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No. 191646

How do you feel about gay men ?

No. 191674

They can be some of the most misogynistic people alive. The few that aren't like that are okay, I guess. Just normal people, but attracted to the same gender.

No. 191675

>>191674
Pretty much this. The misogyny is real with them especially ones who are extravagant like drag queens or the guys with over the top loud personalities that stereotype what women say and how it should be said, if that makes sense.

There's a few who are chill and are not about the godawful subculture that lies within the LGBT community.

No. 191693

>>191674
>>191675
Same could be said for lesbians if we're painting with such a broad brush here

No. 191705

>>191646
Just guys that happen to feel attracted to other guys. Some of them are chill, others are assholes, just like every other human on earth with a personality, you know.

There's some cringe with the guys that try to emulate an estereotype just to fit in (otherwise, who'd think they are gay, right? Right? As if body language wasn't enough to send the 'message'.) I've noticed this happens a lot with people fresh out off the closet, trying to figure out how to "be gay" or w/e and such. There's this mormon dude I've known from some years that recently came out. He dyed his hair and start styling it the stereotypical way (at least in my country), adopted feminine mannerisms, change his whole wardrobe and started to act all sassy and catty. He had some kind of life crisis, I even thought he was about to change his name to make it more "gay" sounding. Though it came to an end when a friend we have in common had a talk with him, so he went back to his normal self and soon after started to date an amazing guy that makes him happy.

I hope being gay get more normalized soon. If there's a bond between consenting people that love each other who tf cares if they are of whatever gender? The world is pretty much fucked up so let love flow (in a consenting and responsible manner) lol

No. 191730

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>>191705

I have no gay-dar and have asked out several men who have turned out to be good friends instead.
College basically introduced me to more gay people than I had ever met in real life (come from a town of 2,000 in the whitest state in the US).

One thing I noticed is how hard it was for me to "predict" whether or not somebody was gay, despite everybody dressing against their gender for the four years I was there. I also learned that people, regardless of sexuality, can be sexless, sex-shy, demure, or predatory, aggressive, insistent, repetitive… Some people take their sexuality and use it to define themselves more than others. One friend of mine is just a normal ass person who happens to be gay. Actually, the majority of them. I did have a great female friend who left a few years ago who consistently hit on me, despite turning her down. It wasn't threatening, but it was persistent, and because we were both women she felt more comfortable talking about her genitals around me, and in a group of girls one night after someone experienced nipple piercing, she found it appropriate to flash people her tit, including me.

So yeah. Sometimes people make being gay their outward, constantly present and all-encompassing identity, while others have had the chance to move on, whether they've accepted themselves or not, come out or not, or feel comfortable telling others.

No. 191742

Gay men made me realize how shitty it feels to find out someone was only pretending to like you so they could fuck you so for that I am grateful. I don't try to have sex with women now unless I want to be in a relationship with them. One of my best friends is gay but he's just a normal dude. He is more narcissistic than average and talks about people behind their backs more than average which I have noticed is true of most gay men. I don't think I'll ever be able to trust him fully because of this.

No. 191761

Gay men are like any group of people - there's chill, there's obnoxious, there's good, there's bad, it just depends on the individual. I have no issue with very effeminate gay guys either, but gay guys who do drag AND are misogynistic are annoying. I feel like there's definitely a way to drag because you like it and not be misogynistic asshole, especially with ugly jokes.

But gay men who are misogynists fucking suck. I mean, all misogynists suck but it seems like a lot of them think they can get a pass for it because they're gay.

I like bisexual guys the most, but that may or may not be because I'm bi myself.

No. 191781

Good
>honest
>decent to great hygiene
>above average taste in video games and shows

Bad
>poor money management
>most annoying ones are always narcissists that never stop talking about themselves

No. 191787

Seriously I'd rather have the most misogynistic, sexist asshole gay man than a misogynistic, sexist asshole MTF tranny. Too bad the former are slowly turning into the latter.

No. 191791

>>191787

what is with all the tranny hate on this site ? It's actually more aggressive than on 4chan ( probably because the things women complain about them is more valid than those alt-right complaints…)

No. 191792

>>191730

I feel you with the lack of a gay-dar, anon. When I was in hs I fell for a gay guy I didn't know was gay. I took some hints thinking he liked me too and invited him to go out. We went to many "dates" or so I thought, then when I tried to become closer I felt like the most idiotic bitch when he said sorry because he didn't felt the same and didn't know how do I misinterpret him. I mean, we even kissed, how did I misinterpret a kiss right? Yeah, he said it was because of his upbringing smh. Then later I discovered he baited other girls as he did to me to boost his self-esteem, and when things went too far he twisted his actions taking the «we're only friends lol» card.

Now in most recent times, many guys I asked out turned out to be gay. The funny thing is that my best friend has a very developed gay-dar and she always hit the nail, even tell me beforehand but since I'm too stubborn I asked them anyways lol

No. 191793

>>191791
Maybe read the threads and listen to people's concerns?

