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No. 165587

Hi /g/, I'm starting my first full time job tomorrow and I really want to give people the impression that I'm a mature adult and have been making plans to accessorise accordingly. One of the things I've been planning on getting is a new iPhone case, I've been thinking about getting the green one pictured here but I feel like it might be too cutesy. Does anyone else have this problem of leaving kawaii shit behind?

No. 165588

That iPhone case IS too cutesy. You can do whatever you want in your private life but just stick to solid colors and basic shit at work if you want to be taken seriously.

I had a problem dropping the weeby/kawaii shit myself but I just kinda did it and frankly…I don't miss it. Some styles you can take part in in certain colors, brands, and trends, but most of it I realized I am really just too old to care that much. It's more important to me that coworkers think I am mature, smart, and capable than cute.

No. 165589

I have that case in solid light pink. I work with middle-aged women and they fawn over my cute stuff. Then again I probably get away with it because I'm the baby of the office.

No. 165590

>>165589
I suppose it does matter what kind of office you're in. I think a mostly female office would be more forgiving of cutesy stuff than a mostly male office.

No. 165591

where to cop phone case, anon

No. 165592


No. 165593

>>165590
Also what kind of work. I don't think I could be a client for a doctor or a lawyer who had a cutesy case. Doesn't mean you have to be boring, but nothing very ornate.

No. 165594

The case isn't THAT cutesy, not like it's a Hello Kitty case or something really cutesy like that. It just depends on who you work with. Some people may be anal about cute things, others may not care at all.

I know someone who has a high paying office job at Boeing. Their desk is decked out in Hello Kitty, she wears HK jewerly and has a HK phone case. Her co-workers don't care and she isn't taken less seriously. They even all got together and brought her a HK cake for her birthday.

No. 165595

It seems pretty safe. From a distance it'd just look yellow until you got closer.

No. 165596

>>165587
I don't think it's too cute, these cases are starting to be normalfag stuff

I'm a sucker for cute stuff (huge pink fluffy keyring, cute phone dongle thing, cute USB stick, phone case etc.) and all my mature, even older (30s) friends love this stuff. They don't think it's childish at all. I think it's pretty socially acceptable for women to have some girly cute stuff, as long as you don't go overboard with it.

If you dress business for work, have a mature handbag and shoes, a normal hair colour and work hard, it's fine to have a cute phone case and such. It shows a bit of your personality.

No. 165597


No. 165598

>>165590
My office has an equal female-to-male ratio with both young people like me in their 20s and middle aged people. I work in a place full of people from finance and human resources and IT. Also I'll be meeting with shareholders so it's preeetty serious.

>>165593
I'm a graphic designer so I wanna look more Steve Jobs than Pixyteri.

No. 165599

>>165594

I just started my job this week, I want to make a good impression. I don't wanna become the Hello Kitty person pls. Not after high school. Not after uni. Never again.

>>165595
You got a point. The indents for the strawberry seeds will probably make it look like a sea sponge.

>>165587
Yeah, I'm heavily conflicted now of how much of the cutesy stuff I can hold onto. I don't want to just blindly follow the crowd and just have what everyone else has. I'm still pretty young and I feel like I only have a few more years of being able to get away with cutesy stuff.

No. 165600

>>165598
Well not looking like Pixy is easy. Wear clothes that fit and don't think you can look like a 10 year old when you have the face of a 40 year old.

But really, if you're in a creative field, even in a stuffy traditional office, they expect you to be a bit quirky. Get the phone case, it's not too cutesy and I don't think you'll get horrifically judged for it. It doesn't scream toddler or anything so you'll be okay and not Pixy-like at all.

No. 165601

I think you can get something cute that doesn't look "cutesy." I know the people here are acting like it's no big deal, but if I were you I would focus on looking as professional as possible at work and work-related functions and you can do whatever you want in your everyday life.

There is going to be a day when you grow out of the cutesy shit (trust me, I didn't see it coming, but it happened) and people are still going to think fo you as the Hello Kitty person. Get the case, but use it outside of work.

No. 165602

>>165587
I've worked at a retail store, retirement home an elementary school and middle school as an assistant teacher. The jobs were all very different and can say no one would have given a shit about me having a case like that. I wasn't supposed to have them out anyway, and what you do on your personal time (like pulling out a phone with a berry cover), no one would feel like saying anything. As long as the rest of you is dressed/styled professionally, you'r fine.

No. 165603

>>165602
No offense anon but those are jobs that no one WOULD care. They're not professional jobs.

I'm assuming OP is >>165598 going by how she replied to things, and a professional job where you will be meeting with clients and want to be taken seriously as a designer is not somewhere where you should have a cutesy taobao phone case. You can maybe earn that "right" once you've proven your worth but no, not as a new hire.

No. 165604

>>165587

My phone case is one with pressed flowers I got from etsy, I don't think it looks too cutesy but it's also feminine.

You could always go with a solid black leather case, it looks pretty professional.

No. 165605

Y'all are a bunch of salty crusty old bitches, it's showing. OP, you can get something cute or pretty or whatever, just avoid anything CHILDISH.

I'm not surprised that everyone in this thread has a hard time separating cute from weeb desu desu horseshit. I feel like everyone here is talking about abandoning their embarrassing aidoru dreams instead of, you know, regular cute feminine adult shit.

