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Not trying to vent? Not annoyed? Not asking a dumb question? Post it here.
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I tried writing to do lists to be more productive but I discovered that I enjoy writing lists so here I am not working at all
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This is borderline bravery yet dumb as fuck
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I've been getting pretty good feedback on this fanfic I'm working on even though it's the first piece of structured fiction I've ever written. I know AO3 is not the pinnacle of quality writing but it's really nice having people be excited for a thing I've made. It's not a super hyperactive fandom but it's active and I've gotten a good amount of comments on it even though I've only been working on it a month. It's also nice to have a creative outlet that is not connected to what I want to do with my career; it's purely for fun.
I wish Farmhands would put at least half as much energy into redtexting the obvious larping and concern-trolling scrots who are just triggered
over the existence of radfems (and are samefagging on /meta/ and now trolling in the pp thread) as they put effort into forcing the narrative that all pp and gc anons are mentally unwell radfems who falseflag as trannies for some reason. It's just disappointing and tiring at this point, especially since the screenshots are real I guess. Just what the hell.. (And no, I'm neither white nor well-off either). In the end this is probably a dumb thing to be seriously upset over but oh well.
Because they're a bunch of femoids only doing this free service
for male attention
They're so disingenuous, and the worst part is how transparent all this shit is. Like, these are "damage control tactics" a literal 12 year would pull and think they're smart about. It's like they don't think ahead, they just expect us to swallow everything they say without question.
I'm honestly considering attempting a full move to Asherah's Garden (though only with a VPN), at least until Lolcow's administration changes again.
The layout is ugly as fuck, but at least there, no one has to worry about being banned or false-flagged for criticizing any mod/admin, or saying "trannies bad".
you've been shitting up /meta/ for months without a ban.
like admin says in big red letters at the top of the page, just hide the thread if you hate it
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bullshit. per even the fucking survey results that all of you assumed would soooo go in your favor, you're just a vocal and very pathetic small minority. and you in particular are insane and a shitstarter. all you do is sit in /meta/ with the intention of pissing and moaning about problems that don't exist.
if you're not a /meta/ shitposter, stop bothering people like one, and just post things you'd rather see instead. that's how it works.
or, keep trying to infight and prove everyone's point more. when an admin completely shits on a relevant chunk of a site's userbase, of course they will talk about it.
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Lbr, that anon is one of these people, I'm sure.
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I don't keep up with the Yandev shit drama but god he was so fucking cute back then.
i'm absolutely not. this is why so many farmers are fed up with you guys and it hurts me to see that you don't see this yourself.>>513054
i mean, i understand, but you have been talking about it. a lot. most farmers come here to relax and talk about their life and you're just being stressful not just on meta but now here too. i don't even know why this whole thing started up again and i wish it hadn't. i thought everything was decided? why is there still so much discussion? it's exhausting.
everyone stopped talking about it in this thread hours ago, but you're coming back to reply, starting it off again. while still complaining it's stressful.
you could find out why people are talking about it now if you read the /meta/ thread, but it still makes no sense to drag up a topic you claimed to not want to see after it's already lulled.
cherrypicking? that's…literally what happened. look at the last few posts.
anyway, you're not helping make the thread relaxing. you're just being needlessly combative and kind of manipulative yourself. it's clear you've been doing all this in bad faith from the very start, so there's no real point in conversing with you.
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the hypocrisy is real.
anyway, i've been rediscovering all these old series from when i was younger. it feels kind of strange looking back on them now, and wondering why some of them never got as popular as the other media in their genre.
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I just adore this fanart one of you did in the Erin thread. It's so ugly-cute. I'm thrilled it's in her thread pic collage because it makes me smile every time I see it.
It's meant to be a tiny censor bar from the time she took a photo of her "smol innie vagina"
Cause she likes bragging about having a tiny vagina like a kid cause she's disturbed
I miss her milk
When I was still in driving school I was pretty confident in my abilty, after that my confidence was gone.
Everyone says that the best way to get over it is to gain more experience by driving.
You need to build your confidence with driving. What part of driving makes you anxious? For me it was parking, so I started by practicing on a large, deserted parkinglot. And when I felt confident I could do it, I went on to a more difficult parking lot. Now I can easily park in any given situation.
If it's just driving in general, I would say, start by driving in a quiet, 1-lane area you're familiar with. No destination, no time pressure. You need to experience that you can drive on your own, that it isn't scary. When you're confident about driving in a quiet, familiar area, go on to a little more busy area or an unfamiliar area and so on.
To stop people from panicking>>513301
I see your point and I don't think people should be blindly afraid. But from what I've read, the coronavirus can permanently damage the immune system, and supposedly cause sudden death.
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I'd like to thank anons on here for encouraging me to get a cat. She is the sweetest and most precious thing. I had been living alone for 4 years with little socialization and she really just brightens up my mood and makes my house feel like a home. I really do love her so very much and it's only been a week or two. She ended my depression and cured world hunger. Okay maybe not all that bad she's always here for me and loves to cuddle. Cheers to farmers who shill cats.
