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>>201743>Are you actually really judgemental?
Actually not very, but I do hate Muslim men and Americans (except elderly ones) so there's that>Do you speak your mind or keep it to yourself to keep the peace?
I speak my mind when appropriate
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I always save face because I prefer that people see me as kind and polite, but I'm actually a huge bitch who will talk shit about anyone behind closed doors. I pretty much always find something to judge someone for, but I keep it to myself so I don't blow my cover. My coworkers were actually shocked and teased me about it for days when they heard me say "fuck" for the first time.
I'll tend to be straight up bitch, when anon. I'll pretend to be polite irl and on named forums. I'm pretty quiet irl sometimes, but sometimes I'll say some nasty shit, people find it funny. Sometimes I'll skim the surface of what I'm thinking, but you can't say everything, people are sensitive. Lost two friends that way, so I'll be toning shit down.>>201755
Of all the people that will walk up and try and hit on you it's almost always Muslim/Indian men.
I'm pretty flip-floppy when it comes to being judgmental. I can be extremely judgmental of just about everything but at the same time I get irritated when other people are extremely judgmental. For instance, I think a lot of tattoos are stupid but the other day as I was driving around with my dad I drove past a dude with a ton of tattoos and my dad mocked the guy and called him trashy, and I was immediately compelled to defend Tattoo Dude. I guess I'm just annoyed by people feeling the need to insult others for absolutely no reason.>>201756
The swearing thing used to happen to me too lol. I swear like a sailor with my close friends but any who's just an acquaintance is always shocked by it.
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Forgot to add trannies and 'sexually liberal' SJWs who turn around and cry when they inevitably end up as some fuckboy's used up shag rag and act surprised that they can't get a boyfriend.
Even when you do tell them to tone it down for their own good they lash out at you and call you sexist and judgmental.>>201772
Tbh Indian men are super weird but not really aggressive (ime) and don't insist that showing ankles = town bike. They are however super condescending and always sound oddly argumentative when talking to a woman. Indian ladies are always lovely so it's a pity, I hate meeting their siblings for this reason alone.
>Are you actually really judgemental?
I don't judge people for how they look or anything like that, but I don't try to hide my opinions from assholes who I know personally. If someone has a shitty personality I'm going to 'judge' them forever. I would never talk shit about people who I consider genuine friends because I'd feel guilty.
>Do you speak your mind or keep it to yourself to keep the peace?
I tend to be ultra polite but I'm trying to change this because I consider it a personal weakness at times. The majority of the time though, I keep my opinions to myself because I don't have the energy to insert myself into issues because it's draining and puts me into a shitty obsessive mood.>>201779
We are the same.
I am the queen of judgement internally, but I've always made sure to be polite and kind to everyone outside.
I just really fucking hate a lot of people and am truly disgusted by certain political views, lifestyles, and other shit like that.
I feel bad because I harbor these thoughts and do nothing to shut them down, but I also feel like ranting in my head prevents me from being vocal about these things.
I mean I guess its better to be two faced and courteous to people than to be an outright bitch overall?
A combination of rampant shame at the idea of being lazy and no frustration tolerance for procrastinators has led me to become the harpy I am.
Go clean your house or write a resume okay? You'll be happier once it's done.
Judginess is expecting people to hold up to your own standard, and expecting yourself to do it to. Don't drop your standards with yourself.
It's weird because I wouldn't necessarily consider myself a 'bitch', but I am a very angry person on the inside (and it's only getting worse.) All throughout my life I've been meek, shy, and very polite almost to a fault. I'm pretty much a doormat and I'm nice to everyone. I don't think I've ever raised my voice to anyone or said anything cruel to someone's face.
However, on the inside I am just this big ball of rage . I only let out my anger when I'm alone in my room and I usually take it out on myself physically. It gets harder and harder for me to not get visibly angry anymore, and I'm at the point where I have to actively restrain myself from saying mean shit or just telling people to get fucked. I'm not sure if it's because I keep it all bottled up inside and it has been building up through the years, or maybe I'm just sick of people taking advantage of me. Sick of people in general.
I would never physically harm anyone other than myself, but I do worry that I will eventually become a heartless raging bitch and not treat people well anymore. I don't want that to happen but idk…that seems to be where I'm heading.