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No. 54387

Last one reached max. Is this a thing we're still doing?

[Robots should only use this thread. Those who post outside of it may be banned, depending on post content and history.]

No. 54395

What even is a robot? What makes a robot a robot? I mean I know it means that you primarily browse /r9k/, but obviously the reason that distinction is significant is because there's something different about the people who post there.

No. 54416

Piggybacking off of the other anon, what the fuck is /r9k/ even for? Is it just a lesser /b/?

No. 54428

>>54395

>mostly white average looking middle class kids

>really bad with girls
>socially fucked up
>KHV
>have problems functioning in life
>became bitter and angry because they couldn't, can't or won't fix the their shit

this is probably the tl:dr

Quitting that place was probably the best thing I ever did in my life.

No. 54448

>>54416
To complain about women mostly. In a robot's eyes women are all whores who have everything handed to them and can get whatever or whoever they want because they're women. They think women won't date them because women want chad and not a "nice guy".

No. 54459

except no man that posts on r9k is a "nice guy" and it is with 99.9999% certainty robots are bigger assholes than "chads". I'd rather date a sport jock cool bro dude who tries hard to be charismatic to get laid than some sad pathetic robot who thinks he is owed vagina but puts no effort into himself.

No. 54461

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>>54459
>except no man that posts on r9k is a "nice guy" and it is with 99.9999% certainty robots are bigger assholes than "chads".

Gee, you don't say.

No. 54795

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Nice vague op
Anyway, being a white man sucks dating-wise

No. 54796

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>>54795
>indians are the most desirable
Wut

No. 54801

>>54795
>being a white man sucks dating-wise
Not this meme again. Typical /r9k/ to project your own individual shortcomings on an entire group of people, though.

There is a lot that can be done to improve your dating chances, but you purposely choose an attribute out of your control (race) to make yourself a victim and to feel better about your own pathetic life. No better than Tumblr, tbh.

No. 54803

>>54795
I didnt realize women had such an affinity for curry

Rest of the chart is believable though. I wonder why Indians are on top

No. 54826

>>54795
Is this made up? I have a very hard time believing Indian men are the most desirable in the UK.

No. 54858

>>54826

Same.
I'm British and whilst I hate to admit it, to the native populace many Indian men are looked down upon as perverts or dirty in general.

Also they often smell of curry powder. No lie.

No. 54879

>>54795
>by a woman
By.. other indian women?

No. 54882

>>54879
Probably just where I live and I'm going off a very small sample size, but I see Indian women with white men far more than Indian women with Indian men

No. 54883

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>every girl I talk to online watches gangbang and cuck porn
I want off this ride now
Was talking to a girl from Lithuania who brought up that she was into that. Told her it was nice talking to her, and then blocked her tbh. Worst part is that most guys would date and even marry these women

No. 54889

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>>54795
Not this shit again.

No. 54890

>>54883
>every girl I talk to online watches gangbang and cuck porn
>talked to one girl who brought it up

No. 54894

>>54890
The last 3 out of 5 online qts I've had have admitted to this
Why cant women have normal fetishes compatible with monogamous relationships?

No. 54895

>>54883
Jesus just because someone watches it in porn doesn't mean they do it in real life
Why can't you robots discern porn tastes from reality

No. 54897

>>54895
It means they have an itch for it and I'm not taking a chance with that. How would you feel (assuming you're white) if your bf exclusively jacked off to Japense women in porn and admitted to you its always been a fantasy of his to fuck them

No. 54898

>>54894
Plenty do. Seems like you've just had bad luck so far
>>54895
All the genres I watch in porn I want to try. Why would she be watching something she wouldn't want to happen to her?

She desperately wants something he cannot provide in a monogamous relationship which is a legitimate cause for concern

No. 54899

>>54897
I'd admittedly be a bit jealous but I'd deal with it because if he's with me, that means he's into me. He's not going to rub off with some Japanese girl just because that's what he faps to. Porn =/= reality

No. 54900

>>54899
Well I'm more of a jealous person and I wouldnt want to deal with going to a basketball game knowing she wants to get gangbanged by the team. And cuckolding is even worse because she likes knowing that it bothers me

The japanese girl analogy gets the point pretty well, but cockolding is something else entirely. What if your bf exclusively masturbated to the thought of hurting you by fucking your coworkers?

No. 54901

>>54900
kek no that's not how it works. I get off to stuff like public sex, gangbangs, and incest comics like Jab. I am absolutely not interested in doing any of those things irl. I like gangbang porn because I like the idea of being so desirable multiple men can't help but have their way with me/all of my holes getting filled. It is just strictly fantasy. I don't think about getting fucked every time I'm around more than one man.

The best sex I've ever had was with my boyfriend, just us in his bed.

No. 54902

>>54901
>I like gangbang porn because I like the idea of being so desirable multiple men can't help but have their way with me/all of my holes getting filled. It is just strictly fantasy
So you would pass up the opportunity for a real one assuming your bf was okay with it/ out of the picture?

I'm just not grasping the whole masturbating to something, but not actually wanting to do it thing. Then again, I exclusively jack off to just one on one PIV sex, so it's not exactly something that far out there

No. 54903

>>54900
Why are you so angry and paranoid? I think you need therapy anon, you're confusing fantasy with reality

No. 54904

>>54902
You sound like an autist

No. 54905

>>54903
See >>54902
I just dont get it

No. 54906

>>54904
What does that have to do with anything? I'm asking a serious question here

What makes me sound autistic? That I jack off to vanilla fantasies?

No. 54907

>>54902
a "real" gangbang would mean I would have to find multiple men that are all on board with the idea, who are d/d free, who I could trust, who I was attracted to, and we would all have to meet at the same time and I'd have to be horny. Oh and I'd have to have an intense emotional connection with them as well, because that's actually what gets me off the most.

Masturbation and sex are completely different. I masturbate either because I'm bored or my boyfriend is at work or something. I watch something that holds my interest and looks like it feels good. That's all.

No. 54908

>>54907
>a "real" gangbang would mean I would have to find multiple men that are all on board with the idea, who are d/d free, who I could trust, who I was attracted to, and we would all have to meet at the same time and I'd have to be horny. Oh and I'd have to have an intense emotional connection with them as well, because that's actually what gets me off the most.
So hypothetically it's a yes
I'd be fine with my gf reading hentai, but not watching real porn tbh.
I thought real porn was more geared towards men anyways? Didn't know most women watched that stuff. At least that's what my Mom told me a kid when I was caught. That women didn't like that stuff and that it would skew my perception of what sex actually is about and how it happens

No. 54909

>>54902
Ever entertained a thought like "I'll walk around the world" but you know in reality you're nowhere near brave or crazy enough for that sort of thing.

Sometimes you feel like you could circumvent the globe with no issues at all and it would be the most amazing experience of your life.
So you look up camp gear, tickets to Peru and you're all ready to go when you remember that you're just you, non athletic plus you've got to work your bitch job all week so you can eat.

And so you fall asleep, maybe tomorrow your dreams will eventuate.

No. 54910

>>54909
Wut
So from what I gather, women want to do all the gangbangs and cuckolding, but just chicken out and hope they get an opportunity sometime?

No. 54911

>>54910
close but no sitar

No. 54912

>>54908
I thought this was a given, but no. My boyfriend satisfies me completely and I have no interest in having sex with anyone else.

What's the difference between hentai and porn? They're both fictionalizations of sex. And yeah porn is primarily made for men but that's based on the outdated notion that woman don't enjoy sex. Your mom is right that porn is inaccurate and can be problematic, but to say women can't enjoy watching people fuck is a joke.

No. 54913

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>>54909
>going to peru
>>54911
Then please explain

No. 54914

>>54912
I don't know, but I guess it's slightly better knowing she is reading something that she knows is not realistic, and isn't lusting after real men other than myself

No. 54915

>>54912
And also when I did watch porn I watched the "female friendly" genres which I assumed until recently women actually watched.
Turns out they're watching the real brutal stuff though

No. 54916

>>54914
have you ever seen the men in porn??? I can't speak for all women but I do not "lust" over any porn actor. I am attracted to so much more than just physical appearance anyway. I do not have sex with my boyfriend and imagine he's James Deen instead. and even though you haven't mentioned it, no, I am not looking at porn cocks and thinking they're somehow superior either.

Either way, they are both purely fantasy. My boyfriend watches porn and idgaf.

No. 54917

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>>54916
>have you ever seen the men in porn???
Ya I have and I'm a bit jealous since I'm stuck with ~6.5" and they're all rocking 8" and up it seems.
Worried my hypothetical gf would see that the grass is greener and realize that she could do much better in terms of sexual pleasure. Then I'd get cheated on by some guy off Craigslist and it'd be over

No. 54919

>>54917
oh my god, honey no. I am starting to feel sorry for you. I was implying that the men in porn are usually gross.

Only men care about dick size. A micropenis would be disappointing but those are incredibly rare. Big cocks can actually cause a lot of pain. I cannot imagine any circumstance where a woman would say "this guy is amazing, I am in a serious relationship with him, but his dick is like an 1" too short so I am going to find someone else on Craigslist"

No. 54920

>>54919
I've read about a lot of times where it's happened
Doesn't seem to be uncommon

No. 54921

>>54920
okay, then live in a miserable existence where the is no such thing as a happy monogamous relationship that can watch porn

No. 54922

>>54920
Get off r9k and talk to people, real life people.
I'm not even joking, ever since I stopped going there I've been a lot happier.
That place is fucking with your head and your perceptions. You can be happy anon!

No. 54923

I dunno how true this is in general but I've heard men are turned on by physical attributes and women by action. And it's 100% true for me. I'm not attracted to the guys in porn. They're basically nameless, faceless placeholders for me. I only get off on… actual actions, so even a "hot" guy with a 6 pack and big dick does nothing for me. Sure, I'll be able to say he is objectively attractive but until he does something I find attractive, I won't be aroused. So porn functions in the same way as hentai for me, I don't care about the person in it (replace any porno dude with any other porno dude, makes no difference), just about what's going on like fetishes and scenarios and shit.

No. 54924

>>54922
I haven't gone to /r9k/ for a good year now. Still miserable and autism as ever
>>54921
What did I do?
>>54923
Don't think it's that clear cut, but generally sounds about right.

No. 54926

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Okay to you lads who keep complaining all women are shit.I'll let you in on a fact of life it took me a while to discover. The VAST majority of people, not specifically men and not just women, are complete shit for relationships. You see a lot of women that are vapid whores and who cheat, but most men are too.
You just never notice those sorts of things about them because you dont look at them in the same way as women. It's all about finding the minority that isn't shit no matter what gender you are and which you're seeking.
You only need to find one and if you make an effort you'll find him/her

This is all assuming you're actually good relationship material because it's very possible you arent and are not aware of it yet. You can change though

No. 54929

How do people even meet women? I hear a lot of people asking about how to get out of the friendzone and things similar. But I have never actually gotten to know a girl, not so much as a friend. Closest I've come is working on school projects for a week and then parting ways forever.

No. 54941

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>have eFWB from indonesia who dressed in a schoolgirl uniform and posed in any position I requested earlier tonight
>many lewd positions obviously
>makes her horny as fuck posing in those positions, and asks if she can go masturbate after sending me pics of her dripping
>asks me to tease her with crotch bulge
>came an hour or so ago, but have a bit of a boner going on and try to get it to full mast
>dick literally shrivels up and cant get hard at all
>after 5 minutes of trying to get hard I just say I can't because I came to her pics earlier
>"Oh I understand, don't worry about it I like edging :)"
>"You can send me a pic whenever you get hard again. Don't worry :3"

Just how badly did I embarrass myself and how do I recover from this

No. 55588

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>>54941
eh, girl's perspective here, honestly not that bad? you're lucky as fuck for having a cute asian gril pose for schoolgirl pics for you though, keep at it boyo. spoil her with dick pics and videos of you edging/cumming and she'll lust even more

No. 55883

>>55588
As an update it was fine in the morning. I woke up and texted her while still in my pajamas and sent her a short video of my just twitching my dick in my underwear and then one of my just playing with it with my pajamas on. She's sent me nudes and videos since then. Yesterday she said she wants to take a break though :/

Hopefully this isnt permanent

No. 55886

>>55883
And ya she really liked those A LOT. Didnt think girls actually cared about dick that much, but according to her she's masturbated to my videos several times

No. 55887

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Anyways, any new years resolutions?
Going to try to lessen my autism and try actually making friends instead of being completely alone for most of 2015. Don't know how I'll go about doing it, but I'll make an effort

No. 55890

Is this thread on autosage? I never see it get bumped up

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No. 55947

>>55890
Same here. I had to look in the catalog to find it.

No. 56138

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I was told to post Flowey here.

No. 56140

>>54917

>complaining about a 6.5 incher


Try having a 13 cm pencil one faggot.

No. 56141

>>55887

Try to beat my severe avoidant personality, depression and attention whoring, get a thicker skin, basically just man the fuck up.

No. 56187

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>>56140
Neither of us are enough for the modern woman lad. We're in the same boat
>>56138
Thanks
>>56141
GANBATTE

No. 56352

Can I get a trip on here?

No. 56727

How do I kill my libido? I'm tired of all the unused boners I get and the need to fap 3 times a day

No. 56763

>>56727
Cut off your dick.

No. 56766

Just came back from laser surgery
Fucking hurts buds
>>56763
I'd rather not take such drastic measures

No. 56943

>>55947
Admins during our last town meeting thought it'd be semi-amusing to put the robot threads on auto-sage.

No. 57309

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>>56943
>disrupting the containment field

Unsure if asking for it.

No. 61838

Robots should only use this thread. Those who post outside of it may be banned, depending on post content and history.

No. 61839

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>tfw no gf

No. 61841

is there a /pol/ containment thread?

No. 61843

>>61841

No because /r9k/ is full of men who hate women but /pol/ is full of men whose political ideals most of us agree with to an extent.

No. 61848

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Why do I have to post here? Fuck these rules nigga fuck these games nigga fuck yo couch nigga fuck yo gay ass bitchy weeabo bullshit nigga this place is complete garbage nigga everything women touch goes to shit nigga look at this fucking place, its a goddamn hellhole only reason anyone comes here is to be a little neurotic piece of dumbass failed troll trash nigga fuckin twig ass anorexic no titty havin BITCHES fuck this place nigga ill be screamin fuck it all the way to hell nigga fuckin faggot.farn nigga u fucking fat chubby love handle havin piece of lard cunts nigga you cant box me in nigga youll never get your 10/10 husbandos they prolly think ur all little faggots tbchwu nigga ILL DIE HISTORIC ON THE FURY ROAD

No. 61850

>>54917
>>56140

You realize if you go too deep you hit the cervix, right? Girls aren't into that. Do yourself a favor and look up the way the female reproductive system works and how ladies' bodies respond when they're having sex. Polls about their preferences. Then look at average sizes for male penises. You will feel vastly better. As an aside, you can use different positions to reach deeper into a girl's body if you're really that worried about it. Look it up. Also toys, etc. Sex isn't like a drag race or something where the biggest dick wins. Also sex has an emotional/play component to it that makes it hot for her. Also, if you're that worried about your dick size, you probably have a really unhealthy relationship with your body. You should stop that.

>>54941

You're fine. She told you she wants to keep the roleplay going. Just stop masturbating before you're getting ready to do stuff so you can enjoy it as much as she is.

>>54929

That's not "the friendzone", also the friend zone as people usually refer to isn't real. For reference, if someone's playing games with you, you cut ties ez pz.

Do you actually talk to these girls? If you like them, be more assertive about your intentions. Ask them out for coffee or something. If they don't like you back, figure out why. Rinse, repeat. Be honest with yourself, are you someone you would want to date? Like take you, give yourself a mental sex reassignment surgery, and be brutal. Judging from your response, you don't even know what you like in a relationship since you haven't been in one yet. I could be mistaken though. Don't be so afraid of fucking up that you actually never do something. Be the man in the arena.

>>54894

In all likelihood, it's just a porn thing. Is everything you see in porn something you'd want to do in bed? Do you never explore other fantasies? It's really not uncommon to get off to things you have no intention of fulfilling in real life. It's just mental stimulation to go along with physical stimulation.

>>54914

I get you're concerned but I can assure you the way porn and sex works is completely different. Anyways, who cares if she's looking at porn you don't like? If that's a dealbreaker for you, fine. But looking at porn is a perfectly healthy adult activity, and girls and guys don't have 100% aligned tastes. What's a fantasy isn't what a person wants in reality. I get that it's counter-intuitive, but you're letting stuff that doesn't matter create insecurities for you. You should probably stop that. You'll feel a lot better.

Before you say I'm a woman that doesn't understand your feelings, I'm a guy that found out about this site too. Haven't used these kinds of boards in a while. I thought /r9k/ was a certain amount of tongue-in-cheek ironic trolling but I guess I thought wrong.

No. 61852

>>61850
>writing all that

Lmao nigga how autistic are you?

No. 61853

>>61852

Roughly as autistic as you are.

No. 61854

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>>61853
Thats pretty bad muthafucka

No. 61857

>>61843
The stereotypical robot is a product of the awful governments, media and social engineering that /pol/ hates. Many robots seem to be aware of that too. I personally refuse to be anti-women or anti-men. It reeks of cult marx division. I think all white people are in it together (unless they're fat).

>>61850
Good post.

No. 61858

>>61850

>Before you say I'm a woman that doesn't understand your feelings, I'm a guy that found out about this site too


Everything you said about women is now invalidated. Women hate little dicks, that's the truth.

No. 61871

>>61850
Now this is cuckposting

No. 61874

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Anyone else just purposefully just turn themselves off when they like a girl? There's a girl I think is qt in one of my classes, but now I just imagine her having a Chad bf and being a bitchy slut even though I've never talked to her

Now I have no interest in her. I guess it helps a bit because it obviously wasn't going to happen anyway, but it still feels kinda bad

No. 61898

>>61874
This is sad.

No. 61899

>>61874
Why did you think about those things? Were you trying to condition yourself to not have a crush on her anymore?

No. 61902

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>>61899

Not him but it'll always be one sided so it's easier to hate her, it's always easier to do stuff like this than to suffer.

No. 61906

>>61902
But he never tried. If he suffers it's by his own hand.

No. 61907


No. 61911

>>61907
Really? But what kind of situations brought you to that point? Because rejection is a natural part of life, so something worse must have happened. And if something worse did happen, having the same reaction to crushing on someone is grossly disproportionate.

No. 61913

>>61902

But Anon, within hatred their is only suffering.

No. 61915

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>>61913

Your are right, not like we want to feel like this, at least I don't want to but it's just easier this way.

>>61911

Yeah, it is. However, most of us gone through some brutal rejections. Me for example got called "virus" and told by girls that I'm a worthless piece of crap that don't even deserve to like someone when one of the girls learned that I liked her in middle school. I didn't even confessed to her, it was just a platonic thing yet they were out to fucking destroy me. I know I should already leave it behind but it destroyed my self esteem and confidence, couldn't recover from it even after all these years. Well enough whining I guess.

No. 61920

>>61915
Why not try therapy?

No. 61921

>>61920

I tried but it doesn't work. I'm trying to get an another recommendation from my therapist cousin lately hoping it'll work this time.

No. 61932

>>56140
>>56187
To be tbh, this is only a big deal if you're out for one night stands or fwb kind of deals. I don't know a single girl who would be interested/in love with a guy and suddenly stop being so because of a small dick. Actually, 13 cm is still pretty average.

Also, small penis = more likely to get anal. The only time in my life I did anal regularly was with a bf who had a 11 cm not-thick cock, and I fucking love anal. Can't do it with current 18 cm thick bf no matter how much he begs for it, that shit hurts too much.

No. 61936

>>61932

Huh, maybe that's why I've never been able to do anal with my bf who's dick is 8.5"…
It's always hurt like fucking shit when we tried and the last time was 5 years ago.

This has shed a lot of new light for me.
How do porn stars handle this shit when the male stars and their monster dicks though? Fucking hell, no wonder they end up with a gape.

No. 61938

>>61921
It's a lot of hard work. I'm currently doing it, have an apt today and don't want to fucking go because I don't feel like talking.

No. 61939

>>61936
They take legit pain meds. They stretch it before the shoot with a plug too.

No. 61941

>>61936
>How do porn stars handle this shit when the male stars and their monster dicks though
>my bf who's dick is 8.5"…

Your bf has one, man hearing about shit like this makes me feel bad. Feel so fucking inferior.


>>61932

How was the normal sex? I'm seriously legit terrified of getting intimate with girls because I'm so fucking insecure about my size down there.

No. 61945

>>61843
>but /pol/ is full of men whose political ideals most of us agree with to an extent.
lol, speak for yourself

No. 61947

>>61857
>The stereotypical robot is a product of the awful governments, media and social engineering that /pol/ hates. Many robots seem to be aware of that too. I personally refuse to be anti-women or anti-men.

You're a cool guy anon.

That's exactly what it is. Jewish guys with mommy issues continuously writing sitcoms and movies about how men and women are "naturally" at each other's throats all the time. It's pure bullshit. Men and women aren't antagonistic forces. The men and women of a race are meant to work together, complementary halves of a given whole.

No. 61948

>>61941
Not everyone likes long dick, but nobody likes middle dick. I like girth but I'm too much of a little bitch to take it balls deep or all.

No. 61949

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>>61948

Well mine is pretty much a needle so… yeah.

No. 61953

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>>61948

>but nobody likes middle dick.


Eh?

No. 61960

>>61947
>women aren't the real problem, it's those jews who are the problem

No. 61963

>>61960
Well… yeah.

Second and Third Wave feminism literally wouldn't exist without Jews, and that's a fact.

No. 61966

>>61953
I meant noddle

No. 61967

>>61949
Ok, well here's the thing, I had a bf who had a noddle but he also had ED and would not work on his oral. All I had was his hand and even I could jack my own better

No. 61969

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>>61967

Well my boners are bretty strong but it's still a noodle one. Would be happier with a bit more girth.

No. 61971

>>61941
Pretty normal, actually. In my experience there isn't much of a difference between 13-16 cm, it feels the same, the only difference was how the guy felt about his dick. Above that it starts to hit the cervix (which I personally like but haven't met any other girl who did).
I'm sure you've heard this before but if you're really insecure get good at oral, fingers, touching the breasts, moving etc. Bf I mentioned was great at fucking even though he was "small", he'd do that thing where the guy grabs the ass and kind of pulls it in his direction…? Not sure how to describe it.

>>61936
Yeah, smaller hurts a hell of a lot less. I still want to do it with current bf so I'm hoping the whole butt plug stretching out and getting used to bigger things will help.

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>>61971

>git gud


Well have to find someone to like my disgusting self first for that : 3

No. 61984

>>61941

>your bf has one, man hearing about shit like this makes me feel bad. Feel so fucking inferior


Yes but I also want my boyfriend's dick to be smaller and sometimes find that engaging in actual coital relations difficult and painful due to his mutant genitalia slamming repeatedly into my cervix.

Tell me again why you feel inferior.

No. 61988

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>>61984

>Tell me again why you feel inferior.


Brainwashed by memes and porn, have to drop these shit off. Also due to fact that I have a baby penor

No. 61995

>>61915
Ya, but it seems kind of extreme to preemptively create a narrative about a girl you have a crush on so you will destroy your feelings before you get hurt. Because if you're like the guy who imagines his crush with ~Chad just to kill his feelings for her, then you're a stone's throw from thinking like those insane trip guys.

No. 61996


No. 61998

>>61921
I hope things work out for you, anon. You deserve happiness.

No. 62001

>>61988
Then stay away from these shitty things that are making you feel like shit until you can work on your self confidence.

No. 62002

>>61975
What is disgusting about you? I get that you may have low self esteem, but not every female is as critical as you are. You are your worst critic. Even I have dated some guys that are ugly, have bad teeth and skin, have ED, but at least they are fun to be around.

No. 62003

>>61995

N'ah, I don't "hate" anyone, I'm too much of a softie to hold a grudge. I just meant it as a defense mechanism, it's easier to trick yourself to distance from something rather than suffering and embarrassment.

>>61998

Thank you, though I feel like it's too late(I'm 25). I really want to get my shit together this year.

No. 62006

>>62003
It isn't too late. You have your whole life ahead of you. You can't chance what has already happened, but you can choose what you do with your future.

No. 62008

>>62001

I cut down the porn at least but I have no idea how to build it up.

>>62002

Well too many to count, I just act like a normal guy when I'm with friends and they really love me but I'm a massive spaghetti dropper with girls but I guess I'm fun to be around. I only vent like this on internet.

No. 62015

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>>62006

Well that's what I'm trying to do but being a 14 year old boy trapped in a grown man's body is hard. Being a manchild is suffering.

No. 62041

>>61988
But those things aren't real life and they aren't helping you

No. 62052

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>>62041

I know but not having any real life experience makes your mind susceptible to internet horror stories and memes. I would probably get better after getting some experience but that ain't happening in near future.

No. 62060

>>62003
Too late? I just started therapy and went back to school at 28. It's never too late anon.