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This comic is just so frightening to me, I just had my son 2 years ago and the thought of the world reaching a point where he is conscripted into a fighting a horrible war is keeping me up awake at night, this comic was made a full 19 years before the start of WW2 btw
Other people that had sons will most likely turn their anger and scorn at them because their child got send off to war but not theirs even though the child was originally a male and just got off from being sent to war because they transitioned
Along with after the war people will mostly likely be bitter and angry at them because they needed all the people in the war and that one person got scott free while they lost friends, family and more.
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My college is having a jewelry sale for Valentines day with work made by students in the metals program and I'm so fucking jealous and sad that it's a 2 hour drive over there because I want some cute, original and handmade jewelry. They didn't have this shit when I was a student!! Then again, I was broke as shit back then so it's not like I could've afforded it anyway lol.
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Board drama related but smurfchan in the coomer thread who shooped herself blue reminds me of when I did the same thing in 2007. I used to do all sorts of whack shit to my pictures to try to look artsy and cool. Downloaded paintbrushes and stamps from Deviantart and went to town on all my digital camera pictures before selfies were really a thing lmao. I'd try to follow Photoshop tutorials but looking back it was pretty bad. I changed my iris color, hair color, and even smudge tooled my eyelashes longer lmao. Remember having to blur your own skin? Now there's beauty apps so no one has to know shit in Photoshop anymore.
I wish I could show you all the cringe.
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I went to the Michaels for some cardboard paper and all their paper had the ugliest color. I want bright stuff, future retro??? ever heard of it??? whatever happened to the bright colors of the 50s? I swear nail artists live in heaven they get the best colors but noooo one gives a fuck about the arts and crafts origami people because they're not sexy enough for instagram photos fuck outta here with that shit.
ALSO I had another point I wanted to complain about but I forgot what it was.
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Ah ha ha. Wtf is this shit. My ap gave me a +1 point not this .3 shit
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idk if anyone else can relate but sometimes when life gets a little bleak I honestly feel like i am my OWN personal lolcow, and am one step away from being somebody else's, and the only thing keeping me from having my own thread is like. a lack of followers and the ability to be self-aware about how much I suck and the restraint it takes to not constantly overshare if it isn't necessary/ relatable/ humorous to do so. sometimes I'll catch myself nitpicking my own traits the way some anons would nitpick a snowflake who's a little manic and doesn't have a 23 inch waist and a fairy nose and I honestly think if it weren't for knowledge from years of lurking here and my last few brain cells, I'd be getting dragged too. maybe it's mean to look at these absolute trainwreck cows and come out of it grateful that i'm not AS bad or far gone as they are, but at least it keeps me in check
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YouTube tarot reader said I’m definitely getting a date this Valentine’s
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For these past few weeks i have been binge-eating with the ferocity of a rabid raccoon and I decided to weigh myself this morning to convince myself to stop, expected the worst but haven't even gained half a kg. Guess I'll just keep eating inhuman amounts of spaghetti until I croak.
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It's an anonymous imageboard, be free. Say what you want to say.
Same, I felt the same way about the radfem-threads. I agree with a lot of their points, but you can't disagree with any of them without being labled a pick-me/handmaiden. Why can't I hate men but still acknowledge the shitty, abusive
women I've encountered without getting crime stats and a lecture about how they were victims
of the patriarchy or some shit? All humans have the capacity to be cruel and abusive
monsters, no gender or race or whatever is excluded.
I recently realized there is little continuity between my public self and how I behave on line.
Like in “real” life, I am such a confrontational, direct, blunt bitch. I make enemies wherever I go. I am constantly at war with someone, most often an authority figure like a professor or somebody else with perceived power. I have a general low tolerance for cliques and the toxicity of groups, so I am a perpetual loner. I often feel like the world is trying to squeeze me into this tiny box, like there’s way too much pressure and bullshit I just want no part of.
And yet online, I try to be kind to others, helpful, and encouraging. I sometimes snap at people, but it is never quite as bad as I am in the world. I actually fucking apologize to people, or at the most, try to find some common group with others. I cannot seem to do that in the real world.
I don’t really make friends per se (not about that shit), but I realize maybe I am fucked up in some way because of shitty upbringing/feeling like an outsider/like I don’t belong anywhere. Online I am just free to be myself. But I hate dealing with people face to face because then all their bigotry, insecurities, and retardation get in the way of you just communicating as two human beings. I don’t know anymore.
In short, there’s still some kindness deep inside my bitter, cynical, bitchy heart.
>>513912>acknowledge the shitty, abusive women I've encountered
What's the point of doing that in the man-hate thread?>All humans have the capacity to be cruel and abusive monsters, no gender or race or whatever is excluded.
This is a dumb copout take. Just because all humans have the potential to be shitty, doesn't mean that all humans will be shitty?? If you truly believe all humans are equally evil across the board then explain the gross differences in statistics.
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Beware the retarded sperging right now, sorry lol.
Attack on Titan related rant, because a lot of anons were talking about it on another thread and it made me remember some nasty things that I absolutely cannot stand.