Get a simple, but pretty colored phone case. Why are you gonna have it out at work anyway? Take it off if you're meeting a client and they need to see you phone for whatever reason. Wear cute earrings, add a cute coloured scarf or wear a pink button up under your skirt suit. Get a floral hair pin.

It's not impossible to be totally professional and adult, but also show a hint of cuteness. As long you talk with confidence, don't act like a doormat, and do your job, that baby impression is never gonna reach you. Act and show you're reliable and your subtle cuteness can become a charm point, instead of ammunition used against you when your shit at your job.

No. 165606

>>165603
I understand what you're saying, so I don't completely disagree with you (though to call teaching and nursing unprofessional is a stretch imo). However, the point of my mentioning those jobs is that there is still some level of decorum required no matter what position you're in. We all know it's important for people to present themselves in the way their titles demand them to, but even I had to dress formally at each of those jobs, including the mediocre retail one, to be treated respectfully.

Having a phone case with Hello Kitty logos all over it could have been looked down on at my teaching jobs, specifically because of my age. I was already young, which made getting respect from students and veteran teachers difficult initially. To have them see me with a childish case could have exacerbated the situation. It could be the same for anon, there are multiple factors at hand.

Anyway, phone cases are not a direct representation of a persons work ethic, abilities or even personality. The case is something she likes and she should be able to get it, it's an accessory, and unless she constantly had her phone out to play around with the case, I can't see how it would negatively affect her image.

No. 165607

>>165605
I mean, I think this is exactly the advice everyone else is giving. When she opened up the thread with a taobao kawaii phonecase it's not a stretch to think that she was talking more along the lines of that than something feminine yet professional.

No. 165608

Aren't most of the people on this site neets, or have never had any job experience though?

No. 165609

>>165608
Nah, not except for the clearly underage people who frequent the site.

No. 165610

>>165609
Yeah… before admin added the over 18 rule every other post on this site was "im 15 and what is this". I'm pretty sure lolcow is still mostly under 18, they've just learned to shut up about it. Explains many of the shitty things about this place.

No. 165611

>>165610
Plenty of people on here are like 25-30…Pettiness doesn't always go away with age. That's even more embarrassing when you're that old and still gossiping about teens and early 20 somethings on the internet. But still the age restriction is important to have.

No. 165612

>>165611
Honestly, get off your high horse with this shit. It's pretty easy to see the age divide from thread to thread, older adults tend to be situated more in threads with people who they have been following the presence of online for years and general /b/ and /g/ threads, not ED and Berry threads. And even if they weren't, who fucking cares? It's natural to gossip and you don't stop caring about shit just because you get older. If you love/hate internet culture and internet celebrities you're going to talk about them just like any other celebrities.

Sage for off topic.

No. 165613

>>165612
I still think its a bit silly to be so invested in internet drama when you're that old.

No. 165614

>>165613

People like drama, its why talk shows and gossip rags exist. Its really no different here on lolcow, as long as you can function normally offline.

No. 165615

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OP here again, I've just had my first week of work and it's been really great. I've met the other members of my team and they seem to encourage individuality and don't mind everyone having their individual quirks so I could probably get away with a berry phone case. But I've decided against it since I want to try having a cohesive aesthetic with the rest of my clothes. I've been looking at eBay and found a few cases that are more mature but are still ones that I genuinely like. Anyway, this is my first real job and I wanna celebrate it by trying to be as adult as I can be and then maybe find a middle ground between youthful and mature that I'm comfortable being in.

I'll still maintain my appreciation of cutesy stuff for however long I want but I'll express it in other ways like through the shows I watch and other stuff I look at in my down time.

No. 165616

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Apologies for the samefagging, I also like this one too. Probably in either black or white.

No. 165617

>>165615
>>165616

I really like those cases, good choice! I hope your job continues to be great :)

No. 165618

>>165615
This one is my favorite of the two, if you were looking for opinions.

I like this one >>165616 only if you get white or black, yeah. Like, if your phone is white, get a white one, or black, get a black one. I think the texture would be cool. But that's just me.

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>>165617
>>165618

T-thanks anons. I just realised the metallic one is only for iPhone 6 so I'll probably go with the birds nest one or just a plain silicon one.

Going through the phone cases on eBay brought me great nostalgia about my weeb days. I'm kinda glad I'm over it. Pic related. I think it's cute but all kinds of impractical for someone old enough to have a smart phone at least.

No. 165620

>>165619

I almost bought one of those for my s5 lmao. I already have an oversized hello kitty case (you're right, impractical as hell) but yeah. I'm glad you've reached middle ground.

No. 165621

>>165616
Idk about this it kinda reminds of those balls made out of rubber bands

No. 165622

>>165621

That only makes me love it more, anon

No. 165623

What kind of phone do you all have?

No. 165624

>>165623

iPhone 5, I should have probably specified in the OP. Sorry.

No. 165625

having your phone out so much that someone would have enough time to form a judgment on your phone case would probably be more unprofessional than having a mildly cutesy case imo

i have a traditional professional job and i have a fluffy liz lisa phone case but my phone is never out at work, it has no reason to be, so no one sees it

No. 165626

>>165625
Again, depends on the job. Some jobs you'll need to be on your phone constantly.



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