No. 62063

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>>62060

Thank you all for your encouragements, I'm going to sleep now. Have a good one!

No. 62079

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>>54795
Pic related is data from the same dating website.

hmmm

No. 62086

>>54924
>I haven't gone to /r9k/ for a good year now
Mind telling us exactly what brought you here?

No. 62087

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No. 62093

>>61915
>Yeah, it is. However, most of us gone through some brutal rejections. Me for example got called "virus" and told by girls that I'm a worthless piece of crap that don't even deserve to like someone when one of the girls learned that I liked her in middle school. I didn't even confessed to her, it was just a platonic thing yet they were out to fucking destroy me. I know I should already leave it behind but it destroyed my self esteem and confidence, couldn't recover from it even after all these years. Well enough whining I guess.

Dude, sorry you had that experience. It's middle school, everyone is brutal. As a rejectee and rejector, I now see with experience that a large part of what drives a brutal rejection is one's own insecurities (in the rejector, I mean).

Get therapy, it will help, hopefully. Whatever you do, don't fall for the TRP bullshit. The only useful advice they give is to work on your fitness and grooming and to talk to as many people as you can to build confidence. But you can get that advice/support elsewhere, in far less poisonous places.

No. 62094

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No. 62099

>>61947
Thanks. Note they also try to divide young against old, adults against children, different social classes, political views, etc.

>>61960
>women aren't the real problem, it's those jews who are the problem
Yes, exactly.

No. 62108

>>61843
>No because /r9k/ is full of men who hate women

We don't hate women.
We just hate individual women most of the time.

We're robots because we love women.

No. 62112

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is it bad i want to date a robot? i want the stupid stocking love story or some shit, it seems cute. i must be insane.

No. 62114

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>>62112
Date me.

No. 62116

>>62114
i mean, i'd be open to it. i'd want to atleast talk to the person first and stuff.

No. 62117

>>62116
Where do you live?

No. 62119

>>62112
yes, it's bad. find a lonely awkward boy if you want, but stay away from robots. they're far worse.

No. 62120

>>62119
i know robots get a bad rap but it'd be nice just to turn someone's feelings around, or something.

>>62117
USA east coast.

No. 62122

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>>62120
It wasn't meant to be. I live in New Zealand. I'm sure someone here will live near you though.
>>62119
You're a bully. Robots are mostly good people.

No. 62124

>>62122
some of them yeah, but definitely not most of them

No. 62125

>>62124
Robot posting on /r9k/ is a curious combination of venting and memes. There are very few robots who would turn down a roastie girl they cared about. From the outside looking in it must look pretty bad, but being on the inside, most people seem like good people and the ones that aren't are either wannabe Chads or legit autists.

No. 62136

>>62125
>There are very few robots who would turn down a roastie girl they cared about.
of course they would. but that's no different from a racist who gets a black girlfriend and says "you're not like the others, you're one of the good ones, you're not black to me". it's still a stupid, irrational, and bitter attitude, and is indicative of their overall personality traits and probably one or more personality disorders. as the relationship develops, their self-entitled and self-victimizing beliefs will become more and more apparent.

the ones who are genuinely just lonely social retards and nothing more can be perfectly fine, but you can find those on practically every other 4chan board. they're a minority on /r9k/, probably 15% or less. most of the ones who are drawn to r9k have at least some resentment towards women in general.

No. 62144

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Robots are like asian guys, they are cute if you dress them as a girl.

No. 62145

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>>62136
Dunno what else to say, other than that I think you've pegged us mostly wrong. Maybe you should try meeting and talking to some robots. Though I suspect your reaction will be something like
>"you're not like the others, you're one of the good ones, you're not a robot to me"

No. 62147

>>61899
>Were you trying to condition yourself to not have a crush on her anymore?
Yes that's exactly what I do. I've been doing this since high school and it works well

No. 62148

>>62144
I really wouldn't

No. 62149

>>62145
i've met several cool robots and several awful ones

lots of them genuinely idolize or at least respect elliot rodger. lots of them think there is something inherently wrong with all or nearly all women. i have no issue with the ones who don't think those things, but it's kind of a guilty until proven innocent thing.

No. 62152

>>61932
>this is only a big deal if you're out for one night stands or fwb kind of deals.
So basically women will be getting those monster dongs on the side in a relationship if you don't have one?
That's what I'm taking away from this

No. 62154

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>>62149
The only person I hate is myself
I wouldn't date or want to be friends with me either

No. 62155

File: 1453522197546.png (88.03 KB, 621x700, 1395551085468.png)

>robots aren't that bad guys srsly

No. 62157

>>62112
Ugh, I hate to agree. But I might. I'm not dating a Chad, but he may as well be the opposite of a robot.
Idk, think I just want to dominate one.

No. 62161

>>62157

Does anyone wonder why the female equivalent of robots (i.e. you guys) have no trouble getting partners? attractive partners?

No. 62162

>>62125
>good people
Didn't school shooters post on /r9k/?

No. 62163

>>62152
I wouldn't, I find it gross and pathetic. When someone cares about you, your dick is only a fraction of you. When you just want a thrill, you want the most. When you make duh love, it doesn't matter. When you're doing some animalistic one night stand fuck, it might

No. 62165

>>62162
Didn't school shooters post on /r9k/?

Never proven.

No. 62167

>>62161
We are not female equivalents of robots, that's why.

No. 62168

>>62161
We all know the answer to this. Best not to even bring it up
Just a fact of life, and bitching about it on the internet isn't going to change anything

No. 62169

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>>62166
>Just a fact of life, and bitching about it on the internet isn't going to change anything

Nothing changes anything about being a robot. It's not something that gets fixed. A woman cannot possibly understand what it's like to be a robot. By virtue of being female, you go outside and get given attention and people will defer to you for no other reason. You have no idea how much of a challenge it is to be male. Just try to imagine that you are that chubby, short guy you turned down in high school.

No. 62170

>>62167
Even the female equivalents of robots have a much easier time. I have an online friend who is a girl, and she made a dating profile once and a day later she had over 100 messages. She's also over 200lbs. I'm not overweight, but I'm far from attractive and I have never gotten a message on a dating site

No. 62172

>>62169
I'm a guy too just an fyi

I'm just saying this has been discussed a lot in previous threads and it's just a fact of life. Nothing is going to change it

No. 62173

>>62172
>I'm a guy too just an fyi

Post dick or gtfo.

No. 62174

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>>62173
Arm will have to do

I feel you, but I'm just stating it's been discussed many times and there's no point in bringing it up because people here get butthurt at the implications it brings, or they just accept it and there's no discussion to be had

No. 62175

>>62170
that's true, but that doesn't mean it can't be very hard for a female robot to find an actually good partner

if it's just a matter of looking for some random person to fuck, anyone, then yeah it's much easier for a socially retarded girl than for a socially retarded guy. but for a lot of people, including even male robots, that's not really satisfying for them.

No. 62176

>>62175
True enough. I almost prefer being a guy on dating sites at least, because if I get a message in means she would probably be at least somewhat interested whereas as a woman you're just spammed with dozens of messages from guys who want to fuck

No. 62177

>>62175
>but that doesn't mean it can't be very hard for a female robot to find an actually good partner
The only way a girl can not get a long-term partner is if they hole up in their room all day and have ignobly high standards.
>but for a lot of people, including even male robots, that's not really satisfying for them.
It's a lot preferable to actual loneliness.
>>62176
>because if I get a message in means she would probably be at least somewhat interested
That's the point. You wouldn't get one, unless you're chad.

No. 62178

>>62177
>That's the point. You wouldn't get one, unless you're chad.
Seems true enough in my case. I've made several accounts over the years and have never gotten a message except from some tranny in Thailand on Interpals once

No. 62181

>>62177
Seems no one is going to respond
How old are you?
I'm 21 y/o khv. Still time for me, but I've pretty much given up actively trying. If it happens it happens is my philosophy now

No. 62182

>>62177
>The only way a girl can not get a long-term partner is if they hole up in their room all day and have ignobly high standards.

sure, but i meant a good partner with a good personality who likes them for who they are. that can still be very difficult for some reclusive females, especially if they're not attractive. sure they can find someone to fuck them or date them if they're desperate and will take just anyone, but that's not fulfilling or beneficial.

and i don't mean they should have the right to hold out for a super hot guy when they're unattractive, but just finding someone sane and with a good personality who also likes them for their personality.

>It's a lot preferable to actual loneliness.

finding random strangers to fuck you usually isn't a cure to loneliness for the sort of people who spend all their time on the internet. it might be for some of them.

a rich male robot probably wouldn't consider hiring a prostitute once a week a solution to their loneliness, in terms of both quantity and quality of the "relationship".

No. 62185

>>61874
I think a lot of guys do this. I imagined this girl I liked at work being a complete party slut and just kept repeating it until it was true in my mind

No. 62186

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>>62181
I'm 21 also, 22 in a month. Not a kissless virgin, I stumbled upon a girlfriend in highschool by luck, so I guess I'm not really a robot. We were together for a year and a half and were each other's firsts but I broke up with her for a lot of small, stupid reasons like teenagers do and now I have nothing left but regrets. In all honesty we probably weren't well matched for each other and didn't have much in common.

Meanwhile she's been through several long term relationships since and seems to lead a satsifying life. I miss her a lot but I'm not selfish or egotistical enough to try and ruin that for her by forcing her to confront the past. She probably never thinks of me anymore.

>>62182
>sure, but i meant a good partner with a good personality who likes them for who they are.
That's difficult for any person, but it's much easier for a girl than it is for a guy.

>finding random strangers to fuck you usually isn't a cure to loneliness

It's not a cure or a solution, but it mitigates loneliness. That kind of situation doesn't compare to actual, true loneliness that robots experience.

No. 62188

>>62186
>That's difficult for any person, but it's much easier for a girl than it is for a guy.
depends. it might be easier for a not very attractive girl, but probably harder for an attractive girl, in the same way it'd be tough for a really rich guy to find someone he's sure likes him for him.

>It's not a cure or a solution, but it mitigates loneliness. That kind of situation doesn't compare to actual, true loneliness that robots experience.

that's true, though keep in mind some women really are hideous or obese and/or have horrible mental problems that make it so they can't even find a stranger to fuck them no matter how much they try

i can agree that, in general, female shut-in autists do have much easier ways of temporarily mitigating loneliess than male shut-in autists, so their situations can't always be directly compared. it's just a fact of biology. men and women have different "privileges" (as awful as that word is) and different disadvantages in different aspects of life.

No. 62189

>>62187
>that's true, though keep in mind some women really are hideous or obese and/or have horrible mental problems that make it so they can't even find a stranger to fuck them no matter how much they try
Doubt.jpg

No. 62190

>>62189
if they're too anxious to talk to anyone or leave their house, how are they going to get someone to fuck them?

No. 62191

>>62189
They exist, but they're mostly old, fat ladies who wasted their youth.

Pretty much what all the girls on this site will be in 20 years.

No young girl exists in that position though.

No. 62193

>>62190
Women don't become hikkikomori like men do for any reason other than choice solely because of the social support structures that exist for females exclusively.

No. 62194

>>62190
>if they're too anxious to talk to anyone or leave their house, how are they going to get someone to fuck them?
That's their own fault then. Robots can't control if they're chad or not

A girl could lay in the street with her legs open and get some. You were making semi-valid points earlier about having an actual relationship, but come on.

No. 62195

>>62193
i don't think that's true at all. if their family's ostracized them and they have no friends, where are their social support structures?

No. 62197

>>62194
i understand that, but some people are incapable of any kind of social interaction. obviously a woman who is actually capable of social interaction will be able to find someone to fuck them if they post something on craigslist or whatever, no matter their other circumstances, but there are some seriously autistic women out there, and on imageboards.

and how is it their fault that they have crippling anxiety? mental illness usually isn't the person's fault.

No. 62198

>>62195
> where are their social support structures?

They can find friends easily because they're girls. They can find some beta manlet engineering major to pay for them because they're girls. They can go to women's refuge and get a free counselor because they're girls. These are the social structures I'm talking about.

They're never in a position to develop deep rooted anxiety or any intense mental illness of that kind solely because they aren't men.

No. 62199

>>62197
>and how is it their fault that they have crippling anxiety? mental illness usually isn't the person's fault.
I'm diagnosed with a few things, but I think any mental illnesses short of retardation and schizophrenia are memes tbh.

This includes bipolar, depression, etc.

No. 62200

>>62198
>They can find friends easily because they're girls.
i don't think that's really true. girls in school or whatever tend to not want to befriend the weird girl, just as it often is with guys.

>They can find some beta manlet engineering major to pay for them because they're girls.

only if they're attractive

>They can go to women's refuge and get a free counselor because they're girls.

i think those are usually for women who've been abused. but if you're just talking about free counseling… men can get that too. anyone can call a free suicide or therapy hotline right now, and there are plenty of free therapy centers in many communities.

again, i do agree female "robots" will have an easier time than male "robots" unless they're especially ugly or extremely obese, but i don't really buy that social structure thing

No. 62201

>>62200
>i don't think that's really true. girls in school or whatever tend to not want to befriend the weird girl

Then she should befriend the weird guy.

>only if they're attractive

Ahahaha no. A beta engineering major would take any girl who gives him the time of day. I know because I am one.

>but i don't really buy that social structure thing

You don't buy that women have social advantages in society that men don't have? The difference is simple. Men need to work to achieve something, whereas women receive by virtue of being women.

No. 62203

>>62200
>>They can find some beta manlet engineering major to pay for them because they're girls.
>only if they're attractive
I mean it certainly helps, but any woman can get a beta guy to give them free shit. Hell, I used to pretend to be a girl on video game forums without a profile pic or anything, and people would buy me games just because I asked. Same with twitch streamers that are women. Rich arabs gift western woman hundreds of dollars for no reason and expect no return

Also you're fooling yourself if you think there's an equal number of resources and support systems for men and women. It's definitely skewed towards women

No. 62209

>>61838
>"Depending on post content and history"

Explain further. Is browsing a board other than this really bannable, or do you only ban if a poster is breaking the rules?

No. 62217

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Why stick with girls? Boipussy is much better. Any of you white bois want a thick hard dick?

No. 62218

>>62217
I'm not a gay.

No. 62219

>>62218
You don't have to be gay (attracted to guys) to suck a nice fat cock. Should try it out sometime. ^.^

No. 62220

>>62219
No, I'm not a gay.

No. 62222

File: 1453529580583.jpg (Spoiler Image, 8.82 KB, 150x200, 99088765_aad068.jpg)

>>62220
Which one would you fuck, this or ..

No. 62223

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>>62222
This.

No. 62228

>>62222
>>62223
Both of these are exceptionally repulsive to me but the bottom one is more repulsive than the top.

No. 62231

>>62228
You're seriously gay

No. 62232

>>62231
Fucking fujoshi. Let me fuck you.

No. 62233

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>>62232
I'm a 23 yo 6ft hispanic male….
I should be the one fucking you, and make you call me papi.

No. 62234

>>62233
Gross.

No. 62235

>>62234
I'm just kidding, I'm actually a 15 year old asian girl. :3

No. 62236

>>62235
Call me again in 2 years then.

No. 62237

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>>62233
post pics fgt

No. 62241

>>62237
I only post for my bitchbois

No. 62263

File: 1453536550224.jpg (48.69 KB, 500x333, 1453318714914.jpg)

Can we stop the shitposting and shitty erping?

How the fuck do I meet people? I'm in uni and have absolutely zero friends. Everyone seems to just silently sit in class and then go home

It doesn't help that I'm in the "international" floor which basically means it's only Chinese and Indian guys who never leave their rooms

I'm heading to anime Club tomorrow to see if I have any luck. I tried talking to a few people the last few times I went, but it was super awkeard and I ended up sitting by myself

I don't expect to jump straight to gf because I can't even into eye contact at this point because I'm self concious to an extreme extent about myself. I could just use some sort of social interaction and maybe eventually meet a nice girl

No. 62264

>>62263
>baw i want a friend

Tough luck, I haven't had a real friend in 9 years and I couldn't care less, toughen up. Are you a man or a whiny little bitch?

Anime clubs are always filled with asians fyi. You can be my sissy if you want, I won't force you to suck ky cock.

No. 62267

>>62263
Join a boardgame or tabletop roleplaying club.
>>62264
>Anime clubs are always filled with asians fyi.

This depresses the shit out of me. Asian weebs are terrible people.

No. 62268

>>62163

Still you won't get to make her feel a primal exciment she gets from monster dongs. It'll be mediocre for her and I'm guessing she will sub consciously want them instead of you.

No. 62270

>>62264
Epic post my friend
>>62267
>Join a boardgame or tabletop roleplaying club
Might try this again actually. I went once, but ended up being along again after trying to join a few games and just played solitaire. I'll try to make it different

No. 62277

>>62263
Tinder is basically a fuckfest on a college campus, even if you're a robot

if band nerds can get laid so can you.

girlfriend? eh, longer shot.

No. 62279

>>62277
>Tinder is basically a fuckfest on a college campus, even if you're a robot

This isn't true. Robots are never successful with tinder. This poster is a Chad or a woman. Don't do that to yourself, anon.

No. 62280

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>>62277

>even for a robot

No. 62287

oh god this thread again
>lmao I was able to get a bf easy so it should be easy to get a gf lol just b urself

No. 62290

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>>62287
oh fugg, you starting some battle of the sexes shit?

No. 62291

>>62290

She's cute and a good girl. I would marry her.

No. 62292

>>62290
I don't know what's worse - not having a prom date because you're a tendie shovelling deformed autist, or getting a pity date while being all of the aforementioned.

No. 62303

I hate being so miserable and lonely all the time.

No. 62310

>>62303

Seems like you need to be yourself fampai

No. 62321

>>62292
I still think it's sweet she was nice to him.

No. 62329

>>62015
I know. But you already have a better attitude than other robots that I've talked to, so I have hope for you

No. 62331

>>62108
Idk man, it sounds like you guys hate women

No. 62332

>>62292
I don't know what's worse
getting a pity date that looks like lena dunham

No. 62333

>>62147
Why? Does it make you happy to do that? Why create the fantasy of your crush being with ~Chad specifically? Why not just not think of her at all? Like, if you start to think of your crush, why not think of smashing a pumpkin with a hammer, or a waterfall? Why does the mental image of your crush with the mythical Chad make you start to hate her?

No. 62334

>>62169
Didn't the author of those comics delete his website out of embarrassment?

No. 62336

>>62198
>cannot confirm: am female and diagnosed with GAD

No. 62341

File: 1453552316956.jpg (13.64 KB, 322x395, 12208383_720077574794008_20613…)

>hahahaha it's okay honey your tiny needle dick is just the fit for me

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/4286xj/my28m_girlfriend27f_said_the_hottest_sex_she_has/

No. 62342

>>62341
>b-but I heard on reddit that women only love monster dongs

No. 62344

>>62120
new england?

No. 62345

>>62120

Robots aren't born, they are made. Most of us would come out alright with a little bit of positive attention. No one becomes a world hating, shut in retard in a day.

No. 62346

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>>62093
>>62329

Well just came back from a private session with one of my cousins friends. I called her last night and asked her to arrange something for me after talking with you guys yesterday. Looks like I have avoidant personality disorder and severe depression(duh), he recommended me a psych friend of his to make sure and get medicated and get CBT from him. Hope this stuff will work this time.

No. 62347

>>62346
I am so happy to hear that you are getting some help!

Have an open mind during CBT. I've done it, and I found it to be very helpful.

No. 62349

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>>62347

We talked for a short time in a cafe since it was his day off, he only came because he's good friends with my cousin. I'm reading some stuff on CBT, how was your experience? What does it consists of?

No. 62351

File: 1453559489979.jpg (2.89 KB, 125x112, r4vt1zN.jpg)

why do you come here and post? why can't you at least only lurk? aren't you aware how fucking thirsty this makes you look?

>btw I'm a boianon :^)


fuck off

No. 62352

>>62349
Well, the experience will be different for everyone, but CBT was part of my therapy for dealing with my anxiety and depression. I had one amazing therapist who would basically just talk to me, and ask me about the things that were causing my anxiety, how I express my anxiety, and why my thoughts were jumping from A-Z, interspersed with conversations about myself and my life. Just day-to-day, normal conversation stuff, where she would almost pull at a thread of my anxiety, and help me unravel it.

It was like by talking about how my anxiety/depression happens, she could guide me to the "why" of my behavior. Then we would unpack that baggage. She would teach me techniques to anticipate when my anxiety would hit, and help me to preemptively calm myself down before I reaches full panic mode. After a while, I was able to kind of talk myself off the ledge, when I started applying what I learned in therapy IRL. The confidence I found in reducing my anxiety day by day actually improved my mood . After a while, I felt less depressed. I started having less frequent appointments with my shrink until I was confident that I didn't need her advice anymore.

This was done while I was put on an SSRI, which I also found to be very helpful.

No. 62353

>>62352
For example, whenever I'd be talking about an anxiety attack, and I'd be all "I just couldn't control it! I was suddenly hit with this wave of anxiety, my heart was pounding, etc etc" she would stop me and be like "so you can actually feel the stress building up inside you? You can feel the wave of anxiety building, right? Well what if as you felt that build-up you told yourself 'stop! You know your thoughts are running out of control. Does any of this really make sense? Or are you getting caught up, and your anxious thoughts are snowballing?'" And honest to god I was like "well…damn." Because when I get really anxious there is totally a part of me that is like "you know what you're thinking is completely insane, right? This doesn't make sense!" But I guess I never really listened to it. So, I started to hold onto that thought, and after a while I realized I really could anticipate my anxiety in certain situations.

No. 62357

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>>62352

I see, I used Prozac and Xanax before so guess gonna hop on Prozac again or something. What I need is to accept my physical flaws(ugly, short, balding etc.), and move on but I'm guessing it's gonna be hard. I can somehow act normal at work and school but I always think I'm seeing some kind of disgust in peoples eyes when they looks me. Like I'm some kind of disgusting piece of shit. I know I'm probably imagining it and I'm not ugly as I think so but still, you know. I just can't stop it and it makes me distance myself from other people since I feel inadequate and shit.

>>62353

I know that feel too, I've been getting panic attacks since I was 17 and was on and off Prozac and Xanax. I didn't had one in three months but you can never be sure. My mom also had them for almost two decades and she really helped me to get them under control. Anyways, hope this works I really want to leave all this bullshit behind and finally live my life already. I wasted enough fucking time for almost a decade.

No. 62359

>>62357

Not other poster, but good for you. Dealing with anxiety is hard. Just keep at it. Don't give up even if you stumble.

No. 62363

>>62357
sell the xanax and make bank
money will make you feel better

No. 62366

>>62357
become a trap

No. 62367

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>>62359

Thank you.

>>62363

I still have two boxes but I'm quite sheltered and have no idea how to do that.

>>62366

That would be a bit hard with my bear like body.

No. 62408

>>62277
>Tinder is basically a fuckfest on a college campus, even if you're a robot
Not if you're unattractive in an app that centers entirely around attractiveness

No. 62411

>>62346
This is great! It will work if you work at it.

No. 62414

File: 1453576991719.jpg (477.28 KB, 1317x1756, 1453331048145.jpg)

>tfw arab

No. 62415

>>62357
There's a history of mental illness in my family, too. Once I got myself chemically under control, it was easier to follow through with therapy.

I'm proud of you anon. I'm going to go in a limb and say you aren't as gross as you think you are. I think you just have a poor self-image, and it ties into your anxiety. My anxiety is more external, I can get worked up by situations. My biggest "illogical" anxiety is going to the doctor. Just being in the waiting room sets me off. I get so anxious, I have cried while describing an ear ache. The fear I focused on was the doctor, but what was overwhelming me was the fear of uncertainty. I literally feel unsafe going to the doctor. Once my therapist helped me figured that out, we worked on why that was bothering me, specifically.

I'm sure you will have a similar revelation with your feelings of inadequacy. There's a root to that. Let your therapist guide you to it.

No. 62419

>>62161
Hmmmm I have an Asian fetish so by virtue of desiring the most undesirable, I can pull them. I wouldn't call myself the female equivalent of a robot. I'm attractive but BPD, some men just want to fix me.

No. 62420

File: 1453577464961.jpg (45.5 KB, 600x600, 383[1].jpg)

stocking anon again. where would i go about finding one of you, in real life or online in my area?

No. 62424

>>62414
Hahahaha I am glad I pass for European ewwww I hate Arab paki nigger men and darkish looking people inshallah ill get a nordic boyfriend :))))
I especially hate arab geeks like you too tfoo

No. 62427

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>>62420

Y-you can talk to me if you want to, I'm pretty disgusting.

[thirst intensifies]

No. 62428

>robot containment thread
You mean the beta containment thread for betas.

Stay here beta females and beta males, I dont want to read your edgy anti-woman shitposts just so you can be one of the beta guys. Fuck off plz. Even Asian tits are bigger than your balls.