Why the fuck is Eren x Levi even a thing? And why the fuck do so many people ship it? Ever since I became all invested in AOT back in 2016, I've encountered so many people who are into that or even claim that it's "literally canon" and I cannot wrap my head around it.
It's the least understandable ship ever. Eren and Levi have no romantic interest in each other, hell I cannot even stand the entire Petra x Levi thing but at least that makes more sense than Eren x Levi does. People even shipping Levi with Hange makes more sense than any of this shit. They're not even friends, like yeah they respect each other, but what they have is more like a normal student and mentor thing, that's it. Literally. No friendship, no tacky wacky hehe it me eren uwu levi uwu heichouuu~ uwu shit. And the age gap is so fucking weird too, Eren being 15-16 when he first meets him and Levi being in his mid 30s. Sure, Eren is 19 now but before he was legal it also used to be a huge thing, bigger than it is now. At least it's not that incredibly huge anymore ever since the hype around AOT died and people started bashing on it for different reasons.
I understand that people are free to like whatever the fuck they want and nowadays they ship every single thing together for some "sweet yaoi", but I still dislike it lol.
Also before anyone points out, yes I am the one who spammed Eruri in the Husbandos thread.
nta but I believe women can be evil in different ways. That said yeah, talking about abusive
women in a man hate thread is out of place, it's like mras coming to feminist discussions to whine about circumcision. I agree it's a problem, it just doesn't belong in that discussion.
On the other hand I do think man-hate (just like woman-hate…) threads like to generalize and blow things out of proportions, make dumb assumptions and all so I mostly stay out of that part of the discussion even though I'm pretty radfem in some other aspects. I'm usually in pinkpill threads when we discuss trans people and I avoid fighting about men because I don't want to seem like a pickmeisha or something. On the other hand, on 4chan I'd be blamed for being a dumb sjw feminist bitch, you can never please people
It's partially because of this>what they have is more like a normal student and mentor thing
and because they're both decent looking characters. Also there's some weird appeal in a short dom I guess. Student/mentor ships are quite common I feel.
Women also suffer from raging hormones and bad childhood too fam… We ain't out here raping and murdering, if anything it increases our risk of being victims
to violent crimes.
I'm not trying to talk about abusive
women in that thread, but theres so much talk about how women are just so insintctively kind and nurturing and what a utopia a female-only society would be. Some of ya'll didnt get physically and mentally abused by your mothers throughout your formative years and it shows.
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basically its this
Yah, but different hormones. Many men who go through bad childhoods don't become violent either I'm just saying some do. There are lots of women out there who are violent and verbally abusive
anyway, it just doesn't pop up on societies radar as much.
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>open new tab and immediately go to lolcow.farm
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my sides are in orbit. to be fair I imagine there aren't many male/female wrestler interactions to make het ships with
It doesn't matter what the radfems have to say about it. Are you ready to raise a child point blank? The gender isn't even the issue.
Bringing a person into this world not everything will be within your control. You can't worry about that stuff. If you feel like you can instill values and give a good enough quality of life to your boy, then go for it. No parent is perfect, but I bet you'll do fine.
I've seen dispute over whether or not women have care-taker qualities by default. I think it's mostly socialization, women only seem naturally caring comparative to males. Don't feel bad for not having "strong nurturing instinct", fuck that, it's the same kind of guilt and shame that forces women to keep unwanted pregnancy and stay in bad relationships.>>513961
I relate. Copious experiences with inherited trauma in women in my family. Bullied by girls in school. Dealt with queen bees at work. Had good relationship with father/brothers. Every single woman who fucked me over, has their brain damage traced back to men, every time.
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yo i do that too lmao
I absolute regret not getting working holliday for the rest of the week as well. I could've got it but for some reason I thought I don't need it but we have some shitty windy weather going on here since days and I'm really not into going out of the house when it rains, snows and hails every five minutes …. >>513971
same here, same here lmao
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>when mutuals ask about the break up you had after a decade.
fuck you faggot im free
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I cry watching nature documentaries sometimes. I feel like I’ve lived a million lives as creatures on earth and have forgotten a million times.
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>>512957>tfw you develop a crush on a dead musician >tfw you develop a crush on a dead comedian >tfw you are now developing a crush on a dead author
i guess i like tragic men.
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I’m scared I’ll lose my new job from being a dumb fucking sieve-for-brains cunt.
At least it was just Fall Out Boy playing (sorry I had to)
Maybe you could put on some electronic music and get some weird sound effects lol.
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A while ago I found a nice website to watch free movies online on, but today when I went to it it said my account was suspended even though I never made an account…
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I just found out my IUD appointment was rescheduled to this Friday after planning it for late March and I can either "take it or leave it" because the hospital is often closing its doors and reopening them. They'll only be open again around June. This is the only gyno able to install my IUD, she's rough as fuck with my cervix because I haven't had a natural birth or abortion, and she's pretty good. Makes it like a ten minute procedure with absolutely no small talk and I loved and appreciated it. I went to maybe six doctors before her and none felt okay pushing that hard for fear of perforating my uterus. This was gonna go in the vent thread because I thought my boyfriend wouldn't be able to take the day off to be with me for it but he called while I was typing and was sweet about it and has no issue taking it off which is a huge relief! Fuck. Can anyone here describe how bad their pain was with having it removed and replaced at the same time? I know it isn't the place to ask but I'm just babbling and didn't want to clog the dumb question thread with a stupid story as I've done here.
