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Well, I don't have any awful things to report that I've done recently (grad school is pretty boring tbh), but a friend of mine did something shitty. I'll just post it because I know she sure as hell doesn't browse here. btw, I changed their names.
My friend, Clara, is an undergrad at my university. Her boyfriend of three years, Mark, cheated on her with another girl, Katie. Katie had been trying to date/bang Mark since she met him last August, despite his (apparently initial) insistence that he had a girlfriend. Clara found out about Mark's infidelity through a friend.
Instead of freaking out and sperging all over the place like most people would, Clara broke up with Mark– albeit tearfully– and carefully plotted her revenge.
Katie lives in a designated sorority house that anyone can access as long as they have the passcode. Put the passcode in on the keypad and ta-da, you're in. Well, somehow Clara got the passcode to this sorority house, got inside, and replaced Katie's shampoo with some hair removal cream. No idea what kind, or how, or when she managed to figure out which room was Katie's, but she did it, and now Katie's hair looks even worse than Kooter's.
I also have no idea what she's planning for Mark, but I'm sure it's something even more elaborate. Maybe I'm a shit person for not informing anyone about her actions, but, I mean, Katie did prove herself to be a shit person.
i'll never understand why bitches go after the girl their shitty bf cheated on them with. they could have not known he was in a relationship, or been told by him that they were breaking up/bad relationship, etc, whereas your shitstain boyfriend couldn't not know they were in a relationship.
i'm all for revenge on the person who cheated on you, but leave the other partner alone, your bf/gf is an adult, they didn't cheat with a gun to their head even if the other person seduced them or some shit.
I agree with you 100%. However, in this situation, both parties (Mark and Katie) fully knew what they were doing. I think in Clara's eyes, they are both at fault, so she wants revenge on both of them.
She apparently has something planned for Mark, too, but I don't know what it is. I'll update here if I ever find out. I think her "punishment" for Katie was a bit easier to pull off.
Do thoughts count? I have constant terrible, and sometimes violent, thoughts towards many people in my life. If I could actually do them and get away with it I have no doubt I would.>>182340
I hope you're trolling.
You're a sociopath grats
My friend and I are popular skinny bitches & I'm a dyke so when lardass girls send me unasked-for pics in a desperate attempt to get my attention, I always share them with her & laugh my ass off. I got one today from a special snowflake and I'm looking forward to making fun of this idiot together, as a team.
It's really nice to have a friend to hate things with.
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>>182353>>182354>>182370>>182488>>182500>>182522>all these mad catfags
If we're allowed to hit children, we should be allowed to hit cats.
/the worst thing you ever did op was not check the catalog
We already have a 'confession' thread
You shouldn't hit children either. Never have kids, jfc.
I sure hope your cat eats your flesh if you ever die in your house.
Are you maybe gay or asexual?
Sounds like me, never got off with a guy so I thought I was a lesbian for a long time, because at least women are pretty to look at and more relatable, so I thought it was sexual attraction… turns out I'm just not into either, women were just easier to be with. Meh.
At least you try. Maybe it's not genuine, but you try and you do give something back. It's not like you're intentionally harming someone.
I was like that too, until I found my current boyfriend. He's everything to me and it feels amazing to like someone this much and have them like you back, and feel good just by being with them or getting a text. It's fucking wonderful.
Actually, I had a long string of long term bfs I was only mildly infatuated with, lived together and got off on knowing they loved me so much when I didn't give a shit. But I always pretended to like them because it made them happy and that made me feel good about myself and fed into their affection. I'd eventually cheat and break up and then feel good I made them so fucking miserable for so long.
Though I'm sure there's a spot in hell with my name on it for this, I don't regret it because it gave me enough flirting and being a good gf practice to be good to the guy I love now. Only downside is that I was emotionally closed off with them and I'm trying my best to completely open up now and it's so hard I sometimes hurt him by not telling him how I'm feeling often enough. I'm getting extra burned in hell for for using previous bfs blood and tears as sacrifices to please current one.
I've thought about dating girls, but I'm a bit afraid when I think about it. I have no idea how I should even approach a girl in that way. Also I'm sure I just like dicks. I do find women aesthetically way more pleasing, but for example when I'm masturbating and I imagine things that turn me on, it's still the image of a good looking cock that helps me the most. I don't think that I'm asexual either. The thing is that I do have a libido but it seems like I can just live it out when I'm alone or something. >>182605
How did you find out that you love him? Did you just "feel" it from the start? How did you get to know each other? Online or IRL?
