine was when I was 16. Now I'm into young guys.

No. 21242

>>21232
Me.

Well, sort of. I used to be. I have to work because my only other option is homelessness (no family to mooch off, no student loans etc to live off of) but aside from that I seldom leave my room.

No. 21243

>>21232
I used to be this way, the longest being about 2 months over the summer about 5 yrs ago.

I was depressed during this time, slept all day and was only awake at night. Lost a lot of weight, including all the strength I'd built up prior through working out.

I discovered this after being forced (felt guilty) to go out by my fam and make them happy. My cousins and I walked around for about half an hr. The next day I woke up and felt really uncomfortable, thought I was resting my thigh on a t shirt or something. Turned out that my thigh muscles had knotted. It was gross.

After that I started going out just because of that, even if it was something as simple as running an errand for my mom.

No. 21248

>>21241
i don't know if i will ever go back to liking young guys though, i never liked them. but peoples tastes changes all the time, all i know is right now i have to deal with this.

btw i also have a thing for steve carells hairy chest, what is it with that guy???

No. 21435

One time while eating cereal I discovered there were flour beetles floating inside my bowl and I was so depressed I didn't even care and kept eating.

No. 21549

>>21435
I'll pray for you, anon.

No. 21551

>>21435
This is some Charlotte charms level giving up on life shit

No. 24539

>>21435
At least you got some extra protein from that

No. 24564

About 5 years ago I went to a party without my girlfriend. She didn't want to go and it was for 2 of my friends birthdays. I ended up giving my sister's friend a shoulder massage while she was rolling on x (she asked me.)

I've never told my girlfriend and regret it to this day.

No. 24575

>>19299
I'm the same. I'm on contraception but nothing turns me on more than my FWB cumming in me and telling each other that I wanna be impregnated/he wants to impregnate me. Maybe it's just because he's hot as hell though.

No. 24618

>>24564
That's not so bad. Just act like it was no big dill, or just don't mention it to your gf esp. if you know there's no chance someone else would tell her.

If there's a chance your friend or anyone else would tell your gf it might be worth considering telling her yourself, because from others the story will sound more dodgy than if you own up to it yourself.

No. 24624

>>24618
The only other people who know are the girl, assuming she didn't tell anyone, and my good friend. It's been 5 years so I don't feel like she'd ever find out but it eats me up because if I reversed the roles I'd be furious to find out. I always act with her in mind and how it would make her feel before doing anything and it was just this one thing. I want to tell her but it's been so long I don't know how to do it without it seeming like it was more. I don't want to hide it because I wouldn't want anything like that hidden from me but I'm scared.

No. 24633

I'm afraid I'm developing an eating disorder and body dysmorphia. I finally stopped binging/purging after it got to be a daily habit and I noticed that I had bullemia cheeks and very sensitive teeth from the stomach bile, as well as occasionally finding some blood in my vomit which terrified me.

I was doing well for a while but cannot make myself eat more than 1000 calories a day without feeling worthless and disgusting. My BMI is about 17.5 now which should be perfect but the more I lose the more different 'fat' areas of my body seem to stand out. I know this is self destructive but I can't stop. My bf pokes fun at me for how I obsessively look at my stomach in the mirror but he doesn't realize the extent of my inadequate feelings and I feel so embarrassed by it all.

The worst part is that even though I know this could be very dangerous and lead to spoopy skeleton mode I get an endorphine rush and validation like none other when I see the pounds drop and don't want to stop.

No. 24634

>>24624
From the info you've given me, I wouldn't tell her. Sometimes it's better to keep certain things secret, the bigger issue is, WHY is it such a big deal to YOU?

Did you feel attracted to that girl? Did you want to do more? Would you have gone along with more? etc. You need to analyse why you feel this way and then optimally you should feel like it was no big dill, which indeed it wasn't. Then you can perhaps tell her, once you've convinced YOURSELF that it was no big dill, only then can you hope to convince your gf if you choose to tell her.

No. 24636

>>24633
Go read the ashley thread, that should cure you.

No. 24650

>>24634
At the time we had just started dating and I had a mentality of wanting to sleep with lots of different girls. I would have done more if the opportunity arose. I didn't tell my girlfriend at the time because she didn't matter to me, but over time I've grown to really love her and she has been nothing short of the best most loyal girlfriend she could possibly be. It tears me up that I would have done something like that to her and thinking back on it am disgusted by myself.

No. 24652

>>24633
Former ED sufferer here, and it sounds like you're going down a slippery slope, yeah. I would honestly seek out some counselling because it only takes a few more months of this behaviour to really twist your perception and saddled with you with a full blown disorder.

Please, please, I hope you get some help. Before I went into rehab I was stupidly flippant about my weight, convinced that 'it was my body' and wouldn't listen to anyone. I really wish towards the start of my disorder someone had told me to go seek a therapist or doctor.

No. 24658

>>21129
I was a lot like you at 16 (and still am to some extent) I made the mistake of dating a man who was in his 40s. (Spoiler, it was a bad idea)

A little older is fine, my cut off is 10 years. Keep within your generation and you'll be okay. My husband is +6 years than me and he's greying (which makes me SO happy) and getting more distinguished every day without the problem of a a generation gap.

No. 24667

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>>24633


eat a burger, bitch(robots please use containment thread)

No. 24670

>>24650
You sound really mature and introspective now, so your gf is a lucky girl. A lot of people do these 'bad' things and then justify them, it's really good for your mental health to be as to the point about this as you are.

I do think you should be very careful in regards to telling her though. There's a possibility that this could plant the mustard seed of distrust in your relationship. Sometimes omission of truth (which is a type of lie) is better than putting your relationship at risk.

No. 24676

>>24658
Damn, that was an insane age gap for you. How did your family react?

I'm in an age gap relationship too, my dude is 9 years older, but he looks hawt so it's never an issue with my friends etc. He has that boyish charm and I'm pretty lucky.

I can't imagine how it was for you to navigate the age gap you had at 16 though, especially since at that age you're just starting to explore yourself and your sexuality.

No. 24690

I'm pro lgbt but racist/believe in racial stereotypes.

It doesn't bother me.

No. 24692

>>24690
Same.

No. 24696

>>24670
Thank you.

The thing is that I don't want to lie to her about anything in any way. We plan on having a family together one day.

She's been perfect to me in every way but I have to admit that I'm concerned I don't deserve her. I don't feel our relationship is fair because she goes so out of her way for me all the time. I honestly think she should be with someone better than me and if letting her know about this one thing would be a catalyst for her to leave me then that would be for the best.

No. 24900

>>21242
No family to mooch off? How come?

No. 24955

>>24676
I didn't tell my parents at the time (and still haven't) but I'm pretty sure they would flip out. I wasn't 16, though but close! 19. The problem was that I had spent high school being kinda awkward and when I turned 18, my family moved to LA and I kinda learned how to dress, toned up, started treating myself better and became I guess, traditionally attractive? (I don't wanna toot my horn here)

So I met him after I was out running kinda near Santa Monica and he was pretty handsome and I was really flattered that he asked for my number after BUT the red flag was that the shop I was in was a candy store, and he was kinda like 'oh you should try such and such candy because you look really sweet' and it was cheesy but ehhh. I was dumb and really naive.

Anyway, we went on a date, and the secondary red flags were him saying how beautiful I was and how surprisingly smart and engaging I was in comparison to the other women he dated. Now I know that is code for 'I think women are dumb and I date women I think are dumb so they'll sleep with me' but at the time I was just sorta like 'He hasn't met the right woman'. (dumb eh?) But uh, I'm not proud of it but we did sleep together that night and I admit that I kinda got attached to the sex because he was really good at it. Not a huge guy, but very knowledgeable and giving in terms of oral and what can I say? I dated him for a few months because of it and he was very free with his money and his gifts.

It didn't end well, obviously, and he was still dating OTHER girls besides me which kind of hurt at the time because I thought that I was his type because I was smart and mature beyond my years but nope. I don't REGRET it, obviously, but it gave me perspective.

Older men are handsome and attractive but they've also had a lot of time to gain all this experience in dating and gaming the dating system and if they're actively dating younger women and don't date in their age range of 10 or so years, part of me thinks there is something a little fishy about that?

To be honest, say if I had stuck with him, he'd 53, 54 now, and when I was forty he'd be in his late sixties…it's just not a good idea. 10 years is the cut off so yeah. Sounds like you have a good dude, then!

Also, sorry for wall of text lol

No. 25248

>>24955
Not who you were talking to, but the guy does sound a little creepy, but honestly I'm glad the relationship worked out at least for a bit. Having perspective, gaining decent sexual experience and, well, the gifts, sounds like a good practice run to prepare for the future, learn about yourself more and get some confidence.

I like older guys too. Haven't been with anybody ever, but my parents are around 8 years apart and it works out okay, so I suppose they'd be fine with a 10-15 gap. Too bad I'm into 40~ range, and that's my mom's age, so far, far too old to ever feel good about it.

No. 25269

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>tfw absolutely obsessed with death, homicide, torture and necrophilia
>completely random strangers will set it off
>stuck on public transit for hours obsessing over different ways to follow them, restrain them, torture and kill them
>wind up halfway across the state, missed work, have no way to explain it to anyone
>can no longer drive, too obsessed with how easy it would be to cause a car crash and kill everyone involved
>can't go to funerals
>can't even drive past a cemetery without spending the entire day there
>can't be around any violent imagery or stimulus without being consumed by it
>used to spend days on end hoarding gore and medical trivia
>on top of the obsession, have an unholy compulsion to act on it
>thank fuck I have it restrained now but when I was a teenager it nearly ruined my life (and did for many other people)
>the urge to hurt other people never fucking leaves unless I act on it, and even then it's only gone for a little while, a few hours at the absolute most
>don't want to die personally but I've seriously considered it many times just to make sure I don't hurt anyone else
>only just diagnosed a couple of weeks ago by my current psychologist who thinks that it might be manageable
>as opposed to dozens of other doctors who thought I was a psychopath and incurable

>tfw I'm so fucking scared that something will happen that will make me lose control again

>tfw I just want the intrusive thoughts to stop

No. 25285

H O L Y FUCK

DO ANY OF YOU GIRLS EVEN TDLR;

No. 25290

>>19348
What about food stamps or some kind of assistance?

