/ot/ - off-topic

I hate this dude's face with passion

come on, the joke is stale, looking at that guy's picture every time is really annoying.

>>472876
Him being abusive didn't even cross my mind but it sounds plausible. I haven't even met the guy so I'm not sure if I should judge him already. It all kinda adds up though. This summer she all of a sudden started craving male validation. Then, her grandpa died and 2 weeks later she got a boyfriend. She's definitely not in a good mental space and her boyfriend probably takes advantage of it.
>>472910
Yeah I'll definitely keep an eye out now.
I have no idea why he isn't going with her to the clinic? That's actually a huge red flag. She said that they were gonna be more careful from now on, which means that they're still together. That makes him not going to the clinic with her even more fucked up.

Thanks anons for opening my eyes over this situation.

>>467859
>Its not fucking fair that a woman's fertility window is so fucking short. So if we can only get pregnant until age 35-40 or whatever then why the fuck do we live so long?

I like to believe in the idea of the sexes being a yin and yang of each other.

Maybe we live longer then men because men in primitive times were more at risk for young deaths and that woman being more of the caregiver sex we were blessed to live longer because within a community having older woman that can pass down wisdom to younger members of their community and become a type of gatekeeper of knowledge. Maybe I'm being romantic in the idea of there being wise old woman sages in many villages that everyone would consult for guidance in more primitive days just sounds interesting to me.

>>473201
The romanticism is laid on so thick.

Vague vent but I started to realize just how shitty and emotionally immature my “best friend” is, and now the problem is trying to figure out how I can step away from her without causing too big of a scene.

I'm not exactly a NEET since I have a full time job, but I never even graduated high school due to depression and my job is a shitty dead-end one. I've also stopped talking to anyone outside of work years ago.

I don't even have depression anymore so I don't know what my excuse is, I think by now I've been saying I'll go back to school for about 8 years now without doing so. I'm just too comfortable not expending any effort into anything except making a few bucks. But soon I'll be old and have no accomplishments whatsoever. I guess I'm just a lazy fuck.

>>473091
Who is it and why are they being used for these threads he last few months?

>>473276
he's a new age con man called braco. he's basically replaced amanda seyfried as /ot/'s board tan.

>>473312
Boring. At least Amanda seyfried stuff was mildly funny after the obsessed sperging.

This seems more like op has kept up a joke that didn’t get a laugh the first time it was said.

>>473314
pretty sure it started because a robot kept spamming him on here to ~heal~ us kek. clearly he's still needed seeing as how many people recoil from his healing gaze on here

I'm afraid I might be pregnant. I've experienced some spotting in the last couple months which has never happened to me before, including yesterday a period which seemed to last all day but when I woke up this morning it was gone. I have been stressed and my period is a bit irregular but I've never had this happen. I love my bf and I could definitely see myself being a parent with him in the future, but we've been together less than a year and aren't living together or anything, plus we are both in the middle of college. I took a pregnancy test about a month ago that was negative, but now I still haven't gotten my period and the spotting again has me really scared. I'm just not ready for this big of a change or stable enough to give a kid what it needs so I guess abortion is the main option but that doesn't really comfort me either. I feel like a dumbass now for not going on birth control the second I became sexually active with him. Of course we use condoms every time but apparently we made a mistake or it wasn't enough. At the same time I haven't taken a test again yet so I might be paranoid and worrying about nothing… Has anyone else been in this situation? What did you do?

>>473314
>amanda seyfried stuff was mildly funny
I was there for it and it genuinely…wasn't.

>>473858
Just take another test dumbass

Decided to sit and observe my school’s feminism club-not even as a faculty advisor but just to kinda see what it was all about. The actual faculty advisor was using words like “bitch” and “slut” and brought up young women dressing provocatively (literally in crop tops but okay) online without even trying to view it from a more uh idk critical lens? Like examining why some women might be socialized to do that? Idk. It was pretty irritating. The other teacher just kept talking about herself and kept interrupting the students. Part of me never wants to go again, but I also kind of want to see if I can subtly present more radical feminist ideas.

>>473878
Socialization is such a shitty excuse.
Literally blaming people for making you want to lie and manipulate them.

My ex boyfriend/rapist from over 10 years ago messaged me on FB out of the blue last week, and I have felt spooked and sick to my stomach ever since. The cheeky cunt had the balls to ask me how life was treating me and how my family are. I absolutely cannot believe the fucking audacity of some men. You fucking take my virginity without my consent and continued to rape me and ruined my relationship with sex ever since. What does he really expect me to say? 'Yeah, great thanks all thanks to you abusing me all those years ago! Totally not angry or disgusted that you've messaged me at all'

I don't even know how he found me as my name has changed since he knew me, so now I am scared in case he's been stalking me all this time, or I don't know. I'm sick of men at the moment.