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No. 62128

Hey, lolcow.

Not sure if this thread is going to make you all angry at me or to laugh at me or whatever..

I have no friends. I lost them all due to them betraying me in a way I can't forgive. I'm not having luck making any.

Would it be cool if we became instagram friends? Or even Skype friends for messaging via just typing? I really would love to know your standpoint.

I just want some people to talk about music, makeup, lolcows but have a more personable connecting.. if that makes any sense at all. Most of you seem like really cool people. Internet friends is something I need rn.

I will delete this thread if I'm just making a fool of myself, but if I am infact making a fool of myself please let me know.

No. 62132

>>>/g/17033

try here

No. 62133

>>62132
I mean people I could follow and be friends with on instagram (or even facebook) that know of lolcow, being that you girls understanding.

No. 62134

are understanding*

No. 62139

>>62133
so just post in that /g/ thread and explicitly say you want IG friends? no need for a whole self-thread (although tbh it seems the reason you push for ig friends so hard is more for popularity, but i don't wanna argue this one)

No. 62141

>>62139
This isn't a self thread. I don't care for a follower count at all but I guess it seems that way.

Whatever, I always lose.

No. 62142

how'd they betray you?

No. 62151

>>62142
I was friends with a group of 3 other people for 7 years.

My closest friend of the 3 (friend #1) texted me one night to go watch a some tv show at friend #2's house. He also asked if I could bring my weed. Of course I was like sure, always willing to share.

I get there. They barely speak to me, started smoking a lot of my weed when I wasn't in the room, I look at my baggy and noticed it decreasing, I mention something and it seems to go over there heads.

Friend #3 comes in the room. Didn't think she'd be there. She ended up smoking the rest.

The whole time they were very different and distant towards me and it was very clear to me that they used me just to get high.

As for the other friends that betrayed me, I have many stories.

No. 62156

>>62151
well, that's pretty shitty

but i will say if you've had multiple instances of friends betraying you, it's quite possible there's something bad about your personality that makes people grow to dislike you over time. it's possible you just make shitty friend choices, but you can't rule out that you're the problem.

No. 62158

>>62156
You're right. I suppose it's best if I remain a loser.

No. 62212

>>62141
>>62158
>Whatever, I always lose
>You're right. I supposed it's best if I remain a loser
Protip: don't say things like this whilst looking for friends. These two posts are really off putting and makes me think you're a self pitying debbie downer looking for nothing but sympathy or coddling from others. Outright calling yourself a loser is really awkward for everyone else around you. Sorry about your weed.

No. 62250

honestly, you have to cut all shit people out of your life if you haven't already.

and the "oh woe is me" thing is very self obsessed. self hatred is as off putting (and immature) as extreme narcissism. you sound like you need therapy, not some new acquaintances.

No. 62265

>>62250
I agree. OP needs to chill and stop with this "wahh.. I-I need friends will anyone follow me on insta ;_;" attitude because it's not really getting you anywhere.

No. 62271

>>62212
>>62250
>>62265
Thanks.

No. 62274

samefag

You guys are opening my eyes. I appreciate it.

No. 62283

>>62274
>samefag

stop saying this. it's annoying and it doesn't mean what you think it means.

No. 62294

>>62283
yer just being a dick now, calm down.

No. 62348

I'm not going to offer to be your friend but I respect that you lost your friends due to you deciding they aren't worth being friends with

No. 62397

>>62271
OP you gotta help yourself first.

Many people here are depressed and hard on themselves and I think it can be fine to discuss with the right people. But you need to look at it from a different angle.
"I'm such a loser" doesn't allow the other person anything to build a conversation off of, other than making them feel uncomfortable and feel obligated to say something to pick you up.
Read your messages before sending and imagine how the other person would respond. Training myself to have responses that inspire discussion is a simple thing that helped tremendously in making friends.

No. 62398

>>62283
Ok.

>>62348
Thank you very much. Means a lot.

>>62397
Yeah, I realized that all when I read >>62212 and waking up this morning felt different, since I have a new mindset now because of you guys.

I'm sorry everyone, that this seemed like a self-thread. I really didn't intend for that to happen.

No. 62399

>>62398
You should try posting in the thread on /g/ in a while and start anew. You seem sweet just down on yourself. Good luck anon.

No. 62407

>>62399
Thank you a ton. This really helped me. I'm gonna take your advice and start fresh. You're really nice.

No. 62423

>>62407
If you'd like you can email me at this throwaway and we can exchange skype/line

No. 62434

Woe is Me: The Thread

No. 62442

>I have no friends.
>I lost them all due to them betraying me in a way I can't forgive.
The last person who told me that ended having a horribly selfish personality and always monopolized everyone's attention.
Sorry, but being self deprecating is not going to work here.

No. 62448

>>62442
I think that they are the ones with the selfish personality, being that they smoked my weed I needed because I have cancer.

I'm going to stop posting ITT. Bye guys.


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