/ot/ - off-topic

Love yourself.

>>165831

Be sexy but slightly childish, look like a whore and laugh like a child

Be hot. Smile, no resting bitch face. Being out in public with large groups of female friends probably reduces your chances of getting approached.

from experience, if you act like you're not interested men will be all over you. when i want to be left alone is when i get hit on the most kek

>>165831
Post nudes on 4chan, with timestamp. I used to do that and got a lot of attention.

>>165834


So… act like you're retarded.

>>165837
What? No.

>>165837
kek anon. How is that retarded? you sound like a frumpy cow whos angry about never getting attention

>>165839

Oh I get plenty of attention, most of it unwarranted considering I'm possessed of a fiancé, I don't consider the behaviour of little girls emanating from a grown woman's body to be appropriate or… well it's just fucking gross and should never be endorsed.

If I sound like a frump then you sound like a vile ageplayer.

Also I linked to the wrong post, I intended for >>165833 which I suppose should have been obvious, but you can continue this if you really wish. More unnecessary aggression I guess.

>>165840

Unwanted derp*

>>165842

Gross it's you.
I see you posting this in different threads all the time and you really, REALLY need to stop trying to make this happen.
It's not going to happen.

Also why you still trying to butt heads with me when you know I wasn't talking to you in the first place.

>>165840
>I HAVE A FIANCE LOOK AT ME!!!

>>165843
It's multiple people posting it you dumbfuck. It's copypasta.

>>165840
lol so why wouldn't you just admit that you linked to the wrong post BEFORE sperging out?

this thread went to shit fast

ITT

Girls trying to figure out what guys like and failing miserably

>>165843
Oh damn it's the narcissistic ex-fatty. I post that copypasta too.

>>165847
I'm a guy and I already gave the answer >>165834

It's pretty easy, just be hot. And you know how you just see some people in public and some of them look really friendly, like you could just go up to them and start talking, and other people look really bitchy like they just want to be left alone? Be in the first group, not the second group.

Also keep in mind that an increasing number of guys are pussies these days and are afraid of approaching women. If you're still not getting the attention you want, go to a bar or club or something, if you're not ugly you will get attention…

>>165831
be feminine, elegant, classy, soft.
10/10 you'll get attention from men because feminity and softness isnt encouraged in america so you'll stand out

>>165849
>>165849
>I'm a guy and I already gave the answer

Sound like a mangina to me.

>>165844

Somebody without a fiancé detected :^)

>>165845

All of my posts have been pretty reasonable thus far.
What's sperging out is exploding and posting shit like "kek anon. How is that retarded? you sound like a frumpy cow whos angry about never getting attention" in response to a text post that was obviously intended for another user kek

>>165831
Being a really sweet charming girl, laughing and being well behaved will give you great attention. But you may end up scaring guys a little bit if you are too nice and too well manered. If they discover a laid back girl when approaching you I think you can win the heart of many guys.

>>165853
lol people can't actually read your mind and know what post you were intending to respond to

>>165855

Why would I call somebody retarded for posting "be hot. Smile, no resting bitch face. Being out in public with large groups of female friends probably reduces your chances of getting approached". That's completely normal advice.

Maybe think next time before you explode? The hyper-aggression on this site has gotten so bad.

>>165852
Hahahaha I really can't believe you actually felt this was a good thing to reply.

>>165856
Just stop replying . You could have said "oh sorry, I meant that for >>14836!" And we would have understood and dropped it. It was not as obvious as you seem to think since we can't read your mind.

You must be the samefag who keeps talking about how ~bad~ this site has gotten when people are rude back to you for being rude lmao.

I go ahead and answer this question again to expand on "love yourself".

>Work on yourself
What stuff do you like? Is there something about your personality you don't enjoy? Or maybe your appearance? Make yourself into the kind of person you'd want to be with. You'll end up attracting the same kind of person just by being the best version of you.

>Don't change yourself to get attention from every kind of guy
I know that's what you want, but trust me; it's better to get attention from the kind of guys you're into instead of every creep on the street.

>Act confident, even if you're not feeling the most confident that day
Every person likes confidence, guys or girls. Even if you're not feeling your best that day try to put on a smile. You don't have to go around smiling like a maniac, but if you notice a guy checking you out, give him a little smile.

>>165857

I can't believe that you think that having a fiancé is so rare a thing that you felt it necessary to point out in >>165844

It's totally normal and that's why I mocked you for it, because you seem to think it's "special".

