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No. 318112

What do farmers think of this? Asian men and white women in relationships with each other tagging everything with AMWF and advertising their relationship as something unique and woke. I've seen a bit of it on Instagram and it's always the same people commenting and liking.

No. 318115

Another fucking thread about asians?

No. 318117

>""""movement""""
Interracial couples doing this shit is nothing new, there are tons of videos of WMBF on youtube, just because a handful of people do it, it does not constitute as a fucking "movement".

No. 318120

Dude on the right is ugly. Do fetishists have absolutely no taste?

No. 318122

as a white woman engaged to an asian man, who cares.

this sounds like an incel/femcel post.

No. 318124

>>318112
Back to r/asianmasculinity with you

No. 318127

>>318124
That anon sounded more like one of the racist spergs who are obsessed with asians than an r/asianmasculinity poster

No. 318128

>>318112
Thread locked in 3 2 1

No. 318129

i don't understand why communities for specific interracial relationships even need to exist at all? you can be from any race and date whatever race you want, who cares. it just makes these relationships more stereotypical, it's not like every asian man and white woman relationship is the same. it just looks like these couples don't have anything more to their relationship other than their race and these people are trying to show off their partners' race.

No. 318131

>>318129
I think the tag AMWF is dumb af, and I agree. Just date whoever you want without making a big deal out of it. I hate racists people, but i also hate people who make a big deal about being in a mixed race relationship as well. It isn't a goal or accomplishment.

No. 318132

>>318129
I just find it weird they distinguish themselves by the sex/race. Wouldn't they have just as much in common with an Asian girl in a relationship with a white guy, same sort of cultural issues coming up etc. But they seem to view each other as rivals.

No. 318134

>>318129
tags on IG are not "communities"

>>318132
this isn't a normal view, weirdos on the internet don't represent normal people.

No. 318140

>>318132
The absolute majority of people usually date within their own race. Just because some people parade themselves with their "oh so against the grain" interracial relationships, it means nothing.

No. 318141

There's one of these girls on a site called nextshark called heather johnson yu. White girl in a relationship with a Chinese American guy. She's always writing articles about how white men in relationships with asian women are awful and white women like her "love and support asian men". She pushed it too far when she accused asian women of being self hating and not "appreciating" asian men enough and ended up deleting a lot of her social media.

You don't see this stuff with other interracial relationships. Hispanic guys relationships with a white girls will often be friends with white guys who are in relationships with hispanic girls because they feel like they have something in common with each other.

It's just so weird this specifically happens with amwf relationships. I have no idea why.

No. 318148

I see AMBF stuff more. But I don't think either tagging their shit is that weird, AMWF and AMBF are both kinda rare so I guess it's a way to find each other.

The people, usually white men, who get over the top angry about it produce good milk though.

No. 318149

>>318148
I think letting your partner advertise you as a trophy is pretty weird. People with self respect usually aren't cool with that.

No. 318150

Not much to say about this but I remember one of the communities for Asian men on Reddit crowdfunded an AMWF porno. I think it was either /r/aznidentity or /r/hapas, but I don't remember which.

No. 318152

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>>318148
>The people, usually white men, who get over the top angry about it produce good milk though.
Really depends where you're looking. A lot of men of different races hate when "their" women date or marry out of race. Blacks are usually harsher than most (unless you go to /pol/ and look around threads that are specifically posted to troll the racists)

No. 318153

>>318150
Oh yeah I remember that. They crowd funded a porno with an asian guy and a white girl to "piss off white guys and asian girls". It featured a parody of that streamer chick STPeach. Who then ordered them to take it down lol.

No. 318154

>>318153
There's also an asian male pornstar called Jeremy Long who is a part of those Asian supremacist communities. His Asian wife committed suicide partly because of his line of work and he wrote a long article about how he saw his "work" as a kind of social justice because he was fucking white girls.

No. 318155

Please, not another fucking race thread. Go to reddit if you wanna talk about this dumb shit

No. 318157

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aznidentity on Reddit is milky.

No. 318159

>>318154
Article in question

https://nextshark.com/jeremy-long-final-statement/

His wife killed herself because of his emotional abuse. He was apparently obsessed with white women and she felt unwanted and unloved. So fucked up.

No. 318160

>>318157
>Not even white
>Still feels entitled to white women and gets angry when they date other races

Next level entitlement. Wtf. I thought their whole schtick was that they wanted asian girls anyway.

No. 318167

>>318141
>You don't see this stuff with other interracial relationships.
You see this stuff all the time. Maybe not specifically tagging their pics as #XMYF, but the similar dragging of the female counterpart of the race of your bf (or vice versa).