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I wanted to write random shit but couldn't think of what to write so I googled up a random quote generator and found this "inspirobot" website which is just an AI that generates quotes. The first one was fine but boring but the more quote I generated the weirder they fucking got…
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My favorite because I love cake lol
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This made me laugh
Thanks for being wholesome
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I love animals so much and spend most of my time by myself and I really wish I could adopt a furry friend to keep me company but sadly it's just not possible for me right now. I'm moving back in with my parents to save money while I commute to campus and there's no way they would let me get an animal. They already have a cat and he's a gorgeous little tiger but he's very independent and doesn't really enjoy being petted or played with, plus he's only really bonded with my mother and just tolerates everyone else. I still love him and it's better than having no pets around at all but I wish I could have an animal that's truly mine and actually wants to be around me. I just gotta be patient for a couple more years but damn I really can't wait to adopt a small dog or cat or a couple of rats or something.
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I want a cute fujo gf. We could keep a nice clean little house and never deal with any smelly 3DPD boys and I would never judge her on her BL habits or ships. Pipe dream.
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It's like I ghostwrote this. I'm a fujo who only dates women IRL. No 3DPD boys allowed. Date me, anon. We can be the cringiest couple to ever exist.
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You can display all your figs and posters, even the really embarrassing ones.
I honestly think you were pretty dumb to think you could get away with this for long, but I actually had a high school teacher tell us a story about how he supposedly pulled the same shit (though he was our English teacher so we never knew if he was truthful or just really full of shit and pushing the 'unreliable narrator' bs on us. He was a damn good storyteller though so lol). He told us that he went to the dean or counselor and got mad at them and accused them of losing his transcript, and they got flustered so in the time it took them to actually contact his hs and find out that he flunked out, he got his GED and did whatever else he need to do to meet the minimum requirements of the college he was at. When they confronted him with the truth he just said 'lol yeah I lied. Here's my GED and other shit to prove I meet the requirements to actually get in/stay.'
I guess you could try the same shit but again, my teacher was probably full of shit. Or just own up to your lies.
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Today I kicked to the curb the crazy bitch that caused me a lot of useless sorrow through manipulation, gaslighting and some plain sadistic behavior that I still don't understand and won't try to.
I sent her a long text telling her everything I think about her, I've been pretty brutal but trust me, she deserved every single word after what I've been through because of her psycho cluster B ass.
I told her off like I've never done before, then I blocked and deleted her from everything, and it feels… so good. I've never done this to anyone who fucked me over before, I had no idea it would be so liberating. I feel like my own self esteem increased after doing this. I don't feel bad knowing that my words have probably hurt her, she needed to be called out. Hopefully she will take my advice to heart and will actually fuck off to therapy, instead of playing with other innocent women.
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Joseb forever, natch.
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Holy shit I am in love with the textransformer website that was posted in the Luna thread. Sometimes it vomits striking sentences, sometimes just pure WTF. I can stop generating Luna style poems and screencapping the best parts. Would love to make a thread but not sure if other anons share my fascination lmfao
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Another fave. Human poets are canceled
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I just discovered that there's a brand who produces giant kawaii disease, organ and cell plushies. some of them are even interactive and have sounds and hidden features. Every single description has informational facts about the subject and for some of them they even made videos of the disease plushies talking, I-
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THEY EVEN HAD A COLLAB WITH CELLS AT WORK IM DYING
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I can't get over this. This is one of their product images y'all>One of the most fascinating lifeforms on Earth is the common tardigrade, or technically speaking, “slow walker.” Typically found most anywhere, waterbears love a nice patch of moss. Indeed, they are also known as “moss piglets”. This smallest bear in the world can hibernate for decades before coming back to life! They can even survive in the vacuum of outer space!
God bless every person involved in this
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I really want to sign up to something like Stitchfix and have curated outfits sent to me and shit because I HATE shopping for clothes and I can't dress myself for shit. But there doesn't seem to be a box that ships to my country, they are all US only.
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henry cavill is so ugly to me it actually grosses me out, i feel fucking insane for being this triggered by some face? looks like some white american caricatyre, albeit he looks somehow almost ok with a mustache. what the fuck is this.
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adding the mustache cavill here, he looks hella gay but somehow less gross
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you guys, I come bearing answers.
look at you still trying to make yourself the victim
, grow up holy hell
ew that's it
there it is
uh anon. the OP was the one who brushed her bf off when his
dog died, not the other way around. anon is clearly just lying about he pet being sick too for sympathy.
Wholesome and cute
I love salmon so much too, I wish I could eat it more. Enjoy your meals!
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im literally hornypilled
fuck you wellbutrin even though you’ve been working wonders for me so far
so wellbutrin does make you horny? I've started taking it two weeks ago because I have no libido due to meds and/or trauma I have no idea about.