No. 62429

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>>62427
it's not necessarily disgusting that i want, something else though.

honestly i'll talk to anyone here who'd like to.

No. 62430

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>>62429

What do you want? I think I misunderstood something here.

No. 62432

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>>62430
it's confusing to explain, i guess. someone unwanted really.

No. 62433

>>62432

I see, I'm pretty unwanted but I feel like I'm not what you're looking for.

No. 62435

>>62432
I can explain it: you're an attention whore.

No. 62436

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>>62433
i guess i just wanted to point out that disgusting is something i'm indifferent to.

like i said, i'll chat if you want.

>>62435
i do understand the general consensus, but i'm being sincere.

No. 62439

>>62436

Well if you wanna talk here is my e-mail

No. 62463

Is this /soc/ now?

No. 62464

>>62463
Yes. r9k has always been /soc/ but with more memes and failed normies

No. 62505

https://boards.4chan.org/r9k/thread/25960582

Jesus christ. Girls would rather date abusive Chad than date a robot.

I just want a girl to have a crush on me. Even if I didn't like her back, it'd be nice to know someone cared about me like that.

No. 62509

>>62505
There's probably been at least one girl who has liked you at one point

No. 62510

File: 1453598914284.jpg (23.96 KB, 400x446, 1359900925732.jpg)

>>62509
I'm not naive enough to believe that.

No. 62514

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>>62509

[severe doubt]

No. 62515

>>62514
That VN was good.

No. 62516

>>62510
>>62514
Women are constantly desired, so it's completely unfathomable to them to understand a man's experience where he has never been desired.

No. 62517

>>62515

Been a long time since I finished it, I just remember art being awful. Rants of glasses guy was good tho.

No. 62564

>banned from /r9k/ for another two days

CAN'T WAKE UP

No. 62565

File: 1453623184287.jpg (25.3 KB, 400x462, Disdain for Plebs.jpg)

>>62564
>static IP

No. 62657

File: 1453665696948.png (218.29 KB, 460x386, Aiko_21223.PNG)

Had a really vivid dream about an ex-girlfriend.

Haven't I suffered enough?

No. 62669

>>62657
I keep having dreams about my high school boyfriend.
It sucks because in the dream he's good at sex and has a better personality, whereas IRL hes a bigoted man child

No. 62672

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>>62657

Suffering never ends, I keep seeing dreams about having a gf and really vivid ones and then I wake up to my cold, empty, shitty apartment and struggle to get back in to reality.

No. 62675

>>62669
Oh shit, maybe you're having dreams about me too!

No. 62679

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No. 62681

>>62679
boohoo 4 u

No. 62684

>>62681
I'm glad you understand ;-;

No. 62710

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>>62672
I wake up to my shitty boyfriend and a general crushing sense of guilt and regret.
>>62675
I highly doubt it, although that would be ironic.

Btw, Dark Souls thread? April 12 isn't far.

No. 62726

>>62710
Must be so hard, having sexual and romantic relationships as a given due to being born with a vagina.

No. 62727

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>>62710

Meh, probably not gonna be able to play it. I could run DS2 by a miracle but don't think my toaster is gonna survive until April it's already breaking down slowly. Don't have any money to get a new laptop or build a PC. Thank you shitty exchange rate.

No. 62729

>>62726
dude, troll harder.

No. 62731

>>62729
You're right, I'll stop trolling now. I feel so sorry for your situation with your "shitty" boyfriend.

No. 62735

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>>62710
>I highly doubt it, although that would be ironic.

Nah, my ex is basic and doesn't play video games.

You should dump your loser bf and get with me though.

No. 62736

>>62731
I couldn't care less how you feel and you know nothing of the "situation".

Come back when your balls have dropped and you've finished school

No. 62738

>>62735
I'm actually pretty basic with the gaming…

Are you PC master race?

No. 62739

https://www.reddit.com/r/ForeverAloneWomen/comments/42h7zq/forever_alone_and_feeling_like_hell/

>but I've never been on a date, never been kissed, never held hands with a guy, and I've only been asked out once by someone who made me feel really creeped out.


Lol.

No. 62740

>>62736
I know enough, you have to wake up to a member of the opposite sex every morning, you poor thing.

No. 62741

File: 1453677491985.jpg (71.68 KB, 756x686, 1424666274009.jpg)

>>62738
>Are you PC master race?

Yes. I do own consoles though for weeb rpgs.

No. 62743

>>62739
>I'm not very physically attractive so i cant just "get under someone to get over someone" like the advice columns all say to do.

Lower your standards then??

No. 62746

>>62743
Every woman, no matter how ugly, no matter how fat, no matter how repulsive, deserves her own Prince Cha(d)rming.

No. 62749

>>62741
What are you playing at the moment? I only really mess around with gaming, but I love to watch people play.
Also, any love for DnD?

No. 62750

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>>62739

>I've only been asked out once by someone who made me feel really creeped out.


this is why I've never asked a girl out. any time I try to muster up the will to do so I run into a comment like this somewhere and go back to zero.

I don't want reassurance that I'm that creepy guy, I'd rather just be alone than deal with that.

No. 62751

>>62749
>What are you playing at the moment?
Nothing really. I just got done with Kotor and Kotor 2 and now I'm looking for something else to play. I've been trying Dota 2 out but I don't think it's for me.
>Also, any love for DnD?
Always wanted to try it, never have.

No. 62752

>>62750
There's probably other reasons she was creeped out.

Do you constantly hang around girls you like and make odd comments? Do you stalk her in any way? Are you generally hygienic and not deformed in anyway?

No. 62753

>>62752
90% of the time, "Creep" means "Unattractive or socially awkward male". It's funny you assume he must've done something bad to earn the title, especially when people confident enough to do terrible things like that are usually attractive and preferred by women.

No. 62755

>>62751
Yeah Dota is the type of game I don't like.
Its a shame its so hard to get a good group going for Dnd. Its awesome when everyone is getting into it.

>>62753
Who am I assuming must have done something bad? I said in my post that males who are "hygienic and not deformed" as well as socially skilled are preferred by females. What argument are you even trying to make here?

Also you write like a downer

No. 62756

>>62752


I have aspergers and had a generally pretty terrible childhood so I just tend to assume that people find me "creepy" and avoid people in general.

as for your questions: I don't stalk people, I am generally hygienic and not deformed. I have a tendency to hang around and say shit to people that I trust/consider a friend but not with strangers.

No. 62757

>>62755
>Its a shame its so hard to get a good group going for Dnd. Its awesome when everyone is getting into it.
Only reason I played it is because some IRL friends who I don't see much anymore due to living some ~600 kms away from each other wanted me to play with them.

I think I prefer games that don't make me want to put a brick through my monitor.

No. 62761

>>62756
What reactions have you had from asking girls out in the past, if any?
Its common for people to have a feeling of inadequacy about themselves, your self esteem is probably pretty low all round, which really doesn't help when presenting yourself to a potential mate.

Go find an aspie gal, they exist

>>62757
My ex made me play super meat boy once, god I could have killed him it was so frustrating. He would sit there watching me struggle and then eventually show mercy and do the level for me.

No. 62763

https://boards.4chan.org/r9k/thread/25987065

>>62736
Do you seriously think your situation compares to his?

No. 62766

File: 1453679604857.jpg (19.68 KB, 377x266, cat-grin.jpg)

>>62763
>assuming that i care about the feelings robots

No. 62768

>>62766
holy fuck im hungover, im the retard this time.

but seriously, come back when your balls drop

No. 62770

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>>62763
You're all faggots.

No. 62771

>>62766
>>62768
Does he hurt you? I hope he does.

No. 62772

>mfw no one in this thread is actually a girl
Lel

No. 62773

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No. 62782

>>62771
How cruel, how could you wish such unspeakable acts upon another being. You truly have shocked me, my womanhood cowers in fear of your 21st chromosome.

Hows virginity treating you? Sounding desperate for some female attention there

No. 62786

>>62773
yeah come back when men are slicing up their faces and genitals to appeal to the opposite sex

No. 62823

>>62786
What are you getting at?

No. 62838

>>62773

>poor children living in poverty are starving in the 3rd world and suffering through deadly diseases, unable to receive adequate health care, shelter or education


>Men complaining about women posting random shit on the internet


Two can play at this game

No. 62865

>>62761

I've known a few aspie girls, they didn't like me and didn't really give me any strong reasons as to why.

No. 62902

>>62786
>yeah come back when men are slicing up their faces and genitals to appeal to the opposite sex
You mean how American girls won't date uncircumcised guys?

No. 62929

>>62782
Arguments with holes: The Post

No. 62939

>>62865
Based on your answers, you aren't doing anything creepy. Just brush up on your social skills (NOT with trp or pua shit for the love of god) and focus on yourself. Work on your strengths and hobbies. Gain confidence in yourself. You shouldn't assume that people will think you're a creep. Have more faith in yourself.

No. 62942


No. 62943

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>>62929
It never fails.
>>62939
>Just be yourself
Wow you women really do live in a fantasy land.

No. 62949

>>62943
Did I say "just be yourself"? Or did I say that he should gain confidence in who he is, because clearly if he automatically thinks people will call him a creep, he doesn't have a very positive self image or high self esteem. He also has aspergers, so suggesting that he brush up on his social skills isn't a reach either.

Sorry I triggered your robot sensibilities.

No. 62953

>>62949
>Did I say "just be yourself"?
Yes.
>because clearly if he automatically thinks people will call him a creep, he doesn't have a very positive self image or high self esteem.
Because women label him as a creep as soon as they see him because he's not Chad. That's a fault with society, not a fault with him, therefore there's nothing he can do to fix it. Your "advice" is empty platitudes because you don't want to admit women are so helplessly vain that guys that aren't Chad are considered inferior in this society.

No. 62961

>>62953
His responses didn't suggest any of that.

You are really reaching that that analysis. But what would I, the humble feeeemale know about what women want?

No. 62962

>>62953
Who hurt you?

No. 62964

>>62953
Anon clearly said for him to work to improve himself which is completely different from saying "just be yourself!" Stop playing the victim and using buzzwords to cover laziness. Self-improvement isn't an impossibility.

No. 62966

>>62961
>But what would I, the humble feeeemale know about what women want?
Even normies know that women never know what it is they want.

No. 62968

>>62953
He said he has never been called a creep, but that he thinks he will be called one anyway. He also said that he doesn't do creepy shit, so I don't know where you're getting all of that.

No. 62972

>>62966
Where did you gain all of this wonderful knowledge? I bet you have seen many IRL boobs in your lifetime.

No. 62974

>>62968
>He also said that he doesn't do creepy shit
"Creepy" shit is anything that is done by an unattractive man.
>>62972
>I bet you have seen many IRL boobs in your lifetime.
See >>62943

No. 62977

>>62966


Oh man, you're right..
Better drop out of my degree tomorrow :(

WHAT DO I EVEN WANT

No. 62979

File: 1453685087906.jpg (952.25 KB, 2560x1837, 1414360864092.jpg)

Man I love monitoring these threads.

No. 62983

>>62974
Go back to trp please

No. 62987

>>62974
Who hurt you?

No. 62993

>>62983
Don't know what that is.
>>62987
I hurt myself by dumping a girl that loved me. Not really relevant here.

No. 62995

>>62993
Oh I think it is extremely relevant. Why did you dump her?

No. 63011

>>62995
Because I was an idiot teenager who got sick of and was unable to deal with the stress of a relationship.

No. 63024

>>62902
Lmao most girls would fuck an uncircumcised dude and enjoy the extra.

No. 63027

>>63011
How long ago was this? Have you had many relationships since then?

How do you think your ex would feel if she was reading your negative posts about women?

No. 63028

>>63011
Do you wish that you could get back together with her?

No. 63034

>>63027
>How long ago was this?
Three years ago.
>Have you had many relationships since then?
A couple, nothing half as serious.
>How do you think your ex would feel if she was reading your negative posts about women?
I'm not really making negative posts about women, I'm making negative posts about society, and they're true. The simple fact is unattractive and antisocial men are looked down upon as second class citizens and they tend to be blamed for being the way they are and told to "man up" or "just be themselves". By comparison, unattractive women are privileged.
>>63028
No. We weren't well suited to each other. It's more that I miss the idea of being that intimate with another person rather than missing her. Psychoanalyse that.

No. 63042

>>63034
Lol I'm not trying to psychoanalyze you. Do you feel like I am? I'm just trying to talk.

Why do you think that your claims about women are such solid truths?

No. 63043

>>63042
Why do you think that your claims about women are such solid truths?
>I'm not really making negative posts about women, I'm making negative posts about society

No. 63044

>>63042
Because a narrow minded person never opens their mind up

No. 63049

>>63043
Okay, why do you think your posts about society are such solid truths?

No. 63051

>>63049
Because they are. Because I've witnessed and experienced it and I've heard it from others.

No. 63052

>>63051
Do you consider yourself attractive?

No. 63056

>>63052
I'm average on a good day. I have it a lot better than most robots do, and even I've experienced the nastiness of women for not being Chad all throughout my life.

No. 63057

>>63056
What kind of nastiness have you experienced?

No. 63059

>>63056
I keep reading about "Chad" a lot. Who is this guy? What does he look like? What does he do?

No. 63060

>>63051
And there are people who claim the opposite and back it up with the same mix of experience and hearsay, so why are your experiences more valid and correct?

No. 63061

>>63051
Just because it fits your and other robot's narratives doesn't make it a fact. You can't say you understand what it's like to be a fugly female just like a fugly female can't say she knows what it's like to be a robot. Why didn't you mention antisocial and unattractive women instead of just unattractive women?

No. 63065

>>63059
Instead of accepting that there are guys out there with good qualities that are attractive to women, it's easier for robots to call them all chads and make them seem like a bad option so that they can shrug rejection off as "just another stupid woman going after chads."

No. 63067

>>63065
Oh of course. I was just curious to hear how the robot would describe chad. They bring up chad all the time, and I've always wondered how they imagine him in their minds. Who is chad? What does he look like? Why do they hate him?

No. 63071

File: 1453688563302.jpg (211.04 KB, 900x713, bSDbebY.jpg)

>>63067
I'm assuming chad is the guy on the left with the strong dick game

No. 63076

>>63071
I feel so embarrassed for the artist. Like what the sweet fuck.

No. 63079

>>63076
You can pretty much just tell he's never seen pussy.

No. 63084

>>63079
My favorite part is "physicality". This sounds like a guy who has had many conversations with women

No. 63087

>>63057
One time I was in drama class in high school and the teacher was randomly pairing us up and I got paired with one of the snobby popular girls and when she heard she yelled out "Eww, I don't want to go with him" and then the whole class laughed.

That is one example among hundreds.
>>63059
Chad is a stereotypical alpha male.
>>63060
>so why are your experiences more valid and correct?
Because I know what I've experienced is true.
>>63061
>You can't say you understand what it's like to be a fugly female just like a fugly female can't say she knows what it's like to be a robot. Why didn't you mention antisocial and unattractive women instead of just unattractive women?
Women are very rarely in a position where they are in the same position as a typical robot, and if they are they are there by choice. Any women can get companionship regardless of how ugly or antisocial she is just by virtue of being a women. Women don't even deny this, they just say "Well it's not the kind of companionship I want", but it's still better than nothing.
>>63067
Chad isn't really hated. Envied perhaps, but Chad is normally friendly and a bro. But there are different tiers of Chad. Some Chads are arrogant pricks, but mostly Chad is nice, if ignorant and a little dumb.
>>63079
See >>62943

No. 63089

>>63071
>and the three wise men traveled, and bestowed upon them gifts of vital infrastructure, validation, and free stuff

No. 63092

>>63087
That drama class example seems pretty tame. That is hardly something that should still be effecting you if you have been out if high school for three years. Have you ever talked to someone about that?

No. 63093

>>63087
You say that chad is a stereotypical alpha male, but also that there are different tiers of chads. Is it a stereotype, or if it a social structure?

No. 63094

>>63093
*is it

No. 63096

>>63071
Why do men pretend only women care about physicality, when men on a whole tend to be more picky and only care about a women's physical appearance?

Establishments like Hooters or strip clubs wouldn't even exist if men didn't put such high value on a women's physicality.

No. 63098

>>63087
>Any women can get companionship regardless of how ugly or antisocial she is just by virtue of being a women.

Are you saying that in general, that human just enjoy socializing with women more, regardless of their personality or appearance?

No. 63100

>>63087
What kind of things do women bring to the table that make people want to socialize with them?

No. 63101

>>63098

being around women makes men feel good, also the chance of sex.

No. 63102

>>63096

Not saying men don't care about physical stuff but I'm just gonna share stuff I see on soc.

>ideal mate thread on /soc/

>men usually list traits like loyal, personality traits, sharing same hobbies etc.
>first trait women always list is being tall and having a big dick followed by having a good job and a good jawline

I mean yeah stuff on /soc/ doesn't mean shit but yeah.

No. 63103

>>63092
>That drama class example seems pretty tame. That is hardly something that should still be effecting you if you have been out if high school for three years.
It doesn't affect me. It's just one example of what is a pretty consistent occurrence. It's to give you an idea of how women undermine, disregard and are displeased by the very existence of a man who isn't Chad. I don't doubt she would've described me as "creepy" too despite the fact she didn't know me, or ever bothered to care to know me.
>>63093
It's a stereotype that has several different substereotypes. Every single guy you've been with is probably a Chad. >>63096
>when men on a whole tend to be more picky and only care about a women's physical appearance?
You cannot seriously believe this? Hypergamy is a real thing. There are many men out there who would date an unattractive girl, though you probably wouldn't even notice they exist because they're <6/10.
>Establishments like Hooters or strip clubs wouldn't even exist if men didn't put such high value on a women's physicality.
Establishments like those exist because sexuality is a need to be sated for men.
>Are you saying that in general, that human just enjoy socializing with women more, regardless of their personality or appearance?
That's one way of putting it. The essence is women are more valued by society than men are. A man who is not attractive or hard working is less than scum to most people in society. Ultimately such social trends tie into biology. Look up Bateman's Principle.

No. 63106

>>63101
Just being in the presence of women make a men feel good?

Why would there be the possibility of sex outside of a romantic context?

No. 63107

>>63106
*can make

Jesus christ

No. 63109

>>63102
If you know evidence from /soc/ doesn't count, then why bring it up?

How do you know that those women aren't just people trying to stir the pot?

No. 63110

>>63106

Not him but I feel less depressed and a piece of shit while talking to girls, specially if they're actually keeping up with me.

No. 63115

>>63102
>using something from /soc/ as valid proof of anything ever

No. 63116

>>63103
Do you really think that a kid in your class was trying to undermine you by being a brat in class?

I would live to hear more examples of how you were criticized for not being chad.

No. 63119

>>63110
Why? Have you ever wondered why you feel that way? Do you appreciate it romantically, or does it make you happy to be listened to and engaged in conversatiin?

No. 63121

>>63089
What more could a girl want?

No. 63123

>>63116
>Do you really think that a kid in your class was trying to undermine you by being a brat in class?
It was clear she didn't want to be associated with me in even the most minor of ways.
>I would live to hear more examples of how you were criticized for not being chad.
As you get older it has less to do with criticism and more to do with being ignored and disregarded. People mostly want nothing to do with you. Making friends, finding a partner, is very difficult. It's easier just to stay inside and play video games and watch anime, since being anything other than lonely takes a shitload of effort. I haven't had a proper friend since high school and all of them are people just like me or like an average robot. Of my close circle of friends, only me and another guy aren't virgins despite the fact we're all in our 20s.

No. 63124

>>63121
decent peen

No. 63127

Maybe girls fuck "chads" because chads don't believe that their experiences set the bar for the whole of society and treat them based on the skewed perceptions of scorned men. Maybe they're just more likable because of that.

No. 63128

>>63103
>It's to give you an idea of how women undermine, disregard and are displeased by the very existence of a man who isn't Chad. I don't doubt she would've described me as "creepy" too

But this was an example from high school. A kid not wanting to be your partner for a project is pretty tame on the trauma scale. If it doesn't still effect you, then why bring it up?

You were hardly a man at that point in your life. You were a teenager in class being put into pairs for an assignment. And that part of your life is over now. Has anything similar occurred since?

No. 63129

>>63103
>Establishments like those exist because sexuality is a need to be sated for men.
You talk about men like they are animals, it is gross.

It is far from a need. You won't die if you don't have sex or come into contact with sexy women. It is a choice men willingly make.

No. 63130

>>63123
If she didn't want to associate with you shes either a bitch or your a freak. Or it could be both.

>It's easier just to stay inside and play video games and watch anime, since being anything other than lonely takes a shitload of effort.


maybe this is why people want nothing to do with you?

No. 63131

>>63124
Is that not what they meant by vital infrastructure? My bad. I just can't stop thinking about dick tbh

No. 63132

>>63123
But if you are just being ignored, then how do you know that it has anything to do with the chad narrative? Isn't it a more logical conclusion to assume that the women you see in your life also have their own lives going on, and might not be able to give you their full social attention?

No. 63134

>>63119

Don't know, can't really explain why but it feels different from talking with my male friends.

>>63127

An unattractive guy could do all those stuff and be called "creepy" or a "try hard". It's all about the looks.

>>63110

Read >>61915 He didn't even confessed or interacted with her yet the mere thought of him liking her caused that

No. 63136

>>63131
Seriously though, decent peen is a rare and magical thing.

No. 63137

>>63123
Adult relationships require effort. Life isn't as simple as it was in high school. People have responsibilities and goals.

If you don't want to put in the work for a relationship, then you can only blame yourself.

No. 63139

Why do robots never realise that they're the common denominator in all of their "women are mean bitches" stories?

No. 63141

>>63134
Well that anon's thoughts were unhealthy and holding him back.

No. 63142

>>63136
So true. Sending my love to all the pussies that ain't purring tbh

No. 63143

>>63139
because they wish the world would cradle them and let them suckle their way through life like their mothers do

No. 63144

>>63134
That anon was also struggling with untreated mental illness and later updated that he was getting help

No. 63146

>>63127
Chads do believe their experiences set the bar for the whole of society, that's why they're so confused that inferior men can be treated so poorly by women when they get nothing but praise and adoration.

Chads aren't always likable though. Everybody knows that one girl who stays with her abusive Chad boyfriend.

http://www.breitbart.com/london/2014/12/04/the-sexodus-part-1-the-men-giving-up-on-women-and-checking-out-of-society/

>>63128
>If it doesn't still effect you, then why bring it up?
Because you asked?
>Has anything similar occurred since?
Yes, regularly.
>You talk about men like they are animals, it is gross.
Humans are animals.
>It is far from a need. You won't die if you don't have sex or come into contact with sexy women. It is a choice men willingly make.
This entire video is very worth watching to understand what I'm talking about, but this part is the part that refers specifically to male sexuality in the way that I'm talking about better than I can. https://youtu.be/Ip7kP_dd6LU?t=6m56s

>>63130
>If she didn't want to associate with you shes either a bitch or your a freak. Or it could be both.

So all women are bitches and freaks? Who is saying bad things about women now?
>maybe this is why people want nothing to do with you?
A led to B, B didn't cause A.
>>63132
Because even when they have to associate with me, for work or for class, it's always reluctant, begrudging and insulting. Think about how you drink the awkward, short, chubby robot-esque guys you come across on a day to day basis. Are you as enthusiastic with them as you are with the cute barrista?

>>63139
Aren't women the common denominator here also, by that logic?

No. 63147

>>63123
>I haven't had a proper friend since high school

welcome to adulthood, do you feel jaded yet

No. 63148

>>63146
>Think about how you drink the awkward
Treat.

Sorry for misquoting people, this site is hard to navigate compared to 4chan with addons.

No. 63149

>>63144
>>63141

He was just a young boy, do you think he just became that way all by himself? Was he born with a 0 self esteem and confidence? Was he hating himself since he was born?

No. 63150

>>63146
No women wouldn't be the common denominator because each of the women you meet is a unique individual. You are the constant in your own experiences.

No. 63151

>>63146
Can you describe any of those tramas that have occurred to you since high school?

No. 63152

>>63150
B-but that doesn't fit the narrative, anon!

No. 63153

>>63146
Uhh no read it properly.

she is a bitch OR you are a freak.
OR she is a bitch and you are a freak.

Ooh sorry for implying something might be a result of your actions anon, wouldn't want to burst that bubble

No. 63154

>>63151
A girl blinked "no" in morse code in his direction once.

No. 63155

>>63149
No he was born with a chemical imbalance which effected how he developed and precieved social situations, and his reactions towards them. Because he had untested mental illnesses.

No. 63156

I hate it when someone has awful personality traits yet to them it's always somebody else's fault for not being attracted to them and leaving them in virgatory.

No. 63157

>>63146
>Think about how you drink the awkward, short, chubby robot-esque guys you come across on a day to day basis. Are you as enthusiastic with them as you are with the cute barrista?

Hey I don't care, as long as the guy is a good fuck, which is rare. I'm always amazed that males cum so quickly

No. 63158

>>63149
Woman are always eager to blame robots for being robots even though none of them would even consider being friends with one.