Yanno… white/latina/even asian women who hate on black women and call them manly and ungrateful, while only dating black guys. white men who laugh at asian men's perceived femininity while being yellow fever weebs. nonwhite women who make fun of white women while chasing white guys. nonwhite guys who hate white men but put white women on a pedestal, etc etc etc…

No. 318168

>>318154

A lot of the guys on that subreddit are obsessed with white women and seem to think that because it's relatively common for Asian women to date white men it should be common in reverse too.

No. 318170

>>318168
I don't understand. If they're annoyed at asian women for dating out doesn't that mean they want asian women? If they want to be with white women, why would they be angry at asian women for also wanting to be with white men?

No. 318171

>>318170

I'm not sure. I think they're just kinda mad at women in general because they feel unwanted.

No. 318172

>>318166
Yikes. But if you read his article he talks about the emotional toll his job took on her. He describes it as "fighting for asian men". I mean no shit if you're viewing yourself as part of some battle to win white women while you're married to an asian girl… Of course that's going to mess with her emotions. What a clueless, self centered prick.

No. 318174

>>318170
It might be because they perceive white men who can relatively easily date both white women and asian ones, and they compare themselves to them. It's more of a competition to them to be as "desired" as white men, which means being lusted by both their own women and white women. It might be a mixture of some inferiority complex.

No. 318175

>>318155
Man, seriously. Especially about this? What issue do they have with this coupling that is rarely seen? What even is this? It's not common at all. This racebaity shit really needs to be kept to a minimum.

No. 318176

>>318175
It may not be that common irl but you can't really avoid it if you post on weeby sites like this. Half of the cows we mock on here are in this type of relationship after all.

No. 318180

>>318148
I stumbled onto a forum for AMBF couples whilst looking for blasian ppl blogs and it was super creepy imo. It's like on one hand they want the asspats for being in an unusual racemix relationship, but there's this strong undercurrent of just wanting to pop out "exotic" blasian babies. Even though (imo) most blasian ppl look normal to ugly, but the population is small enough that the top 1% of the hot ones somehow now represent all of us.

It's similar to asian women who constantly talk about having cute hapa babies, wanting to "breed" or make a big deal about their baby being half white.

No. 318196

Meh, from what I've seen most AMWF couples look a lot more happier anf genuine than WMAF couplew, men in WMAF couples often tend to be bitter, angry, have their relationship revolve around fetishization and sterotyping, getting mad when the woman doesn't fit the stereotype, etc.

Even if say both are fetishizing, just an observation, I've never ever seen a WMAF couple where the man wasn't extremely bitter or mentally stable

No. 318197

>>318196
Sup r/aznidentity. Got any more crowdfunded porn ideas?

No. 318198

>>318197
Ntayrt but chill out, hateboner-chan.

No. 318199

>>318196
AMWF couples a lot of the time are extremely toxic due to asian men being by far more needy and chauvinistic than your average white man. The idea that asian women are more subservient is largely due to asian men being far more misogynistic and sexist. And a lot of the time the women who are in these kinds of relationships are too completely deluded because all they do is consume unhealthy amount of asian media. Either you're lying through your teeth or are completely deluded yourself.

No. 318200

>>318196
AMWF couples a lot of the time are extremely toxic due to asian men being by far more needy and chauvinistic than your average white man. The idea that asian women are more subservient is largely due to asian men being far more misogynistic and sexist. And a lot of the time the women who are in these kinds of relationships are too completely deluded because all they do is consume unhealthy amount of asian media. Either you're lying through your teeth or are completely deluded yourself.

No. 318206

>>318198
What makes you think I'm not chilled out already? I don't hate anyone. Most people who have a strong opinion on interracial relationships, and want to insult one type of relationship while praising another are men. It's as simple as that.

No. 318209

>>318196

This has been my experience too but it's skewed by the fact that I've met white man/asian woman couples who were mail order bride marriages.

No. 318212

>>318200
Again, this is just what I've myself

No. 318213

do we really need this thread? this isnt even a phenomenon exclusive to this pairing. anyone who parades their "relationship" around on the internet based on their partners race is probably messed up in some way. most irl couples arent like this.

No. 318269

>>318196
That's how I feel about bmww and wmbw. The latter just seems more happier and content in general.

No. 318278

>>318269
Unironically agree.

No. 318279


No. 318283

>>318209
Ugh, kinda OT but isn't this the worst? You think you know a person, hey they might even be kind of cool, then they show up with their new Cambodian bride who can barely speak English. Respect instantly drops to zero.

What amazes me the most is probably the lack of any shame on part of the men who engage in this bullshit.

