/ot/ - off-topic

annoying friends thread exists

My gf's family is full of psychos. Her mother is a legit crazy woman, she treated my gf like shit her entire life, she's punched and slapped my gf, even threatened to kill her with a knife. Her dad doesn't do shit about it and lets her mother live on their property, though he doesn't love her anymore and has cheated several times. Her dad also openly says he prefers my gf's sisters to her. Her maternal grandmother is a psycho conspiracy theorist/racist Christian Trump supporter who hates the fact her daughter had kids with a Mexican. My gf's sisters are equally insufferable, one of them is this thick as pigshit emo bitch who is harmless but extremely stupid, and keeps making horrible decisions. Her other sister is in her 30s and has just become a transtrender/uwu enby and makes every single conversation about her genderspecial shit. I can't stand them. As much as I hate being in a LDR, on the upside I don't have to see her psychotic family every day. As soon as it's possible I'm going to have her move in with me and away from that madhouse.

>>426228
This is a bit different as it's more of a place to bitch about people you know through others. Annoying friends implies people that are directly dear to you that sometimes do annoying things.

>>426225
Do SO’s of immediate family count? If so i have enough stories to write a book.

>>426256
I'd like to hear.

Ugh bless this thread. My bf's mom treats him like shit and I can't talk to him about it because I don't want to upset him.

She acts like he's an idiot: she talks really slowly or raises her voice (like she's talking to someone who can't speak English or an elderly person) when speaking to him. It's really patronising and unnecessary. If he makes even the tiniest error, she sees it as a "gotcha" moment (as to why she's justified in treating him like a child or someone with special needs) and will remind him of it for ages afterwards. It's always over really benign stuff too like forgetting an item on the shopping list. The only time she talks to him normally is when she wants him to do something for her or when she wants money. The worst part is that he does so many thankless things for her. She's a hoarder so he's constantly cleaning up after her (he's worried about her injuring herself) and instead of thanking him or appreciating that he's concerned for her safety, she tells him off and then immediately proceeds to fuck the place up again. He's considered getting her a therapist or professional cleaners to help out and ofc this would have to come out of his pocket. He's always looking after HER animals by bringing them to the vet or ordering basic care items for them online (you'd think someone getting a new animal would consider if they can afford vet visits or to feed them or would even research what to buy for them to keep them safe/happy but nope). She'd rather just watch them die or suffer over totally preventable problems. She uses the animals to guilt him into giving her money too which I think is fucking unforgivable. My theory is that she's spending it on some addiction as it's clear that nothing goes towards the animals, they're living in horrible conditions. He's trying to save up to move out and I'm sure a 10 or a 20 here and there doesn't seem like much to him but it's likely eating a hole into his savings. It annoys me because he's such a sweet guy and she's abusing that.

They're a bunch of hillbillies with drinking problems. His parents are constantly fighting and drinking too much when we go places, it's embarrassing. They have always been very supportive and helpful so I feel bad for disliking them. His mom drank so much recently she fell over and pissed herself.

Luckily my BF does not enjoy being around them either but we still see them about once a month and it always puts me on edge.

>>426256
OP here- Sure. We can broaden the thread to be anyone connected to a loved one that you're forced to interact with but otherwise wouldn't deal with if you had a choice.

My brother in law is an alt-right nazi bro, swastika flags and all. You can tell he's purely doing this to be edgy. He has a poster of Edward Norton from American History X on his wall, so my bet is that he's never even watched the movie.