>>63150
Each robot is as unique as each woman is unique. Robots are not a monolithic entity with the same opinions, and there are far, far more of us than you would think.

>>63151
Why are you using the term "trauma"? I have never used that word. Are you trying to exaggerate on my behalf in order to undermine my experiences by acting like because it isn't a massive life changing event then I shouldn't let it get to me?

watch this video from beginning to end if you want to understand the kind of daily dehumanising experiences the average man goes through. https://youtu.be/Ip7kP_dd6LU

>>63153
I don't think I'm a freak. I've had meaningful relationships. That's how this discussion began. Even if I hadn't had any relationship, the fact that there are millions of men in my position worldwide is evidence enough of that.

>>63156
Even if I did have awful personality traits, a woman with equally awful personality traits wouldn't face any of the hurdles that I would face by virtue of being female. Google "women are wonderful effect".

No. 63159

This whole thing is hilarious.

No. 63160

>>63159
It's easy to laugh, because you're afraid to empathise.

No. 63161

>>63158
mate, just because you don't think you're a freak doesn't mean everyone else does. you reek of manchild

No. 63162

>>63159
>>63156
>>63153
>>63152
>>63143
Don't you realise that by insulting, dismissing and laughing at him instead of engaging with him, you're just proving his point?

No. 63163

>>63161
>I've had meaningful relationships.
If I'm a freak then I somehow still manage to get girls.

>you reek of manchild

Are you saying that just to dismiss me? I'm a manchild because I make accurate observations that women have social advantages that men do not?

No. 63164

>>63162
Like he'd let go of his point if we were nice or not? He already thinks he has solid proof and we shouldn't have to coddle him.

No. 63165

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>>63162
Haha I don't even know what his point is, and I don't really care.
>>63158
>millions of men in my position worldwide
something like this anon?

No. 63166

>>63165
He seems more of a missionary man to me

No. 63167

>>63164
Your first instinct isn't to be nice to be a beta male, and that's how 99% of women approach a person like me and they say things like "Haha I don't even know what his point is, and I don't really care."

No. 63168

>>63163
no you're a manchild because you're not willing to consider that you might be the problem, not others

No. 63169

>>63158
I'm sorry I used the word "trauma". But I would love to hear about other experiences that you had like the one from high schol.

No. 63170

>>63167
Oh i'll be polite to a beta, but never nice unless he's earned it

No. 63171

>>63167
My first instinct isn't to be nice to anyone who thinks their personal opinions are fact.

No. 63172

>>63158
Millions of men have had experiences like what? The only experience you shared was about a girl who didn't want to do a project with you in high school.

No. 63175

>>63170
I think anon is really overestimating how nice girls are to complete strangers. Polite? Yes. Civil? Yes. Enthusiastically and wonderfully nice? Not unless I'm being paid tbh. I don't care how Chad somebody is.

No. 63176

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>>63169
anons highschool experiences

No. 63177

>>63168
What makes you think I've never considered that I was the problem? I've tried to change a lot, but it was all pointless because I could never become Chad. Do you think the first thing I do when I talk to women is start spouting stuff like this? No, I'm just responding to questions that you lot are asking me, and in turn I'm being insulted.

>>63169
This thread is a good example of the kind of way women treat people like me.

>>63170
A beta can never earn it. Not until you realise Chad doesn't want to marry you and you want to settle down so you can be provided for.

>>63172
http://www.breitbart.com/london/2014/12/04/the-sexodus-part-1-the-men-giving-up-on-women-and-checking-out-of-society/

No. 63178

>>63158
I'm not going to watch a video from a robot who posted a briebart article. Let me guess, you also love gamergate and will protect us from video game feminists?

No. 63179

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>>63178
What's wrong with Breitbart?

No. 63180

>>63176
This can't be right! There are no women judging his every move!

No. 63181

>>63177
To be fair, you have spouted off some pretty insulting things about women, without any evidence. You sound like a guy who reads the red pill. Women don't like it when you imply they are a hive mind whose only goal is to bang chad. You sound like a conspiracy theorist.

No. 63182

>>63179
Another good vn

No. 63183

>>63179
Basically everything. Its a rag. Its like fox news to me.

No. 63184

>>63177
>This thread is a good example of the kind of way women treat me.
>My primary evidence for the long-held belief that women are meanies is the evidence that I got just now by acting like a prick.

No. 63185

>>63177
That is hardly a valid source

No. 63187

How do chads fit in with lesbians? Are there lesbian chads? Are beta men being rejected for alpha lesbians? I must know

No. 63188

>>63177
Why would I ever want to marry? I can have a bunch of Chads, normalfags and betaboys to fuck whenever I want

>This thread is a good example of the kind of way women treat people like me.

once again blaming others, how about you try changing and see if it actually works instead of moping?

No. 63189

>>63162
>proving his point
How so?

>>63167
People are dismissing him and others with this robologic because you all seem to be convinced that you understand how society works, despite limited experience and little exposure to the world at large. You use anecdotes as proof of your madness, and won't listen to anyone who disagrees. It has nothing to do with being a beta. Only robots have a beta vs. alpha view.

No. 63190

>>63184
>implying you have to act like a prick to get shit on here

From what I've seen so far anything that isn't exactly in line with the general consensus gets shit on, just like any other chan. Regardless of whether you were being a prick or not.

No. 63191

>>63187
Lesbian chads are hot straight girls, if you're real good at tuning you can make them turn.

No. 63192

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>>63181
>To be fair, you have spouted off some pretty insulting things about women, without any evidence.
Such as? I've tried to be nice about the things I say. I don't think I've said anything overly mean or hostile.
>Women don't like it when you imply they are a hive mind whose only goal is to bang chad.
Heterosexual women want to have sex and be associated with attractive men. Is this a controversial statement?

>>63182
G-Senjou is only average if we're being honest.

>>63183
Still better than buzzfeed. Regardless I think it's a good article, regardless of the site's usual quality.

>>63184
I don't think I've acted like a prick. Please point out how. Use quotes.

>>63185
It's an opinion piece that I feel accurately describes the nature of being a young adult man in this society.

>>63187
My only experience with a lesbian was one being the older sister of a girl I dated. She didn't like me much and she's transsexual now.

> how about you try changing and see if it actually works instead of moping?

I have, please read my posts. I didn't come to this conclusion overnight.

>>63189
I think I have a lot experience and exposure to the world at large, and I certainly know more about robots than you ladies do. And I am listening to you all, you're not saying anything very convincing though, just asking me questions and insulting me. Not that I mind, if I wanted to not be insulted, I wouldn't post here.

No. 63193

>>63191
>mfw when I realise that, although I lack the peen, chadhood is not out of reach as long as I keep up the exercise and skincare regime.

No. 63194

File: 1453692363389.gif (499.3 KB, 500x240, grinchgrin.gif)

>>63193
Got so excited i forgot the pic

No. 63195

>>63192
>I've tried to be nice about the things I say. I don't think I've said anything overly mean or hostile.
>I think I have a lot experience and exposure to the world at large
this might be why people don't like you, because you're oblivious

>>63193
My gran game up men at 25, I bet shes loving it with all those nuns up in heaven

No. 63196

This thread is fucking awful

No. 63197

>>63196

They always start mildly, friendly then devolve into shitposting.

No. 63199

>>63100
The fact that they won't go Elliot Rogers on your ass. Nobody is afraid of a woman, men are afraid of looking like fags/weak, and women just don't want to get killed.

No. 63200

>>63192
>you're not saying anything very convincing
Genuinely not trying to hurt your feelings here, but have you ever considered that nobody actually cares about convincing you, nor do they care what you think of women beyond the initial offense you cause? From what you've written and how people have reacted to it, it's not like you're a contender for their friendship or love. They don't actually give a shit and can function perfectly fine without your approval, which is why so many people are trolling you by behaving exactly as you complain women behave.

No. 63201

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>>63195
>this might be why people don't like you, because you're oblivious
Personally I'd say you're the oblivious one.

>>63196
What part of "Robot containment thread" were you expecting to be good?

No. 63202

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>>63200
If they're trolling they're doing a bad job, when they're the ones who seem to get angry and toasty about the opinions I have.

No. 63203

>>63192
I haven't played a VN I didn't find good yet honestly

No. 63204

>>63203
What have you read?

No. 63205

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>>63203

>tfw I'll never read muv-luv alternative for the first time again

No. 63208

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No. 63209

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>>63208

>tfw I'll never be a super rich guy so I could give cookie enough money to make a top quality muvluv anime

>tfw never gpnna see sadogashima animated
>tfw never gonna see takeru's suffering animated
>tfw never gonna see yokohama base defense animated
>tfw no animated chomp

No. 63210

This thread always turns into a baaaaawww shitfest. I would have sympathy for you robots except I can't when they make zero effort to improve themselves. You just want to blame it on "society" & "biology" because they're things you can't change.

No. 63212

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>>63209
It'd probably just be shit like Total Eclipse was. Maybe Schwarzesmarken will be good though.
>>63210
Why are you assuming we've never tried to change? You have it easy, so you assume men must also have it easy if they just put a little effort in, but that isn't the truth. Men have a very large handicap that women don't, made insurmountable if they are unattractive. If you were an unattractive man, you'd be in the same position as many robots regardless of how much you tried to change, and don't pretend otherwise.

No. 63213

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>>63212

Total Eclipse suffered from a shit studio and a garbage budget, Schwarzesmarken is the same but they're actually doing decent for some reason.

No. 63217

>>63212
Because you still believe and spew this stuff. What exactly is easy for me?

Idk, I've dated some pretty ugly and stupid men. The only ones I don't stick around are the wet-blanket moping type. That's what puts people off.

No. 63223

>>63212
>assumes anon has it easy
just don't assume robots never tried to change anons

No. 63230

>>63217
I still believe and spew the truth? That's a problem just because you don't like to hear it?
>>63223
It's a fact that women have it easy relative to men.

No. 63247

What do robots think of lesbians in general?

I'm curious whether you guys are as bitter towards women who pick vagina over you, as you are to women who pick chad over you.

No. 63250

>>63247

I wish I was a lesbian tbh

No. 63251

>>63230
>the truth
That's just like, your opinion man.

No. 63265

>>63247
Don't really have an opinion
I dont think homosexuality is anything but a depraved fetish though. But if they want to practice it then that's still fine

No. 63277

>>63210
Agreed. And don't forget chad. They love to blame shit on him.

No. 63278

>>63200
Seriously. I mean, I've been asking them lots of questions, mostly because they tend to repeat the same shit over and over, and describe it as a well known truth. I find it interesting to hear them explain their bullshit in the own words. Like the robot above who was talking about how women always undermine men who aren't chad. His example of mistreatment in his life was when a girl didn't want to be a partner for a project…in high school. That's hardly a trauma, but apparently it was the perfect example of how women hate betas or something. But…that just doesn't fly for me. That's hardly an example of extreme mistreatment because a man (or high school teenager) isn't a chad.

Its very interesting to me. Like, how in earth could that one high school incident put this kid on track to becoming a robot who thinks that all women care about is chad? Why is he putting such high standards on himself (i'm not a chad, so women hate me)?

No. 63279

>>63277
man, sometimes i wonder about what the protective factors might be for some guys that prevent them from being robots.

No. 63280

>>63279
I'm sure self esteem is a humongous factor.

No. 63281

>>63278
of course not, that was high school and everyone is a little prick. but hey, dont you love it how they have all these traumatizing high school girl stories but they all want to fuck high school girls? kek keeping living the dream

No. 63282

>>63278
its a little nauseating at times. they all sound the same…unless its the same one visiting over and over again.

No. 63283

>>63278
>Why is he putting such high standards on himself (i'm not a chad, so women hate me)?

This is the standard society expects of men to be welcomed into society.

No. 63284

>>63281
Oh that's something that I have totally noticed. It says two things to me: they either 1) are still teenagers, and that high school incident happened like a year ago or 2) they have mentally checked out since high school, when things started getting "hard" in life.

No. 63285

>>63283
Says you.

No. 63286

>>63283
i think you suffer from the type of mutation that is supposed to wipe out your kind.

No. 63287

>>63282
Ikr. That's why I've been asking so many questions. Because I know the talking points, and it is clear that they do, too. But spewing out a script (even subconsciously) is a great way to protect yourself from your true thoughts and feelings. And I would love to hear what some of these guys actually think about themselves wither their bullshit rhetoric.

No. 63288

>>63287
Without*

I have a new phone, so I'm getting used to the keyboard

No. 63289

>>63287
hmmmm. i would like to too. i assumed once they were out of their echo chamber that is r9k that they would be a little more relaxed on the robot narrative and shit, but then they always tend to chimp out and recite their national cuck anthem.

No. 63290

>>63202
>>63200
>They don't actually give a shit and can function perfectly fine without your approval
Second bit is accurate but I'd be lying if I said I don't give a shit. It saddens me to see these guys bitter and resentful, with such inaccurate, toxic opinions. I've mostly given up trying to convince the robot kind, it's a fruitless effort, they're hurt and too lazy/depressed to risk getting hurt again (and oftentimes too spoiled and self-important to give people another chance). But when I was at my lowest point, these were the people who were there for me, at least when I'd hide the fact that I'm a female. It's a shame that I could get better and they still can't seem to.

Sometimes I try to argue, mostly when I'm drunk. I'd like to think that in the very least my kind words made someone's day better but I know the chances are slim.

I'm too drunk and rambling, though. Sorry.

No. 63291

>>63290
Do you really think people choose to be robots? It may be easy for women to get a boyfriend and be happy, but it's not so easy for men.

No. 63292

>>63290
im getting drunk….les go….

but here's the thing…theyll always tell you you got better because you had no real problem because easy mode or you got out of your problem because vagina mode.

No. 63293

>>63291
im sure its not easy for men who take the opportunity to offend a woman at every pass. poor bitch who would ever put up with that whiny shit.

No. 63294

>>63293
>im sure its not easy for men who take the opportunity to offend a woman at every pass.
Do you actually believe that when people vent on an online anonymous imageboard, this is how they conduct themselves in everyday life?

No. 63295

>>63294
must be if you have failed, failed, and failed again to secure someone.
how could anyone who talks like that have the ability to put on a front? and if you could, you wouldnt be in the situation youre in. youd be passing and not whining.

No. 63296

>>63292
did you ever consider even for a second that it might be true?

No. 63297

>>63295
>must be if you have failed, failed, and failed again to secure someone.
>and if you could, you wouldnt be in the situation youre in.

Now you're just victim blaming me. I hold the opinion I do because of what I've experienced, not vice versa. Women have treated me the same way my entire life. I didn't start off jaded, I became jaded, because nothing I could do would make women the least bit interested in me.

No. 63298

>>63291
I think that a lot of robots are their own worst enemy. I think their worldview creates a sell fulfilling prophecy, where women feel uneasy around them.

No. 63299

>>63297
>victim blaming
thats some tumblr tier shit right there.

so what have you done to make women interested in you?

No. 63300

>>63298
definitely self fulfilling prophecy. its just sad because its like they all have tunnel vision.

No. 63301

>>63297
well im glad to hear its suddenly an opinion and not an absolute universal truth.

No. 63302

>>63299
what have you done to make men interested in you, other than owning a vagina?

inb4 "makeup 2 hard", you could easily get guys even if you didn't wear makeup.

No. 63303

>>63302
i don't build my life around male approval so i don't even bother trying to attract them. im trying to finish school and get my internship so i can make bank and party my life away.

No. 63304

>>63300
They also show black and white thinking, and the narcissistic idea that they have the "real truth" about society.

Their shared worldview completely absolves them of any ownership towards their IRL situation. Everything is because of society not appreciating beta males. It is women's fault for always choosing chad. It is Chad's fault for being better than them. They have created a dichotomy of losers - winners, and have already placed themselves as "losers".

No. 63305

>>63303
>i don't build my life around male approval
Exactly. Because you don't have to.

You can feel wanted by the opposite sex without even trying, it's as natural as breathing to you. Now imagine even your best effort, 100% maximum effort, not being enough to get attention from the opposite sex, and even being disparaged for even attempting. That is a realty a lot of men are living, and men have insane sex drives.
Sex is a basic human need.

No. 63306

>>63304
i just dont get why they always want to reference like "bio" norms like a woman is supposed to stay at home and take care of babies, then get bitchy when they believe women barbarically desire chad the alpha over a beta. fucking narrative full of shit.

No. 63307

>>63302
Idk I don't really think of it that way. You make it seem like dating is about convincing someone that you aren't a piece of shit.

I ask out guys who I feel chemistry with. We have shared interests, so dates are easy to set up. Our personalities mesh, so conversation is easy and fun.

I don't convince guys to like me. We discover that we like each other and enjoy spending time together, and it often evolves into a relationship.

No. 63308

>>63307
And in the same breath you'll say robots don't have it harder then you when it's natural as fuck for you to have a relationship.

No. 63309

>>63305
i never said it was because i don't have to so don't exactly me.
so go masturbate. you cant claim to be controlled by baser things but understand higher concepts (which nobody agrees with cause theyre shit)

No. 63310

>>63305
you also don't even know what i look like. so what is your point? a man will fuck anything while a woman has standards?

No. 63311

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Time for a change of pace.

>be me

>buy some weebshit off of facebook
>notice the seller is a really qt girl
>talk to her to set up the sale
>be nice to her, she sends me some subtle and classy emojis emojis, bitches love emojis.
>parcel arrives and now I have no excuse to keep talking to her
>haven't talked to her in a month

How to I establish a proper friendship with this girl or, preferably, how do I date this girl with intention of marriage?

No. 63312

>>63310
A woman has the privilege of choice, while a man takes what he gets. A woman is at a diner and samples from a selection whereas a man is starving and grabs whatever rats he can to feed off of.

No. 63313

>>63312
not really, all the cute ones are fags or whores

No. 63314

>>63310
>you also don't even know what i look like. so what is your point? a man will fuck anything while a woman has standards?
Men will fuck anything because it's hard for men to get sex, and effortless for women. This IS the point I'm trying to make, girls have it easier.

>>63309
Of course, masturbating helps, but it isn't sex. You know this.

No. 63315

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I don't even want sex I just want cuddling and companionship and talking and watching anime together. I can't even remember the last time I talked to a non-family member female that wasn't out of obligation.

No. 63317

>>63306
Because in those days, society was less unpredictable. There were harsh, outdated social penalties for women not staying at home/being baby machines. All men got married, because if a woman didn't marry she would have nothing (no job, no property).

Nowadays, women don't have to enter relationships out of obligation. Women can even leave shitty relationships without the fear of social stigma. So now how can an insecure man "secure" a gf? What's going to keep her?

I think these guys prefer "quantity" over "quality . It is arguable that in today's society, the choice to marry is more based on love ("quality"), because neither party is obligated to marry to ensure their financial security. But in that kind of scenario, there's no guarantees. Robots would prefer the "quantity" society, where women were obligated to stay in unhappy marriages for a lifetime, because on paper, everything still looks good. Its like "but I still have a woman, tho".

I'm sorry if this is confusing. I just woke up.

No. 63318

>>63308
I'm not saying it is natural . I am saying that I wouldn't waste my time trying to convince a guy that I'm worth it. I date guys who I have a mutual chemistry with. We enjoy each other's company. We don't need convincing.

No. 63319

>>63312
Then have some self respect. Don't just take whatever you can get. Have standards for yourself.

No. 63320

>>63319
>Don't just take whatever you can get.

I don't take anything because I can't get anything.

No. 63321

>>63319
it just doesn't work this way. what you're saying is honestly only someone from a higher position on the ladder of society can seriously say and believe.

No. 63322

>>63314
It's not hard for men to get sex. It's hard for YOU to get sex. If it was hard for men to get sex, your Chad theory wouldn't exist.
And most women don't want random sex. They want it where it's safe and they're not gonna die or get preggers from some shithead. So women are careful, whereas men are not. You could go to a gay bar and get sex easy if that's all you want.

No. 63323

>>63322
>just be gay bro

So you agree with us. I guess that settles things.

No. 63324

>>63322
>It's not hard for men to get sex. It's hard for YOU to get sex. If it was hard for men to get sex, your Chad theory wouldn't exist.
Chad still has to fucking work hard to get laid, it's just he's really fucking good at it and it comes naturally to him. But it's still difficult for him.

For robots it's nigh impossible without good fortune.

No. 63325

>>63321
It's this kind of outlook on life that makes women cringe and steer clear of you. Nobody wants someone who doesn't have that unless they want to Dom and destroy.

No. 63326

>>63325
Do you think robots, in their attempts at getting with women, initiate conversation with their insecurities and hatred of rejection by women? No, that's stupid and if you've heard about it it was probably just a joke greentext story.
You get rejected as a man because a woman can easily have better. Doesn't matter if you fake confidence, "b urself" etc, if you don't have certain qualities, you do NOT get picked by women to have sex.

Then, if men try to skip the bullshit and just pay for sex (think for a moment: how many women are paying for sex?), it's illegal in most places. Literally illegal to be a straight male if you're ugly or undesirable.

No. 63328

>>63326
This.

No. 63329

>>62209
>>61838

Can I get an explanation on this? I don't spam, but I do offer a different point of view. That isn't against the rules, so why should I be banned simply because I came from another site? Or is it an unwritten sekrit club rule that I don't know about?

No. 63331

>>63329
You can post on other parts of the site but just don't post "I'm a robot I'm from /r9k/ let me tell you why I hate women" etc.

Not like there's any other part of this site worth visiting unless you like talking about menstruation or bullying teenagers on tumblr.

No. 63332

>>63311
Please respond ladies I was hoping for advice.

No. 63333

>>63326
Believe me, it is easy to tell when a man secretly hates women.

No. 63334

>>63321
>I am laid low by the matriarchy

No. 63335

>>63326
>Literally illegal to be a straight male if you're ugly or undesirable.

Listen to yourself, man. You're sounding like a conspiracy theorist.

No. 63336

>>63331
I never intend to flat out announce where I'm from, but it's not hard for you to point out a male poster. Then things get heated because people can't just have an argument and disagree, people have to get angry.

>>63333
That may be true, but I get the feeling that wouldn't matter too much for you when he's 6'2 200lbs pure muscle ready to fug.

>>63334
lol'd. Pretty much this, if you wanna put it in a nutshell.

>>63335
I admit it was an exagerration, but it does have some truth to it. Imagine being an undesirable male who just wants some sexual release with a REAL woman for once, not his hand, but he can't because he'd risk getting jailed and ruining his life. Females don't generally have this problem.

No. 63337

>>63333
I don't hate women, I love them. I hate myself. Things would be far easier if I hated women.

No. 63338

>>63336
But why can't you meet women like everyone else? Go to parties, join a game night, form a pub quiz team, try online dating?

How do you think other people get into relationships or hook up?

No. 63339

>>63338
> Go to parties, join a game night, form a pub quiz team, try online dating?

This may work for ladies, but it doesn't work for unattractive men. Seriously, just for fun, make a neckbeard OK cupid and try to get the number of a girl.

No. 63340

>>63336
>That may be true, but I get the feeling that wouldn't matter too much for you when he's 6'2 200lbs pure muscle ready to fug.

Well your feeling is wrong. Why would I date an piece of shit? Do you really think muscles will make up for the fact that a guy secretly hate me for being a woman? If he doesn't trust me and thinks I'll eventually ditch him for someone better?

Come on, now.

No. 63341

>>63297
>victim blaming
>victim
because women don't want to fuck you

No. 63342

>>63339
Being a neckbeard isn't genetic. Tidy yourself up. Shave the neckbeard. Take some good pics, and make a detailed profile.

I'm not going to purposely make an unappealing okc account, and try to get a number. Because IRL there are millions of ways to improve yourself, gain confidence, and build your self esteem. How about instead you try that, and then make an okc profile?

No. 63343

>>63341
Don't you know it's illegal to be an ugly man??? 5 chads put me in a sack and beat me with reeds today.

No. 63344

>>63340
Well, if true, good for you. You'd still fuck him though.

>>63341
You sure are good at making things seem trivial. Can you imagine being involuntarily celibate as a man with a sex drive over the age of 20?

>>63342
>being a neckbeard isn't genetic
I think that anon just meant an average or ugly male in general, not a neckbeard specifically.

No. 63345

>>63339
Have you ever actually tried? How do you know that an unattractive man can't make friends and form relationships?

No. 63346

>>63344
>Can you imagine being involuntarily celibate as a man with a sex drive over the age of 20?
It's not victimizing you to not find you appealing enough to have sex with. Sorry we have bodily autonomy.

No. 63347

>>63344
You need to stop thinking that you know these "real truths" about women. You're creating a self fulfilling prophesy.

I absolutely would not fuck a piece of shit guy just because he has muscles. How could you possibly know that, if you have never met me?

But I will tell you right now that thinking shit like that is part of the reason why women don't want to date you. I'd hate to be with a guy who thinks so little of me that he'd assume I'd fuck any douchebag with muscles.