No. 25329

>>10037
Jesus, you're a great example of what is wrong with women these days. You were 14, not 8 for fuck's sake, if it made you uncomfortable then you should have stopped talking instead of blaming him. You do realize most girls go for older guys because they make them feel "mature" and "womanly", especially in middle/high school, right? Did you have to get butthurt over inconsequential crap? Had you heard about "bad men" abusing "defenseless children" on TV a few days prior to you developing that feeling?

A lot of you are just making a huge fuss out of nothing. Stop playing victim and get your shit together for fuck's sake.

Same thing for the girl who got "raped" when she was high on K. How stupid do you have to be to take huge doses of a dissociative anaesthetic when outside with people you don't know/trust? You're as pathetic as the high school girls that take LSD during raves and have bad trips. Psychedelics are not party drugs (especially in higher doses), set and setting are primordial, you can only blame yourself when things go wrong with drugs. I've been doing loads of drugs for the last 6 years, and I've never once complained for the shit that happened to me while I was tripping on deliriants, despite waking up in the hospital after a 3-day blackout.

You have to realize that trauma is something you have control over, if you victimize yourself and give importance to benign things just for the sake of drama, no wonder you end up "traumatized". You're beating into your own skulls that you've been through something traumatic you can't get over, when the original issue was nowhere near as major as you make it out to be today. I'm not saying PTSD doesn't exist, or that no one ever gets traumatized, but the mind is a VERY powerful thing, and that's something you should give credit to.

No. 25330

>>7763
Please let me love you.

No. 25342

>>25269

You do sound like a sociopath tbh but the fact that you're this self aware is at least a good sign.

Probably been asked this a billion times but what is it specifically about the act of injuring/killing people that satisfies you.
I mean at the root of every urge there's reason and logic. Where does the desire stem from.

No. 25346

>>25269
what were you diagnosed with?

No. 25352

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>>10037

man here, honest answer:

GET RID OF HIM.

he has severe psychological issues and seems to be some sort of pedophile, and wants to have sex with you. the fact that he blatantly refuses to stop making sexual advances means he does not care about you like any normal person would. if he knew you in real life he would probably try to date rape you.

keep in mind that, if a guy wants to talk to you and likes you, 90% chance he wants to have sex with you, even if he doesn't say anything sexual. This is not a bad thing, it's just human nature, but you need to make sure there is no malicious intent. he has malicious intent.

No. 25355

>>10041

losing a child just subconsciously causes trauma, it's like some sort of defense mechanism to avoid child loss. this is why you need to avoid pregnancy rather than just get an abortion.

once your hormones calm down it shouldn't be so bad.

No. 25356

>>25342
It gives me a feeling of control and power over that person, sexual gratification, and it's deeply satisfying in an animalistic way that I can't really describe, but if I had to try I'd say that it's like scratching an itch and orgasming at the same time. Also it removes the possibility of that person hurting me or harming me (the dead don't do shit) and gets me closer to the dead, which I have a paraphilia for.

tl;dr it's largely sexual but there is a power trip and desperate need for control going on as well

>>25346
Initially ASPD, but my last two psychologists decided it is actually bipolar type 1 (with the psychosis stemming from manic episodes), OCD, and paraphilia NOS (necrophilia). I'm happy to no longer have a personality disorder hanging over my head, but the shit they decided on is also incredibly hard to treat…

No. 25359

what's wrong with me?

>avoid people

>spend the vast majority of my time alone
>when I talk to people I know it takes physical effort to make eye contact, like a mild panic/feeling of being threatened. normally I will look away or at the floor, sometimes I just zone out. Strangely I can look strangers in the eyes with no problem.
>people talking to me gives me mild panic, I act to get away as fast as possible, talking quietly and quickly and slinking away, even if I want to talk to them.
>zone out constantly, don't pay attention to my surroundings.

No. 25363

>>25356
What about consensual roleplay sex? Would that be enough to fulfill your needs?

Not teasing or anything, just curious and trying to understand.

(Also, do you think any particular event that may have caused this?)

No. 25407

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>>25363
I've tried it many times before, and anything consensual or involving roleplay simply doesn't satisfy me.

I think that seeing my father kill a lot of animals when I was a child, mostly our own pets. Also my mother took me to a lot of funerals, which exposed me to death at a young age and frequently. Probably those two things combined in addition to having a very abusive home growing up and being forced to repress my emotions and sexual desires.

No. 25410

>>25407
If I decide to kill myself soon, which seems very likely, I could donate my body to you for you to do whatever with. I'd let you kill me, too, if you'd like.

Are you Necrofag from /r9k/?

No. 25413

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>>25410
I'm in a committed relationship right now, and I've talked over this possibility with my partner many times. She considers it cheating and sleeping with your corpse would mean ending the only decent relationship I've ever had. So while I deeply appreciate the offer, I have to decline.

Yes.

No. 25421

>>25413
That's a really cool and appropriate picture.

No. 25443

>>25410
If you're a girl and live in the UK i'd appreciate it if you took my virginity before killing yourself.

Thanks.

No. 25462

>>21129
I've always liked older men. I lost my virginity to a 28 year old. Here's age of consent is 16, so there was an age gap. Still prefer older men.

I never slept with a teenager because young bodies never did it for me, plus they were so fucking immature.

Good taste from what I see. The sleb I crave most now is in his early 60s but he's hot as fuck.

No. 25464

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>>25356
Closest I've been to molesting the dead was touching the balls of the exhibits at Bodyworlds. I had to be stealth because you're not supposed to touch them, but I touched as much dead cock n ballz as I could and it was sexually exciting.

Tbh, all the plasticized bodies were a turn on. I prefer mine dead but without skin and blood. I'm not even kidding.

No. 25466

>>25413

Well shit.
Er, jeez dude, you should probably just remove yourself society in the near future if you ever feel those urges begin to become uncontrollable.

Like, I mean that in the nicest way possible, it just sounds like what you've got caught be cured and it would remove the possibility of you destroying multiple lives in the future.

Do you not get worried about the potential consequences of vengeance if you ever did end up harming somebody? Cause I'm saying like if somebody every murdered my husband I wouldn't rely on the police, I'd hunt that person forever, eventually find them, incapacitate and subject them to extreme torture for days, maybe even weeks before putting them out of their misery and burying them in an unmarked grave. Wouldn't even care if I ultimately got caught as long as I satisfied that need for revenge.

No. 25467

>>25464

Hey I went to Bodyworlds in the UK like 2 years ago!

Are u a Britfag m8.

No. 25468

>>21129

16 year old girl wanting to bang an older man is literally 100% natural

it's the same shit as 30 year old men wanting to bang 16-18 year olds.

it's all fuckin natural as shit.

No. 25471

>>25467
Yup. Sure it was more than 2 years ago though.

No. 25472

>>25269
are you necrofag?

No. 25473

>>25468
no, it isnt

No. 25474

>>25467
I looked at the ticket it was 2008. It's on at the science museum in town til the 17th. Might go this weekend to frisk some dead ballz.

No. 25475

>>25474
Mistake, I was reading the archives of the museum from 2008. No dead ballz here. Yeah it was good tho.

No. 25476

>>25413
More /r9k/ users here? I don't get why you guys are so fascinated with our site

No. 25477

>>25329
>You were 14, not 8 for fuck's sake, if it made you uncomfortable then you should have stopped talking instead of blaming him
I agree.

>Did you have to get butthurt over inconsequential crap?

Go fuck yourself.

No. 25479

>>25476

this might be the only opportunity for some of them to talk to women tbh

No. 25483

I like to string along 3 or 4 men at any given time, flirting with them, making them compete with each other for me, and then completely ignoring them. I got one to slap his friend pretty hard, but I can't seem to get them to do stuff for me regularly. I'd love to have one so wrapped around my finger that he just buys shit for me but alas most men in my age bracket are broke. I used to think women who did this were awful, but now I see just how much fun it really is.

No. 25484

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>>25464
I loved Bodyworlds, I went to the New York exhibit sometime last year. Got so many cool pictures. Didn't touch any of the exhibits but I've gotten much closer to unpreserved dead so there wasn't any real need. Good to hear you got your fix, though.

>>25466
>just sounds like what you've got caught be cured and it would remove the possibility of you destroying multiple lives in the future.
Not entirely sure what you mean by this, but rest assured I am reclusive as humanly possible and if there's ever even the slightest sign of me relapsing, there's a team of docs who are ready to have me permanently locked up. Lots of messy paperwork and release forms and such. Even filled out a homicide safety plan with my shrink this last Wednesday.

I figure if I ever did something to someone with loved ones, I would deserve anything that happened to me if they went looking for vengeance. I have no illusions that what I do is anything but morally reprehensible and extremely traumatizing to anyone affected. I'd almost be eager for someone to torture me at this point, I feel like I deserve some sort of punishment beyond living with guilt and regret.

>>25472
Yes.