Can you tell me about your experience with wellbutrin from start to finish?
It's okay when I was 11 I wanted my boobs to grow so some asshole on Yahoo answers said to mix this weird shake of bread, parsley, milk, butter, rice, and a few other weird things and I did it and puked
I'm a G now but my body didn't form until I was 16 so I'm not mad I'm 21 now
I recommended this job to my male friend, and he took it to his dad, but then came back and went on about how his dad advised against it because it's too much work. I don't want to go into detail, but it's actually a pretty basic job that also offers training. He'd only need to go in twice a week, if that.
To be brutally honest
-his dad is a complete loser. alcoholic, had a string of shitty jobs, never put effort into anything, constantly leeching off his wife's family.
-he's also an abusive dickhead, but that's a different story.
I told my friend, "Yeah, but do you want to be like your dad?" in a really soft voice. He said "Well, no", and I said "Exactly", then told him to stop taking his input on life and get a better male role model. I added that even another friend's dad is better. I think I also said "Even a fucking McDonald's manager is better", which may have been going a bit too far.
His sister overheard from another room, called me a bitch and told me to stay away from their family if I'm going to talk shit on their parents. He told her it's none of her business and that I'm not wrong, to which she angrily walked out.
I later mentioned saying those things to my other, female friends, and they're mostly shocked and disgusted. They said I was being way too harsh.
I guess what I said wasn't the sweetest, but he's not even mad. I'm annoyed now.
sorry for late response anon but
when i was first diagnosed i was put on zoloft and it didn’t help at all personally, i experienced mild side effects but didn’t see any improvements even a couple of months in. they started me on wellbutrin, which worked really well and started to up my dose (i’m up to 200 mg now, not taking zoloft anymore) but i see a huge increase in my libido compared to when i was taking zoloft. working really well for me and i rarely see side effects, but the libido gets distracting lol there’s been a couple of studies in it which have comforted me since it’s not just me being gross or a weird menstrual cycle. hope everything goes well for you anon, everyone has their own experiences with antidepressants.
>>515479>They're mostly shocked and disgusted.>Being more disgusted at someone callig out an abusive, useless asshole than someone being an abusive, useless asshole
Imagine being SHOCKED by someone just saying facts on abusive
people, the horror. >>515487
Nah fuck this and everyone who believes it, you can have a compelled knowledge of your parents and still objectively criticize them on their bullshit and abuse to you and others, doing otherwise is dangerous and borderline delusional.
Do it, it will show them how feeble and pathetic they really are.
I miss doing this since copping a lifetime ban from twitter kek.
You don't really have a close group with friends who want a traditional wedding. You have to have a 'yes man' personality to boot. If you're standoffish, they won't want you in the party unless they've got no one else. Or if they're willing to overlook the fact that you won't perform on their terms because they care about your close friendship. Brides want people in their party who will tolerate ridiculous demands to make 'their day' (which is a climax of several other 'their days' including things like bachelorette parties and bridal showers you will be expected to help plan and attend), work.
Are you nice? Reliable? Connected? Trustworthy? Fun? A workhorse? Servile? Doormat? All very desirable bridesmaid traits. If not, well…
Still mad about a personal shopper job I had for an Amazon store owner where my parents literally had to end up paying to work there.
She paid 10/hr which would be nice if I got the full 40 hours and I would barely get 30 hours a week, on top of that she refused to reimburst me for gas I used for her, 5 dollar tolls, lunches because I was in situations where packed lunch wouldn't be allowed, required uniform I had to buy myself, and so on, gas was 20 a day and 25 if she wanted me to use toll, another 5 dollars for lunch, if I was lucky I'd get paid 60 that day and I have to save 25 anyway that day for car insurance, leaving no money for me to get clothes she required, ended up with me wearing my boyfriends loose and stained clothes because I was at the bottom of the barrel at this point where it was literally depriving me and my family of money for her… claimed I was taking advantage of her because I offered to give up my lunch break to help pay because I took the long route (which is only 10 minutes more) because I couldn't pay the toll because hey I'm broke because of her then suddenly installed a rule that you can't take breaks unless you work 8 or more hours, which of course was impossible because hours were shit, didn't offer health insurance or any sort of benefits which would be fine if she didn't mention in the interview how she tries to make up for it but refuses to do that despite me working there for months. It's also a 1099 and with tax season coming up I'll probably have to pay more out of pocket since this piece of shit job literally put my family in debt. I'm working at a fast food place now which I unfortunately make much more and can actually save and it's a lot less stressful
She wasn't even an mlm or anything, just a shitty employer
I'm scared to ever have kids because even if you let them live you when they're adults, you can't guarantee that they won't be assholes.
I randomly came across a thread on a LoL forum about how some guy is made because his mom dumped her boyfriend, he's extra mad because he will have to pretend to support her decision because he "leeches" off of her and then in a deleted comment seems to say something about she should be killed because she's a whore. I'm sure the mother isn't great either but I can't imagine being this awful to the person that homes you.https://boards.na.leagueoflegends.com/en/c/general-discussion/oqAcMEkw-my-mother-broke-up-with-her-boyfriend?show=flat
>>515601>I hope you realize he isn't a "Chill and cool" dude if he dumped her on the side of a street. He is garbage, you most likely don't see everything that goes on between them.