No. 318285

>>318269
it's true

source: my parents were bmww and it was actual hell. i've never seen an actually happy or content bmww couple in my life.

No. 318291

>>318283
The number one destination for southeast asian brides is actually other asian countries. Actually a lot of poor Vietnamese girls have been killed by their Korean husbands in recent years. Our perception of it is just based on what we see. It's like pedos in southeast Asia. Koreans are supposedly the worst offenders according to international bodies.

No. 318294

>>318283

Pretty much every white man I've met with an Asian gf has been exactly what you would expect. Nerdy, doesn't shower much, doughy physique and models his personality after "sarcastic" Youtubers.

The men who go for mail order brides are even doughier, but older and sadder.

No. 318295

>>318294

Why do you feel the need to distinguish between the sexes here? It's not as if amwf is any better. Look at /pt/….

No. 318296

Louis Theroux has a great documentary on men who buy Thai brides. I guess it's kinda old now but still a good watch.

No. 318298

>>318295

Because I've met a couple of normal AMWF couples. Some white girls with a billion split ends and a not so secret stash of yaoi doujinshi and their henpecked bfs too, but also a few normals.

No. 318300

>>318298
I've honestly never met a white girl with an asian boyfriend who wasn't excessively into anime or K-pop. I've met a few normal white guys with asian girls who had no interest in asian media though. They were a bit nerdy, but it was more the sort of engineer/programmer/tech related nerdy.

No. 318305

>>318213
This. Even people who date within their race are insufferable when they make it a point to talk about how they're the same race all the time.

It's current year, no one cares.

No. 318307

>>318305
No one does this though lol. At least not among white couples.

No. 318311

>>318300

A woman I work with is white with a Chinese husband. She could be a secret weeaboo but she seems like your standard middle aged white woman. Her husband picks her up from the office every Friday and he just seems like a normal boring person too. The only actual interesting thing about them is that they're in an interracial marriage.

Same thing for a couple I knew for years til they moved to another state. The girl was a raw vegan who acted like yoga was the answer to all the world's problems but that was the only weird thing about them.

No. 318312

>>318307
Maybe not on IG, but there are plenty of /pol/tards on various platforms that won't shut up about "savin' the hwat race"

No. 318314

>>318295
Can you show us an example of a grown adult woman traveling across the globe to find a poor desperate Asian teenager, with very limited understanding of English, to bring back home and make hopelessly dependent upon them?

No?

Even if you could, cases of men doing this exact thing would outnumber that one example by the thousands.

No. 318317

It seems like both Asian dudes and Asian girls both really like dating whitey. To the point that most of them will take a white person above someone of their own race. Although a lot of Asian men accuse Asian women of white worshipping which strikes me as hypocritical. This is only for Asian Americans and Canadians mind. The males back in Asia are fixated on Russian and Eastern European women for some reason. Chinese guys believe Russian women all want to marry them because Chinese state media makes it a point to aggressively cover marriages between Chinese men and Russian women to the point that most of them believe Russian girls all want to come to China to escape the clutches of evil drunken Russian men. I'm sadly not joking.

No. 318321

I am a WF in a AMWF relationship. I don't really think about the fact that we're interracial because it doesn't really matter, like our families have a bit language barriers but that's it. I wouldn't ever use a tag like amwf because it just feels really gross. I would imagine that anyone using these tags are fetishizing each other pretty much in the same way wmaf would.

No. 318322

>>318317
Note there's also a growing trend of sex trafficking and dubious marriage brokerages in places like Belarus as a result of this. The government there has recently clamped down on it. A couple of years ago a Russian girl was raped and killed in Harbin too, and the case was hushed up by the Chinese and Russian governments for obvious reasons. More recently a Russian girl died while modeling for a Chinese firm in Shanghai and some Russian language press reported she'd been made to have sex with men while she was over there. I think she was only 15.

No. 318325

>>318322
Anyway. The conclusion is that people everywhere are pretty shitty and fetishization differs by region and race. Asians in Asia fetishize white women as always down for sex, which means you can get unwanted attention. Asian girls in Western countries are fetishized as more docile. White women are fetishized in America as a sort of trophy, and as part of a "get one over on whitey" equation by a lot of East and South Asian men.

A good acid test to employ if you're dating an Asian guy is to see if he's ok with non Asian men dating women of his heritage. If it rustles his jimmies then he's usually pretty toxic in my experience.

No. 318326

>>318317
I'm not surprised. Interestingly, the only white women I know irl who had asian/hapa bfs are russian/ukrainian.