No. 63348

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>the women in this thread

No. 63349

>>63347
> I'd hate to be with a guy who thinks so little of me that he'd assume I'd fuck any douchebag with muscles.

How many guys have you fucked, out of curiousity? :)

No. 63350

>>63344
>involuntarily celibate

Ughhhhhhhhhhh

Again, you are the common denominator in your own experiences. How do you think women could help fix your incel?

No. 63351

god this thread is all kinds of retarded
>hurr women only want chad
>hurp no just b urself (urself=chad) you just need confidence

if I wanted to hear a bunch of jaded world outlooks regarding love I would just go to /r9k/
if I wanted to hear retarded and useless advice on love I would ask any normie

No. 63352

>>63349
None of your business.

This is inenof those things that no matter what I say, I know you will twist it to completely fit your narrative. I've heard not all before. If I say i'm a virgin, then I bet you'd call me a unicorn or a liar. If I said 3 guys, you'd assume I locked down some chads. If I said 20 guys, then I'd be a typical female riding the cock carousel.

A better question would be, how is my sexual history relevant to my analysis?

No. 63353

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>>63291
No, not once did I say it's a choice. But I do think that wallowing in self pity, complaining about how others have it easy and surrounding oneself with like-minded people is a surefire way to never change, ever.

It may be unfair, but there's not much that can be done about it.

>>63292
I'm aware, I've heard it so many times I started thinking I'm some special breed of fucked up because if I managed to be in such a shitty position WHILE IN EASY NO-PROBLEM MODE, man, I must be extraordinarily autistic.

>>63296
It's easier, yes, that's undeniable. But the whole "there are NO real problems when u have a vagina" stems from your robot male brain, because you mix all your insecurities with sexuality and romance, and think sex and romantic affection will save you and cure you. You, in your desperation, would probably take any woman, so you believe every other male works the same way. You see something that's fact (women have it easier when it comes to dating) and extrapolate it to "women have NO problem when it comes to dating", which, combined with the previous notions of sex&love = solution to problems, you believe that since women have NO problems dating they can have NO problems ever.

I understand this is all irrational since it's feelings-related, but damn. So many logical leaps.

No. 63354

>>63348
WHO KEEPS MAKING THESE HILARIOUS COMICS???? I'M DYING

No. 63356

>>63346
I'm not the guy who used the word "victimized". But thanks for finally admitting that you have it easy.

>>63347
I think you're putting on a strong face to try and prove a point here, but it doesn't matter, we can't really prove each other wrong here.

>>63350
I didn't say whether I was or not, and I'm not sure what you were going for with that question. How could they fix an incel? Well, for starters, by choosing to have sex with them (which they won't, because they already have an abundance of higher valued male suitors to pick from). How could an incel fix himself? Well, he could try to "bee himself" (very VERY low success rate for someone who is in the 'incel' position) or get a prostitute (illegal in most places, risky and expensive in all).

No. 63357

>A better question would be, how is my sexual history relevant to my analysis?

It would explain why you're so toasty when that anon called you a whore for having casual sex with attractive men.

No. 63358

>>63356
Okay, so why don't you try some of those things to fix your incel. Put yourself out there and find someone who likes you. Or hire a prostitute.

No. 63359

>>63357
I'm not toasty, and no one called me a whore. I'm just talking.

No. 63360

>>63357
Would a low number of sexual partners discredit me? Or would it work in my favor?

No. 63361

>>63356
I never said we did, and I don't know how you got that from my comment.

But whatever, I'm not any of the anons you lot have been arguing with for hours and never said that we don't either. I don't actually care either way. I just thought that particular comment was really fucking stupid.

No. 63362

>>63356
>I think you're putting on a strong face to try and prove a point here, but it doesn't matter, we can't really prove each other wrong here.

I'm giving you my honest opinion, sprinkled with advice. You aren't as learned as you think you are. Why do you think you know my true thoughts and feelings?

No. 63363

>>63360
You don't have a low number, or you would've said it.

No. 63364

>>63362
>You aren't as learned as you think you are.

Right back at you, cunt. You think the dating market is easy for everyone because it's easy for you, but it's not. You'll understand what it's like to be undesirable and single when you're in your 30s. Then you'll look back and think, "shit, those anons were right, I was an idiot for telling them to be themselves, I was blinded by my own young female privilege".

No. 63365

>>63358
I'm personally not an incel.

>Put yourself out there and find someone who likes you.

This is a high-value male / any female abstraction. Doesn't work like that for someone who you could call incel.

>Or hire a prostitute.


Like I stated before, illegal and dangerous in a lot of places.

Lower valued men have to put themselves through hell to get the basic human needs that all females and higher valued males get virtually for free - this is what I'm trying to say here.

>>63362
I can't know your true thoughts and feelings, which is why I wanted to leave it at that. I can however have my own opinion: it doesn't add up to me that a sexually active woman would turn down a male she found very attractive (6'2 200lbs pure muscle was just an example) even if it was obvious he didn't respect her. Not in this day and age.

No. 63366

>>63360
>Would a low number of sexual partners discredit me? Or would it work in my favor?
any number works to your disadvantage
you're arguing with a robot who says that women have the easy life and can get laid easily while robots have a low chance of sex.

No. 63367

>>63363
Does assuming that discredit me, or work in my favor?

No. 63368

>>63364
There's the charm!

I'll ask again, why do you assume to know my thoughts and feelings?

No. 63370

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I've decided to take your advice and be myself and be confident. Any girl want to be my girlfriend?

No. 63371

>>63366
>Would a low number of sexual partners discredit me? Or would it work in my favor?
any number works to your disadvantage
you're arguing with a robot who says that women have the easy life and can get laid easily while robots have a low chance of sex.

Women having their whole life on "easy mode" is contestable. Women getting easy sex is not, and that's not just a robot ideal - it's common knowledge.

No. 63372

>>63365
>my own opinion: it doesn't add up to me that a sexually active woman would turn down a male she found very attractive (6'2 200lbs pure muscle was just an example) even if it was obvious he didn't respect her. Not in this day and age.

What do you mean by this? Would you also endure disrespect for a pretty face?

No. 63373

>>63371
Okay. And would having a high number of sexual partners discredit me, or work in my favor?

No. 63375

>>63365
>Lower valued men have to put themselves through hell to get the basic human needs that all females and higher valued males get virtually for free - this is what I'm trying to say here

What basic human needs is your life lacking?

No. 63376

>>63375
Not him but
>companionship

No. 63377

>>63371
wow, I fucked that post up.

>>63372
What I meant was women fuck all the time these days, and average girls can get great looking guys, so why wouldn't they? Do you think that attractive guys who are fucking all kinds of women have high opinions of them? As for you turning the question on me, I don't know what I'd do in that situation. I personally want to save myself for someone I really care about, so if a girl was treating me like that I'd probably treat it as an utter failure and walk away.

>>63373
I think you quoted the wrong guy

No. 63379


No. 63380

>>63371
>Women having their whole life on "easy mode" is contestable. Women getting easy sex is not, and that's not just a robot ideal - it's common knowledge.
sex makes you happy. it's not the soul aspect to a happy life but it certainly helps
it releases dopamine to your brain and gives your confidence and self worth a boost since sex is your primary objective in life (passing on your genes is how our species survived all these years)

No. 63381

>>63380
Yes, it's definitely a huge part of life. It's why the quickest insult thrown out to a man is aimed at his sexual value, eg "small penis" or "virgin".

No. 63382

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>>63370
It didn't work, guys.

No. 63383

>>63376
Do you mean romantic companionship? Or are you also lacking friends?

No. 63385

>>63377
Okay, so if you could imagine walking away from a relationship with a woman that doesn't respect you, can't you also imagine it with the roles reversed?

I would feel the same way as you if I was in a relationship with someone who doesn't respect me. I'd feel awful, and I'd leave.

No. 63386

>>63380
There is more to life than passing on genes. I don't even want kids.

No. 63387

>>63381
But there are so many other ways to trigger dopamine release or to build your confidence. Exercise can release dopamine.

No. 63388

>>63385
I didn't necessarily mean in a relationship. You meet some dude, you find him super attractive, you get the previous "sense" you claimed to have that he has a poor opinion of women, but your body wants to fuck him. You can't convince me that you wouldn't do that, since women aren't under men's thumbs anymore - you can do whatever you want.

>>63387
It's not just about the pleasure release, think about it this way. "A human being of the opposite sex found me attractive and desirable enough to have sex with me". That's a feeling I bet a lot of women take for granted.

No. 63389

>>63383
I am lacking both.

No. 63390

>>63388
If you realize that women can do whatever they want, wouldn't it be in the realm of possibility that they would choose not to fuck a piece of shit?

No. 63391

>>63389
How does that make you feel?

No. 63392


No. 63393

>>63388
>It's not just about the pleasure release, think about it this way. "A human being of the opposite sex found me attractive and desirable enough to have sex with me".

So it is more about the ego boost of a woman allowing you to have sex with her?

No. 63394

>>63392
I bet. I'm sorry to hear that.

I hope you can gain confidence in yourself, and build a nice group of friends.

No. 63395

>>63392
How is your self esteem? Describe yourself.

No. 63396

>>63394
Confidence isn't what makes you a success or failure. It's the outcome of being a success or a failure.

You can't get confidence when all there is is a string of failures before you. "Just be confident" is meme advice. It's worthless.

No. 63397

>>63390
Is it in the realm of possibility? Of course, but not likely. Not being afraid to show off the fact that you're an asshole/have heavily differing opinions = confidence, which I'm constantly told women love. Women also love to fuck attractive men. You do the math.

>>63393
You really twisted that one.

No. 63398

>>63395
My self-esteem is pretty low but still higher than it deserves to be. I still have hope that things will be alright even though I know they won't be.

No. 63399

>>63396
I didn't say "just be confident". I said "gain confidence". Anon's entire worth isn't centered around his romantic history, or lack of it.

My hope for him is that he can one day realize that he has value as a person, who is capable of building friendships, because he deserves it. Everyone does. I think he got caught up in these red pill conspiracies because they are all theories that push the ownership of their "misfortune" (aka lack of romantic success) to outside sources that he couldn't possibly control. I hope he forgets about chad, because he is just a boogeyman who robots blame for not dating their high school crush.

I want him to not need to gain confidence through the number of women he banged, because he values himself as a person, for his talents, accomplishments, and personality.

No. 63400

>>63398
Dude, don't backhand compliment yourself. You should have high self esteem. I bet there are tons of things that you are awesome at.

No. 63401

>>63393
>So it is more about the ego boost of a woman allowing you to have sex with her?
sex gives alot of emotions
it also gives self validation, congratulations you fulfilled your purpose in life here's some dopamine to reward you

women get sex alot easier than men
the female equivalent to a male virgin isn't a female virgin it's a female slut.
both male virgins and female sluts carry a status of shame. in recent years due to feminism slut lost most of its shame and became something more accepted (slut walks and other protests). male virgin is still seen as shameful though (you can see in this thread multiple women calling robots that they know next to nothing about virgins as an insult)

tl;dr
women get sex easier and that definitely boosts happiness

No. 63402

>>63397
I completely disagree with your definition of confidence. A confident person isn't the biggest douche in the room. Lbr.

No. 63403

>>63401
Do you think your purpose in life is to fuck women?

No. 63405

>>63401
But why would women get an ego boost if being a slut is still a bit shameful? Wouldn't it work against them?

No. 63406

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>>63399
I dated my high school crush.
I'm not a "red pill" whatever that means. It sounds like that's your own version of a boogeyman.
Most women have an easier go of life than I do.
>>63400
I'm not awesome at anything really.

No. 63407

>>63397
Well if it isn't about the ego boost, then what is it about?

No. 63408

>>63406
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Jesus christ what happened here? What it meant to say was
>>63400
I'm not awesome at anything. I don't have any proactive hobbies or talents.

No. 63409

>>63406
My hope for you is still that you one day have a good self image, and the confidence to not value yourself based on your sexual history.

No. 63410

>>63402
It's an aspect of confidence. It takes a degree of confidence to act in a way that may cause conflict.

>>63407
I guess feeling loved and desired like a real human being could be considered somewhat of an "ego boost". I just think you phrased that in a pretty nasty way, almost robot-like if you ask me.

No. 63411

>>63408
What do you like to do for fun?

No. 63412

Hi what interesting discussion might you guys be possibly having?

No. 63413

>>63403
its literally a biological imperative for all species to have sex and pass genes
when men go through puberty then get hormones that make them crave sex, it's written in our dna

meaning of life is an abstract concept that you can't really give a definition for (42) but the purpose for life as a species is to pass on genes until your species is apex.

No. 63414

>>63409
Sexual history is the standard the world judges me by. How I feel about myself is irrelevant to how others feel about me.
>>63411
I watch anime, I read books and visual novels, I play video games. Typical robotcore activities.

No. 63415

>>63410
I guess it would take a degree of confidence to be an asshole, but the consequence would be that people wouldn't like you. Do you really think that people enjoy the douchebag in the room?

I didn't mean to be nasty. When things are written the tone is up to the reader. It can cause misunderstandings. How do you build confidence outside of sex?

No. 63416

>Do you really think that people enjoy the douchebag in the room?
Given how pretty much every abusive douchebag has a girlfriend, it really makes me wonder.

No. 63417

>>63414
Why do you feel that the world judges you on your sexual history? Its not like you have your number of sex partners written on your forehead. If we walked past each other on the street, I'd have no way to assume how many women you have slept with. How could I judge you based on personal details that I couldn't possibly know unless you told me?

No. 63418

>>63416
Abuse is complicated though. It is like a frog in a pot of water that is slowly coming to a boil. An abusive partner doesn't reveal themselves right away. It is gradual, and happens together with them chipping away at their partner's self esteem

Unless you're suggesting that women in abusive relationships enjoy it?

No. 63419

>>63416
>Given how pretty much every abusive douchebag has a girlfriend,
That's not true. /r9k/ doesn't have girlfriends.

No. 63420

>>63415
>Do you really think that people enjoy the douchebag in the room?
Yeah. Girls often do.

>I didn't mean to be nasty. When things are written the tone is up to the reader. It can cause misunderstandings. How do you build confidence outside of sex?


You're asking the wrong guy about building confidence, but I think people gain confidence from having value, like a skill, money, anything else that puts you up there and makes you respectable. Sex happens to be one of those things.

No. 63421

>>63413
Then how do you explain people who don't want to have kids?

No. 63422

>Why do you feel that the world judges you on your sexual history?
Because when people find out you've only been with one girl and it was years ago, they treat you differently like you're some kind of freak and they don't want to be friends with you, let alone date you. A man who is highly desired by other women is attractive to women.
>I'd have no way to assume how many women you have slept with. How could I judge you based on personal details that I couldn't possibly know unless you told me?
Most people take one look at me and assume I'm a virgin, even though I'm not.

Plus I'm not good at making friends or talking to strangers and when I try to do it it just makes everyone uncomfortable and I feel unwelcome.

No. 63423


No. 63424

>>63420
It is interesting that you linked confidence with respect. To me, confidence is internal: I think I'm awesome, and I know I'm a great catch. But respect is external, it depends on your relationship and interactions with other people.

Do you think that a woman having sex with you shows respect?

No. 63425

>>63422
How do you know that people assume that you are a virgin? Do they call you out on it or something?

No. 63426

>>63425
Yes. Things like "You're a virgin, aren't you?"

Now I don't even want to associate with other people because it's just unpleasant. But I still want friends and a girlfriend. I just want to be with people who care about me and respect me, like I belong somewhere.

No. 63427

>>63426
When was the last time someone assumed you were a virgin? Do people say this to you often? Because they sound like douchebags.

No. 63428

>>63426
I have faith that you will have true friends one day. It seems like you have some personal stuff that you need to sort out, first.

No. 63429

>>63424
>Do you think that a woman having sex with you shows respect?

I'd say so. Women don't like to have sex with men they view as pushovers, so there has to be some form of respect there. So in the case of the attractive douchebag, a woman would respect his gusto, regardless of whether or not they agree with his "problematic" opinions or attitude. Assertiveness, confidence, all these things are considered attractive to women. And these things often come with being a douche, especially when it comes to the kind of guy that is chasing women (and gets a lot of women, "Chad")

No. 63430

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No. 63431

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>>63427
Most people are douchebags. They usually treat women nicely and they're unkind to men like me. I have a hard time finding people that aren't douchebags. So I just stay lonely. It's not that big a deal but I do feel really bad about it some nights, like there's a void in my chest just sucking away at every pleasant emotion. I also have imaginary friends and an imaginay girlfriend I enact scenarios with them in my head of how I'd like life to be.
>>63428
I think that any personal issues I have derive from my situation rather than the other way around.

No. 63432

>>63421
>who don't want to have kids?
are you trying to imply these people don't have sex?
no one in college wants to have kids but that's where the most sex is

hormones can only effect sex drive, hormones can't physiologically make you want kids.

No. 63434

>>63431
This breaks my heart, anon! Have you ever talked to someone IRL about this, like a counselor?

No. 63435

>>63432
I have sex but I don't want kids.

No. 63436

>>63425
>he likes video games. virgin
>he likes comic books. virgin
there are lot of things and hobbies that are associated with male virginity.
when I was in the chess club in highschool everyone made fun of it and called it the virgin club.

No. 63438

>>63429
You can be assertive and confident without being a douchebag. Do you think women choose to have sex out of respect or attraction?

No. 63440

>>63436
Video games and comics are very popular. I wouldn't assume that someone who likes then is a virgin.

Kids and teenagers are cruel. I fucking love chess. Adults don't care about that shit. I also love Sudoku and puzzles. Do you think that I'm a virgin?

No. 63441

>>63438
I believe their attraction is tied in with respect for the most part.

And yes, you can absolutely be assertive and confident without being a douche. That doesn't mean douchey confident assertive guys don't get a lot of women. You can be real picky when it comes to regular old Joes, but Chads are in shorter order.

No. 63442

>>63441
Do you think that attraction is subjective?

No. 63443

>>63441
But who cares about what the douchey guys do? Fuck them! Leave them to their unhappy failed relationships.

Do you aspire to be chad, or do you resent him?

No. 63445

>>63442
I guess english isn't your first language.

No. 63446

>>63442
Of course, people have different tastes, and everyone has their own reality. But we are all of the same species and share a lot of the same traits. Women are no exception from this.

>>63443
Neither. I don't want to be a douchebag, but I do want to be a respectable man who can be a leader in his monogamous relationship. Unlikely that'll ever happen in this day and age, though.

No. 63449

File: 1453719778787.png (278.04 KB, 638x479, aiko.png)

>>63434

You don't have to feel bad for me. I'm not a NEET, I live on my own and I've at least experienced love, romance and sex before, which is more than what most robots have. I think as far as things go, for someone like me, I could be a lot worse off.

I haven't spoken to a counselor about this but I do take anti-anxiety medication, which mostly allows me to talk to people and make casual acquaintances like a normal human being without producing a restaurant's worth of spaghetti from my pockets, but it's no miracle worker. I don't think a counselor could do much for me, I need friends not to be psychoanalysed.

No. 63450

>>63440
You're not a man.

No. 63451

>>63445
I'm sorry for misunderstanding. Could you clear it up for me? Do you think that attraction is subjective?

No. 63452

>>63443
>Do you aspire to be chad, or do you resent him?
well chad is happy with his life while i am not
I resent chad because I cannot be chad.
no matter how much "just b urself" and "it's all confidence" advice you give is all meaningless if you are born with an ugly or average face

No. 63453

>>63446
I hope those things for you, too! But why don't you think it will happen? Those seem like realistic goals to me.

No. 63456

>>63451
Do you realize attraction has nothing to do with subjectivity? Weren't you meant to say the word "beauty" instead?

No. 63458

>>63456
It's a mistake anyone could make, it is a bit late.

>>63451
I answered you here
>>63446

No. 63459

>>63449
It was more of your description of the hole in your chest that make me feel for you. You don't deserve that. You deserve to be happy and fulfilled.

Not all counselors are head-shrinkers. A lot of them just talk and ask you questions about your life. I just think it could be helpful to have an impartial person IRL to vent to.

No. 63460

>>63450
How does that chance anything? Those things are popular with men and women.

No. 63462

>>63460
*change

No. 63463

>>63459
No one deserves to be happy and fulfilled. No one is entitled to anyone's attention or affection, least of all me. And I don't particularly want to embarrass myself by venting to a psych, it's embarrassing enough doing it on an anonymous imageboard.

No. 63464

>>63456
I think attraction is subjective. A man I find attractive could be butt-ugly to one of my friends. Everyone is attracted to their own "type". Everyone has different values.

No. 63466

File: 1453720281836.png (227.27 KB, 314x438, 1446323030259.png)

>all this armchair psychology ITT

No. 63467

>>63463
I think everyone deserves to be happy and fulfilled. No one is entitled to your attention…but a counselor is. That's totally their job.

I know that I feel better after having a good rant to someone who is actually listening. And who better than a third party? They would surely give you an honest opinion. They have no dog in your race, so to speak.

No. 63468

>>63464
I'm not debating your opinion. I'm debating your english skills.

No. 63469

>>63466
Most real psychologists use an armchair anyway.

No. 63470

>>63466
Lol we're just having a conversation. What's with all these robots thinking that we're trying to crack their heads like an egg?

No. 63471

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>>63467
I haven't got the money for it either way.

No. 63472

>>63468
I don't understand. Did I not explain myself clearly?

No. 63473

>>63472
>I don't understand.
Sorry I can't help you.

No. 63475

>>63471
That sucks. I hate how expensive health care is in some parts of the world.

I know you won't believe me, but I think there's a good person inside you. You just built up a lot of walls around yourself. You're a good dude, and I wish you happiness.

No. 63477

>>63473
Well I didn't mean "beauty is subjective" (I mean, that is true), but I was talking about attraction in general being subjective.

No. 63478

>>63475
I appreciate it. I think most robots are good people.

It just clocked past midnight where I live so I'm going to bed. Goodnight.

No. 63479

>>63472
I think you're being meme'd on, I (the person that question was originally aimed at) understood what you were asking so their shitposts were pointless.

No. 63480

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>>63430

This is me

No. 63481

>>63477
Then it's attractiveness, not attraction.

No. 63482

>>63479
I agree. I think I hit a nerve, so he's pulling a isuddenlycantread.jpg

No. 63483

>>63481
Okay. But my point is the same.

No. 63485

File: 1453720796771.jpg (55.03 KB, 756x754, 1453350434874.jpg)

>>63483
>But my point is the same.
You said this same shit in different words like 3 times already. Are you brain damaged?

No. 63487

>>63482
Well, at the very least I feel like we had a decent discourse. That's a first for me on this site. Time to hit the sheets.

No. 63490

>>63487
>>63482
>>63479
Sorry for correcting someone's english

No. 63491

>>63490
Apology accepted,

cunt.

No. 63493

>>63491
kill yourself you worthless piece of shit nigger

No. 63494

>>63491
getting this triggered over his own mistake

AYY LMAO

No. 63495

>>63491
>HOW DARE YOU MAKE ME LOOK STUPID FUCK YOU

No. 63496

>>63494
>>63495
You guys are severely confused.

No. 63498

>>63491
>I CAN'T ACCEPT MY TRIVIAL MISTAKE AND MOVE ON

No. 63501

>>63491
>ANYONE WHO CRITICIZES ME NO MATTER HOW INCONSEQUENTIAL THE CRITICISM WAS IS A FUCKING CUNT LOLOL

No. 63503

>>63491
Are you genuinely retarded?

No. 63506

>>63503
I'm so confused. What is happening? Who is mad at who? I need an adult.

No. 63508

>>63506
He's either too retarded to actually understand what I said or is just purposely ignoring the point, so I thought I might as well get some shitposting out of my system.

>your post contains a mistake; that's not how english works

>huh? why are disagreeing with my opinions?
>I said your post contains a mistake, the word you're looking for is "attractiveness", not "attraction". I didn't talk about your opinions at all
>lol r my opinions triggering you stupid cunt?

No. 63510

>>63508
Well do you seem to be pretty stuck on a simple error with word choice. I think the other anon just started to troll you back.

No. 63511

>>63510
I think he desperately wants me to argue with his opinions

No. 63512

>>63511
Why the emphasis on "opinions"? What are you trying to imply?

No. 63513

>>63470
I'm not a robot. I think both of you are equally retarded. Him for thinking whatever he thinks and you for unironically engaging him.

No. 63514

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No. 63515

>>63511
I think that anon was trying to get you to stay focused on the discussion, and not their word choice.

No. 63516

>>63515
I wasn't in the discussion in the first place.

No. 63525

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>>63478

>I think most robots are good people.

No. 63536

File: 1453730038789.png (268.86 KB, 450x325, 1453726800117.png)

Remember to be yourself and confident robots! Girls dig confidence!

No. 63538

>>63536
what's the problem? the guy on the right looks super cute. He just needs someone to take him to a hairdresser, buy him a facial wash and help him with his beard.

My grandmother always said, a man needs to be only slightly more handsome than satan. For a dude it's your personality, financial stability and bod that are more important, and the bod isn't even necessary.