We met online, and yeah, I knew it from immediately "feeling" it. It does feel so different. Also, the way you react to stuff and what you're willing to do is very telling - for example, with other bfs I would always find it such a pain to deal with their emotions and act supportive, whereas I enjoy helping when he needs it. I feel guilt if I do something bad, when I never cared before. I actually worry about being a decent person when I used to be a complete piece of shit. When he does something cute I get that "uguu" feeling I'd only feel for animu husbandos. It's a very clear difference.
> I do have a libido but it seems like I can just live it out when I'm alone or something
I used to be the same as you, did you happen to start masturbating really early? I think there might be a connection.
Closing my eyes and thinking of some porn I watched earlier so I could cum worked wonders but… well, not too different from masturbating. Nowadays I just concentrate really hard on the physical sensation and tell myself it's OK to feel pleasure. It's still hard, but possible!
Haha this kinda sounds like me. I like to be cutesy, so it seems like I have a lot of affection even when I really think they are annoying and boring.
Some current guy I'm seeing, I'm only doing so because he buys me dinner in exchange for making out for him. He must really like me, because he keeps driving up 30 minutes to meet me, while I'll barely lift a finger to go out and see him. (On my defense the restaurants are way better over where I live and he lives with his parents)
On the other hand, I'm currently living with a different guy. We're roommates who live in the same bed and often cuddle and sometimes do sexual stuff.
It is really awkward when I hang out with the both of them because it's clear that I have more chemistry with my roommate and like him a lot more. But still this guy keeps coming back for some reason.
I dunno, I've come clear to the guy I'm not interested in anything serious. But not that I view cuddling/making out with him to be a chore. He is a virgin though so I guess I'm really doing a service after all.>>182583
Isn't there some courteous way of letting people know you are hungry? Not that I blame you for eating the cracker, but I think some people are fine with sharing their food. (And others aren't obviously) It's just that I work as a nanny, and my employer is fine with having me pig out all the time.
Jesus fucking Christ, you're a grown woman and you can't talk to your partner?
Are you this much of a child? Leave him for his own sake please.
>>182650>leave him for his own sake
Did I strike a nerve with you or something? I'm pretty much the reason in his past few years that he's been going forward in his life instead of living in a college town being a pizza boy with crippling debts and bad credit. You're calling me a child because I'm upset over a sex issue which isn't exactly uncommon when we get along fine in other aspects? Ok, that's fair /s>>182660
How. And no it's not. >>182663
I'm afraid he might take it sensitively because most guys don't really like being told their sex isn't satisfying when they think they've been doing a good job. But I don't even know if he thinks that considering I don't really finish and neither has he the past couple times.
>>182667>you clearly benefit from some way in this relationship which is why you don't leave him
He is someone I love and care about.
The sex just sucks and it makes me mad, like crazy agitated. Because I don't recall it being this shitty the first year. You're right, there's other things he's done that might be compounding my agitation at him but the sex thing is just so…argh. I don't even know how to approach it.
Haha I guess so.
I think he has a huge inferiority complex since he is "deformed" and is a virgin. I dunno, I kinda think I'm doing this guy a favor and boosting his confidence. He is even more normal than me in some respects, haha. I guess some people really get the short end of the straw.
Saying nothing is "lying"?
Also clearly it's not an all or nothing situation as someone more helpful than you offered some suggestions about how to approach it.
For me the biggest problem with your post is that you're having sex when you don't want to. He doesn't even seem to know that you don't want to, which adds to how uncomfortable it is. Isn't that striking a chord with anyone else?
Why can't you tell him you're not in the mood, or to stop touching you? When you do want to give it a shot, why can't you ask him to go down on you? Or suggest that he shave or that you want both of you to take a shower together first?
You don't owe anyone sex ever, but if you guys love each other then you at least owe him some effort to not hide this stuff from him. Forcing yourself to have sex when you don't want to is emotionally bad for you and will take it's toll, and if he genuinely cares about you then it would be horrifying for him to find out he was doing this to you all along. Trust him to be an adult and tell him that birth control can fuck with libido.
I used to be like this too. It's kind of weird when you find someone you really care about at first, as is with my bf.