Of course this comment got a -1 hah. He doesn't sound like a prize. Certainly not decent. The mom was probably so bossy and naggy towards him because he was being a do-nothing like her son.
But I agree with some of those posters that the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. The reason why this kid is an entitled prick is because mommy coddles him that way. Grown ass son unemployed and playing LoL all day with time to spare to play Dr. Phil over his mother's relationship issues. The son calls her "bossy" and projects that issue onto her relationships because the truth is he resents her for the occasional times she asks him to step up to live with her. Like clean or cook or pay some rent. "Ugh," he thinks, "She is so demanding and bossy and the guy is just so chill!" Like him
. His resentment turns to hate. The hate brings in violent intrusive thoughts. So that when this lad throws a temper tantrum, in the heat of the rage, says to an audience on a game forum that he wants to kill his mom.
I dated a guy with a thirteen year old son and while I wouldn't usually date anyone with kids I thought this was different as he was only a few years away from being grown… The son wanted his dads full attention on weekends and ended up resorting to dirty protests when we moved in together.
At 13 he suddenly forgot how to flush a toilet and every shit that he took for months was just left in the toilet for me or his dad to find. He'd often time it for when we'd be preparing dinner and stink out the apartment. It was obvious what he was doing but over and over again his dad bought the story of him just being forgetful. This problem didn't happen before we moved in together, weirdly enough. It also never happened at his mom's house. Boys/men are psycho when they feel possessive over a parent. Would never do it again.
Ayrt and imo you're exactly right. But it still worries me that people are so mollycoddled in general these days that even if you raise kids "right" they might still turn into an entitled shit like this>>515610
That's utterly psychotic unless there was a hugely concerning age gap between you and the guy in which case the kid is an unsung hero
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Even though we fight, even though we disagree on things, even though some of you are cows, I still love u. When I go into other spaces on the internet, it makes me appreciate u. Have a good week anons.
Older kids from a previous partner are always a touchy subject. They're at the age where they are aware of what's going on but too immature to articulate and express their feelings about it.
It was really wrong of the kid to cause scenes that purposefully sabotaged your time.
I went through a similar thing as a preteen, but it's because my dad genuinely didn't care about me and was sadistic about withdrawing attention. He only got custody of me every other weekend by the time I was a preteen. He never spent any of that time doing something with me or bonding with me, and the times I dragged him to take me to a movie were far and few because that cost him precious time and money. I hated visiting him because I would be guaranteed to be hauled over to his girlfriend's house, shoved in a corner with my CD player or gameboy or tasked with babysitting children, and forgotten about until I asked for food or time to take me to mom's. He'd become abusive
or mean if I got in the way of his weekend schedule.
Think of my visitation as trying to make up the previous 12 days my dad had been absent from my life, this was before texting caught on and he never called. He chose to spend the 2 days of our makeup time with his girlfriend, and doing whatever they wanted. It really damages your heart and worldview as a kid when a parent puts a new partner first so obviously. I had my tantrums, and no doubt I said some mean stuff to the girlfriend when she would try to interfere. I'm sure she thought I was a brat, because I'm sure my dad painted a very flattering picture of himself to her. But understand it was my dad's crazymaking.
Not to discredit what you're saying about teenage boys being impulsive and more violent, it's true. Just that his dad might have been more responsible for his outbursts than meets the eye.
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Are camwhores as salty about Projekt Melody as males say they are?
I fully get that his dad was adding to the issue by choosing to play dumb over his dirty protests. I tried to get him to dedicate more time to just the two of them and I tried to get more of my own space on weekends to relieve some of the tension. His dad didn't acknowledge the tension at all.
His reaction to the gf that came after me was explosive and I still never got the ex to say "oh yeah I guess he does have an issue with me dating and you didn't just imagine all that anon". I don't know if they have a relationship at this point cos once the son went into a full on rage (rather than the usual passive aggressive) the dad got aggressive too. Sad situation for everyone involved. Sorry to hear what you went through with your dad. Maddening when fathers have two modes like that, indifference or anger.
tbh it was never very well written, just a fun ride and the pleasure of staring at Dean's face
I do miss it being scary though, first season freaked teenage me out
This is so random, but I've noticed that I've never had strange youtube videos pop up for whatever reason. For example, Mozilla wrote an article about how people were exposed to shocking or extremist content through youtube:https://www.cnet.com/news/mozilla-is-sharing-youtube-horror-stories-to-prod-google-for-more-transparency/
For example, it's people being exposed to videos of extreme injury and pro-ana videos. I've also heard of people getting into extremist content through youtube as well.
On the other hand, I feel like my youtube suggestions are totally fine. There's even a lot of really positive youtubers I've found through the algorithm. For example, I'm watching this video on the merits of contemporary Christian worship music where a guy tries to be impartial and charitable towards a much-loathed genre.