No. 63541

>>63538
>financial stability
that's where you will lose most robots
at best the average robot will be a poor college student and at worst homeless. they have homeless survival guides on /r9k/ every 3 days

No. 63543

>>63538

Yep betabux is great while fucking the guy on the left :3

No. 63544

>>63536
Omfg are you one of those dudes who posts on lookism.net? Because they post the guy on the right all the time in reaction pics and shit.

No. 63545

>>63536
Dude looks like Adam Driver

No. 63546

>>63543
>Tfw you huddle against your conspiracy theories at night for warmth…but at least you aren't giving your precious resources to the females

No. 63564

File: 1453738039699.png (99.43 KB, 447x275, 1453726037586.png)

>go to my first therapy session today
>overall goes great
>feeling kind of good
>get back home
>dad asks if I heard from the jobs I applied
>say no
>he starts raging calling me a loser faggot that will never amount to anything
>says he wish he made mom abort me instead of my so to be older brother
>says I'm an embarrassment to his name
>says wish he came outside
>say I'm trying my best to find a job and set my life straight
>he laughs and says once a failure always a failure, just fucking die already
>threatens to throw me out

Y-yeah, CBT is sure gonna work right.

No. 63569

>>63564
Your dad's reaction has nothing to do with the effectiveness of CBT. He is uninvolved in your therapy. Maybe you should ask your counselor how you should deal with your dad flying off the handle.

Why do you still live with him?

No. 63570

>>63564
Your dad sounds like a fucking asshole who you need to get away from

No. 63574

File: 1453740424210.jpg (116.35 KB, 640x960, 1433100187909.jpg)

>>63569

I failed two years in college because of money problems and stuff and can't find a job due to that, no one wants to hire a guy without a degree and all entry level jobs are snatched by Syrians who work for peanuts. I do so freelance translation once in a while but it's not enough, our financial problems are really severe so he's really pissed that I'm not working and sit at home all day since I don't wanna spend money but loitering outside. I have no where else to lean on but my family.

>>63570

I understand why he treats me like this, no father should have a son like me.

No. 63581

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>>63574
I was sympathetic and wanted to give you advice until

>>no one wants to hire a guy without a degree and all entry level jobs are snatched by Syrians who work for peanuts.

No. 63583

File: 1453742533837.gif (1.68 MB, 504x279, 1411895947503.gif)

>>63581

I'm not living in a super rich 1st world country. Job market was already shitty enough here with people wanting your soul for minimum pay. I was working at a grocery store but boss said he couldn't handle paying me anymore and fired me, next week saw two Syrians working there. Applied to almost 100 jobs in last two months none of them called me back. Worked in construction for a bit but got fired from there too since we were "costing" too much. Employers have to pay you minimum wage+benefits here by law and can't work you more than 40 hours without paying overtime so lots of small establishment and jobs like construction is getting hard to find. I don't mind them working for their survival, I have no problem with them since they're also trying to survive just like me, I'm just stating the situation right now.

No. 63586

>>63574
Come on, you aren't that horrible. You said you were trying to find work, and do freelance on occasion. I'm sure you have lots of admirable qualities.

No. 63587

>>63583
How did you know that they were from Syria? Did you ask them?

No. 63589

>>63587

We have almost three million Syrians here since we are neighbor countries, they usually have a different complexion and face structure than us, I can tell most of the time.

No. 63594

>>63589
So you're assuming that they are Syrian?

No. 63595

>>63376
Bullshit it's always sex

No. 63597

>>63594

They may be, they may not be why are you getting so anal about this? I didn't meant what I said like "THEY'RE TOOKIN ER JERBS", I'm not lazy about work, I did jobs you wouldn't even imagine doing. I'm just having a hard time finding one since war at Syria started and refugees started to flood in, so I'm just trying to run a cause and effect logic here.

No. 63598

You know, maybe the robots are right. We are all animals and in the spirit of evolution the betas should never get the opportunity to reproduce. You have no desirable or redeemable qualities so stop trying altogether. You won't be able to poison the alpha gene pool. If you do reproduce you'll only make more subhumans for the alphas to dominate. Accept your fate and leave women alone. I think they've made it abundantly clear they don't want you.

No. 63601

>>63564
I was in your position once. CBT will help, but your toxic environment will bring you down. I understand that because you have no income you can't move out. I tried to avoid my mom like the plague if at home. It's always good at least to have some support rather than none. Slowly with therapy you'll be able to build yourself up so that you're not torn up about the stupid shit your dad says.

No. 63607

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>>63601

He didn't used to be like this. He was a normal loving father in the past but he got in to jail because of debts once and we lost all our money in a failed business. He been angry and bitter since then and of course his son ended up like this instead of a one he can be proud of. I just can't be angry with him.

No. 63608

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>>63543
Using a robot as beta bux is only acceptable if it's up front and consensual. Do I think betas should be bullied in every way possible? Yes. But not in a mean way. I don't agree with lying to someone or injuring them permanently for example.

No. 63609

>>63608

How do you bully someone in a non-mean way?

No. 63611

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>>63608

Why do you hate them so much? What did they do to you?

No. 63614

>>63611
Personally speaking, I would not waste my time bullying someone I hated. Unless you are a sadist you will never understand why it's so much fun to make a shy beta cry and then be nice to him (or her). Being in a faux relationship with one and cheating on them all the time is probably the ultimate form of bullying.

No. 63617

>>63611
Exist

No. 63622

>>63614
You sound like an awful person. Jesus.

No. 63623

>>63614
You forgot to mention the part where you don't sleep with the beta

No. 63624

>>63623
For a beta it is enough that their friends and relatives think they are finally in a real relationship.

No. 63627

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No. 63630

>>63627
Who wants to date a subhuman? The whole point is to get a fit mate. Why pass down beta genes?

No. 63632

>>63630
If more people had this attitude then we would better off as a species. No more chavs, fatties, mixtape compilers, snackbars, autists, etc.

No. 63633

>>63630
I want to date a subhuman.

They don't want to date me.

No. 63634

>21st birthday is tomorrow
>never been to a bar before but I'm going to try going to a few
>no IRL friends, gonna be alone

holy fuck I'm scared. I just know this is gonna blow up in my face somehow but I have to try.

No. 63635


No. 63658

>>63633
You must be subhuman yourself or depraved

No. 63663

>>63658
I'm just lonely.

No. 63665

>>63663
Are you male, female, or robot?

No. 63670

What are you lads listening to?

No. 63672

>>63665
Male, obviously.

No. 63673

>>63672
>robot confirmed

No. 63676

Hello robots. I got a question for you. I was reading about the hilarious failed /tradfem/ thread over on /pt/ and it got me thinking:
Do you guys just want a more "traditional" girl? Like some submissive housewife type. Or maybe a "redpilled" girl or qt nerd.
Or will any girl honestly do as a companion, even if she's radically different than what you wanted, as long as she actually loves you?

No. 63677

>>63676
I certainly don't want to be with some feminist sleeparounder. I believe long term relationships break down very badly when the man isn't the "pants-wearer" so to speak, so yeah I'd want a more traditional girl. I think most robots would just be happy with anything, though.

No. 63682

>>63676
most robots don't have high if any standards
as long as she's not a tumblr ultra feminist leftist that will cheat and sleep around claiming she is sexually liberating herself

personally I would like a girl that was like me and into psychonautics

No. 63684

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>>63676

I want a girl I love and I can respect. I don't care if she wants to be a traditional homemaker or if she's ambitious or if she's just a lazy nerd, so long as I think she's intelligent, I can respect her and I value her input. Relationships should be a two way street of mutual trust and respect. I don't want the burden of having to manage everything by myself but I don't want to be bossed around either.

>Or will any girl honestly do as a companion, even if she's radically different than what you wanted, as long as she actually loves you?

It feels that way tbh. I don't think I have high standards, but there are definitely things I'm not willing to compromise on as well. I certainly wouldn't want to marry a girl I didn't respect or I felt didn't respect me. I'd still bang her though.

No. 63687

>>63676
I'm not sure I could live with an sjw cunt

No. 63694

File: 1453771585650.png (65.4 KB, 1979x503, __.png)

>dating a robot
>ever
ISHYGDDT

No. 63695

>>63676

No. Some qt ambitious dom-type girl who wants kids. The rest would be me leading them on. I don't want someone who has opinions I don't respect (tumblr sjw/redpillers). Everyone's different, though.

No. 63696

>>63694
He got a cute gf. He's not a robot, he's a Chad.

No. 63697

The fact that it seems that almost every robot exclusively associates feminism, like literally the historical fight for women's equal rights, with negativity is enough to make me stay the hell away from them forever.

I would never, EVER behave that way around a boyfriend that was interested in men's social equality.

No. 63698

>>63697
You farmers hate SJW and tumblr more than we do.

No. 63700

>>63698
>males in charge of having a relevant argument

No. 63702

File: 1453774670679.jpeg (717.52 KB, 1831x2412, image.jpeg)

Guys, the robots are right. We get to choose our mates, unlike back in the day when they would sell us. That means the natural balance is restored. Just like peacocks put on a show, and how guppies perform a dance, men must participate in courtship display. Isn't it great.

No. 63703

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>>63698

Yes, because SJW's are entirely synonymous with feminism.

I watched Suffragette over the weekend so this kind of thinking only riles me further.
Modern men really have no idea the disgraceful conditions we existed in and just how few rights we actually had, even up until my mother's generation, but after the fight has been partially won they actually possess the gall to turn round and trash talk feminism like it's some kind of joke that was never necessary in the first place.

Who am I kidding though, it's not like any of these penis people are actually capable of independent thought. They're merely an echo of the great /r9k/-hivemind.

No. 63705

>>63703
>Yes, because SJW's are entirely synonymous with feminism.
Pretty much, yeah. Many of the first suffragettes were man hating lesbians.
>Modern men really have no idea the disgraceful conditions we existed in and just how few rights we actually had
This is bullshit. Women worked, they weren't forced into marriage, domestic spousal abuse has always been a crime. The only thing men had that women didn't have was the right to vote, and men only had that for a few scant decades before women got it.

No. 63706

>>63705
>Many of the first suffragettes were man hating lesbians.
I don't blame them

No. 63707

>>63706
Then you can't blame us for hating you for hating us. Deal with it, SJW.

No. 63708

File: 1453775410458.jpg (7 KB, 276x182, 1387074080490.jpg)

>>63707
>the suffragettes were SJW!
hory shiet

No. 63709

>>63708
Ask Erin Pizzey, the founder of the first ever women's refuge, about how they killed her dog because she wasn't willing to demonise men.

No. 63710

>>63705

Most Suffragettes had husbands actually, so there goes your first argument of the window.

>women worked


That were expected to work whilst handling all the domestic duties and childcare whilst being paid as little as half as less as the men and not being allowed to vote.

Also in the UK the domestic violence and matrimonial proceedings act wasn't initiated until 1980 you ignorant ballsack.

No. 63711

>>63709
Ask about who were the ones that voted on shoving feeding tubes up women's nostrils for peacefully protesting.

No. 63712

>>63710
>whilst being paid as little as half as less as the men

Because it was part time work and it wasn't as labour intensive or as dangerous as the work men were expected to do.

>Also in the UK the domestic violence and matrimonial proceedings act wasn't initiated until 1980


That doesn't mean that physical assault was legal before 1980, you mensturating hoebag.

No. 63713

File: 1453775791414.jpg (46.71 KB, 305x381, Suffragette-force-fed2.jpg)

Oh yes, how privileged the Suffragettes were, being subjected to extreme police brutality for daring to request equality amongst their male counterparts, being smeared and unlawfully imprisoned on trumped up charges in an attempt to silence them, and then held down and forcibly fed via a tube ran down their throat directly into their stomachs when they refused food in protest.

They were all just man-hating lesbians clearly. Listen to the /robot/ girls, he knows the truth ;)

No. 63714

>>63712
>it wasn't as labour intensive
WOWOWOW

No. 63715

>>63713
>daring to request equality amongst their male counterparts

Men and women were already equal and have been for pretty much all of history in European, western culture. Pretending otherwise is lunacy. What so called "suffragettes" were proposing was far left marxist talking points seeking to demonise men and demonise the structure of the typical family and they roped a bunch of well meaning women like Erin Pizzey in it using voting rights (which men also didn't have for the vast majority of history, given democracy, let alone widespread democracy available to the population regardless of class, is a very modern practice) as a catalyst to win over useful idiots. Things like "Why don't women, who mostly work as receptionists and teachers aids, earning as much as men who risk their lives in gruelling physical labour down in the mines or in the military?", which is socialism.

No. 63716

>>63712
genuine question: why are you here? You clearly hate women. There's no reason for you to go out of your way to interact with us.

No. 63717

>>63716
I don't hate women. I'm just not ignorant about history and I hate SJWs.

No. 63718

>>63712

Actually, yes, it effectively was legal at the time due to social and domestic expectations at the time.
A man being arrested for things such as domestic abuse or matrimonial rape up until the 1980's were things very much unheard of. The vast majority of the time they were considered "civil disputes" and the police and subsequently the law offered little to no help to the women. They were considered to be aggravators and it was thought that if a husband were beating his wife, it was usually because he had a good reason to and she was typically advised to "stop nagging him" and likewise.

Don't try to tell me my own history Neckie, away with ye'.

No. 63719

>>63717

You obviously do considering you must stated that every woman giving for equality in the 1900's was a "man-hating lesbian".

You're cracked m8.

No. 63720

>>63697

You can thank tumblr for the good PR. It's hard to use the word feminist to describe your intentions unless you have some education on its history. Right now, guys' first interaction with feminism is usually some trendy tumblr SJW on a crusade for the groupthink. Most of us don't have a dog in the fight up until then.

If you want feminism to not be perceived as negative, you need to set the record straight. We inherently cannot define your movement for you because feminism is about equality for women by women. It's inherently not our space to talk - that would defeat the point. And I refuse to think that it's somehow our problem that the public face of feminism on social media has been in "Deus vult!" mode for the last 3-4 years. Most sensible men are pretty stoic and want to do the right thing, REEE in this thread aside.

No. 63721

>>63717
>I hate SJWs
You hate everyone who supports feminism, no matter what the definition of it is. Hint: 99% of this site does support at least 1st and 2nd wave feminism. I ask again: why are you here, talking to people you hate?

No. 63722

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No. 63723

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>>63718
>A man being arrested for things such as domestic abuse or matrimonial rape up until the 1980's were things very much unheard of. The vast majority of the time they were considered "civil disputes" and the police and subsequently the law offered little to no help to the women.
You saying it, doesn't make it true, because it's not. Ever hear of the "rule of thumb". Feminists like to use it as evidence that domestic abuse was prevalent before feminism, is well as other lunatic lies like "women were the property of their husbands". The only reason we even know about stuff like that was because it was written in papers at the time mocking the judge who came up with the idea, saying it wasn't reasonable and it never became law. The judge suggested it as a response to the HIGH NUMBER OF CONVICTIONS HE WAS FACING OF MEN ABUSING THEIR SPOUSES AND GOING TO GAOL BECAUSE OF IT.

>>63719
The leaders definitely were. The rest were just useful idiots who fell for their talking points. The victim narrative is always very persuasive.

>>63721
I highly doubt a board full of whores would support sex-negative second wave feminism.

>>63722
>I was just pretending to be retarded.

No. 63724

>>63717

>"I'm just not ignorant on history"

>"men and women are equal"

Not being allowed to vote, have maternal rights over your own children when you bore them for 9 months and birthed them, own property and report your husband for domestic abuse and rape is equal?

You obviously don't know anything about the post-Victorian UK and the 1900's West in general.

No. 63726

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>>63723

>a board full of whores


And yet here you are, on a board full of supposed whores, sniff, sniffing around for that sweet, sweet puss :^)

It's just a shame that we're not actually a board full of whores otherwise one of us would have offered to liberate you of your ever-persistent virginity ey' boy.

>INB4 "weeeeeh typical women wielding a man's virginity as a weapon!"


Much like how you label any woman you disagree with as a whore kek

No. 63727

>>63724
>Not being allowed to vote

In the UK, the time period between all men having the vote and all women having the vote is about ten years.

>have maternal rights over your own children when you bore them for 9 months and birthed them

What about paternal rights? Why should women have more rights over the kid than the father? This is what I mean when I say feminism is about destroying the typical family structure. Feminists wanted to take kids away from their fathers, and they were largely successful given how many kids these days are raised in fatherless homes. Unfortunately the feminists were wrong, they thought it would make kids better, but it just made them a hell of a lot worse.

>own property

Owning property was a fairly new concept for society and a post-feudal Europe. Actually purchasing property was out of the cost of most people, but women weren't forbidden from purchasing property, they just didn't because it was seen as the man's role, not the woman's. Poorer households would pool their money together and the house would be purchased in the name of the oldest male or the head of the household because of strict gender roles at the time.

>and report your husband for domestic abuse and rape is equal?

Anyone can go through court records from that time period and see that domestic abuse and rape charges were not uncommon. There was no legal barrier that prevented women for pressing charges against their husbands and to suggest otherwise is delusional.

We've also got to keep in mind that the vast, vast majority of men, at least in western, Christian culture, loved their wives and would never do such things.

>>63726
>And yet here you are, on a board full of supposed whores, sniff, sniffing around for that sweet, sweet puss :^)
It's delicious tbh.

No. 63729

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>>63723
>You saying it, doesn't make it true, because it's not. Ever hear of the "rule of thumb". Feminists like to use it as evidence that domestic abuse was prevalent before feminism, is well as other lunatic lies like "women were the property of their husbands". The only reason we even know about stuff like that was because it was written in papers at the time mocking the judge who came up with the idea, saying it wasn't reasonable and it never became law. The judge suggested it as a response to the HIGH NUMBER OF CONVICTIONS HE WAS FACING OF MEN ABUSING THEIR SPOUSES AND GOING TO GAOL BECAUSE OF IT.

>it never happened because I say so!!

No. 63730

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>>63729
>It happened because I say so.

No. 63731

>>63727

>a woman should have equal rights alongside the father in determining the upbringing and fate of their child

>"SEE THIS IS WHAT I MEAN, WOMEN HATE ALL MEN AND JUST WANT MORE RIGHTS AND WANT TO DESTROY FAMILY VALUES"

lol you didn't even answer that question, just sperged and started wailing about the degeneration of the nuclear family.

Up until the mid-1900's all children were considered the property of their fathers, FACT.
Explain to me how that it is equal.

No. 63732

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No. 63733

>we've also got to keep in mind that the vast, vast majority of men, at least in western, Christian culture, loved their wives and would never do such things

Oh God he actually believes this .
Just like how the vast, vast majority of Christian priests love children and would never harm them amirite kek

No. 63734

>>63727
>What about paternal rights?
>CUMMING IN BAGINA IS SOOOOOOO HARD LMAO
Take a break holy shit.

No. 63735

/robots/ are actual lunatics and this freak is a perfect example of exactly why the containment threads are necessary and why they need to be kept away from the rest of the board.

No. 63736

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>>63731
>a woman should have equal rights alongside the father in determining the upbringing and fate of their child

Well they've always had that, so any attempt by feminists to increase the rights of women there would diminish the right in men and destroy equality. You know, kind of like how it is today.

>Up until the mid-1900's all children were considered the property of their fathers, FACT.


You've misused the term "fact" here. A fact is something that is true, not the ramblings on a far left tumblr blog.

>>63733
Well the minority of priests in the catholic church are pedos, so that's true as well.

Simple fact is men in any time period aren't all that different than men from today. If you're going to claim that the majority of men in the past were rapists and abusers then you make the same claim of men in the present, or rather claim that they would be if it weren't for m-muh feminisms, which is obviously far from the truth. If you legitimately hold this view, then you're definitely a man hater.

>>63734
Lying on your back is easier tbh.

>>63735
>he's a freak because he has an understanding of history that goes beyond high school "men was so bad colonialism so bad" talking points
Kek. Stay toastie, roastie.

No. 63737

>>63727
>Why should women have more rights over the kid than the father?
Because women have to go through the pain of giving birth whereas all it takes for a man to reproduce is fucking someone. Guess which gender has better evidence to suggest they care about the child more.

No. 63739

>>63737
You think women have it bad? Men have to put up with women when they're pregnant. That's far more difficult than actual pregnancy.

No. 63741

>>63715
>>63727
Holy fucking shit really? Really? Is that all you've got to say for yourself you pathetic fucking dweeb. You don't know shit about anything. You are literally retarded, you stupid idiot. How the fuck is what you said even relevant. It's like you think with your ass you major fucking retard. Do you honestly think you can just shit on your keyboard and expect people to believe it? You're not a troll, you're not bait. You're a master faggot. Every point that you just made is stupid and irrelevant. Absolutely nothing you said was of any value. You are literally the stupidest mother fucker I have ever met. I can only imagine that the very very few people you come in contact with hate you too. You sit on your worthless fucking fat ass and do nothing all day but criticize things you know nothing about. Even if you did know anything you're way too fucking stupid to comprehend it. You are the scum of the fucking earth. An anime watching neckbeard faggot. Everything about you disgusts me. You will never be a normal person. You will never be smart. You will never be liked. I don't need a citation for that because that's just fucking fact. Your IQ and Chromosome are both 47, that means you're retarded you retard. Go fuck yourself with your cheeto covered hands you disgusting fuck. You wont tell me what you did today because you didn't do shit. You never fucking do shit. Everyday you spend in the monotony of your own pathetic failure of a life so you come here to shill your own retarded opinions of no value or thought. GO FUCK YOURSELF

No. 63742

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>>63741
So you have no argument so now you're just resulting to insults? Yawn.

No. 63743

>>63741
stale

No. 63744


No. 63745

>>63742

>can't identify copypasta

>saying we're resorting to insults when you called every woman on this board a whore just minutes ago

You're not too bright are you.

No. 63746

>>63745
>can't identify copypasta
But I can.
>saying we're resorting to insults when you called every woman on this board a whore just minutes ago
That was a joke sweetheart. I'm sure you're all lovely people.

No. 63748

>Domestic violence was also tolerated in historical England as long as it did not disturb public peace. A husband or master is legally entitled to beat and restrain his wife, child or servant as long as he did not kill them and disturb public peace. Husbands were also entitled to unrestricted access to his wife's body until the late 20th century where the concept of marital rape was recognized and criminalized.

>"i-its not true because I say so r-roasties!"

No. 63749

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>>63748
>wikipedia
You're a simple one, aren't you?

No. 63752

>>63749

I would say otherwise since you don't seem to understand that every Wikipedia article comes with a source.

I would goad you into trying to refute it (which you can't) but the fact that you've been dipping into your waifu reaction image folder tells me you lost this little argument a while ago.
Also kek'ing at how you obviously Googled the statement of my last post to attempt to discern it, saw it came from Wikipedia and realised you are fucked lel

No. 63754

I want to get off of this ruse cruise. Somebody stop the absolute madman.

No. 63755

>>63754

Me too.

No. 63756

>>63755
Me three. I don't understand why he doesn't feel embarrassed. Guess it doesn't happen when you have nothing to lose and are anon.

No. 63758

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>>63752
What you've got to understand is that lies, feminist lies, have entered mainstream discourse due to post-modern values denying the nature of the objective truth.

>"The very concept of objective truth is fading out of the world. Lies will pass into history." - George Orwell


The source for that quote in particular comes from feminist literature, which also espouses "truths" like the widely disproved "wage gap" and "patriarchy". Feminist "research" is the very example of confirmation bias, seeking ideas that support your theory rather than objectively exploring them. It's a big problem in far-left academia and humanities today, and this is an unfortunate biproduct around it, that allows it to poison public discourse.

Funnily enough that very wikipedia article reinforces my statement that women were allowed to own property, which you very strongly railed against. Naturally the source for that statement is from an actual historian, not a feminist scholar.

No. 63760

I'm really glad this hamgoblin isn't allowed out of his pen.

Thank you Admin-kun.

No. 63761

>>63760
But I post in other boards and other threads, I just don't talk about robot specific topics.

But trying to isolate me doesn't make me wrong.

No. 63762

>>63761

> [Robots should only use this thread. Those who post outside of it may be banned, depending on post content and history.]


You're not allowed to post outside of this thread.
Reported.

No. 63763

>>63756

Some of us are like this. Sorry. It's better to ignore them so they stop talking.

No. 63764

>>63762
Oh no, using a proxy is so hard :)

But if I don't post anything bannable out of this thread, then I haven't broken the rules.

I do find it funny though, the immediate SJW response to facts that contradict your belief is to seek to silence them and the people who speak them. Doesn't that clue you in to the fact that maybe your "side" isn't the right one?

No. 63765

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>>63763
>p-please have sex with me
Jesus you're pathetic.

No. 63766

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>>63764
>he needs to use a proxy to evade

No. 63767

>>63766
My job requires a static IP.

Not much that can be done about that unfortunately.

