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No. 163104

Does anyone have feelings for a fictional character to the point of being disenchanted with life and real people and being genuinely distressed that they aren't real and you'll never find someone else like them?

:/

No. 163105

Not since I was 13.

No. 163106

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Yeah, it's actually really creepy. I do think it's because of my past with guys, and shit that made me feel that way. I can't function worth shit with real dudes so I cope with 2D fictional men.

Literally autism.
tfw akihiko don't real Kill me pls

No. 163107

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>>163106
I understand anon

No. 163108

Not a specific character, but dating sim bishounen in general, yes.

No. 163109

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Yes. I've come to accept it as just a part of me, though. I know they'll never be real, but I still have really intense feelings for a bunch of them. And the harem is always growing.

Sometimes I consider doing fanfiction commissions for others like me but I don't know if there's enough of a demand for that.

No. 163110

>>163105
Same, this shit don't happen to me since I was a weeb pubescent.

No. 163111

>distressed that they aren't real and you'll never find someone else like them?
Even if he's real I won't ever be good enough for him so no.

No. 163112

Sadly, yes.

They aren't, never were or will be real, and yet here I am.

I wish I could stop, because I feel like a fucking autist with this shit.

No. 163113

I don't feel despair anymore when I think of my favorite characters or worlds, thank God, but there was a time where I'd sincerely cry myself to sleep thinking I'd never be a part of their lives or their worlds.

However, I still go to sleep every night self-inserting myself into those worlds and their friend groups, creating grand adventures in my mind to doze myself off to sleep.

No. 163114

>>163113
I do the same thing, it's very comforting, if bittersweet. Still hurts a bit.

I'm too old to be thinking like this…

No. 163115

>>163113
This.
Sometimes it's the only thing that gets me through the night, but it helps that I don't obsess like I used to.
Though my creativity has taken a dive since then….

No. 163116

Literally me.

I'm in a long term live in relationship and I go to sleep each night inserting myself into their worlds and inventing scenarios with them. I'm not affectionate in real life, and am not a fan of sex, but I can daydream about sex with fictional characters multiple times a day. I guess because it's idea and I get none of the emotional crap I do with sex which makes me so men with it

No. 163117

Sort of. LiVing my life vicariously through slash OTPs. I also go to sleep self inserting as one half of my otp like a total autist and have never had an IRL relationship because I've totally ruined the idea by seeing things through the lens of fictional idealized relationships.

Totally ashamed of it too so I act as normal as possible and take care of myself really meticulously.

No. 163118

The last time I had a horrible, consuming crush on a cartoon character was when I was 13.
It was InuYasha.
And now, eight fucking years later, I don't even watch anime anymore, I have another.
I have never been more ashamed of myself in my life.
It's Rick from Rick and Morty.
I'm going to throw my computer into the sea, and then drown myself.

No. 163119

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>tfw no sxc childhood friend demon math teacher boyfriend who protects me, can heal me by licking the wounds, and wants me to become his bride

y live

No. 163120

>>163118
Nah, don't be. I had a big weird crush on Frollo from the Disney movie when I was younger. Turns out I'm just into (muuuch) older men. I think a lot of people have really strange "crushes" when it comes to cartoons/ect. I mean, just look at Spongebob fanfiction.
Don't feel bad anon.

No. 163121

>>163118
hey come on hes a sarcastic freaking genius who likes to party. sounds hot to me

No. 163122

>>163119
haha this looks deviantart OC as fuck

No. 163123

>>163122
as opposed to anything else in this thread? it's anime what did you expect

No. 163124

>>163120
Oh god me too. I remember the scene where he was fondling the gypsy girl or something and it was possibly the first time i felt sexually aroused without knowing

No. 163125

Back when I was around 12 I had a really heart-wrenching crush on an anime character, it got so bad that I blushed and got excited every time I saw pictures of him.

>>163117
And now I do this instead of what I described before. I'm a wreck.