I think it's because most of my youtube browing revolves around video games (but not let's plays), cooking, and music. I don't see a need to watch much political things on youtube even though I feel like I do stay aware of political news through other means.
What are you guys' youtube suggestions like?
kpop is an intensely competitive and involved fandom, they get wrapped up in hating celebrities just because they are selling better than their favs or have annoying fans or w/e.
I don't see any of that in the celebricow thread, it's just random gossip and nobody seems very invested? It's very harmless and obviously suitable for an off topic board.
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Can I have five more of these little coral bitches?- seriously, nintendo better give a date for when they’re releasing this in the uk. I used to think I’d like to purchase the regular switch but honestly I don’t have anyone to play multiplayer shit with anyway, and the switch lite seems cute and versatile. I wish they were bringing it out at the same time as acnh though..
I can't take any birth control because it greatly affects my moods and has full on sent me into crisis a couple of times.
What I really don't understand is when women claim that they've been a raging bitch for three years on the pill and they gained 100 pounds and lost all interest in sex anyway…like stop taking it once you see the damage starting?? I've exhausted all forms of hormonal bc and tbh I'm happy being single right now cos I'm not going to take a pill every day only to then complain about it. No sex, no problem lol
Yeah every time that I've tried out new birth control I've looked up other womens stories and read about how women ignored 5 stone of weight gain, losing half of their hair, being angry and depressed all day every day and their relationship falling to shit because of the pill moods.. they only complain after all that, Switch your birth control sooner girl!
I have a couple friends where no birth control suits them at all but they endure it for the sake of their partner. Like I'm not doubling my body weight or crying every day just so a guy gets to raw it. Dick ain't that great
I was treated like I was being petulant when I complained about side effects (constant spotting, mood swings, one of my tits grew larger than the other and has never recovered) on the mini pill by a female doctor. She said "well, you have to give it at least 6 months for the side effects to even out, maybe even longer". That's a really, really long time for her to just expect me to be miserable. Doctors seem to handwave side effects away to me pretty often, now that I think about it. I wonder if it has to do with being female.
For example, I didn't want to go on antidepressants because I only have mild anxiety and don't want to risk my mood getting flipflopped, dealing with coming off them, or sexual dysfunction. A different doctor acted like I was, again, being petulant and strongly encouraged me to consider them like the side effects aren't real.
I'm starting to think that people are too comfortable feeling unwell if they think it is going to "fix" them and I'm not "sick" enough to be ok with that sort of treatment. I spent years of my life feeling shitty due to birth control and now that I'm finally feeling stable why would I fuck it up because of a little interview anxiety?
Psych meds and the pill are weirdly similar when it comes to docs just telling us to put up with worrying side effects.
"give it six months and see" ..but doc I'm suicidal and on top of that I'm bleeding through my pads and clothes every fucking day
Sometimes people are really defensive about it, they don't want to feel like a victim
or something. I was put on it from 15 and remember my boyfriend at 19 trying to get me to come off of it because he thought it was affecting my mental health. He was completely right but I got angry and argued against it, I reacted as if he'd told me I was crazy. The truth was that it made me depressed and killed my libido. I currently just use condoms with my partner and my sex drive has never been better.
I met that ex recently and he said I seem much happier now I'm not on the pill but I still got mad at him for playing armchair psychologist even if he's right lol
I still think bc is a fantastic option for women to have but it's not for everyone. The site effects should be known.
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I tell myself that I don't want another dog after my current dog passes. I just don't think I'll be able to do right by that future dog. I just don't think I'll be able to give them the all the time and love that I think they deserve, and after I move out, it'll be a pain to find pet friendly apartments and feed them fresh/raw food like I would like to. At the same time, I've had my dog since I was 8. I only have a handful of memories of life without her. Life without a dog, or really any pet, seems awfully lonely. Maybe I'll foster in the future, but I already know I'll probably end up a foster fail.
I couldn't help but think about this shit again after my dog came to see me off for work before heading back to bed herself lol.
lmao instagram banned all my ways to weasel my way around the restricted viewing of an account. After the new and annoying update where you can only scroll two and a half times through a profile until you get a message to sign up, I figured out that you could just click through the posts and still see all photos but I just realized that this isn't an option either anymore lol sniff
I loved to check some pages here and there and other social media pages do not interest me anymore. I wish tumblr never killed itself … >>516222
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I already have at least 4 long pleated skirts, 3 of which are from Uniqlo, but I want MORE!!! I love long pleated skirts, they make me feel like an elegant lady. They usually release this style every year with maybe an new color or two, but last FW they released a slightly different styled long pleated skirt with slightly wider pleats and I bought that shit so fast but the pleats all came out after washing… the pleats on all of my other skirts from them have never washed out. I was so sad…
>>516232>same face syndrome in it aka they have the same type of ragged hair, same type of eyes
You mean 90% of anime?
Anyway, getting into something at the heights of its popularity is disappointment every time. If I didn’t watch a show when its popularity was still rising, then I’d let it sit for at least a few seasons until one day I thought of it and felt genuinely curious enough to watch it without expecting anything. Tried to watch Attack on Titan in 2014 and couldn’t get through it. My psyche was probably put off by how ever-present its fandom was. Tried again in 2018 in solitude and it was a pretty great experience.