No. 191798

A lot of men are gay simply because it's easier to have sex with other men, and much easier to deal with other men, than it is women.

Women are expensive, and unless you have insanely good genetics, you have to put in a lot of effort to impress them. Men have to go through a lot to prove themselves worthy to females, they have to be the silverback gorilla.

With other gay men it's often just "lets fuck". That's why AIDS and other STDs are so rampant, check out your local Craigslist for this kind of behavior.

These are the gay men you might not ever know about. The gay men that you never come into contact with. Other gay men are more flamboyant and feminized, and not as promiscuous. These are the kind of gay men you're more familiar with. I think this is largely a result of western propaganda that turns men into this.

Bottom line: The majority of gay men are gay because it's too difficult and requires too much effort to have sex with females.

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No. 191801

>>191798
What drugs are you on, anon?

No. 191808

>>191798
spotted the robot

No. 191809

>>191798
>this is what robots actually believe

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No. 191817

>>191798

gay man here: can confirm.

I've decided to have to pretend to be straight to my religious extended family, deal with my mother's begrudging acceptance (she wishes that I was straight but asks me for fashion advice which i feel like is trying to have it both ways), deal with the anxiety of what will happen when I come out to my dad and significantly restrict my dating pool just cus muh misandry

No. 191818

I never understood why some gay guys are so incredibly venomous towards females. They remind me of those sociopathic jealous t-girls who hate women because they naturally have what they wish they had. Gay men don't want to be women, and most men who are attracted to them aren't into gay men so it's not like the presence of a woman is taking anything away from them. Why are they so fucking rude?

No. 191819

>>191818

jealousy that women get all the cute straight boys

No. 191829

>>191817
you have to be shitting me, how can you say that you're faking being straight because being gay is hard and also agree with some idiot who thinks gay men are gay because it's easier? what??

No. 191830

>>191829

it's obviously sarcasm duh

No. 191836

>>191818
>some gay guys are so incredibly venomous towards females
Can I have some examples?

No. 191838

They're alright if they're not extremely bitchy or flamboyant. I cant stand the try hard "yaaaaaaas girl, slay" types. I've had a few male acquaintances that were gay, but don't think I could ever be good friends with one.

No. 191842

Honestly? I've never met a gay man who didn't in the very least have a "gay accent". Most of them have all the gay likes (pop divas, drag queens) too.

And most men in my major are gay so it's not "oh anon, you only think so because you don't notice the normal ones". There -are- no normal ones, in my experience.

I can't stand them. Go be a diva somewhere else.

No. 191846

I'm glad that I'm not the only one that noticed how misogynistic they are. I'm sure there are some that are not but so far I only have negative experience with them. It's just as if they look at us like we're disgusting beings. Like a woman's body is disgusting. I overheard one commenting on a girl passing by and he said in the most vile manner (she probably heard) about her having big thighs and how it's disgusting. Imo she had average looking thighs. I think they hate anything that slightly resembles a woman.

No. 191855

>>191846
Tbh, lesbians are the same about men.

I think it just stems from the normal human tendency to fear the foreign, different and unknown, which is often expressed as hate in extreme cases.

Like xenophobia, for example. It is rooted in the fear of the foreign (hence "phobia"), but when acted upon it becomes an act of hate (deport/kill all the X).

No. 191865

http://www.newnownext.com/casual-misogyny/03/2017/

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/thinking-man/the-gay-community-needs-to-deal-with-its-misogyny-problem/

https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/the-gay-men-who-hate-women

There are numerous more of these on Google. I feel like this is similar to the SJWs who say blacks can't be racist. It's an unacknowledged issue by the masses.

No. 191867

>>191865
>It's an unacknowledged issue by the masses.
Of course it is, because gay issues in general, good or bad, are unacknowledged by the masses.

No. 191876

>>191817

Am also gay man: You're pathetic.


Agree that my own kind is misogynistic as fuck, especially the femmes. I even consider myself a femme and get sick of how woman-hating they are.

The "masc" gays hate women because they have the same mindset as redpillers but still crave cock. And the queens are just…I don't know what the fuck happened.

So many gays are copying black women, or trying to be "fierce" but actually are just being bitchy and hostile towards women. I think it's that same mentality that you find discussed in the trans threads "I'm a man and I'm still a better woman than you." which is disgusting.

No. 191880

>>191876
Dude was sarcastic.

And you need to base "your own kind" on things other than sexuality.

I know strong adversity makes groups bind together more tightly. And gays get a fuckton of adversity. But you are so much more than what you want to put your dick in. Just remember that.

No. 191889

>>191838
In my own experience the really bitchy and flamboyant ones are usually surrounded by faghags egging them on. I'm biased though, the one gay guy I've talked to was pretty normal until he really hammed it up for his faghags when they'd go out drinking and such.

No. 660855

50/50(necro)



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