I used to kind of suck of the attention out of guys and make them feel special so that they'd do the same for me, but I never really felt anything. The thing about cumming, too. Like, I would get off fine if I masturbated alone, but when we had sex or they watched me masturbate, it just wasn't the same and I would never have an orgasm (I did the same thing about faking them). I even questioned if I was straight-up gay, because I knew I like girls and that I always found them more physically attractive and have always paid more attention to them in porn and shit, but it doesn't seem to be the case (I'm still trying to figure that out, in a way).
Then along came my bf out of the blue and it was almost instant because there was such a connection I had never felt with anyone before, emotionally and sexually. Now, instead of being nice so that I'll get something out of the other person, I want to be a better person for him. I enjoy learning new things about him, having different experiences with him, even though we're basically fucking broke. Sex is so much better too because
I no longer feel guilty about using it as a way to get things; I mostly pay attention to how he makes me feel and making him feel good.
I don't think it makes you a psychopath, I think this is a pretty normal occurrence for people when they're trying to figure themselves out and what they like
I'm sure it was a feminine penis.>>182750
You're not attracted to trannies. Nothing wrong with that. Glad you got out of the relationship instead of forcing yourself to pretend you were okay with being with someone who was biologically male.
How is this at all an issue? Talk to him about it, as long as you're polite, there's no reason for him to get upset, not long term at least.
No point to break up over this if you haven't spoken to him, it just legitimately sounds like he doesn't know what to do in bed, which could be massively helped by you trying to give him an idea. Even if just in the bedroom, if what he's doing isn't getting you off in the moment, ask him to do something else. Don't just lie there and wonder why he doesn't know what exactly he's doing wrong.
>>182761>i got dozens of letters and messages from my stepmother's family telling me that it was me who had pushed him to do it
If they honestly thought you pushed him to do it by saying you hated him, they wouldn't be sending you dozens of letters like that. If they genuinely thought a few words could push someone over the edge, they'd be cruel to do that to you. I think they're just lashing out and looking for somebody to blame and unfortunately they've picked you. Hopefully they'll grieve and learn that it wasn't your fault but if they don't then they can fuck right off. Everybody is affected by grief differently but that doesn't mean they can shove the knife in deeper.
We all say dumb shit sometimes. Don't beat yourself up. I'm sure he knew it was just a bratty moment.
If he was a homeless alcoholic, I'm sure there were other, more important factors at play. He might have ended up mentally ill or may have always been that way and simply self medicated with alcohol.
It's so easy to blame yourself but ultimately, although things could have been handled better, it was his choice to kill himself. It's not like you were bullying him or attacking him every day of his life.
The fact is that he hurt you badly and sometimes you have no choice but to stop putting up with people's shit. Nobody should have expected you to constantly let yourself be hurt in order to protect someone who you didn't feel was there for you. It's not your fault he's dead and it's not your fault that you had a moment where you got sick of being treated badly before he died.
this is kind of you anons, thank you for replying>>182785
i've been waiting five years to hear that and i can't stop crying. i never got to talk about it irl. thank you. sage for gross feelings.
Why don't you just kick him out and get a roommate instead?
seriously if he doesn't confess even after the mail he's just a selfish prick. Dump him please you're better than that. Or do you enjoy being a cuckqueen?
I'd say he was a selfish prick long before that anon, but yeah, I agree completely.
No way you should stay in that situation, and you should look into the laws that let you get out of leases, often people who live with you making it intolerable for you to keep living there is one of them, I'm sure a partner cheating on you would come under that if you have some evidence.
It was him who did wrong. Fuck him srsly. What do you mean by that you're afraid of his temper? That he will scream or something? If he gets angry it just proves how much of an idiot he is.
He did wrong. He gave no shits about you, so fuck him and leave him. Who cares if he's dependent on you with that lease thing? He should've thought about it earlier then.
And if by temper you mean something really nasty that he gets angry in a way that he might try to hurt you then get the cops involved. Girl please don't let him out easily like that by hiding and trying to disappear without confrontation. I get it, confrontation is always annoying but you did nothing wrong. Hes a fucking douche and doesn't deserve you. Stand up for yourself.
Hit him with that proof and tell him to either fuck off or organize your moving then. If he treats you like shit then he should expect his life to be shifty, too.
Landlords can be very forgiving in this situation. Mine let me break my lease 2 months early without notifying my then-fiancé because i was afraid of him (I told her that). She understood completely and made sure the rest of the office understood so the situation could proceed smoothly and asked if I needed help. I waited til he went to work, picked up my uhaul, packed my shit, and left before he came home.