Weebs become anticipated for any generic overly-cliched anime out there especially if there is a another same faced bug eyed girl to claim as their new wAiFu11!!!
I just don't get it either.
Tbh I liked demon slayer and some scenes were great but it wasn't ground breaking, game changing stuff at all. It's well animated but it follows all the shounen tropes. I'm really confused at the popularity of it too because it really feels like it's the most amazing anime of these last years.
Tokyo ghoul was also a mystery to me because the anime was just so technically bad.
For kny, the first episodes are "the worst", not bad but the most boring i think you should watch like.. 10 episodes ? Since it's a long running manga, it takes some time to meet/know the main characters and overall story.
I think it will really get interesting in future seasons because of this, the side characters introduced so far are a lot more intriguing imo
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This picture made me recoil into a black hole.
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At age 28 I have finally found a doctor willing to give me a tubal ligation. I can't wait to never worry about birth control or pregnancy again. I was also going to donate my eggs but I failed the medical history check due to 2 gene mutations, which was a bit disappointing, but reaffirms that I'm making the right choice in not passing my shitty health issues on.
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3 of my edits have been used for Cow Thread pics and one edit as a banner.
I think I spend too much time on Lolcow
This post is going to sound so melodramatic and stupid but I just feel like I needed to post it somewhere lol.
I feel like since my break up at the end of 2018, I lost my sense of self and I still have yet to recover from it. We only dated for a month, btw, so I already know I’m being stupid and ridiculous about it. 2019 felt like a blur, like I was just going through the motions of existing. My job was terrible too, so that didn’t help. It’s 2020 now, and I thought things were finally working out… I mean, I’m definitely not as depressed as I was last year, I’ve picked up new hobbies, my friends are still awesome and great, and I’m working a easy, less stressful job atm. Things should be okay, right? I guess they are, but it feels like I’m just waking up. Not just from the break up, but from my college years before it. My highschool years before it. Everything. My whole identity, my entire concept of self from my whole life, it doesn’t feel like it’s mine. They’re my memories that I can play back, and my emotions that I can recall, but I still feel so detached from it.
I no longer feel like I’m on autopilot, like I’m existing in a body that doesn’t belong to me, but this body doesn’t feel like home. It’s mine, but at the same time, it isn’t. It probably doesn’t make any sense but that’s just how it feels. Not in a troon way either. Just in a sort of existential dread-esque way, I guess.
I’m also trying to figure out where to go from here, job wise. Find hobbies to make life worthwhile, and hopefully a job that’s a little worth my while too, right? But after all this, I don’t know if what I want for myself is even what I actually want for myself. I don’t know what I want, I don’t even feel like a real person to some extent. It’s weird. I wish I had some drive and some purpose but I feel like eventually, everything that I try to do to bring purpose and warmth into my life will just go right through me, as if I’m a sieve and everything meaningful is water that just pours straight through.
Sorry for the weird rambling.
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Is this how the 2010's will be remembered
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I bought a bunch of midi dresses and skirt and it was the best decision ever. I'd be okay with never wearing pants again tbh.
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Happened to watch the new pewdiepie video and i think he got some botox
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Uh it doesn't really translate as it really showed more when you notice his forehead rly not moving, here's the thumbnail though
Nah, it really does sound awful based on your post alone anon. Also fuck that interview guy lol.
I went to an interview that I ultimately declined the job offer for (despite being super desperate to leave my shit retail job at the time) because the entire thing made me feel so off. It was in a super industrial area and I powerwalked for like 10 minutes straight but the entire time it was eerily quiet and empty with lots of cars/trucks/things for shady people to hide behind (did not want to think about what it would be like in the winter time when it gets dark fast). The interviewers definitely did not take the time to look at my resume beforehand because there was a lot of awkward silences as he stared at it before finding something to ask about (usually not a bad thing since ppl can be super inundated with applications and resumes, but the job posting had been up for a while and I was immediately offered the job like a day or two later so I got the feeling they didn't have that many applicants in the first place). The office was drab and I just had a weird feeling as I sat on a stool in a tiny nook in the wall right by the entrance.
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men age like wine, pass it on.
he always looked inbred tbf
he looks a bit better on right because of the foundation coverage
Maybe your levels are just out of wack. I hope it’s an easy fix for u anon.
Are you ordering fulfilled by Amazon or just from secondary sellers in the marketplace?
Just buy your dildo from a proper online sex shop it's just as discreet shipping and billing wise.
I love Judah so much
I'm so happy Princess Carolyn got a happy ending with a man that treats her right and he's an an incredible business partner
Anon wtf use a spoiler tag
I didn't even open the video but now that plot development is ruined for me
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Is there a name for the phobia of whatever this is?
Maybe cause rich people don't need to save money by buying cheap chinese items. They can go to the nearest mall and buy designer clothes, sponges and god knows what else.
Fuck off with that judgmental crap, you don't know the whole story and it's none of your business anyway.