>>25476
This isn't the first time I've posted here, but I always do so anonymously, as I do with every chan other than 4. Different imageboards offer different audiences, and sometimes it's nice to hear from different groups of people.

No. 25485

>>25483
How does it being fun make it not awful?

No. 25486

>>25483
If you're charming enough, I'd happily subject myself to this.

No. 25488

>>25485
I didn't mean it's NOT awful, just that now I see why they do it
>>25486
ey bb

No. 25492

>>25483
Shit, I'd love one that buys me stuff and gifts too.

No. 25499

>>25488
>ey bb
Not what I had in mind when I said "charming." I think I'll pass.

Obviously, I have a thing for manipulative mean girls who are also charismatic and interesting. I'm alright with being mistreated by them.

No. 25501

>>25484

Well man, at least I can't say you're not honest/realistic.
I almost feel like patting you on the head and feeding you fudge because there are so many people with similar disorders that are in complete denial with what they are and seriously try to profess that their way is the "pure", "natural" order of the world when really their brain is just 7 shades if fucked up.

Regarding the ASPD diagnosis mentioned earlier, are you still capable of feeling associative empathy and such?

(not related but for a while I thought I might have ASPD due to an almost exclusive lack of empathy and a brutally logical/almost robotic line of thinking and method of communicating with people but whilst I can and could snuff out life with little to no remorse if required (animal mercy killings) the fact that I occasionally get a tad squeamish watching shit like pilonidal cysts or toenails being removed at the bed in Embarrassing Bodies means I'm probably just super Autistic or super emotionally repressed).

Hey Anon, do you have a predatory stare?

No. 25502

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No. 25504

>>25502
What makes you think I didn't understand what you meant? I did. It just wasn't funny or charming, like I said. I think you're the one who's not quite catching on, here.

No. 25506

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>>25501
Thanks, I guess. Believe me, when I was a teenager I was convinced nothing was wrong with me and that the rest of the world was the one at fault. Thought that I had the superior world view and that taking someone's life or seriously injuring them was doing them a favor. Couldn't empathize with any of them at all, not for years and years. Took a lot of therapy and medication. Part of me is still afraid that I was just brainwashed by the institution and that I was right all along, but I know that's just paranoia talking and that this all really is for the best. Not indulging these urges, I mean.

I do when I'm angry, stressed out, tired, or displaying pretty much any emotion. I force myself to be as blank as possible the majority of the time so nobody even thinks twice about me. Sometimes I can't help it, though. My gf hates it but appreciates that I can lower my defenses a little around her.

No. 25513

>>25506

Hey dude, I don't necessarily believe that morality in Humankind is innate either to be honest, so in that sense we're all brainwashed, it's just a good functioning kind of brainwashed where most of us get to live happy, creative lives and live well beyond a realistic mammalian life expectancy.

>tfw no qt bestial predatory stare bf

No. 25515

>>25513
necrofag has a necrovag

No. 25521

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>>25513
Yeah, every time I start getting too wrapped up in the idea I try to remind myself of all of the good things in my life and remember that if I had kept up that behavior, I wouldn't have anything other than my hedonistic indulgence. It's not worth giving up everything I've worked for to satisfy these urges, no matter how strong they are. It's just fucking hard, you know?

just fyi I'm a woman
but I'm sure you don't want a bf with a look like that, there's too much bullshit that comes with the territory

No. 25522

>>25521

OH BOY EVEN BETTER SINCE I'M ACTUALLY VASTLY MORE SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO WOMEN AS OPPOSED TO MEN

(actually though, legit, I get a long a hell of a lot better with sociopaths and ASPD individuals and it disturbs me because these relationships have never once ended in a healthy or closed manner and a lot of them were frightening individuals but my emotionally repressed self feels really connected to people who are just as or more busted than I am. I can anyways pick these people out in a room when I do come across them, something about their body language lights up like a fucking beacon).

Stay cool, Necroqueen.
This has been an interesting thread for me.

No. 25677

>>7573
Am I the only girl who hasn't messed around with other girls?

No. 25678

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I'm like in the absolute pits of Wester poverty right now.
I'm typing this crying after another sleepless night. I can't sleep because of the cold and the overwhelming smell of damp, must and mould.

This year was my first year at university but I got sick… or rather had always been sick but my symptoms got worse and I finally got a diagnosis.
Because of the amount of lessons I'd missed I knew I wouldn't be able to pass my end-of-year exams and they wouldn't let me redo a year so I decided to leave and start again at another uni this September.

Since then I've been back at home living with my mother and I don't think it could be anymore clear that I'm not wanted here.
I've been put in the only space available which is a cramped damp basement with no windows, no radiator, no vents and no floor. It flooded the year before and my mother never bothered to get it fixed.
Because there's only cold bare concrete it keeps in all the moisture and no vents to allow air circulation the room is growing mould. Because I have nowhere to store my clothing I purchased one of those open-railing rack things, but now all my clothes are growing mould too. Because there's no windows every night I go to sleep in complete darkness and wake in complete darkness.

I don't have a bed, only a tiny sofa that's so small my legs hang over the end when I lie on my back, and everyday my back aches because of it.

Because of the mould spores I've developed a cough that won't go away and my throat constantly feels raw.
The smell is do bad, permeating, pungent damp, I have headaches every day. Sleeping through it is a nightmare, no matter where I turn my head or how hard I press my face into my duvet it's there.

I asked my mother if I could sleep upstairs on a sofa for the final duration of my stay but she said no, I have to stay downstairs. She told me she's lucky she's not making me pay rent.

Everyday I have to get out a bottle of nail polish remover and a sponge and scrub away the patches of green/white mould growing on my bed-sofa. I figured the acetone might be more effective than normal disinfectant.

University was supposed to be my ticket out of poverty and I'm right back here again in worse conditions than before I left.
I know I only have a little while left to go but I'm frightened something is going to happen again that will mean I have to leave university and will have no choice but to return here.

I feel so sick everyday, I just wish I didn't feel so sick.
I don't know if it's because I'm inhaling spores or something but I feel dreadful, like my body is malnourished or something.

You can't die from sleeping in a mouldy room right?

No. 25706

>>25504
Wait, that was a serious proposition?

No. 25712

>>25678
At least you can say you're a true basement dweller

No. 25717

>>25712

I guess :(

No. 25720

>>25678
fuck get the fuck out of there, before the spores start seeding in your brain

No. 25781

>>25720

THAT'S NOT AN ACTUAL THING RIGHT

No. 25784

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>>25781
they seed in your lungs. spores will germinate when the immune system is weak. the hyphae will spread throughout your body. protecting you like an exoskeleton.

No. 25785

>>25678
Is it possible for you to get some minimum wage job (like burger flipping or something) and save up for a room somewhere nicer (at least with some roomates or something). Or at least pay some rent to your mother but be allowed to sleep upstairs? Anything would be better than this.

No. 25796

>>25678
you can come live with me in europe.

No. 25901

>>7562
Read this as "I like porn more than my husbandos

No. 25912

>>25678

Fuck I'm so sorry you have to live like that. I had to live like that for over a year in high school and it was the pits, also in a small room with no windows and mold/flooding problems (though it sounds like your mold was more severe). Do you have friends you could stay with? Do you have someplace to go at least during the day? Mold can potentially be pretty bad for you depending on certain factors, but on top of that not having a window can really fuck with your head and circadian rhythm, which in turn makes you feel shitty and tired and weakens your immune system (which will make you more susceptible for mold side effects).

No. 26210

bump

No. 26237

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I generally need a lot of alcohol to get through my day, I've abused benzos and opioids in the past and generally can't go long without some substance to cope for my crippling anxiety, loneliness and sleep disorder.

No. 26733

>>25678

It sounds like you should go to a doctor. Mold can be pretty bad. Maybe you could get your mom to do something about the mold by saying it would affect the health of the people living in the rest of the house, too.

She doesn't sound easy to talk to, but would it work to ask her what you can do to be allowed to sleep upstairs? Like chores or an IOU. Maybe she thinks it'll be inconvenient for some reason, but you could say you'd be awake or asleep by a certain time that works for her. Would another family member take you in if you let them know it's for a set amount of time and not indefinitely?

I don't know what your health problems are, but the only other thing I can think of is goverment assistance. If you're disabled and depending on the country, your mom could get paid to be your caretaker, which would be your rent to her. A women's shelter could be another option, but those have their own issues. Sorry about your situation anon.

No. 26814

>>25678
anon if you were in canadaland I'd have you over in a hearbeat ;__; this is heartbreaking, my feels to you.

No. 26895

>>26237
You should get addicted to food instead.

No. 27239

I'm an alcoholic. I start drinking early in the day right after I eat my first meal. I drink all day and all night. I spend all my money on alcohol. It's my whole life. Despite this, I do well in school and at work. My liver hurts, I can physically feel it hurting. I vomit all the time for basically no reason. I am going to die.

No. 27243

>>27239
>school
if you're still in school you must be quite advanced in your alcoholism to have liver pains already. why do you drink anon? how old are you?

No. 27248

>>27243

Both my parents are alcoholics. I don't remeber my first drink but I think I was in 5th grade??? I drink because it hurts my body not to. I have to stop…

No. 27250

>>27248
you need medical detox. you can search online for help, there are facilities which will work with your insurance or lack of insurance.

No. 27252

>>27250

well I have to. it's either that or die. I felt my kidneys hurt (two stabbing, throbbing pains in the lower back) today and it was a real wake up call.

No. 27265

I might have cervical cancer and I suspect it's from having sex in dirty diapers, just like panperchu.

No. 27268

>>27265

you need jesus. and beyonce.

