/ot/ - off-topic

get rid of her. seriously. girls like that are emotional vampires. why would a girl tell you about other guys if not to do some weird manipulation nonsense. this girl is crazy, who tells someone they barely know they love them.

>>195084
She told me that after we went through something intense together. I think she knows it makes me jealous, I even mention it and she then keeps pushing these discussions but keeps mentioning how they aren't me.

What I can't makes sense of, is whether she had feelings and if I read her right. We both have a touch of autism, or at least I do.

Maybe she is an emotional vampire. she seems to care sometimes but then jokingly call herself an 'uncaring' dad. I don't know. I can't stop thinking about her, trying to figure out how to interpret her.

We had one hangout and then like 1 month later before her show, she said she loved me and was gonna marry me at her show, maybe the context was a joke but prior message was me just congratulating her on her show.

>>195086
stop trying to figure her out and ask her directly. dont waste your time on these people who want to be mysterious and play life like theyre in a movie

>>195087
she avoids it, she says to let it develop. I don't have many friends, and the female friends I do have are very much based on shared interest and our discussions are always platonic. I haven't ever seen a female friend nude. I don't know if there is a romantic/sexual spark which is what is tricky for me to decipher. I've asked her, she tells me to chill, to let it develop, and stuff like the >picrelated.jpg

>>195088
yeah she wants you around as that close guy friend that worships her and gives lots of advice and attention. it's obvious she doesn't want to take it any further and is only using you for the attention you give her. drop her anon

>>195089
But that's the weird thing. When she was like "i love you", or when she kissed me IRL, I didn't reciprocate because I thought we were platonic.

>>195082
I think she wants to have a relationship with you but knows the distance is too great.

she's using you. just seems emotionally draining tbh

>>195082
She likes you.

Don't think much about it. Consider if you're getting what you want from the relationship, and adjust it if so. No point in thinking am I X or am I Y. Treat each issue individually.

She's actually a reptillian. She's testing you, and if you pass (stay by her side) she'll let you into her tribe and you'll bear her lizard babies

she seems annoying even just based on the screencap you provided. you send her a job lead and she says she "can't" cold call jobs? no bitch, you WON'T cold call jobs. bc you're lazy and entitled

Directly ask her what she wants from you, if she doesn't know then move on and start treating you platonic. She sounds kinda crazy though tbh.