/ot/ - off-topic

im actually not jealous of any cows.
i just find other peoples lives super interesting. humans do the strangest stuff

I dont get jealous over a persons looks or lifestyle. I do get jealous over talents, and as all lowcows have pretty much zero talent theres nothing to really be jealous over.

Its also annoying that neckbeards and other guys accuse girls for being jealous of other womens looks whom they dont like. Its possible for someone to be attractivee and be irritating/be a horrible person.

However guys do also get jealous of other men, usually if its their looks they will come out with "that guys gay"-said guy tends have had a bath though which is probably a foreign concept to them.

I wouldn't say jealous but maybe envious? like I see a cow with a cute nose I go like

>man wish I had a cute nose like that!

but not like bitter/mad at them for having a cute nose. Otherwise I feel nothing but just thinking about how retarded they act/are

I'm jealous of Charms tbh. I really liked her lolita wardrobe back in the day. Too bad she's too fat for all that brand now.

I used to be jealous of kootz but now I'm more jealous of her copycat. I wish I could basically fuck around all day in Japan "modelling" but really being bankrolled by my rich family. Also she's tall and skinny and has thick, blonde hair.

The rest of the threads I follow are basically shuddercows to me.

>>164248
yes, i'm a bit envious lf Taylor's lifestyle. Her family seems to really love her, too. i never had that. My brother would probably not care that much if i died. We don't really fight but we were never close. The warmth of her family is something i envy.

>>164249
I feel the same.. I'm so jealous of people who get to be "friends" with their family. I haven't even talked to my brother for 5+ years and we live together. Even seeing those kinda "cute things my mom texted me" screen caps bum me out, i could never have that that kind of closeness with my parents.

I'm also really jealous of success and people that are able to just have an income and support themselves..people that get to "live". Even just cam girls/twitch girls, i wish i could put myself out there like that, but its so so difficult. I feel like I'm not good enough to be seen.

I'm kind of jealous of a personal lolcow of mine. She's a huge, greasy weeaboo with a repulsive "i am right always"-type of personality but somehow still has a boyfriend.
I'd like to think I'm nowhere near as gross as she is and no one has ever been interested in me. Getting kind of impatient at this point.

I'm jealous of people who don't have sleeping issues, those who fall asleep easily and sleep for a whole night. All my problems can somehow be linked to poor sleep.

>>164249
She's rich and doesn't have to worry about money ever, can do whatever she wants. That's the enviable part of her life(style). But she had to marry and bang her old and gross sugardaddy and is gonna baby-trap to secure that lifestyle. That's not a trade-off that's worth it in my book.

I don't really follow any cows anymore so I can't give any examples, but I think the lifestyle of any cow that's born into money or made it themselves is much more enviable.

I'm jealous of this girl I know who publishes a blog every week and has (self) published a book. Her blog is trash, self-righteous and self-absorbed, and what I've seen of her book is cringey self-insert fantasy shit, but I'm jealous that she can sit down and write stuff on a regular basis. I am a decent writer, I've written poetry and personal essays, but I have adhd and depression so it's all very sporadic, and I don't have the drive to sit down and write for a long time. I wish I could.

>Who is the cow you're most jealous of with their life and attention they get?
Any twitch streamer who makes bank and doesn't have to lewd themselves other than cleavage
>Who is the cow you're LEAST jealous of with their lifestyle/attention?
Any messy and dirty cow, like Mickey
>What usually even gives a feeling of jealousy? Money? Partners? Fame? Success?
More luck than anything
>Anything going on in your life that's making you feel jealous you want to talk about.
My jealousy has been so bad lately, I felt extremely jealous of a girl I am aqaintences with because she got a job I applied for, I get badly jealous towards my boyfriend who has a lot of female friends simply because I'm not use to it I guess, I got jealous because my friend got pregnant shortly after I miscarriaged but am also jealous because she barely hits me up anymore and just spends time with the baby daddy who doesn't have any future plans with her and has a history of leaving his baby momma's which he bragged about before she and him started courting
How do I change this mindset anons

>>164246
Pretty much this.

I'm jealous of cute and pretty girls. Who isn't? But I don't hate them for being cute. If anything, it just makes me more insecure. Very typical body-image issues, I suppose.

>>552455
I relate so hard to all of this

>>552510
>Who isn't?

Many people.

>>552451
>any cow that's born into money
This. I know so many people whose parents bought them cars, paid for their school, housing, etc., so they could easily build a savings and not have to struggle. It must be such a huge quality of life boost to start out your adult life like that, as opposed to taking out loans and balancing work/school while spending all your money on bills.

im jealous of luna. she's so pretty and she's a beautiful angel. i really wish i could be her. i am least jealous of shayna shes disgusting

>Who is the cow you're most jealous of with their life and attention they get?
She's not a cow, she's a /snow/ weeb, but Connie Glynn. I'm envious of her career, the travelling she gets to do, her singing, and how pretty she is.
>Who is the cow you're LEAST jealous of with their lifestyle/attention?
I only pay attention to a few subjects, so my sample pool is limited, but Anisa Jomha. I think she's pathetic in a way that's genuinely sad and I don't even enjoy making fun of her.
>What usually even gives a feeling of jealousy? Money? Partners? Fame? Success?
Singing ability. I don't usually feel envy, but when I do it's over bitches who can sing.
>Anything going on in your life that's making you feel jealous you want to talk about.
I'm fat and have very few personal accomplishments, especially in the artistic department. It's making it very hard to enjoy content from people doing what I wish I could.