Good luck anon.
I'm a different anon but I just wanted to say that I'm so sorry for the way you've been treated. Teenagers say these things all the time, your family have no right to blindly pin their anger on you, you have lost him too afterall.>>182810
It might be best to stick to the 'someone emailed me about you cheating, I deleted the message but I've had a feeling for a while so I'm leaving' line rather than admit you sent the email. He doesn't deserve honesty at this point anyway. Can you stay with a friend or family member if shit hits the fan and he figures it out? You could put your local services on speedial if you think he might become unsafe at any time
are you two me? :'( i'm not really the gentle type, but i've always been the empathetic friend… who is lowkey super manipulative
but i caught myself doing it to my bf (not even realizing it).
i went to therapy (we get 10 free sessions at my school) and my counselor (been there about 5 times in the past semester) noticed immediately two things that i had done to my bf that were manipulative, that i didn't even realize…
what 2 things did you do that were manipulative?>>182794
i hope you're not still sleeping with him anon
we wanted to go on vacation but he was worried that i would worry about money problems and suggested that we just stay home (but i really wanna go), so i was like ayo mr therapist i'm just gonna tell him that we talked about this, so that way i have someone backing me up, and validating the fact that i'm okay to go on vacation.
and my therapist was like, don't you think that's a little bit manipulative?
and i was like oh shit, because it totally is.
i don't remember the second thing off the top of my head, but it was something that came naturally to me, but looking back with hindsight, i realized it was manipulative/controlling
hindsight, am i right?
sage for drunk rambling
Yeah, I'm probably going to stick to that story. I know I shouldn't have done it in the first place, but I still feel like I'm in the right. And the only satisfaction I get from all of this is that he's constantly paranoid.
And the good news is that one of my friends in another city was looking for a roommate, so I'm probably going to leave and be far enough away to avoid anything crazy. Honestly, I'm glad everyone here has been supportive because when I explained the situation to another friend she thought I should give him another chance. I'm kind of sad about that >>182899
I'm not. One of the reasons I began suspecting that he was cheating was because we didn't have sex very much anymore. When it was confirmed, the few times that he's tried I've made excuses
If it won't be a serious crash it'll be a really fucking stupid one. Stop while you're ahead.
>three years ago>just paid off my high school car>10ish pm>driving around my old neighborhood trying to find a friend's house I never been to>going 20 mph on resident road>looking at gps on phone>got lost>apparently didn't see a two way stop>look back up>see flash of maroon door>slam into another car's rear end door>completely totals my piece of shit car>airbag went off and gave me a slight hand scrape>other car had a dent in it and was drivable>person in car didn't secure their child into car seat correctly>had bloody nose from slamming his face into front seat and was crying>made me feel like shit>grandma in front pretends her whiplash is some morbid bodily injury>ambulance shows up and she walks over to it and asks to be put on a stretcher>lol>suddenly I didn't feel bad>awkwardly stand next to driver whose car I slammed into who clearly was mad as hell at me waiting for police statement
TL;DR Nothing serious happened and my car got appraised enough for me to buy a new car. But my insurance did increase and it was a major fucking headache. It's not really worth it.
At least they can dye their hair tho,lol.
My ex preferred red heads. I was like, "Hey I can dye my hair if you want" I never did nor would I have but at least he was secure. I would have maybe let him buy me a wig. Ima bitch
Race is a different thing. If someoen doesn't like your race I totally get it. You can't change that and in a lot of ways its part of your identity
Because she's not attracted to him, as a result of his race.
If you got along really well with a gay chick, just loved each others company, and turned her down because of her gender, would you be a sexist? Or is that just your tastes?
Lmao you're trolling right?
Why are you trying to bully people into dating people they don't want to date by calling them names? That's pretty much what happens over at r/incel, too. But instead of using the racism boogeyman they call the girls whores.
She literally discriminated him based on race alone. No matter how you spin it, yes, this is racist.
Maybe anon isn't a fucking Neo-Nazi, but that counts as racism.
You would understand if you ever had to blow an asian dude. Its like they all have these tiny shrunken penises
Awk af. And 0 penetration
Uh, no. She was pretty clear that it was because of his race. This isn't a matter of being misquoted or secondhand information.
Even OP admits that it gets her "a spot in hell". It was his race.