No. 63768

>>63764

If you think you're intelligent enough to outsmart our Admin with a shitty browser proxy, which you're not by the way, then go ahead and challenge him by all means.

Barring that, enjoy your corral.

No. 63769

>>63768
>shitty browser proxy
I have a VPN. Fortunately I won't need to use it, since I haven't broken any rules.

No. 63770

>>63769

>I haven't broken any rules.


>robots should only use this thread

>those who post outside of it may be banned, depending on post content and history

Blind and stupid apparently.

No. 63771

>>63770
>MAY
>depending on

Do you know what these words mean?

No. 63772

>>63764
You literally will say anything that fits your narrative. You don't say truths, everything you say is subjective.

No. 63773

>>63763
I'm sure not engaging them would work, then he'd feel some unwarranted pleasure from thinking he won some debate.

No. 63774

>>63773
I win whether you respond or not, because you just respond with easily disproved nonsense.

You can't defend a position that's inherently indefensible, which all SJW talking points are.

No. 63775

>>63771

Well you've already admitted to being from /r9k/ multiple times and your post history is meninist, revisionist garbage and you're admitting to posting outside of this board in multiple threads so bye.

No. 63776

>>63774

Interesting because you haven't provided one sourced fact to back up your garbage statements, because "the feminists destroyed all the evidence!" lel

No. 63777

It's this disgusting attitude that you think women can't see through. Sure you don't approach women with this shit attitude, but people can pick up on subtle nuances, preferred topics of conversation, and word choice. As much as you try to have confidence and not display your repulsive personality, everyone can see it.

No. 63779

>>63775
> meninist, revisionist garbage
Seriously? Did I take a left turn and end up on tumblr somehow? Even if this were a thing, it isn't against the rules. The admin doesn't ban people because you don't like them. And the disclaimer at the beginning of this thread is that if you shitpost about /r9k/ outside of this thread, you get banned, which I don't do.
>so bye.
I'm still here and I'm not going.

>>63776
I don't even have to, that one poster who posted the wikipedia linked proved my point about property ownership.

>>63777
I'm a fairly nice person, I respect women and I have had several relationships in the past. That doesn't mean feminism is correct and because I disagree with feminism, that doesn't make me a repulsive person. Also see >>62943

No. 63780

>>63774
that's a pretty pathetic way of thinking. What do you win? Your loneliness?

No. 63781

I have a question for robots…what is your relationship like with your parents?

No. 63782

>>63779
>I'm a fairly nice person, I respect women and I have had several relationships in the past.
Doubt every piece of this lol

No. 63784

>>63781
My parents are divorced. I get along well with my father. My mother and I have our ups and downs but we get along well with each other right now.

>>63782
Doubt it all you want. If you decided what was true and what isn't, then everything you've said about feminism would be true, but it isn't.

No. 63785

>I'm still here and I'm not going

>when your life is so devoid and lonely the not even /r9k/ wants you so you resort to shitposting on a female gossip board because you're so desperate for any semblance of female atte


Pretty sure this is the guy that stayed up 8 hours in a row in the last thread arguing pretty much the same shit FYI. The dude truly has no life.

No. 63786

Oh this is the faggot from last time who was arguing that repressed women who weren't allowed to take up higher education and careers were privileged because they got to do housework!

Gods is he STILL here?

No. 63787

>I respect women

>this board is full of whores

No. 63788

>>63786
Don't think I've ever make a claim like that. I would say that women who did do higher education were just like men who did higher education, the wealthy elite. There was no law that forbade women from attending higher education and most people did not attend higher education because they could not afford it and/or it was not viewed as a practical career choice at the time.

No. 63789

>>63779

Nice dodging the part about spousal abuse and domestic rape being legal until the mid-20th century tho.

Also the Wikipedia article stated that only single women and windows were allowed to own property, otherwise it went to the husband or eldest male of the household.

No. 63790

>>63789
>Nice dodging the part about spousal abuse and domestic rape being legal until the mid-20th century tho.

Already responded to that here >>63758

No. 63791

>>63788

You literally stated that women were privileged because they got to stay home and do housework instead of being allowed to go out and earn a wage and forge their own destiny in life.

This is why nobody treats your sad little arguments seriously when you even attempt to backpedal and disregard statements you made as little as a few weeks or less.

I also can't believe you're still here. I've just entered this thread and scrolling up shows you've been shitposting and spamming reaction images 4 hours now. You gonna make it 8 like last time too?

You were annoying at first but shit, now I just feel sorry for you. You must really not have anything else going on in your life.

No. 63792

>>63791
>You literally stated that women were privileged because they got to stay home and do housework instead of being allowed to go out and earn a wage and forge their own destiny in life.

Where did I say this? Quote me?

No. 63793

>>63784
Lol that wasn't me, nice try tho

No. 63794

I wonder after all this if this robot is going to retire to bed at 5:00 in the morning and say to himself "I accomplished something today"

And then tomorrow start it all over again.

No. 63795

>I respect women

>this board is full of whores

No. 63796

>>63794
I'll go to bed at 11 pm because I have a test tomorrow.

>>63795
Individuals earn respect, they are not entitled to it.

No. 63797

I think he's pretending to be a different robot now but his writing style and referencing is the exact same garbage as before. Most transparent cuck.

No. 63798

>>63797

I know right. He doesn't realise how obvious he is and it's making the entire situation even more pathetic…

No. 63799

>>63797
>>63798
I've made quite a few posts this thread, but if you're going to quote me on something I've said, you're going to have to quote it specifically instead of paraphrasing me.

No. 63800

>>63779
>Did I take a left turn and end up on tumblr somehow?
Wait, you didn't already equate this place to tumblr? Seems strange not to since you're already calling everyone support any flavor of feminism SJWs. Hmmmm

No. 63801

>>63799
No1111cuuurrrrr it's just painfully obvious.

No. 63802

>>63796

>individuals earn respect


Ah but you stated that you respect "women", plural. Individual denotes singularly.

Make up your mind Neckie, and stop trying to pretend you're a different guy from that last thread. It's painfully obvious it's you.
Also nobody cares if you have a test tomorrow, this is something you tell your friends about so coming here and trying to communicate your daily activities to us is making it pitifully clear that you possess none.

No. 63803

>>63799

>huh, what

>where!
>that wasn't me! That totally wasn't me!

Urghhh, I'm getting second hand embarrassment from this.

Has his reaction image folder run dry now or what?

No. 63804

>>63802
>Ah but you stated that you respect "women", plural. Individual denotes singularly.

By that I meant there are women that I respect and women are capable of earning my respect if they are nice, good people. Happy to clarify.

Also it seems you lot are more pathetic than me. Because I come here to talk to you, I'm pathetic, but you all who insult me for disagreeing with you on a website designed to bully other people you've never met seems a lot more pathetic to me.

But I'm sure there are nice people here too, which is why I come here to talk about a whole range of things.

No. 63806

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>>63803
How hard is it to quote a post? I'm starting to think you were paraphrasing a post that didn't exist at all.

>Has his reaction image folder run dry now or what?


Nope!

No. 63807

>>63804

>because I come here to talk to you, I'm pathetic


Yes, you are.
You're an adult, male virgin from /r9k/ who stays up late into the night on a predominantly female board posting for hours and hours on end about your fallacious ideologies when you're well aware that not a single person here cares or gives a shit, and you do so most likely because you don't have any friends in really life and as a result are devoid of both social and female attention and are incredibly lonely.

You're here to talk to us? Awwwww diddles - nobody here wants to talk to you, but as it happens we're getting a considerable amount of laughs watching you make a fool of yourself and repeatedly exhibiting your loneliness.

You should post a picture of yourself, I REALLY want to see what you look like.

No. 63808

>>63807
I'm not a virgin, it's 3 o'clock in the afternoon and my arguments aren't fallacious.

> that not a single person here cares or gives a shit

But it was you lot that brought it up, I merely responded.

>You're here to talk to us? Awwwww diddles - nobody here wants to talk to you

My skype contacts say otherwise. Maybe you're on my skype list, you just can't recognise who I am because I'm anonymous :)

>You should post a picture of yourself, I REALLY want to see what you look like.

I will if you post timestamped tits.

No. 63809

>my Skype contacts say otherwise
Anon has lots of friends from Reddit lol, upvoted

>I'm not a virgin.

Yes you are.

No. 63810


No. 63811

>>63808

Actually your post began in response to this one >>63703
Don't try to act like it's you just being blasé about this. You came in here looking for a fight like all penis people.

It's 3 in the afternoon then and you've been sat on your ass in a chair for the last 5 hours now posting continously, so you've been posting since 10 this morning, and you apparently have a test tomorrow…

>I have lots of Skype friends

>I'm not a virgin

Do you not see how embarrassing this is…

No. 63812

Sorry it actually began here >>63698

I'm not even going to wait to watch you scramble to try and divorce yourself from responsibility on this one after you just claimed that you were "merely responding" when you're painfully aware that nobody was talking to you in the first place.

I'm going to bed because I have a life and things to accomplish, but I am going to laugh when I look at this thread tomorrow and see that despite it apparently being 15:00 where you are and you having already been posting here for 5 hours straight, that you continued posting for 6, 7, 8, maybe even 9 or more hours afterwards.

Enjoy your, er, day Neckie…. stay productive lol

No. 63813

>>63808
>my arguments aren't fallacious
You're right. I don't think pulling horsecrap straight out of one's ass to use as "argument" and dismissing/ignoring all evidence to the contrary is even a fallacy. It's closer to being a colossal cockmongler actually.

No. 63814

>>63804
The world doesn't ascribe to what you "meant." You said what you said.

No. 63815

I guess his anime reaction folder finally ran out lmao

No. 63818

whchi guy wants 2 scracth my buthole

No. 63820

>>63818
scratch your own butthole

No. 63826

>>63820
oi fuck ya fgiut

No. 63835

How do you even open up conversations with girls? There's a girl in one of my classes who I think is qt and I've seen her look at me a few times (I know this doenst mean much, and as far as I know she could be doing so because she's disgusted by me)

Kinda tired of being like I am now tbh

No. 63836

>>63835
Dude, ask her for notes or something. Eventually you could study together or something.

No. 63844

>>63836
We also will be having groupwork this sem,but I doubt it'll go well. There's plenty of more attractive guys than me in the class so it's pretty pointless. I'm >>61874 and this is the first girl it hasn't entirely worked on. I still think she's pretty qt and I dont really believe my own stories I've made up about her

I'll try talking to her, but I'm not expecting anything more than me spaghetiing all over and watching her flirt with the Chad of the class.

No. 63851

>>63844
The group work might be iffy. You don't want to get stuck doing all the work nor do you want the distraction. Don't shoot yourself down before she does.

No. 63855

>>63844
Stop cockblocking yourself with thoughts of Chad!

If you get to class early, and you see her hanging around outside the room, just be all "hey you're in class xyz, right? I guess i'm actually early then!" And then strike up a conversation. Introduce yourself, and offer to swap notes before the next test or something.

No. 63863

>>63855
Oh god. Don't do this to them. Robots won't be capable of following this piece of instruction without fucking up.

No. 63865

>>63694

>robot

>having a gf

He is a filthy normalfag.

No. 63866

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This place is so easy to bait.

No. 63867

>>63863
I feel like some of them are looking for specific instructions on how to interact with women. Like a step-by-step guide or something.

If they actually know how to talk to another human being, and don't learn a script from some online pua bullshit, then i'm sure they will be fine.

There are a million ways to talk to a girl in class. Ask if she wants to study for a test together! Or proofread each other's essays! Or if the class you share is around lunch time, be like "hey i'm going to grab a sandwich and start today's readings! Wanna join me?" Ask about her other classes! Is she on any sports teams? Is there a campus event you guys could meet up at?

No. 63870

>>63676

I would like the latter better I think, I'm in to nerd shit like astronomy, weeb stuff and don't think a "normal" girl would enjoy them. I really would like going on stargazing hikes and watch anime with my gf if I ever have one. I just want someone who doesn't sleep around and fun to be around.

No. 63888

>>63583
I'm >>63581 and I haven't posted anything until now, don't know what the other anons were going on about.
may I ask which country you’re from? Sounds like southern Europe.

No. 63890

File: 1453816752716.png (1.4 MB, 2724x668, busdemon.png)

I'm not a robot, since I'm a Stacey with an instagram, but I came across this the other day and thought of you guys and how you say women can't be wizards

https://www.instagram.com/heiseverythingieverwant/

She's obsessed with some old bus driver guy. Gender is just a meme, women can have difficulty dating too.

No. 63891

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No. 63892

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No. 63893

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No. 63894

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No. 63897


No. 63899

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>>63897
>implying you wouldn't obsess over this hot piece of DILF

No. 63900

>>63888

Rather not say but let's just say almost Eastern Europe.

No. 63921

>>63291
getting sex and dates is not the same as being happy though

No. 63922

>>63890

But I don't understand. Why? She looks like a nice girl.

No. 63924

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>>63922
apparently he changed his bus route or something, and her autism prevents her from taking a different bus (???) so she's free. You can date her if you'd like.

No. 63928

>>63419
fucking destroyed

No. 63932

>>63900
as long as it's EU: What about applying for university in germany or some other rich country? I know so many greek, italian and bulgarian students who come here with no money and work something out. I don't know how exactly but you could find out if you tried. otherwise you have to learn to ignore your father. it's not your fault the economy is shit. you need higher education and in order to pursue this you need to be mentally stable so he should leave you the fuck alone. talk to your therapist about it, but other anons already suggested that…

No. 63936

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>>63932

It's not EU unfortunately. I'm studying to be a translator/English teacher but don't think Europe needs any since most people know English and they rather hire a native speaker I guess. I have some close friends I can get help if I do in Europe but guess I have to try and see. My biggest opportunity right now is teaching English in Japan, one of my old American professors started a language school in Niigata and since he knew that I can also speak Japanese, he offered me a job at there but I need to graduate and get my CELTA first for that.

No. 63937

>>63924

I know you're joking, but I don't want to date anyone right now for a variety of reasons. Anyways, I still don't get it. I haven't gone chasing after 40 year old bus drivers. I know lol autism, but it sounds like this girl actually has mental issues. Or she's being edgy.

No. 63955

>>63936
now you're really making me curious where you're from. you gave many hints so I think I have an idea (you don't need to answer, I'm kind of talking to myself).

going to japan sounds like a good plan. you should focus on this prospect in order to gain the strength to ignore your father. what he says isn't true. you're actively trying to change your situation, you're making plans and you are seeking help. you’re not passive or lazy. but you have to learn to keep people like your father from hindering your progress. you can’t change him and you can’t move out so you have to deal with him.

what about your native language? I don’t know which it is but at my university there are people desperately looking for someone who can translate albanian. if your language is rare chances are pretty high that there’s a historian somewhere who would be willing to pay you to translate some sources into english.

anyway, being fluent in english, japanese and some other language and having started an education as a teacher/translator really doesn’t sound as if your future is going to be fucked up as long as you pull through your current situation.

do you think your father would really throw you out or is it just an empty threat?

No. 63957

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>>63955

Don't really wanna say where I'm from because people tend to dislike us. Photos I post must be enough to get where I'm from I guess, well my native language is pretty useless unless you're in construction business working with Japan or Russia. I'm not exactly fluent in Japanese, I can watch Chinese cartoons without subs or play voiced games and speak enough to get by but can't write at all. Well don't think he will but he's been getting really pissed about money and he's getting really unstable lately(anger bursts, yelling etc. he didn't do anything like this before), he was not like this 2-3 years ago. Getting in to jail because of debts really fucked his pride up I think, so I'm guessing he won't do it but can't be %100 sure. It really hurts me to see him like this since he used to be such a sweet person.

No. 63958

>>63957
>because people tend to dislike us.
t*rkey?

No. 63959

>>63866
>not knowing the goal is to get robots to chimp out, show their true colors, and listen to their programmed bullshit

No. 63960

>>63958
I only know that armos hate them

No. 63961

>>63957
I know where you're from. Please don't tell them, we don't need anymore hate.

No. 63962

>>63958

ding ding

>>63961

Well foreign people I get close with love me, I only get hate on internet. I have loads of foreign friends around the world, never got any hate from.

>>63960

Well they have every right to.

Let's see what this youtube bar is for.

No. 63966

>>63962
I'm >>63955. Seriously, Turkey? I was thinking Aserbaidschan or something but I didn't know people from Turkey get so much hate. Erdogan maybe, but not the turkish population in general. But maybe I'm naive.

>>Well they have every right to.


that statement makes you the most respectable turkish person.

>>It really hurts me to see him like this since he used to be such a sweet person.


How old is your father? my father made a similar transformation and it got worse with age and stress. don't take it personal and view it as some kind of illness.
I’d recommend therapy for him as well but since he’s old he probably doesn’t believe in this kind of stuff. at least my father doesn’t.

No. 63968

>>63855
No point in him even attempting anything if there are multiple chads in the class tbh
I've been there

No. 63969

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Then how do I improve myself?
What do lasses look for in a lad?

No. 63970

Does everybody hate Turkey? I've never heard this before.
I know that a lot of the Turkish male nationals are very perverted but even though they flirt a lot they are usually very respectful and polite, at least to me they are.

No. 63971

>>63969

Aesthetically or in personality?

No. 63972

>>63971
Personality
Working on lifting right now and seeing results

No. 63973

>>63966

Well since we have a Muslim heavy population people tend to be prejudiced against us, Erdogan acting like a nutjob and actively supporting ISIS also doesn't help to restore our image. I usually get along well after spending some time with foreign people but they act really cold to me at first. Only didn't get prejudice from Japanese people when I was there I think, I got mistaken for a Russian in Hokkaido a lot though they really don't like Russians there. We were on the way to become a normal country but after AKP got elected in 2002 everything got fucked, "economy" got better but only for already rich people, there is a huge cliff between rich and poor in Turkey now. 1 $ was 1.4 liras two years ago, now it's 3.1 liras every imported electronics hell even food costs triple here. His time is running out though, economy has been in shitters since the last election and even his huge "supporters" are starting to complain about him since they're losing money because of the exchange rate.

Dad is 53, I have a bit of a thin skin so I really get upset when people insult me one of the things I gotta improve.

>>63969

I'll list things I'm doing man.

>look for work, any work

>exercise for fucks sake, don't be a fat ass(I am a recovering one)
>be well read
>try socializing more
>be well dressed
>pick up active hobbies
>go see a pro if you are fucked in the head
>be respectful, don't be a mememaster spewing hate
>act civil
>try to be more assertive

>>63970

Read stuff I wrote, our immigrants are mostly horrible backwards people so people tend to judge us negatively from that.

No. 63974

>>63973
>assertive
Fuck…

No. 63975

>>63974

Well that's the hardest part for me too, I'm really soft spoken and quiet. It's really hard to change.

No. 63977

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>>63975
I can do it.
I am full of determinasian.

No. 63978

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>>63977

JUST DO IT

No. 63979

>>63972

Hm, well I've been with my boyfriend 9 years now since we were both 15, and what I love about his personality primarily is that he can really make me laugh, like almost screaming because I'm laughing so hard.
Humour doesn't come naturally to everybody however, but a few of the other things I like about him is that even though he's not naturally the most academic person, whereas I'm naturally very academic, he's always fighting and working really hard to gather more knowledge even though I know he struggles reading with his dyslexia, which demonstrates discipline and determination.
He loves animals, especially cats, so he's a really kind and gentle person. He's also very, very active. I think a person being active enough is really important because inactivity leads to the degradation of the mind and "soul", if you believe in such a thing. Basically doing nothing turns you into a shitty person with no real essence or animus.
Even if you're not so much into sports, it's really important that you maintain interests and hobbies AWAY from your computer, stuff like reading, singing, playing an instrument, dancing, drawing, painting, sculpting etc.

To be a "good" person you must try most days to do something that makes you more valuable, such as gathering more knowledge through reading or study, or practicing a hobby or sport. Every single day I try to read, study, draw or dance even if it's only for 30 minutes.

>>63973

>I'll list things I'm doing man


It's really, really good that you are taking active steps towards bettering yourself intellectually, but remember that you should be doing these things for yourself first and foremost.

Also how is your English so good. You must already be a pretty intelligent person, you type like a native.

>>63974
>>63975

I don't think assertiveness is necessarily a required trait in a person.
What is required is that you're able to lend strength to your conviction i.e., you don't have to get everybody to agree with you on a debate point, but it's really important that if you really, truly believe in something that you stand by that point and offer reasons as to why, however it's also fine to allow yourself to be swayed by a superior argument.

You know I think you guys could really benefit from studying the Tao Te Ching. Everybody should own a copy because the teachings really are invaluable to ones personal growth.

My favourite quote is:

>Water is fluid, soft, and yielding. But water will wear away rock, which is rigid and cannot yield. As a rule, whatever is fluid, soft, and yielding will overcome whatever is rigid and hard. This is another paradox: what is soft is strong.


I try to live my life like water.

No. 63982

I'm gonna post some more quotes from Laozi/Tao Te Ching.

>“Under heaven all can see beauty as beauty only because there is ugliness.

>All can know good as good only because there is evil.”

No. 63983

>>63982

>“The heart that gives, gathers.”

No. 63984

>“Those who know don’t talk. Those who talk don’t know. Close your mouth, block off your senses, blunt your sharpness, untie your knots, soften your glare, settle your dust. =
>This is the primal identity. Be like the Tao. It can’t be approached or withdrawn from, benefited or harmed, honored or brought into disgrace.
>It gives itself up continually. That is why it endures."

No. 63986

>>63973
yeas, prejudice towards people from muslim countries is pretty big in Europe. anyway, lets not even start this topic here…
I hope your situation will improve soon. at least the advice you’re dishing out is pretty good.

>>63969
there's not one thing lasses look for in a lad. improve yourself but learn to deal with the fact that some people will still not like you and some girls will still not want to fuck you.

No. 63987

This one is very, VERY important.

>“Shape clay into a vessel;


>It is the space within that makes it useful.
>
Cut doors and windows for a room;

>It is the holes which make it useful.

>Therefore benefit comes from what is there;

>Usefulness from what is not there.”

No. 63988

The highest goodness resembles water
Water greatly benefits myriad things without contention
It stays in places that people dislike
Therefore it is similar to the Tao

Dwelling with the right location
Feeling with great depth
Giving with great kindness
Speaking with great integrity
Governing with great administration
Handling with great capability
Moving with great timing

Because it does not contend
It is therefore beyond reproach

No. 63989

>>63979

I always had a knack for languages, my uncle had a jewelry store in Sultanahmet and sometimes I've gone to hang in there when I was a kid. Loved mingling with tourist there, started to pick up some English here and there by the time I realized at 12 I was speaking English fluently, same thing happened with Japanese picked it up just by talking to Japanese teachers at my school and watching anime. I wanted to study something about space sciences(astronomy, astrophysics, aerospace engineering)since I was a kid but I'm a literal retard when it comes to math so I decided to focus on languages.

No. 63990

>>63986
>yeas, prejudice towards people from muslim countries is pretty big in Europe

and do you know how christians get treated in some muslim countries? The literally are not allowed into certain places, have less legal rights and can even be sentences to prison for not being muslim. But no whine more to me ahmed about how someone said they didn't like the refugee rapes in koln.

No. 63991

>>63989

>since I was a kid but I'm a literal retard when it comes to math so I decided to focus on languages


Have you ever been tested for Dyscalculia? People who have it (myself included) usually excel dramatically in language. The reverse usually occurs with Dyslexia, whereas people who are bad with language excel in math (I also really struggled in math and couldn't pass basic math in highschool. The shapes of the numbers just don't make sense in my head and I also cannot read analog clocks).

In Turkey do they have an equivalent for the TEFL qualification (teaching English as a foreign language)? You should also look into signing up for the JET programme and put your talents to good use.

ところで, 私は大学で日本語をべんきょうします。
カタカナとひらがなを読むことができますか?

No. 63993

>>63990
Two wrongs don't make a right. Or to put it in more christian words

>>Not rendering evil for evil, or railing for railing: but contrariwise blessing; knowing that ye are there unto called, that ye should inherit a blessing.


>>But no whine more to me ahmed about how someone said they didn't like the refugee rapes in koln.


I'm a german woman so please educate me on Köln.

I wish I haven’t started this…

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>>63990

Arab governments are scum man, Turkey may be bad but not that bad.

>>63991

Nope never, I couldn't helped with my sisters homework when she started school past 4th grade, I'm literally retarded. I have no problems like yours though, guess I'm just not smart enough for math.

Well we have TOEFL and IELTS. I got full marks from TOEFL but most teaching jobs require you to get CELTA.

>ところで, 私は大学で日本語をべんきょうします。

カタカナとひらがなを読むことができますか?

I can only pick out college and study, I'm still trying to learn how to read and write.

No. 63995

>>63994

You should totally get on that then man.
Japan has the 3rd largest economy at the moment and it's only getting bigger. Having the ability to translate between 3 languages, especially English and Turkish, would be really beneficial. You could even go into interpretation at police stations, airports, courts, etc., or teaching, or international relations between Turkey and Japan. Just Googled it and Turkey has an embassy in Shibuya, Tokyo.

