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No. 44923
>>44898I'm going to sound SJW here but I've always thought that women are held to a higher standard of kindness than men are.
People will make negative comments about women for being catty to other women, meanwhile men will kill and steal from each other and no one makes gendered comments like "omg why are men so mean and catty to each other? stop the man-on-man hate!"
No. 44929
>>44923There are different stereotypes for men and women.
There's the stereotype of men violently competing and being unnecessarily aggressive or violent for dumb reasons.
Then there's the stereotype of women being passive aggressive or bitchy. Backhanded compliments, being kind to people face-to-face but shittalking them behind their backs.
These stereotypes also tend to be mutually exclusive. Women are seen as not being violent or prone to direct confrontation, while men are seen as being more likely to assert their dislike of someone to their face, rather than being passive aggressive or two-faced.
People do voice stereotypes about male aggression and fighting all the time. It's just that a large part of society views aggression, even mindless aggression, as somehow honorable or respectable. In contrast, passive aggressive or deceptive actions are viewed as weak, dishonorable, and cowardly.
Though in addition to that, I think there's also a perception that a much larger portion of Western women are bitchy or catty than the portion of Western men who are violent.
No. 44936
>>44923Tbh anon, in this day and age. No one really gives a flying fuck about anybody but themselves unless it benefits them, gets them where they want to be or gets when with a certain person. They don't care.
Of course, not everyone.
Also I'm getting pretty sick of "all men are this-" because yeah, it's generalizing and women are no better tbh.
Overall, everyone is a cunt.
No. 44940
>>44895>I mean… you get shitty glares off other girls just on the street (not always) for nothing. Absolutely nothing and it makes you think "Jesus christ what was that for?".I've noticed this. I give a little smile at almost everyone I pass and most of the time when it's a woman she smiles back, but every now and then she'll glare, look me up and down, or roll her eyes and look away. I have never had a guy do this. A guy will either smile back, ignore it or look down. Why? Why do women do this?
At the same time, I've caught myself watching a woman on tv and think "what a cunt", or "oh, she'd be prettier if she did xyz" without noticing what the man is doing, or how he's looking. I guess I'm part of the problem too.
No. 44943
>>44940:( Idk
maybe we're just horrid creatures who want to see other prettier girls suffer kek
nah i joke
idk why women do this
not all obv but most the conceited little misses do this
"i am beta dan u"
ugh
No. 44963
>>44944Well done do-gooder-chan.
Not everyone who claims women being "bitchy snakes" is on JSA and have sad lives you know?
Majority of people, including women ARE cunts to each other. NOT ALWAYS obviously.
Glad you live in a wonderful fairytale dream. Sorry for having an opinion and experiences kek.
No. 44966
>>44963lol are you seriously up in here trying to defend cunts who go out of their way to talk about others behind their backs?
I guess you're one of those cunts huh :^)
No. 44968
>>44966No, I'm just saying that some people do think women are mostly the ones who are cunts to each other. That's all. Majority of the time it's because we've experienced it and it shouldn't be encouraged. But due to those experiences you sort of BELIEVE it more.
Plus it's a cunt thing to say "ur all on JSA so yh obv"
Again, lolcow is infested with dumblr feminist fucks who "all men tho" and just love to give out how amazing and "that's so wrong omg how dare u say that" all over the place.
Don't like the thread then fuck off.
No. 44969
>>44968You sound like you're on JSA tbh. Who else would get THIS upset about the previous post.
>plus it's a cunt thing to saylol where do you think you are.
No. 44982
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>>44979>>44978
>London>good partJSA confirmed.
No. 45049
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>I'm female and all my closest friends are men. They aren't emotional mine fields you have to carefully navigate with diplomacy. They genuinely rejoice when I have some little victory, rather than comparing themselves, putting themselves down, having to be endlessly reassured. You don't have to do the little self-put-down dances, like:
>"I'm so fat."
>"NO, you're perfect. I'm so fat."
>"NO, you're perfect. I'm so fat."
>Et cetera.
>Men I know like to talk about interesting things, like science, philosophy, politics, news stories. They thrive on intellectual challenges, rather than fearing or punishing you for them. You can be frank. You can joke around without fear of offending them. You can dress any way you want without competitiveness. There's no cattiness or passive aggression. You can just be yourself.
>If you ask me, friendships with men are much simpler, easier and more genuine. Yet so many fine and interesting men lack friends! Just be friendly and they're grateful for it. I highly recommend their companionship.