No. 27319

>>27252

My friend recently went through surgery to get his pancreas and gall bladder? (Is it those two, I cant recall) removed from excessive drinking and drugs . If he drinks he dies. It was a huge turning point in his life . He tells me he wishes he didn't in the first place or stopped earlier. Hes in constant pain and can eat anything really. Get help anon while its still early. I hate the fact that my friend could die so early (24). Theres other things wrong with his body, he's literally breaking down slowly and I hate watching because I've grown up with him. Please get help, you know you can beat it.

No. 27320

>>27319
Can't* eat anything really.

No. 27324

>>8322
Honestly, as a dude myself he could be looking up techniques online to make you 'want' him more - that's pretty much standard PUA stuff with the backhanded compliments and comments about other girls.

No. 27337

>>8322

130lbs at 5'7" is an absolutely perfect weight Anon, you don't sound even the slightest bit fat.

I'm 5'7" now but when I was a teen I was 130lbs and 5'5" and I liked fucking hot, I can't imagine how good you look now.

Why are you still with this dirtbag? Dunno him and date me instead, I'll comb your hair and buy you cute sweaters.

No. 27520

I run a /cgl/ related business full time and regularly attend conventions around my country. I recently spotted a competitor complaining about the exhibitor team of the biggest convention organisers here, in a public post on their personal Facebook.

I forwarded it to the exhibitor team and now she's banned from all further conventions :>)

No. 27523

>>27520
Serves her right

No. 27757

I'm at a conference w/people from my university and I'm looking and some of the full-body group pics we took and damn:
My legs looks hella good.

No. 27798

I work for my dad and it's slowly killing me because I'm too emotional for the way he handles everything.
I cut myself at least once a week and I cry multiple times a week. This stuff almost exclusively happens at work, when I'm at home I'm happy and forget about everything. I want to get out but my only option would be shitty jobs since I have no diploma, the job I do here is pretty good and I have a lot of benefits…
I'm trying to set up my own shop though but that'll take years to complete and it probably won't work out with the shitty economy at the moment.
I feel pathetic…I'm already 30 and have no idea where I'm going with my life.

No. 27906

>>27798
You need to stop cutting.

No. 28125

>>27906
I know but it's the only way I can stop myself from crying and panicking.

No. 28128

I'm giving into my ED again. It never got bad, and I'm going to try and control it this time. I just need to be thin. As far as I'm seeing it, I'm trading my unhealthy body and unhealthy attitude for an unhealthy habit. I'm going to stay positive. I'm setting a "recovery" date for eating healthy and at normal calorie levels once I get where I need to be. I just can't be this person I loathe anymore. I'm done not having the body I want. I'm a 0 or 100 person. I've never eaten healthy, even to lose weight when I was in a healthy mind set. I'd still eat only 600 calories, but it was carbs I was restricting then so I didn't worry about just "happening" to eat so little. I'm going to do this and stay positive about it. I don't even know if you can classify this as an eating disorder or if it's just diet enthusiasm. I don't know.

No. 28132

>>28125
(not that anon) I'm a panic- based self harmed too, so I understand where you're coming from. I never do it unless I'm flipping out, so it's hard not to do it. It's not like it's a habit, it just happens. Even if I can't find anything to do it with, I'll still dig my nails into my skin or punch the fuck out of my leg.
Unfortunately I have no tips for you at this time, but I wanted to let you know that you're not alone.

No. 28162

>>28128

Anon are you me.

I either way like a pig most days or if I want to restrict I don't just minimise my intake or eat healthier, I just don't eat. I switch to like 300-500 cals a day and exercise for one hour every night.

I don't know, sometimes I want it.

No. 28208

>>28162
Oh my god thank you for understanding. Sometimes I think I want it too. Well, I guess I've given into that want as of right now. I'm so desperate to get where I want to go that I need to be there as soon as possible. It might be because it's hard for me to stick with any project I start, so if I don't see progress immediately I'll give up. Every time I have attempted to be healthy it's just degraded back into disordered eating, so I guess I'm just skipping that bullshit middle step of pretending like I'm doing the right thing.

No. 28252

Someone startled me at work yesterday and I farted in surprise
:(

No. 28349

I'm pretty sure my heavy drinking has progressed into alcoholism.
Being sober for even a couple of hours sucks.

No. 28410

I feel like my relationship is falling apart and I don't really understand why. A month ago, things were fine. Now they're just very…lackluster.

I think part of it is that we haven't had sex in that timespan where we usually had it a few times a week. He has a weird performance anxiety complex and it seems like if we don't get into a regular routine of sex he totally loses it and has 0 sex drive or ability to achieve boners. This is the longest time we've gone without because I was having some issues with cysts. Now I really want to and he just doesn't. He'll get me off but no real intercourse, which is what I'm really craving. I'm not going to dump him for it, but I feel so frustrated. And I can't say anything or push for it because, of course, it makes the problem worse.

He's been distancing himself with video games and shit, too. We live together, but I feel like we don't even really talk anymore except a little bit before bedtime until his ambien kicks in. And when I try to like deliberately sit down and have conversations with him it feels so forced and unnatural and it's not long until he's lost interest. We don't even eat together anymore.

Maybe he doesn't find me attractive anymore, in spite of what he says. He was a virgin when we first started dating 5 years ago so maybe I'm the problem. He's always had the anxiety with sex issue. It hasn't been a problem in years until now, though. IDK what to do about it. Maybe it'll blow over. I just don't know how to connect with him again. I miss the intimacy.

No. 28424

My life is doing pretty well right now but I feel so directionless. I can only function when I'm in a romantic relationship and have someone to do things FOR other than me. But I'm too clingy and stupid to be in a relationship. Life is hard

No. 28430

My mom molested me and I'm a severely depressed virgin with lots of fucked up fetishes and I constantly have to fight misogynistic thoughts and ideology. I secretly read my friends tumblr, read her feminist posts where they talk about men, and I feel like she resents me. She is one of the few people in my life and I don't know why I look at her blog, it violates her privacy and hurts me. I go on /r9k/ because I identify with their depressive side, but I'm far to self aware to identify with their hatred. I constantly crave female approval and want more than anything to feel loved in any capacity, even platonically, by a woman, but ultimately know that this desire is codependent, probably misogynistic and certainly unhealthy. I can't drink, the pills don't work, I won't be able to kill myself so I'm stuck in a downward slide until my quality of life gets so bad that I die.

No. 28434

>>7881
Yes, I have done it before many times. I also need someone to help so I don't feel like such a piece of shit and I promised myself I would fight my nihilistic inner dialogue. Do you have contact info that you would feel safe giving out?

No. 28440

>>8213
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No. 28449

>>28434
I do this sometimes too.

If anyone wants a friend/therapist whatever I can take on 1 (ONE) lucky applicant. Leave contact info inquire within

No. 28605

>>7881
If anyone wants an e-therapist I made a kik, username is pageofswords

No. 29036

Finally cut off my narcissistic "friend". I've been trying to distance myself from him for a while, end a friendship like a normal person, but he decided he wanted to meet up with me and my bf to "talk about things." What followed was a fucking lecture essentially about how we were awful people for not patting his ass anymore, and wanting things to be like they used to, when I was a hopeless NEET doing absolutely nothing for myself. He wanted to go over to MY HOUSE to do this, thank god I didn't let him. I essentially lost my shit, said almost everything I wanted to say. My bf was a lot more stoic, he's had a lot more experience with handling delusional people.
It was the most infuriating, self-involved thing I had ever heard from another human being. He got mad at us for telling him we didn't want to be sent porn anymore. He genuinely believes he's like Superman and he's here to motivate us into better lives, single handedly, when in reality he's a spoiled shit with the mentality of a child, with no friends besides us, constantly dumping his emotional issues onto us. That's why I didn't cut it off earlier– I was legitimately worried he would kill himself. He needs help, but he doesn't think he needs any.
I got a panic attack, and he really didn't care. It wasn't the first one I've gotten around him either. I then decided that I wouldn't talk to him or let him in my house anymore. He texted my bf (not me) that he was done with me, so I messaged him he wasn't allowed in my house anymore, to have a nice life.
I don't know. Ever since I was a child, I have attracted these energy sucking, self involved, delusional people. But I think now, I'm done with it. People who drain your energy and make you panic, and don't care, are not worth it.

No. 29049

>>29036
Good on you. Letting a friend go is very hard sometimes, but necessary for your wellbeing.

No. 29063

>>28410 hes cheatin

No. 29071

>>29036
Jesus. This sounds an awful lot like the exchange I had with my ex about a month ago when he said he was considering moving to my hometown with his newest flavour of the month. He just totally let me have it when I told him it wasn't the smartest idea. He also thinks he's Superman to the people in his lives, and it's weird af.
Glad you were able to cut yours off finally. It feels good to let toxic people like that go. You shouldn't worry too much about him killing himself though. People like him think too highly of themselves to actually consider offing themselves.
I'm, like, really happy for you honestly. I hope you can move forward without too much incident. x

No. 29108

>>29049
>>29071
Thank you so much anons. I feel relieved, but still a little stressed. I feel stupid for getting sucked into such a friendship. I felt really bad for him, but now I see why he's alone…

No. 29222

>>29108
Yeah I get the whole feeling stupid for getting involved with an N bit, but it may have been beyond your control anyway. People like that are predatory little bitches, and having any sort of weakness whatsoever makes them want to zero in on you so they can play superman and look like a good guy. None of that is your fault really, and they're the fucked up one in the end.
You'll be ok. He'll be ok too, because he'll always be ok, but best to just let that go.