No. 163126

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I was crazy in love with this peter pan when I was 12 or something. all of my passwords back then was shit like ''love-peter'' and I watched the movie daily, dreaming that he would come to my window some night. kek

No. 163127

>still into animu
>secretly drawing tons of my OTP, filled several sketchbooks over the last years
>filled sketchbooks just with crappy self drawn doujinshi ot OTP
>masturbating to 2D almost exclusively
>read ffs before going to sleep
>thinking about teh hawt yaoi constantly

>obssessed with one particular manga for ten years

>daydreaming about self-insert mary sue OC everyday
>incorporate real life events and traits from my friend sinto the characters
>re-playing different scenarios over and over and over again
>still dreaming of husbando, but even my mary sue OC is not perfect enough for him
>tfw no dark haired mysterious deathly but kind hearted animu guy to hold me

Oh well. I feel bad and a bit ashamed for spending sooo much time obsessing over ficitonal characters, but I've done this since I was a little child so by now there's no wax I will ever stop. I'm okay with 3D dudes and in a relationship, but once in a while it's nice to black out of reality, or secretly think you're a cute uke boi getting pounded by another guy while having sex with the bf. I'm not even sorry anymore.

No. 163128

I have a fiance and I still can't stop my weeb fantasies about fictional dudes. :(

No. 163129

>>163126
is it weird that i never was attracted to young boys, when i was that age? it was always men and women around 30-40. now that i'm in my 20s i suddenly find younger people attractive as well. ugh

No. 163130

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This bitch was one of my first fictional lesbian crushes, along with Lara Croft. Shoot me.

No. 163131

>>163127
> or secretly think you're a cute uke boi getting pounded by another guy while having sex with the bf.

One of my darkest secrets is that I desire to be fucked hard while cosplaying my favourite kawaii uke boi. The thought turns me on ridiculously much.

No. 163132

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It's not even fair ;_;

No. 163133

>>163131
>One of my darkest secrets is that I desire to be fucked hard while cosplaying my favourite kawaii uke boi. The thought turns me on ridiculously much.

A-anon pls
But I know I'd never make a kawaii uke boi, because dem big tits and hourglass shape. I just look too feminine. Sadly, because if I had a more androgynous figure, fakeboi cosplay shit and getting fucked while dressed up as my OTP would be my guiltiest pleasure.

>mfw I'll nver be a kawaii boy

At least my husbando loves my boobs ;_;

No. 163134

It makes me happy that I'm not the only one who imagines stupid stories before falling asleep.

No. 163135

I have a boyfriend and I still do this shit. I imagine all my scenarios in the tub, it's my free time to be as pathetic as I wanna be.

No. 163136

>>163117
>LiVing my life vicariously through slash OTPs.

Yes. Lately I've been obsessed with this yaoi manga on hiatus called Doko e mo Yukenai Ki Ga Shiteta. I lay in bed and continue the story in my head.

No. 163137

I don't mean to offend anyone, but I need to ask out if curiosity. Have you ever been diagnosed with a mental disorder or disability? It'd be interesting to know if it's a common trait in a certain disorder or if it's just a cooping mechanism.

No. 163138

>>163137
I'm one of the anons in here, and honestly, if I were to armchair diagnose any of us I'd probably lean towards avoidant personality disorder

>Hypersensitivity to rejection/criticism

>Self-imposed social isolation
>Extreme shyness or anxiety in social situations, though the person feels a strong desire for close relationships
>Severe low self-esteem
>Self-critical about their problems relating to others
>Problems in occupational functioning
>Lonely self-perception, although others may find the relationship with them meaningful
&&& the kicker:
>Uses fantasy as a form of escapism to interrupt painful thoughts

Of course it can all just be us being autistic losers

No. 163139

>>163138
I've never been diagnosed with anything, but wow that sounds like me.

No. 163140

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>tfw you aren't the only fujoshi who pretends to be a effeminate bishounen getting banged by another bishounen in their fantasies

Phew.

I also have a live in boyfriend like some of the others here. Am in my mid twenties. There's just nothing as enjoyable as this guilty pleasure, though.

I've tried imagining myself as a girl OC and I just can't enjoy it. Simply not the same.

No. 163141

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>>163140
Link is my favorite twink

No. 163142

>>163140
>>163141
Good taste.

>I've tried imagining myself as a girl OC and I just can't enjoy it. Simply not the same.

For me, the boi scenario is much "safer". A girl character is seen as competition. I am constantly reminded of the flaws that the girl OC doesn't have. But since a boy is so far away from me I can safely insert myself into this fantasy without having to think about my own insecuritites.

… Does this make sense?

No. 163143

Goodness I wanna give half of you a hug in this thread, i understand the idea of crushhing on fictional characters because real life guys are shitty.

Funnily enough I am having the opposite problem, I am having trouble dealing with guys who seem to expect me to be some perfect woman and having shit fits when it turns out i am human and not some fantasy creature. I am sick of the threats of physical violence so have secluded myself for a while and stay away from meeting new guys.

