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No. 245875

Sometimes,my husband's callous emotional affair (AS FAR AS I'M AWARE OF) ,that I've forgiven him somehow but he still doesn't feel sorry for, comes back to haunt me.

I don't know what to do. Apparently this is just a state of affairs (heh) I should deal with, and since me finding out, he took great precaution in locking his social media fromy view.

Apparently this is normal and to be expected. So I wrote to a former pre-marriage fuckboi (who, as turned out, is still hot as fuck) and told him, successfully making him angry (but still not repentant). Despite me having the kind of conversation with him he claimed to have with that affair of his (which was a lie, I saw the chats.)

Yeah I stopped writing with fuckboi because he was irritated with me being married and still being in contact . I told him I wanted to become penpals (Absolutely ok and even a form of art,the husband says in relation to his own penpalETTES), but had received no letter since .


I am immensely mad about this.

Next option, getting a new fuckboi - because the only reason the husband is mad at this one and this is totally something else than his poetry sure is that I have received nudes from fuckboi at age 16 (as opposed to picking someone up romantically while married).

Or maybe I just re-read the chatlogs I saved and try to die from frustration.

No. 245894

You sound like a cuckqueen.

No. 245896

OP, talk with your husband again and tell him you're still troubled by what he did. Either come up with some way to restore each others trust (like a "no locking our social media" rule, no more weird penpals, and work towards being more honest and open with eachother) or drop this relationship already. You need to move on from this.

No. 245897

Post your blog in the vent thread.

No. 245898

>>245875

Why are you even still with him? Sounds miserable

No. 245899

>>245894
this

>>245897
this too

get your shit together, op. this is pathetic.

No. 245900

>>245898
Because we have four kids :| I'm aware I'm looking like a bad caricature about the meek housewife being exhausted and depleted from the kids with a husband disrespecting her and seeking enjoyment in other, more interesting sluts who don't achieve a tenth of what I do but look flirty.

I can't do anything else. For what. What difference does it make if I live without him? I'm aware our marriage is a literal contract, purely pragmatic. I mean he basically have me permission to pull the same crap. But would it make me happy? Probably not. I'm hardly dragging my mind through the nights anyway.(emoji use)

No. 245901

>>245900
Nevermind, just messaged him some silly incoherent crap

No. 245903

>>245900

Leave

My mom left her husband even though she had four kids. Never looked back, happier than ever.

No. 245905

>>245900
If something's wrong between the two of you, the kids WILL sense/feel/see it. It's easier to explain it to them than making everyone go through hell

No. 245906

This rp has the worst writing style
1/10 unconvinced

No. 245908

There are multiple threads this could have gone in instead of making a new one.



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