No. 29224

I still need my mom to drive me to the dentist because the only way I can get in there is heavily medicated before/during/after a visit. It's always for really boring average stuff that he's done a million times before, but I'm always afraid I'm gonna die in that chair, so I get prescribed valium, and then have to have nitrous while he's working on me, and 2 hours later I'm still feeling the effects of it all. I don't get why I'm such a wimp about this one thing, honestly. It's just lame af. Like yeah I'm an anxious bro just in general, but this is ridiculous. ffs.

No. 29227

I hate wearing female panties. I started just wearing male boxers (if I even wear underwear) because they're comfy as shit and my vagina can actually breathe.

No. 29287

My confession is that I always type out something that's bothered me but never post it.

No. 29303

You guys are just as bad as PT but in a more introverted way and with more self loathing.

No. 29429

I ruined my favourite bra yesterday by getting pizza puff sauce on it. I have no idea how it even happened, and I'm way sadder than I should be about it, because it's just a bra, and I can just go out and buy a new one, but it was my favourite bra, so yeah.

No. 29458

I feel like my shitposting style is closer to how trannies shitpost than actual girls. I was averse to feminine things as a child and was a big tomboy, and didn't become interested in cute feminine things until I was exposed to anime. The femininity of anime girls was very inspiring to me compared to the bitchy stupid cheerleader type I was exposed to in western media. Now I see that actual girls who grew up embracing real 3D femininity shitpost like real girls and I shitpost like a /cuteboys/ tranny. Maybe it's a weird thing to be insecure about but I'm questioning if it's reflective of my entire perception of femininity, like I'm a fake plastic tranny in soul because my rolemodels for femininity are anime girls that are actually made by men and behave in ways men think girls would act like. Even 3D idols have all their behavior scripted for then by their male producers. I don't even know what kinds of rolemodels normal girls have that inform their sense of femininity. Taylor Swift and Beyonce maybe?? If I force myself to like Taylor Swift and Beyonce or whatever else will it make me less of a soul-tranny???

No. 29460

>>29458
i laughed really hard at this post but i feel somewhat similar. i spent my early teenage years on 4chan and something awful and didn't have much interaction with other girls irl. i can't into femininity now, but it doesn't really bother me

No. 29462

>>29458
I'm a guy (not a robot) and I tend to prefer girls who write more like guys than girls, or in a way that's ambiguous enough so that I can't tell. Just because you're not as feminine as other girls and have different interests doesn't mean you're not still feminine.

No. 29476

>>29429
Don't you have a washing machine

No. 29489

>>29476
Yes. And the stain is still faintly there, even after soaking it overnight, pretreating it, and washing it this morning. Sauces just stick, I dunno.

No. 29494

I just drank soda after being sugar/soda-free for a whole year. Now I feel dirty inside, and fat.

Only reason I drank it Is because it was already paid for, and I felt bad.
Not really an 'omg' kind of confession, but I felt like I had to say something.

No. 29776

>>29489
Did u try using vinegar on it

No. 29794

>>29489

The answer is obvious: stain the rest of it with pizza sauce so it matches.

No. 29803

File: 1440374898965.jpg (36.42 KB, 620x400, kimkcrying.jpg)

My bf thinks I'm possessed. I'm serious about this, this is not a joke ok

What do I do?

No. 29805

>>29803
Kill him.

No. 29807

>>29803
errr. Is he going to try & kill you?

No. 29809

>>29803

Next time you see him run up and hug him without opening your eyes, and once you have a hold of him grip his shoulders tightly, begin screeching in tongues and open your eyes revealing full black scleral contacts.

No. 29811

>>29803
Dye your hair jet black, and sign up for Asian horror movies. Then roll in that actress mula.

No. 29824

>>29811

Moolah*
S-sorry, I'm pedantic.

No. 29833

>>28132
Thanks for sharing with me, anon.
When I can't get my hands on something sharp, I punch my legs and use my nails too.
Ah well, at least it helps me calm down.

No. 29835

I told my family that my bf is 8 years older than me so it would sound acceptable. But he's actually 14 years older and I don't think I'll ever be able to admit it to literally anyone except my best friend.

No. 29839

>>28132
I have the same problem, only I don't punch my legs too often. I mainly just pinch and pick my arms.

No. 29843

>>29839
Do you also pick off the crust of old wounds? I used to do that without even thinking about it and resulted in a lot of scarring. When it was mosquito season my arms and legs were full of wounds and scars. I paid a lot more attention to it when my doctor mentioned it.
>tfw some people called me Scarlet behind my back

No. 29844

>>29835
How old are you both? The older you both get, the less the age difference will matter.

No. 29848

>>29835
My bf is 10 years older so I know your pain. You'll be getting a lot of people who will be "concerned" about you and your relationship, since you're obviously naive and being manipulated, since you're a young woman…

Its a good exercise in independence in my opinion. It was for me. I basically went in with my giant balls and my older bf, which my family and friends had to accept because its who I chose. If they don't accept him, that's not my problem.

Then again I'm not too close with my family, so maybe it was easier for me. I can envisage issues if your family is helping you out with bills etc.

No. 30054

>>29843
Yeah, I sometimes do that. Like right down to not even thinking about that I'm doing. People called you Scarlet? I've been accused of doing drugs…

No. 30114

>>29844
Early twenties and mid-thirties

>>29848
Luckily I've been financially independent for 6+ years, living alone for 4. I'm not so much guilty for my choice in partner, as I am for keeping information from my parents. Though I'd feel worse telling them the truth and having them worry, so I guess that's the trade off.

The guilt will probably fade over time, so for now I'm just waiting it out.

No. 30118

There's this fucked up girl I know who is 15.
She's very sweet and surprisingly very mature but she copes with many mental illnesses and had a terrible past of child abuse from her family and verbal abuse by her boyfriends.
Thing is she has a fetish for 18+ guys and older guys are interested in her.
There's this 19 years old guy that sexts with her. It's wrong because shes only 15
what should i do??

No. 30119

>>30118
also, she's one of my close friend

No. 30120

>>30118
also
>the guy is a lolicon
>they know each others since she's 13
>he made her call him oniichan since shes 13
>he has a loli fetish
its weird

No. 30121

>>30118
Call the cops on his ass? I don't know if that will work without some kind of proof though. You could always try talking to your friend too but as you probably already know people with mental illnesses don't always do what is best for themselves.

No. 30123

>>30121
she only knows him online though

No. 30124

>>30121
also i dont know where he lives
(im sorry for multiple replies)

No. 30397

>>30120
15 and 19 is ok

No. 31411

>>30397

no, it's not. no 19 year old that is right in the head would legitimately be interested in a 15 year old's friendship.

No. 31447

>>31411
is 15 and 18 ok?

No. 31485

>>12371
I know this has been posted a month ago but I wish I could give you a hug and help you escape.

No. 31655

>>30054
Yeah it was just one group of 'friends' that I didn't hang much with anyways.
I'm sorry to say this but I somehow feel a bit better about it knowing I'm not the only one doing it.
Keeping your nails short and covering the wounds helps a bit though.

No. 31667

Is lolcow's objection to relationships where the man is much older based on concern for the younger girl?

Often /r9k/ says it's about jealousy.

No. 31669

>>31667
Any relationship where one person is much older than the other, underaged partner is creepy. If a middle-aged woman were dating a high school boy, that would be as creepy as a middle-aged man with a girl of a comparable age. The generational gap is huge, and the younger person is in an extremely vulnerable and malleable state.

No. 31672

>>31669
If you genuinely care, then why not look out for younger girls more?

You always hear stories about young girls at cons getting plied with alcohol and fucked in hotel rooms by guys (I'm talking 15 years old here), clearly not many people are actually looking out for them.

No. 31677

>>31667
I don't really care tbh but when I do, it's because I see a younger version of myself in the girl. I was really fucking mentally unstable as a teenager and just know I would have done anything an older guy wanted and could have ended up going on a really bad path.

No. 31679

>>31677
Could you forgive an older guy who had done the same to a vulnerable younger girl, but admitted that what he did was pretty shitty?

No. 31688

>>31679
Was this meant for me? I don't hold grudges against men that take advantage of underaged girls I've never even heard of.

No. 32019

>>31655
It feels good to know someone else understands it too. I try and keep my nails short and I wear sweaters so I'm not tempted to do anything.
They sound like awful people!

No. 32138

I'm about to move and sooo excited! I've never lived on my own before. It's a little scary but I am excited to have my own space and be a comfortable distance from my past and family.

It'll be refreshing to leave the people from my past behind. I keep having dreams about apartment searching and meeting new people.

No. 32247

I want to die. I'm too much of a pussy to try an hero'ing again, though. I'm convinced I won't succeed and will just end up making everything even worse.

No. 32254

I've eaten Chinese food every day for the past two weeks

No. 32256

>>32138
Congrats anon, that must feel really great! I'd love to move out of town where I don't know anybody. Just the other day at the store I saw someone I knew from high school and it made me want to die on the spot. I hate that anyone from that time knows who I am or knows that I still exist. It disgusts me.

When I got home I kept sperging out and hitting myself because I was ~triggered~ by bad memories.

No. 32270

>>32254
If we're doing food-related confessions, I've eaten nothing but energy bars (I have four different types I switch between, and I order them online) for over a month now…

No. 32273

>>32270
seek help please

No. 32274

>>32273
I tried for years to change my weird eating behaviors. I've given up. I don't even care anymore. (I'm >>32247 as well.)

No. 32275

>>32274

"weird"? how so?

why don't you care?

No. 32340

>>32275
Sage for ~my personal blog~ shit

I've always been very picky. Even as a baby, I refused to be bottle-fed or drink formula, and for a while, all I would eat was popsicles ("poskickles," lol). I usually have around five things at a time that I consider "food." Everything else sounds disgusting and I can't bring myself to eat it. Sometimes I'll eat one of these things several times a day, every day, for years. Then, one day, it'll drop off of the "food" list and I'll never want to eat it again.

