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No. 191675
>>191674Pretty much this. The misogyny is real with them especially ones who are extravagant like drag queens or the guys with over the top loud personalities that stereotype what women say and how it should be said, if that makes sense.
There's a few who are chill and are not about the godawful subculture that lies within the LGBT community.
No. 191705
>>191646Just guys that happen to feel attracted to other guys. Some of them are chill, others are assholes, just like every other human on earth with a personality, you know.
There's some cringe with the guys that try to emulate an estereotype just to fit in (otherwise, who'd think they are gay, right? Right? As if body language wasn't enough to send the 'message'.) I've noticed this happens a lot with people fresh out off the closet, trying to figure out how to "be gay" or w/e and such. There's this mormon dude I've known from some years that recently came out. He dyed his hair and start styling it the stereotypical way (at least in my country), adopted feminine mannerisms, change his whole wardrobe and started to act all sassy and catty. He had some kind of life crisis, I even thought he was about to change his name to make it more "gay" sounding. Though it came to an end when a friend we have in common had a talk with him, so he went back to his normal self and soon after started to date an amazing guy that makes him happy.
I hope being gay get more normalized soon. If there's a bond between consenting people that love each other who tf cares if they are of whatever gender? The world is pretty much fucked up so let love flow (in a consenting and responsible manner) lol
No. 191730
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>>191705I have no gay-dar and have asked out several men who have turned out to be good friends instead.
College basically introduced me to more gay people than I had ever met in real life (come from a town of 2,000 in the whitest state in the US).
One thing I noticed is how hard it was for me to "predict" whether or not somebody was gay, despite everybody dressing against their gender for the four years I was there. I also learned that people, regardless of sexuality, can be sexless, sex-shy, demure, or predatory, aggressive, insistent, repetitive… Some people take their sexuality and use it to define themselves more than others. One friend of mine is just a normal ass person who happens to be gay. Actually, the majority of them. I did have a great female friend who left a few years ago who consistently hit on me, despite turning her down. It wasn't threatening, but it was persistent, and because we were both women she felt more comfortable talking about her genitals around me, and in a group of girls one night after someone experienced nipple piercing, she found it appropriate to flash people her tit, including me.
So yeah. Sometimes people make being gay their outward, constantly present and all-encompassing identity, while others have had the chance to move on, whether they've accepted themselves or not, come out or not, or feel comfortable telling others.
No. 191792
>>191730I feel you with the lack of a gay-dar, anon. When I was in hs I fell for a gay guy I didn't know was gay. I took some hints thinking he liked me too and invited him to go out. We went to many "dates" or so I thought, then when I tried to become closer I felt like the most idiotic bitch when he said sorry because he didn't felt the same and didn't know how do I misinterpret him. I mean, we even kissed, how did I misinterpret a kiss right? Yeah, he said it was because of his upbringing smh. Then later I discovered he baited other girls as he did to me to boost his self-esteem, and when things went too far he twisted his actions taking the «we're only friends lol» card.
Now in most recent times, many guys I asked out turned out to be gay. The funny thing is that my best friend has a very developed gay-dar and she always hit the nail, even tell me beforehand but since I'm too stubborn I asked them anyways lol
No. 191798
A lot of men are gay simply because it's easier to have sex with other men, and much easier to deal with other men, than it is women.
Women are expensive, and unless you have insanely good genetics, you have to put in a lot of effort to impress them. Men have to go through a lot to prove themselves worthy to females, they have to be the silverback gorilla.
With other gay men it's often just "lets fuck". That's why AIDS and other STDs are so rampant, check out your local Craigslist for this kind of behavior.
These are the gay men you might not ever know about. The gay men that you never come into contact with. Other gay men are more flamboyant and feminized, and not as promiscuous. These are the kind of gay men you're more familiar with. I think this is largely a result of western propaganda that turns men into this.
Bottom line: The majority of gay men are gay because it's too difficult and requires too much effort to have sex with females.
No. 191817
>>191798gay man here: can confirm.
I've decided to have to pretend to be straight to my religious extended family, deal with my mother's begrudging acceptance (she wishes that I was straight but asks me for fashion advice which i feel like is trying to have it both ways), deal with the anxiety of what will happen when I come out to my dad and significantly restrict my dating pool just cus muh misandry
No. 191855
>>191846Tbh, lesbians are the same about men.
I think it just stems from the normal human tendency to fear the foreign, different and unknown, which is often expressed as hate in extreme cases.
Like xenophobia, for example. It is rooted in the fear of the foreign (hence "phobia"), but when acted upon it becomes an act of hate (deport/kill all the X).
No. 191876
>>191817Am also gay man: You're pathetic.
Agree that my own kind is misogynistic as fuck, especially the femmes. I even consider myself a femme and get sick of how woman-hating they are.
The "masc" gays hate women because they have the same mindset as redpillers but still crave cock. And the queens are just…I don't know what the fuck happened.
So many gays are copying black women, or trying to be "fierce" but actually are just being bitchy and hostile towards women. I think it's that same mentality that you find discussed in the trans threads "I'm a man and I'm still a better woman than you." which is disgusting.
No. 191880
>>191876Dude was sarcastic.
And you need to base "your own kind" on things other than sexuality.
I know strong adversity makes groups bind together more tightly. And gays get a fuckton of adversity. But you are so much more than what you want to put your dick in. Just remember that.
No. 2069164
>>2069130>any men adopting childrenabsolute hell for the kids
I don't understand why men act feminine, lesbians in their natural state can come off as masculine because of social standards but why gay men screech like little girls
No. 2069168
>>2069130There was a discussion about /ot/ threads yesterday and the day before, someone compiled all these threads and anons started using them again.
>fags adopting kidsNo. They traffick them to pedos.
>marrying Sure, but they rarely do it kek
No. 2069194
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>>2069130I was ok with that until those two moids sued the city of NY because it doesn't cover IVF for men (which yeah no shit?) essentially what they argue is that having a child is a right that they should be able to access through a surrogate and the state needs to cover that. Moids, and especially gay ones, see women as nothing but objects to be used as they see fit. So yeah, fuck them.
No. 2070290
it depends. sometimes i pity them for reasons like
>>2068333 sometimes i come across a "white gay" with a full face beat and those fucking eyebrows i just know they think are cunty and i get grossed out but tbh overall i don't really think of them.