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No. 164023

Anyone else has big shoulders here? i hate looking like a fucking tranny especially because i have a flat chest

how do you live like that?
What are good techniques to make your shoulders seem smaller?

pls tell me im not the only one

No. 164024

I have them as well, but with large breasts instead of flat. It makes me look like a fucking linebacker sometimes. I'm too top heavy. I usually avoid cuts that show off a lot of shoulder. Not boat necks, wide necks, off the shoulder, halters, strapless, or cut outs for me. :(

No. 164025

>>164023
I, too, know this feel. I've got a flat chest, broad shoulders and giant upper arms. I look disgusting.

No. 164026

Yeah same here. I just wear girly looking men's clothes as they're a bit more flattering and I can still move my arms. I probably still look like a man in drag but I don't really wear feminine clothes anyway so I guess it's not so much of a problem for me

No. 164027

I got skinny and now they look amazing.

No. 164028

Has anyone else noticed a link between when you hit puberty and the size of your shoulders?
My mother hit puberty at 15 and has very broad shoulders while I hit puberty at 10-11 and have very narrow shoulders. Nothing fits me properly, so despite having the opposite issue I can relate. I also have big arms, compared to my frame size.
Having unusual shoulders at all sucks ass.

No. 164029

>>164027
How skinny?

No. 164030

>>164029
5'7 110 lbs

No. 164031

>>164028
I got broad shoulders from swimming like a madman as a child

No. 164032

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I have broad ass man shoulders too. I would give anything to have a cute narrow frame.

No. 164033

>tfw broad shoulders with the skinniest legs
having inverted triangle is worst shape.
I tend to not wear collar things since they make it pop up more

No. 164034

broad shoulders no tits and no ass
I'm a motherfucking dorito

halp

No. 164035

>>164034
>I'm a motherfucking dorito

10/10

No. 164036

I have broad but slightly narrow shoulders? It's weird.

They look good if you're tall and slim though.

No. 164037

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that girl who's into larme kei "saramari" is pretty broad

:| her clothes are cute but her shoulders are very broad

No. 164038

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No. 164039

>>164037
selfpost

No. 164040

>>164039

nope

i just remembered her and realized she was broad af

No. 164041

My shoulder blades are big. I look pretty hunchy if I'm not careful.

On the bright side, they help give a more hourglass look?

No. 164042

>>164041
same here. But my shoulders are a broader than my hips. It also makes buying clothes off Asian sites a bit tricky because I'll fit everywhere but the shoulders and I have to try and figure out what I want sacrifice in order to not accidentally rip something…
HOWEVER!
I at least have some boob/butt so I'm not completely in Dorito territory, but still probably a borderline inverted triangle-hourglass thing.

No. 164043

I sometimes like how they look when I am thin. But when I gain some weight (not much and it happens during winter) they start to look awful

No. 164044

>>164042
Are you me?

No. 164045

>>164044
:P
Maybe.

To even out my shape when I wear skirts, I try for skater skirts because of the little flair they have to give more emphasis to the hourglass illusion. They also make my legs look good so it's a win/win.
Or I layer.
I actually kind of hate wearing things that don't cover my shoulders or upper arms so more than likely I have a cardigan or something like that on for security. I shouldn't worry about because I don't think people really notice it, but hey. How you see yourself can be a bitch sometimes.

No. 164046

>>164043
Really? I'm the complete opposite. I'm really pointy and angular so when I'm at a low weight, everythimg sticks out - shoulders included, but as soon as I put on a little weight everything softens up and evens out and my man shoulders don't look quite as obvious.

No. 164047

>>164040
yeah i remember her too
i have a really similar body to her ;_;
it fucking sucks because i like wearing hime gyaru fashion

No. 164048

i am not broad shoulders and I HATE IT!! when i am at a low weight i look fucking lanky and stupid. i'm jealous of all the thin broad shouldered people because they have such nice collar bones, whereas i look like a banana.


No. 164049

>>164048
i have broad shoulders and no collar bones rip me

No. 164050

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at least you're not Kesha

No. 164051

>>164049
fucking same. no matter how low my weight is, i can only get the vaguest of collarbones to show. i just don't fucking understand.

>>164050
#bodygoals

No. 164052

>>164050
Jfc, she looks like a fucking titan.

No. 164053

>>164050
#dadbod

No. 164054

>>164045
my waist measurement is often under 2" the suggested waist measurement for shirts and dresses in the smallest size, but my shoulders don't even fit the XL size. like, i've purchased size M and they're alright, but they make my arms look fat since the sleeves will get pulled up.

but yeah, i pretty much have to wear skater skirts/tennis skirts to look good. when i'm at a lower weight (summer time), i can get away with somewhat loose tops, even crop tops, and pants. i feel like even in cardigans and stuff, my arms/shoulders look fat. i feel like >>164043 though when i get at a low weight, while my shoulders and waist look better, the fat off my hips completely disappears

halter tops are fucking awful though. and sleeveless stuff. almost as bad as puffy sleeves/cap sleeves.

No. 164055

>>164052

>jfc, she looks like a fucking titan.


I laughed at this more than should be legally allowed.

No. 164056

Wide(-ish) shoulders and no boobage whatsoever here as well. I'm really short though so it usually doesn't look that bad on me but I'm all too familiar with the situation where I try on a shirt and can't move my fucking arms properly but getting the bigger size would make it look like a tent everywhere else.

No. 164057

>>164055
Someone shoop Eren running away from her.

No. 164058

Wide shoulders are the worst, I have this weird problem which that my sholder measurement isn't that wide, I can fit into things just fine, but my shoulders still look giant to the point that people comment on them. I hate it and I don't understand

No. 164059

>>164050
>tfw literally got her body
fuck me fuck me i didn't realize it was this bad FUCK me

No. 164060

>>164023
There is nothing wrong with broad shoulders. No one cares. I swear to god people here beat themselves up over the most stupid shit. A lot of gorgeous people have broad shoulders. All people are different and a single feature like shoulders doesn't make someone automatically ugly. I worry about the people that post around here.. channeling so much energy into worrying about minuscule things like this.. do any of you consider yourselves to be happy? Not even trying to berate anyone I am genuinely curious.

No. 164061

>>164060
Piss off, if we want to nitpick and discuss our own bodies, we can.

No. 164062

>>164060
OP here,
i am incredibly insecure and i made this thread to find other people that might share my problem
big shoulders might not make a difference on a person with a 8/10 face but for normal people its just another thing that makes them ''uglier'' or more masculine looking (in my case)

No. 164063

Ex competitive swimmer here, I have really broad shoulders. I actually like them, somehow they make me look more athletic. I just wish I was taller, large shoulders on a short girl look fucking ridiculous :(

No. 164064

I have broad shoulders and while I don't mind them when I'm not wearing any clothes, I do feel like anything even remotely baggy looks like shit on me because my shoulders make my entire torso look broad when there's no defined waist. My breasts are fairly large too, so it feels really boxy.
Will I ever be able to pull off a cute nanchatte or mori look?

No. 164065

I have broad shoulders too and pretty large breasts so my chest looks fucking huge, lol.

No. 164066

>broad shoulders
>box body
>flat chest
Also my shoulders are really skinny you can see my whole collarbone even the end that pokes out on the shoulder plus my shoulders are pointy. Not even skinny at all my fat distribution is just fucked. I only wear baggy shirts and can't wear tank tops or anything that shows my shoulders. It might look good if I was skinny and it sort of matches the rest of my body but right now it looks so weird and gross.



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