I was very rigid and restrictive about my intake for most of my life. I ate no more than 1400 calories/day for around seven years. I recently got severe serotonin syndrome and I think it gave me brain and nerve damage. Everything has gone to shit since then. I don't sleep. I have muscle spasms all the time. I sweat like a pig for no reason. I'm almost completely nonfunctional, and, best of all, I'm gaining massive amounts of weight very rapidly. I'm starving all the time and feel like I'm going to die if I don't eat something, but no matter what I eat, it doesn't take away the feeling. I can't sleep or do anything else because of it.

A while ago, I said fuck it, I can't even be assed to prepare food anymore, so I'm just going to live off of pre-packaged shit. It ended here, with me unable to leave the house and unwilling to eat anything other than these few types of goddamn energy bars. I think the final nail in the "not caring" coffin was my mother turning to me with the most venomous stare I've ever seen and saying, "I hate you." Baww, poor me.

No. 32649

>>31411
Friendship? Yes. It is perfectly ok to be friends with children provided you keep in mind to act appropriately. OTOH, sexting is not ok.

No. 32667

>>32340
Yikes, so all you live off of is energy bars? you must have the worst skin and be really fat. Your body needs actual food, not that sugary, processed garbage.

No. 32679

>>32667
Not to say that my diet is in any way normal or healthy, but it's not what you're thinking of. I mostly eat bars that are like unprocessed trail mix with nuts, seeds, raisins, etc. They're low in sugar and I don't see how they don't qualify as "actual food." If I wasn't so fucking lazy, I could make them myself and save a lot of money.

I actually have great skin (on an ugly face and body) and am very underweight, but in general, my health is shit. It's been shit since I was born, though; it's not due to the energy bars. I mean, I'm sure I'm not making things any better, but like I said, I've given up.

>tfw receiving a package with eight boxes of the same type of bar

This is truly a rare feel.

No. 32680

i was staying at my ex boyfriend's house on vacation with my boyfriend. and while i was on ecstacy i told him that my ex should come in and cuddle. with him. because i thought he was feeling lonely. now my boyfriend still probably thinks im in love with my ex. what should i do?

also i feel really bad that i threw up because i had taken so much and i woke up my ex bf's mom. she blamed it on bad food, but i feel like i couldn't tell her the truth. ):

No. 32683

>>32680
Why are you even doing drugs? Please don't. They mess you up.

No. 32684

>>32683
MDMA is a very safe drug as long as you get a lot of water. i knew i drank a shit load that night. i don't think they even set off psychotic trips like acid/shrooms can. no, it's not a good idea to do it all the time, and i know it has long term effects, but this was my second time doing it. really, doing ecstasy sparingly definitely isn't worse than binge drinking. people talk here about boozing out all the time and no one cares. im tired about being lectured on drugs based on false assumptions.

No. 32686

>>32684
Because it goes hand in hand with risk taking behavior, like having a lot of sexual partners.

No. 32687

>>32686
wat. correlation != causation. just because i start using drugs doesn't mean i automatically have a lot of sex partners.

or are you saying that mdma specifically causes you to get a lot of sex partners? that's bullshit, i think alcohol is a lot likely to make you have risky sex or sex you otherwise wouldn't have. the one real hookup with a guy i did have, it was because of alcohol.

No. 32690

>>32687
>even farmers have flings

feels bad man

No. 32691

>>32690
uh i would say that most farmers hookup, and i've probably had a lot less sexual experience than most people on this site.

No. 32692

>>32691
Man that's depressing. I didn't think farmers were sluts.

Tfw sluts = best sex but you can't help but hate them for what they do.

No. 32693

>>32692
uhhh, if you were told this was the female version of /r9k/ you were told wrong

who do you like to have sex with then?

No. 32696

>>32693
>>32693
I like slutty girls for sex. They're more fun. I've explained this before.

No. 32699

>>32696
seems kind of weird to judge the people you choose to have sex with. do you expect women to not have "flings" or what? ok.

No. 32700

>>32699
I never said it made sense. What my dick wants often contradicts what my brain wants.

No. 32703

>>32684
Even pure MDMA is actually one of the more dangerous drugs if you don't know what you're doing. If you wait less than 3 months between each dosing, you are likely inducing permanent brain damage. Heroin and crack are more addictive, but actually much safer than MDMA if you don't OD.

Check http://rollsafe.org

No. 32705

>>32256

I'm sorry to hear that :( That's one of the reasons I feel like I have to move. I run into people I know all the time and it makes me feel so embarrassed.

I'm not sure what happened to you in your school life to make you feel embarrassed, but I actually dread going to parties or events because i might run into a person I went to school with. I wasn't a very good kid back then, but have changed a lot since then. The scary part is that people see the kid they knew in high school and not the new you that has changed since then.

I know people in my new town (my bff lives there) but not too many. It's kind of like a fresh start where all the people I meet will know me as the new me and not my past self. I feel like it will be easier to improve myself once I'm away from my past.

Hopefully you won't have to be stuck in your town forever either. I hope you find what you're looking for!

No. 32718

>>32705
>I wasn't a very good kid back then

explain please

No. 32721

>>32703
i do know frequent use of ecstasy can be bad for you. i don't think i'll do it for a while, if ever. but i don't see any evidence that saying overall harm of ecstasy is higher than cocaine or heroin.

No. 32867

>>32721
Using heroin multiple times in a week won't cause brain damage. Using MDMA multiple times in a week will.

No. 32926

Super fucking shameful confession time.

I've had awful insomnia lately, and I'm getting fat because I'm up 20-24 hours of the day and get so fucking hungry I can't stand it. It's physically painful and it interrupts what little sleep I do manage to catch. Every time, I eventually give in and eat, but no matter how much I eat, I'm still ravenous. I'm now eating around twice as many calories/day as I was a few months ago, and I've already packed on 15 fucking pounds of what looks like pure fat. I'm disgusted by my body and have never been this depressed in my life. I can barely even make myself leave the house anymore. Oh, and then there's the fact that none of my clothes fit now.

The reeeeeally embarrassing part: I'm repulsed and bewildered by the fact that my recent rapid weight gain has made me really, really, really fucking horny. The way my body now feels soft and smooth all over instead of hard and bony, my newly formed curves that have replaced protruding bones and sunken hollows, my rounded belly…fuck, the temptation to just completely let go and allow myself to eat completely unrestricted is so strong. It's not just like I get the urge to binge eat - I feel an intense need to binge on unhealthy shit and then masturbate (or while doing so). I don't want to be actually overweight (I'm still a long way from being there; I started out very underweight), I just apparently get really turned on by the idea of weight gain and stuffing oneself with food. It's disgusting and I'd never tell this to anyone in real life. I don't know what the fuck is wrong with me.

No. 32945

>>32926
Sleep deprivation can cause horniness and food craving. You need to see a doctor and deal with your sleep issue ASAP. Insomnia to that degree is extremely unhealthy.

No. 32954

>>32945
Yeah, I've turned into a different person since the insomnia started. I have had a lot of unexplained symptoms, my whole body hurts all the time, I forget what's been going on most of the time, etc. I saw a doctor at a sleep disorders clinic and scheduled a sleep study, but it's not for like two more months. By that point, if things continue in the direction they've been going, I'll have gained like 50 pounds and probably gone completely insane.

But what the fuck? Why am I associating sex with eating or gaining weight? This is fucking shameful. I'm not a chubby chaser or something.

No. 32960

>>32954
You need a different doctor or a psychiatrist. It is completely abnormal for a doctor to put you off for two months when your insomnia is that severe without prescribing you any sort of sleep aid. My psychiatrist prescribed me Ambien and when that didn't work, had me hospitalized after a couple weeks.

No. 32962

>>32926
Wow it's hot to be so into yourself and excited about the way your body is… But yeah, fatties are disgusting anyways so, there is that.

No. 32963

Sage for bawww poor me/no1curr personal blog shit

>>32960
I currently am without a psychiatrist and no one is taking new patients in my area. I've tried to get into three different sleep disorder clinics and all three were booked through October/November. I've already tried almost every sort of sleep aid there is, and they don't help. Nothing puts me to sleep for more than around 2 hours. Well, nothing short of a needle full of Ativan or Haldol. The only times I've gotten any decent rest recently have been when I've gone completely out of my mind from sleep deprivation and pain a few times and ended up on 72-hour holds in psych wards. I found that if I banged my head against the wall of my "holding cell," eventually people would come in and restrain and sedate me, allowing me to catch a few delightful hours of uninterrupted sleep.

>>32962
It's not hot (can't tell if you were being sarcastic), it's gross and embarrassing and pathological. I don't find the quality of being overweight/obese attractive, so I have no idea why, when I started gaining weight, my libido went into overdrive (and focused on food?!). I'm really not okay with this. I want my old body back, but I'm suddenly like "damn, this ass feels nice" or I feel my legs rub against each other and then I want to go shove more food in my face.

I want to die.

No. 32964

>>32963
Wasn't being sarcastic, I honnestly think it's cool and hot to feel exited about your own body, I wish I could be more confident about mine.
Buy i totaly get your struggle, I don't xwant the rest of your problem. I just wanna think i'm hot and masturbate thinking about me.

No. 32980

>>31667
I think it's fine. People here think all 18 and less teens are immature and stupid. lol

No. 33026

I like cats man end of story.