You should get a counselor if you feel this way anon, you shouldn't be keeping all this guilt when you did nothing wrong. You were a child, not some grey area 17 year old either, a literal small child.
Your neighbor was however a grown adult and are fully responsible for what they did or even just planned/agreed to do. None of that is your fault.
Not complaining about the size, I found him physically attractive and the sex was great.
I was only unlucky because he was a jerk :c
I feel bad because I want to meet more foreigners and expats in my city but I'm afraid I'll get texts from arabs, indians and pakistanis if I post something online :(
If I say I want to meet europeans and american people I'll probably be labeled as racist but I'm tired of these weird thirsty dudes, they always send the weirdest messages like "Hi …. u have beautiful eyes, very sexy … I'm ahmed please to meet you" with a pixellated rose gif
Last time I said I wanted to meet with brits to improve on my english I got indian or iranian dudes with heavy accents messaging me :( I don't want to pick up a fucking awful accent and start saying stuff like "please do the needful" come on
Most foreigners have their own social circles, maybe try to find where people like that congregate in your city.
If you meet one you'll get to meet them all eventually, at least that's what it's like for me and my group of friends.
I used to be a member of those 'Foreigners/Expats/International students in X' groups on Facebook but it eventually got run over by Africans spamming illegal shite and advertising their shady clubs.
Who cares if they label you as racist? You're not, right? No. So whatever.
But keep in mind that a person doesn't have to be American or European to have great English if that's what you're looking for. My spoken (and written) English is very good because I'm a teacher, but I'm not American or European. I'm white as white can be though, so maybe you wouldn't know where I'm from (South America).
Anyway, maybe look for "NATIVE speakers from X, X, and X". Be specific. that will limit the search range.
Yeah, lots of people nowadays have good English without necessarily being British or American. Also people forget that Singapore, parts of India, South Africa, Malta, etc are also Anglophone.
My best friend's a Swede who was born in China and English is her native language.
Yup, that's kinda what I'm trying to do but so far I only met stationed military guys in the city, they were fun for a while but the drama was not worth it at all. Also wanted to bone everything on sight while the wife was back home, fun. >>183202
I'm obviously not racist, or I don't think I am as my friends group is very very diverse, but I just feel like there's more weirdo indians/middle eastern dudes on the internet than in european groups (maybe a cultural delay, like social interactions on internet + weird english ?). Unfortunately racism against muslims and foreigners is a hot topic in my country right now. There's a huge fb group with 100k members but I'm afraid they'll trash me if I only hint at not wanting to meet middle-eastern people or non-native speakers.
The second group is more specific, it's about meetingup with strangers to do whatever activity you think of, but if a girl post there she'll get 30 thirsty dudes hitting her up.
And again it's not exactly because of the language barrier, I totally agree with >>183205
but there's a huge influx of arabs and indians men in my city and they're weird as fuck. I just don't want to take a chance with them cause they tend to be persistent and socially … off ? And yeah I know I'm probably awful.
I don't know if it's gonna be interesting or not, honestly. They were just bored young dudes who stopped developing in their teens because every argument was solved with punches in the face, unless you were a girl and then you got a bad rep with the whole lot. It's basically bros before hoes but dumbed down 100 times.
They loved to band together against "hoes" when most of the time it was one of the dudes getting caught cheating or acting like a dick then pushing the label on the girl. They were bored out of their mind 90% of the time so their convo probably revolved around gym and girls and they were the biggest fucking gossips around. I once dropped something funny one of them did in front of my girl friend to yank A, who passed it down to B, who tattled to original yank who then immediately frantically messaged my girl friend, all of it under 15 minutes.
Even when some of them went back home, they were updated on stuff I did or who was trying to shag me (also if they feel like they can't score, you stop existing). Basically hanging out with them meant trying to stop them from fighting entire pubs or random people for stupid offenses, like honking at them for being in the way.
The "alpha" one was even hardcore hating on two girls because he was convinced they were using his friends to get close to him and shag him, when they were just dating two normal dudes.
I almost dated one of them before the beans were spilled that he already had someone (of course) and then dude called all of his pals to know who fessed up, it was a big drama thing as they were pretty much angry with me and I was labeled the crazy bitch.
Not strapping in a child securely is called irresponsibility and being shifty enough to fake injuries is called fraud.
>I didn't do anything wrong :)))
Why are you reading it like that anyway? The post didn't say that. Anon said they felt bad for the kid but not bad for the adult trying to commit insurance fraud.