>>165859
Oh my god just shut up.

>>165840
Cool anon you got a fiancee, no doubt as fugly as boring as you yourself are.

>>165861

Aw boo, now don't you just wish that was the truth huh ;^)

>>165862
Please stop.

>>165834
Definitely agree with this. Always smile, even at strangers. Be super polite, hold open doors, pick up things for people. Also agreed on not being with large groups. I am an introverted loner, but by smiling and being nice it gets positive attention, from people of all ages, races, and genders. Be nice and friendly but you do not need to stick around and talk. It actually works better because it would force a guy to continue the conversation or chase after you. By chase I mean follow you and try to continue the conversation. Never act desperate or that you are looking for it, or you will get 3/10's following you for an easy piece of meat.

>>165850
>>165854
>>165858
Agreed.

You want to come off as: Sweet, nice, happy, friendly (but not too friendly, be like an enigma), confident, polite, feminine, and independent. Being alone makes it way easier for guys to notice you or approach you. Even just to look at you. You want to look like you are 100% content (better yet if you actually feel that way) - men can sense that and will want to be apart of it.

Showing a little bit of cleavage or tummy or tight pants if you have a nice butt is good, but only feature one of the features at a time. Guys prefer hair down than up. Guys prefer the "natural" makeup look (foundation, concealer, thin eyeliner close to the lashes, mascara, pink lipgloss, a little blush/bronzer depending on your look, neat eyebrows. ) This all applies no matter if you are pastel goth, boho, casual, etc. Keep it simple and clean.

If you are finding you are still not getting attention. Try making eye contact and smiling, and then look away. Guys immediately notice. Even if you are at best a 6/10, a 8/10 guy will still look back.

The femininity thing definitely works, but I wouldn't discount being boyish (or otherwise) either.

Personally, I tend to dress in androgynous/guys' clothes when going out, prefer drinking beer to wine/cocktails, and when I loosen up I have a playfully snarky but open demeanor that makes me really approachable and melts people's defenses quickly. It helps me make friends easily, too.

Almost every time I go out to a party, bar, or hangout (usually with my best friend dragging me there, and she's got her own wild style) I get a lot of male, and sometimes female, attention. I usually either laugh it off or purposefully entertain it a bit, before getting extremely spaghetti and pulling away entirely. For some reason, this drives guys crazy.

I don't really go out anymore for tl;dr reasons, but in summation: being a down-to-earth gal with a sense of humor who can look good (or fake it) and exudes confidence (even if it's a facade or a defense) can really work wonders.

This post is dumb as fuck

if you're a 10/10 even with rbf you're going to get hit on

if you're a 5/10 and very friendly you're going to get hit on

OP said "as many men as possible" and didn't specify if age or reciprocated attraction was a factor. Hell I could go to the gas station at 3 am in pajama shorts and no makeup, and some 50 year old asshole will probably hit on me. It's easy af to get positive attention from men but it's not always going to be fun

Autistic info table 4 u OP

>>165866
What's wrong with dating a creepy 50 year old dude tho

wait I know

>>165840

I'm the anon from >>165833

The question wasn't "How do I look attractive to men while keeping my integrity and look classy?", it was "How do I get as much positive attention as possible for men?"

Sexy body and clothes combined with childish( or "retarded" if you say so) manners drive men crazy, they think you are hot but also easy and hitable. Men of all ages find slightly childish and innocent behavior sexy.

>>165870


>men of all ages find slightly childish and innocent behavior sexy

Well that's a sickeningly bold and unfounded statement.
If began acting like a child I'm pretty sure my partner would ask me why I'm behaving like a spaz and tell me to cut it out.

Sounds like you're after men who are into ageplay which is as equally disgusting.

>>165871

Disgusting but true.

It's just from observation clubbing and partying. Two hot skimpy clothed girls enter the club, one of them behaves like a normal person, the other acts childish, dumb and "hihihi". The childish one always get twice as much attention than the normal one, from both hot young guys and weirdos in their 30's/40's

>>165872
I think it's because childish behaviour makes her look more dumb and naive- therefore easier to get her to have sex with them.
A lot of men in places like nightclubs are looking for quick hookups, not serious relationships.

>>165872

Normal dudes don't like that kind of behaviour though, so it's only good if you're specifically looking for attention from creepers.