No. 33160

>>32963
Have you been to a neurologist? They might be able to do some brain tests while you're waiting for the sleep clinic. You could also try an endocrinologist if you think it's a hormone imbalance. Or find a primary care doctor who knows what specialists to send you to while you're waiting.

No. 33161

>>33160
I'm seeing my primary care doctor in a few days, and I'm going to beg for a referral to a neurologist and/or endocrinologist. I'm just trying to hold it together until then. All these specialists are scheduling months out, though, and it's pretty depressing.

I keep saying "fuck it, I give up" and then changing my mind and going "wait, maybe I can fix this somehow." Right now, I just want to eat and eat and eat and eat and eat and eat. I'm already "full" but I still feel so hungry. It's torture.

No. 33190

File: 1441033887379.png (246.61 KB, 500x611, literally me.png)

My abusive ex-boyfriend who mistreated me, cheated on me and fucked around with and severely crippled my self esteem for years is finally is reaping the toll of years of excess drinking and constant drug abuse and is really beginning to age horribly and then he's grown this disgusting big beard to cover it up and it looks awful oh my god.

I have his current girlfriend on Facebook because she's actually fucking lovely and can do so much better, but in pictures together he has become so sickly and flabby looking whilst I'm only getting more and more attractive with age, like turning into one of those really attractive woman in her early 20's, all trenchcoats and heels and red lisptick and long, shiny perfect hair and (finally) perfect skin and I fucking L.O.V.E it. I'm petty as hell and I don't give a fuck any more.

I was told by a friend last month that he came in one night off his face on ketamine, fell asleep in the hallway, pissed and shit himself in his sleep and his girlfriend had to clean him in the morning whilst trying to get ready for work herself.

THAT'S WHAT YOU GET YOU FUCK
THE BEST REVENGE REALLY IS BECOMING HOT

No. 33354

>>33161
try self-medicating with various sleep drugs. there's lots of OTC stuff.

No. 33355

>>33190
Congrats on both getting out of the abusive relationship and fucking owning it by taking care of yourself and becoming more awesome.

No. 33358

>>33354
I have seriously tried everything legal with no avail. Diphenhydramine does nothing for me anymore. I don't think melatonin ever did anything for me. I think my brain just fucking broke.

Confession: I WANT TO DIE

No. 33359

>>33358
give doxylamine succinate (unisom) a try

No. 33361

>>33359
Tried that, too. I've tried everything OTC and a lot of prescription pills. Nothing.

No. 33395

>>33361
that sounds really bad. maybe check yourself into a hospital temporarily? you might have a serious brain problem (aneurysm, tumor, stroke) or something.

No. 33396

>>33355

Thank you, thank you, thank you :>
Sounds like you might know what this feels like.

No. 34261

I feel uncomfortable lately in my own home. I started dating this guy about 7 years ago and he had some children with him. Nothing is wrong with that. We all get along and the children love me…maybe a bit too much? The oldest child is now 17 but for the past three years he's made comments about how I look in a bikini and how he "understands" why his dad likes me after seeing me in one. It makes me very uncomfortable. I see this child as my own and I really can't fathom these sexual feelings. I do realize that it's natural, considering I'm not his biological mother and that he basically met me in his formative years of puberty. I still feel weird though. I see him as this adorable and precocious 9 year old and he sees…well it seems he sees my boobs.

No. 34266

>>34261
That kind of disgusting. I would talk to his father and talk to him yourself about how to respect women. Like wtf. Making comments like that is going to stick with him if no one tells him that shit isn't okay.

No. 34270

>>8322
Dump the cunt

No. 34271

>>12656
I look for big tits and ass if I want a one night stand or occasional fuckbuddy. GF material is someone witty and at least somewhat cute.

No. 34283

I'm pretend to seem cooler on social media than I really am.

Honestly, I'm just an ugly, lazy loser who can't do anything right.

I just want people to like me.

No. 34300

>>34283
Dong worry, everyone does that anon.

No. 34450

>>34283
Yeah, this is me too. and probably most anons here tbh

No. 34456

>>34450
Speak for yourself.

No. 34466

People tell me my art is great all the time but if I put it on any social network outlet I get no attention. Is it because I lack networking? Or is it really that bad?? Makes me nervous about showing any art at all.

No. 34579

~TRIGGER WARNING~ for my-personal-blog-shit

>>33395
BTW, I went to the hospital in tears, suicidal, desperate to get some sleep, and they just stuck me in a room for a few hours and then told me they had no reason to keep me and that I wouldn't benefit from an inpatient stay. They wouldn't do any imaging/testing or give me any medications or anything. I wanted to beg them to just give me a fucking shot of something like Ativan - I was SO tempted to freak out and start bashing my head against the wall or fighting the nurses so I could get restrained and sedated. I honestly may resort to doing something like that again soon. A few weeks ago, I kind of sort of attacked a police officer and cops tackled me and gave me a shot of Versed before dragging me off to the psych ward. The Versed was glorious. I got the best sleep. I would pay so much money for a lifetime supply of that shit.

I think I probably have brain damage. Maybe nerve damage too. I don't know. Maybe it's a tumor or something else. Something's definitely wrong. I'm a totally different person than who I was a year ago and I hate what I've become, but I feel totally powerless to stop it. I just keep making the situation worse and worse for myself. For example, failed suicide attempts bite you in the ass.

No. 34581

>>34579
Oh and I'm at least half asleep right now and I am about to impulse buy almost $600 of shit off of Amazon. I can't stop myself. What have I become? Please kill me. I do not want to live this life anymore. I am defective.

I hope I do have a brain tumor and that it's terminal. Then I could die and it wouldn't be "my fault" like a suicide. I don't want people to be mad at me after I'm dead.

I'm so sleep deprived I've started doing really crazy shit, I'm not careful at all like I used to be, I don't care about things I used to care about because I feel like I've lost everything in my life and there's just no fucking point. Emo whining on lolcow dot farm at three o'clock in the morning, yes, this is a good thing to be doing.

No. 34653

I've gained 25 pounds in the last 4 months or so, I look and feel disgusting, I hate myself more than ever, and I don't think I'm ever going to be able to get my old body back. I want to die.

No. 34673

>>34653
Dude, take a shower, get a gym membership, and start jogging. It's not the end of the world. Calm down.

>>34581
You need a therapist. And a psychiatrist. Lolcow will not help you, and neither will Amazon.

So many fucking crazies in this thread.

No. 34675

>>34673
>tfw horrible exercise-induced asthma
I have started working out on an elliptical and a rowing machine, despite the fact that it leaves me practically unable to breathe, but it's not showing yet. I was always really underweight and then all of a sudden I gained a ton of weight, so it's really disconcerting. MUH METABULIZUMS!!! (just kidding, I know it's because I started eating more and moving around less)

No. 34697

>>34653
You need to find a hospital that will take you.

No. 34702

File: 1441843992842.jpg (17.13 KB, 255x255, Zog....jpg)

>>19812
>Some lady came into ork today with her partner. Her left eye was black and her bottom lip was busted open. I hate abuse..

No. 34703

>>7562
I secretly hate all my friends.

No. 34704


No. 34705

>>34466
networking man

No. 34706

>>34675
you NEED to eat better if you want to lose weight.
You can exercise all you want but you are not going to lose ANYTHING eating macdonalds everyday.
making good food choices is 80% of losing weight.

No. 34708

I've been thirsty for weeks now and I feel like I'm going crazy. I want to suck dick so badly but LDR

Gotta wait another week and can't complain to anyone IRL without outing myself as a giant cumslut

No. 34712

>>34708
Just fapsturbate furiously. You can do it anon, I was in a LDR for a year, and the times between us meeting I wanted to die of horniness. You can make it anon, I believe in you.

Just put a cork in it yo.

No. 34722

>>19812
Fuck, I work at a dispensary so most of our customers are super cheery but this old guy came in with his girlfriend and she was so frail looking and scared. There was a bruise on her lip and her left eye. I couldn't look at her. It makes me think of what could have been me and my ex.

No. 34776

>>34706
I know that; I eat healthy, though, and I'm not just saying that, I swear. I never eat at restaurants, I don't eat anything fried or shit like pizza or burgers, I eat a lot of fresh fruit and vegetables, poached/baked skinless chicken breasts, Greek yogurt, clear soups, etc. Small portions of everything, blah blah blah. I never had a problem maintaining my weight before a few months ago and then everything inexplicably went to shit. Is this what getting old does to you? If so, I'm not a fan…

No. 34805

>>34708
Damn, girl. Get yourself some sex toys.. That's how most people handle LDR.

No. 34806

>>19812
>>34722
Why don't you guys do something like report it or call the police or something??

No. 34858

>>34806

Not her but tbh I think you have overly idealistic views of what exactly the police can do in that kind of situation; they likely wouldn't bother.

Say they paid her a visit, she would probably lie and say she fell down some stairs or walked into a cabinet a some shit, they would side-eye each other, and then without evidence or a confession of a crime having been committed they would just leave. They have to deal with these kind of call-outs everyday and the women almost always pussy out and cover up for their live-in brute.

Tbh those women are the only ones that can help themselves and if they're not willing to take that first step then what can they expect to change?
I watched my mother go through it for years with her psycho alcoholic boyfriend and I will always secretly resent her for being so weak as to stick around in the hopes that he would magically change because she "loved" him whilst dragging I and my 4 sisters from house to house to house, town to town, even country to country because they kept getting evicted or he kept getting arrested and we had to put up with the nightly beatings and the screams that would accompany them.

It's hard to have sympathy for people that stupid, even if they did sire you.

No. 34892

>>34858
I suppose you're right. It just still makes me sad to see men who think it's alright to beat their girlfriends or wives. Like… ugh how much of a shit parent do you have to be for your son to grow up like that?