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>>63995

Yeah, they also have one here in Taksim. I had a Japanese course there. I used to work in airports and tourism agencies as a guide but they passed some laws so you need a permit for that now. I've been doing translation and interpreting since four years ago but there is little money to be made as a freelancer, you gotta know people at companies so you get a steady work flow.

No. 64000

>>63997

Are you the buzz cut guy from the other thread?

No. 64001

>>63969
Personality wise: funny, adventurous, hard working, intelligent, open minded, slightly stubborn, non-romantic(hate cheesy stuff but like thoughtful small gestures like randomly bringing me a Coke), risk aversive, non-confrontational, a thinker not a feeler….
Physically: Asian, thin to average body mass, don't care about muscles, at least 5'6"

I also am probably the only person who prefers virgins.

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>>64000

Y-yeah, I don't have many female friends so thought I ask for some opinions here.

No. 64003

>>64001
Almost exactly me except for I'm not asian and need to lose weight

No. 64005

>>64001
>Asian
You mean Japanese/Korean/Chinese? Or more like South East Asian?

No. 64006

>>63994
Turkish femanon right? I'm sure we spoke on /r9k/ a week or so ago.

No. 64008

>>64006

No sorry, I'm a guy.

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>>64006
>>64008

Also

>turkish fembot


What is this madness?

No. 64010

>>64005
I mean the chinky kind, not the brown kind I.e. Indian

No. 64011

>>64009
I'm Greek. Got chatting with a Turkish fembot and she sounded quite similar to you. Was secretly hoping it was Anzu, apparently she posts on /r9k/.

No. 64012

>>64003
Eh, doesn't have to be Asian, I just prefer them (see fetish). Being slim/avg just means you do the basic exercise adults require to stay healthy. I want someone who is down to go hiking or biking.

I also didn't mention fantastic hygiene is a must and if your style is suffering you have to let me help you clean up.

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>>64011

lol, I was in the same school as her last year. She came to study Korean but didn't liked the city and quit.

No. 64014

>>64013
>>64011

Also hello komsi

No. 64015

>>64014
Hey dude. How are things your side of the Aegean?

And lol about Anzu. She must be extremely famous among Turkish anime fans by now I imagine.

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>>64015

Not bad, it's fucking cold though it's been snowing for a week here. How are things over there, paid your denbts : ^)?

>And lol about Anzu. She must be extremely famous among Turkish anime fans by now I imagine.


Younger people loves her but I never cared much cosplay so don't care, she's a super skeleton without make up and photoshop though.

No. 64018

>>64016
Looks comfy. Gotta love that squish sound of shoes on thick snow.

And never

Mutti Merkel can pay for her "Syrians" herself. ;)

No. 64019

>>64018

>Mutti Merkel can pay for her "Syrians" herself. ;)


Exactly that hah

I love snow but every time I go out I come back as a popsickle.

No. 64020

>>64012
It'd be really nice to get a second opinion on my clothes. I try my best to keep up with men's fashion but I'm not great.

No. 64027

>>64019
>that video

Lost it.

Tsipras is also an idiot though. It's just difficult to sympathise with Germany after Merkel went crazy.

You in Istanbul? The old center must look good in snow. I saw you posted the obelisk of theodosius.

No. 64028

>>64020
I worked at a Macy's and guys would come in all the time asking for help and opinions. I was always honest, I'm sure you could read bullshit. Other than that, men liked to copy the mannequins. It also depends on your age group. I'm in my 20s and love the men's clothes at Zara and J Crew. Just simple, clean looks.

No. 64030

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What do girls think of this chart? Is it accurate?
Also, would you take a guy who is in the bottom part of the white area (albeit close to blue) ?

No. 64031

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>>64027

Yeah I'm in Istanbul, haven't been to Sultanahmet in a while, I love seeing the old Byzantine stuff. I used to live in the real "istanbul" aka Fatih when I was a kid inside the walls. I loved climbing them and hanging in the ruins.

>>64020

Not sure if it works for you but I wear stuff like this usually in winter, got praised by some of my sisters friends last week with this.

No. 64032

>>64028
I'm 18 and still trying to find my way. Most of what I see is the gym rat normie fashions.
Neon colors and Nike "Just do it" shirts are still in style here

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>>64030

>tfw in white

No. 64034

>>64031
I'm in Florida, we just finished our annual two week winter with temperatures as low as 40 farenheit.
I usually go with a plain t-shirt and shorts/pants with Converse

No. 64035

>>64033
That graph can't be real…

No. 64036

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>>64034

Try this, I love going around with this style in Spring/Summer

No. 64037

>>64030
If I love you already I'm probably with you regardless (I've dated a guy who lacked length and girth).
I'm more into girth even though I'm a wuss and can barely take it. Length is just uncomfortable for me.
I'm also like your average woman that can rarely come from PVI.

No. 64038

>>64031
I like everything except the scarf. The band on the watch I would prefer to be plain but I'm very minimalistic. Overall, you're doing pretty good. You can pair colors properly, that's key.

No. 64039

>>64032
I see. So you're still young enough where it will only matter in a professional environment or a night out. Eventually everyone abandons those trends and conforms to cleaner styles—at least from what I've seen beyond college.

No. 64040

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>>64038

I changed the band of the watch to a plain tan leather one after I got it, it's just a stock photo what kind of scarf can I use? I had that cashmere one for years so I kinda like it.

No. 64041

>>64036
Pale colors are nice, but you guys should always check if a color goes well with your skin color, hair color, and eye color.

No. 64042

>>64041

I'm pasty white, dirty blonde and have hazel eyes.

No. 64043

>>64036
>Longsleeve
That's how you die in FL
>>64039
Help me to have clean style, neon hurts to look at and Nike shirts are annoying as hell

No. 64044

>>64043

>>Longsleeve

That's how you die in FL

You don't have to wear them, just pick tees at those colors.

No. 64045

>>64041
I have a lighter than olive skin, brown hair and eyes. What do I put with that?

No. 64046

>>64040
I like all of these too, but the color of the shoes I'm not sold on. Well, there's nothing wrong with that scarf, it just always reminds me of old people. I just hate the flannel scarf, so it comes down to personal taste. I've seen it a lot in Japan so it's not like it's unfashionable.

No. 64047

>>64031
this.

most men dress so lazy it's not hard to dress well as a guy. a decent pair of leather shoes is a good start. you don't need many garments so invest in quality rather than quantity.

No. 64048

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>>64035

Well can't say for sure m8

>>64037

Does it even feel good without girth? I have 4.2" girth and don't think a girl will feel anything from it ;_;

No. 64049

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>>64045
>>64042
Basically this. There are different "seasons" according to skin, hair, and eye color.

No. 64050

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>>64047

Yeah, I dressed like an autist before(trainers, cargo shorts, band t-shirts etc)then I started to browse /fa/ a bit and donated all my old clothes to a shelter since I couldn't fit them anyways after weight loss. Rebuilt my whole wardrobe from scratch. Just plain tees, chinos and a good loafer/derby shoe can look good.

>>64046

I still have problems with color schemes, I need to get better at combining stuff.

No. 64051

>>64048
the average girl wont feel anything from any dick, lad

No. 64052

Does height really matter?
t. 5'6" lad

No. 64053

>>64051

Really? I always saw them saying that thicker ones felt great.

No. 64054

>>64048
Are you erect? I think my ex was similar. It could if you stay hard…he couldn't. The men I've been with always took care of me first because I couldn't orgasm from PVI, so PVI was just icing on the cake after I came.

No. 64055

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>>64054

>Are you erect?


Not right now

No. 64056

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>>64049
>the only guy allowed to wear black is the black guy
>also every single 'example' is wearing black in their photo
>mfw

No. 64057

>>64050
I have the same issue as a girl so I just resort to buying dresses. I like this style because I'm very minimalistic.

Just personal preference, but never buy clothes that looks like you bought if from goodwill. Ripped jeans and faded clothes are only ok for kids.

No. 64058

>>64053
it feels more filling, sure, but seeing how lots of women dont feel much pleasure from PIV, dick size isnt that important

No. 64059

>>64052
Not for me. I'm 5'6" and like boys my height or slightly taller. No need for giants.

No. 64060

>>64055
Cheeky bastard.

No. 64061

>>64030
>>64035
>>64048

I swear there's so many different studies on dick size, none of them make any sense to me. The one that looked the most believable used actual models and settled around 6" for length and 4 3/4" for girth. Girls have different preferences too b/c they're shaped different. When I've had sex, none of the girls I've been with really cared that much about my dick. Also, most girls don't really get off on penetration (only dated one who did). You guys seriously worry over nothing.

Delete that stupid fucking graph off your hard drive. Every time I see it I want to shoot lasers out of my eyes. There's more to sex than your dick.

No. 64062

>>64056
It's just a general idea. Google specifics. I only know my own colors, sorry boys.

No. 64063

>>64058
This. All a girl wants is to know that you care about her orgasming.
Similarly, I take pride in making a man cum.

No. 64064

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>>64049

I wear darker stuff, doesn't look any bad tbh and my complexion is like Justin's.

>>64057

>tfw went through a punk rock stage in highschool

>tfw ripped my pants and vests with a paper cutter and sewed them together loosely

OH GOD WHY?

No. 64065

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>>64058
>>64063

Well that's good to hear I guess, I really like oral sex videos so I would very well be glad to do it if I had the chance.

>>64060

:^)

No. 64066

>>64061
Let's have sex. You get it.

Women need extensive foreplay and teasing. That shit is annoying but fun. You won't understand pleasure until you have a girl wrapped around your finger begging you to penetrate because you've built it up so much.

No. 64067

>>64062
just sayin' that your effortless gent doesn't know shit about seasonal color analysis.
also there are like eight different palettes, not four, so this infographic is kinda oversimplifying things.
just google that shit and take a five-minute quiz. don't be lazy.

No. 64068

>>64066

I'm extremely inexperienced in stuff like that, hope my theoretical future girlfriend wouldn't my me catching up with my stuides

No. 64069

>>64064
It doesn't look bad, what I meant was that it's a general rep of what you'll find if you search your specifics.
Also, consider incorporating collared shirts.

No. 64070

>>64069

I have couple of oxford shirts and flannels but it was just the right weather for that outfit so yeah.

No. 64071

>>64050
I think maybe it would help you to concentrate on the difference between warm and cool shades. also, I think the sole of the shoe is to thick and it's all around too chunky. I prefer slim, elegant cuts but that's personal taste and I know a lot of people disagree with me.

No. 64072

>>64065
Please. I love oral so I guess my enthusiasm is enough to make me good. Some tutorials are good, my bf actually learned from one and he's awesome (no ABCs ok). Make sure she's hygienic before you do otherwise it will ruin it for life for you.

No. 64073

>>64068
As long as your gf is your study-buddy

No. 64074

>>64068
Inexperienced in what way? Foreplay?

No. 64075

>>64066

It really tickles my autism when I see guys do this to themselves. It's one of those memes I want to die a savage, public death so guys stop parroting it amongst themselves.

>>64068

Just find a nice girl, have a healthy relationship, and ease into sex at pace you're comfortable with using foreplay and teasing. Get good at giving oral. It's like the silver bullet for making a girl cum. The rest will come naturally.

I think you'll be surprised to find out that most women feel just as vulnerable having sex as you do. Just make it fun for her and you and you'll be fine.

No. 64077

>>64069

I have really wide feet so I can't wear slim boots and shoes.

No. 64078

>>64073
Yeah, it's nice to learn together. You gotta have those conversations with each other to know what has worked, what won't work, what you like, what you're open to, etc. I get that this isn't very romantic, but you can cover this after your initial vanilla consumation.

No. 64079

>>64074

Yeah.

>>64072
>>64075

I watch loads of "tutorial" videos but still I'm sure I'll mess everything up until my nervousness goes away.

No. 64080

File: 1453842297613.jpg (13.49 KB, 224x325, hmmm.jpg)

>this friendly and helpful atmosphere

What the fuck is going on in here?

No. 64081

>>64079
I've read some tutorials on it, but honestly I can't ever see myself getting intimate because I'm so self-conscious of myself.

No. 64082

>>64079
Foreplay just requires lots of long, deep kissing. Skirt around her breasts and pussy. Squeeze her ass. If you feel brave, say some shit. Then go and touch over clothes, then under clothes, rub your cock against her. Shit like that.
I have only been with virgins and you'd be surprised at how natural you'll feel after you know sex is coming. You react to each other. If something isn't welcome you'll know.

No. 64083

>>64080
No one's baiting or aggravating anyone else.

No. 64084

>>64082
Thanks for the helpful tips
I'll never use this knowledge, but it's nice to have some perspective into the norman world

No. 64086

File: 1453842603058.jpg (3.58 KB, 126x126, 1272409128306.jpg)

>>64081

Same man.

>>64082

I see, it's just I've been alone for so long the idea of getting intimate with someone terrifies me. I can't even imagine myself hugging a girl.

No. 64087

>>64064
I would get a coat/long blazer instead of a short jacket and better fitting pants. those make you look short.

The color of the shoes, pants and shirt, which I like, seems mismatched. the pants seem to be a cool dark blue (or are they black?), the shoes some sort of cool grey/brown and the shirt is a warm red which doesn’t fit the rest in my opinion. warm dark beige or cognac shoes and pants would look better with that shirt.

Is there a belt? I can't see one.

But generally speaking, it's a nice outfit and much better than what most people are wearing.

No. 64089

>>64084
You will. Idk who you are, but just knowing that I've fucked a really ugly retarded guy makes me have hope for you, who is probably above that. Sex is natural, you'll pick it up if you just go with the moment.

No. 64092

>>64080
We tend to want a harmonious rhetoric with robots but some of them come on here and try to give us their bs narrative then sperg.

No. 64093

>>64080

Girls are nice. When guys are nice back and don't sperg out, you get nice things.

>>64079

My first time was crazy awkward but a lot of fun. Think of it like learning a new dance. Just embrace the nervousness. Don't be so afraid of making mistakes that you never actually do anything. Just learn from them and keep going.

Also, look at a chart of the female anatomy. My first time I tried to put my penis into the urethra like a fucking idiot until she helped me guide it in. Look at a diagram and save everyone some trouble.

>>64086

Don't have such a negative attitude about yourself.

No. 64094

File: 1453843221938.jpg (3.13 MB, 3456x4608, g.jpg)

>>64085
>>64087

I still have almost 25 kg to lost so I don't buy many clothes since I'll replace them in a couple of months. There are pretty much placeholder until I lose weight.

Shoes are dark brown, pants are black chinos(they're getting baggy a bit because I'm one size smaller now)and I can't get slimmer better fitting ones because of my weight for now, I have a belt but it's mismatched again.

Here is one of my first attempts to dress alright.

No. 64095

>>64089
>I've fucked a really ugly retarded guy
kekked
But i have to fix my personality first to be honest. I've had one or two girls approach me back in highschool to whom i could've lost the v-card but i rejected them because of paranoia, huge insecurity, dreadful social skills, etc..

No. 64096

>>64093
I agree. You could also eventually grab your cock and press it against her, eventually you will naturally find the opening. It's close to her anus but before it.
Because every girl is different, you might get away with having her guide you.

No. 64097

>>64092

They just come here to flame or not robots at all, not saying robots are great people but most of them are just misguided and frustrated young guys. They just need some positive examples and a leader figure to follow.

>>64093

>My first time was crazy awkward but a lot of fun


How old were you? I don't think any girl would be good with a 25 year old guy messing things up.

No. 64098

>>64094
That attempt looks pretty good colour wise though I don't like checked patterns, but again that's a personal thing. you already look good so you will look great after you've lost those 25kg.

what kind of clothes do you like on women?

No. 64099

>>64094
What's on your jacket collar?
I like everything except the fit of your pants, but like you said, it's a work in Progress. Fitted is the best look for men and women right now. That doesn't mean tight, it just means not 90s baggy ass clothes.

No. 64100

>>64095
What do you think about your personality is a turn off?
I know a few girls who have done what I have. No regrets but we obviously don't boyfriend them.

No. 64101

>>64097
Messing things up with what? I promise you, girls don't think you're messing up unless you're putting your dick in her ass when it wasn't talked about.

No. 64102

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>>64098

Well I like dresses(specially sundresses), not gonna lie I like tight jeans(I have a fetish for asses in tight jeans)the usual feminine clothing I guess.

No. 64104

>>64097

I was 19 when I first lost my virginity. It's never too late. Sex is a totally natural thing and everyone loses it in due time. When you're with a nice girl and you're feeling good about yourself and you guys had a nice time, it'll be your time. Don't worry about it.

>>64096

Yeah, I was so worried about my dick size that I never bothered to do the sensible thing and learn the female anatomy front and back. Sound familiar?

No. 64105

File: 1453843867820.jpg (94.27 KB, 460x691, 19555.jpg)

>>64102

I really liked how girls dressed when I was in Japan.

No. 64106

>>64100
I feel like i'm emotionally too closed off (except online), i have lots of problems keeping a conversation going, i get nervous very easily, and for some reason i have a strong tendency to find small irrelevant things on people which make me dislike them.

No. 64107

File: 1453844019889.jpg (212.67 KB, 853x1280, TK-2011-05-08-016-001-Harajuku…)

>>64105

One more.

>>64099

Insides and collars are lined with fur, it's comfy and warm as fuck. I have a natural "bearmode" body so having a 5'o clock silhouette is out of question for me even if I lost weight.

No. 64108

>>64104
Haha, I was always happy to guide my guy because I wanted it. Every new sex partner is a new experience so nobody expects you to know exact coordinates. Just have a general idea of female anatomy.

No. 64110

File: 1453844239405.jpg (223.86 KB, 960x1280, 2016-01-25 15.48.47.jpg)

>>64107

and this is my haircut now, do you think it fits? Had a really bad shed in recent months so I can't grow it out much.

No. 64111

>>64108

Well at least knowing there girls like you out there makes me much calmer.

No. 64112

>>64106

I'm not the best conversationalist myself, but for the rest: don't sweat the small stuff. I know it's hard to be open using your voice as it is typing. The fact that you're telling us this means that you know what you feel. You just need to get used to using your voice to say it.

You might want to try learning seated meditation and mindfulness. It's really helpful for training your mind to watch your thought processes. Or go to a therapist. idk, you know you better than me.

No. 64113

>>64106
You find those irrelevant things just so you can reject them before they reject you.
You're going to feel emotionally closed off till you find someone you can open up to.

I know you guys don't see us as equals, but I personally overcame that when I realized that I don't really give a shit about what random people think. They have no effect on my life. And they are missing out—-I only say this cause my friends think I'm funny.
I mean why stress over someone that doesn't know you for you?

No. 64114

>>64110

You look like you have a good chin and jaw in there, losing weight will do you so good man. Keep up the good work!

No. 64115

>>64110
Are you balding? Sorry, idk what natural shed means. Is that what you mean?
Most girls like some amount of hair. I think if you grew it out a bit it would be best.

No. 64116

>>64114
Agreed. Just workout to lose it.

No. 64118

File: 1453844681090.jpg (1.35 MB, 4288x1840, JUST.jpg)

>>64115

Not sure if I am, I lost shitloads in last three months and my crown thinned quite a bit. I can feel hard, stubble like hair when I run my hand through them so hoping it regrowing.

No. 64119

>>64111

Most girls are pretty nice. I'm not the highest confidence guy, so every time I've first had sex is a little awkward. Something weird always goes wrong. I've never had a girl be like, "Get out of my bedroom, scum." I think as long as you stay away from unhealthy women, you get rewarded with really nice sex, so…

No. 64120

>>64119

Well not like I chase after Stacies, I'm this guy >>63870

Just hoping I'll find someone I'm compatible with.

No. 64121

>>64112
Yea, i've been wanting to try it for some time now
>>64113
>just so you can reject them before they reject you
this is probably true, i have a tremendous fear of rejection.
I've found that exercising makes me feel more confident too so i will try doing it much more often this year

No. 64122

>>64118
you had a lot of stress, you're the anon who mentioned therapy and an angry father, right? stress sometimes causes hairloss. I really hope it regrows because while the other anon is right about you having a nice jaw line your head seems quit big and bigger hair would balance it out. otherwise I'd go for a very short cut and clean masculine look.

No. 64125

>>64118
Hmmm balding is on the mothers side so check that.
Other than that, your short hair looks ok. When its combover status is when you must cut it all off. No offense, but the shorter hair will work better when you're slimmer.

No. 64126

File: 1453845285081.jpg (Spoiler Image, 199.66 KB, 578x1144, dgfserg.jpg)

>>64122

Trying to grow it to this length again.

>>64125

N'ah I know buzz cut with fat looks really bad.

No. 64128

>>64119
Agree. As long as you don't try to penetrate my ass or force feed me your cock on the first night (when idk that you're clear for STI) I'm good. Most people realize that once you switch partners, you have to learn/adopt a whole set of skills to please your mate.

No. 64131

>>64125

Also maternal grandpa had thick, curly hair like me till the day he died, hopefully I got his genes.

No. 64132

File: 1453845561205.jpg (183.9 KB, 600x450, non troll.jpg)

Here is the non troll chart btw

No. 64133

>>64121
So I was taught to know that rejection is a normal part of life.
Not everyone is going to like me; primarily because I'm an asshole.
And I've mostly applied this to my work prospects which is more soul crushing than a random person.

No. 64134

>>64120

What I mean by "weird" is like, one time I had sex with a girl who had a latex allergy. So I had to use these condoms that I'd never used before. I ended up breaking it when I tried to enter. Maybe other guys are more graceful, but each girl I've been with (which is admittedly not many), something weird happened. That's why I say don't sweat it.

Also, it's just hard to know what you need out of a relationship before you've had a few. Guys seem especially bad about it (or at least I am). It's like a chicken and egg problem. But just sitting on your ass does nothing, so.

No. 64135

>>64126
Ok, at this point having longer hair looks nice.

No. 64136

File: 1453845871118.jpg (84.09 KB, 720x540, 07.08.2013.jpg)

Man I hope we can keep this atmosphere, I feel so comfy right now.

No. 64138

File: 1453846211846.jpg (Spoiler Image, 1.28 MB, 2432x2160, ba.jpg)

>>64135

Let's hope I can grow it to that length, it's been growing really slowly.

>tfw just want my old hair

No. 64139

>>64120

Also, you sound nice. You'll find someone you're compatible with, I'm certain. Going on a hike? Stargazing? A lot of girls love that. That's like prime date material right there.

No. 64140

>>64138
This is really cute. Boys who have long hair that they can style is a plus.
J like a handful of hair I can grab, but besides that, it looks really cute when a guy can style some length

No. 64141

>>64139
They love it especially if you withhold it. If it's a common interest than they'll have more fun.

No. 64142

File: 1453846986086.jpg (167.86 KB, 880x1456, asdfghsrrt.jpg)

>>64140

Mine is literally impossible to style, I really really really hoping that I'll regain this thickness in a couple of months.

No. 64143

File: 1453847415582.jpg (41.31 KB, 692x641, mens-hairstyles-short-sides-lo…)

>>64142
cut the sides. that kind of haircut should work with your hair structure. it would look more fizzy than on the picture but still good. as long as your face looks ok.

No. 64145

>>64143

>as long as your face looks ok


Not sure about this one, people say I look good for a fatass but I'm not quite sure.

No. 64146

>>64145
well I can't help you since there's a big white square on your face. I don't want to encourage you to post a full face picturre. just ask people irl.

No. 64147

>>64146

I posted some in the last thread, won't mind posting it again if you want to.

No. 64148

>>64145
A hairstyle like that should make your face appear thinner/longer. I say go for it.

No. 64159

>>64143
Yes, a haircut that is longer on the top works best.

No. 64165

>>64157

Are you sure that you are a kebab man?

No. 64167

>>64157
yep, go for >>64143

No. 64170

>>64167

I see, gotta wait for a few months then though do you think it'll work with my extreme jewfro?

>>64165

Can't say I'm a pure kebab, mom is Tatar and I think my paternal ancestry is somewhere from Albania/Croatia not quite sure about that.

No. 64171

>>64142
Reduce the sides and flatten the top

No. 64178

>>64157
You're OK for a white dude. You're young enough to have some hair so have it.

Regardless, don't forget to delete your pic after four hours I believe

No. 64184

>>64178

What's wrong with white dudes?

No. 64185

>>64132
>tfw in the red zone

No. 64195

>>64184
There's nothing wrong with them but as an ethnic person, I steer clear.

No. 64198

>>64195

I see, not like I'm "white" white

No. 64202

File: 1453851894162.jpg (555.12 KB, 2164x1440, 2012-03-28-john_cohen_bob_dyla…)

>>64170
I like this haircut better with a slight jewfro. the times when Bob Dylan cut his sides where the only times he looked acceptable. though your face doesn't resemble Dylans' in the slightest so don’t worry.

No. 64209

Whats going on? Why are these robots posting their ugly mugs and why are we encouraging it?

No. 64212