Anon didn't bring in racial purity or whatever nazi ideals you have, wtf. You don't even know that she wouldn't date outside of her race given that she claims her friend group is varied.
Stop trying to stir up what is a uncomfortable but pretty normal thing into extremes.
As I said earlier, do you think it's discrimination to turn down a girl if she asks you out and you're straight? Is that sexism?
Or are you just not attracted to women?
It's not fucking discrimination to say you don't want to date someone, for any reason, because no-one has a right to date you. You're not taking something away from them, you're putting them in the same category as the literally billions of other people who aren't dating you. She didn't want to be with him because she doesn't find people of his race attractive, which is likely due to him having the features most common of that race.
It's not racism, the same as not being gay isn't sexism. Quit whining.
There's no mental gymnastics required though, at all. They turned down the person because of their race, because they don't find that attractive. They weren't a good match as a result of that, same as turning down a chick you aren't attracted to (because of your sexual preference) isn't sexism.
And do you know what discriminatory means? No-one's being treated wrongly here, because you don't have to be treated fairly here. Someone can choose not to date you for literally any reason they want, your argument takes away the persons ability to actually give consent in the relationship for fear of "being racist". It's coercive and absolutely reduces the autonomy of the woman.
that made me kek because i find mexicans absolutely ugly in general, but some blacks, when look good, really DO look good.
and yes im white trash.
Why are you trying to speak for OP and make up reasons for them (if it was a matter of being physically attracted, she probably would've said "He was a different race from me and I didn't find him attractive") when they themselves don't agree with what they did?
"Discriminatory" means "Marked by or showing prejudice; biased". It doesn't have anything to do with "fairness".>your argument takes away the persons ability to actually give consent in the relationship for fear of "being racist". It's coercive and absolutely reduces the autonomy of the woman.
Holy shit. This is either some high-quality bait I've been looped into that just turned low-quality, or pure mental illness. These are absolutely mental gymnastics. I feel like I should stop before this gets any more cringy, but I'll keep going anyway and see what happens.
You have the right to be racist as long as you are not actually hurting peoples' livelihoods, but that doesn't mean everyone has to agree with it to protect your feelings. Not bending over backwards to worship or welcome such behavior is not "reducing the autonomy" of that person. They are still free to be racist when it comes to their dating choices, and no one is going to hold a gun to their head and force them to change that.
If I'm an asshole to someone, another person telling me "You're being an asshole to that person, wew" isn't "reducing my autonomy" as a woman to be an asshole lmao.
I don't see anything wrong with it>>182340
I'm mex as well but I have no problem in dating black men, the cute nerdy guy type not ghetto tho, and as >>183321
said, when black men are hot they sure as hot af.
Now that we are talking about racism, idgaf about ppl not wanting to date others because of race or skin or some other shit. Yeah it's stupid or w/e but calling them racists is too much imo. We all know girls that doesn't date men just because they find them ugly, so what? Point racism out when a person has their human rights limited or violated because of race. Being unable to fuck is not one of them (sorry incels kek).
Sage for race derailing.
I'm not talking about the fucking definition of discimination, because we're expected to discriminate when choosing a partner. That should seem obvious, we discriminate on all sorts of shit.
And why are you throwing around accusations of "you're making up reasons!" when you've been doing that all along?
>If I'm an asshole to someone, another person telling me "You're being an asshole to that person, wew" isn't "reducing my autonomy" as a woman to be an asshole lmao.
No shit, that's not what we're talking about at all, that's a complete false comparison.
What happened is they turned down the person because of their race, for whatever reason, which is fine, you don't ever have to date anyone, and you can give any reason you like.
The response was then to call them out for turning the person down, and to start going on about how they're racist for not wanting to date them. The original post called them a cunt for nothing but wanting to not date them, then continued to call them "close minded" for it, and told them to change their racism.
That's a hell of a lot different to going "hey, you were being kind of shitty there", it's directly trying to convince them that their decision to turn down that guy is morally abhorrent, and that they're bad people for it. This sort of social pressure is fucking clearly an attempt to reduce their autonomy, and stop them acting in ways you don't like. If we followed what you said, we'd all be unable to have preferences based on race.
They're not being assholes at all, and you're honestly the only one using any mental gymnastics here to convince yourself it's racism and as such, wrong.
They really have been, I don't get why there's been so many for such petty shit recently.
Someone posted successful bait and that was enough for a public ban? Really?