You are definitely right about the only person who can help themselves are the women being abused, but so many of them feel helpless and have nowhere to turn.

No. 34894

>>34858
I'm sorry you had to go through that, anon. I don't know why these weak willed women always have children too! Argh. I hope you're out of that situation and your life is better now.

No. 35249

I have a friend, let's call him Ryan. He's one of my best friends, and he's good-looking, intelligent, and laid back. Even though our school doesn't have a huge dating culture, he's managed to find some girls who are interested in him. Unfortunately, he seemed to find the worst possible match for on campus.

Ryan was casually seeing a girl for a couple of weeks back last year in 2014. Then, out of the blue after summer break started, he started Skyping another girl from school, "Kally". Apparently, he fell head over heels in love with her for some reason and they started traveling together for the summer. After that, Kally basically moved in to his dorm room for the year. And this summer, the two went abroad together to visit Ryan's parents, and Ryan lived with Kally and her parents. This year, it turns out Kally would not be coming back to school because she was on academic probation, but Ryan wanted to continue being in a LDR.

Ryan has told me before he thinks Kally is really cute. I don't see it, but to each his own. But if Kally was a guy and not so cute and the opposite gender, people might think she's a stereotypical neckbeard. Here's the problems:

* Ryan and Kally are at VERY different levels of maturity. Ryan is an international student who mostly takes care of things by himself when he's away from his family. Kelly is a girl from a rich family who lives thirty minutes from home. Apparently, she's always trying to get her family to fix things or bring things for her.
* Kally didn't have too many friends on campus, so she'd always tried to tag along on things that had previously been guys only. Kally is pretty socially awkward, so those nights became a lot less fun. Kally said she thought it was hard making friends with girls, so I think she tries hard to be "one of the guys", but it hasn't been working. She also likes to say inappropriate things out loud under the guise of humor. Even though she's an adult, she thinks poop jokes are funny.
* Kally also doesn't have a lot of things in common with me or the rest of Ryan's friends. Most of us are in a major together with Ryan and are passionate about the subject, so we love talking about it. Kally isn't. When I mentioned to her that I liked Jodorowsky, she said, "That's weird." She tried going to book club with us once, but it's clear she isn't a huge fan of reading.
* Kally's makes a huge mess. Before, I would visit Ryan's dorm room and it'd always be pretty neat, at least for a college guy. When Kally moved in, there was often a ton of clutter on the floor. But that's not the worst part. Apparently there'd be a ton of hair and pubes on the floor too. Gross. She's a sloppy eater and it's clear she doesn't brush her teeth very well.
* Ever since he was dating her, he stopped going out that much. I know he tried to study more last year, but I also think it's because he's doing to stop Kally from getting jealous.
* Sometimes she would act like a baby in public, which is weird and creepy or she'd treat Ryan like he's a baby. Kally tries way too hard to act cutesy around people, especially guys, in general.
* Ryan recently mentioned recently about helping Kally find a therapist and mentioning that she was having a hard time. With that alone, I don't think right now Kally is in a good position for a relationship, and Ryan shouldn't be the one having to take care of her personal problems.

There's a lot more I could get into, but I'll end it here.

Ryan's a great guy, but I think he's been insecure about dating, especially now that he's been trying to study more and look for a job. I don't want him to think Kally is the best he can get.

No. 35257

>>35249
Have you told him this though.
Sometimes being a good friend means telling them something they don't want to hear.

No. 35259

I'm so excited that the girls I grade papers with gossip/bitch about shit in a manner similar to what we do on lolcow. I've never been around people like this and it's so great to actually do this irl instead of just online.

No. 35260

>>35259
This was so sad to read.
I've met a person in real life who bitches like we do on lolcow and I was just embarrassed. I'd never want to carry over this ugly guilty pleasure IRL.
The guy was a 2edge fag who tried to overcompensate for his lack of physical appeal with incessantly insulting others, even to their face, it was so fugly.

No. 35281

>>35260
It's more towards reality TV/current events than specific individuals. There's also hair and make up discussion which, again, is something I don't get to talk about a lot.
I don't know. I'm inherently a girly-girl but seem to never gravitate towards others like me. It's a relief to finally be gossipy and shit.

No. 35282

>>35281
Ah I see.
I don't see anything wrong with that.

However, sometimes I meet people that really remind me of lolcow and that is NOT a compliment.

No. 35284

I think I have a caregiver/little fetish. I have a weakness for strong, older men, being "cared for", and indulging in more childish pastimes. I don't really know how to feel about it, and I've never indulged in it before outside of online spaces. I'm not entirely sure that I want to either, because of the stigma and the high potential for unhealthy habits and relationships to develop. I guess I don't know what to do with it.

No. 35286

>>35282
Yeah, I probably could've worded my initial post a bit better… Sorry about that.

No. 35591

File: 1442093573619.jpg (151.84 KB, 640x1136, image.jpg)

I prefer cute guys for sex only and guys like yamashita tomohisa for something serious. I'm weird

No. 35695

>>35284
Same boat anon. Same boat. ;_;

No. 35912

File: 1442191425150.jpg (77.4 KB, 1008x647, aramajapan_yamapi.jpg)

>>35591
>Yamapi
My nigga!! Great tastes.

No. 35921

>>35591
he's way cute

No. 35949

My ultimate fantasy is to be a kind of caregiver/helper/comforter/confidante/accomplice to a really fucked up, violent lunatic. Like being the Mrs. Lovett to a Sweeney Todd or the Lua to a Ladd Russo. Getting to clean them up (and fuck them, of course) after they've been injured, soothing them through their breakdowns, running my fingers over their scars, being the only one they actually care about or show their vulnerable side to, etc…hnnnnnggggg

I feel really, really guilty about this. I also wouldn't actually want the emotional baggage or the risk involved in being in a relationship with someone like that. The thought of it, though, just turns me on and always has. My earliest feelings of arousal, back before I even knew what sexuality was, were always linked to characters in books/movies/TV shows who were crazy, wounded, and/or disfigured. Watching someone get tortured or fight people or have a mental breakdown shouldn't make me horny. I hate you, brain.

No. 35991

>>35949
It's ok, you're just like every other edgy fanfic-writing teen.

No. 35993

>>35949
you could just get a prison pen pal you know

No. 36030

>>35991
Thanks; I've never written fanfiction and I'm well out of my teens. But yeah, I know, I know, I'm super edgy. That's me. Yep.
>>35993
I don't want to act any of this out in real life. I don't even want these thoughts to be in my head.

No. 36039

>>35695
It's such a guilty pleasure, man. I can only hope I find some way to appease my desires in a healthy way. </3 Good luck to us both I suppose.

No. 36045

I've decided to eat as little as possible. I ate around 3000 calories today as a last treat for myself.

I'm doing this because I feel like what I put into my body is the only thing I have control over anymore. My parents won't let me dress the way I want to, nor let me cut my hair how I want. They're separated and have two completely different lives, but both seem to agree on what I can and can't look like.Both are in the process of moving and I have to hide all of my stuff every day in case someone comes to look at the house. I'm taking advanced classes and don't get home until 5 b/c of an after school activity that basically involves studying and taking tests. I feel like I've forgotten the basics of social interaction. I don't remember how to continue a conversation or how or where to end one. My best friend is a manipulative lying cunt and I can't just leave her because it's very likely she'll actually kill herself, since I'm her only friend. I have occasional issues with gender dysphoria and I feel like looking less feminine (I carry most weight in my hips and I'm flatchested, minus the weight I might actually pass as a guy) would help assuage that.
Turned out longer and more whiny than I had intended

No. 36060

>>36045
Haha. Wow are you 16 or something? This is like a legit tumblr entry.

But in all seriously, life gets better once you're old enough to get your own job, move out and do what you please for the most part. And please don't be another fucking fakeboi. We don't need any more mentally ill people running around demanding rights.

No. 36135

>>36045
>3000 cals

How?

No. 36185

>>36135
Not that anon, but do you really think it's hard for a person to eat 3000 calories spread out over the course of a day…? If so, I'm guessing you're either anorexic and have a warped view of how much people eat or you just severely underestimate how many calories people eat.

No. 36197

>>36185

m8 I'm fucking fat as fuck and even I couldn't eat 3000 cals in one day. I would legit puke.

No. 36199

3000 is like 3 Big Mac meals in a day? I could do it

No. 36203

>>36185
I mean it's a lot, for me a pigout day is 2000 cals, I guess it's easy if all you're eating is macdonalds.

No. 36204

>>36197
A lot of restaurant meals are 1000+ calories. It would really not be hard at all to eat 3000 if you ate 3 meals with caloric drinks, some snacks, and dessert. I'm not saying I do this or that I think it's healthy, just that it's actually pretty common for people to eat that amount of food. People usually drastically underestimate how much they're eating - I've heard people claim they get by on like 1000 calories/day when they're really eating more like twice that much.

No. 36213

>>36197
If youre fat you probably already do and just don't realize. It's not hard at all to get up to 3000 when youre eating calorie dense foods that don't fill you up.

No. 36214

>>36213

Naw bruv' I'm actually pretty anal about moderating my intake I just don't move around much so I'm not exhausting my energy surplus and it's getting stored as fat.
tbh I really just need to reduce my intake to like 1400cals or something.

No. 40795

bumping

No. 40854

>>36204
I have absolutely no idea how many calories I'm eating every day and I don't know how I would go about counting them as I cook fresh stuff and I have no intention of weighing everything I eat. I'm very thin and I don't really feel hunger, I only realise that I need to eat when I start getting a headache or stomach ache.



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