No. 318328

I only ever see amwf couples in geeky places like the arcade or anime cons. Coincidence? Idk lol

No. 318329

>>318326
Yeah. A lot of Chinese men have this idea that Russian and Ukrainian women are kinder and more "nice" than their own women. They're in for a surprise if they ever go there. In my experience other Slavic women like the whole machismo tough guy stereotype more than girls here do. Chinese guys usually aren't on their radar. In Russia tough guys are usually stereotyped as coming from the Caucuses.

No. 318330

>>318317
i'm not chinese but i'm also from asia and men here have such a disgusting mindset about slavic women as well. when they hear russia and ukraine they automatically think of prostitution. for some reason, they think all slavic men are evil alcoholics, slavic women are sick of them and waiting on line to marry them because they are ~~possessive real men~~

No. 318334

>>318330
A couple of years back two Korean students were killed in a brawl in an Eastern Russian city because they made the mistake of opening their mouths and saying something to that effect. From what I can remember they got drunk and started talking about how all Russian women are whores and other such things. Sad things escalated to that level but people in Eastern Europe and Russia aren't PC. If you insult their ethnicity they will react angrily and often violently, especially if you say things about their women. And especially in the near abroad of Russia, i.e. the east. People there are ironically more nationalistic.

What part of Asia are you from?

No. 318338

>>318329

Chinese (and Korean) men have that idea because Russian women are trafficked to Asia to be sex slaves in the thousands. Pretty much any Russian woman your average Chinese man meets is a trafficking victim so yes, she's going to be quiet and timid and not want to anger the crazy john who might get her beaten up. They extrapolate this to "all Russian women are quiet and submissive!"

No. 318339

>>318330
It's funny coming from a Slavic country Asian men are usually seen as feminine. And I can confirm that machismo does matter here. Usually women would describe ideal men as opposites of Aisans. Really tall, muscles, hairy even, most women don't even mind the drunkenness, some kinda like it.

No. 318342

>>318339
This was exactly the thing I first thought when I first encountered the stereotype. Like. Of all the places in the world Slavic and Balkan countries are the complete opposite in terms of what sort of men are considered attractive. I never used to believe Chinese people were brainwashed by their government until I realized that all of those "Russian girl married Chinese man" stories got a large part of the population thinking in this way.

No. 318352

>>318338
A lot of these men come from cultures where it's not unusual to buy your wife's affections. The relationship is built on that. Nobody really marries for love. As a result it's not too much of a stretch to believe some broken and unhappy Ukrainian hooker really does want you and love you.

No. 318361

>>318334
god this is awful. i'm really sorry for any slavic people who had to go through these ignorant people's bullshit.
i'm central asian living in western asia

>>318339
>>318342
they think they make better husbands and fathers, i don't even know why. they think slavic men aren't as family oriented and possessive as them. they think slavic women are submissive gold diggers. i've heard a man talking about how "slavic men can't take care of their kids, they just drink and be lazy all the time and leave all the work to women, women carry everything on their shoulders and that's why they like us, we take care of their women better than them" and shit. they don't know anything about slavic countries except their stupid gross stereotypes. i wish this mindset just died off, it's just disgusting.

No. 318362

>>318300
I’ve met plenty, though your average normie white girl who dates asian men is going to go for men adopted by white families.

No. 318366

>>318361
Semi related only but I hate how open the sex trade is in Asian countries.

No. 318390

>>318362
I don't think normie white girls will specifically go for asian men. She may meet an asian guy she likes, but the sorts of white girls who actively seek out asian men are almost all weebs and kboos.

No. 318391

>>318362
I don't think normie white girls will specifically go for asian men. She may meet an asian guy she likes, but the sorts of white girls who actively seek out asian men are almost all weebs and kboos.

No. 318394

>>318390
there is one other type which is super nervous, possibly abused girls who want someone non-threatening (this sounds mean but that's what people i know have done)

No. 318395

>>318394
Really? I guess I can see that in venus. Then again venus is a massive weeb. I also don't think asian men are really any less threatening. Maybe on the face of it.

No. 318399

>>318395
>I also don't think asian men are really any less threatening.
Not necessarily in general but there's a subset that are timid without being creepy like a timid white guy. Now that I think about it 3 of the 4 blonde girls with petite Asian men I think of were all raised Baptist (whatever that means as an Australian i don't know if it's like US baptist exactly). I noticed the demographic at those churches in my city is very multi ethnic. The 4th one is still a little bit christian. (Are christians "normies"?)

No. 318402

>>318399
I've never seen it myself so I can't comment. I've only ever seen weebs and and K-pop fans with them. Outside of that they don't seem to be popular with non Asian women.