>Who is the cow you're most jealous of with their life and attention they get?
If I had to pick, I'd say I'm jelly of Yukapee, I think she's super cute and so comfortable speaking Japanese, which I really struggle with. She also seemed to have a more interesting life in Japan than the average weeb.
>Who is the cow you're LEAST jealous of with their lifestyle/attention?
Any camwhore, they could be the prettiest girl in the world and I'd never be jealous of them. Also prostitutes, sugar babies and girls who married ugly old men for money (eg Taylor is pretty enough I could be jealous, but her husband is so gross it's like - what's the fucking point of being that pretty when all you get out of it is an uggo?). Also girls with tattoos or plastic surgery, I hate the idea of a permanently changed body and wouldn't want that for myself.
>What usually even gives a feeling of jealousy? Money? Partners? Fame? Success?
Just their lifestyle and sometimes looks. I'd hate fame, personally.
>Anything going on in your life that's making you feel jealous you want to talk about.
Nah, I don't get worked up about jealousy, just accept that you can't have everything in life and focus on yourself. It's pointless since someone always has it better than you, and someone always has it better than the person you're jealous of, and no matter what you're envious of there are probably aspects of your life which they'd be jealous of you of.

>>164248
>>552451
>>164249
What's with all the Taylor stanning? I swear it's so obvious she posts here all the time. She really isn't different with the prostitute weebs like Dakota and Sabrina with her sex trafficking husband who gave underage Chinese girls to Hong Kong businessmen. Taylor defended the use of underage girls photos and did damage control for him. He did everything for Taylor, even filming all of her weeby phases. What he didn't do was just the result of her having her family's money behind her, too. Taylor could never do anything on her own.

>Who is the cow you're most jealous of with their life and attention they get?
Tearzah, Belle Delphine, a certain "personal cow"
>Who is the cow you're LEAST jealous of with their lifestyle/attention?
PT? Honestly most of them are trainwrecks.
>What usually even gives a feeling of jealousy?
Money, looks (especially if they have a curated aesthetic), influence (not fame on its own).
>Anything going on in your life that's making you feel jealous you want to talk about.
I relate to the pers cow I mentioned? That could be me if I had more determination and emotional intelligence. She started out in a worse condition than me and now she is what I consider a success story.

>>552529
>luna
>a beautiful angel
are you okay, anon? I agree she is pretty cute but her life is a complete mess and so is she. Only thing that I envy her is her commitment to social media and how easy for her is to take selfies and talk about herself. I wish I could do it too

>>552558
it's probably that russian bpd girl that idolizes luna. she was mentioned in her thread

>Who is the cow you're most jealous of with their life?
Dasha (or Anna I guess) from the leftythot thread. Just to have any shred of relevancy in the NYC socialite/art world scene.

Ever since I was a kid I've gotten jealous easily over money. It's stupid because it feels shallow, but I always attended 'rich' schools where the vast majority of students were a lot more well off than I was. They would get a ton of money from their parents and never have to worry about not being able to pay for stuff. It always pissed me off how they'd take that for granted and not be grateful for it, while I was counting pennies to join them for a pizza once a month.
Even now in university I'm salty over most of my fellow students having tuition and living expenses paid for by their parents. I'm living frugally and still racking up a ton of debt on top of working part time. And that's after I had to give up on pursuing the academic career that I really wanted most, solely because I couldn't afford it.
I've also always been big on saving up money and being careful with my purchases, so the knowledge that I'm gathering debt causes me a lot of anxiety. I'm jealous of people who don't even have to consider that. I guess my saltiness kinda makes sense but I still feel bad because I do live in a first world country and have opportunities that a lot of people don't.

In that vein, I'm jealous of cows like Pixielocks who gets to do whatever she likes most withou having to worry about money at all, mostly because of her parents.
Luna Slater also bothers me for this reason (amongst others), as she's had so many chances given to her, with the inheritance money and all that, and she still squandered it.
It's stupid and selfish, but I can't help but think that I'd deserve that money more because I know I'd be careful with it.

>>552831
>I can't help but think that I'd deserve that money more because I know I'd be careful with it.
Unironically this.

>>552838
This with Momokun for me. I cringe every time I see her get expensive cosmetic surgery, trips to Japan, skincare products that don’t work, or designer items instead of saving or investing the money. I get that saving everything with no enjoyment is dumb too, but I think she’s very indulgent compared to how much time is left for her in the industry.

>>552844
I feel this anon. It gives me anxiety watching how she spends money. It's going to blowup hard for her in a few years when the money dries up.

>>552831
Growing up frugal does that to you. You definitely see the hypocrisy in people who let it be known they've spent their money on stupid shit, while simultaneously acting like they are holier than thou. I, too, get jealous when I see people not worrying about what to buy. I get jealous when I see people e-beg, especially when I'm aware they have no sense of self control and how to finance, which is what got them to e-beg in the first place. I get jealous when I see people donate big name charities because I know for a fact all of that money is going towards the rich organization team rather than actual people who need help. I wouldn't be jealous if people did their research lol.

>>552557
>Belle Delphine
Oh god same. I don't envy the attention she gets for being a sex worker, I envy her youth (she's like 7 years younger than me) and looks to damn much.

>>552831
>I can't help but think that I'd deserve that money more because I know I'd be careful with it
Fellow poorfag here, when I start obsessing about assholes that waste their resources I find it helpful to remember that people our age die every day in boats trying to escape to the chance of something like our lives. There are lots who would give an arm and a leg for my shit minimum wage job, and instead of wasting their time on lolcow eating chips all day and overseeing they would use the internet and any spare time to study and learn something useful or at least go outside and appreciate the sky.
It's an easy way to make me hate myself and it doesn't stop me from being jealous but it helps me cut down some of the time I would spend thinking bitterly about all the things other people have.