No. 163144

>>163143
I'm a lesbian and fictional guys are just the only type of guys I'm attracted to because I find irl guys sexually repulsive. I dunno.

No. 163145


No. 163146

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I listen to those sexy drama CDs.. my hope for a normal relationship is dead and buried.

No. 163147

I guess this is the complete opposite but still kind of similar but way creepier.

I invent fantasy scenarios with a guy I went to a few classes with 8 years ago. Never really talked to him even and he's not even that great looking. I found pictures of him and think about him (and masturbate about him kek) constantly.

I don't even have any intention of finding him or anything in real life and I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years.

No. 163148

not fictional but I make up crappy fantasies about RapMonster / Namjoon from BTS. he's not even tht attractive but there's something abt him tht gets me going lmao he's P much my ideal type
2 bad I probs won't find anyone like him since I'm awkward as fuck irl but I don't even think I want a bf

No. 163149

It's called having a waifu/husbando

No. 163150

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>>163132
>not Kiss-Shot
B-biatch… You're doing it wrong.

No. 163151

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>>163142
Yeah that makes a lot of sense. I never really thought about it that way, but I wonder if that is or was part of my own reason for it.

I think for me originally it was a self esteem or lack of identity issue when I was younger. I didn't have a good sense of self or love for me so being a bishounen (like you said, something so disconnected from the real me) was an escape.

Unno if that's the case now, but I think it's neat to imagine the psych reasons behind these kind of things!

If anyone else has any personal insights it'd be cool to read.

(Out of Link on my phone, have some kusuriuri instead!)

No. 163152

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Honestly, I feel this way about someone who exists in real life but since our relationship started and really only ever exited online, he may as well be fictional.

I have a completely different understanding of things than they exist in reality. I fell for his fiction so I'm all wrapped up in real life emotions to the point where I've moved to his greater metropolitan area and he won't even see me. The last time he did, he clearly didn't want to be there and clearly didn't want to kiss me and did so out of pity and to get me to leave. Then when I tried again I basically kissed his unwilling face even with teeth like it was awful and I want to die.

How am I even this pathetic? I just want to die already.

No. 163153

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One of my first husbandos.

I always seem to go for obscure characters that don't get much love. Maybe because I have low self esteem and feel the same way about myself. Plus there's less competition because they aren't plastered all over the internet as much as popular characters are. So you deal less with gross fanart and terrible headcanons.

Of course the downside is that you find a lot less fan work in general. And I suck at drawing guys unless they are effeminate.

No. 163154

>>163152
You are not pathetic, I went through a similar senario, after a while it will fade and you will find someone who really deserves you :)

No. 163155

>>163117
>LiVing my life vicariously through slash OTPs.
>never had an IRL relationship because I've totally ruined the idea by seeing things through the lens of fictional idealized relationships.

fuck, this is so spot on for me too. It's like real life can never compare to the slashfics so why even bother?

No. 163156

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cutie tbh

No. 163157

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I'm such a shit but skelebros

No. 163158

>>163157
Wat.

You honestly have "feelings" for cartoon skeletons? I s2g people are so fucked.

No. 163159

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>>163152
Been there. Got a relationship that so far has only been online and it's starting to be hard on me.

I've always found some fictional guys atractive. I've never got over pic related.

>>163157
Papyrus is adorable. Who doesn't like a COOL DUDE?

>>163158
You should look up Skeletiano.

No. 163160

>>163158
if you're gonna shit on that person you might as well shit on the whole thread

No. 163161

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>>163104
Yeah I wish my life could be like final fantasy. No refugees screeching MONEY MONEY, no leftists telling me which pronoun XE uses, no bullshit with having to pay 50& off my income in taxes if I earn any decent amount.

Just monster hunting, the sea, the sun and fun. Work that actually shows you it's labours, people whom you actually care for, communities that you actually feel like you're building.

No. 163162

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>>163157
I love them too
>how do you fuck a skeleton

No. 163163

>>163161
That would be fun. Then you can hunt down weird monsters for money and magic rings.

No. 163164

>>163161
Once holodecks become available I'm never ever leaving one.

No. 163165

>>163161
You can easily do this if you move to a tropical third world country, you know.
You won't get the romanticized video game version where your life isn't at constant risk, you won't ache all over from work, mosquitoes won't bite you and animal corpses don't reek of shit though lol

No. 163166

>>163164
Same. I swear though, Data better make sure the safety is always on.

No. 163167

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>>163118

Awww anon, I can't say I get where anyone ITT is coming from, but for what it's worth, I think Rick's a qt too



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