No. 318419

>>318390
well true but what’s the difference? any girl with weeb hobbies who has an asian bf is going to be accused of being a fetishist rather than just happening to find an asian guy she’s compatible with

even most white weebs have white boyfriends. venus, mira, and the gaijin gyaru/jvloggers aside, who else is dating asian men?

No. 318450

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Racial fetishes are dumb as fuck. You get over your weeb phase and realize you don't actually find that person attractive at all.

No. 318506

>>318361
Why do they think they make better husbands? Most Asian marriages seek p loveless.

No. 318508


No. 318515

In my whole life I only met two wfam couples and both times the women were way out of the guys league.

There's this really pretty young woman who I often see in my university who has a child with a chubby asian dude who's max 160cm and definitely older than her. She's tall, skinny and rather poorly dressed. No signs of being a weeb or kboo whatsoever. They look so bizarre together, it makes them stand out like hell.

The other is your typical kboo, dressed in retarded kfashion even with those ugly round glasses, otherwise probably a really pretty girl, but settled with a below average stumpy asian dude.
Yellow fever truly is one hell of a disease…


I know quite some guys dating thai women, but all of them are similar in age and looks (and the women have the upper hand in the relationship), so no catalogue brides lol.

No. 318516

>>318338
They shut down an entire city in mainland China recently because it had become known as the sex trade capital. Tens of thousands of prostitutes.

No. 318539

Relevant. This guy's wife is one of the reasons China finally decided to implement an anti domestic violence law.

>Those who know I hit my wife, raise your hand! I am the spokesperson for domestic abuse!

>I was doing something to educate Americans! My American wife was always criticizing China, accusing our Party of lying. In such a situation, could I not hit her? […]
>Everyday accusing Beijing, saying that AQI is lying. She was lucky I could bear it, in America I would have shot her with a gun!

http://shanghaiist.com/2014/03/12/crazy_english_founder_li_yang_loves/

No. 318547

Anyone else noticed that people who are into interracial dating have mental problems?

No. 318554

This thread made me instantly think of jvloggers like rachel/jun or sharla and her husband.
They parade their husbands like trophies.

No. 318557

>>318554
Doesn't that work both ways?

I actually find the jvloggers more likable than the kvloggers. Or worse the ones with Chinese husbands. Jun seems rather westernized for a Japanese guy.

No. 318609

>>318554
I thought Sharla’s husband was rarely on camera or am I thinking of another vlogger? I think Rachel and Sharla include their husbands on their channel a normal amount, it only stands out bc they are weebs with asian husbands.

No. 318610

>>318609
My problem with them is that their content is boring. Literally their only unique selling point is their interracial relationship. Everything they put out is so utterly dull.

No. 319285

>>318120
He has no eyebrows.

No. 319417

>>318610
The pg13 youtube relationship community is boring but the tumblr amateur porn community is hot. https://yellowcumplz.tumblr.com/post/177793452088/melbamxf-slut4amwf-video-from-where-my-family

No. 319422

>>318394
Sorry somewhat OT/blogging, but you’re right, they’re not less threatening. They may seem that way because of the stereotypes we have about them as shy, nerdy, weak, skinny, short. However I’ve had a lot more horrible experiences in one year in Japan. Compared to 2 decades in my home country. IMO Asian men are at least as terrible as western men, if not worse. They’re extremely conniving. They use their “non threatening aura.” It’s basically common knowledge that 95% of the guys who go to their work parties go to fuck some drunk girl at the end of the night, if they can’t bag a girl there they lurk around public locations, near stations usually, to find some girl to fuck. I’ve had guys literally grab me, put their arm around me, beg me to kiss them, and try to drag me into side streets to do god knows what. I’ve been groped, basically had every kind of sexual assault possible here. The general public here doesn’t even consider sexual harassment to be sexual harassment, they don’t see dragging wasted girls into love hotels to bang as rape.

I actually feel super safe around white guys here by I assume they’re probably here because they’re interested in Asian girls so they’re no threat to me.

No. 319427

>>319422
I had similar experiences in Korea and China. You're right about how men use their non threatening aura to their advantage. Some will even use it to fish for compliments from foreign girls ("Western girls don't like us because we're too feminine right? Oh well.")

I can't find another word to describe it other than they're sneaky.

No. 319430

I'm married to an Asian guy, very happily at that. Anyone who picks a partner because of their race is disgusting honestly, no wonder you don't have a happy relationship if you only date because you believe your partner to be like the stereotype. Idk interracial dating is not a big deal, my relationship is really boring but happy.

No. 319431

>>319417
>slut4amwf
>porn

What are you even doing here, Asian male?

No. 319438

Locking this thread because of the ridiculous amount of race related threads, specifically asian related threads. This question could have easily been posted in any other anti thread.



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